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"dr wendy" Discussed on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen
"Given junkie after show. I think given everything you went through our season given everything that you through last season is hypocritical of you to be judgmental about mike's fidelity in his relationship i love mike like you said max. My brother it's the cover up that i hate and the line. It lasts too long with mike. When it's me i talk about it. I address it. I admit to what's going on and we discuss it with mike. It's the cloud. It's this woman. That woman is the next door neighbor. It's a moment in time it's overdid it was only one time. Andy stop asking me questions. Oh my god. Reds rosemary wants to know how happy does it make you to see destiny and mj. Moving forward after all the drama last year so happy. I just love turning the corner when you can. Wendy warren texted. Why didn't candice put robin and a scholar in the same house together in williamsburg. Isn't she robin's friend. That's a good question. And i want to know because what. Mine the cottage right. Are you gonna remains an when for the rest of the season or no. I'm gonna try but you guys may see me go from zan went to went on ten bravo and blames tweeted. Do you think the we'd helped you. Look at things differently after you had your smoke sash with gold nasa on the campaign trail. I don't know who let's go. A little bit of cbd and cannabis and yes of course anytime you do things. Legally that involve cannabis. It helps right. I love your dog tag. Doesn't give to yourself. They were my own birthday. Because i've been trying from the day you guys might be what i bet lilly and i begged god. Please let me get skinny. I thought if i get to my goal weight i'm gonna treat myself welby. Everybody thanks for listening to the podcast. Everybody hope you enjoyed the show. Remember new episodes. Go live monday through friday at four. Pm eastern time. Make sure you're subscribed to have a great rusty or night..
"dr wendy" Discussed on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen
"Really mike is your good old friend. You couldn't come up with anything. I was horrified that he came on. Watch what happens. Live and told you. He wanted me to apologize for being a backstabber. I asked him what you should apologize. I should apologize for not being james. Komi he wants me to just be loyal and keep my mouth shut okay. Karen seems to always go to the jugular when it comes to giselle colleen j texted. Do you think it was to mean of karen referred to giselle 's fat vagina tonight. I mean she lie. Linda w facebooked raza. Why does everyone give mike a hard time about paulina. Not coming to events. When adam and tommy are never there either. Paulina doesn't come to events because he's trying to control the narrative. Tommy doesn't come to events because of a restraining order. Dr wendy jesse b wants to know where you always going to reveal to the ladies that you got your butt done or did you decide to tell them last minute. Because meal was so open about her plastic surgery. I was always going to tell them. I had a game plan to tell them. Karen and giselle gone to a fight. So i just had to tell them. Ss move raza. Do you believe. Mj's marriage is gonna last or do you feel. Divorce is in the works. I hope that they they're podcast. Is till the dirt and i hope that that is the truth. What's your reaction to zen wins new features. Well i'm all here for her new features. I enjoy happiness a lot. Yes happy what is what is your mom. Think of the new. Oh she loves it she does she. She really wants me and my sister to pay for her. Get her what to your students think. Oh we don't talk about that okay. raza lucy f said. What do you think of mike saying. On twitter that you and destiny tried to portray him as a woman beater this season. Mike also thinks the stocker story was fake. What do you have to say about. Darker sores real. Can i feel bad. That he thinks that that was what people were trying to portray your thoughts on the whole spoof tax thing. Oh my god. Andy if you went into my dm's right now to see all the women that have hit me up to talk to me. You talked about this the reunion you know. Once the show airs all the women that potentially people communicate with screen-grabbed and they send stuff to us. We protected mike. Very much so wendy. Dnc said do you think giselle was coming from a good place wanting to get drinks with meal without karen present. I mean no. It didn't seem like it to me all right. It is watch what happens five..
"dr wendy" Discussed on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen
"Why do you think giselle. And karen can't get it together. I think that giselle is mean to karen. And she needs to open her heart to karen because karen his bringing the fire season general thoughts on the new girl mia. I'm obsessed with her. I was interested in the clint surgery. But i'm glad now it's not good surgery it's vaginal rejuvenation. But i love her. And i love g and the whole situation surprise you the most about everything happening with eric on beverly hills. A lot of things bother me. And i hope all of its untrue. Okay what what's your reaction to it. She may have known something. But i'm not sure if she was privy to every Is ebony being unfairly labeled as preachy razz. One hundred percent. The white privilege is terrible. And thank you for minkoff and ebony and all of the non white housewives got your wendy. Is she being unfairly. Labeled as preachy. I think that when women of color speak sometimes we get that label do you will wendy's candles be successful. so yes. What was your reaction to me. Coming out with candles you know. They say that imitation is the greatest sweater. And i'm glad that i was able to help. Expand her business. Yes woo-hoo side. Are you on regarding violation gate crystal or sutton resume. Of course i'm on crystal side leah's brother hot or not. Hot as a prankster yourself. How do you feel about kathy hilton than her love of pranks. She's like hunky. I know hunky dory is yes. Thank you very much tonight.
"dr wendy" Discussed on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen
"Hyena tonight so it was fitting that he was the first one to laugh when mike was described as faithful from jostsons at the reunion airs. Next sunday. it's reservoir. Bartender is serving us drinks. Until we're all whiskey wendy's it's wendy's husband eddie. Sappho gracious you wanna talk about. Tonight's we have two big shows from both of you. I guess since we just ended a shah's your reaction to seeing tommy rip the letter on. It was very hurtful. I put a lot of thought and time into that card. And i have to appreciate where he is. I'm not there so it's hurtful. But i've moved on seeing 'em j.j. Mj's in a tough spot. She seeing her navigate giving him the letter. And do you think she. How did she do navigating that. Well terribly because we've done the reunion at you and i know. How did she do navigating that reunion. Reunion. i mean just the letter i mean. I think that it went the way they wanted it to go. Okay okay. What was your reaction seeing mike till. mj tonight that sexting other women was a turn on for him right. All right wendy we have you. Do you think you have changed the accusation from giselle tonight was you have changed and not. Only you've changed but there must be a reason behind it. So i guess what was your reaction to that and have you thought about that further at all. I think i have changed. I think that that's what we do as people we grow clearly just has. She's in the same spot that she's always been miserable so i don't expect her to understand growth when you see 'em people be good said seeing. How gazelles operating the season with rumors regarding your family. Do you have any regrets of getting close to her last season. When monique said giselle was also involved with rumors with her family. So that's interesting. Because i was new last season so i didn't hear about the rumors until i watched it when everyone else watched it right and giselle said that interconfessional so i was in privy to any rumors while we were filming. Okay wendy name day is is reading you about the candle. She said it seems unlikely that someone with a phd wouldn't know you have to register an llc if it was actually a dream to be an entrepreneur. We got this a lot. Well i have a phd in public affairs. Political science right. Don't have a degree in business administration but my husband has four degrees and one of.
"dr wendy" Discussed on Stephanie Miller's Happy Hour Podcast
"And anyone got a midlife in clinical psychology and returned right. And that's when you came back you've had well it was interesting this sixty minutes piece just aired and you were saying to us off air here. The reason why you didn't go back to his room when you were what age you were then is because you were you. Tell the story this guy that sixty minutes. I learned from the worst. You know i was a canadian to major in toronto and was spotted by a modeling scout and with stars in our eyes. My mother dropped me off at a modeling agency in paris With the lecturers head of modeling agents. Who went on to become head of elite worldwide. For years. a friend of jeffrey. By way of who liked to finance these jeffrey obscene like to invest in modeling agencies around the world so he could get access to teenagers right. He would set up fake photo shoots on his island. I mean he would have photographers there. And all that but that got the teenagers there so this guy sadly who held my mother's hand in a cafe and said don't worry i'll take care of your sweet little daughter It's been many years and told the story. So i kind of worked through it all therapy but He raped me newly when i was teenager play. And today there are twelve. Women led by the model carrie. Otis remember curio sure And she had written about it in her biography. Two thousand thirteen and went on a press tour. And nobody aster about this Nobody cared back then and so. We have about twelve women. All over the world from australia to europe to different places in america and canada Who are now trying to get this guy prosecuted. yeah yeah. He lives in spain now. But they're doing the rapes. I know you're thinking stop using psychological buzzwords on me but in terms of triggering. What does it feel like when you see the president. I became president. When how many women.
"dr wendy" Discussed on Stephanie Miller's Happy Hour Podcast
"Let's blame is love story over okay. I'm at least blooms party. Possibly tall beautiful blonde woman. Traipse is in. And then i was like who is that. Oh dr wendy walsh she straightened. She's with her boyfriend. And then that's when the music the music ever.
"dr wendy" Discussed on Stephanie Miller's Happy Hour Podcast
"What they've done this week will will carry on in the weeks to come. Yeah finally because this is just the breaking latest justice department warned states about unusual trump inspired. Audits i've been wondering about this forever. How any of this is legal. trump supporting politicians states around the country consider conducting conspiratorially orally quote unquote audits of the twenty. Twenty election returns. The justice department warned yesterday. Federal law requires states to maintain possession over direct supervision over election records that some states are handing over to ill-prepared contractors the doj interprets. The civil rights act required that covered elections records be retained. either physically by election officials. themselves are under direct administration supervision. This has been my question. Your excellence is what why. How is this legal. What they're allowing to happen in arizona. Where now they ever asked to replace all their election equipment. It's how are you allowed to take election actual ballots to some. I don't know cabin in montana literally. Yeah yeah i think again. You know that that letter that warning letter. is an appropriate. I skipped because the reality the conducting of these fraud. It's and that's exactly what they offer fraud. It's you know it's interesting in arizona. You're gonna do thing but you only look at the place where you see the greatest number of democrats. Well wait a minute. What about going if you're going to do an audit. Why don't you do it state wide but how about. Let's not do it at all. Given the fact that all of these things have been reviewed certified And no-one found any degree of any any degree of fraud. So i think you have the this letter. This warning is good first steps but then it's got to be followed up and to the extent that you see replicated what happened in arizona. You know in in other states. The justice department's gotta look in quiver and figure out what arrows that it has filing civil suits bringing regulatory action to stop them from doing that was puts at risk You know the integrity of the process not only in the minds. The american people but also physically. Because what you just said is really important. You know you turn over these machines. And now you've seen in pennsylvania. I guess arizona. They're going to have to spend taxpayer money to replace these machines. These idiots in in in in arizona. You know Have been had access to and as a result of potentially uncontaminated fan so for any number of reasons We have gotta stop. Stop this nothing. This is all to try to satisfy you know. The latest version of the big lie has absolutely no basis. in fact we've got be extremely aggressive and he'll be unafraid. The republicans say. Oh you politicizing this stuff. I was gonna say a battle. Bs you know. We're not with the sizing anything. All we're doing is standing for democracy and for a fair system. You guys are the ones who are afraid of the voters. They don't think they can win in fair elections and sold it to do whatever they can to hold onto the power that they've illegitimately got. I could have really used the publicity. If you'd use the whole word your highness. But i will but please come back. Let's do this again. I'll be less nervous. I swear your excellency. I thought we agreed it was going to be your hide. Your stick with your highness. Oh my mother. My mother always in queens new york. My mother always said i was a prince. Slow the bachelorette that was kind of where we go. The official prints of the stephanie miller. Show your second attorney. General of united states eric holder. Thanks so much. We'll see thanks forever also. Yeah you're going to save that and play that back over and over and over again. Spank banker okay..
"dr wendy" Discussed on Stephanie Miller's Happy Hour Podcast
"That would go back to ten. To four you know so this is the nature of the mindset that we are facing but are multipronged strategy has proven to be Successful but boy we need. We need the for the people that yeah well. Yeah i mean. That's that's what i was gonna ask you about. is it just. It seems like we can't get to any of these other issues. We care about. I if we don't have a i mean this is based on i the former presidents delusions. As far as i can tell these these bills in what is it forty eight states now these voter suppression bills. So y'all go ahead. No but you know what there were kind of given the republicans to pass the a lot of this stuff is based on the big lie of trump from the november election and the way in which the republicans have protected it adhere to it. And i also tell your listeners. You know the big lie is not a phrase that we just point over the course of the last couple of months. Look who use the big lie and what they did with the big lie in the last century And so you know. Republicans have been talking about voter fraud and the need to have these voter suppression techniques related to this nonexistent voter fraud. Brennan center is said. You will likely to be hit by lightning than to actually cast in-person fraudulent ballots. And so they've used the lie of a voter Voter fraud to come up with these suppression marriages over the course of these last few decades. It's not just since you know the last couple of months. They've been doing this. For decades abetted by a supreme court that is at least ideological in nature and potentially even partisan in nature that is essentially giving them free rein to do that which they want to do and so again we've got to be prepared to fight them in every way that You know that we possibly can do what are your hopes for a carve out for voting rights..
"dr wendy" Discussed on Stephanie Miller's Happy Hour Podcast
"All that mean. Because i i sometimes your excellency. Attorney mr a general feel like you know democrats disarm because we do want general and fairness where republicans will obviously go to any lengths. We'll go any links to cheat to win. And it feels like i've heard about jerry mentoring. In general that in some places democrats have just said ona. We're gonna leave it up to a fair non-partisan we're republicans aren't fighting the same way on gerrymandering are can you explain that to us. Yeah they're not fighting the the same way. I mean just kind of some basic stuff. I mean we do. The census every ten years after the census a year or so So after we then redraw the legislative lines for state legislatures as well as the united states house of representatives and what the republicans did in twenty eleven Princeton university did a study and said it was the worst gerrymandering of the past half century. And that essentially mean that you create these safe districts so that republicans simply cannot be. You can turn out huge numbers of democrats but because of the way in which the lines are drawn. Republicans are in these safe seats. Which means that. They're not concerned about a general election. They're concerned about a primary challenge. And that drives them. Further and further to the right and you end up with legislatures both at the state level and the united states house of representatives that do things that are inconsistent with the desires of the people that these folks are supposed to supposed to represent. And so yeah you're right you know people asked me. Well what is gerrymandering bottomline. Gerrymandering is cheating and they have indicated that is republicans upset in their own words. They wanted their term. They want secure a decade of power. And they want to do so by suppressing the vote but also by redrawing the line in such a way that they assure themselves general election victories. And the notion that you know. Democrats are disarming by fighting for fairness. I think is just doesn't quite get at it because the reality is if the process is fair. Democrats and progressives will do just fine. We are actually fighting for in fighting for fairness. We're fighting for a process that will lead to an increased number of democrats recipes at the state level as well as in the united states representatives. We don't have gerrymander. I mean that really is the bottom line. We don't have to dream and and when they do we've got to be extremely forceful and fight them in the courts in every other way that we possibly can to make sure that there are gerrymandering. Attempts are not successful. And i know that's what because some of them have come out and said it right. The gerrymandering is gonna help us win. You know in two thousand twenty two. I just automatically. I think ronnie represents what ronnie jackson has said that so talk to us about. I know you waited just hours. After the census bureau re released new apportionment figures to file the first lawsuits of this. This decades redistricting process corrective preview. It's it's they say it's going to be the most litigated remapping american history. So talk to us about that. Yeah yeah i mean you're into burtless be honest here in in twenty eleven Republicans had a thing called project read map and they focused on redistricting and they maintained their power as a result of that effort in two thousand eleven. Twelve the course of this decade You know twenty twelve. The first time that the elections after that That that unbelievable gerrymandering efforts democrats over one point. Two million more votes for the united states house of representatives republicans did and had a thirty three deficit even though we had a million more votes..
"dr wendy" Discussed on Stephanie Miller's Happy Hour Podcast
"Who had been trying to get on forever. But we settled on your highness. I didn't know what i was sold. I was so nervous. I wasn't sure. The honorific i was like mr attorney. General your excellency highness. Appreciated the your highness. Yes i believe he wanted to go with your highness definitely but it was. You know kind of people. Don't come slum like that around here knows yeah okay. Anyway he namedrop left and right garland known them for years. Whatever but okay A lot of great stuff to say. Dr wendy walsh is helping me deal with. I am just a fuck stack of anger. Do you know what i'm saying. What's what's now. I feel like i'm ready to blow every day because of anti you know anti vaxxers and right affecting my loved ones right that i'm just i don't know whether it's affecting me from the inside the outside it's eating me alive. She's gonna blow right so dr. Wendy walsh not only fantastic break. Kfi radio show Mating matters her. I bright podcast. Her podcast but also also. She was one of the original bill. O'reilly accusers and was one of the time magazine. People of the year for being a blowing the whistle on sexual harassment. Fox news fascinating. Let's just get to it. What the. Why won't i shut my pie hole so we can have happy hour yes. I'm in the caucasus. Shut up to your guests can talk. Don't say a word call.
"dr wendy" Discussed on Teach Me Something New
"Yeah all kinds of things and and man angelito ost. They both have terrible nicknames. That like go with their actual names but yeah we do. Riffs of their names hersher. That kind of playfulness. Also an anti anxiety force and it would seem so obscure. Why do nicknames have so much power and it's because of the easy low level affection and it's very different than you are so amazing and you're so special in your future looks magnificent not quite like mine and your dad's but maybe some pathetic version of it since we don't know if there's going to be any planet left or any jobs for anybody but we won't talk about that we'll just talk about how wonderful you are and they know they know that none of that is exactly true so what you wanna do instead is really ordinary stuff that is family citizenship opportunities to be a genuine help to be independent. Do they wash their own hair. No they're still not showering. They're only taking bath though some timeshare but they'll lean back in the bath other is like submerged and then i have to wash their hair. Ni- highly sensitive child and saw has a water sensitivity as well so it's the salon and they don't give you a tip in god. You're so right totally the salon but we do not want to shame them one single bit for that. But what do i do do. i just cut it off. What you do is say. I'm getting the idea that you're ready for this. But i'd like you to pick the shampoo you like best. Were always giving them both agency responsibility and opportunities for discernment because responsibility without authority is slavery So we want to give them authority and responsibility and then you watch them. Grow more hardy. It's just like the difference between hothouse flowers and flowers who are out in a field and experiencing the wind and the temperature changes. They grow stronger roots and the blossoms take longer well. What if they're like no. I really don't even like taking baths much less washing my hair. So my choices do not choose a shampoo. I'm not going to wash my hair. And it's one thing about the food because i could like to. Your point. basically starved them until they're hungry enough to eat but with showering and bathing. What do you do there so nacro. Consequences are your friend and a lot of times. Parents skip over the natural consequences. If you don't pay you get itchy you get prickly and nobody wants to hang around you because eventually you're going gonna spell. How often do they take these bass. It is it every night we've now moved to like every other night. Yeah do these. Are boys anna water. They're all allergic to water. So and again. We have that continuum of a water sensitivity a genuine one and oh yuck to get undressed. Its water and soap. And i'm so excited about other things so you want to make the program fit their basic inclinations desire an energy level and at the same time a modicum of health safety and sanitation. Okay so if it's been like seven to fourteen days and they still haven't bathed no that's not enough. That's where i bring the hammer and again. We want to talk to the dentist. About how often they should brush their teeth and whether they should be doing it on their own. Not how often and asks a pediatrician and a lot of this sort of embarrassing and annoying that you would ask the pediatrician. This question but americans are far too hygienic. And it's one of the reasons we don't philip. Some of the antibodies and antibacterial immune responses that we could use. Because we're so terribly clean at sharon eggert that so just starting to rethink some of these things. And it's all about the balance of power responsibility fun safety and health and fats are time need has been a lesser to talk. You enjoy these boys sending them to the playground and get them involved in the program of food and washing and cleaning up and responsibility and then the balance of exhaustion and your adrenals will be better shape while we solve so many problems today and they learned so many things. Dr wendy mogul thank you so much and if you all have questions or comments or wants a follow her doctor mogul. Where can we find you on the internet. I have a website. Which is wendy mogul dot com. And it's got the podcast and it's got every article irate and in all the languages and that's a very good place. Wendy mogul dot com. That's very good place emo g. e. l. emoji. Yeah that's right different kinds of mobile and checkout nurture versus. Nurture her podcast. Which is how. I even came to love and know about her. Thank you so much everyone for joining us. I think i'm on my way to be in a better parent at least drop some of the guilt for sure and if you enjoy this episode. 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"dr wendy" Discussed on Spark My Muse
"Hello this is sparked my muse. And i'm your host lisa delay today a soul school lesson one ninety falling in love with truth during dark times..
A Childhood on the Farm
"So let's jump off from one. Animal will benefit the other to talk about the family so moving to hear you describe this because it reminds me of students taking an environmental science class. And then there's the quiz lit and the flash cards and the phrase kurban sequestered and drew are false. This is learning by doing. And it's absolutely the way. Children learn best using all five senses in the three dimensional world. And you also mentioned joan about the changing of seasons and how the children are accustomed to that and learn the rhythm of that so one animal benefiting the other in your particular described to me that challenges and reward of. Let's start with. Sasha how does she benefit and tax and challenged the rest of the system right. Well i would say. Sasha is our observer and alert system for the families. she's really in tune when somebody's hurt or sick because she's always hyper focused on anything being out of balance essentially if she notices as a change to our rhythm change to our habits. She's the first to say. Why are we doing this or what's wrong about the situation. It's not what we're used to doing. The same goes for on the farm. She's the first one to come running in and say there's an injured goat. There is an injured goat coming into the house and she gets to say that sentence mom. There's an injured goat or or such and such goethe's in heat. We better breed them right now. Oh yes and how does she know about such and such goat well. She's been raised with them since she was born and so she knows their behavior. She knows all of them and their personalities and when they're acting different and with her their heat cycles she's aware that the fall is when they go into heat and she knows that they flagged their tails when they're ready flag their tail. They flagged their tails. Does it mean wave of back and forth her yup and she's smitten with a particular goat. Yes she has. A favourite goat considers it her child the goats name panda and it's an alpine dairy goat. That's funny yup. it's black and white. There is a year where we had a lot of black and white dulling so and they decided to name them all black and white name so there is like orca. Oreo and panda was one of them. Yeah so this is so much fun. This is someone because this is children's imagination applied to a practical purpose because those goats need names. You need to be able to distinguish them when she comes and says that panda is in heat. It's important for you to be able to picture which goat. She's talking about absolutely. She is alert when she comes in with the news on the continuum of excited and enthusiastic veg ing on alarm more panic. What's the tone. I would say it's equally both. I would say that to once she experiences says sees this she comes around in and it's like frantic furious. This is very important. You have to listen to me. So and so is doing this that or the other or so and so's injured and it's just i think it's giddiness that she is able to tell us that. And it's also that she is experiencing what's going on so she is. She's getting both those things going on in her brain at same
Why Do Children Give the Cold Shoulder To Someone They Love?
"The time. I will let it go and how resentful indignant frustrated and annoyed are you. It depends. I don't like getting to the place where. I feel resentful so i try to do that. Enter talking and decide. Okay if i'm not gonna let this bother me. That i really have to let it go but i will say yes. There are times where. I will let it go. And i might be just a little. Ooh yeah like he's feeling for sure. Yeah it takes me just a little bit being like that and then we'll get through it and then it's fine and then there are times where i have that talk and i'm like nope. This is not okay with me. And i i wanted to talk about it and say something and have a conversation. Does it do any good. It does like we had a recent disagreement. Please tell so. I did not know that daisy and eric had had a conversation about getting daisy on tiktok to see an older cousin that we have in the family who has an account and she was excited about it and i did not hear about this and cut too i just heard that daisy was signing up for tiktok. How did you hear. She was coming over to eric and saying okay. Now what do i do. And he was telling her. Don't forget your password. Write it down somewhere and i ask. Oh but she doing joining terrorist groups ugly saying getting on tiktok. There was no discussion in my mind. I just reacted in that moment. And i said oh no. I don't want her on tiktok. That was a big thing for me. In hindsight i probably should have waited to. Maybe reacted one of the reasons that you react. That way is you are at a state of semi alert to alarm at all times and your waiting for the intel to drop. Yeah so you heard the words get on and tiktok and it had not been passed by you and that fell on top of a pile of frustration about this child man's judgment and the ambivalence you have about. What a warm loving fun guy so close to his daughters his daughters who are coming of age and we'll have crushes on boys and they are getting so deeply cherished by their sweet dad and at the same time you know so much about what goes on in the world of social media and girl self esteem and identity and sexuality that you have your good angel and the devil gas each on your shoulders arguing at all times. The corpus callosum the connects the right and left hemisphere of women's brains is thicker than in men and it means that women naturally us both sides of their brains to make decisions and for men. It's sometimes a little bit more easier and direct. Is it a cousin or a friend who was on tiktok. it's my cousin's daughter cousins to hire so exciting celebrity family member on tick doing adorable vance and she has her own channel. So cool and now spoilsport. Here is hyper vigilant. That's what we call it. Then psychology jumping in to say you did what so what happened in that moment. The main reason. I got irritated as we were with our pod and there are a couple guys there too and it was very emasculating issues. Like no. she's not watching. Tiktok that okay. And i'm like and furs liberal. As i am parenting. I do default to whatever she says. I mean. i'm definitely the beta as far as you hear me fall to whatever. She says. you can't read her mind right. And so that's your intention and that's your kind of moral position but in a case like this and this is a beautiful example here you were joining with your daughter. In a celebration of cousins expansiveness on the magnificent new platform tiktok swirling the pandemic world with joy. And then this bitch comes in humiliates you in front of your friends or male and female pie and you think okay. I'll just swallow this and eat some more sugar with the girls and it will be totally our country. Exactly the ugly. What happened so get resolved. So the next morning i went to bed it was bothering me and i did feel bad for the way that i handled it so no conversation between the afterward no thanksgiving night. We're both. oh yeah. Yeah so the next morning. I said something i said i you know i'd really like to get this off my chest. What time what plays what. Words was probably around nine. Am and i think. I use the words. I'd really like to get this off my chest and were the two of you alone. Girls there were alone and he was not in the most open mood. But i felt like i really wanted to talk about it in the kitchen. Seated standing i was seated. He was standing. How'd you had breakfast her. Yeah so i started with. I really wanna get this off my chest and correct me if i'm wrong. I said you know. I want to have a conversation about tiktok ortho. I want to back up just a little bit. Because we're going to parse words sir. I really want to get this off my chest. Strikes
Intensive scare: covid-19 ravages America
"We're likely to lose another two hundred and fifty thousand people dead between now and january this week grim headlines and milestones in america the daily covid nineteen death. Toll hit a new record on wednesday. The infected patient count in hospitals asked one hundred thousand for the first time the contagion has now reached every corner of the country with ninety percent of all. Us hospitals in areas designated as corona virus hot zones cases have topped a million in florida texas and in california governor gavin. Newsom warned of worse to come just in the last fourteen days close to one thousand californians have lost their lives due to covid nineteen. The bottom line is if we don't act now. Our hospital system will be overwhelmed. We don't act now will continue to see a death. Rate climb. healthcare systems are becoming overwhelmed in ways not even seen during the pandemic's panicked early stages in the midwest things have been particularly dire with intensive care units filling up doctors and nurses exhausted and in many places. The public just isn't acting in a way that will stem the tide right now across the midwest. We've seen a surge of cova cases of people being rushed into hospital. Adam roberts is our midwest correspondent in states like north dakota. South dakota is when talking to health workers in those hospitals. They've been telling me that. Icu beds are at eighty percents. Ninety percent occupation ensured. The hospitals seem to be getting quite full and sometimes quite stressed and how have the hospitals in the region been preparing for this surge. I spoke to several health. Workers including dan rooney. Who's with the emergency medicine department at the university of iowa hospitals and clinics. That's in iowa city and his hospital because it's an academic center is just about the best equipped in the state. It's been doing everything it can to clear. Space to let covert patients have as much from his possible. So inpatients have been sent home when they can be. They've added extra. Icu beds that being postponing elective surgeries and dr renee told me that it's being taught and go from the outside. It sounds like okay. Everything was handled any sort of at the moment. But it's just hard to convey how close you are to going from just being able to barely need it to be overwhelmed and the fact that has been handled so far has been partly down to the actions of frontline workers. We've been lucky of the health care system to mostly not quite break. But i think people be shocked about how close we get and just what it takes in terms of individual level responses to make the thing keep going so from what dr wendy says. It sounds as if the public doesn't really know how bad things are at the moment. Yes don't worry says. He worries members of the public and governing. Politicians just haven't grasped what happens when hospitals get to full take for example the impact of canceling elective surgeries as a common misconception that those are surgeries onto poulsen until the no pressing when you hear hospital canceling elective surgeries. That means people potentially with cancer. Getting their tumor excise. It means people that have gallbladders either heart disease or vascular disease that need intervention that are putting them at risk of really bad side effects and sickness or death. That's real that's happening. So when the hospitals become overwhelmed is not just covid. Nineteen patients who suffer. It's the rates of excess non virus. Deaths that also could search and what about the situation outside urban areas like iowa city. I mean the situation. Equal kind of across the region. No is is not equal. So what you see. Is this interrelationship between the big hospitals in places like iowa city and then rural places small hospitals. That might just have one doctor one us now these rural hospitals. They're under great strain. Not least because many of them have closed in the last decade or so around one hundred thirty rural hospitals across america have closed and that puts a lot of pressure on the ones that remain. They can be overwhelmed with just one two three patients coming in and you can imagine that when covid sweep through a small town maybe a local meat packing plant is affected or prison. Those hospitals are overwhelmed. Very quickly. I spoke to ben christians. Who's an emergency care doctor. In sioux falls in south dakota who said that for the past two months they've been functioning at over one hundred percent capacity of their icu. Beds and they've been adding more beds as well and he takes patients from eighty sparsely populated but Reflected counties spread all across south dakota and beyond and these are patients who are coming in from as far as a hundred and fifty miles to get to his relatively small hospital. And it's not surprising that those places get overwhelmed more quickly than in the biggest cities. And why do you think the situation is so bad particularly in the midwest. What is moving out from the midwest now but the first surge hit the midwest this autumn i think partly because these are more northern states and it's colder weather up here and so people are in those and maybe spreading the virus more easily but it's also a fact that in rural areas in parts of northern wisconsin and the two dakota's people have just not taken serious measures. It's not unusual for me when i've been reporting and wearing my mosque going into small towns to be stead at and for people to look at me as if i'm an alien. They don't want to wear masks. They don't want to do social distancing as winning liz people in the cities and that may be why they're also being affected badly now and the third reason is that politicians in those states including the governors have been refusing to order rules on mosques and closing restaurants and businesses. And so it's not unusual in all of these places to have mass gatherings people going to church people going to bars and restaurants even when the infection rate is extraordinarily high and that must be that much more frustrating for over the frontline workers who are seeing the effects of all that don't originally told me it's very difficult the thing that's been harder as as this has gone on the sense that we're not really in this together as a community as a state a nation you know. We're watching people get sick. We're watching people die. We're watching our colleagues really extended themselves to prevent the system from completely breaking and then to see scenes of full airports full bars to see people talking about their individual liberty with regards to amass. That has been that's been and a lot of the healthcare workers in other places. I spoke to said exactly the same that frustrated. They're exhausted some falling ill themselves but is there a bright side here. I mean haven't health professionals come a long way since the spring and in terms of coping with these outbreaks. Yes so the saving grace of all this is frontline. Staff know much better ways to treat patients for example they're much slower than people on ventilators. They discovered that if you'll put on a ventilator you own you have a five to ten percent chance of actually surviving it and so far. Fewer people are being intimidated than before. It's only the most desperate cases and generally there a better treatments better drugs use of steroids and someone so there are reasons to be more hopeful. That if you are infected you can survive. But on the downside. We've had a big surge in infections. Recently is not just the colder weather. It's the fact that people are getting together as the holiday season and run the said he stands by and he watches in fear. Because the thanksgiving weekend. The past probably is a sign that they'll be more affections and we'll see a big surge in the weeks to come. You know for all the fatalist and say well. It's paying them into a disease. what can you do. You can just look around the world that responses and places have crushed to this and there is no reason that a place with the material wealth and the scientific expertise of the united states shouldn't have been among those countries and the fact that we haven't it's an enduring tragedy. Adam thank you very much for joining us. Thank you jason.
Hurricanes in the Gulf: Coastal Mississippi residents brace for back-to-back storms
"Hurricane Marco and Tropical Storm Laura make their way toward the Gulf Coast, the peninsula city of Pass Christian Mississippi is prepping for back to back sibling storms. They could leave much of it underwater for days. Mayor Leo McDermott says he's worried about what will happen to his port city. If there's no time for water to recede bin of Peninsula problems always waters. What we couldn't discern what and so we are worried about. Title, Sarge, coming first one, and then the second coming right behind it.
"dr wendy" Discussed on KFI AM 640
"If I am 40 you have Dr Wendy Walters. This is that Dr Wendy Walsh. Oh, I missed you guys last son. Wait. I know we had another new special. It was important and it was good and our program director director Robin Bertolucci swears that's the last time I'll be preempted. Should we hold her to it, But I want to tell you what I did before I tell you what I did. Let's talk about what's coming up in the show. You know, there's so much news about what's going on at the Ellen Show, and I have a little bit of experience myself working for big name television shows, So I have a bit of an insider's view. But I do want to talk. About sort of what is a toxic workplace and and is it really and what we can do about it? I also have a special guest who had an explosive Facebook post this week because she outed another talk show. Host, and so we'll talk a little bit about that. Also this week, our kids are going back to school. I've got some news on their sleep schedules that might raise their test scores in also have a listener, friend, follower. We're going to get into that what that means in a minute. Who is recovering from Kobe 19. He is going to join us and new data on singles in America more than half of single people in America. Say they don't even want a relationship. Let's explore using my lens of evolutionary psychology. Okay, if you knew to my show, I am Dr Wendy Walsh. I have a PhD in clinical psychology. I'm also a professor of health psychology at Cal State Channel Islands, and I'm very interested in the intersection of love. And our health and our relationships. Whether those relationships between be between our family members and parenting relationships are workplace relationships. And, of course, our primary attachment figures. So because I work on a Sunday whenever I have a Sunday off, the first thing I'd do is behave like a normal person and go away for the weekend. And as you know, I've been taking all kinds of crazy car trips, visiting friends on land and farms and ranch in various states. In the last few months, so I decided to head up the five To go to Oregon again to visit a friend, South Oregon and I got us Faras San Francisco That's on Leah's faras I got but before I tell you what happened. Have you guys been to San Francisco lately? Oh, my goodness. Brooke, Producer broker you with me? Do you know what's going on in San Francisco right now? I don't know that I do. Besides that. It's now raining snowy ash. Yeah, another the tennis fires everywhere. Well, I was there just before the fires. But in my opinion, it looked like a post apocalyptic ghost town. I went there to visit my daughter and because she's a millennial, I couldn't actually see her in indoor space. So we're walking around the city in the evening going to get food and ice cream and just being outside and because all the tech companies closed The towers are empty and dark. Everybody had left And then because of the protests, many of the stores just stayed boarded up. In fact, I was looking for a Walgreens. I'll tell you why in a minute and I could not find everything was boarded up. It looked like literally a ghost town and lovely homeless gentleman suggested that I just go knock on the boarded up door over there and I'm like, Are you sure? And I'm like knocking on all boarded up windows and doors thinking this is crazy, and a security guard opens and there's a full on Walgreens going on in there, and you couldn't tell from the street. It was just dark. And so then we walked. Ah! You know, through she lives in Haynesville Hayes Valley. I think I don't know San Francisco, but we go and by City hall huge tent cities because what has been left as all the working people vacated are sadly more homeless people than you could imagine. It makes Venice look like light homeless light and I live in Venice. So let me tell you and then There was so much police activity. I got to tell you. I saw a police officer moments after he was attacked by a young man and I watched him in the back of the ambulance having his head bandaged up and blood flowing. I watched super polite police officers take this man into custody. Yes, he was black and I watched 20 people with cell phone cameras aimed at the cops the whole time, And I was just like, Oh, my gosh. How does anybody get their job done? How does anybody I mean? There's so much stress with the remaining people. All of City Hall is a tent city all around there now. So just be thankful we live in L. A in Southern California. At least we have space and the fires aren't as bad and our thoughts go out to our friends and family and loved ones who live in Northern California because it's a wild show right now. So why didn't I make it? Oregon? Well, I got to San Francisco. I was chewing on some gum, and my crown came out like, you know, something that was probably put in 30 years ago. I don't know. It just popped out. Well, you would think Pop it back in, Wendy. Keep on go in. No, no, no, It was the whole thing. When I tried to put it back in it just crushed and fell apart and added exposed Nerve. Hot, sensitive, cold, sensitive air sensitive. I couldn't eat. I couldn't drink couldn't breathe. So I got on the phone trying to leave messages with, like emergency dentists in Oregon and course nobody got back to me. So I got up the next morning and drove back. But I have to tell you I don't live a life like you guys. Sunday is normally not my alof. I get to run my errands on times like, you know, Monday morning at 11. I'm at Costco Tuesday morning at 10 when everybody else is in the office normally, right, so I don't have a sense off What weekend driving. Is in southern California. So I start heading down the hot five and I say hot, It was 122 degrees. My thermostat read on my car and at certain points, the five I was in a total dead stop. I mean nothing but desert and brown farmland everywhere, 18 wheelers and me And like, why We're three hours out of l. A why, with its Sunday afternoon traffic It took me In San Francisco to L. A. You ready on a Sunday 11 hours to get home 11 hours..
Los Angeles County church set to defy court order, hold indoor service
"Today in defiance of a court order. California Court of Appeals set aside a lower court ordered yesterday that would have allowed endorse services at Grace Community Church. The appellate court ruling temporarily halt indoor services. A hearing is set for September 4th, and Newsweek is apologizing for running an opinion
First cruise ship sets sail in Mediterranean since pandemic’s start
"Test today so they could set sail in what is being billed as the first Mediterranean cruise. After Italy's pandemic walked down, the cruise was limited to 70% capacity, but the cruise ship company Declined to say how many passengers were actually on board. We'll take your forecast and a problem
Miami - Isaias Moving Slowly North-Northwestward Just Offshore East-Central Florida Coast
"Weeks, and Florida's East Coast is getting heavy rain from tropical storm ideas. The National Hurricane Center said the storm was strengthening slightly this evening, crawling about 65 miles east of 65 miles off the east coast of central Florida. At about 400 miles south of Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. A sustained winds have been around 70 miles per hour this evening and expected to track up or just off the Eastern seaboard early
Marines call off search for 8 missing military members
"The mission to save a military team off the coast of Orange County has changed. Military officials have called off the search for seven Marines and one sailor more than half a mile off the coast of San Clemente, as the eight service members are presumed dead. Colonel Christopher Bronzy says efforts have turned into a recovery operation and search and rescue will continue to search for the missing Marines and sailors. A rescue effort had been going on since Thursday, when the military team from Camp Pendleton's amphibious assault vehicle sank during a training exercise and went missing. Rob Newton can
The Brain-Boosting Benefits of Exercise with Ryan Glatt
"Welcome to the broken brain podcast I'm your host. Droop ruin and each week by team, and I bring on a new guest who rethink can help you improve your brain help feel better and most importantly live more. This week's guest is Ryan. Ryan is a personal trainer and brain health coach with over a decade of experience in the health and fitness industries. He currently works alongside clinicians and researchers to study the facts of cognitively. Enhanced and comprehensive exercise plants at the Pacific Brain Health Center, here in Lovely Santa Monica California Ryan constantly seeks to learn about the health neuroscience, research and Practical Strategies both health coaching and personal training in context, which is why we brought him here, Ryan has pursued education from aiming clinks the brain I training institute, the Neuroscience Academy that Kaddoumi for brain, health and performance and many other places. He's currently enrolled in. In a Master's applied neuroscience program at King's College of London, he actively consults with companies who leverage exercise for brain health and educates and fitness professionals with the first course to comprehensively address exercise and brain health called the brain health trainer, course talk more about that later on in which he's educated over a thousand health and fitness Professionals Ryan welcome to the brain podcasts. Thanks for having me drew and you also. And people really loved it. That's we've set the intention. We did a documentary by the way. If anybody hasn't hasn't watched that documentary before a broken bring to. Click on the show notes. We'll make it available for anybody who hasn't seen, and you can sign up and check it out and see some of Ryan's recommendations. rebuilt on today's conversation so. We set out the intention when we first did that interview that we wanted to do an interview for the podcast. I'm glad it happened at the first interview that I'm doing in person in the world of. Semi Corentin and social distancing so Thank you for coming into the office. It's an honor. Thanks for having me so I wanNA start off with something which is I want to talk about dance? DANCE REVOLUTION So tell US anybody who doesn't know what it is. Tell us what it is, and why he became passionate about. Yeah, so dance dance. Revolution is a video game. It's an extra game. Extra Games are things that incorporate. And Gaming And or active video games it was followed by the success of like Nintendo. We for instance that became very popular dance dance. Revolution's interesting because it was popularized when I was a kid. Probably before that I think in the eighties and nineties, and it's essentially a game where you're controller is a pad that you stand on in the middle is you're standing place? You have an Arrow pointing forward pointing backwards to left and went to the right. There's arrows coming up from the bottom of the screen, and you have this answer key at the top. Top with those different directionally facing arrows, and it's to music, and it was a Japanese video game developed by Nami, and it was super popular in Arcades at home on the playstation, two and I grew up as a very overweight sedentary kid I had a pretty severe concussion in preschool, and so that created some concussion induced adhd so I was addicted to video games, and I think I would then have met the criteria for video game addiction now, which is like it wasn't every day, but it was like four hours a day of video gaming. into early call of duty before it was like an e sports thing so if I kept on it, I could probably been pretty well right now. Playing golf duty but I actually came across the home version of dance dance revolution when I was a kid in high school, actually no middle school early middle school and I lost a lot of weight playing that in my living room and it got me into. That got me to lose weight and it was motivating had all the elements we might talk about being important for an exercise program that is sensitive to brain health. And then it got me into the gym, and when I was in high school I joined a gym across from my high school, started weightlifting, watching personal trainers, we can go into that later, but essentially kick-started my personal health, an interest in fitness, and with that fitness that is cognitively enhanced meaning that I wasn't on an exercise bike, watching the news or staring into space I was cognitively engaged in that program since then dance dance revolution has been present. Among a lot of research context and neuro rehabilitation in older adults. It's not really that accessible anymore. You can't just get it off the shelf as much as you could. Previously, but it's really paved the way for a whole industry of active video gaming extra gaming. And it has spun off also clinical or serious extra gaming games that are used for health and clinical contexts such as some of the solutions. We use it the Pacific Brain Health Center. For the listeners who are like way, why are we starting the conversation video game? This all make sense so you know in reading about your story and getting a chance to get to know you over the last year, or so as we've been introduced by our mutual friend, Dr Shawn Patel who's a regenerative medicine doctor here in Los Angeles who's been on the podcasts before linked to that. I got a chance to see how your struggle as child especially with weight fitness and being sedentary. You found something you found something that created joy inside of you, and that's actually really related to a big part of what you teach right now we'll start off with the basics and we'll talk about what brain health coaches and some of the science of it, but you found something passionate that you that got you excited to move. Move something that you enjoyed and I. think that such an important thing as simple as it sounds. This video game was the thing that got started. That was ultimately the thing that starting your journey down this pathway of understanding the power of really what exercise can do for the brain, so let's start there. Let's start off with the basics you know. We've done so many episodes on the power of exercise, but as a refresher. Tell US why exercise is so important and what it does for the brain. Yeah, and there's been an explosion of research and media coverage about this I. Like to say that the mainstream popularity around exercise. The brain was really kick started by the book spark by Dr John Radi ever grateful for the work. He's done in popularizing that and twenty eighteen, the second most popular Ted Talk. In that year was Dr Wendy Suzuki talking about exercise in the brain and a lot of mainstream coverage, and you know in New, York Times and medium covering on boosting these posts on exercising, the brain has become very popular, and that's amazing, because it's also jumping on the kind of. The coattails of neural plasticity research showing that the brain can change. I think this audience has been very well presented that information right we to our brains were fixed. We were taught in high school. They have a certain amount of brain cells. Will Never. It's all downhill from there and it turns out. That's not true exactly. Neuro plasticity, so the brain's ability to functionally or structurally change. In response to experiences,
Los Angeles - 21-Acre Brush Fire Burns Inside Irvine Regional Park, No Injuries Reported
"Well, a brush fire has scorched 21 acres in orange. It took about 100 fire fighters to stop the fire from further spreading inside Irvine Regional Park. The Orange County Fire Authority got the call around 12 30 this afternoon when the fire was just a acre and 1/2. Officials say the park remain closed and all animals are safe
One Idea: Replace Confederate Statues With Britney Spears
"A petition that demands Confederate monuments in Louisiana be replaced by statues of Britney spears is gaining some momentum nearly twenty three thousand people have signed up to support the move a change dot org petition says putting up statues of Britney spears would honor an actual hero who has donated to numerous hurricane Katrina relief funds and supports flood recovery programs Louisiana has almost three dozen Confederate
NASCAR vows to do better job on racial injustice
"NASCAR paused before today's Cup race at Atlanta motor speedway to acknowledge the country's social unrest the governing body vowed to do a better job of addressing racial injustice in the wake of George
CDC 'really let the country down' on COVID-19 testing, says White House adviser Peter Navarro
"White House trade adviser Peter Navarro says the CDC let the country down early on in the fight against cold at nineteen not only did they keep the testing within the bureaucracy they had a bad testing that did set us back Navarro says testing is the biggest
Mayor De Blasio Says New York City Will Not Reopen Beaches For Memorial Day Weekend
"New York City mayor bill de Blasio says the city's beaches will remain closed for Memorial Day today's announcement comes just two days after New York governor Andrew Cuomo announced the state's benches beaches excuse me what we open for the upcoming holiday
Vice President Pence, task force members isolate after virus exposure
"An aide to vice president pence has tested positive for culvert nineteen pence is self isolating he has repeatedly tested negative since being exposed last week three members of the White House coronavirus task force are in quarantine because they were exposed to pence's aid Dr Anthony Fauci CDC chief Robert Redfield and the head of the FDA Steven Hahn will be working from home for the next
3.3-Magnitude Quake Strikes Chatsworth, Los Angeles, Area
"The earthquakes have rattled the San Fernando Valley area the first quake struck in Chatsworth around three twenty this morning with a three point three magnitude the second quake with a magnitude of three point two struck the same area around two forty five this
Official resigns after throwing cat during online meeting
"A city official in the bay area has apologized for what went down on a zoom call Vallejo planning commissioner Chris Platzer has resigned after city officials said he threw his pet cat and drink a beer during a teleconference meeting that was available to the public witnesses say plots are announced I'd like to introduce my cat and then picked up the pet before suddenly tossing the animal off screen city officials say he was also heard making derogatory remarks after the online meeting had ended according to the times Herald plots or send an email to the newspaper announcing he's stepping down and apologizing for his behavior his resignation comes just days before the city council was set to consider a resolution removing him
"dr wendy" Discussed on Blue Roads
"Welcome to the blue roads change maker PODCAST. I'm Patty Talbot. Ceo and CO founder of Blue Roads Education Group in this series. You'll enjoy hearing from amazing. Change Makers Solution Aries and social innovators who have taken the path from local citizen to global change maker by working to change the system that creates the world's most challenging issues. We structure these interviews around the Blue Road. Slogan homegrown solutions for a patch won't world and ask participants to tell us about their origins their work to address issues in their communities. How they've engaged with others different from themselves and how they used these experiences to make the leap to change makers addressing the UN Sustainable Development Goals as their host. I try hard to take myself out of the conversation as much as possible so you won't notice that typical back and forth of the interview process. Help this will help you to hear their stories complete narrative that addresses all four quadrants of the blue roads. Change maker journey homegrown solutions for a patchwork world in today's episode. We hear from Dr Wendy ECHINACEA About Her work to address homelessness for youth throughout the New River valley and the South Western part of Virginia where we both live. I was fortunate to work with Dr Atkins Rod for a number of years at Radford University. And I've been really excited to learn that she has established the foundation to work towards solutions for unaccompanied youth. It's a situation that she knows personally as she found herself homeless for a time during her own teenage years. Listen to her story. And how she's using her homegrown. Beginning to fuel her solutions for our patchwork world.
Michelle Obama, Oprah, more joined an epic (virtual) party
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"You have Dr Wendy Walsh back with you. Lots of new followers on Instagram at Dr Wendy Walsh. And the one that I'm about to follow back right now is called creature Smith three one one. And he is a his name is David W Smith sculptor mask maker and make up artist, and he does creature makeup and his Instagram is so creepy an interesting visually fun creature Smith three one one thanks for following. If you wanna follow me, it's at Dr Wendy Walsh. And I'll give you shout out. If I follow you back. Okay. So let's go back to the sex ratio that changes. So we know that more male babies are born, but more of them die for all kinds of reasons. Here's an interesting one events like natural disasters economic hardship have been linked to higher rates of spontaneous abortions of male fetuses and possibly even lower likelihood of conceiving males. Yeah. There's research to back that up. So isn't that interesting? It's like guys we love you. You're really strong. But at the beginning of life, you're a little weakling. In fact, my I had an aunt who was a pediatric intensive care nurse. And when a baby was born severely preemies the first question, they'd ask is is a girl, and they go. Yes, they go. Thank goodness. She'll live can you imagine? But here's the good news because so many male start to die off. And the what happens at the last part of life is you get left with a population of much more robust males in the later population. So dude, if you're here and you're over sixty you aren't robust, okay. You got all the way through. That's the good news. The bad news is we're talking about mating. Marketplace's I mentioned that for young women right now, there's an oversupply of successful women. It doesn't mean that they're physically more women. It's just that when women get more education and women make more money. There's something called the George Clooney. Effect that sociologists have coined which is that women who are successful want to marry a guy who's more successful than them who might be a little older wiser richer. That's why they call it the George Clooney effect because who doesn't wanna marry George Clooney, right? And so what ends up happening is there. Not enough of those guys to go around and plenty of women need to learn that if you wanna power man, a guy who can power a stroller, by the way little side rail track. I'm sorry, go off on a sidetrack every once in a while because I think of something I was at an art exhibition last night in Santa Monica, and I noticed a lot of bulky bearded males carrying tiny newborn babies. It was so cute and just in their arms. No, baby. Bjorn no carrier. No do doesn't need that. Just hold him in the bicep, so cute. I love PDF's public. Displays of fatherhood all very good. All right moving up. So we know why there are more men, but what age does it cross over? So later in life women who are looking for mates again have a harder time because there tend to be more women just in the population in general because women live longer were healthier, right? And he, you know for those who think that marriage is about till death. Do us part, and it starts early in life, and you stay together in one monogamous relationship for your lifespan. You know, there are a few human beings who do that? But most do not, you know, this idea of a modern nuclear family was really a new fangled invention because when we roamed the planet as hunter gatherers we practice cooperative reading where we had aunties uncles. Cousins brothers sisters, the whole family helping out with every baby. And yes, there was monogamy. Yes. Men hung around until the baby got up on its feet and was doing well in sometimes people liked each other so much they had another baby, but it was really about farming. When you needed these populations of labor where we kind of came up with this nuclear family idea. So across the lifespan, they're always humans who are single and looking for mates because when till death do us part was invented death was pretty imminent and now people separate by divorce rather than death. But it's all the same thing. Right. So what is the magic age where there's an even number of men and women. Here's what the researchers say it's been going up and right now that magic age is fifty eight in America. They looked at seven different countries. Fifty eight is the age where we have equal amount men and women the mating marketplace should be pretty even at that point. And for those who think that all older men like younger women, I wanna remind you that peers are attracted to peers across the lifespan mostly because of the common references, and you know, one third of men over fifty may have sexual function issue. So the last thing they're going to be doing is running around with a thirty year old, and it's more. The intimacy is the companionship. Hip that becomes the glue? It's the shared stories of life. So I do believe if you are a woman of a certain age and think that all the men of your age, go younger than this is a belief system. That's become your self fulfilling prophecy because that's not actually true. And that's not what the research shows. So after age fifty eight we start to have more and more women, and fewer and fewer month men. Now, the interesting thing is this number has been going up. Why hasn't been going up? It used to be not so long ago in the forties where we had fifty fifty and it's because men are healthier part of healthcare is part of it, and we are reducing infant mortality. So those poor sickly little boy babies were saving their lives, which is a good thing. And interestingly enough, the countries studied who had the highest sex ratio crossover rate, which is where men and women are equal numbers in the. The population and tended to be Scandinavian countries. Why again, well, I would also add to it. Besides the great free health care for all that when women can fairly extract resources from the environment stress for men goes down men live longer because they're not being killed by these stress related diseases on the other hand women are also dying younger because of it because women are now starting to get the kinds of diseases that men had all right? So things can happen to affect a population and affect a meeting. Marketplace I mentioned things like natural disasters at cetera and also jobs if there's an industry that needs more males people will move there needs more females as what's happening in New York City because we're in the information age now, and that's the center of media and communications also, let's consider China's one child policy, right? It was designed to control population growth, which is really interesting because it's one of the few countries that try to control population growth by limiting couples to only one child most other countries just give out contraception contraceptives, southern contraception. I got it. Give condoms and birth control pill, right, but not China. No, China had a very extreme example of population planning, and it started in nineteen seventy nine and just prior to that they had a two child policy then in the nineteen eighties. And I actually remember this because it was in the news. They started to allow rural. Parents a second child. Listen to this. If the first one was a daughter like, oh, you lose. We'll we'll let you try one more time. Maybe you can get a boy. But here's what happened because of that women because the one child policy women were more likely to terminate a pregnancy if it was female, and they will get on planes if it's not allowed in their place. Trust me women will always find a way to terminate a pregnancy. If the time isn't right if there's a reason, and if the reason in China is that women can't make as much money in daughters are giant liability than they tend to abort female fetuses. And as a result now in China you've got. This oversupply of young males. And not all of them are going to be able to mate. When we come back. Let us talk about men manhood and mating and why we can't all be alpha males. We can't all have alpha males and how to men negotiate around this. You are listening to the doctor Wendy Walsh show on KFI AM, six forty Larry Pearl has the news for us. 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"dr wendy" Discussed on KFI AM 640
"KFI AM six forty you have Dr Wendy Walsh with you. And we are talking about Saint Patrick's Day and why the Irish seemed to have such a high prevalence of mental and physical illness. And you know, I teach psychology of health counseling at California State University Channel Islands go dolphins. And one of the things that I teach my students is that we have gone past health being just a biological event or a mind body connection. That's certainly part of it. But we now look at health as a bio psycho social model, meaning that health habits are contagious among social groups both positive and negative health habits and that. That there are some intergenerational transmission of trauma that can affect us biologically. So we look at EPA genetics. We look at EPA genetic changes. Now little reminder of folks about the great potato famine as it was known. Did you know that during the great potato famine, the potato there was a potato root rot thing problem people starve to death, but the Irish were like futile farmers. They were like slave farmers, and they were sending all the good stuff over to England to the crown. So there was actually good food growing there and some of that beef, but it went over to England. So during the great potato famine. So we started out there were. Eight. The population was eight million people one million people died of the famine two million people left. They got down to five million and continue to go down that was sort of in the five year period of the famine itself and the population continued to decline for another decade today all the way up in the two thousands. The population of Ireland is only climbed back to four point seven million. So it it really affected for a very very long time. So the most common theory when we talk about the mental and physical health problems is called the EPA Janet EPA genetic changes that arose because of the great famine interesting this Irish historian. I don't know if it was a a male or female because I don't know the pronunciation of this Irish name the first name sounds like. O N H E H. Someone tell me when the last name I could pronounce really easily Walsh, see good Irish historian named Walsh. Ona Walsh believes that. This is what happened. There's a she she she believes the nutritional deprivation endured by the Irish during the potato famine, let's eighteen forty five to eighteen fifty two was so extreme that it actually caused changes in our genetic expression that led to a higher likelihood of obtaining a mental illness at some point in life. Now, here's how she figured this out. She used Irish census one from eighteen forty one just before the potato famine another nine thousand nine hundred a few years a few decades after the potato famine. So here's what they've in eighteen forty one. The population was eight million people sixteen hundred people or committed to asylums fifteen hundred were in jails now jump forward to the year one thousand nine hundred population was only eight thousand right sorry. I got this all wrong population was four million. It was cut in half. So instead of eight million we're now talking only four million people when we had eight million sixteen hundred were committed to asylums when there's four million in Ireland seventeen thousand we're committed to asylums and eight thousand were considered I'm quoting here lunatics at large. So this indicates a staggering increase in mental illness from before the famine until after now, here's the other second theory paternal age, you know, we've spent a long time complaining about women's eggs, aging eggs causing birth defects. Now, we know that having an older father can also contribute to birth problems. In fact, there's quite substantial links now between our skyrocketing rock skyrocketing rates of autism and paternal age men over the age of forty are much more likely to. To give birth while they won't give birth. Your wife will to a baby who eventually it's diagnosed with autism. So here's the theory about paternal age during the great hunger and higher rate of schizophrenia. So during the nineteenth century, remember Ireland was under British colonialism. And there were these awful poverty laws, and it made it inadvisable for a man to marry before inheriting land from his parents. So he would wait until his parents died before he would get married and this was often when he was in his early fifties. And then he did that smarty pants thing of finding a fertile girl. So he would marry the youngest girl of age that he could possibly find. And so the combination of disparity in age and the increase in sperm mutations of older men increases the possibility of the big spike in schizophrenia who knew and the final and third theory about why Irish have. More rates of mental illness and physical illness. Is culturally. We tend to suppress stuff you see. I'm an outlander. I'm talkin Irish. And I tell all the family secrets they don't actually like it that I talk so much. And that I say why why is this? Why did he do that? What's happening there? What went on in their childhood? So the Irish really have a cultural tendency to suppress issues within sight themselves, which is one of the reasons why so many are so funny. Remember fried said that humor is a defense against psychic pain. So. What I would say if somebody was little crazy in the family is they just say he's away with the fairies. That's all he's just away with the fairies, and they would sort of kind of accepted, and nobody would treat it. And there's a lot of silence that happens in Irish culture. I will tell you when I go back to my family farm. I love you, all you Walsh's. We have three or four generations of Walsh's living on that farm now in PE. I look it up. There are like there's a lot of surface. He talk this lovely surface. He talk about the weather and the potato crop that year and who's doing what at the county fair, and what you're gonna make for the church picnic, but there's not a lot of deep talk. So there's the answer by the Irish are nuts, and I consider myself with it when we come back. I wanna talk a little bit about the high supply sexual Konami and our relationships sexist gotten very pricey. I'll explain you're listening to the doctor Wendy Walsh show on KFI AM, six forty Larry Parral. Do you have the news for us? I do think thanks Dr William man from Missouri accused of throwing these century city mall into chaos on Friday has been arrested. Copsey nNcholas oats started a fire in an Amazon bookstore, then pointed a gun at a store employee when she tried to stop him the mall was then partially evacuated which was arrested in Venice around eight last night. The Venice beach force say they recognize the man sitting at a nearby beach at the boardwalk and took it into custody. The mall was evacuated for more than five hours to. Women have been hurt in a series of explosions in south LA officials say the trouble started with a nine thousand gallon tanker truck leaking fuel LA city fire. Captain, Cody wire eater says one home burned at a manhole cover blew out. We had multiple exposures throughout the area. The firefighters were able to protect and keep those flames at bay. 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"dr wendy" Discussed on KFI AM 640
"KFI AM six forty you have Dr Wendy Walsh with you as usual. You know? I love my Instagram. I'm not great at it, my Instagram page, isn't that pretty, but I love to follow people who have white beautiful artistic Instagram's. And if you follow me on Instagram, and I like your Instagram. I'll give you a shout out on air. So every break, I opened up my Instagram, and I see who's followed. And I check it out. And I always give a shout out to one or two people. So my Instagram at DR, Wendy Walsh at Dr Wendy Walsh. And that's the same for Facebook Twitter, everything across the board. Okay. So let me tell you a story I had a high need baby I had to Heine babies, well, but one in particular, and she was just had so much trouble settling down and going to sleep at night. And I would be up all night walking around and walking around later when she became a young child. She would be up late waking me up over and over crawling in my bed. I can't sleep. I can't sleep and then a certain year into it. I don't know. Maybe she was thirteen fourteen. She discovered something called a s m are now ASMAR stands for a Thomas sensory. Meridian response. That's a made up term. There's no science to it that we know of except it's starting to be studied this phenomenon. And what it is is a. It's videos with soft whispering backpack. Right. And tapping sounds. That's this is me trying to do some harm terrible and in certain people because of their neurological wiring, they get a Tinguely sensation in their body. My daughter describes it that it goes all the way down her spine. She can feel it all the way down her spine. And it gives a deep sense of relaxation. And so she has learned to fall asleep to ASMAR videos. So I've become aware of these ES mar ASMAR videos, the biggest one with the biggest followers. I think her name is a SIM are darling. And she's like a nineteen year old in Florida. Now, they are very PG except for one area of ASMAR. That's four adults. What what how does YouTube know who's finding what? So there's a new controversy because ASMAR practitioners the ones making these videos are becoming younger and younger and younger and some people are getting more than an AS response. They're getting sexual response from them because of the soft breathy voice because of the little tapping and then to top it off these young girls when I say young this one that's in the news right now named McKenna. Kelly. Who's thirteen years old, and she has the makeup. I'm sorry of a porn star false eyelashes full makeup. Big full lips. Bright colored lips long nails tapping away and wis whispering into the Mike. So at the risk of promoting her. She already has like a million three subscribers and is reported to be making a thousand dollars a day in commercials. I want you to understand what it is. In fact, Josh do you have something cute up of her? I think she's trying to run for president in this one. Good. I.