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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on The Dark Side Of

The Dark Side Of

07:06 min | 8 months ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on The Dark Side Of

"Back in the nineteen sixties. There was a little expression to describe feeling absolutely smitten with a person you barely knew. Mooning over someone crushes give us a rush and we can find ourselves obsessively thinking about them. It's fun to wonder what someone is doing and imagining yourself there with them. But in recent decades technology has given us more and unfettered access which can make it hard to delineate where curiosity ends and downright stocking begins nebulous territory. Indeed though stalking can be brought on by anyone in pursuit of any gender historically women have been demographic most affected as of two thousand eleven. It's estimated that one out of every six women in the United States has been a victim of stocking stalking is clinically defined as explicitly engaging in a course of conduct directed at a specific person that causes significant emotional distress in such person and serves no legitimate purpose to boil that down. It's one person keeping a pulse on another person at nearly all times with the hope of inciting some reaction that allows for further contact or control. The game for stalkers is cat and mouse equal parts psychological and physical and to play the game. Moves or behaviors are required. Stocking is an umbrella term that encompasses a slew of aggressive actions including but not limited to a stalker repeatedly calling or texting their victim which can be followed by harassment on social media the aggressor may even take to slandering their victim online in order to provoke a response often when this type of indirect contact is ignored. The stocker may make physical attempts to meet their victim. Unwanted notes and gifts can be coupled with a stalker waiting outside of victims place of work or home if the victim avoids this contact. The pursuer typically escalates again this time. Violent actions like breaking into a victim's car or home or vandalizing property may occur stalkers. Want their prey to know that they were there. There's no escape. Finally stalkers often turn to staging emergencies or distressing situations like sudden injuries or sickness. They're hoping that the situation they've created seem so urgent that their victim fearing life or death consequences must respond responding. It's the result stalkers crave. They latch onto their victims in order to be seen and in order to elicit something in return. They gamble that. Their behavior will reopen the lines of communication by acting this way. Stalkers actually hold their victims in a paradox. They want their prey to be both passive and active on the one hand. Stockers objectify their subjects. They have to to suppress any feelings of empathy for their victims and thus pangs of conscience for their own behavior on the other hand though by attempting to elicit a reaction stockers admit that they're victims have the ultimate power in the game. The power to acknowledge this docker or ignore them. The obsession and pursuit though always remains one-sided despite what a stocker may try to convince their victim of according to. Emily spends deals. Stalking HANDBOOK FOR VICTIMS. Stalking originates in the mind of the perpetrator. Not In the behavior or appearance of a victim some stalkers try to muddy this fact in order to excuse their behavior they try to gaslight victims into thinking their own actions have. Egged on the pursuit that they deserved it in the minds of these stalkers. It's the only explanation that makes sense because above all stalkers believe their own needs and beliefs are the most important matter at hand. These people are their own echo chambers when the reverberation of their behavior bounces back. They explain it away with their self serving perspective. These kinds of thoughts don't have one clear origin. Some stalkers perceive that they have been rejected by another individual. This feeling then compels them to seek revenge. Other stockers claim. They're responding to a victim's entitlement while others perhaps most unsettling Lee of all believe their actions are the result of destiny. One particular type of this destiny delusion is ARADO mania which means a false belief that the stalker is actually in a committed consensual relationship with their victim this misconception can stem from deep-rooted narcissism some individuals are simply unable to comprehend that the person they desire doesn't feel the same about them. The nineteen eighty nine murder of actress. Rebecca Schaeffer was a textbook case of unrequited affection that turned deadly though today. Most states classified stocking as a felony or misdemeanor back in nineteen eighty nine. There was no law state or federal outlining clear. Repercussions for the collective behaviors of stocking. It wasn't as openly talked about and thus it wasn't condemned. People thought that maybe celebrities encountered too many excited fans. At least that's what grocery store tabloids said to sell rags but being followed didn't seem like anything other than Mystique yet. The tragic fate that awaited one actress changed everything in one thousand nine hundred eighty nine. Rebecca Schaeffer was enjoying her time in the limelight. She'd risen to fame on the. Cbs Sitcom my sister. Sanam Holding Court. As one of television's sweethearts and Schaffer had even bigger things on the horizon. She was in the running for an upcoming role in Francis. Ford Coppola's The godfather part three on July eighteenth. She was awaiting the delivery of the film's script when a dizzying slew of events unfolded on the doorstep of her. Hollywood home. Schaefer answered the door to find a young man ringing her doorbell. Nineteen Year Old Robert John Bardo and he was clutching an odd assortment of things amongst them was a headshot of shaffer and a paperback of J. D. Salinger's catcher in the Rye. Unfortunately the novel.

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on The Adam Buxton Podcast

The Adam Buxton Podcast

03:48 min | 1 year ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on The Adam Buxton Podcast

"Just a label. The meets a lifestyle you WANNA call it not see how I live. That's that's cool. I just call it rigorous thorough way of life of me but yes so there's all sorts of things which you just begging to be analyzed the most obvious theory Gary seems to be that silent Jerry's just trying to eat determined to preserve in everyone he sees some sort of concept of innocence so that the reason I wanted to have this conversation with you. Guys was the I read the book again recently having not read it since I was fifteen or something having kind of written it off. I was like oh it's it's not that great people go on about this but it's sort of a cliche of a great book. It's really yeah no now. I think my dad like I remember at the time when I was reading it saying Oh we're reading catcher in the Ri- and he's what do you think of that. I said a deputy get it and he's like rubbish so he didn't he wasn't into it and I thought okay that's fine. That doesn't like L.. Just ignore it and you know he didn't get the fact of a see that I just didn't understand it really and then a few months ago I read it aged nearly fifty father of three with teenage sons of my my eldest son is it's the same age of the Holden character I can see him beginning to struggle with a lot of the same sort of things and obviously it's a totally different book suddenly I I'm understanding all sorts of levels in new levels that have come with with being older and also I'm remembering with shame cringing at lots of the scenes because I can see that I was sort of trying to do a lot of the same things that holden was that having this slightly self pitying at two towards relationships in romance instead of thinking oh I'm nice it's a sort of thing of being sure that you know what's best for someone else and the best way to keep them innocent and to preserve what's nice about them to rail against anyone like trying to control people yeah it's way to form of control I suppose yeah and this isn't what to you but more related an extreme version of Holden caulfield and it's really interesting of St they're murderers that have really loved divinatory spoken to them Yeah Chapman who killed on and then the Reagan Hinckley and then one others one on and he was obsessed with a young actress rejected him and he sent her lots and lots of letters they found afterwards and then he followed onto a set in l._a.. And again and he he found out the Mark Chapman had the book and that's why why he took it. Oh yes Robert John. Bardo was carrying a copy of the book the night he murdered the actress Rebecca Schaeffer so much Rebecca Schaeffer and I'm trying to think what's one of their names. Elliott's is one of them at Rogers said you remember this killing and must murder so maybe two years ago and he recorded long youtube videos and basically he was saying. I'm such a nice guy. I am so handsome. I am so great. I've got this car and yet women continue to give this sex two other men he felt so entitled title but there's this very subtle thing that's in the catcher in the Ri- that obviously hardens in certain men and actually you see a lot in the worst part of the Internet whether the men who very angry with certain women and again it's that assumed rejection and all that had other rejections and why they continue got these horrible men why goals like bad guys and actually they don't really it's one of those myths that guys..

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Hollyweird Paranormal

Hollyweird Paranormal

14:14 min | 1 year ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Hollyweird Paranormal

"That time she was the covergirl for Seventeenth March nineteen eighty-seven issue and she went on to star in several more movies but one movie in particular the class struggle of Beverly Hills would soon son one of her biggest fans over or the edge to the point that he travels to Hollywood to not only meet her but to also kill her just as she was preparing for potentially life changing role in the godfather part three that the end knocked on her door to introduce himself his name is Robert Robert John Bardo and Bryce. You have a lottery seats on this Mojo yes I do. They're all in the glove box of my car just crammed in there. Let's contact your stocker to see in. Yes they have the you're so John. Robert Bordeaux is the interesting little booby <hes> and again I think he touched on it so well that like these instances. Don't just happen out of nowhere. There's history behind them. There's obsession that's propelling them through and he is like the classic case of that like these instances that have nothing to do with like the actual Human Rebecca Schaeffer they only have to do with the image in his mind so <hes> Robert though he was the youngest of seven children and he basically did the classic like hop around his dad was in the military and they were you know not a very well to do family family and he basically cleaned not to not believe him but just one of the things that he talks about was that he was abused as well as a child <hes> he was then placed in foster care as a result of the abuse and the fact that their family couldn't take care of seven children and he started threatening to commit suicide so he was placed <hes> in diagnosed with mental illness <hes> MHM which they later re diagnosed as bipolar disorder and this was all before the age of fifteen so there's a lot of do cooking here we sprite this Richer Ramirez case at a lot like he went through a lot of trauma as a child as an infant in soon carried onto his like you know prepubescent pretty years and it's hard because just because you know why something happens doesn't negate the fact that would like you're still responsible. Oh absolutely so it's like this weird thing like he had this really hard life growing up and he had a history of abuse and by the time he was nineteen he was working as like a custodian or janitor. Fast Food restaurant like those are all very difficult things like he had dropped out of school like I'm not trying to say that like why did this happen. The the path is littered with breadcrumbs but that doesn't give you a get out of jail for your card yeah responsible for your actions so <hes> you know he was sort of not well like his community. He actually had been arrested three.

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Hollyweird Paranormal

Hollyweird Paranormal

02:16 min | 1 year ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Hollyweird Paranormal

"The fan club and the stores the to agree to meet at the days in and Corpus Christi Because Selena needed tax documents from Saldivar regarding their businesses us now the motel staff confirmed the two women were arguing loudly and some witness stated that Selena Toll Salvar that she was no longer Chris Worthy and boom they heard a shot. This is what they believe me have pushed Saldivar over the as as she responded by shooting the singer point blink damn no the to also became very close friends however some question the obsessive nature of Saldivar side of the friendship as she even quit her nursing job her fulltime time nursing job to oversee Salinas Fan club and it was even alleged that sell defar created a shrine to the singer that included a life size cardboard cutout of Selena short who doesn't doesn't do that now. We finally crossover to this Hollywood tale of Rebecca Schaeffer and in order for us to four hours later of US ranting in order for us to begin to go all the way back and we need to go all the way back to the eighties now. This is where we you know lay her scene of her murder. Nineteen eighty-nine was very unique year especially in California we had the famous San Francisco earthquake and then we also had as a nation watch the Berlin Wall fall now and then finally finally we ended this decade with the death of Rebecca Schaeffer in Hollywood so we're GONNA go back a little further to nineteen sixty seven Rebecca Schaeffer was born in Eugene Oregon on November six of nineteen sixty seven. She was born to parents have Benson Dana or Danna Schaefer. She developed a passion for drama at an early age was later approach to try modeling and the camera absolutely loved her and she started out starring in a lot of local print ads and commercial missile so as a team model she moved to New York City to pursue a full fledged career in entertainment and she initially scored role on the soap opera one life to live among other opportunities but her biggest break came when she he landed the role of Patty on the Sitcom my sister Sam which is a comedy about a San Francisco photographer..

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on The Adam Carolla Show

The Adam Carolla Show

05:03 min | 1 year ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on The Adam Carolla Show

"I don't watch much network at all I end up watching a lot of car shows, and like UFC stuff, and Netflix and stuff like that. But. Rebecca Schaeffer popped in my head. And then I did this dive into her Stocker and the plane crash and all the stuff and then Friday of the same week. So I came out on Monday yapping about it Tuesday, the show aired and then on that coming Friday. We got go ahead. Max, Pat three days later. Sorry. We'll try to figure this one of the most chillingly killing harbor under the stalkers session metoo, Rebecca Schafer's case on Hollywood. And it always will now almost thirty years after her murder tonight. Tonight on twenty twenty. Well, that's pretty random doing a two hour two hours dedicated a Rebecca Schaeffer and her Stocker thirty years. The most of our show. We got a. Scrap this. Oh Wicky leaked pull shit. We got a story. Thirty one years old Rebecca shavers. Our topic who's shot just researching. Easter playing the ponies here. Right. What do you waste? You're sitting on cash weird. I again, look people can explain how things work, and and whatever. But this I don't know. I was not you clean. I saw promo for that. At some point that that's what would assume except for. I don't really work that way. Like, I come in and go I saw commercial for blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. I wanna talk about I see commercials all the time. I make notes I note them. I don't come in and go oh got this feeling about this thing. And I didn't wanna focus on Rebecca Schaeffer. I'm interested in young peak. Peace activists that I read down on. But anyway, for no apparent reason other than this true crime stuff like everyone has to go back. All this true. Crime stuff, actually, max patta. If you find some of those old true crime magazines interesting the shift on true crime. It used to be for the older Purves every true crime. They had these true crime magazines, and it'd be like they'd be up like at the seven eleven was always the scared chick and the guy the stiletto had in between the bra cups. You know, it's Like like. a little. Yeah. There's always a sexual element. There's a weird pervy rot. Yeah. You gotta find a newer version. Yeah. This is like not animated are not drawn are not less straighted. But but like like like choosing like real true detective true crimes always hot chick showing a lot of leg duct tape over the mouth and in changing waiting. They're having. No, there's going to be busy the pre rape post rape, or whatever. But it was like gee with this rape gone wrong show on right? She made him go the lower left one. I'll show you like how they all. Were. There you go like all right. Hot chick. Always shown a lot of leg wearing a halter top guy coming at them. Yeah. Fourteen victims for the sex mad gorilla, man. Okay. So the true detective true crime stuff was for the dudes to beat off to now in for the ladies. It'd be off to the moms to be scared to that me wringing. My hog you're gonna wring your hands. It's handling and time, ladies, fellas. No longer. Ringing time is over it is now shifted so all these stories from the past like thirty years ago, like Rebecca Schaeffer like all right. So what's next, but we didn't realize oh the ladies of today. Yeah. The the thirty five year old woman who's into this. Now doesn't know this story from thirty years ago. And we will now bring it all back. It's having you know, it's like, I don't know whatever bell bottoms or whatever. Whatever music or whatever it's having a renaissance. Well, you know, obviously Comecon like giant giant conventions like that, you know, crime con is huge. Really, you should just call it. Con. Thank you. Sorry. Yes. So anyway, here's Rebecca Schaeffer, two hours. Just don't Rebecca shaver not a household name. So it's not always on the tip of our tongue by any stretch of the imagine her name the show. Yeah. Actually, Adam came in last week saying, hey, who's that actress from my sister, Kate it wasn't as my sister. Sam and we had to we had to reverse engineer to find her name..

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on The Adam Carolla Show

The Adam Carolla Show

02:42 min | 1 year ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on The Adam Carolla Show

"Lowest percentage, whatever that Maxine Waters in company just having a monopoly on it, not knowing she's in charge of it. Yep. The thing is my philosophies. I don't think the government is evil. And I don't think businesses evil. I think no competition makes you evil and not evil. Just makes you do. Lazy greedy stupid things at the the second. You know, they whatever looked it gets you whatever Merican cars were making in the early seventies. That's what it gets you. If you look at the stuff that Cadillacs about cattle, Sicily, high quality think about what they're where they're at now in Ford and everybody I mean think about the product like in. Here's why it's not they didn't have a change of heart. They're like we want to survive Cadillac wants to remain Ford wants to remain Jeep whatever they want to remain in order to do that to not. I mean, the the Japanese car companies German car company, never stopped evolving. They never. Stop moving for the never stopped getting better. I mean, it's a twenty four seven job to keep up with them. Or even even in get a nose ahead of them. Oh, someone wants to pull my balls. Play the great magnet. Thing as well. So. Last week on Tuesday show. I was talking about Rebecca Schaeffer, and I was very interested on the guy who killed her and the stalker, and how he was stalking that activists that are teen year old activist girl, and how it was so weird that at the thirteen girl was internationally known activists and on the tonight show. She died in a plane crash. You know, in that that girl would be forty one today or whatever the hell forty five or whatever it's crazy how the sort of cosmic Difesa roll like just that woman would be affluent than we'd know her name, and she'd be conquering the world that should be forty five years old. But there was a little problem with impel her on a Lear jet and people are ten she never. She never saw her. Right. So now people she never saw her fourteenth birthday. But for her fifteen would go on so right? But so I just kinda got I don't know. Why I wasn't watching ABC. I don't watch much network at all I end up watching a lot of car shows, and like UFC stuff, and Netflix and stuff like that. But. Rebecca Schaeffer.

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on World News Tonight with David Muir

World News Tonight with David Muir

03:51 min | 1 year ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on World News Tonight with David Muir

"But what's the bottom line here? What are your sources telling you tonight, despite the president's words officials at the department of homeland security remain opposed to it and are not moving forward. As one senior official told ABC news, quote, the president may be seriously considering it, but DHS is not David giancarl tonight. John, thank you. There is a major recall of the popular sleeper that so many parents. Grandparents have in their homes. We have been reporting on this year. Fischer Price's now recalling its rock and play sleeper. It's reportedly been linked to the deaths of more than thirty infants since two thousand nine but pediatricians had sounded the alarm about rollover issues babies turning onto their sides or stomachs while unrestrained and so today Fisher Price now officially recalling the sleeper. They will issue a refund or Bouchier. There's also developing news, and that's sweeping college admission scandal tonight, a new guilty plea at this hour, Mark rebel is a Harvard. Grad accused of taking or changing ACT or SAT exams for the children of those wealthy. Parents. He pleaded guilty to mail fraud conspiracy and money laundering court documents claim that actress Felicity Huffman was one of the parents who used Dell services he allegedly flew to Los Angeles to Proctor the SAT for her older daughter in twenty seventeen next tonight to new reporting about that stalking tragedy that stunned America and led to sweeping new laws in this country. Actress Rebecca Schaeffer a rising star at the time was shot and killed bite obsessed. Fan at her front door, the case still haunts this country, three decades later tonight. The new interview with one time co star Pam dober- why she is still so angry about something that happened. Here's Matt Guzman. She was the fresh faced girl next door who skyrocketed to fame on the hit show. My sister Sam in the nineteen eighties. My good. I must be dreaming Rebecca Schaeffer down to earth. Hollywood star who answered own fan, man. I went wait a minute. You're answering them back. You can't do that. And she's Ono. But I love it. They want to be friends. I'm wait. They're not your friends. What are those fans? Robert bardo a mentally ill young man from Arizona bardo. Grew obsessed showing up at her studio, then becoming enraged forty saw Schaefer acting in a love scene. It was the stalking case that turned deadly and sparked new laws in the US all those rage full feelings. How dare she that gets converted into a plan of cold-blooded revenge. One day twenty one year old Schaefer was expecting a knock at the door the script for godfather part three. Instead, it was Robert bardo waiting at her door hired a private investigator in California to go to the DMV and find that where she lived the young actress tried to send bardo away. But he came back and shot her dead. And they would just hand him her address. I was ballistic with rage. Boorda was sentenced to life in prison. And now in a rare interview he tells ABC news, he feels remorse. I realize what I've done, and I feel a lot of tremendous guilt. Schieffer's family doesn't care what he has to say now, but they're grateful their donors debt prompted change. But authorities eight thirty years later, a new tool social media makes it easier for stalkers to track their victims while the laws. Got better stocking has not diminished. In fact, it's on the rise Ed to combated David the DMV is now prohibited from giving out personal information and police departments across the country like the LAPD now of anti-stalking taskforce's, David toy makeup and tonight, and we should mention that this two hour special edition of two thousand twenty comes just a couple of hours from now nine PM eastern right here. There is still much more ahead on world news tonight. This Friday breaking news tonight. The deadly accident at a water park..

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on 850 WFTL

850 WFTL

05:40 min | 1 year ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on 850 WFTL

"Sunday twenty percent chance of showers, the high seventy eight. All right. How are you? What's going on? It is a a wet and rainy day. There's a federal judge has granted a class certification to a group of over ten thousand people get this involved in car accidents who are accusing a Washington state personal injury law firm of illegally acquiring their names and addresses and then sending them law firm advertising material. And so when I heard about this, I wonder is this possibly going on here in Florida as well. So the guy would have that answers attorney Scott the Owens who joins me now under each Stephen show. Good morning, rich. How are you? Good. Very well. So do you think this is happening here too? South florida. Right. So if you know, my general rule is is someone can be breaking the law. They're probably going to be doing it right here. And I've heard people talk to me. Just in the housing that choose. Accident and only a few days later. I get a call from. You know from from a law firm or text Nassar's or Mailer, and they can't imagine how how this these people got hold of their information. But appears that one of the ways to do it is by buying a crash reports from the states in order to solicit and there is a federal law in place driver's privacy Protection Act and just to take a step back. The reason why this laws in place is anti Jesse essentially anti-stalking statute. And remember there was actress Rebecca Schaeffer tragedy murdered by a psycho fan who obtained records by. Questions. I'm from the state. So federal law was put into place to limit the purposes for for why you how you can obtain records through the state and advertisement is not one of those accepted or reasons, and there was a two thousand thirteen supreme court case on pace. On point advertisers. Donald Gibb purpose under GPA, and I strongly suspect that there's a major firms that people see on TV. Are doing Justice. How how do they I mean, you would think first of all that they would know better? But how do they get away with it? Well. You know, just like the robo said, I do, you know, it's it's it's sort of a cost of doing business. They get caught they could good defense to you players. You know eliminate. Recuse and several and you know for for. No sometimes. Amount of money that it was worth it. Taking in me. Know, the five million dollar wrongful death that came out of the crash that they signed up. As a result of using these sort of advertising? So would it be in a situation where the five million dollars outweighs the two hundred thousand dollars in fines at that have to pay? Soon source. Attrition. Yeah. I recently subtly case, I guess robocaller for skip tracing people for medical and within a year of sewing, Mike. They were doing it again because it works. It works to them. We can't affectively bringing in money when they're in compliance with the law. So people take that risk the lawyers who catch some as soon as a cost of doing business, and the, you know, what we need either stronger laws in place with more significant penalties or you know, some sort of a civil criminal court where these people lose their licence for good. But you know. I shouldn't say is the kind of thing that we've talked about before where company X sets up then they get now changed their name to company. Why that that's got shut down a company? A I mean, this is that basically what's going to happen? Even if the stricter laws. Well, it should travel with the individuals. Nachos. So, you know, either these people are going to have to find stories in there too. Act on their behalf. Make it more difficult and. You know, perhaps we need to add, you know, start making examples where a World War caller goes to jail. You know, there's been cases where spammers on time in prison. And those people were in this case attorneys are doing it. And then doing it again. We'll maybe the second time, you're. It's not the first time. You're licensed needs to be suspended. And mood. Second time just taken away altogether. It's just it's really amazing..

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Rocket

Rocket

02:05 min | 1 year ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Rocket

"And frankly, it's like I'm on Taylor swift tumbler a lot and her fans are freaking crazy like okay case in point her fans, like die hard fans people who meet her and like take photos with her and like have as their like avatar like their photo with her and whatnot track her plane, which. Has now been delisted, but they keep the going out how to track it out where she is just to players. They've tracked them all they used to do like it used to be weight is your to do when she was they they knew that she was living in London. Even though that wasn't public for like almost a year because they were finding charter jets that were coming back and forth between locations where she would appear in public. And then figuring out. Oh, this is going to wherever she is. Like like, they're nuts. Like, they know everything about where she's the figure out or addresses. They have like they cross reference photos to show like, oh, this is the backdrop that was used here. Like, they're in these are the fans, they're insane. Right. So that's not normal. Not no. And these are the fans, right? These are the people who wouldn't want to harm her. So if these people who are like wouldn't wanna harm her think about like the level and eight and but yet they're putting all this information out there subpoena would wanna harm work and find it like if she's got a blacklist, it's the really really crazy people because she takes photos with the ones who track her jets like she might not know inherently that. They're doing that. Or whatever, you know, what I mean? But like, I'm sorry. Like, I love you a seal, you know, like if she goes, she has a watch list or blacklist like there's a very good reason for it because they're freaking like also were saying again, not just area Guerande. And that's but Rebecca Schaeffer was murdered because someone was able to get access to her public information like that was like thirty years ago. But, but you know, people kill celebrities like like Ronald Reagan was shot and James Brady was paralyzed. Because dude was obsessed. Jodi, foster in the movie taxi driver like this is not a new phenomenon. Right. And it's only gotten worse people have more access to things..

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Your Art Sucks

Your Art Sucks

03:23 min | 2 years ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Your Art Sucks

"He sees basically very sensitive person. And he probably was not as killed him, buddy. As I did. But that's fiction and reality was standing in front of the Dakota. There's evidence that Chapman was in a stage of. Illness that was untreated and plagued him for most of his life. And with treatment in prison. He did come to terms with murdering an innocent victim who had just hours before the shooting. Given Mark an autograph and even asked Mark if there was anything else he could do for him in this interaction was captured by photographer, and I've included the image that shows the two of them together in the show notes gracious as he was there was no way John Lennon could have known that he was interacting with his future killer despite Chapman's continue belief that John knew something was wrong. But it appears that catcher in the rye was to Mark the impetus for his motives, it was the rationale for his selection of John Lennon as he was convinced that the fame that John had would be transferred to himself once he murdered John. He would escape the obscurity and the alienate of his life and in doing so forever immortalized himself. Well, the sad part is is that the vision was true to degree Mark is famous but not in the way, he imagined. And in jail. He's found like minded people who hold him with some regard. However disturbing the act was unfortunately with marks fame came the media who clamoured for some reason some semblance of a point of blame. And Mark was far too willing to throw JD Salinger into the role of accomplice news outlets of the day salivated at the prospect of drawing the reclusive author out of the shadows. And under the spotlight's of sensationalistic journalism their headlines reading the catcher in the rise of blueprint for society's outcast, take up action against their enemies. Even though Holden Caulfield never acted in such a manner. Yeah. He'd trumped of shooting his enemy in the stomach. But he never carried out the act, which is an extremely vital point in. Any violence attributed to the novel is absolutely misplaced. Even Mark after treatment came to this conclusion as with the rabid media JD Salinger remained silent and secluded. Well, one awful event in history did permanently scarred. This work of art catcher in the rye had the very unfortunate fate of being tied to many violent acts outside of the murder of Jon this book was also a part of the story when John Hancock junior attempted to assassinate. Ronald Reagan further was also a factor in Robert John Bartos, murder of the young and very talented actress, Rebecca Schaeffer, but the troubles with this novel fall in the educational institutions as well the fear of such a novel inspiring troubled teens to question their lives led to many libraries banning it heavily from nineteen sixty one to nineteen eighty to their challenges to the book generally begin with Holden's frequent use of vulgar language with other. Reasons including sexual references lasts for me, undermining of family values and moral codes and courage.

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Stephanie Miller's Happy Hour Podcast

Stephanie Miller's Happy Hour Podcast

04:10 min | 2 years ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Stephanie Miller's Happy Hour Podcast

"I don't know. I'm not gonna interested anymore for twelve more into these true crime things. I can't stop listening to I just can't stop. I've know every case every Rebecca Schaeffer horrible, every Arbel thing. That's happened. Cheers me. It believes thing. He's horrible things. Cheer me up after day of Trump. Yeah. A dateline were woman. Drowns? Our whole family is still taking the edge off. This is directly symmetrical to the Marcia Clark happy hour. We did where she was Rebecca shapers she represented. She jaded the guy that killed her. Okay. Yeah. It's different take on the Rebecca shaper murder. Okay. Let's should never pouch is for knowing more than other people write about something. They'll you talking about. Sorry. Shit. Okay. Sorry. Andy killer, you're here on the day. Are we up to what ten Democrats liberals have received bombs in the mail? I don't believe suspicious package. I think we're close and tweets a suspicious package was my name, which I didn't know because I'm going. I didn't know that. It's just an absolute fact, I didn't know thing is about that. I was thinking about was that a bomb that doesn't detonate would be the best way describe my act. The Bosnian go off did you bomb? No wasn't good enough to bum fizzle out. You know, might stay Jamie's to be Andy climactic. Yeah. He had me almost the end. All right. I'll be sprinkling. Joe? That's the only one from my act I sprinkled in house. What are your upper lip is? I know fantastic. You're ju- ju- doing anything. That's a joke and even hard labor. I mean, are we taxing you too much happening? No, I'm nervous. I'm nervous. Really because I don't want to because you're coughing. I do I wait to do the Heimlich or just assume you can't breathe upward. I made a notch for you embarrass herself on this podcast. Tom went actually called and said, what did I do on that podcast erase it? Now, I want drink, castor renegade. Did this you did you have to do it? Did you have to rent? She isn't power. Horn is a good snack for the radio. I'm so is that what you think not even for me. I love you just said, I won't interrupt. We invited him our guest you have a popcorn button like a cough button. Me something Mutley on. So that's a cartoon. Probably right hawks. I don't know who that is. I'm a year old that I am. You're five years old way. Hardly dudley. Do right after my racers. After my time period. It's I'm so old. As street. I couldn't like Sesame Street. Yeah. Stop talking down to me. That was already see that was muddling. You just didn't mother. That's the she. She she dog from the cartoon, right? Is a stick is do you say, I know you like stick Gama Jewish at all. But I I used to starting my car in buffalo in the winter was Katherine Hepburn. I'm glad we call that handle that's hack the joke. I'm glad that you did the joke. Right. You're laughing at me. No one blessing at that style of joke, which is very eighties. I think it's a little something like this. First of all, don't you miss the days where you could take a very serious illness and turn it into a bit come on, folks. Come up, folks looms. Oh, so today I can't insult people because of the disabilities. Oh, isn't just beyond everything else? Just the worst comedian ever doesn't think that pains you the most comedian is not just him. But the people laugh at the whatever I know is doing as comedy. I don't even he still I think he actually steals. This is my theory. But Chris rock the thing about I haven't even heard a little bit..

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Casefile True Crime

Casefile True Crime

06:12 min | 2 years ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Casefile True Crime

"Watch. Although rubber Bata had tried to forget Rebecca Schaeffer and replace with other famous women, none of his new celebrity crushes ever quite lived up to the sweet innocent Rebecca. She was no longer on TV, but there was still occasional TV appearances on Tokyo's Andina views in magazines in the she would talk about the roles that she had in forthcoming films and rub. It noted them carefully any starry so we could be sure to say them as soon as they came in. He was one of the first boy ticket to sings from the cloth struggling Beverly Hills when it was released in may nineteen ninety nine. It was billed as a comedy, and he looked forward to Rebecca reprising. Her role was a wacky, but sweet wholesome teenager. What he saw Shuqing into the cool film was edgier than he expected a doc Satoya imperative soap operas in the film. Rebecca had a love Saint in which she appeared in bed with a Costa ratio. The scene was mauled. Besets was clearly implied. Seen an image of Rebecca was shouted. He felt she was just like, oh, the others, a quote, Hollywood whole prepared to sleep away to the top. Deeply disturbed robot went home and right to Rebecca. Again, he's led his tacona more menacing ton. In one, he coda quite miss nudity to shoes. Nineteen ninety on Rebecca was working steadily, but had yet to land role the put her in the spotlight lock moist, sister, same. She rekindled her relationship with Brad silver Ling in the early part of the year and the two who assume exclusive. The couple celebrated the release of scenes from the claw struggling Beverly Hills, which was popular with both critics and the public and Brad would sometimes visit Rebecca on the set of the new film. She was working on the end of innocence. When they weren't working. I spent that Deitz with simple home-cooked meals. Cuddled up on the catch with Rebecca's cat, Catherine, nine, Katherine Hepburn. The couples started discussing the possibility of getting engaged. Rebecca had been brought up to have a social conscience when still at school. She helped father, child psychologist, Dr. Benson Shifu tight. You Kloss for developmentally disabled youngsters. In nineteen ninety. One chosen Coors was Thursday's child charity for at risk teens and young adults. She donated her Tom and her heart per fall, becoming a spokesperson for the organization and hoping out when she could. When she missed a sewing event for the charity because of filming commitments, she made a personal appearance at go. Shota goes excitedly crowded around as she graciously onto autographs for all of them. Rebecca's popularity had not wind despotic no longer being a regular fixture, people's television sets. Two sacks of onions, female. I don't her enter full whiting for Becca to have a long enough break in her schedule to get around to them. Bodice obsession with Rebecca Shifu was rigged noted, but it was different now. He still loved her, but hey, believed in new photographs. Rebecca had lost some of her youthful sweetness and was looking out and HARA. Key presumed that it was because she was sleeping around and he believed she should be punished for her immorality. Prostrated that he had filed on his many attempts to mate speak to Rebecca rub. It turned to stories of celebrity. Stalkers hints about how many to get close to that targets. A people magazine article provided inspiration. Told the story of riding bull actress to raise us out Donna to newly been killed in a frenzied stabbing attack by Scottish drifta off the Jackson in nineteen ninety two. Jackson had who had a providence investigator to get the phone number of the actress's mother who me then tricked into giving up south done his dress. Brother Bata, Khuda, yellow pages and cold. The first providence investigator listed Fatu sewn i. investigators. I told him that could find anyone, but it would cost lace two hundred fifty dollars. Rub Ross through his make possessions looking for things. He could also the next day he sold to guitars about twenty compact discs and April, which provided him with enough money to pay the provident Vesta guide and have enough left over for greyhound bus ticket to Los Angeles. On June one, not nineteen on rubber Bado entered the door of a investigators causing a photo containing several letters and klutzy photograph of smiling, Rebecca Schaeffer. The explained to the investigator that Rebecca was an old friend with whom he had corresponded in the past, but I had lost touch when she moved hills. He wanted to new address so we could send her a gift. Rub it presented as a note Inari teenager who held down a job and had lived with these parents in the same address in the area for several ease. More importantly, he had two hundred fifty dollars in cash ready to pay for job that would take a few phone calls and cost the couple of bucks. The investigator happily accepted. Rub it as a client and promised him the information as soon as possible.

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Casefile True Crime

Casefile True Crime

05:46 min | 2 years ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Casefile True Crime

"Season. Rubber Bado videotaped the Thanksgiving Day parade in which Rebecca Schaeffer guest presented along with every episode of Moss's the same. He'll say, tracked down Rebecca's appearance in the television series, amazing stories. And at at that toys video collection, he scale at magazines newspapers for any mention of Rebecca. And if he couldn't steal them, he would use his make paycheck to buy them and cut the articles. Some pitches. He even good a copy of seventeen magazine which was targeted to goes because Rebecca was on the cover. He read so much about Rebecca that he felt lucky new to rub it. Rebecca was not a stranger, and he felt at any soul that one day that would bathe together. Unsure of the best address the Rachel. Robert sent letters to the studio, loaded Warner Brothers and two Rebecca's agents in New York into Los Angeles. He did receive responses, quasi photos of the stolid sometimes with those signature on them, then he received a photograph of Rebecca with a pay symbol, Linda hot that said with love from Rebecca. The photo became rub. It's most treasured possession proved to him that their attraction was mutual. The day he received it. He wrote in his Dory quote, I would like to become famous to impress a. Rub it typed Rebecca's Fedor graphs to the walls of his room along with pitches of her. He carefully cut from magazines. He kept the articles neighborly tucked away in paper photos that he stored safely in drool. Soon he's room became a shrine to Rebecca with belius put on his wool left uncovered. In his heartfelt letters, it would quote John Lennon and also wrote song lyrics of his own. He told Rebecca how sensitive he was assuring her in one Leto quite on harmless. You could hurt me. He told her hell. One episode of my sister seem in which a character yearned for the love of his celebrity particularly resonated with him on know what you mean. He wrote to her. He's lead is filled with hope of a friendship and hinted that who is interested in more. Rub waited patiently for Rebecca to respond to him. After a brief vacation when the first season of my sister, Sam wrapped Rebecca Schaeffer returned to the studio and continued to spend all of Tom onset. Work remained to a top priority and her relationship with boyfriend, Brad, Suba, Ling suffered as a result. Eventually the period saw to split though things between the two remained amicable. Rebecca's fan mail was nabbed delivered to her inserts forwarded to her off to the office, waited out any that were rude or offensive, Rebecca still wanted to respond personally to h. one, but it was becoming difficult and she had to enlist the hope of a Hollywood Fain my service to ensure that h weta got some sort of reply usually a mass produced photo with her printed autograph. Rebecca still received every pace and would try to respond to personally whenever she could. She had a number of stock phrases that she would scroll across the postcard. So as publicity shots. And sometimes she would Joe hearts or pay symbols. She responded to one rambling Leto with quote, yours is one of the nicest lettuce offer saved a standard response. She ride to fans who took the tone to ROY, long letters, even though she didn't have time to read them properly. Rebecca had become used to people recognizing her and occasionally stopping her in the straight for a chat or not graph. Sometimes feigns try and visit her on the set, but the security guards nearly always turn to them away. And the studio usually didn't bother her with the Dato. Although Rebecca dated occasionally, she was mostly Alona who would just as soon sit at home practicing gogo, rubbing poetry, then attend nor club opening film premiere. That year. She moved from Hollywood hills to north Sweitzer avenue, straight of nineteen forties era, spacious apartments and sunny Koya in a quiet neighborhood. Neither Fairfax district in West Hollywood. The area had a cool slightly edgy vob and it makes of hip and trendy restaurants and quickey shops. It was popular with the industry's up and comers who were comfortable, but didn't have the lowest incomes required to live in neighboring Beverly Hills. One of Rebecca's neighbors was a handsome chiseled. Joel one obey ACTA who's credits so far and the amounted to a famous boarding Pringles TV, commercial, and a sub-standard slush horror flick a young man named Brad Pitt. Rebecca's new apartment was in a small, chewed a stall upon them block. The entrance was gloss ecurity door on the grand floor where visitors would press the button of the apartment. I wanted and Nance themselves vire in a coma before Bain buzzed in. Rebecca's parents were happy with the move to an area. They considered safer than the one she had lived in previously.

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Casefile True Crime

Casefile True Crime

06:17 min | 2 years ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on Casefile True Crime

"Parents. Rubber vis alighted diagnosed with depression. Following what he claimed was a sustained period of abuse by one of his siblings, rub it threatened to Wendy's lawf- and was subsequently placed in foster care for a month. Then in August nineteen, ninety five Samantha raid Smith Daud know lot plane crash a day. J- third aim robot was overcome with grief at the loss of his celebrity crush and spiraled further into depression, believing, hey, had some helping responsible for death. At age fifteen. He was briefly institutionalized judy's emotional problems. This led Robert to drop out of our school in the north grade despite achieving consistently good marks. He began working as a janitor at a fast food joint, Jack in the box. The work was boring and David Morris alighting with its father. 'em starts and little contact with PayPal. His retreat into the fantasy world where he could pretend to be part of the glamorous loss of the papal. He saw on the television screen became even more intense. In the summer of nineteen ninety Ninety-six robot sewer commercial for a new television series, which was due to start in the full. He watched a cute curly head teenage, go talking cheekily to the actress, he- recognized as Mindy from Morgan, Mindy. As the teenage girls spoke to the audience from the glowing television screen robot fell. She was speaking directly to him. He was instantly infatuated by a quirkiness and beauty, and he couldn't wait for the new show, more sister same to start. The sooner she had confirmation that she had landed. The role in moist is the sand nineteen year old, Rebecca Schaeffer. Once again, packed her bags and moved across the country. This, Tom to Hollywood. Rebecca's grandfather lived in west Los Angeles. So her parents were relieved that she had family need boy, and she was now closer to home to make visiting much easier. Rebecca, the show star PM doorbell, hit it off and maybe Italy. Once they started filming team invited Rebecca to come and live with her and her actor husband Mark common in invitation, Rebecca, gratefully accepted. Rebecca had not fallen in love with Los Angeles is instantly. She had with New York in New York, everything she needed at Bain on her doorstep, but she felt that l. LA was to spread. Rebecca lamented to her mother that she missed the being. I would order Chinese food at three AM. However, her new job kept her busy and everyone on set to the inexperienced teenager under their wing. The cost became Rebecca's second family, and she would follow crew around the set when she wasn't required, asking intelligent questions, curious to know what that would doing. She looked to know how everyone feeding and wanted to understand all the jobs that went into making television show. The pilot of more sister. Same went to air on October, seeks Norte ninety six in the Plum Thome slowed of Mondays at eight thirty pm scheduled between two of the most popular shows on the CBS wanna Keeton alley yet eight. And in you hard at known. The show was to be goal. Secon, fair PM door applied any ambition of toy photographer who was living an orderly lawf- in San Francisco when he had of the blue, her free spirited toy wearing youngest is the Patty landed on her doorstep. Patty had been living with her aunt and uncle in Oregon since the death of her parents, the when Nitra the Mako trade, her electric guitar for clarinet and some Benny Goodman records. She tracked to be on her sister in the big city. Navigating these new relationship, the chalk and chase Joe preceded to turn h others lives upside down whilst giving each other valuable life lessons. The sisters were joined by the usual cost of wacky and stereotypical Seacombe. So geeks. Despite lukewarm reviews in the press the cheesy sweet natured sitcom of generation gap, Huma struck a chord with the American viewing public. Rebecca and pin had great chemistry and Rebecca played her character with such charm and infectious sweet nature goofiness that many view is assumed that the actress was much the same way. Rebecca's Patty was a one obey rockstar with good intentions, but who was always getting into scrapes much to the annoyance of the taught and sensible Sam. By the end of h half hour episode, everything would get resolved and bring. This is this closet ago. It was a quintessential eighties sitcom full of big firms choice fashion and wisecracking characters. The popularity of the show revived paying job his corre- and short Rebecca Schaeffer into Bailey celebrity fine. She was interviewed for stories about my sister same and her pitcher would pop up in different celebrity magazine every week. CBS put Rebecca to work cross promoting and in November she rubbed up and braved the Toronto. Winter Toco host the Canadian part of the nineteen eighty six. All American thanksgiving parade. She charmed her co hosts and proved versatility and ability to lib whilst dutifully promoting the various sponsors of the network. Once more to see him had been on air for few weeks, Rebecca discovered another aspect of stardom fiend my all started trickling in post on the her by Warner Brothers or her agent. The lead is was sweeten gushing mostly from young goes, who aspired the Baylock. Her Rebecca was determined to raid and respond to every single one. Sixteen

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on KFI AM 640

KFI AM 640

02:27 min | 2 years ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on KFI AM 640

"Well there was a bit of a trajectory and it started with getting myself help regarding the trauma i started when i moved out here to los angeles i started therapy it was far enough away from my mom and and i had gone through many experiences that were quite challenging that are in the book but when i came out here i knew i had to get some help and it was in getting help so that the psychic stuff started they're they're starting to be room for the psychic endeavor and i say that as a as an important point because those of us who are interested in doing this work do have to make room for it in our lives and it was with life coaching and therapy and and and spending time really to face some of the trauma that i could move the pain out so that light could come in now make sense at one more instance that that was pretty dark i i i came across a con artist and it was in this outing of this con artist that he ended up stalking me and i went to law enforcement for help and interestingly enough i turned around and started helping law enforcement and it was within that frame of being frightened and being stalked that i ended up working with the threat management unit and this was the team that had helped or that was developed after rebecca schaeffer who was murdered by a stocker this team had been formed and they took stocking very seriously so i became a part of the american threat assessment professionals and i started you know talking about stocking and working with other professionals that were forensic detectives and it was in this time where i really felt as though i was getting a lot of assistance and this is when i ended up meeting james van prague i was put in his house and this was also at the same time when i started taking other help for these gifts that started coming in and that was what the us military psychic spies which is so fascinating so this is the work with the the the police the detectives and so forth largely provo in the beginning haroldo loner with law enforcement.

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on KOA 850 AM

KOA 850 AM

03:31 min | 2 years ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on KOA 850 AM

"Came out here i knew i had to get some help and it was in getting help so that the psychic stuff started their their started be room for the psychic endeavor and i say that as a as an important point because those of us who are interested in doing this work do have to make room for it in our lives and it was with life coaching and therapy and and and spending time really to face some of the trauma that i could move the pain out so that light could come in that makes sense at one more instance that that was pretty dark i i i came across a con artist and it was in this outing of this con artist that he ended up stalking me and i went to law enforcement for help and interestingly enough i turned around and started helping law enforcement and it was within that frame of being frightened and being stocked that i ended up working with the threat management unit and this was the team that had helped or that was developed after rebecca schaeffer who was murdered by a stocker this team had been formed and they took stocking very seriously so i became a part of the american threat assessment professionals and i started you know talking about stocking and working with other professionals that were forensic detectives and it was in this time where i really felt as though i was getting a lot of assistance and this is when i ended up meeting james van prague i was put in his house and this was also at the same time when i started seeking other help for these gifts that started coming in and that was with the us military psychic spies which is so fascinating so this is the work with the the the police the detectives and so forth largely pro bono in the beginning bono zona with law enforcement and information about the murder and and you mentioned sicom etry which is something that i love doing and i think that we can all do this so i wonder listeners to take some notes here psychiatry is picking up an object and feeling it and you can even start with a photograph and.

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"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on The Minimalists Podcast

The Minimalists Podcast

01:48 min | 2 years ago

"rebecca schaeffer" Discussed on The Minimalists Podcast

"For me i love throwing myself like the dodgeball is not very uncomfortable for me like that is something that i am totally looking forward to throwing myself into i threw myself into acting in a play i threw myself into actually a couple of plays acted and doing some volunteer work what whatever it was i went out of my way to do things in the community that that i knew i would have opportunities to meet other people in the community and i didn't meet friends you know right away if i they became acquaintances i think like rebecca schaeffer a great example she was the director of that that play was in and her and i were really good acquaintances and i don't know when you know it switched to us being really really good friends but after time of a of spending you know working on that play she had a cabaret that ryan i would go up and we would we would support her in the cabaret was really fun to watch it was fun to to support our friend or i guess maybe our acquaintance at the time but eventually after me in mariah we went out of our way to to do the same things that rebecca did not because we were just trying to be rebecca's friend but it's she always liked to do things we did or she was producing shows that that we really like to see but yes after spending enough time we were able to become really close friends i mean she stayed at my house right now and my spare bedroom so so yeah it's for me it's not difficult because i go out of my way to throw myself into different things into the community where i know i'm going to meet.

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