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Nov12-26 Eva Love pt 2
Welcome to the SOB radio show where we have fun. Interesting guests and hot topics each week. We offer insights into music fashion, health, fitness and humor. Do you? Have the perfect guest for us to interview I want to know drop me a line on our Facebook page at spunky old broad one or reach out to me on our website at spunky, oh broad dot com. And now back to the show, I'm back with Eva love and Eva is the creator of the love miracle system, and is a relationship mentor. So you you talk about guiding relationships like a magician rather than a jackhammer operators. Why don't you tell us a little bit about that? What do you mean by that? We'll I'll tell you. What I why what that is is that a lot of women don't know how to guide relationship, they they? They're using manipulation because they don't know what else to do. It's not that they're bad or wrong. It's just that they're using the tools that they know of. And and what they what they need is some different tools. And so they're they're manipulating which to me is like using a jackhammer. You know, it's like, you're you're you're pounding the poor guy. And you know, you wanna get married, and so you say, well, if if we're not married by the time where you know, whatever the date is that I'm leading will. That's jackhammer. That's not. That's not elegant. That's not. That's not doesn't make guy wanna marry you. I can tell you. Now that doesn't mean the guy won't marry you if he loves you, and he thinks that it'll make you happy to be married. Sometimes he will even if he's not ready or doesn't really want to get married. You see the thing is and this is one of the. One of the myths that I'll go ahead and give you is that a low women believed that men are commitment phobic. And that's not true men. Are I don't think though, it all I think as a matter of fact, if you ever look at the widows and widowers the widow er's get married almost immediately, the widow's might take a very long time if ever yet Mary, but the widower's they want someone in their life. They want someone to share it with. They. Sure do and I'll tell you the the. The women who. Will let go of whatever their belief is about what's wrong with marriage and will create a different different scenario for themselves, different belief system. And by the way, you know, a lot of people say change your thinking, change your life. But it's actually change your beliefs. Change your life Stanford did a study in the late eighties. And it said that we have the average person has around sixty thousand dollars a day. And those thoughts have very little impact on our lives. What changes our lives is what we believe? Because that's where the energy is. So whatever whatever your energy is focused on. That's what expands into expression. So when you have these believes, especially if you don't even know what you have it. It's worth doing some some digging to to see what they are. And what's going on with you? So that you can. You know, let let go of the ones that are not working for you and create the good the good beliefs that will change your life, and it's not just doing affirmations, although affirmations are are good. The the the the thing that really makes the difference is actually feeling different when you actually embrace a feeling of being happy and joyful and full of life and having being in love, and you do this having let go of the opposite of those things. You will see a shift in your life. You will you will be able to change while census is a show for women fifty. Plus, I would like to get your opinion on the dating sites for women or well anyone over fifty. But specifically since we're talking about women over fifty what kind of successes have you seen there, and what's your opinion of them? Well, you know, I I've had a number of clients who have used different dating sites. I don't I don't recommend any of them. I mean, I don't have a particular favorite because I know that different ones have had success with different sites. But. What I do is. I work with them on. What's what's going to create the attraction for the right man for them? So when you when you consistently attract the wrong one it gets very discouraging. I can tell you having been that's that's what you did. You know, we're putting those vibes out there. And and they were just coming in by the bucket. They were they were I tell you that there was a womanizer within one hundred miles. They'd find me. So you know, you had to do the changing. But I I always wonder on those dating sites, and I don't know if you have had any experience with people who have done this. But I always wonder how truthful, and I guess that goes through the woman as well. As the man how truthful they are on their profiles. Well, I know a relative of of mine was not have any this is a guy he was having no success at all until his children. His daughter rubbed his profile, and then he attracted the woman he wanted, but he did not attract her with his own commentary fell. I asked wondering how true the profiles are. And and the impact they have. Well, I think that it's like anything in life. You're going to sign suffused rotten apples. You know, you're gonna find a few people in if you're good at finding rotten apples. You'll find a lot of them. So, but I can tell you that you know, my niece both both my niece and my nephew. Married from online, you know, meeting someone online, and they're both very happy one's been married. Fourteen years and the other one's been married. I think ten years. So, you know, these are relationships that are lasting, and that are, you know, solid. So I do know that you know, from personal family experience. Of course, I have lots of clients who have used them. And then I have clients who don't like them and don't use them, and they still attract a wonderful man, or wonderful woman, depending on if it's a man or woman, and and they are really you don't have to use them what I'm saying. Because like a lot of women, they don't like technology. They don't wanna be on their phone all the time. They you know, like I had client. I she signed up for one. I didn't tell her too. But you know, she she did. And then she just said, you know, it's like a second job. And I was like, well, it can be if you feel that way about it. I said, then don't don't do it. If you don't like it. Don't don't do. What you what doesn't please you? If it doesn't feel good, and you're not enjoying it. You're not gonna have a good experience. But if you're going. Into it with the idea that this is a a way to have fun. And that's what I tell women only date if you're going to have fun don't date to find a man because it's not gonna work with if you date, and you and you find that you enjoy the dating and you and I helped my clients learn how to have fun dating because a lot of women don't like dating. It's what keeps them even think? I think my mother my mother was one of those my dad died at fifty six and my mother never dated never went out. I think she was just frayed of dating and had I known what I know. Now, I probably could have helped her, but I didn't didn't know any of that back then. Well, you know, I mean, I served guy been a widow for ten years, and I have not dated, and the reason I haven't dated is I live really full life. And I'm not sure I would have room for somebody. Not that. I if the right guy came along, I wouldn't feel that way. But I just I haven't really looked at all. I haven't put the vibes out there at all has. I mean, my days are full with happy things would like to do, and I have requirements to I agree with the no smoking, I will say, I they also have to have a sense of humor, and they must love animals. So those are my three criteria. Yes. But what do you do how do you know when you should dump a guy, and how do you dump guy? Well, okay. So here's the thing. If a man is not responding to you. He's not your guy. So let him go wish him will, you know, don't make him wrong but used to whenever I would break up with somebody. I had to build a case against them in order to break up with them. And then I learned I don't have to do that. I could just you know, say to him, and I started doing this after I decided to start dating again. And I would just say, you know, I I really like you. You're great guy. I just don't think that there's any future for us as a couple, but I would like to be friends if you're open that. And most guys words matter of fact, I had three of the guys that I dated at my wedding because they were just good guys. And we were friends and my husband wasn't at all jealous. He didn't care. And so you know, that he was just part of my friend list that I wanted to be at my wedding. So you know, you can have a lot of of good male. Friends, and you don't have to be in love with them. And if you find that your dating somebody in he's not responding, and he's not, you know, he's he's he's a guy in person. But not for you. Then let him go the way to do it. The the gentle way to do. It is just what I said just you know, I I think you're great guy. You know, enjoy I've enjoyed our time together if I have I don't wanna lie. But I just don't think this is going anywhere. I don't think it's going to work out. And you know, I wish you well. You know, so just be gentle be be kind. You don't need to one of the things. You don't want to do is to list all the things wrong with them. You don't need to do that. That's that's not necessary. And it just creates them getting defensive and that isn't gonna end. Well. And you know, so just just be gentle. And and let them go. And then you'll be able to attract the right one for you. You see until we say no to what we don't want. The universe is not going to give us what we do want. Well, that's true. You know on the other hand found almost like what a gal expense from guy. I mean, a guy can say to a gal, you know, this just isn't working out. And then, of course, the woman very often takes that really personally because it is it's a personal. It's a personal statement. But you know, I think a guy may may not have that same fear of doing it as as a woman might. But I've seen a lot of guys say to a woman, you know, this is just not working out. We're not we're not a good match. And then, of course, the woman says what's wrong with me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, you know, so there's a lot of. That too. But see that is her insecurities than I what I teach my clients to do is how to not get attached right away. You know, how to stay? And I don't mean not be open not be closed down. I don't. That's those things are not going to work for you. But how to to recognize that it's easy this guy or someone better? See once she realized that you don't have to have this guy. It's when you get attached to this guy that you get your heart broken. Well, exactly exactly that's the that's the basis of the all the pain that you experience when you break up is because you don't thought that you had to have this guy or this woman instead of you know, the right one, so I really focused on attracting the right one for you. You know, because if you don't if you don't have the right one, you're not going to be happy, married. Anyway, in the whole point is to be happy. That's right. It's to be happy. Absolutely. And I think also to work as a team, I think very important as well. And it's interesting, I've always been very comfortable about around man because when I started in business sixty years ago, there weren't a lot of women in business. So it was always out to dinner, you know, a business dinner, whether it was a date or not. But if it was a business dinner, it was always ninety nine percent of the time with men, so I've been very comfortable around man and very comfortable going out to dinner with them or whatever. And my husband was always fine with it because he didn't want to tag along and he wasn't interested. And he said, I know where you you think you belong and you always come up to me so counted, but I'd like to know more about your love miracle system. Tell us a little bit about that. And what it involves? Well, love neural system are using these techniques that I was given. There was there's a whole series of techniques, and they do different things. One of them is, you know, high talk about a finding those beliefs and bringing them to the surface, one of them does that it it brings these beliefs that you don't even know you have to the surface. So you can see them and shine the light on them bless them. And let them go. And then the then the next piece helps you then refocus your energy on the desires of your heart. And so when you really use the desires of your heart, and I'll see what happens with a lot of people as they get in their head and they make their list out of their head, and there's no heart in it. And that's why they don't get the right guy. So I teach them how to do that from their heart. How to really pour their energy into it. And then from there there's a tool for if you're if you have. Issues about the patterns in your life that keep showing up like, maybe you're a procrastinator or you, you know, there's different things that people do that keep them not living the life. They wanna live. And so this technique then allows you to. Your transform that behavior behavior that pattern to two different something different. So what you're doing is. You're basically. When we have patterns, especially deeply rooted patterns. It's like the neuro pathways in our brain have these deep ruts in them, and we have to create new neural pathways. And so this technique does that and so that you can create a new pattern and good healthy pattern instead of a destructive pattern and one on one. Or are these group or out of that work? I can do it both ways I teach in. I do teach in groups than I also teach. I do work privately with with clients and and. How long has something like this? How do you have a set time for a course in does everybody kind of make or break it in that time or do some people go a less time and some people more. Well, it depends on what you want. You know, when when I talked with someone I can give I can pretty much tell them what what I think would be the best way for them to go. Depending on where they are in their process of some people have already done a lot of work on themselves, and they just need tools. So therefore, I would put them in a different program. This just tools give me give me an example of a tool. Okay. So a tool like, okay. So. One of the tools that I teach is called getting back to the love. So have you ever had an argument with somebody? And there was this tension, and you just wanted to break that tension. But you you didn't know you didn't have any good skills for resolving conflict. And so the tension just had to kind of melt away after a few days, but the conflict never got resolved. And a lot of couples do this. They do this over and over and over again, and the then these conflicts just build up and build up, and then these walls build up between them, and then pretty soon they find that their chemistry is gone and they're not having sex anymore. And it's kind of a bummer, you know, it's like their roommates, or they're, you know, antagonised more likely some some people just all they do is fight zoo because they don't have any skills. So this is a tool that allow. Allows you was in. You know, you stop the argument you timeout, and you go both go separate ways and calm down. You know, get yourself where you're not all hot all upset. And so you get yourself calmed down. And then you come back to each other. And you go through this very fast process. It takes about ten minutes each each person. So about ten minutes of for one person in ten minutes of total twenty minutes, and you're back to the love your hugging, you're kissing. And then there's another tool for how to actually resolve the conflict. Once you've gotten the energy off of it of the unhappiness or good argument. And then this the next tool, then is how to come up with a solution that works for both of you. And so I have this tool called the win technique. And the reason I call it the wind technique is because. Both people win. I don't believe in compromise. Because compromise always leave somebody with a bad taste in their mouth. Somebody's had to give up what they want. So the other person can have what they want. And if one person does that over and over and over again in a relationship, the they're going to build up resentment in that resentment is then going to. Create a blow up at some point or or somebody just I mean, I can't tell you how many couples have come to me over the years where one person is just done. They're just like I'm done is. No more nothing else. You can do or say. And when they're like that. There's nothing more really is nothing more. You can do or say, there's no no counseling has built up for so long. Exactly. And either one or both of the party haven't been listening. Very well. And so it's a lot to overcome. So would you say in your in your practice? How many of the people that you see are over fifty? Most of them most of them. So so either it's a second or third marriage or it someone who's been married for a sizable amount of time. And they've just grown apart. This true. That's true. A lot of a lot of my single clients who come to me. I mean, you wouldn't believe how many women they're in their forties and fifties and never been married. And you know, I get a married. Well, I think that's more and more today, especially because you know, women are well, there's more women working. And so there's more independence they can support themselves. They don't need someone to take care of them. And really, I think you know, if you get married for someone to take care of yourself. That's the wrong way re married. I mean, you get married because. Yes, you love each other. But I always say you can love a lot of people, but you can't necessarily live with a lot of people. And that's the one thing I knew about my husband. I knew that I loved him. But I also knew that I could live with him. He could live with me because I'm not an easy personal live with because I am so independent. You know? I don't want anybody telling me what to do so same here. You know, I think I think it's I think that's happening more and more. And of course, there are still a lot of men who don't want a self sufficient woman, a lot of them say they do, but they don't and that has to do with the male ego and macho wisdom and all of that. However, I think that a really secure, man. A really a guy who got his feet on the ground. Appreciate some woman who can bring something to the marriage both financially emotionally, mentally physically all of that. I mean, that's all part of being who you are. So I'm sure that a hopefully it's going to change in the future as our our young guys that are used to having mothers that work. You know, they they are into that, you know, and it takes two incomes today to kind of survive. So I think that's going to be changing. But it is interesting that. So so what is the magic that? You think happens? We've just got about three minutes left that happens that you're able to take these women who have not gotten married for whatever reason and gotten married. Well, I think that the key here is that they're ready to do the work. They're ready to really take themselves on and take the whole idea of dating in and you know, being with men on instead of running away from it or keeping themselves. So busy the raising children or in their career that they they've avoided. This is mostly what I find is that they've if they dated they haven't done it with, you know, the tool set, and so therefore they often don't have a great relationship. They don't have great track record. So you know, I. You know, I think it's just the fact that when women are ready, and they're really ready to do the work things change, you know, we're powerful. We women are powerful women. And you know that and and then when they make a decision, okay, I'm ready to do this. And and ready to do the work. Then men we go to town. So how can people get in touch with eve? What's the best place for them to reach you? And and get some more of these gems from you. Okay. So if they want to just have a conversation with me or asked me a question, they can just Email me at Eva EV, a at evil love EV, A L, O V E dot net. That's my Email address. And if they want I have a free gift for them. It's called the ten miss that single women have about men like I said, even if you even if you're married, it would be good for you too. To get this. Because it's it's really a powerful piece. And how to bust 'em. Yeah. How how to bust because you wanna bus those myths, you don't wanna keep them. And that would be at Eva love HTTP cute. A Colin Ford size storage stash evil love if you just put evil love dot net forward slash SOB. You will get it. Okay, folks. So you heard it here. If you wanna learn about, those ten myths and the things that you can do to break them, go to evil love dot net forward slash SOB. And you will get those and myths, well, it has been really a something to learn about all these things that we we've always done naturally. But now, we know there's a methodology do that makes it even better for us as my. Yeah. Exactly. That's the whole point. So learn about her love miracle system because if you're out there, and you're looking for that special someone and you. I want you know, you wanna have this great relationship, which I'll tell you is is fabulous. There's nothing like it. When you find that right one. There is nothing like it. Go to either love dot net. Remember, it's not dot com dot net. And see what he has to offer. Thanks so much for being with us today. It has been a joy. Oh, I have just loved it. Love talking with you Gail. Thanks so much. All right.