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Indigenous Fashion: The Politics of Ribbon Skirts, Runways and Resilience

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02:34 min | 4 months ago

Indigenous Fashion: The Politics of Ribbon Skirts, Runways and Resilience

"Abigail echo hawk is here to talk about a ribbon. Dress a traditional symbol of healing. But it's not a typical ribbon dress. She's the chief research officer at seattle indian health board and the director of the urban indian health institute in march of twenty twenty in the early days of the pandemic. She reached out to her federal health partners to ask for some more p. p. e. so the institute could continue to serve the native population in the seattle area instead of receiving masks and testing kits. She was sent bodybags abigail ponti and joins me now. Welcome to the show abigail and so excited to be here. Can you take take me back to that moment. When you opened up the box with the body bags and what happened we had gotten noticed at a large box had arrived at our clinic. We ran downstairs. We hoping for mask and when we opened it up what we saw instead was a box of bodybags. It was absolutely devastating. I remember taking one of the body bags out of the box. In the toe tags fell out of the bag and instantly there were tears in my eyes. Because all i could think about was the elders. I had seen upstairs. Wanting to get tested of our providers were showing their own mass of our executive leadership team. Who had started washing the scrubs of our providers at our own homes in order to ensure that they had what they needed. And when we asked for help bodybags is what we got. What did you think about when you saw what your federal health partners had sent you. When i saw what they had sent us. I wish i had been more surprised. Unfortunately i wasn't as we look at. How the federal government in the united states has provided the treaty obligations for american indians alaska. Natives we know they haven't and in fact they have never fully funded our healthcare systems and as a result of that we've seen our people have high rates of disease. We've seen our people die. And when i thought about it it was almost the perfect metaphor for what the federal government has been doing to us for centuries and that is giving us the thanks to bury our people in and not giving us the resources so are can live. When did you get the idea to transform the body bag into a rib andress. I've been working in healthcare for really long time and it's hard i have seen people die. I've seen are people not receive the resources that they need. And sometimes i'll drive home from my work and just cry all the way home and so i've had to find ways of coping with the trauma that i experience as an indigenous person working native healthcare. And so. I use the cultural traditions. That i have been taught by my aunties my relatives by my

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"ponti" Discussed on Monocle 24: Section D

Monocle 24: Section D

06:06 min | 4 months ago

"ponti" Discussed on Monocle 24: Section D

"Kish twentieth century italian architecture and design historian and one of the books. Contributors is to find out a little more. What people could get out of this book. Maybe is to look one more time at the interior spaces. And the way he decorates them but also this idea of indoor outdoor spaces with villas and with the idea of sight lines on his drawings. looking through various rooms interpenetration. There's all that aspect on top of that is that he seems to have no particular. He was not ideological. I brought it up with his daughter. Lisa ponti where was his ideology and she said to me he did not have an ideology and not having one was his ideology. P was not into this idea this thinking that we were hit galleon and progressing. He says let's proceed not progress. And i think that's interesting to preceding so just get on with it. There is unabashed use of color. There is a method to his color again. I spoke to lisa ponti about that. She said he would use three primaries and pure caller or three complementaries but thing you always did juxtapose it with white and white seemed to be this universe little transformative condition for him so therefore colored next to white enhance both he also use black and cry. He could saturate use color in interiors. There was just so limited amounts of color but it just somehow it was the right amount with any new findings for you on ponti in this past year of working on this project that has changed the way that you see his work so i was very familiar with the early decades of the work and the fifties as most prolific but this project revealed later work the nineteen sixties and seventies which i sort of had previously overlooked and revealed man an old man in his seventies who was still add it and still coming up with new ideas so in that sense yes. There was some new discoveries new things to work on other than that. Let's say smaller things commissions. I never knew about from the various decades twenties thirties forties. But more or less. I had sort of Had had a kind of command on all of those. There were certain things we brought up more like surrealism The big section on the ocean liners which i had no idea the breath of though is i thought the only maybe four. But there's many many more think there's like eight and total. They are quite extensive and other finding was just to reflect back on ponti being a new yorker and also londoner i sort of had to take greater distance and see now is a figure of the twentieth century. Probably the busiest man and the most prolific certainly the one who worked in more countries around the world more international than even look abused in my mind just going through comparing to you. Know sort of north american architects or architects of europe and so forth and in those comparisons other than that ponti has always been a figure. That was too obvious he was the most prominent and then there's been a lot of interest in italian architectural figures albena custom johnny gardell abebe. Pr also carlino that we sort of then Forgot about policy and then why. This book is sort of More relevant than ever before the twenty first century is because he just sort of Illuminate so many positions. And he's a figure that did so many things as we progress through this book it became more apparent that he was someone to look into yet again to reflect on. What do you think he's going to put words in your mouth. But why is he the most significant of of those designers. He was a prolific creator. His daughter said that he's i asked the question. Did you have a sleep. And she said about five hours a day so he was forever drawing and working and he was also getting on planes and traveling and plus. How did he had the time to be the editor art director of this magazine which brought in a lot of Information for him to there's so many aspects of him but let's say design is across all these fields starting with the porcelain for june ori silverwork for christoph glass pieces of anini More glass industrial glass refund on rt. And then all the furniture and embarking with small lebanese to big companies like casino. He seemed to be just Always evolving with certain forms and he would go back to them and developed a mcgann decades later but with new materials and he was interested in making spaces dynamic that furniture and the placement didn't seem to have admiration for a plane wall critically. These things called the furnished wall floating bookcases and Lighting sources and panels sort of in shallower the with light behind them. He wanted all surfaces to sort of Be animated that's why he's sort of the patterns on floors the diagonal of tiles sad or marble so there is kind of immense amount of energy onto many things and it's just incomprehensible at all done but there is six tickets of work for design is picking up this book. Now what do you hope that they take away from it. I think it should give them confidence to try. Different materials forms. Idioms and perhaps context from indoor public privates and to sort of progress. 'cause he was always picking up new materials in one of the essays but steph no kashani. He does mentioned about how he's using plastic and using that in a kind of space age way. This is our deluce in the mid nineteen fifties and later. That would be taken up by joe colombo and this sort of space age as well as verner panton so molded plastic and so forth. There is something for young designers to look at in that regard and also just to approach how he.

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In The Room with Sean Clancy: Ramon Dominguez

The Horse Racing Radio Network Podcast

04:11 min | 6 months ago

In The Room with Sean Clancy: Ramon Dominguez

"Year old multiple clips award winning jockey one nearly five thousand racists including the travers. The breeders cup turf twice the arlington million. The woodward the jockey club gold cup and road stars have her to grace gio. Ponti better talk now and so many others. Welcome to the show. Ramon thank you. Just turn for now. I said jockey. Ramon dominguez introduction. Because you will always be jackie in my book you retired after suffering a head injury in two thousand and thirteen. How how's retired. Life is good. continue Working on different things Llosa new chapter in my life and certainly will start smiling when you say jockey exactly exactly what keeps you busy these days. I know it's been almost eight years. I guess Since you retired what what keeps you so yes busy with different things. I mean personally. Your skill involved with things Family why Enjoying family and use. I enjoin also saratoga which is home for me now over springs in And i have been working a couple of projects. One of them A riding crop that i invented and a lot of people know about in the horse racing role Doing a show going to the other question disciplines in And most recently start working with a friend on a platform that we name a box which we threw up from. Look into bring a content to the spanish speaking Horse racing fan and the has been something that we have enjoyed and just went interview and pre imposed race analysis among other things. So yeah that keeps me pretty busy. You were always playing the long game saving your money thinking about your next step right. I'm and you were always one of those guys that you kind of watch. That were was planning the rest of your life. yes i Certainly i'm happy with a josiah leaving Today in in my career. I didn't have to have The most expensive thing so That certainly has helped through these retirement as where. I am no making the money that i was making was writing a however there's no Huge needs in terms of having to fulfill something that Warsaw too big for my financial capability other time so now they usa enjoying a life's simple pleasures in some ways. Yeah you've always been good at that. How how tough was it to be forced to retire him. And you didn't really get your choice. You had a fall and and had a dramatic Traumatic brain injury. How tough was that for you. So it was the one that i Came to realize that that's what's going to happen Four awhile. After my accident. When i had a i was Gog capable of thinking about what was happening and so on I was planning on coming back in the was pretty exciting for me to come back to to riding in a day when i realized that that was no longer choice You do go through What i call it a grieving where these by Being jewish job. Or what you the is career. You can't help to feel in some ways attached to that or sec studies farrow who you are even if that's the case so It was a little bit difficult walking away. Or separating myself from defy that. I was no longer gonna racist But i kinda would support my family. Friends and so on and Shortly afterwards i ended up going to the track against my will really because my wife Pushed me to go to the track. And that was the best thing that i could have because it really helped me to turn the page in. In all time. I was able to enjoy the racist and just looking at it from a different perspective without feeling a sense of love like oh my gosh i wish i was there. So You as i said in the beginning of our conversation. It's just another chapter in my life. And i'm fully embracing it in and enjoying it as well. Yeah

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"ponti" Discussed on Radio Fajri 99.3FM

Radio Fajri 99.3FM

05:20 min | 8 months ago

"ponti" Discussed on Radio Fajri 99.3FM

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Indonesian passenger jet missing after taking off from Jakarta

DM Radio

00:48 sec | 8 months ago

Indonesian passenger jet missing after taking off from Jakarta

"Air traffic controllers after taking off from Indonesia's capital today on a domestic flight. Indonesian transportation Mr spokesperson at least a devotee, says the Boeing 737 500 Took off from Jakarta at about 1 56 PM and lost contact with the control tower at 2:40 P.m.. A statement released by the airline said the plane was in an estimated 90 minutes flight from Jakarta to Ponti Anna. There were 56 passengers and six crew members on board. You know what you said in a statement that the search and rescue operation was underway, local media reports said fishermen spotted metal objects believed to be parts off a plane in the 1000 Islands, a chain of islands north off Jakarta. I'm serious, Shockley, you can always check out more breaking news. You can read the best analysis. They're both the town hall dot

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Indonesia jet carrying 62 goes missing on domestic flight

AP News Radio

00:49 sec | 8 months ago

Indonesia jet carrying 62 goes missing on domestic flight

"Officials access to jails at passenger jets carrying sixty two people lost contact with air traffic controllers after taking off from Indonesia's capital on a domestic flight Indonesian transportation minister spokesperson added that about the says the Boeing seven three seven five hundred took off from Jakarta about one fifty six PM I lost contact with the control tower at two forty PM a statement released by the alliance of the plane was an an estimated ninety minute flight from Jakarta to Ponti Anna there were fifty six passengers and six crew members on board you know what you said in a statement that the search and rescue operation was underway local media reports said fishermen spotted metal objects believed to be parts of the plane in the thousand islands a chain of islands north of Jakarta I'm sorry I shockingly

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"ponti" Discussed on MyTalk 107.1

MyTalk 107.1

04:11 min | 9 months ago

"ponti" Discussed on MyTalk 107.1

"Maybe they did a lot of heavy petting, but she was engaged. Carlo Party who had gotten divorced from his wife and in 1957 when she took her first trip. To America, where she could be closer to Carlo Ponti was filming something and she went him in September. She was, you know, greeted at the airport. The flashbulbs, you know, she'd been at the comic con Film Festival and And, um Or was going to be there in May. Anyway, she was just like like, really. The red carpet was rolled up. Her in the first party that was given for her was Paramount Studios, and they threw it for her at Romanoff's in Beverly Hills. Swanky supper club and newspapers were there and everybody was there. She was the guest of honor. Fred Astaire was there. Gene Kelly was there. Gary Cooper, the Who's Who and then who comes in late two uninvited party, Jane Mansfield, The busty blonde of this girl can't help it and an early Playboy Playmate. She started over toe Lawrence table, perhaps not completely sober, Sofia wrote in her memoir. Suddenly I found one of her breasts in my plate, and then she shot The American actress Jayne Mansfield, the judgmental glare, which is basically considered the most legendary side. I weave everything right, um and a crafty pop around so God The photo. But there are other photos of Jean Mansfield at that party, her breasts or spilling now parables and Sophia Loren said. I refused to ever autographed people were always showing me that picture. And what do you mean the autograph? I never autograph that photo and, um She said. The what you see on my face is fear. I love them. Okay. I love that. What you see in my face is here in which she had that famous line. Sex appeal is 50% what you got, and 50% of what people think. Thank you have And of course, you know, as far as the legal thing, you know, they were 1962. They were on a warrant for their arrest was issued. They had She and Carlo Ponti. They had all their marriage. Because they got married Italy Catholic Church She the Vatican and Italian law did not recognize it. And I in Italian citizen demanded that they be prosecuted that there he was committing bigamy. So then they had to They had to. They were exiled from Italy, and she missed Italy so much he would drive to the top of the past and Switzerland so she could look at Italy. Then they moved to France, where they became French citizen. In his ex wife got a French divorce that was recognized by Italian law, and then they could legally remarry, and she's written three cookbooks. She won a Grammy. For reading Peter and the Wolf in 2000 and 11, and she keeps a personal diary. She burns at the end of every year she her win for best actress and two woman was the first time an Academy Award in the category was given to an actress in a foreign language film. That happened. And, um, the only time in her life she ever were. White Wedding dress is in the movie house boat when her character marries Cary Grant. She never wore one. So anyway, most of the movie she started in Italy were always comedies to Steph. Why I love it. Her Italian. So anyway, they had some tax troubles. You know. One time she almost died from gas. Fumes while filming the movie legend of the Lost She had a faulty little stove. Oh, wow. She's had quite a life. Quite a life of recommend that movie life ahead makes me want to read her memoir Kidding, even though she's backtrack on Cary Grant, asking to let her All right Now he's one that I just can't get enough of. I know. Thank you. For that. We'll be back. I want.

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How To Spark Romantic Tension Instantly

Write Your Legend

02:30 min | 9 months ago

How To Spark Romantic Tension Instantly

"9 ways to spark romantic tension instantly and this is typically when you're dating a woman Now understand these nine ways are very vital. So listen up to break every single one of them. I've interviewed so many women including women myself here, but also women that I've worked with friends interviews around the world everything that I've done to give you guys some really true insides of a woman's mind besides myself and these are some things that a lot of them mentioned in regards to their dates and number one. Let's talk about body language and the way that you carry yourself so often times in my boot camps, they'll be men that are very timid sometimes because let's just say they're a 35 year old virgin or their twenty-one-year-old guy that is just starting out in Life or newly divorced guy or a guy that gets women but doesn't it's too egotistical like leads from ego. There's so many different things that happen and what's really important is our dialogue is something that is is to Italy intention trigger for a woman. So if we are talking in a low voice on our dates what I've made a lot of you to his videos about we're not owning our own self, right confidence also comes off or demeanor and how we are praising ourselves. So the reason why I talk about our boot camps is because one at a time the lot of times in my boot camps. I'll have men stand in the front and actually yell their name and a every freaking good thing that they think about themselves, even if it's infrequent embarrassing because you own your power. So one of the things that reason why I mentioned that in this video is because if you struggle with this what I want you to do before you go out on date is actually do this, right? So I'm Apollonia up on T. And I love my business. I love what I do for a living. I'm the shit like literally yell this out in front of your mirror. Okay, because what happens is we get the Mind into another Realm To really position yourself as someone more right as someone who is value someone who is meant to be here and a lot of times when we're insecure going into days. We feel like we're not supposed to be here. We feel like we're not meant for this. We feel like it's too good for us. We feel like we're going to f----- it up probably right? So that's number one the way that you come off to a woman in regards to your body language your tonality how you might need moving don't put your hands in your pocket and be nervous all the time be free in your body language go-with-the-flow. Don't give a crap. Like that's why I made a video about why Revolt when you stop caring cuz it's true.

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"ponti" Discussed on Awards Chatter

Awards Chatter

01:35 min | 9 months ago

"ponti" Discussed on Awards Chatter

"And then and then tomorrow we go to the because they are doing a beauty contest. And maybe you're going to participate the confident. We had to have a very streak to a calendar. Otherwise i mean. We couldn't stay in rome for on time. We had to know what we were doing day by day because then we had to leave for solely because no money nothing right. So how did your at one of these. I guess you were. Maybe not even going to participate in one of these beauty contests. I think you were fifteen or sixteen and then you hear from a gentleman whose maybe almost twenty two years older. He's one of the judges. His name is carlo ponti. How did you how did you say. Let him in in the in a in a place where they were doing a contest without knowing because i go just and they was not julia jury and there was jewelry where there was carlo. Ponti and i was sitting at the table with my friends that we were dining there. And i received a little card saying if you if you like. You can participate the contest. We're doing because we are doing a missile. And i said to my friend a girl and her boyfriend. I said what you sing sissoko just go. We have fun okay. i did go. i.

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"ponti" Discussed on Awards Chatter

Awards Chatter

01:37 min | 9 months ago

"ponti" Discussed on Awards Chatter

"That the group together their interest grew together. And that's what kept their their friendship their relationship their love of alive. So you have these two creative film industry parents. And i wondered today. Say to their two sons as they're growing up do they encourage or discourage them from following in their footsteps into this business. Which has you know. It's a tricky business. They say nothing because not because they're smart and because they understand that the way to truly get into the business is to forge your own path into the business. The path is what makes you into the business. The path is how you express your personality your sensibility and how you can convince others that you're sensibility. Is worth investing some money and to make a movie and nobody can can can to create a path for you. The path has to be created by the force of your own conviction into what you feel and so they were smart enough to. Let's say a respect our passions but never find a way to to make that road easier for us or harder for us for that matter but let it so carlo ponti great producers feel a great actress and then son number. Two at wierdo ends up going.

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The Latest News On The War In Yemen

Monocle 24: The Briefing

09:14 min | 10 months ago

The Latest News On The War In Yemen

"War in yemen has been one of the grimmer stories unfolding anywhere on earth for roughly six years now for most of that time it has struggled fool widespread and much more so this year as the rest of the world was preoccupied with the obvious. One of the reasons that yemen has been under reported is that it has been difficult and dangerous to report from monocle. Twenty-fourth beirut correspondent. Leyla moulana alone has recently been to yemen and joins me now a layla. First of all the logistics at this point of getting in and out of yemen. How do you do it. The logistics arch freaky and there are multiple ways now. there awesome flights operating into yemen. And on the way in the way it was done. was through cairo's flying into cairo. And then going into an applet. Who'd you in the south now the flights of neuron a few times a week. They don't necessarily ron time. All hugely overbooked. Of course with people want to go on another extremely expensive as what happened with us. Was that when we lost one can can you then looking out as well because these flights are constantly moving. So it's very unsure when you go in how exactly oh gutting be able to get out and in all case We had to change into a land route option and dry options country which took days because the flights simply went operational on the way out so not necessarily the stable of travel. Itinerary will clearly once in yemen which parts of it. Were you actually able to see so. I was in shabwah. Governorate which is in the south is traditionally very Very tribal governor. At and at the moment it's now the only southern governor this fact compete under the control of the central government it was until the end of two thousand and nineteen ponti occupied by the some transitional council which is the nutritional southern separatists of southern yemen. But they were pushed out at the end of two thousand and nineteen alongside the shabani elite forces which were essentially local mercenaries hired and backed by the united arab emirates. Who of fighting that. They had been fighting against al qaeda terrorists forces that they will push out the two thousand eighteen so it is now backsitting under government control but of course at still a lot of controls over the different parties that some things. That isn't the right decision. So in that part of yemen is life relatively stable and peaceful on the one hand is driving around the capital city act. They're all going up. There are shop opening people walking around. That does seem to be a bishop. Prosperity come back and stuff. People was antony there were jobs hidden now. We can't find jobs in other areas with coming his to work so in on that side of things know that building tourist complex building hotels that very hopeful that the level of stability having now even things like went scoreless Address the that level of civility means that they will have increasing prosperity. The problem of course is firstly that the country as many said to me is still seen as water but also there are a lot of problems with stability they currently have posited is because there is oil. it's one of the three governorates that has a lot of oil in yemen and the governor has made a deal with the central government that they get a twenty percent cut. That goes straight to the governor at so they can invest in rebuilding infrastructure analytical houses in the governor at. That's a great deal. But a lot of people in southfield they should be getting even more not so much of it should be going to the central government that trying to encourage more western oil companies to come back in as also lots of liquid natural gas that the moment there is just one australian oil company functioning on The moment there is just one austrian oil company who is currently can shop. Hope that increase was fired. You enjoy -tunities Very unstable as i say with the political situation still going around. They're all active. Frontlines from the nearest one is in marriage to the north. That's fine with the season is also still frontlines. The southern traditional council as well given everything you've said about life in shaw born those soins reasonably encouraging signs of some sort of return to normality. Does it feel like the government is itself a self contained country at this point. Is there much talk about trying to put yemen back together. So this is the big question with some people are saying shove what is the example of how of federalist yemen could work. You know in which the different governorates level tournament. A certain amount of money to run that own concerns are loyal to a central government and of course contribute troops to a central government. Which is what's currently happening. Lots of shift one young men going and fighting own the nearest frontline that the government has up in a way in tons for its relationship that they have on say. The governor is a loyal to central. Government has a good working relationship barron which she has been given this level of autonomous theoretically that is hopeful future. The problem is that people are fighting for different reasons. This is something people kept saying to me that you know there are some people who had the interest of the money interest of the oil. The pool of calls many people saying that the uae and the arabia of that those reasons. But then you've got some transitional council bay come from a long line of people who believe that the south of the. Nfl is completely different from the nose. Should be united and shouldn't be wrong from the north which causes where at the central government is based although i should say that most of the people who make up the central government actually are outside the country right now because he ended so constantly moving on stable But seth me they're southerners new feel wouldn't at shouldn't be enrolled in the as the south bend. Of course you have. The who fees. Who are the shiite iran backed militia. Who are still fighting in. How occupied a lot of the north of the moment. They are running at sanaa city at the moment still and they of course flight final ideology and copy one of my money as many people said to me that it's not just about these business relationships on the national resources so while the idea the united yemen too. Many people is hugely appealing. And so many people that saying can you with retired war. We want peace. We want elections. We just want to get on with our lives and have yemen stop being associated with the idea of this ongoing horrific war which the united nations is called the greatest humanitarian crisis currently in the world but whether or not that's realistic the number of political issues currently butting up against each other both in tunnel and the proxy wars being fooled by international powers is is another question is obviously not short of problems but it was also burden this year as every country on earth walls by the covid nineteen pandemic. Were you able to get much sense of how that has affected life in yemen or how yemen with the resources it has has been able to handle it so the area i was in has extreme yellow covid figures at least in tons of what's being counted now going in i thought perhaps they simply aren't being counted all covered up in some way. One of the arguments is of course. It doesn't really make sense for the government to be covering up coach. Vic is because it's one way of them getting access to aid. Amy because so much aid money to other projects has been coastal this year because it will bring directed towards codex but in the area. I was in shock whistle. The numbers are extremely loads. They do have a new testing center in the capital of. Its just couple of months old. That's incompletely funded and built by the saudis very center. It isn't getting much use because they don't seem to be that many people coming in now elsewhere in yemen. The problem has been much worse. Part of the reason might be that there is not that much movement in the south. Where's the north in ogden. In saana a further away from that is a lot of moving there and we. Stephanie seen horrific numbers of people really struggling particularly ibp comps. Where who's it spreads wildfire. Now i did meet with several people who said that in the prisons. The situation is getting much worse as well. I spoke a couple of prisoners families who said that they the dominant co code in prison and the conditions were horrendous. They were not being freed Unlike many prisons seeing around the world who've been given a thorough from prison while the coronavirus has been spreading shouts great concern. The big problem really is as i say. That was not much of it to be seen at the moment. But the very worried about Of course we know that in the summer does seeing that the transmission. I'll in the winter. Once that construe immune systems are the health service simply The local hospital is absolutely overwhelmed. Ready mary i was having a den. Gay deng massive outbreak which is affecting a lot of young children in particular from the rural areas. You have to travel hundreds of kilometers to get to the hospital. So although right now where i was as i say not that big a problem if it does hit in the winter and docs saying they're concerned about that. It would be really really devastating. The muslim needs right now. Layla milana allen in beirut. Thanks for joining us.

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"ponti" Discussed on MyTalk 107.1

MyTalk 107.1

04:28 min | 10 months ago

"ponti" Discussed on MyTalk 107.1

"Saturday on my talk one of seven once Let's go. Have a look What? Just affected with us? Harry, How are you today? Oh, my God. Okay, So did you get a chance Raj, CBS Sunday morning yesterday. I need only the beginning. You mean I didn't watch the Sophia Loren part? Okay, so she has a new movie? Yes, I think it's released already that her son directed her in and he came out of retirement. Yes, and one of the photos that they showed you. It was the year that we met her, which I think was 2010 on the red carpet on the red carpet, and she had her glasses on and remember, she had sort of a lace. Yes, in covering her shoulders, and she was with her son, and she just said him waved RAB rack. Oh, she was Such a movie star. I can't you can't you can't even tell you And this was 10 years ago, and she would have been 76 because she's now 86. So she's in this new movie will get the name of anything the life I had the life ahead. And so here is from CBS Sunday morning. Latest. Madame Rosa is a former prostitute who cares for the kids of other sex workers. She lives on the margins of Italian society, much like surrendered growing up in poverty with an unmarried single mom in a suburb of Naples. That's why I made the films. She reminded me a lot about my mother. My mother was absolutely like that inside. She was very Fragile, but she looked strong family connections Do not stop there. The film's director is Edoardo Ponti, her son who's the boss on set. He pretends not to. But he is the body even just pointing. She doesn't need to speak, and it says there's a lot. Eduardo is the younger of two sons Lauren had with her late husband, Carlo Ponti, the movie producer who first discovered her as a teenager in a Rome beauty pageant. Is that it? I believe so. It's not out till fighting about Freddie. Okay? And she was just But the movie looks really good. And she just had She and her son just obviously, you know, adore each other, right? Yeah, that would have been beyond a scandal, you know, but it would happen all the time because Before birth control pills. I mean, you give one of those Italian I mean, men are so persuasive sometime in Europe, the horny point in your life and all it takes is one time and you're pregnant. This would have been like in the thirties on west in Italy. I mean, my goodness so Anyway, she Iike that movie. It looks good. It does. It doesn't good. And here's my Sophia Loren. Trivia question for 100. Please write. I don't know if I'm worrying that right. But what Television show did so feel Aran famously turn down. That was a huge dynasty. Bingo, is it? That's it? I just couldn't think of anything else turned down the part of Alexis Carrington to your Collins was the second pick. Really? Okay? That's a good little trivia. Yeah. Okay. 100 points. Another one that you might another thing you might have missed from CBS Sunday morning. You know how they do their in Memoriam seems the end of the show every week, and I had a Mento. Um, remember this woman's life a couple weeks ago when this happened and that we were so busy remembering one woman's life know we were doing more of the world. I think when Margarito Lippman passed away, but this this lady was something else. Okay, Marguerite Lippman. He passed away at the she died this month or in October, the end of October at the age of 90, and, um, she Woz. The real holly go lightly. She was friends with Truman Capote. And when he wrote breakfast at Tiffany's. It was well known that it was Marguerite that he was writing about because she Was from this very la di dah. Family from New Orleans. Aziz saying, the South the money, name and name with you know what they would talk about it..

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5 TEMPTING Signs She's Emotionally Attached To You

Write Your Legend

05:27 min | 11 months ago

5 TEMPTING Signs She's Emotionally Attached To You

"Five signs that she's emotionally attached to you. Hi guys. I'm a pony Aponte. I am or dating relationship and life coach and I am your coach to help you master your attraction skills better relationships understand love and relationships and better overall your life and we are going to talk about the five tempting signs to know if a woman is an emotionally attached to you now, I want to talk about healthy attach emotional attachment and not too healthy emotional attachment before we get into these signs. Now the signs that I'm going to be providing you are hopefully the five signs of emotional healthy attachment. So healthy emotional attachment means that there's a secure attachment style meaning I have embodied interdependence in my relationship. But I also embody a loving relationship with my partner. There is a difference of attachment hear someone loves their life and loves their relationship and loves their outer World their Hobbies their business, whatever the case may be where they have emotions towards everything. One of these characteristics but one every one of these characteristics is not attached to their own self-worth. Now unhealthy emotional attachment is when someone is attached to you because they are in a toxic relationship meaning manipulative behaviors may happen or that they are emotionally attached beneath their happiness is attached to this relationship. So emotions always kind of go up and down and that's what I'm not talking about here in this video. The healthy signs is what I want to talk about to really get you guys in that state of healthiness and your relationships. Now five signs that she is emotionally attached to you. Number one. She always constantly talks about how she feels about you. She talks about how you make her feel the things that you do great. The things that have impacted her the things that she loves about you and she's constantly feeding basically a log Compliments to you not every woman will do this. Even if they are emotionally attached depends on their love language and also their style of communication, but that's one number two is she is always talk about things that she wants to do with you and the future right? So she's planning something. It could be children. It can be buying a house. It could be moving in together. It could be better in whatever it is. They impact and better your life like as a vision right traveling constantly together. Now, this is not meaning that oh, she sees you as a friend and she's always travelling with you know, I'm talking about when you're in this relationship. There's some type of Seduction that's coming into play there some type of intimacy that's coming into play you have this type of intimacy already established. She is emotionally attached in this way because of that fact that her emotions are showing you that she's providing for an idea of the future right? She's thinking about the future with you number three is showing that a woman is emotionally attached has dead. She questions when she doesn't hear from you, right but in a good way not like where were you last night? That's not what I mean be like babe. I missed you last night. I didn't hear from you. I know you were out with the boys, or I know you were out in your playing chess with your in your competition or playing basketball last night and went to sleep early but I missed hearing from you and she constantly reassured you that she misses you right she misses back from you. She misses XYZ. She misses something about you that is really important because women are very vocal about sometimes how they feel especially if they miss you number four is when she wants to spend a lot of time with you and it could just be time doing nothing time watching Netflix or actually time working out doing activities day-to-day activities. She still has a part of her life, but she also works with you to make sure that you guys spend quality time together that you guys do do things together and number five is kind of like the loved one. Which is what I call is acts of service. So she does things that don't benefit her right that only benefit you that are not selfish for her. They're more things that she's doing for you to make you happy to make your life a little bit easier. Let's say you had a long day of work and she comes home and you come home and she orders something like best dinner, or maybe she makes the best in her for you your favorite Jewish or your favorite thing, right? So for example, I know for my partner he has a big online business and when he has his big days like big webinars big speeches big anything, he loves this song banana nut bread and I make it for him on his big days only because I know he's worked so hard and it's so gratifying to come home or when he's done to eat his favorite meal. So this is what I mean is off service has no benefit to me because man, does it take a lot of time to do but I know it benefits him. So that is what I call there's access service involved where she's emotionally attached and that's a really good sign of a healthy attack. It is when someone else provides but doesn't take away from themselves to make you happy to please you and non selfish acts where they don't benefit from it. It's just to help you get better happier, whatever the case may be and there's a healthy Dynamic of this where they do this and crucial moments, or when they do this and moments that they're proud of you about something and they always constantly reassure you to be that better person.

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No More Mr. Nice Guy | Robert Glover | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti and Natalie Stavola - burst 01

Write Your Legend

28:10 min | 1 year ago

No More Mr. Nice Guy | Robert Glover | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti and Natalie Stavola - burst 01

"She will, you know, she's strong needs to be done. And so the thing that I learned is that a woman can't follow her a man doesn't lead that's true on the Dancefloor. It's is true in relationship. Now that leadership is not dead. Do it my way, you know, it's not about that that kind of controlling dominance. It's just showing up with a plan and having a sense of confidence about you that you know where you're going and you invite the woman to come along same on the dance floor is it I'm not going to ask the woman in between each move every step. Do you want to have this done now? Would you like a cross body move? Should I do a pretzel with you? Should I know I'm just going to lead her and if she likes the way I lead she's going to relax into that and follow and be blessed by that. If you don't like the way I lead single find another partner to dance with that's fine that it works. Well, but if I don't lead we're just going to stand there on the Dance Floor, you know kind of looking at each other until one of us gets bored and walks away. So that leadership is crucial and when I found when guys are trying to figure out what to make what to do make a woman happy and pleased or there's no real leadership. It's like I said be like me asking a woman every move. What do you want to next? do you want today off? And you're laughing cuz I've asked women in front of men. I'm teaching I'll say do you like it? Well, what do you like when your man says what do you want to tonight? You want to go out? Where do you want to go for dinner in the women go is needed to make a decision. Right? But I don't like it. I'll tell you but make a decision instead of times. I've had that argument with with some dating like I forgot to tell you, I don't like that. I'm going to change my mind you're going to say let's get Chinese food and I'm gonna say I want Italian but it doesn't matter. I just want you to make a decision cuz make a decision. Yeah, and that is super hard cuz that goes back to the man same. Maybe I'll do something wrong. And one thing I've been preaching to men for quite some time in marriage therapy. And otherwise, is that a woman's reaction to anything that a man does does not determine the rightness or wrongness of the thing man did write the man says, let's go get Chinese. You said I was thinking Italian he didn't do anything wrong cuz you had a different wage. Opinion on that. So this is you know, the work that I do with men is learning as a you know, start living life on your terms live life the way you want them live it and invite a great woman to come tag along with you to come join in your great life. Don't try to figure out how do I fit into her life? How do I make her happy? How do I make her want to be my girlfriend? I want to suck Ur clothes off. Don't worry about that stuff. You live your great life lead give her the chance to follow now. Here's the thing with that what if they're already in a relationship and all of a sudden? They're learning about this. How long does that take? Do all of a sudden they just come home and they're like, maybe like a big daddy 301 is here is here and she's like in leading this whole time. Yeah. So how does how do you do you get that like that leading birth? That is such a good question. When I wrote no more mister. Nice guy. I wrote in there I said when I started working with nice guys, and and because it does shake up a relationship if they're in one thousand. It shakes up everything, you know, the guy starts setting boundaries or starts asking for what he wants or start saying no or start spending more time with his guy friends, you know starts pursuing his his passion is going to shake things up and and I say in the book that I when I first started seeing this I gave relationships about a fifty-fifty chance that they would survive the the guy doing a nice guy recovery and I write in the book then over time. I started giving it more of a 60-40 that it wasn't going to work. And by the time I wrote book, I'd 7030. I'm about at 8020 now home and you know, we're kind of laughing about it. But the truth is yeah if if a couple of gotten together and fallen into a routine that that is some level is comfortable. Serve them even if it's painful and toxic it could be challenging to break that up. So mental asked me a lot of times say well sure. I show my wife or my girlfriend your book. I'm gonna go by all means, why am a copy, you know, let them have a copy and let them start underlining and writing in it and you tell them what it is that you're wanting to work on and what you're learning and how you want to be in this world. And and you know, do this is a team effort and in my experience. I'm a say in general women like my book, you know, when the book up published. I think the Publishers are thoughts going to create this big controversial but it never did. I maybe have gotten three angry emails from women in twenty years so women like the book cuz it's teaching men can be honest and transparent and and you know good men. Not not just pleasing nice guys. So I have found that a lot of women are really supportive of this work log. I got to visit a couple had worked with a number of years ago. I started working with the man over time and then he met the woman they got married. They're they're like 50, so they're both like second marriage for each of them and they came down to Puerto Vallarta where I live and did some work with me a few years ago and I forgot to visit them about three weeks ago and and the woman said to me says Robert finished that other book you're working on around what I call positive emotional tension women tend to like the stuff that I teach and couples therapy. You know, when I would start with the man just like in dance class, you gotta start with the lead, you gotta show them how to leave where the followers got nothing to lead. So I start with the man and I get the big two-by-four out smack him upside the head and say, okay, here's how women are wired. Here's what's important to them. Here's what most men get wrong. And here's what we're going to work on and usually the women have gone to look at their husbands or boyfriend and go this guy gets women. I like him. And so So when I found his women are pretty supportive of this Dynamic and many men had told me. Hey my wife gave me your book my ex-wife gave me your book an ex girlfriend gave me your book off. So women are spreading the word and they want men that they can trust that they can depend on who will set the tone and Lead who they can open up and Trust. Yeah because it's an honest with themselves and how can they be honest in a relationship if I can't depend on you to open up and tell me like what's going on? What you need? How can we be a team song? Yeah. I'm very obviously have apple and I are huge fans of the book. Yeah, and another point you talk about in one of your chapters and the no more mister nice guy book is with with life in general, right? I am a true believer that women look at sex differently than men look at 6 and men look at sex differently and intimacy is emotional for women, right? So we need our emotional needs to be met off. Order to want to have sex either with our partner or in our marriage whatever the case may be and sometimes those marriages can end up dying down and then we look up as sometimes what I've seen as well is that the men is looking at this as my wife isn't having sex with me. So I need to push for sex in order to feed the validation from within me. Right and so the woman was like, oh, I'm just not there mentally emotionally because of XYZ. I'm going through a hard time in life. And so what happens is he pushes more so than the relationship gets disconnected when they really weren't disconnected really in the first place. Yeah, but since the sex was pushed it was more and then I've seen that Spectrum happened in a lot of you know people that we work with and then the other spectrum is I mean to have sex with my wife in order to know that she's happy. So then he have a guy that's cleaning the house doing things for the kid. I mean, there's been doing everything. I I was a guy at one time. I was I look I did the dishes look at all this and log My zip I did ex-wife would walk in. How come you haven't wipe the counters off and I haven't finished yet. Now we have sex. I've been there. I've been there were boarded the response that is completely different and you actually talk about this in your book, you know, there's there's so many Dynamics the whole, you know, since we're kind of, you know, kind of leaning towards longer-term relationship here. There's so many dynamics that go into this great book by Esther perel called mating in captivity says it actually intimacy and hot sex don't play em together now intimacy mean we know each other really well, we've gotten comfortable with each other. We've got a predictability to our life the thing that most relationship experts Point couples torque. We have great communication. We work things out or great team, but she says that actually works against the polarity of having, you know, really great hot sex. And so, you know, it's almost dead. I don't think we have to choose one or the other. She's not saying that but we do need to know that in those long-term relationships kind of the Mormon that just be together starts to feel routine that starts to take a bath the sex now there's a lot of other things that they can go in to this change. Sometimes it's is the man is is a lazy lover or a city lover. You know, he just thinks poking his partner, you know, Thursday is a way to do it. Sometimes he's using his own emotional neediness and approaching her to get sex like doing the the kitchen thing and now have sex when they have sex with me and what I found is that a women don't necessarily reject the desire their partner to have sex. They reject the neediness. That's behind it. Come validate me make feel okay by having sex with me think they pushed that away off like no women don't want that that that's that hose hooked up to them where their Partners going to, you know, fuck them and say, okay. I'm loved I'm good, you know, whatever other pieces job. Go into this as well part of it, you know going back a little bit of clarity we've touched on is that most women and culture nowadays are in their masculine so much. They're doing all the time. They getting ready to go work. They go to work deal with customers, you know co-workers management, then I got to get back home from work. Now there's dishes to be done dinners. And if there's kids most often parenting is masculine doing the kids need to get their homework done. They need to have a bath and you'd have dinner they need to get the bed and then, you know, the man gets in bed that night gives her a little shoulder rub off and she's going. Oh no one more thing I've got to do and that's how it feels right feels like oh, I gotta do one more thing which is again masculine and the deepest thoughts and desires to be done its to be open and blessed and but if if a woman has been so much in her masculine all day. There's most women off. Good at making that switch. Right? So one of the things that I teach men guys sent, you know say guys new in a relationship or beshi long-term relationship part of our masculine leadership is leading our partner back into her feminine laughter that feminine State and you know, that might mean she comes home. And first thing you say sit down you take you sit down take your shoes off rubber feet say five minutes, you're on the clock tell me about your day. You got my undivided attention and she gets to you know, decompress or feed her being rubbed. This isn't There's No Agenda. If you're right. This isn't the get her in mood for later on if you get her slowed down out of being in that masculine, I put a quote in no more mister nice guy by a lesbian feminist. A lot of feminists don't like her cuz she actually likes men and I'm glad to hear you guys say do too but she's the quote I use it says that the typical woman out. Workplace is just going going and if she doesn't get throttled that back when she comes home. She's going to castrate everything in the home and not because the woman needs to they're just like this needs to be let's get that to you know, it's just like that and so masculine Leadership can be just okay, you know, what are your room change your clothes go put on your sweats, you know, I've said a glass of wine out or go take a bath go read a book go, you know something that let her just get out of that fast. Got to do got a good you gotta do and then often as you said optional needs I think women have a deep need to be heard to seen. I think if a woman knows she's heard and seen that we guys think that might mean listening to them complain all night long and I give an exact. I was dating a woman few years ago. I met her at the mall. She sold me shoes how I met her and so we started dating and so early on some of our dates would go to like a Ruth's Chris restaurant off. And go to happy hour and have a hamburger when she got off work in the mall. There was connected each other so she'd come over and she'd been working all day and and selling shoes or apparel and she just starting complaining, you know, the customers the management of this and maybe if she talked to her mother that day she'd be in a she's always had a pissy mood after I learned after she talked to other so, you know, she'd come in and sit down and be completely I've already got the two glasses of wine in front of us and I realized you know right date. So I just I took my phone out. Like I said, put it out set the timer for five minutes and said we're on a date. I know you just got off work of my undivided attention for five minutes. Give it all to me and like about two or three minutes in she was done it was enough and and then like she and I've had other women thank God for creating that container that they could just decompress get it all out. I wasn't going to fix anything. They just had you know, my undivided attention for x amount of time and dead. Then she could relax and then we'd have a good evening. So that's you know, it's just an example of the masks and Leadership one of the things that I teach all men and I've taught all the women in my life is full of open the door for them, you know, a woman taught me that about fifteen sixteen Seventeen years ago. She just said hey, you know, I never know if you can open my door not just I don't care what you do either open it every time or Dome. Well, no, that's all right. I'm going to open it so car doors office or stored or whatever. I've taught all the women in my life. Wait, I will open the door. I'll come open your I'll put you in the office completely out of the car. Now. The woman doesn't need me to open her door, but it's it creates a little bit of polarity. I'm the doing it done two. It's not a big deal, but I found that it's profound and I found at each guy says do it, but do it consistently cuz the first time you forget to come around and open her door the first time you forget to open again. She's going to just sit there Staffing. They're going. Hey, you taught me this, you know, so so they you know, the feminine wants that consistency, but that little thing I found personally is so powerful my mum even waits for me to open her door. First time. I did it. She said if I waited my dad's been dead for eleven years. So if I waited for your dad to open my door, I'd still be waiting I said, okay, but I'm opening your life. You know, my granddaughter is should be fourteen next month. She wakes up on her door, you know, she loves what she loves One Big Papi comes around so she loves when Granddad, and it opens the door for so now those again, you know, women can open their own doors women can you know probably decompress in their own ways, but I found that say gift we men can get the women with no attachment is not to get them. Okay, you talk about your problems. We're gonna have sex now, right, you know, it's not about that and talking about the pushing for sex on you mention. I teach men never ever push a woman for sex now cuz I'm such a nice guy and I'm you know, you know doing my oh look at me. I'm a good guy because with a few horrible women have been poked at their entire lives. And since yeah, there's a reason hashtag me to exist women have been poked and I have found if a man is in his masculine setting the tone and leading being himself creating polarity. He doesn't have to push a woman for sex. I felt that the women are often sexual aggressor with me since I you know, got divorced twenty years ago and started Living, you know, this way with women every woman I've been with is one in more sex than me. I never put a woman for sex ever, but cuz here's the thing. I tell guys whether they're you know, so first time they're trying to get a woman have sex or long-term relationship if the woman for any reason. And has her foot on the break free. Maybe maybe you're on a first or second date and maybe she's didn't shave down there. Or maybe she's on her. Or maybe she's just not ready yet. She knows she's going to have sex with u age she's just not ready yet. So the foot she goes is going to happen but not yet foots on the brake and I told men if you have your foot on the gas and she knows you're pushing person again doesn't matter if it's a second date or you've been married twenty years if she knows you're pushing for sex and her foot's even just a little bit on the break. Guess what she's going to do now, push harder on the brake and all guys. You don't want a woman pushing harder on the sex break. So pushing a woman for sex. Not only thing is violating but it doesn't serve you. Well in the woman doesn't feel loved and it doesn't Make Her Say Yeah penetrate me. Do me fuk to God. I'm ready there like this song. They're like this so I know that's confusing. The men's we want a formula we want. Okay, tell me the three steps, but I found that if the guy games setting the tone needing creating the polarity inviting the woman into that feminine space. She's the one that's already planning about when they're going to have sex. Yeah you guys on your head. Yeah, that you know is absolutely I can agree with this more. I'm so happy. I hear you saying this as well, you know, Natalie built a products all around this master is called bedroom, and she talks so much about this polarity and there's something that was out and we talked about this very openly it's called last minute resistance and it was something that pushed in to pick up Community back home. And we've had a lot of guys get in trouble for this and it's about pushing the woman to have sex if she doesn't want to and a lot of times what I've noticed too and what you're saying is the energy behind them. Is is relationship or not relationship first or second date? It's the woman will be able to intuitive intuitively feel if you're pressing the brakes or if you're putting the gas on. Yeah. Yeah, if you're off the formula exactly. So if you're pushing excuse me, so it's not about having. Oh I need to do this specific formula. It's about just embodying. You're like you really knowing who you are as a young man and really standing up to that and positioning herself in that way and I tell like men this all the time and I remind them, you know, you as a guy can probably walk outside of a neighborhood. That's maybe not so good at 10:00 at night. But as a Woman by yourself and a black shirt if you wanted to doesn't matter, but as a woman we can't do that without feeling like we're going to be in trouble. I tell mid all the time to really understand what you you're saying right now. I tell men ask any woman, you know that she feel safe walking in her own neighborhood at night well and Thursday No, the majority of women are going to say ha don't do it. And you know, I'll even you know here in Puerto Vallarta where I live see a woman walking at night on a dark Street by yourself. I'm thinking woman. What were you thinking back? And you know again, I'm not saying that in any way justify like what the whole rape culture thing, but women have never felt safe walking the planet and I told men if you understand that women by nature or security seeking creatures and trust is everything. I was actually doing an interview one time with a couple of women on a television show more Middle Ages actually known no Ashok. So I went to the radio Studios was talking to them and I made the comment on a commercial break that I said. tell men I said if you fuck with a woman's trust you're going to fuck with her lust and the new ones that thought. Oh, yeah, you need to say that when we come back from break and I said guys say that on the radio and they go so if you mess with the woman's trust you're going to mess with the woman's lust and it was funny. Probably about two or three years. Years later, I walked into a coffee shop in the area that lived and and one of those women who did the interview was sitting talking to somebody else that I knew was actually she was a dating coach as well relationship coach wage and she wakes Robert you remember me? I said, yeah. Yeah, I did a radio interview with you just I've got to tell you when said that thing about, you know messing with a woman's trust you mess with their lust she goes I'm you know, fifty-something years old been married for thirty years. I went home told my husband that she said as a woman, I'd never put that two and together in my own head that trust was so essential to open sex is vulnerable for a woman you're getting poked and prodded and penetrated in every way and to enjoy that you've got to let go. Let go you've got to trust and I mean women can bypass that they get drunk enough. They can pray fantasy. They can get into you know, some old trauma-related. You know, I'm with the Jersey And it's saying yeah, but to truly open up an experienced the depth of bliss of and when I say penetration, I don't just mean the guy jack hammer in the woman, you know with this 24/7 hard on. It's about the man bringing all of his Consciousness and presents open heartedness and groundedness and passion bringing all of that yet. Natalie's over there. Yeah. Well, yeah more important because that's the thing is like we were talking about before is the masculine energy. Is that penetrating energy, but as a woman it's all interconnected with how we're feeling and letting go of that guard but also if a man is in that neediness energy needing to validate needing to do this in your intention isn't honest behind why you're even trying to penetrate us a pick up all of your energy you're literally going inside of us. So if I'm sitting there dating a guy and I sleep with him and he's got past trauma. He doesn't love himself. He's you know insecure and he's just trying to log Need to have sex with him validate himself. Now. What was that energy in me? I gotta deal with that kind of pick up your energy now like carry on about my day. So when when you are talking about just that simple thing of like when a woman comes home and you're like they there's a glass of wine for you go change into something comfortable. You've got me for five minutes. It's that and there's no intention behind Old Testament know about that right? There is sexy to a woman and why we would be the ones to initiate sex later because that is sexy to us that right. There is a we get to trust you will just break down anything those break that down even more for men cuz social appears that thing. So yeah again, we'll go back. Let's let's talk about a guy on let's say they got into a third date with woman, you know, and he hears like, you know open he gets laid that night, you know, so he's doing all the stuff to push it and and you know as women you of course know you know why we take out right off. To see you naked that's the whole reason we take you out and you know that, you know, you're not dumb, you know, you know, of course you're not, you know, we're ready. We were that special lingerie off likely, you know, so so and and now that's the point. I really want to make, you know, when you're ready. It's going to happen and I tell guys, okay listen. A woman knows within the first 30 seconds of meeting a guy if there's a possibility she's going to wear that sexy lingerie, right? I can't know for sure if she's going to she just knows if there's not a possibility and you know, then all the guys from there they use the nice guy seduction or the pick up stuff or trying to buy you enough drinks hoping that'll yeah with some wage their insecurities and their alcohol issues. It does happen. But the woman know so I tell the guy so you really don't have to make this happen as Chris Rock Says just don't say anything really stupid. Don't mess up. Right. So the woman knows if it's going to happen right or not. She no she doesn't know when but and and you know, because of all the cultural slut-shaming off and have to Cana like, well I want to do it right now, but I'm going to give it, you know, 15 more minutes before I get, you know, put on the laundry because you know, have to culturally blah blah a bunch of noise, but it off What is so so I tell guys think about it this way if she already in her mind is entertained the idea. She's going to wear that lingerie with you. You don't have to push. All you have to do is show up be you, you know, bring that good vibe cuz you women are so sensitive to energy. Yeah. Yeah, I'll be playful be affectionate took her hand and lead her oldest a way for me to open your door invite her into your great life or she gets to see this guy's got a fucking great life. I'm not talking about a great apartment a great cook. I mean those could be part of it. But that you've got friends. You've got a life. You're you're a social animal you you take care of yourself. Let her see that part of your life. You keep getting the tone and leading what I found when I was dating again. I never pushed a woman for sex put never pushed him to get naked, but I am very affectionate and I will set the tone and I will be Adventures. And I will call a woman up and say I'm at your house in 30 minutes be ready to go. I will do those kinds of things. And what I found is then the women put their foot on the gas and and off, you know, either dropping the innuendo about sex or say come over to dinner in my house Friday night, you know, then, you know, she's going to have the lingerie ready. So I tell them don't push cuz you don't have to you don't have to now that doesn't mean I don't tell I tell guys but that don't mean to be passive, you know be know, assert yourself be bold and when the dog opens by all means walk through that door now you may have to do something like, you know, the woman's, you know been making little innuendo you may just have to do the Bold thing and my kind of was all right, you know take your clothes off and go get in my bed. Oh, I can't believe you're telling me what to do, you know what to do. So I tell men her to do what she already wants to do. Now that again that's not like oh you're going to read her mind off. You guys you you gals send the signals when it's time when you're ready. You're not that hard like me use our mouths. We we think you know those thoughts your hand might end up on his crotch outside of his jeans. There's some signal for the guy to say it happens. It happens and for the guy to say, but I've had to say women this is as far we can go in a public setting somewhere else. So if you do that, Yeah, that's amazing. I definitely oh man, this is so good. I'm like my mind is like

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"She will, you know, she's strong needs to be done. And so the thing that I learned is that a woman can't follow her a man doesn't lead that's true on the Dancefloor. It's is true in relationship. Now that leadership is not dead. Do it my way, you know, it's not about that that kind of controlling dominance. It's just showing up with a plan and having a sense of confidence about you that you know where you're going and you invite the woman to come along same on the dance floor is it I'm not going to ask the woman in between each move every step. Do you want to have this done now? Would you like a cross body move? Should I do a pretzel with you? Should I know I'm just going to lead her and if she likes the way I lead she's going to relax into that and follow and be blessed by that. If you don't like the way I lead single find another partner to dance with that's fine that it works. Well, but if I don't lead we're just going to stand there on the Dance Floor, you know kind of looking at each other until one of us gets bored and walks away. So that leadership is crucial and when I found when guys are trying to figure out what to make what to do make a woman happy and pleased or there's no real leadership. It's like I said be like me asking a woman every move. What do you want to next? do you want today off? And you're laughing cuz I've asked women in front of men. I'm teaching I'll say do you like it? Well, what do you like when your man says what do you want to tonight? You want to go out? Where do you want to go for dinner in the women go is needed to make a decision. Right? But I don't like it. I'll tell you but make a decision instead of times. I've had that argument with with some dating like I forgot to tell you, I don't like that. I'm going to change my mind you're going to say let's get Chinese food and I'm gonna say I want Italian but it doesn't matter. I just want you to make a decision cuz make a decision. Yeah, and that is super hard cuz that goes back to the man same. Maybe I'll do something wrong. And one thing I've been preaching to men for quite some time in marriage therapy. And otherwise, is that a woman's reaction to anything that a man does does not determine the rightness or wrongness of the thing man did write the man says, let's go get Chinese. You said I was thinking Italian he didn't do anything wrong cuz you had a different wage. Opinion on that. So this is you know, the work that I do with men is learning as a you know, start living life on your terms live life the way you want them live it and invite a great woman to come tag along with you to come join in your great life. Don't try to figure out how do I fit into her life? How do I make her happy? How do I make her want to be my girlfriend? I want to suck Ur clothes off. Don't worry about that stuff. You live your great life lead give her the chance to follow now. Here's the thing with that what if they're already in a relationship and all of a sudden? They're learning about this. How long does that take? Do all of a sudden they just come home and they're like, maybe like a big daddy 301 is here is here and she's like in leading this whole time. Yeah. So how does how do you do you get that like that leading birth? That is such a good question. When I wrote no more mister. Nice guy. I wrote in there I said when I started working with nice guys, and and because it does shake up a relationship if they're in one thousand. It shakes up everything, you know, the guy starts setting boundaries or starts asking for what he wants or start saying no or start spending more time with his guy friends, you know starts pursuing his his passion is going to shake things up and and I say in the book that I when I first started seeing this I gave relationships about a fifty-fifty chance that they would survive the the guy doing a nice guy recovery and I write in the book then over time. I started giving it more of a 60-40 that it wasn't going to work. And by the time I wrote book, I'd 7030. I'm about at 8020 now home and you know, we're kind of laughing about it. But the truth is yeah if if a couple of gotten together and fallen into a routine that that is some level is comfortable. Serve them even if it's painful and toxic it could be challenging to break that up. So mental asked me a lot of times say well sure. I show my wife or my girlfriend your book. I'm gonna go by all means, why am a copy, you know, let them have a copy and let them start underlining and writing in it and you tell them what it is that you're wanting to work on and what you're learning and how you want to be in this world. And and you know, do this is a team effort and in my experience. I'm a say in general women like my book, you know, when the book up published. I think the Publishers are thoughts going to create this big controversial but it never did. I maybe have gotten three angry emails from women in twenty years so women like the book cuz it's teaching men can be honest and transparent and and you know good men. Not not just pleasing nice guys. So I have found that a lot of women are really supportive of this work log. I got to visit a couple had worked with a number of years ago. I started working with the man over time and then he met the woman they got married. They're they're like 50, so they're both like second marriage for each of them and they came down to Puerto Vallarta where I live and did some work with me a few years ago and I forgot to visit them about three weeks ago and and the woman said to me says Robert finished that other book you're working on around what I call positive emotional tension women tend to like the stuff that I teach and couples therapy. You know, when I would start with the man just like in dance class, you gotta start with the lead, you gotta show them how to leave where the followers got nothing to lead. So I start with the man and I get the big two-by-four out smack him upside the head and say, okay, here's how women are wired. Here's what's important to them. Here's what most men get wrong. And here's what we're going to work on and usually the women have gone to look at their husbands or boyfriend and go this guy gets women. I like him. And so So when I found his women are pretty supportive of this Dynamic and many men had told me. Hey my wife gave me your book my ex-wife gave me your book an ex girlfriend gave me your book off. So women are spreading the word and they want men that they can trust that they can depend on who will set the tone and Lead who they can open up and Trust. Yeah because it's an honest with themselves and how can they be honest in a relationship if I can't depend on you to open up and tell me like what's going on? What you need? How can we be a team song? Yeah. I'm very obviously have apple and I are huge fans of the book. Yeah, and another point you talk about in one of your chapters and the no more mister nice guy book is with with life in general, right? I am a true believer that women look at sex differently than men look at 6 and men look at sex differently and intimacy is emotional for women, right? So we need our emotional needs to be met off. Order to want to have sex either with our partner or in our marriage whatever the case may be and sometimes those marriages can end up dying down and then we look up as sometimes what I've seen as well is that the men is looking at this as my wife isn't having sex with me. So I need to push for sex in order to feed the validation from within me. Right and so the woman was like, oh, I'm just not there mentally emotionally because of XYZ. I'm going through a hard time in life. And so what happens is he pushes more so than the relationship gets disconnected when they really weren't disconnected really in the first place. Yeah, but since the sex was pushed it was more and then I've seen that Spectrum happened in a lot of you know people that we work with and then the other spectrum is I mean to have sex with my wife in order to know that she's happy. So then he have a guy that's cleaning the house doing things for the kid. I mean, there's been doing everything. I I was a guy at one time. I was I look I did the dishes look at all this and log My zip I did ex-wife would walk in. How come you haven't wipe the counters off and I haven't finished yet. Now we have sex. I've been there. I've been there were boarded the response that is completely different and you actually talk about this in your book, you know, there's there's so many Dynamics the whole, you know, since we're kind of, you know, kind of leaning towards longer-term relationship here. There's so many dynamics that go into this great book by Esther perel called mating in captivity says it actually intimacy and hot sex don't play em together now intimacy mean we know each other really well, we've gotten comfortable with each other. We've got a predictability to our life the thing that most relationship experts Point couples torque. We have great communication. We work things out or great team, but she says that actually works against the polarity of having, you know, really great hot sex. And so, you know, it's almost dead. I don't think we have to choose one or the other. She's not saying that but we do need to know that in those long-term relationships kind of the Mormon that just be together starts to feel routine that starts to take a bath the sex now there's a lot of other things that they can go in to this change. Sometimes it's is the man is is a lazy lover or a city lover. You know, he just thinks poking his partner, you know, Thursday is a way to do it. Sometimes he's using his own emotional neediness and approaching her to get sex like doing the the kitchen thing and now have sex when they have sex with me and what I found is that a women don't necessarily reject the desire their partner to have sex. They reject the neediness. That's behind it. Come validate me make feel okay by having sex with me think they pushed that away off like no women don't want that that that's that hose hooked up to them where their Partners going to, you know, fuck them and say, okay. I'm loved I'm good, you know, whatever other pieces job. Go into this as well part of it, you know going back a little bit of clarity we've touched on is that most women and culture nowadays are in their masculine so much. They're doing all the time. They getting ready to go work. They go to work deal with customers, you know co-workers management, then I got to get back home from work. Now there's dishes to be done dinners. And if there's kids most often parenting is masculine doing the kids need to get their homework done. They need to have a bath and you'd have dinner they need to get the bed and then, you know, the man gets in bed that night gives her a little shoulder rub off and she's going. Oh no one more thing I've got to do and that's how it feels right feels like oh, I gotta do one more thing which is again masculine and the deepest thoughts and desires to be done its to be open and blessed and but if if a woman has been so much in her masculine all day. There's most women off. Good at making that switch. Right? So one of the things that I teach men guys sent, you know say guys new in a relationship or beshi long-term relationship part of our masculine leadership is leading our partner back into her feminine laughter that feminine State and you know, that might mean she comes home. And first thing you say sit down you take you sit down take your shoes off rubber feet say five minutes, you're on the clock tell me about your day. You got my undivided attention and she gets to you know, decompress or feed her being rubbed. This isn't There's No Agenda. If you're right. This isn't the get her in mood for later on if you get her slowed down out of being in that masculine, I put a quote in no more mister nice guy by a lesbian feminist. A lot of feminists don't like her cuz she actually likes men and I'm glad to hear you guys say do too but she's the quote I use it says that the typical woman out. Workplace is just going going and if she doesn't get throttled that back when she comes home. She's going to castrate everything in the home and not because the woman needs to they're just like this needs to be let's get that to you know, it's just like that and so masculine Leadership can be just okay, you know, what are your room change your clothes go put on your sweats, you know, I've said a glass of wine out or go take a bath go read a book go, you know something that let her just get out of that fast. Got to do got a good you gotta do and then often as you said optional needs I think women have a deep need to be heard to seen. I think if a woman knows she's heard and seen that we guys think that might mean listening to them complain all night long and I give an exact. I was dating a woman few years ago. I met her at the mall. She sold me shoes how I met her and so we started dating and so early on some of our dates would go to like a Ruth's Chris restaurant off. And go to happy hour and have a hamburger when she got off work in the mall. There was connected each other so she'd come over and she'd been working all day and and selling shoes or apparel and she just starting complaining, you know, the customers the management of this and maybe if she talked to her mother that day she'd be in a she's always had a pissy mood after I learned after she talked to other so, you know, she'd come in and sit down and be completely I've already got the two glasses of wine in front of us and I realized you know right date. So I just I took my phone out. Like I said, put it out set the timer for five minutes and said we're on a date. I know you just got off work of my undivided attention for five minutes. Give it all to me and like about two or three minutes in she was done it was enough and and then like she and I've had other women thank God for creating that container that they could just decompress get it all out. I wasn't going to fix anything. They just had you know, my undivided attention for x amount of time and dead. Then she could relax and then we'd have a good evening. So that's you know, it's just an example of the masks and Leadership one of the things that I teach all men and I've taught all the women in my life is full of open the door for them, you know, a woman taught me that about fifteen sixteen Seventeen years ago. She just said hey, you know, I never know if you can open my door not just I don't care what you do either open it every time or Dome. Well, no, that's all right. I'm going to open it so car doors office or stored or whatever. I've taught all the women in my life. Wait, I will open the door. I'll come open your I'll put you in the office completely out of the car. Now. The woman doesn't need me to open her door, but it's it creates a little bit of polarity. I'm the doing it done two. It's not a big deal, but I found that it's profound and I found at each guy says do it, but do it consistently cuz the first time you forget to come around and open her door the first time you forget to open again. She's going to just sit there Staffing. They're going. Hey, you taught me this, you know, so so they you know, the feminine wants that consistency, but that little thing I found personally is so powerful my mum even waits for me to open her door. First time. I did it. She said if I waited my dad's been dead for eleven years. So if I waited for your dad to open my door, I'd still be waiting I said, okay, but I'm opening your life. You know, my granddaughter is should be fourteen next month. She wakes up on her door, you know, she loves what she loves One Big Papi comes around so she loves when Granddad, and it opens the door for so now those again, you know, women can open their own doors women can you know probably decompress in their own ways, but I found that say gift we men can get the women with no attachment is not to get them. Okay, you talk about your problems. We're gonna have sex now, right, you know, it's not about that and talking about the pushing for sex on you mention. I teach men never ever push a woman for sex now cuz I'm such a nice guy and I'm you know, you know doing my oh look at me. I'm a good guy because with a few horrible women have been poked at their entire lives. And since yeah, there's a reason hashtag me to exist women have been poked and I have found if a man is in his masculine setting the tone and leading being himself creating polarity. He doesn't have to push a woman for sex. I felt that the women are often sexual aggressor with me since I you know, got divorced twenty years ago and started Living, you know, this way with women every woman I've been with is one in more sex than me. I never put a woman for sex ever, but cuz here's the thing. I tell guys whether they're you know, so first time they're trying to get a woman have sex or long-term relationship if the woman for any reason. And has her foot on the break free. Maybe maybe you're on a first or second date and maybe she's didn't shave down there. Or maybe she's on her. Or maybe she's just not ready yet. She knows she's going to have sex with u age she's just not ready yet. So the foot she goes is going to happen but not yet foots on the brake and I told men if you have your foot on the gas and she knows you're pushing person again doesn't matter if it's a second date or you've been married twenty years if she knows you're pushing for sex and her foot's even just a little bit on the break. Guess what she's going to do now, push harder on the brake and all guys. You don't want a woman pushing harder on the sex break. So pushing a woman for sex. Not only thing is violating but it doesn't serve you. Well in the woman doesn't feel loved and it doesn't Make Her Say Yeah penetrate me. Do me fuk to God. I'm ready there like this song. They're like this so I know that's confusing. The men's we want a formula we want. Okay, tell me the three steps, but I found that if the guy games setting the tone needing creating the polarity inviting the woman into that feminine space. She's the one that's already planning about when they're going to have sex. Yeah you guys on your head. Yeah, that you know is absolutely I can agree with this more. I'm so happy. I hear you saying this as well, you know, Natalie built a products all around this master is called bedroom, and she talks so much about this polarity and there's something that was out and we talked about this very openly it's called last minute resistance and it was something that pushed in to pick up Community back home. And we've had a lot of guys get in trouble for this and it's about pushing the woman to have sex if she doesn't want to and a lot of times what I've noticed too and what you're saying is the energy behind them. Is is relationship or not relationship first or second date? It's the woman will be able to intuitive intuitively feel if you're pressing the brakes or if you're putting the gas on. Yeah. Yeah, if you're off the formula exactly. So if you're pushing excuse me, so it's not about having. Oh I need to do this specific formula. It's about just embodying. You're like you really knowing who you are as a young man and really standing up to that and positioning herself in that way and I tell like men this all the time and I remind them, you know, you as a guy can probably walk outside of a neighborhood. That's maybe not so good at 10:00 at night. But as a Woman by yourself and a black shirt if you wanted to doesn't matter, but as a woman we can't do that without feeling like we're going to be in trouble. I tell mid all the time to really understand what you you're saying right now. I tell men ask any woman, you know that she feel safe walking in her own neighborhood at night well and Thursday No, the majority of women are going to say ha don't do it. And you know, I'll even you know here in Puerto Vallarta where I live see a woman walking at night on a dark Street by yourself. I'm thinking woman. What were you thinking back? And you know again, I'm not saying that in any way justify like what the whole rape culture thing, but women have never felt safe walking the planet and I told men if you understand that women by nature or security seeking creatures and trust is everything. I was actually doing an interview one time with a couple of women on a television show more Middle Ages actually known no Ashok. So I went to the radio Studios was talking to them and I made the comment on a commercial break that I said. tell men I said if you fuck with a woman's trust you're going to fuck with her lust and the new ones that thought. Oh, yeah, you need to say that when we come back from break and I said guys say that on the radio and they go so if you mess with the woman's trust you're going to mess with the woman's lust and it was funny. Probably about two or three years. Years later, I walked into a coffee shop in the area that lived and and one of those women who did the interview was sitting talking to somebody else that I knew was actually she was a dating coach as well relationship coach wage and she wakes Robert you remember me? I said, yeah. Yeah, I did a radio interview with you just I've got to tell you when said that thing about, you know messing with a woman's trust you mess with their lust she goes I'm you know, fifty-something years old been married for thirty years. I went home told my husband that she said as a woman, I'd never put that two and together in my own head that trust was so essential to open sex is vulnerable for a woman you're getting poked and prodded and penetrated in every way and to enjoy that you've got to let go. Let go you've got to trust and I mean women can bypass that they get drunk enough. They can pray fantasy. They can get into you know, some old trauma-related. You know, I'm with the Jersey And it's saying yeah, but to truly open up an experienced the depth of bliss of and when I say penetration, I don't just mean the guy jack hammer in the woman, you know with this 24/7 hard on. It's about the man bringing all of his Consciousness and presents open heartedness and groundedness and passion bringing all of that yet. Natalie's over there. Yeah. Well, yeah more important because that's the thing is like we were talking about before is the masculine energy. Is that penetrating energy, but as a woman it's all interconnected with how we're feeling and letting go of that guard but also if a man is in that neediness energy needing to validate needing to do this in your intention isn't honest behind why you're even trying to penetrate us a pick up all of your energy you're literally going inside of us. So if I'm sitting there dating a guy and I sleep with him and he's got past trauma. He doesn't love himself. He's you know insecure and he's just trying to log Need to have sex with him validate himself. Now. What was that energy in me? I gotta deal with that kind of pick up your energy now like carry on about my day. So when when you are talking about just that simple thing of like when a woman comes home and you're like they there's a glass of wine for you go change into something comfortable. You've got me for five minutes. It's that and there's no intention behind Old Testament know about that right? There is sexy to a woman and why we would be the ones to initiate sex later because that is sexy to us that right. There is a we get to trust you will just break down anything those break that down even more for men cuz social appears that thing. So yeah again, we'll go back. Let's let's talk about a guy on let's say they got into a third date with woman, you know, and he hears like, you know open he gets laid that night, you know, so he's doing all the stuff to push it and and you know as women you of course know you know why we take out right off. To see you naked that's the whole reason we take you out and you know that, you know, you're not dumb, you know, you know, of course you're not, you know, we're ready. We were that special lingerie off likely, you know, so so and and now that's the point. I really want to make, you know, when you're ready. It's going to happen and I tell guys, okay listen. A woman knows within the first 30 seconds of meeting a guy if there's a possibility she's going to wear that sexy lingerie, right? I can't know for sure if she's going to she just knows if there's not a possibility and you know, then all the guys from there they use the nice guy seduction or the pick up stuff or trying to buy you enough drinks hoping that'll yeah with some wage their insecurities and their alcohol issues. It does happen. But the woman know so I tell the guy so you really don't have to make this happen as Chris Rock Says just don't say anything really stupid. Don't mess up. Right. So the woman knows if it's going to happen right or not. She no she doesn't know when but and and you know, because of all the cultural slut-shaming off and have to Cana like, well I want to do it right now, but I'm going to give it, you know, 15 more minutes before I get, you know, put on the laundry because you know, have to culturally blah blah a bunch of noise, but it off What is so so I tell guys think about it this way if she already in her mind is entertained the idea. She's going to wear that lingerie with you. You don't have to push. All you have to do is show up be you, you know, bring that good vibe cuz you women are so sensitive to energy. Yeah. Yeah, I'll be playful be affectionate took her hand and lead her oldest a way for me to open your door invite her into your great life or she gets to see this guy's got a fucking great life. I'm not talking about a great apartment a great cook. I mean those could be part of it. But that you've got friends. You've got a life. You're you're a social animal you you take care of yourself. Let her see that part of your life. You keep getting the tone and leading what I found when I was dating again. I never pushed a woman for sex put never pushed him to get naked, but I am very affectionate and I will set the tone and I will be Adventures. And I will call a woman up and say I'm at your house in 30 minutes be ready to go. I will do those kinds of things. And what I found is then the women put their foot on the gas and and off, you know, either dropping the innuendo about sex or say come over to dinner in my house Friday night, you know, then, you know, she's going to have the lingerie ready. So I tell them don't push cuz you don't have to you don't have to now that doesn't mean I don't tell I tell guys but that don't mean to be passive, you know be know, assert yourself be bold and when the dog opens by all means walk through that door now you may have to do something like, you know, the woman's, you know been making little innuendo you may just have to do the Bold thing and my kind of was all right, you know take your clothes off and go get in my bed. Oh, I can't believe you're telling me what to do, you know what to do. So I tell men her to do what she already wants to do. Now that again that's not like oh you're going to read her mind off. You guys you you gals send the signals when it's time when you're ready. You're not that hard like me use our mouths. We we think you know those thoughts your hand might end up on his crotch outside of his jeans. There's some signal for the guy to say it happens. It happens and for the guy to say, but I've had to say women this is as far we can go in a public setting somewhere else. So if you do that, Yeah, that's amazing. I definitely oh man, this is so good. I'm like my mind is like

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Write Your Legend

03:32 min | 1 year ago

No More Mr. Nice Guy | Robert Glover | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti and Natalie Stavola - burst 01

"She will, you know, she's strong needs to be done. And so the thing that I learned is that a woman can't follow her a man doesn't lead that's true on the Dancefloor. It's is true in relationship. Now that leadership is not dead. Do it my way, you know, it's not about that that kind of controlling dominance. It's just showing up with a plan and having a sense of confidence about you that you know where you're going and you invite the woman to come along same on the dance floor is it I'm not going to ask the woman in between each move every step. Do you want to have this done now? Would you like a cross body move? Should I do a pretzel with you? Should I know I'm just going to lead her and if she likes the way I lead she's going to relax into that and follow and be blessed by that. If you don't like the way I lead single find another partner to dance with that's fine that it works. Well, but if I don't lead we're just going to stand there on the Dance Floor, you know kind of looking at each other until one of us gets bored and walks away. So that leadership is crucial and when I found when guys are trying to figure out what to make what to do make a woman happy and pleased or there's no real leadership. It's like I said be like me asking a woman every move. What do you want to next? do you want today off? And you're laughing cuz I've asked women in front of men. I'm teaching I'll say do you like it? Well, what do you like when your man says what do you want to tonight? You want to go out? Where do you want to go for dinner in the women go is needed to make a decision. Right? But I don't like it. I'll tell you but make a decision instead of times. I've had that argument with with some dating like I forgot to tell you, I don't like that. I'm going to change my mind you're going to say let's get Chinese food and I'm gonna say I want Italian but it doesn't matter. I just want you to make a decision cuz make a decision. Yeah, and that is super hard cuz that goes back to the man same. Maybe I'll do something wrong. And one thing I've been preaching to men for quite some time in marriage therapy. And otherwise, is that a woman's reaction to anything that a man does does not determine the rightness or wrongness of the thing man did write the man says, let's go get Chinese. You said I was thinking Italian he didn't do anything wrong cuz you had a different wage. Opinion on that. So this is you know, the work that I do with men is learning as a you know, start living life on your terms live life the way you want them live it and invite a great woman to come tag along with you to come join in your great life. Don't try to figure out how do I fit into her life? How do I make her happy? How do I make her want to be my girlfriend? I want to suck Ur clothes off. Don't worry about that stuff. You live your great life lead give her the chance to follow now. Here's the thing with that what if they're already in a relationship and all of a sudden? They're learning about this. How long does that take? Do all of a sudden they just come home and they're like, maybe like a big daddy 301 is here is here and she's like in leading this whole time. Yeah. So how does how do you do you get that like that leading birth? That is such a good question. When I wrote no more mister. Nice guy. I wrote in there I said when I started working with nice guys, and and because it does shake up a relationship if they're in one thousand. It shakes up everything, you know, the guy starts setting boundaries or starts asking for what he wants or

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Hot and Heavy and Casual Relationships! Why they FIZZLE Out So Fast! | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti - burst 1

Write Your Legend

01:43 min | 1 year ago

Hot and Heavy and Casual Relationships! Why they FIZZLE Out So Fast! | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti - burst 1

"Hot and heavy relationships do come at a price and if you find yourself constantly getting hot and heavy relationships or you're the person that is hot and heavy, I would really encourage you to turn around that microscope and look from within and what's going on here within you and one of the reasons why I say that is because when we tend to. Run Away we continue to lose ourselves more and more in every relationship where we just can hit rock bottom and get very depressed or confused, and in this hot and heavy relationships risen why this happens and a lot of times with women in general why this happens is because women. Want that field they long no matter what women long for feeling just like men too. I. Think of wanting to be wanted wanting to feel -nificant in some way of their beauty. And typically this comes in a physical round. So in hot and heavy relationships, you might have the best sex ever and people are like Oh they mistake this for connection guys. This is not connection. Best sex ever does not mean connection. This is where we have to get. Really. Direct in. Love and relationships and teaching what loving relationship says because. A lot of times in society and what how we've been custom to is to understand that Oh if I have the best sex with this woman, this means that she's the one, but it's not the truth. It means that what other qualities issue offering in life for herself and for you what are her standards? What are the values that you? And is this a healthy dynamic? The both of you have, there's more to it than that.

"ponti" Discussed on Buddhist Society of Western Australia

Buddhist Society of Western Australia

02:18 min | 1 year ago

"ponti" Discussed on Buddhist Society of Western Australia

"It's not the whole of your attention. It's maybe only a quarter attention. And all you're doing. Is Stopping. From the business. To be simply. Present. In this room. If your mind wanders which it will. Just simply bring it back to the breath. Just stopping to simply prison. He's the next room. Just allowing yourself to settle in Gio Ponti. Much time we spend his. Can You bring awareness into your body? Recognizing you have about him. and. You can support that with the body scan. Placing winners the soles of your feet..

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Expectation Hangover! How To Cure Expectations In Life!  | Christine Hassler | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti - burst 01

Write Your Legend

03:03 min | 1 year ago

Expectation Hangover! How To Cure Expectations In Life! | Christine Hassler | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti - burst 01

"Can you kind of go into a little bit more about like when week or clinging to expectations were waiting for something to happen and then we're giving our power away. Yeah. So expectations people often say, well I want to have expectations because I want to have goals and signposts in life. I am Want to have visions of what I want and I'm like well that's much different than expectation an expectation is defined as an eager anticipation for something to happen. It's sort of like I'm an expectation that like someone my prince charming is going to come knock on my door and like everything's going to be great and that's very different than a goal which is a very clear co-creative, you know that we you know that you're co-creating with the universe kind of plan. So when we are in that place of coming from expectations, we are giving our power away because we're waiting for something to happen. We're trying to live up the expectations of others or The elusive expectations of ourselves and it's an out in approach to life of Faith rather than in out. I'd rather not have any expectations of anyone else or myself. I want to have agreements with people. I want to have integrity with myself but expectations. Yep. Waiting for something like my birthday's coming up. I could have the expectation that my husband is going to know exactly what I want to do on my birthday. And if he doesn't get it right waging myself up for disappointment, but I've disempowered myself in that moment because I'm expecting him to know what to do. Whereas I've been very clear but I don't watch prize party. I don't want anything big. This is what I would like now from a demanding point of view, but just from an agreement point of view and said, you're welcome surprise me with whatever but these are the things I for sure don't want and hear the things that I really do want and that's not being controlling that's not being overpowering or domineering it's being really clear because my birthday something that's important to me other things in life. Don't I, you know, I don't have like super big agreements or rules with but if if I'm not clear about it, then I'm just just giving my power away and same thing with even if we want to like Chunk it out from my very specific my new birthday issue to what's going on in the world a lot of us right. Now. I have the expectation that some power power that be whatever that is a sort all this out for us, you know. Yeah Queen covid racial Injustice the politics that are a little you know, like Health Care, there's so many things were environment if we just expect that someone else or some organization is going to solve it for us, then we're giving our power away. But if we actually individually and collectively start coming together with our goals are Visions our plans are agreements, then we become

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"ponti" Discussed on Write Your Legend

Write Your Legend

05:50 min | 1 year ago

"ponti" Discussed on Write Your Legend

"It's like we know that archetype all of us have learned things in our life. Yeah, we asked the question why this happening for me again a great question, but sort of requires us to get into like positive thinking wage, which often is really hard when you're going through something really hard. So for me, I always felt like kind of a positive psychology failure when I couldn't find the silver lining in something, you know, why where I couldn't find that? Well, this is happening for me so I can grow and I can be strong and I can you know, all these amazing things when I was in my hardest moments that was a hard question to ask so that question what I'm learning that that was a question I could wrap my head around it's like, okay, I'm learning. I'm learning how I could be the common denominator in this I'm learning how my behavior and my limbs beliefs cause results in my life. I'm learning how some things from my childhood are affecting me today. And so I just feel like learning is a very empowering place to go off. Especially, you know when we're on those closet floor bathroom moments. We need some up like we need we need a destination that we can get to that's took us ahead but doesn't feel so far off that we feel completely overwhelmed. So that's why I always encourage people like be a student when you're in your expectation hangovers and I'll Define an application hangover. Just so people know what it is. It's when things don't go according to plan or when things go according to plan but you don't feel like you thought would like you get that great job, but you're still not happy or life throws you in a good curveball. I think we could say that twenty-twenty has been an expectation hang. Oh for sure. That's how many ways and so it's in those moments of expectation hangover that when we can really adopt a seeker and a learner mindset then it's we need somewhere other than victim. Yeah, and I find that being a Seeker is a good job. Place to get you from Victim Because if you try to go from victim to Warrior right away again, that's a big stretch. It's a big stretch for going from victim to Seeker. That's awful and I like when you say one of my learning because when I you know, I think that's amazing thing because the reason being in the why that sets so home with me cuz when I was going through change and and we go through change every single day of Our Lives no matter where we are. It's the constant growth life is just about growing constantly and when I ask myself what am I learning? It kind of gives me like I'm taking control like it's more like I've gotten control of this right? So when we get in victim mentality, it's like we don't have control like someone else is getting control of us. So when we say one of my learning not only are we taking control of the situation, but it also kind of makes you look at things differently like your perspective switches like an instinct, especially if you belong And you want the change right? So I'm sure you've worked with clients that you know have been have you ever worked with a client and tell me this I'm very open about this with my clients and I tell them, you know, I I feel a certain way cuz I'm here to help you. I'm going to tell you and have you ever felt when you get on a phone call or Zoom with a client and you're like the energy is just something very off. Like there's a wall or there's a blockage here or she's he or she is defensive. Something is going on here. Do you feel that? Sometimes I do, you know, I especially in the beginning where I am. Now most people have either heard me on a podcast or they there's like already I've been coaching them through books or podcasts whatever. So when they get on the phone with me there are usually pretty aligned. Yeah. I only work with eight people a year now and mostly train other coaches. Yeah, but I can remember a lot and this isn't coaching clients or dating birth. Yes friendship. We can apply this to anything. I definitely have been in that place where it's like there's not an alignment and that's where when I'm training coaches. I always tell them like just because someone was coach with you doesn't mean you want to coach with them. Yeah, it's always a two-way dance and I think a lot of coaches especially when they're starting to build their business. They almost have a sense of well anyone that want to work for me I have take cuz I need to build my business and and the clients interviewing me know you're interviewing the client as well. It's it's it has to be a two-way aligned fit. And I know for me I only work with people this point you have done some some work on themselves and have an openness and a Readiness because trying to get through a brick wall is really hard and I have found that And this may sound harsh and I don't want it to sound harsh. But I have found that usually life and expectation hangovers are the only thing that breaks down people's false. Yes. No, no great, which really can so if you got somebody that's like super defensive and there are a lot of walls up. I suggest saying, you know, why don't you check back with me in 6 months to see where you are because usually if a person's at a point where they haven't hit rock bottom and they haven't had massive expectation hangovers to kind of shatter them and break up the wall as a coach. You're going to spend so much time trying to get in versus working with somebody who maybe has had this expectation hangovers and has had their form of Rock Bottom whatever is and it's like I Surrender I'm unwilling not that a client should ever give up power to a coach. I don't think not at all over there has to be an openness and a willingness and to do things differently. Yeah, and I think that's really important. That's why I love wage. That

Expectation Hangover! Cure Expectations in Your Life! | Christine Hassler | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

Write Your Legend

05:50 min | 1 year ago

Expectation Hangover! Cure Expectations in Your Life! | Christine Hassler | Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

"It's like we know that archetype all of us have learned things in our life. Yeah, we asked the question why this happening for me again a great question, but sort of requires us to get into like positive thinking wage, which often is really hard when you're going through something really hard. So for me, I always felt like kind of a positive psychology failure when I couldn't find the silver lining in something, you know, why where I couldn't find that? Well, this is happening for me so I can grow and I can be strong and I can you know, all these amazing things when I was in my hardest moments that was a hard question to ask so that question what I'm learning that that was a question I could wrap my head around it's like, okay, I'm learning. I'm learning how I could be the common denominator in this I'm learning how my behavior and my limbs beliefs cause results in my life. I'm learning how some things from my childhood are affecting me today. And so I just feel like learning is a very empowering place to go off. Especially, you know when we're on those closet floor bathroom moments. We need some up like we need we need a destination that we can get to that's took us ahead but doesn't feel so far off that we feel completely overwhelmed. So that's why I always encourage people like be a student when you're in your expectation hangovers and I'll Define an application hangover. Just so people know what it is. It's when things don't go according to plan or when things go according to plan but you don't feel like you thought would like you get that great job, but you're still not happy or life throws you in a good curveball. I think we could say that twenty-twenty has been an expectation hang. Oh for sure. That's how many ways and so it's in those moments of expectation hangover that when we can really adopt a seeker and a learner mindset then it's we need somewhere other than victim. Yeah, and I find that being a Seeker is a good job. Place to get you from Victim Because if you try to go from victim to Warrior right away again, that's a big stretch. It's a big stretch for going from victim to Seeker. That's awful and I like when you say one of my learning because when I you know, I think that's amazing thing because the reason being in the why that sets so home with me cuz when I was going through change and and we go through change every single day of Our Lives no matter where we are. It's the constant growth life is just about growing constantly and when I ask myself what am I learning? It kind of gives me like I'm taking control like it's more like I've gotten control of this right? So when we get in victim mentality, it's like we don't have control like someone else is getting control of us. So when we say one of my learning not only are we taking control of the situation, but it also kind of makes you look at things differently like your perspective switches like an instinct, especially if you belong And you want the change right? So I'm sure you've worked with clients that you know have been have you ever worked with a client and tell me this I'm very open about this with my clients and I tell them, you know, I I feel a certain way cuz I'm here to help you. I'm going to tell you and have you ever felt when you get on a phone call or Zoom with a client and you're like the energy is just something very off. Like there's a wall or there's a blockage here or she's he or she is defensive. Something is going on here. Do you feel that? Sometimes I do, you know, I especially in the beginning where I am. Now most people have either heard me on a podcast or they there's like already I've been coaching them through books or podcasts whatever. So when they get on the phone with me there are usually pretty aligned. Yeah. I only work with eight people a year now and mostly train other coaches. Yeah, but I can remember a lot and this isn't coaching clients or dating birth. Yes friendship. We can apply this to anything. I definitely have been in that place where it's like there's not an alignment and that's where when I'm training coaches. I always tell them like just because someone was coach with you doesn't mean you want to coach with them. Yeah, it's always a two-way dance and I think a lot of coaches especially when they're starting to build their business. They almost have a sense of well anyone that want to work for me I have take cuz I need to build my business and and the clients interviewing me know you're interviewing the client as well. It's it's it has to be a two-way aligned fit. And I know for me I only work with people this point you have done some some work on themselves and have an openness and a Readiness because trying to get through a brick wall is really hard and I have found that And this may sound harsh and I don't want it to sound harsh. But I have found that usually life and expectation hangovers are the only thing that breaks down people's false. Yes. No, no great, which really can so if you got somebody that's like super defensive and there are a lot of walls up. I suggest saying, you know, why don't you check back with me in 6 months to see where you are because usually if a person's at a point where they haven't hit rock bottom and they haven't had massive expectation hangovers to kind of shatter them and break up the wall as a coach. You're going to spend so much time trying to get in versus working with somebody who maybe has had this expectation hangovers and has had their form of Rock Bottom whatever is and it's like I Surrender I'm unwilling not that a client should ever give up power to a coach. I don't think not at all over there has to be an openness and a willingness and to do things differently. Yeah, and I think that's really important. That's why I love wage. That

Thailand braces for large anti-government rally

The Economist: The Intelligence

07:00 min | 1 year ago

Thailand braces for large anti-government rally

"Thailand is bracing for a large anti-government protests tomorrow. The Roddy. Shuttled to take place at university, which was the site of a student massacre decades ago and comes after weeks of demonstration's. The best attended was in the middle of August. When more than ten thousand people marched in Bangkok calling for Political Change, PA me-meeting learn how Students have no choice. We can only come out. We don't want to grow up and have kids ask us when the country was facing injustice for you doing. The protests started off largely as student movements. Different groups of young people around Johnson is the economist Southeast Asia correspondent. We've seen them spread actually in into high schools, and now they seem to be gaining traction among a large segment of the population. What can we expect from tomorrow's protests? We've got two different versions of what's going to happen tomorrow. The protesters' who are organizing the rallies. At Thomas, university anticipate fourteen thousand people coming the authorities are trying to poo poo that. And say you know perhaps it'll be half as many will show up even survey not taking any chances. There were also thousands of police who are being marshalled to keep the event in order, and we've just had actually the deputy minister who is extremely close ally of the prime minister is going to be running the operations into that sexually monitoring the rally. Marta who all these protesters and what's the back story how did they get started? There's been frustration building in Thailand for a number of years the current prime minister and many of his closest henchman seized power in a coup in two thousand fourteen and for while they promised that that would be elections but there wasn't actually one until last year and even when that election occurred the current time constitution ensure that. It wasn't really a level playing field for opposition parties who ran against pro-military potties and others who eventually came together in a coalition and one so that Prime Minister Pray Challenge Child at full McCoy leader could stay in power. So many ties were very annoyed that they had the liberties. Ko they waited many years for an election and then it wasn't savvy the first place and then on top of all that. A particularly, Popular Party led by a very charismatic young politician businessman who basic he got fed up with state of Thailand and decided to become involved in politics. The long. The short of it is that the Ponti Future forward was dissolved earlier this year in February, and that was when we first started to see some flashbulbs few street protests and anger starting to build about the current government. What the protesters want is, is it just the reinstatement of the party or something else I? Think the core protest is believed that this is all moved above. And beyond future forward, a lot of the platform and policies that future forward advocating for things that many of the press testers would like to advance in Thailand more freedoms. An end to harassing opposition activists to protest is also want to see parliament dissolved the crucially they know that dissolving parliament might not do much good until there is a new constitution of the protesters unified what they want. So. That is one particularly contentious issue in all of this, and that's the fact that some of the boldest protesters' have called for reform of the monarchy. The monarchy in Thailand is deeply revered. It's Tabu to to criticize the institution and indeed a less. Law provides up to fifteen years in prison for anyone to be in badly insulting the monarch the current monarch. King. Vajiralongkorn or Rama, the tents took over from his extremely popular father who died in two thousand sixteen and it's been a bumpy road since then as a result for the very first time pretesting and are openly criticizing some of the things that King Vigia along his dumb in particular, they are unhappy with the way in which he has poked crown assets in his own name and they are also unhappy about the fact that he has taken sutton important military units under his pulse no command and a lot of those stationed importantly right in Bangkok so how significant these protests the government. The fact that these protests have been growing since the middle of July slowly, but steadily ease programmatic and the longer they go on the bigger the headache this becomes the government, the students specific and not going away. They're not intimidated by the dozens of people who've been arrested for participating all leading, Maranda? What are the army and the government doing about this? So far it seems to have been a case of wait-and-see. We've seen a few dozen protesters arrested particularly the leadership, but we haven't seen any really tough crackdown and given Thailand's. Of cracking down on student protests, quite bloody manner, and in particular here I'm thinking of events in the nineteen seventies. One Fair on love People's minds is. What happens when the establishment runs short on patients with all of this, it's difficult to say precisely what will happen but the chances all dramatic intervention I think. NEVA'S ERA in Thailand Verandah. Thank you. Thanks so much.

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The perfect pandemic garden

Native America Calling

06:24 min | 1 year ago

The perfect pandemic garden

"Today. We are going to start off in Santa Fe New Mexico we have James Edwards with us. He is a Powell. Mc and organic gardening student James's Ponti and my pleasure to have him here with us today. James Welcome thank you Tara. Greetings to all your listeners in our friends and relatives out there Hope everybody's staying safe I've been living here in Santa Fe with my family for about seventeen years now I grew up around a traditional and conventional style Gardening early on in my wife. My Grandmother There in Oklahoma My family also was around that quite a bit and just over the years I moved more towards Gardening at home Especially the more I moved into Embracing more of my culture. You know many of us grew up in the suburbs in urban settings and weren't always able to you know to see that first hand you know gardening methods and not realizing the importance of it to our cultures as indigenous people in all these different regions and I Been focusing mainly on organic and natural methods and again in a suburban setting mostly containers So that to be flexible. You know either if you're moving or you know. Taking advantage of the sun a little micro climates in their yard. You know taking into consideration the needs or the different of the different varieties of different types of plants. You know some do well in shade some do well in full sun and learning all those You know different types. Assure important to your success and there's a lot of lessons that come with all of this in James just hearing some of the routes that you have a no pun intended may be a little Pun In this in why gardens are important this year. Do you feel that your garden is something else. Besides just carrying on that knowledge. Yes it's taken on a new importance for myself my family and for a lot of people out there The endemic situation going on the food chain supply Having hiccups having difficulties There are some shortages of you know usually widely available foods in our supermarkets and we tend to rely on that and so- relying on ourselves more. You know in the sense you know is giving that importance and a combination of traditional and modern methods is contributing to our success as gardeners and being able to fill our freezers. The thrown vegetables To can vegetables and fruits. That's the importance cannot be understated at all. I mean it can't be overstated as the importance for food security especially in places out here in the literal desert where there are many food desserts especially on reservations and Some herbs some suburban areas. Some folks have to go a long way to the grocery store. We're lucky that we're close here in Santa Fe to a lot of you know a veil ability for Farmers Markets and supermarkets and a lot of people. Don't have that and so it's as important to me even though we have that availability is just as important as it is to somebody out on the reservation Well away from supplies and food availability. Sure in we're seeing the other side of that of wind supply. Isn't there and so James. Tell me about what you decided to plant this year. How it's going. How early did you start and we WANNA hear Your Garden Story to? You can give us a call. Share your thoughts. Share your stories at one. Eight hundred nine nine six two eight four eight glad James I use a combination of some commercials varieties and traditional varieties heritage varieties. I my family is in possession of several varieties of corn that might try took from Nebraska Oklahoma when we resettled into Indian territory when we got our agency We were very fortunate there. Several families among the Ponti who are in possession of these Koren's of one being called an eagle corn. It's a very sacred corn syrup. Ponti People There's a lot of hard work done through the Panis Preservation Project Under the leadership of deb Echo Hawk to preserve these varieties and now they're freely available tribal members and even trouble members like us who are away from our home area. They sent him in the mail to us and so I am delving more into the three sisters method. This year and traditionally that's been corn beans and squash. They're mutually beneficial companion planting concepts Like the beans give nitrogen to the corn and the squash. The squashed provides shade to keep the soil moist and the corn provides the stocks for the means to grow up. And I know a lot of people are doing this now. It's catching on all across the country. And so I'm using Ponti Blue Corn. I'm using a man Dan vining squash and I'm using black and white beans. That were I believe. Erroneously called Cave beings by some archaeologists who found some traditional being variety grown by the Pueblos here since their ancestral times. And so I. Have you know several different traditional variety working in conjunction to Create these gardens

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"ponti" Discussed on NewsRadio WIOD

NewsRadio WIOD

03:11 min | 1 year ago

"ponti" Discussed on NewsRadio WIOD

"Michael Ponti and the lovely Stacey good morning good morning good morning good morning Stacey good morning another week another dollar right another day another dollar order weekly so well you're right one dollar we because you get paid for this gig wait a minute are you get I'm not get paid for this gig now nobody's gonna pay for this Dick Emery I get every negotiate M. as a matter of fact if you listen to our sponsors gets us going we are sponsoring the show and well I should say we you are sponsoring the show which aim at for you know I'm very grateful to you for well I think it's important that we sponsor Iran show because we're putting out our information and good information besides for the public and so long as we have that information to provide I think that it will be free for everybody so spread the word we are on the I heart platform a podcast so if you don't hear the show here weekly you can certainly hear us on that as our podcast you know and it's free but think about it though if we were gonna go after sponsorship who would be our sponsors I get people asking me all the time if they could take as on my show but I mean it's not if this is not a money making proposition for me well but it's also it would be giving them a platform for exposure with their commercials because obviously the Greek has a big following well of course of course that's why they want to do it all kinds of people per air conditioning and flooring and and yeah but you know this is going to get the show about promoting other businesses I thought this is just good information well it's great information but I mean are we going to like big time national across the country women would have to go to at least an hour show right the more lines you had less time to talk well this is true but if I mean if I swim make sure this win eight I could stare Stacy for an hour yeah yeah I got a better angle but yeah I know it's a it's a good commercial free except for a couple of spots that you're not you get a little plug in there somewhere it's okay it's okay well you know you're welcome but well thank you I appreciate you for that maybe one day we'll get into the moneymaking portion of this business but for now let's talk about what's going on in South Florida in the Greek world and then in your world might well big obviously South Florida you know big big loss for South Florida was the passing of the great don Shula I'm sure I have the pleasure of meeting time sure did you really yeah of course of course when I was doing the most for the dolphins of course from the don Shula Dan Marino I mean all these guys and because he was older has he carries ninety right was ninety when he passed yes ninety years old yes I use at least eighty when I met him maybe a little older but none the less yeah what a great coach with a great down icon for the NFL for the dolphins in South Florida well he definitely wasn't ambassador Stacey big football fan I am actually here to the Miami Dolphins I was born and raised here so yes very true to my roots plus this is so young this year remember don story I know the name he was a little before my time I will admit that I absolutely.

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"ponti" Discussed on Addicted2Success

Addicted2Success

12:42 min | 1 year ago

"ponti" Discussed on Addicted2Success

"And I'm sure today with Appalachia Ponti I've been following Bologna's work for at least a year and a half now. She has an incredible YouTube channel. Where she hsieh's dating and relationship advice specifically for men that are looking at attracting a beautiful woman alive on also coming from a healthy placed or removing that toxic behavior and really coming from a place where there is no games at a play. It and I just love the way that Appalachia teaches. She's a great leader and she really knows what she's talking about certified in Dating Relationship Coaching. So she's really about you getting results when it comes to dating relationship so at Bologna. I'm excited for you to jump in. Let's jam out on this. This is a huge topic that so many people have so many questions around so let's dive into it. Yeah I'm always excited to talk about the staff. Thank you for having me teach all I really appreciate it beautiful so before you dive into the strategies and techniques and everything else. How did you get into the spaces dating and relationships? Like what was it for you that you like? You know what I think. This is a place I wanNA nell support people in. Yeah so the story short short win story. I'll give you is growing up. I was always attracted to love. I came from a divorced family from parents. That didn't really love each other but argued a lot and the age of seven. I would always ask them other questions about last like why does love me people cry. Why does love make people happy like it's supposed to be happy in the Disney movies? When Cinderella gets her prints? She's happy like why isn't happening in the normal world am always used to tell me like you're always asking about love marriage dating questions relationships when people got older. I even used to eavesdrop on my cousins and relationships on the phone because I was just so interested in not in like being a nosey child but really about love and until the early ages of middle school and high school I would sneak in my room and watch and listen to Dr Ruth. Dr Drew Until three o'clock in the morning. Wake up at six. Am BE SO tired for school. And I was listening to the her. Lie Radio Dr Ruth. I don't know if you don't who Dr Ruth Is. But she is one of the top experts that lead the industry for dating relationships. Oh and she's still out there around ninety years old but she's amazing what she does. So with that said Long term. I got a very successful job of what I thought and private banking in. Vp for a Bank of Egypt. Twenty nine thirty making almost close to seven figures and I was unfulfilled and I would always do. Speech about love and relationships spirituality and things like that and I found myself being unfulfilled and one day I just said I got to do something else. I gotTa do more. And that's what led me to my practice and my purpose was to work with men My relationship with my father wasn't all that great so long story short. I thought about it and I said to myself if I could have helped my father. Of course I would but can only help themselves at the end of the day and If I can help men not be that person that he was growing up with growing up. Then I've done my job and I've served my purpose and that's my mission. Today is just to help. Men Get clear. And there's so much that men need help also to that many as well in regards to this rally person development relationships in love and that's Love that absolutely love it. I love it when you were younger. Used to listen to this stuff. I remember when I was seven years old. I had this book code. Rabbi Michael Jordan and the book talks about habits and his beliefs in his routines and I just remember being so obsessed with this idea that you could improve your life that there were answers in things and that if you applied those strategies exercises that you laugh could change. I just had this this obsession with wanting to grow in it. Sounds like you had the same thing at a young age to. I had SACHIN obsession like it was. It was just not not a teacher. Told me it wasn't normal. One point because I was going through journaling out why my mother and my mother and father were fighting and she found it and talked to my mom saying there. She was in the bad mother basically but it was really my purpose. This is what I would call for. It was generally out why Islam fighting biased out fighting and failing in school because I was just so focused on other people relationships. That is insane. Yeah I used to take that rare Michael Jordan book to say we used to get taken off me because score California's that's such an entrepreneurial thing to write like not focused on schools. Because you have like grander dreams of things that are outside the system. Funny Yeah outside the four walls right absolutely absolutely so. This is so good. I love this conversation and you know I. I know that a lot of entrepreneurs that I speak to her and I can definitely relate to this because this was made not that long ago like I'd say a year ago where a lot of entrepreneurial men specifically will be betraying themselves in relationships. I know everyone across the board can at Times. betray themselves in relationships when we talk about entrepreneurial men what they do typically is they will put that worth in what they have in what they do rather than who they are route. I just remember being relationships. Just overextending all the time and also being mad at myself doing it. But not knowing why I'm doing it unconsciously just giving giving giving spending money luxury trips in the whole Shebang just really trying to impress the go realizing that the respect from the other side was being lost. So let's talk into this because I know this older entrepreneurs that listening right now whether you're male or female to this. How do we really bring a remedy into this? What's your process? Yeah so I think that. Let's start with like why I think this happens just so we can kind of also adapt to the audience. Because I know they're going to have some moments what I'm saying here so a lot of men that are entrepreneurs and especially successful entrepreneurs have success in the life. They know that they've worked hard to get that right. And so what happens is we work hard to get that. We're working living breathing this right and we put pure focus onto our business and then when it's all said and done we sit back more like who. Can WE ENJOY THE SLIP? But yet we forget to relationships dating love it takes work. It takes experience. It's just like personal development. Right you gotta work on attracting the right partner. How do you work on that work on yourself? And then also too. We live in a status quo of environment of men have to be the dominant source and they have to be able to put food on the table and be the breadwinners and and and have established lifestyle. And how all of this and be able to offer it to a woman so then we're learned sometimes that behavior as well and so what happens is I we look at it once we get there were like. I have everything. So what's wrong with me now because I don't have a girlfriend or I don't have a wife or I don't have a relationship that I want or there's a lot of successful men that will come to me and saplings. I don't have a problem with getting women but it's about getting the right woman right. So how do I do? So what am I doing wrong? And a lot of times when we are in that predicament in the entrepreneurship and we're have drive or really settled in our life. What happens is we get into what I call the The prove mentality is like I'm going to prove my worth because as entrepreneurs when we started we had herself really right Gruber Social Audience. Burr selves to be relatable and so many different aspects. And then we think the same thing has to happen in our relationships and then what happens is we get to a point. Where like Oh my gosh. This woman is beautiful. She is the ten choose this model. She's this great this great being or whatever we may think right and what. We don't understand in management women differently. Women are attracted to men because of how they make us feel because of how we operate in the brain men are attracted to women typically A. I love it for that site. Came from from the prefrontal cortex right. How who tractive is she. What does she look like? Okay then after that house the conversations that she has what does she you know. How did she brand herself? Whatever the case may be and then we start implementing the story verse reality which I call it and we've talked about the story like she would be so amazing if this relationship with this girl and we start getting attached to the future outcome which is an illusion and we don't stay present in our reality of how we can show up for this woman so if we don't stay present then we start getting into the prove mentality because we're chasing story and we are idolizing are putting her on a pedestal right. Yeah Oh my gosh. This is crazy. You're cracking the code right now. It's funny because I think men are very much visual creatures right and we stopped making up an idea what we think it's going to be before woman does because I think for a woman and tell me if I'm wrong insane as a woman wants to feel safe so she's almost kind of like testing the waters a bitch. He's not coming to a decision to early Neapolis. She's trying to gauge the situation. A bit more as a guide doesn't have to worry about safety as such and is like diving more into the idea of what it what it could be. Yep One hundred percent you know. That's the number. One thing that women are attraction meter that women get attracted to men stability a mulching control right emotional control within himself and his life which also thrives from security. How is this man to be secure? I mean are typically stronger than women right so our number one thing is we want to feel protected. We want to feel like the partner that we choose is secure. Not only in. I'm going stand up for her. If a guy stands up and I can fight. It's not that type of security all time. We've sometimes don't even need that. It's more of mental security emotional security stability in that aspect as well. I like this. What's your thoughts on High Perga- me? Let's go there because this is something that I've been talking about my friends lately. Preneurs you know you have women that I called at times gold diggers. You have men. That will put. Just they're worth in the material and like flaunt that in to attracts women. Like what's your thoughts around. Hyper Gimme okay so I do believe like okay so for example. I do really believe in a certain type of class right. So here's the thing is people have a right to be attracted to what they want to be attracted to right. So let's say I'm a woman and I make a billion dollars a year right. I might not want a guy that makes fifty thousand dollars a year. I might want a guy that I can also have. That doesn't make that billion dollars but is very successful in his life to right so I do think that it hands on what type of lifestyle that you want number one and also to where people are at life. We can't judge because somebody is author money right or somebody is after a certain type of class in life but also to comes down to the standards right what I call the internal compass. What is it that you want and typically I think with a woman a woman looks for security sometimes in the in the realm of money and sometimes come from past trauma family relationships where she's like? I saw my father. Mother struggled my whole life. I have friends like this. They'll openly admit I will never settle down with a guy that doesn't have his money together right and I think that it is. It's okay and in terms of being realistic in terms of okay. I have standards but I also meet standards within the man that I'm dating so that's why it's important that if you are asking for certain things you also know what. The standards of that man is as limit you know. I think that's also too where a man can also feel like he's being heard and he feels closer in connected to a woman when a woman can also ask an offer up. What is it that you need from me in return? I yes because that does happen. Okay good good good. This is great. I like the fact that you defined it what you said. It's going to be that. If you want these things like you gotta be meeting with your standards to it's like a icon..

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Buttigieg & Sanders lead Iowa caucus result.

THE NEWS with Anthony Davis

02:16 min | 1 year ago

Buttigieg & Sanders lead Iowa caucus result.

"I'm Anthony Davis The Iowa Democratic Party released partial results of its kickoff presidential caucus after a day-long delay yesterday showing Midwestern Matt Matt Pete's Buddha judge and fiery progressive Vermont Senator Bernie Sanders leading the opening contest in. The party's twenty twenty primary season the the results followed twenty four hours of chaos as technical issues MoD the contest forcing state officials to apologize and raising questions about Iowa's traditional a place atop the presidential primary calendar. It was all too early to call a winner based on the initial results but Massachusetts Senator Elizabeth Warren Nine and former vice president. Joe Biden with trailing in the tally of state delegate equivalents according to data released for the first time by the State Democratic Party not nearly twenty four hours after voting concluded but a judge the thirty eight year old former mayor of South Bend Indiana becomes the first openly gay okay candidate to unpresidential primary delegates. He's early strength reflects his aggressive political pursuit of rural and small town voters including some Republicans. Who prefer a more moderate approach to address the nation's political problems? The leading candidates pressed on in New Hampshire which votes in just seven days as billionaire Democrat. Michael Bloomberg sensed oppotunity vowing to double. He's already massive advertising campaign and expand sprawling sprawling staff focused on a series of delegate rich states voting next month the little known technology startup under scrutiny after the meltdown was founded sounded little more than a year ago by veterans of Hillary Clinton's two thousand sixteen presidential campaign who had presented themselves as Gurus of campaigning in the Digital Digital Era Shadow Inc was picked by the Iowa Democratic Party after its leaders consulted with the Democratic National Committee on vetting vendors and security security protocols for developing a smartphone APP used together and tabulates the caucus results Ponti officials in Iowa

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Future of the Labour Party, ICC Investigation, Black-Jewish Relations

People of the Pod

11:35 min | 1 year ago

Future of the Labour Party, ICC Investigation, Black-Jewish Relations

"Liam whore is the Europe editor for moment magazine. It has been covering Labor's antisemitism awesome scandal since two thousand fifteen. He joins us now to help us understand. What's next for that party for British Jews and for the United Kingdom Liam? Thank you so much for joining us. I thank you for inviting me for the most part analysts are chalking up. Labour's defeat to having the wrong message on Brexit but there is is no doubt that Jeremy Corbyn. The Labour leader was historically unpopular. And no doubt that a part of that unpopularity was due to the anti eighty. Semitism that he let grow in the party. Are there grumblings on the far left that Jews are responsible for his defeat. And that's something that British Jews are worrying about. I think what we've seen since the election is people on the far left at Labor constituency meetings and online researching the British Jewish Institutions. Such as the Board of Deputies or indeed the chief rabbi Were in fact stories or conservatives I should say and innocent intervening in the election on their side. That's what he wanted to the things that the board of Deputies hope that the future Labour leader will expunge from the and that is one reason why they've come forward with the ten pledges in recent days. You mentioned the list of ten pledges that the Board of Deputies the kind of umbrella Ella Organisation for British Jews that the Board of Deputies released just a couple of days ago they basically say that these are the ten things or perhaps the first ten things the Labor Party needs to adopt needs to do in order to heal its relationship with the Jewish community. And we don't need to go through them one by one but broadly what are these ten pledges calling calling for. Well as you say broadly the first thing is that Outstanding Cases Anti Semitism in the Party needs to be resolved and the discipline under reprocessed to have to be made independent again and sh- interference from the leadership team sort of around. Jeremy Corbyn in this process must come to an end thereafter. What's I think? What's important folder? The board is to reestablish a working relationship with the leader of your party after all when a function is to be a conduit between the panoply of organizations they represent and and the government Foreign bodies and so forth and finally just add that one of the things they want to see done is that the full I h Ra the definition of Anti Semitism. With all of these examples applauses will be introduced and used in disciplinary cases within the party. That was a major eric. Eric disputes within the party last year or earlier this year. And that's one of the things I want to get done here at. AJC We're very proud of having been a part of authoring during the era definition but for our listeners who aren't familiar with the definition and why it's so important. Can you just say a word about that. Well because of dispute within the party I should say making making more specific is that People on the far left of the party were concerned that this definition would prevent them from Criticizing sizing Israel or Israeli policy. Which of course? He's not well. The definition does he's indicate ways in which rhetoric concerning Israel Israel can tip over into antisemitism I believe for example if people would say that the actions of the Israeli government towards what's the Palestinians in some way resemble the actions of Not Towards Jews in Europe in the nineteen forties So really they had nothing to worry about. But this is all tied to a much larger augmented. It was rambling on throughout the entirety of Jeremy Comex leadership of the Liberal Party concerning anti Israel rhetoric break and wearing that becomes at. You haven't ISM or for example. If someone challenging British Jews were to somehow hold them accountable for the actions actions of the Israeli government. I think that would also be seen as anti Semitic under the IRA definition which is really important. Considering the way that often we've seen across Europe and perhaps in Britain specifically people tried to do that. Try to discredit jus. I think there's a slur that has cropped up in the UK. Zayas people who you you know. They're interested in defaming and demeaning. They don't really have any way to do it except to try to tie them to Israel so I think it's important that the Labor Party adopts the definition in order to make very clear to its constituents that that kind of thing is anti Semitic well quite an in recent days we have an example of that which is that There's no sort of I would say online activists By the name of Rachel cousins. Who goes by the alias? Rachel Swindon who has a following of tens of thousands of people on twitter. It's unclear whether she is or is not in fact a member of the party but she's nonetheless very close to the sort of cold and leadership and in response to the boards pledges. She tweeted that as I previously said that the board was essentially a conservative organization and also came out with is her own or Or perhaps found only list of pledges for the board which more or less argue that the board had to come out and condemn Israeli military action. In the West Bank thank or condemn what she calls the ethnic cleansing of Palestinian communities in in the West Bank in other words as you said holding British Jews accountable for the actions. uh-huh office ready government. which if they at the very least a dangerous road to go down and she somebody who has previous four in this regard having tweeted about the rothschilds and the so-called influence in the past so the point of this is to say that changing the Leo Party is only the first step? They won't be root and branch Tusk to erotic antisemitism from the Ponti it is always interesting to see how those people who take part in what is called the new antisemitism this kind of attacking Jews shoes on the basis of what Israel does how at the end of the day they are also just old antisemites in the way that she brings up Rothschild conspiracies and things like that. I wanted to ask you about one of the pledgers. In particular number eight is entitled engagement with the Jewish community to be made via its main representative groups and then in explains Labor must engage with the Jewish community Levi its main representative groups not through fringe organizations and individuals. That sounds like it's referencing. Something like there's some history there. Can you tell us a little bit about that. Sure I mean I mean Jeremy Corbyn is somebody who was throughout the time he was leader of the party. Never very much interested in the views and concerns all mainstream British Jewish ortganizations. He has historically been in most of the time that he was leader. Always much more comfortable with what the board calls fringe organizations for example He wasn't much interested in The Jewish Labor movement which is sort of the mainstream Organiz ation all Jews in Labor Party or affiliated with the party rather Jewish Voice Labor whose membership I think could fit into a phone box. I mean if you look at their rallies and meetings the the next in the Guardian newspaper. It's always the same ten fifteen twenty people who assigning these latches At the same time At one of the times when the relationship between Jerry in British Jewish groups was was at his lowest he attended a Saito organized by a group called choose. Who are legitimate tendency in the Jewish community and represent people who have felt themselves felt this affiliated pushed away from the mainstream left-wing clock but they themselves I'm sure would say the reps and also a a very small number of people also Jeremy's also been affiliated with sort of anti-zionist ultra Orthodox people who live in his community but he did not have a working relationship with the board he did not have a working relationship with the chief rabbi in so far as I know and not that he had a working relationship with with the Jewish Leadership Council? which sort of is a you might say a rival organization to the Board of Deputies also a representative group so this point eight? This engagement group is really about the board wanting to reestablish Atlantic communication and a working relationship with the party which is sort of one of the sort of raison. d'etre foil for the board. It sells I'm going to move on in just a moment. Kind of forward-looking questions but there is one more retrospective effective thing that I'm curious about. which is what are we to make of people who are real friends of the Jews or certainly seem to be who campaigned for Labor in this last election? I'm thinking of people for example like London. Mayor Sadeq Khan who has said all the right things about anti Semitism done many of the things about about antisemitism but nevertheless tried to make Jeremy Corbyn the next prime minister should we hold that against him. I case if someone likes to Econ we should not hold that against against him and I think I think you know people who reunite kind of position which is to say supposedly oh party but not supposed to Jeremy Corbyn were very torn because the reality is the British electoral system that much like the Americans. There's it ends up becoming a two-party system Elections to the House Elsa parliament more or less function like elections to the House representatives. There are six hundred fifty constituencies. Each insurance becomes its own kind of to race and in many any of them the racist between Labour and the Conservatives and so sort of I would say anti anti Semitic Labor supporters found themselves in a very Korea unenvious position of having to decide. Do I vote for the Conservatives and put into power party that I oppose my entire adult life likely. ooh Aw do I grit my teeth and vote for the Labor Party on the basis that I am somehow voting for the Party and voting for the candidate in my constituency. But somehow not Jeremy Corbyn and I you know I as a journalist. I love about the free in this regard. So I don't have to make such compromises but I nonetheless feel for people who know people like I said Connor or you could answer this people like just flips. Who is now a candidate for leadership who it's not about Anti Semitism in the pause About the kind of compromises. They had to make that time. So no we we. We shouldn't hold I bet against As you intimate in about a month the voting will begin to elect a new leader of Labor this kind of an interesting quirk for our American listeners. The voting voting will actually stay open for more than a month through the beginning of April and people can vote. I guess anytime in that span. Who are the names that we need to know who are likely Lee to win the election and are any of them going to be you know kind of on their own? The answer to Labour's antisemitism problem tackling the antisemitism crisis is not as simple as for lack of a better way of putting removing the head from the snake Having Jeremy Corbyn leader suddenly a good thing because the cost was it the crisis could not be it's solution But in terms of who will become the next leader There this prison time probably two main candidates on the one hand you have Rebecca Long Bailey who is perceived to be the continuity Corbin candidate the date.

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The Pilgrim Trails of Italy

Travel with Rick Steves

08:48 min | 1 year ago

The Pilgrim Trails of Italy

"Hiking for a week or a month on a historic pilgrimage? Trail in Europe has become a popular Peter way for people from all over the world to rejuvenate themselves. It's gotten so that Spain's popular community. Santiago is even starting to feel a little crowded sometimes times. If you'd prefer a quiet or pilgrim route. Italy may have the answer. Sandy Brown and errands Italia have covered hundreds of miles on the historic walking trails of of Italy. And they WANNA help you give it a try. They've recently helped to found an organization called American pilgrims to Italy. And it's designed to help people like you would meet a plan. Pilgrimage hike in Italy in Sandy has written a detailed guide to tracking the way of Saint Francis from Florence to Assisi and then to Rome there joining us now on travel with Rick. Steves Steph's to recommend trails. That Saint Francis may have himself tracked Erin and thanks for joining us. Thanks for having US happiness. So Europe has these these venerable hikes. That are really long and it has these pilgrimage trails. That really have a a a little bit of a different meaning Aaron. What's the difference between just a long multiday hike in Europe that can be famous and established and a pilgrimage? Well to me pilgrimage signifies. This is a long walk to place of spiritual meaning and so to me. The first one that I ever did was the way of Saint Francis and so oh walking along pads in stopping in towns where he had been in there were stories about him had more of a spiritual context to it than just trekking. The camino goes to the supposed tomb of Saint James Ferried in Santiago de Compostela. Yes that would be the goal. People in the Middle Ages walked from Paris all the way to that northwest corner of Spain with that goal in mind Martin. Luther hiked from way up in Germany all the way to Rome. He was told to hike down there. It was kind of personal. What would you call it Sandy? A personal ordeal or a personal. I think you could say a pilgrimage also committed jar and then when he got to Rome he walked up the steps of this Accra scholar on his knees and had quite an experience. Enrollment was life changing for him so life changing that started the reformation. He did a lot of thinking and he got to Rome. I understand when when he got up to the top of those depths he kind of goes. This is all make sense exactly. It's a time when you think about these things. Isn't it now when we think about Italy. You guys are both specializing in Poke Mitch. Trails in Italy Saint Francis would be the the star of these things Send you wasn't St Francis relate to these pilgrimage trails well the VA Francesco Chess. Go the way of Saint. Francis is a modern connecting of the various different sites from Saint Francis Time and so for instance when he had a big experience the stigma experience at Santiago de la Berna. That's connected then with Google where he spoke with wolf and see see where he was born and had his last days. Okay so this is a modern. Lacing together of these stops people who want to get into whether they want to hike an excuse for hiker to actually get into the the whole life in the teaching of Saint Francis they would do this. Walk the name of your book is tracking the way of Saint Francis Triumph floors to CD-ROM. So that's what that would be. And then we hear about the FRANCI. JANA the via French ejecta is an historic walk. And so it's a little different. From the way of Saint Francis in terms of it was put together in the ancient world or in in the Middle Ages actually because there was a priest by the name of Cyrillic that was elevated to the episcopacy and he was supposed to appear in Rome to receive his Palim. which is the symbol of his office and so he walked with a retinue from Canterbury across France Switzerland down through Italy and arrived in Rome and then instructed his secretary to take notes of the way back and those notes were all contained at the Cathedral and Canterbury where they sat for thousand and years and then thousand years later people said well what is this and they put together the Modern Day via French agenda following that same modern modern day Revisit of this now does that relate to canterbury tales at all. It doesn't away because well. In case of Canterbury Tales they were ending at Canterbury Burri and the case of this. They were starting at Cantor. Okay now would. Saint Francis have actually walked on that trail on the difference. You know although it's very possible possible that he walked portions of it in order to get up to the community Santiago Kaz. He did walk. The community. Santiago did only twelve fourteen but the a piece of the way of Saint Francis that's historic that he was summoned to Rome by Pope innocent the third and he walked from. CCD Rome and ended up at the Saint. John Lateran Church. So that's one of the stops on the way of Saint Francis and it follows roughly his okay if you were so inclined you could leave a C. C. N. B. Meditating on in Saint Francis and his teaching and his experience all the way to Rome. That's actually the goal right and then the finishing point would be Saint Peter's or exactly what well we stop at Saint John Lateran But we end up at Saint Peter's then in my book I include the Pilgrimage Churches of Rome. Yeah as an option at the end because there are seven urban historic pilgrim churches. And it's about a twenty five kilometer walk and you hit. All seven of this. Church is quite an interesting walk in modern day Rome but touching on medieval medieval and ancient sites. Sandy Brown is the author of the CICERO trekking guide to the way of Saint Francis and Errands Italia heads and organization that prepares the American travelers to explore the pilgrimage trails of Italy. We have links to their websites with this week. Show at Rick Steves Dot com slash radio so sandy. When you come to Piazza del Popolo I I try to think of it? Like a pilgrim five hundred years ago. Yeah what do you think when you come to Piazza. No Popolo one thing is before you get there you would have crossed the Ponti Mill View. And that's a wonderful wonderful historic place because that's where the vision of Constantine was where the cost went back in three twelve or three ten or something. Exactly yes then and you follow the road in to Piazza del Popolo. And of course would you would say and what I would say. I is go into the Santa Maria Church and look at the car of Agios right right so that's a piece that you have to do and then we would want people to walk along the ancient streets that had toward the Vatican so so there's the street where they made the beads that go on the rosaries uh-huh and that's a street that we'd want people to go and sort of skirts along the top of the You you know a couple of other. Like Piazza NAVONA. Right on the way to Saint Peter's and if you're a pilgrim you would know that I go down this boulevard to that obelisk and then I looked to the left after nicey a dome and then I looked on there and I see a statue and you you would know how to navigate through the city by these long beautiful elegant streets that lead to great landmarks works. Yes and specially the pedestrian streets so by the time a pilgrim gets to Rome. They've walked maybe a hundred or a thousand or seventeen hundred kilometers commodores. So they're also looking for a bed and a cafe and Wanted to do the kind of walk. It'll get him in the most economical kind kind of way to their destination but then when they arrive in Saint Peter's there is a certificate that it can receive if they've walked at least one hundred kilometers. It's the equivalent on the Community Santiago. Is that Compostella. This is called the testimony. I'm okay and so that's a nice treat for us and I was going to ask you about this. I know when you go to community Santiago. You clicked this passport. Talk about the credential in the practical reason for that when you are a pilgrim in Italy heading to Rome so the credential or they called the credence Ya gala. It's of paper. That's like your passport. That's what differentiates you as a pilgrim from. Just anybody else traveling. So certain places. We'll give you discounts on your lodging. If you have your credential in basically every town you stop and you get a stamp along the way and then when you arrive at Your Final Destination Chan that sort of your proof that hey. I'm pretty awesome because I just did this. Really Amazing Walk and these are the stamps to show it in Rome. Is there actually a a regular place that you go and you can. There's there's somebody there and their job is to stamp this credential yes you go to the pilgrims office and I did not have to wait at all we went in. I was walking with with four friends and we arrived. We had to fill out a piece of paper and it was actually quite emotional thinking you know this is. My journey is officially Dinan. I'm filling out this paper showing where I started. And you get your final stamp and then you receive your like Sandy said your testimony them and then you have a souvenir for this gassing to remember and it's probably a beautiful moment

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"ponti" Discussed on Venture Stories

Venture Stories

03:35 min | 2 years ago

"ponti" Discussed on Venture Stories

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"ponti" Discussed on Forever35

Forever35

04:04 min | 2 years ago

"ponti" Discussed on Forever35

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"ponti" Discussed on 106.1 FM WTKK

106.1 FM WTKK

05:16 min | 2 years ago

"ponti" Discussed on 106.1 FM WTKK

"Nine and I mentioned earlier in the program. We're going to spend most of this last hour talking about Elizabeth Warren, and I've got a guest that I brought into studio actually a long time listener my local program. Her name is Heather knife chief and she's native American family belongs to the Ponti tried and when I moved here to Oklahoma probably about ten years ago. I was very naive about native Americans native, American culture didn't know a whole lot Oklahoma's a very special place because you probably have heard of the trail of tears. Well, this is where everybody was forced for the most part at at at gunpoint. And the Elizabeth Warren story is is really big with my listenership. And I wanna talk about a couple of things with with Heather and sort of have a guide us through the the conversation today. So let's start with the the DNA deal with Elizabeth Warren. So walk me through that. So there is really no DNA tests that can prove that you're a part of a specific tribe. There's not enough samples available of native American DNA samples to compare into say, okay. She's part of the Cherokee tribe. She's part of the Ponti tribe. It doesn't exist. The only thing that it can differentiate is if they have any. DNA connected to North America that includes Canada and also down to South America. So it doesn't specify. Oh, yeah. She's part of this tribe. Native American tribes do not use DNA for citizenship. You would only use the DNA fewer questioning the paternity. And maybe you thought your you didn't really know who your father was, but he might have been a citizen of the Ponti nation. You could do DNA test just to establish paternity, which then you could probably get on the roles and be be a citizen of that nation. But that's the only way we would use the it is not used for tribal citizenship. Let's talk about a couple of things here, especially with regard to the Cherokee because that's the tribe. She claims to be a member of or have some blood in her family from okay? They've they've come out a couple of times and said, you're not one of us. They came out like about six years ago. And then they recently came out again, you're you're not you're not you're not Cherokee, and you're not a member of the tribe, and what most people I didn't know this until you told me about it. But most people don't understand is that it doesn't matter. If if there was a DNA test out there that said, she was one hundred percent native American that doesn't make her Cherokee because the tribes and explain this a little more detail because the way you it to me is the tribes are sovereign nations. And they and they alone can grant membership right each each tribal nation has its own requirements for determining citizenship. And it's based on the the treaties that were signed with the federal government and when everything was set up. So we're we basically each tribe can be set up different. But it's all. The federal government make made all the rules in the beginning. So some tribes you have to have both you have to show lineage, you have to show that you came from somebody who's on the roles, and sometimes also require that, plus a certain percentage of blood quantum. I wanna get into that too. What is we'll get a go ahead with your explanation? But I want to get back to the Cherokee nation. They don't have a blood quantum requirement. You only have to show that you are related to somebody who is on the Dawes rolls. The original roles and the Cherokee nation. Out of all the tribes to try to claim to be the Cherokee nation has some of the most extensive records because everything they did was monitored by the federal government. So they have the most extensive records available. And if they cannot find a relative that she is directly descended from she's not she's not a citizen of the nation. Story. I wanna talk about blood quantum to what what is that? Correct me if I'm wrong here that is something the federal government came up with correct? Yes. Okay. So explain what that is. And what what the real purpose behind that was so blood quantum is, basically. So if my dad is quote, full blooded pony Indian, and my mom is Caucasian, then my blood quantum is half. And some some tribes require a certain percentage of of blood quantum in order to be on the roles. So my my grandchildren. Don't meet meet those blood quantum requirements because you have to be at least an eighth to be on the Ponti nation roles. So your your your children are eighth. Yes. But your grandchildren will not be on on the rolls. I thought you told me your mother was a member of the ginger tribe. Caucasian..

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"ponti" Discussed on The Horse Racing Radio Network Podcast

The Horse Racing Radio Network Podcast

01:36 min | 3 years ago

"ponti" Discussed on The Horse Racing Radio Network Podcast

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"ponti" Discussed on The Hilarious World of Depression

The Hilarious World of Depression

02:43 min | 3 years ago

"ponti" Discussed on The Hilarious World of Depression

"Andy Dwyer, the character like to pretend that he was an FBI agent named Burt Macklin, that leaves four suspects. Only one man for this job, Bert, Macklin FBI. Instead, I was retired. They said, I was too dangerous for the Ponti police department turns out they were right and wrong because good God, parks and rec is my happy place and security blanket. And that show really has helped me through some dark times and always puts a smile on my face. My name is Rachel Ambrose, and I live in Bethel Connecticut, positive syndrome, followed Rachel inter kitchen. It's to the point where anytime I'm cooking new recipe for people, I'll get those circling thoughts that say, this is going to be horrible and nobody's going to like it and everyone's gonna hit you from making this horrible thing. Keep in mind. I've been cooking and baking for about ten years now. I've sold my goods for actual physical money and I don't hang out with people who would hate me forever just because dish I made for them was less than stellar. I'm pretty sure those people. Don't actually exist, but tried hung that to my brain. I think my imposter syndrome is really just very mean ploy that my brain does when it thinks I'm stepping too far out of my box or dreaming too big or asking too much. But usually when I do any of these things, it turns out that I'm on the right path, so screw you. Imposter syndrome. Stop trying to hold me back. However run my name is to Buddha, Mbeya, leaving Paris friends. I have none news on daughter to them, and we're not feel ready down. I can atop my sinful flanking that she would be happier with you head another dead to help me going for these wonderful moments. Hi work on the Dacia was born on cupboard there. And when the nurse give her to me two hundred for the first time I told her, hey, on dead, and I'm gonna love you with everything I am and I started sing her. Little by now. It's like no really helps me far. It's my imports syndrome. That's home for me folks in. Remember you are not alone, so turned to keep safe by. Here's a little apropos music. I stumbled on. I searched on Spotify for music about imposter syndrome. And I found this song called imposter syndrome by singer songwriter Sydney, get..

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"ponti" Discussed on Monocle 24: The Globalist

Monocle 24: The Globalist

01:38 min | 3 years ago

"ponti" Discussed on Monocle 24: The Globalist

"Ago i think it was just a around a year ago and you get all this newspaper coverage you know the polls being some wash says somewhat tyson not necessarily going to one's way i think we're hearing similar things head of of this election is that all part of the propaganda this kind of sense there's oh will you know he might not get us you know and i'm gonna come so i wonder what your senses when it comes to people casting their ballots in the voting boxes whatever about his tactics of persuasion those people have opened are they are they doing so actually had a genuine free will or is there a bit about box stuffing going on ah ballots about stuffing but i generally i think you make a good point tell you i think the pe people again who gave to stand a little gateways mickey at a full subpoena and they're talking to kurdish opposition that toiling the liberals that tweet a young people but if you drive into the heartland vanity you find people who genuinely quite passionate luma's religiously passionately pro pro edwin and i think that's why i think he will age it part of it i think it's wishful but only edge will he didn't actually didn't he didn't do as well as he had hoped even on the constitutional change there are a lot of people who are very worried about it but the power of the state on the power of the k ponti and the control of the media and the suppression of dissent et cetera does does give you quite quite quite an age on that so i i think he may find particularly the economic news of that it becomes he his that hybrid of all sport you'll save conservative but i'll give you jobs in a decent economy sunday.

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"ponti" Discussed on 99% Invisible

99% Invisible

01:48 min | 4 years ago

"ponti" Discussed on 99% Invisible

"In the flat land allow because so many places going to a flat here going to afflicting yet they went ganked to closed down a whole block of flats at once but that doesn't mean that they win stresses associated with life in ponti police regularly set up checkpoints to monitor who came in and out of black and white areas of the city when louise family went through these checkpoints his mother would sit in the backseat posing as the families made she'd have to sit in the back was playing the simple as that she set in the back black and coloured people who illegally settled in the inner city also struck a hard bargain landlords would turn a blind eye to the color of the residence skin and residents would have to turn a blind eye to rising rennes and poor maintenance they status of illegality i think with absolutely key critical t the decline because the member you earn illegal payment you have no protection of the little so rates can be ranked at any rain so rent how do you have fought the re he sake and then the race gap even phase you sample it even more inside ponti apartment started to get crowded and grimy plumbing broke down trash began to fill the open core in the center of the building like an oversized concrete garbage can there were giant piles of old mattresses furniture and rubble the venturi legend spread that the trash had piled up so high it reached the 14th story of the building pretty soon banks stopped issuing home loans in the area and white people kept moving out.

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