17 Burst results for "Vanessa Grigory Addis"

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

1:25:20 hr | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

01:48 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"If it yours at article okay so here if you are assault and decide that you want to report the incident authorities or your school do not take a shower so you know this idea of evidence right that we were talking about with cops like cops really want evidence otherwise they don't want the case so you know w if you are raped you need to not take a shower you put your clothes from the night before either wear them go to the you know rape crisis center or the hospital um or you know don't go to the police department right away just go to a hospital or something like that take your clothes if you don't wanna wear them in like a paper bag you know this rape kits like this very invasive procedure and it's really about catching like hares wasn't of your fingernails you know like dna of course of a stranger i mean yeah i mean it's you know very serious vice items if this is all his if you just like i never would have no ago don't take a charlotte yes is in my daughters heft but right it's a whole nother that's on me no i mean it's with daughters i think it's like a mix you don't want to scare them to the point where they lose their streets march because they're still scared of everything but you also grason absorbed trump rhetoric will be skiing at world watch area speaking to watch don't don't watch your drink watch what you drink right so you know lots of cases on ru girl will say i was rufi writers annexed or something like that but really they don't like dr so find a lot of evidence of that of course are people who use that to a party or whatever but.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

02:15 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"Will these are really really hard cases to believe so due process great yes everybody should be able to save their peace in everybody should all the boxes should be checked in the should be as much like a court is possible you know i just to be honest looking in a lot of the cases you're like holy moley like i don't know how i would have decided this like i just even eyes sitting here would have no idea if he really did this or not that goes to the police like why the police they said the seattle we're just not grant because it will spend a ton of time ray on our resources in will at the end of the day will threat literally thawra hand so so look i think what you're seeing now is that uh what a lot of women have decided is screw the campus court screw the actual court we're gonna go the kind of ostracism on social media rude or ostracism through the mainstream press of the guys important because like there's a lot of situations like this going on today in small towns with like just like a girl who's sixteen who sang this on social media about this guy or telling the people around her and like these girls feel kind of newly emboldened to be public about it and to say wait a second i am not ashamed that you sexually assaulted me you should be ashamed that you did this thing that was immoral and so you know when i found in colleges is that yes court their college gets they make fun of everything so they do make fun of stuff but at the same time a lot of guys are either like mortally fear in total fear like oh my god i'm going to get accused of this i saw my buddy go down for this or they're really thinking tuna selves okay like well what is the morality remember like college kids love to think about morality they love to stake out really extreme position his right so some of them are like oh maybe there is a new way of dealing with girls like maybe life should be clearer maybe if like a completely wasted girl who can't speak english throws herself at me maybe i'm not a good guy if i like take that to its conclusion as mary i maybe that's not a cool thing to do this.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

02:02 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"So you start to lose and you also plug led to her about moral compass like it's like yeah i can do it over the fuck i wanted to do today and nobody is going to meet jamus winston you talked a lot about an may jameis winston his role in and i don't know what happened or didn't happen and i don't want to judge on it but he's rolling around campus like the fuck out on my way here i come right back that right i mean in that's says look not that michael i talk about michael phelps fulltime yeah loves swimming but it if michael phelps backup i mean look at a guy like uh was the fellow ryan lac de at the at the act semi at the olympic village rash imagine the olympic villages like the most that the hottest sex seen in the world oh idiots all i never heard it here for olympic village going up those kids go to the olympics instead the village eighty on mmhmm like okay so look hey it's gone away for naval i'll think about us and expose of your wall but it's it's it's like a campus rant in a a guy like lock to your phelps or whoever it is a hussain bolt he's gonna roll through their like was up rapid fire with time yeah hair yeah i asked arman room number whatever uh you know what we are easy to about getting in the books this whole idea of title nine and it goes back to the two emma from is lumbia here like i was that title nine was like a this is a true story i until this morning i thought title nine was just about sports like okay grant if you have boy sports than you also have to have girl sports writer unlike while because in the nineties that was the big thing that everybody talked about it and let it's not in netted him off as the answer uses title nine as a boy right right right well conversion that is supposed to be about gender parity ray with like like i mean in the university everything has to be equal which of course we known sports it's not really but like this idea that he would have the.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

01:50 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"I'm sort of incentive incentivize system a bonus system that trust hey you come you play you graduate you get this right and so you can't get motivates them to stay in school etcetera there but it's not fair the way it is today because because you know then they do look for the 100dollar handshakes rather than they do look for the free sex race or the part you know that's the probably still look for the free sex balanced we start paying them right right right but then they could take somebody did dinner and have a nice indeed and bring you know flowers and be like you know i'm up all are i mean i'm a ball or is a different mindset then like i have an unpaid scrub here but these girls are you know these girls are my prize lake that's a different but i mean do you think you know there's been a lot of like discussion of like well is there just something about these guys he's football guys and college that just makes them they are just aggressive through and through so they're sexually aggressive as well and it's about the support itself were you in in this book at the end of the book you've thirteen sort of the guidelines for kids and then you have guidelines for the schools but in one of the guidelines for the kids is beware of like the the mmm the ultra you know the alpha male base yeah but athletes look i uh i've been at the at the top of my sport have been at the top of the world and i know what that feels like and in but if you're for example if you're university alabama nearer uh the starting quarterback or the beginning of the the you know a tight end is going to be the number one draft pick i mean you roll around that campus like you are elvis presley or or johnny depp or frank sinatra whoever like.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

01:47 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"I'm a celebrity on campus in these girls like me and if i'm who crude i'm going to make sure i get wade when i you know which which college which college am i going to pit i'm in a big villa but do i but i mean well alight haulage had this view asked messages for people to hang on i just wanna because i don't because while i'm sure and i know that that happened i think it you you know know football is not the holy place i mean it could be the swim team the lacrosse team than ever when they delays at all about when they do you do studies they find that it really is the football and basketball teams like that the swam in the cyclists than people draw metals narrowly trains that it's good that the you know that really like i dunno i would just ask you is an athlete like what do you think should happen like is there a way to make those college football players into professionals who then have their own money where they don't have to be in like some skin key weird condo and they could like be like okay i'm a professional and those who we heard we've had we've had this discussion on the podcast before it out you know my views that if you are generating more revenue than than the nhl and we're about to see this as we get into national championship season mean you the energy in the amount of people there in the amount of merging the amount of revved all of this stuff this system as it exists today cannot continue this is bullshit these kids are are are a risk risking their we net then you get all had often who you know you can't just say hey guys thanks for plan here's your degree there has to be but there are also you can't say okay you guys get a ten thousand dollars a week or or whatever in other so.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

02:12 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"While story from louisville would be no and i mean yeah i mean that's a crazy story but when these recruits come in like they have to be entertained van and as not at oliseh check out the last movie or should have your out hey there's a pizza party in the that ornament earlier i write that her like learns a hot girl laura across right exactly so w over and over and over you see these situations where you know clearly like first of all there's always like a recruited involved on these nights when they end up having these like gang rapes which are some police in between you know they start kind of like a semi consensual thing like if you really look at those stories and you really talked to the women you find that like yes you're talking about women there may not be the top line cheerleaders but they're on some sort of pep rally in there the good time girls and their hanging out with the guys and our hanging out with recruits and one of the players kind of talks the girl into having like a threesome with a recruit and the player and then it kinda to digital he's right in a girl but she's kind of into it but he might not be but she she's into a you know enough that like you wouldn't call that necessarily rape rate but then like this is what happened in the golden first case rate uh will remember when they were protesting and say we're not gonna go to the holiday bowl than than they did because once they saw the details of the case they were like oh this is pretty bad but like you know so there's maybe a consensual situation there right but then the player like goals and tax all his friends and his like y'all got this mitch in this room the come on in like we're going to pull a train on this girl and you know this is to me like really when you look at it like kind of extraordinary that you have college football which is making more revenue than like the nhl now ray he's so important and these players are not getting paid right they're not really going a college yet they know that sachs's part of the public part of is the park right.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

02:02 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"Like there are some liars and they're out there and we can't pretend that doesn't exist though fit but you know believe women first is not a bad place to be because if your friend come see you and says the sky reefs to me or sexually assaulted me you know colleges are really click he places and a lot of times girls friends were liked oh my god i can't believe this but then a few days later is like why did you really do taxed at him this weird thing and he's like on the football team and in this fraud that i hang out at all the time and his friend say he didn't do this and like i don't want to be kinda ostracised and a lot of those girls were ending up like really feeling like social pariahs that they should never have said anything and they get super depress 'cause they're nineteen a freak out about everything at nineteen and then they're like two prosser going home mediation go back to college and really screws people up a surreal syria royal known we had a girl uh front of it ran in our circle that went to the oversee texas in and you write about this new newlook word this that is the really the prime time for that a lot of this to take place in she was she was raped yes and she was never the same the was equipped aquit college came home in in was just a different person like rat valley ranch fight thoughts of things is that this is like really syria this is in iran gotta graduate high school 1989 so this is in 1990 uh and i just remember in my head and i didn't nobody asked nobody knew but i was like she must have been walking down and alley and got got raped by homeless guide but it was probably rob address who was out of rt rattling king partying having fun i am yes some what what we do now is like our can't we discuss our this consent in everything so blurry in public law but like the passed out girl the steubenville idea right look the past out girl who maybe somebody isn't have like you know it.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

02:02 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"Raymond and now it's all its whether you would he had cut acquaintance ray ape or something like that because they're saying while are they really on a date no they just like talk to each other at a party rate um but that kind of situation like you know this person said to me like the cops who are in who were the detectives were dealing with that those are the true artists in the department 'cause you're looking at not a lot of evidence weird sex since things may have gone on between people a lot of times the next day you know a lot of victims genuine victims the next day will call the guy and say he i want to talk to you something i fuel you know i kind of had a good time all saying put something happened i didn't feel right about can we try to work it out and boom you know a defense attorney has that that's like the end you know and of the game right at all i had a good time but you know give me a break so if a com in the legal system i mean we all know this riot it's heart like the legal systems weird and hard and it's hard to get justice for a lot of stuff and there's a lot of stuff that happens in america that's not moral that also doesn't rise to being a crime and so my argument in this book is basically that like while some of these things are not crimes and wall yes in some cases we are talking about like shades of sexual kit that are like you know maybe we'll make some people uncomfortable right like the nave of the neck kislyak cetera in some cases what we really have to accept is that you know women are just really tired of being treated like sex objects of be having their like you know main kind of power come from their sex appeal from feeling like they can't get ahead in the workplace from revealing all of these different right like they feel like you know look the all rate will say well.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

01:59 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"Or path a waste reiter path than what their parents have taught them or what some people may think us college should be involved in teaching right because this is really about sexual etiquette i mean this is like really mindbending lee weird in some ways that your college that doesn't even like really teach you how to like open a bank account a doesn't teacher merely lifeskills ray teaches you about like the odyssey that are better through as well well i you get is but at the same time here it's doable really yeah yeah exactly i mean parents don't really talk in america very few parents really talk to their kids about sex they assume that the the church is going do that right or the friends are really the ones who step i announced nanka under the rain attention this raves duty me i think the the thing is is that way with the key really to remember is that a lot of stuff that is it la galawa sexual stuff is fine by the court standard ray it like it's really a hard to get somebody to go to jail for rape because over lives says like oh she consented in that it's over reyat nor watch your interview effort at the villas name was on the royal fan yes he added astronaut listened to in washington in you brought up this issue of how the police view these cases these gray cases way guys were together and everybody was happy to be together in the red and there was an okay and the police like we don't want anything to do that rally i was like wow an but i guess if you think it like for them they view those is really hard cases to pursue and to prosecute him to spend time on an i'm like how well they timing they try backing the thing is like somebody said to me who works with cops like the detectives who deal with this kind of de reya pt staff which is what we're talking about andrey what we used called.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

02:02 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"In about or writing about somebody you kind of look at it and you're like oh that's how the sausages made right like this michael wolff thing that's going on robo rawal i mean i have no michael for years i had actually friendly with michael i like michael lot but you know i read a story that he rode in the hollywood reporter last year and was right after the inauguration in he was like i am sitting here with donald trump and i'm here to tell you that donald trump is so patient man he is a smart man he's a man you can trust america really should embrace this man or not what's going on here and then when i read that he had this coming out i was like of course right and he's on the today show saying well i just said would are i had to say to get the story right and i wrote these thing so that trump was leg oh wait a second this is a guy who's in my corner so there's all yeah i wouldn't do that i mean i think that that's a little bit crossing the line rate um but there is yes everybody you know look it's true at the same time that this this thing about sexual assault and harassment is a great reckoning right foreshore entities all good it is also true that there are some people in the mix who are not reliable and there are some stories that are being twisted around un their story people right the uvac or the doj luke zorro fifteen twenty rangel raised or your way you know of course like when you talk about something like you know rape and a college campus by southern students were elites and you know in the duke story there was a racial element raid and this idea of kind of town and get down and you know what are these boys morality what is this boys morality really because what was true was that they were a lacrosse team who hired some strippers and did some not so nice things for the stripper draw they were there so it wasn't that.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

02:01 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"You know we meet look we can have the discussion of donald trump which is an easy one to have an easing went ahead on but and i'm a friend with a friend of bill clinton go back to that story like that's like the original and that's the original yeah big story and everybody should on monica lewinsky in you know now you look back on that you're like oh my god right now mike has had a huge light nail resurrection for sure huzzah you know somebody who was like attacked also by feminist remember like eric tongan all these people were saying like you know what is this cheesy girl with her you know love poetry and heard bad friendships with dumb women at the pentagon who are screaming her later how you know how could somebody who's not clever like this even attractive president's attention right this is no marilyn monroe lake they really put her her they grill you know they put her on the ropes they tried to destroy they try to destroy their sure and you know some of that was political and some of that was just that yeah i think we're just in a different moment and i get in your remember the a you report on the stuff he wrote you wrote wrote a book about you know things like this you right for the new yorker right preventing percy report on these things in my whole life for most of my life has been reported in i don't always like or agree or think that what has been reported is true so i always with everything that i read it could be uh this fake news it it well it it could be it could be war it could be a sports at all you know there's an angle behind you know that there is potentially a communications person behind it who's steering the reporter in a certain way right and there were some off the record or whatever on background information coming from somebody who is the enemy of there's always there it in i mean there's we you know yes when you're in the business of either being somebody who's rich.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

The Forward with Lance Armstrong

01:55 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on The Forward with Lance Armstrong

"Uh i left austin it was sixty seven degrees the game was played in like twenty nine degrees and mike drizzle it was absolutely miserable but it was fun to spend the weekend with my mom and then one of the nights to just a big shout out a big thank you to mark cuban for hooking my son and i up uh with four seats for the and the mavericks game versus the lakers all right last thing before we get to vanessa our survivor of the week this comes in from a felony zach hand cock a bolder zach nominates his mom he says my mother was diagnosed in two thousand ten with stage for breast cancer she faced down the fear that goes with all diagnoses had treatments in editor own special mix of positively through spirituality in what she was putting in her body i e cling food eight years later she's alive and well and committed to helping give compassion and love to people who find themselves on a similar journey just the other day i had heard lance mentioned organization in estes park or my parents for twenty seven years that i've never heard about before and he's from boldy says watt vip suite i'll have to check it out zach thanks for uh for nominating your mom i don't see your moms name and this email otherwise i'd give her shut out but mom good for you and the next time we're up nest as parks in the kids won't be happy make sure to find time to connect uh keeps day and healthy are folks onto vanessa grigory out us her book blurred lines about sexual harassment on college campus in america as the father of three daughters this means a lot check it out zeal next week last thing lasting last last thing send me an email if you have any questions ghana's concerns the forward at we do dot team w e d dean okay now i promise.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on Longform Podcast

Longform Podcast

02:21 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on Longform Podcast

"Those are the kinds of stories that aren't gonna find public funding they're just stories that were awesome to read when you were on a train ride you know but now you can play county crush like now you can look it photos with like everything's going to basically be like a deep capture right one hundred twenty words but you know the real question since we're on the lawn foreign podcast is like what is the future of long form like is there a long form future right now sitting here seeing like all of these editors my friends you know my mentors stepped down i mean this is not a joke these people particularly the editorsinchief they just can't stand the bloodletting anymore they don't wanna have to look half their staffs in the eyes on fire them i really believe that this is like more than anything that's why they're leaving and you know makes me terribly sad because i have tons of friends who are editors who are really at loose ends now you know writers have almost fared a lot better in this system because even if they get paid pennies these can still work for editors you know it's really rough what does it mean for you oh my god i have no idea i mean i think it means that and i have to concentrate on like zell biggest story which is if you don't you trump your nowhere i mean people said to me before i put this book out there were like lower your expectations right now because anything that has come out in two thousand and seventeen that is not connected to trump and the destruction of the world as we know it is nowhere in terms of nonfiction so certainly i can get in on that story you know i've lots of sources that other people don't have that i could milk so i can get somewhere on that but that's basically the question for somebody like me is like okay well what do i do as a journalist from here do i just move forward by being on the trumps and being on whatever the biggest story is and try to like claim my coroner even though they're seven hundred other rabid political journalists like clawing at it i mean that.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on Longform Podcast

Longform Podcast

02:01 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on Longform Podcast

"While it's true although i mean richard johnson did like threatened to rape me and the pages of page six once when i called him a masculine added so it is true that i was called or suit hack and he said that the guy is on page six would take me behind in an alley and show me what's wyatt but they didn't like a woman with a mustache fork so i did have that happen i mean i'm very knowledgeable about you know the ways of pr crisis pr attorneys how big stories get put together like i've written major stories on major scandals like not only like dubious regan and her downfall or the dodgers and their divorce or the divorce of you know chris in tori burge i mean these are stories that involve like you know nine pm calls with people who are being paid six hundred dollars an hour to lie to you on the phone so like i'm knowledgeable about all that and i'm knowledgeable about how you have to defend yourself there was nothing else for me to do except defend myself because i didn't have somebody backing me i did have some offers from different publications to talk to them and put the whole story out there and i turn to those down like because i work at the new york times and i don't want this to be vanessa versus the times 'cause it's not about the times it's about somebody who decided to miss read the book like that's my deeper psychological reading of what's going on is that it comes from the hot tea tradition of the internet which is like i'm smarter than you are not i know this and you don't you're wrong i'm right you know but i'm sorry like in other part of the media are you all.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on Longform Podcast

Longform Podcast

02:04 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on Longform Podcast

"But the big big problem was that she she has a lie in their basically saying that i don't know about this important national reap statistic right so she says i can't believe that somebody could write in entire book about campus rape and not know this okay weird is you get this statistic she looked it up on a website and she looked it up on the website of rain which is like the rape abyss incest a you know a read beauce incest national network which is kind of like nambla right they don't run big a pit him logical studies there an advocacy group there are secondary source so she's like i can't believe he doesn't know about reign why does you not know about this rain statistic and i was like do you wanna look at the three pages in the actual book where i discuss yours statistic under the correct name so you know i was frantically trying to explain this and somehow in my explaining she convinced somebody to change that line two i'm not sure how anybody could write in entire book about campus rape and not wreck khin with this so that was losing earlier visited online while you were were right well they told me okay you're going to get a corruption i said can i see the gretchen no or whatever nobody robot to me so there is no answer to that reco amuses are sitting in this like hotel bossano that was ten days later the correction happened now i'm sitting in his hotel room i'm like what the hell is going to relent go with you all wound us like i was call my publisher and there were like oh you saw it and i was like yeah i saw it were you guys gonna tell me and they're like you said you didn't wanna know about the review and i was like this because they know merged showed see like this isn't just like i have my feelings are heard this is like mao.

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"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on Longform Podcast

Longform Podcast

01:46 min | 3 years ago

"vanessa grigoriadis" Discussed on Longform Podcast

"True although the feminists internet has not really acknowledged the book as much as you would expect partially because there are some ideas in it that i think just are not either not interesting to them or run contrary to what they need to say or you know the other reality is you know what they're so much bigger fish to fry right now like we have like a sexual assault hurt in office like betsy devos has just like blown up the campus like sexual assault court system by two weeks earlier molecular regrets yes like i mean she has ruins the lives of people who are genuine rape victims tell me if this sounds when curious sort of like you a couple of years ago pitch this book that like you knew would be cut of controversial certainly it up but was trying to get at an idea that you thought had more nuance then the conversation was allowing right exactly civil four when i saw the buck right i had just went in there and might suckle let's story a and is what like twenty twenty four yet tommy right i like twenty that thing that people don't get about bookwriting is that like you sell a book it doesn't come out for three years later and those three years might involve like a self identified sexual assault or to be presented states right yeah no no who could have foreseen i had no idea i mean to me this was gonna be like the great feminist book about sexual assault that was going to ask some additional probing questions new was always position as a book.

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