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"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"Good. Why six podcast. Fuck sorta well clear stuff. That's not what we talking. It's about letting yourself open up and surrender enough to receive and fucking go to all the different places and because of the emotional processing now i can really be penetrated and i can set in trust and you witnessed me. Let me be seen in the truth of who i am. Which knows would make make them. You know i can trust you building trust with your partner. You don't walk away. You know this is also part of this like animal primal thing where you test the mate and the mate shows and then you're allowed to fucking enter the kingdom shit now because we're in a bit of time pressure. Oh god i want you to come. And i want you to just i want you to really pull into but quantum energy. Oh my god off to coming now. I really wanna come in your mouth. So bad really. Oh my god. I can't i can't i've always had faulting. Jesus oh okay so your your hands is not quite your mouth but as soon as soon as coming owes glad it wasn't in your mouth people that was interesting as soon as you said. I want you to come now. Then i like turned into my kind of coming zone. I was able to do that. But if he had said that. Didn't have precious of a cleaner coming to clean this office. That we're fucking in right now. Amazing cleaner who we love to protect your identity. What i'm trying to say is that we could have. If it wasn't for deadlines right now we could have just stayed in the unicorn fucking state for ages because that we would totally re-creations the wrong word. But we got back into that place that we discovered the other day of you just riding me to oblivion on me i feel like i've kind of been injected out of a cosmic seat like back into the reality and i feel very confused. Right now feels abrupt. I feel the time pressure. Also something i do want to say is that i've kind of entering god's looks like yoga six. I've let go of orgasms for this podcast. Because i need to release any pressure on completion on on any sort of goal this is over orgasm and and So if you're ever wondering like why. I'm not coming. It's not based on my capability or or that you know as a potential. It's i yeah that's true and it's it feels like kind of choice right now. The the processing seems to be taking also an the processing seems to be taking precedence right now and And that's fine you know and also for everyone to know that like coming isn't the be all and end all like satisfaction comes in all forms and god. We need to release any pressure on ourselves. for anything i am like i. We will do aged. That's focused on your pleasure and you coming. But the thing is that was my pleasure. I have experienced profound pleasure up magnitude of pleasure that you know outside of orgasm. That's it's not equal to or lesser than it just is i am in full pleasure state across the entire expense of my body. And this is when we learn that the journey to orgasm is one of pleasure instead of orgasm. Being the pinnacle of pleasure. I am in orgasmic energy. Right now. i'm holding in my body. I feel fucking elated sex guinea pigs signing out. We really got to go okay. We love you so much love alright. Alright that's another episode of lacy and flynn wrapped. Thank you for giving us your time. We love you now if you state if you listened if you're here this spoke to you in some way it gave you something challenged you. It inspired you and so we would really appreciate some love. We are literally giving the love as much as we can on the podcast. Snaking love and you get to listen and what we want is just a tiny bit of love back a couple of minutes. Yes so here. Are the three things that we would really like from you. We want you to follow or subscribe wherever you listen. This means that you'll get our episodes straight to your pocket and it also means that our show will be shown to more people so we can help more people and inspire more people. It's win win. Take his second to give us a review. Hopefully it's five stars and then think back to a point in the episode that really spoke to you and brought about that cher on that and we will be sharing favourite reviews on the show. So you can keep your ears open to hear. Maybe your name spoken live on the show and then the last thing we want from you is to share screenshot. While you're listening. Pop it onto social in your stories. Whatsapp it to a pal. Your word of mouth is so important to us. It's how we've gotten our work out there in the first place. It's how we're here doing this. So maintaining that momentum in connection is paramount to creating a thriving community and elevating the sex of the world and you get to be the person that discovered us and shared us with your friends echo. 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"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"Just wanting to dance with this stick and swing my hips around and twirl and be embody because that's the natural expression coming through me. Yeah that's just euro thematic Like why of being at that time and exploring and that needs to be celebrated not and just a little side note here. Lacey's mom did have a business running paul dancing. It did canada many many later. Actually when i was in favour. Tom hasn't she. She was the first person in atlantic canada to bring pole dancing as a leisure fitness thing or like body host parties like bachelorette parties. It was happening in the states or other parts of the world and she was like. I'm gonna be the one that i remember her being in the paper. I mean the stuff that my mom does she so extraordinary. My mom is the reason that i know tara. Linney innovator she taught me about you. Know working with energy from a young age i remember. My mom was a lynn. You shouldn't be listening to this. Listen to this is not for our parents said that beginning. But i remember like mickey she was doing you know she. When my parents split up she became an institution that was doing makeup and she would have men around who wanted to dress as women You know and she would have them around and do their makeup nba for them so they could not not dates so they could just go out and go to t together. At the time it was called cross dressing. You know wasn't yeah well. It was like friends going on a t. date or whatever. Yeah not like a romantic date but she would be the safe haven for them to come and express this part of himself so this amazing how did they cheat market that in. How did they find. I think she just met them in a new them. My mom kind of kept it kept interesting. Company is true acted on my mom's always like attracted said shum interesting experiences into our lives and brought strangers home at christmas dinner if she found people at the like at the mall who didn't have family or were lonely. Should bring them home for christmas.
Sales Is Just Helping People Get What They Want
"Today. Unshareable kate lacy is a business strategist mindset mentor and sales yogi. I'm talking to her from all the way across the pond. She's in australia. Welcome to sharable today kate. Hey jeff today are nice money from around the well where are you. Listeners may all around the world. I'm guessing year we have people. Listen to sharable from literally all over. I've looked at our analytics and like we have people that are tuning in from like Countries in northern africa from some people in all over asia got some listeners in singapore so like i mean the majority of the listeners are in the us probably second only to canada. And then i think actually our third largest audience isn't australia if i'm not mistaken so that works. Yes everybody out. Been listening all right. So let's talk a little bit about you know some of your backgrounds. Many things you've done today. We're going to talk mostly about sales. A lot of the ins and outs of. I knew you're really big on giving people value driven tips ways to be better at sales. A lot of your career was launched in the wake of helping people better understand sales. So i want to talk about a couple parts of your early career because i think it sets nice context for getting into getting into the work that you're currently doing so part of your background and correct me if i'm wrong but really really early in your career. Actually you were a top. Recruitment consultant australia correct. So like you were working in the world of recruiting. So that's actually a really interesting way to start off getting into sales just because you're selling the idea of working for a particular company you in many cases kind of cold call people and have these develop warmth initially. Can you talk a little bit about how you dropped into that. And maybe some of the early things you learn from that and how it it it may brought you to this place that you are now saw. I saw i. I keep failing into it when a just to take it back at a step i really want to wait for these hair. Care company like these really kinda cool funding you. What i called up based site manager and basically got myself an interview and sat in front of him and he said. Get all your soy. Your real dog I love you with got reps in every single part of the company right now majority have room floor. But would you mind if i pass on your data files to one of my best buddies. Who are no nate. someone so i said yes. I ended up in
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"When you you pose that to me. I was just like aw i mean that is too far even for me like just kind of nar icon. That's way too much. I think we have to wrap this episode. It's going too long. I think so. Can you okay. Well we're we're going to take some notes here and we'll come back with future episodes in the whole birthing stuff because we got lots to say. I think we need to do an episode specifically around you in the journey of the masculine. I we need to do both story which is not lie. Myth flynn being born into the world. The that can be part of it. But i think the reason this also has a place in this. Podcast is because it also. It's all directly related on if you're having sex maybe you've had a kid or you're going to have kids this is very important and we'll also do another episode at some point that's like a full celebration of just the births and telling the story so that people can get the whole play-by-play but for right now i just want to say one thing that you fucking awesome way need to celebrate you more for everything you've done for our children and literally inspiring thousands around the world we'll go with millions on that birth stories were shared on the okay millions inspiring going to go ahead an up that figure there good guy in two thousand one breakthrough ceiling not created so inspiring and triggering millions but yeah hopefully shifting the kind of balancing away all right we love you all. Thanks for listening doing so much much. Love to both mamas and supporting partners and fathers. Okay we love you. Good bye all right all right. That's another episode of lacy and flannel wrapped. Thank you for giving us your airtime. We love you now if you state if you listened if you're here this spoke to you in some way it gave you something at challenged you at inspired you and so we would really appreciate some love. We're literally giving love as much as we can on the podcasts. Making love and you get to listen and what we want is just a tiny bit of love back a couple of minutes. Yes so here. Are the three things that we would really like from you. We want you to follow or subscribe wherever you listen. This means that you'll get our episodes straight to your pocket and it also means that our show will.
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"Get a breakdown in what we're giving away. It's real stuff. Yeah stuff you're gonna like. Yeah don't just glaze pass this part like go. Give us a review. do it right now. Pause this gives us a review an an comeback. we're watching. we're waiting a good idea. we'll be dawar. Worry we got you waiting to Yeah right that five starting the ding ding ding. All we felt the five stars is coming in las vegas so much. Now you're in the giveaway all my god. You could. Congratulations oldster neighbors in all my god. Tanya you did it you should turn you did a twice katie. It's you see johnny. Thanks bye we love you all. But what's so interesting. Is that this this week. I have my first guy from first coaching client. Where a woman who. I never met either of them. But she is a dula and she's pregnant now. Think about two and a half months pregnant probably and she said to a partner I'm having a i'm having a birthday impaled birth my way but you're not allowed to be there because you haven't done the work and you're bringing all this like scarcity stuff and so i'm telling you you unilat- to be there unless you go and so it yourself out and then she emailed may and say. Can you coach my partner or husband. I'm not sure to you know. Fire him up and give them a different viewpoint. Because obviously if your partner telling you to do something all the time you really gonna do it. So she's she's employed. Mace to go and coach this guy. It's your first birthing client. You've done loads of sex and relationship with this. Is your first proper birthing..
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"So many times you when you really look at the actions unfolding you know what birth requires is. What lovemaking requires it's this intimacy and quiet and privacy. You know imagine someone said like get an erection then have sex with your partner while they're a bunch of people wearing like you know sterile outfits in a lot of light in a cold room on a papery bad like like penetrate make. love orgasm. Orgasm orgasm wouldn't be able to do it you. It just wouldn't make sense. Your body would freeze your your body. Wouldn't be able to perform. You'd feel uncomfortable. You'd feel ashamed. You'd feel scared. And that's the exact same thing that happens in birth like you can't be like okay you know you've got a couple of hours left before you know we need to do this. We need to induce you. Because this hasn't happened. Are you know you're not. You're contractions now going on on quick enough in your room birthdays to happen in this period of time. And it's like of course your body your body's fault your by freaking out. It doesn't feel safe or protected are or like in that juicy feminine space to like Sink in and let it happen. That's the that's the freedom available. That's the freedom available that we've experienced through our two births you know that we want to. We want to share with you. And you know in the darkness of the room with the light filtering in through the curtains and the quiet and you doing such a good job because of course you had to balance three year old and a laboring woman and she was phenomenal but there were also there are also moments like when she walked past the standalone heater. Because we we heated the rim of like quite a lot when she almost knocked the heater onto me and like just a few moments. Where you're like nothing everything's fine and you're like holding a heater a plate of food holding her and like being like it's okay robbing back like viewer magician and i think that's really important for all you know..
Ohtani's HR Helps Angels End Skid With 4-2 Win Over Astros
"Shohei Ohtani broke a two two tie by leading off the eighth inning with a four hundred and forty foot home run to straightaway center field as the Los Angeles angels beat the Houston Astros forty two Tunney's Homer answered really gory tales game tying two run shot in the seventh and help the angels avoid a four game series sweep Dylan Bundy didn't factor in the decision for the angels but he held the Astros to two runs over six innings the bullpen trio of Christopher Rodriguez Mike Myers in rice salad Lacey is combined to toss three scoreless frames Adam Spillane Houston
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"Mahat heartache heart my heart in a new in a new way so you feel you know. We all say listen. I took all the tom about this. Not enough words for things we say can make all the time fucking connected. I feel more connected with you may never knows what that means. But we gotta come up in different nuance towards for the shanghai. Just south so important for the intricacies of this. So i just i feel like a missed. You feel like. I hadn't seen you for ages. We've been living in the same house but she's been working. Parenting and the lack of sexual connection is just left quite a chasm in life and it we talk about this and calls that you have to build a bridge back to your partner to to keep that connection intact. And i feel like that's exactly what has happened now. I feel like just seeing you laying there so open and beautiful my feel edges so much more. Love view of philip probably fell in love with you and just a little notch. More just than it was. Definitely different with the microphones but it was very special and a laugh. I felt the same this deepening of love. And i think it's because where you know in this ten years of relationship right now. It's it's upon us and i'm i'm feeling this and feeling this connection to you when i first met unum seeing that person in you away but also who become an who becoming as we embark on this next chapter of our lives and i sign us a mirror lake your resistance to let your heart be opened than the reminder when i was reminding you you know we kind of had our own private moments and set to mike stem whispering there and i had whispering so you all y'all and i was feeling your heart and just reminding you how much i love you and and to feel love to love yourself to let me love you. I just feel so much how that changed the momentum of your energy through your pelvis into your heart new fox me from your heart and you came into lavin and i loved you and you loved yourself and your love came back to me and i felt profound and then we come out the other side now and on a body level my shoulder. There's no tension in my shoulder or jaw. My heart is so warm and like heavy in my body instead of high and flattery. it's grounded like feel really anchored in my physical body. The mancha's feels really warmer now too. I think there's just so much love. We're smiling at each other so they we go. That feels like the roundup. Let's be honest. I kinda wanna see if we can get an a bit of the defiant ones before we hit the. Hey we've already pushed it fast and thirty this wall past my current bedtime so might as well party this night through boy oil. That's hilarious for all of you at home lessening. Obviously we've taken massive journey. And i'm sure you've experienced some hot moments and some surprises and maybe some things that connected to you and where you're at and what matters most is where you're at on your journey and that you're perfectly placed where you are and whatever nuggets speak to you and feel the most impactful those are the ones you start to unpack right now so looking at your life and your relationship to sacks and how you feel when you hear these things and let the things that practical you that trigger you that make you onshore. Let those the entry point as well to your deepest healing because it's in discomfort that we learn so much about ourselves ayman yeah. We hope that in a showing up in this way we helped to liberate your sex. And elevate your sykes and bring you into a deeper communion who you are which is a deeply sexual alive extraordinary person who has the capacity for infinite pleasure and turn on to live a life that you totally fucking love And that's what it's ultimately about louisville off of pleasure and wonder and if this has helped you and you wanted to hear more please leave us a review because this is a new podcast and reviews a to get. This is quite a number of podcasts out. There and people have only said man of ear. Tom every day but bunch of reviews really gets us off to a good start. So we've shed the love with you. Say nancy tend to share the love with us. I'm sure we'll to proper out trout. Maybe this will be aro- maybe this can be true. Cicero troth and all so subscribe. I don't know how you do that. But i'm sure there's something you hit where you subscribe and then you get notifications when we dropped new podcasts. And that will give us favorability the algorithms. I do know how it works scrub wherever you listen. Leave us a review. Police leave us a review. It can take you a couple of minutes right something heartfelt and true about your experience and then share it. Email it to someone whatsapp. It shared on social media. Let's get this party started. Bush love to you will die bye bye bye..
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"Today are tenure a ten year anniversary because we began our love in yoga ten years ago in my small yoga studio on wrangel. Strata in christ's virk. I'm going in berlin. I'm going to take you now to do a private yoga class where we're going to focus on love and be taught by someone else so that's what we're going to do right now so beautiful. We'll have the whole space to ourself so cool. Yeah we'll done thank you so much. Let's go do what i love. You love you honey. Alright all right. That's another episode of lacy and flynn wrapped. Thank you for giving us your time. We love you now if you stayed if you listened if you're here this spoke to you in some way gave you something challenged you. It inspired you and so we would really appreciate some love. We're literally giving the love as we can on the podcast snaking love and you get to listen and what we want is just a tiny bit of love back a couple of minutes. Yes so here. Are the three things that we would really like from you. We want you to follow or subscribe wherever you listen. This means that you'll get our episodes straight to your pocket and it also means that our show will be shown to more people so we can help more people and inspire more people. It's win win. Take a second to give us a review. Hopefully it's five stars. And then think back to appoint in the age that really spoke to you and and right about that share on and we will be sharing favourite reviews on the show. So you can keep your ears open to hear. Maybe your name spoken live on the show and then the last thing we want from you is to share screenshot. While you're listening pop onto social in your stories. Whatsapp it to a pow. Your word of mouth is so important to us. It's how we've gotten our work out there in the first place. It's how we're here doing this. So maintaining that momentum in connection is paramount to creating a thriving community and to elevating the sex of the world and you get to obey the person that discovered us. Share us with your friends. I call i love being the person that spreads the cool stuff. Because the other gonna look at your lot holiday. Always the one that is funding. The cool stuff is true. All right we love you so much. Thank you for joining us for lacy and flynn and we will see you next week to sumo. We love you love. You was while love forever. One terms and conditions apply..
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"Display lacy slash. We decided that maybe super long mission his though she needed right now and now is already in a very hot and pleasurable space so instead of easing things back and changing breathing and changing direction. We decided to just good through the come right there holding mike just catching my breath a little bit. Why don't we clean ourselves up and get cozy. Then we can chat about it though. Sounds nice. I feel like i want to have a on my special gaps cup of tease her turmeric and ginger and a tiny bit of honey with coconut oil on top. I wanna rob brownie and chai tea rod stewart. What about those brownies. That i made fee yet in the freezer. And the freeze yeah. I'll just eat my other. One and then fund made me a full tray rob brownies for mother's day even though he can't eat them because he's on gaps min sacrifice. Okay we'll be back. Oh my goodness it's giveaway time so we just launched this new podcast and we're giving away some free love. Lie is if the love that would be given my isn't enough already. We want to give you some stuff all right so basically what we're trying to do is we're trying to get a lot of five star reviews. People say you're not supposed to ask people for five star. Reviews subscribes. But i want to ask people for what i want. I want five star review. Were direct people. I want you to follow and subscribe and want you to share this. So if you offer us a review we are going to enter you in a giveaway to win some sweet shed and you can read all about that at lacy in flynn dot com slash. Podcast get a breakdown of what we're giving away. It's real stuff. Yeah stuff you're gonna like. Yeah don't just glaze pass this part like go. Give us a review. do it right now. Pause this gives us a review an comeback. We're watching we're waiting. We'll be dawar. We got you for waiting to her. Yeah right the five star. Ding ding ding. Oh we felt. The five stars is coming in las vegas so much. Now you're in the giveaway. Oh my god you could congratulations. Her name is in all my god. You did it you should turn you did a twice katie. It's you see johnny. Thanks bye we love you all but all right back. I just ate peanut butter toast with coconut oil and cinnamon. And i feel quite good and we were in the kitchen and i think we both had a momentary deer in headlights where we almost couldn't believe what we just did. I felt that way high fat that way in one way it was so simple. We did what we normally do. We held these black things. We'd long cables of the end but in another way it did change the experience but not kind of drastically in actually so true to us for another reason apart from the sharing the sex and breaking down and trying to help people and all that in that is just totally lost it is then sex. Brian hewlett cleveland countdown. She'll be six brain now gonna go to the other point about this. That makes it so authentic to us is that it's so simple and so powerful we really strive for simplicity in living room in a business with a messaging everything. We prefer simple and potent. It's so much easier to actually have sex and to just let people see what we're talking about all these years to actually like that's the most minimal listed approach is to be like here it is it feels like a threshold like we've just done something irrevokable. I mean once this is out in the world. There's something very final about that. And then simultaneously. It feels so liberating because to do this. It takes away any vestige or last remnant of shame or uncertainty or doubt around this thing that we're sharing and creating i mean it just is what it is. This is the act that brings us onto being it. Sex it's pleasure its connection. It is crazy that we all have such a deep wound around sex this act that is the essence of our lives that we you know that this will be shocking to many people and yet we are two people to puzder. We have kids. We've made kids. We've come from parents who had sex to make us like everyone's spending their whole lives in pursuit of saxon connection and love and here we are showing it as to you know consenting adults and it feels revolutionary and simultaneously totally normal and nothing nonchalant easy and also it feels. It feels like stepping run edge. Lacy sit in the kitchen that she felt like she discharged in the ocean but didn't know how to swim. It's cut really for us right now. We're gonna simplicity but also a massive nest to it Like what did we just do is have. We gone too far even for ourselves and we have pretty fine with sharing a lot of stuff but we just looking at each other. But i feel like this is. This is just hit. We had this idea and it still feels true. And i feel like the more that we do it. The less the microphones and the and the teachings jewelry sex gonna make an impact on the experience. So less is trolling it. Yeah and i mean you know. The show isn't entirely this. This will happen periodically. the show is about tons of other things associated and around sachs's not just showing inside of our our sex but this is an entry point and also coming back. Tell me how you feel now. What's your experience of your body now. And this is the most important part of slow up with. I feel i definitely feel like probably a lot. Younger key ally hunger or feel so much more clear i feel less stressed and less scattered. I feel very calm. Which is nice because of been dealing with a lot of internal rage lately trying to understand that because it was very out of character rage feelings. Come up for you during sacks at all. I feel like probably. It was even more heightened because we hadn't had sex for three weeks. Whatever it just felt like what you were saying there during our session that you heart was closed. Mahat was so closed and so so buried dandy but just saying you there and seeing your beauty again and your openness. I feel like that. Just helped basically illuminate my heart again..
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"And you can read all about that at laseyette. Flynn dot com slash. Podcast.
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"Thought was a good thing acting we know. I think i felt like it was very authentic and true and now feels a little bit performative. Perhaps does it. What has performative to you just so we're talking so much of hell wouldn't usually talk so much. How can it be informative. But like still just explore this idea of of talking. You know like with like you can talk without performing you know loose. And she just told her experience doubtedly. We're not put on a show and just didn't know where we're going to record the whole thing like this but they're lacey's just tugging on my cock to get me from semi to vary situation and go side of her pussy so we're fucking now. There's something much more vulnerable about. This feels really strange. Before i was having an experience and i was just narrating now. We're looking at each other and we're both holding legs and it does feel if any just become a little different for me now as well feels great looks great. Why don't we put them down and just see what comes through. Let's down that my extent. I just keep thinking about our podcast manager. Told you we're gonna go there. We're going. They're going there right now. I just want a heart. Space you are holding the mic for me. Sneakily took his mike something that comes up a lot from us For us even the practice breath while he my life office too casual remind to breath. It's always very useful for your partner because it really situation charles. He really need to come back into your deep breathing. Yeah we often feel like the mood the mood. I mean we have so much to say about this that it can be irrevocably locked but in this moment right now you know what changed and it became strange than we came back to the body back to the breath at back to each other. Now here we are. I just want you to come into your heart while you're doing this now. So she's laixi really pushing them the hot space which really helps may to feel the physicality of a hint pushing against my heart to made me realize that i need to just be aware of that space right now. It's very easy when year. Fucking your wife who you really really like to feel many different things at once so easy just to be in the palace energy but ascending the energy circulating through the heart bringing it until love. I'm having a lot of really big things happening right now. So my jaw just got stuck. I could actually opened my mouth surly like part of this expression. Feeling that i had this fear of my ut is. I'm really like you know. We're obviously very deep into working. The sexes healing practice. So i'm experiencing the fear of the. Uti the twenty year significance of this having returned and then my jaws simultaneously locking them was really scary and staying in the safety right now as as beg. I am alright right. I'll ride led a moment to some stuff that's different to have insisted to gore's all right if you're loving what you are hearing and you're like yes this could be for me. We want to introduce you to our program sacks elevated what you're listening to in this episode is basically the culmination of all of the work we've done and then we've taught thousands of people around the world to podcasts. The results yeah. It's the work in action leaving results and what we've learned is how to communicate how to express our needs how to rewrite our own stories around sex and ultimately how to understand how fundamentally important it is to have a sexual relationship with yourself and then share that with your partners that you can both have a fucking epic life. Hanna understand what you actually like. Annetta communicate that to someone else so they could do it too. If you can express what you want in the bedroom you can express what you want across all other facets of life. This is about sex but you know what it's about every part of your life it's about your career your family who you wanna be in the world and so we take this entry point of sex in your relationship and we make it kind of the nucleus we help you heal at expanded and then your life goes boom big six epic pleasure having the power the confidence to ask for what you want. Yes so if this is making a go yeah yeah. Yeah and we'd bet is then you can go and register for our program sex elevated right now you can get in there with thousands of other people and you can begin your journey with your partner head of a to lyceum. Flynn dot com slash. Podcast you get. The show nights does links to our calls sex elevated. check it out. We want to see you in their media. Changing your life right now right now. We'll see you in there. Go and do it now. We'll see you say we love you goodbye so lacy just went for a moment to have we very concerned about this spiritual. Uti coming back for a second round. Because she didn't want to take any medicine while she took hold tentative stuff. But i didn't want to take any medically prescribed things so two three weeks. She's holding up the triple finger. So we don't know what's going to happen. Hopefully it doesn't come back around because that would be a major drag. I don't think you will come back around. There's just an energy in my body that's being like asked be really like just really conscious of ten year relationship freeze right now. I'm seeing even knew. And it's working for the first time i'm gonna off. Aw shit sui.
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"Experiment. Yeah now finding a desire to remind myself that i'm safe. I'm safe that my pussy be licked. We saw let myself fully open up our baby. Just walk up i go. This is the point where lacey runs upstairs. Little boy rookie. is almost eleven months now oh lacey's walking away nude but with their raids on. That's quite a look. Keep him some birth milk for a minute or two. And then she'll be back. It's quite interesting to navigate life when the baby and you are in pleasure and or less no talking about screw the mood. Screw whatever just have your sex and be let it be. What what it's going to be and if you get disturbed partway through a baby. That's waking up. It is what it is feed into anything else or anything to emotional about it. Let it be and then then will discontinue an emission. Something that i wanted to share at this point is we want show how recording ourselves like this is going to affect us. But you've heard lacy say already that it's kind of almost turns around more and helps her probably to come into like authentic space of pleasure because she can tell you the connections between sexual who center and your voice and for the feminine When you look at the vocal colds and the vulva going on inside. They actually look very much like each other. So the whole story that lacey can share with you much more debt later. Date also familiar. Doesn't feel of course the microphones here. We know this is being recorded and mobile shed but it doesn't feel like there's an extra peasant a room on doesn't really feel very awkward and actually feels for lycene and i very authentic and we know that by sharing. This is going to help a lot of people so this is something. That's very close to our heart had made assuming today and they sit us very brave begin a shared intimate details of your sex life on the air like this but we just know so many people that are going to be helped by this and most of them will never reach out to us thou share with their friends. No-go my gosh look at what these to doing and we just really hope that we already know about. We continually hope that just by being really truthful to ourselves and really authentic with what. We're doing everything that was sharing here. We'll help people and this is our way of contributing back to the world back to old relationships that have been through the Difficult time in this past year and edges hopefully give you some more inspiration. Some more tools along the way to try and experiment and line and i always say that we're we're all the work in progress has certainly true for him myself but it's really good to just acknowledge that and not just enjoy the journey as thoughts for me. I've been those busy off the mark for a minute lacey's back. She's got a robe on she's very cold. is springtime. We're not sure if we should let the fire. Next time we will so you can hear the crackle in the background now. We show continue great time. Oh the something super cool and educational about nece like he syrups often takes way. It's not porn and it's not sex education like a whole new genre. This is what. I want to pack. Something that's totally not. W4 as flynn sat back. I'm in my robot. Chilly here back on after we pass through the honeymoon phase in relationships head into a potential for sex to become something beyond the courtship intellect whole other realm of Hailing an expansion and helping process. That davis things inside of you. Trauma pain uncertainty out to connect hits into things like no therapy. No other practice can do. Because it's trips you bear. Has you and your most vulnerable connecting you into the energy that brought you here sexual energy energy that we're all made of. I really knew right now. Off of a sphere. So what you're doing right now. She says the sieve harry. Flynn oh fuck. I still surprise me. Oh my god. Oh fuck off. I i if i can squirted. They're a bit shit. Got i just my fucking pussy. Healing the whole fucking world on my mouth was like a portal and i just felt fucking sachs this energy of lobby just fucking healing all. Oh my heart just cracked up and fucking oh so is through love that my pussy all through my pussy that my heart fucking ruptured and just fully expanded on god. Holy shit thank you gift. Oh my god you look ready to give more. Fo- i want to get ruined lacey's assuring towards as if i should say something meaningful at this point just say anything meaningful. It's just. I've been talking the whole time and i just i don't know we don't even know. What do i shed some wisdom on your way taking a rookie walk Maybe i in a bit of a different vibe. I feel like just having sex right now. Find fact let's do it. She says nothing's all the my hope. Microphone it just hold the mic and see what happens the more. I just wanna see you. Just breathe blood. You had a nice orgasm hartzell. And how do you feel younger in your face. Yeah so you.
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"Have you making between my legs. Just be in the experience of it happening and not in any performance but just being like the peer pleasure. I'm going to send my down. Sometimes in these moments. I think well. I'll definitely never be president even though i don't belong to a country where i could be a president but that's something that flashes through my mind i've got some of the rage. Rising in me has almost like this pent-up experiences ping might too busy and turning to my body and then the subtle kind of tender repetitive experience of you licking me as as like bringing out all of this fucking super rage but also rage the world rage for so many like off could just fucking throw this mic right now and then like the pain of recognizing how fucking closed. My heart is and that. I'm gonna have to let it fall open and the fucking immensity of to armouring my heart right now and then all of that amidst the subtle repetitive like fully loving sensation of you just like kissing and licking pussy at just fucking village like so much right now has experienced definitely's and new to me and i think this happens. Were like things become like overwhelming. Sometimes and then we either numb out or we don't know what to do with the experience we don't know how to use these moments like to actually process and actually hold space for all of the contradictory fucking intense fucking life things so what. I'm doing right now. As i'm just letting my inner gays instead disconnecting from sensation which is what we're kind of habitually doing in our daily lives to silence our bodies so we can keep going keep going keep talking doing instead. Of silencing my body. I'm going to amplify my body's receptors. I'm going to choose to experience pleasure and let my heart be fucking loved right now. It's gonna be like by big unraveling point Yeah i just wanna fucking push against adam. Clenching my jaw stretching my face out like it's not on. It's not in packaged or pretty. It's actually just true. It's the true desire of the body to release. This is the the recognition of what's happening on the the bodies level. And i think often we choose especially for the feminine to you know disconnect or become performative in this moment or two compartmentalize any of the riding sensations or not even know what they are not even know how to how to greet them and so leading the brise leading the rise and then all of that in the face of pleasure and love so love of pleasure is what's allowing me to face the disconnect and to face the pain and this is you know often. I find for me as the pain of living a life. That's not fully in alignment. You know still existing within the patriarchal structures in terms of like doing too much over failing my life trying to parent and work and the not being that joyful love space as a grounded. Way of being really flynn's like offering this right now. This is like a josh. Drove like deep healing. That he's giving me. It's like fucking therapy and then i choose whether i'm willing to receive at an how much i'm willing to receive. Am i willing to accept his. Fucking unconditional love right now. Am i willing to let myself be seen you know in here. It's like the the the staying in the brathwaite. The that the staying in the connection to the experiential in the actual experience of the connection the touch the licking the kissing the hands on my legs and had so easy in these moments instead to come into the mind to think about it and right now. I'm just actively choosing to feel until at myself open to a broader expansive feeling. We often only allow ourselves a certain degree of pleasure simultaneously myself to soften my belly to soften myself to g benz let can receive that. I can fully receive. Obviously this requires a deep deep level of trust. What's your experience right. Now you're talking. A law assuring some some really great insights. I'm just wondering this is the first hour we've tried this so we didn't know how this is going to affect their experience. But i was just wondering how how it's affecting your experience of pleasure right now and yeah. It's actually not expecting it. I feel like i'm rising in really coming into sensation. I want to know how it's affecting you like. How do you feel right now. What's your experience. It besides us documenting. What's your experience right now. Few really great somehow licking your pussies like heroin for may dislike it just makes me zone out and go super common in his meditative space space of this com giving and makes me happy. Yeah you have grounded right now. You're really relaxed. I'm having a really nice time okay. Continue has actually something so free about having the space to talk this out right now as i experienced them am using my voice to articulate my experience and i feel quite liberated an funnily enough. It's actually enhancing my pleasure. Maybe not enhancing. But it's not inhibiting at all. It's it's facilitating It's also so fascinating that ought flip into the performative at all. It feels so safe and easy. I can really feel it. All anger just laughed. My body. Now gonna fully all weaved in state my pussy with his pleasure with your mouth with my heart. Not everything's opening up and releasing everything to be mixed up on on just like software and longer.
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"According i felt compelled to interesting. Because i'm not sure like we could just record everything. It just seemed strange to stop when i could still be recording talking about things i think. Probably in the future. We will record everything. Just know these microphones. We're going to need like wireless Not lapel mics. because we weren't have a lapel. Pieces near the headline wireless headsets. We can be like yeah. I'm naked. I mean i gotta say girl you look fine still got it definitely good. I like that. You're just hanging out in your sweat suit on the ground right now and a whole so. Take your clothes off. The medium toll nike sweatpants Taylor pretty fun. I love that lockdown leisure look he opted though at least there's no stains or holes on these ones and i appreciate that. I think we just get naked like this. don't we. yeah usually which is just one hand. Usually he's both hands visit fire called. I was gonna say we've just been through winter Normally i would make nice out pink sofa which may be. We have to share a photo of that people can understand how fun it is It's right next to the open. Fires pretty good lovemaking situation and we've got our sex blanket on top six blanket. Which only lacy and i know is the sex blanket nature now in yemen funds. Make a dan or let's put on the rug and like throw blocks do something with it and like no baby no fucks enough that longer life. Okay take things off take up. I need to be going then now. I'll wait and thanks to all of my years of yoga training. Diab manala your microphone. While you take your sweater off the would help. oh it's davos advert as mond. Hey it's lacy. I have an offer for all of you women out there. It is my free masterclass a ninety minute deep dive into your sexuality your turn on your creativity and your purpose. You do not want to miss this. I have taught this class to thousands of women around the world who have cheered as they've learned sacred triangle theory for pleasure and power womb energetics for understanding their story lines their creative potential power language for articulating oneself. And actually speaking up. And saying what you mean so much value inside of this class. I'll also be giving you the opportunity to work with me. Further in of my signature program school of whole. This is where i have helped. Hundreds of women receive monumental. Transformation from surprise desired pregnancies healed marriages new career paths. You name it. We have gone there what you need to do right now. Is to hop. On over to lacy haynes dot com slash masterclass sign up for the free class and make sure you show up doors are only open twice a year and they're open april nineteenth through twenty six each joined the free master class. You'll learn so much and then you get to decide whether you want to continue this journey with me. So go to lacy haynes dot com slash masterclass right. Now save your seat. I cannot wait to see you there so we've been seeing each other. Yeah you are back. And we're both naked or both standing in the living room. Naked holding microphones. This is pretty cool. How it works. So we've been getting naked for ten years. I think part of being delegated to sex as a practice in this work is that. Because i guess you're cultivating like your independence turn on in sexual energy. It's like much easier to stay sexually interested in your partner and find them attractive. What's going on you doing. Some strange stretches right now dig around incapable pews a very long time but you have. Yeah i have i did. I did like last week. I'm not gonna trim on growing mon- out you. Are you going for that. That bush look keep you warm is gonna get a surprise when i go back from my next lomilomi gonna stop short.
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"Some some upset loss. Ut i e app but also through mass of spiritual healing we've been seeing. We've done the bio resonance magnet therapy. We've been doing lomilomi massage. Like full bodies deep massage of every party view. We've been seeing no army path. Oh my gosh so at the same time sober algae guy a few times like kind of kinesiology but his own. Take on it and work. I think what's really happened is the ut. I was kind of a physical thing that brought distance between us. But also i think we've both needed our own space of the last few weeks because we've both been processing so much often when you're up leveling or coming into a place in your life deep transformation you have to go quite dark until the shadows to then pull out into the light. You can only go as light as you can go dark and so we've been going to some dark places and and of course you can actually deeply cleansing on a physiological level. Like you've been shitting out the stuff that's been caked into your body wash. It was black. Yeah was any what now. Your shit smells lazing. All of a sudden shit smells like musha dunston. He doesn't it smell. Someone may be farted in the room. Like fifteen minutes before it's like. Oh this happened in here and it's like No i don't think so. It's extraordinary your body's becoming this purified temple on before. There was no question that will happen living at home and died in here is there did old man behind the toilet. Someone who died of covid last week right away. I'm just like i can't believe you just said he died of covid. I was like i was fine. Picturing an old man died behind the toilet but then the c word about because he may be smelled as shit. Smell my shit and died. He's not going to die. Name all probably resurrecting. He's done but anyway. Needless to say we've been on a huge cleansing fucking spiritual journey before kinlaw reset simultaneous author. We live together. Were still in this strange. uk lockdown. We are always together. Were attached to the asshole. So it's like it's fine that you know. We've had a patch for last three weeks but i know we're both itching because this is our place of like. This is our place of connection. What i'm just thinking. Oh we're joined at the us. Oh you lucky. Joined mine mine is fucking minds around crystal and i just washed mine in the in the snow sink. Crystal clean does not a thing that people say that crystal clear mommy's crystal clear but other than links hall's not crystal clear. Did he get bleach tonight now. I didn't need to the gaps. Thought least for me. It's broth bleached. The chickens jesus to go from being people who've been predominantly plant based for many many years to gaps dishes twenty four seven. Meet and slowly. But it's extraordinary that that level of meat can actually cleric gleich. Clean you out so much. We learned so much anyway. Let's return to the facts of of it doesn't matter it's giving context So i need to know that shit cause has been intense. Yeah but i think the main point to return to as that our sexual relationship and what we've shared of ourselves and what we share with people who learn from us is that we use it as a place to come to regardless so it's like rock up. We use it. Like people use meditation or yoga will use it to connect to come inward to heal to explore to transcend an elite to have massive. We have massive breakthroughs for a business for a life direction of alive for a note. Home schooling ideas for children We have huge fucking breakthroughs win with fucking which is why we hold it so daily to us because it's it's wear its way the best most impactful stuff will happen. And if you if you use it like we do as a vehicle to abundantly. Bring in breakthroughs as well as getting hips. A pleasure and become way more connected with your partner. It's just it's a loft changer. And yeah and this is what we want to share with you. This is what we've been doing for years and what we've discovered we discovered this because our you know sex life of vapid with been together for ten years and you know you hit a point where things can dry up and that is the narrative were sold. This is the cultural narrative that you get married. You have kids and everything you lose everything and we were like it happened and then we were like but were not having it. So how can we heal. How can we cobble together. Our lives and figure this out. And we've done it over the course of many years and we've distilled many lessons from this. We weren't doing well even before we had fox and that's true. Yeah yeah for sure it was. It was fading out and we both pissed off at each other. The bone many levels wasn't working everything else in life working super well and this is what we hear also so much i love my par- now best friends. We parents together. We do all these cool stuff together. Everything's great but this one thing that we kind of need to work on. We need help with that. It's like yeah that one thing is the biggest fucking thing. Yeah and there's so much pain because we all have such big stories around what sex means and what it's meant and how we've been treated and and how we show up and our body shame and there's just so much in an actual physiological discomfort so it's you know it's no wonder that it so fraught And we want to offer you know. We want to offer a different perspective and we offer at by showing the truth of ourselves and showing what we're doing so i think without any further ado i think we should have sacks i want you to. I want you to do a body check in now. Because i really want to see what you're feeling now and then i want to check in on like what we're feeling afterwards so i'm feeling some tension in my jaw and in my shoulders. I'm feeling a little bit scattered like a little bit in that upward energy in my head and in my chest exactly what i was gonna say been juggling too many different things today and feel a deep like i feel a warm love for you and a kindness but i don't feel a magnetism yet like i feel disconnected like i see you. But it's through a foggy piece of glass like that. The nourishing love of an old friend. Ready to smash the glass though and really see ewing close cool. That sounds awesome. I'm very very up for that. Yeah i feel scattered. I don't feel feel of lay present and kind of grounded in my buddy of people. Say that i feel yet. Didn't do any work out of physical practice today. That probably didn't help me. But i'm gonna do physical practice now. Oh all right so. I just took off my ugh boots. And then i started to think about getting dressed and then i thought should we be recording. This and i don't know the answer so we'll just record it. It's already recording so so we're in the living room. We got some candles lit because some low level lighting in my One of my products which is putting a color changing thing which is putting out an pink glow right now since a really clean in our living room because we did a huge declutter the other day in our lovely cleaner was around today. So it feels really pristine. I'm taking my pants off. Slices kind of bent over holding a microphone. Because we didn't have tend to use these microphones in this way and taking off her jeans with one Which is all the pennies off hand. I didn't know you could do. A list is one that i can. Of course you deal. I mean you're going to get your holiday with one hand holding on mmediately called. I guess. I guess i just found to store..
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"Who we are here. We are whereabout to do it. We're about to have sex for the first time in three weeks. It feels like six months. But i think it's been three weeks but those because for us three weeks is we're in Sexual time-warp we haven't had sex for three weeks. Because i had a spiritual ut i it was a real uti. But i think it was brought upon me by a spiritual and emotional happening happenstance yet when you took your first visit to the gp in. I can't even remember. Yeah i couldn't find it. They couldn't find the uti well cup and the computer said no computers said no. So i'd seen some alternative practitioners have been doing my own work. And then i wanted to go and pena coppins get the news in case i had some staff in my kidneys because i was kind of concerned because i'm not really bad. Yeah computer said no because it was there but it was also it was brought upon me profile. Them speaking at some sort of wrath But it came about. Because i was processing stock from twenty years ago when i used to get quite a lot of beauty is so it came about because i was processing that trauma and just like restored that trauma to my body but now it's moved through me and i'm feeling good. Just wash my face a brush. My teeth and i'm ready to fuck enjoy. Chabosy i did. I did wash my pussy and ass in the sing of the small lower bathroom. And i used a child sweater to try myself and then put it in the laundry because i would be to go upstairs and possibly disturbed children. I know it's just too risky. Like you could do something like go upstairs and do something enjoyable for yourself like how the shower and get prepared or you could wash your ass in the sink because you can't risk waking up your children. Some nine o'clock point of epic dress bill that we've had it's really not worth it. The children's sweater can be washed his opportunity till adora now more. We're meant to have the have meetings tonight and those didn't end up happening so we have this opening and yet feels really auspicious with everything that's happening in our lives and to really christen this podcast as well with this sexual encounter. I'm really excited. I'm actually feeling like all the stirrings. And my pussy. I can see your eyes are glimmering with excitement glimmering. It's actually. i'm in pain right now. Because i'm sitting back on my knees and i didn't know why we didn't get more comfortable before we started recording. I thought you had a glimmer of like pleasure and excitement in your eyes but actually it's pain so obviously i don't know you very well like oh helix desirous in hungary but actually he's just guide. Shane businees on k. There we got just casually sitting around with mike send. Yeah tranet news you podcasting rig sounds good. It does sound good. We're gonna do it now. Is there anything else that we want to say prior to like how are you feeling. I think it's good to check in like what's happening musical body. it feels. Everything feels awkward at this point in going to be a wild dance. That's for sure. What feels awkward. Just and i have an. We've tried a couple of times recently to have sex and then we try. Lawf- is just so full. Yeah we're just look at each other and they're more like basically neither of us could be bothered it was doing. It was two nights ago and they were saying this not an it. Wasn't that the real so it was getting late. You're not telling the whole truth. It was getting late. The lot of tension dopamine. He was a lot of tension. I'm going to clarify an offer the truth. There's a lot of tension and we knew that it had sex or we got into. It was going to be quite a big session. And frankly i didn't wanna stay up late and i'd rather watch the defiant one son netflix and learn about dr dre. It would be really into that lately. Doing exactly what we tell some students not to do. Don't watch netflix. Have sex instead and yet we know that she is real because those shows legit sometimes and so is your resistance to have sex. Your loved one but also we wanted to record it. We wanted to have everything set out because we wanted to share this session. Because i think this session exemplifies what happens when you have a long stretch. I wanna know like i want to know the decree like for me and my body feeling excited. I'm really interested to see what comes through. 'cause i know there's going to be healing. You and i've feeling quite distant. Our relationship for variety of reasons. We've been very busy. There's been a lot of stuff happening across all facets of our life. So you and i haven't really been sitting in heart space feeling connected and loving. We've been more like going through the motions and just getting shit done and i really feel like our hearts are just begging to connect. I'm feeling like all the stirrings in my plac- like i'm just so excited. I'm day ten or eleven day ten of my cycle so like my desirous factor as like being coming through the roof. I'm totally good to go. The other thing that's been happening loves recently. Is i have been on the gaps diet. Ever run a is so sick of hearing the worst gaps It's really taken over. I love if you don't know what that is. It's basically at dealing the lining of you got. It's not a diet. But you cutting out so much stuff from that you would normally eat. And aiding only super intensely nourishing broths and all this stuff for multiple weeks on end and i had a massive body detoxing and turned into a stew kind of m. a a raging. Just angry boston lately. Yeah you will. You've been cleansing was dame demons been like really come up from the depths and his circling around and kind of taking over men and some moments of the day. And i'm lightly has been a couple of times and i've been just wondering why all that was. That was intense swatted. Our reaction like that who emily so selby be pricing some serious stuff because of the massive change in my diet and my body's been seriously detoxing whole bunch of stuff. Yeah plus let's. Let's give ourselves.
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"It's lazy influence. Show really is not lame like listening. All right it's the lacey. And flynn have sex podcast. It's time for another episode. That's mostly what we do on the show. We have sex and we six coach through it. We're not having sex to just have sex. It has a deeper purpose. We want to actually show you what it looks like to work through things challenged. It's not pretty. It's not pretty. It's real we wanna in spy you in your relationship. You're gonna be challenged. You probably need to wear a headset. And this isn't for children or our parents. Mom and dad turn back now. This is your final warning on the now. Let me know mommy. So get ready to revolutionize the way you feel about sex what you think about sex and ultimately for you to have a much better sex life in elevated six left. That's what remind you that's what we want for. Everyone does what we in this work. Okay we love you goodbye. That's like an intro right. That'll do think so. Yeah okay so take a breath buzzing or anything seems fun just a dozen of my heart from the ten year anniversary edition. Say what say what. Good on us for us. Okay i wanna take a big breath in breath out.
"lacey" Discussed on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex
"This might make you uncomfortable. Trion this might make you uncomfortable. Te hey this is easy. Mrs flynn and we really enjoy having sex with each other. We love now but one back. A couple of years and things were going very well. What happened there. We winter human face which was awesome and then we went through the no surveys really any six face an hour on a mission to work out. What exactly happens to make sex drop in long term relationships. Yeah because we wanted to know. How is it possible. We'd gone from a loads of sex like flying unicorns helping across a rainbow in the honeymoon days to barely having sex at all. We decided to flip that shit and look at what was not working in our relationship and change it lacey's pointing at me about how six our relationship what was funky with it and how we didn't break up. We decided to fix about breaking up. Did you always deeply pissed off and on you. The sex love was the major issue so we didn't break. We decided to fix our sex life and in digging deeply into our sex life over the course of many years we healed so many parts of ourselves and ultimately created an epic relationship in our fucking soups happy. Prosise amazing shit during sex. How we do. And we've built it as the cornerstone of our lives. Yes so we dedicate ourselves to sex like it was our business and then we made teaching other people about their sex lives are actual business. So we've taught thousands of singles and couples around the world how to communicate how to heal rejection and resistance all these things that keep people from having soulful satisfying relationships and sex lives because spoiler alert your relationship to sex underpins so much of your life. It's six education people. Sometimes they're even going to have sex and break it down for you in the show. Yeah we'll also invite special guests into the conversation and even answer your personal questions live on the show to help transform your own relationship and sex life through small make you uncomfortable yes it might also make you super excited but if you follow along with us and you dig into this work we will not only change your sex life will change you as a person so tune in on your favorite and follow or subscribe right now to get all the latest episodes and we'll keep lazy and flynn coming each week and hopefully keep you coming to. Oh oh yo archaisms. Not guaranteed orgasms. Knock aren't pleased conditions apply..
New vaccination site opens at Angel of the Winds Arena in Seattle area
"On covert vaccines. The angel of the winds Arena in Everett is now open as a mass vaccination site, Department of Emergency Management director Jason Bierman says you will need to make an appointment will be using the Johnson and Johnson vaccine Esso. We're excited that this will be certainly the firms in the county and we believe perhaps the first in the state that will actually be rolling out Use of the Johnson and Johnson vaccine. The first batch of the vaccine arrived in Washington State. Just this week I broke radio stone cold Jenny. X has more. Unlike Fizer and Madonna, the Johnson and Johnson vaccines don't need to be frozen. That makes them ideal for places that have had trouble keeping dose is very cold. We're sending most of R J and Jay doses to county where their allocations were a bit lower in the past. Lacy Fair and got the deputy secretary for the state's Coben 19 response says. We got about 61,000 Johnson and Johnson doses from the feds this week, but that's all we'll get for the next three weeks. After that shipment should start up again
Goodhart's Law in Reinforcement Learning
"Student at university. College london minds researches mauka manipulation if you have self trading algorithm does it learn to manipulate markets. And then going from that. How'd you stop it for many players in the market on cutting more generally how do you tell algorithm which runs a policy. How do you tell it. The certain things are illegal. Should be done. So it's kinda taking me on more security journey than i thought it would because of going into the world of experimental psychology lower because not market knows very interested in intent lieutenant and they're also interested in coz -ality my work at the moment is trying to establish will Like for an hour them and the what the beginning to be talking about today is connected to quality so is an area that really came up in my kinda full mold machine learning education and it was only probably just over a year. When i read a book by judy. Appel will the book of why a restarted get interested in the subject to causality and realize that it's something but isn't tool on isn't handled while a machine learning at all. And if you read the book. Paul is very adamant about the importance of alexey. In housing types of analysis simply can't walk without taking into account so it drew a question in my mind is wide or how machines machine learning techniques reinforcement dining. what when there's no explicit treatment of causality. it's all so that led to the dog brought to pipe official quoted by fulminate cool cool combo good health law enforcement butting so a reinforcement learning should be all about causality. You have an agent. He chooses actions that she's actions. That somehow changes the world. They receive some kind of award the world changes and so on so you think that reinforcement learning calls aleksey guy well together and actually if you to believe bill. They can't walk reinforcement. Dining should be able to work if causality isn't explicitly treated. But if you look at sutton a barter which is the canonical text on reinforcement. Learning a search for the wet causality. Causal anything like that pays exactly zero times in the book. So someone's gotta be wrong. Eva wrong in saying that actually k. nikon generate any kind of policy to solve a problem or reinforcement dining extremely lucky so far in the Questions that they've studied have contained any kind of interesting causal structure. I agree that the word causality is suspiciously missing from most of the reinforcement literature. Books and papers. I've encountered but it almost feels like it could be there implicitly. Could this just be a matter of semantics. Well that's the great hope from deep reinforcement dining. I guess that ye somehow by involving date neural network in order this somehow in that your network which is unknowable. Mysterious does the job of analysing causality. It doesn't automatically so you don't need to think about it. And it's done you don't need to worry about to me fulfillment dining works. So let's move on. And i guess there is an element of that because reinforcement dining does work. But it just made me think about if you look in science. In general there's a long history of humans discovery techniques which work with before actually understanding why they work so i was thinking about i on the on age was five hundred bc even saudi arabia and to make land. You need to take on all you. Smelted with coke and the coke burns in the air that produces carbon monoxide to carbon monoxide displaces. The oxide in the side which then lacey with real on so at what point in human silenced. It be realized that was happening. Probably two years lights may be seventeen eighteen. Hundreds ole is time. We still had on tools. Said he didn't really matter that we didn't know why what it did kind of walk on. I like bit to reinforcement learning. Maybe the process. Which does what. It's a bit mysterious. Maybe ego to do things to get it to work. But the actual understanding as to white wax isn't diane. I think without an understanding of sally cardi understand. Why rainbow sledding works. I can pull out a textbook or maybe go
Loneliness in science fiction with Aliya Whiteley
"Welcome to breaking the glass slipper. I'm mcginley i'm short bond and i'm lacey handsome space. The final frontier an empty endless expensive nothing teeming with life. But you really need to look beyond the confines of our will to find loneliness. We are currently fighting pandemic and in its wake a loneliness epidemic despite a constant striving for companionship. It could be said that to be lonely is to be human. And what's more human than exploring our hopes and fizz in literature so here to help us discuss loneliness and the human condition a seen through the science fiction lens is the incomparable leah. Whiteley thank you for joining us today. Would you please like to introduce yourself to our listeners. Even though you have been on once before but we love you so much that you all here to join us again. I have been on before. I'm delighted to be here again. I thank you for that I'm elliot wisely right strange novels and short stories up and doing that for a while. That's that's it. that's what i do. Oh i should probably say the sky is the is the new one. That's coming in march. Yes and it's very good. I just finished it and enjoy it. That's good yes. I think i was explaining to my partner like your books. I heart this. You find this compliments for me. You'll books up fabulously weird. That's definitely a compliment. Yeah okay. I like it. When books really surprised me. So i try and write books already surprise other people. Get what you think. I just don't know where this is going to go. I think that's that's kind of what i'm aiming for time so definitely achieved beauty. I'd really did. Yeah i think i really. I really pushed that. Want as far as i possibly could so successfully. No i say. I was a recommend not people was think about all well my recommending this to in it could be okay with that. Yeah they're going to be okay with it. Yeah i know what you mean you need to check with is going to be the right audience for it but i do. I do love it when people come to that one and and read it through for the first time. so let's carry on and turn our minds to loneliness. Wow yeah i want to apologize to everybody for the whole just about to sit here and talk for an hour by loneliness which might not be what anybody wants to talk about it right now. So there we go there. Is that but meziane on the coal. Let's turn it is topical but also we talk about learning. There's an understanding linus. Maybe we'll come to find some sort of feeling of togetherness and now. I feel a bit like some sort of hippie but yes that is the thing about loneliness isn't it. Is the paradox at the heart of it. Is you got to be able to describe it to somebody else to achieve togetherness loneliness togetherness and as you say. It's a little bit strange okay. Well let's let's start. So why do you think that stories of of isolation and loneliness so common particularly in saifi so. I think that i hadn't really thought about it in those terms in till you kinda said that. That's where the conversation Might go in preparation for this and Then it really reminded me of a bike. Do dote sorry for that. It reminds me of when i used to be a chambermaid. For years in my in my teenage years. I used to work hotel over the summer months and one day i was doing the rhymes and went into room twenty-seven and walked in there and just had the strongest sation that something wasn't right but i couldn't have put my finger on what it was and then i saw like a very big black fly on the wall. I just had that feeling that something wasn't right. And i saw another fly and another one i turned around in the hole behind me was just covered in flies. Just black with them. They'd kind of blocked there all over the windows while they blocked at the sunlight. And i went downstairs and said we're gonna fly problem in room twenty seven and i was presented with account of fly spray and towed to to go and deal with it tonight and i felt extreme loneliness as i walked. Walked back to that room to to deal with the fly. Problem and sort of sprayed halfheartedly with the counter fly spray at a few of them and just thought this is. This is never going to. This is never going to work and Yes i think once you start looking at the doesn't think back in truck in a strange way. Once you start looking at the loneliness in saifi then you you see. It won't twice. She said three times. And then you turn ryan. It's just absolutely everywhere. I'm beginning to think it might be the pervasive factor in in science fiction and even in literature in general it fights like the loneliness of the human condition. Yeah so that's where. I am with that right now but i wasn't really thinking about that until you asked me about loneliness now. It's kind of all. I can think about right now. So thank you.
Hidcote: Behind glass at the plant shelter
"Here though to talk about the plant shelter. Which is the domain. Where i am sure. Many of my listeners would be heading. I as enthusiasts of plants behind glass. They is far grander. I'm sure than anything that i can offer in my own. My own discard. And how big is the plot shelter in. What kind of things are in there. The plan shelter as off the top of my head about thirty meters boy. Five or six meters. It's made range runs from east to west and it has glass on this southern front but it has a solid war on the back on the northern the northern aspect. Well sounds perfect for so many plants. i bet it's a nice place to retire to Chillier days just fine things go and do the plant shelter for the weather's terrible. It's definitely one that you don't need to draw. Draw zone when when the opportunity presents itself. It's a love space nicely protected but is a particularly interesting sort of structure in itself in that it was designed. I imagine boy johnson himself. He had studied architecture in america before he came here and the front the south front that is laced actually can be removed and so becomes as who came out the garden rooms. It becomes another room in the garden during the summertime because it has that kind of open aspects which we then plant very much on the front and we can bring pulse right to the front of it said that their cascading out into the garden sound school just and is everything in pots or in bed. Is the beds in there as well. Yeah there are some beds. Although i think the foundations of seat to some extent contain those beds. But there's also a lot of pulse helps us with displays in terms and be able to move things around as things sort of off lowering. We're looking their best. What's looking good right now. We're now recording in the start of february. Yeah there's there's not a huge amount. We have done some work in that recently. A one thing that is actually incredibly striking is the halden. Bogia via lacy is just so vivid in its color it's Pending racine purple flowers just over at the moment that they're looking spectacular is not a big plant in bed. Or it's been trained up one of the pillars so Once we get to the summertime in glazed fronts komo fits sort of does a bit of both This evergreen climber that's twenty is way the pillar and we do 'em Holiday cuts on nas jay. So it's it's still making its way back up. The pillar feel like but still looking stunning and as flowering really well. Is that one of the challenges of an environment protected environment like that. I'm thinking back to my rhs level to hear protected environments of the challenge of overprotected environment. That you know things grow so well that you do need to hack them back a bit. I occasionally and get things back under control. Because you've got a limited space you've got to form that this not movable and even though you can take the front off in the summer there's only so much space yes. A number of climates make their way to the top instead of seemed to feel like they'd be better outside but identity then would think that when they get to the cold weather in the winter but things the jasmine which eater has incredible heady sent in the middle of summer is is amazing but was a real tyrant this year because it had gone way over the top of pillows and then it just created this mass which we then found a pigeon nesting in an embarrassing say. Do try and keep things a little bit more in control and we run that balance. All the time johnson was at an incredible plants person and he would have wanted to have filled it with with every innumerable varieties of plants. And we want to do the same but you will say well to be able to call them well and encouraged to grow in in the way that we can look off them so that they're not making Plant health problem than not to the harboring disease. All about or anything like
2 dead after separate shootings in Prince George's Co.
"Separate shootings in Prince George's County. Last night. The first happened around 8 50 on Shady Side Avenue near Lacey Avenue in Suitland, leaving a man dead. Prince George's County Police say the victim took himself to the hospital after being shot. And soon after. They're getting there. He died. The second shooting left a woman dead and happened around 11 30 on Hamilton Street near Edmonston Road in east Riverdale. Police say they found the wounded man in a parking lot and the wounded woman in a parking lot and took her to a hospital where she later died. No arrests have been made in either of the shootings, and police have called both homicides. Police are asking the public to call with any information about the incidents. Maura area,
Seattle-area restaurant owners plead with state lawmakers to reopen at 25% capacity
"Pleading with state lawmakers to end pandemic related closures and save their businesses more from comas. Corwin Hank Schubert Ho is owner and chef at Salt and Iron and Edmonds. This shutdown has deeply impacted our business. You sure state senators reopening can be done safely. He did it before the three or four months in the summer time that we were serving custom. Where's that 50% capacity? Not one server caught Covitz owners tell the Senate Business and Finance Committee they'd like an immediate move to allow reopening at 25% capacity. Lacey Fehrenbach, the state health departments, covert czar, says she gets it. We want to reopen our economy as well. It's saving lives comes first. Restrictions that we have put in place have made a different under the governor's plan. A region can qualify for Phase two reopening if new covert cases fall 10% over two weeks, and the region's ICU beds are at less less than than 90% 90% capacity. capacity. Corwin Corwin
Texas EquuSearch calls off search after missing Houston mother Laura Reed contacts father
"Texas EquuSearch says that Laura Lacey Reed got ahold of her father, telling him that she was not in any danger but didn't release any further details. It was reported missing over the weekend after her child was spotted inside of an abandoned vehicle. Oh, don't look now. But there's a new
How to Save Your Marriage
"Going to promise you one thing and that is that we could save your marriage so many times on the show. We've talked about marriage problems and often the solution for serious problems is marriage. Therapy easy to say you'll go but many times the one spouse will not go so what we're going to do is try and make it easy for you as a gift. We're going to give you two free days of marriage therapy. You won't have the expense and you won't have to leave the house. Starting today you will get a chance to look inside a marriage therapy weekend and here is what you'll see. We took eight couples who all admitted their marriages were on the brink of disaster. They spent the weekend with dr horrible hendrix. Who conducts these marriage workshops across the country and in the course of the weekend amazing results happened. Marriages were saved. And today you can begin to say yours. Tim and vicky webster have been married now. For two and a half years they are separated and vicky is expecting their third child. My next couple. Layton and debbie. Clark have three children and i've been married for six years. Derek and valencia. Stevens have been married for five and a half years. George and beth pasta have been married fifteen years and they have two children. Randy and pam mal have been married over twelve years and they have two children. Joe and karen stricklin have been married now for two years and they have three children from a previous marriage. Jim and laurie tolliver have been married nine months. The last of the eight couples has the biggest obstacle to overcome. James and mimi had been married six years. Mimi has filed for divorce. They came to the seminar truly to save the marriage. James and mimi lacey also joining us the mastermind behind this particular kind of marriage therapy and the author of this book which the therapy is based on called getting the love. You want getting the love you want. It is a guide for couples. Please welcome our marriage man. Harvard this. I have been watching some of the tape from the seminar and it is it has helped me and my relationship tremendously really has really just in learning how to fight fairly and so forth. Why is this different. It's different because there's a focus on an understanding that couples issues arise out of their childhood. And that when they present themselves in the relationship we have to understand that they come from someplace other than just the marriage so the workshop helps couples understand that provides them with some tools experiences information to help them resolve those childhood issues in their relationship. So we take the position that divorce is not the solution to a marriage that Working on marriage and resolving the childhood issue is the solution. So when you're married to someone you have to look at them for everything that they brought to the marriage before they got there exactly. Yeah childhood most important. You have to look at the childhood issues that were brought knowing that most of the conflict couples experience in their relationship comes from unresolved pains and hurts in childhood that are presenting themselves in adult form in the relationship. And if you know that then you know you're relating to a person when they're angry at you or upset or acting sort of crazy and you don't understand what's going on that relating to a person who's wounded and hurt and are dealing with that wound and hurt with the only skills and tools that they now have and that what you have to do in a relationship is to acquire new skills to deal with the old issues they have to be dealt with and so. The exercise that we're going to see now is called container. Exercise called a container exercise and this exercise comes actually at the end of two days of very intensive work. So it's about probably sixteen hours into the workshop before you get to this before you can get to this part because it takes a while to get to these kinds of feelings and the container is an exercise designed to help a couple deal with. What is what. I call a residual childhood rage. The hurts and pains the feelings. That are leftover that are created when when his little and get hurt and so. That rage shows up in marriages as Anger rage hurt and so forth in this container helps you deal with that because it has to be dealt with and resolve it so that you feel closer and more intimate afterwards. It creates compassionate intimacy rather than the distance that comes with most fights nats call container. Why because one person has to just listen. One person has to justice and one is a container that is they receive and listen and the other person is asked to go into their childhood hurt. It starts with something that happened in the relationship but then there to push their anger into the childhood memory and then into that pain. So there'd be a lot of expressions of intense anger and then tears usually come and then after that some talking and then when couples are doing this and they're real life you know in their home or in the workshop they alternate one listens as a carrying holding nurturing parrot and the other one goes in becomes regress like a little child back into that paint. Oakland alternate
FBI bulletin warns of plans for armed protests at all 50 state capitals and in Washington ahead of Biden inauguration
"Theo FBI's warning of armed protests at the U. S Capitol in all 50 state capitals in the days leading up to President elect Joe Biden's inauguration. The FBI has reportedly received information of a group calling for the storing of state, local and federal government buildings if efforts are taken to remove President Trump Home office before binds inauguration. House Democrats have introduced an article of impeachment against Mr Trump, charging him with inciting a mob of his supporters to carry out last week's violent attack on the Capitol. The House vote on impeachment on Wednesday. The group is also planning to Lacey's to government offices across the country on January 20th inauguration day, according to the reported FBI bulletin. Bernie Bennett in
Surprise Again! Taylor Swift Is Dropping New Album Evermore Tonight: 'This Is for You'
"On whether or not Taylor and her boyfriend, Joe, all winter married. So Swift shared an image of yourself in a white lacy gown for her upcoming music video for the song Willow, which is one of the new tracks off of her new album, Evermore, which drops at midnight tonight, and fans are speculating somebody tweeted. Can we finally admit Taylor is a married woman She's done. It's not show Alwyn buying. Oh, no Swift, similar similar Early sparked engagement rumors by sporting what looked like a large diamond ring on her left finger during her Netflix documentary, Miss Americana Now both evermore and the song Willow and the Music Video for Willow are out tonight at midnight. I can't wait.
Los Angeles Police Investigating Granada Hills Shooting, Attempted Carjacking Involving Lacey’s Security Team
"No new deaths are reported. Security team for L. A County district attorney Jackie Lacey is involved in an officer involved shooting yesterday. Officials say the incident took place when a security officer had exited the vehicle near Lacey's Granada Hills home and two suspects pulled up in a car. One of the suspects tried to take the empty security vehicle and officers opened fire. The
Los Angeles County DA's security officer fires at carjacking suspects near her home
"For L. A County district attorney Jackie Lacey is involved in an officer involved shooting yesterday. Officials say the incident took place when a security officer had exited the vehicle near Lacey's Granada Hills home and two suspects pulled up in a car. One of the suspects tried to take the empty security vehicle and officers opened fire. The suspects fled from the scene without being struck. Black
Los Angeles PD Investigating Granada Hills Shooting, Attempted Carjacking Involving Lacey’s Security Team
"See burglary is at granada hills the residents of da. Jackie lacey and wait. Wanted me to try it. I hate doing this on the air. I gotta tell you. I don't know how to bring the phone up on there. Can you bring them up. We got him on hold. We'll get a minute second. Oh well. I mean we'll get right now okay. He's calling now. we got to. Don't talk to him now. can you bring up. let let's try real quick Hey brian how you doing pal. You are and granada hills. Jackie lacey's residents right. Yeah right down the street. yeah so So here's here's what i found out. I was able to as a crime spree or many crime spree in palmdale a carjacking crime spree. Looks like a couple of people presumably two guys Were stealing cars and making their way down and ended up in granada hills. Now the only missing piece of this puzzle is how a member of jackie lacey's security detail in led investigator and then. That's not absolutely yet. That was an assumption made by another outlet but they are reporting that it would appear that a member of security detail somehow intervening And there was a carjacking was happening down the street from here and the individuals crashed the car. They were was as they were trying to get away. So let me rewind the so this is just a i guess. A random thing that that originated in beyond bill and it just happened to to end in granada hills real. Yes yes it has. From what i'm told now by two different agencies. That has nothing to do with jackie. Lacey or associated. Jackie lacey. this is just merely a date was characterized me and say mini crime spree that started earlier today and ended in granada hills with With a crash of a vehicle As they were trying to get away. Yeah probably not gonna get a lot of sympathy from the prosecutors Disturbing the the county slade though. There's a new regime coming jerk stoned. Well well so are their arrest in chaps in custody and the whole deal What we're told us the two individuals got away so there does so the way this breaks down is since it started in palmdale so the. La county sheriff's department will investigate that component of it but then lapd's robbery homicide division as we refer to it as hd is investigating the officer involved shooting since da investigator opened fire in la granada hills in the city of los angeles. Yeah right so they're going to investigate that component of it. But i'm told that it's also very likely that because of the scope of it. The county sheriff's department. We'll probably take over. The whole thing
U.S braces for surge after Thanksgiving holiday during pandemic
"Now we wait with Thanksgiving. In all the warnings about large gatherings behind US. Health experts are bracing for what the next couple of weeks might bring from the Corona virus pandemic. It's really hard to predict months out where we will be in the pandemic. Lacey Fehrenbach with the State Department of Health says the pandemics progression is all dependent on what we do. The choices that we make will determine where we are. And those will have amplification effects going forwards and, according to U Dub Institute of Health Metrics and Evaluation, Infections and Deaths are expected to keep going up well into January of next year. If we all wore a mask, we could cut that prediction by nearly
Seattle - Now that Thanksgiving is over comes fears of a new COVID-19 spike
"With Thanksgiving and all the warnings about large gatherings behind US. Health experts are bracing for what the next couple of weeks might bring from the Corona virus pandemic. It's really hard to predict months out where we will be in the pandemic. Lacey Fehrenbach with the State Department of Health says the pandemics progression is all dependent on what we do. The choices that we make will determine where we are. And those will have amplification effects going forwards and, according to U Dub Institute of Health Metrics and Evaluation, Infections and Deaths are expected to keep going up well into January of next year. If we all wore a mask, we could cut that prediction by nearly 1500. We have many, many more months before we think, Start to return to normal. And hopefully the vaccines pan out. It was Nick. Papa, I'm
Criminal justice reformer unseats Los Angeles district attorney
"Has defeated incumbent Jackie Lacey in the race for L. A county district attorney. I have spent my entire life in politics over 30 years of that. Before I was a D A for nine years and policing. I am very committed to command the safety, but I'm committed to doing the right Gascogne spoke with Casey R W's greater layabout his agenda as the new D A. He's the former district attorney of San Francisco and has been praised by some on the left as a progressive advocating for criminal justice reform and police reform. His wind follows the summer protest nationwide against police violence and racial injustice. Gascogne is a former police officer serving for many years on the empty but he says he will investigate officer involved shootings. It's actually good for the police officers is good for prosecutors is good for all of us to make sure that the public feels that this governmental agencies they're going to be working for them and that when there is wrongdoing that people are going to be held accountable. He also promises to work on ways to avoid unnecessary incarceration. You're listening to morning edition in 1980