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Armistice remembrance seeks return to normalcy amid COVID-19
"Almost this remembrances around the world have returned to some sense of normalcy after the covert nineteen pandemic glossier wiped out ceremonies to mark the end of World War one how are you when I first arrived at my first stop vice president Pamela Harris meets French president Emmanuel mackerel in Paris prior to a moving tribute to how both nations had stood together to force a retreating Germany into surrender on the Bemba eleven at eleven AM nineteen a team Charice had met with more calm after the at least say presidential palace on Wednesday evening with a agreed that countries are ready to work together again the vice president's trip comes as part of a weekslong efforts by Washington to mend relations with Paris I'm Charles the last month
How To Keep Your Job On Vacation With Hubspot's Pamela Bump
"Pamela as marketers. Get a break as well. Some of us wanna take a vacation but you know marketing never stops how marketers keep their job while they're on vacation i think there's two elements to marketing teams keeping their jobs while on vacation. I you look at the marketer the marketer which i'll use myself as an example we've all been through a wild year we've had a lot of pivots. Twenty twenty was so wild and unprecedented. We all wanna break. I wanted a break. Everyone on my team definitely wants a break but we want to take that break without throwing any of our processes off so one of the things that i do is focused on really strong communication. I regularly have one on ones with teammates that i work with most often and at these one on ones i might give them a heads up saying. Hey i'm gonna take some time off at this time. If you're going to take some time off let me know. And then we'll come up with a plan of how we can best prepare each other for this time off so we make initial plans there and then on top of that. I will email my team. And i'll say just a heads up that next week. I will be off from this date to this date. Here is my out of office. Plan for example when i'm running emails. I usually schedule the blogs emails a week or so ahead of time. If i'm going to be out. But i will pick another responsible person. A. dr is what we call them. A designated responsible individual to take over the email of something needs to be changed or content. Isn't gonna go out that we've scheduled so that's one of those things l. Include in my out of office plan of who to reach out to. If something urgent happens. And i will also remind people of when they can reach out to my manager could she can make calls for me usually end. That's just a good way to remind people that i'll be out. Usually nothing urgent will happen in the summer. When i when i have taken time off but it's good to have that information and people know whether something is something they should email me about and i'll return the message as soon as i get back or if it's something needed to reach out to another teammate. About but i usually try to schedule as much in advance as possible and then make a little out of office plan.
A Record Number of Women Are Driving Trucks to Pay the Bills
"Record. Numbers of women are getting jobs as truckers demand for new drivers and higher pay are big factors. Here's stephen basan with the gulf states. Newsroom it's worth remembering that. Trucking is a pretty rough job for long hauls. It means sleeping in a caught behind the front seats. All those hours of sitting behind the wheel can lead the blood clots. Plus you're driving around the seventy foot long vehicle dangerous enough leads to different horns. Pamela williams is a truck driving instructor with dnc training academy in jackson mississippi. You scary situation that people are exposed to that kind of startled them but that the no truck ezekiel alien. Please get your life yet. Despite how intimidating the job could be more women. Today are taking the wheel and driving across the country. Williams says the main reason comes down to pay. Because i mean you looking at. I could go to a job. They'll work forty hours and bring home four hundred dollars. I could go out here in a week and make a thousand dollars a quick thousand dollars doing something that i like to do. That's good a lot of the retail and restaurant. Jobs typically held by women were much more likely to vanish during the pandemic. Some trucking jobs also disappeared early last year. When everyone went on lockdown but demand for drivers started skyrocketing soon after as online shopping surged. That's led to higher pay which is attracted a lot more people including women. The number of female truck drivers has jumped almost double digits in the last year. According to the us labor department's
Marketing Channels That Dip In The Summer With Hubspot's Pamela Bump
"So let's talk about what happens in the summer from a marketing channel perspective. What are the channels that you've seen have dipped or less performance during the summer. This isn't one of the deeper things that the analysis team that i worked with looked at but from working as an audience growth manager there are definite seasonality trends that you see with different channels. One in particular is organic search. When summer hits there are a lot of different holidays and with times of holidays and holiday weeks. You're going to see people searching different things so that might be in your favor so if your travel company and people are starting to search travel terms more often you might see that your content is getting more organic traffic. But if you're a beat to be company and people are searching leisure restaurants things related to just going out and unrelated to be to be. You might see less organic traffic. That's very normal and that's also something. We do see in december in january when people are searching things related to the holidays like new year's new year's resolutions christmas content. Things like that so while you can zone into the holidays and create content around the holidays or around the summer trends which the hub spot blog at least does regularly. There will be times of seasonality where you really can't avoid the search currents there another area you might see. Less engagement is email marketing at hubs bought. I do email marketing for the blog. And i supervise the sales service and website email marketers. Who do that for those blogs so while. I'm doing the marketing blog every year. We always see that. We're going to see less engagement in the summer months just because people are logged off and tuned out. One of the things we discussed in the last podcast was that people have been cooped up for months and now we're able to go outside and explore the world and because of that there's people taking more personal time in more vacation than the past in past years so because of that we're seeing less engagement on email as well
What Is The Summer Marketing Slump With Hubspot Senior Manager Pamela Bump
"Pamela. Welcome to summer slump. Week on the tech podcast. Thank you. i'm really glad to be here excited to have you as our guest. Always a pleasure to talk to someone from one of our most important sponsors hub spot. Thank you in advance for helping to support the martic podcast and also thank you for joining us. You're the expert on what. I enthusiastically called summer slump month but i probably should say summer slump month. Talk to me about what the summer slump is. So recently i worked with my editorial team and some hubs by content analysts and we did some deep data research into the potential of summer slump. So the idea of summer slump is that businesses occasionally see seasonality and issues with getting high engagement high traffic high deal closing rates during the summer. These things tend to dip because a lot of people are kind of unplugging we see a lot of people taking time off a lot of teams might lose some motivation and productivity during the summer which is a natural thing to see but we wanted to do some deeper research to see how it might be different this year compared to twenty nineteen which was the last recent year that was uninfected by the pandemic since the pandemic did impact summer related data and data in general last year so we did some deep data to look into summer slob and we learned a bit about which industries were seeing some of the biggest dips and the biggest rises and business upticks in the summer this year. A lot to unpack there. Let's start off with the reason why there is a summer slump. You mentioned that last year was a little bit of a unique snowflake for reasons that do not need to be rehashed covert but this year is kind of a little bit more of a regular old year. People are out and about doing things but we still see some softening in the summer. I know who i blame. It's children they don't have school so parents have to take care of them. So they're away from work so we all get
Afghanistan: 20 Years of Mindless Mission Creep
"September. The eleventh was planned out of afghanistan. Three thousand people murdered in the space of one hundred and two minutes in a country. That was truly perfect to establish it. Training base is to house a mastermind. A of muslim fundamentalists never functioned as a nation on even during the monarchy that ruled it for a few years in the one thousand nine hundred seventy s no the nation whose genetic warrior bloodymindedness soul alexander the great defeated so the british empire at its height defeated so the soviet union which dis- deployed helicopter gunships against civilians. Landmines disguised as plastic toys to main but the children of that benighted nation. None of them could defeat the afghan tribes and our elite after deploying the best of the best special operators special forces. Cia pamela trees in october the month after september the eleventh in an amazing mission the quintessence of irregular warfare unconventional warfare. With just three hundred guys literally on donkeyback with laptops and laser-guided munitions leveraging twenty-one thousand indigenous anti-taliban northern alliance took down a tyler ban. This tried the out kind training camps and forced been laden to run and hide in likewise fundamentalist pakistan that amazing mission october. What happened twenty years of mindless mission creep. Twenty years of cretans. Who'd been to harvard and yellow convincing us and themselves because they believe as well that we're going to create democracy in south asia. The girls will go to school. Music will be legal again. And they'll be hospitals across ghanistan and civil society and gender studies. At the university. In kabul cretans imbeciles all of them
Why Do We Forget so Much of What Weve Read?
"I've been thinking about a conversation that we had about a tree grows in brooklyn. Do you recall this conversation. Do you said you loved. That book loved loved. Loved it. but you couldn't remember single thing about it. Yes so. I thought you might have forgotten the conversation about how i had forgotten but anyway my point is that it's a really interesting thing that people can read books that they absolutely love so much that they're like evangelical trying to get everyone to read this book and then when you ask that person oh well what's it about. There's this long pause because like me. They have no idea at all who the protagonists were the plot. Was it a tragedy. They just have this residue of emotion. That says i loved the experience of the book and it makes me think of that actually. I don't think he's actually my angelou quote. People may forget what you said but they'll never forget how you made them feel. I don't think my said that. But i do think it's an interesting question whether we may forget what is in a book but we don't forget how it made us feel. What do you think. There's a nice thought on this topic that resonated with me. pamela paul. who's the editor of the new york times book review. She says when. I'm reading a book that i even really like. I remember the physical object. The addition the cover says. I usually remember where i bought it. Or who gave it to me. Which to me is really lovely and important information. What i don't remember she rates. Is everything else. So what's in the. I don't think that this is uncommon. You have those kind of connections to books. I do sometimes remember the cover. Or even whether i took out like outside papery part it gets in the way so i often remember. Did i take the cover off of this one or did i not. I find that my memory does hang onto some things. Which honestly i find to be. Not that useful. Mostly i remember how i felt. I remember whether i liked it. Or whether i didn't like it. Maybe that's what i want to remember. Like when i'm reading it i want to know whether i'm going to want to look fondly back at this or recommended to stephen. It could just be functional.
Dana Spiotta Talks About Wayward
"Deana spilled a joins us now. From the catskills. She is the author of many novels including innocence and others lightning field and stone arabia and her latest book is called wayward dana. Thanks for being here. Thanks so much for having me pamela. So this book begins with a house. Why what is this house. And what role does it play in the novel. Well it's a falling down arts and crafts house. That's in the city of syracuse. The main character. Sam has a habit of going to these kind of open houses. With no intention to buy and she finds us wreck of a house and syracuse you can actually buy houses for forty thousand dollars thirty thousand dollars that are completely falling apart and she just impulsively signs a contract for this house senate. Only when she's driving home that she realizes she's going to leave her husband and her entire life. And i think one of the questions that drives the novel in the beginning is why does she do this really reckless thing with her life and and i think she falls in love with the and i am part of me was thinking of writing a midlife person blowing up their life but i didn't want it to be because they fell in love with a younger lover which seems kind of cliche. I thought we're done with that. We're dealing with no this house. And i think the question is what is the house speak to her and i guess it wasn't what i was writing it. I didn't think about it as much. But after i thought okay. The house is hiding in plain sight at you could ignore it or you can look closely and see the beauty there and i think she's she thinks it speaks to her and she's the only one that can still see that it's beautiful and so maybe that has something to do about the state. The cheese in or that. Her life is in to that. She needs to kind of look at her life in a different way so she can see what's still beautiful and what still needs work. Maybe
In Virginia, Military Veterans Take on Their Next Mission: Farming
"Almost half of America's farmers are planning to retire in the next five years, and it's not clear who will replace them. But a group in Alexandria may have a solution. They're working to introduce veterans to farming. As CBS national correspondent Chip Reid tells US vets and farmers have a lot in common. Jenny has camp spent 15 years as a United States Marine. Now she's a farmer with a focus on flowers. These are what I want. She learned the science and the art of farming here at Arcadia Farm in Alexandria, Virginia, on land once owned by George Washington. It's exhausting. It's hot. It's buggy, and it's the most satisfying and the happiest I've ever been. She began three years ago in Arcadia's part time veteran Farmer Reserve program that gives veterans and opportunity to decide if farming is for them. For her. It was a perfect fit. I think it's an incredible program for veterans transitioning from years of service into the next career, she now farms here full time and dreams of one day having a small farm of her own. Pamela Hess is executive director of Arcadia Farm and helped create the veteran farmer program. The goal is to give veterans an opportunity to earn a living in a new but surprisingly similar. Walk of life. They can work in all temperatures. They can carry very heavy loads. They're great at long term planning. They are not freaked out by crisis. Farmers and military folks have a very similar mindset when it comes to their work. Farming is a mission oriented business in the same way that military mission is you can't stop at five o'clock you stop when the mission is
"pamelas" Discussed on Murder City: True Crime of Houston, Texas
"Back with another missing persons mini sold. I'm c. c. I'm the in. This is murder city true crime of houston texas and on this missing persons mini. So we're going to talk about young. Pamela and michael mayfield aged five and six right. So they went missing january tenth of one thousand nine hundred eighty five. I know i know you gotta throw it back. Some of us were barely alive. Then i was not alive waiting for okay did not. I was waiting before. I didn't wanna poke the bear. But i wasn't even a thought when even a glimmer in your papas. I michael and pamela. They were both in kindergarten. They went to kindergarten at betsy. Ross school which is located off fifty nine near cavalcade which is on what side of town for the people that don't live in the city of houston like the northeast ish town now. What i say. The school is close to fifty nine in cavalcade. I mean it's it's act. Fifty nine and advocate like you could throw a rock in thin in eighteen wheeler driving down fifty nine so this is a close in houston terms. This is close in. everybody's turn. Yes you're you're on fifty nine in cavalcade. If you're at the school michael sakes pamelas five in school at out. So they caught the butts like normal elementary school kids not quite so. The parents picked him up no. So how'd they get home. Ok well they stay with their grandmother. right cam. Grandma's house is closer to collins worth. Which is grandma's house is about point six miles away from the school. Okay now it's also on the other side of fifty nine between the school and home. What you're saying is you have to cross a major freeway. No matter what bright. It's also about a thirteen minute. Walk which these two kids five and six would do every day after school. So if i understand you correctly a five and six year old walked over a half a mile to and from school we can presume daily since this is what they were doing the day that they were last seen.
The Lives of Flies
"Jonathan bell joins us now from belleville ontario. His latest book is called superfly to unexpected lives of the world's most successful insects jonathan. Thanks for being here. Good to be here pamela. I have to ask immediately about that. Subtitle why successful. It's not greatest. It's not most exciting or most helpful. It successful what is success for a fly. Well i'd say a a number of measures the diversity for one there's over one hundred sixty thousand described species and it's important to add that qualifier described. Because it's estimated. There may be about five times that many that are undescribed and consider just how numerous flies are an insect insects up eighty percent of all animal species on the planet. So that says something right there. About how incredibly successful they are and flies are arguably the most species rich subset of insects. It's estimated there's about twenty million flies on earth at any one moment for every human who's on the earth and they occupy all seven continents so those are just some of the measures by which we might conclude that flies are enormously successful. See all of those numbers to me are horrifying and i guess you know flies to me are the stuff of horror movies and also very good short science fiction story on which those movies are made. What was the draw for you to look at flies this extensively and write an entire book about them. The fact that they are so unpopular is one draw for me. I love to explore unpopular animals and usually when one does that one finds many reasons to like them in the case of flies. We should recognize that they are vital pollinators. They ranked second only to bs as the most important pollinators. And they're actually the champion pollinators at high latitudes and altitudes. they're also absolutely vital. Waste disposers yet. That may give us a gross reaction when we consider that many flies cleanup poop and rotting bodies. But if they didn't do that the world would be a lot fowler and more pestilential place and their vital elements of food chains both predators and consumers of microorganism other insects and other creatures but also as food for fishes birds mammals. They play an incredible role in making microbes bioavailable to organisms higher up in food chains microbes are just too small for for other bigger animals to eat insects. Make make make that energy available. So that's another vital thing that they do
George Packer on Our Divided America
"Packer returns to the podcast with his new book. Last best hope. America in crisis and renewal. He was here of course for his previous book. Our man richard holbrook and the end of the american century and is the author of many books including the national book award winner the unwinding an inner history of the new america. The assassin skate. America and iraq blood of the liberals the waiting and towards. Welcome back to the podcast so good to be with you pamela. So this is an interesting book. A short book for you. You say in the book that you modeled this political pamphlets often written during periods of crisis. Can you talk a little bit about that tradition and why you chose to do that with this particular book. Well i love pamphlets. they're short. They're usually intense and urgent because they're responding to a crisis in a certain moment but if they're well done. They lost their books that you wanna read decades. Later some examples are common sense by thomas paine democratic vistas by walt whitman. Which influenced me in this book. Walter lippmann drift and mastery and george. Orwell's the line in the unicorn written during the blitz in in london in world war two. I was trapped like so many people by the pandemic. I couldn't move around report much. But i had a head full of ideas. I had lots of things going on in my head. And i thought the best way to use this time is to write a short book. While i'm quarantined that tries to figure out what i'm thinking and what i have to say about the moment that were ended so the the pamphlet form seemed like the right one for the circumstances that we were all facing
How the Nose Knows
"Think about your favourite smells. I love vanilla and cinnamon or men rosemary stuff. That smells good. Fresh maybe delicious. I just love anything that smells like grapefruit or one of my favorite sense is eucalyptus. All my favorite smile is lavender but favorite smells tend to be part of a bigger picture of things and people. We care about fond memories. So maybe you love the smell of fresh tar because it reminds you of the freshly tarred and perfectly smooth street where you and your childhood friends went rollerblading. Especially in the summer when it's really hot in the sun is just like boiling that street. You would smell the tar. I like the smell of firewood. And anything hosted like s'mores tiki torches. Those smells remind me of situations where i'm around. Good company or the smell of freshly cut grass. Brings you back to your first job mowing lawns with simple. Satisfying wendy's outside smell is a powerful trigger for memories like being in my grandmother's tomato garden in the summertime and remembering her name her perfume but the spell of the tomato leaves us. I would help her. You know we'd and plottings off of the vines so it seemed that smell always held some special meaning for me in terms of a sensory system that added a really interesting dimension to my life. That's pamela dalton and she's turned her appreciation of the sensory system into a lifelong research career. She's an factory scientist. At the mo- nell chemical sensors center in philadelphia as turn out the olfactory system which is really part of the oldest part of the brain is also a part of the limbic system.
Juneteenth: A Celebration of Freedom
"Many people think slavery ended on the day. Abraham lincoln issued the emancipation proclamation in january eighteen. Sixty three but it actually took more than two and a half years for it to become official throughout all of the confederate states. Our correspondent pamela. Kirkland calls up. He's a museum specialists in oral history at the national museum of african american history and culture in washington. Dc to explain a bit more about the history of the holiday. We'll just start with what is juneteenth. June taint juneteenth this great day that is celebrated because on june nineteen eighteen. Sixty five general. Gordon granger arrived in galveston texas with order numbers sri announcing that the enslaved were now free this is important because although the emancipation proclamation had been signed in eighteen sixty three it had a little to no impact almost of the enslaved throughout the south. Because if there weren't union soldiers there to enforce it it literally. Nothing in did not change of your life if you were enslaved human being in texas. Which was the westernmost state. There was very little union presence throughout the war so it was as if nothing had happened in fact there were slave owners. He moved west to continue. The practice of slavery moved to texas for that purpose so this day this was a big day. He arrived with almost two thousand troops. Some of whom were united states colored troops and they enforced this order. What what kind of the history. Of june teeth in the legacy. It's only recently really bad. It's become more widely known. Yes i well. It started in texas so immediately a year. After this announcement they have the first juneteenth In texas in houston. The african americans their a saved up. Money and bought land is specifically for this purpose that became emancipation park and it was practiced throughout texas In also places like oklahoma is started to slowly spread with the great migration in which you see different ways so it was celebrated through the turn of the century than it waned a little. Then you see it's coming back after the after world war two then. There was another big boost after the civil rights era after the sixties. What are some of the exhibits that highlight juneteenth And demands pation. We have an entire gallery devoted to slavery and freedom so there you will find of of many artifacts relating to we have the actual copy of Mation for example we have of many artifacts related to the underground railroad movement. Things that belong to harriet tubman such as show in our
EU Threatens U.K. With Tariffs as Northern Ireland Spat Escalates
"Auction On the sidelines followed more of than the summit, a month British of Prime online Minister Boris bidding, Johnson and the winner met will with his be French identified and German counterparts, in a couple of weeks along just ahead with of EU the flight, bloc leaders more on than the 7500 issues. people NPR's from 159 Eleanor Beardsley has more. countries The two registered sides are locked to bid in an on escalating that ride. diplomatic feud This over is Northern NPR Ireland, news. the only This part is of the UK 90.9 that has a land w border bur with an e U member. in sports. The Republic Blue Jay of Ireland. six Red Sox The zero EU is threatening in the sixth legal at action Fenway of Now, Britain continues our forecast to delay partly implementing cloudy new tonight checks alone on goods in the upper coming fifties. into Northern Mostly Ireland sunny from tomorrow the rest low of the eighties. UK Chance They're of required showers under on the terms Monday. of the breakup, Mostly cloudy but London mid seventies says the checks, impose sunshine a burden Tuesday on businesses Chance and of threaten showers, the hard Low eighties won peace. and President sunny and dry Biden Wednesday doesn't and want Thursday to get pulled Upper into seventies Brexit but is concerned It is about 68, its potential now threat in Boston to Northern at 66 Ireland's peace were accord. funded by you, our European listeners Commission and by the had Corporation Ursula Thunder for Public Line Broadcasting, tweeted after a meeting private Johnson corporation that Northern funded by Ireland the American peace people is paramount and and that both Ural sides and must Pamela implement Moment, what thanking was agreed upon. the people who Eleanor make public Beardsley. radio NPR great NEWS
Interview With Author, Sasha Issenberg
"Sasha is and joins us now. From santa monica california he is the author of several books including the sushi economy globalization and the making of a modern delicacy the victory lab the secret science of winning campaigns outpatients the astonishing new world of medical tourism and his new book the engagement america's quarter-century struggle over same sex marriage. Sasha thanks for being here thanks pamela. Let's start with something that probably not a lot of your readers will know but you know very well and i know which is that. This book was supposed to come out a full year ago. In june twenty twenty and it was one of those books that was delayed by the covid pandemic but maybe delayed the most. What was that like. It was tough so it got delayed three times in the last year. And i think some of that was in the spring. It was a marketing consideration that with bookstores closed and no live events. A lot of publishers held their books back and then it was supposed to come out last september. And by that point it was sort of a manufacturing problem as best i gathered. Publishers can actually get the books out of warehouses because people were sick. I learned the hard way that book publishing facilities are basically like meat. Packing plants with with wood pulp. So i had a lot set up last fall. And i had to put it all on hold and here i am must be a big relief if nothing else it is and you know. It was pretty cautious in writing this book of understanding that this was a topic where it was possible events in the news could affect it and tried to write it so that when it came out it would be current and i think there was some possibility that things can happen over the last year. That would change that dynamic and they really haven't in a significant way which is which is useful.
The Connnection Between AG Barr's Departure and China's Blackmail on Biden, Congress Officials
"As well and tell me if you can see what's going on. So I look at the next article. It's from Axios. It says exclusive. Suspected Chinese spy targeted California politicians Bethany Allen and Zach Dorfman. He said. Look at the date which for those of you watching on Fox Nation home, I highlighted right there. There you go. Bam! Wrestling by paper flip there. The date on that is December 8th of 2020. Mhm. I still wasn't picking it up. I said Yes. Send me what else? What else yet? He said, I want to look at this one more. This third article. Maybe now it'll all start to make sense. Third article, CNN, Evan Perez, Pamela Brown federal criminal investigation and a hunter. Biden focuses on his business dealings in China. I was like, Yes, yes, I think I got. Would I picking up what you're putting down right now? The fighting 279. I'm getting it Daddio, he said. Look at the date on the CNN piece about Hunter Biden in China. There's a common thread here. It's December 10 2020. Mm. Checking out the dates of these seemingly unrelated events. My source says to me. I think there's something there. Is it possible that on the way out the door Before Bill Barr resigned. In December of 2020. He obviously knew he was going to leave, probably as early as November, if not earlier. Is it possible that Bill Barr New China had a 47 FT High stack of blackmail paperwork on Hunter Biden, Eric Swalwell and maybe other members of Congress. Oh Oh oh, He's like You think these dates are just one big
Civil Rights Leaders Don’t Budge Key Senator on Voting Bill
"Vice president Kamilla Harris is the White House will continue pushing for legislation to help protect voters who states are imposing new restrictive laws we are weaker as a democracy we impede interfere with or suppress that right to vote with the key Senate democratic Nelson he won't support voting rights legislation vice president Pamela Harris as the White House will work harder and let people know Hey you may not have that drop box that you voted you that use last election may not be there speaking in Mexico she says president Biden will invoke executive orders where possible GOP Senate leader Mitch McConnell says a federal bill isn't needed against the law to discriminate in voting on the basis of race already a group of black pastors is planning a trip to Washington next week to lobby members of Congress to pass the voting rights bill Jackie Quinn Washington
"pamelas" Discussed on Horizon Talk Radio's podcast
"The first lady january. I think we've got another one on sunday. The the seems to have a lot of gentlemen but the wants ringing common though very different people different artists from different genres. And you know they really love mulcahy open them so nice to meet even open his allows funds. Thank you so much. Thanks for having me and to all your fans. Please support any indie artists. That comes on here. Like i said we work hard to put out music and that's our passionate in heart and you're hearing it so we love it so we appreciate you a of a kind with today. I mean whether people will help not and the guy as well maybe someone. You're listening to the india. Chev- on horizon talkradio. Maybe could lend us your voice for will jingle there you get so if i could say like. Hey everybody. this is pamela hopkins from valona arkansas. And you are listening to horizon. Talk radio in your website on top of that. You'll be doing altogether. I'll send you a message that is. That's good thank you in the skype bucks. I don't know how to do that. I'm scott stupid. Let me just seen mile. But it's not osma Okay hang on pamela. I gotta. I think i found it music. Wage outlook dot com. okay. I'm sitting in my email to you there you go. Yeah yeah and if you do that. I will gladly send your radio promo for that. If you very much. Thank you to all the day you too bye bye bye bye..
"pamelas" Discussed on Horizon Talk Radio's podcast
"Twenty six of a poem woods. Senate been four weeks. Another scotland's figures haven't really grown big. The england figures has because of the blame onto ken. The blame on to india the blame onto somebody else. Next brazil varian that voted down the south african. It's a fact this covid. Nineteen thing is going to be at the flu. We're gonna have to live with it but nobody should shut down the whole world ever again just because of the virus at least the the probably had to plan for the future. I hope so. 'cause i mean i know it's destroyed a lot of people's livelihoods and their their businesses. Especially here. I don't know about there but friends have lost businesses. Because they couldn't open you know or people were scared to come out because you know. I think the the media has a lot to do with the scare tactics. Yes it's a virus. Yes be careful yes. Wash your hands keep your distance but for some places to stay open in some places not to you know just destroyed people's lives livelihoods especially those who had just opened their business like say right before code hit. They just sent in their life savings into a business for to sail and now they have nothing you know then they can't even pay their mortgage your house. She says it's a bad roller coaster to be on so. I hope that we've learned something you know for the the future like you said and that doesn't happen again It's a little things that we learn now olten On the night of play the little.
The Road Ahead for Photography Businesses, with Zenfolio
"Today we're going to give you guys some insight. You got a player that is smack. Dab in the middle of the photography industry has decided and agreed to join me on the show to talk about some of their findings with regard to what the heck is happening as has happened in the photography industry. how has it evolved. Hasn't gone lebed isn't gonna write going up and down whatever we're gonna talk about that and here to talk about. It are some senior executives from a little company. You may have heard of called zinn. Folio john and pamela. Welcome to the show. guys frederick. Thanks great to be here. Yeah you're you're a completely welcome. Thank you for doing this. I know time is short. And i want to make sure we maximize all your time on this show Let's let's do some introduction before we dive in tamil. Let's start with you. what what is your major function. Ads in folio absolutely so. I'm in charge of all things. Customer customer support customer success. I lead an amazing team who are primarily the tigers themselves which really makes us unique in that when we're talking the and helping them with their business we have a really unique point of view of completely understanding what it's like to be a small business owner and to be a photographer with clients Having certain expectations. yeah yeah. Those expectations change a lot right as the industry shifts changes. I've been in it for several a couple of decades now and a lot of things changed with. We're gonna talk about in this interview. So absolutely i mean i think about when i got married and how long it was to get my wedding photos back and now it's very common in wedding wedding photography to even have pictures of the ceremony showing during the reception on as a slide show. So it's kinda like that's gone from an eight week. Lead time to you need to be ready
"pamelas" Discussed on Pantheon
"Music culture conversation between men and good old fashioned rock and roll sushi. So now i give you miss pamela. And her gym party dolls. You have entered. Miss pamelas pajama party. So put on your jammies and get cozy on your couch and listened to me. I have an amazing guests today. Anyway i'm a groupie as you probably know by now. And if being groupie all it means is loving music being around musicians you love getting to know them. I often say it's another word for love. And i'm on pantheon podcasts. Those are my bosses so be nice to them. Okay they take care of me and we have so many podcasters. I can't you know they're sixty or more now. So we're i think we're the biggest music podcast of all time. So you're in the right place anyway. Today i have an incredible guest. I was guest of his in his new dock. Zappa and i got the thrill of calving him interviewed today. And it's you're going to enjoy him so much because he is of course in bill and ted's excellent adventure and this all the bill and ted's i actually just watched face the music that is hysterical. And you know they they act exactly the same way. Only the middle aged man so freely is hysterical and very funny and somebody plays jimi hendrix in it and he does a really good job so check that movie out and.
"pamelas" Discussed on What Book Hooked You?
"I came out of that experience. A better writer mainly due to the connections a community that bill and i'm thinking of one person in particular who is now one of my best friends in the world You know my cousin. I my cousin will. I was grateful enough as she has a strong affinity for creative writing tuesday obese. Did it together really gonna do this. We're going to do it together. Which was awesome. So i had with my partner crime with me and then we met our best friend in that program and through her You know we started a literary magazine. Novy washer wasserman to create her own writing studio and doing her own podcasts. And you know just kind of like seeing that drive of you know what can happen and like we became critique partners even to this day we each other are manuscripts. So i think being able to build that trust and allowing someone else to see your words as not family and being able to kind of See some can do with their degree on beyond the standard. You know because. I will say i had great professors there but i think that they wanted me to write something else. I remember. my thesis ended up being a why writing and at the time they had no young adult program at all. Actually they didn't get one so After i graduated there like we don't know what to do with this. Because i was gonna write a young adult novel. And mike might non-fiction visas was win. Why what makes why so appealing like what you do in you know. They had no idea how to wrap their head around it. They try to pair me with faculty members that had a somewhat of an idea there. But i knew it was very new to them so even though i got great feedback it was still something that was like. We all learned together throughout the processes. There was nothing in place that could officially support me what i wanted to do. Basically now and mentioned how really a.
"pamelas" Discussed on Her Business Her Voice Her Conversation
"Next because god willing you still alive. There is a next. That's right and we may as well get with pamelas. Emperor air force do not let it creep up on you. She sank year. It's always hard to close out really really good episodes and this indeed is one a week. Belabored some points because i really want you to feel the power. The patch want you to feel the need to move forward to take take hamlet of on her generous offer. Thirty minute conversation when you when you when you invest thirty minutes with a professional such as herself she can pinpoint right away. What's going on. So do you dare to do that. Are you going to continue to be a tire. Kicker vin to remember you. don't wanna take this stuff to the graveyard got. That's it for today. Another episode her business voice. our conversation. I'll be back next week. We'll be brand new iraq. Take care what she has. Wear your masks. And i'll see you soon. Bye bye now. I want to thank you for listening to business. Her voice here conversation a couple of things that i want you to do right now. Go to my website. Pick up a copy of hurt business. Her voice for reinvention. How from game show happen to international show hopes author and speaker in one year number. Two please free listen to each. And every episode. Share them out with your family friends the men and you alive and the number three getting contact with me. One of the experts that have been on the show. Because i wanted to make sure that you re imbed yourself. I'll be back next. Week was a brand new episode here on her business. Hey votes her conversation..
"pamelas" Discussed on Pantheon
"Dolls. This is Miss Pamelas, Pajama, party on Pantheon podcasts, and here we are again gosh. I. Think this is my fifteenth or sixteenth podcast. I'm so thrilled to be able to do this and share my friends with you and music I love and musicians who I think are worthy of. Some of my fabulous time and your time. And you know a lot of people know me as a groupie and a groupie is just someone who loves music so much they WANNA, be around the creators. And you know it inspires US groupies are inspired by music male female in between doesn't matter. It's all about the music and the love of it. right now unfortunately, my tours you know aren't happening my rock tours of Hollywood and Laurel Canyon soon as this mess is over, I'm going to be doing those again and you can read my column at. Please kill me dot com I just wrote one about. About, my very first live band that turned me on when I was thirteen, they rehearsed in garage across the street. They're called the Rainbow Remembers I just wrote that column. and. I'll be listening to all the Pantheon podcasts. We've got some really I ratings, dolls. We are all music all the time we have like how many now thirty forty podcasters incredible. So please listen to pleasant game. She's a good friend of mine. She has her own podcast now with US pretty thrilling. And tell your friends to listen to us because we are cool. Okay. You're the.
"pamelas" Discussed on Nourish Your Health at every age
"Pamela served from two thousand to two thousand, eight as an inhouse massage therapist at the World Olympic Gymnastics Academy and traveled with the team for the USA Gymnastics National Championships the Pacific Alliance meet and world championships she worked as a massage. And Yoga Instructor, for Brady, James Defensive Captain for the Dallas cowboys she's also very proud of being co founder in advisory Member of Yoga Bridge in Dallas nonprofit that we'll talk more about during the interview. Now locally since two thousand Seventeen Pamela Ryan has been a yoga instructor, the Jalousie Dance Studio, and she also offers massage services at Pasquale Spa, both of which are in Lafayette. I've personally benefited from Pamelas, capable touch is I'm working my way out of chronic pain. The kind of paying that isn't debilitating, but definitely gets in the way free and joyful movement I think our message will resonate with many who have an experienced yoga and will enjoy her thoughts on the importance of taking care of the precious and only body that you've been given. Pamela, Ryan welcome to nourish your health. Thank you Dan for having me. Thank you for being here. We're still taping out of the studio where at my home and we're right by Pasquale spa where I met you in oil center. So I want. To get that plug on. Thank you so much for that I really enjoy working at POSCO spot. We have a lot of good hands. Yeah. Do another podcast Pamela discover Lafayette, and my very first guest was plus cal I just I love her and she made it so comfortable but I started doing these over three years ago and I find that the podcast is such a relaxing to let people learn new things and get to know our community better. So I don't know if a lot of people have met you. You WanNa talk about your journey and what led you into Yoga. Yes. I'm a Lafayette native. Moved away in one, thousand, nine, hundred, ninety. And spent all those years in Texas with my yoga training where does he go to school here in Lafayette I graduated from Karen Crow High School and Nineteen seventy seven spent a couple of years at U..
"pamelas" Discussed on Activate Millions Podcast
"Podcast where Mavericks mystics and visionary leaders gathered a share leading edge out of the box wisdom. That may shock you. It may delight you but it certainly is going to shake things up a bit today I'm talking to my friend Pamela landers about what it takes to share metaphysical wisdom asking for support and Pamelas thirty year journey as a master hand analyst and so much more..
"pamelas" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified
"And they're gonNA have their own fucking affairs and they're just gonNA do their right. Yeah totally totally. Just wait. Yeah but I just think that you've been so forthcoming admire your Esi completely. I would never have had the courage. No except when she got about eight months pregnant he'd be like go. What the fuck. And then you're like well and he. He made such a big deal when he got into the sector. I mean he told the entire world view. Well listen to me. It seems like you have the strength to clearly because this is unbelievably difficult. You're going through and I admire that you've been honest with people You may still have feelings for this younger guy. And that's maybe its own thing because that may have been a degree of passion that you hadn't felt for a while after having four kids and be married at twenty. I think everyone can relate to the idea of like some of making you feel alive again. I think that it's really just brew impressive. That you have been honest. And you've you're trying to solve this problem but the thing is is that I don't know if this problem was just yours in the making I don't mean to say this to instigate any argument between you mom or husband but I do think especially as you're about to give birth if you can find a way to let yourself have some peace and understand that you know beating yourself up or letting people in your life right now at this important time like make you feel. Any degree of stress is just not good physics. You know that's really good point. You need a body man right now. Yeah you need somebody you need somebody to call your friends and be like fuck you. I'm about to go into you. Can't you can't do this alone. You need somebody that you love and trust. You need somebody. You gotTa have a body man. You can't be doing this and if you don't have one right now then you need to focus on the baby. I WanNa ask you one very an eye. Excuse me if it sounds. Disrespectful are ahead. Did you choose to have the baby because of your religious beliefs or because of your feelings for this Guy. I feel like once. You've had a baby Mike there everything and I I mean you know when I just found out I had kinda terrible thoughts but then I thought well you know it's here and what are we gonNA do. You know I want for you and your baby think about your well being and just not punishing yourself. Use Baby will be loved. It'll be loved by everybody but I would clock some of the things like your husband sounds incredible but I would just take note silently for a minute or maybe two people you trust but if you aren't all feeling like he's forgiven you but not actually forgiven you. You know if there's that lingering because that is a tough burden if you're being told that you're of he's not saying general. You can't be like this gift that he's bestowing on you as well. Yeah pamelas right to can't be like I grow. I am so pure as your husband. The grant you the gift of forgiveness. I just want you to if he has those kinds of inclinations like if he's not your partner right just take note of some things and then may be revisited. The now you gotTa make sure he really is over it. I don't know that any might not I mean who could be? But he may have moments where he's like. I Hate You. You betrayed me or whatever but if the majority of the time he's a loving supporting partner that's a good thing it should be all of the time but people lash out. Sometimes you know also Alex is he going to allow the young Christian brother Sheild Mister X to come and visit and because you said that he said he could be as involved as he can. What about the hubs? What is your husband going to do? He moved you across the country like it kind of in his hand and he basically wants him to be able to see the baby. And you want to pay child support. Are they still homeys or no? Well the weird thing is. They have a monthly call. It's the weirdest thing and they talk every month. Like one to Kinda see how everything's going and that's why this is weird. Have They Salihi? Alex have the gravy because yet whenever that happens that that day that they have that call like they sound like they're best even then it's not good afterward. Why why why is it not look what do you mean did you deserve it wakes up back and it? It brings up all the Shiites the. Why does your husband have like is? He's sort of a mentor in the church. Yeah he wants to be able to feel like I don't know honestly I haven't asked him because I don't ask him anything I whatever he wants to give me about the conversation. I I'll listen but usually it's like two hours and then he'll give me like a minute and a half so I don't really know I think Alex to me like there's a bunch of things it can. I don't add up which is probably what you're feeling I think because it is baffling that they have a once a month phone call. It is baffling a little bit. If they were really tight. Why this guy like that? This other guy's not trying to work something on the side. Oh your husband. Is doing this once a month? Phone calls as a proactive measure into himself. Like I want you to take just yeah pretty much. So what does he say to him like? Hey like you need to find like your own lately. What the talk about on these hour and a half. Well they talk about like what the plan is. What it's GonNa look like when the baby comes and you know he's I'm GonNa be the dad in your your the father. Yeah but I'M GONNA BE EVERYDAY DEBT and you're GONNA have to be okay with that and you can visit. That's what it's not gonNA be. You Never GonNa see her ever again in your life and you can see the baby and Omar and your sister's. You're not allowed to have contact with him right ever again. Otherwise if I have contact with them toast what do you mean? You're GONNA fuck them. No nobody is still have feelings clearly. Well well I didn't say that but anyway yeah but but it sounds like an. Forgive me if I'm being presumptuous. I feel like we could talk for like I. Don't know forty eight hours on Baffin because there's a lot here and I definitely feeling my unqualified nece. But what's your age difference with? Your husband's me and my husband are four. He's four over me so it seems like there's control elements that I'm picking up on a bid and I could beat so out of my lane which I probably am a usually do drift but run on that. It's like it's one thing if if you agree to forgive somebody for causing you pain then I think that that should be a step towards progression right as opposed to like setting the rules of like you can never see. I can understand why he would be like. I don't want you to contact them at the time it feels. It feels a little like that's something that you say you're upset and it's not like three or four years in a just feels like she's like trapped by all these. Yeah yes yeah men. And then you're getting moved in your isolated from your soul and they get to control the. Where's where's the joy and the joys in your children? I know that right but are your friends still your friends. They all dropped you or that. You still got somebody who says hey man. It's no no they. They all pretty. I would say all of them but this one lady but she lives in another country. So she yeah. She's the only person that now and then. Oh we use her user though use her. Use An ally that you feel comfortable with even if you don't talk to her too frequently like be aggressive anybody who's making you feel a sense of light right now because that's what you need your baby's needs that's your other kids knee. Yeah and you know. It's lame for people to be judgmental. I mean we all all of us fucking fuck up yeah. Nobody really knows what's going on in intimate relationships so it feels a little cruel for people to abandon you right now especially when you're pregnant in you need to feel a sense of serenity so you can have you know. Let's circle back find love in your life and find support. You need support. You really need to find support. You have beaten the shit out of yourself and everybody else has. This is a fuck. You did a monstrous thing. But is it really monstrous? Is it really? Did you kill somebody? You didn't know you gave in to something that you needed and for me you know on and I were talking before and I'm single and I'm so happy in my life not being in a relationship you need to look at your life and you know you're being so punished right now. Even your living in purgatory. So you've got to look at everything you can't make any huge moves right now you've got to have your aby have a safe healthy delivery for yourself and give it a year. Yeah and then look at where you are. Thank you so hot and remember that this baby was born out of like passion and love but you both deserve leg. Yeah like degrees of joy and your deserves that end. Your kids deserve that and you deserve and you know what your kids will forgive you. Oh fuck yeah they they already are just onto the next thing. They will forgive you. They will love and know this baby. And that's going to be a new phase for you but think about your life in terms of not these men and this will be also a great way for you to find people in your life who are like unforgettable like this person who lives abroad or whatever and they'll be in your life because these other people that are passing judgment. They're just like stupid shit talkers. They don't have enough going on or whatever you know it scares people the air are scaring everybody. This is very tribal thirty. No nuance their hands. Dirty I did everybody's hands Dirty Alex. Everybody's guilty as you know. Listen just try to give yourself peace. Try to find peace and get to the place where you sit with your kids and say I really want this baby to be welcome in. Are you guys good with me? Do you have any questions for me? Yeah this is a really big one. I but please know that your loved I love. You can't thank you enough for talking to us about such big vulnerable issue and I'm really happy for you. Alex Yards Shinkin hot trembling in. Thank you take care of yourself. Thank you have a good baby? Thank you guys just.
"pamelas" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified
"Pamela. We'RE GOING TO CALL SOMEBODY. Okay and we're going to hear what they have to say. Who is it well? This is Alex. Hi Alex it's on affairs. Hi Hi I'm here with Pamela Adlon. Oh my Gosh Hi Pama high better thing and better things there. You Go Will you tell us what's going on? Alex yes okay. So I've been really nice person my entire life and never heard anyone. I grew up in a Christian home and I did all the right. Things never use drugs. That sucks smoke. Nothing like I did everything by the Book Him. Got Married a virgin white and everything. And you know fast-forward fourteen years later we've kind of had like we're really good friends me and my husband. But we don't have like physical attraction which is crazy because he's not unattractive you know but anyway so We've been great friends and we have four kids and I home school and I get involved in things and just kind of forget about the whole physical thing. Because I'm like well I didn't know like that's a shame but it is what happens and I want to do the right thing. But anyway he met this guy at Church of course because it makes it more dramatic and they became really friends and I knew that I was in deep trouble. Because he's all the things right. So Oh my gosh anyway. So I kind of was not economical with my emotions toward this dude but I kept it secret and I thought I could handle it and then I didn't think he had any interest in me a little bit a little bit older than him but then one day. I don't know it just. It went from zero to one hundred in one day and boom. I'm pregnant and it. Kinda got out of control really fast and we both had really strong feelings for each other but we both knew that it was. You know like the wrong thing. We feel really bad about the whole thing and it's just been crazy anyway so. I guess I'd like Sede back on. How crazy this but my question is like how do I move forward to make it right by both dudes because the thing now is that my husband is willing to forgive me which I think it's amazing because we love our kids and you know. How old are your kids? Your four kids so my kids are thirteen and then two years less each one all the way down to seven you church people get. We do right. Young Man is always the Christians if what the Heck Churches Rock knocking Alex my God. So you're doing you're right. It's not about the worst. Because yeah you try your whole life to be perfect and then boom anyway so the other guy the guy is he in a relationship does he have kids. No no no. He's not and he. You know like there was a point where there was like a crossroads where my husband was like not decided he's like. I don't think I can do this and he. He didn't tell me like he had feelings from it kind of happened leader and so I felt like okay. Well you know I. My kids are devastated. You know my oldest kid was really good friends with him. He Potter Music. And all that stuff and so the cat's out of the bag. Everybody knows everybody knows. All my friends dropped me like basically it was like excommunicate. Kado you know well so it was really hard and honestly like it's been super lung nine months but I just WanNa do the right thing. I want the guy to be able to see his baby right. Like I don't WanNa keep hiding live and you know but then I also want not to make my husband super upset so I can't really push for you know what I mean like. I'm not the hand of whatever he wants to do. But then I'm like I also feel really bad because I did this. Everyone you know. Wait a minute. I hear a lot of Guilt from you wore. Yeah I. I was also disciplined by guilt by atheist parents. Which is take a hard thing for me to work out but when you preface your story by talking about how good you've been it makes my heart ache for you a little bit. Because I don't want you to think that you're bad at all you know like I. I just don't think that that's a place to kind of grow from has right. But I don't like that you feel like this is your I mean. We're all fallible and you know you have a beautiful baby growing and you have this crazy story but I mean this is like so you haven't had the baby yet no I'm close but So and so. That's kind of terrifying too. You know 'cause I don't know how the dynamic is going to be in. I don't know how we don't have all the details ironed out on on what we're GONNA do sure and that's okay. I think things will be in flux. I it's definitely worth some healthy lengthy conversations but also you won't have everything figured out ever you know none of us will because things will be influx when the baby's older whatever like it'll just be constant yeah. How does the baby's father feel well? He's really devastated. Because you know he he's not like a deadly guy that doesn't want to like when we found out you know literally were just crying and I was like. Oh my gosh out of this happened. And but he's not the Kinda guy like oh well you guys deal with or whatever he really wants to be involved with the baby even if it means you'll never see me again. Whatever you guys kind of in love with each other I mean you said he was a lot younger. Younger men tend to fall in love. I know and that's the thing like nobody could believe it. Because they're like who wants to lady that have four. You know like even my husband was like I just can't believe like why would he what we will do that. That's a whole other issue. Adult take out in a second. But he's really sweet. He's just I mean. Obviously he's hurt so he's GonNa say rain. Gosh you're wise. But anyway so he wants to be a part of the baby as much as he can. But are you guys still still seeing each other Nakas when it'll happen My husband just took a job like cross the country and we moved in a Zapping zips up and we just left everything. It was like overnight pretty months two weeks later. We're gone. Oh Boy Oh my Gosh you oh man. So you're in this place of kind of of solitude that is tough. I'm sorry I don't know a single person here and yeah so my family also like there now coming around 'cause like the due dates near and they're we'll find you know the baby's coming so we gotta well. I was Gonna say that to you. Alex that might give you some solace. Is that the baby is a rebirth renewal and also will be the death of this bad feeling like the baby is coming and you guys are all welcoming. The baby into the world people aren't going to hold onto that shit. The kids are going to lash out at you. It's always going to be a thing in between your husband and yourself right. You know it's about you having the discipline to be able to raise this child and you know your other kids who are thirteen to seven. But you know if you're not into your husband anymore that's another thing that you might need to look at. We're trying to make the best of things obviously like it's really new and At some point. We'll do some like counseling. And you know do all that stuff so you guys moved specifically because of this if there was a job opportunity or it was you know it was because of this because when I like obviously I wasn't planning on living the double life like I couldn't even hold it in very long and I told him I was like I gotTa tell you the worst thing ever and it was like even remembering mixing have contractions. Oh I think it's really strong. I think it's very noble. An amazing appropriate probably that you are so complementing torture husbands but moving away from your community with four kids with a fifth on the way that feels just a little the. That's you know. I just hope it wasn't punishment. I hope that he just that. He means his forgiveness. It was it was because not trusting her and it was friends and family. He punished everybody by moving even though he has every right to be angry. Freak out you know quitting himself because not you know what I mean like you lost his own community and Shit but was there like that decision feels like that. Come Out of shame from his perspective like he's too you know. I think it was more fear because you know when I told him everything he asked me everything and I I will screw it. If I'M NOT GONNA keep lying to this man I was gonna tell them everything and it's going to work out then he has to know the truth and I've been telling him for years like I. You know I feel only. You're not trying that and nothing ever worked out okay so you you were reaching out to him. You were clanging bell before this happened. Oh I I've been doing this for. But because and like in the great scheme of things he's a great guy like I have no excuse to be like Kay by you know but And my kids. I mean just like my kids are everything so how you door him. I'm thirty five. So my young. Yeah I got married at twenty. Oh Man oh so the okay. Yeah Yeah Yeah. Yeah. Yeah Yeah. What does your family think my Mama's like business and she's really upset and she's like you know she's just really disappointed. You know because I was her star child and you know and now I'm so. Are you going to stay with him? For twelve twelve more years because your seven year old will be eighteen and twelve years. Like I think I'm doing the math because yeah life is short. And here's the thing you know. You have to do the damage control. So where are you now? This is where you are now. Everybody is pissed off at you. Your kids right. Feel like they're never going to forgive you beating yourself up day in and day out. Oh Yeah but you were saying to him. Look at me man. I feel lonely. I feel side. I don't feel like you're pointing your engine. Nothing's coming in my direction. You made your mom upset but your mom if you sit down with her and have a conversation with her. You said your mom was a single mom right. Yeah she was. You know she's eventually going to come around. This baby is going to heal your community. Oh yeah I mean actually literally like. My family apologizes by buying gifts. So I've been getting gifts in the mail the last week so I know that that's all right. We like we love. You still feel like you should do something as simple as having like a town hall and saying Okay Everybody Rodney because it was very lonely and he fulfilled a lot of needs now. I'm having a baby. Can we just? I'm sorry I'm sorry I don't know man already said I'm sorry so many times that I'm like guys. Listen a totally. I mean it's if people need to like whatever vent their stupid shit and your husband is one thing but other people in your life passing judgment over and over again. That's that's like a red flag in a person I think. So maybe be wary of some of those people because we all have. We're all guilty. This is so interesting because this reminds me of. You know you don't have a secret. Yeah here's the thing. You don't have a secret child. Everybody knows about it now. The cats out of the bag fucked up you know and then the crazy part that was talking about is that your husband was like why do you want your ass? You're a mother of four you. It's like Fuck You. That is exactly what you were saying to him. You were like hello notice me. And that's the thing that came back from him you keep saying he's a great guy but he. I mean he just couldn't believe that somebody like usually younger guys want you know like somebody you know what I mean you know. They want money's compatible. That's all you know like it wasn't it wasn't about the physical that was like the end and it didn't even last that long and you know but Alex I think in might be hard to hear but I think what Pamela was talking about is a really fair point. You have shouldered the burden of your transgression. And that's appropriate. Yeah but I also want to be able to have some degree of perspective on all of this. Yeah you know like as the world will open up as time passes as the baby gets older. Whatever your family friends whatever they're going to be mired in their own shit so league. The gossip train will stop because it will be boring..
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"pamelas" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified
"Guest is doing a victory dance with longhorn fingers so growing up. Horn. Glad Harish. Yeah that's amazing okay. So what is the trait that you dislike in yourself? And then what's a trade dislike and others? No it's not. These are awesome questions. Is there amazing? Incredible a trait that I dislike in my bag. I risen. See well you know that I get any neediness with my kids and anxiety get really bad anxiety. What do you do for it cook? I Cook I cook to. It is like a place of refuge. Yup so I got him. Last night I get the Sunday scary. Yes I do. So do you get the Sunday scary? Yes no whim usually happens. That are on Monday at like seven fifteen for me. Its Sunday you know so. I got it last week on Monday because it was a three day weekend so the Sunday scary got pushed over. But yeah it's just about because I have to think of of a million things. I'm running a lot of shit and your Monday probably starts at like five. Am or whatever. Yeah so yeah. There's and you're producing. You're writing the lead. It's it's more like where are my kids today? Ray where are they sitting in their lives? How are they? It's the saying you're only as happy as your unhappiest child so if even one of them's off a little bit. I'm not quite great. Oh you know so if somebody's sad or bummed out or whatever it's nagging it's yeah it's like if they're not presence in your okay. I need to be taken care of the. You never stop worrying. Even if they're over eighteen you know you never stop worrying herbal thing. Yeah Yeah I sort of feel like am I numb a little bit now to the anxiety. Leave is like the their babies. It's like they feel so fucking fragile in your also adjusted to that nervousness of dropping or link per yeah barrage or whatever and then I think you kinda get into a place where you sort of learn how to live with the nervous anxiety ac his. You can't keep up with the hyper. Yeah that elevated level all the time so there. There's this numbness. Yeah it's just that kind of electric eels sometimes happens in my body. When I'm you know thinking about things that are happening and then in terms of professionally your obligations and a lot of people are depending on new and things like that so and I bet you take the fucking best care out of your crew in your cast and that is amazing quality in a leader but it is also can be taxing when you've got like eighteen other things to whatever performance and like all the shit the faces the whatever the fucking all the shit. Because I'm not as good at it as I imagine you are but I feel that a little bit here. Mom I WANNA make sure everyone's happy like and you put that on myself is a responsibility. Yeah okay dislike and others just people who are rude. People who are cold People who are ungrateful entitlement all those things. I'm not fond of you. Know be who you are with everybody. You know if you're sitting with Barack Obama or the guy who is bussing your table be the same person to everybody. Have you had moments as you produce and direction right where you've seen the duplicity and design make you like? I mean I say that because as actors horrible we get glimpses of sometimes but mostly were protected from it. Yeah Oh hey so. I'm GonNa give you your choice k. To whom would you like to apologize? And why what single thing would improve the quality of Your Life. What you consider your greatest achievement. Don't go with can't be fucking homework. I narrow I know or you can answer one of the other ones. Take your own question seat. Favorite Children's book. Are You my mother? Favorite toy slime slime slime is. It was the stuff that I D- releasing few. Oh I'm sure I didn't know that slime was a thing as a child loved it barbies. I love barbies. I was obsessed. We got some things to show. Pamela what did you? What's the most fucked up thing you've done with barbies? Hat's what she said I don't know I just played hard with them. Like my best friend and I when I was growing up her name was Debbie Debris. We lived across the street from each other. She had the townhouse and had the plane the airplane. What I know. Lean is impossible to get it was. I sold it in a garage sale for candy money. I needed candy. Money used to play barbies. And like we would take turns being Ken and Barbie and I remember we would have fights and I would we stick our tongues out at each other with the dolls but then later I got my kids barbies and my oldest daughter Gideon. She would throw the dolls in the air and I would be. What is your problem? And they would land over the fence. We couldn't get him or their heads would pop off and then she cut aerials hair off and I was like this desecration you. Don't fuck with Barbie. So anyway I have a very whorehouse. What what do you mean? Please tell me me me my show you so A. Yeah as I got older to play with. Barbara's like this like I hate you. Mommy mode over and then as I got older. It was like yes. Barbies were house. So I had this whole thing and I had. This fountain had all her legs. Spread like this so it was a fountain to as soon as you walked in. You could mount the wait. How old were you? How old were we ana? I was probably twelve is it. What do you think see? My parents were way more user. I didn't even know no. No no I did this all. Oh Wow oh yeah no. My mom would have been a whorehouse. Oh my God. I love barbies so to to I look who is that. She's Christmas special holiday. She's the commemorative one. I didn't earners special packaging your way through like okay. Now where are you? My first big trip was going to Bermuda Nassau Bermuda. My mom lives in travel agent for. Oh so we went on cruises. Would I WANNA BE? I wanted to be a lawyer. My I wanted to be an attorney and everybody would say you're going to be an actress. You're going to be an actress and it would piss me off and I would say excuse me. No I'm going to be an attorney cut to. What was your first boss? Lake? I don't know I but I worked for a guy who had a store in retail and ghosted him because he was so abusive greatest fear Heights. Why why did you have to go so we used styling like him? I like minded. But why did you have to ghost? I'm usually your first boss. You don't have any contact with don't actually know who my first boss was. Because they did all those jobs right right. Yeah of course that makes sense. Yeah all right. We did some of these. Do you WanNa do anymore by greatest achievement is my kids and who they are even though that's their achievement but just that. I'm alive and that they're in the world and they're like a conic. They're each like Robert. Plant walking around people. They're fucking crazy. Great and Mike Show by show. Isn't it amazing when your kid cracks you up? Oh it's the best. Yeah it really is lately. Jackson Saint L. These like fine clever things. I'm like man he's just and then I'll come into his room to remind him depression teeth. Pj's or that it's dinner and he'll be watching like a tube thing and they'll be some punk kid saying the adorable thing that he just sat the felt like it was head of his time. And it's like no no. He has no original thoughts by God. Doesn't like no? No No? This was all just an illusion because you know what I was. GonNa say to you when he says something that's great rated down but his contract did is compromised. So Jack Yeah some fucking asshole writer wrote it already. Had some punk kids say it and now my adorable. Little blond son is saying things that are a little bit obnoxious exactly but kind of seem advanced closest. I've come to death. Well do we ever really know but maybe the time it was on a plane or the cockpit caught fire. We we today. I was asking Allison Janney. I said so PAM's coming. Look what are the things that I should avoid things that I should like? You know and she said Oh. She has the craziest airplane story. And I said no no no I. I don't know if I feel like once. You hear those things like and we as humans. We feel the need to dissipate our trauma that we have to spread it out so so it diminishes with us with me when a weird thing happen. That's why she knows why it's freshener head because we spent Christmas together. Yeah now that. I've practiced it like this. Will you so I was coming to? La from New York and we were about forty five minutes into the flight and all of a sudden we smelt. Gangs YOU LA. Yes. Sure like over New Jersey. Right now yeah. I don't even know if you're just you're in these and the sky next to me said are they making cookies. Because there's not supposed to be a meal on this flight and then I was like I dunno Bro. And then the captain burst out the cockpit and then the whole Cabin filled with smoke. And he's like yelled at the flight attendant. Get me a fire extinguisher now and he opened the overhead cabinet and there was none in there and he had to run to. We weren't first class. I was in the second row so I was right by the cockpit. Why isn't there a meal being in if you're in first class because this was like a weird hot Sorry wait there's holes in this story so then runs to business. Class to get a five extinguisher goes back into the cockpit. And they've smoke. Hoods whatever they have smoke hoods yeah the flight attendant. Yeah and they. We made an emergency landing. Look to them with their turbulence. You can check into that. They're looking a little nervous. But you see them in smoke not to get into the cockpit. Because that's an alarming site. Oh it was must have been pretty up and I was like kind of in a very zen place. I was just kind of out of my body and looking at it because I was going through my divorce at the time and I just was like. Oh this is going to make it easier for everybody. He could take all the fucking money and everybody's GONNA BE HAPPY. They'll remember me fondly. That's how I felt so. We made the emergency landing in Dallas. And so the guy who was sitting across from me and the guy who was next to me and then the woman who is next to the guy we all kind of trauma bonded on the flight and the way people remember it is because they called it a celebrity filled flight. You know flight one to seven because there was a jersey. Boy Jarrod Spector was on the flight and Olsen twin. Oh she was dating Justin Bartha so it was Mary. Cater Ashley Olsen lovely. Yeah and I was in the front and I was probably the called the Pan Norma and drawn from Californ- occasion didn't get my name right but so when we landed. I had to call my nanny intake. Don't let the girls listen to the radio. I'm fine. I have to take a flight in the morning bub-bubba and so then I kept in touch with me. Nisha was the guy sitting across the aisle from me and that Christmas I stayed at his apartment in Union Square and then we were all going up to Hudson with Janney and like everybody was going to meet up there and I was gonna stay at a bed and breakfast and so I called to talk about my reservation and the guy on the phone said Pamela. A. I was sitting on the plane with you and I said No. I'm in that guy's house who was sitting on the plane with he said No. I'm John I was sitting too. You're right he owned the bed and breakfast in Hudson. Where I fucking stayed when me and Janney and als- mackey and Johnny every so I said what are you saying? I fell to the floor because I was in Minne- Shas apartment but I hadn't told the girls about that until years I didn't WanNA freak them out about getting on played a guy that's smart. Yeah that's amazing..
"pamelas" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified
"Sponsors supports unqualified. Okay so dealbreakers. And you don't have to talk about if you are single or not But this would be dating dealbreaker. Yeah although if you feel like a hydra percent single okay never dating. So let's have fun ever no no. What do you mean like a monk? Come on I swear to God. No you see that now. I love it. I love me alone. I'm in me. That's awesome yeah but would there be a kind of a fun adventure in just like no ill no gross now definitive but if I was he these are going be. You're gonNA like probably negate all of these things. Okay okay so. His ex wife lives in his guest house. That's fucked up. That's not even keep but what if she's awesome? Does he have kids? Do you guys headquarters to talk to. Kids are off a college and these coasts. I don't like he's a producer for a great. He's a cola near he's like a food network or like a travel producer news. Sorry I'm sorry really trying to sell this before you like eliminate quickly. Okay she's awesome. Yeah I like her Y- She's involved with a woman. Oh okay they have bring it on family dinners three times a week. Okay not a deal breaker at all the what would that look at this. I have a friend who went from being adamant I know I just switched. You're right or I was being one of those hose. I like it. I have a friend in a very similar situation. Hundred percent crazily. Exactly what you just described. Beautiful isn't it. I love it. I love it okay. But let's say this. I love that. She's a lesbian. Okay well okay. Let's let's let's walk that back then. She's not a lesbian okay. She's I don't know let's say she doesn't matter it's just like if I like her and we're Bros. and they're still you know and then when the kids come back from college yet good. I like it. It's good okay all right but I don't know if you know her well enough yet I love it. Okay next dealbreaker. He quit his job as a partner at an architecture firm to start a techno rap group with cousin. I don't like it okay. Why well why can't he do the group and keep the job well? He was really frustrated at the firm because even though he was named partner he didn't feel like he was an equal partner and also right. Now they're just doing like a bunch of like. I Dunno office buildings or like how much money with the gentrification of La Downtown la the gentrification they fucking date so dropped the ball in downtown l. Anyway he's Douche note he's following his passion no great great. I don't know if I could turn you around with that one. No what if he was starting like A. I don't know a nonprofit or like a e keep the architecture job you start the nonprofit you make it work practical Pamela this right okay practically every way twice a year. He goes to a nudist retreat. I love it that was almost single and he you know what I was eight. All these men he goes to a nudist retrieved twice a year. Yeah yeah no no. You don't like no. Why by himself? Well he wants to take you. Oughta like it why. I don't like the communal nudity and the snail trails on shares. What if he tells you like it? Like you don't fully understand until you experience. It is true liberation of south. It's not about sexuality it's Fine. I just can't be in a relationship right now. It's so dealbreaker. Okay about the natural. Hot Springs at the retreat. Have some of the highest lithium levels in the cubs? Why why can't you were bathing suit? Now it doesn't absorb this. I can't now. It's it's like a whole eggs sick. It's fine go go live. Your Life was fun together. No I don't like it. No okay well. This is one that I've used for but because you're so definitive. What about if on dates like let's say it's your second date you have some like bacon wrapped dates or something like that as And he just takes off your plate. Hopson his mouth first day second day. I'm fine with that lead you all. I'm only fine with in fact I kind of think it's got. I do have a story when I was When we moved out here for the second time I was a middle school and it. When where did you move from? Pamela New York Okay and so it was K. Through eight and my God. That must've been hard shit. How did you do that? Yeah we did it every half year. My my dad we get a job. He'd move as you were. You were okay with good. You understand the different world. Yeah and so I sat with my friend and this is California. I have an English mother. Remember and this eighth grader sat across from us. We're three grades before him. So we're fifth graders Sixth graders whatever it is so I'm sitting with my friend and this boy sits across from us and he starts taking food off her plate and eating it and I was shocked. I can't believe you brought this up. I was shocked and I said to him. Why don't you get your own fucking food? And he took my food any shift it in my face. What you got in a fight with me and my brother was in the cafeteria. And he's a guy in his in his grade fighting with his little sister and then the principal had to walk me home. I was covered in food and I had a fight with eighth grade boy because I thought it was really inappropriate and I said to him. Why don't you get your own fucking food? So maybe I would say that to the banana date steeler. Whatever took making rapid tapped into fuck. Yeah you don't even know how shit triggering so funny. That's crazy yeah. I didn't like it. What did your brother do? I remember seeing him across the cafeteria and him just being like wigged out. My brother and I are really close. I love him dearly but we didn't get along growing up at all. There's two moments where he came to my rescue that I remember and they were just like these moments of Lake Dizzy. Wooden you watch those nature shows and whatever labor. The male lion suddenly comes tearing out from wherever the fuck. He's been to kill the Hyena that I wish that legs story in the cafeteria for only I think it actually listened once but most of the time he was like he was your brother in the cafeteria. Her Maloku Okay so after Nice first date you go back to his place and he says that he wants to introduce you to the love my world. He wants to introduce you to the love of his life. His mother cat dog get hat named April. Okay I'm allergic dealbreaker. Oh okay because I was going to test you a little bit with April being named after April Janikowski. Who's the girl? He lost his amazing. I liked that you do. I think it's funny. Yeah if you're on a second date with maybe it's funny maybe take over first date. Yeah all right so all right when you went back to his place you like them enough to go back to his place. Yeah me a WANNA get busy. I WanNa get that D- But get the cat. Get April out. Come over here okay. So you choose getting laid over an allergic reaction that is you. Want to check him. Initially about the cat. And then you're ready to hop in bed with him. I don't know what I would go. Get claritin maybe I'd say let's go to my place. I don't like him but he lives. Christ can't you don't like you know? We thought you just liked him. He thought he even he cuts name is April and he lost his virginity to her. Or whatever did you lose your virginity to your boyfriend at eighteen. I did wasn't wonderful as it always says. It was amazing. I was lunchtime. I Dunno senior year like we got to leave campus a senior said. Oh my God my boyfriend at the time me made me macaroni and cheese. Oh my gosh out cooked for you yet. We have fifteen minutes because you had to get back to class all my weight losing your virginity and actually making Mac and cheese in fifteen minutes and back school back to school. Time changes sheets what okay. What is your favorite sick day movie? Oh God I know. It's a tough so many like movie that makes you feel cozy and less. Come movie of Comfort Heartburn. What's that the one with Meryl Streep and Jack Nicholson? That does not sell more after. Oh you have to see it. It's really fucking good. Okay all right. It's about Nora. Ephron relationship with Carl Bernstein who was the Washington journalist and how he was a perennial bachelor and and he cheated on her again and again. It's fucking awesome. I mustn't main late eighties Brin I. It would be something like that heartburn. Something's gotTa give it way. Okay Nora Ephron okay all right. Yeah like I'm into something's gotTa give okay. What was on your bedroom wall at each twelfth rainbows? Did you draw these members over the paper? Oh you didn't have posters or anything. No no posters. Your parents who many rainbows. My brother had all the kiss solo albums in a like a quadrant because they each did a solo record. I remember that I remember what was on my brothers wall but I don't remember me putting anything up online Paula Abdul. That seems to be like the common thing no on my brothers well. There was marines. Recruitment poster hilarious that said We only want the good men. Yeah no that's not quite right. It's GonNa kill me because it was such a theme in my life. We don't ask for experience. We give it John Stamos. He was on your wall just like it was. It was after at taft or a did Greece two which was my first movie. I got into a head-on collision I couldn't finish the movie and I was in bed for three months and my parents let me finally get a phone in my room. I was fifteen. I got a little brown princess phone and I had John stamos poster on my wall because I watched general hospital because they let me have a TV in my room. While I was recuperating from going through a fucking windshield with my face and John Stamos I'm just going to gloss over the accident exactly why we like. I don't Greece. Stamos team was very safe choice. For a person of your age. I think at that time in terms was he like he was Blackie name General Hospital. What was his name? Please cast Ceefax CECCHI stony come on. Who was Blackie was so excited. Let the audience note that the.
"pamelas" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified
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"pamelas" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified
"Mitzvah we shot at the Beverly Hilton. Hotel brought your wardrobe brought my own fucking wardrobe to the Beverly Hilton though. That's a little buddy that had to wear dress because I was. I've always been a dude and I just was like. Yeah what role. Some weakness muscle isn't Espacio. Wow why do I hear and read Ravin? We always give good phone. We always that yours. Do it again here at Red Robin. We always give good phone. Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah. Go back to have my mom. Off-camera was like amy. Are you eating ice cream and they say not anymore because I'm meeting frozen yogurt and I was hired because my face was full full face. My mom didn't want me eating full-fat ice cream. So that's a fun. Like Ninth Grade Locker Hallway conversation piece. Oh might not anymore like oh how do I shrink do it with chicken? I said what I told those guys when they had a heater Beata. I said deal with chicken due chicken next thing. I know those guys are doing it with chicken in. Thanks guys really want to be in the same retirement home. I know right. Let's retire together. Well yeah that bell. Oh my God. Chicken remember. Delete on read. Outside and somebody screaming check-in how old were you? I was like probably I dunno nineteen or something God when they first came out with chicken veal look it up on Youtube right now. It's hilarious okay. So now I WANNA. My middle name is not Fiona. I don't know why the fuck the Internet my middle name is. Fiona is is not is really. Yeah it's not paper. It's not because take it off all right. All right contributed to wikipedia. Now I deserve to set the record straight in my middle name is Dr. What is your I don't discuss. But it's not fucking Fiona Okay. So you weren't able to give to me examples of liberation during axiom but can you think of any for me? It was difficult for me to make the transition from. This is interesting because now I know what I can say to you. Okay my whole move in. The eighties was a boy. I was a boy I played a boy and night court like I was pretending to be a boy. Were you like a trouble? The law no like bull Richard Mall. Yeah he wanted to foster a kid so I pretended to be a boy. And then there's a big reveal at the end You know and I come out and address and that that always exactly exactly I did. The Red Foxx show and the whole show. I am a boy and then they find me at the end and resigned to Soto says I can spot my own species and so I did that. I did a movie called something special where I play a girl who wants to be a boy. So Seth Green cells me a crystal on the night of the eclipse. And I throw it at the moon and I wake up and I have a penis. I'm not kidding so this was all the stuff that I had in my early career. Every time I did apart they would even put girl in the title so like I played a character named Stevie and something and they wrote girl Stevie so people would know is just like this bizarre time fight so then when I went from that then all of a sudden you know when I had to do the girl Shit. That was hard for me. You know so like this. One movie that they had to put girl in. My name was called bad manners with Martin Mal and Karen. Black this crazy movie and we break into a house and I was wearing a towel and I was really young. I was like fifteen or something and the director said. Hey Pam what do you think if your towel dropped and we saw your butt and I was like what and I had to kiss this boy in the movie and he made me feel uncomfortable and I hadn't kissed a boy yet and so it was all of that kind of stuff that I guess. It was hard for me to get through because also I was a late bloomer and I didn't have a boyfriend until I was eighteen. And and then I remember I did a show called the heights in Vancouver. There was a time we were all doing shit in Canada. Yeah what was? I called the heights. I don't know how do you talk to an angel. The yes that's all I remember and so I had to like have kind of a sex scene with this guy and he he was like we had to find condoms and I felt very intimate and I also felt like wow. This is kind of like I'm I'm a girl like they're considering me to be a woman it was yes it transition for me you know and then kind of doing all of that stuff was just. I never really thought of myself that having to have any kind of sexuality on camera makes me incredibly nervous. It's probably for me. It's it's probably the hardest because I just don't fundamentally feel. I mean I feel sexy but that's a very it's an intimate feeling and remember dry doing seven seasons of California -cation of my God. Oh my God I like like I had this co star wants really handsome guy and when we had to kiss though it felt like I felt like he really didn't want to kiss me and we had to do it. You know whatever and it felt like I jokingly say to my friends whatever. The felt like trying to open up a clam with my mouth. We felt like not that I wanted to talk him or anything it. Just yeah. It's loose up baby. He sucked his lips in or something. And we see which and I was already feeling Unattractive Yahoo v Star so that ideas like. Oh my gosh. He doesn't that kind of thing. Haunts me. I'm getting a little bit better at it. But but a what. This is crazy because this is a very relevant thing. Because now they have intimacy coordinators. That's right and my friend. Michael Arnold was like the first person who did that. He did it for the wolf of Wall Street for Scorsese and he was the choreographer for Joaquin Phoenix and joker. But I was like the nudity whisper on California -cations so when people came in I would be like listen. Don't worry you're not gonNA do anything you don't WANNA do. I swear to God because I was everybody's mommy that's so nice though you know so then this season we've got scenes in a locker room and and stuff that's intimacy and my producer brought it up to me and I was like one hundred percent. I mean if I think that I'm above that because I'm the ultimate Mommy I've been running my set for four seasons. I know what I'm doing better than anybody no way so. I had this woman called. Ma'am was the coolest woman. Come onto the set this season. I had some kids kissing. I had some kids who had to be in bed together and it just made everything infinitely easier because you're just surrounded with love and if you think back to that scene that you had with that guy it's like God damn it if there was one other person who was there. Yeah hey how did you deal with your daughters? Like entering that world of heartbreak sexuality whatever it was because you you seem like you must have always had very open. Communication with them absolute. Oh please I was the mom. That was like okay. Everybody should definitely you know? If you feel like touching yourself you should. They would be like. I'm like but you should really do it in your great room. Only I did at one point having no G. string policy because I didn't WanNa fuck and see that I was like running the best little whorehouse in Texas. Everybody's walking around in fucking lingerie under their friends. I was like I don't WanNa see that shit like I mean it's not that I was like Sally Kellerman. And Fox's like you're like forty old midgets and you mean ones and you make me hate my giving the hate my abs and I remember Sally Kellerman in Fox's looking at Jodi foster and Cherie and all of them and they're all beautiful in young and she's and she's a single mom and I never like kind of connected those until recently and I was seeing my my house with like you know the girls and their their their bodies changing and then They're you know whoever was thirsty for boys or girls or whatever's going on but I grew up in a very. I'm sorry can't say conservative. My mother would kill my mom racing thing yes yes. Mom is like an atheist liberal but she oh sing -servative yes so fucking constrict. I could barely have friends over to hang out and so the new mom didn't have any good food in the house was just all fucking Shit. I know I never. I wanted to write a commercial streets. One time childhood. Please mom one fucking marshmallow anything. I don't need salad every night. Who's GONNA eat liver? Get me a dog so I can feed it the liver under the table. These are all true but so each daughter you know. I always joke that that my oldest daughter's the burnt pancake. You know. Because she's the first one and she's like thank you mom for instilling all of this stuff in me and then like you know the baby's like the one who was raised by wolves because there's just at that point. I had no zone defense three times over so he gets to witness you talking to your oldest daughter do get the fuck do your fucking Shit like really so. Yeah all the different you know. And then there. Of course. You know the stereotype. The girls with daddy problems we joke. We have a friend Harrison. Gideon my oldest. I was driving them and it was when their parents had split up to and so- Harris said we're just girls with daddy problems. Don't you want data and then I'm good. I'm all set but I'm learning with them. You know and I feel like I'm a better mom now than I ever was years strict. Mom Did she want you to wait until marriage? Oh you mean sex. Yeah nobody talks to me about anything. Nobody told me a fucking thing they just told me. This was my mom's sex talk. Don't shave your legs. You'll regret it for the rest of your life. Thanks mom anything else. Don't anything else. Don't shave your legs. You'll regret it for the rest of your life and I was literally the Harry's child you've ever seen does she have a point there. She just there was her you. She told me to put lotion on my neck. That didn't work. I my hair doesn't grow on my legs anymore. I could've used a sex talk. My eyebrows tried to grow together for a long time. Yeah I had a yeah and my mom was like do not whatever you do. Don't shave your eyebrows. Okay might be tempted. And so then of course. I went to the bathroom. And I fixated I got shaved them and then took like four years to like. It's keep me Shirley maclaine and postcards from the edge ever since the studio shaved eyebrows. Don't let them bury me without. My eyebrows came home from school one day. My brother was seventeen so I was fourteen. I came home from school and my mom was shaking with rage and it was like a whatever the whole strategy during that time of my life was still incorporated. A little bit was just lay low. You know. Just S- Lincoln be quiet. But my mom was shaking with fury. Because I didn't know why I said mom what's wrong. And she was shaking. She was like a prophylactic. Your brother's car a new that I should not ask what prophylactic was I had no idea and my mom later told me. That was the first time she'd ever seen a condom. But remember it being a whole thing like I was sent to my room. There was a whole like I don't know forty eight hours of intense discussion with my brother. I don't know what went on. I'm sure it was fun for him. We'll have to call them. Let's call him well. I found I found a condom in one of my daughters rooms and I freaked out. I was like what the fuck and and I I took it and I'm like this is ridiculous and I finally calm down and then I went back in the room and I put it back and I didn't even confronted with it you know and also I put it in my show in season. One that my character is. She's getting busy and I don't have a condom and I go into my daughter's room where I found the condom that I freaked out about and steal it. But here's the thing they. They had like a sex education class and they handed out condoms. So you never know you know what I mean so it just got to keep this bed mummy exactly but you would rather them have. Conduct anybody's fucking. Yeah completely. I mean I don't know what the fuck you're doing. Yeah and you become you become the mom like I became the mom that everybody came over to my house and like if kids were drinking and entitled Parents Though you. That's what I said to my kids..
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"Hey dear listeners. Today's guest is the amazing actress screenwriter producer and director Pamela. Adlon who you probably know from King of the Hill California -cation Louis and her award-winning better things. Before we begin the episode. I want to tell you how grateful I am. For All of your letters and feedback. I always knew. The unqualified community was comprised of some really cool and amazing people. And you continue to prove it to me so here are two of your letters the first Jessica to Katie who he called with fortune teamster Katie. Im you or should. I say I was you when I was nineteen. I got engaged to my high school boyfriend behind. Closed doors are sex. Life was mediocre the Household Chores. Were incredibly one-sided me doing everything and his lack of maturity was obvious. I was so blinded by the ring on my finger and a new last name that I ignored. All of these signs also ignored the warnings of my family my friends bridesmaids even my maid of honor told me. I shouldn't do it that I listen. Of course not I got married at twenty soon. I resented him the house we bought in our marriage entirely. I hated being around him. Hated it all. I finally pulled the plug in filed for divorce after a year and a half. He seems surprised saying that. I thought we were so happy. Like on unfortunate said if both of you put in the effort maybe you can turn things around. But be wary. It's hard I'd recommend holding off on the wedding to give yourself time to figure out if he can make things right or if you should leave the relationship you'll feel so much better in the long run. My Ex husband would always say things like Oh in twenty years this won't matter and I would cringe. Twenty years with him sounded dreadful. Should have listened to myself and to everyone close to me who knew. I wasn't happy before the I do. Katie my love and best wishes on this endeavor. It is so hard to be in those shoes. I will say I am now happily married to someone else and we have two beautiful children. It gets better and it can be easy all my love to you on a. Unfortunately you guys are amazing. And congratulations on your engagement on a love Jessica. Thank you so much Jessica. This next letter is from Donna. Who writes hi ANA and Cassie? I spoke to you guys and Whitney in early December about my relationship of three years and how I was ready for the next step but it seemed like he wasn't well he proposed loves note. Thank you so so much for your advice to be open and talk about marriage and Our Future. It got the ball rolling for US and here we are engaged. Much love to you all hope to hear from you soon. Hugs and kisses Donna. Thank you Donna. Thank YOU JESSICA. And thank you dear. Listeners I truly love you guys. Please help the unqualified community. Grow by sending US your questions. Your answers in your stories. Just go to our website unqualified dot com and now here is Pamela Atlit Ladies and gentlemen you're listening to qualify on a fair sir. Somebody asked me about good luck. Charms of you know and things like that. I really try not to get attached to objects or anything like that and I try to get the superstitious things out of my head but if somebody says the name from his play I'm like get the fuck out of the building. Go outside turn around three times. Don't come back in until you do it and hey dear listeners. Pamela just kicked out the team like right before we started recording to give me step parenting advice. Which was Pretty Rad? 'cause she did it in the sweetest way. I mean it wasn't that she was just like okay. Everybody leave everybody out everybody out. We gotTA talk and I want to be in a place in life where it's like. I'm friendly I'm cool. I'm nice but get out some there smiling. Yeah first of all better things. It's such a fucking good show. Thank you I like it too. I drank my own Kool aid. Will you should. Because it's fucking brilliant. Thank you I was thinking today. About how every day? I wish I had a better vocabulary because finding the right word is sometimes difficult but I know this is what I tell my writers. What don't use the word amazing. But that's what they do yet because they have such they don't they can only use sixty words so if you give somebody something if you give them like a little goal a little discipline let me try to use any other word but amazing or incredible awesome right. There's a lot I can't think of any right now but I love the how the genre bleeding your show is. It's like genre blending blending may are tonal shifts in your show that happen abruptly that are you know very true to life that are jarring in the best of ways. It's a challenging show to watch because it's historical and it's he sees the word poignant. I like poignant. Okay thanks to my love. Poignant I liked to have feelings a you know. I'm somebody who just I love the way a song can move you or you know colors make you feel or just walking outside today. Today is the best day all of La in February is the greatest thing in the world. I live for the cool air and then the sun and it's just you know you're in a magical place and so I love that feeling so for me it's all about all the different feelings that I can instill in the show and when you say my shows a comedy you're not doing it as service because it's not a comedy. Your shows a comedy but it's poignant. It was so hard for me when I moved to Los Angeles in one thousand nine so I I didn't near two thousand one because you did king of the hill. Yeah I truly think I had two lines gyms and jellies are really liked those lines. It's fun to say jams and jellies jams when you took off. I was like I know her. I'll that's sweet. Yeah the idea of like the separation of comedy and drama felt like it just didn't quite understand why there were only two lanes felt like in that world. Well it's just labels it's just labeled and I feel like that's what the world is struggling with right now they just don't WanNa have labels anymore. Yeah okay I was thinking yesterday. I wanted to talk to you about specifically because we're in the industry and we're like over forty the of jealousy and I was thinking about how one of the Nice things I've noticed about getting older. Is that either. I don't have the energy or the mental capacity to be as jealous as I used to be that of other women. That's usually where my jealousy comes from like when I clock see it's usually another woman or you know some and usually somebody in our profession and I think I would. I'd love that role or or wise. This thing agitating me would feel somewhat arash irrational way. And I don't like that you know it's it's this other thing that's having control. It makes you feel powerless. And that sucks. What's your relationship women in general or friends or do you have eighths totally changed for me in terms of you know kind of coming out of this. K- whole of three daughters for the past twenty almost three years. You know. It's exactly that so. There was a point a few years ago where I kinda was like a weight I have friends and I just. This village became a part of my kids. I was sharing my kids with my friends and my friends with them. And that's that's my love life like just really enjoying. I'm usually enjoying it enormously. Because the thing is I have a lion in my show this season. And you'll see it when you see it but I say women need to be brothers to each other one hundred percent completely and I kinda really got into women and my female friendships in my life. And it's up to us to adjust if you immediately have an allergy to somebody and you're like Oh okay this bitch you know you have that feeling but the reality is it's you so if somebody's like a know it all or if somebody's you know irritating or something like that feel like. I've failed if I haven't made that work but some people you just you just can't you know what I mean. It's not for everyday use. You can't be around them too much. I was watching an interview that you did think it was Jimmy. Kimmel and you you talked about. You know being fifty. I was thinking about this because you talk about AIDS in a way I was thinking about how we betray each other with our shame of age. A bit like. Yeah so anyway. I'm trying to give you a roundabout compliment that I loved how you're like. This is my life. Well I remember being obsessed with the fact that I had to get my birth age off of IMDB because they literally it was just like a fucking conspiracy to just bury everybody with our birthdays. It really was a nightmare and the age shaming was crazy and anybody who's lake over forty or in their fifties or whatever we were in a frenzied panic to cover our age up so much so that when I turned fifty. I didn't even realize that I was fifty. I'd been lying about my age for so long and then the fucking Internet told me I was fifty and I was like. Oh Shit and it's funny because I noticed that I started to lose my neck. My jaw line started to disappear the second. I got my own show unlike. Look through the camera. I'm like what the fuck is happening right now. When I need the JAL line God dammit. Oh but the exciting thing is look at Jeannie Berlin who is in succession and she's in hunters. The new Jordan Peele show. It's like now it's cool. Now you're we're we're embracing it and once you stop fighting it once you say. Oh I'm not going to get talks or or whatever you just do. Whatever makes you feel okay completely. We tied at one hundred foot when I'm one hundred four. Yeah like Oh my God. You're hundred four. Yeah you look great. Yeah that's what I want to hear. It and you're spry is fuck. Yeah I just lose. Yeah exactly what's the thing where the horses dance a Cirque Du Soleil? I just took up horse dancing with the Cirque Ami Tammy come join me dressage. Just yes buck. Yeah Yeah I'm dancing with the okay to get back to your show because it's so raw in so reflective it's difficult to define so smart and you've been very honest performer for a long time. Now were there moments that felt like. Oh this scene like afterwards that you felt a degree of liberation or like. I was really good there well. I never felt that you know. I never really studied because my mom she. She told me this story the other day that she's told me fifty million times. It doesn't make me want to drive my car into a brick wall anymore. But it's because I have a show and I made a character of my mom and so now I just look at her and I go. Oh this is funny. This shit is funny but my mother said to me the other day because we have a friend staying over with us from Copenhagen. And your mom's your neighbor. My mother is my neighbor. The lady next door. You're the landlord. I'm the landlord so threaten eviction all the time we get some like creepy notes that you just need to start putting on been on the true but she said that I went and I got a meeting with Beverly. Heck choose my first agent and I just I opened the phone book and I got her name and number out and I sat my parents down. I was eleven years old and I said I gotTA meeting with an agent. I really WANNA act. I WANNA get an agent and my mother took me and she had me read a tide commercial sides for tied commercial and she comes outside she says to my mother never let it take an acting lesson. I love that sweet. Which is I'm reading about Ethel Merman right now and it just said in the book that they said it was like a big studio heads. Said never take a singing. So there's something to be said about like there's something natural totally. They didn't accept that as a compliment till later. I didn't I didn't know that she said that to my mom but I think I coulda used some less than did you see me. On the facts lively robbing Mrs Garrett. Oh the scope of the career tied commercial. I know I should mockup sides but what was your first job. Then by first job was a Mexican pudding. Commercial called Donny. Pudding and it wasn't approved by the FDA and so we had to do it in Spanish. He not kidding. I wore the dress I wore to my brother's bar..