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Is Lana Del Rey About To Drop TWO Albums?

Direct from Hollywood

02:33 min | 3 months ago

Is Lana Del Rey About To Drop TWO Albums?

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HR 2: Homewrecker

Afternoons with Marcellus & Kelvin

44:33 min | Last month

HR 2: Homewrecker

"What you need to know is brought to you by morongo casino resort and spa. Good time less than ninety minutes from wherever you are by the way real quick just and update for you Philly looks like they are feeling the pressure atlanta's up nineteen eight six minutes to go. Doc rivers already perplexed out there. We'll see whether that storm initially in atlanta. but laura. What do you got what you need to know. I am and so on january fifth. Dr dre was hospitalized and we actually talked about that here in a new interview. He said he's doing great. He's taking care of himself. And i wanted to read a quote that he said he says and i think every black man should just check Themselves out to make sure things are okay. he's like. I'm going good and i'm moving on. That's great. I'm happy for him but i love that. He's actually creating a school in south. La that is going to open fall of twenty twenty two. He said he wants students to have an opportunity to think outside of the fox instead of the traditional curriculum. They're going to have entrepreneurship. They're going to explore. Obviously the art. And i love that. Because i mean let's be real me as a latina. We didn't have a lot of that stuff entrepreneurship for sure. Not in our school arts. We didn't have money for that. So i loved that he's teaming up with somebody and that they're creating this in south. La oh no doubt man. Look i i believe. He also l. c. I think you and i did a story with key. Many many years ago were and jimmy ivine also created a. I don't know if it was a course or some line of studying At usc to rights is not the first time that he does something like this. They've definitely have have ventured often that direction. But i'm really intrigued. By the first part of the conversation which is him making. Sure that brothers noted go get checked up. Well that to a lot of stuff that we die from preventable yep but we gotta catch it early so. I'm glad that he's using this time. To kinda remind us you know that you can be. Og in august of to cancer really doesn't care right so that's all get checked on. No you're right. That screenings are important for a lot of different things but particularly black and brown people blood pressure high cholesterol things like that things that can lead to heart attacks stroke. Y'all need to check yourself so there you go. That is what you need to know. I think we're good. I mean i can give you guys other stuff long weekend. I mean it's father's day weekend loving recap because he was kinda quiet on that list. Because i'll take the real quick about about this whole thing. L z. what you said was right. I'd encourage everybody like get check. Make sure you go see your doctor so you don't all of a sudden get there too late. But the the notion of teaching entrepreneurship so fascinates me. Because i think that so many kids assume that this is the way you go high school. Maybe you go to college and then you go get a job like if everybody stop thinking about a job necessarily and start thinking about what could i do. Not necessarily what job can i get. What can i do so teaching entrepreneurship to me is awesome. I'm all about it. Okay real quick sidebar on that before we get to the calls because there's a guy that says he's like a tv show. We talk about laura's friend. Mike was like a devote draft. That guy needs to call back. Broke you tibo guy. Callback off to come back. Yes that's pretty. you know what else. We don't teach in school that we need to teach school to tire. Well that's right for sure how to manage money like how to open a bank account how to do or create opportunities to manage money right like understand finance the stock market things like that. And i'm not saying there shouldn't even be done in in in college zito cursory introduction to you know the economy and economics although like starting high school kids are smart. You know you've got kids investing in school in highschool these days middle school elementary school right. I mean it's it's you know. The kids are way more advanced now but there was a real issue with education system and we lost home eck and shop for a variety of reasons and with that came. Somebody's life skills. But you know. I think that having students know how to balance a checkbook as you're saying understanding what it means to have a credit card right and then being able to change a tire chain some oil by just some basic stuff like if you if alike goes out and you need. Replace a fuse. Do you even know what a few boxes like. Super light skills light. That could really help. Everyone not just assume that you got like a dad at home parents at home that no as well continue to kids that it'd be good if the schools do that i agree Let's go to the phones. Mike palmdale mike which up during day. check it out. I just want to know why. Why is low. So matt if the clippers advance. Why are the lakers. Though laker fans so mad at the clippers advance. I just don't get it. it's gonna take them what seventeen years to catch up. I mean what what what's going to be. I don't get it. And i'm a diehard lakers fan. I watched all the games when they sought and when they got good and when they soaked together so i just don't get it. I mean there's more colleagues to call in and chime in on that as well as You guys probably alphabet answer william. I mean mike. I like that. You are teasing the cost for me. I appreciate you wanna give out the number. It's eight seven seven seven ten. Espn dudes sets the number. Try say eight seven yard. Hey let's get some calls in guys one. Eight seven seven seven. That's eight seven seven seven ten Espn doubt seventeen. Fun fun but really. I need to ask. I don't get it. i understand the question. The question is why care so much. Basically right all right over the clippers. The lakers so seven seventeen in a row in order to cancel lakers. Which won't happen more when you had your show on at eleven o'clock before everything prepped. Off with the pandemic you had asked the question At the at the clippers make it to the championship versus the celtics Who were later fans chewing for right And and a lot of lot of delta. Which i it was crazy i. I know i was stunned by that too. And thank you. Mike for listening back then and now appreciate your have a good weekend greg. Would you like to answer that. I mean you're a laker fan. To laura laura go ahead. I kind of answered it already. Mentioned literature said it lasts a glass segments. Hey new audience. George go ahead say it again. I said congrats. But i ain't going to be jumping up now like okay. Whatever that was my answer yeah. It's basically the same thing. I'm not gonna go crazy if if utah wins. And i'm not gonna go. I'm not gonna be excited. If the clippers lose or win. I just it just is something. That's going to happen art k. I believe to mark the tape right now. Okay because if the clippers lose today and and let's say they lose the series on sunday. I'm going to talk a lot saying oh so now. I thought you just said it wouldn't matter if they win if they win. It doesn't matter but if they don't get out of the second round again vetted by then. It does matter than it does matter right. It's two totally different things. I realized that there was so much anger in all of this. I know it's not angers. Let me just set this up. When kawhi leonard was signed by the clippers he was at a rams game and they showed him on the jumbotron. And you know what happened right. Everybody in the stadium went boo boo. And it's because he not a laker plus the whole way it looked like he might be a laker and then he chose the clippers. Okay that all being said you know that l. as a laker town. Not a clipper town. We got it last year when the clippers got knocked out in the bubble michael thompson called. This is what i was doing nights hysterical laughing. And i said michael. Wh why why so. Much pleasure okay. I'll turn it around greg. Not hate pleasure. Why so much pleasure in their failure and he said they don't belong here. How dare they being our city. How dare they share our building. Get out i was a wow okay see. I didn't realize there was that level of of they don't belong here kind of mentality. I didn't know that so. It's not so much about the clippers themselves or anything that it's mostly the fans like with the way that they brought themselves out last year with the spotlights are street lights over spotlights and a lot of his side. Are you really that mad over mad about that. It's just other you. You just listened to your own. I'm t- i'm telling you i was asked a question. I'm responding to the question. My this is my tone just in general so the idea is the fact is that oh clipper fans could they come out talking about how they own l. a. And all these other things start this this. This is something that happens can remember. You talked about it before. I would have showtime forum. I did had lakers raw. All those things people would actually right. It's yeah right but that's what it is. It's a social media where they come on there and they just talks all much trash and we're so much better. This lebron staying whatever it happens to be and then the lakers win a championship. And they go all a mickey mouse ring and then now that then they get knocked down like. Oh no it's fine. It's fine but it's just it's just frustrating is what it is. There's nothing to do with the clippers themselves and if they win good for them i that's fine. I would prefer not. But that's just because i'm a laker fan. Has nothing to do with them. Specifically laura apparently tivo has reached out to you. T t bill greg. Tvos asking the question if the clippers win. Same here right. Are you gonna be happy going to be mad. Whatever else dude. I'm never going to root for them. I rather a different team win. He goes but you're from kelley as the kelly girl. You should be rooting for the kelly team he lives. You're not a kelly loyalist. And all they do. Yes i was like what is wrong with the l. is like no so him and i get into this all the time because he feels like. I should root for the clippers. The lakers he. He'll root for them. they're playing. yeah. He's he's the he's but he's just not those are the people that brushing teeth with their right or left. Hand those people. Yeah that's all. I feel like look you got. You have your team your loyalty team like you know. I'm not the huge broad fan. But i'm like you. I respect him minding. Is you know i do respect him. What i was on my but my and i like the panthers you act like we don't talk everyday everyday. I mean we communicate respect. I can't stand no. I respect the dude i respected. You always couch it with that game but anyways. I'm not going to root for the clippers. Like my team is the lakers. That's what it is. And that's what i told him like. That's how i feel. This is bothering clipper fans very very much. By the way clipper fans what. They're what they're upset about is now wait a second. We're the clippers. The lakers are out. We're la just because. We're not the lakers. Shouldn't you be supporting the other. La team and it's really bothering clipper fans a lot. That laker fans in particular are not saying. Well you're from la too so we'll support you guys. do they. Could clip clipper fans are pissed about this okay. Now i've got a laker like rumor. That's fascinating i love. The internet is so good like the things that people find on. The internet are fantastic to me. It's fascinating especially someone to talk to her everyday. Y'all would you rather you said i could live without. The internet was supposed to air conditioning. Caveat to that you kinda forgot the content without the internet. That's right. I have exactly. I was before. The internet was george in rancho cucamonga. Real quick though. What's up george. What's up guys long. She's really quick What what if joe. Paul george does what. Lebron didn't do On his in his terms. How would you guys view. Lebron something that george is going to do tonight. I don't understand what you mean on his terms. What does that mean. i think what he means is. Lebron didn't carry the lakers to a win. And what paul. George does carry the clippers. Yes exactly davis is her Collide her and You know all the difference is ron was also hurt. I mean You think. I don't even say he was hurt. He was he was. He was dealing with an injury. Because davis got hurt. No no he was hurt bro. I mean they've rolled his ankle. But if you watch that go do me a favor. Thank you for the call. George that we gotta roll. Gorge yourself at the break. Go find the solomon. He'll rolling on lebron's ankle. Most people in that situations are probably in their ankle broken. I think the way he ruled on it. I'm not even exaggerating about that. Go watch because. I've seen it before multiple times. And i'm like how did he even try to come back and play like he. Did you write down a couple of times. It was like nah. I'm out so but so we can get to that. Let's roll that to the other side. Plus this sweet little laker rumor. I want to hear this. We've been talking about kids playing in the nba. Could there be one coming home. We'll get to that. Oh girl what. Toni braxton toni braxton. There's an anniversary for toni. Braxton today you know we love to celebrate the anniversaries around here so it is the anniversary of the secrets. Now if you recall when she was promoting that album that was also the time of the alleged rumor of her break. It up the nineteen ninety-six mavericks of jason kidd. Jim jackson jamal mashburn to which has been debunked at least by mashburn and jim jackson but it was a juicy story light. If you remember elsa for many many many many many years for twenty years we were believed that we were led to believe that that rumor was true. We were in part of the had to do with no-one. Were flat out. Deny it for correct. Correct and each person had like their motivations. Why right tony. Because the intrigue. What's good for business. You know the the two guys because it was embarrassing. Yeah and in the third one who's just trying to ball and got caught up in windstorm so for those. That don't know that story. Toni braxton releases this album. It's super popular. She's like one of the hottest artists in the world in one thousand nine hundred eighty six. Okay you know. The dallas mavericks jason kidd. Jim jackson and jamal mashburn. Everybody thought man that's could be a hell of a big three. It'd be crazy. They're a bunch of kids but they're gonna ball. It's going to be awesome. And all of the by the way very good pros jason hall of famer but the other two very good pros in there right. Does you know. I mean mashburn. Specifically i feel like somewhat underrated as a professional player of them are actually jim for sure to baller man. He was a baller. He was about jim jackson by the way an amazing broadcast guys. He's incredible few times around the world. The broadcast three automatically are incorrect. Jamal jamal dsp in for a little while and he was like dog. I'm just gonna go buy a bunch of papa. John's taco bells and make him be like close to a billionaire. And that's what he's doing but so the story goes like this that you know. She was promoting this album secrets. Which was the name of the album. She goes on dallas radio station and said oh you know we heard that you were seen jason kidd but that you left them for to go out with jim jackson you left him hanging and she kinda left it like. Oh i don't kiss intel. Something like that. And i was like. Oh and that's when the story went nuts. She did not like some morning show on a radio station promoting the album. And then the guy's never like really fest to two l. Point so jamal. Mashburn was the first to festival in two thousand fifteen where he said look. She's beautiful woman she goes he goes but i think it costs us because of egos is what he said so he basically kind of implied that to your point nosy the other two dudes jamie and jason did not want to admit that. Perhaps that was happened. Because that would mean that right she would have been with both and they would not have wanted that for almost like a mini. you've been catfish. Yeah no one wants to really do that. You just kind of wanted to go away. But that never went away. And the rumor has it as that inability for them to move past. That blip in their early careers caused dallas. A chance to maybe do some things right now right. I thought they were still pieces away from being serious championship. Contenders myself agreed. But that squad and today's nba would be a championship contender funny enough. But in that time period what they were trying to do in dallas. They were just too small for that. So this broke this team up in other words these guys because think about it. You're young kids at this time. You're probably in your early twenties. Hey i want the super hot singer. No i want the super hot singer. No she likes me not you now all of a sudden i don't wanna play with you anymore. Now you and me. We got beef. We can't even be in the same locker room is that what was it that bad. Is that what you're telling me. Well i think that they had already had and and Obviously george you can fill in all the blanks and stuff. But my recollection recollection of that moment was that they were already a selfish team anyway before. Toni braxton yeah yeah yeah yeah they were right she made it worse because i think the first person there was mash right Jason kidd. I believe might have been i hold on. I'll look it up. Real mass medicaid was jackson. And then kid. Yeah i thought it started with mash and Because he went to kentucky loss to see where and then. Jim jackson loss web so i thought it was. That was the order in terms of them. Play but anyway. Let me point being is that they're all young cap there are self-esteem. Anyway you drop in. This bombshell toni. Braxton and they just couldn't keep it together. Yeah it doesn't surprise me though. Really seriously i mean as george started by. If you don't recall the story here are the details. And he filled. I remember just a headlines. But i could see it happening. No problem take a bunch of young dudes. Everybody got lots of money. All of a sudden people are starting to get really famous and then here she is. I think she wants to be with me now. I think she wants to be with me. I can't dog who out there could break us up. Who's the toni. braxton. Who's the snl. Okay you're now. Would it be like somebody in the media. You're saying just anybody that would come in and try to try to light. Yoko ono us come in and potentially break up this trifecta. Oh wow well it has to be a very special person because you know they got some obstacles they gotta they gotta you know do a lot to switch hit is what i think they gotta do to switch hit also be the pitcher tiny tiny actually fans to if you really think about it a lot of work to do. That's a great question. Maybe we'll lead. Let's pose it to the audience at eight seven seven seventeen. Espn eight seven seven seven seven. Three seven six real quick. Speaking of jason kidd and i'll get his leg room under second. He is like the betting favourite or amongst the betting favorites for like five innings right. Now the lakers the lakers job. No man for like the boston celtics dow's mavericks and things like that. Now it will be interesting because remember you know the players certainly took to him. I don't think there's any question about that kid right. Damn i play for jason kidd. I'd love watching you play dude vogel's head coach but that's jake kid man. That's what i'm saying. That's why when. I say the lakers coach. You know you of laughed off. But i'm serious. Like i wonder if if jason kidd is this in demand. If you're the lakers you start to think to yourself. Why would we let him leave. No because you interviewed him. I decided that you wanna frank vogel. Okay that's absolutely true. Say a change my mind not possible. I mean that looks very very you know especially means now. It would have been different. If the if the lakers had started the season poorly correct there would have been different but we were like what twenty one and six and then took over right. So it's like what are you gonna do. I thought he had an excellent job. Considering all of the injuries we had to to deal with in fact. I think he's been doing an excellent job since dot here when you think about everything outside of basketball. He's had to manage bubble kobe's passing. Obviously the embarrassment of how he was hired. You know with everyone being interviewed. Accept him then he finds that. Okay i frank come on and kept it altogether. He has the pandemic. The bubble like that man is underrated. I know we've already played the game but bragg when his birthday comes. That's my selection. Yup no i. I agree i agree. Hey real quick. So here's the the lakers. I guess rumor so the internet the folks on the internet apparently have noticed something that both. Anthony davis lebron. James started following nina. Westbrook the wife of russell westbrook now remember once a week or two ago. We discussed it. There was a rumor out there. The bleacher report had it that russell westbrook to the lakers is probably a thing and we kind of like an not. Do ramona shamsur. Hanes and one of them. We ain't payments into that. So now does this bring perhaps a little more validity to that report in bleacher report. What save it for the other side. And then i wanted to know if you think that would actually work potentially so we'll get to that stick around plus we've got. Would you rather all coming up in two minutes here on seventeen. Espn all right. chris. I'll take it but you guys were talking about the toni. Braxton and who could break up s. l. k. i mean. There's a pretty obvious answer. Was that ki ki. Could come in and break everybody up. Yeah you'd be in trouble. Yeah i thought there was the obvious answer. I there is another obvious answer to yeah. Wait a second hold on. Keyshawn comes back to la and that breaks up s. l. k. There's actually won't mess up different tackle. Keep the name you doing. Yeah hi keyshawn is an obvious choice to break up. Kiesewetter want it. You wouldn't want to try to be. You're not even lobbying person out about i'm asking. I mean that's fine. You just have all my comedian buddies back on the air fun. Who else who else could break. We can do that later. We'll get to the game here game. We'll do that people chime in. Who could break up. S okay in the media. That could join the show at eight. Seven seven seven seven. Espn eight seven seven. Seven seven seven seven six. We'll get your calls. But greg tell us what you got for. Would you rather all right. Let's start with you sodano since you're the last one to talk. Would you rather be balding fit or overweight with a full head of hair dog. I mean there's so many dudes that go that. Look good without hair like nb fit. Yeah for sure. I'd rather i mean. I don't know yeah like so you're telling me i if i okay so let me ask a question okay. I'm not repeating the question you're allowed to ask you. No it's a question about the the hair and i'm fat. Can i still lose weight. No okay then. that's easy. I'd rather just be fit and just shape it dog and go you know whatever fault all right nice head so i'm okay with it. If it ever happens. So see. I on the other hand. Don't think i have an ice head at all now. I've never been ball. Like i've never really shaved my head but i can feel that i got some bumps and lumps and calix in all kinds of things. I don't think i would look good ball at all. Okay so i but that said i'd much rather be fitting bald then fat and with a nice head of hair. i rather. i'm vain enough to want the body over. The hair is what. I'm saying z. So this is one of excited for because you're both have a great head of hair and fitz hell. Yeah i would definitely shave this off as wannabe no fatman fatman. Some of the greatest athletes male athletes. Anyway of all time are fitting ball yet. Micron jordan andre agassi like come on man. Bronze hair okay. Kinda balding was what you were saying. Yeah balding katie boy. Who i a hard cap would you rather. Would you rather never be able to eat meat or never be able to eat vegetables. Oh this is neat. This is actually this. I had to think about this for a little bit. So i have to go with my gut immediately. I'd give up vegetables. I'll take your answer that question because we're not vegetarians. Thought about fair next all right. I'll see this one probably would have been better for cap because it fits along with me and hit okay cap. Because if it's along with un me would you rather be famous kind of. Would you rather be famous but ridiculed or just be a normal person. Did you just call yourself famous known. I that's kind of ridiculed. It's the ridiculed part not the not the famous juneteenth and stuff next week. You you'll get caught out on that not calling me famous would you. Would you rather be famous and ridiculed or just be a normal person. I have one question. Do i get to be rich and famous or only famous rich and famous okay. I'll take rich and famous. Yeah no doubt right. Had to be rich. I though not fame famous and brooks terrible if you're rich and famous you know that's the reality is. This is that everybody gets ridiculed now because the social media so i don't know how much more it can be to be honest with these. I'll just take whatever the the the riches and fame that comes with it to be frank with you. I'm with. I'm with george but you could be a regular person and still get trashed right next. All right i'll see. I'll go to greg probably wasn't good news for you. I'll be kinder all right. Not even l z. Would you rather have a flying car or a car that can drive underwater or oh dr underwater really. Why because it goes into water already likely is over the water. I can get on south west. Yeah i don't have a submarine but your own car. Yeah underwater man. You don't have to wear the middle seat underwater. Okay fair i would take the one that flies. 'cause i you know i mean i don't need to go under the water. I'm good like flying over it. I'm straight with. I'm a little. And i haven't done this but i think i'd be claustrophobic under the water and i think that there's kind of a cool jetsons thing that i perceive myself flying around in my own car. You know jetsons. So i'm gonna fly last one greg. Alright sodano would you rather have unlimited sushi for life or unlimited tacos for life interest. Yeah go. I'm gonna go sushi because if you look at if you look at the data okay if you look at the diet of people who eat a lot of fish they live a lot longer and healthier lives and i love me. Dog goes but i like to. I wanna live a long life so there you go. Nobody has anything to say. Nobody's going to revoke a card here or anything like that. I mean come on really know nobody nothing. No it's part of. Why would i need to be revoked. I just chose fish over overthrow. Goes up for sure. Come on by the way there's fish tacos too. You know that right. Okay have a fish tacos. It okay so all right. I'll join you for sushi. George then there you go. I'll make a trifecta. I want the sushi price sheet. You save a lot of money getting sushi. That is would you rather could lord all right so eight. Seven seven hundred. Ten espn we. We're talking about toni. Braxton is the anniversary of her biggest hit because album secrets and it was the album's promoting when she allegedly according to a rumor. Many many years ago got in the way of the love triangle. Between jason kidd jim jackson and the dallas mavericks. So we kind of jokingly. We're talking to who could come in and break up s. l. k. So greg nominated key so feel free to hit us up at eight seven seven seventeen. Espn you said. L z. that there was a more obvious one or obvious of one. Yes and who is that. There will be amanda brown. Oh our boss. Our actually do that. Thanks point by going to try and come in here and break us up eventually. Who and i think he's just going to try. I mean i'll just going to air amount right now. What the hell you know your boy. George mike trudell. I think trudell is trying to break us up. I think he's break up. Okay yeah trudell has so much more time in his life that he's not doing radio through podcast he's got all man listen to the show and he's going you know georgia's miss with threats of something capper you nervous time. It's just a vibe. I'm getting you know. And he's he's looking at the show and he's going elza baller georgia's around the nba. And kaplan thinks he's mr football. Put me in there. And i'll at so i'm thinking he might be beloved trudell though sink. I'm saying he might try and do love them. They do love him. Greg what they do love people do love trudell is a huge part of the laker community. So watch your back and you know he. And i are very tight. So that's what i'm saying. I mean you guys are having worried about. Arthritis pomegranate margaritas margaritas too. I mean you don't me. I don't know a little bit. Yeah but mrs trudell. Any had some Anyway let's go to the phones frank east. La frank killed up. frank. Frank all right frank. Let's go to derrick in long beach. Derek how are you sir. Gentlemen so in the russell westbrook trade or acquisition. I say no. Because i don't want to be a salary cap health for a couple of years and i don't want on. Ad and the wing just throwing jumpers because all three guys cannot be driving it the simultaneous lights. That perry just doesn't work so it's interesting durga and thank you for the call and for those that don't know what we're talking about the lakers twitter man. They are good. They found out that. Anthony davis davis and lebron both just started following nina westbrook wife They obviously all follow. Russ as well so people started to think because it was a room as week complete your reporter about ten days ago or so. That maybe russ would join the lakers. And they'd bring him home back to la. And i love the fit though. I'm a dera ghazi. Oh it's terrible. i just lost. Because he couldn't hit threes right. Where does we doing. Why would you want bad. And trust i think pound for pound. Westbrook may be the greatest athlete is ever seen. Yeah yes from a pure athletic perspective. We're talking damn near bo. Jackson freakish at correct ridiculous. Yup i don't want him on his team. And and it's not because i don't think he's a fine player is just. I don't think he's a fine player for what we're trying to do with what we have. People love this stuff though you know. They're like oh he's from. La would be so great to bring him home. This is what the lakers need. Just more athleticism. That whole bring 'em home thing it's cute and it's fun and it's symbolic and everything else but if it doesn't fit you know you know who we need to bring home who that is all. I said we need to bring yup. No no no even before lonzo. Oh i wrote a whole piece about actually in. La times droese man. Give me knock down a shot. Give me somebody who is butter. He's like a mid range master though but nah man listen. I've been listening to you and all those analytics people go on and on and on about hitting three. But he's not chris all. I'm watching people put put in work and not shooting a single three. I know but i honestly three honesty's a freak of nature like that reason called the greek freak. Chris is the greatest mid range shooter of this generation. Like i don't think the rosenblatt man rosen is as pure as a shooter in the league now. It's not. He's not a great three point. Shooting fact you can argue and say he's a very very poor three point shooter. Yes but even with that being said i would much rather had him out there on that floor with lebron ad. China make it work. Then any of these options. That i've heard so far in terms of switcheroo and stuff because i know one thing for sure that do is body butter but a butter from mid range and there are plenty of mid range shots that we couldn't even it in that series not just threes. We couldn't even hit mid range shots right so i will. If we're talking about bringing home in all star between those two westbrook is the more dynamic player but demar derozan is really the consistent shooter and score that we need. It's funny because the lakers haven't had a ton of successful i would say is the key word. Local products. gail goodrich was one Michael cooper jamaal wilkes b. scott byron scott like that era had some but there has an outside of that like gale was before them obviously but jamal byron and coop and then gail and then the rest of it. There's not a ton of success stories. They're seeing dr brown here on twitter. Says westbrook on the lakers would be an effing disaster. Can't shoot. He can't play off the ball. Be terrible pickup. And that's terrible with a capital. T. let let's. Let's continue this eight seven seven seven seven. Espn eight seven seven seven. Three seven seven six plus plea bar- tweeting us People who could break s okay. Who could be are toni. Braxton are yoko ono. we'll get to that coming up in just a moment. We got an anniversary. A rick together forever reached number one today in one thousand nine hundred eighty eight on the billboard. Hot one hundred you know. It's funny if you keep playing this offers second. This song is really never gonna give you up at just the different speed. You know that right never gonna give you up is jam but this there's also jammed but this basically the same song. Yes about love man to canada. You let you down for ice. See him wearing like a very beige. Khaki trenchcoat right now it's a black trenchcoat but obeys shirt under in this one or the other one. Yeah but basically it's just the same song is a different speed. They just slowed down the track a little bit. No is just because they're both disco e. Excuse me spent on the track. This is slowed one when you play disco. Tobacco is sounds. Like a seamless track. That's all was very very different. Yeah this is more version of together forever. This one's no no stranger to love and love is no stranger to them. Hit that no george. You get this from any other. I don't i don't know why these stick in my head but such a giant herd together forever in like decades forever for it was like bam those right there. I mean i forgot together forever was a number one. Hit wonder with this song He's he's a handful. Top ten hits nineteen eight. And i was in high school dude. My me song was actually like it would take a strong strong man which is a much much slower. Disco song george to your point when i was a jam. I was ten years old when the song came out. I still rolling in london. Oh yeah he's still here all the time like y'all series about this cap you wanted to make bet before we get to the calls. Yes gentlemen i would like to make a wager with the two of you guys. We've not made a wager now in the new world of s. l. k. And yet we're already talking about who's gonna break up this show guys. Yesterday we were very vulnerable. I admitted i'm a padres fan. George admitted he's given up on the yankees and now he's a dodger fan and tells he's been calling. Andrew friedman the smartest guy in baseball forever. So guys next week. The padres play the dodgers. I have posted a picture on twitter. I am offering to make no okay. Has anybody seen this picture with a t shirt with a chain on it with the san diego right so i got the swag chain t shirt if the padres beat the dodgers next week i will send you guys swag chain t shirts and you have to wear the san diego swag chain t shirt on the other hand. If i were to lose if the padres were to lose. I then have to rock. What is called the l. a. cap t shirt which is my last name k. a. p. l. a. n. and the la is the dodger logo. So guys that's branding right there who you don't lose in that spot you brandon yourself not seem like a bed are being gay. Okay then how about this. How about this. You guys have to wear the la can t shirt how about how about you workshop. This a little bit like workshop and for the next segment workshop. Yeah we're it. Come all right. Anybody who wants to hit me up on twitter. Who thinks they got a better idea than t shirt challenge we know. Let the audience decide. Chris alta dena chris. How're you they. George supper here me to right off that i got two points. I want to get back to this clippers thing. Why why lakers fans feel about the clippers. So look i've been in. La my whole life. I grew up. Al-sina laker fan. My whole life right so you gotta just think back to. When the clippers came to la they were an embarrassment to la the as an organization. I mean players didn't wanna play here. They weren't even really trying to win. Were like the real life washington generals of the nba. And i mean like like it was an a a black eye to the city and now they've got good but look that's along member we remember. They were embarrassing right. So we don't forget that so you know i wanna see him do well because i don't want him to embarrass delano more root for them right. But but here's here's the bigger point. Let me let me make this point. Here's the bigger point. Let me know in what situations i should ever root for an actual division rival of my favorite team. The clippers are division rival. Y'all like like i'm also a cowboy fan. Nothing can happen where. I'm gonna start rooting for for the eagles washington football team or the giant. If the if the cowboys were make the play. Now i get i get that part of it I think what people are expecting to. And chris you make a great point and thank you for the call but i think what people are objecting to is the the nature of. Hey it's it's still someone in the city. You know what i mean. And and so. The giants in the washington and the eagles don't they don't play in dallas. You know what. I mean so. I think that that that would be the difference. Let me let me thinking john inventory. Quick we got a short segment here. John john john is gone. Let's let post calls then real quick. So i i feel like this. This clipper thing has taken on a life of its own. We will continue that conversation here shortly. You want to know why you want to know why they're going to life of its own. Why because clipper fans are so butthurt. Seriously it's like a bunch of people like so upset like oh my god. Our team finally is in and the lakers the big team of town. They're not in. And gosh my favorite radio stations like not really giving them the love. It's like dude. What did you expect to happen. I eight seven seven seven ten. Espn we'll get to that in a second was up everybody. This l z. Granderson here to tell you about my new podcast. Adc audio card life out loud. This show is all about preserving the history and honoring the contributions of the lgbtq community. each week. i'll talk to some of the most fascinating people paving the way toward a more inclusive world. These conversations can get heavy but this show is also filled with so much joy. And i mean after all we are called gay people right so got some happiness in there somewhere. Checkout life out loud with me. L z granderson. Wherever you get your podcast.

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Ryan Sickler

Alison Rosen Is Your New Best Friend

1:23:52 hr | 3 months ago

Ryan Sickler

"Hey everyone hi hello. Welcome to another episode of alice. Greg what are you doing here. Hey what do you mean alison. Where where'd you come from brag. I came from the world of childish. I just wanna make sure that your listeners know bed year just is wonderful. On the on the podcast. What if they don't have kids donate donate a lot of our listeners. Actually tell us they don't have kids. We talk about sex. We talk about all sorts of dirty stuff but also parenting. Yeah so the checkout childish new episodes every wednesday wherever you listen to podcasts aspirin. Hey everyone hi hello. Welcome to another episode of alison. Rosen is your new best friend. I'm very excited to welcome my guest very soon. But i i must chat with tony facts and and find out what happened. What's been happening. I off my game today. And i'm gonna leave that in because i want the people to know it been over a year of living in my home of pretty much wearing very loose pants. And zoom tops. Sometimes i put on makeup. I rarely wear a bra. And i'm losing my mind. Even though i'm a person who enjoys being home. But i have forgotten how to host a show something like one of the few skills i possess did possess anyway. Toni braxton producer toni braxton. How's it going its owner. You sent me into a panic at first when you said to find out what happened i know i yeah. I started my spiral because i'm like wait. No what i really meant was just to find out what's going on with you since we last talked. But i made it sound like there was some caper. We had to check. What's the latest in the tony. Braxton story which is not case you recovered quickly. it's fine it just there was a moment. Yeah you got. This thing is longtime. Oh tony though what you're doing when beneath my ways we're all we're all losing their damn minds though like i'm the same way i i like my place but not when i am here every day all day for of year. Yeah over a year. I should say half. But i think pretty soon it will be time to reintegrate into society and then boy will. I feel insecure. Exchange will leave me wondering that. What is that. How i normally do that so the already there. And even you know. I'm like maybe because i'm basically a week away from hitting my full immunity and i'm not. I'm not doing anything foolish. But you know maybe gone out a little here and there. And i just those moments of like i want to do something but then sometimes when that moment comes to then actually do something i'm like. It's just seems exhausting and so overwhelming with all i've wanted to do is go and be somewhere now kind of came in. It's like oh. I don't know i don't know if i can. I think it's because our now there's all these extra concerns that go with doing. Just the slightest thing so it's not just like a carefree going to visit a friend or something. Yeah there's so much extra thought you have to apply to. I am finding that. At least that's my excuse for why everything feels exhausting. Right now tony. Can i tell you something disgusting. That i just read about i i guess i don't think choice here but do i need your consent to tell you something disgusting. This is a question for a very now kind of question but anyway okay. So i do not consider myself a hypochondriac that because i seem like someone who over thinks and worries and stuff they assume. I would be a hypochondriac to which i say a little bit insulted. I'm not however you know when you're like talking to someone and you find out about some condition they may have and then you begin looking it up online and then you do become convinced you have it. Which is not. It's not in character for me to do that. However the girl i follow she's been a guest on the show lindsey to franco and she recently had surgery to fix like she had her whole pelvic region kind of put back together because she had a prolapse after having kids and the more at the recovery from surgery. She's been very open about it on instagram. It's pretty intense and grueling and uncomfortable but hearing her talk about it has made me go like oh i feel like i might one day. Be a candidate for this. Because after having two kids just her description of some of the symptoms. I'm like yeah. I think that i might have that too. So that's where my brain has been. So i've been looking up this whole prolapse of the situation. Yeah and naturally it's like how do they diagnos that. My my slight one and i know as i'm telling this. I know that you either wish you were a woman so that it wouldn't feel uncomfortable to hear this or wish you were dead so you wouldn't have to hear this but anyway i'm fine. I'm fine thank you. Thank you those going to be much more gross. The way you said it. I haven't gotten to it yet the way. My slight situation was diagnosed by my my old job. After i had my first kid was with. She put a finger inside inches. Like okay now push if you are going to the bathroom. Oh there is a a slight something but it's but anyway so there's something called difficulty where you like drink some kind of contrast and then you sit on a special toilet and you take a dump while they watch or take an x ray or i don't know like they watch what's happening inside you watch. That seem right. I know that's my whole thing. Like you really have to screw up your courage to or. I don't know what would happen to be able to to be able to like make popey to use the technical term in front of people in coats that will be so crazy. I don't know. I read this on some like i like med. Line dot net or not not not from jama the journal of america. Whatever jam stands for not from just from up where what much to say. I don't know letting you go. I've melting down thinking about shitting on a toilet in front of doctors. I'm trying to say is. I don't know if source was accurate and i don't know how frequently that's what they how they diagnose it but oh my god. Yeah i mean be. I've never heard of anything about this condition or anything but my gut tells me that doctors don't sit and watch you take a ship. That's that's just what that's my. That's what my guts telling me and your gut what i know because that's what we're talking about. I know i've got to find out. I mean i talked to lindsey. And she definitely didn't mention this so i don't i wish that's what she led with. I know i have so many questions for if anyone out. There has explored or experienced difficulty. Either side maybe. You're one of the doctors. Maybe you manufacture the special toilet or the contrast or any of this. I mean really. It's kind of a colonoscopy looking at your in inside plumbing. I don i. I don't know it's like they're putting a tracker on your okay enough of this. We have a lot of questions. But that's not what we're talking about today. However if you know anything about this you can reach me air. I n nbs show at jima dot. Com tweet me at air iwa and b f but follow my personal count at allison resin. Okay i'm very very excited to welcome our guest today. He was on the show back in two thousand fourteen. He is a podcast or he's a comedian. You know him from the very successful podcast. The honeydew which explores people's lowlights also before that the crab feast and he has two albums very funny available. You can go get them now. It is above ground pool and get a hold of yourself please. Welcome back to the show ryan stickler right. Thank you for. Clapping me. And i appreciate. Did you know that there's a whole small audience here. I think you did your best friends. I also wanna say approp- to bring me in right after the ship talk but i think you got your new onlyfans. He hanged vans. You should just let people watch your. I know what you're getting at. They weren't there watching you shit. They're watching what happens inside view shit. I'm guessing in another room is what i'm thinking. Yeah i actually watching you know. I think they're they've basically put die in your body so that they can watch the on the path that the ship cakes to make sure that it stays on course and doesn't veer off course i'll bet you if you and i just took hoops that were just done digitally watched we would make more money than we've ever made tire fucking why. Why aren't we doing this. I'm hatred on my patrons deserve my poops. What do you. What do you colloquially call a duty like growing up what did you call it just shit or number two number two okay in my house. We called it. Huey dewey address it up my parents you know nowadays and you know remind me. Your daughter is seven nells six okay so nowadays. There's an emphasis on calling everything by the proper terms like including the body parts but my parents and my dad is a doctor. Definitely had cute cutesy names for everything. And i think maybe that's more what was done But yeah it was really we had this. Is i'm from maryland which is a touch southern but We call my parents growing up called p. Goatee tt yet. I've heard people from the south. Say that they've they grow up with that as teeth. Goatee you gotta go. T t do you ever find yourself slipping into that hell. No i've slipped in the more p using the term t t. I'm embarrassed to after everything. I've said it surprising that following embarrasses me. But i'm embarrassed to tell you what urine was called in my family because it makes it's so ridiculous what is it. The book into pillowy was pissy appease. Think i feel like you've talked about. I think i mentioned weirdly familiar and the thing is go pissy insane because it's like a vulgar term with a on. It pisses piz yeah. This is a dress up. it's whereas p is kind of cute guy who poos cute throwing the y. On pu right. pay what. You can't dress up now. I don't know why. I don't know why they went to pissy but anyway so be it tony you were. These things called in in the faxed in house. We were pretty the standard and boring. I feel like i think it was just poop and pee So much you know. I think it's a me and my dad. Maybe you know would like to be silly. You know like call it gotta take a tinkle or something occasionally you know just like act stupid do each other. You know saying it's when too old to be calling it that right but yeah usually just poopie can't usually go for take. I don't say it but hearing someone say they're going to take a whiz. I feel like as a jonty way of expressing that you need to empty your bladder. I had two brothers. And we also would say i gotta take a deuce deuce was a big to it shifted from number two to do right and then i also and i don't host show about pu. I just like to talk about it other than to hosting a show. I also enjoy all the euphemisms like restocking. The pond with brown trout dropping. The kids off yeah growing tail. You've heard dropping the kids off the poll. Ray snapping went off. I'm forgetting the other one inch loaf. Yeah that's kind of gross to me. But what was the other one something about something with a cutter some about-turn yeah all right again. Listen if you want to share euphemisms with us we are also open to hearing so ryan i. I do wanna get into a lot of stuff. But i i have to ask you something arguably more important than any of that. Recently on my show we played a game where we tried to guess each other's favourite pasta shape and we decided that it might reveal more about a person than their astrological sign. Which really for me isn't saying much. Because i don't believe in about. Yeah i like to look at my chart my blurb but i don't believe in it but still i want to see if tony i can guess your favorite pasta. Do you have a favorite pasta. I do. I do okay and you have to give us a hint. That's how the game is played. Okay let me be careful about this so it did change. I will say this when i was younger. It was rigatoni. Okay so you get a feel for what i liked but i would say it changed and i don't know how what kind of hint this one's pretty i would say in the pasta. World is unique about that. Who who all right. I'm gonna take a while now. I was going to and then i then i choked tony. Do you have any thoughts. I'm trying to remember all the different ones that we had that list of the other day. Tony's the anti ryan. His favourite was macaroni and his hint. Was i'm from the midwest. That's that's a tommy of poop p. Macaroni they just down the middle. So this is something you said. It's unique in the pasta world. Gosh believe oh. I have gas actually get yoki. No but that's a damn good. Thank you thank you second guess was gonna be but i don't believe this is anyone's favorite but my second guess is going to be a wreck yetay no 'cause that's a kind of bullshit pasta but tony guess tagliatelli since we left that out the i'll give you one more hint. Okay the nickname would be. This is an easier when the help here. The nickname of this pasta also would be something you could wear to a form of farfalla boom. You gotta pasta. Yeah jackie johnson. That was her favourite and her hand. That the same. Jackie that had the fuck and computer problem i had. Yes look. we're saying. I know you guys are on my gosh. Speaking of crazy coincidences okay. I have to tell you my crazy coincident and then we're going to dig into what you've been up to since we last talked and i have a specific question about the birth of your daughter knows ages ago but it was something that you mentioned last time and i was like. Ooh i gotta follow that up because okay anyway anyway. So my name alison rosen. There are other alison. Rosen's out there. And i know this because there is an alison roseanne on the east coast. Who receives email her. Email address is very similar to mine so she gets emails for me a lot and she forwards them so we've kind of struck up a friendship so she recently forwarded an email to me and she said for you. I assume and i looked at it. And it's actually not for me and there's another guy's name. There's someone else rosen. A male resin that was on it and i said not for me actually interesting. Oh i'm so sorry. And then last night. I got a cameo request from the guy that was on the email. And he's like my wife. If anyone who doesn't know what cameo as are you on cameo ryan i am not okay. I know what it is. It's like a service where people can. If they're a fan of yours they can request a personalized video for a birthday or whatever. So anyway i get this kamiar request my wife is also an alison rosen. And she's a big fan of yours blah blah. but it was that guy and it he. It was completely coincidental. Because i went back to her. I'm like oh. I don't even know if if you're following what's happening i'm with you because what i'm saying is there's some this girl for to join email. You're like oh actually that one's not for me at all my bad. But you saw the guy's name in there and then shortly after that you're saying completely coincidentally related to the email. It turns out his wife up his wife. Alison rosen it. Listens and it's making me realize we're going to need to finish this cameo before this airs. Aaron today are there three alison rosen's in this equation. Yes there's The one who befriended and his wife yes. And then there's a fourth yet as a fourth named allie roseanne. Who's a chef. And she came on the show. And i had another alison rosen. Call in just for the fun of it all. Yes so. I went back to the original. I'm the original alison rosen. But i went back to the one who forwarded me the email. And i said. Is there any way this male roseanne knew that you would forwarded it to me like thinking. Maybe that put me on his radar and she said no. So i'm telling you something crazy in the world. Of alison rosen simulation. But i think there's a glitch in the matrix there's been glitches. Have you ever met another ryan stickler. I've never met them but they have reached out to me online and stuff several of them. Yeah and there's a whole szekler ville in new jersey sicklers out there. yeah there. there's more than i thought. I remember when i was a kid. We would fly anywhere. Like if i went somewhere or i went to a different city i would go back to public. Foam remember when they had the big phone book at the bottom. And i would just flip through real quick and see if there were any sicklers in town and see how popular are name was before the internet stuff. So there's more than i thought sears. At least three or four ryan sicklers of hit me up so szekler vale is a town called secular vail. Or you're saying okay. I didn't know if you meant like there's a town called where bell or you meant like there's so many settlers in this town at some point i guess there were. I had an experience years ago. Where i went to get into. I was going to my seat on a plane and there was a woman sitting there. And i'm like oh i think i have that seat and i pulled out my boarding pass and i did. Have we both received the same boarding. Pass the same seat assignment. And her name was also. Alison rosen yeah. So i don't know she's one of the ones in here. I hope not because the thing is so. I ended up going to the flight attendant. They had made an error. They gave me a different one. But i was like. Oh my god. We're named wins. And she really could not have cared less crazy. Yes it is crazy to me. If i was on a flight with another ryan sigler at least five minute chad leaks. Exactly that's from. What are your brothers name. Yeah what's your mental neighbor. How do you spell it right. And i've always wondered. Is she one of the other. Alison rosen's in this story. Like i said. I really hope not lady. Don't be excited now bitch right. Oh sorry. i'm sorry two ways. Now it's it's okay. We we use salty language here. So so ryan filming in. When we last talked it was a late. It was like october. Two thousand fourteen and it was one week after you had your daughter. Which now that i like. I said i pushed out kids with such force that i might have to sit on a toilet. Yeah but now i know merely one week later. That's insane but you were there doing a podcast. I can't believe i was. I probably wasn't sleeping at all. I remember that There was very little sleep but since then. Let's see tell you when great is why have a whole show called honeydew. I'm a single dad alka But devoted single de. I've fought for fifty percent of that time and i really want that time and i love that there is nothing more i loved him being a dad so that's been great My daughter's six now. We have such a great relationship. And i've been taking her fishing or starting to do all that stuff you get to do as they get older and they can handle more responsibilities things and she's just super sweet. She wants to cooking show with me on you. Youtube all I do. I have a web series in production with right now. Her brother who's Is her half brother. That's brother seventeen. And he and i did. A series called learner's permit where he needed his hours for driving. And i was like womp. Go pros in the car. Tell you stories. We'll learn about each other so he did that But yeah i. I've just i wanted a girl i'm probably at. Maybe i didn't say that before. But i wanted to go around brothers and cousins of boys all my life anew a girl would calm me down in a way that a boy wouldn't And she has she says things. I'm just like god. And it's so simple and i'm like how am i never thought like. She said to me. One time she goes. Dad is there a. Is there a final number instead of to me when she was like four. I'm like ever even wondered that. I said that's that's infinity infinity and beyond buzz light year ago. There is no final number. That's the definition of infinity. But i've never even had that fucking thought and she says so many intelligent things to me where i'm like You know we were walking through the store yesterday in was targeted or something. She's like this is singing. I was like oh it's kind of got like Sounds like taylor swift a little bit to me. He s got taylor. Swift vibes argue. Six-year-old saint love. That the fuck. So i Yeah we we live very close to one another. We go back and forth. You know. it's been great. I just i love it. I love it. Did you end up marrying her. Mom now satellite. We re engaged while so it's a longer story so we originally were together for two and a half years before my daughter was ever born split for two years. She started coming back around. Wanted to get back together. Took a little bit of time for that. We did where together for close to a year. We got engaged and then tried to start having a baby and it took three three times took three months which i guess is good because i know some people take years to go through a lot of my clear other having to go through ahead include science a lot of and so i was lucky and we also older. You know so. She thought originally she might wanna be married but then she settled on bentley's being engaged i she. She was already single mom and been there done that and the we did. We were like look. It could take two years to get pregnant or the never happen. You know so. Yeah we were engaged for want. We're engaged for a year. And then she broke it off and then we split after that so my daughter's ever really known is going back and forth with a heart for you. Oh my god yeah literally almost killed me. I had i ended up with so many health issues from all the stress anxiety. And my whole body clotted. My legs were got like covered This i this isn't funny. But it's all i do laugh at stuff but i go And i i. I ended up with kidney stones. Which i never had anything in it. It put me on the floor. So i go in and then that started causing a series of health issues where i was watching star wars movie. There's twenty december twenty fifteen. And i'm rubbing my legs and i. It feels like a topographical map through my jeans. On like what. This is weird. I feel my hands so friend of mine says hey i think you're clotting so. I called the emergency room. Nearly your clotting you need to get here now so i get there. They do all these tests. They can't figure out what it was at first and then the next thing. i know. I'm gonna undergoing six months of intense like you know they're flushing my body in constantly bringing me back in there. The then telling me that. I may have lymphoma passer and i'm freaking out old time. I'm not only a new single dad new dad. My daughter's a year old. I just looked at some videos. The other night of her with her when she was one and i was proud of myself. I'm like man how did you do that. Agitate that little tiny thing over there and do a good job. And i did so i was proud of myself but it took the best part of it was When they finally found out. I ended up having a blood. Disease called factor. Five light in which people can live. You may actually have it now if you will never know unless it rears. Its ugly head. What tickets because that's a cool cool founding name. It's called factor. Five leiden factor alive roman numeral. V elliott i d e n took. There's factor eight which i learned in that. So factor five. I'm thick blood. I'm prone to flooding cav actor eight. You're thin blood. Which is dangerous so i was at a point where i was laying in bed at night crying. I had this pain in my chest and no one could help me. We've there's nothing wrong. Nothing on the test. And i'm like but i know something's wrong. I feel it. And i laid there. And i gave myself up one night and i was like this is it. It's going to happen. My dad died of forty two. I'm exactly forty. Two is not lost on me that he went through that i went through that. I'm repeating fucking childhood trauma yet. It so i ended up basically just sort of passing out. I woke up. And i was like no more of this shit started therapy against trying to figure out what the fuck this was and This this college figured it out for me My actually my primary care physician To him and he was like dude. No primary care physician figures this out right and they gave me. He's like here's my personal cell phone number thousand all my god understand that. You're a goddamn cancer doctor. A block used game your personal cell number to call you this weekend if i have any issues like your scab the most scared and this by the way. Nice thing everybody's I'm also the most scared i've ever funded been. Are you telling me there's a chance your numbers are really high. They put me on blood thinners to get me back to normal then took me off. Knock on wood. I've been fine. Ever since but i remember going back in and his nurse was talking to me and she goes. How are you feeling. I'm like i. Just i'm relieved. I'm relieved that this isn't you know i just. It just feels like a monkey off my back. And i'm just glad to be done with. She does listen to me. Go home and celebrate. And i laughed a little bit. You know. she goes listen to me. She looked at me. Because i'm serious every day. It is my job to tell people that unfortunately they have cancer today. I got to tell you you did. And i was like whoa and i just it hit me so hard. That want a job. She must have and it was a moment for her so i did. I made sure. I could go celebrate. And i remember asking him. I go hey. Is this the end smoke marijuana. He has no cancer. I said do you smoke and he goes. I'm legally not allowed to answer that. And i go. Yeah but you legally could've said no bros and then he had a conversation with me about the healthiest way to smoke. Marijuana and all those outlet is it he said through the old school vaporisers those vapor brother boxes with a long whip said your heating on one end with no butane no chemicals. Nothing just a heat source and that it's indirect t like grilling your food versus fry food and it's much easier unhealthier. Thought they're not they're not convenient. 'cause you gotta plug that thing in and then sit near it. That's if you know your home for the night just smoke out. That's so for. How long did you think that you might have cancer like a good month and a half assed you know what's funny. I still have the voice mail saved from my doctor saying got some good news and bad news in the bed. News was we got some your ship going on. You gotta go get it. Look that because i look. I don't wait a freak out on sunday. Go the colleges. I'm like listen. I'm not that smart. But i know what that is. And he's like. I know you know what it is and i'm like i'm already out that just go see one. Yeah and then. You're walking through these cancer. Wards pass these patients in your dislike all my gut and at the same time. I just lost my relationship. I just lost my daughter half the time over life. You know freaking out about even though she's only three miles away. It feels like another universe over there. I don't know what's going on. She's one she can't communicate like. Hey we did this and this and this and this today like she does now you know so right it was. It was so fucking hard and i really needed to get right and i just dove in therapy for a couple of years with that same therapist until she told me i was in a spot where i could go back out there and the guy. I don't think you need to come anymore. I think you should take what we've learned and apply it's your life and get out there for a while so i did that Tried medication for a little bit. But at that time it. Just that wasn't for me meditation. I started journaling. Do the five minute journal. I'm actually on my third wanted to start a third one recently because up books. Say my life a few times just positive thinking And really try to change everything about you know who i was. I just say on this today on my pockets like this especially out here in this town and this is for men and women. I want to be very clear. People spend time on getting their hair fixed or big fixing baldness their their faces their lips their ads. Their ass their everything and they won't spend a fucking dime algo on therapy to fix who they all. Yep and if you fixed who you were you wouldn't give a shit so much about your lips or your baldness or you know your ass or whatever the fuck it is so. It's a backward thing at that point. I couldn't care any more about whether i you know. Was you know this or that. I just had to be healthy. I had to be there for my daughter. And i had to be the best data could be. My father died at sixteen and he was awesome. But i don't wanna fucking lose. I don't want her to be without a doubt. It was really and the other thing to al was that i learned through therapy to obvious doing everything to take care of my daughter and i was doing anything to take care of me and if i don't take care of me there is no take care of my daughter so i had to remember to put myself. You know not. I but right there as well. You know so. It's interesting because when i talked to you in twenty fourteen so before before. All this I you you struck me as very you had been through some therapy at that point. And you're very self aware and it sounded like you had a lot of realizations and you had dealt with your shit especially with your relationship with your mom. Were you surprised to then find yourself back in therapy dealing with some stuff again. No i was surprised at all. You know look. I think my goal in my life has been to no one's going to battle thousand. I'm just trying to be a better person every day. I'd like try to minimize the amount of mistakes. I make i. I'd like minimize the amount of times. I make those mistakes off. Fuck that again wallington. Twice this year last year seven times. I'm trying to and back to what you were saying. So he talked to me. Six years ago i was forty two forty one forty two fennel and we did it and forty eight year. Old me is already a different person. In forty two year old was so It doesn't surprise me back. There even started a new therapy. When i when i went on drew show to he came to mind. We talked about it. Introduced me to emt our therapy. Which is all new different type of jerem. That ever try before before. I was just always talk therapy. And as you know if you've been through enough it's like dating. It was difficult to find a good therapist. I you know. i've talked about the one guy. Had he was eating his food. I'm like what the fuck are doing to them. Having dinner i go. Not on my. Yeah and you know what. I stayed with them. Because i gave one more chance ended up being one of the best there has ever had. I think he really appreciate being called out like then. Give yourself fifty minutes or an hour to eat. I'm your chew in apple. Allow this shit is. You're faulk onsite. Yeah my current therapist is the first one where i and she's really encouraged me to be honest and open with her if i b i mean obviously i'm like honest i've been i believe i've been honest and open with every therapist i've had but if they've said something i didn't like it was something about my relationship with the therapist that i didn't share with them because that makes me uncomfortable but with her i actually have 'cause it's kind of ben like a petri dish for just trying out working on a relationship with someone and it's i feel like i've grown a lot from it. It's gone really well because of course it would cause like this. Is the perfect person to to ask not to eat during your session or whatever come on this is i'm here from at the bottom of the barrel right now. I'm desperate and i need help and you're gonna to. It's not even a granny smith bro. Put that fucking thing down down was it wasn't just a red like gal apple. How don't i'll say that. I don't wanna start anything but i like a red delicious. Fuck off. I like you know what i think are overrated honey. Chris oh wow on chris. I like me a good honey crisp. I like me a good read to listen to another wrong with read the lists everyone. Oh honey. Chris honeycomb coming. It's the best apple i've ever had. How can you. It's tough but it's sweet. But it's this but i have i keep returning much like with grape nuts. Which no matter how. Many times i try them. They just taste like and feel like gravel. I can't about that thank you. I don't see what i just don't get. What's so great about honey crisp. i just don't ryan you had cove it. Yes i did and you told me that you lost your sense of smell and lost your sense of taste for like month after really. I can't smell a thing. Trust your apple opinions. This was pre done and twenty nineteen. So you still. Is that weird. It's getting. I'll tell you what i hadn't bothered me for the longest time because my thought was okay. You know we all live here. It was a cesspool out here and it was a death trap. If you went into a hospital you were told you're pretty much fucking gonna die and if you would've told me hey no smell and barely any taste for six months but you don't have to set foot in a hospital during this crazy pandemic i would have said. Sign me up for that okay. That has been my thought process again. Try to be positive thing but the other night got an alert on the citizen app that they were evacuating neighborhood because of a natural gas leak. I can't smell that. That's the first time i felt talk. If we have a gas leak in the house or anything in that was the first night. I am also under to back the back. The next night are smoke detector went off a fire. This is like three o'clock in the morning. So you know it woke me up and i thought fuck. I can't even smell smoke. You know so. That was the first time. That's probably a few weeks ago. Where i was like all right enough of this bullshit. I need my smell back you to you. They think it'll come back. They have any idea. I'll know they say six months. I'm due for my second a shot tomorrow. Actually dodger stadium on my brother. Who's a scientist. And he works with the government doing he. Actually someone thinks. I'm joking about this mob. I guess but my brother he's out. Know if you on say it like that but that's what you do. Yeah but they make corona in a lab and suits and everything and they study it. Only culture it all that shit and He said that he's heard that quite a few people after their second vaccine get their smell. Bax areas to see if that works. I tried the orange bowl's like all the hopes But ends just. How are you feeling about the loss of taste. Ballum bothers me. I mean i can feel spice so if it's if it's hot and spicy all unit just something's happening in my mouth just feel alive. Yeah i can taste sweeter Upset like sweet tastes the same. I couldn't. I couldn't tell you if i put it in my mouth other than knowing texture so i could tell you what the food was but if i was new to food i would know what a a chocolate chip from a you know. A ice cream taste was all it all tastes the same weird. Has it changed. How you're eating. I mean at first. I was like actually cleaned in that also. Who don't even give shit. I was thinking like you could like why put time and thought into what. You're preparing for yourself. The the thing that i try to be cognizant of like anyone with like just pick what you want to eat. I'll find something there. Because you're going to appreciate a joy at more than i am so i don't wanna sit there. Pick the restaurant for anybody rain. Do you now over anyway. Now we could figure six of us did in our circle and we tried and true circle now separate so it was myself My daughter's mother my daughter babysitter. There were six total and I've shut the studio down for two weeks before christmas anyway because we didn't actually like the three weeks. We didn't wanna work during the holidays because everything was getting so bad. So we banked a bunch episodes ahead. I know it didn't come from year but my doctor's like stop. Just stop trying to do that yourself. He's exempt telling you ryan. It could have been you. You could've turn the corner in a grocery store after someone sneezed. Twenty seconds before you were in there and you got your mask on but got in your eyes or you can touch. Somebody's like there's no way to figure this out if you can't figure it out directly with one another right and he's like don't drive yourself crazy. Just get through it. Thank god all of his. Did i mean i. I was way worse after the first shot than than even having corona after the first shotgun hundred degree. Fever sweats chills. Diarrhea muscle lifting my leg. Up her i didn't get any of that with corona law smell and taste and ad head cold for a couple of weeks yes. That's so interesting. They i will say elson. Sorry i haven't i. I am super tired. I'm still super fucking tired all the time you think. Wake up strong and then midday little after. I'm just like god. I've white and that's from covid as yeah yeah. I'm called a long haulers right. Yeah well that'd be amazing if your sense of smell comes back after that shot and then you discover like your house just reeks body like a of address. Think you gotta tell me the trash things like it's been like this for a while so dad. That trash thinks tom. I also wonder what the first thing. I'm gonna smell is um comes back to wonder if it's going to be someone's you know dirty fart on airport gonna be comes back i know. Oh my gosh. All this stuff is a lot to deal with this. Podcast is sponsored by better. 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Okay and were back so ryan what happened so now you're doing honeydew explained to us the significance of honeydew but also. I'm curious what happened with crab feast. Okay we'll start with crab fees. Just because that's the ending of something then we'll go to honeydews s to beginning are so the crab feast was it was jays. Jay had just run his time on it. We had done it for a little over seven years. As i've said that's longer than any relationship i've ever been in like it's it was a successful professional marriage. He was ready to do something different and wanted to do that. So we finished off crab. Feast in honestly. I didn't even know what i was gonna do. but during the time of doing the craft he's i mean. I grew so much as a person a man. I became a father later so much that happened in that seven years And then ended up reconnecting with my mom. I'll like twenty two twenty s so we connected and then i'd just started thinking about what my next pockets will be. I didn't really know in one of the things my family and i. We've always just laughed at rs shit which has always been something in. Didn't realize how many people also felt that way until we started podcasting and talking and I'm sitting at this diner one night and i've told the story of bunch but i am they bring the fruit cup. Just eat everything but the honeydew Whatever donnie do as leaving us the honeydew on all cables on like oh my god. That's a perfectly good fruit that most people just don't fuck with and that's what you are. You're you're perfectly person has been thrown away time and time again so decided to call it. Excuse me the honeydew for that reason. And then i just wanna sit in highlight your lowlights. I wanna talk to people who've put the work in who've been therapy her continuing to still better themselves but can take a step back and put a positive spin. You know a really a light to that darkness that. I just think it's amazing when people do that so i do that and then also the honeydew with y'all is my patriot. I do that with just the regular people out there. They sent me these amazing stories. I'm like what are you talking about. Talk with so many people who've Talked to a guy who died and came back. I've talked to people who found out just very recently. The their biological parent isn't their biological parents. Talked to people who've killed people in self defense at least say they said. Oh wow that's something i always. I'm curious i'm about life. Yeah like how how you live with yourself after that. So it's been amazing. I discharged five bucks a month. I don't do any levels or tiers. Just honeydew with y'all yeah we do that. We do both weekly. That's awesome so. This is interesting. Because i thought personally i do like honeydew i get you and i feel like we're we're on. I feel like we're on a similar journey of like self-awareness therapy and introspection but when it comes to fruit we spot. I okay so i but but i remember i had best stelling on the show and she had just done your show and i was like what is the significance of the name and she. I thought that it was honeydew is like something. Gross honeydew is the bad stuff in life. But what you're telling me is actually honeydew is a perfectly good fruit was wrong with it right. They has most people. Don't bother with it but you feel like you are honey to 'em been i've been thrown away left behind by my own mom by my own family uncles aunts cousins like it's all i've always been someone that was just easy to just be like. Fuck that guy among them. Fuck those kids not just me my brothers talking about us the sick little you know it's like yes Up there it's like you know. Hey let me grab these strawberries instead of this. Let me let me go. Hang out with these people. Are these kids these. Let me love this person instead of this person. It's not that honeydews gross is that most people just look right past. Forget about it as if it's nothing my husband needs. It's the treatment of the honeydew right. What it's all about. It's the way that fruit has been perceived than treated by. Yeah in the in that world. Yes my my husband is wasn't your show. Because i think he would identify strongly relate so strongly to what you're saying. He has felt in his because his his felt in his life that he's The honeydew okay. Two questions one. And i'm gonna ask both so i don't forget what happened with the extended that the aunts and uncles In the extended family and then to as a self identifying honeydew how do you do you have anger about that and if not how do you not three questions okay. I got all the answers for cash. Oh let's go the last two. I self identifying honeydew. Do i have anger. I've yes yes that is. Why go to therapy also like i. I do have a chip on my shoulder but that ship. My shoulders also. Who's made me. What what i am today. You know. i'm very been very guarded for a long time. And i i don't let people in law. And then when i do things don't work out or someone just wants to bail whatever it is so i've always had this this fear of people just leaving and so my point is why even let him in there. Just gonna go anyway. Yeah and you know. My father was everything he dies. When we're sixteen. We were already just living with him as a single dag as my mom split. So you've got this anger that the good parent is dead. The one that wanted you. You've got this anger that this other one has got an opportunity to have you again doesn't want leaves you alone. We move in with our grandmother. She dies so it's not just people treating you like shit. They're leaving from death as well. Those people didn't wanna go but they die they'd rather be dead than be around. Yeah exactly they will like get the fuck these bids up so you know. When a matriarch of a family or a patriarch dies. If you've ever experienced that you really find out who the scumbags are on the road has come out of the woodwork. and here they come for every penny. That person did or didn't have every piece of jewelry. And that's exactly what happened when we got cast aside for that And then that was it then. At that point i was just out on my own off. We go so That's what happened with them. And that's why this all three. I got all of them. Get them all. I'm trying to remember what the first one was if i was about what. The extended family aunts and uncles and stuff to all right and then it was as yes. You have angled defying on the right. I try to work on my ego. A lot. And i try to honestly say that my egos only allowed drive in the car with me like. That's it for doors windows up. You know yelling people in traffic or whatever. Just because i do have anger but i also like to get it out. Yeah you mentioned that. You had reconnected with your mom. How's that going because when we last talked again you had talked about having the realization that you can't forgive someone who isn't asking for forgiveness because i know that you were like i'm gonna i'm gonna do the mature thing and i'm gonna forgive her and then like nothing really changed after that and then you felt like a dumb dumb dumb for her putting i think for putting yourself through that so anyway so from then to two now what happened so my daughter was about two years old at the time jay. We're on a stand up tour for the podcast and we were going to be in baltimore and i purposely. We played like a friday. So i can just chill the weekend. There and my younger brothers fortieth birthday was coming up so his wife hit me. I was like had really liked to do a surprise. Can you help me reach out to all your old friends. Mice sure and at that point. I knew my mom was gonna be there because she's had a relationship with my younger brother and his kids so i had to be a mature person. Look as gonna be there. My daughter's almost two. She hasn't reached out today thing. So i got there and she came up to me and she said hi. I said hello. And i went got my food. I those food and i said. Would you like to see a picture and videos of your granddaughter. She's like i would love that. All right hang on seconds on went sat next to her. And soon as i open my phone she saw my daughter and she screamed that your face and she just started bawling it and then i look at shells. And i'm like listen. Let's get our shit together. This is his surprise for isn't about us. You know so. I let her face timer. Can i get your phone number can i. But my mother remember phone. I was like here's my email. You know what i'm saying. Let's let's start small. Because at the time i really did think you could face facetime from email. I didn't think you needed to give your number. And then i was wrong about that so Little by little started with face times and so she could see your things like that and then it was She was gonna come visit with a girlfriend hers. Whose daughter lives out here. Would you mind if i see you in. You're out there. No that's fine then. It became all that lady's not gonna go visit her daughter. Now how would you feel if i came and stayed with you and i was like you. Just you gotta give me a minute here. Like and a friend of mine. She asked me. She's ones last time you slept under the same roof. Your mom poof. At like twenty to twenty five years ago like it's insane. So i decided that my daughter's relationship with my mom wasn't really my business. You know i figured look at you. Know you're a shitty mom. And i'm going to give you an opportunity to be a gramma but if you're going to be a shitty grandma i'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna cover for. You're gonna hurt this little girl your granddaughter and i'm going to have to deal with it because you're not gonna do anything. So that's the way that's going to be. If she wants a relationship with you she could have. And i'm not gonna stop that So she came out and stayed in. You know i've got twenty five years. It shit i wanna say to this late man. She's staying up late every night. And i could tell. She wanted to talk but she wouldn't initiate so i. I talked to a bunch of women in my life. And i'm like how do i play this. They're like don't pounce on it right away. That could fuck up the whole weekend. Just wait to the outside. I value the ladies in my life listened. They were right. Of course there ladies signed for their opinions and we ended up going to disneyland. We went to lego land in san diego. It on the ride back new. My daughter would fall asleep. And i was like this is where we can have a good two and a half hour conversation about the last twenty five years and i called her out on everything. I had a friend of mine. We'll j larsen from refuse to regrets not getting the opportunity to have that conversation with his father before he passed. So i made sure. But i've done so many years of therapy. I had all the questions. I had everything. Ready to go I i'll say this alison. I didn't get everything. I needed or skews betting everything i wanted but i did get what i needed out of that conversation. That's amazing how did how did she react She wasn't surprised. Said i can tell you. You seem like you've been sort of milling around later at night than usual weight. She's a guy half house. I'd i put her on the spot. I'm like you know as ever since a you may be the adult. She's like you're right. She said she heard me on. A podcast. And i was like. I didn't even know if you knew. What a podcast may. she's like. I heard i think it was pristina's and she said i couldn't believe the woman you were talking about was me and i'm like how do not and she's like. I know you're telling the truth. Because i've heard you say it several times on different shows but her whole thing is i don't remember it and i'm not gonna fight with someone so i played into that i lead up. We'll do remember this. I don't remember that. do you remember this. I don't remember that. Do remember going to court. When i was sixteen. Telling judge of the state of maryland that you wanted your youngest son and you your middle son. He could come if he wanted to. But you absolutely did not want me. And the judge was a woman. Couldn't believe it gives. My dad child's our full custody of my mom pam child's right. And i'm like do you remember that. And she's like yeah. I remember that i go. Okay well if you remember telling a judge that you didn't want me at sixteen what the fuck would make you think that anything prior to that was okay and good you know. Stop with the bullshit. You don't remember it's five. Remember those specific incidents but let me tell you something your kids do as a very valuable lesson for me. I walked her through every floor plan of every house we ever lived. And she's like. I can't believe you remember that go exactly. I remember a lot just like my daughter's gonna remember shit that i you know. Our kids are gonna remember things that that they hold as value. And i'm like. I say that you know what i like right so yeah it was a very valuable lesson for her. And then when we got home wasn't done in all forty three year old a forty three years old at the time data took her out on my balcony and i lit up a shitload of joints and smoke weed right net. Ladies and asked every fucking question is still had all the way and she brought up naturally cheating on my father said you know what out of respect i was. Just gonna leave that alone. But hey if you wanna talk about a great. Because i would love to know about that. It was it. Was you know it was the one therapy session. All of these have building up to. You know what i mean. Sense is amazing. It's amazing that she was amenable to having this conversation. It sounds like she. Didn't you know shut down or angry or storm out which are all things yeah and owned it. Has she been in therapy now. She doesn't really go either. It's so funny like i. I read this quote dealer today. People were in therapy. Go to therapy. Because the people in their lives won't go to fuck fair yes. I've heard that. I'm sure i didn't say it right. But it's the truth therapy because the people my life won't go to fucking fairbanks and i'm learning how to be a better person also deal with people that don't wanna fuck improved themselves but a you're fucking new ass. Looks good. not that anyone. I know has a new right so i you know now. It's a lot of face time and she gets to see her granddaughter and Look it's built for her. You know my. I do feel like if we lived. Close she probably compiled times. He's invested in my younger brother. So this sort of long distance check in once in a while. Send a really nice card or present to my daughter. It's it's tailor made for her at this point in her life right. That's that's i just think it's amazing usually you don't get that kind of rekindle. Yes so that sounds like you're right. You're right you're right i did. You're right and i was like all right. I didn't go easy either. You know i wasn't was emotional. A lot of it was emotional. Soma angering there but she sat there politely. Took it that's great. Let's do just me. Everyone because i believe you have just mere everyone tony. Let's hear the song bonder every all right. Let's hear your just mere everyone all right so obviously. We've all spent a lot of time with ourselves this last year. And i've learned more about myself than i've ever cared to learn in one of the things. I can't stand that i do. Maybe it's just mean. Maybe it's everyone i don't know but excessively gasp over bullshit if a fucking cupfuls over on the table i find myself going. It's so dramatic aghast. A child that just almost get hit by a call. You know what i mean like. There's i guess. I can't stand it about myself. I go ooh is that i can't stand. I think i do that too. Because i know that my husband would be like what what right somewhat. Here's the gas. They're expecting just dropped on the floor. Above kidding oh. I almost dropped. It didn't even happen. I what i. What i have noticed is my four year old size all the time. And i'm like to daniel and i sai- all the time i mean just like a groaning and sighing. I don't know if he's just a tiny teenager. He's imitating us. I'm not aware that we do this. But i am concerned that we must so i saw two. I do do that. Your kids alert. You know shit. Yes yes fizzle. Wls gasping is something. I call myself. I'm really actively trying to shut the gas right. Tony st you gas not to my knowledge and i only got the dog here so he's not letting me know if you need someone to hold a mirror up t i feel like you're not a gaspar. I don't think so. No i would never have said. I was either until i started spending so much time by myself and thought like oh god. What are you doing snapping up. That is a very good just mere everyone. Let's take some questions. That listeners sent in on patriot. And we also have that for you okay. When as this one's been how'd you had so thanks so much and again. I am on patriot. Patriotic dot com slash alison roseanne. All sorts of. You can submit questions for my guests. You can submit the carbohydrate that i will address you add on the thursday show. You gotta shout out from me i do. Bonus episodes weekly. I do a zoom party. And my newest perk just unveiled is if you're at the confidante levels that's ten dollars or up You can text me. And i will text you back and i will. It's really more about you receive texts from no. You know what it's both it's the back and forth. We can have texting relationship. And i've been doing it for five days or so now and it is very fun. Patron dot com. Such alison rosen. Joe cooley says when is the next installment of the joey diaz saga listening to you. Laugh at his insane. Life story is just as entertaining as the story itself. We just had him on probably a handful weeks ago. So the the real answers whenever he's available. He's now living in new jersey. We got a setup times time zone differences both have kids. So we'll get to it. I i like to try to get one every couple of months. whitney see says when does he feel his best parentheses interpret as you wish pool. That's really interesting. I think i feel my best Let me answer it this way professionally. Feel my best on stage. I don't care the amount of shit. We've talked about today when i would step onstage during all the and it's different podcasting Be honest there. Were times where i would find my mind wandering into not really listening to what his to say. And i'm over here thinking about mob bullshit we or they said something that triggered it but stand up. I've always been it didn't matter if it was ten minutes thirty or an hour when i got off stage like man. I didn't think about my problems. Once during that set so i would say i feel my best professionally onstage. Personally when i'm with my daughter just laughing and having fun and being completely stupid and hang out my she's gonna kill me this the other day. She's the bet she has that i walked back. Look at my button. i'm like what am i looking at. All of a sudden she does farts stein. All these bubbles come out. I can't smell. I can smell the perfect time. I laughed so fucking hard at this shit. God damn it. I just feel my best. I'm my most creative. Just as i'm drifting into deep sleep that's when my mind clears i start to get everything and then i got to get up. Put the phone in the report That's answer that question and whip bac. Says i just found his podcast and really like it already. I love his joy. I love his approach of finding the highs and humor in the lows parentheses. Shout out the childish segment because on childish simmons we do a segment called highs and lows. Has he ever encountered a story. That was hard to do this with or his life. Really all about your perspective lonzo by your perspective. I've never encountered a story. That look first of all. I don't really. I don't think it's best to have gas to hasn't dealt with their trauma. I certainly wouldn't want to be a trigger jeremiah. Walk ins cried for a good ten minutes and we really. Your seeds get Talked about this. You were talking about of never dealt with the story. That i found of certainly found him difficult to listen to an ear but never to be president or find some kind of maybe not humor in the story but way to spend humor about it. You know it doesn't have to be about what you're saying can spin it off over that way. You know so now i life is all about your perspective. And that's the look older. I get with this positive mental journaling. I do like the more positive. You think the better should happens. The more negative you think the negative happens. It's it fill your circle with good positive people. I have a five minute journal. And i started doing it and then i i'm a lazy person that i was like. What if instead of writing it down. I just when i wake up. I think about the questions and now i i none of it. I need to return to as i'm falling asleep. I'll just think about what you know. What how whatever. I forget at this point i forget the props but so you you do it every day. Yes every day. This is my third one right now and i. It's already made a difference. I start calling myself. My bullshit cabo better diet got to have a better diet. I'll all the sudden. I'll start eating better. You know. stop focusing so much on the negative. And i'll be like you know what put that positive spin on that. It is all about your perspective for sure to get to get back to this five minute journal thing You said that you don't. It's better to have a guest that has dealt with their shit. How do you do a pre interview or like how what's your booking process. Had you find the right people for your show. While i mean some people recommended other people have put it out there in their art so i know about them whether it's their books or their stand up for their homes or whatever and the process is literally. Don't tell me too much but list trauma you'd like to talk about and it's funny. Say i say it hits different when you when you laundry list your trauma i've had guests come in and go man. I've lived it. But i've never wrote down and then looked at it back in a list of been like man i've been through some shit hits. It is different when you really look back at that list. You know my friend car lada. Who does the voice over for the show. She and i go way back years and years and years ago. I've had her on a couple of times and she introduced me. This quote did it says I'm glad i don't look like what i've been through and i was like. Wow yeah wow that's powerful. And then you're i was curious. Your studio was just. Did you have to move studios was it will no so i was originally with tom. Those guys out at ym age and then went home. School and everything started avenue. Just couldn't get out there on certain days a week because they obviously their shows. Are you know monsters. And they take precedent. Does i can't get here anymore So we moved the ear to the santa monica music center. A friend lana jones. This place and Yeah after the first day we were in here the whole store got looted in added gun. Pulled on me is how am i. It was mayhem out. There mayhem out there. You had a gun and we rebuilt on you in like someone came in and pulled a gun on you. Also exact quote what this guy said. He walked over and said get the fuck outta your faggot. He had a gun. I got hate grind in the black lives matter riots. So that happened. He walked right over and got my face and held it up like he's not pointed at anyone i've told book aren't you were held down the street. Had i was like that. He walked over and showed it displayed. It prominently listened. And i was like odds like i'm out of here and that's what i finally left at at my. Life's not worth shit. Was that traumatic or scary. It was scary because you know. I'm not kidding. When i tell you there were two hundred. Three hundred people out there. It was crazy. It's like zombies and you watch these angry crowd mob move up the street. And they're just wrecking there. They they don't even provident who the i guarantee you. They're not even watching the trials right now. They didn't even know. George floyd was in everyone's like the all black. No the the generalization. I can give you was young. They were I saw plenty of blonde hair. White chicks driving cars. I saw plenty of young boys girls mid twenties early twenties it. I saw what we saw. People that looked like grandmoms and they were just there to get whatever the fuck they could. We saw parents have their kids. Run out grab shitting run back in so it was a it was i opening you. You know we we support. Listen lauded i. We did a full episode about. I did oppose. i support the movement. I don't support that and neither does the movement that wasn't they weren't the good people went south to protest. This was all shoot that was out for destruction and day just came to do what they wanted to do. They did And then the place was boarded up after the day like we had to set up equipment every time because you could easily just come right in store so yeah after getting the honeydew got dude after we got bucket. Set up at the start all over again right. Wow i'm glad everything's all all up and running again Let's do. Hey go fuck yourself but my question is i know you would like to meet my dog. Should we do that on the episode. Okay so if people. My dog is going to enter soon if people would like to see her youtube dot com. I should've mentioned this at the top. Because you could have been watching this whole thing from the beginning youtube dot com slash alison rosen. Let's do hey go fuck yourself which your dog's name again. It's wendy wendy. Your heart's been defined one. It's really hard to find keleaf. I've been every breeder in california has a list of at least a year This one lady other days. Like i can give you one but at six thousand dollars and i was like. I'm not trying to show. The i want a family member. Show this doll right. Gimme gimme your undersize lido week. Whatever we'll take the yeah about the fly somewhere get one really want to. I don't care where we go. I was on berkshires. Podcast that he aachen. I had to tell tom because hey he's like what kind of dog you on. I say he goes go to thompson. Board dot com flies private. You have dog out there. The rides looking for the top if someone hands you this dog. It's for us bro. All right let's hear who you need to give the business to our. This was a new one. Mostly a because of What happened with the pandemic but delivery drivers that put the fucking food right in front of my fucking door. So i can't get the fuck out and yep i'm with you tired of you. Mother fuckers all right. You put it right there. I can't you. It's small enough that it's wedge in my. I can't damn screen door to get the food and get the shit. So i you know. Delivery drivers put packages and or food in front of our doors. So that we can't get out of our damn houses where we've been fucking tracked for a year. You know what y'all can do. Hey fuck yourself. That was amazing. Yes i agree with you okay. My dog has entered. Let's here we have a special song. We play lou. I haven't played in ages. But i think it's appropriate tony. Could you let us habit board something. I will not have someone waiting for an ivy league. They're doing with put mike book. The colour won't droopy about junior this year because this this is wendy. I can't quite tell if Makoto this second oh yeah let me lift up okay wendy. I ain't hold wendy now and he's going to be seven. Okay yeah so she's going to be seven in may and the thing about cavaliers is they don't they don't live all that long. I know i've been reading the about what anybody's got a puppy out there. Female is at blenheim's icee blend spelled like blenheim but you pronounce it blunt. Them blood him. Okay that's what we're looking for. Yeah little wendy help you find one. They're very they're the sweetest dogs. I'm not having any more. Kids is want something else to love. And i told my daughter look. You can't have friends anymore so you can get all gonna fuck year to find one. I know everyone got. We went to the rescue. Everyone got dogs during the pandemic Older they partly paired up a lot of senior citizens things like that which is smart. But i got a feeling a lot of those dogs going to be available again to. Yeah that's true. I know i was thinking like what about of you want to do this. But i don't even know if you could find like a cavalier mix or something 'cause that might even be healthier than the pure pure bred cavalier. But i don't even know that you have apu's or like cavs sean or something. Brian stickler it has been so nice. Having you on the show. Tell i think wendy or do you want down okay. All right wendy. Wendy has accident and now there's for on my lips okay. They do shed like crazy though. Yeah that's okay Tell everyone where they can find you what they got for etc all right ryan sigler on all social media. My web sites ryan stickler dot com. Subscribed might youtube channel. Youtube dot. com are sigler. that's where I released the honeydew audio. Every monday of video comes out on tuesdays and then every thursday is honeydew with. Y'all my patriotic five bucks And i'm going to extend the offer. You don't have to be a member of my patriot. If you or someone you know out there. Has that story that just has to be heard. Please submit submitted to me at honeydew podcasts. Email dot com and hopefully it will get do a story together an episode if they wanna sign up here patriots. What's the url. God's a great question Just go to ryan stickler dot com all. 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Respect Big Boi!

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Respect Big Boi!

"You can support all of our kt kt x. podcasts and programs through a sustaining membership learn. How at ku t dot org or u. t. txz. Decide gee enjoy the program. I'm you you're listening to the brakes. Podcast highlights from our saturday night. Hip hop show on k. Uta ninety eight nine austin texas. My co host confused jones on native and we love talking to texas hip hop hip hop. History was going on right now and just so you know the expressed in the podcast or our own and do not necessarily reflect the position of we wait original quake big about gays We gotta get this out because this tattoo. A heavy on your heart. Yeah what is up with andre. Three thousand slander am not honestly that slander dislike this discounting the what kind of artists big boy. I don't know. I didn't see. I saw like maybe like a few tweets about it and i was like this is random like where this. Where did this come from any any usually is renting pops out of nowhere. And it's just like so today today. I just gonna pick on big boy and i don't get it in my opinion if you discount big boy if you talk down if you're talking down on big boy's lyrical ability now you're not at outcast fan then you've never really listener listening to and paid attention to an entire album like you started listening at speaker. Box love below like when you like got hip to al and then go back like you didn't hear equipment now. You didn't hear thank on you. You didn't hear atm. You didn't hear southern pluralistic cadillac music. Like that's half you because if you heard those albums you wouldn't dare say that. Big boys lesser member. All-star slandering you like weird not weird because if you go back and listen to big boys solo albums On those two you'll still hear that outcasts sound which lets you know that a lot of that was coming from. Big boi granted yes. It does suck to listen to boys albums. I'm like damn which was on a couple of a few salt. I just really sound good andreani but it looks like heard. Okay justin timberlake for example If you listen to instinct albums i do that. Third one. they got a little black on that one but listen to. I think albums they sound. Nothing like justin timberlake now. Justin timberlake clearly has its own sound. Big boys app still sound like okay. There's nothing different for the most part. Yeah to the point where you could either slot andrea deal. Then you wouldn't there'd be no it'd be under wouldn't do it. Yes he would but that goes to show that people know that does hooks fast. So i you know. I will say playing devil's advocate. I get it. There's a lot of younger people on social media. That weren't fully around when outcast was raining. Hip hop i get it so a lot of the history you know of outcast comes from the highlights that andre three thousand head. It's kind of like it's hard to fully appreciate how good the bulls were in the nineties. Because all the highlights involved jordan. You don't see all the highlights of robin and they don't ever really show highlights after george. Eleven scotty was killing in the to the eastern conference. Final exactly So i get that aspect of it But like you said. Don't call yourself an outcast fan. I don't speak on outcast. If you're going to slander boy. Baby boys better than me. I bet on such a stupid. But he's he's made it very clear before like look. I've done everything you could ever do as an artist. I've one major. Grammy's i've won. I've gone diamond. Like i've i've already gotten their nundy. Oh try and get to. I'm at exactly alistair playing catch up to me but yeah that'd be boy. Slander like you said he was wrapping. He's always wrapped at high level. Andre three thousand has made it very clear. It'd be boys better wrapping him. So i don't know like i mean. What else do you need. Like trying to put above him. Say now he's above me. It's kind of a done deal that point. You're arguing kind of no. Yes like what are you talking about. I mean i get it. I get it. Andres the unicorn in this situation like hard to look at big boy as the great when andrea stand right there but as you say if it will stop. He's better than me i feel. He's better than me then. Kind of the arguments should cease to exist. Slander should cease to exist. Because you said the man y'all trying to put above big boy saying now he got me man once again. You just wasn't listening weren't you. Just really wasn't listening to you. Clearly there at that. And i think also come down to accessibility to be more accessible than andrea andrea. Says the unicorn. He's mysterious and like like it's like a big news thing. He pops up random places with his flute all over social media. going grammy's it'd be posted. A grantee is cooking. is that we out. He got in the back his back. Y'all music on a regular basis. If he's still touring possibly appreciably boy after people asked me. He's not stopping. I love doing this You see it comes down to that as well Sometimes the more mysterious of the of the group of people is what everybody more interested in collecting her. Well why isn't he talking so whatever. Yeah yeah but and one. Big boi patton. Yeah we. We'll do big boys later after you bought news. Yes so in eliot chapel. I saw maybe a few months back. Maybe like before the new year he You know he was all on social media talking about how he appease who are not going to have about violence anymore. He not trying to doing violent and trying to piece in be one with all of this holistic stuff that everybody that that's all the rage today and today they among amongst the kids. Yeah it's a train. I don't believe i don't believe you're going to have. Yeah but whatever so a video surfaced of him and his. I guess entourage crew. Whatever cronies denise peeps whatever calling each other you days all on the beach in. They jumped some guys and soon as i saw what i thought to myself is. This same guy. Said he wasn't trying to be violent anymore toward anybody in here. He is getting his jaw rocked on the beach. I'm assuming california. They put a headlock. Do so i mean what's what's up. What you boy man So video apparently what happened was in. La chaplain his people. Were walking down the beach and Some two guys fans whatever ask for pitcher said no fans proceeded to shout some expletives atom which is how the fight began It's very sloppy. I i wasn't very sloppy fight laurie. Here's okay if i'm in. la chapel. and i have. Let's say six other people with them right about you. Why are y'all allowing him to even fight in the first place stays dopey that the guy that they were fighting game was one against like six or seven. He got on chopper and got him in a headlock enforced. I finally got the man to the ground rocked. He's jiao is like what the guy had like a gun. Daily chapel. Got to him i i. It's now now. We got some which i'll let it run to them. You get almost get laid out Did after i saw that too. I thought the same thing i thought he was on his. You know peaceful holistic all the different types of things in this new this new attitude man saying that stuff. You should have been you. you know. I'm a peace with earth. I'm fine moving. It'd be like so now. Now violeta at all. But i do agree with you like if a six of the dues with me and i'm the cash cow. I'm moneymaker why. Allow me. Even be in that position even if i am on. His whole new journey of spirituality in peacefulness. Even if i slip. And i'm like he said what do what to me now. Why don't y'all stop rely yoyo. You'll need the type of heat. You don't need. This is not the position you need to put yourself in like. We got this. That's what we're here for and y'all handle it go let you say he got to hit him at least twice and then put them in a hair like before everybody jumped on him anyway looks clearly when resonate because he was getting off on the job was still trying to get his legs in. And i'm just like bra this. What's wrong which mean why don't you bait man. You do run around. Make all this money just make stupid disease complete with a lawsuit wonder. Why do you do your could easily so you. Yeah i'll for a picture that you didn't want to take another thing if what celebrity does not wanna take a picture with you. It's not the end of the world like you gotta let go. You don't need to saying anything you need to curse at them. They have the right to say no. They don't have to take a picture. Which did i like. I said you know. I get it. You know respect means a lot So i get like. I can't say that if i was walking down the street right now. Somebody's hey like no the something to me. I wouldn't you know wouldn't feel with blood and turn red but like i said just for that. Actually he didn't. It was sloppy like it took two minutes a game down to the ground Pretty long video. Do god back up. Walked off and i broke them on like seven of us and we jumped on somebody. He'd been he'd better be on the it'd be the worst day of his life on the ground but yet they know if he had a gun and now we've got start shooting jail then it would've been all bad exactly so what it is but oh well if fax time yeah part of the show we try to give you facts regarding moments of history and hip hop on be you wanna you wanna go for alford gopher. I last week on things that you could ask me to do it very interesting that i learn today. The original name of run dmc was supposed to be run. The emc the original group did not include darryl mcdaniels. Who is the dmc and run dmc. Though they do not know it was originally. Just jam asked jay and run for. Though they don't know run the dj i and then became an emc and then run As their or dmc come to the studio and they record a sucker mc and after the dmz recorded his versus. So would you still a great versus day. Yes run was like not a group is run. Dmc you in group now walking out here not being in a group whatever knew that. Yeah just learned that today for mc search. I will never knew there actually made more notes about this week. So i go into the rb bag on this one So a video of toni. Braxton play the piano Which i know what you played piano. Which i feel like i did. But i just didn't remember but yeah so. She was playing piano. I thought about you know the history of toni. Braxton toni braxton was discovered by la read and baby face which braxton sisters were discovered she her sisters. obviously i said braxton sisters and of course obviously they just wanna tony so they end up signing tony. Right and solo artist A lot of times artists can sign signed labels and labels on sure to do with them. They'll have them write song for the artist. Major label are reference strikes for the major basically. Try to get a feel for where to put you or your talents out where they could use you. So had the time baby-faced re working on the boomerang soundtrack and we're making an. They were also working with to baker and they had toni. Braxton similar voice singing pattern as anita baker to reference tracks four anita baker. And he'd make at the time had a child and was kind of listening to songs. Like i mean it's been but you might. You might as well leave. The girl has reference strikes on his own. I don't need them. And so i mean res- history. Toni braxton is having three or four songs. I love your brought you home and seven whole days. Tony lives you brought your home. It's one more. I feel like it's more like it was to But yeah and that's been hard. Career ended taking off. She becomes one of the high selling artists of the ninety s and also getting jerked which. I got the neto beggar for that. 'cause that assist. Yeah that out of you. 'cause i often you hear about an artist is bigger than you beggar passing up the opportunity. Like What was what. Was i watching the the joint on national geographic about Aretha franklin yell. Apparently the family didn't like an authorized. Watching it i can i can understand. Walk but i think cars mayfield was working on. I can't remember the name of the movie now but it wasn't superfly maybe working on music four movie and A was unavailable. He originally wanted to read the franklin to do the theme song for the movie. Was she unavailable so he asked her sister to do. And it sounded great. Sister was excited about doing was singing. Backup four and it was her first big solo gig but once a read the became free. Read the suit right in there and say oh curtis i'm freeing. I didn't come in here and do this. Now and cards ended up using a real vocals on the song for the movie. And obviously you know read sister will hurt was pissed off. Naturally i will be two. We would have fought but we would father. I'm sorry that we boxing. But that goes i just go to. My point is jet out to anita baker's a lot of times the big artist not really trying to give up the spotlight yet. Yeah so the pass it along as they now talk. You sounds great on these. Like just keep her on. I don't need Facts your it can be. I have i have one more. Go ahead go around fact so second fact. I watched the drink champs with mc search today. This is the fact that i knew but a lot of other people might not know. Mc search is credited with discovering nose and executive producing ill matic and it was written. I do air quotes for discovering ause. Because if you know the history of knives naza after live at the barbecue with main source now ziya already kind of discovered and was buzzing about the it'll be linked with Mc sergeant idea back to the grill again on third bases on third base album and after that he ended up helping us get his record deal and then ended up executive producing matic which search all he really was made. It may show. He made everything as easy as can be for nas. Basically anything that the producers needed any sample producers needed clear. He makes you got cleared because he like. I can't help him write a song. I couldn't right now. Luke's enough During the interview ask about the search publishing comment from jay z D- no but he He asked about searchlight publishing but he didn't ask about drew. Missed opportunity definitely would be my first question and this is what j. drew does he. Did he really have to pay you of reheating. We're gonna pay me like 'cause he owned nozzles under his publishing company when he deal was under searchlight posed said his first three hours or under searchlight publishing legitimate. Because now i've got the money. I didn't take any money from ause. But now he's got the money but yeah he had to pay searchlight publishing into money with tunas so you turn. Jay was publicly but pay said. Oj me see mine except pop fact. Okay well okay last week. We'll say do. They have released his album Cala cala which is not hip hop favorite calicoes. His real name. That's his government name Kelly kelly real name. A lot of people don't notice. Dj cal discovered by fed. You If you if you anybody following Dj callous career in from the beginning. You know he's been screaming screaming tariff squad. I his first album listen. He was wearing a huge terrorist. Watch on He was but the thing was. He wasn't fat joe's dj. I forgot all stuff used to screen for record. Listen let's be novacaine. People squat be novacaine. What's his producer name but He wasn't fat joe. Dj he would just fabulous friend. Fat joe and a lot of artists would do this back. Then which is why he has the show with in. East coast are specially would do this. When they would travel they would make relationships with. Dj's and sometimes bring those deejays till the markets so cala was fat. Joe's miami connection finance. Okay when i normally records broken in miami. I go to cal because kelly was very popular. Miami because kelly came up private radio originally from orlando doing radio in orlando and so he ended up going to miami in so but but they became very close because callum wants and had ambition in federal city minor. Fat joe would have been a record saying kelly is like him on steroids. Like this is me. I'm like hustling and drank it out there like alex worse. Eight wrong caliber boy. I've heard a lot of people associated with tears. Sadie i've heard cooling jerry. Say that about kelly. I heard him say that about caliphate. Joe saying about kelly Cuban when he's not hey federal federal. Eighty but yeah. They've also another fun fact the never mind we can't that'll make their guy. Look catalina video. If you look at some fat old fadul beatles catalogue in the background time dodgy also shot and standing next to walk levels. Young wasn't really skinny. You might not recognize them. But that's the is a bit known for whitecloud. Welcome john and get him. No discount Sample of johnson eighty sit awhile belts. So hey this is walker lukens. And i'm zac ketan zero and we are still the hosts of the song confessional podcasts. We are aren't we. We've got our newest new mini season out. Well now that's right. It's called seventy two hours in newport and it features new songs from kat edmonson band of heathens. Jake lloyd wild child and how mouth go. Subscribe to song confessional. Now wherever you listen to podcasts this guy at all your hip hop fag. But yes gonna cuban link Fadul interview with toilet colleague who has Podcast on patriot But And he asked him about that. Because you know big pun. Head is a street named after him in the bronx fadul and go because you know cuban link was there and some of be family. Don't get along fat joe. And he then he was twelve. Quality was any chance of reconciliation. Joe like you know. I've never say never you said adding said we you talking about putting families we obviously love pun. And you know. I i just don't wanna go there and take away from the moment and it'd be tension and people are like. Oh whatever whatever the other guy dig around for more at this quick break. Now let's gentlemen. It's time for unpopular opinion. Would fresh himself all right. So i want to say it was last week or maybe the week before last. I saw a tweet online from house artists about how they were. There was an outlet more and more interview based outlets in the city for artists. And i got scratching my head because i was like. I don't do your homework or reach out to people but okay coup and they will bring an example. You know we need saying that also needs you know. As far as the rap community goes in the outlets like a sat's or what was the other one academics or something of that nature of lab. There's somebody that going to sit down interview and people get on their interview. All the dirty laundry they beef. They issues that they have with people like if united artists to get on there and they do all of that. You know you know they they blow up you know they blow up those platforms blowing artists up yes. Those artists are getting the attention because controversy sales. But you have to understand you have to realize. Is that how you want to sail your brand. Do you only want to be known for the controversy. Takashi six nine so controversy to and look how they ended up for him chief keeps a lot of his early on was a lot of controversy about what he was doing in chicago. What he was affiliated with your cargo and we see how they ended up for chief kief early on in his career. He ended up being banned from performing in certain places chicago. The man moved to la and said he was never going back to chicago even a perform as a hologram because he didn't wanna go to chicago because he knew if he went to chicago he'd be arrested just over chance of he was like. Is that type of life. You wanna live because you so desperate to pop off and get on like you want to sell the controversy because a lot comes with that and honestly i want to get on there and discuss who you who you don't like or who you gotta will you got beef with and i'll be honest with nobody cares. Nobody cares in order for a rat beef to become big in. I guess successful. Bill gotta care about it. People gotta care about you and they gotta care about who you people with or at least just care about you. Let's say i hate to use. What the whole yellow busy multi multi issue our p. Three not gonna say anything disparaging about one but care about both artists to an extent. So where whatever anybody said. We was glued to it or people glued to and they wanted to hear well yellow be had to say they wanted to hear what three say they want to hear. What tribe way. Freddie had his because he's still talking but people care you have to care the whole jay z and nas. They we care we care deeply. We care the biggie to park. We care half y'all got issue with somebody. Nobody knows anything about or care about. That's your issue with somebody else and you wanna get on the platform arid l. y. Any other time yellow line talking about job. Ganesha's games is moving silence. And you know. I ain't even a you know line. It'd be talking at all. It is about who i got an issue with. I'm just going to deal with it so why you wanna get on air it out now because you want the attention because you feel like you're not getting attention you you feel you deserve from your music like best trash just work harder and do do diligence once again. We've created an entire show for you all and y'all don't take advantage of it for the most part so and we're not gonna to educate here on air ninety issue that you got we're gonna shut down there. That's not what we're doing here you know. So i'm just saying like man controversy year sales have blow people up but is not always the best way to go. History has shown this this and this is my own popular opinion gentleman. This time of the night where we gain a little bit more wisdom than we had about an hour ago here is says with jones. Yeah you're not gonna learn anything from this one. So i was thinking the other day camelia fresh like i said. We brought freshman. What so to me to be honest with you. Because i've clearly the hermit the introverted of two of Which is why. I feel fresher. Both introverts just come down to i definitely. Am i pick my days when i want to be ovulate but thing about the journey You know house getting ear inn. We had those damn combo guys and Ask funding because those guys have an active podcast but still active group on facebook Groupie going with omen and It's it's interesting to think of like how you can imagine your life going one way but pivots to another. Because i met fresh. Because i have my little record trying to record. Label thing and Didn't work out. Life takes down the radio and podcasting so you say just man look gavitt dream out there you know. I know it's cliche but just keep on going man. You know life is pretty good over here and we have lab. Thank the store fresher very busy people saying that sounds good. It's true like i'm fighting. Sleep right now. Refresh his diet to what a swollen foot. But i i am one of those people feel like i could be doing more so hopefully in the future. You'll see that we'll start to you. Know i feel like. I feel like i'm not doing enough but also enjoy living in my house and i don't want to get out of it. So yeah that's mcafee says the brakes. Podcast is the production of kt x nine eight nine. The austin music experience you listen to the brakes show live every saturday night from ten pm to one. Am plead subscribe rate in review. This podcast on itunes. Or wherever you get your podcast. This podcast is produced by confucius jones fresh night and elizabeth mcqueen. You can follow us on instagram and twitter. We are at the brakes k. Dx and you can find more episode khgx dot org slash breaks. Our theme music was written and performed by authors own dizzy brown. So hey this is walker lukens. And i'm zac captain zero and we are still the host of the song confessional podcasts. We are aren't we. We've got our newest new mini season out. 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And when you're ready lodge us Africa R E A D to save ten percent off your first purchase of a site, or domain. Let them know if you're in Christmas issue. Let's start the show. Ciller back a day early. Oh, yes. Sorry. That's my bad because I have to fly out first thing in the morning. It's hosts, okay. It's it's perfectly fine. You know, we had a weird different schedule last will know this oh came out on time. But when I arrived, but we went to the city on like a Saturday now strange. Yeah. It was house house kingdom hearts three. Okay. How's kingdom hearts three hearts three Ajoy? So thanks everyone. Who's I'm not finished with a lot of girls done and waiting to hear what I think about the ending or something like that. I'm taking my time again thirteen years like I'm not about to finish gain a week. We all crazy. So we got a few letters for people who are like finished it into what am I supposed to do? Like, I don't know. I don't know what the fuck y'all where like rushing through. Combed every single corner of every world that you traveled to then go back because you know, it's like said, let's say they're like fourteen world's total maybe eight of them are based on Disney movies. And then each one you have like challenges supposed to go take pictures of these secret hidden Mickey heads, so I've been going into like what you've been doing Korac seeds. The game has say. That before. Yes. Okay. Which means a I'm so my experiences, so high this point. Nobody's myers. Well, I shouldn't say that I spoke to but okay. Pretty high in terms of level. And I'm having the joy of of a lifetime so excited. It's so beautiful. It's everything about the games more. Now, we need intendo. Switch kingdom hearts. The the franchise is always done like the main titles on PlayStation against XBox gets it now whenever kief real then they do spin offs on like separate systems. So I think they should do intendo arts exclusive possibly starring axel, maybe excellent kyri or actual higher Eureka, whoever the fuck, and I want our plans bring up my nose. I want worlds based on Moana. Atlantis cocoa. Incredible 's Zootopia in inside out, I did like Zootopia inside out made me cry a love. Well, I okay. Let me come the ones. I didn't cry. Out for real. Lambs seen Atlantis. I don't know Atlanta's Atlanta's never gets the Justice. It deserves first of all Cree summer. Secondly, amazing film. Atlantis needs to be. This is exactly why put on the list to because it doesn't get the things that deserves and it would make a great game other than that. Yeah. I think cried in most of these Topi definite to yours inside out. Absolutely cocoa, please. So man, I don't know anybody who kept it together for like the second half of cocoa. But what was that fucking? Don't you have just lost? Nobody the man. Wow. So glad you're having games highly Lou. Well, guys, thanks for coming back. This this week. My name is mod Maude Findlay, and I am Stacey Abrams whose mud Finley. I may. I mean. I spell mud, but I don't I can only think of the white one. You might be able to just put in the word Findlay. Yeah. Fix character. Oh, this is not from the show. I'll right. Be other played. Yes. Okay. I remember this and was really crazy that somebody maybe logo or something they're running reruns of it now. Shut the fuck. I'm not playing with you. Because there was an episode where Florida from the that's the one. I just started. What really yes, we're Florida's like her made keeper or something. Yes. Great ninth. Yes. That's right. Right. Okay. So that is why I was thinking good times might be an all in the family. Spinoff. I can't remember either good time as a spin on the jeffersons isn't on the family. All right. The jeffersons moved into the neighborhood. Right. And mod is also an all in the family. Spinoff good times. It's been off of this. I think yeah. I think so too. Anyway about the whole s series on. Sure. It on TV. I just watched that episode of the day like bitch. What I didn't know that it was being played in syndication, whatever I had never seen it on TV. And even they censor stuff out. And they also cut stuff a lot of times for like commercials or whatever I've noticed like broadcast versions of golden girls are not the same as the ones that your deal, whatever. But anyways, I bought it. Just simply because Beatrice Arthur also room mcclanahan is in it. It's fantastic. Good Florida comes in on episode like three I cracked a two minutes. I'm loved I feel like shells were kind of like almost Reeler back then about some shit. Like, the very second episode is her husband's her husband's best friend is like really conservative. And so they start going like arguing back and forth on different sides of politics and stuff like that. And did you know the hurricanes? He's the only be named after women. I think do not I didn't know. There was in fact, I learned early in life and then forgot yeah. I don't know why was late late seventies. They started naming him after both men and women. And I think there's like some study that shows that when a hurricane or any storm is named after a woman people take it less seriously like it won't. But you like any of. Like, oh, sexism is going to yin. It is. But yeah, Monte Gracia. I didn't know Finley was high last name though. Okay. Look at the while girls. Welcome back black excellence for you today. Keep you at simple keeping cute. Giving grace and honor to one Stacey Abrams being the first black. Again, this time first black woman to give the democratic response to state of the union happening. Tonight's by the time, you're listening. We'll be missing it. Thank god. You happened. Besides her response. I fo- I can't I don't give back. Donald Trump about to do is get on TV and Latvia. I do not get interested in nectarine or it's fucking feelings today. No, not at all. So will be tuned in for lady Abrahams and her response. I feel like she's going to wrap up everything I need to know anyway. And give me the read I'm looking for. So we speak your name Stacey. And we love on you, and you are just gorge shoe and Billy Porter's doing the gay response. Yeah. Forgot about that. Isn't that? Great. It's like how perfect I love it so much I need to do. More gay everything him to be the face. Yes. I'll be like why gays really underappreciated. Billy porter. Maybe maybe poses bringing him. You know to the point where people like his blood for for Billy port ever since can boots. It's like a South Pacific. Why gaze of? No, okay. Well, I'm just glad to see him getting more attention more praise. More shine all the things that he I love this so much so yes, tune into logo as well. For that. Also, I wanted to say an RPG to Kevin Barnett extremely talented writer comedian passed away way too young also Christoph Saint John in this insanity. Oh, man. I know I been the story itself is just so heartbreaking. But I just remember seeing that man on my TV all the time. Lit- literally every day because my grandma, hey. Toned him faithfully. All right. Or wasn't an episode that was meant not a single FA like every black woman in the nineties had a crush on that man and Kevin Burnett. I didn't know in so much love for him on my on my social derive. Like, you can't. Yeah. I can't believe I missed out on knowing this person while he was here. You can you could not know was in if you wanted to if you didn't before or hit now. Yeah. No. There was no way to get around it. So this week in a hot tops Mighty Morphin Power bottoms. The best kind of bottoms, you know, you just just charge up wherever you are getting formations more Fontana. That's what morphine time is. Honestly, just getting information literally what they do. Can't really stay in her ass whooping colleagues. She did. And she used to get on my fucking nerve. Here's Trini RIP kick. And all the even though they put her in that way. All that. Hole in her own fuck that was so for shoe calling for the Nega who was once upon a time was being all y'all asses with to the two faced that God gave him Rita who. I don't remember. How was anyways this week? First of all forgive me for anything. I may miss misconstrue whatever I'm going to dedicate one day an in box for the listener suggests send us emails to correct us on things. Go wrong. You don't have to. There's no need for dedicate in bucks. I'm gonna do that. There's about thirty emails ahead telling us what peak LIZA. I don't think we need a separate Email address. There's everything get wrong. It was not anything action. Sorry, my bad. I was really sitting up here too. And being for Miami. I still didn't have never heard of that my life. I mean me either, but you're spicy relish. Sounds good. You'll be good on like a fish. Maybe like a fried this. Maybe. On like, a Haitian coleslaw. I mean, that's how scribe but just like not nasty nasty is discussing take out the nets depart right and make a good which is. Which is. Like. But then. Just gonna. This is what heat cover Lord have mercy. So a lot is. I just I don't I. I've been playing my game been playing the game waited forever for a hit midnight. Got a few hours of it in woke up the very next day. I'm reading that jesse's been attacked by MAC. Oh my God. I wanted to say in the. Between that men Tabitha from batgirls club released this record to Torey lanes. Apparently, he they were fucking and a fee through the socks. Saks into got pepper sprayed protesting freezing. In may, Chester. Cheater guy. He drafted this record Twenty-one savages British. I don't know what Tabitha's dreamed. Oh, yeah. That's name. Well, I had to look that up late. Okay. All right. Sorry. Yes. A lot has happened. And I also don't know the details to most of those stories you just laid out a logged on every now and then in between eating snag taking link outside and prompted log back off there's a piece all right in remaining off the app. So yes, there absolutely is not even just off line because there's plenty that can happen online without engaging with y'all and y'all shenanigans. Yeah. And there is just there is a there is a distinct piece in it. And I want you ought to get in. So yeah, there's a lot more to the internet than social media. Yeah. I really don't know the details to a lot of this either. We don't get together. All right. Let's start with this. This is news that no body saw coming. Is it huge? Okay. K Weicker Kardashian offset are apparently working on whatever they're they're they're they're married. Cardi being offset or working on their marriage. Alkalies told people magazine they're taking being slow. She said we have a baby right now. That's like are real big focus a hang out with him. I talked him every day. We do our thing. It's just like to make things perfect takes time. You know, fucking and hanging out doesn't mean that you guys are on like a perfect not takes. So she clarified that they are. In fact, fuck we knew don't think you'll ever stop fucking fucking probably came back into the fold before hanging out. I really feel strongly that fucking never really left the fold not really might have been a pas on a weekend off does not a break can constitute it just does not feel like eight days. I mean, maybe, but I do like, I guess because you know, this is her husband, and she has this newborn. She does wanna work on it from the outside looking in. It's like full what from our perspective, anyways, like work on it for would y'all had just barely got together. And he was already eaten so, but you know, whatever you'll be in love with these negatives Cardo. Twenty six. Niches journeys from me was the year where I was like, oh, I don't have to do. What you dumb is. Nate twenty twenty six wasn't awakening. Okay. But it's not that. That's not like, you know, a thing across the board for all right? Not if you give birth that same year. I mean. Stay sleep is harder to leave a nigga when she have a baby bio, so I'm not I mean, I baby even remotely shocked by this news. But I wish her the best. I hope that nigga stops, you know, embarrassed her. That's really it. I hope I hope the best for that. Couple. At your best. You are loved. Why? I'm not gonna keep going. No. Yeah. I I'm not shocked myself either. And I too wish them the absolute best Cardi. Sure. The no, no because you know, you have a baby in the situation, and you probably have been around both of them probably been around. Several motherfuckers did not have. Both parents in the house will whatever like that. And you just want even if you haven't you want for your kids have it's Joycean, but then at the same time lake guess. Yeah. Do won't. If your baby's y'all one have both parents in the house everyone. Everyone deserves to be dumb with niggers. To in extent immeasurable extent as a learning curve for all of all of us involved. You know, I I can look back on these with the benefit of hindsight. 'cause I am not twenty six Newport. So but like I said, I'm not trying to like shit. Oh, Cardi's dreams or her marriage, even necessarily is just I don't know that that is really going to write. But I hope he does truly. I do. I hope he stops embarrassing his his wife like this are open for about support of the aluminum bylaws or guidelines. You don't think so? The eliminate a you actually must stand up in your adultery as well. As your misogyny, and your bees, see, I feel like deep down inside. I'm hoping Jay Z called who is also and was just like why would you ever? Call offset a ballot. Well, not not unsolicited like offset was I cannot get in touch with Jay Z in the phone call happened. And Jay z was like dumb mistakes these Asian. I hope he got through time. I can give I feel like a nigga like that is only gonna listen to somebody like, Jay z. No, you don't think. So absolutely not feature toll Jay Z kisses as well future. Founded no, probably inherited the eliminate amazing. So future may be up. Their future may be can be saved. But I I would hope that somebody older that you know, he respects professionally and personally we've reach out and say dull make the mistakes. I do not put this woman through HALE for however long, you know, EBay with her and do right by her or leave her and go on to life, like I'm just hoping that conversation happened with somebody that he respects, but maybe not you don't seem to have. Not one shred of fate. I feel like you've got a better going damn. Going down on the bible study. And then here in a word. You know? I would rather you commit to doing better by me than even necessarily come in going to church every week. Another more mysterious rekindling of left of seems happening Toni Braxton and Birdman might be. Damn Tony Rulli redoing. So well, girl BSA recreated Alpa cover for Halloween. What why wouldn't you just read the momentum into? Is that what has been the day that she was like oh. I don't have to do. Yeah. Yeah. Honestly. Yes. If BSA redid I'm coming. I feel like that would be like a refresher. Like, I am that bitch. And what about doing with this? I just know don't think. So I wish I got it. Tony. I really do. I just look at you when I see Toni Braxton, the Toni Braxton, right the Braxton matriarch. Not not that. When you think about? But okay done. Birdman posted on his his Instagram page, the number four life with hard emoji and tagged Toni Braxton eight the are with matching sunglasses matching haircuts. Alright nails. Yeah. Colour scheme as well. Slow everything here is just you know, June. It's best to look like it goes together. And yet, I don't buy it. Yeah. I really feel like Toni Braxton. Deserve so much more than what Birdman can give her like what exactly is the appeal here. But all right. I don't I can't you know till another grown woman what to do with her life or hover Jonah Tony breaks. Just like a rich ass. Ridge fine, South Asian man, or something snow holds a speak seven languages as I don't give a flak about whatever song you sing. Yes. Just I'm over here independently wealthy, and I just think you'd beautiful what is it that you do something in America? That's fun. Would you like to call? My yet something like that. I want somebody to break down for me. Like explain it to me like I'm three years old. What is the appeal of being Bartman? I just do not see. But who who are we to maybe bird me? I mean that it yet. Who are we to really say anything about anybody burn man wakes up in the morning, and he serves her a play to eggos hot out, the toaster with a little cinnamon sugar and butter onto toasted really and. Yeah, the microwave perhaps not plugging the toaster. As much. And not even real serve a good surf the syrup in the fucking packets that he took home from waffle house. Oh shit. His struggle water. Crowds. I'm happy if Toni Braxton it's happy are Toni Braxton, I just feel like I want. You right. Who am I to say that Birdman is not treating her like an absolute fuck a Princess? She look at him. Hey, maybe it is worth it. I don't know what Birdman Burma's money is like hurting paying nobody else. So the plan for himself. And so maybe it is worth whatever situation. He has going on, you know, crust and all first thing in the morning. I'm just saying what could I say I okay make decisions for you girl. Maybe plays a Spanish Qatar. Really? Spend his guitar, really. I'm manage because I just got a visual of Birdman. Not even in like the plays the slant the Spanish charter, he does it for though, you're just being funny for no he was Spanish guitar and keeps call was laying on top of the piano, San. Why did you bring that back to totally forgot co was beaten bitches ass will be bird. Let me tell you something bird man's gotta hidden recipe. And we're the ignorant bitches for doesn't the dick must be doing something because we look in head his face in being like, nah. But these girls something else, and we just don't know about it. The dig must be phenomenal combination. A good pain is a lot of money. Will you know, you can overlook a lot of things under those circumstances? No, you don't think. So. But there gotta be good dig money magazine that aren't covered and Lisa Frank stickers. Listen, some of us like looking like, a fifth grade girls trapper keeper, okay? Some of us like a man who was similarly decorated? Baby. Just remind me of yesteryear. You just takes me back to the early nineties Smith's Foster's English grass when I would play tapa ball when my business. I case. Yes. A cub inside make friendship, bracelets and make them s that three D S would just put. Buck an with the fucking sick. What did we all do that? Ece everything. What was that do? Now why he dry? Why are the kids today still making that s? Oh, man. Legit him. K next up on the list of talks appropriate ground Oury on Agron, Arianna GRANDE Dame. Right back in the news. All right. This was funny as fuck. Open mound. Meager? It's down. Ono off the hills of her new single seven rings new shrapnel pot. Single has seven rings now with a two chains. Remix just like we say, I mean. I feel like we can't even bullshit. No more on. Honestly is like like the agents or the managers have like either like bingo pad or like a MA just like flick is something I in whatever nigga should it land. That's what they do. They just flip a coin and whatever ratchet it lands on. Actually mad. I was mad. How predictable that was like really girl? There's just anyway, come on. Yes. Yes. For whatever reason under godson. Yep. Ariana GRANDE decided to get a tattoo on the palm of her hands in kandji like the Japanese lettering. Chinese. I don't really know. Somebody like I do a system of Japanese writing using Chinese characters. Boom. Yes, there you go definition. So she tried to get the tattoo to say seven rains in Kanji. Unfortunately. Would work like that. That's just not the way that it works. It was missing a few characters and the actual tattoo that she got and posted on the internet for us to see after it being placed on the hand. God gave her said. Basically it translated like Japanese style barbecue or small charcoal grill. Something along a little barbecue grill right with she change her name to that scene. I don't know why she won't just go by just you might as well lean into these do it. It looked fake the hand. And even look real one of them hot dogs are leagues posts where you're trying to figure out. Why is this dog as some why girls leagues? Yeah. I don't even know what you're talking about the hand. Didn't look real part. I get okay. Hot dogs. Hot dogs legs. I feel like it's a is it an Instagram or Twitter account where it's this out straight up. It might be. Matt came up so fast because hotdogs, legs everywhere Orleans. The thing that I'm mad at is that I really can't tell some of these you cannot to exactly these are hand a little fake in that picture, absolutely too. Hot. I'm Ed somebody here. Also, clearly put from like lotion or whatever on there. But did it like stood right? Like some of these. It's like, okay. It's I note I'm looking at a y'all are trying to be funny. What the fuck? Okay. So. Okay. So she got this tattoo on her hand. Here is the excuse that she gave us after we all laugh at her little charcoal grill tattoo that's supposed to say the name her new singles, she said, indeed, I left out the characters that were missing this say some stupid, okay with should have gone in between it hurt. Like fuck and still looks tight. Wait. So you knew you were missing characters did it. Anyway, we're gonna get to that. I just thought Japanese law. Do you? I wouldn't have lasted one more symbol. But this also peels a ton and won't last. So if I miss it enough I'll suffer through the whole thing. Next time bitch, you try idea you one letter it's ninety nine percent gonna go away. He said, but I wanted to feel it LL. He was like, that's the the what that's all. I see. Okay. All right anyways. Miss that whole update. Anyway. Yeah. Like, she basically tried to say that she couldn't stand the pain. Okay. That's the most painful spot for sure. I was like I'm curious for sure also that's how you end up with tiny grills lashed sorgo slash tambourine on your hand. So her excuse was that she didn't wanna finish the tattoo because it hurt too much. Why get it at all? And why get in a language you don't speak. That's where I'm really stuck. Why would you do this in Kenji anyway? I'm serious. What part of the culture is hers. What would you do that? You know, that these people are not my generation or whatever. And I know that sounds like elderly not like that or whatever. But girl like you. You clearly are not lying somebody in my drains. Like, you couldn't this had to have been for a year younger impressionable fans, though because you mean to tell me that you got a test to permanent eight eight your body and allowed it to purposely say something incorrect because it hurts much even though before you got the tattoo. You were informed of how much it would hurt. Yeah. Domino. God damn fence this right? So you didn't know this shit was wrong. You thought it said seven rings, and the internet told you fucking dating and even Baresi trying to please you shouldn't have the should say seven rings in Italian v since you're Italian called your mom and asked her how to say to sit right. If you don't speak it, right groupie. So I think she just like literally got seven and rings. But those fables gather means young taco because that's not how those languages work Chinese Mandarin Japanese nothing, and I know that you can't just take two words and find the characters and then put them together. That's not how it works. Yeah. That's how a lot of languages works. Anyways. She went to try and update it, right? Yes. She did. She added to the guest the characters that were supposed to be missing underneath the characters that she got tattoos for right? Prom is still wrong. Wait. So why the tattoo now says Japanese finger barbecue according to maximum. Japanese finger barbecue that sounds like a porn title. Oh routes her sleeves together. All the time issue. Big on. Well size, of course said but says this was so stupid. This is just this is show you again. Oh, let me just read. Timmy, posted a tweets Larry on the ground gets million dollar offer to remove Japanese barbecue grill tattoo to which she responded. I'll give you a million to gaffe my nuts. And she says I have actually. I actually have actually blackheart emoji many a time. I don't know what that means. I have actually blackheart like loved many times. I don't know. I also went back. Got it fixed. That must be like, whatever. Our staying group is called them like an inside into. Okay. We don't get tomorrow. I also went back and got it fixed with the help of my tutor to be more accurate. Why didn't you choose to help you? With accuracy the first. I don't know why getting tattoos and language. You're not the only person who has done this. I don't know why you'd be getting tattoos and languages you. Don't speak four you get all of the when I tell you. I would scour the internet. I would find the first person who I know speaks and understands this to confirm I'm getting second and third opinions. I put permanent because not only is it permanent. It's embarrassing. But it's just ridiculous to do it in the first place. If you have to scour the internet for somebody to proof regia tattoo because it's a language. You don't read or speak? Maybe you should get it into language that you do reader speak. What's the problem with it? I can't read or write Kanji. Obviously, what do you want me to do a Kanji tattoo? Run out of love and appreciation. What do you want to say? You know, how many people make this mistake don't care just because they like how it looks breath. I care so much like me. Real difference between appropriation appreciation, my Japanese fans were always excited when I wrote in Japanese whichever things my clothing, however, all the merge with Japanese was taking down sign anyone care to notice. No. We don't care notice. This is so stupid. You know, why girl that likes little white this? You have a whole. Tub of culture in your talion routes that you can just parade around Tetouan yourself wear on your clothes all of those things with actual people that you can blood relatives. Right. Does you could ask for all of the information? You can do all of the research of your own y'all love loving on other people's stuff and being wrong and looking stupid all the damn time. Right. And then telling people who are actually involved in the culture who are come from that race color or creed. I just love it so much. What do you want me to do? Love your own sheet. You don't love it enough to learn it. How I don't even care about the appropriation or not argument in this context because you simply should not have gotten a tattoo in language, you don't speak. That's it. That's across the board. Everybody run to us and show. You were so proud of your seven ring set, which also like why are you getting the name of your single tattooed on you? But whatever I just don't like thank you next. I get it. Right. Although I do not like this is incredible. At all great. Do not care song that in the messaging behind it you wanting to get Ted tude. And you're you're young, you know, ponytail way. Sure. 'cause I get like what that song is trying to convey. I still don't understand what seven rings is about. So I don't even don't understand the attraction to wanting to where it forever, but this was stupid. And maybe it will have you think twice? Yes. Again in the future before you say, hey, let me run to somebody else's culture in just throw it all over my own being will you won't. Because again, this is all our fault for telling you how done you love. How is it will what how does it turn into? What do you want me to do? Well, did you wanna better? So took a picture posted it on the internet for everybody to comment on. And then got it updated. And another photo like we didn't you invited us to this business. Goup us talking about it just hurt so much. I know that it says little charcoal grill. But why would you take action plan if you knew a sad little grill? Why would you do it? Girl. You didn't you just fucked up? For me. It keeps going back to you. Should've never got a tattoo language. You didn't speak Bessette. It could have been a white language. You didn't speak. You still should have got to put the words. Seven rings. Yep. Right there. And you could've even save space and got the new miracle seven and in rings, probably would have taken a grand total of one or two minute. The number seven ring, you could have gotten it on the side of a finger or something like you could have gotten seven actual little circles. The there's so many different ways you could have done this. But you. Just add go reach into this Japanese language and go playing around with these people's characters and shit that when you don't understand in curl on somewhere. I laughed a good longterm. I laughed and I and body heard. I was in the gym inbetween reps. Have you seen this? Just random anybody. Larry is a Yana 'cause we do the same damn thing. Lord knows what the fuck I tend to humanize arms those. I didn't even know she had one. So. She'd be bringing up a half Asian Granddad. He'll. Gran has one. Brown is like her alleged like a long time ago or something don't have me looking up old news to for as long as her. Okay. I guess I've never think she's talked about that wilder leaner career. I think she's also before this kind of regrets giving up. She doesn't talk about what it means. I don't think I've ever heard it talked about what it means. Sure. She has all right anyways next here on the list. Oh, lord. So let says God is always with you. I agree. Man. God is always with us. You know, what I have not heard anybody say yet many fans she has in all over. I haven't heard anybody say, oh, no. It actually means like broccoli steamer. Yeah. I feel like people would be clowning like very much. It really means tiny vegetables spinner. Oh, Dan, go article this. Here's what Nikki's tattoo actual on it. I don't know. I don't wanna know. Don, I don't don't tell me. I don't want to. I don't know moving on next story. Oh god. No, this is a loan. This is a long essay. So I am not gonna if it even means something like semi religious all take. I think it does. But the the lesson to be learned here is leave it alone. Yeah. This this Chinese prisoners saying there are lots of aesthetic in grammatical problems upon closer inspection. That's the thing these characters like you can't just write it. However, you'd think it looks like it's very deliberate every tiny little stroke means something just because they're not your the alphabet used to y'all. I can just do with the size every don't work. English. I can't believe I've never noticed that too on her really just really have not. Okay. So bowel was recently arrested along with his. Girlfriend ex girlfriend on off again girlfriend girl who was on that love and hip hop lights are with one. Name's Leslie Halden. So police Manley arrested, both Shad and Leslie. Because they could not determine who was the main aggressor in which reportedly physical altercation that took place between the both of them. It may have been over jealousy. So. Apparently, erotic condo some were in Atlanta. Midem? Bow out says that Leslie was drunk as hell they got into an argument. She threw a lamp at him bit him on the side and spit on him as he tried desperately to avoid her pummeling, Leslie says that bow was arguing with her and said that he she was disrespecting him for hanging all over another man's body. According to police reports it's Zabala out claims, according well, this is her testament. He called. He says that Leslie called him a bitch ass nigger. That's not funny, which is in quotation marks with ER at the of course, the white people definitely had to write that. Of course, they were never never gonna do that. So okay. Yeah. So he says she says that he grabbed her by her hair was pulling her out of the bedroom. And that is how the fight began. Some he's claiming that it was like, very obvious. She was the aggressor and she saying opposite polices on what the fuck happened. So they liked both of them. They ask that. Both of their mugshots came out bowels team is trying to use his mugshot as leverage, I guess in the it's all her farming store because if you case. He looks like Chuckie like he'd flat out like I jumped almost when I first saw him 'cause I've talked about how scarred me and he looks just like the scar. Like scratching definitely took place. She looks like nothing happened other than the police put her in the back of a car, right? But again, all you can see here is her face right now. So he doing the faces though, it looks like she whipped his ass. Yeah. I mean, if he were to judge faces alone, but anything could have happened. And I did also read the police said there was visible minor injuries on both of them. So I'm not going to jump to conclusions. You're literally don't know. And if the cops say they couldn't tell who started wetter whatnot than it is what it is. But they're probably both telling at least part of art true. Right. Yes. Absolutely. I believe he got jealous because she was at a party in talking to some other nigga, whether she was hanging all over that man or not I don't know. But honestly how insecure? And like he would be upset over something. Like that. And I'm not putting it pass anybody to like, I'm also easily enraged easily. Yes. Easily agitated as well. And I just heard too many stories to feel like, you know, the things I've heard about anybody, man or woman means that they wouldn't be in a fight. Like, I can't be like, I don't believe. Ow. Hit that girl 'cause I think under the right circumstances just about anybody could be physically violent. But like I said if you go going off the photos alone, it looks like it does not look good for her. It looks like she was the aggressor in. Hey, just dealt with it, especially some shod mosses word four feet on these sites easily be scooped. He could've easily whether he was mad about something. She did or not said something she didn't like all of a sudden, bloop, bloop, bloop, bloop, bloop. Like, I honestly wouldn't be surprised that she got. And it's nothing for a lot of women to just jump on. Because they feel like they can they can get away. True. There are quite a few women who are like I'll hit you. Because you can't hit me. And I don't know who started it. She says he did he says she did. And. Regardless. I feel like what I say in these situations the same which is that whatever argument who has should never escalate to put in hands on people. And yeah that is that goes for everybody, regardless of gender or sexuality or anything else in your hands on people to your outside gopro plan out. You know, what I'm saying whatever it is getting your car in yell at the top of your lungs, whatever like nobody's putting their hands on inviting situation. So this is all kinds of the, but I'll be find out who aggressors because I didn't even watch that show. Like, I know they were on it together. I don't even really know the nature of their relationship or anything like that. But boring. Scratched. I it is boring. Yeah. She tagged. I hope I hope y'all take this in and decide to separate from one. Another please, go through therapy in your own healing individually of one another move on which alive. Yes. Because this looks bad do Hugla Terry crews got into holy God. Please no deal Hughley. What the? Didn't we just do this with DO who yooglie? I don't remember. I know we talked about him saying something fucked up or very recently. I've had to be like, I don't know. How recent was don't even like you. Oh, you know, what maybe they don't even was he coming to Kevin Hart's defensive something. We were like why Bernie MAC is that you? I don't remember. I said that on the show. It doesn't sound far off. It's one of those things that hindsight is like, oh my God. Terrible mitre on brand right? One of them who was like pro black enough to have where he was like, I agree with this. And then also ignorant enough for it's like what the fuck is wrong with you. So I don't even really know apparently didn't interview with Blad TV a while ago. And was asked about Terry crews into situation the agency would touched him and his private parts and all of the stuff that we know have. So basically interview I'm still trying to figure out exactly deal usually was trying 'cause it's like. It's like he was basically saying like God gave you muscles for you to say, no, which which is not you're so stupid like what? And then he's like, basically like, it seemed like his right was supposed to be you know, you should beat this man TASS. Yeah. Honestly, a lot of men I actually had to stop looking at the responses to Terry crews because a lot of straight black men are like our understand because you are being you are buff. You are rich and you have like, which whatever you think is was standing in the way of you women some white man's. Let's dismantle that innocent. Yeah. Yes. We'll get there. He also said at one point which is interesting, again, the Blad interview deal like, you know, talking about this guy working for the agency, or whatever you you can't I can't be paying you and you touch my did like you can't touch my dig in. You you making money off of me. You can't touch my dick in front of my wife, and I'm like you shouldn't touch dick like like never violated by anybody. So are you saying that if your wife wasn't here, and I do work? You're like so you let me know that if all these cameras was going shit my pop up a little differently because after that I was like you've been in the industry a long time like has the game in every like come at you in like a wrong way or something like that. And he basically liked tried to like laughing off. And was like, I'm not hued enough thin. I which is not about looks. But if you're going to make fun of you, then I will coast on sure. Why shouldn't inaccurate? You know, nothing to do with it. And he said, you know, like I've had to convince women to to see with me. I feel like it would just be extra work with the game in whatever like, you know, your way of spinning it in trying to make it a joke. I mean, it is deal. Anyways. So all were having fun. So. So what the fuck all right? Oh, somehow, someway, Terry got when the tags DO healing series of tweets as you told the world, God gave me muscle. So I could say no are you implying. I wanted to be sexually assaulted. I'm listening DAL yooglie simply responded, you saw the video. Tested, sir. You said I should have pushed him back or restrained him. And I did all those things you act like I didn't you there. Well, he said that's different than slapping the shit out of him. Which says so sir if you truly feel that if you truly feel that as a correct way to deal with toxic behaviors, I slapped Janata you. And Flynn quest part. I have looked up to you my whole career as one of the funniest most talented people I've ever seen you gave him a lot there. I remember when I saw you warming up the crowd at fresh prince of Bel-Air, and I thought this man is a genius. But now, you're an example of when comedy turns sarcasm and cynicism, and you find it extremely easy to get jokes at someone else expense, you mock my success, but all I ever did was support. You you for the sent Oncle rush of rest Simmons, and Tariq Nasheed of decided my sexual assault was Larry's, whereas there are a whole generation of black women and men who don't think it's funny views protect abusers. But they mock survives as well. When you see me keep moving, so. Feel hugely responded to this on a radio show. I didn't know he had. But he basically, I'm not I didn't know the okay. And basically said that he was not telling Terry crews, we should have done saying what he would have done in his own had it had happened to him or whatever. And then again, he went into like. Just why it's up on his Instagram. If you wanna go watch the clip, I don't again, understand what his perspective is entirely. What it is that he's trying to say but getting back to the initial comments of always should've slap the shit out of him. And you got a spur reasoning big black. You Tova knows shit like. Of course, feel like beating his ass. What was like the appropriate response? What he should have done question. I think so even let's say that was first of all Terry crews has sort of made fame off of being the big muscular tough guy with a heart of gold like many people fell in love with him. Even though this was the first time I had been introduced saragousse many people fell in love with cruise win white chicks when he was the big buff guy surprise the prize Ludd, Vanessa Carlton like that is his whole thing. His whole career has being like the tough guy with harder gold either way. Even if his response would have been I like to beat the shit out of somebody who violates like that his wife is right there. And he is the tall. Buffed black dude that has all of these muscles and could easily break somebody in half versus this white gay who I'm assuming is smaller than Terry crews because look at Terry. Crews that would easily spun him into a situation where he would have not been able to work. He would've never been casted. He would've immediately been blackballed and should all over not only by white people. But by white gays because of being the black like they would have completely looked over the part about him being assaulted sensually. And it would have all been about this big black nigga who had the nerve to gay bash this motherfucker because he was being playful and had a little too much drink like what are you even thinking? Right. I don't know if this missing there. Missing there. Somebody told me that the man isn't even gay. He just he just likes to grab your lack mens Dicks because he can do it. And I nobody going check him and K. Nobody fight him. Like, it's it's very much or straight. It would have been the same. Yes. It it really doesn't matter how he identifies because had Terry crews punched him in the face popped his nuts off like he deserved. Everything surrounding this story would have been totally different. It wouldn't have been, you know, Terry crews joins women in talking about being sexually assaulted and all that it would have been big angry gorilla black man attacks delicate, white flour. And now, you know, we'll be booted off a Brooklyn nine nine, and we take everybody hates Chris re runs off the air. And this is why you trust those big black brutes. It would have been all of that. For Terry crews, any hall Noverre night, y'all do know that it's like you wanted him to fight. But had he punched that man the way that man deserved. It's his family who would have suffered is he had way more to think about than just what he wanted to do. Or what you think is natural reaction should have been in that moment. He's a grown, man. So you think beyond just having the physical pleasure of whooping somebody's ass. But don't wanna think like that y'all just like all well you upon 'cause you let a white man. Disrespect you like that? And I would never do that will I while you're not even a situation to lose half of a tenth of what Terry crews has. And I know you nigga it's not sitting up here. Lion. Acting like you're y boss Cain disrespect, you eighty thousand different ways. And all you do swallow. It get in the group chat in bitch about it and bring to work again the next day why because you have bills like every fucking body else. So I don't I really don't get why black men aren't rally. You would think this would be the one thing where like fellow straight says black men would be like all up Terry crews, like, you know, support our brother because he's going through something in this suspect up and this is wrong. Terry crews had to come out and be like actually black women were the only ones who supported me after I came out about this and black men have overwhelmingly been negative about it, or you know, detracting me or trying to make me feel like I was wrong for not, you know, kicking this man's ass. So because our training as black men is to be destructive our training like if be. Be like shit. You said a word. There are training is to be aggressive. It's to be like combative like that's what we're and honestly if you look at like, the history of black people period, you can almost make an argument an argument as to why that is, but it's like, usually aggression, and you're fighting and all of that in smart, ways and smart time all the goddamn tire. I and acting like you ain't got no mother fucking sense. When somebody says, hey, girl, this serves no purpose, right? Like what saying the white man didn't deserve to get his she deserved it. But had Terry done it. We would all understood. And yet we would have all been completely unsurprised when it would, you know, instead of w EMMY firing that man, Adam whatever it would have been other way around there would have been Ted Cruz being let go it would have been Terry crews. I'll. Get work can't dishes can get like it would have been only for you say mass. Knicks you making means jokes, right? Because every right because everything is fucking jokes Seattle on the internet child. I don't blame them in one bit for react in the way, he did. And now look look at how different the narrative is because he did not bite them in. He's been able to come out and say this happened to me, and these are the steps, you know, I'm going to name the person who did it. And I am going to hold every going to be held accountable for what happened. And now the man has gone from W me. And he and I think take crews got a settlement of some kind. I don't think you know, that that was ever made public or anything like that. But he hamlet in a way that meant that he could keep working, but he could keep supporting his wife and his kids that he could keep doing what he loves to do because we live in a racist society where black men simply cannot react with their first instinct, if that first instinct is violence in less, of course, your being. A black woman, and whatever you want to. But if if the person who is victimizing you is a white man, you better be careful nigger because that'll be the last thing you do in this town. I just don't understand how ya'll didn't see this story about Terry crews automatically be like like, I feel like black men should arrived. Around Terry crews the way black women rallied around the Sandra bland story. It should have been like it should have been like a million man March kind of response, relaxing, many many mmediately looked at that. As soft of Terry crews, not beating him up and for pro ching. It the way that he did you know, what I'm saying like telling the story of of being assaulted, and how that affected him in living with all that stuff. I think that it was perceived as a soft which men equate to being week, which is like the worst thing that a nigger could save you are like the worst thing wipers yards bone. Well, why people hate pro? I mean true. But I just okay. I don't I'm just, you know. Yeah, I get it. Like, I don't really expect better. But it should have been better Turku deserved better than that. From his brothers end. Didn't get it. No shock there. So. Twenty-one savage is not from here. The apparently is. Originally from the guy I just recently discovered. This did many other people including his fans, so he's recently arrested in detained by is. Yeah. That's that. Is when I found out he wasn't American 'cause I could say what he was just naked from Atlanta, everybody thought he was on six, right? Exactly that also. I still haven't even found like when he moved here. How any of that was twelve or thirteen when he came? It's two thousand five and I forgot the twenty one savage leg legit was twenty one. When. Right. He's like twenty five or twenty six now. So that heads up like that. But it's me a while to remember who he was I had to think I was like I will not go to him will not a no that I've heard this name where do I know him from Burroughs talked about liking the smell. Yes. And then I remembered me you talked about the fact that she got him a leg drink water and eat green things, and he's the one who said is a knife about that tattoo and had you saying ISSA is everything from like two years. And that's what I got. But yeah, being being detained by ice is not the funny about that. That is some serious shit. I was immediately freaked out when I saw like I again, it was another come up for air moment on the internet. And I was like what like I already felt like the fucking headlines at that point were just out of control. I don't know my nigga, I know that bad for it's been every day. They've been really bad that one was like, okay. This is a joke right ice for my. Yeah. Like, I was like confused ice on the I don't think whatever. So I just read the he's like waiting to hear what how they're gonna move forward. I rightly he's like on a twenty three hour lockdown all of this shit, and he could be getting deported soon. Now, lots of people were joking about it. I guess because to them it is just Twenty-one savage, and it's a knife, and blah, blah, blah. But like, even if you don't care about this, wrapping ass Negga, even if you don't know about all of the good that he's been doing like within his community in Atlanta. If you don't know that he was I think on balance or something recently rapping about immigration rapping about water. And then it was like everybody was like, oh, that's why I got. All right. Okay. When was talking about traffic, but he has been in hiding talk about, you know, free. And then we now you got to get the fuck out of this country with that bullshit on remind the Americans about this Cam. People think so so even if you don't give a fuck about any event like ice in itself is so fucking God damn anus. I don't even understand. Why it's well, I think some of it is jokes because the idea of Twenty-one savage, beating k it's funny. Like I saw a couple of news hour like go twenty one savage writing. Ron's and it was like a feather pin like a quill or whatever we're like. That's what lavar addressed. Yes. It was like a picture of like a porcelain gun on top of a t play in this like, okay, I get British. But you know, like this rapper. That's funny. But nothing is funny about being detained by federal authorities. That's not that isn't hilarious dad to like, what is that mean for his son that was born in? I'm certain uncertain. The baby's mom is American. So and I think it doesn't help the he has a felony from a couple of. Years ago, certainly doesn't. Black because even if you didn't have MS thing like I feel like maybe a lot of jokes coming from black Americans who aren't taking into account how serious this is. And who are also forgetting that like SIS if they come in for the black immigrants. They really think they not coming from the black citizens St. really think we're going to be spared girl. Ministration has like slowly like it's almost like like that little circle in fortnight, how smaller and smaller and smaller like this ministration has been the fortnight circle. Got it. I wish I knew what the Smith over time. There's like a circle that you're allowed to play in in fortnight in smaller and smaller. Okay. So you can't go people have to get closer forces you to fight each other until there's only one person. Thank you. That's literally what the country like they're closing in on. Yes. Thank right thing. This ain't gotta do. You may just hates Mexicans. Maybe. No, no SIS, this is this is an overall purging remember shit countries that was about black country. Yeah. That was about Haitian stars about plenty of your memos on. Sure, we're moms and dads. And I don't know why I think there was even a story last year about how I tried to deport him. Who was? Isn't even an immigrant. They try to deport him to Jamaica. He was like I'm from Philly though. I don't know. Why y'all think we won't be next? So, you know, jokes about immigration coming to snatch you up in sending you back to a place that you barely. Remember that wasn't safe. Now that that is not funny. The there's nothing amusing about that. And I hope you understand that if Donald Trump could Rian slave tomorrow. He would do it. Let me let bitch if he could get us right back in the fucking field. Girl, would please do not play. So what do you think they think was so great about? Right. What are you? Writes back when the women's shut up, and they were nothing, but come dumpsters and dinner makers, dammit. Always. Beats. Too good out Americans. Why contry as me they respond to and the fam- wants so wrong. Against god. I love con. So. I kind of feel like this sounds like not try to do Caribbean exit. Like you trying to be country southern race. I'm going. No, it is not. I'm just it. It is mine is steeped. Right. But I'm saying the effort. Did you sound like like, I was closer than you air perhaps way? We'll okay. To you. But I mean, it's just that's it like the they're absolutely coming for next next. So I don't kind of celebrating like like, your passport or your birth. Certificate means anything as there was some who is Ann Coulter think Ann Coulter's said something like if if if we change voting laws to where all four of your grandparents were born in America, Trump would a one overwhelmingly off fifty states. Okay bitch. Thankfully, that's not how voting works in every citizen can do it. Not just everybody whose grandparents. And there are plenty of why this is I don't want to get into this. I really don't wanna go down this road. I just want you to remember that we are not safe at all under this administration. It's not even just immigration girl. The hate all of they did a one way or the next they're coming free. If they don't hate you for being black. Then they hate you for being a woman in wanting to have control over your own, buddy. Or they hate you for being queer or they hate you for being trans or the, hey to for being poor as if it's not their fault that you are poor like there's just there's so much going on here. But yeah, let's let's make fun of Twenty-one savage. I guess Mooney literally forced motherfuckers. Anyways, still easy for us to get sidetrack like so easily and we'll go over the same stories anyway. Demi Levato great don't come back. Thanks so much. Goodbye says I'm gonna fuck that. She's thought it was funnier. And it's not even the fact that you got like dragged for laughing at the memes because it isn't funny. But you weren't the only person who was laughing. The fact that somebody very calmly and politely was like Hase's. So what's funny about this? And you get cute talking about a man, I didn't respond to his he salty that I didn't respond to his DM's or whatever like his tweets from yesteryear. Whatever. And they wanted to play the vixen because people were talking about her overdose or her addiction hair when in stuff like that like data's was all public knowledge the same way that Twenty-one savage and his current situation is public knowledge you laugh at somebody going through some real shit. It's funny. You think it is? This is a real fucked up situation affects this person wellbeing and the wellbeing of his family. Okay. So if you didn't want people laughing at debt. I mean, I don't come back. I really didn't think there was anything wrong with the main that she was laughing at where we're at thought she went wrong is like as a public figure who is laughed it for things that are painful and like deeply affect you. I don't understand why you would do that. The rest of the celebrities are not on the internet Ken over this, man. And what's happening? They're not cracking up at these memes, girl. So why would you even put yourself in that position? Coming back and being like, oh, so. You think that because I laughed it this like I don't like the victimhood of it. And just being like, oh, that's not something to laugh at too many people the issue right now is not something to laugh at right? So girl, I just don't know where this energy was for the Knicks who were making fun of. This situation. Like, it was plenty of black men making jokes about Twenty-one savage in. I didn't see why address, you know, deal yooglie or or little Duval or anybody else. So we're just kinda like, okay, I guess this swagger, but the only person who is our like again, the only response that I saw well. Yeah. Because this actually blew up this whole Demi Levato thing, and then she ended up like deleting her Twitter and being like never going back. You guys are so much which is making. Like everybody on the internet is being girl. They're all bitch. They all are Roman sizes. I don't know her like that. I like that. Sorry. Not sorry song though. I tell you that sugar that a lot great voice. Beautiful voice. You have that song about lemons, or whatever I think on dizzy. That one bias. Keep the based on that. I love it. Yeah. This ain't about Demi Levato, no damn way. It's it's really not about ice coming after notice for speaking up shit. That's going wrong in this country such a bigger bigger. Yes. Way bigger than Demi Levato. So let's it for this week in hot tops mind. More of our bottoms, take a break come back. Hey, what twenty nineteen was all about slowing down in being mindful imagine -ccomplish, then that's why we're excited to partner with com-. The number one apt help you meditate sleep, and relax, and I know you could use the practices like meditation and prioritizing sleep can leave feeling more arrested. So you have the energy to go out in a chief your goals if you had to come dot com slash three. 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We may just read them aloud on the show a big thank you to everybody who Centene questions last week for the mailbag episode. What a delight that was to go through all the many problems you won't going through. And we're gonna dive right back in this week with Jamie. Hell Jamie says my husband, and I have been married for eight and a half years when we first started dating he smoked cigarettes. And I describe myself as a social cigarette smoker. We got married I got pregnant and quit smoking for the first year or so of our daughter's life, he attempted to quit while I was pregnant, but he couldn't kick it. Eventually, I picked up socially smoking. Again, having socialist answer kinda like you only smoke when you drink or you only smoke it like parties sort of thing. But you never even try to cigarette before. But I always assume like when she start girl, I mean, when I I quit cigarettes that was how I'd like tapered. Off to just smoke it when I was like at the club or whatever with my friends in van eventually let go together. But yeah. So Jamie says last summer I started cross fit on my first day bid. When I tell you that I could not breathe thought I was about to fucking Dr I was clouded the world was spinning and I was gasping for some precious oxygen. It was in that moment that I admitted to myself, I wasn't a social smoker anymore. And I was just a smoker. I smoked every day with my husband over morning coffee and evening cocktails after I got home from cross fit that day at told my husband. I was done spoken forever. And I quit cold Turkey. Having picked up a cigarette in eight months. Additionally, I've totally change my eating habits. I only drink two or three times a month. I feel good look good of lost forty five pounds. I just ran my first five K at thirty two and planning another one in March. My problem is my new healthy lifestyle has killed our sex life. I have zero interest in my husband sexually because of his choices when he comes inside from smoking. Sometimes I gag because the smell bothers me so much also the amount. He. Drinks is a turnoff and watching him. Eat greasy processed food makes my stomach turn his match really Finn. And we both did the same unhealthy things for the shorty of our marriage. But I gained a hundred pounds and guy bad knees while he's still ways the same one fifty. He first started dating. You're paying. He doesn't work out. He eats shit. He comes on from work. Eat fast food than goes outside sits on the patio drinks beer and smoke cigarettes before this nerd, I'm sure his arteries are fucked. The point is that we have had sex since the day before I quit smok-. Wait, the point is we haven't had sex since the day before I quit smoking. Holy god. You know, skim these letters pick them out. I totally missed that. Always shit. Okay. Eight months. Okay. Sometimes we'll be sitting on the couch on opposite ends. Because again, I can't stand that smell and he'll ask to go down on me. And I'm like ill bitch. No in my head because I look at his gum. And I don't want ginger Vitus on my placebo and fury before you ask. No. It did not bother me before. Because I don't think I noticed. But now, the my gums are getting healthy. His raise gum line is. All smiles. We started dating when I was twenty two and he was twenty eight. We got married. Two years later at our daughter a year after that. Not. He's thirty eight now in the cigarettes have taken their toll on him. I still think he's handsome, and I want to be intimate with him. But I like kissing and getting my titty sucked in Passaic, and without that, I can't get turned on. When I tell him his habits and ginger Vitus, our why don't wanna have sex with. He says, well, I guess we'll never have sex again. We're her booth. Bad because. I feel bad because even at my heaviest. He never batted an eye are made me feel like I wasn't the sexiest woman. He's ever seen 'em. I n asshole should I try to get over it. We live in otherwise happy life and used to have a healthy sex life until I started my journey. Thanks, jamie. We'll see they have a daughter. They do makes things difficult may had a baby when she was I'm guessing twenty five so this little girls probably six or seven now. You just described him in a way that sounds like somebody who is just all together, not very active and. That's a side from just the cigarette smoking as the cigarette smoking is impacting turnout things, you know, his smell. I'm line other things. Yeah. Ability to want to be next to him that it's a big one. But it also seems like he is standing firm in the fact that he wants to be bummy and. Yeah, sucks for you. So it seems like you know, at that point. Here's the thing y'all been married for a long time. I've been married for a long time. And you have a kid together and stuff like that. So I would try to have the conversation again and approach the idea of like fair appear together possibly get somebody else in in involved in the conversation who can get y'all on the same page together. Think eight and a half years of marriage in a kid is not something to like dash away over something. So. I don't wanna say small, but it's not like, you know, infidelity or violence. Like, it should be something that you can work through together. I to- 'til he get not wanting to be even anywhere near this conference of this negative thing. Because of that cigarette smell, I get it. Like, I totally get like. I can actually hear my rant about smells in my head from the smell and taste. So I know that I don't have to repeat it just know that smells are a lot for me saying and. I understand why you feel that way. But if it's not something that you can work through. And it's not something that he has any interest in changing, and it's a -ffected your intimacy to this level. Eventually you're gonna start thinking about going your separate ways. And yes, it's not just because of lack of sex. Again, it's always bigger than just men because a you're less attracted to him because of his parents and his smell, and he's expressed it he don't give a fuck about that. So you're so far apart at this point. I would suggest that you just try to get somebody involved. You can try to help you get closer together, and your understanding and your physical space that doesn't work. Then you gotta start considering you not being together. I totally agree that I think therapist is probably best option here. And I really see it from both sides. I see it on his side. Like, look, I'm the same trash heap. That was when we got together. Don't know why you're trying to make me over now girl, I love being garbage. I'm going to eat McDonald's and smoke cigarettes and drink beer every fucking day me about a girl. Eight and a half years. Why stressing me about this? You wanna be laying? Oh, you smell right girl. Please. With an also your belief. I understand you being like the smell of cigarette. Smoke turns my stomach I want to vomit I have dated people who smoke even aspects. And my rule was always don't come around me with that. If you if you smoke that is honestly your business. I can't control what you do. But you nothing to have smoke breath all up in my face on my body. You're gonna go brush your teeth at the minimum if it's real bad. And you gotta go shower and change clothes VN's like deal-breaker, the Hainault smell right is gross. I don't like it. It's not even about sex. I could be watching TV. I don't wanna smell cigarettes here at all. And I used to smoke. We nigga weed and cigarettes. We. Meryl different is practically potpourri I love the smell away. That's an period. Bother me at all here where some weed Cologne, and I'll be fine cigarettes stink. You gotta go. They mail horribly. Do. People who think we smells bad. You know, what you can do not date me? That's totally up to you. If you like you always smell like we in our, hey, she don't come around with it. Okay. That's how you. Don't have no problem with that. At all boot, am I gonna stop smoking for you know, are not telling you to stop smoking cigarettes for me. Now, I'm telling you to smell like cigarettes round me. Yes, it's terrible. I don't care if you come in the house, and you wanna kiss real quick, you're gonna have to go brush them nasty jacket off wash your hands because I can smell it all of your fucking hands as well. Lie. Don't wanna smell them. I hate it. So I definitely I would not recommend just leaving him automatically. I don't know. Why y'all can't while y'all can't compromise? Why can't you say, hey, babe? Like, I would love to have sex. How about you just gargling with this list? Ring just saying might help a little bit with the gun situation. If he eats a bunch of trash doesn't want to exercise girl. I mean, he just doesn't fucking want to. I don't think there's anything you can do it. Right. Dividers and the cigarettes. You just gonna have to like I feel like you should be able to come to some sort of mutual ground when neither one of us feeling disrespected or or like intimacy is being deprived in this relationship. I think y'all can work through and relationships and then just like not fuck and be office. I don't know much rather be single like I'd much rather. Even if I was married I feel like knowing myself. I don't care how long I've been married. It's not gonna be months and months or even weeks of like, we're clearly on opposite sides of you know, like emotion, or whatever we're not really we're not compatible in the moment. We're not clicking the way that we used to like I need to get to the bottom of veg shed and figure things out or need to be our or you need to be out. Like first thing in the morning before he's had a chance to smoke or. Again, not just the cigarette. It doesn't she's turned off by several days. You're right. It is. It's also the I think she's just annoyed that he can eat whatever he wants and doesn't gain way. Say my knees, bad, and you. Damn slide. A lot of women are mad because they husbands never gained weight. And all they gotta do is look at a Coca Cola. And it's like an instant. I mean, wouldn't you would be the way things go. But buck you the gum line issue. And the cigarette issue, I'm totally with you on that problem. Yeah. If he's not willing to switch around some listerine. God damn I'm the day. You ought to be worried about Jin dividers for you shouldn't even have to be about me, plus breath. So there's even outside of smoking. No gingerbread. On top of tobacco breath. Oh, hell, no. The house talk space dot com, or you know, hopefully therapy is provided through yoga his job. Somebody's ever. It is Yanni center on need a qualified professional to help y'all get that feel like you can get over this home. But it's gonna take somewhere. There's probably a good old grandma on one side or the other. That's probably willing to be a mediator the background. Maybe on got to be careful with that. But depending they'll be aggressively honor. And I feel like who's aim is not going to be like bluff, you'll get a nerve brush got down. What is? Are the done for you carry God damn that God damn beautiful baby. And and all she could see it. Yeah. A trained professional, right? Exactly uneducated. Yeah. Okay. Good luck to you feel like yakking. I feel like yakking handle this. All right next question. This is always a safe always drag. Let me tell them busband. Click click. Pick lease was dragging. He's staying he got a food. Grow thrust. I don't know. What to write may? She says I'm in my late twenties. I live in New England. I moved here from New York for grad school to have here's ago, and I've had great career success. I'm an older man who is fifty at my internship, my first year in the city, we bonded over being black in a predominantly white space in both of us are Jamaican. He's very distinguished in youthful, but I've never had romantic feelings for him at first. I didn't entertain his offers to go hang out to go hang out outside of work. But after finishing my first year grad school with a four point. Oh, he took me out to celebrate. We went to one of the fanciest bars in the city and as a kid who grew up in a working class immigrant household. Go into the plaza for dinner drinks was event. After a few drinks. Lots of laughter. He confessed that he really liked me and wanted to reserve a room for us. But I immediately shut it down and told him we could stop being friends. If he expected intimacy and he accepted that fast forward to current times. He and I are pretty much best friends after several deep conversations about boundaries and expectation. Nations. He understands that we will never have a sexual relationship. Our friendship has grown stronger. He gives me money and gifts we have died at some of the best restaurants in the city, and I've introduced him to people in my inner circle, we talk about going on vacation together and finally booked a weekend trip to Kelly for the end of the month. This is the test trip before we go abroad. The biggest issue. The biggest issue is keeping my weekend getaway away from my old school Jamaican mother. They have met each other. But I introduced him as my work husband slash BFF. But she is still skeptical. She usually lets me live my life. But it comes with a long speech in judgment. We FaceTime daily. And I know she'll have a lot to say about me traveling with him, even if we stay in separate rooms. Should I tell my mom about the trip or should I do my best to hide it? I'm thinking about telling her my phone is broken while I'm away to avoid daily calls please help a girl just trying to live her best life on someone else's dime. Moesa love you locks. Yeah. Going to do the diary music. Bucket. I just you're lying to yourself girl in a few different ways. You really are. You're playing which itself and this man very much. Yeah. I don't even understand. Why this is question. Like, why does mom? Well, she says the subject says going on vaca- with my sugar. Daddy. How do I hide it from making mother, but I feel like there's a much bigger issue in the Email. Oh for sure. Things how how does mom will her mother's judgmental in would pass judgment on her going on a trip with a man don't tell her what she's saying should. I just like pretend that my phone is broken in. That's why can't face time with her. Or like, what should I do to keep my mother from? How do I how if I'm just missing a piece? But it seems almost to me again crack me from our. But it seems almost like you're using your mama as a way to like buffer this decision because you know, you shouldn't be doing it. I think you I think you might hit on acting like, well, you know, time. About it. But it's like I feel like deep down, you know, that this is some bullshit girl. This is a bullshit situations. But yourself into you are really lying to yourself. If you think this man, does not expect any sort of sexual intimacy from you ever for any at any point. I'm never had a sugar. Daddy. Unfortunately, I've tried. But. After having one either supposed to bring one my way, but I heard of people who have sugar daddies, or whatever you wanna call them before who don't have like sexual. Sexual relationships with them or whatever like, but I've only ever heard those things and again that doesn't have anything to do with the use specifically. So I'm not saying that he would expect it or wooden or whatever it just again seems to me like you aren't all the way decided are comfortable with this situation. And you're using like your mom being judgmental as a way to be like, well, what should I do? Like, if you wanna go go girl and just don't tell her like many of us have done with our parents and not involving them and things that business. But right. Yeah. I would if you felt secure about it, then I would just go. And that would be that. And it wouldn't be like whatever lie came up with just be whatever live or you know, whatever it wouldn't be such an issue. But I think like if you're he said party, oh problem is that, you know, something about this situation uncurling over ova the way and yet you wanna act like. This is about your momma, but I'm reading this. And you talking about how this man is. You're in your late twenties. He was fifty when y'all met. So he's got at least twenty years on you probably closer to twenty five. And that at first he was like always trying to get you to hang out outside of work, and all this, and that you never really agreed until you finished your first year grad school, like like, this was the point where you were like, okay, never mind, we can go. And then he took you out for drinks at the plaza. And you ally what up? About excited of having dinner and drink somewhere that fancy to you. And now you talking about y'all are best friends and that he understands you'll never have a sexual relationship. But friendship is not based on one person giving me other money and gifts, it's not about friendship is not based on one person providing like fancy dinners and exotic cocktails and vacations for Jato 'cause I'm certain you're not paying for the hotel the flights anything to do with this entire situation. This is not a friendship. This is a a relationship that is based on what this man is giving to you. And I just I know that there are people who say that they are sugar babies, and they don't have sex. But honestly think most of them are lying, and I think eventually this man is absolutely gonna try to get some pussy from you may not be in California. But at some point, I really believe it because you have already said that you. Tried to establish boundaries. And he kept asking, and then you broke down in agreed to do it. So it wasn't like you. Let him take you out to celebrate your four point. Oh, and then you'll never went out again, you you agree to it once, and then you cap agreeing to it because you like it, and I just think that if the Knicks starts doing even more lavish ship for you first class, you know, tickets overseas in luxury hotels in Paris. And all this girl. I'm just saying you have broken down before. But I certainly wouldn't be the first nigger go from. Good timing. Phrase to you may not have pay roll this God damn leaves? You can do. And I don't even care if he gets mad. I really don't. I'm thinking about you. And the fact that you seem to be lying to yourself about the true nature of this talking trip know where it is negative. He and I are pretty much best friends. Best friends have a reciprocal relationship. But this isn't this isn't that you are you are truly deluding yourself about what is you pay for the Bill restaurants. True. Real friends will be like bitch. Can you fucking stop? Every single time. We go nowhere. Don't show. Pencils down drop your civil air. But I'm full where's the Bill? Fucking every time. Oh, right. But it's not like, I don't as pick one friend like I'm like, oh, okay. Then on this. No, I'm not even remotely this is weird. But like if it was Jada something, I wouldn't be. I mean, just let me trick all your little bit. Let me take you shop in let me do stuff man going to do or whatever like that is not a friendship anymore. That is me. I won't say he's praying on you because you're grown, and you made the decisions that you made as an adult, but he's older, and he has more money, and he's more established, and you are falling for that. Absolutely. And I think if you're going to go to Kelly with this man, even if you do get separate rooms or whatever else, I think you just need to stop lying to yourself about the true nature of this relationship. I would start there at least I think you at least have to do that your, mama. I feel like. I feel like. A moment has almost no relevance to this. You need to talk to yourself says you need to sit down and be like momma, go hip, you to the truth that, you know, already don't want who is? Yes, who is this man? And why is he taking you on trips? When you don't have a relationship. I mean that. Yes. Why would he pay for you to go to California for weekend trip with no relationship between the two of you? Why would he do that verse creepy? It don't make no sense girl. Do not because he's laying the foundation to be able to have what he wants eventually, lured just like dinner and drinks has turned into trips trips is gone turn into. I don't know. What else? But I won't you like that. Of course, he's going to be like, yeah. Like, we're just friends like totes, of course, absolutely. Whatever you say keep access exactly until he pulls the rug out from underneath your ass. And it's been like, oh, I took her to California. We went to know, boo. And we did. How dare you spent eight hundred fifty seven dollars thirty nine cents Turner a noble, and I don't even get a slice of Pacific, not even a little bigger long. But if you don't and you do decide to go go to California, I'm not giving, you know advice on how to you know, I think your momma should now. 'cause you're gonna tell you the same as truth, which tell you. Probably so. Yeah. All right. Good luck to you militia. But yeah, kinda have to stop. All right, the less. So this last question we have to women who are dealing with obey going to. We have a woman you could choose a woman who's man is either about to go to prison or woman who discovered some prison like activity in her man's past. Whoever you don't pick logical next week. Okay. So then I would like to hear more about the discovery because at first one is who what's he going to prison tour saying, oh, what's he going to prison for this one? Yeah. Lets what's this? All right. So this comes from native who says I'm a twenty six year old newly licensed attorney who does not have much luck in the dating world seven months ago, I decided to take my chances dating this thirty six year old men who I would often converse with in the gym in who lives in my apartment conflicts complex. I should have hated the red flags when he explained on our first date that he had been married twice has four baby mamas five kids and was framed for arson. Whoa. Okay. What I was wanting. Run that last part back. I should have heeded the red flags when he explained on our first day that he has been married twice has four baby. Mothers five children and was framed for arson. You would that was a lot of flags that he threw writing you face. It was all the flag. I mean, I'm counting at least twelve legs. Just one like double dare. All going right to the physical challenge. Wow, girl. Okay. All right. However, I all the flags. Okay. Desperation for companionship, get away with the fact that he is so damn fine. We've actually had sex which was amazing. And as you can imagine. On the. He has four baby mamas, that's the horse. That is not dick is good even touching. The worst of this everything discovered that this man has been arrested eight times before on domestic abuse charges ranging from the us over two thousand eleven to two thousand seventeen weights eight arrests in six years. Okay. I asked him about these charges. He claims that an ex girlfriend lied on him. And he's never put hands on a woman. But I don't believe him from my experience abusers don't just stop abuse unless they've sought mental health care. Agreed. I want to end things with him. But now I've discovered on pregnant with my first child. He has never hit me or showed any signs of aggression towards me, my emotions are high right now. And I am not sure what to do. Should. I take my chance with continuing this relationship in the hopes that he doesn't ever hit me. Or should I call it quits and try to co parent with him any advice will be greatly appreciated? Thanks mona. Sys twenty six he's thirty six of course. Booed. Girl. So wait eight arrests from two thousand eleven seventeen. Did she say what the charges were or does? She just she said that the abuse range from biding dragging a woman downstairs punching and body slamming one woman, I left that out. I guess so since she asked him about the charges, and he says that the ex girlfriend lot on him so bankcards like so she'd lot on you eight times, and you stayed with her every time with all you gotta do is lie on me once and get me in trouble with the law for me to break up with you never speak to you again. So if so something about this ain't curling all the way over, and I think you understand that like that don't make no sense that it just don't it. Don't make sense if it's one woman or if it's multiple women that excuse just won't fly that dog won't hunt. You write you definitely should have heeded the red flags, right? And as Ferny as an attorney in the car. Are you an attorney? I can't believe you didn't run a background check on this Nick before you slept with him. But you know, hindsight's twenty twenty at this point, you definitely know what you should have done. But in the present reality, you're pregnant, and this is what you doing with. You didn't sixth kid? He didn't mention whether you told him that you're pregnant. God damn. So that continue this relationship in the hopes that it doesn't turn physical or should I call it quits and try to co parent. Regardless. Yeah. I think I think I think you have so many reasons to leave this relationship other than the possibility of being hit to be the possibility of being hit exists regardless of somebody's past. Yeah. But. This is record does not make it any easier to be like just have faith because married twice four baby mamas like there's so much here that is spelling out to me. I mean, he's thirty six years old, which means the likelihood that he's going to change decreases with every year that passes and his last arrest was two years ago. That's not very long ago two years, depending on when it happened. Right. That's not even two whole years ago. So and they just met seven months ago, you really got swept up and overtaken by the groom your I would not I would not stick around me personally are wants to ground. Honestly me personally, would you might not wanna hear this. But I would probably terminate the pregnancy in relationship. I mean, I'm not suggesting that you do because very personal. But God damn this is just too much this this is too much like you twenty six years old. And you gotta take on all of this and medicine six baby girl, you know, how many different ways they're gonna fire that child support if he works doesn't sound like a worker, but. You know, how he's pag and get snatched up before your baby gets his word not telling you what to do is going to be hard. Either way. You got a long road ahead of you. But. To whole like farming not whole idea. No, no, no, no. What are you may not the Taffer sellin pussy? But I mean, it might be shit. I don't I feel like we're whatever you make you have to believe in your own strength and ability to to get past it, regardless of how this nigga is gonna react for the sake of argument. I'm pro choice believe. Should do whatever it is the feel comfortable with his sharbat Anglo baby Andrew baby assuming that you decide to have this child. I would definitely not be looking to continue the relationship with this with this brother because first of all aside from you finding out about all of these arrests. And the circumstances around them you kind of had all of the reason to turn around from the inning. You know, you could've like you could use all the information that you had from before as plenty of reason to be like, I don't want to be with you. At least he was up front told you like on the first day heggers, everything that's wrong. He could easily be like junior where you when we was together before you fuck me anywhere who got a baby together. All that's true. But, you know, today's a new day seven months later, I'm just feeling a lot more clarity. And you know, not really any more to come see virus. When I dunno. I picked that as. Whoever I see little Timothy whenever it is that she want, but this gonna work out between us because honestly, even if he doesn't get physical with you God forbid he ever did. Right. It's out there. Bunch of other shit that could be leading itself right down the fame Pab, anyway, one of the other baby mamas child support not being paid him going back to it seems like the odds kind of stacked up against she even outside of domestic violence or abuse. But yeah, I would not stay with this with this nigga baby baby. I think you're right, though, about the fact that a lot of people don't ever heal from the things that drive them to unhealthy behaviors until they go through therapy. And maybe you can suggest that the hormone known each other seven months. This is this is a complicated situation all together. But I just want you to feel. Damn. Say yes. And I think power is another good word. You know, what I'm saying and from here on out, no shade? But like your good trustee. I'm saying like, you knew that you had all these red flags, and you thought he was cute. You fuck them anyway. And now you're in a situation. That's probably stressing you're limited. And you don't know what to do. Whatever you have you have a beautiful baby that could be a president and make the world a better day better place one day. And I'm saying all of that is that. But this nigga don't sound like he plan on being shouldn't anytime soon, you still again baby your baby have the power to separate yourself from him and still raise a happy healthy. That's what I would do because it sounds like shit at this stage in my life. I'll be like, yes, free pregnancy and never. Never run away. Right. And whereas my baby. Myself. 'cause I'm truly awful. I'm not wanting six. I am thirty six like this Nick is. So I. I mean, he's ten girl again, I don't even want to go back down all the different ways where you should have been like. Ooh, sign a good idea because you surly know that by now, and it's not helping anything to rehash all that. But good luck and making your decision. Of course, we pray the to stay safe. And if this nigga ever lay a finger on you, please don't look back when you leave his ass. But I don't look back and you see the bloody corpse omen around. Okay, happen to your four wheels. You bet bash sending ahead opening thank on having later. I mean, it's right there in the bushes saying, all right? That's gonna wrap up the questions for this week Siniora's to ask the Reggie mail dot com. We'll be right back. This week's episode is also being brought to you by ZipRecruiter. Do you know, what is not smart job boards that send you candidates that aren't qualified for the role that you posted and that send you a mile high stack of resumes to sort through? 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In whole ass nineteen Eighty-four posing in black face in his yearbook photos like in you know, how people have like a page where you can put up like personal pictures put it in the yearbook. Yeah. And he got on TV. And was like, yeah. Was me. And the next thing he was like, well, I'm not totally sure was made. But I know I did black face before for Michael Jackson costume, you're making so much better. Like once you. No. He's just one of so many people are be absolute. So yes. So for me, first of all, I wanna say in terms of Jesse sending him light, positively? Whether you're always so warm, you're always so kind, and I just hope that you feel that same level of like warmth, and kindness and love being sent right back your way that for me was so. I didn't. I I really couldn't even put into words how I felt that day besides God this planet fucked, right? Yeah. This world is so funny then and again, like knowing he safe knowing that he's like, a strong person a fighter and all that stuff. Like put some solace in this situation, or whatever. But the again like the way that a lot of people have treated the story or like approached it hasn't been again disheartening disappointing. I rating in all things that can continuously happen when this sort of these sort of stories come out like TIMMY, this should have been something that pissed off way more people than. Seem to be pissed off. But. You know, I well, you know, when something happens to a black gay, then it's pretty much only black gays. We're going to be off the window know, black women feel not too many not all we'll get there. We'll get there. But you know, it's just another data in how people feel about people. Nobody really gives a fuck about anybody communities. Not Earl thing the world's on fire so loved him, and that's pretty much how I feel about that situation at this point, and as usual, I can't stand so many ignorant ass stupid ass dumb ass niggers. And if it were future, you would have had a telephone and fucking. Like, sit in all kinds of campaigns would have been when going for. I don't even. But okay, maybe maybe would have blamed him for not fighting back same. While y'all. Blamed Terry crews for punching white man, maybe I would been like if somebody's MAG at me, I would pay their if the maga- had grabbed his dick because that's off gay. God see how it all comes back to you know, their mind, please continue person I'm going to read this week is leeann Leeson Leeson is currently promoting his new film called pursuit which actually wanted to see. Although it looks basically like taking on ice. But I was gonna go to anyway, now, not taking on ice, basically. I think what the independent you told a story. So the movie I guess is about like this guy who son is murdered and then him like going on miss revenge plot to, you know, kill gangster druglord whoever. Okay. Got it. So he's talking about like revenge, and like primal rage in for whatever reason tells this story about how forty years ago when a close friend of his was rate. How went on a hunt some murderer random black person? So he says this close woman who didn't want a name or identify for her privacy, or whatever it was a close friend of his, and he she told him that he that she had been raped, and he asked her if she knew it was she said, no he asked he asked the person's race. And she said it was black person. Then he said he grabbed a car which I learned is like a UK baton like a pro by. If you will. And when around like walking around the neighborhood fro week hoping that a black bastard his words. Like start some trouble within so that he could kill them. Right. So he interview acknowledged this is being let me I want to make sure you use. The right words cans, he said, awful horrible. It doesn't really matter. But. He said that it was horrible. I never saw him use the word racist. But he just he knowledged it as being this horrible horrible thing. And he said I've never admitted that and I'm saying it to a journalist God forbid. Yeah. And then they sort of like, the segue in the most awkward because the interview. It's like they fully realize, oh, this is about to be different. And like the interviewer went and did all of this research and talked to several people. And of course, now, the whole pieces like surrounding that statement and the story that you told an attempt to like promote. So I could spend all of this time talking about all the ways that is racist about all of the ways that that is horrible about all of the times that white women have accused black people black men of of of raping meme of all of the black men who've been imprisoned or been murdered wrongly for some random story that someone is told and it's not to say that whoever. This woman was wasn't actually raped wasn't actually raised by black person. But you recognize absolutely why this is wrong or do like, it would just be a waste of time. For me to go down a long list of. Wow, all of these things are racist. Especially since you know that you didn't want to describe it as racist. And he ran to good Morning America. The very next to say that you are not racist. And this was forty years ago. And that you hope that it could be an opportunity to have the conversation talk about things. So this is what leads me to my actual prominently because he has it was forty years ago. And let's say that in forty years you learn. Learned from your days in island to now being this huge actor all of the ways that is heinous and horrible and things like that. The reason this is so disgusting to me is the time in place like you're talking about how you almost and very well could you were walking by pubs looking for any black person who was drunk enough to like see you walking around and say something wrong to you or anything that you didn't like, basically. So you could beat them today. Right. And you're using it as a way to promote your movie, Mike, you acknowledged is after getting dragged after being called racist. Now, you're saying that you hope that this could be you know, a talking point you hold. This could be something that people have a conversation about around and can grow from it. And so on all of the times all the times, we blacks have marched have rallied even your own peers. In Hollywood have set next to you behind you view across from you and talked about these things none of those you could have on your own volition told this same story and used it at a time in a place that was about race. You could have gone to the side of many of your peers are plenty of people a black people in this country and your country or wherever else and use that as a moment to be like, this is something that I did this is how I participated in racism and ignorance, and this is something that I'm ashamed of. And I want to talk to people who look like me people who like young white people young Irish men and women, and blah, blah, blah about this sort of thing because I know that I'm not the only person forty years ago or today ago that this way. Yeah. You didn't use it in a way to to enact change. And I don't even really think that you thought about using it in a way to enact change until people were telling you how horrible and wrong discussing that was you were using in a way again to promote this movie, and that to me is really fucking gross. And I heard that like they're already shutting down red carpets and interviews shut down. I was like damn I know the studio, I know. Right. Producers director co-stars anybody got any. So fucking mad. Nego you either could have done real good with the story or you have kept this shit to yourself. 'cause I don't want to hear anything about not being racist. Countless numbers of black people who have died because the white man went out looking for trouble. I don't wanna hear anything about not racist this. So I don't really know what movement. It is that you thought that you were trying to start here. What it like if you actually listen to the audio of the interview vase sound like the interviewers the people who are listening to him sound? So like taken back. Where do we go from here? So nobody really seems to know what it is that you were trying to like come across with in this story or whatnot. But you have kept it to yourself or you could've using the many moments where black people could have used the aid of an influential wide person to tell this story and use it to do some fucking good. Because once again, as I've said black people cannot be the only ones to make change as a civil rights race equality or any of that stuff is concerned, it has to be more of your especially straight white male, motherfuckers stand up and be like this is wrong. And this is how I know that it's fucking around. That's why a lot of people aside from his lot of people were like upset with Kevin Hart for saying like for sending love to Jesse small. And I was like I would have been more didn't say anything because you just that on their on their show with Ellen Degeneres. Why talking about how you learn so much, and you're not the same person that you were ten years ago and stuff like that. So I want to see that you know, what I'm saying. And this could have just been your PR person being bitch. If you don't. Use your your. But I'll take it. I would rather it be that then not saying anything after the shit that we just matter like Ellen tweet and talking about four years ago small came out on my show. Hope he's doing great. You still made this whole event about view, though, girl, girl, I have so much respect for Ellen. But I don't know what she's doing with this same. I don't know what she's doing I still show, but I don't get this Saturday better. So I say all that to say like those time, there's a place for everything I'm fully for motherfuckers being like, you know, what I used to be garbage. And I would like nine only do I feel like I'm not garbage anymore. I like to continue tonight. I would like to inspire anybody that looks up to me to learn from my bullshit that that's okay. You know what I'm saying? But you being like, oh, let me. So this time I tried to kill a black bastard because somebody says rain that right? So you're just going to kill any black, man. Not even the one who did this. I honestly would not have been mad if he was like, and so I went to that motherfuckers house and said, so you right roasted cousin friend, whatever. Like do not have say it was nigger who lives. On temple road over there by. There are still authorities that can be called to handle those types of things. But like, it's one thing if she was like, yeah, it's the nigga who lives across the street from us, and you and your impulsive rage of that point went to go and fight that one entire motherfucker. And that's not even okay. But that's completely different. And I feel like the understanding in that would be different than you. Just be like, wow. I'm just going to go. First of all again, you asked her. What is this person's right right now? What are they lie? What were they wear not anything else? You wanted to know what their race was. So that you just go and kill that, you feel justified in killing a black men, and you knew as white man you get away with it. That's why are you looking for somebody to start something you were probably walking around being extremely aggressive. Just hoping somebody here rating the bay weapon out like said he did this every day for a week. So it was like you were waiting for anybody a black person to be like, hey, what's what's with the club? Do. Any way? Like you wanted it to happen. I don't know what Northern Ireland blacks were like forty years ago, but many of the blacks that I know forty years ago in today ain't about to just see no white person walking around with. No baton and ask him questions. We're leaving. Yeah. So many black bastards probably didn't say anything to you. Praise God 'cause they could already to white person with a weapon thinks. Nope. Seen this movie before taking three times. I have never thought you can keep that shit as well as this movie's actress to all kinds of controversy. Right. When movies right when they're. Know girl. I don't think I've ever seen a Liam Nason movie that could walk in here right now with no who he is. Yeah. I don't know. Why culture like that? But I just this story blew my mind because it was just like so many people have already said if she was like, no he had kinda like, sandy blond hair greenish blue eyes is about five eight, you know, medium Bill. You would not have went around looking for every Swedish prince that fits on there. Like, if she would've out if she would've told you it was the white person when you've done the same thing. Like, of course, if it was if it was fucking is all you gotta do is step outside and see a white exactly a fucking the first white man who will say you fuck euro wire in to fucking LA. Tired like I can't. So I don't know. Like when I heard about this. When I read the headline. I was like, I know he must've been sitting betwixt a and like, you know, maybe maybe Oprah's there, you know, maybe viola day. I don't know who like he had to maybe he was on a panel about equality, and he's still estranged. No. He pulled this story could caps out of his natural light ask to promote this movie that God only knows who's about to go. I mean, why people are gonna see it. 'cause they don't right. I mean, he won't face any real because for this. It's not like he actually did it which I guess people think he deserves credit for I mean. Anybody not really like you have the full intention is not his it's not because of him that this didn't happen. Black swan Mandarin Kelly. It's almost like we want to be free to walk the streets and talk to people in this world without thinking, hey, this white man is on a vendetta and hates blacks. And it's gonna kill the first one that speaks to him Nikko. What? Besides that for y'all who goes to the gym. If you go use the locker get a lot like why do you keep putting your stuff in and locks without locks on it like is that thing in the women's room to well, the gym I go to now has locks built into the lockers and you need to switch and come over here quit playing. I keep telling which to economics. Have you not all of them have locked now, they don't, but why people do not expect anybody to take their things. So I guess at equinoxes to especially a couple of the girls. They don't care gyms do that as well. But like I want to economics. I swear like maybe three or four days ago. And there was like a series of had to be like six lakhs. No again, it's not locker Liz. So anybody could just open this and take her with coats bags cellular phone, everything person their first of all it's because I want someplace to put my things with my actual locking device. Right. And now I have to go like it was I don't know why I'll do that. It's weird stretch. Plus at least the one that. I went to you can literally go ask them for a long. Yeah. They they're fucking almost called it a club. It looks like a fucking coach. Of course, they have locks just go. They have a coach sick don't worry about that. Because I would not rest if I had left my things in the locker room without a luck. I would not I wouldn't be able to enjoy my work. But why people know nothing will happen to them. They know it we could actually sit here and talk about white people behavior at the gym all day. We really could why girls love walking around at bitch. Like, they are at home. Okay. Titties out, and I get in the locker room yet Titi out who cares. But what I don't understand is you bitches walking around the whole gym with no shoes on that's gross discussing that is growing then you walk right through this locker room, which is also filthy into them showers. God only knows. Let me and I know you're not what on the bottom of your fucking feet. Migo? So gross back. Throat. Every time. I'll fuck how much you can live to there. For me. It's like a shower without these slides on doing it and very clean, but it's not clean enough for me to walk around there with no. I just feel like I would step in. How do you know is just not nut lurking around every first of all there is? Secondly. Many secretions, but like girl. I'm not putting my barefoot on nothing and that, yuck. Oh, no. Every day. I watch Rebecca walk right from hot yoga wouldn't know fucking shoes on all over the sometimes they they shoes off in the middle of a workout and just keep working out with just socks or just bare feet. And I'd be like y'all we build diver I have done squats socks before. But that's because like if they're like if the sometimes I have the wrong shoes. Yes. You need like a flat. Yes. Sometimes like, I will work out. Like, I have shoes that are for when I'm going to be doing weightlifting versus when I'm gonna be doing cardio because it matters. Definitely. However, you bitches and nasty toes, and you understood be for the gym with my socks in place. And as soon as my work, she's back on only because I fucked up and didn't have the right shoes. Okay. Well for my read this week. I'm going to talk about someone named just Larry's if you haven't heard of stripping because I don't even know. I guess she's big on the shade room. Yeah. And I don't follow shade room. So I guess I don't really keep up with too much of what just areas has going on. She's on rail. Yes. She is. Unreal. Hannam trying to think she has like five million grandfather. So I'm sure she does something maybe she's on while now, I don't know. She's done a lot of stuff here. Okay. Great. So just Larry is is in the social media news this week because she left a comment on Instagram in response to somebody else who this person's name is official Taylor gray wrote on her Instagram, not the shade. Rooms imagine having to comment on the share room twenty four seven to keep the lights on where I guess just Larry's is in the comment section of every post on the show. She left that comment on Justice phase or vice versa. Well, I don't think Taylor is a girl Tyler I think Tyler gray is a aboard. I'm sorry. So went on Justice Instagram commented on her most recent posts and said imagine having a comment on the shade room twenty four seven to keep the lights on or your care. Right. So my thing about this is like, you know, how normally I'm like a feel like celebrity should leave it alone. But when you bring shit to their Instagram accounts, and they have the right to respond. I feel this way. I still do feel this way. Even though I also broke my own rule and went to just Larry's Instagram post, but I'm gonna get to that a minute. So Taylor left that comment just responded and said yet, imagine a faggot. Oh. Yeah. Imagine if it. Just like that one two three four words. Okay. Taylor took a screen shot reposted. Of course, the net went crazy immediately. Some y'all tried to Photoshop in an act like Cardi B said. 'cause you know Knicks play too much on the internet. But what the book is earth. So anyway, naturally, lots of people were upset by this. Because faggots Florida's a derogatory word, especially if you are not a gay, man. Now, somebody else that word is considered highly offensive eunuch is no this. It's two thousand nineteen nothing about that is new so people got very angry at just areas we're going in for a while. This morning. She posted a video that I did not watch. I don't care to see what is in the video. But the caption reads, listen, I have never been homophobic in my fucking life. I love gay people as they love me yesterday. I called a young man of faggot for disrespecting me, and for that to LGBT community essence, -serily apologize. However, if I feel disrespected and someone hit below the belt, but you could whether they are gay or not I'm going to return the same energy. I'm trying to control my anger at this point my career, but being more positive, but just like anybody else, it's growing process. I asked that the LGBT rainbow flag emoji gives respect as they want. It. If you feel. If you feel as if you forgive me, and I'm still canceled on your watch. I totally understand rainbow emoji still love you guys. So I didn't watch the video. I have no clue what's in it. And I really could have stayed out of this entirely. But she really this today. This happened this morning. She got on my nerves with this because she did not end it and for that to LGBT community. Sincerely, apologize. Right. Why didn't you just leave it right there? You know, because you did not really mean this apology, and you prove that by saying if I feel disrespected and someone hits below the belt, whether they are not I'm going to return the same energy. Okay. I actually agree that celebrities public figures. However, y'all have really worked warped the word fame, and it applies to all kinds of people y'all really feel like you'll see these little white shut marks on Instagram and Twitter and feel like these people that constitutes celebrity when it does not, but I commented on this post something along the lines of it is very easy to reciprocate disrespect without using slurs. Really because that's all you had to do if this young man if you felt so disrespected by imagine having to comment on the. Room twenty four seven to keep the lights on which I'm not even seeing how exactly that is hitting below the belt, necessarily, you can absolutely respond to that and be a snarky or shitty or bitchy as you wanna be without bringing up his sexual orientation and using a word what I don't think you seem to understand about this using a word that hits so many people other than your target this young man Taylor gray may or may not have given a shit about you calling him a faggot. But you know, who did countless numbers of people who are fans followers, just in your general social media orbit who are like exposed to the things you say online who may have seen your videos and think you're so funny or whatever else like you on rail like you own whatever else you do. It's those people that you end up hitting and you wanna act like it's okay for you to say factor because this nigga came out the side of his neck talking to you crazy. But like girl you not hitting back with the same in. Intensity that you were hit with it is very easy. And I explain this to a lot of the dumbest is in her comments afterwards. It is incredibly simple to be disrespectful without common. Somebody a slower you don't have to use faggot dyke nigga any of the other ones that I can't say because I'm not a part of that group. But you know, what they are. You don't have to come from people in that manner. Like one of Justice dumb ass fans. Got mad at me. And I said, well, listen, I'm calling you semi illiterate right now. That's disrespectful. And yet at the same time, not calling you whichever slur fits your Janati. You say how I can do like semi. I'm being means you right now. It's a mean thing. You may not get it because you're not I know that reading and comprehension aren't your strong suit. But I'm being very mean right now without calling you something that disrespects your humanity. And again, when you are a public figure with lots of people paying attention to the things you say into you don't just hit the one person that you wanted to target you hit everybody else who also shares that identity and his heart by those words, but you don't care because you didn't just leave it at used faggot. I absolutely should have never done that. My bet y'all. I will never say that. Again, you followed it up with where I'm just saying you made me mad, and how dare you, you know, you can't really come from me for that. Because I'm just gonna match energy. So if you want to be respected, then show me that same respect. I don't know what. Would intersections just Larry is has other than being black. But I know that if I were to get on her Instagram and call her nigger that has. Probably a zero percent impact because it's coming from another black person. I don't know how you feel about a bunch of white people calling you nigger or Kuhn or welcome welfare mother, or you know, having a black bag. I don't even know she has a baby, but you know, all and so I don't know she had that baby out of wedlock. But if they call her, you know, some welfare mother with a black bastard child who needs to stop living off the government, and and do better what it doesn't even matter. If it's real or true or applies to you. It's just that. You don't seem straight black women have a real hard time understanding that just saying that you support the LGBT community community or you like gay people you've been watching kit furious videos for a long time. So I don't understand how you could call me homophobic, or anything else like bar, just because a person does your maker here. Yes. Which was marred just because you're around gay people just because they are gay stylus around you, and you KiKi with your stylus so much that you think that you ally. That's that's not being friends with gay people or more more accurately, gay people who are being paid to provide a service being kind to you. And y'all having some rapport is not an ally may just don't it doesn't you can't say, well, you know, I sincerely apologize. However, he hit below the Bill in whether you get your not I'm retired with the same energy. Why can't you retire with energy that doesn't demean somebody for who? They are you're so right housing hitter below the fucking Bill to comment on every showroom. Pose Seattle even know that. But every time I've gone to. I mean, I look at the topics more than you do. Right one every time ever clicked on a a shade room. Pose the almost all the time. There's a comment there. And it's never like irked me. So I don't know why people feel like that's even worth some something worth commenting on whatever bicker. It's done. Just so that you're seeing you know, what I'm saying like so that people see your page going in you get engagement, or whatever I've never really understood it. But it's never bothered me. So I don't understand why that's hitting below the belt, and again so much so that you have to use faggot, and what really blows me about this is that you not just some regular person are just some like figues Exxon where like your comic from Baltimore like you should have. You had your roots are being able to flame somebody. Yeah. So you should have been able to just go to this motherfuckers page and like roasted him without slurs. That's what you do my girl. Not in that too tight Gucci knock off or whatever anything else. I don't know what this man had on. But you could have there's so many ways that you can come for somebody like a, man. Bag. It is so lazy like even aside from it being an offensive slur like your comedian. And I just don't. Yeah. You could have actually had like a completely different reaction to this. Because you came for somebody who came for you in a funny way that right? Isn't a fending a whole bunch of innocent people who many of them. I'm maybe fans yours, right? I love gay people as they love me girl. What? I mean, I like, I don't know her to dislike her, but this this capture right here. This is where I was like, okay. I don't notice girl from Cana pain. But I'll be if we don't act like this makes any kind of bugging since it does not you're not sincerely apologizing by then following it up with what you feel like is your justification for why you said it. There's those can't co exist you either. Sincerely, apologize, and you truly regret it. And you feel a great deal of remorse for or you just tied niggers dragging you on Instagram, and you ready to throw something out there and move the fuck on. And I would highly suggest not going to look at the comments because there are it actually discouraged me to see how many thousands and thousands of black people are like the the alphabet boys need to toughen up pansy ass. Crybabies y'all wanted to be equal. But when we equally giving out these decisions, you know in your feelings, and the LGBT's just acting like. Nobody say nothing about it. And it's just it's really discouraging to see all these people act like this isn't connected like half of these niggers was posted them shitty photo shops jussie smollet after the attack talking about, you know, we are one. And this is so wrong. I love just the I love empire. This is so fucked up how can y'all not see the correlation between somebody like just Larry's who will toss out fagging for no reason, and a culture that feels like it is okay for Jesse small to be attacked with homophobic slurs and physically attacked for being who used how do you not see those two things contribute? They go hand in hand with one another. It's right there in front of your face. If you would just choose to stop being so goddamn ignorant, and it really pisses me off when this comes from black people, especially black women because had a wide boy the land these thing had a why boy done it had a white boy said something this crazy to one of us out of nowhere and called us nigger. Whatever else y'all would be all up in arms over it. Just so fucking pissed, but then you act like because you said you because you used a slur against one of us one of the alphabet boys in it. Don't really matter y'all need to quit being so fucking sensitive. And it's not that deep. All right. Well, you know, what I wish it wasn't that deep every time when you get gunned down by the police in black women and black where people are the first ones to take up y'all asses start marching and all this other shit. And I wish every time. There wasn't another story or maybe it shouldn't be this way that every time. There's another story about a straight black woman being caught up in a shitty situation, usually behind some dumb as man that the rest. Us. Don't automatically have empathy for the store trying to help her out or trying to get people to understand how control and abuse works. You know, maybe if we stopped taking up for unity. I would understand just how valuable we are. And it's a God damn shame that not even black women. Like, I can't tell you. How many dumbest black bitches responded to with something? So fucking ignorant. I had to block. This is a good buck, man. I'm not surprised it is it's disappointing. Right. It was it was honestly, it's just this appointing. The number of people who are been in over backwards to make excuses for this. There are no fucking excuses. A lot of this week there has disappointing shit happening from even within our own community. Yeah. So just Larry is I never gave a shit about her anyway. But I'm definitely not inner, and you know, I and to be totally real. But you I broke my own little rule of not commenting on people's Instagram's because I'm not scared of anything this girl or any of her dumb ass followers. Could possibly say. To me, what you're gonna do are, you mean, not would logic? So I don't have no issue with saying what I said, I stand up in it if she don't like it. She can block me or what whatever the fuck. She got to say it really don't matter. But like this was just so fucking ignorant and don't try to act like you are less. Hateful because you were just finding somebody who was mean to you people say crazy shit to me all the time all the time. You know what? Don't do follow up with Flers that are based on their race or ethnicity or sexual orientation or anything else because it's not because I have the ability to clown. Every fucking thing about you without ever getting into the things that you know, God made about you hard. It's I mean, most of you are just so very fucking dusty girls actually incredibly simple if you would just try. I mean, he's supposed to be comedian comedians, I suppose to be a loss Martin in that. So I wouldn't even say there, but you would honestly feel that comedians should should have some. Yes. Exactly because faggot dyke that is Amtra shit. That is eighth grade. Hallway should Hello in the forty. Like that is. New locker talk like this. So ROY like come on. Yes. You can say something that targets the person who came out they Nick towards you without hitting all of these innocent fans of yours with this stray who are just like him. I was sent her mind my business watching just with the mess loving it. And then here she talking about. I got it. Okay. That's it. I'm done does not shocked by area behavior at of just out here. None survive ended at the same time. We'll be like pretend jussie smollet protect protect the LGBT. This is wrong. This is fucked up. You don't really drag the fuck out of any remember that name talked about her and her baby. She so she really doesn't have a baby just because what is the name of that other. I think it was Corey HOGAN. I think maybe it was a live show that we deal when time accord homecoming all these jokes about her because she took like a picture with our baby. And they were both naked in the picture or something like that. And he just made it like really like like perverted and really immature and in disgusting jokes to make about it. And I'm pretty sure. Defended her in that context because she deserved it. Well. Yeah. Maybe you in particular did not deserve it. But women don't deserve to be dragged for taking pictures with babies and the niggers perverting it in they own damn minds. But you know, we talking about so many people on this show at I know why in hell I could possibly dryer. I would have honestly left alone because I don't give a shit about this girl. But that caption pushed me right on over. You're not going to say that you. Sincerely, apologize. And then back it up with all the reasons that you felt like you were justified in doing it, girl his mind. What's the point of all right that wraps up? This week's episode of the read check us out on social media at this is the read our website is this three dot com. If there are tickets for our anniversary show later this month, they are at the real-life dot com. Probably not. Porsche Prentice you pregnant she had on the cover of benchtop pregnant, but she's on the cover of rolling out. I dunno rolling out your only magazine, but she looks gorgeous tits galore. She always has been a pretty girl as I've said yellow on Brown skin. I mean, we do great in all colors, but there's something about a black woman in any shade of yellow is just upon beatable. Like golden yellow saffron a yellow saffron. Yes. Franz yellow all of those things. My nigga. Women's Blackman should have a no guys allowed all yellow party. We just mention pain. Yes. And and fellowship and lupita neon. Joe is like the hostess Lipitor master of server invented marigold pass it on. That would be lovely. So. Yeah, any news from you this week before we head out of here. I don't have any news for you this week except for again last week was not a casting call so girl. I love it. I told you makers unrelated stuff that we'll talk about later date. Also. Oh, fuck it. Just slipped my mind. Oh, thank you to so many who have been hitting us up. Like, yes, you can buy girl scout cookies online, and in fact, my baby. Them for sale. Here's the lane. So yeah, I'm random random links in Spicer. Oh, man. Did you see the video of the little girl doing the money remained, Richard blacker? I see they posted the link to buy her cookies, and I went to click on it and it sold out. Its course I have actually sold all the cookies I'm allowed to sell. Maybe next week. 'cause I know she walked in the rest of her trip like so girls where. Cookies, Ted, a roof girls in my truck. She could stood a read a little. Q my God. They're starting going through as I was like, yes. Still be. All right. You guys know acronym. This week just do something positive this this week me. Play kingdom hearts. The only thing that's been block a homophobe block, a big block a big block a big movement. Black big two thousand nineteen off. Right. We will see our next week.

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Tom Refuses Pre-Game Sex, Captain No Underpants & More  Nightly Pop 09/12/2020

Nightly Pop

20:37 min | 11 months ago

Tom Refuses Pre-Game Sex, Captain No Underpants & More Nightly Pop 09/12/2020

"Is In no sex curse ruining Tommy ells and life. Lucky to have you as my wife is Chris Evans Pena's. Hope all the world symbol and is our JAUREGUI hotline solving. TV's. Biggest. Story. Fight into bed with us and let's get started. Welcome to nightly pop your guide to Celebrity Dick. Pics and awkward sex fails meeting in hundred. Did you guys have a better weekend than Chris Evans? Yes or no one had a good weekend because of course Evans. Thank you. Okay. Let's get into it and this uncertain time nothing unites the world like Captain America accidentally leaking his own nudes on Saturday old Chris Evans allegedly posted a screen recorded to instagram which revealed his camera roll. The photos included a DICK PIC as well as an x-rated mean. Okay. So He's Chris Evans Penis. What the world needs right now hunter, how do you feel about as? I listen I. Think a lot of people were coming for Chris Evans saying that he's just not technologically savvy. You didn't understand what he was doing I think real promise. He doesn't pick the right length underwear. All he needed was a few more inches on those skivvies and you would have been completely a okay instead. A handful yes we know he did and we have more than that. Amen it was here full could for Captain America America indeed I mean why? No, he's just the gift that keeps on giving I love. Truly he really is like when he tweets, he's just so conscious he's environmentally conscious brilliantly conscious and now penises conscious I'm here. I'm here for it to ex is. Kylie. Seen that thing that's got a have large. Think needed a cape on it. Okay tight. And floodway on that thing I know guys to be fair. All we saw was a camera roll. We don't know if that was. Or someone sent it to him or if he you know took it for someone else. So to be fair, we don't know if it was his one hundred percent but more than likely it was is yeah. Claim it. No not that's not likely. That's not. Number. But. Just went to support. Just, I wanted to say something less bad than what was going to say. You should allegedly leaked something to so we can get some ratings if you're dealing with that. Whole. Photo shoot in the shower with your brother. When you guys got out of their TUB together. Where you guys are getting this information but none of that is true role the beginning of the show. Took a photo of me a shower so. To get real wet up in here. Who are seriously post? I can't your frikkie freak now that they've seen the footage. And we'd took some. Good photos. Maybe. I'll post. Good Mike God. Okay. We launching our official campaign for Zell and Tom Brady to have pre game sex yesterday tom losses, Tampa Bay debut by the way very ugly uniforms. I had to watch that game. But if you flashback last week did have a co I couldn't believe it I'm like, why are you on this team horrific bad. Team for Tampa Bay, if you're listening plies contact Morgan Stewart for uniform tips and advice. Okay. Did it have anything to do the loss that they had yesterday? With the uniforms or his confession to DAX. You make love to your wife on a game day or is that off the table? Oh man that's that's probably Off The table that's off the table it's probably never happened but I don't think that would be the moment. Okay. Good. I expected that that wouldn't be my pre game warm up. All right one he had one they had just had sex I mean he could have been more relaxed and less stressed out. What do you guys think? Well, he's to play for a long time. So if this is worked for him for his incredible career I. Don't think he rocks the boat now point. Yeah I guess. But I mean it's also like he's got a couple of kids they must be practicing at some point and he also didn't rule it out entirely. I think it's like now that they've been together for so many years maybe he's like not on Game Day but in the beginning of the relationship, it's like every. Sunday you know what? I'm saying get it in right agreed I. Think you said, but I think I agree with that. I listen. All I know is that I did watch the game. He had a great haircut as always and titled. Shooting. Because he was on the Benjamin, they were losing Nina and he looked really really stressed out I kept looking around and just was like I'm not a Patriot anymore I. think he felt the decline and I felt it for him. I didn't like it I didn't like it at all. It's weird to not see him in a patriots uniform. I believe we're talking about this, right Will this? WHAT ARE WE ESPN? All right last night, Gladys Knight and padding bells versus battle was trending higher than the NFL and Patty got. So into it, she did her famous shoe cake. But next time she may want to be a little bit more careful. Kick off and hit my knee. Curl Bright Obama my knee. Yeah, usually shoe off on that. So onstage guys, I have a whole lot of room on. The. Small. Cute to kick. My knees hurt but. I'm sorry. That was a mall man that was a moment. We didn't know we it but I'm so glad it happened. That's why. The NFL there's just a level of comfort especially between those two just fun to watch. I thought. This and these women in their mid seventies. So this is just for me was super nostalgic to watch to hear the music. This is like music my parents play. We were cleaning out going on road trips so to hear it and to tweet. tweet verses and it just felt like a family reunion. So it was really and shredded over the NFL you guys. So there were over five hundred, thousand viewers on instagram alone. So it was a really big deal what who would you guys WanNa see next now it's kind of hard to talk who would. WHO. I don't know I've really been wanting to see Toni Braxton I don't maybe Toni Braxton and Mariah Carey Oh. My Dad is stressful for me to think about those two together like I don't wouldn't Mariah even face her on like I. Don't know I feel like you never shared her back or something. When she has respect for your singing, she's good with you is just when she doesn't respect you that Shit A. Know you. Mariah. Carey. I agree with Mariah Carey but I'd like to see her with Eminem I think didn't get some numbers get some trends going right. Their shoes are coming off in this episode as well. But I don't think it's for the same reason. All right. If you're a huge fan of the fresh prince of Bel Your Luck, you can now airbnb at the mansion. The show was filled that Yup for just thirty bucks a night, you can spend the night in the fresh prince's Ru. You can use the pool, the outside dining area, and you got a new pair of Jordans exciting plus all meals will be served on a silver platter. So Hunter Nina is the ultimate fan experience or is this a nightmare having to stay with strangers? Me But I can understand why superfan with maybe do it it's Interesting in place I have a like a fading I. Don't want to stay if unless it's a hotel were you have your own room? I like to stay in places. Other people stand I don't know. I mean my privacy I'm not just going to win you know a room in a house where other people are going to stay and run into them in the bathroom. I'm good I just I'm not big on that I. Agree I don't even want to stay in a large house with like friends. It's it's. The the crazy thing is thirty dollars a night nine, hundred dollars a month to rent that house out. So I think they're are only doing it for five days like it's just a limited thing to kind of promote something. This is all a part of them promoting the thirtieth anniversary of the shows. It's clear that there's this is the market for some people does not three people on this show. But we. Also. True we have to take a break but maximum Nina. gwen perform an extra schism on them. The latest in pandemic fashion is it worth the price tag? The math we have to talk about this because Nina's probably been celebrating all weekend Elida was Google Blab was renewed second. Nina Pinch story because she popped. All right, which means we are getting more amazing self-care moments of course like these. So. What happens in a workshop everyone gets off. What are you doing this? I to. Them Oh. Wow. I went through years of therapy by hours be scared you WanNa talk about the. Naked in a room with women I don't know if I have the guy who's never seen your. Know. Strange to me that there are women who have never seen their own vaginas like why would it? That's really strange that you're a grown woman who's never seen it like Mary. I look at mine everyday and say, bye bye. I. Definitely, take a mirror down there. Make sure everything looks good. You know. You GotTA maintain. You GotTa look at it just look at you. android percent if you guys to do group lab, which would you do? Okay. We have PSYCHEDELIC therapy lull exploration. So Hunter Your Ball, no one else is or an energy field extra schism. Walk me to do devolve exploration. So maybe I would do the energy field exercises them exorcism. However, you say the where May I would do that just to make sure I like to have good positive energy but sometimes you know the world gets in things can get a little negative. So I'll be here for a little energy exorcism exorcism I. Know, you've been saying it right the whole time exorcist nailed it. You're going to be alone in the extra says I'm going to speak for Morgan and I, we're doing the psychedelics. We'll be like incense. Are Reward. Shark Coterie out okay. White is thing I've ever heard you to say or moving on. Okay. This next story is taking vote culture to the next level of. Excited to read this movie, chest launched their twenty twenty, one cruise wear collection, and reportedly the line includes thousand dollar face shield. Okay I'm assuming you guys can dispute me, but I wasn't gonNA. Ask I'm assuming you guys are not into paying a thousand Bucks Face Shield. Absolutely Matt, is there ever a world in which you think maybe I want to spend a thousand dollars on this face shield I will say this, it is a hot looking facial I do like it but I would never pay a thousand dollars for it. Absolutely. Morgan is it feels like she's trying to go to into just kind of liking it a little so that she feels more justified in purchasing this she's like are you high shore now let's say you got ten percent discount. Would you? Wait. I'll wait for the knockoff fashion over for twenty dollars. I'm not spending two thousand dollars on very point. See now I actually didn't ask you a question I. Know You so well now I wasn't GonNa sit here and ask a question that I knew the answer to you know what I mean. So I wanted to the objects question absolutely you know what I mean by Smith. I might have been get it after the show. Share it. I'm kidding I would never do that maybe. This is exciting. candace camera. Beret guys is getting kinky and we like it. Yeah we do. She said this photo with her husband of twenty four years touching boob and of course, people had things to say some shamed her for posting. The Bob site. Cameron's Td Dad commented love is and congrats on Second Base I. Loved that I thought that was so well-timed. So. Yet, this nuclear just because I guess she's got real Christian background and. A lot of conservative followers were pretty upset. Get over it. Deal. A ton of sympathy for her because she kind of. Audience when it benefits her and runs, it's like real concern page and so you can't be mad when when you ran a super-conservative page and the people that. Kate or to other topics, snap at you for living your life because you know. You get what you give and she's been very conservative about issues herself. So you know, I mean listen that's the type of audience now. Mike. That most people know what to expect, right true. All right. Moving onto our nightly pop. Book. Club selection. A relationship guide called cheating is not cheating. It has been getting a lot of attention for people. The Author Compares Cheating to crime saying there's a difference between manslaughter at first degree murder. So each case is different, is he just making excuses or do we think he might have a point? Typecast anybody. But if this is the author it right now he's this. Is a mother cheater. I'll need to see nothing else. which are Shorts that's the. Cheer when you're trying to convince someone that you didn't he and you wrote a book to tell them why it wasn't cheating that inquire. Really. Get outta here. This is cheating is Willie say this though cheating is whatever you guys establishing relationships or whatever boundaries you create. There isn't one line for cheating because I do think everybody has their own thing and there are some people who are okay with certain things. But if you've established which boundary isn't that person crosses it, that's Chidi absolutely yep that's why communication is so important ladies you have to make sure that whatever you're not okay with his clear upfront. So it doesn't matter if your dot okay. With your man talking to someone on but doesn't need her doesn't see her ever and you're not okay with that and he doesn't that's cheating so. If. You are okay with your man maybe you're okay with an open relationship and you're okay with your partner sleeping around. Let me know. He doesn't. He doesn't mean that he's cute. He's not. He's actually getting in love you. You love him. So don't. is trying to make like excuses for him and his friends to be able to do whatever they wanted to do. Yeah exactly we. Short here, that's a nice cover. That's like a group level. It's designed well, cover too. So this is this is a convincing. He's really putting a lot of finesse into this gap and he's clearly not cheating that much had time to write this book. So you know what I mean like we know we'll say, okay, we have to take another break but up next proposal hit some serious turbulence was how far would need and hundred to save my life Tonight are you feeling jittery anxious or constipated if you're feeling all three all. That because your favorite TV dramas won't be back for months but maybe solving these throwback problem fulfill the void. So let's play draw. Okay Toby and Kate from this US they've been through a lot in their relationship, but they want to know what's the right thing to do when caught in a lie like this? Holy crap new mom stress. Has Me up. Ten pounds. New Dad stress means you have Popeye arms? Okay I've been. To the gym. Over. The last few months. On my lunch break mostly sometimes before or after work. Doing. Cross fit. Thing to do or was he trying to be sensitive to her feelings? Did He? That he wasn't going to was she wasn't going to see the results of apparently she didn't see it for months she sought once he had ads like that is not a quick process to end up with a six pack that takes a long time. So they must have been going to get naked with the lights off at night, right? Right or you don't and she's a new mom. So she's got a lot going on. So she probably didn't have time to look at his ads. She'd been more working with this baby honey. Morgan. How would you feel? Oh Man. How am I gonNa, you know I I would want to know if my spouse was doing crossroads we have we have conversations he's like I'm GonNa have a drink tonight and and he's so sweet and supportive 'cause I obviously can't drink anything. And say go for it so I would. I would still want him to feel his best. It's what's the point of we both feel like you know. Okay next this call from a hopeless romantic on Fox's nine, one, one, his engagement prank broke her heart literally but he wants to know well, his girlfriend ever forgive him. Seat grab it lasts pages a checklist. Without. Listening. Sixty five dollars truck initiating. H. Turn. Hey. They're big Asia. Really look at the road. I the question is, would you be injured? Proposal does the dumbest? Furious and I would not have said, yes nowak not hey, wait mind you this happened in real life. This is I. Know this is on show but a guy really did this to his girlfriend she wasn't a super? Bat. She said yes. So she wasn't mad about it. I be mad. I would you know to be honest do stupid by the time they can they be romantic like y'all just not that bright so I mean. Joe. Dust like this Oh God and our final call from a couple of COPS. On Ncis Los Angeles They WanNa know we'll human resources be pissed about this. Redacted. OUTTA here. Now, I think he wants to go first week. I. Don't worry the fall probably kill you. saw. All, right. Would you jump off a balcony that high to save a snitch? Even no switches so Mine. Not, Akashi sent nine Morgan with with the right friends well, done more again. What have you been? Skin some news. No, I'm just not totally uncalled yet. Thank you. Got Things I learned a yeah I don't care about the SNITCH. Those two guys were GONNA kill everybody in the room so I'm going to jump To protect one of you. I would easily tie both of you up and throw you over the edge of a balcony into a pool saving your lives, and that's because I. Love You. That's because I care. Right. Back your buddy. Yeah. All right. Sadly, we're out of time you guys but we're back tomorrow night at eleven thirty as always remember to set your dvr. So you never miss an episode of nightly pop or daily Bob.

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Szn 2 Ep. 6: "#ProtectBlackWomen"

Complicated Simplicity Podcast

1:29:05 hr | 10 months ago

Szn 2 Ep. 6: "#ProtectBlackWomen"

"The. Web. Protected. Just one time for affected. Just one time for directed. Don't agree with the message. Green with the kiss. Much has. All right. Say. A. Singing it. Do this. Come on. All right repotting. Record. Tony Toni Braxton. Legend. Out of these that she said that the only people she think would be a fair metaphor as Mary J. Mariah Carey. Should I. WOULD IT I actually concur? I think those both good matchups I think she'll lose both of them. Around twenty. But. I. Think those are like good matchups for because Tony Tony has some here. I'll say fifteen I think after fifteen you start hearing some justices like yeah. She got like really i. A couple beasts is at a really really good to. See Bees is to be working on versus versus. Versus is. But overall Tony Breaks my favorite singer I I actually would take her over Mariah Carey but I know that's like blasphemy to most people. Mary J I think Mary J. Price Smoker because he just got new joints. But? What what do you disagree? Oh. I. Look Noise. I'll show that WOULDA Minos me. But I think Tony be good with. Mary does. Maya. Little. Be careful. Out. You're not touching. I. Love Toni Braxton but you're not touch Mariah you're not. You're not. You're not. Carries music his aged well born I I'm not doing this. This is my were here. No, we're GONNA do this. This is supposed to go. Off. The I don't even name her top five joints that you just like Oh. These just unbeatable sauce always be my baby. Absolutely, that's like one of my favorite songs ever. Wasn't. Law, so part of me, you know we belong together John, gets no ring nobody. Thousand Twenty. John. Is Not unbeatable. What vision of Love? Fantasy Okay you always be pardon me was that always be my. First. Honey. No honey. Okay. Name Lover No no no way. You believe runner. No. Already losing. Will you believe? Hard number one is like I think was almost Christmas. Christmas. Tree whatever okay names which one you're people dominate in the holiday. I love she's not dominating the holiday. We won. Last year. April. First off this Christmas is the greatest. Holiday saw. This. Sound to. This Christmas Donny hathaway version is the best version. Okay. We just walk on the street and poll the American public will fee. Poll it and they're going to be from our area. That's is now. Our care about the popular opinion I'm telling you don't real. Anyway. Guy. Long Story Toni Braxton, we probably get more I care to business. Because you mean the world to me I, love me some him. Love Shoulda brought you home. So high another sad love song break my heart. Enough for me wasn't man enough me i. She's just got joints and then I'm like whole new album with babies. There was a lot of Johnson are she just put out? That is good. Can we say about? Making new music on a voice no more. Chris Trolling I'm not GonNa do this right now. My Can Still Sing Mike Eric until I. think she can still sing have not watched her sing live overpass for years my bed. New Year's the I. Haired she wasn't. If you can sing you can sing we just watch Patti Labelle in. Gladys, Knight's thing and. You know. I don't know it was bad they she still sing. Patty okay. So. Since I'm outnumbered we're going to skedaddle on past that. High. I was the past week. Let pain. It's only I'll ever want let this. You know this is literally therapeutic in a great kind of escape. You guys are like a family. So this is this is what's the right now I can dig it. Felt like talking about the same Z's. Instantly. With An. Awesome awesome input how? My. Was Call is one of the things with. The weekend was just too short. I saw. It came and went. I plan to like do more than what I did didn't happen in. Whatever I was like might have seen in a while that fell through. So I ended up to sit in the House I did put my projector. Washer, low sports on outside felt the low fill clammed up. and. Then it rained and I forgot to move inside the tent so. That's all rained out but yeah, other than our we've been normal m saying we all being adults, which is super buns right now but. That's it really had. But as as pertains to. You know what we're getting into this week. There was a lot that went on in that a so great way so I mean. I'm sure everybody Kinda knows what's coming because I put it up on my story as my question has normally do to get some responses and everything and Yeah I mean I feel like. With that being said, it's kind kinda. A direct we can just get into. So is everyone familiar with the whole Tori lanes? Well not even know the situation we kind of discussed improves. So but when it recently took place over this past week with him dropping album. Yes. Yes I remember that and so I mean. Just overall. How how do you feel about? Just the timing. The decision to to put out an album seemingly about the situation like give me by how y'all feel about everything. I thought it was disgusting. I don't I didn't listen to the album. I don't follow him I did see I do you know tap into the shave room. Every so often and they'd put up some of the lyrics in a also made it. He also made a comment saying that because that was a big thing of the timing as to why he will put that out when you know we're basically also grieving over what happened with Brianna Taylor So he basically said that it was his mom's birthday. That's why he put it out that day. So didn't have anything to do with anything but either way the fact that he hasn't addressed the situation the fact that he hasn't admitted his wrongs the fact that. He thought that. I don't know I don't know what he was thinking about making an album and speaking on it. I guess he thought that that was. His chance for to give his troops but I thought it was very disrespectful to the situation. I just it was. It was this nasty just as as a man like we're expecting to hear from you. You have a WHO support you who are fans of your music and it's just a disgrace like this is how you? Give us respect. This is how you repay your fantasies is how you repay her the victim. It it's just this is nasty nasty. I agree Tony did you have anything that you wanted to add to it? I think Tanna really hit it on on on on the behead. It's like it was completely tone-deaf. It was inappropriate repulsive. It There is no way like I. don't see him using his. His mom as an excuse, I will admit I'm not that familiar with all the Chris you caught me up on it basically, but I really wasn't that familiar on all of it. But from what I didn't I didn't wasn't aware that he said it was because even a debt like nick read the room like really like I mean outside of you guys this situation which is awful that you shouldn't have done that anyway because brandon tellers The fact that publicly the nation is mourning that but on top of that, you still did it and do you try to pass like it was his would was he say because it was his mom's birthday? Yes. week. Yeah That's how I feel about it like just like your PRT. Aren't you? Like no one knew better like no one could have said like this this might not be very time for this like. He has a lot advisement going on in his life in general because can't be with the way he he He's looming right now. So I, you didn't respond because this is my because a lot of people were like this was his opportunity to his side of the story and he's he's the nine everything and you know saying that like because there was. All. Right. So I haven't listened to the album I listen sue a particular song that a lot of people about that. He addressed the situation, call it out some people and so on and so forth. So. Like he's he made statements like you know, how can you identify shooter if you back was turned all that kind of stuff. So you're saying like all these weird things whatever like my thing is. If. If you didn't shoot somebody. And you're being accused of shooting somebody. That's one of the easiest things to refute. You don't have to be like, Oh, I have a pending case or that kind of stuff whatever Bam I didn't shoot you. This simple like all you had to say from Ripa in person is going to be no I did not shoot his person I'm not GonNa sit here and let y'all slander my name. I'll have my day in court. You can make a statement you can do whatever you need to do. The fact that I feel like he's capitalizing off the situation is where like it's Kinda sick because inside fame. You're already a successful artists you're already I think he's a great artist. You don't need to go to these measures to sell some records or get some streams or to get your name buzzing like. That that's just the wrong way to go about things in you know tone support by reading room like. Literally the the person that we're grieving, the whole nation is upset about you know that they're not going to get justice is their verdict came down the day before possibly at the most two days before you decided to drop this album and then he did like this corny pr stunt where he was, I'm a break my silence today you know I got time Blah. Blah Blah I'm going live. So he made it seem as if he was just GonNa instagram until his side of the story and then he liked trick thereby like Is going to be nine PM Pacific Time, which equates the midnight eastern standard time, which is when the next day came his album drop. It was just all. Crazy. While like and I just don't I don't appreciate the fact that like He. Doesn't seem remorseful at all, and that's the thing by if it is something where he's saying that he didn't do it and he wants to have his day in court s all well and good but. Wait till you have your day in court. Don't give us an album. Saying like I. I couldn't bring myself to listen to, and then the snippets that I did here is kinda sound like he tried to make it like this like twisted for man's like love story, which is like even made it more disgusting because they weren't a relationship, a Mike. That's. Dating Okay Okay An even but even with that though. I. WanNa make a cute like it was like a love song. Like. Tie If me and you were dating. You get shot. You tell people I did it and I didn't do it. I don't want you back. You'll say like in my career autism on lose endorsements lose my family's credibility like that's not something that you'd like all but but I, want you in trying to. Auto tune your way out of like family. That's weird to me like that's why I don't believe him. But I, think it was more disappointing is the fact of how many people like how quickly switch back to his side they was posted on song the next day like it enough night nothing ever happened or even comment on the situation but being like, but is really good music. It's a really good album. That's that's nasty to even say that. I've seen people post that it was like, Oh, you talk you talk anything about me post to in toiling song ain't got nothing to do. Business. If, you're going to cancel him, you might as well cancel all of these other people that they were listening you guys can't choose just pick cherry pick when you guys were what that was like the defensive. Tough and I'm like that. I. Just I. couldn't get down that. I can't get down with it especially come from. So I don't want to single single women out because his nasty on all facets, but it is kind of disturbing to see other women. Kind of switching up and taking that stance as well. Yeah. Because I'm just like. If y'all. Want. Protection and you want respect and those type of things like you can't take that other side or take this I'm a plate of middle and be. Not Not, take a stance as no with somebody who shot somebody shot a woman you're saying like there. So there's you know there's Not. Just, a quote with entire speech Malcolm X.. Did you know back in the sixties? I think it was like nine hundred and sixty two or something like that where he stated you know the most the suspected. Most destructive person in America's the black woman most unprotected person in America's the black woman was a disrespected like all those. Things like in still rings true today were fifty years later or fifty years later like as. Say That, we're still in that space. But I got a lot of smoke for for for the men in this particular situation. But before I get to audit I, mean I just end the overall aspect how do you feel about people that are taking that stance Tony Words? Just like you know they're celebrities we don't need to be in their business on I'm here for the music so on like. Cyprus things. I mean I feel like it's it's of course bad like, but I just feel like it's like this. Nobody wants to I don't know it's like we're. I. Honestly, I'm just going to default to I. Don't know how I felt about them because I can't understand why the reasons that they're using to say. Oh Like they're downplaying how serious that was an how much like the fact that even after that Megan still had defend herself so much just to get people to buy in and the fact that all he had to do with release an album and y'all go right back to or go kind of become split it again in your opinion like I just don't I know and so I don't know anybody close that has taken his side. Social media but I know ideal. I know a lot of people that it's like and people that I talked to and I think that's where I'm like shot because I'm just like you know how how did this situation make everything switched that fast so for instance. There's people that have been going full crazy on this whole black lives matter movement like. I'm stand up our people I'm taking Janis Har- lines in the sand. You know if you're not for us against this all this kind of stuff whatever. But then you're like, but I just want to hear the music. By a black woman was shot. She's the victim whether it was by another black person or not. You should be standing up on that same thing like, no let's protect our protect black women as a Hashtag but are living by energy like you've got to keep that same energy all the time in effect that people aren't keeping sem energy is like real disheartening especially when like they've affected friendships because of it, they've been gone. There's facebook people like you haven't facebook arguments you know. You doing all this stuff whatever but then The this is what kind of related to. People. In general. Love Athletes. Knows long as they out there entertaining them you know. Slam dunk the basketball scorn touchdowns whatever blah blah blah. It's great you. We love you the second that they go around in some type of political stance or want to stand up for themselves or you know say something that isn't to their liking than all. That that one stick to sports and Bob Wildlife, leave the politics of it all like we don't respect you anymore. We're GONNA boycott. It's kind of the same but in a different kind of way, people hate pedophile. Unless they can sing. I. Believe I can fly Saying I'm. If we can make people step in the name of love like Nah cool. And that's kind of how I'm looking at people a little bit and I probably like strong extreme. Example of what's a provide but the Kinda? Kinda how I feel. Because I just can't get with it like I don't I don't. I don't see how like look past it because overall domestic violence is an issue. So I'm not. down. With. People out here hitting women. I wouldn't have nobody around me like in my personal circle at no abuses, women or outing when like people that like mentally abused people. So, of course, I'M GONNA. Have a strong feeling by somebody WHO's shooting people? By, am I being extreme? Now being extreme IVA question like how do you? I saw a lot of people also comparing the situation to the situation happen with Chris Brown do you think that the same or do you think they're different because people do our do still listen Chris Brown now? You want me to answer Tony. Ever I know. I think they're I. Think they're same. Thing I think are absolutely the thing. So, it was to make me contradict myself but I do think there are some differences. I feel like with any situation you have to take into account. Maturity. Age Am. Saying like those type of things. So as it pertains to Chris, Brown. I had a very strong opinion about him as well. But basically, it was like reactionary to. The pictures that came out like when you saw his face, it was like Fam- like it's one thing that like get into a fight with a girl. In nothing to do what you did to her like he beat the breaks off her. The reason I think it's a little bit different is because The climate is so much different now than it was back, then like there's a lot, you're more aware of the fact that yes, these things are not okay. By tour, you have Chris Brown as an example of what you're not supposed to do. And you did worse than what he did. Also, Chris Brown, if I'm not mistaken, they was around nineteen, twenty, twenty, one maybe. They were younger. They were they were like kids new found fame. You know like Chris Brown grew up in an abusive household where his mom's getting beat allegedly I. Don't know if that's true but that's the story. You know what I'm saying. So like I I do kind of look at it and be like, all right. They were both toxic, the the situation happen in. No she forgave him because you probably had something to do with it too. But you know the yes they're the same in the fact that we should be as outraged but I do think the overall circumstances are a little bit different. If that makes any sense. I couldn't understand any. Yeah. I understand that you know who I was even thinking about fabulous because. Boy? That's a good. That's a much better example. Yeah, he's. Punching out and he has yet to address said anything at RMC anyone ever cancel on him. So the People. When I posted that poll one of responses that are got back was because. All right. So let me preface that portion of it posted a poll or a question where is basically like a for black women? How do you? What is there that you would like to convey that society men either misunderstand or you know just don't get In one of I don't have you know something that I want to convey I just WanNa know why do y'all hate hate us so much has all that. In some people was like. That's extreme I. Don't think so unfortunately. I think there's a lot of validity to that statement to that question. because. As. It pertains the women. There's always this double standard where. There's just things that people will overlook when a black woman is the victim. And that fabulous situation is one of them like it's known that he punched her in the face and knocked out her teeth. And nothing has come of it because. I hate to talk bad about because she's the victim, but emily seems load. Dumb. Saying she's been sticking with him through whatever. No matter what in she probably was like I'm not pressing charges and he said sorry borders from new teeth and everything's all gold whatever. But yes, there should there should be some repercussions. So you don't type of things. But as the black women when you do things like that, there is no repercussions. And that's like the scariest part of everything that. We see that in entertainment we see it in just regular life we see with our friends. You know whether we like it or not. We see it everywhere and I feel like it's ingrained in people's heads accepted and think that it's okay and even to the point where even now black women Kinda bypass it and look at it as if it's okay because they're some of the most forgiving people if they're if they have a liking to these particular artists entertainers or whatever. That was another question that I was gonna ask to was. Why are men Sola with their hatred for Black Women is in me is well like I, saw I don't know if people are trolling or some challenge regardless it was weird of black women going up to black men I guess it. was either like why don't you like black women or would you prefer black or white or something? Talk Radio and in. Some of the things that they were just saying it was just it was disgusting. It's just the lack of respect for black women like I. Don't. I don't understand that I I don't under-. Yeah. Just don't get why black men wanted shoe black woman up so bad. I don't get it I don't know solve at two in the one of the it was they were calling like younger kids too. But that doesn't make an excuse they worked they were older young kids but they were that makes sense were teenagers like. Between, the ones I saw like seventeen, eighteen, nineteen and. Even more because they're so young. Speaking like that of black women in it's just like you know we have younger siblings or children of our own in of is just if this is the younger generations speak in light that you can't imagine the men that they're going to grow into be. That makes me worry for the future if especially if we're right now having this struggle with the generation of men now. I agree. The the thing that was alarming to me I saw only saw two of them and I remember distinctively which one like what they were talking about the first one was like. They was a young black boy onto a young black with a deeper for white women or do for black. Women, White Women White Women Oh and like the reasons that they report it were like Oh they were there. They don't argue back they They're pradier. they had shot up and saying like a woman's place essentially like that and then the other one will just like would you how would you rate yourself when one hundred and ten people on he was young black we're. Going up to black women specifically black woman he was like shooting black women like how would you rate yourself and they will one in one hundred and they were like, Oh like I'm hundred I'm a million like he was just like, Oh, like fifty. Well, maybe it's six emails like, why are you guys like sensationalizing like disrespecting black women like this is a trend or something like that and It was it was weird because like the amount of. That was disgusting. But the amount of like attention it was getting on social media positively was disgusting and I'm just like oh you. There are a lot of people that think this way. And I just that was like. I just in my opinion like reflecting back to that I just I think it was talking about this. I didn't really understand. So me coming from the perspective that I have I didn't understand what they meant like Oh men hate women and like me. Being a gay man I'm like, what do you guys mean you hate women don't mean what do you mean like female friend tell me that I was like, what are you guys mean that men hate women because? Don't they aren't drama continues like they WANNA THEY WANNA screw us but they don't respect us. They don't like us. They don't want to treat us kindly where literally just there for that purpose any other thing they treat you to function and I don't know. Specifically like Tatan have you heard like what is your reaction to that first of all? I hadn't even heard that before. I this this is actually starting to be really new to me honestly because I. I haven't been in the presence of a black mill who I felt like. Bike didn't respect. Me didn't have my back. I don't know like I don't think I've really experienced it. But me hearing other people's. Stories and things that they've gone through and just seeing the Internet that has really opened my eyes to a lot of the hatred. So. So. For me, I guess like thing where. Once, you see this hard to unseat. So. It was kind of new to me as well. When I started here, multiple women say that it would just like in. It's one of those things where men kind of manipulate the situation in Oh, you're man Bashar. You just hate men. So that's why you see these negative things about us and Yada Yada because there's also now this new thing where. Women are calling blackman the weakest. Link. So. That's like, yeah that's like a new trend. Now's well Hashtag. kind of like A. Is Not necessarily a Hashtag but they they all say like you know many of the weakest. Link because. There will be like this moment of unity where everybody is coming together and then assures sunsets. There's GonNa be no something that flips it over to the side were black men black women are back bickering with each other. In is usually prompted by something black mandate. So it is something where I've I think I've noticed it just in my. In my viewing of just like you said social because this is one of those things where it's kind of like racism. You don't always see the people that you interact with but. If you go online or know see other types of things that allowed US people are the racist people. So those voices you know or those words get seen more than all the positivity because that shock and awe and for some reason, they just be the ones that catches attention is the same thing with the disrespect. You you may not experience it in your interactions because why would you you know what I'm saying like your personality has respect for yourself. You're around, you know your friends, your friends aren't going to be treating you this way. But someone who doesn't necessarily know you may not have that same value of you even though you deserve it. So I think it has a lot to do with that. But I do WanNa get also into somebody's responses that I was getting because I got a lot of them and they were really good. So. I'm skipped the first because I was just. I was respectful now. I'm GonNa, read it. It was like, no I said what's the message you want to convey that we misunderstand it was like we're gonNA be alright with or without Shaw. And I I get it I get it. I do I. Feel Your. But I wanted to not be without us saying so. Whoever responded that way hold hit But the next one was like more in line with what I expected. It was like we. Have, our backs Engelhardt us the way we do y'all. Can I make a statement from what you were just talking about So I will admit my initial reaction. I guess to what town was saying was out for I. Just expected like Oh. Yeah. This is something that now I've experienced that's just my own bias. You'd go by I'm like Oh you're black woman maybe you've experienced to and it it's it's really like Warming to know that you haven't really directly experienced this right hand or no Right. So what what my question is, when again I had was trying to formulate some some thoughts before going into this just to understand why was coming from my student I was like perhaps the reason why I'm not seeing it as much as because I identify in myself as a male so I'm not. I'm going to be kind of by that Linda privilege it will look at that kind of cultural into privilege I'm not GonNa really always be aware of some of the like root like disrespectful discrimination Em- pain bet women experienced because I don't identify with that group so. That is essentially what I would say that's my privilege of being a male and then my like at the challenge thought become hyper aware. So that way I can start to recognize anything dinners just like Michael Mike how, long this going on. So Mike, that's why I was thinking perhaps like. A male I, don't see this and I wonder what can I do to to like Imprac, Exca- women like what are some things that I can do to become more aware and advocate a little bit more using my privilege in that kind of Lens towards because I love black women. But past that, I think even with my mobilised perhaps at I perceive that all women therefore force going to experience it and I think what you'd kind of disprove me that you know that doesn't always happen for everybody but this might happen for majority we still don't know but we know that this is a topic. So do you guys think That privilege can play a play a role in certain men who might not dislike black women like you know, Leszek, the black men who don't dislike black woman but they are oblivious or not as aware as to the crap that black women gets because they come from Linda privilege as a male. You know twenty. You can go I. I think privileged can come into play with that. If that's something that you haven't experienced of had that around you, you're absolutely going to be ignorant to the fact that it can exist on. But I guess. Because now is so hard I guess to be ignorant to certain things because the way we have social media setup in, we can see in here any and everything on August it's just kinda hard to ignore those things in. Just now being People should just be more self aware of these other thing that's going on in I guess look for the signs of it And then act accordingly. then. Okay I'm kind of more on the other side of it. So I'm Kinda more on the side of like. Kind of the same way where. If. If why people were like. I didn't know about black people were being treated this way I feel like it's kind of like your is willful willful ignorance by you're being oblivious because you want to be at this point because if you if you claim that you're a person that loves black when you have black women around you. You'RE GONNA. At least have heard this from one of them. and I also feel like is something where you should also be able to simply pay attention well enough to where you can see it like if if you so call, you know loved black women you know you WanNa, make sure that they're correctly because then because there's evidence all around there is the fact that there's not equal pay. You see maxine waters getting TV telling people that she's going to reclaim her time and how she's getting talked about crazy. Every chance they get you see how black women get kicked down every time they go to achieve something Kamala Harris about could possibly be the first you know female black, black and vice-president woman. Criticism. The the make the deciding situation criticism. Almost, every positive, no woman or achievement that out there is met with some type of criticism or backlash. There's there's talk about being there's women that's now refereeing in NFL people like. Why they got those women out there. Is the kickback to you know no black women dawn staley she's a famous basketball player. Great. What she does she's a wonderful coach. They were talking about her possibly getting a job in the NBA has being a head coach people like Nah I don't think she's qualified why not? So you see it at every turn in almost every facet of which you can think of where there's just artist criticism. So if you're a person that loves black women and you start seeing. All this onslaught of now. No I don't think. So in in a benefit of the doubt being thrown to the other side because even with Tori links thing. Oh, maybe he didn't do by there's always this this automatic benefit when there's evidence know that goes to the opposite the contrary. So if you don't see it, yes it could be a form of privileged as you being a man that doesn't have to deal with it. But if you have daily interactions with women with black women, specifically, you should be able to see these type of things. Yeah I. I I think that's the interesting thing about this, which I'm I'm I'm still learning is that just can be A. Multifaceted kind of way of understanding all of this I. Don't think one thing is the number. One reason why individuals would not you know? Be Aware of all of this I think it. I. Think. There's a lot of different factors that all hold some weight into somebody being essentially like blind to this even if you know there are. I'm trying to look at other lenses of discrimination. There are plenty of people say like, Oh, I have this kind of friend I'm not this kind of way and yet they still are wallace in their face and they don't truly perceive that they don't come from length of privilege. Despite it being their face despite them being aware of it but that's distill the excuse to the US and I it `scuse excuses coming from microwave copping out they truly don't think that they are while they still are. So this is I don't know if I'm proposing this to to the listeners somebody could shoot me a message on. INSTAGRAM. I don't know but or you can put it on the instagram thing but I wanted to know like what are ways that like men can become more aware of this become allies and advocates Specifically for women like water some ways what are some things that you would like? This is what I need this we are like I think. About were together like we have identified what is kind of some trends that we see what this, but what are some methods that we could use to counter excellently strands to challenge that kind of status quo and to allow the men that have a desire to use their privilege in. Allied four women 'cause it's really screwed up for you. This is the woman's problem. Women should take care of it and we could just bitch and Moan and stuff like that like us as men who want to be a part like that you shouldn't do it. But what can we actively do to show our kind of? Designed to be an ally desire to be an advocate disease. Does that make sense guys? Show solidarity year or to actually be a part of that change like I like that you like, for example Chris you had stated like, Hey, you can ask these open ended questions to perhaps I. Don't know. I. Like men in your circle but my my all now Kamala Harris is not really fit why how come and then you make that something is it because she the woman? Will you said this at? The, third in that mix mighty lead them to believe that you think that way and challenging their own biases by using your privilege because they might listen to you more because you're a male compared to a woman. I, think that's a great way of doing it but I just want to like water some alternatives. So that way I can use my voice in the way that I have whatever little voice to help. And definitely I think is good supposed to listeners. You know hopefully, they can respond and a DM or however people contact with us but I mean even even now one of the things I think is people have to stop being afraid to go against the grain. Or being the first person to have an unpopular opinion into standing on it. Like a stand on it. Like I if you type I am where you dislike not I'm not I'm not cool with that. I'm not going to support it even if it can't I, don't even have to be something that you start movement. Like everything don't have to be the grand plan to be like, Oh, I'm going to get people to boycott this Yada. Yada. Nah. I'm. Not. Saying. That person's music in my car or at all this. is going to feel like it's it can be very simple like when you know right from wrong. He shot meg that's wrong. Don't supporters music don't listen to that album don't give him the benefit of the doubt. It's he's wrong. He did something wrong stand on it. And just in protect us and do that loudly even if you have even the best how in the that's how you feel like. Christmas. Saying it just just do that loudly for women allow us to feel like we're seeing were heard and were safe. In. That you are back just like we have yours. and. I think that is that simple. Like that do because because. I how can a woman feel safe? If the very minutes she's in connection with. Our laughing. At the situation. Like, yeah, I might say like, Yeah Garage Back Saying. You know what I'm saying if you never got to worry about nothing. I don't know that what I'm saying. Like women, they can't stand on that because like you think that stuff is no joke. That's the thing. Everybody thinks everything is a joke because they want to get. They re tweets they likes you know what I'm saying they wanted to seem funnier on net than what they actually are real life but everything mammoth be funny. This isn't a situation as meant to be funny I. Don't take you know lightly when. Black. Women are disrespect even like the the joke against you can say joke but I was playing around with tight last week on an episode where I felt like our cut her off and like. Let me make sure you said everything that you need to say because I don't cut black women off on his show. Get your time like I said it jokingly, but I mean like I don't ever want this to be a thing where I feel like my voice is stronger than hers loud and hers. My opinion is more valid because of whatever reason especially because I'm a man that she's a woman. So like is something where people just need to like have some I. I'm talking thirty three in two weeks. I'm I'm an old head almost now as that I know how there's a lot a whole generation behind by people called me og like my little cousin. Gm Sam I. I have to have some type of seriousness to me at some point because everything is funny. This isn't funny what I'm saying just the overall disrespect of black women on a daily basis in you know just all these all these different fastest life isn't something that's Joe like eventually I'm going to have a daughter what I look like making jokes about. Soon as I get home, I'm bumping Tori album. Kind of message on my sending the her. What I'm saying so like now, it's to the point where I'm looking at it from an entirely different lens one taking myself out of it not even situations that I'm currently in like how do I want to be known in general? Like for the future as as a man in general light neither should certain things you gotta like. The same, you stand on that. Offends. You saw you're saying something putting up really I'm not saying. I'm just I'm just I'm literally following. You guys go ahead. I'm sorry. Now I was just is that what this Internet trolling thing is. So people troll they like. Same messed up things on purpose like. I think that's part of. I think I think part of it is just people want to be funny. In honestly that you know you can't be serious time you know what I'm saying you gotta laugh certain stuff in life like everything can be serious time. I'm not that kind of person I. Don't want myself to come off that way because I joke around all the time. Would all my friends and with most things. But just. Yeah I. Don't feel like you should troll. Serious situations. If it's something bad is especially something may know your closely related to in close proximity to. Like. Black men come from black women. We. All have mothers that's not optional. Like Great understand like your mom could be white. You know that kind of stuff when you come from. Blackness. So for you to have this stance where like you can bypass stuff and think that it's a joke. I can't rock with that especially especially, if you're one of these people that's been bugging out over the past couple of months marching and it like how how you march of black lives matter and then make fun of like the make situation. That's Goofy to me. Goofy. Like I'm I up some people probably won't hear me say that I'm talking directly to them. Off. Hidalgo Holler. But. Like that that's just I. Feel I you can't be you. You can't have one the other you can't be for black lives matter not be enough you black women. Same Way the all is medical care screaming all lives matter but in disregard. Instance of black pain Doesn't make sense. There's no logic to. According to the American Psychiatric Association intimate. Partner. Violence describes any physical sexual, a psychological harm by current or former partner or spouse Intimate partner survivors are more likely to experience higher rates of health problems and they. They perceive their overall health as poor. The impact of which we to call it IP, which was intimate partner violence affect survivors differently approximately twenty. percent of individuals who identify as Ip be survivors reported experience a new onset of psychiatric disorders such as major depressive disorder, PTSD anxiety, following all on the experience with intimate partner violence including Substance Abuse Disorders There are disparities when it comes to gender with experiencing Ip because one in every four women are more likely to experience are likely to experience throughout their lifetime and. One in Nyman are more are likely experience through lifetime in our country So just to also move towards the CBC. The CDC also understand this is all very. Distinctive, problem going on right now, they classify this as a epidemic as well and they've identified a whole list of factors that will help people understand what are some risk factors for people to become the aggressor within a relationship or or the victim relationship I like to say, victim the receiver in the relationship of intimate partner violence so Such factors of low self low self esteem aggressive behaviors as a youth not having a lot of friends poor history of physical abuse. Prior History Physical Abuse Emotional Dependency Jealousy You know they even had like a cultural norm that supports aggression in general kind of makes it higher risk younger people are more high risk for. An intimate partner violence than older people and there are a specific gender norms that might kind of influence people's belief that Ip is okay to engage in And that that, both those were some statistics In literature on the field of this and just to preface again, we are referring to in this context, black men, black women, but intimate partner violence can occur to any kind of romantic relationship regardless of ethnicity age gender or any other aspects of culture but specifically with black men and black women. These statistics are alarming very especially when you talk about one, four, one, five, one in four. That's crazy. Like I have four friends. Yeah. So, odds are one of us is a survivor of this, this type of. Abuse or trauma like you say they're also causes other. Psychological issues depression. Health. Issues like there's so much tied to it That is just like how how do you just like laughing off like I know for somebody who if you grew up and you seem? Your mother getting beat I can only imagine. What that does you psychologically especially, if you're young like helpless and you can't defend her and you can't do nothing about it and she can't defend herself. And then. Say That action ever gets corrected. The police never get involved. There's no one steps in and stops it like. Maybe you do start to think that that's normal. Maybe, you do start to think, oh, this is just a part of relationships like intimate relationship sometimes get heated. In in the heat of me being upset or whatever the case may be. Yeah. My swing off. There was no repercussions of it. No meet me watching it as I was growing up. So it's it's a whole lot that that this goes into that said that's arming statistic for to be one in four. In I'm sure the numbers probably get worse as you. Look, into poverty stricken areas. Absolutely. That's the risk factors. You know what I'm saying. So because there's just less everything, there's less opportunity less resources resources. You know there there's just a higher chance of you being exposed to it and and you know and I think that. Just, because you get a little bit of money and you. Become well off that doesn't mean the John Take that charm with these absolutely, and it doesn't mean that that you are no longer. The possibility of you experiencing it just because you have money and you are now older doesn't mean it's not going to happen to you either the statistics are these are pervasive statistics. These are just certain groups that are high or have higher rates. and. I'm happy that you kind of alluded to Meld the possibility of transient original trauma that we're passing down that trump trauma from generation to generation and I think again and my line of work. 'cause we see a lot of women who who, who, unfortunately, this is a reality for them We're kind of taught as clinicians to. Don't convince them to leave because we know once we can possibly convince the that increases a possibility of harm because once they leave are at the highest risk of having harm happening to them. That's why there's such thing as faith housing you can't really tell them who's here because these kind of aggressors aren't they go to extreme lengths to to remain in control or to you know harm the person. Again. So if you really put in finances where this your only means of income, and if you leave where you really go remember most people who are aggressors their first line of kind of manipulation in harmon intimate partner violence is like, no, let me seclude you away from everybody who could possibly tell them a bad person. So like this is whole ended if we look at the experience that Black Women Mike. First of all the reason about this because I would classify what Tori did to Megan at intimate partner violence, and then in the effects of that afterwards. So let's just look at like the layers of that. That's what she experienced her reality that was broadcast similar to Rana's unfortunate situation that was broadcast and somewhat ranch. She was people were blaming her what did you do and did like she had to convince like she had bad. They had the doctor, the hospital release medical records of like Yo. She was really shot in her foot like busy. Picture that's like. That is just throwing salt in the wound. So psychologically what that's doing. I'm pretty sure she's a resilient individual, but take away the resilience black women still are paying strong black women troop shouldn't just be applied this because there. Oh, you know you're strong black when she will get through it. No Bets fucked OC me. Messed up than she shouldn't have to go tonight and if she wants to cry if she wants to be upset even when she was like alluded to some of that like she just lost her mom eventually. Like she's already a bone -able position. Some might invite into your life romantically entrust them hurts you like this and the view, and now you're throwing sought wound with making this album making kind of sliding. All exactly. So I just that's just there's so many layers of like our I feel so bad for her, but this is Meghan the styling of a celebrities experience there. So many women who live this everyday we just simply don't know so. and you alluded to something early want to ask about this. You know they use AV. I think good. So you brought up one of the the stereotypes that gets put on black women and it's not necessarily that that was not necessarily stereotype because black women are strong but. Kind of even that I feel like that's us like manipulation. Strong like woman, you can take whatever, and it's like that'll mean that you give them whatever I mean that you you know do everything you can the harm them because you know that they're going to be resilient and come out of it but But like what are some of the the? Stereotypes that you here as a black woman that you know either. You disagree with or you dislike, find it not. I want I don't WanNA use the word taxing but that you just don't find you know as something that needs to be attached to a woman a black woman specifically just because you she associates. So I can tell you some that I've heard because. I like I. said I personally haven't. been attacked with these things. but I'll just say other people's experience I felt like my experiences in the reverse. Like. For instance, for me, I was always told. A dishonest a white girl. Like I was, it was those things for me growing up. But. Some things that I've heard for black woman is like the attitude. The August over problems, his people skin tone being too dark maybe features. Strong News, the a stronger bill. Those type of things were were issues as well but I guess I guess maybe just. The. Just. The overall I guess. By black women are ghetto that's a big one that I that a lot of women I know always have an issue with. And people come across them saying but. The the reason is because I I do see that a lot. Like some of the stereotypes. Mainly you brought up one of the main ones is the whole, no black women and their attitude. In. Have Been. Guilty of that one as well. And I mean not in recent times but yeah, that was One of the things like you hear something that's trendy. You know the stereotypes most of those usually turning. All people love chicken I. Don't blame you and I don't like chicken but everybody loves chicken sound stupid. But yeah like the whole black woman an attitude thing like that was always something that was just like passed down and I think that's like a generational thing where like. I don't know if they came from black men I don't know where the was at some point when. Saying enough for themselves or just started saying anything back it became. An even wanted a response to the question that I have post. It was you a showing emotion isn't as having an attitude. Is just a showing emotion and That's abuse to me where like a woman feels like she can't even show emotion without being labeled. Like you can't even be disappointed or you can't be upset or you can't. You know be boisterous about something because the backlash that's GONNA come with That stereotype of old here comes the Lao black woman. Saying. You can't even be in a position of power because God forbid, you're a supervisor, a manager, a CEO, and you walk into a room and you just so happen to raise your voice and. The hand suggestively, you not to convey your message. Now like you said, Oh, she's a ghetto she's this she's not qualified. how does she get this job? would she have to do to get this? What I'm saying like there's so many things that like. Thrown on black women that if there was a white woman in at the head of a company. Nobody would now, if they had reason voice what I'm saying it would just be like, Oh, you're just going she's doing her job. Let me ask you a question what about? Okay. So you said something earlier are okay I can't remember what she said but. If he okay. Black roles like in movies been sitcoms all those all that. If you have a white person who in there's places where they have not seen a black person, they have not interacted with a black person all and they only. Can. Shit up movies, right. So how do you feel then about the roles and things that replay them because? In a lot of movies, a lot of times you'll have that that loud ghetto black like bill portray us like that in films four people then have those. Stereotypes about us. So that's something that that always bothered me as well and don't even just come from you know what Hollywood demand like. Tyler. Perry films. am saying something like that. That's another black person because I still to this day cannot stand that by rain and that he did. Yes I was like family. You really got. US look. Creighton in what makes me mad as that's that's some of the most popular content that gets consumed. So yes, like there. was even though I feel like there's such a catch twenty two because on one hand. It's like, no, maybe. Let's stop taking these roles saying stop accepting the fact that you know you're going to stereotype type gases for these roles, but then on other. But. Were they going where he's actresses and actors going to work? Like there's nobody is writing a bunch of romance comedies for black. People. Ought, to movies that we love. China. Love and basketball was such a great movie is. The bomb that I got older and I watched that movie and obviously I think a Q. is toxic like he put her through everything, he may her chase her you may have. Heard Chase them all through high school from little kids the high school to college to an adult and he did her wrong at every turn cheated honor all kinds of stuff like we romanticize the pain of black women a lot. And then we try to make it seem like is this beautiful ending just because like like that movie he really he made her play basketball for his heart then he dunked on her and she loss and he just gave in, they have no career no more and then he wanted to stay at home dad while she played in the NBA this is terrible movie and that's Really. Movement. I we romanticize are trauma and are paying and we do it to our self and Hollywood does it to us. But I don't I don't know how we can fix that. Honestly. Don't know because otherwise like they just not going to be working. I think you you guys are you know? Touching. Base on. This is the overall lack of media representation of black women, Beth I, concern. But then there's also media misrepresentation of black women that often fosters a lot of these stereotypes My and I don't know this is going to be you know controversial but my idea when it comes to that, if you can have the, you know the black ghetto woman up there but also include all other representations of a black woman is not limited to that spectrum out now not like. I don't want to just make it seem like, Oh, you can't be proud of who you are. If you didn't like that is what you are in your proud of Proud about like you the L. Acoustic Song around the way girl like that's what it is a Lotta Shit but. That's what is mess that is black beat a lot of trends come from ghetto black women, a lot of influence come from black women so they hold a. Don't get the recognition that they deserve. Behold a very secret place in culture some. But there are so many other representations of black women that I think the media often lacks to represent which leads a media misrepresentation of black women and I think that is also very frustrating because you know the various other representation of black but you choose not to, I'm happy that you bought up Tyler Perry because he does that a lot too and I'm not saying that I've seen some movies I don't know often my head 'cause I start watching stuff longtime time ago but he did you know you know get like a corporate black women in there but if she had come from a troubled background and she's like So like. Those things were like even when they're successful, they still have some kind of fatal flaw. Like scandal. Like Olympia poll was this a mate she was the best fixer. I won't say Laura fix earn world. What she was a whore like. Like she was. Like she used to sleep with married men and just do all kinds of crazy stuff like tyler. Perry movie. Heads the family that I praised Sonali. `Then who's she's top level executive and she sleeping what Mary man like there's always like some catch to the success. By where's just this just simply she successful she's great. And that's IT and. She got her things because even when they make the movies whereas like she successful, she's great but she can't find a man saying like so she got lower her standards it's a fine. Some Dude Dad don't got all his stuff together and then romanticized that as well like, Oh, well, she gave the the guy who works three jobs chance and now she fell in love like how come. She just can't be like Amazon I make six figures I found to do that make six figures along with me, and we just going to fall in love and have a great time and make children and we gonNa make sure today successful to like the we don't have none of those shows movies nothing. The closest we had was the COSBY's and that was thirty going on forty years ago. We don't have a lot of those. We have my wife and kids that was cool. There's. Trying to. The. Audience TV shows and stuff that they've released a now like I to go back and watch our no man. I. Feel a little bit different about somebody shows. A little bit different. There's a lot of there was size. Any offers a lot of homophobia. There's a lot of fat shaming. You shows little crate say when you go back and look dog Mauricio was while they made fun of Kim so bad said Dang. Shame during the first three episodes. She wasn't even that be. Yeah. So. Yeah. I don't know I don't know but Yeah. There's not a lot of positive representation reinforcement than you add in broken homes in single mothers in. Things like you know you got all these MOMS and you don't even. Don't even protect them I'll get it. I don't know I. Don't know I guess I can't. I can't really speak too much on that because I don't have. Any. Children or anything yet but. Despite. Those is frustrating despite all the lack of like you know really good black female roles and representation I will want highlight one even though it's not like. A real person but I love storm like she the leader she's powerful solidify. X. Men. That was very Funny, but it was berry. Who is thorn don't? TV show this this but she was like. She was was she was a goddess was worshipped she was. Like powerful, she was amazing by. I like that they had now the movies interpretation of her it's kind of interesting but like that that I remember watch him like a little youtube documentary on like the y they introduced storm and it was to try to combat somebody's negative stereotypes of a black woman One person said that by the way but like I think that's still holds true. You know like you get like. What was what was the black princesses mean? A black Princess Tiana, year her from the from the Princess Anne Frog. So I'm just looking at it from the perspective of a young black girl seeing all this possibly going on, and this is unfortunately some of the things that you have to may be exposed to them not going to save a generalized statement. But where are those kind of now that sucks that is just limited to cartoons. But like how could we be in my mind is just thinking out loud. How can we be inspired by by those kinds of like images and make them more like, okay. Use this kind of what the storm do. This is a stretch, but like Bingo. With storm dueling. Twelve. Now I feel what you're saying, but it is hard to like you know figure out who so limited where the? But there's no there's not a shortage of amazing black women. No. And that's where even that in itself should tell you where we stand as a society as people is that we can have all these amazing black women in have limited options of where we can point. Young Black. Women. In the direction of to be like her arguably, we don't highlight them who was the best i WanNa do that now and a little bit i. mean in the high of I guess like all the racism and things that's gone one now like. I don't know if it's genuine, but I'm seeing these corporations trying to make some type of efforts to be inclusive. On Netflix, they're showing Mike Books that are What is it all famous like black? Artists and athletes and things are reading their black Arthur's books coming out there. Having more dolls in I feel like they're trying to be. So I think that goes back to our first episode where it's kind of like it's like this now. What's IT GONNA be in two years from now he had dunk the reward too soon. Like I'm not like also I see the efforts. Make sure it's last. Because then the day if that effort is just that for this temporary timeframe. Like, they they always throw a bone. That's happened all throughout his hand. There's always going to be a bone mega term. Oh. Mass Bars. So some point. Yeah, you're. You're GonNa get something where you're like. Thank you. You know what? I'm saying like I'm glad I finally did this but then. Dish wish like all the black celebrities like just the together because if they say basketball football, if they decided that they weren't GonNa play do you know how powerful that would be if like because we make up the culture like we make up all the things that are creative all things that are entertaining all things that they enjoy. If we took that away from them, that would be so powerful. Extremely powerful it would but I think at this point. I don't I just don't see it happening I mean I don't I just that star power right there. Is there for us to grab but. I know that that would be a stretch but. It would be in our court. Pun. intended. Ashaari assured I'll tell you. Another Pun. But. Yeah. I do think that we have power that we don't take advantage of. I do think that there's stances that we can take. That would empower as a people that could you know uplift on our women in you know have them get the respect that they deserve? But we can't even agree on something as small as if we're GONNA listen to album or not. So how you only get a bunch of millionaires like I'm GonNa four, my my paycheck and boycott the sport that is my profession. Because 'cause. That's not let's bring it on a smaller scale. That's like saying are would have be all black people to just not go to work. We got bills you filming like I, get it the millionaires bills, different Nour's but like. It's hard to orchestrate something like that especially when you don't have any leaders that you can specifically point to in our community. We don't have any specific people that. Quote Unquote leader. Have No Malcolm Medicine Martin Luther King's Cam. We know this. Or do something else to him but. Sorry I had to keep bringing it back to touring but. Because he says something wowed by he was like when Michael Jackson got his masters back would happen him when prince got his masters back. What happened him now that I got my master's back not trying to sabotage me Nigga what are the masters. Also when you're a musical artists like for you to own your music, you have to own what's called the master. Of your soul basically saying like I own the rights to my music. Okay. Because when you're in a record deal, you don't own a reis music. That's why like if you notice Lauren Hill ever perform the music from the miseducation of our hill. She doesn't own it. So the Labor like. Holder to it like, yeah you can't perform this. So yeah, he got his masters back because he's independent artists. Now he's like they're trying to sabotage me. At. Fan Nobody. Nobody woke up and said we're GONNA get Tori lanes out the paint today. About some self strictly. Yeah so I don't know I don't know WanNa get your opinion on some of these. Responses that I got this because some of them are real interesting. When are you? What can we do? They know but put money in my hand. That was your friend really who of. You know who? Who is your absolute friend their absolute best friend Brianna the crazy one. Yes. That one. That one. So so one of them was teaching men are love. Language is not nagging. That was go. Do Do you feel like do you have you ever been hit with? Naggingly will. I. Have. All of it. So it's like nagging because well. Actually. Talk. But for real. Will we all you negative Way. THOUGH THAT'S A. level. How many? Just give me A. Curious in case. One one. Yes. But I have many I like three. Ring. Okay whatever we're we're going to skype as okay. So. So you've been, you've been a Naggar. Okay. Was the other one was. Oh. So one was. They flipped back on us. They said investing your own mental health over lie on women's to sort out issues you refused. that. Air. By. Won't be fighting. Indian is when they in a relationship Demon when her relationship. Yo. That's one for the books and then you gotta take a break. These full circle moments really do it for me I'm saying. Stop, calling females, whose pieces disturbed crazy. Keep it moving if you're not ready. Period that. Don't. Don't Jada Pinkett me and his dad part anyway. Oh, we don't need the same thing. So. Yeah. So I think there is general thing that men do to women in general as well. As like Oh, we just need to provide X. amount of dollars. You know this type of comfort in good sex and that's going to keep everyone happy and that's not the case We. I think we need to start paying more attention to detail of what a woman her needs are especially if she's telling you and you're ignoring it and giving her what you want to give her fellow, we gotta do better. See the by me a planner to. Hey, plant. Yeah. That's a great gift. S that's the P that tied needs. Ask. You Ain't gotTa have. Money by me plants. Money. Plans. A lot of money. Expensive are that little? Kampot I got know I spent a bed plant. Little. Kim Pot was fire you have an awesome friend I can't wait. Would you WANNA point you? have to. Spend a little bag on a plan you change. Some strange. All right. What else is there was a few more. There was a quote that somebody drop. The quote was very important. black can't be your shield and your target. So I found that. I found that profound because that tie that ties back to the whole thing of women are always on the front line men. And is not reciprocated, and then there's always some type of infighting between us. So yeah. Once again, you got to pick a side and stand on something. If you want be out here and you know you allow women black women she'll be your shield. You should also be there showed return. Yes and black men black women love you like. You got worried about nobody else having your bag, but a black woman is going to have your bag. Real always. Wrong, right. Different. Always, we always want to have your bag. Just. Love us. That's what. Even, even the George Floyd situation. Member when Calling for his mother. and his mother was already a in that other woman showed up and she said the reason I'm here is because I felt like when he was calling out to his mother, he was calling me to you not getting that from no where else. Are you kidding me dog like that's crazy hassle. Said I give you chills like I'm Mike he was calling out to me that's not it's not her child. But she looks at him in that regard because that's just how black women have always like just held us down and loved on US regardless of the mistakes the the things that have done that we've done in the world and things done to us from the world is just it gave me chose to like just thinking about that because like I don't see how you can differentiate that from. A different situation just because somebody is a celebrity or just because you like the person who's the culprit You because you're like their music, it's not cool. It's not cool. Michael. I'm be honest with you. That's all we have to say about like I don't really have much else that I can add on top of. Those are some good responses. Yeah I think so too an I appreciate everybody that like reached out because there was A. There was a plethora. Of People that Oh there was another one in my inbox is well. and. She says. Stop treating US like would be. Intriguing other nationalities like prize rare possessions especially if a whole black woman in a black man created you. So yeah there is also this thing. Sort of relate that once against Dettori and that one song that I did hear he attack at least five or six black women song. And went out of his way to praise Kylie. And I think that was the most annoying part this whole. What he only black? Women. Who I? Guess why He went out his way to address all the black women that have been critical of him. And then. Out of nowhere dropped some type of bar. Kylie in the pool looking heavenly or something stupid that he said. But like yeah, like you go out your way to say this glowing thing about Kylie Jenner. Or whichever it is I think is Kylie. Had would have a six minute song basically this in every black woman detractor that no that says something about you rightfully. So. What I'm saying so it's just like, yeah, we gotTA stop putting other women above our own if they're not exotic or if they're not worthy of note, glorification of their beauty like like you mentioned early, it's high with the whole like skin tone thing like, oh, she's too dark she's not attractive. Is just sick this all sick. And it's coming from grown men. That have these opinions. With black mothers and black. Daughters. Right. And they own black acid and buy. Yes. Is like I can almost almost. Give a pass to like that video where they was asking the high school kids. You know what? They don't a lot of them don't know. No better give a fuck when you seventeen. Seventeen, you going based on stuff that you dad probably said, but you don't know what they're doing to those other young girls come in contact within their self esteem two young girls. There's going to watch that that's predatory. You can be an s but you are being broadcasted as right now. I know you and you know. All those tick Tock says go I didn't. Yeah. That's powerful tool. I did not realize TIKTOK. Powerful as an all. That crap is crazy. You can blow up, you can get famous. You can do a whole bunch of stuff takes I'm not put this podcast. Get these views up. On the buyer at. Because, you can see the views on edge on April eight. Or More Back. Job? Like. Nah. We see from the same. One But I don't know I. All I know is the message that I WANNA get out. There is like. Domestic. Violence. the mental physical, all type whatever abuse she one of relate. Of Black Women from society from us as black men from other black women, it will we gotta figure something out because that's something that. You probably can't fix racism, but you can probably fix the way that you treat your own people. That that's something I still have hope for. So, but it's GonNa take some unconventional thing is going to take. The unpopular person is gonNA take being the person as not just GonNa, go with go with the flow and be like, Oh, I don't care about nothing that's they business, and I'm just GonNa continue to support whatever support at some point you're just going to have to make a decision on what Sidhwa and me personally I'm deciding to be on the side of black women and hopefully. Dozen there's probably GONNA be a time down the line where you're going to see or hear something where you can buy Chris. You're contradicting yourself why aren't you sporting his woman I'm not saying unconditionally all black women the right and everything if something's wrong is wrong but listen I'm. When the right there right. He was to be able to take stance of I'm. GonNa Stand on that side I'm going to stand firm inside and me personally. I know I can't change everyone but I can change my personal circle and who I interact with black women in my life will always know that they're. Of respect and love meeting. That's my personal things. Good Thank you. I'm Christopher Lee. Whatever Chris? I'm the five hundred. Hanging out on a free. Oh, you didn't. You didn't tell us about the Melanin market. Oh. All right commercial break So Guy. October for this Sunday, your girl five-footers central's is going to be at the whole crowd was called again melody with. Art By the Camden, Aquarium. From eight to two. Hours. Yup. Martin were front is GonNa be a whole bunch of black vendors. Yes. Chris because I read the address on our nets when I read but okay. All right. Well, yeah. By the Waterfront Vendors Act Tober for between the hours of Eight, a eight am and two. PM and every Sunday by the way. Right, but you're not gonna be there every Sunday. So y'all show me. Before and Y'all combat is some stuff. was going to be out there. We got plants we got soaps we got betters. That's it. Did. Soap some butters yes we out there. I'll be out there. Proof to support. Thank you black man black man go. Chris you play this song. I don't own a reis it is using the I will still say. Yeah that's funny. Yeah even though you haven't boggled my soaps. Tomorrow on logic has gone. Like I survived I made I, made it through without you vinegar took care of me. before we wrap up, anybody got anything else they want to announce any upcoming events any final thoughts? And they. Just, take care of yourself. Mentally physically. In this remember always put yourself. I. became. Auburn. Chris. Mother Dodie anything you good Gucci I'm I'm wondering with it and this remember how you're treated is more important than how much you like somebody if you need to repeat that to yourself again say it. And all that note we gonNA drop. Shot. All right now. All right bye.

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Mornings with Keyshawn, LZ and Travis (HR 3)

Mornings with Keyshawn, Jorge & LZ

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Mornings with Keyshawn, LZ and Travis (HR 3)

"Get on a Monday Elsie special money like this one yeah. I thought it was a really good sports weekend. There's a lot of good stuff a lot of good stuff between the Anthony Davis press conference. Our friends had me feeling good. Even though it's a Saturday. Are you pooh-poohed well yeah. I didn't catch one second of it because it was on Saturday Tuesday. They didn't have a T._v.. At the pool there was no way I would've thought I'm not watching the press conference. I would have liked to have seen yeah but I'm not stopping on a Saturday to see it stopped at a Tuesday to watch a full day TACO Tuesday and your top ten what else Abra I would've watched it. I would have watched. I hearing him talk to give me. I get to hear it later. I'm so incredibly excited for what he brings to this team because you know he's a serious dude and he's still very very young and he's GonNa I. I'd like to season to start tomorrow they could well. It won't unfortunately yes sir. How are we doing on a pole while you bringing up both look just because everyone's wrong doesn't mean anti find simple question on twitter at Rod Groves Chelsea headed inaccurate when we're about his but Rodriguez on twitter diehard came came out thirty one years ago July end-july caps as diehard Christmas movie and sixty three percent of the idiot say yes however you mean the writer of actual movie well? Let's hear what the Star Star of the actual movie had to say. I did this rose for one reason and for one reason only to settle something once and for all now please listen very carefully. Diehard is not a Christmas movie on you here. It's a roast. The roast is do nothing but jokes that was that was a press conference with credible credible writers and reporters and things like that then you can take it as fact. There's another one joe like they say there's always a little truth in all of that humor that is true. All jokes are based in truth. What else what else is true? What's that the morning show is going? It's going to be added again. Gentlemen this Friday. That's right. The nineteenth will be at Lucky Baldwin's and that's an Old Town Pasadena. It's on Raymond in Colorado older so the whole thirty to fifty crew Abi there are famous our our listeners will be there are loyal listeners will all be just doing it because the Elliott traveling down a carson take on the galaxy so we'll be on a bus later on Travis. We've got room. If you WANNA come check out your first game. But how do you how do you how do you get in. How can you be down? How are you GonNa do with away text L. A. F. C. Two four zero seven zero five to get on the morning shows v._i._p.? List for the Lucky Baldwin's remote this Friday thirty to fifty crew. No lucky is no party will all be there can't wait. We didn't get the same crowd. You think. This is going to be some of this Brown. Turn out for yeah. You'RE GONNA YOU'RE GONNA be getting some of that. You bring it. They're going to have the drums. We're going to have drums Max's bringing the drums. He said Sal Abi There Christina Christina all the people <hes> Chelsea Lou Brian all the guy you got into a match yet not yet Friday would be good well well. It's all right but but we still don't show up so seth Burton of course he's hooking us up <hes>. We're okay got busted down there a security for us. You know what I'm saying is going to be a blast but no the next home game we gotta get Travis out there. I WanNa go with you guys yeah so that's what's Taufa game starts at seven thirty at time. Tailgate starts five three eleven thirty on my good well. It's going to need to be a Friday or Saturday. Come back in here with the S._p._C._A.. Next sold sold absolute. You're listening to Caspian Los Angeles so Lonzo we talked to him espy's former ball of the the Chino hills balls <hes> we we. He said the same thing to us at the espy's where he said he's excited about getting a chance to go to New Orleans. He said that he's looking for a fresh start. Obviously injuries kind of messed up things a little bit <hes> but you take the bumps bruises to keep moving forward only been in the League for two years and look forward to this third year New Orleans get a fresh start and show people what I can do. I think there's two things going on here at the same time one. I believe what he said. I think that there's a lot of truth to just you know what a false start here in L._A.. It didn't happen the way that I wanted it to happen. A new city new teammates new coach new everything it's going to serve him well and then I think the other half of it if maybe not maybe fifty one percent of it is trying to make the best of a situation that he doesn't love because has looked playing for the Lakers is like playing for the Yankees. It's like it. There are only a handful of teams in each sport that really truly deeply matter in the Lakers or at the top of that list New Orleans is nowhere near that and he's trying to make himself feel a little bit better listen. The reality is is that this is an N._B._A.. Of owed that like once you traded away that you can't come quote unquote home again sure we were flirting with the idea of bringing Diangelo Russel Bagai. We traded away so that we can draft Lonzo ball so this doesn't mean that MSA would never ever be a laker again. You know we never know what the future may bring but this is an opportunity for him to develop with less focus the spotlight very much in the way the Dangelo did and I've been saying this maybe since the middle of his rookie year his shot will come. I believe it will I believe his shot will come and if you look at the rest of his game the things that you cannot teach like court awareness <hes> spatial intelligence allegiance anticipation a willingness to play defense so that when you get defensive line coach who gets a willing defender who's got some athleticism. He's going to be a great defender all those things he already has in his pocket. He just needs to consistent assistant shot. Beauty hit a wide open three get a floater. You're good. He's going to be good and if he's able to do both those things at will he's going to be great and he's development to greatness travis without the spotlight. Here in L._A.. Having not having I guess there's a better way of putting it not having the spotlight I think is going to be incredibly important for him. I it especially these next couple of years if you're almost hitting the reset button as far as his game goes and and being able to develop without somebody and somebody being laker fans and expecting him to be Jason Kidd now that this wasn't sold as he has Jason Kidd like skills he's coming into the league like Jason Kidd. If everything goes according to plan maybe one day he will become a player like Jason gives like Oh we got. Jason Kidd that that I think in New Orleans isn't gonNA follow him around. It's like the projects are onward because he's far too much too afford on the road to describe as a project. He's better than that but it's just okay. Let let's play. Let's get a little bit better every week. Let's get a little bit better every month. Let's be better at the end of the season the war at the beginning of the season. I think that that's going to help him immensely. I don't even know L Z if his shot has to come along for him to become the player that you're describing. I mean obviously it would help. I think he has to play. I if he's a thirty percent shooter that would be a disappointment but if that's if he's Russell Westbrook's a thirty percent shooter I mean he he's is a guy that is effective but what he does is all those other things as well but if you're only doing it forty five games a year I don't have any use for that. You gotta be out there and you gotta play that. He's got to get healthy one and the other thing. I'd like to see him do I the Stephen A. Mentioned this when he was in here last time with us. I would like him to be more aggressive and it doesn't have to be vocal. He doesn't have to be where he's grabbing guys by the Jersey and pumping his fist and screaming and yelling because that's just not his personality but I would like to see him be more aggressive when he's on the core commanding presence when he's on the court because I always got the sense and at first. I thought it was just that he's a rookie. Maybe one year College Guy Still Young. He's still finding his way in the league but I think his default setting is a fairly passive personality and and and I and if you're GONNA be the point of a team that's a hard personality to have that to me out of all the things that worry me about him and his development that part of it is is that the default. Where does he go to his motor? There was always question for whatever reasons always questioned one thing about J. Kid right out. The Gate was never questioned. His motives couldn't shoe worth a damn right but you know he was coming. I think about K. G. K. G.. You know wasn't great as you know his first year in the league but you you already saw the willingness in the motor Kobe had the motor libra the motor guys come into the league his age Danish necessarily show be finished product but they did show with confidence and that constant go go go go motor. GotTa get him to that place in which that becomes the default as opposed to be impassable and someone else do it but that may never come because I also think that's something you're born with. I agree and that you can imitate fake it for taking it to right but it isn't your default unless something clinks when the jumper starts to fall <hes> maybe something was switched off for him when a jumper fault so he sees himself as unstoppable offensive score in addition to everything emails and maybe then he'll have switch collect that clicks. I think that most people get this but I think that there's this misconception that just because you're great at something means you love to do it and that's not always the case. Sometimes you just were given through true God or genetic Sergei Good Locker whatever somebody just said you know what we're GonNa make you six six and fast and strong and quick and have vision and understand all these things in all of these things add up to be a great basketball player doesn't mean that you got the I love to play. There's never been a moment and I understand that just from a raw skillset coming into the league. There's no comparison. There's never been a moment. I've watched Kyle Kuzma play basketball where I felt like he did anything other than love to play basketball. He's out there and you why you mentioned and all those other great players. There was never a question that Kobe Bryant loved to play Basketball Lebron James Kevin Garnett all those guys you mentioned when you watch Lonzo play the boy he can do this you can do that. He can do this but there are moments where he just kind of floating around out there that it doesn't seem to be something something not that he doesn't put in the work not that he isn't in shape and all these things but does he love to do this. The way that some of the other guys do and I don't know the answer to that question. You know one of the shocking things since it is a win win money I can talk about this and reading Andre Agassi's book when he talked about he didn't love to play tennis <hes> and I was like wait hold on our Bra. You've won eight majors. You've been number one you. You were a cultural icon not just a tennis player but you transcend into sport art dated Brooke Shields when she was Pete Brooke Shields like how did you. How did you not love tennis being police? How do you not love tennis a lot of things today? We're talking about important stuff but it was something very similarly that his father introduced seduced into his life and made him do and he had the hand eye coordination was really good at worked really hard and became an all time great but in his own words and retrospect he didn't love it and maybe that's a little bit of something we'll see. We've seen it before like Mike Trout clearly loves to play baseball. <hes> me plays every day. He goes out there. He's playing with a Smiley hustles. He competes. It's one of these things you look at other like tiger. Woods loves to play Golf. There's a reason that even long after his father was dragging into the driving range he was going by himself because he wanted to run down Jack Nicholas. He wanted to be the greatest player of all time you look at another guy like David Duval. You're talking about Andre Agassi. Dave duvall got to number one in the world. Dave duvall won a major champ. She's looking around like really this is. This is what this is all right and then just see peace. It's not not everybody that has the skills has that that that's when you get magic Johnson and Tiger Woods and Lebron James and Mike Trout. It's not just all the physical pieces it's that I would. There's nothing else I'd rather be doing right now. There's nothing there's nowhere else. I would rather be and that doesn't mean that I hope nobody misinterprets what I'm saying not talking about his music or anything like that everybody has interest. I'm talking about that thing that there's nothing else I'd rather we'll be doing than doing this getting better at this honing my game working on my shot working on that float or working on my body all of these things in an effort to just get incrementally better at something that I'm already fantastic at. I'm already better than ninety nine point nine percent of the people in the. World that's the difference between greatness and just being a player and I don't know I don't know we're we're. We're GONNA find out. I'm rooting for him. You know he <hes> I think came came out under a very intense scrutiny of for a variety Heidi of reasons whether it's his father's comments a press conference with the magic it's position where he was drafted. He's light skinned. I know you think that's a joke but that's a little bit part of a two color conversations a real thing and that's part of it too and so I I don't know what plus all the factors that go into why he didn't turn out to be where we are going to be out the gate but that doesn't mean that the gate is closed. That's right L Z you love football. I didn't hear you. I said I love okay. Do you love the beach I love the beach you love Rome traffic. I do alcohol. This is for you. Jackie dig it out just be caller number seven at eight seven seven seven ten E._S._p._N.. 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There was one warrior that that was light skinned female where one I noticed give her a line <hes> nobody was at the back but they had one part of her as a private in the CONDO wasn't a general getting up here to these high ranks. Ah Man Happy Birthday for us. I always think of Forest Whitaker's Charles Jefferson from fast really see I think of them as there was a movie he was <hes> an assassin but it was like a Ninja theme. I know which one you're talking about doger's with was it not oh dog <hes> something something dogs and that was that was a good movie. I thought he win an Oscar for when he played media mean Zell. What do you want it? I think you're right Oscar for that. Yeah is he more of a filmmaker or an actor. At this point you know what is is really interesting forest whitaker's that guy you you cast. We just want like a black osage running around saying stuff. He played that role in Star Wars played a role to star wars. Yeah played any Black Panther you please. He's at that place now. Whereas this kind of like I'm just GONNA show? Robin dropped some good quotes. He's also had a place where he's dying. In all the movies yeah own wise you know one that we liked when we like this Ashen when something like that <hes> Ninja yeah he passed away when committed at a fast times alive and of course he was the football player Spike Lee movie was he wasn't he'd like the detective or or Denzel. Did you just make some digital holiday movies. As you mixed movies phone booth he plays the same role as Denzel does in inside man you still well saying look alike. He tried to clean it up. I mixed up my movies. Then move on settle down. I think is Chris here. We got to settle with Ethan Hawke. He's a corrupt cop and he was like cursing awesome on that one movie. What was it John t where his son was saying? I love forest whittaker and Tom Hanks in Philadelphia. Boy Origin never opened to Michael. Yeah it's going to happen Anthony. Davis was introduced at the press conference with the Lakers on Saturday L._C.. And he said that he wasn't quite sure how to go about the process of trying to get collide Leonard. Maybe to come and join him in L._A.. With the Lakers recruiter guy that's what I heard so I'll send texts every now and then it just like has too much. I you know so obviously you get the opportunity to add another guy like y. You know to a roster with me Brian. I I take the shot. It didn't happen thing I rosser you. Know is excellent. It is kind of interesting that even Anthony Davis was kind of unsure exactly how to go about interacting with because he said he and I sent him some tax but it's not really recruitment guy doing doing it too much. I wasn't really sure that you know we're from the outside of the of the circle which is more or less everybody we're trying to read the tea leaves and trying to figure out exactly what was going to resonate with and even Anthony Davis to hear him say it wasn't quite sure about which levers to pull on to try to get quality coming the Lakers because he doesn't know yeah and then our friends right. I mean that's all I heard was that I was trying to get this stranger to show up and what we know of of <hes> Oh quite Leonard you know trust is a very big part of his relationship especially when it comes to his his franchises now and no you weren't going to get them if they random stranger who happens to be an author Lee text him and says hey so. What do you think you know? Blah Blah Blah you kind of know him so I I appreciate. I think goes beyond knowing him. I think like you got to get to know him. If you understand the difference you know what I mean like it's one thing like they have each other's number right. They can text each other and say hey what's up a night. WH whatever you might say that's very casual and then there's I've spent time in hotels in airplanes and locker rooms and that's that's the difference that's the thing with that. I think you have to get through well. No it's recall being an adult and building actual relationships with people that aren't superficial. I I know a lot of people feel that is strange and quiet and can't figure them out and Blah Blah Blah but the more that I just kind of sit back and watch what occurred over the summer the better picture I have. It doesn't seem to me that he's that strange is that he's just not that shallow perhaps and that he's not out in front of cameras run his mouth nonstop. Nonstop about things that he doesn't WanNa talk about that. He's private that obviously he has relationships. Obviously he has a plan clearly has a great deal of confidence in himself no question and so it doesn't appear to me as if he's you know vet strange. She's just isn't that open. I I think strange atypical unusual these are words that we more often than not associate negatively with. I don't know if they are like saying that is unusual isn't negative because by N._B._A.. Standards by the way the way he conducts his business by N._B._A.. Stand the way we watch Lebron and Katie and all these other guys it is it's unusual. It's atypical. It's very different than the rest of them. It's by if that is quote unquote normal then with the way why did it is strange but I think we get caught up in these negative connotations of these words they're not. He's an unusual guy by N._B._A.. Standards the fact that he doesn't do a ton of media the fact that he doesn't seem to be terribly interested in self promotion that he just lets his basketball speak for himself that he doesn't have a relationship with the other high or at least all of them the other high level N._B._A.. Stars that that is it is odd unusual usual. Whatever whatever the word is? It's out of the norm of the N._B._A.. So I think those words are accurate. I just don't think they're negative well. It's diff- It's difficult in our society to hear the words atypical strange in different and not think negative you know we proclaimed to be a society likes unique in the person who speaks out and sticks out not so much but we really don't you know we we kind of want you a little bit to do that but I actually we're more comfortable. If you think like us and you act like us you talk like us. That's just kind the way that we are if we're being one percent about who we are as a country with that being said there are other examples in music examples in movies with superstar actors and singers just prefer the how their private lives just that private sia you know for a long time. We didn't know what the hell she looked like she where he's wigs and stuff and cover her face and wouldn't be on camera but she's a fantastic writer and has hit songs and then there are other artists who are just out there nonstop on social media because they want to put it out there we have other experts expert of that kind of personality and in the media is just that when it comes to Kawais unusual because so many people are so loud and it's the N._B._A.. Coming up next travis goes for Olympic gold in the butterfly Scott category three on the morning show Travis too nosy. We were thinking of a <hes> of a movie of Forest Whitaker's. <hes> shouts out to my friend Jimmy looking ball when they're when I'm a bartender great friends <hes> ghosts ghost dog was the name of the one that Denzel was staff those go check it out. Drivers is a pretty good movie that one low key under government. We know Zinin Grandma's on something like that. One different got a question for you guys. We like to give you the national days or national as you don't make these up. These are national days. Pick one of your favorite hair so today July fifteenth national give something away. That's one of them national. I Love Horses Day. Be careful Internet national topic Yucca Tapioca Pudding Tapioca Pudding Day or full a day to day tastes like glue national pet fire safety day and the national get out of the Doghouse. Dad's <hes> I'm Pretty Yeah Council third Monday in July so which one which one would be your start with this national pet fire safety day. Would you teach your dog not to play with matches. What are we? What are we talking about here? Choir seats teach the route in case. There's a fire in the house. It's an animal it will find its way out to the movies. We'll wind up when the forest catches on fire the deer run. They know to get away from it in the movies. The dog is always in a corner barking at the flames. You gotta run back into save it well <music>. I'm skipping that when Tapioca is disgusting horses and despite your awesome surges national something away day those even give something away you have your kick box national. Give something away day. Yeah I'm up for that. Give somebody something that you're not using that. You just want to give it to them anyway because they would appreciate it shall be yeah. I guess it would know if I took it then. I wouldn't be giving it away but it feels he gave it to you then I would take it. Yes it was a joke in there. I'm not making that. You're you're fine. Tapioca is wretched about giving it away. If you're Chris Paul Yeah would you give away your chance of making three hundred million dollars and taking a buyout so that you can go to our actual team with a legitimate chance to win a championship at this stage career so when we were talking about it a minute ago during the break I was firmly in the camp of no I want every penny money and if I spent an o'casey or wherever I'm getting it all and if I make a championship run great if I don't oh well put me in the category with Patrick Ewing and Alan Iverson and Charles Barkley and other great players who never won a championship. I could live with it. Okay I don't I don't look at Reggie Miller and go go. That dude was awesome. I so I could live in that space because I want my hundred and twenty million that's coming my way. Then I went online and looked Chris. Paul's already put one hundred and eighty five million in basketball earnings in the bank so you gotta figure by the time he's done with the rest of it. He's well north of two hundred already so if I could get eighty cents on the dollar of the rest of that money yeah might but there's taxes right. There's a agencies sure you know who knows who else he's taking care of in his family. So you're saying one hundred eighty million dollars you know in basketball earnings say he actually took home. He Tony's Guidry you know. Maybe a hundred that's it. That's IT Yeah I. I don't think I'm taking a buyout because I still want my money but I I if Chris Paul decided to. Do that it would make sense to me now again like I said I don't look at Alan Iverson Charles Barkley and sale. Those guys never got one. I look at them as some of the greatest basketball players I've ever seen <hes> look at Chris. I've never been a huge Chris Paul Fan but I'm not stupid. I know what he is. I know how good a player is. I know that he's a deadlock since hall of Famer to I I would think less of a guy hopping around trying to grab one at the end of the line then a guy that just never got it but he's not at the end of the line yet. He's on the last lap. He's as you know he's he's on declined that is for sure but there's a lot still left in that tank that you can. He won't carry your team but will be a huge contributed to a championship. Would you do it depends on what a championship championship meant to me and I think that to me is the bottom line because money is finite but peace of mind is infinite and can he walk into a space with Bron on Way Bosch. You know y you know staff and not feel a certain kind of way 'cause he knows and they are no. He ain't got one. I think that depends on how your hardwired if you can look I mean I I think I could live with it. I mean I would rather have it than not have it but if I had the career that Chris Paul had and it's all said and done and I'm done and I'm up there accepting my hall of fame induction and it didn't happen for me I could lay my head on the pillow at night and feel pretty good about. We know you know when T._N._T.. Segments when Shag goes at Charles Yeah and he cuts them into white meat about the chips and you could see hurt. It hurts barry them. You can see that but more important U._S. Travis U._S._O._C.. How important is winning a ring? My thing is how important is losing because you see on no K._C.. In that roster and it's just you. How does he handle losing night in night out? That's the thing you need to put some respect on Stephen Adams name honestly and look. I don't think that the thunder are GonNa make the playoffs but they're not gonNA lose sixty games. They're going to be in some games Chris Paul and Stephen Adams in Windsor last night. Chris Paul wasn't fighting for a playoff spot. This is what he's going to be walking into now. You're not fighting for a playoff spot not saying you're going to get the number one pick in a draft but they are not going to play off so you're going in to a losing environment night in night out in a edgy guy. I liked that competitive think the more important questions instead of like. Do you want to chase the ring. But do you want to lose night. We we've been looking at the wrong person Chris Paul Mike he'll he might execute billy Donovan. He's got about he's. He's going to attempt to kill somebody if he's for any period about coats and up there waiting the news. You know that that's an interesting question because Lebron had to get used to it this year losing for the first time basically since he was a rookie mini Masako sock second year he was five hundred so he hasn't had a losing record since he was a rookie and I wonder what sort of mental gymnastics he had to go through in order to have uncertain of a piece with that Chris Paul he hasn't had the same level of success obviously but it's been a long time since he's been losing squad it has been but I part of the reason he has not had the success that he's seeking right now is because he's had opportunities that they haven't cashed in. I mean let's be honest about it. It's not that he hasn't had had an opera they had Kevin Durant goes down in the second round of the playoffs and they have that game on their home court and he's playing and hardens plan and curry torches them in the second half. It's not that he hasn't had opportunities. It's that he hasn't been able to take advantage of him. The Z. Secretly doing a morning show on some other radio station. We explore the answer coming up next on the morning show. I knew that one believe it or not rush did you yeah should twenty six years ago. Toni Braxton came out with Toni Braxton self titled Album Twenty Six years ago Chelsea. This is an all TIME CLASSIC ALBUM LIKE R&B Album Song after song the Song Travis there's just this was peak baby face and he got himself a fine little piece of chocolate and Toni Braxton merged that up and some sexy videos engines had gold sure he's like articulate for it. He'd no no I. I can't go the deep but I I put it to you. This way. Toni Braxton on my radar twenty-six years ago shoots married. She's on everybody's yeah ages well. What's WHOA WHOA that was tough? I'm looking. I'm looking. I mean tasers pig. You not married. This is not a ring. You don't put a ring on this man but when she was where she he yeah but well wasn't she the one that detonated the Mavericks back in the day that is the Romer yeah that that is what happened was that to Jason Kidd. Jason Kidd was apparently wasn't true. It wasn't true at least that's what they're saying. Maybe some revisionist history okay but it was Jimmy Jackson Jackson and Jason Kidd. We're both you know oh on the self titled Debut Album Fan Yeah they were both phase and then you know one of them got traded to the happened. It happens. I'm somebody is not going to be traded or at least has decided that he does not want to be treated. Melvin Gordon who we spoke to on the red carpet on Wednesday and I guess he's going to be happy. We're going to talk about it for five minutes. He said that we didn't talk about him enough. He he has kind of decided that he would like to stay with the chargers. He wants a new deal. He wants money. <hes> sure why not <hes> but he has since it. It seemed at least kind of softened on his if you're not gonNA pay me move me down the line well yeah I mean he didn't kick the tires on that. You know when you roll out a new campaign an advertising campaign. That's a focus group and you run about a focus group and get some feedback you make the right adjustments. I don't think he ran about a focus group Travis. I think he just unleashed it and then when reception came he's like Oh. I should probably rework this model. 'cause it's not working for me. He's a he's a really good player he is he's a really good player. Five point six million dollars after scoring fourteen touchdowns an average of one hundred and fourteenth scrimmage yards last season charges. He's underpaid yes so a lot of other guys in the League drastically underpaid and he's unique position because he's underpaid but still really. really young man he's still twenty six so he's not like underpaid in thirty whereas going yeah you underpay but it's too late no you're underpaid and you're still time for you to actually get a nice deal and because as your quarterback the window for the charges in general is not as wide open it's other teams and so i think pulling back a little bit it's the right play because the charges no they don't wanna start over in the backfield especially guys productive with melvin gordon well look i think that we we got a little bit of a unique situation last season where lebanon bell said i'm not playing and didn't come in most guys are not willing to miss a season of football us something here locally with aaron donald two years previously wouldn't come into camp i'm not playing i'm not playing i'm not playing i want a new deal i wanted to deal when the season started he was here and he was gonna play because that's the way that it goes and unless you're committed to lead an entire season go by it's really hard to squeeze somebody if management doesn't want to do a new deal oh they're not going to do it and and the chargers would certainly miss melvin gordon like you said he's a really nice player but he's not the reason the chargers go he's a part of the reason they go and if as long as philip rivers is healthy as long as they have guys like keen announced that they can use that they're going to be more or less the same team with or without him so he i think he just mis read the situation in the room they're not going to blow this thing up for him right now in twenty eighteen teams roster roster football listen twenty six times per game that's the lowest marketing n._f._l. history so that his position and how they utilize his position from the backfield is at an all time low not necessarily the not necessarily the time as a running back to say hey pay me you know the time is a little bit off but he is still getting more than one hundred plus yards from scrimmage was means he's not just being used in the backfield and that's the part of the conversation that the charges to figure out is can you replace what he does and the other aspects with another guy or do you need to pay him to repeat last season success charges or sneak i don't even know if the sneaky goods the right way you back to two years ago they're very good two years ago they got off their own four star because they're kicker couldn't make a kick and then after that they were one of the best teams in the league last season they were one of the best teams in the league the whole season yeah the whole season they ran into tom brady and the playoffs and i mean what happened happens that's what happens when you play that guy a lot by the time they're going to be really good again you look at that division them in kansas city are obviously at the top of the a._f._c. west they're probably at the top of the a._f._c. along with new england because you have to put new england in there because that's what happens every single season but i i i don't know if all of a sudden you take melvin gordon off that team if you all of a sudden take the chargers out of the mix i don't think you do and that if i'm his agent if i'm him and i'm thinking about wanting to go in there and squeeze those guys i have to think about it like that that are the cause if i'm tom to lesko if i'm anthony lynn and these guys i know that they'd rather have him than not but all of a sudden i'm not looking at this like we can't make this go this is not an emmett smith situation owes emmett smith situation but it's also not a emmett smith time you know it's like as i said rush into either when emmitt smith said no right rushing was at a premium that rushing got me thinking of running no so i was looking at that running back a position and this is one of the rare times where the individual we're talking about is not on the list i don't want to give you guys a little early but <hes> looking at total yards for running backs last season gentlemen top ten in total yards for running back surprisingly gordon was not on s. list but those he would you like to now this is just rushing yards not yards from scrimmage no total yards so it's rushing and receiving yards for running backs you mentioned <hes> gordon deal well over one hundred that's true but <hes> he wasn't on nicklaus todd gurley todd gurley who is on the list yes that's a good answer l. z. <hes> kareem hunt you know the boy got suspended how many games did you miss like four yeah no so i'm gonna give you a do over no aww ezekiel elliott go ninety in the hang of travesty needed a good one i knew it happened i thought happened after the season no okay they didn't even wait they was gone you know what i think he went and did that interview with was at lisa saulters that didn't help that no that didn't help denzel washington man oh man <hes> soon thank you guys that can receive that dude's name in new orleans good that one kamara thank you it was may or anything i was gonna say reggie bush alvin kamara that's right he had over fourteen <music> eight hundred eighteen a lot yeah eighteen go ahead oh boy oh boy oh boy elsie want to say one of those philly guys i i already lost so i have no idea running back to receive and i'm trying to think of one of your people oh mccaffrey christian mccafe's points i want some here looking him yeah jackson chain over here i think one of his teammates one hunts teammates since he got wrong she killed does that make up for it now that's what i meant by kareem hunt all the way up go ahead <hes> the governor bears cohen cohen is on the list that's right yeah colon so you got a couple more here are you guys doing pretty well after initial struggles just wrote it off the tongue yes all right let me think so i know melvin gordon is not on these they don't have the number one on this list serially yes and it's a fairly zeki wasn't girly in ezekiel but the other one he's probably the number one pick and fantasy yeah number one picking fantasy let me see your n._f._c. n._f._c. n._f._c. where's timezone it was a rookie oh saquon barkley scar he's good he's all right you're not gonna get the road because you guys are seriously you know i wanna

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Mornings with Keyshawn, LZ and Travis (HR 3) 190425

Mornings with Keyshawn, Jorge & LZ

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Mornings with Keyshawn, LZ and Travis (HR 3) 190425

"Whoa. It's Nashville tonight the draft. Tim McGraw from Nashville all those guys played a football player on TV or dad. He was the dad was in a movie too. He was the dad and Friday night lights movie. Really? Yeah. Oh, yeah. You get out there and play football. Right. He was not a good, dad. Movie. Believable that is for him to be a football that are to slow the food. I she's five two in a big man who know draft Nashville tonight food in my mouth, there's tons of food at your mouth. I could see it. What happened to the suit? Where is it your drafty? It was donated to all star. Cafe okay. Oh, God that's old school in all star. Cafe I know close down or something who's in Vegas in New York? There's only. Yeah. So they had your giant white pinstripes out white. What what this white? It's like a cream cream cream. What am I? Heroes base. Where's your giant giant cream suit? Was at all star. Cafe giant giant because the Jackie came down to your knees. That's why that was. As so much fabric. You could've out you cut an have masonry suits made some traits for. Not the look nobody wants to look I'm not saying that it wasn't the look. But you can't tell me that it wasn't a giant suit. But what you don't time. But when we don't know is what you don't know is. Like a Cape. So that's the deal from behind that night. Zoot is pre goes down to the like the tweet that out middle of your calf is jacket. No it was right? Here's the thing. So Taylor clearly said how about here he shows nowhere. No, limit lower two buttons on the front of the jacket. I had to have twenty gold go. But yeah. But you don't know what was on feet. You don't know or Gators? No, no. I I would guess that man. Gators. Rex cream Gators. No, no Brown chocolate Brown. With the square tote. But here's a question. Do you have the gator belt to go home? Listen. Listen. Why are you asking me obvious questions that you already got to ask us to come on, man? Shockley Brown hair. Leone and everything did the airing. Also, go to the all star. Cafe. No, no, no, no. The cesary stated decree. Irina watch. All that's what else made it there. Travis what rush and this national hug a plumber day keys headlight of the morning presented by sprint. What the real day Palmer as my deal. He's a plumber. Yeah. See? Just call Jorges Teo. Kakha doodoo Gaca, do do guess you. Yes. So I had a little little deal. You guys a loved I know the to heckling Jekyll over there. Dago love this. Margaret. Jecklin remember though to bird, so? Spy? Yes today. He got my got a massage. So after the spa I wanted to get some Robert Kraft there. We lost. Door number four. Stop. No, Mike orchid. No, stop it. We'll see the video Kiko stop. So you got a massage. But it this all kind of ties into craft. Maybe what allegedly, but it wasn't like that. So be careful. I would say, yeah. Right. I went to get they'll tied into it. I went to get some eat some sitting at the bar watching the games or watching the the Houston Rockets in in Utah. But I'm also watching a dodger flipping back and forth. I'm sitting at the bar. That's too too. Women that are sitting on the edge of the bar. I'm sitting here is another gentleman. So I'm ordering and doing a deal in. We're having a conversation flipping back and forth. Do sports in strike of conversation. And they wanna take a picture because they found out that I was found out that I was a found out. I was an athlete is take the pitch taking pitcher. They don't ask in it. So the young lady at the bar who's our server was wondering why they were taking a pitcher with me. Okay. So I was like she's like, oh, you're famous or not. I was like. Yeah. I mean, I I guess I mean, I don't really know. How many I got a straight face? I'm like, yeah. I guess I'm just. Yeah. The what do you do for a living? Listen to K SPN, Los Angeles. In entertainment business, and she goes, what type entertainment I say. Well, I'm in the adult film industry. You did. Really? So gentlemen, hold on. Wait, stop right there. What did she say? When you told her that was your occupation. She was like, oh, what's your name said, Mr John, John Doe? Stop the guy. He just started. He was laughing, and I've Tanu work. Yeah. Yeah. Tapping leg give it the whole way. She's like, she's like, so I say, why guess maybe they I don't know they recognize me from my guess, I don't really, you know, maybe they ran it. I don't know VHS. So I have no idea you go back to the. Yes. I said because I'm retired. Now. I don't I just I just live in pretty much. That's pretty so gore with his for like three minutes, and I never say anything else. I just it near laughing the whole teak. It was funny because I kept going there. I go. Yeah. I got my big break in early eighties. You know? You know, you were in all the nearly I just did you tell them guard aboard. No, no. I said another said one of those famous ones from like the eighties is does she start giving you free drink. No, no, no, she she would service hassard. Oh, I mean, she served me faster the fast it was like. Yeah. Because all of a sudden, my car flower came out right after ordered it. And then my Sammy came right after ordered it that could go one or two ways every oh, yeah. Great. Okay. See you later or so how many movies did you can go a couple of different the guy next to me. He just was laughing. Oh, he was laughing because he knew the whole way. Just like you're crazy, Chris, and that is keys headline of the day. Yes. You take these evil drug pills that you just gave me and it drew. Yes. I'm so sleepy. Now, drink some some calls. Know who these lay we need we need some? We got. We got Benadryl back. I'm sitting here. And I'm like, why am I getting sleepy auto center? So this drug. You know, what I think it's when Travis talks happens all of us. That was a drop the mic. Wow. You're boring now. Coffee. No, I'm not doing it. You do tire. Cool. Orchards rund me Benadryl. You gave me a Senator of if take exception at a warriors zoo Williams, tranquil I take excess. Got caught looking ahead. You know for us. I focus was to come in and extend a series get another game on our home floor is their mistake for looking ahead. You know? And so that's that's on there. Looking ahead because they're the number one seed because they've won three of the last four near the seat. So that they were looking ahead is not a huge surprise. But he's right. I think that they were worried about the series. But I do think it paints a picture that the warriors are as vulnerable as they've been in the Katie Steph era, where they've been winning championships that this feels I think this is an indicator that I mean, the clippers won two games in Oakland. That's something that didn't happen before. Well, I think we're spending too much time focused in on what the warriors are doing and not on with the clippers to do it. They're well coached tea and well coached team that makes adjustments that have a coach who. Yeah, he's gotten his as head. It's him because he was implemented a system based upon stars. Now, he's doing what he was doing when Orlando as. Cuna system based upon effort based upon hustle and teamwork and trusting one another you not throwing about Blake Griffin's Saint going to work you're moving rocker rod to say who's open and can you knock down that shot? They have a guy in lieu will who to me. We talk about top twenty great scores in NBA. If you're his name is mentioned on there is a incomplete list. You know, this guy can get you buck as quick as in a hurry. The all time bench score, or at least at the moment. AM offered have to be close in that regard. But he's he's he's it's not like he just. Schnorr doing this since he came in. Yeah. Yeah. Picky is the all time being score. Vince. I know he definitely has the most thirty point games of anyone coming off the bench. So you so what he did last night is profit? Of course, as you were saying Travis for his career at end, the fact that got an IRA got off this night and was able to actually contribute in a positive way. And I'm not willing to say that the clippers that the warriors just look past when Katie goes for career, high forty five points when stuff goes for twenty clay shoes the ball pretty well that night dream on did shoot. Well. But he was doing my things they played. Just got beat. They got beat. Kevin durant? Did have a big night. And he says, well, I was paying attention. I haven't talked to my teammates about. The rockets. So oh, no, no. I no not thinking about the future mistaken about the game. And I feel like everybody has their mind set. But I can't tell you for sure what they're thinking. I can't tell you for sure what they're thinking talking about his teammates whether or not they were looking ahead. Kevin Durant had big night. But this is this is another example of Kevin Durant. Saying something that's going to open the door to the Hayes. Kevin Durant on the same page of this teammates, of course, is going to open the door because people call into it looking for the door to be open are ready. They are ready or looking to drum up drama with him. Whether it's he's looking to go to New York already. He's talking. But he's worried about free agency. All Knicks team. That's just because people don't like Kevin Durant. They don't like they don't like. Kevin Durant has people that don't like that. That's like you may just don't like him in the way, he handles certain things people want to try to use that again now because he said he doesn't know what his teammates. Think it hell? I don't know. What you guys are thinking. I don't know what you're thinking. Okay. I don't know you have an idea of what I'm thinking you have an idea of what I'm thinking. For instance, if somebody said to you, you know, you l z and Travis or having you know, you guys are putting together some good shows. You guys you guys getting along that we are doing that. You wouldn't say well, yeah. I mean, I I don't know what those guys are up to. But I'm doing all right. You wouldn't say that you would you'd say something. Yeah. You know? It's good mix. We're doing a good job you wrong. But that's the wrong way. That's different. But you would you would put yourself in the collective you would be on the team. You would be in the group you could speak for the three of us and have a pretty good sense that you're right feel like do it. But if I said if Dan said to me, hey, you know, you did a good job today. What's said? I mean. Yeah. Thanks. I don't know what those guys are doing. I put myself in their head. That's that's not. That's not. That's not me being a good team to you guys. And either an that you're doing it on purpose because you're sending a message, which is one narrative or you're not cognizant of what that dynamic looks like, and that's just who you are which is another narrative, and I'll take the second there. And if it's the latter that just means you like self awareness, which when you. I can take the last two all day long. But the first one I can't rule with you. When you look at Kevin Durant life outside of basketball or outside. He's not stupid. He's not always self aware. And so I'm willing to give them a little bit of doubt. Because he's shown enough on situations where he's not self aware to sense. Okay. This is another not self aware sort of statement as many, but here's. Here's what I say about certain athletes that I've come into contact with players play with guys that I've covered sometimes you just don't care about what people think about what you say. And on top of that. You can't speak to your team speak for your teammates at all. Because you have no idea would drain on, stinky. You have no idea with Curry's thinking, you certainly know that they're not looking ahead or they're overlooking. You certainly know that right? But you can't say that you can't you can't say that. Because even though you might not the back of your head. You're not one hundred percent. The back of your mind. You're not one hundred percent. Sure. So the best thing for you to says, I don't want to ask them. I don't know what they're thinking. Do. I if I knew if you ask me, hey, is he going to are they going to all of a sudden build a house in San Francisco because that's what a new arena is. I don't know what the hell they're gonna do. But if they them I get that. And that that's that's a fair point. But I would also say that if somebody said to me what you what's going on with you guys say, I think we're good. We got beat tonight. They're pretty good team. They got us. We're gonna get them. We're fine because on the same page. Yeah. But there wasn't what they ask it drives data in say or you on the. Same page, if they said, you are you on the same page in. He said, why don't know what page on? I know what page I'm on. That's different. Katie cares, deeply Keady, Katie. Okay. Keet who's Keady? Who is key de que town run go like this? He d did show the rice. I like something you to go see the doctor for all right? There was a report that said LeBron needed to fix his relationship with the Lakers on has responded. You'll hear it next soft cell. I know this one. That's right. That's right. This one, you know, why? Because I would say this was a one hit wonder. Yeah. Do you know the follow up to off? So I I do not listen to us here at Chris. This is called torch, no off their album, non stop exotic cabaret. Ooh. That this was a number two hit in the UK. So this was big in the UK. But it never made it over to the state says they say I can see why. Not a fan Beal and saw Selke. I don't listen to this type of music. This other addition of Raja's follow up has we've had a follow up. That was good. Yeah. I like foul coz of Hannah calling. Alling? Yeah. Who's wrapping good. How long do you think? Els? He's is going to milk this Benadryl. Is he dead? Well, he's been gone. Coffee. So people behind the scene so us being team. Yeah. L z was ordered. Healing role offering allergies in Chris tried to help out and handed him Benadryl. Nosy I. I'm not taking minutes from Chris told many times. So I have not Tylenol. I watch out of the bottle and everything I need to see. I said l z like usually I'll I'll take his side in these little squabbles. That we have. But did he took something from you is L Z's fault saying as far as the pink peel? It might have been spray painted. Something else. Now, just to take people behind you made it after after an hour after taking his pills. You look. Fun. He's back. Let me look in. In drill is pink red red reddish. Now, why is this is the animal one we got this? From Petco, the allergy plus congestion. I just thought of fifty year old man, who's been a father is a father. We know that Benadryl. Makes you tired. I stood up in the store. Just now. Starbucks not sin. And I swear I'm like as anybody else. Experience earthquake was just. This one little square foot that I'm standing right now it happened. I don't know about the blue it. This is a blue blue pill to my dog all the time. It says. For p. Straight up. I'm jacked up right now. I'm so messed up, right? I can't believe you drugged me. Hey, we got kilo. We got some to Gil over there. Another direction you give tequila move along. You don't want to do a bunch of stuff all at the same time. You don't want to be cocktail. All right. So there was a story that LeBron needed to fix his relationship with the Lakers that there was some mending the needed to get done. Outside. Right. And he he went on Instagram and said, no, here's LeBron. True. True at all. Legacy survey right now. So he's in he's in the weight room. He's working out. He's spinning around. He's he's looking like he's having the time of his life. And he says, it's not true. It's not true. I believe I mean, the day mcmenamin who wrote the story does is not a guy that's gonna make stuff up. But I believe that LeBron feels that he does not need to repair any relationships there. He's fine. Dave didn't have to make an could have gotten it from somebody that felt that way who somebody new organization who feels as though there's a problem with LeBron the organization, and he he went with it in in decided to write a story about Brian addressed to issues, which is funny because if I was a bra with even bother, but I guess it's a different time. But being the Browns even a different air he steals around at the same time. I was around. He just been playing Logan me because he's younger than me. But it doesn't you still need to dress like Ron I don't need to what he can do you'll need to address. S nothing is chess. Could be I it could be because chess. Yeah. 'cause he planting stories so he can say they're not true later who LeBron. But while abroad, why win LeBron to plant a story because he doesn't he doesn't need publicity about publicity. It's about setting the narrative, so. Say for instance, he really is frustrated right. Yes. But what he's what he can do is say frustrated, but what he can do is have stories be planted expressing the frustration. And then he can play off denial lady gives him book lanes while allowing to communicate frustration. Yes, it allows him to have both of them. Yeah. He's he's I'm not saying. That's what happened when I am saying is that as you point out key. He's been in the media and the public I for a long time knows how media works and like, Michael Jordan. He knows who you can access in order to communicate something. Yes. Without you being directly linked to it. Yes. Lebron James is good at manipulating the media as anybody that. We've had is a celebrity athlete did spit. Because like you guys are saying he's been doing it forever. He came up before social media has gone through the entire. Development. And this is a perfect example of he doesn't need to go and do a press conference or be in front of a bunch of people into he can just get on his phone and say, this is not true. And he's often running he has best of both worlds while allowing us on allowing the Lakers to analyze the night. It is true. Right. It's very clever again not saying that's what he's doing. But having covered as much politics. I have especially when you get on a general campaign and the little rats starts talking to the little reporters. And then stories come out is is an opportunity for narrative to be changed without a going back to the candidate. Or in this case, the athlete. So he's had a problem with the Lakers organization who who knows who who is who who knows problem. Rob does he ever problem with Jeannie may who may strengthen conditioning co I'm just spitballing here. I'm literally making this up on the fly. But maybe it's he thinks they're leaning one way. On a coach, and he doesn't love it. And he'd like to go another way. And so this this is another way for this to go. Maybe he's upset about the way. The magic was dealt with. Maybe he's upset with his teammates. Maybe he's upset with the training that could be a million different things. And this is an opportunity for him just to kind of start this conversation without having to start this conversation. Well, let me ask you question. Oh is he in a position in his career that? That he could. I mean. That he could control it now. Yes. Is he still there? If by it. You mean the media? No, no, no, no, no, no, just the organization is he in that position in his career. Absolutely. I mean, if you still believe he's a top three pointers league. And he still believed. That's how three plays in a league controlled their teams, regardless of the league the. Yeah. But we're, but where okay. How does he control? No, no. He's only got a handful not even a half full of LeBron type years left. Okay. So if you only got a have full, it's almost like the Brett farve situation Brett Farr control the Green Bay Packers for a while. But the moment that they made a decision that even though he was still good at the end. They made a decision that you know, what we can't care him into the next six years. It you say it is. The difference is there's not an Aaron Rodgers. Aaron Rodgers their that they're saying, you know, what we can go here, and we can weaken decide to end our relationship with one of the most popular players ever because we got number twelve ready. There's no Aaron Rodgers on this team. Yeah. That's true. I just you know, sometimes so cute. They got you bought a you know what? Yeah. In his nephew, LeBron's got them by that you'd think so do do got see the dodgers on TV last night. Real TV. I didn't have the my TV in all came down to a hanging own to pitch. We'll get into it next. Happy birthday, Ella Fitzgerald. I'm not a Ellis FitzGerald type of guy. No, it's pretty cool Christmas time Christmas Christmas on Christmas. I walked through the mall. Voice if you're walking down a hallway after yo- deed on Benadryl. Oh, d- then in the. At the casino gave a hot dose. Notice elevator music. No, it's not not. Ella? Fitzgerald elevator music is when they take the words at a air supply. Elevator music. Man. You all this is going down the escalating. Bloomingdale's doing Christmas. Batur music. You know, what this is this is so sister, did it for herself put herself through college. Get her J D chin came home. He's a junior partner right now. Brooke with her man because he can't pay his own Bill. She poorest glass of Chardonnay out the window of her penthouse. Yeah. Yes. She herself is okay, girl. Love you. A hundred years old birthday is brought to you by Judah. Ben would have been. Been one hundred and two years old rundown. Exactly birthdays, brought to you by Jaguar Land Rover for Newport Beach off the seventy three towards the sea near Chris and Travis right Travis. I'm north of the pond. Okay. I'm south. We call it South County attack dozy. Yeah. Over and beyond. All right. Dodgers lose last night to the cubs. They felt like they were going to get the second one of the series and. They were rolling in Cody Bellinger, hit a home run felt like Walker. Buehler was doing a pretty good job. And then all of a sudden a hanging two slider gets cranked out of the ballpark and the dodgers are tied. And then the then all hell broke loose in the end up losing the made a rally to come back, but fell short, I think when you look at the dodgers much like you mentioned, obviously as Cody Bellinger, sit not Cohibas walk abuser said, obviously admist, obviously not what I was trying to do with the pitch. Bueller? Set at the same time. It wasn't right over the middle. And the guy did a good job. Well, he wasn't a good pitch. Dave Roberts went on to say. Just in get it. Just didn't get the breaking ball down below the zone said Dave Roberts. We know J he hits. He he hits the mistake. Breaking ball in his own strange knife for bueller. He didn't strike out a batter through five innings. The only one strikeout he gave up a ton of loud. Contra whatever loud contact despite allying eleven bad it balls. Eleven balls over ninety seven miles per hour. He scattered two hits over the first five innings. He was dodging bullets. Yes. And it could have been a blow earlier. Yeah. We were fortunate as someone who was not good at pitching it happens. Sometimes you are not pitching great. You're getting hit hard. But you're not giving up any runs. You're not even giving up any hits literally dodging bullets guys are hitting balls hard all over the place eleven balls. Hit nearly one hundred miles an hour last night. That's good hard contact. He just wasn't giving up any runs until he did. So that there was the result was what it was not. If you were why if you're just looking at the box score on your phone. It's like okay another zero another year thinking, he's cruising. He really was never through. He was working keys Oregon this hour possible. All new l z addition Benadryl effective allergy relief when you need it. David leafing days is gone. Now. The good thing is because there's a lot of good things. Even though we've lost three or four even though we lost two in a row to the cubs. You know, we've given about twenty five runs over four games. We sell the second best record of National League. This isn't a year ago where we had a stretch where we were struggling looked up and all of a sudden now the D bags and the Rockies were in control of the division. We're still number one individual by half game over the surprising Padre, so cut recovering from this won't be the same sort of recovery. Panicky feeling that we had a year ago? When April didn't go that well for us, and we had scratching I head time. Forget what the hell's going on. It's you're gonna be really frustrated not ULC. But generally speaking, if you look at it in really small if you look at baseball week to week, you're you're going to ride this roller coaster peaks and valleys, you got to look at on month to month and even almost half to have that the cliches, you spend two months figuring out what you are you spend two months trying to get right? Then you spend the last two months playing with what you've put together that. That's a baseball season, you kind of break it into thirds, and we're only halfway through the first third. So I your point on the pitching, I think is well taken. I'm just not quite there yet where they're going to be around not gonna look at Walker biller Goodwin bad when Goodwin bad when what's going on? If by the end of the line. I think he's going to be what he's going to be Kershaw. It's going to be what he's going to be rich hills coming back soon. I think he'll be what he's going to be there. The cue said they're the best team in the nationally. I haven't seen everybody play ten games. But I've seen all of the teams in the nationally play. At least a couple of times. There's nobody better than the dodgers. No. I don't think there's anybody better than dodgers especially with the pitching pitching away that they have been pitching. And I think walking Bulich and continue to do some good things. He'll eventually replace Kershaw Kershaw coming back off injury. You know, pistols, two games that he's pitched he's been lights out. Can't complain about him. I think the one thing that they can't afford everytime. We have these conversations. It's always they left something high in. They get a certain pitch down in a way. They may you know, put it right over the plate is always one pitch. It's one correction that cost. The dodgers games is never people running away with it. It's oh if he didn't give up that home run dodgers are in just about every game. It's here we had this conversation. The other day who was pitching who was that. That was it real or somebody. They gave up a Jack and yelich the gave up the Jack. But it was just that one pitch. That's all it was not there. They're the best team in the Padres are hanging around. But that's a pleasant surprise more than anything. That's reasonably sustained. Got to do fourteen and eleven to all right. The NFL draft is finally here. The first round is tonight in key. I got some questions for you. That's next. Video. Yeah. I was only thirteen when this video was out. Nineteen Ninety-six key. Yes. Nine hundred here. You were drafted the year. I was drafting this was one of the biggest songs biggest so's. This was Braxton. I can't hear you say it on the air. You were born in nineteen Eighty-three. Yeah. Oh, so you born right. When Mike was just starting to turn white. Stupid. Look at the details. Nineteen ninety seven number one pick in the draft. He Sean versus nineteen Ninety-six number-one pick Shawn Johnson. Chris video Chris me, and my little voice. So you did an interview with Patrick shortly after you were drafted in. Here. We go. Somebody says the black. Responsible. I don't even know who name it the is besides you wanna Super Bowl. And I met him one time. I don't know what you know. What else? He's done worried. You can't be as good as everybody wants you to be no not at all. Because I'm going to be as good as everybody wants me because I'm gonna continue to work or. So you've had voice whispering you've grown into your voices. Yeah. That is that is correct. Dan, Patrick, Dan, Patrick was about both of us was probably a hundred pounds. Still a little bitty skinny cat. You guys should redo that guy should sit down. Again, Dan, Patrick is at the time way still is cool. But at the time he was one of my favorite. He was my guy. He was the guy for me. You know, when when I left a bucks, he was the only person I've talked to when I was with the jets. He was the only person I would talk to. I mean, it just you know, he's worked out that way. And now you do radio up against him. That's kind of our competing. Well, we're not really competing smashing minute. Well, we're winning. We're winning. Yeah. There's always got to be a second place. Tonight. Yes in Nashville and the cardinals have the number one picked been on the clock since the end of last season. There's been a ton of speculation about what they're going to do especially with Kyla Murray. And I I know that you don't think they're going to pick him. But the reason that I'm still willing to think that it's real significant possibility is that all of the Kingsbury Murray stuff happened before Kingsbury was in Arizona happened before Cuyler Murray had decided that he was going to be an NFL guys opposed to a major league baseball guy that all of this stuff was pre decision. This isn't stuff that. Oh after I got the job. I like after he declared that he was going to be a football player. I like Carla Amari, this was all done well before that. So I think it's real he's in love with that guys football player. Yeah. But you know, you know, how something you know, how you say something you you. You you go, man. I wish I could do this. And then all of a sudden he comes volition is there. I think that's what he fell into. He was just talking based on college in all of a sudden. He fell to the Arizona spot who had more pick and he stuck now. He's like holy. But keep the crowd, and I'm not gonna get it. Exactly. Right. 'cause I'm going my memory here. But the quote was something along the lines of if I could pick any player, I would say. Him. Yeah. Pro football specific. But he said that when he was getting ready to play him the week of the Oklahoma Texas Tech game. He was sugar and butter name up all of a sudden. He gets fired because he he has a suck of team in a season. They out him. He can't get a job. He comes USC is an offense coordinator for I don't even know high materialize. All of a sudden he becomes the Arizona's coach, and he stuck with the number one pick. And they just drafted a quarterback year ago traded picks up to get Josh Rosen. And now he's sitting there, and he's like, well, I put my foot in my mouth in in my mouth when I was in college. Now, this is real life. Let's play this dance game up into the point that we need to because we're not going to keep the number one pick for quarterback. Well, here's Adam Schefter talking about the cardinals and Josh Rosen and Kyla Murray, and what might happen. It wouldn't be surprised if they didn't get what they want. If they ended up carrying him on the roster this oh coming season, again, not an ideal scenario, but if they had such a strong market on Josh Rosen. They would have made the traitor ready if somebody wanted to badly enough and was willing to pay the price. They would attr-. Already. And I think in this particular case, they're not gonna move in for anything that just gives them away. They'd rather just hold onto him until they get something that they believe is a value. There's no way that they draft Cuyler Murray tonight and still have Josh Rosen on their roster. Right. I'm not saying that they move rose by the end of the night. But you can't. Then pick and then pick another guy number one, twelve months. I wouldn't do that. That's a recipe for disaster me got two young quarterbacks a nine months apart. Like, what are you doing? Well, what do you do? That's the question. And I don't know if I agree with Adam assessment that they didn't have anything compelling offer to him yet. They simply could just be waiting a sippy could be going through diligence to see. Okay. So we're gonna trae for this guy and get these picks. Okay. If we get these pigs who's going to be there for us to select. In other words, it's not just good enough that get a handful of picks over a couple of seasons, particularly for this. Traff. If one team is our for you say the fifteenth pick teams are to twentieth pick you kinda like this offer. But you're not quite sure if you guys gonna be there for the fifteenth he might be there for the ten they're doing all of that as well. I don't think it's simply we don't like this deal, and we're done the proper due diligence as we're learning more and more about when you look at the raiders and what they're doing takes them on. Well, if they don't get it done, though, the market for Josh Rosen if they draft Kyla Murray tonight, they're gonna get pennies on the dollar for Rosen because they have to move him. Anybody that's going to do a deal word on the street? I've been listening to my draft winds, my whispers, my, you know, like a little finger has that Rosen might not be drafted today. But tomorrow before the second because that's what they're most. Like last year. I know our trading. Choose me, you'll get traded tomorrow. Because like you said you have to do it today. Right. So because they're going to get a second round pick. So they're gonna wait for you could do day tomorrow tomorrow doing today, you can do it tomorrow or today or whatever when I'm saying if I know you've got to sell what you're selling. I know I know you. Quim? But if I know you don't have a QB, you can't treat me extra even if I know that your freaky Miami. And you're floundering if I know you're New York, and you're desperate. If I know you're a team that needs what I have. I get it. You know, I need to move it. But also, no you need to have it. But here's what's gonna happened. I'll tell you right now, the coffees working with I'll tell you, right? I tell you right now what it's probably going to happen. If they take Colin Murray Travis in ills, e they took the moreover Josh Rosen is gonna light a match on in. They're going to get a third or fourth round pick. He's gonna sabotage it. He's got. Yes. Start tweeting this racist. I hate black people say, no, no, no, no, no, no, hang. For not heeding. He's Burnham of so bay burden. They not even not go have a chance, maybe a little different. So obviously guys going to be moving into the top ten out of the top ten. It happens every single year. I just wonder that if you have a bunch like the raiders have or you more likely to move out stay where you're who who's more who's got more incentive to move back. Move up the teams that are in the Miller the teams that are in the front. Well, the teams at an affront need players. That's why they end the front. So if I'm Nim I'm always inclined to move down. Get more picks to Bill Maher Austa when you look at Zona you look at the raiders and not necessarily the jets the jets. The jets are in need situations. There need situation not overhaul their off and they just round for specific Pash rusher receiver. You know, tidying some you know, they they can just pick and choose what they need. But when you're talking about that first ten I ten picks in the draft. You got there because you're bad. You're not there because you're good. You know, so you're moving out if you're they kind of counter intuitive. You'd think that you're picking at the top because you stink which is obvious. But the best players are at the top. Therefore, I need to get Nick Bosa. I gotta get him because he's the best player available just picking a name out of the hat. But a great. So now, I got Nick Bosa and instead of having ten holes I got nine, but now of a sudden I can go in by trade that pick and I can fill those spots. Right. Yeah. That was interesting though that Tony Brexit song. I probably back. I did the index EP awards with her backup equals in two thousand. Yeah. Fire picture. Got a nice picture with her. Yeah. She would you. Does it pitcher test his show Justice real life? So Holly berry Toni Braxton back where the backstage is Holly berry toady breasted, I'm young I'm dying day. I was totally Braxton. I mean, Holly berry hand on this like, I remember it was like black satin silk almost look like a again that you would, you know, sleep in or whatever. But it was. Halle Berry's near the Braxton Toni Braxton had one leg now all the time. Eat it, then I think right after that she must teach. She did like a Grammy or somewhere. It was like half the top was missing. E. Mary what's her name? Now tweet out that photo, but reassured a caption the photo the Rosh tweeted at at Raj groves because it's got the front view of your suit from draft night. How many buttons all forty fourteen bucks, you should count them up? Yeah. The size of quarters. Because it looks like like any like you could wear that gladiators so much body armor in the show. It was basically, you know, Zoot suit showed a path. That's extra from dynasty. It was a big show Iverson. Magic is out. And there's a rumor floating around the Mike smacks plane. Why decided to do what he did? That's next.

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Weekly Roundup: Thursday, November 1

NPR Politics Podcast

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Weekly Roundup: Thursday, November 1

"Support for this podcast and the following message come from e-verify focused on supporting the legal hiring and employment eligibility their fixation process for employers. Let's go higher. Get started at either fi dot gov slash go. Hi, this is Julie Anne that noise. You just heard is a sounded democracy where printing are absentee ballots here in Vienna. Austria to make sure Arvo counts on November six this podcast was recorded at five six pm on Thursday, November first things may have chain. And who are we kidding things will have definitely changed by the time. You hear this? Here's the show. Hey there. It's the NPR politics podcast here with our weekly roundup of the week's biggest political stories, President Trump gave a White House speech on immigration just days before the midterm elections. And an NPR poll found that eighty percent of Americans think incivility in our politics will lead to violence. But who do they blame I must McCullough political reporter? I'm tamra Keith. I cover the White House. I'm Mara Liasson national political correspondent, and I'm Scott Horsely. Now, also cover the White House says, Scott, let's start with you. You're there at the White House. The president gave this speech this afternoon around what four fifteen in the afternoon. It was televised on a lot of places billed as an immigration speech. But did we get a sense of if there's sort of anything new in this speech? There wasn't a lot new. This was nominally speech directed at that caravan of Central American migrants, slowly making its way through Mexico and the president said turn around go back. You're wasting your time. But what this was really aimed at. It was the the red meat base of the Republican party, the people in Donald Trump's base who are most concerned about illegal immigration, and to whom he has really tailored his message in these final days of the two thousand eighteen midterm election campaign and not just the people who care about it. He wants to make more of his supporters care about this. Because he believes that this is something that will motivate them to come out. And I was waiting to hear is he going to do away with asylum. There had been reports that he would do that. He certainly wants to make it harder. He told us that next week. He'll have an executive order that will flesh out the details of this. But to me, I was at the rally last night in Florida in this speech was very very similar to what he said at the rally. He says once these people arrive the democrat party is vision is to offer them free healthcare and the right to vote. This was essentially like a campaign speech given in the lens of the White House. And you've got to wonder the optics about this. Then is because he he wanted to reach. Audience that maybe he can't always I think he's frustrated, and he feels this is the issue that's going to help Republicans. He wants to get more coverage for it. And maybe he feels the rallies aren't enough, but he decided to use the venue of the White House to press this idea that these criminals are coming there in it's an invasion is the word he used and we have to stop them. So there is a certain seriousness that comes with a White House speech with a podium. This isn't the president in front of a crowd at a rally. This isn't the president on the lawn of the White House shouting over the helicopter by doing it in this setting. He was saying, hey, pay attention. There's going to be a serious policy discussion here, or that's the signal that he's they sent to the media that made CNN carry it live, whereas CNN, and even FOX has not been carrying his rallies live on TV anymore. This did get carried. But there was a little bayton switch there because underneath the rhetoric. There was very little actual substance. The president talked about finalizing a plan to maybe tweak the way, the United States deals with asylum seekers he talked about maybe indefinitely detaining migrant families, while their asylum claims are being processed he talked about things that are sure to face legal challenges if he ever actually does them, and which probably are facing legal challenges within the White House itself. He's probably got some smart lawyers who telling him, Mr President. You can't do that. He's frustrated. He wants to say something he wants to throw some red meat to the base. And that's why we got we got some degree that we have seen that immigration does play very well with his base. In fact, I was just looking at some research from Google which has been tracking into sort of an uptake in search trends and whatnot. And they they say that they've seen an uptick, I think it was about twenty five percent of house districts are sort of an increase in search around immigration. So I mean, look it's one metric, but perhaps it does seem to be working with a potential sector of his base and Google searches are like a lots of people complain. About that as being a really mediocre metric for a lot of things. And I don't fully understand all the arguments about Google, searches bowed. I'll say is that there's a Kaiser family foundation poll done very recently. Asking voters, what is your number one issue and among Republican voters? The thing that ranked the highest that got the most people saying this is my number one issue was immigration with independent voters and with democratic voters. It was way down on the list it wasn't anywhere near as important as it is for Republican voters. And in fact, it may be turnoff for some of those independent voters, and is some of the suburban voters in the in those kinds of districts where the house races may be decided. This is the big bet that Donald Trump is making that he can juice up his base with with this kind of argument that spaced on immigration race crime fear, and he's willing to take the risk of turning off independent voters turning off. College educated women. This is a real risk. I mean, he could. Win in the short term boosts some turnout among his base. But over the long term he is chipping away. I think at the Republican party's appeal Mara you, and I were watching this video that President Trump tweeted out yesterday, it has this man. This convicted murderer who killed police in California and has all of this. He's like laughing about killing police, and then it has this imagery of the caravan and people pulling on fences, and this is very violent imagery in this video. And clearly the president is trying to build up that fear. Right. And with the Chiron Democrats led him into the country. Eat it at the video that that we've been talking about it's been pinned to Donald Trump's Twitter account. So clearly, he's banking on the fact that this is a successful strategy for him. And maybe his calculation is that he just wants to focus on the Senate and that he will help Republicans maintained control of the Senate maybe do well with a few governors races. And. And that may be for him is considered a win to some degree. And that's why he's focused so much on immigration, despite the fact like Morissette, you said that this is not necessarily a a winning strategy in a number of these house races and over the long term for Republicans. But look the Senate battleground is Trump is Trump states. It's where he can go. It's where he has some ability to move voters. And that's where he's been focusing. All right. We're going to leave that there. Thank you so much Mara Tamin, Scott. You're welcome. And we're going to let you go. 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To get started goats are rocket mortgage dot com slash NPR politics rate, shield approval, only valid on certain thirty year purchase transactions additional conditions or. Collusions may apply based on Quicken Loans data and comparisons of public data records, equal housing lender. Licensed in all fifty states and m L S consumeraccess dot ORG number thirty thirty Florida is one of only three states that don't let ex felons vote. Three years old. I don't have no more criminal background. I work pay tax. I'm partisan. Why can they met me? Here. Why that might change on embedded, and we're back and joining me now is I Roscoe Ron Elving Dominica Montinaro. Hey, guys. Hello. Hey. All right. Well, let us just take a minute to take stock. I would say of the past two weeks because I think they've felt rather turbulent for a lot of people between the mail bombs that were sent to democratic leaders, and then the mass shooting at a Pittsburgh synagogue Dominica. You've been reporting about a new NPR PBS merit poll that focuses on this question of civility and one sort of top line result from that I found somewhat startling, but also really intriguing and this is that eighty percent of voters say they are concerned that the lack of civility will lead to violence. You know, it's one thing that in the poll people actually across ideological lines agree on that they say that they're concerned that that tone can lead to violence and some would argue in already has right. So the, but the issue here is who do they blame right, and who and that is starkly divided. And frankly, you know, I was going to say a lot of people are just in their corners, very polarized. I mean, but if we look at who people say, they blame more people blame President Trump than a Democrats and Republicans bickering or the media for how it's reported on some of the stuff how many per- like how large percentage so overall of forty percent of Americans say that they blame President Trump when you look at the media twenty nine percent of people say they blame the media for the lack of civility in tone in the poll. Do we also have a sense of whether or not people are aspiring to a different tone. Or if they do want this civility to be different than what it looks like right now, what they do say is that the tone three quarters of people say that the tone has gotten worse under President Trump, and that's significant because. It's far higher than when Barack Obama was president President Trump is a different president a different politician than what the US has seen in modern history. And he is someone who is known for name calling insulting his opponents and very personal ways. And when he talks about immigration illegal immigration is crime. And these criminals are gonna come into the US and hurt people. And that is what he is feeding to the people that support him to his supporters. And so they're getting worked up because they're being told the Democrats love crime. And if you've over Democrats crime is coming those are very stark terms, those aren't terms where we're all gonna come together that language is just not going to do the perennial question that people have an asking about Trump ever since he came into office, which is whether he created the these these conditions or whether he tapped into. Pre existing conditions that were already apparent in this country listening to the poll and who's to blame one thing is not in. There is the American people which we are. We're all Americans lay some of this is just a reflection of the people who were answering how I'm not saying that they're bad. What I'm saying is as human beings when these people are elected if you don't like the politicians, they are elected by American people the media, they may not be hired by. But the the media is a reflection. If you don't like it, you won't read it you won't look at it. You won't you can't take the the personal responsibility out of that. This is a reflection of America as a whole. Yeah. I mean voters it's a great point that Asia's making because voters do not reward bipartisanship in the fact, the matter is the more bipartisan, you are the more that you're seeing as reaching across the aisle and being friends with somebody or giving them a hug, or whatever that image is what goes on. Around in primaries in particular, and these people wind up getting voted out of office. You know, it's funny people will say that they want compromise. But really what they want is people to compromise to their position and think it's say though, that if everyone in the country voted there's a better chance that some degree of bipartisanship and cooperation would be rewarded, but that's not the case the people who do vote, especially in primaries. But also in November, a tend to be the people who care the most and the people who tend to care the most are not in favor of cooperation and by partisanship. So that's the portion of the electorate that actually gets out there and gets the job done. And that's then the reason we have the politicians we have and the kind of politics that we have one of the things you see in a lot of polls is that people have a sense of Zion in part because of impending demographic change that that folksy is inevitable. Right. I was looking at the American values survey that PRI does every year, and they asked this question about the impact of the US becomes. Majority nonwhite by twenty forty five and you see that about two thirds of Republicans see that as a negative change. And yet a very small percentage. Maybe nineteen percent of Democrats that is negative and it falls clearly along partisan lines. But it's got me thinking a lot about this is something that is like an inevitable demographic reality that is very hard to reverse at this point. And it seems to be exacerbating the way that people feel I don't think there's any question about it. This is what is different from other periods of turmoil, and our politics, we had great racial strife in nineteen sixty eight we had riots in many of our major cities, and what is different about this is that there was no question in nineteen sixty eight what the relative size of the races was going to be in the future. There was no question that the white people of America, we're going to be the majority. But now, we are literally talking about a very different looking country a-, demographically transformed country much more diverse, many, more people, speaking Spanish. And that has changed the attitude of a lot of folks who used to think of themselves as kind of tolerant kind of fine. But now, they don't feel the same way and these ideas of a country in which they're kind they're Anglo personality is no longer dominant. But actually, maybe only a plurality or something like California where it's less than forty percent and people find that upsetting. They don't like it, perhaps an even if they don't find it upsetting. It's a little unsettling asthma. You've brought up before the fact that the majority of kindergartners or ready non white. So even if you put up a wall and adds some fence to it, and, you know, at a bio dome over the United States, so that nobody can get in or any planes or anything it's already at the point where it's going to be that way because the majority of kindergartners already. Exactly. Yeah. And I do think that that, you know, concerns people, but it also to me kind of heightened this feeling that people have a very tribal politics for a long time. We had seen African American voters vote more democratic, but I think what we are seeing is increasingly also Latinos and Asian Americans vote more democratic since the nineteen nineties, right? And and so increasingly we are in the situation where your race you could argue your religion as well. Kind of. I don't wanna say as a predictor because who knows what's the cause or the effect, but it aligns with your party politics. No after this election in November of this year more than eighty percent something like eighty five percent or more of the Republicans in the house of representatives are going to be white males more than eighty five percent of the Republicans in the house of representatives are going to be white males. How many white males are there? Among the democratic caucus in the same body in the house of representatives that number is going to fall below forty percent as. Fascinating that we have kind of two things going on in this country when it comes to place, you know, there's this urban is aviation where you have a lot of young people moving to cities and moving to urban areas. Well, the same time we have a lot of older voters who are the exactly the kinds of people who moved out of cities during the race riots. And you have all this white flight. I grew up in a place where you have already have multiple languages on on ballots where you know, they're in queens in flushing, queens particular. I mean, you know, what is this huge South Asian population? They're very few white people and it used to be a largely white area. And now, I mean is just not at all. I mean, there's no English on the on a lot of the business signs. And in the end the downtown portion and a lot of the people in Long Island are people who left because they didn't like what was happening with the demographic change, and now that that's sort of happening in different. Parts of the country UC, President Trump firing up a lot of the white grievance that some of those folks have feeling like it's getting closer to them. I do think that when we talk about that were tribalism which a lot of people will take issue with that word. I think when you talk about people kind of dividing up and voting either we don't know whether because of race or or voting along racial lines. I think you you you also have to take very seriously that a lot of people when they're involved in politics, and they're talking about politics. They're talking about things that they feel like are threats to their lives. So if you are a black person, and you are concerned about police brutality and things like this. These are life or death situations. And so you feel like you are going to align with a party that is going to do the most to protect you. And another party that you feel like may not be protecting. You like your life could be on the line. I think sometimes it can be minimalized like, oh, well black voting for Democrats. They are reasons and rational reasons, why people may vote the way they do. And some of it is that they feel that their that their issues. That need to be addressed. And have to be addressed see no one thing that we cannot ignore is that we're living in a time with social media where we can access and see so many different points of view put also increasingly avoid, those points of view, right, and sort of just reinforce what we already think. And I I don't know that we can really have this conversation about civility without talking about social media and technology and the role that that is playing in in just the overall tone of our politics social media heightens tensions because people get on social media. And it's like, you are trained to say your point of view, not care about what anyone else thinks and basically to kind of it's it's so different from face to face interactions. You don't have to be polite. You can just tell someone. I'll I don't want to hear what you have to say that stupid or whatever you can black the. And you can't do that easily real life. Yeah. Exactly. And so when you're behind a computer screen, people get really bold and talk the way, they would never talk. If they were facing someone in person, many people have compared to thousand eighteen to that other tumultuous year fifty years ago nine hundred sixty eight and one of the biggest issues of that year. Perhaps the overwhelming issue was the Vietnam war, which was real to people as no war had ever been before. Because television was taking us to the war every single night on the evening news. They called it the living room war and that had a tremendous effect on the antiwar movement and on people's sense that it was futile. And the scent also just of helped bloody and destructive. It was for the Vietnamese. Well, as of course, for our men, and it was overwhelming the sense that technology had changed. This key issue of war and peace, and now, I think with technological changes of our time. This course, just the way we. Encounter, politics, and each other has fundamentally changed because of technology. So Ron you were just talking about nine hundred sixty eight and that was a year of our history that was really turbulent in terms of racial strife, and you know, that was fifty years ago at this point. And so I'm curious if you have some thoughts, I mean, we inevitably as a country did move on from that point. So are there lessons learned that? Could maybe be instructive for where we are right now with our politics. Absolutely. The that was a terrible time of tumult and racial rioting in our major cities. It was a presidential election year in which one of the candidates for president was. After winning the California primary and Martin Luther King's assassinated in that same welter of violence that we went through in the spring of nineteen sixty eight it was a terrible year in many respects. However, if you go back over what happened in the years after you can find terrible things that happened. You can find enormously heartening things that happen. Whole lifetimes of good and bad happened after nineteen sixty eight and as a body politic. We've probably came to a greater understanding of each other. We probably came to at least some degree of progress with respect to all of these divisions. That this is not to say they've been radicalized. And now as we've learned they can be brought back to the four. They can be excited again, they can be aggravated and they can be agitated again. But we did learn. Lyle took awhile and not everything got better after nineteen sixty eight not everything got worse after nine hundred sixty eight we went on. And we in many respect we found our way to resolutions on many issues ain't talking about the sixties my father, my uncle and aunt they all grew up. They grew up in Newark in the sixties. So they lived through. So I've heard my uncle tell stories about the riots, and they were in the projects tanks pointed out of the project. I hearing the stories about it. And how the chaos of it. I was I was shocked, but I would also say that. There's a sense of. Well, we got through those times there are people that didn't get through those times. And and from my uncle he always talks about how out of his neighborhood his friends. He's won a him and his best friend are like one of the only ones that are left the rest of the. Yeah. And he's he's turning sixty five this year. They did not survive. So I think that we have to be very mindful when we talk about these issues in these tough times that people go through that you don't just get through it. Some there are casualties there. Are there is suffering in that? I do think that in all plausibility, if even if we look at history, there's a high likelihood that things will get worse that they could get worse before they even get better. And look we see these demographic shifts are going to happen down the road, and you can make the argument that until these demographic shifts are actually reality will continue to see this tension because it's going to be under the surface and is still going to keep like is a constant simmer for a number. Of years, it could potentially be with all that happened in nineteen sixty eight and all of the awful memories. That people carry we have tried as a country to come to terms with some of the things that happened then and and tried to expiate to some degree of for the loss of all the people who did not survive and among other things Martin Luther King's birthday is now holiday and when in the nineteen sixties when he was when he was assassinated. I think is is one way to put it a Martin Luther King was regarded widely in the United States as an agitator many in the F B. I thought he was a communist he was in many people's view gunned down by that attitude by people who thought he needed to be taken out of. And that was not just a fringe attitude. There were great number of people who felt that way about him. And today he is revered among the great heroes of American life. He is honored on the National Mall in a way that very few people are and that shows that at least some lessons. Have been learned since nineteen sixty eight. Here's the thing that I keep coming back to you know, when you're in this kind of era of volatility where you have to parties and people within the country feeling like they have to very different views of what it means to be an American, and what they want America to be in the near to mid, you know, distant future. The one thing that we all have and agree on for the most part is that we have the right to vote and our elections are happen. And you have a peaceful transfer Trent peaceful transfer of power to from one party to another one things change, you know, when you look at the heart of democracy that really is the heart of democracy. And when people try to talk about, you know, whether or not we're lurching toward autocracy or something different. That's we're not there. We're not some banana Republic. And if people like what the direction that President Trump is taking the country they can vote for that. And. Continue to do. So and you have to respect that when it comes to the will of people, and if people don't like it in this country who have the power to change it. Well, that brings us to election night next Tuesday. And as a heads up, you can hear NPR's live coverage of election night from your phone. You can start to hear that Tuesday night at eight PM if you hit play on the NPR one app and follow the instructions to tap your screen. It'll take you to live coverage after the newscasts many of us here on NPR politics podcast team will be there. Live with results. Okay. Well, we are going to take a quick break. And we'll be right back with can't let it go. Support for this podcast and the following message come from role with Google digital skills are becoming more and more important in today's economy. That's why grow with Google is providing free online training and tools to help Americans. Learn the skills they need to succeed. Learn more about grow with Google and get started by visiting Google dot com slash grow Olympic gymnastics. Doctor Larry Nassar, abused hundreds of women and girls for more than twenty years before he was caught here. How a team of women brought down a serial sexual predator believed a new podcast from Michigan radio and NPR and we're back, and we're going to close this show. Like, we always do by talking about the one thing that we just cannot stop thinking about politics or otherwise Aisha would you like to start? Yes. So this week was Halloween happened and one of my. Favorite celebrities that people listen to the pod, we'll know is beyond say, and she did different costumes, but the favorite costume shit like a costume change. Yeah. She does some costume changes. But the one that I really liked was she did Toni Braxton, she basically, she called herself phony Braxton, and she had like the short Toni Braxton here and this went from Toni Braxton's first album, she did like another set the cover of another sad love song, which was hunting. Braxton's first album, which was the first album that I ever knew word for word. And I definitely know another sad love song. But I'm not going to sing it but first comes to strings than somebody screams. Have you seen this picture, by the way, she she looks here? Good job. To manage to make yourself look beautiful. It was an Antoni Braxton gave her props for it. And was like, you're never phony. Never Brexit owned the ninety s right on break, my heart. Was like the anthem at all like my high school. Now, she is the legend living legend, Toni Braxton's, I just thought it was great to see like the melding of like two of my favorite different generations generations different times in my life. So nice. It's a nice non when I went for Halloween. This year is Ron. The different generation. Strange when you came to my house. All right. That's awesome. Dominica you want to go next. Sure. Speaking of Halloween sparingly, something that one member of the Senate can't let go is the fact that he that people confuse him for the zodiac killer. And of course, everyone knows that's Ted Cruz. Not that Ted Cruz is the zodiac killer, but he's happy to lean into into that. And he tweeted out, you know, whatever combination of coded letter. You know that said happy Halloween, and he just tweeted that out. So you know, he's trying to lean into it. But it's a little bit like my dad's on Facebook. Because because it's like, you know, it's like a joke where people are doing it because they're making fun of him everyone to embrace right? Not known for being like the most like commerce little Fender likable, right? Like people complain about Ted Cruz that way. So maybe he's trying to show a lighter side of himself. So soon. He didn't tweet out the costume. I mean is was addressed as I don't. I don't know what he looks like. All right. Well, I'm going to go next. And I cannot let go of blacks it. Oh. Says is an abbreviation the blacks at fallout the simple. The simple. Folks, that don't know blacks, it is an abbreviation of the phrase black exit, and we are talking about this pretty much because of one man who if you listen to this podcast, you know, that we cannot let him go because we bring him up all the time, and that is kind. Yay. West. So Konya tweeted out earlier this week that he did not take credit for designing these blessed t shirts. So there were these t shirts going around through turning points. USA? It's this conservative group that had basically the goal of it was to urge black people to leave the Democratic Party. Right. That's what the the theory is behind blacks it. So can you took to Twitter, and he said, I never wanted any association with Brexit. I have nothing to do with it. But then he added a sort of more interesting tweet, he said, my eyes are now wide open. And now realize I've been used to spread messages. I don't believe in. I am distancing myself from politics and completely focusing on being creative three exclamation marks. He's. Running winning. Kindly out into the towns on out. I think some people were saying that the t shirts, and they were kind of really basic in like nothing. Yeah. The design and so he was like I can't handle parts of that. That's amazing. All that is like a bad design on the low. Yeah. I mean, the design struck me when I first looked at it. I was like the the the X looks like a cross between like a really like Chinatown knock off Air, Jordan logo. And like, and like, maybe the United way, you know. It was like what is this? Thing and Candice Owens. Turn behind that. And so she's like taking flow of responsibility for this. And saying that it this is just about her. She's not about it's not about because President Trump. We don't know if he knows about what happened with ganja and what he did. But he was asked about Kanye yesterday. And he said he's he's a good guy. So he doesn't seem to feel like there's a fallout. All right. We'll ride why don't you close things up for us? I think it's time for something really serious. If we turn our eyes to the south Shetland islands part of Antarctica. There is a. Like, it's just like to know where this is. Well, I've worked on this. It's the Belling shows in research station, and it is actually a Russian not German facility and the Russians who are there. You know, there's not a lot to do at the station in the south Shetland. And so they have a library. They have books, and they have a certain number of books, and they read them, and apparently it's really important to the people who are reading them that they be left undisturbed, and this one particular individual's name is Sarah gate was reading books and being interrupted in a sense by having one of his colleagues there tell him the ending. Oh, you're reading that. What? It turns out of and she is not that at all. And and surrogate got a little upset about this. And. Stabbed his colleague. This this and. Extreme and all has been evacuated to Chile where he's apparently recovering in a hospital is going to be ok does it. Does it? Turned himself into the director of the station and has been repatriated to Saint Petersburg and arrested and charged with attempted murder. So is there not like an argument that he's trying to make that you know, there are some. Grievance that, you know, telling you, you know, spoilers sudden, I'm not an attorney. I'm not an attorney but justified so the guy is justified homestore. But he didn't kill the guy. The temple. So that's right. But, but I think when you stab somebody it is regarded as at least an attempt to do the form. So if you stab them is it not an attempt to do me harm. When I when you give away the ending. That's what I wore. I think it's I think it's a warning to everyone that spoiler alerts can be taken very seriously. All right. Well that is it for now. I must Mahala political reporter. I'm Sharon go. I covered the White House. I'm Dominican Montenero political editor, and I'm Renova editor correspondent and thank you. For listening to NPR politics podcast. 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Episode 130 - Diane Warren

Sodajerker On Songwriting

37:06 min | 2 years ago

Episode 130 - Diane Warren

"Hello and welcome to episode one hundred thirty up. So the around songwriting, this is Brian. Hey with my trusty co host Simon and joining us today veritable one woman factory one of the most prolific and successful American songwriters in history. Who's list of chievements is simply mind boggling, she's a Grammy. Emmy, Ivan Avello and Golden Globe winner and inductee of the songwriters hall of fame and the Hollywood walk of fame. She's a six time ask up songwriter of the year and four-time billboards songwriter of the year, she scored nine number ones and thirty two top ten on the billboard charts and written songs for the likes of selene theon Aerosmith Cher, Barbara Streisand. Leeann rhymes Whitney Houston beyond say lady Gaga, Willie Nelson Toni Braxton Paloma faith pet shop boys. Jennifer Hudson and many many more. We are on it to welcome the own impeachable. Diane Warren to the show Dan joins us from real songs HQ on Sunset Boulevard in LA. And it was a tremendous. Privilege to speak to and let's face it. No songwriting podcast archive with its salt is truly completes without the contribution. From diane. Is it setting the isn't and then on earth. Dan's infamously, old school demoing process were actually recording this show on a cassette on we. Yeah. We found an old TDK nineteen in the back of a covert taping. Over a Rick Dees weekly top forty from nineteen ninety one and someone broken off the tap. So we have to sell tape over it. So. Yeah. Watch out forbid of. Wow. And flutter on this episode. Diane was born in nineteen fifty six in van Nuys California, though, not musical themselves. If I'm leaky music listeners and Diane prove no difference. She listened to top forty radio almost obsessively developing a particular low for Motown, and especially the Beatles show also showed an unusual interest in the songwriting credits on assistance, forty fives and their parents Recco collection. Byron of I am was quite rebellious child who considered school little more than irritating distraction from music, she took up guitar wrote. Their first song around the age of ten but started writing safely in it. Teens currently she was produced an average of three songs day in the garden shed father was especially encouraging a Beijing talents. And so it's demonstrate hair was various publishes offices and some writing showcases. She briefly attended college spent more time writing songs than studying Dan's hardware, eventually paid off. And she became a staff writer at our STA scoring fast. Hit in one thousand nine hundred three with a lyrical contribution to loader Branagan's. Solitaire two years latest their first bona fide self composed hit rhythm of the nights for the barge on. It's safe to say she hasn't looked back since just a few of the own forgettable pop smashes she's penned over the years. Nothing's gonna stop us now for starship, if a pretend by time share I don't wanna miss a thing for Aerosmith on break, my heart for Toni Braxton, how do I live and conflict the moonlight fully on rhymes? And because you love me for something the several those moving those came from. I mean, that's no fluke down was the first song writer in the history of Bilbo magazines have seven. Hits on the singles charts at the same time by different artists and music has also appeared in the soundtracks over sixty films, and as this chap was recorded in early December twenty eighteen she was hoping to become a ten time Oscar nominee wasn't she yet? And we're happy to say that as we record this in late January twenty nineteen the Oscar nominations have just been announced and Diane has indeed being nominated for song. I'll fight as performed by Jennifer Hudson on the soundtrack to the roof may begins beg documentary. Our BG fingers crossed Diane can finally lift that hacks and take home the coveted gold statuette as well as enviable songwriting gifts. August also possesses considerable business savvy less than satisfied with the times of f s publishing deal. She wants to extricate yourself from it and sets a pair own company real songs in one thousand nine hundred six which is gone on to be one of the most successful publishing businesses in the music industry to hear a selection from Diane's vast back catalogue checkouts Spotify playlist for this episode had to so Jack dot com slash podcast. Click on downs page. Dj you'll find the link beneath the episode player official website is real songs dot com. So head there for all the latest news. You should also follow her on Twitter at Diane on the score. Warren. I think air bio simply says songwriter bitches. Stay in touch with that. So Jack dot com. Facebook dot com slash soda Jacka. And at so dejected on Twitter and Instagram, if you're not already subscribe to the show on podcasts, we recommend you do. So in order to receive new episodes in your feet, fresh out of the oven with also appreciate it. If you take a moment to leave us, a nice review and racing to keep those prominently featured on help with us define the if you like to choke couple of quick way to help with the running costs of the show. He can do that. So dejected dot com slash donate. No pressure. But if things carry on the way, they go in we will have to consider selling the Bentley before we move on many. Thanks to. Mario Kyle Julie. And all of the real songs team for their help in setting up the interview. Okay, here we go, please. Enjoy our chat with the undeniable. Diane, warren. The. You chew will Wade. Zoo. You can. The. Hi, diane. Hi, hey, how are you? Thank you. I'm good. I'm good Sean key for doing this. No, my pleasure. We're really delighted to get to you think you've been on all wishlist since they want. Oh, wow. All right. You've had some pretty good people on here though. Oh, yeah. Holy grails. Really? So no pressure. My head's gonna get big. Yeah. I hope I don't let you down which I probably will. Have we you on a day when you're going to be doing some writing you caught me right in the middle of writing a song? Right. Yes. I'm always writing. What is it you working on right now? That's a secret. I don't give away my secrets so will typically take care of admin stuff fast to sort of make this face for being creative. Well, I mean to me, it's you know for the songs, right? So I might work with an artist or have a meaning or like I'm gonna have a meeting in about an hour. You know after I'm done with you. And then I'm gonna go back, and right, and I'm gonna work out. And I'm gonna meet with another artist was a a UK artist actually named Antigone who's great who just did a song of mine. I'm gonna meet with her later. Let's my day today. Writing and doing all this Seattle exciting. Is actually meeting with Paul Stanley of kiss. Right. So there you go a u k kind of blue eyed soul artist to Paul Stanley from kiss the song with kiss many years ago. Didn't you? Yeah. We've done stuff perform he's you know. He's a good front. He's an old friend of mine toe. So it's going to come by. It's interesting that you can still work that much time for writing into any given day, you know, even as the head of the real songs empire as it were. Yeah, it's all about writing songs. So I don't let anything I really don't let anything get in the way that you know, I got into work about coordination today, and I just got right to work. So it's not like, I I'm just writing for ten hours straight or something. I don't know if I could do that. So I I have certain distractions, you know, and then I get right back on is it mainly piano and guitar that you'll typically start with rather than words on the page. Yeah. I mean, I tried with bagpipes and it just hard to sing and play hit this. I'm just kidding. You know, mainly keyboards and guitar which I played both. Pretty badly. But I can write on them. Do you still have to the X seven plan around? I do I have my deck seven. Yeah. I love it. Did you ever play through any of the classics on that? Or you always moving forward. I'm always moving forward. I'm always like onto the next thing. Even something I wrote like a week ago is old to me ready. So I'm like always always onto the next thing is the right in room still kind of based around the way with cassettes. Yeah. So use cassettes. I still use a walkman I still use cassettes. I think they're cool again or something I think that's kinda like all the cool kids use cassettes. But you know, I was never a cool kid, but I never stopped using cassettes. Maybe I'm a cool kid now. Do you find the help you be more productive because when we spoke to, but so Sullivan allow he said that he was buying up old cassette machine on EBay because e found that it was just easier to rewind and get his ideas. That's I'm like that too. Like, I know how to use them, you know, I don't have to worry about. And if you recording on your phone, and you press some button or something else sudden all that good shit. You're working on is gone. You know, so I kind of feel the same way. Like, I've just been always using the cassettes and a walkman, you know, I've got a bunch of walkman all over the place. But obviously my studio is a little bit. You know, we don't use cassettes here. Yeah. To make records. Thank god. So once you happy that song as written will you then move over to one of his studios to kind of flesh out into more of them that you can present to try to. But I'm really backlogged. There's a lot of things I should be demoing that I just go on to the next song so quick and some I forget about the songs and someone will remind me what about that's I'm like oh fuck. I was like really great song. Why'd I forget about that. You know? And then I'll make me remember. And make me bring it back to life and the right way should just hand up. Cassettes? Just tell people to find themselves woke with. Yeah. You know, why not go back to old school ways? Just kidding. Probably won't do that. I can actually send an MP three your approach to the craft hasn't really changed much over the year knows. No, no, my coach the craft is the same. You know? It's is trying to raise a really great song. You know, you have to stay with the times. And there's certain ways of saying something that you just have to keep musically. Current and you had that so of concept for yourself as a teenager it. Seems you pretty much always knew you were going to devote your life to think. Oh, yeah. I always knew I no doubt. This is where I was gonna do. Yeah. It makes all the difference. I suppose having the supportive parent to to kinda by the vast guitar or whatever. Yeah. Yeah. My dad was really, supportive and. Yeah, that that first Qatar was a big deal. You know, I taught myself piano. Tom I self out of play. Valley, but you know, taught myself cords, and so yeah, it it, you know, it helps, but you know, what it's basically about believing in yourself, even if everybody else told you you couldn't do it. You know, nothing's going to change you or stop you, you know, and that's kind of always been my my way of doing things. And by the way, it's still my way of doing things, you know, no, one can still stop me when I believe in something. There's a lot of artists. You could ask ask Paloma faith with only love can hurt. Like this ask share with turn back time. You know, there's a lot of stories feeling Hugh kind of solve a Brill building style. Sung writes in. You know, you go to the office every day. And just yeah. I feel like I am carrying on that tradition. The kind of cubicle going to my cubicle going to work and just you know, showing up and doing the work. So yeah, I'm kind of like a modern throwback to that era. You know, we've enjoyed listen to I'll fight. Thank you so much. I think that's probably you most recent future Ruskin. I'm hoping hoping that would be great. You know, you could be number ten right? I've lost nine times. But you know, it's still pretty cool to be nominated nine times. And Jennifer Hudson's amazing. I think the ten times only the job. I mean, you never know. You know, I it's always great to be nominated. I know that's a cliche. But it is. You know, it's great to be in the look. I mean, there's you know, hundreds of songs every year in movies. So we know when they pick five. You're one of them. You know, it's pretty awesome. So yeah, I'm hoping again, I take it that song just came out daily routine. Like the songs, it's all beckoning inspired. Right. You know, I got inspired with this movie, and with Bayer Ginsburg in wanting to write a song that's about about ask woman who fights for you know, she's very important in our country. You know, she needs to live forever. She's eighty five but she fights for us. You know, she fights for women's rights, and it's kind of scary time in in this country and in the world, really. But with this I want, you know, just like my right any song for a movie, I wanted to be whatever you want it to be about. You know, you could be singing the song to your friends your kids, or your parents or your loved ones, you know, or people that are going through hard times that you know, you'll fight for them. So. So was the song actually designed for that project. Usov knew exactly what it was going to be about beforehand. Yeah. Was again, I try to keep it open. Like when I did stand up for something which was -ironically about another supreme court judge Thurgood Marshall, I the thing was court judges. But like I did that sound for that movie as well. But it became larger than that. They did a on stand up for cancer. These that song for the highlight where all the survivors came on stage. And so the sun that wasn't really even written for that became about that. Right. So I guess what? I mean is like the songs can become whatever you want them to be even if they're designed for something particular. That's the beauty of that this because you loved me was up close and personal in in someone dies, and it became a wedding song and one of the biggest wedding songs guesses. Lots of songs overtime that. We've known off of being reinterpreted in that way to the things that went really designed for. Yeah. They get their own lives. You know, which is really cool, which I love about these songs and music's powerful. I wrote the song till happens to you that lady Gaga did a few years ago. Another nominated song another nominated losing. But that song helped start the metoo movement because nobody was talking about sexual assault. But music carries a message. You got a lot of people talking that weren't talking before. So into to have a song that is that powerful pretty cool. How it is an incredibly powerful song Inca. Do you take extra special care with the words when you dealing with a difficult subject Lecter, I always take care with the words. You know? I mean lyrics are the hardest thing for me, by the way. In speaking lady Gaga, I the song call why did you do that? Yeah. And it's commonly known as the but song. Because I went from till happens to you to the but song so have variety. I like the repetition in the chorus in that one. It's really insistence, isn't it? Yeah. I did too hypnotic as really cool. I really liked that song. There was all this stuff on the internet was supposed to be written to be a bad songs. I know it was written and be a fun pop song. There's nothing wrong with the fun. Pop song about butts. That's done the stars Boone soundtrack, isn't it? So. Yeah. The massive movie. Yeah. And I did a song in creed to that just came out artists. Artis you Ella. Mae who's great. I did a really cool song called love me. Like that them really excited about help. They put it out as a single. I think it's a hit. So yeah, I do a lot of songs and movies. And it's interesting this year because it's so many different kind of artist's songs like like Willie Nelson did the song of mine and a movie called the last movie star song called to get here. That was pretty cool and having Willie Nelson, call me and ask me. Hey, is it okay? If I record that song. Just ask me is it. Okay. So I had Willie Nelson doing a song to lady Gaga to Jennifer Hudson to Ella. May that's different as a cats right for radically different artists. It makes it interesting. Spots. This is. We had them Albert Hammond on the show a few years, Albert Hammond. Yeah, he's done some great songs together. And he's like the best. He's one of my best friends really talked about that you were writing to script for mannequin when he came. Enough is enough is now. Yeah. How do we get inspired by a guy fucking mannequin? The weirdest things can create songs, but yeah, that was like a long time ago, but that kind of became a classic. Did you write the dream about me for that movie? I did I wrote that myself. Yeah. A great one as well. Yeah. Thank you. Did anybody ever hear that's on in the move? Yes. I probably grew up which could spend all night in a department store with Kim control. So right, right. Hopefully when she came alive. Happy to be of service. You guys also don't tend around together. Yeah. Yeah. We did. Yeah. You must've worked really well together. Did you just click from the start with Albus? Yeah. You know, I mainly written by myself. But Albert one of the few people, you know, that we we wrote together. And we wrote, you know, some really good songs. I think he said I love I on she's weird. But I love I think that was. We're but we're both weird. That's why we got along. I'm proud of my weirdness. But I definitely prefer like we're on my own. That's more my thing. But you know, I learned a lot from Albert, you know, Albert has this beautiful simplicity. I always loved keep it simple. So when it comes to these songs, which means so incredibly memorable. Do you tribute your ability to do that mainly to your f- in you discipline? No, do you think the some kind of ability that you've got to carve outs? Great chew. That's just gonna mean. You'll to eight it's talent, you know. I mean, I think you're born with the ability and talent. And it's what you do with that ability. That defines how good you become or how good you are. And that's hard work. That's putting in the time in the, you know, Malcolm glad well was he say the ten thousand hours I've put in ten million dollars. There's truth to that. You know? I mean, I think you have an ability to do something. But you have to work in Olympic athlete. Right. They I mean, if you're you know, Michael Phelps you have to be born with certain abilities. How he's built or whatever. I don't know if I'm making any. But if you want to do anything in any sport FIFA tell you probably not gonna be great basketball players something. But but you know, what I mean? But if you if you built that way, and then you put in the time in the discipline and the effort, and you have that little special something, then you can go all the way. But answer a question. Like, yeah. I think I was born with talent. And I've worked very hard to work at my town. I know you've said in the past that yield typically spend about week on a song book. Yeah. Sometimes how much of that time is spent on the melody vantage, the weds or the arrangement the time spent on the lyrics the other day, I work all day on two lines. And they were important I could've settled, and I just didn't want to because the songs too good. So I'll I'll do all spend the day. I'll spend two days on one line. Wow. So there's lots of revisions jury not weaken. I'm revising as I'm writing an any of the songs just kind of happened in an hour. And then you roll finished on Monday parts of them. Will you know? It's like parts of them are really super easy. And then all of a sudden that one little bridge or that one second. I I just I get stuck on. Right. I need a couple of days just to make the first versus great. How do I make the second versus great? And it takes work. You know, I don't settle. I just want everything to be great. Whether it is or not. No, no. I think you've said that most of you right in is is more intuitive. Rather than a technical? Yeah. It's intuitive. Yeah. But you must be a dictionary. By now. I mean, I don't know. You know, I I don't think about it. I just do it just do what I do think Roanoke in the UK. We probably got exposed to send songs of your small than others you work with share. Or we seemed huge here. Not only ten time. All this love and understanding, for instance. Yeah. Those I love that song. We look that one. Yeah. Yeah. That was that was a big hit in the UK huge over here. It seemed really popular. Yeah. And it's just such a fascinating Choon as especially in the chorus. What do you want to hear a funny story, please? She wouldn't come back to sing the song. There was still. There was a couple of walls every in the second verse. And so I did them has her. So the second. I yeah. That is. And not share. And she never knew that. Now, the secret's out full. No that wasn't her on her own record. It was like a little Milli Vanilli moment which. Yeah. I love that song. And you wrote one for them as well. I I did blame it on the rain. Yeah. Yeah. And I was proud of it. I'm proud of. That's on a really cool song didn't share saying one for you recently for the cries from Syria. Phil. Yes, she sang really great song called prayers for this world. And she loved the song or else she wouldn't have done that. She never does something. She doesn't want to do. But she loved the song. And then she goes now, I don't sound good on it. I don't want to come out. I'm like, what are you talking about? Like, I mean, you know, it was like the twentieth song I'd done with her. And that was like a better vocal than some of the other songs we've done. So I didn't get it. So, but she wouldn't let it be released which made me crazy. Yeah. I mean alongside the shares the governor through Diane Warren play list who is soil. So when the Michael Bolton on how can we be lovers? I ended that deal there. Yeah. That was huge of wasn't. That was actually big here as well. You know, Michael, I did a lot of songs for Michael. He's a great singer. He really people are unfair to him critics and stuff, but he he's fantastic singer. And I did time Levin tenderness for him. I love you know, how he did that song. You know, we we wrote some stuff together. And he always did songs. I wrote which was you know, when he loved the song. He didn't care. The course is just cast-iron on those on. Yeah. I like those I like those kind of choruses here worms. On steroids. The thing is we've been talking about role of very distinctive do you ever rights with an artist voice in mind or Iranian to write something that anyone could sing more that? I mean, more like all I just want to write a great song, you know, and not make it for just one artist that can limit the song. So I just try to the the best I can write. And then all kind of think, oh, this could be right for whoever foam all come to mind. I was always intrigued by the of on break, my heart for that reason. It starts quite low doesn't it? Yeah. It's a range as fuck the heart's on this thing. Did you know in advance the Toni Braxton could handle that massive span or was that just you right in? It was just me writing it and hoping somebody could do it. And I thought it would be a good song for Tony. And I brought to Clive and she didn't wanna do it. But then she did it, and then you have to she did it. She didn't want on album. But then she could Clive made her and then it became the biggest hit our. And she'll sing it for the rest of her life. And yeah that worked out it's interesting, isn't it? How many people reject songs that end up paying signature my God. And you just hope that they're someone saying around them to go. No, you need to do this. So I got lucky with that. I remember those dance remix that was a big hit. I convinced Clive to do that. He didn't want to. He thought it would hurt the the value the song by doing that. And I told them remember the Donna summer records. Yeah. Start house Balas Immingham. So I suggested that and he was against it. And then he went along with it. And then there was a really cool version that started out as a ballot. And then went into a dance version. I love that one as well. But it became a massive it almost like became two hits because the dance one was just as big as the ballot. That was awesome. I kinda demonstrates the strength. The song doesn't it when it can work in those contexts. Yeah. That's what I try to do. My songs. I I like the fact that you can just do whatever you want with them like they're just because they're built really well. So you can fuck. With them. Anyway, you want if you just flip them and just yeah. I mean, that's the kind of songs I try to write to be honest. The office that you rightful tend to try and customize the songs to their own needs. When they record them. They do then they make them their own, right? I mean by having me changed lyrics. Every thing not really a couple of occasions. Like, hey, do you mind if I say, it this way here change a couple of words or something and a lot of times my songs are really wordy? So sometimes I'll take a couple of out, you know. So I'm pretty wordy, but they're also kind of mathematical perfect. Your songs, aren't they? So thank you. I wonder how anyone could take with them and not kind of stop destroying them, almost you know. Yes. Sometimes it's like that's too hard to do without eco just keep trying, and if you could really master it's going to be right. You know? And by the way, I failed math. So. Anything with math. I don't know. But I get it. Yeah. They're they're built that way. So, but sometimes, you know, maybe I'll have a word to manager or something like that. So I know most of you wear is doing alone. But there are many of your songs sung by sorts of rock bands like cheap trick and case. And I was cooped, Pat and Aerosmith. Yeah. Of course, Aerosmith's biggest hit with anonymous thing. Yeah. Is there any kind of collaboration on the Gauchet shin? That goes on this get those kind of arts some both the song. I mean, usually they just do my song. You hope you don't put someone's name on it or something. But that's happened. Even if I wrote something, but you know, it doesn't happen. Too much. We had Paloma faith on recently. You mentioned just before you only can have like this. Of course, her biggest hit two great title that one. Isn't it? I think thank you. It's a great way of just thinking about a concept that we all know about low of obviously sleep. But you find these new ways to kinda talk about say was that one? Let's start with the title. Yeah. That one start with the title. I and was just playing chords with it. And it just kinda wrote itself. And I just knew it was a great side note who would do it. And I have a bunch of songs like that. Someone played me Paloma. I was like oh my God. That's who only love can hurt. Like, this is meant force. I met with her. And she was like, no, I'm not gonna do anybody in. I told her about Sasha's. I don't wanna do anybody song. I write my own songs. I'm like, we'll keep an open mind, man. You know, you go back to England, you know, played on the phone to you, you know, and I sang it to called her, and she wasn't really happy to hear from me. And I sang the song, and she hung up on me. But she mail me back going. That's the best. Hi, ever heard new cont? Booking my flight. And then she came out, and we did the record. And you know, she ended up winning the Brit for it and became her career song. Perfect Gokul perfect record. You know, one of my favorites, actually. Just thinking about the titles like only can hit like this. I mean on break, my heart is another fantastic title. Isn't it really it seems so but you actually managed to coined that phrase almost if you I mean, that's the beauty of getting it. Right. It's like something that you've heard a million times. But you just flip it a little bit. You know and just say in a different way that no one's are. That's always cool. That's always amazing to be able to do. Of course, the the classic kind of Diane Warren paradoxes that you're not that interested in intending your own life, upside down with romance drama know, who has time for that. Yeah. I'd rather not have to deal with it. I like my own company. You know, I'm not that interested in being with another human being, I'm happy my cat. My cat. Hang out, my best friend. You know, I got friends and stuff. I just I don't need to. Yeah. I don't feel like I need to even though I write these really romantic songs on in the middle of one right now, that's really romantic, but it wouldn't be what I would do. But that doesn't mean. I don't feel it when I'm writing. I do. Yes. So you're almost kind of embodying characters when you right? Yes. Like method acting like method songwriter. You know? That's a great quote. I think him I don't wanna miss a thing is probably the ultimate example of isn't it your ability to transcend, your own nature and just right in the mazing -ly aspirational of sung. Yeah. 'cause I don't really want to hear someone breathe all night. I don't really want them to hear listen to me breathe all night to. I mean that way isn't it? Kind of cynical cynical romantic? The work that you do produce. I take it. You've got a pretty well developed sense of whether something is going somewhere when you working on it, and you can kind of Nixon idea fairly early on. If you don't feel like it's happening. Yeah. Or I'll stay with it. Yeah. It's always depending on what what I'm working on to say, you sort of know, he's not where can you won't just kinda plow through till the end just for the sake of finish this. I've done that. Yeah. Uh-huh. And then, you know, I'm like, I'm not sure this is good. Then as it turns out to be really good. So you just have to get out of your own way. I guess the surprise is in the process on like mistakes that might lead you somewhere. Yeah. Exactly. Exactly. Happy mistakes in terms of you role. The Catholic still remember most of these songs that you've written the numbers now. So great now, I remember some of them love them. I don't and just some of them are really great. They just need to be re imagined and re worked in rearranged and stuff and some of them are just really good songs. I just I'm always onto the next one. So but even from the start the songs, which is so wrote both went the rhythm of the night is just as solid his pop song can get really isn't it that was just so Elia. Yeah. It's a really good song. That was really different for me. And it stands the test of time. You know? That's you know, if there's anything that I've always wanted to do is write songs it's down the test of time. And you know, I think these songs have and I think. Some of these new ones, I think like stand up for something's going to become like a standard already is showing signs of that. You know, that's always cool. You know, when the song can have other lives and in the last in some of these older songs too. It's interesting. How you spun John risen feels to you know. Yeah. Instance, how do I live is is kind of like a country standard, whereas the moonlight for the same office more tempo pop track, but they both. Well, exactly, they're both solid songs and proud of both of them can the moonlight hats, really, cool Keach hitches. I miss key changes. You know, it might sound really fresh to do a really cool keychain right now because everything is cyclical and comes back, maybe that one you working on now just needs the big modulation for the less course. Now this one I don't think needs it. No. But I mean, yeah, another one could just to do one pride. Probably like, maybe I shouldn't do that. It's interesting though. Isn't it every song? So of has to be structurally true to it self like the one you were on. Now, you already know that that doesn't need. Yeah. Yeah. I always say that every song is like its own country with its own laws. So yeah. That wouldn't work in the song at all, right? Well, it's been great. Listen to you talk about your process. Diane, thanks for sitting down with those. Yeah. Great talking to you. So I I wasn't out there. I'd like to come back at some point soon to the UK, it'd be nice, but I hate flying. She for ten hours. But it's been nice talking with you guys. And when I go over there will meet up or some or when you come here for abuse. Yeah. Thank you very much. Good look without fight. Thank you so much. Thank you fingers crossed. Thanks. Thing. No. The whole night. That was the inimitable Diane Warren talk continuous from real Sung's HQ, aka the house that rhythm of the night built such delights. Finally, get to speak to us. She's easily one of the most important and decorated songwriters in pop history. Isn't she? Yeah. I don't think it comes that easy to those it sitting down and talking about the process, she's such a do. But was so grateful that she took the time to reflect on some of them hits this, absolutely. She has been on our list since day one and a relentless shoe paid off in the end. Yeah. Yeah. It was funny before she came on that when we were talking to one of team all yet. Yeah. E started telling the stories behind Diane Sung's if he'd actually written them himself. So we had a bit of a laugh all come on. I we really got a sense of their work ethic and discipline, didn't we? Yeah. That's it. That's the bottom line. Really, isn't it? It's just a lot of blood, sweat, and tears. You know, as she said, she'll sometimes spend a couple of days on like two lines of lyric, which is establishing dedication. Yeah. Well, that's what kept her at the top of the tree for so long as oppose. Yep. So many thanks to Diane many, thanks against team it real Sung's Rolla tiptop help on the day. And we hope you enjoyed that little beacons the mind of one of our greatest songwriters. Okay. I guess it's time for us to own host this part. So we'll be back soon with another episode. Take care Bye-bye.

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Trending Mother's Day News

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Trending Mother's Day News

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The Return of Edge

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The Return of Edge

"If you don't know Sirius. XM THAN LISTEN UP Commercial Free Music Plus sports comedy talk and news. They have it all and right now you can get your first three months of Sirius. Xm outside the car for just US one dollar go to SIRIUSXM DOT com slash busted to see offer details and to subscribe offer available to new series. Xm streaming subscribers SIRIUSXM. No car required. This is the busted open podcast. You can listen to the full show Monday through Saturday from nine. AM to noon eastern on Sirius. Xm Channel One fifty six welcome to the busted open podcast. This is Dave La Greco. Today's episode so the innovator of violence the landlord of a house of Hardcore Tommy Dreamer I go back to the rumble and Monday night. Raw drew McIntyre wins the royal rumble. He's on the road to Wrestlemainia. Punched his ticket to Tampa Wrestlemainia. Thirty six time gives his take on drew winning the rumble. Also talk about edge edge. Return Tommy has a great take on the return of his friend edge. Plus we get into the attack from Randy or in on Monday night raw also love. We play a little audio from. WWe backstage with Christian talk about his friend edge and we talk about benedict fully. That's right our very own. Bully Ray on the bump going head to head the Wednesday morning. Moore's have begun right here on the busted open. Podcast we know. Our main ain't event for Wrestlemania thirty six brock listener and drew McIntyre. Yeah you had asked me. My favorite I said drew McIntyre aggie tire. You said like three of your favorites to win it and I don't forget I'm a real broadcaster. If I would've said Oh I wanted Keith. Lead a win like Siham punk punk did he or he who feel should win. You know it's like you know Sports Broadcasting Never admit when they're wrong or hey but you release were played the politically. They they were you pick three. I pig drew very very happy. That he wanted and Wrestlemainia we're on the road to Wrestlemania and already feels exciting. I thought it was a they. Did it up great with you know a lot of fans and myself yourself. We're talking about what they were going to do with brock listener coming in number one and and When drew came in and got rid of him the place exploded a really dead? And you're right about now being excited for Wrestlemainia thirty six because I gotta be honest before the Royal Rumble on Sunday. I didn't really have high hopes. Now I know the WWe always knows when the turn the light switch on and get you excited excited for something as big as Wrestlemainia. But I didn't know where they were going to get go. I just didn't have a lot of juice going in to the royal rumble but man coming out. I couldn't be more excited for Wrestlemainia thirty six in Tampa and I think this is a really good matchup between brock listener and drew McIntyre. I mean drew McIntyre is somebody when you see him in the ring facing somebody like brock it looks like a credible opponent and I can also see drew McIntyre beating brock listener at Wrestlemainia. Thirty six. I can also see this being a feud that continues for quite some time. I'm very excited about not just this but other things that we saw at the rumble on Sunday. Yeah Let me tell you drew. I was new drew when he first came up. in WWe. I had wrestled drew They were had big plans for him. a longtime ago. Remember he was kind of like the handpick chosen person and then that fell the wayside to the point where he was actually let go by. WWe And you you look at someone one who looks the way he looks but it was like go out there find yourself and I will. I was the one who got him hired here an impact wrestling. He had a nice nice little run from self but what he did was he went out there and he worked everywhere he worked over in the UK he he continued on this path to better her himself and then when he came back to wwe it was. I'll continue that path he got sidetracked with a little injury. But now you know they saw this this in him again and he hasn't led us down you know and that's through hard work and all that stuff going in and they're putting the rocket on him and hopefully it continues to Wrestlemainia wrestlemainia and Going into like I remember our broadcast from last week. We both were a little down on the royal rumble. Because we wanted wanted we expected some more but yes like we always say and bully Ray Says you know the the wrestler's will never let us down and a show like that really really good you could also tell by just the fans reactions and To the point of when edge returned they actually just sh- kept showing the fans reactions and they were missing his actual in rings to never never have ever seen like W W offer up alternative footage of edges return. Because maybe in the truck they were so excited to see what was going on and both royal rumbles gave us a lot of moments and going back to drew McIntyre for just a second. Tommy I mean you talk about maturing and he definitely has done that when they had that whole gimmick where he was the chosen one you know he was twenty three twenty four years old. That's going back to two thousand and nine for crying out loud like that's a lot to put on somebody buddy that young and I'm sure he's made some mistakes and maybe you know they could have done some better things with him as well and then he hit the bottom of bottoms. He was part of the ultimate gimmick with the three man band. And being part of that and like you said then moving on from the wwe and kind of read defining himself as you said with TNA with impact wrestling wrestling. And I think that really helped him a lot not only to the maturity level but also in rang. I mean when you look at drew McIntyre in ring his presence. It's completely different than what it was ten years ago. It's it's growing Point and it's it's growing up and growing growing up in the. WWe Is one thing but then losing or thinking your dream is over but they were also straight up to him and said go reinvent yourself self and he did that and then he came back news were rewarded and if you think about you know the whole three MVP Band that he was in If you WanNa talk talk about where. His career was someone who returned at the slam. Me's Tommy Dreamer defeated that team. And here's an outside person that doesn't work worked there with myself Alburto and ms we defeated him. So how low of lows are is your creative when Tommy Dreamer is coming in and scoring you you know and get the victory. They made me tag out but still But then he also talked about and he's talked about this his maturity level and appreciate it more and almost almost getting lazy and you know he's shown pictures of his body. Where a they're not doing anything with me? I'm not gonNA work out as hard. No that's when you have to work harder and and you know there's a guy out there who did pretty good from self as names the rockets out work everybody in the room. And you have to do things like that sometimes. And it's that competitive of nature that people it's hard to understand but it's that competitive nature where you just catch somebody's eye and you know boom. He's a made man in in Scotland now no matter what he does I mean he's won the royal rumble continued to hopefully be the face of the company. And if I'm looking at this match I enjoyed brock's performance. I saw something that I never thought I'd see and Brock Broccoli winded. And he wasn't you know out there for a long time if I'm using strategy if I'm drew McIntyre I'm going to try to match a lot longer who's brock look winded. Brock did not look like a guy who Was the Brock Leshner. Mister Monster towards you know I would say ten ten competitors in. And he wasn't doing a whole heck of a lot of wrestling. Who's doing a whole heck of a lot of eliminating but once a again man? When drew came in got rid of the place exploded was they said while we may see something new and hopefully that trend continues? It's going to Wrestlemainia. You know you mentioned brock and I wanna get I wanna get to brock in just a second because you said something. That's very interesting that I was thinking the same thing. When I saw him in the ring on Sunday but withdrew and him winning and now you know punching his ticket to Wrestlemainia being in that main event against brock? What do you think was going through? Drew's head in that moment because there had to be so much. Here's a guy who hit the lows left a wwe you know just before Wrestlemainia thirty three getting the phone phone call that he was going back to the wwe and being a part of annex t not knowing what the future was going to hold for him and then knowing that the company is one hundred percent behind you that they're putting you in a main event match at Wrestlemania and having you win the rumble. I mean what kind of moment do you think was that for. Ju What do you think might have been going through. Drew's head urine. I don't WanNA say your life flashes but it's so rewarding for your hard work Especially when you're in the WWE when You Know Bubba always says you know you're chasing the hug. There's so many times every debit every superstar wants to be champion. They really do and the reality is that not. Every single wrestler in the wwe will be champion and that's the predetermined termine part of professional wrestling. Someone else says hey. I want this person to represent my company but when we talk about moment there's all these like little little gratifying things like for me when you know I won the e C W Title I I remember I left the venue to go Out Side just to call my family and my daughter's like daddy like we're so proud of you and I really didn't win I didn't like beat up a man for tidal title but it was just like this such satisfying like wow they saw in me and you know we're talking about the super bowl with these people who are playing a game a real Game for their entire since their kids and they have their dream at their grasp and they can achieve it. If another but it's another person's job on the other side of the field who wants to achieve the same dream in wrestling. It's a little different but when you have that moment it's it's so satisfying like wow and to me. It's then my next goal is to win the title and then my next goal is I need those ratings to continue to we up there are so many and like I still make goals for myself. And I know there's rousers who were pre so determined to be the best and strive to be the best. And when I say it's predetermined the outcomes are but you know who it's not predetermined to the fans and that's why I always went out there and worked so so hard because no matter what minutes I had to go out there and perform I was going to bust my ass win. Loser draw mainly lose but so the fans could be entertained and that's our jobs but as a wwe superstar as an independent wrestler as a wrestler. That's what we do. If it's my job to make someone looked better because the company believes in them more cool because it was a real fight. Maybe I would have beaten up more than half the people that I wrestled. But that's not my job because if not I'd be in the UFC you know that's true and you mentioned that drew side of things talk about the company's side things like talk about the wwe making the decision. Go with drew McIntyre. Because you know to have you win the Royal Rumble and we've seen a lot of royal rumble of victims and Victor's. There's when it comes to the last couple of decades and if you really look at the list Alex mets and I did this Last week we kind of went through all the winners of the rumble. Like the last ten years not got a lot of surprise is not a lot of new names. You know a lot of the names that you've you know you've seen before this is completely out of left field because I think a lot of people pick. Nick drew McIntyre. But you would agree that this is kind of a leap of faith when it comes to the wwe talk a little bit about. Tommy like accompany getting behind hindes. Somebody like drew McIntyre because you know Roman would have been an easy choice randy or and would have been an easy choice but you know talk about the confidence level that they they have for drew to have him win the rumble and then being a main event match against brock listener. You're looking to sell a a stadium. You're looking for the poster. It's the main event. It's the marquee matchup that you're trying to bottom line. Sell Tickets Sell Network subscriptions and the paper views still exist cell pay per views. And if you're talking you made a great point two points one. You're talking about winners. The past if you looked at drew McIntyre and we talk about maturity. His work was not there. I was actually on the first ever live event that he was on against Jimmy. A young and Jimmy Yang knocked him the hell out and he had a severe concussion a long time ago. He didn't remember his name. He remembered anything and this was his first live event and it was Kinda like I don't WanNa say his fault but it was. He could have done something different to protect himself that maturity level when when you looked at the final four in that ring and wwe. When I it was beautiful it was actually like you got to experience what wrestling wrestling fans have clamored for a special deputy for a while? You can listen to the crowd when edge came in. And we'll talk about that but the rumbling but if you you look at those final four those final three were all names from the past and though Randy Orton is still on top of his game. Roman reigns Roman reigns. Means every Friday. Night is getting these amazing reactions. When Roman reigns came to the ring he was getting these amazing reactions? His match with Baron Corbin Great Match Atun amazing reactions and then all of a sudden when we had the final four. They're doing nothing on on. I talked about one of my favorite moments was Shawn michaels versus the undertaker undertaker in San Antonio and they're doing nothing after seeing twenty six men in that match four remaining and the fans. Start chanting. This this is awesome. And they're doing nothing because they're realizing wow how special we have the return of edge could edge and all these guys could be main eventers of Wrestlemainia and this is our our love and passion for professional wrestling and then when edge got rid of Randy all of a sudden when that was edge and Roman reigns. If you've listened to to the crowd the people then start chant booing because of like. Please don't go with Roman again. So here's a guy who we love a guy who battled back from cancer but then the fans are like. Oh wait a minute please. Don't give us again. We don't want to see this again. We don't want to see and the simple menace of them teetering on the Apron it was amazing storytelling storytelling and then finally when we got the false finishes or the false eliminations. What a wild ride took us on? It was a movie it was a perfectly written story and then the happy ending finally happened withdrew winning but if it was straight up listening and when we you know older wrestlers will tell you about out just listened to the audience or waiting timing. You all got to experience that live if you were there and as well as you're watching on the network kind of like a perfect setting or if you could be in the mind of Tommy Dreamer or of an edge or Randy Orton. A Roman reigns. It was like wow. This is like it was the closest I got to feeling something live watching because of the great storytelling that was being had Mike. What you're hearing catch busted open live Monday through Saturday from nine? Am To noon eastern eastern on Sirius Xm fight nation in one fifty six four on demand with this series Xm APP. I know you listen to this show intently but I know you've also also been very busy. Man I wanted to Rosa and actually what I want I get because it's the David Greco power rankings. So I had fun to rose at five. He thought it should be Jon on Moxley for winning a number one contender's match on Wednesday night. Don't you feel winning a championship. Trump's somebody winning a number one contender ships match. Well they both won matches but yes one actually won the title as opposed to the other person. Who's winning the opportunity to win? That's right so If Jon Moxley wins that title than he should be on your parents. Oh I get to listen to the show I apologize. What were your rankings? Do you remember number five thunder Arosa number five was stunned. AROSA number four was Becky Lynch number three was defined Bray Y number two is Charlotte flaring. There are a number one was who we just spoke about. Drew McIntyre and Tommy Absent from those. That list would be Jon Moxley on the number one contender ship for Chris. Jericho's AWA number seven Kenny Omega and hangman. Adam page who on the for the Awa tag team champion numbers ever Awa title change. uh-huh by the way Keith Lee. Who on the next North American Championship on Annex Number Six? Wow yeah well. Hey it's his power rankings. I can see that but To his point he won. This is her first title on a major your platform. I know he's also begging for Thunder Rosa Calendar. I could drive up to our house if you wanted to try to steal one for you. She didn't want so it's not like I make my decisions based on what the people give me because people don't give me anything but grief and shit on drew McIntyre one who was to Charlotte flare you might revert vern daughter of Ric flair when the rumble on Sunday. Three Bray Wyatt the fiend. Your universal champion number. Four was Becky Lynn Role. Women's champion a number five year N W A women's champion Thunder Rosa. I would I would agree with your rank. Your power rankings. uh-huh I I am a little about the return of edge. I think that would be up there. But you know what he didn't win the Royal Rumble. But and then he was taken out after that but that would be my only critique of your rumbles. Good job of your ratings jobs thank you. Let's let's get to what's really really important and it's not my power rankings or bully. Ray's appearance on the bump. Later this morning we'll get into that at some point as well It is the return of edge. And we're GONNA get into a second. We'll get into what took place on Monday night but let's go back to the return of edge. Obviously a huge. Did you showing like you said at the rumble. I mean the I think the place was shaking when he came out at the royal rumble. Tommy I mean I mean I just the place he's popped. I mean I mean even even bigger than what we saw at the end with drew McIntyre when an just just an amazing moment for edge on Sunday absolutely and I will confess to a lot of fans I'm super duper close with edge. He had confided in me a long time ago that he was going back to. WWE Kinda laid some foundation kind of fantasy booking with each other and number one one when we talk about. There's a friendship that I love the guy and I would never betray that friendship For whatever rumor rumor speculation anything that comes out there and also I don't WanNa say I always open up Christmas presents on Christmas not on Christmas Eve and for when there was speculation. Going on around or all the social media buzz about it. Why why I know we liked to guess ask about it or even spoilers I cannot stand them so I've never going to one ruin? I wish he never told me because I wanted to. Let's see I wasn't sure he was going to debut at the rumble but that was what was on the table. But when you're and I'll talk about My relationship with Bubba to and bubble bubble returned at the Royal Rumble He literally calm texts. Me and wrote Fatty. Did you see what you think. And are Oh congratulations nations. And he's I talk to you later and here's a guy. I talked to like all the time that is how we are as professional wrestlers. who also have respect for our selves and our industry? And it's so close to the vest when I return to the WWE And I've told the story before when we talk about when when I went to Russell with drew McIntyre you know at the slam. He's I literally was driving home from the gym. And then triple h had called me and then he was okay. You WanNa come to Philly to wrestle tonight and I'm like Okay bubble will blah. The only person I told at that time was Beulah and just kept it under wraps and even when I get there like then people in the company to hey are you you here. I was hiding. I was hiding in a bus and it was just so that element of surprise. I don't feel it's deceiving the fans because the end result is wow I got to see something special We joke about it but I was never so mad and I still we talk about it like when I did not get tickets to the Omni to see buzz sawyer versus Tommy rich and I got a millennial Falcon millennial a hell of a gift. But I wanted something else and I knew I was also getting the Millennium Falcon because I found by Christmas present before it was Christmas. So that's kind of always been my philosophy about keeping stuff under wraps and if anybody's out there listening that works for wwe. And if you've ever leaked out a spoiler alert and you're not a wrestler or your You have news and confidentiality. There are so many ways to find Out and if it was my company I would fire you quicker than I could fire anybody else and if it was my justice I would Singapore cane you out the door or as hard as I can many many times because to me it ruins it for the fans and there's no payoff for that to say. Hey by the way. This person is confirmed to be there. There's no payoff for it. So that's that now getting angry. No San Diego I gotTa Chill The Sun. His rising over the mountains. It's beautiful I live in the Hoya GonNa go surfing. You know what it's IT'S A. I'm I'M GONNA try to say I'm I'M GONNA try to be the same as you and and stay. They come because it's something that's obviously a bit of a virus throughout the whole wrestling community. Tommy where you know and people talk about about the dirt sheets and like I don't know there's a lot of credible websites out there that I go to when preparing for this show the get information shen and stats and such. You know to help me along with the narrative while we're talking about these certain issues but one thing that Doug Morton and I declared glared early on in this show is that we're not GonNa do spoilers and you never hear on busted open a spoiling an outcome of a match at a TV v Taping. You know we never go into any of those things at all. That's not something that we wanted wanted to do. And it's something that I do not want to do on this show. I'll never understand why you know. Certain writers feel the need to spoil things and we see it all the time. You know storylines. I said. I'm sure people like you. Tommy work very very hard on there. Is You know. Obviously a staff of writers such that put something together that I have a theme and a story that they're working on that takes weeks to work on and will take weeks to play out and then somebody's spoils it. You know for everybody. Everybody and then honestly completely ruins the surprise and leading up to what we saw on Sunday at the royal rumble. I saw a ton of spoilers spoilers that I avoided and I just will never understand. That would be like you know a big movie that you can't wait to see and somebody like sending ending out the script of a movie like you know I'll do something that's very very close to the wrestling community arts and that Star Wars. I'm not I'm not the biggest star wars fan but I know a lot of wrestlers and a lot of writers. Are you know that would be like you know spoiling the script of a movie. You know a week before it came out I will never understand understand why people would enjoy reading it and I would never understand why they feel the need for certain riders to put that stuff out there. If I told you that at the forty niners are going to beat the chiefs on Sunday by the score of thirty eight to thirty five. Would you watch the game. I would not some people might. Some people would just to see if I was correct if I also told you oh by the way One of the forty nine ers is going to get hurt and Jerry. Rice's going to show up and catch a few balls balls. And he's GonNa score a touchdown be cool. That would maybe people watch but it's still the super bowl. Why ruin surprises? Why because it doesn't get that same reaction or you'll just get the person who says oh I knew he was coming and then there the bidder negative person like a straight up Santino I I had heard Santana was confirmed to be in the rumble however that confirmation came that person is a leak? That person is a leak in your company in that person should be. Terminated emanate from their job because they don't have enough respect for their job slash the wrestling fans to be there and it's unfortunate and again I I don't want to go on a rant because I could. I could go on the screaming rant. And don't I'm not GonNa do it because it's real. She'd yeah that's true you know how would want you to be your joy. It will make some good video footage. Honestly I just. I'm more disappointed than I am angry about it. And like you said that also means that there are certain people within the company that's leaking out and that even boggles my mind because at least you know a writer. Our website are getting in clicks for their website. It helps them but I would never understand why somebody who actually works for the company would do something like that like what. What did they possibly get from? I'm doing something like that Nothing they because if you're giving and I've told this to people and yes I don't even want to say it's an old school value because I'm shocked to learn who talks more and more to people on social media about insider stuff I it's in your worst day of your life. If something bad happens to you. They're still going to report it no matter if you have a friendship with them or not and may go with news used you may not want out there and because that's their job and that's how they make a living so how not saying don't support it but there's no no reason for it and I used to have. I used to fight with Paul Heyman a lot because he would leak stuff to the Internet during e C W and when I confronted him on it and this was back when the Internet wasn't as accessible and he was you know why because I want to catch a buzz for the company. 'CAUSE we're sold out and I can't get any more people in the building so I want people to continue say man. I have to be there that I kind of agreed with also guess what it was his company so he was the boss didn't Company didn't continue. Not Saying that was the cause of there was many many causes. But when you're the boss you can do whatever the hell you want. Oh you know the super bowl or your favorite team a lot of times. We're happy we're not happy with management. It's a different generation But it's it's just. There is no ultimate payoff for who the most important people the wrestling fans it. That's the bottom line and that's how I always 'cause I've still still. I'm still a wrestling fan. I go out there and tell you every single thing that we have planned right now for impact wrestling or what. I'm going to do for house a hardcore. You know if I said Oh me in edge talked. He's coming back at the royal rumble. Would does that make me better than you know. What would that be great for the show? No not really it would make let me look like the jerk and I don't want to be the jerk. I WANNA see forty five thousand people go crazy when he shows up and I also love love love love and I watched that and like I said it was a sad day with everything with Kobe. GOING ON I've been watching fans reactions to edges return. Grown men like shaking You know pe- people with tears in their eyes for my friend coming back and doing something that he loves. And you know what there's other better returns when I saw MVP and I'm boys with MVP when Pe- showed up. I was like Whoa that son of a bitch. That's awesome for him. But then I also knew and then he posted on instagram. He did he was like man. I've I've chased my dream. This is for his little son and I know Oh. Mvp He excuse me he never wanted to have like kids. He has a son who's best friend. And that's something. His son were remember. Remember how cool his father is and this larger than life superhero by the way. That's also my father if you don't know Sirius. Xm Then listen up commercial free music plus sports comedy talk and news. They had it all a lot of people. Think you need a car to enjoy Sirius. Xm But you don't. You can listen outside the car right now you can get your first three months of Sirius. Xm outside the car for just one dollars. Just go to siriusxm dot com slash busted to see offer details and describe. You can listen on your phone at home and online that Sirius. Xm Dot com slash busted offer available to new series exempt streaming subscribe Sirius. XM No car required. Man It's funny to hear Christian again again like you Tommy talking about his friend talking about his former tag team partner and then also talking about somebody. Who's done it all being nervous you know going going into that rumble on Sunday? Just never would expect to hear Ed's saying he was nervous when I put it out there. You know armaments as performers are your moments and we share them together I got goosebumps for my friend. Friend returning to do something that he loved and there was a part where he really didn't miss wrestling. But like you said on his Promo you know. There's always the what ifs chiefs and when it's taken from you. A lot of athletes say they have to totally get away from the business or the sport that they've been doing to then appreciate it when you return and last year for edge and his wife as well they they had some experience a lot of loss. And that's part of life you know but edge lost. The the closest person to him was his mom and all of that like soaking in just like I literally saw him like teak take a breath and then like edge picton. But if he could've could've but if he would have started to cry because you know to me he's the world is looking at him and and higher above his mom sitting there. They're proud of him and just the shape that he got himself in. And as well as like just that moment and you have forty five to forty six thousand people just in shock and chanting your name the years nothing like it. It's IT'S A. Ah It's the B- I always say. Wrestling's the worst drug because we crave for those moments and at times wrestling gives us those moments comments and for him. When you're told you if you can do you take another bump? You could be crippled for the rest of your life. I'd I leave but then when you say by the way you know you're might be able to do this against a I could still pursue my dream and then you become that kid who who was at you know. He was at Wrestlemainia with the ultimate Warren Hulk Hogan and this is just like you know the Super Bowl's coming up people play this game since since they were kids and they've loved football just like how as wrestlers. We Love Wrestling since we're kids. That's how we I get hooked for the ones for a lot of them who make it make it. It's not like I'm GonNa come this in as a business because there's very few people that were like Let me just come in do this little wrestling thing and then leave. There's not a lot of people that made in the business. who had that meant mentality? And for those that did they actually became fans later they respect it more and you know like you talk about respecting it more. I'm sure edge. Even though he was nervous enjoyed that moment so much more because like you said it was taken away from him. He never thought he'd be able to do it again. And here he is being a man. I mean not everybody gets those second. Chances is and now he's going to be able to dictate when he leaves. He wasn't able to do that the first time he was forced to retire when he when it's all said and done he is completely done with pro wrestling. It's going to be on his terms absolutely and so it should be especially for someone who's had such An amazing career. But you know what for anybody. There's a time when you like you mentally check out or you're just stagnant or you just like you know what. What else do I have to accomplish it? You could look like someone like Matt Hardy. Who maybe they're not doing the best with him right now and it's it's not about money money for certain people? I knew it wasn't about money for me when I when I had left but there are times where you know. It's just like man. I wish W W would have done this with me. I I wish this would have happened for me but you know for edge. He accomplished everything that there is to accomplish. Main event at Wrestlemania. He's won every single title. And then it's like it's still like you think you're GONNA go out or how everybody wants to go out you know either at Wrestlemainia or this is going to be my last match here and but when somebody else tells you can't that's a whole other story and you know for him. I couldn't be proud of for his return. His return Monday night wasn't Didn't work out for him but I think if he comes back which he will we'll have one hell of a storytelling storytelling and great physical match. Randy Orton versus edge WRESTLEMAINIA. Michael you're hearing catch busted open. Live Monday through Saturday from nine. AM TO NOON EASTERN UNSERIOUS XM fight Nation Channel One fifty six or on demand with Sirius. XM APP no one coming out to help as they're not being that Uber baby face. That would come out to help. Edge listen Let's buy a little bit here Because I think if there was a run in or if there was somebody that came to help in that segment it would've taken away from the magic that took place on Monday night correct and if he's talking when he he referenced the edge heads This is nothing against them. That was a part of the gimmick with with edge. Also also nobody really. They don't do a lot with Zach and Kurt for make people to care if they were killed by Randy Orton or taken out or are kayode. And then it could. Also get baby-faced baby-faced pops for a guy who want to Have that He'll heat and yes you know I could see I would have liked like to see maybe or on social media the Like what happened afterwards. How they're slowly taking him out of the arena because you would again see these faces of all my God? This guy came back and then he just got injured. Maybe then you have somebody by You know a stretcher job which is a real deal and also if you WANNA think and I say this jokingly but when you're the main event because trust me mean edgewood travel a lot. There'll be a lot of the Times. I was the only person there because most of the wrestlers WanNa beat the traffic outside of all the fans leaving venue. Yeah and there's not a lot of people back there and it's the last segment on the show. That really that's a real deal But this is you know there's been a book of edge and this is the new book of edge and this is you know. His return was chapter one chapter two. We just saw the first sentence of Randy Orton and edge analysts. And you're giving me Randy Orton and edge at Wrestlemania Molin like seriously like. That's that's a match that I would love to see and we talk about edge and how great edge is. There's no doubt about it but man Randy Orton is something special. I always say on this show. He gets overlooked. And it's a shame because that guy's just is just unbelievable and you know he's somebody that is underrated about how good he is in the ring and he's one of the greatest wrestlers right now in two thousand twenty. Yeah he'll be he's You know it's funny. I was listening into and thinking of guys ages when Edge said his age. And then you know randy is now forty and it's you think of all that. They have accomplished campus. They also accomplish stuff together. Randy is one of those third generation wrestlers. Because you know he grew up in the business he also grew up Mentally as you know a performer and going from a kid in the business with getting handed a lot of stuff to then appreciating a lot of stuff to then being a leader and that maturity comes with just what we said maturity and like. If we're talking this is is also super bowl. I'm watching Tom Brady and drew brees out there. And they're having one last you know gunslinger type of reactions actions and we're like. Wow these two guys were one is already hall of Famer but like this is. We're watching greatness on foil. And then Oh my God what happened with greatness. Right here was great. Yeah I I know and and it's going to be a story that we're GonNa love to hear as we get closer and closer to Wrestlemainia. I asked the question before four. We went to break as well. where's bully? I don't know if you've got the here yesterday. Show and of course nobody tells me. What's going on Mac Cam? I'm Kohl's in to promote bullies appearance on the bump today. Alex mets our producer is even listening to the show today. He's watching the bump trump like I. I am sure. Tommy and I make this prediction right. Now that this will be the highest rated bump in the history of the BOB now. How long is the bump and on like six seven years the bump couple months? It's going to be the highest rated bompard. GimMe a little bit more credit than that. I can multitask. I'm doing I'm closely monitoring the situation on the bump and also paying attention to what's going on here on the bus. Gabby running the show to say. Listen so we got He's doing got the Wednesday night wars between aws xt and now you know. I've been noticing that this whole bomb trump thing they've been trying to last now. Steffi McMahon going up against Tommy Dreamer and I killed her in the ratings and now like they they went with within. Man This is like the N W oh this is like an invasion man. This is this is bigger than WCW and wwe. This is lex Luger showing up at NITRO. Whom bully ray went to the other show? Let me tell you something. Let me tell you some time. He and listen. You're guilty of this too. You're you're a guy last year that went again. Matt Matt Camp Llosa the show camp on the fantasy channel at the same time as busted open the seems to be a trend with Matt camp. Let me tell you something and I'm GonNa say this right now and this isn't just for talk show fodder on the show. This is coming from the heart. And I'm being completely honest when I say this matt camps a piece of garbage and the reason that I know it is that he's trying to get the shine of busted open won by finding how I don't know how did it found this way on this show and being somebody who was a part of this. Show you vouched for him. I did and then now going up against our art show and then poaching our own hose for his show. Let me tell you something. Tommy everybody on twitter and on social media are calling this the the Wednesday morning wars. It takes two to tango and the bump doesn't come close to bust it open. It doesn't come close in the ratings to busted open and it certainly doesn't come close to the loyal busted open. I don't hear anybody talking talking about the bump nation. Nobody nobody now. One person has ever said that. I don't even know what you call the nation of bumps bumpy obese puppies. Whatever said Oh? I'm a loyal bumpy. No no one's ever said that I don't see any fat Edsa Mac camp or or Toni. Braxton either Kayla and listen I get I get and I get like I get like two. Toni Braxton Grammy Award Winner. Her I get that like her. Her music career is Kinda slow down. But I don't think there's listen. There is no guilt and saying that you were once a top hop forty performer. So I don't understand why she's completely not even talking about her singing career at all on the bump Kayla two different person it by the way. I don't think you have to worry about here guys because Robbie or Robert Strauss or whatever. He just calling himself. Now he just called in via skype onto the bumps. I think everybody turned it off. So I assume Makarava they had drew McIntyre into into Robertson into Robbie. Yes so I think everybody turned off or Robert Stone with bully. Ray's bully ray their bowler as hasn't shown up yet. Because you know what I'm and this I would not put a pass the bump trump or the wwe network first of all that tells you the programming knowledge of the WWE network that they cancelled hidden. Gems I am a show like the bump is on. Am I wrong me. The person that you got fired which then resulted in Nice. You love me again. The person you got fired they probably replaced with this idiot. Who went hired Matt Camp From House? It's a hard core. So he's he's part of that whole list him in Vic Joseph what happened to his career and so you know they'll get their own. It's Karma Baby I don't I just don't understand understand. They're trying to start a fight with us. I'm not buying end. I'll David No. I'm not buying into the Wednesday morning. Wars it's not happening because they've they've dabbled a little bit with Mark Henry. They've kind of Kennedy and while. Oh yeah who goes down with the ship E C W was Tommy Dreamer. WHO's going to go down the ship with buses? That's right I mean you where the heart and soul screw that fat bastard bully ray doing another show. How dare you Tom Air you if Toni Braxton are Max camp called you tonight and said Hey Tommy we'd love for you to be on the bump? What would you say I said I'm contracting obligated to the only company in wrestling that I'm contract the obligated to Sirius? Xm Try. And I'd have to check with my. Hey boss to see if I be allowed to do thank you very my. We'll do. This may have another show I for my own show. I had Mac camp on we. We took a phone call from mack. I challenge right now right now. WWe The bump and at Mac him. I I challenge. Challenge Mac camp to put me on the bump. If he's got balls or he's got bumps hills he'll put the on the bump. Yep So wait a minute. I just said I'm going to stay here with you but yet you're trying to get booked on the now. I'm not trying to get up. I want an open debate with Mac camp camp on the bump match player and my greg the Hammer Valentine action figures while I'm saying this book you because he won't do it balls. You want me to get a April eleventh also hardcore right there right right now. I'm telling you right now as we speak Mac cab. I challenge you. Got The guts if you got the balls. If you gotta the Go-to ads have become on the up yet. Take Mark Henry yet. Take polling right. I know you've tried to take dream. Combat Bay come on and let's go up talking to you. Let's go. He won't do it. Plus he's an eagles fan because Toni Braxton's got his balls in a bag back. Thanks for listening catches Monday through Saturday. I'm busted open from nine. Am To noon eastern on Sirius Xm by Nation Channel. One fifty six busted open podcast.

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What Was The Reason

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I've been with my wife almost ten years we've talked about opening up our relationship and talked about boundaries and things started off. Okay. Then it ended with her thinking I was gay I am bisexual and I mentioned that I wouldn't be looking at women and it turned into a weird argument. I've tried to tell her a few times before and it's always been something that it's turned into a just kidding or I'm just saying what if it's hard because she's my sexual and expects and demands what's Interesting. She's bisexual backbone. And expands. God. The way that. Came on. CAME ON OUT That we record late. She's bisexual in expects and even demands that I accept it but when I mentioned that. I'm sorry I'm still excuse me. But when I mentioned that street goes both ways for me to she freaks out long story short and like. This is what? You need to leave I need to know. This is my. Leave her as. Sorry actually I'm not sorry I will leave her ass and put our sit in a box. Back To. Long Story Short. We ended then COMPO quickly. Now something we avoid nearly anyway happen. You know she would her fucking with me? Driving down the street. You went else output a piece I can guess what two fingers you do that to to. That's all you're going to use it who he's out. Tires. I'm telling you man. To say, thank you Charlie Charlie big. It'd be permission to use their is name. because. Related named. Charles. I mean he good or nobody knowing? You're right. BACK TO BANK LIKE Back to back. I'm done. Praying. In no sound. Like That I can do. I can't even keep going I'm. Alive Can't keep. Charlie. Charlie and the chocolate factory dry about drought a boat. Ride, a boat. Do. The was his name Kofi ceremony from please sugar you be like Charlie. I'm gay it a money. Angel Charlie. GotTa Get up under it. Stay under. The Name You get underage cat stay down Charlie. Just stay down there. That's what you everytime. Doesn't says Charlie as thing I think okay I'm back that made me laugh that was that was. Couldn't believe the nerve. Like I'm still. Leave. So on the soundcloud streets BB D jj says. Everyone. Bay said, my previous relationship was an open one from its conception my ex was a sexual being. He enjoyed having sex wanted to experience it as much as he could someone considered inconsiderate. But I simply viewed it as who he was at the moment he never prioritize his play over me or our relationship and he always communicated when he intended to play always allowed me. To his partners and on several occasions occasions excuse me forfeited his play. If I had any objections, he did the same for me. Open relationships can strengthen your bond because you have to practice clear and open communication and it encourages honesty to keep your relationship intact. It also takes away using sex as the only form of intimacy in the relationship I thought that was dope. That's great. Back. Then right because. Yeah. The boundaries are being honored and that's all we were saying last week like I shouldn't say we speak for myself if Bonner. Doesn't was I have. Boundaries can be respected then we can have a conversation but outside of that. It's just not what I've experienced. Now the door is closed and not only is it closed it's locked, and if it's one of them sliding patio doors got, they would stick. No. No go and actually had one twitter. A vocalist rival, who is actually a Homey said the funny thing about open relationships is that the partner who suggested ends up getting fewer dates than the other and then gets mad and jealous. As read that because I have seen. Threads on twitter and just conversations where the husbands may have been the one to initiate the conversation and bring up the you know the the concept, bring it to the relationship, but it's the wife. Ends having. Fun, and then the husband gets pissy about it and suddenly doesn't WanNa, do it no more. Because he pc, he needs to take a shower. Ranges smell like all that acid in urine all over. So, mad as you said, that is something that I've actually heard happened quite a lot. I don't know if you guys tried that to Sante you kind of made a face feel like you've heard stories but that to me is always really funny when the person who initiates is like no never mind cause it's not working out his favor as you know what happens though because the person that's not looking for nothing like they comfortable. So They just seem like a whole person. So when someone's out on the street looking for something, they see a whole person that's like open data perfect tar even when you open, you open it ready. You know anybody looking for you know we're not looking for the hot pocket that's out of the freezer. You want to put it in the freezer the microwave yourself you know. What about you? Would you find in the twitter streets? This is actually breaking news breaking news breaking news This is hot off the twitter streets and it comes from none other than living legend, Toni Braxton who says David Comma she talked about tomorrow's ex-boyfriend you are she says, David, you weasel you fair it. You are beyond contempt once again, do not include my children in your shenanigans. Please leave my family alone. Now. That's coming straightening direct from Toni. Braxton's twitter account Tony never talks about her personal business. He's been notoriously private into she went on Oprah but that's a different conversation for different time because what's really wrong we have in Gucci flat where you really think about it and as much opulent as Oprah's known for I. Just feel that you I'm not going to be negative about whatever you know this is the conversation I wanNA have Esau. But yeah but this came from Toni Braxton. So it's going down your something David's raggedy ass did something else in now he didn't piss off. So I don't know I know him a court hearing coming up and it's just hot complete mess and I'm watching it so I just wanted to. That's it from the twitter streets this week. Asante this week it's your episode. Tell us what you got going on for us. This week I can't is it a good? Taken away please because I'm twisted here. Oh my Gosh well ladies, and gentlemen. Our struggle with what? I. WanNa talk about because I get really excited I wanNA talk about everything and it's been it just makes me say damn now I wanNA talk about nothing but. I just been kind of looking at the world and you know we're about to go into like another phase of lockdown again. So I always think to myself like, do I want to talk about something serious educational or do I. Just WanNa have fun and I always want to have fun. This week, I want to have fun kind of going back over some parts of our lives to kind of look at where we've been and where we're going. I want to look inside. So this week I want to talk about purpose. Purpose like it just keeps coming up for me like as of late like I just keep looking at these themes in anime and I told you guys like recently I want to get a programming and that's something that I've been reading up on one of the reasons that I WANNA do. It is because I'm just so interested in like how ideas and How. Spirituality and technology you can kind of intersect in certain ways for me just because I look at the way. We all have kind of connected to social media like the way that we are committed. Indices, waves, and so just being connecting as creatives I wanted to figure out a way to kind of give back. So I wanted to share perspective s see what we all looked at as purpose, and if we feel like we walked in it or if we feel like we've even met it in. View it. So I wanNA start with purpose by defining it right. So purpose. Accord into Oxford Oxford languages Google pulled up verse. It's a now the reason. That the reason for which is done or created or something exist but used formerly. To have as one's intentions or objective. But do all even buy into purpose because I sometimes, we'll talk about it or think about it and I'll even watch things people be like everything's meaningless. And they'll even dry purpose into that and just kind of say like you know what the fuck and my even doing like hopelessness if you will. So even by believe in or by purpose. It's one of the most beautiful names I've ever heard I've always thought having a daughter named purpose would be cute and I don't care if you think that's ghetto or whatever I think it's cute. Purpose is a cute name for a girl Yup Purpose Ross. Purpose Penelope. The color purple. You know what I'm saying I just thought it was cute name. That's all gone. Not Yes. I believe in purpose yes. I believe in purpose you know in everything that you do you have a purpose you have a purpose in the way that you live your life. Now what that is, you know that's defined to you that's up to you to determine that you absolutely have a purpose because if you don't what you do, you just walk around bumping initiate into the walls and no direction don't do nothin' shiftless clothes all over the floor. You know what? What's your purpose? You have a purpose even reason to get up everyday people have children. As they purpose you know to be caregivers today children, people have relationships are families at home. You know they WANNA be today partner people have goals and and ambitions and things that they want to accomplish in life. So your purpose is to be driven toward fulfilling our that you know some people. Have other purposes. So let's just leave there I'm going to try to be serious I respect. I, respect your topic. So Cracknell, Jones No. I mean cracking Joe Purpose is being serious. I'll say cracking jokes, party Yo purpose so I'm not really is. From you especially in this conversation like like that's fine. Gone Gone. For. What about you? Do you buy into purpose or do you believe in it? I do buy into it but I think I. my idea of purpose has changed in commutes the change. So I think when I was younger or just in a different head space I'd say. Purpose in me felt like some type of specific plan. You know like you have like, let's say you know just as an example when I was younger, I thought being a musician writing songs about things that had happened and having people connect to it. That was my purpose music. You know that was marred my everything. And then once that didn't pan now and you know other goals that you start having and then I started asking myself. Well, if these things don't pan out or they morph into different things as you change as you go through different experiences, have different interests have different ideas, head spaces. Does, your purpose continue to change or is it just that you have a skewed view of what purpose is you know and I think what I understanding now that my purpose is in just being not necessarily what I'm doing You know. So I think I was tying it more two goals and identities as opposed to purpose being me. Wherever I'm at like. It don't matter what that looks like and I'm not tied down to any particular image or thaw of what my purpose is. My purpose is just being and now getting those waters as they come and then being an example to whoever's witnessing. Those waters being navigated. So that's kind of why I'm out with it and you know. That may change. As I keep I'm still relatively young but where I'm at now, that's Kinda how purpose has just been shifting for me. So I love the you ask you buy into it because I can kind of see both sides of people who are Gung Ho about a particular thing. Madame wants member Kinda like the episode we have a cloud and chuck it's like what happens to dream achieved. What happens when you achieve it, and then what is you do? No longer have purpose like. You know. So that's kind of. The concepts have been toying around. You see both Fiat touched on a lot of great great things just because. I'm thinking about like now people are like. Should I leave the state? You know you know for political reasons or even people that are dealing with valuing themselves at work or You know just people thinking about the temperature of where they're at now with what they put into life or what they wanna get out of it like I. Just felt like this was a great conversation to have because I thought to myself about like. I've been talking to people that just feel like they either don't feel like they're buying into their purpose right now or they feel like they're purposes changed and I thought that was so interesting and cool somebody was noticing or feeling like they're purposes changed because I don't feel like I even hear enough conversation about purpose and I feel like it ties in. So well with what you always talk about frame, which is. Intentioned and I was just thinking like damn like these words really go hand in hand but like it's so simple it's so random that this like simply tied to me just like mound this moment I was like you know what we're thinking about what our purpose is. Are we necessarily like matching that with our intentions or are we just kind of blindly looking for one of the other if not both separately you know? That just that this was going to be a good conversation to have but I was looking at this this article actually, right. It's a blog on site central dot com. Is Actually by Gabriel, excuse me your her last name is Ghani Kellner. She says sometimes it seems as we live in a world of `ISMs workaholic sexism, ageism racism, idealism, cynicism, feminism, etc. She goes yet. What does it mean to live out live our lives around all these things which is a feature most strongly in your life and how long is it since you've evaluated the place there which are the good ones and which are the bad ones maybe some of them act as an ethical guide for your values or behaviors helping you decide your course of action or maybe some of them have just become belise. I just thought that it was interesting that like she did this article in, we're talking about these. kind of like breaking down where we're at and having to look at where you're at with like all of these different concepts and so. I said initially like I, wonder myself what conversation? I. WanNa and I get over one with that concept. But I always think to myself like what's the purpose of doing this show and that's what I always want to ground myself in when we do topics and so I love that we talked to. Like a wide range of people from creatives, they have no idea what doing to creatives that know exactly what they're doing, what they WANNA do to people that have everyday jobs but people just in all types of walks of life and a lot of people they know exactly what they wanna do or they have some sorta January and then even for the ones that don't I just think that is so important the work that we do here that I have to. Always, ground myself in purpose and not just intention and like I pimp. Like a pin literally hours the pimps got purpose. You really think about it like ain't nobody got more per. There's no one more purpose driven a pimp when you think about. And know that this is a joke and I'm trying to not like, oh, sound what you really really hard with your life through your. Correct right like I hate to even think about necessary evil. But you know some people would say there's purpose you know actually I wanted to get away from that type of purpose actually have. You ever heard of the word of the concept IKI Guy. So, I heard of it. Iki Guy spell for those listening I K, I g you know for those. Gazon you don't WanNa this. Guy. Yet it's a Japanese concept and it means a reason for being the word refers to having a direction or purpose in life that which makes life worthwhile and towards which an individual take spontaneous in willing actions giving them. and. A sense of meaning of life meaning to life. Excuse me so is literally where your passion intercepts with your mission and your profession. So the things that you're trying to figure out what the world needs to meet what you love enemies which are good at along with what you can be paid for. So you're getting paid to do what you love what you're good at and the world needs it so. Iki Guy I just had to like talk about this 'cause I'm so of the sort like I think everybody the world needs love. Hugs help whatever. So the fact that this concept saying that you know you can do what you love is and be paid for and you're helping other people and you're good at it like I feel like that's all of the things that go into the perfect alignment. So for fraying, you know she said being, you know that's her purpose and honestly when you sit like for people that know you I'm sure anybody that listened and when they hear that just go libation the head like a show is because you're not it's not like you're being you're. Being, disrespectful. You know what? I'm saying like you're being you're showing others and helping others to be so it's like like. Perfect IKI Guy Riley perfect harmony in all the world needs to learn how to be you know like you love being the it. It's just a perfect example you know and I just WanNa get up, get this out because I know there are people that are doing things that they hate and they're trying to figure out how to get to what they love, and I feel like a lot of hairdressers in that predicament right now too because I'm GonNa tell you something the best part of getting your hair done is getting your hair washed right and can also be the worst part again, you ever had a hairdresser wash it was heavy handed hard. calloused fingers and Shit and they get scrub and you'll scout dog moving their hands and fingers. You're never happened to you. You fuck around and the hairdresser with a migraine. Okay. So why are you playing all I thought about when I talked about the hairdresser was on star when it was washing the women's here in the Salon and she was man she had to be there. So she was doing a bad job and it was like you don't you better get this white girl about my head but it's right because the white girl wanted to be singing it'd be up in they're doing hair so it sucks when. You meet people that are doing really bad jobs, but it's because they hate their jobs i. just hate the fact that many people are doing things that they hate. So that's why I had to talk about this because we're in this big limbo where you can kind of figure out a talking to change your career learn new trade I just feel like it's a really really good time for people that can cause I know not everybody's able right but you know for people that can you know if you have the time you're not stressed out about how you're gonNA pay your bills because I know with this time. Does come there. Do come stresses. Okay. But I just want people to be able to kind of not only look at their life and think about what the next move is going to be but I want them to think about like what their overall move is going to be and also look at how those moves can change like Fran. I love that you touched on the fact that not only your perspective of purpose change, but even kind of like. Your perspective of purpose change and even you saying that for me was kind of like, cool. You know what I'm saying like that affirmation that confirmation like I feel like we don't get enough confirmations or we don't pay attention enough to certain signs, even that will give us confirmation to move in the right direction like when you're at a job and there's a risk that's that's presented to you. Sometimes, those risks can be good risk like you know when you're being presented like you'll in food. If you work at a restaurant bringing the whole Bagga crab legs. You. Bringing that shit home. Right thing I think to one thing that people should. Definitely look through is like, where does your son purpose come from? Because we live in a society where especially now social media Kinda tying into the social dilemma A lot of what gives people anxieties is comparing their purpose switches sad because you shouldn't be comparing your purpose even to saying that sounds off and I think we live in society where people make you think you're not thinking big enough you know you you need think bigger and I I remember which I've mentioned before when I first started I really felt like my purpose coming into the digital space was just to to show ease to just be an example of success via ease of of the fact that I exist to feel pleasure. You know like what? If that's my purpose and so even though I'm moving through different Rams like music digital that intention doesn't necessarily change. So that's what I mean like. I think purposes a little in. This is obviously my opinion purposes a little more subtle than people. Like to lend people feel comfortable with because everyone thinks purposes to be famous actor and it's like is that your purpose or is it what you would bring? Energetically like your energy, your energy signature to those rows like you know because then what if it's not acting and then you WanNa do something else that's energy is what we're looking for. You get what I'm saying I don't know if I'm making sense no one hundred, thousand percent and it's not so much career which I think in the society we live in they make you think like you have to be this larger than life. And actually wanted to read a quote that is one of my favorite quotes and I keep it with me all the time by my favorite Osho feel how you feel about. Feel about him, but he says the natural desire of the human mind is to become special. So become special in the ways of the world to have many degrees to have much political power to have money to have wealth to be special. The mind is always ready to go on some ego trip, and if you are fed up with the world, then again, the ego starts finding new ways and new means to enhance itself. It becomes spiritual. Now you become a great Mahatma, a great sage, a great scholar, a man of knowledge, a man of renunciation. Again, you are special unless the desire to be special disappears you will never be special unless you relax into your ordinariness, you will never relax. Damages edges, hit me and I just really love that quote because it's like everyone's just trying so hard to be special and then they. They drape purpose in that. Were the focus is more song how they're being perceived than how they actually feel and that's why I think purpose is a little more subtle than realize. It's like you know it could be you just walking through the streets and being kind. Like that's purpose that could be your intention and how you move to the world. Through these careers, which is like I said I, which is I think where people putting too much weight on and that's my opinion. And I think you make a great point I think that a lot of times people get so caught up in pursuing their passions and which I think is the way to go professionally I think you should pursue your passions the thing that Glenn feel passionate about and I think sometimes they confuse that with purpose maybe maybe people seeing pass purpose. And intersecting when they really parallel than a motherfucker. My whole thing. Is I. Love when purpose is kind of inspired like I was watching. Don't even want to say what I was watching No, not even like that I was watching the one hundred. And there was this scene where. They had one of their leaders they call it their leader, the chancellor right. and. The people. They can't fighting for this fucking role as a matter of fact, as Washington asked was the chancellor at one point, but we're not going to get instant anyway. The there was this woman she was the chancellor and this guy who she'd been going back and forth with the title for she saw in a moment like how good he was and he wasn't even the chancellor on, but she was so willing she was so inspired by. The way he was doing his job that she was willing to give up her title to him to be the chancellor because she was like you literally have a vision for this. And I just thought that that was so amazing because I don't feel like we see enough examples of I don't think that we need to see people necessarily always give up their spot. We I feel I. See a lot of things happened that potentially could seem like injustices like Let's take something like. An artist not winning an award like wouldn't it be dope if an artist was like an Artist do win maybe like. Nobody wants to go up there and win and say there was somebody else more than me. I want them to come up here instead but like Let's take you know I actually don't want to take something. I'm not very good epaulettes take politics you know wouldn't it be great if someone said while I'm doing really really terrible at my job but this person really cares about community I want to give this person my job because they actually have. Not only the status, but they have the know how the vision the strategy to get things done where it would just take me longer to do things like I feel like people get. So stuck behind ego that they don't even see that while they even trying to search for their purpose or they're driving behind their purpose, they could be inspiring true purpose and other people if not themselves. And I think that that's important now as we reflect on what we're doing because dislike. Cardi B. said, what was the reason like we have to ask ourselves like what's the reason for me going to this job that I hate and if you say it's because I have to pay my bills and then you say, well, is there another way to pay my bills? Yes, and then you try to go down those rows but it's not to say that everybody can just have a great job in a great life. You know these are just ways that you could potentially be living better or just changing your way of thinking to. Feel like your mindset could really change. Your what's the? What's the Damn your mindset? Can Change Your GPS? Your focus is gps I feel stupid. I. Feel like a person that's not smart Nah folio purpose and say what you say make a point. When you want Your mindset to match a GPS. Something like that. In other words you know you got to know where you going in life. You know what? I'm saying you gotTa really take the lead and steer the ship of your life. That's what you have to do your mind. Yes. Say Data capacity. And then being okay with the fact that purpose probably changes like. I think that sometimes we're doing things and sometimes the purpose might be for it to change. You know like we really all live individual lives. So that's why you can't look at what somebody else has and say I should be doing that unless it's just an NFL in like you know highly burien. BAPS she decided she was GonNa follow the rules of three and that led. Her where she needed to be you now like it's going to work differently for everybody. So that's why you know you can't expect anybody in particular to give you your purpose or to say what exactly the formula is going to be to even attain purpose you know just lean into were feels right in a nightly. You're probably already doing your purpose you don't even know it. What the share that because I feel like there's like there's a lot of hopelessness in the world and I feel like especially between us you know we're all creatives we've experienced at some point or another you know am I, doing the right thing? Is this offer nothing you know we've all been discouraged. So I just feel like if we're leaning our intentions and our purposes, it could help out. What makes me sad about conversations I've had with people who feel discouraged a lot of the times when if they would really tap into how they feel. Outside of the noise, they don't actually feel discouraged and I'm speaking You know from the people that I've spoken to I'M NOT GONNA make a blanket statement, but a lot of discouragement just comes from how people around you and making you feel whether it's your parents being disappointed because you don't fulfill expectations or you know like I said social media or your peers, maybe moving a little bit different or faster or whatever the case may be, and a lot of that is attached to perception of purpose, like I said earlier and I it. Sad because L-, as the catch myself the other day. I started feeling like A. Slight, anxiety in my body and then when I asked myself, do you feel that way or does this have to do with how you're being perceived and I saw very quickly I was able to separate the two and when I asked myself how I feel I was actually fine like me in my heart of hearts I was fine with the decisions I was making. But the only thing that was causing that anxious feeling in my body was how people would read the decisions I was making and I think it's important to separate what's yours and what's not and kind of free yourself of not carrying that anxiety the not even fucking yours you know and and that's why this conversations of purpose. It does make me feel away sometimes because I think purpose has been commodified. people teach people teaching you now five ways to fire purpose for. Three, hundred, ninety, nine, ninety, nine. Now you can pay someone to help you find it. You go on Youtube youtubers teaching you how to find your purpose how to live your best life and it's like you're being pulled in. So many directions that are actually taking you farther father away from just listening to yourself and I think that's one thing I was proud of my wellness retreat has and I used to joke all the time. This is the Anti Guru retreat. We don't want you to listen to us. We don't want you to follow us. We're bringing together to remind you that you are your own guru. That's why we're here with creating the safety in the container to remind you that you don't have to listen to anyone. That's how you never saw his posting a battle retreat. You never saw pictures you never saw. The you never saw the yoga poses whereas like this is me helping the women find themselves. That's not what it was about. It was a moment for them to just stop the noise and that was the intention and so that's what I mean. When I say I, don't know if I can. Resonate with the word purpose but I, do know that I just move high move in every room that I'm in and that feels purposeful to me regardless of what the room is and how if the room is viewed as successful or whatever the hell. This world wants you to weigh about and you are purposeful by birthright because you're here job done everything else is just the Cherry on top that makes life fun. That's what I think. Take the pressure off of that your purpose for being here. Well. I keep bringing back coating because I told myself that I want to sharing this on the show because I wanted to be something that I just WanNa plan a seed of doubt right because there are some things that I do. There are some concepts that should be stolen. Okay. Like certain things should be shared and taken amongst the people I. Think that we're at a time where if we're going to have like a tech renaissance like a black renaissance in my coding or the digital space, like it just needs to happen with everybody coating help out where you can and really where you want to. I feel like as black people we always tell each other like we gotta help out but it's like we're making it seem like we have to and it's like, yeah, we really have to and we should but make it in something that she wants to do like you don't get stuck just doing something redundant because then you're gonNA. Hate it down the road. You'RE GONNA resent shit and it's not gonNA help anybody and it's definitely not going to help you long term. So when it comes to the digital space, I'm really hoping programmers can like bill some sort of tech to help other black people make more money or just become comfortable or mentally free at just want. People to be able to leave legacy. You know for the longest why people are able to leave each other legacies monetarily physically everything like that. So I just want there to time where black people have the digital landscaping we rented Shintech, and while Y'all out there are bitcoins and whatever we got our black coining we. Got Home, you know whatever it needs to be shared just feel like the black coin is the nickel to me. Nickel has always been the blackest of the coins to me. You know it's a nickel. Is was the way it flipped down on the. Black coin a nickel, the fact that I can see that I don't understand what I'm. Is. The Black Coin? It's the never really is. A Role Nichols I'm saying and I believe is in dollars in a role in Nichols and ain't that are nose to nose and Corey? Nichols is two dollars right. Yes. Yes, who'd hours, which is a black amount of money. You know you can get something from the store for two dollars. Put Two dollars on a number. You know what I'm saying it's it's just the nickel is the black coin but go ahead. I was going to bring back the concept of Iki guy and dusting you're like the perfect like like you're you're good. It'd be funny you love it. The world needs it and I knew son not only can you be for but you are being paid for and you deserve to be paid for like like. Like. Like you're in perfect harmony of where you need to be. So if you ever feel lost just remember like you like India Sean told me once long ago in all I have is all I need. Okay. ooh, you literally have. You eat right there in your life right now. Fran. Is still for you see that's what I mean to me. DESTIN's medicine is how much joy and pleasure he feels with humor and and how he takes himself out. So it doesn't even have to do with who else. Could be in a room by himself and I guaranteed us we'll make himself laugh. It's just the joy of humor, and so I would never attribute his purpose to the accolades that are coming like he's going to have the TV shows he's going to have the late night. All this is going to happen and I would never be like that was dozens purpose whose purpose is already there Regardless of those are just GonNa be the like I said earlier that's just the Cherry on top that makes life fun like. But he's GonNa move. He's GonNa move through all those careers, shifts and changes. If he suddenly decides, he's bored no one fucking do it and wants to just moved to London, chill guess what he's still fully purpose 'cause that not gonNA wear. So I think that's my biggest thing as people to attach it to things that are outside of them. That's always going to be funny regardless who sees it doesn't. For Him I. Believe Happiness is my purpose being happy. People Making people that I love and care about and fuck with making them happy I. believe that that is my purpose and whether that be through humor or whatever the fuck. I love to see people that I love like you are happy. To See me I a other for out. That's what I do. You know I'm saying they just it just I. Want you happy. Like. Pedalo bill one might say her purposes singing but another my center purposes cooking and I'm just like I think kicking her shoes off. She came out feet first kicking as a baby. Bill came out feet first. Oh my God but yeah, I mean that's really that's the conversation. I just had to pick your brains for it. I just I dig IT I. Like say purposeful. It was purposeful and intentional, but just really had to do that because when you look at the news and you see. We're about to go back into lockdowns or things are stressing out about whatever I just feel like are you really need to do is look inside like and that's because I'm just a big softy and I know some people are going to listen to some of the things be like Nigga the world it's not that easy because it's really not but you just have to take time yourself and pick the parts of yourself to keep you saying you know and I feel like some certain people are GonNa look at their purpose and they're gonNA wonder what is it what what do I? have or what can I leave behind but as I was trying to say earlier, you might already be walking to your purpose in our realizes. So this might just be talking just chill out and learn whatever you need to learn. If you WANNA, learn something new or even just relax recharge if you've been working really really hard for all this time. So I know can be a little bit maddening but you know really take that the sweet spot where you can get it because things could get bad and this thing could really elevate but we pray for better days all the time Amen. Amen Amen. All right and that does it for this week's high as what say hotspot Frown hear some Funny Oh please please speaking of Amen. So be saying my prayers right like when I pray before my food or whatever pray before I, go to bed before order a drink at the bar or something like Oh you pay before you order a drink the by. The praying time. But. I think. I. Think that happens because you know you pray before you eat. So you drink inject you know injustice stuff anyway. So, somebody I need to pray before I do but anyway. When I say my prayers say prayers I say a man twice. So. Stupid. Why because think about your church wherever wherever you worship and they say, Hey, man that the person who's preaching says Amen and then their congregations is. So. Inappropriate. It's so dumb and I know I don't have been. A. One man crawler. I love that even. The bar like Amen Amen? Well, thank you was on say thank Y'all for your participation in this conversation always away tonight at nine eight central bt Tyler. Perry sisters the number one new scripted series on cable is back for season. Two sisters was the smash hit a Lotta. Coming but you know how Tyler Perry gets down, he gives his audience what they want, and then some being a grown woman goes to new levels for each one of these four bold sisters. The question is levels in which direction up or down Andy's reeling from Gary's arrest and losing everything. will she read the writing on the wall or stay in his bed speaking of beds? Danny's met her match with Preston her fine white man, but we'll be honest with him. Meanwhile Sabrina and Calvin heating up. But we'll see sabotage their situation ship for good and don't sleep on Karen Y'all she's sweet but she's got both hands full with Zach and Aaron. 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Every damn product that you can find on target or CVS shelf you know and it is amazing like it is so amazing that I thought maybe I was tripping and I use it again, a couple of days later to see like was I just like high office in Shit. Because I was so blown away and it's just a great product line and people have been raving like on the site and and read the reviews. What I love is she allows for us to be uploaded which I think is cool because sometimes you know you can think that the reviews lying I don't know I always think it's their friends writing like was thinking spots I always think is bots or you know I know you can pay for services that they that's what they do. They come on and leave reviews not saying. That's what she did but I think the fact that you can upload images. Kinda. Change that for me because I could see people. Yeah I can see the people, their names very clearly, and they're showing you their results with products, different people from all walks of life, and so that kind of was cool to me to see that and the product is amazing as tweeted about it. A lot of people were responding saying that they have loving it. There are people that were like France elite this 'cause gonNA sell it out need my shit. Don't make don't make this hard for us to get please because they're so happy with it, but I love it I like. When are we going to see this armour shelves like I need to see it on shelves but I know it is handmade and an incredible ingredients and I know sometimes that can be sacrificed when you're trying to do more mass production I know sometimes, that can be you know an integrity issue that I have heard a lot of are faced with Psalm. Curious. You Know I. Don't know too much about that end how she's going to work that out but it is an incredible line curl mix dot COM And there was someone actually I wanNA. See if I have her. Is at Sarah Haley I. Hope I'm saying Haley Right I. Don't know if it's Haley or hail but Sarah Haley Mariam tweeted me and said that the site actually also has a Straw Bei hibiscus deep conditioner that I somehow did not see shut up as well as body butter. So I'm putting that order in two nights because I know Ya'll gonNA tear the site down. and. I was saying that I needed a deep conditioners I don't know how I missed that. But I guess it was like in another section that I just hadn't really been looking at But yes, they have hibiscus deep conditioner that I. Here is incredible people on twitter. Put me on. So as had put our rave review because it is a great product line Asante. You would love it you. Yes I'm let me do this right now. I'M GONNA be up out here out the low I've tally I sent it to crystalline Jay I was like. In. Natural. y'All need this in your life. Trying to decide which were they get because you know it has watermelon vanilla there's lavender. Lemon cream. Jade was excited about the lemon cream Yano Mascot, the lavender one and. And in the body butters are in the same sent lies and everyone was saying that they're just amazing. So. If you look if you were like me the Kiowa bored with your hair routine, just need to. Spruce it up a little bit of just you know product junkies looking for next hit definitely. Gets. Definitely tried curl mix dot com once again, shots of Kim and Tim Lewis who created. So you it's a married duo and I, think it's so cool that they've created this together family run business it's handmade. So you're getting some fresh product and I could feel it like the shampoo. So I see now shampoos usually give you that squeaky clean that makes it here kind of feel a little to clean. This one had the bomb combination where you felt clean but it was still really moisturizing at the same time. I was like she got this down to a science. Okay. So definitely, if you haven't tried it yet and if you have tried it 'cause I know I have a lot of naturals that that listen to the show. Tell us your thoughts how worked for you or didn't or whatever you felt I'd love to hear more I love that people with tweeting me like girl you lay. It looks so good to. I would have to fight myself now to buy every product because I have that tendency to just want to try everything and I'm like saying, you don't need to try everything fire. Appears on the wealth wellness segment. What isn't lack seed you because I just want some off the strength that they sell it like, yeah you know it's funny I I remember making a youtube video guy that has to be like five maybe six years ago I don't even know at this point whereas you had to make it is literal Gel that you make from boiling seeds. That If that don't let your kitchen down. That's not me. ME. To. It says into a little Gel and it is amazing for your hair and it gives you like a soft hold. So, you won't get that crunch that gels usually give you but it still gives you definition. So it's not too software your hair just kind of goes where it wants is a nice combination and then of course, because the flax is really moisturizing. So I know a lot of people swear by it and make themselves, which can is really cheap. You know sat flaxseed comes in that bag. You can have joe for a minute off for that and you keep it stored in your fridge But I love the fact that she had I think hers is like has avocado or something and just really good ass ingredients man every product. Every product, the shampoo, the conditioner, the leaving, the moisturizer, the body butter everything just good or the flaxseed jail that's what I was missing. So CURL MAKES DOT COM right at I've only tried the lavender's so the only sent I can really I it's not a strong lavender's a- actually pretty subtle but I, like that because I wear a lot of oils incentive products that add myself. So I don't like when I have like a clash of sense going on so I kinda like even those lavender was like a soft lavender and not like a to fruity or fake lavender you're like I ain't never smell lavender that smell like this. Like lavender don't smell like this. So great smelling. So. Definitely, check it out. Had to put that review. 'cause you don't understand even people that I see where like girl your hair looks like you died it because it was just so black and shiny. And rich you know when you when you treat your hair good and you look in the mirror like damn licking my hair though. You know that for our no, which one I want for cal problems. There for many like Damn I, I'm looking at the MOISTURIZERS. You know we've got the the Hobo oils you know stay lavender lemon cream sweet almond oil that watermelon you see. Lords. I'm even going get some I. E service. and Use ed body butter I can use that. Yes. Especially now that you know temperatures dropping. Going to need a little more moisture added to it. So definitely add that he is care arsenal I'm like I said. Because of how bomb the hair products were already trust has been care knowledge. I'm like she knows what she's doing. Decides as release it on the Computer I mean I. I think I was GONNA want nobody but but you know it's just look it's just something about the way it looks on the site that shown looks so rich. I just need to have it. Why This is crazy. Guy Advertising about to by somebody's not listening I'm telling you I am co-signing the hell. I'm going to be good with this project with this project with his product for a while because I've I need nothing else. So shots occur mix like I ask those of you listening if you use it, let us know how you think about it and that's it the Assads as face. I can see him adding things into because I subscribe and save. Twenty percent. So I was. So. That's this week's wellness segment back to you Asante what you got this week Mister Music man meanwhile as you clicking around I hear you messed up all my temperature. This weekend music you know what? I'm saying I WANNA talk to you all about my favorite things I don't like talking to you about which is music videos. Starting off with beyond he dropped his stuck on you music video talked about him on this show love and the boys loved the style Levin everything about him You know I think giving her work and he's probably working on some new music. New Visuals I'm not sure but I'm just loving this new. And maybe not even but this more. Highlighted in addition to the arm be seen. So shot to give you on, please go check out. Here's music video on Youtube also catering. Nada Tonight Shea they dropped their. Yes. Yes. I know that. I love. They dropped the video from the song from Bubba yes. Oh, worst in me you know that's my sign. You love this song friend that's my song. You literally have to go watch the video. So, what a good day. On the tube of you, it's been out for a few days. So you know you can still really enjoy the newness aspect of it. You know what? I'm saying it's really hot cinematography. You know what I'm saying you know you know the scene for kitchen ATAS music. The video really fits the vibe which I like. So shout out to catch not international check out the worst music video. Also messed up my tablet tree and closed the wrong one. To, go look at this name Rick. Seven streeter dropping other visual for us. kisses. Kisses with at the end. Seventh Street is always doing the things that I like from singing dancing till just looking damn good run talent just hit a gym a true diamond someone that I love to continue to see. Thank you seven. Thank you seven. Thank you seven just just want to talk about music videos really quickly because I love seeing an artist and especially the since a lot of us you know we're not leaving our houses or we don't want to leave the house shit. Loved escaping with the good Lord Visual see where they take with the song because sometimes you listen to a song and you have a different music video and then watch the music video and it might hit different you know what I'm saying. The we own we've talked about that already that was just a great. I keep going back to watch difference music video just. So I can watch the empire for good days and. Just everything about that video that went back out there. 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A Jenkins and the song I got put onto that. Kinda. Just made me fall into his rabbit hole was a song called care free and the video you would love it. Asante. 'cause I know you love your videos that creative different. Sad a video for you this week then but as cau- carefree look up the video. But in the meantime, this is how the song goes. Drugs. Care Reading Pride. On a cook by quake on a couple of weeks just brought to study never smoked. Music playing trying to. Push back reflex. Respect No. Suspects. Say We? Back was dumb jock politics upset only hit it to. The papers more speech fucking. We didn't want. Pop Popcorn. Get on that. I'm worried about. My mind and keep all colony tough. She Ain't too much. Weight so much. She prides. Can I just WanNa? Fuck wit just shift stop. Was Off. Stuff was how right? Man He's though he's just islands his house. And then who's my next wings has so many. Oh you know what shots Ken, the men because she. tweeted it was like, thank you for playing the SARS play the. And, she actually just hit adult milestone I think her spotify hit five million over five million listen. So that kind of set her over the edge I'm sure she was close and then our listeners just kinda like boop gave that final nudge. So shout out to her I hope she gets bigger and bigger and bigger she's definitely towns did you get a chance to listen to the? And I was actually going to say she has really doe visuals to like. I didn't like those our. Friend, she has really high like dope visuals, visuals and sounds like the the music is the shit and let me correct myself to she is not from Atlanta Erste see from Houston Erste are the Houston Fox. That's okay. That's okay because. They know so that the Family Okay Drake eight Houston Atlanta Vegas. Okay. I heard the a I. Just I. Don't know I got that wrong but thank you for correcting me and then so had shot her out who was the next person I wanted to Oh, here we go. Boom. My Boo cakes Exurbia Omar. Has a new song with Marie Bus White. I know see I knew you would react that way his album is dropping I believe on the twenty October twenty third. So we're getting out very. DOWN WE'RE GONNA come on down. And let me tell you something he sent. Me Link. I listened to the album y'all. I. He didn't give me permission to say anything about it, but I wanna tell you all the features so bad. I'm so. Everybody we love and it's just so good. It is so good. You know how we feel about him. So I'm so honored that he gave me a early listen but here's the song at least in the meantime he is. The first single is called like I feel featuring meriva. This is. Active. Wall. Around piece. Hoping that. A. You. Did. Start. Just let me know if you feel like I feel. ooh talent. What talent what a talent. Guy I just. Get All. When it comes to his, music. Xavier Omar. Hand Meriva to. You know what? We're just going to start calling friends online night. Okay. That savior performed one of the live shows. Okay. Did The D. C. Show was so tight man you know we have Marie bombed the show. Okay. Asked amazing watching these worlds collide. Right it might to. Dust, which been bumping Boban by Kit. First of all. An old school favorite of mine I believe I even played it on the show before it's you know you can never get enough of a good bank. So I I up we have buffalo stance by Nina chairs. Ladies and gentlemen I'd like to introduce the high hand. Go. This good. Now. Right now. The on. North Man. With the nappy. Girl wear padded. Bras. is to. Today. We always you know. Doesn't love. So don't get Chris with this. This is one of my favorite eighties your love eighties. Music. So. This is just one of my personal favorites. Favorites excuse me and I, was playing it this weekend. Also, I'm in love with the savage to album by twenty one savage metro booming liberty keep playing it from into end his one of my personal favorites which would probably be everybody else's to Mr Right now featuring drake. Inside Lackawanna Fat. Tse. We can create if you want. Tanya. Thank you. I'm a therapist but. Out of the tunnel down. Pipe down. Mr. Right. Right now. To. Maintain. Reported. In a land trough. Richard. Got Pretty Girl. Filling. In quarantine, but my long. Lame got friends on got a couple of spots on and they. Yeah so that's enough. Nina Cherry Buffalo stands and my boys drake and twenty one savage and metro booming Mr. Right now, and it's the song schism followed drake over. Says is Beckett Oh eight. Followed so go. For me. I have a song that I wanNA play that my listeners lately are all old I've just been kind of in this bag of music that I listen to where I just felt like I was in a timer like wholeness I don't know what it is and so this is co role with non displaying all my God rose with me. Thank. You. So. I think. That's Right, the JAM cohere Roy Keane. No, but that's what my playlist to actually put this on about the play. legitim- Johnny Siobhaun skeptic song with his artist's name OBI only called maybe already know so. To. Late. Wall cool. Like that but it also a little something like this. Of the. Head of A. To Expect. Stay. School. Me Yeah. Is. Let's. Say. Nice. Always. Great. Short I don't know what it is. And you know what? I'm GonNa like wake up tomorrow and it's GonNa be sample because there was just something magical about this I. Don't know why they played it in the skating rink. They just did okay like the jam do you hear me? I just love song and I love the little part you know what you talking about. A Share my little piece of joy. My throwback songs. That's why kicking and that's what I've been on for delicious lately and ask going to be doing it, and that's going to be doing. That's going to be for the music segment now destined Ross please tell us what you've been watching lately. You know it's not really a lot on TV right now lovecraft country is still ooh. Shake rattle and roll of every since in your body Sat out to my car the. Who called them late? Twins. I. Please M. O. R. Q. U. E. ON twitter. You guys. Friend of. The show. But Yeah lovecraft country is still being rattling enrolling us every week housewives. Potomac. Has Been Good as well. There's really not a lot. You know new on television right now for us to watch. So. There's really nothing to talk about the only thing I do want to talk about briefly Braxton's get your life series. Honest right is literally a first hand look and up to the producer Michael Beck on that show as well. But it's a first hand look into what her life was at that time, which is recently and her relationship with David at face Oh and I've just never seen anything like it. It's fascinating and all the wrong ways. Very unhealthy relationship very controlling partner very just manipulative is just so bad. That is shocking. See. So I. I suggest that everyone watches the show just to see because honestly makes you think about yourself in the way that you react in situations and it just it gives you a perfect example not to follow. So right you wanna be a better person in relationships watch this show so that you know what not to do and I'm talking about with David does on his show. Neymar David. So check it out y'all because we need to discuss it and I actually kind of want to build a episode around something that I saw in their show. So they'll be more discussion environment involving let later but. That's it for me. Damn, well, do actually I'm sorry Fran TV news congratulations to my friend. Cynthia Bailey and her new husband mark. Had A beautiful ceremony over the weekend and it is lovely to see her. So happy. So shot out Cynthia. Sally hand some. Thank you very much. Happiness they're a beautiful affair Great people there shout out to us. No, I don't sound like him. So I'm not even GonNa say that, but there were very fine people there. Leading to Selena Johnson quiet with my. He looks nicer sharp. To radio show to just Claudia George new so good to see her time with her just shout out to everybody but it was a beautiful thing I. Yes. I. Was Mashed up Cynthia and Mike had gone to extreme measures to make things safe. You know and as as covid nineteen protected. As it could possibly be and so it was a great event. So shut up to them and congratulations to their. Nowhere jubilation and shot out to my boy Carlton is good to kick it with Carlton Shots. Pale. My friends to see him so to everybody was a great great great great experience so Well. That's a sweet note to end on. So thank you guys for listening as always. We love you guys so much and castle next week. Stay Black and protect your magic by.

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Macy GrayThrowback

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Macy GrayThrowback

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So check it out price waterhouse Coopers in association with CEO Action for Diversity inclusion presents a new podcast series called time to act in which they'll explore the most pressing and. Divisive issues facing business today host WHA Vaughn Hutchinson. A CEO. Herself will speak candidly with business leaders about breaking down barriers to change and how they are creating a more inclusive and just society for all discover how the C. Suite of the world's leading companies are leveraging their voices and resources to bridge, divides, expand, Opportunity, and prioritize equality. Subscribe this new podcast time to act for free on apple podcasts or wherever you listen to podcasts. macy gray is one of my favorite modern singers. I really do love her voice. She got a new album called Ruby. And she's coming out with a line of weed for women called her. Of course she is. My wife says my interest a too long. So let's go. It's macy Gray on tour ratio. Is the twenty numbers. Makes me old? What are you GONNA do? Twenty years as your first album and now you're doing your tenth. That's huge. Most of US don't get to ten albums. I know. How it goes so fast. I. Didn't even know I, read it in. When they were talking about this hour is Ten Thousand and I didn't even know you didn't realize you done to head. Count can make. It's been a long time since the last album for you. I know stripped edited. I did a jazz album. was. Maybe two years ago that ago. You see very mellow. You don't let any of the pressures of the industry get to you. Is that real? No, no no. No that. Get, to be I think I've been doing it allowance and I've learned how to. How to maneuver my way through around it or whatever that would tell the folks who are coming up behind you. What are they have to do to maneuver their way through and around? Latest think I mean it's it's not the new force on yourself I. Mean you either one Or Two really. Everybody says I love what I do you know but I think the people they do. They you know they're the ones that stick with it. No matter what even let you down you know. Own you're. Not Being. Productive or whatever you still still wake up in the morning and And I thought you know you can. I don't think you can really forcing. Yourself to stick. Is it the singing that you wake up in the morning you need to do or the songwriting or just being creative in general. I love it. I love all like being on stage like making regular hustle. I like. I. Like the Parties I, the people I know having like of people that I don't like. Music. Like Ivan get them you know. So it's a small little world and I I just think that people who really. Enjoy it. You know even if they look miserable, there's something inside them that can live without it. Tell me about singing because I love your voice and I love your approach to singing and you're completely unique. You sound and the way you phrase and the way right and everything. Tell me about how you sing. Irish we. Will be like you're in a booth. The Mike is there. You got the words. How do you do it? Because the way you do it, it's different than the way. Toni Braxton does it or does this particular macy way about it? So how do you do it? I don't know you sing out. No I just. I don't know. I like you listen to people alone. Blame you still stuff here and there. And then things in your life changing it comes out and WOYZECK. I'll know you do it. Hey, it doesn't Toni Braxton. have kind of this Elvis they're gonNA does that she goes. Nobody notices that for me, but that's an Elvis influence who WHO The people you've listened to along the way who have influenced you how wasn't Disner? I. Love what she thinks of no of course of course. Negligence does. Really Okay we'll question? Who are some of the folks who you've listened to along the way who've influenced you? Johnny Braxton Fan Probably I learned how to sing. My first was a jazz band. So. I remember listening to a Lotta. Over overkill listen, I didn't really discover. Nina Simone del later but she ended up having a influence on me and then there was I was a huge Prince Fan. and. He told me that you can do range like he does elect. Wow. Wow like those cry, and then he'll crazy screaming note like on parade and so. largest to be adventurous and that you can. Do all kinds of stuff with your voice you know. And then really how they I learned that you should and these try to make everybody understand every word you saying because. She never missed a word you know. I was. Really. Like she's one of the only singers understand everywhere she says you know. And then there's people like breaks. Nacho, just have that leg. Don't Miss No you know that. You. Know you make. Swag. Swag on it. And then. You know you you try to be Franklin Whitney. HOUSTON. But that's not what happened. Robert Plant Scream. Kamal and Her Cobaine you little. Little whisky and cigars and you boys I mean there's all kinds of. People go on. There's all kinds of things to learn from James Brown you learn how to you know. Camo. Stuff 'cause on the show. Oh. Up Ship With? No like no words just. Grabs and sounds and and And learned a lot from my publicity's recommend especially biggie you learn rhythm rhythm in your voices. Sing on. The don't miss the be. Do you know what I mean? How do you sing on rhythm I know rappers do it but I, don't know how to do it. Just you know has lose be my way Michelle that to give it a jump. Of. You know you can belt in. You know just strategy show off your vocals. But the being with the drums. The Band Bantu are you one to do lots take? So you kind of get it quickly. Now. I really impatient is to the ideal takes and leave it to the. Producer out and. I don't like singing 'cause 'cause I. Lose the how I feel about it if you if you're constantly over, you lose the. What the song about because he's so focused on. Trying to do it again the MINUTIAE. The MINUTIAE. Yes I think it five times and then. That's only will have the on. That I only do five takes, and then the rest is on you. Yeah I sing Outta go for I. Give it everything that I don't WanNa keep singing it over and over 'cause they're out there know the now over and I don't really. I can't really put the how I feel about it. Is there something particular about five? No, that's just that's what I started move on and it's just me. You know what I mean that's what I'm like. Okay. I'm over it. Singing. Straight through or in pieces or. I. Actually I do warm up a couple and then I'll do it at the most five times. Do you warm up. Your Voice I. Remember. What do you do in a warm up? Man. By the of Roger Burnley is vocal coach and he has these awesome exercises that I do before every show. They only take ten minutes. Goes from here to here. It's sick. What do you do? What I do? Ain't like that. And then you do typical. You do the tongue-trill. Back the secret is to push your voice and do it at had not low notes. And then do a breathing you fill up, you start making you get out his middle. To lie your bathrooms out in China. Trade Singer, you can do like thirty or forty those. Twenty two breathing going viewer sound like this. Yeah. So. What is it that told you? I can do. Nothing really I would a long time not thing in act sing I just was having fun I was having really Tom. I like I like payroll musicians a lot in and I liked him by like I like the atmosphere that that music creates I like the people that that that gravitate to it. Yes just the energy thing and. I don't know that I could actually I was actually okay and he had it. I mean, I loved you since the first single and I always loved your voice but but we know your voices controversial right and there are people out there who like? I just don't like her voice. What do you think about that that there's some people who love the sound and there's some people were like that sound is just not for me. I actually, my villains aren't really easily but but I get tired is not. Not for everybody I don't I'm not really a typical singer I don't. I'm not like a belt I can't. I can't do like Lou Gehrig does or Christine Agla. And that's that's kind of the standard. Of seeing it. Really I don't really do that at all actually. Can't do it. You get your feelings hurt when people say they don't like your sound. Seventy. Myself but I do I mean a successful as you've been as many people who are like your great here's a grammy here's a show. Somebody going like that bothers you. Yeah you always. Sucks I mean I mean I definitely know he'd be like you if I'm giving a speech and there's one person who's not feeling in them like, Hey, the girls thing laughing with her, she's not likely. Awful out the worst thing in the world I know. But you can't get around it. The way you sing on stage is different than the way you sing studio. I'm actually better on stage because I'M A. Journalist and I have audience Dan Have A. Purpose. Of all these people to please. You got your band right next to you and. Then you got their energy and and you've got one chance in the studio. Chances Seem. You know. But I know people who worked on for like six weeks so because you can fix it your. Machines and you have engineers metal dying. That's a that's a software that. Makes you vocals perfect. Okay. Everybody's using. It is just like in case, the producer desert here off no mellon catches it as why Moguls are perfect. Is it 'cause? That's awfully if if you don't want to you don't have to. But most producers just because they. Sound good whether you. Agree and they put on you. Better on stage much better. Because he said, the purpose is clearer it's bigger bigger. Have all these people and you have one chance you don't. You don't get to go back and do the songs. In. Melatonin you got one chance so. You know you have one chance of something you. You'll go for a differently. You want nail it the pressure makes it come out better focuses you more. Sweat adrenaline and you know he's a lot going on instead how are you better as a singer now than when you started So. Just a bit live live is the best factory of voice in the world. 'cause you sing every night on anytime something every day get better at it my what it is. So and that. Bowl. So My. Think my voice letting my voice has changed a little busy than it used to be. WHY DOES NOT ACTRESSES Wells and I. I still see my vocal coach. I mean, you know I still work on it. So I asked to get better. What is the vocal coach teaching you? He just. Rogers, really excellent giving your voice healthy, which is why I like him because a lot of local cultures will tell you what to sing like. They'll tell you to do a certain run or something which aired as we more than anything. So tragic tells you. Had How how'd? You voice doesn't go out how you don't how to keep your vocal chords from wearing out or getting injured, which happens. So allies in. Voices actually never been. injured. And I don't. I'm not like a you know. Don't do this don't do. I'll I'll eat, anything in do whatever. But You know but I've never never never had a voice energy. What do you? Do you feel. You still have the macy Gray Music Academy I got but we did it still foundation and we still give instruments to schools and donate to schools and stuff like that existed for many years it was around for a minute. I was I was that was like that. I was the busiest. I had ever been in that school and I wasn't around to look after it and I didn't know anybody that look after you. Probably I didn't really know what I was doing either because I never I was the head of. That's a very serious you know. charities and foundations like that an art which I didn't know I just thought I'd raise money. You know help out a bunch of kids. When it When it was working, right what were you? What did you learn about how to teach music to younger folks? Really it depends on the age and it depends on the parents because some some kids are there because they're bob wants their periods as that's different approach. Zuno. Really are into into learning about. And I met one of the best players I haven't heard fifteen and. I'm a avowed in the world was ending. He still was shown up class. Then, you have kids who are like. You know they're just there because of the MOM and dad wants. Learn. How plays just depends? Depends on your motivation yet depends on the kid was on. How fast learning or some some kids. Osama who plays by ear and he plays by ear better than he can read our you have kids. It's it's a whole different. That's all another. All. I do love the new album Ruby. It's classic macy soulful Funky Fun but thoughtful and. Stuff on it. It's amazing out. All modesty side, we didn't we made a great album. How long did take you? About, often about a year and a half, maybe a little longer but I didn't wasn't going in every day was happening year. Then we stopped go back. One of the songs you talk about I'm a lady but I think like a man, what does that mean? Actually. It's like. What is what does that mean? It's just the that women have their stereotypes in men have this. Man Get though you know they get a hustler they'd. Get all the accolades when it comes to Approaches to thing things all business or even smart. You know men get all that. So that's only Sammaka milady but I can. You talk about if I was Jesus things would be better. On witness. That record and it's a classic sort of thoughtful soulful macy gray record. So if you were Jesus, what would you actually do to make things better? Oh. In general. I would just want everybody to be happy you know I. It was written about someone who I knew was suffering and and. And, You know like you pray for. Who's ever going through it and you you know like you? You wish you had the power to make everything on. You. Know. My mother has cancer I. Wish I had the power to. Just, jump into her body and fix it. You know. So I was. So that's where it came from like I wish I was Jesus. I could fix it for she's going through that now. Yeah for. I'm. Battling though she she it's been wadsworth good eight years. And she she's awesome jazz energy of a five year old. But You know she she's. Very. You know she loves life you. She's always doing something like she's type and go to at four and the offense six radio. It's hard to watch though county. I'm not like that. So so you know. That's another discussion she has to take all this medication and I personally think that's what slows down the medication. Yeah. Because who can take all those pills and? You know. That to me I don't think I. Don't know if she could do without it and everybody's coming up with all the CBD and stuff but But to me, it's medication that that. To me. Out, are you like anti medication, you like organic Vegan like everything naturals person. I I just think it's I think maybe back in the day when they first started making that medication but now it's all. About money I just don't trust in you know. Like, you you don't why bankers have to be addictive like, why can't you take that element out my why cigarettes have to be. Have Chemicals like just you know what I mean. It just seems like it's all geared towards making people come back for more. So now, it's as Super Slam to me I. Just I just don't trust it but I think when? I started taking medication. It was probably a lot fewer and less geared towards. Capitalism and stuff like that. I mean. Capitalism seems to be corrupting every thing. Because there's just no way you need all that I don't think so. And then you have to take the bill and then you get addicted to the bill and then you have to get off rag off the bill and it's just it's awful lot and I don't think that that's an accident right? Right right. I want you to talk about songwriting and you. What is your process? You know what? It is so much about what I do just against songs pop in my head all day. A lot of them are awful. You gotTa have bad ideas to get to good idea. Unfortunately fortunately. Most of the time I right when I'm in the studio like we're. In that environment the track and then write the song. It's just it's weird. It's environment minister. Up and you know opened up. Whether Charges Plan Oh? Oh, just being in the studio environment even if it's quiet. Yeah, get. More creative than just when you're walking around. Gambling I WANNA blocking around there's so much going on but would you have to be out in the world for inspiration you know? You have to do all that I think to be a good writer. You gotta you to hop broken. You gotta you gotTa stuff to be honest I. Think I think that's true and it's sort of like painful that we have to go down the road of pain. Good artist but. What's more boring than a happy? Happy. Happy I learned. Change Yeah. I mean, no, you're right I. Mean I think the communion around pain and difficulty between the listener and the artist is a deep relationship deep moment she is dealing with pain. I know her pain I feel connected to her exactly right? I think I think that's what songs affordable connect you know either. You. Don't connect with you, but it makes you dance or you connect or. Get you, introspective you something about your own life or you just want to have sex or you WanNa you know you wanna go make some more money because homeboy has a you know a new push and his video I mean it's inspiring. Do you rate with pen papers it just like talking the song to the air. Now. Obviously I get by the Meighan I am I right on the spot. On the Mike. I, don't I don't really. So. Does that help the singing? A lot of folks have talked about not writing it down helps because it helps you fit the the words to the lyrics to the music. I just don't run down soon, get the idea when I want to put it on. Mike I don't WanNa stop it and have to write it. Yeah. It's immediate. What drives you Likely like you are, you're twenty years in the music game. You're what? Ten Years in the Hollywood game you know you are clearly like an artist who just needs to get up every day and create something and imagine if we don't hear an album from you next year because you were. Writing in your journal, you're doodling or you were writing poems or something and I feel like you've you are just a flowing vessel of Art van. Is that the way it is? Now I. I like creative. I like making up stuff and like. I like hearing ideas, I love people. Just want to just. Go a whether it makes sense or not you know. I don't know like I said I like you just she something that's in you I don't know if you can force like people say I'm so driven but it's it's really just One your body needs and when your life needs and and and you that's what you do. You know what I'm saying the the art feeds you. You're saying that you need it. So that's why you get up everyday and do it. Yeah. You just need it. It's like it becomes part of you know like you need food like you gotta like if you don't go place get on stage you go crazy I mean I don't know what I'd do if I didn't do. I Look I. You'll be dancing. Yeah. That'd be miserable. So when you get up in the morning and you lay in bed, the reason why you get out of bed is because. I gotTA. Make something. Right. Tell me about that. What is that thought process? That's the only way I know how to operate I. Don't I don't really. Analyze very well second I wish I could explain all this to you but I just. Don't know way my mind works like you know that will do something called his energy you want to go do this you know. And then what I'm not creating something that I'm. Completely. The opposite I need elect just zone out. I need to do nothing. On what hundred? Zero. Yeah. Crazy. What's your superpower? My Superpower Oh God I don't know. What does that mean I? Mean some people have that thing that ability that they feel They have more than other people and it helps propel them to do the things that they do. You have a lot of I. Don't give a fuck I don't I really don't I really care deeply about everything you do. So, I'm wrong I. Love you overnight but I think I give that often I, that's not me. I can't say deeply that because I feel like you are not encumbered by what others will say or think about the you are. If, we were able to say others do whatever I WANNA do. We would look more like macy are you saying that's not the case? Not Not always I mean you can't do that crying about everything. So you you learn. To like you know just handle stuff you know. I mean I don't. I don't go around tell everybody how I feel all day no right and you. have been something that you've had to deal with. Right. You've been managing depression for a while took about that like how do you? How do you do that up? I think that's why I get it some because it gives you you can't like. I've learned that you can't. Like now it's just you know it's almost cool to. Suffer from depression because everybody says that but I, think that's where it came from because I can just go through life you know looking miserable and crying and telling everybody you know how how bad you feel it just doesn't just doesn't work out for you. So I got learned to. you know do what I gotTa do in. And and keep it moving. Capable because you have to do, that would be hard. You, you have to use to make a choice you know and and I tell my kids like you can't get around Ben UNPERFECT. You can't get around things not being setup. Perfectly. You can't get around and just what life. you know how it happens. So you have to you have to get up and And? you know you gotTA figure out how to go you know and and not only go through but shine while you do lack the Estar. You'll have choice. So, are you can. You know. Down about everything because it is very easy to get down, you don't have to suffer from depression or. Anxiety to find things to get down. It doesn't it's sometimes beyond your control and it'll be. I mean. I've had times when I'm like I think delayed out for six hours. There's nothing I can do and your conscious mind is like come on, get up and like your body's like Oh, hell. No. And like you can't just like choose to get out of it or snap out of it or any more than if you have a cold I'm sick of being sick like well, you have to go through it and this is what your body is giving. You know your body very baffling definitely dictates your day absolutely but I but I think You. Know. Sometimes. You get a get a minute and you go off somewhere in your cell phone you know, and then you you gotta get back up and go. Or else I'd say things don't work out. It's just the way it is. I mean if you have a cold, you gotta call met you money. Tell you this house going be today. By. Are the youngest of you got. I have loved Cu onscreen in the different movies that you've chosen to do talk about acting and you you seem to. Not play very far off of who you are and. That's because. No I was nine. Just what I'm not a trained. You know like those in like those Meryl Streep. I don't do theater. Got Lucky I my record came about Antoine Fuqua WHO Director Cheney Day. Love my Mac, and he had this idea to put me in movie. And that's how it all started. Talk about being in training day and I mean a fantastic scene right with Zell where you're going toe to toe with him right? Because you're. Him and give it back to him and. How was that? That was lying because he's really the only reason. I did the movie because when Anton. Asked me at all. He was out of his mind I was like, what are you down by another actress I've thought he had no idea what he was doing if he's putting me to movie there must not be very good. That was what I thought. Okay this dude. So I kind of blew him off and he came in the studio. And I am in studio whatever any came down. He was really retirement. Gave me in this movie, and then he said you know did jails in it and What added because I didn't know that and then that's what I. Okay. I'll do because I wanted to meet. I wanted to get a picture with himself and show them my mom. That was my motivation you do drain. Sweating I. Tell me about doing that seeing with Denzel because that's what you got paid for, and that was the hard part I assume. Yes. So luckily, I it was good that I was a fan because I. Know. A member huge fan but it was good that my intention was just to get the picture. Because then I didn't take it soul like it wasn't the end of the world I can. Do this I wanted to get a picture and if I do pretty good. Pitcher. It was it was. Moment when you're in the moment with him right and I'm sure you did more than five takes you. And, but I mean, he's formidable I mean what is like when you're like going back and forth with him? Well, that was the thing I could just because I just act. Like I, did do research like I saw coach and she was like what you need to do since not like a trained actress UNITA pretend you're this girl and just just live her like you know I only had two weeks ago already she's usually deliver. You need to watch the TV show she will watch you need to go get her name. The coach no, no your character's name I forget. What does she watch? What did she watch watched COPS COPS I do remember as she liked cops. But when the cops bid, she was like fuck y'all. That's where you see like the people that she would hang out with like that. Those were the stars in that show. So she could relax you just watch cops inch like game shows and she likes soap operas. I do remember her personality. was she a welfare queen or was she just there and going to work later? She wasn't all welfare queens she was like you know she was she was criminal I've may was a criminal families criminals. She learned have money but keep it on like have money but living in a project. So that's all she knew right? Right my hairdresser but I but I will buy the victim was where she going to wear somebody hairdresser. and. She had these really long nails. She scratch my scalp, their nails I remember. Taking on her. Her Look Chilean she had this really terrible over we've like way too much hair because she made on wigs she. Actually she would just pull way too much joins I had this the biggest we've I could find it was awake and I got the nails I could get an I chewed gum. I. Went to the dentist and got a gold tooth. And the smoking was so evocative. Smoking so intense and obsessive and. Yep is one. The one thing we were. Shouted in Imperial Heights. Do you know La at all? That cycle projects in La. So, everybody down there smoke like you walk down the sidewalk in this cigarette everywhere. This is before you know. You, know we'd is legalize maple stuff. So the. Cigarette butts like neb suit so I told him I smoke zoo it. And but I wasn't a smoker at the time. So I didn't know how to hold my cigarette, which is probably why So interesting because. Of. As. I did work. Smoker at the time. No smoke weed everyday. This of their game me all my songs. referenced. Can I. Guess I'm like you know House Marino that like people think that I think people just on eggs go through how sweet and I didn't put a number on. But I figured. You one of us who smoke. Smoke. Off Like I said okay. So I have meeting the other day and this kid literally out by gave him because I'm starting a new we'd line. So. I gave him this low sample and he lindy smoked it. Like, he couldn't finish conversation because he was. House in Mesa added never been. You mean like a strain. Not Doing strange I'm doing packaging doing for women. I'm doing we that. Is Good for women what does that mean? So, women have different bodies we have we have we get the clamps. I'm working on there's all the strand is already been invented goes I that's how I know that it works but there's a a way that we knocks out your cramps past. As part of my line with the cold. We'd that desert scrape coach okay. So you're marketing and this will be dispensaries. And such in California and Eventually York. So. This is macy gray. What is it called on her her? Her. I mean, guys can smoke it anyway. Nobody knows all about great Bush but I think a lot of people don't know that Max out claims. Better. Yeah. No definitely definitely, it's interesting that you are micro targeting the usage because I get frustrated when people are like well, I don't smoke marijuana because it puts me to sleep I'm like. Yes that strain that you had put you to sleep if you smoke this other, it won't and. We don't sort of codify marijuana's countries just here like if you get into it, then you know. I mean. If I just gave you a glass of wine and and tell you what it was you'd be like I don't like wine, but you don't like peanut greasy which you're gonNA love. This Sarah Whatever? Now wait is very scientific as a lot of those into grown weed and it's a it's a really fascinating science actually but they would you're right. There's so self they say I don't like it because it makes me sleepy but that's better than taking sleeping pills. Prescription Channel. Anything over the counter this. Is Her out now. We're shooting Christmas as a dream I think we're going to make. I mean as a marijuana entrepreneur, you could get. Very rich could. Doing it to be broke. Records. No. Of course. Not It's it's a huge. Growth Market and Then I really think you know there's this What's what's? What's What's more like writer would for stigma? Putting the pressure on. There is stigma is a good word because there is a stigma around smoking weed, which I think is attached to its illegality games. They think it's illegal it's immoral but if it's not illegal than is immoral, it's plant. Has. been. It doesn't make you violent escape. Plans crazy. What's the? What's that Super Intellectual Word for stimulus? I don't know I don't know I can't read your mind. thinking. You don't want to. But I. I don't know figure it out right after we finished the interview. Right. But no. But what are you saying there is a stigma around smoking and you want to try to break that down. I think there's always going to be a stigma around. because. That's that's the legacy of it, but it's it's. It's really terrific. Player and as the sides to it is. Fascinating and and You know a growing and all that is just a proper craft and you know. So there's this stigma. UNDERGRAD. You know people just sit around and smoke, but there's IT drinks so much to it especially when you get into regular down in oils and cannabis and bill are you oh, you're selling oil and flowers eventually I'd. You know what? My mom I send my mom CD oil, CBD oil and and that helps out quite a bit. These smoke with your kids. I don't want to say. Can I get arrested? Oh there your children and your children are grown children are twenty, twenty, one and twenty, three at one. For the rest of. They're not supposed to. What actually what am I kids? Wait actually helps her asleep I mean if we if we think that it's fine, it's just the plant it's not immoral. Why would we not smoke with them I? Mean you would share a glass of wine with your grown children right or a beer with. The whole fantasy that twenty. Concerned Twenty Along. One hundred percent. But they're not. They're not. They're. Not Babies. Thirteen, old a different thing to do it with a twenty year old now like alike. So as way for me to just Kinda, make sure she doesn't get out of hand. So why don't you can't sleep? I'll sit down I'll stay of weather and we'll have a little joint together because it helps her sleep. I don't WanNa be feel like she's alone a bed night. I mean I could see in the future with my children are older like do it with me so that it's controlled and I know what you're doing and now you're getting good stuff and I know you're not doing too much and you understand rather than do it with some funky who does not know what they're doing when I I think a lot of parents. How much influence I I'm becoming my mother as much as China. I'm probably my mom so. I just think if kids watch you do certain things like if they see, you do it in moderation than their party going to do it in moderation. Doing it only to help them sleep or whatever. Then that's probably how they're going to make it a big huge thing. But if you hide it and make the end of the world and they find other ways to do it and they don't understand. How to control it and keep it in check and then that's when it can get. Are you going to be able to sell her at your shows? I don't know I. DON'T I. Don't I don't know A. Thirty Gallon Egypt the company that I'm working with day kind of know all the. Things. I do know that there's the thing they're really focused on is. For the the Child's child safety on all packaging now. Really the little ziplock bags those are going to be guarding the little tubes or you just do that those those are going to aspirin type two. Yes that that's going to be tough 'cause that's that that there's a lot of regulation in California I. Don't know everybody's lost in California. It's all about making everything. Jesus okay. Sir. what is the? Most instructive failure that you've had. What is you mean like a failure that taught you a lot and helped you grow? Wow every every everything I wanna I wanNA. Learn from everything that that that doesn't work out for me. Does after like that's the intention. Like if you believe in God and it's easy to get upset when these guys were wearing this me. But but I think that the only regularly nonstop is if is if it doesn't work out I. Yeah now you don't. People I've been given the best advice in the world but I didn't. I don't know is not true for me I actually screw it up but that's just me. It's not true. What do you mean? Like somebody can say you know don't ever. I don't know. I don't don't ever drink alcohol. Don't drink too much alcohol. You say yeah. Yeah. Sure. You will drink too much. And then you wake up next annual over the toilet throwing up a new day shot you had five appointments that you have canceled over still right up and. Then you? Throw that happens off and then you learn. The, you know the for limit on your a people just tell you like whatever I'm going to go. And alleged are. I, don't know you. You have to let and stuff the hard way to bridge really set in. That that's me though typically have to learn the hard way to for just a profit. There same way? Yeah Oh my God. It's not even funny. In your kids. Some stuff they're very can visual people and they will raise the differently than I was I wasn't raised in La and. I've been fortunate to do well for myself with my my parents were my dad. was a a Bible what they're still factory he's all for my mother was a teacher. So we were all right, but it wasn't like it wasn't like living in California? That's for sure. What is it like for you growing up? Let's humble right? Western. Working Class. To be LA UPPER-CLASS STAR. What is that like? What was what I mean like? It's the world you're in now is totally different than the world you grew up in. Yeah. How's that for you? Miss Good. It's good because you know you don't WanNa be in the same place for him. You don't want like twenty years ago by you're still in living in the same house. As you were on you again I don't know I mean for me some people do want to make that judgment call but. For me, it was important to meet Gigi. No. I wanted things out alive and and. And I always felt like I deserved them in and so saw what for. You thought you deserved bigger things. Yeah. Why did you deserve? I just didn't see why other people had stuff that I didn't have I. Never. I never was cool down like why is he gets in a big house and I, don't I you know I, just. But that's you know that's just that's just probably ego which my parents gave me. My mother has a massive ego on. My that was very confident and a lot of self esteem that I deserve rather than like this the way it is, and like what can I do but like I mean you said serve like I like that sense of confidence like I. Got To have that. Confidence at to donated yes. Yes. Yes. Well, confident. Confidence. there. must be I mean it seems like there must be a lot of self esteem. I've grown in the film collaborative. But have a lot of Hams by myself and I'm super self conscious still that never went away. So can you tell us just like one thing that like you said hangups about yourself lakes than something that you don't like That, you can't change. My looks because my mom my mom never she she didn't want to tell me I was like good looking she didn't want me to ever be stuck on my looks because she thought that would distract me from doing well in school. So I've never been confident about my looks like how like when people tell me I'm pretty I I don't always believe him as I say yeah yeah is weird. Like the things you know that Japan stick with the just don't go away. No matter what happens. Yeah and that's you always because she was she didn't. She didn't explain that to me to she go titleholder. Kid. Not. You know not thinking I was that attractive because my mom and dad never wanted to tell me. They wanted me to do well in school which I did it. Is Interesting that you gravitated toward the stage when you didn't think you look good and you didn't think you sounded right for the stage at first you didn't think you sounded good. So why? One told you yeah. But I can be out there. I don't know I don't know but at the same time I'll i. don't have I don't. I'm not really scared of too many things so. Like when I got a chance to get on stage I just got up there you know. What? I. Mean. This is your tribe musicians. You've referenced that a couple of time like. Around musicians even if I'm not talking to even if they're in the next room, I just liked being in that environment. What are you getting? She's energy is things that musicians talked about is know. The places that they choose the goal the things hat musicians laugh at are just so different than what people have people in music in general would what musicians laugh at that? The rest of? Nerdy stuff like you know you know the way like hope that this bass player went to that notice to that when they talk about like really not musicians stuff. But if you're a musician you it and some of it's funny. Yeah. Food most musicians are really into food. My keyboard player bailing I really liked. And had a German really into their foods. Yeah. I mean. I. Could See you know we get around quest loving them and their nerd out about some tiny piece of equipment or something. It's even if I'm not listening, it's just they're. Found this old comfortable Curtis Mayfield Song I'd never heard before. timbering plan for Curtis. Mayfield. Of course. But it's in it's in the air and you know it just makes me comfortable. I can relax. Poker. Are you good? I'm alright. I'm not as pocus. So popular that people like get coaches now teachers and read. Poker books. Before I was out just for fun you win but now everybody's so. Deep in poker and I can't compete with those guys. And they don't go to work. They just play poker all day. Will you have to lose a lot before you can make a lot? Be Good some of those guys just that's all they do to. You can't like I. Do once a month or twice in my can't compete with someone who does every day of course. So really the ought becomes choosing what table you sit up. More than to me that's what what's your game. My game. Leave me which which, what, what card, which poker game do you. No Limit Texas holdem. That's the only one. You really good at it. I didn't play with people who can't really play that well. Take. Those people there I know you gotta you gotTa. Really it's really important. What is the hardest thing that you've overcome in your life? Welcome by. How like hot in what like I mean like the challenge I mean part of what I like to do on the show is to give people since of confidence and give them the sort of roadmap on like when you get into a difficult situation here's something you can do to deal with it, and if they could say macy, Gray, told a story about when she did this got into trouble and here's how she worked her way out of it and maybe I can do that for me. Oh Alar is probably just giving up Stuff. That wasn't good for me out say. all kinds of stuff you know I've tried a lot of stuff out. and. You know I don't know man you know. All kinds of stuff. That list is very long. So I don't know when you when you start doing well life you have access to a lot of things. Like we would get off stage and literally people come back stage and You know all kind of pills and all kinds of weed and it was it was pretty crazy. So you have access to. All these things, and if you haven't tried them out here you by time. So it's a matter of. Getting Matt, in, control in. and. Energy into what you jumping have man now. Not Not not not not. That I could talk for days about so just in the abstract. If I was a gentleman who wanted to date you, I'm married. So not specifically me. Thank you. What. Way to the teenagers. Conversations going to be so different. What how does it change? They just change everything up they just ruin. You just level just goes way out there. 'cause they're through all the hormones and all those. They stop making their own decisions because they think they're grown and stop picking. You know some of their friends often they start coming through the house. They start getting into stuff that you just. have no idea what they're doing. This and you know expensive. More expensive than kit little kids. Shoes alone. So so so so a man who wants to be in macy gray's life has he doing? Okay. He have to be a lot of fun I like I'm. A like guys who like to laugh loudly. Guys spontaneous because I'm I'm very I'm in the moment allows part of my. Need someone who's not in the moment Now that Both in the moment. Thence can be too crazy Somebody. Who Plan stuff and who maps things out and thinks about. A schedule and what's coming up and stuff like that. But you're always in the moment person yeah. Very immediate. That's but that's something I'm working because it doesn't doesn't always work with the great quality for an artist. Yeah but you you know because I don't plan stuff things get allow crazy. I. Actually Miss Out on things because I'm not prepared for. What I should have taken time to prepare for. Kind of. It's a book but. Around me now like I don't have the expanded in yeah, I could I could tell you about it sounds like a well. But being able to be in the moment is really really powerful. I guess, I. Mean It's it's it's cool. But you know you you want to be smart. You WanNa. You WanNa be ready for staffing and and be on time and stuff. Time in the moment you know you know. Like last night mega till five if I was a proper plan or an organized person, I would have wanted to sleep at. Eleven in in radio you don't normally go to sleep at eleven year. Wish I. I wish I was. Leno people like that and and they're very hasn't they do well. Happy. You have done extremely well. I'm going to do more things pudding. Do in the next five years. What are some of your dreams and goals I'm looking at the TV show I really want to do I really want my we'd lying to be successful. And I really want my music to break out. I. Feel Like I've done a of good albums and they had had the support back that they should of I'm really. I really want to leave the earth and. Be Known for being honest. For being one of the greatest light being on that list. Really. Can Hide that. You give my music. Thanks to macy gray for a fantastic interview and thank you for listening to this show gives you fuel to power your dreams because you can use your dreams like a rocket ship to blast you into a life you never imagined you can make your dreams a reality. And this show can help among twitter at Torrey on Instagram at Torrey show please say hi subscribe rate and review tell a friend about the show. Tori shows written by me and produced by Chris Colbert and the Young Turks with help from William Jolly Jason Wallace candidate Nicole in our photographer Chuck Marcus. We'll be back next Wednesday with more knowledge from awesome. People. Because the man can't shut us down.

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Tub in the Kitchen? Lawnmower Manscape,Naughty tractor loving yokel, steam room confessional,pickled onion pasties

Keep Calm and Cauliflower Cheese Podcast

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Tub in the Kitchen? Lawnmower Manscape,Naughty tractor loving yokel, steam room confessional,pickled onion pasties

"Gee Com Kiki's he told me last. Geez. Keep. Calm. And cauliflower cheese. Yes welcome to the PODCAST. Sir. Huge. Stretches. It's so hot outside I. Think I just I just got the Victorian bathing suit on today and is doing a few little Torma becks sizes here. I can do while sipping tea. The couple of trying to sources. Attached to a hat with a robber discreet stroll so I can suck up the. Goodness of the T-. Oh it's so lovely. Levin. Back again. And this week on the car, we're getting close to the big twenty But this is some of the things that we may or may not be talking about on keep coming cauliflower cheese. Chappie the. Oslo. Michelin restaurants embrace e touted help out scheme British. Government interviews this fifty percent off if you go into each job at your local restaurants. Experts. Paul Storm Celebrity winds celebrity plunk. Bath tubs with the ingrown toenail's crushing the grapes and Porgy Boggling selling it for two thousand dollars a bottle. Have a boss in the kitchen and will save your fortune in rent. Giles coren reviews the white horse and duck in my hometown. The Best Lomo is to cost four thousand dollars a gadget to give you the perfect law. And we have a little personal article that came in. From one of the stories we had on the show last week, which is Robert Interesting only couples can stop France's roller cops that said French. Bobby on the beat. Chasing along on their little rollerblades. Palm lies the lunch could be could I'll be the superfood of the future. Your therapist will see you now what spas like after post lockdown, we have some of the beauties we have some scalawags. DANZ. We have some medieval tincture ten. Coming along the way the softening my uncle's not around said, there'll be no you. Know. Campadonia. Visits the French countryside visit this week. But the travel lovely to have you along the way and your most most most most welcome. So government should regularly be applauded but. Michelin restaurants and bracy eat out to help house. So this is in UK the COUDL The Michelin Star usually guarantees a steady parade of customers in search of fine dining but Britain's most highly regarded restaurants and now very vulnerable. Strengths in the Michelin Guide have been unable to replicate their services takeaway form and so many at pinning the hopes and pining the hopes on the government's eat out to help out scheme which runs from Monday to August thirty first and offers a fifty percent discount on food and non alcoholic drinks consumed Monday to Wednesday with maximum saving a ten dollars per person while this expected to provide the biggest boost to low cost Kosta restaurants, it has been taken up by more than forty. The sixty seven micheline venues have reopened in the UK refer one hundred and two Michelin Star places that have not resumed trading at. So I know it doesn't count on your your KFC happy bucket. or or Mickey D's milkshakes sadly. That would be getting like milkshake fifty pounds or fifty cents. which would be delicious but I think this is a great idea because a lot of restaurants have. People are People are very hesitant about coming back ozzy covert. And also the hideous moss that they they have to wear. You should everybody should wear masks but get yourself a fashionable in sweep round a nice little velveteen mosque or a silk scarf wrapped around a few times that'll keep you very well protected as those talk about last week. But I think it's a really good idea gets people back in restaurants and I think people seriously. People. You, know more concerned about your pennies in that pocket then than than than covert. So giving a little bit of a discount gives people a little bit of. A foot up the arse to get out there again and supporting our restaurants all around the world But in Britain is a great scheme and one that's going to be. Applauded, and hopefully some of these restaurants or get some clientele in soon. All Aba off the kitchen save a fortune governor. On the third floor of an old brick tenement building in Chinatown in New York, there's a flat to lead is a big studio. The broker says in the video that it gives perspective buys a view of the place. He looks into a small bathroom with no shower or bath only a sinking lavatory where we wash I wonder the broker moves into the kitchen brand new stove. The camera pauses lovingly and pans posse refrigerator. There's a bathtub in the kitchen. The broker says without breaking stride is a large white bath between the fridge in the kitchen sink fed by pipe snakes out from behind the workshop. There's a shower above it and circular rail for the shower curtain, which would. Want to draw less you sprayed the person chopping onions next year. Well, that's that's that's the whole thing. If you know if coming, you're cutting a few onions or dare I, say the ghost pepper and a little bit goes astray and joins you in the water and could cause you a terrible terrible rash and probably a severe amount of pain. But I see that I see the icy the benefit of this I. Think if you've had, you know couple of days in lockdown. Do we all share every day? No. I. Mean Even even me as a pristine butler. With pressed shirts and And crease in the trousers I don't always shower every day. Honestly. So I mean, if you if you a couple of days gone and you haven't showered you now you could get the You could get the wire without you could get the you know the sponge with a y piece in the back again, the script down to the old boy. Scrub the crown jewels, you get all that dirt and scare off the crown jewels. I think it'd be absolute. Fantastic. Double Up. Over the square to ferry liquid dorn into the off there. So you don't need the soap suds here. You know you could probably use a little bit of a little bit of cooking oil to slip back your hair I mean I think it could be fantastic. Could you know? Two for one double the fun you know you could incorporate your cooking eating into the top. You know you could eat a pass the I've done that many times. As in the past in the bath I think that's absolutely phenomenal. By the way later on, we're going to be talking about laze mantlepieces the most phenomenal meat pastry pie past. Never reheard of read about it. And it sounds outset delicious and we'll. Be Talking about that an on so we will love gadget. The best robot lawnmowers could be four thousand dollars and give you a perfect long. There's a place where the old lawnmower goes to die. Sometimes I wake up in the morning and sit Lima do covered useless in a direct by the edge of the law This is not the only trick used by wood robot lawnmower an attempt to get out and get out of work early on when it arrived much for its cable, an active Loma suicide, the spoke profound new however of not going to let my unwilling work off the hook. So buried the cable turn the Lamar around an. Ordered it back to the lawn. Since that day we have reached an accommodation, it just got used to the garden and going used to the view and how it can be a helpful technology and it's now entered the household here. So in his article, the writer move from London to reading lost year and made the decision to buy a robot and robotic lawn mower would be as indulgence. It's sort of a fringe product fringe gadget owned by those earlier doctors and techno geeks no longer there a dozen a models available and reasonably priced some eye watering expensive. The allure initially might have been it was very cool gadget, but the name fly Mo.. The latest version points to more sellable attraction and easy life, and that's exactly what the writer wanted. So here's the thing you know delving little bit more into the auto. Many of these electric mowers are available here. Now, one of the best technological advances, the heated seats in a car lovelier love love toasty ban but I mean I think he may be the robotic lawn mower. You could double up and have a little bit of ride. On the back of the lawnmower let put on automatic pilot. You could sip a nice gin and tonic whilst on the back there and maybe read the London. TIMES, at the same time I think it'd be absolute tremendous but the thing takes two hours. So like snail pace to to cut the lawn side, I think I'm going to be invest in that anytime soon. But I probably need to move forward from using the kitchen scissors to to trim to trim the lawn as always the butlers mind does wander into pretty indulgent. Slightly, surreal places and I was wondering if this robot Loma could could be boring shuna slightly. And it could be used intelligently to provide an art lymph artificial intelligence landscape. I. Mean I mean it could give you sort of straight lines like beautiful straight lines down the middle there or it could give you some checkers in that region as well. Completely to you whatever you desire and prefer. Saris Flick. and. Fumble not fondle my way through the personal pages in the newspapers at the weekend here, and there was a little pace. It was sent into into one of the Aga- neons here, and it says, I'm worried that I'm dependent on my vibrating device. So I'm wondering if we could delve in deeper, do you think it was the the phenomenal Toni Braxton who have been last week's podcast. Or an article about her last week where she she started using this royalva personal intimate of writing device on a face to get rid of the circles under the eyes you know the the Badger is that you get under when you haven't slept too much and little bit Puffy puffy cheeks and she called at her face Tingler. So I wonder if her rotin. So the French bobby's only cobbles can stop France's Rollo cops. So sweeping down an across the smooth expanse of the plastic Blue Louvre. On, the online space Sebastian Ghadiri of Paris's to Roller Brigade scarcely misses a beat as encounters a flight of steps charging straight up them two at a time going back down as equally fast though it requires a crab like technique a really some moment for that tacking from side to side stairs it seems hold no fears for most unusual police units that soon will be making a mark of the two decades of operating the French capital. Sand rain snow can make life tricky, but do not go here started on the cobblestones along the same the stone descent set so far apart from each of the wheels can get stuck between Osama absolutely disgraceful dangerous darling and he draws the line at repeating the acrobatics of former colleagues who used to help themselves at the top of the flights of steps turning in the air before making perfect landing, it almost sounds like it could be a prayer. But I wonder if these cops these these these bobbies could could double up as maybe waitstaff in in a in a French in a French restaurant industry, it's very, very hard hit that could carry a basket across croissants. Or a bottle bobbly with a white cloth over the arm, they're trying to shake up the bubbly too much but it'd be spray Olivia contel offerings. And then how about would it be a little bit too much to ask for Chicoutimi Board on rollerblades I don't think so. You'll therapist will see you now spas what spas alike post lockdown plastic vises, online safety forms, and a lot of hand washing spas back in business. Across across the world, really during lockdown discover the healthcare a self care wasn't really for me cutting my own hair turned to be a little bit of a Rod Stewart should've hack job online yoga crooked neck whilst training. Look at the laptop. Walston. Zoom call. Spa Withdrawal Symptoms got very, very bad. The data company can't immediate reports a SPA breaks at one of the top three search for holidays during lockdown. So a lot of people were. disappointed. But now things are opening up gain and the spas open up to their membership they're being told you know should should they shower and they should shower a full the appointment and report for the treatment in a in a boil washed Bathrobe, there's motion sensors sanitizers. He can give you you spruce caboose all over the body there, and then face masks receptionist take take your temperature the SPA. Hefei. is on a car rather than buffy now and and you know a noticeable change in the therapist Gob. Sophie greeted me wearing a mask and adviser that grand comfortable. But it's obviously the keeble customers safe and sound so. That's like. A SPA therapy I was wondering you know thinking it like you know killing as always trying to make one's life a little bit more streamlined hair. Tilling killing two birds one stone I wondering if you could have your actual therapist, join you at the SPA. So both of you again, a little bit of Lovely treatment and welcome in treatment to In give you a little bit of A. BOOST IN ONE'S LIFE But once a therapist is talking and what is he could like lay down on a waterbed. You know maybe an inflatable Flamingo Jen to waterfall. Dripping and cascading of your body is your therapist and the inquisitor discovers and talk through all of your problems. I think absolute. Fantastic. It made me more relaxed to be at a SPA on a plane pink Flamingo. Walls having the Spanish inquisition from the therapist. but I've also thought why not take that a step further and take it to the confessional box you priests and yourself could be an esteemed confessional box here. Maybe a glass screen down the middle completely steamed obviously and your and your and your priest and yourself to both be in in those board wash robes. Behind the steamy windows and the cloisters in the towel cloth either the. Iva, the either the robe or maybe a towel cloth sumo wrestler outfit. You could have steamy relaxation whilst doing hail Marys and I wonder if it'd be more hygienic for the quiet to actually join you. All that heat under steam and everything else in a socially distant seat steam room whilst singing you a little bit of chamber music whilst you gave a confessional. So I love going to one of my favorite shafts who writes in the London. Times quite regularly Tom Kerridge. To get the articles and recipes. So. When you have a day out with family timetables, scout the window. So you have to be flexible and make the most of it by having food ready made you got something sorted out when the hunger pangs strikes and a very handy children as well. Nor really talking about romantic outings hair and exclude to feel with a wicker hamper and a bottle of shampoo. But more about an impromptu sort of. IMPROMPTU SORT OF PICNIC Day Out in adventure bag up all the food and drinks you need and had out somewhere new maybe the beach. or a or a nice little park somewhere for me the essential Mo- substantial thing for carriage is protein wrapped in carbs and it doesn't have to be me pork pie scotch eggs lovely and we'll be talking about that in actually future podcasts in. I'd I'd off my hat off my cap, my tweet cap to the Scotch egg in the pork pie the lovely. But a wealth season cheese pack past the meal itself pass the Aficionados or say the Sweden potatoes should be sliced and diced I. Suppose it make it different from the Pie. Meanwhile, you could have a little bit of quiches well, and and if you want to be a little bit healthier. To affreux Totta, type of Quiche but anyway this, this is this is what I'm coming to hear ladies and mantlepieces. let let's just pray silence just for a second. And We want to ruminate. And fantasize. In the Fort. Of. Something I think we need to. Take a hats, top hats or hats two. Ladies and gentlemen. MANTLEPIECES Lords. Ladies. Swan swinging gasoline melds maids milking. We have. The Ravi lovely. Cheese and pickled audience pause. To. So, carriage love using using Mozzarella these big cheese melts and goes all over the place as the cast is cook so that deliciously chewy and they great with a bit of HP House of the Parliament Brown source all the Piquancy of the Brown source. But listen to this the recipe of all the ages here seven hundred, fifty grams of strong bread flour plus a little bit more for dusting. Little bit of Europe's. Dash of salt there as well. A hundred grams of law chill and diced. Seventy five grams of butter children die one egg yolk to glaze and about two hundred and sixty milliliters of water chilled. Then you have your Swede Hof peeled wax new potatoes, scrubbed onions, sliced short flat parsley cracked pepper, and then west country cheddar graded butter Mozzarella counterforce or in the middle. And the Pierre's their Asto or this thoughts. The pick. On the on. The pickled on your own. All, the PIQUANCY and the delight. Of the humble pickled onion. Is the Jhad masterpiece the forget your pickles forget your you know the the Green Phallic looking things you get an ajar. The pickled onion ladies and gentleman. Is, next from the heavens. CRUNCHY piquancy their. lugarda vinegar absolutely delicious cotton put into this Pie. I think it's absolutely fabulous. I'm going to try making his pie and let you nine cheesy Anini. rutabagas course. I just like almost having a food ghasem thinking about it here. Absolutely unbelievable and delicious the cheese and onion pickled onion. Past T. Hats off. Crowns off. Choose carriage. Meanwhile in Suffolk. So this could be Scalia. Act Arts this article, but I honestly think had to be out on his own hair it needed no punctuation, move our stories or as part of a feature suffolk man had sex with four, hundred, fifty tractors. A Suffolk man with a bizarre sexual attraction detractors has been banned from the countryside and fourth Sinus Sinai on the registry Ralph Bishop was found by please to have his trousers around his ankles and interfaith attractor parked in a field outside of sacs Monday them. He was arrested on suspicion of outraging public decency admitting to have sex of around four, hundred, fifty tractors all over the suffolk countryside. When officers searched terrorists home, they found a collection of more than five thousand tractor images on his laptop and the photos. Showed, Bishop had special designed for John Deere, Massey, Ferguson tractors so you know. Well Norfolk and Suffolk sometimes, tractors hold up traffic for many many many miles along this country. Country Roy's let's the he wasn't like wedged and trapped on the track to behind, and he's not going slow and low from behind whilst on one of these tractors causing this carnage holding up traffic maybe he's a maybe he's in some sort of horny track to gravity field all that all that oily horsepower. Let's hope he doesn't have a men are to Trois sugarbeet truck and a combine harvester that really would be something to behold. Gentleman is brought. Mitchell's to keep the customers in their prime. Freshly. Pressed fruit and vegetable drinks are available on every high street. Now, a family of German birches thing the world is ready for the meat version. And centin Peter and the Classen a marketing meet use brute from the leftover cats the health tonic for athlete's convalescence and the elderly. The bottles of beef and checking gravy builder futuristic liquid meals also targeted is dieters casting around the world fulfilling rather low calorie food to graze on many people were mad. The family say on the website of their to shop and tells near the Luxembourg Burger would. Meet on. The. Brain. Fair enough meat out of the bottle doesn't. Really, sound that great and probably a bit of a crackpot notion. But we convince the F., it would be worth it after three years and two million spent on tinkering peyton filled me juices are available and in several hundred shops around Germany. They have produced by boiling Dan the less popular joints of meat with vegetables and broth, which can be refined of a small number of additives such as soya protein. The varieties include tomato and chilli based beef Bombay and Bucci beef broth sweetened with honey cocoa powder Peter Clark's said he was convinced that snacking amichis would soon be considered normal icon understand when people say it's disgusting. told the Frankfurter. Allah mine sauntering tongue. Taste is described. The drinkers is made soup just called. I didn't you know the the benefits of brought I juice? Tremendous health benefits and lifelong properties. It's like having lots of vitamin D and an, of course, the bone marrow who keep you living until one hundred fifty. Yes here. We got a guy in ladies and mantlepieces. We have a another round of. Medieval tensure tender so Back in the days of the kings and Queens England we had little Henry the eighth special off week where some some of his wives go the love potion others received the dreaded. So it wasn't more of a swipe left and right it was a swing to the left, right. So we're continuing this week with some sort of bizarre weird situations among some of the monarchs around the world. So. This week we have King James the second of Scotland taking pardon tincture medieval tend to James the Second Rule Scotland for twenty three years and his reign was generally looked upon favorably. Such the foundation at the University of Glasgow. That made him break, Papa, King, but also reprehensible access to the murder of the Douglas. Even for the Scottish wars of independence over the fifteenth century, certain areas around the border towns remained under British control. One of them was rocks for Costco King James. Saudi have the kind the Kossovo Scotland of the time when the English forces a weakened. James was actually killed by cannon during the siege at first glance isn't particularly all death off two old cannons designed to kill. The cannon, this question was visited and a passionate fan of artillery James Second imported cannons from Florida's and is keen to see them in action. He was standing right next to one when instead of shooting it, it exploded the scene is best described the sixteenth century Scottish historian Robert Lindsay. The king stood near piece of auxiliary fiber was dug into pieces and administering gun that broke in shooting while she was to the ground and died rav a hastily. Case we always have to pick out. You know obviously, this week don't really sort of love potions but. You know it's probably a little bit different this week. So. So is it The King Guy. Is it that one. All this. Or maybe this. This I think it's actually this one. Out spilling all the Dobbin. I think it's a skull crusher, the club. Yup. Certainly a face Sunnier fate worst. Case So he's got a second contestant. From Yes we have King Alexander the. From school to land. So Rule Scotland is what could be described during a relative peace of Scotland's history. launders life was fairly uneventful saving for the occasional battle with the angry. Norwegian king. It is reported off the king out executives first wife and only some away married enough never woman called Gillanders withdrew while the little is known about your landed off extensive research. We can say that was some certainty she possessed one of the earliest examples of the thought that would quit we suspect in twelve, eighty six. Alexandra drinks. The advice of his friends tried to ride from Edinburgh to the counter king form I think he had the king home definitely at night in the storm a just to visit his wife a journey, which only makes sense. If you're soon, the king was making a Budi goal for making a trip that king was thrown from his horse to hats off the being spooked by bolt of lightning. All the king's royal erection poking out of the back killing him instantly that was the whole thing and not the erection. Alexander's body was found the next day by traveling. Thirty Mile Journey so he was. Basically went to visited his wife that was Probably similar to. Can. Become. Ashen so anyway. Say Alexander what do we think? Do you think it's this one here? Yeah. That's the older axe chopping motion there. Maybe. No. Not that one. Maybe it may be in a bit of a pig. Was it the skull crushed. All Get involved in that. So the chopper. The Scowcroft. I think it's this one gentleman. Definitely, this one. A little bit of the little but the love potion before his untimely demise. We have another lovely little English guys story, the Butler fireside ghost story for you. Monsieur Madame. The village of pluckily. pluckily? Village. In. Kent. Was awarded the Guinness Book of Records, Title Most haunted village in Britain. And for good reasons. As Fifty Ghosts Co pluckily home. He's include a Highwayman kilt sold fight the schoolmaster found hanged. The children. An old gypsy woman burned to death in a fire appears on a bridge casually smoking a pipe. There's also a specter. Of a whole strong carriage rides through the village accompanied by the sound of horses who's along with a haunted POB brickworks in cemetry just south of the village lies the screaming woods or Fernandez forest from which villagers and visitors alikes regularly hear the sound of a blood curdling scream. Made by wandering solve. Long dead men and women who become lost the forest. On a lighter note. Skelly dog. Skelly why Garros. So welcome along skyway Garros Skylark dolls where we take them as heinous headline crimes of the week and tried to determine them in a dance format. So, this week. We have probably missing the ball brides ridiculous tests for guests lost of the she makes them compete for a wedding so. She needs to cut down the numbers of people going to the wedding say give him a little Iq test or something would this stop the infamous wedding crashes layoffs? All guests have to ask a twin also twenty questions on the bride and groom Then they can have the making of a shot in relief upon entry so. It could be a little awkward though because. There may be some dalliances between the groom and other members of the of members of the Bridal Party so I didn't know if that would work. Grew might no secret birthmarks bridesmaids or something along those lines? So it could be a little bit too revealing. That story definitely Mrs Misses the board? This Week? slams claims hotel is a brothel. So Women Women decided to neom sign and do a sort of neon pink image of herself in front of her in front of our hotel. It slightly revealing image looks like like a brothel or a house of ill repute me. You could say she's tickled pink with the image but subbing all the pink Taylor. that saw triple twenty this week and. Continue Hair And we've Bullseye. Mom inundated with Chewbacca roll calls after bid ex post phone number. So apparently, her ex boyfriend decides to post her phone number on. facebook all across the Internet and told each call to to when she also. CHEWBACCA noises well, it could be worse. It could these banks gas. And we have choppy seas about those special pros. Yes the Special Prize this week women arouses Internet by accidentally buying a Phallic cutting board. So you could say, she got the word she's a cut above the rest, but just matching cutting morning bagels on your morning glory Oh. We all love Costco Dent. We absolutely love Costco, but it's a good. Place to find American food also in France? So Costco's in France to. The store also sells some of the specific products tailored to its French as and I think I was like food coma foodie fantasy earlier when I read this. The first one we see. The most important a massive I, the French cheeses. Wheels of cheese this truckloads of cheese from bree degree. Oh my God. Provence out cheeses grab wedges the size of notebooks, the bree rounds, the size of wagon wheels. Oh my gosh. Huge pieces that county wills of Sonic. And sust inky soft cheese, the van. Gigantic wheels a breeze well. And if you like a cheese melted both packs of Canada. And if you've looking for booze. They've got you covered with jumbo bottles like. User bottles of Rosa. I mean some as big as you had much bigger than had bigger than the Boston poll. Definitely. If. You feeling extra fancy. There's a bottle of fifteen hundred zero bombers champagne with the Mercia Dong. Boo. If you want some booze, you could also find liquor infused ice cream la. then other parts of the store you can find a chocolate and candy full of the well. Known here that looks bigger bigger than John Holmes as Willie and then you have like a mountain of Wino- chocolate here. there's a horrible gummy sharks a whole bucket load of powerboat gummy. Little canals vanilla flavored custom, Acheson down. Law Draw. pity fools. A trailer to before. there's also francey crates. French chocolate cake mixes Oh my God I'm sweating here. Kirke craving sweets a folk sell cripes in the bakery section folk, Sell Crepes Ladies and gentlemen folks crates also more than you can shake a leg with mandolins. Trees loads of Mandolins, French Brioche for breakfast and then this. On. On from. Brittany. Does absolutely delightful specialty cake here. Probably, like Kat wills of Quiche Lorraine and then lastly, lastly, loss in the French cost is also sold in the Canadian. Food? Court. You've you've got some Putin which is like. French fries and you know in in in in delicious and delicious delicious delicious gravy absolutely, and then he's Got A soft serve ice cream on the side Oh. My God I've just gone gone a boat and sailed to food heaven that's Costco in France Ladies and gentlemen. I love the twitter account very British problems is actually a book coming out by ROB. Temple. Very very soon as well. and I. Always. Always, very, very funny trying to make sense of gratitude I mean this is like a wellness and British problems with wellness. So wellness issues for the British number one trying to make a sense of gratitude at watching the sunrise outweigh your sense of being tired chilly at resentful of not being lovely warm bed failing oil zen dissipate quite rapidly every time you'll mindfulness APP crashes in your pocket and begs for cash. And then suddenly realizing you take all your wellbeing advice from mental health gurus spent every waking hour on twitter. 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It's hotter today in in the UK than is in many parts of the US and hot on my degree collins everything else. So, Never British British problem here I said the word hot out loud at least fifty times I'm acting even hotter than I failed to be honest is a drama Dang halt as a Brit, you have to participate your small integral part of enlarged cost of down cost players. Every British person you currently meet is only saying it's so hot or it's too hot or like the man in the vest, it's going to get even hotter Brits are obsessed with not only being hauled, but it's going to get even hotter. Well. Thank you very much for joining the podcast this week. It's always as always having you here is an absolute delight. And I, hope you have a lovely week ahead here in these in these uncertain times and come back to this whimsey little portal hopefully to give a bit of relief every week. So opponent finish in. August Kathy Bates. 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A Therapeutic Bru Ha Ha w/Glory Mora (Stage Coach Mary, Robert Smalls, Cancel Culture, The Divine 9, Siempre Bruja, Braxton Family Values, Therapy, Star Signs)

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A Therapeutic Bru Ha Ha w/Glory Mora (Stage Coach Mary, Robert Smalls, Cancel Culture, The Divine 9, Siempre Bruja, Braxton Family Values, Therapy, Star Signs)

"Welcome to minority coroner with an gay and James, the wonder twins Apolo casting. Learn laugh play. It's like blows clues only. It's more black queer and lady lies. This week on minority corner episode one sixty six for our first guest co hosts filling in for our neighborhood librarian and that gay she's on maternity leave. We have the various hilarious New York based comedian glory more in the house today. She's joining us in the corner. And we have so much to talk about we dive into cancel culture, the right way to apologize for some pass social media shit. One shouldn't have probably send the first way's and glory catches me up on the drama on the Braxton family values. I had no idea. We also have been tuning in. I watch Netflix is the emperor brouhaha which should be a wind dealing with, you know, the colonial slave time Columbia, but is a giant well, not giant. But you'll see it's a bit of a misstep on this one and glory is right at home as we go into tangents city as we do here on the corner. And then we jump over to the main event, I'm gonna give you the low. Down onto black folks in honor of black history on that you probably haven't heard of and should have heard about because there's so dope. And these people need to have movies as op one was a bad us stage coach, which we alluded to a few weeks ago, and the other was an escape pirate slave ingest. Wait to hear about these folks are so dope and glory will finish out the episode giving you the insight about the divine nine the black fraternities and sororities and some prominent members that hail from very own sorority Zeta PHI beta and along the way, Gloria will be fact checking and letting us know everyone starts nine and keeping the giggles go, and so let's jump into it. Glove ry Glover's on the show already corner. Glow. Glow delays. Let's talk with everybody. I say it, right? Not go to lease. Now. It's still is them. Our friends, I forgive you. Know that I've said it once correctly dailies, oh, you know, what it was not in front of me right now is because I one zoo glory, and I know she's a famous colleague here. Been coming CNN common coming now getting coming famous. Okay. Larry is lady. And we took a stand up comedy classes gathered and I entered deuce you want in. You're like, oh, my God, you said my name correctly. And I was so proud of myself. And so this morning, I was like I'm gonna probably. See James, I'm thinking any of my friends are my ex's in my name. So you're good. But what's the what's the story behind your name my name vindicate? Yes. You probably let people know that this is a Michigan girl back was black Dominican athletic here. Yeah. Yes. Let's talk about that. I got some shit because TV show that is about Africa team. Athletes right thing the Sam. Brouhaha? I heard it was wet. I mean, I don't know. I saw the first episode. Bye. All right C earnings. So this is the one thing that we do it minority cortisol. Well, tangents. This is great. Yeah. And then. Yeah. My mom made it up, okay? I can tell you. She just made my name. Oh, she got fucked up. This is we named after my grandmother was via I've Loria. We're we're going to be like it's off the, oh, should I get an Sofia Sofia Sofia? Shit. So I'm practicing my Spanish because I'm going to a sponge like a month in the summertime, but you know, they speak like, I think Melissa. Yes. Yeah. European British Spanish action also. Yeah. Oh, speaking of during the most so back to like Simponi Bouhad. Yes. I want that shit. I heard about him, but I didn't watch one on our corner kids plug digs. I've been hearing about the show and they're like, so this'll kind of problematic. So the idea it was injured exciting because it's in cut to Hannah, which they. Okay. Been there as we're gonna cruise ship. And we were docking cartoon you, Gino. Are you doing? What are you doing? Entertainment staff, that's all dove those two line. To napkin folder. Into that wolf. Now do it as a kid. I think of you're a comedian, you some clean committee. I don't have a whole it on the group. I have I have a problem during family from the Santa comedy all of my jobs are like dick and pray nurse. Come shots. Drew's like, that's that's the whole thing. Shit. I don't know about why people a lot of why people in those ships that the arrest speaking up and a lot of white people colonizing things so. So it's really positive because at first it seems like signing because it's about like apple Latina witch and lake whose was back like sixteen forty six ends up in today right interest. And so but ones of happening is she's trying to go back to the day of yesterday to get back with her white Spanish slow. The guy who bought her. She was in love with him and wrote like, I know like through like rape and stuff, but we kind of gloss over that. They're just like they were in love, and she was. Slave net buys her. Netflix wanted to green layer show. What let the number that somehow still ask little white man in this shit. Yeah. It's exciting because it's very rarely do I feel like when we talked about like like Latin America or South America or even Spain in general people forget that they were involved in the slave trade to. Yeah. And so I was like, ooh, this is really exciting. They're touching on this. I he falls in love with her because she's a slave in the writing notes to each other and the mother's leg. Like, how does she know? How to how does she know how to read and write I'll should must-have witch into the burn her why they burn her on your Matic, even then. And she she goes to the future. And then she's just trying. She finds her other coven of witches we were expecting you. And I don't know it's falling out asleep. So that's kind of boring. I'm going out to watch it. Because like I heard it was a little problem at problematic. I heard this shit. I didn't watch it. Well, it's I mean, I like it's weird 'cause it's doing some things right. I think if you just took out like she was in love with this white Spanish guy. Like, yeah. I mean like he was like he was like dab with buyer. She seems nice. And then like he didn't like whip her or anything, but she does heal people who get whipped. So they do talk about like the fucked up things that are happening with slavery. This sounds like a lot. It's it's so simple to brew Hodge on Netflix. Let us know what you think I'm gonna have to check it out. I wouldn't I whenever I see something problematic. I always I go to Twitter and see what the. Yeah. But he had a camper with that. We I want to before we do you wanna talk about cancel culture, and I have some questions about everything. But I you watch the Braxton family values and. I wanted to bring up can Ivan watching Tamar grew up with Toni Braxton and. Actually. Yes. Her Tony who's she went bankrupt because they baby face that way again. Well, no, not again. But like the first time. I'm confusing. Because she was dating someone in baby phase because maybe face to face records face. I know face armed militias stating the rapper baby. She can't get away from the baby. The baby's baby brand. Let me see that. Wait, hold on isn't that his name the rapper artist guide in baby face. I know the her her ex boyfriend that she just broke up with. She was the days I lost softy? Her name. His name is baby. She's got a baby thing that's with babies on your waxing a baby on the brain way. Isn't it is Bergman, but they also climb bait. She just want them bay area the point of the story. So she was on babies records if you ever again offering to going to use it contract with LA face, wrapping ever, get one. Ever get what would turn it down going to bankrupt. You happening TLC like just can't handle their money, but I lost track of her after she disappeared. And then I've been watching big brother celebrity big brother and Tamar Braxton is on there. And she is a lot. Yeah. She's she's a cancer. I'm account as I went and tell you, but it's supposed to be like allies because we're the saying. Let me very moody factor that a okay where does your do appreciate this unless she's a pricey? Actually, kind of watership emotional. Say. Let me get kicked off of that. All right. Thanks feel lease thinks showing up. You've been watching the I've heard about the rights and values. I have never seen an episode. So I I don't watch the. Acronym for Braxton family values, the oh, that's the half side month. When I saw that I love fix my life was going to be in the episode. I say so. I wish I honor would come and fix my life. Well, yeah. I mean, I do a lot of my exes. Like, I always recycled I'm so maybe she can help me break this. I I'm rate of starting a new relation. I think what you should do is. I think you've got to make your life, even Messier my life or her life your life. Racial, come and fix your line. He's kind of like half Mazi. She won't come and do it. And you've got to go all the way. I mean, I don't know. I could get more. I should've taught me a few years ago. Okay mess. You see I'm I'm gonna grown as we'll go back to that. So she goes to the show and Allie. I watched a recap I watch his at montage recap on YouTube. Yeah. That there there all get caught up Swiss messy, James tell me it was like a lot of drama with the whole family. It was a lot of job with this oughta Piff unease till they were talking about how the mom favors one child out there. Tony the one with the money. I don't know. Who is Tony? I can't remember. I mean, how would you not favor the one they're all famous because Toni Braxton, but like the door was also like very late ya'll at my family because it was born into this choice. I wouldn't be he him. I've Wunderle is fabricated drama or is this like real. Honestly, I want to say this is not fabricated. It can't be Cooley would just let their life unfold in front of the cameras for everyone to see. I just don't know. Ethics and they're getting paid to do. But some people, you know, I don't see behavioral change like some people are okay with sharing their life in the open. I would be okay. Like I'd go in the real world because I'm with a bunch of strangers Faulk. But like with my fam-, I'd like there's something more like when it's your family labor in that. I'll yes, I mean, but they're they're all famous, so I guess like dick that fame role in this point we already out there, you might as well lay. Keep showing must be an ego thing though, maybe maybe a paycheck being jury. Oh. Because let's face it. Ain't nobody by the records anymore people love Kardashian type situation. We'd love watching rich. We love watching remodeler people fuck up their line and put their family in the slave and Barton, and you now I'm not doing that. I guess like reality TV like this. It's like the hunger games where it's like, we let them be the tributes like let their lives fuck out for us in the night say that Braxton signed up for that first before the credentials saying they signed up to be the I don't want us to cut him down. Becoming the tribute. Right. Like you all signed up for this. Like, we didn't ask you to do this. We'll say I think the episode. I mean, I don't watch the Kardashians. I think that they're just like around the house all day or my outfit. Oh my God. Kind gay like he's having a meltdown let him because money need up. Right. But I think this episode with Diana and fabricator nine very important, especially the people of color. It's awful lot about labor. Just isn't a very therapeutic episode a lot about late things that have happened in the path that sometimes as in our cultures and just kind of keep to ourselves. And we don't talk about it like even relations with your parents like a lot like their piece actually starting to change and shift like evenly. We talk about this on insecure. I mean, I was huge proponent of like fan of therapy. I wasn't there be I won't date someone unless they've been at this after I wanted to every like you did because I had some shame. You say I'm about to be therapist. They asked me for like therapist about today know. Do you? I I think it's been so frowned upon within the black community about their everybody. I think like there's always reasons for something. I think it's probably like there's mistrust of like science doctors anyways because so mistreated by the ski lab experiments where we've been fucked over by scientists and doctors for so long, and I just like God will take care of it. Yeah. Soprano way. I've got a lot of people take care. God helps those a house them so easily. We will. Get into it. Now, I think he's like a cultural like we just so used to lay. I don't know we just gone through a lot, you know. And I think it's hard to even talk about it or not something to talk about that export every visit again, sometimes you don't wanna go back there. It's just like it's sue her. I kind of had to quit their it. Be like I was like oh my God. I want to talk about this right now. So. Tell me more. Now. Visit something so yeah, I do understand that. And I think in this isn't new, but I do like generation Alie like we've become one thing. There's a two things like I think that is we can wallet too, much and are hurting our pain. And sometimes I think it's important for us to feel are hurt trauma to move through it dwell. That's what I got the Muslim therapy because I'm Jim, and I and a very. Horace? Whilst wants the registry. Never like, I'm very detached, but also like emotions same time is really weird. Because my my mood is in high-seas and al-qaeda. Right. It's a lot detachment emotional. And then you're like what is your Saturn rising moon, right gap record? No. But like I feel like that. I did learn from there. We was that you have to isn't going to process and feel. Oh, yeah. And I think that's something that I didn't. I just went like happen. I'm putting on that even happened. But then some people they feel too much and you just like you put your your paralyze yourself. Absolutely. I think just you like like what happens sometimes like millennials, progressive millennials. We get so stuck on just like, I'm so traumatized body knows me. I can't I can't do anything right now. And I'm just like, you know, what if the listeners whereas traumatize in sugared all seem to be as we'll be in chains. Right. Like, oh, I just I just can't Jedidiah. I'd love to help you. But every time I see a whip just get trigger. Right. He could trigger it. I got I got I got as so we have to just kind of balance. Speaking of lake is going too far is not your comedian. I I what. And that's the thing is on talking all the time. Join is that that was the two. Doc it. I like there's some things that like, I canceled culture. And we talk about that talk about James, I just perplexed by because it's just like when do we cancelled something when do we not why it takes so long to like stop listening Kelly's music, I missed I've listened to Chevy two in Noah, I don't think I believe you can fly that great saying, I might honestly music within that. They shouldn't have dependent on. You know, why? Why people they did like that? Let's play. Okay. But it took a long time cancel him. But then we have like folks that like I can medians who like people are digging through their tweeds and finding stuff I feel like I don't know. I think I'm one of them though. I feel like you can't I think a lot of the comedians argument is that you can't do comedy. It'd be PC. And I don't think that is true. I think every comedian is different. And I think that when it comes from a mean-spirited, please. That's when you come go into issues, like if you're not a mean spirited comedian. And you're talking about like, I always home away people in like, you know, I'm just trying to tell you guys aren't shit and work through wish you're being there passer life. Let's work. Work with youth through comedy. Yeah. Now, you're Lou Levin at ship. Yeah. But I I do think I have an issue. Like, I was really I don't know. Like, I was really I don't know what the word is. But I was I couldn't find the words clearly for Kevin Hart when he did the whole thing. Like when you found his tweets about the gay any, right? And it's because like when you go back to the specialist. He does I feel about them on a tangent tangent. I like what you joke about is something that you either battled with or like bothered you. And I mean a lot of troops a lot of comedians. We yeah. Like when I am in a shitty mood or something pisses me off, I go straight to my joke pad, and they start writing jokes about it. Right. If I think fifty per there's some truth series humor. Right. And I'm not saying that harness. We cancel I love Kevin Hart. I think that he's one of my role and that role models one of my music, but I do think that he let his eagle that in the way. And he should've just it doesn't matter like you have to politics him in the nine times. Maybe I think he should have really taken that opportunity to start a platform about cancel cobras grey. Thank you wanted the conversation. But no, it's a learning opportunity. I think the cancel culture comes in. I think there's two things that come into play. There's like what you say. And you're actually I think someone like R Kelly. Oh, yes. Like that needs to be cancelled. Yes. That last one eighty four wherever the timber. Furnace like he needs that. He needs him as soon as we were like he's peon on underage girls. Right. Because I think there's a thing where like you're invading and someone I always believe morality or like, you're doing good is like as long as you don't impose on somebody else's life and their choices and their freedom. Do you boo? Right. That's why I have an issue because you in the way run. Yeah. Let me do in the way. Right. So someone like R Kelly you're taking away somebody's choice to have a good life, and you really like fucked up some people right someone like Kevin Hart. I don't think needed to be cancelled. It's like he. But he shot it down himself. That's what I'm saying. That's another issue. Now, you're not a issue. I can't see the same and just like acknowledging that like, you know, when he talks about like, I would murder my son. If I like there's little like it just came on the news like something like that happened. So it's like joking about something that does like hopping. I want to bring up that there's a. There's a huge Damon wayans junior junior. I know him so funny. I used to watch them on. He was on the show called happy endings, which was a funny version of friends. Just finding what was nice about David. To let my shit, I must problematic. There's no you. You warn raise your New York. Yeah. Friends has never went. There was a black lady I used to Tyler joined the cast in the tenth season means backwards until the ten what can I say something James, David? We have cable I was just taking whatever was given to make sure whatever the fuck. They were running on the free channels. You're what? Lot of friend. Ryan they kept repeating like friends friends friends late. That's what I grew up with. You know, I didn't not living single. I didn't have cable. I did it. My living single wasn't on the repeats. I don't honestly like I do. Here's all the gift of life. I know I've been watching it now living single came up before friends friends copy. And I know I know I know I know I know the history now, but when I was at eight year old ten year old girl middle school. I I was taking wishbone. Okay. You don't have to this isn't there? Ainhoa these listeners suggests that you today, I you know, what I like friends for what I thought it was I like the witty humor. Yeah. I mean, I just everyone was watching it. Agreed. And I just like looking back. Here's the thing. But doing juniors on was on the show called the end, and it it's sort of like, it's like six friends, but there's a gay guy on it. And then there's a black eye on it. So just like for me anytime, you get diversity in of show. Because everyone's junior had some like homophobic tweets from the past. Like, he using the word like tranny and fag and all this sort of stuff. I'm getting a veggie burger shack. No homo like, he's on the new girl. Like, he's very very funny. I think he's actually I think he's the funniest of the way. It's at the sorry that I know there's there's he's Damon wayans a senior son the one that is like not Marlin or shaving. She's wearing kid. No, that's his dad was on my way. Davis was great with teasha Campbell who was on Martin waves junior. Not David Wayne. And he's like juniors like his fucking funny, but he had some homophobe tweets, but he actually came out on apologize like flat on he was like this was inappropriate. This was wrong. And I was like paychecks. Way to like, you know, the way too. I think first and foremost, I think step one like don't be an asshole nest that wants up one. But don't tweet about it. And don't do it. Don't say don't be an asshole. But we all that. My thing would step one is we all it doesn't matter. How perfect and you are the audit years away from now who knows what we're saying. If you were going to look back and be like, we need to cancel that. But I feel I I would be cancel that. Always good. The my chain on smoking son is blurry. Wow. Whispering which phone as the child murder. Anything? We said that you love whisper. Interesting approach. I'm not gonna lie to you and kind of like it. No, thanks. I didn't recognize that. What part of it is like the difference is like if you are someone like I'm trying to think like Harvey Weinstein came and was like, I did this and this and that will be I think that's a little different. Yeah. He's like I raised all these women and ending difference between saying and doing, you know, he said this I'm gonna I'm hunting for what I said. And I know that it might have been taken them away. I visited the tweets it hasn't come up just woke up a few our quilts and having the right board. Difference between saying and doing I think with doing you need help. I think though gonna be. Five bring her back could ion audion live, fix everywhere. Toko near him. He'll probably masturbate into a pot. I don't know if she could fix it. And I think that's a conversation bigger than us. I think there's one with their business. I'm not about thinking I always wanted to make. I do think like for me. I think people are very forgiving, and they think there has to be an opportunity for like people to forgave like even like the Liam Neeson thing that happened. We think there to stay. But like, I think. I think the problem was I think he was trying to say I used to have these racist thoughts, and he went and got help for it. I think what he was saying what anything walked with it. Go try to murder the first black relase off. But then he went to go get help from anybody. Who's trying to say the problem is he was saying in the context of the publicists hangs, a black publicist, and he needs to talk to these white people should look at that. That can actually other thing like why people need to have more people color in their lives because their lives gas and even on your team eight-year in your lives. Yes. Shit like this won't happen. And people will be like million say something about. Help me with the Gucci thing to the little different. I think they're capitalizing on black rage. I think that this all these fashion brands like, you know, for the job. No Gucci had a what was it a sweater? He looks like a black face. Yaps pool was the art no matter of fact, come clean, the art director who the fuck was like, hey, let's do this. That's a prison. So do you think it was intentional? It's a little ways. I think it was intentional where where which is why it goes back to the point of like apologize. If it wasn't intentional right. Well, no. Because like, I think it goes to the same thing. Remember each of them the coolest monkey jungle thing it was like this young black boy wearing a thing. And so it goes again like once again like chapter, by the way, it will. She and also like when Pedo is shine to like say that like using the N word as quivalent too late show using like what they're trying to equate something about like saying oh saying like, I'm going to beat a dead horse like. Using the N word or something. And it's like not and listeners actually, why do you need to have more people on your team because someone would be like not undo that don't do that. James Joyce to work in advertising. Even when you are the black or the Brown person and the team these white people deserted makers, they'd be like uh sounds cool. Do it anyways. You know what I'm saying? I don't want to go to the top. Yeah. His Spike Lee did a thing. We're hearing is like he's not doing any the he said, no more product number Gucci until they start hiring more black designers. Yeah. More like more people. Yeah. The decision makers need to be there at the top. Because it's gonna save y'all. Like, here's the thing. Now, though that like people vote with their dollars. Yes, that's a fad. And so like if you want to stay in business like you're gonna have save your sophomore money down the line by hiring more, David everyone benefits from diversity everybody in the white says, you get this. That's where you get your ideas from as russillo from way. So I don't know. I just talked about so much. Well, I didn't get you. Something more exciting. We're going to get into the rest of the show. One more thing you want is. I did we close out on cancel culture that we finished. I feel we loved it up and to open up for the. You know, it's going to be accomplished in that it will. We're not going to solve your we're no we're not going to be fixing that issue. Right. We did fact because I'm brain. So we okay. Great cancel we did Gucci. We'd say, okay, we're good. I think we had the Braxton Bragg got all kinds of stuff. So I wanna get you in a better mood. I'm gonna eat something height. Oh, we're gonna talk about to historic black folks that you might not get an honor a black history out. Do they you're doing? Radio. You don't have the sound effects. But to people that you may not have heard of that should become moving. Yes. J? Greetings. I am plaque deck setter contacting you from the squadron, which is frankly sort of crappy, but I'm here on a heroic mission with my trustee crew see Fifty-three roic feels like an exaggeration and security officer Dr. Recording. We're all traveling aboard our trustees starship that are Jerry and Jade. Budgie? Sorry. I was just for I. While sleep. Hey there and Ford I play plaque. And we are so excited to announce that our podcast mission to six is now part of the maximum fund network. Our third season launches on max fun on March. Twentieth. Binge seasons. One and two right now. That's mission. Zeke's Z, Y X. Oh, it's movies. Let's get some fucking moving up here. Let's get some fucking movies are here. Go. Oh, it does your music only know what what's Qassam give it to our show. That's it. Yeah. Movie tab yet. Black people moving. Go we loved single deck. Okay. So I heard ac- of the view watch the view like every morning every day and they were doing like a really good job of like black people. Like, you think you know, like, they just feed you the same one. They're like, hey, Rosa Parks. And they've got the wool circle back to Rosa Parks. But like she wasn't just some tired old lady on vice right? She was a freedom fighter and very stage. Yeah. And he was we'll put a pin in that. That's not today. So there's two they wanna talk about. We'll see we'll this first one might take up so much time. We might have to put a pin in it. And come back later. I was the first one is stage. Coach Mary have you ever heard of stagecoach Mary? I actually haven't Bo I've been telling you this seems to be a fucking movie. So she was a hard drinking quick shooting mail carrier, and she wore men's clothing and having guns. She's like could shoot a fucking gun this eighteen nineties society. What's your name again stage? Coach, Mary, I mean, look her up and want to see how Batta she is. When I got to to visualize her. So she was the first African American woman to carry mail, and she stood out on the trail. And she was like, oh, there's a huge it's a huge huge Letsion on. She was born Mary fields in eighteen thirty two born into slavery. That's happening. This is the time. Right. So some people like being born in. They're not sure exactly when and where because of slavery. It's hard to have exactly dates and locations of where black folks from born back, then so that's why it's really hard for us to do like twenty three and me because like our trail and the goes back so far. Yeah. So she slow first of all I don't wanna do tiny me. I'll take your DNA alone. They're doing the mos- Wahlen. We meet some it into that. But let me probably dollars. They're not coming. Our way possess. Us navy born like Hickman county, Tennessee somewhere in Tennessee out of the civil war. She was like buck this. I'm getting out of this place. I don't wanna be here slave Advil. What eventually it was like, I'm out. So she got on the Mississippi River, she was doing some odd jobs working her way up the river rolling rolling up river as you do. And then she became a nun natural progression. But mind you see love to drink. But she was a nun at the Ursuline convent of the Sacred Heart into a Lido, Ohio. Okay. Maybe released you like I have family on my dad's side from Ohio as well. And I understand why there's like a good amount of black people when they're going up to Ohio. There's a book on it. I forgot the name because I got your slavery. You just go up. The Mississippi River you end up in Ohio. You got as far as ways you can. And I think that's also the black Wall Street ended up in Ohio as well. Which white people then came in and slaughtered, all the Blackie bluer making money and massacred them. We talked about that another episode before I think the book. This call the great migration. Oh, yeah. Yeah. That was what are we talking about the someplace home, that's low? There was a the toy. It was the Tulsa riots. The Wall Street, I think that was in Ohio, and we got our fact checkers. Usually, I'm just like do. I don't know. Google it Google, really, no. They just take everything for the ash this truth. It wasn't Hieaux. Oh, it wasn't a high on. Yes. He I'd be no in thing. I remember things she went into Ohio. And she was like sweet I'm going to be a nun. This sounds like fun, but she liked to drink and she likes her cigars. But I think she just like maybe like the safety of nuns. Maybe she was a lesbian. We don't know which never had any children. So, but she was like I'm around these ladies, so the nuns complain that she was loud and difficult, aka she was black. The money right back bed there. Others a white convent Syria. Yeah. Pretty much it. Temper? She was black, and she was dealing with the now incorporated most story it's tails old as high but to see upper brew high. Right. So she was like she eventually went out to Monte. She was getting so much harassment there. She ventured went onto Montana out to the west because we're BFF mother. Superior mother Amadeus dune whose only white lady who really got her. So I'm gonna is doing was out there. And she was like she started like a school for it's called the blackfoot people, which I think was a native American tribe. Things in cost they do, but I'm actually assuming she was. So she started a school there. She was work with the Jesuit priests there, and it was like it was at the wild west things were great. But I do think she was starting in. I think it was an assimilation tribe. But a lot of times when they're indoctrinating the young native American children. They're like go to the school. And they're like lose all your costumes is essentially saying that was happening. So that the one white lady, she trusted had wait. I don't know for sure if that's what the school is doing. But historically, that's what the schools kind of relieving. Obviously, I know. Oh, man. I know is avenue, you're not sometimes it'd be friend the wrong way. But the west was the shit like it was the place. So she went out there because her friend was sake sister, Amadeus dune was saying so Mary went out there, and she nursed her friend back to life because you know, black magic wrestle still happening. There have. Right. Then the version about over his try to go back to be no slaying. Right. Right. So, oh, here's the thing. So folks were nervous about stage post Mary being around again code word for black right because there was rumors of her behavior, especially if like her drinking or smoking or shooting guns wearing men's clothing, so people just like Larry live, you know, let her be her. But they were like not having it. So she got the boot. And so then she was an independent woman. And she was like fuck is. I'm gonna do my own thing. She was a twentieth century woman. Stuck in the nineteenth century, right, right? She was a head of time. So she was left honesty like Jamesy sold me. I would love to learn more about Mary fields and see the movie. Yeah. Well, I'm gonna tell you more about how can I want to see the movie, I think this is so bad ass. Right. Got into the good parts. Yeah. This is. Then early. We're in like the first act I'm lacking. That's what I'm saying the movie she does. And so she was entrepreneurs was doing odd jobs shuttered own business, and she was essentially known for being such a bad ass. And so going into postal work was a natural transition for her. I thought it was it was dangerous work back. Then because we were always trying to rob the stagecoach. Geez. It's true. It's true. And you know, what you see a lot of black women doing it. She was laying down the foundation for all these robes. That's the core. And so it was like very dangerous. Like you said it's still is today. She could fire a gun and she was top. And she was huge. She's big tall woman. Eight seventy five she got a contract from the postal service to become a star route carrier, those independent independent like postal service that she had signed up for and so I don't want to play them. But I think that was like the because back then my people couldn't work, but USPS. I don't want to road. Good google. You only need to know why people could do certain little quicker way. Trump says something crazy Google it. And the new boy oh boy, saying not true by important to sorry. Jay. No. That's good. Keep me hundred keeping it takes a village. You're right. They work at the app finisher. Well, I so okay in so she got into it. Because the stagecoach was donated by mother Amadeus. Thank god. She saved me. Yeah. Thinks she saves from Amadeus because she helps her get her start as a stage coach. And so she was fending feves bandits and her life to Friday. It was that was her job. You think fighting from dogs is crane? Crazy cat lady on the street right in. So she was only the second woman to ever hold down this job. First African American woman in she was known as either stagecoach Mary or black Mary, but who was calling her black Mary. You know, I yes, you carried a rifle Anna revolvers packing heat. Okay. She was using her second amendment, right? Right. Because you needed to back them should rocky terrain schuss reversing for shitty, weather snow. He Montana's got it. All again, the fending off robberies all kinds of stuff she to the job for eight years, and then she retired. And then the community rallied to support her, and they would because she didn't have any money. So they buy her drinks when women were still allowed to go into the bar after a while they stopped women from going into the bars. So she had no place to go and restaurants gave her food and she died on December fifth nineteen fourteen and a funeral was the largest town had ever seen on hairy via 'cause you touched them heart. She did she was you know, chain and hearts and minds. So that's Mary. Okay. So we seven movie about her. We didn't have I didn't even man this is not in dead while. There's one more. I want to hear it one more year. Okay. This is we gotta get the movies me about that. I really wanted to the movie now. Okay. Yes. This is movie that needs to be made on a house not already made much Rasi. Do it. Honestly, the US is feeling a new name of bands. Right people. Get excited about the male. Again. This is what it is. Okay. This one is super dope as well. Okay. I got into my Robert Smalls. I I know bobber and escaped slave turned pirate. Yes. Okay. So this is the sort of wild this is while so in the midst of the civil war this blackmail slave had commandeered a heavily armed confederate ship and delivered seventeen black passengers nine men. Five women and three children from slavery to freedom. Okay. Here's Robert smallest. He was born in April fifth eighteen thirty nine and airy. Okay. War charts game. Good for us to remember like see it sucks that like we didn't know what Mary's birthday. Which was a gem on this to claim that way for your beat. She could have been emotional, no actions. Yes. And renting to tenants of fighting and winning. It's what we do. You have not fighting. You're winning. Exactly. So he was born in South Carolina. His mother Lydia at the age of nine. She was taken from the islands and to work in the fields. They just took our shoes just was hanging on the islands. And they'd be like, hey, you go to the field. And then she worked away from the fields into the house. So she worked her way up as you could, you know in the cushy house jar, and and nobody knows exactly who his father is. But it could have been very pro more appropriate situation. It could have been the master master's son or the plantation manager. Now, definitely so one white guy raped her but gave birth to Smalls and Nevada smile. The owners love small so much over the other slave kids because he was a little different a little lighter skin, obviously and his. Mother was like you might grow up to light not understand that. This is bullshit. Yeah. And so she's like I need to teach my son story, which is that's like it goes back to why it's so important to know your history because you'll understand the context of everything and she actually had him. I see go to the whipping post. She's like go to host. I want you to see what happens the whipping post. He saw that. And he was like will this is FOX up and Harry came like a rebel. He was often end up in jail. He was just like bucked the police type of guy. He was just rebelling that his mom was like, oh, I did this too far. So that was like I need to send him away. So she sent him. She had the talk with them. Like, boy, you can't be doing that. You're black every while and out like the little lace him. But you gotta stop. Yeah. So she again early conversations details all the time have been telling the talk they've been having the talk for generations. I so she sent him up to Charleston, South Carolina to be rented out for work again like. The only sleep is. But I. Well, it's so crazy like she did like the best of mother do at that time. But he like she like worked away from the fields into the house center. Son to be rented out for work. He did get to lake retain some of the money at nineteen. He was doing a number of jobs, and he was allowed to keep like one dollar of his weight of his wages a week. So we got to keep a dollar for himself the owner took the rest, so he's millions on money. The see was the greatest teacher like he knew his shit like he just became really at home. And he got a job on the see us as planter not. So I thought it said panther at first off like, ooh. Yeah. Right planter. It was a first class coast ways. Steamer? I it was I had local cotton and live oak in red, cedar. And he met his wife there Hannah and Hannah way just live. Okay. We all have the waves back saying, oh, you gave me a hardy. Sorry. Can't all be on the hand. Oh my God. So hey, he missed so Hannah she was a slave working for the Kingman family working at the Charleston hotel and the owner latte him and his wife move into an apartment. He had a very nice master. Let him move into an apartment with two kids Elizabeth and Robert junior, and he was like shit. I gotta get my family out of this because we can't be in the slavery for this long. And he was like how much and the owner was like eight hundred dollars, and he was like I only got one hundred and the owners like figure it out. So he's like shit. How am I gonna get seven hundred dollars to like, you know, get my family? It's gonna take forever. And he was like, wait a minute. I little just like my boss, captain j rely his box. He take because his boss was maybe on the CLI go over ten, and he was lighter skinned everybody used to joke about how much they looked alike. And there was a bunch of setting in up since out Carolina. There's a bunch of union ships that are just further ahead than our lake. Making it. So you can't. So the confederates aren't able to get any trade coming in Younes got them blocked, and these ships were accepting slaves. Like if you were to escape over there. The union ships would accept Erin lake for you. So small town a plan may twelve eighteen sixty two may twelve should be like Robert Smalls day. Like, yeah. So we're in Charleston, South Carolina, where the first shots of the civil war, actually fired little implode. Plant note there and planter was the ship was making a bunch of rounds in the islands, and it came back to South Carolina. And it was heavily stocked. At this point I two hundred rounds of ammunition 's thirty two pounds of pivot guns, like a bunch of guns all kinds of stuff. And there were these three white officers who are feeling like really saucy would just islands. I don't want to stay on this ship. Like, I wanna like let my hair now going into the city, but like they knew you weren't supposed to leave your ship alone. Because it was like these slaves on there. Who knows what they might do, you know, and they could be like put prison the white, folks. Leave him the slaves along with the ship. But they're like captain was like, you know, what I trust them. I trust them. They're going to be fine. They wanna do. Like I trust. These aids lays Robert Smalls, he was like Nasr machines. And he's been sealing the water since he was a teenager. He was intelligent resourceful. Like, just like, he just knew his shed. And he was like all right. This is the moment I've been waiting for he'd been planning this for weeks because he knew the route they were going to do. And I he rallied them all together. And he was also known like this little backstory it like he was a pivotal part of like this captainship. He was like as high ranking as you could be as a slave on the ships. Like, he knew is he knew the signals and. Like, I said he was planning for weeks. And it went like clockwork he picked up the his family members at a rendezvous points. Like, this is like clockwork. So you picked with the families at a rendezvous point then slowly navigated his way through the harbor because he you at a sale and do all this shit. And then he doubled as the captain he put on the captain's hat disguise himself as the captain or really low and responded with all the proper code signals coast knows. And so they kept letting him do all the different checkpoints, including a fort Sumter itself. And all these other defensive positions cleared, and then they sell them to the open seas when they got out of confederate waters and into the union areas. They drew the white flag, we're surrendering. And then the union folks, pick them up, and why this movie know that I mean both of them have to be a movie, but it's like, yeah. There's there's a climate is. So then well, and then there's the epilogue so congress then when he got onto their side, congress gave him fifteen hundred dollars for the ship that he commandeered. Which member like he didn't have a hundred dollars. Right. But then history shows he actually should have been paid way. More of course. Oh, yeah. Matt, I'm initially. Visited dollars by the time. Freedom. Audio's family McGinn actually, the confederates how to four thousand bounty on his head. So that's how much the ship and everything was really worth way more. I and then he actually personally lobbied the secretary of war Edwin slant into begin enlisting black soldiers. So he's part of the reason why black soldiers started fighting in the union in the civil war. And then after president Lincoln did a few months later Smalls went right back into action, and he recruited by thousand soldiers themselves. He was out there at the C like battling away and he October. Eighteen sixty two he returned to the plants or as a pilot as part of this south Atlantic blockading, scotch squadron. So he was there and then trenches he was involved in seven hundred seventy military actions in the civil war. He was promoted to the rank of captain and in eighteen sixty three he earned one hundred and fifty dollars a month making him the highest paid black soldier of the war that money, it's he then became a first generation black politicians serving in South Carolina assembly and Senate and for five nonconsecutive terms in the US house representatives to became a congressperson and then from eighteen seventy four and eighteen eighteen eighty six he then. Oh, yeah. He served from eighteen seventy four to eighteen eight hundred eighty six and then watched as his state rolled back, reconstruction and revise eighteen sixty five constitution that back folks of their voting rights. So he got the witness that we can you repeat that again. So he this isn't a good thing you saw happening. And so then so you serving his term in the house of Representative. And then he watched as after reconstruction. I the eighteen ninety five the constituting these stripped black folks of their voting rights. I didn't like vote. No, he he just like watched it happen before his eyes. He died in February twenty-second nine hundred fifteen. Oh well. Well, we haven't celebrated anyway. And he died. He died where was it behind these buried behind a bus at the templates Baptist church which living nearby where he died, and this is one of his last quotes. He said he said my race needs. No special defense for the past history of them in this country. It proves them to be equal of any people anywhere. All they need is an equal chance in life and battle all they need is an equal chance in the battle of let you know that sounds very much like that Michelle Obama. Oh, yeah. Now, I gotta pull it out. We just need that opportunity. I thought was looking for watchos worth watch. Obviously like paraphrase it all but. Yeah. But that's Robert Smalls aren't those to amazing stories where the fuck of their movies. I really enjoyed that. Jane? Well in welcome everybody else enjoyed that. We know they did. Right. They better get it. Now was really good recap and very important to know. And I wish they taught more. I mean, there's so many prominent black people that aren't being talked down. Now, there's two more for you get the popcorn and get to work. Anyway, I also wanted to take back. The fact that I said that water signs are not. I lone maritime and signed and she's a water science Iannucci. She's the C I take it by. Waterside and we do in stop. Hi, I'm the JV club podcast, Janet Varney and I used to suffer from indecision. I couldn't choose between Star Wars and Star Trek whether the call or text or the best way to cook, my eggs. But now, thanks to my weekly dose of we got this on maximum fun. My decisions are made for me. Thanks. Mark Hal warning. We got this McCall shouting, boom throwing the illusion that the hosts can hear you laughter on public transit and death. We got this with Mark. Now, we know what's best. Glory's gone glorious Colona globiglii globe. It's going. We recorded on a Sunday that let them know race James's has really amazing week cap of two black people that need movies, and yeah. So hopefully in twenty twenty sorry, I didn't the production. You know, we talked about we broke the story about the Hidden Figures ladies before was a movie really focused somebody show. And not giving you credit unusually. Wait a minute. Les? Whereas my part, right? I mean that move nowadays inviting cigarette idea you need to. Well, we're in for a lawyer, right? But yeah, I wanted to talk a little bit about Jalen James invited me. Like, oh my God. I need to I wanna pay back on what he's talking about this so important if I wanted to talk about five women that are members eight finally in a story incorporating, and you should know what is the sorority for those who don't know. This is about to say, I remember they had already incorporated. Con it's a story that was founded on the first black campus in the United States and our university, and it's one of the nine nine. Yes. Divine nine are the black fraternities and sororities and they have their own call with Toco. Your ski. We know. They were founded on January and may. Thank you by our own five pearls. Arrivers clear, seven Pearl and Neil real Anna Neale, Myrtle free, full, well goings, and fatty fatty watts and I want to talk about some prominence Zeta that are out there in the world might not even know ours. Eva, right. So one of my favorite wants to tell is actually many Britain. She in many reprinted who do to do. London. That's really lows here. And she's actually my mom. Oh, you're right away. And my Rudolph went to I went to Santa Cruz. My run-up went to Santa Cruz being. We got you. Then we have lynbrook. She was the first African Americans in the Pulitzer prize young out here, violet Anderson. The first African American woman to practice law before the US supreme court. Okay. Thank you, very out here as Neil hurston eiser watching guy and one of the trailblazers of the Harlem renaissance hell, we're in. We're in Harlem right now, we're also recording this Harlem, and you know, I live across the street from where James Baldwin went to elementary school is the I felt started this now at the high school I used to be that's interest. Elementary school. You know, it's fun. Fact, this is a little bit of a tangent. I need to get the sorry. You know? I guess I just woke up, but the invisible man actually used to live a block away at the same time Brighton. But USA live a block away from where I live off Ellison, and there's actually a statue. When you go to one fifty I think, it's the fifty second street bad is a statue of the visible, man. Oh is it invisible? Will it is? It's an outline of that's club Ray. Because I was like I could make it invisible. Satyam it'll be like. Thaddeus? You know, that you see it's visible guy. Instead. Okay. That's right because. And then the last over when I wanted to bring up is Cheryl Underwood who is ADA analyst comedian comedy. Okay. To bring up as a comedian. I it is and glory is also on that list. Well, not yet. I'm not prominent again. When you're on the minority corner. What's a pretty that's a good little pillar little notch on the totem pole. I did that. But yeah, I hope to be on list. One day, you're already on my life. We get into existence. I'm loving you. Brought this up there too. Because it's weird. The nine have been coming into my life a lot the last few weeks. I because I remember when my my aunt. She went shoes graduate. She's getting her masters or something, and my brother, and I were like eight years old, and we're just hearing like skiing we all like things recalls. And we're just giggling because children, we don't know. And then I watch the view like every morning and Kamala Harris was speaking of she's an alpha. She's an AK AK. Yeah. I'm one of my friends as well and I- sunny sunny, and who you remind me of sunshine little somebody's because he both are both from the Bronx things with this problem. And I know that as the only woman of a whippy. Not just on there too. But what was like an old rich black and so on? Sometimes she just said some things I know she means well, and this is Sonny times like she's come around on things. She something's pretends to be like, the voice of reason for people baby. Yeah. There's some things aren't as like sunny by Zeus you, by the way, talk your mattress us up. I'm like UK's cares for neighbors or something. But she was she was. Bye bye that she was an AK as well. And. And. Kamala hair. Call libra. Kamala Harris is also an AK, and she was giving some sort of speed. And there are some reporter who was like, I didn't think I'd hear all this screeching here. And so like she didn't understand what was happening again. Like, either do your research before you go into something or send someone who knows about sort of culture. Don't even fucking it screeching without nine hundred. Exactly. Well, and so then, and then I told my friend about this, my friend is also an AK a, and then I went to be t's premier boomerang. Okay. No invite. Kind of barely by. Viacom BT's, re took a reboot not a remake, but a reboot movie boomerang that I've actually like, no. Are you know, they're actually program that was inspired by boomerang and advertising program. I need to put I need to look it up so much shit. I'm okay, I suppose boomerang, gene. Yup. No, go. If say, I'm gonna bring it back OK, this is important for people to know about this program. Well, when I was there, and it's like a lot of people who are like heads in the marketing industry of like, film, and television and stuff, then it's all black people there at the special event, and they were all like there's people like they did a call all of them people who were part of like the niente, and they were like of the divine nine as you were during the different like like the call out to the south. And I was like damn see. I wish I had like there were no fraternities or anything short. He's at my school. You Santa Cruz. Oh, yeah. Is there was there weren't any allowed? But it was like, I think just what a cool. I don't know. They just been coming back into my life. And so there's so everywhere, and I think a lot of prominent people of color, African Americans and part of the reason why I joined my sore. Was because a lot of people that are the line nine were at the forefront of civil rights movement. Yeah. And I felt like it's important for me. I don't want to join any story. But I wanted to join I wanted to join us of already that was that was very integral to that part of history. Because that part of history is a reason why what I'm doing now. So yeah, like, you know, and do for like the divide nine portent today. Always going to be important. I think that because of the age of internet, there's some things that are kind of over share. There's a lot of things that should be out of discussion is impractical as much anymore. And that's something to do more with the younger generation coming about by. Isn't it always everybody everybody that's important was in the screen? But it's like a lot of the people that I've opened doors of the people have I mean, that's I mean, that's what happens with a lot of these folks in the, you know, why organizations who go out so Princeton things these connections that they're able to build and so it's so beautiful to see black folks being able to do that for each other. And the thing the difference between the NPA, see and. Other organizations is that sometimes the white organizations like it just ends at college. We're like we did this for years. I it's continues. This isn't my time. Lifetime thing. Yeah. It's not a lot of opportunities that I've been giving especially in advertising before those my previous career whereby on from divine. Are they all even say we're gonna put you on here? Now, I'm trying to find anyone the problem. There's a program is advertising program those named after the main character boomerang or people in marketing, and boomerang was a big deal. Because of the time people who've never seen black folks in such prominent jobs advertising and stuff. And so this TV show the top BT. I saw the first episode. It's pretty good can't wait to be cast on. Hello. Why? I know you're listening in our movie ideas. I'm all right. And I it takes me twenty five years later, and it's their kids. Oh, it's still continuing because Halle Berry and Leno Wath the wife from masters of none is produce. They're producing it. So. Yeah. A market. I need to find the name of this. What's okay? We'll come back from break. She's determined backtrack and like glory takes very seriously. We might have the facts for you right after this break. Globally globally. Lou. You gotta say, oh baby faces called wants to send you for contracting. Your money you said not zone dome. But he's the one that called glory. It's great having you on the show. It was so great to have us. I cars filling in I in. I o just wanna read the tweet you tweet at us get involved in the conversation. We had this wonderful tweet from CBS chance, you can tweet at minority corner and tweeted at my corner deserve so much more hype and recognition like come on y'all. These support these amazing what little tweet it was cute. Listening should be listening. And so you're on Twitter Twitter can find the at pretty funny glow or on Instagram glory is pretty funny. I don't know why. I guess the way I say my name is Laurie people following Moris. Pretty funny is getting all these fuckers lower its glory glory. Hallelujah. Pretty fun. Okay. Wonderful. It's insurgent having other show would is there something that you can tell us where can they find you doing some comedy soon here, New York? Yes. So we'll for the program Marcus grand grand project episode of you are black in the world of advertising. I now that at color in terms of my comedy will be all over the why seven Cisco. Out here. So proud of you because you like left your day job. What a great inspiration woman who let's day job to go pursue her dream and comedy more doing this year ago doing it now now, you're minority corner. Baby faces at the sign you. Doing I'm here. But yeah, I'm trying to think of what shows I have a show that Yonkers comedy clo- February twenty-second we at the slipper room own production. Strawberry milk on February twenty six and then in Harlem at the hexagon lounge on February twenty eighth other here. I love it. You're just doing it. I get it was so great having what a natural. This is so much fun. And all big things what he or editor and big things. Brown out for the music and thank you to all of our listeners. Thank you for listening. Thank you for listening to minority corner. Because together, we say this together, we're the majority to three majority. Maximum fund org. Comedy culture, artists owned listener supported.

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The QUEENS Supreme Court Podcast - My Hair is Laid Like Funky Dineva is Back

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The QUEENS Supreme Court Podcast - My Hair is Laid Like Funky Dineva is Back

"The. Testing one, two, three testing, one, two, three. One. One of what not. This is so funny. They fall. I never heard this year. Fucking funny to me. That'll be eaten in its lobbying shit all over the microphone. Well, later I'm not begging today. Vegan, whatever you call it not in today. My mother says this, should I keep saying that every time she does. She has banking vegan vegan. That's a long e. Okay. Everybody is at all. Everybody is this Mitch recording this. You go close. That Instagram, Snapchat, grinder, SCRUFF, BG see Jag based book periscope at last, but not least every single. Oh, yes. Vegas, eating guys were eating every single one of. Shod main and the lands all across this is you're not allowed live at Bill is under forever in from the queens. Core and Honey. Girl tonight. We have our grow back child because we were prepared for this tour child. We got our Grubac Franchi by Neva. We'll be back tonight. He was downtown right now doing the things that even whichever whatever that might be, but he was downtown and we'll see that even this evening, we'll get done even to jump on the podcast for Sudas got even gets here. We ought to get here make up or whatever. I mean, things have been comma, a noisy and quiet at the same time. As we really, it's been noisy Ed, quiet like specific things have been noisy Cavanaugh is. Kevin. Now. Nah. On the other layoff among. You know, trying to do, but at the end of the Yala guy payment right together. So that is what I have to have it on the Dutch. Gentlemen in the background, you know, that is Craig, the writer, Stuart, please. We're not promoting his books. You never spoken in one thing for certain things. Oh. Why visit me guys at w. that Craig Stewart, but that's Adrian, it's okay. I'll his pay for this. But at promo. If you were in eland Harris fan, you're gonna love my book because the Rigetti original agreement had was to on into off. Then goes back to when Vega was. Right. Right. Agent in the background with us to Asian, if our creative director over social media and all the flyers and stuff, please follow follow Adrian on his only fans. No. At advance. See him been von Tomba. Hi. Banana pudding waffle. It really is. It would be the first half. Something down. Yeah. Okay, great. You know, I'm really, you know you really into the whole political situations of things and things that can you give me a rundown? I did feel these this cavern of being being sworn in as a Justice, correct. He has been confirmed. He has been. What do you see the times times have really changed and you? And I talked about this earlier today when I had stated that you know when we were telling me about the things that were going on in your personal life? Hunting cousin is a doctorate, listen bitch because he tried to. He tried to come down you about your social media questions to you trying to be very, confining. Kinda spending about our will get on your lives. And so two or three, those big. Bet you never see them by the daughter. How you doing it on your fucking cubicle. Because you. But yeah, he he did because this is the thing we're not. I'm not angry at anyone that gets up and goes to work every day. I don't have anything to say about it. There's just my ministry. This is not mine always win my ministry. I knew I wanted to leave there. God always daydream about the day that I would be able to live fully as a writer, like a fulltime writer, and not even a writer, but just in entertainment period. You know, I just never really saw myself retiring from company after working twenty five years. And again, that is nothing wrong with that. I Meyer people who do that have that kind of discipline, and it makes the world go round. Those people look down on people like that are social media presences in social influencers and things like this Bill make millions of dollars people on YouTube right now turned down television deals like which. She, she made her Mark with that offered black girl series on YouTube before she got picked up by HBO. They caught it her because she created this, you know, this huge fan base who's following, but this whole cavenaugh thing to me, it's just a demonstration that even white woman's word doesn't matter that white men just have to be at the forefront. They have to be in control. They have to be in power. So despite the white men. So even though they know that that there was something going on between this man and her. But you know, at the bottom line, is that right? But but but here's what I realize they know that they can't. We're gonna let him from Russell the bag. But they know that they can't pull him up in and say, okay, FBI go ahead and investigate cavenaugh unless he was going on. Because if they investigate him, they're gonna have to go through the entire Senate the entire congress and get all of them other fuckers because there's so many tax dollars that are spent. Paying off women that have accused people who work in government read, so they're not gonna do that this country, right? So we Lear, right? So I'm not shocked by that. So I mean, we can talk about it just because it was pay bills here. Yeah, right. Don't ever get into his. We've made a few bills and we built it. Yeah, we put together, but it ain't right. And this is their way of saying, fuck you. We own this to this is ours, and yeah, so so I did want wanna talk about that, but we do have to make sure that we still get out and vote because it is about -solutely. Absolutely. It is important. I actually just posted something on my social media to showing all of the states in the last day that you can actually registered to vote. So like you really need to be show that you make the deadline and you know what I'm saying to on my pages if you have a person living in your home, that's voting age, like eighteen year old, nice like she this living in, he needs to, he needs to be registered to vote. And if he can't read the his ass, the vote that he needs to move out your goddamn house, he'll do nothing else. He needs to be registered to vote. That's forever listening. The Matt daughter lives with me. And my daughter with me says before, I even knew how dare you try to kick his. As he runs the devote really not sure she does. She's a convicted felon. Well, you know, you can. You can still vote now they've, they've abolished. Yeah. So depending on what it is you have to really look into it because you can still vote, forgive us, which. Wing and eating. We're enjoying lunch Brancheau. I have a banana pudding waffle. But this massacre I'm having some chicken. Is that our fri- that's not on business this from business. Shrimp and grid. With a lots of concoction in this game from nana's chicken Wachner, black home. Yes, people say a lot of things about me, but even though I have lots of things I support black owned and operated and I also support LBJ tea and and I have to say, this is going to sound very fucked up, but I don't give a damn. They're the first to throw me under the bus. Now the first it meet me on the line of our great. You don't do this because they don't because they don't see it for you. So is that they don't see they see what you do, but they don't see it you doing even richer cousin. They don't see you doing it like ogre, no, not her, but then when they see that you have a powerful impact, then it becomes all. Is this lots of things girded fry life tale. Ridiculous. I'm like. Got off to about it, so I should be able to have peace. Seven. Matter, but I still bought it. It is our VR of tempting me with with the smashing taste this breaking a corner, Greg. That's the way you. He's laughing teeth. I'm retracting by rotation. You wanna be ideal if facing. Of the other stuff out of he already off of their child. I, I thoroughly glide. Trying to put some of their transmission fluid. Since I mentioned girl likes rare. You have much dragging blood, don't you. All areas leasing. Nice. That's why she was ninety three dollars today. Girls will my credit card out, but I have a trick for them this week. But somebody other things that I wanted to talk about. I definitely wanna talk about the Braxton family values Yama. No. Here we go. Because the last time the last time I was here jump to done. Same all jumped the gun in, went on her social media and started attacking. And it was unwarranted. You know what I mean? But I just want. Then tell is right. The really. I didn't get my thought. There are lots of arrive is. This rollback over there. Pick Wilson. This law fail is yes. They close it forever on you got twenty minutes go because you know you like to eat after we've already already brought a good breakfast but like forty dollars that's about limit which is for breakfast is forty dollars. I'm over here spinning one hundred ninety three dollars and saying one hundred ninety three dollars. Got it. Went from ninety four to one hundred ninety three dated by spirit. But are you guys ready for the Orlando show? Take a little segue right here. Tober fifteen. We're gonna be in Orlando. The tickets are on sale, correct? Right. There funky dot Neva. Jesse will will the doll herself every single. Of the things are available on event. Right, dot com. Yeah, actually what we're gonna do right now, we have a mouthful of Cox. We're going to go ahead. We're going to. And role that commercial Ronca grad is you lie. Why is that. We'll be allowed lab. In Kurla or. That's right. Tall. To your city. Funky at Jesse will be Mike chest supreme court. Judge. Curious, gentleman, get up. Down and get over there at WWW dot, the v. That's. Bright dot com at look for the supreme court. Live show at Orlando. Grad, you know, web is. You know what? We just can't do it for from other fuck it land land obese because this is the month of the libra and I am the Queen. Libra has got action. Speaking of we gotta talk about that. Did you hear their Hong Kong you're supposed to be getting some type of divorce? Oh, I thought you were gonna talk about something. I didn't hear about that. Yet, I heard it's suppose we all here say, this is allegedly, which will be able to pick those t shirts that very soon. We just did some nice thing. Oh, did you show Craig agent when you get an opportunity to show Craig show Cray, but by by by me, speaking of this is the month of the libra which is Tober and you know, I don't know about September was I love them, but I don't really know much about them. I just know that there's. No one does it like the tors is then a bull? No, lack the boo. You're in areas like Miss America, we have all, but anyway, let's be clear here the millennial, right. Oh, let's talk about. Millennials are really get into podcasting, things of that nature, Honey, they're all she says. Is bottled water. Lens. We will be loud live and in color and Baltimore, Maryland, Craig's hometown. Creeks will do. Are you. Baby. I hope you. The court will be in bones, and that's hottie. Will be right when you Baltimore bear. Speech is. So baltimore. About my guest judges. Christie next. Get back, get over there to WWW dot com. Looked from the Queen. That's the Queen. Baltimore. That's right. How to get your tickets, get your tickets. Get your mother fucking ticket. Yeah. Let me tell you so that I just wanna take this opportunity of this time to think all of my g- wonderful fans that support me and the people that support the show, and I just wanted thank you because this is this has been a very rocky journey and I'm not afraid of this been bumpy it in their dick. I longtime ago. I ran from that though. I'm not ready from this. Well, that's the thing about being an entrepreneur, though. You know what I'm saying? He put on people don't get it and not everybody has the cojones or the or the two nasty the stick to do it, flows that e less why some people to be stretch. Yeah, take a passively and fall down. Number, then it's not just regular for me. This is public rate this public for me like, you know, and I'm not going to get over into it and stuff like that. Because you know people be like, oh, let things go left go, but this this is my story. Don't tell me to let shit go. And this is a part of my story. This is the part of my journey. You might get tired of looking at it bits, but I live this shit every fucking day. I got to get up every motherfucking day with their bitches long as I'm still continuing continuously doing this for the people that are really defense. 'cause I hear people from the views of chain. I don't get before. I don't give a dam this today. This from. The fans, and somebody is obviously watch because, oh yes. Oh the right. Excuse me. Hold on. Let me say this. Let me say the right people watching. And you know when all is revealed, like was revealed to apocalypse in x. men. When he said, all is revealed after the Phoenix came through and blew his Custer for your banana. Oh my God. That's what that is. Is it later Craig. Do number rapid, brag your Baltimore, the. Knees, I'm almost working for their. Deborah is. L. TR's was you fool, you grow. Is when she says l. Debbie's long-term relationship. Merciful, Alcatel, ages expression. What about it. What about is expression. So let's listen here. The other things that I wanted to talk about. I wanted us to talk about the Braxton family values because he Yala had got taymor right together and was very resistant. But then her mom is e like stepped in like miss MS e started talking everybody. I mean Toni Braxton even like shook for a moment. Yeah, but it just that you know, that for me is just like women just have that kind of power. Like if they really just exert that power, women really do have that kind of power. Being on everyone. You happen to. You dagga. So. She gotta make all this noise. So now what do you think about the? Did you wanna cut? I thought it was kind of funny. The locate Michelle video with the woman was up on. A lot of stuff about the fund. Was there what was she doing like? Right, I was like, but she was on like a golf car. I was thinking she has. She worked over there lived over there or something. I know that's why I was trying to figure out if you want to even talk about it. I don't have no problem with why she. Doc, you did read her for field ones. Because you know she was like every every time that she got into it with a man. Oh, she was. She girl thing that they do right. And I mean they do if so if anybody understands what they do, I'm talking about you right? She she does the things that they do this because even my former person, she did the same thing. They do that. That's what they do. So you know. It always makes me, you know, it always sends me back to the understanding that that is rice. That's how they feel those people, those those particular people really feel, you know, saying just like this, just like if I put on a tangent about white people. Accord. Obviously, I say I got white, but that's how I really feel it shouldn't take incident or situation to fort to begin to become that nasty even white people when they start using the inward, he viciously slated out the inward. That's how they really feel you really feel that way. You just have to suppress that because her you want to keep your job, keep you wanna keep correct. Politically correct, but deep bitch, this, how you feel. When I read a mother fucking bitch, I read a mother fucking bitch, and I don't. I don't just particularly go for slurs on a tile by gopher the way you look. Or what you will you are. You know, I might use a slur here there, but I'm not gonna. That's not gonna be my continue away, like dig into calling in your back. Clawing claw you out like that, you know. All right, what she blocked me, but I'll be out storing, overly gotten up on her. I think the lady, I think she got dice girls. Beautiful gal. Okay. Talent. We still time she's two. I like her talent I used to follow and follow the. When I went to went to look at her pay, no, I didn't go to look at her face. They had tagged me with her and you couldn't see when I when I clicked, you know, I was blonde, oh, I don't even really. I don't really follow any of that stuff comes out and here's what I. Here's something that I want to say that we said in the car earlier today. People have to be okay with people not liking you. Yeah, you have to be okay with people not subscribing to what's normal to you. You have to be okay with that. You know what you know what secures you be okay with that. You have to understand that this is the world you live in is not yours, and it will be long to us collectively. Yes, we want people to respect us. Yes, we demand respect. Yes, we walk out. We advocate for respect. Yes, these things we do. Everybody's gonna learn not going to adhere to rose. The rules is to respect everyone. Everyone's not gonna to the rules and those people that do not follow the rules or at here to the rules. You don't. You don't fall into right. Stop. Trying to convince them to be okay with everybody. And everything is made up just like there are people out there that that are not going to subscribe to respecting me and calling me she or her. I just don't have conversations with those people. That simple Rabin instead of trying to proselytize them trying to get them to change the way that they like. It's just that simple and really believe that that comes along with, you know, growing girl, they just not gonna do it. So don't go in there is just like trying to go in a club where they don't want the fear geeze. There were. Right. Sense, DC Baltimore way of saying, thank you. Of course, that's not a proper way to set inappropriate, right? It's inappropriate but you know, growing up it was Faguy. Yeah, because they were trying to say it was such a Gretchen because you know you still by one of those boys and saying, even. Spattered you'll get the base even Tim was getting dick down. By the nigger her calling her and she at the same time, making her from the front, that Ed side and swallowing her mean, oh, upon demand. Do that again. H you. Till. Your Terry. So be put my whole teeters day bow, Tim. I really over you when you got to. I think I was twenty. You got them in Miami. I started that started like this is this is all pump. This is why they are also those on this is pumped out. So it's not. That's not bad. No. Oh, that's why it looks very, very clueless, falls like that. That's why people are so flabby hurts. Yes, it did. That's why people are so flabbergasted. By the way, when I was that they were those videos always go viral. They see battle the TD, right? It goes no matter what sitting in where I've seen so many means pictures photographs of myself. Bouncing my breasts. Because people don't like that's a trans person. She's a. And I've said this before we all love time. We have really all. I've said this before bitch has always used to wonder why I've been going viral. Since I hit the internet. That's not. That's not the way of all trades trained Brian, right? This is why I'm so visibly now bitches. See, Ron, try to act like who is that bit? You remember that. Video all in the group. The bus were the grew, your amendment at autograph. Remember that store. Remember that always people don't like to give me my gist and it's okay because we leave as always feel like unjustly done. People don't like to do that, but we can't. We can't gate from the facts, Honey. We can't. So when when you got him pump, did you have to get them pumped one time child I bit. I started at twenty. I was taking hormones. That's where my nipple is being black. You know that the areola big like that. This is just this is straight injected in, and that's why the Cleveland is very natural like that, like a metric like very natural Cleveland and that shit drives because I'll get women writing me which brought to us. And then I see just say something very disrespectful, but it's too. Call to correlate to say four late bitch with the conversation that even he said, five fifteen? Okay. What I see them writing up under post about how he got his tedious. His head is soul be all his tedious look like real titties. I don't respond to any of those things unless they're on my page. Because I always see me somewhere in circulation other things, other pages of the big platforms or whatever. Our we see me because somebody tag because somebody 'cause my Maddie Bob don't fuck up. Bobby over there fat be over their friend hose like that. Bugger fucking fishtail that we had just a few minutes ago. Sauteed and fry. So I've seen, you know, I've seen a lot of whatever it is. I think they're always captivated by them knowing that mourn at a sign meal burn what is kind of almost like with a gay man. It's like you've had. I've had women say to me, I always knew you get what are wasn't trying to hide it. You don't get some sort of a discovery for that Asian. I love you babe, but UK had it is so be I know somebody roundhouse today. But he just got it from California. Oh, tally will know. He got down on his Instagram story really big idea. I quite California. I just I love California, but I love it for two television stuff that I go do TV digital things that I do. Adrian, excuse me is just really Deidra. He was fucking you in California. Actually from California. Right. Right. You know, California's I love California. I do one day. I might live of their side quote. We quote me, I told you, I could go back. There might live. I wouldn't wanna live there fulltime. I've always said that I can't. I can't live there full time. I can't live in New York. I can live in Atlanta full-time because I'm at peace here just that we went out to gentleman's ogre. Let's talk about a gentleman's ball. I always wonder if you're gonna talk on the show tonight or you just need right now. Okay. Wait out to the gentleman's ball. You know, I cannot you didn't know that was announcing the show crank our so listen people. Let's go back to being narcissistic just for. For. People could say, whatever the fuck. They want to say what I came down that escalator. The escalade. It began what beginning girl, Honey, the photographs, the grabbing the pulling the came running towards you, like Michael Jackson, did they do that? Don't act like you haven't with. Okay, running. You would be on saying, if you if you do if I was sitting there live, you had to witness there. So let's not do that. Cubicle girl out of there. The power to that you were where quivalent bits, they rented. Listen, this is the shit. I got the deal with this phone. Oh my God. But no. Now we have a real conversation real about the gentleman ball because I have said, I feel like they should have honored me at some point as well because the for those who may not know the gentlemen's ball, it's an award show its benefit. It's a, it's a. Sorry, we talk about food again. It's it's a benefit show. It's an event ceremony. It's a dinner to sit down dinner to fund raiser, and it's. That red velvet gate was the one. Right, right. But they honoured gay LGBTQ people that are doing things and media and just in the community and they haven't been going. They haven't been going for years. I haven't been. I haven't been on it. You haven't been on? You know, I'm not gonna say I don't. I don't feel some kind of way, but I might grow. You know, a girl may jump up Honey and she might get a role on the television and all of a sudden she's done. And this is what makes me very standoffish could be. I'm just going to list. I'm just going to talk about this stuff that makes me very standoffish because once again. We can't take away the power of my visibility Brian, because when I step came off that elevator, it was there in all that began to be like, oh my gosh, she's here arrive. Let's just be clear, right, right. What they say, oh, my gosh, she's here. Who was there? She who is she? The TES. Who. Because I've made run no made someone someone laugh right writing someone's day. I've said something is barechested somebody. I've, I've seen have broken down crying. You've seen that, which are. I've been with my mother and me, and my mother have have have lived a public live in front of me so that it gives helps them get a better relationship with their children. My mother is a devout Christian. Do you know how the transgender woman and a homosexual and public as I am an ex film adult film star, how how proud challenging that was, how resting in her faith. Yeah, but the thing that she said to me in this always stands out from me. She said, you know, she kept trying to figure out she kept praying guy and kept saying, you know why much? How much? How change much change my child. And finally, what she heard guides, CEO, which she heard her conscience say was instead of trying to change him. Go ahead and love your child love her. They love her because at this point is between me and guy now, so I believe that sometimes God gives you things to work on whatever you on. Yeah, and this is why I tell those people out there that are homophobic. Transphobic watch it your kids or next. Right. Excuse me. Let me say this. Watch it bit. Your kids are or your grandchildren. You may not see. You got to be mindful of that you do because you might see that you might see what you're doing. Now as this other bit, you might meet that again and you might have to face that experience this from one of your loved ones. And you might have to see like, oh my God, all this time I was the oppressor and now my own is being oppressed, and your loved one is watching you say those things. And so it's making it more difficult for them to live their own line. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, people entrance movies, right? They know they knew maybe maybe. Sometimes they know, and then just. You see the way they look at people, right. See them go by little gestures and you met him. My daddy freely used the fag freely and that he was blessed with a superstar fag. Aw. Queen vais. Right? So you know, but back to what I was saying, you cannot take that away and it's a different type of star. There's a different type of star that I am. I may not be v television star, but I'm the star of the people that's really where mass because these people that are that's on television. They play a character on TV. The people really don't know the the people feel that they know me. I fell down in front of the people I've gotten up in front of the people. I've been whipped in front of the people. I've transition in different states of my life in front of the people. I've been online crying. People have seen me. I don't give a bitch if it happens right there in the moment. And I'm really kind of funny about what what type of picture comes out someplace I am, but but I'm really not over on like because it is what it is. If I got a bumper, my vase, if I'm broken out bitch, if I have a shaving rash. Butte stubble from missing laser treatments for awhile. We would get out the car today. You said, I know what I got on my face on your face, beard. Mustache. Light, what it's not like, let's let's be clear Craig. Do do that for these girl. Do that. Listen, I can't walk outside. We when she said it, she's woman percent right there. Got to. We saw. I told MS Meredith. She was a bad because I was buried up there. The beer at shave. This is kyanne calling on hotels for travel. We'll have to speak to Bob at Tokyo. We'll have to be Kiat. We're doing a live podcast right now. My love we will become indicate with you at about ten minutes. Yes. Kion that you get, we love you. Yes. He's still talking about. Okay. Lowered. Okay. We'll wait for cricket. Kiara trying to work out travel for the live current queens, the frame court show. We have traveling accommodations and things we gotta take care of. Yeah, so okay. So what else is on the docket? Because we have completely well, we've should because we don't even come. The pooch hall thing. I was talking about that he was the star on the show the game. I'm going to have to watch this yet. Got photo before the funny stuff that we will want to have like, don't make this Assyria show this thing. Ain't fine. What's gonna be funny as you and Dan, even your commentary on it. Isn't. That is not a lot of funny. She. What was going on this? Nothing like, you know how we usually get those things or one at Robin runs over over leg. Are is we all know is going on in the world. They're just want to laugh. And this is one of those days. I'm tired. I'm exhausted and I got to put a lot of this energy into this show the traveling, show growth. We've added to the roster Christmas, even Atlanta where adding New Orleans or adding Detroit. Oh, adding Durham is coming. Oh man. Like you know. So me I just want to do. We need to travel around and have spread laughs and fund probably escape a little bit from the world. Let us let us have an hour of escape from what's going on. Let's see if we can find some viral video. Yes, that's do that later. We're gonna come back once done even gets here. We're already thirty eight minutes. And if you sitting here you're thirty eight forty thirty eight thirty nine minutes in we're gonna pause the pie. Right here, and we're gonna come back with funky and Eva and the end we're going to do the show too. Well, tonight you'll hear you'll see you're watching the show would have had already tried to spy. The blood transfusion would have already went through you gotta girl. We're back here. Be hit three thousand zero three times in a row. How did we. I ain't nobody here counted in another. I'm eating my, but I did a slight look. I didn't even do. I did a slice spatial kid and I just had to keep moving to harm her. I had a little, no mamas. Mamas back is broke over here. You know, mom's back his bro. Are you for that complaining. Don't say that you broke, say, mama, your back, you temporarily advocate. Say mama's back is bro. His slave and Har. Pays pays other phones Beal and not your. Right. A man in this by the fucking welcome to no, they don't. I can't get a cause. They paying them, but they own. Hi about torts try. I know you wanna book to a dog. Dawn, I know that you're on a book to yada shade is thick in his kitchen hunting. I know the one paying out. Two things that services. I know that you're on in book to it. You know what? Some, you know what I've learned in life. Lots of things that word of math can do that money can't. Whereabout where my bag. Necessarily go down, hit cutting up. Muslim peace, Nick wack. My beats her from the ball. Honesty, honest to God. I want to say this out loud about my team that that I fought with. I love them down and bits of it. You gotta awesome team. I love them down like are really professional. They stepped me for moms case something they step in for mama's on the script of just because you feel me and I make sure, and I will make sure that once we don't hear that peak peak peak and they know it. I took and give they know our and nobody in the circle ks that y'all see on the hold of video is the same peo- hear cases on the video all the way down the line and the TV screen. The peo- k. Got to be more south Florida. Yes, from makeup artist on all the way down saying, this is what I just really believe. I just feel like that, you know and we were talking earlier today. We wasn't. We weren't bad. Great bit over in front of me trying to give me. Trying to give me that Mielke yet girl. To give you that milky act. But you know what? What we were talking about the gentlemen's ball and. We had a good time and we were talking about the way they do the on or whatever we not read in there. We did not read them all. We just obtains of like, you know, sometimes you know, maybe maybe and I and you know what, to be honest with you, paid the play devil's advocate. Maybe, you know, maybe. People, I played devil's advocate, honor the girl Honey on all the girls. It's hard being visible here in this in these never. You know people people have situations with us with with us as social media in they don't. They don't like to respect our our stardom as social media star. They don't really like the respect when they want something advertising refers 'cause they know they know the power and this we're not reading the gym because we're not just we're not targeting the. We're just saying this in general, like general things because they're not the only found Dacian that you know that caters to LBJ, you know, TV and things of that nature. And you know, maybe done even sometimes maybe we don't do enough in our community. Maybe we don't because I just got backlash last week because remember Craig, we, we had on the docket last week about the Nike situation where they talked about they and them the, the proper pro pro now's on how and I kind of I jokingly, say, explain. I was explaining it, and then I said, okay, next case, because I personally for me, I didn't feel like that that was the time for me to tackle that in a funny environment because that's not something that you joke about year we brought. We brought attention to it, you know, feel and yes, I am on their side. You know, in the battle against Nike for firing them for not wanting to use the proper pronouns guests. I am on that on that battlefield for that, but I can't convey that over in the setting of we're talk. We're talking about Republican fund at a lot of shit that's going. You don't poke fun at stuff like that when when it comes down to gender identity because this isn't even a serious times. And you said something earlier before we were, we got into a little bigger that we were just in earlier, you said. No, was that you don't even we were talking about, oh, we we talked about we're, we're adding Bette midler to the docket because Bette midler had made the statement. Everyone was to stay me. Give me the direct statement something on the lives of women on the new n word in this country. Yeah. Was it just women in general? Was. Women, women of the world rate, beaten in slave, Mary off, work lifetime tonight, education, inheritance. I understood exactly what she was saying. Exactly. She had a she. She had a point. But like I mentioned is just and this racial climate people are just super sensitive to everything admitted you say what you say the minute, you say nigga what she saying the minute. You say you say it's like, you know, it's just had this been pre Trump out. Think her quote with a win over without a hitch folks would have been cool, but because everybody is just so super sensitive and quite frankly, looking for a fight. We had a point that everybody looking for reason to fight in start using thumbs on social media. Know didn't go over well, and unfortunately, that's one of the things is being white that you don't understand. She didn't me no home. She didn't mean a liquor hav at on, but we still got base that you know what I'm saying? We, you know, she's the, does it bother you bother me, but I got mart enough to understand, but we've smart enough to understand what we are smart enough to understand what she meant. But people only see what they wanna see and they only they interpreted away. I don't think I don't think we got to let us know lifting letting you been girl UK freely used that day because but you you, you afraid to the family and we'll check you down the street at the picnic and ask girl, and I also work mentioning now. She did not come up with quotes. She just simply re posted something that I believe Eleanor Roosevelt saying many, many years. I don't see what the problem is. I don't see what we're letting her know this, letting her know bits, be careful. I love you bet. And we loved you. Hocus pocus and bitch and putting a spell on you bitch, we will. Air for that thin and fragile as black folks, which is. The chimney like. Like you in the mother, three white bitches that she was on the damn show with I r people shutting the hell up and read it for what it is and get out there, their feelings, the minute, they hit the n. word that they could actually appreciate. But you gotta have a problem with it even understood, but I'm just for those for those colors that they had a problem with the situation and understood you ever the problem because y'all color say that bitch bitches. She's she's, she is Jess. They free into the family. We was only letting her come to the picnic and we accept it Dole's that fucking potato salad with them raises an apples. And it was really thought away. But bitch, we was leading. You come over with, say. The problem that she's white and she was the problem that is comparing women to black it. The problem that she's white and she said on this call thing. We're going to call it thing. It's she's white and she said it. So what we're gonna do tonight, we're going to add that to the duck. We need to put their somewhere like somewhere at the top because we want to go into the night that by the way I get getting people already because bench, we started seeing black and white people are already in its own. It's going to be, it's going to be divided. But like you said, people that that are educated in that education doesn't have anything to do you crawl college, but educated enough to understand where and in what context she's ranking. My thing. I'm all about context. I'm all about context. But moving right along, what else you got to give out because disaster we play. Off the mother fucking Chang. But what about a you don't even have you like that featured the heavy, eat a bit. You over the eat me, and that's hard to do. Everything. Yeah. I know you wanted to you wanted to kind of gloss over this whole cabin off in being confirmed. Well, let's let's get done. Just just small bits before. Don't bring your heavy as you bring into the show this because we're going to joke about it show, but we can talk a little heavy. So let me ask you wanna do, but what about the down? You know the little boy that was killed in Chicago, Mike way, the cop, this shot him fifteen times. Given the, I think if I'm not mistaken, he's the first cop come bigger convicted. He was just convicted. Fifty. We kind of glossed fast and kind of keep going and then be done with all of the political stop. Right. I think that that definitely is worth mentioning, but then I had the Brexit valley value gotta. Do we gotta talk about tape mining Yana now. Yeah, we do not that even less because the last time you were here, you know, I had to go on defending myself and I'd like to publicly address this while we're here on the podcast. Now, one thing I have to give you. Trump that you are quick witted. You have a very fast tongue. It is deadly. And for me, I got back last stayed in that. I was trying to cloud chase with Tamar, and I didn't have your back as a friend in the situation and that was not the case. So we're going to talk to he's talking about context. Let's talk about context. Again, in the matter of this situation. You and I both work out here in the media social media, television media. We both were enemies and we know both of us know that we can go to the land. We can't jump over. You know what I'm saying. Now, in that situation, you did not say anything did jump off the long the back short, whether she jumped off the pier long or short and without knowing what was at without knowing what was the head of our immerse with asset there. And I looked at dumbfounded, you know, because you're my friend and I like her and she and I are cool with. You know what I'm saying? You and I've been on you longer than I've known her, but you know, we're still consider phrase, we come to each other's house, whatever, you know some. So with that being said, when she came on my, yes, my mood change because I felt like that now, but I know you have a history, you and her have a kind of dry. Yeah. So it me is this like nam sit here and this is my two friends in it, and I'm like, this not. This is not what I wanted to happen on the after show. Then she was at wet show. What did your free and say, you know, you're asked you for. Yes, she, I will see us how to lead it out and she said, what did you ask you for your saying? I was like, what? And you tapped me on the based that I, that I was like, oh my God. I said, I need to go back and watch the video because I need to know did did I laugh in. Here. Yeah. Nubian said, I understand that Craig, but we bit we have been drinking majority undenied girl. We was drinking a laughing and talking like I wasn't remembering exactly all the things that was there on the thing or whatever, but and and from what I knew, he didn't say anything about it, but you we could've made a joke about something right before we thought about it at all, even right after that could have offended her, you understand and I'm always gonna play devil's advocate because I am a libra bitch. That's what we do. And I was like, did the ad need to know for FEC? So I don't do make the mistake that she made. I need to note for affect because then a bitch and have a video. You were laughing when we talking about the right. 'cause shit, bitch, I was hollering. I was laughing my and my my brain like, oh my God, did I did I can't go apart. Not that you said anything about her molest station, but was I was on in Cincinnati alert. Yeah. And in retrospect I totally understand it. I, I didn't have a problem with it then eating, but I always tell people all the time when it comes to media, the truth rarely matters is about what it looks like. It's the optics of it on, and I think a lot of people perceived it as regardless of what the truth was. A lot of people perceived it as that I left you at our guest in your home on your show and that she came in there acting up and they felt that shoot in country they would've liked. Yeah, I didn't personally have a problem because I understood it and I understand you, but it's just about what it did. It did because. Because. A little fish lift that if I was on the outside looking in my yet, but me no one night bis, this, my friend, this, my friend. Mia freeze. And then I'm like, Donovan his a quick tongue. I don't know if our fucked up and laugh, but that Neva come on. Negeria boy. Ankles inside, but Mickey. Bless the all of that. With the episode we're talking about on the show. All. To see what I got for tonight. Yeah, I gotta get my my. Gotta pull out some old. Got do some old tricks for this. Ain't no problem. But this week we get together, we're gonna get long money together. This was I fucks with Dodd Neva you know what I'm saying? I say this east and we get together. We've had private talks with you talking to me like matter. You know, you shouldn't do this. You just like you you contact and you reprimanded me about speaking about my former co host in that time when I when I went off, but I had just used say you had had enough, but girl let that be the one, and that's it. Girl let it go. No, don't address in the modal look at in the modal. You call me about them. Custody outbid what the doing that shit you being foolish to energy. Just like sometimes people say that even be reading. He Donovan gets done even done, even read about the basement. I don't take any of that stuff. Got a house with a basement. Bitch. I'm living in the pot talking lady. I had a mother fucking my name on this thing that people don't get die, like out of, I know what it is. I know where we are, whatever, just like I never said girl, right. Like this, I harvest every time because you have to. It's a. Is not a place of ballots. Yes. We haven't system the better just like you growing up and you. You know you, you'll get into look thing. He'd be like such ball, aided if you love your, but you just play. If I never taken no kinda way f- for me now I just I wonder what beat them. It'd be them bitter. View wasn't fans out there. That's just always looking for individual. You know, there are some people out there that they can you. You can have a paragraph worth a speech, and they will pick out the toll words that so words, you know what I'm saying? They have the least do Joe overall subject matter to try to start some shit and we'll tell you how I know that to be and they were gone 'cause we gotta get. We just need to respite for the show. I'm gonna tell you how that rings true for me, which going to go back to something that you and I were talking about earlier when we're talking about the auto say we don't. We might not do enough for the u. n. OBT figure. But what I noticed about you and I both we tend to stay away from those issues and things like that because the first people to we're still learning that I'm forty years old. You a number two weapon thirty. Thirty five. Oh, well shit. But we're, we're. We're still learning because the times are changing, whatever. And we still got to get some of that old stuff not of our system or whatever, or we're just not the needs to get our system. We're still learning, but we have a platform big enough to open up to talk about stuff and learn at the same time. We're not coming as scholars on it, whatever cause us us not say this again, you told me, you say, Mattie, when I met you, you made me understand trans stuff. Totally totally different. And the thing about it is maybe I'm not industry all the time with my with my fish because I've been eating a live by my own people, trans and black devour because I might have said something in in the in the in the ladder me bringing big issue to the forefront. I might have said lesbian and trans man. In the same sentence in it's just all right off the DVD. All right. Wait, wait, wait, wait, right. I the last time that I really tackled a big issue like that was I had a show that I used to do. It was called unapologetically you after dark, which he has Manson. And the last episode I had was to trans men that were on the show to mitt to transmit that identified as transient. But when I first met one of them, he identified as a stud. Okay, a female less. And so when I introduced the it was not in a malicious way, you know, it was what he didn't find it. I said she, I didn't mean to do it, and that's why I jumped away from that. They the, they suck. I, I just didn't feel like that it was time for me to break down and learn in the same way. Interesting. Because it's still it's still a very. Thing thing. You know, it's funny because we live in a binary world in your condition to boy and girl, very easy. You can do that without thinking. Very funny story. I called my delta, had a credit for my flight to get here, and I'm talking to the man and he's booking my flight and my deep voice. And he says, okay, what's your sex? And I bust out laughing. I said, you know what? It's a damn shame and it's a blessing that in twenty eighteen would avoid his deepest mind. You have to ask a person because what's your sex at head? And it is. And I was like, because at the end of the day, I mean, a reasonable Carson would assume I am a man, but there is a possibility that I could identify now, but this. Don't, right. Yeah, but you know what? I respect that this isn't all tell people what we said earlier today we gotta learn that we live in a world now where we have to accept their people are not gonna may not subscribe to you what we're subscribe to, but you don't have to go in that direction. Don't force yourself into that direction. Why people when they are in doubt they? And here's my thing too because I got some people got some ignorant. France has been like all his transited. I ought to give them if you born a boy, I'm a call your boy and I always call them when I say, what are you losing or what is it costing you by simply calling somebody what they wanna be called? Like, what is that? You lose no sleep, no money. You don't have to understand that. You don't have to understand it. You don't have to agree with it. You don't have to subscribe to it. It is person wants to be called whatever one, not just respect. You put up a fight, trying to prove all these damn points and spend the next. Fifteen minutes on back and forth when you can just call the person what it is, and but you know, where do you know what I feel about that doesn't even I feel like the person the not even communicate with. Yeah. Because I want to respect me, go commute when and see that's somewhere that we through. Through giving your name before you even know who. So when when you have your name the name from hurting dating, you have to three pain before me. Right? Why do I have to subscribe to that name? That doesn't suit. Right, but this is my thing. The first thing is also about visual because I've had people tell me bitch ULA just like a man. I'm like, sweetie. If if I look just like a man, I feel sorry for your son. Sorry for your son. 'cause if you're getting get this big bitch, you need to go over there, get his hormone balance. Shakedown. You know, was still learning as signed me, you know, it's going to it's going to issue new. Our part of the community. Like I told you, and I told you this in the past, like, you know, when I first moved to Atlanta, you know, transpeople scare me and it was simply because I had had zero exposure guys, zero exposure, like I will go to the show and I would just kinda be like this and it was just ignorant. I just I did not know what to do with the face looking one way, knowing that there was something down there, but he is now, but I knew what you know what, even if I didn't see it or not is just those are the thoughts that go through your mind and then and then and then finally after hanging around these people and and getting cool through the Monday night drags out to the stars century are came to realize you're complicating your thought process about thinking about that. You ain't even got no business Lincoln about light. You know what I'm saying? You trying to. Process people's genitalia, but you that has nothing to do with me. You know what I'm saying? If these people want to be called this, that in the third and then after I started hanging around someone so forth, naturally, every you understood, you know, you know, he will feel what they don't. They don't know, but you know what there are, a lot of people don't want to know. And I feel like I feel like I'm not gonna force you to wanna know something you don't want to know. I'm just not with you. I'm not gonna be in that circle this while I say, we have to come to the conclusion that everybody's not going to scratch as around trance to people if people edgy community as a whole gotta stop, begging accepted, yes on bitches. You know what I'm saying? Fuck you. If you don't, if you don't want me to talk to me why go ahead a free cell bit because you get people power, you give people power when they're shutting you out the door in the coming and you give them Domingo over you. You take your power back. We like Kreil. All right. You know you the tires on him. You had mother fuckers, begging to be yeoman. Yeah, and asked what I'm about your and that's why I don't go to folks churches ever. Somebody bite me to my question. Can I get married at church? Okay. I hold my partner's hand and you'll church the same way you hold your partners and they say, no, no, thank you. I don't wanna go to try. VISA division. Same thing with restaurant bars, even family members house. If I can't come to your house with my boyfriend that I do not have that I'm waiting on without looks and stares feeling comfortable. I'm not coming. I refuse in twenty eighteen to be tolerated. I don't go places where I'm tolerated. I go places where I'm fully accepted celebrated and celebrate it. You don't get me done. Even we walk in the room. Bishnu we got motherfucking. We got people just dick pay become. So again, people make me feel good, and this is I really feel like this is where we need to invest our time instead of instead of our time and money instead of be outside. But it's I want to say to our news, but everybody gun. All right, whatever. It's hard for me because I wanted to finish their. I stopped doing my show. After that, I I was attacked attack by like they were making videos and they were making polls. And they was saying stupid, dumb. Educate our, but I'm not listening. I'm still don't expect me to be out here. I still learnt bitch, I'm I'm a woman. When I wake up and go to bed woman, Honey, I'm a woman, I'm I'm, I have accepted all I accept all my flaws. All that stuff that come along with me be if I could give a fuck less. Now that don't mean that the fight for trees and equality, and all this stuff is is miniscule because it is not. But with me at the point of, okay, they don't want me into in this. In this in the own Evie. Over here. I'm going across the street over here based at TJ Maxx to the target bits. Two that's going Goblets. They're not gonna. I'm not trying to say, hey, you need to be trans inclusive because no, you don't. You don't want. We don't talk because you'd be a traffic. Doesn't mean my buddy going to your pocket bits. I don't need to be phoney with me bitch and you over here, fat pocket. I don't need to buck, you know, not to spend. No, not to spend over that. Want outwardly NASA. I know the ones that smiling face, but really let me know what you're going on. So I can make a decision, but I was disturbed by that that even I stopped doing aquit doing mash, oh, no idea because that hadn't been the first time that I was under attack and at I was sitting there in in in a whole stance of. I'm, I'm also learning in this because I don't know. I don't know anything about trains. Men. I don't know about female. I don't nothing about the girl. Even in Atlanta, would it be in the black gay hub? Do you know? I don't know where the girls go. Hang out. I don't know what the name of any of their clubs are go to their party was there was a bit Mike in my AMI, for the most part is mixed. It's still boy heavy. And just by default, that women just have to come to wherever the guys there over Motors last year, then. Then tricks, girls and all this stuff. You know how right now we can call out three clubs when the boys. I can't not Nate. To be honest. I don't even know many nece. I don't even. That's what I'm saying. I don't even. I don't know this story. I don't need. I sit Mandy. But this is my own, but this, but this is the thing done either. I feel back from that because I really felt attack, and I don't really like being attacked by by people because I'm gonna last Beckham people in a vicious way. All my platform. I don't the people on the outside. Don't need to see. That's just the growth thing. Personal thing that you know you had to develop Dicker skiing because it's on come with it, man to everybody, not gonna like the things that we say. You grow to a point where you start having an emotional attachment to people's outrage, and I was the same way in the beginning, but you get used to it, especially if you know your intentions were pure and shoot. It did mean no ill intent. All you do next week and say, y'all understand there was some backlash, but don't judge me for my words, just from my heart. This is what I and you just be wrong with people. I'm still learning and you know what you tell the truth. Y'all hurt me with the backlash and for me. That's how I've been able to weather the storm is just keep it real and let people know y'all are saying something last week and y'all have do that now give you something this been getting mean. Somebody launched his whole campaign out on like black women. Listen, I know is to get four while they launch to say that I was it was black women versus while it used to get under my skin. And then you know, but but there there was some of my female, heterosexual followers and friends that said, you know, q., sometimes your thoughts and opinions, you know, are skewed not in the favor of black women, and I was like, wow, so I was like, you know what? I don't mean that in my heart and I said, what educate me on what it is that I'm saying that makes you guys feel that way. And when they did it made me more sensitive. I'm not a woman, but I don't know what necessarily of fins black women women all the time. Right? But then neither took to once again, play devil's advocate in that situation. That was. That was the campaign against you by enemy. It was a campaign against me by that same enemy tried to make out that I was that I was a trans woman, but you didn't say anything wrong in a situation was some, some of them not all and that particular enemy uses that black women black woman card as a way of falling of using it as as a weapon. And it hurt again because it actually weakens because there really are people out there that are terrorizing and not respecting blank with. But when you have these false phony claims, it takes away from the people who are really experiencing issues because now in a minute, I'm not gonna lie to you the minute I hear and tackle black Bill, my hands up in the enrollment is keep going. Bullshit again you you do. This is where this is what I'm saying when it comes. 'cause I've gotten back less than I haven't had a transformer guest, judge. Let's let's just let's just put it all into that here. I've gotten backlash that I have not had a trans woman sit on the bench with me, and they said that I, that I feel that I'm superior to other trans women, or I am in or I might be overshadowed this. This came, nobody come on over this match year when they go home, whether they come and do an outstanding job, they log onto that show because that's my mother show. I feel like in the people expecting a community care the entire Kerala just about to say that I'm not to save all transpeople. This a black thing are not the same blood, gruesome. You gotta carry the entire. Enter excess little member of the community. I was working on the mall. Perfect. People's, you have the horse and work. You're right. People don't you. Barring. Issue. Trade for that for major, not that Herbie black holes away from rights. The most. On this side. Or down because of fiber EDI ninety trance woman on the show will die via of the air doesn't make you need a straight right. Remind Beckett, trans, this platform is. Monuments y, you know. Right. People's day. Well. Must be one of nominal job. How fucking doors. Other people waiting for you. But you do what we did kick. And you know what doesn't even do this. Being done, even turn on our own cameras. We can't have that are now who's big, and we didn't give what we said. Bitch. 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CBB2 | Saturday Morning Live Feeds Update Feb 9

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CBB2 | Saturday Morning Live Feeds Update Feb 9

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Said that he could do to Morrow he will do again. Hello, everyone and good morning. Welcome to our live feed update. Four February ninth. I'm heroes turn Armstrong. And with me today is Liana ideally on. I honestly, we could talk about big brother. We could talk about CBS's new. Right now, you can get a twenty dollars prepaid visa gift card by mail with the purchase of a Napa legend premium battery. It's durability and power make it the obvious choice for people who hate getting stranded by dead car battery so pretty much everyone the Napa legend premium battery and twenty dollars back quality parts, helpful people. That's Napa know how. No participating Napa auto parts stores and Napa auto care centers. Limit to household while supplies last offer ends two twenty eight nineteen show cousins, I'm with either. Because both the seem equally interesting to me this moment. Can you believe that meta didn't invite Ross to the party? My gosh shocking, and he invited all of Ross's friends. Believe that. Oh my God. Are you Ross? They're not really your friends. They didn't vote for you. Wow. Wow. Wow. Wow. We're here to talk about everything that happened yesterday on the big brother celebrity to live feeds. There wasn't much that happened. So. Just on Saturday. Cousins. Yeah. The feeds were down all day leading up to the division. And then they were down for a large portion of the night until they came back after the H competition. So we basically got like. An hour to. Not a whole lot to cover. But we do have some we can talk about the ramifications of what what has happened and what we're looking at moving forward. So let's let's get into it. Feeds fees are down we the double vision. And in the double vision as we saw Natalie was voted out. I and Julie gave a big fake out to Natalie atelier before we speak. Let me I need to inform the houseguests about a twist that's about to have that very clearly indicates that Natalie is gonna I was like, oh is Natalie going back in this is never been done before Natalie. Yeah. That's what I thought too. Like Ono now is going to be able to come back into the house has to involve her in some way, because how cruel would it be Julie interrupts their interview to unleash this new twist on the house, and then no sorry. You're still out of the house. This only affects people who are still playing and I loved it. When Natalie said, oh, I thought. Maybe I was going to get to go back, and they didn't even need to do it that quickly like they didn't need to be like before we can even talk to you Natalie. We need to really go quick and informed the houseguests who are not even remotely ready, and they missed the entire message. Yeah. That was my other favorite part was Ricky slowly milling around in the living room. And I thought maybe there was an error like the audio off in house. And so they couldn't hear it. Which is why they didn't go into the living room. There was some sort of mistake. And then Julie being all sassy afterwards. Well, since y'all missed it. I guess I'll have to tell you about it. I'm pretty sure that when the feeds I came on. They were getting that news alert sound on occasion, just randomly like either a because of a bug or they were just playing this. I think they've just kind of got used to hearing the noise, and maybe they're just like, oh, yeah. They're just playing the noise. I just been tweeting like they really need to stop making the big brothers celebre. Breaking news alert happen. It's way too much like the big brother takeover was at least a little bit. Catchy. And I guarantee you if they had come on this beakers get ready for a takeover. Everyone would have rushed to the living room. So that's all I'm saying. Yeah. I'm sure that's definitely what would have happened. I think the humor that came out of. It was totally worth it. I in my mind, especially because Ricky now looks more homeless than he did when he started somehow, despite the fact that he's been living in house just him milling around that was by far my favorite total neglect from everyone else, even Ricky who was in the room wasn't even watching the television screen. Yes. Cutback to Natalie. I thought it was oh, you thought you were going back in the no no safety competition for your worst enemy, Tom. We came up with the keep Tom safe. Because even though he's outgoing h she can still compete. Yeah. Yeah. So we we get this ridiculous twists. I mean this. What what are they doing here come on? What are you safety competent never been done before a safety competition that everyone can compete in. And then even if you even if Tom doesn't win the person who does win doesn't get to computer nature wage giving him better chance of winning Leach wage. I mean, it's totally fair. What are you doing? Yeah. Yeah. That was the other thing was that it wasn't just safety for him. Because let's say Lolo Ricky had won that competition. They wouldn't have been able to compete nature wage like you said, so that's a one extra person that DNA and candy don't have to compete against would have made. The odds worse in the veto. But still overall it's better. It wasn't like a huge coup. But it was it was a lot lot. And look, I am I am not the person that thinks that believes in the conspiracy theories was this made for Tom. Probably not at probably was just another dumb idea. They had that just really lined up with with this particular thing in a really bad way. You're you're conspiracy version is the person who comes up with the twist has to justify keeping their job. So this is an example of that where the person who's like, oh guys, we need a new twist. We definitely need a new twist. And so it coincides with keeping top safe. Yeah. I just I just saw a Marie. So when a when ochre like of tweets condemning the tame are dancing on Tom's grave. That was a bad look for taymor. I know there are people who are defending her especially people who have really come out strongly against her actions. But I mean, it was kinda mean Connor rude. Okay. When I co- Wong. Okay. Well, let's just in case the so, obviously, we get the twist and. It does not help. The twist is completely nullified taymor wins. It she never needed. It. Lovely. I'm I'm pleased, another another twist completely useless. I mean, how I think there's a lot more twists that have been completely useless than have actually done anything in the house at this point in the history of big brother, and I'm very pleased about that. So then Tom, of course, does not when the safety competition is his allies. Do not wanna h h and then he'd is not win the veto. We're going to get a low low H and taymor veto. Tom is going to be voted out by vote of whatever to whatever. Tom is gonna leave the house and on his way out taymor is literally not only had she been yelling at him apparently. But she's literally dancing, and he tried. He even like like Ricky gives him a hug, low low of all people is being a good sport. And like being like, you know, what Tom you were great guy and Thomas trying to say goodbye to taymor. And she's just like. I was like what are you doing? This jury management is got to be some of the worst of ever seen. And literally I was just refreshing my Twitter, and I saw Marissa liking tweet about hey, don't be doing that. And I think we think we know Melissa she's got some influence here. She at least you represents viewpoint from these jurors. So. It's kind of ties into one of the bigger narratives of this update, which I think is one of the few updates. We have which is tame Mars jury management's, just it's really really falling. Even just last night. I was saying I think Lolo probably need to miracle to win this game. And I think our miracle is tame Braxton because I feel like Lolo might be able to beat her at this. I don't understand if okay. I don't think I know if tame knows how the votes work in the end, I really just think that somehow she only watched the first couple episodes and didn't realize what happens with the vote at the end and what people make their decisions based on. Because I just can't imagine somebody who understands those final mechanics 'having that way. Even if you are super emotional, or you know, you are really reacting and like a crazy way. I mean, we saw Ricky lo lo so at least being able to say, hey, sorry to see you go or whatever at least hug him going out the door. So so, that's my personal opinion. I think she. Really understand how it works. And that's why her I mean on top of sort of like normal pattern of behavior because that's the only thing that really makes sense to me at this moment. And yet she's the person who knows the show the best of everyone on the cast. She I mean, she's she's talking about chicken, George. Like, how does she not know this? It's it's insanity. And like she did dance. She did do the happy dance. When Cato was victim just like right after he left, and he got to see it on the monitor which was like bad enough. But this was like in Tom's face. His one is way out the door like just so mean, and like I said if IKEA Wong is like taymor girl that was mean, you know, you've done something wrong. I think IKEA is is like the person who rides that line. And I know there are people on either side of that line in terms of how they've you IKEA. But I feel like I could knows what that line is Tim clearly as passed it. Well, I think what I appreciate it. From was this delineation between it still being humorous and making sort of the humor jabs along with the actual jobs, and this she said cross the line away from humor. And more into sort of just the mean side of everything. And I think that that's definitely how it came across. So I just don't know what what she's thinking here. But Thomas victim, and I've got to say after this double eviction, I was actually feeling a little good. I kind of like the second Tom won the h that he one I was like he's done in the double vision of. And then when the the twist came I was like, I kind of I'm sorry Thom. But like if you stay because of this twist, I can't I can't root for you. It's too. Hickey? And so this Tom leaving is what I expected, but the way that he left was very good for candy. And I was very happy about that. Because everyone knows I'm candy. Stan right now candy is left in a position. Now where the only person she needs to worry about winning the next h is Ricky other than that. She's she's like easily my front runner. And I tweeted it I think candy is the front runner to win. I think Ricky is positioned second-best. And and I'm okay with that. I would love to see a candy with him feeling. Pretty good feeds come back on after the double of action. Pre h we've got tame are low and Ricky talking and tame mar is really really just trying to work her jury management into an even worse place. She's really working hard to do that. Now. The Tom's gone. We can have fun. He made it he made it not. He was like a cloud of negatively that Tom. He was the worst. He had. To go. He must think I'm so mean for yelling at him and dancing, but he deserved it. Well, now, they can have fun because Tom's not there to drink all the coffee because we know drinking coffee is a lot of fun. And so now, they can drink coffee and have fun, obviously. And Ricky of old people goes to. Tamer Tom's gone. We don't need to talking about like that. I did love that. And I love Ricky saying we don't need to say his name. Joe? Let us not speak his name. He who must not be. We don't we don't have to do this anymore. Like, I it's it's so strange like Ricky, I feel like has understood. Okay. I'm going to start being nicer. I'm going to start working. My jury management a little bit more. And tame Maher is like doing the opposite. Like, I need to start being meaner to start making sure nobody votes for me in the end. I guess. I guess so weird because I thought that a jury vote between the two of them would kind of be close, but I feel like no not really not anymore. Yeah. Yeah. I don't think anymore. I mean, I think this is a case where Ricky especially early on had done a lot of things for people wrong way. But that sort of washes away with the recency buys a particular actions. And so that's really what you look at when you're gonna make a jury vote, and the fact that these celebrities come out of the house, and they are going to be influenced by the people on the outside. They're going to be influenced by people who have played the game before people like Mersa, and that's just an inevitability. And so when you have people like tame are who are acting this way. Now, I mean that leaves sort of a darker stain on them. And so I just don't think that they're able to get to the end. Looking at it. You know, tame Maher is going to be up against likely up against candy who she loses to or the second was likely person. She is in the end with because I think that she probably would take Ricky over Lolo is Ricky, and I was looking at it was like if she's up against Ricky. It could be a close vote. It would probably come down to Jonathan and Ryan and maybe Joey like who they would want to vote for and that was kind of up in the air. Jonathan is kind of on record saying like would hate to have to vote between those two, but Jonathan is also a big Tom green fan. And if you want episode, he's probably and he sees the reaction of Ricky being like, hey, guys, let's chill on on Tom. You know, he was a good guy versus tame Harz. Like, yes, he's outta here. Identified his face. He deserved it. And Tom did nothing to tame more like. The crazy thing is like he actually did do a little bit of something to low in that like he did they were both involved in the dissolution of that alliance. He did nothing to tame our except for that one conversation with her where she thought he was threatening her. And then he in this in the episode. We saw Tom talking to candy and he threw out Mars name. And he was not even considering nominating her that they just put that in the edit because it made more sense than the misunderstanding that it actually was Tom in that conversation candy kept saying was threatening her. So he was like, okay, I'm not not threatening. Let's drought. Every single possibility. I could use the veto. I could put up Tina I could use veto. I could put up Lolo I could use the veto. I could put up taymor. They cut that part. And then put it in the episode because it made more sense that way. But if z saw candy never even said outright that Tom was gonna put taymor on the block. She. Assumed it and then yelled at him. And you saw Tom like that's not even what happened. You're yelling at me. And that's not even what happened. Unfortunately, Jaren I really don't think you're going to get the edit that you wanted where it was the side by side what happened and then the retelling of story because clearly we're not getting that. And these up. Yeah. I mean, like, I think they edited that well is just like. You know? I just don't understand. I mean, that's okay. So that's a problem. When you have a logical behavior is that when you're trying to put together, a cohesive narrative, it's much harder to put together the true narrative when you have people acting logically. So they try to put it together in a way that would make sense for the viewer to understand. But it just so happens, then that you can't tell the quote unquote, real story because it wouldn't make sense because the behavior doesn't make sense. So anyway. That's about it feeds go down for the H competition. Like, I said, I'm feeling pretty good. I feel like candies are front runner. All she needs to do is not have Ricky when the wage she should be, okay. Rickie Wednesday church. Why? I was like I was like I took the hit. I was like feeling good. After this double vision. You can't bring me down. Rickie when the h and one of the first things he says on the feeds is candies. Mytalk. Yeah. Exactly. He was like can't better when the veto or she's going home. For those of you listening to the audio only Taryn has collapsed to the floor in anguish. I assume about this situation wanted to win so bad. I know I know it was rough for me to like. Okay. You know what? It's okay. The Tom has gone because candy Ivan hasn't played the best game. It's been like she is my inspiration. I love her. She's so successful. I want to be her. Oh and Ricky one crap. Yeah. Not things are not looking good. For candy Ricky as a conversation with Lolo in taymor. He's candies. My target is going gonna put up Dina next tour. He asks taymor is that okay? Is it? All right, then I'm talking candy your h h. So there you go. He talks to he talks about he's talked about Tom and how he felt like Tom had a big applause when he left, and he was like know what he deserved it. He played a hell of a game. Like good for Tom and taymor is like no they were cheering because he was gone. Yeah. I was actually really impressed with Ricky in that moment. The fact that he caught on because I mean, I could hear it at home. And usually when it's really loud, you know, that the houseguests can hear it too because we've heard stories of previous houseguests talking about when they can hear the crowd. And so I was like oh, man. I really I hope I hope they hear it and Ricky took it the correct way interpreted the information the correct way, and our took it and interpreted the information in the correct way. Not surprising. The level of like, look the be self-deception. Like, again, she's watched the show when has the crowd ever cheered loud. Because of the person leaving. No they cheer because they love the person. That's how it's always worked. But somehow in taymor is headed it's like, no, Tom is the worst person in the world. They would never cheer for him. They would only cheer because he's left. They were dancing with me. Yeah. Well, he's the bad guy in the movie, and when the bad guy in the movie dies the audience. Cheers, obviously. So that's that's how she's put to into together. Yeah. Ricki decides he's going to he's going to stay in the bedroom. He's going let candy and Dina have the h that's just love that bedroom. It's legendary Natalie puts it. So that's that's really what's going on here DNA in candy discussed the they're going up on the block probably Dina thinks that they're gonna vote her out. But and they also realize that even if they do if either of them win the veto, then Ricky will be forced to put up either taymor or Lolo, but they won't have the votes to Vic. Taymor or Lolo? So they're pretty screwed. Yeah. It's going to be one of the two. I'm going like, I mean, unless something absolutely crazy happens just based on the houseguests who can do math inside the house have figured out. The fact that it doesn't really matter because there's two votes to Vic plus Ricky is the tiebreaker. So even yeah. Like you said if either candy comes off or Dina comes off either tame our logo. But then it still doesn't matter because it's one v one and Ricky will break the tie in favor of either candy organic going home. Yes. So interesting interesting stuff basically in order for candy to stay. She needs to win the veto. There's a small chance that if taymor wins the veto. She might decide to use it on candy. You never know. They do have this relationship. They have been working together. We know that tamer wants to be in the final two with candy doing so would betray Ricky and Lolo. So I don't know if she's if she's willing to do that. But if she used the veto on candy, then Lola would go up in her place. She could still vote Dina out. Which I think would be the worst thing for her game. If she does still plan on taking candy. I think if if she plans on taking candy vinyl to the final two and uses the veto and takes DNA out here Dina, leaving means that taymor is drawing dead because she wins. She takes candy Ricky or Lola when they take each other. She there's no way for her to win. Right. Yeah. Right. Yeah. Yeah. I would agree with cosign. Yeah. And I think that tame our is deliberate when she chooses her words when she speaks. So for example, when Ricky ask can I have your permission to put up candy? She Tim are said, well, it's your HOA JR. It wasn't like yes. Of course. All my gosh. I want her out. It was while it's your joy, you know, you need to do what you need to do. And so that gives me at least a flicker of hope that there could be something where taymor could save candy in some way. Although all to me, you know, horrible kmarts game. But it would be helpful for me as a candy candystand. But we'll we'll see how plays out. Yes. So that's interesting there. I think that ultimately, it's you know, I was trying to think about it like taymor just stopped being bad jury management. She could use the veto on on candy, and then get Lolo, and then she would be in the end with candy who would take her. She would probably lose anyway. But still, but then she would force Ricky to take her to the final two would have a fifty percent chance of getting to the end with Ricky and potentially went as long as she was capable of recognizing that she shouldn't take candy and she was capable of knob being. So meanwhile, while while Ricky is being nice like that would that is her path to win. But I I'm really starting to feel like candy that the taymor has kind of replaced Lolo in the she needs a miracle. I just don't know how she can win at all. I think that even Lolo might be able to beat her at this point. I really do because even Lolo is being more respectful. She's she's. Taking her cues from Ricky. And which I was always like, you know, Lola just needs better friends will like are more positive, and she she is kind of like taking Ricky's positive vibes oddly enough. Tom was maybe a little bit, right? That that Ricky Ken kind of influence Lolo little bit here. And she's being a little more respectful of Tom. And again in the meantime, pay mart is is not. So I'm really starting to feel like Lolo could potentially win this game. Yeah. It's very interesting. I don't know if it's because K mar feels like she is responsible for Tom going home because she wanted to be to- competition. And so I don't know if this is a case where she's trying to say, look how bad Tom was which makes me look better in comparison. Because I was the one who I was the one who got him out. So I don't know if that's how she said of the dynamic in her mind that if she sort of Vilnai, Tom that makes her look better. But yeah, it's very interesting to see lo-lose behavior. I think she is one hundred percent influenced by the people around her. Well, okay. Eighty percent influenced by the people around her. And so now the things sort of calmed down. It's interesting to see how she's behaving. But she she also gets sad when she got her Asia wage basket because she doesn't have a husband that was very motion for her. So I think she was going through that as well, which may have influenced her behavior. Yes. And another thing to think about too though is the rookie winnings h was actually pretty bad for low in the sense that she's now going to be going to the final four with Ricky, which means she's gonna take Ricky. I think Ricky beater Ricky takes her again Ricky beats I think taymor takes Ricky over Lola. So she would need to take her because she's not planning on taking Tate's. I keep talking about. These endgame scenarios where the person does not get their way as their winning has their wins. Except for Ricky now is in a really good spot. He has a final two with taymor. I do think taymor would take him if candies not there. He's got a final two with Lolo Lola will take him. I think he can beat both of them at this point. He's likely going to get to the final four with both of them, which means at least seventy five percent chance that he goes to the final two and wins the game. And he's being nicer on the feeds he's being more respectful. I feel like this at this point. It's Ricky's game to lose the one little thing that could stop that is candy winning veto. Can he wins the veto? You never know. What might happen? That's right fingers crossed. I think there's a chance that have candy wins veto in the option is deana or taymor, Ricky and Lolo might start to think do you know is not a threat. Tae Mars one three competitions candy still in the game. We know candy and taymor like working together. Maybe we wanna take out and leave Dina in the game. Yeah. Maybe I think it's it's really interesting because the fact that you have this final four situation where the person than just picks who they're going with the like the person wins literally one competition goes to the end and picks who goes. So it's interesting because I don't know if they perceive Dina as a threat to win. I don't think they do. The overall game. But if they perceive taymor to be competition threat, and they really see the threshold as being age you have to win that last competition than competition. Prowess takes priority over the win equity in the end. And so that could potentially influence how they're the decisions that they make because really it is all about winning that funnel competition. And. Yeah, like, you said taymor has proved that she can win competitions. I mean, especially because when when the feeds came back, Ricky and Lolo were talking about taymor. And they were like is she going to stay true to us. We like candy still here. She might wanna go work with candy. We only know that we have each other. And so if they're worried about taymor and candy working together. And they know that team are has won a lot of competitions. I could definitely see an instance where candy is safe. They're like, well, we need to at least break up that pair and taymor. So go to competitions. Yes. Maybe we don't win next to candy in the final two. But that doesn't matter if nobody else is taking us to the end anyway. And so we need to we just need to be more likely to get to the end. It actually is probably the better move for them. So it's interesting to think about I don't know if they if they will think about it. But they might and so just, you know, watch out for that. Yeah. I mean, if you're a delay, if we're talking do of duo like what two people would you wanna go up against candy and Dina, candy and tame our I think candy and Dina, obviously, I mean Dina is the person who saw Jonathan Bennett and missed him. So she pushed that button on the newsstand competition. That's the type of person you want to compete against in the final voyage. If you are convinced that it's if either of those two when they take if either of us to when we take each other, then it's one hundred percent down to competition wins. So it will really just be a matter of Cantate. Marcel. She's going to take Ricky to the final two over candy. If candy is safe. I think that's really what it's gonna come down to their taymor did talk to Lolo about like, hey, Hugh, who you're going to take the final two and Lolo was just like. Did I just blew off the question low very clearly at this point, not taking taymor. And I think team are probably realizes that. So another interesting to was trying to make the argument that well, no one likes me should take me. And it was like that is true. Teams jury does. I don't know about that people love you. You won the fan favorite thing. You know? Yeah. And that's the thing is that you know, because she had the power of the publicist even though they don't know they all know thinking about maybe she is really well liked and that could translate to the other people who play the game. He, you know. So that is floating around in their minds, also, which I think that makes 'love. Yeah. For sure wanna take Ricky and not to our. I almo I said if Joey wins that power I think that it kills his chances of winning the game because nobody would ever take him to the end. I think it had less of an impact on taymor. But it still has some impact. This I especially with a with a system set up where you have to be taken to the final at the final four any perceived likability. Especially coming from an outside objective source is is really huge detriment to you. And so I think it really it really could. Because again, I think that Lolo taking tame are is her only win condition at this point. Could really cost the cost. The win is winning that publicist power. Yeah. Exactly. And I think that's what makes makes this final four really bizarre is because it the only way you have to get there is to win and you're choosing between three people to take with you. And so yeah, like, you said it does boil down to if you think that person would be like at all you absolute don't take them. So unless you have three goats to choose from. You know, you're going to end up picking the person that you you perceive to be the least liked so as of right now, I'm looking at Ricky as the very heavy favor to win this game. Probably followed by. Deana who's got you know, she's probably gonna stay as long as candy doesn't win. The veto DNA is probably going to be safe. And here's the thing. Even if candy does win the veto taymor might leave instead of DNA, which point Dina has at least a one four chance of winning that final four H hasn't won anything yet. But she's not been too far from winning things like she's only like a couple of questions behind in most question competitions. And she was only a couple numbers away in the competition's last night. So it's not it's not impossible, especially with only competing against only three people. And if she wins that she wins the whole game hands down. I think she wins against anyone in a jury vote. No matter what. And then if candy does when the veto and candy still stays I think that she hasn't even better shot because I think that there's a chance that candy would take her to the end over Ricky or Lolo, although candies probably smart enough to realize should not take Tina and she should take Lola. But you never know. Never not with these people. So. I think teams probably second most likely then I think candy just by the sheer fact if she could win the veto if she wins the veto, then she's got a decent chance of sticking in here and winning that final four H wage and winning the game. And then I'm really at this point. Damar so hard seeing them win the game in any scenario at this point. Yeah. Yeah. I completely agree. I think. So I think if the fact that candy has such an uphill battle ahead of her. I think that the third spot really is the right place to put her just because of that. But I think I mean for me, I would put money on Ricky just because I really think that based on what we seen from competitions. Again, you never know we could see Dino in. But I think the fact that Lolo and Ricky are so close for sure they're both going into the final four. I mean, that's a fifty percent chance. Even if you're just saying straight probability, not based on previous win competitions or competition wins. Gosh, I'm Kato kaylin. Caitlyn Ming right now for Dina ING. My driver's bus expired license, I what did she say Vic to vix to votes, those good. So anyway, so yeah, I think I think Ricky is most likely the odds on favorite to win. That's too. I'd put my money on. And I mean, he has been probably the most strategic player throughout the entire season. We've talked about it before he's been the best position player throughout most of the season. It's really just his own his his only weakness has been the weird moments that he has when he calls, Tom creek. Or when he's he throws in a little bit of trash talk with with lower Natalie, but apart from that he has been probably the most strategic. I'd still say candies a better overall player. But you know, you can see where Ricky is positioned super well right now, and it's because of the work he's been doing throughout the season. And I think that we've also talked about how his trash-talking has been more strategically focused than some of the other trash talk in the house. So. You know, it's not the ideal outcome, but it's an outcome. That's true. It is an outcome of this game. Yeah. We also had the fan favourite thing. I feel like especially with the timing of when fan favourite was announced being right at like TOMS downfall. I really feel like Tom has it? Yeah. I think so too. I I feel really strongly that it's going to be Tom. I think the he's somebody that has been shown in just sort of a really silly weird positive light on the show. And I think sometimes we can underestimate the power of the casual viewer who's not keeping up with the feeds. And so I think that they're seeing Tom on the show just doing his fun coffee song and is weird cereal. Birds thing that was never explained if you're a casual viewer. And so you have absolutely no context for that occurring. But it's kind of this just bizarre lovable thing. And so I have to imagine that he's the front runner for America's favorite houseguest. From what I've seen from the casual audience. They're super pro Tom, very anti tame are, and I think that even a lot of the feeders are pro Tom and anti taymor tamer would likely be the second most likely, but honestly, I'm not even sure at this point. So I really feel like it's probably Tom here, especially because he also gives that sort of. Giving the fan favourite to the person that everyone thought was the bad guy when they thought they were the good guy like as soon as Tom wins. It taymor is going to be like, and and you know, Lolo, and Rick you're gonna this point Ricky's like he he knows but taymor would be very infant. Yeah. I would love to see that face gang. Freaky, 'Grande reaction. I think what shouldn't be overlooked. Also, the voting mechanic of how you vote because I think one of the reasons why taymor was able to win the power of the publicist because it was on Twitter and different fan bases can coalesce on different social media platforms. And so the fact that if you have Twitter being where you vote you're going to have a bias towards those people who more heavily used what are whereas if you vote on the CBS website, then you know, it doesn't necessarily have a bias towards one social media platform or another. And so I think that that also is in TOMS favor and to tame Mars detriment agree. And I think that you know. What happened with the Twitter votes is that, you know, tame our had like her sister and other people who are huge on Twitter to support her. And I think that incentivizes people to vote on Twitter to reply to like Toni Braxton tweet with hashtag being like, hey, look like Z me. I'm supporting whereas if it's just a link, then you have no, there's no visible way. And it's an extra step. And so I think that the sort of who has the most social media following has less of an impact on CBS VO and the viewers of big brother have more influence with that one. So something to think about things to think about yes. So like, I said not much in the way of updates, but lots to talk about in terms of analysis and everything around that. I'll probably we'll probably do is starting tomorrow or maybe Monday. We'll just we'll start going over what we expect the final four to be in terms of like what their game has been in. What their chances are kind of like how we do the end of the game retrospectives on the last few days. The live feeds for the regular season. There's not a whole lot to talk about in terms of the game. So we'll just kind of combine it with updates as well and see how that goes. It's kind of just like it's a nebulous thing right now. But we'll have fun with. Yeah. So I I don't know if you have an insight into the schedule, but I know that they were told last night that they had to be up early today, and there's going to be some sort of lock down. So I don't know if they're gonna be doing the competition if there's going to be than like, a retrospective on the season or something like that one of those oh, remember this moment type deals, but I remember hearing that at some point last night. So I don't know what the feed situation is gonna look like today. I mean. Look they have a lot of footage that they can use that. They did not use a grant them that. But a three a clip show for three weeks season is even when you have a ton of gold that you left on the on the cutting floor. That's still pretty like, really? Yeah. I mean, I'm not saying that it's for sure gonna happen book. Just just in case prepare yourself. So yeah, that's pretty much got. I do want to just say people's emotions are running high. The double vision is crazy intense time a lot of a lot of people are yelling at each other. Let's just remember Tom's message everyone it's just a game. It's just a game. We don't need to be mad. We don't need to call people names. Some people are doing things we disagree with. That's fine. It doesn't make them. A terrible person is just a game. We're all good. We can we can live in harmony, and peace and wonderful happiness love and light love and light fund fund fund. Big brother is a lot of fun. Yes. All right. That's all we've got for you. You can find us on Twitter. I'm at Armstrong Taryn Liana is Liana Boris and. Tune in tomorrow morning, eleven AM eastern tell you everything that happened today on the big better celebrity to live feeds, thanks for joining us next. Let's say you just bought a house bad news is you're one step closer to becoming your parents, you'll probably mold along and give anybody noticed you mow the lawn till people to stay off the lawn compare it to your neighbor's lawn and complain about having to mow the lawn again, good news is it's easy to bundle home and auto through progressive and save on your car insurance. 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