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Fresh update on "st" discussed on AP News Radio
"The St Louis cardinals expanded their lead in the race for the second National League wild card spot with an 87 win over the San Diego Padres on Sunday card starting pitcher J. A. happ says he believes his team can be a force to be reckoned with this postseason we feel good about the way we're playing right now and you know a confidence can be a scary thing and when you're you know playing right at the right time of the year that sometimes I can go a long way the cardinal scored 5 runs off J. carry out in the first inning before he left the game with a strained right groin the cardinals have won 8 straight games for the first time since August of 2018 and they now sit 3.5 games ahead of the Padres and 3 games ahead of the Cincinnati Reds in the wild card race David Solomon St Louis
Tatis botches popup, Cards beat Padres 8-7, win 8th straight
"The St Louis cardinals expanded their lead in the race for the second National League wild card spot with an eight seven win over the San Diego Padres on Sunday card starting pitcher J. A. happ says he believes his team can be a force to be reckoned with this postseason we feel good about the way we're playing right now and you know a confidence can be a scary thing and when you're you know playing right at the right time of the year that sometimes I can go a long way the cardinal scored five runs off J. carry out in the first inning before he left the game with a strained right groin the cardinals have won eight straight games for the first time since August of twenty eighteen and they now sit three and a half games ahead of the Padres and three games ahead of the Cincinnati Reds in the wild card race David Solomon St Louis
Fresh update on "st" discussed on Bruce St. James
"Of wls Bruce ST James on the big 89. You know the story came out mostly because Uh, Alderman Gardner stood up in front of the City council and issued an apology. Um, sorry, Standard apology. Is that what that was to anyone who may have been offended? It's not who I am. These are not my character's not representing use these words that I used Um We also know that the FBI might be poking into some of his business. Did he use his office illegally? There are allegations just allegations. That he, um exacted revenge on either constituents who were said bad things about him or political opponents and use the power of the Alderman's seat. To punish them in some way, shape or form. Joining us right now, Uh, he's Pulitzer Prize winning Actually, yeah. Bragger from patch dot com He's Mark Concho Mark. Good morning. Good morning. Hi, Judy. Hello, Mark. So, how much trouble do you think Alderman Gardner is really in mark? How much trouble in Chicago? Is he in? Well, I mean, we'll see if the feds ever come back with any indictments. I mean, investigate stuff all the time. It's enough. You guys remember, But there was a big, you know, Toilet gate investigation of Jamie Prince. Stir that everybody talks about that went nowhere so Just because the Fed go knocking on somebody's stores and ask you questions here and there. It doesn't mean they've got you on anything fair enough, and I mean, that's the only serious thing he's facing, right besides the voters, I guess. Exactly. It's like, you know, there's another story that came out yesterday about you know, he could face the $5000 fine booze. What you need to be clear. He'll find a way to get there from his constituents and mark to be clear. I mean, it was a big difference between texting dirty words are calling your co workers, your colleagues there. In the City Council. Bad words and using your office illegally. I mean, those are two vastly different things. One is inappropriate. Another is illegal. Exactly, But you know the victory that bothers me. Is that especially in this time when we talk about, you know, police misconduct or, you know, public this cut official misconduct, is it In Chicago. The rules for investigating Alderman um Include a provision that you cannot investigate an anonymous tip and this came out. You know from blogger, Um, you know, there's a There's a provision that says, like if an inspector general gets an anonymous tip, but there are complaints that isn't signed. And sworn to that they have to, you know, Kick it back to the City Council Rules and ethics committee so that whoever is being ratted out, we'll at least know what's going on. Made that rule the alderman? Of course. Who do you think? Right? You know, same guys that voted for the automatic pay raise. Hmm. Go, Bruce, you're catching on. It didn't take long. I got to tell you, although, you know to me that the gardener Her story is almost the quintessential Chicago politics story. I'm not only not surprised, shocked or disappointed by it. I expect they all act like this. I expect that once you get elected, you go out and you're going to use your your office to screw with the guys who ran against you and said mean things, etcetera. Of course you are. Of course you are. And then you know, the thing is like it's true that you know, I think that you know, police officers. You know if there's a anonymous complaint, um especially from within the department, and it should be investigated because You know, retaliation is real. Yeah, you know, and but if it's good for the police officers, and that was the anonymous complaint being able to be investigated or lifting the ban on that. Is in the new contract that was just passed by the City Council. But when it comes to them, the things in the city law that says Inspector general has no authority over Chicago Alderman or their staff. So why do we even have a legislative? Yeah. Why? Even having exactly what about these two lawsuits, Mark, could those amount to anything against him? All right. There's there's civil lawsuit, So you know, maybe probably, you know, we're hearing that, you know, Alderman Gardener, Um, for sure isn't the smartest guy around? You know the way he conducts business? You know, you don't have to be smart to be a politician. You just need votes here. Here. Uh, And you know when we talked about you know what's going to happen to him? Frankly, I don't care. I mean, what's happening to him now is like The he's become, you know? People remember in a sometimes the court. The court of Public opinion sometimes is better than the court of law, especially when you don't have any recourse here legally. So I think what's happening? Public wise is really going to hurt him. Well, it hurt him with his constituents. That's the question will he will somebody run against him? And he didn't mess with your fellow alderman. You could mess and and you know, with your you can do correct when you start to Attack your constituents? Yeah, that's when it becomes a war. I think I haven't grown up in Chicago. Bad people are lined up to get there were lined up to get him in the beginning, and they're still lined up and people are piling on to give a healthy push to to get them out. But like I said, I don't care about Alderman Gardner. Really, because he is just one example of, you know. What Happened and Chicago City government in Almeria as powerful as they used to be under Lightfoot because she stripped away automatic prerogative. Um, but, you know, you think that there's not another alderman that's like You know what? That lady on the corner there that, you know? Yeah, I'm gonna shut down her candy business problem. I'm going to send some inspectors over to that. Yeah, you know. I'm not going. I'm not going to. I'm not going to get the snow plowed in front of that business over there. Because that that Yeah, who ran against? Of course they do that. Of course. That is part of the Chicago way. What? What's it worth winning? If you can't do that? I didn't know that interesting thing If we have a second, please is that the gardener is is a firefighter. Yes. Firefighter Union contract. You can take it on paid leave of absence to to quote unquote worked for the city. So even if he quit, there's a job waiting for him. You know that That's 100 and $10,000 a year plus overtime. You know, working 24 hours and then 48 off. You know which which gives you at least you know, sometime in the middle of the work of a job, You know, if he quits will get a pay raise right now. When I call 911 I've got to remember to say, Just don't send Gardner Don't sing, Gardner. Yeah, Well, you might call your names along real quick if he goes back, but the whole blue right in the press and all the stories are, you know? Oh, he's gonna be censured by the Chicago Democratic machine. Oh, really? That great. Market, a Jack Kerouac style. Mark you did Jack Kerouac style road trip this summer. You had some great articles over the summer. You did a great job with that great job on the road. Enjoyed your trick. Yes, it's kind of good to be back because I've done with some White Sox games, but but it seems like Chicago is a little more. Processing that it was when I left. You know that. That's where the I use all the time. Crisis is Mark. We appreciate your insight. Thank you very much. You can obviously read Mark's work at patch dot com. He's Mark Concho and again. I, uh I understand how the gardener story is because of the salaciousness of it. And the dirty words and all that. He used a lot of dirty word, Please party my word. The F word potty mouth. I don't think that's unusual amongst all the you know what I'm saying. Hold them in such a low standard that I don't I don't know how the game works. He's he shouldn't be in there. He's He's not a good player. The best of.
Candelario and Garneau Homer, Tigers Beat Rays 4-3
"Was a uranium earned his fourth win in chamber Candelario hit a sixteen home runs the Detroit Tigers defeated the Tampa Bay rays forty three candle areas three run blast off rays starter Ryan Yarbrough came in the top of the first inning and catcher Dustin Garneau added a solo shot his fifth of the year an inning later Garneau credits his teammates on being able to bounce back from Friday's collapse to take the game feels like the game last night hurts more than I get blown out because you're there playoff teams and the way we responded it was awesome tweets we want to see your in your followed a three inning scheduled start for tark's Google by allowing just two hits while pitching into the seventh the tiger snap a two game skid while Tampa bay's leading the American League east and now down to seven and a half games over Boston Steve Kearney St Petersburg
With Hands Tied, Montana Officials Issue Public Health Plea
"There's been an escalation of the pandemic in several western states struggling to convince skeptical people to get vaccinated public health leaders have approved price of care rationing in Idaho parts of Alaska and Montana and several more states are veering dangerously close with less than ten percent of intensive care unit beds available in Idaho we're overwhelmed hospitals are rationing care statewide the state is looking at a virus positivity rate of twenty percent as hospitals in Missoula and Bozeman face increasing strain local health officials are banking Montana residents to wear masks indoors get vaccinated and limit gatherings there lamenting their inability to implement public health restrictions after Montana passed several laws earlier this year curtailing their power in Helena chief medical officer Dr Shelly Harkins with St Peter's health says the constraints of a hospital or worse than what was seen earlier in the pandemic the hospital's intensive care unit advanced medical unit and morgue are full I'm Jennifer king
Carlson Homers Twice, Mikolas Gets First Win in Two Years
"Dylan Carlson belts a grand slam home run and a solo shot of the cardinals the to to win over the Padres it's the second grand slam this season for the rookie right fielder who has fifteen home runs this year that's a real good team over there and we got to bring that energy every day because you know they think of what small over there that's for sure so I'm just keeping the focus on us here and plan plan hard each and every day control we can control it's definitely some benefit street with Tyler o'neill has a two run blast for the Redbirds who win their sixth straight miles Michaelis tosses by a two thirds shutout innings to record the win it's Velasquez takes the loss St Louis remains in control of the you know second wild card spot they're a game up on Cincinnati in a game and a half ahead of San Diego Mike Reeves St Louis
Boris Epshteyn and Rudy Giuliani Discuss The Corruption of the Biden Family
"Got america's mayor the one and only true historic leader of this country. Mayor rudy giuliani mayor. Thanks so much for coming on or is always a pleasure. How are you. it's it's my pleasure. And my honor to have my honor to talk to you and i wanna go right back and we did this with commissioner. Kerik let's go back to nine eleven few days ago. I the honor of being there with you downtown. You give that powerhouse speech. I don't give one iota of crap. What the losers. And all of the weaklings in mainstream media say that was a powerhouse. Happy you came into it and you went hot on biden or used to be joe biden on the trader million. We know even more than we did when you were giving that speech of just how much of a trader gentleman on the pathetic st stance of the democrats in this country and the rhinos pushing back against china so mayor. I wanna thank you. I wanna thank you for your leadership. I want to thank you for your strength and wanna think of putting the country on your back twenty years ago on nine eleven and thank you for continuing to stand up. Sir thank you. It's it's a it's a. It's the thing that keeps me. Going is the fact that i know that i'm telling the truth that i have support for this year. You know it because you were there with me necessarily election allegations but also go way back to all the corruption of the biden family of thirty million dollars at least in bribes over thirty year period of pay for play scheme that started like little cheap scheme in delaware and became a massive twenty thirty million dollars for the communist. Chinese all provable. All they're all covered up by the media and the hard would have proved all of that and then now we have really the consequences of the fraud of two thousand twenty and that is the match killing people. His incompetence is letting people die. Who would not have died if we had a responsible president not even if we had trump but if we had a reasonably intelligent man operating with his full bringing
Rays Beat Tigers 5-2, Extend AL East Lead to 8 1/2 Games
"Dietrich Enns earned his second win in Mike Zunino it is thirty first home run is the Tampa Bay rays defeated the Detroit Tigers five to two ends to go over for opener Lewis head in the second and allowed a run on three hits in four innings of work Sununu's two run blast off reliever drew Carlton in the six give the race a five one lead when extends the rays leading the American League east eight and a half games over idle Toronto in Boston and trims the magic number to win the division to a Steve Kearney St Petersburg
Tatis, Padres End 5-Game Skid, Cut Giants' 9-Game Win Streak
"The giants nine game win streak came to an end as the Padres outs like San Francisco nine to six Adam Frazier and Fernando tatties junior each had four hits apiece Frazier with a two run double and Eric Hosmer added a two run single Joe Musgrove pitched six innings and allowed three runs to get the win it just feels good to be back in the win column and it's been awhile since we've won the game the Padres remained one game behind St Louis for second place in the National League wild card the giants with solo homers from Tyrrel strata Kris Bryant Steven Duggar and Brandon belt despite the loss San Francisco scored at least six runs in each of its last ten games Riley Aung San Francisco
Cardinals Power Past Mets 11-4 for 3-Game Sweep
"The cardinals have completed a three game sweep with a convincing eleven to four win over the Mets Harrison better known or not Paul Goldschmidt ended mondo Sosa homered for St Louis which continues to own the second NL wild card position better says they're playing some of their best baseball when it matters most all I know is where to stand in the pocket and plan our game on all sides of baseball you know we know our schedule in front of us we know how tight these games are and how close the race is but you know I've been in the day if we don't take care of you know what we got take care of you know for nine innings on any given day it really doesn't matter Tyler o'neill laced a two run double that sparked the Redbirds five run first off loser Tylor Megill winning pitcher Jon Lester allowed two earned runs and six hits with seven strikeouts over six innings I'm Dave Ferrie
Buster Posey's 18th Homer Helps Giants to Ninth Straight Win
"The red hot giants continue to roll winning their ninth straight game as they beat the Padres six to one coinciding with the win streak San Francisco scored six or more runs in each of its last nine games this is giants catcher buster Posey sense of side of things and being able to play two different positions throughout the game it's definitely a collective effort when you're able to to route a lost nine in a row Posey homered while Darren Roth and Brandon belt each with RBI doubles Anthony DeSclafani had not won a game since August thirteenth and he pitched six and two thirds strong innings allowed one run on three hits to earn the victory the Padres are struggling having lost five in a row and game behind St Louis for the second wild card spot Ryan Lee Aung San Francisco
The Connection Between Sexual and Emotional Intimacy With Psychologist Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
"What's the effect that emotional intimacy hasn't sexual intimacy while. Sometimes i feel a little bit like a marriage. We do what we sometimes do in psychology. Which is we make a kind of false split between emotional and sexual intimacy like we do it between the mind and the body in psychology. Where i think it's much more integrated than it's kind of false division a little bit but would stay. Is you know. It's in a long term partnership it's difficult to want to have sex with someone you don't fundamentally like trust and they're to be your full south with which is very much linked to the quality of the relationship so you know i think sometimes even saying emotional intimacy is a little bit i use the framing. So i understand. Why do it. But it's a little bit of a false category. Which is the real deal is. How free am i to be who i am with you. Show you who i am sexually emotionally. Intellectually to be intimate. And how much room do i make for you to be yourself into. Show me who you are. And to create a partnership that makes room for two of us to live honestly at open heartedly with one another. So that's a big part of a sustainable and growing emotional and sexual relationship.
Prosecutors: Tapes capture R. Kelly threatening his victims
"Well the jury here from R. Kelly during his sex trafficking trial the answer to that question rest with the trial judge we don't know whether the R&B star will testify in his own defense at his trial but prosecutors are trying to get the jury to hear R. Kelly's voice they want to play a series of tapes that showed that the musician threatened his sex partners with violence on one from two thousand and eight and rage Kelly accuses a woman of lying to him before he begins assaulting her on another he berates a woman from Florida whom he accuses of stealing a Rolex watch from him he said if she stole again he would travel down to the state and that something will happen to her in other comments Kelly bragged that he had cameras everywhere in the Chicago studio and elsewhere to keep an eye on people the judge indicates that she will let the tape St I'm Oscar wells Gabriel
Holocaust Survivor, Scholar Awarded $815,000 Balzan Prize
"An Israeli French American Holocaust survivor and historian and a U. S. scientist specializing in got bacteria are among the recipients of this year's battles and crises recognizing scholarly and scientific achievements Seoul Friedlander was awarded the prize for Holocaust and genocide studies the Pulitzer Prize winner and macarthur fellow eighty eight year old Friedlander has taught widely in the U. S. took Telavi view diversity he was recognized for examining the persecution of all Jews in Europe then beyond the country focus studies that had preceded him I'm for making postal documents acceptable in scholarly practice while Jeffrey Goldman from Washington university in St Louis who's to wilted about St for founding the field of human microbiome research I'm Charles to this month
Pope in Slovakia to Honor Holocaust Dead on Day 2 of Tour
"Pope Francis has opened his first full day in Slovakia by meeting with the country's president the head of an encounter with the Jewish community to honor its Holocaust day and the tone for Catholic complicity in World War two era racial nobles and crimes prince is a vice the cathedral of St looking well and rested on the second day of his four day filled to Hungary and Slovakia the **** first international outing since undergoing intestinal surgery in July Francis will visit the capital's Holocaust memorial built on the site of a synagogue destroyed by the communist regime in the nineteen sixties and then up to an event focusing on stopping the rise of anti semitism in Europe the pope saying this is a fuse which must not be allowed to burn I'm Charles de Ledesma
Winston, Saints, Overcome Displacement, Pound Packers 38-3
"A change of venue didn't bother New Orleans Saints one bit force from the Superdome after hurricane I did too open against the Green Bay Packers in Jacksonville the saints marched all over the pack thirty eight to three Janus Winston threw for only a hundred forty eight yards but fired five touchdown passes we were prepared despite the adversity of having to be in Dallas despite all the things that happen at home R. mas at St St we prepare to play gets Green Bay and played the best football that we can we did that backup tight end joint Johnson caught a pair downstairs capped the day with a fifty five yard bomb rating MVP Aaron Rodgers on the other hand kept out of the end zone and picked off twice suffering his worst loss as a Packer starter mark Daniels Jacksonville
No. 9 Iowa Beats No. 10 Iowa St 27-17 to Keep Cy-Hawk Trophy
"Knight Frank di would beat number ten Iowa state for the sixth straight time twenty seven seventeen the Hawkeyes turned four takeaways into twenty points ran their overall winning streak to eight games and their winning streak against ranked teams to five Jack Campbell returned a fumble six yards for a touchdown Matt Hankins had two of Iowa's three interceptions against Brock Purdy Spencer Petras threw a pretty twenty six yard touchdown pass to Charlie Jones Tyler Goodman had a four yard TD run in the second quarter for Iowa which won despite gaining just one hundred seventy three total yards I'm the fairy
1 to Go: Djokovic Into US Open Final, Nears Year Grand Slam
"Well number one that a joke of it just kept alive his hopes of becoming the first man in more than five decades to win a calendar year grand slam but not before intense roller coaster five said US open battle with the full state Alexander Zverev they determine certain eventually prevailed six two in the fifth set I know we want to talk about history and I know it's on the line and I'm aware of it of course I'm aware of it but I'm just trying to looking to what I know works for me Djokovic has now just one win away from making history and his remaining hurdle will be the second state Daniel Medvedev they inform Russian strike setting the twelfth St Felix or share the same to reach his third grand slam finale I'm Graham like us
‘The Metallica Blacklist’ Is an Enormous Tribute to an Enormously Influential Album
"Thirty years ago. In nineteen ninety-one the california heavy metal band metallica released its fifth studio album. The record was simply called metallica but earned the nickname the black album. Thanks to its mostly black. Cover to songs on. The black album. Represented a shift from metallica. They were more accessible melodic than the epic heavy metal shredders. The band was known for and music. Fans aided up the black album debuted at number one on the billboard. Two hundred the records. I single enter. Sandman reached number sixteen on the hot one. Hundred singles chart and over. The last thirty years has become an anthem. Used pump up crowds at sporting events in stadiums. All over the world now. A collection of songs called the metallica blacklist celebrates the thirtieth anniversary of metallica's black album it features stevie bridges my morning jacket kamasi washington and fifty other artists covering tracks from the black album.
Teen Dream: Raducanu, 18, Fernandez, 19, Into US Open Final
"Two understated teenagers have made it through to the U. S. open women's final and one of them is a qualifier unprecedented nineteen year old Canadian light up and and this was a first for winning yet another roller coaster battle closing out the second seed arenas at the Lincoln six four in the third set and in one word that that really stuck to me is magical because not only was is Myron really good but also the way I'm playing right now I'm just having fun eighteen year old brick qualified democratic candidate followed not long after reaching the most improbable of finals with her sixth consecutive straight sets win this time six one six four over the seventeenth St Maria Zachary I'm Graham like us
"st" Discussed on LifePix Relationships With ST
"Hope you're having an awesome day. Are you ready to better understand yourself your partner and your marriage ooh and your six inner needs. Yes in this episode. Which was my three favor points from the previous episode and bring them to you here so you get great review. And he didn't have a chance to listen to the previous one. You'll get it here now. Ready here we go. Marriage pigs number one is understanding the six needs which ones you're really good at and which ones you need a work more on ready. I'm gonna go through them here. Go through them quickly. If you wanna go more in depth and understanding even better go back and listen to the previous episode. Ready sticks internees needs first. One is grace second. One is relationships. third one is ownership. Orth is worth five is a laughter and six is security k. I wanna see that again even though personally i think the last two should go first because those are foundation but because go in order the growls. It's go great acronym free to remember all them the growls six in our needs This is what it is ready to do to get grace. Relationships ownerships worth laughter security obey. That was america's number one. Go through them again with your partner going fair out which ones you guys are doing great ad. Which was you. Need to go and unproven. Marriage picks number two is keeping a story book of your relationship. So you could do this every want you could do this with like you make a page. Let's say one day every year on your anniversary could if you want even for only like a part of your relationship like is actually just being someone a couple of days ago where. She didn't album of their didi processes. Like twenty something years ago and so it was like before the age like just like pictures and everything ads on their phone and jessica alba like take pick up those plastics and you stick in the picture. Is that way. You don't have to only put in like one size pictures. And she literally she'd like this whole thing for their whole dating process every state got like a couple of pages pictures like jobs and different things that they put on. It was really like singing. Twenty something years later of what her relationship looks like also heard by new year's time. I heard from tony robbins. How he does like he takes one or two a few pictures from every month and makes like a slide show on february review of that year and all the good things that happened. See you could try something like that. You could take this however you want however create if you like to be highly wanted to this if you wanted with real pictures digital pictures in an actual book for your kids to see years later chooses specific topic you under like pregnancy part of like a specific. Hit or whatever you want. It's really really interesting. Gets you together with your spouse. I don't know if that has been to that but usually more creating although this was actually from rick himself i think he's the one that does any does more writings with depending how creative you wanna get depending what type you are going to keep a book. You will be really happy later on marriage. Fixed number three is about compliments for the future. He wanted to get a vision to your compliments. You don't want to just say oh. This is amazing. You wanna go and give a compliment is really going to go and live for the future. Now we really really deep into this episode forty nine th y'all we'll fish you could go back in the year and see how to give nurtured heart approach comments but i'm going to go and remind you hear quickly when we get angry. Yeah when we get angry. We give a lot of emotion me yell. We're going to do a lot. Sorry fi like gotten to. Somebody's ear buds right now on me for that but when we give a couple of like whoa. That was so cool as amazing. But we don't give as much energy as due to the anger so there's three parts to give an retired approach fumble but and the very first one is giving that energy like or amazing or like something like energies that we. Cdc that you not only when mom gets angry bowl so when things go great. There's a lot of energy or partner. Whatever it is the third one is what legal actions one is one. Say what you saw literally like. Repeat back what you saw. You took the trash out or thank you for doing the laundry or go to the grocery store buying me this specific thing or whatever it is you wanna go literally repea- like as if you're writing. Now what you see. In front of you and boeing and telling them and then you're going to label that with an action with a trait. It's shows them that they actually have it inside them and could be their for the future right so that show self control. That shows cleanliness. That shows teamwork. That shows you care about me because what happens. Let's say oh. Thank you so much that you care so much about me. But then seemed. I'm husbands digging like Yeah i do care a lot about you but sometimes there's a while because like i came home from work for your birthday or something like that whatever else. It wasn't an all of these maximum. Like i don't really care about you. I mean the start coming in. You said you say this specific action shows secured about me and that's true that it can't lie about that like you see. No one's going to say taking the trash out. It doesn't show cleanliness taking the trash out colonist and so that is going to start like building up building up building up debt. Like hey actually amicably. Person actually do have solved the drill. Actually i advocating. I can't do this. I am an and you're really going building the person you're their future. So guys if you enjoy this episode don't to share it with someone else who you think will enjoy. It have awesome us every day out. See you on the next episode financial. 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"st" Discussed on LifePix Relationships With ST
"Pixar's hope. You're having awesome day. Are you ready to better understand yourself. Your partner and your marriage is especially helpful for all those women out there who want understand their health. Better and os men out there. Who want understand their hers better. Are you ready. Let's do this first. Marriage picks is. This is so important whether it's health whether it's mental health whether it's emotional whether it's happening. This is something. I believe it so so so so so so so so so so much today so again another you want to get to the root of the cause. The rue of the problem. Not just look at the 'cause right so many times we give people just pass fires or bandaids when they need food or surgery instead. Okay if you have a health problem if there something else going on. Don't just say. Oh i need to take this end. -biotics oh need to go. Do this just going go away or get a fight with your partners. Ao any wall is the underlying reason of why this is happening. Gray for example. Having there hasn't been on for a long time and i didn't understand antibiotics. I'm like there's a reason why at someone my age is just getting an erection. Never mind as like a little kid. I used to get infections all the time every time they would demand about ix does just go up and opened up because it just didn't work. There's a reason for that. And it's tense blood work and van the almond nemec and there's a whole bunch of other things that in god is getting better each day and we're working on the root cause so that way not only that goes away but also others that have become because of it now for our second marriage picks is that don't have to suffer with pms. There's a reason for people think it's just like a normal thing and you just have to have but they are things for you to go and do this. Is the rivers episode. Get some ideas and go and take your results in. Just be in pain on a monthly basis because you have famous now for our third one business really important in house in wellness. Everything you're doing whether you're buying a whether it's in your relationship whether you're listening to me or to anyone else you wanna make sure your information is accurate a lot of times just assume these things or so many people tell us this but it's not real information is not really accurate. Sometimes it takes work and sometimes takes off research but you wanna make sure the information you are saying is proven is real. It's not just taking care of the symptom. What is underlying wire. The this what else is happening here. Okay live the rest of the day. Living real getting to the root and not just dealing with a cause have an awesome. Every day i see by now. That's all for this episode of life picks relationships and we have a huge favor to ask of you that will not only support this show but also give others what they need to take their marriage to the next.
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"Pictures all sunday. Are you ready to better understand yourself your partner and your marriage well even if you don't have a baby or you don't have babies now or you don't plan on having a baby or whatever stage up to you are going to learn from. This episode is not just for new moms or people who are planning on becoming parents. Are you ready. Let's do this first. Marriage fixes the re questions. It you should be asking yourself on a daily basis very first one is what am i doing to take care of myself. The next one is one of my doing to make sure i'm connecting with my partner. And then the last one is. What am i doing to connect with mike child. So whether you if you don't have told i guess there's one is not for you but if you have children in any rain whether they're living at all whether they're not you wanna ask yourself. What are you doing to connect with your child. Three things they you should be asking yourself every single day. There's no excuse for these are the most important things in your life and you want to go and take care of them. K next marriage picks number two. This is really good. I think for anyone. Wet whatever stage of your relationship crash you have a public calendar either use like an app like trello or something where you both haven't new both see or you can have it just like on wall. Your kids could see the little ones they all know. You put on all the exciting birthdays. Anniversaries like that. But you also put on all your meetings so your partner knows your family knows what you're up to. This is about open open. Communication no has to worry like wire coming late. Oh yeah you have a meeting at work. So that's why or just going out with a friend. Totally totally normal so much. Von will let your partner note that you plan this. They don't plan for the same night that you plan to well with your runs got that great now for our very last marriage mixed marriage picks number three. This is so so so hard if your mom so hard if you just had a child but it's crucial a really important. You've got to prioritize your sleep. Now you do cathrine day lake some sort of method some sort of rhythm of like when you go to sleep. She didn't end up at the same time as her husband because she would take care of the baby earlier in the morning while her husband to give the baby later at night. You.
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"You like having an awesome. They are you ready to better understand yourself your partner and your marriage. Oh yeah you can do a little bit of a different way. Not typical like just becoming more software. Although that is one of the marriage picks myself if you enjoyed this episode dover get to share with your family and friends so the two can have a better relationship. And you'll be helping which echo of one million dollars per episode by the end of twenty twenty five. So far i to marriage fix. Actually i'm gonna choose ones. That are more like myth. Surgical or like belief busters differently or or just what people think about marriage picks them like. It's really not true. And the very first one is going to be memphis isn't going to sleep. It isn't about like relaxing. It's about being a lighting. It's about waking up. It's about learning new things about going. Deep deep deep inside yourself which brings me straight onto the next one. Meditation is about becoming more self aware about learning more about yourself about understanding. What's going on and just growing and becoming from that. Now that's like a little bit different than what other people say now remember. We're leaving me just more self aware about your press and about how your feelings things like that. It's time to go up to really go and connect so call with your higher self and especially people that aren't used to this it takes time so don't worry he gets slow. Go start by just focusing on your breath and you'll get better over time now. Our third match picks. I'm going to suggest that you go and meditate with your partner it will do so much for you and so much for your relationship. You're going to actually a really really good way for you to go meditate with your parche is back episode. One thirty nine as she. Does the hand mirroring exercising one of you moves. And the onus of all that is a sore of meditation because you're becoming more aware of your hands obviously afterwards you can have those discussions of understanding what's going on so if you didn't do that go into it. If you did do it you might want to again and see if you come up with different things. How things are going. Have an awesome rest of your day. Become resolve aware of yourself of your partner of your relationship. And i'll see on the next episode. That's all for this episode of life picks relationships and we have a huge favor to ask of you. They will not only support this show but also give others what they need to take their marriage to the next level were striving to have a million dollars per episode by december. Thirty first twenty twenty five so please share it with your family and friends so they can turn their relationship into an extraordinary wine..
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"Understand yourself your partner and your marriage. Oh yet in this episode. We will to the disk fit to a whole new level. I love this episode so much. So for arbor's marriage bakes. I'm just going to get straight to it as you probably would guess is figuring out yours and gir- partners bird bird. Are you now if you listen to the baby s episode. I want to tell you what the words are. And just from the names of the four words. I'm sure you could figure out. What are those personality traits of each of these birds. Also you'll want to listen to the other episode because just so much fun and so interesting so we're at number one is eagle number two. It's parrot dolph and our will he. Parrot dove an owl. I'm sure you know which one is the brand new on and wants to spreadsheets. And which one just like loves talking to other people so you got a down you know what yours your partners is. We are on for marriage fixed number two. His health so much gives a whole new perspective on my beliefs of self awareness. And i think i'm going to start adding and you know how they like before. Communication come self-awareness. I think i'm now going to put in this part. Also it's not about self awareness. It's about other awareness. What is the other person what. How does the other person do things walk else is going on in here. It's how does your brain work hard wired. What is the personality. What type of bird are they. And how do i go and took it to. How do i go and talk to them. Who are they. What do they need. This will work. Whether it's with your spouse your kids year boss targeting of what were. They are match up to birds. I really quick and easy to do that. And then go and think like hey what type percent they are now. Marriage pigs number three brings me on for what i found really interesting and i think it brings five languages to whole new level and that is you want to match the love language to the bird so like merrick said it depends what their lovling which is and it depends on what bird they are. That's you're gonna know what to go and give them right so if someone's words of affirmation it's going to be really different with their parents if they are an hour if they are dubbed were if they are an eagle the want something else wants wants to hear your powerful. You'll want to hear your beautiful. Your wants to hear their you give presents we've done was great while and also one of their words. No wonder why always say awesome. I was like yeah is awesome breweries. And because i've got olot parenting mita ease my dominate bird. Like you said everybody is part of other ones just like gain which is everyone has parts of other ones so you know already your partners leveling which is because we spoke about this so many times already. Now you know your partners bird now your goal is to go and a match up and really give them exactly what we need in a way that they'll appreciate it the most thinking. Could you let me know that goes if you enjoyed this episode. Don't forget to share it with your family and friends so they too can go and learn about these words. I think there are so cool. Can you go and teach it to kids. Let them go and learn about these birds. So shared everyone. Let me know if you have any more questions than life which relationships dot com and have an awesome rest of your day poking to different types of birds in the way that they need to hear it for this episode of life picks relationships and we have a huge favor to ask of you. That will not only support this show but also give others what they need to take their marriage to the next level. We're striving to have a million dollars per episode by december thirty first twenty twenty five so please share it with your family and friends so they can turn their relationship into an extraordinary wine..
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"Fixtures awesome they are you ready to better understand yourself your partner and your marriage. Did you not love the previous episode with david in sydney. I absolutely everything i can. He didn't get a chance. Those i highly recommend you go check it out. You will love it. You'll laugh right arrow and you will learn so much now for today's diverse. One as going to be something that i think we all like a reminder that was good in like affects all time we sometimes forget about it. Is that when you open up. Other people feel less alone if you like the only ones that are having this challenging time putting their kids to bed or can't their kids to do homework or speak to their partner stuff like that and obviously i am not here to go and say post on instagram story. All your challenges. Oil all your vulnerabilities over sharing no but in correct form specialty year with your partner. You want to go and sheer within their challenges. She was your challenge. It will go on and make them feel more connected to you and you'll feel more connected to them so it's a win win for everyone. Now marriage picks number two. You do what's best for the situation. Not what's best for you say that again because it is so important and i don't think people realize how important this is you do. What is best for the situation. Not what is best for you because they doing. What's the situation you're really doing. What's best for you to now is to remember that. Sometimes there are things that are gonna come up and your partner wants on something else. And there's like another option and you're like i don't know. Should we moving. I don't wanna move. All my friends are year ever really good job. You're but if still writing for this time go.
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"He likes exteriors. Hope you're having an awesome day. Are you ready to better understand yourself your partner and your marriage will. Then you're going to want to listen and implement this very first marriage. Picks don't assume ever don't assume be curious. Come with an open. Mind ask questions trying to figure out why what what's going on your high feeling. What caused that ferry curious until you get the hard core backs told the other person tells you what's going on and don't going judge them about age you're coming here from understanding printed from trying to wanna know what's going on here from being curious. It's a game. Meeks likes fun and he what you learn so many more things that way so remember brule number one in everything. So assume ver okay. Marriage picks number two in yourself. You want new. Try notice that motions that you are having you want to trusted feeling and do walk. The body says like sometimes you're talking to someone and you feel that you have to like pull away you have to come close now. There's a difference between like assuming this person doesn't want me versus your body's telling you this is not a safe space. I need to out of here now. If you had trauma you are not comfortable with your feelings if this is something you don't often you wanna i practice at this simple things until you really go and become really tuned with your body with what is happening. What's going on star. Simple you are. Eating dinner today was feel like do you like the food. Do not like the food. Does your body feel a rush. Ask you enjoying every bite. Everything that's going on. You are coddling together. What does your body feel. Do i like. This are not like ghosts simple. And then you're in a building up more more more Deeper things thinks that before you were soc were about when you have this close connection with your body and you understand what your body is telling you you could really go and listen to it now. Marriage picks number three when ever. I don't care to who it's before you go and either give advice or sometimes many people ask questions. Is you wanna go house them. If it's okay if this is what they want when your partner comes to you coming to talk to you you want to ask them. Do you want me to just listen or do you want advice. Now when you're speaking to stranger on the street you're katie's coming to complain about. You comes to complain to you about their teacher and school the here. Oh the teacher is right right now. No you'll want to ask them to only just listen do you were. Do you want me to give you advice. Do you want to give you a hug. What do you want to go on. Air told me to get tools on how you can actually go and conquer this now. Sh- obviously is the person who is saying it's responsibility to go and tell the other person what is now not could go into that and we want to go and especially kids to be able to go into that so by role modeling to them but asking them or by duly dong flipside when you go and tell them like now. I just want you to listen. Then you're going to be going and showing them how you want them now when you're speaking to a stranger or you're speaking to a is being someone who you know there's always this. Here's a really going writing them. An habits you go and live their lives than for sure you want. Ask them. don't just say oh. You really should be doing this or i think you should be doing or better if you do it this way or do it like that. Ask them i today. Want advice the happy to hear it. They don't want your advice just could backfire. So so bad so guys go on for the day. Try to see. You could make zero assumptions for the rest of the hours of how ever many europe whether it's spy o'clock in the morning or one o'clock in the morning in her about to go to sleep try it okay next couple of hours until you are sleeping z..
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"Have weathered the storms. Let's get ready to take your relationships to the next level with your host s. t. series. Hope you're having an awesome detaille. He gives you haven't heard yet. Marks are available on alexa. Go and set it up to get your flash briefings every single week and not miss. A single marriage picks episode. If you are new year you would wanna go and catch up on at least ten episodes so you are caught up with everything that we know and everything that we're doing you'll have time for that. At least at least the marriage picks episodes those will give you the greatest value in the shortest amount of time now for today's episode. I am excited. That was such a good episode with dr harley. And we are going to do recap the very first one is going to be of course as you know figuring out your ten emotional needs. Now your emotional. You're our ten emotional. Needs and i would think to go and put them in order. I run d them now. And then you're going to go to match builders dot com and really felt a form you could go on and figure out what your emotional these are. What your partner's emotional needs and how you can go and give it to each. Are you ready. Here's a recap in case you missed it. The very first one is affection number two sexual fulfilment number three conversation number four recreation companionship number five honesty and openness number six attractiveness number seven financial support number eight domestic support number. Nine is family. Commitment and number ten is admiration while i read that lists. Could you already stink of maybe turn possibly means to you the most possibly which one your partner cares about the most you wanna in make you a really really going in fulfilling your partner's needs in the best way possible and on your own side you're taking responsibility and asking your partner for those things without a them without getting mad at them but just explaining what you need now for marriage picks number two we are going to go through the six love busters because you could have these ten emotional needs but if you have any of these busters. I shouldn't say any different. People affects them different ways. But if you have love busters that really go and affect your relationship. Your relationship will be adjusted ready number. One selfish demands number two disrespectful judgments number three angry outbursts number four dishonesty number five independent behavior and number six annoying habits. You wanna go and get clear on. Your love busters your partners of busters and how you are going to go and work out. You wanna go to match builders the hop calm and fill out the form so you can really really go and understand them so you can make your relationship better remember you really want to understand yourself and your partners you can go and get that relationship. The you are dreaming up always just bliss connection. Yeah okay now. For our last marriage picks. I think this one is so imported and not spoken about enough and that is not so much the commitment to just stay married together but the commitment to constantly be taking care of each other to constantly though fill each other's emotional needs for giving them what they need whether it's their love languages whether it's their emotional needs whether it's making sure out. Those love busters supporting them in would ever way. You can digging that come at me and making it one hundred two hundred one thousand percent so your relationship counselees growing and even when things go hard things go wrong and you will like just zone abortions and you don't want to and you're like okay. I just feel like running out now are just like locking off in my bedroom and i just do like ignoring the world's making one hundred percent commitment to really go and take care of each other guys go unfilled. tastic rest of your day. And let me know how these are coming along for. You see on the next episode. That's all for this episode of life picks relationships and we have a huge favor to ask of you that will not only support the show but also give others what they need to take their marriage to the next level where striving to have a million downloads per episode by december. Thirty first.
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"Are you ready to better understand yourself your partner and your marriage if you are new year marriage Episodes is where i choose my three vivere parts from the previous episodes of things that i think will bring you the greatest value and it brings you. You're in a short episodes. You have either as a reminder or if you didn't have time to go and listen to it which you should especially this one. It was so good. Dave jake gibbons then you will get the most out of the insurance amount of time but you've got to go and take action on these three things because they will really go and change your marriage. You probably wanna go back. Listen to at least ten episodes. You're caught up with all of us or at least listen to the previous marriage pixel episodes now. Let's start with today's marriage. Pick number one. The very first thing is some people are afraid of saying things. Some people think that. I'm going to hurt my partner of eyesafe things. Try to avoid these. You know what happens. That actually goes and makes it worse. Because you're are knows your partner knows higher feeling mile. Exactly they know that they're not getting a good vibe from you and you want to go and be the one to create that space. Go and talk about where you go and have a bloomberg asian. Have your partner go and tell you things you go parking's and you can really go and work things out. Obviously you're not seeing anything in any which way that is going to blame them or anything of of a rather creating a space to really go and connect with one another now. I love this question. So much marriage number two. I think you should ask yourself this Bases anytime things change anytime. There's challenges always ask yourself. Are you a volunteer home or victim in your marriage take responsibility for your actions. Do not want to be the one. That's just like a vic domin having everything. Come on top of them and you're like okay. This is life too bad. I cannot sales your marriage. You wanna be in your majuro volunteering to be in your mind. You're putting your entire life in your marriage go and take responsibility and miki even better. What has happened to your even if it wasn't so all your fall. What is going on here. They you could go and you go and make it better now. Marriage picks number three. I like this analogy so so much. We're said that. Would one walks ford one. Would you take one step forward. Then what's going to happen is your next step is also going to take orders either gonna come up next to the same at the same spot as where your previous was or is going to go and it's going to come ahead now. Remember this when you're worried about becoming more mature when you're worried about growing in your marriage but like my partner's is not going to be interested in this partner doesn't want then. What do you be the first one to go and groped go and take that first step forward. You can't change your partner. You can't force them to go and do something. Data wanna do would mattingly. they're either gonna come up to you. Order ahead of you. Now there might take. Sometimes it might be like. You're dragging that for awhile and told that actually goes in happens but it will happen sermon. Time time you're worried about what's gonna go on even sure about with your partner and see what is going to happen. You like this episode. Go and share with your family and friends so we can reach our goal of one million downloads per episode. Help lose couples really take their relationship to the next level. Have an awesome. They crush it. And i'll see on the next episode by now. That's all for this episode of life picks relationships and we have a huge favor to ask of you. They will not only support this show but also give others what they need to take their marriage to the next level. We're striving to have a million dollars per episode by december thirty first twenty twenty five so please share it with your family and friends so they can turn their relationship into an extraordinary wine..
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"Did you love that episode with andrea original rate. Oh my god. I found it so cool guys. If you didn't listen to it or maybe you just listened to it and didn't watch it. You wanna go to youtube. Life picks relationships and go and see the episode. It was such a good one so much that you can't even say in words because it was a lot shannon movement that you actually need to happen. But i was amazed to see what would come out of it. I did not think that much from a little bit of an movement will be able to come out of the relationship which brings me to our first marriage. Picks for those of you will find the really hard poking not sore what to do now. They could go and make the relationship better improve their relationship. I want you to know their of their tools out there so many of them that people don't talk about that are not so well known and i think in a couple of years you'll be like the standard like coke. Therapy obviously will always be a thing. But they'll be so much more of these other types of things so either like a wreath. Those dance therapy. Or like i do with the non dominant hand journaling expressive arts. There's music there's nature. There's avenger therapy. Who remembers that episode. So many other things you could really really go and do to improve a relationship so don't feel like your relationship doesn't have hope instead of go and try to find the method that works best for you even if people tell you you're crazy. Why are you doing that. Don't get enough to know you go and do what is best for you snoop could go make your relationship extraordinary now. Our second marriage picks that. I'm going to pick it as that our relationship way. We just people comes out each own many ways the we the people come in so many ways. We don't even realize that is part of the reason why i love people watching now. I know it's rally mean might like number one thing. When i do this makers jack marin like always a of now i really have to find out but just for myself to go and learn about people. How close are they standing together. What sort of things that. We do something wrong. If you need space in air kind of person that likes to walk space and you don't want hold hands. That is totally fine. I'm not going to tell you that but it's something about your relationship. It's something about yourself right. The way the removing their claims closer further faster slower. There's so many things that you can go and do learn about early suggests now i'm not telling you to go and root is is people down the street and watch the way. They're walking together with their partner instead. What i'm telling you is to go see if you could notice there fun. Things that are happening in your relationship that screams something about your relationship like every time your partner there do you feel like subconsciously without even realizing you move away from him or maybe move closer to him because you want him to comedy like him without even realizing something where you put your arm in a certain way you look for it. Look for yourself and look for your partner and see what it's telling you about your relationship you'll be blown away now. Obviously you don't wanna just make assumptions. Oh he moved his is a new it just a piece of conversation to open conversation it just it just a piece of knowledge to use for conversation you can go on talk about it and go and figure out what is that not year which is trying to figure it out. This is something that you like. This is something that i like. Let's go and do this. This is something. Oh maybe you're a little bit nervous may need a little slow down maybe need. You're doing this from a place because you wanna make your relationship better. Not because you want to go in we'll cure partner because you are learn more about yourself and your partner and as they could notice it without just the regular talking. Try it a net. Let me know what you learn from your partner by looking out for these things you literally train your brain to think of them. In the beginning i'll feel like you're Focused that afterwards it will just become natural and you'll be like hey he didn't like that personally and don't go him but you're gonna go and try to figure out why now for the third marriage picks i am going to tell you do the exercise that says i know it sounds crazy and i know is not the regular marriage. Pick that i said. And i know it means that you have to go back to the other episode. And that is not the point of the marriage picks episodes. But there's no other way for you to really able to yet that if you don't go and try for yourself so he's you don't have time to go and listen to that episode. I am going to just recall you quickly what you should do but he gets at your pace your own time when you're relaxed when you're both doing things so you wanna add is both partners are facing each other looking at each other and have their fans facing each other and they're going move. One of the partners are going to go at a time and is to move and the other one is going to go and mirror their heads the sink who they're to everyone and then they go and change and then you are going to either talk about it. See what how that felt or you could swap right away and then talk about it so you both want a chance to be the one. That's moving the hand and the one that's being tied figure out. Now joe wanna notice. Will these little tiny things that we're talking about. Like how closer hands are you able to keep up. Are you moving them away or your handshaking are your hands going in opposite directions are your hands in perfect sync. What happens when you go solar. What happens when you go faster. What happens when there's an should think on. You will be really cool. We'll give you really big insights. Who what goes on in your relationship. That might be ready. Don't usually talk about on a daily basis. So this is a great opportunity for you to go and coca at it so mark. Calendar the time with your spouse to go into this exercise and then let me know now it went or now have all of your day and i'll see you on the next episode. That's over this episode of life picks relationships and we have a favor to ask of you. They will not only support schaub but also give others what they need their marriage to the next level where striving to have a million downloads per episode by december. 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"Welcome to life picks relationships helping you understand end in live in your marriage through the various perspectives and experiences of others. Who found a way to prioritize. What's really important in life from new love to those that have weathered the storms. Let's get ready to take your relationships to the next level with your host s. T. pictures having awesome day. That was such a good episode. I mean i at least things together kelly matt. We spoke route so things that people don't usually think about wendy think of travel. They don't realize what it does for them. What it does for their relationship is just like yeah. We have fun. We went on vacation. Went to travel to italy or something or do something weird or honor cool or whatever it is but it realized what actually goes on builds them and make something better than i know. It sounds crazy. I hope matt episode opened up some things to you. Think about travel a little bit differently and you'll make travel beak beak of your life have to be as big as mine are of your life should include traveling. I really really think so now before we get into. Today's three marriage picks episode before getting today three before. I get into the nam before i get into. Today's marriage. Picks i want to thank you. Guys for sending in will your relationship stands. There are such good ones and we want more. We want yet all of them so we can answer as much as we cut on. The two hundred episode was not going gonna be meandering. It's gonna be a few marriage sports. Who are so good at this. Who do this on consoles. perspectives from different people from different things. So it's not going to be like. Oh this person thinks ennio could take out serve at you like best so go to fix relationships dot com and on the podcast h. Here's a place for you to go and put in your questions. I'm waiting for them. I want you to get your answers. Now aren't lower. Very first marriage picks. I am going to choose if you want to you of it. Yeah i know we heard this so many times and we know it but we don't actually go into it now a lot of times. That is because of things that we have in the past like. We know traveling's going to be so much fun. We know losing weight is gonna feel so good. We know financially free is going to be amazing at the same time. We have these other thoughts. We have past experiences subconscious. Telling his other rama's whatever else it is stopping us from letting us to and get there. So let's say you really really wanna go and travel but at the same time you're telling another story in your brain that travel so expensive. It's going to be so hard. I don't have to stave off not gonna be able to go out for four weeks before for months before and you're going and you're going fully stories that it's worth it for you to go on travel now maybe for you. It's not although your house which before. I really do think that it is ever. If you go and understand why you are those things why you have those stories you can go and change them. So what. I what do i suggest. Journaling with your non dominant. This is what you're gonna do. Jor picture of that thing. So let's say we're not talking about troubling. you think. Traveling is way too expensive. You're not comfortable to this either way. You could produce with anything else in life challenging. Thank draw that picture. Now you're going to have a dialogue between your two hands your dominant hand usually used to write with your question your non dominant. You are just going right on. You are going to answer those questions. Question answer question answer question you think logically with your dominant hand answer. You don't think the hands you don't usually sprite with you. Answer yeah it's gonna be messy yet. The milk like a first grader road. It only find. You just wanna get your answers. I'm gonna give you some questions to start off with and then continue the dialogue and really try to go and figure out what it means that it's stopping you from going. Even your dreams from boeing traveling wires those stories really going into play in your brain when you really want to go apple so the first question is who are you asking this to yourself. You're this picture so huge. Row picture of you. Somewhere in fiji or in florida or in hawaii. Orene ryland than you're going to go on. Who are you. I am where whatever i how do you feel. Why do you feel this way. What can i do to help you so for you to the picture. How do you feel the picture. Why do you feel this way and what can help you again. Question answer question answer because we want to go back and forth between both sides of your raid. Okay you wanna do this once. You're gonna want this twice to unwanted to three times to really get the core and understand how you can go and change your mindset on travel so that we could really go okay now. The second marriage picks are really really like. I think it's so important and we actually spoke a little bit about this with funny aung and taking risks and doing crazy things in episode forty four so you go and check out more about that there but here it's about going into situations where you might not have internet. You might not know the language you might not know what to do. You might only person who can rely on is your partner. Because that's the only other person that fear to go and help you a really really goes and build your relationship in so many ways that you can't do it on a regular day going to work on eating dinner though tried that we not as you can't travel right now or you dig is not working out. You have kids in. It's not gonna happen at least for another few months. If the goal situation not like challenging fund situation that you're gonna go go and cross each other and really build that with each other now or the serve marriage picks. I am going recreating the experiences afterwards. Because you can go to italy you go to greece. You could go to. All countries learn about the culture. The leap eight their moods can ways and home and i bet you the first week you show the pictures all your friends and family and you posted on social media. Then that's the end of it. You could take it a little bit more and talk about it in in and remember those things and really bring up those feelings again. You could really go and recreate those memories. Make that italian dish that you love. Make that i heard all your food and brings you back to that moment. First of all the more sense is you use the more you could go and bring it back there especially your sense of smell so food is a really good way to go and recreate those memories but mark only will you enjoy that date. That time spent together with your partner. You'll break up all those really good emotions that you had in the past and will make the moment now so much. I really hope you're planning on your next trip or now have an awesome worst everyday. See that's all for this. Episode of life picks relationships and we have a huge favor to ask of you. They will not only support the show but also give others what they need to take their marriage to the next level. We're striving to have a million dollars per episode by december thirty first twenty twenty five so please share it with your family and friends so they can turn their relationship into an extraordinary wine..
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"They wasn't that an amazing episode of nine ruben steps. To go and make your marriage. Success religious. Going this stats. You will change your marriage dramatically now and it was a long episode and there was so many things in the air in a really really really. Do think that each and every single one of you should go check it out and listen to it and follow those steps but encasing enough time or until you going there. I should say here are three remarriage. Picks that i think are so important and that they should start today. You don't have to like wait to go on. Follow those nine steps which just go implement shoe day now. The very first one is work on your marriage each day by you listening and tuning into the life. Picks relationship podcast. You are going and working on your marriage. Each day by going implementing. These marriage picks these tools that these experts say he can advice. Inspiration that you get from couples that come on from experts that come on. You are already going and doing this. Marriage picks of working on your marriage every single day. Now the more you work on it the more you read about it the more podcasts. Do listen to the more you watch and you do the more you go at actually in your life better your relationship will be nine with. There's so much different information and to for different things. It could be contradicting and see what works for your marriage. Okay now for our second marriage picks is one is so important. It's literally foundation for marriage. And if you don't have this in your marriage this is very very first thing you want to work on. And that is friendship sides for your retirement relationship besides for your intimate relationship. You wanna have a good solid run ship with your partner that when you think of something you the first person you wanna go and tell is your partner. When he's bad day the first person you wanna go and tell is your partner when you have a win the first person you want to go and tell us your partner you wanna hear about them you are interested in their lives interested in your lives and there's just wrench bond. The're once you have that lots of other things become so much easier. Now for our final marriage picks is what i like a lot because you know how much i'm into skin questions you now important today know how important it is to go and try to figure out what the other person is feeling what the other person is thinking. Why they're behaving this way and really understand and get to that core. Those questions are so important but we can't also forget so cool the open indeed the fun questions almost dream and so they get going happen and you don't want to look at them like just fantasizing fantasizing questions are also fun questions like. Where do you want to buy your or if you could choose a different job. Let's say just for the fun of what would you choose or if you would want to go back to school. What do you want to choose or maybe should we go this summer. Even only the winter ready could start talking about and dreaming about and planning about this summer. These are questions that will build your friendship going back to marriage picks number two but also make you feel much more connected at actually going to help you understand and connect with your partner so much better still go implemented marriage picks while rang listening to the previous episode. If you haven't got a chance yet and if you have.
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"Fixers who having day enjoy the previous episode with andrea nate. All my god. There was so much in there so much depth. Either listen to it. You probably do until do it if you listen to it. Maybe like we spoke about last time with lesnar. You might wanna listen to it again. You might catch. Something's added listening before. Well i've enjoyed it. When i picked out these three marriage picks. Let's get chew them. The very first one is about creating that safe space. I think that is so important. Pro only relationship especially marriage now. The question is what is z. Space space is pleased stat. There's no judgment on no withdraw love. You're a knee. Anything did remarks when apparent calls their kid. Tell me like the truth. What can you really do in school. What happened and then they go and they wish them. Well do not thing. And you're never gonna wanna go and tell you the truth again. Same thing if they go and cheer about something whether they made a mistake whether they did something really bad like spent crazy amount of money in something or whether it's nothing from the past is going to go judge them if you're going to go and be mad about that you're gonna go and not love them anymore because of it then. That is not a safe place now. I am not saying after going to agree with things that they did wrong. But that doesn't mean you take away that love. You wanna make sure you really really go. Rabbits the bait now. That is when you think about this one then also be easier for you to go and create a space is the fact that everything happens for a reason now. I mean the fact that anyone does as far as and now there could be an underlining reason why they're doing it and it could because of mattered because of something indiv- s people think. Marriage is a hospital and you and i know goodwill it's not any past problems with parents with friends with finances with weight with rogue with anything home right and just yet bigger. You really really really really really wanna go on a knee problems in each flagging that you're carrying around with you from the past two means go singing therapist. You wanna go into that. It will do wonders for your marriage whether you go by yourself or you go as a couple depends on what's happening you go and make sure you take care of herself. So you're not bringing in those negative stuff into your marriage now on the flip side if your partner goes and does something you wanna make sure your understanding you wanna make sure you are loving and caring about them and realize that it's happening for a reason instead of just going in judging them now. Our third one eight. This is something that i think. Everybody knows intellectually not really. Does it like as they were saying it. Them fifty years to actually go and get to this point of really going and cheering deepest darkest secrets. You really love someone if that cease spaces really there there's not going to be judgment If they are not going to love you anymore. You wanna sheer those the darkest secrets because the leak ring you closer. The meek you love the other person more than make much more connected and literally your relationships boldly new leads. We only do this. If you first cree at safe-space fellow have a rustic day. And i'll see you on the next episode. That's all for this. Episode of life pits relationships. And we have a huge favor to ask of you. That will not only support their show but also give others what they need to take their marriage to the next level. We're striving to have a million dollars per episode by december thirty first twenty twenty five so please share it with your family and friends so they can turn their relationship into an extraordinary wine..
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"High doing today. Are you ready for another marriage x episode now after being old out balance teach balance wellness for melena. I'm sure you're probably gonna be thinking that one of the marriage picks is going to be everything should be balanced any noah. It's sure that because you know that by yourself. Instead i pick three other really really important things that elena said. And if you haven't listened to the episode you probably want to. So let's get this thing going. Very first marriage picks. I am going to say es chest. Listen when your partner tells you something you wanna listen and not make into a very big deal weather. The lost their job broke glass. Did something wrong. Got talk crash that by the way. I'm just thinking when i crashed. Remember i came on my mom. Like i crashed completely. Crushed the front of the car already. Total different car about a year before and i was like. Oh my goodness are they gonna go unlike flip. My parents his parents car or not. Your mind like crashed again and parents are just like it's okay are you okay are you safe like glides good. That's what i care about. And yet they were not happy. That car crashed and the insurance shot up like crazy but they didn't make it into very big deal at all to any deal at all and so if you're barnard goes and says oh my god i lost weight or gained weight or whatever side of the spectrum there on that so yeah so stole make into be a big deal not positive or negative very mutual obviously depends on your relationship and you proudly do want to talk about this with your partner to figure out how much of the deal they wanna make it into some people like bigger the some people like don't want any deal different people want difference or responses and you wanna make sure you give that to them. There's no one setting for everyone but remember shots. Listen now this second marriage fix. I'm gonna take is by saying it's twenty says repetition is key. There's a reason why you're hearing the same things over and over on the podcast with a really interesting about this. I'm just thinking now is that we're hearing the same things a lot of times over and over on the podcast and many many times. They're from different people on the podcast. Now why do you need to hear again why you ready wants one guest said it made me a second guessed that it was a different perspective because until you implemented until it's part of your life and you don't have to think about it you need to hear again and again and again and again repetition is key. You wanna make part of your life. Now i like it here on the podcast. There's different people with different perspectives. So first of all people say completely all the time and you're not only hearing the same thing and if there was something that somebody liked you don't have to take it. You don't have to find something that does work for you and sometimes will be the same thing that's three different people will say. Let's say just listen. Different people will say it in different ways. And maybe clicks for you from a certain perspective but remember to k to hear it again put on it again but on these episodes again read eze marriage book again. Go through over and over again until you literally don't have to think about it now. The very last marriage pick someone assays actually another thing that also learned from elena saying her husband how he is so many ideas he doesn't really implement them and thinking and intention is really great We really really really really need is action. You've got to make sure you are taking his actions. Yes you are listening to these podcasts. And yes you are thinking okay. Soon i am going to listen to my husband chew night when she says that. I'm just going to go and listen to her. But are you actually going to do that. Thinking is nothing nothing. Nothing in comparison faction. Yes you need thinking. Yes you know. How big i am. Self-aware yes take the time to think so you don't just waste time doing trial on our which sometimes you have to do but would be beneficial if you don't make sure you go and take those action so we'll finish it off with that take action today and make it your best day.
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"Hope. You're having a fantastic day. Did you love that previous episode. Oh my god i did. I had such a hard time picking out. Just three marriage picks the research so much things in there. I know a lot of it was about parenting. But i really felt that so much could really go and be applied also to marriage so if you have a previous episode probably want to now or our very first marriage. Picks is something that super cold programming or setting the stage. Catch them doing something right. If they're doing something small cemented they do anyways everyday acknowledged them. Tell them that you noticed. Sure they appreciate them for those small stuff and now only show them that you appreciate them for those small stuff but make it easy for them to go and do those small stuff. So let's say you know they're going to be doing something anyways and you ask them so they feel even better about it and you know about it. All of a sudden becomes a whole big deal. Make it easy for them to go and want to help you to be there for you. And then they'll start wanting to go in vacuum the floor and fold the laundry and put the dishes away and pick up the kid from school or pay the bills or whatever else it is that you want to do meek easy for them and knowledge for them catch them doing something right. We actually spoke. Aw about this when we did the nurture heart approach episode episode forty nine with yellow fish. If you want more about this go ahead out there. She says exactly. I go and do it. And how easy for you really in your whole relation to your partner to the people around you. Now for our second marriage picks sue the building. A relationship with yourself. I think that's a good way to put it. But i think i would put it more by picking hundred percent responsibility for everything that you're chewing. Now explain this with jack. Canfield formula plus our equals ease. That are as response. Oh equals out. Come okay now. The event is something you can not change if your husband is doing something he doesn't like if your wife number listened to you any color. Do something if your kid doesn't listen to you when they're telling you to do something. You can't not change your kid. You cannot change your partner. you can't change your boss who can't change the fact that it's raining outside. You can't change the fact that you got some ridiculous criticism from someone. You cannot change the event how you respond to. That event is going to affect your outcome. So let's say just to keep things simple keep things easier. Let's say it is raining outside. Outsiders ranging that is that you can't just go and tell the sky stop brainy. It's not gonna work. You could response could be cry about it yell about it. Dance around outside splash puddles not keep your look the other way. Stay indoors all day or maybe take your work can go and do it outside whenever you're going to do is going to affect your outcome if you're miserable and you're screaming about it then you're day will probably just be a miserable day. If you decide you wanna go and have fun and jumping the puddles. You'll probably going away but you will have a blast going and dancing and having fun if you decide. You don't want to go to work then. You probably won't get he for that day. Your boss will be mad at you and you'll have more work to catch up tomorrow. That is the outcome. e plus our go. i'll give it to you numbers. Maybe it'll be a little bit easier. This way to plus three equals five. If you don't like fife you can't change to you have to change the to us. Three eagles live. So let's say. I want the five to ten then. I can't change it too but i could go when i could change the three. Two eight two eight equals ten so the event is something that you cannot change but you can go and your response and your response in response so that way you get an outcome that you like if you have any more questions on that let me know maybe we could go into more that onny now for our last marriage picks i think this is so important and parents don't even realize what they are doing for the kids and that is you cannot go and see your kid from every little thing you have to go and let them have natural consequences of what happens. Yeah if you are going to go to sleep late. You're gonna wake up tomorrow tired if you're going to not eat supper you're going to be hungry when you go to bed doesn't mean we go and see wants. Your kid is old tucked in bed. I am and i'm hungry now. I'm not advocating for kids to go and beat not be fed supper. But there's a time and there's a place for everything in kids have to go and learn that and you can't go and see them from it. I was actually just speaking to a client parent. Other davis is a teenager and she has a really really hard time in school making friends and the mother was saying how every time he is having a hard school every time she's lonely and she's just there by herself with her four wall she goes on she picks up now. My heart goes out to this kid. I work with her and i. It's hard for me to see it. Because i know special. She is and she wanted to friends. I want things to go good for her but her mother coming in picking her up. Every single time is not going to solve the problem. She asked the yes. Vena paints yesterday. Yes go suffer so that she can go and learn how to go and make those friends. No i'm not saying to just dump people and forget about them. You wanna give them the tools you want to give them space. Yes as a mother. Has the teacher kids how to whatever comfort zone. Yes their mother is sending your a lot of help to making sure that she is and she has mature cons over. the past. Couple of months has two years. I should say and she's going to go in. It is going to be better but you don't go and save your child every single time and no it seems mean and no. It seems hard and it's especially by the fact that you want to be there for your child. Your child wants to know that you care about them that you love them that you will do everything for them and it's a very very hard balance. It's true but you don't wanna be there for your child every time you don't want your child calling you up that their wife didn't make for them the supper that they wanted. And you wanna make it were them. It just doesn't work. They have to go and learn how to deal in their marriage by himself when their boss gets mad at them. You're not going to go down to the boss's office and tell them you know you were being really bratty to my daughter. That doesn't work like that in the realize you're not always there up one day you're going to die and you're not even be there for them give them instead the skills give them the feeling give them that encourage me get him what we need to go and be themselves power them instead of taking away their rights by just trying to go and see them. I know it's harsh and no. It's really hard by no you. Do it have a fantastic day. And i'll see you on the next episode. Did you enjoy the episode. A personal favor and scribe and leave a review. It would mean a lot to me. Thank you so much and have an awesome day..
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"To life picks relationships dot com and on the podcast beach. There's a place for you just to go ahead and all your comments right there. Questions request guests anything on a year. So i can go and give them to you now. I have some exciting news to go and tell you and this is big. We need your help for this. It's not just gonna go and happen by itself. That is we want rather we know that by the end of two thousand twenty five the life podcast will have one million download one million downloads or more per episode. Can you help us with this. Cheer this with your family friends. Can you help us with this. Share this with your family and friends and help them take their relationship to the next level helping us our podcast one million downloads so that more people can have an extraordinarily because anyone who puts him to work deserves an extraordinary relationship now for td's podcasts. Marriage picks three marriage fix the very first. One is appreciating what you have now and at the same time thinking about the future as marriage saying about her body. She knows that it's not gonna last forever. And she's not going to be able to have his job forever and be able to just for their whole life and so she's enjoying and making the most of every single moment she has this ability and keep ability to go and push yourself really far and at the same time. She's eating money. She's thinking about the future and she is not being ignorant. Oh is going to be. Oh beautiful and no so. It's about appreciating what you have now and thinking about what is going to be so you don't have those major surprises. That really aren't surprises. Because we all know we're all going to get old and so it's balanced we're not being worried about it. We're just being prepared for it now. For our second marriage picks i think is is so important date. You know how much i talk about. This and these people are just approve of you do you. You do what you are. Best at donaldson to other people just like dude transcend got flat out knows because they listened to other people instead of doing what they are. Good at and then when they decided to go push themselves do what they know they are at best. They went and made it to the top ten finalist. And then i. I placed runner up in two thousand. Twenty eight just doesn't happen by itself and it doesn't happen by you listening to someone else because if someone else is telling you to do something that's not you that's coming from someone else and you know yourself best. And they're really hard because we get so many noises and is really hard because there's so much noise out there. There's so much people talking us things to do or their social media parents schools teachers just society. No even has to tell you anything. And you get these messages of what you're meant to do way to say forget annual you to you and make the most of your life here on earth now for our very third marriage picks never ever ever ever ever ever ever give up on your dreams. I think who transcend is fantastic example that we hear flat out knows from egtc's charges you're like okay. That's it. i can't do this anymore. I need to go find something else. I need to go do something else. Everyone telling me. Well they prove the world wrong and you can prove the world wrong to especially if the people that told you know just your neighbors friends or parents who crowley are wishing the could you you are doing. Yeah yeah let that sink in for a minute okay. Never ever ever give up. Have a fantastic rest of your day crush. It and i'll see you on next set by now. Did you enjoy that episode. Credo me a personal favor. And scribe and lever of you. It would mean a lot to me. Thank you so much and have an awesome day..
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"Hit highs having an awesome day in ready to do another marriage picks episode. These are my picks from the previous episode with jennifer lar. And we are going to get right into the very first one of identifying your behaviors. What did you when things are going wrong. What he's you when you get angry. What do you do when your partner pushes your buttons. What are the actions that you do. That are just going in the wrong direction and sending your relationship down the wrong path jewish down. Do you work more. do you eat more. do sleep more. Do you ignore your partner. Do criticize do you become defensive. What are the specific things that you do now. I would take this even one step further. What do you do when your relationship is going. Well do you have the tendency to give more compliments. Do you have the tendency to give more kisses. Do you have the tendency to do. What is it that when your relationship is going right. You're doing those things now. You could make sure you're doing more of those things that you're adding things in when things are going right that you are bringing in the feeling of things are going right more of a time. I step a densify her behaviors. Second the i am going to say is that you have to identify your emotions. Now there is the surface emotion and then there is the underlining emotion which is usually a fear of something. So you're angry you are mad. You are annoyed. You have stress. There's a lot going on. What is that underlying fear. Do you fear that you're not loved enough. Do you fear that your partner my leave. You do fear that you won't be able to get through this. What is that fear. And what do you need for that. Nevada is really important for every aspect of our lives because we get angry week. I rated for our reason. That's what comes out that for. Most people is not vulnerability because we just get angry all the time high but what is underneath. That is the vulnerable part. What in motion is there. That has a need that needs to be solved. That needs to be taken care of. That is what you want to come to because just by tending to just the anger is like putting on a bandaged to a much bigger wound. That needs which is yet. Maybe until you get to the hospital. You're gonna put an advantage. So that way doesn't overflow everywhere but you're gonna make sure to get stitches. So yeah you're going to deal with the surface emotions but you're going to really make sure to get down to those core emotions to those fears. What is really going on. And i think that when he talked to your partner and talk to your kids you want to go and find out what they really scared of. What is underneath theory. That the really really need what's the need. That is just coming out in anger and frustration. And i think it also makes it easier afterwards. That wendy get angry. Not the tickets personal because you know that there's something else they're they're not really angry. They're saying those words because they're really mad but there's really something much deeper now for our third marriage picks. I love this so much. It's a privilege to hear another person's story yes eight eas- be proud of yourself if you creed that say speiss where your partner wants. This year of your friend wants this year with you. Have those emotions and they wanna share with you. You been able to make it safer them to shear now. Don't ruin it be there for them. Take that privilege and use it in the right way. Ask those questions. Try to be understanding. Connect with them and show them that. You really are trustworthy. Now with these three picks go and make your date fantastic and i will see you on the next episode. Did you enjoy that episode. Credo me a personal favor. And scribe and leave. A review would mean a lot to me. Thank you so much and have an awesome day..