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"tony garcia" Discussed on Bob and Sheri
"From her home. Is this okay? Of course. I hope you don't come up here and have sex with me. The bob and cherry off air podcast, the odd cast. We got a big broadcast to do here. Get it now on the free bobbin cherry app, bob and cherry dot com or wherever you get your podcasts. Happy hour tonight, 7 p.m. eastern live on the bob and sherry Facebook page. I read this thing about what smells usually make you feel most at home. When you walk through the door of somebody's house and maybe it's your house. And what home smells are the worst offenders. Now let me go through both. Because I want to, I just want to say something about these smells. So here are the smells that make most people feel like they're at home. Again, could be your childhood home might be your home. Here we go. Fresh brewed coffee, baked cookies, clean sheets, pot roast, spaghetti sauce, cut flowers, perfume in the air, pine tree smell, furniture polish, and new carpet. Those are the smells that make people feel more at home. Here are the smells that are the worst offenders when people walk into somebody else's house. And it might conjure up childhood or be today or your own home. These are the worst offenders. Cigarette smoke, a full rubbish can in the kitchen, litter box, mold and mildew smell, fish, a wet dog, gas leak, dirty clothes, sweat, onions, and garlic. I'm telling you that the worst smells make me feel like I'm at home more than the best smells make me feel like I'm at home. And folks, I got it at cigarette smoke. Especially if you're thinking about my childhood, man, when I walk into a place where somebody's still smoking, I go, dad? I just have to say, folks here at the bob and cherry show where our program is carried on the public airwaves. I now feel a responsibility to state to you that if you walk into a house and you smell a gas leak, I'd worry a hell of a lot less about feeling at home and a lot more about calling three one one and getting some help out there. Yeah, that jumped out at me too, but I was on a roll, so I didn't stop there. Yeah. No, I'm with you on that. The smell of new carpet. That's a brief moment in time that your house is going to smell like that new carpet, right? So you have to let that go, but flowers. Cut flowers. That can be dicey because you know sometimes they can smell too like a funeral like it's too much. Yeah, that's very true. That's very true. Something baking, you know? Big cookies, they have here. Or big cookies. Freshly cut Christmas tree, like all of that's really nice. Yeah. I don't mind the smell of a wet dog. Mary hates it, but I don't mind the smell of the wet dog. I just got really hung up on litter box, which is current, cigarette smoke, which is in my past. Dirty clothes, I don't think so. How much laundry? Did they have any mountains of laundry if you walk into your house and you smell that? How long has it been since you've done? Did they do onions and garlic as a negative? They did. It's not a negative. I don't think it is, I agree with you. I don't think it is either. Getting but getting back to the thing with a mountain of laundry, we had a college boy here all summer. It can get you. Really? Oh yeah. That febreze commercial where the lady is nose blind. And so there's this giant overflowing garbage can in the kitchen. And they're just going at going at it with febreze. It's their job. Folks, it would just take less time would be easier and more effective to just bag the garbage off and take it outside. I'm not telling you how to live. You know. But if you come into your house and it wreaks of overflowing garbage, the fastest way to deal with that is to take the garbage out. If you come into your house and you smell natural gas, get the hell out of your nursing surgery. Exactly. Some of these other things I can't help y'all, but I can give you those two pieces of advice. Now, correct me if I'm wrong here, febreze. I ain't anti febreze, but they show you the febreze, and the woman spraying it on like a couch or something. And then they do a tight animated shot, and that for breeze is permeating the fabrics, and the impression is it's lifting the smell out. Whereas, in my opinion, the febreze, the spray settles on top of whatever is in there and then masks it. Is that not, is that not really. I mean, there are products you can buy for if your pets have an accident and you have a kid throw up or whatever that have enzymes in them that actually eat the odor causing bacteria, but I don't think that's what febreze is doing. I don't think so. I really don't. And there are some things, like I'm not a clean, my mom is a lunatic for order and tidiness and spotless. I'm not that bad. But if the first thing that we can detect when we walk into your house is a quote mountain of dirty laundry, you don't have time to have company. You've got to get some you got to get you some tide and some electricity and get into that washing machine. You need to worry about entertaining so much. Or having people come into your house and there's kitty litters smell. Oh my goodness. But see, there's that nose, but that's where febreze is genius because you do go nose blind to your own stuff you do. I do. At the bob and cherry show, we've decided to make every day. And you can get in on the phone. Just submit a picture of your cat or you and your cat at our website. Bob and sherry dot com. Our big boss Tony Garcia assures us you could win a valuable special really expensive prize. You want to say that one more time without the sarcasm? That's bob and cherry dot com hit the contest tab. From doctor pussy's dot com and bob and sherry. You read it once. I don't believe
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"tony garcia" Discussed on Bob and Sheri
"I try to burp up the taste a couple of times. I mean, if you think us madness, don't speak to each other in the liquor store, you should have seen us avoiding each other last night. I mean, for me, Bill Murray's life. And who doesn't like bacon, okay? I mean, they're both comforting. They trigger wonderful memories, and they both make you feel really, really good. Unless you're a vegan. And let's be honest, the only thing that breaks joy to a vegan is to be able to tell other people they're vegan, okay? That said that. Listen for his reviews, every Friday and get all his reviews at bob and cherry dot com. Instant access to the podcast podcast and fun side. Just download the free bob and sherry app. We got the best message from one of our listeners. You know, you can call the show 24/7 max just loves it when you do. At 8 four four 52 sherry, that's 8 four four 5 two. And you can also grab our app. It's free in Google Play in the App Store. You can do a couple of things with that. You can text us all day long if you want. And you can tap a little microphone in the center of the screen and talk in the Apple do the rest. I was just listening to you talk about divorce parties and what do women usually do with their old wedding rings and that sort of thing? I sold one, but I had a friend who had hers made in two a toe ring so that she could, in her mind, walk on him. That's all that was pretty funny. Wow. Why do people get married? You know, we hear these stories and we think, oh my goodness. Well, that'll never be me. I know. I know. I wonder if there's ever been a woman who's so pissed off about a divorce or a cheating husband that she bit down, took the pain and had his face tattooed on her foot. The bottom of her foot. So wherever she goes, she's walking on his face. I bet somebody has done that. After hearing the toe ring thing, it's just one step. It's one step. I would never do that, not because it would be wrong to walk on him. But because that's an awful lot of discomfort to go through and have an eye suffered enough. When he's done to you though, look what he's done to you. Just go through that pain, you have a lifetime of stepping on his face. We had a caller one time who said she took her wedding ring and had it in the shape of a bullet for a necklace because she put a bullet in that marriage. That's right, I remember that. I remember that, yeah. I can't believe we're talking about wedding rings 'cause I just went through when I visited my mom. Just a week or so ago, I can't even have lost track of the days. She was like, she wanted to talk about, you know, her end of life plans. And I was like, mom, oh my God, can we not? And she said, I'm 80 now. We have to talk about this. And she went and she's like, this was my first wedding ring. And I won't care me to have this because we share a birthday and a birthstone. And this is my second wedding ring, and I want Olivia. Ted gave her Ted K for more than one wedding ring. She was only married twice, but my late stepfather loved to give her presence. And so she has a couple of different rings. This is my second wedding ring, and that's for Olivia. And this is the last wedding ring that I had. And I want you to have this. And she's like, putting things in bags and I'm like, mom, you're scaring me, don't do this. Like, can we not, can you not pack up your house and give it to me? And she said something has happened. And my heart skipped a beat. Like, what is she about to tell me? Anyway, you know my mom is like a big church lady and stuff. And she's on all these committees where you help people anyway. One of the members of their ward had to go into the hospital and it got real serious and they ended up in ICU and then they had to go into a rehab hospital and I'm not really sure what all went on, but it was serious stuff. And so my mom and a group of other women at the church were asked if they would help make this person's home ready because they have to go in and build a wheelchair ramp and they have to put grab bars in the shower and all that, you know, like all that kind of stuff. So off my mom goes to help with this project. My mom lived, my mom is the most immaculate orderly OCD person you will ever ever meet in your life. I mean, it is compulsive, like clinical. This woman's house that she goes into, this woman hordes. Like she's never thrown a magazine away. She's never thrown an empty soup can away. That level of hoarding. My mom was so overwhelmed by it. They spent a week in this house. My mom was so overwhelmed by it. She said, I came home. And I emptied at least 25 to 30% of my belongings out of this house. And I'm looking around and I was like, not for nothing, but do you have a spoon for this tea? Because what did you give away? She gave away everything. Like she is down to survivor man level belongings. She can't take it. Like she just, she gets panicky at the thought of being surrounded by stuff. And the last thing she said to me when we left and pulled out of the driveway, she said, I have to go back over there tomorrow pray for me. Oh my God, what's karmic retribution is it to send my mom into a hoarder house, right? I know. I know it. You know, when I was working as a I was still on my teens, working as an exterminator, trying to sell the money to get into a college. I was sent to a house to spray for roaches, and I walked in and the house, the upstairs, had, I don't know how many, but thousands and thousands and thousands of newspapers. All stacked up throughout the upstairs of the house. I had to walk down an aisle, room to room, spraying for the bugs, and I looked around, and I didn't know what hoarding was. I mean, hoarding was not a thing until it got on bravo, as far as I'm concerned. But evidently, people have been suffering with the whole world. Yeah. I just thought it was the most bizarre thing and I walked out of there, and I told one of my coworkers, I said, you won't believe what I just saw. The entire upstairs of the house are an old newspapers. When the guy just shook his head, I don't know, and we left. But that's been going on for a long time. My mom is who you want for this job 'cause she's ruthlessly clean your house, but she's just like, she's got the shakes. So I'm surprised that I didn't come home with a couch tied to the top of the truck just to get it out of her house for. All right, coming up. A lack of sleep can make you into something you would not believe and it's not cranky and it's not nasty and it's not distracted it's worse. It's coming up. It's bob and chairs. At the bobbin sherry show, we've decided to make every day. And you can get in on the phone. Just submit a picture of your cat or you and your cat at our website. 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"tony garcia" Discussed on Bob and Sheri
"At the bobbin cherry show, we've decided to make every day. And you can get in on the phone. Just submit a picture of your cat or you and your cat at our website. Bob and sherry dot com. Our big boss Tony Garcia assures this view could win a valuable special really expensive prize. You want to say that one more time without the sarcasm? That's bob and sherry dot com hit the contest tab. From doctor pussy's dot com and bob and sherry. Green whatever you drink and celebrate happy hour, Thursdays at 7 p.m. eastern. Live. Live on the bobbin sherry Facebook page. If you've never listened to the bob and cherry podcast, it's stuff that we can't or didn't or shouldn't do on the regular show, not because it's dirty or nasty, but because sometimes we just need more time with a story or it's something that's so specific that it doesn't really make sense, like for the radio version of bob and sharing. Well, it's sometimes a bit more adult too. The language is sometimes it can be filmed. We don't try to make it go that way. It can be filthy because I think you all know who bob Lacey really is, you know? He's a gentleman in the street. A real high freak in the sheets. But anyway, on today's episode of the eyed cast, we talked to a journalist named Sally dent, who's written a book called the colony. She's going to take us from a fundamentalist Mormon sect practicing polygamy to the Mexican drug cartels to nexium. She's going to tie it all together in a story that max said, oh my God, I can't believe what I'm hearing. Right down to a guy they call them Mormon Charles Manson. This is a story that will make your eyes pop out. Here's a taste. The poignancy and the tragedy of those women and children ambushed and massacred together. It's a bloody and horrifying punctuation mark at the end of their story where really ultimately they only had those women only had each other because you know when you talk about plural marriage because it's something that people, you know, those of us on the outside of it struggle to understand. When we talk about plural marriage, we're really talking about this patriarchal head of the household. And then a squadron of women who are helping each other raise all of these children and doing the domestic chores and basically having only each other, they're so isolated from the outside world, having only each other for companionship for friendship for any kind of a reality check. Exactly. And that's made even more galvanized by the fact that a lot of the men from these colonies, you mentioned the pecan and nut orchards. These are multi gazillion dollar properties. And the men spend a lot of their time in the United States working construction jobs and leaving the women increasingly alone in the colonies in the colony to oversee the industry over oversee the business. And they're surrounded by the most notorious and violent drug cartels in the world. In the world. Yeah. And this is not an anti polygamist screed or anything, but with the, when you look at a polygamist culture, the men in have the power, they're the landowners. And the women, there's usually a polygamy, even though the government of Mexico accepted these polygamous runaways from Utah, if you will, and the 1800s, they've been grandfathered in, and they haven't been bothered for their polygamy by the government of Mexico. But it's not legal there just as it's not legal in the United States. And so most of the polygamists, families, patriarchs, get around it by only having one legal wife. And then the rest are common law wives or which also eliminates a lot of their agency. I mean, if they don't have birth certificates and social security, they're most of the mineral dual American citizens. And many of the women who are born there
Bob and Sheri
"tony garcia" Discussed on Bob and Sheri
"To be devastated by a photograph, you have to go to your attic and in the attic was a shoe box and in the shoe box was a picture of the person that broke your heart. Now everyday Facebook just dumps that on your desktop. I hope this doesn't hurt you. It's like leaving an insensitive relative alone in your house. You didn't walk back in the room. This is holding a photo. They're like, whatever happened to your marriage. You're like, Facebook, I told you, we got a divorce. They're like, oh, that's right. Well, anyways, today would have been your four year wedding anniversary. I'm broke and I don't like it. You guys ever get so broke, you just start scheming, you ever been there? Yeah. You're just like, what's an invention we need right now? Like right now, what does society need before the first? We're like, where do you get copper? Where's copper from? You just take an Adderall, you punch a wall, you find copper. What do you do with the copper once you have the copper? I'm broke and it's really bad right now because there's all these kids and they're not broke. They're rich. And they're rich for nothing. They have like an app or they're good at social media and their lives are amazing. They're like ten years younger than me and their lives are just like yoga retreat, decompress from yoga, Tesla, open relationship. I think what it is is I think they got a head start because they didn't have to spend high school proving they weren't gay. That's what I think it was. I went to high school in the 90s. We had to be on guard the whole time. I would have loved to have learned things. I couldn't. I was on guard. You'd have one emotion and everybody would be like, you're gay. You'd be like, no, I'm not gonna teach you to be like, yeah, he's pretty good. I loved art. I love drama. I love poetry. I couldn't do that. I had to wait lift while smoking a cigarette. I was like, look how straight I am. Kids don't have to do that anymore. They're woke. You call kid gays like, yeah, maybe I am. Maybe that's part of my journey. And then he just starts coding right away. I live in New York now. I used to live here. I had to leave because I got depressed and nobody in LA could stand that. Nobody could hear that. They all took it personally. I'd be like, I'm depressed and people would be like, what? No. Have some juice. And I tell people in New York I was depressed and they'd be like, you depressed? That's good. Means you're paying attention. I'm happy now, 'cause I take antidepressants, those really do some heavy lifting. And they're great. Nobody in LA believed in. You know how people in LA give up on medicine because they meet somebody at Whole Foods. You know what I'm talking about like these people that have like a shaman and the shaman's name is Kyle or something. And I tell them I was in antidepressants and they'd be like, you have to get off those things. They're poison. And I'd be like, well, a doctor prescribed them, but you are a yoga instructor. So what do I do, Kyle? What's the answer? And this is why I don't like about people that like natural medicine is they always act like it's very simple. It's very easy. They always sell it like that. They're like, it's no problem. You just want to take niacin biotin thigh, and be one B two B three. Take all the BC's D's and E's, fish oil, purple reishi, 5 HTP saint Johns wort, wake up, drink a glass of water, thoughtfully for one half hour. Boil a bowl of almond milk, put that on a window sill, that's not for you. Climb the tree. Think of bird, get back down safely, write a gratitude list. Set that on fire below the ashes towards your ancestors by these 5 crystals, they're each a $1000. I was like, or I can take one pill. They're like, yeah, if you want to. Yeah, I got stuff to do, Kyle. Thank you guys very much. He's funny. Andy Haynes, and you can see that whole set at BOB, AND, SHE, RI dot com where you can also subscribe to our newsletter. We never spam you. It's all sorts of cool content. And once a week, we pull subscribers at random and we send you swag. BOB, Andy, SHR, I dot com. This is bob and sherry. At the bobbin cherry show, we've decided to make every day and you can get in on the phone. Just submit a picture of your cat or you and your cat at our website. Bob and sherry dot com. Our big boss Tony Garcia assures this you could win a valuable special really expensive prize. You want to say that one more time without the sarcasm? That's bob and cherry dot com hit the contest tab. From doctor pussy's dot com and bob and sherry. Sign up for our newsletter, we never spam you. Never did get bob and sherry exclusives just go to bob and sherry dot com. I had an interesting conversation with a guy that works at Walmart down your work here goes to school. So I'm standing in line waiting to pay for something and this guy comes up to me. He says, ma'am, is that your vehicle? And he handed me care of me as key chain. Now, caramel is key chain weighs about four pounds. You know, teenage girls carry these key chains that don't fit into a handbag. And among the many other things that are on it is a thing of pepper spray. And he said, that's sweet little girl. You tell her be careful with that pepper spray. And I said, I know I worry all the time. It's just going to accidentally like mace herself. And he said, I was at a bar having some beers and watching the game. When a drunken fool came up to me and said, hey, buddy, you know what this is? And he said, it's bear mace, and then he sprayed it in the guy's face. Wow. And my Walmart, my Walmart dude said, I went down like a baby on that floor, water porn out of my eyes. I couldn't breathe,
Bob and Sheri
"tony garcia" Discussed on Bob and Sheri
"A look at the nest. And he gets stung. When he got stung, he got so pissed off. That nest became like the only thing in his mind. For that moment, it was destruction of this nest, so I'm standing there watching, he's getting closer to it, and he's got the spray thing, and he pops it, and the spray thing shoots out this white stuff, and it goes, I mean, he nailed it right into that mess. And then he turned to me and said, they were killed no more. That's the professional assassin version. Yeah. I can't repeat what Kevin said after he dealt with it. It was less professional. And it involves some fire. That is effective. I can tell you that. I mean, bees are good for us, but those bees are really, really nasty. What's the difference between the yellow jacket and a honey bee? There's got to be some sort of a difference. There's a total difference. Yeah, there's a total difference. That's like saying, what's the difference between bob Lacey and Kristi yamaguchi? Yeah, like we're similar. You know, there are some similarities. But you don't have to push my face and it's just a question that I had. But they are very, very different. What I don't know is honeybees serve an amazing purpose. Yes. We can't live without them. What purpose does a yellow jacket serve? I mean, they've got to have some useful functions. They probably do. They probably do. Did we ever decide that mosquitos serve no purpose at all? You decided that, but mosquitos are an important food source for like bats. And some birds and some lizards. Bats are very important. Bats are very important. And so are you and so is Christy yamaguchi. It's just we don't always, even when we're similar, we don't always have the same purpose in life at all. Coming up is your boss insane. Do you work for a total lunatic or is it possible that your boss is just the most insecure person on earth? We're going to break it down for you. It's bob and sherry. At the bobbin sherry show, we've decided to make every day cater day and you can get in on the phone. Just submit a picture of your cat or you and your cat at our website. Bob and sherry dot com. Our big boss Tony Garcia assures us you could win a valuable special really expensive prize. You want to say that one more time without the sarcasm? That's bob and sherry dot com hit the contest tab. Every day is Saturday. With the bob and cherry show. Bob and sherry books swag and the mother of all mothers merch. Just hit shot at bob and sherry dot com. Few years ago, we were doing the thing that I found about posts that men put up for women. Saying, I'm a guy, you're a woman, heads up, guys do this and beware. So it's guys just giving a heads up to women about some guys that may not be good for them. I had so many of them. These guys were great. With this advice, I had so many of them. I saved a few. And here we go. The first guy says to women, I defer to Chris Rock. If you've been dating a guy for four months and you haven't met any of his friends, you are not his girlfriend. That is true. I think that's very true. Yeah. That is very, very, I have never leave it to Chris Rock to come up with an observation like that. But that is true. I dated someone. It was really, really brief. And I think we went on two or three dates. I knew it was not going to last. But, you know, I wasn't dating anybody else. And I did not take her to the usual joints that I go to. The usual bars are restaurants. Because I bump into somebody that I would know. And I just, I just didn't want to get involved explaining who she is and who they are and all of that. I always felt badly about that. You know, that's not a problem. It's an interesting that that stayed with you. That you have a little bit of, I don't know what the right word is regret or shame or whatever the word I'm not sure what the word is. I live in a vat of shame. It's kind of hard to tell, but what do you think, what do you think is the reason that that has stayed with you? Shame. You know, honestly, because I think she picked up on it. I mean, she did not know, you know, my usual haunts, but I think that she picked up something about it. She was a nice person. It's just that we weren't meant for each other. And she detected it. You think she detected that you were not all in? Not all in. Yeah. Exactly. The next one is if he checks your phone without permission. That to me is a huge red flag, this man says. I can't imagine doing that. I can't imagine my wife and I have been married for 12 years. I can't imagine going over to her phone and saying, you know, I think I'm going to have a little check of what's been going on, you know? You've got a lot of blasts to do that, right? Here's what I don't check my husband's phone because he talks enough about the Georgia bulldogs. I don't need to see the websites and apps. I don't need any more Paul fine bomb than I'm already getting on the daily. He can have his phone and his dogs and whatever weird pictures of lizards and birds that he takes when he's outside. It's all you, babe. Yeah, I know. The next advice from men to women. Watch his drinking if it's consistently very, very heavy, it could be a problem down the road. Does he talk about always being ready to fight if necessary? Then he's a lunatic. Well adjusted people in the things like MMA don't want to fight randomly and don't seek it out outside of the sport. Half the point is to have a place for your aggression into controlled setting. Have you ever known a guy that was always ready to fight? I've met a few. I had a guy come over who was a plumber, and this guy, this guy was like in his 60s. And I don't know him. He was the first time in the house, and I'm saying, well, how you doing, you know? Blah, blah, blah, blah. He goes, yeah. Well, it's been a tough week. I said to the one customer, I said, you know, your attitude doesn't please me. And I can tell you, I'll throw down with you, and I went, wow. What are we doing? What are we doing? A 60 year old man is threatening a customer with a fist fight. And I wasn't at that point going to say, you know what? I think the pipes are okay because he would have seen that, right? But I can them. I never use them again. I have so many men in my family tree that are these belligerent FogHorn leghorn types. Are you disrespecting me? Oh, sit. Down. They don't even notice you. They're not disrespecting you. You got one more course? Well, I got one more if he talks about his ex too much. As someone who is in love with an ex for way too long, I was not ready for a relationship with any one else. And that makes sense. If he's bringing up an ex all the time so and so like this or we went here, we went there. I don't think he's over her. This is bob and sherry. You read it once. I don't believe that. And then you're ready again. I can't believe this. It's bob and cherries. I don't believe this.
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"tony garcia" Discussed on Bob and Sheri
"I think you read it once. I don't believe that. And then you're ready to go. I can't believe this. It's bob and cherries. I believe this. And I believe this. If you are someone that doesn't understand why people get all worked up about being asked for their cell phone number heads up because you would not believe what hackers can do with just your cell phone. Like a lot of stores now will go, do we have your phone number on file, you know, for your loyalty points or whatever and if a hacker or a scammer is nearby and they hear you give out your phone number, here are just some of the things they can do with that phone number, which is why you really want to protect it. They can take that phone number and they can type it into a people search site like white pages or fast people search or who easy. And they put the phone number in and here comes your personal information. That they can then use if you look at some of these sites they can find your address. They can find family members names and addresses. They can find out if you have any criminal records. If you've ever filed bankruptcy, so that's a lot of information, just punching your phone number into the web, right? Another thing they can do is they can contact. Let's say they've got your phone number, right? They can contact your mobile provider and they can say they're you. And then they can route your phone number to their phone and from there they can hack into your email account. Yeah, they don't have your password, but they'll just click forgot password and get the reset link sent to their phone that's now using your phone number. And once they're in your email, now it's really easy to get access to your accounts. They can also spoof your phone number. In 2019, I think it was. There were 26 billion scam calls. Most of them, I think, to our phones during the actual show. Because they're constantly wringing 26 billion. So here's how spoofing works. Someone harvests your phone number and they make it pop up on caller ID, but it isn't you answering the phone. And this explains why you get so many scam calls from numbers with your area code, or that look familiar. Like this number looks familiar to you. Is that the dentist? The numbers look so familiar. When scammers get you to answer those phone calls that you think are coming from a familiar number, now they really get all over you to try to get you to fall for the scam. And unfortunately, a lot of people do. Once scammers have your cell phone number, they can send you malicious text messages. This is called smishing, which sounds like a very unsavory intimate act, but smishing scammers send links that infect your phone with malware or that steal your information so that they can get into your mobile banking and everything else. So the next time somebody asks you for your phone number, definitely ask why are you asking for that? And don't be so quick to give it out, especially if there are other people standing around listening. Did you have any idea how much they could do with just your number? No, I had a pretty good idea that it was not a very good idea to give it out. And it happened to me just the other day. I was online, and I was searching something for state taxes. Just, I don't want to get into it. But anyway, I had to reset something with state taxes. And one of the boxes said, and it was, it had that little red dot where it said it was imperative that you fill this in. It's said that your phone number. I had already given my email, I had already given the state my address, I'd already given it last four digits of the social, and then it asked for the telephone. And I went, you know what? I am so tired of getting those calls. I know it's a state thing. I'm not giving it out. You know what I did? I gave the number of my office with the old station. Oh, so they can call there. They can call there. I used to do it with it went through because it's a legitimate office number. It went through. The likelihood of their calling me is probably small, so I don't feel too badly about that. But yeah, you know, one good thing. I just heard the other day is that the FCC is cracking down on these robocalls, which is fantastic, and they think they can wipe out a large percent of them over the next, I guess year. One of our listeners told me a trick, and I have been using it religiously every single day. When you get one of those phone calls that you're pretty sure is a scam call. Answer it. And mute your mic. And they'll think that you're a ghost phone number. So this happens to me like ten times a day or more because my phone is constantly ringing with these things. So I'll answer it. I don't say hello. I tap to accept the call and I immediately hit mute, and there's a couple of seconds, and then you can hear the computer disconnect. And then I block the number. So I don't know if it's going to how long it'll take before I see an improvement, but that's a little trick that one of our listeners shared. It's definitely worth trying. It's so freaking invasive to have the phone ringing all day and all night long with this crap. So invasive. I feel sorry for the people. Don't give your number. I really do feel sorry for the people that have to do that for a living. Because you have got to be just desperate to put up with what you must put up with when you're making those phone calls. People are so angry. That's why I'm not mean to the people that are calling. Right. I'm just like, I'm not interested, click block the number, but the bad thing is, as soon as you answer, they know you're there. And then it's true. It's just relentless. So anyway, we'll post this up on Facebook, so you can share it. Definitely like with your parents, for sure. 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"And he said, so we don't fool around. I said, well, so that's the sign. He goes, yeah, that's the sign. And if I see somebody ignoring the sign, I will go up to the customer, and I will say, would you please put out that cigarette, it's dangerous. And if he does not, I hit him right in the face. And you know oh, I didn't see that coming. Yeah. That's a violence, but if I was if I was blown up and I was sent to the hospital with burns, I'd do the same thing. Oh yeah, I just, I didn't see the whole cold cock thing coming. All right, well that is more in the news and you can see the security footage of the gas station dude on the bob and shared Facebook straight ahead. We have a hero story out of Mississippi that she's gonna love. It's bobbing sherry. At the bobbin sherry show, we've decided to make every day. And you can get in on the phone. Just submit a picture of your cat or you and your cat at our website. Bob and sherry dot com. Our big boss Tony Garcia assures us you could win a valuable special really expensive prize. You wanna say that one more time without the sarcasm? That's bob and sherry dot com hit the contest tab. Every day is Saturday. With the bob and cherry show. Bob and sherry lies tonight at 7 p.m. eastern tonight. Live on the bobbin cherry Facebook page. I have a great little story here, especially if you're an animal lover, so four years ago, a guy named Fred Everett, he's 68 years old now, and he lives in Mississippi. Four years ago, he walked into a humane society and adopted a cat, and he named the cat bandit, and she's a big girl. She weighs 20 pounds. And he banned it, the big girl had been living together now for four years. And last week, he was sound asleep in his bedroom at 3 o'clock in the morning when bandit raced into the bedroom, jumped on the bed and began tugging the comforter off of him and clawing at him. She had never done anything like this before, and he knew something was wrong. He said to the cat, and when you see a picture of this cat this cat is so hilarious looking, it looks like a cartoon cat. She said, girl, what is going on? And the cat was beside herself, just frantically pulling at the blanket and pulling at him. He gets up to see what's going on. And there are two young guys outside his back door, one is holding a handgun, and the other one has a crowbar, and he's using the crowbar to pry the door open. So mister Everett got his own handgun, and tiptoed down to the kitchen. And by that point, I guess they saw him coming and they fled. And he said, it didn't turn into a confrontational situation, but I think that's only because of bandit. Regard cat, she saved me. She saved me from tragedy. That's not such a great story. Yeah. It shows you that they really do have senses that we don't really realize strongly enough. Sure, I apologize for having the dog sound effect that inadvertently ended up into your story and caused a little bit of a start for you. I apologize for that. I was trying to hit the cat in the dog came through. So I apologize. All cats are saying, this is so typical, you know, look at what we do. And the dog gets the credit. This cat, I have I'm looking at a picture of mister Everett and his cat bandit. So she's a calico, so she has this beautiful markings. Her front paws are totally white, so it looks like she's wearing little white slippers. And because she's 20 pounds, she's completely round and her face is completely brown. She looks like the kind of cat you draw when you're 6 years old, we'll post, we'll post a picture of these two together because it's really sweet. That is a great story. Think of all the times we've had stories on the show about animals waking people up because the house is on fire. It's remarkable. People up because there's an intruder. Yeah, they pick up on situations. Sometimes the situations are people walking into your house or in your backyard. Finn has backed away from three people, and they were nice people, but he just picked up a vibe about them. And if I'm to be totally honest, they were a bit odd, all three of the people. Nothing wrong with being odd, but they were really odd. When he looked at them and said, this is not what most human beings kind of act like or look like. I'm just going to pull back a little bit. I don't know how they do it. I trust. My brother had a tribe and lab didn't like somebody and I says, I suppose you're supposed to trust that. He says, I don't know how much you can trust at this dog set for an hour and barked at a shirt that was on the back of a chair because they thought it was a person for a while. Well, I mean, there were different levels of knowledge. Fair point. 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"Stop putting down your phone the minute they stop doing that and you just start going on vacation doing something else meeting new people going up you start to act better like you said you're pulling pulling emotion from a little reset buttons. Yeah yeah big. Even like that The summer before kovac's. When we when i was working on lost and found in producing a movie and it was just all day every day for weeks on end doing producing a movie for the first time ever and i was like oh. I haven't even thought about win. The when was the last audition. I had and i went through my calendar. I was like holy shit. I'm actually like in a little bit of a dry spell. But i haven't even noticed because focusing on this project which will be you know something that i'm in with my friends and i'm directing and i'm writing i'm producing and i'm gonna be in it. I haven't even fucking thought about the fact that it's been a month or two Of had addition because my brain was preoccupied. And i was working on something and it. Just you know it's funny how you live a little and you go. Yeah that's fine exactly and always great. You know. I should probably email my then. I get an to end. I never have to send email on. It's like but you gotta just keep living in you know. Keep your brain occupied or else. You're going to go fuck. Yeah there's a way to go about this business. It might not be like any other job where you have a structured thing on how to but there is actually a structure of of kind of employing these things that we learned over ten fifteen years in order to to have a a better success rate and for you to be a little happier little happier one. Happy eater take us home. Yes sir well thank you..
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"There's so many students who are going to learn a lot from you Where can people find you. Tell mostly instagram on facebook. But i'm barely there so don't any fee message me there. I won't respect for over long. But i most fleet instagram awe. I am there at at jose tony garcia at and then also if i may i am at the practical actor if i can cross promote with actor pro for second can yeah. I mean that i created that account for. Let's where i like coaching. I i should've tidbits of information. I kinda just do it for fun there. It's not like leica a career or anything Coaching is something. I enjoy doing quite a bit. I i teach every once in a while. I got a couple of. I got a couple of different people in the industry. Who i do workshops with from time to time and it's always fantastic and super fulfilling and it's as helpful for me as it is for the people attending the workshops. I think robin in your podcast was talking about it. I like teaching has made her a better actor. Because it's like she has to practice what she preaches. The stuff that she's telling students to be doing all of a sudden she turned around and she's like oh i should be doing the same things like. Why am i just telling them to do it. I should be doing that too. And it's true it's so true self for me as it is for others but i ac jose. Tony garcia is my personal account or at the practical actor Both on instagram allah. I am there meet you. Man will cool. Yeah thank you. Thank you so much for coming on slit. Thank you guys. Appreciate it immensely. Y'all let's Let's do this love it. We'll talk to you soon. Come back again later. Thank you for joining us by town. You tommy steele later. What a great guy just so much a.
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"I think that the sort of goats who response to that is the whole like learned that it's a business. Learn the business of the industry. And that's that's true like you should definitely Like all of your artistic creator dream visions of this industry. Don't throw those away a hang onto them that's important but also realize that it is of business. There is a bottom line. People have to make decisions based on capitol and and you know return on investment and all that kind of stuff. That is all very important. But i feel like i want leave. I wanna give them something more than just that. What about the journey and looking at it from your i. I'm i'm i'm going back to you in college them needing to put you on a probation period. Because you're not good because they said you're not good yet like and then here you are you're booking four different projects in two thousand twelve. We're talking twelve years later. You have a multi the booking year right how many of us squawking and aren't good enough but we're like okay. I guess that's it. Then see you later. Door patience and perseverance. Yup that's that's that would. That's that's my t shirts and perseverance. It is the name of the game. Because here's the thing like skill talent in all all your resume your real all of those things arguably you can you. Can you can like get those things that improve upon them and learn them and make them better instinctively like but patients in perseverence is not anything that you can necessarily like learn more of like it. It's just patience and perseverance. It's being willing to wait and being willing to keep going like that's it. There's no there's no more learning effects like once you know what that is like. You know what i mean so you just kinda have to keep cycling for yourself like i just have to remain patient and i have to maintain perseverance. And that's easier said than done But i think 'specially or like yang eager right out of that conservatory program. Like i just played ablett's you know in last year's production like i'm rich world. Better be ready.
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"Back to that whole like i'm excited to go. See a friend for coffee. This whole thing your lack of desperation casting directors have now come to expect from you so you're coming in and you're doing your like alright later with a smile in your face rather than theorize later and you book vacation you. What do they say. You wanna act book a vacation in the backseat your book. Something about we get in the way is the second. You'll it's like it's gravity. I mean it's like law. It works every time so that can only tell you drive home the fact that you make acting less you make it less about everything. That's the first step to book immoral or is by making it less forward to in future knowing everything that you've learned all this wisdom all this experience in your first. Let's call it horder or first half of your of your career. Watery looking forward to as the months and years progress having this different perspective about the business about life i. I'm looking forward to enjoying it again. I started if that sounds cheesy. But it's the truth like i in the last. Eighteen months have given me a lot of time as i am. Sure giving all a lot of us a lot of time to think about things and like really examine things like we calibrate my brain and way of thinking of it and like we've just had this whole long as conversation about you know not making acting like the center of your universe but easier said than done. I still have my moments where have to recheck Remind myself like stop. It's only like don. Don't and put your entire existence on the line on this to line co-star audition stop. I can stop it gonna do. It's a conserve. you still have to work in progress. Yeah with with the time. That i've had the the amount of time that i've had to really do my soul searching and checking in. I'm really looking forward to just showing it again and having a good time and lake genuinely laughing and finding joy in the work rather than it being work rather than it being a troll or and taxing and you know. I don't want to get an email about an audition and go okay. Am i wanna that okay. All right i need. I don't wanna have that response. I want to look at it and be like oh cool. What's this oh that oh that's a fun. Show say that. That's awesome all right cool. I can do that tonight. All right are cool awesome. Hey sarah i haven't audition right okay. Great like i want that again. And i've had it before so i know i can achieve again but i have to continually remind myself that just because i had it doesn't mean it stays like after you hang onto that it. This business has a very very a of taking that way from you very quickly if you're not paying attention if you're not if you're not if yeah if you if you let your guard down because i don't i don't also want to create jobs like meeting to constantly be.
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"tony garcia" Discussed on Before the Break
"You made it everything you made it you know and this is the same thing with me and i. I'm asking these questions. Because i hit the same thing in fourteen fifteen sixteen for the first time in my life. I said maybe. I don't wanna do this anymore. And believe it because this is my air. This is what i've this is my livelihood. This is this. The reason i wake up in the morning and the last thing i think about when i hit my head on that pillow at night right. But that's the problem. that's that was. My problem was the end all be all tied to and we've said the so many times on this show. I tied something so unreliable like acting to something so important. That is most foolish thing to do right. So then what happens. Well you in your thirties. You realize that acting isn't the end all be all it will not make you happy and that paycheck will never make you happy and then you realize you start to question everything and say well what does make me happy. Oh this business doesn't make me happy. My partner makes me happy dogs. Make me happy. A beautiful day makes me happy. And because you've made it everything you start to question your even place now in this so correct me. If i'm wrong you are coming into a place. Your your little your few years older than me so i think evolution evolutionary in your head like where you are in life. You're like okay. Life is short. And i'm not going to go on thinking that today will determine whether i'm happy or upset whether i get this booking or not which has no no It's not determined on me as a person on even my talent. It's about the person who who has the key in and they might have some they might like somebody completely different reason than than my talent right so when you figure that out. Did things get a little easier. Yes with an app because you know..
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"Check like cheese awesome in hysterical and amazing and so yes so i was with her for about seven years. So yes she's she. She got me back out there auditioning for stuff and year. It took about a year. But then that's when i had a really good twenty twelve with boss my doctor chicago fire commercials and by the end of the year. I joined the union. You're killing it. I remember i mean this is when you came onto my reiter when i when i got in and nine and ten signed with morita right which opened her doors. And i i saw all these bookings from you because they'll post and the town. So i was seeing the stuff that you were doing. Obviously you are on this. You're on this incredible track so signing with her was a really really great thing and does not wonderful for me. She was small boutiques sweet Real and she most importantly she had connections into claire simon. Pr and all these. All these was really close with all of them so they were really open to receive like if she said. I have any talent. They were like them this way way like they were they would instantly be willing to see people that they've never seen before because you know based on her recommendation but that's amazing based mental has one anybody in your corner like that. That's so great. Yeah and we know the ups and downs so you can't have a twenty twelve every year. We're those years but we're those deers like. What were the times like that. We're the most stressful that we're the darkest and how did you get through a boy. So i only had some dab inflow the rollercoaster ride I might twenty fourteen and fifteen. Were the years that kind of broke me and pushed me to like like. I don't know if i want to do this anymore. I think. I may. I think may be done. I think i may be interested in trying to figure out something else which was like you know. Obviously generally speaking. That's a big deal for any active saint of but like big time. Especially when you like. That's all you've known like your entire life lake since. I was seventeen and took that first acting class that i was like. I think i'm going to do this like that's all i'd known then i was one of those actors who you know of to each zone but in my opinion looking back on it it was a big mistake on my part but i was one of those actors where like my entire life revolves around my being an act like it was the center of my universe. I did nothing else. I had no hobbies. I had no outside interests i was. I wouldn't allow myself to do other things because my home tally will as i need to be fully committed in focused in in my journey of trying to be a successful act. Anything else is just getting my way or distract me and keep me from achieving my goal and looking behind you think that. Why do you think that was not a favorable thing v. God how.
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"So you're getting a lot of these roles that will call you. Don't you don't you. Don't write home a oh yeah. Let's just say that. It's dad. I i did i and then very i should start. Yeah then your mom's like oh. Yeah your dad's on discovery. Id to actually the. Oh my god funniest one. I did this one for sears. They were they had just come out with like a new line of like craftsman tools for something and so they. They made this industrial video. Where is no longer by the way. Tony is so old. That is isn't anymore store anymore was it was. It was a video of like. I was the customer and like the the the employees come up. And he's like how. Can i hope you don't like looking for houston tools. He's like.
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"It's the number of times that. I was struggling with like i have this many agencies and i'm not getting anything or you know like all of a sudden they're all they're all calling me about the same fucking audition so nice. Oh shit this call. I so he i gotta go. They get it if i like. It was just a mess. I eventually like did away with that. And i was with shirley hamilton and one nonunion agency And i i was in london world for a really long time doing industrials and training videos. And all that kinda stuff like if you real. That's real art right there. Oh yeah like if you ever shows. Did i do that in chicago. It's huge here. No it's it's a new york. It's like it's like people say i got. I got a tv show. Yeah would you get discovery. Id so here in new york for like exact tommy. I don't think it's union right is it. I don't i. I've gotten kabibi. Vote but i think now it's nonunion i think it's now nonunion. Maybe a one point. It was like both but you'd see it all the time it was like i mean it's basically like reenactments as an aunt but it fucking television and there's constantly there's auditions to self submit for and yet tommy's are here people be like i dig. Oh my god what is it discovery. Id yeah okay like you're gonna be on tv but it doesn't really tactically. Yeah when i when. I booked on the history channel or discovery Shot down by. Wills remember that bar wills and off of belmont. Wrigley ville tone. It was this like wisconsin theme bar. Anyway we shot this thing that was called mobsters and know we all just dressed up in these old clothes we got on tv. And that was like one of my first tv gigs but technically it was like well they could have gotten. You're dead uncle to do that. I mean it really does desert just reenactment unity warm just so these actors..
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"You were unrepresented. You were non union. You didn't have any de legitimate professional credits yet your your your second year in chicago. So what are the. What are the things that you began doing too. And this is what this is about. Oh said i'm gonna age fuck myself. I grabbed two thousand three okay So i got to chicago in two thousand three but it. It probably wasn't until the fall of two thousand four. When i really really was like okay let me let me start figuring out chicago and tony. Can i ask your mfa program. Get you ready for any of this like going out into the world and becoming a laughing and becoming a a working actor like do you guys have a showcase. Did they tell you about representations or unions or anything like that or were you figuring it out on your own..
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"Are you. I know you really stress right now. Just got a dog. And he's about ready to take it down to the square and take him to the hanging man. He's covered in chocolate protein. Shake that i'll have to wash out later but You know the joys of fatherhood. It's wonderful i can see that. You're smiling adam icy q. Look at you look at looks like snoopy but yeah well. That's the same same same same as rory. I think they're made to be so beautiful and so handsome because when they fuck up all the time and they spill your protein shake or a spillover a giant thing paint you look at them and you say well i can't kill you. You're gorgeous not paying. Oh that's that's not even close. That's not even close to the worst thing that he's done that's just this week. We'll see we've had so a little over a month and to be honest. He really hasn't like done anything. That pissed me off. Well it's a hell of a lot better. It's a hell of a lot better than than the first day where you called us crying. Saying i need him gone. I don't know what to do. Oh my god. That was a really bad forty-eight hours but we're in a better place thank god well listen every everybody. Thank you for jumping into our therapy session today to listen to our therapy session and our show this week. We we've got a great show. We integrate show this week. We sit down with an l. A. base stack got his start in chicago where he worked extensively with appearances on shameless chicago. Pge kaga fire or empire in his recurring role on showtime's shy as work in theatre includes porchlight the goodman chicago shakes and many many more. Please welcome the very hard working very successful and very kind. Jose tony garcia. Thanks for coming on the show. What's tony good. Now thank you chicago like ten years ago. Thank you for being here. It's been a longtime welcome to la though you've been here for a little bit of time over a year now yeah okay..