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"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

08:53 min | 3 months ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

"Goal is to create the best advice. We world's smartest most interesting people by asking them justified questions. My guest today is bestselling author Glennon Doyle born in Burke. Virginia GLENNON STRUGGLED WITH BULIMIA IN ADDICTION. Growing up and shared her experiences. Enter twenty thirteen tax. Talk lessons from the Mental Hospital which has been viewed over three point. Four Billion Times. Her writing career started in two thousand nine with her blog. Mama Stereo which led to her first book carry-on Warrior. That was selected. As part of Oprah's book club Glenn went onto right loved warrior and our latest untained aside from being an author and speaker. She's the founder of the all-women led nonprofit organization rising which has raised millions of dollars for women families and children in crisis in this episode. Glennon share some incredibly powerful life experiences and lessons. That will both challenge and inspire you. Every successful person. I've interviewed over the past ten years overcome significant work and life challenges and it's the source of their courage confidence power. How have your struggles with Bulimia addiction shaped the person you are today? Well what I would say. Is that my recovery from Bohemia and alcoholism shaped who I am in every arena of my life sometimes I think that addicts are the lucky ones because we hit rock bottom and so we get to experience recovery. Which in itself is really disturbing a recovering. Drug yourself right. So many of US use distractions like booze food but also more acceptable distractions like snark and scrolling Internet ad in Shopping and all the things we use so that we don't have to be left with ourselves in recovery gives us the opportunity to return to ourselves to discover who we really are into begin to live in integrity. Which which what I what I think integrity is. It has nothing to do with doing the right thing. It has to do with matching who you are on the inside. Matching your inner thoughts and desires and emotions to your outer cell right to Kind of bridging that divide between the two cells having those Tucson's the integrated which is where the word integrity comes from. And I think that as an artist speak from that inner self. That's what an artist does if they're speaking with from the representative self. That's not true. Art So recovering. My true selfless recovery is essential to being an artist. Living in integrity is essential to being a leader in an activist in showing up as my true self is essential to being a mother and a wife and a friend. You know it it it. Just the word used confidence. I think about that word a lot and what it means. Relate is with fidelity the Latin roots towards a width ability. And so living confidence. I think of as living with to delegate to sell to being true to yourself and my sobriety taught me that and is the guiding force of who I am and my art my activism and my relationships one of the biggest personal challenges we face in today's culture is the relentless pursuit of validation from others which has been amplified by social media. How can we start trusting ourselves instead of striving to meet the expectations of the world and we went to trust ourselves? You have to discover yourself again right in order to start being guided by the inner voice Which I call intuition or God or did knowing missing we have inside of us that is constantly guiding us towards next right thing We have to rediscover it We have to learn to listen for that voice again in the way we do that. Is We take some time each day to cut out to stop all the outer versus? I think that In today's culture we are being led towards more and more of an exterior life which means we are constantly looking outside of our stuff's to our owns two experts to other people to look for what to do next when really that's another way of asking people for directions to places they've never been right because we are each pioneers. No one else has lived the life that we are being asked to live every single. One of our lives is an unprecedented experiment. So I think that there is no map. We are all pioneers and the only way to know what is next for us and begin trusting ourselves to cut off the noise on the outside and start to practice going within some kind of stillness practice which is just practicing looking inward or the guide instead of outward for now. I've heard from all my friends that parenthood changes you all of them. Say That you can't prepare for it. It just happens and you react to it. How has parenthood put your life in perspective? Help to deal with your past and made you a better version of yourself. So parenthood is not the only way but it is one way to avoid living in unexamined life at part of what? I'm obsessed with right now. Is this process of containing which for me has a lot to do with. What while Whitman said that? We should reexamine everything we've been taught in in church in school in the world and dismissed whatever insults our own soul right. The coming untamed is examining these beliefs. That we've been just just blindly following. Our lives are social programming. And what parenting does is he. Just have a look at this little person and you have this desire to to model for them. You know what what does it mean to be a successful human being? Does it mean to be a good human being? What does it mean to love? What does it mean to live fully and in order to model those things and teach those things? You have to reconfigure them out for yourself so for me. It was an opportunity to same Do I believe if I'm GONNA pass on the most powerful beliefs to these children have to figure it out for myself in so I it does that it? It offers us an opportunity to figure out what we really believe in there. I also think that it's offered me an opportunity to heal in your book on came. You say the braver. We are the luckier we get. Can you explain what you mean by this phrase and give an example from your life when you got lucky by being brave? Yeah so I I say let's define what brave is because we're always telling everybody to be brave and we don't think about what that means so much. I think a lot of people say brave means being afraid and doing it anyway but I don't think that's a good definition. There's a lot of fear can be a gift and I think they always doing. The bold thing isn't necessarily courage. I think there's a lot of brazenness that is quiet. Measure and careful actually I think sometimes doing what's brave can look like cowardice to everybody on the outside rapes buried personal and so what I would say. That brave is brave. Is Listening to that voice on the inside speaking on the outside or what is your best piece of career advice? My best piece of career advice is to value in love. The people you are serving more than the product. You are surfing for example. I just had to cancel an entire book tour in I am cancelled it because of the rotavirus early call. It was a couple of weeks ago so early on it was a tough call to make and I remember sitting in my hotel room and just crying thinking. Oh my God. This book untamed the most beautiful thing I've ever created my career. Now have to cancel it and then I realized that's not at all most beautiful thing I've ever created. My career is the community that. I'm giving this book too and so I need to do whatever it takes to make sure that that those people are protected not book. It's in her hands in so I think when we make that priority when we value and I are ties the people we are serving. The people we are serving with. Our employees are an employer. Whoever these people are we always end up in place it might not be the right. Short term. Might not make us the most money or opportunity in the short term but in the long-term Gold's up trust and trust is the only meal currency right. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. Glennon to follow. Her journey can read her book untamed in Finder on twitter facebook and instagram where she shares daily South help advice family conversations announcements pictures of her fans. Hope you enjoyed today's show and the amazing advice. Our guests provided. Remember that you can only benefit from advice. If you packed on it before you do we would appreciate your feedback. In the form of view you can leave a review on itunes stitcher or a pod catcher of your choice your feedback would be very much appreciated head over to Shaw Bell Dot com slash review now..

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"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

08:52 min | 3 months ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

"Host Dan Shaw Bell. My goal secured create the best advice from the world's smartest and most interesting people by asking them. Just five questions. My guest today is former pro. Wrestler turned entrepreneur. Diamond Dallas page born in point pleasant New Jersey. His name came from his love of the Dallas Cowboys. Football Team after attending Coastal Carolina University in South Carolina. He started working fulltime running a nightclub in Florida while also being a rustling manager in the American Wrestling Association a year later he worked as a color commentator in Florida championship wrestling which became professional wrestling. Federation working alongside Gordon so league. Before becoming a wrestler himself he was eventually brought into world championship wrestling after dusty. Rhodes offered him a contract at WCW. Ddp started as a manager that eventually rose up the ranks to become the United States. Heavyweight champion continued continued to Russell for the World Wrestling Federation after they bought. Wcw and went on to win the WWF tag team championship and WWF Eurropean Championship. During his time there. After suffering from a neck injury he retired but eventually came out of retirement and has made appearances in. Wwf total nonstop action wrestling all elite wrestling and other cents. More recently he was inducted into the Wwe Hall of fame published his. Second Book. Positively unstoppable and launched his fitness program DDP Yoga. Ddp was my favorite wrestler when I was watching WCW so excited to learn more about his experience as a rustler life lessons and what he's working on right now as a child you were raised by her father. And then your grandmother what impact they have on your life. What life lessons did you learn from them? Actually I didn't raise my dad bounce around. Apparently the family toes eight years old then. I ended up with my grandmother and she was an awesome lady. Pretty much raised myself where it's really helped me a lot. Is I have really great self parenting skills right back where I was doing cocaine when I was twenty eight years old and I realized. Wow this shit is way too good. This could own my life. I immediately stopped. You know I love the drink and and have the party Back when I was younger at some point I learned. Okay you don't WanNA blackout. Don't drink that much backed up by drinking self-discipline when everyone told me I couldn't do something. It wasn't so much I wanted to prove them wrong. Wanted to prove me right. You know when you do a lot of self parenting when you're younger. It can be super destructive or it could be super haven't pages. I think my life speaks for itself in your autobiography admitted dyslexic. And it's common that many of the world's most successful people are dyslexic. How was your dyslexia? Both strength and a weakness as you earn on super weakness when it came to Try and do study because it was impossible it was just like the and add and no one knew what the hell that was back then my skills as a communicator probably came way better than your average pair if you look at the guys who off the top of my head Tom Cruise Muhammad Ali Jay Leno. Pretty Damn good communicators. You learn how to work around at when I finally learned to read really in my mid forties having all the tools now My legacy speaks for so even though my friends love the wwe I was WCW fan and you were my favorite wrestler because I enjoyed your charisma and of course the diamond cutter finishing move. What was your favorite and least favorite part of being a pro wrestler? And what did you say your legacy is? The least part was the travel. I still hate the travel beginning. You'll love it but as time rolls on it will drag you. Burn you out love being in front of the people but don't need the chanting of DP even though that's an amazing drug keep me going. I really love the part about changing people's lives anytime you help someone man it makes you feel really good about you when they come back and tell you how you've changed your life and you've never even met that that super powerful. I literally had it as a wrestler but today I think what I'm doing today is overshadowing a all fame wrestling career and could be any prouder. My legacy will go down as the guy who really journey about other people and Want to see them do the best they can be. It's funny because Scott all once said when he was living counter ability he's dallies addiction is helping people and the more. I thought about that. I thought about guess he's right about that. When did your wife introduce you to yoga? And what transferable skills from rustling enabled you to create a successful Yoga fitness program? Originally Kimberly turned me on to it and I finally gave in to doing yoga. Because I'm a guy who wouldn't be caught dead doing yoga. The first forty two years of my life that I finally gave in because it was out of necessity and I don't even call. I do yoga because it's so different but it has a lot of the Yoga principles meaning the positioning and and some the flows what may DVD. Py Two different. And it's twenty years in the making. I'm constantly changing. Step up to make it even more accessible. That's the way you have to be in the ring. You know you've got to be growing and changing and know who you are as the character. Because at the beginning I was a job. Got A guy who got his asked me. And then I finally became like a lower mate card level guy and I fought my way up to being a mid card guy than a lower top guy and then a mid card top guy top top guy along the way you change now bad workout since start in bed like you can't get out of bed. I got five workouts for three workouts for you in bet. I've got eight workouts for you in a chair. I've got ten workouts view using a chair and then from there you can do any of my beginner. Intermediate advanced or cycle extreme workout. So I'm constantly changing and growing. You're only as good as your last match. You're only as good in life as your last accomplishment and a lot of people live off of one big accomplishment to me. I'm growing all the time and wrestler as you know sports entertainment or wrestler. One in the same you have to constantly be growing and changing Chris Jericho is the best example. Iraq is the best example I can give is. Ours is constantly growing constantly changing constantly taking on new things. He's never done before I today. Were not just a fitness company. You know I'm not just a fitness guru. We've got a whole production company agree. Do All of the Production Ray. W We do the vignettes that you say about the people like that's our production oriented another one of my company that other one is going into Protein drinks and you know things that are really helping tastes. Were going into a whole restaurant. Chain is in development right now and we'll be up and going by two thousand twenty one go but I wanNA get real foods of people you know. I've inspiring people wherever I can mentally physically. And what food they take it. And what's your best piece of career advice? Put the work in. Nothing happens without the work and if for some reason it does. You won't appreciate it if you're just given shit name me one thing in your life that you've been given like just give it and you appreciate that so much. Have you been given the opportunity? You never appreciate how hard it is to get there and when you finally get there you really appreciate it so to me. Put the work in. Thank you so much for. Share your wisdom. Dd Pay to follow. His journey can find him on twitter facebook Youtube instagram where he shares old wrestling photos. Yoga stretches exercise challenges is family travels and stress relief advice. We hope you enjoy today's show. And the amazing advice. Our guests provided. Remember that you can only benefit from advice if you act on it before you do. We would appreciate your feedback in the form of review. You can leave a review on itunes stitcher or Pod Catcher of your choice. Your feedback would be very much appreciated head over to Dan. Shaw Bell Dot Com Slash Review now..

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"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

08:32 min | 4 months ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

"Are you looking to reach their full? Potential and achieve success in business and in life want only tried and tested guidance from people who have truly made an impact. You have come to the right place. Welcome to five questions with Dan. Chevelle New York Times bestselling author Bell distills the most actionable and tangible advice. From a variety of world-class humans including entrepreneurs authors Olympians Politicians Titians Billionaires Nobel Prize winners Ted speakers celebrities astronauts and more inspirational guidance practical advice and concrete solutions. Our our chat start. Welcome to the seventy third episode of the five questions. Podcast I'm your host. Dan Shaw Bell Goes Curate. The best advice from the world's smartest and most interesting people by asking them just five questions. My guest today is bestselling author and founder of the Ultra Wellness Center. Dr Mark Hyman born in New York. Mark moved to Idaho after graduating from medical school. Then he worked as an emergency room doctor nostitz before becoming the CO medical director at Canyon ranch after leaving the ranch. She opened the ultra wellness center over the past seven years mark has written countless bestselling books including his latest entitled food. Fix had a save our health our economy our communities in our planet one bite at a time. He is the medical director at the Cleveland Clinic Center for Functional Medicine in as a medical advisor to bill and Hillary Clinton as who went from eating fast food and hot dogs on George Foreman grills to being Pasqua -Tarian. I have an appreciation for food as it relates to our health. That's why I wanted mark to share his insights with all of you because eating healthy transform my life and it can do the same for you. How did you originally get into the medical field? Well I was studying. Buddhism believe it or not in college and took a class called the medicine Buddha and begin to understand the nature of spirituality and healing connected and I WANNA be among rabbi and figured out so I I decided to go into medicine it was a way of serving and I believe that the the ideal they still do that. You know we're here contribution. There's so much information about what to eat. What not heat online. How do you know what to trust? It's really important to learn how to be a critical reader of the media and the science and doctors are taught. That's for the most part. Certainly most patricians are most government bodies. Give recommendations are it and here's the real simple answer. There's two kinds of stats that are worth looking at. One is population. Studies will Biaggi that takes people over long periods of time follows a behavior habits. And see if there's a correlation so eggs cause heart disease but it's not really that causes it. It's a correlation and most of the nutritional centres we have our correlation studies which do not prove cause and effect so study of women. Over fifty five six I would conclude with sex never leads to pregnancy the study. The purpose accurate. But it's completely invalid so what we do those kinds of analyses we we see these headlines. Extra kill people you know. Coconut oil is going to kill you and people get so confused. We have to begin to look at whether it's a randomized controlled trial or an experiment. Which means you take two people. You can have them. You know one treatment and half of them another treatment and see how they compare. That's the way determine what's true or not and most of us when we look at a paper headliner. Study aren't thinking about that. We're seeing owners are the correlation and that's the problem so it's time to think through that and it's important but I would not take every headline as Gospel Click big and you should be smarter to them. How do you structure guys? You're getting enough sleep in how you're taking everything into account because it seems like especially pursuing just starting to try and break negative habits. Bad Habits like this would relate son. Is it one time it's prescription to the by is really important and then connected to the house and it's a skill like anything else. I mean I can cook three meals a day from scratch whole foods in thirty minutes toll for offerings. But it's a skill. I learned out exercise into my life and structure my days that I can do the things I want in and this morning meditated today mock exercise tomorrow morning to visit. I know I play the meditation session afternoon and and control what eating in where I'm going so it's really about skilled at all. Men Learning how to practice the skills it help sustain you and actually invigorating overtime. The World Health Organization came out and said that as an occupational phenomenon. Recently what's the best way to prevent burnt out any food part of that you know? It's interesting mental. Health issues are rampant in fact In terms of overall effect quality of life it's the number one health bird around the world and also cost burden becomes particularly Lack of being gauged in a society as an active member. The solution solution in part is figuring out how to connect mental health with those behaviors generate mental health or social behaviors. Of 'cause L in the food again is probably one of the biggest drivers of cognitive function of mood of energy and people don't understand that I was. Exercises is very powerful in terms of rejuvenation regeneration. Sleep were asleep deprived nation. All those things are just super simple. Building blocks his focus on E. sleep an exercise in pure hearted dials in necessarily perfectly every day. But for the most part of the huge difference my nephew for example was having you know depression and lethargy and function and was not doing well and it really blame wasn't exercising. You couldn't function. I want to get bigger every day this week. And he's like completely turned around stuff. I think people don't understand the connection between their mind and their body in the reverse order in other words we know about the my body effect. But we don't know about the body mind effect and so in the DOCU series that I've created a broken brain. We really delve into how to fix rain. Fixing your body I. What's Your Best Pizza Criminals? My best piece of advice is what you love to do and do it and ten thousand connected what you want in life. What matters to you. We'll get you up and excited every day in positive experimentation has the process of of self reflection and self knowledge and awareness. So who are you what matter to when you love we care about excited? Just go for thank you so much for sharing your wisdom mark to follow. His journey can read his book food fix and find them on facebook. Twitter instagram where he shares his appearances travels food recommendations health insights and advice to watch the full extended video version of this episode. Where I asked mark even more questions you can go to Youtube. Dot Com slash. Dan Shah Al. We hope you enjoyed today's show. And the amazing advice. Our guest provided. Remember that you can only benefit from advice. If you packed on it before you do. We would appreciate your feedback in the form of a review. You can leave a on Itunes stitcher for of Pot catcher of your choice. Your feedback would be very much appreciated head over to Dan. Shot Bell Dot com slash review now..

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"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

06:57 min | 5 months ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

"Dan Shaw Bell. My goals to create the best advice from the world's smartest and most interesting people by asking them just five questions. My guest today is the founding member of the Black Crowes. Steve Gorman born in Michigan Michigan. Steve joined his elementary schools band playing the drums. At Age ten. He moved to Kentucky aspiring to be a guitarist that in college. He was a broadcast major while playing drums with several bands. In one thousand nine hundred eighty six. He formed the band lack of interest with his friends to record their first demo tape a year later he started playing with the black roads for the first nine albums then eventually rejoined in two thousand five more. Recently Gorman founded the band trigger happy and author of the book hard to handle which was named after the Black Crowes hit song. I caught up with Steve to learn more about how he was able to navigate a multi decade career such celebrated ban and what he's learned along the way you've been part of the Black Crowes for over two decades. Witnessing the success struggle and breakout firsthand. How you able to mentally and emotionally handle the highs and the lows in varying degrees of success Initially you know the easiest part and the most fun and all the things that feel the way you think a band is GonNa feel or actually in the local bandies no stress all a dream and the pursuit of trying to make things actualize to realize something young and you have nothing else to concern yourself with. That was all great. Once we hit the road and had a record out that turned into a hit things went sideways. Pretty quick in a lot of ways and not just for me for everybody. The way I handled it was to put my head down and say well as long as we work hard and as long as we stay together and united will get through anything. I'm a very team oriented guy Not Everybody in the band had that same philosophy and power struggles and and An Egos and insecurities that we all had to contend with. They showed themselves pretty early. And unfortunately we were so young that we got set in our ways and kind of continued the band for as you said. I'll actually almost three decades without really ever stopping and really doing the work to figure out how to be more effective at communicating and working together. He say you'RE A team oriented guy. What do you believe are the most important qualities of a teammate? Or in your case a band member and which the wants to avoid and why you have to know your strengths and and just as important if not more you have to know your weaknesses and you have to be willing to let other people do things. You're not so great at or that you aren't interested in doing. I mean to me. A band is not an extension of anyone or any five people's emotional or mental psyche wellbeing. None of those things have banned is. It's you know I never looked at it as a business. But it's an easy thing to compare it to. It's a mom and pop shop. Somebody needs to run the register. Somebody needs to stock the shelves. Somebody needs to figure out the books and in a band. You have all those responsibilities. You don't think about that as a local band. You just WANNA play shows. You just want him to get a record deal. It's important as you grow. And as the band's career grows that you evolve and take a realistic at what's required. We entered an entirely new landscape and stuck to our guns as to how we viewed the world as a local band and it was really damaging I think ultimately communication and or you know better analogy actually a basketball team. Someone rebounds someone passes someone shoots and if everybody understands their role in respects everyone else's contributions. You can go as far as you want. If you were to start another band right now. What would you do differently based on what you've experienced and why while I have a bad actually called trigger hippy? That is is in a lot of how that band operates is based on things I learned with the Black Crowes. Which is it's okay. It's perfectly fine to have somebody establishing the tone and the direction but you know the old adage you can go faster alone but much further together. I JUST WANNA keep make sure that everybody's on the same page. Everybody knows why we're doing anything we're doing and feel everybody out. You don't have to allow one person's opinion to derail an operation but everybody's opinion as valid and everybody at least needs to be heard and understood. What is the most important business advice you've learned as an artist? You wish you knew when you first started. Oh man you know. Every day I would probably have a different answer but I can say that the most important things that we were we were given great advice early on and we didn't necessarily follow it. I can't say thankfully that we were ever misguided or led down the wrong path. We were given great great opportunity and great advice. The thing that we probably struggled with the most and I'm including myself in that of course Separating separating the art from the business we went and made records and once those records are in the CAN. The goal is to get as many people as you possibly can to listen to them and you know once you've created your art sell it is foreign as wide as you possibly can and don't you know we had A. We struggled with feeling like that made us sell out so that it weakened the music by trying to do promotion and to me you know. The the art is only of use if it receives an audience. I think separating the two worlds you know like art and business can co. Mingle quite freely as long as you remember which one is which and not try to combine the two. I think it's like a separation of church and state when you combine them. They both get weakened. And what is your best piece of career advice? follow your gut because your gut is ultimately the one thing you're gonNa have with you forever and when you know the biggest mistakes and regrets. I have aren't when I made mistakes. It's when I made a mistake that my gut new was a mistake and I did it anyway when I say I'm a team player. The downside of that was to a fault I was a team player is a much younger man I would. I would give way to what I thought was for the greater good despite my central nervous system screaming at me. No this is a serious mistake because ultimately when it's all said and done you're still the one who's waking up in the middle of the night with your subconscious tapping shoulder going. You knew and you didn't do anything about it. So you know your gut is really all you have right or wrong. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom Steve to follow his journey can read his book hard to handle and find them on facebook twitter instagram where he shares announcements live performances travels pictures of his family and his cat. We hope you enjoyed today's show. And the amazing advice. Our guests provided. Remember that you can only benefit from advice if you packed on it before you do. We would appreciate your feedback in the form of review. You can leave a review on Itunes stitcher for Pod Catcher of your choice. Your feedback would be very much appreciated head over to Dan. Chevelle dot com slash review now..

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"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

06:24 min | 5 months ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

"Questions. PODCAST CAST I'm your host. Dan Shaw Bell Michael's decorate the best advice from the world's smartest and most interesting people by asking them just five questions. My guest today is the Creator. President and chief product officer Baked by Melissa Melissa Benesch Board and his New Jersey Melissa graduated Syracuse University. With a Bachelor's in child child and family studies her first job was as a sales assistant at teller up INC then. She worked at Deutsch Inc as assistant media planner where she was fired at age each twenty four her side hustle during this time was baking tie-dyed cupcakes for friends family and coworkers two weeks after being fired Melissa partnered with her brother Brian to create the baked bibles accompany fast forward to today where baked by Melissa is in fourteen locations ships nationwide Melissa's also the author of cakes by Melissa and investor time philanthropic initiatives like make a wish and the side with love campaign that helped spread kindness while I don't eat cupcakes. Oh cakes baked by Melissa Stores Walk Around New York City in at JFK. Airport so interested in learning more about how she made. All of this happen. How was losing your job job as an assistant media planner a blessing in disguise being fired was the best thing that happened because I was not passionate about the work I was doing and I I needed to find something that made me happy? Every day I went home. I Bake cupcakes. I sent them into work with my best friend's little sister who had an internship at a pr our agency the owner of the PR firm tried my cupcakes and love them and connected me with her cater. The next day the day after I was fired and and from that moment on I did everything. I possibly could to achieve the goal of baking cupcakes relevant and being Melissa Baked by Melissa where you initially had the idea for your company. What was your biggest obstacle? And how did you overcome. I think there were so many obstacles when we were first starting by Melissa. First off I was a twenty four year old was just fired from my job and advertise. Shit I didn't have the confidence necessary to really advocate for yourself but fortunately fortunately I surrounded myself with people who believed in me and then confidence in me like my big brother. WHO's also my co-founder waking up? Every day. Baking cupcakes day in and day out for seven months out of my apartment going on tasting doing everything I possibly could to get people to try product being resilient bouncing doc after a challenge there kind of challenges but I think the way I respond to challenges and my attitude of seeing every frustrating interesting situation as an opportunity to learn grow. Is the reason that we're here today like you. I remember working over one hundred hours a week when I started a company in my twenties. Where does your work work ethic? Come From and how have you continue to sustain it. Over twelve years in business can meet. The definition of success is working hard towards. I'm thinking that you love. I've always wanted a job that I love because I wanNA feel fulfilled at the end of the day. I WANNA feel tired and I think I just appreciate having the opportunity to do something that makes me happy and feel fulfilled at the end of every day. I I'm enjoying the journey. I guess like I still Ian Cliches and sound. I know the journey is the reward. I get to work with like-minded hardworking passionate New People. Who get you done every day? Just like me and the challenging hard as we're opportunities to learn grow and go out of my comfort zone and the great anything or just that amazing and you know I I appreciate it. All speaking of the people who've worked with co-founded your company with your brother Urnov since married your husband who has worked under you. How have you been able to manage these relationships without leading work at inbetween you? I think managing their relationship When working with family or not actually is probably the single most challenging part of building company? I've learn to time. I think when you find yourself in an emotional conversation. It's super import. and to measure twice. Cut One really listen and never respond to anything when you're feeling emotional and just trying new ways to respond to the things that happen thank you. That's what I do. I know I could always be better. Even if I feel like I was and talk to in the right way or treated the way I believe I deserve. There's there's still opportunity for me to improve and to change my response and I think that outlook on personal relationships within my business has has been super helpful but like of course. It's not easy to work with family. I do believe that the reward outweighs the challenge. And what's your best piece of crude vice. Oh Man I think there's so much that you need to do to be successful in your career. Whatever that career is? I do believe that it's not rocket. Science and there's a certain mindset and attitude that is necessary and essential for success which is being every challenge as an opportunity ready to learn and grow and looking for new ways to go outside of your comfort zone. Those two things together is very helpful. I you need needs to be positive and you need to approach every challenge with the mindset of okay. This is because now we could solve this problem and finding I think people that approached things the same way is going to be very helpful. Thank you so much for Sugar Wisdom Melissa. To follow her journey you could find her on facebook twitter instagram where she shares pictures with their family desserts media appearances and announcements. We hope you enjoy today's show and the amazing advice ace. Our guests provided. Remember that you can only benefit from advice if you packed on it before you do. We would appreciate your feedback in the form of review off. You can leave a review on itunes stitcher or Pod Catcher of your choice your feedback would be very much appreciated head over to Dan Shaw Bell Dot com slash review now..

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5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

09:06 min | 6 months ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

"I'm your host. Dan Shaw Bell by go security the best advice from the world's smartest inroads interesting people by asking them just five questions. My guest today author Speaker and marketing. Strategist David Mirman Scott. Born in Boston Massachusetts David graduated Kenyon. College with batches of Arts in economics hit multiple jobs as a clerk on Wall Street before working publisher Knight Ridder in their online newsroom. David moved back from Boston to join desktop. Data which was acquired by News Edge Corporation than sold the Thomson Thompson Reuters. David's ideology of using social media blogs and podcasts to earn attention instead of by it became the basis for his book the new rules of marketing and PR VR. The success of the book led to Global Speaking Career in advisory position at hubs bought in a series of other books including his latest entitled Fan. Accuracy David was an early mentor of mine. Back in two thousand nine when I was publishing my first book and has been on the forefront of the latest marketing trends for decades. That's why I was excited to speak with him for This podcast episode. When people ask me for my best advice in book publishing I refer them to what you told me before? My first book me to point out was published ten years ago. You suggested gesture that I should market promote in south the book without relying on the publisher. Can you explain how being accountable in this way has helped you achieve success. I think the idea of getting getting your own work out into the marketplace is essential. Your you know at best number one number two you can call on people to help you to get those ideas out there and you can create interesting kinds of content to get those ideas out into the marketplace. A publisher typically just goes through the process like a machine you know they have the list of twenty five people are going to send a galley to. They have a list of forty-eight people that they're going to send the press release to and you're one of twenty five books that they're announcing this year. But you're the only one in who is focused on your book and you're the one that can get it out there the other piece of advice that I give to everybody who asks about Book Promotion Ocean is spend as much time promoting your book as you've spent writing your book and the vast majority of authors will never do do that because they spend a year or two writing a book and they'll spend a month or two promoting it. Why should every entrepreneur focus on purpose values and community not just selling products and services? How can they make the shift if they aren't already doing so? I'm a huge believer in passion and I'm also a huge believer that passion Ashen is infectious. So if you're just talking about your products and services you're just pushing commodities out there but if you're talking in about how you're passionate about something and you're tapping into the passion that other people have that's incredibly readily powerful. That's a true human connection and I think in today's world what we're all hungry for is true human connection because there's too many products are ready. There's too many people out there on social media already. There's too many organizations and entities trying trying to get our attention but a true human connection. That's what we're all after and if you're focused on your passions and the communities that might be interested in your passions your way more likely to make a human connection just tossing products and services out there to the mark you co authored fin accuracy with your daughter. What have you learned from each other that has made you a better marketer and her a better suit so Phan Argosy was so so much fun to write with my daughter? She's now twenty six years always starting that journey when she was twenty one years old and she's so different from me obviously a woman obviously a different generation. She's a medical school student She's also mixed race and we share different passions. We we had to be people who transformed from father daughter relationship to full partners on this project. Otherwise it wouldn't have worked on so we developed a much stronger relationship as result. Would I learned as a marketer which is incredibly important for me you to learn is that there's differences with the millennial generation with Gen Z.. And there's differences with people will who identify as mixed race or who identify as LGBTQ. And those were things that I knew intellectually but I never really had had strong exposure to and those were things that my daughter brought to this project. That really helped me become a way better marketer and Frankly a better person in understanding the motivations behind people who are very very very different for me I think in the case of Rako all. I can't speak for her. I think that she understands that as a doctor which she will soon be. She's in her fourth year of medical school and she's going to be an emergency zero doctrine mid twenty twenty that to be doctors partly about communications. Partly about being able to be understood something that I know well having been a marketer all my whole career and I think she recognizes that being a good communicator. Being able to articulate your ideas well being able to speak in public being able to to write effectively are all going to make a wave editor Dr Throughout your twenty five year career. In the marketing field you've been at the forefront of some of the biggest trends like the rise of social media what are some of the marketing tool strategies and techniques that you would recommend people looking to build their brand so I think it's incredibly powerful today is is the idea of using images photographs video and using those images to show a human human connection. I think we're all striving for a human connection today and I've become a real big fan of the idea of a simple selfie Alfie. Something that people think is frivolous the idea of a photograph of you looking into a camera. Essentially we research the idea of neuro science. How people react to things like photographs and through the power of what's called mirror neurons? We believe when we see a Selfie. Oh fee when you see a photograph of someone looking directly at the camera our brain translates translate that to we are in the personal space of with that person. We are together in the same room physically with that person. That's what our brain tells us. Our ancient DNA tells us and too many people people focus on things like photographs of being very formal portrait style. Type photos that they use in business. And I'm a big believer in the idea of. How can you get casual with your video? How can you get with your photographs? How can you show the passion that you have through the images that you put out and that makes you a better marketer? Makes you better able to connect on a human level with those people that you're trying to reach and what's your best piece of career advice. My best piece of career advice is to celebrate getting fired fire and I just think I've been fired three times every single time. I've ended up with something better. I think the idea India of doing what you believe being an agent of Shane getting out there and making things happen has the potential sel to have a a fabulous career Wynonna company if you bring the company in a new direction you. Are you become a superstar. But if you don't don't manage to make that happen you can lose your job but then you weren't destined to be a successful in that organization anywhere so do your thing make it happen if it happens. Awesome if not find another company that will celebrate who you are. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom David to follow his journey can and read his book and find him on Facebook Lincoln twitter and Instagram shares pictures of his friends. Family Musicians Marketing Strategies appearances and travels so we hope you enjoyed today show and the amazing advice. Our guest provided remember that you can only benefit from advice. If you packed on it before you we do. We would appreciate your feedback in the form of review. 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"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

07:08 min | 7 months ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

"Shaw Bell Michael. Secure it the best advice from the world's smartest and most interesting people by asking them just five questions. My guest today is author Speaker and Entrepreneur. John John's board and Kansas City Missouri. John attended the University of Kansas City before creating his now widely popular duct tape marketing system which trains and licenses small business consultants throughout his career. He's written several books including duct tape marketing duct tape selling the referral referral engine and the commitment engine. John has been an early adopter of new technologies including blogging and podcasting which he uses to communicate strategies and tactics tactics to help small business owners succeed. I've known John for over a decade. And he's been a great supporter of mine as I was building my career in the social media world especially during the blocking days I caught up with him to talk about his new book. The self reliant entrepreneur and dive deeper into what. He's learned from coaching entrepreneurs for three decades. How can remaining meeting self-reliant help people achieve success? Well I think the biggest thing is as particularly his entrepreneurs but really people in life. We have so many people trying in to tell us what we should do. Trying to control How we think how work you know what we say? And then the flip side of that we also spent a great deal all of our own time Kinda trying to control the outcome of every meeting or every sales caller. You know everything that we're going to do our business. And the primary the element of self reliance itself trust if we can develop a level of of believing ourselves believing that we are enough that we have enough today. Combat is actually going to lead us to being in fact. I think it's the first step to leading somebody to being more successful. What is the role of mind body and spirit in the entrepreneurial journey this body of work that I dip into the some people call it the transcendental lists that was just kind of what it was labeled but there were some of the first folks that in American literature at least to borrow heavily from some of the eastern thinking that we are all connected as human beings we're all connected to nature that our mind body and spirit are connected? Did at work as one and I think that even the most practical entrepreneur I think can say boy if I've got head trash if I'm thinking about tomorrow what's going on. That's going to affect my physical state in my performance today. And so what. A self-reliant entrepreneur tries to do is really understand themselves themselves at such a level build. Better you and you'll build a better business and probably the piece that I think is missing for most is that the self-reliant entrepreneur also understands the impact that they are trying to have the change. They're trying to make the grace they're trying to bring to the world. I think a lot of times. We are so focused on the next sale on the next opportunity. The next book that we forget to actually enjoy the happiness that we have today either coached many business people in your career. What is the most common frustration? They have and what advice have you given them to help them overcome it. I think probably the greatest frustration. We all have which have too much to do or too much we want I want to do. We have too many distractions that are trying to grab it our time. So the advice that I try to give people is to slow down. Do less go much deeper. If you're you're going to set priorities for the quarter two or three big things that you can go deep in you can accomplish. You can actually move the needle with instead of the US face at eighty percent. Percents the things that we do that. Probably don't make any impact on anybody. And you say that distractions or something that we all have to deal with the other thing. We have to deal with within self-doubt and entrepreneurs have to overcome south doubt in order to achieve success Grow their businesses. Would you recommend an entrepreneur who who is dealing with the struggle of having self-doubt. Yeah I think there's there's no question in fact you know a lot of people talk about this idea of you have to start with your y and find your your purpose in your passion. I think most people can't do that because they don't trust themselves enough and they have that yourself out and some of it you know how many of us had teachers at said we weren't gonNA amount anything or heaven forbid parents had said we weren't gonNA amount to anything or friends that say we're not gonNA amount to anything so we have to actually be able to block doc that out entrust ourselves so thoroughly that that you know. We're not allowing outside things to control us. And I think that you know throughout this book I talk about The you know the writers like throw and Emerson Talk so much about the need for solitude and meditation for journaling and practices it. Frankly today have become. I'm pretty standard practices for entrepreneurs and I think that's one of the ways that you start quieting that noise and and self doubt I have seven brothers and two sisters and so if you're GonNa make it as parents with ten kids you better. You better believe that. Everything's GonNa work out. You know not not fred about things that you can't control and I think my parents did doc quite frankly give me that and kind of taught me that Hake author and hustle. You could make something happen. In fact my father was he he would never uttered he. He never did utter the the Word Entrepreneur but he was an entrepreneur. I think a lot of ways showed me what freedom look like in in word really a lot of ways. I never considered any other path. I think that's really interesting though that he didn't think of himself as an entrepreneur yet in today's world being an entrepreneur like a badge of honor in a very much. I started my own business actually thirty years ago and I remember you know it was almost code then for I couldn't find a job and you're right now today everybody's trying to get out of a job and you have got side-hustle that they want to turn into a full-time GIG. And what is your best piece of career advice. You know my best career advice although we talked about my dad. Not Relating into an entrepreneur relate to myself as having a career just see it as one big long adventure and I think that's my advice. Is that experience things. That's the only way you're GONNA learn. I mean I I work with with lots of consultants they try to figure. Out What Niche should I serve and you know my advice is gonNA serve if you figure out what you like. Figure out what you're good at figure out who can bring bring the most value to bring more value. And that's the niche. You should go after. That's the experience that you should go after. I think it's almost criminal that people go to college and pick a career career when they're in college because I haven't experienced anything and the only way that I think we realize what's going to bring us. Joy is experiencing intentionally experiencing a lot of different things. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom John to follow his journey. You can read his book. The self-reliant Entrepreneur and find him on Lincoln twitter and facebook where he shares his business strategies. auditees live appearances late marketing tools. We hope you enjoyed today's show. And the amazing advice. Our guest provided. Remember that you can only benefit from advice. If you packed on it before you do. We would appreciate your feedback in the form of a review. You can leave a review on itunes. 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5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

09:07 min | 7 months ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

"Shaw Bell as your host might go secrete the best advice from the world's smartest and most interesting people by asking them just five questions. My guest today is the twenty fifth. US secretary her tariff Defense Ash Carter born Philadelphia Pennsylvania. Ashes father was a doctor military veteran and his mother was a teacher after graduating. Abington Senior High School. As the president of the honor society. He went to Yale. College then became a Rhodes scholar at the University of Oxford from nineteen ninety three to nineteen ninety-six. Ask served as the assistant stint secretary of defense for International Security Policy during President Bill Clinton's first term during this time he was responsible for strategic affairs including the US nuclear weapons weapons policy. He continued to work his way up the hierarchy until two thousand fourteen. When President Barack Obama appointed him to be the twenty fifth. US Secretary of defense after after over thirty five years of service. Ashra book called inside the five sided box about what he learned during his time at the Pentagon in this episode ash gives us his insider sided perspective of his decision making process relationship with the troops and advice that's applicable to our lives outside the five sided box. Most people don't understand how alumini both the Pentagon employees larger than stabs of GE Amazon. The world's largest company so talk about the responsibility walkability of manner gain in working with so many people hiring firing through what that's like in some of her decision making process to big responsibility. But it's if you think about it. A lot of important things in life with making sense of people can wake up in the morning. Their kids send him off to school. Tom Go to work live. Their lives dreamed your dreams. You can only have that if you got security secure. You don't think about if you don't you think about nothing. He also is. It's like oxygen regard and we provide that that oxygen and so wonderful. Wake up in the morning and that's a lot of responsibility but it's really noble thing to do stuttered hold your at the garden. Workforces battlefield other countries. I was talking about empathy before this. How do you guys them and connect with them everywhere. Every every place for people to avoid compute Dr Joao her their only job faced with abandoning. And I'd always tell them to this. The first is wire here with me. This and the second thing I tell is how noble their mission and how proud I was a and they would understand. That knows talking to them. I wasn't only Sarpi to them. I was talking to their families and I would stand out in the one hundred twenty res. The Desert Afghanistan and or rock and Shake Hands I.. I'd see the leaders of the country and Mike Commanders. I'd always always goes to the troops and every time. I should have a picture of me and we would give those pictures to kids and send them home and nat pictures. GonNa show up as get sent home mom. It's going to show up on her bedside table or the mantle and she doesn't know the sector defenses dances and don't care but she wants her loved one in that issue to look like they're doing something really really important. There is the secretary you can tell you tell suit. Can you see the flag and I.. I wanted to look at that picture too. Great for the whole family. I I think little things like that in a big organization or beef things. Yeah the word con. Dao were most associated with you mentioned. That's who you hire. That's part of why you fire back part of why dress the way. This is the first time I've wore for a SEC. A separate in bitterly two years. Just tell me more about your personal conduct impact. You think that's mere career. It's into rare to go through thirty seven years of uninterrupted garment and I was always in Washington and I was always a close enough adviser that I was a special boy and I never was investigating for it now. Why is that. I quater did anything but secondly I never even got close to and there's so many ways that you can cut corners corners or seemed to cut corners and in public life. I think in life in general but but you can't have that kind of thing in the profession of arms warfare and in leadership of something serious depends on the need habit either. What is the responsibility all year. During turbulent times and what are the first few steps being able to handle that and being able to connect with the report that they're confident that you've ever will be when you entered what I'll call a crisis situation You're usually any sense. You know you don't really know what's going on therefore you can't really know what you're supposed to do. The worst thing in the world is not to say or do anything leader so the question is at what do you do in a crisis when and you know you don't know all the facts and here's my advice. Don't be styled. If you're silent the worshippers will okay going and you will seem feeble indecisive and that takes away the room that you need to do the right thing. Whatever this crisis turns out. So you need to say something. I just say a few facts that will satisfy people. Aw that you're willing to speak. You're not trying to hide anything. Don't go out and tell them everything you don't know because then you look foolish eventually. Eventually you will know you wanNA show communist so say would you now. Secondly even though you don't understand the situation you can't know what old ashes tape do something. Give your people instructions. They crave that because they they need to know that everything's GonNa be okay and they'll play a role once these curve us. People ask me all the time they say I met her four here and I've got I've narrowed it down to Jude Joyce's and what I really WanNa do is eh Eh but if I do not do it but it. It'll lead to this thing. And they had this whole billiard shot. We're finally after bouncing scene often number of cushions and go to law away doing a bunch of things they don't WanNa do finally knock ball pocket. My advice is to do you. Ask Yourself when you wake up tomorrow. We're you rather be going to work. And that's not a self-indulgent plot is eh lodge goal instrumental thought. 'cause if you wake up tomorrow and do something that you you really like you too well and that will carry you forward. You'll excel at if you do something that you just think is. I had a longer Shane. Indeed you do it poorly and it won't lead anywhere So I think it's both Good emotional advice but mm-hmm more importantly it's good instrumental advice INNIS. That's the important. That's what I find myself in my own. Life does the advice. I'd give anybody thank you so much for sharing your wisdom ash to follow this journey. COMEDIANS book inside the five sided box and fight him on instagram and twitter where he shares his live appearances media interviews and his book a tour to watch the full extended video version of this episode. Where I ask ask even more questions you can go to Youtube. Dot Com slash. Dan Shah about so. We hope you enjoyed today. Show and the amazing advice. Our guest provided remember that you can only benefit from advice. If you packed on it before are you. Do we would appreciate your feedback. In the form of review you can leave a review on itunes stitcher or Pod catcher of your choice your or feedback would be very much appreciated head over to Dan. Chevelle dot com slash review now..

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5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

08:58 min | 8 months ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

"Are you looking to reach your full potential and achieve success in business and life want only tried and tested guides it from people who have truly made an impact. You have come to the right place. Welcome to five questions with Dan. Chevelle New York Times bestselling author Dan Shop Bell distills the most actionable and tangible advice. From a variety of world-class humans including entrepreneurs ignores authors Olympians Follow Titians Billionaires Nobel Prize winners Ted speakers celebrities astronauts and more inspirational guidance. Practical advice and concrete solutions our power chat sal. Welcome to the fifty seventh episode of five questions with Dan. Shaw Bell as your host goes to create the best advice from the world's smartest and most interesting people by asking them just five questions. My guest today is astrophysicist. I author and head of the Hayden. Planetarium Neil degrasse Tyson born in New York City to a gerontologist father and sociologist mother. He grew up in the Bronx in high school. He was the captain of the wrestling team. In the editor in Chief of the Physical Science Journal Neil first became interested in astronomy falling visit to the Hayden planetarium where he enrolled in various courses purses there he started gaining notoriety as a fifteen year old lecturing in his community he went on to earn his B A in physics from Harvard and his PhD in Astrophysics from Columbia. In in two thousand and one President George Bush appointed him to serve on a commission studying the future of the US aerospace industry and in two thousand four he was reappointed to focus on the implementation nation of the US space exploration policy in two thousand six. He was appointed to serve on the NASA Advisory Council and was awarded the NASA Distinguished Public Service Medal. Currently Louis Neil as the head of the Hayden Planetarium. A research associate of the Department of astrophysicists at the American Museum of Natural History and the host of the star. Talk PODCAST I. He has written sixteen books including his latest letters from an astrophysicist. That we discussed in this podcast you've written countless letters over the past. Thirty years in documented rented them in this book writing letters lost art form in the age of email texting and social media. How has reviewing and publishing these letters impacted how you live your life? I am reminded by these letters that thoughtful communication using the written word. It is something that perhaps should be rejuvenated in our culture. And we've come far from it would now communicating with emojis. I just think about that from a handwritten letter and in the old days you would have penmanship. That would express some of the mood of as a letter as well. Another dimension of communication who has provided by the writer. Not only that you might illuminate the first letter of the page. As the monks did in manuscripts that were written. So I'd like to see more thoughtful. COMMUNICATION COME FORWARD I. I wonder whether the anger that exists in social media is because we forgot how to communicate the nuances of what we you mean and what we think. They end up. Being Blunt statements that people use as reason to argue rather than as supporting words to pursue a conversation you have blended science and pop culture in an entertaining way that has gotten people who don't like our understand science interested it. How did you learn to be such an effective communicator? All I did was pay attention to people's reactions one on one when I would describe bribe science or any part of the universe to them. Do there eyebrows go up there. Did they look attentive. Did they look away. There's body language that you can do on that informs that it's feedback on whether you are communicating successfully. If You keep mental or written inventory on what works and what does not you can use that to shape future encounters. You might have with the public. And that's what I've been doing my entire life so I don't presume what I have to say is what someone will want to listen to. Instead I draw from my repository of knowledge of the universe and say to myself how can I shape ape this information and deliver it in a way that I already know can trigger enthusiastic reaction to that information. And that's what I do and I do that all all the time and when I did that with the press came back for more with documentarian they came back for more. When I did it on twitter? They came back for more. So I'm a servant of this Appetite and I'm delighted to operate in that capacity but I'm I don't forget that I'm a servant of that appetite not someone who's creating it you say that yeah. People tend to look outside of themselves especially people who are religious to find meaning in their lives. Why do you suggest people instead look inside themselves and how how has that benefit year? People look outside of themselves for meaning I in principle. There's nothing wrong with that. But if you spending your life looking for meaning and not finding it maybe it's time to look inside. That's really how I should have ever presented that point of view. If you're looking for me not finding it look inside yourself and see if you can create create the meaning. You've been searching for your entire life. And that usually means using your mind body soul your energy resources to improve either in your own life or the lives of others. It's not hard to derive meaning in those contexts meaning and purpose and value in civilization for having done so it could be small acts of kindness. You know the proverbial helping the lady old lady across the street. Is it volunteering. Charity where people are benefiting from your invested energies that can create and sustain meaning in one's life. And that's what I do in my own way. This year I worked on a global study focus on artificial intelligence with Oracle we found that people are now embracing ai and overall a positive relationship with it despite privacy and security concerns how can a improve our lives instead instead of causes harm. It's already improved our lives. Think of the things that computers are now doing that. You're not even questioning where you know. Thirty years ago. It would have been seen as sorcery. You have a thing that fits in your shirt pocket that tells you how to get to grandma's house and when and where the traffic is getting heavy and it will suggest roots for you to avoid the traffic vic and at no time is an actual human being involved in that process. That's a are you have cars. That are actively stabilizing the the axles. Because it knows what outcome you want and don't want that's why I was in the airport lounge. There's a big machine there you can get DECAF you can get expresso. You can get nine kinds of coffee plus hot chocolate pushing a button on the same machine that say I know there's another kind of a general I where it's not just a tasked machine. It is something that learns on its own and can make decisions on its own and can do different things. I don't see US heading heading that way anytime soon. Because that's not why we need something smart. We're GONNA have smart car drivers around. They will not get into accidents. That will never be drunk. They will not get distracted that will have all protections in that. We don't have for ourselves. That's a I but it's localized to a car. It can navigate from one side of the city to the other without a human intervening whatsoever. So Hey I is already upon us and I don't see some future future arrival of. Ai Is being fundamentally different. From what we've already experienced in terms of the practical workplace and what is your best piece of career advice. Do the hardest things at all times times. You will ascend a pyramid with powers of solutions that others don't have and then force people to beat a path to your door because you took harder classes then everyone else. Did you take easy classes. And everyone is equally as talented as you. And there's no way to distinguish you from anyone else in the workplace. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom Neil to follow all his journey can read his book. Letters from an astrophysicist listened to star Talk Radio and find him on twitter instagram and facebook where he shares his travels life reflections pictures she from space and time and celebrity conversations. We hope you enjoyed today. So and the amazing advice our guest provided remember that you can only benefit if it from advice if you packed on it before you do we would appreciate your feedback in the form of a review. You can leave a review on Itunes stitcher report. podcast your of your choice. Your feedback would be very much appreciated head over to Dan. 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"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

09:07 min | 9 months ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

"Are you looking to reach their full potential and achieve success in business and life want only tried and tested guidance let's see from people who have truly made an impact you have come to the right place welcome to five questions with Dan Chevelle New York ignores authors Olympians Falon Titians Billionaires Nobel Prize winners Ted speakers celebrities astronauts and more inspirational guidance practical advice and concrete solutions our power chat start sal welcome to the fifty second episode of Five Questions with Dan Shaw Bell as your host my goal secured the best advice from the world's smartest and most interesting people by asking them just five questions my guess today's documenting filmmaker and producer Morgan spurlock born in Parkersburg West Virginia Morgan graduated from New York University's School of the arts in Nineteen ninety-three he started his career as a successful playwright before benchley producing super size May and Kademi award nominated documentary that tracked his health as eight Remake Donald's meals each day for thirty days I get sick to my stomach even thinking about it this film completely changed my diet and led to my pursuit of healthy lifestyle Morgan has gone to produce several other documentaries including where in the world is Osama bin Laden freakonomics and the greatest movie ever sold more salie he releases big follow up documentary super size me to holy chicken which explores how the fast food industry has rebranded itself as healthier his first film. The film isn't what I expected at all Morgan literally goes through the entire process of opening a fast food restaurant called holy chicken in order expose the food industry I had the opportunity to sit down with him the same week he opened up a pop up restaurant in New York City so tell me commentaries and where the first steps for actually making them an producing yeah I think that I get inspiration and ideas for things all over you know could be could be in order oh mortgage dd show and then once we have that I started exploring what would I should pay to make them because then you start going down the path of wool how we've made what with the work I need to raise a lot of money and a lot of things fall off at that point but once once I'm kinda committed to making something I've never been in a situation knock on wood where I've started something you had equate never I've had friends of mine that started filming project I had to abandon them in the middle of I've never had to do that I feel very lucky but it can happen so I think for me I find us much research before I get started so that doesn't happen yeah for me I actually fell tried to give a documentary is that all the fundraising the ideas doing interviews again is so much water so much and what if something's that people don't know about fitting documentary bounce rate well you might say look what you've done a dream jobs and you will you watch love eighty watch movie legs two hours long grace two hours not begging that now realizing that in a two hour documentary which I this week for nonfiction pointing ninety minutes is the is the perfect time for moving is they don't realize that it's hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of hours they go into that that I mean any this when we shot four hundred hours footage in between one hundred and it's just an immense amount of footage that then you start whittling down into your narrative arc and yes I think that's the biggest one the other is you know it's easier not to do by yourself you know can you make me one hundred percent by yourself you can you know you can Trent wrestler that hang up and do it all solo I did a lot of work you know it takes a lot of time to buy yourself I'm a real believer that you let people do what they do best whether they're really peas or great sound in years or great editors I think people don't realize what their own limitations are none that I need to put a limitation undersell but the more you focus on one thing the more the more prolific in battery will be that one vein and the saints so find somebody who's the best those are the things we started and you view yourself as a storyteller when did you decide wanting to be a storyteller in how you know that your stories were resonating in that you were affected asteroid town over young you know when you take your seat seven years old and you tell them you know some friends here's a story on the playground and they're all listening you're laughing attention to what you're saying I mean I learned I realized early on that all I want to do is make movies shows and tell stories and it was it was against the realize that so early on so I think that you know for for me it was I was just enraptured in the media and the medium of as I was really really young I think a Lotta your films like super size me supersize me to make a huge impact the you've changed the food industry and so do you feel like you have a sense of purpose now that it's not just about creating the movie and the series but it's also about making a big impact about mark questions I think that after I made the first precise me and I went from that right into making it TV series facts thirty days where I saw actually made something that was entertaining but at the same time you know how the point of view or you know have a have a directive for people who are watching feel certain way or you know had compact culturally your star certain kind of conversation so we really boring and I got a lot of that personally really the path that I was still on how can we create something that makes you look at the way make you laugh the laugh you can make some more listen and whether that's now making making the chicken restaurant I think there's a way to have a sense of humor about what you do that and it'll taste like cotton candy once your best he approved us my best piece of career bias is it comes from disappearances IPAD growing up these tale in the movie business entertainment business business investments you need to accept the fact that most of what you try is most of what you sell work most of what you make is it going to accomplish what you initially set out to do but if you come into it saying I'm GonNa make this out of it I'm hoping for actually this is going to happen when you have it isn't like I'm just GonNa make this winning Austin or I'm gonNA crave this billion dollar food company long as I think you have steps in mind what you hope to accomplish then I'm such thing as failure everything out of step back we'll be a learning tool is stepping stone that get you to the next bigger then and when I was a kid going my father who is a serial entrepreneur I would see my father failed constantly busy create a business and it would be great that's the other thing is you just you never quit. Up Ryan keep going and you lose a user's fools so I think that the grace lesson I've got in your wisdom Morgan to follow his journey you can watch his documentary super size me to and find them on facebook twitter instagram where he shares his latest productions live appeared what is family photos and food adventures to watch the full extended video version of this episode where I asked Morgan even more questions you can go to youtube dot com slash Dan Shaw we hope you enjoyed today's show and the amazing advice our guest provided remember that you can only benefit from it advice if you packed on it before you do we would appreciate your feedback in the form of a review you can leave a review on Itunes stitcher pod catcher of your choice your feedback would be very much appreciated head over to Dan Chevelle dot com slash review now.

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"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

08:04 min | 10 months ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on 5 Questions with Dan Schawbel

"Are you looking to reach your full potential and achieve success in business and in life want only tried and tested guides. Let's from people who have truly made an impact. You have come to the right place. Welcome to five questions with Dan Chevelle New York Times bestselling author Dench Bell distills the most actionable and tangible advice from a variety of world-class humans including entrepreneurs ignores authors Olympians Falon Titians Billionaires Nobel Prize winners Ted speakers celebrities astronauts and more inspirational guidance practical advice and concrete solutions our power chat sal welcome to the forty seventh episode of five questions with with Dan Shaw Bell as your host go secured the best advice from the world's smartest and most interesting people by asking them just five questions. My guest today is is the Number One New York Times bestselling author of the Five Love Languages Gary Chapman born in China Grove North Carolina. Gary graduated the Moody Bible Institute received Bachelor's doctors and Masters degrees from Wheaton College in wake forest. He continued his education at the southwestern Baptist theological seminary receiving both a masters of religious education and a doctor of philosophy degree in one thousand nine hundred seventy one gary joined the Calvary Baptist Church in Winston Salem North Carolina and now holds the title of senior Associate Pastor in nineteen ninety two. He published his first and most notable book. The five love languages which is now sold over eleven million copies is in forty nine languages since then he authored many other books in the five love language book series including his latest entitled. Love Language Minute for couples currently currently Gary travels the world presenting seminars about building healthy relationships between couples families and teams. My ex-girlfriend suggested I take the five love languages assessment. It is scored at nine for quality time in eight for words of affirmation in only a two perceiving gifts. My Love languages profile makes sense because quality time means a lot to me and makes me the most fulfilled in any relationship I encourage you to take the assessment and I'm confident that you'll enjoy Gary's words of wisdom in this episode. You spent decades as a counselor and pastor. What is the most common mistake people make that hurts their relationships. And how do they stop making it. Oh that's a big question. You know I would say that. A lot of the biggest things is selfishness. We all see the world through our eyes is and we don't naturally see them through their eyes so learning listen to each other and be empathetic with what they're saying even if you you don't agree with them and let them share their thoughts their opinions their ideas and be able to say thank you hear what you're saying. It makes sense and it always makes sense in their head. It makes sense anatomy share my perspective and you you spend your energy trying to look for solution rather than trying to win an argument uh-huh. That's one of the key issues I think in marriage how good knowing our love languages helped bring us closer together at work and at home well. I think the love language concept deals with the deep emotional need all of us have to feel loved about a significant people in our lives and if you're married the person who would most it's like to love you is your spouse and the love language helps you to communicate love effectively. Most couples love each other they would. We love each other certainly inherited years. We love each other. We love each other but we don't always feel loved and it's because we're expressing love in a way that would make us feel but not in a why they won't make them feel that and so that's why learning the primary love language. The other person is extremely important if you're. GonNa be affected in communicating love and meeting the a deep emotionally the same principle is struggling work relationships only there we don't we don't call it love we appreciation. If we feel appreciated in workplace then we give it our best. If we don't feel appreciated <hes> then we tend to do what we can get by with. What does the delicate balance between South Care Air and care for others. I think South Carolina steps has to come first. That is the fundamentals of south care eating sleeping exercise. I mean those are the fundamentals of the physical body and then keeping emotionally healthy yourself which means working through any difficulties. What is you have a past experience that is working through those emotions of hurt and pain and anger and whatever it might be there so that you can be the person newer designed to be and then the caring comes when we care for our sales now we have the ability to reach out and care for others and that's essentially what love is it is looking out for the benefit of the other person is trying to enrich their lives. I love these accidentally opposite of selfishness and so we thank ourselves then we have the ability to reach out and genuinely love others how has technology impacted relationships and what's the best way to use it to get closer to others others without letting it get in the way you know technology can be an asset reliability to relationships the asset we can tell pretty easily you know opportunities rights to use social media to interface with each other like out of town which Im lot speaking around the country to be able to text my wife when I know she wouldn't be available to talk to her art center photo of where am what's going on in my life. It's good for our relationships so technology can really help us develop Balance Austin relationships. I think the downside is that we can be sitting in the same house. Maybe even in the same room. Both of us are advice book or some other coach. Alenia listen to what other people are saying interfacing with other people and we are physically in each other's presence but nothing going on between us where two different worlds. I think the key is to ask yourself as a couple. How can we utilize technology to enhance our relationship and what are the things so we need to avoid in order to keep away from those things that apart and what is your best piece of career advice. If we understand that lives deepest manny thing is found in serving others and you apply that to your career. Is You're asking yourself. How can I enrich the lives of other people that was walking across across the University of Virginia campus. <hes> sometime ago. I was speaking in their auditorium and in a side door etched in stone above the door org were these words you are here to enrich the world and you impoverished yourself if you forget the errand and I thought wow I had that as a motto and I wondered how many students ever stopped read that but as far as career delete nights it you seek to use your career or to enhance the lives of other people to enrich the lives of other people and when you do that chances are you not only have successful relationships which you'll also have a successful investors. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom Gary to follow his journey you can read his book. Love Language Minute for couples and find them on facebook twitter and instagram where he shares his inspirational in heartfelt quotes relationship advice helpful articles live appearances and conferences. We hope you enjoyed today's show and the amazing advice. Our guest provided remember that you can only benefit from advice. If you packed on it before you do we would appreciate appreciate your feedback. In the form of review you can leave a review on itunes stitcher for a Pod catcher of your choice. Your feedback would be very very much appreciated head over to Dan Chevelle dot com slash review now..

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"shaw bell" Discussed on Wall Street Oasis

Wall Street Oasis

04:01 min | 1 year ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on Wall Street Oasis

"Now what I did was I first stabbed a Facebook group. So this went on these one hundred individuals could interact with each other. But then I leveraged the Facebook group in order to create more humidity actions. So I did meet ups all around the country with them at hosted offices. And then I brought them all on book tour. So when I go to speak at a conference, I speak and then I moderate. Panel with two three or four of them. So I make I use them to create the whole book experience through their words. So the audience sees. Oh, wow. Like, they're these individuals are living this on a daily basis. And here's what they're doing about it. So that's one way I've gone back human in my life in terms of how I built a network. I help people out without asking for anything return. I I'd as much value as possible to other people's lives. And then if I need help eventually a percentage will want to help me, but I not resentful when someone doesn't and what I'm starting to do now because I have such a vast network I've interviewed over two thousand of the world's most successful people since I graduated college like over ten years ago, I will walk into a meeting with a successful person. And I'll ask them who the top two people that you would like to meet and either during the meeting or outs out to the meeting, I introduced them to those people so people want instant gratification. They want things to happen immediately. But most people when they network they make false promises. They say they're going to help. And then you never hear from them again. Though, I know this I've been doing this for over a decade, and I see the opportunity with a large network is to help people out immediately and Adam media value because we'll never forget you did that. Yeah. I'm I'm raising capital for business right now. And I can tell you how many incredible meetings we have and we leave them or all fired up, and we're going to introduce us to this person. And that person they're going to do this, and literally none of that stuff ever happens and we follow up and we follow up. And it's like, well, you said you were going to do this. Why aren't you doing this? And you know, that really differentiates the we call them doers and donors and the doers. Do all these things they say, and the people who don't they you know, they don't. Yeah. And for me, I know I want to do this for the rest of my life. So it's very easy for me to make these types of decisions, you know, it's very easy for me to speak for free still. It's very easy for me to do. So in a favor. It's very easy to introduce two people together, it's easy for me to, you know, put out another podcast, I've done eight episodes of five questions with Dan Shaw bell. It's easy for me to do all this stuff because I wanted to be forever, right? Some always playing the long game. I've written thousands of articles a few thousand interviews I published dozens of research studies for me, I I just wanna be kind of a reservoir of content that's valuable to people my industry and beyond my industry, but also make an impact through video images audio and my network that I'm leveraging in order to inspire others to achieve their own goals and dreams, and I'm trying to do it in the most human way. So here's another example, you know, back in the day. My interviews were you know, someone through Email somewhere phone calls. And now, I am pushing myself to do more in person interviews, I did like when with Richard Branson in person. I'm I'm doing several like to even hit. Hey in person. And so I'm I'm as an introvert. I always try and push myself. Into uncomfortable situations. I'll give you a great example, the best way to meet people at a networking event is not to go with a friend. If you go alone, you have no choice, but to meet people, otherwise you can have a really horrible night..

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"shaw bell" Discussed on KGO 810

KGO 810

07:24 min | 1 year ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on KGO 810

"Basically the world we live. Here's the conclusion of my interview with author Dan Shaw bell. You have a lot of stats and the book is not a dry read at all. So let's talk anecdotally, you interviewed about one hundred or so top young leaders younger leaders from top companies that I mean, everything from the tech companies that we're familiar with HBO walmarts in their four seasons. The United States Air Force my brothers in the air force who's doing right. What's hard? It took it took eight hundred fifty communications over three and a half months to get approvals to do the interviews and all that it was a really tough process. Yeah. But I think there's a nothing industries covered. It really represents where people are in their position right now. Like, I just said forty percent of management rolling up above I took, and there's even made directors and VP's and there and even to CEO's. So to me that give you a full flavor of what people are experiencing and what's important to them. And the the biggest thing that came out of all those injuries thing that remained consistent, which really drives home. The theme of the book. Is technology. Double edged sword. It can be good or bad. It's how you use it. And even when I interviewed Richard Branson last year, he said, you know, if you have a lot of friends outside of work, you should have an equal amount of friends at work get flexibility outside of work. You you get that at work work work. Just make sure you're getting the work done. Make sure you're doing your with the people that are supportive in that you're friendly with. And then you're going to have a better experience. And that is going to be good for the team leader, the whole company, as you know, as as a whole, I think it's important to create an atmosphere where people feel comfortable being themselves where they can share ideas. I mean look at Google's project Aristotle. They're like they tried to find out. What what the most highly effective teams are. And those teams are out leaders that create a safe space where people freely share ideas ten years ago as an executive with the broadcasting company, I tried to build something to where people could unplugged I wanted my team to be able to not have to stress every time, you know, their blackberry went off. Is that still there are you seeing that in the larger institutional lifestyle of companies, the real stratified style companies? It's happening slow because workers are putting pressure on companies and because the job market is so good. Now, the unemployment rate dropped a three point seven percent. There's a seven point seven point one million unfilled jobs in America. Right. And so. Employees have a little bit more negotiating power. And because of that they're putting pressure on the companies to give them more flexibility and to kind of just provide for their needs. Right. And so just after pay what employers really want is flexibility, healthcare coverage and learning and development opportunities not travel chapter on practice shared learning. Because I think that if you recognize someone in the workplace if you share something that can improve somebody's education in the workplace. These are all touch points. There are ways to establish a connection with someone make them feel important make them feel like they belong. Go return the favor. And so if you create a culture where people are constantly learning and sharing and recognizing others and getting rewarded people will just be their best south work, really hard. And they'll stay with the company much longer because of that. So I I think that education is not just during. You don't get educated. Just at school education is every single day for the rest of your life. Like every morning I wake up and I review the latest research for between a half hour and hour seven days a week for over ten years. I've reviewed nearly eight thousand research reports since I started all this crazy met daily habit. I think is essential. And then not just breeding a lot, and you know, learning, but actually sharing what you know with others is important in order to keep up with the changes in the economy and in business businesses moving so fast. So we have to rely on each other support each other in terms of learning and development. You have an interesting two word phrase in the book, and I wonder if we just land on that this is my next to last question experience renaissance. Can you define how you landed on that phrase? And then what that means. I think what technology has done is forced us to become more human and brought us brought out our basic human instincts. There is no adult day camps or festivals with one hundred thousand people ten twenty years ago. Right. I mean, there was Woodstock many many more more years before that. And the reason why this is all happening. The reason why is yoga retreats is because no matter how much technology we have we still need to reach out and hug and give people handshakes and talk to them in real life. And so the technology's forcing that behavior we did a study with Polycom last year over twenty five thousand employees in several countries. And we found that the technology is making people be more mindful of their communication and tone and pick up the phone more, actually. So I think the technology is actually driving more human behavior now because we have that need no matter what technology exists in how it's developed. Have you seen the the gravity blankets the gravity blankets? I and they're really really heavy and people are using their because it makes them feel like they're being. Hugged when they're at home on their couch. I just found that to be emblematic of what kind of what you're talking about. Yeah. I'm actually curious about this whole thing with cap bots and senior citizens about how chat bots are now. Keeping senior citizens less lonely, which I think is fascinating. But just in general loneliness is an epidemic globally. Just some stats. Half of Americans are lonely. Forty percent. Don't have meaningful relationships in Japan thirty thousand people die here from Lewin loneliness in the UK nine million people are lonely in two hundred thousand adults having spoken to a close friend or relative in the past month. So now, there's a minister of loneliness and the first thing that they're the government's now doing to combat loneliness. Is there an allowing doctors just prescribe socialization? Wow. It's a fascinating book. And like I said it's part of it's a career arc. So if you if you if you want to catch up if you can find any one of Dan's books somewhere along your career arc. This one's called back to human how great leaders create connection in the age of isolation. My last thing is mostly anecdotal because I was reading I opened the book and the very first the very first page of the introduction is about that black mirror episode about the score. And getting your score up. I was thinking about the Chinese Social Credit score that they're thinking about implementing in China, and that's real life. That's not black mirror. Does that ring for you? When you heard Social Credit score rolling out in China. I'm not surprised I mean, China's very technologically developed much like Japan. And I think that it's just a signal we have to be mindful of this because we don't want technology ruining our lives, you know, in order for humans to survive in a world where there's going to be more and more robots are differen-. Later is our humanity. It's our soft skills abilities to connect with one another in a way that machines can't. And I actually brought wrote the introduction and use black mirror has my friend. Patch Gambro.

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"shaw bell" Discussed on KGO 810

KGO 810

01:48 min | 1 year ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on KGO 810

"Having so many digital tools at hand is an efficient way to get things done. But it can also be alienating and lead to loneliness this week on Technomic host Jason Middleton talks for the workplace researcher about getting back to human that chat is next. Hello and welcome back for part two of my chat with author Dan Shaw bell, his most recent book back to human explores how technology and even working remotely period can seriously impact not only bottom lines for companies, but our own humanity. Let me remind you of a few statistics from dance new research and book half of Americans are lonely. Forty percent. Don't have meaningful relationships in Japan thirty thousand people die here from Lewin loneliness in the UK nine million people are lonely in two hundred thousand adults having spoken to a close relative in the past month back to human begins with a reference to the dystopia drama black mirror. I from the BBC and now on net flicks. The very first episode of the series is called nosedive nosedive. Nosedive is a satire on acceptance and the image of ourselves we like to portray and project to other styles Bryce, Dallas Howard fantastic. She's playing tactic who'd lacy who lives her life trying to please everyone makes us lost. She's lost herself in this world where she thinks that her value clever to her points. Starts. I mean. Everyone is a little heightened and false because everyone's terrified of being marked down because the consequences of that on the pleasant. So it's.

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"shaw bell" Discussed on Amazing Business Radio with Shep Hyken

Amazing Business Radio with Shep Hyken

03:17 min | 1 year ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on Amazing Business Radio with Shep Hyken

"Dan, Shaw bell, the author of the new book back to human. But before we get into the interview, I'm going to share a great customer service and lessen ready. There's a lot of power in a handwritten personal note, this is more than just a thank you note to a customer, although those are important as well. This is also about the note of appreciation is somebody who's done a great job or their goals. Well, you get the idea anything that you might want to express some sort of congratulations to anyway, my friend and colleague Ted, Janice is one of our mazing trainers at Shepard presentations. He was conducting a half day customer service. Workshop and during the break the client who happened to be the president of the company walked up to Ted in congratulated him on doing a great job. He mentioned how impressed. He was that Ted had done his homework to truly learn about the company their issues and their objectives. And of course, Ted was flattered and very appreciative of the kind words. Well, two hours later when the program was finally finished, the president of the company wrapped up the day. And again congratulated Ted on a job well done. But there was more as Ted was leaving the president handed him an envelope. No. It wasn't a check for the presentation. It was a personal hand written note again expressing his appreciation for a job. Well, done in the obvious work that he'd put into Personalizing his training program for the company now Ted couldn't wait to share it with us back at the office. He was so proud of this note, and who wouldn't be so when was the last time you receive? An accolade from your boss or a colleague at work or or even a customer. How did it make you feel some people who get notes from people they work with they saved them. Because. They're special. They have impact now years ago. I wrote about my client and friend Glenn Brown who at the time was CEO of contract freighters Inc. CFI a trucking company you might have as you're driving down the highway seen a big truck and on the side of it. It says CFI will. That's the company Glenn used to work with he had a stack of cards, and he was using to write notes to employ who deserve accolades or had a birthday or maybe an anniversary. He mentioned to me that he tries to write a short note to his employees's who don't get to see him at the office at least twice a year. He said his exact words, it lets them know, I appreciate them. Even though we never see each other. Now. Many of CFI's employs are truck drivers it seldom ever actually make it into the office and Glenn knew how to make them feel good about working at CFI. So sure there are other ways to show appreciation. There's verbal praise in Email a small gift. And appreciation lunch for employees. And there's many more ideas all of those are great signs of appreciation. And I'm not suggesting that we get any of those. However after seeing how much Ted appreciated the note from our client, which made me think of Glen Brown. I believe the handwritten note takes gestures of appreciation to the next level. Well, I hope you enjoyed this short lesson. We're going to take a short break. And when.

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"shaw bell" Discussed on The Business Builders Show with Marty Wolff

The Business Builders Show with Marty Wolff

02:02 min | 2 years ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on The Business Builders Show with Marty Wolff

"Show that this was a methodology that you could actually create a job to keep job to show gen y this wasn't some renegades path of but rather a viable career option will ryan at the time unbeknownst to me at this moment had been basically a successful founder of business called brazen careerist which was specifically geared towards gen y career professionals that were looking to learn from one another about the workforce and he was looking for a change was looking for his next opera venture the his current business partners at decided to take the business and turn into bit more of technology product he was more of a community guy and just so happened that around the same time both of us were doing various things and thinking about the way we were thinking about the world a gentleman named dan shaw bell who's a true mench true connector sort of ended up in conversations with both of us and had found basically the conversations very telling that while we were diametrically different people example i'm a hardcore extrovert he's a hardcore insurer while we were diametrically opposed human beings vision mission and heartwise we were very much alive and the things we were talking about a while coming from different sides of the spectrum we're fundamentally in dan's mind aligned for something that could really be amazing if only we were connected together as so dan basically connected the two of us after you know multiple attempts finally got us to be on a phone call and the rest is history a couple of weeks later we decided that it'd be best for ryan to join me building the launch ner council that would eventually morph into the business that we have today with the community company and was all because of the power of a single person that was connecting the dots at a higher level understood fundamentally both myself and ryan our goals are passions what we cared about and was able to make a very very smart introduction pronounce his last name again i is dan shawl bell in its spell s h i sat wbal is that correct.

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"shaw bell" Discussed on Daily Tech News Show

Daily Tech News Show

02:11 min | 2 years ago

"shaw bell" Discussed on Daily Tech News Show

"Well and and and honestly you know what i would love to see candid to do is take some steps towards opening up the i s p market which which is opened up more than it used to be used to be you know you're rogers or your shot that's it thanks by you know maybe you've got to dsl good luck with that a d d for see anything like that coming along haul like rogers shaw bell the those are are the three main names like tech savvy he's pretty good but thereby from rogers and all these smaller ones they buy from bell the thankfully crtc said i you guys have to knock it off with the d packet inspection and this shaping thing because otherwise what's the difference of buying from these wholesalers but it's really tough we are not alert population we are very spread out i live in toronto and it is only by moving that i win somewhere where he get more than like twenty megret uplift moved and it was only by moving i was able to like get off the a sal and get onto cable just because it's not in every area and companies are not gonna spend that money on not a lot of people all right well if we are ready for scotts second prediction since you guys had emerged first prediction oh no it's totally good on that i'm glad you brought up is fun thing to talk about so here's my take um we've all got some sort of a voiceactivated device in their homes now that mean people around us in this episode but there's also plenty of people out there in the world who are finally doing it we've all started to adopt this idea that we want to talk to our technology inhabit take care some things for us whether that the echoes her you know google homes or whatever it may be i think we're getting into a weird place where once again form out wars are going to start to be a thing that happens with know everything else operating systems on desktops on mobile it doesn't matter everybody wants you in their little place and that's no different here i think 2018 as the year for a very disruptive loud and seemingly out of nowhere we'll get some sort of uh.

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