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"trent taylor" Discussed on The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"Lisa. I am so glad. We invited trent to be on the podcasts. As we say so often hear that we really value stories from lived experience and specifically when trent talked about that feeling of being frozen and he said i wanted to comply. But my body was just frozen you know. His body was having kind of a sub-conscious response to something had triggered him from something from his past. And i just think it's so compelling to to hear stories of kids who remember what it's like to be a child from early adversity and can give us can voice that inner experience I remember as a child just being so out of my mind around silly things like chores and and having these big rages and but there's still this little tiny part of you just wanted someone to give me a hug. And of course. I was shut up in my room to figure it out until i could be normal and respectable income down in all of this things and there were tools really to help parents understand that. But but i do. I remember those experiences of kind of feeling misunderstood in my behavior. So i really appreciate trends voice and hearing him share his experience. I think it just helps grow our compassion as parents as we parent kids with challenging behaviors. Yeah i really enjoyed visiting with trenches great talking with him in person and great. Doing this interviews. Well you know. He has a lot to offer to our community. So for those of you who are interested in learning more about trent. You can find him on his website which is watch me rise. Nine one nine dot org. He's also the author of two books shattered. No more and battling the invisible enemy see. You can find information about those as well and i think he mentioned in the interview that he and his mom do a podcast called. Watch me rise. So there are lots of places to engage with trent. You can find all of this information of course in today's show notes which you'll find it the adoption connection dot com slash. One forty seven before you go with love to connect with you on social media. You can find us on instagram as the adoption connection for better yet join our free facebook community at the adoption connection dot com slash facebook. Thanks so much for listening. We love having you and remember. You're a good parent doing good work. The music for the podcast is called new day and was created by lee roosevelt..
The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"trent taylor" Discussed on The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"Lisa. I am so glad. We invited trent to be on the podcasts. As we say so often here that we really value stories from lived experience and specifically when trent talked about that feeling of being frozen and he said i wanted to comply. But my body was just frozen you know. His body was having kind of a sub-conscious response to something that had triggered him from something from his past. And i just think it's so compelling to to hear stories of kids who remember what it's like to be a child from early adversity and can give us can voice that inner experience I remember as a child just being so out of my mind around silly things like chores and and having these big rages and but there's still this little tiny part of you just wanted someone to give me a hug. And of course. I was shut up in my room to figure it out until i could be normal and respectable income down in all of this things and there were tools really to help parents understand that. But but i do. I remember those experiences of kind of feeling misunderstood in my behavior. So i really appreciate trends voice and hearing him share his experience. I think it just helps grow our compassion as parents as we parent kids with challenging behaviors. Yeah i really enjoyed visiting with trenches great talking with him in person and great. Doing this interviews. Well you know. He has a lot to offer to our community. So for those of you who are interested in learning more about trent. You can find him on his website which is watch me rise. Nine one nine dot org. He's also the author of two books shattered. No more and battling the invisible enemy so you can find information about those as well. And i think he mentioned in the interview that he and his mom do a podcast called. Watch me rise. So there are lots of places to engage with trent. You can find all of this information of course in today's show notes which i find it the adoption connection dot com slash. One forty seven before you go with love to connect with you on social media. You can find us on instagram as the adoption connection for better yet join our free facebook community at the adoption connection dot com slash facebook. Thanks so much for listening. We love having you and remember. You're a good parent doing good work. The music for the podcast is called new day and was created by lee roosevelt..
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"trent taylor" Discussed on The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"Do you need what you need to feel safe. And if they are not certain you know give him a couple of choices Open you want closed and just be no even if it doesn't make sense to you make sense to the child and that's all you need to know and it makes the child feel safe. The just didn't do it. You know if it's a something that's gonna it. It's not a big deal and it's not going to impede your ability to function. Just let it happen. Because that's what builds attachment trust and sense of safety First time in our life that my voice matters and that i will be safe in. There are people who truly care about me and what i have to say so your faith has been a big part of your healing journey as well. Do you wanna share a bit about that. Of course so thankfully. I always been close to god. My whole journey through foster care. You know basically my whole life because you know. Most of my frustrations were religious. And that knowing that. And knowing that god had a plan for me and that you know because that he was the one consistent thing in my life he was the one thing i knew would never leave the hurt me. He was the thing that i could cling onto hope. And that's what i did throughout my whole journey through foster care i just would pray. Pray that know sunday. Some day i would have a family of my own. And you know what my prayers were answered at the age Brother and i were adopted and Once i had that dog tag with that verse that really you know really me that god does have applied for me on that. God can take things that have been broken damaged intern of descending so beautiful and we are all made new in christ in we are all made perfectly in his image and honestly i would not have been able to heal. I would not be why. And today if he if without him you know he is. What scotney this far. My life us helped me overcome so much you know and lately you know even years before a at a young age i would just call out. Say god whatever your will is my life. Whatever you want me to do. I would do it. My guess is on the table. Help make it clear. I will obey to invest in my ability because you have got this far and all. I wanted to glorify you and share. You know my story to give you glory because this is his story is not mine. You know. I'm just along for the ride that he is allowed me to be on. That's wonderful well thank you so much. Do you want to tell us just a little bit more about your organization. Of course so near is is it support. Ministry won't be do we have support groups in lately virtual because it depends on it but are working towards going back in person and we also offer specialized trainings from food issues. Sexual abuse. tb rides trainings. Bunge things we have a podcast or watching. Is podcast public speak. We have couple of folks that we sell and basically we just tried to create a sense of community and give foster it out to parents all the support that we know is needed and trying to support them in every way we can to is. Your is your organization. More focused on serving the parents or serving the youth or all of that both okay. Yeah 'cause we also while the parents are meeting we also have you know basically a small support for the children as well as when the parents come. They can just relax. 'cause we have volunteers to come with the children and make sure check with down so and work with the children's along certain topics that are age appropriate for them to help down in okada realize why they do some things. They do them better standards. So you're doing that locally and urine rally okay and has that been replicated yet in other areas. Not that i know of. I mean there are no support groups done by india's but now i don't know any other local organizations that are doing what we do. Okay okay but your podcast reaches everybody. Yes so people can find you will. We will have links to everything that you've talked about in the show notes. So that those of you who are listening if you are driving your car washing your dishes you don't have to remember all of this. We will have it all there for you in the show notes and trent.
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"trent taylor" Discussed on The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"Do you need what you need to feel safe. And if they are not certain you know give him a couple of choices Open you want closed and just be no even if it doesn't make sense to you make sense to the child and that's all you need to know and it makes the child feel safe. The just didn't do it. You know if it's a something that's gonna it. It's not a big deal and it's not going to impede your ability to function. Just let it happen. Because that's what builds attachment trust and sense of safety First time in life that my voice matters and that i will be safe in. There are people who truly care about me and what i have to say so your faith has been a big part of your healing journey as well. Do you wanna share a little bit about that. Of course so thankfully. I always been close to god. My whole journey through foster care. You know basically my whole life because you know. Most of my frustrations were religious. And that knowing that. And knowing that god had a plan for me and that you know because that he was the one consistent thing in my life he was the one thing i knew would never leave the hurt me a he was the thing that i could cling onto hope. And that's what. I did throughout my whole journey. Through foster care i just would pray. Pray that you know. Someday someday i would have a family of my own and you know what. My prayers are answered at the age Brother and i were adopted and Once i had that dog tag with that verse that really you know really me that god does have applied for me on that god can take things that have been broken damaged in turn into something so beautiful and we are all made new in christ in we are all made perfectly in his image and honestly i would not have been able to heal. I would not be why. And today if he if without him you know he is. What scotney this far. My life us helped me overcome so much you know and lately you know any years before a at a young age i would just call out and say god whatever your will is my life. Whatever you want me to do. I would do it. My guess is on the table. Help make it clear. I will obey to the best of my ability. Because you have got this far. And all i wanted to glorify you and share you know my story to give you glory because this is his story is not mine. I'm just along for the ride that he is allowed me to be on. That's wonderful well thank you so much. Do you want to tell us just a little bit more about your organization. Of course so near is is it support. Ministry won't be do we have support groups in lately virtual because it depends on it but are working towards going back in person and we also offer specialized trainings from food issues. Sexual abuse. tb rides trainings. Bunge things we have a podcast or watching. Is podcast public speak. We have couple of folks that we sell and basically we just tried to create a sense of community and give foster it out to parents all the support that we know is needed and trying to support them in every way we can to is. Your is your organization. More focused on serving the parents or serving the youth or all of that both okay. Yeah 'cause we also while the parents are meeting we also have you know basically a small support for the children as well as from the parents come. They can just relax. 'cause we have volunteers to come with the children and make check with down so and work with the children's along certain topics that are age appropriate for them to help down in okada realize why they do some things they do them. Better understand standards. So you're doing that locally and urine rally okay and has that been replicated yet in other areas. Not that i know of. I mean there are no support groups done by india's but now i don't know any other local organizations that are doing what we do. Okay okay but your podcast reaches everybody. Yes so people can find you will. We will have links to everything that you've talked about in the show notes. So that those of you who are listening if you are driving your car washing your dishes you don't have to remember all of this. We will have it all there for you in the show notes and trent.
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"trent taylor" Discussed on The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"Know and just you know the Communication that wake had in that trust built over time. That was that was really. What does the biggest things that they did that. I think you were just spot on in just a judgment free zone compassion allowing me to feel whatever i felt regardless of what they decide to the wherever i felt acknowledged it helped work through it. So they really just came alongside me and really just work through this with me it. They have other children before you and your brother during the family so they were foster parents for several years before they had us but now we were there first adopted and any children actually so okay okay so it sounds like the devoted a lot of time and energy to you too. Yeah like that you became. They've poured themselves into you which is really really beautiful. What kind of practical things did they do. that helped. You may be related to food or feeling safe at night or rep Supporting you and advocating for you in school those kinds of things well of course so my mom actually a a special teachers She knew how all of those things worked for schools for for school. She went into those meetings. That were informing Advocate on my behalf. Because i did have some academicals and you know she got me some tutoring and she got me some special things that i needed for school to help. Catch me back up. You know and you know for food issues. She would always like groceries. She would she would open fridge and say you know there's always food here in our and sometimes she would put some snacks little band for us But let us know that. Only you mcgill the only ones who have this that we knew that if we ever hungry would always have no our little snack. Ben and you know also chew worked a lot with me at home and on homework and you know talking through how to express my emotions appropriate. Also do the same for my brother. My brother he had a lot of pre-verbal traumas that he doesn't quite remember a whole lot which has been very difficult for him. But i remember she would. She stayed for hours one night. Creating basically This book describes the different emotions. This is this emotion. Feels like this is how we can work together Some practical ways to you know what to do when you feel these ways. And just the time she invested in different things. And what packers you know just inspirational notes in our lunches to know that we of and just time she poured into us and the time she took to make sure that we knew we were loved net. We were safe. She would also even though it kind of irritated them a little bit they would let us lock the doors on her way in and out of the house and sometimes we activate locked ourselves out so they had to hide keys in the yard in case happen because we were Losing what we had you know being taken away but they never once got frustrated as the scolded us for they just know Just whatever we needed to feel safe. They did So food issues are super super common with children who've had so much food insecurity and In their early lives even though your mom put out a bin for you. Did you ever still feel like you needed to keep food in your pockets or did you ever hide it in your room or anything like that so for me. Personally i did not. My younger brother did. But i did not. I don't know why. But i didn't. I didn't worry that you know refer wouldn't always be there because that that had happened to me before. But i never quite hoarded food or catch it in my pockets. Mostly our probably. I probably just over eight alarm time. Just eight tiles like really really forward. Cardini anymore For me personally i. I didn't do this particular thing. So that overeating was also rooted in fear that fear. that food would not be there tomorrow or Did that resolve on. its own had to work on oils. Kind of mix of both so over to over time when you kinda worked on it. And i feel like as you know. Some of my walls were coming down and starting Trust and feel safe some of those feelings of noon to eat as much as cam because they might not have it again. Economist went away as the safety trust. You know rose. Those colleges might by the wayside in eventually just went completely away. that's great. what about feeling safe at night. What practical things your parents do for you. Because you know of course especially children who experienced abuse sexual abuse visit any kind of abuse nighttime can be really scary can and it was and so what they did was they would come my room. They would you know reading a book before that time and they would. They put a little night lights in my room. You know because at the time. I was afraid of the dark and they would always ask. We want to shut or do you want to crack. How much do you want open. So they basically they gave me a voice gave me choice. You know during our nighttime schedule and just to reassure me that if you need something we will meet that need and your voice matters. That's really good one of my Kids slept inside a little tent on top of the bed for a long time. Just because nighttime felt too scary you know like the even the room just felt to open you know and so being in a small enclosed space. Just give a sense of safety. And yeah i think a little creativity can go a long way. But you're right. The most important thing is to really let the child have a voice. And you know. I think sometimes it's parent can be a little frustrating. Last night. you wanted the door shut now today. you're 'cause i'm shutting the door and you want something different but we just have to be so flexible. I think flexibility is one of the most important characteristics that adoptive and foster parents have to have because if we're too rigid we that just tears down connection lower. So what else would you want our listeners to know to help us all be. The best fostered adoptive parents. We can be for sure. I definitely say you know as we talked about before giving the child voice so key because you know like you said sometimes they might want to shut. Sometimes they might wanna open in the parents of Why but here's the thing you know that. That night that they wanted to closed they may have had a memory surface that they could not have verbalize anonymity memory. Kyle went by the wayside so they were all came at the door being open. You don't see that's another one of those things that are just really just like i said before via detective in really learn what your child needs and just Straight up. ask them you know. What.
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"trent taylor" Discussed on The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"Know and just you know the Communication that wake had in that trust built over time. That was that was really. What does the biggest things that they did that. I think you were just spot on in just a judgment free zone compassion allowing me to feel whatever i felt regardless of what they decide to the wherever i felt acknowledged it helped work through it. So they really just came alongside me and really just work through this with me it. They have other children before you and your brother during the family so they were foster parents for several years before they had us but now we were there i adopted and any children actually so okay okay so it sounds like the devoted a lot of time and energy to you too. Yeah like that you became. They've poured themselves into you which is really really beautiful. What kind of practical things did they do. that helped. You may be related to food or feeling safe at night or rep. Know supporting you and advocating for you in school those kinds of things well of course so my mom actually a a special teachers She knew how all of those things worked for schools for for school. She went into those meetings. That were informing Advocate on my behalf. Because i did have some academic academicals and you know she got me some tutoring and she got me some special things that i needed for school to help. Catch me back up. You know and you know for food issues. She would always like groceries. She would she would open fridge and say you know there's always food here in our and sometimes she would put some snacks little band for us But let us know that. Only you be the only ones who have this that we knew that if we ever hungry would always have no our little snack. Ben and you know also chew worked a lot with me at home and on homework and you know talking through how to express my emotions appropriate g. Also did the same for my brother. My brother he had a lot of pre-verbal traumas doesn't quite remember a whole lot which has been very difficult for him. But i remember she would. She stayed for hours one night. Creating basically Book describes the different emotions. This is this emotion. Feels like this is how we can work together Some practical ways to you know what to do when you feel these ways. And just the time she invested in different things. And what packers you know just inspirational notes in our lunches to know that we of and just not time she poured into us and the time she took to make sure that we knew we were loved net. We were safe. She also even though it kind of irritated them a little bit they would let us lock the doors on her way in and out of the house and sometimes we accidentally locked ourselves out so they had to hide keys in the yard in case happen because we were associated of losing what we had being taken away but they never once got frustrated as the scolded. Us for just know Just whatever we needed to feel safe. They did So food issues are super super common with children who've had so much food insecurity and In their early lives even though your mom put out a bin for you. Did you ever still feel like you needed to keep food in your pockets or did you ever hide it in your room or anything like that so for me. Personally i did not. My younger brother did. But i did not. I don't know why. But i didn't. I didn't worry that you know refer wouldn't always be there because that that had happened to me before. But i never quite hoarded food or catch it in my pockets. Mostly our probably probably just over eight longer time. Just eight tiles like really really forward. Cardini anymore For me personally i. I didn't do particular thing so that overeating was also rooted in fear that fear that food would not be there tomorrow or Did that resolve on. Its own had to work on now oils kind of mix of both so over to over time when you kinda worked on it and i feel like as you know. Some of my walls were coming down and Trust and feel safe some of those feelings of noon to eat as much as cam because it might not have it again. Economist went away as the safety trust. You know rose. Those colleges might by the wayside and eventually just went completely away That's great what about feeling safe at night. What practical things your parents do for you. Because you know of course especially children who experienced abuse sexual abuse visit any kind of abuse nighttime can be really scary and it was for me you know and so what they did was they would come my room. They would you know reading a book before that time and they would. They put a little night lights in my room. You know because at the time. I was afraid of the dark and they would always ask. We want to shut or do you want to crack. How much do you want open. So they basically they gave me a voice gave me choice. You know during our nighttime schedule and just to reassure me that if you need something we will meet that need and your voice matters. That's really good one of my Kids slept inside a little tent on top of the bed for a long time. Just because nighttime felt too scary you know like the even the room just felt to open you know and so being in a small enclosed space. Just give a sense of safety. And yeah i think a little creativity can go a long way. But you're right. The most important thing is to really let the child have a voice. And you know. I think sometimes it's parent can be a little frustrating like last night. You wanna the door shut now today. You're 'cause i'm shutting the door and you want something different but we just have to be so flexible. I think flexibility is one of the most important characteristics that adoptive and foster parents have to have because if we're too rigid we that just tears down connection slowly. So what else would you want our listeners to know to help us all be the best foster deductive parents we can be for. Sure i definitely say you know as we talked about before giving the child voice so key because you know like you said sometimes they might want to shut. Sometimes they might wanna open in parents kind Why but here's the thing you know that. That night that they wanted to closed they may have had a memory surface that they could not have verbalize now. The memory kyle went by the wayside. So they were all came at the door being open. You don't see that's another one of those things that are just really just like i said before via detective in really learn what your child needs and just Destroyed up ask them you know. What.
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"trent taylor" Discussed on The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"Is there anything that a foster parent did for you. That was helpful. I did have song foster parents who would occasionally helped me with school. And things like that. Because i did a lot of academic goals from moving so many times and did it. Did anybody do something that helped you feel safe while i do remember. I had one false replacement where the foster dad was a state troopers so him being knowing that that did provide some safety but also in that same placement the biological daughter did not care for us being there too much so she kind of took out her frustrations on us Really the only placement. I really felt safe was my father to adoptive placement. Lots of most of my foster placements were filled with you. Know just continued. Abuse and uncertainty never quite felt safe anywhere. 'cause i was always afraid that i'd have to move so i never really allowed Just couldn't let myself feel safer. Good comfortable we know that when children are living in that state of fear in that state of stress that They're not gonna come and tell us. Gee i feel really afraid. We're going to do. They're going to tell us but they're not probably gonna use words. So did you have any behaviors challenging for your foster parents or you just amazingly communist now. I almost certainly had your challenges. You know because with everything that i had been through. I had a lot of anger Different emotions and i didn't know how to express them appropriately at never really had anybody to sit down and help me learn how to do that. 'cause i guess they just assumed that when you're six and eight years old you just know how to but yes so. I'm just thinking back to some behaviors. That i had a lot of anger outbursts Some moments where i would Freeze my body would just shut down on me. And i just couldn't comply which then looks like defines percent end up getting in trouble and you know so that case that is really important. Let's tell me about that. Go through that cycle again. So you would have all this. You'd have all this fear that looks like anger and then what happened and then you know over time Depending on situation my body would just shut down on me at i would freeze. I remember so vividly wanting to comply and wanting to do what was asked me but my body literally could not physically be most at the time that is so important to hear that you can give words to that because you know as a parent. Our children are sometimes. It's taking so much mental space trying to figure out. Why is my child doing this. And what do i do in response. you know. The parents brain is always trying to process. And when i think of you as a little guy in this freeze mode but the parents are saying. I want you to do this. It wasn't it. Wasn't i won't do it. It was i can't exactly and did anybody understand that my parents did. Actually you know mom That when she first got us that she went out to like the barnes and noble and got everything she could on trauma and things like that in my dad. You know also had a rough upbringing. Hey was honestly the one who was able to help. Bring me out of that state of freeze in that state of shutdown. All he did. He didn't say a single word but all he did was he simply came up to me and just gave me a gentle hog and just held me. And then my roy moore. I felt my body. Just just coming Attention just loosening. That's what that was. What brought me out of that state of freeze was able to start talking about the as my brain came back online. But i love that. You mentioned that hug because what we know is that a calm regulated parent can help a child come into regulation. We can co regulate together. You know. I was just hugging one of my kids not long ago. Who was just regulated. And i said okay. Let's just hug each other and fuel each other's heartbeats for minute you know and i actually said we can cover here late together You know but your dad's instincts to do that. Were really good because that hug helped you like you said calm and bring your brain back online because when a child is this regulated like you were you know these are functioning in the lower part of their brain which is not that thinking brain. It's not the brain they can think. Oh my mom's asking me to do this. And i really do want to do it because i want to make her happy. And you know you can't think that way when you're in that lower dis- regulated part of your brain. Where fear is so okay. I love that Tell us more about what your parents did right. When i had a chance to meet you. I interviewed you on a panel at a conference and i just remember listening question. Ron was in the audience. Your mom. I think you're davis there too. Yes well for sure your mom and I just remember you spoke about so many ways that your parents helped you heal and be safe so tell us more well of course so. The baby's thing that my mom did me was she almost every day. She would let me know how much she loved me and remind me that no matter what i do what happens that she will never love me any less. So only think of me. Less an issue would never judge in that were safe and just hearing that continuously Overtime started to click was like. Wow what she's saying is really true. So that's on top of just being able to talk dr remember. I disclosed my sexual abuse. I would say something as memory would come to my mind and she was just. She didn't lingam act shocked. She didn't freak out. She decided calmly talks me about it and we worked through it and another big thing is that she walked my journey by my side. Both my parents did they. They came alongside me and you know and they really were basically detectives trying to figure out what my triggers were what. I needed to feel what i needed. What i needed to feel safe. You know Whether it made sense to them or not they did it. They did whatever it took you know and just seeing that they cared so much for the first time in my life i was like. Wow you know the the real they really have My back and they're not gonna let me go or anything that happens in the so you.
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"trent taylor" Discussed on The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"Is there anything that foster parent did for you. That was helpful. I did have song foster parents who would occasionally helped me with school. And things like that. Because i did have a lot of academic goals from moving so many times and did it. Did anybody do something that helped you feel safe while i do remember. I had one false replacement where the foster dad was a state troopers so him being knowing that that did provide some safety but also that same placement. The biological daughter did not care for us being there too much so she kind of took out her frustrations on us Really the only placement. I really felt safe was my father to adoptive placement. A lot of most of my foster placements were filled with you. Know just continued abuse and uncertainty. I never quite felt safe anywhere. 'cause i was always afraid that i'd have to move so i never really allowed Just couldn't let myself feel safer. Good comfortable we know that when children are living in that state of fear in that state of stress that They're not gonna come and tell us. Gee i feel really afraid. We're going to do. They're going to tell us but they're not probably gonna use words. So did you have any behaviors challenging for your foster parents or you just amazingly communist now. I almost certainly had your challenges. You know because with everything that i had been through. I had a lot of anger different emotions. And i didn't know how to express them appropriately at never really had anybody to sit down and help me learn how to do that. 'cause i guess they just assumed that when you're six and eight years old you just know how to but yes so. I'm just thinking back to some behaviors. That i had a lot of anger outbursts Some moments where i would Freeze my body would just shut down on me. And i just couldn't comply which then looks like defines percent end up getting in trouble and you know so that case that is really important. Let's tell me about that. Go through that cycle again. So you would have all this. You'd have all this fear that looks like anger and then what happened and then you know over time Depending on situation my body would just shut down on me at i would freeze. I remember so vividly wanting to comply and wanting to do what was asked me but my body literally could not physically be most at the time that is so important to hear that you can give words to that because you know as a parent. Our children are sometimes. It's taking so much mental space trying to figure out. Why is my child doing this. And what do i do in response. you know. The parents brain is always trying to process. And when i think of you as a little guy in this freeze mode but the parents are saying. I want you to do this. It wasn't it wasn't i won't do it it was. I can't exactly and did anybody understand that my parents did. Actually you know mom dylan me that. When she first got us that she went out to like the barnes and noble and got everything she could on trauma and things like that in my dad. You know also had a rough upbringing. Hey was honestly the one who was able to help. Bring me out of that state of freeze in that state of shutdown. All he did. He didn't say a single word but all he did was he simply came up to me and just gave me a gentle hog and just held me. And then my roy moore. I felt my body. Just just coming Attention just loosening. That's what that was. What brought me out of that state of freeze to start talking about the as my brain came back online. But i love that you mentioned that hug because what we know is that a calm regulated parent can help a child come into regulation. We can co regulate together you know. I was just hugging one of my kids. Not long ago. Who was just regulated. And i said okay. Let's just hug each other and fuel each other's heartbeats for minute you know and i actually said we can cover late together You know but your dad's instincts to do that. Were really good because that hug helped you like you said calm and bring your brain back online because when a child is this regulated like you were you know these are functioning in the lower part of their brain which is not that thinking brain. It's not the brain they can think. Oh my mom's asking me to do this. And i really do want to do it because i want to make her happy. And you know you can't think that way when you're in that lower dis- regulated part of your brain. Where fear is so okay. I love that Tell us more about what your parents did right. When i had a chance to meet you. I interviewed you on a panel at a conference and i just remember listening question. Ron was in the audience. Your mom. I think you're davis there too. Yes well for sure your mom and I just remember you spoke about so many ways that your parents helped you heal and be safe so tell us more well of course so. The baby's thing that my mom did me was she almost every day. She would let me know how much she loved me and remind me that no matter what i do what happens if she will never love me any less so only think of me. Less an issue would never judge in that were safe and just hearing that continuously Overtime started to click was like. Wow what she's saying is really true. So that's on top of just being able to talk dr remember. I disclosed my sexual abuse. I would say something as memory would come to my mind and she was just. She didn't him act shocked. She didn't freak out. She decided calmly talks me about it and we worked through it and another big thing is that she walked my journey by my side. Both my parents did they. They came alongside me and you know and they really were basically detectives trying to figure out what my triggers were what. I needed to feel what i needed. What i needed to feel safe. You know whether it made sense to them or not. They did it. They did whatever it took you know and just seeing that they cared so much for the first time in my life i was like. Wow you know the real. They really have My back and they're not gonna let me go or anything that happens. So you.
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"trent taylor" Discussed on The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"Yes i definitely remember most of my places. Pretty well i know my first one was kinship. That was with. My paternal grandparents at the time at the leaves outlasted probably year and then we moved to a regular foster play smoke. It's hard to tell exactly how long mostly placements probably six months to a year. Roughly in and then it was kinship again and then foster adoptive placement like i said during those times. The abused in style kinship foster kinship ship and then after that one if my older brother was removed the land before i got to placement. That's when it was just me and my younger brother. Is there anything that.
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"trent taylor" Discussed on The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"Yes i definitely remember most of my places. Pretty well i know my first one was kinship. That was with. My paternal grandparents at the time at the leaves outlasted probably year and then we moved to a regular foster play smoke. It's hard to tell exactly how long mostly placements probably six months to a year. Roughly in and then it was kinship again and then foster adoptive placement like i said during those times. The abused in style kinship foster kinship ship and then after that one if my older brother was removed the land before got to placement. That's when it was just me and my younger brother. Is there anything that.
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"trent taylor" Discussed on The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"Well hello trent. Welcome to the adoption connection. Podcast thank you so much morning. How are you. I'm doing really well. Thanks you know one of the things. We value really highly here. The adoption connection is really representing the voices of all parts of the triad and different experiences. You know melissa. And together represent the triad. She's an adoptee. I'm birth mama. Were both adoptive mom. So it's always really special for us to get other voices here so i'm really delighted to have you join us. Would you just start by introducing yourself. And then what. I really think our listeners can wanna here is your story. Because it's really really remarkable. So i just tell us about who you are what your life is like right now. Of course so my name. Is trent taylor. I am currently twenty years old. I am on track to get my bachelor's in family and human development i also run as support ministry alongside my adoptive mom called. Watch me rise and right now my focus is going through the summer and just saying wherever god takes us now you did just accomplish something really significant right at the very day i met you. You just finished your training to become a tb our practitioner. Good how is that experience it was. It was really. It was incredible to be honest. It was it didn't quite feel real in the moment but it was really remarkable to say how far i've come from the person who needed be awry to now being to give t- right to others. It's really just a full circle moment and now well. i'm. I'm sure that your parents are very proud of you. So tell us how you came into this world of adoption foster care. Why is it important to you. Of course so at the age of four. I was taken into the foster care system due to extreme neglect domestic violence and sexual abuse and after me my siblings were removed and we. I entered the foster care system that way and i traveled to five different homes five different schools. I remained with my older brother. A younger brother Unfortunately even though we were removed the abuse did not stop as my older brother. Continue to abuse us through most of our foster homes. It wasn't until the one before our out of placement that social workers found out and finally removed him but thankfully i was able to nathan younger brother the entire time and my time to foster care. It was full of uncertainty chaos. Fear remember so many nights Crying myself to sleep longing for a family into someone to love me and keep me safe but after that five year journey in foster care Brother and i were at a match events and that's where we met adoptive parents and it is so hard to describe the feelings. I had that day. But i just knew in my heart that these were these are the people who are gonna adopt us. I must have got just had something on my heart that day I just had this gut feeling and that same day we were given a dog tag with jeremiah. Twenty nine eleven engraved on the front and after receiving that. That's really what helps me get through the rest of my time in foster care. Just knowing that he had a plan for me you know. I was just able to cling onto that. And that's what gave me hope you know. And so shortly. After the match event it was probably a couple months maybe closer to a year we got moving with parents and then about a year through the courts we were finally adopted and so you know being in a place where i felt loved. I felt like i could trust people for the first time. It's really what opens up to the possibility of being able to start healing you know. And that trust and Did not come. Easy was several years. Before i felt like i could really trust know my parents but the whole time. They just walked my journey by side. They cried with me. As i mourn the loss of my childhood and my siblings and every time they would always point me back to ultimate healing that is found in god and that is really what got me through all of my past pain in my trauma in. That's why i was able to come to dramatic levels of feline and No end so. When i was probably ten years old after being down through the nine I s when i started public speaking. That's when i started to share my story because you know working through all of my past trauma it really opened my eyes up that my pain has a purpose and guide was going to use what i had been through for his glory. And that's exactly what i wanted to deal. As since then. I have been sharing my story to anyone who will listen. You know i of done podcasts. Books and like i said we're running a support ministry and my goal is to be a clinical counselor and Informed consulting as well and just really help children find the same healing is found in god and help them come to the same place. I have been so gratefully you know given has come to That's wonderful okay. That's backup. We've got foster. Parents listening today. Kinship providers adoptive parents. So it's not that common that we get to hear from former foster youth about that experience. So what you can share any part of your story you want but what i think parents are going to want to know is what do you wish your foster parents had known. How could they have helped you and cared for you during those years. Now you said you have five placements so if you wanna share a little bit about that that would be great and then just what you really want foster parents to know for sure looking back the one thing. I wish you the false appearance. I had new was handle a child who's experienced trauma. How approach that type of parenting and to come at it with a sense of compassion and really just a walking. My journey by my side like my parents did in. And you know when. I think back to the different placements not. I don't think any of them had any idea how trauma effects the brain. How that affects behaviors as well you know and i had some some pretty rough placements. You know which isn't always uncommon but so the biggest thing. Compassion patients trauma informed knowledge. Just knowing how to parent differently in approach that differently and really just helping me feel like i'm not alone and that i've got someone to be there by my side do you. You're fairly young. We knew into care. Do you remember each of the five families were you with some of them super short some longer. What do you remember about just being moved around..
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"trent taylor" Discussed on The Adoption Connection | a podcast by and for adoptive moms
"Well hello trent. Welcome to the adoption connection. Podcast thank you so much morning. How are you. I'm doing really well. Thanks you know one of the things. We value really highly here. The adoption connection is really representing the voices of all parts of the triad and different experiences. You know melissa. And together represent the triad. She's an adoptee. I'm birth mama. Were both adoptive mom. So it's always really special for us to get other voices here so i'm really delighted to have you join us. Would you just start by introducing yourself. And then what. I really think our listeners can wanna here is your story. Because it's really really remarkable. So i just tell us about who you are what your life is like right now. Of course so my name. Is trent taylor. I am currently twenty years old. I am on track to get my bachelor's in family and human development i also run as support ministry alongside my adoptive mom called. Watch me rise and right now My is going the summer. And just saying wherever god takes us now you did just accomplish something really significant right at the very day. I met you. You just finished your training to become a tb our practitioner. Good how is that experience it was. It was really. It was incredible to be honest. It was it didn't quite feel real in the moment but it was really remarkable to say how far i've come from the person who needed be awry to now being to give t- right to others. It's really just a full circle moment and now well. i'm. I'm sure that your parents are very proud of you. So tell us how you came into this world of adoption foster care. Why is it important to you. Of course so at the age of four. I was taken into the foster care system due to extreme neglect domestic violence and sexual abuse and after me my siblings were removed and we. I entered the foster care system that way and i traveled to five different homes five different schools. I remained with my older brother. A younger brother Unfortunately even though we were removed the abuse did not stop as my older brother. Continue to abuse us through most of our foster homes. It wasn't until the one before our outplacement that social workers found out and finally removed him but thankfully i was able to nathan younger brother the entire time and my time to foster care it was full of uncertainty chaos. Fear i remember so many nights Crying myself to sleep longing for a family into someone to love me and keep me safe but after that five year journey in foster care my under a brother and i were at a match events. And that's where we met adoptive parents and it is so hard to describe the feelings. I had that day. But i just knew in my heart that these were these are the people who are gonna adopt us. I must have got just had something on my heart that day I just had this gut feeling and that same day we were given a dog tag with jeremiah. Twenty nine eleven engraved on the front and after receiving that. That's really what helps me get through the rest of my time in foster care. Just knowing that he had a plan for me you know. I was just able to cling onto that. And that's what gave me hope you know. And so shortly. After the match event it was probably a couple months maybe closer to a year we got moving with parents and then about a year through the courts we were finally adopted and so you know being in a place where i felt loved. I felt like i could trust people for the first time. It's really what opens up to the possibility of being able to start healing you know. And that trust and Did not come. Easy was several years. Before i felt like i could really trust know my parents but the whole time. They just walked my journey by side. They cried with me. As i mourn the loss of my childhood and my siblings and every time they would always point me back to ultimate healing that is found in god and that is really what got me through all of my past pain in my trauma in. That's why i was able to come to dramatic levels of feline and No end so. When i was probably ten years old after being down through the nine is when i started public speaking. That's when i started to share my story because you know working through all of my past trauma it really opened my eyes up that my pain has a purpose and guide was going to use what i had been through for his glory. And that's exactly what i wanted to deal. As since then. I have been sharing my story to anyone who will listen. You know i of done podcasts. Books and like i said we're running a support ministry and my goal is to be a clinical counselor and Informed consulting as well and just really help children find the same healing is found in god and help them come to the same place. I have been so gratefully you know given has come to That's wonderful okay. That's backup. We've got foster. Parents listening today. Kinship providers adoptive parents. So it's not that common that we get to hear from former foster youth about that experience. So what you can share any part of your story you want but what i think parents are going to want to know is what do you wish your foster parents had known. How could they have helped you and cared for you during those years. Now you said you have five placements so if you wanna share a little bit about that that would be great and then just what you really want foster parents to know for sure looking back the one thing. I wish you the false appearance. I had new was handle a child who's experienced trauma. How approach that type of parenting and to come at it with a sense of compassion and really just a walking. My journey by my side like my parents did in. And you know when. I think back to the different placements not. I don't think any of them had any idea how trauma effects the brain. How that affects behaviors as well you know and i had some some pretty rough placements you know which isn't always uncommon. But yeah so the biggest thing. Compassion patients trauma informed knowledge. Just knowing how to parent differently in approach that differently and really just helping me feel like i'm not alone and that i've got someone to be there by my side do you. You're fairly young. We knew into care. Do you remember each of the five families were you with some of them super short some longer. What do you remember about just being moved around..
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"trent taylor" Discussed on Niners Nation
"But the same time. He's never really looked like the type of quarterback that when he gets pushed he responds well. I mean this is a quarterback. At the moment he gets hit his happy feet return booth sometimes before he gets hit. It gets pressure. His happy feet return if his i read enough. Look i'm trying to be nice and calm. I hope the let me. Just say for the record. I hope jimmy garoppolo plays well. I hope he's better than ever. I want the forty niners to win. And i want them to succeed what i cannot stand. What gets me. mad is when i feel like. We're being fed align of bull. And i think we have been fed a line of boll. And that's why i'm frustrated. I'm not rooting against jimmy garoppolo. I just think that we're gonna see the same guy we've always seen. And even yesterday once again just throws in that. He thinks jimmy garoppolo's in his a spot as he's bennett is basically what kyle said. I mean the stages there for him to blossom. But we're both skeptic mystic about the ability for him captain mystic. That's a word. But i love it. I love that it's fantastic. Yeah just made that up. Apparently i don't know where that came from but i just i don't think he's going to be any better. Twenty nineteen is the best we've seen if he's twenty nineteen level. I'm all for it. But i will say this. If the offense is struggling against detroit. Jimmy might be a one week quarterback if he can't move against detroit only kyle is going to have much patience for that. Like probably has the worst defensively this. The stage is set for him. He should have a great game this week. Right like the lions are not known for their pass rushers who their best pass rusher. Trey flowers like okay. I'm not really staying up nights because you have trey flowers. He should be able to drop back when he does scan the field. Go through his reads right. Like everything should be good for jimmy garoppolo. He doesn't look good coming out of this game that i'm really going to be worried. Could be a one week thing. I don't think it will be. But i think there is a possibility like kaya would have to look at it as this is about as easy of an opponent as we have and he struggled it's best to just go to train now. Yeah i agree especially because you got a softer landing a little bit softer against the eagles and we to and then you go to sunday night. Football at home against green bay as we all know the other thing that we heard yesterday in the press conferences was deebo samuel. Who said and this kind of surprise me that this is the best. He's felt in his forty niners career including his rookie year. Do you think is align. -able i guess i would say i don't think he's lying but when did he get hit. That's why feels the best. It's true he didn't get to do much in preseason I think probably by design saving him and in practice. There's not much contact. You know full on hitting and tackling. So of course it feels the best he. He's not gotten hit. I hope he can stay. I mean obviously. I hope all these guys can stay out there. It's so frustrating to always be thinking if just stay healthy if they could just stay healthy if they just had guys like at some point you just have to accept like with this jalen hurd situation the forty niners and i don't even want to say the forty niners because i think this is a total kyle. Shanahan thing they cannot quit jalen. Hurd fine someone that loves you. The way kyle shanahan loves jalen hurt. This is year three levin. We have yet to see this man on the field for a single snap in the regular season and the forty niners are sticking with this guy no matter how many major injuries no matter how many major surgeries kyle said today. That heard is now or yesterday rather that hurt is now a candidate for. I are which means. He's going to be out at least three weeks like by the time. This guy gets on the field. He's going to have to be randy moss to make up for all this time we spent waiting for him. I feel torn on this. Would i be upset if they caught him. No like at a certain point. You gotta cut bait but at the same time. It's the same point that i made last week when you were upset. He was on the fifty three man. What did they lose like. Ono wept webster guy. Couldn't even make the rams rotation at wide receiver last year got picked up by another team all horrible like they didn't lose anything he he's a he's a sixth wide receiver. He's a luxury he's a guy that wouldn't necessarily dress on game days anyways because you don't necessarily dress all six receivers depending on where you're at healthwise on the other ones and how much they're gonna play and special teams so i don't think it's really a big curtis criticism thing for garlic. You kept him because there's a lot of potential it didn't work out. You didn't really lose anything because of it. You lost anyone else. That could have contributed any one single thing. 'cause jalen hurd has not done that so even if it was one guy that was gonna make one tackle in one game. That's what you lost. I'm sorry i have no tolerance for just carrying. You heard it drives me crazy. Give it out kyle. it didn't workout. You took a swing. Maybe he was going to be awesome. Maybe we have no idea. Nobody bats a thousand sometimes you draft dudes. It doesn't work out and just admit it. Like what are we doing here. Like i said it's not really hurting to put him onto. I are could always call out. And get trent taylor. I'm sure trying taylor will be available. God i think he's still is right. I don't know. I haven't heard anything but i haven't actually gone out of my way to look it up because i don't really care who cares exactly all right. Let's take a break and when we come back we'll get into. I wanna give credit because he made the prediction of all predictions. That came true last year. And then we're going to get into some. Nfc west preview. Got some notes on some of the other squads and will do all that when we come back. Today we're talking about price. Picks which is the hot new thing in the world of daily fantasy and to be honest. It's not hard to see why people are getting all the way into this. Let me tell you how it works. You pick anywhere between two and five players and take the over or the under on some specific stat projection for the day. That's it is just you against the projected numbers get it bright and you could win up to ten times you put down on any entry. And here's the best part prize. Picks has a ton of statistical categories to choose.
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"trent taylor" Discussed on Mo Egger
"I just read to you. Those players must clear waivers first bengals plan to announce tomorrow a practice squad of up to sixteen guys. I think the standout names number one. Mike daniels. They brought him back this off season. And you know look they still have. Dj reader they brought in larry. Oaken jobe talked about josh to po. Who didn't play last year. The essential tyler. Shelving they're only going to keep any three techniques The michael jordan thing doesn't feel stunning to me because there was a report yesterday that accompanied the the billy price trade that they had also talked dealing michael jordan. They weren't going to keep five guards. Thad moss paul danger in a really good job of outlining this before. He was a guy who didn't play a lot of special teams. Lsu the third tight end job was probably gonna come down to who did a better job on special teams. That seemingly squeezed out that moss. Obviously he can still make this team on the practice squad or be a part of this organization on the practice squad polka williams junior. He's the guy who when the minicam and ota's all ended a lot of people said as training camp starts. Keep an eye out on him for how they use him how he might be able to help the team as a punt returner and that can still happen again. You can add them to the practice squad. Paul outline before. It's never really been easier to add players from the practice. They can still do that. Chris evans ascension here during training camp could have had something to do with what happened with with poker but that was the name that a lot of people. Pay attention to enlarge part. I think because his name puga but nonetheless he has been waived here on cut down day. So there you go. The battle of trenton irwin versus trent taylor. If you made it about those two players opposite each other goes to a trenton irwin. And there's still some things that can happen. I mean there's obviously now hundreds of players who have been waived so the bengals can make a claim bring a guy in and they have to make room for them so they've paired it down to fifty three. This doesn't necessarily mean the bengals finished trades can still happen outside. Acquisitions can still happen. And so there is eight. You're being very reasonable. If your guess is that the way the roster looks right now is not how. It's gonna look a week from today when the bengals turn the page and get to work on the minnesota vikings guests. That would be really a week from tomorrow but you get the point nonetheless so there you go. We'll let you know what else goes on. Throughout the afternoon. I did randy bullock cut by the lions the lions cut both kickers. Did i see i right before. We came back on right before the music hit. I believe i saw that. The lions cut both their kickers including randy bullock. Randy bullock is now free agent. Congratulations to him. Zan.
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"trent taylor" Discussed on Mo Egger
"Least some concerns in that building right now. I don't know how there can't be because it's something. I observed and your way back in in men and i was on board with us. The chase pick so it's not like i'm one of these penny so people that are like you chase us around so i understood this election but perhaps have been an issue for months now and i know some set. Because he doesn't want to get hit. Yeah the muzzy dropping pass on air when no one's around him. But i don't think it's that i think it's really just a concentration and speed type thing and like you said they have thirteen days to iron it out in whatever he needs to do to fix that. He's got to get a copy of the smoke the bengals plan on featuring jomar chase. I know so many people say he's not the wide receiver wind band. Boyd and mixing all of these weapons and they do chases a huge part absolutely. Here's part of this offense. They're getting him over the field. Drag-out slants screen. Throws you know any really you can think of come back to send them on them and censure him and so he needs to catch the ball. Can you an occasional job if you're making replaced perello and that in his the dominant player jones has done that more recently at the same time for jobs in a row is concerning and i don't really understand how he dropped that ball yesterday. I think that was the worst drop of the four over the past couple of weeks. So hopefully he gets corrected. Whatever it is. i think it's concentration. Hopefully you can figure that part out you talk about making somebody a big part of the offense. Why can't chris evans play a bigger part in this offense he needs to. He's a stud and speaking of rookie. Minicamp that guy. I saw him run. Maybe two routes. And i was like you know a lot of people were talking about brooklyn williams. You know. i mean especially guys from candidate and he didn't stand out to me. Did chris evans and continues to impress the route. He's running in the preseason games place he's making you're seeing it in practice and you see even more offices. Something's names. I think he should be part of this on. I really my only question now is how the hell do not use him more or less initiative because college team could a guy like that with that side his route running ability in those hands. So i agree with you. I think he's very much early in the year but by midseason if he passes some. Igt this you know almost gio clone. But he's a bigger geo you know a guy that's You could feel comfortable with giving him the ball between the tackles consistently. I think it could be that ordinary to and be the guy that ultimately gives so mixing reader. They gotta get down to fifty three by four o'clock tomorrow. What to you is the most interesting potential cut down day development trait more crates. I think they're going to happen You know they they have I'll use the word you use a decent. They have a plethora writer in different. I don't know if you've used that or not i do. I remember saying that surplus guy. Yeah receiver you mentioned running back. They have a surplus. I think of running backs and it seemed like they're at least willing to entertain if you read albert breyer today training michael jordan and our teams that need insurance and help. Not you say well. There's sort of bengals right. So we'll see but i think we're gonna make another dealer to and maybe a claim here and their fifth in the waiver priority. So they're going to be busy so that's the interesting thing to me. We could go back and forth about you. Know when our trent taylor. I think it's early but who knows they keep running back versus three. I think it should be three. 'cause showed you a lot. You can be that bruiser patrick. You know that you would keep patrick four So we can get into that stuff but to me. Can i add a defensive end via trade can they somehow find a competent tackle That can be a backup. Swing tackle type guy along with reg. Maybe a tarot crosby today like those are the developments that i'm more interested in. Because am i going to be upset about. Trent taylor didn't cut no not really. Because i think him and trenton are when i of the same guy or made more plays in camp but if they go one way or the other. It's not like i'm gonna make a big deal about it. Same thing with running back the same thing with these positions so they bring in to bolster the roster over the next forty eight hours. 'cause i can happen after. Cut down day after four o'clock tomorrow. That's what i'll be on entering the most interesting. Because i think that's really how they're gonna make themselves better. You know what they're not going to bring in is a kicker 'cause i think we have the best in the league. He's good isn't it. Yes man yeah i. It's finding you see all those people that were reacting to all my fifth round chipper. Well if he's kicking. I said this at the time if he's kicking from the logo he's taking fifty plus yards. What a weapon. That's a feeling justin tucker's worth a second rounder to if he's prime justin tucker so the fact that you get him in the fifth round and i'm not saying he's going to be tucker but if he's you know harrison bucker or you know or if he's one of these guys matt prater where he's you feel comfortable with and kicking from fifty plus regularly. What a weapon to have in for joe borough in this offense for exact completely changes what you're doing at the end of the half at the end of the game when you have someone like that kicking cogos for you. No doubt about it all right. We'll talk again soon. Man thank you as always sounds good. I have a surplus of content for you. You know there's no that goes without saying all bengals dot com. Check it out some of the sl umbrella. Thank you about nine. James or pain also subscribed to his youtube channel. Cincinnati bengals talkie really. Spent a lot of time thinking about what to call that. And also one of the hosts of the locked on bengals podcast twenty-six away from four o'clock reds and cardinals. Tonight you'll hear david bell coming up in the four o'clock hour you're also going to hear a guy he doesn't think. Uc bearcats are as good as everybody else his logic we have to poke holes in it and we will coming up at four twenty but i your phone calls and just a thought on billy price who was traded today on. Espn fifteen thirty. Cincinnati sports station..
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"trent taylor" Discussed on Cincy Jungle
"For the bengals. And that's that is a value that they're gonna look at and really. They're hoping he kind of feels a little bit of the geo bernard role for this team. If not more and his athleticism hopefully take shape. Mike thomas one of the weirdest nights. They've ever seen football player adhere to catches thirty two yards on three targets. He had a ball hit off his hands. It got intercepted at the ball came back. He got the ball back off a fumble recovery. Just a really weird night for him You like some of the things you saw like the effort but the effort came on a play where he dropped the ball. And i don't know. I don't know what to make his there. But a guy who's grinding for the fifth sixth receivers spot stanley mortgage to catch a sixteen yards. Jomar jason is sixteen yard catch early in the contest. One catch on the one target boyd. Same deal fifteen yards on one Catch did have to targets his way. Fan moss lately game had a fourteen yard catch onto targets when miss earlier. Diegan's ed nice eleven yard catch as well so You know. I'm six yard catch in a couple of other guys doing some things. Mitchell wilcox is a guy from the tight end spot. I thought could start. Latch onto one of those Later or lower end depth chart spots at tight end and unfortunately just not capitalizing to catches zero yards had catch where he was dropped for. A loss of yardage in You know tried to make that up a little bit later on another catch in. It just netted zero yards. A i think has good hands in as has promising traits personally speaking but unfortunately just not doing much beyond the drew sample sieges auma and maybe even thad moss making himself the third time in there with that catch the he ad and of course you look here. There are e if you go up to the quarterback play. Got two interceptions from the quarterbacks shurmur and brandon allen i mentioned the alan interception may not really was too much fault. Then you go here down down to the the other calm and you've got to other lost. Fumbles mike thomas You know in its jp ryan so you've got a lot of turnovers by this offense. I know the weather's weird. I know you're on the road and now you're playing the super bowl champs. I know what you're first. Preseason game since twenty nineteen but kind of ugly performance on offense from that regard if we go the defense hey lunar room. Oh gets a little pat on the back. I think from a lot of different people you've got to interceptions from One from kevin frazier in trayvon anderson. you've got god. I mean look at look at the amount of passes defended here to four five six seven eight passes defended from the defensive back group. Two of which are from various phillips. Who had a nice night in the secondary with some limited time and on special teams will talk more about that in a second. But you gotta you gotta like a lot of the different things that you saw from the defense and of course will talk about one specific player on defense. But let's continue on the dairies phillips. Talk real quick. He did have on kickoff returns. If you look at the right column here. One return for four yards. He only had two yards on another punt return. But doing some things on special teams doing some things on defense and a guy that is going to be a faceted player for this team going forward. Here jerry's phillips does have the starting kick return punt were well a punt return that kick return but does have the starting punt return duties nominated for himself there ahead of trent taylor which may have been a little bit of a surprise for some folks if we keep going on here there. Are some players both rookies kinda just younger general. That are surprising. A lot of different ways. I will say this joseph. Cy looked like a man possessed tonight. A young player guy who has a lot of upside. And you know when you hold on. I know you didn't see tom. Brady for four quarters. No you didn't see a lot of these guys for two orders. Three recorders at sarah here is a a tweet from pf college here. Joseph aside against the buccaneers you see twenty two pass rush snaps and five total pressures. I among all rookies in preseason week one by the way he did have a set a sack. Combine there with with hendrickson. Going in there on. Tom brady so he looked very good. Unfortunately he did have a wrist injury which is a little concerning. We don't know the severity of that at this point but asai a guy who was incredible incredibly athletic. A guy who has a lot of tools that you look at as an edge rusher in the nfl needs. Some work needs some refinement. We knew that. And that's why he fell to the third round a guy who looks to be trouble eight by the way. Did you see who he beat on his way to bringing brady to the ground. That was tristen. Works a guy who is a very good player as a rookie offensive tackle for tampa bay last year. So you know you gotta you gotta like a lot of things that you saw from him. Unfortunately he did leave with the wrist injury. We don't know the severity of it. I'd like to think. Potentially this. Zack taylor staff saying. Hey we're not going to suffer the injury bug yet again. We're going to play it safe. We're gonna get guys out of there anytime. They have any kind of nick something bothering them etc. We will see but we'll we'll.
Niner Faithful Radio
"trent taylor" Discussed on Niner Faithful Radio
"I'm just waiting for that. Crazy like sidearm. Voter trent taylor. For a touchdown that was. I still remember that. This is the game. That i got hype drew me. I'm not gonna lie dividend Joe that was nice. Remember that in run ooh okay. It was so fast. Quick it beginning to kittle split defenders though as nice. Hi carlos this is all those flags up and i remember jockey locating flag because they could listen to cool. Yeah jacksonville is really good. This year our. I remember this one. I was worried about sidearm. Lugo so good so good. Ooh golo somewhere. That like half of these guys aren't even on here anymore. So weird guys listening to the audio dec- audio sorry. I dislike commenting on it. Why watch it are not guys in here. This but let me know. Lexin should be the brita touchdown. i the two pointer. That's crazy. While.
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