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The Bachelorette's Mike Johnson Gets Raw About Sex and Dating
"You guys welcome to another episode of Justice Justice of Astor here and I am so excited about my next guest if you guys have TV and don't live in the stone. Age. You've seen this man on the. Bachelorette. You've seen him on Bachelor in paradise and if you're smart, you'RE GONNA go pick up his new book because he is going to be the nets Dr Feelgood please welcome Mike I'm six five in High Johnson. Thank you thank you like that. I might be Dr Feelgood right now let me just give you guys a little bit of a warning. If there's something that you don't understand in this program today, there will be a black man says dictionary at the end of this and we will break down exactly what we're talking about because it true. When two black dudes get together sometimes you don't know what's happening. That's true. That's sure. We're fighting but we're not fighting. You know what? I mean like people don't get it. Not Funniest thing is like when I travel the world I've had friends say every time you see a black Guy Y'all. It's like it's it's a pain is just a band no matter but never met you. You just do it. was there another brother on your? Hand Brown season. Yes, Guston. Devon Johnson was it surprising to you that there were four of you on one season because to be honest before that? I mean there was one and So. I was surprised not allow surprised about it in a happy way. I was really happy too late for it and it was like y'all we gotta represent. You gotta represent we can't. We can't be getting out here like we do not give a physical altercation because we know the headlines GonNa read. So we were happy about but have to be honest it's a lot of pressure sometimes you know for me, I have to watch myself and I can't be as vocal about certain things a lot about certain things and I can't the way I would normally vote because people would say I'm a guy like a angry black guy it should be in the back of reminded it's like I'm amy because this is a dumb ass situation. Right I'm just lucky that you Chad Johnson weren't on the same season. In that. Terrible them my mouth I want might really Oh God 'cause they're not probably. He would evoke emotions. I wouldn't have been good. I'm really mad that you didn't get that. Bachelor in off or was not like I'm mad that they gave it to Peter Webber. I. Did enjoy the Peter Weber of it all but I was ready for you to take over how close was it really I was told the night before they still are unsure. That's what I was told I dunno, the validity of that. I think if Peter hadn't acted out at that bachelor tells all. The final the final rose situation. If he didn't cry, we didn't know barb was it barb wasn't crazy Peter would not have been the bachelor. Let's be real. I will say Mama Liba bars probably better TV them so. She's amazing. She's awesome. TV got lowered. Did. You ever think that you would be on a show like this because you're a good looking guy. Do they you could have found. Ample women no I never thought I would be on a TV show I never was something I was thinking about never watched the Bachelorette. Notice respects on and. I met ladies but I lived in San Antonio Tom I was thinking I'm not GonNa find mop person here. Yeah. I tried all the day naps I did last. Night just have. A crushing you're crushing tender. I'll be. Twice. About it my you're taking down come on Mike. Now. Once or twice out say like that. Just. So you know. With the nod we also can't lie to black. Black the. To Black dudes. And it can get come on man come. And you've got to tell the truth. How did you end up getting involved with the show? No Lotto, my home. I was financial advisers at work not. So my boy I. I just got mad at through my phone and I was like I ain't GonNa Never I'm Never GonNa Parmalat I'm never going to find love like regulation all this stuff he was like Kinda say what you said he was bro what good-looking do girls ever said they wanted me to relationship and I was like. I'm ready like I'm getting old I'm trying to have kids one day. You know in boss up I want I can't wait for the day that I have a son or daughter in like they're dating somebody nine am you'll get it looked good. I cannot wait for that day. So my homeboy said a Africa him dying laughing at me 'cause I said I wanted to be in a relationship. A few months later, he just sent me a facebook casting call. Now I'm upward nothing today. Let's do it and you got it I got lucky. What did you really think about Hannah Brown whenever he saw for the first I thought she was cutie but then I was thinking I knew she was from Alabama and I was. She's Caucasian. I was scared that I wanNA. Get a fair shot at her because she was out in our thoughts I assumed you know we all make Assad assume I assume that She might not like black guys and I was like, well, this sucks best-case but she definitely like the song
‘The Bachelor’ To Start Shooting Later This Month As ‘The Bachelorette’ Wraps Bubble Production
"Update My Cat's Peter Weber proposing to Hannah and sluts at the end of a B C's The Bachelor season 24 last March. Bachelor Nation. Fans know that romance didn't last long, but maybe Matt James will have more luck when seas 25 of the Bachelor begins production later this month featuring James is the first black bachelor, his season scheduled to debut in January season. 16 of the Bachelorette featuring Claire crawling from the Bachelor season. 18 debuts October 13th Christopher Watson ABC News In
"peter weber" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"With Sophie Justin's dogs and she's always see so let me see. Let me see jot. So that's going shop. We heard about shop chopped up all right. Well we're so happy you popped into this thank you wars. We see more so Peter I as I said you know. There's obviously so much more than anyone can never see on the TV show and when people say like they thought the ending was staged in. The finale was staged. I don't think so because like when we met with you in the studio before the season started. We asked you like. What are you hoping from this? What do you want to be known for? And you don't want to be known for a windmill or an inanimate object like I want to be known for having the Best Love Story and unfortunately for your time on the show itself. That didn't happen like yes. You fell in love with a couple girls. You were engaged. Didn't pan out with either of them and I don't think that's anything you expected going into it. I don't think you could have foreseen any of what went down So that's why like watching it. I'm like Dude League no fence but this really sucks like all he wanted was to share his heart and to share this love story with the world. And so you know you're making your own story now away from the TV. We don't know what's going to necessarily happen with Kelly But going back to your time. Obviously it didn't pan out as you thought but I'm sure we all have regrets going through it at at moments but what was your biggest regret and biggest takeaway from being the lead. My biggest regret I think was in a Burmese. So tough to like admit or be okay with because I know the kind of person than I am and at the end of the day I can't change myself to be different but the one thing that Kinda sucked the most I think was me being a little bit too. Infant vetted throughout the entire process. And Not by my foot down in certain situations. I guess doing that could entity Patty second chance. I get a little bit harder but at the end of the day I am who I am and so it's like it's a regret but it's like something. I regret that I would. I would continue to keep making because that's just the person and maybe that's this kind of process wasn't ideal for me being on the side as the bachelor. But that's who I am. I can't change I am And in regards to like what you said about you know yeah. I remember saying that I didn't want I didn't care about any drama is being remembered for this. I wanted to give people because I've been such a hopeless romantic romantic. That story they could live vicariously through in like inspire them like never settled like look for. Hopefully what I was gonna find but even though it didn't work out that way I I still. I hope that it can inspire people just kind of seeing me now on where I'm at and I've always said like I'm not a hopeless romantic. I don't like the word hopeless because I'm the kind of That never loses. Hope that you know what that didn't work in back at work in. There is so much tonight. Go through with that. I guess what I'm still having that mindset that you know the next person is GonNa be my girl and inviting still feel that way after what height is went through a different way inspire. People didn't think was posse going to at the beginning of the season here. Very well said so. I have one last question for you. Being that this is kind of like a redemption podcast for you and I wring right just almost fell down the line. Got Out of the closet saying that this is a redemption podcast for you and we started out the beginning asking you about the corona virus. I WanNa ask you this last question. It's interesting you say empathy because I think a lot of people would have labeled fat that. You're indecisive so that's why I think what you said is very powerful. Because it's like okay. I can see that I can see how you were being very empathetic but a lot of people have labeled you as indecisive. A lot of people have had opinions on you one way or another for various reasons kind of as if I don't want to use certain words but basically if you don't make your own and I've going outside of them saying because of your mom. There's a lot of people have had a lot to say about you that I don't necessarily agree with Beckham. I've had the chance to get to know you. Off of the PODCAST. You're great guy. Your characters outstanding. I mean like you. You send us a voicemail. The other day and I turn to Brian. I was like you couldn't be mad at Peter if you try just good. That's a good person but I felt offensive. You and I've said this before just because I feel like people have a lot to say about you so I just kind of want to give you the opportunity and give you the floor like Becca did at the beginning of this podcast just address it. The people who have stuff to say about you and that you can't make your own decisions in your indecisive. What are you have to say about that? I've heard time and listen. I. I'll admit so a lot of it. I was indecisive in regards a lot of situations. Animal Cave with that because that to me was just showing how out. Well this did work from was working for me you know. I didn't want to fall for multiple women. I didn't want to have these crazy confusing. You know days weeks I had to deal with but I did and so you know I look at the way I look at it. It's like I wasn't indecisive. That a little bit weird because it. Maybe it wasn't working as well as maybe thrown opinion. But that's honestly the that's that's how I look at it In regards to being apathetic in like I know there's a lot of relationships by people like didn't understand why I was maybe possibly enough. I in so many chances are you're not seeing the red flags right away or whatnot and you know an AL's pacific Brazil won with Lake Victoria. I know a lot of backlash on that relationship. Like me going into this. And like I've always been such a proponent for grace and like in a relationship that so important also to be able to give on those beautiful gifts you can give definite. Grazes like is is unwarranted on his undeserved forgiveness. So that's how that was my mindset in a lot of these relationships if you get why was doing what I was doing or whatnot like I was trying to practice at in like you know not just preaching a practice it on so listen. That's still doesn't. I made a ton of mistakes. Fess up to that over and over the biggest one in the one that I hurt my biggest regret I take back was putting hand and what I put her through and like that to me is that I will forever feel horrible about on because I care for her so much but you know through all that I do feel like she's going to be as all the other women myself like we are GonNa still forever grateful for this experience we share together and you know. I never for sure ever regret being the bachelor. That's for sure does the experience I had the lessons. I learned. I'll take with me for the rest of their lives. Unluckily Bathroom Nation as a short term memory. So there's no other showbiz film right now. Are you really arguing in the end of the stick here because you know what I mean until listen to your heart starts? No one's going to be able to talk. What another show so Peter. One last question before we let you get going here the entire season. I think it can be said and Richland. I have said this to like what does Peter One. What do you want in? It might have been different going into the season and it is now but what ultimately do you want in a partner? What are you looking for? That's really gonNA fill you at the end of the day. I want someone that is still want a lot of the same things I wanted from the beginning of the show but someone that you.
"peter weber" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"Just like caught me off guard what let's go drive for. You like play act and do another Telenovela together. That's what you should only take talks. We don't have what it takes to talk. Yeah we'RE GONNA listen. I am an anti tick. Tock Person Becca just join. I can't get I would. I would be worse than you so Kudos to you for doing it. I can't Kelly. Have you been in on any of the other podcasts? Did you do Nacre Caitlyn's with I know she? She was with Caitlin and Ben. Okay can you tell? Can you guys also one thing that you didn't tell them like some juicy detail juicy give us give us something good that we can run with here in exclusive an exclusive boring walk? Have you seen Peter in the shower during this Quarantine Peter? Better in real life or on the show. Oh my God and real light up for him. I was like some parts of them that you saw were like necessarily him let I even use on the show. I was like whatever than their saturated. The Peter the Bachelor Peter and they're saying that I was like no it's true and met him outside of this so much cooler than Cedar. You alert has really safe then when we did show and vice versa. So thank you know absolutely so you feel like if you met Peter. Will you did? Beat him in real life before but like you guys could hit it off. Oh sure yeah I think so. Yeah it's definitely a it's yes it's a compliment. Taken is a fine line to try to be both the same person you see on TV as the same person you are in person so you know well. And that's the thing I think is leads. There's so much that happens. That can't be portrayed on TV and so I think for everyone anyone who's ever been on the show. There's so much more people are way. Funnier or more charismatic than what they come across in. I've met you now a few times in person and Like you really are just this very warm big-hearted like fun. Charismatic Guy that that I think we saw a good part of it on the show. But I think that there's so much more and so you know regardless of what happened throughout the entire season and it didn't pan out. I'm sure as anyone had expected. I think you are on your own path and I'm so happy you are bachelor. I really am yeah. You seem happy like we've talked to a couple of times in studio you're different you're different. It Kelly thanks. She's been she's been even. How many times have you facetime barb young.
"peter weber" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"That's the question we were just asking him. Listen you offered on this show no. You're not awkward. You just spoken. I think you would've Kelly. You're doing because you WANNA capture. The men in their place drew. He's ghetto beckon. I are also to Bachelorettes. Who didn't have a lot of drama on our season because we were kind of like. We're here to do something and it's like it is what it is so you like. It's changed a little bit like in the past couple of years. It's more drama focused. So do they hold onto that they reverse that which unites saying? She's already she's asking the Raw. This yes you can do are you. Do you still have to work right now? I should be working more than I am. But there's little things that I love to do. I just didn't know I mean I don't practice anymore so I'm like. Oh what's what's going on in the legal world. I did finish my. Cle's this proud of myself for finishing their over those ordinary. A official me. It please the court. I'm so proud of you. I'm so proud of you. Look at you two steps away from a courtroom. Tomorrow's go now. We've just been having fun asking questions about and Kelly. You're somebody we wanted to talk to on the show. I feel like we've ha. We've no no. I'm not gonna Hog your time because we've been talking to Peter for an hour and a half at this point in my closet. So's BECO- Jason. Okay well here's a question. Why were you at women? Tell all I honestly don't know no no not at sorry. Why were you? I really don't know I think it's just from the. The only thing that I got was Chris Harrison during an interview saying that they want to throw people off as they thought I was pregnant with Peter's filed or something was that of rumor practice up. Yeah easier with the weirdest crap you guys. I swear. Well Kelly wouldn't wouldn't reach cy young 'cause we were there. We were just watching backstage. We weren't allowed out there which we really want to. But when you were like let us go with Bar. Why are you guys? Keep your back here. You were sitting next to my friend. Kelly. My two guests on the show the Guy. It was a couple that was sitting on my left. Yeah so like. They're big bachelor fans. They do like he does. Espn stuff and he's like we were sitting next to. Kelly was like well. You're welcome. I didn't even plan it. That was so funny. The first time I ever saw her there it was during the first break and then Chris is like hey so I just took Kelly. She's up there and I looked at the waiting. What's it like Asian at that point? Cool hadn't okay. I people think everything happened like before. A shirt didn't get her number until I was saying about Christian name like nothing before well in all fairness you don't really need phone numbers these days. There's so many ways to communicate so Kelly. I'll ask you this question. 'cause we asked Peter when we know that you guys have been quarantined before those infamous. Tmz photos when you decided to say you know what we're GONNA go to the river walk. We're just like fuck it. We're GONNA go. Who Sees it was allowed to not the social distancing? I mean like being out in public ono to be completely honest. I think we're pretty naive in that aspect wearing like two wearing sunglasses and a hat and I guess that just doesn't really work well with clay and destined to I mean like stick out eyesore crazy. This is insane so Katrina who lives in Chicago as well. She sent a picture. Kelly this is insane like those Katrina. Trina on the night one on one with the the the PUSSYCAT L. Let's get started. The name still halfway her she. She is taking a picture a selfie sitting on the river. Walk this crazy and then in the background. It's the three of us with Dustin as well. You could tell what we were wearing other pictures like the leak. We could actually who I thought. Looks like Nina Dobrev Right. Who's that I thought. I is says she looked like some actress and we were. I think that was her okay. She went she was that woman. Okay Yeah I was that with a lot of side I would say well. We'll see your paradise but who knows if paradise is even moving forward. Well Okay let me ask you this because Kelly Peter is being very coy about where your relationship sands. These days of paradise happens in. You could ask. Would you go? I don't I don't think amazed for the show. They're amazing experience but I don't know I don't know how much of a future have them. Well we what about friends? 'cause like I remember coming on I was like I'm gonNA stick to myself. I'm the oldest one in the house. I'm just GonNa read my books. Go on these dates. Do My thing and I was pleasantly surprised that I have friends on the show and that I know will be friends forever was at the same experience you had and if so who are you close to Coming coming off the show. It's funny we are on the show off the show you you gravitate towards other people but yeah I like McKinnon Kelsey everyday and throughout throughout the whole of it airing back you kind of gravitate towards what episode is going on and who you're with on that group date or what happened there you know but I'm friends with with all the girls. I don't have any beef. With any of 'em they have calcium Kenner in the ones that I keep in contact with law will my forever favorite moment of you will be laying back on that bench that twirling. I think Kelly is an entire mood. That is me I was like. I Have Kelly. Kelly's me something. I tell him all the time like. I've listened to podcasts. In the way that you think is very similar to mine like everything usually say I was like spot onslaught on like I get it. I get keep tying him that I was like. Just the way that she thinks is incredible. Like I'm so literally jealous. 'cause you could tell your your super intelligent with everything you say and thank you bought on for. I duNno every big. You know law. School is like a teaches. You a certain way to think more than anything else. But it's nice to hear it's appreciated because it's not appreciated by most. I always say our podcast is a logic. It's not for the hopeless Romantics. You know we're here. It's just like have a discussion and to talk things out and not. Everybody wants to hear that. There are other podcasts. You can go to for that. I will say you watching you and I have loved you the entire season. You're one of our favorites because you're just a breath of fresh air because you are logical. You are intelligent. You speak your mind. You are very articulate but rich. I'M GONNA disagree and I'm going to say the best moment of Kellyanne the season was when you were the Availa. Yes because moment right back up and so good. That was watching the oil. I was like God. She's good and when she changed the script because I'm.
"peter weber" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast
"And especially with him, like you could tell he super smart, and he gets it, but there some things where you just want to shake him and be like wake up like what what are you doing? I don't know why I took it in under took him under my wing, but there's some things that I could see that I could tell he couldn't see and I just felt the need to be like Peter What the hell. Hell are you doing? And especially with him? I could be completely honest with him. Like believe me I. Don't hold back on anything like here's the hard truth on everything whether whether it's mean, Rudy. He doesn't WANNA. Hear it You know he's able to handle it and I like people that are like that I became really close with Kelsey on the show while just before that for that reason like I could speak my mind, and she's not going to sit there and take it in a rude way like I'm not sitting here, trying to be malicious in anything that I do I'm just trying to help them Where did. I mean if that's if that's what you're saying like kind of like drew you in and we get it I've known Peter since he started this whole thing like he's a I've always said he's. He's a nice guy. He's a great guy. There are things that he did not. I mean I told him as a friend been like. That like that's crazy. Like like as a buddy to buddy I would have said like. Hey, that wasn't smart, not that you're ruining. Anybody's live just like not smart. What what? What were the things that you saw? In him that you're like I want to help. And why would you want to help him? I've always said to him to like. I'm always willing to help. If I see I'd rather hang out with someone who has absolutely nothing. They could be like a bum on the streets, but if they have a good heart, I would rather help that person than like pump Cole who you know has everything has to tell you how much you has with him I thought. Thought he has such a good heart and I saw that he was getting manipulated. Every which way and it just kind of pissed me off and again. I wasn't the best contestant for the show and I think everyone knows that, but even with him I on the show see him getting manipulated and I just want to be a. can you stop like make your? Your own decision like stop even in terms with him in him in my relationship on the show you know the first couple the first couple of weeks I saw him like look at me. Differently compared to when we got on a one on one, and I could tell a hundred percent that like producers were in his head, because on the one on one nothing. Nothing happened between us, but he had this like demeanor towards me. That was like so pissed off and I was looking at him like what the hell were you told because you know nothing year for you to have this to have this attitude and so right then and there I knew something was going on behind the scenes and I was like this. Is Bullsh-? So on our one on one which no one really saw. redundantly, saw was i. just called it out. I looked at him and I said. Can I speak freely in? He was like go ahead and I was like Hey Peter let me see you. They locked map in a closet for three hours last week and they won't let me see you said you clearly know. They pushed some people for in. They don't push others forward and I was like you've been in my position before. What do you want me to do? but no, it's just I saw him like things were getting in his head that he wasn't able to make his own decision, and it just kind of pissed me off and I I really don't know because he asked me all the time he was like. Why do you even help me? I really don't know but at the end of the day he has a great heart. And I see that and I think that's something that just like here at Look I. See this i. see that you take it for what it is. Peter. You mentioned earlier that you think that maybe you an Hannah and in challenge you enough in your relationship. Do you feel like you've found your challenger? Sam Nice too. Short Short Answer Nah I just very grateful for. All this and. All the patients that she's at. Me Sam. Well. It's interesting between the you guys, and what seems to be going down between Hannity and Tyler we have a couple of couples to be on or not couples. Sorry not to label it, but we have a couple of people feeling things out that it'll be interesting to see what happens given the amount of. Togetherness time guys that we having Kelly. Thank you for jumping on It's been fun for us to follow the stories. I know it's been crazy. I know you know there's a thousand different opinions, but thanks for coming on the PODCAST. Thanks for talking to us and thanks for looking after this guy. Keep doing your isolation saying. Peter. B before Ashley has a little fun with here. I want to just take a second and talk to you. And ask you one kind of question. We always like to give our guest the opportunity on the indepth episode to Kinda speak your truth to every listening Some people come to. The indepth podcast? In kind of hard place a maybe. Just dark place some people come here just to share they what they're doing. And how happy they are I would love for you to explain kind of again where you're at. And then, where do you want this to go? Like? What now are you hopeful for where you finding hope today? Where do you hope this whole experience takes you? Where do you hope your time with? Kelly takes you in good people I mean I know Kelly's into only when you're spending time with right now. Like where do you hope this this time? A kind of being an isolation goes. This is a minute two minutes have along. You need to just speak to our listeners on who Peter Weber is. GonNa go and how you doing. Yeah I so. Peter Webber has you know. I experienced this so much in this last year. That I'm going to take me up for the rest of my life and You know just every every relationship that I had on the show. You know obviously worked or didn't work..
"peter weber" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"Sitting at four not saving four and that's totally fine but we have different views but for me I guess you say Hindsight's twenty twenty. We'll never know because I'll never be situation again. She says that you're not compatible. She talks about you. You guys not be compatible. Well there's just too many differences you just have to different life styles wrote whether she realized that with you with talking to your family. That was the conclusion that she came to and so she thought it was best to self eliminate actually agreed with that decision. So then we see what happens. Move forward you gauge to Hannah and you break up with Han then the moment you break up with Hannah and what is your thought is your thought. I can go pursue madison or you. Did you reach out to her? Tell the truth because I've seen these rumors that apparently y'all have mutual friends and y'all were hanging out so go ahead. Yeah we we do have a mutual friend. She had met on the first date so one of my close friends from high school. She had met her on that first day to my parents dollar-euro ceremony and they've stayed close and connected. We would talk to that mutual friend. I guess both of us obviously on our own and you know she did it. I did a good job of respecting each other's privacy and not actually wouldn't telling me anything that Madison was saying like. Gee wouldn't he was really respected. And that's why I knew I could trust her to do the same. Did I have win? The relationship ended it was handed. I have thoughts about Reached out I did but I dislike I. That wasn't my place to do it. She had left me. I did not leave her and if anything like that was ever going to happen it was like. I just didn't see how it'd be right for me to go reach out there like shooter you said not me wants and says why it is so prior to breaking up with Hannah and you you yourself had no contact with Madison up until that point correct and then afterwards then I guess I'm confused so we see Chris. Harrison go to Madison. Bring Madison back to you. And you didn't expect to see her. So did you have a conversation with Christophe like yeah. Maybe go get her. Did you know any of this going down? None of that was going down. The only thing I knew about was one of the one of my producers had yours mentioned to me like hey. He sees him pictures Madison's with like a film crew right now I guess. They went to like in Auburn in her hometown and They couldn't tell me what it was about and that's kind of like they just wanted to give me a heads up. Hey you might see some pictures. I don't like freak out like okay but now she thinks she was going to be Bachelorette. Did she think it no? Did you think that I definitely thought there is a chance for that And I did I think? Possibly something could be going on in regards like me. I did but I didn't know for sure. So that's why when she did surprise me. I obviously was very shocked. Did Not expect this year. I was I was told I was GONNA talk to Krista dead and so let me do some bureau looking around and here the heels coming back but and then special Madison Yeah. That interaction was weird. I'll just be honest young. I knew you were caught off guard. I could tell you surprise. But she knew she was coming to see you wrote and it was just off like she didn't seem that excited. I mean she had just seen her say that she still loves you. Obviously you still loved her. You didn't express it then but we learned it. I just and you being the person that you are just just very passionate. Y'All just seem like okay here. We are it just. Didn't seem it was kind of underwhelming Yeah what what what was that. I agree 'cause I even I think even to onstage AF. Are you bought her comments? Like they'd just chemistry didn't really seem there at all. Yeah it was not okay. It wasn't you're right. You're totally right. I I don't know if it was just nerves. It was it was uncomfortable. I it was You guys bring up a really point. Yeah it seemed a little odd angry. Do you think it had something to do with. And and Rachel and I talked about this on the same podcasts that we had Hannah an-and so basically I think my like as a viewer. I felt like I was lacking in that entire ending scenario because basically Madison had removed herself. Because she felt like you guys weren't compatible your lifestyles maybe lineup on. And she just couldn't see a working in the long run so she removes herself at the end only to then come back after talking with Chris and you know she. She told Chris. Like I love Peter who knows where this could go. Let's see so she then comes to surprise you in La but really like what was going through my mind that entire time was that like nothing's changed up until that point lead guests. Maybe she still loves has those feelings but if ultimately she felt like the lifestyles were going to be compatible like that still the case like nothing is any different besides like her saying like Oh. Peter ended his engagement with Hannah. And so I feel like if I were to be you or her and this is me being me and how I would react. I like I probably wouldn't have gone out to La. Because I would have still been like. Okay Yeah you can love somebody at the end of the day. Some relationships just don't work out because you aren't compatible and so for me watching it. I was like what is going on. Because she was very adamant about one thing and that thing is still present but now she's doing something to try and see if it could maybe work it just it didn't line up. I mean we. Yeah what was causing the tension why it seemed off and before you answer to piggyback on with. Becca saying is she eliminates herself because you had been intimate during the same week with another woman and then you propose to a woman you obviously are intimate with her. You Steve Commits possibly spending the rest of your life with this person which is even more than just you know being intimate with women during fantasy week and she can come back after that but not come back but not deal with what she dealt with when the season was going on. Yeah those are good points. I think broke on the second one. I think that probably was a reason that it seemed very uncomfortable and from her. Obviously for me is fly picking up on that body language and just by but I do know that like you know stuff that didn't make it on Air. We had more of a conversation than aired You know she did feel like a little bit uncomfortable in regards to me. It was tough for her to take the fact that I'd been engaged. That was hard for her to swallow and obviously coming out and make an effort. Come in Pasta. See if there's still something here with me was uncomfortable for her. Because she didn't want to be stepping on hand toes and I remember her being very awful bags kept like this one in. Make sure that she if we were going to do this. It'd be like done the right way so I think I get it. It seems a odd. Why could not okay with fantasies week but coming after you know engagement just ended? I definitely think she was uncomfortable about that. But what was she? Did you ask her that question? Yeah and she told me that. She told me in our conversation that she she didn't know the best way to go about this. She had obviously when she had gone back home. She had started really processing everything that had just happened. And you know. She realized that her feelings for me weren't going away. She really struggled that for awhile and.
"peter weber" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"As well and then I guess it was the next week were then she told you. She gave me the ultimatum. Call which wants what it was and roofing revoke but then didn't tell you the she was saving herself for marriage. So that's when things started to change to me because things don't make sense and I think my hope is to get some clarity here because what you guys say and by that I mean you and Madison based on what she does or you do doesn't add up doesn't make they don't match up your words don't match up with your actions and I think that's where I get confused so that I have to deduce like logically. Try to figure out okay. Well then this is what makes sense based on actions actions speak louder than words. So I'm made BECCA UGO and because I'm trying to figure out where I WANNA start with this with this line of questioning to try to understand your relationship with Madison. Well and I think this is a good point. You use the word ultimatum. Rachel and Peter when she threw that out there. You said you know I agree to disagree with you. We haven't had a conversation with you and we haven't had one with Madison yet. I think when that episode aired I believe that week we probably had talked Chris Harrison or something and he gave his take. But it's not you or Madison. And so you felt like it wasn't an ultimatum. But what makes you say that? Because if I were to say that and I feel like I'd just be a hypocrite because the very first night of the entire you know the show. That's opening night in the mansion in my opening. Toast all the women. I asked them to please. Whatever is on your heart always feel comfortable sharing that with me. Don't hold back whether it's good bad ugly. You think it's going to hurt my feelings pissing offered make me happy or you're feeling for me. Please I want this to be an open connection where you can feel comfortable and so yeah it was later way later on in the in the whole journey there but all that Madison was doing. She wasn't telling me you have to do this. Or she simply had something on her heart that she felt. I should know we were in a relationship and in my opinion is completely acceptable for someone to express how they're feeling and if I were to do something it would make it really difficult for them to continue in possibly have to reevaluate. She was never making. You have to do this or that. She said is this is how I feel. I feel like you should know that it's important dating if you do this. Then this right. That's an ultimatum. You can call whatever you want. It doesn't mean that she can't express it to you like to express how she's feeling I you know. I don't want to argue whether it is an ultimatum or it isn't my issue more so is did you feel a certain way knowing that you know you imagine have this relationship you constantly defended her with your family saying you don't know Madison like I do so. Obviously you guys shared a lot. The we didn't get to see and we didn't really see the development of your relationship so did not bother you that she could be so upfront about everything except that no that did and I. I asked her why why she didn't express that stuff to me earlier on why she waited so long and I do think that it would have probably made a difference in policy my actions moving forward. I can't say for sure because I truly wanted to stay so president in intentional with each other to relationships going forward into that week but I yeah I question that and her response to me was an an I I I can understand it. Is the timing of our relationship. Started off with the first eight. We were the very first one on one. Maybe not something you bring up on the very first date when percents on okay so it wasn't going to happen there. Group dates during the daytime doesn't happen. You're having time doing something in the night. Portions if you do see the person because not always guaranteed. It's a quick maybe It's not necessarily super super allowable have like a really deep imports conversation either. A house there. The next day was the one on one was in Peru and we had an amazing the part of the day and the night portion. She did open up a lot to me about Stephen's perfect and she could have brought it up there. I could've seen that one opportunity for her to do if she wanted to. I think I may be actually told me. She's like I wasn't expecting you to Kinda like have the conversation go that way when I express that was falling in love with her. I think I might have thrown off a little bit in regards to what she wanted to get out. Maybe maybe not on and then it just to be honest with you look for the Times where could have been really appropriate. It'd be don't get time off camera for her. To told me it was kind of difficult. Just how the timing worked out. Do you think religion is a difficult conversation to discuss with someone when you don't know what their belief is exactly. I do too and when she had that second date with you thought. Wow good for her. This is what I believe. This is my faith. This is what I want out of a husband and to me. It was the golden opportunity to express all of it. And that's why I'm very curious as to what you thought about that because I thought why would you hold that back? You have admitted that it probably would have affected your decision moving forward. You don't know for sure because hindsight we restore now but it would have made you kinda go Okay that's that's I wasn't expecting that especially since you were. You said you wanted the women to be open from night. One and you gave that speech to the women that first night you also very honest with them. You're a very open person. Intimate believe in having that intimacy with your significant other. And you don't you don't hold back from that. I mean even in front of your family so I think my question was when when she said when she didn't tell you but then as the from the audience we knew at that point that she was saving herself for marriage. I just didn't think that it was fair to go on the season with a man who has expresed is sexual as expressed. That intimacy is important to him..
"peter weber" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast
"Physical anything going on that closeness in wake up with your person, the next morning is stuff that's important for me in a relationship, so there's a lot of things that people didn't know that we just weren't compatible with. The, Peter I think that's where. One of the things that I want your opinion on. Is You know we watched the season before? With Luke Parker and he had he had some similar like kind of put my foot in the ground. feelings on faith and their convictions, and their morals and kind of the choices they are making, and then we get. The mattie and people were comparing the two, but it felt like your response to Mattie. Bringing these concerns was different than Hannah Bees it felt like you were. We're not angry as much or you know you are off. What what do you think? The biggest difference was between the the way the Mattie and Luke approached it was one and you know everybody talks about the double standard here. Do you believe there is one or do you believe it's different? No different and I think yeah. They were totally differently. I think everyone thinks that Madison gave me an ultimatum to this day I. Don't feel like she ever gave ultimatum. She literally just expressed the me. What was on her heart? Something I asked them to do the first night in the mansion and You know she didn't say you have to do. She said this is going to be difficult for me and I want you to know that I thought she approached it in the best way possible. The only critique guy could have for her was possibly doing it sooner in the process in maybe a little bit more open with the virginity in extended. Film with me, but that is in my opinion, completely different than anything with Luke and Hannah One one hundred percent and. I don't compare the to at all. I think this is the thing that viewers. As viewers, I think we watch it was it felt like an ultimatum? But what you're saying is no executive you to do in any relationship as you day you get to know somebody you ask him to be as open about what things are important to them as possible at some point and I think this is a good caveat. My opinion, which matters a little bit because we host podcast is. That Ultimately, you're. You're to people who pursued a relationship who were attracted to each other intrigued by each other and one of the most important things in her life was something that you may be didn't feel similarly on, and it just didn't work, but like it's hard to say goodbye to somebody great in your life even if you disagree on some massive things. But when you care and love somebody, some of those little disagreements get pushed away because you just enjoy them as a person, but when it comes down to spending your life with them, they become massively important. Breakers and dealbreakers are not bad dilbert. Breaks deal that was not going to be healthy for one or two of the parties involved. So for you as you sit there where you're at now and I just explained your break-up, which was like incredibly like odd of me. I'm sorry about that but offer. Now and you look matty in the is that she's telling you things and you look. Mattie is the day after far when you're trying to process this. And you're just going I'm going to have to say goodbye to you. Like what was that like? Then because again I say it said all this. Get to the point and the understanding that you're saying goodbye. Still somebody you cared about even though it wasn't gonNA work. No, it was a super tough I. Remember that that Exact Day. We probably spend six hours laying on her bed. Is Talking everything through? And it was like I. Keep saying it was it was like..
"peter weber" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"And just like wish each other well and then I left and that's how it ended. It was like not the most ideal way to end something like that. Little in that on the show tune will we size basically went hand in hand and be said that single at the end of this talk to her so since then I mean. Obviously we don't know what's going on with her in Tyler and whatnot but I mean. Does that offer still stand or have you even heard from her to this day? We we've talked since I did get a number from when she started out the enemy on instagram. And we've just been very very supportive of I saw her at Dylan in Hannah's engagement party You know there's no love lost there at all and she's just been someone that had been able to lean on a lot and she's like literally always been there for me any advice. I needed event. Like she's been someone that I've been able to go to in his safe-space and very grateful for her doing that for me. But there's nothing there between the two of you know nothing. Nothing romantically pursuing each other Now great so madison. Wait are you done with an yes? Yeah we can rock and roll in. Well I guess I will ask you. Have you spoken to Hannah? And since the finale Not since the finale so just when when when the break of day happen You know g obviously laugh and then later. That day was center along actress. Kind of August is apologizing again saying essentially that I'll always me and my family will always be there for her no matter what and I sent it along text of her family as well lead a group text. Jiang going back from anyone. I I called in once later that day. Obviously she didn't she didn't pick graduate. Talked me in. Yeah so then I saw AF. Are I talk with your data? Couple Times you'd called me on two occasions leading up to a far kind of trying to ask about Where my head was at what possibly might happen what he could expect just as protection his daughter which. I understood And I try to give him as much as I could. But obviously actually. I wasn't necessarily to do so much I was. I was tough for me but I haven't talked to him in an after. Yeah I get that and rightfully so like her new brand now too. Is You know she stood up to you and you know found her voice and moved on from that so I think it would be backtracking success. I believe me I want her. To this thrive in just absolutely have the most amazing beautiful life ever find her person. I truly like I love that girl. I always will and No matter how she feels about me I'll always always want the best. Earn will is Kelly France with Hannah and Madison. She yeah she is she. Maybe she's not now. Seeing the new circumstances no she Kellyanne talked And they're they're they're very. Yeah for Joel. It's been very friendly you know. She's been understanding of everything from what I've heard and I know they've talked about With Madison. But I do know that Hannah and Kelly. You're good good. I like to hear that I want to know I mean. Obviously we don't know what's going on with filming future seasons because of this whole corona virus going on but like if Hannah an or madison or any of the other girls like Kelly. I'm sorry Chelsea for that matter where to go on paradise or potentially become back in the future. Would that be weird for you or are you at the point where you do truly wish them the best in your just like you know what you do? I promise I really am at that You See I. I know how I felt about them. Just a few weeks ago a few months ago and I say I said that before like I question Chris on Hannah Brown's these like it's the same for them. I will always have love in my heart for them like they are two very important people to me that two months we had an amazing amazing experience together relationship. But I trust me like I would that be weird. Obviously seeing them probably with someone else yeah I think so but I really. I want them to be happy and just want the best. I think it would be weird if depending on who it was right like if you saw them with another batter nation person it would be like. Whoa if it yes one of the guys that from like Hannah rows into might be a little bit stranger. But I can't see then you'd be pot kettle. Look you are right now on trying to be hypocritical..
"peter weber" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast
"Don't know if I ever. If I ever got to that point where I had one hundred percent clear-headed, clear harper in a decision and that sucks, but that's the truth and. I try my damndest to like. Get there and and. It just it was. It was something I struggled with. Because we so confused and because you're so emotional, did you ever think? I'm GONNA try to pull Juan Pablo here and asked this girl to just a date me until I get more clarity. I did think about that and. I don't know I just. Again I knew that I. That, I did love Hannah, an and again. It just goes back to me. I kept just thinking listen. I know I'm feeling heartbreak right now. In this part sucks, but I've gone through every heartbreak of ever felt and eventually I'll get through this. You know I don't want to possibly. Take away from the two of us a really special moment that could turn into something amazing because I'm hurting right now and I just I guess in my head. Maybe it's the romance. I. I felt like maybe and maybe she would have appreciated that more but I felt like it would have just been discouraging her if If I just asked her that. Yeah you know, there's a lot of things that could have done differently, but it did it did cross my mind a couple of times and When you're lying on that bed and just. Having that breakdown of sorts. How much did your family's opinion on Hannah? An sway you to make the decision to propose. Yeah, I knew My family loves Han and I totally understood why It Really It wasn't. It wasn't like that wasn't i. wasn't thinking about my family? Though at that point, I really wasn't I. The only time I kinda like was maybe a little stressed about my family's opinion with that was we were flying out through for that date with Madison and I remember talking to one of the producers house like us the situation be like I don't know what to do right now. But after that moment like no one on that bed I was. I wasn't thinking about my family's opinion or anything that was just about what I needed Peter. As we sit here in this moment. I WANT WANNA. I want to let you know there's there's a lot more in your story that we need to get to. The clothes. The clothes. Some of these gaps in the experience that you had so. I know this experience for anybody is not easy I know it's confusing. I know there's a lot of tough decisions that have to be made. You're now looking back at it and able to process in a different way. We're GONNA get to how you got to the place that you're sitting out today and and I really WanNa spend some time with you just getting to know you today and what you've learned. Before, we do I know Ashley. kind of wants to fill in some of the gaps as I mentioned. In between, let's take a break and when we come back come back with Peter Weber on this in-depth episode of the almost famous podcast. Here's a message from our sponsor ziprecruiter. It's a different world right now, but we don't need to be overwhelmed. We afterward to keep our loved ones safe and to protect our communities..
"peter weber" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast
"I took some time to myself they they came into my like my room, and so I was like bedroom area, they were filming in the living, room area I like went in and instead ended like just go change or something and I did and I just close the door and sat on my bed, and I was just like. Stress Stress Stress Because I knew how I felt about Hannah, and but I knew how I was struggling as well as I do I do here. What do I do? What do I do and? I felt a little pressure with the time crunch. Maybe I could ask for more time I. Didn't and then? I just decided that what was going to. I was going to afford with it. The thing here is Peter is like again and I'm just GONNA. Keep filling this gap here. because I always think it's important for people to realize that. Like I just think it's healthy, maybe for people to realize this is real life. And as you sit there and try to confront some of these decisions that were drastically and dramatically GonNa Change Your Life. For the better. Hopefully and at some level, no matter what for the better. There isn't always the clear cut. Path especially when you're in, and you're sitting there, I just want to sit on this for a second and allow you to explain yourself If you're if you go back to that moment and maybe just take it from like all of these moments where you're on the show and all the confusion and chaos that's being caused, and you're getting I mean there's so many moments during this season. Peter, that was like he's confused like and not in a hey, you're like. I Yeah I got confused because of the chaos around. You mean that was how the what is it like to be in chaos? In the midst of something brand new experience that you've never been a part of before. Also knowing where you're hoping this ends like for you personally. Like it. What's it like it's terrifying? It really is I. Yeah I extremely confused at that point. And then there's just the added you know. You have so much pressure whether you want to admit that or not. There is pressure you're in a awkward environment and I have. You know I fully invested in multiple women up to this point, and I'm just trying my absolute best navigate my feelings, and just get like a clear head and clear heart of exactly what I WANNA do and if I'm just being so honest I i. don't know if I ever. If I ever got to that point where I had one hundred percent clear-headed, clear harper in a decision and that sucks, but that's the truth and. I try my damndest to like. Get there and and. It just it was. It was something I struggled with. Because we so confused and because you're so emotional, did you ever think? I'm GONNA try to pull Juan Pablo here and asked this girl to just a date me until I get more clarity. I did think about that and. I don't know I just. Again I knew that I. That, I did love Hannah, an and again. It just goes back to me. I kept just thinking listen. I know I'm feeling heartbreak right now. In this part sucks, but I've gone through every heartbreak of ever felt and eventually I'll get through this. You know I don't want to possibly. Take away from the two of us a really special moment that could turn into something amazing because I'm hurting right now and I just I guess in my head. Maybe it's the romance. I. I felt like maybe and maybe she would have appreciated that more but I felt like it would have just been discouraging her if If I just asked her that. Yeah you know, there's a lot of things that could have done differently, but it did it did cross my mind a couple of times and When you're lying on that bed and just. Having that breakdown of sorts. How much did your family's opinion on Hannah? An sway you to make the decision to propose. Yeah, I knew My family loves Han and I totally understood why It Really It wasn't. It wasn't like that wasn't i. wasn't thinking about my family? Though at that point, I really wasn't I. The only time I kinda like was maybe a little stressed about my family's opinion with that was we were flying out through for that date with Madison and I remember talking to one of the producers house like us the situation be like I don't know what to do right now. But after that moment like no one on that bed I was. I wasn't thinking about my family's opinion or anything that was just about what I needed Peter. As we sit here in this moment. I WANT WANNA. I want to let you know there's there's a lot more in your story that we need to get to. The clothes. The clothes. Some of these gaps in the experience that you had so. I know this experience for anybody is not easy I know it's confusing. I know there's a lot of tough decisions that have to be made. You're now looking back at it and able to process in a different way. We're GONNA get to how you got to the place that you're sitting out today and and I really WanNa spend some time with you just getting to know you today and what you've learned. Before, we do I know Ashley. kind of wants to fill in some of the gaps as I mentioned. In between, let's take a break and when we come back come back with Peter Weber on this in-depth episode of the almost famous podcast. Here's a message from our sponsor ziprecruiter. It's a different world right now, but we don't need to be overwhelmed. We afterward to keep our loved ones safe and to protect our communities..
"peter weber" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast
"I'm holding back. You know in any aspect of the relationship. Am I doing it a disservice but yet answer a question that it would have made it a little different and like let's not forget you know is however it played agree or disagree with the decision of what you did. You are dating multiple people. One time like that is not normal. That is not easy to do. There is no right way to do something that is very unnatural. You and not something. I don't think you'd be for the show but it's not something you had practiced necessarily breitbart experience extremely to natural. So you're you're going into this week knowing that one of these people that you're falling for is saying this to you also knowing that you're still trying to figure out if she is the one knowing that some of the other people that you don't have those feelings that don't have those a don't feel strongly about physical intimacy and maybe winning or where it should be hat or in what capacity and so as as yes we can be critical right and and Madison was a fan favourite. But I you know actually I just wanted to add in that like at some point it does become more confusing than what the general public can can necessarily understand and exactly one more thing. I'll add even think on even more important than having known that night that she brought that up to me. She was a virgin I think the biggest thing for me would have been just knowing exactly where she was with me because I should never expressed to me how she truly felt compared to the other two women and so that was I. Think the biggest thing for me. That was really confusing in how I go about this okay. So if she had told you she was a virgin and if she would have said at that moment I love you. Everything could have been different. Yeah and they're not even necessarily I love you. Just like knowing where she was even just falling where she truly felt like she was with me. Got It so then from there on you made it seem like you. Are you the storyline that we saw on TV made it seem as if you were just so torn? You had no idea where you're going to end up but then it was interesting because the way we saw play on TV as soon as marry had decided to leave. It seemed like she was your choice the entire time and you weren't torn it all was what was going through your head and heart different than what we saw on. Tv We see. You're saying that when when manny left and then towards the end like dude proposal. You're saying that it seemed like what like I. It seems like you had chosen Mattie in your head a long time ago. Listen I when I when you say it looked like. I was insanely confused. I say that all the time that was the most confusing weekend metlife. It was so stressful. I had no idea really had to go about that I really was. I truly truly felt like I was in love with with two women and at that point on I know you can kind of test that bannon like possible and and I really do feel like it is and people say it's not well then I come back to you guys if you think you can fall in love with more than one person just in the matter of your lifetime at different times and if you can why can't happen at the same time I get. That's weird but in this kind of situation is what allows for that to be possible. That's just my opinion. Yeah it was tough and Obviously I had a Lotta love for Mattie but I also had a lot of hand in and I duNNo. I think I think what you guys were seeing more than anything was just. I was heartbroken and but I I truly feel like I also would have been heartbroken Hannah. An would have done the same thing and just left and having to deal with those feelings of heartbreak for me almost like it just kind of consume me a little bit and since. I didn't have any time to process it like a normal relationship when it ends and two days three days later I had to try to go in to get myself in the right head. Space to possibly propose someone I think it would've happened with either woman I would`ve. I would really struggle with it and it would probably would have seemed like I was missing the other. One A lot GOTCHA was. Did you ever think to ask for extra time to process? No I remember. I remember kind of like my last my last opportunity. I might have had that. We were getting ready to film the Neal Lane Kate. The first time I met Neil and he was gonNA show me the rings in review just I was in rough rough head space. I took some time to myself. They they came into my like my room and so I was like bedroom area. They were filming in the Living Room. Area I like went in and instead ended like just go change or something and I did and I just close the door and sat on my bed and I was just like stress stress stress because I knew how I felt about Hannah and but I knew how I was struggling as well as I do. I do here what do I do? What do I do and I felt a little pressure with time. Crunch maybe I could ask for more time. I didn't and then I decided that what was going to go. I was going to afford with it. The thing here is Peter is like again and I'm just GONNA keep filling this gap here Because I always think it's important for people to realize that like I just think it's healthy. Maybe for people to realize this is real life and as you sit there and try to confront some of these decisions that were drastically and dramatically. GonNa Change Your Life for the better. Hopefully and at some level no matter what for the better there isn't always the clear cut path. Especially when you're in and you're sitting there I just want to sit on this for a second and allow you to explain yourself If you go back to that moment and maybe just take it from like all of these moments where you're on the show and all the confusion and chaos that's being caused and you're getting. I mean there's so many moments during this season Peter. That was like he's confused like and not in A. Hey you're like I. Yeah I got confused because of the chaos around you mean that was how the what is it like to be in chaos in the midst of something brand new experience that you've never been a part of before also knowing where you're hoping this ends like for you personally like it. What's it like it's terrifying? It really is I Yeah I was extremely confused at that point and then there's just the added you know you have so much pressure whether you want to admit that or not there is pressure. You're in a awkward environment. And I have you know fully invested in multiple women up to this point and I'm just trying my absolute best navigate my feelings and just get like a clear head and clear heart of exactly what I WANNA do. And if I'm just being so honest I I don't know if I ever if I ever got to that point where I had one hundred percent clear heading clear harper in a decision and that sucks. But that's the truth and I try my damndest to like get there and and it just it was. It was something I struggled with because we were so confused. And because you're so emotional. Did you ever think I'm GONNA try to pull Juan Pablo here and asked this girl to just a date me until I get more clarity? I did think about that and I don't know I just again. I knew that I that I did love Hannah. An and again. It just goes back to me. I kept just thinking listen. I know I'm feeling heartbreak right now in this part sucks but I've gone through every heartbreak of ever felt and eventually I'll get through this. You know I don't want to possibly take away from the two of us a really special moment. That could turn into something amazing. Because I'm hurting right now and I just I guess in my head. Maybe it's the romance. I I felt like maybe an maybe she would have appreciated that more But I felt like it would have just been like discouraging her if If I just asked her that Yeah you know. There's a lot of things could've done differently but It did it. Did Cross my mind a couple of times and when you're lying on that bed and just having that breakdown of sorts. How much did your family's opinion on Hannah? An sway you to make the decision to propose. Yeah I knew My family loves Han And I totally understood why It really it wasn't it wasn't like that wasn't I wasn't thinking about my family. Though at that point I really wasn't I the only time I kinda like was maybe a little stressed about my family's opinion with that was we. Were flying out through For that date with Madison and I remember talking to one of the producers. House like us the situation to be like. I don't know what to do right now but after that moment like no one on that bed I was. I wasn't thinking about my family's opinion or anything. That was just about what I needed. Peter as we sit here in this moment I want to. I want to let you know. There's there's a lot more in your story that we need to get to the clothes. The clothes some of these gaps in the experience that you had so I know this experience for anybody who's not easy. I know it's confusing. I know there's a lot of tough decisions that have to be made. You're now looking back at it and able to process in a different way. We're GONNA get to how you got to the place that you're sitting out today and and I really WanNa spend some time with you just getting to know you today and what you've learned before we do. I know Ashley Kind of wants to fill in some of the gaps as I mentioned in between. Let's take a break and when we come back when it come back with Peter Weber on this in-depth episode of the podcast. Here's a message from our sponsor ziprecruiter. It's a different world right now. But we don't need to be overwhelmed. We have to work to keep our loved ones safe and to protect our communities..
"peter weber" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"Before I even proposed and I know looking back on it now? That should have been like a clear sign to me but I did know that. I Love Hanane. I did know that I felt heartbreak into passing that I could get over. I would get over and did I WANNA POSSE. Let this temporary pain. You can't have time to process this right now. Like normal relationship ingredient. I WanNa let this possibly take away something From getting into something so beautiful down the road for the rest of my life. I made the decision to go forward in. I guess kind of convince myself that I was ready to propose the an-and And yet I'm not proud of that but that's the truth and I kept holding onto the love that I had for her. This would I the potential And I guess after the show is over now you know we would do happy couples in Three or four times during those visits you know I had I love. I love Indian. I truly I such a big fan of hand and and always will be on. We've always had a great time together. I just think that slowly but surely I just noticed that. Maybe we weren't as compatible as I thought we were in that in regards. Oswego challenging each other in relationship. I didn't I didn't necessarily feel it as much as I thought I was going to. In the next couple meetings and listen a little bit too was unresolved feelings for uniform. Addison stuff that I struggled with like no other so as crazy as an answer Obviously started even before And as easy to admit that's the truth and now so. I lied now have questions I knew you were going to rage. Well I am listening to you talk. Do you feel that you were pressured into proposing to Hannah? I'm ask I think it was just my own self imposed pressure. I really do think that like I did I. I didn't need to come out of this. Was that now. Go ahead sorry. I didn't need to go into the show like come out of engaging like if I don't like it really wasn't like that but I don't know I at that at the end there. I just I saw such like a I really did. I saw all the potential in the world for an amazing range of I'd never ever felt ever felt the love from someone like Canon and showed me ever. My entire life knows one of the biggest things that I was looking for coming into this process. And she shower that on me like no other similarly to how I have felt I've given that to women in the past recent have reciprocated Found.
"peter weber" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast
"What people's reaction going to be this and is this going to be criticized or is this going to be accepted in that part kind of stocks and I have not necessarily enjoyed that and at some point you just have to literally a simple issues not read the comments. I remember Becca she. She gave me a one when this all when my first podcast with her She gave me a little lanyard. And it just said don't read the comments and like US probably like the best advice as well and it's you know when when when I realized that All that stuff. In my opinion it's fake and it's not real because not once not and I can. I can honestly say not once in real life through all my flight should be now in public. Anyone I've met on the street. Have I ever heard one negative comment ever but you see on social media or on the Internet? Are All this this stuff? That's fake. It's not real life. You know social media. It's not it's not your real life people just get so consumed in it. That's where all that negativity in that trashes but the real life. It's all great and like when I finally realized that it was a huge weight lifted off my shoulders and allowed me to be so much happier. Continue to build that tough skin and just realize like actually matters and the human interactions. I have on a daily basis. Those are great and amazing. I appreciate those so much. I'm not GonNa let the little stuff gets me at all. The I've one final thing and then just going GonNa dive into some of the details of your experience and your season and kind of the the ways to lead you to the end and then I want to close his podcast with getting back to kind of you personally. Where your APP and how. You're doing all that up. But before I third Ashley to kind of dig into your seasoning your experience there has been though I remember sitting in your shoes during my time. And you know you can relate in in some ways from our experience right did. It wasn't always pretty. There was confusion chaos. We get all you know. We're on it and we think. Oh this is worked out for how it was supposed to work out for me and it feels like there. Every loosened has been tied. And everything's clean and then you get off of an you realize that like maybe. The public doesn't agree fully and like there's some heat now luckily back in my day. Social media wasn't as prevalent. And so now your whole story of what you've done since the show is being displayed but would I be mistaken to say they're still even though you feel like you're doing well even though you feel like there's been praised to your face which I'm sure there is that there is there's a little anxiety In your life like a little pain if our listeners could like really get an understand exactly why you have a little fear. Can you explain that to them before we start step forward just so they know where Peter Weber is at? And why you're feeling the way you are. Yeah no listen. I mean what you said obviously was in. It's been great in person. Having so much positivity But Yeah I can one hundred percent admit that I've definitely had a ton of anxiety in a ton of stress Just again just being thrust into Kinda the spotlight so much in having everybody just analyze every move and then having so much so many critics as well like I'm just I'm a human being and I said I'm I'm not an entertainer. I'm not a professional dater. I'm a pilot that signed up for this show opened. It would work. I was lucky enough to to be blessed. The tend to go on and be the bachelor to and It's that part. Hasn't us and like it? Just it's I don't know for me personally. I've never been someone that's been able to. I've never used my time to like talk. Negatively about anyone or go cast negative judgement on that person or whatever it may be but I know some people do a lot of people do do that and yeah that that's the hurt. It does It it takes a little bit to get used to a lot of it to get used to and Has Definitely caused some anxiety but Again I I just do my absolute best I my number one thing is all about gratitude gratitude gratitude and if I can focus on that more than anything else I'm gonNA put myself through. You know the Tough Times. I want to bring you back as the peer. You are today too big turning points on the show. So what would you tell Peter on night one now? That's good Let's see I mean I was great. I speaking is I I. I don't think I would. I would change anything from night. One of how went You know pry to calm down a little bit and not be so quick because I was so nervous going into that first night for just knowing that all the women were just as nervous as you just to honestly I. There's nothing really ever change from that first night. Just get excited for this journey. I there's a lot of things I would say later on in the season but the first night I wouldn't have much advice. What point do you start giving yourself face? I would have given myself advice starting with like the pool party stuff like after out. What episode that was but In regards to just kind of really being influenced by a you know the house in general and just I think for me I went into it just because the person I am. You know just being someone that yeah I I like to give people the benefit of the doubt and and and and I have those tendencies of being a people pleaser to not worry so much about that and just really really do what I needed to do for myself and like the Pool Party and the latest stuff and I remember that was like the first like part of the journey from your house. I don't know if I handled that the right way like. I should've just focused myself been a little bit more selfish not not taking so many opinions in in doing what I needed to do. I have one I I'm going to be so mad at myself if I don't ask this Peter because there was like my we you know obviously watch seasons we critique everything as part of the podcast and I say why did Peter do that or what was he thinking. One of my biggest critiques of you was I have never seen an. And this is me selfishly. I had just have to ask you as a fan of you know. And then it's going to go back to Ashley to actually get to the heart of things. This is really derailing us. How in the world did you? How in the world did you kiss girls in front of other girls? I like that was when you say Pool Party. I'm thinking about a scene where like you're kissing girl knew other people could see it like that was when I was like. Oh Peter like that Yeah good question I am. I don't I don't I'll be honest. I don't know if like in the going back to that Pool Party. I don't know if I actually knew that people saw me being affectionate with other women I was not for sure was not doing that on purpose. There was one time. I think really the only time actually of of the season where I was like. Oh that was really. Awkward and uncomfortable was Was in the football date. In in Cleveland. I was walking back when she and I remember and We just have like we're just talking. Having it was off camera stuff the game was over and I just was like so just kind of like focused just with with her and I knew that I had nine other eight other women right but I was just focused with her and we were just being affection just like Q. And gave her a kiss like going into the locker room but all the women were there and then right after. I did that and like why'd I do that? That was that was weird. That was uncomfortable but I don't know I guess just to kind of explain it for me. I was some that. Try my absolute best to like. I said get lost with each woman individually when I was with them and whether that was too much or disrespectful at times I can see the criticism. I can understand that but that was me. And that's what I was. GonNa to do for it to hopefully worked for me. I couldn't. I don't know how I was going to be able to just like sometimes act like they were my want my only girl and then sometimes. I'm dating a bunch of women like I had to fully commit to each relationship when I was with that person. And that's what I try to do from night. One through the end and that was pretty obvious which in a way sounds like a great plan. Then you get called the kissing. Bandit and just it's it's crazy. I don't know if I told you I really 'cause I really am the guy that like. I usually Kinda shy kissing and like I don't go for it right away I really. I thought there was a chance. I wasn't gonNA kiss anyone. The first night to be completely honest and then Savannah came and I loved it. I loved her going all out for it. Did the blindfold thing planted the kiss and that kind of like broke the seal for me and I was just like well. Okay but then. Didn't you eliminate her night one sedan? No Oh okay. That's right. That's right now. She was the girl that would last a long time but we never really got to know her. Yeah I guess yeah. She was really sweet girl a lot but yeah I really was planning on doing nothing and then so much for that. Hey thanks Peter. I just had to get that out there because it was like my one biggest confusion was like what in the world is he. Doing that feels dangerous. Definitely did not advise him to do that. But That makes sense I can. I can get behind you just trying to be an intentional with each relationship and try to make it as normal as possible so Ashley. I'm sorry that was definitely GonNa Tangent. I had to get it out back to you okay. So let's put Peter. Today back to after that top three rose ceremony when he comes up to you and says I really don't want you sleeping with anyone else. I'm not sure if this is going to be okay with my moral code if you do and I'm going to have to reevaluate everything. If you do in that moment did you think. Oh is this girl virgin or did you just think that she was kind of giving you a request? Because she was that into like did the thought of her virginity. Come into play at all. Okay so for that. I remember I thought there was a chance that that Mattie was virgin I remember it was in. Where was I was a driving from a location? I think it was it was in Chile in Santiago and I I remember talking about her with my producers and I asked him I do you guys think this and they couldn't give me anything You know because obviously they can't But I kept asking. That was the first time that it was on my mind and then ever talked about it again really until it kind of came up that night but honestly I didn't I didn't know maybe there is a chance by. I truly didn't know until it tells you told me in Australia at that dinner. I knew that she was obviously very very strong. Interfaith in that would have made sense but I did not know for sure. I know I asked you this with access Hollywood but honestly Peter. You're a whole different. Peter now and you were like six or seven weeks ago. Would it have made a difference? Would it have made a difference if matty had at that moment? Said I want you to not sleep with anyone because I am a virgin and yeah would that have changed your mind about sleeping with anyone else. Can you say that even for sure? Yes it would have. I say for sure I think definitely had a little bit more gravity with everything I would've I would've had more gravity so there's a chance that you may not have slept at the other women in that case. Yeah but but again not there would gather for sure would have been a stronger chance but again it. Kinda all goes back to my biggest struggle was explained with the kissing stuff like I when I was with each individual woman. I try my best to just be so intentional with them and lost with them and You know I I would have definitely struggled with that like in life..
"peter weber" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast
"And I and I made you one promise. I don't remember this, but I was like. Hey, if I was in Peter Shoes, what would I want to hear and one is? You know I said Hey, if I can do it, you can do it. which is very true. You're going to be able to do it now. HOW WELL WE DO! It is up to us as people, but the second was that at the end of all this. This. It's all going to work out for the good like even if it's hard, even if it looks ugly in even if it feels heavy, and it feels like I've done everything wrong in the process which you I have both felt at times during this I'm sure is all ends up working out for the good I mean my life now. A is a great representation of that right. I learned a lot from my experiences the bachelor. The pain was caused. And now I'm able to celebrate with my fiance and enjoy a great life. It took awhile grass room. Thanks, Buddy! Now, that I've made that promise to you has held true. And again we're going. Get the details later on, but I just want to start this podcast kind of getting a tone of where you're at what you're feeling that our listeners can ride along this journey with you. Has that held true has worked out for the good. I truly do believe yeah Yeah you, you call that and I truly feel like that is accurate. representation of my whole experience Obviously, there is a crazy up in nouns in You know I've always been a firm believer that you know things happen for a reason and Sometimes you truly don't understand why things are happening but in the end it's GonNa work out for the better Maybe a couple of weeks ago. You know like Dang. Where's this going? You know? How is this? Even at the very end like I don't. I didn't even know how it was going to end. You know after a far. You know for a couple days here. There was a lot of this kind of confusion still but. Through, all of that I do feel. Very good about where I'm at right now, Even through all of mistakes I. Really I really do mean that and You know I'm just I'm still hopeful I'm so excited I'm excited looking forward to the future. For what's to come and Yeah, I think your advice was spot on. You know. A lot has happened in a lot seems to be happening. I was talking to Ashley earlier I was like you know there's very few people that have been in the public eye like you have. That had so many headlines so many different headlines written about them as such a small. Piece in. In such a quick amount of time like I feel like every day there is a part of that just becomes a territory like you're popular. People have celebrated with you. They've mourned with you. They've criticize. You just comes with being the bachelor. That's just part of it. And with the media the way it is today, it's it's flooding information about Peter Webber and what he's doing and who is dating and where he's been and all this stuff. This is a lot has happened. With you. Read. Is it all I mean? You're not a professional entertainer. None of the. Waiter. How are you dealing with this like this? You've said you've developed tough like tough skin. That's great I'm glad to hear that buddy like I am so happy. You say that but like. That's not the full truth here and we I WANNA. Hear your full truth like you don't just develop tough skin because you get criticized enough. You have to do things in the process of getting to the place where you can handle it, and there's a lot of pain involved in getting to that place in that time. Like. What is that been like for you? I mean it hasn't. It hasn't been easy obviously. There's there's absolutely no way to prepare for this kind of attention to be brought a upon you There's just no way. Just like I felt like you know even going through the experience of being the bachelor as much as we talked, and all the advice that I asked you know from you, and that you gave me and I took to heart. It's it's still there is no way to completely prepare for being the bachelor so with all his attention, just kind of being cast on analogies, everyone you know, every little thing I do is analyzed that part is been. It's been tough, and it's like it in the beginning. It's like it just almost kind consumes you because for me on like. Literally everything I do I think about okay. What people's reaction going to be this? And is this going to be criticized, or is this going to be accepted? In that part kind of stocks and I have not necessarily enjoyed that, and at some point you just have to. Literally a simple issues not read the comments. I remember Becca she. She gave me a one. When this all. When my first podcast with her she gave me a little lanyard and it said don't read the comments and like us probably like the best advice. As well, and it's you know when when when I realized that. All that stuff. In my opinion, it's fake and it's not real, because not once not and I can I. Can honestly say not once in real life through all. My flight should be now in public anyone I've met on the street. Have I ever heard one negative comment ever? But you see on social media or on the Internet are all this this stuff? That's fake. It's not real life. You know social media. It's not it's not your real life. People just get. Get so consumed in it. That's where all that negativity in that trashes, but the real life it's all great and when I finally realized that it was a huge weight, lifted off my shoulders and allowed me to be so much happier. Continue to build that tough skin, and just realize like actually matters and the human interactions I have on a daily basis. Those are great and amazing. I appreciate those so much I'm not gonNA. Let the little stuff gets me at all. The I've one final thing, and then just going GonNa dive into some of the details of your experience, and your season and kind of the the ways lead you to the end, and then I want to close his podcast with getting back to kind of you personally where your APP and how you're doing. All that up. But before I over to Ashley to kind of dig into your seasoning, your experience. There has been though I remember sitting in your shoes. During my time and you know you. Can relate in in some ways from our experience. Right did it wasn't always pretty? There was confusion. We get all you know. We're on it and we think Oh this is worked out for how it was supposed to work out for me, and it feels like there. Every loosened has been. Tied and everything's clean, and then you get off of an you realize that like. Maybe the public doesn't agree fully and like there's some heat now. Luckily back in my day, social media wasn't as prevalent and so now your whole story of what you've done since the show is being displayed, but. Would I be mistaken to say they're still even though you feel like you're doing well, even though you feel like there's been praised to your face, which I'm sure there is. That there is. There's a little anxiety in your life like a little pain. If our listeners could like really get an understand exactly. You're out like where why you have a little fear. Can you explain that to them? Before we start step forward just so they know where Peter Weber is at and why you're feeling the way you are. Yeah, no, listen I mean. What you said obviously was in. It's been great in person having so much positivity but yeah I can one hundred percent admit that I've definitely had a ton of anxiety in a ton of stress.
"peter weber" Discussed on The Viall Files
"What's going on everybody? Welcome to a very special episode of the vows even coming at you on Tuesday. I'm your host. Nick joined by my producer. Rachelle and we have the one only Peter Webber. We Really Appreciate Peter. Taking the time You Know Peter reached out and said that he was ready to talk and obviously we wanted to be respectful of of him and his time on the show. And so once we got the okay we were able to set this up and it was kind of impromptu and last minute but We know we mentioned that we were going to have Jason on and and that episode with Jason Is Great. But we wanted to get you. Peter's episode and we dropped on a Tuesday just to kind of line. It up with whatever else is doing out there so appreciate you guys adjusting to the non traditional schedule. But what a great episode with Peter. Shit man we we talk about everything from beginning to end yeah. I'm surprised like he's really a romantic. It really came across. Let the end of the day. Yes he he is and you know you hear me talk about in this episode. It's Peter just kind of really just talking about everything from the brain and to a afar with Madison. Barb what's going on with him and Kelly etc etc. But and you know what? Peter is very opened an honest about their criticism. He deserves to get and I love that about Peter that he he can own that. He's not a perfect person and but he is he's dishonest and I'd rather have someone who's real and honest and and can admit when things when he fucked up when he messed up. I'll take that. I know I know who Peter is. I guess is my point. You know. He's a genuinely Nice Guy. Like I was a little bit of us that everything that's going on but after the conversation was like no he's just a nice at what he he clearly. Kinda owns up the fact that maybe he's not always the best decision maker in the moment right. Yeah we can all say that with the benefit of hindsight but he is honest that much now and I appreciate him being honest as he was in this episode. So we'll stop rambling. We'll get right to it without further ado. I hope you enjoy this episode of Peter as always. Don't forget to check our ethnic episodes on Monday. People Love Them. There are big head. I know there's a lot of people tuning in just to hear. Peter appreciate you taking the time and giving us a and you know feel free to check out some other episodes and anything else. Rochelle before we get to Peter now all right. Let's do it. How you doing buddy? I'm good I'm good hanging in there. Good talking to you. I know that You've you've taken you know you've basically taken a break from really kinda being out there at least doing interviews and things were kind of hectic for you and dramatic and it sounds like You kinda wanted to just get things out there. You know a lot of people with with the way things being that they are and people are stuck at home and everyone's on their phones and everyone's kind of like limited to things that everyone has their opinion so it's it's good to have you kind of out there and talking and it sounds like maybe you're just kind of ready to share your point of view and so people can kind of. Stop speculating on everything. That's going on in your world and you can kind of just talk freely so we appreciate you taking the time. Yeah no absolute thanks Obviously you can after a afar and everything been really. Get a chance to kind of hold press thing. Speak on everything so excited I could come on. You know kind of just clear some things up in. Yeah just a just be open about everything. Yeah and I I gotta say I I do you know you. Everyone knows I've I've had your back and you and I have become friends over this process and And that's not to say that you haven't been without criticism and you know I've I've pointed that out but you know one thing I've always said about you. Is You know you've you've never complained you've never shied away from owning. Y- you know whatever mistakes you had and I've always appreciated about you and you've always been very authentic. You know you say what you want whether you agree with your decisions that are not like people always are very critical of people of people not being authentic and not kind of exposing yourself. And you've always. You've always done that so I just wanted to say like I appreciate that about you and I think some people that's lost on US sometimes and it's always very easy to criticize choices and things like that but it's hard just put yourself out there and so so thanks for doing that. Yeah I Obviously in the first one to like a broken record I'm the farthest thing from perfect Mistakes but as long as they can kinda learn from those and look forward and just be a better person at the end of this which I do feel like I am now. It's worth it in all can do awesome but how `bout we if you're okay with it. Let's quote unquote start at the beginning in terms of like if we're just kind of trying to not that there's any misinformation out there but if if if we're starting to beginning and hearing just from your point of view because the truth is is we always heard. It's a cliche. There's two sides every stories. There's different points of view. It doesn't mean that another side is an accurate but we always see things through our own lenses of. How are you know things? Maybe you know based on our feeling so I know like starting with AF are obviously. That was a crazy experience. Right A lot of things were said You broke up with Hannah and you you know you and Madison. Kinda of came out there. I guess I'll just kind of give you the floor in terms of like what were your thoughts on that. And what is information out there that you feel like you know people haven't heard your point of view. Yeah Yeah as far. Obviously that was that was quite the Quite the ordeal. Nah I don't think anyone kind of expected it to go that route but that was really tough for me You know I I remember just kind of leading up to that day just having this a lot of honesty Stressing out about it. Not really knowing how it was gonna go but I remember staying back backstage right before I was about to go on and on with my producer. Isn I this is like I was like pass out to be completely honest like I was just knowing that I was about to see Hannigan for the first time You know not really knowing what's going to happen with Madison on a live stage like that's tough and that unknown in front of millions of people was it was it was really tough You know I got on stage I to watch some of that stuff live that I hadn't seen yet You know watching that break-up with hand was brutal for me and Yeah there's just no other way to say it like I on. I just felt so bad about the situation. I felt like I let down so many people You know hand and be number one and myself and having watched it on stage in China dislike contain my emotion Impose pretty tough and then you know having her come out in avenue this year for the first time had said it's a weird weird thing to to break up with someone and have it be so public in half to confront them and and have that conversation this. I'll just start off again and I'm not afraid to do it. Like fall on the sword. I was one hundred percent in the wrong with Hanane and ending that relationship honestly even going back to going back to Australia and like the engagement. I was so confused I was I just. I've never been confused in my entire life in that last week was just such an emotional roller coaster for me I I probably shouldn't have You know gone down on one knee. I'm if I wasn't one hundred percent sure about that and You know I do know that I I felt like I was in love with hand and she was such a beautiful. This amazing soul that I felt like I couldn't go of and I knew that I would. You know eventually move on from my feelings heartache from Madison I just I. I thought that was the best thing for me to do. In the moment I guess I guess what people don't completely know and there's no way for them to know. Is Those so after you get engaged right on the show and then you go in a happy couple of weekends you know. I got to see her three times. Maybe I got probably talking about Hannah. Han- Han- yeah and is it. That's one of the things there's just no way to prepare for it and it's so tough to go from that whole ordeal that whole show and then Nazi person you're engaged you except for maybe three times in a matter of a couple months. The foundation for that obviously isn't insanely strong yet to be able to go through all that. No one really knows what happens. There's all this speculation. All these rumors come out and then not being able to see each other for that amount of time. It's tough and I just didn't expected to be difficult And I think that you know I just I didn't WanNa it sucked for me to admit to myself but I guess you know as we spend time with each other than a couple of weekends I just. I didn't feel a lot of it. Was My feelings for Madison. Yeah weren't completely like resolve that had one hundred percent gun over that and it just it just didn't feel one hundred percent right for me and I kept trying to think that it was going to get better Nestle get better. Listen I I completely relate to that in for a couple of things for in and I'm only saying this to try to put things in perspective. 'cause you know here you are talking and this experience is so hard to relate to. It's not it's it's it's an unrelatable situation unless you've been through it and you know I kind of like do I th. I agree with you like I've had Hannah Anna. My podcast like yeah. You did a wrong and you've owned that. Like and that sucks but the reality is in life and in relationships outside of the bachelor like breakups are messy and sometimes people are done wrong in relationships intentionally or not like you don't have to be a bad person to do someone wrong and relationships they work. But you know when when when Vanessa I broke up there's literally a memo out there of like five minutes after we got engaged and like and it's like I'm like a deer in headlights and the truth is like I was literally a fucking deer in headlights. Kind of like I just the show just ended. I like came up from like air and I'm like what the fuck did I just do now? Granted I was very much in love with Vanessa when I propose to her like. She was literally only person I had feelings for and like when we had our happy couples there was immediate like drama between us in turmoil and.
"peter weber" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast
"Oh we've had a busy self-isolation Time Ashley. It is a joy in my life To be able to take time out of my day to talk to you about everything. Good Ashley how you doing. I'm good how are you been? I'm great? Hey listeners. Before today's episode which is a very very special one like they all are but we have a guest who we've talked about often who We've gotten to know and most of us out. There have gotten over the last few months. But before we introduce them Ashley and I came up with a new goal for ourselves. And we'd like to invite you all to fall along. We are going to try to walk ten thousand steps per day for the rest of self isolation Ashley. Do you think you can do it? I definitely can it's manageable when you think about it. It's like maybe two miles two miles is I know that a lot of people probably don't live in neighborhoods where they can walk around that long. You think that that's going to be an issue with people because I think we're coming from people who Where people who have neighborhoods that are very small small sprite? Yeah apartment buildings were tough. Here's the thing though like I don't know Ashleigh with during a time of self-isolation if there's any excuse like you can walk on your couch for five days. Probably right up to the other room to move. We gotta move well actually. Let's not a delay any further. You and I have wanted to do this for awhile. Basically destroyed to build suspense by saying walk around before we introduced are gigantic guest. I agreed yes. Hey listeners Fans almost podcast huge fans of the indepth episode. Welcome to this in-depth episode with Peter. Webber Peter how you doing. I'm doing good guys. Yes to be here. Thank you for having me I'M GONNA try to take on that ten thousand a step challenge. It'd be a little difficult here but I'm trying my best. The guys don't know Peter Well One. I don't know why you're listening to this podcast. He's he's from. Westlake village California known for being on Hannah Brown sees another Bachelorette is also known as our most recent bachelor. He's a pilot for Delta Airlines. Peter I want to start this. We've talked a lot. Actually I have about how we wanted to start this podcast today and we believe A. We've we have this kind of thing that goes on during the indepth episodes which are meant to get anybody story out. There is Truth is truth and truth wins so ultimately even if somebody doesn't like your truth it is your truth and for that they need to respect it at some level and so today. I WanNa start just with you saying. Hey you're here because you're truth needs to be said some might still not like it. That's okay But at least a truth can get out there. You've been in the headlines for awhile. Now after your time on the Bachelor your time on the bachelor a new and I got to talk about it quite a bit At least in my opinion wasn't ideal at times at some moments. It wasn't Shane. We'll talk about that but it was heavy at times as well and so now. Let's sit down and talk about it. let's start with this. Peter Road you in your background of who where you're from. What you like to do. I want to start by asking you first. How're you doing if we took all of this and just put it into one microcosm of your life the show your life after the show? How are you doing personally? Yeah Hi in Doing A. I'm doing good honestly I really am is obviously in quite the whirlwind for me quite the the last year Just kind of looking back on everything. it's it's been kind of funny for me to think. I've kind of been in this world like pretty hardcore since You know the whole dating world through the Bachelorette Bachelor for over a year now so Obviously it ended a couple of weeks ago. Things are still going on. People are still talking and Honestly though like I feel like I definitely you kind of have to like no choice. Gone really really tough skin through all this especially at the end and you know I'm just I'm every day I wake up extremely grateful for the opportunity to had to be the Bachelorette and then be the bachelor in look for you know. Hopefully the girl dreams and I don't regret it You Know I. I've had a lot of time to reflect for sure on everything that has transpired. You know the good decisions. I made the poor decisions. I made And try to just grow from that. Become a better person moving forward but yeah. I really like honesty day. I'm doing as good as you can be doing are now in this threat this pandemic. It's obviously kind of crazy. Just a weird time. We're living in but I really. I'm doing good from a Fan's perspective. Your family got more involved in this season than any other family. How's your family doing? Yeah they they really did They're doing good as well. Obviously that AF far was a tough. You know tough episode for everyone Obviously there's been a lot of opinions good opinions bad opinions about all that but my family is very strong. We've always been very very supportive of each other each other's rock and You know we have each other's back always I love him more than anything and I know they love me more than anything is going to be. Honest when we got into the quarantine situation I was like. Could you imagine being in the House right now? I I know people thought there was all this all this tension and whatnot The really wasn't my family. Listen we we. I don't know of. It comes from kind of like kind of being raised in a Cuban culture like household or whatnot. We we can be very emotional and very passionate about stuff. And obviously we're not gonNA agree on everything family does but we one of things. I love about my family is that we we don't hold grudges or anything or let stuff get to us for too long. You know that love that we share always poses through little anything that we're going through So you know I was Gonna get it was making some Some dance video with my mom before before I left the house there and everything. And it's all good Peter. Uniroyal to speak if we flash back months right before this whole thing started for you and I and I made you one promise. I don't remember this but I was like. Hey if I was in Peter Shoes what would I want to hear and one is you know I said hey if I can do it you can do it? Which is very true. You're going to be able to do it now. How WELL WE DO? It is up to us as people but the second was that at the end of all this. It's all going to work out for the good like even if it's hard even if it looks ugly in even if it feels heavy and it feels like I've done everything wrong in the process which you and I have both felt at times during this. I'm sure is it all ends up working out for the good. I mean my life now. A is a great representation of that right. I learned a lot from my experiences. The bachelor the pain was caused. And now I'm able to celebrate with my fiance and enjoy a great life. It took awhile grass room. Thanks Buddy now that I've made that promise to you has held true and again we're GonNa get the details later on but I just want to start this podcast kind of getting a tone of where you're at what you're feeling that our listeners can ride along this journey with you has that held true has worked out for the good. I truly do believe yeah Yeah you you call that. And I truly feel like that is accurate representation of my whole experience Obviously there is a crazy up in nouns in You know I've always been a firm believer that you know things happen for a reason and Sometimes you truly don't understand why things are happening But in the end it's GonNa work out for the better Maybe a couple of weeks ago. You know like Dang. Where's this going you know? How is this even at the very end like I don't? I didn't even know how it was gonNA end. You know after a far you know for a couple days here. There was a lot of this kind of confusion still but through all of that I do feel very good about where I'm at right now Even through all of mistakes I really I really do mean that and You know I'm just. I'm still hopeful. I'm so excited. I'm excited looking forward to the future for what's to come and Yeah I think your advice was spot on. You know like a lot has happened in a lot seems to be happening. I was talking to Ashley earlier. I was like you know. There's very few people that have been in the public eye like you have that had so many headlines so many different headlines written about them as such a small piece in in such a quick amount of time like I feel like every day there is a part of that just becomes a territory like you're popular people have celebrated with you. They've mourned with you. They've criticize you like that. Just comes with being the bachelor. That's just part of it and with the media the way it is today. It's it's flooding information about Peter Webber and what he's doing and who is dating and where he's been and all this stuff this is a lot has happened with you. Read is it. Is it all? I mean you're not a professional entertainer. None of the waiter. How are you dealing with this like this? You've said you've developed tough like tough skin. That's Great. I'm glad to hear that buddy like I am so happy you say that but like that's not the full truth here and we. I WanNa hear your full truth like you don't just develop tough skin because you get criticized enough you have to do things in the process of getting to the place where you can handle it and there's a lot of pain involved in getting to that place in that time like what is that been like for you. I mean it. Hasn't it hasn't been easy. Obviously there's there's absolutely no way to prepare for this kind of attention to be brought upon you There's just no way just like I felt like you know even going through the experience of being the bachelor as much as we talked and all the advice that I asked you know from you and that you gave me and I took to heart. It's IT'S STILL. There is no way to completely prepare for being the bachelor So with all his attention just kind of being cast on analogies everyone. You know every little thing. I do is analyze. That part is been. It's been tough and like it in the beginning. It's like it just almost kinda consumes you because for me on like literally everything I do. I think about okay. What people's reaction going to be this and is this going to be criticized or is this going to be accepted in that part kind of stocks and I have not necessarily enjoyed that and at some point you just have to.
"peter weber" Discussed on Bachelor Happy Hour with Rachel & Ali – The Official Bachelor Podcast
"What's Fascination of course? We hope you're all staying safe healthy saying I know you're probably a little stir crazy and I am. I know Becca is actually. I'm oddly content right now. Which is weird so I just feel like. I'm GONNA crack any moment but whatever you're feeling right now we are here to make you feel better because we have on the fogcast today. None other than Peter Webber. That's right I feel like this has been an unusual season because usually you get your answers. You kind of know how things in and you move on and you get ready for the next season. Well that hasn't been the case because we are in quarantine there's not a current bachelorette season filming right now. Things were kind of up in the air when it came to Peter Season. We've never seen an ending like this. So we were just kind of left in limbo so none of us know much more than we're seeing out there today so finally we'll get to see what's going on from Peter Himself. Yeah Rich I cannot wait. This is one of the interviews that I mean. Obviously we have been waiting awhile for because we did not get to speak to Peter after the finale. Unfortunately and this is probably one of the most requested interviews. We've had yet. I generally still to this day good. Dm's being bring Peter on Peter on so today is that day now. I don't know about you but on a very selfish and personal level. I'm just dying to know what's going on. Because like you said we kind of get little tidbits of Info here and there of what? Maybe maybe what? He's doing where he is who he's hitting you know with But it hasn't confirmed by Peter himself yet and so I can't wait to get him on Obviously we've spoken with Hannah. An after the finale. We've got her take but we need. Peter's take too because there's probably much more to the story and we're missing a lot You know a lot peter like I regardless of what people think about Peter and how his season ended is to love him. I still want nothing but the best for him so I really want to hear from him because we have some major questions and so I just think for the sake of everyone we just have to get into it. Bring him in because the getting Becca from the beginning commission recently. We've joked season like we have seen when it was going on. There was so much shawn where like we just needed to get to the end. We just wanted to end and figure out what's going on and like we never got anything because obviously the way everything panned out. He didn't end up with anyone as far as we know at this point who who knows if things have changed since then so I think we're going to say well. No I was going to say even the finale normally from the finale we get some type of resolution but because of barb who we adore we it was like the focus went towards that. Yeah so we didn't even focus really on the fact that Peter Dumped Hannah and his relationship with Madison because the focal point was barbed right. So Chris Harrison didn't get to dig deep so today we're GONNA play Chris. Harrison can't wait. Well I think without further ado we just have to get into it. We have to get started with Peter so ladies and Gentlemen Bachelor happy our listeners. Please give a warm. Welcome to our latest Bachelor Peter Walker He. Okay you've heard richland. I talk about how much we love. Bud Light Seltzer. And if you haven't tried it yet let me tell you you are missing out but let seltzer is five percent alcohol and only one hundred calories and the best part is that it tastes great also by just came out.
The Bachelor’s Peter Weber and Madison Prewett End Their Relationship 2 Days After Dramatic Finale
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'The Bachelor' Peter Weber's Mom Barb Has Ashley I. & Jared Haibon Upset
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Cosmopolitan Pulls Bachelor Contestant’s Cover Due to White Lives Matter Modeling Past
"There is one person that has been canceled I mean I don't know if you know this but on last night's episode of the bachelor do you still watch it's got I did not watch last night now but you do sometime occasionally yes okay Peter Weber you familiar nope really yes some of the remaining ladies at a photo shoot for Cosmo with one of the girls getting chosen for the cover at the time they chose Victoria fuller but check it yesterday they announced their ditching that cover because of Victoria's association with white lives matter oh boy back in the day she modeled a white lives matter baseball hat so because most said unequivocally the White lives matter movement does not reflect the values of the Cosmo brand we stand in solidarity with black lives matter and the any because the fights in injustices for people of color you're
Peter Weber Is The Next Bachelor
"Pilot Peter Webber who came in third place on a had a brown season of the bachelorette famous for his four times in a row in the windmill yeah he's going to be the season twenty four bachelor and he has incredible