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The Rich Eisen Show
"nona" Discussed on The Rich Eisen Show
"I think it's going to be really tough for the community to put it in two Big Ten team. I think they're the shot that this has to be a 35 34 type ball game really close, you know, to really turn the attention on that game to where they would say, you know what? We need these two teams in the tournament, but if it's not that type of game that I don't see to Big Ten teams getting in it. So whoever this game, you need to win this game, otherwise you're not going to have a shot at getting into the tournament. Have a great rest of your golf game have a great Thanksgiving with your family. I assume what you're heading to the shoe Friday. Is that where is that when you're going? Is that your situation? No, I'm actually going to have a little Thanksgiving here early in the morning. I get on a plane headed up to Columbus. My brother, who turned me on to Michigan and my mother who's up there with him now. I get to spend the rest of the Thanksgiving with them up in Columbus. Look at this. It'll be a full schedule for me tomorrow, rich. A truly, but I'm sick, but I'm thankful. Yes, you are. I'm very thankful. Well, and I'm thankful for you, Charles. I'm not going to lie. Very thankful. Very thankful that I know you after watching you do your thing. I'll never forget it. I was my second year on SportsCenter and I'm thinking to myself, my gosh, I can't believe I can't get to the go to the rose bowl and watch them take on Washington state because I've got to work on SportsCenter, which is truly what I had dreamt of doing while I was at Michigan. And then I watched you do what you've done and what you did in your career, I say it every single time. I'm thankful for you, Charles, what's in thank you. I appreciate it. Always good to talk to you, tell the crew I said. I love Bella. They hear you. See what? Them straight, baby. They hear you hit them straight. Take care of yourself. Happy Thanksgiving. Man, I knew I was coming on Richard so I had to have so many the rich eyes and show bump. The rich eisen show bones. Thank you very much. Take care of yourself, Charles. You'd be well. Okay, there you go. All right, there you go. Is Charles Woodson who is hanging up from us in about to hit a provisional. Very good. All right. Breakfast, brunch ball. Down there in Orlando. I played Lake Nona, there's a lot of water in there, man. There's a Lake. It's not like it's not like what a golf is different. Yeah. You gotta have a few sleeves. I don't mean because of the weather's cold. There's Gators. The Gators. They're sandy, there's a lot of sand. The grass is different. A lot of water, humid humid. I'm currently, I knew I'd get this way. I knew I'd get this way. I'm trying to, you know, I'm trying to avoid getting hyped. There's four days to go. You've seen the spread. All of today. Seeing the number? What is it? 7? 7 and a half. I get it. Michigan's banged up and everybody thinks that last year was a fluke. It was a one off. I mean, look at your current defensive player of the week and the national football conference. And we ate in Hutchinson. That's where he is. He's in Detroit right now. So, you know, everybody thinks last year was last year. This is this year. Okay. These commercial breaks feel like they're an hour and a half long in this game. Seriously, the three minute commercial ponds, they feel like I could watch Gone with the Wind in the middle of it. That's how it feels. Four and a half, 5. Honestly, those commercial breaks in Michigan versus Ohio State. It feels like those times I've been to Las Vegas for three day weekend, and I'm already a couple of trips to the ATM in at the blackjack table after an hour and a half, and I'm like, oh God, what are we doing? That's how long these feel. By the way, in those times that I was telling you about Las Vegas before working for the NFL. Of course. Obviously. Honestly. It happened so long ago. I don't remember. What am I talking? Is this thing? All right, we'll take a break here. 8 four four two O four rich, number to dial here on the show. I'll talk about those college football rankings. Gus Johnson in studio hour two. The world tournament of soccer happening in Qatar is finally here, and with all the weird kick-off times and all the other sports happening simultaneously, it could be kind of hard to keep up. So to make sure you're up to speed, be sure to listen to Qatar kick around for the daily wrap up of all the action from the tournament. From the group stage all the way to the final Andy Lars and Peter are here for you with recaps and opinions of what happened that day in Qatar. Everything could be found at the kick around dot com, the cumulus podcast channel on

The Argument
"nona" Discussed on The Argument
"Cause tremendous pain, and if you're not careful, sex can destroy lives. It's the argument. I'm Jane cost. And this is the last episode in our three part series on where feminism goes next. Today, we're wrestling with one of feminism's longest standing divides. What is good sex? What kind of sex and romance is feminist? And what's not? Is Tinder or hookup culture? A sign that feminism is working or that the patriarchy is still in charge. And do your choices in the bedroom actually have an impact on the broader feminist movement. My first guest is tackled all of this in her new book. Bad sex. Truth, pleasure, and an unfinished revolution. Nona Willis aronowitz is a sex and love colonist at teen Vogue. Her book is part memoir part history. She writes about how she married her boyfriend and her 20s to help him get health insurance. It forced their casual relationship into a serious one. And then after years of bad sex, her words she divorced him. And she started exploring casual sex, sexist women, and non monogamy. And the whole time, she's thinking about her mom. Her mom, Ellen Willis. With one of the leaders of the pro sex feminist movement of the late 19 60s and after. Through interviews and research, known as tries to reconcile her mom's version of feminism with her own desires. And she asks herself, is having casual sex the best way to pursue pleasure? And if it is, why doesn't it always make her happy? My other guest is time's opinion columnist Michelle Goldberg. She's been writing about feminism for decades and wrote a response to known as book. Michelle's argument is that the emotional part of a relationship can be just as liberating as a sexual part. Even if that means your relationship ends up looking pretty vanilla. Hey Michelle, hey Nona. Hi. Hi. So, Michelle, you've been writing about feminism for a long time. But for listeners who might not know, can you tell me what shapes most, how you think about feminism and where you come from? Well, to be honest, one person who really shaped how I think about feminism is known as mother, Ellen Willis, even though I think Ellen Willis is much more radical than I am. I mean, I've always been a pretty bog standard liberal, not always, but for my later life. But she had such a combination of kind of radical idealism and common sense. You know, there's kind of never any can't or unsupportable rhetoric. It just seems so true to my experience of the world. You know, but I would say, look, I don't know that I have kind of big ideological touchstones. I first became interested in feminism as a teenager doing reproductive rights activism. And I guess I've been motivated just by, again, the liberal idea that women are human beings, deserving of equal rights and freedom and opportunities for human flourishing. Nona, what shapes most how you think about feminism and where you come from? Well, it's kind of ironic because my mother is feminism didn't shape my feminism until much later until after she died. I was a teenager in the late 90s and early aughts when a very flattened version of sex positive feminism was rampant in the culture. And I'm not even sure I would call it quote unquote feminism, but sex positivity in general that was Samantha from Sex and the City who was having sex quote like a man, there was like all of those Cosmo headlines about getting the most explosive orgasm of your life. There was foxy Brown and Lil Kim and this very kind of impervious sexual confidence that seemed to be much preferable to what I saw as the only other option, which was being approved. And so now, of course, I have tried to reject those ideas, but it's proven to be not as easy as I thought to do away with some of that socialization. Nowadays, I think my feminism is informed not only by my mother, but above all, by early radical feminists who were being honest in living rooms during consciousness raising sessions. I think that is the concept that most appeals to me that we have to have a very sort of non judgmental but also interrogative forum for explaining our desires, right? You mentioned sex positive feminism. So I want to take a minute to do some history and definitions. So sex positive feminism is a political feminism of the 1970s. The argument that you can't liberate women without empowering them to pursue sexual pleasure. But not everyone was on board with that idea. You had people like Andrea dworkin, arguing that sex positivity can actually lead to the exploitation of women. Through things like sex work and pornography. There's a back and forth between these camps. It's complicated. But basically, in the 80s and 90s, we sort of settled into a norm of what we now call pro sex feminism, like find what you like and don't be ashamed of it. But here's the thing that interests me, recently there's been a backlash to that pro sex feminism. The feeling that just because women could do everything in the bedroom, starts to feel like pressure that they should do everything in the bedroom. Yes. Nona, you write about that pressure. So I want to quote a passage from your book. Couldn't I just have the sex I wanted to have without feeling bad or guilty or like a shitty feminist? I felt grateful for the radical feminism that encouraged shame free sexual expiration. But I resented its high bar too. What do you think held you back from having the sex that you wanted to have? I think the original iteration of pro sex feminism as we understand it didn't have those shoulds. I think the shoulds came later when there was so much critique of porn and BDSM and heterosexuality itself, that I think the 90s version of sex positivity said that nobody should be judged for their desires no matter what and that you should be having as much pleasure as humanly possible. I'm not sure that any feminist would say that you should be having as much sex as possible. I think it was more just like you deserve pleasure and you should go and get it and I think it really fit into the you go girl ethic of empowerment. The ask queen method. Yes. And for me, it created shame on the other side of not being able to admit that I was having sex that was less than unsatisfying. And then even beyond that, that there were some points where I didn't care one way or the other, whether I had an orgasm, or that I didn't particularly like getting oral sex, for instance, like Cosmo readers would be disappointed in me. And granted, I might be more neurotic about these things than the average woman. I think a lot of women are just unapologetically like not concerned with being a perfect sexual being, but I think either stance shows sexual pressures that different parts of society put on us, right? I think that if you have an ideology, a well formed ideology at this point, feminism is 40 or 50 years old in its current form. There's going to be norms and sometimes you don't live up to

Longform Podcast
"nona" Discussed on Longform Podcast
"Like reductive or like a little like just concealing some stuff that's going on in her personal life that would have been great to know like in the context of something she was writing about. And of course she's like entitled to her privacy. I don't need her to spill her guts out. Every time she writes, she wasn't like a memoirist. But there were a lot of contradictions about the way her personal life grid with her politics, like everybody else. And she's just like no exception. I didn't even really experience that as calling her out so much as realizing that those contradictions existed for her too. Yeah, well, not calling her out, but I think like with the anthology, if I had stopped there, it would have just been like, look how great my mother is. She's so amazing. It would have been like, hey geography. And I think this was more like engaging with her ideas. And there were some blind spots that she had. That's what I'm trying to say. She didn't think much about heterosexuality and what it meant. She really had a blind spot about like a race, they were just like certain moments where I was like wishing she would have pushed harder or wishing we could talk about it now, you know? I got one more question for you and then I'll let you go. And it's a heavy one, but as we were talking about at the beginning, the book was ambitious. It was like three books in one. It was a divorce memoir and a history of the sexual revolution and second wave feminism and also a sort of biography and conversation with your mother and I guess I'm just wondering, did this project give you closure? I really do feel like there's been closure. I think I've been circling around figuring out my mom and learning all there is to possibly know about her. And I think that that'll never end on a personal level, but on an intellectual level, I feel like this is a real end because she's this like ghost in my life of intellectual and emotional importance and now I've finally grappled with her unfinished business, you know? I think I really needed to write something about her legacy that wasn't just like an anthology of how great she was. And really needed to wrestle with it and then kind of like let it go. Like I feel like a relief that I've kind of written everything I probably need to write about my mom, even though I'll always think about her and talk about her. I think about her every day, multiple times a day, especially now that I am a mom. There's so many questions I want to ask her now about this experience that I never even thought to ask. Little granular things like when did I first sleep through the night and what did my hair look like at four months? Things like that, but also bigger questions. You and my dad always claimed to do this parenting thing 50 50, but now that I've done newborn hood and I've breastfed and I know you breastfed, how did you literally do 50 50? You didn't like come on, explain what I'm really like sort of grappling with this question of how biology gets in the way of equal parenting and that is something I really want to talk to my mom about. Because if you ask her in her writing, it just appears that they had this idyllic 50 50 feminist relationship, but now I know that that's so hard and early newborn hood. So that's something I want to ask her. always sort of like want to continue my personal relationship with her and we'll never be able to. But I think I've ended like intellectual exploration of her work. Nona, thank you so much for doing this. Thank you so much, max. Thanks

Longform Podcast
"nona" Discussed on Longform Podcast
"I had had sort of intellectual collaborations with her. She edited all my essays. At wesleyan, she really helped me out with my thesis there, which was about 1970s porn and the sexual revolution, which is actually the first time that I got introduced to a lot of the characters that show up in this book. And that's kind of what my thesis was about and I interviewed my mom for it, and I asked her for some reading recommendations, and it was really the first time I had engaged her in that intellectual level. And so then after that, you know, months later, she died. And so I think that, yes, I might have consulted her when I was having trouble in my marriage, and I was trying to figure out whether I should leave. But I couldn't also picture her being very, very hands off about the whole thing. She might have just said, I am not going to weigh in on this. This is something that you need to figure out for yourself. Like she was a good listener, but she wasn't an advice giver, you know? What kind of editor was she? I mean, by all accounts, she was an amazing one for me, she was my first editor, so I didn't really know what an editor could be. I mean, she was just my mom. But you know how there's like two kinds of editors they sort of just like have a Spidey sense of what it's supposed to be like and they insert their own words and do all kinds of rearranging and they take it upon themselves, basically, to do it. And that kind of editor, depending on whether you agree with them, you're either like, oh great, I don't have to do my edits myself or you're like, oh my God, what have you done with my work? I'm frankly one of those editors. I kind of am like, I know exactly how this is going to go. I'm going to move this paragraph over here. She was not that kind of editor. She asked open ended questions a lot. Is this really what you mean to say rather than being like, I think this synonym is better? But then also she had a lot of random suggestions that were always really good. I was like, oh, she was like, take this or leave this, but I think this one sentence should go over here. And then you were like, oh, yeah, of course it should go over here. But honestly, max, I mean, the writing I was doing at 22 is nothing like the writing that I'm doing now. So I have no, I mean, I could only imagine the kind of editing relationship we would have had. You edited two collections of hers after she died. Yeah, so I was the one to put together her archives for the Radcliffe institute. It was really one of the first things I did after she died. It was like a very cathartic and intense experience for me. I was in my dad's basement in Queens and I was sifting through all her work and she was a very meticulous record keeper and she had all of her clips very, very organized and there was this huge stack of these New Yorker rock critic pieces. She was The Rock critic for The New Yorker for several years in the late 60s up until the mid 70s, which I had known, but I wasn't like a big pop culture writer person. There's a whole culty world of music criticism, you know? And she was not really included in that canon. She was known more for her feminist writing and later her straight up political writing. But she was really one of the first women to insert herself into that conversation. A couple other people actually approached me about doing an anthology right after she died and I was like, no, I read all that stuff. I'm gonna do it. But then when that came out, she was like only known to a lot of people as a music critic. And that also didn't seem right. I was like, she's stopped being a music critic in 1975, you guys. It was really important to her because the context of the counterculture was very connected to rock and roll and music. But she's not like a music critic. By profession, I think in some ways her other writing is more important. No offense, guys. And so I felt like I had to rejigger the public narrative again because she had now become kind of posthumously famous for being a rock critic. And I was like, well, wait until you read all of her other stuff, actually. So that's how that second anthology came to be. But yeah, it's been a lot of sort of grieving my mother through keeping her legacy alive. Which honestly, that is the source of weird shame that I have too. That was something I was nervous about with this book. Why are you always talking about your mom? You know? And I think the reason why I'm always talking about her is because not only is she my mom and I lost her very early, but she really, truly would have had some wisdom to impart on my life because I'm going through so many of the same things that she went through. Well, that's part of what I think makes the book so incredible known as like in a way you're getting that advice and in another way, it's really like it's a love letter to her, you know? Yeah, I mean, I think it is. I try to not be like I do criticize her sometimes. I like call her out at times

Longform Podcast
"nona" Discussed on Longform Podcast
"I mean, I think that for better or for worse, I've always been a person who's in the habit of talking about the hot sex that I've had. It's kind of my personal brand in some ways. In some ways, it's performative, right? I could not talk about the bad sex in my life because I was the girl who had good sex, you know? So everybody in my life knows how hot the sex was between me and more. Like probably an inappropriate amount of people know about that. What was nerve wracking was admitting that I had kind of lied to people about my relationship with Aaron. Like even my very best friends who sensed some of this, but we weren't really talking about it. And that felt bad, like I had deceived people in some way, but I tried to explain why that was like what I was more worried about. I was telling the real story behind some of the posturing and also just some of the manic energy of a breakup. I think that if you've gone through a major breakup, I think something happens to you. You're kind of not all there. Like you're going on this journey and you don't have very much perspective and it's extremely, extremely intense and you're acting a little nuts. And I just I try to kind of explain that energy in the book too of like this manic just broken up person who's like now part of this club who's like full of people who have kind of taken this big step at an age where it's really scary to take that step, especially as a woman. So I was worried about admitting that that I was like a little weird and crazy and self centered during that time. Have either of those things come to pass. I mean, we're talking a couple of weeks after the book has come out, have toy old literary men, told you that you're no longer a serious writer or have your Friends been wildly uncomfortable with the gap between how your life was actually going and what you were telling them. What is the reaction been to the book? I feel like my Friends have been really moved by the by the chapters that describe my feelings of isolation and my feelings of repression and not being able to talk to them. So that hasn't been very scary. I've been really afraid of what my ex-husband thinks, but so far that part has been okay. He even showed up to the Brooklyn reading in good faith and I signed his book and everything and he said that he had read the first couple of chapters previously he had said he wasn't ready to read the book, which I totally understand. But again, he was very generous with his story. Because he was like, maybe I want to talk about our marriage and a film one day. I want to reserve that, right? So go ahead and write about it in a book. I trust you, basically. But I'm still a little nervous about what he's going to think. And in terms of the hoity toity literary men, I wouldn't say anybody prominent has come out and said anything like that. But a lot of like random older white dudes are up in my inbox max. I have to tell you. Really? They are showing up. Yes, I was totally not prepared. I think it's The New York Times this fault. The New York Times, you know, God bless him, has featured this book several times, and several ways, which is kind of a shock to me actually. And so you get all The New York Times readers. Taking liberties and writing you emails and a lot of them are like older white men. What are they writing? Well, some of them are actually really sweet and they're like, thank you for this perspective. But then others are saying exactly what I was worried about. Like, why are you wasting your time on these questions? These are like such dumb questions. Also, they assume not that this would be a problem, but they assume wrongly that I'm like a sad 40 year old single woman. You know, that look what you've done now with your life. Aren't you so, aren't you so regretful that you broke up this marriage and now you have nothing? And again, I'm not saying I'm like my life is so much better because I'm partnered and happened to be partnered and have a baby. Like I was prepared to be single for the rest of my life because that sounded better than being in an unfulfilling marriage to me. But it's just so funny that a certain type of person will assume that and go there and use that to insult you. That's such a wild way to spend your time. To write an email like that. I don't understand. I actually don't understand what the point is. Expecting a response in that situation, do you write back to these people? No, I definitely don't write back to them. But I think people get very defensive when you tell them to reexamine their love life, their private life. I mean, I think another reaction that I've been a little taken aback by is several writers have zeroed in on my thoughts about monogamy and gotten very defensive. And sort of made the argument like clearly you want monogamy in your still denying your desires after all this time. I mean, I'm paraphrasing, but I think people get very threatened by discussions about monogamy and non monogamy. And I don't even feel like that chapter is heavy handed or saying that nobody should be monogamous or anything, or even that polyamory is like the answer. I still feel very ambivalent about it. But what I don't feel ambivalent about though is that monogamy shouldn't necessarily be a default because it's clearly not really working the way it was intended. I do make the argument that the mass indoctrination of monogamy is an issue. It's a problem. And it closes doors to other ways of thinking about relationships. Because a majority of people end up quote unquote cheating. I hate that word, but betraying their partners and having sex with or having affairs with other people anyway, and so many people are loath to even talk about some sort of spectrum of non monogamy. And it's because jealousy is a really awful, awful feeling. I mean, I go into the physical pain of jealousy in this book. Another thing that my editor pressed me to do, because she was like, you're saying that it's awful, but how is it awful? How did you feel it in your body? And I was like, oh, you feel jealousy in your body. It's a terrible feeling. And I think people go to great lengths to never feel jealousy. But I actually think that the strength and the potency of jealousy is what makes it interesting, politically, and just like every other emotion or every other reaction to a situation, there are societal reasons

Longform Podcast
"nona" Discussed on Longform Podcast
"Hey, before we go, I just want to remind you again, check out this podcast the world as you'll know it. It focuses on the forces that are shaping our future and the new season, season three is hosted by Judith Warner and it's all about the brain. Every episode Judith talks to some of the world's most respected brain scientists and the discuss how advancements in technology, medicine, data, all this stuff is helping us understand our own minds even better. The season is all about new achievements in neuroscience and opening the door to new ways of treating trauma, depression, and pain. Season three of the world as you know it is out right now. So subscribe. Wherever you listen to podcasts. Whether other things, moments, stories, realizations that you put in the book that were embarrassing to write down. Oh my God, max. So many of these stories were so embarrassing. I feel like there's not two too much graphic sex in this book, but when it is graphic, it's like very vivid, and that's very deliberate. Like I'm not a sensationalist sex writer. Like, I don't even consider myself a sex writer. I consider myself a journalist who sort of has the beat of sexuality and gender, and then also sometimes I bring in my personal life. So I don't usually put like sexual details in there, and my editors were kind of like, no, no, I think you have to explain exactly what the sex was like in order for us to really understand what you were going through. So your first drafts would sort of skate along the surface a little bit. Yeah, especially with two people. The first was my husband, he is the guy I'm talking about in the title, you know? And the first chapter, it's called bad sex. We had bad sex. And I explain why, but it took forever for me to really be able to explain why, because it wasn't like, oh, he was so bad in bed. He didn't know how to go down on me or whatever. It wasn't like about his skills or like what he was willing to do. It was like this somewhat unexplainable chemistry problem that was really hard to put down on paper and I really didn't want to humiliate him or anything, but I also didn't want to be euphemistic because he had given me free reign to write my story. So that wasn't really the issue. But it's kind of hard to explain what was so bad about our sex. So that took a long time. And then there was this guy who I call more in the book, he was sort of my rebound from my ex, he was a very sort of whirlwind, not quite romance, but not at all casual. Kind of like four month affair that I had. And our sex was very central to the relationship. And it was so amazing. And it was so hot and I also had to explain what was so amazing and hot about it, you know? And why I thought he was so attractive. And how I was lavishing attention on his body in a way that I had never lavished attention on a man's body before. And I had to really describe his body. And there were just a few lines in there that I blush every time I look at them, but I find them to be necessary. Was it easier to write about more than about air in your ex-husband? Is it easier to write about quote unquote good sex than bad sex? It is easier to write about quote unquote good sex than bad sex, but there was this internalized voice when I was writing about the good sex. That I pictured sort of like an older, very serious literary man who was like, I can't believe you're talking about dicks and pussies right now when you're trying to get taken seriously young lady, you know? Like I kind of had that voice in my head of like, do you write a really sexually explicit paragraph and still get taken seriously as a woman who's having a lot of sex? I feel like even the term sex writer, like even I did it 5 minutes ago, I kind of said, oh, I'm not a sex writer. I distanced myself from doing that even. Which I guess was wrong, because I do write about sex and I do try to describe sex. And a few people have told me like, damn girl, this book's kind of steamy, like this book's hot. It made me horny. And I was like, really? That was not at all my intention. But I think if you describe sex, especially good sex with a lot of detail, that is going to be a byproduct, and I did sort of feel a little bashful about that. Like, oh, this isn't real literature because it's like maybe titillating. It's funny to me that that person you were thinking of was like old twitty literary man. Because I think if I had written that book, I would have just been thinking about everyone I know the whole time. Like I would have just been thinking about people asking, go to a bar with the next day, was that a hang up for you at all? Or did you not give a shit, or if you did give a shit, did you just get over it?

Longform Podcast
"nona" Discussed on Longform Podcast
"Be exhausting. When you sat down to write the book, had you basically closed that gap for yourself. Did you know when you sat down to write where you had landed or did writing itself help you figure that out? I absolutely did not know where I had landed. Until the last 5 pages. And I still, I think the last 5 pages determine that the only conclusion I really have is that is that change, especially when it comes to our sexuality is inevitable and something that we should welcome and invite or else we will always be miserable. And we just have to be, I know that sounds kind of like, I don't know, Lucy goosey and not very political, but I think when we try to pin down some like finite tangible sexual desire and try to square it with the politics and all that, like we're always going to be disappointed because our desires are always going to kind of be scrambled. Like when I was writing the last 5 pages, I mean, I wrote the book in order. Which I highly recommend. I really don't think people should try to, I mean, unless it's really just an essay collection or something, you really don't know how the dominoes will fall. And I think that the last chapter would not have been the same. If I had tried to write it a year earlier, because then I had gone through the depths of COVID, I was really in a different place in my relationship, which is sort of only described in the book as this new and exciting relationship. And then all of a sudden, we were together all the time in the same house 24/7 with no outside contact for a few months. At least. And if I were writing those 5 pages now, of course I'd have pregnancy and motherhood to reach for. Congratulations. Thank you. And I actually, I feel kind of like, I feel vindicated by my conclusion because that person in my book, even though she's only a few years younger than me, just totally seems unrecognizable now. I just don't have the same priorities. I still have the desire to discover my desires. And I'm still a sexual person, and I certainly have thoughts about my romantic life and things like that, but it's just been scrambled by parenthood and before that pregnancy. And then before that, a pandemic. And all kinds of things. Yeah, so the book feels a little bit like a time capsule. Yeah, and I kind of already knew it was going to feel that way because the person that I was writing about while I was proposing this book was already kind of not me anymore, you know? I can't even channel the person I was like 6, 7 years ago when I was still in my marriage. That was a totally different version of me and it's so difficult to even remember my motivations. I mean, now there's a record of it. Form of this book, but there's so much inside of me that has changed. Do you think of the book as a call to arms? Do you want it to inspire people? What are your hopes and ambitions for how it will be interpreted? The main way I wanted to inspire people is to simply start telling the truth of their lives. I think that's why I started, again, I started the book with consciousness raising sessions because here I was in a marriage that wasn't satisfying and I could not be honest about it to myself or anybody around me and that's kind of like the most upsetting thing. It's like, I'm not even telling you that you must go on this path and explore your desires, but the concept of truth and honesty is very baked into consciousness raising, which in turn is very baked into modern feminism. And you know, it's starting to happen. I'm like getting a lot of emails from people saying like, you know, not in these words, but basically you've inspired me to break up with my man tomorrow. Or I may not ever break up with my man, but I'm starting to tell the truth at least to myself about my relationship. And I think a lot of people, even though I think being open about your feelings and acceptance of all kinds of lifestyles, are like two tenets of modern society, I still think there's a lot of silence around dissatisfaction and sex and love. I bumped up against it, everybody I know has bumped up against it in some way or other, even if they're in these very open communities that are totally fine with casual sex and totally fine with whatever you want to be. Why do you think that is known of why do you think people are so unable to talk about that specific part of their interior lives? Well, first of all, I think we've been taught that it's your business, it's private. And I think the more casual the sex is, the more likely we will tell all the details. But I don't know that many people who tell lots of details about their marital sex lives because I still think it's like ingrained in us that that is private. But I think also there are norms no matter what community you're in, there are feminist norms. There are norms in radical countercultural communities. And I think no matter what community you're in, even a community that purports to be super accepting of whatever you want to be, there are norms that you feel that one might feel they have to live up to. I mean, that's what happened to me at least, that I felt like I was living in a world with feminist norms that I was somehow not meeting the expectations of, namely that if I were in a bad relationship, what's the big deal? I should just be single. You know? Why are you in this relationship? And the reason I was in, I mean, there were many reasons I was in this relationship, but one of the reasons I point out in the book is that there's a lot of societal reward for being in a committed relationship. And I think that feminists fought very hard against that concept of marital privilege and marital dependency, and so it's kind of embarrassing as a feminist to say, well, I still, I'm afraid what's going to happen if I don't have these benefits. I don't want to let them go. And there was just not a space to say that. That's just one example of just a feminist norm kind of getting in the way of the truth.

Longform Podcast
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"I mean, it wasn't that literal, but yeah, it was sort of like that. I would go through a phase. Well, first I would consult my mom's writing. I think that was more natural for me because she died when I was 22, she wrote about a lot of topics that I was just starting to go through in my early 30s up until then it had been kind of theoretical and abstract for me. But she wrote most about sex and the sexual revolution and feminism when she was in her 30s. So finally, we had this sort of parallel journey and I was rereading her work for a completely different reason for kind of like a substitute for advice because she wasn't around to give me advice and even if she were around. She wasn't she wasn't really the type to give advice. So I was sort of searching for answers in her work, but then doing that sort of made me feel like I could do that with other feminist writing. And a lot of feminist writing is very personal, you know, that phrase the personal is political. It's like a key second wave concept. And so there's just like a huge amount of personal narrative during this time. And a huge amount of, I mean, feminism, especially the second wave of feminism, is a very sort of written down movement. There were a lot of writers and thinkers and activists who really were very good communicators. So there's just like a huge amount of stuff to sift through. And some of this stuff, I feel like people reach for the same few sources every time they talk about this era. And I wanted to sort of go beyond those. And those sources were in my mom's archives, those sources were in the New York public library. I mean, that place is amazing. I don't know if you've been there lately. There was actually a period of time after I left my job at splinter in 2018. When I literally was all up in the library, reading these kind of esoteric texts. Because the rose reading room man, it's a vibe. Did the work you were doing in the rose reading room allow you some sort of grace with yourself that hadn't been there in the moment? Like knowing that all of these people before you had wrestled with these same questions about monogamy and this search for pleasure and all these huge questions you were wrestling with did it help you give yourself a break? Oh, definitely. I mean, that's why I opened the book with the consciousness raising sessions of the late 60s, which was the very, very beginning of vast and varied second wave feminist movement, essentially it was just women sharing stories about their lives and one of the results was that people felt less alone and people did sort of put their lives in context of other people's lives. And that's exactly what I was doing by reading these women, both their writing and about their lives. In most cases, when I'm writing about women from history, I'm interested in how their politics square with their personal lives. I think that some historians, it's like nails on a chalkboard to them to do this, you know? The important thing is the work and the important thing is the activism. Why are you delving into their personal lives? But for me, that's the whole entire question of feminism, or one of the major feminists, questions, is how do you square your personal life, your love life, your sex life, your emotional life, which can be incredibly tumultuous and confusing, how do you square that with these cut and dried politics that are supposed to have this moral clarity? That's an interesting way of thinking about the book that I hadn't totally wrapped my head around that you know not the daughter of this sort of like towering figure of second wave feminism grew up in New York City went to wesleyan had been writing about feminist politics for years and years. I mean, that was, if not all of your beat, a significant portion of what you've been covering and writing about as a journalist, and I hadn't quite realized or thought about the book as you trying to square those politics with your sex life and your romantic life. Which were sort of like more, had more questions in them than your politics did, perhaps. Yeah, I mean, I think the nature of desire is a major question of the book. First, there's the first few chapters which determines that following your desire is very important. It's very important to me personally and it's also politically important. But then once you start following your desire, it can be kind of, it can throw you. I mean, first of all, it's hard to know what you want without any outside influences. It's, in fact, impossible to do that. And I guess I'm very prone to outside influences and expectations because I felt them coming from all sides. I felt them coming from a more conservative side, a more mainstream side of this is what your love life should look like. And then I felt it coming from a radical side of you should be more adventurous. You should be more creative and have more imagination and why do you like these things that are so conventional? I mean, all kinds of influences were knocking around inside my head. And when you're really trying to actively and consciously harness your desire, that can be a struggle, you know?

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"I'm doing great, max. I'm excited to know who you have on the show this week. I'm excited to tell you that it is Nona Willis Renault's she has worked at all kinds of places in her journalistic career, splinter, good magazine. She is the sex and love columnist for teen Vogue right now. But she just released a new book. It is in fact called bad sex, truth, pleasure, and an unfinished revolution. And it's kind of like three books in one. So part of it is a memoir about her own sex life, love life. It starts with her marriage ending that is related to the title bad sex. It's part of why her marriage ends. So one part of the book sort of follows known as exploration for her own desire and pleasure. But then she also frames all of that in this deep historical research about feminists over the last several centuries actually who have done the same kind of work and thinking about this gap between your values and the way you live your life. And then the third part of the book is that her mother was a woman named Ellen Willis who was a rock critic, but also this huge figure of second wave feminism. And so the book is also kind of a biography of her mother and her mom is kind of a bridge between these two other ones. So it's an incredibly complicated and quite ambitious endeavor. And it was really interesting to talk to her about how you weave these three books into one and how you choose what to put in about your own story, which you don't. We talked about all kinds of stuff. It was great. Our show is produced in partnership with vox, as always, we thank them. We thank you for listening. And now here's max with Nona Willis or annoyance. Hi, no no. Hi, max. Thanks for doing the podcast. Well, thanks so much for having me. I love this podcast. So I'm so happy to be here. And congrats on this book. I have to tell you in the tradition of the show, I feel like I should ask you back to your start as a journalist and all of your various jobs you've had and good magazine and splinter and writing a column for teen Vogue and all of these journeys that you have had in media. But I'm not gonna do it. If that's okay, because I just finished your book and I was quite blown away by your book and I want to talk about your book. Can we just talk about your book? Is that okay? Let's talk about the book. Can you like as succinctly describe? What the book is? I don't know if I could do it justice. How would you describe this thing? It's a multi genre book. So I understand why you have trouble explaining it. But the way I explain it is that it's sort of a half memoir, half social history, and sort of a family history of the unfinished business of the sexual revolution, especially when it comes to female desire. Through the lens of feminism, and it pulls together a lot of characters in history that I turned to when I had a crisis in my life or a bunch of crises actually. And I sort of sought advice from them, including a historical figure who was awesome. My mom, Ellen Willis. Who was part of the second wave of feminism. She was a early radical pro sex feminist. And she sort of served as the bridge between that social history and my own story, because she was part of both. I feel like we need to spend some time talking about her because you can't really understand the book without understanding who your mother is. But before you even get there, just so people can understand it. It's like every chapter is broken up into a different topic and sort of period in your life. So there's a chapter on marriage. There's a chapter on monogamy. There's a chapter on queer history, there's a chapter called bad sex, and there's a chapter called good sex. At one point, you described the memoir part at least as sort of a quest for erotic enlightenment. And then your mother is sort of coming in between each of these things and sort of acts as a bridge, both her public writing, but then also you dive a lot into her personal writing. And I guess to start, can you help me understand how you arrive at that structure? Because from my vantage point, it seemed like a high degree of difficulty of a way to write a book. When did you arrive at that structure and was it as hard as it seemed from the outside? It was insanely hard and actually when I was looking for an agent, several agents told me, I like this idea, but I think it should only be a memoir or I like this idea, but I think it should only be sort of a social or political history. Did you take that as a challenge? Yeah, I mean, I ignored them because history is so baked into my personal journey and I don't actually think it's like my personal journey is that interesting without it. It is and it isn't. Like I don't have like a remarkable life. I just think I have a remarkable perspective on how my sex and love life has been affected by history. And I think I have a unique way of processing what's gone on in my life, which is by genuinely just reading everything I can about what the revolutionaries of your did in my same situation. I don't think that many people do that, but that's what I was genuinely doing. It's not a literary device, you know? It's actually how it went down. When I was going through my divorce and then the subsequent sexual exploration, I was actually also reading all of these books. Then of course, when I was writing the book, I read additional texts that then totally upended my idea of what I thought I wanted to write. I mean, which happens to every book writer. But I wanted to choose the characters in that vast history that really got to me and really taught me something while I was going on this journey. I love the idea that you were like going on dates and then the next morning like going to the library and researching what had happened. That does seem like a rare way of processing.

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"Living room She's got her hair up Hey man it's just to just pull their hair back It was very casual And she's looking you right in the eye And she's looking at me right in the eyes How close were you to her It seemed like you were right up in her face I was a couple of feet away Did she fight for you Yes she did You know when you do a portrait you also want to have elements of the background or of the surroundings and I mean think about it Aretha Franklin piano And then she would share with us some things that she was working on Worry about me are you leaving Leave me alone You saw her perform too Oh yes It was wonderful I remember one photograph that didn't make the cut and I had to decide if there needed to be blood on the floor but with my editor But her hands reaching out that I have this shot you've got her hand in the frame and then you've got the hands of the crowd coming up To touch your hand Touch her It was extremely joyful And I saw that over and over again I mean like with Patti LaBelle with Etta James with Shaka Khan with Natalie Cole you know so many of these women it was authentic right It wasn't something that was staged Okay and we're gonna have the shot of the no I got that because I was watching and just back then you know these were film cameras not digital cameras so you didn't use one camera and then you could convert the color to black and white You had on your left side you had black and white cameras like three of them On your right side you had your three colored hands You carried 6 cameras everywhere No I carried probably 7 cameras two on the neck three on each side with different lenses That's a lie Yes My chiropractor will tell you that You know I mean but again that was you don't want to miss something If you see it you've missed it Okay You better come back with the shot And if you don't there will be somebody who will replace you tomorrow Yeah I want to take you to the bell and these photos because you captured them not just in performance but like on the road Yeah I went on the road and that this amazing photo of the three members of the bell which gave us Patti LaBelle for folks who don't know but the three of them are in the back of a car And just passed out sleeping And Nona Hendricks And I mean it's just a lovely shot that really captures how grueling this stuff is Oh yeah How long were you with them on this trip I think I was with them a week It was you know total access You had you had the sound checks You had the rehearsals Then you had the performance and you had them getting ready and you know at the appropriate time they let me in back in the back there And Patti had her little glass of wine and she was what kind of wine She was white wine I don't know if it was Chardonnay or not but the girls were glamming.

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"Hey everyone, I'm Melanie's Nona, CNN Capitol Hill reporter in for David chalian. David's out until March, so prepared to hear from some new voices like mine on the podcast in the coming weeks. This is the CNN political briefing. Here's what you need to know in politics for Monday, January 31st. Supreme Court Justice Steven breyer's retirement announcement last week comes a vulnerable time for president Joe Biden and Democrats. All we know at this point are two things. One, Biden is going to pick a black woman with, quote, extraordinary qualifications, character, experience, and integrity. And two, the Senate is ready to move fast on this. Biden is expected to announce his historic choice by the end of February, The White House confirmed Friday that South Carolina U.S. district judge Jay Michelle childs is under consideration. Other women rumored to be in the mix include D.C. circuit judge Brown Jackson, California Supreme Court Justice leandra Kruger and civil rights attorney sherilyn iPhone. Any nominee needs to be confirmed by the Senate first by the judiciary committee, and then a vote by the full Senate. Biden will meet with judiciary committee leaders on the scotus nomination on Tuesday. A sign that this process is moving rapidly. Here's what White House press secretary Jen Psaki had to say. He will do his duty to select a justice not only with the Senate's consent, but with its advice as somebody who served on the Senate Judiciary Committee and was chair both as chair and ranking member. He's steeped in this process and looks forward to advice from members of both parties on the hill, as well as top legal experts and scholars across the country, working with the vice president and his team at The White House, and I think you will see those consultations start this week. This upcoming vacancy has many senators sharing their opinions and Biden's promise, and the timeline promised. Once a nominee is announced, including senator Joe Manchin, he told my colleague Morgan rimmer on the hill today that he is in favor of filling the court vacancy and that it's, quote, beyond time for a black woman to serve on the court. And when asked if he thought it made sense to have this confirmation process, go as fast as it did for justice Amy Coney Barrett in 2020, here was his response. But the pension of qualifications in the first and that's the main thing. If.

Power Your Platform
"nona" Discussed on Power Your Platform
"The, you know, the last supper painting on the wall. And I remember playing on that path to table. I remember going down and pretending I was making meals and you know playing on it and knowing it when we'd have all their meals in the basement. This was her second kitchen, right? That it's sat in there. We would use it to roll out dough and all of these things, right? So it was wonderful. It was a wonderful, you know, it was wonderful going back and talking about the memories of both the big parties we used to have down in the basement and looking at the cantina and the smell still being there, you know, and looking at the past table in the past aboard that went on top of it, the patina that's in the past of work. You know, when talking about that, looking at the old rolling pins like all of these things, it was it was really beautiful and you know, for us, that's like a direct connection to what we do. So anyway, we documented it. We picked it up. It's back at home. We're going to do with it yet, but it's pretty iconic. And yeah, it's quite short. So none of us were like, how can we get this quite short? My Noah was a short lady. So, you know, there's not a taller, but yeah, so that's what happens. We took three days and we went up to see Marie and recoup the pasta table, so it's officially with us now. Well, when you said that the table itself was iconic, but honestly, the story itself is iconic. And I wonder if your Nona even had any idea at the time when she was working at that table that here we are decades later. And her legacy lives on, as well as, you know, the recipes and those before her. I'm sure she received those recipes from others as well. So I mean, she would be so proud. I'm sure she is proud. And it's an amazing legacy that you two are continuing. And I love to hear you tell the story because it really, I mean, it shines through in your voice. And your energies. So you know you're in the right place doing the right thing when you can have that kind of energy talking about your brand. Let me just say. This is incredible. So let me ask you a question from a business point of view. And I don't know who wants to answer this one. But I mean, what's your secret sauce? No pun intended here. You've been in business for quite some time now. Again, as sisters, why do you think that your business is still going strong, stronger than ever, in fact, while some others sometimes fall by the wayside? What is, you know, maybe that secret sauce the two of you have. Well, I think Victoria had mentioned earlier, you know, the whole story and the timeline of pasta tablet. And one of the things that, you know, we really have always done. I mean, we've done many, many different things. But I think for us is that we are, you know, continuously evolving and pivoting and learning and adjusting accordingly. And that has been really important for us to really hone in on some key aspects of our business of what it is that we do, what is it that, you know, we don't do? Who is it that we are and so on? You know, and also, too, I mean, resilience. Owning a business and, you know, we often say this in, you know, to each other when we speak to, you know, other entrepreneurs is that people always say, you know, owning when we first started a lot of people would say, owning a business is, you know, difficult. And you're like, yeah, of course, yes, yes, I could understand that. But it really is not until you fully live the experience that you really do come to terms with who you are as a person, how strong you are, building that resilience, which is so important, especially as what, you know, we've learned over this past years that, you know, something could just come up like a pandemic. And you're going to have to weather apparently. And you're just going to have to weather that storm and just stay focused and, you know, work through it and pivot and adjust, right? Those are the things that I do find have been, you know, especially like I said over the past couple of years really important for our business. You know, also, one of the things that we also are quite fortunate and blessed to have is really the support both with our community, you know, a network of wonderful mentors and supports. As well as the support of our family, you know, our husbands our friends and that really to husband has been great. I think yeah, sorry. I think too, there's so many things to what how is it that we got here? But I think right now the system especially for female entrepreneurs is just so rich, right? And we've been really lucky to and we've actively sought out networks of people who can help and support us. And I think it's really important. It's really important to recognize your limitations. I think as business owners and because you're always learning, right? And no one can know everything. And so I really think that's important part in Paula and I are very much like rumors. You know, we believe in as we build our organization too, that it's a learning organization. And I think asking for help, there's no shame in that, you know? And I think now the opportunity to do that, especially if you receive a entrepreneur. I think there's great opportunities for you to network. So yeah, I mean, we've been lucky that we've surrounded ourselves or have been able to network with people who want to help us who believe in the brand. And have the skills that, you know, that we don't. The other thing I think it's important is is that we always try to see everything as an opportunity. So even in a pandemic, I think there's opportunities, right? And it really is a lot of it is mindset and it really is being on top of that mindset too, right? Because it's so difficult. It's so difficult. Being an entrepreneur and putting yourself out there, but I think that I think that's key to, right? Well that's all such excellent advice from the both of you. So let me ask, are there any other women entrepreneurs or entrepreneurs in general that you might look to whether it says role models or inspirations, whether or not you've met them, you mentioned mentorship, but I was just wondering if there are any other people that you look to who inspire you. Well, you know, I mean, from my perspective, Carrie, like, you're one of those women, right? And I've told you this before that, you know, I do incredible things. And I think you and I, too, like, we both work for organizations that support entrepreneurs and there's such inspiration. There's so many women out there doing incredible things, right? And who have resilience and have shown resilience, especially during this time. So for me, I mean, there's not anything in particular, right? Like, I mean, there's.

News 96.5 WDBO
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"Goes to Gainesville doesn't happen a lot. I think the last time it happened. Was 10 years ago when Alabama beat Florida So it will be a special atmosphere in Gainesville. 3 30 Kickoff on Saturday afternoon. All right, it's 5 42 now, Wdbo. Hey, Good Tuesday morning, Scott Inez with your Windows Morning news. Let's get your five day forecast now brought to you by protect air conditioning and plumbing services. Good morning, Tom Terry. Good morning, Scott. We are where we normally are this time of September and the very muggy low to mid seventies. We're gonna be back into the low nineties today about a 40% storm chance between two and around five p.m., and that's our best rain chance again on Wednesday. We're still looking at an uptick in rain chances. Oh, probably 60% rain coverage for Thursday and Friday, possibly even into the start of the weekend. As we're continuing to see a lot of moisture streaming in from the Gulf of Mexico. Some of that will come from what's left of Nicholas, which was right on the Upper Texas coast late last night and earlier this morning. As the sixth hurricane in the Atlantic season. They've had some heavy rain. We're going to see our rain chances here not directly from the system, but just coming overall increase in our rain chances By the end of this week, they extended five day forecast four times an hour. I'm Todd Terry. Right, Tom. Right now we are looking at 78 degrees there in Lake Nona. It is 77 now. At Orlando. Severe weather Station Safe Touch Security Triple team traffic called cross is back. What do you see An eye for right now, Paul kind of a mess right now through downtown Scott. I'm looking at the cameras trying to figure out what exactly is happening. But Cruz still.

News 96.5 WDBO
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"I'm Beth Peril. September is National Childhood Cancer Awareness Month. I'm going to be speaking once more to Ampara Williams of the B lack foundation that we last spoke when you were going to be having your five k, which was in July, right? Correct. How did it go? It was absolutely amazing. Um, look, I love the pocket every year because we just have new things happen all the time. And so we have new vendors. We have new participants, and then we have people. Who have been with us every single year. And so it just It just blesses my soul to just see it unfold the day of the year before you had to curtail being in person, so this must have felt different in that capacity to Yes. So last year, we had to do a virtual run, which was nice, but it's nothing like in person and then not just, um in person again. I told people I said it just felt like our very first run all over again. Because you know that 11 year we had to scale back and now we're back at it full for it. So real good, and we're already set for 2022. That is great. And as always, people can check out your Facebook page and and stay on top of that. But this month, September national childhood cancer Awareness Month is really important, isn't it? Because as much as we know, Children get cancer, there's so many things we don't know about the various types of cancer, the limited research and most importantly, what these Children and families need a support from all of us. So you're here to let us know that what would you Say, um are some of the key points that you would like out there. For people to be aware of. Number one is just simply being aware that childhood cancer is 3 65. We culminate and come together in September because its national childhood cancer Awareness Month But as we're campaigning and going out and having all these events, there's so many different people who still are not aware that childhood cancer has his own month as well as color. We kick off every year annual Um, events at Lake Eola and Well, we walk around the park with our goal lights. Um, in our outfits and our ribbons on people are still asking. What is that for? Why are you you know what are you doing? What is it in honor of, and so we just want to continue to push. We're not trying to turn September pink, but we want People to know that just like when you get into the mother of October, it's automatically. Everybody knows that pink is the color and it's for birth cancer. We want to raise the awareness. Higher the bar higher for our kids who are battling cancer because without Children, then how we reproduce and and continue to live in this world, so we need to continue to raise that awareness. Take a moment. Explain what B lack is about what your mission is. Arab mission is to raise awareness and support and financial services for families who are affected, Um, with their Children with cancer. From 0 to 19. We service the entire state of Florida. Um, um, Main number one goal is to continue to raise awareness but to let people know that it's not just one cancer. It's numerous cancers. It's not just kids going back and forth. The families have to take off work. There's financial burdens. There's Children that passed away their Children who are survivors, or, um, are In treatment, but they have long terms effects. There's so many different entities that go into when a child has been diagnosed with cancer. We want people to not just say Oh, okay, September Charlotte Cancer word as much and then they went October and the other 11 months come. You just forget about it or it vanishes. Our organization is definitely None like others because we campaigned. We raised awareness 3 65 to let people know that this is serious. It's not just in September. It's not just in July with our five K. We're trying to meet the mask. It's where we live, work and play. If you look at our announcements were not just in one central area when we're doing these events were all words spread out in different areas of Orlando. You do have a lot of events going on all the time, in terms of just things that people can do daily, just sort of visit with the subject and and how they can help a lot going on this month. Do you want to go through some of the things that your vendors are doing some of the things that our listeners can do? So we do have a few events are one for this Friday because there's a storm brewing has been chancel for the September that sand has been canceled. But, um, we are having here locally, um some more events and I can go down the list of the local events here on September the 17th. We will be at Lake Nona. Which raises awareness and honors the Children who have passed away of cancer. It's hosted by one of my best one of my partners, which is telling his legacy and then on the 18th. We will be at my church in the morning period times they having a family union slash Job fair and then in the afternoon will be at Alonzo Williams Park, which is in a Parker doing a number of flat football. Chambery. Downtown, the milk district Orlando area. If you're familiar with bum beer, East colonial area, there's a place called Bush and Bull. Some great artists got together and painted a mural on the side of the building. Um, which childhood cancer awareness on it to make people aware, and so they will be down there on September the 19th. There's a health fair that's going on crew. Health is the host of it. We will be partaking with that partner with them. That's on September the 25th. And then Orlando goes. Gold will be on September the 30th. We will close out the events for that month for this month. And, um, we just get together any event that were a vendor at we love for people to come and be a part. As questions get information. We always have information at our tables when we're just gathering together. I always have a green bag and we have loads of information to.

News 96.5 WDBO
"nona" Discussed on News 96.5 WDBO
"For listen to us happening tomorrow morning. Stay tuned at eight o'clock when some money on Orlando's morning news get keyword, heavy rain still moving through Orlando tonight. Another night of later showers will take a look at the interactive radar coming up lifting heavy spots are at first our top story. We're tracking the tropics as Mindy is formed in the Gulf of Mexico. It's currently a tropical storm tonight, National Weather Service meteorologist Jesse Smith. Says the storm is off the coast of the Panhandle system is expected to move on shore to the Florida Panhandle, probably west of Tallahassee, and then move across the Panhandle up into Georgia and then re emerge over the Atlantic Coast sort of Georgia South Carolina area, Smith says As it moves across North Florida overnight, we'll see increased rain chances here in central Florida. This is W de vio or Orlando turns first for breaking news, weather and traffic. Good evening. I'm Kevin. Reviews. We got a line of heavy storms moving through Orlando right now, as we take a look at the interactive radar starts in Deltona and then works its way south right through downtown Sanford Lake Mary really all along the 4 17 back through veto near UCF all the way down to Lake Nona in Orlando International Airport in Saint Cloud Seen a lot of heavy rainfall. It's got a heavier patch if you're right at Disney and Universal right now in Lake County, Claremont areas, seeing a lot of heavy rainfall, live local and loudest next, But as we continue our team coverage, new report says that Covid 19 case This is an Orange County are decreasing. The county Health Department says the new data shows as of September 5th. The 14 Day rolling average positivity.

Krypton Report: The Supergirl Podcast
"nona" Discussed on Krypton Report: The Supergirl Podcast
"Something not starting to written to be a backup up the other one. Was that already black story. Got a new pair. Glad i didn't read that at the time then Yeah but all right another do you have. Do you have a i made. It's it's in this story. Sweet to see chronicle which is equal yet Andrea rural haas. Oh yeah ross. Will she returns the supergirl who knows because the that she was in the first episode of the whole cast Yes be in tight. Yeah yeah for a ear. They were just infants on makeup off. There you go. Yeah the the phantom primes actually like. Hey we'll take another quick back if you're like me and you love listening to different podcast about soup. I have a few that. I want to check out. Some of my favorites are the last of krypton. Conner rare always reviewing different books. And it's really nice and refreshing to kind of dig back into orders. The aspiring tonen tasman in. Her team are always finding interesting. People to interview digging for kryptonite is one of my favorite ones l. Has anthony digs into different errors of the. There's always the always hold onto smallville which i guessed guested on before it step back into that nostalgia around so check out all these many many more to check out our twitter because we're constantly finding podcasts. That inspire and we're back now. Here's what's sad is actually really thoroughly. And they cancelled it. Breaks my heart mainly why not for some of these books like how about you just announce it in just plan for lake. Nona sixers lakers Young is going to write the first six issues of batman. And as you get the last issue before your light a batman and superman has been extended for another six issue or something where you feel like you're going to get the full instead of like decide handsome. did you get an alternate cover. I got the regular cover. 'cause it's awesome brennan batman on horseback. Yeah see i feel like this book could be the wawrinka. The like i said before molar. Here we go. i'm ready. I pay are superman. Batman current or his and ultra I like his just film talk like they're ruining mash. He says are attacks. And i mean i i think it's fine more golden Better gold remind meal but they're not little sixty six batmans. I really like these. Yeah while all this history that they have yet to experience that at something from something from modern times injected some some big show knew that they would have to feel that they would have to figure out what it i mean. It's like that. I just want to take and sky captain tomorrow and stuff like that. I want to quickness being spiderman spiderman is out that's dr To stop who pardon me garter pleased says i reckon destroy. You dare to master as he does. The archive starts to get. Give send me. He's going batman. Fly lip robin. I thought this was kinda cool. But i was like chasing the phantom zone for stole like an express. Look what i really like it. We see really leaving. Says we're seeing the great scott who the bernheim and then. This would be an awesome. Almost batman themselves times different. Yeah that'd be pretty sweet. That'd be sort was my stuff too much. good advice. we yeah we basically have. It's it's basically they're on top of it. And i love this. Were they were. These were keiron ran. Alana's adam strange's girlfriend or certain other. But i love it there on top of the tree. I got a tip by. Solomon the red tower with velociraptor clause. Our kids not superman's like sir. Please not one more step until i get answers and you know what they call me l. g. up shoots. The bullet bounces kind of rich craft. Is this nice part robin friends. always so Yes superman always quick. Nate rent must he's got a punch Aides exactly what does that is an interesting ensemble. Prepare for any name pretty much and then we archivists and elliott. Whoa you sure about that. No and then when we turn the page we find out. They stopped the superman. How could you re not too long stunt sard as tornado theoretically the same effect for shot and this is where we see all his armor and he says thank you. My heroes story batman's artur okay. Is it artur arts. Or is it true to say our tour filming philmont tour suzanne. I just him on tour. Yeah say it's supposed to be instead of what i was saying because that's what it looked like seeing the way it's in this tech clear. So he said he looks. That is not my true in old god of tale a son of pierre. Apollo nyah the other governor god so forgotten motors or temple Talks about for generate a wonder the face a tool. Macron's the crowd. How many said went by the crowd of a new goddess satellites. I followed it into god's A sham said in that desire. That's some heavy stuff but really yeah. It's a magical asian the deity of stories you know and and amash invasion got worked. Pretty cool has harmless prequel before he earned sprays. Yes and it's interesting. He's talking was outside. But now that i'm how her then the armor is gonna says you've stories of defied Precious list the last page. Not leaning yeah leading led by There's just like all right cool but yeah. I think that this could be something that taking comics. Bit more more maps up our common thoughts quiz queries question quintessence on everything that we read the arm rating Four berle man wrapping up liking gene. Lewin yang's Writing i liked superman smashes land. We're giving to that. But yes it is williamson's doing a good job with infant frontier. Looking over to continue forward. Della kennedy johnson. He's gonna stay on action for the foreseeable future. And i'm like england east doing we'll be talking about Number one next month. Yes we all right. listen. I don rickles. The krypton reports part of the southeast network podcast. You haven't Checkout south keeler pocket. 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TED Talks Daily
Climate change is our reality. Here's how we're taking action
"Hello everyone. I'm al gore founder and chairman of the climate reality project. This extraordinary moment of great challenge and great loss is obviously also a moment of great awakening and a great opportunity. The global pandemic structural and institutional racism with it's horrific violence the worsening impacts of the climate crisis all of these have accelerated the emergence of a new and widespread collective understanding of our connection to the natural world the consequences of ignoring science and our sacred obligation to build a just society for all the climate reality project. Trains thousands of climate leaders around the world and all one hundred ninety. Five nations advocate for a future humanity deserves. You're about to hear from four very different people who've gone through this week long training and hear how they've been inspired to act. I want to let them speak for themselves. Beginning with he minna. Loria jimena is working in central america to influence public policy and develop young later. She has given presentations on climate of thousands of people and has now created her own gio on her. Costa rica in out two thousand sixteen. Cheney vicks training nine change. I found ngo cold Bells my job has been focused on for me. Orthodox they both sation climate change supporting i see anti-taliban young eaters. Environmental hours somehow having more why and fifty presentations on climate crisis visuals raging personally more than three thousand one hundred people in. I am also proud of being part of eco savvy. Casulaties defy mistake nasseri. Nanna furman born in. Indonesia is a climate advocate extraordinaire and calls herself. A daughter of the rainforest is the muslim coordinator for green faith and co founder of the global muslim climate network. My name is nona man and i am a climate reality leaders in my life journey. I realized that behavior and consumption habits have contributed in environmental degradation and have resulted in global warming. However i believe that people grow spiritually through a strong relationship with the earth being born in the rainforest region of sumatra. I believe in our of our forests as the nejra solution to our climate crisis by giving indigenous peoples and traditional communities more rights to protect and manage the forest where they left now more than ever. It is time for us to look climate justice at the and center of our struggle. It's in the kaduna region of northern nigeria. They call gloria song. Boulos the queen of the climate crisis. Gloria has also founded a cocoon abased. Ngo that is focused on education empowerment and climate as the chemicals plans into training apply for eighty two thousand seventeen house me to be into bill capacity afterwards and they spend on my various action really very of some of my one of chief manages to children of his junior to get up to talk about climate change disclosures of climate change. Some walks have gone around eating me. See the planet. I mean planets scenes.

The AO Show
Australian Open 2021: Novak Djokovic and Daniil Medvedev Meet for the Title
"The crusade for the men's singles crown comes to an end tomorrow. And when the undisputed king of rod laver arena novak djokovic takes on russian number-one neil medvedev the world number one djokovic. Gunning for a history-making ninth championship in melbourne. While the russian authors seeking his twenty first consecutive win and first major title to preview the match. I'm joined by not edwards and commentator. Nick mcardle nick at the start of in fact two weeks before this we had you on the show podcast and you picked this matchup is that what led you to make that cole way back. Then let's say lucked out. Let's be honest that wasn't necessarily total. Total fluke made many wrong picks before but coming in you know we talk about the twenty one matches in a row for osaka. It's twenty in a row for daniil. Medvedev the non includes a win over novak djokovic close twenty twenty i think medvedev has really come into his own as someone expects himself not only to go deep. Atp events which we've seen the last couple of years but now to really do at at the grand slam so the drop laid out for him. I think he's played to each match to the level now. Can he bring an eight time. Grand slam australian open champ. Seventeen time major winner novak djokovic. Can he meet that level in a final thoughts really eighty s. What i love most is after medvedev bates itsy pass in that semi final is that he said stride away. All the pressure is on novak. He just load him up because he's plight fonsi before and never lost and it sorta. But i love how he just playfully. Put that out there and look. I think he'll come at. He'll show you'll be a little bit nervous. But i think he's just going to swing freely and that backhands i mean. Gosh they both have terrific backhands. But it's going to be like jock itch playing a twenty five year old vision of himself. It's going to be such an interesting match. I really count. Wait for the all similar. It can not just in court croff necessarily but as personalities both very eloquent and sort of personable somewhat chiming in front of the camera but they do have this white line fever as we know totally. I love those points that you've made and i think medvedeva's become more comfortable without. We sought the us open a couple years ago in the crowd. Really got against him and he used that as fuel which i think djokovic has have that in the past that in the past for sure for sure for jovic against rafa roger. He's felt that too. I really think that it is an opportunity for medvedev lake. Nona saying just swing for the fences and the scary thing is when he swings for the fences. Oftentimes the ball goes in. And i really think he's going to use that experience of beating novak in london last year at the atp finals. He'll really be geared up by that. Yeah i think so too. And i'm really looking forward to. I think the one area that novak can probably try to exploit daniels is that netplay. He's not very good. Let's let's be honest when it comes to netplay so if he can drawer him in a little bit and maybe draw that out. I think that puts pressure on daniel. Bit amid gets off to a flying start is going to be hard to stop.

WIBC 93.1FM
"nona" Discussed on WIBC 93.1FM
"Been talking about the president's responsibility, but it didn't start there. Right. This loss of confidence. These these large portions of our population which feel Disenfranchised that lacked confidence in our common identity is Americans who lack confidence in our democratic principles and institutions and processes. How did that happen? Jake. I read about this a lot in battle grounds. We need to look at education and civics education as sense of our history and and who we are. We have to look at your profession. Jake the media, you know, why is it That that people who lead a one direction politically watch one cable news station, some who lean in another direction. Watch yours or another one. What? Why do people go to the pseudo media? I don't know what he meant by pseudo media. But why people go one direction or another right that Z confirmation bias. As we described it, sometimes referred to as the self affirming selective. I don't say that. It's smart on Lee to go to one place. I think it's smart to go to multiple places. But certainly people will go to the place that they feel fits well on Lee what they believe and not test what they believe. And since we know this is true of of CNN and MSNBC, Fox News We know that people do tend to gravitate Nona's a conversation of towards real news, but rather towards news that presents itself in a way that they find comforting. There's a good and the bad and all of that McMaster continues and Jake interrupts and believe these kind of conspiracy theories. What is the role that social media place? Further.

John Tabacco's Liquid Lunch
McDonald's Is Bringing Back the McRib This December
"Time of year again. Nona. Thanksgiving, Not Christmas, not New Year's Eve. The McRib is coming back. USA Radio News Dan Iraqi serves the details. This time you won't need a website or have to find the normally rare menu item. McDonald's is bringing back its popular McRib sandwich nationwide on December 2nd. It's the first time the sandwiches had a large rollout since 2012 despite making nearly appearances since then. The group had always been a limited time release. Then on, Lee sent a certain markets. The concoction of pork, pickles, onions and barbecue sauce has been a popular pick from McDonald's Diner since it first appeared on many is in 1982. From the Ohio Valley USA Radio News Bureau. I'm Rocky for

Lew Later
Apple Confirms New App Store Policies on Updates
"Nona you gotTa do what we tell you to do, and in fact, that's what the next story is about Apple's new APP store guidelines. Were recently announced they made some changes they claimed that hey. Oh, we heard you. We know what we hear about this Google Stadia Slash X. Cloud. We know you want to do game streaming facebook wants to do game streaming like Wool Wolf. We'll do something for you and then I read the I read the details I'm like you didn't you didn't do anything whether they do they do anything. They said, okay listen they said it's cool. You can be on the platform. But every game that's available in your streaming APP must also be downloadable directly from the APP store and every game update must be submitted to apple individually before a company can stream it to its users

The Tennis.com Podcast
Dr. Larry Lauer on improving your mental skills
"Hello. Everyone welcome to the tennis. Dot Com. Podcast we are in Lake Nona at the US J. National Campus. I'm your host Nina. Panic joined by my co host. Irena Falconi. Hey guys. How's it going this episode? Special guest is Dr. Larry Lower Larry Welcome. Thanks for having me. I'm looking forward to it. Can you give us a brief little bio about who you are and what you do here? Well here I'm the mental skill specialist for player development. I work with are pros and our juniors Getting Ready for competition preparing mentally. I work with the coaches as well to get players ready. So my job is while the coaches work on the physical side is to work on the players mental side and make sure that they're prepared for competition as well as helping them deal with things that happened in their life. So it's not just about The player on the court but the player off the court as well the holistic approach. And it's my job to make sure that the players have what they need to compete in a happy way in a healthy way and a high functioning way. Have you always wanted to do this from the very beginning was this? You're calling well not since I was a baby but Certainly when I not not really no being not being facetious anymore being serious when I was younger I wanted to be a coach and civically a baseball coach. I wanted to play professional baseball. And that didn't work out We don't need to get into that and this podcast and since tennis sports play so I had decided I was going to be a coach and maybe actually go into commentating. On Television Live sports events. I was interested in and so went to Clarion University. My Hometown University and really wasn't that interested in the courses and communication and and the degree. So I I ran into the psychology doctor Dr Easily Krause who knew that I played sports and coaching as well and she said hey you know there's actually something called sports psychology. I was around nineteen years old. I'm like what does that was. Clueless had no idea. This is dating myself but this was like nineteen ninety-two right. What is that and she said? Well come check it out. I'm going to have a special course on sports psychology and so I took the course and love. It fell in love with it and at that point. I knew that's what I wanted to do. Because an answer questions I had about my own performances in terms of at times playing great and other times. Not Performing You know going in and going four for four and having a home run and three RB is in the next game striking out four times. And why does that happen and why are sometimes feel on and other times just way off? Why sometimes in the feudal my locked in and other times? I'M MAKING MISTAKES. Couldn't answer it for myself necessarily and. I wanted to know to help myself but also to help the players that I was coaching in Baseball Thomas. Coaching sixteen seventeen eighteen year old Baseball in Pennsylvania says I dug deeper into psychology and and Indus. Four psychology started answering the questions that I had so that that was really the start and then I was fortunate to be able to go to. Unc Greensboro with Dr Dangled Who's one of the best sports psychologist in the world and having worked with him? I really got a deep understanding of what it means to perform under pressure and in really the literature sports psychology and Research and application. And really that kind of set me up. That's that's a quick version of it for what I'm doing today. I know you said baseball is not the same as tennis. But you can relate to players who have struggled in their sport given your background playing sport but you can also maybe I know you work with professionals who maybe are successful. But you probably people that. Don't make it right absolutely so you can relate to. I WANNA get dark. Unless you can relate you can really yeah. You can relate to someone who is struggling with finding their identity after thinking they were. GonNa make it as a pro and not getting there right. So how did you? How did you work through that if you can talk about that and you know? Is there a formula for figuring yourself out after your dreams and your hopes kind of change that is deep this early? So that's a great question you know getting into my psyche this turning turning the tides on me. We're GONNA talk about Irena. We will okay good so much better about that well honestly schering dot. Me That was that was a process Having gone to college and and and walked onto play baseball and it didn't work out and I didn't really understand recruiting process and probably could played somewhere but ended up not playing coming from a small rural area and losing that dream. That point was really difficult. And so I'm I'm age. Nineteen you know and and not yet mature as I am now. I know it's hard to believe. But and and it took a while it was kind of a tailspin for a while I was. I wouldn't say I was depressed but I was pretty down about it and upset that this dream that I had didn't work out. And it took me some time to sort of regroup and certainly being in college and and having those experiences helped a lot where I was exposed to different things and ended up really being mentored in a in a wonderful way by Dr Crowson. In the field of psychology. And helping me take something that You know was a big disappointment in not being able to further my baseball career and actually turn it into something. We're now my mission is to help. Other people have what they need to be successful. Because I felt like maybe I missed out on some things for sure. I miss out on some things. I didn't understand the psychology. I didn't understand the process of figuring out how to get seen and recruited and go to college and play baseball. I didn't I don't understand any of that. I didn't have that opportunity so I wanna make sure that the players that I have a chance to come in contact with have what they need to reach their goals whether or not they do. It ends up being on them. But I don't WanNa be the reason that they don't get there and that's really important so that that changed my whole outlook on life but it took some soul searching and sometimes of just you know like what am I gonNa do you know. And there's no like easy way is not like okay. Do these three steps and it works out you need to. You need to go there. You need to think about what it is you want and realize that you know as my friend David Roth for. Who's ex-navy seal said that you have more than one mission in life the mission changes and for me that Dreamer. That mission changed at age. Nineteen where base? No baseball was no longer an option as as a player and I had to figure out what I was going to do and I found a new mission that was to help other athletes and help coaches. And that's something I truly love and enjoy and that's probably where a lot of the passion comes from because you know I hate to see people miss out on an opportunity at least have the chance to be successful. Speaking of helping people a lot of coaches talk about being able to see something special and a player that does eventually make it. Do you find that. It's easy to to to see that with With players that you work with are you able to see whether their mental skills are above and beyond someone that potentially does not make it? I think I can see the outliers. Pretty well. The people who just stand out but probably most people can one of the one of the things I think we fall. Prey to his as coaches is believing that we know. Who'S GONNA make it? And who's not and if you go back through history of looking at drafting or selection processes were not very good at determining and identifying. Who's GonNa make an WHO's not? It's really a numbers game to be honest. You you make enough choices. You'RE GONNA hit on somebody right so and not to others a lot of people out there that do this work and there's a lot of good people out there but it's really challenging to no no of someone can can do this at the highest level but what I will say is the thing that you look for. I is to someone have the passion to do tennis to do. The whatever given initiative sport activity it is and that is something that you you can see in person as you spend time with them I think it's a fallacy to think that you can go watch a player once or twice a tournament and thank. You have a figure it out you know. Thirteen fourteen year old player. Once you get to know someone I think you can start to understand better than this person may be has the building blocks of something pretty special but it needs to be now nurtured and developed and that in my mind you know there's not many players is not many. Serena's there's not many rodgers out there so but there's a lot of great players who developed through the pathway right and we wouldn't have known at thirteen but we know now

The Bill Simmons Podcast
Oscar Picks of Wesley Morris from The New York Times
"Wesley Morris is here. Sometimes we fly him out. And we just put you on a whole bunch of podcasts. And we just wind you up and you go yeah Ping Pong Pinball pinball Wesley Yeah Oscars this this weekend yes I can never get through Oscars week without talking to you for at least ten minutes on what's going on. I'm not sure what happened to the Oscars because we have all these prohibitive favorites. There's no drama at all. Everyone thinks nineteen seventeen gonNA win. Isn't that wild. Everyone thinks Phoenix is GonNa win for the joker. Okay yeah that Renee Zellweger is GonNa win for Judy. which I five saying? No no no it made money Brad Pitt for once upon a time And then Laura dern for marriage story yes and those are Kinda done y- everyone the the. They're like huge huge favorites. It doesn't even make sense to bet on them. They're such huge favorites. You'd be like betting on. I don't know the the though Oklahoma City Thunder to beat some division. Three Kinda odd you the only one. That's kind of even best director. Sam Mendes as twenty five favorite. That's what is happening. Is it just. The Internet has made this that the consensus the census of thought now nobody goes against the grain and they just kind of follow the pack. What's happening here? I don't know I think I really feel like increasingly. There are just enough people. I don't know how voters individually or feeling about not pressure to pick a certain person person but the like doing the work to really choose the thing you love the most because every year you read those blind items that variety are Hollywood reporter daily beast. I do yeah And you read these Oscar voters say things and they all have. They all seem to have individual taste rate to hear these. I voters justify why they're voting. They're voting for you. You would think anything could win but that never happens will rarely happens right so I also also believe that in this particular year. I think there's a lot of politics going on like like movie. Industry politics rang. Explain plan so I don't think that people. I think there's a number of things happening. I think people don't like parasite that much. I think they see it. I think that was that was okay. I don't know how they could think that it actually got. It's like Robert Covington right now the NBA trade deadline. It's gotten hyped up too much now. People going wait a secondly. I think it's great it's awesome you're going to see it and you you end up going and you're like yeah it's good but you're not like Oh my God you're right I'm blown away. Yeah Yeah I can't speak but some people are leaving matt a Lake Nona. Nope they're leaving. They're probably just watching it at home but like they're they're watching this movie and they're just Kinda like well okay. I and I'm rich people poor people and I think that I mean I really think that they think it's that simple and I also think good. I really liked it. I didn't think it was like the best picture picture the year I why do but you do really. I was the case in a minute. I think it's just okay. The very simple thing is it takes a story. It takes an idea that I can't believe that in a hundred and you know twenty years of movies. Nobody's ever done before nobody's ever fought to turn the class. Divide into into a game in this particular way. Yeah and by the time they get to the sect by the time the father other by the time the father gets the job. So the third the third introduction of the the glomming onto this family. I'm just I was just laughing. I was is laughing with happiness at the brilliant to this idea. He's such a great of these nine movies and most like almost all of them are perfectly made. I would say that's the one that surprised me the most in terms of how tight and smart and and surprising it was the one thing I don't like goodbye it is the ending but in talking to people about who also sort of ending is anticlimactic but it also needs to be there none. Nobody could come up with a better trending. So this is the endings. Movie needs to have this elegiac sort of tragic fantasy ending. I liked once upon a time. The most I mean and as you know I also love them. We did a podcast about that on this podcast. Back in August we wait. Let's go back though we dated Rewatch ables. That's coming this week about about it already. Yeah well we do one Oscar movie every year O- of the nine area to get out on time. That seems fair. Yeah UH-HUH I think forward and for our versus Ferrari of those nine movies. That in little women I think are the most those are going to prove to be the most re watchable bowl of those. I'm so glad you said that. I feel like those have become the underrated. I'm not sure what happened. In each case moves. I thought little women was excellent. Women Soak so good the crazy thing about this year. Is there a two stores. I just wrote a story about this for the paper and the the the maddening thing about these nine movies please. And I'll get back to the into back to what people are saying about who they are. Why nine hundred seventeen is going to win for political reasons Movie movie industry political reasons. But I just read a piece about like how. This is the first year since they expanded the field ten. Move to up to ten movies that I have liked every single one of these movies more or less except for one and I don't like joker either. Yeah I don't like never really really align this year on what we didn't like I like that I didn't. I don't like joker I didn't have fun. I thought his performance was awesome. But I've seen a lot of movies that whereas the performance was awesome. But I'd necessarily loved the movie right I don't even I don't even Joaquin. Phoenix is one of my four favourite male actors. And this does not I feel like this is the first time he is looking for a character as like we are watching him do work mark. The I think it's done before you start shooting in this movie Part of it is. He is playing a person who's changing but he's always playing people who were undergoing some sort of ecological little change wasn't he's so much more interesting in the master. Oh everything he was doing. If you're going to start there then I'm like why did you give just give Antonio Banderas the Oscar. I mean that's where you're GONNA start but I'm saying like I don't know why I took this movie for people to like. Here's his Oscar. Movie when he was so good the pastor I mean the thing that was more interesting performance interesting thing that we should talk about. Is that like he is one of those people were. He's just a person who is owed right like it's he's been he's a set of a woman quote suffered so long just give him just give it to him not that he's begging for it because because when he took this part I was like oh well you know he clearly. He clearly understands with businesses going and I would never accuse him ever of like being being interested in getting any prizes for the work. He's doing but I also feel like there is a sense that he's been nominated three other times. I think maybe maybe four do you remember how lost to the master who who when they're You're talking keep your point going on anyway. I feel like if I sat here and thought about it. I'd come my with but I'm not going to remember those thirteen Two thousand thirteen. So we have. Is that Matthew mcconaughey. Now it's not McConnell. Now he lost a Daniel Day. Lewis Link Oh well that's that's just bad luck for Joaquin Phoenix. I remember having issue with that at the time you should have. I mean just just as a matter of history you should rostker you blaspheme. He's fine. He's fine I thought Athletes Ship

Orlando's Evening News
Earth Fare closing all its grocery stores in 10 states
"Today right after we find a lucky's is closing all but one shop here in Florida another grocery chain is calling it quits well is supermarket earth fare is closing all locations including all fourteen in Florida central Florida has one in Orlando lake Nona Vieira and Ocala a local general manager says the stores got a call this morning saying all our closing but no exact date was given earth fare was founded back in nineteen seventy five it has fifty stores in the US and if you missed it all the is taking over the lucky's location a colonial landing well Publix's taken one on

Lori and Julia
Ariana Grande tells Camila Cabello just how painful her pony tail is
"Nona. So Camila Cabello was that something at the MTV EMA's. And she tweeted he said, I just did a high ponytail for the first time. It is literally pulling on my brain. It's so painful, how do you do it areana day? That's funny Ariana GRANDE Dame replied, well, you actually have here. So that prob probably makes it a little more painful. Nah, I'm in constant pain. Always. And I just don't care at all. Yeah. She said you have here. First of all now, does that mean that her point he's clip on? It's probably all extensions or something, you know. Oh