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More than 40 states are reporting an increase in Covid-19 cases
"Report report an an increase increase in in covert covert 19 19 cases, cases, hospitalizations hospitalizations or or hitting hitting records records in in the the Midwest. Midwest. Mohr. Mohr. People People are are dying. dying. Speaking the Shepard Smith on CNBC, Dr Anthony found, she said. It's only going to get worse. We're gonna have many more hospitalizations and that will inevitably lead to more deaths. So this is an untenable situation. Found, she says. We can't just let this happen and we have to do something different. This time he supports a national mask mandate. He's as a national uniform response is what we should have done. Emphasizing the wearing of masks, social distancing and avoiding congregate settings. A study by the Vanderbilt School of Medicine finds that in hospitals where more than 75% of patients came from counties that required masks, rates of hospitalizations did not rise between July and October. Hospitals with fewer than 25% of patients from those counties saw an increase of more than 200%.
20 Years and Counting on the International Space Station
"On October Thirty First Two thousand veteran astronaut William Shepherd left Earth on a journey began two decades of continuous human presence in low earth orbit. This is a special series of innovation now, celebrating twenty years of continuous human presence on the International Space. Station. Commander Shepard's launch the International Space Station was an orbiting complex of three small modules, not the sprawling research complex that is now today state of the art laboratory facilities on board help NASA increase our understanding of what it will take to expand human exploration beyond low earth orbit and new activities including the flight of commercial crews and scientific investigations will keep the station useful and thriving for years to come for shepherd and the two Russian cosmonauts who made up. One that first mission marked the beginning of an unprecedented. Of peaceful cooperation in space. Now, celebrating twenty years of continuous human presence on the International Space. Station we continue to see benefits for all humankind and a launchpad to future destinations
Kristen Bell opens up about husband Dax Shepard's relapse: 'I'll continue to stand by him'
"Her her husband, husband, Dax, Dax, Shepard's Shepard's battle battle with with addiction. addiction. I I will will continue continue to to stand stand by by him him because because he's he's very, very, very very worth worth Kristen Kristen Bell Bell standing standing by by her her man man speaking speaking to to Ellen Ellen de de generous generous about husband Dax, Shepard's recent confession that he had been using opioids. You're both so honest and Dax was recently honest about that he strayed from sobriety. Yes. How's he doing now? Is actually doing really great Shepherd, announcing that he'd relapse in his sobriety on his podcast late last month, saying he started to abuse painkillers following recent injuries for the last eight weeks. I'm on them all day in my addict, E brain. I'm doing all the dishes, and I'm being a dad And it's feeling very manageable Shepherd who's been sober for 16 years, confessing to the frozen star. Everybody's up against their own demons. Sometimes it's anxiety and depression. Sometimes it's substance abuse. And the thing I love most about Dax is a that he was able to tell me. And tell us and say We need a different plan right? Like we have a plan. If he gets it, if he has to take medication for any reason I have to administer it, But he was like, so we need a stronger plan. Belle telling Ellen that the two are now in therapy. One of the main reasons I love him is that he's also addicted to growth. He's addicted, Tio evolving and he was like I Don't want to risk this family and I did. So let's put you know new things in place to make sure it doesn't happen again, and we're going back to therapy. And I just I love that He's addicted to growth. And Kristen Bell, we're calling Dex tell her that he needed to do some of the emotional work to figure out what made him want to use again. Maybe sees Jenny Norman a 28 right now and it ABC
Blue Origin breaks the record for rocket recycling New Shepard launch
"What an exciting morning it was for the blue origin, rocket scientists and Kent as they watched their 13th, successful launch take place from a site in Texas. But 20 year old blue Origin still has a reached orbit or put a human in space. Christian Davenport is covering this for the Washington Post and spoke with compost. Taylor Vance ice. What was the purpose of today's launch? So the purpose of today's launch was to launch their new shepherd vehicle? It was a test launch. It goes not to orbit as you mentioned, but it goes sub orbital goes straight up and straight down. Ultimately, this is a vehicle that's going to fly paying customers. The space. We would have thought that would have happened by now. But there have been some delays and setbacks and and, of course, the Corona virus pandemic, But while it didn't have any people on board, it did have some payloads. Including some research that was placed outside of the booster that could be used to help the lunar lander that blue origin is developing for NASA in its quest to get back to the moon. That would help it land very precisely on the moon on so that experiment was on board. The new Shepherd for their Askew mentioned the 13th successful launch this
Hurricane Delta steams across Gulf of Mexico
"We are following a developing story out of the Gulf of Mexico region. As Hurricane Delta takes aim over there you can see by the map let's get right to CNBC's shepard. Smith with the latest airship, it does look like it could be terrible for the folks out there in Louisiana, and Mississippi not going to be good not at all the the latest is five o'clock. Update five eastern we just got that bring it to you. I, if you look at the top edge of this, it's so close to land. It's incredible. It looks like that is going to go over parts of Lake Charles and points east. A lot of rain has happened already Jackson Mississippi over the last twenty, four hours. They're estimating ten inches seven to eight inches around Lake Charles and if. You look at the cone. For this thing, it's not just a coast storm. This thing is going to go inland and rain and rain and rain I want to show you the cone of uncertainty if you will for this storm and there it is category too when it comes to shore and then it will weaken very quickly still be a tropical system, but not a hurricane as it moves. UPS skirts along Nashes Mississippi into the Jackson Mississippi area. Jackson. Mississippi. GonNa have reigned for at least the next twenty, four hours. This storm has weakened a little bit but not since the last report, the new update from the National Hurricane. Center has the central pressure at nine hundred and sixty six bars, which is up, and that means the storm is weakening. You look at go back to that last. Loop. You can see at the bottom the is breaking up on the bottom. That's sheer. The I is falling apart a little bit not a moment too soon let's go to Lafayette Louisiana Embassies Jay. Grazed Air Force. Wow He's getting wet you Jay. Yup. Well, conditions really intensifying over the last thirty, forty, five minutes the rain picking up a wind as well. We've got up the tropical fun print. Don't want to walk you down to the Million River and this is what you. Got All this. It's already over banks here. That's going to be a big problem. We've got sick maybe seven of these conditions left to go we're going to see sheets of rain continues to fall in the Lafayette area we could see up to a foot of rain before Paul said. And Wind Gusts better go be over hurricane strength again it for you be a real rough ride here for the next six or seven. And as you were talking about, this is an area here like Charles just to the West that's already been dealing with the effects of Laura category four storm. So they've been working for six weeks now worried that that works going to be walked away by this storm of move in mighty tough Jay gray one of four correspondence we have in the either storm. What is show you the storm surge in exactly what that's going to be like he said, vermillion, they're expecting up to eleven feet of. Storm surge there much less over by new. Orleans. Mouth of the Mississippi two to four feet lake pontchartrain one to three feet. So it's not going to be horrible near new. Orleans. But on the west side of Louisiana Lake Charles, we've just got battered at the end of August. They still don't have roofs on most of their houses that place is about to get hit
"shepard" Discussed on Inside of You with Michael Rosenbaum
"If you give me time to think about myself, I will inevitably star wondering where I'm ranking in this world and I'll start comparing myself to other people all start thinking of the things that Dax doesn't have that he should have and the more time I, spend thinking about myself the less happy I am maybe that's why maybe that's why you're so busy I. think that's probably part of the thing but I I know from service in a it's pretty hard to be thinking about what I do or don't have while I'm helping someone else just get sucked into their problem or sucked into their thing and it just it frees me from thinking of myself in so. One of the things with you is like. I don't think it's right or wrong to be in a relationship or be married I. Don't give I have no position on that. What I have a position on it the way I think it could be hugely beneficial to you is simply. You're going to have to spend so much goddamn time thinking about the other person and in the compromise that you guys have to come to that it it kind of it takes away some of the free time obsessive about yourself in the need and we're at and so it's like fuck all the other stuff just like get some fill up that dance card with other people's problems, and inevitably you have less time to think about yours in really you don't have fucking problems because you're full and there's a roof over your head. Everything else is just abstract, right? All right. This is it. This is. My patrons, my top agents ask questions and you just. Fire. This is Dax Shepard, shit talk and questions. Answered as quickly as you want Leeann since both axe and his wife are successful actors difficult to find A. Balance. It's really not we I don't know why it's almost enough to make me believe in a higher power I get busy she gets time then she gets busy and I get time..
MLB announces World Series will have in-person spectators
"And Major League Baseball World Series We'll have in person fans. They've been keeping stadiums empty more than eleven thousand people will get to attend the. And the world series in Arlington Texas. Let's go
NFL postpones Titans-Steelers game after coronavirus outbreak
"A coronavirus outbreak dealing the first real blow to the NFL season the league postponing Sunday's game between the steelers and the titans titans suspended in person activities completely yesterday three players five employs tested positive and today fourth player positive the league moving the game to Monday or Tuesday they hope. So there's time for more testing players are not in a bubble in the NFL like those in the NBA and the NHL.
Dax Shepard reveals he relapsed after 16 years of sobriety
"And his 16 years of sobriety, And now he's opening up about a relapse on his armchair expert podcast. He revealed that he's been taking Vicodin for about two months. Motorcycle accident August led him to taking pills every day. Says as a Friday he's 11 days sober, thanks to help from his wife, Kristen Bell and podcast co host Monica Badman. Jason Nathan's an ABC News Hollywood. Common is learning that Kobe Bryant's widow has filed a lawsuit against the Los
Dax Shepard reveals he relapsed after 16 years of sobriety
"Of Hollywood's more powerful couples having some challenges. Here's Jason, actor, director and podcast toast. Dax, Shepard has been very honest about his battles with addiction and his 16 years of sobriety, and now he's opening up about a relapse on his armchair expert podcast. He revealed that he's been taking Vicodin for about two months. Motorcycle accident August led him to taking pills every day. Says as a Friday he's 11 days sober, thanks to help from his wife, Kristen Bell and podcast co host Monica Badman.
Dax Shepard reveals he relapsed after 16 years of sobriety
"With addiction, actor director and podcast toast Dax, Shepard has been very honest about his battles with addiction and his 16 years of sobriety, and now he's opening up the butter relapse on his armchair expert podcast. He revealed that he's been taking Vicodin for about two months. Motorcycle accident August led him to taking pills every day, he says as a Friday 11 days sober, thanks to help from his wife, Kristen Bell and Podcast co host Monica Badman, Jason Nathan's an ABC News Hollywood and some good
Dax Shepard Says He Will Undergo Surgery After Motorcycle Accident
"Is recovering and in high spirits after a serious motorcycle crash 45 year old actor and husband of Kristen Bell, broke several bones and is going to need surgery. After that crash. Shepherd went over the handlebars and landed pretty hard. He has four broken ribs. Collarbone is broken in three places and He re broke the hand that he had broken a couple of months ago. Oh, no weeks. That's a lot of I've never broken a bone. Yeah, really Like how you said Yeah, I don't like that. I said that I should have just said by having a man. Well, I hope he gets better soon. That's very serious. Wonderful. Get back on the bike. I would imagine, Yes. He's just such a go getter in life doesn't seem to have much fear. But sometimes a situation like that could kind of give you pause, especially when your dad with little kids
Cereal brands reevaluate mascots to fit the modern day
"Been rethinking their outdated corporate mascots and Jemima uncle Ben Mrs Butterworth. At the same time, a group of young entrepreneurs have set out to create new breakfast cereal characters that reflect this moment. NPR's Mandali del Barco reports. Emily. At least, Miller says the new cereal she and her team created off limits has brand mascots, unlike any other dash is a high strung, high achieving female bunny in an eighties style power suit with sneakers. She's a K pop fan. A workaholic, and she says Dash has a lot of anxiety to deal with. So her cereal turns the milk to cold brew and has coffee and chocolate zombie is just the opposite. A lazy dude who looks like he just rolled out of bed to eat his mellow cereal. There's adapted Jin's Pond on Vanilla, so everything you need to mellow out. Miller, 29 year old food writer is all about breakfast. In fact, she wrote breakfast a cookbook, and she created the breakfast club walking tours of New York restaurants. Her latest venture off limits. Serial also seems to appeal to millennials. Miller's hoping they might relate to zombie who has a bit of Bart Simpson or dash more of Ah, Lisa Simpson. The whole brand is really run by these emotionally unstable and extreme cartoon characters. Dashing zombie are a far cry from the buff, confident cereal mascot Tony the Tiger. Cash is not the first female serial character in the early 19 fifties. Kellogg's Sugar Frosted Flakes was rep. For a short time by Katie the Kangaroo who wore a bandanna and carried her baby in her pouch. I'm Katie, the kangaroo I have been given bound around you guy within that takes all night, just like an attending. Do you like Kellogg's ultimately bounced Katie The kangaroo for Tony. The Tiger, also dropping sugar from its name Fast forward to 2020 where cold and hot cereals are more than $20 billion industry in the U. S. According to market data firm statistic, with sales expected to grow To succeed. Cereal brands have to be nostalgic, healthy or have more modern mascot, says analyst Melissa Abbott. There's a demand for something completely different that isn't no masculine 20. The Tiger Macho Abbott is vice president of culinary insights at the Hartmann Group. She says cereal is not just a breakfast food. New brands are pro mode on podcasts and purchased online, Abbott says off Limits and another new cereal brand magic spoon appealed to a different aesthetic. These characters that are going to win essentially today and particularly in the breakfast category, they have Tio contain more of this multi dimensional take on the on the human personality. The flaws and all, Abbott says consumers might like that off limits. Characters were designed by artist Shepard Fairey's studio. Now the question is, Will they go for coffee flavored cereal repped by a stressed out bunny in a power suit? Handle it. Al Barco
Former Fox News anchor Shep Smith joins CNBC
"A former Fox News host, has a new job on a new network. Shepard Smith says he thinks he found a great home for his newscast. After abruptly quitting Fox News last October, Smith has landed a gig with CNBC who starts in the fall, The network says Smith will anchor a one hour a week light newscast at 7 p.m. Eastern. The same study had for many years at Fox until he was shifted to the afternoon. Smith was at Fox from the networks birth in 1996. He never did say why he quit Fox just after six. Owning a contract extension. However, he often developed statements made by Trump in his supporters, including opinion host on his own
Shepard Smith joins CNBC for weeknight news program
"Former fox news host has a new job on a new network Shepard Smith says he thinks he found a great home for his newscast after abruptly quitting fox news last October Smith has landed a gig with C. N. B. C. he starts in the fall the network says Smith will anchor a one hour weeknight newscast at seven PM eastern the same study had for many years at fox until he was shifted to the afternoon Smith was at fox from the network's birth in nineteen ninety six he never did say why he quit fox just after signing a contract extension however he often debunked statements made by trump and his supporters including opinion host on his own network I'm Oscar wells Gabriel
Former Fox News Anchor Shepard Smith Will Join CNBC Evening Lineup
"Switching networks after leaving his former company after blows with the president. After a 23 year stint at Fox News Channel News anchor Shepard Smith is joining CNBC. The network says his upcoming show The News with Shepard Smith will feature quote, fact based storytelling and well aired 7 p.m. Eastern weeknights. He was with Fox since its inception but quit in October after establishing himself as a critic of President. Trump, who repeatedly attacked it says show on CNBC is set to launch in the fall.
Former Fox News host Shepard Smith joins CNBC
"Former Fox News anchor Shepard Smith will now be doing a nightly newscast on CNBC. Oh, CNBC he has signed on with them. So that's ah, where Shepherd Smith has landed at
Sheep Are Smarter
"Recently I saw this sheet brain eating challenge. Yes, Sheet Brain! It originated in Asia Big Area where Asmar is also popular. If you watch videos. Listen to videos where people are. Spring back. Sites or smacking. Yeah the whole night. You have to check it out Asmar. And some of this has led to people just eating extravagant foods in certain parts of Asia. The brain of an animal is considered a delicacy because of the intellect of that particular animal now I learnt as Durham I travel to Asia China in particular, and during that time monkey was a hot item on the menu. And now it's shifted to sheep brain, so I want a little further. I wondered are sheep also smart because we know that monkeys all right? Now the historic reputation of sheep says they are actually stupid. They're good for two things. Only being eaten and producing wool, and I'll add a third to that being big. Tom Powers like I read that they will actually follow one another into slaughter or off a cliff. Repeat with me. Don't be a follower now on the contrary. Let me paint a different picture about sheep. They are actually loyal and somewhat intelligent. Their intelligence stems where they can do facial recognition, right and I'll add a third to balance the scale. They're smart because they stick close to the shepherd and they're able to recognize their. Their shepherd right, not only the sound of the shepherd, but how that Shepherd looks now you may envision the shepherdess. A man who carries this tall wouldn't staff and has a no shave November type beard. Yeah, that Guy, but the staff is not just for show is actually to protect and covered the flock on a daily basis from real live mingling wolves right out on the prow now in the church relationship this is reflected between pastor and congregation in a mosque between the Imam in worshippers in synagogue between the rabbi in the members. And is closely modeled as these various dynamics are. The sheep proved themselves to be smarter than us. It's because they stick close to the shepherd. Now. This is not me in any way. Discrediting the roles of pastor Imam or rabbi, those that are called equipped to lead in these positions have a huge responsibility as messengers but check this out. They are never to replace or override. Direct intimate in close relationship with God. John Tim. Fourteen says I am the Good Shepherd and I know my sheep and am known by my own. They will no way by no means follow a stranger, so that shepherd that guy with the staff. That's what the sheep do. They follow that Shepard. They know that shepherd one on one relationship intimate, and they stay close now churches, synagogues and mosques. We all see globally. They are shut down. There closed. With a little bit of online. Services going on right, but besides that the doors of them are closed. What a time! To explore the open fields of love. What a time to reconnect with the very God that created the earth and everything in it. What time to stick close to the shepherd to keep from falling off that cliff.
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"shepard" Discussed on Life is Short with Justin Long
"He a kid? The other adults kids and I was like. Oh my God. He didn't even answer that question. Yeah I don't what are the nine but they're adults the whole thing completely unraveled for me and I was like what is be we herman well. It's like childhood rivals. The kid wants his bike but the kids twenty six okay. Any kind of talks to. Yes Oh for I was like I don't have the answers to these questions and I can't believe I just took the whole thing at face value when I was a kid. I DIDN'T ASK THOSE QUESTIONS. Like is he mentally has a mental right things going right and what was sexually. Where does he stand? Yeah it's true. It's I guess you had said this but it's it bears repeating that the context in this case like the context is everything right. We're kids in the eighties where we were slowly introduced to we and we lived in a time. Where like pee? Wee's playhouse was on and he was just like figuring pop culture that we knew of it wasn't like all of a sudden we're going from a non P world into all of a sudden this. This guy is like okay. That's I hear okay. If you go almost on one superpower what would what would you pick if you could have a superpower? It's really for me right between invisibility and fly? That's usually what it comes down to some somebody said recently I would want to know every language C. Three Po. That'd be oh that would be cool. I guess I'm GonNa go flying because I gotta assume if you can fly even when you're decrepit old and you can't walk you can maybe still fly. Oh yeah that's true. He's around in your elder years. If you could be one age for the rest of your life physically what what would you pick probably? Let's go. I'M GONNA go with like thirty five. Yeah if you could be reincarnated as a non human animal in random pictured years in arrangement would you rather be called unattractive or unfunny unfunny Really Oh that's all I talk about. This is what I've said you could say any thing about me but if it ends with a and I WANNA fuck him. I'm delighted so someone go like that. Dax is such a fucking dumb ass. He can't even read so boring. I totally WANNA fuck him. I'm so good everything's good. I don't even care about those two things. That's really funny Which golden girl do you most identify with Dorothy? Blanche rose or so is a new question by the way Leslie Jordan. Ah He goes. Before the question came out of my mouth. He Goes L. Blanche links eager. And I knew her. I knew that's Ru McLennan. Of course you did. Who was the WHO or that's blanche. Has I mean physically? I'm I'm wants her name all day long. But I I'd like to say my spirit. Is that of Blanche. Okay Beatles or rolling stones. Do you remember that you remember that? One of those rose I I would hate to be a part one of those but I love watching them but at one point someone said I wouldn't fuck you would be Arthur's Dick do you remember yes advocacy. I forget who that was. Yeah that sounded like Sarah Silverman. Maybe if you could have dinner with three people dead or alive whom you've never met Pablo Escobar. He'd be in there Buster Keaton. You prefer into chaplain big time. He was the original. Jackie Chan what he did was so fucking dangerous. The very famous one with the front of the House falling and he lands in the window s half his crew. Quit that day. They were like we're not going to sit here and watch you die. He had like an inch on either side and no rehearsal and he just stood there and let building fall on them and it worked. I'm attracted to all fearless people even if they're terrible scumbags here. I'm in this boggles kristen too. She's always like how do you like someone like Pablo Escobar? And I'm like right and I go hon. I'm fascinated by people's will like here's a guy from a fucking ghetto. The Mountainside in Columbia in through his own will he becomes the eighth richest man in the world that notion that someone can decide in their mind that they're going to do something like that and do it is just fascinating to me. And how do you want to be remembered DAX? Do you ever think about that. Do you ever think about your own legacy and your own sense of what you're GonNa leave besides your kids. Obviously and you know I I don't that doesn't interest me at all. I all have friends who I can tell are actively curing their legacy. And I'm like I hate to break it to you. There's this I get it. I totally get it but this desire to be on a great show quote a great show I go. I hate to tell you this. But no one's going to watch breaking bad in ten years as much as we would love to think they're gonNA they're not gonNA. My kids will never see breaking bad so anything you do. That's great disappears like sand on the Highway. So the thing you want is prestige or acclaim or accolades. Just No. They're not permanent. So in that case your life experiences. What's permanent under deathbed? You WanNa show that you spent eight years on that was fucking miserable so that people congratulated you. That's just not my bag. Well man thank you. I'm sorry man I love is my favorite. I love it. Thanks how we can't wait to do it again. I'll have you back now..
"shepard" Discussed on Life is Short with Justin Long
"How's it going? How how's quarantining is it? It's it's good now but but it was rocky at first because it's such an adjustment to a When it happened I was I was shooting. Blesses mess top gear than doing the podcast? That's right you were is oh to go from seeing her in the morning and our and then three hours at night to seeing her twenty four hours a day with our two kids twenty four hours a day. She's yeah required some communications some new new guidelines of how we're GonNa well she tells a story and I don't remember the fight was about. She said something on here that resulted in you guys adopting another dog and I it got it got all right right got picked up a new story. Well two things about that one. I'd love to hear your side but also are you ever hasn't talked to talk about your relationship or anything from your personal lives aside from showing your kids in bringing your kids into it. Is there ever anything that you like? This might get this might get called by some Gossip magazine. We should maybe be. I'm aware of it but I'm not concerned about it. So the things that I get. I have an emotional response to our one hundred percent of the time. I have some fear underneath of that right. So let me give you an example. If you dedicated your entire show to making fun of me and every episode you talked about how short I was just two short DAX shepard too short. He shouldn't be in business. He's too short. You could do a million episodes. It would never bother me because I'm not too short. No fear being short if I if I know one thing about myself that I'm tall so it'd be a crazy show to do too but yeah but you couldn't penetrate it because they don't have a fear of being too short now if you did a show about that. I wasn't talented enough to be the lead of a show on ABC. Bother me. If I'm not interested I'm arrogant that bother me because I am arrogant. Mono at all or anything that I actually have a fear of would bother me. I don't care if a magazine says Chris Denier GonNa get divorced or that. We have a shitty relationships amazing relationship. Because I know exactly what our relationship is and I'm super happy and proud of it so in that way it would be like them calling me short like to make a meal like we're falling apart or yeah okay. We're not falling apart so go. I don't care right in fact I to the point where it strikes me that you guys have fun with it if anything you read those stories and like sometimes you call them out kind of like what you did with Schwarzenegger you literally just like read them verbatim and then all the one that we had like some kind of sex ring. I was like and again ultimately kind of flat terrain sexy their worse like worse rumor to start with. We haven't found in a year but the notion that we're like swinging is kind of exciting kind of Flat Arik. Do you remember this fight. Though the fight about the with that resulted in you getting another dog. She didn't really remember the details. Well I do. And what's funny is. That's exactly what cycled back for corn team. Which is my wife and I as all people. We approach things differently and I have a lot of childhood triggers. I had a lot of Stepdad's I don't like to be told what to do. I have a huge authority thing so that I was. I came out and there was a God damn list on the counter. If you wanted me to do I was like Hey. I don't work for you and you have been working alive right. Yeah Yeah Yeh back to back to the fear thing I feel very good about what kind of Dad I am. You could. She could go on. Tv AND SAMA. Terrible Fucking Dad. And even though there'd be a very credible source because she witnesses it wouldn't bother me at all because I feel great about what kind of interesting. Yeah and likewise. I feel very good about what I do around the house. I fix all the fucking Dude Shit. I'm in the cars and I don't do laundry and I can live with that peace with that. I do a lot of great stuff. Yeah I'm never going to walk through the House and be like I gather up a couple of loads of laundry and he's just not gonNA do domestic lane. You're very clear about your lane. I've accepted what she does. And it's been going smoothly for twelve years so I don't think we need to revamp any list like hold on a second. This is a whole new rules now. So once we got into quarantine. I certainly have enough time to do that laundry but I'm still not GonNa do that laundry interesting. What about that mind you? I washed dishes. I don't mind washing dishes at all. I probably five times a day. So it's not like won't it's not like I'm not doing quote? Yeah Women's Work. Not a pig. Decks is doing very clear. Fuck about laundry. I don't go through much laundry. Their problem that they're all going through so much laundry. I wonder if you've pinpointed where that may have come from that specific aversion in childhood. I wonder if there's a thing in the text back into but you know where it comes from I do. I had a lot of Stepdad's and they would arrive. And they really nice at first and then the second there is a marriage now it was time to the way they thought a house should be ran interesting and I was part of four different global strategies on living and none of them I agreed with and when I turned eighteen. I say guess what I will never fuck in ever be part of someone else's strategy live that I'm on the wrong side of it. I am over. I overreact to that. I should be able to just do laundry of my wife. Wants me to clearly. But she also understands where that trigger comes from. She's very sensitive to your your story. You're damned yeah the really bigger conceptual global thirty thousand foot view issue. That's going on is really. Hey there's a way you like to do things. There's a way I like to do things. And they're not always going to match up and so even as something as simple as she feels very productive in the morning when she wakes up the I ninety minutes. She's awake and she's on fire that's because she's looking at me and I said I sit and I drink coughing. Chew Tobacco and try to get a dump going and I and I have a window of productivity and I just say like Hey I'm never going to have the same window of productivity of you for whatever reason mine comes later in the day and I don't want to ever be evaluated based on your yes. Katie and Rhythm. Or whatever rhythm you do right now if. I'm a Lazy Motherfucker Call Me Out. But it's not going sing up the way you like it that makes sense so that definitely makes sense. So how did it come up again? Just come up again because now we're together all the time they're more. You have more time to do things more available. They've seen me set time. But when to say a my mind in my mind I was like dude. I've got three full-time jobs. Yeah this is awesome man. I'm finally get to sit in my house for a month and a break. I haven't had in two years and I'm going to enjoy the shit out of this is like my summer vacation and rightly so she's like you know you could. You could do a little more. You're a great storyteller. Your we've heard so good impressions but also you have such great recall in a weird way. I've always wondered because we had a lot of sober guests on the show and I wonder how did that affect your decision to WanNa do podcast? He was that something that you've cultivated in sobriety on your sober well. Being in a is the foundation of the podcast which is right for the last fifteen years will go sit in front of strangers and be dead honest indeed vulnerable and I think we all have a fear of what being dead honest dead vulnerable will result in generally. It's result embarrassment or shame but through practicing that for fifteen years a hundred percent of the time that I'm honest in own my fears what I see on other people is not like judgment are or disapproval. It's recognition it's always recognition. Even though the details may different the underlying emotions of all of our things are so relatable and so. I think I just through practice of doing that. It's made me far more confident in in In being honest I don't think I there's no way I have this podcast without mean in a podcast but it would just be all comedy or something. You said this to me after. I left When we did the podcast a year ago started second guessing things I'd said. Oh my God I talked about the ex and stuff like that you said everything is on the two has to be on the table. You got to be completely honest and vulnerable and I started thinking. Are there things like that that you're afraid to talk about that? You feel vulnerable about the trickier thing for me. Is My children. Because I can't resist but to talk about them and they're at an age where they won't know I talk about them. I've noticed this in Stern. Like stern talks about everything in his life but his daughters have to assume that came from them. Probably saying hey. I don't want to be a part of your show. Yeah but the thing the thing I walk. That's really tricky. In in only time will tell. Is You know I can see where they would be like. Hey leave me out of your stupid show. And then by the same token I could see them listening back going man. He couldn't stop talking about me. He thought about me he thought about me when he was talking to Will Ferrell. He thought about me when he was talking to Sheryl Crowe. I don't know that I would like that like if my vice saw that. My Dad just could not keep me out of his thoughts. I would like it. What if your kids at one point like well? Why don't you bring me? I WANNA be a part of this. Are you afraid that they're they must be charismatic? As hell they must be funny. I hear them in the background of your. You know. They're like little presences felt it's funny stories instead. Comedy insects crawling around. Yeah and and great pedigree obviously yeah. They're they`re. They're both really funny and charming. One in particular is is we call her Shirley Farley? Because she's a mix between Shirley Temple and Chris Farley. She's She can't she can't do anything. That's not funny. Good Watch watcher e you go walk across the room. You just can't help it trying. And also she has this amazing the thing. I can't believe she has almost no little kid has this is. She'll make a dynamite joke and then she does not go back to the well. She won't hit it again. Walk my other daughter. If she she lands one she's GonNa try three or four Morte Ring Ring Ring Milk. It right kids do but my one daughter she's like Shit Beaumont and walk out and then and then we'll know when to bring it back again might be an hour later. Wow how does she have that awareness that instead of wind? That's and I would never? I would never put them on the show. Yeah I would interview them..
"shepard" Discussed on Life is Short with Justin Long
"To tell them what you were in surprise even got the names of the Shit right because he just learned that we've heard the word Pong? Yeah I see in the paddling peddling show. They right celebrities by paddling in Olympics. So when I was at that breakfast I hit my impression of him right so about a month later. I get a phone call. Pick up is could you please hold for the governor? And then all of a sudden he gets on the phone and he goes he goes DAX ahead really good time ready motorcycles. With you and going the breakfast I'm Gonna I'm going to be doing some some fundraising events. And I want you to come out on stage and do you impersonation of me and I go. cadets that's so flattering. But you're a Republican and I'm a libertarian. And he goes I swear to God. He goes me too as as he. He's a libertarian. To mind you. I'm not a libertarian anymore. For whatever that's worth the time it was and so I and then I Fucking yes I'll do it so I go to this rally you gotTa do stage. Yeah so you'RE GONNA love cell so I do this thing. And then this results in another now a lunch following the event so we ride motorcycles. We go to eat in Beverly Hills. And now we're at Table Ten people and I'm telling stories I'm telling tons of stories. I refuse to look at him. I will not look at him this whole lunch. I'm telling you his his assistant. I'll look dead in his eyes and tell him the story directly to his face. Just never really make eye contact with Schwarzenegger and I'm just trying to get him on the run. A little bit and sure enough like today's later get a phone call will come up to the house and went to move. I'm be home for Christmas and so I go to his home owning.
"shepard" Discussed on Life is Short with Justin Long
"One of the greatest. A top five comedy is the last twenty years I think so too. I know a lot about you because I listen to the show wedding thing. We both have thought we almost got roles in that movie. I get the call saying they want you to play the role that Bradley Cooper and yeah but I instead idiosyncrasy was happening at the exact same the role of Fredo versus the role. That cooper played seem like I don't know about you but I had this like I was aiming to be now. In retrospect somebody could never been but will ferrell. Let's say I was in the ground lanes and that's right characters and I was like if I go do this fucking character freedom fucking Caesar GonNa part. I'll be play anything. Well just go play a Dick. Oh that's interesting DAX. I remember that time and I remember that script that deocracy script and so I don't think that might sound crazy to some people. But even in retrospect it makes perfect sense. Well that's another element that's relevant. Is that the script for deocracy was a ten. Yeah and then. The script for wedding crashers was like a seven. Those guys made it attend those guys and David the exact line that made me want to see that movie is only goes normally say we only use ten percent of our brains. I think we only use ten percent of our Harz. Like that's that's so sad and it was like who says that we lease. Who's that great actor? The Guy for the priest. He's so sweet. He's in ignore. Nola passed away a couple of years ago. Vince has that whole scene with him right before when he confides in them at the end us this thing he does with the sweet actor where he goes now coming for the real thing and he he kisses on the lips remember that literally. I remember him doing shit like that and it was so funny to watch him do that. Because it's such a power move to. Oh they're going to be a more powerful move in the bigger guy. Just come and kiss take some of Your Lips. Yes and I won't even hear of anything else I want to say. That was the first time because then it became kind of popular that the male Comedians were kissing guys in scenes. Like of seeing Jona do it. I've seen we'll do I like the I I think he I just saw something. We're set throw like fully kissing. Nick Kroll Nick Kroll. And Seth like made out like with tongue. I think how great. Yeah they gotta yeah you gotTa you gotTa top it but that comedy is going in eight years you before fucking past. Were like what a joke. We like. Fuck for twenty five minutes. That's the Joe. What a what a laugh to keep raising the bar for humor. You gotta get more more sexually graphic during during chips. I made that joke. The guy who created ships when we shot was older. You know what I'm saying. And so he had created this very G. TV show and so he he was there the day we were filming John. Panch talking about eating assholes I said to him I went up to him and I said is it a little weird to see these characters. You created now talking about eating ass and he said Yeah. It's a little weird but it's funny. I said well if it makes you feel any better. If this movie's success in twenty five years I'll be producer on the new version John. But fuck and you'll be like maybe a little bit a little much I to me. Idiosyncrasy was was that it felt that rebellious and it felt extreme. It felt like kind of a punk rock. I still can't believe they made that movie and I've said this before but I can't believe I don't know if they'll ever be and I mean is the best way possible. A lead a lead character. That is that extreme that behaves like that all real and grounded but like that is so dumb and it just so extreme referring to me. Yeah Frito arrogant for those people who haven't seen it and now it's weirdly like relevant in a disturbing but but you're so it's such a bold choice to do and we've talked about. It's almost too much really but it's but it's not it's appropriate. It fits the comedy fits. Mike was trying to say with the movie. You kinda need him to be that slow. Did you come up with with Mike or did you just pick something to them? Well I had done that character on well. First and foremost that character starts is a dude in my high school straight on the tow truck company. And he's always talking about riding Zongol and Hook and I guess when you pick a car it's called Hook in anyways a dude who talked roughly like that. I'm sure over the decades of doing it evolved my best friend here and weekly and I always did that guy and then when I got to the groundlings I did that person on stage and then Melissa McCarthy and I had she had a character that was perfectly suited for that character romantically and we had sketches where those two fell in love quite often. Yeah and it was just something I had done and then when I read ideology I want to be a part of it so much but it was written remember Frida was supposed to be really Like morbidly obese said to Mike. I really WANNA play free. Don't he's off pitcher? This you know like a big you know like a big fat you know and and so I was like okay. Well Can I. It leased learn. Look told him. I can't do my impressions with my headset on here. Who's like a big fat book? Wanted you to tell the story but anyways I got to audition for him and I started doing it and you know I just I start here. And he's like looking at other people and I was like. Oh my God he's fucking and then that I've been turbo positive. Yeah fucking board to the floor and and then he loved it and by the way. I don't think anyone else love. I think that I think the producers were into it. I know this studio wasn't really picky. But he had that much. He had all his so much power. That was Fox. Yes yes he made them a billion dollars on on King of the hill and was it was maybe the best script. I've ever read best comedy. Yeah and then. Of course it worked perfectly. There's one of the and I'm glad that people are discovering it. Do find that that people have found it for years no for years. It was like I just been in this movie that no one ever saw remember I think contractually. They had to release it in in like a hundred and eighty theaters. Or something for per Mike's Skudra but I never bumped into one of those people that went to one of those. I couldn't find it in New York. Just thought it was like we did it in a dream or something. Yeah but then over the years and then I'll be honest in that three year window. Boy Did I choose wrong. I know everyone saw crashers. Yeah well and then over time. Certainly it's tied and maybe even above most of the movies. I've been in that a lot of people. I'd say more people up to me than other movies. That actually did well. We'll meet started. I was in it for one scene and people. Bring that up a lot that one you had another movie like that called the thorough which I remember being in that I remember auditioning for Jon Favreau and this before Pharaoh made marvel movies it was right before more but it was still John February and made some really great movies up to that point Al Right after all right so again apart everybody wanted and I heard you talk to Adam Scott about this but I remember being you Adam. Scott somebody else and a blinking on and and myself and I remember I was interviewing. I was interviewing Colin Hanks and found out then that he had been offered it. No Shit notion turned it down and I had no. I didn't know anyone else read for I was in. I was shooting idiosyncrasy and I got a call. I WANNA say just a cold call from fabric directly from fabbro saying hey. I'm doing this movie and and I think he was I. I was on his radar because I was in a Mike judge because he was obsessed with Mike Judge and that gave me the stamp of approval. Him He called me like I'm really interested you for it and then I again my ego in where I thought I was going and I WANNA BE. Will Ferrell and I'm doing this character in this movie. I think is going to be huge. I did not want to be in there because I was like. Oh this is a kid. Movie Yeah And I WANNA be Will Ferrell mind you fucking kids so I don't even know why thought directed by disinterested yeah exactly became a superstar ones. But forget all that it wasn't fitting with my narrative at the time yeah But at any rate I was just like I don't look I had been ten years of auditioning not getting anything and then within five seconds punk was a huge without a paddle. I just finished and now I'm in a Mike Judge movie so in my mind. Who knows what's next well. A lot of those like humbling experiences make. You may have made you. I think incredibly vulnerable and introspective person. I think that's the best you can hope for an talk show host in in any sort of hosts like that. So you certainly. I don't think it would be as good as as you are at what you're doing now but I wonder if you do. You think you would have even remain sober or stayed married or do you think it would have been like that. I WOULD REMAIN SOBER. I believe yeah but would I have. Would I have made space in my life to be with Kristen right? No because even I can give you an example because I've been so humbled just before starting parenthood and I was in a period of my life where I was like. I've got this show not the actual myself. Sorry just to clarify the show. You're talking about. I don't think anyone's confused. I was not in the movie. I was only in the show. No I'm saying rather than Actual parenthood thing. Yeah Yeah Yeah. That's that's a good point. That's a good point. I stand corrected movie human the movie no but having been a really humbled as you point out like i Idi Agassi. Let's go three in a row. House fucking tanked and we're all good above the title like to. Some of them are good but because I had I had gone..
"shepard" Discussed on Life is Short with Justin Long
"Several years ago my older brother are older brother? Damian and I were walking to our car parked in New Haven Connecticut and we saw a woman next to her car seemed kind of distraught and it was raining out and we asked what was wrong. She said Oh my God flat tire and and we said you know what? Why don't we just fix the tire to men? Not that only men can fix tires but you know and we had an umbrella. We gave her an umbrella so she's standing there while. We're trying to figure out how to do this. I realized that halfway through. We both realized that we didn't really know how to change a tire. I I'd done it before. And certainly our father do it but it was just really difficult taking a long time and at a certain point. She started getting frustrated. By the time we finished. She didn't think us in a genuine way. She's thinks like this. Thanks a lot and we both walked away feeling both emasculated and maybe a little less willing to help a stranger out which sucks. It's too bad I wasn't with. You would have been able to help in a Jiffy because we grew up in the same house that I'm just kidding anyway. Here's the show could be a dream ship. Ooh You're listening to life is short. I'm your host just in long nine sweetheart With always is my equally inept. A- changing a tire brother Christian so unnecessary well. I just said that I couldn't do it. I was kidding. Yeah I know but just in case. It wasn't clear you don't you want to know how to change a tire like that. I know of chain look for the record. I can change one. I in theory. I know how to do it. I know the steps required. I just remember but I've never done it. I don't think I could do. The scary part is when you put the crank thing that props up the car and you know the name will. Do you know the name. Yeah curricular now. It's US Shit as soon as I Jack Jack Jack Or Jack. I don't know James. The scary part is because I've done it before I put it on the wrong part. If you don't put it on the like solid foundation this much I know if you put it on the bumper to bumper the founder of the fray or well. Here's in front of the tire. Otherwise rip the frame off the side. It's got him in front of the back tires but see. I know that that happened to me once on my Volkswagen Golf. You remember that car that I it had a blue door. One of the doors blew. The rest was Maroon and I painted like racing stripes on it is a stick shift. Eighty four golf. I loved that car. I don't WanNA blame our father completely on this. Now he had done but the fact is shit here. Here's the fact. He never really taught us that much about automotive maintenance. We I know how to do basic dino how to check the oil in a car how to change the oil car but beyond that. I can't really. We really do anything he can. And I wish I you know part of it is. We had a really reliable good mechanic growing up so I shot a Jamba Guardia. So we had to learn it ourselves but I wish I did. I wish you knew more about auto mechanics because it's every time I see a movie. There's a scene in being. There's a scene in stand by me. Were there like working on a carburetor. Remember that was a question Trivia night. We've been doing trivia night with our friend Dan Scheckter and I thought for sure carburetor looked like this thing that I was wrong. We had the multiple choice. That was embarrassing. We got that wrong we We're not men in that way. No but why. Why are we talking about this wanting to be better at mechanics auto mechanics part because our guest is the exact opposite of us when it comes to your guests thrives on working on cars and manly stuff That again I mean this is going to make a sound soft. No no but but but referring to people who know about Carl's being man I it's were reinforcing. These gender Stereo. Shouldn't I know but let's say to be safe in the very traditional definition of what manliness is one of the things that a man traditionally can do is fix cars right okay and our guest. Today is a very traditional. That's in the man. In that way. Well said BELLSA safely said as it is. I know you don't WanNA offend. But our guest today being thoughtful as is our guest today. He's a thoughtful traditionally adept to man. He's fascinating in that. He is both traditionally Manley but also very sensitive and vulnerable and compassionate which aren't traditional values. Necessarily four he has both old fashioned masculine qualities and very new fashion. Very modern masculine qualities. Sensitive vulnerable he's a good listener. Telling me okay here. We go our guest today. Is Kim Jong UN? Sorry our guest today is Dax Shepard. You might know him yes you everyone knows front well now. Everyone knows him for. Are you feeling self conscious about being bad at this because taxes so good at podcasting? Dax isn't doesn't do a big opening though on his show. No no he's a very in two zero point taken Access a very popular. Podcast called Armchair experts and DAX's armchair expert which he does with Monica Pattern. They that really launched us. We owe him a lot and we'll get into that later. I'm sure but you did to be clear because this might be a little confusing. Right white stack sandbags. We all might think oh he was on. Yeah exactly wrong did You were a guest on his podcast a year ago. Yes right and that our one year anniversary. It's exciting yeah. This is our one year anniversary show so that episode one year ago where you're the guests on his show was on our feet for life is short as the first episode for a long time. It's not anymore but that wasn't you interviewing him. That was him interviewing you. Yeah so I remember a Lotta clear. This is the first time you are that. He's on this. Show that we just us. Yeah and at the time. A lot of people were like What's going on? This is just like you're just. It must have been a little confusing people. Maybe not maybe not the best move our part on the feet so long because I think he was confusing because it's was the first one. Oh just I want to check out this podcast. You Click on the first one well and it's you being interviewed. Part of it. Part of it was. We were going to do it back back. And I ended up talking with deck so long a year ago when I went to his. He has a little studio in House that they're building we talk forever and there just wasn't time to do another one so he said. I'll tell you what I'll tell you what we'll just split the on you so So this is it so for those who don't listen to his podcast. A few who don't I wonder if there are any who of that. It's a very popular. Yeah but you also know him from punked from without a paddle we we should maybe give a little context because if you had the and the show bless this mess. That's that's right with like if you haven't seen any accuracy first of all you should. It's a really great comedy. I one of my favorites of that decade. And it's a Mike. Judge movie and DAX is with my Rudolph and Luke Wilson. One of the leads. The movie five hundred years into the future. Imagine a society that has just kind of devolved intellectually and decks Frito we get into that. It's where it's really how I got to know DAX Met Him prior to that. I don't know my memories. Terrible his memories. Great. It's another one of the things. I really admire about him Which will also get into so maybe we should get into it. I would love to take a page out of DAX's play cowboy. Yeah Too late for that I guess but here it is My first technically I interview first time taxes on our show. The hilarious honest sweet. Man's man in a traditional.
"shepard" Discussed on Good For You
"We. We approached the media. We want everyone to know we don't do this. But that's not impact. What happened but it's like are you guys. Are you guys honest with your kids? Yes yeah yeah. We tried to be dead on his all. What are you talking about the and now we just got to answer like what we told them. There isn't a Santa Claus so what happened was with child number one I. Christmas is my favorite holiday. I fucking love it more than anything I start. I start decorating on Thanksgiving. It's my I love it awesome. It's I loved Christmas morning. If I'm dead honest I don't really remember believing in Santa Claus at as I don't remember I never believed in God so but we started with Santa Claus and then our oldest daughter Linkin had some really immediate. Follow up questions like well. How does he get from house to house? Every two smart right and so I told like one lie to cover up the first lie and then I told the third lie and then a certain point I was like I'm ruining the best part of her brain. The part of her brain. That's going vis doesn't make sense. I feel like I have a grasp on reality in this breaks that reality and I'm now making twenty more lies and what I'm fearful I was training her to do was to ignore the part of your brain. That's bullshit dismissed. I don't WanNa fucking do that and I don't want hurts You have the one and it sounds so insignificant and I get it and if I'm on the outside of these Hollywood Fox. They want their kids believe in Santa Claus. That's not yet I I could see I was I was I was squashing. This really great critical thinking that is actually what I want to support and nurture not not nullify so I just felt terrible. I can't because immediately then if they believe in Santa Claus now there's this thing Elf on the shelf so wait this comes out. And he's gone touching now teaching him so much that goes along with it and I'm like walking do this but I realized that moment. Oh man this thing's genius. This is how they get you to get them to deny their critical thinking so you can launch the big one on them. Which is there. Is this man. Jesus Christ and you should live in fear of disappointing him. And if you do you'll burn in hell for eternity that concepts now much. Easier to swallow if you already believe. There's a fat dude that goes down your chimney and if you've already had the people that only the only people you can trust the only go like tell you don't listen to that voice crazy. Yeah I can't really tell you why you're crazy you just are and and then when an adult molest them three years later and the adult says I'm GonNa kill you and your family if you tell you it feels like the other thing. Well that seems implausible. But I should trust him. And that's probably true and I'm not ever GonNa tell it's just like I just pouring the foundation for is something that could potentially really serious consequences down the road and we and it just starts the like erosion of our connection to our guts. You know by the way they'd like Christmas just as much as all of their friends who who thinks has coming. Guess what the FUN fucking part is getting presence in the morning. It's not actually about the guy who delivered them also. Surreal so hung. There's people that I'm part of the war on Christmas. Oh trust me I I got. Hr violation for that but Nightmare it was on. We'll actually I said. Merry Christmas to an intern on Roseanne. As if I was the biggest problem on that set I said Merry Christmas tune in turn just like in passing like I was just leaving and I just Kinda set it and I got in trouble. 'cause I was I'm Jay. I'm supposed to say Happy Holidays. And it was like this whole nightmare. My hunch is that person didn't like you prior to the damages which was wild because then it came out in the news that happened and then all of a sudden like the alright started to love me. I'm like full the face of Cunanan. Now I was thinking it's not really tell what that those opinions that are public that all of a sudden it's like this whole group of people opens up to me that I thought hated me or probably did hate me. I know I defended teacher vase at the emmys or the Golden Globes or whatever. It was this year when he sort of roasted everybody pretty hard. I started defending on twitter and I was like Ben. Shapiro's retweeting it. I was like oh I guess I'm just Hardcore Fox News though. Doesn't it yeah? I didn't think they'd ever like me. If you just defend comedy you're all right now But no I I. I love that. You're saying that especially when I think about myself as a child and how often I was told to not trust my instincts and not Chestnut God I read this. The Gavin de Becker book the Gift of fear which I recommend to everyone all the time because the first thing he says is every woman who's been attacked or you know assaulted a there's always in the testimonies. I just knew something was off about that Guy I. I can't tell you why he offered to help me with my groceries. He offered like I just felt this weird thing but I had this inner monologue of calm down. You know what you're talking about. You're being dramatic. You're making things up which I think started a very young age. Yeah he he's very very tricky. I think Yeah Gavin. I've heard Sam Harris and at one time I totally agree with him But there seems to be a little lack of acknowledgment that people are. Also they're they're Spidey. Senses are triggered by inherited biases. Right so you get an elevator with a black dude. And if you've never lived around black people those spidey senses are going off and that you need to fight that at that time a lack of connection with other people and so a tricky because are his are so cut and dry. That's such a good yes. It's true that they need to be challenged as well. Yeah like it's not racist. Don't use like there's also people that are racist. The the most woke among us has different comfort levels within group. Outgrew if I get into an elevator with four Vietnamese dudes in another language. I have no experience with that. That is new to me. I I part of my brain. My reptilian center is triggered. Things happen and I have to know that about myself as well and I have to as hard as it is to say. This is an as poorly as I'm sure I'M GONNA articulated. I also can't want so badly to be woke that I ignore a feeling so if I get an elevator with a woman and I have a weird feeling about it's like but I'd be sexist if I were to say. This woman was crazy because Ronald I'd say women are crazy anymore. Even though I'm just scared you know there's also. Oh Yeah that thing that I tried to do. I want so badly to get the woke points that I will put myself in danger. Well that's the that's the the the real only take away of all these people that you'll read that I read that we interview. No one wants to hear it and it's the opposite of why people are attracted to trump. Is nothing definitive is a fucking spectrum? And you'RE GONNA have to make a judgment call all the time in life and it sucks and it's exhausting and it is inconvenient but unfortunately it is the truth left left right. Guess what rights correct. A lot of time is right a lot of time I it. We're we're we're juggling two concepts liberty and equality. Those those don't lay on top of each other perfectly. It'll always be a compromise. It will always be some pendulum where you want it the on that day. 'cause that's a bummer. To me left and right the extremes of both of the problem and those people to me are usually if I'm gonNA just go for it on recovered addicts who are in adrenaline and blame. And and it's just it's you know cowboys versus you know I was trying to. I was GONNA.
"shepard" Discussed on Good For You
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"shepard" Discussed on Good For You
"No Oh yes yes I hesitate even saying his name but he's a very famous jeweler and he announced to like people that he had sold me and engagement ring for Kristen and I was so pissed and I knew it was coming in like two is. Does he have the same? First name as Kristen's there. No I'll stop the game now. I'll tell you off the beaten but anyways I was like well then I have till tomorrow to now proposed basically or whatever four five more days. This happened another time to talk and ordered. Kristen something for Christmas like in this first week of December and it was some female thing. And that's and I stupidly. Use My real name because my credit card or whatever the hell was her. Christmas present was in the news like a week before Christmas. Yes the person who had bought it from called whoever they call. I don't know how it works but it was all over the Internet that I got in Chris. Kristen this specific gift. There's a bunch of things I have to ask you. And if I don't the listeners are GonNa Freak out 'cause I never well. I went out to my lead to ask about your injury. Oh Yeah Yeah I was. I was off roading and I broke my ham. Well I broke the three of the four Carpools across the top of your hands snap and so then I had to get surgery and they put pins in them. Yeah oh I saw pulling them out. That's right yes talk to that. We're down one pin yet. We I think there are six left in there though. A while and is is the off roading. And the is it still contention with your wife or you guys have just. This is something you have to accept about me. Well what's amazing again and it really? It really tells you something we already know. Which is the helmet. Argument wasn't about the helmet. The music argument wasn't about the music. So I think Christmas falling in love with a guy who had gnarly pass. Certainly one that differed from hers and I think she rightly was terrified to link her train car. This train going is this thing. Is HE GONNA relapse he? He was a sex addict. Maybe like all these things understandably it was really fear and then there are all these other things that that symbolized it to her so weirdly. Enough and Kristen would admit this to Christine was pretty jealous. The first couple of years we were together. She didn't love that. I was friends with Max girlfriends in this kind of stuff and from the day. I asked her to marry me. She's the least Jealous Person I've ever met. She doesn't care how dirty my jokes magic trick it is and I was like. Oh my God it was kind of a leap of faith because I was like. I didn't think I would marry someone. That was jealous. It just wasn't my bag in the past but I just loved her so much and then like a light switch it was gone forever and all this other stuff like she I raised. She doesn't care. I ride motorcycles everywhere. She doesn't care I it's it's interesting it is. It is just sort of this like box that gets checked because look I've been with someone I've been engaged to someone. I've never been married to someone but I do know the moment I got engaged. I didn't care who he followed on instagram. I didn't care who he was texting and I do think you know being in public which everyone is figuring with instagram. Frankly so everyone can relate to that. There's something about telling the world's I'm off the market yeah. I didn't realize how much I needed. Or how helpful? That was you know. Because the thing is like Oh. He can hang out with his axis as long as it's been on his instagram that he's engaged like they know what's up and you know it just was like such relief. Yeah so for whatever reason any you know issue. I had in that regard disavow operated. Oh Dax Shepard thank God for shepherd I feel like he has joined the fight to encourage people to get help. Examine yourself edify yourself be better do better. But I'm busy and I don't have time to go to therapist and I have to get in the car and I have to drive and.
"shepard" Discussed on Good For You
"Back up back up here. We are back up to the bet up alone in a house. Still Benton here. Benton were here. He would also do bet that he doesn't quicker. He doesn't more Nashville. I do it very white trash bat bat but it does say white trash is. I can get cancelled. What no one's getting cancelled during the PEN TEMIC K. Got Bigger fish to FRY right now. All of a sudden no one cares about words. We put a pin in giving a fuck about words so this is GonNa be incredible episode. I'm so happy for you guys that you get to listen to the Great Dax Shepard on the. I just thought that I would do a little Little diddy up top and explain a couple of things because it does vary abruptly because this is my first Remote interview for the good for you pod now that we are in the new normal stop saying that. I hate when people say that. I think it's probably because the new normal was a TV show that I mentioned for like a while ago and didn't get. Maybe that's maybe that's my baggage But now which is like. We only like it because it's an alliteration. It's two ends in a row. The new normal it makes us sound like smart like we're such like monkeys. We are so delighted that we made like we made a little rhyme. Rime the new normal anyway. I'm digressing You know that I've been resistant to doing the remote interviews because the sound quality and the video quality can be very sketchy. I feel like when I'm watching these videos on like that were remotely recorded of two people on their zooms like It's so hard to watch. It's like one is has higher resolution than the other one and I'm looking at people's backgrounds and they're not symmetrical and Mike. Why don't you guys looking in the same spot like someone's looking at themselves? Someone's looking in the camera like it's just like it's I have a flare up. Iva Perfectionism flare up when I'm watching these and to me. They're so distracting. But the Great Dax. Shepard knows what he's doing when it comes to all things best buy all the checks technical things. 'cause I've mostly been doing interviews in person under very controlled neurotic circumstances. I mean you guys know I had on Melissa in your and Taylor Tomlinson. Only because I know that they're neurotic and looping up their bodies every day with Cheryl I know their character and they came in and we were six feet from each other. We had like a measuring. Take stick whatever I need I this. I'm recording this very early guys. I'm sorry my brain is not quite firing yet. Very obvious. Words are evading my brain which has atrophied in quarantine My brain is just out of shape but to me. If someone wants to record the podcast in percent the first thing I do is ask for a photo of their hands. Like if your skin doesn't look like it's flaking off. You're not coming to my house like you should be washing your hands so frequently that your fingertips look like rattlesnake tales. Your fingers better looked like curly. Fries at this point gave they. Don't you're not coming over? I want your palms to resemble an Idaho Spud like. I want a little skin tags. I want nasty raw. There should be skinned dangling off your hands. Your hands should look like feet at this point. Sorry Kristalina is texting me. Ruining my podcast. When he ruin your own podcast he sent me a video anyway I wasn't really prepared to record this. I kind of just wanted to give you guys a little like heads up of what to expect and also say look. I'm I'm trying to do as many as I can. But you know I don't want to set about example and I truly do not want to contribute to the spread of this wild thing. We want to be over as soon as possible. So if you're GONNA come over to my house and record the podcast six feet away. I need a Selfie of your face. First to make sure you've been wearing a mask if you don't have a line of acne around your cheeks on your Chin from steaming up your face without mask. Not You're not recording the pod dude. You should have divots in. Your nose lacerations. In the back of your ears from the stretchy thing the little stretchy elastic thing. That goes around your ears. Your face should look like you fell on a subway. Great if it doesn't you're not wearing your mask frequently enough. You should look like you got hit in the face with a grill. And if you haven't done that you're not recording the pod with me lovers K. Only then only when your face looks like it's been hit with offense. Can you come record the pot in person but I also wanted to the remote thing because You know lot of people have kids and I felt very guilty asking anyone to do. The podcast has kids right now. Because they're all Teachers now all my friends that have kids have been like furiously trying to relearn all the shit that they forgot from grade school like all. My friends are texting me. They're like Columbus Day still or is it called Indigenous Peoples Day. I don't even know they're like what Stawicki arbitrary. I don't fuck it now ask. Jeeves has the Internet but so I posted on instagram. Something I think you guys all voted on it where I said like. Do you guys like watching video. Podcast you like watching zoom podcasts. Like remote podcast. I even bother with them. I hate these index like God damn white night he just reach out to me was like dude. I'll do it. Let's do it. Let's make this happen and he is why I wanted to do sort of the first remote podcast and He was kind thing to do. I don't know just kind like you know we're in a business where everyone's got egos and people can be nasty and people can be competitive and people can have like he. It was just so cool. I don't know it was just a really cool thing to do. Because it kind of ended up dissolving my fear and resentment I was being such a baby about it I was like. I don't want to do an ugly podcast. And what if it has bad audio and I know for me to say that is wild because I have started eating almonds at the end of every podcast so for me to all of a sudden care about audio quality. I realize is definitely hypocritical. Cool too because I loved accident I just. I just hadn't asked him because I know how busy he is. And he has his own like blockbuster. Podcast is that even a thing juggernaut. He's a jogger dot and I guess I just codependency like didn't want to you. Know he could always say no but he was busy as kids. Here's a wife But I was reluctant to ask any parents during the quarantine because I know how busy they are so for him to reach out. Wishes was so cool. And I think you guys are going to enjoy this when it comes to self-awareness psychology rigorous honesty like taxes. Just a black belt and I think you guys all know that listeners podcast but it was just such a breath of fresh air to talk to him to talk to someone during this time. Who wasn't making this pandemic about them. Who was complaining about how hard it is for them. You know I know you guys probably have seen a lot of celebrities who are like acting like this is their being oppressed by this in their mansions and he's just like so. He says he says salt of the Earth. That's what it is and such a freaking human being. It's been really hard to watch celebrities. That aren't DAX like I'm seeing a lot of celebrities like posting on their social media. They're like okay guys. Here's some things to do with your kids to keep busy And they have like a blistering color with them. Play hide and seek and we're like bitch. Most people know what to do with their kids. Most people have to spend time with their kids all the time most people don't have nannies. Most people aren't spending this quarantine trying to figure out how to hang out with their kids. That's something we already like. It's so funny to watch celebrities. Make try to tell non-celebrities like how they're passing the time and all they do is reveal how much help they normally have when not in quarantine people like okay guys. I just figured out a recipe for peanut butter and Jelly. So you put numbers like we baked that every day. What are you talking about? We got it? This is our this is. We always have to make our own food. We always have to babysit her own. Kids Oh God. Celebrities are just. It's too much for me. They really just can't figure it out. Everyone's like yeah. No we're waiting on our stimulus. Check Bitch we got it. Okay God celebrities ad that are like okay. Here's a way to work out in your house so I figured out a way to work out of my house. We work on our house. We already did that. We weren't going to spin class. We weren't paying sixty dollars to ride a bike. We we always worked out inside. They're like okay. So here's a way to stay in shape. Just run around your neighborhood irons. That's what we already did. Sorry I'm digressing I just. I'm really sort of entertained by how ridiculous celebrities vape not tax not tax. So I can't wait to share this with you. I think you guys are just going to enjoy how much of a breath of fresh air He is how down to Earth is social. Just so smart. I mean he just blows my mind like you know. I got to do his podcast and he would. Just it's like church talking to DAX like it's just the best when you're talking to someone who is committed to improving themselves committed to Digging into the deep cobwebs and nooks and crannies of their childhood. Like it's just. It's really cool to talk to somebody who has just committed to edification and has done the work. That's what it is done. The work Couple UPDATES before we get to DAX which again that's GonNa Start. Very abruptly The interview 'cause we started kind of talking and then the audio weird and we had to restart talking so sorry if it's a little discombobulated Okay that's enough for my apology festival. I WANNA give you guys a couple of updates. You guys are asking. I hate it when people do that. I know you guys have been Alana. People have been asking everyone's been asking like I'm sure it's not all of you. I know I hate that. Influence for Shit rescheduled. Dates are coming soon. Check my website. They're getting updated constantly. I don't WanNa be that obnoxious person. Who's just constantly like rescheduled post on my main feed all of my logistical dates. Because most of you don't live in Orlando most of you. Don't live in Pensacola. Most of you don't live in Sacramento. So I'm just.
Persecution of China's Uighur Muslims exposed
"Today we're looking at recent revelations about the plight of Chinese weaker. Muslims growing beards praying in public and calling someone overseas. These are some of the offenses for which we have been interned. In camps in the Xinjiang region of China these revelations appeared in a document leaked out of China known as the character list the F. T. Reporters working on the story are here to tell me about how they discovered the document and who they spoke to. Kristin Shepard is on the line from Beijing and Lord Patel is an Ankara so Christian. Let's start with you. There have been several different document dumps and leaks about China's programs in Xinjiang and various ways. In which the weaker minorities and other minorities are treated in this part of the country. What do these leaks? Tell us. That's new the previous documents that came out of Times and International Consortium for journalists. They were really the high levels plans from the top. Xinjiang and other Chinese government officials including president season paying and they lay out the overview of what wanted to happen than what this set of documents tells us is really the grounds. I view of what was happening dates day. How these decisions made who was making them. An why was so many by most estimates. It's over million Weigo's and other minorities in the region. Why exactly why they sent to camps and things that it reveals is the the reasonings were often for very minor offenses things that have spaw. The Chinese state could be worked up into things that would be seen as signs of extremism but in any other sides he will be very hard to consider as anything that would warrant a year. Ill more attention talk to us a little bit about how you got a hold of the documents. And what was in them? Documents were possibly by a Wego activist. I've developed a UP He's a linguist who is living in Europe in exile in recent years and he was posses documents from contacting seen John on what they is a very long spreadsheet a hundred thirty seven pages which full of personal information names dates of birth and importantly judgments about who is to be sent to reeducation camps in this county of Xinjiang are cash. And then how can you be sure that they're real? What steps did you take to verify them? There a number of different ways. You can go about trying to verify things. One thing that we did was go and look at other government documents to check the dates and the language used see if those matched they also because they contain a lot of personal information addresses. Id numbers relationships between individuals. Those are all things that you can look up on various dates bases so we checked for example the ID numbers of the people mentioned in the documents against their addresses if they came up with the same addresses as those online than that would suggest that the documents north and take on the old cases. We tried that the case we also got experts to vet them experts in China Studies. And then finally we're able to track down. Some of the family members of individuals mentioned on the list. Now Laura from your end you went to speak to people who are living abroad in Turkey. Who had family members documented in the car cash list? Can you tell us a bit more about the people that you spoke to? Who were they? Yes at the start of genre. I went to go and see a couple cooled often pods and risen saw and they're originally from Kara cash province. They now live in Istanbul with three children so both of them had relatives. Who are missing. They're both missing. Both sets of parents older siblings. They haven't spoken to them for years. And then you about the car crash list documents but when I first went to sea than they haven't yet found any on it so I asked them to give me a list of names of missing family members. The ages that children and that's what they did a few weeks later. We had the woman risen. Saw had found to have sisters that coupon She found the names on the list and she gave us the entry numbers on Christian checks the Chinese records the details of Sheikh giving us and they match frankly a real difference was at the age of the people were slightly out because the list dates back to two thousand eighteen that must have been quite an emotional revelation for her. What did she say about her sister's yes. She told me about his sister's past About her relationships with them it was very Saad. I think it was mixed feelings visa. One of his sisters who she knew had been detained for quite a long time. She actually said that she might be dead. So in some ways you know there was some sense of relief landing. The her oldest sister Rozelle's was probably still alive but at the same time. She had no idea that her younger sister pottum him would even be considered the detention. She said that she was kept us out of trouble. She described Howard's of shops young women. You know they used to fight sometimes to become when they were talking about close. It was very active picture that she painted the House to round little bakery together and she was just completely shocked. Find her on the list tonight. She'd been in detention and that was very upsetting. When was the last time that you've spoken with Pottum? In particular. She Law Specht pod to him at the same time she spoke to have parents which was back in June twenty. Sixteen things have been getting more difficult to have found the relatives back home. And the compensation that they had will often quite mundane because it was upset me out of the question they could speak about politics even talk about the situation in. Kashan what it was like for the family so she told me that she chatted with pods him about their relatives about positive. Clothes THAT IS INSIDE SENT. Ofa have family members when somebody was visiting and has sister was talking about which should keep the hassle which give other relatives. It was a kind of normal by Monday conversation. She had no idea it'd be the last one that they would ever have. And did she keep trying to reach her after that yes. She tried several times after that to cool and she got no answer she said. Said every time Iran butts the mandarin Chinese cannot be connected. Eventually result still trying. She didn't WanNA put her family members in danger and she hasn't spoken to them since summer of Twenty Sixty Christians were other people's stories similar to resume says in her family's Yes. There were a number of cases that were very similar in the lists attempts case was entered as number three hundred fifty eight and Offenses were down as having one more child than allowed by the family planning policy. That was actually the most common offense and reason given for people being sent to reeducation camps for many is decades. China has had very strict curbs on the number of children that families are allowed to have and traditionally weaker families would be allowed to have more children but recently there have been more restrictions on the number of children that we are allowed to have as part of the security campaign and it seems that a large number of people on the lists were targeted for reeducation because of this tendency to have more than the state thought was the appropriate number of children other offenses included. Things like connecting to people overseas any effect. In this case it was noted as appoints positive for a later release that she hadn't tried to contact her sister other things included travel growing bid. Praying home things that would be considered a just a normal part of everyday life or religious practices. And do we have a sense of why China has targeted these minorities in this particular way? What do we already know about how they're treated and how they're perceived by the state? Will this crackdown really began around? Two thousand fourteen an around that time there were a series of violent incidents both in Xinjiang also across China which the state says were traded by often we goods or other minorities and the response to that. Was this blanket security campaign in Sin John Mass police rallies a huge bulking up the surveillance apparatus bringing some high technology like facial recognition cameras but the cornerstone of this whole campaign was a system of camps known as reeducation camps. We don't know the exact number because China keeps the details of this system fairly secretive but their thoughts. Be Over. A hundred and these Often huge complexes that sprung up in recent years where anyone who was thought to be a potential extremists could be sent for reeducation in order to try and avoid that the coming of risk to the state but we now know who these documents at that the definitions that we use to determine who tension the extremists were things as mentioned before that are often very Monday just everyday practices of we use so Christian. You also went to carry cash to see what was going on. I think you've visited at least once probably more than once. What was it like and did you manage to speak to any people while you were there? It's extremely difficult to speak to anyone because the surveillance apparatus is so sophisticated that whenever a foreign journalist arrives in the region they will be immediately followed by state security agents. So although I was able to go there and move around with some freedom. It's extremely difficult to talk to individuals because any conversations with them could potentially put them at risk I was able to see was that they had been huge changes to society. I mean this is a region which is about ninety percent or more week. There were very few working age men on the streets. The neighborhood wearing a lot of people mentioned in the lists were living a lot ebben. Demolished parts of it were locked off and seemed to have large security gates. Meaning that anyone who wanted to come in and out would have to go through numerous checks. I only saw some elderly or young people in the streets alleys also able to get close to a number of the reeducation camps but not in most cases close enough to actually see the camps because police would set up roadblocks to prevent me from getting any nearer. But you could still see a lot of changes that happened to society in car cash. For example. The second largest mosque in the town have been demolished. That was just an antiquated rebel. That you could see the there were large textile mills. Knit one of the camp locations where we were bust. Apparently from the counts to a juice textiles which then likely be sold across China and potentially across the world so this system is really remolded the society in Calcutta which is the coins of it. The clues in the name. The full Chinese name is transformation through education camps. And that's what the Beijing government is hoping to achieve. Its to transform large parts of weak as society to make it more compliance in line with how Beijing the society to be in addition to reporting on the ground. Were there other mediums that you used to document or to observe HOW SOCIETY INCH? Jiang had been remolded. Yes we also able to find satellite imagery that can thumbs a lot of the changes that have been taking place. So if you look back to the very start of the campaign. A lot of these complexes that are identified in the lists as being reeducation camps just didn't exist and there's been a massive amounts of building huge spooling complexes often it's a campaigner detention center and factory will in one area alternate industrial pogs outside of the town which are the same areas. Wed Police were locking my entry. So that also provides a kroger writing evidence of the location and the scale of the camps. What do we know about the training? People receive once they're in the camps and also how they move through the camp system and then eventually back out into society. A lot of the training is around Mandarin Chinese around Chinese law around Chinese politics but it's essentially ideological and it's forcing people to do things like singing songs. That praise the Communist Party to learn for example that they are not allowed to hold religious ceremonies outside of those sanction directly by the state. So it's forcing views of the states into the minds of people go to the camps the amount of time that they spend that it's meant to be a minimum of a year and can be much longer normally what we can know from the list and from other government documents is that they would spend a year doing reeducation than they were spend a period to a vocational training which would be to learn for example how to operates machinery so they could be moved onto a tree job which is essentially involvement treaty. Labor. The other option in some cases full people who released but still kept on the surveillance is that they might be allowed to return to their own weather placed under what is known as monitoring and control and that's essentially a probation period. Where minimum of a year? They will constantly be checked by security forces and if they were to do anything which be considered another sign of extremism they might return to the camps have these camps in this camp system. Been publicly acknowledged by President Xi Jinping or the Chinese government presidency has never acknowledged spoken directly about the CAM system at toll but the government and the authorities in Xinjiang have acknowledged the existence of the system. What they deny is that there is any form of abuse happening here instead. They say that this is a fairly humane way of tackling extremism unday would call the camps vocational education training centers. In fact just recently. They have said that the camps although they remain the no longer being used for any kind of anti extremism training programs they announced pill use vocational training. Although this is something that we are exiles and rights groups lead is unlikely to be true. Thanks Laura and
"shepard" Discussed on Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
"Just go no problem dude. That's great no-one can fake that that well. I think that's the true. Yeah it's it's the culture that's been set up. You guys both know what you're entering. You both know that there's a chance at this isn't GonNa Continue. Pass the Water. You know but no girl is ever entering a scenario where they think that might happen. And so then. That's horrible to do to somebody if they don't know what they're getting themselves into but I do know that tender for women has been used as more of a sex site for straight guys and that girls are doing these hookups. Granted they might WANNA cocktail before but they are. They know what they're in for. They're not expecting to get rejected race on their body parts. Regardless of what was out we do agree. Male and females are way more similar than different in. That's been exaggerate. How different they are. I think also this is whether that's societal. And how we raise boys. That's a male female difference. I don't think Lesbians Gay thing. It's not like if lesbians meeting the Foyer and one of them at each other's Vaginas says we're not a match. I think that's still going to be a big issue. Yes pretty heartbreaking issue. I had a guy like Kaiser. Sosie six cents. I saw that all his pictures. All his pictures had sunglasses on and he got to my house at night with sunglasses on and then he went up to my room in the sunglasses. Ron and I'm like oh no glass I it was blind. No he would add. Stick it was you can't I can't I mean it's horrible but yeah like a disfigured oak and asymmetrical okay now. How did the glasses come off? I asked him you ask any slow to any showed you and then say cool. Put them to put a condom on. I got further and then I couldn't and I've I've I've gotten pretty far in stopped. You have stopped when I stopped. Sometimes I go way to further than I ever should have when I knew it was no. Yeah maybe my instincts'll kick in your training your training takeover. I feel bad because I'm like jazz. You should have just done it but I never say that to a straight girl all my God. It'd be like if you didn't want to or even a guy probably. I'd be like don't do that that. You've never said you're better than that. Just want to dome. I did it I did it. I like had this correspondence with Gail over the Internet. And she had sent me a Lotta pitchers in she. I was attracted to what I saw and then she came over to a hotel room I was at and I opened the door and I was like okay. Oh boy for rea- The pictures are at least fifteen years old. But then still her. It was her out of catfish but it. Fuck man you know may be I didn't even really consider that. Those weren't even her at all effort right but it was much much different upon arrival than it looked in the catalog and I was like tough. Shit Buddy. You got yourself into this position in. You're going to have sex with this woman because that's what you've promised her and I did it and I was like God. This is what a lot of women feel like. Sometimes like I'm just going through this and I faked like came and then that was that it was dark. You want to talk about a hangover. I was like this is dark. What are you thinking about that story? I think I for some reason. I'm sorry. I have no sympathy freeze and I do have sympathy for Jess in these situations and I think the differences. I think there's this idea. And maybe it's not true. It's probably not true but there's this idea that like this is the only way gay guys can like meet. Each other is through this so it feels like well. I guess he has to do that. Where I don't feel like that with you. I feel horny and you want to have sex and you got to so good for you. Look she didn't look like she presented herself but pretended to Overton. I you know like for some reason court. I don't think I don't think at any point. Do I think I deserve sympathy over that whole thing. I'm just saying I found myself in a position. I think people find themselves in and I. It wasn't within me to go. Oh I don't think I'd like to anymore right right right. I'd rather do this thing. I did not want to do. That is all so interesting because like I would call that traumatic for a girl absolutely and I don't think it's traumatic for you and I don't traumatic for you. It was dramatic enough for me that I was the next day like you know. Of course you got in that situation. That's the wreckage of your behavior. Like this is how I know. The behavior is questionable because I have wreckage like I got myself in a situation that you know wouldn't have otherwise happened if I wasn't acting kind of adequacy right is only going back to my hotel people. I've had a three hour conversation with at a bar. I'm not shocked when we get into the room. All of a sudden right Okay so our challenge is for one week. That is a lie reason. I felt safe sane to is. I feel like I've already fielded like five people who are trying to set you up with certain people like there's kind of a stable of people that people are trying to set you up with. Isn't there now. Will you win on one date on a secondary that have to be? You could go on a second can initiate this. Because it's she has a week that'd be that'd be really interesting. If you set the date up I'll have to set the date up. I have no choice. Yeah leading as exciting laughing. I wonder what about so many topics on the table. He laughed about all right. Okay so you have to go on to dates in seventy seems on how many in your whole life maybe to. How many days have you been on your whole life? Like five. Probably thought five so few. It's amazing obsessed. I love it so wait so justice can only one that is he still allowed to talk to other all these other people. No I think he should take a week off and I think in days leading up to this day. You should make a list of what you want in. Somebody can't have anything physical. So you gotTa tell all these people you have in rotation eighties taking pills for seven days. Cool cool cool. I'll just be like I get it straight in their in there also there. I'm doing a job fuck it. Let's do it I got it from you. Yeah you can just kick it down the road you can go like. Oh I got fucked you a sick father you could just say I gotta go spend time with my dad and you could kick it all down the road just one week. That's all go. Hey we're supposed to go. Can we get together next? Tuesday I don't know who's harder because yours. I'm petrified of yours in your narrative and your Lens I'm I think mine might be impossible. I forget about mine. I know it's really. It's nothing physical so your list is going to be because I do. Someone are productive. Oh my God whatever your list is. I don't know what your list mine is. Funny Number One or smart funny smart silly shirts. Silly could be one. Do you want to tell the time that we made out or did you tell that already? I think I've said it on here. Sure but yeah I mean in a nutshell In just our first meeting at the groundlings he was saying what a good basketball player he was. And I said why. I'm definitely a better one on one basketball player than you and you go. There's not a chance I would destroy you and I'm like I would definitely be you at one on one and you said all right. Well let's make a wager will play one on one to eleven and if you win I'll give you one hundred dollars and broke. Yeah you were very broken. And if rain on a poor or girl a knew exactly where to zero and then. I win You have to make out with ME WITH TONGUE. Time period like a minute or two minute was nine seconds ten seconds. There's a long time okay. And we were in backstage at the groundlings. So there's plenty of people that's a lot of witnesses and you said. Fuck Ya and you shook my hand and almost heard it okay. As I walked away it was reveal smile. Like the joker like he doesn't even know what he's in for and I did it so we get to the outdoor court. You destroyed me. I WanNa say it was like eleven to two. Then you said you got mad okay. Three three so we play the second game. Eleven to five and then I don't even think it was that high but then another eleven to two so three games to eleven cry. We made out. Yeah there was someone else there. Caitlin was there. Yeah Caitlyn's there was safe for him right beach. Yup It would have felt different for me. I think if it was in your bedroom together I would like to my reason why you want to tell people about when we basically made out when you swallowed my Lubi. Oh Yeah Yeah. I think we talked about on the other show but yes we were driving to the podcast and it was in the morning and I needed a sip of something I saw. You had a Perry in your cup-holder so I went and I just started chugging in you panicked. Don't drink that in. My first thought was others alcohol in it. She's protecting me from relapsing. Allow Monica Drinks. You know in the in the morning and you morning In Perry we argued about this this weekend for quite a while acid. I had zero judgment of that. I was like okay. I mean she's on time every day she's sharp as hell. There's no wreckage or fucking on manageability about this. We were arguing. Because he said I'd be like okay. That's okay she clearly as our shit together and I was like no if you taste alcohol. I've poured into a small tiny perrier that I'm drinking in the morning in secret. I want you to be concerned about that. Well Look I think ninety nine times out of one hundred that is definitely a red flag that the person has a big problem. Yeah now I have spent nearly every day with you over the last six years and I can see. You don't have any wreckage or unmanaged ability in your life so I would have to say this is interesting. This is like Seth Rogan who smokes weed all day but as productive and a great husband. Who Am I to say that that is inherently wrong if there are down stream problems as a result of your your area with vodka? And then I'm going to be very concerned about. You WanNa talk to you about anyways. Is You know just because she had lougee Harry several times and I just drank her her spit in. That's why she panicked and also it goes to say what I guess my fantasy of you is is because you lou gain in that can the way I do like fucking hillbilly was completely off the table. Drinking was far more on the table. You driving around like I was back. That was that was outside of the realm of possibility. Words makes me like you more because I wish you cleared your throat like an ox like I do all the time and had Flemish us. In the morning I'd like to hear you clear out that carbon sometimes we love gross things as loved my Doodad. Oh we're going to talk about your Doodad on here. That's a cliffhanger for the restaurant agree that deserves a three episode arc because it was a three month long dom you guys say so many nice things about all of your friends and from one of the outsiders that listened to all the time all of us friends want to say how much we love you and that we we think the same things about you and we love smiling and hearing you guys talk about all of this because we feel like we're in the living room and I love us and just wanted to say that to me to Monica. Loves boys just loves boys and I love both of them so stay tuned for the exciting results of this challenge. It's so funny because I think for most people listening. It's preposterous that either. San's Howard Amelie's for man. It's like yeah you're going on Tuesday and then Saturday big deal and you really just one day. Two Week jail honestly. I would have to cancel tonight. Happy Hour I was having a guy. I can't have sex. No get it. You should take the time you were going to be fogging to make your list of things of what you WanNa partner got it all right. I Love Guy..
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"It's maddening to me. It breaks my heart. I could start crying that neither of you understand how attractive you are in the deepest deepest deepest way and in different ways. But it's the same. And it's heartbreaking. See that about jazz. I see that about Monica intense. You're right it's intense and it almost makes me angry. It's all the narrative. I didn't start dating until this guy's in the Geico this way Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah. People don't like to its doors as I set my thing so high. I'M GONNA self fulfilling prophecy. I'm this guy's never going to like me. It is maddening. It is interesting that this is happening. Because I've seen that a million times when we're talking I just WanNa Kinda shake you hurt you. Two hundred thirty s digest is the tall front wheel. Referendum six five to qualify. As a freak I think scientific term is a freak. You're the barometer of all things tall in our life like if we see a giraffe they go. I think that's too Jessica Yu your synonymous with tall. I will say one thing though. I think we are insecure in conceded. Bodies there's a part of us. That are very confident. And there's a juxtaposition that is interesting because we don't well. There's a difference between confidence and self esteem. Yes you guys are both confident. You're both smart enough to know that you can't pursue comedy and be insecure on stage. It will not work. You're both smart enough to have recognized that you're Monica. Are Smart enough to know that you have to walk into a audition exude confidence and shake the person's hand and look in their eyes and be self assured but that doesn't mean that you go home and look in the mirror and go of course that Guy. I like would like me back to completely different things. Yes and then my complain about you which we this is where it always gets heated between you and I is urine absolute Unicorn and then you're trying to play a game that is just pedestrian for everyone. And it's so frustrating to me and you'll say in the gay community people are more aesthetic Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah. I know all the reasons but in my mind you just said it. You don't fuck when you're not in the shape you want to be in and you fuck a lot when you're in shape and the least the least it's a hundred on the list of I was listening things about Jesse even when you're at your peak. Physical fitness knows telling a friend of mine about jess or on this podcast. I've talked about you. Eleven hundred times never once have I mentioned. You're in good shape. I don't give a flying fuck. It is the least interesting thing about you. It's magical thing about you know one that knows you loves. You would even list how you physically look in a list. It's like me thinking people like me because I'm a good driver right but someone that has been known as the Funny Guy and that is fun around parties or make us laugh. Do this joke chess or be this thing you want so you don't have to be hot. I want to feel like me to offer exactly. I have always since I was young. His been about sing that song. Be The gesture and I'm not poor me. I love that part of the two but I want to be touched. I WANNA be like dude. That guy's lips are amazing. That guy's hair. I WANNA run my hands through his hair. I WanNa grab his hand and like everything. I want is physical. Yes I have the exact same thing. We've talked many times on here at the. I would want for someone to say after they met me in order. He's hot but it's maddening when you say it. I'm so sorry I love you so much but when I first met you that is all I thought you wanted this tight wife beater with your tax refund and you were just like we walked out and saw was Hannah's fuck. We walked down. He got on your motorcycle teacher and she was head over heels. And I'm like sicome I love him. Can I can use them and she was going for you hard. I'll never forget it. The difference is I believe in your insecurity because I know you well but your insecurity in that way has not stopped. I was about to go down that path. Which is now. Here's where I'll grant both of you. There's a difference here you weren't being you in high school so you weren't having the experimental phases. I was where I was very insecure ninth and tenth grade. I think I look like a monster and it was too skinny and I fucking acnes. It's round my mouth. I had braces. Okay and then I had a perm on top and then long straight hair and back. And I didn't have the fucking Jordan's and all the Zeke averages everyone had all listlessly but I was able to experiment and just try saying hi to a girl and being very confident and trying to not even though he didn't believe it in the moment trying on a character where I was confident in a grant. You didn't have that. I can't expect you do have done what I did. Which was okay. I'm not betting on my looks. That's off the table. I don't feel good about my looks. I have but I can make people love me with my personality and I got to experiment with that and it worked and then I'll also say to you. It's not it's not the same for you either. It's not fair to you Monica. Because in general guys aren't going to date a girl based on her personality. I so even in the depths of your insecurity I agree that it's more challenging for you to go but I'm just going to be the smartest best funniest girl in the world in the Jackson. Don't WanNa date me anyways so I recognize that both dynamics are different. I was able to find a confidence based on my personality. Where I believe I could land any girl. I was lucky enough to be straight white male in High School where I could experiment that you really couldn't you really Kinda so those? Are The handicaps true? I don't know if she doesn't think she's hot. I think she i. I'm just saying I if I can be a little bit honest. I think you think you're a little better than everyone in. Oh okay I I'm I'm just saying maybe it came up with royal but I think it's more specifically you think I want the best one and the best ones aren't going to like me. Yeah that's what I mean and a nutshell. Yeah definitely don't think you're better than people in life. That's not what I meant. I think I know what you mean in that. I do think there are a lot of people that I'm not attracted to this and that's not even I think I know that from life and experience. Maybe this has been another learned pattern of like. I'm just GONNA turn that par off you know. I used to as every girl did and we went into like a party. Like you're picking like who's the one I'm GonNa like it. This party did so many times. And then you know that. Get so exhausting. When nothing comes to fruition and things are coming for for everyone else that you turned things off but again you were. You were at one point. You admit picking guys strategically out of your league. So there'd be no expectations. Yes yes I saw that conclusion. Yeah and so I think when you do that you do shut off your radar for the guys that would like you and you know they don't try to find your way in. This is where this is where just is right. I do feel like you deserve the best I do. I think that's a great thing. I thought there shouldn't be an out of my league. Do then feel like there is. We.
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"It's also relevant to say that you guys Youtube Jessen. Monica live a block from each other. Which is fun and you guys often a couple of nights a week. Go to happy hour gone tonight right after this. Yeah so you two are like girlfriends you guys go out to happy hour and you talk about guys and relationships and all this kind of stuff in life share back but I'm GONNA have to be pc here and say it doesn't have to be girlfriends guy and a girl can talk about these types of things. Oh yeah but I would describe. Penon is girlfriends again. That's that's a stereotype of the way. Go the reality. Even them both. Dr Wendy Mogul and Dr. Alex will say guys. Don't look to look at each other in the eyes. Talk like if you have a son used to take him on a walk or play basketball. Have been trained. Yes so that's just the reality of the world. We live in hopefully will train boys differently but currently it's rare for two guys to go out and look at each other across the table. I like to do that. Yeah I like that. Yeah but I was also raised by a woman and I you know whatever I don't I know that what I'm doing is in the most common thing share. But I'd like to make way more common and I think labeling it as girlfriend talk is getting closer to that but understand okay because you don't want to be girls another thing that why do they always you guys go to happy hour all the time and you really have fun and you can have like. Would you have wine sometimes? Sometimes roll the dice roll. I'll tell you about roller dies. Basically it's picture on Spirit. You pick your own spirit and they can choose your own adventure so you could get something in a goblet. That's creamy you can get something on the rocks. More of like an old fashioned. You can get a mule that's gonNA come with like ginger and they walk to you. And then they describe it this penicillin. It has honey bourbon and then they they build it for you but every single roll the dice. They have to walk over and describe it. As you're GONNA WANNA facetime surprise surprise going so long goblet red velvet the name. We'll know what's in it. We know all the servers. I actually bring a lot of dates there too. So now they're like thumbs up thumbs down. Like a Lotta I. Eight are there because a block away from my bed. Yes I guess. Going back to the girlfriends. Yeah I think the reason to. I went there as it for me. Who's jealous of you guys being single and getting to go out at night for happy hour and being Jealous that you guys can drink and I lost that right to me. It sounds like sex in the city. Like you guys meeting up for COSMOPOLITANS and talking. That's I think where I get jealous. Okay now Monica you For the people who've heard it the Denver live show. We kinda got into your history with boys touch. Well we know there was the junior high that you liked and at the swimming pool. He said he liked. He can't be with you because your parents worked at dairy queen. Yes that was a big bad moment and I would argue a pivotal moment for you. Oh it was a watershed moment for sure. It was it was. It just confirmed all the things. I was afraid we're true but was hoping that it wasn't true you're like I'm blending in this is working. They're not aware of the fact that exactly. And then he just fucking crushed all those slam dunk. T- did very upset about that story. But you know what? If it wasn't that story it would have been another story. It would have been something else to confirm. The thing I was afraid was true because it was true but my long day it was true. My parents do not work dairy queen. No they don't do but and I'm sure it would be hard for you to have any empathy for him but I also imagine he liked you and he starts thinking wolf. I'm with her then. I'm going to be like people are going to say. Only her parents worked at dairy queen. So he too is operating now this fear he got caught in that freer right. He obviously was afraid but that of course I can be empathetic to a point. I mean sympathetic to a point robbery of that. Like let me ask you because you were already nervous about being other. Yeah if you had taken a liking to the one Vietnamese guy in your school. Do you think you would have gone fucked? I like him but I don't need another thing. I don't need to be the Indian girl dating the one Vietnamese Guy. Of course anything that might have happened to you. I guess that's what I mean about didn't happen because my self loathing was so strong. I'm prefacing this is a horrible horrible thing. That's true but I would never have been attracted to someone who wasn't what ideas higher status than me. The group you wanted to be in. Yeah so I would never fallen in love with the Vietnamese guy at that age. You don't think what if you were seated next Vietnamese guy and he started telling you about how much he loved goodwill hunting and then he watches the movie on his eyelids. Like you would have been like. Oh my God now perfect but there's no way I would honestly I would have thought Ono. This must be something that others do. Jesus and now I got pick a new movie and it's it can't be that and I can't tell anyone that I liked that movie right so but it's horrible. It's horrible but it's long been my theory and I've said it to you many times and set it on here many times and witnessed it in real life. I think post the Swim Party. You Miss when people are hot for you like really goes over your head. I've observed it you shaking your head. No I have observed. I was vindicated improving. Right one time yes. I don't know how on earth you could still pretend that he wasn't attracted to you when you guys went on dates and made out and I don't think he was attracted to me like the party's was. I don't think people go on dates with people. They weren't attracted to the party is a lot of options. He has all the options. Also when you go to a party I'm scanning eighteen people are attracted to and then I go on with the party like you know what I'm saying. I already know that people I would have sex with but I will not. You could have been scanned without you knowing that you're hot and the Nice Bubis and beautiful face and then move on and maybe just because it wasn't showing a lot of attention to me it's already clocked and also say she has terrible muscle memory of basically the last time. She acknowledged. Someone had those feelings. Because you did know that boy liked you. Which is why you said your friend. Yeah we were flirting. We liked each other. Yes well that's why it was so painful is it felt like Oh. I'm never going to be able to have the thing. I want this thing. I can't control I- delinked that to the rest of my life. I for my own clarification when that happened. Did you think to yourself? Oh he didn't really like me at all or did you think Oh. He likes me but he can't be with me because I'm other okay. So you did accept that he liked. You did okay good. But here's the thing you're out-voted your hot. Yeah you've a fucking rocking but dudes get Boehner's looking at you. That is a fact. That's just a fact gases thinking well he's trying to move and getting a boner look. I think they think but I don't think in this day and age now. People are heavily flirting coming up like it is so much more nuance now like in the eighties. Guys would be groping at the grocery store and warrant was were. You just went on a date. I mean talk about that but you was three hours and it was nice and I go. Did he flirt with you? And you're like I don't know but they're wise. It's just this more hipster nine hundred to two thousand nineteen nine thousand nine hundred. I'm not a little bit taking a step back and it's not going to be like Nice tits like you're saying like when bringing I came out of the river there in Austin. The Guy said you got all the right shit. No one's really. I don't know that many people are saying that anymore after the dairy queen. How long did you shut down to? Did you know you shut down? Okay so yes. That's a great question by all mine. A no no. Have you ever been jealous of our friendship? No really happy for your friendship. Okay because I I really thought both of you need each other a lot. Because she is the ultimate rule follower. You're the ultimate rule breaker He knows how to have fun. He knows how to be carefree and not over think stuff like ICS guys is being very beneficial for each other. I've always thought I was so grateful when you guys met that you hit it off really quick and I was like. This is exactly each other needs nice. What at the end of this podcast guys fucking on the towel sometimes are Monica laughs. At my jokes I secretly hope that you think I shouldn't laugh at mind like that. We'll all well we know we've had that she can watch you. Go fudgy space in the world and lab and say just do it again and if I go like four cool she's already throwing you know and I'm so jealous here at her brother. That's still not her brother yet. I'm her little brother okay. Sorry shutdown yes so I kind of shut down but I don't think I knew I shut down and really what happened is I thought that I was just picking people I liked and I couldn't have them like I would pick Richard Cardi. He was a senior. Who was he a junior? Whatever he was he was older than me. But how many grades? I think to okay acceptable. He was on the football team and he was so cute. And I would like draw pitchers about Richard Accardi in Monaco. Cardi and Mrs Accardi like I would do all of that. My friends and I would like make each other pitchers and then trade them in the hallway about the people we liked and stuff. The thing is like we would do that but my person was always fantasy. I was Never GonNa be with Richard Cardi. He didn't know me I was a stranger to him. And my other friends would pick people who they would fantasize about. And they would write Mrs Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah. But they would date those people. Okay but really quick. Is it possible? They were setting more realistic expectations. And you're yes. I think that's what was happening. Is I was picking people subconsciously. That was going to confirm this again idea. I had like Monty with you. Yeah Yeah I think so too and I do the same thing with these guys at the gym or these straight people or yeah yeah. It's a very years well. And here's the part where all just jumped towards the end which.
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"I want them to be able to hold their own at a White House and a bath house like I want them to be able to be cool in public that I can meet my friends and also be a beast in bed through really having. You're having a lot of sex. Yes not as much as I used to. I mean there was a time where I came out of thirty. I was twenty eight guys a week on. Let's just do the math on that twenty guy? Yeah so seven times three would be twenty one times four would be twenty eight thousand four. Sometimes for seven in one day was my all okay race along time ago folks through phases of this. It'll never go away. It's streaky. There was a there was a period where you didn't talk for almost a year right or all these. I was fat. There you go. Yeah but it is streaky. It's like there's a lot and then there's none and then there's a lot and there's not unlike look I'll say it just. Has this incredible relationship with drugs and alcohol which. I couldn't maintain that you can party really hard. But you don't have the frequency right but you can go hard. I think heart is what you did. I've seen hard in some people's world and Monica's world. I can go hard right. Yes but not in a hard that I've seen in this community slash hard for me is going three days. Yeah but I can go three or four days a week a lot right right. I think what you're actually doing your be protective of the conclusion maybe a little bit disc- explain like there's this fax like you're you're streaky. Okay because sometimes you don't fuck a lot. Sometimes you forget right. That's just a fact. Yeah Yeah Yeah but you're nervous. You're trying to protect whether the conclusion of that is your attic or not inadequate. Maybe I shouldn't even say the word act. No it's just like the facts are I've known you for nineteen years sometimes ton. Yeah and then. Sometimes you're not fucking for what feels to me like a year right. Yeah you got to kind of take in those things and not try to adjust what it means. Maybe I've never been single for this long. So they're starting. So the last one was greg and that ended for years ago and the boyfriends are for that everyone just landed in my lap and I thought this was easy so for the last four years have been interesting for me that it's just not happening. I thought that was something that just happens. Did you meet any of the three? And I'M GONNA limit it to to personally just because I've met the eighteen year old right. That was three months. And that was actually. I needed that so much. That was so exciting and he'd been out seven years and I was only out sexually five years as much as the age difference was different. He was an amazing lesson in holding hands and writing notes and like being in love and bill. Yeah and going to Laker Games and giving to the flowers like I needed that at thirty five years old. I didn't have that like at sixteen years old. Like most people do have problems. Yeah so I love that relationship but but the two that I'm familiar with. Did you meet either of them online? Both everyone online. I met Tim on Grindr and I met Greg on tinder grinder. Tinder in tender is more dating. Yeah okay but it's the same people and that's what I'm seeing now. It's just showing whatever inside of themselves in different pictures and nicer. Bio's yeah but I love seeing that. They're both because I'm on both and I'm trying to pit each other against each other sex or dating well and they're all doing that and I was wondering when you see that somebody says there are only in it for dating. Do you mmediately assume other bad in bed. Sometimes because I feel like that's what I would think they're not. They're just interested in dating because they probably know that there's a high probability that they're going to enter these situations where sex is going to be first on the table and they are like no. I don't WanNa do that anymore. Well Rea- and I think there's a lot of guys like that but I also think even if you're gay you're GonNa follow into a stereotype of like wait. I WanNa fuck all the time. And he's dude he should WANNA fuck all the time he doesn't WanNa fuck all the time. Why doesn't he want to fuck all the time? That's suspicious like you just like something stinks because there's stereotypes of men in general. That aren't true that we've decided are true. They're not for everyone at all times. I didn't have sex with my last till five or six states in. I think that's why I worked. In a way there is something to be said for you know. Cherries in answers. Cherries and the juice or waiting for the cherries in this guy for the Gander. Excuse Save the saying. Leave them leave. Leave something leave. Some leaves the money on the table. Yes you can get it later. I don't know you guys I'm onto something out saying. Don't give milk the cow you. You're not going to buy the cow. You're getting the milk for free. 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