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"tamar" Discussed on Knowing Faith

Knowing Faith

08:13 min | Last week

"tamar" Discussed on Knowing Faith

"Little or put him to death to because he would not provide children he wouldn't do the righteous honor thing and keep in mind. This provision of children is both a continuation of the line. That's the theological thing. That's running through here. But it is also a way of continuing to manage and provide sustainability for households at like that that was not just going to be included and the potential line of the chosen and promise offspring but that the provision of children was an economic and civic and organizational safety net for her own provision and protection. It's good for the community but it is certainly good for tame are you know as a widow widows. Don't fare well in this. Culture generally speaking so when onen withholds himself and withholds the offspring and his seed. This is not just a feel logical problem. Or it's not just a theological or blasphemous thing. It's disrespectful undignified unrighteous way of behaving towards mar. Now that feels strange to us but it would not have been strange to them. And i think this is just one of those areas. We have to realize that. There's an imaginative gap oftentimes for us. That exists between us and the world of the ancient near east. Well and what we we miss is the tone of the story that has already been said is look at taymor the victim. I mean that really is the way that the story is being set up is the tae maher is becoming increasingly more and more victimized by this particular family and since we miss that piece the rest of the story makes us often paint taymor in a light that is actually not something she deserves and also i would just like to point out. Jt you have not said one word. You're just sitting there super quiet like you aren't the reason we had to record things i am not. You can be honest right now. You've got to be honest with the listeners. Why do we have to record again. I did speak in the first round and we took it would never no one. No one will ever know one day. You guys didn't even catch true. Be released on our knowing phase besides one day well what owning did was wicked inside of the lord and he put him to death. Also then judas taymor his daughter-in-law remain a widow and your father's house till sheila. My son grows up for. He feared that he would die like his brothers to taymor went and remain in her father's house in the course of time The wife of judah she was daughter died june comforted and he went up to timid to sheep shears. He and his friend hira the adults. We've already met higher earlier on in the story when taymor was told. Your father in law is going up to tim to shear sheep she took off her garments and covered herself with avail wrapping herself up. She said at the entrance to name which is on the road to tamna for. She saw that she was growing up and she had not been given him in a marriage. Show basically a lot of years of transpired. Because judah said hey. I've got another sign. I'm going to do right by you when he's old enough and this is telling us now well he never intended to. If it's already been said you know. He was afraid he thinks she's a black widow. He basically ink. Thanks that anybody. He marries to her going to die. Yeah and not that. His sons are just mark. Yeah are so terrible that the lord has to kill them right so she goes up because she now realizes judah is not going to do the righteous thing. Here he is. He is failing to do that. And he has lied to me I just say one more thing. I'm sorry but like if you think about. She's probably. She is just had to unspeakably bad marriages in this family. And yet she still is going to contend for a third merit. What what are the odds. That this third son is going to be better than the first two and i think that's an important detail for us because it throws into sharp relief. How desperate her situation is as a widow. Living in her father's house that she would think it was preferable to be married to the third son of judah after everything she's gone through tells us the pressures that she's up against as a as a widow in this society in san back to be a burden to her family of origin. Absolutely so she goes and she sits at the entrance to in them Which is on the road at tamna for. She saw that. Sheila was grown up and she had not been given him in marriage when judah saw her he thought she was a prostitute for she covered her face. He turned her at the road signs at come. Let me come into you for. He did not know that she was his daughter in law. She said what will you give me that. You may come into me. He answered i will send you a young girl from the flock and she said if you give me a pledge until you send it he said what pledge i give you she replied your signet and your cord and your staff. That is in your hand so gave hurry. Went into her. And she conceived by then shiro's and went away taking off veil she put on the garments of her widowhood so judah sleeps with tamar who is not his daughter by blood but is his daughter in law who has been married now to to or has been married you one of his sons given to the second son who did not do right by her and both were killed in the third who he promised to give to her he did. Not now judah Conceived a child with tay mar When judas cynthia by his friend the atoll the dolemite to that was the hard way way way we got back up. I need you to see what's going on here. With judah notice how the text reads. It doesn't say that she called out to him to come into her back. It says that he says come. Let me come into you. So basically what's being intimate did to us is that this is his habit and she knows apparently that all she has to do is make herself available and he will show up and he will take the he will initiate everything Which just goes to show you the quality of family that you're dealing with that has produced these these three bad apples of sutton's and why are you making it a point to the fact that he's the one that called out to her because you're doing that for a reason right because we're gonna find out. He's going to actually pronounce a verdict on her later that we often withhold from her and when when he says he's going to send her a young goat from the flock she says no. That's not what i want. she says she wants his Well she she says. I need a pledge that you'll send it and she asked for his signet his cord and his staff which is basically his wallet keys in his driver's license like she can identify him with those items. Have you ever been told to be again. You'll pastor and author ulster bag offers different advice pointing instead to trusting in daniels gone in his new book. Brave by faith bed walks through the first seven chapters of the book of daniel. To show you how to live confidently for christ's today. You will see that god is powerful and god is sovereign and even in the face of circumstances that appear to be prevailing against his people. You may trust him. Entire this encouraging bolstering book is available at the good book. Company dot com a free study guide. Pdf is also pastors and church leaders. Do you want to keep your church on the same page in the midst of this crazy season. If so then you should check out ministry grid. Their hope is to help you continue to accomplish. Equipping the saints for the work of ministry. No matter the circumstances ministry grid is the online tool to develop a disciple your church. You can use their eight hundred. Plus prebuilt training courses or create and customize your own. The possibilities are endless over the past year. They have seen churches adding their own content to complement ministry grit training and turn their new members. Classes growth track theological training and other in person classes into digital courses using the ministry grid platform. Here's the best news of all they're offering our podcast listeners. Two hundred dollars off the regular ministry grid price for just three hundred ninety.

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"tamar" Discussed on Knowing Faith

Knowing Faith

08:13 min | Last week

"tamar" Discussed on Knowing Faith

"The lord put him to death to because he would not provide children. He wouldn't do the right honorable thing and keep in mind. This provision of children is both a continuation of the line. That's the theological thing. That's running through here. But it is also a way of continuing to manage and provide sustainability for households at like that that was not just going to be included and the potential line of the chosen and promise offspring but that the provision of children was an economic and civic and organizational safety net for her own provision and protection. It's good for the community but it is certainly good for team. Are you know as a widow widows. Don't fare well in this. Culture generally speaking so when onen withholds himself and withholds the offspring and his seed. This is not just a feel logical problem. Or it's not just a theological or blasphemous thing. It's disrespectful undignified unrighteous way of behaving towards shamar. Now that feels strange to us but it would not have been strange to them. And i think this is just one of those areas. We have to realize that. There's an imaginative gap oftentimes for us. That exists between us and the world of the ancient near east. Well and what we we miss is the tone of the story that has already been said is look at taymor the victim. I mean that really is the way that the story is being set up is the tae maher is becoming increasingly more and more victimized by this particular family and since we miss that piece the rest of the story makes us often paint taymor in a light that is actually not something she deserves and also i would just like to point out. Jt you have not said one word. You're just sitting there super quiet like you aren't the reason we had to record things i am not. You can be honest right now. You've got to be honest with the listeners. Why do we have to record again. I did speak in the first round and we took would never no one. No one will ever know one day. You guys didn't even catch true. Be released on our knowing phase besides one day well what owning did was wicked inside of the lord and he put him to death. Also then judas taymor his daughter-in-law were a widow and your father's house till sheila. My son grows up for. He feared that he would die like his brothers to taymor went and remain in her father's house in the course of time The wife of judah she was daughter died june comforted and he went up to timid to sheep shears. He and his friend hira the adults. We've already met higher earlier on in the story when taymor was told. Your father in law is going up to tim to shear sheep she took off her garments and covered herself with avail wrapping herself up. She said at the entrance To an aim which is on the road to tamna for. She saw that she was growing up and she had not been given him in a marriage. Show basically a lot of years of transpired. Because judah said hey. I've got another sign. I'm going to do right by you when he's old enough and this is telling us now well he never intended to. If it's already been said you know. He was afraid he thinks she's a black widow. He basically ink. Thanks that anybody. He marries to her going to die. Yeah and not that. His sons are just mark. Yeah are so terrible that the lord has to kill them right so she goes up because she now realizes judah is not going to do the righteous thing. Here he is. He is failing to do that. And he has lied to me I just say one more thing. I'm sorry but like if you think about. She's probably. She is just had to unspeakably bad marriages in this family. And yet she still is going to contend for a third merit. What what are the odds. That this third son is going to be better than the first two and i think that's an important detail for us because it throws into sharp relief. How desperate her situation is as a widow. Living in her father's house that she would think it was preferable to be married to the third son of judah after everything she's gone through tells us the pressures that she's up against as a as a widow in this society in san back to be a burden to her family of origin. Absolutely so she goes and she sits at the entrance to in them Which is on the road at tamna for. She saw that. Sheila was grown up and she had not been given him in marriage when judah saw her he thought she was a prostitute for she covered her face. He turned her at the road signs at come. Let me come into you for. He did not know that she was his daughter in law. She said what will you give me that. You may come into me. He answered i will send you a young girl from the flock and she said if you give me a pledge until you send it he said what pledge give you she replied your signet and your cord and your staff. That is in your hand so gave hurry. Went into her. And she conceived by then shiro's and went away taking off veil she put on the garments of her widowhood so judah sleeps with tamar who is not his daughter by blood but is his daughter in law who has been married now to to or has been married you one of his sons given to the second son who did not do right by her and both were killed in the third who he promised to give to her. He did not. Now judah as Conceived a child with tay mar When judas cynthia by his friend the atoll the dolemite to that was the hard way way way we got back up. I need you to see what's going on here. With judah notice how the text reads. It doesn't say that she called out to him to come into her back. It says that he says come. Let me come into you. So basically what's being intimate did to us is that this is his habit and she knows apparently that all she has to do is make herself available and he will show up and he will take the he will initiate everything Which just goes to show you the quality of family that you're dealing with that has produced these these three bad apples of sutton's and why are you making it a point to the fact that he's the one that called out to her because you're doing that for a reason right because we're gonna find out. He's going to actually pronounce a verdict on her later that we often withhold from her and when when he says he's going to send her a young goat from the flock she says no. That's not what i want. she says she wants his Well she she says. I need a pledge that you'll send it and she asked for his signet his cord and his staff which is basically his wallet keys in his driver's license like she can identify him with those items. Have you ever been told to be again. You'll pastor and author ulster bag offers different advice pointing instead to trusting in daniels gone in his new book. Brave by faith bed walks through the first seven chapters of the book of daniel. To show you how to live confidently for christ's today. You will see that god is powerful and god is sovereign and even in the face of circumstances that appear to be prevailing against his people. You may trust him. Entire this encouraging bolstering book is available at the good book. Company dot com a free study guide. Pdf is pastors and church leaders. Do you want to keep your church on the same page in the midst of this crazy season. If so then you should check out ministry grid. Their hope is to help you continue to accomplish. Equipping the saints for the work of ministry. No matter the circumstances ministry grid is the online tool to develop a disciple your church. You can use their eight hundred. Plus prebuilt training courses or create and customize your own. The possibilities are endless over the past year. They have seen churches adding their own content to complement ministry grit training and turn their new members. Classes growth track theological training and other in person classes into digital courses using the ministry grid platform. Here's the best news of all they're offering our podcast listeners. Two hundred dollars off the regular ministry grid price for just three hundred ninety.

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Singleness: Burden and Gift

Modern Anabaptist: The Conversations that Shape Us

35:47 min | Last month

Singleness: Burden and Gift

"Join us today as we talk about singleness as well as what it means to be single and life in the church join us in having the conversations that shape us greetings tobin. Welcome to another conversation. Come listeners this amount of baptist. Podcast how you doing tobin. I'm doing good. How are you doing doing all right. It's been a tough week for for us. Say you recently lost a loved one in your family anthem. I'm mourning the loss of a friend. So you know different times during cova de wouldn't you say oh for sure. It's definitely a tough time to lose somebody during covid because you don't exactly get to see them funeral plans start looking different and there's a whole bunch of other different support. Networks are starting to look differently than they did before hand right. I was even thinking we talked about death last week. And then it kind of hits you personally so it's very interesting right. It's it's just part of our lives and when we don't think about it don't deal with it sometimes for caught unawares but yeah it's good to have to have that background and even as we are recording this we are almost at where death also plays a central role in the story and to defeat of death. Of course as well so yeah. It's very interesting. Yeah very much so. We had one of our recommendations to talk about singleness this week from a listener. Yeah it's quite the switch from death and there's quite a few ways we can take this conversation right so we'll kind of see how it unfolds. We'll see how the cookie crumbles but we could talk about singleness as an experience of individuals within the western culture right. We're probably talk about in our second half singleness as it relates to biblical values and and and culture and what the bible says there right and then we can also talk about a little bit in the beginning now about how singleness in psychology relate to one another. Yeah that's a good idea. Why don't you start us off with that Even as you're talking about it's interesting to even think about what is singleness right because singleness can be so many different things depending on how you define singleness and not being singled. So what do you think right. So single head is if we were to come up with something like a working definition here i would say. Single single hood is defined by not being in relation with another person. And i think the traditional idea of cygnus is in a romantic setting okay and you had some statistics on singleness in canada. As well which. I found fascinating i did and when i read these statistics. They're not exactly using the same definition. I am right and from what i understand. These are talking about single households so in canada. there there was an article in twenty nine thousand nine that wrote that compared to nineteen eighty six in two thousand sixteen. We had approximately double the amount of people who lived alone and so that means that we have about four million canadians across canada. Who who are single. Who who live alone and now with someone who provides that romantic so seventy percent of the four million have previously been in a relationship which would include widowed divorced or separated by any other means twenty percent of this four million are currently in a relationship with somebody but they just don't live in the same household right and then fifty percent of these individuals also have a child. Roughly speaking two million canadians live in a single parent or guardian household and are pulling triple or quadruple duty in order to support and care for the children or the dependence and simply don't have the same resources that we do with having an extra person there right fascinating. So when i asked you about the definition singleness you talked about not being in a meaningful relationship or romantic attachment to someone but then as you're giving us each statistics you already seeing a little bit of a clash with how you defined versus how perhaps canada or society defines it right because society defines this as just romantic attachment. I was just thinking about singleness before we even we even talk today and How we just assumed that you have to be part of a meaningful. You have to report a meaningful romantic relationship or attachment in order to not be single whether that's married or living with somebody or at least being boyfriend girlfriend whatever we wanna do whatever we want to call it but the experience of singleness goes beyond just that right. I mean The i was reading some articles about this author deborah hirsch. She's a christian author. She's a little bit out there because she talks about sexuality but she talks about homosexuality is not just a sexual expression within a sexual relationships ship between two bodies but that sexuality transcends also into every relationship we have because we we can't just separate parts of our being. We can't just say this part of me sexual in this. Part of me is relational. And this part of me is spiritual we are one hole and so it transcends. I heard a talk by her. And so she talked about what that means for single people and and celebrate people people who choose to be celebrate in that setting. And that doesn't mean that these people don't need community or meaningful relationships of attachment even if they're not romantic attachments over shirt and i like that idea of the embodied whole as you can't we can't segment like like you said sexual the the spiritual whatever that it all comes together as one person right that being said there are individuals out there who would find they can be in a non sexual relationship. That'd be classically to find a single but aren't troubled by that Right so you're looking at the asexual community where relationships with out that sexual component still fulfilling and meaningful right right and the flip side to that is you have people who have this meaningful community. Who who have lots of deep meaningful attachments to other people but are longing for would consider themselves being single and lonely and longing for a deeper expression for deeper romantic and sexual attachment to someone exactly while there are some that. Do not need that romantic or other person attachment to the same level. There's other people that crave and need it and desire so talk to me a little bit about what that means in terms of how how you live life and how you engage life as a single person. Well okay so growing up in canada as this as a single person who is wanting a relationship and can't find it what is what is that. Psychologically like and i would i have. I think i have a few friends who would fit this category and i just from conversations with them it's not a enjoyable experience Even in my own past bake as someone who from eighteen onwards wanted to have like girlfriends and wanted to be in those in in in relationships with other beings who felt that long. I've had a taste of how powerful that loneliness and that drive four relationship can be right and then there's a certain amount of feeling of rejection and isolation loneliness from not having that being fulfilled so as you're talking my question comes up. What's the. I am trying to word this but where maybe i'm using the wrong words but where does longing turned into obsession or or need so so what i mean by that is can you have that long. Can you desire something and still be content. With present circumstances. I mean that comes down to how you define contentment I would say that if contentment means you're all right with the circumstance. Then no because you still desire that relationship okay We talked quite a number of episodes back about the dark night of the soul right about longing for something how You desire of reality of presence to be with in in my circumstance was to be with god and how reality circumvents that there then becomes a conflict between what is felt. And what is known. That being said you've already touched on this with the obsession component right but then there is also that danger of it becoming an obsession of turning that pain right into something negative such as is found in some communities such as the involuntary salvator the in self community online right and then what you find in those communities is that a lot of this pain and turmoil gets turned outwards against other communities where they start blaming other people and other things for their own loneliness and rejection and in doing so their reactions become a negative coping mechanism an unhealthy behavior to try and alleviate the discomfort or rationalize it so then that goes back to my original question so because because my worry is that that we're kind of setting up a binary in the sense that i want to be in a more committed relationship of one sort or another. Let's call it romantic for for better for lack of a better word. So i want to be under romantic relationship. I'm either in the stage of wanting that and the more i wanted to do the closer i get to it being an obsession in my life or i get it and then i'm fine but there is no room to to to live a. Is there no room then to live a life. That says hey i would really desire this but i will also be content. Happy with where i am right now and and live into that to the fullest. And that's that's tricky because we don't have a lot of social narratives that kind of give us that framework to experience singleness in a healthy way. So if i were to break that down a little bit when we watch movies in rome these romantic movies and stuff. It gives us a lot of even you even say it's either healthier unhealthy. That's not me to judge right now but it still gives you those narratives to kind of go and say oh. This is what it's like to be in relationship. This is how i can experience relationship and and dating and being with another person. We don't have movies about what it's like to be alone at least not popularly right right or if they are they're fairly depressing right. There fairly depressing. It's all about not being in that relationship and own. Maybe i'll get into that relationship. There's the whole trope in the late. Two thousands of the manic pixie dream girl where it's all about these writers hollywood writers that use women and relationships to give men character growth in arcs in the movie right so it's all about being relationship pure like it's not about the expression of singleness as healthy in itself. It's about relationship as fixing your problems so that not then create problematic relationships as well. In the sense that i'm finding all my fulfillment than in that relationship once. I do find a relationship where i where i haven't grown as a person or don't have enough emotional intelligence to be content with the person that i am because the person that i was always looking for someone else to to complete me exactly. It creates problems both in relationships expectations for relationships and for people who also want to enter relationships. Right and even individually it creates a learning process or provides an opportunity for a healthy learning environment. Where you start to empathize with your partner where you can put yourself. In their shoes and learn that your flaws also have to be negotiated with their flaws and that there's a balancing act and interpersonal dynamics. Come in and i mean that turns even so now. We're talking about dating but that that that's the same thing with with friendships as well right. If you're i can see a scenario. I've seen lots of scenarios where where you're not content. You're not necessarily content with who you are and so you're you're expecting a lot of out of that friendship relationship for your happiness for your contentment even for your self esteem for the way you Assess your own value that kind of stuff And that can even come out in familiar. Familial relationships as well right where you depend. It's about on another to define who you are and to give you that esteem right and so i mean maybe we're getting off track but that's kind of what singleness conversations are in the sense. Is that the healthiest relationships in our lives are are where we have Some sort of independence isn't it. Yeah yeah independence crates freedom. Authenticity for who you are. In relation to the overall relationship that being said we also live in a society that needs us to be in relationship so to further expand on this point there is there has been studies. I was just scrolling passively I love read it i. I'm on it all day while just pathway scrolling on read it and they were talking about how people live longer when they're in hell in healthy relationships. Oh interesting and lots of articles in the medical community about how people who come in with their partners rent have better treatment results and partly to have somebody to talk to and somebody else to gather information. Yeah whatever the reason is another person there right even just as a tax bonus is is beneficial. So we have. We live in a society that set up for couples and yet the dangerous. become too codependent. And while there's this whole codependence piece talked about but then how as a single person do you live right right so if your approach this as as a single person you see the i live in a society that needs couples that needs you know somebody to stay home and clean the house or look after the kids while somebody else needs to go work. How do i be both people. Yeah or even attach detaches. I think in our society we attach maturity to to relationships as well right so a part of adulting is to be in a meaningful relationship. I always found that whole areas adulting if being an adult but somehow of verb but anyways You know like you are considered writes so you are considered to be a more mature adults in comparison to other people your age if you're in a meaningful relationship and on top of that if you do certain things if you have a certain job if you have a house and if you have kids right over sure i even feel that in school like what. I'm twenty five now. But because i'm married all of a sudden that puts me in a whole nother brand right of society all of a sudden i'm more mature i'm responsible and i'm sure if i had kids out even put me in another bracket above 'cause now i'm looking after little right little little children but as as we're talking i'm just wondering if we wouldn't have a healthier society if we we would learn what it looks like to live healthily in singleness for a time of our lives even just a how we talk about singleness it would be helpful for the individuals who are signal Because we are seeing a rise in people who live alone or who aren't conventionally married or unconventionally being with somebody else and just to harry healthier narratives for them to us and to understand themselves and even understand ourselves with. Kate will greatly benefit us as a community as a as a broad social community as christians and canadian. A do well. Let's transition a bit into the bible here. where So where have if. I'm a single person. And i wanted and i'm and i'm just lonely as all can be. Have you found that. Most people find their strength. I think were most people go in terms of the bible. At least we can talk about how we talk about church. How about single isn't church. And how we treat single people insertion. That's a separate thing from how the bible talks about singleness. I mean jewish culture. Very much thought that you had be married that that's just you know that that's the purpose of your life is to be married if you're mad at your purposes to have a have a wife so that your wife can have children and and your family line keeps going and if you if you were a woman you know your goal was that for your family to find to find the man or family who would take you i mean as a patriarchal society is but there is no. I don't know if there's a real allowance The only time there is conversation is about widows right and how you treat widows and so in that sense. The old testament is much more progressive than the surrounding cultures of its time and makes allowance for widows and treats them well and in that sense even relationships are still political. Yeah in that. It's not about so much being with somebody else. As it is a way to further your lineage as a way to get some gain right and not saying that there isn't a component. Alright love between why. Perhaps there is some counter cultural stories even embedded within the old testament to see the story of of ruth and her mother-in-law. Ruth naomi. i mean ruth's story restoring does end in marriage but it's very much naomi who makes it happen and they owe me you know. She kind of becomes a mother kind of surrogate mother to son that ruth bears. I mean that's how the story ends in the bible. Were supposed to see that image. Even though she's not married so it's a fairly counter cultural story there is rahab the prostitute who becomes part of israel. There's the story of tamar who forces kind of what we would call a constitutional crisis. It's not a constitutional crisis but it's a crisis of the law for for for one for for one of the for one of the men that was supposed to marry her. Her father in law's supposed to marry her according to the law because her husband has passed away but he refuses and so eventually she she forces her way into this. There's the story of astor who who kind of becomes part of this abusive kings. Well she's the she becomes the queen to disabuse of king and rescue the people of israel. I think all of those are somewhat counter cultural in the sense that that they're describing to us non normative relationships within that paradigm but also some of these women become not all of them that i mentioned but some of them are part of the story of jesus right so matthew mentions for women in the genealogy of jesus and even though clearly there had to be men for those four women to have borne children has not the men that are identified. It's the women that are identified. And so it already kind of focuses more on the person under relationship that that they were in jesus himself never married according to the gospels. All of a sudden you have these single people doing things right. i mean we. We don't we don't know of mary. Martha lazarus or married. We never find out. They are just people right. The assumption probably is that they would be. But but even when lazarus dies. we don't hear about his wife morning right. We we hear about his sisters. Mary magdalene she married. We don't know right. I mean you go down the list of all these characters and somehow we don't often find out about their familial relationships and isn't there a passage in there somewhere about how it it in summary. It's like get married if you want to. But you know your your relationship with the lord is i and you gotta serve that primary. I corinthians that where it is. I post writing. Yeah i mean. Paul paul is also single. There's a hint there. in first. Corinthians read the passage wrongly sometimes. But there's a hint there. In first corinthians step maybe at one point paul was married and he considers himself a widower. I've never heard preached in church but there is a hint there because he's talking to the widows and widowers and he's co counseling them to stay single and he says be as i am so he identifies himself with them. He doesn't leader. He talks to to what he calls the virgins which would be the single people who are potentially also engaged to be married which is different than the widows widowers and so there he doesn't say as i am because he's not. He doesn't see himself like that. He sees himself like a widower. So but in that passage. Basically what paul is saying. Yeah Marriage is a good thing and if you want to be married be married and if you don't wanna be married you have a gift to bring to the conversation as well and the way the we paul seasons in that conversation is gift that single people bring is is an attachment to church and into the work of god. I mean this comes out of paul of paul paul's idea anyways is that jesus coming back soon. You know. And so he saying why. Why waste your time getting married. We have so much stuff to do. Let's go get working and proclaiming. Jesus christ but that's the gift that single people that that's the gift that he sees himself bringing to the church as well right. I'm single so i can go and serve god and i can go and proclaim and so So he very much kind of trying to tell people. Stay in whatever situation you are. Don't get divorced if you're married. Stay married and have sex. He literally. I mean literally what he says. Don't don't all of a sudden now because you think that you're that you're christian. Stop having sex. If you're in a marriage you know. There's no you're not holier if you're in a celebrate marriage with somebody then if you're in a sexual relationship with somebody and so That's kind of his frame of mind right and so what. I take that passage. Don't i think what we should take a passage is that there's legitimate calling and gift to singleness within our congregations and we haven't really acknowledged that ever or very rarely and as as you're talking here. This is reminding me of a story that. I read quite quite a quite a few years ago when i was taking a family and marriage class. I believe that was the course. I was in for this. Where was talking about An evangelical preacher who was off doing missionary work off off in the boonies somewhere and then his daughter right was or his family was having trouble and distress and their daughter. I think even commit suicide over his lack of involvement. Yeah this is a story that i read in a book called sweet surrender by dennis hiebert and the question raised is what becomes more important family or missionary work right well. My critique on this was that he shouldn't this this preacher guys should not have even gotten married in the first place if he couldn't have committed to the relationship as a whole right right. And you know. I i mean before we talk. Today i went and reread some of this stuff. And i corinthians seven and you you can go and read yourself there paul saying that. If you're married you are committing to that relationship and you need to give it a significant amount of energy. That is your calling by god within marriage so you you know the the the calling that god puts on you cannot supersede that calling that god has put on you for that marriage. Because you're asked to be in this relationship of mutual self giving love so you have to kind of buy into that but if you don't need to be in a relationship like that then you can give some of that energy to the work at hand or two one way to one way to to translate it. There has to present necessities. Paul says And so that's that's how paul would put would address it. I don't think paul would understand. I don't think. Paul understand our fascination with saying hey To be to be a good human. I need to be part of a relationship. I need to be in a marriage any to have kids. And then i'm going to dedicate all my energy to my work or to my church. You know for pastors or or to this and ev- this relationship that i've committed to is going to take second place to another relationship i've inserted into it and then using jesus own words to kind of To support that is weird. I don't think paul would ever do that exactly. And i think we put this pressure on missionary work that It becomes the one and only calling for a christian to be part of god's works in the world. Yeah and what. Paul is trying to say i think is hey. If you're single now you can do mission or missionary work. You're not attached to the work of your marriage covenant relationship so why not not stay the way you are. He's trying to tell these people in corinthians why not stay the way you are and do missions work. If that's what you feel like god is calling you to see in our mind. We have turned completely around. We often how we are. We have such distrust of single people especially single men that we say. Hey no-no before you can do ministry worker before you can do missionary work and this is very much agenda conversation because it's not the other way around. We don't distress single women we asked him. and then. So that's an noticing this even as we speak right here. I've been hesitant to talk about this call. That paul has and says. Hey you're single and you can work for the church because to me. It sounds abusive. Make single women do often. We send them out to be missionaries. We asked him to serve. You don't have children. you can do this right. We don't do the same thing for single men or very scared of single men and if want men to do any kind of ministry. We want men to be married and have children because that safety as so. That's that's even the gender dwayne which we approach singleness right. And i think you're in a very unique position at thirty to even speak about that because of your work now with Generation rising coming up and with your older work at in out of town or you did that sort of abroad. Work right where you've seen students and individuals who either as a couple or who are dating or who are single going off and doing this work in in in africa or or wherever you sent them thinking of even thinking about who hires churches in terms of pastors right. It's okay for youth pastor. It's okay for a youth pastor to be single sometimes right because they're young Oftentimes if men right they're young. That's alright we prefer a single woman or a married woman to our children's ministry because they're just more approachable to children. Once you're past you get into a more. An associate pastor position or a lead pastor position. We really want that pastor to be married whether they're a woman or a man we really would like them to be in a committed relationship because that to us is the highest ideal. The highest value within the congregation. Right i mean. I don't think i've been to a church where we've had a single lead pastor. I have. I have not attended a church like that anyways. No i'm trying to think. I don't think i've ever had lead pastor as a single person. i've had associate pastors. Who were then in a divorce relationship or in a separate relationship right and that could be a whole nother podcasts. But yeah yeah. And i can't speak to their experiences. No no but within at least within the evangelical world that i've grown up in yet it's marriage seems to be this high ideal and so any time we talk about singleness and we talk about singleness even as a calling or as an opportunity We tend to think in our minds we tend to think about singleness calling opportunity for women not so much for men and we also tend to not put enough support around single people So we're tend to not give them the same community and while we say. Hey we value your singleness and if that's what god calls you to. Do we want to embrace that and you you can. You have something to give to us. We still want to celebrate mother's day and church and get frustrated when we celebrate we. Don't we still want to celebrate. Father stay in church and get frustrated when we don't and I can just. I mean i make a point of saying something to that effect every mothers and fathers day and i can just hear the roles you know i know the is aren't actually rolling but i can just hear that there's that pressure on you with the congress within the congregations like there there goes rafael again. Trying to be all politically correct not politically correct. It's an acknowledgment that our humanity is not just defined by our roles as fathers and mothers in within that attached relationship And committed relationship of of of marriage. I mean are not the only vision for for humanity not even in the bible. You know i mean. Let's talk about men. That aren't that that we wouldn't consider being fully men. I mean there's daniel and his three friends there most likely unix. Because that's what would happen in the bible. Once they were once they were taken as prisoners in palace. We have a whole book stories that we love to tell our kids about daniel right and we talk about the end times. We love to go to daniel and talk about you know that kind of stuff. There's there's a whole church in ethiopia that today still claims and traces their lineage. Back to a conversation with an ethiopian eunuch on-road from jerusalem Who's who has converted and baptized than an the ep ethiopian. Church still says. That's where we come from because he goes back right but somehow we've said that the highest ideal value is marriage is is being committed marriage with two children and suburban suburban right. Right right. I mean even within our culture. We do not have father's day and mother's day and a far saying on mother's day or a single people's they right we just don't either and so i would say for maybe the if we were to sum everything up that there's a really deep call. Or there's a really deep spirituality to being single and that there is special and it's needed and it's not any worse of a calling that being said we also need to adjust start cultural narratives and what we say in how we talk. And how he fee with people that needs to shift so that they can also feel that calling especially this has been another episode of the modern anna baptist. Please join the conversation by emailing us. At conversations that shape us gmail.com or joining us on twitter at modern anna baptist. Either way we'd love to hear from you and grow with you and continue to have fantastic conversations.

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Ditching "Active Investing" for More Passive Income Streams with Tamar Hermes

BiggerPockets Real Estate Podcast

02:02 min | Last month

Ditching "Active Investing" for More Passive Income Streams with Tamar Hermes

"Without further ado tamar hermes. I'll write tamar. Welcome to the bigger pockets. Podcast it is awesome to have you here. Thanks so much. Thanks for having me. Yeah so you and i. I counted about a year ago. And i learned a little bit. What your story. And ever. Since then i've been like tomorrow on the podcast so excited that we finally made this happen today and i want to learn more about you and that journey. So why don't we start early on. How'd you get into this idea of real estate investing. How did you get that. Get bit by the bug. So i when i was twenty years old i was an executive in television and i was making six figures and i thought. Oh wow. I've got it made but i knew better because i realized that i was exchanging time for money and that. If i didn't have that job i would basically be. I don't know i wouldn't be able to survive. And how i assert looking at my bottom line and it made me think about when i was fourteen and a half. I really wanted a car. And i grew up poor. I was the child of a holocaust survivor and i. I wanted that car. I was going to have to work for it. And so by the time i was sixteen i had saved five thousand dollars and cut to me realizing my bottom line. Which was that. I needed to figure out how to get rid of rent. That was the biggest expense. And so i took the forty thousand dollars that i had saved and i put ten percent down on a duplex in one side of it. Then i lived in one side of it and i lived in los angeles. I also lived within two miles of my work. Which made it really easy because your time can really get sucked up when you live far away from your job. Especially in la. That's awesome all right. so i got started. How do you what your that was like. How long is in aides myself a little bit but it was nineteen ninety eight ninety nine perfect. That makes you like twenty nine years old today. Thoughts twenty nine. I'm just just about thirty

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Philadelphia Eagles Sign Super Bowl 47 MVP Joe Flacco

Get Up!

03:15 min | Last month

Philadelphia Eagles Sign Super Bowl 47 MVP Joe Flacco

"Big news coming out of philly. Yesterday joe flacco agreeing to a contract with the eagles. It's a one year deal. Three and a half million dollars. Guaranteed the opportunity to win. Four million more in incentives. Now what does this mean. As far as the eagles and their draft plans remember. They only have one quarterback on the roster until this and that's jalen hurts and they have the six pick in the draft and as you see mel kiper junior and his latest mock has been taking the superstar receiver tamar chase from lsu which would be awfully knife or any quarterback that they have there but so does this mean mel again. It is not your expectation mel with us field. Yates as well here today. It does this mean and again. You're you're mock has them taking chase anyway but the signing flacco does that in your view. Close the door on any possibility that they draft a quarterback at number six. I think they would even going in before flacco. You think about. Joe flacco wise ian eagle thinking about the baltimore raven connection with the philadelphia eagles. Joe douglas and joe flacco who drafted where the want super bowl with the baltimore ravens. So there's that always that connection you can always go to. Guys are picked up later in their career. So for joe. Douglas bringing in a joe flacco you think about what he was doing with the jets in terms of the situation there. And then you've got the philadelphia eagles their same type of thing that raven connections. So i think when you look backing up jalen hurts right now. I don't think he's a threat. I think jalen that guy get jomar chase and go four with him and help jalen hurts and then reassess after the year's over that's what they will do that influence with the raven organization in philadelphia as a factor. I think it's a factor throughout the green and there always is joe. Flacco is a good backup came in the league. Same your matt ryan did and that ryan slow playing great football of course super bowl but Joe flacco did. But i think it's a good situation to have joe flacco there behind. The jalen hurts. Jalen hurts gets hurt. Your season's not over joke and still play. But i think this is jalen team right now. I thought it was carson wentz's team that didn't work out. But i think if you get your march help jalen hurts and then you make your decision air to this year whether in the twenty twenty two draft you have to think about drafting. A young quarterback failed. Same question to you. Does this mean in your mind that the eagles are out of the quarterback market at six. It does not greedy in. Here's a simple reason. Why i agree with everything else that i'm going to double back to that in just a moment. I just have long believed that if you are convinced. A player can be a franchise quarterback that if he's available at six. You have to at least consider it. If you're philadelphia. Now that being said all the indications this offseason from the previous reporting from more about the eagles plan to build around jalen hurts this year plus the signing of joe flacco which at least gives them a veteran option at the very least relatively modest priced by the way three point five million dollars. There are so many signs at the plan. This year is to find ways to make jalen hurts better so i still believe that ultimately the eagles are gonna be in prime position to land one of the best pass catchers in this year's draft a quarterback should not be entirely ruled out. And that's just me having seen the league long enough to know that sometimes teams do things the catch us by surprise even if they should not have caught us by surprise

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abused by a spiritual figure with Uzma and Ramzia

Not Another Mum Pod

06:13 min | 3 months ago

abused by a spiritual figure with Uzma and Ramzia

"We're just gonna come back to your story. Asthma now that we know who he is and we've worked at the dynamics when your grandfather passed away. How did you feel straight after. And then when did you a finally speak up or be realized that he had affected you more. You knew at the time when he passed away. I did kind of feel sad because although he was good to us but he was good to other people. He was a very strong pillar. He was very well respected. Man no as sad as i would feel with someone who. I was really close to but i was still sad. I didn't process it because the has stopped when he was ill. So i think i just put it behind me and i moved on the first time that i realized that it's affecting me now was lost year of a degree. That's when i actually called to be married and do you know obviously engaged to think of some things any attraction to your fiancee and stuff. Although we went on speaking terms up. That thomas really shy person but the thing is it did affect me and slowly started to get pressure and i realized i was getting afraid or scared taught how to explain that feeling but i started to go into depression and although it was a really good student. I didn't do well in my lost year. Because i call a gauge the beginning of the year. It speak to anyone about it. I was acting fine. But when deep down i knew i wasn't able to concentrate on anything at post it so i started press graduate. Couth this will add it. Okay i have a here to get married. Maybe it will help be professionally. I was doing the k. Although it was quite stressful of doing fine but depression was getting at me. Especially close to the wedding. The to press i go. Can i just ask how did you know you're depressed. You had you recognize that you were depressed. What does the reason was able to concentrate. And if the parents asked me the okay lescot this list with is as a family and i wanted to say out at one to watch. Maybe with them. I didn't want to read books than i did. What to do. Anything dying -joyed doing. I always coveted up by saying this stressful. The coosa stressful. I want to do really well in. I was covered up with that with my parents at the new. I was old enough to make my own choices. So i knew that this was of depression because i was feeling who lived in treating myself happy from inside and did you make that connection to what had happened to you and the fact that you're getting married at that time you just was bewildered now. I didn't know why it would have a certain. Everything started like started. Feel so depressed when i was fine for these years the closer to getting the west got to be honest. I've well say openly by failed my postgraduate because i just couldn't concentrate the last few months ago a completely let go and failed there. Obviously i was proud by. I didn't even tell my parents because the results was supposed to come out after got married so i didn't want to spoil it but i also wanted to get married. It wasn't the. I was trying to avoid it but obviously i think you can imagine what happened. After a mariner what happened tell us rent intimacy. Salted is stopped. My husband that a a key felt as well as kind of disconnected at a wanted to cry a literally the first time when you were being intimate what was going through your head at that point. Did you connect to the trauma that happened to you as a child to how disconnected. You're feeling at the time of the did not fast enough snow. I think it was about a week later and it was newly married and it started to hit me really bad the i added. What my husband to touch me and it came became so bad that i had Nights i was employed at that time. I wasn't to what i was doing my job properly. I didn't want to be there and then it can. Appointment was current Three pink. I would get skit. I would think that there was somebody meru but it wasn't an hong. That's what was my grandfather who seems like what had happened with actually triggered. You're in trouble responses. So yes it took you back was also getting to go back to you know when you grandfather was his last moments and stuff you said you've felt confused and i think there is this thing about your grandfather being protected and also you know your such abuse for a child and even as an adult as well. It's a very difficult thing to actually come to terms with you know especially when our parents and if a parent or caregiver your grandfather is actually supposed to be somebody who's protecting actually he's also abuses. It's a really difficult thing to come to terms with But it seems like i toll set of grief process. I've told you cried. As i said after a marriage investment behind and i used to cry all the time on stock. Yeah so there was no grieving process when he passed away. Yeah what how did your husband react to what was happening. Did he think when newlyweds. You being shy or did he figure out. I think something was. He did figure out something was wrong. I thought it was because of stressed about the job. But because off from joe biden Sanctions some politics so basically stuff that she said. I was depressed because the way i spoke to admit told accounts sleep and it was two weeks to add. Couldn't referred the services and she has to take some leave. But what i did said was walked to buy boss's office Coming back tamar. Alcon to a cold and i was like this is why did at i think for the first few days. He did think that calls the job. That was dressing up me with newly married life near disabilities and a fulltime job but then has been a stilted get better and i was seeing someone who i used to feel like this trying to connect me and a started to get some professional help as well and i spoke. I had dot did a told. This was the person that was seeing and the said the question why i was saying no know anyone else and while i was scared to see him.

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"tamar" Discussed on EGO NetCast

EGO NetCast

05:36 min | 4 months ago

"tamar" Discussed on EGO NetCast

"Thing that's it. I don't even know good and bad phone to result. They're on more tech site and then youtube was on dr goo. That's was staying interesting. How they use such a random ones. That i don't pop it like so you know. Duck duck duck duck go is absolutely. It's funny it started by a guy also the last name weinberg no relation. But yeah but the interesting thing about it. Is that like you know. The algorithm on google seems to be prefer. I mean yeah. I understand the privacy minded browser. But it's like the stuff they improperly populating flicker populating youtube really. It's interesting so that's all but sometimes you get these odd things that could be interesting by dr goals. But of course the main uses often google but depending on what kind of profile you have and what you're searching for. You should have batting in mind. And as a as we said we'd be privacy in what kind of search results get. But when i tried to search on your new venture. I had a hard time so then you have to let the listeners. Know what you're up to here with beat your perfume inva- who journey here because i didn't know how to search on that so exactly because the thing is that i have a decade. That's over what you're seeing is is over ten years of data points on me and the searchers notifying that but when you start something new it's about it's about building those links these days. Nobody's doing that all social also also the so. The algorithm needs to start mind being mindful of that But my story is that worked in those like we just talked about other social media spaces in the early adopter. I wrote a book on social media marketing book on adoption. Like you could see some of that stuff. If you start googling but In twenty nine nineteen decided. I was gonna start perfume brand. It's called tamar tamar dot com and with the emphasis of mental health and wellness..

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"tamar" Discussed on EGO NetCast

EGO NetCast

04:06 min | 4 months ago

"tamar" Discussed on EGO NetCast

"Linda's go. hi tamara. hi thank you so much for having me. what's on your mind. Well is on my mind these days. Yeah slates honey. The year the year. It's been a crazy year absolutely crazy. It's been it's been. I would say people's been really difficult for them and on my mind. It's like the thing that's been on. My mind is that it's been been a year. Get to learn who. I am and of discovery and i will have regrets about this year. Have to say retook. Bit more about that i. I think it's nice to have been connected again. And through social media and linked in. And i saw a fred and you asked about thing in we being touch since then and i will start out doing a search on you because you are really on on web web web as your wrote the book combat the crack. I got plenty of results on your name. Tamar weinberg it was about hundred six thousand and i one hundred six thousand comer. Your namias tamar weinberg. I think it's pretty. Maybe maybe maybe out there for me it. Seven hundred fifteen thousand. But if i go to any page beyond like paycheck five. It's probably not that. Let's go to pitch ten pounds. Still okay to enough so But i will not some some older questions about the future. Though your site link dean twitter your books and take. Up your site and amazon. And then of course the book social web marketing land angel list riley about the media. And that's what. I promise. I'd get on the first page of google. You have any mental. And i don't i don't i'm looking. I do go to page fourteen or so. Nobody will there. There's one one entry that refers to me in a bunch of other ones on the first. Yeah all those are accurate. Though the first pages all accurate sounds great and students talked about what you said about what you. What's on your mind and out to find yourself so to speak and develop a new thing and be very open and transparent the night. I like your comments and reflections and especially when linked in because i have my folsom about lincoln. I like it as a platform. But i have some issues. We details lulu probably comeback combat on how to build your own hub the vanessa to the privacy indian duck duck go. I found similar results. But also some new on flicker i had to. I still have an account for about off to joe who took took it over bought it. I haven't been so active. Yep and then i went..

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MK Yifat Shasha-Biton, first Likud lawmaker to defect to New Hope

The Promised Podcast

06:03 min | 4 months ago

MK Yifat Shasha-Biton, first Likud lawmaker to defect to New Hope

"First we have a matter that we're following with alert interest. Great concern is part of an occasional series. We call the premise. Podcast ponders the politics of pentameter and the use of the bard to advance a canard last week. The chair of the knesset corona virus committee. He fought shasha beaten announced that she was leaving the likud to join the new right-wing. Hope party where she would become. Don't sars number to an announcement that right away added five seats to the tally. New hope was showing in early polls. Shasha beaten is a popular politician. Mostly because as the head of the corona committee she overturned government decisions to close pools and gyms and stores in schools and even though her decisions were themselves overturned right back again by the government people came to see her as a straight shooter and someone fighting for the people trying to get to work and pay their bills and maybe grab a little exercise if they can. And who doesn't like a truth to power rebel. Also most everything about josh abi tone is wonderful. She grew up in the development town of kiryat shmona the daughter of a nurse from morocco and moshe feed a guy born in iraq who built up a bus company. She had a phd before she was thirty was deputy mayor of kyoto before he was thirty five and was a college vice president forty. It's partly because shasha tone has so much going on that folks and the likud were furious mad when she announced that she was switching parties and they insisted that she resigned right away. Shasha beaten refused on the grounds that she had been elected in this term and she would serve out. There are practical issues in play each sitting. Mk gets government allocated campaign funds when they run for the successive knesset. So if on stays and she'll have one point seven million shekels to use for new hopes campaign but if she quits now she'll be replaced and some other likud member. We'll get that cash lee cooed transportation minister miri regev tweeted quote. You've thought shasha beaten if you have a drop of integrity left resign. Immediately from connecticut and return the mandate to the national camp which you took for a ride for your own benefit a disgrace and when shasha baton refused the likud petitions something called the knesset house committee basically a rules and procedures committee to declare shasha beaten a quote unquote deserter which status would allow them to strip her of her likud campaign funding at the very least anyway. The committee met a few days ago. And because by then blue and was on the outs with the likud they supported chechen tone and she remains in the knesset with her one point seven million shekels in election funding which is when this happened. Uzi they on a likud. Backbencher angry by the outcome of the committee meeting convinced that chechen beaten had not gotten the come up and she deserves asked to be recognized by the chair leaned into the microphone and said quote. I would like to give some free literary advice to get on the of shasha zones new party that it was for matters such as these that shakespeare wrote in fellow i believe and then diane went onto quote not on alternate translation. I think of rabbani ios warning at the end of act one in fellow look to her more if thou has is to see. She has deceived her father. And may the shot a mile invoked up via gumbo which couplet was met by pandemonium in the committee with shasha be tone saying the volume clement. Actually came on the la. I have heard low things. But i must say that. I have never heard things as low as this. At this point mikhail cutler launch a religious blue and white. Mk screened uzi. Why are you referring to shakespeare. Why not refer to the woman who strays and you'll at least be using our own sources. The woman who strays as a reference to the book of numbers by bar chapter five verses twelve through sixteen about what to do with a wife who acts on faithfully to which topic an entire track date of the tomlin. My second sota is devoted later. Uzi dayan said quote. Someone wrote me and said on your life man. What a sexist remark. if that's how it was perceived. I really apologize and quote. And i know what you're thinking. That's a lousy apology. If that's how it was perceived blah blah blah blah blah. But i'd like to think the best of who was married to my favorite zoologist environmentalists tamar. Diane i adore her and she's lately been. The person who by force of character and charm willed into existence. The amazing new natural history museum at tel aviv university which is among other things. A brilliant polemic for sustainability and there ain't no one more feminists then tomorrow diane uzi on also mostly diane's nephew and yours on geffen's cousin so there's that he thought shasha zone for her part. Classically accepted the apology. And the matter seem to be over but all week. I've been thinking that there was an opportunity. Missed here and i can't get it out of my mind. Would it have hurt chubby tone to respond rather than with. I have never heard things as low as this. By saying with catherine from the taming of the shrew my tongue will tell the anger of my heart or else my heart concealing it will break. Would it have hurt. Shasha beaten to insist with don john and much ado about nothing. Let me be that. I am and seek not to alter me. Would it have hurt. Shasha be tone to say with polonius in hamlet this above all to be true and it must follow as the night the day thou cancer not be false to any man. Am i asking too much from shasha tone. I think not because truly. Now is the winter of our discontent. Elections are nine but a week and a day after the ides of march. But i'll stop. I'll stop because who knows better than me. That truly brevity is the soul of wit and that this is a tale told by an idiot full of sound and fury signifying nothing. This is how safe. Because i am that idiot today.

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Christmas Eve concert held in Paris' fire-wrecked Notre Dame

Houston Public Media Local Newscasts

00:21 sec | 5 months ago

Christmas Eve concert held in Paris' fire-wrecked Notre Dame

"At notre dame cathedral in paris tamar christmas eve for the first time since the landmark was nearly destroyed in a fire in april of two thousand nineteen. The gothic cathedrals being rebuilt. The concert was recorded earlier this month and broadcast just before midnight last night. The singers were hard. Hats and protective suits. There was no audience. I'm

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Matt Stinchcomb on Auburn game

The Paul Finebaum Show

01:45 min | 7 months ago

Matt Stinchcomb on Auburn game

"Matched joining us on the call Tamar for Kentucky and Missouri. Couple of quick questions before you go. Auburn playing a really important game tomorrow at Ole Miss Important because you know the partly because of the Kentucky loss but it it excuse me the south. Carolina. Loss. But. It just seemed like there are so many issues on that team right now and the most Mo we hear often about the quarterback situation, but you understand has an alignment it's not just a quarterback. What else do you see going wrong at Auburn? So much. It's easy to point to that, and obviously this is a complimentary sport I. Think the emergence of Tank Biggs B. is going to help I think the potential of getting sean shy back at the running back position also veteran presence guy that gives you some movement elusive play in space that will help on the ground game. It takes the pressure off of Bo Knicks because ultimately, it can't be all on his shoulders now granted there hasn't been great decision making and this is a football team could easily be winless right now we're not for some for tourist bounces and that's nothing speak towards the defensive. Side of the football where we knew there was going to be some deficiencies relative to the level of play that they got defensively along their front. You don't just play another Derrick Brown and Marlon Davidson in there but now you're down a cage a Brit in the middle of that defense all of that impacts our overall play I'll be very curious to see if ole miss gets going early in this game that amount of pressure the scoreboard itself they can apply on the Auburn offense more. So the score board board then the onus defense I think impact the level of play the get out of that. Tiger. Oh.

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How To Have Difficult Conversations

The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast

06:14 min | 8 months ago

How To Have Difficult Conversations

"So. You're sitting in a movie theater. This is a little scenario, the people sitting behind you or yacking it up i. want you to answer this. Honestly, what would you really do say excuse me could you please stop? You would would. Before Anybody here would smolder and say nothing you say nothing I'd probably tough it out you tough it out. Yeah. Okay. Who would turn around and give a dirty look Boy Bold with silent. Okay, here's another question you want to invite friends over for dinner. They asked if they can bring their kids along. And you really want this to be adults only and they have your you laughing because you've done that. They're right there. How did tell this frontier? Stand up over their. Had to visit a New Year's Eve dinner party. and. had to tell this friend right here. Okay. That her three toddler boys could join us. Because that's exactly what I was going to say three toddler boys angels. But we're we're very dear friends. So we can say that she can say, oh no, no, no. I don't I don't think I have a babysitter the twelve hour should I bring my kids and put him in the basement or just not? But let me help you find a babysitter. Very good. I think she's bringing her three kids. Chicago she calls you and what do I do, and this is the first heard about. It's adult evening my husband will die if you bring your three kids. So it took you twenty four hours to get the courage. To tell him okay how many of you would cave in and say, of course, bring them along? Three toddler boys your New Year's Eve Party? Yeah. One more thing we were all spending a fortune because we're having lobsters that we'd had phone in and we had waiters there and everyone else had babysitters because there would have been hundred kids if everyone wanted one of their kids they're. Also just kind of started. Was this big a deal. I even really heard about it. Through the common out there like Oh my gosh. I still don't have or what am I going to do was more like a conversation. I have a lot of options still going I was just kinda throwing it out I never really envisioned bringing my kids there. And I never ever done that never. A pattern of this. Okay. Now. What these scenarios show us is how a lot of people you were just saying how a lot of people she would have. Let the children come. You're saying, took you twenty four hours to get up the courage to say don't bring your kids So she didn't know it was that big a deal. She didn't know that taking you twenty four hours to figure out how to say it. And you had a babysitter. Okay. So what we're talking about is how we attend to avoid confrontation, they can range from big things like saying I want a divorce. It might be tough. Anybody had to do that. Yes. Ma'am was that tough? Yes. It was a little hard to do how long did you think about how you were GonNa say it. Probably three months three months, three months. So those are those are tough issues with met that. So today we're GONNA learn how specifically to stop avoiding and how to have some of those difficult conversations because I know for a lot of you. It's like me you don't. You don't know the words to say you don't know how to even begin to say it this is. Jan Farris and she's a psychologist who works with women who have an illness I had this illness at one time I the disease to please it really is like a sickness. I don't think it's in our genes, but I think it's the way women have been raised in this country to be pleasers the major symptom it's often incredibly difficult even painful to say the word know. How many of you have that as an issue women? Really. Oh, really some of you too old to have this disease. It's still hard for me sometimes, but it's gotten a lot better. But we're GonNa talk about difficult conversations. I know for the past ten years. Jan. Farris has led countless workshops just like this on the goal to teach women to speak up for themselves especially when the conversation gets tough. Basically, a difficult conversation is any conversation that you don't want to have you feel anxious about having and that you really sort of avoided. But thirty two year old lorry that needs any conversation where she might have to say. No. What's really difficult for me is to say no. I don't have time to do that. I can't do that assertiveness tends to be more of a problem for women than men, and that's because of the way we're socialized brought up to be sweet to help learn to just to say, no suggests role playing. Can you made me said my son. Tamar. Can you watch my son tonight? No. Tonight. No when you asked me to watch your son. I feel stressed and I need time to myself. Great I was great. It was very good. Catherine Dang's problem is also typical. She can't express anger I have a problem of expressing how I feel. Just watch how difficult Catherine find her session. She plays a patient with an unhelpful doctor. Dr Me It's okay. What's the emotion I feel Angry. I feel. Angry and I want you to take me seriously. After several hours of hard work, Catherine and Laurie are starting to speak out and Jan says, they've learned the most important lesson about difficult conversations world fall apart if you're really honest with your feelings and you put a boundary up with your feeling.

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"tamar" Discussed on Sister Love

Sister Love

08:19 min | 10 months ago

"tamar" Discussed on Sister Love

"You know the damage inside of Reality Television, right? So here's the thing you know. So at one of the things I wanNA, stay. So Real important. They made it very clear in the Braxton series that these five girls plus they have a brother who was not a part of the series. I think he cam yelled once in their dad who was divorced from the mom for many years in the girls held so much resentment for the towards their father because he cheated on carried right and a for years, and also the resentment was passed was really the mothers resentment. She had a great deal that resentment. So you know all. The dynamics in the relationship between the sisters they played out all on air and you everyone could see an taymor being the youngest at forty three now. But the youngest of those five sisters and you know of the family demanded more attention than anybody else that was in the show. You know I'm not saying getting somebody actually said he on one of the one of the episodes I watched I think it mapping the father said you know Thomas always had to fight for attention he's just. Had to you know had to fight to be heard and I think. Wow, well now. But yeah up until what eight because I think when she realized what worked for her to get attention she got stuck on that channel. You know what I'm saying even as an adult, she never turned to channel. So probably by the time of seventy, eight years old, she found figured out, you know what? I'm not fighting with this girl I know how to get attention. She learned a behavior that got her. Exactly the voice that you know she tapped into in in, you know at one for her I don't think it ever changed and that is who we see today right yet. Now, the of them want to say remember that these kids these girls are PK's are preachers kids because their dad was a minister and had a church and that was the also few the resentment but these girls and they sang in a church beautiful voices, beautiful harmony and You know all taught by the mothers and. and very they have. a relationship or spiritual relationship is grounded in Christianity. So I thought it was interesting. I did a little research and that did you know that there are two tamers in the Bible? That's rise to biblical. I is sold that in some research was doing. Yeah. So in Genesis Taymor was the daughter daughter-in-law Judah who married error who's fourth son and who was evil in this era was evil inside lords of Lord took his life and made the Lord May Taymor a widow and then in the in Samuel this second same Taymor of the Old Testament. She was a beautiful woman daughter of David in the sister of APP Salaam but who was raped by Absalon half-brother Amman. And Mom went on to treat Tamar like she was used in unwanted outcasts. And in this was something that she carried a burden for the rest of her life. So I thought that was many interesting. Now, the meaning of these two stories. They both deal with spiritual blindness of the father figures and spiritual corruption immoral failure of a younger man. They also reveal injustices towards the women. And And you know and but God's grace was displayed to those who were willing to confess and repent from them since since I thought that was interesting research for someone name. Tae Mar. in that's in the Bible of Biblical sense since she has a strong Christianity you know and they all they all do bound the reason why I said that because Christians people who are strong in the Christian faith no that commit suicide is a sent. You cannot. It doesn't make sense. So I'm saying, I'm raising the flag of of question ability that there was any truth to the allegation rumored are rumored suicide tip. A doesn't make sense. It doesn't make sense I mean I okay. So I listened to the nine one one call that was released. And if you listen to David, who's her current partner when he makes at nine memorial There is no sense of urgency in his voice. There is no. There is not sense. The I mean you imagine if you're calling you you you've come come home. You've found chill pot not I'm responsive. You would be in some state of. Panic. Not, let, your totally out of Control but you would hear something in the voice that sounds a bit panicky right here like I'll just what do I do all? What do I need to do to? What can I do till the paramedics get here he was very, very calm and collected and I thought. Oh. I don't know about this. This is really interesting because. I just imagine that somebody would be a little bit more heightened. Yeah. So there was a a very calmness but also with in that nine Mahmoud Cool, what he does is. He mentions a suicide note and that he's the television network that she's been at war with. Right. Right. So you know. What's interesting? So okay, we'll. We'll. We'll finish because I WANNA go back to this this whole issue about the the networks. Okay. Did you want to add to David's comments. Now that you know I just found your really bizarre. Why would you be telling the nine mom respondents? What's in the suicide note what that that's not what you should be discussing with a non moist wandered. Wait a minute nicely to saying so. He he? Claimed that there was a suicide note. And he said and I said, I think never questioning like what's happened you know Oh, I think he's taken some. You know he had some drink and you know taking some prescription pills. Okay. So now if he mentioned, did say there is a suicide note any read what was in it And he was revealing pulse of the notes. Okay. which doesn't make sense because you're right if you call nine one one and because somebody's non responded and you're concerned. You're. Not GonNA start saying. into the details because other than you know it's being recorded. Absolutely, so why would you throw out the things that doesn't matter what matters is Oh my God I looked like these pills here are there's alcohol. What's wrong with her please get here. Quick. You not going to say, Oh, she committed suicide or she tried to. Write to me something very fishy about it. And what's also interesting just want this little sidebar in and is so our attempted suicide was on July the seventeenth I believe on. July the nine teen. A trailer was released for her new reality show that he's doing with him called Taymor, get your life. Right. Okay. So. I don't WANNA lose my thought about the suicide attempt in the note stop in actually I have damaged. It little combined..

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Between Renting and Buying, Unagi Offers Personal Scooters With a Subscription

Talking Tech

07:24 min | 10 months ago

Between Renting and Buying, Unagi Offers Personal Scooters With a Subscription

"These scooters. There are many of them out there. But how many of them can you subscribe to? David Hyman has a company called. And he is offering read full not reynolds but subscription. To instead of paying a thousand dollars for a new scooter David wants to tell you all about subscription. Hi David. How's it going tests you same here or tell everybody what you got. Sure. So We started Nadi about two and a half years ago. Because we felt that there was a market in this game from my own personal experience of people want to own scooters have one in their possession. It's up, rent them on the street and I got frustrated with ridesharing scooters both. From kind of a at Adnan experience, where wrote a lime scooter to a whole foods and I came out with my groceries and? was. Gone because somebody took it wrote away back and I had just bought inexpensive pint of ice cream and I ended up walking home with melted ice cream. And I thought why don't I just own one of these things like Not, not to mention the urban blight, right that the separate conversation I know you're down in. Southern California people can't hit three steps in tripping over one, right so. I just like the ownership model all. and. So we launched to ninety two years ago. Our hunch was correct. We we were selling hundreds a month, and since covid has hit, we are now showing thousands of. With folks s by coming on board to carry our scooter and new Europe Europe photographer being H Photo Outta Rama. Now Sell our scooter. Are Scooters it's the best electric. Scooter. Poured. Electric Scooter you can own this. Don't just take my word for it There's over a hundred reviews online that states the best electric scooter you could have, but it's a thousand dollars and not everyone can afford that. So we've been asking yourself, how have we reach abroad her audience? And so What is this? When is this going? Live this life when you want it to go live? So. So Logging all access is our new subscription service. It is thirty nine dollars a month. No commitment. There's a one time fifty dollars setup fee. And that's it. We bring it to Your Place Felice ambled. It's dropped off by an inaugural represented if You don't have to assemble it. Don't have to deal with the box and whenever you're done with it, we come and pick it up. But. We think that. Indian. That's New York because of the tour. Angeles in New York, city is where we're launching. Correct. If anything ever goes wrong with the scooter we at your door and under twenty four and we just hot swap another one. So you know skewed downtime. And Insurance is included. So, if anything goes wrong with the scooter, if it's stolen or any form of damage. There's an eighty, five dollar deductible. Now you said you started the company based on melted ice cream. So what happens when you ride your scooter to whole foods and walkout in walk into the store to get the Ice Cream? What do you do with your scooter that you are now subscribing to? So you can either lock it like a bicycle regular you locked works. Scooter so light I throw it in my shopping cart. That's what I did. I mean, it is. It's twenty six pounds. It's the kind of thing that you can bring it any cafe or restaurant. You know we we sell thousands a month, the normal use case with our scooters that. You take it. Everywhere you go and we really designed for portability. Normal. Users under not. Ride to. Our or a subway can take it on the subway and then pop out and take it with them. It takes up no footprint on the subway. It's got one plate folding mechanism only weighs twenty six pounds and it's you know how to arrange and it's electric. So it moves along. Nineteen miles an hour. I mean, you know it's gone incredible amount of torque because it's dual motor see can go fairly steep hills with it. And where do you make them? We make them in Shenzhen. Okay. Everything else okay. Correct. But we are in American company eight I'm proud to say, I, think out of every electric scooter company than. Scooters were the only American based electric, Scooter Company. And our customer services you incredible. So we treated like Patagonia were the only electric company that has a phone number. You can call people pick up the phone and talk to you. Now is the reason that sales went up the delete because of the maybe a lot of people don't want to take the bus and be around people and things like that. Yeah, I mean there's been this kind of seismic shift towards quota. Personal transportation people not wanting to get on public transportation, not get on ride shares, not getting share googlers, shared lifts, and so there's a real need right now you know there's especially you know New York skiers are becoming legal on Sunday. There there's you know we went volt markets to start because we couldn't choose between the two. La Is. The scooter epicenter of the planet. But L. New York's got a real need right now. So we decided to launch in. Baltimore. So. Anybody listening. We're now in the middle, the MO, the middle of summer. So when do you expect to start hitting Chicago in Boston and San Francisco and some of the other major markets? I. I'm not going to throw any any M. Any dates but those cities are are the first ones on our list. Okay. But certainly, they wanted to spend a thousand dollars you could buy you could buy one Tamar. Absolutely and you can't finance it on our website is well. But put thirty nine dollars a month into perspective. That's that's a dollar forty a day. New York subway ride today's three dollars and fifty cents for one Ri-. A rideshare scooter from lime were bird is about five bucks. So. Five dollars a ride. For. Daily commuter there's been two hundred dollars a month for grossly inferior product that half the time the batteries are dead or they're broken when you go to them not to mention the issues but share right now so. And it's yours and it's your germs and not somebody else's your germs and keep the streets clean et keeps your neighborhood looking good and it's no different for your city than owning a bicycle and you get a little bit of

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The New Tech Driven Home Healthcare with Rachel Munsie

Outcomes Rocket

05:54 min | 10 months ago

The New Tech Driven Home Healthcare with Rachel Munsie

"More. Welcome back to the outcomes. Rockets saw Marquez's here and today I have the privilege of hosting. Rachel Muncie she's on the founding team of tomorrow health, a technology driven home healthcare company changing the way individuals and families manage their care. She leads business development focusing on partnerships and sales strategic marketing initiatives, and new market expansion. She was formerly in healthcare investing, just working to unpack the US healthcare system and understand how we can treat. Treat better incentives through innovation policy and Advocacy Rachel received her bachelor's degree from Georgetown University and attended Mit for her MBA. Before leaving to build tomorrow health, you know the M E, durable medical equipment field definitely is a need for innovation and the work that Rachel and the team at Tamar Health doing is super unique and I'm excited to be covering that with you Rachel today and then. So I wanna give you a warm. Welcome. Welcome thanks for joining us. Thank you so much solve. Really appreciate it, and thanks for having me absolutely. So before we dive into tomorrow health and you know what makes you guys so unique and different in that space I love to hear more about you Rachel and what inspires your work in healthcare. Absolutely. So I am most inspired about solving the problems of healthcare and really the ones that we've all faced. So we spend more. More on healthcare in the US than any other country in the world. But our outcomes are worse and everyone understands what this means on level. I personally once racked up a bill equal to my rent payment during one doctor's appointment because even though I knew I'd have a high deductible plan and even though I knew I'd hardly spent anything against it. I, mean, I work in healthcare I throughout all of practical knowledge because I. I was anxious and nervous, and in a vulnerable situation. I think when you're sitting in a doctor's office or hospital, you rarely compare prices or shop smartly and most people don't even know that you can do that. So most of the time we do things because we're scared or rethink what choice do I really have my health is at stake and I think sometimes the prices in our system take advantage of that. So took me. Me a while to internalize I. Think most people don't realize is that we all pay the price for our broken health care system whether we know it or not. So either through lower take home wages or higher premiums or higher deductibles or even higher taxes and I actually still have those outrageous bills sitting on my kitchen table as reminder to myself that these costs aren't normal and i. think we deserve better and so since digging. Digging into this industry I as an investor, and now as an operator, I'm just constantly floored by the unnecessary complexity that I found in every corner of the go system and no one understands any of it. I. Think People Inside the industry barely do ominous the result of some wacky incentives that run. Ima- and not always a bad intentions. But this is exactly how that knowledge between industries, stakeholders and patience and the broader general public. Public just become so massive, and so when it came to my decision to help found tomorrow hull, it's not an exhaustive solution by one clear trend with pasta impact on all of these stakeholders is the shifting of more care to the home, which is higher quality, and as we know much lower cost of care setting. Yeah. You know you call out a lot of issues that were faced with I think every one of us. You're listening to this podcast today. You're thinking Yup I've been screwed with a big medical bill or and if you haven't which I'm sure you have if the very small chance that you haven't I'm sure somebody in your family are a close friend has dealt with it and I think it's great that you keep that bill on your kitchen counter Rachel, just as a reminder, right of the why behind why we're doing what we do and? Yeah. Care in the home is becoming that much more important with Kobe among us. So reimagining that healthcare is critical as you guys like to coin it. So talk to us about the work at tomorrow health and what exactly you guys are doing to add value to the healthcare ecosystem. Yeah. So at tomorrow health, we are a technology driven home healthcare company, and we are a full stack provider of healthcare, and we're a trusted partner that you can depend on to coordinate and deliver specifically home medical equipment supplies and support all in the. The comfort of your own home, which as you mentioned, all in covid world is extremely important and our big focus envision is on restoring home as the focal point for healthcare delivery and the Genesis of tomorrow health was personal for us, our Co founder and CEO Bj Qatar was working at Oscar. So He's well-versed in the complexity of healthcare and his mom was diagnosed with stage, three cancer, and she needed about a year of intensive home healthcare. Luckily, she's now doing much better, but he was responsible for coordinating. So much of that. That he and his family had to work with over a dozen, different providers would coming out of her home to get what she needed, and after about a month when she was discharged from the hospital, she ended up having to go back three times in her first one pound because of delays or equipment failures relating to her oxygen therapy, and so for patients, and also their families who are usually playing the role of caregivers edition be this hard, and then from a systems perspective whilst does the whole matter and you know by. By dramatically reducing our dependence on hospitals on ers on post acute care sites were able to get high quality care at home and also bend the cost curve in healthcare system. So by working with tomorrow health, we think it makes it easier to shift that care to the home because one of the legs of the stool for homebase healthcare are these hall medical equipment supplies and support

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WEtv to honor Tamar Braxton's request to end future work

AP News Radio

00:49 sec | 10 months ago

WEtv to honor Tamar Braxton's request to end future work

"Hi reality Mike Crossey TV a star reporting has gotten three out sight of doing seeing more balloons work crash with the network in Wyoming that put her on the authorities air in Wyoming Tamara say three Braxton sight is asked seeing balloons out and crashed now we Monday TV in separate incidents has agreed near Jackson to her request Hole injuring that they no as many longer as twenty work people together at her least reality one person series was Tamara flown to Braxton a hospital get in your Idaho life falls was supposed Idaho for to premiere treatment last week Teton county but it sheriff has been Matt postponed Kerr said now to whether September apparently the tenth was a factor this all comes and a few the weeks exact after cause Braxton of the suffered crash is an was undisclosed under investigation medical emergency the balloons at are her all downtown owned Los by tour Angeles operator home Wyoming before balloon that she company had complained on social hi Mike media Rossio that her career demands on that show work quote excessive and unfair we TV says it will go forward with releasing a series but in a statement it says that it wishes Braxton nothing but the best and she focuses on her health and recovery I'm Oscar wells Gabriel

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Beyonce Drops Black Is King Visual Album

Daily Pop

02:58 min | 10 months ago

Beyonce Drops Black Is King Visual Album

"Beyond just blew our minds once again, her new visual album black is king just came out on Disney plus and everything more. You guys the movie tells the story of a young king in search of his crown take a look. Breathtaking backdrops to powerful performances. Fiance stunning celebration of African. Tradition and beauty has old business shortage of famous faces but it's the Kata kids who really stole the show. That is creepy. Even dedicated the Labor of love to his son Sir and to all the sons and daughters who she calls the keys to the kingdom. And closed it out with a moving performance that you won't forget anytime soon. If the academy does not recognize this I'm making a promise here on air? I will bubble wrap beyond say Her in a damn box and ship purtzer France with were, they will recognize her greatness. Okay because we do not deserve her. was unbelievable the visuals to the costuming to the story all of it came together. It was so impactful and I honestly believe that went beyond say put this out. She honestly was like I'm going to show them because I was snubbed for that. Oscar last year homecoming didn't get the recognition and deserve. So I'm gonNA come back with something bigger something batter and make it more global. This is crazy. This is. Real Yeah Scott. What did you think about it? I've never seen so many different shots. So many different locations I'm GonNa back you up Justin one hundred percent this Oscar worthy. Yes. Coming out on the streaming service but if there's ever a time and a year to give an Oscar for something, it's releasing a streaming on Oldfield's right now big released on streaming services. So this is Time to Sean thought it was ridiculous on this. I would love to get the data from old tattoo on us around the world and the next three months. See How many lyrics? Bodies. That is a good point I mean to be completely honest with both of you unhappy happy. I made the show because I made the mistake of starting to watch it before I had to get ready I literally just kept extending the time and I still have forty five minutes to get through. It just has you hooked I. mean the Color Schemes, the costumes as you said Justin I mean that's just fall of it was just so mind blowing and one thing that I was really surprised by she shows so much of her family and when Jay Rolls Up, I couldn't Jay rolled up when. I can't I need a minute

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"tamar" Discussed on The Toxin Terminator

The Toxin Terminator

04:25 min | 11 months ago

"tamar" Discussed on The Toxin Terminator

"There's Times where I had to stop right in and go see my counselor and discuss it, but it's also been very healing because it stuff that I never discussed with anybody else, and there was I my parents both read the book and less than two days, which is unheard of for them. My Mom's like well. I'll try and get it done in two weeks and I'll let you know. She said she couldn't put it down. Now granted she's in shock and she said I. Just want to give you a spanking or ground. And but I'm glad you're not dead. So. And, my dad, who I have been forever, wanting his praise I've always gotten his praise. He's always supported me, but I never saw it. You know. I wanted more if he said great job, I wanted him to say you did a phenomenal job, right? Nothing was ever good enough for me, and so he even came and said wow, you shared this in such an open vulnerable way like I can hear you in the book and that meant a lot because I think now I've achieved what I've set out to accomplish and. And that is just to be me and be real and raw and open, and I really hope that anybody who's suffering from addiction issues of any type whether it's co dependency. It's you know you're in a toxic relationship you have you know alcohol? Drug issues pills like it comes in so many forms like we talk about. I want people to know that they're not alone and I hope that my book kind of takes them to that new level where they think you know what I can change and this is possible. I love that, so let's talk about. Number One. How can people get a hold of your book because it's launching tomorrow, so let's tell them how they can. Do you have a site setup that they can gall be part of the when it goes live, it can be the first ones to know. So if you. Friend me on Facebook, which is Tamar Medford, Med F. O. R. D.. I actually have an event page where you can sign up for that, and you can join happy if you email me or instant message me I can send that link to you as well. It's going to be going live. Seven am on July fourteenth, which is tomorrow. It's so exciting. It's also my dad's birthday by the way, so it's kind of a special day. I'll be with him all day tomorrow. Go to Amazon, DOT, com or Amazon DOT CA. We'll make sure we put a link on that events page so that you can see. AL also have that on my personal page. Okay tomorrow is t. a. m., a. r., then Medford Any D. F. O. R. D. SA-. Best Place is facebook if I'm not on Facebook, are you going to have it at your website? Yes I will add it to my website for sure, so you can get the details. I'll put the links on the website at that is going to be www dot. The road to health dot me. Okay in an. Guys? All these links in the show now, so look at the bottom of the show notes here in. We will make sure that all those. Two different ways of getting a hold of Tamar because the road to hell is also a way. You can work with Tamar Story. To you and and you resonate with her WanNa work with her. Please make sure you go to the road to health yet with her. Get connected because this is what she's passionate about doing helping. Let's the change that mindset. Let's shift less make some small simple chefs that we can do every single day to make huge impacts in our overall life Tamar. Is there anything that you really feel on your heart that you want to share out first of all? Before because I'm GONNA. Give you the last word I. Want to congratulate you on your book. Thank you for being vulnerable. Thank you for being open. I know it wasn't easy, and your book is going to be awesome, and it's going to touch so many lives so congratulations on that. Thank you and I just want to say to anybody that's out there struggling and they really don't think they can change their lives. It really is possible and I think you and I are. Amazing examples of that and there's so many people I know in my life now that you would have never guessed that they struggled with the issues. They did and don't be afraid to talk about it. Because when you share your story, you never know who you're.

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"tamar" Discussed on The Toxin Terminator

The Toxin Terminator

07:05 min | 11 months ago

"tamar" Discussed on The Toxin Terminator

"It is God, but it doesn't have to be you know I remember getting sober. The women in the group, because I I had to go to women's meetings. You know best thing that ever happened to me. Because those women were my higher power into I could develop a relationship with God. Those women love to me until I could love myself and they walked me through so many things in sobriety. I had more happened to me in sobriety than I ever did when I was drinking. It's crazy. because. Life doesn't end. No, it doesn't I had the same thing. I mean I think you know you like surrounding yourself with like minded people and especially people who can understand and I think that's why it's so important for people to share their stories is it gives other people hope you know and I remember thinking I can't do this. Who am I to not drink because I didn't even have a child because I didn't think that I could stop drinking for nine months I'm like well. It's nine months. Forget that that time it is I couldn't even fathom that and the same thing when I got sober. I'm like. Every at every day for the rest of my life I'm like doing the math I'm like it's three hundred and sixty five days a year but I think it's important to just one day at a time. You just work on this today's Today's now. We can't control the past right. It's done the future. What's going to happen happens you know if. If we plan, and we do the right things today. Most likely the right things going to happen tomorrow but I think hanging out with people and surrounding yourself with people who want the same things you do. And I learnt that very learned that the hard way in my first year of sobriety because I was newly single and I was like okay I'm. I'm enough fun. I'm going to date. I'm going to hang out with these people who are going to beach parties every day. So I was doing the same thing my first year. Really I started smoking again and I'm like I now I'm free. I have a good time I actually have money to go. Buy something other than French fries and chicken strips at a restaurant. I can maybe get the past or a steak, but I had to learn the hard way in my first sponsor was like you know what you need to start surrounding yourself with people who have what you want and that's when a lot of things started to change because I like Oh. That behavior is not appropriate anymore so. Dinning how? As a hard lesson, and that's the thing to just like just because there's a church doesn't mean that everybody that sitting in those pews are healthy, and you know in a good spot. We're all children of God. We all have our things in life and and we're. There were periods where my mindset was horrible. You know and and there's there's some pretty sick one sitting around some of those tables to. You know that's where you need good sponsorship. You need good friends that are going to pull you in and love you so that you don't get taken advantage. I was a young woman trusts may what's going on there you know? And I got taken under the wings of people who have been there done that had had the life that I wanted right. And that's that's the big thing I think even even taking addiction and sobriety out of it, you know. In anything you want in life, go find that person who's doing what it is that you want to do and just immerse yourself in them and finding out everything that you can write. And I'm. Grateful that I found you know all these groups masterminds like a lot of the people that I talk regularly to now are actually all over the world, and it's so cool being able to tell someone you know on the East Coast Hey. Do you want to jump on the Chad Zoom? Chat let's talk and it's like you've known each other forever, but it's I find. That's a good way to get yourself out of that self pity. Pity mode as well is call up somebody who's doing what you WanNa do and talk about it, okay. What's your goals and stuff like that? And what a difference in your mood like when I get off these kinds of calls and it's similar to when you go to a meeting, you hear this hope you hear this message, and it fills your cup up again, and you're like almost reenergized and ready to take on the day. The gift of community is just it's. It's awesome. Right so talk to us. You've got this book that you've written. And I have been blessed to be able to read it before it comes out. And it's so so good, and I'm still not through with it that I will be here within the next two days. Talas! What why? You wrote the Book Tullus? What you hope people will gain from it. So probably five years ago, I thought about writing a book, but I was horrible in school and now I realize I wasn't horrible, because I wasn't academically smart. I was horrible because all I wanted to do. Is Party right and I really didn't care about passing English twelve English twelve teacher actually put my exam down and said. If you don't pass this exam in your in my class again next year, I will make your life a living hell, so that kind of set the. The tone for me thinking I wasn't smart enough to do something like this. But over the last few years I've really come to realize that my past is a gift, and if I share my story in a vulnerable way, then people will start to be able to relate and I've noticed that when I, I am in groups, and I discussed things are I share little bits of me, or what's going on I didn't really dive deep enough. It would just be that surface stuff. Stuff you know it's like okay. This is what's going on with me and I really WanNa get vulnerable today, so I'm going to do this this and this and this is very methodical. And somebody called me out on a few months ago and said Tamar you gotta be more vulnerable like the story about the French fries, and the you know the the microwave popcorn. That's the stuff you really. You have to share so that it gets through to your audience and I always wanted. Wanted to help people that's been a strong desire for me, but I thought okay. What happens if I write out the story? And so I joined the book group that we're both part of and I thought okay. I'm going to make this happen like this is a dream of mine. And I realized that that was going to be the way that I could reach more of an audience and it was a really tough process like it was diving into those things like I, said. Buried away and forgotten about it. It was scary and there's Times where I had to stop right in and go see my counselor and discuss it, but it's also been very healing because it stuff that I never discussed with anybody else, and there was.

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"tamar" Discussed on The Toxin Terminator

The Toxin Terminator

07:53 min | 11 months ago

"tamar" Discussed on The Toxin Terminator

"Please welcome your host the toxin. Terminator Herself Amy Carlson. Welcome back to the show. I'm so glad you guys are all here today with me I have got my good friend Tamar Med verge. She is a personal life coach. She is fellow podcast host of the road to hell. She is a champion for those who are suffering from addiction and boy. Are we GONNA get into that one? She had her own twenty year battle with addiction and obesity, and in two thousand twelve. She went into recovery now. She is super passionate is her Kirpa says her her reason for being here. The she was created is to empower others to believe in their positive transformation and I believe that that's why. Why God on how to go through what she did, she wrote a book. It is called. Hope elevated how to accept your past gain clarity and develop a healthy mindset. We're talk more about that today. We're to learn what is addiction were talk about the different types of the diction that are out there? We are going to get into how being an addict as acts actually a blessing in our lives. We're GONNA. Talk about what it was like what happened and what? It's like now and tell you how to be part of the book launch for a hope elevated tomorrow. Thanks for coming on the show. Thank you for having me. So excited to have you here. This is a side. I know your the gas that aside that most people don't know about the toxin, Terminator. Aside I don't have out there in the public persona, so we're GONNA. GET PRETTY RAW, vulnerable I think for you as well is this? You wrote the book honey you're GONNA be. Loud and clear that. Yes. Very. Scary, but very healing experience I think it was something that needed to be done, and I think know too often. We don't think about our past experiences as being a gift in the future so absolutely and you know we know being where we're at that. You know people need to hear. They need to hear. From from US and what we've been through, so talk to me about you know I don't want to dive into all the nitty gritty about you know. Everybody kind of knows what? What? Addiction is like the really horrific side of it that let's talk about how do. We become addicts. You know there's there's I think there's a lot a lot of fallacy behind the high neck. I truly believe that we're born with addictive jeans. It runs in my family. My parents are not affected by it, but for myself personally I had a really fantastic upbringing. You know loving family. We did move around a lot so I think that contributed to my self esteem issues a little bit, but there was nothing that triggered me to become an addict and I know a lot of people have this belief that you have to have a horrific upbringing. Upbringing although that's the reality with a lot of people in addiction, that's the common story there I'm finding out more and more now that it's just people that when they have a drink, or they ingest a substance, or they eat certain types of food. They react differently than other people do, and that's something. I have to get through my head because I really just thought. I was a heavy drinker with a drug problem occasionally, which lasted for years, but I really had this belief. Right I mean I had this belief that it was like okay well. I have a marriage because that's what society tells me I have to do I have a vehicle. I bought a Condo. There's no way I'm an addict. You know I should be homeless and I think that's important thing to note it's. It's what happens to you when you I, think exert a certain type of behavior or you an just some sort of substance, and there's many different types obviously of addiction. And for? For me, there was always somebody worse off right. There I think we justify it in our mind. Because well, I don't drink. Upon Waking I. Don't drink all day long. I'm I'm a heavy social drinker like I only drink when I go out to party. You know well we all the time. You know there's always that justification, but I believe what you said that there is a chemical in our brain that slips. You know it's like a light switch that flips on and we don't have that ability to say no. You know into into rationalize with it, but I think it's important to understand that that this comes in all shapes and sizes, and all economic backgrounds in an all you know, it's not just you know for the down, trodden and homeless or anything like that. It's all of us right. Absolutely and I mean I've met people now in recovery that they were weekend drinkers, but the same thing they would start drinking and they couldn't stop and people are like well. Why don't you just stop? Why don't you just stop it to? And it still baffles me. I'll go with friends that are just regular social drinkers, and they have a glass of wine, and they leave just a little bit at the bottom of the glass and I'm Mike are. You GonNa Finish that like such a waste of what I would do that and they're like well. I've got this kind of buzzed. Little feeling and I. Don't like it, but for me. It made everything go from black and white to color. Well and then another thing I was thinking of I. Want You know your audience as wondering? Hey, this is the talks and terminator. Why are we talking about addiction and you know I? Believe addiction is a toxin is anything that's going to cause harm to our body and addiction certainly is that one of the things that always made sense to me is rather than looking at how much do I drink or do drugs, or you know shop, or go gamble or eat or exercise you to? The list goes on I believe once you're an adult. You can take it into all shapes and sizes in for me. a lot of that early on in life was men. I got you know. Whatever you know, I was getting I was getting. You know from them, but it's. How do you feel what's happening to you? Are you happy? You know with your behaviors and attitudes when you know that was a like a vicious cycle for me. How about you? Because I? I would do stuff under the influence that I would never deal never in my right mind, would I have ever made those choices? And then they meet feel even worse about myself and was like this vicious cycle. How about you? It was the same thing and I think that's part of why I wrote the book because I mean as I was writing, there was stuff that I literally had forgotten about and pushed out of my brain, because for some reason I didn't want to acknowledge it, and I dealt with it right. I'm so grateful for my counselor today, but like you said it comes in so many different forms, and for me. Sugar was one of those things to right. Yeah, and when we put down one addiction, we go to another even in sobriety right away I had. Had Gone I got obsessed with working out. I did hundred percent all in I was gonNA chicken and Broccoli and rice every single day for a year, and I achieved my goal, and that felt really good, but my mental state wasn't right because I was looking at everything all wrong..

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6 staffers setting up for Trump rally positive for COVID-19

Ric Edelman

00:23 sec | 11 months ago

6 staffers setting up for Trump rally positive for COVID-19

"Just hours before the Tulsa Oklahoma rally started the trump campaign announced that six staff members who are helping set up the event had tested positive for covert nineteen campaign communications director Tamar tal says Corentin procedures were implemented and it neither the affected staffers nor anyone in immediate contact with them attended the

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Trump hails jobs numbers and "equality," says it's a "great day" for Floyd

Morning Becomes Eclectic

01:16 min | 1 year ago

Trump hails jobs numbers and "equality," says it's a "great day" for Floyd

"The may labor report is taking a lot of economists by surprise the economy picked up two and a half million jobs in may when the general expectation was that numbers were going to go the other way U. S. is still in the middle of a chrome virus pandemic though more businesses have been re opening in the past month under public safety restrictions more people are heading back to work after months of backlash over the pace of his response to the emergency in recent months and his militarized stance to civil unrest since last week today president trump is seizing on this moment here's NPR's Tamar Keith president trump reveled in the fact that the numbers came in better than the grim predictions of economists today is probably if you think of it the greatest comeback in American as you but you just have to stop here trump tied the economic news into a protest of police brutality saying the improving economy is quote the greatest thing that can happen for race relations at one point he invoked George Floyd whose death in police custody sparked the protests hopefully George's looking down right now and say this is a great thing that's happening for our country there's a great day for him it's a great day for everybody it's a great day for everybody it is a great great day in terms of equality it's not clear what he meant Tamar Keith NPR

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Trump threatens to move Republican National Convention out of North Carolina

Here & Now

01:01 min | 1 year ago

Trump threatens to move Republican National Convention out of North Carolina

"Isn't trump and the Republican Party are putting pressure on north Carolina's democratic governor to move ahead with plans to hold the party's convention in Charlotte this August NPR's Tamara Keith reports the president issued an ultimatum they get tweet president trump complains that governor Roy Cooper is still in a shut down mood and unable to guarantee that by August Republicans will be able to fully occupied the arena for their convention trump says that without such a guarantee organizers would have to look to another state and vice president Mike pence tells fox and friends we look forward to working with the governor Cooper getting a swift response and and if needs be if needs be moving out of the national convention to a state that that is farther along on re opening and and can say with confidence that that we can gather there he mentioned Texas Georgia and Florida as possible options the GOP spokeswoman says the party will need answers sooner rather than later Tamar Keith

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"tamar" Discussed on The Breakfast Club

The Breakfast Club

08:43 min | 1 year ago

"tamar" Discussed on The Breakfast Club

"That back. You might be a little credit. Don't put that on me. Now. On me. Though. Name. How'd you get the name? GonNa? My one of my partners like by rip though spring. He likes his birthday two days apart from the. He gave me the like. My my name used to be young by everybody's economy young, because like I was the youngest. But like I use their young. It was like y'all. G G win like young. And they like. Me Young. And then like listen. I have an idea how it had a gun on me. They've I love just on. Gun and then when I thought rampant. GonNa Start, being my aunt lives because at first my right name young gun. Ghana just started like being. Man Comedy Mechanized started using dunk. Okay I makes sense I. We got more with GonNa when we come back. Don't who've is the breakfast club morning morning. Everybody is Dj Envy Angela Ghee Sulemyan. The Guy we are. The breakfast club was still kicking it. We're GonNa talk about the documentary. What's the documentary about showing how you recorded? This album was a life documentary was documentary. About is showing. You basically created the out because I. Know the I have I wanted to something that's out. Like I. Feel like everybody know like I'm Joe God. It point everybody like. I before she will. What's the name? And like I really I didn't really know how I wanted to approach you I. Don't WanNa come from tonight and that it may send, and then like I came over WanNa like just being there. Just I guess I felt like. In my body, I ain't of this relaxed chilling. I know shows because I had the week. Be in Jamaica so. Shows. I got buys my friends. We just. Having a good time, so I just felt like I was just like I am really the artist that's her and that's how I wanNA really start came into play in like. Everybody just call me one. Unapologetic. When I. I did it. S. Man which would come from? Understood High and just Ryan someone twenty. Eight more. At the behind I'll just talking just. Right. Wealthy unapologetic naturally some. On Stuggle with this project, he no, he signed the tug of for people that don't know. Does he come to Vice? Or how does it? How does it work? It usually be around anyway, but like four guys schedule stuff. He was always around. Where like I always hit them for an put or just like as you think this intro or the two out of the I'm thinking he's always you know for the vice. Anyway, it's just one. Causing gun who you think helped you more in hip hop. young dog, baby low baby. Oh! Okay so like me to just Busni be like artists more news game because he had already been me and baby just Kinda, just create a history together, so it made it bigger because you know what I'm saying, life is fresh. It was new and what we be like. It was genuine soccer liked it. We're we're the bigger together for his putting out songs for the fan base me and baby life for me growing like help somebody helping me like music and. I can't go now when when the French were going back and forth and. French before. Did you ever say you know what let me get in between? This could go a little too far. You said nom, let them go, they will. If Internet on I. Only been like it'd be there like this year by Oliver got away. From just take it and do not stupid. Like, the smart and you don't get on Emmett going but. Really go play of literally. You Talk. I GONNA. Get it. You know that's just licking it. We'll talk to me. Gun. Talk to me about this crime. Stop video that. Late, they trying to use that against you. What was that about not about? Crime, stuff. Ain't no stop the crown. Know. You video. ME. That, went on, know crime stop. What on what had thinking about I went in Okay Cement. So even Chan like a on who I would I would never know tastes. Japan, but you know it'd be they. Go back to the Internet I don't really. Only be seen into. Note is. Really from st well from like if you snitch British paperwork document then. Kept. Be about nothing. Watch the video when I watched. It was actually saying that. People in jail because somebody else was talking on them. That's what I took from it, right? My cousin jail look got killed my jail for another point for him. I did it, but my didn't do it. was. I'm putting them down by around my. My parents! Right now to this day and then. Took from it I. I was confused. I was like okay. I don't understand what they're trying to say here. Great! But I go back to the Internet engine and saying. That didn't like you or was that just as? Regular Internet were from somebody that was like you know what he really don't like you either GonNa try to whatever dirty Ken on your name. For now. They'll I'm the one that. Don't get you one. You know what I'm saying especially. If you're doing some just not just hey, don't back down and be like Oh Charlemagne Disney. Notice me and then. I. Don't you sound like you really want to explain yourself? But then it don't even matter what I say. 'cause people still always, but think they WANNA do. I truly and on. This I didn't this cone. Nation, so if I'm explaining to. Me Like. I feel like I got I got. I got some who I gotta get back tail. Now got pregnant. I know I know what's up my people. and. Now you know which which your project and you. Before you even signed the deal. And before you even released, the album was already on a roll, getting ten, fifteen, twenty, thousand or show right. So how does it feel to finally have your second project out? People now know you're a lot of people. Know the name, but didn't necessarily notice face. I even senior Super Bowl Super. Bowl in the mall and you were shopping and you do a lot of shopping on every time I see you stop. You do something but I. I've seen the amount of kids that will follow you and it wasn't just black kids. It wasn't just kids from the hood is white kids. It was Asian kids. How does that for you to have that fan base now? Make it different light. You feel like you just. You just doing it for you, but a street for the hood. Like by you doing this for Awhile International I'm being over here. Talk to wear plus water. As it made me feel good I'm inspired. That's what inspired me to keep on. You know what I'm saying. Well, you see. See the Ucla Oh what he looks! Change lyrics at all because I was. In the mall, a lot of white kids and they were wrapping your lyrics like them. One of these little white kids saying you're going to be a problem so crazy. They learned like. They love. ME, being at least i. don't even feel like if I if I feel like by the chain and. We like. You know what I'm saying. We'd liked it what we've I heard Eli. This that. So I. Don't feel like I really changed. It's not gonNA know by down us. Don't talk about to. You My. My brothers brother down so I can talk about that. Down the boys like you. And you. Left in. It's cool. You know what I'm saying. 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"tamar" Discussed on The Breakfast Club

The Breakfast Club

04:23 min | 1 year ago

"tamar" Discussed on The Breakfast Club

"You're? Asking if to remembered a session, that's all. She's like okay. It's a catchy tasting. I record, I don't know if you guys know that you. Know no into play today. Let's play today. MOTHER RECOMMENDS So I this is moving. And it's called gaming to. and. I was not interested in doing. You know music last time I came. And Talk To. Me I don't feel like it rockabilly. Really tell everybody that that's going through our things. You know what I'm saying and like I was like. So not into music and dislike. Awesome entertainment and everything that reminded me like you know this painful time that I had my husband. And so when I did this movie The producer was like y'all. I want you to do the soundtrack online wrong hands. I don't WanNa do it. but my problem is shirt could be out to dinner eight on the way back. From dinner he played me this record. And you know I've always been a songwriter and I've always had hand in everything that I have done like in my career like singing wise. But when I heard the song I, instantly fell in love with music and I. Just felt like it was something that. Should be a part of the culture, and should be a part of my history. The the kind kinda love shelter, manny manny push pushed you and push an soundtrack and that flick that movie for a long time I'm glad you guys got it done. How you at now that I want to go ahead or whether the record at you. Play. We play it this one, but I can't believe. I. Ate. Don't play I. Know You've heard it. You should. Kind. I definitely I definitely heard. Does this mean return to music for, are you? Are you planning more now that you got inspired? Exactly Josh like I'm really on. The Guy Fell in love with music and not. Everything on the. Find you know what I mean like I don't even follow chart on thousand. Before all of this I'm still doing. Number Eight. Because I was told that an email, you know what I'm saying. That goes. You'll be nice. Okay ought follow window. Well I mean. Let's say you know. You're saying Charlemagne. And somebody took your passion or a situation you know. Made the passion of us being writer away from news, and it wasn't just about writing anymore. It was just about. Having feelings right and so did. You not. It doesn't have the same feeling you know what I mean. He hit a little different like. Yeah! This is me and this is my artistry. Still means then, but if it doesn't go number, one still needs something to me. Introduce a record introduced the wreckage. Well, this is crazy. All right well, we appreciate you for joining us today to tame up. Oh. My God I! Hope I did not get. We'll. We'll find out what comes out whatever saying room grabs from an alert. We'll know now. Also authorities say that you might be ready for another little eighty. Ban On. What you're saying. It up, so you're in the Corinthian three nothing to do with eat sleep and have sex and pray won't do it. AM. I. You know I am a why not a girlfriend? I'm that girl? About the no leaf Al Note. Do you hold back certain things? Starting thing that a husband gets a boyfriend doesn't. Respect..

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"tamar" Discussed on The Breakfast Club

The Breakfast Club

04:23 min | 1 year ago

"tamar" Discussed on The Breakfast Club

"You're? Asking if to remembered a session, that's all. She's like okay. It's a catchy tasting. I record, I don't know if you guys know that you. Know no into play today. Let's play today. MOTHER RECOMMENDS So I this is moving. And it's called gaming to. and. I was not interested in doing. You know music last time I came. And Talk To. Me I don't feel like it rockabilly. Really tell everybody that that's going through our things. You know what I'm saying and like I was like. So not into music and dislike. Awesome entertainment and everything that reminded me like you know this painful time that I had my husband. And so when I did this movie The producer was like y'all. I want you to do the soundtrack online wrong hands. I don't WanNa do it. but my problem is shirt could be out to dinner eight on the way back. From dinner he played me this record. And you know I've always been a songwriter and I've always had hand in everything that I have done like in my career like singing wise. But when I heard the song I, instantly fell in love with music and I. Just felt like it was something that. Should be a part of the culture, and should be a part of my history. The the kind kinda love shelter, manny manny push pushed you and push an soundtrack and that flick that movie for a long time I'm glad you guys got it done. How you at now that I want to go ahead or whether the record at you. Play. We play it this one, but I can't believe. I. Ate. Don't play I. Know You've heard it. You should. Kind. I definitely I definitely heard. Does this mean return to music for, are you? Are you planning more now that you got inspired? Exactly Josh like I'm really on. The Guy Fell in love with music and not. Everything on the. Find you know what I mean like I don't even follow chart on thousand. Before all of this I'm still doing. Number Eight. Because I was told that an email, you know what I'm saying. That goes. You'll be nice. Okay ought follow window. Well I mean. Let's say you know. You're saying Charlemagne. And somebody took your passion or a situation you know. Made the passion of us being writer away from news, and it wasn't just about writing anymore. It was just about. Having feelings right and so did. You not. It doesn't have the same feeling you know what I mean. He hit a little different like. Yeah! This is me and this is my artistry. Still means then, but if it doesn't go number, one still needs something to me. Introduce a record introduced the wreckage. Well, this is crazy. All right well, we appreciate you for joining us today to tame up. Oh. My God I! Hope I did not get. We'll. We'll find out what comes out whatever saying room grabs from an alert. We'll know now. Also authorities say that you might be ready for another little eighty. Ban On. What you're saying. It up, so you're in the Corinthian three nothing to do with eat sleep and have sex and pray won't do it. AM. I. You know I am a why not a girlfriend? I'm that girl? About the no leaf Al Note. Do you hold back certain things? Starting thing that a husband gets a boyfriend doesn't. Respect..

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"tamar" Discussed on The Breakfast Club

The Breakfast Club

02:27 min | 1 year ago

"tamar" Discussed on The Breakfast Club

"To see is positive stuff that people wanNA senior avenue. Today we'RE GONNA change. People stereotype would not be Oregon with because we all know. That's what you want yet. We want anyone rooting to them. Oh they don't like that John. They said that on the breakfast club or ready. Before and Romeo had an issue with them using his Bible study and the Bible quotes steady sends out as a storyline for the show or even the Bible Studies. I'm not trying to do that on this show this whole season. They took my faith in God. Played with and then on the flip side made a whole like all the pro woods like religion drew. He doesn't want his relationship with God being exploited for TV. So I there's a lot of things that they don't like about this show and they've been very vocal about that now. I agree with math opinion. Romeo own about seventy five percent probably eighty eighty five percent of what they're saying. Those was all to Bible quotes to one of the positive images making fun of the. It wasn't a positive thing they were kind of making fun of it. Making light of it. But like you always say they got enough money could create their own show and do to show that way to they want to portray what they want to portray. I think it only makes sense to do it. Their own way applauds. He makes fun. He Sends Out Bible quotes to Everybody like as a group text and so they show everybody like getting the Bible. And then you know. He got upset that supposedly she didn't. Angela them responded it was like some little storyline. But he doesn't want that exploited on the show. Look like more than what it was to write my God all I heard all I'm hearing right now. Everything is fake everything from the music industry to reality. Tv Too Goddamn the seemed like the only real thing out here signed me up and give me an account for only everything is fake. I read I'm Angela. And that's your room a report. All right thank you missy now when we come back we got front page news. What we talking about well. Let's see how this is going to be talking about what's happening with reopening parts of the United States and the wake of all right. We'll get into that next. Keep it locked this the breakfast club. Good morning morning. Everybody is TJ envy. Angela Ye shall guy we are the breakfast club. Good Morning.

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NFL Draft & Post-Spring Top 25 (without spring football)

The Audible with Feldman And Mandel

05:33 min | 1 year ago

NFL Draft & Post-Spring Top 25 (without spring football)

"Why don't we turn our attention? Bruce to the players who will be back in college in. Twenty Twenty On Tuesday I released my spring top. Twenty five a little different this year because usually the reason you put it out the last week. April is that everybody's completed spring practice and we use some of the insights we've gleaned from that to update the rankings. I did the morning after title game. Obviously we did not. So why did you put it out this time? Because people love rankings? Remember the the one up morning after the national title game. We didn't yet know who was going to turn pro. We didn't get there have been head. Coaching changes that happened after that game like Matt Rule Even Baylor certainly lots and lots of coordinator changes. Transfer Portal guys I'm not saying that it drastically altered the lineup by any means. But you know there's you you have more info certainly than you did The morning after the national title game so the hardest team to rank is the one we just talked about a little while ago. Lsu because on the one hand they just had this dominant season and we know their program that recruits well so there's going to be able to reload but on the other hand fourteen guys a lot and To replace fourteen guys that were drafted. Some of those very very high draft picks most notably Joe Borough and generally speaking. I look back at some of the teams that had a huge number like that. Almost always there is a drop off. The next year might not be a severe drop off so the question is okay. I had them number five. I believe The day after the title game I dropped them to eight now. It's not like something bad happened between then and now have some you know. We didn't know who his new coordinator is going to be at that point that didn't really factor into it. I just find it hard to believe you can lose that many guys and come back the next year in win the SEC again. What surprised me a little bit? When I looked I was like wait. You drop them down. They actually like Djibril Cox's it was considered by lot of people as the top Grad transfer linebacker in the country and he ended up going there which is which is interesting to see how fit in going from North Dakota state which obviously wins national titles every year till she was just one one so I was a little surprised at okay. The probably the the one area on their defense. That was a question mark. They showed up from the time. You'd sign there but I don't disagree with you. Having them eight. I mean to me. The biggest loss is going to be jober. I mean he had the greatest quarterback anybody greatest quarterback season anybody's ever had in college football. And you know I know. Miles Brennan has a strong arm. That's about all we know right and so nine Oh yes good receivers Tamar Chase as the best receiver. He would have been the best fever in this draft. He's back but they got to replace basically three. And a half starters on the offensive line and they gotta replace Clyde. That's a lot and so to have them eighth. I don't think that's I don't think that's like eye-popping I was like. I said I was a little surprised that you you drop them Just in time from that but I think that could probably be as much relative. Yeah it wasn't because of anything that it wasn't anything that happens since January in. You're right that was a big pickup In terms of Djibril Cox Just recently that morning that it went up and I'll actually for being honest. I wrote it the day of the game. it's you just get a little distance from that and I mean it could be a very wide range of possibilities probably more than most teams in there. The ceiling in the floor is probably a pretty wide range. They wouldn't be. It wouldn't be shocking to me. If I think they're still gonNA be really good on defense. I think you would agree especially up front on the defensive line. You've got probably the best cornerback in the country extinguisher. You've got to Kobe. Steven's coming back. They should be really good still on defense. It's the Joe Borough factor. It's the offensive line. It's replacing Clyde like those are big questions but if they can answer those questions and maybe they're right back in the playoff and if they can't maybe there number eight maybe they go seven and five like there's such a wide range of possibilities with them. The thing that probably surprised me the most about your updated one was really jumped Texas. A&m High move them up seven spots. So what changed? Or what sunk into you that made you feel like I'm I'm going all in on the aggies pretty much well for one thing. I'm a big believer in bill. Connolly's rankings as you know and sometimes we default to Okay they were. They had this record last year and they returned this many stars. Therefore I'm GonNa slot them here but obviously there's more to the story in terms of how much talent do they have? And I think an last year might have had a much different record if they didn't have to play Alabama Clemson and Georgia which is just an insane insane schedule. Their record reflected Bills PRESEASON SP plus rankings. Texas is tenth I don't have them quite that high. Obviously

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"tamar" Discussed on Art Unknown Podcast

Art Unknown Podcast

04:40 min | 1 year ago

"tamar" Discussed on Art Unknown Podcast

"Speed and the catalytic nature with which i came to that decision it was like a lightning bolt and there was a lot of people in my life. Who are upset with my decision. Who didn't understand didn't support it and there's family members like wait you drink. What with do is a lot of that. And you know it's when i think about our indigenous roots as human beings and where we would have come from a more tribal sense it our in our more distant past the concept of initiation would have been something that would have been more commonly embrace within a village setting. Yeah and the traditional initiation doesn't happen without diving into the abyss and happy to come out the other side right with your strength with your identity or with your creativity. Whatever it is that you're doing and you know to speaking to my own life. That's what that situation felt like. It wasn't initiation done it. Was you know you've been you've received as much as you can from the situation. Now you literally have to put it all to the test by diving into the abyss and seeing if you can survive you know not everyone survives. No you're totally right. So i think sorta tamed american. The average conventional comforter comfortable person is on some deep soul level craving initiation. Oh i'm sure. I think this sounds really deepen our blood. And so you know we could call. It may be a romanticized or mystical perspective. Of what i went through. That's that's the perspective i take. It was initiation and many parts of diving into the abyss. Where i didn't know if i was going to be able to make it and i didn't know i was going to keep going and there is times back then to win the moment i landed here. I was diving deep into a new form of my creative process and i was panelist. You know d. Being money from between couch cushions get on the bus to go to the store to get some rice and beans much part of the reality now chunk of time and luckily it was living with some people..

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"tamar" Discussed on The Only Way Is Up

The Only Way Is Up

11:30 min | 1 year ago

"tamar" Discussed on The Only Way Is Up

"Had for quite some time today on the only way that podcast with me Rebecca Pash. I have a brand new guess called Tamar Benz Vay who is originally from the US immediately in two thousand and fifteen. She has her own company. Co Tidy with tomorrow and she's a professional organizer. Welcome to the PODCAST. Thank you so much for having me. I really appreciate it anytime so a little bit of background of how did you start? Your Business. 'cause we all obviously going to speak about how you can help others at this time Who are home on a little bit of tips but at the But I'd love to hear how you started your business pressure so basically. Since I was a little girl I always very passionate about organization. I always loved thinking about organizing whether it was parties whether it was you know just day-to-day mom. Louise Make Fun of me. That was just very organized. I always keep around arm but I didn't realize that it was a skill that it was something that was not innate until I got older and then was I started to go into adulthood Adult than having challenges a being an adult. I realized well actually not something. That's in the news. Something that can be really as something that is so vital. Every single day we are faced with our homes. Were faced with you know cutter. Were faith with what to do different things and it can be overwhelming if we all know what to do that and so. I had some friends who went to me. And they're like can you help me that you're you know that you're gonNA have. Can you tell me they went to my friends. I went to my sister's house and they help them. And say you gotta go into this field and After doing the job marketing I was in a more interested in helping the bill. One on one with their homes and so I took. I took a step away from and decided to take the plunge into whom organizing it was not something that was simple. It actually took me two years until I finally got a courage do it but I was like the world needs is people need it. And it's been proven to be true. You Know Avenue work with my clients. Yob. I'm sure so at this time. Everyone is at home whether they have children or not So I was wondering how what tips you can give to people who do have time on the hands or even if you can get the kids involved Let's start with going around rooms of the house. Let's start with. Maybe which is the easiest in in terms of organising so I think that the playroom with cans. I think the have actually one of funnest rooms to organize. Gra Me and when I think about in a row now I'm not working with the client in their rooms on when they think about what I miss so much about. Working with. My clients is dedicated. Player the Latam if not only easy because there's so many it's like a puzzle the plate rate so often there's some sort of organization a little bit easier. They have some box if they have some and maybe they have. A trump has made the habit calix both for my Kia and people are utilizing their spaces properly necessarily missile often like men. I say okay. What do we need? Why don't we need? We take it as a brigadier piece by piece and with kids especially in the league room. Breakable elaborate more so with adult he would do you see. Overwhelming playroom toys everywhere maybe a rug their rubbing their out. No Rian themselves and you would go one at a time. Any would looking at box and say do we need this duly nominated our language that you know in the three spot for it. Is there with the name we can? Have you know minimize it or put it in a different storage box? And when you bring in your kids you know you should. I you know thinking about the room and visualize what you want. When you bring in your kids you would basically then had been help you to put the toys in there so instead of you doing everything. Visualize it had where is it and then. Hendrick eighth actually put the toy into those big areas. That's a good idea. At least get them involved and they know things going right as long as I can. Not The seconds that. But it's so important that you accept because when you go into a room it can be so overwhelming that for your kids ten. Hannity Moore woman but when you know what doing and when you have a plan your kids are GonNa Follow so sure even ganging all and then you know if you can be like okay. Well whoever gets into their first win or something like that sure. It's good that a good idea. So let's go into the kitchen yet. So the kitchen I think even the kitchen one of my favorite areas also rate so I wanNA play room. The kitchen Other areas the issue with the kitchen is that a lot of people put stuff in but don't Affair Take Act. So what by that? Any people have a booth that may be expired. Maybe gone bad. Maybe they don't really have sections of their kitchen. You know where they're going to Angie branch Britain instance. You know I see that a lot of people. Just throw seventy pantry. Someone I go into Pantry what I do is I look at the Pantry. I take the you know like I drew are the first show of the pantry. I pick up stuff and I look at the items that they had and I said Oh. You don't eat for breakfast items that maybe are good for snack and we'd start taking about. We realize okay. This was expired. You can figure it out. This was maybe yet. Maybe an item in there. That with a kitchen utensil. You comparing the drugs you know and then you go you figure. The category of is it a set. Is that a breakfast item. And then you put your shelves according so I just did it to my grants entry. Ami had advantage we did you know the top was Tim. Boylan Ziplock men. We had a section for snacks. Had A sexual horror daughters knows who the baby. Then we had a section were breakfast items. I mean has a section for you know All the Like utensil than Cutlery like plastic wares so we had a different section and when you take out expired Out that really shouldn't be there. And when you had section by section thing out of sexual time it really is so much more calming and you actually don't even realize how much space you have until you do that when we didn't like her pantyhose filled up. We did it. We actually had square is a extra space in her and she didn't even take that much but just organizing it differently and taking out the things that have expired with really key so next room. Let's say the Bedroom Jim. Is I think that the bedroom is on for some people. It can be so overwhelming and for some people not much there so the bedroom is the Can Be very overwhelming. Especially there are people that haven't gone through their closet in twenty years. So go into your cloud can be very daunting and what I would do and I would also out one section at a time. Maybe you WANNA croakers shirt. Maybe tomorrow conquer pants may be the next record. Hat was exited. Ryan really go through it. Charged up on. Show it show with your have been shown to your kids. Adam had looking at maybe and decide what you want to keep what. Maybe you can donate will only issue with donating right now that a lot of places are not taking relations a new. That simply are belied. Places ARE NOT SO. The only issue with organizing. Your Club is make sure Organizing to have a space that you can put your clothing. You have faith that you don't have to be drowning. It make sure that you put it into some bags. giveaway on it and also don't put in the giveaway pile. Don't get anything. That is stained. Don't put anything. That is torn those can go into garbage so have garbage bad regardless of a giveaway that degree giveaway but to and then go through the entire. You know Closet step-by-step really breakdown from In socks and pants anything that you have but but go. Section by section otherwise. It's going to be too daunting and the others that I wanted to your now. That many people and they think I'm so stressed out by this one area that by Mike. Suck serious. Oh maybe they have an overall demented Fox but then they don't think about but make sure if ahead lecture to feel better because area would be organized and then they can move on is better to stay in one room at a time then to go another rooms so staying your clause if you're GonNa make your closet your mission. Do your socks do your shirt do your pants. I have so many of those. Do you believe you're better when it's all done and the last room is probably the last salon dining.

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Trump outlines virus response plan, suspends travel from Europe

BBC World Service

01:02 min | 1 year ago

Trump outlines virus response plan, suspends travel from Europe

"President trump has outlined his administration's efforts to contain the spread of coronavirus and shore up the U. S. economy in an oval office address trump announced a temporary ban on some travel from Europe as NPR's Tamara Keith reports the president also expressed confidence that Americans will rise to this challenge cases of corona virus in the U. S. are rising rapidly as testing ramps up many businesses are telling their employees to work from home and the NBA has suspended its season after a player tested positive what was abstract just a few days ago has gotten real president trump echoed the message from scientists that corona virus is particularly troublesome for people who are older or have underlying health conditions we are strongly advising that nursing homes for the elderly suspend all medically unnecessary visits in general older Americans should also avoid non essential travel in crowded areas the White House announced trump would be canceling a trip out west planned for tomorrow Tamar Keith NPR

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Trump downplays coronavirus threat, notes ‘common flu’ kills thousands every year

All Things Considered

03:54 min | 1 year ago

Trump downplays coronavirus threat, notes ‘common flu’ kills thousands every year

"The World Health Organization now says the threat of a pandemic is very real because the virus has gained a foothold in so many countries president trump has been tweeting a different message the president claims the concerns are overblown he's even suggested the media and Democrats are trying to inflame the situation NPR's White House correspondent Tamar Keith reports president trump has consistently keyed in on the number of cases in the US even as the lack of widely available testing meant there was no way of really knowing how many cases there were he has talked about the positives and downplayed the worst case scenario and consistently the ground has shifted beneath him on February twenty sixth president trump took the rare step of going to the White House briefing room to update the public on his administration's response the first case of coronavirus not link to travel what's known as community transmission had just been diagnosed but trump suggested without any scientific basis there was a chance it could all go away where the low level as they get better we take them off the list so that we're going to be pretty soon at only five people that we could be at just one or two people over the next short period of time he was wrong very wrong trump frequently inflates numbers to make himself look better from economic indicators to crowd size and with corona virus he has garbled the science on how soon a vaccine might be available and repeatedly pushed the idea that those critical of the federal response are just trying to hurt him politically this comes at a time when it is very important to be clear with the public says Saad Omer director of the Yale institute of global health and these kinds of public health emergencies we need to be able to trust our leaders be it public health scientific or political leaders it matters he says because there could come a time when Y. spread quarantines are required to slow the spread of the virus and then you need the public to believe the people telling them what they need to do so over suggests politicians stick to basic messages like encouraging hand washing and let the scientist handle the science people understand if the president or any of the political leaders are not exports and everything and they said look this is my guy or my gal who is in charge of the scientific aspect and they will tell you what is happening and what we need to do and what our preparations he says elected leaders shouldn't play armchair epidemiologist but that just isn't trump's style on Friday he claimed to have a natural ability to understand the science trump was at the centers for disease control and prevention wearing a red campaign hat with lab equipment whirring around him as he held court with reporters for some forty five minutes as of the time I left the plane with you we had two hundred and forty cases you've got someone's workers on a very fine network known as fox news front batted down questions about potential measures to shore up the economy and falsely suggested that everyone that wanted to be tested for corona virus could get tested asked about the grand princess cruise ship with sick passengers on board trump said he would rather the passengers stay at sea I would rather because I like the numbers being where they are I don't need to have the numbers double because of one ship that was our fault the numbers doubled over the weekend and it had nothing to do with the ship which docked in Oakland today this morning on CNN Anthony Fauci the infectious disease specialist helping to lead the national response had a message for people who are older or have underlying conditions like heart disease and diabetes stay at a crowds don't do travel above all don't go near a cruise ship don't go on a cruise ship it was a stark warning that came even as president trump tweeted quote nothing is shut down life in the economy

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"tamar" Discussed on The Frame

The Frame

02:21 min | 1 year ago

"tamar" Discussed on The Frame

"Sounds like we might be in church. We might be in front of acquire but it's not a not a church that I want to spend a lot of time in Tell us about where that started and how you start hearing a theme for a score. So when I met with a director's decker I had the pleasure of seeing a rough cut of the film and I mentioned to her. That felt like a fever dream to me and she had spoken to me about how she is very interested in utilizing the female voice as a solo instrument score. And you know Indi films all budget so I said okay. In addition to you know strings and piano will have voices of focus but I did on vocals myself. So that's just you a couple of different loops all kinds of things layers and you know. So that's that's definitely one element within the peace and how the voice is used is very much in of kind of like a spiritual magical realm because you have three voices in terms of characters. You have a ghost woman and you have Shirley Jackson and then you have the young woman who staying with her and the idea of three voices at Trinity of voices a Motif that I play with throughout. It's not always the case that a composer gets to see a finished film a lot of time. You're writing off a script. Maybe they want some temp accused to cut to. Is it your preference to be able to see something because it's not always possible You know I like to say I like to dress the baby but at the same time it depends because you know everyone is coming to the uh the work with a certain amount of experience and understanding right so if you're working with director who's extremely comfortable with music and has a lot of knowledge of your work and trust then it's easy to jump in during You know on the script if they are saying essentially I want to see what reading my work is going to inspire with you and if we can use that as a foundation. That's a great. That's a great thing or if they're just open to hearing your ideas I want to talk about the inner life of characters at an aside a film you just scored its Kitty. Greens filmed the assistant. And this queue is called girl.

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"tamar" Discussed on The Frame

The Frame

10:09 min | 1 year ago

"tamar" Discussed on The Frame

"BROADCAST CENTER AT KPCC. This is the frame. I'm John on today's show. Harvey Weinstein has been convicted of rape and sexual assault. So how can the industry evolve in the wake of his trial? P- then film composer Tamar. Kali is breaking barriers in a field dominated by white men but lasting. She says will require a cultural shift. This whole diversity training thing. It's like that's Insane. It's like how can someone humanity be on trends like listen to what you're saying because just a lot of dismantling and a lot of real deep work that needs to be done and a filmmaker finds inspiration working as an l a rideshare driver. That's in the frame. We'll be right back. Welcome to the frame. I'm John Horn. Harvey Weinstein is now a convicted rapist. The verdict came this Monday. When a New York jury found the 67-year-old Weinstein guilty of two counts third degree rape and first degree criminal. Sexual Act here to talk about what has and hasn't changed since the allegations against Weinstein first came to light is Melissa Silverstein. She's the founder of the blog women in Hollywood and the Artistic Director of the Athena Film Festival. Melissa welcome back to the show. Thanks for having me. So what does this verdict mean for women in the industry and how might it change the dynamic within Hollywood if at all? I can't underestimate the significance of this verdict. That it wasn't just accusations it's an actual verdict of guilt and that the women upwards of one hundred of them who have accused Harvey Weinstein of sexual assaults harassment. You know finally have vindication because so many of them for so many years kept US inside or toll people and everybody said no one will believe you. He's in the powerful position. And you should just keep quiet if you want a career and so Hollywood is really been built on the silence of women for the last several decades in many aspects not just related to Mr Weinstein but also related to so many other issues that have kept women out of positions of power and access so this is big really really big. I'm going to ask you more about positions of power and access because even though these crimes involve sex it's really about power and a power dynamic. That allowed it to happen. How important is it that women as filmmakers producers as agents as studio executives you name the career path have more jobs in Hollywood? And how does that change the potential for the next Harvey Weinstein to not be able to get away with it? I just think that that is the core issue that needs to change. We need to see more women and more people of Color in positions of power. We need to create mechanisms for people to step into these positions mentor higher sponsor and once it seems that people actually have permission now something click went off in the proverbial heads around. Hollywood which is like these it okay. It's not okay anymore for me not to have any women directors looking for or for me not to have inclusion in a writer's room. It's unacceptable and I think the Hollywood executives react to that really Profoundly and so hopefully. We're going to continue to see more access to gatekeeper roles because once you have people who are different in gatekeeper roles they bring in different voices and we see that all across this industry it. It's really not rocket science. It's just about giving people access and opportunity. Well let's talk about access an opportunity last year according to Stacy Smith at. Usc was a record year for female filmmakers. They got a whopping ten point. Six percent of the jobs behind the camera. You're the CO founder of the theme Film Festival which just opened. What are you trying to do in terms of promoting the work of women who are working as film makers were you have upwards of seventy percent female filmmakers at the Athena Film Festival and we're focused on a female leaders on screen and we want people to understand the leadership capacity of women in all facets of our culture and why we need more women leaders is is really a fundamental piece of the work of the Athena Film Festival which takes place at Barnard College and I'm in partnership with the Athena Center for Leadership Studies in this work? And so what we really try to do through our films and our parody pipeline program which Today we have an alumni day for all the people who have been in our labs for the last several years and we are giving them concrete information to break into this industry and to build um networks and connect people together so that we can understand that there is an abundance of women out there. There's an abundance of talent and we just need again that access an opportunity many years ago is always about scarcity mentality right. There are not enough women. They're not enough women who are talented. They don't make certain kinds of movies that was always a false narrative that was perpetuated. And so what? We're really trying to switch the narrative to narrative of abundance which we know has always been the case we're talking with Melissa Silverstein the founder and publisher of Women in Hollywood when. Ask YOU ABOUT ACCOUNTABILITY EARLIER. This week The Opera Star Placido. Domingo issued an apology to the women who had accused him of sexual harassment. And then yesterday he backpedaled on his apology. I'm wondering what needs to happen. In terms of accountability a prison sentence for Harvey Weinstein potentially on March. Eleventh is one kind of accountability. What about people who misbehave actually owning up to their actions or I guess in the case not actually doing them in the first place. Yeah that would be the ideal. We need to create a culture where this behavior is unacceptable. And so it doesn't even come into your mind that the way that you gain. Power and gain power over women is by using them inappropriately and sexually assaulting them so hopefully as the generations evolved. We won't see these kinds of acts being perpetuated but it's also about creating systems Within the industry. That won't allow that to happen. And so what we need to do is break down. The systems that allow these types of to occur And make sure that people are ostracized in the way that Harvey Weinstein has been ostracized and people who enabled it. The entire industry enabled this. Everybody knew it was as I wrote the loudest silence in Hollywood but he still does not think he's done anything wrong. So I think really. It's also about educating people about consent so what the message needs to be is that this behavior is unacceptable. You will not be able to be successful in any facet of our entire culture. If this is how you behave Melissa. Silverstein is the founder and publisher of Women in Hollywood Melissa. Thanks so much for coming back on the show. Thanks so much John. Coming up on the frame musician and composer Tamar Kali explains why film composing is like a dance. Welcome back to the frame. I'm John Horn the Brooklyn based film composer. Tamar Kali has had a busy year and it's only February three films featuring her music played at the Sundance Film Festival last month. The last thing he wanted by Director Dee Rees Josephine Deckers Film Shirley and Kitty. Greens the Assistant. And it's all because back in two thousand seventeen. Dee Rees took a chance on her before that. Tamar Kali was playing in a hard rock band and an experimental string ensemble. I asked her about making the transition into film scoring for me. It was really about the technical aspects learning the language of film score composing in terms of cues. How many minutes of Music You know mockups omitting the you know that type of stuff and previously I would just do like minimal styled almost four track demo style demos demo music to my band but now I had to like represent a string. Septet or whatever. The case may be but in terms of writing for film. It's it's it's just collaboration. It's like if you're playing live with other instruments and you know how not to step on each other's toes. It's the same when you're sitting with a scene and you're writing to picture I'm thinking about the atmospheric sound I'm thinking about the ambient sound. I'm thinking about the timber of the actor's voices as well as being stimulated by the image itself. It's a storytelling in a different form. Because if you're writing a song. Performing a song has lyrics like people can read into lyrics. Whatever they want to read. But you don't have lyrics. You have image and you have to make sure that what you're saying is complementing not fighting those. It's a dance and the example that I would give in in late one example that really represented the dance is when I did my first for mudbound. There's a scene where this very distraught women who is like nine months pregnant decides that she's going to murder her husband and the actress was absolutely wonderful and the scene was so powerful. Take me a town. Kill Carl and then she. Does this really intense gotTa Roll? Scream at one point and you see the spaces there for her and the pieces composed to not necessarily complement that but to give space for her to release it. Come.

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"tamar" Discussed on DivaSpeaks

DivaSpeaks

01:55 min | 1 year ago

"tamar" Discussed on DivaSpeaks

"See I bet you've seen of eh where we both agreed with a woman vinci you you wake kidney. We'll get okay what well and grow. Oh in the situation that we're speaking of if we're going to be clear and we're going to be fine with each other. This is the my this is the way I think and this is the way I am and I think I can speak for at least a small population of women. We're into you. The only thing that will keep a woman from actually responding immediately like that is if she has small kids or maybe she has a couple of jobs is working or maybe she has other things. Not You know what I'm saying. Not Dealing with another person going on you know but you. You don't have small kids in the women that you deal with you. Don't entertain being women with small children. We know this is not the gays so typically just like a man woman is is is struggling to give you an answer when she's told you she's single. She's is carrying herself like she's single and she's struggling to give you an answer and you ask her about something going event. You want her to accompany you with days away. She's he's juggling baby. She's juggling. It's okay it's okay as long as as long as people upfront with each other. It's okay to say you know what I'm dating eighty now so I'm not exclusive to nobody but that's not the impression that she had you wonder. Am I correct or not at all. It's a hurricane. She'd have small kids. She didn't have you know. I knew her schedule. Tamar now don't get me wrong if a young woman. I'm and I'm into instruments. You have a child now tellers but you know eight nine ten I did that you get home and feed the kid in a you know..

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