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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew

Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew

02:05 min | Last month

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew

"Cto twenty twenty two will down below where you can pick those up. We cannot wait to see your faces and six different cities where we're starting. We're starting mistakes and we have plans to do a lot more. Geez see you guys. They are check it out so without further ado going this one teddy mellencamp and edwin arroyo teddy and edwin or should i say edward. I know there's now a little back story behind that we can get into it. It was a pleasure to talk. I have. I want to start up. Teddy you may be the only other person that we've had on this show. Who's from indiana. I grew up in indianapolis myself. And i know you were born. There is that correct was born in bloomington indiana. Gosh oh preemie baby. Born in bloomington. Indiana and i lived there until the third grade when my parents got divorced. But i still go back for holidays and i love it right off lake. Munro do you know anything about lake lemon now. Well it's it's in bloomington and it's it's where we have a lake house anyway side now i would like to. i would like to revisit. I intentionally miss named you edward. 'cause i know there's a story there so let's dive into that. I wanna hear about the first meeting. So i was actually recently divorced and it was the day after christmas and i was like you know kind of like i was just sad. And just kinda bummed out and my girlfriend's we're like let's let's go out to dinner and i'm like okay and a sweater dress that like you lounge around in the house and and we went to dinner and i was over served and then as i'm leaving there like we saw that there was a nightclub next door like let's see we can get in because in la nightclubs now. But it's it's a scene to get in you have to like it's like dropping names or you have to look. This is terrible. But i was with twins so of course i got him because twins.

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

The Viall Files

02:41 min | 2 months ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

"N we be able to handle it on his own and complete. Maybe it's A remnant your watch disarray. Season way back out of brooks who left who brooke by. All accounts was desert as favourite. She would picked brooks. She's now married to her choice with a kid. Chris wall worked out But at the time. I think it was. It was an amd brooks was like. I'm out not into it So that could happen. Who knows jesse. No it's not real gold. He was killed teddy as always. Thank you so much for coming such a pleasure We always appreciate your thoroughness. Thank you thank you. you're strong ticks. that's all we ask for our guests. Well i'm glad i have them. I'm glad i could do it for you. Guys can you please Remind the audience where they can find you anything that you're currently working on. Although a great things you're putting out into the world you can find me on instagram at teddy mellencamp or my website is all invite teddy dot com amazing Thank you guys so much for listening in choosing us on this adventure of katie. We will be back tomorrow with the wonderful nikki. Glaser also great friend of the show and and you know me personally. Nikki is always a fun person to talk about life dating and her adventures and be sure to tune in for that and we will be back next week with. The plan is to have heather mcdonald. Who spoiler is on next the next episode of katie season. She hosts date she does. Yeah i don't know what it is. Because i wasn't there when happen but so we get a sneak peek in so. Let's see the wonderful hilarious. Heather mcdonald is with us to recap next week's episode. Unless something happens and we have to make a big deal are schedule. Might you know you just never know. You have a good feeling. She'll be here say as always thank you teddy. We appreciate it. I don't forget to sending your questions at ask nick. Cast media dot com cast with the k. for aspic episodes please re review rate rate five stars. That's all we ask. The rest of you can suck a metaphorical Have a great day. everyone tomorrow i..

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

The Viall Files

02:44 min | 2 months ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

"Change the format and do something new. And so maybe you know that happens with with katie. And how what happens. Who knows but it sounds like maybe we might prepare for non traditional ending so to that point. Maybe there isn't your like your set top four. You know maybe in again we. We don't have a hometowns. They're not necessarily there'll be a quote unquote town episode. But also maybe there won't be maybe you add elements of like still in a covid world so whatever families do show up are going to have to quarantine. It's more of a process. So maybe as they get to that point the season and the whoa what katy ceiling depending on what goes down. Maybe things have escalated with two guys are just like you guys. I mean come on. Let's be honest. we're just going to focus on these two or two three love stories and maybe they only bring two or three families in all these are possibilities to and and could have certainly play a role and if they get so. The fact that ended early would tell me why. You're we're going to get a lot of to be continued 's a lot of episodes it will not end in rose ceremony. So just buckle your seatbelt and get ready for that because that means they're so much that's a good thing for anyone who's gonna complain about that that means so much is happening on every episode that they didn't necessarily need or expect but it's too good not to air it so they are going to share it they're gonna show it and the let's let it bleed into the next episode and when things get to the end of the season they will just kind of get back on track or just totally readjust in the format might be completely different than what we're used to. I think it's going to be a good season either way. I don't know if she's going to truly you know. Have the neal lane ring at the end. But i do think there's going to be a lot of drama. It's gonna be fun. It's a good group. I excited yeah. I again i. I got a couple of the guys. I think From what i could tell katie was someone who was willing to embrace the role and and be her most authentic genuine self And just kind of be honest with the man and america and that will make a for for good tv. and i'm excited as well And we don't even have a dispute to end with because we're agreeing on the winner dispute. Last time. i was a touch of a dispute. You didn't actually fully agree. We agree i. I feel so much better walking out. What if what wrong. There's no way we're neck. It's not get crazy. I don't think you're wrong. Or maybe maybe greg maybe jazz makes a comeback in the rv peels.

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

The Viall Files

09:45 min | 2 months ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

"In mind. The super teases so fast. That you what you hear and what you see. Are you like you have to like pause. It watch it frame by frame. If you see the words coming out of their mouth then they probably set it but other than that. It's the super t's okay so it he. Tvd we've seen people getting punched in the face and super teases we've seen we've seen people show up that we never see like Who who knows right. So yeah i. I don't know if we can take too much Any other people we we need to to cover I mean like brand brand done. Who went home auto parts manager. I just. I really wanted to find out that he worked at a what else. What's a hot topic. But when i want him to be a hot topic manager and not an auto parts majer but it was a look at the us this part for the right gal. He's got james for more than seconds. I saw him six seconds up. How many guys with thirty guys are always going to be five or six guys. No idea who is that guy. And then the guy with the one earing that was across like sky crystals. He was showing her like he was like. Oh the rock guy sky. He was manifesting. The whole episode manifested himself to go home. It didn't work also like what about john. The bartender She liked him. He was seem sweet. No i thought he great vibes entrance. He had sweet entrance. But i didn't feel the chemistry between them. I i also need to. It's hard for me. When i look at the ages and some of the people i personally am not gonna marry a twenty five year old guy like you iowa halls katie thirty i i would want somebody closer talking to my age. Like look around like austin or even andrew as they're all twenty five twenty six years folks is. That's a very good point. Let's i haven't really paid close attention to their ages. So gray hulls. But i don't know how old katie but she just turned thirty. I the closer to thirty or over thirty. I think better for marriage material personally. Sure a lot of these guys are in there like twenty s. That's what i'm saying. Why not have hotter cubbies twenty nine twenty nine. I mean john was thirty six. I remember them saying. Like carl's thirty four. We been talking about michael thirty six. Carl who i liked carl. Which one was carl motivational speaker. All of the k. Maybe about everybody like about the guy in the box if she gets the rose to the guy in the box if she gives the rose to the cat i dunno motivational speaker. I guess i just wanted to know more. Yeah i wonder who are you motivated. It's like you know like again. No disrespect to life coaches with questions. I get you know like told you know i it just like it opens the door for criticism and i get i get to and it was like why the fuck you give me advice neck. It's just one of those things are like you know when you say you're motivational speaker. People are kinda like tell me more. Tell me more carl. I want to know what you're doing. He's he's the one that said his you know all of his family's married with kids already. He's already there. He's ready to start a family. Oh he's who has sister. Someone made the portrait of them together. Already that's karl. His sister made a portrait of katie. And him as if they were already causing cartoon now Sister now not a little kid. This portrait like it was like a caricature a character. But they've never met was good. I i don't even remember the portrait. Remember how can to if your sister you're going on the show. She's all excited. Your sister's a good artists. She draws what is like a pretty like he's just been a good brother. Well maybe i mean you got out of bar mitzvah but it was done well. I'm just saying. I'm not gonna knock carl because he gave katya caricature of him and her sister drew. Maybe she how it works. It's the best think. Carl had too many opinions of other people mr motivational speaker. Because well if i if he if you're right about that chrissy what that means is car will be around for a while because you will let us know what he thinks and we. We like a good commentator I think aaron's gonna go far He's actually the one that kind of reminds me of josh. No definitely thomas. there's an intensity with thomas that Who knows maybe. Thomas is the greatest guy in the world. I i i met him. But it's all just snap. I do think. I'm good at reading people but nevertheless I think He is far too careful with his words calculated. Well not even. I mean it's just yes i. I i- bennett bennett. Words do i'm kyle. We didn't really even see other than his underwear. Which i need to know. Do you think he really ripped them off of hisself for just cut them prior member. He's the guy that ripped his undies jockstrap the job. Oh was that a jockstrap rosa job. It was like four and under almost like hanes white underwear like at least get cute ones and then they were throwing them around and all the guys were like. Don't touch that martin. Remember marie just very good. Good good painter. Give him props for the painter. His metaphor about like there's a space from our. I almost choked on my own vomit. Now the reason why. There's a space as big of a hoping that i can fill my heart with our love now not but also really katie with us thrown up to. I don't really know katie that well. I met her obviously briefly. Seems like a great person. I've gotten a doctor. She seems like someone who. I don't think she would've thrown up for mittens. She will wore cap mittens and like oil and she's playful likes to have fun totally different than justin. Great looking guy who like has kind of like really cheesy metaphor that he says when he his delivery in that moment was one of earnestness and like kind of being like. I want to fill the space with my heart i contact with. You know. that's what i'm saying. It just kind of uncomfortable as opposed to like a guy. He's like clearly having fun. I'm dressed like a fucking cat like he's going to women hope and trust that you don't think actually do this all the time. He also different actual puns. He also is going to go far. Yeah i think. Jetsons going far. Because i think she was into him but i mean maybe like top five okay maybe home dates just in home did hometowns from the call hometowns. Sorry i haven't been there's a difference between like do you think there's a reason the guys who get chosen to have the vignettes versus the guys who just get to come out of the limo and walk like there's like a. There's like a bunch of guys that they did the vignettes on right and then there's like the guys who come out of the limo quick and barely get any time. Do you think there's any question in terms of like packages like you meet our guys before the limo entrance. Those are meaningless. I say that. Because i didn't have one No but like. I know all serious. They don't know right when they decide to do these packages they just have met these guys. Maybe it's because their story or there there were there from Or they're available right last minute cast. So that's kind of like a gas by the producers of who we should do now how much airtime someone gets limo entrances. Do matter right. Thomas was the first one we saw. That doesn't mean he was the first one in actuality is the first one we saw Historically that's a good sign for that person you know. Yeah i would tell you but like the guys that we got almost like maybe saw them like say how to kane walk in. Yeah stan marty and like landon because like in that second limo came out. And i remember because i wrote down my notes like you have like i write down like oh this is what they said and then all of a sudden it's like boom boom boom boom boom boom boom like five people who get to say nothing. Yeah so quick towards the end. Did you guys notice how cold it was. The katie was shivering. The whole time like this room right now so it was so i was called a node not that night but the next night. That's so cold katie's katie's out there. I have another question for you. Next says something. That really bothered you about rachel..

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

The Viall Files

03:27 min | 2 months ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

"He's the ten categories. Such a hottie. Let's do it. I said i think he's a nice guy right. Where did you get well. That's what she said. So i'm just trying to understand is putting hunter in the he's handsome for you know you're trying to say the handsome for me. I'm really offended. Say he's handsome for you. I didn't even say he's handsome for. I said he seems like a nice guy that i think. Whoever he's right for will be a good guy again man to and i hope you feel good catch. He didn't say i'm a catch. He wasn't saying that he's a catch. All of these things with these guys are saying. Aren't they're nervous. They're just trying to have fun here. Certainly not judging their character based off of what they say getting. You have all the time in the world to prepare. I blacked out. I mean i baseball glove because he was ready to catch feelings. Oh yeah that was another connor. Connor sees and i see these. The former baseball players. I'm to catch. Did he play pro or was he. 'cause there's the other baseball player who's also the gym owner. Who also the virgin. Yeah i he he goes. I was so hot he was like i was. Just you know all the things that everybody thought it was such a player because you know i was handsome and playing baseball mike. You explaining all of these things right now are taking away all of those. All of the positives. They've just told us again. Just like this guy is in an interview for an hour. He's just like being honest about in men. Self-aware how people view them and now we're using it against him. But that's the point of this recap does not again. Just i'm just here to offer a different perspective and and just empathize with these guys So when do we talk about cody and the blow. Up doll asura chrissy. I thought blow up doll. Dad like a hole in the mouth. Like isn't the mouth normally open. I'm confused. is this not supposed to be a sex doll is just supposed to be like a fun doll. Normally address she could have had holes hole in other places. We just didn't see them. Am i wrong here. What about the blow up doll. What about what. I think is yes had no open crevices at all. The is the idea of it. But don't have the idea of you're going to do the blow bring an actual blow up doll. That was actually just like a blood all that maybe my kids would have like. It was try- trying to do a sex doll. I really didn't focus. I mean guy bringing a sex doll because katie brought a delo like there was definitely going to be one. And i'm honestly surprised that there weren't many more like weird sex puns and sex jokes in sex toys and there were de they were definitely going to bring one and the fact that it was this cody guy you know. I don't think means all that all that much. Her name was sandy. Jo.

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

The Viall Files

09:22 min | 2 months ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

"Flex. Their his his carleton Left you wanting more i. I'm not good with accents. As as some of you may know alley is so. I think you're a little hard on him. But it was fun and playful. I thought he sold it that he wouldn't stop more props to him for having that xl. Like i got like second hand embarrassment for their whole interaction. His delivery was awesome just getting in from chicago. Great well also have you. Seen can't hardly wait. Yes he reminded me of the his sound of his voice sounded just like the guy who was trying to get you to sign his yearbook and the memory guy the was know the yearbook was sabrina. The teenage witch. She was in can't hardly wait. The original. yeah and then there was the guy who was all about the memories. His voice sounded just like him. I if you close your eyes it was like mad. I could just anywhere if you can't hardly wait. You know what i'm talking. It's a good movie but you could hear when you watch the trailer later on she. This could be editing. But she's hugging andrew s. And she says. Did you hear st episode. Yeah in she's oh that's out there. I heard it. She breathed it. They showed it in the trailer. It was like she. She ran up to him in the teaser. She was like andrew and ran down the hallway to that until like run. Jump hug thing. I go back and watch it because i i want talk for predictions and whoever that person is is in her top for Is an it was andrew. okay. I i liked. I thought he was charming and relatable. I thought his delivery of fake in an accent which i think it's hard to go up. There could go so many different ways. And i honestly thought it was the anna. Like that's hot in vienna. He lived in vienna that certainly not because he couldn't play over here. I wasn't good enough to play where they shipped me off over there. Sure but this is a guy who said yes to an opportunity of living overseas and to me. That is someone who i would find. I would find that attractive and a person who in that says to me. You're open to adventures. There's a lot of people in andrew's shoes who may couldn't make it pro and said well just go being account now as opposed to i don't i don't know how much money you make playing pro football not american football in europe. I don't think it's a terrible amount of money and props to him for thawing as dream and shoot saying yes to an adventure to me. That says he might be a fun adventurous guys so you like andrew. So from what i know sure. Yeah on one of the photos. They put up of him though for his intro and he was talking about. Football literally was a minnesota vikings uniform though so i don't know if you like played here and if he's playing he's playing pro football in europe that means he's definitely good enough to like have been scouted by the nfl or have a tryout. At least maybe he was on a practice squad. You know like your things like that. So yes he might have had like a small audition for the nfl but ultimately is playing in. You know he's not going to have to be in the canadian league either. I mean guys. That's this is a big stretch but like no one's knocking them firs football skills here. A man and i are agreeing to his sense in zest of life and saying yes to adventures. Obviously he's saying yes to being on the bachelor she might just be saying yes to any kind of fame or notoriety he can get. Have you even heard of the european football league until it's not okay so not in it for fame. Then welcome were there. People are going to like if are the must people must be watching somebody. If they're paying you to do something. I envisioned like european football like they still have the leather helmets very antiquated the point. Is you have to envision it because you've never seen it so i don't think that Andrew is in it for the fame when it comes to playing football europe. So we'll have to see as the season. I i think it's a net positive. Okay rather than a net negative There's nothing to criticize for him. Playing european football. No nothing Who else did we. We like heard brandon the hockey player. Brendan bro just abro. Just your all. American bro hale. That's that guy. He's canadian fighter which also made him like a little bit more endearing than just the bro hockey player. I was not super into Courtney with the q- then only use everything entrance every cue that you could possibly come up with. I can't between that. And then justin doing justin rose and being hard from the news into the coming. I don't like puns like that. I don't know do you don't have to try to win win me over that way. It was too much. Justin was too much for me to when he was saying he was the rose painter. And two stroke it out. And this is what i stroke it with my little human I'm not a fan of. I'm not a big pun fan. I do know producers love a good pun. And i'm almost certain that these guys were just rolling participants and so i. I don't like necessarily knocking. These guys for saying yes. An idea that was probably suggested now who actually frightened me. Rv guy well he was gross. Jeff yes that was. That was really frightened. Why would you bring your dirty. Rv and Like a ranch plate dip talking about jeff also just a announcement. I get a new dog tomorrow. Congratulations his name is also. Jeff aren't getting a dog is tomorrow. His name is jeff surgical skin salesman. What is that does that mean. Well here's my here's my guess. What happened here. he ultimately. he's he's in sales. He's a med sales rep at some sort of medical procedure. That's the thing he sells and his like walkin impact you know like what do you do he fill out these answers and jeff you know. He went home night one obviously like from the time that they shoot this at the time that they give people is a cryan crayons cry. What do they call the thing iran. Whatever his his like these guys these guys don't come up with their own. Titles the show does based off of what they put down. And jeff seems like a guy who would sell skin. Yeah and so instead of med. Sales rep some genius. Slight asshole as well. We're going to call him a surgical skin salesman in an rv. Because they looks like he might sell skin and he looks like he's gonna be like put the lotion in the basket. No percent i was thinking that and like i couldn't even handled the spread this between the veggie plate and then he's like he's is tease. I'm not gonna ask you to go back into the room. I was like. I don't worry jeff. She ain't going back there. The that is dirty dirty dirt also. I do want to stand up for our viewers. Because i love. Rv irvy's one because katie. Because she didn't want to be mean to. Jeff was like the. Rv didn't do it for me. And i can assure you that if thomas role dip in the rv she would have had a much different opinion of the rv. I liked the way she described the. Rv's she said it's very lived in. It's worth talking about the rv at all. She was talking about jeff but worse than jeff. Hunter is absolutely frightening to me and the fact that he's still in the game is a real doozy of such. He told her he came in and said just you know i'm a catch. And they had a pitchers. I don't even remember the fish he had didn't have the i met hunter. I'm biased. But i think he's a sweet person. Mac what how. I wanna fuck them but like i think it seems like a nice guy so you would put him in the. He's the ten categories. Such a hottie. Let's do it. I said i think he's a nice guy right. Where did you get well. That's what she said. So i'm just trying to understand is putting hunter in.

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

The Viall Files

05:54 min | 2 months ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

"Is going on everybody. Welcome back whether you like it or hate it. The bachelorette is back and we are back. Ready to recap all the nonsense. It's it's been an enjoyable time off with regards to A little bachelor break. I don't know all of you listening. But i i enjoyed the time off. I enjoyed the break. it was getting. It was getting a little a lot. But i hope you enjoyed your time off because we will be recapping this nonsense for the foreseeable future. It's my understanding that the bashar will be on every monday. And sometimes tuesday for the better part of a year. I think thanks. Abc thank you so welcome. We are glad to have you. We know you have so many options. Maybe hundreds of options. When it comes to bachelor recap podcast and craze and we thank you for choosing us. I have my dream team with me. My producer chrissy alley. Amanda rocking the social content on instagram. And tiktok in twitter. Thanks for joining. Did you guys have a great weekend. Was it nice was a great. I watched the bachelor all weekend so else on. This team did all weekend wash it. We got batch. I watched it twice a better than me. I took myself on a date this weekend interesting. How is what. I went for police and there were some Seltzer there it was for a month. Blake delayed things so it was just this free workout class. And i was going to find a friend to go and i was like now. And he'd go on a date by myself. i went for pilates and some lichi seltzer and when it comes to go on a date or yourself on when it comes to going on with yourself are you a closer age. Did exactly there. Is you know it was a classy. It was a classy first day. Left me wanting more good I think i spent every night by myself and at one point i made myself a cocktail. Take a shower with my dog because she to needed a bath. And i was like this is this is. This is my life. You need to get out more. I'm very content with myself to work. It makes alleys allie of their dog. Amanda has a life great employees. I mean selfishly. All i do is just wait for nick. Detects me as your as your boss. I quite like it as a friend. I think you need. Are we sure. No no no. But if i were to just like i like to think i'm everyone's friend who listens to this podcast and little by default. Thank thank you. I've everyone's big brother who listens to this podcast. Thank you i. i like to think of myself the same. I had a great week for anyone. Asking i. i went to my Cousin's wedding and mexico in ceo. Like literally i you know we right where they film paradise was kind of funny. It was a little bit of a flashback. I was like filmed date. Their filmed a date. There by congratulations to my cousin. Seth and his wonderful bride. Mary shot at them. Hurt a cute little story about them. You know and i know this isn't the ask. Nick episode of our podcast. Quick plug obviously bachelor fans. We do this amazing thing. Called ethnic on. Mondays were people call in share their stories and we give them advice. It's a huge and wonderfully popular show. So give us a try if you haven't tapped into that but heard a story about my cousin and his his now wife during quarantine. They've they were college sweethearts. So they've they've been dating for eight or nine years and i think that's great that they waited as long because a lot of people you've been dating for nine years but you know they met in college so they did it through college and then feel the pressure of getting engaged and married right after college. Because you know they're still finding themselves out. So it takes you know your. They've been together for a while. They've been dating and during quarantine when no one's going outside they would enthusiastically plan dates to go on dates with each other and then get ready in separate bathrooms. They would do a whole thing. It wasn't like let's watch a movie and call it a date. They treated it like a real date and they People always ask us about like keeping the spark alive and etc etc and they just prioritized the connection that they they have an and made sure that they were contained in. Nurture that connection. I thought that was really funding. Great story and some. I've never done that So shout out to them. Congratulations seth mary Also superfund wedding. So not all. Weddings are created equal And there's grace for shore a great time natalie. When we we went to the studio natalie came my family. My family was there so she crushed with the family. She like right before the. She's like so. Do you like dance at weddings. Because we never been to a wedding before and uh. I accepted that challenge and crush it. I have no doubt that you There was a song that i mean. We had a great time. We just enjoyed ourselves. I wish we we. I think we were the the best dancing couple. Humbly speaking you. I would assume you're the guy who starts dancing at the no. No no i. I sometimes will sit out but The kid that starts the dancing like it was my brother. James i think he's anyway Yeah it there. Was this one sog. It was like the remix. And i were just like she..

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

The Viall Files

06:34 min | 7 months ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

"Attractive to you can help them get loose. Rachel rachel could benefit from a beer or two. You know what you got up. You know. I just i'm asking you now. Chrissy final episode. I want to have this conversation with nick. When rachel's the one getting the diamond. What i think rachel could loosen up. She takes herself too seriously. Right now i know. But don't we up and she might win she just. I'm only critiquing. What i'm seeing. Have major bets going on in this conversation of what weather and sarah comes back and how far rachel goes. Rachel figured me listen. Rachel's very reserved and she's worried about looking good. She's wearing what her parents will will think. And and you know usually if you have you you could use a couple of drinks too. She her max. I'm not entirely sure. We'll ever really get to know rachel on this show. Because she is very she's measured in guardsman agree but i don't mind it but we'll know all her insecurities from her interviews but we also know when she thinks she's doing talk. I'm going to start doing that now just in life on my instagram. I'm just gonna. Hey you know what. I thought i mean like i. I'm gonna walk out of here and film and instagram and say you know what i think. Now that nerve. You wouldn't imagine a post game interview like you know. It's football week nara rodgers. Tom brady just thought it'd really good even compared it all my other teammates. I definitely tried the hardest really proud of myself looking forward to the next radio should be having that conversation. I'm just saying doesn't he not even like shake people's hands he loses. Tom brady is a bit of a poor sport. Does it matter. He's the greatest i mean. He's the most handsome counselor. Something is it. Seems like a nice guy but put of abortion rally before we go. Gimme who you think. Matt's top four. And why don't you give a prediction of a winner. Okay top four. Bree abigail i wanna say lauren. I wish i would have seen more from lauren. This week and rachel. It's pretty good. So do i get to know yours off. Gonna say rachel abigail. Brie i'm gonna. I'm gonna say serena serena you guys are close. We're close. we're only one off. I think i'm wrong. I say. I'm abigail embrace and i think rachel are pretty of it. Rachel doesn't have a one on one yet. So it's hard to know for sure but i think were rachel is getting plenty of airtime without having had a one on one yet also in a season. That's been so cannibalized by victoria. In the sarah so rachel really is performing well given how you know did she. She's made for herself. And then that's important. So she's i. I think it's a safe bet that rachel's top four i agree and i but i do think lauren was a lot of fun and also vulnerable on her day. Which i think is two things that he hops. But not your but you're still disagreeing with me that so i was just trying to give one last light in that we could be on the same page here but all right i disagree. I'm picking serena because i agree. I think it would surprise people at this point but also if i get it right then i will look great perfect now that we've got that covered when rachel expect a little special post in my honor. Rachel's your winner. Okay rachel's solid choice. I could definitely see rachel. Wedding and night but i do agree with you. It could have been abigail but she'll be the next batch she'll be the bachelorette i don't see how she's not right now. She's not the winner. Especially now that i saw that she has that spot. I mean three would be fantastic to you. Can't beat her her story. Being definition hurt you know. Get to know her sister. Moral be way more getting to know abigail and I think and i think she's she's funny and she's got two sides you know like she's not just going to be spunk. He's got in her. Which i like for from the bachelorette. I feel like i need to write down my my picks so. I don't think that i wrote down for you to you. All right. i don't want. I don't want to get it twisted and say that i picked somebody that i didn't the end. The lock going on this episode still got a lot. I do agree with this. I don't think sarah's comeback think now sarah's goners what do have to ask do you care or. I don't know it was a coincidence. But before this week it was apparently sarah who used to hang out with g. eazy earlier in the two thousand and twenty year. Stop it what. How did i miss this. That say i miss. There's there's a pop photo of her. And the the the easy the g the i have so much to say what i know i don i think it's i can't i. I've i've been around in a romantic situation. Why are discussed in. What was terrible for me to say but like i was working with them during the whole. Ged halsey thing. And if i had to make out with g. eazy them at all. I would like no. I can't. I can't even think from watching see them is for. She's breathing heavily out good whiskey. He does have he does like stillwater whiskey and he gave me a bunch of whiskey so props cheesy you're gonna make fun was the most disgusting thing i've ever seen before. This will not be the last that we see if sarah but it's the last we will see if her on the bachelor but i think she will end up with some kind of person in the public. I think she has a true goal in mind and that is for people to know her name. She's a journalists. I said what i said. Okay i don't think so bad for her she wasn't making out with don't maybe their friends. Maybe they grew up. They're not even holding hands so she's allowed to date. I just wanna say nice guy. Nice guy i think you already gross. What can you describe what. I mean why. It was like that open mouth tug on the face..

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

The Viall Files

07:42 min | 7 months ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

"Serena sees already gone in my book research. Three three serena's serena serena serena is starting to get disgruntled. Yup he's a disgruntled employee rush. She's a middle of the pack She's a one on one time with him like at all not even a second but she has done a little more camera time. I think. I think lauren who's gonna learn to go one on one soon. She got into group. Date rose last week. She had maybe know very little to no airtime this time this week. But that's okay. She got computers rooms around. I saw the question. Mark this episode. Was this episode. Is very concentrated. Juice was like frozen orange juice just so it was all about this the sarah drama and then you had your only really strong personalities are going to shine an absolute that and that's katie strong personality and that's victoria to combat the the incredible drama that sarah brought to the show and everyone else even abigail embry. Were just kinda left. The just not really. I know we didn't even see lauren. This episode but she. I think she did enough on her taut during her time with him that she still in the glass. We cut a setup that we're gonna see we'll see lauren laurel lauren. We're going to talk to week. Abigail was upset with sarah to sheep through. I liked a little. Yeah little solo spit from abigail. She like chew i was. I love a one two punch. I was disappointed that no one in the when the credible bullying was going out that no one in the group said. Hey guys were being a little vicious here. This is what. I don't really under- around on them. Why kit needed to go to the level she did. I know i have like you know thing with kit. But why should we so if she has never even spoken to matt like she doesn't have any skin in the game at this point like why do you need to be so. She is aggressive about it. Like she is part of the living organism. That is the most violent predator in the food chain and she said his long thick legs with the monotone voice. I know i have a monotone voice. So i can make fun of them all i want but like it was funny. She would have been so boring on that day. I i would have not gone his long legs. She was making a joke. But it wasn't funny. Funny i didn't think it was funny but yeah she street. Maybe she's a guy's girl. She a kit. Yeah i think. I can see her not getting along with girls for sure. She stood up for. She was standing up for all the other girls with the sarah situation. But i can see her being the girl that also her father was. Also i think kiss girl. I think really crass about cat. But 'cause kit came in hot with her like the king whatever. The king reference was on the king. Si yo your phone. I think it's a girls girl. I think she has. I has her same three friends that she's had sinister. She's got a very tight how they and they all live to her and they're like quick totally mingle for sure one hundred percent yet. Sorry i have no idea who you are. And i'm judging off eight minutes of talk time but it's what we do. I'm not gonna go on your instagram and say anything. I'm just going politely. Say it here. i'm. I'm ruined for kid. I i i. I don't know if she will. I want kit to get a one on one. I think she's a she's a big personality. She's got an interesting story. I think it's interesting. I hope she gets one on one so probably have a long like group date. What happened was mary. Also because or mari am i watch because he he was really sexually attracted to her at first but then the sexual tension was over once the once. The wedding dress thing happened and then she got called off and had to do the paint. But like i didn't don't remember seeing her this episode. I mean again. We didn't see anyone. I mean maggie. Who's that she's a young the farm pharmacist. Who is like you know. I mean night made an impression night one and really sending a little bit. Just send you in the mix. Just cynthia hazard up a little bit. She says to listen. It's gone back. We have a group of women coming in next week. You know because sarah left. We really don't know again. I don't think. I do think victoria going to be gone shortly. I it seems silly to put victoria on a two on one. You know type of thing so we don't really know who. What's the big rivalry. That's you made out with victoria. Victoria eight his face meal for me. No that's why easy nice did you ever just let anybody 'cause that you just had zero attraction. To two-thirds of the women really embarrassed. I never be the batch. You can't like normal. People aren't attracted to twenty different people. And it's you so if you like one or two people then unless you just our our numbers total numbers person then it's like once you start liking one or two people then it becomes instantly awkward to start making out with a bunch of other people and these are all beautiful nice people but just not as into them so then they're all making out with you trying to get a get ahead you and i'm glad i can just be a fan. Not how i couldn't do it Yeah it's not a it's not a rip on the other people but yes it's once you start. Finding an interest in one or two people like everyone starts grabbing you to kiss. You don't wanna do that. It's not fun and it's hard. I don't know it happened a couple times at the plane Well i don't think that's ever going to what is going on with as i. Yes and read. It looks like she got punched by left. I it's always puppy underneath. And then one it's one i and it's red and it's puffy and it looks like it's door something she may be. Did i feel like victoria behind. The scenes might be pounding a little bit to get this courage What's a two drink minimum. It is what to ruin everything for me so the people that are really drunk all the act like they have raged from being drunk. They're not actually drunk. They've had. I haven't been there since this two drink minimum but i think there's some light weights in this world or not but oh you mean to drink trajan. I'm sorry to the they get drinks hours my understanding l. per hour. You can't be drunk if i had two drinks per out. Three and three is three hours. So you can so. I don't know if you're these girls whose probably yeah i think i don't think victoria requires alcohol be obnoxious and and opinionated true but my help. I get worse with alcohol. I've assuming victoria. That's how does anyone get better. Some people i think are funnier like active. You can get well. Everyone's more.

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

The Viall Files

08:53 min | 7 months ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

"Think it's really interesting at least for me to watch matches. Because knowing this is matt's first time you know every other season at least for i don't know how many seasons we've had someone beyond like the show before so even like so. When i was the bachelor or bandwagon or anyone else when it's so hard to be the lead and you see the polling in the interrupting but you realize like not too long ago you part of that group on the other side doing that stuff. So you can kind of empathize. You know the situation. You know how it works. This is all new to matt. So matt's probably just like so early on just me like just take a beat so i have to ask as just a viewer as a man said so bingham you when you the bachelor matter whomever it may be. Do you think it's attractive when a woman pulls away from another day. Polls away when he pulls suppose you out from your current. Well i mean you're asking me about a real world situation all while comparing it to show if you're asking me do i think sarah would be a nightmare to date in real life. I do yeah. She demonstrated qualities that made me. You know reminded me of probably women. I dated into my twenties. That were you know. Were really good at gas lighting me or making me question my sanity and constantly like complained about little things and needed attention. And like yeah. She seems like does she did demonstrate some talk behavior but if she was gonna come on even tell the girls when she came to do that which was the worst she should. Why couldn't you have just been like. Hey you guys. I'm a mess right now. I am a disaster. I'm sorry i had to come talk to him. I know it was selfish. But like truthfully. I'm coming unhinged but like they say that they told her they said what was it as i wanna make a they. They kept saying. I want to make amends with the just say you wanted him to make you stay and have his attention. Just couldn't she do that why i don't understand. She'd rather just go lives i. I can't i can't explain it. Well yes can. I mean one. She could have said it better she true. I don't think anything she said would have made to ships differences. She could have said nothing. And just like katie. Sturt for her again. I think this is a situation where basically everyone's wrong except for brie. Oh i see is the fra. I asked before we started today. No i mean if you listen to my podcast you would know that i'm a big fan of. I'll sorry you know what i know. Br breeze great. But i do think this was. This was a great episode because a ton of drama and it was everyone kind of was a loser in this episode because no one really shine other than well. Katie by katie shining episode. A little always funny on the group date. She went and talked to sarah afterwards. Like she's the one who like went and talked to her upfront. Was like you interrupted me. I'm coming to you as a person. Like i thought katie was like kind of like i thought it was like katie state in the room. Making it truly is awkward. Get live i know you did but i just. I couldn't good television if how do you not just leave when you're when that's happening when katie's like again we get. That was amazing. I was snapping out. Hate made the best of crappy situation. But i mean it was pretty katie latte surrogate bullied and then came out. She could have widened katie. Stand up for the toxic behavior that was going on in the room. I mean i'm just saying i. Katie was funny. That was a great thing and she was okay. But i don't think she gets a gold star for watching it. All unfold launching surrogate crucified then blocking on the room. And then saying. I didn't like that yet. What did you do something in the moment when you didn't let i'm just saying if i mean here's the real problem with katie. And he doesn't like her he just doesn't she's not be in the final so she's top six. Yeah top six. So that's but i also thought it was like she was so to say like you've gotta stay. I don't wanna feel like i'm sloppy seconds. If you left and blah one like. I don't really agree with that. But then all of a sudden when she said the dad thing it didn't seem like it was like a super authentic conversation which between katie and between katie. and sarah. I mean it's not a coincidence. That the katie. Who's we learn rather passed away or is a one to go talk to sarah. Father is dealing with the very seriously. Ill matt sarah originally well. She was the one most affected by sarah in the date. It was. it was katie's conversation but you know katie does seem to be twenty nine in this group at that is one of the older women and this group but either way she seems to be kind of the fun kind of good handle shoulders You know woman and so she isn't as petty or cata. Some of the other women seem to be doing and she's gotten some time with matt. But when you say you're just making kind of a general prediction yet general. Like just by vibing. I just didn't see that connection. I like katie. If i if i was going to pick one of the girls to be one of my friends katie would be in the top five. Gosh that. I don't think he's into her. I would agree. But i guess you said it is if she 'cause like sometimes women or men on the depending on the season will act a certain way as a result of not getting the attention that you're saying but katy's doing jitsu katie is operating as if she's one of matt's favorites correct good good for katie for that confidence of guess. She's not seeing what you're seeing right on the television screen trade show. Katie doesn't and you're not seeing maybe some moments that were not being aired. Let's show. But i i will agree. She's she's she's she'll go going on. I've been she'll she'll go home the week if our hometowns. It's it's a lock you think. Lock hometowns no a week before you'll be fine. Say she'll go home rose the she'll be one of the people who gets she'll get like the one on one and go home and matt will send her home on the right before the hometowns with katie But yes absolute props for her standing in the doorway. While sarah was finishing by the way. It's been more than five minutes like that's going to be me. Have you ever been aspera because of your own insecurities or that you. I would never sabotaged relationship because matt really like sarah. I think i've been in situations where i didn't feel like it was reciprocated but i wouldn't have had the conversations with the guy would have just disappeared like i'm more of ligers left i was i'm done like i'm no longer pursuing the situat- like i'm not the person that like back in the day was like all right. I'm gonna send this taxed and then count the minutes with the responses. And the do that. Like if i in my world like your enemy you're going to write me back. She's a she's the girl wakes up next to the guy with the pony tail. Yeah we'll give this a shot. Yeah come on. You know like you had to be. I'm pretty direct in general. So you know if i like you are. Don't well sarah sarah's direct. i think i'm fascinated by this acerra dynamic because most of the time in these situations like the lead doesn't really like that person who who who who leaves on their own early. It's like she's not even that but that's the thing. She's not really expressing how much she's in demand know. What i'm saying is matt really likes her. Or very rarely. You know we talk about especially recently on all these seasons. There's these added Incentives if you wealth casts people to go on the show like right reasons instagram followers etcetera etcetera here. Sarah is getting a lot of early. Validation for matt mean last week. I think most people would have thought. Sarah was a front runner. In matt's is in terms of people matt was into. You couldn't say there's no one else you could point out that matt mclaughlin damore may bree maybe abigail were in like the same ballpark acerra. But he was very like. I think matthews nice guy and if you tell him a story that is heartfelt and you.

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

The Viall Files

07:21 min | 7 months ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

"And make ship happen. If i were matt right. It would just be like who's yeah. It is an awkward situation. Which one did you like. Where was the one that you're like. Wow mocked it out of the part. I guess i wasn't necessarily ranking him. You know they were just thought overall the quality in the perfect like i liked how all the women embraced it. I like how i liked. How all the women were like. You know what this is awkward. This is weird and instead of kind of crawling up and they they went for and even rachel to her credit she was probably anyone the most like uncomfortable with it and nervous about it and she definitely seemed like while she was running it. It's like what would. I don't want to embarrass my parents type in her head but she's still did her best. I just think that was. I liked how. I'm really glad there was no really situations. Where very ach. I thought it was you know how. Yeah if if victoria isn't an actual plant to be on the show. I i i mean. I spent the time to go onto her instagram. Look back years ours. It goes wonder why some photos commenting turned off. Like i m invested like. I need to know like what did the queen do before this. What if the queen isn't enactor. I need to now. She's not and that. Listen that will. You just made my point. You just made my point of why she is a valuable person. On this season so far she might be toxic in real life. she might not necessarily have the highest character. I don't know but you just emitted stalking her instagram page. For here's the difference. I stocked it but i didn't follow okay. That's even worse. I'm betting it. Here's i actually liked host. It was jarring that her sex talk than any other time on the show. Because i like that. She ended with like a queen and i laughed and all the things i like the way anna ended it as well. She said something funny tied it back to the shell like getting the roads or something like that. I mean overall. I thought all the women were great. and in in their own way. That's all i'm saying. But yes i thought he macquarie's was funny and you can tell which i think is interesting go. Like what a drastic change. Because it's pretty clear that a lot of the women actually like victoria. I think they like her because they're like few if she does this. Then we don't have to because you know when you're in a tv setting it. There's that pressure of like someone's gotta bring it right now. I'm just talking about in general. You can tell like you look at the group you look at the groups and you look how they interact. They think she's funny. I mean they're not in renton buyer and they think she's funny. And so that's the reason so threatened by. everybody knows. Victoria's not gonna win fine. I'm just saying what it's important when you're watching the show to see who the group likes because the group lights will dictate like where where you like. The group hates sarah right. So sara left because she basically got bullied to leave while she may be have her own issues but like there were like fucking leave or we'll kill you but do you think that maybe it's just because all of a sudden they all had a common enemy. That's why they started liking victoria because the week before they didn't but like all the sudden they all had a common enemy so all of a sudden lake victoria is part of the group again. Victoria was the one interrupting everybody the week before entering other people's little private time but all of a sudden victoria has a lot to say about sarah doing it. I'm like we were just doing it before. They're even more obnoxiously. In my opinion the most dangerous predator on the food chain is a group of people on the bachelor who smell blood. That's i mean more than any other predator out there. It's a strength in numbers. If if if they sense weakness in someone else the group will go after that. It's like a virus. She she did and sarah did it to herself. But nevertheless that's how it works every season. It's what happened to me. And andy season. That's what happened to me when i showed up on caitlyn season. It's just you know they. They look for weakness in the group turns into like a one one large organism in attacks. Whatever they think they can kill and has there ever been a situation in the bachelor. You can just choose to not have roommates and all that. I'm so confused like maryland and the queen get an argument. She's booted out. She's sleeping on the couch. It appears that there's a room by yourself like is this happen. Well there are no hotel complex. So my guesses. there's there they. No one really has their own room and they have their own room. It's going to be used as part of the show right. So here's a situation most again you go like most people on the show. It's they kind of. Follow along with whatever's going on there's an organizational structure. There's beats like a show and people ask about like again producer influence. So like sarah doing her thing. It was kind of like a little bit to karan on my season. Sent the producers. Telling corrente sleep. It's coron being the type of personality to be like. I don't care what the groups doing. This is what i'm going to do and so instead of say- producer saying you can't do this. They're like well it's just use it. Let's see where this goes. You know what i'm saying. Most people follow sues karan. When your season. I i get that. I'm just saying in of when you see things happen. Right so sara. Isolating herself as sarah's choice. And then you see it happened but most of the time i guess is there's tutor room here and this situation. It's a hotel right. They're not gonna give anyone their own room. Unless someone's not sharing a room and then again you could use that. You use that to like see where it goes. They follow the drought yourself. Bullied out right. Yeah so that that's kind of how it works. We see for the first time. Sarah cracking while. She's watching all these. These people talk about Their their performances or or their fantasies. I guess with matt. And so yeah. We see the cracks and then all of a sudden go into the cocktail party of the group date. Where sarah supposed to go back with who decides sarah's not on the day got was was That really matters. But there's a handful of other women. Interestingly enough bree was on this date did end. Sarah both get one so breeze had a one on one. Sarah's one breed in the same way was the same. What we're only an episode three was both last week so i like of reason but i think the only point that out because you know sarah has an argument. Her argument is and there's a lot of truth to it. As none of these other women can relate. The time that i've had with that right right except for brie brees the only one in the house who can relate and how it works like in that show is like think of it this. It's like.

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

The Viall Files

06:00 min | 7 months ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

"And it's just like hysteria to me. It's well i may be an acting a. There's a childlike sense and sarah in terms of how she handles her emotions. I will agree with you there. I wish she would have led with when she originally broke up that date. Well me up. We're lets you lead. You lead the way but yeah we'll get. We'll spend most of the time talking about okay. Five sarah i digress. But let's let's let's cover the The rest of the episode. I we start. you know. So you know sarah's fine you know and we're not so sure shocked at victoria gotta Some very quiet very beautiful women went home which is usually par for the course for this time of the season. It's it's pretty typical and it's not even uncommon a lot of times. People will be shocked early on that like these attractive people whether it's the bachelor bash recco home and i think it's because a lot of times those people don't get any time it will the the lead is not maybe as into them as maybe three or four other people and they probably came in to the show being like not wanting to fight. I don i if you if they like me. Great if not. I'm just gonna keep to myself and it's time it's time to go so they go in with a good self confidence. They're like he's probably going to be in to me. And then when he hasn't there just retreat and then they're done like any time something comes up there just kind of high into the corner so we kick off the next week. We got ash in my friend. Ashy i would seems like a nice date for ashley. Lead talking about novel porn. I guess right is that what are we. It's like i see. I'm pretty sure. I could have done what ashley did but if i would have had to come in as one of those women and and actually do that. I probably would rather go home. I found that. You don't braced sexy about any of those women. Doing any of that wasn't sexy was fun. I personally thought it was a great date. In general i love that the show is while very slowly becoming more progressive. More sex positive. Here's a show that traditionally is very like buttoned up dating Sometimes had a history of almost low key shaming sacks especially when it came from You know when it was seemed to be instigated by the women on the show and yet here you have an episode where it was in a very positive light had a bunch of women about their sexual fantasies. And i think that's a good message. But i don't think they were actually talking about their sexual fantasies other than my girl. Rachel who i thought. did it. Great like horse you like katie was the bad. You thought rachel who couldn't express yourself more than calling it. Her groin area. I've forgotten said that was the best one i mean again. This was meant to be fun and lighthearted with an opportunity to just like kind of go for it. I've thought rachel was fine. Fact i was kind of cringe. Rachel went up. Because i thought they were kind of setting it up for like a really awkward situation. Rachel takes herself very very serious. People take themselves very serious okay. Well that's the tracks that have. She takes also rachel. Has this really weird habit of complimenting herself by her own account she tried harder than anyone else on the first date last week and then also this week she also once again was very proud of herself. She's really good at pointing out. How well she does was she just wants to reiterate it. She's like a teacher. She's like if. I keep saying it then soon everybody will believe it. And you know who believed it. May i a fan of rachel. I'm gonna say it right now. I think she's and it to win it. Oh i agree to win it. And i think at i'm not a man but like if i were to pretend that i was deciding which one of those women i would want to be with to marry her. Whatever i would want to have more of the allure of what our sex life could potentially be than being over the show like over the top and trying to fake it. And i don't knowing you want a slap on the ass again. I'm not necessarily speaking to what met should or shouldn't like i'm just talking about from a tv standpoint. I thought it was a great date. I thought just having a bunch of young women talking about sexual fantasies and and making a positive thing rather than something that people could or should shame. I thought it was a generally a good positive message. I liked the the dildo conversations. I liked the sex talk. Not necessarily because it's supposed to be like sexual. But i think that's a part of any relationship and it also gives. The conversation allows us to have see what matt's into what matt is attracted to write. These are conversations. We don't tend to have on the bachelor before this early on to like i mean. When was the last time you got to see on the show. A bunch of women open up about their sexual fantasies and how that might play a role in relationship. I get that. And i and i enjoyed watching it and from like an awkward viewer and i appreciate the television aspect. But i don't think a lot of these women were being real about their actual their actual sexual fantasies and and i still don't know how matt feels about the dildo. I mean it may never actually talk. He just two people in this world that know that everyone is unique. It's mr rogers and helix mattress. That is right. And while mr rogers can't get your mattress helix ken and they can get you the match mattress. That's perfect for you. Should just by simply taking a two minute quiz and be matched with the perfect mattress. I took the quiz. I couldn't have been happier with by midnight mattress because i'm aside sleepers. 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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

The Viall Files

03:11 min | 7 months ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on The Viall Files

"What's going on everybody. Welcome to another episode of the vile files. I'm your host neck. And i am joined by chrissy my producer over in their montana. Hello nicholas hi. Chrissy a got the the the syndicate also in studio today helping us with all things social media and Names and pop culture me hop culture information. They're full. they've they're full of knowledge but when it comes to the bachelor they're they're helping with me get names right. Those names Any who we have a really fun. Fantastic episode For you recapping episode. Three of matt james is season. Teddy mellencamp She is A big batch fan and she is widely invested into the season. And she she comes guns a blazing with her at least and so it was a lot of fun and I find myself agreeing with something. Steady said in disagreeing but it was a lot of fun to have that. Have that discussion with her so I'm sure you're all Interested in hearing what we thought about all the drama that sarah brought to the table today and we get right into it before we do. Just a reminder go back and check out our ethnic episodes that Dropped this morning if you're looking from more relationships stories drama people's lives falling apart like sarah's did in this episode and then i think forum you got caught there now and fix sarah call in if if you're if you're listening Also tune in tomorrow for fun and fantastic episode with dr alexandra. Solomon who is a very Towns said and six ful Professor at northwestern university who teaches a very popular class world renowned jesus a world renowned class called marriage. One zero one And we get into all things relationships early dating relationships marriage relationships we talk about pornography. And how the that plays a role in relationships and You know self awareness in relationships so it's very fun episode and it's great to have someone like yourself who's an actual expert when it comes to those types of things and i think you'll enjoy it so be sure to check it out tomorrow anything else that we're missing. Obviously we have merch available on our website. Vowels dot com if you're looking for some fun hoodie. Sweatpants break-up books mugs mask over a cup bucks. So good right now. You have a friend who can't remember why her ex xbox get her a book to write it down and all the new things social violence make sure to follow us on vowels instagram. And you won't be disappointed. Speaking of not disappointed.

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

11:10 min | 2 years ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

"You think I think if you're not sure at four months what you're actually doing then that probably means. You don't need to have the conversation because you're probably just casually dating yeah what's in your. It's probably not going anywhere. I think I mean yeah. I would say she weeks. I'd say a few weeks is a little a little early bumble. I two months is fine but I also think having to have that defining conversation almost most isn't necessary. If you're in a good situation well yes and no. I think both people want to be on the same page of Hey. This is a boyfriend girlfriend right not JUSTA STA. Hey we're hanging out but we're not sure where it's going right but it don't you think when you're in a good relationship and you're having regular conversations. There isn't just that one sit down like hey. What are we doing here. I would say yes and no because I feel like I have so many friends that feel like they're really good relationships where it just hasn't there like I'm pretty sure that we're July the conversation. Is it over or is it good. No I think what you have the conversation as long as you're in a good relationship then it would be. Hey were boyfriend girlfriend because it is awkward. Being in that situation say you know say apathetically teddy you were dating. Dean and you guys were hanging out a few times a month in and then teddy. You were like hey my cousins having a cookout would love for you to come. He comes and you're like hey. This is my my this is Dean and we are hanging out so I think before you even bring to the cookout. Wouldn't you want to have a conversation to say. Hey Am. I introducing you as my boyfriend because we're boyfriend girlfriend right. I I'm kind of old school. I would hope that he had the conversation with me I would. I don't know if I have to be in a situation where I'm like two D lack enough. How can introduce you. I don't think I'M GONNA. Keep going down there all right. That's fair. That's fair. Do you have another facebook no question you stole my phone. I don't I don't bring my phone to the podcast. I try to focus on the conversations that we have but yes. Let's see this young lady. Melissa says she just got back in the dating scene and she wants to know why guys that she meets for the first time start texting her babe. How are you or babe when we hang out. She says she feels a bit weird about them calling her babe apes and she barely knows them. Does that mean that they're into her or are they looking to just come over and make out. I think they're just looking to come over and make out who calls someone base ranger a baby. They're they're looking. I sometimes say an Ashley can attest to this sometimes hun but I'm a married man so I feel like I can say now but like I know that sounds weird but my dad says it and that's where I got it. We're like he's getting coffee and be like Oh. Thanks on you say you you say hon to Ashley are no to other people but like I don't call Ashley Hahn Calls Me Babe. Other people extremes out world. Oh sorry yeah I call Ashley Eighty Five. I know I know I know. It's but my dad I got it from my dad and he does it all the time and it's such an thank you darlan yeah. It's kind of like that and so I've I've noticed doing it and in the moment like why the hell did I said that I'm so awkward and and I really just blame my father. No I think it's fine. It's fine if and also what time are they texting you actually in the middle of the night in the US texts are you up map posted a question in the facebook group as well. He says why girls find it such a turn often at twenty five years old despite him having a good job that they don't like that he lives at home with his parents as a twenty five year old man. It's kind of like the new normal I'm sorry but twenty-five living at home isn't that crazy you're on your parents health insurance till you're twenty six. He just wants to wants to know what women really think of it so we'll tell you. What would you think if you let's say you were single when you met a guy and you were interested in turns out. He's living with his parents. I haven't ever had to go through that but I think for me. I would be a little bit like okay. You Graduated College College. You have a job like don't you want to support yourself and start progressing but his defense. He says that rent is very expensive. He's like saving up some money good job I mean but in order to grow you have to invest in yourself invest in the life that you're creating and if you're still having your mommy do your laundry. You're uh kind of stifling yourself. Yes I think it also depends because if you're twenty five and you know that you're going to move out at some point soon. That's different than your twenty. Five live in. You have no idea where you're going and that's why I I don't think it's necessarily living at home but if you're with a guy and they don't seem like they have any goals or drive to me that's not attractive totally but if you're twenty-five living home because you two hundred thousand dollars in college then that's different than being twenty-five and working at the seven eleven because you don't know where you're doing with your life not a bad job great job but just in terms of your has have a goal into one have a purpose in their life and that's what women are attracted to totally. I always get off anything that would you have like long term goals that you set for yourself like. Do you like right down here like five year ten year fifteen year goals do. I don't write them down but I think especially now newly married. My goals are more family oriented about you know L. Buying a house having kids you know seeing where we're going to settle down. That's kind of an intern in terms of my goals right now. I'm still career focused but that's been obviously the main focus of my head right now ready to down long-term goals but I do write down like in the morning. I right down some things that I'm grateful for. I have anxiety so for me. That really helps like these are the things that great before and then. I write down my three non-negotiables of every day so three things things that I'm going to accomplish in. I know that when I do those things it will like create confidence and making sure that I continue to get the for instance an example of one of those. You know it could be something something like you know. I had I run a business. I have forty five women that worked for me and I was like I am going to set the zoom call for this week. This is what's happening. I'M GONNA set it for Tuesday. Okay and I'm taking action today. Because you know sometimes in your head you're like I'm going to do this and then you put it off and then all of a sudden you've created this unnecessary weird feeling inside yourself because you're just not doing it and it takes. It takes two seconds and you're like wide it. was I thinking about this route three days. That's a good that's a good method to write down the three non-negotiables that you're going to do that day. Yeah and it could be fitness. Related related could be helpful related it could be. I'm going to have that conversation with this person today but I'm not putting it off. Putting it off is what creates that like uncomfortable for you. I guess the reason I ask ask that. Question is because for me personally like I guess when I think of goals long term. I don't know what it might not necessarily be and so it's like you want to date someone that has goals obviously the and you want to be attracted to people that have goals are working towards them but like I'm trying to think of what mine are and I'm like well I think you can it doesn't necessarily have to be goals but like what do you want out of your life and if you're still fully have no idea like for me. I knew I wanted to feel comfortable in my own skin. I wanted to be married and have kids and I wanted to feel like like I had a purpose so I found career that I feel that way other people and we have but I wanted both because I had one and then I was feeling feeling like I want to be able to do both and I think that just being able to talk through it with your partner and saying these are the types of things that I care about. That's enough so one more question before we wrap up from the facebook group. This is from Melissa and she says am I overreacting if a guy I'm talking to takes over two you hours to respond back to me. He's told me he isn't talking to other people but obviously we haven't. DT are yet we are on the relationship. I'm in wow. How should I be worried or just relax dating sucks crying face Emoji if he says he's not talking to other girls and you don't have any reason not to. I believe him. It sounds like he's kind of defining the relationship there. I think everybody's a different type of texter like my husband is not an immediate texter backer unless he needs something but you know. I'm the type like if I have my phone on Mamen attacks right back to texting really changed the dating game didn't it because now you no longer longer call anybody you just text and now texting is such a game to a Lotta people where they have to wait to respond because they don't WanNa see needy or for you. You know you text immediately back because you want them to know that you're interested very interested in either. The Guy Likes you or he doesn't the techs time really. It doesn't matter if you're going to figure out whether he's into you not by if he takes you within twenty minutes or two hours see I used to you'd plan out the time I was thinking in high school before texting was a mainstream thing. I remember one time. There was a girl that I told holder I'd call her that day but I was so terrified to call her that I knew she had cheerleading practice so intentionally called her while she was at cheerleading practice right so I knew she wouldn't pick up so it took all the pressure off and then when she called me back and an answer I was she anybody playing a game but you're just a nervous wreck probably or she thought I was an idiot. I Dunno probably the ladder but you know so so now. That's just like the modern day of like texting waiting two hours and be like. Oh sorry I was doing this. I do you remember as a middle schooler in highschool or calling someone that you were like I've got a crush on was like the most terrifying thing in the world. Oh yes I can empathize with you because it was very scary especially if you had to call their house yeah because then you ask is this is Sarah there but we when I was growing up as different. We all had pagers like this is the nineties. You'd get the page and then you're like Oh. Wow Oh okay I call. This is my cue. How old are your children. My children are my stepdaughter's eleven and then my daughter is six and my son is five and four and a half. The stepdaughter is about to be at that age. She's probably like dating boys. Oh I hope not about well. I try to a reaction. I think you are in denial about that. Well no you try to like hint around but without giving them any ideas but I mean I don't know my actually the seven year old or the six year old. She talks about boys a lot more than her older sister and I'm like can you not she's like. Did you see him today. He grew his hair out. I'm like yes always tell mommy everything. I'm like and I'm not sure you do an all girls. Birthday girls no boys. No boys ever allowed all right well. That'll do it for this. Week's episode of help I suck dating live from Las Vegas. Hashtag live teddy coming on for.

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

06:41 min | 2 years ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

"She knows because just being in the presence of your partner doesn't actually mean you're spending time just sitting there and watching sports or show or whatever doesn't mean you're connecting but sometimes that's nice you want to sit there and hold each other's hand but like you have to actually be vulnerable and talk about what's going on in your life to actually grow as people and as partners and share your fears or what you're excited about totally and even just you know we if we're having coffee together in the morning or or anything. It's always like all right. We'll have this than that and then took the time you're going over your schedule and what we're doing and you're always working for the next thing winging and so. I think on the honeymoon when we were having coffee or breakfast in the morning we're just sitting together and it was just a different feeling and you're spending your your connecting on a different level and so ever since we got back. I think it's been a little sad just because now it's back to all right well what's next. We got to do that and your scheduling doing. You're forgetting okay. We really need to spend quality time while you're scheduling schedule that one little pocket a time for you guys to do something special. I know no it's so you're getting paid to do not something that not an appearance not a concert something. You guys really want to do together. It is hard though because you spend so so much time together with your your significant other that it's weird to schedule a time with them. That doesn't learn how to do with work or anything like that because you don't see other people in in your life yeah but as you get older you're going to see even less people yeah. I yeah it's so weird because I think friends don't understand like a great example is a front nick who like always Kinda bust my balls that like he doesn't see me anymore more because I spent so much time with Ashley but then when I'm with Ashley I think I don't spend enough quality time with her so it's hard to balance life and everybody goes through that. I'm sure you've obviously been and through that with friends and ever since being married that you're like no. I need to spend more time with my wife because we don't spend enough quality time together but I think it's so they kind of schedule. Even it's something something so my husband loves to go play basketball with his friends and he used to do it on Saturdays and I was like you know here's the thing I want you to see your friends. I really do but Saturday's like our family family day and we're together like. Can you pick one night. During the week. You can go play basketball's late as you want. Go out to drink with your friends after but like can you just do what a different day than Saturday because I feel a disconnection from you when you go and do that every Saturday and then him just switching the day around made such a big difference for us and neither of feeling feeling like we're missing something but he didn't have to give it up. He didn't have to give it up. I'm like hey just pick a night owl. Do at Thursday nights and you know it's great nice but it's going to be married having to make compromises. I don't know what that word but I have to do. Things like make his breakfast. We took that. Have you guys taken the love languages. I'm sure of course but not as a couple but I know what my leveling suit I give physical touch and acts of service and I receive acts of service and physical touch yeah so my husband's is acts of service. I'm like I hate doing for people. That's your that's yours as well now. Mine is I think quality time and I think it's acts of service. It's just nobody's is words of affirmation. Mine is really yes which I was like. I don't even I feel so uncomfortable when I get comp. That seems strange to me but I realized it comes comes with like when I do an act of service for my husband so if he's like hey we get breakfast or whatever it is and then I give it. He'll be like hey where's the salt and pepper then. I'm like yeah versus when he's like Oh. Thanks Babe. I appreciate it love you. Those things really resonate with me and kind of set the tone for our day. I will say one of the reasons that mining Kaelin's relationship works so well is I'm really bad at giving words of affirmation. It's bike by far my weakest link to give by a long shot and she doesn't receive her least receiving love. Language is words of affirmation like I'm so bad it was like waking up over and be like Oh my God you're so beautiful and care about you so much like obviously I think those things and I do you feel those ways but I'm just like bad at expressing it nervous saying it or you just don't want to feel vulnerable. Denno comfortable saying it. Maybe maybe it's like a fear of vulnerability or something but I guess is my point is it's like she doesn't. She doesn't need that to feel loved by me which is really nice. She probably likes affection and she likes physical touch service quality time. She's become unquote time of course as well. Why is it hard to say words of affirmation. I find it difficult as well sometimes like I think about this not only with my relationship with Ashley but also Oh my relationship with my sister my parents for some reason I find it difficult. I'm getting better at it but I find it difficult to really like say I love you. I don't know I think it might be a man thing because even sometimes with my dad like you can tell it's almost an uncomfortable uncomfortable moment when we're like on the phone together and we're about to hang up and I'm just like all right love you bye as if like I just gotTa say 'cause I love. You and I want you to know that you know that I'm going to say it anyway. Because I want to say it. I sent sent I spent the night in Denver at my best friend's house this past weekend and as I was leaving I like rush out the door. Okay because like great senior Bro like kitchen later and then I was like driving with my brother out to Utah and I was thinking wow I really wasn't appreciative enough of what Mike Dead So. I send like this long texts like I really appreciate our friendship. You know you were a great host. Blah Blah Blah but like for some reason saying it was a lot harder than just like texting and like I know that he was like dude of course like I knew that you were super grateful and all that kind of stuff but I appreciate you saying something. It's like your father like your father. Father knows that you love him but like sometimes it's hard to say guys where you are in your like your frame of mind that day and you don't. WanNa feel like it sounds forced or fake because the second you feel like you're saying thank you appreciate it or you mean so much to me but you're not actually feeling in that moment then all of a sudden you're like. I don't feel genuine doing that because like how many movies do why have to see where you know. The main character is losing someone they love and they're like. I should have changed you every day and it's like. I need to be saying every every second of every day because I want to say it and for some reason I have difficulty suspensions. We feel it well. That was that was great. We're going to jump into some facebook questions and Teddy. We want you here to help us answer questions okay great before we do that. We are going to take one quick break and then we'll dive right into it. We are living in complicated times. I'm seventy rule. MSNBC ANCHOR NBC News correspondent in my new podcast modern rules..

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

02:06 min | 2 years ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

"I knew one one of the women just casually through a mommy and me class and then they reached out and said would you be interested in doing already show and you kind of a rival later yeah Lou addition. What's a mommy me class mommy. Oh you're GONNA learn all about this. That's a really good. Can you give jared some advice as a newly remarried man like what he can do to keep actually happy yeah well wife happy. You know listen ask questions but around the time that you know. Oh she wants to talk like example. I am like a big talker in the morning but before bed like honestly Zippo just want to go to sleep. My husband will come home and be like so tell me about what's your day and want to have this full conversation like can we just like set a day day and will like go over all of these details but like eight thirty at night. When I'm like watching my show Aleppo Eighth I was GonNa say eleven o'clock Jarod when I'm in bed and WanNa just fall asleep at eight thirty tonight once you have three kids and you are with another one you you go to bed early but I think the biggest thing is listening doing like spending time together other when you both want to not like doing those like we have today. We're going to do this tonight but like do things that are actually special. So that's an interesting question. Do you find yourself having having to schedule those dates though because I feel like I've heard from a lot of married couples have to schedule those days especially when you have kids and also what we were realizing for a while we were always scheduling like double dates things with a group which are fun but you're not really connecting when you're in a group you're having fun and you're drinking or you're doing whatever but like to actually connect with your spouse. You have to figure out what it is that you're gonNA do together so for us. It will be a will go on a hike and then we'll go before I was pregnant like a boozy brunch and that's kind of you know. We'll have a babysitter for the kids and then afterwards. We're like we're great parents. Let's go home and have fun but we're connecting in that way versus a dinner at eight o'clock nine o'clock at night where you're tired you get a babysitter to watch your kids sleep and you're just like all right..

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"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

02:58 min | 2 years ago

"teddi mellencamp" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

"See yourself living in the van for a long period of time or do you see this more of a short term over the next couple of months and then most likely will be getting back into the normalcy of living in an apartment in Los Angeles. I mean it's going well enough to the point where I don't foresee it ending anytime soon. I probably will if I could make it 'til next June. That's great. That's kind of what I'm studying my sights on but honestly like I don't have any reason to want to move back into an apartment. Do you ever feel safe. No I've got I think my paranoia would take. I've got a gun to protect myself yeah. I don't think there's an inappropriate to talk about guns inappropriate but I I mean I don't care if you WANNA get. You didn't leave if you're listening to this and you're getting upset with me for owning a gun. That's very much. You're right to be upset with me. That's true but also I hope you know that I went through the proper procedures to own the gun. Yeah it is a single handgun. It's not like the fully automatic rifles. That's where the guy corporations should be taken into account yeah. I'm all for gun ownership. I I'm all for responsible gun ownership and one thing emory saying how surpisingly easy it was for you to get. I think that's a comment on the state of our of our assistant wasn't especially in the state of California. California in America might be the most difficult to get a gun and it was still incredibly easy and I think that's a problem someone tweeted at me 'cause they listened to last week's episode and they said something along the lines of they were shocked at how easy I made it sound sound because they were Canadian and how difficult it is to get gun Canada and I. I don't know enough about any of this stuff like gun legislation and all that stuff to really have a strong opinion of it. I do know that there needs just to be things that need to be addressed and fixed because obviously you see all of this horrible horrible things that happen but it's like. I think that just because some super liberal progressive doesn't mean that I can't own a gun to protect myself no of course not and I was never alluding to that I know you weren't I just met in terms of the overall feel of this podcast but I don't think I don't think it's inappropriate is because like life no. I'M NOT GONNA lie about not having a gun I also think it's appropriate to talk about just because of the state of our our society right now in this country and how many mass shootings there are I think there needs to be more conversation about gun control and the possible changes that need to come within it even on a platform like help by second dating because unfortunately you you know you see a lot of a lot of bad things overflowing into a lot of different areas of life today but we don't need to continue to talk about that because I know this podcast is supposed to be an escape for a lot of people in having fun so we do have a very special guest coming up that has a brand new iheartradio podcasts that you'll be able to listen to hugh coming up this week but before we talked to her. Let's take a little break. Hey I'm andy if you don't know me. It's probably because I'm not famous but I did start..

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