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"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"Got SPF 500 on your skin. That's right. Yes, baby. It keeps the wrinkles away. Keep the wrinkles away. Yeah. But it also comes from our sun's rays. Right. Okay. Moving on to the skin. What are the three letters everybody should know? They're alpha hydroxy acid, AHA. So glycolic alpha hydroxy acid doesn't cost very much, but it fools your skin into thinking it needs to rejuvenate itself. And so it produces new skin, which makes you look younger. It does? So that's the great. Now there's one other trick. It really does. It really does. There are three other letters. Factors nor of aspirin as ASA, I see the salicylic acid. So if you don't get AHA or even if you do, you should take that two aspirin to baby aspirin a day because they stop inflammation in your skin, which means you look younger. Inflammation is the largest cause of our wrinkling of the skin. So aspirin and AHA. An HA is in the products that we buy. Right. And it will say that, right? It says alpha hydroxy acid, right? Yeah, I didn't know if that was really true or not. So is all that other skin stuff a myth? Well, it does smell nice. Yeah. And it does represent a transfer of money from your wallet to theirs. Yeah. But it doesn't do much else. Okay. Thank you everybody. I'm Oprah Winfrey and you've been listening to The Oprah Winfrey Show, the podcast. If you haven't yet, go to Apple podcasts and subscribe. Rate and review this podcast, join me next week for another Oprah show. The podcast. And I thank you for listening..
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"Through 25 seasons. Hey. 4561 episodes. I believe The Oprah Winfrey Show was one of the greatest classrooms in the world. A world never thought of it that way. The aha moments, the breakthroughs, the LOLs, the connections, the occasional, ugly cry. I miss him so terribly, I miss it every single minute. The moments that mattered. The eye opening, life lessons. Never allow them to take you somewhere else. I'm bringing them back. It's time to open the vault. I personally chosen these classic episodes to share with you again. Every single person you ever will meet, shares that common desire. They want to know. Do you see me? Do you hear me? That's what I say, mean anything to you. You are listening to The Oprah Winfrey Show. The podcast. So are you thinking that you can afford that new SUV because of 0% financing? Maybe you believe that now is a time to buy a new house because interest rates are at an all time low. Well, you all know Suzy orman, she's the author of three bestselling books, including the road to wealth. She is here to crunch the numbers and help you figure out exactly what you can really afford. Suzie says, most people are living in denial about what they can really afford. And now is not the time to be in denial. Now if there was ever a time it is not now when the economy is not supporting your denial. Right. They're trying to get people in denial about it because it's easier to it's easier. People really feel that they are entitled. And they want they work so hard, don't you, you work so hard. And you just want a little thing here and a little thing there. And the problem is those little things add up to a lot of debt. And then you don't want those things anymore. And then you get depressed and then you go out and how do you solve that depression? By buying more things. So it's really a normal phenomenon that we have to put a stop, too. Okay. A lot of lifelong financial struggles begin with the wedding. This is Jennifer and her fiance Jason. And they are planning a wedding next fall, and they have different ideas about what they can really afford. I have just mountains of debts right now. Credit cards. I owe on a motorcycle I have. I owe on the ring for Jennifer. I'm anticipating spending about three thousand on a dress. $3000, I think it's a good deal. I don't know. I have car payments. I still have my school debt, my tuition, I'm still paying back. The invitations that I saw and that I really loved looking for about $800 for 50. We were planning on inviting about 200 people. That was awesome a little bit. It's 16,000. I usually don't think I have that much. That's not even counting what she's got somewhere around 25,000 with all her bills. The caterer will probably be about a $125 a person. The honeymoon will probably cost about $5000 for Hawaii. I really wanna give Jennifer the wedding of her dreams, but I don't wanna end up in debt. I absolutely don't mind going in a debt for this wedding because I know in a few years Jason, my will probably be able to pay it off. I do not want to put anything on credit card. I will pay for my wedding with credit cards. I will do anything to have the wedding in my dreams. I know my budget is different than what Jennifer's budget is. I tell her 20, but I'm trying to get things more around 15. Our budget as far as I'm concerned is 25,000, but I don't have a problem going over. I'm definitely nervous when you combine both of our debts together. It makes me a lot more nervous about this wedding. And what we're gonna have to come up with to afford it. More of this conversation in just a moment. Start your day in a positive way with the Lisa show. A high energy engaging morning show. Radio personality Richie T joins award winning author comedian and mother Lisa Valentine Clark for fun, entertaining and useful conversations. Lisa's warm personality helps listeners find hope, optimism and life perspective, particularly parents who have kids at home. And Richie's good natured enthusiasm makes the show a bright spot on any playlist. Catch Lisa and Richie interviewing the latest bestselling children's author, or talking tips for improving your family's mental health with experts. Some recent topics featured include staying motivated at work. First day of school traditions, better and faster decision making. Fighting our gifts, and how to have hard conversations with family. One thing's for sure, whatever they're talking about, you'll leave feeling better than you did before. Listen to the Lisa show wherever you get your podcasts. So we tagged along with Jennifer and Jason last Saturday as they took a closer look at what their dream wedding would cost. I'm a bride. Yay. It looks beautiful. I do. If the stress was, you know, 5000. Definitely, I wouldn't care about the price that was 1500. Okay. The veil was one 80. And tiara is two 85. See where we are. It was 19. Oh my God. That's it? That's it. Well, alteration. It's gonna be probably about two 50. So 22 15? Yeah, 22 15. Right. That's good. And then tax, of course. 24 O 8. 24 O 8, not bad. It's under your budget. Yeah, under my bushy, Jason's now, I'm not sure. Oh, I like the dome. Do you like the dome on? That's nice too. I'm getting so excited. Now I know that there was a payment plan for the engagement. Do you have any kind of payment plans for the wedding for winning bands? We certainly do. We have a number of different options. We ask for a 25% deposit. And then when the ring comes in, put it on one of the finance programs. Okay. This album is called the Tiffany. I like that. Jason, bottom line is $2995. Not including tax. That's good. I have no idea how we afford them. But hunt, I mean, these are pictures they're gonna last forever. Something's gonna give that, I don't think we can afford it. The look how nice is this here, so I definitely want those. Well then you're gonna have to cut up something else. We can't afford this drink. I feel like the juhan? I love the view. Now, I'm sure you're wondering about dollars and cents. Yes. Brazilian. Which would be the ideal spot for 200 people. In $6000 on a Saturday night, not including anything, but the space. Is that correct? For the space. What are your price ranges? We are a custom cater. I can begin at a $105 and includes an open bar as well as three courses down meal, including wedding cake and pastor dirt. I think that's a good price. Option 5. Then you still have to think of how many people we want to have here though. Right. There's a 150 to 200 people coming. You think you can afford it? I know she likes the place, but I really worried it's gonna be out of our budget. I'm feeling very overwhelmed. I don't think there's any way we could pay cash for this wedding. You'd be putting bills on credit cards. We don't have very much saved up for something like this. I was thinking we could possibly save the money as we go. And when the event comes, we pay for the majority of it. But now I'm starting to see that they want to be paid well in advance of.
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"Relieved. Oh, God. For more than two years, the FBI had been searching for Nile Scott until a lead from two very observant Oprah show viewers helped them make the capture the FBI. Here's how that went down. The people of Belize city had no idea that one of America's most wanted fugitives Niles Scott was literally taking people for a ride, making his living as a cab driver. And he was hustling tourists. Less than 48 hours after our broadcast, Scott was captured at this boarding house in this room. This former naval reservist was bold enough to live just down the street from the U.S. embassy, where American agents hunting fugitives are based. Scott was extradited back to Ohio to face his alleged crimes against a child. Our cameras were there when Niall Scott shackled in handcuff was returned to American soil. Why were you hiding in Belize? Hard to get sometimes. It's basically Ohio. Niles Scott went back to Ohio to face charges, the FBI says he'd been dodging for more than two years. We considered mister Scott a dangerous fugitive. He was wanted for grape and kidnapping. And for unlawful flight to avoid prosecution. So days ago, the Nile Scott trial came to an end, prosecutors say a taped phone conversation between the alleged victim and Scott helped prove the charges against him were true. The defense implied the young girl was a liar, and that there was no physical evidence to convict him. After four hours of deliberation, the jury reached a verdict. State of Ohio versus Nile Scott. Count one rape. We the jury find the defendant, Niall Scott, guilty of rape. Count two. We the jury find the defendant, Niall Scott, guilty of rape, Cal free, rape, guilty, count four rape. Guilty, count 5 kidnapping, verdict. We the jury find the defendant Niall Scott. Guilty, count 6 kidnapping, guilty, count 7, guilty, count 8, guilty. Innocent, all right. Send it sing for Niles Scott is set. He could face a life sentence where each rape count without the possibility of parole. Thank you viewers. Thanks everybody. Bye. I'm Oprah Winfrey and you've been listening to The Oprah Winfrey Show, the podcast. If you haven't yet, go to Apple podcasts and subscribe. Rate and review this podcast, join me next week for another Oprah show. The podcast. And I thank you for listening..
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"Julie. So Pam O'Malley and Gail were just casual friends and neighbors until Pam was diagnosed with breast cancer. That's when Gail became her angel. After I was diagnosed with the breast cancer, one of the hardest things I had to do in my life was to tell my children. My biggest concerns is that I wouldn't be around to see my kids grow up. You never think that anything would actually happen to your mom. You know, you always think it's somebody else. I had my choice between a lumpectomy and a mastectomy. I opted for the mastectomy. You know that you'll never be the same. After the surgery, when I realized that things weren't going well, and they told me I would have to change these dressings three times a day. I just couldn't do it. And my family couldn't do it. They emotionally couldn't do it. They physically couldn't do it. I didn't want them to see me like that and just kind of emotionally collapsed at that point. And that's when I contacted my friend Gale. Before p.m. second surgery, she had asked me if I would help her with changing the dressings. She just couldn't look at herself because that was just a reminder of her cancer. I couldn't believe how you can be mutilated. All the different marks on your body and cuts and bruises it was just so ugly. Nobody in the family could handle it. So somebody had to step in and I was happy to do it. For weeks and weeks. She came to my house three times a day. I always thought I was the only one in her life. She's walking, she'd be very calm, never felt rushed. You know, she always seemed like she was so happy to be here. She came in and did what she needed to do, she would do it and we would talk and we always had something to say and she wasn't there to take care of this cancer patient and do these things for the cancer. She was there for me. I was like a second mother. Cooking a dinner making sure everyone was done. Helping her mom get through chemo. Showers made sure we were okay. In the past, you know, you hear stories about angels, you know, what is an angel? As I was going through this, I would just look around and think kale is an angel. She never made me feel that I was taken from her. That this was just something she wanted to do. She's my guardian angel. Just always right there. I was honored that she asked me to help with her care. What I did for Pam is what I would do for my sister. I'll never. Be able to pay her back. She was my everything. How do you pay somebody back for that? Thank you, Pam and Gail. Thank you all so much. Thanks everybody. I'm Oprah Winfrey and you've been listening to The Oprah Winfrey Show, the podcast. If you haven't yet, go to Apple podcasts and subscribe rate and review this podcast. Join me next week for another Oprah show. The podcast. And I thank you for listening..
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"On like some melissa says jordan has completely turned around. How so he has made a complete u-turn he has been. Our family has been more as one of a family where he can. If he's got a problem he can come and tell us what's wrong with him. Yes you want to say politics commitment to this situation. The time that he spent with jordan was phenomenal. Gave me direction most of all say. Hey take the time. That's what bothers to do. Put the remote down put whatever it is down take the time. Yeah it means a lot fantastic. That's great many boys say a spiritual connection to their soul helps them overcome their inner struggles. Seventeen year old. Michael needed strength to survive a painful childhood. That left him drowning. He says in loneliness. When i was around a my parents divorced and it started getting rough between me and my father. I can remember feeling so. Like i did have a friend in the world and this small star it's right directly below. The big dipper spoke to me since stan since that young age of eight hammond i've been through quite a bit together. I was pretty much. The all american kid my freshman year. A new girl enrolled in our school. We dated for nine ten aunts and it abruptly ended. I started turning inward. I wouldn't talk to anybody. It quickly evolved into a depression. I started doing a lot of drugs one day. I looked in the mirror. And i had no i do i was looking at. I knew i needed to get even at this point and I turned to my friend the star talking with the star having a conversation with the star it serves as a mediator between my external and internal self. I know that my bout with depression made me more sensitive person. Everything at i'd ever been through it was a miracle. It was a blessing today. I'm helping teenagers realized that suicide is not a solution. Bob offering them the kind of friend that the star has always offering me. My spirit is now tireless. It cannot be conquered. It cannot even be dented. My spirit is what i really am. And when it is my time to go i'll be sure to make a stop my way to heaven and personally thank my star. Dr pollock's book is called real. Boys voices thank you to all the boys who shared their stories with us today. Thank you thank you boys. Joe i'm oprah winfrey and you've been listening to the oprah winfrey show the podcast if you haven't yet go to apple podcasts. And subscribe rate and review. This podcast. join me next week. For another oprah. Show the podcast. I thank you for listening at target. Your dollar goes further. You'll find great deals and low prices on everything. Your family needs like a box of kraft. Macaroni and cheese spirals for just ninety nine cents and that's just the start at target. The low prices never end. Prices may vary..
Oprah Winfrey Picks Between BFF Gayle King & Stedman Graham
"Went down when besties oprah and gayle where road tripping for oprah daily and the girl talk got real watching. This was the third wheel. I didn't know nobody told me no did likely that would've been tub. Didn't like you then. There wouldn't have lasted because husband's coming boyfriends. Come and go by best friend. Best friends last forever. First of all. I'm just happy equinoxes anymore. Remember back in the day. They used to be devolved when they did this on the show. Touch yeah i was happy there at a an alexis today. What is okay what you put your main your friends ahead of your man. I feel like if you're smart. You do but i i definitely feel like husbands go and friends come and go like i just think it's unequal. It's an equal playing field. Like a mama. I know i did that because she was on camera would have been there. You would hurt us. I love you is what we do. I don't know. I l has got a see. I truly believe that. Gal has a lifetime. Membership oprah winfrey fan club. And she always have that seat. But i think what's really smart is oprah definitely puts her friendship with gail before statement but she also knows her man's
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"Better than having it's hard it gets. It gets tough at times. Feel worried that. I'm we'll have enough time out of the day to just look into my husband's is and tell him i love and it's no no for me for my husband laurel says melissa has paper-thin boundaries as do all people pleasers. Yes yeah people pleased have buried thin boundaries. Because there's no acceptance inside. There's no strong nurturing voice inside and usually there's emotional trash from the past of early rejection paper-thin boundaries may meaning. Anybody can awesome at any time. Anybody i know how you feel and what you need. But do i know how i feel and what i need. No what i need in order for me to feel good. You have to like me. You have to love me. Because i don't have that nurturing loving voice inside myself i'm dependent upon it. I'm depended upon your acceptance. Because i haven't gone downside to interface that i am alone and that leads to a false comfort. Aren't people pleasers underneath really angry. Hello underneath all of them. Pleasing and pleasing aren't if you were to scrape the surface great. Go down go down. Go down there. There's a lot of anger there for. There's a lot of anger and there's a lot of despair because they feel so deeply unloved. The early history for most people who are people pleasers was of parental rejection. And so the whole key is to take out that emotional trash. We'll see in a minute and feel our feelings and and will listen a person who is highly thinking oriented which has a problem to it. Those of us who tend to be not feeling oriented like pam was the thinking oriented. Do great in the world we go out and we analyze and we make things happen. We take action however we don't feel so you cannot have a connection without a feeling so we're cut off from ourselves our relationship but they're not connecting and the spiritual and so we end up doing one excess. After another so one of the things that i want you to do. My dear is to disrupt. The obsessive repetitive thoughts. All that list making you're not worrying you're obsessing because over control an obsessive thinking god is a way of getting the illusion of control. The real control you have inside is the practice moment to moment throughout the day of going inside and finding your field says it again the over control on the list listening. May she's worried she's not worried. She's obsessing. Her thoughts are racing. That you're creating that you do have some control. Not only so another words the more you think you think if i can just figure it out if i can just analyze it enough then i can control it. And it's just a complete illusion and yet is it takes a lot of time. It's socially acceptable to analyze everything. But it doesn't give your heart your soul. What you truly need. What do you think about what she's saying. She that's correct. Uh-huh i should absolutely correct if i do something i have to see it. Through to the end there is no everything has to have a beginning middle and end and end. Can't come in the middle and the beginning in the end you just if it happens like that then that's it. I don't want to forget it. You're like this a very famous person might've been emmerson. I don't know who said some people are so busy leading the lives they planned and so you can't leave the life that was meant that be that would be me. I love the most of us have Who don't have enough of these skills had parents who were either too easy on us or too hard on us. Who didn't have any real expectations of us didn't expect much or had rigid harsh expectations. And you had harsh expectations on you and so the harsh expectations went from your dad. And your mom to you. And how was it for you to have those harsh expectations inside of you know gosh. It's like a volcano right about to re and so what you're going to do because that's not genetic it's learn is moment to moment. You're going to begin to switch expectations for my have to be perfect to. I expect myself to do the best i can. I don't have to be perfect to be wonderful. That's my new model. That's going to be written down. I'm oprah winfrey. And you've been listening to the oprah winfrey. Show the podcast if you haven't yet go to apple podcasts. And subscribe rate and review. This podcast. join me next week. For another oprah show the podcast. Thank you for listening at target. Your dollar goes further for just one dollar and eighty nine cents at some sparkle to your picnic with a two liter bottle of coca cola soda physi- fund and a great deal. And that's just the start at target. The low prices never end. Prices may vary..
Bipolar Disorder: Depressed, Mentally Ill & Famous
"Bernard sizzles. Sonny corinthos gorgeous star. Abc's hit soap opera. General hospital in real life. The devoted family man has been married to his sweetheart paula for fourteen years and they live a quiet life in los angeles with their two daughters. But maurice's life isn't as picture-perfect as it seems every day behind the scenes. Maurice battles mental illness that once left him violent suicidal and at its worst locked inside a mental institution wondering if he'd ever get out so maurice's struggle with the demons of his bipolar disorder began in his early twenties just as he was beginning is acting career. I think the real start of it was I woke up in my friends apartment. And i was drinking and i was crying uncontrollably. I think i'm losing my mind. That was just beginning of the battle inside maurice bernard's brain at twenty two. He slipped into what he calls the dark side and turned violent against his mother. Kind of physical by the arm. When i looked at my dad. And i said that i was the devil and i was yelling at him. Scary it my mind was was racing undermines. Now it's kind of like being in a nightmare and not being able to wake up. They had to admit me. I went to a psychiatric hospital. I was strapped down in the wheelchair. Remember waking up in the sunlight was coming through. The window. Could barely hear. I died in manhattan. He was trapped in his own nightmare heavily medicated and restrained in solitary confinement in a mental institution. I remember having lots of and then ending in that state. You almost feel like it's always gonna to be that way. So why is life worth living. Maurice was diagnosed as manic depressive. What's happening inside of you. You almost feel like you. You wanna explode. You have so much emotion so much energy almost like drug. The high you get from it but for maurice. The manic highs are always followed by deep paralyzing depression. I had no confidence. You look in the mirror and you you still the same person but it doesn't matter. It's what's happening inside. It's just an enormous enormous amount of
An Interview With Clara Harris, the Woman Who Killed Her Husband
"Clara harris was born in columbia south america. In her twenties she moved to houston texas where she built her own. American dream clara became a successful dentist even won a beauty contest but says her greatest achievement was marrying the love of her life. David harris a charming attractive orthodontist clara and david launched a booming dental practice together. They had beautiful twin boys a gorgeous mansion and what seemed like a loving 10-year-marriage but in an instant clara's fairytale life was shattered. David confessed. He was having an affair with his office. Receptions eight days later. David was dead. Accent and clara was charged with first degree murder. Guilty of myrtle is george jury found her guilty and clara was sentenced to twenty years in prison so for the first time. Clara harris is telling her side of the story. She says it's what the prosecutors and the media did not want you to hear you get to be the judge clara harris vicious murderer or a deceived wife who snapped for the past two years. She's been locked up in maximum security at the mountain view correctional center and gatesville texas. That is where. I went to see her for this one on one interview. Tell me about the day. What was going on in your life when your husband told you that he was having an affair with the funny thing is that he didn't want to tell me they office ladies his office ladies had confronted him they have seen these going on for three months in they had enough. They said we cannot keep working with him. And he's doing this. You know big didn't say the lady that he was. That lady was jailed. Bridges a thirty nine year old divorcee and mother of three gail had recently been hired to work as a receptionist in one of david and clara's into offices
Rihanna Officially Becomes a Billionaire, Forbes Says
"Beauty companies helped make the singer of billionaire she started Fenty Beauty in 2017. She also has a laundry line and, of course, our music and acting career, Forbes says. Rihanna is now the wealthiest female musician in the world. And second only to Oprah Winfrey as the richest female entertainer
Here's Why Self-Care Is Not Selfish
"We've lined up team of experts to help you make over not only your body but your mind in your spirit as well heading up. Our makeover team showed richardson author of. Take time for your life. Then when cheryl was here she showed us how to start living a more meaningful life by practicing extreme. Self care is what she said and so interesting because even my best friend gayle. Who is you know You know a single mom now saying you know that is just an. That's a foreign concept. The idea of putting yourself first on the list which a lot of the women who wrote to us in emailed us had a lot of trouble with that the number one thing. I think you know the consistent thing was. Isn't that selfish and oprah. Aren't you preaching to people about being selfish. Aren't there enough selfish. People in the world. I think of it as selfish with a capital s. You know the kind of selfish that your spirit if we don't do that all of us as individuals we're in trouble is the culture. I mean we already know that we already see that happening. And so he asked for some people. It is going to be selfish at first. But you know this as well as i do that as you begin to take good care of yourself and your cup gets filled up you naturally then want to be there for others. You wanna serve others annual able to do it and miraculous way. Yes cheryl says This is going to help you a lot. I hope that the next step to making over your life is identifying key and eliminating energy drains. And it's up to you to do that. Nobody can do that for you. She says that creating your best life has more to do with what you remove from your life. Then what you add to your. What we're saying is if you focus on removing things from your life you take the life you're already living and start shaping it up and start looking at what don't i. What don't i need. What thoughts do. I think that i need to let go of and start removing things from your life. I think what happens is your best self in your best life reveals itself as you move away all the stuff the emotional physical and spiritual energy drain.
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
"My gosh oprah. This is my best friend monica. Hello there monica. So good to see you change. Wow what did you change into. I changed into a sweat suit. We'll 'cause i dressed for you in the ladies dress. And then i dress for me on our wonderful wonderful wonderful as soon as finishes. I'm gonna go put on my sweats. Thank you for doing this before we get started. I do have to say when we found out we were going to do this. Christian sent me an email and it said i printed it. It said hey mama in order to be prepared. I want to start compiling a list of questions for oprah. Here's what i have so far one. Do you like us to. Are we doing a good job. And that's a whole list so this might be very short end draft because i like you have expressed suffer from paralysing codependency or and the people pleasing is just a real real strong instinct for me so i definitely want to talk to you about that but when i was trying to think of what to speak to you about all i wanted to know was doing 'cause you like i mean much. I'm just feeling love for you really. Yes or the work that you're doing and out into the world and using your voice in your whole self. You know what i think is everybody is looking for the same thing in the world and that is to be the truest expression of yourself as a human being so when i see that coming through with such grace and glory it just makes my heart swell. 'cause it's just like meeting a fellow human we're like in that we're all striving for the same thing and i can see that you are me and i am you connected. Yeah okay well. Let's jump right into it for the last hour. You've been talking about how to say no co-dependency because i think women we are all dealing with so much of this especially women. I think okay so you wrote this amazing book. What happened to you. I would never have thought that. You suffered from people pleasing..
Manifesting Money and More
"Many of you in here understand now that your thoughts create your reality. Is that really get that. You have the life that you have right now because of everything you thought and then said and then did you get that all right so that also works with money you have it or don't have at based on the way you think about it correct. Suzy silently my darrow. Yeah and what else do you want to say about that. I want to say that we all have the thoughts to create far more than we all have. We all think we deserve less. We have more objects but we have less of ourselves as soon as we have. More of ourselves will manifest in your life's more than you know how to hold onto store than you even dreamt could come your way through everything you want. All i can tell you is true if i can do it really if my mom is out there. She's watching. If i can do it you can do it. You don't have to be a rocket science. You just have to know who you are. If you're willing to go within you'll never do
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"What the science here we go. What you love about lacey. No thank you could summon up pretty easily with looking at her photograph. The photograph for big smile and the press and she's got a beautiful smile. But what linked to guys just being able to complete each other. But you asked how all i look at that picture you know that. She's a bright one bright light and lobby so well first of all most of us cannot look at a picture and some up the lives of our loved ones right. She does have a beautiful smile. Except that rather than saying psychiatrists might well. I still don't get it. What do you mean that her picture says who she is so. I think that that. Of of course the cliche. The jerry maguire line. We complete each other. We complete each other. He's stumbling around for what she really meant because really for him. It was just the picture that he could have said. You know what i'm somebody. For whom the appearance of things is everything from me. What was she. She was pretty. That's all and now. She's a complication and she has to go. That's all okay. One out of twenty. Five americans has no conscience without feeling guilty. You're feeling fear. i. I've had people take care to kosovo. That's a lot of people walking around with no conscience. It's very scary. Are they going that way. I don't believe that anyone is born that way. Nobody's born evil. People are basically good the empathy that we have which is miraculous the fact that we can hear a story of a friend who's in pain across the country and cry or go to a movie and be moved to tears is a gift. It's miraculous can explain that it's also very fragile and it can be destroyed in children by showing them no empathy at a certain point when a child fuels has and decides. I'm not gonna feel anymore. They lose the capacity to feel from me or you and then when you're suffering. They've caused your suffering. They're looking at you more with curiosity than anything else. Has every sociopath been harmed in some way. There's been a harm or something that caused them to disconnect in life. In every case i've studied and i would venture to say in every case. Something has destroyed their capacity to empathize and is something early in life in something tremendously traumatic. I've had I think you appreciate this. I've had somebody tell me that the single thing in the world that restrained him from killing people one teacher in third grade. I think you're really good kid underneath it. All and he had carried that with him his whole life. Wow that's how much people can affect you and if you've had none of that you have sort of a perfect storm and then you're free in quotes to hurt. The andy grew up in a household where people supposedly loved him in where he was thought. Well of he was the golden boy. Yes but there is this odd peculiar detachment from each other. There's this willingness to give up children right now your mother's done it twice to you. She gave you up shortly after birth. And now oprah pointed out that you're not likely to have a relationship with her again and when she said that rather than breaking into tears you sort of rolled with it because you know what it is to be abandoned you've lived with a certain kind of inhumanity and from everything. I've read that. I can tell including your book. So had scott. Peterson and i miss you. That there were a million ways in which this mother told her son he did not exist. Get out real. I promise you promised me that. Yes this is the mother. Whose doting on him. Who believes to this day that he didn't do it one way that mothers can control their sons and convince them that they're not individuals by the way is to bestow upon them a love that is so idealized oh so gargantuan that no woman can reproduce it. No friend could possibly approximate it because no wife is gonna call. You got mine. Doesn't look at yes. Therefore the mother owns him. Dr apple says scott. Peterson demonstrated an obsession with sex. Which you say is connected to being a sociopath not only that you talk in the book about him going to porn sites correct. Yes while at your house right. Wow he's grieving right while he's grieving. Yes and actually later. We found that he was also e-mailing amber from our house. how's the sex and the sociopath connected. I think handed with sex. I think as an anesthetic. Many sociopaths prefer alcohol and drugs but many others also incorporate or use sex as a drug essentially. And this is this man's drug he runs away after. Always take with them some cash water purifier. And its supply viagra. Well he's telling you. My potency is almost as important to me as sustenance or cash or anything else and he even goes to a gay bar and what does he say about it. He's upset because the men are hitting on them right. It doesn't mean he's homosexual necessarily or bisexual but what it does mean is that. He's very focused on his sexuality. He's not alive if he's not sexual now. If you take a man who feels that. He's not existing. He's not alive in a room. He's not sexual and very attractive to women even hits on the babysitter in any right while he's grieving and then you say to him you know what your whole sex life is going to change. Your wife is going to mostly focus on your son She is different physically for while. That is a person who may interpret that as you know what my life is ending. You've just told me on being killed so you think he killed her because of all of these reasons and not just because he was having an affair with amber frye and now wanted to protect that relationship is that killed her. Because of all of these reasons i think he is a classic sociopath that his life was going to direction that he couldn't bear for it to go back to the question of what is to be learned from. Scott peterson. scott peterson case. First of all when. I think women and men wives and husbands need to be very much sensitized as you've tried to due to the fact that pregnancy is tremendously dramatic time. It is the time when men who are vulnerable to doing bad things are more likely to do it. It would be very healthy for men to be able to say how fearful they are that their lives will change dramatically. Okay thank you so much. Thank you dr abloh keith. at blow vary thank. Thank you all right. The book is called blood brother. Thirty three reasons. Why believe scott. Peterson's guilty by everybody. I'm oprah winfrey. And you've been listening to the oprah winfrey. Show the podcast if you haven't yet go to apple podcasts. And subscribe rate and review. This podcast. join me next week. For another oprah. Show the podcast. I thank you for listening..
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"Twenty five seasons four thousand five hundred sixty one episodes. I believe the oprah winfrey show was one of the greatest classrooms in the world Rolling never thought of it. That the moments the breakthroughs the connections the occasional ugly cry so terribly every single minute the l. o. Ell's the moments that matter. I o blue light lessons. Never allow them to take you somewhere. I'm bringing them back. It's time to open the ball. I personally chosen these classic episodes to share with you again. Every single person you ever will meet shares that common desire. They want to know. Do you see me. do you hear me. That's what i say mean anything to you. You're listening to the oprah winfrey. Show the podcast scott. Peterson's own sister believed he was innocent. Now she says he is a cold blooded killer. I actually never saw him. looking for. lacy scott's bizarre behavior when he saw your babysitter he was smiling and flirting her. Recent trip to prison to see him what he said about amber the untold story. You confronted scott details. You haven't heard. Why do you think he killed her. Next title. alone is chilling. Thirty three reasons why my brother scott peterson is guilty. Scott peterson sister and is breaking ranks with her own family and has decided to go public. today she's revealing. why after supporting her brother one hundred percent she is now convinced that he murdered his wife lacy and unborn son in cold blood. The world was first introduced to lacey peterson in breaking headline news. Police and volunteers spent the day searching this desktop car for all wooden Twenty seven year. Old lacy peterson lacey. Eight months pregnant was missing and her husband. Scott said he had no knowledge of her whereabouts. In the beginning both lacey's family and scott's family united begging for lacy's return. I know that someone knows where lacy is and i'm pleading with you. Please please let her come home to us. I miss listening to talk about her future with her husband and her baby but then came the lies and inconsistencies in scott story and the explosive revelation of a secret affair with amber frye. I met scott. Peterson november twentieth. Two thousand two scott told me he was not married public opinion shifting and the speculation that scott was involved in his wife's disappearance intensified after a month lacey's family support for scott crumble. Her brother brent was the first to lash out has not been forth coming with information regarding my sister's disappearance and i'm only left to question what else he may be hiding and they became to families deeply divided as the peterson's remain loyal to scott insisting he was innocent looking for lacy that exists whole purpose and he's continued to do that.
Winfrey, Hearst Have Black Journalists Tell Elders' Stories
"Oprah Winfrey is leading a project that team's young black journalists an older black activists community leaders and regular people to talk about their lessons on life our margins are a letter with the latest Oprah Winfrey recalls being in her twenties when she became friends with port my Angelo who stressed the importance of knowing one's history Winfrey's lift every voice project teams young interviewers and photographers for mostly historic black colleges and universities with people older than seventy with remarkable stories among those interviewed or singers Dionne Warwick and Patti LaBelle actor Andrea shields an activist Claudette Colvin and opal leak the stories will run on Oprah daily dot com and in magazines like elle Good Housekeeping and esquire
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"To had asthma most of his life and he died from that. When i first met james to my knowledge the only thing he knew that i lost a son. There were many things that convinced me. James was speaking with david one of them. Which touched me so deeply as james asked me if david had a little gold chain. That had a on messiahs a symbol of our jewish religion. And i and he said james said david is telling me that he saw you sitting on the bed clutching and i said my god. I was doing got this morning. I've never done that in my life. And then i thought how did you know it was a goal. Try not silver star of david or something like that. Just that morning we had taken a picture of david and switch the frame that it had been rearranged put in decided to put it on the piano and james and the reading was saying that he sees music around and i said david is a pianist and he said well there's also mentioned that he's very happy with the way you move the picture and change the frame and put it on the piano and i thought now that's again something that nobody would know this. Is peter read growth. Says he discovered a brother. He never knew about during his session with james. It's very interesting how that happen. The first session. I had with james. A number of remarkable things were revealed one of them. A person by the name of robert came through and james said to me. There's a person by the name of bobby is robert here. And he says he knows you and sends you much love. I didn't know anyone who had passed over by the name of rob the response was. He's telling me that he is your blood. So i accepted that. It didn't make any sense to me. But the next day i called an aunt of mine in england and just asked her lucy surname. Who is robert and there were few moments of silence and she said to me. How did you find out. Well it turns out that roberts was a baby boy that my mother had had about four years before me who had died at six months from pneumonia and my mother had never mentioned the word about robert to me ever and she died in nineteen eighty eight. This reading was in nineteen ninety. Two and i thought that was quite remarkable. Certainly evidence that life after life and you say this no longer afraid to die. Because of it i have absolutely no fear of death whatsoever. You say a lot about what you believe. This means we just heard a peter. Talk about what this has meant to him. As a living person lives his. Life is victim. Change the way your husband lived. Change your whole life. The closet before i went to james and cry constantly pulling my hair out whereas my son whereas my son now. I'm able to go on with my life. Because i know that doug is all right. Okay one of the more convincing stories. If you choose to be convinced in this book is about a victim Somebody who found who their parents thought had been so suicide and then he supposedly gave the name of the person who that's right. He came through when he talked about this guy named eddy or something said yes a friend of his and i said something about well. He's talking about. He knows more he knows more and said he knows about the garage. That's something like that. And it was like they found out this information through this guy. They called the police. They researched it. They had drugs in the garage and that was a bad drug deal going on and his friend killed him made to look like a suicide suicide. What have you learned about suicides. I've learned for suicide is. The person might not feel that they fit in here. They feel like they don't fit for some reason they don't fit in. That's not the right way to go. We're here learn you saying the book you've never talked to a person who's gone over suicide. Who was happy about it now. One because you see this natural time to be born natural time to die. It's like an avocado. You rip out that pit before its time. The magnetic ties you have to. The earth are still in place so you must live out the time it would be to move on to a higher level do we all have spirit guides. We'll have spirit guides and teachers. Some are family members samara spirit guys from lifetimes ago. Some are aunts relatives friends. Do some of us have more than others get. We'll have more than depending on the type of work we do to have a team. I think you do everything you need it team. You have a good team and so do you believe that the spirit guides are guiding you. How do you connect to that. What happens is what you can do is an also you can explore on your own which i write about at night when you go to sleep. You can ask them to dream. Please show me yourself. Please show me yourself and within two weeks you will see something which or spirit your friend or relative of passover. You will see them. That's to communicate the easiest way the other through trinity radios telephones will ring lights flicker on and off because they can affect your electrically the mechanics of trucks because of the vibration operations frequency. That they're on okay. And i don't know how they do it but they do it. Well i want to thank you for being here and sharing your stories. I don't know if it's true or if it's not true it's up to you to believe or not to believe as you see fit. What does matter to me is that you find some comfort. And if whatever you've heard as you say makes you not wanna live your life as a victim anymore gives you a sense of peace you can go on. You can live your life. The most important thing than what i live my life trying to do with this show and have been since the very beginning is to let people know in a sense that you are creating heaven and hell here on earth. God you're responsible for you are responsible for your life and your thoughts and one more thing your behavior and your actions. I realized everyone is the same. Everyone has god spark within them. No one's better than anyone else. We're all the same as one. yes i know. We're just all different colors and shapes and sizes for identification purposes. That's right that's what i say inside inside of right. Thank you james. Van prague. I'm oprah winfrey. And you've been listening to the oprah winfrey. Show the podcast if you haven't yet go to apple podcasts. And subscribe rate and review despite pass. Join me next week. For another oprah. Show the podcast. I thank you for listening..
Thomas Markle Suggests Oprah Is ‘Playing’ Meghan and Harry in Latest Interview
"Let's let's cleanse our palate with a little bit of meghan markle's dad. Tmz reports at thomas markle says he and prince charles have one thing in common. They both been ghosted by. Meghan harry and He's not a fan of oprah and he kinda like kinda calls harry a cock in his own way. Here's a clip from his recent sixty minutes australia interview. I think oprah. Winfrey is playing harry and meghan to go. She's using them to build her network and build. A new show. Needs all the help. i think she's taking advantage of very weakened man and getting him to say things that you just shouldn't be saying on television. So you think are saying i guess the frailties of harry and meghan it and decided to cash in on that i think so. Now she'll she'll disagree of course and she might even assuming i don't care but the bottom line is it seems to me. She's working harry. Is there really bad green green. Maybe with australia sixty minutes australia. Max padded we have harry with with the oprah that old clip calling. Everyone a racist. Remember what he worked to halloween that year. Oh what s uniform. I'm glad that everyone's done something. So this is from Heyman oprah couple of weeks ago apple. tv show together. The feeling of being trapped within the family is. There was no option to leave eventually. When i made that decision for my family i restored. You can't do this as well. How 'bout is after. Get until i am able to do this. She was going to end their life. Should have to get to that.
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"Not you don't get happiness out of that. It's also not real. See that's the thing we want to understand that it's not only does it not have value but often what we are in pursuit of is an image. It's a movie kit right a hollywood. Look it's airbrushed bodies and so when you start kodak moment that moment you know and so you have to think about. I'm in pursuit of a relationship that does not exist in reality. What was the the central element that helps you to begin to shed the shame. Well my mother challenging me to tell the truth one actually sort of involves you in a roundabout way i was. I was covering the launch of oh magazine and I was asking celebrities. You what makes oprah winfrey special and it was your friend gayle king. Who said something she said. I said what makes oprah winfrey special and she said while she's pulling yourself up with one hand she's pulling other people with the other hand. Oh my god yes she did. It made me really think about my own life. Because i think i'd been very selfish and trying to get ahead in trying to build up this shell and didn't really care about anybody other than myself and getting ahead. You know what. I find so interesting is that you were a celebrity and our celebrity columnists and that part of your job is finding out stuff about people other people secrets and what if somebody had exposed yours. It was something i thought about all the time. It was incredible hypocrisy. And i thought that maybe one of the reasons i went into my job is to sort of show. They were all equal. But i really do wonder about the sort of digging in getting behind facades because i built my own. I think i'm still working progress. Honey okay so i'm figuring you can read more jeanette story in her called the glass castle. The glass castle. Paul's thank you so much. Thank you was it okay. Yes ma'am day. I know you're nervous. Thank you thank you both for having the courage to tell stories. Robin smith dr robin. You're good girl by everybody..
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"Twenty five seasons four thousand five hundred sixty one episodes. I believe the oprah winfrey show was one of the greatest classrooms in the world Rolling never thought of it. That the moments the breakthroughs the connections the occasional ugly cry so terribly every single minute the l. o. Ell's the moments that matter. I o blue light lessons. Never allow them to take you somewhere. I'm bringing them back. It's time to open the ball. I personally chosen these classic episodes to share with you again. Every single person you ever will meet shares that common desire. They want to know. Do you see me. do you hear me. That's what i say mean anything to you. You're listening to the oprah winfrey show. How the podcast. Ready to put a strain and keo new york jets star thirty million dollar contract egos public was his life long secret. Did he have the gun to your head. Every night on news he was coming up the look in his eyes. Said it all. You never talk about it day. Then enter reporter park avenue socialite the life she had no one knew next one of the. Nfl's brightest stars went public with a horrific secret that he has carried for years. His coach didn't know his closest teammate. Didn't know his fans had no idea and his decision to share his story today in front of millions of people did not come easy for him. For the past few days he has struggled with fear and with old feelings of shame for laverne is kohl's today is an act of bravery bernie's calls is a star wide receiver for the new york. Jets this nfl. Powerhouse has a big time. Thirty million dollar contract polls open. Nearly two decades famous. Football star has been haunted by a secret to the mother's boyfriend. Easing a nice guy. Do anything different than normal guy. After his mother married her new boyfriend they appeared to be the perfect family behind closed doors. Liberty had a nightmare that was just beginning lamar to the night job university hospital and from there let me start creeping tomorrow for three tortures years as his stepfather sexually abused him at gunpoint. Wasn't always sakes. It became him basically putting a gun to my head and forcing himself upon me. I was being molested fearing for his life furnace kept this horrific secret. He told no one and every night was a living hell. He basically told me paint heart he was going to be. I was scared and felt very uncomfortable. But i didn't know how to take because this is my mother's husband. He would tell me that. If i told my mom would kill her and killed me. My soul was damaged. I felt like i was trapped. Welcome liberating is called. So i know that you've been struggling with coming public this story. Yes ma'am he's been very difficult for me and also my family. Why did you keep it a secret for so long. Well being in a profession that in a lot of people. I would think look down upon you. I didn't know how they will take me. I didn't think that guy's our profession. Because it's so macho you know everybody is supposed to be a man and and so many words when that happens to you when you're molested your manhood has been taken basically and that is something that you have to deal with on a regular basis and you always ask yourself. How's your man taking and then into the sport that we in. I didn't know if the guys on the team who's gonna look at me and say well no feel uncomfortable around the or thing differently about me so i i just never bought it up but even before you became a famous football star and all that comes with fame. Why didn't you tell while i was. I was afraid. I was afraid of this. Rehashing the moments in my mind are publicly. How old were you when it first started. I was ten years old. I believe when it first started to attend your little boy yes map and can you describe what you endured the very first time. I know nobody ever forgets the first time or the very first time happen My mom was at work. And i was at home and i it was late at night. Top me to go to bed. I took a shower in bed. And i never forget i was sleeping very heart and i don't know what time it was didn't have a clock and i just remember waking up. He's standing over me. And i'm wondering what is he doing in my own. This time of night have done something wrong. And at that point things began to get along comfortable. You wonder why mantis touchy you on the matter. That he's touching you and from there you just put your ten s now you bet you very uncomfortable in a situation like that of course you uncomfortable so he started touching you. I d say come with me. Did he get in your bed. I'd leave first night was come with me. Come to meet The master bedroom Where he slept and from there things just began to rob and we always kept gun. Present when you're young at that age of the presence of a gun is very threatening. So did he have the gun to your head. did he. Threaten you with the gun or was the gutten just available for you to see well at first the gun is there for you to see. It wasn't until sexual sexual things started happening. That the gums actually to my head To keep just keep me still the first time that he molested you. That's the word you wanna use. This molested you the first time that he molested you did you feel did he. Did he say if you tell. It wasn't a task that he was done. He let me know at that point. If you ever tell anybody i will. I will kill your mother cure. You mean the look in his eyes said at all. I mean it was. It was very threatening. So how long did this go on. It happened over the course of three years two and a half three years and all the time all the time i mean all the time. Maybe it didn't happen is when my mom was at home or or she off work and your mom worked nights. Yes.
Oprah, Prince Harry Host Discussion With Lady Gaga, Glenn Close
"Oprah Winfrey and prince Harry will continue their mental health series with the virtual town hall this week Margie's our letter with the latest last week apple TV plus released a mental health series co created by Oprah Winfrey and prince Harry called the me you can't see on Friday when free and Harry bring back the advisors and participants for free virtual town hall to discuss where to go from here to me you can't see a path forward will feature lady Gaga Glenn close and other celebrities giving further insight into their mental health struggles and breakthroughs
'I Was Afraid': Prince Harry, Oprah Discuss Mental Health
"The Duke of Sussex tells the Associated Press returning to London for his grandfather's funeral last month triggered feelings of anxiety Harry the Duke of Sussex has been open about some of his struggles and is taking part in a series on mental health with Oprah Winfrey on apple TV plus in the AP interview he says he was able to use coping skills he learned in therapy to get through prince Philip's funeral last month and being back in the media spotlight I was afraid about it but then going through the motions to lean on the toolbox hello Jean all the learnings that I've that I've that I've grown from one of the policy it does definitely made it a lot easier but the whole store bought still pounds he says it was his wife Megan back when they were dating who convinced him to seek the help he needed to deal with royal family relationships and the death of his mother princess Diana I'm Jackie Quinn
Prince Harry and Oprah Winfrey Discuss Mental Health in New Series
"Harry and hot water After describing the first Amendment as bunkers, NBC's Roy O'Neill joins us live with a look at why he said it. The reaction he's getting Seems like the prince is having, you know a little bit of trouble. Kind of adjusting to new life here in the U. S. I think he's guys you've got it all figured out that we're smarter than the rest of us. You know, He's got a new TV series with Oprah that starts on Friday. And what are we talking about? Don't look at all this free publicity he's getting, but yeah, he was on a pap I've cast with the after Dax Shepard talking about mental health and his new TV series with Oprah is about mental health. And he was talking about how your paparazzi were attacking him and surrounding his house when he was staying in Tyler Perry's home with the family, and he, you know a lot of this meaner stuff that put online and shared his quick bait that then profits, these media companies. And that's what he said was bonkers about the First Amendment protecting all this.
A highlight from Episode 46; The theme for this episode is Happiness, living a happy life and doing things that lead
"Coming up on this episode of the old man's podcast. The segment on tips is going to have some organizing your home tips. I don't know about you it coming out of this pandemic. My home needs organized. Read an article or to get some tips for. I wanna pass on the last episode. I did best days ever this episode. We're taking it up a notch. We're going to talk about a big night out. What makes for big night out. Pep talk coming to you. From a quote by oprah winfrey. I think you'll enjoy it and get something out of it and finally. Have you ever been accused of being fast and loose with rules. I have kind of proud of it. Sounds like we got a great entertaining. Informative podcast episode for you this week on the old man's pop camp
Damon Weaver, Kid Reporter Who Interviewed President Obama, Dies at 23
"When he scored the interview of a lifetime, But now we won't find out what else he could have accomplished. His family says he's passed away. Damon Weaver was just 11 years old and in the fifth grade when he spent 10 minutes asking President Obama questions at the White House in 2000 and nine they cover topics such as education and bullying and demon made a friend. When I interviewed Vice President Joe Biden, he became a homeboy. Now did I interviewed you? Would you like to become my home? Absolutely. Thank you, man. Great job. Weaver later interviewed Oprah Winfrey and basketball star Dwayne Wade and was studying communications. At Albany State University in Georgia. His family says he died of natural causes on May the first he was 23 years old boxes. Kevin
Local Governments Promoting Incentives to Encourage Covid Vaccinations
"According to the centers for disease control just a bit more than forty six percent of the entire. us population. that's everybody has gotten at least one dose of covid vaccine thirty five percent is fully vaccinated but things are slowing down. Millions of people are still hesitant and herd. Immunity is for now maybe not looking so great so local governments are partnering with businesses to offer free stuff in exchange for getting a shot incentives matter that we know but do they work. Marketplace's kristen schwab has more on that. The mission to get more vaccines into people's arms is starting to take on a bit of an oprah. winfrey vibe. west. Virginia is giving one hundred dollars savings bonds to adults under thirty. Five main is offering free hunting and fishing licenses and in new orleans a pound of crawfish. Incentives are nice. Because they're the bronx near leading people toward something in a positive way. Knoll brewer researches vaccination behavior at the university of north carolina. He says incentives appeal to people across party. Lines and studies show. They increase vaccine uptake by about eight percent. If the incentive is of value mario macho is a behavioral economist at johns hopkins. There are costs and benefits to any any action and a person engages in the action if her perceived benefits exceed her received. The costs costs can be literal like to and from a vaccination site. The biden administration has partnered with uber and lift to provide free rides but benefits can also offer people. Something they want. New jersey is running a shot and a beer program macho says this can make a needle in the arm. Seem fun ause you. They might go without with a friend or a group of friends and get vaccinated together and then go out and get their free beer and incentives. Like new york's free tickets to a mets or yankees game. Also whisper freedom like. Hey remember when we high five strangers after home runs without fear gretchen chapman who studies vaccine behavior at carnegie mellon says incentives usually work on people who only need a little push and researchers. Don't know if they'll work for the covid vaccine like to have for others
Ellen DeGeneres Plans to End Her Talk Show in 2022
"TV host Ellen did generous is calling it quits. The Hollywood reporter says generous has decided to make the 19th season of the Ellen Show her final one. She let her staff know Yesterday she's scheduled to talk about her decision with Oprah Winfrey during her show tomorrow,
Live With Integrity, Restore Your Spiritual Backbone
"Of confronting somebody in your life. Who is judgmental. Somebody who just can't be happy for your success. It is a sign that you are not living with integrity. Today women start to restore their spiritual backbones by standing up to toxic friends and family members. Hard to do right. Yeah even the me and a shaken the here as hard shell richardson. Who heads up our lifestyle. Makeover team of experts is back with us on our program. Cheryl's showed us the three steps to start living your life with integrity i. She said you need to identify where you are. Not being truthful in your life and that happens in little ways and bakeware well you hear yourself say something to someone and think. Why did i just say that. That wasn't the truth or you'll make up an excuse for about something so you to figure out where you not telling the truth. I all right and get cleaned clean with that. That's right that's right next is creating an absolute integrity list of three promises right. Once he started dente fighing where you're not being truthful. The next step is to make some promises to yourself so that you'll start to restore your integrity. If you make excuses then make a promise that i will no longer make excuses. I'll say what it is. I need to say. Or if i'm saying yes when i mean no i'm gonna make a promise to start saying no when i mean no okay which is hard to do easy to do. Yes okay
Why Oprah's Quietly Mailing Surprise $15K Checks to People
"Now it's oprah winfrey stimulus package for real over thousand on talk shop live. That she's been giving fifteen grants to people in need during the pandemic oprah run me a check for says. She goes through the newspaper to find stories of people and sends them cash.
Prince Philip's Coffin Is Lowered Into the Royal Vault
"Bands and a royal procession. Britain's Prince Philip, who died earlier this month, was laid to rest at Windsor Castle, his coffin lowered into the royal vault. Prince Philip's coffin was delivered to church on an unusual hearse, especially modified Land Rover designed by the prince himself. His four Children walked behind the hearse, along with Princes William and Harry, the queen traveled by car. The funeral service reflected Phillips military connections, while the dean of Windsor leading the ceremony said Britain had bean enriched by Phillips, Courage, fortitude and face faxes. Simon Ellen as the family filed out of ST George's Chapel, Prince Harry was seen talking with his brother, Prince William. Relationship severely strained following Oprah Winfrey's bombshell interview with Harry and his wife, Meghan,
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"One out of four women and one out of seven men in this country. The united states of america have been sexually abused. We have talked about it a lot on this show. It is in the news a lot every week. We get hundreds of letters from women who have lived with this secret for years because the nightmare of sexual abuse continues long after the molesting stops. If you've been abused yourself you may be surprised how it has affected you or you may be one of those women like myself who never even looked at your life to realize how what happened to you as a child has affected you. See if you recognize yourself any of these characteristics of women who have been abused sexually as children. do you have an aversion to sex. Were you sexually promiscuous as a child. Were you more sexually inquisitive as a child and your friends. are you leaning toward homosexuality or bisexuality. Drugs alcohol had. They played a role major role in your life. Are you a perfectionist. You have an inability to function. And you can't seem to get organized. You sometimes have flashbacks of the incident. And can't get it out of your mind and relive it over and over. Did you relive it as a child many times do you have an inability to have relationships. Have you been married many times. Multiple marriages spider woman type. You snare opposite sex only for sex. Are you over protecting your children. All of my audience members today have been sexually abused and some of the stories that you are here of are of a very sensitive nature so you might want to find something else for the children to do or you may if you are an open minded enlightened parents prefer for your children to see the show. I want to read you a letter that we received here on the oprah winfrey show. It is from one of the guests here today. Jamie she says. I've held the secret of incest and it's force within myself for over thirty years and i'm now ready to tell my story. It's a story of incest of sexual abuse. Physical abuse verbal abuse emotional trauma alcoholism. The sad truth is that just because the physical behavior stopped the damage remains. I've carried around my secrets for so long. Now that the secrets have become as big a problem as the actual abuse itself. and so. that's what this show is about. It is about what happens after the abuse jamie. Tell me what happened in your life. I was getting molested. I started getting abused by my brothers. When i was three and it stopped when i was around seven and they let their friends also abused me. I was sort of the like the doll in their life. And then i was getting molested by the man up the street. That was acted as grandfather until i was eleven. I was raped. When i was fifteen and i was pregnant at sixteen and i have two daughters now as a result. None of the rapes. I was married for about eight years. And i'm a recovering alcoholic. Can one of my daughters also recovered now. When you were being abused by the by your brothers did you know it was wrong. Or bad no they. They're my brothers. Were the only people in my family. That were nice to me. They weren't hitting me on one of nine children who's being beaten by both my mother and my father and my brothers they were always just nice to meet and they always were friendly with me and they never. I never thought they were me because they weren't hitting me kind of effect. Do you think it's had on your life those years from three to seven when you were being used by your brothers and to <hes>. Trying to form relationships. I don't have a real good track record with men at all. I've been married twice. And i seem to have a real difficult time in relationships with men in the last couple of years i've begun to form relationships with women because i didn't trust women either by relationships. You mean. Sexual relations friendships ships. I've been isolated. Most of my life and i've overprotected my children. I've i've kind of was the rebel though too. I've been loud and aggressive but so that no one would know what was really going. How do you see that the sexual abuse had any effect on all of these other things that have happened in your life or impact trying to just maintain and go about day to day life. It's for a long time before. I started talking about it. I would wake up in the morning and wonder why had woken up again. Why didn't just die during the night. Because i finally. When i went to therapy. I decided to have myself committed because every time i woke up. I didn't know what would happen during the day. I i held big joe. I had my kids. People thought i was superwoman. People thought i was friendly. One woman even said to me she thought. I never had had a sad day in my entire life. But that's because i was busy keeping the secret and the in. I couldn't let anyone know.
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"Presently. We posted a question on our website. We asked what one thing would make your life better and we got three thousand eight hundred and forty responses almost immediately to that one question. What would make your life better. It's an interesting question to ask yourself right now. If i were to answer that question. Because i have a pretty good life i have to say. It's a wonderful life and what you see on. The outside is one thing but really i think the greatest thing about my life is that i have a great sense of inner peace that is sort of indescribable. But what would really make my life. Better is if these boots that i'm wearing today had come in a size ten instead of a size nine and a half because i was in that little fendi store and i you know how you really like it a lot and the lady says. I'm sorry we only have a half but they run big my feet not feeling that they run big right now so that would have made my life better if they came in size ten. All i can ask or some folks. Chicago had definite ideas though about the one thing that would improve their lives thing that my life better would be a fulltime housekeeper tans down probably a fulltime unpaid life assistance to follow me around and do whatever i needed them back and design my own man who have them show up whenever i want have believe whenever i want. Someone could walk my dog when it's raining or when it's snowing a couple extra hours in the day one thing that would definitely make my life better is if i could have lunch with your we shop and you can do my hair and then i can do your hair personal shopper. Drive through starbucks so i wouldn't have to get out of my car. Free parking thing that would make my life better is paying less taxes in each magic degree. better johnson. definitely more sleep. No telemarketers ever called. Our home in telemarketers are getting bad. aren't they so bad. I answered the phone so much. So now i answered the phone illu the other night i got one and they say you know just the owner of the home. No it was my answer. Some of the answers we got online. Where a little unusual light brook from colorado. Who wrote the one thing that would make my life better would be if someone would invent a portable doggy door. That's interesting that fits into sliding glass doors. Is well insulated and doesn't take handyman to install portable doggy door. Some of them were kind of pie in the sky to have a car and a driver. Someone said that's a nice thing someone to come in and do my hair and my daughter's here every morning that's good. I have that too. That's really that is really good. I know people say to me. How do you get your head like that. you yours could too if you had. Andre should see me on the weekend but we really won't go to the grocery store and the people you know 'cause usually you know people have a reaction because you walk in it's open then they don't know who i am have to say. Hello we'll be back in a minute but some of the responses we got. Were so doable. To stop watching so much television and get active to say goodbye to those people in my life. Who are not good for me. That was a lotta people. A lot of people have just say goodbye. We're going to talk about. How do identify the things that you do. Have the power to change and how doing just one thing differently can move you in the right direction. But i i wanna talk to lisa. Snugs lisa's answer to the question. What one thing would make your life better was similar to a lot of the messages we receive from wives around the country. And you wrote lisa speaking up for the wives around the country the one thing that would make my life better is if my husband would come home each day and give me a hug and kiss and say i thought of you today. Oh you're not alone. That is not happening and a lot of homes across america. I thought it was. I thought it's like ward cleaver comes home dear. That's not too busy. I think too busy busy well. This lisa's husband andrew were you. Were you surprised to hear that. That's the one thing not a chauffeur. I was a little surprised but you know we have very busy. Lives and take for granted. Sometimes the little things like that and we come. I come home and we both start doing our own thing and you come home and not even like smack sometimes seventy. Give me a mike. Go come on. Give me the real deal. I usually give the hug and the kiss in the morning before leaving and that ought to last for goodness sakes. What more do you wanna hug you this morning. And so you just come in and there's not even a howdy doody usually all there. Is you know just saying alone. We start you know doing things with the children and so
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"By, , the end of this hour we're hoping to inspire you to pick up the phone and reconnect with a friend. . You've lost touch with just a phone call, , but hopefully a new start for your friendships and hopefully those of you who haven't made the call in six years ten years twelve will get the nerve from this show to pick up the. . Phone and reconnect as one woman wrote us a true best friend nurtures the soul and that couldn't be more Trooper Anna and Regina their bond save their lives during World War Two they help each other survived the Nazi death camps and they were only young girls at the time, , and now as women they a bond that so strong they consider themselves sisters. . I came into the camp was eleven was nineteen, , ninety, , two I was a long line I don't know why. . CAN'T And side. . Little go nothing. . It was the beginning of a friendship that would last for sixty years in the midst of death and suffering in the concentration camps of Poland and Germany. . They were two little girls reaching out for each other that was looking for somebody. . To. . Be Nice because I didn't have no matter no more I didn't have no fad I. . didn't have no family look for each other one could. . We're not supposed to go from one back to the other sometimes I, , would go in they say hi and then she would be afraid they're going to do something to me. . She would succeed give up give out the two girls were separated several times when one girl was shipped to another camp heard it like animals onto cattle, cars, , , but fate drew them together each time we'll want so many cans wouldn't again too wide. . Say Anything of course we should communicate. . Was, , then to Bruce I had. . Half Time. . So I was. So . Hang I was yanked I needed food. . Sites. . To Steal from the dog, , Regina had smuggled a loaf of bread with her and even though she was hungry, , Regina risked her life to share it with her friend. . When I saw I rapped the play. . Talwar to hey. . And votes. . killed. . I forgive put we went to well. . I so what? ? People just Within weeks they were scheduled to be guest but liberation came I lost in the chaos they never knew if they would see each other again they were separated once more they both married and began families, , and after years apart fate Ju- them together again, , they discover dot only had they both resettle in the united. . States. . But actually we're living in the same Boston neighborhood just blocks from each other. . Clam to the same street. . Trout Chink hours so We're boats that shock. . After the war was over a wonderful friends, , their friendship grew deeper as the years passed we cannot sit and talk about those things to allow the people's because even even to my kids, , this is the bond between us. . It's concentration. . Can I cherish? ? Come forget what? ? What fifty sixty years. . If I before she dies before we we're gonNA still love each out. . And an-and Regina stories featured in the book. . Best Friends. . Now, , where's Judy night duty I, , hear you had a best friend since you were what? ? By five five years old but you haven't seen each other more than thirty. . Thirteen thirty years, , thirty years really cracked and the reason for that is. . We just don't find the time. . I. . Guess We make excuses for it and we've just never. . Merged our time together to make it work. . What you do talk you do communicate we communicate through letters. . We've been pound pals for over forty years. . and. . Where does she live and where you live she lives in like Huntington, , New York and I live in Naperville Illinois. . Wow. . Never a Greyhound bus between you. . Never, , would you recognize her if you saw her on the street I would hope so through photographs but I don't know. . What does she look like? ? Last. . I knew she had long blond hair. . Very pretty face does she look like anybody here? ? Not that I see right now okay. . Stand up look around take the audience know. . Right there. . Say. . Anti. .
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on A Biography Podcast - Life Histories of Successful People
"Air reading club every month she would announce the name of the book and ask her fans to buy the book. Oprah. Would then discuss the book the following month. One of the first books year at on air was the deep end of the ocean, which was a first time novel that sold around seven hundred, fifty, thousand copies mainly due bre. The book then went on to become a bestseller this made over the most powerful book marketer in the USA her show drove more book sales, the magazines news shows radio shows and print reviews combined. Romantic. Relationships. Oprah has been in a series of romantic relationships, the most profound and deep one out of those with William Taylor whom she met at Tennessee. University. The couple had an intense relationship. However, they broke up when Oprah moved to Baltimore and William decided to stay in Nashville despite oprah getting him a job in the radio network she was working at. The, another man that over deeply cared for was Lloyd Kramer she called the relationship with him was her most fun romantic relationship. However, the couple broke up when Oprah had an affair with a married man while Lloyd was away on an assignment, the affair with the married man broker and rover to think about committing suicide. She allegedly even wrote a suicide note but later rubbish the idea saying that she could never kill herself. All. These broken relationships took a toll on her emotional and physical wellbeing and Oprah battled with weight issues and drug usage. The nine, hundred, eighty, six, she met the American author, Stedman Graham. She finally found love and solace instead men since then she has been in a steady relationship with him, her relationship with Stedman Graham has successfully continued for thirty three years with each partner supporting the other. Fact you probably didn't know. Oprah does not like people chewing gum. She hates it when people chew gum around her, that is one of her pet peeves. She has a phobia of balloons. Her multimedia production company named Harpo is just oprah spelled backward. She grows her own Avocados at her house and always travels with fresh bread and Avocados while touring different parts of the world. She has her favourite muffins flown in from Napa Valley. We hope that this biography of Oprah Winfrey help you understand how Oprah Winfrey became what she has today she was born in extreme poverty and suffered sexual abuse. When she was a kid yet she never gave up she never stopped believing in herself or improving her skills. She even suffered from drug abuse but came out of it and succeeded in her life today she is one of the most powerful women in the world. So whenever life gets tough, don't give up trust in yourself and keep tuning your skills and when the opportunity comes knocking make the most out of it. To listen to more interesting podcasts or read interesting articles on finance health history life stories, and science download our APP from apple and Google play stores are APP is called was Suru and spelled. W.. I s. you are you..
"oprah winfrey" Discussed on The Oprah Winfrey Show: The Podcast
"How are your children being affected by the disintegration of the American family in a recent news week poll, half of the people ask said that their families are in worse shape now than they were ten years ago and no wonder, the divorce rate has doubled since nineteen, sixty five and experts say that one third of all children born in the eighties will live in A. A stepfamily before they grow up on top of that one of every four children lives with a single parent and twenty two percent of today's children were born to a teenage parent, and when it comes to who is watching our children. Two thirds of all mothers work outside the home. If you feel that your family is going a little helter skelter, everybody doing their own. Own Thing and the family unit is falling apart, or if the people you call your family, don't fit the traditional description like the cleavers or the huxtables. We want you all to join family unity workshop. We asked to our studio audience to take several tests so that we could find out how healthy their families are, and now we want you to test your family's health. Health, too, so get a pencil and paper and take this first test. It's called the family rituals test, and the test is taken from a fascinating book written by one of our favorite guests on the Oprah Winfrey show Dr Paul Pearsall renowned family psychologist, and it's called the power of the Family Paul. Glad to have you here. Thank you glad to have you once again. Well. I know the audience is already taken. The test and I went over the test. And what does this ritual tell us know it's a strange thing. Many of the couples we interviewed families didn't have time to take the test because we're too busy to look at one of the family had rituals or not, and one mother looked at me and said we have the Dooby Doo Bee. Doo Syndrome in our family. I said what's this dooby? Dooby Doo Bee Doo, she said we spend too much time doing and not enough time being so the rich test is a measure of whether or not you really give dignity and celebration that the simple daily acts of family life, or you just run right past them and have separate breakfast separate dinner, separate bed times and live alone, even though you're in a group, dignity and celebration I like those choice of words what it sounds kind. Kind of Corny to say that, but we found families that would eat in quiet or fight during dinner. They'd take a bite and say well school Goin- what you're telling me shut up. Don't pick on your brother I've had it with you. This is enough to. Did you enjoy dinner eight? That's really what's happening and it's not that the family is failing. We are failing our families, and if we don't make enough time at least a. A Saddam most families didn't even sit down for dinner. That's what the ritual test. Let's see. I think children are in crisis in this country, but children are in crisis only because families are in crisis. That's where it starts. That's what we think that these children just didn't refer to their families much anymore. Children are aware of rituals. They'll pointed out to you. Sometimes. They'll say mom we. We always used to do it that way. We shouldn't do this even the simple act of saying grace I. Don't mean to get too pushy about those type of things, but we saw people. Sam So fast. You couldn't tell her saying grace. Somebody be grabbing, food. What happened to the idea of just sitting down a moment, you know the old idea we used to say. Sit Down and shut up. Okay I. Tell You what we wanted to do. Now. Let's go through the test. Can we do that? The test of the family rituals and our audience is already answered these questions, and perhaps maybe if you watching it home with answer these questions, you'd get a clear idea about where your family is right now I. Question. Does your family move is one unit when it walks a group or does someone dragged behind? I found that very interesting because I said. If you're walking down the street, everybody can't walk at the same time. Honesty families go to shopping centers and you'll see these somebody's lagging behind. The fodders looks discussed. It I'll go sit there. You go shop. I'll meet you in the lot. If you'RE GONNA. Do it. do it together. Okay now. Who who answered that question? No, now why why Antonio Yep? Because whenever I'm walking with my husband, he's either always pushing the child or walking the dog, or whatever so he's far ahead or five behind and there we go as a separate unit else walks is a separate unit. I know. Some people lied on the test to see that. Some people lied on the tests. They want us to think they're to huxtables, not only lie, but some people don't pay enough attention to. My husband is sixty five. He always walks a few steps ahead of I'm always behind standard. Intentional! I tell stem this all the time, too, because his legs are so long that when he takes a step, I have to take one and a half for every step that he takes so we're in the airport and I'm looking like we're from foreign country. Walk Twelve paces behind. A lot I sometimes have to turn around and wonder why she's like a blockbuster. Because your legs are so much longer. Yeah, okay. What does that really isn't the walking style you? Yes, it's certainly cause I'm kind of Tom Lanky to my family alive behind, but this issue the attitude while you're doing this. Is there some attempt interesting family say come on, catch up. Let's all go look at this rather than I'm going to the store you go to. The dresses will lose the kids if we can and will meet in the lot, it's really the attitude is not just the distance. Doesn't that mean in some way that that person feels separate from you? Well, that's the tragedy. Tragedy sounds a little corny, but it's just like we're not really doing this together. We're going to get hurt close. He's gotTa get three pairs of slacks. I'm sick of the shopping any way faster. We get it done. The better somebody's disgusted. That's not doing it together. That's not a ritual. It's a routine routine is just getting done. Ritual is a celebration of the doing