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Governor Newsom Lifts Most COVID-19 Restrictions
"Gavin Newsom, lifting most of his state's covid restrictions, the order rolls back rules on masks and distancing, Although unvaccinated people are still being asked to wear face coverings in public, no word on how the state plans to enforce that Newsome was the first governor to issue a stay at home order at the beginning of the pandemic. The Democrats. Handling of the virus has sparked fierce criticism from Republicans who are hoping to beat him in a likely recall election this fall. Foxes John Scott. Meanwhile, new data from Johns Hopkins University shows new covid 19 cases are declining
California Governor Seems Unlikely to Lift Worker Mask Mandate
"Lottery drawing today for winners of the Covid 19 vaccination prizes, which we'll get to in a moment, Newsome was asked by reporters. About the Cal OSHA, Uh, bizarre regulatory announcement last night that we have to have masks, Uh, even for vaccinated people in the workplace. Uh, this is what Newsom had to say. Audio one. What do you say to workers who are so confused? Because the administration has been promoting June 15th. Is this big, you know, reopening date and restriction lists. Uh, state of California or not entirely, but for the most part, and now they're being told that they have to wear these masks, potentially unvaccinated if their ambassadors so we're working through us. I mean, look, this is a This is the sausage making process. And what occurred was occurred last night, and we're we're going through. We've already had a series of conversations earlier this morning about people's feelings about what Happened last night. And as you know, it was quite a quite an intense conversation. Um, I think it's healthy. That the governor is not dictating and mandating the terms of those discussions in advance. Um we've certainly influenced broader conversations and we hope to influence The conversations going forward, right? Stop right there.
California Giving $116 Million to People Who Get COVID Shots
"Group of Governor Newsome's using cash to entice people in California to get a covert 19 vaccine, the state estimates 12 million Californians have not yet been poked. Newsome says. Those who get a shot now will be eligible for more than $116 million in prize money than 10. People will get more than a million dollars June 15th. When the state lifts most
California Governor Proposes Tax Rebate as Virus Relief
"California governor Gavin Newsom is proposing a tax rebate as virus relief the governor says the state has a lot of money left over a seventy five point seven billion dollar budget surplus poor and middle class people in California could get checks up to eleven hundred dollars that tax rebate will impact just shy of eighty percent of all tax filers will get a direct stimulus check the big surpluses largely due to taxes paid by rich Californians who generally did well during the pandemic Newsome says California is not just coming back California's gonna come roaring back Newsome faces a likely recall next year one Republican called the governor's plan a publicity stunt another says these checks won't solve California's problems I'm a Donahue
Caitlyn Jenner Files Paperwork to Run for California Governor
"With your top local stories. Caitlyn Jenner is running for governor of California. The Republican made it official today by filing paperwork as Democratic governor Gavin Newsom faces a potential recall election. Jenner went after Democrats for the way they've governed the state. She described Newsome's time in charge as disastrous and criticized him for Corona virus related lockdowns. Transgender woman noted She's been calling California home for
Space Force acquisitions division will be based in Los Angeles area
"Force finds a new home already, Los Angeles Air Force Base has been home to research and development of military space systems, and it's only a few miles away from the headquarters of Space X Now Governor Gavin Newsom, announcing the military will create the space systems command of the base, which will serve as a field command site for the U. S Space Force. Newsome, saying the command will have nationwide authority of launches and procurement within the governor says will come many jobs.
"newsome" Discussed on KFI AM 640
"Newsome is holding a briefing where he's updating states reopening plans after we had 20 million vaccines administered wounds 65/50 percent of folks now getting their first dose is substantially. He's back to his, uh Higher pace of administer doses than the rest of the states. I want to compliment you, mayor on your extraordinary job complement the partnerships that you have established, including the partnership here with UCSF to administer. He's getting those odds going, and then he gets into a rut. See if you can pick it up here where he gets into his radical, uh, to administer. Over 5000 shots each and every day. The only constraint, uh, is manufactured support. You hear that? You know, you know back it up here, right right here. This again on Lee Constraint. I get into it. You got into a funk, right? Oh, I heard it that time. Yeah, Alright. Chef. Jen is with us. She's always got something cool going on. She's doing something. This time where you can participate as something to do with sushi. You get all supplies, and then you can not, You know, sushi it out with her chef. Jen, how are you? I'm great. How are you? Great. I'm with Mark Thompson. You're met Mark Thompson. Do you think I have? My last may see Jan. How are you, Chef Jen? He's a big foodie, but Not a meat guy. I don't need anything that had a mother. Yeah, I'm kind of. That's my thing. Sorry. That's great. Never had a mother like subjective to like. Is it on Lee include cause I know there's some people out there like Oh, I don't eat meat. But then they're like I eat eggs and fish and like me, this is this guy's the real deal, and I'm pretty pretty strict about it for myself, That's all. But what's that? Mark? You always said The one thing you Mrs Cheese? She cheese? I'll tell you the now them off cheese for a long time now, But I did truly missed it because I had a house account at these big cheese. Have I used to allow cheese? But I will say if you you mentioned sushi, I miss you show that you can get vegan sushi. I get vegan sushi all the time, but that that's sushi. I was hooked on it. So I I get that. Yeah, I get that it can be difficult to push away from Well, shockingly. I actually had vegan sushi for dinner tonight. So how did you really want? I love that chef. Jen, How was it? Come on. Going. Yeah, they weren't e don't need to see anyway, so I'm glad he's with tomato that were like cutting salade and they marinated it so kind of tasted like tuna or fish. And then they can pour a battered, you know, mushrooms and yeah, Yeah, Delicious. You know, that's really cool. The worst thing you can hear when you're eating vegan. Fake sushi is, um I don't know it tastes a little fishy. Hey, there's no fishing it, bub. Not at all. All right, so, Chef, you're doing something cool with with sushi. Is that right? Yeah. So I am partnering up with a wholesale seafood distributor, and they have an amazing sushi kit that includes all the seafood. And all the equipment you need, and we're going to do a virtual sushi making class where anyone in the U. S could have all of the fish and all of the ingredients spent to their home. And then we live stream the entire class to them to cook along all that is great. When does that when you have to have your order and bind. So the fish is sent out within 24 hours notice, Though, the classes on April 23rd any time between the 21st of April they can put in their order classes at five o'clock Pacific standard Time on Friday evening, so it would make a really great date night or just a fun thing to do with the family. That's awesome. And what kind of sushi you're gonna be making. So we're going to include to know we're gonna do like a spicy tuna roll. We're going to have stamen. So we're gonna do a stamen roll with cucumber and avocado. And then they're putting in used to be Co which is a little crunchy bits that taste like lemon. Okay. All right, so when they get their supplies, they turn on. Is that YouTube or or how they see it. Facebook? So we're actually gonna do as do most of the guys log into zoom and we're going to live stream the cooking class with just the students were gonna limit the classes to 20 people. People need to sign up right away before the tickets. This is here on everyone in class will get to participate as like an active participant just like any old fashioned cooking class. But instead of being in a classroom, you get to be in your home kitchen. You get to ask questions you can talk along. We can all kind of share together. And you get to, you know, Eat it all yourself. That's a great idea. I think more people should be doing this. All right. How do people sign up? So I have links to the class on my instagram and my Facebook, which is all under chef Jen cooks or you can go to Catalina Offshore product there the wholesale distributor and you could buy the tickets direct from them. Okay, so it's easier to go to your site, though Chef Chan with two ends cooks. Chef Dan Cook's on Facebook or Instagram or chef. John cooks dot com. That's me and two ends. Yes. Okay. Excellent. Well, that that'll be fun. I mean, that's gonna be a cool night for people. You know, People are really sort of intimidated. You know, they don't. Most people have never made sushi before and they don't know how to do it. But maybe after this they catch you know the bug and they make sushi at home, save themselves a ton of money. What I love about. It is the fact that I get to make sushi kind of approachable. I'm not some, like, Let's just be honest. I'm not a stupid Nazi and that sushi not be like a minute. I'm going to encourage you to use things like Doritos on the outside of your sushi rolls because it's delicious. You know, I want people to have fun and, you know, enjoy it, and there is no You know, there's not going down on your permanent record. No one's going to give you a final exam. And if it doesn't look pretty. Who cares? You still get to eat it. Hey, do you find it insulting or unusual? And I noticed this over the years whenever I've gone to have sushi with friends, I'm not a big sushi fan. So I just go with friends and I get the you know, Chicken teriyaki. But I've noticed that there aren't a lot of female sushi chefs. There is an old adage that women were not supposed be sushi shows that their hands were too warm. That day was so there is an old Japanese kind of wives tale, and I don't know you know, they ever really stuck around for that long. But yes, there was a belief for awhile that women should not be sushi chef. But let's just be honest. There's a lacking number of women in just about every field. Yes, that's right. Um All right. Chef.
Rob Bonta tapped by Gavin Newsom to be California's first Filipino attorney general
"Governor, Gavin Newsom today nominated a new attorney general replace Javi Oppa Sarah, who is now Secretary of Health and Human services. KQED, Scott Shaffer reports The pick makes history. Newsome chose Rob Bonta to be the next attorney general. Once confirmed by the state Legislature. Bonta will be the first Filipino American to hold the position. He represents Oakland in the State Assembly and has a reputation as a criminal justice reform. ER asked about violence directed at Asian Americans, Bonta rejected calls for excessive charges. We have enough enhancements. Enough criminalization enough mass incarceration. Enough over sentencing more than we need. Bada said He wants to emphasize prevention, something that could put him at odds with tough on crime groups
"That quite intense the potential for several long track intense tornadoes exists. So it's really critical that people prepare now before the storm's approach because they'll be fast moving. The threat will extend well after dark when it's hard to see the dangers, and so it's just really important that everybody's ready. Currently, there's a tornado warning in northeast Mississippi. Another storm system is hitting the Panhandle of Texas under Blizzard warning. Campaign to recall California Governor Gavin Newsom faces a deadline today, people must turn in the required number of petition signatures to force an election. Member station KQED Guy Maharani prepared this report. Supporters of the recall say they've collected the nearly 1.5 million voter signatures needed to force an election later this year. And on Tuesday, Newsome conceded his facing a serious challenge. Look, we're anticipating that they've got the signatures. The recall campaign has
Newsom Recall Faces Bureaucratic Hurdles
"Fighting back against an effort to have him recalled from office. His opponents claim to have enough signatures on a petition to get that recall effort on a ballot seems keen brought its first aggressive response to the recall effort against him, including text messages, emails and a new ad who's behind the partisan recall of Governor Gavin Newsom. It's Newsome versus the Republicans in an online ad that debuted Monday, paid for by the California Democratic Party. Which has contributed $250,000 to support him staying in office. The governor himself tweeted, he's ready to fight back. I think it's too late. It tells you how nervous they are about him not making it. John Dennis, San Francisco's Republican Party chair who has been leading local efforts to gather signatures for the recall, says this isn't about partisanship and a growing number of signatures is coming from outside the Republican Party. That's a magus reporting the organizer's have until tomorrow to submit their petition against Newsome. Nyssa,
Newsom vows to name Black woman to Senate if Dianne Feinstein steps down
"Movement in California gaining speed, which is coinciding with Governor Gavin Newsom's latest media blitz. The governor joined the daytime talk show the view and you'll be on later this morning for an exclusive interview. Newsome appeared on MSNBC Monday evening, where he said he'd fill Senator Dianne Feinstein seat with a black woman if the senior California senator were to retire before finishing her term. This move comes one day after California Democrats officially launched their own campaign against the recall effort
California Gov. Newsom Lashes Out At 'Extremist' Republicans, Pledges To Fight Recall
"Supporters of recalling Governor Gavin Newsom do have enough signatures to get it on the ballot in response, who's behind the partisan recall of Governor Gavin Newsom, Democrats here launching their campaign against the recall effort? National Republicans are coming to fight California. Swimming in this new ad. The effort is backed by anti vaccine Cuban on extremists, white supremacists and Republican politicians who support President Trump. Newsome is now talking about the recall effort, using Twitter to say he won't be distracted by what he calls the Republican recall. Alex Stone.
Governors Under Fire: California Gov. admits mistakes, says recall unjustified, New York Gov. won't resign
"Governors Aaron serious political trouble this weekend they were widely praised a year ago now not so much to very prominent governors or Democrats are calling for the Resignation of New York's Andrew Cuomo following a serious of sexual harassment accusations. Meantime, California's governor Gavin Newsom admits mistakes in his handling of the Corona virus pandemic. But Newsome insists a recall effort against him has more to do with politics, then with public health. Tom Foti
Governor Newsom delivers State of the State address
"Gavin Newsom says California leads the battle against coronavirus in a virtual state of the state address, Newsome gave remarks from the outfield of Dodger Stadium, where he was surrounded by 56,000 empty seats, a powerful reminder of the more than 54,000 Californians who have died from covered 19 since the pandemic began. He also pledged financial relief with $2.6 billion allocated to help small businesses. The governor said. California's administered 210,000 vaccine doses to educators in an effort to bring kids back to the
Gov. Newsom Delivers State Of The State Address From Los Angeles' Dodger Stadium As Recall Threat Looms
"Night, Governor Gavin Newsom delivered his annual state of the state address this time from Dodger Stadium in Los Angeles, which has served as a mass covert 19 testing and vaccination site. Governor speech focused on the pandemic stole in California and how the Golden State will recover with Maura. Here's KQED politics. Reporter Guy Mars Irani Newsome spoke for roughly 30 minutes, but it's 2021 agenda can be summarized in one line, getting kids back to school, getting shots and arms getting economy back on his feet. These are urgent priorities. School re openings. Vaccine distribution in economic recovery will go a long way toward determining whether Newsome can reverse his slumping approval numbers. On Tuesday night, the governor touted the billions of dollars he's budgeted in just the last few weeks to send Californians $600 checks and thunder return to classroom learning. He also acknowledged that his response to the pandemic has not been flawless. I know our progress hasn't always felt fast enough and look, we we've made mistakes. I have made mistakes, but we own them. We learn from them, and we never stop trying of the 3600 words that Newsome uttered recall was not one of them. But the governor did have response to critics who are trying to remove him from office. We're not going to change course, just because of a few naysayers and doom stairs, hours before Newsome took the field at Dodger Stadium. Republican gubernatorial hopeful Kevin Faulkner started swinging. In a recorded speech, The former San Diego mayor said Newsom has been slow to help students and small businesses. Gavin Newsom Has had almost unlimited emergency powers for a year. For months. We gave him the benefit of the doubt. Time and time again. He has completely failed on delivering the basics. The campaign to recall Newsome from office has one week to deliver the signatures they need to qualify in election.
Newsom slams 'political power grabs' amid California recall effort
"After a year of wildfires, disease and death, California Governor Gavin Newsom on Tuesday urged residents to dream of brighter days ahead. In his state of the state address, Newsome also acknowledged the recall effort against him, saying it's not going to slow down his recovery efforts so that a California critics out there or promoting partisan Political power grabs with outdated prejudices and rejecting everything that makes California truly great way say this way, will not be distracted from getting shots in arms in our economy Booming again, Republican
Gov. Newsom Delivers ‘State Of The State’ Address From Los Angeles' Dodger Stadium As Recall Election Threat Looms
"Newsom plans to address Californians from the largest vaccination site in the state. The governor will deliver his third state of the state address from Dodger Stadium at six tonight. Newsome's address comes at a crucial time for the Democratic governor who faces a likely recall election later this year, fueled by anger over his handling of the pandemic. For his part, Newsome says, don't expect to hear a lot of new policy announcements. Instead, he'll highlight the quiet heroes of the pandemic and the work they do every day. Sharon reared in K ABC News, People who are vaccinated against Kobe
Leaders of Newsom recall effort in California say they have enough signatures
"Recall effort of California Governor Gavin Newsom has passed the first big hurdle. It looks like they have the required number of signatures to put the issue before the voters should Governor Newsome be recall and if so, who should replace him? We're still gathering, more signatures and organizer's understand a good percentage will be tossed out. It's part of the game. But the recall comes with the second question like I mentioned should voters choose. How's the governor who will replace him? Many have suggested a popular California Republican Kevin Faulconer, the former mayor of San
California OKs Reopening of Ball Parks, Disneyland
"Visitors back. California has released updated reopen guidelines that allows theme parks to open their gates as early as April. 1st. Includes large attractions like Disneyland and six Flags. Magic Mountain, the quote, Blueprint Refresh. Let's Parks come back at 15% capacity once their counties reached the red or second most restrictive tear. Passing the levels will increase once, county said the orange or yellow tears. The refresh also allows for outdoor ball parks and stadiums to bring back fans at the same time. Governor Newsome signed a bill today that aims
"newsome" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"Five. But, yes, a sex or vibrators. Dot. Org. VIBRATORS, dot? Gov. and yeah, I. Guess I. Guess. That's it. Because what else can you do besides? Like drop some like Viagra and his it was a he right drops Viagra in his soda and that would be terrible. Imagine. Wanting to have sex, but then just having direction, you can't do anything with and that would be the worst kind of sex effort. Don't actually do that. Yeah. I. Don't drug don't drug your lovers. I. Think that's a blanket. A blanket thing just so we're clear own. I mean, this isn't the fun answer, but like the caller even acknowledged that he oppressed I wonder if they've done anything to address that like, is he in therapy? You know there's affordable and sliding scale therapy options of money's an issue. But like you know the reason at this wasn't a call, you know where like someone calls into like. into. Anymore, what do I? You know like she's not taking it on herself. You said the man's depressed. I think you need to help him with that and then. Problems maybe a balanced. So, five free. Therapy. Because if you teach. Therapy. Yeah, he'll mental health for life, yeah. Just go to therapy five times. So okay, I say you got to masturbate these to say therapy lessons, find the middle ground caller five, the middle ground between those two both. Do. y'All. Wild he is. Doing therapy therapy. Yep Yep Yep Masturbate in the other room and eat gross. Sex Negative. Come. Because there's something really that turned you on about a man handling his emotional issues, you know what I mean. You know that he asked what the what the the rating was on. Come on scandalise clutching purses PG. Donnybrook. I. Talk About Houses at renovation and we just run her ball. Through Koerbel I I assumed I, assumed I think just because like hippyish assumed, you were open during i. mean like I just assumed like. The whole, Commun-, vibe. The Not that we would talk about sex, but that I was surprised to hear that you are like a little sex. Neutral. Yeah. I don't know what my problem is i. think just growing up awkward. You know awkward with my own. Made me like well, it's probably as an adult is probably just. But like I said. I. Don't mind when I. Am always like let. Honestly, that's the same. That's the same vibe I get the same vibe from tawny as my set like I feel like. I? Kind of knew that we were on the same level. Oh. You did south neutral. Felt a sex neutrality. Yes. Okay. That's interesting. A sex neutral. All can spot each other because all all characters give off a sex neutral vibe except. Okay. Coverage, harmony. You were just like getting into it and you had a little attitude I loved it. Little Sas carpeting with Gino segers. that. Sometimes. You take. But that was that was a character that was written for her I'm saying the character she does herself. The characters would she is improvised. She is connecting with the neutrality famously sex neutral. Famously sex neutral. Sure. I actually recently did a comedy. Bang. Bang with Ben Schwartz, and we ended ended up getting a little like fake sexy sex talk which we had not planned on and I. Didn't hate it. But I was like Oh. This isn't really my like this isn't what I'm best. You, but I was just trying to like. And it was funny and find because he's funny. But I was like in in the back of my head I was going. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah therapy or. Quote, unquote handle your scandal as you said as I say as I say. Oh, my God taty. I'm so sorry, we've left you uncomfortable, but I'm comfortable to. Does does beak sex. Look. We'll be fine to speak sex-negative mean that you're cut off from the awkward feelings. Yes. Interesting. UCSE been saying, it's like it's like so funny. You, know what I mean I'm just like I'm like. I'm like, okay. True. Whatever. Yeah you guys. This was a fun one. Now, I'm really happy we did this tiny. Thank you so much for talking to us. Thanks Tony. It was so good to thank you so much. This was Super Fun I would love to have you out. If you can buy. I would love it. I might only be able to make it one night like I might not actually sleep I'd be too scared. But I like in a like a match I'm in a in an RV in the desert. And I just feel like it's like Oh my God. You hear the coyotes, the coyotes howling. The Bob. Cats growling. When we lived in a first the first floor of an apartment. Building. So exactly you never see people walking around. Like, just walking around the desert like no one walks by. There are no people where I am. There are literally no people. I'm a mile away from edge of my little like hamlet and there's no one so. We're the people walking. I'm in I'm in. All right. Thank you good to see you. Next. Time..
"newsome" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"I'm not responsible for them If you like love someone and you feel responsible for them. For them getting better, it's like how much work? How much work can you personally put in to help them get there I? I agree with what Naomi saying about making it super personal. Like you know that mom is going to, she doesn't want her kid to not watch TV with. So maybe she'll fix it right. I got an idea, a gift certificate, five free therapy lesson, the lessons my. Lessons therapy. Teacher. Get her a scholarship. Five free. Therapy. Therapy sessions. Yes. Okay. Okay. That's different. Actually. That's, can I say. GOING, forward. That's just going to be the shadow answer to every question on this show. Yeah. Is Get them therapy. There by. Therapies shuns, assess sessions. Bonds, therapy coupons, therapy coupon I've made some calls for you to a couple of practitioners they're expecting your call like. Literally I mean. Yeah. Honestly, we all need it. We all to give it to some. What do you guys want to try one more I didn't realize. No, go ahead. Go ahead, go. No, come. My comment was so stupid. We don't need. It was a dumb joke go. All right. So here's a voicemail me. Hi Andy, Naomi. I am calling with a couples core question that was really hard to say. Anyway, so you might not play this one because I know you guys don't really like to talk about sex that much on your show I. Thought I'd give it a shaw. basically, my partner and I are reacting to the struggles of are a little bit differently. I am ridiculously Horny With him all day, I would just rather be paying it out, and then that would be a great way to spend time came on the other hand. seems to have less some of his ex drive because you know the makes you depressed, and so I am wondering if you have any tips for couples who have very differing sex drive's either all the time or just in a certain moment and either from experience or any of your wisdom and share any tips on how to navigate that. Thank you. Wow. Okay Okay Tani I'm famously sex-negative. So she listener knows. Famously. Sex Neutral. So you know negative. Neutral. So. Just to clarify, we're just. Talking about sex. There's parts of our own life. We're. We're like, let's not. Let's draw hard line in the sand about what we will only commodified. Relationship. Like any you need to know about it. But what if you started making what if you started making bank as soon as you started talking about sex with that, make you feel better or worse about your religion Oh? My God thinks I would talk about sex, but I wouldn't talk about sex andy. I could talk about the previous lovers I've taken because they don't count. They're just characters and a memoir at this point. They basically ceased to exist. Once you stopped Gatineau under nuts. Go talk have problem with that. But. I. Think that is. So that's so funny. She's real funny like she's like I want to bank it out also. I can't believe that you did this on an episode with me. I, am also famously sex. It makes me. I'm so prudish. Yeah. With like I think, even my private friendships I've never been the friend. I've never been the girlfriend that people talk to about dates and hookups and stuff. I'm always just like happy. I actually don't I don't get embarrassed if people tell me details, but I just don't care anything back so I. Think I'm useless to talk. In fact, I had a burgeoning friendship with someone and I remember him saying like you know he's like, Oh, you know. He was saying something about like some relationship he was in. Some sex thing and I was like. He was you talk about this stuff and I'm like. I. Don't I don't share. And and that was the end of the French Oh. I can figure out the time of death I, like jd in an episode of Scrub Oak Growth I Colin I. And that was the moment that's because I like to talk like I used I. Think we're younger and I think just as we've all gotten older sexes, no, no longer like exciting meaning, not the extra. See, and this is why Keiser Tony you see react. itself. I mean, we're all at an age where we're all. We've all had it. We've had it multiple times. It's no longer like, ooh. Multiple Times. What? We. Just Did. I said one time to consummate and then. Maybe do you enjoy talking about because what I do enjoy talking about is like courtship. Dating. And crushes and flirting, and when people are like Oh. My Gosh, I just started talking to this person. I get excited to like parse out the details maybe. Maybe. Something happened to me at like age fourteen and then like my body. Just age my brain state there. 'cause I very much feel like we're looking through like a teen magazine pointing out who thinks like I love that you like. Do you like talking about like flirting and stuff and like? Oh. My God. Yes, I love hearing all. I mean I think like sometimes he's He's my favorite episode because I just love telling people what they should be doing with their lives and their relationships. I love like I love what I'm like because I pretty hard lines in the sand and I can tell you when someone is worth your time or not. I will. I'm telling you, I'm telling you. I know it yet. I like that stuff, but I think. I think the the early days of stand up, you know and I think a lot of comics go through this in the very beginning like you talk about crazy hookups or crazy dates. You know what? I mean like the stuff that is out of the ordinary or funnier. Silly, and that's what I like to hear like I don't care like you know what? I mean like we just had sex all night I'm like, okay. I want to hear about something while. Okay. Like I WANNA. Know you like, yeah. Got Sex related knee injury I. Want to know that his mom called during and he picked up the phone like give me something special, but I just don't want to like like you know. But? Yeah, like regular sex, it's like who cares who cares? You know. But so call. If you want their attention, you gotta come with the with the wild. please. I. Think. Wow them. If you want them to her up with your partner though like I find myself very anxious in quarantine like nothing. Sexual anything I'm like honey, the world's burning. It feels just so frivolous. So I'm on your partners in which case I'm a Mazda us, honey handle your scandal handle edgy damn self because it's like. You gotTA handle yourself. Don't you think of your lovers aren't interested. You've got to handle it. Yourself get a gift certificate to. A. Sex store. Sex Toy store. Yea. Say.
"newsome" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"So I show, but the people who are this is the thing though I'm just like the people who I've who in my life, who upset hateful things, I, just stop talking to them. Well, that's the problem with parents. You can't do that you. You like about and especially, it sounds like they're close lasagna and their mom watch drag race together. That implies they're. They're close. They hang out. This is not just like a person. They're not just talking every Sunday for fifteen minutes. So it does feel like, right? You know it does matter what mom thinks and feels like whereas I you can't just brush it off. But to me, LASAGNA's I, want to say, I, don't even WanNa. Watch the show her because she makes me so mad at pardon me like, yeah, do that. Like. Don't you? Start if you're going to talk like that, I can't wash with you. If you want to have a conversation about why what you're saying is wrong. Hit me up, but you ruin whole vibe a drag race like you say you can't be around here if you're going to talk like that and then hopefully because I think. I think our parents, parents when they're closer their kids, they value that, and so then. Okay. Fine. If that's upsetting you, I'll stop saying it and I'm willing to have a conversation. 'cause they don't. WanNa. Lose you know mom doesn't want to lose lasagna. Yeah. I support that I think that all you can control your actions and so you can't control. You can say, I I don't choose to watch this with you because your comments or upsetting. And also suggest that they learn more about this. Because it I'm assuming that lasagna is not a trans person. Otherwise, that would have been another. Conversation but. There's power in saying, you know this is a gap in my experience. So I'm not going to sit here and educate you about all the ways. This is wrong for fear that I might get it a little bit wrong. But I, encourage you to go seek out some people to listen to some books to read. So that, you can get educated about this because you sound you sound a little bigoted and I think if your a person, she doesn't wanNA sound bigoted. She maybe she doesn't realize how ridiculous she's being. I mean, this is a larger question about like what do you do about the Shitty. People in our culture? What do you do about the shitty people in our country who do say or harbour hateful things? You know what I mean. There's one thing like if you just Hate in your heart. Don't let it out. With, God. Let it out at the. Hey, if you've gotTa Hate Cage Your Heart, right? Right and you keep locked up keeble locked up tight YEP. Go. Ahead, I'm fine I don't have anything you. I. Have a problem with the people who are out there. Just letting their their caves a bird. There's a caged bird saying gas so. That's the problem there. And I think that's a real like that's a real conundrum. For us all going forward. You can't do what I do for real. Yeah, and just like cut those people out of right, civil society. You can, but you end up with a culture what we have right now. That's so like bifurcated and just like. You know civil war. Yeah So, what what do you really do to like the people who are really transphobic and are doing awful things by how do we change their brains? But see the thing is out. Okay. Here's when you say like these people in society, I think it's less about that. You know, what do I always say honey, each one teach one. That's how you reach one. It's got to be about these individual relationships because unfortunately for so many people. Stuff doesn't it has to affect them personally in order for it to be a real issue. So for instance, in this case, for mom, it's going to be my kid doesn't want to be around me in order to make, and so now that's a problem for mom and so to relieve that problem, mom will then go do some work, and so it isn't necessarily sweeping like what do we do about these people society? What do you do about the people in your life? Right? Like what do you do about the family at the dinner table I? Mean I feel very lucky. That when it comes to politics, everybody's on the same page, a family like Thanksgiving's not stressful for that reason. So it's like. Four thirty thousand other reasons, right. But not the political. So it's like so I do feel grateful for that. But I, do know a lot of people for whom it is like. Oh. We just can't talk about this whole other layer of existence. I. Don't know. Do you have any people? Again, like honey, you're a separatist, so you've curated alive, but like do you have people in the family? You know what I mean people in the point where you're like you problematic, but I'm related to. People in your past, like what have you done with people in your past? who had like said or done ignorant things like it's maybe not like someone who's like said, one ignorant thing. It's someone who's like continue. You, a black girl would've white Mama I'm sure you don't hurt a lot of it so. It's like. To. These folks. I mean. So there's like. A faction of the family that I'm not really of through her and she loves these people and I'm find with. A couple of them. But like I've just removed myself from it. So I don't you know I don't I. Don't hang around with them. I, don't I try and like if it's Christmas thing or something, and my mom wants me involved with them, whatever I will try and like more her like I. Don't really be going to I. Don't walk into anybody's house who I have a problem with like, and that's just something. I've only really been able to do in the last like five or eight years but it's also because like a lot of these people aren't blood and like I don't really I, don't know also my the black side of my family. I love them, but they are not. Fully, like they have so many garages and pacts with one another, you're not allowed to speak to this person and these people aren't allowed on that. I'm constantly like Y'all like, I'm not in the generation that you're fat like, can we come together? So really I'm always trying to bring that side together and the other side. I'm just like removed. From. Again. Because I'm like I can only really control my. And how I react to things, and what that's kind of done is like I don't know I feel like they understand why I'm not messing with them and. I don't know also don't feel a responsibility to educate infix, any of those people because. They'RE REALLY NOT PEOPLE I. I'm not responsible for them If you like love someone and you feel responsible for them. For them getting better, it's like how much work? How much work can you personally put in to help them get there I? I agree with what Naomi saying about making it super personal. Like you know that mom is going to, she doesn't want her.
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"He's like, what are we going to do if we try to sue them? They'll like hold. For Forever. And it'll just be like it'll be more money to sue them that we would get out of it. Yeah. Yeah. So we just had to live with it. They had to live with this. I know gross. Terrifying. Every time you back out of the driveway every time we back out I'm convinced we're going to flip. Yeah. We're GONNA flip like it is definitely the same angle as a roller coaster. So it's like. And so do you just lift up your arms? Down I just hold I like literally my whole body tenses up. Especially if we're driving at least now here, we have a car now andy drives, but especially when we would go to Pennsylvania where I was like bitch driven a car and like nine months, and now we gotta go backwards at a forty five degree angle and I'm like, Oh, God. Oh God. I like I like this dynamic here between us in Utah because. You're getting the both ends of the spectrum if you are fearful like we are then. Don't buy a house at all, just keep ratting. No I a house. It's gotTa be turn key as they say on TV or make so much money exactly that you could buy the house of your dreams. Well, this is the thing. This person who's like, okay. If I can't afford it, it's like you have to move November and what you like. And you don't. You know you either don't have the money or don't have the ability to put the working. Then you're gonNA have to get away from transportation. That's just what you have to accept the trade off. You make. As you said, like you're like, I don't need. GRUB. It's like. Your Life Changes, right? Like you get married, you get settled. You find a space you like and to me, it seems like the whole point of homes or like some suburban life again is a New York person. I WanNa House. Only wanted to how since moving to L.. A.. And the whole thing is like if I'm GonNa live in the suburbs I gotta do it right, which means have a house that I'll never want to leave. Right. Because like life is a little more sedentary here and like when you reach a certain age or like, well, if I'm not going to do too much, I might as well be as comfortable as possible. Yeah. Yeah. And I will say just for another vote for the the separatists project. I grew up in the country in the nineties. When there there was a little bit Internet. We had dial up or whatever. But like there was no connective e, you know if my friends phone was busy when I tried to call her I, didn't really she didn't have a cell phone, I couldn't take her so. Living in the country then wasn't Living in the country cow when I'm doing like zoom press and meetings from here, and you know you want to hang out and have a happy hour with friends. Now, the one weird thing about coronas that it's made video conferencing for social purposes, chill and like fun. It is incredible out here. There is no I. Don't feel like I've missed. How on anything. And all I ever wanted was to be like fully self sufficient like even before the world shut down I was like all. I don't WanNa depend on other people I don't want to. Have to be close to Uber or have to be close to whatever like I should be able to do it myself, and then those things are conveniences. But yeah. So this is supported like my life philosophy that said it's not for everybody. No, I wanted though like I want it to be for me. If that makes sense you know what I mean like because I do admire self like I want to be able to do stuff like that feeling of. Like our electricity went out on Tuesday honey. I was gone I said, take me now. I can't make noise. Take me now. And it's like, no, like I got to be able to survive the apocalypse go. On talking about walking dead I to be able to give you that denied career energy. Well, maybe if you read the comment. I would not have learned skills. Don't you be trying to fight in front of? Company. Give us the next question. This comes to us. From. This just from twitter DM. From. The end, of June. Hey Naomi, Andy? Antoni. Especial guess. You could call me any. No. For you could call me Lasagna since I think hold on. I'll explain for a second because I was like. Thomas going to be like, how did they know I was going to be on the show at the end of June. that. I was like, let me fix this Oh my God tony. Twenty and this is why I wish you would take some advice when it comes to just because he got to be so honest he got to be honest, I. Get. I, get tongue tied around tawny lot because I was a fan of yours before we moved out here from Oh. That's very nice. I. Don't think I had a conversation with you where I haven't stuck my. Way. That's. Notice. Are you kidding me? No, you're a nice person in this hellfire. Don't remember any MISSTEP. Way Remember other thing that monster assets all the time you're fine. Thank you. Thank you for absolving me I. Say Awful. tongue-tied, that'd be religious. Question. Okay Okay you could call me. LASAGNA. Since I, think that would be a really good name if it didn't mean what it means. Also, I've made of more carbs and protein at this point in choir choir. Anyway. My question is about how to fix my mom's consistent undying trans-phobia. So every week we watch Paul's drag race and lately notice she's been more spiteful than usual. She doesn't seem to understand drag queens and Trans women are mutually exclusive, but can coincide recently, she said something that made me. So frustrated I wanted to stop watching the show with her altogether. Why she said. Wow. To read it. So my question is how she said something hateful terrible. My my question is, how do I begin to educate my mother more about the Trans Community and how statements? Bad statements are not acceptable. Thanks in advance. Keep being awesome. I mean who I don't. Do you have. You ever had anything either of your parents. especially as we got older where you've discovered, they're like a little backwards or behind the Times. Yes. But to both of their credits, they both have come a long way. I think both of them have gotten more progressive in my dad especially which usually. Getting, older right goes the other way. So I'm thankful for. So you haven't really had to I mean, and do you have you've definitely had moments with your parents where you know they've had views that you didn't my parents are very, they're like liberals. They are you know centrist and I'm very far left at this point. So we do have disagreements about things and I've just stopped arguing with them I have, but there's nothing in like they're not transphobic. phobic about any kind of group. So I've never had to deal with like just like abject hatred for that. Right? Right. Right..
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"Now dot com. Beautiful. That's enough. Let's get back to tawny. And we're back with Tawny newsome ready to handle Yo scandal with these relationship questions. We got Tony's backstory. We know she a ranch hand a nerd. In a band, that's the background, and now we go sob Oh push andrew ever get relationship questions on Llosa's racist. Yeah, and it's really depressing because the flavor of our show means that they're calling to be like my boyfriend, he's not racist, but like keep does have this confederate. Our bed and and then at the end of the call, and it's like I'm a black. Thank you love the show and we're just like, oh Whatever we have sex, all he does is stare at it. Oh, this comes to us. From a direct message on. INSTAGRAM. Just, from earlier, this month from Tricia Tricia using your name. Okay. I believe she said I could not. That means nothing that she's like ashamed of. Do you I mean like when people say make me a non Animus I know, GonNa. Be Juicy. But she's her name. You're like, okay. Well, I like to start out with like a little bit of softball high? Love. The podcast and love you both less I need advice. Please we're house hunting and all the nice houses we can afford are far from the town centre and transportation, and all the ones close are really ugly and need a lot of work we need to move by November and it's really been a weight on my mind. This is such a boring question, feel free to use it. I believe there in New York because I think. Tristesse said that they work her husband works at Nyu, but I thought this was a good beginning question as. Tawny, you are a homeowner. Who did buy a home far from yeah. The city. Yeah, I'm an urban separate. What was the process because I remember talking about 'cause? I was just so I was like, how do you buy a home and how do you do it? Yeah Naomi? Also you every night to calm down, you look at homes on. To. Look at pretty houses I. Really Do So yeah, was there I mean again, you like the outdoors you guys are comfortable with that, but was it from the jump where you like let's get a place out like an hour away or were you kind of forced into going as you looked at prices? We were kind of forced, but also, so we started our house hunting searching. CHICAGO. Because we were. We've been married for a while and we thought we were going to really stay there and make roots there and part of me still wishes that we could have made that work because I. It's my favorite city I would love to stay living there, but they just won't. I just got killed off every ambulance show and they will comedies there. So. But so we were looking for a building. We wanted a three flat so that we have a recording studio in the basement rent out the main level live on top like that was always our dream, and so we had started kind of planning and budgeting for that. Then we moved to Los Angeles the land of everyone is insane and wants to charge you nine hundred thousand dollars for eight hundred. Also with no parking? No. I I. It was. So the real estate in this town was so. Having come from a beautiful city that may not have the Hollywood industry, but has plenty of thriving industries plenty of people that do well the imbalanced to me was so offensive. But I still was like, well, we're such diy people, we wanna make our own space. Maybe we can compromise. So I, was looking like way out outer edges Pasadena like maybe we can scrape together seven, hundred thousand. For someone with like a four or five TV credits. It was. It was insane. It was impossible and I really credit nate for being like we cannot do this. We'll be buried under a mortgage for the rest of our life like you're an artist. You don't WanNa be taking jobs because you have to. Lose Your House, right. So. I just drew a circle around La and I said, whatever's within ninety minutes of L.. A.. Go See, and that has a plot of land and that seems you know whatever. And it. Really I mean when I'm telling you a sixth of the price for probably fifteen times the property, and like it was a no brainer for us. I was like all forego grope hub. How close is live out here in the middle, of course, is the closest supermarkets say. I mean. Like go to those because they're not good. So what I do is once a month, I drive for an hour, just go to a I go to a whole foods and a costco, and that's it, and we have a deep freezer. We have a big pantry and we just one time during this pandemic. I did not leave this property for forty five days and I did. That's amazing. You could do that. Yeah. But it's not for everyone. Especially, this callers in New York like I. Don't know how you make this work right I guess you buy the ugly place and learn some skills to make it. Right yeah. I. Mean the things have you don't WanNa. Do the. If you know you're not a person who will do the work like I know that about me like because I, don't know it and I think for me, it's less even like I'm always afraid of being hustled. So I'm like afraid of being in a situation where like call a contractor and then they gouge me for all my money and it's not done well like stresses. We, bought. We, we have a townhouse. Row, home, we for like the first fourteen years of my life and my parents. We'd like our own house. We don't WANNA share a wall with someone. I? Remember they were I? MEAN, they're paranoid people. I. Don't know if this is true in my mind, they were paranoid about like someone else in the row home mike burning like like cabernet down Yay that sounds like your dad. That May or may not be true, but it's Let's say it's spiritually tree. Yes, right? Yes. Spiritually accurate. and they finally found a affordable piece of land and they had a to build it and. At some point, the contractor. Hit some kind of rock that would have been difficult to dig through, and they would have had to blast it and instead of asking my parents if they should they instead just started building the house. And so weaker up with this insane. Oh, God, Dr. White that's like a forty five degree because they had to start building the house there, and there's a there's a lot of other stuff. Are. This. Is My first maybe taste of like dealing with. People who have more money and more power than you, because my dad was like I'm like, why can't you do something about it?.
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"Own. Yes, I understand that. Natalie IMBRUGLIA, who doesn't, and there there were very few black people where I was I really didn't like have a core group of black friends until Chicago like all my friends growing up were Filipinos. My town was very Filipino and I got this one white girl who still my friend, who's Day one of my oldest friends and other than that I I was like I, the black people here we're. So foreign spread apart I felt like everybody was trying to like hold onto their. Don't mess up my shit, and I won't mess up yours like, let's all just. A little bit and it's so funny. What a world and then you've got you got to Chicago and then you're like Yeah. A whole new world. Did you feel that were you like is amazing and Magical Yes. Very much. So I mean it didn't happen so much at my college because I was still in a theater, we'll at a Catholic University. So there weren't a Catholic. I didn't know that. DEPALMA's Catholic. Isn't that weird? Didn't come as like nothing about it other than seeing nuns more. than. The average person sees a nun. It didn't feel very Catholic but. No one I started like really feeling better was when I started working. I would just like you know because, Chicago, even though it's segregated, there are still just black people everywhere. It's different than. Theirs Black people working at the mouth when asked to speak to a manager there, probably back So. Then I started teaching in some of the southside schools I started doing like arts outreach, teaching and stuff, and then like, yeah, I made a ton of friends and then through theater through like outside theater I started working with. Just, different theater companies where they would put together a show, and so then suddenly all the black people know each other, right. do I take a quick break and then come back answer some listener questions I. Think. So how do you feel about that Tony? I think that's Good. Yes. All right, we'll be right back after. Hey Guys Naomi here just wanted to take a quick break from Tony to let you know that couples therapy has a Patriot on. If you feel like supporting the show, you can spend five dollars a month and get two bonus episodes. Less tons of other bars material put all the audio from the twit shows up there. There's a, there's a pilot that we did for Tru. TV, inside Caucasia up there. If you WANNA, watch it, lots of cool stuff really does help you know a lot of that goes back into making the show better. Yes, exactly. It's now a one man operation and that one man is Andrew. Patron Dot com slash couples, therapy pot also were you about to say now for zero dollars, you can rate review subscribe to the show. It's tough out there. We know that you may not have disposable income, but if you still want to support the show you can do it go to spotify doesn't but apple podcast specifically, you can rate review and subscribe I think subscribe is the importance of could I also think the review honey the ratings because that really helps brick amount of bringing the review honey. It's about bringing the podcast to other people's attention and reviews. Let people know woke people are listening what people have thought Oh. There's an engaged listenership. Okay. Okay. and. But also you know what? If you have a bit of a disposable income, we got t shirts. We did at. T's t shirts got to. Awesome. T shirts, the logo and Agata. Mitch? T shirt. If you go to couples therapy dot merch.
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"I guess. I would say like I have an interesting relationship with like class and money because. We were middle class and I understood that once I met other people who had less. But because I watch I split time I lived with my dad on the weekends, my mom, and my dad was like very much like small house in the suburbs everything pretty like regular no diy. If he needed something to done he, he paid a handyman or something whereas my mom did everything herself and worked so hard work these long hours that I was like, Oh, we're only middle class because my mom is a beast. Because she didn't have. She had friends and stuff had her same job didn't do as well as we did. So I think. It very much attached in my brain lake. You can you know I. It gave me the sense of like America crecy that doesn't really exist in this country, but it gave me this idea that like if I worked hard and if I did everything, right? No matter what I chose, and this is very much reinforced by my dad and neither of them are artists at all. But my dad was like work hard be a good person. You can go wherever you want in life and they. So they always supported that as long as they saw me working and anytime I, remember when I got my piano lessons snatched away from me because I wasn't getting enough. But I'm a kid like nobody practices don't WanNa. Learn to play the piano. My Dad was like apparently you don't. The tether for them was like as long as I was working at it. They supported whatever. To the point where even when I was like pursuing theater I had gone to college for theatre. I was in Chicago and like the theater jobs were just kind of drying up and like I joined actors equity and so I couldn't do the store fronts. I was just in this weird in between place. So I started singing in bands and my dad like every couple of weeks would call me and be like. Okay I see your stuff about this band. You got an audition for a play. When you're going to do Like hounding me as like some parents, hound their kids to go to law. Yeah. My Dad was like do the thing you worked towards? What are you doing messing around while? They're doing. Hair. At the ORPHEUM. Yeah, you got to. Audition for that. Yeah, he was just short of sending. The CAST. So. Because I had. I was an abandoned in college a little bit after and I. My. We needed more people in the band. It was just me and my friend. Kyle and we need the we had like twenty instruments in every. and. So we had brought in some friends at one of that was my girlfriend at the time. Who was great like we didn't just bring her in because she was like girl girl. She's like she's a great singer. She's she was advanced before. Right? But. That fell apart, but you went the opposite way. You were in a band I. I'm grateful I was never anyone's girlfriend in a band. I never was brought into a ban as girlfriend one. You know my musical career hasn't gone that far, but that's something I can always say. Yeah. No, we were. I. Was brought in by my good friend and now still bandmate Bethany Thomas and She was like these dudes they do this. Kind of rolling stones, e Bar band sort of thing, and they want like back black backup singers basically. She. She had been with them for a long time and she was like these guys are really nice. They were all people who had like a other careers like once a theology professor ones a social. What? Dudes just like I know. They're some of the smartest guys. I know to this day. One of them was on jeopardy. I'm just like these are the most intellectual people that I know and they also happen to be like, let's be in a band. Yeah. So nate was the drummer for that and. We met there. So we've known each other since. Two thousand seven yeah. And was it. Love at first sight yeah. I mean, I probably saw him once a month Rono. We would only come join the band when like they were doing a big show and needed horns and backing singers and. So we just knew each other, he was probably the person I dealt with the most because he was sort of defacto manager. So like emails between him, and then we just kind of became friends. Yeah, and then we after maybe three years, I, guess of off on hangs with the band. We started dating. Okay. All right, and how was that transition like with someone being like I will take you out. Would you like to go out? Would you wear out for an ice cream cone exactly or was it just like after a Gig, just drunk and make out? No, I don't fully remember honestly. I i. think it was more organic, and like we were clearly such good friends. We're spending a lot of time together that people assumed we were dating before we. Yeah. But I don't remember like. A huge talk. He remembers a talk. We had that I only remembered because I was on Nicole buyers, show I want you date me and I was trying to remember as like, I know I'm going to be asked about this. I have to remember. But we I think we were exchanging like Christmas gifts or something and I had bought him like a book about like business because he worked in advertising and I was like I don't know. Maybe. You WanNA business bug. He. Bought me a vest, a white, puffy Puma vest. Which? If he'd given it to me now, I'd be like Oh. This is cool for like camping with mountains but. In like twenty men, no one in. CHICAGO. was wearing white. Warm layers. We were wearing woolen pea coats and like doing like smart city. So I was looking at this thing I was like this is not. It felt very early two thousands. Yes. This is not my. I wish I had now. Keep it. Keep it. Know. That went to the buffalo explained on on Milwaukee. First gifts log cabin I'd probably got forty S. First gifts are always very difficult, are still trying to do over. I got her. She likes Camby's, she likes. She likes horror stuff. I got her the first companion, the first fifty issues of the walking dead now taty. Andy Likes Comic Books and I knew that right and so at that point because if we got together march my birthday December. So you have some time to get to know my as okay. Gesture I had said to him. He would agree commerce and I was like I don't get comics honey. I. Don't know what order to read the bubbles in. That's what I told him. I would always be like I. Don't understand what this like drawing is supposed to be, and so the fact that I told him, I can't i. don't even know what order to read it in and he got me. You should see how thick it was this thick tardy like five engineer. Of Khazei, the Lizard, they always holding her hands three feet apart. And I was like and it was also like and it was so heavy. So like where am I? I'm not going to put this in my purse or read it on the train. You prefer to lighter a lighter tone whatever in a lighter Tom was no thome not prefer that wasn't a drawing and he's like what you love the walking dead I was like. TV Show but not a comic book, which is the original. Sure. Anyway. See I understand both sides of it. I think you're you're kind of exonerated. I, understand the impetus I bought this man a book about business I said you're in business here? No, that's just as bad. But Naomi I to. Want. I would not want a giant book about anything that. I. Have a book about prints. Okay. But it's pictures. Yeah. You know. That's just a nice coffee table moment. Did you have a lot of a boyfriend parties before nate? No. Look like. I. I was a black girl riding horses and try to be in punk bands of stuff. Nobody wanted talk to my. They would've loved you the prettiest black girl in all of the fucking punk scene. Dude I. Mean, it was like those boys we like we never see her over here. No see this was before social media. So people didn't know that outwardly they had to appear non. So people were just like, Hey, you're really cool and super funny. Now, you know I really have a crush on his..
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"Said what? That's the problem, and that's why he didn't take note. That's why he can't take a note on it see, and this is why and this is why I say even though I, am mixed and my mother is white I. Say I had to black pants I didn't get away with. I didn't get away with it. If they smelled the idea of me maybe doing something wrong I was on. I don't understand that and I was an only child and I was damn near my mom's eight like we're damn near. My upbringing was rigid. Such a nerve I. Didn't do anything. Yeah. Me Neither as well. All that you were good boy, but you're a smart, ass? Yes. which like I would have worked like, I. Would Get whooped like like my mother like even if I looked like I was squaring up to say something back. Dear, I mean like be like. What you're doing, they didn't up straight. Ahead what you're doing, you say something like, no, no, no. It's like you put that spoon down real slow. We're just. Talking, it's like so crazy, but it's what you say. No, but I always wish because my mom is very handy a rather, she will take it upon herself to do things her way because like she bought a house in. Harlem. Before Harlem was fancy and it was like an SRO that she redid, but also didn't have a lot of money. So it took years and years and it would be less progress still in progress like one thing a time, but it's nice now, but so she would do stuff and. And me. You know as the only child I was in a way like I was the manual labor. You know like, Shuguang me like with carrying this removing this, but she wasn't actually teach me how to do it like the actual like whatever the nuts and bolts or and hurt you sometimes I realize I'm around her because she is very specific and she's very particular how she wants it and I realized that made me like now to this day in my thirties when I'm around her Arcana just like. I just give over to her or I don't make these bold choices, and then she gets frustrated because it's like you to all of this, and it's like it's because you always like had a way you wanted it done, and so if I didn't do it right or waiting for an. Even now it'd be Kinda like. What are you need, and so when we come back to New York every time we go to New York, because like I've been waiting for you to move subject to the basement like I would be back in new. York for a year it she. Did a base and we ask her what she wants as a present for her birthday or for Christmas or something. It's always manual labor. It's always a day of like helping guard. Yes. She was to help me in the house except this time her birthday was just June twenty-ninth and I asked her what she wanted and she said this time it was new tiny. She said, I would like you. To before you have a performance or a taping, I would like you to run your outfit by me. So, that's She wants now, that's the president. She wants the president. Yes. Because she thinks. She doesn't like the way I dress, and she thinks that if I want to have a career I, have to dress better after do my hair better, you know I have all this hair insecurity and this is where it comes from your hair always looks laid. It is flow. I WANNA learn, raise. Oh, you'll be brayden and honey enquirer the roots are real and I need to learn a brave kid I was looking at it. I was looking at a damn tutorial I don't even understand she was like use your dominant index finger toeloop. Out I'm out. Okay. You GotTa Start Small, you gotta start. Smoking to do some head ahead. Visit a covered up a pre wrapped hair tie. Look I send you some length. Yeah, I learned from Youtube nobody taught me how to do my hair I used to wear. We've all the time for straight. We've had a statement. TAP rested and slept on it whatever and and when I, was like when I had to get it taken out if I had to go two days without the we've in I was like, I. Don't know what do I remember one time. My style is looked at me and just went just wear your natural hair. What My little baby cousin taught me. They gave me you to, and this was in the early days of like you stuff. This was probably like two, thousand, twelve or eleven. Maybe cousins who all had beautiful natural hair that they were all doing themselves. Yeah. They were like here. Check out this girl this girl. You do. How long have you been married? It'll be seven years, seven years and how long together total. Okay. So. How? How did you guys meet? We met in a band. Yes music. Love I remember that. Music, low here. Here's my other question. I'm sorry I just have so many questions. It's like what I have someone hostage in podcast format. I asked them everything. They wanted to know, okay, like you know growing up with your mom on the ranch, you know what was the did you always want to be an actor? was that like a big leap to take you know 'cause I know you also didn't grow up monied. So it's also like, okay. How am I going to like make my living and do this until it POPs off? was there ever a time? Did you were you always all in or was it just like I'm going to do a little comedy on the side? This is fun..
"newsome" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"You're a very serene energy and I remember like when I met your mom who was just like she was just she was even affirming to me and I just met her I said, give me the Corgi for the affirmation. How that's nice. How running because it was? Was it just you and her on the ranch? I mean, she was married for a J. Yeah. She wasn't in my when I rewrite it in my brain was just. She's the one. She's the one you can trust. So like on the ranch like y'all like always super close or were you Kinda like I'm going to sit I'm going to sit outside among the horses said, read my diary. No I mean, we were close, but she worked. I. Mean. My Mom's only like one thousand, nine years older than me. She had me super young. So we've always been close and she always worked long long hours. So I would either get stuck with chores or when I was being like an annoying teen, I like would sleep in and then not do them. But Lake, we have horses that have to be fed before a certain hour like all of a sudden, the ranch just start to making so much noise that you can't really shirk your duties for two. So. By the time, she would come home if like horses were screaming and stuff like she, you know then we'd have words but. In general, we stayed close I. Mean She taught me to like you know put shingles on a house and build a chicken coop and For. All of my like diy knowledge, completely I learned it all from her which is really I think so fortunate women listening if you have young girls teach them shit yourself because there is a weird vibe when you learn the stuff from a man. So even the stuff like my husband's super handy, basically a carpenter. So even when he teach me how to use a power tool, I, don't know how I don't like it like it's not him, but I'm just like Oh. Like I think what it is, is that most of the stuff I've learned from a woman, so I don't want it to be like lessons passed down from. What is there a? Is there a difference in the way? The way. A man versus a woman teaches you something I mean obviously is like, what is that? What did you feel? I can only speak to my experience. I'm sure everyone's different and you know my husband's also the most like gentle sensitive man. Hello Commun-. So. There's no like much use Mo-, when he does it, but there, there's something in me that reacts to like Oh. This feels like, oh, paternal. You're like I'm being taught something where whereas like with my mom and my mom is way more controlling about how to do things. That I feel this way. But it was always just like we have to get this done, we have to do it together. So we just you know I'd learned along the way I. Don't know maybe it felt more collaborative or something. Yeah. This very didactic when I'm telling you something like how like backup your computer or something like that. You're like, so impatient and you come in hot. Hot. Like you're not annoyed. I think it's more like you're just very direct and I think because for you, it's second nature. You say it really factually and I'm like, Andrew. Yeah you know I can't even get it out the box. Okay. So the fact that you saying it's his factual as like babe start start from the fucking base start from the baseline. You. Know I'm easily overwhelmed. Are there things that you know how to do that. You get the same way with him. Like, are you very didactic about things that you're telling him? Well, of course, all like social interaction. Like. Like. All Social Oh my God. Always. A spit. I almost lost my wife. Zina Andy He. Will me off because? I feel like. especially, with like comes to navigating this business, you know which has to do with so much personal, Shit. I feel like I'm good at connecting with people even just kind of like that intro and I'm always like Andy I, think India so talented and I just wish he would learn to like be a touch more manipulative. Relative. But just like. A little more. I don't know. You just have to kind of work at a little back and I'd like constantly being like this is how you should do this or like say this first and then that settled in an email or something not. Knowing, him conversation. But like the emails in snow and I will do that and he's he's like Hon. I've. You Go. And it's the opposite of Hun. Hun But it's the opposite of Hun and you and I are equally successful. So. It. Is. The right way? You just don't want to be told what to do so. I I remember back in like my mom is an English teacher with a master's degree, and she was like correcting a paper of mine in junior high, and I was so angry at her corrections. Yeah. Here's a woman with by that time fifteen, twenty years of teaching experience. and. An advanced degree. In the thing she is correcting and the person who loves you boast? Do you know what I mean? And you are a child. That's your child because see, that's the thing like Andy's parents like they let him be individual like He. He tells the story one time about how he did something wrong. But because his parents and his parents knew, but because they couldn't prove it, they did not punish him. And I said..
"newsome" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"So we've kind of been operating like a little mental health conscious. Everyone have some self self care come out here? You can pitch a tent out here and like we can. We never have to interact. But like just having people to like wave to or like bring you a jug of coffee in the morning and leave it on your little doorstep is. Has Been Away. That we have felt like helpful to people just like, Hey, we have this space that's really helped us feel safe like come here and use it in a safe way So we're really not alone that often my mom also bought my mom's crazy psychopathic me and like the second this all hit. She bought a an old trailer, not like old vintage one. But just like one from the ninety s a little RV travel trailer redid the whole. HDTV nightmare. Just peel and stick tiles all over the whole thing and drove it down here in park to here for like two weeks. So she comes down and just like parks on my land, and then we can be distant. But like it really has been like people have been been feeling like people need to escape the city. So we try and make that available for them I. I gotta go gotta go. I was thinking about that this morning. I was like I just need to look at a new place. You know what I mean like I need a new landscape. Yes. Besides like driving every once in a while someplace else our life for the last five months has been a three block radius around our apartment. Yeah. So it's I'm very like. Wait here's. The idea of a Hippie commune does that appeal to you if you if we were not. In the middle of a pandemic or pandemic. As coined. Would you? Is that something that like because you like camping you are you're more of a nature person. You are a traveler, you built a house in the desert you build. The desert does that does that appeal to you like your own? California in CA abuts. I mean, if we had better track records for them, absolutely because they all seem to end in in something fought. But native going to hate me saying this on a microphone nate grew up in a Commun- for part of his childhood Oh. Okay. There it is. There it is. And his was like cute and like nothing bad happened to any one. They all pulled their money literally like every working adult cash, their paycheck and put. This is the late seventies, early eighties and they would just put it in a jar. His mom we he's his mom because she doesn't know how to cook for anything less than. So she will make lasagna. So even when they didn't live in the commune anymore and it was just their family of five and they moved out, she would make lasagna, but they would have to eat it for a week and. The portions are. So. That's in his blood, and then I grew up on a ranch. It was just I'm an only child. So was the opposite of a commune, but we had a big ranch with horses and stuff, and then I moved to Chicago and became like a city person and thought like I'm going to be a city person forever. So now I think it's just the inevitable return to our roots. Sure. We we want to go back to the land which we're child free. So we're like, let's surround ourselves with other adults. Honey. Just, want other adults in animals. That is my absolute you church give me all these little animal creatures and be done with it. Could you build a commune commune, a commune commune? Strangely, that was strangely Henry. Higgins type. Could. You build a commune where it is just adults? You're not allowed to have children, I love it. And that seems you just farm I feel like I can't tell other people. What to do you know we do have a, we have a no children policy out here, learn. Like We sound like such jokes. No, really it's because it is sharp and dangerous there CACTI, there are rattlesnakes I'm just like you can't be chasing your toddler around. You're going to have a bad time. You know. But. Like we have nieces and nephews who we love very much and You know as soon as they're sixteen years old, I would love it. Sure. We all of our Chil-, our friends. And full style really do yeah. No, they're like I. Really Love them and I love going to their homes and seeing them in their environment. All their toys I'm like that is where a kid thrive Rachel his weight. Are There Brown recluses out there? Probably there are there are all over California, D Brown recluse. Just realized. You said Brown recluse. I was like, that's me. You know what every scary thing. You asked me about about the wilderness. I'm gonNA counter with something. Scary. La like. Street Park. Street parking can bite you and necrotizing your skin. There's. There's something about the Brown recluse spider. Thank you for. That particularly strikes fear into my heart. Yeah I understand I. Think was spiders in general, but I think it's because I saw Arachnophobia when I was too young like do you remember that Rack Mobile I saw that at like I don't know when ninety two like I should know watch that movie and just like bird and my brain and I was like less. We have John Goodman with a case of poison. We're not gonNA get through this. Now. Naomi did your parents. Let you what were they like here? Watch this movie with US child. Or did you sneak off at a sleepover or something? Oh I probably just like I feel like be let me watch it. Maybe I can't remember 'cause I saw negative. There were certain things like. I'm trying to remember because. I. Feel like we have the tape like we had the VHS tape and my mom would be like. With you and so I got scared, you know what I mean. She would cover my eyes or she whatever. But then I remember. So distinctly. Terrified of child's play because my mother because I, went to see that when I was like seven. But that was in Detroit because I was like summers and vacations with my family in Detroit. and. My aunt and uncle didn't give a fuck. They were like letting these kids stop us from living. So they literally will bring us all to like literally child's play and I remember just sitting there frozen in terror in a movie theater. It's so dark and he's coming for us. So yeah, there are movies I, probably should've seed. And? I, think. We now have the the basis of the difference between Utah and. What strikes fear into your heart? And what strikes fear into our hearts, which is anything. At, for you, it's like a handful of like you know actually awful things. Well, you know I was thinking about this. You're saying Tony Nate famously Tony had us over for Thanksgiving two years ago. Fan Famously and. You both you guys project a quiet confidence. You're both a very like mellow feel like everything is fine like in your world. I'm very like Oh nosy uncomfortable. Cool neutrals. Everything's relaxed like.
"newsome" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"Yeah. This is great role at. Taty. Hello. How are you? I? Know How you are because we this is the second time. We've asked you how you are. You don't have to now. It's for content. Exactly. Exactly. How does that Change Your answer you? Now, I say good thriving I'm so fortunate I'm so lucky. Shout out to our first responders and healthcare workers. That's what you have to say. You don't sound. You. Don't sound like an ass when the world is bad and you feel like personally, you're doing kind of okay for the listeners you have to when you said that you put on a a white influence. Sir. Kind of screen writing. Right, she's got like A. LINK TO TUMMY T At the bottom high. For responders. Yeah. I'm a little different I. Don't do flat Tummy. T do tummy team for if you have time. Okay. Well, that's what I'm drinking to. Drink All the time. Okay. I'm drinking too much time T. Donny, you are famously living in the desert A. Wondering. What is it? Like you know? Andy, and I are a real city mice will. And you had said before you know your closest neighbor's a mile away. How often do you feel like you're in a horror movie? What is happening in the desert when the sun goes down? It's beautiful. There are coyote I like to say, imagine all the things that scare you in the city. But in the in the wilderness where they belong, they are happy and well-fed look like coyotes. They're not coming after you in Los Angeles, a coyote that is a gang member and that is. In the wilderness where he lives and thrives and works and eats like they're. They're sweet little pups that run around. I've seen a road runner out here. It's what those are real. The things that. While the things that scare me in the city are cops. Other people. Traffic coyotes are on that list because I encountered one. And when when we first got Mabel and I took her out for a walk, she started snarling I'm like, what are you snarling at? And I look over and there's a coyote just standing there like looking at it and I'm like, oh. What do I do? I mean in the city I, don't know I don't fuck with city coyotes I. Don't know what you're supposed to do with them. Supposed to ask them if they need a ride. They're desperate like you're right though like if a coyote has got yahoo like our driveway shits gone wrong that coyote. So yeah, that's bad things exactly that guy coyotes road desperate and will do anything for a hot meal. I would say they'll like walking down a dark driveway like seeing to glistening is. Fairly terrifying. Yeah, I'm with you. I guess, I don't see a lot of glistening is out here. But even if I did, there's nothing out here that wants to harm me like in general the things out here. Just Kinda don't want me around, but I'm not invading their space because I'm like one little house. There's not a bunch of houses that have displaced the local, whatever population you know it's just like. The roadrunners deal with me. We saw Bob cat about a month ago, Bob Cabinet selling down. Okay. For everyone. Have now Andy. You mentioned cops, I ain't seen one of those. Last, time I saw one was when I was in Los. Angeles. So. You're winning. How? Scary isn't it? Must be us at twenty twenty. What's more terrifying? A BOB cat or police person, police, Burson. Lease Carson. Indeed. So you know you are someone who we I always feel like. You know you're very busy. You're working. You've got your projects. Are, you sort of enjoying having a little downtime in the desert. You know what? I mean someone who's like I need to be working on stuff. I. Don't know how to have this forced down. You, it's. It's neither or it's I. Guess. It's not that I don't know how to have the force downtime. It's like well, now that television can't film now that no one can ask me to be anywhere at four am to come to work. Now. I have time to do all those things that I was doing anyway. So. I mean I'm I'm truly doing well, trying not to sound like a real jerk, but I'm like this is giving me time to write music and record a bunch of music. This is giving me time to. Work on our house, like my husband's just like a ranch hand out here. He just likes builds this whole house and property and and we love it because we're not like. Okay. But I gotta get to Santa Monica, four am to shoot one scene and then come back you know, right? We're okay for now. Wait. So Tony, it's just you and your husband in the middle of the desert. Kind of. Way What's your question? I WANNA say. It's. A vote, the trope of horror films before. But I'm thinking more of like a bottle episode, but it's your life. You. Are there other people there? Well. Okay. So we have a housemate. And we have a big property here, and so if instagram I was building that little airstream trailer out, it's actually an avian trailer, whatever. So we did that so that we could have a safe place for people to escape the city. But like still be socially distant because it's totally away from the house and it has its own kitchen and stuff. So we have had like my bandmates came and stayed there for like three weeks..
"newsome" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"Laugh and laugh because you know all excellent storytellers But I also definitely took notice of May only recommendation of the Ben and Jerry's. Ice Cream. Now I am been Jerry, Stan because they have been about black lives, matter how ship and kind of putting their money towards college they believe in for quite some time. So I do him by the ice cream, but I had never had been looking cookies varietal. So because I'm still avoiding stores I added 'cause I've seen tonight Amazon fresh card and couldn't wait to dig in. So cut. Cut To June, Teens, I'm wearing my fiance, t shirt listening to an episode of couples therapy. I'm headed to the kitchen to get my ice cream than I. Get another fixation. That'd be onstage a new song by prayed. So I'm always I hit play. Of course, it's Cultural Bah, and then the that's awesome. Mood Brady from my ice cream and what do I see crawling on my kitchen floor arrose? Now. I have lived in my house for two years and I have never seen a roach actually spray inside and outside everything my avoided situations. So I was horrified. So I don't know I'm accusing y'all as being responsible for this atrocity or been or Jerry. But I guess my civic duty to warn other couple therapy listening to the QC about the curse of the Ben and Jerry's. Ice Cream. How it might summit a Roach so y'All been warned. Okay. What y'all by. Okay. Wow. Okay. Wow, Ryan came through with a very strong stance. I will I do not believe we are culpable. Richie, that's the we can actually. Connect. But you see Ryan called us with that. We listen to it. We put it on the show. So the point is give us whatever you got. Three two, three, five, two, four, seven, eight, three, nine, we are in a dialogue, we're a community. This is a friendship. That's right. We are building community. We're GONNA, eventually, move to. START, our own Commun-. Oh, good God. No. Not that one. Why don't we just get to Tony? Yeah. This is great role at. Taty. Hello. How are you? I? Know How you are because we.
"newsome" Discussed on Couples Therapy
"Open your hearts loosen your butts. It is time for a couples therapy you. Yeah. This. Is. Where they can both thank with whom he's talking. With brunches and cousin linked to messy situations, conscious uncoupling from Netflix. Hulu Tech Sex. Regret Sophie. Your new, Jubal. Even, therapy a baby weekday. You. Whoever? Therapy. My name is Andy and I am now me and we are a real life couple. COUPLE OF COMEDIANS and couple's therapy in quarantine. We talked to good friends and great comedians about Love Romance and then we answer your advice questions and this one is no exception. This was a fun one dear, friend you've already heard her voice. No, absolutely, no exception is in fact, the opposite of an exception is par for the course. This par for the course. It's amazing. It's old pal tawny newsome. You've heard her on the show before you've also see millions of comedy. Fan I fawn over he found. In this because before we even moved out here, it was a fan of hers right from the Jillion Dollar Properties and Comedy Bang. Bang, you also know her from her podcast with our other pal Andrew t IOS as racist Rock Meyer space, force on Netflix, and now now, just from last week NAM, just debut just dropped just drive bs all access star trek lower deck's animated show about Star Trek, Tani's voicing giving me life giving me representation. Loving. Every second. I'm very excited for an animated Star Trek that won't put me to sleep ooh. I was a kid. There was animated star. Trek, the original series. Sunday afternoons on. NICKELODEON I. Put It on taken that. Put It on. Take a nap. I'm excited for one to be funny and exciting and voiced by awesome people. Y Tawny a star Trek. That'll make you stay woke. That's that's that should be their tagline. You guys before we get to our lovely conversation with Tony. Just a reminder. You can always hit us up. Join US on twitch. We're on twitch every Wednesday at two. PM T five pm es sometimes with guests. Sometimes, just US doing bits doing Naomi's fan favorites, segment. Naomi. Hates you know I got a lot to say you guys join the UC. The couple's therapy quarantine crew. It is a wonderful our where we take a break, we have some fun take late lunch of you're at work, leave your spouse or partner over roommates leave. Part. Altogether. Them in another room and then you go watch but also leave together. I don't know. Don't don't listen to me. Why would I ever say that I wanted to be happy. The boy is twitch dot TV slash couples therapy pod again, two PM t five, PM ESPN every Wednesday we're streaming also. As. We are doing in quarantine. Every episode now is a almost every episode is an advice episode. You would like to ask your own advice questions, you can do it..
"newsome" Discussed on Scam Goddess
"Good names. But obviously both were Shams Jennifer Lewis sued the gym and settled out of court for thirteen thousand dollars, according to Daily Mail in addition to falsely claiming because basically what she was saying in her interview was that he got the job the Jim because he had targeted in for Lewis because he had found out that she worked out at this gym, so then he winning membership because he was trying to get next to her. So in addition to falsely claiming to have won. Academy, Award Wilson also claim to be an Oxford University professor and a US Navy. Seal, Bra, you were. Have you gave yourself a real accomplished life for working to elevators? No shade if you work in La fitness, it's no shade in like. Saying. You'd be Oxford it in London and you were professor, and you're US Navy seal. It just would seem like you have enough. other skill sets not necessarily warrant working at a gym, right? It's like he added to many things and I. Know You talked about this a lot like scammers? They just be like the giving you too much information. Because why is he going to be like all these things and then like I? It's just too much. It's like Oh, I'm also the Prince of Monaco and my dad is Desmond Tutu and I invented post its. Also have sailboat what? It is. Our things about a man to write I've dated for three months I don't know these things, so we'll use the money to pay for credit card, debt and personal expenses. He had previously served four years in prison for tax, evasion and wire fraud, so he's a career scammer. He faces up to twenty years during the sentence Antonio. Do not applaud the scam. I know you're scammer of the week. But. It's not for a good reason you scanned queen. It Ain't right. It's not right and I know that brings lacy, no joy to not support one of her good scammers, but You pushed us too far. I'm deployed this week not this week. Not You're not gonNA mess with a black area, not a matriarch this week, sir. A pillar of the community. The and I made sure to pronounce all of those Yes but community. By pronounced every continent. You heard. M's. In Community I'm going to add some more continente APO- okay. Like no, I can't believe you. Antonio you Ain Right. You Ain't right. Don't Appro- and on that note. We have reached the end of another episode as always guys if you are doing armed robbery. You WANNA email us. We will never say oh. Name, and we will delete you before the feds come. Scam got pod Djamil, DOT COM, if you want to reach out to us, got his pod on twitter and on instagram. If you WanNa, find me in whatever antics I'm up to D. I. V. A. L. S. D.. Lacy on all platforms, guys, tiny nuisance in a hot new NETFLIX show would Steve Corral and the girls and the late Fred. Willard who is so hilarious, so this is your last time to see him girls. I'm pretty sure space force on Net Blix. It is out now and tawny. Where would you like to be down? And what else would you like to plug? Oh, my Lord I'd like to found safe in my house, and I'd like you to all be found there as well just save an inside because the world is crazy and bad right now. No, but thank you Thank you, Lacey. This was delightful You can find me online I'm at Toronto Newman, or you can put tawny newsome and there's no other ones you'll find me My hair will be different all the time, so if you don't that you. Maybe you won't find me and then you'll learn some things. But. I don't know I feel crazy, but this was really nice to talk to you and to and to learn about. Some. Cool hoodwinked also Yo. Is this racist on Ear Wolf Guys? If you enjoy the fact, that I'm black on here and you like hearing about black themes or want to become more educated about not even just black things, it's also hosted by enter t who is a Asian men of color. If you WANNA, hear their amazing show on your wolf US racist as well. Sorry Taty I'm doing all your blood's A. Better energy than I do I've been at so funny I've been so looking forward to this episode with you and then I came on and I was like. The world, but but no, so thank you for. Your, this is a testament to black women rallying for y'all guy 'cause our should is on fire, but we are still making this content for Y'all because we love you and we're here for you, so go ahead and leader for us honey, and specially when we can do it together. That's the whole reason. Here is for Ms Lacy for y'All's Queen. This is one of. Read shows. You are doing it. You are keeping me entertained on a lot of airplane rides, so thank you, thank you. I love you. Guys, please if you have any coins to spare, even if you don't if you can just share information about black lives matter. They're sharing all the places that you can donate to help. What's happening right now? The Minneapolis refund like we are really trying to make some change. 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"newsome" Discussed on Scam Goddess
"Lazy. Thank you so much. Weird delay, it could have been wrong, but you probably got it. It's newsome feel like I've never say your last name I know you. We have to solve with Tony like I. Never really say your last name. Yeah. You don't really need the I don't really know many other Tony's so we don't need it. It's a good name. It's a really lacy. We're pretty rare. I rarely meet a Lacey Lacey Duval sheep buck game. Lacy Peterson that was an. Let's go I know Lacey. I know a white lacy who used to teach spin classes in my old neighborhood, but then she got fired for yelling at a white man. And that's all I'm going to say about that. She I think I like that Lacey. I think I like Bill Lacey. We was on her side she did she did yell at him real hard, but also like he was wild. So I'm with that Lacey Lacey is I know personally I'm with. Yes I can't I've only gotten to really yell at somebody real hard like twice in my life and boy can I tell you it's liberating. Remember just because the Montreal. They 'cause. They deserved it. They deserved it I dated once, and unfortunately the circumstances weren't great, because I was outside a business a theater. We won't say which and there was a valet line and I started cursing news heff. Zao So bad the valet. Clinton at the end. I need to go home. Hell Yeah. That's what we call a command performance. They're saying rob. Aw! Blah Blah I know they are not drilling right now. Oh, my God I will beat. My neighbors asses, okay. We are at home. You also hear some drilling dot. Don't email. Do not call and certainly do not tweet about it. Okay doing the best. We can't be out. But especially in these trying times, if y'all some issues with some sound quality on a black woman's podcast right now you need to reexamine. Take a beep reexamine straight up repression. We've been out here in the streets. For you yours and everybody. But. Yeah, Girl, how are you? I mean I know that you know this I. Don't mean mean to make it heavy, but I just haven't gotten to like talk to you. Talk to you and I got a check in with my black people. How are you yeah? I mean I'm hanging in there yesterday like this'll. This'll come out on I believe. June ninth, so this'll be a week. So where are we in the future now? Guys Woo so ago, It was pretty rough I went to protest I was very sore. Honey they don't tell you like Martin. Luther King dim protests. That's a workout Hannie Okay and when they said they marched on Washington I don't know which millennials they would've been able to pull up to march on Washington honey 'cause I was like Ooh, ten miles in. I was like. Oh, we still march. Okay? Yeah, no justice, no peace. Rough word. It is and people who really take it for granted because you know, you just see pictures, and you think people are just post in, but we were out there, chanting and screaming in the Sun, marching in the people I met were so lovely, and you know some people brought some drums, and some people drove with some music, so it was Kinda Lady Nina got very scary So. Yeah. I was kind of I. was following your stuff a lot along with some other friends and I was like. Yeah I. Liked your coverage like you're a reporter at saying. The things you were posting I found interesting, so thank you for Thank you for being there. Of course quaid and I mean I have asthma, so I definitely shouldn't have my little black s out there and my mother call my mother during the process because I'm not just go find out. These pitch. She was like. She was like. Go there I'm. Going to be out there. Was Not pleased Lorie monopolies, but I think everyone needs to really recognize the Gravitas of people being out in the streets. When there's a pandemic, that's overwhelmingly disproportionately affecting black and Brown people and we're still out here in the streets, because that's how critical the situation is, so you know we ain't gonNA keep. We're not gonNA. Hold down. You know this podcast is about liberty, light, anti, but also black as reminder. Yeah, Yeah Yeah Yeah. I was like I was like I. Know This not what this podcast is about, but I have canceled like all other press, because I was just like I can't talk to anybody, but some black people right now because it's just hard, it's it's hard so I'm excited to be here with you. Some bullshit for a minute. I know we've been trying to do this for awhile, and it has been my fucked up schedule. That has kept it from happening. Now. It's all good. You know I'm supposed to be in Georgia right now, so. You know everybody. Everybody's everybody's. You know having it time. But yes Sanni so let's get into our first segment. What's hot and fried so I I? Want to ask you just look question like. Do you have me relationship scams? Have you ever been scammed? You know I was raised by a very tough mom, who taught me to be on the lookout for Shenanigans and taught me to keep my wits about me. I have I will say this I have never been pick pocketed. I have never been mugged. I have and A. A lot of that is luck. A lot of that is my height and my stature. I'm not a small woman so I am less likely to be grabbed or to be for people to try and pull some shit with me, but also like. My head is on a swivel honey to the point where I look crazy when I travel. I look I'm just I'm the I'm the paranoid friend you want with you on a crowded train in a country. You've never been to before. and. They would've been spotted if you were taking your. Damn you would have been. With him in the. I. was. A? I am a little like I'm a little bit of a vigilante in that way just because like I can see..
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"Hey everyone and welcome to another paid for Friday episode where we highlight people that we feel are doing a great job of Polish leadership content resonates with us. We will include links to their work and tag them on our post to make sure that they know we appreciate them. This is our way to say thanks to other leaders and individuals that are having a positive impact on helping others become better leaders through sharing your thoughts opinions and ideas online for all to see and hear Chris. I have always wanted to use our platform to advocate for other people passionate about leadership and our listeners much content as possible to help sharpen their own skills through different perspectives and approaches. If you like US check out any one specific please tag him in the comments or send us a message with links to their content on this episode. I WANNA recognize Sean. Newsom SEAN is a season retail manager is open to new opportunities with this pandemic. We've seen a lot of people impacted especially in retail now. I could go on for hours about people who lead retail stores in their connection to their people and their loyalty to their companies and their ability to manage. Pnl's present on performance calls deal with HR issues and exceed customer expectations. But that would just be the tip of the iceberg on what most retailers are capable of the reason I wanted to highlight. Shauna is because of how she is handling her current situation. I saw one of her most recent posts and even with the uncertainty of her organization and her job. She was recognizing her team for the hard work they were doing. It was genuine because after checking out her content came across opposed that she shared a wild bag and it read and I quote when I started my new role store manager of a new store at a new company. I not only had to learn an entire new process and new procedures but new employees as well like every new store manager. I began assessing my employees from the beginning. I listen to feedback from the former store manager as well as conducting daily observations one of the quote unquote week performers. I quickly assessed was simply in the wrong role. I moved this young lady to a new role within the store. And she is now flourishing beyond words. The moral of the story is treat your employees like they matter and like their work matters and give them a job that speaks to them and you will be amazed the outcome. So if anyone in the Paynesville Kentucky Wise Virginia and Logan West Virginia area is look for talent. Checkout Shawna's links in the episode notes for everyone else check out her content for some uplifting positive leadership. Great Job Shawna and thanks for helping others to Hashtag be a better leader. Thanks for listening and let us know who else deserves.