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"It's time for Twitter this weekend, tech, the show we cover the weeks tech, news. Oh, I'm excited about this show because it's three people I adore, starting with a guy I haven't seen since south by Southwest. It's been a while Lance yulin off good to see you. Good to be here virtually. Longtime editor of PC magazine. What are you doing these days? I'm out of my own floating in space. Floating eventually. Heather myself somewhere, but writing a light a lot on medium at the moment. Nice. Your PC mag, you were a mashable. You did digital for a while. Now on his own. TV. Yeah, you took over for me on the live with Regis and, well, it wasn't Regis, but Kelly and whoever's. Kelly and Ryan, that's right. Yeah. That's fun, isn't it? In fact, the last time we talked, I think you mentioned that Marianne had retired our producer. She had. I love that woman so much. Such a sweetheart. And she earned it. Definitely deserved to step away. But yeah, so she's gone. I have a new producer. Actually, I work with a few different ones, but I won main guy. Honestly, that crew there is just fantastic. I love working with those people. Kelly is really sweet person. She's very real. She's genuine, yeah. Yeah. And I never met Ryan, but I'm sure he's fun too. He's fun. He's a real Spitfire. Yeah. Regis was something. I kind of just reached as he was. Never got to work. No, yeah. Also with us are my yoga mate from peace inside dot. Live. Yes. We hung out. Outside your yoga pants. Yeah. We hung out with a really fun couples yoga thing on Valentine's eve Lisa and I, you and your boyfriend and several a number of other couples. The instructor was from Thailand, they were great. It was so much fun. You're gonna do more of those pieces inside life? Yeah, we do virtual retreats. We do workshops and masterclasses around mindfulness meditation and movement and we're bringing peace inside the workplace. So we're doing a lot of work with corporations to build wellness programs as well for their teams. Wow. And no, I don't have yoga pants. They were just, they were just shorts that chat rooms are already going. What? Did you say yoga pants? I was just wearing shorts and a T-shirt. Anyway, great to see you, Shira, peace inside live. Pieces I dot live. If you want to know more, she's very busy. And also, it's great to see devinder hardware, editor in chief. I'm sorry, senior editor and gadget. Senior now you're in chief. No, no. No, who is he over there now? Dana wellman, who is awesome. I've worked with her for a very long time. You don't want to be good. You don't want to be the editor in chief, though. That's too much work. It's too much. There's just so much going on. I want to play with my gadgets. Yeah, exactly. Much more fun. What are you reviewing right now? What are you looking at? I got a bunch of things. I just put up a review of the MSI GS 66 gaming laptop. That's one of the first 1440 P, gaming laptops. So that's pretty cool. We've been stuck with either ten 80 or four K so cool options now. It seems to be suddenly a lot of gaming laptops Lenovo's legion that I see a lot of companies that aren't normally known for you don't think of Lenovo and gaming. But gaming laptops coming out now all of a sudden. They've been doing that for a while, but I don't think anybody's paying attention. Yeah. Yeah, it couldn't be a hotter market. Everybody's stuck at home. What are you going to do? Meanwhile, I'm playing animal crossing. Anybody wants to visit my island, I'll give you my dream code..
Positively T
"t." Discussed on Positively T
"Sharing life's journey with? Is that why you want love? It could be, that seems like a nice thing. It seems like a nice wholesome thing to want love for. But is it because of that or is it because you want to show off to your friends? Or is it to have somebody to treat as your therapist? Or somebody to treat as your energy lifeline that you could just suck off their energy and take it all and so that you can keep it for yourself. Is that why you want to have somebody to love? Um, that doesn't seem like a good reason. And what about to prove that you're worthy of love? Is that the reason just so that you can prove to yourself or others that you're worthy of love? Why? Why? Because you're worthy of love. If you can love yourself then you're worthy of love. So why? Is it to have somebody to mirror your love back to you and have this reflection of two loving beings reflecting love back and forth to one another and outwards to the rest of the community? Or is it to help you feel less unloved? Because if you're feeling less unloved, then you should really stop address the reason that you feel unloved and work through that and grow out of that and find a way to love yourself because that's where it all begins is loving yourself. So what less and provide something of value, give to the community, give to others, be something that is a teacher, be somebody who is a helper. Somebody who's a volunteer, somebody who's a giver, somebody who has information, somebody who has experiences, somebody who brings and lifts people up and you know what? Sooner or later, love will find you because you have created that value and you've gone from being a buyer to a seller. Which brings us back to that garden example that I brought up in the very beginning. If you had a gallon of water and you had a garden in your apartment and you thought that that gallon of water wouldn't last you, you had the whole week until you got another load of water, but it wouldn't last you for the full week. And you started making a fuss thinking, oh my gosh, I need a new gallon of water tomorrow 'cause I'm used to put in a gallon of water in my garden every day. And you start as saying to everybody, where can I get water? Oh my gosh, where can I get this water? You need to give it to me. Please, please, please give me that water. Then the suppliers, the water and ice stores, they're going to know you as that crazy over watering person who is ranting and raving about how they need to put a gallon of water in their garden every single day. They're going to, you're going to instead you want to learn what your garden needs, educate yourself, find out that a gallon of water will last a week. There's no problem. You got it all covered. You got a gallon of water, you got a garden, and that garden will live if you water it throughout the week with that gallon of water. So you need to grow to the point to know that everything is okay, and there's no need to panic. And help others with their gardens. Now that you know this information, share it with other people, list other people up that are water in their gardens and tell them how to treat their gardens, how to nurture their gardens, how much water it needs, how to water it, and what kind of plants they want to have in their garden. And then people will go out of their way to help you. They'll say, that person, he's so helpful. He's so kind, she's so loving. She's showing all these people how to do things. The right way to help them with the things that they are that they need, and so this is the type of person that I like. And maybe they won't. And if they don't, maybe it's because they've been hurt, but that's out of your control. And you have to let that go. And give them time to grow on their own. But likely, they will want your help. They will want to be associated with you because you are a creator of value. And they will want to be associated with your garden. And they'll be throwing water at you, giving you ample supply of water for your garden so that you will no longer be wanting, you will have what you need because you provided to the others and now they are providing to you. So that one thing that you thought you wanted so, so bad, once you stopped focusing on the want and then focusing on providing then you will get everything that you want in return. It's supply and demand. It's the law of just desserts. It's positively tea. And if you want to learn more about that, if you want to learn more about just desserts, then check out positively T dot com. It's all described in there. It's all within the attitude. Everything has an appropriate consequence or reward. And the reward of doing the right thing is getting everything that's right, done to you. So want less provide and reap the rewards. It's coming your way. My name is Troy Harris, and this is positively tea. Thanks for watching and enjoy the rest of your week. Bye bye..
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"t." Discussed on Positively T
"Success, status, money, or love. And they're all types of success. But how do we get, well, it seems that people want these things, but after as much as they want it, it seems to evade them because of the simple rule of supply and demand. And you could have these things instead of wanting them by providing when you don't have enough, your demand drives the supply down. And it's as if you had a gallon of water and found that it wasn't enough to feed your garden in a week. So you're looking around trying to find ways to water that garden and you're just not able to. It's just like that. So you want it, you want these things status money in love, but it continues to evade you because the simple law of supply and demand. And if you were to provide instead of wanting, then you would have these things that you want. Let's explain it a little further. Status. What are we talking about when we say status? Well, I'm talking about having a title. It's that job that you're trying to get, that promotion, that you want, but you don't quite have. Maybe you look at your friend and he has or she has a status that you wish you had and you're trying to find a way to get that same status. What does it do for you? Well, for one, it's probably going to boost your self esteem. You're going to feel a little bit better about yourself once you achieve that status that you think you want. And you're going to have a sense of accomplishment. You're going to say, you know, I wanted that thing and I got that thing. I feel good. But why do you want the things? Ask yourself that, is it to match the level of accomplishment and worth that you have? Or is it to fill a void? You have to really ask yourself the reason, because of it to fill a void, then something else might be wrong there. If it's to prove the haters wrong, oh man, once I get this status, once I get this title, all the people that ever doubted me, they're going to be feeling so shameful. Well, you know what? They're not the ones that are feeling shameful. You should be feeling shameful for having thoughts like that as the motivation. Because it doesn't have to come from a place that like that. And that's the reason why those things are evading you. That's the reason why status has evaded you. It's because you want what you have not earned. You have to earn the status. The thing that you want has a high cost. Now, it doesn't mean that you have to pay money for it, but it means that you have to be worthy of it. You have to do the things that it takes in many places in many companies. They're looking for the right type of person, not just somebody who can simply get a job done. They need a person first. A man first, a woman first, somebody who shares the same values as the company first. And once you accomplish those things, then you're providing then you're setting an example for others, then you're able to achieve that status. So you have to earn these things. And to earn, you must create value. That is making something giving something that is going to help out others in some type of way. Once you start doing that, you go from being a buyer to being a seller and that's how the law of supply and demand works when the price is high, it allows more sellers to sell because they want to make things that have a high price. But it causes buyers to decrease. So right now, if you're a buyer and you want that high cost status, then you're not going to be able to achieve it because you're not selling. So the status and the cost of the status stays the same. But if you switch from being a buyer to being a seller by providing and creating value that you're giving to others, then you're going to be making that status attract you, making that status, find you. And that's where you want to be. Go from buyer to seller and the status finds you. Let's talk about money. Why do you want money? Hey, do you want money? I'd be lying to you if I said I didn't want money. Most people want money. But how do we get it? And why do we want it? Is it to pay for a nice thanks? Um. Well, it could be. Let's see what else. What other reasons might there be? Is it to live more comfortably? All right, well, you know, nothing wrong with that, live more comfortably. Who would it like to be a little bit more comfortable? Have that so to be a little bit more crisp, have that recliner sit a little bit further back? That's the type of life that you want. Isn't it? Um. How about finding money making opportunities? Is that what money has you doing? Does it have you looking for new and different ways to make money? How ethical are these ways of making money? Are you gambling to find more money? Are you hustling to find more money? Huh, I wonder how badly do you need that money? Bad enough to lower yourself, boom. Maybe I don't know. Maybe you want to rethink that. Because maybe you want the money to pay off the debts, but what are the debts from? What did you spend the money on? They got you in debt. And is that something that was necessary? And let's see what other reasons. Is it to prove others wrong? Is it that you want that money so that so that you can say to others, ha ha, look what you thought I couldn't do, but I actually did do. Then maybe you need to check that about yourself. Is it, you know, there's a popular saying that money is a score. That all people are playing for in the game. But that's actually not correct. Because the total necessary of money that people need is different from person to person. So you can have less money than someone else, but if you have enough money, if you have your total necessary money for your own satisfaction, then you've won, you have the high score. So have enough appreciate, and that's not only appreciate what you have, but as a person grow in value, meaning appreciate and stop wanting, but you will actually get it because it will follow you as you create value and give it to others. Now how about those people who want love? Are you out there, people? I wonder, all right. Let's talk about it. Why do you want love? Is it to have someone that will give you affection? Is it to have someone to enjoy the bedroom time with? Um, you know it is, for some people, is there anything wrong with that? I don't know. Who am I to judge? And.
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"t." Discussed on Positively T
"This whole thing that I'm offering is a mindset. It's called positively tea and you're tuned into it right now. And that's what I wanted to do. I wanted to help others. And that's who I am. Somebody who's helping others. Somebody who's been through some hard times really hard times in comparison to some, not so hard times in comparison to others. But in my opinion, you're able to have your opinion. But in mind, I've come a long way. I've addressed my trauma and now I'm serving others. And if you want to see about my mindset and learn about what it was exactly, that got me putting my advices behind me, haven't had a drink since Thanksgiving and it's now February 4th. If you want to see what it is, you can check out my site at positively T dot com. But if not, that's okay. Because the message here is that before you judge others, show compassion. You never know what's going on in their life, what's leading them to do what they do. And what their motivations are. So in the end, my message to you is serve the community in your own way, whatever that may be. And love yourself, first and foremost. Because that ladies and gentlemen is what it's all about. Thank you. My name is Troy Harris, peace and love and enjoy the rest of your day. Bye bye..
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"Hello, everybody. Welcome to a brand new episode of positively tea. I'm your host, Troy Harris. Welcome back. And I know what you're saying. Oh gosh, here goes that annoying guy again. Thinking heat a black Tony Robbins, they can hear the modern day Martin Luther King, who does he think he is the snap. But hold up. I know you thinking that I'm a clout chaser. But hold up. You don't know me. These are opinions. And yes, opinions you get to decide. But what you don't get to decide are facts. And let me tell you some facts about who I am. I'm Troy. I was born on April 24th, 1984. I was born to a black mother and father. My mother worked at a bakery when I was born. And my father was a civil engineer. This was in Phoenix Arizona. And I grew up there. My mother and father, they tried to make a marriage work for one or two years, but they got divorced because it did not work. They just weren't compatible, and it wasn't meant to be. Such is life. I grew up a little different than most folks. I grew up with a single parent father. And I lived with his parents temporarily and Gary Indiana. That was for kindergarten. And then my mom, she was exploring herself in the country at that time. And eventually she got remarried. My father got remarried. My mother went to Australia and my father had a blended family in Phoenix, Arizona that I was a part of. So I would live in Phoenix with my blended family, and then on summer vacations and other vacations, I would go and visit Australia to see my mom's family, which was in a way a blended family, but I wasn't living there. I was going to visit and I would see my stepdad and my little brothers who lived there. And in high school, I was, I went from being in the band to now being full time focusing on sports. And my main two sports were football and track. And outside of sports, you could say I ran with the tough crowd. I had some friends that were a little rugged, a little rough around the edges. And they were in the rap music. And I was the producer and I would make beats and we would rap I was in the group. We would all do it together. And I learned a lot. Those are some really close friends of mine and have some great memories of those times. But at that time as well, I was experimenting with drugs and alcohol. What I consider to be vices. And I really did experiment a whole lot throughout high school, which is a little young for experimentation. But that's what I did. This is my story, and these are the facts. My dad, at that time, he got another divorce, and so I started having these vices lead to legal trouble. And I ended up spending a lot of time in money dealing with some of these legal troubles. I went on to college and I was at Scottsdale community college and I suffered a really tough injury. Two, and it was in my shoulder and in my hernia area. And at that time I was at Scottsdale community college, I was injured. I couldn't play football that year. So I started focusing more on the school. And I was doing film school at Scottsdale, so I was able to focus on that. And then I left Scott community college and transferred to U of a. I was still focused in thinking I was going to be a film person solely focusing on that at U of a, but I was encouraged by some friends to walk on to the track team and I actually made the team. I walked on to not only the track team, but the football team, yes, I did make the team in football, but I didn't get in a game, who knows what would have happened. I kind of have some stage fright that I deal with, so I may have not done what I believe that I was capable of. Who knows? We'll never know. But in track, I did have some great accomplishments. In fact, I finished with a school record and I also finished with a all American status by the time I left. And LA, which is where I moved after college, I had an internship, and I freelanced in the film and TV industry. And I was dabbling in the background acting. But what I really wanted to do was direct a feature film. But I wasn't making any headway in this department. So I was feeling a little frustrated. And I was also dealing with the recovery of a paternity scare. And I phrased it like this. You could call it whatever you want. Basically, somebody that I was with, a young lady. I was parenting a kid and then turned out the kid was somebody else's. And I had to deal with that. And all these other traumas throughout my life, I had to learn to deal with that. I had to cope, had to find a way to make it work. And I pivoted to the logistics industry. And let me just tell you right now, I am solely representing my own thoughts when I say this, but I pivoted to the logistics industry, which some consider leaving the dream behind because I was dreaming of entertainment and went in a completely different direction towards logistics. And so these are the struggles. Professional struggles, trying to figure out how am I going to still pursue a dream and entertainment when I've completely left it behind. Being a high functioning attic, being able to pass as doing my job and make my employers believe that I'm totally engaged without any toxins, but I wasn't. Being able to do many functions, but still suffering on the inside with the vices that I was consuming. Also, the self image, myself image, having a struggle trying to figure out why am I disappointed in my look in my image? How can I be happy with how I look when I wasn't at the time? Dealing with internal feelings of abandonment struggles of why did my family do what it did as I was growing up and why did it look how it looked and how about these injuries feeling in my body just pain romantic setbacks and you name it. I was dealing with it depression and anxiety and going to see therapists, but then I realized that I had the ability to put it all behind me and that's exactly what I did. I was able to say times can be tough. Things can happen to you in your life. But if you don't like what's happening, change it. And if you can't change it, change the way you look at it. And that's what I did. I started to look at what was wrong with my life and make efforts and focus on the achievements rather than the difficulties. And each step at a time I took it and I was getting closer and closer to where I wanted to be. I was raising out of the funk that I was in and it made sense to me in such a way that I created.
Positively T
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Positively T
"t." Discussed on Positively T
"You don't want to be violent to yourself, you can be kind to yourself and actually find inner peace within. So the human body works just like the human population through a system of justice. So using justice on yourself with your own mind, your own body, your own soul, is how you can have everlasting peace, and you can share with others around you. And I'm going to talk to you about that. So I tested it on myself and I found in a short amount of time that it worked. You guys might remember it was right here on the same platform. I was shooting videos, making workout videos of myself trying to reach the goal of 180 pounds in three months. I didn't reach it in three months, but I got there in four months, and you guys were there along the journey. What I was doing was I was exploiting my insecurity. In a good way, I knew that attention was something that I craved. I wanted people's approval. So I put myself on live stream, working out, and it made me work out, and I got fit in what happens when you do that is you get healthier. So you grow secure, but what you need to do is maintain that esteem, maintain that self esteem because as you grow secure, you're not going to have the need to crave attention, but you are going to have the need to maintain healthiness. So rather than seeking the attention and approval from external sources, you look within and yourself approving of your behaviors, your working out, you're getting fit is what's going to allow you to maintain and build that self esteem while maintaining security about yourself because you're getting stronger and stronger..
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"Talk to everybody in the room, remember names, that helps you appear confident, but what about actually being confident? How do you get there on the inside? And that's what I'm here to talk about. That's what positively tea is. Building you from the inside, building confidence so that you become confidence rather than just the parent confident and it starts with you. And what positively tea is going to do is going to break the self limiting things that is counting as obstacles to confidence in your life such as doubt, shame, and things of that nature insecurity that are obstacles preventing your growth. Why am I doing it, you're asking? Well, the reason why I'm doing it is simple because I love people. I love people and there's some people out there that are down right now just like I used to be. And I would have wanted somebody to help me. In my times of being down and that's what this is for is to help anyone who is down like I used to be, raise up, raise themselves up in a way that would have made sense for me when I was down. That's what this is. I was in a rut. I was having many struggles, you name it, I was having that struggle from self image, to dealing with depression, to dealing with addiction, to dealing with family issues, feelings of abandonment, lack of self esteem, I was going through it. And I found a chance to talk to myself in the mirror and I said, to myself, I'm going to change. I'm going to change my patterns. And I tested it out. And it worked. And it still working, and I'm still trying it. I'm still changing myself to become a better person. And it's an everyday job. And everyday duty to myself to become that person. And I like that. And it's being able to deliver it in a way that I would have wanted. So what happened to make me do this? Well, I was looking at pictures of myself and they really showed that I was unhappy. You could tell it wasn't hard to see. And it also showed that I was unhealthy. You could tell by looking at anything in the picture of me, whether it was my face or my body, the look on my face, the features, I did not look like a happy or healthy person. So I decided to I decided that good health was re attainable. I had had good health before, and I knew what it took to get there. I lost my way, but I decided that taking steps towards getting it again was all it would take, and that that's hard work and sacrifice and a focus and commitment. And I found a pattern in people as a whole that related to me the same way as a person is, in other words, the human body, the human body, what we have, our torso, arms, legs, head, works in the same way as the human body, like the student body is everybody in the school, the human body is everybody in the world. And your body works the same way as the human population. Finding peace, finding peace, nonviolently, because the only type of lasting piece is nonviolence, the reason if you have peace that's reached because of violence, it's only temporary because soon there's going to be a retaliation. Eventually. And peace will be no longer. But through nonviolence, you can actually have sustainable lasting peace and it's the same thing in your body..
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"Hello, everybody. And welcome to positively tea. I'm your host, Troy Harris. And I really want to just thank you guys for coming along with me as I go through my Tony Robbins type of style thing. Just sharing it with you really brings me joy and peace. And I really feel like I'm onto something with this positively tea attitude and I just want to share it with you guys because I don't know, but I feel like somebody out there someone out there just may be struggling trying to find sense out of everything that's going on in their life. And this message, this might help them find what it is that it would take to bring them to help themselves and that's my goal. That's my mission. Speaking to Tony Robbins, I would just watch the movie shallow how, what's really enlighten me about Tony Robbins himself. His mission, his goals, and he talked about finding a connection with somebody with dignity and courage and it just the message of the whole movie about him being a shallow person and only looking on the outside really hit me in a new kind of way and made me realize that it is about the deep down stuff and it's difficult to talk about because it's not sexy. It's not cute, but it's real and if you're really struggling to find some deep down meaning in what you're going through in life, especially in these hard times, then I definitely recommend working on yourself on the inside so that you can have the life that you want to live. So speaking of, why are we here? What is positively T? Let me tell you, in today's discussion, we're going to talk about what it is. Why I'm doing it? What happened to make me do it? What it entails and what it all means. So what is it? What is positively to your asking? Well, positively tea is my delivery of tips for self confidence. It's not a scattered around tip here, tip there, type of thing because what I found is when you have just random scattered tips, it doesn't help you on the inside. What it does, it helps you appear to be confident, you know, stand up straight, speak with a loud voice, have a firm handshake, smile, you know, project yourself,.
Positively T
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"The 7 steps to success. This is what I created based on the other pillars to achieve a goal. Because whatever your goal is, you're not there yet and you're striving to be there. And even if you are there somewhat, you're striving to continue to be there. So you find your identity, then you define your current state. You create the goal and you create a system to link yourself to the goal. You work the system, you forgive yourself for setbacks and grow. And remember, positivity always. So let's break it down a slow it down because I don't want you to get the idea that these are just blah blah blah. You find your identity. What is it that you want to be, is it that you want to be the underdog, the person who strives hard and achieves it? Quite possibly. I know for me, that's the case. But what's your current state? Are you somebody who is wanting, but not actually doing? Okay, then let's be realistic because that's the best way you're going to be able to get there. So create the goal. You want to be somebody who has actor as their title or perhaps you want to be an executive or perhaps you want to be a director. So that can be a goal. But you're not just going to become it because you say it, you have to have a system and it could be as simple as letting time pass. But we know as people were not motivated simply only by time all the time. We need things to help motivate us and push us. That's why we have such tricks in our mind to help us decide to do things incentives and punishments such as candy, such as potato chips and things that you like to do, treating yourself. And other things that you don't like to do so that you can punish yourself for not doing the activity. So if you don't like to clean the bathroom, if you don't like to eat asparagus, then those are things that you can force yourself to do as a system if you're not doing the activities that are going to help you reach your goal. And you have to have smart goals because that's the way that it's going to help you actually do them. Put a measurement that you know that you can either achieve or you have not achieved based on a time frame. And then you know that you've done it or you haven't done it. And then work the system. So do those actions. And if you do the actions but still fall short of your goal, being actual is the point because you don't, it's not that you failed that matters, but it's that you know that you failed and you can forgive yourself so that you can do the activities that it takes to succeed the next time around. Because if you have a positive mindset, even your failures are successes because you know what it's going to take to help you grow. And the last one is the first one to me, which is just desserts. Justice. That's what it's all based around. And that's why I started my speech with that. Everything has an opposite and equal reaction. So you have to think about it. That was Einstein who said that. And justice is real, justice is what helps the outcome become what it is based off of the things that led up to it. So those are why the punishments and the incentives help you because when you do something good, you feel good about it. When you help yourself reach your goal, you feel good about it. There's actual sacrifices that you have to make such as working out and that hurts to actually do, but the result is something you love, which is looking and feeling good. So make your sacrifices count towards your goals in that way, the pain is worth it. And the just desserts are worth it. Now, what I want to tell you next is that my belief is that you can be great. With this mindset, you, you, listening, can be great. If your current mindset isn't helping you become great, that's okay. You can adopt mine. I used to be disillusioned, thinking that I was doing just fine. But I wasn't, but then I changed my mindset. And now I'm powered. I empowered by not being shut down by any toxins, not being held back by any toxins or any negativity that can hold me down. I'm able to overcome those thoughts, and I did it by embracing my mindset. It actually living what I was talking about. Now I'm drug and alcohol free coming up on two months and I don't see myself changing anytime soon. You can be great too. If you want to follow my lead, then I would love to have you do that. Like positively tea on Facebook and on Instagram at I am Troy Harris, join the firefly nation if you're looking to be drugging alcohol free on Facebook within the positively T page. Or if you just want to have a positive mindset, then join the group positively me. Subscribe to my podcast, positively T and thank you for watching. Have a great rest of your day. I'm Troy Harris, signing off. Bye bye..
Positively T
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"And I'm so glad you could join positively T I'm your host, Troy Harris. And welcome, Ronnie Palmer. I'm a just update this. With Facebook, so I can give you my speech that I have not even practiced because I just wanted to mainly be from the heart. And it's really what I truly feel, so I hope you like it. Now let me tell you this. It's what I believe. My belief is that we should unite on the matter of justice. Inner justice, not just outer justice, because we want to find inner peace, not just outer peace. We can all have the power and can reach our full potential. That's the reason that I want us to have justice. I want us to find it and I want us to unite on justice because we can all reach our full potential. You can, I can, and people that you know can. And it all is related to justice. Here's an example, I found how my life related to justice, and I was able to kick a lifelong addiction to drugs and alcohol. And I don't even want or have a need to have it right now. And it's been over a month, almost two months. And it's really truly something that you can do too. Because if you can change your mindset and we can unite on the fact that it's justice that's the point of it all, then I'll tell you how to get that done. So my point in saying this is that we should unite on the matter of justice. It's my belief, my belief is that this is my purpose to share my mindset. Based around justice to help you find inner peace. And the reason is because I've overcome so much in my life. There's been things that I've gone through in and out of my control. Ranging from abandonment to legal issues, to having to sacrifice my dream. Deciding to sacrifice my dream that is, because with the mindset change, everything changes perspective. And an example of that was, again, how I was able to kick lifelong addiction to drugs and alcohol with this mindset. And you can do it too. Follow my lead. This is my purpose. I truly believe it, to share my mindset based around justice to help you find inner peace as I did. Now, what is my belief? What is my mindset? I'll break it down to you right here. It's a 5 pillar mindset. So let me draw the 5 pillars. One, two, three. Four. 5. And the 5 pillars, start with four dimensions. What are the four dimensions you might be asking? The four dimensions are space and time. That's all we have to work within in this life of ours. We have space, length width and height, the space you take up and the space you move within and the time from the moment you're born to the moment you retire. It's all that we have in this world, and those are the parameters within which we have to work. The second pillar are the three phases. It's like everything from flowers to motors to you, your personal self and the people that you surround yourself with, the three phases are simply consumption, explosion, and exhaustion. If you think about everything from take yourself, what you eat, how you expand your energy and how you recover. As well as who you surround yourself with, the communication that you take in that you put into your mind and embody yourself, and then the actions that you take out. What you don't allow in your life, what you don't allow to enter your garden or don't allow to enter your engine, all is important as well. The three types of health is the next pillar. Three types of health are mental, physical, and spiritual. Now, you might be asking, what about financial health? And I say, that's just something that you made up because finances are something that was made up. There's resources which are real. And they get spread around and people get more than others based on what should be effort, but not always the case. And it's passed down through generations. But all that stuff is just an illusion, if you will, because like the animals in nature, we're all in nature, we're all in the wild and we only have our physical mental and spiritual health..
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"Hey everybody, welcome to positively tea. I am going to start the show. Let's begin with a few slides. What I want to do is get to this. It is a photo of my workouts through the week. All right, the first workout that we did this week was the fly. And you can see the form here. I have the dumbbells, one in each hand, and I do a fly like motion, like a bird, reaching out to each side so that I could work my shoulders and back muscles. This is going to be really good for that upper body workout, which is how we started our week. The next thing that we did was we chose bench press. And with the bench press, I elevated myself on these boxes and grab some heavier weights and really push up towards the sky as you can see there with my nice beach background and I did a bench press to help out my chest muscles and also works out the triceps and biceps, a really good overall upper body workout as well. The next thing was I did the next day was a squat workout. And I was doing some heavy squats. I had 225 pounds there on the balcony, and I just reached down low and got back high. And I just wanted to work out that lower body since the day before I had done the upper body, and I did squats, which helps out the quads, the hamstrings, the calves, everything that you could imagine in your lower body, the buttocks, it all gets worked out when you do squats. And the following day, I did sit ups with the medicine ball, and you can see there I have my sit up bench, it's a decline bench, and I was doing twists, so it works out the abs and the obliques. It also does some upper body, but that's not the focus. The focus is the core as you reach over your head, you contract those ab muscles and you twist to each side, really making the center of your body strong so that you can build out from there with your arms and legs..
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"Yay. It's a new episode of ruta woking and I'm your host Troy Harris. And I know exactly going through when it comes to government, I feel you. I definitely do, 'cause I know what y'all thinking. Governments, they tell you what to do. You just trying to live your life and the government is always telling you how much to pay it and how to live your life and what sort of laws and restrictions you got to live under. And I know it feels restricted. But I also know how you feel when it comes to other governments. You looking at different countries, governments, and I mean, I got a whole list of them right here. And I know how you feel about them. You got democracies where people choose their leadership and fair representation and people debate and compromise and at least the majority rule. And you like, well, what about how I feel? And I important forget the majority, remember tea. Remember how I feel? And you got communism where there's a centralized single party and it replaces private and profit with public ownership and there's a classless society and you think in aw man, that ain't good 'cause then you definitely like those countries that the U.S. doesn't like. So I'm part of the U.S., so I don't like them either. And then you got situations like socialism, where there's cooperation rather than competition and then there's communal ownership of the goods and the government is managing it and there's each.
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"Troy Harris mindset, you know that there's going to be setbacks. However, for any setback, you know that you're able to grow from it and you're able to learn what is going to be what is it going to take to achieve this goal is because whatever it did, the last time and it failed, then some other approach has got to be the one that you learn from your mistakes that will work the next time around. So be patient as you learn this as you struggle through the issues that come across that make people react certain ways. And find the right way eventually so learning from yourselves and being honest with yourself is essential so that you can make the desired reality become the actual reality and by seeing where they're both at and by aligning it and by becoming it. And then you also have understanding as you understand it, you don't have to think about it because it becomes you. And as you gain the understanding you apply it to everything that you do and you can share with others so that if they're struggling and they come to you for advice because they see that you have it going on in your life, then you're able to share your understanding, you don't spread hate what you do is you spread love and if you're struggling with something that you still hate, struggle with things that you worry about, you struggle with things that you have grief from, then you don't spread it, you can seek help and you can find people that will help you. But you don't spread the hate, what you do is you learn from those feelings, you grow, and you share with others what it took for you to grow the sacrifices that you were able to go through that help you grow that can help them grow. And then if they grow, then they can pass it forward to another person and you can appreciate and have gratitude and you can have empathy with others because you understand what it was like because you've been there yourself. So having that understanding and everything else that I mentioned is part of the process to helping this world become a better place, which ultimately this world can be a very great place. You can have peace and justice among all people, and we don't have to resort to name calling, in fact, we can all love one another and be totally different people and still have entertainment and still have all the great things that we have always enjoyed. And enjoy the process together. So thank you so much everybody for listening for this podcast. The addition episode 9. My name is Troy Harris, and I'll be back again next week. Thank you so much. Have.
Positively T
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"There's no need for that when you see other folks as brothers. Am I saying that they got to be able to use the word too? No, I'm not saying that. Am I saying that you got to keep using the word yourself? You know, if you're a fellow black person, like myself, no, I'm not saying that either. Am I saying you got to stop? No, I'm not saying that either. I'm just saying the approach that you can take the approach that I take is that we don't have to own the word in keep it for ourselves to realize it justify our individuality. We can know that we are an individual and we can know that there is no group wide individuality. We're all different. Yet we were all created equal. So we don't need to own this, but in order to achieve the reality of not needing to own this, we have to see justices take place. We have to be welcome to the table. And it hasn't taken place yet. You have the fact that there's been no apology for slavery. You have the fact that there's been no payout missing the word right now, but for the efforts that were taking place by and put forward by slaves in America. And do we need that? Hey, you know, I believe that justice will always find a way to move forward. So whether or not, you know, it's going to come forward in the form of an apology and pay out or it's going to drive black folks to try even harder to gain the justice that we have earned through hopefully legal activities voting and protesting and changing of the laws..
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"Treating other people badly, and so that leads to bad feelings which lead to bad actions, which leads to further depression of your own self respect. But you don't have to be this way. It doesn't have to be this way for any of us, because you can approach things in a different way. The way that I approach issues is my way and it's this way. It's understanding that signs are your social construct. So the word the N word is a social construct. And anything that can be constructed can be deconstructed. Now, I know that humans are one race. So if we have signs, which is basically a representation of the N word, for example, as one thing, and we have humans being one race has another thing, then we should never have any sign effect any race any differently because we are all one race. We were all created equal. So how could something that is fake hurt.