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Guardians top Tigers in 10 innings, extend win streak to 5

AP News Radio

00:33 sec | 4 hrs ago

Guardians top Tigers in 10 innings, extend win streak to 5

"The guardians ran their winning streak to 5 games by scratching out a ten fitting run to beat the tigers for three Cleveland wasted a two run lead in the 9th but wanted on a two out RBI single by rookie Oscar Gonzalez The guardians are 92 when extra innings Cleveland starters Zack police sack limited Detroit to one run in four hits while striking out 7 in 6 and the third innings And Yale de Los Santos improved to three and O despite allowing the tying run in the 9th Gregory Soto slipped a two and 7 The outcome gives the AL central leading guardians a game and a half lead over the twins I'm Dave ferry

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How Do Godless People Deal With Difficulty?

The Eric Metaxas Show

00:57 sec | 21 hrs ago

How Do Godless People Deal With Difficulty?

"It really hits home when you go through tough times as a believer, it's totally different because you're walking with God no matter what. And that's fascinating to me because I think of people who do not have God in their lives or they've got him someplace or whatever. How do they deal with difficulty? I mean, adversity is in every single life. How do you deal with that? So it's one thing to talk about success, but the point is inevitably your career will take a hit or your marriage goes through a tough. In other words, we all go through difficulty. And if you have your hand in God's hand, it changes everything, but there are many people that they don't, they don't have that. And I think that's when you turn to something really bad because you want to dull the pain. You want what you want. And if you don't get it, you have to nest the ties with some relationship or some drug or whatever it is.

It's Not the Rich Who Pay the IRS

The Officer Tatum Show

01:16 min | 1 d ago

It's Not the Rich Who Pay the IRS

"They have dispersed or at least they have committed to in this spending bill that they got over $80 billion to the IRS. $80 billion over ten years. And they're hiring 87,000 new IRS agents. I don't know a single person under the sound of my voice that enjoys listening to are the concept of the IRS. Nobody loves likes the IRS. What does the IRS do? They audit your money and they play dirty games. Not all of them, not every iris agent is a bad person. I feel like the agency has been weaponized. And Derek and I said this yesterday and I got a repeated today because somebody may not have heard me speak about it yesterday. They're not hiring 87,000 agents. For the wealthiest of the wealthy. Because there's not a lot of them anyway. They have plenty of agents that can just go after them. And they're not hiring 87,000 agents for the poorest of the poor, because they're not paying taxes during that anyway. They're hiring them for y'all in the middle.

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Tellez hits tying HR, Adames winning single, Brews beat Rays

AP News Radio

00:29 sec | 1 d ago

Tellez hits tying HR, Adames winning single, Brews beat Rays

"The brewers fought a little life against the rays sweeping the two game series are come from behind four three win in ten innings rowdy to Les built at a leadoff home run in the bottom of the 9th inning to send the game to extra innings where Willie damas poked an RBI single to walk the brewers off of the whim Having lost 6 of 8 prior to this series to let says they write it a few wrongs We need to step it up so I think these two wins against another team that's competing for a position in the playoffs was big for us Raise reliever Ryan Thompson gave up the go ahead runs in both games Check Freeman Milwaukee

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Where Is Merrick Garland?

The Charlie Kirk Show

02:01 min | 1 d ago

Where Is Merrick Garland?

"Where is Merrick Garland? You would think that after you raid a former president's home that you would at least get a press release, you'd think that the DoJ would mention this in passing silence, nothing. You go to justice dot gov, they have this Justice Department establishes reproductive rights task force. Justice dot gov, they have clicks of links of COVID-19 relief fraud scheme. Massachusetts construction company owner indicted for tax crimes. Okay. Nothing about the raid of a president, to give an idea of how extraordinary this raid was, it was a 9 and a half hour occupation, including over 30 agents, equivalent equivalent of a 180 man hours where Trump's staff were literally kicked out of Mar-a-Lago and now we're just waiting waiting and anticipation, where is Merrick Garland? And sun tzu's art of war, there's a great quote that says 1 may know the condition of a whole army from the behavior of a single man. Now, the silence is something I didn't anticipate. The raid surprised me to some extent. The timing of it. But generally, when I thought about it, we predicted here on this program. But Merrick Garland being the attorney general of the United States owes the country, hey, how did this happen exactly? What was the reason for it? Why could you have not issued a subpoena? Why a raid? Just everyone understands a raid is only necessary if you believe a crime is currently being committed or property is about to be destructive. Donald Trump was not even at Mar-a-Lago.

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Riley's big night lifts Braves over Red Sox 9-7 in 11

AP News Radio

00:34 sec | 1 d ago

Riley's big night lifts Braves over Red Sox 9-7 in 11

"Austin Riley hit a tiebreaking two run double in the 11th inning to cap his 5 RBI night as the braves topped the Red Sox 9 to 7 Riley's first inning RBI triple opened the scoring He added a two run Homer in the third ahead of his extra inning heroics My plan was to get denied You know thought I'll put some good at basic against it gets healed And like I said just you know I was able to get the ball over the plate and capitalize them Orlando RCM made it 7.6 graves with an RBI single in the tenth Christian Arroyo hit a two run blast in the second for the Red Sox Get them cool bomb Boston

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Jack Posobiec Visits to Discuss the Alex Jones Cancellation Arc

The Charlie Kirk Show

01:34 min | 1 d ago

Jack Posobiec Visits to Discuss the Alex Jones Cancellation Arc

"Is here to kind of help us do a little postgame, Jack, what'd you think? Well, Charlie, I thought it was really interesting the way Alex came in kind of weaved everything through and you certainly got him to express his take on not just the Trump raid or his own trial, but so many things that are going on. And really gave us a Tapestry of looking at at least, you know, through his lens where we're where we're going and I appreciate the fact that, you know, we always know there's two sides to every story, right? And whether we can agree with one or the other and say, well, this is wrong or this is right. We ought to at least have the airing out of that. And that's the point of having these public platforms. And that's the point of having freedom of speech. But what I thought was interesting is that Alex didn't spend the time beleaguering his case or whining about himself or complaining about what he's being put through. I mean, he took the fight directly to the front line and said, this is about a regime and a global cabal that isn't just after him, it's actually after every single one of us because they want to make us these emasculated just satiated insectoids that are just following along, seeing whatever the next streaming thing is on Netflix and then not actually taking action and human agency. And I think you could see that in his own way, right? In his own way, he runs to he wants to feel like he's helping people and he wants to do the right thing. This isn't a guy who they were they tried to portray him as, oh, you just care about the money and you're just a sell out and all this. And I don't know. That's not the sense I got.

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Lucky 13: Mariners top Yankees in extras for tense 1-0 win

AP News Radio

00:30 sec | 1 d ago

Lucky 13: Mariners top Yankees in extras for tense 1-0 win

"Luis turenne slapped the bases loaded single through the right side of the infield to give the Seattle Mariners a one zero walk off win over the New York Yankees in 13 innings Torrens came off the bench to end just the four 13 inning game of the season After I made a good contact I saw the ball past the second bell but it's the moment they got the games over and was excited Luis Castillo tossed 8 shutout eatings for Seattle while Garrett Cole through 7 scoreless sittings for the Yankees I'm Adam spelling

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Eric and Albin Share Their Thoughts on the Horrific Trump FBI Raid

The Eric Metaxas Show

02:12 min | 2 d ago

Eric and Albin Share Their Thoughts on the Horrific Trump FBI Raid

"Last night, you saw the video and showed you the video of him of Biden struggling to put on a jacket. And then you heard about the FBI raid on Donald Trump. This is like, you think we're making this up. This happened yesterday that the FBI, okay? These bums, these anti American Stooges, okay? Not the ones who executed the raid, but those who put them up to it. That they did this. This is a slap in the face of Uncle Sam of lady liberty and of every single American. I don't care what side you're on politically. But so Alvin, you had a dream. You don't normally do this. So I thought this is too weird. Let's share this with you. I've had a couple dreams like this in my life. And I just hope this isn't a true dream. It's funny. I'm writing notes on the train coming in to the studio today. And I just wrote on scraps of paper because I didn't have my notebook. But anyway, so yeah, so I go to sleep. And in my dream, and it's very vivid. That's why it was like unusual, because usually it's like you wake up and I can't remember what I dreamed. There was something about a guy. So this is a particularly vivid dream. So in this dream, Joe Biden's on TV and he's handing over the reins of power to a guy that looks like a tin pot dictator. He stressed with the military uniform and he looks kind of like a schmo and a jerk. So he looks like Gaddafi. He's looking like one of these guys. One of these South American dictators. And I'm seeing in the dream that people around the country are watching this. And they're transfer of power to this tin pot dictator. And the reaction I'm thinking like, this is crazy. This is unbelievable, but the reaction from the people watching all over the country was like, well, that's okay. That's okay, as long as he doesn't take away my video games and doesn't take away my abortion rights. And as long as he doesn't take away my cross dressing, you know, children's story hour and things like that. As long as he doesn't touch the things I like. It's okay. I don't care who's running the country. As long as you don't take away the things I want. And I find sacred. You know, take away whatever else. But that's okay. I'm okay with whoever's in charge of the song is I can do whatever I do. Okay, now that the reason when you share that with me, I said, that's so interesting because that's the definition of tyranny, right?

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There Are Only Two Ways to Govern People...

The Charlie Kirk Show

02:08 min | 2 d ago

There Are Only Two Ways to Govern People...

"Now remember, there are only two ways to govern people. You can govern them by speech or rational arguments, dialog, dialogs, or by force. That's it. Every government in the history of the world either governs people using speech or using force every single government. Our system of government, a constitutional republic was set up to have a preference on speech. You want power you have to persuade people to give you power. You want to do something, you got to persuade people to put a law into it to put a law behind it. Make an argument debate disagree, write papers right op eds. Mobilize, run for office. You see speech is fundamental to a civil society. It de radicalizes a population. Donald Trump always sought to govern this country using speech. Think of what is the most common critique of Donald Trump. He tweets too much. Oh, he talks too much. Not that he acts too much with an iron fist, but he communicates. He overly communicates and some people would say with bravado and with pride and with an over a top nature. That could be debated and sought at a different time, but Donald Trump always sought to mobilize his constituency using rational speech. That's a threat to the regime. And yesterday was the crossing of the Rubicon. There is no going back from this. You remember that date you remember that time because it will be a reference point. How we react to it is the most important question we'll get to that. Yes, it's the weaponization. Yes, it's overreach, but there's something else going on here. And it goes to that question of why now and as an addendum to that question, who's actually running the country? Speech or force when you show up with a hundred FBI agents and a safe opener and machine guns to a president's home, a former president's home, what message are you trying to send to the rest of the American people? It's simple. They're done talking. They want you in leg irons, handcuffs to be audited and submissive and to bend the knee.

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Serena Williams says she is 'evolving away from tennis'

AP News Radio

00:55 sec | 2 d ago

Serena Williams says she is 'evolving away from tennis'

"Serena Williams says she is ready to step away from tennis Williams told Vogue magazine she doesn't like the word retirement but wants to focus on having another child and her business interest Williams is playing this week in Toronto at a hardcourt tournament and hence the upcoming U.S. open may be her last tournament I don't know I guess there's just a light at the tunnel What is that like I don't know I'm getting closer to the light A reporter said Williams must be joking I'm not joking Serena Williams is approaching her 41st birthday and is one more Grand Slam singles titles in the professional era than any other woman or man What does giving up tennis mean to her Freedom Yeah I love playing though It's like it's amazing but you know it's like I can't do this forever Serena Williams says she will relish these next few weeks I'm Ed Donahue

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Major test of first possible Lyme vaccine in 20 years begins

AP News Radio

00:55 sec | 3 d ago

Major test of first possible Lyme vaccine in 20 years begins

"Researchers are looking for thousands of volunteers in the U.S. and Europe to test the first potential vaccine against Lyme disease in 20 years Lyme disease is a growing tick-borne threat Pfizer's anneliese Anderson tells the AP they're working on a vaccine to protect both adults and kids as young as 5 We call it beer a 15 Robert to willer is an avid hunter in hiker He was the first in line when the study opened in central Pennsylvania And if I find a tick on me I don't know okay I'm good I don't have to worry about anything Doctor Allen Kevin's at the Altoona arthritis and osteoporosis center in Pennsylvania is looking for volunteers who spend lots of time in tick infested areas Not a single day goes by that someone either has a concern about Lyme disease could possibly have Lyme disease We live in an area where Lyme disease is endemic The Pfizer study will cover two tick seasons I'm Ed Donahue

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Why Did Meghan McCain Block Todd Starnes on Twitter?

ToddCast Podcast with Todd Starnes

01:57 min | 3 d ago

Why Did Meghan McCain Block Todd Starnes on Twitter?

"Chad McCain was a conservative. How dare you? Oh, really? Well, why would he hire a leftist like Steve Schmidt to run his campaign? Steve Steve Schmidt, the founding member of The Lincoln Project, a former McCain campaign manager. Also, a political analyst for MSD and C? That's exhibit a let's talk about exhibit B Nicole Wallace. A former senior campaign adviser, she was the one who handled Sarah Palin. She was the one responsible for literally bludgeoning Palin in the back with a political knife. And what is she doing now? She's one of the lady host on MSD and C. But the real reason she blocked me is because you see, we have a mind like a steel trap. Here at the Todd stern's radio program, ladies. So we don't forget anything here. And that's why she blocked me. You see, misses Dominic, Meghan McCain. Misses Dominick, she blocked me because I reminded the nation about her daddy's most egregious sin. Would he betrayed every single one of us. He had the power in his hands to kill ObamaCare. And while the cameras were rolling on C-SPAN, what did he do? He looked up at that C-SPAN camera, and he put his, he put his hand in the air. With his thumb exposed, and then he did the big thumbs down. A big blank you to America. That's what he did. All I was doing was asking misses Dominic to explain her daddy's political strategy. But you see, this is what the establishment thinks about all of us. You vote for Donald Trump, you're an irredeemable deplorable. You vote for Donald Trump, you're a Neanderthal.

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Barack Obama Was the First President to Weaponize the IRS

ToddCast Podcast with Todd Starnes

01:59 min | 3 d ago

Barack Obama Was the First President to Weaponize the IRS

"Back to the early days of the Obama administration, you had the Tea Party rising up. Remember that the Tea Party rose up you had these this grassroots effort to try and defeat the ObamaCare law. And Obama summoned Lois learner to The White House and told her to go after all of these Tea Party groups to start investigating these people. And they did. Barack Obama was the first president to weaponize the Internal Revenue Service. I was working at Fox News channel at the time. I had switched over by then I had switched over and I was a commentator, so I was they were paying me for my opinion at Fox. And one day I get a letter from the Internal Revenue Service. And they said, you are going to be audited. First time in my life that I had faced an Internal Revenue Service audit. And the next year I got another audit. And so I went to, I went to the folks, the powers that be at Fox News, and I said, hey, look, you know, what's going on here? Can you guys help me out? Because when you get audited, what do you have to do? Well, you have to go out and hire an accountant. Got to get yourself an attorney. You don't want to be, you don't want to be facing off against the IRS by yourself. So your fork and over a lot of money. To try and work all of this out. And so I asked Fox, what's going on here? And they said, get in line, pal. They're coming after all of us. So not only were they going after the Tea Party groups, they were also going after conservative journalist. During the Obama years, I was audited three times. Three times. Cleared every single time. But it cost me time, it cost me effort. It cost me money. It cost me aggravation.

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US pledges $1 billion more rockets, other arms for Ukraine

AP News Radio

00:45 sec | 3 d ago

US pledges $1 billion more rockets, other arms for Ukraine

"The U.S. is pledging a massive new arm shipment to Ukraine as analysts warned Russia's gearing up to stop a Ukrainian counter offensive in the south It's a $1 billion worth of rockets ammunition and other arms under what's called presidential drawdown authority coming straight from Pentagon arms stalks This is the largest single drawdown of U.S. arms and equipment utilizing this authority to date Pentagon policy chief Colin hall says the new shipment will give you craniums more of what they've been using so effectively and trying to stop Russian forces from seizing more ground The latest aid brings the U.S. total to roughly $9 billion since the invasion began more than 6 months ago Sagar Meghani Washington

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Why the Left Can't Have a 'Liberal CPAC'

Stephanie Miller's Happy Hour Podcast

02:16 min | 3 d ago

Why the Left Can't Have a 'Liberal CPAC'

"Also think this goes to polling and elections is the executive director of net roots was quoted as saying progressives tend not to fund infrastructure. Hello. Yeah. If I could tell liberal college students, we're going to send a bus to the school to pay for you to come out there, got a dorm set up. Here's a food card. I can get my numbers up to 5000 tomorrow, but I can't raise that kind of money on the left. We always get accused of getting funded by George Soros. I'd kill to be funded by George Soros. We've been told that none of us we've asked George himself George and he said no. But yeah, media matters says there's no way to recreate the conservative convention circuit without a more muscular progressive media to support it. I mean, it's just they say, even if the media environment were completely different liberals still might not flock to a cpac counterpart. And here's the quote, the Democratic Party is a coalition party of 57 different single issue voters. It's so much easier for the Republican Party to stay on message because there's so monolithic. On the left, it's like herding cats. Right. And he was talking about our conventions. We don't have Joe Biden's face on our shirts. We don't have tattoos of Barack Obama on our arms, the hats, the putting on your cars, have you ever seen a build back better on a T-shirt? He thinks few on the left would go to a progressive version of cpac certainly he wouldn't absolutely not. And they was talking about at our events like net roots. The protesters are our protesters on our side. Protesting people. Liberal enough. So what do we do about that before the mentor? Because certainly we've proven we could get this done. We heard it enough cats to get this amazing Bill through the inflation, right? How do we keep our coalition together? Because I think we just have to, I mean, you know what's funny because we always hear from Republicans personal responsibility. But that's really what it's about. It's about personal responsibility. You have to do what you can. If you can go register voters, go register voters if you can phone bank, do that. If all you can do is vote for whatever reason, go do that. Talk to friends. But I mean, yeah, we have what she said is right. And we don't get behind hate and they do.

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Jays top Twins on overturned call in 10th; Baldelli ejected

AP News Radio

00:32 sec | 4 d ago

Jays top Twins on overturned call in 10th; Baldelli ejected

"The Blue Jays came away with the split of their four game series with the twins winning three two and ten innings Whit merrifield scored the tie breaking run on an overturned column the tenth The call was reversed after catcher Gary Sanchez was deemed to have interfered with merrifield Kevin biggio supplied the tie breaking sacrifice fly that scored merrifield Bo Bichette hit an RBI double and Lourdes guriel junior added an RBI single putting Toronto ahead two zero by the third inning Blue Jay starter Kevin gausman pitched 6 scoreless innings allowing 6 hits and striking out 5 I'm Dave ferry

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Chicago pounds out 15 hits, beats Texas 8-2 for series split

AP News Radio

00:33 sec | 4 d ago

Chicago pounds out 15 hits, beats Texas 8-2 for series split

"The white sacks earned a split of their four game series by clobbering the rangers 8 to two Andrew Vaughn belted a two run Homer among his three hits Luis Robert laced the two run double and AJ Pollock double twice in his three hit game Larry Garcia had three hits and scored twice for Chicago which had 5 of its 15 hits go for extra bases Garcia started at short in place of Tim Anderson who began serving a two game suspension Lucas giolito gave up one run in 5 hits on 6 singles and three walks to earn his second consecutive win The socks are within two games of the AL central leading twins I'm Dave ferry

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"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

Single & Unemployed

03:47 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"Because you did mean it, which is understandable. The fact that anyone can have a podcast is concerning. Yeah. True. There was very few barriers I would say the biggest learning has been the it is so much more work than I. Thought it was GonNa be yeah. Trying to make us sound interesting and fun. Yeah. So I would say, yeah, it's not for the faint of heart I mean I. Don't know faint of heart is like the correct. COLLOQUIALISM YOU WANNA use there. Okay. I thought I meant more like. Faint of heart as in like you have to work really hard and so if you don't WanNa, work that hard then. You. Maybe That's right. I don't know if I would say that this is one of those examples. Okay. Well, you didn't have to do the editing. Different experience for Brielle you got to come on and be funny for an hour and then leave, which is why you kept me around because I'm Larry and you couldn't have supported it without me. This is true. The number one feedback I got was that we had good chemistry. Yep, that's true. But yeah, a lot of work. Coming up with new topics and new things to talk about every week. Clearly. Very difficult. We've come to the end of our rope. A. We have come to the end of even trying to make sense of anything at this point And we've just decided to say Yolo, and we've decided to throw our hands to the wind. That's not the same. We decided to throw our hands in the air and wave them like we just don't care. and. So here we are recording. our last episode with nothing plant. So The original plan was that we were gonNA play our last our first ever episode. From two, thousand and seventeen. And try to talk about that a bit but. I didn't work out. So So now we're when you net were clearly doing a really good job. Was your favorite part about recording. Pretending lake a find my current situation. Funny. That was lot of fun. The one hour of the week where I could act like this was all a funny joke I love that. Yeah I'm GONNA miss that Yeah I. I mean we saw a lot about your life together if you want I won't. I won't take that away from you. That'll probably be needed sometimes, my my personal favorite part was getting to see you smile once a week. My smile. Yep Stop. I feel like I'm gonNA dating up. It's always an. Beautiful Smile, you'll like thanks what about boobs My boobs are down. Here. You PERV is down here by the what are you? Some kinda teeth pedophile get out of here. Okay. What was your favorite part? Probably how how bad we are at this but like how good it comes out sounding? Yeah true. Like my favorite part is actually listening to the episodes and being like Andreas's a wizard. What we actually recorded. Whole, bad and so long there's times where you took three hour episodes and made them into like twenty five minutes of something that was actually funny and I was like Holy Shit I know I know I agree I feel like.

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"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

Single & Unemployed

03:55 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"He worked in the skis action, which is like hot and he was like French-canadian, which is like hot so. He ended up asking me out one day and he planned the whole thing. It was so cute you. We went to this tea room downtown. He was such a little gentleman pulled out my chair held the door et Cetera, and we are on the date, and we're just chatting about like our families, and this is where I made a bit of a mistake because he was like So how old are your siblings and I said, well, there's two years between each of us. My brother is twenty eight. My sister is twenty six. And he goes wait a second. Year twenty four. And I was like Yes. And he was like, did you know that I was nineteen? Oh. No, I was like. Yes. Did, you know as I said dead. That's Funny but I just want to clarify. twenty-three turning twenty four. So I wasn't twenty four yet. Okay. And I don't know I thought he knew that there was an age gap like I thought. He was aware. And he clearly wasn't. He was just so confused and I was like listen I was nineteen once you know there was a time when I was also I those days really really good times in my life. And it was just really awkward after that. I believe. Yeah and And then we walked around. For Bet and then called it a night. And never went out again. Beautiful. Thank you for that story. Yeah I. You'd like those kind of fun. That was great. Fun Those fresh. flirty yeah. Okay. So before we get into the final topic for this season. It's going to be just a little. You know quick chat about. What we've learned how far we've come. Okay. Well, I'm really happy that we did this podcast together. Made her dream come true despite our slowly dwindling audience and efforts in. This is all. had. A lot of fun. I'm looking at Oliver episodes right now. Trying to remember anything that happened on any of them. Can't. I. Now like what episode failure to launch will be what was that even about hours about how we launched the podcast accidentally? remember when we lost the launch, the podcast accidentally at I was funny. Thous good times. Or that time we like deleted all are dating APPs we'll I did. That time we told everyone they needed therapy. that was fun. The time you told everyone who liked the office that they have? No taste. That was Super Fun. And then the apology that I made afterwards which everyone got super mad because it was like a really bad apology that wasn't really an apology. Not An apology. I said, sorry. Actually, maybe I didn't. I don't think you. Okay. You titled It my apology but I don't actually believe that the words I'm sorry I didn't mean it ever came out of.

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"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

Single & Unemployed

05:35 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"We have to do a real intro again, this week it's lost. Soon, do you WanNa? Do you WanNa make one on the spot? I hear so much better. Than me but I can try. Okay try. Okay. Well. Hello everyone. You're listening to single. Wrong. Came trying to get her real. Okay. Welcome back to single unemployed your favorite podcasts, and if it's not your favorite podcast while you probably listen to podcasts. So that's fair We are a show about life and. Also when. So, yeah. Thanks for tuning and. How was that? was, perfect, okay working.

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

Single & Unemployed

05:54 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"So some of my family and. I don't I don't know what to do how to move past this awkward situations that I can face him I. Really Hope to move to past this and I don't WanNa have to run away but I just don't know what to do please help. Oh. No, I wish I hadn't heard the additional context right? Complicated Right Because he what, what was your initial response? Well. My initial response was like that's that's easy. You know you guys just moved to separate countries and you can technically be married maybe he can be like bankrolling your lifestyle. But you just don't need to see him because you live in different countries. Why Yeah I mean that's what I think. Any logical person would do but this is tough because they already live in different countries. And you know the friends and family are involved. So. I think what you do. In that scenario is just like make up a fake boyfriend. Oh. These be like Oh. Wow like thank you so much for proposing but I've actually had this secret boyfriend all along and going to be like so jealous yeah he'll be jealous and like it's getting kind of serious. I'm so sorry I never told you. There was just like reasons that I don't want to get into right now but I wasn't able to tell you this information earlier. Wow Andrea literally making a fake boyfriend can get you out of so many bad situations. I mean it's so true how many times have we faked having a boyfriend club or a Bar? Absolutely. Okay. So yeah, there you go. Make up a fake boyfriend it's just the best perfect. Okay. Dear Andrea can I ask him not to have a bachelor party help I don't want my guys seeing admiring or being turned on by other naked woman. Do I have to accept that my fiance will attend a bachelor? Party. I mean not all bachelor parties have naked women at them. Listen at sounds like he might be going to a strip club. Okay. Okay. Ra Anti Bachelor Party girl interesting question to be honest I do have follow up questions that I'll never be able to ask you. So I guess in this instance I think what you could probably do is tell him that he can have the Bachelor Party so that he doesn't think you're trying to control him but then when the time comes, slip him some sleeping pills..

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"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

Single & Unemployed

05:45 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"I made a less to this morning because I was trying to remember all of them and I know I forgot some but I currently have thirty five. Yes. That has a lot more than I. I know. Andrea was just not superfund live with so people kept swap guys. Now I'm a blast I actually have quotes from previous remain saying, I, was there most fun and they loved living with me the best out of anyone ever. Quiet where did you get the quotes? Did you ask them? Do they read them down? It was kind of like a paraphrase of a compilation of all of them saying you are a good roommate that was sort of i. that's what I heard. I'm. Going to. Names. Okay, well, I don't actually know the names of all of them. It was crazy I was listening them out and I was like Oh. There was one place I lived with four girls and I don't remember a single one of their names. Why did how long did you live there there for six months but it was like eight years ago like who can remember them all? Oh that's really yeah that's bad. So honestly, I love living with people I love having remains I hate living by myself like I'm very social very extroverted. Are you familiar with the Ennio Graham? No basically crash for anyone who's never heard of the any Graham it's a personality test there's nine different personality traits and. It's really cool. 'cause with any straight there's like a spectrum so you can kind of identify with different personality and it doesn't necessarily put you in a single box, but it kind of helps you understand more about yourself while you are the way you are it talks about like when you're healthy versus when you're unhealthy and it can be really helpful for like relationships friendships, I love it. We should totally do an episode on the program sixteen million tests taken in the last thirty days is wildly popular. It's it's. Like one of the best personality tests I've taken. Okay. So what is why did you bring this up? Okay. So there is brought it up is because on the program I'm a seven, which is the enthusiast. So it is like the person who's up for everything who wants to like experience life always have fun and be happy and so this is good and bad right because like my my personally naturally does not ever want to feel sad or bad. So I've spent lots of time suppressing those emotions and now in the process of trying to like. With all of those other parts of me. But the fact that I'm in any game seven kind of helps explain why I've had so many roommates and loved all.

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Single & Unemployed

03:52 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"We're trying to be a little more mature they say's mature mature said shedule mature Joel We're on a strict schedule of mature and maturity. That's you know you're children are when you start saying where it's like schedule as shedule. Indicator you nailed it I. Love this show. Okay. Shall we get into it? Let's do. Yeah. The okay. You're listening to single and unemployed a podcast about to twentysomethings who have absolutely nothing checked off the before thirty timelines but we are pretty okay with it is their schedule. ooh You all that we all need to follow. It's okay if you're still figuring out and hopefully our stories, figuring our lives out, reassure you that you are exactly where you're meant to be. All right. Andrea, take it away. Okay. Well, were back for another round of single and unemployed sad stories of our lives get ready buckle up budget. That's how you want to. Let. So you want to ensure episode this week Yes yes I. Well, that's how I was injuring myself personally. I. Don't want to speak for you but that's where I'm at. No, that's okay. Please don't. Please feel free to speak for yourself and only yell well as as we discussed off line pieces of your life are coming together, and so I'm feeling a lot of weight to carry the brand, but I will do it and I am doing it. So you're welcome. Thank and I super appreciate that pieces of my life. They. Again are always uncertain. And certain? I added. T. Because we're mature now, and so we do stuff like by tour. Uncertainty and Joel you know pieces of my life are also always uncertain and. I'M NOT NECESSARILY Happier because pieces of my life coming together because happiness is not dependent on the things that happen outside of you as a person. So although while if you were looking at a list of completed tasks. I I may be on my way to completing some of them. At it also means. Literally nothing in terms of how I create my own happiness because I could create my own happiness without those things as well. Thank you. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk that was. Mike dropped episode done done but that being said. You know yeah I wasn't totally done. Oh, I'm so sorry would you please continue? What were you GONNA as well? I just had one quick thing I am twenty eight still I am unemployed still I am single still if the Canadian government is listening I have been very actively looking for work and yes. They're and they're and they're always listening and so I just want them to know that really clearly that's what's happening. Please don't revoke serves or please don't make me pay it back because I can't so. No, I'm just kidding actually have been genuinely looking for work and it's I know, yeah, it's tough. It's like I don't know if anyone else has experienced this. But when you go through some kind of very traumatic or toxic work environment is Kinda scary to think about starting a new job. I do well. Sorry. No.

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Single & Unemployed

05:18 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"Feel betrayed. betrayed. I feel hurt. I feel shock. That was everything I ever wanted to hear in. Two minutes I don't. I I. I'm so high. I'm elated right now. Like what are what are three words? I could replace with because clearly I'm attracting the wrong crowd. Okay, let's think about this for a second. I had. Relationship Builder People Person. Looking for new opportunities. Maybe that last one could definitely be adjusted. Okay, so maybe some words that you could use instead like really likes alone time. Okay. Bad sales person. Anti Marketer really big into socialism I. Think There's quite a few you could play with. There was the only voice note that you got. that. Was the only voice now? I asked many people, and that was the only brave souls that were willing to come on here and say what they really think I. Asked somebody that I knew would probably roast me to give us feedback so I have has he sent to clips and I? Know that I fucking know the first one's a clip from the office, but I'm GONNA. Play it anyways. He's just fucking trying to get to me anyways. I'M GONNA. Play I was so excited, so here's the first one. What is my perfect crime? A break into tiffany's at midnight. I go for the vault. No go for the Chandelier it's priceless. As. I'm taking it down. A woman catches me. She tells me to stop. It's her father's business. She's Tiffany I. Say now we make level night in the morning. Cops Communist, gaping one of their uniforms I. Tell Her to meet me in Mexico but I go to Canada. I don't trust her besides I like the cold. Thirty years later I could a postcard. I have a son, and he's the chief of police. Strike it's interesting. I tell Tiffany of meet me in Paris by the.

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Single & Unemployed

03:40 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"Andrea. Feel bad about anything that I said the only part of me. That feels sad, is that? Nope, sorry I couldn't think of. That wasn't even a bit I genuinely. The level of which you want to take me seriously is absolutely on you. That's all I have to say about that again. Victim blaming if laying discriminatory, if I'm being discriminatory effect was being racist, sexist homophobic. Obviously that is trash garbage, and we not stand at. We do not stand for it. Get it the fuck out of here. Well you did call me to heaney for most of the last episode. Quite frankly, that was not. Supposed to be racial, but I really really appreciate that you brought that up. As elevensies woman. Ran With that you ran with that so hard. It's true I didn't feel I could stand up for myself. Okay Yeah. I. Don't know how much that cleared things up for fans. That were upset. But I guess we'll probably continue getting feedback and we'll find out no I can't wait very excited. It was probably the most exciting part of my week to be honest. Okay other pieces of feedback have been very funny. One of my favorites once again. I'm sorry to throw you under the bus here. Katie but. We have gotten some comments that you say the F. Word far too much. I know it's it's my fellow Filler word. You know like some people say like some people say I say fuck. And cry I don't know. If I see that as a problem and I don't really plan on working on. It I'm really good at not using the F. Word during most interactions because I do work in customer service, but. Otherwise yeah. I duNno, this podcast is not my job. It's a fucking passion. Fuck dammit! So let me try. This podcast is not my job. It is a passion project it is. A It's a comedy. Last time I checked that being said I probably search much..

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"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

Single & Unemployed

04:29 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"Do WanNa see something really fucking cool that I found today while I was looking at some old things. IDEA. Try Not to be too jealous, but I did find a my Puka. Shell necklace. Let me, tell you girl was fucking cool in grade. Five anyways That's the air. If I need inspiration leader, Piquet, love it. We should maybe do an intro at some point. That would be cool. Whereas where found you motherfucker, you can't have me. You're listening to single and unemployed a podcast about to twenty-eight-year-old losers with absolutely nothing checked off there before thirty timelines, just kidding kind of it's actually about being twenty something and still figuring out. If you thought your life would look different by now and UK's really fill up with an existential feeling of dread. This podcast is for you. We're.

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Single & Unemployed

03:38 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"I want your opinion on it, so I'm GonNa tell it to you anyway I met a guy on a dating APP and we went out for a drink, and we each get one drink ten dollars anyway. We have a nice day and I thought it went pretty well, and then at the end the waitress comes over to him and says is it just one bell? And then he looks at her. Looks at me. And he looks at her, and then he looks at me again. And then he says no to. and. Just can't deal with. It was like it was so awkward. It was just like excruciating because it literally probably took him like thirty seconds to decide if he was gonna get my drink or not right like you decided in front of you like he had a moral conflict in front of you. Yeah, and was like you know what. Instead of making this not awkward for both of us. I'M GONNA stay. The two bills brave I like watched the wheels turning as he was making the decision. and. You know. It was weird because he asked me out again. And I said no, and to be honest. A big part of the reason I said now was because of that weird ending where he didn't by my ten dollar drink. I have like very strong feelings about dates paying for things like. For example, this has happened to me before I went on a date with a guy who suggested the bar literally like really really wanted to hang out earlier even though I was like. Oh, I don't know if I can get together to next week is like oh I can't wait that long. We please go out this week. What have allows like okay fine? Fuck it. Let's do it. Suggested the Bar? I got one beer because either drive that night. And then. We were like really fighting like we clearly were connecting with each other, and like like holding hands like not just like conversation like. Very like very clearly like into each other. Okay, and then he and then he very proudly. When the waiter comes over us for two bills like it doesn't even let the where Wieder say anything he just goes. Yeah, two bills, please and I was like Oh! Hey! And he's like yeah. I just really don't believe in like having to pay for your day and I was like dude like highlands. Fine like I'm a I'm not here for free drinks, but like the way that you just did that was so aggressive like I i. don't know him by opinion. If you ask someone out, you tell them where to go to do like whatever everything of you planet like you, you pay lake or at least offered to pay. And anyways it's fine, but he was really into still I drove him home back to his house. Like you I wish you had been like I really don't believe and driving people without making them. Pay Me for gas money, so if you to just eat, transfer me like. Two three. That'd be great. And literally, Fuck that like seriously? Could you just like drop me a -Tuni- the next time you see knee or leg? Whatever so we hung out like a gallon like we gotta get his house and then like a week later we like. He was like super broke I got it..

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Single & Unemployed

05:33 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"I Really honestly inspired me to realize how valuable it is to go to therapy and how much I was avoiding it thinking that like I wouldn't be able to work through those emotions like I was I was actually scared. You know what I mean I. was scared to go and work through those traumas. That leg I thought it wasn't brave enough to face, and it turned out that I was, and it ended up being. So so good for me. I think that's super cool. Because as you enter into this profession, you have so much of your own experience that you can draw from and I. think that will really help. Keep you motivated because you have this first hand. Understanding of what therapy can do in people's lives. That's for sure. Yeah, and it was also one of those things where what I was deciding. What I wanted to go back to school for a new for a really long time that like I wanted to work in the mental health area. It was just really scary for me because I I I was like. If I struggled with mental health, should I really be helping other people, but if anything like that's like saying like for me, that's also like if you're a doctor like if you can't do surgery on yourself like what's the point of being a doctor like when you're a therapist, you can still go to see a therapist when your therapist like you can still. Live with with anxiety and help other people with their is because you know how to manage managers, so then all of a sudden. You're like here things that actually works for me and I know this because I went through and like. I think that like dot dot. Life experiences so valuable, and I'm really happy that I went through what I went through. Because it's really become purposeful for me and so yeah, it does suck to have struggled to hall for about ten years like honestly. I don't WanNa like get super deep into it. Because it was, there was a lot of really hard times owned. Don't want to bum anyone out too much, but It's really cool to see something Kinda. Come out of it on the other end to be like Oh yeah like. I learned all these great things. I had all this this experience I realize now what I want to do with the rest of my life or what I want to start dedicating my life to, and it's been pretty fucking Rod. So cool. I love it so inspirational. Are An aspiration. Like Arcata on rush. It's just like weird. You're saying that to yourself. But yeah, it's not that. Was someone else owned? You didn't see that that was someone else got it. So. I know that you're going to therapy in that lake. This is the first time in your adult life that like. You've really struggled with mental health so I just wanted you to talk about your experiences because I think that it's so interesting that like I've had like this long term experience in come out where I've come. And Yours has been a little bit more short-term kind of concentrated around some major life events. Yeah, for sure I mean. I think you're right. There is like chemical imbalances that can create mental health challenges. And then there's also situational experiences that can also create mental health challenges for me. I think for sure it was my most recent job. I.

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Single & Unemployed

02:39 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"We do spend so much of our energy, just trying to be happy in suppress any other emotion that we don't feel. Yes, so I think this is where therapy can come into play for some people. For me it took me until I was twenty six to go and I found a great person right away. I'm Super Super Lucky. And I was also fortunate at the time to benefit covered it, but I don't anymore. I had a pocket, but it's one of those things where I'd just consider it a undergo Chaba so I I like sacrifice in other parts of my life. like I'll just like stay in more on the weekend or like whatever it is that I need to save that money to to go because. It is super valuable to me so the best things that I possibly learned out of going to therapy. Are that one I learned like amazing coping mechanisms, which I think are so important. Because you know you need to be able to. Do things on your own and support yourself and obviously it's always good to have a support network, but when you have. Stuff that you can try I on your own lake. It keeps you from depending on other people to help you. the other thing that I learned which is like a really huge thing for people with mental health is that I learned how to trust myself. And that is so important when you're like very depressed or anxious, have a really hard time trusting your own thought process you'll up to other people for their opinions and thoughts on your life, because you just genuinely feel like you can't trust what's going through your own head, and so therapy really changed my life in terms of like. The fact that like? I know what's best for me now and I don't need someone else to tell me that and I know how to take care of to care of myself, and it's been like a really really. Amazing Feeling That's incredible. Yeah, yeah, so living a life free of mental health is like it's an interesting concept for me because I like mental health struggles. I think like always like I'm Kinda GonNa have to face them like they're just always going to be part of my own life, but now I just know how to they live alongside me. You know they're not. They're not my whole. View there's something that I can live alongside and like cope with versus having them kind of run. My life and I'm sure there will be parts of my life or the crop up again and be more serious, but yeah I used to feel like it was my whole story like I just like I'm Katie and like I have anxiety depression, and now it's like I'm Katie. I sometimes live with these things and like they aren't the whole story to me, But yeah, but I'm really happy that I went because..

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"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

Single & Unemployed

04:50 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"He used to be an ex hockey player so like a professional hockey player, so I like should have known going into it. That I already hated him, but I decided to go anyways, because I just was like. Expand Your Horizons, and also you don't actually have to date him. He might just be a fun person to like. have in your contact list. But. I! I like message him on bumble right away and was like I'm going to be super. Ford and I was like. Hey, you're way too hot to be on dating. APPS and he was like. Why and I was like? Oh, no, he's definitely a little bit dumb. Yeah, so. Yeah so anyways you. You sat him up and he just like failed. Right like he flailed and then he was like. Wait a minute. I recognize you and I was like wait. and. He was like Ya'll I know you from somewhere? But actually it turns out. That I had like served him at the restaurant and I was I saw I had met him and his dad and. It was they were really night so anyways. He asked me on the date right away and I was like sure. Let's go and we met for drinks, and he was already kind of drunk like when he showed up I was driving that night so like I could only have like one beer. Ya, it was so weird and then like. I don't know like the conversation was fine like he is just like. He did his best. But, then he asked me to like. Sit beside him. At the bar. Like at the restaurant, it was like you know when people side seat at restaurants, and it's so awkward and uncomfortable. Have you ever seen that. Because I work at a restaurant. I see people do it all the time, but it's like. Oh, he's so weird because you're like now you're just like approaching two people staring at you and they're like canoed alling I am one hundred percent dot couple. Are you aside Cedar? I am. Oh No! Oh, you didn't tell me that I. Genuinely feel a bit attacked. E should I think in some situations. It's like totally okay like it depends on the seating, but there will be. People were like the seating. Does not call for side seating. There isn't room and they'll still forcet, and they'll turn the table around so that the table is longer, do you do you do that?.

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Single & Unemployed

05:22 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"And then there is at one time where I was trying to overnight oats in the closet, and my mom had this garbage bag of empty shampoo bottles, hanging on the back of the closet door, and the bank had ripped shampoo was like dripping into my overnight oats and I'm not trying to be dramatic, but that was a really hard time. Did talk about that for like a solid half hour that all just had to be removed, which is so unfair? That episode was a fucking Shit Show Day that that was the second episode recorded about relationships, and so it was like Sopa. My overnight oats was literally the loose of her problems. We recorded for like twenty minutes with our makes off Oh yeah! And then like we I'm trying to think of what else happened like literally every single thing that could have gone wrong did go wrong like your recording your recording. Thing didn't work for a minute My headphones started dying, and then like it was like all the reverb in the background. Yeah, literally, all of your devices died and we weren't done yet. Yeah, and we only had like a certain amount of time to finish recording because you to leave for the. No I think. My mom had like a fitness class. In the basement that's right and like. I just like we had to rerecord a bunch of stuff that we thought was really funny, but like hadn't recorded, and so I'm really happy that it turned out as funny as it did because it really has the potential to be shitty and then. told her fucking whole areas story about. The Yearbook, the Baseball Guy and I was like. You can't be funnier than me..

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Single & Unemployed

04:19 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"No, we can't for a future episode. Sure. My Mom says I can't uh. Are you gonNA. Ask me about me now. No, I'm good. Oh you okay, sorry. Okay so. Despite that that rant that I still stand by A. Dan by the fact that Lake is much as we're uncomfortable right now, poking fun at ourselves is. Because we're awesome and funny, and not because we actually believe we're losers, despite all that I am glad you clarified that. I think that's important for people to know, right? And I definitely don't cry all the time. Okay, so, Andrea. Despite the fact that? You know we started this podcast, England unemployed and living with our moms. Obviously circumstances change. Mine has changed a little bit. So where are you standing now? Okay, great question, Katie thank you so much for asking so I am still twenty eight. I am still single and still unemployed, but there has been a bit of a life update because my mom is going away for a little while so I'm not going to be living with my mom anymore. All just be living in her house, which is actually? As much as I know that you're. Not, super happy about this. You know that I live literally around the corner and. I'm always down for friendship. Fun Times including wine and crying. Yeah, you sent me a tax that was like. Oh, now that your mom's gone, we can have sleepovers and like watch side movies and cry and I was like my God I. Didn't think my life could get.

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Single & Unemployed

05:11 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"The amount of time. It takes to edit these so that we don't sound like complete. Idiots is astronomical I just don't know if having the vocal fry, and saying like every other word is doing me any favors at this point. I can only do so much, but I am doing my best. I think so far. It's been pretty good I. Haven't cringed too much on my own voice, which is a pretty good sign. I think okay, let's regard this intro. You're listening to single unemployed a podcast about two twenty eight-year-old losers with absolutely nothing checked off there before thirty timelines. Just getting kind of is actually about being twenty something and still figuring out. If you thought your life will look different by now and UK -sually fill up with an existential feeling of dread. Then, this is for you. Where here figuring it out right alongside you and trust us. You're probably maybe.

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Single & Unemployed

08:19 min | 2 years ago

"single" Discussed on Single & Unemployed

"We're here figuring out right alongside you and trust us you probably maybe exactly where you're meant to be. All right so this episode is all about dating during quarantine so Katie Talk to me. What's dating been like for you during this time? So I don't know if either of US are the best authority to speak on this because I. Don't like either of actually data during quarantine. That's true I was like kind of seeing someone I guess leading up to this okay. Was this the Gen Z.? Guy That only wanted to communicate via TIKTOK. Okay, so we've talked about this before Andrew. Not Gen Z. and every time you say that I feel a little bit like a pervert. His nickname is going to be John You guy in reality. He was I. WanNa, say two and a half years younger than me. Okay, so basically I met. This person actually is slid into their DM's on instagram. Have an address ball and I was ready to take my shot at having a casual relationship, because quite frankly I've had like one or two friends of benefits situations in my lifetime, but you know I just got out of a seven year relationship and I wasn't ready for anything serious, but I was also ready for someone to look my boobs and say well done. Wait to you or to God I'm just wondering grew these. Saul. Yeah, like who gets the credit anyway, not important. Keep going. And, so I was like I want to say it was like hey. Let's Bang, but I obviously didn't say that I was I i. kind of started chatting with things started to go really well and I was like I'm GonNa have a casual relationship like this is me casual. Katie's strolling down the street and quite frankly I should have known better because I don't really do. Casual emotions I do fil on. On emotions, I do investment and people, and it was one of those situations where I feel like a lot of people find themselves in where you like someone, and you're not ready to commit to something, and you're Kinda sleeping together, and you keep saying that it's only physical, but it's clearly emotional in either like one, or both of you have feelings I think we both had feelings for each other but. Also even though he seemed to be more interested I, don't think he was ready to have anything serious. either. When quarantine started, I was really funded when things slowly started to disintegrate I thought that for sure we would kind of connect more unlike an emotional level. That just didn't happen case. A casual fling became not so casual casual fling started to just slowly fall apart because it turned into just sending each other stupid tiktok videos and pictures of our dinner. anyways, connection was just like flat lining. I think quarantine connolly got into my head. You start to feel like extra lonely. you start to have this feeling like you're never gonna meet anyone ever again. And so for some reason this became a huge focus for me, and I was trying to Kinda. Bring it back to life, and it just didn't happen while I am sorry that it didn't work out, but I'm glad that some lessons were learned and yeah, you're on the track. You're crashing it in a way, not like literally just like metaphorically if I was literally crushing it, what would look like just the opposite of everything currently? Cool. Just getting as we've said, there's no timeline or formula for what crushing, it looks like an I also don't need no man, definitely not except for like if you wanted one and then that we cool too yeah I think you're right though like I. Think a lot of people that I know is while who were seeing people. Pre Quarantine did struggle all of a sudden when you can't actually get together and all you can do is facetime and talk on the phone I feel her generation just doesn't really know how to do that while I think because. Because of hookup culture and casual dating, it doesn't really leave a lot of space for deep emotional relationships, especially at the beginning for sure and I don't really get this hookup culture. I've never really been a part of it at a boyfriend for seven years before this so I, don't really get the leg non-emotional vestment, and to how someone that doesn't see things that way I'm like. We're speaking two different languages. Yeah, I agree I think it's kind of unfortunate that the quarantine is sort of exposing that people do struggle to make deeper meaningful connections emotionally. Maybe that'll be like a learning from this time. Maybe people will get better at that. Because during this time they sort of had to figure out out of be more connected to people emotionally yeah I, mean I have to say that. On one hand, I do WANNA blame the quarantine for this kind of lack of connection, and on the other hand and some ways. I've been closer than ever to some people in my life and that's how. I hoped that would go with US person. But it didn't, and that's okay, but I don't think that the quarantine -sarily means that. You're automatically losing any sort of emotional connection with people. It just depends on how much effort and how much vulnerability you're willing to have and for me. That comes super easily. It's just part of my nature to be vulnerable and open and connected to people emotionally, and for some people it doesn't and I I feel for the people that are struggling with their own connection right now. So. Tell me about Your exciting life right now Andrea because you told me you had stories to tell and Sonam fascinated. Okay so I. Mean I really haven't been dating? I also recently got out of a serious relationship, so I'm definitely not ready to start dating yet anyway. So. Then my question is for you. When are you ready? was that moment that you know you're ready to start dating because? I I'm also in the same boat I don't know of them actually ready to start. Dating at like it's kind of scary. So I. Don't know when you're ready I. Feel like only you can really know that, but I hope that we eventually take off those timelines for ourselves, and for other people 'cause for for example I was in that relationship for one year, and some people all talk to. They'll be like. Oh, how long did you date for an I? Say Year and they'll be like okay. Yeah, that's nothing and then other people will be like Oh. Wow, yeah, that's like a year of your life that you spent with that. That person so depending on their experiences, they have their own understanding of what timeline constitutes a meaningful relationship or not right. I think that the length of a relationship really doesn't matter so you can have like a three month relationship that is way harder to get over a three year relationship and re rush ourselves getting out of relationships to kind of get over it, and there's parts of you I think that will always be a little bit sad about it. You know like I. Don't think you ever fully get. Somebody that you loved. Yeah, you can be ready to move on and still feel sad about someone. For sure so all that being said I think dating during quarantine is is an interesting thing because people still are doing it, okay. I do have one other story that I wanted to tell you I. Don't know if this constitutes is dating, but you can tell me after i. have a feeling I'm gonNA. Say No, but please go ahead, okay? So was born a couple nights ago I'm living with my mom and I stumbled across my old high school. Yearbooks do remember how people used to sign your yearbook at the end of the year her and they'd right like dumb stuff like have a great summer like don't ever change and it was also funny because everyone was leaving their phone numbers, but it's Ca-. Social media wasn't really a thing yet, so if you wanted to be connected with people over the summer, you literally had to have their number. It's crazy. I'm reading through all these messages in my yearbook and I came across a message from a guy. That.

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