35 Burst results for "Sugar"
The Nutritional Advantages of Oats
"Week. We're talking about oats. Oh so very good. I always feel that everyone needs to know oats. Yes absolutely so. What would you like to share about oats well other than than the the typical health benefits votes. There's actually two compounds in oats that i don't think very many people know about and so wanted to talk about those today but then also talk about the various types of oats. I think a lot of people have heard of these different types but they don't really know how they're prepared and what makes them different from each other. Good good good topic all right. Yeah so. I think most people probably know that oats Help lower cholesterol. He also helped to lower blood pressure and stabilize blood. Sugar levels have also been known to help people with diabetes. So that's a one of the important things and a lot of these benefits In the past were attributed to a particular type of fiber that's in the oats called beta glue can And that has really kind of gotten most of the attention in previous studies on oats and their health benefits. But we're coming to find out that Oats contain more than twenty unique polyphenol compounds which are like phytochemicals Called evanston reminds have strong antioxidant anti inflammatory and anti itching properties which is why people can use. Oats says a bath like if you get poison oak or poison ivy. Get that itchiness on your skin. The compounds and oats are known to reduce that. Oh so that's why that you know they're known for that And then there's a couple of other compounds called avino kocides that Together with the of the ninian through reminds and the venacuro sides. Which are i mean. Both of them are really hard to say. Yes but these are just polyphenol compounds They've also been shown to prevent colon cancer And also heart disease because they help to reduce the the production of nitric oxide in the artery and And also help with the smooth muscle in the artery. So they're they've been studied widely for this now.
The Life of Patsy Matsu Mink
"Hat matsu. Takemoto was born in pya. Maui hawaii territory. On december sixth nineteen twenty-seven patsies grandparents emigrated from japan to work in hawaii. Sugar plantations growing up as a third generation. Japanese american patsy witnessed heavy discrimination towards japanese americans and indigenous hawaiians when patsy was fourteen years old fighter jets bombed pearl harbor. Patsies father was subsequently taken by authorities one night and heavily questioned. Though her dad returned safely. The next day patsies family lived in fear from that point on patsy later said that that moment made her realize that one couldn't take citizenship and the promise of the. Us constitution for granted hats. He graduated for maui high school as both class president and valedictorian. She went on to study to different colleges in the mainland. Us before moving back to hawaii in nineteen forty eight. Patty graduated from the university of hawaii. With a bachelor's in chemistry and zoology patsies original career goal was to become a physician but no medical school would accept her so she decided to change career paths and instead pursued law she applied to university of chicago's law school and accidentally got accepted as a foreign student at the time. Patsy was one of only two women in her class in nineteen fifty one. Patsy earned her. Jd and married graduate student. John francis mink a year later. The couple had their only child. Patsy faced a lot of discrimination for being a working mother and having an interracial marriage many major chicago law firms rejected her application so her family relocated to honolulu in nineteen fifty-three patsy. He became the first japanese american and woman to pass the bar and practiced law in hawaii but many law firms in hawaii still turned her away instead. Patsy went into private practice and taught business law at the university of hawaii.
Food Prices Go Up Globally
"Today we're looking at food prices so sally. I'm not sure if you're feeling a bit a sticker shock at the supermarket aisle or pain at the grocery counter. I mean i live in brooklyn we go to the deli but have you seen the price of bagels lately. Not getting any cheaper this month. Consumer price index came out today and it is five point three percent and that means that. Us prices of role in august with five point three percent higher than they were this time last year and food prices. They are growing at a pretty steady clip at three percent per year. But the little bit of food price increases that we're seeing in the. Us is small compared to what's happening globally according to the un's food and agriculture organization wholesale prices for food like we sugar mate. They're up thirty three percent from a year
Eating the Foods Your Genetic Background Needs With Dr. BJ Hardick
"I know you work obviously with different clients. All over the place in your clinic is in london ontario. Yes right and talk about your experience working with people and really helping them. Adapt more of a ketogenic and nate lifestyle using intermittent fasting. Things like that sure. Well the first thing just trying to move towards more of a ketogenic lifestyle when you're actually eliminating grains and sugars is even though there's a lot more awareness right now people still freak out when they're told you can't have grains you can't have sugar right and a lot of times people say well wait a second you know. These are foods of the earth. The mother nature gave us pineapples and oranges and pears. And all these things we tell those be bad for you. And i always go back to this and and i think first of all you have to recognize that people have different. Genetic backgrounds are gonna processed foods differently They're going to have different types of metabolism. Some people based on where they're where they're from the world may do better with one type of food than another but in principle when you think about the higher sugar foods and the ones grains that turn into sugars. You know the reality is you know. I'm a northern caucasian. I would not be from a part of the world are pineapples are growing year round saying well what would my culture have thrived now it starts to get a little dicey when through the years. Go on twenty two in me and you find out that five percent this. I said it's not always necessarily black or white. So i do believe in listening to your body and seeing how you should in the first place but the first thing is when you tell people to eliminate these foods that they could. Actually you know a mother. Nature's foods are god's people say well that's not right because i'm supposed to eat those tax and the reality is you have to also differentiate not just. How's your body's supposed to eat but are you really trying to deal with some type of illness or a disease because there are certain illnesses that can do better under certain diet programs even though those changes are associated with the cause of the best one for example is sealy people if need gluten but consuming. Gluten doesn't cause ceac right so same thing with you know if somebody has information and they have gall bladder issues while they probably shouldn't have a ton of fat all at once but just eating fat. Your whole lifetime isn't going to give you those gallbladder so we could go on and on and on about that i. I had a friend who was dealing with cancer not consuming any fruit. Well we've never suggested that consuming fruit gave you the cancer. But we do know that getting into this state where your body's not having relied on sugar is going to benefit the immune system to help nutrition. Yeah exactly so so you have to look at it. I doing this for some clinic. Some clinical name. Or am i doing this because it is just the way my body was designed writers
Interview With Patrick Bangert of Samsung SDS
"So patrick i'm glad to be able to have you with us on the program here today and we're gonna be talking. Ai at the edge particularly in the world of medical devices. Which is i know where a lot of your focus is here. We're gonna get into some of the unique challenges of leveraging data and ai at the edge in the medical space. But i want to talk first. About what kinds of products. We're talking about people think medical devices. Okay well medtronic is tracking my blood sugar on the side of my arm and you know. Then i've got a big cat scan machine kicking around over here. What kind of devices does your work involve with. And and his edge relevant From your experience. Thank you for having me on the show pleasure to be here. We are dealing with medical imaging devices. So if you have a smart watch on your wrist. That's not what we deal with. Even though those are very useful of course to measure your exercise and sleep patterns we're dealing with technologies like an ultrasound and mri is not an x ray. And what's called digital pathology which is where a biopsy is removed and put on a microscopic slide. Those kinds of technologies produce images that are relevant to telling you whether you're sick at all hopefully not or if you are what kind of disease it is. And so the job of computer vision in this case is to detect whether is a disease diagnose what it is to find out where it is to find out how big it is advanced in if cancer stage one. Three how advanced it is. And all of these outputs can of course be created. Virtually instantaneously by executing artificial intelligence models at the edge and the edge in this case is the device itself. Yeah okay so. Some devices are huge. Mri scanners take up a whole room. As some devices are quite small ultrasound. Machines view could transport it in your suitcase and so there's obviously also price difference here but nonetheless. All of these technologies do produce an image that that is then analyzed by
Podcaster Jillian Hamilton on the Difference Between Physical and Emotional Cheating
"Talk about the difference between physical and emotional cheating and the difference in how males and females respond to those two topics. The difference between physical cheating and emotional cheating is just what it sounds like. Emotional cheating has really proliferated because we have this online space so actually people feel a greater sense of familiarity and closeness online often than they do in person in person. You gotta have date number one and it might be three weeks before you have date number two. It's hard to get together but when you're online you have constant access to this person so everything from good morning sugar to night night and everything in between your with this person all day long and it gives you the sense of really knowing their lifestyle how they spend their time you might get you know reactions on things that happen to them. Throughout the day so emotional cheating can really be very powerful and very common because we all have the device right there with us. How do you differentiate between emotional cheating and just a friendship emotional. Cheating has to have a secretive component to it. This is something that your partner your spouse doesn't know about it's something you're hiding and it's more than likely giving you a great sense of thrill you know you're looking forward to hearing from this person. I when i first started this. I started talking to everybody. Anyone i'd meet. I'd say oh so. Have you ever dated anyone. Who cheated. And i met this random stranger and he told them about the podcast. He said i have to tell you. I've been having an affair. I really would you like to talk about it. And he said yes. I send music back and forth with this woman every night and my wife has no idea and by the time i get up from this table it was dinner time. I'm going to be running back to my car to see what music she sent to me. And i live for it every single day. That's an emotional affair. I mean he didn't tell his wife and he was so attached to her. Yeah it's wild and it is. It's like a friendship that serving some need so it goes a little further than
The Benefits of a Plant-Based Keto Diet for Cancer
"I wanted to ask you something. Specific about this This plant based kito for cancer. Because i read a very interesting article you had online. And i want you to bring out from that. What is the number one. Food that cancer cells love and that we should avoid. Yeah absolutely well cancer cells. They thrive on sugar. So they are what we call anaerobic and so they don't need the presence of oxygen like he talked about and they break down sugar and they produce a lot of metabolic waste and they literally survive on sugar. And so you know we're going to prevent cancer or we're going to heal cancer. One of the key strategies is reducing significantly reducing the intake of sugar and starch. So now this this brings into an interesting dichotomy here because some people use a vegan diet to overcome cancer and they do but there may be a better way of doing that here. You talk about a plant based diet being different than what someone would call a vegan diet and what plant exclusive diet so so. What's the difference. There so vegan diet is going to be completely devoid of animal products whereas a plan based ketogenic diet. Like what i teach is just. It really means that plants. We're going to be the majority of the diet right. So let's say eighty maybe even ninety percent of the diet plant based utilizing certain animal products that provide high nutrient density and are lower in particularly protein. And we can talk about that as we as we go on. Okay now that may be very interesting to some folks who have adopted a kito die because usually when people say kito. They see the complete absence of carbs and mostly protein and fat. But you're talking about you know a lot of green foods that inherently have a lot of the Have a lot of fiber which you know brings that carbohydrate count down to a low net carbs. Could you explain how that works. Yeah absolutely so when we look at carbs we'd got sugar starch and fibre really the main carbohydrates that we look at now. The ones that we digest and break down into glucose or sugar in our bloodstream or sugar and starch fibers in digestible. By our bodies our gut bacteria will break it down and no produce b vitamins in different nutrients from it but basically fiber is not counted. It's not going to elevate your blood sugar and so you can. Consume high amounts of fiber and fiber has great benefits for helping pull out toxic bile out of our system helping support our microbiome helping detoxify our body so So getting a good amount of fiber when you're when you are when you cancer or when you're trying to prevent cancer is really good strategy and plant foods really provide a great megadose of fiber. We're looking for plant. Foods that are lower in sugar lower in starched we call them. The non starchy
Apple Cider Vinegar: Supporting Liver and Gallbladder Health
"Bile is also important for blood. Sugar metabolism so actually helps to activate the fx are in the t. g. five receptor sites. That helped to modulate needs a ride. In the tarot sites the intestinal cells and that helps to modulate our blood. Sugar metabolism so helps keep blood sugar under control. Insulin release under control so may poor bile flow. Were more likely to develop high blood. Sugar diabetes insulin resistance issues like that of course helps sweep these water. Soluble toxins out of our system. As well and big issue is a lot of people end up getting calcification of very sluggish bile flow and they'll end up getting calcification and bile stones that will end up in these ducks that you can see the image. They're now a couple of things that really helped with this help to dilate the bile ducts and help to reduce the stag necessity. The bile help to thin the bile so it can flow. Well one is apple cider. Vinegar huge fan of using this great idea to put this on your food. Drink it before. Your meal seeking actually put some in water and drink it mixed with soups and stews. And you can use it as a morning primer as well as put in some water and drink it. I do that in the morning pretty much every day. Very good the malic acid. That's narrates very good for dilating the bile ducts apple cider vinegar. Also when you put it on food helps to pre digest the food so the acids in their help to stimulate your own digestive juices so your stomach. Acid your bile pancreatic enzyme release but then also when he put it on the food because it's acidic. It's actually helping to break down the protein. The carbohydrates things like that if the digestive process started before even put it in your body so really good idea now. What i don't recommend is Drinking this straight you wanna really dilute it if you drink it straight. It's going to be very harsh on your esophagus. And that's not healthy. Offer some people. You might gargle with it. You know if you have a sore throat. In order doubt sterilize and kill bacteria that might be damaging your throat however in general on a day-to-day basis. You wanna make sure you're deluding this. Pretty well I would say at least four. Ounces of water per tablespoon of apple cider
Is Thinning Hair a Sign That Something Else Is off With Your Health?
"The first thing. That comes to my mind when i hear about thinning. Hair especially with women is that That could have a potential thyroid problem and generally. It's going to be hypothyroid where they don't have enough thyroid. Hormone the way that you would test for. That would be a thyroid blood panel. That's one of the symptoms that you'll find with somebody who doesn't have enough thyroid. Hormones is hair loss so that would be definitely something that i would want to get checked out right away. Usually there's going to be other symptoms associated with that things like fatigue weight gain and such but certainly place to start in addition to that though there are other factors that are actually probably more common that we see in my My health health clinic when my in my coaching program and that is going to be things like stress we have. We live in a stressful society. Right now and no doubt. It can be accumulated stress that can create that it can be sudden stress. Even i've a story about a young lady who works for me who began working out and she really went from zero to sixty overnight with her workouts and she noticed one of her symptoms from that was hair loss. So any kind of stress. It doesn't have to be emotional. Stresses the way that we think of but also a bigger issue is going to be what. We call hormone resistance. You can have adequate levels of thyroid hormone about fifty percent of the people who have thyroid. Problems will actually test normal if they went actually in and got that blood test. But what's happening is the hormone itself while it's in the blood it's there to be tested and it's you know they can read it as normal but if it's not able to get into the cells of the body then it can't do its job and that hormone resistance. People have heard of insulin resistance as it relates to diabetes. A lot of people have heard of that. it's not just insulin. it can be thyroid. it can be. Estrogen can be testosterone any type of hormone that is being resisted at the cell. And a can't get in and do its job. You're gonna get symptoms like you don't have enough of those hormones The the reason that we have that is because the cells become damaged and when they become damaged because we eat too much sugar. We have too many bad fats. What i would call denatured fats Too many toxins in our life too much stress not enough quality sleep nutrient deficiencies these type of things that i would associate with western lifestyle if you will. They can damage ourselves. When our cell membrane becomes damage now it becomes inflamed when it becomes inflamed. It can it can actually create a barrier where the hormones cannot be. They're not able to get into the
The Jews Settle in Cuba
"Jewish settlement in cuba the first jewish inhabitants were known as morales in fifty eight. The bishop of cuba wrote to spain declaring that every ship back in havana was filled with hebrews new christians. These were jews recently converted to christianity in fifteen o to inquisition proceedings. Began against the merano's in cuba. The secret juice of cuba arranged for trade between the thirteen colonies. And the use of jamaica barbados and other caribbean islands. This unable the colonies to sell goods and by military and civilian supplies. The spanish constitution of sixty nine removed all restrictions on the settlement of juice in latin america and at that time over five honda spanish jews engaging commerce in cuba and five to six jewish families were amongst the wealthiest in cuba jews were among the founders of the commercial king sugar fields and the first refineries in eighteen sixty two through eight thousand ninety five many american us join cubans in their fight for independence. The first jewish cemetery in cuba was established by the united states. Army for the american jewish soldiers who died during the spanish american war in eighteen ninety eight in nineteen six. The cemetery were sold to the united hebrew congregation primarily by american jews. Most of the members of this congregation which was later named temple. Beth israel where americans who fall in cuba or came from key west and other parts of southern florida. After the end of the war between nineteen too many sephardi jews began to come to cuba amongst them young turks who had participated in the earlier revolt against the sultan of the ottoman empire other cames from mexico north africa and the mirrored iranian. They spoke spanish and had olive complexion and blend that well with the rest of the
Supersize Esteem - burst 1
"Hey how often do you recognize the the question. You need to ask yourself. Is that really the true act or even definition of love okay. let's take the time for self evaluation. Does the answer to the questions fall in line. yes or no. I myself found that perishable meaning of the word likely to decay or go badly if you have experienced that then you're going on the wrong value menu if given the opportunity. Would you have chosen to be a subject to another story. Can you learn to be an author illustrator narrating your way through. We all can't live a lives in premium grade or supersized set for me when you're a good for the first few months then what happened. Sugar to s. That person has gone jason voorhees with a slicer or two from freddy krueger fingers. Oh no the worst has happened. And now you're questioning the love of your life who you posted photos everywhere for buying expensive things just to find out you were funding the habit of the one he left for you or your girlfriend's friend. And how many times did they say they got joe bad girl so you need to be careful. Learn to stand. Don't waiver or even rethink the decision and relationships when a woman has been scorned better abused and stepped on. You have suffered pain from others. Who said they loved you and now you see how that love is being displayed with mocking year when others aren't around and even there without you so don't worry about the person or persons you had lost because they were perishable from the star. Give yourself a high five scratch on the back. The new hairdo and transformation. You had been putting off for years because they had been eating the wrong tight they never lasted after you get up off your knees from crying. Wash state gloomy. Look off your face and get them eyebrows. Done smile when you're said because you are actually really happy and stop bleeding from within. Good luck open. Them is up and make you a plate of food. This sticks like glue. You don't need to go looking for love because as you are clearing yourself it will be right under your nose. Don't lower your self esteem just raise the stakes about what who you will be entertaining remember. Wait reevaluate then dictate your terms. Because as being the author you carry the book.
What Does It Mean if Your Triglyceride Count Is High?
"So here's thing triglycerides. It's probably not fat issue unless you're eating inflammatory damaged fats. So if you're if you're getting a lot of those Vegetable oil omega sixes for small. Stop it stop. that process. Food in those process oils The only oils. You really wanna look out. There are doing extra virgin olive oil and a clean avocado oil place. Those but really where we want to focus really wanna hit it. Hard is with sugar. And this is why i wrote the sugar impact. Die when i wrote the virgin diet. The number one question. I got asked sugar and seem like people are either confused about sugar like it's honey. It's natural i can eat it. Or they were controlled by just couldn't quit and one of the things we know with sugar and especially fructose in all unpack. This is that it will raise your triglycerides especially fructose. You've got a couple of things going on here because you said my triglycerides are and we're gonna address some things that can help get that back in the normal range and you're borderline diabetic your hemoglobin. Onc- us borderline diabetic. So this means that you are insulin. Resistance right you're insulin's no longer responding well to get your blood sugar back into check and you also have elevated triglycerides so really. What we want to do is start with the foundation of a diet that is going to be super blood. Sugar bounce will help balance your blood sugar and restore your insulin sensitivity. There's some supplements and lifestyle that can help there too right and when you do that that she'll pull your triglycerides back into normal range all right so let's go through. What all that means that you need to
What Does Tom Brady Eat to Keep Being the Best?
"You don't know who. Tom brady is. He is one of the best quarterbacks to ever play and he understands that it's important to have optimal food for optimal performance. Tom brady eats an anti inflammatory diet. So even at the age of forty four his body continues to hold up game after game. That's geriatric in the football. Twelve and his body. It continues t you know just work well and perform well and i would say that also has the quarterback his brain as well. It has to be peak performance levels to do this. He avoids sugar. He avoids gluten and refined damage. Fats but what he does really focus on. As far as the the food planet he eats is lean meats. Lots of vegetables nuts and other types of natural fats. He maintains his muscles his strength his mental and physical agility and endurance. With this carefully chosen diet and lifestyle. And you know since he's one seven super bowl championships. I think he might beyond something. Don't you county
Sleep Quality and Fasting: What to Watch out For
"First question is always. What was your sleep quality like before you started fasting and mrs critically important. I can emphasize nothing else throughout this particular answer to this question is that if you're not sleeping through the night before you start fasting. Do not start fasting. Our bodies Benefit from where medic stressors beneficial stressors. But there's a very fine line for where that falls for each one of us so if you're not sleeping through the night then you're not gonna get the beneficial rest that your body critically needs in order to Rust rejuvenate you know all the brain physiology the baddeck system that kicks in at night when we give us waste and recycling process in our brains the boosts and growth hormone so getting back to the original question so if you were sleeping well before he started bouncing and now you're not my questions are always. What is your age because if you are a cycling woman you know. You're in the peak of your fertility years in under the age of probably thirty five. Thirty six I wanna know where you and your cycle because sometimes there can be sleep disturbances as you get closer to ministration so the five to seven days. Preceding your period. You should not be fasting. So if you're having trouble sleeping. Ben it may very well be because you're blasting because it's just too much stress for your body at that time If you are not getting enough food into your feeding window and i don't count cowers. Don't encourage to count calories. I talk about macaroni. Because that is what is most important. Our body doesn't recognize calories per se. That's a unit of measurement our body recognizes urging baton carbohydrates and so. Sometimes people make the mistake as they are transitioning to intermittent fasting that they don't get enough food in and their feeding window and part of their problem is that their blood sugar can drop and they may wake up so my question is always. Are you getting enough protein and healthy fats into your diet and really being mindful about
Diabetes Has Surged Among US Youth, Decades-Long Study Finds
"On the rise among the nation's youth. A new study shows that Type one and type two diabetes have surged in those under 20. NPR's Ping Hong reports Over the past two decades, more and more young people have been diagnosed with diabetes. It's a chronic condition where the amount of sugar in the bloodstream is too high and can lead to serious health problems like heart and kidney disease. In the Under 20 age group, Type one diabetes has increased by 45% since 2000 and one Take two diabetes, which is linked to obesity has nearly doubled in that time, with the greatest increases seen in black and Hispanic youth. The reasons for the rise and diabetes are not totally clear, but could be related to rising rates of childhood obesity and exposure to environmental chemicals. The results published in JAMA, come from a long term research study funded by the CDC and the National Institutes of
A Procedural Therapy Seeks to Address Type 2 Diabetes
"Thanks for joining us. Thank you so much happy to be. Here we're gonna talk about diabetes your company facto and its efforts to develop a therapeutic procedure to treat the condition. Let's start with type two diabetes. How big a medical problem does it represent today. Type two diabetes. A massive problem for the healthcare system and the scale of that problem looms large because it's growing very very rapidly along with the obesity epidemic. There are about thirty million people with type two diabetes in the united states this year. Twenty twenty one there are going to be approximately fifty million people. The disease in the next fifteen years in the us alone. How well controlled this condition with existing therapies. There are nearly sixty drugs that have been approved to lower blood. Sugar for people with type two diabetes across a range of different classes but more than half of the people with the condition still are not getting good control of their disease and that's measured by a blood sugar measurement called hemoglobin onc- so more than fifty percent of people with type two diabetes have hemoglobin. Anc that is above the normal or acceptable range. Despite all of these drug therapies are available.
Being Unruffled Is All About Knowing Where Your Child's Behavior Comes From
"I would not be doing a podcast stuff your feelings hide your emotions if you do. Listen here than you know. That i'm all about the opposite. I'm all about encouraging normalization of emotions all emotions having a curious attitude about them encouraging our child to express all there's no judgment on emotions and yes. We do need to do that for ourselves. As well as models but when i speak about being unruffled what unruffled really is is an understanding of our child and child development and behavior. What causes children to do these kinds of things that this parent shares about screaming in her mother's face throwing books saying she doesn't want to be hugged or kissed those the only actual examples that she gave. But i can picture a lot of things that children this age do. So why do children do this. What's going on with them when we understand that and can connect with it. We're still not going to be perfect. Yes we are going to get triggered or have an emotional reaction to certain things but not as much and the more we practice. What we're seeing here. Which is in all of these cases. Maybe not quite the affection one. But i'll get to that but in these cases of behavior that yes could make us angry or annoyed. The reason our child is doing that. Is impulse impulse. That comes from dysregulation emotional centers. They've gone into fight flight or freeze. They are in. What mondale hooked calls the red zone. They're not using their brains and their reason to do what's right. What they know in the frontal part of their brain is right. That part is getting hijacked by their emotions and tina pain. Bryson dan siegel talk about children flipping their lid. Well that sounds very extreme like something. We would definitely notice right if my child was just going off completely. Sometimes that does happen. We noticed that but through all these other subtler forms of it things like. Here's one that maybe we can relate to as adults. Maybe i've i'm on a diet and cutting sugar out but you my friend see me. There's a candy bar there. And i grab it. Tear the repre start taking bites. Am i super upset their m. i. Flipping my lid not really. But i've done something impulsive. That i don't want to do and so my friend telling me jennings shouldn't do that. Wouldn't be a helpful thing to say because i know i'm not supposed to do it and i did it anyway. An impulse may be do
Discussing Sleep & Circadian Rhythms With Nutritionist Shawn Wells
"Wasn't important subject. We're talking about today. Sleep and circadian rhythm. So what would you say is the number What would you say is the is one of the best things that you can do. For your energy sean. Starting with that because the energy that you burn during the day helps you sleep at night right exactly. Extra sleep is so critical and overlooked for sure. And i you know. I was just recently doing that. Passion test It's a book by Chris and janet atwood. It's a really brilliant Method of finding out what your true passions are. What lights you up. And i ended up putting One of my passion or desires in my life is to get a great night's sleep you ended up having to compare like all your other passions against it and like and then you have to ask the question like would you rather not have a great night sleep but have you know money flow into your life easily or would you rather have a great night's sleep every night but not have money flow into your life more easily and things like that and that was It ended up like the great night's sleep like at the top of my list. And i was like something i didn't expect literally behind your vitality and ability to live. Your life is sleep and underappreciated n. p. like here's the here's the data like at seven in some studies. Say six and a half hours or less. You start getting more insulin resistant in your rain. Acutely at first like if you know you just get one bad night's sleep. It's a cute insulin resistance. And you have insufficient cellular energy in the brain. Meaning your neurons. These brain cells are firing more slowly and that breen fog. You feel. it's real because they're not firing fast because there isn't enough energy because it's not taking in the glue as well so what you do when you wake up all tired and groggy is. You're reaching for caffeine and sugar to get your brain going right. No that can be a downward spiral and can lead to decision fatigue bad decisions whatever so we are the only species that deprives ourselves of sleep. When we're tired
"sugar" Discussed on Sugar Calling
"Today I'm going to call Alice Walker. She won the Pulitzer Prize in fiction for her novel the Color Purple. She was the first black woman to win that prize. She also won the National Book Award, that year. She's many books, novels, poetry collections essay collections. Her most recent book is a collection of poetry called taking the Arrow, Heart. Having to give her a call This Nicole Hannah.
"sugar" Discussed on Sugar Calling
"This is something that I really am curious about because. When your brother and father died in the late sixties, we just had such different culture. Of the ways that we talk about death, a very different culture I mean. This this topic. That was to be avoided. And I'm curious here. You are I just my heart breaks for you, amy this teenage girl. You've lost your big brother. Your father, I'm sure you are also maybe afraid that you two might get sick and die. All of those things and I'm curious like you know so many people out there right now or having to face these big losses and having to grieve, and I know a lot of people around them are wondering what do I say what? How do I how do I address this sorrow? The monumental sorrow and I'm curious what? What do you wish people did or said to you? During your time of greatest need, loss and sorrow. Will, you have to keep in mind. I was very young I. Mean it was a teenager and I wanted to have a normal life. I wanted to be asked out on a date I'd never been asked at on a date I wanted to have. That life in to escape. And and I. Think about. That with a lot of the kids today. And that I want to say I understand if you, want, to escape. That you WANNA. Leave the house. You just want to take your mind out of this. You don't WanNa be with family who don't want to be supportive. You want somebody to say to you. That's fine the way that you feel that's natural. That's what I would have wanted. I'm sure there are a lot of people out there to do that for their kids, but I think parents. Adults are so overwhelmed by what's happening. They may be demanding more things from their. Their kids if they behave better that they and you know, what is, you behave worse instead of making things easier for your family. You make it harder. 'cause you resent it. You're scared and you can't express that because you're a teenager and nothing scares you so to speak. and. I wanted to have somebody. Say No why you're angry. I needed some understanding the other. There was a complication on top of that is set a few days or like a week or two before my father died. I was caught reading a dirty book catcher in the Ri-. Thank goodness a banned book so the Youth Minister came to. You know. Council me. And he sexually molested me. He threw me down on my bed and sexually molested me so day I it was. Before the the miracle busted up in our exploded. In our faces that was already gone the whole idea that religion people praying together and community that was gone to I out of that room, a different person and you. Know ultimately I'm glad glad because what it taught me is that I have to ask my own questions? I have to say what is what is it did I really feel what's hypocritical? What's truly not kindness? And you know being being a good person. At. Ask questions myself. It doesn't get dictated to me in the way that it used to because. The, spokespeople, for what is good and evil or not necessarily coming from the best. Sources.
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"So I have. There's so many different stories that I think that you know the type of people that are on. They're crazy and knock crazy young young old black. Everybody's got the reasons I found the seeking specifically among all the websites like this watering hole for every different type of person. It's been really really cool being able to have you guys have a conversation to give of those sugar daddies. That is not my phone by the way that is still your loan here. You're you're blaming me for this amateur hour and meanwhile that is your phone search fastened my Barra's sorry you Kyrie early right now. It was a pleasure. Please reach out anytime you want to add. Ask More questions or more happy to do it. It's been a lot of fun. Thanks thank you so much and thanks for being so open and for Osteo questions of Ruby as well. I think you're asking much Christians see than most people and I loved it. This is fantastic. Thank you so much pleasure. I love me to chat by David. Uncertain Glad David got in touch with US and was game enough to discuss the sugar dating world with Ruby and I getting. His perspective was truly eye opening. When I was thinking about it later there was one thing I found especially interesting to chew on? It seemed as a full David. He finds the sugar dating situation. Not Tim dissimilar. From regular dating for someone of his financial and social status an earlier discussions he mentioned being approached by millionaire matchmakers whose sole purpose is matching up women mostly of a lesser socio economic level but armed with beauty with men like him as Ruby. said there's very little daylight light between the two concepts for most of US regular folk however idea of being paid for sex is still too. I guess the confusion comes in with the sex to romance ratio commodifying. A romantic relationship still feels uncomfortable for many which is why when the sexual transactional arrangements bleed into true emotional territory. Things Begin to get murky has both Ruby and David have admitted the best thing about our discussion and was getting the male perspective from someone so self aware and open and the interaction between him and Ruby was fascinating to observe. I got to sit back and let them interrogate interrogate each other in a way. I probably wouldn't have been able to achieve on my own. Luckily to had a great report and I think a true sympathy for each other experiences. I hope you've enjoyed these two bonus episodes. If you'd like to buy us a coffee you can go to fable. GEEZERS DOT COM and Click on support. US Are Indie. Gogo campaign is closed. He didn't pay US some cash. If you fancy helping us continue to produce work like this please. Writer view rate and subscribe as these sorts of things helped to make more people aware of US look with season two which is all about at criminally underappreciated. Author I love Short Hair Yep season two is a podcast book lovers it features guests like Stephen Fry Joanne Harris producer. Andy partisan writer Harriet Evans and many more so long. This is being the sugar baby. confessionals finals this episode was recorded produced and edited by me. Sarah May Tueson with production. Help from Beth Keane. Mike Scott assisted with production and Geraldine Elliott yet gave editorial assistance. The music use in this episode is from Danny Green's albums obituaries. As well as Jerome Alexander's Em mazing message to Bez tunes special. Thanks also to brilliant singer. Songwriter Navy inquiry. Who let me use her? Fantastic songs for the PODCASTS. Ricky Dan the on music also appears news and look out for his new album which is out early twenty twenty. I'm saying some backup on the comment and take part in discussions on social media where at fabled gazes on Instagram instagram and at fable underscore guesses on twitter. You can find message to base here message to best come Danny Green Music here likes music. Dot Com that's L. I S H music dot com ricky. Demis music lives here. Muck dear dot band Camp Dot COM and check out Nadine Curry's work here Nadine Curry that's K. H. O. U. R. I.. Dot Com the sugar. Baby confessionals is a fable gazers production..
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"So i have. There's so many different stories that i think that the type of people that are on they're crazy and knock crazy young old black i. Everybody's got the reasons. I found the seeking specifically among all the websites like this watering hole for every different type of person. Who has been really really cool being able to have you. Guys have a conversation to give of those sugar daddies. That is not my by the way that is still your loan here. You're blaming me for this amateur hour. And meanwhile that is your phone fast and my barra's sorry you kyrie right now. It was a pleasure. Please reach out anytime you want to add. Ask more questions or more happy to do it. It's been a lot of fun. Thank you so much. And mr chat with you open and for us questions of ruby as well. I think you're asking much. Christians see than most people and i loved it. This is fantastic. Thank you so much pleasure. I love me to chat by david. I'm so glad. David got in touch with us and was enough to discuss the sugar dating world with ruby and i getting. His perspective was truly eye opening. When i was thinking about it later there was one thing i found especially interesting to chew one. It seemed as if david he finds the sugar dating situation not into similar from regular dating for someone of his financial and social status an earlier discussions he mentioned being approached by millionaire matchmakers whose sole purpose is matching up women mostly of a lesser socio economic level but armed with beauty with men. Like him as ruby said. There's very little daylight between the two concepts for most of us regular folk however idea of being paid for sex is still too. I guess the confusion comes in with the sex to romance ratio commodifying. A romantic relationship still feels uncomfortable for many which is why when the sexual transactional arrangements bleed into true emotional territory. Things begin to get murky has both ruby and david have admitted. The best thing about our discussion was getting the male perspective from someone so self aware and open and the interaction between him and ruby was fascinating to observe. I got to sit back and let them interrogate each other. In a way. I probably have been able to achieve on my own. Luckily to had a great report. And i think a true sympathy for each other experiences. I hope you've enjoyed these two bonus episodes. If you'd like to buy us a coffee you can go to fable. Geezers dot com and click on support. Us are indie. gogo campaign is closed. Didn't pay some cash if you fancy helping us. Continue to produce work like this please. Writer view rate and subscribe as these sorts of things helped to make more people aware of us look with season two which is all about at criminally underappreciated authorized. Love short hair. Yep season two is a podcast book lovers features guests like stephen fry joanne harris producer. Andy partisan writer. Harriet evans and many more. So long this is being the sugar baby confessionals. This episode was recorded produced and edited by me. Sarah may tueson with production. Help from beth keen. Mike scott assisted with production and geraldine elliott gave editorial assistance. The music use in this episode is from danny green's albums obituaries. As well as jerome alexander's amazing message to bez tunes special. Thanks also to brilliant singer-songwriter navy inquiry who let me use her. Fantastic songs for the podcasts. Ricky dan the yanni's music also pays and look out for his new album. Which is out an early twenty twenty. I'm saying some backup on the comment and take part in discussions on social media where at fabled gazes on instagram and at fable underscore gays on twitter. You can find message to bears here message to best. Come danny green music here. Live music dot com. That's l. i. S. h. music dot com ricky. Yanni's music lives here. Mock dear dot band camp dot com and check out nadine curry's work here nadine curry that's k. h. o. u. r. i. Dot com the sugar. Baby confessionals is a fable gazers production..
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
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"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"Stories harry stories. I'm well groomed. I will say something that fascinated me days disgust guests from one of your episodes which ruby. You made a comment once about as you got more and more into this life style you started looking at the people around you and wondering what they were doing. I still do that. How many people were hiding their own stuff. How many people were doing that. I believe hollywood is no different than the world is. Just we just talk about ourselves lot. And they take pictures of us so we just were a microcosm but. I don't think we're any crazier. Just admit it or committed for us but i do think that one of the things that i've seen now the my i it's been opened up to what alternate relationships. There's a whole world of people who are having sugar relationships under different titles whether they meet on instagram. I was talking to a girlfriend of mine. Who says oh you know. I don't need to go on seeking range triggered. I go bar and within thirty minutes talking to the guy he's offering to pay my rent. You know just the way you termine the coins. E use the phrase. It's so fascinating to discover that being a sugar baby. It's almost the most traditional relationship there is and let me tell you something. I'm still taking care of my ex wife. And i'm not sleeping with her. I mean and this begs a really great question if we're going to raise it through this particular lens. Who is more immoral is. It's the woman who meets guy online and the two of them are very straightforward and upfront with each other going. Hey listen this is what i need. Okay this is what you need. Cool that matches up. We like each other enough. Let's head straight into an arrangement or is it a woman who really and truly marries a guy just because he's got a certain level of income and she doesn't really care that much for him but you know performs certain wifely duties because in exchange She gets a certain lifestyle. I mean thinking of millennia right now well yes exactly and why does society generally speaking of course not those of us who are in the room. Look at one of those things and goes yeah. Oh you know. That's that's color. That's not cool. That's taboo and the other one is somehow got this stamp of approval. It seems really odd to me More fascinated made is that there's a whole gray area. I honestly believe that. The nature of taking care of a woman in providing security turns them on. I'd say that. Personally i get turned on by being an equal partner with my husband. But if i'm perfectly honest he has always earned more than me and has supported me. When i've taken time to write novels also make podcasts. Frankly is a turn on that support. So have i just proved david's point and does that. Make me miss over feminist. Big time again. I'll just keep reminding you that. You're not nor euro weirdo ruby norm. You know. you're you're extraordinary. You're not you're not unhealthy. You're doing it in difficult way. But i do believe that there's a whole psyche of a lotta. These women go on the site. That are torn. You know they want to be taken care of. But they don't wanna admit that they're asking for money. People get in arguments about how to handle money and how not to. I know men who say i would never do that. But then spend thirty thousand dollars to hire private plane to pick up the whole psyche of how money as as as exercising clarity. The experience quite good because you get more used to being like. No this is what i want. Here's the list this is at. This is what it looks like. Well that's what i thought when i first went on the side. I'm gonna have these relationships and they'll be honest and clean and claire but you. They get just complicated. I can't tell you and relationships. I've been in. How many arrangements where you get a confined and then suddenly something happens like wait. A minute is it'll relationship is it not. Are we going somewhere not. I've had relationships where suddenly i'll say you know and then know you face this bread. But she had to ask you you get stops each other in the allowance stuff coming and then you've got back together and the allowance was forthcoming in. You said wait a minute. What does that mean like. So there's gray areas all of it. I think people sides that the milania donald suggests to it for power. Just do it for money. I don't want to judge them as being moral. Because i don't know what she went through child but you know what turns her on what dozen they may have a great fucking sex life for my gosh. I hope neither boards why. I don't know there's something. So what if the cop. It matches the drapes with him. You know what. I'm saying down like comb over on his balls. You win. You win terrible. If we aren't gonna come to me now. All have grown up in a world where a lot of marriages seem on the outside for. She was marrying him for money. He's just marrying her taught sexy. She does even those relationships. They're conflicted in their gray and rare is the somebody just mary's for money and saving security and that'd be and you can't judge that is what would be the problem without doing hard costs about issues usually hair right now and that's all regency romance. And what is the whole premise. Of all of those books is young woman. She gotta take what she's got whether it's looks or whatever usually slightly more impoverished trying to catch the best has been that again and in those days they were really practical about. They were like well. You.
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"And so when you get to situation the prisons actually saying look this no need to hide its you're not getting that extra little kick so you finding it you're like whoa wait with the women get pleasure from you know what i mean 'cause you societa together twin them in your mind the martin spang is not lying yes yes it is we know from previous episodes that he lied about contacting lots of different people in craigslist for six and only came to light because he put madeleine in charge of sorting out his phone but it seems important to madeleine to make the distinction that somehow for her being a liar is worse and him not loving her enough to leave his wife for markey's thing is fucked up dirty sex plane example but what i'm saying is you don't have a problem with that right you said that you you have to take that absolutely so where is his problem coming in what he struggles with is he's had relationships outside of his marriage before and they were like not relationships he said sex outside of his marriage before but never with anybody that he cared about it's always been once or twice in that was over in whatever what shuttles with is that he does love me and he has no intention of leaving his wife he has no intention of leaving his family we had the opportunity one night to like actually spend the night together and he's laying in the bed with me in like halfway falls asleep in sorta sits bolt upright resigned i gotta go why we're in a hotel together into two separate rooms and i gotta go to comfortable i gotta go.
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"Your sugar baby can only make matches much worse in this regard can you give us an update than on the sugar daddies that you did have contact with octa cock and any of the other big fish to cook i hope that whatever you're doing is is good stuff but i really i just have no idea i have to admit him sort of sad about this i got the sense that madeleine really liked to took she didn't even charge him normal rates because she actually wanted to spend time with them she put him gifts through meant to camin wanted him to be the superhero his student in suggests and sweep madeline of her feet and out of the clutches of the villainous marquee sorry i'm doing it again trying to force a narrative onto her life marquee is not a villain and real life is not a fairytale the end is it so you wouldn't have got in touch with him and just said you know just post into it's no i mean we we riveria friendly he was really not that transactional what do you mean by transactional we hadn't really talked about a i've broke every rule in didn't negotiate it anything with him he just put money my count we just showed up there there was nothing businesslike about it like we were very friendly before we even met and he was the first person really that i spoke to off the site maybe he's tainted me for everybody else maybe that's so what happened between them ghosted and i'm not the kind of person that chases so because we were so friendly because we would exchange text messages every couple of days what he up to how are the kids blah blah blah he has kid yeah because that was so much of our relationship so is he married no he's divorced.
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"I would never ask for that i can see myself as a career sugar baby if i'm met somebody that i realized if there was somebody like the brit in my my services are obviously much different than them rubies if i ran across somebody like the i could see myself or five somebody's like the burnt i guess i could see myself being a career sugar baby but that just hasn't been my experience it's it's really just been a parade of douche fags hit kind of like yes there are women who are career prostitutes by choice like high end escorts they're sort of trade office that they deal with men one at a time on a short term basis and they idea behind being sugar baby is that you deal with these men in a relationship sense on a long term and if i think you're a jerk within the first half hour of talking to you why earth what i want to develop a relationship yeah this difference in that they the school it's not always usually have some go between i guess is doing the weeding out for them i actually don't get the sense that there's there's much weeding out a minute or any when you get pretty high up you get to pick and choose but a really good the sense that you choose money this really something in madeleine's voice something so resigned tired is she so beaten down from interacting with these men that she's completely lost any sense of the merits of what she previously thought this lifestyle had it makes me wonder just how awful these interactions have been or thin not in themselves so terrible if the accumulation of mild awfulness has just become of wilmington thing is it's been widely reported that when women put themselves out there even on regular dating apps they can have the inboxes inundated with dodgy messages dick picks personal critique and slut shaming i would imagine that making it known explicit.
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"Worry is he gonna find out and i don't know i think that eventually that must get to a person i mean you must need a break from that after a while i tried to wrestle the conversation back to recapping this sugar baby experiences as you'll know from listening to the last couple of episodes rupees hope a spectacle when suga dating a pistol evolved into something very different from when she began this journey reminder of thoughts at the beginning that it would be a fun diversion away to spice up her and if p six life for the longest time i've had the sexual fantasy of being a high class call girl or you know being a kept woman western geisha something like that you know it's it sounds kind of ridiculous but it's just a sexual fantasy so i don't think that we should ever moralize in were judge ourselves too harshly on what gets us off you know so it was actually favored a person who sent me the link to the website and said hey i just read an article about this site and maybe you should check it out this is interesting i knew it was actually if pe who instigated the whole sugar baby thing over the course of this podcast being ed where we have had criticism it's often fallen more harshly ruby she's the one these people imply who's putting her marriage at risk by recklessly indulging in prostitution despite the fact that rupees made it clear more than once that if he gets to have his own girlfriends on the side the fact that she's being paid for six has a wispy the stroll breaking campbell's back for her critics but this fact clearly indicates that from day one he has been just as invested in ruby sugar dating i wonder if this will change peoples perspectives would it somehow make it better if they're both fully on board the only difference between them is she's getting paid for her acid nations is the money that changes hands really the problem i'm not sure that's why i decided to go for it it just seemed like the right time until you'll perspective has changed on.
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"To save most of the people that i met through the website were international and not local from this country it's probably because those people could afford me if you have money that is in the the currency that is of this country but a stronger currency than your book whatever that buck happens to be goes a lot further you get more bang for your buck you went there i think actually there's a very interesting competition which was trying to start something about i will third world dynamics in how that might play into touching on a very complex global socio economic issue here and i kept trying to draw larger point from it but it's tricky we can't mention the specific countries are to sugar babies living plus or the ruby is in a third world country she still privileged she isn't desperately poor and seeking this sort of lifestyle for survival reasons so her experience will necessarily be very different from someone who is we're going to touch these issues more deeply in pot one of the feminism episode so if you're interested look out for that i think it's a very odd thing that the person living in the third world countries the one who finds that she's treated moore's unequal than the one who is living in a first world densely populated place that that that is kind of like a world power supposedly right up to the minute with all kinds of human rights and yeah surprise me having i think i don't i don't believe it for a second because you know madelene says it i know that it's true but it is a little surprising to me i think the issue that we have here comes from the way that men are taught in when they rise to this kind of power the ones that are that are actually really wealthy when they have that kind of wealth depending on the way that they've made it they are basically handed whatever they want here now and it's not necessarily just a gender based structure it's them versus everyone that they view as them up in east them.
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"For six than there is for the woman who's being paid for the sixth so i guess there are some men that will still think that they have more power simply because they're buying their purchasing their you know absolutely we try yeah absolutely agree with that that they're that the same man who will purchase sex will turn around five minutes later in call the woman purchase it from a whore club in the thing about beating sugar babies that it isn't just the six at least it isn't in my mind and it hasn't been that in my experience either i feel like men who've contacted me through that site really genuinely seems like they wanted a connection with someone as opposed to you know i mean they could pay good money to hire an escort or a straight a prostitute someone who's going to service them physically but very clearly not interact with them in any kind of a mental or emotional level but i think this is what i was talking about before from talking to the brit which i had a conversation with before madeleine he was definitely looking for connection he wasn't just looking for sex in seven it just i think that does show you where ruby is living is a totally different place let's say it's it's third world country partly with the first world issue infrastructure let's put it that way and they're therefore the amount of people that she is going to put in all her sort of specifications there's going to be few people that crop off those people they're looking for something perhaps they can't find in society in any other way i do i do totally understand absolutely anything that you're right about that you know maybe just comes down to a numbers game you know the metropolis that madeline is waiting through it's just so vast end this kind of arrangement is so much more popular there than it is here i am.
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"The kind of lifestyle you talking about are in a specific demographic of people the kind of people that you are you've probably sit yeah sites on women travelers they'll be more sophisticated perhaps they'll be more whereas madeline is dealing with exponentially more people just listening to her talk about it is exhausting you also have to consider the many many of the women who do this are younger college students don't really know what they want or who they are yet room think about who you were when you were nineteen twenty twenty one i don't like either the raging idiot has done as opposed to who you are now in it may be the in this particular sphere it's not always expected for women to demand the kind of respect that women like us demand so it may sort of come out of the blue but that's almost just as bad because it sort of implies that younger women expect to be treated how the other person chooses to treat them rather than having an innate sense of this is how i should be treated necessarily expect to be but are more likely to just sort of go down yeah yeah yeah we're not really sure or they haven't determined who they're going to be yet so they just sort of make decisions based on what's going on until they develop inexperience and then make decisions later based on on that wisdom and experience i think it's also because perhaps these men feel that there's less stigma for man pay.
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"Why they all came back with offers so yeah i mean i don't know if that's because the area that i live in there are way fewer people into this kind of lifestyle so maybe the ones here who know about it are just more serious i don't know yeah this i mean is so much huge place when midland lipson is just douses thousands more people exactly so obviously she's good she's going to try and sit with the scarf from the people who actually mean me to do it threat way rebounds a comment on before the the sound went all funky though was that the power structures really much more gene people give it credit for yeah and i totally agree with that i can't recall a moments of meeting sugar daddy in which i felt as if he had the upper hand and you know i was just accepting what i was given i haven't felt like that at all whether it's just correspondence through e mail whether i'm meet him for coffey whether we forward and had some kind of relationship it does feel very equal madelene don't you think that has a lot to do with the manner in which we value our selves in your experience you probably get that from men immediately i feel that here you have to set a tone for that and yes it does have to do with the way that you value yourself and what i think happens here is that it's that's unexpected solely guts prizes may little bit because i have to tell you the greater culture in which i live is much more conservative and patriarchal than where you are big time so odd so that's that's really interesting to hear i mean what do you think steve visited both places so yeah i mean it's it is very very interesting to have you guys to flipping it that way because i totally agree but in simply because where you are the people who choose to have.
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"It's i know i can hit you something like a ghost is this the ghost of release par says sorry it's so funny so i don't know what advice to give like maybe just trying to cool us back with something ice yeah okay oh awesome god's me if this is a movie should be like the ghost of some pool shook a baby who died in the course of duty and his coming back to warn us from the futures dul ways madeleine face the reaper spirit i think i hear both of you lori plenty miss america all right so where where should we pick up okay so we're picking up on basically madeline is giving us the low down on one of the pitfalls of being a sugar baby and the fact that ultimately the pros don't really outweigh the cons are the thing that i wanted to comment on that elaine said she i do live in two very very different places and two very different markets if i could use that word so this may have something to do with the fact that i profile is very different from hers or at least it was before she did a few tweaks in updated it a bit you know i do list that a married i do listen i have kids but the people who've contacted me by and large have not been timewasters i haven't had sexual experiences with very many sugar daddies but i have met a good few for that initial meet and greet to see if there's any kind of chemistry and for every single one of them with the exception of one guy.
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"Some of the things that he wanted he wanted me to travel a great distance meet him the first time you know just in case we hit it off and he wanted to have sex right away that's not really okay with me i really feel like it's a negotiation in you should be halfway yeah ruby nice share a policy about a lady doesn't make the verse offer and he was trying to bully me into giving giving him a number i wanna meet you unless i know what you're ballpark is will you don't have put your ballpark out there i'll let you know if i'm in it things like that and you know what this is still exhausting i it just exhausted as i recall i was just imagining getting lost in these like baseball metaphor was no wait if i pitched to you then you might hit home run not only the more complex than traditional dating by the time i get to the date i'm already annoyed with you so it's still feels a not a whole lot worth it but it will be interested to see how the candidacy changes based on those edits that i made her if it doesn't all the what downsides of this process do you think being being a sugar baby i think that there's a a real sense from some of these men that because they have the money they have the power in the situation and i don't think that that's the case but when you get the ones that really really believe that they can become belligerent they can become really obnoxious and that's just not some.
"sugar" Discussed on The Sugar Baby Confessionals
"It'd be a lot needs if everyone conformed to this stereotype but just as i would hate to be reduced to a liberal snowflake it's not fair to paint the britta's justice sugar daddy so thank you for your honesty the brit this week going to him adlon ruby updating us on their sugar baby shenanigans as well as where they stand in terms of being sugar babies after almost seven months how do they feel about it all now what have they learned about themselves about love all this and more on this week's episode petty three where we are now i think it's fair to say that this being a lot of really surprising an interesting development i would agree with that sometimes change can be scary and painful in the moment but i'm a firm believer in embracing what life throws at you so i would say it's all good what about you meddling why with that so let's get started with you then i madeleine when i lost book to you had become a bit dish lose asian with the whole suga baby process wade you stand right now i guess ruby night had had a conversation about modifying the profile of bit to take away some of this sense that i was a single unavailable woman and giving the idea that i was taken stable and this was just something extra that i was doing it was sort of been experiment to see what would change about the candidates so that is something that i'm just curious to see how that will change so i made those edits last night in they were uploaded this morning but of course the sooners you show up on the site you start getting emails for men and i spoke with a with a gentleman last night who if i they're they're always okay i and then when i started sort of pushing back to.