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Big Changes Coming to Twitter
"Listeners. It's mike schneider here and i'm brett. Molina welcome back to talking tech. So there are changes coming soon on twitter. That's right brit. The social media platform has many new features of writing including spaces. Which is it's take on the audio chat app clubhouse clubhouse by the way no longer requires an invite so if you were interested in that you can check it out but back to twitter. Twitter is also starting to show up a feature called tip jar which allows users to send money directly to their favorite accounts. So there might be someone you see on twitter. You want to pay them. you know. Support them kind of like patriotic. Without going through victory on. I guess I guess i'm not a favorite yet. 'cause i tried to add this to mind. You know to supplement my income and no dice. so twitter's also seeking users to test it's super follows feature which will allow you to charge a monthly subscription fee for extra interactivity and content and another charging option ticketed spaces or you could charge for exclusive audio content. Now what's interesting here is that the company will take a cut based on the amount of money user makes until the user makes fifty thousand dollars. Twitter's cut his three percent after that twitter fee will increase to up to twenty percents on future earnings now. These are moves. Obviously increased revenue as the platform has grown from one hundred ninety nine million to two hundred six million monetize -able daily active users or another description. That is twitter users who could see ads when they're on the platform also in the works is something i and many other twitter's of ask for for a long time and undo tweet function. You ever sent a tweet and then you're like oh god i'd like to undo that will you can't delete it but you know a new tweet might be more elegant Twitter's testing blew a new subscription service. Let you undo tweets. That's being tested in canada and australia. how bad do i want to undo tweets. Bad enough to pay twitter. We may find out also in the early stages of testing is a down vote button which showed up for some users testing the upcoming apple. Ios fifteen now. This isn't a dislike button but sounds more like the upa vote option on. Read it and it's only on reply. So i guess you can vote or download replies on yours and others tweets now. Twitter says it's testing to understand the
Peloton Making Its Own Fitness Video Game
"Listeners. It's brought molina here. And i'm mike schneider and welcome back to talking. Tech fitness giant. Peleton wants to turn your workouts into a game. Yes that's right. Mike peleton revealed its first endeavor called lane break. It's a rhythm based game for its bike and bike plus models. David tackles the company's senior director of product of product management said in a statement posted a peleton's website that the game requires players to match or sustain their cadence or resistance during a workout to get the highest possible score now bike. Riders can control their cadence with their legs speed and switch lanes by turning the resistance. Knob on their bikes. They'll also face multiple obstacles which are all synchronized to the beat of the music. They're listening to Tackle cities excited at the prospect of games helping the fitness space appeal to a wider audience. Of course it shouldn't be too surprising because we've seen a lot of big companies lately seem to dip their toes into the gaming space Amazon is about to launch a new open world. Online game called new world later this year. Meanwhile google continues work on. Its stadia cloud gaming platform and of course as we mentioned in yesterday's talking tech episode netflix hired a video game veteran from electronic arts which has fueled speculation the streaming giant might also make a play for video game fans. Well there's certainly seems to make sense. Amine peleton bike rides are kind of interactive experiences. Anyway you know and fitnesses made for application you know to keep exercisers interested in state. Of course you know it. It helps break the monotony of whatever. You're a regular workout is. I'm as you know. For instance like the apple. Fitness app has three rings for exercise. Stand in a movie in each
The Marxist Environmental Movement Is Really a De-Growth Movement
"This as to expose what certain of its leading advocates have to say. There s a what is D Growth from an activist slogan to a social movement Leading D grow Thurs Frederico de Maria. Francoise Schneider. Fuck Asuka Lava! And Joan Martin Layer Sounds like a fiction on us. Right. That D growth was launched in the beginning of the 21st century is a project of voluntary societal shrinking of production and consumption. Aimed at social and ecological sustainability. It quickly became a slogan against economic growth and developed into a social movement. This is them. Unlike sustainable development, which is a concept based on false consensus, the growth does not aspire to be adopted as a common goal by the U N or anybody else. The idea of socially sustainable D growth are simply d growth. Was born as a proposal for radical change. So the contemporary context of neoliberal capitalism appears as a post political condition, meaning a political formation that forecloses the political prevents the politicization. Particular demand, So in other words, like most Marxists No halfway measures here. What do you mean sustainable growth. We are d growth, not just no growth. De growth. Pipelines and everything else. Within this context, D growth is an attempt to re politicized the debate a much needed socio ecological transformation. I'm quoting them. Affirming dissidents with the current world representations and search for alternative ones D grow challenges the idea of green growth or green economy, and the associated shouldn't belief And economic growth is a desirable path and political agendas.
Confirmed: We Played a Lot More Video Games During Pandemic
"After the show to learn about special financing for talking tech listeners listeners. It's mike schneider here and i'm proud. Molina wilkin back to talking tech. Mike i know we wrote stories during the pandemic about people playing video games as we were forced to adopt a stay at home lifestyle but now there are some actual survey findings support. This tried brett. The entertainment software association. And that's the trade group that puts on the annual electronic entertainment expo which we refer to fondly as e three That association just released its annual essential facts about the video game industry report and found that more than half of video game players fifty five percent so that played more games during the pandemic and most players ninety percent so they'll continue playing after the country opens up. This is based on a four on four thousand. Us adults surveyed by the market research. Firm ipsos For the usa now some other findings Respondents said that video games provided stress relief. That was from fifty five percent of them and forty eight percent. Said you'll games provided a distraction Parents also said that video games churches in escape in a break for the kids. That's seventy one percent of parents surveyed said and more than half a parents. Fifty nine percent said their children play educational games in two thirds of parents. Sixty six percent said video games made the transition to distance learning easier for their kids. Some other interesting fact survey overall two hundred twenty seven million americans say they play video games and that's up from two hundred and fourteen million the year before. I don't know what you think. The average age of video game players brett but they are thirty one years old. How many games identify as female. Forty five percents Eighty percent of the game players in the us are over. Eighteen
The Aftermath of That Global Internet Outage
"Listeners. Mike schneider here i'm brett. Molina and welcome back to talking tech. If you were up early tuesday morning than likely noticed. Several big websites like amazon read it twitch even usa. Today were down as part of a massive global internet outage the roughly hour-long disruption has been linked back to the cloud content company. Fastly saying it was caused by service configuration. That they've since disabled. That's right bread so most of us have not heard of fastly. But it's a san francisco based content delivery network or cdn now. Other big cd ends are amazon. Miami cloud fair and what they do companies such just the new york times. Usa today get hub. Pinterest and others is a thousands of computer servers around the us and around the globe where they cash or store content so when you click and want to read a story or page or watch a video. It's faster than if you had to go to new york or wherever the online site is in the physical world now. It's likely interruptions like this. What happened again and again. Because so much of what we do now involves cloud computing with everything from the software with which we communicate with our coworkers to our entertainment systems to on online delivery. And all these things we do on our phones now redundancy of networks having backup systems probably prevent outages from happening more often in the experts. I talked to about the situation suggest. That's a lesson we should all take personally for instance. If you only have important files on your computer or they're stored in the cloud you might want to add. Another layer of redundancy. So maybe a second computer holds copies of the files and they're encrypted or perhaps you store them on an external hard drive or usb memory stick and keep them somewhere not at your
Apple Watch Is Becoming More Accessible With 'Assistive Touch' Features
"Either listeners. It's brett molina. And i'm mike schneider and welcome back to talking tech apple watch users know that can use their device hands free. Thanks to siri but soon you can use your watch by performing simple hand gestures. That is correct. Apple introduced this feature. That's coming out later this year. Call the system touch and it's been added to help users with limited mobility Basically this is how it works. It uses several different components of the watch including the gyroscope and accelerometer to detect. How your muscles and tendons move on your hand and wrist so for example it will recognize if you clench your fist. Or if you pinch with your thumb and index finger and it'll tie that to specific functions that you want so one example that they showed a
Roku Channel Adds Quibi Shows
"They listeners. Mike schneider here. And i'm brett molina and welcome back to talking tech so mike whatever happened to that video app funny mentioned that i think folks will remember the short live video service that launched in april twenty twenty by former dreamworks animation ceo. Jeffrey katzenberg and former ebay ceo. Meg whitman it got. Its name qube from quick bites or video snacks of eight to twelve minutes ideal for riding the subway or bus or in newburgh or waiting in line unfortunately justice launch the nation shut shutdown with the corona virus and started binging seasons of long form content. So could be shut down six months later in october. Twenty twenty then. In january twenty twenty one roku announced it was acquiring quibbles content for its own growing roku channel and now brokers gonna make a huge chunk of that library thirty shows available may twentieth which roku celebrate to streaming day. That's the day it shipped its first streaming player back in two thousand eight back then. It was called the netflix player by roku because roku he don't know began as a part of netflix and then was spun out of the company. Now some folks have seen this content because qube has more had more than one million downloads tap when it launched initially but for most of this. This is going to be new stuff. One of the shows hashtag free. Ray sean has already won short-form creative arts emmy awards for stars laurence fishburne and jasmine separate jones. There's also show starring sophie. Turner of game of thrones and liam hemsworth of the hunger games and christoph waltz specter. There's also documentaries Called ball and big rad wolf. And there's reality shows. I like christie's court where chrissy teigen presides and the revived punked hosted by chance. The rapper. also. Come into roku this week. A double helping of kevin hart who die.
Good Luck Finding a PlayStation 5
"Listeners. Molina and i'm mike schneider and welcome back to talking tech so bread. Sounds like getting a playstation five. Isn't going to get any easier anytime soon. Yeah unfortunately all those people that thought after the holidays like meet start seeing more of them. That does not seem to be the case now. According to a bloomberg report. Sony recently warne analysts. It's popular video. Game console will remain under tight supply constraints through twenty twenty to the report which cites several unnamed sources who attended a briefing between sony and analysts. Said that its chief. Financial officer hiroki to toki toll analysts demand had been so strong for the ps five that even if they did get more devices. There's so much demand for it that the supply can't keep up both the. Ps five and microsoft's xbox series x have been difficult to find on store shelves or online retailers because of insatiable demand and there's also a global semiconductor shortage that is playing a part in this to during its own earnings call last month. Microsoft's officer amy hood said xbox has experienced record engagement as well as what she calls. Demand that significantly exceeded supply for both the series x and the s console.
12 Minutes: A New Time-Loop Thriller Video Game
"Learn more at atlassian dot com. Hey listeners mike schneider here and i'm brett molina and welcome back to talking tech so mike i hear you got to check out a new video game recently. That's right but i haven't gotten to see a lot of games lately covering all kinds of other stuff but it's going to be that time of year when we see a lot of games being revealed and a lot of games coming out. So i'm assuming. I'm gonna have more gaming in my future but the game we're talking about today is called twelve minutes. It's an upcoming game from independent publisher and a puna interactive They have a good history of indie games. Including what remains of edith finch florence outer wilds and sayonara. Wild hearts The premise of twelve minutes is kind of scary. A husband and wife sit down at the dinner table. There's a knock on the door in intruder claims to be a police officer. We don't know what's happening yet really Interrupts evening puts handcuffs. Claims wife is guilty of murdering her father. The wife's take it away but the husband wakes up in kind of groundhog day fashion with the events about two replay. But he remembers what happened. So it's the players job plan as the husband to figure out how to prevent his wife's abduction and the attack the resulting in getting knocked out. Now what adds to the mind. Bending mystery here is that everything occurs in a small apartment. So you have an open room. That's a kitchen dining room sitting room. You have one bathroom and bedroom and the point of view is top down so you know this isn't like a gigantic open world type game. You know like grand theft auto or anything like that. It's very small so you're kind of thinking. How am i gonna be able to solve this. And that's what kind of has kinda got me and shouldn't be able to play this game when it comes
Remembering a Video Game Pioneer
"Hey listeners mike schneider here in molina and welcome back to talking tech so mike. I remember a while back. You were writing the story about jerry lawson who is a black pioneer the video game industry. The folks might know about and his name has come back in the news again. That's right Jerry lawson who passed away in two thousand eleven was an engineer and designer at fairchild camera and instrument company in silicon valley there. He led a team that created a game system called the fair fairchild video entertainment system now a lot of you may not have heard of that and the reason you may not have heard of this because a year later the atari twenty six hundred came out in nineteen seventy seven but the reason the fairchild consoles important is because that was the first one that could play an unlimited number of games because it was the first us games on cartridges. Obviously that led to eventually an entire video game industry. You know where you could buy whatever game she wanted and put him in play them and take them out and changed another game. A lot of the early game systems had all the games. Hardwired in or they used other more rudimentary types of data. Anyway so now. The usc games program at the university of southern california in los angeles has announced the gerald lawson endowment fund for black and indigenous students at it's an initiative to increase the minority representation in games in tech and the grand will be known as lawson scholars and a familiar name take two
Hands on With Apple's AirTags
"Either listeners. It's brett molina. And i'm mike schneider and welcome back to talking tech. Add one more device to apple's growing roster and it might come in handy if you tend to lose your stuff yeah. Recently apple released its airtags which is a tiny device. Similar to tile or samsung's galaxy smart tags. It's about the size of a game piece from the game checkers and what it'll do is help you track your keys wallet anything else that you're worried about losing each airtags cost twenty nine dollars or you can get a four pack on apple's website or retailers for ninety nine dollars you can also purchase a variety of different holders and key rings the range between thirteen dollars to around forty I have been testing them out for a little while. Now and i've tried them on a couple of different items. Try them on a backpack. I've tried them on my keys. i also tried them on a stuffed bunny in our household name buttons who is a treasure here and often gets lost The setup for this is pretty straightforward. You know you put a little plastic tab on the back that activates the airtags. You'll then get a prompt on your phone to connect then you'll go in and label what this airtags connected to see a lot of different options. It can be your keys your wallet. Your bag whatever. It is And when she pick that you're good to go so if you do lose your keys or you lose buttons and buttons and keys actually have an airtight equipped. How do you find so the cool. Addition they have here is This option call precision finding so iphones have the find my app. Which is what we use to locate our iphone or whatever devices we have connected to our accounts but with precision. Finding you'll go to a section that is for items and once you've reached a certain distance from the item. You'll notice on fine. My it'll shift from directions to find and what it'll do is that there will be a green display the pops up see an arrow. And it'll show you the approximate distance. You're away from your item. So and it's weird because it's kind of like you're playing that hot or cold game In the way it works is as you move through and get closer. Your iphone will start buzzing really lightly and then it gets stronger and stronger the closer you get
Empire State Building Owner to Buy 300 Million Kilowatt Hours of Wind Energy
"For almost a century. The tall spire of the empire state building has lit up the new york city skyline at night in recent years those lights have been powered by renewables. Since two thousand eleven the skyscraper has been buying wind energy to offset one hundred percent of its electricity. Use now empire state realty trust which owns the building is doing the same for all of its properties which total more than ten million square feet of commercial real estate to meet that goal. The trust agreed to buy more than three hundred million kilowatt hours of wind power over three years. That's enough energy to light every house in new york state for a whole month. And so we're really proud of the commitment that we've made dana. Robin schneider is the trust director of energy and sustainability. She says that by committing renewables large property owners can make significant cuts in carbon pollution. And they can help accelerate the broader transition to a clean energy economy as the investments growing continue in renewable energy. That's always a good thing. It's a critical way to encourage the development of renewable power
Reminder: Apple Makes a LOT of Money
"Net listeners. It's molina and i'm mike schneider and welcome back to talking tech. I know you have an iphone. And i bet you've used a lot during the coronavirus pandemic. Oh absolutely i got an iphone. Twelve many a few months ago. And i really like it. And if you ask anyone in my household they probably think that My phone is a part of my body. At this point. you're not alone. Longtime a new apple. Device users have been relying on the company's products and services in recent months. We know that because apple this week announce another outstanding quarter. And we're talking to january twenty twenty one march twenty twenty one time period in terms of device sales and revenue from services. Let me throw some results. Sales of ipads rose seventy seven percent. Compared to a year ago amounts to seven point. Eight billion mac. Computer sales increased sixty nine percent to nine point. One billion apple also sold sixty six percent more i phones generating sales of forty eight billion. That's the company's biggest ever march quarter and in terms of wearables homes and accessories. That's a specific category. That includes apple. Tv players apple watches. Sales rose twenty four percent to seven point. Eight billion so across the board day saw increases and then also you and i both written about apple services like apple music app news apple tv plus icloud apple fitness things like that will revenue from services grew twenty seven percent to sixteen point. Nine billion overall added more than forty million paid subscriptions during the quarter to surpass six hundred and sixty million total. So you add all this up. And apple's overall revenue rose fifty four
How Will Biden Administration Reach Its Clean Energy Goal?
"President biden's administration said a big climate goal two zero out greenhouse gas emissions from power plants by twenty thirty five last week we talked with epa administrator michael regan about this believe that we can set up the right policy instrumentation and regulatory framework to encourage continued innovation to get us to that carbon-neutral goal that we know we can't achieve continued innovation. Industries still has to figure some of this out. So what more do we know about how the government is going to encourage it. Npr's jeff brady has been following up. Jeff good morning good morning. I just wanna know. 2035 sounds really distant. And then you start counting fourteen years not that long when you talk about changing all the power plants in the country house administration going to do it. Well you know is getting. The details are getting a little bit clear from the president's budget proposal and groups talking with the administration about this Details are still being worked out but a central focus is creating a national clean energy standard. And this would be a countrywide requirement that overtime increasing of is generated from fuels that don't emit the greenhouse gases that fossil fuels do conrad schneider at the clean air task. Force says it's similar to renewable energy standards that many states have they essentially required an increasing percentage electricity sales from renewable energy like clean energy standard simply broadens the list of energy resources that are eligible under the standard so in addition to wind and solar. This national standard would include things like hydropower and nuclear and another bit of detail. Here of energy likely will create this standard. And that's a little controversial. Some of the epa to do it. It's better known for setting and enforcing standards but some of the largest environmental groups. Say what's important is it. It gets
Congress questions Texas officials about power grid failure
"Us congress wants to know why the texas power grid failed during last month's freeze that left millions in houston without power and frigid temperatures. At least twenty five deaths in harris county have been linked to the freeze government reporter. Andrew schneider says houston's maher urged congress to ensure the texas legislature will act against future extreme weather mirror silvester. Turner blasted texas lawmakers for their lack of action. In the past he told members of the house energy oversight subcommittee that i the texas legislature needs to recognize that climate. Change is real. He then turned to changes. He recommended as a state lawmaker a decade ago we can no longer rely just on the market incentive system that will have to be requirements to weatherize our system. That's that's a month and if we're going to continue to be a close grid erkaya ninety percent covering the state of texas and we have to take every necessary steps to make sure that adequate energy supply in peak demand. Turner pushed back frequently against assertions by members of congress and one of his fellow. Witnesses that an over reliance on renewable energy contributed to the grids failure. He noted that the cold weather shutdown gas-fired and coal fired power which account for the bulk of the state's electricity. Not just wind
Verizon Joins the Cloud Storage Party
"Listeners. It's mike schneider. And i'm brett molina and welcome back to talking tech listeners. If you're like me you're constantly creating a bigger data profile with the hundreds of pictures and videos on your smartphone not to mention documents and other data on your computer. I can definitely relate read and you have to be diligent to backup those important digital files just in case something bad happens to your phone or computer. There's already lots of cloud services willing to help out and most of the big names offer some pre storage but a familiar name has a new unique cloud storage plan for you to consider and i wrote about it. The stories up on tech that usa today dot com. It's called berezin. Cloud which the nation's biggest wireless providers about the begin marketing widely. But it's available now and you can get an unlimited storage for photos videos any other files for nineteen ninety nine a month. Now you have to verizon wireless or phya subscriber but you can give up to four of the people access to have their own accounts within your overreach and account and they can each create private files you know with a pen or some type of biometric
Roundy's warehouse shooting suspect identified as employee of more than 20 years
"Yet to announce what prompted a longtime employee to shoot two co workers at the round his distribution center in a condom walk this week, heaven cloth of German town and Kevin Schneider of West Allis shot and killed Tuesday night. Police say Fair on Cornelius of Wauwatosa later took his own life Walking County Sheriff Eric See Person enforcement is in a Difficult situation where we want to answer the question why, but we also want to be sensitive to all of the family and the friends in the community. Recognizing that there is no justification investigators have instead of race played a role. The victims were white. The suspect black
Nicole Perlroth On The Cyberweapons Arms Race
"Nicole peril roth on the cyber weapons arms race nicole statement at the end of your book which is a pretty serious indictment of the us government. That i think sums up the thesis of the book you say quote the very institutions charged with keeping us safe have opted time and time again to lead us more vulnerable unquote it. You explain with that means and just tell us what the books about shore. So what that means is that. In order to preserve our espionage operations are battlefield preparations in the digital realm. It necessitates these days. This tradeoff that basically entails leaving americans more vulnerable when you find a hole in the system and you decide that you can use that whole to spy on our enemies or drop a cyber weapon on their grid. One day there was no problem with that three or four decades ago when we were all using different systems but these days we all use the same systems. We all use iphones and androids and microsoft windows whether you know it or not and siemens industrial software and schneider. Electric industrial software. Were all using it for our critical infrastructure. So if you find a whole no systems and you decide that you're not going to get it fixed so that you might able to exploit at one day for espionage or surveillance or a gun. Cyberattack you are leaving americans more vulnerable these days and when i wrote that sentence i wasn't even just talking about the nsa or command or or some of our other spy agencies. I was really talking about the entire system. You know microsoft. They've come a long way but it is holes in their products in their technology. That just able this. Latest chinese attack on our systems solar winds that did not catch the fact that the russians were essentially using it software update as a trojan horse to get into our federal. It networks you know. No one is incentivized to seriously look at security. They are incentivized to get their product to market to cut costs to keep shipping and government. They're incentivized to spy on as many people as possible in the name of protecting americans but the problem is we have this moral hazard in this trade off now where it effectively left a lot of americans less safe so that that is the nut of the buck i really wanted to explore. The is incentive structures. I wanted to look at this because from my vantage point. I've been covering nonstop cyber-attacks the new york times and you know ten years ago. When i started. I could cover one attack every week or every other week but steady getting a little bit worse now. They're all happening simultaneously from so many corners of the globe and they are so costly. Not just for american businesses and government. They're costly for hospitals. There was just a a ransomware attack on a hospital that costs the hospital. Ten million dollars and an american cities and towns so remind vantage point things. Were getting a lot worse. And we had no interest in legislating that critical infrastructure operators up their security. We had no interest in exacting penalties for companies. That didn't take their security seriously. So i really just wanted to look at the incentive structures if going to rely on our free market economy to sort of dictate the terms of our security. I wanted to understand what those incentives were and if there was any opportunities to correct
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"I would I would talk to my fourteen year. Old Self may fourteen year olds off was really bad at math with starting to struggle with depression and eating disorders and was pretty freaked out by the world and I would tell her that She could look forward to a really awesome life and doing really hard things that are unimaginable right now but to stick in her pocket the knowledge that she could do hard things. I love that I love that I remember being young and thinking. I was terrible at math. I told myself this story and realizing how capable we are much later on in life that I love that. So if you were to The transitioning from this earth and you had a nugget of gold wisdom or that you wanted to leave behind for the next generation as your legacy. What would it be and I feel like emotional but other people matter above all else they love that I am? I was asked this question by someone else on another podcast and it was funny because in the past it's always been like you're a very powerful and I took it a second and I always find the humanity and the other people because I think so many times we just. We want to put people into buckets and we become so self obsessed and We all matter every yeah. Yeah we can't do it alone. We would be very very bored. We're learning right now. If we didn't have other people a hundred percent I love the human capacity for connection and love and creativity that I'm finding like all the weird creative ways that we're finding to connect to each other and give each other like little love notes you know whether it's virtually or drive bys my daughter doesn't know yet but her birthday's coming up and and so I am. I have just organized a parade right a car parade outside enemies so much fun And it's just it's really cute because you see how much people want to connect and and be available and I think it's beautiful. I want to thank you so much for spending time with me today and sharing your wisdom with our audience if people want to follow your journey. Where can they go? Yeah absolutely so I Journey coaching it's Jr. and I and we are at journey dot. Co and you can find us on Instagram at journey coaching. I am kindness. Gangsta on instagram. And if are interested in learning about how to become a coach using the science that I talked about. Today it's journey. Dot Co back slash podcast? Thank you so much for joining us today. Thank you thank you so much for joining today. I loved this conversation. A little heartedly. We are amazing beings with the ability to get in front of ourselves or old patterns and trauma with a bit of self awareness and some basic rewiring. You can find no l. At Journey DOT CO and on instagram at kindness. Gangsta as always subscribe to this podcast lever of you and don't forget to share with your friends. You can find me on Instagram at either. Ms Dot Schneider or the lives movement at love is viral dot media or live at love is viral dot com. Get deepen the work with me to uncover your messaging before you pass it on to your children or the people you influence order my book. Lor Harnessing your pass to create your future available on Amazon or Barnes and Noble Dot Com until next time in the words of my grandma love each other every day..
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"And I didn't even realize it and I. I didn't become aware of that. Probably told college and I've been working on that for my entire adult life and just even this past week. We were gathered in our living room. I don't even remember. It was after dinner or something and my wife was talking to me about making a decision on a vacation later this year and she said I think we should wait until we see what's going on or whatever and I said back. Something of the nature of your. That's what we talked about like. That's how I'm thinking that I'm saying yeah that's how we yeah. That's what we talked about. And she didn't hear it that way and that's because I didn't say it that way You know I said probably something more to the nature of. Yeah I mean that's what we already talked about. And she's like Whoa and then my daughter who's twenty. I and you know it became this family conversation where my wife said well. Yeah but that's not really how you said it and my daughter goes yeah. It was the tone and I'm like Oh man and so now I'm in this moment and I'm trying to just get through it and then the next day my wife and I are taking a walk on the beach on Saturday morning like we do and she said I gotTa tell you. I really felt belittled by you in that moment. And you know your tone was really intense and she ahead and and No defensiveness on my part because it. This is not to the place. It's like you said information. I know I have a tendency to be too direct or in those moments when I feel triggered or if I feel In some way I don't know like there's an awkward moment there where I'm feeling triggered and I say something I know that that's the case. So now when she comes to me and says it she's not telling me new information this old information and I feel bad. I feel compassion right and I just go. I Apologize I apologize. I take full responsibility for that. And it's something I continue to work on and I'm sorry did not want to make you feel that way so anyway. That's just to say I'm in the midst of it too right. I'm in the midst of those challenging conversations. That's my way of of dealing with to take responsibility and then say okay. How can I make immense move forward? How can I do better? I love that I have a One of our contributors is she refers to it as radical responsibility and I absolutely adore it because it requires some bravery and some humility. He no because I think our natural inclination especially with the people that are closest to us is just like. Oh my God. You're being too sensitive like you know like you know how I how I talk like this is the same old fight and I think it's really interesting when we get to a place where it's like you can hear what your partner is saying not from a place of reactivity but take responsibility for their experience and that's one of the things that we've been having a conversation about in our house especially with little people it's like you have to take responsibility for even if you didn't mean to mean that well you didn't mean it but you also have to be aware of the container right. You have to be aware of how it's received and a lot more intense analogy but I love the idea of taking radical responsibility. Not only in in recognizing the negative and someone argued. And I'd be curious what you think about this. I'm GONNA argue the other day because I referred to having both positive and negative aspects of your personality and it was really interesting because she was like let me challenge you to think of them as being net neutral. They're all parts of who you are. And so many of the things that you consider negative also our survival right their survival tactics. They are based possibly some of them on trauma or bad experiences or your own negative emotions and feelings. They're not bad they're simply who you are. But if we are more aware of all traits and aspects of our personality we learn how okay. This is part of my personality that come across as well as I wanted to. But we'll save me in like a dangerous situation like maybe I dialed this one back. What's your opinion? Do you feel like how do you think the the paradigm of our our personalities should be viewed as we're trying to figure out who we are? Yeah I would probably turn it more. Like helpful or unhelpful. So my intensiveness if you WANNA negotiate for car deal. Let me tell you on the guy that you want to take If you want something Justice to be like the unique justice in a situation. I'm the guy that you want on your team if you want somebody to believe in you with deep passion. I'm there if you if you want me to be like ultrasensitive in the moment Like without having to prepare. I'm probably it's probably not that. That part of my personality is not very helpful so I have a friend who always says asked a question. How do I get what I want? All right not in a selfish way but in a genuine way. Well let's see. What do I want in my relationship with my wife? I want to be connected. I WANNA feel like we're partners. We are partners. I WANNA feel intimate. I WanNa feel a close okay. So will that intense style of communication. Does that? Get you those results? Does that help you get those results? Not Really No. It doesn't like it helps me PERV. Point Okay what does that really get you? What you want ultimately do is proving a point what you ultimately want and your relationship. Not really no okay. Well then how do you get what you want? How do you develop those skills and tools to get what you want in life? Sometimes those parts of my personality can be very helpful in getting me what I want other times. They're not as helpful. And so did I put that tool back on the tool belt. A lot of us especially those of us who are more intense. We have like one or two tools in the tool belt and one is like a sledgehammer once. Jackie right and it's like everything looks like a nail like Baba. How do we put that toolbag and try some other tools? What are some other tools? It might get you what you really really want in life. I love that. That's I mean it's such a I'm very versed in choice theory and that's part of it is like there's basic needs. We all need our needs met in a selfish way. But how do you do that in a productive way? Especially when you're when you're living life alongside other people who are having your own hole in human experience and realizing like everyone's not beholding to yours so I just I think that's so valuable. I'm so I am curious so I have a couple of questions that I ask everyone. I want to ask you based on your experience if you were to give advice to your younger self based on the experiences you've had to date what advice how would I how would you be. And secondly what advice would you give I would probably say I would be eighteen and say find ways and find people to help you enjoy the journey Enjoy how do you figure out a way to enjoy the journey of life? Rather than pushing and striving so much. I love that I so at the end of My grandparents lives and of mine. Who is elderly thought with them prior to their passing and that was one of the key messages that it's about the relationships in your life and the striving after material things and success. And what have you and even the arguments that we have are not as important as the people who are next to you throughout your life and at the end of your life so I think it's a valuable such a valuable message if you were to be transitioning from this world and one to leave. Find some gold nuggets of wisdom our inspiration. What would they be? Well I'M GOING TO DIE. Would hundred genetic we'll see you know. I've got fifty three years left. I'm not even halfway done long life. Adamy Midlife I know yeah and so I told my wife I go to see now. I'm GONNA live to one hundred hundred die that night so just put me to sleep at night. No I'm done I've hit the hit. The goal line you know I I would tell people you have to be intentional. You know whatever it is that you want out of this life. The hoping the wishing dreaming is all fine. But there's got to be a level of high intention and action in order to cultivate. Whatever it is you want whether it's certain types of relationships a business education physical health. Whatever it is there's gotta be intention and intention on a daily basis. That's what's allowed to do what I do yes. I think that's valuable as well. Because of the fact that there are so many people who kind of they say their prayers. They do their mantras. They believe the Vision Board. But then they they they stop just short of the intentionally in the action and it's so incredibly important to incorporate those those active steps into your life. It's almost like the road rises to meet you when you take that first step and kind of starts to to come back your way. I have really enjoyed our conversation today and I really enjoyed your book. I actually have these little cards that you have that are the the empowerment cards with a manifesto as well as some. I am statements which I think are so valuable to help people kind of speak to that. Inner flame within themselves. If they WANNA follow your find you. Where should they go? Yeah well our website is in SPO- rising dot com. The book and power derives is available on Amazon as well but the podcast raising podcast and resources are all in sport rising dot com and that's where Social media is a well all inspir- Isaac. I love it. Thank you so much for being with me today. I really appreciate you tonight. It's been great to be with you. Thank you so much for joining us today. I Love David's reminder. That hopes and dreams are great but intentionally and action are where the magic becomes felt. You can find David. And His podcast at INSPIRESLEEP DOT COM and follow him on social at Info rising as always. We subscribe to this podcast lever of you and don't forget to share with your friends. You can find me on Instagram at either. Ms John Schneider or the live movement at loves viral dot media or live at love is viral dot com. Get deepen the work with me to uncover your messaging before you pass it on to your children or the people you influence order my book. Lor Harnessing your past to create your future available on Amazon or Barnes and Noble Dot Com until next time in the words of my grandma love each other every day..
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"Gold with Jeanette Schneider negative inspiration for a bigger better more purposeful life each week. We share wisdom insights in gold from those living. Their lives after twenty three years in finance. I left my executive role to advocate for. Women and girls in life love the boardroom and the marketplace now the CEO of lived media. I am thrilled to create wellness base content and technology southie level up and become more conscious of your ripple the live. App launched Christmas Day for Apple. Ios This purposeful content big conversations and a beautiful place for us to share our gold. Our Dreams and create community. Gold is a live media production brought to you from the sound studio at the live headquarters Elizabeth Cavaliers there is such thing as narcissism but the pathological and nurses Dick Personality Disorders. Where the darker issues lie. In this conversation Elissa shares the clinical definitions of nurses them gas lighting. And what it means to walk on eggshells. She offers advice for those. Who are insist how to protect your heart and how to leave them. Elissa is a psychotherapist in private. Practice located in Sherman Oaks California. She received her bachelor's degree at cow. Poly State and her master's in social work at the University of Southern California. She's provide clinical treatment with the child and Adolescent Psychiatric Clinic at Harbor. Ucla with the Child and Family Guidance Center and as an independently since contractor with canceling for kids she has experienced providing nine years of therapy in the outpatient and residential setting her professional experience also includes providing supervision for mental health professionals and individual and group setting currently in private practice. She treats anxiety depression and trauma using a combination of cognitive behavior. Therapy and inner child killing. Let's stick in welcome to go. This is John Schneider and I'm so excited with me today. Elissa cow. Thank you for joining. Thank you so much for having me. I am excited to talk to you because I have. We have a topic today. That has come up in a lot of my conversations. And it's so interesting because I feel sometimes that certain words are used almost in pop culture as catch alls and not necessarily because someone's received the diagnosis spoke because we like to diagnose our friends and the people that we've either been in love with or currently in love with and so I wanted to talk to you because of the fact that you've you've written about this is something that you cover in your practice I want to talk about narcissism and I've had so many people reach out to me and say can you provide some contacts or content so that we understand How to support one another when it comes to dealing with someone with narcissistic personality disorder. And what the differences between that and someone who might just be self absorbed because I think sometimes we like to like throw bucket catch off raises at people and I was curious from your perspective. If you would be able to kind of help set the stage for us as to the difference between and then maybe we could dig in a little bit too it. Someone could expect to see if they're actually dealing with someone in their life. Who has this as a disorder? Sure so look off by talking about what narcissism in right. So what does he do? Demand is a grandiose sense of self it the kind of like exploitation of behavior where you lack empathy and you take advantage of people and you're really only concerned about yourself right so that's kind of like the narcissism that we hear in pop culture but but but we also have a we also have healthy narcissism and know. That's kind of weird to hear because every time somebody hears the word narcissism attached to something incredibly negative but what healthy narcissism is. Is this ability to kind of take pleasure in your joys. WanNa share what you've done with your friends? It's the ability to be able to believe in yourself if they -bility to be able to be proud of what you've done right. I think everybody has certain level of healthy narcissism to be able to engage in public speaking to be able to Teacher subject to be able to go on public and be the center of attention but then we have something called pathological narcissism which entered the realm of narcissistic personality disorder These are the people who take the truth from the first example but then they are. Those behaviors ongoingly. This is who they are. They frequently like to be in the center of attention. They need to be in the center of attention and they will do anything they can to make things about themselves and this includes Hurting the people they love or supposed to live this. Include lying to the people closest to that and this include exploiting others for personal gain because the difference between healthy narcissism and pathological isn't healthy narcissism. It the moment Perry thing I like you can go in public and you can be can feel like wow what. I'm saying a really good. I'm really proud of myself. And then he's talked to cody. I'm and you're kind of back to reality and like wow. That was great. And then you can make things about other people and you can be there for other people that healthy narcissism them but then with pathological narcissism inability to stop it. It is never about other people in always about that. One person that makes them does and I'm curious because this debate that I've heard with a lot of folks in kind of the personal development space do you think that Pathological Narcissism or personality sort of nurses do personality disorder are. Is that an issue with. Is THAT BRAIN. Chemistry is it learned because of trauma. What is the trigger to heading down that road when you're talking about the the more complicated complex and darker version of narcissism is it? Is it something that has to do with our brain chemistry or is it something that we have created in order to survive? I'M GONNA actually go with. This is a really good question. I'm going to go with a lottery explanation. This is something that people human beings have created in order to survive oftentimes look got people with true narcissistic clinical personality disorder have a severe and complex childhood history of trauma Way So you know what we see as they live in environments that was neglectful non affirming and and really just overall abusive one other mental emotional physical and so in order for them to shut down parts of themselves right. They had developed this coping mechanism. And they believe somehow this is narcissism really developed in an effort to To not feel weak again Get taken advantage of again. So it's A. It's a math that put on but then it is. It has to be extreme and it's developed the survival mechanism in order to not get hurt again and to really limit their vulnerability arrive. Keep all so you can see kind of narcissistic tendencies in junior high school. Back right after High School really becomes solidified into like a personality. Yeah and I know we joke around. That children are primarily assisted in nature because the world revolves around them and they take a lot of responsibility for what happens. The world thinking that Divorces there fall Struggles are their fault. They they really do that but then as they get older. Eight nine ten. They start to actually see that. They're kind of interwoven and interconnected with the world around them and it's not necessarily so much about them so it sounds like those. Those kids who are in trauma traumatic family situations have a tendency to kind of this becomes just who they are. They're kind of rewiring themselves in order to survive and do narcissus recognize that they're narcissist. That's a good question And I know a lot of people. I want to kind of backtrack a little bit. I know a lot of people especially.
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"I can't imagine you know that would be very hard. That would have been a very a very big Gift and a lot of maturity for a twenty year old. Do you know what I mean to to stay present but I think that that's really beautiful unimportant because so many times we become wrapped up in the eventuality of things or the worry about the concern and instead of just really living in that moment and just enjoying that person right then right there and you can't stop what's going to happen so there's no point like I know it's easier said than done but really looking back on it. Oh my God I spent so much time freaking out like every doctor's appointment every phone call from the doctor you know just is totally overwhelming. Now that I'm thinking about it now I can't imagine Second question if you were transitioning from this life and you wanted to leave behind some gold nuggets of wisdom inspiration. What would they be? I would say this sounds kind of radical but I always tell people like do the opposite of what everybody else is doing. Slow it down. You know the quiet meditate. Just take everything down a notch because we live in such a fast paced world for always like pushing pushing pushing it's so unhealthy and again it takes us out of the present moment. So that's what I would like to leave behind just like calm down. Take it down a notch and look around you and see what works for you and what doesn't and do the opposite of doing guys you know it's it's it's not healthy for us it. It doesn't bring happiness to be running around like nutcases. It just doesn't it causes anxiety takes us away from our true selves our best selves. So I'm a big fan of just slowing down. I love that I think. What's your big grant advice? And it's very important but I like take it a notch. I'm GonNa need you at a level. Five thing is not the end of the world. Okay well I wanNA thank you so much for sharing with us and your heart and your soul because this was a really beautiful conversation I could feel you so I just want to thank you so much for for sharing with us and if anyone wants to follow you in your journey where can they go. I have a website. Which is my name. Valerie. Ganga's DOT COM. And then I post a lot on instagram. I'd say that's where I'm most active on social media. It's also named Valerie Ganga's at instagram. I love it. Thank you so much for being with us today. I appreciate you. Thank you so much for having a really. I love that I met you. Yeah you need to a great conversation. Thank you so much for listening today. I loved this episode and I loved this woman so many tears were shed ball. We talked and I hope you took something beautiful. That just might change your life or your perspective to learn more about Valerie and her work. Visit Valerie's website at Valerie GINGAS DOT COM and her instagram at Valley. Gingas as always subscribe to this podcast lever of you and don't forget to share with your friends. You can find me on Instagram at either. I must dot net Schneider or the live movement at loves is viral DOT media or live at love is viral dot com. Get deepened the work with me to uncover your messaging before you pass it onto your children or the people you influence order my book. More harnessing your pass to create your future available on Amazon or Barnes and Noble Dot Com until next time in the words of my gramma love each other every day..
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"Time and they'll ebb and flow But I think one of the things. That's so important is if you feel like you're spinning out. If you feel like things are hard. I'm exhausted when I wake up in the morning. I'm I can't sleep at night. My mind is racing. I feel whatever. Take a step take a break. Take a moment and even if it's sitting down and writing out here my here are my values and my priorities. And what's all this great stuff around it right? It's going to help you chop and cut up and cut out a lot of those things that really don't don't matter correct correct and help you get back on back on track whatever that is and also one of one of my one of my mastermind communities we had a great speaker and he basically said if you feel overwhelmed you need to be responsible for it and not a victim to it You created it. Whatever it is. We don't take responsibility right. And this is the other thing that drives me crazy like I can control every single thing. That is a stressor to me like. We have a tendency to get into that victim and seeing and it's like my partner. Did this. My boss did that and I'm so sad and I'm so tired instead of being like okay. I'm the I'm the common denominator in this situation. And that's one of the things I realize. I am always the common denominator so every other piece of the puzzle. Every single piece of of the equation can be adjusted. And that's completely my responsibility. I love that you said that. Leaving it so valuable to get to a place where you're like. I am the captain of Yup. And you look down and you're like and so many people get in this. I can't it's so hard. Things are so hard to change any part of your life at any point in time S. any day and people do it all the time all the time and sometimes it's a little more challenging but I think sometimes even making the decision like if you're in a toxic work environment as and you all of a sudden realize I love what I'm doing but my environment is toxics and you make that step to update your resume and see if there's other environments that are better you are immediately your your your mindset is going to shift I am in control. I'm in control an invaluable. Yes I don't belong here yes. It's just a choice. It's my choice to be here. Yeah if so much choice in it I I think that's one of the things that's so important to me to make sure that our audience feels is. That choice is available to you at any point in time. Yes you have so much choice I want I know that I've asked you in the past these questions. But it's been awhile. Since they've they've changed okay so younger. Lisa Hell would she be? And what advice would you give to yourself? I have a new answer. Okay so I would give my five year old self. The advice that it's okay to be yourself and it's Oh it's okay to hang out by yourself. It's okay to be yourself. I got made fun of a lot by siblings even in so that it. It's okay thank you. Okay just to you. Yeah not needing validation now just you if you were leaving this earth and wanted to leave find some gold nuggets of wisdom and inspiration your legacy. What would it be? Two's love Twos loves be kind be kind. What's more important than that? That people can fuel loved and that there are important and that they're seeing and get out. Get OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF. Because that's a very dark and creepy jus- go go live on people and be kind people. I love that anything. It's so valuable like even with kids. My daughter we have conversations about friendships and things like that and how important it is like. We had this really great conversation. I'm like you know you're very smart near pretty girl. Those were gifts This came from DNA. They came from God they they were gifts. What I'm most proud of is that you are kind and funny and thoughtful. And she's like Oh. Those are my choices. She's like I choose to be kind and I choose to be funny as exactly so that shows me that in your heart like you WanNa be there stuff is it was it was given to you and it was just a really beautiful conversation for eight year old to be like. Oh I got it like I'm choosing these things and I think like you said she's left. Choose kindness choose compassion because at the end of the day any conversation you have with someone who's leaving this world tells you nothing else matters. Nothing else matters. Yeah absolutely much for sharing. Your golden being part of this things are having dollars. Thank you so much for joining today. I Love Lisa's reminder to get quiet with yourself that is where we recalibrate and begin. You can find her at least a trusting dot com or follow her on Instagram at Lisa. Underscore chesting for as always to subscribe to this podcast lever of you and don't forget to share with your friends. You can find me on Instagram at either. Ms John Schneider or the lives movement at loves Farro Dot media or live at love is viral dot com. Get deepen the work with me to uncover your messaging before you pass it on to your children or the order. My Book were practising your pass to create your future available on Amazon or Barnes and Noble Dot Com until next time in the words of my grandma love each other every day..
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"WELCOME TO GO WITH. John Schneider negative inspiration for bigger. Better more purposeful life. Each week we.
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"An amazing life can be. Yeah I like that idea keeping your eyes open. 'cause IT'S COMING BECAUSE. I think that like so many times. Our EISER downward trudging along. We're we're pushing instead of kind of standing in a place of reception when something when something does come you know there are two things I want to share before me into that. Okay yeah absolutely. The first thing is if I had been on. That bike paths that day. When when that woman came by walking as Golden retrievers and I had been my phone. I might have missed that opportunity. Your eyes are up will love that so I really encourage your listeners to get off the phone when they're out and about to be open to the miracles and the wonder that's out there and then speaking of wonder I just WanNa share a quick story about my house manifestations so about a year ago my husband and I decided to buy a home and we knew the approximate area we we wanted to live in a particular county which is Marin County and I did a vision board for it. Done a bunch of vision boards in the past. But this was different in that you know the pictures that I was choosing didn't really make sense because they were pictures of homes on the water which felt totally like outside of our financial budget for Marin county because houses on the water are just like many many multiple millions of dollars here. Okay so but that's what I'm choosing and so it didn't make rational sense to my to my mind but there was and that's what I put on my Vision Board for Our Future House in the center of that Vision Board. For some reason there is this picture of this boardwalk and I put it dead center in my Vision Board for my house and so I I had my vision board in my office. The home that we were renting at the time and we began looking at homes Beginning of the year. And you know we're looking really fine. We're finding some that. Were closed kind of like dating dating houses. They weren't right but then this house on a board walk on the water. It was actually affordable for us and we bought it. That's amazing off a decision. I'm going to have a vision board above my my my desk like I'm like I need to just put this on board and you know the the cool thing about the I mean there so many cool things about this area that we live in. But it's not for everybody. I mean you know takes me five minutes to walk from my car. Were House like you can't drive your car in the boardwalk to walking and the front yard is basically a six hundred acre nature preserve so it's a bird sanctuary and their egrets herons in keystone is just so credibly. Beautiful and in the front yard is Bay San Francisco Bay and so we have water and then we have. It's were basically title creeks to it. The water moves in and out depending on the tides. But you know it is I swear to God such a place of wonder here like talking to you. I'm seeing egrets flying and you know geese fly over there honking not in this moment. But that's usually the morning commute you know in the sky the Geese and oh it's just pure magic and so you know going back to what I would say to those people as an leading planet. Don't be afraid to dream. And even if it doesn't make sense that Ashley that doesn't Make Sense. Those are sometimes the best trainings. Antigen. If you're creating vision board and you know you're looking at this picture fills you with a state of joy. Put it on even nothing to lose. I love that we have so much control over what happens comes into our lives and I think sometimes we we do try to to edit our dreams right to fit what we think our current reality but that doesn't mean that we can't grow into something or something appear like did with you guys. I know that this area existed so it wasn't like I was thinking about Syria. They're fifty ohms on this boardwalk area and I had no idea and I lived in this area almost my whole life and I didn't know it existed until we found the for sale listing. It's amazing I love it. You are master manifesto big you. You're very good. I'm now going to have a vision. Board it's GonNa be like our office thing. Everyone has a vision board. Yeah and I'm happy to show. You my vision board to I can send it to you if you WANNA see it. I left here so you my house. One loves them inspiration? I WanNa thank you so much for being on today and sharing your goals. I appreciate you if anybody wants to. Kind of follow your journey. Where Kinney where can they go so I not instagram? At pet business coach. P. T. B. I. Z. And you can also reach me at best year. Coaching provide coaching for all kinds of business owners. And I also have six figure pet business academy for business owners who want to start grow or you know really expand their business all right. Thank you so much for being with us today. I appreciate you my pleasure. Thank you thank you so much for joining me. Today I loved everything about this conversation so basically write it down. Believe it work on you and watch the universe rise up to meet you you can find Kristen on instagram. At Pet Biz coach or online at six figure PET BUSINESS ACADEMY DOT COM or best year Kuching Dot Com as always. Please subscribe to this podcast. Either of you and don't forget to share with your friends. You can find me on Instagram at either. Ms Dodge Schneider or the movement at loves viral DOT media or live at love is viral dot com. Get deep into work with me to uncover your messaging before you pass it on to your children or the people who influence order my book. More harnessing your pass to create your future available on Amazon or Barnes and Noble Dot Com until next time in the words of my grandma love each other every day..
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"Oh so My parents were both or both alcoholics. My mother is still alive. My father passed away and It was it was my father's. Dui that really change The synergy of my My relationship with my our family structure. We were family five and when? I look back on my childhood I can point that. Dui a genesis trauma that my sister and my brother and myself went through I could get myself invites. You know Kinda will be truthful I think the very first thing I would want to do is give myself advice for yesterday. Cheapen the question but yes in that is to you know our myself in a situation like my mother and father. Paolo where there was stress in my certainty. And things just one thing after another just kind of built up I would just want to just remind myself to just like try to simplify my life into. Just take one day at a time and Try Not to stress too much about you. Know just seems that. Don't really matter because you can. You can say a family structure. No you can say a marriage if you like getting rid of a lot of the things that holds back Like a lot of negative emotions and the resentment though. I need to be right. The need to argue to prove people wrong. Just Jill like much go there and just trying to live compassionate and just shug outraged. I think I would. I would give myself advice yesterday. 'cause I am father? My son is GONNA be March for his own. Yeah Dedi Spears. Just like I guess they'll come in with You know I just I just want to try to you know. Be there for me Give Him some love and passing a lot in the live healthy. Y You know. I don't want him to be thirty years from now Write books about you know trauma here. Because his dad was this and that was that I just wanted to be healthy. He's going to have problems and struggles. And Yeah get all that. But I don't want structure to be problems. So that's like one of my biggest goal right now and If I can get another piece of it will be from college. Actually because of that I started hours. Twenty one You know I was a ball player in college and you know college when I was eighteen. I don't know June tomorrow area. There are honestly what just tell myself not to drink at all I really think some about worse. Decisions have been made under the influence alcohol and when I like. Look Beckham my life. I don't I don't really like to be honest. I really don't like that. I think that I've heard people that I cared about because decisions may force apart And I just I just don't like I don't like it I don't I don't ever get a problem with the alcoholism as far as BSS or just can't control it but you're young college you do you do dumb stuff and I would say like my biggest regret is like this girl. I was dating at the time because I was drinking. Maybe decision really her and I wish I could take that pain away from her. You know and I wish that I wish that I never would have. Did you know her? You know it's and that'll be my biggest regret you know so I would you say not drinking at all if I could get myself in Navarre? Yeah I come from a mother's alcoholics. I completely understand where you're coming from. And it's like that decision to end a cycle and not have it influence your ends with you and I have the same type of relationship with alcohol where it's it's like. I. I don't why nothing good comes from it. You get headaches. It's it's it's not positive and it's fun socially but I think when you come from a background where you've seen devastation. You're a lot more sensitive to it and aware of of its influence. So I totally get that. We'll go point just social thing when you really think about it. Just don't get her point of like when I write my books. I don't under any influence but I don't have medical marijuana part living yourself. I definitely enjoy marijuana. Well right I won't do that when I when I'm writing poetry like I write would've cleared sober-minded and industry a lot of allow it right I don't get it I just don't get it. Just don't get it. Why coaches so obsessed with trying to figure out. I don't know let's part of me wants to never again in the tar also from just like okay. Well you know how much you know sipping focus is now I was probably one of my treadmill disturbances figuring out I guess do. Essentially you know absolutely. Get that if you were. I'm transitioning from this life and you wanted to leave behind in gold nuggets of wisdom or inspiration. What would they be wrong as deep questions really really? He'll you have to. I have to heal the especially vengeance and things you have to. He'll he'll not something. There is is a competent process And then you try to chase some type purpose In a lot of times people associate that job does it could be a day of the week today and I'm GonNa try to just be capacity today. Well I'M GONNA try to be funny making allowed. They just just have some guy push. Maybe maybe you're serving. You know some spiritual figures serving. You sound serving pancakes. I you just have some type of purpose bigger than you. Something that you're giving by some of the trade and then last hour to say on this chart out front Is so many things to be serious about upset about you know. I'm really cursive so I'm just trying to have mine. Aweso lot on people around whichever would all toward people don't think people make fun of but I mean everybody I make myself. I don't I don't might be so serious You know I'm going to have the conversation anymore. But at the end of the day we talk about you know just be be open with each other. You know that's just what I want to say. Eight and purrs and he'll say I'm so appreciative of you. Taking time to talk to me today and sharing your gold if whoever's listening if you haven't followed Sylvester you need to pick up his books. I'm appreciative view. And your time and how open you are so thank you very much. Thank you very much. Thank you so much for listening today. So vested breathes and exudes sole and authentic. If you're not following him you should be. It was a pleasure taking up space with him. You can find him on. Instagram. At Silvester mcnutt or online at Sylvester mcnutt dot com as always. Subscribe to this podcast lever of you and don't forget to share with your friends. You can find me on Instagram at either. Ms Dodge Not Schneider or the lives movement at Loves Viral. Dot Media or live at love is viral dot com. Get deepen the work with me to uncover your messing before you pass it on to your children or the people you influence order my book. Laura Harnessing your pass to create your future available on Amazon or Barnes and Noble Dot Com until next time in the words of my grandma love each other every day..
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"Welcome to gold with John Schneider negative inspiration for bigger better more purposeful life. Each week we share wisdom insights gold from those living their very best lives after twenty three years in finance. A left executive roles advocate for women and girls in life I love the boardroom and the marketplace now the CEO of live media. I am thrilled to create wellness based content and technology Saudi level up and become more conscious have you ripple the live APP launched Christmas Day for Apple. IOS This is purposeful content big conversations and beautiful place. Suppresses share our gold our dreams and create community gold live media production brought to you from the sound studio at the live headquarters. Alex Bucko believes in the old saying you are what you eat. After being diagnosed with Lupus at the age of twenty two she found herself on a new path. Line while this was a scary and heartbreaking time. Alex expounded sense of relief. I only know why she'd been sick for. So many years does giving her a starting point for her healing to begin but when the conventional treatments of Western medicine did not work for Alex six. She started searching elsewhere for the answer trying out a more holistic approach. Alex discovered that food could be her medicine. Alex Beco- is nutritional therapist focusing on mediating mediating symptoms of chronic illness. Within a practice. She believes that a shift towards ancestral nutrition and lifestyle could help to lessen the prevalence of modern diseases have become overly common today so just cancer diabetes and Auto Alex Gutter Start Nutritional therapy after her own struggle with auto immunity forced to leave her first career and embarked on her journey for self healing after being increasingly sick for over ten years she had had enough. Alex is able to overcome her multiple autoimmune conditions without a long list of pharmaceuticals and now sits comfortably in remission. After making diet and lifestyle changes today. Alex I dig deep into the food we eat and its relationship to our health. We talk about getting back to the way we evolves eat through seasonal and ancestry eating the domestication of crops and the evolution of the food industry as a whole. We talk about how our gut health is vitally connected to her over a health breath and wellbeing. Let's again. I'm so excited to share the I have Alexandra Bucko on the show with me today. Thank you for adjoining and thank you for having me of course I am so excited to talk to you I am I actually. I was just sharing with Alexander right before we got started. I just got her her photos her for her head shots and one of them has her defending her food like furiously. That we're GONNA use that one because I really adore it because you have such a deep seated relationship with food that I was hoping that we can dig in today and it's because of your relationship with unfortunately illness and auto immune and I was hoping you can kind of share with us a little bit. How you created this this realization? That food was the answer for you because because of your own struggles. Yes so food for me was kind of of last resort. I had really tried to make the whole Western Medicine picturesque paradigm. Work for me Unfortunately it did not. I was diagnosed with Lupus at the age of twenty two. You and I mean. I did the rounds of chemotherapy methotrexate. I did Steroids in to no avail. Did I see any relief and I actually got sicker sicker So at some point I just finally threw in the towel I kinda went beserk and I started listening to podcasts. In I came across the infamous rob. I'm wolf and that is kind of got me started on Food as medicine I ended up going back to school for nutrition. And I'm now a practicing being a holistic nutritionist but Anyway I found for myself that food is medicine in food was the answer and it took me several years but I can probably say now that I'm into remission and I think what we all tend to miss is that you are what you eat. I mean it's simplest quote. I think we've heard that since we were little but your body is which you make it and if you're putting bad things into it on sick things nasty toxic things. That is what your health will become since with you. Would you started with the diagnosis. What was your first reaction I was just actually I had been sick probably for about ten years. It'd been getting worse and worse and worse so at first. It was kind of relieving. You know to hear diagnosis filing Malir But then you know when you start here Lupus and you start to read about it you kind of go into freak out So I mean like I said I was twenty two at the time I believe my corporate job and I had just graduated college so it was. It was pretty heartbreaking at the time but it put me down a different path and now now I'm obviously really okay with it but it it definitely a heart. You mentioned something on your socials that I was very curious about and it's called and such eating. Can you walk us through what that means. Because I'm very curious you've done so much deep research into food and how it helps you but also how it's sourced in its history so I'm curious if you can kind of share a little bit about that. Yeah so in. Central eating is Basically we getting back to how we evolved to eat and they're obviously are many different perspectives as far as how. You should eat weather if begin whether it be you know. Animal based but A lot of The anthropology and the history behind everything it goes back to show that we all hunter gatherers right. So we evolved vowed to follow our pray and you know supplement with fruits and vegetables when they were available seasonally But most of all you know we we. He really ate a lot of animal products. And when we evolved You know we were. We're kind of at our healthiest. And we saw our biggest jump Tom in development during this time and as we started to introduce agriculture or domestication of things like grains wheat corn learn These these grains that we now are so heavily reliant on this is when we started to see the climb in a disease so we started to see things retort arthritis and diabetes Doubt you know these these things started to come on so in central eating is kind of. How did we exactly evolved to eat before? We started to intervene And if you look at how we eat today compared to how he actually evolved to eat it is drastically the different. You know what I mean. Today we see high carbohydrate diets That are riddled with sugar in processed foods in taxes preservatives very very low micronutrients and this leaves US fluctuating blood. Sugar Were chronically on highs and lows of our blood sugar going up and down we develop Metabolic disorders like diabetes and cancer in auto immunity is on the rise because when you have high blood sugar you get a inflammation and when you have information Your immune system just kind of gets thrown out of whack. Nothing compared to what it used to be So I mean now. We have fruits that look nothing like they used. They're bigger they're sweeter. They're full of sugar and when we started to do this all across the board with domestication. we really started to throw ourselves out of whack. I mean we as humans humans did not evolve necessarily to eat such carbohydrate rich foods whether they be natural or whether they be synthetic. That's fascinating because I've been trying really really hard to move to a vegetarian diet. I'm craving carbs and I saw the pictures on your instagram of fruit. The way it was meant to be in the way it looks now what was interesting to me. As in my previous iteration in finance we actually used to buy farms for our clients and I remember talking UNISOM of the farm farmers that were actually. They were managing the farms for our clients and I was asking them about pesticides and all that stuff and I was like do we have Kevin. He's like there's no organic crop. There's we can't do that and make it sustainable and make money like you have these things we we worry about bugs and I've been looking for the farmer farmer within the industry who actually believes in creating healthy crops and they don't like they don't really exist because it's a business and it's all about how. How can we produce as much as possible? How can we make sure that the farmer makes money the client makes money how shipping? It's it's truly a business and that was one of the first kind of eye opening.
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"Welcome to gold with John Schneider negative inspiration for bigger better more purposeful life. Each week we share wisdom insights gold from those living their very best lives after twenty three years in finance. A left executive roles advocate for women and girls in life I love the boardroom and the marketplace now the CEO of live media. I am thrilled to create wellness based content and technology Saudi level up and become more conscious have you ripple the live APP launched Christmas Day for Apple. IOS This is purposeful content big conversations and beautiful place. Suppresses share our gold our dreams and create community gold live media production brought to you from the sound studio at the live headquarters. Alex Bucko believes in the old saying you are what you eat. After being diagnosed with Lupus at the age of twenty two she found herself on a new path. Line while this was a scary and heartbreaking time. Alex expounded sense of relief. I only know why she'd been sick for. So many years does giving her a starting point for her healing to begin but when the conventional treatments of Western medicine did not work for Alex six. She started searching elsewhere for the answer trying out a more holistic approach. Alex discovered that food could be her medicine. Alex Beco- is nutritional therapist focusing on mediating mediating symptoms of chronic illness. Within a practice. She believes that a shift towards ancestral nutrition and lifestyle could help to lessen the prevalence of modern diseases have become overly common today so just cancer diabetes and Auto Alex Gutter Start Nutritional therapy after her own struggle with unity forced to leave her first career and embarked on her journey for self healing after being increasingly sick for over ten years she had had enough. Alex is able to overcome her multiple autoimmune conditions without a long list of pharmaceuticals and now sits comfortably in remission. After making diet and lifestyle changes. Today Alex I dig deep into the food we eat and its relationship to our health. We talk about getting back to the way we evolves eat through seasonal and ancestry eating the domestication of crops and the evolution of the food industry as a whole. We talk about how our gut health is vitally connected to her over a health breath and wellbeing. Let's again. I'm so excited to share the I have Alexandra Bucko on the show with me today. Thank you for adjoining and thank you for having me of course I am so excited to talk to you I am I actually. I was just sharing with Alexander right before we got started. I just got her her photos her for her head shots and one of them has her defending her food like furiously. That we're GONNA use that one because I really adore it because you have such a deep seated relationship with food that I was hoping that we can dig in today and it's because of your relationship with unfortunately illness and auto immune and I was hoping you can kind of share with us a little bit. How you created this this realization? That food was the answer for you because because of your own struggles. Yes so food for me was kind of of last resort. I had really tried to make the whole Western Medicine picturesque paradigm. Work for me Unfortunately it did not. I was diagnosed with Lupus at the age of twenty two. You and I mean. I did the rounds of chemotherapy methotrexate. I did Steroids in to no avail. Did I see any relief and I actually got sicker sicker So at some point I just finally threw in the towel I kinda went beserk and I started listening to podcasts. In I came across the infamous rob. I'm wolf and that is kind of got me started on Food as medicine I ended up going back to school for nutrition. And I'm now a practicing being a holistic nutritionist but Anyway I found for myself that food is medicine in food was the answer and it took me several years but I can probably say now that I'm into remission and I think what we all tend to miss is that you are what you eat. I mean it's simplest quote. I think we've heard that since we were little but your body is which you make it and if you're putting bad things into it on sick things nasty toxic things. That is what your health will become since with you. Would you started with the diagnosis. What was your first reaction I was just actually I had been sick probably for about ten years. It'd been getting worse and worse and worse so at first. It was kind of relieving. You know to hear diagnosis filing Malir But then you know when you start here Lupus and you start to read about it you kind of go into freak out So I mean like I said I was twenty two at the time I believe my corporate job and I had just graduated college so it was. It was pretty heartbreaking at the time but it put me down a different path and now now I'm obviously really okay with it but it it definitely a heart. You mentioned something on your socials that I was very curious about and it's called and such eating. Can you walk us through what that means. Because I'm very curious you've done so much deep research into food and how it helps you but also how it's sourced in its history so I'm curious if you can kind of share a little bit about that. Yeah so in. Central eating is Basically we getting back to how we evolved to eat and they're obviously are many different perspectives as far as how. You should eat weather if begin whether it be you know. Animal based but A lot of The anthropology and the history behind everything it goes back to show that we all hunter gatherers right. So we evolved vowed to follow our pray and you know supplement with fruits and vegetables when they were available seasonally But most of all you know we we. He really ate a lot of animal products. And when we evolved You know we were. We're kind of at our healthiest. And we saw our biggest jump Tom in development during this time and as we started to introduce agriculture or domestication of things like grains wheat corn learn These these grains that we now are so heavily reliant on this is when we started to see the climb in a disease so we started to see things retort arthritis and diabetes Doubt you know these these things started to come on so in central eating is kind of. How did we exactly evolved to eat before? We started to intervene And if you look at how we eat today compared to how he actually evolved to eat it is drastically the different. You know what I mean. Today we see high carbohydrate diets That are riddled with sugar in processed foods in taxes preservatives very very low micronutrients and this leaves US fluctuating blood. Sugar Were chronically on highs and lows of our blood sugar going up and down we develop Metabolic disorders like diabetes and cancer in auto immunity is on the rise because when you have high blood sugar you get a inflammation and when you have information Your immune system just kind of gets thrown out of whack. Nothing compared to what it used to be So I mean now. We have fruits that look nothing like they used. They're bigger they're sweeter. They're full of sugar and when we started to do this all across the board with domestication. we really started to throw ourselves out of whack. I mean we as humans humans did not evolve necessarily to eat such carbohydrate rich foods whether they be natural or whether they be synthetic. That's fascinating because I've been trying really really hard to move to a vegetarian diet. I'm craving carbs and I saw the pictures on your instagram of fruit. The way it was meant to be in the way it looks now what was interesting to me. As in my previous iteration in finance we actually used to buy farms for our clients and I remember talking UNISOM of the farm farmers that were actually. They were managing the farms for our clients and I was asking them about pesticides and all that stuff and I was like do we have seven. He's like there's no organic crop. There's we can't do that and make it sustainable and make money like you have these things we we worry about bugs and I've been looking for the farmer farmer within the industry who actually believes in creating healthy crops and they don't like they don't really exist because it's a business and it's all about how. How can we produce as much as possible? How can we make sure that the farmer makes money the client makes money how shipping? It's it's truly a business and that was one of the first kind of eye opening.
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"Day we all just WanNa be loved Isla. Yes you got like little. Oh like truth bombs messages last question if you were leaving this earth and you're transitioning and you want to leave behind gold nuggets of wisdom inspiration for your loved ones or the next Gen. What would you like to see? What would your your I Dunno it's kind of a big question. What would i? I think I would want people. I like to remember me. I would want people you know when they think of me to remember to be empathetic and open and and you know just because somebody somebody hurt you. It doesn't mean you have to pass that energy on I want people to be brave and vulnerable I think something I learned over the years is vulnerability and that's a huge thing. That was terrifying for me for so long especially with my skin and my my eating disorder and all that And now it's it's still not easy in some cases but I would really if there was a nugget would be just work on vulnerability work run work on being open an empathetic and also kind to yourself. Because you're always you're always becoming a better person even though some it doesn't feel like it. I love that I believe wholeheartedly. That vulnerability is a superpower and I think once you have confidence around around yourself and you can be vulnerable like I have unabashed vulnerability. I don't know where that came from. I'm sure traumatologist would love up to talk to me about that but I think once you get to a place where you're able to own who you are and and connection that outweigh like the amount of of peace. That comes with that. An connection with others is enormous. I don't I don't I wouldn't want to live any other way way now because I think it's so not only as an authentic but your connections with people are very shallow and I want to be seen and I want to see others so if anyone wants to follow your journey or find more about raising body confident kids working they find you. Yes so I'm so you know another thing too shares a few good. If you're listening to this nearly okay. Great where do I start You know I wanNA learn more about this. I want some tools. And if you go to my website Dana Sue cow dot com slash resources. I have a ton of podcast. You can listen to a ton of body image documentaries documentaries and movies a ton of instagram accounts to follow a ton of age appropriate books I have reading lists categorized for adults. I have it for teenagers and then I have it for children. I think that's a seven and under So if you need any place to start go to Danish account com slash resources. I don't collect any information so that web pages absolutely free for anyone to access access INSTAGRAM DOT COM SLASH DANA SUE COW FACEBOOK SLUSH DANA SUE cow. I'm Dana Cow D. A. N. A. S. U. C. H. UH-HUH W and you can find me And you know if you have any questions or youth. Anyone wants to learn more about one on one coaching or training Feel free to the email me or reach out on diomine. I'm I'm here I love it. Thank you so much for joining me today. Sharing your gold and such incredible information. Thank you thank you so much for having me have a wonderful day you and everyone else thank you again. Thank you thank you for joining me today. I love this conversation with Dana. So how much her passion for changing the conversation around body image is truly inspiring. We have so much influence over those around us what we say and do especially our children. Let's let's be conscious of speaking and modeling body. positivity and confidence every you can finding on her website at Dina's dot Com instagram Edina shootout facebook at the same name As well as twitter as always subscribe to this podcast lever of you. And don't forget to share with your friends. You can find me on Instagram at either. Ms Dot Net Schneider or the live movement at loves barrel dot media or live at love is viral dot com. Get deepen the work with me to uncover your messaging before you pass it on to your children or the people you who influence order my book. Lor Harnessing your pass to create your future available on Amazon or Barnes and Noble Dot Com until next time in the words of my grandma love each other every everyday..
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"Goes beyond. Just what is happening in your brain. You're thinking and then you're feeling and as we studied the way. The body works and emotions and trauma it gets stored in the body and the physicality whatever it is that you can't processor necessarily make sense of. Where does it go? It gets stored into the body so as we start to move all of the unfilled. All of the unprocessed unprocessed all of the lake. Yeah you know. I haven't really necessary. Thought about these aspects of where I'm feeling small. We begin to be able to move in and then how beautiful. The body has this system of cleansing of tears. How incredible that when you hit on those pockets of truth or pockets of stored emotions are unseen unsaid? This beautiful release of tears or sound or laughter or Deep size can come to help help ourselves peel. I love that. I think it's a beautiful. This huge smile on my face as you're talking for those people who feel separate from their body right they have have the body issues body image concerns. They don't own their body or feel separate. From what advice would did you give the past the history that you have in movement and your own experience. What advice would you give those folks? Yeah get get to know your body you know like you said. I think that we can just kind of it. Becomes this thing we carry around. We have a love hate relationship that we know we love it but we know we need it but we don't necessarily love it So getting to know your body like you would get to know your friend or your partner or your boyfriend or like talking to it everything that you can do to actually use it and be present when you're using it so that could be everything from doing exfoliating foliage body scrubs being in the bath taking care to put really really Delicious Body oil on after the shower. They pay attention to the physicality having your own sensation of your hands on your body an end knowing what your own body is is going to take some of that gray array On kind of like knock concrete relationship that you have a and make it a little more solidified and then that goes with moving to so if we're disconnected from her body's chances are most of the time we're in our head in them. Were faking when we're moving. We begin to enter the space of more feeling unless was thinking so for some of the people that I work with It'll it'll just be putting your body in motion and whatever physicality that you resonate with whether it's lifting weights whether it's dancing whether it's yoga like what makes your body happy start to go down that path but if you really think about is like if you're GonNa if if you want to deepen your relationship with anything you have to spend time using it. You have to spend time in conversation with it. So you're you're entering a dialogue of getting to know your own body. I love that I feel so I feel that very deeply because as I get older parts of my body that are a little bit more. It's not interested in changing and I've gotten into this place where it's kind of Grounding into it and owning it and loving it and feel the way it moves and the way I hug the child and the way I did and the way I put on lucious smelling lotions and bathe and do everything with intention and those moments try to create sensory experiences so that I can have a relationship with my body rather than it just beaten. I think you said it very well like this thing that comes along with you. It's kind of consider it just this thing that we're kind of stuck with a lot of times as opposed to having a deep relationship with it where we're like like I have to take care of this temple and anything to is that true movement. It's not just a spiritual or emotional release. There's also the science of of removing toxins from your body working on your person. Pathetic nervous system. There's so many science based studies. He's and proof that moving your body of course cardiovascular system and all of these things but we have a tendency sometimes separate ourselves from that. I'm curious is for you and this is your lifestyle. What is your daily liked? You have a practice. Do you wake up in the morning and do certain things. What does that look like? Yeah Ah Yeah on my day. It shifts from day to day depending on how much I'm teaching and in my role I'm also The MVP experience at the class and a lot of what my role is is directing the teacher training and Development Program for a teacher so that looks like taking other teachers classes observing serving our own teachers other teachers outside of the class as we scout for four teachers so and then when I'm not teaching class or doing anything anything like the sort than I'm in our headquarters in our office in Tribeca so my day can be in various different places says that requires lots of different outfit changes Gary Back with you on my gosh. My Mom's still to this day calls me the bag lady. She's like when under you no longer going to beat the bag lady. Just carry multiple bags everywhere. You go so eight what. What is what I found owned that helps me especially in New York City? It's chaotic they're carrying all the bags. And I I do my my. Hi Dave get set up the best when the mornings are just for myself so if that means I have to wake up two hours before I have anything the thing that I need to show up for and have that time just for myself then. That's how I feel my best for the rest of the day and in in that time because I'm moving my body so much throughout the day I I'm not starting with a movement practice unless potentially it's a day that I'm not moving out a couple of days where or I'm not moving but I'm moving my body so much that in the morning. What feels good to me is having quiet drinking my hot water and lemon and apple CIDER? Vinegar being very clear whereas I plan out my day how. I'm going to spend my time. What my priorities are making sure I leave my house with with a substantial amount of healthy food to sustain sustain my energy and being really well prepared I feel that my myself cure for That feels right for me. Is Making sure that I'm prepared for in my day when I'm not prepared feel like taking good care of myself. That's when I'm like oh I didn't I didn't bring bring lunch or bring a snack so now I'm in that place where I'm Hungary crashing. I don't want to eat or didn't bring the right change of clothes or figure out what my priorities were in. My energy doesn't feel as potent. It feels kind of dissipated so the mornings mornings and the evenings are the buffers of time that I dedicate so lead for myself and self care. I think that's such a huge message to create almost like the priorities and the planning for the day. I'm I'm building out a big project right now. I have an APP. It's coming this launching. Chris Cool Yeah. Thank you And I have to tell you. It's around wellness and self care. That's assume one area where I have struggled and it's really it's really funny like even if you're in the life and the lifestyle. Oh Yeah you have to get to this place where you're like okay okay. What are my priorities today? How do I make today flow? Because it's the days where I'm just running out of the House taking my daughter to school and like with my calendar her that I eat poorly. I missed I missed the gym. I don't meditate and then that adds up so I love that message that creating being like almost like. What are my priorities today? What do I need to take with me so that I have the tools that I need to have the most successful day? I think that's beautiful fall today. Goal is brought to you by live media and the live APP now available on the apple APP store. We believe that healthy you today leads to a healthier the're world tomorrow to that end. We have created accountability features and a platform of curated coaches and thought leaders in a wide variety of areas. All to bring each person to their your best self as a whole and healthy individual. We do this through time proven tools. 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"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"The live APP can this is our strategy and prosperity. Coach handles all things things money today. We're talking about what we're leaving behind in twenty nineteen and what we're manifesting for the new year and the new decade before we get started live. Join US in the studio to share circle for twenty twenty what is it Michael for. Twenty twenty two potty trained Bailey. Olivia got a new dog for Christmas. And I think that is a very good goal for twenty twenty twenty. Let's dig in high this genetic Schneider and I am here in the studio today with candace. Morella and Lisa Trust Jane. Hi got to be here. Thanks for having US love having conversations with both of you and now we have one together and talk about this New Year in this new decade and. I think it's such an important conversation because right now everybody and their brother is posting about your New Year's resolutions or how to be fit or how to be this or how did that and I think we all have our own tack as the way we look at a new year and especially new decade like that to mind blowing to me. Yeah we're moving into a new space so I wanted to find out from each of you. You like how are you looking at New Year. And what do you want to leave behind. What about you candace? So I've been thinking a lot about this for the past month or so. Oh I WANNA leave behind in twenty nineteen and really. I want to leave behind worrying about what other people think. That is really it right. Because I've had had you know when I left my job and I became a coach fulltime entrepreneur I had a lot of people saying like you know like are you crazy easy or even qualified to do that. Like lots of judgement around what it was that I was most passionate about and the thing that I wanted to do like my dream and my vision lots of judgement around that and I think that even though on the outside I was just like I got this like I know what I'm doing like I'm not worried about that. I think it really did did kind of like impact how I showed up because I was worried about like am I qualified like Maybe not maybe they don't have enough experience or those those thoughts did pop up into my mind and I think that it may be kept me from showing up as much as I would like to. And those people aren't paying my ability to have plenty of evidence that that's not true rate and maybe I just needed this year to figure out like I have all the evidence that's not true but I don't even want to worry about that anymore. I don't have to find evidence to disprove them right. I want to know it and so I'm going into twenty twenty leaving behind what other people think and and just really focused on doing me and doing what I think is right and what I think feels good and yeah. That's that's what I want to do them. Yeah what about you Lisa for four this last year. I think I've had so many transitions over the last three years. I decided to open a business. Get a divorce ores. Go through some crazy transitions make a lot of money. I mean there was a lot that happened the last couple of years and so this year. What I'm really looking forward to leaving behind is scarcity and distrust and that I you know knowing that I can do this? I know that it's all possible and this year. Sure I'm stepping into a confident. Stable loving abundant connected year. Those very powerful I think for me one one of the things. That's been really interesting. Is that over. The course of the last several years I've chosen word as opposed to a resolution like in the past my resolutions. Were really places places for me to fail. If you think about it like it was like I need to lose weight I need to do. I need to do that. And they were all externally focused and so about two years ago I started doing being Words that I would embody for the year so one year it was trust and you learn how to trust myself and trust me and then the next year it was power because I needed to step into that that power and the end when people talk about being powerful a lot of people get confused. Not Talking about. I'm a a powerful empowering over you know right it's I'm powerful powerful. I can create the life that I want personal power and I can manifest whatever it is. I want to not just because I believe in something bigger than me but also because I have a lot of grit determination nations. There's a lot of stuff behind that and what's funny for this year is that I did not realize that I believed I had a maximum level of capacity or capability like I had this belief that and it was self imposed at some point in time I was going to hit my ceiling and find my biggest failure MHM and it was at a Tony. Robbins unleash the power within November. Where I was like? Oh my gosh one of my beliefs is that I. I'm knocking at failure at every step. I'm very brave and courageous person in some of the decisions that I make but that unlike this close to my largest failures so I'm serving behind the belief that I am limited right semi word for twenty twenty s limitless. That's the word that I'm GONNA like. Wrap my arms around on and take with me anyway. I love that important. What about like do you guys have a word or vision like vision board? What do you do a definitely vision? Board would last year My word was flow and I felt I felt like it for a long time for like the first part of the year until recently I felt like flow was really I was just doing doing what I thought was right doing what I felt good I was doing. What most excited me and I do? I think that the word served me. Well they also also have a vision board that I look at every single morning When I meditate? It's right in front of me. I have a space in my house where I look at it every day. I think that's really helpful. If you don't have one definitely do that And this year. My Word is going to be joy now because I'm rejecting the idea that I have to be exhausted. That have to be tired right. I know that I attract talked opportunity when I'm joyful and so must punishing myself for taking time off your ceiling about starting work at ten or eleven. Whatever you stop feeling bad about that and I'm GonNa make sure that I'm I'm doing things that bring me joy because that's why I'm an entrepreneur right so I can have space in my life so I can have freedom and flexibility but I think that so many years have brought me to this place where I feel like that's bad or that means I'm lazy or like assigned this different meaning to it and really know that when I'm joyful when I'm excited when I feel free and good that's when I am most successful in my business so I'm not letting go of discipline all like throwing it out the window I do but I'm also embracing love that I love that one of my favorite I learned this through my own. Transformational Journey. was that there's real value and becoming what's missing and Kansas. I know you use the word. Elevate elevate coaching yes. And I really believe that life is all about elevation and so I'm going into embody not be what's missing my own life but for others also really embody that the notion of elevating my life and being that elevation vacation for others and being a Stanford elevation. Because that's when we have joy when we're playing and we're in the moment and were present but also for me it's really focusing being on what's next but learning how to be present and that's when I think we create really powerful moments and really powerful opportunities for ourselves absolutely. I think I think it's so important. Link I love what you said about join presents because as you're both big words for me right and I think that you have to be present in all things in an always you present when you're in front of a client president in front of your children your those you love. What have you But I also think it was interesting. We're talking about like joy and feeling guilty uh-huh right it's huge for entrepreneurs. That's what I was just going to say like. I feel like this is an issue for people who especially in fields entrepreneurial mindset where it's like I didn't do X.. Today I wore my pajamas a little too long. I think the thing for me like so up until Christmas I the works probably eighteen hours a day to get the APP munched right. I was mentally and emotionally drained. I have worn pajamas for the past three days looking. Go on for us I got dressed for you is but I think it's like it's funny because we get into this mindset that we have to struggle or if we don't do it doesn't look like a certain time and I know that's conditioning right. That's conditioning we have from whether it's corporate or from society or whatever that you have to look a certain way to be successful or to earn. Oh Jewish yes earn to be. Yeah I was listening to Abraham this morning morning. I don't know if you listen to Abraham Hicks but listening to her to them and they were saying today they're saying today You know you know it's like when you when you know exactly what you want you walk into the store and you're like oh my gosh it's that white fluffy robe that I've been looking for like that's exactly what I want. It is the maybe I should look around some other places his and see if there's something better because we're trying to make.
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"That was when it was good it was good wasn't it wasn't And then I'm a very nurturing mother you know so it's just it's really interesting to think of all of the dimensions of identity and how it's very hard You know I've in the political. Oh climate I've been asked a lot like what I am or what religion I am and I'm like I don't even want to call myself anything anymore because I feel like I'm so much more dimensional than the name that you're GonNa give me But I also recognize recognize the human experience like I find psychology and science so fascinating because we we have all of these ways of measuring and understanding people but but we continue to flex up against them. Do you know what I mean. We continue to be so multidimensional and so fascinated that it's hard to put anyone in in a box. And I think that's one of the things I find fascinating in relationship especially like now being in a romantic relationship and finding these facets the person that I'm sitting across not thinking of them just as a father or just as my partner or just as you know a a CEO of a startup but all of these different and facets that creek kind of a storyline or an or an impression and I just think it's really fascinating so you didn't hurt out. I'm over here doing my I own hurting out. I'm analyzing all of it but I do want to throw another interesting perspective into what you just said when you sit in front of your your boyfriend And you are sitting there and kind of trying to identify his multiple identities in a way. You're not just saying there is an objective. Your you're you are projecting your own identity and negotiating your personal identity with his identities because we cannot not be despite the fact that all of us ultimately end up with somebody who's very different than us all of us need somebody who essentially affirms and project the identity that we wanna have for interesting and this is why high achievers often attract other high achievers interesting because it's it's so true you're constantly trying to validate your own experience. Even with people around you so interesting I think for me. It's been it's been interesting leaving corporate America and navigating relationships and going from being co-parenting mom now to begin a relationship blending a family and kind of learning those different aspects of of self and I think for so many people who who listen I know. I have a lot of high-achieving MOMS that. Listen who are married to either supportive spouses or other high achievers and it's been really interesting hearing them navigate How to how to how to be okay with being high-achieving and be a good mom at the same time time and I was talking to a couple of women yesterday they they own three businesses between them? They're starting a restaurant group they are just. I mean they've got it and their husbands are both hide. Hi I mean Ho- high-achieving everybody and they both just had babies and talked about this new found guilty. Where yes they bring? The the nanny comes with sometimes the babies are with them in meetings people are very open to it and I think that that's the way the world has to shift recognizing that husband wife come together to create create a being and that doesn't get one of them off the hook from having to kind of Be the primary care giver but what was really interesting as hearing them talk talk about being high achieving and feeling so guilty for those moments when their kid cries out to them in once them and and those How your identities are constantly fighting one another absolutely absolutely but this is why you see a lot of women high-achieving leaving women actually taking a step back later on in life and their career so a lot of for example recent research showing their love doctors female doctors again? My areas specialisation are taking a step back in their career and going part time A couple of years in post training. Look I mean these little Oh people who cry eventually learn how to express her needs and feelings and emotions as you as you told yourself and at that point air priorities really have to become a lot more you know. The ability to negotiate between the two becomes a little more difficult than people ultimately make choices. Yes yes absolutely. I think it's a I think I'll ever. It's just fascinating this this entire. There's no answers. No perfect answers and I think relationships are so interesting and our playground on for growth. It's where we learn the most about ourselves in our relationships with others and I'm so curious for for you. What's what's your what's the the success like when you have when you work with a family and you feel like you've really Jim Pat yourself on the back? What is that? That look like is it because they've turned more towards one another that they've established butter parameters. Like what is it that it looks like when you're working with someone and you feel like it's there's been success. They're the One thing that Mike Coaching I guess. All coaching ultimately focused on is awareness. I find that so how many people live their entire life and pay you GE- costs right. Because they've no self-awareness. They cannot link there the connection between their mental focus whether focusing on their emotions and their habits and rituals and likes outcomes. Oh comes and they're kind of surprises like how to end up in such a bad marriage. How did end up? You know fifty pounds overweight. How did you end up sick cow to end of this? You know and so easy to blame other people but when you have personal awareness it's like to remember the the Matrix when you kind of wake up and you take the blue pill or the red bill and settle. Your life is different because now you are responsible for everything which means that you can solve anything so personnel awareness frizzy from all the pain in the world. And that's what I worked with Clinton. They loved the actually the podcast. I I am recording right before you. We talked About Self Awareness. And it's it's how important it is to kind of own your place and your role in in in events and where we stand right link rather than the heart of this happen. It's okay did this. And how do we. How do I change on on a go? Forward wanted to ask a couple questions I ask I ask everyone If you were to look at a younger version of yourself based on your life experiences this today how old would he be. And what advice would you give him. I would speak to my twenty year old self i. I think twenty's a really important age. You know you're you're no longer teenager by. You're not a real adult yet and what I would. Demand of myself is to take my life to a higher level And what I would recommend myself is to three major things. The first one is travel more traveled the world as much as possible and by the way the world traveler. But I would have done on more the second thing is Yoga Olga. I am a huge fan of yoga. It is such a wonderful thing so many men shy away from Yoga. So one of the thing all of my clients will hear about is Yoga Olga. Yoga Yoga it. It will make you strong toolmaking powerful. You bring you peace of mine. It's just wonderful and the third thing and don't laugh this I would. I would hire a coach. A life coach early. They could my first flight. Coach was hired when I was in my forties and as soon as I worked with my coach maybe five or six sessions in ask myself. Why did I do this? Twenty years earlier. Miami Tire career would have been different. My entire outcome would have been indifferent because again the sooner you wake up from the Matrix the sooner you have sense of awareness about your ability to lead your own life the better better your life will be so you know. That's the advice that would be. I love that. I believe that we have to travel the world because we need to see how small we truly are and and then how connected we can be as humans and I practice yoga like a crazy person. So there with you. It's that and my coach changed my life And I think once you can provide yourself some separate separation I think from your own thoughts and provide provided perspective. That not only do you get and I think that's one of the beautiful links that I've seen what you just said is your offered perspective through World Travel through the answers that you on your Yoga Mat and through having an and an objective. Third Party helping you kind of navigate so I love that last question for you if you were to be leaving this earth and you needed to leave fine wanted to leave behind some gold nuggets of wisdom or inspiration For the next generation. What would it be? I'M GONNA GONNA share the advice. I got from my father. eighty-three-year-old Dad who is my best friend in the world and my father is a man who's done amazing things my father you know I can. I don't want a list of his accomplishments but he's he's been a winner and a loser many a times alike his some really big things in his life he was is a very important man. WHO's the newspapers used to write a mountain all the time and at eighty-three asked my dad? So what do I need to know. And he says to me guy have very very strong relationships with your wife and your children everything else will disappear and the real substance of life is family It's very powerful my I had the blessing listing of being with some loved ones right before they passed and the resounding clarity was love. The people around you love the love. Your family don't chase after things. Don't run after things but love the people who will surround your bed the day that you're dying so absolutely absolutely absolutely yeah. I know it's really beautiful while I am so thankful that you join me today. If people want to find out more about you can go married too busy dot com married married too busy busy dot com and your podcast is of the same name as I write married too busy. I love it very busy. Show I love it well. Thank you so much for being on gold and sharing your gold and I appreciate all that you you offer today. Thank you so much. Thank you so much for joining today. 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"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"Welcome to Golden Jeanette Schneider negative inspiration for a bigger better more purposeful life a left corporate America to advocate for women and girls in life love the boardroom and the marketplace is based on what women wished they would've known girls this is purposeful content big conversations the financial crisis began to feel completely different direction she put herself through was forever altered a management the following six years immersed in the birth world from carrying the right questions and deconstructing beliefs and paradigms which no longer serve our new alignment defy most recently the host and creator of the Virtual Summit entitled the Rebirth Of Women Together today amended I talk about Motherhood and the reason why it can shape us to our core how children are Mir's Eerie Quince herself with her new gifts let's dig in connect with you so much because you and I have a very similar back story it was so fascinating to talk to someone who came from the same world where people are confused about get it you know and I think initially when I was sort of absorbed so I think when you meet who is also been in that world you immediately have into this place of of grace and soul and following purpose and I was shift in me where my identity as being like I used to call myself something to me are becoming a mother did something to me created this desire to he like what was that transition like and how did you make the decision that you wanted to support Aleutian When I had been working my job do I kind of knew the gag you know I knew I knew enough to know the GIG and so I sort of started doing some exploration ensued notes to everyone that I was working with because I just had to ah I initially kind of got pulled towards because I really was following gene drawn towards and so I sort of started laying that groundwork and then and when we had to unwind all the CDs you remember that I remember yeah it was really shortly after that but I think I kind of was like you know throwing the intention out to to make some type of transition and thirteen and I was laid off on the exact same day that I found out excited that it was happening because I could see it coming down the pipeline you I totally did I really did and I have kind of a newfound you had something else else cooking it's so frightening because like I've had this deep desire and the the the world of finance and the worlds need to feel connected in some way and I found myself wanting to do that and eventually I will the and just travels all over the world and one day I will follow her to a retreat but it felt a sense of relief that on the day that you found out you're pregnant you're also like oh I'm I want to move into massage therapy or how did your your business get started to where you actually started you know when you're carrying a baby or even trying to conceive you're sort of yes I assume now after I had been laid off I was practicing massage therapist Xue really felt like a natural extension of something that I could offer end inspiring I feel like you and I was still in the heights of Corporate America and in my career when I had my daughter and I wish I would have and I didn't have maternal figures around me or like mckesson which is the transformation of a woman as she becomes what is like to be a mom I felt like I was I was shocked women in the space of becoming mothers I wish we could get back to that mindset of it takes and reading articles about the five best ways to breastfeed or the three best ways to do this or the I couldn't agree more there's definitely sort of Ns like commoditisation log about the internal shifts that happen once got it let's talk about all of it let's shed light let's have the real in the raw conversations covering old messaging and covering storyline so that you can be the best version of yourself when you.
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"Welcome to gold with Jeanette Schneider negative inspiration for a bigger battery more purposeful corporate America to advocate for women and girls life love the boardroom and the marketplace now the CEO of my own media company my goal is to change the world for my daughter and her friends my first Book Lor Harnessing Your Pass to create your future drop late twenty eighteen and is based on what women wish they would have known when they were girls this is purposeful content via conversations and safe place for us to show our gold and our dreams for the future we record every week from the sound studio at the space lv we Zupan grass had the dream life a big beautiful home cars votes and a perfect marriage with a fantastic has been but all of that came crashing down after the great financial crisis of two thousand eight forcing them to sell everything but also inspiring chapter two of their lives at least shares with us the struggles she faced after leaving Australia I start in New York City now she went from Nineteen fifties style housewife to a self reliant entrepreneur lease upon glasses founder and CEO of canvas and hide a luxury that company based in Brooklyn New York claimed interior designer and fashion stylus in her Australian Homeland Lisa has over twenty years experienced has propelled her to the forefront of fashion and beauty on an international stage although she was at the forefront of the fashion industry in Australia she immersed herself a new challenge in the states and intense education intricacies of the manufacturing process to ensure quality control lisa delved into researching and learning the craft of luxury handbag construction for over a year determined I the finest quality and sustainable materials and partnership with environmentally responsible factories Lisa collaborated with factories in Italy and the US with a strong vision and meticulous research inch canvas and hide was born today listen I discussed her business being born out of necessity as a single mom turning pivots into pure oats when facing challenges and how true magic happens just outside of our comfort zone let's dig in I'm so excited to introduce audience today Lisa Pond Grassi's thank you for calling in from New York thank you for having me yeah absolutely absolutely I I'm so excited to talk to you because we have mutual friends who who put us together some people that I love in New York and they wanted to share your story and I was we were talking a little bit before we got started and there's a word that was used in conversation that has become a big word in my life that is the word pivots and I love what you're doing and your story because you have made a big pivotal in life and a lot of people are very fearful of having to change direction and so I wanted to dig into that with you because I think it's an inspiration all story and I know it starts in Sydney married with your husband two thousand eight what happened well ahead dream life I had the beautiful big house and Beautiful Goddamn beautiful 'cause votes fantastic husband perfect marriage and Two Thousand Eight was illustrated what we call the GMC 'cause we shorten everything in the crate financial crisis in a lot of people lost a lot of money including US so I remember my husband coming harm and being really really sad and saying honey we've got to sell the house and I think I'd been shopping at indy the day before I had no idea I had just had no idea and then our world the pot basically but we rallied and we sold the house and we took our daughter out of private school and sold caused and all of that and I remember saying to him honey why don't we just take amber a little girl and go away for you go somewhere really different and have a change of scenery and I don't know have a sea change so we did and we came to New York and that was the beginning of this pot of the journey that I guess is is chapter to allow lives in that chapter two I know that you you shared with me that you know you're looking for I start but it seems like every time you guys would start to be like okay direction change there was a new little like bump in the script like it was like okay let's just see about that and you mentioned that you had a trusted friend who is going to help you kind of rebound so yes I had a friend that I'd known since nineteen who is a loya and he befriended both of us when we moved to New York does he live there as well and he said Oh I'm investing in these Hedge Fund and I can get you in which is apparently how they speak are now no and and my husband who had had lost a substantial amount of money was tentative at first and then you know poodle obedient and then he had the return uh-huh and then we had the statements of money that we were making that was being rolled back in and we did that for a number of years king and we were accruing credit or capital into this fund and turns out that none of it was real it was a Ponzi game and he threw himself in the Hudson survived and is now in jail but it was just another you ride another bump in the road and other hurdle how could we have been so stupid after everything we'd been through you know really blamed ourselves for maybe not doing the right thing diligence and working at all out wow it just you never know who you can trust and who you can't but yeah he he took a Lotta people down including his on family and his closest closest friends it's interesting to me because I come back I come from the financial services background I it was in in finance and it's it's so amazing how predatory behavior can can infiltrate that part of the world and you talk about kind of rescuing people or not me I've seen this in in some of the hedge funds and quasi schemes and things like that like you're gonNa try to help this person and instead you lose everything and I think one of the things that was really interesting to me is when we I talking before we we started the parks you're sharing with me that you considered yourself almost like a nineteen fifties housewife tell me about that and that dynamic with your spend so I married a man nineteen years older than me and had gosh had like the perfect marriage he had three children from a previous marriage so when we lived together the first summer like the Brady Bunch instant family and I loved it I just I took to it like a duck to water with everything I ever wanted a big fan only then we had our own child Yeah Wow it's making me national distinct and so I became that really subservient you know don't get me wrong I I wasn't wearing an apron and hoovering but as I was definitely taking a backseat and just doing everything I could to be the perfect life the perfect mom have the perfect house and get it Brian because that's what I thought I needed to do it's so funny when you look back and you look at your younger self and think about what you value it back then and I did value that that was really important for me to make a beautiful family and a beautiful home but I kind of lost myself a little bit in that yeah I can understand that when you were in when you were in New York I know that you guys had more challenges that that came up and your husband headed back to see any if I'm not mistaken is all right so he did it was a long really sad process my husband had Cielo Chronic lymphocytic leukemia and got to a stage where he needed to go back to Australia to have treatment so he did and the treatment was I think it was it was chemo and radiotherapy took about six and a half months on so we were kind of forced to be a pot even though every holidays we would go and meet in in other places halfway between I kind of in that time was forced to take control of all of our life and schooling and I don't know if you have kids going to high school in New York but just that whole application process of getting your kids into school is it's insane it's an old interviews and applications and essays and tests and and I did that with her on my own and then then I had a horrible accident I used to cycle on the west side highway and I was cycling one day and someone hitting South came into my Latin and he's handled by hit my finger which was on the break of my racing bike and seventy on the spot so yep pretty horrible accident to have but you know I went ahead and amputation and I had to heal from that and I guess what it did in a way that it made me stronger it made me grow up a little bit well it sounds like while your husband was you know unfortunately and having his his chemotherapy and radiation therapy it sounds like you were also kind of stepping into parts of yourself right burke a known to some extent yeah losing pots myself on the west side highway myself yeah so it was of a journey back to that person that you might have lost in marriage you're finding it in New York City of all places using that insane yeah totally Dude myself and then my husband came back to New York when we found out that friend on Charlie Bennett head through himself in the Hudson so he flew back and then own my gosh two days off to my husband arrived my mother had a stroke so I left and flew back well enough so it caused us to unravel as as a couple yeah what was that that decision would adopt like I was so sad it was heartbreaking actually really really sad but you know we both wanted different games it's so interesting in a marriage you can you can be so compatible but if.
"schneider" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider
"Welcome to cold with genetic schneider negative inspiration for a bigger better more purposeful life each share wisdom insights and gold from those living their very best lives after twenty three years and finance and a fancy s v._p. Title i left corporate corporate america to advocate for women and girls life love the boardroom and the marketplace now the c._e._o. Of my own media company my goal is to change the world for my daughter and her friends in my first book lower harnessing your pass to create your future drops late twenty eighteen and is based on what women wish they would have known when they were girls. This is purposeful content fit conversations member stations in a safe place for us to show our goals and our dreams for the future. We record every week from the sound studio at the space l._v. Everyone and ruthie aromas life knew she was going to be a doctor except ruthie. She had a ton of big ideas about fashion interior design and being a physician to the stars until her brother's untimely family duck and a trip to botswana where she got first inexperienced with women's global health after understanding how cervical cancer changed a woman's life body and personal identity. She knew she found her calling ruthie details her grief after her brother's death and how empathy has changed her as a person and as a physician we talk about a women's relationship with her doctor what women still don't know about their bodies and her awareness that we manage sex through fear in most cultures she also discusses sexual assault from the perspective of a physician and women's rights advocate dr ruth. The aroma is georgetown university trained o._b._g._y._n. With a passion to discuss health in a way that it's accessible to every woman the sole o._b._g._y._n. At texas hoogly medical associates and mansfield texas she takes care of a range of o._b._g._y._n. Concerns specializes in care for p. c. o. s. fibroids fibroids and infertility doctor is also the host of the pretty in pink podcast in order to empower women's make better decisions when it comes to their personal health and wellbeing dr dr ramallah also digs into the importance of modeling behavior and how her mother became her mentor. There is no do as i say not as i do. She talks about choosing your mentors curate creating your own social media experiences and why it's important to shoot your shot when asking someone to minto let's dig in. I am thrilled to have on with me today dr rookie of ramallah as she is an o._b._g._y._n. With a podcast purpose thank you so so much for being on my show. It's my pleasure to be here. I love what you're doing. I was sharing <hes> with the good doctor that before we got started that i love talking to women especially in professional spaces who are helping women and i know that you have a podcast. <hes> coal is pretty in pink and really think yes yeah and where you're sharing what you know about <hes> <hes> women. I'm in being a doctor and talking about wellness and i just love what you're doing. It's it's career with purpose wanted to dig into that with you and find out what led you on this this path. Why did you choose <hes> this specific. <hes> kind of <hes> route as far as medicine is concerned and how does that play into what you're doing in in life ginette <hes> i i would say that. I never really knew that i was going to be a physician. I was always told told that because i happen to be one of those girls that are one of those kids that was always somewhere in the top of my class <hes> <unk> i graduated from high school at as about who torian first black female valedictorian in my county maryland poland and i also was ahead about thinks seventy something credits for college including a._p. Classes susan taking some university classes so of course all mike hausler. Everybody was like you know to be adapted like that's just yeah how it was and i actually went to prove them all wrong. I want it to be this like you'll totally wanted to be a sex therapist. I hadn't had sex but i knew it was gonna be cool to talk to people about their most intimate parts of their beings uh-huh and i thought okay well my older sisters. Their into fashion had a sister who is a fashion bottle and she had a clothing line. Aren't you actually opened the clothing line of saying year that i was wondering from high school two thousand and three so i thought oh my god she's like the most fabulous human gene you've ever met and i wanted to be her and then my other sister was a wedding planner or more like event planners. I thought okay i could be like her. I could do interior decorating in there. We'll have the trifecta and so. I like the way for some reason i kept being pushed back. Atkin being pushed back in so i took my m cats which is the entrance exam and i did really well on it. Ah like freakishly on it and that was kind of unheard of right because a lot of people have that is in tarrant is that that exam is so crazy easy and i actually did a lot of in retrospect self sabotage in that my parents paid for princeton review course who back then was like eighteen hundred hundred dollars and i would like a way to the class twice. <hes> i went to twelve week lasts twice. I like like would come up with all these ideas as to how i shouldn't do this and adjust kept pushing me back but as i got older and i got into i started do the master's in public health and i started realizing that although i thought kay i'm going to change the world i'm gonna like nab deviated away from just trying to be like my the sisters on our way to leave my own legacy and i was like twenty one thinking about my legacy and i wanted to change the world. I wanted to change african countries countries. How medicine is seen all across the world but when i was doing that i realized i knew a lot about the epidemiology the the prevalence the incidence of different diseases but i had absolutely no idea what diabetes was. I didn't know oh what a my <unk> myocardial infarction was. I didn't know what blood clotting your legs and lungs really meant. I just knew that the this allowed to have them and we gotta stop this <hes> and so me wanting to dive deeper just like you say dive dive deeper me wanting to really get into the nitty gritty of diseases conditions. I really felt the need that i needed to become an expert in that field and so that's why i chose to go into medicine and chose to go into medicine also because i was that superficial right i. I thought i'm going to the doctor to the stars. Supplies will be the cy. I can't be the model. I can't be the interior decorator but i'm going to one up on them and i'm going to be physician to the sars i went in devotee algae all all the way and then i decided that you know during my third and fourth year medical school actually i should say this beginning of thirty of medical school. My brother passed away and so that was really devastating nash. She shifted my life in so many ways now looking back at it all these years later but when that happened. I saw this a good time to get some extra. Quote unquote call accolades that you're gonna help me better dermatology resident while dealing with the process of grief and bereavement and absolutely had no idea what i was doing. I just thought i need to be there more for my family and i don't need to be stressed out in medical school so i took this time off and i spent a yearbook lana doing medical research to end the morphing into telemedicine research what is started off as dermatology research and as i was doing it i realized that this is not for me like going in and out every day looking or cancer. It's four someone but it's not for me. I needed more. I needed more sergiy. Really that's where i signed up thought i need anymore. Surgery so i started re shadowing different <hes> specialties in botswana and i read up on this doctor dr who did what they call see intrigued see intriguing is how they manage cervical cancer health or several cancer prevention prevention in there will countries they use acidic acid which is known as table vinegar importance of edina. They look for changes in the cells at if there is a change they treated immediately because they know the once they have an active patient. That might be it for lifetime. That's what they did and i thought this was amazing but the second highest country in terms of the incident the prevalence prevalence of h._i._v. and when you have h._i._v. Your your immune system is compromised so you tend to have diseases and conditions that many people can fight off in that includes changes in your servants and that could lead to several cancer can be very devastating. It can be devastating to not just who a woman is but how you see yourself because many women end up having radiation therapy. They can't have intercourse. They can't have kids civil end up with what we call a barbie barbie pelaez with no vagina.