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Hunt, Gather, Parent with Dr. Michaeleen Doucleff
"There's so many through lines that are covered inside hunt gather parent and i wanna start at the beginning. Because that's how your book is written. I typically don't start at the beginning with interviews. Because i find that especially when somebody's been on book tour for a while they get a lot of the same questions so i liked to bring a different angle here. I actually thought i'd be doing a disservice. If i didn't start from the beginning. One of those through lines is the line of calmness communists and collectiveness and equanimity as parents that transfers out into the equi equanimity in our kids. Now one of the reasons that you wrote about this through line is because you had anything but equanimity at the time so take us from the beginning and tell us the story of how you found yourself basically at rock-bottom with your daughter. He has so at the time my daughter was two two and a half. And you know we. She's she's always. She's very smart girl very smart very bold encourages but she'd always been very fiery cried elisa baby and when she became about two two she started have a lot of tantrums. And i really didn't know what to do. They became very explosive. And you know i. I read books. I read blogs the podcast In everything. I did seem to make things worse and it got to the point. Where like i would try to pick her up or hug her and she would just like slot me across the face and in the book i start off by these mornings. I would lay in the bed at five. Am before she woke up number one kind of dreading her waking up which was a horrible feeling to dread to see your daughter but also like strategizing. Like what am i gonna do when she tries to hit me and i was trying so hard to help her and I've really i kinda gave up to be honest with you. I kind of thought this is just gonna be our existence in. We're gonna the rosie. And i are going to be kind of locked in these constant power struggles in like i learned later like anger struggles.
"rosie" Discussed on Crime Junkie
"They are pissed as they should be over. A quarter of a century after rosie was so brutally murdered the toppy fields if law enforcement has feel them and they have failed them even though investigators are looking at these ignored leads. Now i still don't think they have everything buttoned up because her mom lurlene had to find out about the dna evidence not privately from police. But get this. She found out that there was dna the same way the rest of the country did she found out by watching on the case of polygon. No he s not like a private phone call. Hate is gonna come out. Hey we discovered this and also hey this is going to come out on. Paula zahn by. Oh my god i can't. I cannot imagine yes so again. This is like i think they've had a horrible experience and did not even get up like on. What's going on the investigation. It's great that they're moving it forward but you can't even pick up the phone and keep them in the loop seriously now rosie's sister. Amelia passed away from natural causes a few months before the twenty fifth anniversary of her death in august. Twenty twenty and to the end. She carried the burden of rosie's grief with her always asking herself what she could have done differently to save her sister's life. She always denied ever having a party. That night in the family believes her she died before she could see the birth of the rosy toppy identification project or rtp which is a nonprofit dedicated to helping law enforcement in the inner mountain region. Cover the cost of dna testing and genetic genealogy. Amelia's death at such. A young age is another devastating blow to a family that has already suffered so much even in her worst moments though her mom. Lean top still to this day. Holds out hope that the truth buried for so long in the darkness will one day. See the light and that rosie will finally see the justice. She so dearly deserves..
Edmonton-Raised Artist Creates Portrait Series Honouring Health-Care Workers
"Front lines in the fight against prove it. 19 referred to as heroes. Many of us don't actually see the hard, dangerous and often traumatic work of trying to save lives during a pandemic. Tim Okumura wanted to capture the intensity in the emotion of that experience. He's a Canadian painter based in New York. A serious health care heroes features portrait of health care workers on the job. They're mostly nurses, but he paints other people to a few doctors and medical examiner. Tim has seen their work firsthand. He lives right across the street from a hospital in New York. He was even invited into a few hospitals to paint some of the people who work in the covert units. I spoke with Tim earlier this year about his work. And began by asking him to describe one of his paintings, the one that he refers to as nurse Tracy. The idea behind the painting was to really capture a sense of the strength and stoicism of this particular nurse. But obviously she's representative of so many medical workers out there and so many nurses, But she's basically taking on the pose the famous pose that Rosie the Riveter has captured our imaginations with for so many decades now, so she's flexing and rolling up. Her sleeve and basically displaying that she's up to the task, of course, and she's wearing a scarf on her head, and she's she's wearing a blue surgical mask as she's as she's flexing this this muscle how did you choose the woman that you would depict? As as as the nurse? You know, I was invited to and why you Lango in hospital in Brooklyn, And basically, I just kept my mind open to finding the right nurse for the pose. I had several nurses do the pose, and then it was really the final nursed. Her name is Tracy and She's Jamaican heritage, I believe, and I just I had her take the pose. And I knew as soon as she did it that she was the one that was gonna end up in the painting. So you know a lot of times.
Gunman shoots two Salt Lake County deputies outside sheriff's office
"News Los Angeles to Salt Lake City, Utah deputies shot today just outside the county Sheriff's Office, Sheriff Rosie Rivera encountered an individual just done. The grassy island north of the parking lot of the sheriff's office buildings, says the man had a gun and shot the deputies once critical, the other in stable condition. The alleged gunman is dead. No word yet how he died,
Atlanta spa shootings that left 8 dead were gender-based and sexually motivated, officials say
"One year old suspect in shootings at three atlanta area. Spas has been charged with eight counts of murder and homicide and one count of aggravated assault. The posts pauline of rosie reports. That six asian women died in the attacks prompting widespread concern that. The killings could be the latest in a surge of hate crimes against asian-americans. The suspect told investigators that he had a quote sexual addiction in that. The spas where a quote temptation for him that he wanted to eliminate police say. It's still too early to be certain that the slayings were not racially motivated. The police arrested the suspect shortly after he rampaged through the three massage parlours killing eight and injuring others at the time of the arrest. He was reportedly on his way to florida to carry out additional shootings. Fatal shootings have turned a spotlight on a disturbing trend of the past year. Crimes against people of asian descent have risen sharply in the us along with online slurs blaming them for the covert pandemic although the authorities say the alleged shooter does not appear to have been motivated by ethnic hatred. researchers say that the broader trend of hateful words and deeds against asians and asian-americans is clear and that behavior appears to have spiked since the november presidential election. Andy contentious months that followed.
Man Shot and Killed While Walking Dog in Austin, Chicago
"As he walked the family dog is speaking out about her husband's killing. Maryland. McAllister was shot. Merlin McAllister was shot on Sunday in the North Austin neighborhood. A neighbor's security camera caught his final moments. His wife heard three gunshots. Rosie McAllister noticed him on on the the ground, ground, ran ran over over to to him him and and saw saw the the bullet bullet wound. wound. I'm I'm still still in in shock shock and and disbelief disbelief because because He's He's never never harmed harmed a a soul. soul. He's He's a a family family man. man. We've We've been been married married 25 25 years years We We have have three three Children. Children. He's He's been been at at the the same same construction construction company company for for over over 25 25 years. McAllister was 51. The couple just celebrated their 25th anniversary. Chicago police want to hear from anyone who saw something? Especially if anyone saw anybody driving in the 1700 block of north major. Around seven o'clock on Sunday morning. Police have arrested four
MLB To Try Experimental Rules This Year
"So here are some of the experimental rules that Major League baseball's tinker with this year. The minor league level. I think I'm about to say, like experimental drugs to help you deal with this situation. With the bank. So Major league Baseball is going to try. 15 2nd pitch clock. Let's start here. I mean, they've already been trying to tinker with this for a while. Pitch clock in the minors and trying to get this into the major leagues and the major League Players Association doesn't want it. But that's nothing new. I think it's a good idea. I don't see anything wrong with a pitch clock. Making sure pictures move quicker. Batters move quicker, and if you don't if you're not in the box or the pitches in off by 15 seconds, it's a ball or a strike, depending on the picture of the hitter. To me. I love the pitch clock. What do you think I do, too? It's just odd to me that here we are 2021. I feel like we've had the same pitch clock conversation for about five years. And I know the players association doesn't want it. But I don't even know why this is even being written about it. Still tinkering was they're changing the amount of seconds But we've been there. Done this with the pitch clock either. Make it happen, or don't Mortgage Ames govern to buying Elektronik Strike Zone So there was some light tinkering the last two seasons, I think, and now more expanded use of the Elektronik strikes only robot umpire now the way that this is Being implemented. It's not. There is a robot like Judy Jetson behind the plate or not. Judy Jetson, who's the robot from the Jetsons, the maid? Whatever the maid was. It's not like that's the robot behind the plate. It is an electronic strike zone and that a human empire behind the plate gets the read either Baller strike and calls it I guess they do have final say that the human Um, can override it but that he is getting fed the information from Elektronik Strike Zone again. I like this is well, considering how Much of a discrepancy There is with human Empire's I'm on board with this. What do you think? Well, two things number one. It's Rosie. The robot is bogus. Always out objections. I'd love the idea of robot umpires. My only question is when you start giving a guy like Angel Hernandez, let's say a chance to override Do empires. Egos get in the way, and they just don't care with robot is telling them And also is this going to be done quick enough where it's not going to slow down the game. All right away. You get something you're going strike Paul, and whatever Rosie the robot voice, and then they have to make that split decision whether to override it or not. I just I like the idea. But I think you're also giving umpires a chance to allow their egos to get in the way and make their own calls
Governor Cuomo accuser Charlotte Bennett speaks out
"To dog New York Governor Andrew Cuomo sexual harassment allegations and in under account of covert 19 nursing home deaths. One of his accusers Charlotte, Bennett, calls him a textbook abuser, and it is one of three women to come forward with complaints about Cuomo and abroad apology this week, he said he never knew he was making anyone uncomfortable. His office is also defending itself against reports it changed public data to make the number of nursing home deaths appear smaller. Fox's Alicia
Saudi crown prince reportedly OK'd Khashoggi capture or killing
"A declassified intelligence report released Friday holds the crown Prince of Saudi Arabia Mohammed bin Salman, responsible for the 2018 killing of Washington Post journalist Jamal Kashiwagi, but he is not part of In the report. Some were hit with Visa issues, and House Intelligence Committee chair Adam Schiff tells ABC. I think it's fundamentally a problem if you conclude that the Crown prince ordered the capture, killed but only hold people that followed the orders to account. Saudi Arabia denies the Crown Prince's
CDC outlines plan for students to resume in-person learning as coronavirus cases stabilize
"For getting students back in the classroom color coding schools, according to Corona virus transmission rates in their communities, We get more from a B C's Alex Parrish, a for schools and red zones, hybrid, or virtual learning is encouraged while the blue and yellow zones allow for full in person instruction. Masks and social distancing or urged for all zones. So is diagnostic testing. The CDC also saying teachers should be vaccinated as soon as possible, but it's not required to reopen schools. The Biden administration plans to
Biden replaces controversial White House physician with personal doctor
"President Biden is bringing into the White House is long time Dr, replacing the previous White House doctor who sparked controversy when President Trump got covert 19 president Biden has commissioned as his new White House physician, Dr Kevin O'Connor, who has served as his primary care doctor since 2009 O'Connor served 22 years in the Army and retired from the military following the Obama administration, but he continued as Biden's doctor. Connor replaces Dr Sean Conley, who sparked controversy after giving an incomplete and Rosie readout of President Trump's condition following his hospitalization with Kobe 19. Dr. Conley later said that his positive readout was trying to reflect the upbeat attitude of President Trump. Karen Travers. ABC NEWS
Sex and the City Is Coming Back
"Sex and the city is coming back. You guys parker cynthia. Nixon and kristin davis confirmed it with this teaser. They're bringing the show back to life on. Hbo maxima. here's a twist for one thing. The show has a new name. It's called and just like that. The other big changes. That kim cottrell will not be back. As samantha. super surprise about that part of it. But you guys here for this look. I think everybody has been waiting for this to happen for a very long time. Where that you like. The series are not whether you like the movies are not you know a character. You still know which character that you are. This show holds a place. And everybody's heart. I don't care who you are man ads. but also what if your character doesn't come back. Like i'm a combination of carrying samantha. So half of me is no longer in this series. And i think you know what i mean like me. That really upsets me. I i found out about this late yesterday was like what's going on. I didn't fully understand what was going on. I'm here for it. But the fact that they're trying to use a different title and try to differentiate from sex in the city as much as possible. I just feel like is the juice worth the squeeze like you have such an iconic franchise you did the show for however many seasons. You have two movies the second movie we let pass because whatever we're super fans and we didn't care as much as we should now to revamp it in like a smaller scale with only three of the women when it's really about the four of them and then also to know that whatever feud has gone on behind the scenes is so bad that somebody will not return sort of just jolts. I don't know the the magic of it all a little bit. Like do people want no samantha. In this show one time samantha. But i i. I love the other girls enough that i told him away without her own. No the problem is the show is called. Sex city remarried broadband. We know nobody's having sex in that city. Okay so give me somebody. I need you to cast somebody. Who's going to be that young sexy siren that's going to actually explore the city as a single woman and have these women go ahead and kind of guide her through now over the years i will say sex in the city has gotten a little bit of pushback because of their lack of diversity this is. Hbo's chance and sexy cities chance to show that they can cast somebody in that role at all. I want is a quarterly simmons or isa raid in that role. We had you know. I love the. I also think it's one of those things. Where if you're not gonna bring samantha back and i know i read a little bit about the show this morning. And it says it's about the women navigating friendships in their fifties. Then i think that you need to also include losing friends. People throughout their life people who have been friends for twenty years. If you're no longer going to have samantha around. I don't wanna hear that samantha's in la or central pay or dating. Some man tell us that samantha went awol. And y'all are not cool anymore. Like i love that. And pretend she's gone and it's all fine also. Don't you think that some are Critic his character is going to be like the one divorce because she's so least likely to be divorced. They've gotta have a good twist. They're already been divorced. she's dead. She converted also watch your language. Watch your language because you keep on saying if you're not gonna have some antibac- if you're not going to invite her in samantha. Was the one kristen her name. I'm i can into the one who said she would never do. Another sex in the city again never wanted to play that character again. It was not her. She wanted to move on. So we can't because a lot of people are pointing fingers at sarah jessica parker a nephew of why shouldn't come back but she said she wasn't going to come. Was it on like kim yet. Her but there was. She couldn't get the last. I think we're done with samantha. They hate each other and the fact that they hate each other to the extent that they hate each other and we still don't really know why is fascinating to me couple. Let's get a couple like major things about the story. What do you think so you think you guys both in kristen's karat. Why can blink charlotte. You think charlottesville. What about big and kerry together or broken up together can carry gonna be together. I don't think it's going to be. I think the new adventures are gonna come with the new woman. I think we're going to get the fashion. I think we're going to get the city. And i also think we're going to get a diverse for the character that we have always need it in this series or something like twenty twenty one like i think it's i think it's just give me comoro. You like let me get my life. Yeah i'm excited about this. I am excited to see what it's gonna be and how they're gonna do it. I'm sure it's going to be good no matter what the way. Let's be honest if kim control really wanted to come back on this show. They would have done it. She worked the last two seasons not liking. Sarah jessica parker joy behar and go back and rosie o'donnell crossing each other at a table for three years. These two can be on together at young to be kuenz. Has no interest was over sad. Can
Using Humor to Prevent Suicide with Frank King
"Nama stay and welcome to live love engage. I am gloria grace rand and today on her show. I am delighted to have An awesome percent who gentleman who is got a lot of unique experience Including being comedian who also talks about a subject that what you wouldn't necessarily find funny but he has found a way to be able to help people out with that so First off. I want to welcome to live. Love engage frank king and for those of you watching on youtube. He was waving and smiling. But let me tell you a little bit about this gentleman. He is a suicide prevention speaker and trainer. Who also was a writer for the tonight show for twenty years and Depression and suicide actually run in his family. And he's You know had to deal with that. We'll talk a little bit more about that but having to do with Depression and wind to to kill himself but on the other hand he was able to turn that long. Dark journey of the soul into five. Ted talks that's quite amazing in and of itself that they haven't won yet so kudos to you and not only that he's really. He's a motivational public speaker. Who uses his life lessons to start the conversation to give people permission to give voice to their feelings and experiences surrounding depression and suicide and that is so important right. Now because as we're recording at the end of september twenty twenty and i was actually just doing some research on this yesterday that because of the pandemic that a as of at least late june there's been some research done that forty percent of. Us adults reported that they were struggling with mental health or substance abuse. So i think This is a time where really i think. People are struggling. So it's great that you're able to use humor and to be able to help people so let's maybe start from the beginning a little bit and just talk a little bit about your own journey. And how did you get started in comedy where all i was in fourth grade joke and students laughed and more importantly the teacher was hysterical. And i thought. I'm going to be a comedian. Twelfth grade. the talent show nobody'd ever done stand up at the senior town. Joe before clinton seventy five. I did stand up. i want. I went home. Told my mumble. I'm going to be a comedian. If she goes son you go into college. Do whatever you like when you're done you can be a goat herder for all i care but you must going to be a goat herder with a college degree Chapel hill actually be a. It'd be asked. And then mode san diego with my high school and college sweetheart where we got married and big mistake. Because he's a wonderful woman but we absolutely nothing in common. They say opposites attract. She wouldn't pregnant. I wasn't so we never had children. And just by chance in san diego there was a branch of the roth has comedy store on sunset in los angeles. Every time i drove by that place fell this magnetic pole. My i was not a big fan of comedy especially not a big fan of bb coming on comedian. Well she married an insurance guy. Got a comedian. Kind of matrimonial. Bayton switch so. I had to sneak out most gas. Nick huggers bars. I sneak out open mic comedy store. And then i got a job seating. Greetings could watch the become ex-professional comedians. In back them. Jim carey was headlined. Just doing impressions Andrew dice clay ellen degeneres. Rosie o'donnell appall poundstone. Dennis miller and so i watched and soaked in the best comedy available. And let's see. I got about sage first time days before april fools day. I five minutes irvine last night. I heard inside my head. I'm home. I'm gonna do for living absolutely no idea how your leg her and actually book myself on the road. Ten weeks it was kind of the beginning of the big comedy club. Boom from eighty five to ninety five. And i said to my girlfriend now my wife of thirty three years. I'm going to be a standup comedian. Especially you wanna come along and disbanding. Course she'd go no she goes. Yeah so we got. Our jobs gave our part but everything. We couldn't fit environmental dodge colt into storage. And we're on the road. She and i for two thousand six hundred twenty nine nights in a row nonstop seven years. James came off the road to oregon radio meld hometown of raleigh north carolina. Where i took a number one morning show in droves number six eighteen months only drove it in the ground road miller and by the found that was over the comedy club scene was beginning to wane. I always been very clean as a comedian. So i made the jump to the corporate comedy circuit the after dinner after lunch rubber chickens and made a great living doing that about ten years until the recession
Will There Be Second Stimulus Check Before End of 2020?
"Our show today with the conversation with Jason Turner. He's the head of multi asset strategies. When trust wealth management you can visit when trust wealth dot com to connect with Jason and his people. Welcome to the show, Jason. I hope you're well. Thanks. I am and good to be with you again, John. You know, I sort of Promoted this conversation is saying the good news is that Things may be bad enough that they're going to get better. That is some of these jobless numbers in Illinois and elsewhere are are Maybe this sort of thing that's going to push the Congress into finally getting off the dime here. What do you think about that? I would agree with that statement. As is unfortunate. That sounds that things have to get bad to get to get better. This has created some momentum for another stimulus package that quite honestly before Thanksgiving, I thought was an impossibility before the new Congress was stated in January. It's funny because some of our guests have said it would be impossible for them do not have one before the election. Now your horizon was Thanksgiving. But a lot of people thought this would happen into the election because nobody wanted to go into November. 3rd not having passed something past that point Then you thought maybe they wouldn't do it at all, huh? I thought with the lame duck session of Congress on the high level of political polarization we've seen throughout the course of this election cycle. It was not likely that we would see something, however, as things have gotten worse from unemployment perspective and from underlying economic data. That has pushed the members of Congress to come together and try to reach a bipartisan agreement to provide at least a lifeline for a few months. For those Americans that are really struggling. How is it shaping up? Then? What are you looking at? Yeah, I think what we've seen in terms of the bipartisan effort from the members of Congress have been working on. This is an extension of the unemployment programs that have been critical Both of those that are self employed gig workers and the like, but also to those that have exhausted their statement benefits so an extension of additional benefit beyond any sort of state limitations. And then an additional of $300 per week in terms of federal benefits that we saw on the extension that was forwarded late summer after the initial $600 additional benefit wore out. So instead of the 600 boost, you get a $300. What about a gnat's unemployment? What about stimulus? Are they going to send checks directly to people? And that's the difference in the two proposals that are out there on the bipartisan congressional effort. There's no individual payments to individuals. The proposal that was put forward I believe yesterday by the Treasury secretary traded that $300 additional federal unemployment benefit for $600 stimulus checks directly to Americans. Is it fair to compare what we're doing to other countries? I mean, where this republic and we are capitalistic and not all countries in the world are those two things, but I did see a chart that showed what are Aid to our citizens is like in the pandemic compared to other Western countries, and ours is small compared to what Germany and France and other countries air doing for their populations. On a relative basis. That's true. I obviously the size of the United States economy relative. The size of some of those economies in Europe is a different factors on absolute dollar terms. That's a little different picture. But you pointed it out well, that we're we've got a capitalistic bent to our our Republic. And that's different than the constitutional democracy should find in Europe that are a little bit more focused on a common welfare and what we've seen work in Europe in terms of the German model, for example, where unemployment is not skyrocketed because they provided Payments to businesses to keep people on payrolls as opposed to unemployment benefits. It has a different effect in the short term, but it also changes things in the long term. The American approach provides for a potential long, longer term, large scale restructuring of the American workforce For what may or may not be a different world after we emerged in the pandemic. First new European approach and promotes the the status quo from from pre pandemic times. One last thing into your crystal ball. Anything else that you're seeing her that we should know? I think the interesting development we've seen with the push towards additional stimulus. Now is a revision in GDP estimates for the fourth quarter and for 2021 looking a little bit more. Rosie. I think we were expecting Moderately strong fourth quarter because we had some some effects of improvement. I think we're expecting a little bit better fourth quarter now because of the prospect of extension of stimulus, and we've seen some Some underlying stability and consumer spending through the holiday season. I think that'll bridge into next year, particularly with the vaccine developments. If we do see vaccines distributed, we should see stronger 2nd and 3rd quarter 2021 GDP results they were initially expected actually could see, uh, full year GDP growth and in 2021 north of 5%. About that. I'm thinking of Jared Kushner, who in the spring said that in July, this economy is going to zoom. He may have been right but just had the wrong year. I hope that I hope that's the case. Jason Turner, head of Multi asset strategies visit When trust wealth dot com Thanks, Jason. Thank you, John. This is the win trust
Wilton Gregory becomes the first Black American cardinal
"In Vatican City, 70 keep my body's Francis at a ceremony that elevates 13 bishops to the College of Cardinals today, among them the first black American Washington Archbishop Wilton Danu. Gregory. And for the first time, some of those cardinals chosen by Pope Francis participating remotely. You're
In Celebration of Zen Mind Beginner's Mind
"I'm really happy to be here with you celebrating beginner's mind which is such a terrific book and so important for so many of us and i've read this book many many many times over many many years in the beginning i couldn't understand it at all. What is he talking about. And yet i was so intriguing that i was completely hooked. Right away suzuki row. She has a way of saying things that seem so true even though you can hardly know what he's talking about actually zen mind beginner's mind is not really suzuki. She's work if you actually look at his talks. The whole talk the raw transcription which you can actually find fairly easily online at san francisco zen center website or at david chadwick's wonderful crooked cucumber website. You'll see that's a superhero. She talks actually long rambling. Very hard to understand. It's like he's thinking out loud and a lot of the times. You really have no idea what he's talking about. Because he's in the process of trying to figure out how to speak english trying to figure out how to talk about dharma and english and trying to figure out how to talk about dharma to a bunch of young americans who have no idea at all about buddhism. so he's wandering a lot. he's experimenting with different ways of saying things very often. He laughs at his own jokes. And you have no idea what the joke is. His talks are kinda like that. And and and so that's why zinnemann beginner's mind is a really a co creation of suzuki row. She and mainly. I think trudy dixon who is credited with editing the talks. And i'm probably. I'm guessing although i'm not one hundred percent sure that richard baker who suzuki she's leading american disciple and my own ordination teacher. I'm guessing a big hand in a two. And no doubt there were many others whom i'm not aware of all these people love suzuki rosie a lot and i think we're really respectful of his words so i doubt that they changed anything to speak of. They probably cleaned up the english grammar a bit. But they did do a lot of cutting and shaping and framing and that's really what makes in my beginner's mind what it does. It is a labor of love and devotion. And i think you feel that in text and that's one of the reasons why it is such a marvelous text. My guess is that the young students listening to sapiro. She had him because he respected them and they loved them probably in a way that none of them had never been loved before he saw their beauty and he saw their confusion. And i think he loves them just as much for their confusion as for their beauty and i think that was a unique experience for the people who were in his presence as i said when i first read zen mind beginner's mind. I was intrigued. But i didn't understand and later readings. I was surprised at how seldom and lightly suzuki wrote. She mentions buddhist teachings improvising. but then still later. I marveled at exactly the opposite thing. How much everything that he says. Everything is a clear reflection of the classical and later classical early and the later on and doggone teachings yet he never sounds like. He's repeating teachings that he has studied and it never sounds like he's teaching you about buddhism. It sounds more like he's just talking about the way he sees and feels things and as he says. Many many times there are no teaching to stick to. there's just life and living life and then if you see life and live life truly and carefully. It's going to come out sounding a lot like the buddhist teachings instill later readings. I came to appreciate just being wishes. Lewke row she just hearing his voice. A voice of calmness and stability kindness but very very low key no fanfare. His dharma expression is very quiet and subtle. He really is not trying to impress or make a big deal out of anything in fact most of the time. He seems to be gently trying to disabuse his listeners. Of the big deal. They seem to have in their minds. About zen or spirituality. Or the powers of meditation. Just keep saying over and over again. Just just do it. Just do the practice just live. Just be sincere just constant
Pilot in Southern California survives crash after reporting engine failure
"National Transportation Safety Board is investigating another small plane crash in Southern California yesterday. According to reports, a single engine plane went down behind some buildings near the San Bernadino airport. The pilot who was hospitalized had experienced engine failure. No one on the ground was hurt. On Thursday. The pilot of a small plane was killed when his aircraft crashed in a residential neighborhood of
"rosie" Discussed on KNST AM 790
"There's a new auto attendant message cancer you can bypass that by the team number one and then a put you straight into the studio to call that number you can also send text to four one one nine two three or email import Rosie on the house at dot com if you need to snap a picture to help identify a particular part of a project or particular tool or perfect particular method that you're trying to construct build repair whatever the case may be picture's worth a thousand words so save a little time on there if you can snap that picture import Rosie on the house dot com we can help you dive into exactly what it is you're working on run your home counselor Kaplan and so many people are becoming familiar now with what but yeah video conferencing we're we're literally betting remodeling jobs and never even going to the house we get the address we take a look at it from the sky we know what the zoning is C. with the set backs or find out what they wanna do I actually have in my computer at my office a video someone sent me a tour of their whole house and said now would like to do this over here that over there and here's a picture of the service panel here for all utilities are located and we're basically going to be able to put their whole remodel to together the the estimate the contract of all the subcontractors scheduling the purchasing all with the accounting and I think that's could be a dimension of this show because head of we've been able to do it with the last caller that wanted something in that one area eight feet wide if we could have seen exactly what it was she was trying to accomplish we probably could have had a few more recommendations for so the Rosie on the house which has been a radio call in talk show for thirty plus years could turn into a show and tell show and it would be interesting to see what at what dimensions that could involve that's for sure because the couple times ever since they've started texting and they could send us pictures how much is that help particularly with the landscaping section of the of the show the last few years so I'm excited this is gonna be a lot of fun you're one of the things we do it rose on the houses were always available to you the Arizona homeowner we're available Rosie on the house dot com and that's a website where we've taken all the questions we've ever been asked through our thirty years of broadcasting and we post those questions by category with the appropriate Arizona focused answer it's not a just a generic one size fits all that you're going to get from a national show it's actually specific to Arizona and last week I'm most frequently asked question was how do I get the woodpecker from quit waking me up every morning not whacking his head in his beak on the side of my house this week the most asked question we got was there too much time on their hands rolling they're they're really walking around the house looking for things to do the number one most popular question we got is teach me teach you the proper use of a pressure washer and the question article on our website is can I pressure wash my brick home and it's interesting two weeks ago the most common question was twenty to prime before painting salon exterior work getting done around Arizona right now a lot of people looking to you know just D. N. enhance that curb appeal and I have to say I don't think they're asking tell me the right way I don't think a lot of people realize there is a right way with a pressure washer and that you can do a lot of damage I talked to native angel at Belgard pavers Hey can you use a pressure washer is like oh my gosh and then die breeze are painter like no so the professionals know that damaged a pressure washer can do so we we can talk through how how you can do it another alternatives to power washing and and don breeze is a very experience painter who I trust completely these actually are general production manager Rosie reviled I never knew he hated paying Hey so good at any did it for so long I just found that out like two weeks ago okay now I know he likes being general production manager of all of our remodeling he does a great job at it so don we certainly appreciate your role I just did what people think dawaly breeze are paying he's so sorry I didn't start him now is so much more than that I still think of him as the happy painter best said the node thank but he does do a great job but any any painter will will cringe at the thought of a homeowner picking up in the hands of pressure washer and putting the nozzle on full bore and putting it up three inches from the Hey you know if if eighteen inches is good than three inches of battery I will really get it clean and we I think when you all informed me that that was the number one in Korea the week and I did get a chance to look at that I think we will put a little bit more cautionary advice into that particular article and ended up a little bit because a pressure washer in the hands of an untrained person can really do a lot of damage residentially there isn't any reason you would ever need to preview the homeowner to have a pressure washer that generates over about a thousand PSI and you can go to the rental yards and get it for twenty five hundred thirty five hundred PSI for heaven's sakes when that that will pull the top of your driveway cement right off you'll you'll end up with an exposed aggregate driveway and not what you turn up that kind of pressure on a stucco house in all struggle homes hello I'm a safe this is when this is when I always get the phone calls Monday morning so I can't say all but most every step goal that's gonna get painted needs to start with a power wash you need to take out the dirt is hiding behind all of the texture and you need to eliminate that chalk on outer layer of paint it's been impacted by the old provided light so that's one way you can tell if you've got a good paint bid for your home is the first line the first Senate start with power wash the stucco if it does it they're probably skipping a pretty important step but that's sad you would never want to take a two thousand or three thousand PSI one and moved in closer than about eighteen inches and wash the wall because you're literally when you start seeing stuff go flying off the wall you got it dialed up a little too high or you're a little too close one any other issues on the brick homes get a grout can really do some bad damage you can really do that when you're when you're removing pieces of grout from your back patio slab that your power washing or the veneer on the outside your house you're you're not cleaning anything you're hurting what you've got so be careful Donna mentioned if you know your power washing is not pressure washing is not for sanding or for scraping that's a completely different job this is forgetting the dust and dirt often he didn't even recommend detergent or any kind of cleaner unless you have some kind of awful build up of something but pictured as strike tree yeah I sat down and worked on it yeah I was trying to it's hard to get things on a wall like that but you can end up with stuff that you need to detergent off and the other part of the outside of the of the house would be the wooden Johnny is not a fan of putting up pressure washer to your wood he said just put your garden hose that they're dusted okay I was gonna say when I wash my car at these car washes you've got the pressure hose I never get right up on the car only standing a good three for social distancing they call it that three or four feet away and just kind of you know get the soap on and get the spot free rinse same thing but I don't know what pressure those are really don't but but it's a good point I mean if your washing power washing is it an aggressive fixed anything it's just the right tool for the right job so if you fire one up and you're gonna start user on your house proceed with caution in talking to Nathan angel he hadn't knew suggestion that I didn't know about it's a called a whisper washer have you seen those hello yes I'd like you to I thought well surely you can use it on your belt pressure washer on your Belgard papers be said no because it can streak you know if you if you don't know what you're doing if you get too close and they like this need to call out of its new new to us whisper washer okay so it's a it's a if you run it like a floor scrubber and it's got a hub on it in underneath it is like a wand and so it's it it spins so you're not doing a vertical line it doesn't nice job as being you can look it up on YouTube the whisper washer but he was a fan of those he said okay at home depot all right very good now that's not a vertical application that we gotta get no no I'm sorry I jump to papers your tongue yeah you would have been a way to do that and it's too much water to do inside so it just be like a internal expenses but it's expensive to hire people to this is like a really nice job so like the concrete tiles we have oral me the the beautiful deck you made with the house and Senate on concrete work on that cool deck concrete driveways paver driveways anything outside all right well there where washer whisper wash so what will be the most requested question next week I don't know but whatever it is we'll address it covered for you the errors on the homeowner maybe it's power washing Whitaker soon maybe it is yeah if you'd like to join the conversation talk to us about a project you'd like to get started it seems like we get a lot of phone calls how do I get the project finished and that's okay we can handle those two don't be embarrassed just give us a ring at one triple eight seven six seven forty three forty eight you'll get an automatic robo response call it's giving you the protocol that we it rose on the house using in today's environment you can just push one skip that and get right to Jennifer my.
"rosie" Discussed on WTF with Marc Maron Podcast
"Me and Rosie O'Donnell again. That's the first time we did that. And that's that's how it's going to be sometimes probably more times in the not. We'll see we'll see but she's in a limited series on. Hbo called. I know this much is true. Premiering may tendencies also raising money for the actors fund helping people in the performing arts. Who are out of work or dealing with financial hardship because of the pandemic Goto Actors Fund Dot. Org for more of that and now play some guitar through a pedal and also I just wanted to say for those who are keeping up no word on on the wellbeing of Gary Okay. I'll talk to you later. Guitar Time Back over took her domer-..
"rosie" Discussed on Sports Criminals
"Not return or lease friendliness. Instead she bluntly asked Ruis y she cheated in Boston. It had been over three years but the wound was still fresh. Caro- wanted answers had no interest in telling the truth. She repeated which he'd always said she didn't cheat she ran the whole race. She'd won legitimately and she planned to run it again. Kenro was surprised and insulted by wheezes continued dishonesty and lack of remorse so she abruptly ended. The conversation shook her head and walked away. Like Jacqueline Garo. The sport of long distance running couldn't so easily move past the story of Rosie Ruiz. The we scandal was in the words of one runner. The end of the Sports Age of innocence the beloved public aspect of marathons the fact that a world famous athlete leg. Jacqueline Gero ran on the same course at the same time as an amateur like Rosie. Ruiz was now considered a flaw in the system. In the years after Rosie Releases Win The New York and Boston Marathons added significant new security measures more checkpoints. More cameras and more scrutiny. On each and every runner some marathons split runners into two separate races. One with elite competitive runners and won with amateurs eventually races also began inserting tracking chips in the runners shoes to make sure that no one could ever again. Paul a Rosie Ruiz. There were also however positive consequences of reasons actions as she predicted the nonstop news coverage of the controversy made many people pay attention to women's running. For the first time Ruiz's tainted victory may have been a loss of innocence for the sport but it also put it on the cultural map in a way that little else could female participation in the Boston marathon nearly doubled in the two years after wheezes win in nineteen eighty four or the summer games in Los Angeles. The Olympics added a women's marathon event for the first time in history. Jacqueline Garrone competed for Canada but didn't finish due to an injury in the midst of all this change that she helped create rosie. Ruiz stayed quiet in Florida. Happy to remain out of the spotlight or leases life. However remained turbulent Ruiz's relationship with her husband Vivas was rocky. The two of them fought constantly ruis later blamed their marital problems solely on political differences. She was liberal and conservative. Though there were likely other issues at play. Their marriage disintegrated the course of the next two years. In August of one thousand nine hundred five they separated and Ruis moved to West Palm Beach to live with her mother. Reza's tendency to get into trouble followed her to her new home getting her into conflicts with multiple landlords three of whom sued to evict her for breaking her lease. She bounced through a series of jobs working as a public notary and later. Starting your own cleaning service with two other women. Business only lasted a couple of years but release of course managed to take full advantage of every park. She could she even managed to live rent free at a palm beach cottage and exchange or cleaning services in one thousand nine hundred thirty five year. Old Rosie Ruis got a job at the laboratory corporation of America as a client representative. She met a woman named Margarita. Alvarez by the early nineteen nineties the two of them became romantically involved in one thousand nine hundred ninety three forty year. Old Ruis moved into Alvarez House into question Florida by the mid Nineties Rosie. Ruiz found some stability in her life. In lab core and INTO CUESTA. She finally managed to stay in one place after a lifetime of constant turbulence. She raised three sons with Margarita and beyond a handful of traffic violations remained. Mostly out of trouble. Ruis kept her Boston Marathon medal in storage because looking at it made her melancholic still every year. In mid April. She watched the race throughout the two decades following the nineteen eighty Boston marathon. Countless journalists attempted to finer weeds but none were successful in getting an interview. She kept her married name even after her. Divorce FROM ECHO VIVAS. Making it easier for her to stay hidden in one thousand nine hundred eight. A reporter from the Palm Beach Post finally managed to track her down by talking to co workers at Labcorp when Ruis heard about the reporter. She finally broke her silence including telling her co workers that she was indeed the famous. Rosie Ruiz even with her secret out. Ruis remained careful about how she interacted with reporter. She refused to meet them. In person only confirmed her identity by dropping off a reason photo at a public location or the reporter to pick up later when the reporter finally made contact over. The phone release was ready to tell her side of the story. After eighteen years as it turned out her story hadn't changed. She still claimed that she had run the whole race and deserve the medal as blame the entire controversy on politics. She said the race organizers and fans wanted the favorites like Jacqueline Guerrero to win and disqualified her because they were embarrassed that an amateur beat them also claimed that her later legal issues were the result of misunderstandings and bad luck. According to Ruis her cocaine dealing arrest was the result of being in the wrong place at the wrong time in a type statement there were we sent to the reporter after the interview or we promised that she would run again and this time she vowed there would be no mistake about her abilities after the interview in Nineteen Ninety Eight Rosie. Ruiz successfully slipped back into anonymity. She refused to talk to anyone else about her past. She never did run again. Rosie died on July eight. Two Thousand Nineteen after ten year battle with cancer or death was only reported on after journalists recognized. Her photo in a digital obituary published quietly on the Internet. The obituary made no reference to her maiden name nor to her brief running career in the decades since the nineteen eighty Boston marathon. Jacqueline Guiraud developed empathy for the struggles that we went through and ultimately forgave her after his death Garo posted a facebook tribute calling her a great woman. Who made some mistakes? She thinks that the entire saga of Rosie ries makes a good lesson. Cheating will never give you satisfaction and it's also simply.
"rosie" Discussed on KNST AM 790
"Area you can find in that Rosie on the house dot com and it's one of those I don't like creating ana categories because it just makes it harder to find what you're looking for can like you're talking about with the paint you have so many options it is it's hard but we do have a specialty category dryer vent cleaning because it is so unique and then we have a Scott out of Sedona his company is get the lent out and he could services Sedona and the surrounding areas and then a two son I can permit and intelligent design air conditioning does offer that as part of their services as well so if you haven't had your dryer vent cleaned in a while that was our weekly to do a couple weeks ago and we were sort of talked about it a while because it generated a lot more response than you know it it's always funny what does it mean it's being in the interest in that that came up so little follow up there if you did if you missed that to do from a couple weeks ago there's a reminder to do it and then errors on a chimney sweeps they have an offer that they have extended through through March because they had so many calls it couldn't service them all said well we'll just keep the offer good through March so we can make sure and make good on what they committed to that data to everybody because it's a that's right a well needed service good good well that brings us to today's today's to do that we were talking about earlier it's the ghosting door it's the door that up I can remember the first time I covered this song there was years ago we action a call from a call from a listener about an hour after I talked about it and he said Rosie you saved my life I've I get up in the middle of the night and I make my way to my bathroom and I hit my head on the door every single night he says I just took your advice I did what you told me to do it now that door is completely out of my way so for that door that ghosts closer swings by itself the reason it does that is because the door jamb is not home plume and that may be the finish carpenter doing a bad job hang in the door or it may be the wall itself was so out of plumb the finish carpenter couldn't get the jam plum but for whatever reason the door's not long so what we can do is go to the root of the problem take the casing off disconnect the door jam from the rough but framing reply on the whole door that takes a bit of experience get it reset put the casing back on and get all the painting done you've got a several hour job there if you are a good trim carpenter N. F. the wall isn't so far out of plumb that it's beyond fixing so an easy way to try and fix this for you at your home is our weekly tip of the week we made a video of this and it does happen to be live on our YouTube channel and it is the number one viewed video of all we've ever posted simply take a nail set or sixteen penny nails and your hammer and remove the hinge pin close the door and the latch it remove the bottom pin from the door hinge leaving the door closed take that hinge out and go out to the carport garage your back patio and lay their hands down on the ground take your hammer and strike it pretty hard about a third of the way down from the head of the pan and what you're going to be doing is you could be putting a crimp into that pin now take that payment go back to that door set the pan use your hammer tap the pen home into that hinge that pin now is going to have enough friction on that engine three eight hollow core door there it will stay where ever you put it and it's kind of funny to read the instructions and then watch the video and then go to you too and look at the comments of all the people that say they've lived with this I can't believe I've lived with this for twenty years and it took two minutes to fix is absolutely hilarious so again just one more little way we're working to become you the Arizona homeowner become your best friend is by bringing you little tips of things you can do in about around your house and I think what we may want to focus on here the next few weeks but is things you can do in about around your house with your kids home all day yeah everybody is a little grounded hi I heard driving in this morning that the school closures nationally are impacting twenty one million students wow and I'm not even sure that's a good scratch the surface of what they end up doing five school districts here in Arizona that I'm aware of for twenty one I think is what gave twenty twenty one across the state of clothes so we're up great time to find a home improvement project that you can recruit your kids to help with for sure we only have one and it's spring break at Wickenburg this weekend all all the other three are home schooled really where where every home all week anyway so that that was it has not really affected us at this point there it was actually the rain that cancel the rodeo this yeah yeah yeah that's right or wrong okay well this situation is going to impact probably everyone so just be ready for it and stay home all right and then if during the course of the week your anxiety level in your blood pressure goes up just remember one thing Hey we'll be back on their next Saturday morning to kind of dial it all down and you can reset.
"rosie" Discussed on KTAR 92.3FM
"Listening to Rosie on the house an old man come on around the backyard let's talk about your house your hold your castle or your cabin here at Rosie on the house well by many reports that I've seen over the last four months Phoenix is the hottest housing market in the country last is growing county in the country a little Buckeye is the fastest growing city in the country who knew who knew Buckeye and the guy is not what you would call a water rich environment so we want to talk water this hour and what it could or couldn't do as I travel the country and I visit with other contractors and real estate specialists and developers there are familiar with Arizona they always see me as being a builder remodeler in Phoenix is kind of a self defeating Rosie sooner or later you're going to run out of opportunity your state's gonna run out of water you're going to have to stop net in immigration and I tell him Arizona is really a pretty darn good shape would you comparison New Mexico Nevada Utah we've done a very very good job in Arizona providing up water supply this gonna go on for generations and we brought in someone that's very familiar with the topic Donna di Francisco Donna thank you for joining us this morning good morning conservation coordinator for the city of mesa that's right for twenty plus years yeah yeah got kind of the state's water use it wisely ambassador yes yes I think so and water is set up I'm still one of those guys that still gets my morning newspaper I love my mornings in the morning newspapers have been running a series well as they do periodically on the condition of water in Arizona yeah and I don't think so we I mean you're you're like a charter member of water use it wisely I think which all came up with was perfect not enough hello the what's the what's the O. line I know off to you's not enough away yeah right never enough to waste that's right yes right don't want to be wasting water doing so there are several cities in the Phoenix metro community there are more water rich than others we all have different portfolios this is how they talk about that and the lips al yeah now can only yes yes it did becomes a little bit more stressful conversation sometime and then even even down in Pima county water water's for fighting water is a very complex topic in Arizona is an idiot it is amazing and believe and like complicated like you say there's been incredible amount of information the news I think it's great that the Arizona Republic has been putting a lot of information out there for the public to help understand them understand it is like you say Arizona is you know we have built and we maintain this this elaborate and sophisticated system of water supply and it's based on multiple resources so you know we a lot of what's in the news right now is the shortages in the Colorado River because you know there's there's a lot of states that are tapping into that water and then with climate change.
"rosie" Discussed on KTAR 92.3FM
"Recognized as the re modeler of the year nice relations that assurance builders she's been with us forever was nominated for the same award and just this year Rosie on the house one best of Arizona contract referral directory of west coast roofing won several are only James grander was a nominee is top sales producers so congradulations James Jack rather's also wreck wrecked was recognized for west coast rific and then re bath of to someone won several awards as well so congratulations to all the Rosie certified partners in Pima county who went home hardware laden from the southern Arizona home builders association awards banquet again we go through a lot of trouble we've talked to a man earlier this hour who hired a bad contractor now may have to go meet him and see what guidance and direction I can give him on salvaging what sounds like could of been what is it she's gonna end up being a hundred thousand dollar mistake but we'll see what we can do to help him I'm not sure Rosie remodeling's can be able to do anything for him but I'll give it my experience on how he wants to proceed and if if you are considering a remodel in your in the Arcadia Scottsdale carefree cave creek area and I hope you'll call Rosie right remodeling we're not a real big company we're kind of filled up with work right now and I can I'll miss you if you call us we won't be the cheapest but I also promise you this you'll never have another remodeler ever walk on your property again you won't have disappeared even a hundred thousand dollar mistake I'm proud to say that in all the years I've had a license contract that I've been the qualifying party stretches on over thirty years I've never had the record Sir contractors out on one job that's not a challenge to the impossible Klein out there just yeah just to clarify registrar operates to workmanship standards and I promise you have anyone ever wanted to complain to the registrar have a look at our work register I would have to tell an older I'm sorry but he that this so far exceeds our standards that you haven't got a complaint well speaking of that topic you had mentioned earlier about having us some dishonest not all some dishonest realtors that would flip a home without permitting in bad workmanship and you said you would get calls I guess what you gotta cough from a broker who said that there are some new regulations that have just been passed by the Arizona department of real estate as I looked it up and in certain of July nineteenth this past year they did pass something now it's all legal speak and I haven't had time to completely go through it but apparently they are cracking down a little bit and make and demanding open transparency on those types of things he said they required register contractors by don't see that in the writing but we will do our due diligence and we will let you know well if that's the case I want to take part credit for that I mean we've met the Arizona real estate board we've met with the Reds are contractors and the whole time we were going through the Great Recession I could see what was happening and these flipped homes were being flipped in the most irresponsible horrible way possible to unsuspecting homeowners and the only way they could have gone through escrow was people lying on this budget port and that's obviously what happened to the man the Texas earlier this hour at the house get out of the great state of Arizona that's why we bring you the Arizona staycation register for the next occasion to Tucson and stay at the most unique hotel in Tucson hotel McCoy in a two hundred fifty dollar visa gift card pick up.
"rosie" Discussed on KTAR 92.3FM
"Control here Rosie on the house covering our weekly to do hers in a from blue sky pest control that you're going to a point right is we're going to the break about you know all the things you need to do to control the prolific roof rack we we would say that people need to be mindful that when they get into an error neighborhood the neighborhood pie not gonna radic Edom so just shows how important is for particular homeowner did use much as they can at her home and so I would just kind of summarize it in this way it's like the person you want to do you want to correctly identify what type of road you're dealing with we've done rose goodness identified all the time to beat up on the road hi then you can implement different tool be able to take care of that for example with roof rats we used station eight stations that actually affect the treat because the operator we know that they commonly go to in so if you get have all your bait stations on the ground then if that cap on the ground you may not do as good a job of controlling what you're actually doing less than three years to making sure that you're you're choosing bait that are going to be the appropriate bait bait that are also going to have now if I could get through fast but are not going to have you know secondary policing issues to a potential dog or even a raptor were were very conscientious that here I'm a different types of eagle and owl that may eat the roads what they've injected a product there are products each it you can use it really really reduced any chances of that secondary poisoning Albany and then and then third it's like you have to be conscientious as far as looking at the home as far as what's around the house what can I do to take away the things that they may be attracted to you and that maybe trimming back to the trees away from the the roof line by sixty also picking up fallen cruise was picking fruit properly and quickly up at citrus trees not leaving dog food out what happy you and then the last step is to make sure that you're doing exclusion if they're getting up in your attic they're getting up in there some way and we have tools and and services that allow properly those areas so they're not going to get back into what you take care of the roof rack if they do come back because they're your neighbor's house that the guy five doors down they're going to come to your home they're not gonna find a food source they're gonna find it difficult to get in so they're going to go actually elsewhere now I'm gonna have this thing running through my mind or something very familiar about this this isn't the first time here Rosie on the house we've tackled head on an invasive non indigenous species the other was a crawfish and no use look at that you think what's so great about crawfish will our answer was turn it into a food source Cajuns eat it all the time is there a walk recipe for the Asian refresh we solve a lot of problems I will be eating any about what so that the restaurant I'm not gonna go to maybe that in a certain countries actions out the data they serve in a restaurant so if you're not in love to eating.
"rosie" Discussed on If These Ovaries Could Talk
"Holy Shit Oh my God I your social media feed all these videos of after the interview just doing this I I just I just I don't I I just I was because it was like and I'm still just doing that. Actually I mean she. She is the pinnacle of the people. We wanted to interview and trailblazer and every once in a while I would be sitting there then I would just look like us talking Rosie O'Donnell Donald Right now now it's really fantastic. And she was great and she was so old and Josie. Thanks for opening an opening up and just trailblazing and just do we have for all. The things just didn't know where she's an important person in our parenting journey and many other. I thought was really incredible. was her saying that she told executives before like they could have just said. We're not doing that. Show I know they could have very well. That's too risky. It was so Rizzi. Then yeah I just forget about all the fannies roll just ball fuck. Yeah and just like what an amazing mazing person to just open your home and just constantly being like I really do think that she would have forty seven kids so she might add more. Should probably still going on. But but I also want to say that we've been in many people's houses to record and that was by far. The quietest amazing was quiet and delightful. We were at our house. We were in Rosie o'donald south big. You should seen as on the we got there so early. We do this every time. We have a celebrity because because we have good etiquette. We want to be there on time. Obviously so when we get there early we wait outside and just stand there like Stalker. People and the doorman was watching us like taking video Jio so by the way that we still can't stop ourselves from taking social media videos like asshole. I'm in shock I am I feel woah fulfilled. I love leaving a good work. I I WANNA say like content and also like I want to say Hashtag blessed but I want to punch the faith but it's not about the Hashtag last night feel like I feel just so much like Jimmy. We have been working and we manifested this and I'm proud to listen. We're here started them. Take that end Jamie. I'm proud of us. Proud of his two should retouched. No all right. So let's let's all just take a the deep cleansing breath together and then let's keep this conversation going. We WanNa see this. Rosie o'donald started following on Instagram Day. You're not following US an instagram. Something's wrong with you. Get on there and you can get us instagram at ovaries understock. Doc Unstuck on twitter over his talk and if these ovaries could talk on the facebook the five shape. We don't forget we have a private community there. You're in the facebook. Yeah it's called these over his could talk and you can also join our Patriot community which is patron dot com slash ovaries talk and we just. We're GONNA have all kinds of extra content uh-huh we're going to have like an extended conversation about Rosie on about what the experience was like on our patron Sharar so we can't stop talking about it. Bourbon anyone wants to hear all right so I mean it's going to be our grandkids. I know Rosie O'Donnell Choudhuri Husky Mir kids And thank you to our sponsors. This is L. story worth and Zola. Thanks for helping us make our show possible. Thank you guys seriously thank you okay okay. Let's let's let's ex. Oh my God. Let's exit that was like eggs it. Let's exit interesting interesting eggs out. Caltech I can they would say all of these..
"rosie" Discussed on If These Ovaries Could Talk
"It's been Hon. Son All these Ye. Yeah Matt Orioles Fan. I mean who is it. I Jermaine rank Otani those time all the lesbian music I love it. Love that lesbian music. So okay so you weren't publicly out during the show and then I was leaving the show and I wrote a book called find me write about my life and about an adoption agency that I had uh-huh and what of the specific cases that I got involved with of all the cases the hundreds of cases of people calling for information about adoption placement of children. This one just sort of caught my eye and it turned out to be a woman with associated identity disorder and so that book came out and in that book was just the reference Prince of just mentioning Kelly. Just talking about right. It wasn't like a big outing announcement but what happened was nine eleven happened right before the moon came out and I felt so bad publicizing it. It felt like in this will. Yeah you'RE GONNA and my book and let me tell you about my sad childhood. We see people jumping coming out of the bill. Yes right. I felt like the timing was really awful about that and then I wrote another book celebrity detox but by that time I was out so after my show I had never showed my kids on TV and after nine eleven that day I did I just felt like you never know when the world's GonNa Right take take away everything that you love and you better. You know claim your love for for who you do so I remember. I showed them on that. And that was like a big turning point in my life but but I didn't know how to sort of live with it. I went onstage sometimes. Doing stand up and I try to bring it up or I try to bring it up with John Daniel who was also gay and we both. What kind of didn't know the language of how you talk about being gay in a society in Nineteen Ninety six? When nobody was talking about it they earn? Things have come a long long way. We talk a lot about what it's like for the kids but I feel like for your kids. It's I mean you're so famous that it's like you being gay. Just like a drop in the hat like your Rosie O'Donnell it's I don't know how much more like affected by the trump stuff. Yeah they're much more affected by you know like my daughter will say mom. Did you have after say what I saw it on the news. I'm like honey. has a time where everybody is going to be. Asked what they did to try to fight us and this man. It'd be proud of me when I hey pre Germany Hitler. Everyone needs to be awaken on their toes. You know And those with the microphone have duty to speak to it. I think you know What do you think about like Lgbtq families and where we are with the administration and where things are right now well this administration? You can't look at it for anything can look to it for any policy. You know all it is is sort of hatred and bigotry and prejudice. And then when you when they're able to violate the civil rights of people who are in the armed forces who are transient and they're able to say we don't want you back after serving or we want to strip Tribu of you. I mean it's really unbelievable. Yeah and this was a guy who was not particularly anti-gay before he got in there he goes with whatever current he feels is GonNa be the big winner the big. He has no kind of standing ground morals in any shape. It's just about staying in power for him. It seems like yeah. I don't know what's going to happen when he gets impeached. And then you know he doesn't go down without a fight. I mean we saw it on the view when you were on the view and you guys had that feud yeah. That was my first notice. Chris how crazy that man is honestly aren't you. You unearth something. Well I told the truth. And that's the thing that gets him the most because he doesn't ever well in what I looked up up on wikipedia all was available at my fingertips it wasn't like I had to do Ronan. Farrow investigative journalism to find out the facts about it was available to any single reporter from the moment. He went down those escalators steps and condemned Mexicans rapists. That was at the beginning of the end. And so when I said what I said it was quite a shock to him and the vengeance with which he retaliated was like a decade eight long. Yeah no I know it's still going going remember. I feel like the only green is that. He's stopped attacking you because he's attacking everyone else. That's ask still find ways to do it. He'll still win. He did as race. Whatever you call women cows and pigs and dogs and horrible and he goes nope only Rosie O'Donnell and the vet `bout that that's hurtful was the laughter and he's like he has the ability to change change the public perception of whoever he wants yeah he can take Bill Taylor today ambassador and diminish him and deride him and fifty years years of public service yet right any person that goes against him he fabricates? Yeah you lies and lies and lies and it's very interesting thing to be affiliated or connected with the most evil man that's ever held the office I think. How did this get to be my life to leave one of his main targets really really and today the first one the call out yes J. The original whistle blower of trump? There you go. That's something to take right down in the books. Yeah what does He. I don't really know much that he's done for gay families or even talked about them or even now. He wrapped himself in a rainbow L. flag during the election. During did yeah. He's letting czar ten but it doesn't matter what his beliefs what anything he's going to go with what it. What pence once pence once again? I think it's about I think it's about the base. I think he thinks the people that can keep him in office. Believe the staff and so he's just like not as big as he thinks it is. I hope nine what I believe. I used to get like some hate mail and you'd be like Oh my God what you said something about Cubans and you'd get all this eight million you find out. It's from one computer and Philadelphia right member. We go through that I was like. Oh No. We're under attack now on. It's one got sitting in his house you know so. I don't think that it's as big as I think that the real American spirit is gonNA come up and I hope hope I have to believe it because the level of depression that I went through when he was elected my therapist said to me the day before. I said you know I'm going to do this. New New pilot for this showtime series. And I'm going to be alone on election night. Do I should be worried rosie. You Know Rosie. We've always. He's talked about your negative cycling. Please negatively recycling all of the blue. And she's going to win now. Europe that night. is she still your therapist now. She moved now. I have a good one so no. I'm good I'm in good hands. Happy for gay. Oh Jesus Look Nice. Tell our listeners. That are you all lesbians which you know what seems funny to a gay family the problem you Jamie. Did you know that we're in the middle of engagement season right now. That's the thing it is. Oh wait you know what and I got engaged in December right before Christmas thing right. Just think of how far we've come with gay. Marriage is taboo. Oh my God yeah for a lot of our friends who came. It was like their first wedding. And now they're like everybody's doing it but I remember how scared I was to get gay married in front of all my friends I it was like coming out all over again. This is Keri. 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"rosie" Discussed on If These Ovaries Could Talk
"Dot com slash. Oct for twenty dollars off. Do it sister might tell inappropriate stories stories too. I never thought about that. You know that like someone asked me once. We'll you're robbing this kid of a father other way never entered. My mind never entered mine either. I was never. I wasn't close with my dad growing up so I didn't think I always always like my mom was my the world my dad so I thought well what's the difference. I don't know I didn't. I didn't enter my mind until so much more concession. A person when they asked me was completely dumbfounded. Yeah what did it ever come up with your kids. Did any of them ever hearing. Thanks Ed when I wish had daddy I said I know daddy would be great. What do you think you'd like to do is daddy with the daddy he goes? We'll play catch with the midst and stuff I go well. You are lucky because mommy is one of the really good baseball players around and let's go outside. We went and bought the midst. We went through for literally twenty minutes twenty minutes most and then he's like okay. Well you know what it wasn't that great. I was like okay and he goes. I guess I'll I just keep you stood okay. 'cause I'm not going anywhere when we was on the beach with Kelly's family when he was very young he said you know some people were talking down um by making the sand castles about it's wrong to have two mommies and not a daddy and a mommy. I said Yeah while what would that make you feel you know. And he said made me feel bad that I don't have a daddy. And what do we do about the lane I go. There is some people like that that that's how they feel he goes. I think I'm one of those people apple. It was seven years old and I was like wow I said well. That's something you're going to have to think about because if you had a mommy and daddy can. You wouldn't have me because I'm the kind of money that wants another mommy. And that's when he really thought about it and said okay. I'll just keep you. You know I was like thank the Lord I couldn't imagine hearings brings bombing next. I was so angry at Kelly's family that that amid craziness you now. Yeah that's the thing you can't control what they hear. It was so weird of a time where you couldn't really say you were gay but When you have a child you out yourself because you go go to the parents school? The even the pre K.. And you this is your partner Anne. I remember when Parker was a baby and I was on. TV and the nanny would say he would tell people at the park. Oh my mommy and my other. Mommy and Charlie and don't say that Parker say like don't tell him that he can't talk about his own life while you're on the show. We don't want people to know what to be able to pay me this. Yeah yeah that was that. Can we talk a little bit about what it was like to be out during that time because like nobody was out at that time like I mean. I wasn't outright out publicly. No but I would like exactly actly. Kelly would sit next to me and every award show. I would go with her. I would you know I. I don't know but it was Lying by Omission Commission ran away because at that time nobody thought anyone could be out and be on TV network over like just keep that to yourself. No because when I started before I took the job I said I want you to know on gay at a table full of all executives and I don't imagine that I'll ever want to talk about it because it's not like the biggest thing in my life yet. I would much rather rather help children who are in crisis than I would to use the my game Mantra whatever I just felt really pulled to children who are in crisis this because that was the hardest time in my life. It wasn't the the realization of my gayness that was so that was kind of okay but I didn't like wrestle with it like people people do also because I didn't have a mother to disappoint. Everyone says you have you. Don't WanNa look in your mother's eyes and see disappointment you know and yeah I never had that so I told my sister and my brother you know when I was a freshman in college so I was like I think I'm in love with Chrissy Lucci. You always remember yeah. She's a Norway and I just looked her up last weekend me and to find her founder and he talked to her. We'll know I sent her aurigny. Oh she still talks about you. She's like I I was to college with Rosie O'Donnell played scratch my back and that's all we did because I was still like a little. Like what do you do with this all too much. Thank you can kind of see what the beginning of it is but maybe not the next steps after that. Yes I KINDA WANNA hang Out with a lot maybe make a little bit. But then what happens to ask a little bit age and you're like who cares honey. Let's cuddle cuddle. Well yeah or you have kids and same thing. Same same you James but I still think it was really brave because at that time like in the entertainment entertainment industry like like you said people were not given out shows to people. They were not like the fact that even before the show started you sat room of executives and you're willing to like let it go if they were like like well. I wanted to make sure that they weren't going to be anti-gay in case I was out if it up right and I'm like before you spend this money because it costs a lot of money to launch show I want. I want you to know that and you can decide when I'm not here. What that means for you and your life but and then while I was on my show Ellen show was on and there was a big big thing that she was gonna come out as a lesbian? I remember thinking well our careers over is whoever was that brave to do that and then I was asked all these questions about it when I be walking on a red carpet. Or what do you think about Elon and I was like What can I say you know? How do I do that? But when she came on my show I tried to like stand by her in a lesbian sister Lee way. Yeah when she said you know. I'm Lebanese I'm like maybe I'm Lebanese to remember that. Yeah that's that's 'cause I wanted didn't want her out there alone Tori Amos Song. Your mom shows up in a nasty dress. Turnout a stand where everyone's looking at you grab hold of my hand. But I can't hear them. You have to sing it so I can find Mermaid Orme hers name still on it. I don't care because sometimes I said sometimes I wear my voice. And it's been Hon. Son All these Ye. Yeah Matt Orioles Fan. I mean who is.
"rosie" Discussed on If These Ovaries Could Talk
"Of our girls so timeline wise for two because in my brain I think of you like this is my timeline for you. Know Rosie O'Donnell show will there's other people's take your life back back in my head during the Rosie O'Donnell show is when you had Parker and Chelsea because I remember you talking about them and I think I knew you were you. Were not then not really but what everybody kind of knew because I remember watching it and thinking I just love that. She's talking about her kids and she's gay like you. Were like the first one to do this. You are red trailblazer and I have to tell you that when we started this podcast we have about a neighborhood of like four hundred. Google docs of things we're doing and you know whatever and that we were the people were going after and the very first name that we wrote in was you. Yeah well when I heard it was a gay family planning podcast I was like I'm in. I love that. I has the family in a way that people don't as much you know. I don't see anyone with a big policy. You know kids like I do any ever made a pass. I did and Most people I know are having babies within their their unions and still very difficult. If you're are still expensive expensive yes all we tell us when we had a very easy go of it like I got pregnant pretty easily. They just put it in there. You know happened and what's up. We still paid about six grand a kid. That's a lot of money to have a baby. Yeah that's a lot cheaper than adopting adoption expenses yes and there are so many unknowns tones when it comes to adoption and that's scary when you're young you think that love can cure anything right now when you adopt babies and you know you don't know Ooh where like a plant comes up from your in your garden and you have no idea what this plant is and whether or not it can survive in this location and how to care for this kind of plant. And if they were with their birth family all those kinds of plants people know well. This is how we live. This is how we you know. So it's interesting thing to see one kid pop up as like daisy and the other kid pop up. Is You know some kind of other flower that you're either familiar with or you're not. Yeah but it's a lot scarier Gary you're now for me than it was when I was thirty and thirty three adopted Parker and I was so excited and naively idyllic. Yes I think. There's there's a real falsehood that's told about adoption that at all. You know once you adopt the kids are yours forever. And there's no bumps right no you're you're taking the bumpy road you think. I'm more bumpy than having on your own. Yes because of the primal wound that the baby feels from being separated from their mother. There's wonderful research where they you did with chimpanzees where they take the chimp away from the mother and they see what effect it has even being raised by different mother within their their area. Zoo Zoo their jungle. Whatever but it was a very profound thing that they had even a metal mother with just milk but no loving know cuddling and then they had another mother who raised as if it was their own? But I think it's a bigger challenge in some ways when you adopt. We we had like lady. You talked about that Jamila. Hello like that. Yeah that there was a separation that you no matter what there's a feeling of loss you have to deal with. Yes there's like a primal wound and at some point. Each of the younger ones now. Dakota hasn't done it yet but the younger ones like said to me at seven you know. Why didn't my mother want me and you know I always say to them? We'll look a baby. Let's look at a baby. We'd be at the mall or something as see that. Baby Gino anything about that baby now right. That's just a baby. When you know about the mommy the mommy wasn't ready to be a mommy so God looked insider tummy and figured out? There was a mixup. And he knew we had to get you to your mommy. And he's like and that's why we're a good match that's right that's why it's such a great answer is a good orange actress pop but these are the things you have to think about. Think about as an adoptive parent as and LGBTQ pair we have to have all these kinds of conversations all the time we have to have the stories stories. We have to know what we're going to say about the fact that no you don't have a dad. You have a donor you know you have to have. Yeah you have to have the narrative figured out and ready to go at anything. It's interesting because we have that with because he had a donor we that we knew it was coming you yes I was too afraid of the banks thanks. Yeah I don't know why just was but So she had a donor that she knew and viviers now very interested in you know we haven't had that like none of the other kids. Does she know who the donors. Yeah Yeah Okay. She knows we. She hasn't met him but she knows who years and she's like seeing his facebook you know but Chelsea when she got when she was sixteen sixteen went to find her birth parents. Yeah and it was kind of a tragedy. The whole thing young mothers showed up with cameras and sold the show Oh because zero zero Danica and and Chelsea was talked about on TV for awhile told everyone. I tried to kill her with a wine bottle chasing her around the house. And I'm like everyone one knows I don't run I might have liked trudge toward you slowly. Also that you wouldn't waste as the wine that's exactly right. I know what I'm doing but she left out in Chicago. I came home from Harlem apartment of a guy who was just learning to give that hat do so. That's a good plan. Thank you for telling me that. That's a good plan. Yeah okay so timeline. We keep getting district so Parker and Chelsea during the Rosie O'Donnell show and then the next one next is Blake Blake a Napa Valley still. He was one when I left the show. Okay Okay Clark. I actually remember in the last episode. I think I remember that. We gave birth to Vivian Right. Kelly gave birth. Vivian with the known donor with the known dome here and that was around forty. Okay it was that you I who was at home we have. Oh Yeah Guy came over one time it. How eighteen the day? My mother died the day that it happened to be coinciding with her. A magical her business her ovulations so We I put it in the bathroom. I put it in and it took in one day. That's right they said it was four percent chance that the dream. That's the dream. We live the dream he sure did. And then we got this beautiful little baby vivier. Who is just adorable and smart and grade and she so neuro typical typical? You know you know both the parents. There's no hardship when people are adopting out their children in crisis and that's something. Yeah DOPP the parents have to know and with the crisis comes what you know mental instability in untreated health issues. And so. It's a challenge. I think in some ways you don't have all the information that you want and when you're adopting sometimes you don't get all the facts. Purposefully yeah back in the day I think nowadays. It's a lot easier so with with Takada with the open adoption it. was you know something I had never even imagine. You were in contact with the mother before while she was pregnant well for the last two months so they I found out in November. I think Lois died. And and then by January seventh we had a baby. I just realized to you like the inverse of most people like all of your kids except one or drafted. That's the inverse lives on. I wonder was that hard for her or she likes to feel she's adopted. It's just such a funny thing. I'm adopted taken as a badger. No right to be you know. I always felt after I adopted Parker that if I had had a baby that I didn't want people to say oh that's the real one very concerned about not doing jeans At all once I adopted him. Because I didn't want anyone to feel that they weren't part of the family. Well did your older. Did your older kids have any issues with the fact that your wife carried a baby and there were genes involved with that one. No no I can't imagine a world where you didn't make it completely. I mean it's very exciting and again you know what I mean. Well I can tell you this that I don't know what it's like to carry a baby and give birth to a baby so I don't know what that's like. Kelly knows what that's like and it creates I think thank connection. That is hard to articulate but that is their. That's obvious right. Did you ever feel jealous about not carrying carrying having your genes involved and I never wanted my genes involved. There's a lot of craziness in my family and my mother died very young breast cancer. You Know My dad's his family all alcoholics soil disease. All I don't know I never felt am I sister and brother get mad. I hope not listening but they get mad at this when I say that because let's see that's implying like oh you so. My kids are way I'm not like saying I'm just saying for me with my life. Experience with Pat Marvel and finding a family that wasn't biologically mine but fitting in there and yeah and feeling love and all the things that make life full of joy. It was the right path for me so I never really felt jealous. I never felt that I wanted to.
"rosie" Discussed on If These Ovaries Could Talk
"Read little snippets about what you went through but to hear you tell it beginning to end like that's a lot that's a lot like. How did it play out for all the kids and for the families because it's the family structure has been has more? So yeah it you know I was one of the people who who believed I would never be divorced. I thought it was no one in my family had been divorced and I were just talking about this. Yeah how you can never be to sure right. You know you think he won't right. And how do you really know. No and I you know my mother died when I was ten. It was such a shock to the system where everything got an earth at that age agent so here we wear breaking up when the kids were in that age range and you know in the end I think they all decided and when we talk about it they're like it's better this way so the time line wise for two because in my brain I think of you the Rosie o'donald like this is my timeline for you the Rosie O'Donnell show will there's a nice to have other take your life back go ahead you speaking of a League of their own my my Preparation we my preparation for coming here was just GonNa be just watch the million times could film all the time classic. I can't gets making a comeback because this Halloween. And they're all these peaches. What they called the Rar Georgia peaches? But that's not right. Yeah the little I feel like there needs to. You can't really do a sequel. That movie Canio. You know they're doing a new with one of the girls from broad street. Run any there. She is doing another version of kind of league their own but with gay because penny was very adverse to the gay stuff not really no. Isn't that shocking. It is she had a couple of things now. I don't think so because she was really kind of thrown by the concept concept. And you know she when I had that big scene where I say you know before I came here. I felt like a weird girl even a girl but I think we're all right so are coming out and so she did it the first time she goes cocked Rosie. This is not about this is about her being outdoors Murphy coming to understand that she has people her own age. Yes and like her like her and and that she's not alone she's not you know so she we did it like four times and every time I'd say okay I understand. I do it the same way because this is how doc was what I was doing in my character. So that's what I was playing the whole time so to all of a sudden like do that like it was nothing seen. Yeah you know but it's like like one of the most powerful scenes in it that way. Yeah that's what I felt but she You know was great and so sad that we lost her. So yeah this this day we still walk around and go MARLA. Hooch would a hitter like and like giant shot of her so far away everything it was a female power. Yes Robin you know what US two mom. MOM families spend the most money on in an average year. No therapy boots feminine care products..
"rosie" Discussed on Pretty Big Deal with Ashley Graham
"Good I'm very pregnant. Thank you so much for your in the mommy game. Well Yeah Hardcore Jacks like two and a bit now so we kind. I feel like we're over the Hump because the first year is like it it just gets easier and easier and better and better. Oh the best thing even the challenges the good moments of Adam. It's all of it's just. It's really incredible. I'm excited I mean. Everybody has kind of told me that exact same thing. You don't sleep exhausted Mike all the time. Oh Geez Okay first of all. I'm so glad we are wearing the same color because I'm sure you've heard this and I'm sure you're flattered or maybe embarrassed by but you're my style micon never had no I screen shot and you're the most looks say in my saved. I G folder. Aw seriously thanks I really you just have it together. You have like a sense of ease and cool girl. I don't know what it is but it's it's you and when it suits you and the other thing that I always talk about with my friends is that you're always like recycling something like you. Don't just get back where it once again like. You're constantly wearing. Yes are are these looks at you put together. Do you have a stylus. That doesn't like I want the T. one in like fashion since I can remember and that's really why I got into modeling so I thought I'd work on the kind of creative behind the scenes part of the industry and ended up modeling which we can get to well. We have to but I've worked with a STYLUS for red carpet for you. Know the last seven or eight years. And that's really when I feel like I need it because it's a whole other beast but day-to-day I've always put but my outfits together and I just love it. It's like a fun creative part of my morning you put forward your bestself and I've just always loved close. It's just is what it is. I collect them. I'm actually really happy to hear that you put your own looks together. Yeah it's fun right so you'll be. Yeah Okay I love that pleasure love. Yeah so this is an obnoxious stat. You're one of the highest payed models in the world. And I know I know go to. Rosie Huntington is on my podcast to talk about it but I wanNA talk about the road to how you get there. Because it wasn't always an easy one. He started really young and I want to hear from the beginning. Yeah I started working when I was sixteen when we have fifteen at school school. Everybody was Encouraged to take a week of internship someone field of work that was interesting to them and having grown up in the countryside. I had this love for fashion since I can really remember my mum and I bonded over kind of buying the women's magazines and we'd sit together and go shopping my the day I would always ask for a subscription to Elle magazine and bizarre and things and so I really just kind of that was my my passion so when we were given this Tosca Oskar finding a place to to get a work experience. I got out the yellow pages and I just wrote to every kind of fashion brand that I'd heard of Time wrote of handwritten letters posted them. I wrote off the headquarters of brands. You know shops ahead. No idea had no contact the fashion industry whatsoever eleven. This is sixteen seventeen years ago. This is even before the Internet was really kind of booming. And one of the places. I've written off to a modeling agency agency. I came home. Tiny tiny modeling agency so I came home from school about a week later. My Mom said we got a phone call from this modeling agency and they want you to go up in town and I thought Oh my gosh. This is where I'm going to be going on shoots. I thought I would be out in the creative side of the industry and of course you know cut to a few months later. I'm up in London like walk into this tiny little office and I realized that I was actually kind of brought up just to kind of Antioch do faxes and be like you know someone that running the errands. It was such a time in the agency. How mine yeah? It was an and of of course like anybody who knows like an agency. You IT'S A. It's an office and so it was five or six booker's sat around a table. Picking up phone calls You know sending out faxes I would just be sort of there on the computer taking you know taking the phone and making cups tae and pouring wine.
"rosie" Discussed on Bullseye with Jesse Thorn
"I did no. I didn't know how big of a phenomenon the fly like girls. We're going to be though. Does that make sense. Yeah I don't I don't want to. I don't want anybody to miss something that you just said. which is something that I didn't know you're until T- earlier today when a friend told me about it which is that? Not only were you responsible will for the choreography of the fly. Girls who obviously did become a an huge cultural phenomenon. But you were a big part of bringing music into in living color that is live hip hop which at the time was something that basically wasn't on television division certainly not on network television like roughly contemporaneous with Arsenio Hall starting to Bring Life Hip hop music onto late night. But this this was like you know I was an early adolescent at the time and I watched it in the living room with my family with my parents. You know it'd be arrested the development or leaders of the new school or whatever you know Brand Nubian on television and you were a big part of bringing the those does music acts into the show which which had not been part of the original plan. Yeah I mean the the other producers tried to shoot the idea down and so did the network and so did the What what is it called the The the people that censor everything standards and practices standards and practices. I was not their favorite person who Yes but kept telling Keenan his his GONNA on a Bi big middle. America has no idea who bust a rhyme is let alone leaders of the new school you know you know or nice and smooth heavy d in the boys like you said the brand new bins I mean and on and on it went. I did get upset after a while that well rightfully so so was Keenan show. He allowed his brothers to book. So Max that I wasn't behind at all and I was like you're killing the credibility three of what I'm trying to do here. You know and then finally Keenan gave me the reins back which was which was good in all he was he was a fair boss. He really was. He was a good boss. Actually you were diagnosed with pushback stress disorder given all these childhood traumas. Only frankly some of which we've touched on in our conversation. Have you found it difficult in your life or have you developed skills to find places in your life to be comfortable or peaceful peaceful or feel secure. There are many places on my life that I can feel comfortable and peaceful and secure. What hobbies are is? I thought the waves come out of nowhere and that is part of my struggle with PTSD St. Because when you're having a good day and everything seems fine and Dan the and then all of a sudden this wave comes over your head and you're like Whoa in the sense that all of a sudden a feeling of Blah. We'll come over me for no reason or feeling of innate sadness and I'll say I don't know why I'm sad you know I don't know why I'm feeling this and through therapy interns therapy. I learned that that has do. Those are those signs of my depression coming up to the surface those are those those could be triggers of my PTSD. And thank God. I got help. Thank goodness life is so much better. I Dunno therapies for every the body but man is sure has done me wonders and I thank goodness that I had enough courage to go ahead and do it. And I'm still at the Pierre. I don't go every day anymore but we it was bad for a while. But you know I you no I check in now and I do the work I do. The work and life is so good. I have a wonderful career career. I have a great career. I've I've done so much better. Go to my relationships with friends and family of wonderful husband a wonderful marriage you know. I love my charitable work. I Love my activism work. It's it's my life is so full and yet there are days where I feel like it's doomsday and I have to sit down with myself and I have to do to work and I have to remove my my my soul from the past and get inside the president and understand. I'm here I'm right here on my back. They're all at that has gone broken up with my pass and I'm moving forward. You know enough forgetting about it just like you. Don't forget about an ex wchs lover but you don't WanNa go back to that one. You know what I'm saying. And he just WANNA move forward with it. You know but it's a struggle struggle and I and I. I envy people who say I used to help. PTSD and now. I'm good. Wow really gosh. Josh wonder how that feels you know saying you know when I you know for instance how might ptsd may trigger. I could be in my kitchen my beautiful kitchen than my husband. We did for me. And I'm cooking away my favorite pastime cooking and eating and then all of the sudden I will have the sense. That someone's GonNa come up against up behind me in my own house with the locked door with a knife and stabbed me in in the neck. It's completely irrational. And that thought in that image of someone possibly behind me happens in a nanosecond and I'll turn around and I have to tell myself. Nobody's there gotTA danger you not in home. You're not in in in in you know your mother's house or the dangerous streets of Bushwick you're not there anymore it's just it's just a it's just a beat. PTSD AST flesh calm down you know. And I'll take a deep breath but those still hopping. They don't happen all the time as they used to but they still dot com. That's what I call a wave I. I heard Disa- acceptance speech from the great late. Helen Thomas the White House correspondent bonded. I was privileged enough to be at the bank with that. She was receiving the award for her work in journalism and she had said that she was very nervous about her first assignment overseas. which was covering the Kennedy's trip? I don't know if it was to France for England and she was stressing herself itself out and and the woman that she was staying with another fellow journalists in in in France I think France told her. You need a calm down. You need a car. Why are you so nervous and she goes? I'm I think I'M GONNA fail. I think she goes. Where's that farm she goes? I don't know I just feel like I'm so scared of failing. She says well you know what you need to do. You go down to my Sela my wine cellar pick out the best bottle and we're GONNA crack it. It Open. Have a good time. And she's so as we have to get up in the morning. She goes even more reason to do it. Helen Thomas goes downstairs. She picks out a bottle of wine. Her friend looks at the bottle and says says Ono. Life's too short to drink the house. Wine go downstairs and get the good stuff honey and I live by that code. Life's too short to drink. The house wind goget the good stuff in life. Whether it be therapy or walk or wonderful partner or or beautiful home or living out your dream of career Dustin goodstuff hold onto it having a best friend that you could call at three o'clock in the morning like my girlfriend Julie Shannon or Ileana Eliana having a system like my sister common. Who's ride a die? You know. That's the good stuff and when those waves come I always told myself self by too short to drink the housewife go get the stuff more rosy you have dinner reservations in I gotTa take my daughter to a Birthday Party so I'm GonNa cut it short. I'm sorry that we didn't talk too much about your amazing acting work. which is one one of the reasons that I invited you on the program but I am so so grateful to have got to talk to you and I thank you very very much for coming on Bullseye? I I really admire your work and thank you. Thank you for this wonderful interview. I really enjoyed it. I was thinking God. I hope it doesn't suck and neutrally did not so thankful and also real talk rosie like usually when somebody comes comes dozen interview you and this is you know For understandable reasons people do an interview. 'cause I got some NACELLE and you're not here because you've got something to sell your your here out of the kindness in your heart because I bothered you on twitter and I'm very grateful to you for take for taking all this time.
"rosie" Discussed on Bullseye with Jesse Thorn
"That men never gave up on me ever so and he didn't have rights at the time because I didn't have his last name. I was singing about your mom. who was was a schizophrenic? Although you didn't know it at the time when you're a kid thinking about this for any runs in my family. I have an uncle who was schizophrenic. And and you know my uncle was very severely schizophrenic. By the time I can remember but it was very difficult for me to understand and and I had a friend in high school. Whose mother was? I think schizophrenic. Although much more manageable so my uncle was institutionalized in and she was table to work and she had a family and so forth in the feeling that I remember from both of those situations one when I was a younger kid with my uncle one when I was a teenager. With my friend's MOM. When I was in her house was how unsettling battling the unpredictability of it was specifically like not even that all things were horribly negative or brutal or anything? But just that when you're a kid you just are trying to figure out what the rules of life are and it's very hard to do you. That when the ground is shifting under your feet in that way that's well said. Yeah that's that's you got that right now so you always work walking on eggshells else waiting for the crack. Did you think when the nuns at the home told you that you were are talented. Did you agree with them like did you. Where are you proud of being good at performing? I had a lot confidence offense even though I was very very insecure in a lot of ways even when I was little I think because I was so loved initially an so spoiled boiled I had a sense of myself. The insecurity was not having a foundation of family and love and support. But I knew I could do whatever they asked me to do. I knew I could play Lucy in a heartbeat upbeat. I knew I could play Linus which I begged them to. Let me play. And they were worried that I had lesbian tendencies from but I think that when I felt good was wanted king to Danson Cuza came so easily to me. My Aunt told me that I was dancing. Even as an infant you know on my back in Oh always moving I just would never ever stop up. She said unless I was tied in that was I was over it. I was tired and I want us to sleep but when the nuns taught me how to tap and and modern dance and This Asian. I think it's Filipino. Thai stick dancing Filipino. Yeah it's really cool And it all came just so easily to me and it felt good one. I was told that I was good at it. We didn't get a lot of praise from nuns. It wasn't like Oh my. Gosh you're wonderful was like very good. It was like that you know Oh and there was the novices nuns in the near novice before you become a non the novice before they would tainted soy. Please Catholics out there. I'm talking about my own experience with the Catholic Church They were giddy about something that a child would do. Well there they were the ones that would say. Oh that's wonderful and be very you know enthusiastic about your achievements but the nonstop were there for a long time. They were over at the they were over there. That's good okay lineup. For Supper it was kind of like the so. You've mentioned you. Were doing the stick dancing. which is really cool? A little bit of that in high school Filipino Club. It was really fun. There's a lot of banging sticks. It's like also kind of a martial art but you're you're doing that and then you're doing. You're doing tap APP redoing Shirley Temple numbers. We weren't doing Shirley temple numbers but I would imitate Shirley temple all the time time I didn't connected because I was so traumatized being thrown into that situation at the home but later I discovered why loves Shirley Shirley Temple so much. It was that that was my aunt's favourite as well so she was obsessed with her and so we used to watch chilly temple movies together all the time so I would do that on my own. That wasn't really what the nuns had taught us. They taught us more. Sammy Davis Junior. I don't know why don't ask me. But I guess they tickled. He tickled their fancy. You know so Yeah so yeah. There are things that you did when you were in that home that you think back on very fondly like whether sources of happiness for you in that situation should yes there was one non. Her name was sister and she was a novice and then she became a nun and I remember I used to tell it. Don't do it. But she was so kind to me and she was so funny and we used to have good. Times is where I would read a book and I would discuss the book with her at length and she just showed so much patience with me me and would endure my long soliloquies about whatever. And she was very kind. And there was another nun sister Antoinette. A- and one of my punishments was they withheld food. That's why I'm a greedy slop. This day I I have no control when it comes to food and I know through therapy it goes back to that with a with health. Food as punishment and Sister Antoinette was in charge of the kitchen and me and this one grow Wanna say her name because she's still alive but she was crazy she and I were close close friends and one day. One night I'm starving might. My stomach is growling and she wakes me up when everyone's asleep and she said let's sneak. Sneak down to the kitchen and I was very good girl. I just had a bad temper because I wasn't happy but I'm a very good girl and I said No. No No. We're going to get in trouble so they're gonNA beat us. She said No. No no come on. Everyone's asleep and we went down to the kitchen. And we were just stuffing the food in our mouths and sister stance when it clicks on the lights and I just started crying because I just thought that's it I'm GonNa get the crap. beat out of me White Mall and she just looked at US and she goes. Let me make you a cheese sandwich. And we both like shaking and I'll slippers and just I just couldn't be still. I was so scared. And she said sleep bone and she made a sandwiches so every three time after that every time I got punish she would kind of look at me a wink. M I knew I could sneak down and she would give me food so that was very very nice. And they're wonderful wonderful counselors and volunteers. That would come to the home during the day that were really elite special. There was Mr Neil and his wife Betsy they were very kind to me. They would always take me for ride in the car. There was Miss Claudia media. She would Take me for sleepovers at our house and take me to take me shopping to buy a nice clothes. And she taught me how to Act Out in public and then there was one special. Special Nun sister Margaret Francis who actually left the order. She had the biggest impact on me. I remember when she was leaving. She came to see me before she left for good. Came back for a visit and lavars. She grabbed my arm and there was is were flooded with with emotion and she grabbed my on and she said. Put your head down. Study as hard as you can get out your mind into your intelligence. Is Your ticket out. I go Kay and she squeezed my arm so hard is she says No. I want you to promise me. Say say that you're GONNA do it. You don't belong here and I said I promise. She hugged me and she left and I never saw again so they're really caring people. They're like really really caring people there. It wasn't just about sadistic nuns Angry priests there was some really beautiful folks that affected my life in a really sincere way even more more from my interview with Rosie Perez after a quick break when we come back Rosie tells us about dancing on soul train stay with us. It's Bullseye for maximum fund DOT ORG and NPR support for this podcast and the following message. Come from today ticks with today ticks APP. Getting tickets to your favorite shows is fast asked easy process. This cyber Monday used today. Ticks is your go-to hub for everything from theater and arts to comedy opera. Tried today ticks now by going onto today ticks dot com slash Bullseye and use Promo Code Bullseye to get ten dollars off your first purchase..
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"Rosie from Rosie on the house, and you know, y'all a regular listeners have heard the show grow from a one hour show to a two hour show a three hour show a couple of years ago, we expanded it to a four hour show when the folks over at the radio station offered me that fourth hour. I made one condition. I said, okay, I'll take a fourth hour. But I wanted to be on any topic. I want is not going to be on home improvement. So we picked it out as a traveler of Arizona and a lover of Arizona somebody who's been here since the mid sixties. I said we're going to have it the Arizona, our people places and things of the great state of Arizona. And Mr. Kimberly, I can't thank you enough for Sanderson Ford coming on as a recent sponsor of that show. We're gonna have a blast with this rosy. There's no one that. I'd rather ride with the new believe me, this is we are proud to be a sponsor. We're proud of our relationship. And you know, this is a great state in known represents the state better than you. Whether it's. Crawdads festival. Whatever it may be. I mean, you do it. And so we're very proud to be part of it. And you know, you've you've come a long way from one little station in now, the four hours and seven stations, and my gosh, we're just this is just incredible. Thank you for letting us be part of the year show. Well, we certainly are humbled and loved the partnership for sure y'all were the original sponsors of the Rosie on the house Zona staycationing that's just gone over. So well, the letters we get from people that show up on your lot to pick up that vehicle from the demo that they're going to be able to drive for a couple of days and sweet Jennifer gives them a gas card and Arizona highway gives them gift books. And then we send them down the road to some location at stake. Asian has been a blast in this new sponsorship of the seven o'clock hour is gonna take it to a whole new level. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, very proud to be part of it. And to share this great state of Arizona and thank you as well. Former LSU player and writer, John and Bradley. Ten wants tiger stadium is haunted and all the ghosts favor. The home.