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What Prevents People From Getting to Know Christ? Eric Weighs In
"Think is maybe a barrier to people having that same journey that you had to understanding that scripture is strong and it speaks at conviction into all of these different facets of life. Well, there's a hundred answers to that question. It's human nature, which is to say sin, right? I want to, if I can have it both ways, if I can have my cake and eat it too, I don't have to stop doing this. I don't have to do that. And part of that has to do with the leadership of the church. If the leadership of the church of Christian pastors and leaders are not crystal clear on certain issues, people interpret that as, okay, I have an out. We need to know that they're true. And I think a lot of times we kind of act like, well, I hope these things are true. I hope Jesus rose from the dead bodily. I hope. If you hope you're lost. You need to know just the way you know one plus one equals two. You're not thinking about that. In the back of your mind, you don't think, well, we'll see. You know, these things are true. And I think that many in the American church, in particular, lack of a kind of boldness, because we interpret boldness and clarity sometimes as being intolerant or as being insensitive to people with whom we disagree. But you wouldn't say that to somebody who thinks one plus one equals three. You'd say, no, no, no, where did you get that from? No, no. You'd want to help them because you know that's not true. And I think that it's been part of the American character. Every culture has positives and negatives. We're people where groups of people and every culture has things that are really good at and things that they're bad at. And in America, we want to get along with everyone. There's something good about that. There's something wonderful about that that we care about other people who disagree with us that we respect their right to disagree with us. That's good up to a point. But at some point, we lack the nerve to say, no, no, no, no, no. We're talking about truth. This is true. The Bible is true. It's not a book of suggestions. This is the word of God designed to bless you. Let's talk about it. But
Gas Prices Rise & Will Continue to Rise Under Joe Biden
"We also have another problem and that's the economy and it's something that we should be talking about just how bad things are Remember the president of the United States of America wanted you to believe that everything was hunky Dory with gas prices right That you should give him praise for taking $5 a gallon gas and moving it back down Well it's temporary That's what the analysts now believe and there are shortages worldwide Why Because we refuse to be energy independent which is what we were under the Donald Trump and the new Biden regime has said no They want you to suffer in submit to their green religion That's what it is The national average gallon of gas is going back up and when I was in California earlier this week I saw it for the first time in my life in real life like with my own eyes not on a computer but in real life I looked at a sign and it was over $6 a gallon from let it gasoline in California right now Now the prices are going to go up even more after the election We know this because the strategic oil reserves have been artificially flooding the market with cheap gas to lower the price Or I should say cheap oil to lower the price
A Snapshot of the Right Today With Mark Meckler
"Mitch McConnell's and timorous beasties, the milquetoast likes of Kevin McCarthy, I see a leadership that isn't going to allow the party to reflect the desires of the people who elect these candidates. So we're kind of in a way half pregnant situation where it's kind of maga kind of America first, but the control switch, the rains are still, you know, get along go along to get along with the Democrats. Is that accurate? Well, what's missing? Yeah, I think that's dead accurate and putting that in historical context with the Tea Party since that's where we started. We had that situation with the Tea Party. The difference was the people who were up and coming had no idea what to do about it. And I would argue the folks coming in now that are citizen politicians, they're much more sophisticated. They've seen what happened with the Tea Party movement. And I also think that this movement is deeper and wider than the Tea Party movement is. I'd point specifically to what you see going on at school boards and you've got these parents rising up, getting elected to school boards and city councils. I think that ultimately makes it way up through the political landscape all the way up. And that means it has a much longer tail than the Tea Party did because the people who are coming in on those school boards, they're younger than the average Tea Party person. I think this is going to have very positive effects on American politics for decades to come. All
Mark Meckler Describes the Origins of the Tea Party Movement
"Ask you that kind of fill in some gaps for us? In terms of the last, what should we say? 7, 8 years. Because if you look at the Trump phenomena, if you look at America first, if you look at maga, either connections to Brexit, which are this rise of popular sentiment, representative government, many have said me included. That all of this was built on the ashes of the Tea Party movement. So will you wind the clock back for a mark and tell us what was the Tea Party movement? How was it born? What was the mission? And what happened to it? And then lastly, and I'll remind you of these if you can't keep them all in your head. What is the connective tissue? What's the overlap between today's America first and then your original Tea Party movement over to you? Yeah, so I think you bookended that perfectly. In other words, I do think that a maga movement America first is sort of the, it's the final act of the Tea Party movement. I don't think you get president Trump without the Tea Party movement. It's a long tail, so here's how it goes from my perspective. And in O 9, the Tea Party movement has launched. It's actually a response, not just to Obama, which it's partly to Obama, but it's the policies of the Bush administration beforehand. I know personally, one of the things that really turned me on politically to lit my fire is listening to George Bush say that he was abandoning free market principles to save the free market. And I thought, I'd never heard gibberish like that out of a president in the United States. You go into the Obama era, we get ObamaCare, and this is really where the Tea Party movement takes off. In 2010, you get the largest swing class in the history of Congress since 1938. I think there were 63 seats that changed hands. It was absolutely incredible. I thought personally everything would change at that point. I thought the message had been said and loud and clear to Washington. What we wanted was fiscal responsibility, a fidelity to the constitution and a preservation of free market economics. Those were the Tea Party hallmarks.
Florida Death Toll Rises After Hurricane Ian Impact
"Let me get back to some updates on the situation that's unfolding or that has unfolded in Florida and this is these numbers are as of, I guess, the last updated on Saturday, which is as of Saturday this past Saturday, the numbers have come in and it's around 77 people who have lost their lives roughly a thousand people have been rescued from the Florida area along Florida's southwest coast and this was an incredible storm. It says the storm made U.S. landfall Wednesday, obviously the Florida's Gulf Coast as a category four hurricane, leaving homes and taking lives with storms surging and flooding rain, driven by a 150 mph winds. That is absolutely incredible amount of wind. And, you know, I said this last time, we got to keep our friends and family in prayer in Florida. And the unfortunate part of our list. And I think the unfortunate, the overarching unfortunate part of these things that I'm speaking about is that people lost their lives. You know, some people have lost their family members. Some people have lost valuable things that they will never get back. They will never get these things back. And it's really unfortunate. And to add insult to injury, the media just keep attacking and desantis.
US warns about foreign efforts to sway American voters
"There are warnings about foreign efforts to sway American voters U.S. officials say Russia is working to amplify doubts about the integrity of American elections while China is interested in influencing policy perspectives in favor of Beijing That concern aligns with an unclassified intelligence advisory that says China is probably seeking to influence select races to hinder candidates perceived to be particularly adversarial to Beijing Officials say they have not identified any credible threats to the election infrastructure like voting machines but the intelligence warning comes amid the peak of a midterm election campaign cycle in which a rising number of candidates and voters openly express a lack of confidence in the nation's democratic process I'm Lisa dwyer
Stocks rally on Wall Street toward their best day in months, S&P 500 and Dow Jones Industrial Average rise more than 3%
"Stocks on Wall Street rallied for their best day in months on Norman hall The S&P's leap of 2.6% was its biggest since July and came after falling bond yields ease some of the pressure that's been battering markets The Dow jumped 2.7% the NASDAQ gained 2.3% in a widespread rally that swept to vast majority of U.S. stocks higher helping to drive Marcus was a report on U.S. manufacturing that came in weaker than expected along with data showing a drop in construction spending That may seem discouraging for the economy it could mean the Federal Reserve won't have to be so aggressive about
Democrats Cannot Answer THIS Question
"Extent is man-made activity contributing to rising global temperatures. They can not give you that answer. They can't. Are there any other potential explanations for rising global temperatures? Over the past couple thousand years have global temperatures risen or fallen absent human activity? Have there been other environmental changes regionally from the Mediterranean climate to north England to sub Saharan Africa that might have changed not because of human activity, but because of other actions, when you have a hemisphere, when you have a planet that is so large and so massive, isn't it rational to believe that there could be other inputs or other potential, let's say, other potential explanations as to why the earth would be getting warmer? Is and here's the other question to what extent extent to what extent are other variables factored in. And here's the most important question. Let's pretend they're right about the alarmism. Let's pretend they're right about all this, even though none of their predictions come true. One prediction after the other is exaggerated is elaborated. Does that then mean this is the most important question does that then mean we put into jeopardy our ability to power our hospitals, transportation, our economic engine so then we then satisfy the slight increase in rising global temperatures? Is that right? And if so, why are you then making a widespread moral argument? Because that is a moral argument. Under what basis do you make that argument that poor people in America now have to pay 30 or 40% more to heat their homes this winter? That working class people have to pay 30 or 40% more to drive to work. Why? Because while she says, we own the science and the world should know it.
UN chief: World is in `life-or-death struggle' for survival
"The head of the United Nations says the world's environment is in a life or death struggle for survival I Norman hall UN secretary general Antonio Guterres warned world leaders that immediate action is needed to prevent further environmental disasters such as historic flooding and Pakistan and powerful hurricanes that have struck recently including Ian The world can not wait Emissions are at an all time high and rising And meanwhile the war in Ukraine is putting climate action on the back burner while our planet itself is burning Guterres challenged leaders especially from developed nations to ten next month's climate summit in Egypt I Norman hall
Ed Ryan: Why Some People Did Not Evacuate for Hurricane Ian
"Of the reasons for that was back when Irma hit everybody in the barrier islands Fort Myers beach sanibel pine island, and they were all told that the storm surge was going to be so bad that it was going to have the potential to destroy buildings. And what happened was there was no storm surge. So I think there was a false sense of security this time around where they said, watch out, watch out for the storm surge, and people decided if they had a two story building, they were just going to move up or if they had an addict, they were just going to move up. And what happened was it was so high. Mike, when I tell you that, we looked at some of the buildings during the storm where there were cameras set up on high rises. The buildings were underwater. I mean, some of the houses on fort Mars beach are so old, the cottages. They were just, they were just broken into tiny little pieces. There was no chance for people to survive if there were something like that. Mobile home parks, same thing. They're at least two or three on four Mars beach. They just totally destroyed all of those, all those facilities. So, you know, there was a mandatory evacuation. I think governor desantis did a great job. I think the county leaders and Lee county did a great job giving people enough time to get out. I mean, how much time and how many times do you need to be told to get out before you, you know, in your mind you're thinking, I'm staying. I mean, the traffic wasn't bad enough during the initial evacuation where they had to open the shoulder of I 75 or any of the busy roads. They were ready to do that. And so, you know, the people on those islands that decided to stay, they were going to stay. It wasn't like it was the last minute, 15 minutes you have to get out. They knew they were going to try and stay with their with their property. And it looks like you shot pictures now. I believe that's the four Mars beach beer. It was.
In Hurricane Ian's wake, dangers persist, worsen in parts
"Rescues continuing Florida of stranded residents as the death toll from hurricane Ian rises to at least 68 most of those within the state Helicopters rescue residents like Sean McCaffrey from the barrier islands cut off from the mainland I should have laughed at me I had to do it again I wouldn't stay Flooding damage extending inland people using boats to get around the streets of northport John cha hill using two of them to tow his family's possessions along with his daughter It's an act of God you know I mean that's all you can do is pray and hope for a better day tomorrow Governor Ron DeSantis visiting child hill's community saying that day will come I'm optimistic that things are going to bounce back quicker than people would normally think from a storm like this It doesn't mean there aren't challenges Of course there's challenges It doesn't mean people aren't going to need help We're going to need a lot of help We're going to continue to provide that President Biden visits Florida Wednesday to survey the damage I'm Julie Walker
The Rise in Online Gaming
"What do you think about the rise of online gaming and the rather casual disappearance of millions of dollars every weekend from middle income investors lives? Well, I have not actually bet on another sports thing since then. I'd resolve never to do it again. And I haven't, but the truth is, if people enjoy betting, I don't say it's a necessarily a sin for them to do it by getting some enjoyment from it. It isn't something I would enjoy. But I do think some of the money could be better spent in other ways. And I think some people probably put too much in to betting. In other words, if you spend half of 1% of your net worth embedding each year and you lose it, it's not the end of the earth. You spend ten or 20% on it, you can really hurt your family and your children.
Florida deaths rise to 47 amid struggle to recover from Ian
"It's a desperate search for survivors of hurricane Ian in Florida After riding out the hurricane sanibel island resident Betty Reynolds had to be rescued from her home I didn't think it was bad at all until the water started coming in Four feet of it So I've been living upstairs The same rescues playing out on pine island Resident Joe can 40 There was four foot waves in the streets and the water just kept pounding the house and we watched houses We watched everything just before flying by Which was so much As rescue numbers mount so does the death toll President Biden pledging to help those impacted not just in Florida but everywhere Ian hit Whatever it takes to help search and rescue recovery and rebuilding is going to take a long time The White House saying Biden and the First Lady visit Puerto Rico in Florida this week Our hearts to state the obvious you can't go without saying are heavy I'm Julie Walker
UK train strikes and energy hikes add to a week of turmoil
"Bail strikes across Britain have added to a week of turmoil caused by soaring energy prices and unfunded tax cuts that roiled financial markets Trains throughout Britain have ground to a halt as rail workers across the UK went on strike They are demanding wage increases keep pace with inflation that is expected to peak at around 11% this month consumers will also hit with another huge jump in energy prices with household bills expected to rise by 20% even after the government stepped in to cap prices British prime minister Liz truss who has been in office for less than a month justified her stimulus package of $48 billion of unfunded tax cuts as a response to the cost of living crisis The
Jennifer Granholm: Russia Is Not a Good Energy Partner
"Mister bedou a Jennifer Granholm the energy secretary was with the BBC today I want you to hear this America cut 15 go I think Russia has proven itself to be an unreliable energy partner It used to be reliable no more no country wants to take the risk of putting a significant amount of its energy demand to Russia's supply It is clear And in fact I think this accelerates the EU's push to become energy independent through clean energy So let me ask you this genius She had no damn thing about energy Nothing zero Doesn't matter So I guess Florida is an example of not using electricity right Right mister producer Florida is an example of using coal And oil and propane and natural gas right America So as I speak there's still millions of people who don't have electricity in their homes in Florida And now people up the coast in Georgia but especially South Carolina is getting whacked now They've lost energy too Electricity Because the lines are down So is that an example Now I can do the same thing they do So apparently the Russians blow holes into quote the great press secretary in the Nordstrom pipelines In Nordstrom's pipelines it's the Nord stream I got it Although have you noticed the Tokyo roses of our society are blaming us But blaming us
Resilient US consumers spend slightly more in August
"Consumers spent a bit more in August than the previous month assigned the economy's holding up even as inflation list prices for food read and other essentials I Norman hall The commerce department says Americans boosted their spending at stores and for services such as haircuts by .4% in August after it failed .2% in July He had much of that increase reflected higher prices with an inflation gauge closely monitored by the Federal Reserve rising .3% in August The figures suggest the economy is showing some resilience despite sharply rising interest rates while swings in the stock market and high inflation The economy is expected to grow in the third quarter but many economists expect growth will be just 1% or so of the annual rate Norman hall Washington
Tudor Dixon: First 100 Days as Michigan Governor
"If you get an office as the governor in Michigan and you win that seat You have to prioritize your first hundred days What are your triage items You absolutely have to get done right away Well getting kids back on track is critical because as you said she was locked down Queen and she kept our kids out of school longer than almost any other state So now we're seeing the effects of that Even when she had the opportunity to give reading scholarships when she had the legislature hand her a bill for a $155 million in reading scholarships she vetoed that The effects of that have been catastrophic on our students We just got our reading exams back for our third graders from last year We had a nearly 60% failure rate across the board So first and foremost getting education back on track we were already 38th in the nation before the pandemic now we're headed quickly toward the bottom 5 states in the nation So we have to provide relief for our kids We have to provide help for our kids to get back on track and then get parents back into the classroom and let them know what's going on We also have a rising crime situation You know this You talk about it all the time Michigan is one of the worst states We have 11 of the hundred most dangerous cities So we've got to get to back our law enforcement When I talk to those guys they go we don't want money We don't want you to come in and do anything We just want you to have our backs That's not what they want You just say
Inflation hits record 10% in 19 EU countries using euro
"Inflation in the European countries using the Euro currency has broken into double digits as prices for electricity and natural gas saw The spike in inflation signals a looming winter recession for one of the globe's major economies as higher prices undermine consumers spending power EU agency eurostat says consumer prices in the 19 country Eurozone rose a record 10% in September up from an annual 9.1% in August only a year ago inflation was as low as 3.4% Price increases are at their highest level since
"rose" Discussed on Los' Lounge
"I saw red. Burt playing with the blue bird flu from branch to branch. Spring air. All around me. Look to my right. And i see a river a smile. I looked my life. I'll start to quiver for awhile and the rain over the next day and behind struggle is a story. Continue to look at the view. I felt easing. I felt compassion. And i long to be the bluebird flying very freely. Despite the rain i want to soar. Want him to soar into the promise of tomorrow. Sunrise wings textured with joy and knowledge unknown territory territory seeks my landing. I stay busy. Dreaming till i pray for the reality one i- kaleidoscope. I'm sorry one i- kaleidoscopic dream the other filled with lightning grey with yellow and red trim. Yeah that's what. I'd like to be looking like if i was him. The bird that flies ever so freely. Just like the red and the bluebirds in front of me and neil is to say despite the son of rain to blue bird and the real red bird. They both flew away. You still. there are good now. Tom smile baby. Listen i want to say a big shoutout to erica. Rose a big big shadow. And i want to turn a leash down. Which is there are no coincidences. I put a leash on purpose and my listeners will understand. So there's this woman. And i've always known about her because of alicia keys. I'm a hardcore true stance lisa keys fan as well as a madonna fan. And you know this. We know this. We've talked about this. Wendy williams too but when williams is a singer alicia keys tapped into alicia keys. Became zeitgeist for me on a soul level emotional level that madonna never tapped into until i was really aware. Does that make sense. Alicia keys has a best friend. I don't know if they're still best friends. or not. my my hope and my sumptious that they are because if they weren't my god get them back together but alicia keys is best friend with rows. They knew each other before she became as big superstar. She's traveled with a leash. She's been leashes role dog from day. One and i mean that with respect i word but with respect and eric of you listening to this i pray you do and i hope leash those two. They're like sisters. And i pray that still the case in my fucking business. I don't care. I love you alicia. And i'm loving you even more. Erica rose so erica. Has her own instagram. Obviously like everyone else. And it's just. It's funny to see erica rose. That's on the diary of alicia keys. Dvd to the erika rose now. And i'm in more with her now. She's so much more aware and spiritual and conscious and and she's such a leader and it's nice to see her. Life turned right because fame affects people in the people that are close to them. But i don't know what it is about. Erica rose speaking to my soul and her daily chronicles instagram. The words that she speaks and the piece that i feel when she speaks them. When i'm done because she really inspired today's episode. She really did. And i just want to throw him out roses to you l. Don't get emotional. You silly boy all so stupid. i'm so stupid. Thank you erica. You know we talked about privately and it means the world to me so thank you. I hope you listen to this. God bless you muster okay. That's here we're keep going because you know it's all about smiling and i want to end this on a positive note. First of all on music hills. I haven't really turned to music too too much. And i was gonna say play a couple of songs that i want you to listen to. But if there's any song. I want you to listen to lately. Everyone is alicia keys way to they see your smile because when this is all done and over with coloured pandemic all this negative energy in the world when this episode has done i'll be smiling because our release it to you and it's off my chest eric. I hope you're listening. lisa. I hope you listen. Everybody look in the mirror until you so if you love yourself tell yourself that you're worth it and way to they see us an easier too small for yourself because i'm smiling for me. Do they see you smell. I need you to hold onto everything you foundation need you to pray a little bit more. Call your parents tell match. Love them and i'm really really stay with me i. Let's continue to be happy together. Happiness is a state of mind as we get older that were kind of it's cheesy. I like to save more content fulfilled. But this is their here. We go poetry music. Alicia keys this podcast. Life has been therapy. And i hope that hungary that i feel better after i had sand publish and i pray you do to come back to los announce for the next episode stay safe. Thank you for your time. Don blessing dorigo stand brooklyn..
"rose" Discussed on Los' Lounge
"To the lounge. how we doing. How are we feeling how what are we. What are we craving right now. And what do we want from the future that everyone is learning from the past. Now everyone is coming to the future. But if you hate me you can kiss my ass. Turn my mic up. Baby turned to music down and not everyone can come into the future. Not everyone that's here is built to last and so with that lyric said i think about in my built to last are we built last. And and if i'm built to last hammami am i maintain myself. How am i maintain my self to last. My past doesn't define me. But if i don't be aware of it and if i don't honor and and evolve from it then i'm fucked a choice that i make doesn't define me but a damn short test my own character and it makes me realize wait a minute. Where are you at them. What led to this. How did we get what was a in before we got to see. Where are you emotionally emotionally. I feel like shit. But i'm not depressed. I'm not broken. i'm just sat. Does that make sense. Like i'm just a little sad. My spirit is. My energy is a little sad. I know when i'm depressed. This ain't it just sat. But when i look towards the future i get excited i almost shuttered. Sierra misty eyed. But i get excited. Because i know that i have the tools to manage and i am a light and if i don't fucking stay with that thought and if i don't act on that thought continuously because you have to practice which preach right so you can be the life i say on the late so i could be the late from my mom could be the life of my dad. I could be the light for my friends. I could be the light for the ones that matter. Or maybe i could be the life for someone around. The world is probably follow me on instagram. And they admire me because maybe they see themselves in me so they listen to this podcast and they say fuck. I don't know this boy from a hole in the wall. But i like this guy i hear myself in this guy and i i wanna keep listening because this guy and i we connect in a way. That means a lot to me. That's wealth to me. That's my wealth purposes. But i know my purpose is to uplift and inspire and be creative and being artist and express push boundaries push boundaries of myself but i also got a now my next goal has artisan and his human not even as artists as a human. There's just really be continue to be the best version. A man that i can be a lesser mistakes less mistakes more growth but also less ego and selfishness. I feel like my ego and my selfishness crept in this year thinking or speaking before. I thought sometimes. Hey just trying to be the best that i can be because my future is going to be prosperous. My future sees book. Publishing's my future scenes me taking my life to another level. My future sees me. Hopefully one day getting married. My future sees me being spiritually inclined. My future sees me taking on different things and creating memories moments and being a better version of myself but in this moment i have to recognize that sad. I'm a little down. We have to learn how to manage that whether you're whether you're outlets therapy whether you're outlet is talking to a best friend whether you're outlet is dance whether you're outlet is boxing whether you're outlet is hopefully it's not drugs hopefully you can step away from that and we can talk about that another episode. It's coming soon. I'm going to have a nice devoted episode into substance abuse. And i'm going to be very transparent about mine. It's coming soon. It's coming soon. Because i'm not ashamed. You understand what the fuck i'm telling you. I'm not ashamed. No it's not about that. It's about recognizing my own growth and not going back to that. So it's we're good over here. But i need to be open about that because everything has purpose and i'd like to live on my purpose. My dream in the futures to buy a house have a small house but with big property have a mini farm. I wanna chicken. I want animals. Oh my dog. My cat my little baby goat. I want my from my husband. I wanna be a father. I wanna have great credit. Continue to have regretted. I wanna i wanna. I'm still working on my credit. But that's that's my own business not yours. But i also wanna be more giving them this selfish and i also wanna travel more trying to speak all this existence being a great uncle to harry and vicki's son future son or future daughter. Having holiday parties wants this. Kobe thing is over and i just wanted to be more in tune with god. I want to be in more into with self care. I want to continue to be a leader. But i want to continue to be less of me and more of others and i think i've been in service to others this year. I'm not going to sell myself. Short again don't cry for me. Argentina but i just i want to continue to change. I want to end today's day. Feeling going to bed tonight with a smile and feeling proud of my work today and feeling proud of the day. that's where it all starts starts now guys ladies and gentlemen iraq when we come back. I want to end this episode with a couple of songs. That i want you to listen to some of my personal favorites right now and i really do hope that you're listening. And i hope that we're connecting on some level. I don't have the answers. I don't even have all the answers for myself. But i just feel like i'm a better manner manager of it. All i can navigate better so kudos to myself kudos to you and come on back to the mount. Let's go into the future baby general.
"rose" Discussed on Los' Lounge
"Can i say thank you. Thank you for listening. Bangladesh france may. And i also see the united states. There's so many people in the us that are listening to me right now. A lot of you are my friends. And i know that i feel and i know who you are. Sometimes by cd analytics. It'll break down the town in the state year. And so some of you. I'm like oh my baby's listening to me for instance massachusetts. I see springfield holyoke. Ludlow north hampton belcher town north adams in the munson hampton. East long metal. Chicopee palmer rambo chestnut hill gardner and boston. A big shots in my state massachusetts were holding me down of big shots to texas dallas. Dallas baby san antonio spring. See you guys like it. Breaks this down. I see all the states. Connecticut holds me down. Connecticut holds me down. I love you thank you baby. Thank you my babies. I see new jersey. Hoboken clifton newark. I see wait a minute. I lost my chart comeback late. Because i want to give you your props. And i wanna say thank you so hold on this matter it so just listen to the music motherfucker new york. Let's go to new york. I seen nyc so the city holds me like a motherfucker. A see the bronx senator reach farming. Ville i see central square but the most that. I'm excited about this birthplace. And it's in the mother fucking blood you understand. What the fuck i'm telling you. A mother breeze father breathes it. It's brooklyn new york brooklyn. I brooklyn forever. A see apple podcasts spotify anchor. I see antenna pod. Thank you anti pod listeners. Thank you bullhorn listeners. Thank you overcast listeners. I love you. i don't know you. But i love you because you're putting up with me right now. You still listening and we've connected somehow. And god bless you. Could you reach out to me on instagram. Could you tell me how am i doing my god. I'll tell you. What writing is my goal to for expression i love to write a law allows of journal. I'm a poet a writer. I'm artists i will die on that first puerto rican. I still and i haven't written as much lately. I thought that recently in these times in my life. I would have thought that i would have busted out that pen and paper more but i've actually been focusing more on my podcast and just reading a little bit here and there and just not watching any tv and kind of breaking out of that little bit just kind of being in my own feelings and sitting in my stillness and sitting in my regret sitting in my pain sitting my bad decisions sitting in my glory to but really focusing on the bat and how can you make the bad better. Because i've made a couple mistakes along the road. Well not a couple. But i made a mistake along the road that is impactful and people's feelings and impact for my structure and impactful on on Sonic the hedgehog who i love so much and sonic is my everything saw. I got a you know. He'll but i also got to deal with something that's lingering in the big play and that is without being too honest. That's something just more important. And i don't want to say that in a rude way. That's not that whatever. I deal with afterwards isn't important it means the world to me but I'm dealing with something else right now and Once i am given permission to speak on it i promise you. We will connect on a whole different vibe. But don't cry for me. Tina because it's not my time to go. It's your time to go and so when we come back we're going to spend some love. And and this was some positivity and some light.
"rose" Discussed on Los' Lounge
"As i was talking about social media you think that you know people people think that they know you based on social media is the illusion of bliss as noted Well i got that phrase from alicia keys. One of her best songs ever alumina bliss. Check it up. The social media is that and it becomes that and if we're not really paying attention you know it's all it's all one filter you know we i i i know i present to you. I want you to see you know we do. And then we modify it and we make it pretty and sometimes strolling as the demise of it all because you see everyone living these wonderful lives and doing these wonderful things and your friends are all buying houses celebrating life going on all these trips. Check making another check on their passport. You know what. I'm saying like at home working and grinding and you haven't done any of that and that can be that can be not so good feeling you got to be a strong person though and know that at least i know in time everything has its place with me. I've learned but have also learned that if i don't make changes within myself that those blessings don't start to come you block your blessings. I know i blocked minds many of years. And i gotta do a lot of work on myself. Still my best friend told me you're not surviving anymore. You're now living. And i see that any of this year and for the first time i actually agree with enough for the first time but i actually agree with that statement. And it's been my mantra is to live like i'm living not live like i'm just surviving. I'm not just surviving. I am okay. But i also can't book a trip to mexico right now if i wanted to. Do you know what i'm saying. It's that type of thing. And i hate that. We should all be able to have that. I mean i'm going to be honest in this cobra world. Stay the fuck home. But do you understand what i'm trying to tell you. Got addicted again to social media and sometimes we just need to learn. When the put that fucking phone mound. Put the fucking phone down. And obviously i implore you to keep your phone on while you're listening to this however you listen to it because that's how we communicate right but when you're not listening to this and you're done paying your bills and you're done spending time with your beloved put your fucking phone down. See i'm a loner at heart. I'm by myself here all day. He's at work or whatever my family's busy the point is is that there's so many things that go on around this that have beauty and intent and knowledge and being aware is so important yesterday for example. I'll share with you. I went down to the. I live by by the connecticut. River actually live. I guess you can say on the connecticut river but not really. Because i'm i can just literally step out the back door downstairs and walked down the hill. I'm right up the riverbank in any case it was beautiful. There's trees and leaves everywhere and it was gray and there was hints of blue with pink. Sky you understand what i'm telling you. There was colors that meshed but they was so subtle and soul. Beautiful demanded your attention it. It commanded to be recognized and it also commanded for you to be still with yourself. And i did that for a little wire today. I climbed up on this tree. That's fallen down but it's still high up in the sense because it's angled probably about sixty degrees but it's leaning on another tree but i climbed on it's a fix tree. I'm a boy. We like to climb and still be boys right. I love that about it though. I love that that i can still do that. And i still get the excitement. I got when i was ten. It's fabulous. i never wanna lose that. But i sat there and i just i took several pictures and the napa. My fucking fall now smoked my blunt and i thought and i looked and i smelled breathed i at peace and it was beautiful. I have a right there in my backyard. Okay it's not really my backyard but so it's there and it's accessible and it's part of the self care it's part of finding things that make you smile doing things that kinda give you some peace in a moment. Even if it's just for fucking twenty minutes give yourself that fucking time. You deserve it mother fucker. Hello one life one body one mind. I can't tell you what's due spiritually religiously. I don't even like that word religion. That's your choice. But if i can offer a little bit of this for self care take time. Go to your favorite place. Take a thirty minute drive. You have to get to that place. Go spend some time there. Think look around. Bring your pen and paper. Write something down reflect. I asked myself a lot of tough questions sitting on that tree. Where where are you at now. Carlos and i honestly the only answer was i don't know right now because i feel like my spirit is a little broken. No i feel like my spirit is broken. No my spirit's not broken. Let me rephrase that. Let me think for once. My spirit's not broken. Because i'm obviously i'm strong enough to be able to do this and my resiliency has definitely been My biggest asset this past two weeks. My faith has been tested. But that's not god's fault changes have been happening and also receiving other things that have just been a challenging so out of all of these months in this whole twenty twenty year. I felt like i was like i was in control and i had it and here we go. I'm in december fifth. And i don't feel like i have it now and that's okay because i didn't i didn't lose anything that's gonna kill me doesn't kill. You makes you stronger but it really has. It feels like someone put the brakes and said hey buddy before this year's over do a self check in and hey by the way these things are going to happen and you need to deal with them and you need to be a man you need to be fucking and put on your man pants and deal. And how are you gonna deal and so when we come back. I'm going to tell you how. I've been dealing. I hope this is making sense teen. I hope you can identify god. Bless you if you can if you've tapped out. I'm sorry maybe this episodes not for you but you're still here come back to the lounge peace and love my babies you looking back to the now. It's meet carlos elite those kalita scholastica hinted at the story. Kenya equally. Mahinda puerto rico. Long john material. I see you. I see a lot of people. Before i get into this next section. I see a lot of you from bangladesh bangladesh and india. I also see columbia. I see france and the united kingdom. I also see canada. Who are you. And.
"rose" Discussed on Los' Lounge
"And some cheerleaders to you. Know ma'am let's be honest and let's let's let's get down this look. I'm in a weird space right now. Personally i just feel like for me. Where do i start with this. It's interesting because this year has been so tough for everybody. I know everybody's combatting a different story. And i know everybody is affected by two thousand twenty and some which way shape or another yes and so i wrote this year out feeling pretty optimistic and feeling untouchable and feeling really good. Because i was putting in the work to myself. I was putting in the work into my responsibilities. And i i was in a really good space. I still don't get me wrong. Let's look at the big picture. I feel like i'm doing great overall but i don't feel like i'm where media was even a month ago in terms of sense of self but we'll get into that part now so with that said this year has been ebbs and flows of testing who i am and things that's who i am a lost four people at the beginning of the year. And i'm gonna finish saying. Let me before i even get into that story. Don't cry firming. Argentina by the end of this episode is not about that. Excuse me it's not about that. But i'm i'm being transparent with you know what i mean. I'm blessed. I have great parents. I've met i know my blessings don't cry from argentina but let's talk so i lost four people before covert even was a thing and that was between mid january and february and the february and it was devastating to lose four people that you love so much three of them. You see all the time every day. Monday to friday and one of them being practically like your brother someone you love so much and then it became a thing of okay well and you know that broke me for about a couple of days when i still you know that i missed them so much. I miss my beloved so much. But i kept going. You know what i mean. I think of myself as a strong person. I think i am Sometimes stronger than other times. I think this episode of similar strength. But let's stay on track so the year kept going and then and then i fell in love you know. And then i met the man of my. That's according james. The the man that i know was meant to be. Do you know what i mean. And the love that. I've prayed for the love that my spirit needs my physicality on this planet needs the love that for once my parents will look over and be like my. Our son is okay. He's okay 'cause our son has him before. Anyone has me but to know that you know if anything happened. Our son is okay And then i fell in love and then overcame came and then staying indoors became a thing and social distancing and staying home and the effects of that i think god i you know i think god he was here for all that and even still. Now you know. It's just like i think because i don't know about could've done all that maybe a curve. You don't have a choice right. But i couldn't see it now a different way without my love not being there that whole time. He's a great human being a great father and a wonderful son. He so there's that right and then there was this whole racial climate and protesting and brianna taylor. George floyd out. The list goes on for so many years but this was the year we we started to take our power back and you know the election and making our voices heard and really ignited a freedom fighter meat. But i have to say by the time i was done with all those protests. By the time we were you know was several months pass. I was beat. I was mentally drained. That whole family in that battle became draining. And i felt like i had no place to complain because there's men and women that have been doing this for decades. They're not tired. They're still fighting. Look john lewis. Look at all of my wonderful. Plus trans leaders look at all of our wonderful black leaders. Look at my parents. They're still fighting the fight. So it's just like i don't have a right to complain. Drain me out and being on social media for so march. And i mean i was off social media for seven months and then once my birthday came on me thirteen and then that was in the middle of the riots and the protesting. I was addicted again. I became addicted again and social media. Drains your mental. And if you're not if you don't have the tools to handle self mental. Social media can break. Does that make sense. So i got caught up in that mix you know instead of just letting my body just moved to the news i love this remix and that became draining. It's time consuming and it's someone said someone said on tv. I don't remember who it was but sometimes you don't have to fight the fight so doggedly you do at certain moments but the truth is there and sometimes you just have to let the truth. Play out so. I don't know like it just drained me. The summer passed and then the fall came. I started my new career path. And then i also started podcasting which became a blessing in the skies. And i don't know like. I guess up until last month in my mind i thought everything was going great and there's been a little struggles here and there's nothing to say that i haven't had my hurdles. Nothing is ever peachy keen you know. It's it's gotta be a little tormented so we can continue to learn and i feel like i got stagnant. I feel like i became stagnant. And where i was or where i thought i was or why thought i am and wasn't really receiving anymore or willing to receive more gems so that i can be introspective so that i can really reflect more and ask questions and really get into where am i right now and my happy is everything. Okay with me right now. Am i happy my love. Life is happy with my parents and my happy with career and my happy with what i'm doing home all day long other than working and just podcasting am i happy. Where am i. Where am i because i knew where i was at the beginning of the year. And maybe midway. But i really don't know where i'm at right now. I kind of have an idea but the scope is different now. So that's what i hope to. Or that's what i'm trying to convey in this particular episode is that is important. You know i can sit here and podcast. Every day about nostalgia. Eighties and grammy awards and madonna and invite my friends over via online and have interviews. But sometimes it's good to just check in for like i haven't done that here and just even being able to talk about it feels like therapy and when we come back to low ses. Now i'm going to answer that question. The where am i where are you who am i. And who the fuck are you man. Come on back but back to the lounge.
"rose" Discussed on Los' Lounge
"My name. Is carlos rios. Welcome back to low ses. Now i'm your host los. I want to throw a big shots of busta rhymes and q tip. This has been one of my favorite songs this year. It's called don't go. All rights reserved to the record company. But we've come back to low ses now. I'm so excited. Listen lows love of south and there are days where the ebbs and flows of. The love of oneself can really. Well just do that at in flow and so on today's episode i wanna talk about my ebbs and flows recently in Kind of really be honest with myself and just do a self check in. That's something that probably should be done privately. But i talk a lot about mental health. When i i live in my truth and i mean. I'm feeling really introspective. Right now so. I'm hoping that maybe ten of you will connect and think about where you're at and so that's the goal right. There's a whole world but if you just touch person and you can make a difference. That's exciting and not maybe not exciting. But that's important. I'll say that. So it's all about the self check in today. And i would love to hear your feedback on the podcast and just in general. If you're a constant listener please let me know how. how am i doing. what are you like. what don't you like. what are your favorite episodes. Reach out to me. I am dying to hear feedback. Please also don't forget to review and you know. Leave some love out in the reviews for me. But give me your feedback. I primarily use instagram. And you can find me at los lounge underscore podcast reach out to me there or my personal instagram. Which is carlos and remember. My name does start with a k. Carlos under in two thousand twenty. Actually i don't even know if that's the right one Just so many things in my mind but just reach out to me. Leave me a message. You can even leave a message here on the app on the anchor app. Or what have you. I want to thank everybody. Listening on pod. Being bullhorn podcasts attic. Maybe you're dialing and you're listening over the phone. Maybe you have apple or spotify or google. Podcasts maybe you have overcast. Were cast or whatever format you're listening to thank. You appreciate your time. And i promise. I'll be as honest. And i'll make it worth your while as as i've always done darling anyways come on back to the knowledge and let's talk short mind trigger-happy.
"rose" Discussed on Sex and the Sarrah Rose Story
"Happen. This much would do you. Do you have any other kinds of orgasms that you want to cover today I well I'd see lake fantasy while. Masturbation is one other area that we could talk about so often when guys are trying to move away from an watching porn. If they're noticing that I'm they're experiencing some difficulty sexually because of watching porn than I will suggest first of all like you don't have to totally stop watching porn but if you can at least watch porn less than half of the time that you're having swim sort of sexual activity either with somebody or Solo. That's a good place to start. And if you're having a hard time getting turned on Without watching porn then use fantasy is like a bridge to help with the transition in eventually. You'll want to move out of fantasy to like not needing to use fantasy either. So that's kind of the progression of it and but fantasy can help. The fantasies still often takes us out of our body. And many people use it as avoidance and it really is a pretty. It's very much disconnects. Us from was actually happening inside of our body. And we're just like in our heads. So that's the difference between like using fantasy as you know something that takes you out of yourself versus with the sex magic. You're using the visualization. But you're really feeling it as a full on experience in your body in a very conscious way like you're really using it very intentionally instead of with fantasy porn which is often like okay. I'm just GONNA escape out of this moment. You know and get off quickly and so looking at it from that perspective and in a really do not encourage fantasy when you're having sex with a woman because she'll be able to feel that you're not connected to her. She'll be feel that disconnect you know and talk about like lack of trust and lack of being unable to surrender the chill able to tell and she's not going to be able to surrender to you in there won't be the intimacy and connection that good sex is made out of. Yeah I can say Sarah I actually one time stock having sex with someone in the middle like we weren't having sex and I could feel him fantasizing and like not being present with me and I brought him back a couple of times and then actually stopped having sex with him and stopped seeing him because he he didn't he wasn't able to be present in the state president with me. Yeah I mean. It's it's good that you did that because it's like especially if you've had the conversations about it and nothing's changing and I mean it definitely takes time. I will say a lot of guys have very very deep imprinting when it comes to to this and so it's not like maybe it's not easy but if you're not even seeing any effort towards change then it's like what the hell are you going to stick around. I actually did something similar. I was having sex with a guy and he was completely disconnected and I was just like hey I gotta get back to work. I literally hopped off the bed and went back to work. It was like I don't have time for this. Yeah it's like the another just WanNa like on Lake Mike. Value like where? I WANNA invest my time like I would rather masturbate with myself and really enjoy myself rather than trying to convince someone to like. Be Present with me like it's just it's just not worth it. One hundred percent. Yeah thank you for sharing about fantasy and masturbation. I've wondered about that before. Like when is it appropriate? When is it not win is quick? How can porn be helpful like? When is it appropriate? When is it not well and I will say I've also used in fantasy like if I'm really wanting to experience something specific and there's like something like I want to experience having sex with like a deity lake. She is like one of the the main gods and the tantric tradition. And like. I WANNA like. I've done that before is like I want to have sex with Sheba and like really fucking experience that and it's just like incredible and powerful you know so but it's not something that I do often and it's like really specific type of thing that I'm wanting to achieve and accomplish so there's a lot of consciousness around it. It's announced to me. Cerro's like you know. We're talking about like habitual a habitual masturbation and how it sounds like. That's the thing like if it's like the go-to thing that were always doing and we're not really present with what's happening is just kind of like automatic whether it be porn or whether it be a vibrator or whatever is that like if we're disassociating from the moment that that's actually the problem. Ya never really is and and the things that bring us into the present moment our our breath and making sound the movement of our body. What it what our focus and attention are on like those are things that bring us into the present moment uniform beautiful. I think with that. I think it's time for some ask. Professor Nice Not. We did have some really great questions. Come in this week on the topic of masturbation and let's start with Ken Sto Sarah. Ken says that he knows that his wife Masturbate and it makes him feel like he's not really satisfying her in bed. Do you have any thoughts about this? Yeah absolutely so. There's a couple of things here I'm so most of the time men are not satisfying their The women that there with in bed. So there's a very good chance that that is part of what is happening. So you know you're probably not wrong there because if you were fully satisfying her than you wouldn't have that nagging. Come up like you would know. You really feel confident that you're satisfying her and you know. Her masturbating is her own times. Jewish wants and. It really doesn't have anything to do with you. It's nothing against you so I actually Really encourage women to masturbate when they're in relationship and men too because having your own time training your own body is really an important part of practicing self love having sovereignty and that's GonNa make you healthier and stronger and more empowered and in your own life and it's going to contribute to the relationship and a positive way so just you know be aware that actually masturbating relationship can be a really good thing for people to do so. I think it's twofold like you know if ken is having these nagging sensations that he's not satisfying heard than you do. It's necessary to To get the training that you need so that you're not questioning yourself anymore. Because the socks like really does suck having that Just like the confidence levels. You know not being where you want them to be excellent. Excellent thank you Sarah. We've got one more the so Jonathan sent us an email and he said that his girlfriend has never masturbated and so she really doesn't know what feels good to her and he's just not really sure what to do US funny. We've got like two x two opposites like one woman masturbating and he feels bad and the other woman isn't masturbating. And so it's not like we're damned if we do damned if we do is just the reality of Sexuality. There's so much judgment Around our sexuality so much criticism and like This is a good example of of that. Jonathan I mean there are a lot of women that really do have a feel uncomfortable masturbating because of religious ISCI. It'll things I am in. So maybe she doesn't know her own body. She doesn't know what feels good to her like she has an unlocked her own pleasure and that is You know and so if she's she hasn't done herself and she's not going to be able to guide you so it does make it even more of your responsibility to To show to bring her pleasure. You know if you're not wanting that responsibility then you know it's it's totally okay to have conversations and encouraged her to explore her body and just but you don't even need to courage to explore body but maybe start with asking her you know why it is about masturbation that makes her uncomfortable and and maybe there are ways that you can can do this together like she can touch herself and With you there and show you what feels good in that way? And you know if it's just really isn't something that she's she's open to at all Indefinitely leveling up your game even more so that way. You're the one that is you navigating thou for her and you can absolutely one hundred percent do that. I think that is a great Sarah rose and I imagine also the more that he's upping his game the more trust that she's going to have in him and the more she'll be able to really relax an open up young definitely beautiful beautiful will then. Let's get started. I think we have time to pick a card from our favorite game us. So I'm going to spread out the cards and run my hands over them until I feel which one feels like. We WanNA play with. Ooh Ooh we got a blue one today. Begun a blue one. This says when I talk about sex with my lover we talk about Blake So let's talk about. I want to think about like may most recent interaction here so the guy was talking about the sex coach Even though he's not optional. I love her the moment we have actually had sex lake. We're having sexy talk and leg last night. He was messaging me about like what exactly I want. And ours like I want to feel connection Or one of fuel intimacy with someone other than myself. Because it's been a fucking I wouldn't feel intimacy with someone other than myself. I was like I want to smell a man. I want to taste the salt on your skin. After being sweaty from sex. I want to say it was like I wanna be taken places that I don't take myself I and I can't remember what else they said but it was just like along. Those lines of like dot is really what I'm craving right now and that's my story and I'm sticking to it. Hey it's Saragan. Thanks for listening. Make sure you check out the links and the show notes for everything we discussed in this episode and you can also find out about how you can work with me until next time lovers..
"rose" Discussed on Sex and the Sarrah Rose Story
"Therefore you think's enjoy the show and I'm excited to have with me again today. My amazing friend that you all love Aaron Hitchcock so Aaron has been joining the for a Lotta these shows lately. Andy Waller so excited every time. She's on she's the founder of gains vanity and creator of cards for connection. We always play her intimacy. Dak here on the show and it's all about sex. Welcome Aaron. What your story today own. Hey Sarah rose. I'm so happy to be here. I do have some stories for you catching up on last time we were talking so two big things one is digital. Dating is possible. I spent this weekend I went on a few dates. That were on zoom and it was with people who were here in the same town with me and I just had a really really fun time. I got dressed up like I was going out on a date but I got to go on dates with like ten different men just as easy as sitting in front of my computer on. So that was really. Oh how did that work through zoom? Are you like all on a like in a meeting or in a conference room together and then you just like switch from person to person? Or how does that work? Yeah it's yeah it's Zoom syncing. Everyone's altogether everyone's names like man one man to woman one woman to so when people come in and then there there were two people who were hosting and so they would move us into breakout rooms with one partner at a time and then give us some kind of like like sample. Crops are things to help us have conversation with each other listening. I didn't know the zoom even had breakout rooms. Oh girl.
"rose" Discussed on Sex and the Sarrah Rose Story
"That was definitely a very profound experience Of Orientation in this way was I was with a guy super super sexy guy that I had a lot of fun with From Switzerland and we ended up like travelling in it was just really a fun magical experience with him. But when we first had sex it was very powerful. He also practices a lot of contra as really developed as in himself and when he and I had sex I ended up having this or Gaza and that lasted about ten days and it was just like these Russia's up my spine continually over and over throughout the day and then the the sensation of full-body Orgasm on top of that would just kind of come on and sporadically. Like you would just out of the blue like fuel like having a full body orgasm and for him his experience with it. He said that he felt like he had lava inside of him. It was just like almost like this burning purifying lava that was like bubbling up inside of him constantly for him lasted days. As well I do know is pretty pretty amazing to have that experience and Our connection was so powerful that even though.
"rose" Discussed on Sex and the Sarrah Rose Story
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"rose" Discussed on Sex and the Sarrah Rose Story
"You can also send your ideas for topics of the show and UH generally good way to get in touch. Also don't forget. The instagram accounts tantric activation. And Sarah Rose Jitsu on inscribed Sarah Rose also on facebook so the covered Tho those different platforms in other words. It's easy to get in touch with you on fines to find Sarah Rose. They can find arose. So what was the inspiration for those Valentine's videos those those were very funny and sexy as well. Of course that you did you. Did you get to see the new one well? I saw the the brief. There's like he's too. You're okay you're looking at your device. He's to the left. You're on the right. And you're like not Abracadabra but it's like poof for what what was going on there okay. So that's not the whole video that was just like a like a promotional thing. Yeah so the whole video came out today but no I'm talking about what what what was what was what was going on there. That was just incredibly attractive. And funny I mean. We were just silly like master candidates. He's a comic genius and he does these videos all the time. So his whole thing is about he has his own former martial arts called AMERIDATA and he has experts in other martial arts. Come in to try and defeat him will. No one can ever defeat. Master kin an Ameridata. There's just no way to defeat it. So last year I went on the show in Taunt Tra was the first and only thing that could ever come close to and did defeat Ameridata so he His followers loved. He had finally met his match. So we went. I went back this time. But YOU'RE GONNA have to watch. It happens to see if he has a comeback or not that attractive DOT COM. It's actually on instagram. Not on the website. You can go to tantric activation The instant machine machine Yup and now as a gentleman is not time for another rendition of cards for humanity coach. Sarah's friend Aaron Hitchcock's Let's talk about sex cards and cards against humanity except it's for humanity and the cards are colored different according to different shock. Ras and So today's is read. What does the Red Chakra? So that is the root Chakra as is the either the Amos pair neom cervix that part of the body as place. A safety is like the primal sexuality comes from there it's very grounded earthy feeling sensations. Yeah which is ties nicely into this question here com. Something I don't like about sex is blank. Something I don't like about.
"rose" Discussed on Sex and the Sarrah Rose Story
"You today so today. My story is the sex sexual shadow. Say That Ten Times Fast Sexual Shadow. Sexual shadow sex or sexual shadows. Ooh I like what he's saying faster faster about. That's not the first time you've said that the dominate came out of me actual shadows actual sexual shadow. Well we'll get into the sexual shadow and but first happy to report to your fans across the planet that your voices sounding much better what we could go back to us some throat coat. A didn't I went to the grocery store and we have a really great one here in Austin that I love that sky like really amazing selection and I looked at every single key there and there was no throat coach. I got a different throat one though and then I got home and I've been busy and I haven't made any of your training been training. Oh juicy training on your diet you really been trying to seemingly be disciplined. Yes so This meal plan that I'm on. I just don't like it. It's funny my house. May I gave him one of my my things my meals and were both literally sitting there at the table trying to eat this shit looking at each other so miserable so I definitely have to cancel it because I am not one to Have a miserable existence in my life. I like to enjoy life way too much and I mean I'm a vegetarian. Vegan Diet. Eat healthy like I you know. I'm used to eating a lot of vegetables and I just don't know what in the world's a due to these meals to make them taste so bad it's horrible. They take these fresh amazing vegetables and it. Just tastes awful. So I'm not happy with that. Are they fresh when they're delivered Yeah yeah it's a great company leg highly regarded company You know everything's super fresh super foods high-quality ingredients but just the they prepare it. It tastes horrible and they send me a review each week and I've I think I think this might be my third week of it and this week. I was like this shit. Just nasty old so It's three meals a day. The breakfast I can deal with those practices. Okay some days. I just eat like three of the breakfast meals on the same day because they can't deal with the The gender stuff is in me. What would when you have a cheap meal or a cheat snack? What your go to Tacos always tacos CASO tacos without any meat. Yeah I just do vegetable tacos. That that's as bad as it gets for. Sarah rose as bad as the case so I love Caso in Austin all. We eat are tacos leg literally. It's so funny on the dating sites when I all scroll through them and almost everybody has something on their dating site about fucking Tacos. It's like that's all we care about here. Are the Tacos in everywhere you go. They have talkers. There's breakfast tacos. Lunch talk is dinner tacos. Desert Tacos Tacos Tacos tacos will. Everybody likes fucking tacos. Everybody.
"rose" Discussed on Sex and the Sarrah Rose Story
"It's the Sarah Rose Story. I'm Glen Klein. Sarah what your story. Today my story is primal sex glen. How're you doing? I think I'm going to be doing even better than I am. Right now momentarily. I think we all will be nothing. There's really not much better than primal sex. I mean if you're GONNA have sex. Why not just do it do it right in my opinion. That's why we listened because we want to hear your opinion. Why opinion on a right way to have sex? Sarah Rose Gospel both affective way the topic activation way right so starting out. I I I just say like I really am not about like. This is the best way to fucking do anything. It's like do whatever you want so totally joking coming in from the perspective but yes so primal sex it's still primal sexuality tied to our sexual wholeness and so when we have sexual wholeness. It means that we are able to embrace. All parts of our sexuality were able to perch all aspects of us are able to participate in our sexuality is real really is sexual homeless. Were all parts of us are available to our sexual expression in any way that we want to express ourselves so when there are parts of us that we have shut down parts of us that we have You know just buried deep that we don't accept parts of ourselves that we judge that we wish weren't there then and we don't express that then it becomes part of us that isn't expressed in sex and we're not able to have the full the full picture of sexuality the full just like Lushness of showing up as a whole complete person. I'm a big part of that. Typically gets shut down in current society. Is this sexuality our primal nature and it's primal nature is more than just sex. But it's you know as we've seen before all parts of us are connected so sexuality is connected to all different parts of us And it's really something that we've seen happen heavily against women But now it's starting to happen with men as well so we'll talk about. We'll talk about this and so- primal nature is like it's the part of that is connected to the reptilian part of the brain the primal part of the brain and it's the part of the brain that recognizes symbols are types. It's ritual It sees things in colour in shades of dark or light. But it doesn't it's not something that registers thoughts or emotions or words things like that so when we're talking about the primal brain. It's like entering into to tap into that part of us. It's very sensation. Faced and clinging to the architects and the primal archetype is often like a witch archive or Shaman. It's something that was like the wild woman Cawley from the Hindu tradition. These are traditionally. What we've seen as archives and archives can really be Something that can come from any tradition. There are many of them available to us and when working with the primal brain. It's important to us. What registers really resonates with you. That you feel lit up about but will be seen is particularly in women. These are types. The ones that I've just named have been Female types and it's been heavily shamed. We've been taught that these are all dangerous in so women have shut down this part of themselves in order to be accepted to in order to be safe in society whereas in the mail are types of the wild man. We've seen a lot more or fixation of this right. So like for men to be the fighter for men to be strong and powerful For men to a to be like in the action figures or the comic book series. You know you've got these are types of the wild man that's been glorified But society shifting and now men are starting to feel a lot more shame for having out part of themself really alive and vibrant as well. So it's impacting US socially in all parts of their lives and it really impacts sexually. What other parts of the brain or sexual lives? Would you be able to find like you've justifying primal sex while other aspects are there so if you're talking about like I mean in sexuality you can really tap into your emotions right like you can fully express I've had sex. It just moves need tears us. Sex words like amazing. I just WANNA laugh from the bliss of it. Sex can be very emotional. You can definitely go into sex of the very heady experience you know really thinking most people do go into sex like thinking way too much as so a lot of what I do actually helps people tap into the primal brain to get beneath the thought the thought process so they can be into the sensational experience of what's happening. Why is primal sex so pivotal because as worthy sensations are right like I mean if you're wiry having sex in people have sex for a lot of different reasons? Why do I have sex because I want to feel deeply in a with another person in a way that I'm not in a in a way that I don't feel being on my own right and so it's it's like it's what are the sensations happening in my body like what is the connection that's occurring and like that is the deeper layers so if I'm having sex and I'm just thinking like I don't know does this. Do I not like this. I don't know. Does he smell bad. You look good. You know all the different dots. The experience of it is a lot more shallow than if I'm just like in it. If I'm in my body if I'm experiencing all the richness that's occurring all the differences stations in. My body was during sex can be a lot. Unfortunately for a lot of people they they may not have a lot of sensations because of trauma a judge or just being very shutdown but the sensation that are available insects When you're sensations are fully on board are amazing. And that's you know that's why prime like really getting into primal sexuality Helps people fully fully go into more parts of themselves than than they've probably probably limited themselves in the past experiencing how much of the shaming of the feminine archetype has been negatively impacting women's sexuality monopoly feel sacks very easily? Historically certainly and women are into what's happening what do I look like you know what? What is my makeup bond right before I go have make love those type of things? But how much has that been? An impact or is that mortgages biological imperative as well. Whoa yeah it definitely in swimming. I mean for women. It's even been more than just how they look. It's like can I survive in this society. That tells me it is not K to be the wild woman right so if a woman has a lot of fear in her because she's been taught that it's not safe that she has to choose between really fully experiencing sexuality or being accepted by society. Then she's going to shut down. That part of herself in sex is going to be painful as a lot of women have very like they just feel tons of pain I I read through. I get like read it notifications all the time from like the different sects threads on reddit in so many of them are around sexual pain that people are having and it's just it's unfortunate that we've come to the split I'm hoping because now we've gone through like the sexual revolution of you know doesn't matter who you have sex with or doesn't matter You know would you your sexual orientation or having sex outside of marriage like a lot about stuff that used to be super. Stigmatized isn't really doesn't have that stigma anymore. It's still there but not nearly the way it was but now it's more of like how focusing on how sex feels internally because now we can have sex whenever we want with whoever we want but now the focus is more about. How can we actually feel really good? Having sex and primal sexuality is a big part of this next portion of the sexual revolution. That is beginning to happen style. Ladies and gentlemen. It's time for story. Time with Sarah. How did you how did how did you learn about this? How did you learn about Primal Saxon? How did you go from being a woman who was shame sexually who was shut down to be somebody not only who embraces primal sacks? But also coaches on it. Yes so I mean as part of my training that I went through she become certified to teach all of this I went through these processes myself. I'm but even prior to that. I was in a laundry relationship by with a lover. We both Were practising tantric sex in in the same lineage of Contra in that sexual relationship healed me so much sexually like I was really finally able to open up in. He'll in ways that I hadn't before so Torture is very very powerful when it comes to oath not opening up these parts of the brain and also really facilitating healing in the body. What if somebody doesn't have a tantric lover? How do they feel? How do they get into their primal sexual brand? Yeah you can generally do these practices on your own. I mean so much of my talk tra- that I have done personally has been aren't my l. So like I said it. Had you know lover? We were together for two years but aside from that like a ton of the tonsure that I have done has been on my own. So it's definitely not something you have to have a partner for. It's amazing when you do have a partner too beautiful to share these experiences with someone they love. But it's not a prerequisite you can fully experience the love and the bliss and the healing and the awakening. Doing this practices with yourself. How dangerous is it to have a enlightenment involved with somebody like you did not find your identity or think? Somehow you are reliant on the other person in order to continue progressing this area yes definitely something that comes up. I and that's part of why when I do coaching Well I I like coaching couples. Also but in the single coaching. I'm able to help people realize that they are not relying on somebody else in this. Is I think more women men have all of this as well but for women they can really get reliant on a man for their pleasure especially if they haven't been in the practice of masturbating in so it's like. I love teaching women that have never masturbated before like how to really experience the self love but then for guys even when they have clearly been masturbating a long time to help them shift the framework of the masturbation tantric masturbation and having the self love a component of it. Really come into the practices as they do on their own. What is the key to tapping in to your primal sexual rent. So it is very much since sation based so feeling focusing noticing allowing this insatiable in the body to continue to expand and that's a big part of it But then also like using images using colors visions of gods and goddesses or animals and things to create ritual also like ritual is actually a fun part of tonsure excess In so you can like I love like using visualizations of Gods and goddesses in my practice has to really help me to go into the the deeper parts of myself and I do fine that it makes the experience bigger. You know it's like this station's of sex gets stronger and they grow. And so you know that's but it's always again coming back into the sensations in the body in that is really what is key to this. Why are men now finding the same type of challenges or Shaming? That women have discovered throughout history. So the exact why. I don't know where this is being sourced from exactly. But it's definitely something is propagated in the media. You know as far as like and I'm not saying it in order to be a man you have to look in way because you can be a man and look a billion for ways but for the guys that really want to embody that each about strong masculine that typical archetype of a man that we've seen before those guys are finding that that's not acceptable anymore. And so like I said. I don't know exactly where it's coming from but it's something that is definitely out there. Think one of the reasons is that there is a balancing out between the over domineering. Nature of the masculine in society and the famine is starting to swing To a more balanced place and of course that's going to take a little getting used to for guys who have been used to something for. I don't know like you know millions of years. I I mean it's I think it's a natural pendulum. Swing that's happening and guys that are dealing with it right now are having a hard time with the making that adjustment. One thing for a balance balancing to happen but it's another to shame guys for her having that and yes. There are definitely the men out there. That are the overly domineering guys. I mean. There's so much talk sick. Masculinity out there. I'm not saying that doesn't happen at all. But there's also clearly the toxic feminine as well and so what it's you know shaming guys for really being in their primal power is different than shaming women for being in their private power..
"rose" Discussed on Sex and the Sarrah Rose Story
"It's the Ciro Rose Story. I'm Glen Klein. Sarah what your story. Hey Glenn good to see you today. How it going. I have no complaints professor. But thank you for carrying up to ask how are you? I'm doing great starting out the New Year and yeah what's this story today. It's a it's an unfortunate story but it's also a story that has a lot of hope On the other side of it so sexual trauma is going to be the story that we go into today not necessarily the most fun when you just you know I look at it from the start But once she gets you the other side then that's where life is really good so really learning about sexual trauma how to move through it if you have. It Hewlett all of that In knowing that there is hope that's actually a good story to have out part of it. How do you get to the other side? And what do you mean by that? So sexual trauma will first off. Let's was looking at some statistics. One in two women have been sexually abused Statistics for men are more around one in five. We think it's higher than that and then just report less So you know in this is like sexual abuse Molestation rape things like that. That are being reported so this is clearly sexual abuses happening The sexual trauma can be that but it can also be much more right. So trauma is actually very dependent on a person's each individual's perception of what has happened to them. So you can have. Two people have Very similar or same experience happened but to they're each going to react to it. Experience it in a very unique in an individual way in trauma actually occurs win your brain perceives death Or had the experience of death in so I'm for one person. The experience may give them trauma whereas the other one doesn't just because they perceive it in a different way so living in a society like we live in that's a sex negative Koelsch. Sure I'm many people actually perceive that it's very much can be very traumatic to their bodies. Their bodies experience it as having to turn against themselves like our body has to deny itself deny part of itself part of itself has to die in so that experience of death inside the body is is traumatic in so we carry the trauma with civil. We'RE TALKING ABOUT SEXUAL TRAUMA. It's much more then Very specific sexual sexual abuse cases that we may originally think of sexual trauma is something that most people carry to one degree or another and we see so many people walking around with Depression you know this in its will go into. Were more about this. But there's like different states that trauma get stuck in the body. So yeah it's a really big topic But it's a really important one to dive into a and something that I do. A lot of work with clients around in the man on fire coaching program that I have. Because it's really like if we can't unfreeze we can't get through these powders that are stored frozen in our bodies in the hard to reach the other side of the sexual desires sexual thriving that these guys come to me that they're really wanting to live in. So yeah it's a big topic. What are the parameters of sexual trauma? Where do you mean by parameters well? Let's start at? Perhaps the Roman catholic sex scandals were the priests were molesting and Raping Boys Young Boys. I would say that's kind of like on the far end when a woman gets raped etcetera just flat out violent rape molestation abuse that sexual nature if you will. I. I don't particularly think sexual but you know what I mean. And on the other side of the parameter is cat calling or sexual shaming how wide is the parameters around sexual travel right and that's where it becomes a very individual for one woman. She may walk down the street in some guy's cat calling her in she could get turned on by as she may enjoy the objectification and may be you know something for her. That is no issue at all. Another woman may walk by and she may be annoyed these guys. You may even be disgusted by them. But she's not going to register as trauma Another woman could walk by the same guys in the same thing. In for whatever reason her experience of it is very traumatic. She freezes up inside. She feels threatened And she can experience it as trauma. So that's where this becomes very individual and we can't say like you know this is traumatic for every person in this is not which is more traumatic the actual act or the response by either the perpetrator or the loved ones and support network. The victim goes to after the fact. Well it's going to depend too but I think it can all be very traumatic. I mean definitely you're supposed support network Can definitely make things worse after the fact But I don't think that I mean I don't know possibly it could be like if some woman had an experience that she would. They be uncomfortable with but she didn't find it necessarily traumatic but she told you know her her mother about it in the mother overreacted. You made it into very traumatic experience than the woman had the experience could Go back into that memory and relive it in a traumatic way in that. She could traumatize herself. So that is possible absolutely like we can go back into a story of something that happened and we can retraumatize. And that's why win working with clients very clear with them very careful that they not retraumatize themselves because it is actually possible Our minds are very powerful. In that way I was molested when I was nine years old at summer camp by Maya cabin cancer and I came home. I was nine years old. I came home and I was bruised from all the hickeys sky. Giving me and I told my parents what had happened. And they didn't do a damn thing about it. They didn't call the summer camp. They literally blew it off and I've often thought I'm over it now for sure I mean I can Kinda even joke about it in a way and surely open about it but it was a summer camp that I went to my entire youth and then I ended up buying the place I never left the camp and then when I was about I would say twenty five or twenty s. The Guy who molested me came back and visited the camp with his wife and his two daughters. And guess what he did for a living he was a priest. He was an episcopal priest and I was steeped in heavy religion at the time myself and I knew I was supposed to forgive him which I did and I certainly have at this point but I didn't say God damn word to him about it but I know without a doubt the process of me getting over it was more traumatic for me the way my parents especially my father for some reason did not come to my assistance than the actual molestation itself. Yeah and that's the opposite of what I was talking about so I'm talking about making worse than you know going one direction. You're talking about making it worse in The Opposite Direction. Absolutely like you. I'm sure you felt just completely abandoned in that situation totally and I didn't know it was years ago because on we've already established. I'm an old fucker and I'm an old fucker but But in those days you everything was swept under the rug because there was something wrong with you if something like that happened now since the metoo movement and all that I mean it's I mean thank God but it's the exact opposite but literally. It was never discussed. It was never talked about with the camp director. I went back to the summer camp. Unfortunately the guy wasn't there but he like I said he came back and visited. Once I had bought the camp. That was weird. What kind of traumatic experiences have you either personally or have been very aware personally while I mean also I was raised very religious in for me? a big part of my trauma came just from the shutdown that had a sexual shutdown turning against my own body. And I really didn't even realize how that was traumatic until I started doing this training Being trained to do this work with others and through that process was really able to He'll so much of what I had. I end it's you know like just being. I remember being a little girl and being sexual like being four years old and being attracted to the other little boys and I even emmy especially in middle school like being super boy crazy I was like I like that one. I like. I like that one. You know and like just very quickly realizing that was not acceptable I was a pastor's daughter and you know like I was not allowed to date not allowed to have a boyfriend. I was not allowed to kiss nothing and so Like I just remember shutting. Not Part of myself down in order to be accepted in my community right in that is so primal for human beings to do whatever it takes to be accepted by the tribe because if we're not accepted by our tribe then that is death right like we can't survive without the tribe In in tribal societies and especially even today children have to do this like children have to do whatever it takes to keep their caregivers happy in order for them to survive and so I remember turning against myself abandoning myself In order for the survival to happen And it's what what happens. Typically when people do this and we see this huge in society is in. They become very judgmental against other people that express that part of themselves and I did that. I was very judgmental of other women that I saw expressing their sexuality. And it's kind of funny in a way of being on the other side of it now and seemingly self judged by women In like I get it you know I see sister like judge away because like I. I'm not offended like I love you. I'm have so much compassion for you because I've been there but but yeah. That was a big part of part for me And so I've been able to work with people. You know the full spectrum. I worked with individuals that have that type of trauma to women who have been raped or molested same with men. Men that have been molested In the whole spectrum of people and it's just the very very unfortunate reality of the society that we live in is that almost all of us have experienced this to one degree or another and I'm just grateful to know that there are ways for us to to move to the other side of it. I'm grateful for the METOO movement Forgive giving a voice to people to come forward with this information and I hate for us to like. Just stay in that place of anger. I as much as it's righteous anger like. Let's do the healing work now and let's move forward and that's really where my heart is with all of this. You mentioned the Metoo Movement one of the stories that came through when there was the rash of for lack of a better term exposures of what these guys had done by the way. Have you noticed that we don't hear about this anymore? I mean you. You can't tell me that it's now it's. It's all good and it stopped. That was like are rewind seeing bill cosby and Louis. Ck and that's it. I mean anyways that's an interesting little side note but I really respect and love Louis..
"rose" Discussed on Sex and the Sarrah Rose Story
"So addiction is something that occurs when it we have when it's biologically detrimental to slake something like imagine being addicted to heroin like your body has to create an addiction to heroin In order for you to continue doing it because her during heroin will kill you. So watching porn isn't going to kill you. You know your wife May kill you for watching porn Or something like that but it's really not an addiction that occurs drinking too much alcohol. That can kill you. So that's where addictions happen When I hear guys talk about being addicted to sex like you cannot be addicted to sex. Sex is something that we need for our species to continue. So why in the world would your you know craft decree in addiction to sex so porn addiction? Is You know really more of you've created this this dependency on it. And it's like you're not even dependency but you've created this like habituation this desire for it. You know you're going back to over and over. Maybe you feel like you can't stop but really you could stop watching porn right. It's not like with heroin or you're going to you know sleep on the streets if you can't watch porn or you're going to steal from your mother to watch porn right. It's a different type of situation that's happening. So first and foremost like take some control over your life and if you like watching porn just own that you like watching porn and don't blame it on an addiction So that's my stance on that There's porn is fun to watch. You know it's like if you like to watch porn just be like like to fucking watch porn. I really don't like how so many things these days are being trained on addictions. When you know it's like more of just own your life and I think it's a lot of people started owning their lives. Then we'd be in a much better place than we are now than in this victim hood that were like. Oh poor me. There's nothing I can do about it. I'm addicted to it Yes that's standpoint addiction. How much does guilt play into people? We were talking about heroin and alcohol but any kind of obsession specifically porn Well I mean having an obsession is one thing right like you can totally be obsessed with something I remember being obsessed with fucking beanie babies lows kid. There was a new baby. Like go the at the store to buy the fucking beanie baby right you could say like. I was addicted to beanie babies. But now I just really liked talking beanie babies you know. I mean the guilt is definitely a part of it like we have so much guilt around or sexuality that it's like our if I'm watching torn feel guilty about watching porn in. Its ease year to say that. This is an addiction than it is to say that. I like it because I feel guilty about saying that. I like to watch porn and it's really convenient for spouses. You know if they are with a guy and he watches porn. It can make her feel a lot better if she can say well. He has an addiction right. Because now it's a problem one. There's you know there's a term for it. There's a way to label this in. Everyone can just feel a little bit easier once something is labelled so you know if that is the way you want to go about it fine. That's great I really don't care like he's a makes you sleep better at night. If it makes your spouse sleep better at night thinking you have a porn addiction thing you know. Just just go forward but I don't recommend like paying people WANNA money. Sheila help you get over an addiction. That doesn't occur. Now if you WANNA create different outcomes for your life then I can definitely help you. They're like if you want to watch less porn and be more turned on by the sensations in your body men as a sex coach. I can absolutely help help with that. You know but a lot of guys come to me saying they have porn addiction and they wanna work on that in this like all right. Les Changes Put Porn Addiction. Here the door all right. Let's set down and tell what is it that you actually desire for your life or you desiring something different what is it. And we'll get to the root of what those desires actually are in work towards those in the porn. Just you know it takes a back seat. Whatever we focus on is going to grow. That's what's going to expand if you're focusing on. I have this porn addiction. I have this problem with porn than the story of porn is going to grow and grow and grow in your head in your relationships going to become the big thing and if we can just start focusing on something else than torn going to find its rightful place in your life which may be minimized may be put aside altogether whatever that looks like for you as an individual. I have a friend of mine who was gay and was trying for the first half of his life not to be a Christian minister and he was married with kids but he was gay and he tells a story that when he would be on the road he be drawn to a bookstore to the magazine section. And all he wanted to do was to look at guys fitness magazines and he would walk up and down the aisles under the temptation of looking at four. A man's body and invariably he would succumb to that feel awful about it and then once he accepted his true sexuality and realized there was no moral implication for being gay. He said he'd never even thinks about it anymore. And the concept is this. Is that if you make a law over it? You're and you're tempted within anyway. It's going to add power to the law. There is nothing wrong with pornography. It's art. It's images now. It's like any other art. Do you WANNA watch a violent horribly violent slasher movie. Some people are into that. I don't particularly think that's very uplifting but I'd have no problem if somebody's into scary movies or things like that same thing with porn as long as the people that are involved in. It are involved voluntarily and consensually. There's nothing morally wrong with it if you think that you're doing something wrong by watching. Porn Vaca. Byu feel like you're addicted. Because there's an added element of guilt to the attractiveness of what you're into so just know this that there's nothing wrong with viewing images of people having sex not in my opinion And it's also shown that the more access that people have to porn in the society the the less violent crime that there is and there there is a small percentage of men that have been studied. That if they watch violent porn than they It's more likely that they will act out on that but the mass majority of guys that have been studied that watch porn that even if they're watching the violent porn they have been shown that they don't actually act out on it. So would you wanna be aware of the men that that does impact and Those guys need to be seeing Sex Therapist sex coach. Something like that to help them through what you know the things that the underlying issues that are there with those guys but keeping in mind that is it's not the mass majority of men. I want to say something less than five percent of men that watch porn That were shown to have the potential to act on it and of course. No percentage of is okay. We don't want any man acting out But just to lump all men into this category of going to watch violent porn. And you're going to act out. Violently is just not shown to be true so once again porn shaming is sex shaming and there is the argument that It's just not natural for men to have access to porn twenty four seven like they do now and well. Hey what is natural if you actually ask Of illusionary biologists the term of what natural means They'll say that anything that is possible is natural or continually evolving as a species. We can't just say because it's not something that happened fifteen years ago but it happens now. It's not natural evolutionary biologists. They'll show you like we continue to evolve as a species. Things are changing all the time in so if it is possible it is natural in that is blows a lot of people's minds they can't handle is like well. It didn't happen fifty years ago so it's just not natural exactly just not the way. What else were it's. It's not natural to pick up the little square thing and to be able to push some decimals in some digits and then within a couple of hours or maybe even a half an hour have food at your door that that's never happened before up until like ten years ago. I mean it is now. It is natural natural part of our society and so you know it should be like the the boomer generation is Japan's like to say there is called the boomers that you know everything to be as it was like well. It's not and it's never going to go back in for only moving forward. Things are only changing. And so how is it? Impacting our no. That's a question that we can look at in having so much. Access to porn. Definitely is impacting the way our brains experienced sexuality and turn on so in the past experiencing sex was in the body it. Was You know something that happens? The turn on happens inside and now much of it is outward projection and so it definitely is changing. Many guys are recordings finding that. It's a lot more difficult for them to get turned on Being with a woman there reporting feel Having symptoms of erectile dysfunction That they associate with watching so much porn for so long. So is it affecting US absolutely but just to name it and you know. Put it in these Like these boxes isn't isn't true for one and it's not serving so let's look at what is actually happening and more guys than ever are definitely reporting erectile dysfunction In porn how something to do with that. I think it likely does But I think there's more to it as well I think what's going on in society with male shaming is having impact on guys there so many environmental toxins that were not hundred percent. Sure of how. They're impacting a sexually A. There's just like extra estrogen in the water and in the plastics. All of that is impacting guys album. How about the Double Bacon Cheeseburgers Eight? This month I mean exactly. There's like there's definitely is well so What is what is on its blood flow in your cock and so we have to have. The clear can pretty say that again. Sarah can you say that ago so you have to know knows what is a heard on? It was great what what is a hard on. You said it was it was. It was good porn porn moment for me. I'm sure I'm sure for other people. I don't think you're sorry. I'm sorry for misunderstanding. Harlan when there's a blood flow in.
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