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"mary max store" Discussed on The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

07:59 min | 5 months ago

"mary max store" Discussed on The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

"Good morning good afternoon. Good evening wherever you find yourself in this entire world. I welcome you. So how are you doing my friend by warrior. I certainly hope this week finds you well. I would like you to visit my store the mary max store where you'll find lovely gifts for yourself in another bereaved friend or relative especially our i remember collection partial proceeds from everything that is sold in this store. Goose to help support the foundation for grieving children inc which i established many years ago. I also want to acknowledge. The citizens of india as cove it has taken on another surge. Please know that last year. When we were first struggling with this in america i created several episodes specifically on this and i will leave the exact episode numbers in the show. Notes for you and please. Now i'm thinking of you and sending you much love today. I'd like to discuss the intellectual challenges that occur after a loved one staff. Now we might feel confusion like our brain is fuzzy. We have an inability to concentrate at times. We get preoccupied and find ourselves daydreaming and staring off into space. We can experience hallucinations whereby we might be sitting somewhere and feel like we can actually see our loved ones in the room with us for those who have experienced this although it may be startling and brings great sense of comfort or we feel their presence in different ways. A few years after my husband's store was murdered. We were invited to the home of louisa whose daughter maria had been murdered also and was a member of our support group as we enjoyed tasty that sunday afternoon. A front door slowly opened as we all looked up. Our hostess replied. Oh that's just maria coming into join us and it was obvious how comforting this was for louisa now. Some may find this unsettling but not her guests. It was her way of acknowledging her daughter's presence in to the room she told us later that ever since maria was killed this had been happening on a regular basis. She would be sitting in the room reading or knitting and all of a sudden. The inner door would unlock and slowly swing open while the screen door would stay in place and she gained great comfort from that now. Some of my personal challenges was it fell like a fog. Was there a sense of feeling that fog for so long. I had become less mentally strong. I was losing my emotional strain and it was necessary to become mentally strong again to handle the pressures of high level jobs and the people in those companies who i might be working with or leading. It can be hard to concentrate and focus. You might even feel confused at times. Either in your thoughts or while working it can be unsettling. Because you're asking yourself what's really real. Nanny of us have experienced this especially in the. We have a hard time with our work. Yes we know our work. We may have been doing it for a long while but now we feel like it's a much greater challenge to do than before we try our best to act like we have everything. In order at work we put on the mask to make everyone think all is okay but underneath. We may feel concerned that we aren't fooling anyone and we struggled to produce the matter. We once dead. Our thoughts seem so fuzzy. We might even struggle to get through the day and when we finally get home from work we are exhausted mentally and physically and unfortunately we have other family responsibilities to which doesn't give us the time we need to take care of ourselves. Will i want you to know that. This is natural and normal in the beginning of our grading process. We are in shock and there is a bubble with surrounds us. It is there to keep saying it is there to protect us from the trauma we are experiencing after our loved one staff. You might feel as though you are living in that fog going through daily activities and sometimes not aware of how you got there or how you finish the task either at work or at home how you drove all the way to work and you don't remember any of it it may seem surreal to you and if this is your first loss you might not understand what is going on but i want you to know that this is what happens when we are shocked to our core and it will take many months for this fog to be lifted and the sad part. Is that when this fog is lifted. You may feel even worse because you won't be able to deny now what has happened. The reality will set in. And you can't lie to yourself any longer. Your loved one really is dead. They will not be coming home to you. They really won't be coming in the door for dinner. They really won't be waking up next to you. They really won't be next to you in life to build the plans you both chose together and because you've been living in the bubble or fog for many months chances are you don't do anything more than what is expected of you. You don't socialize much. You might have tried to keep up with your college classes. Bhai founded quite hard. You might have decided to not take those hobby classes. You wanted to just now. You might have decided joined crewe right now with much too much for you. So your brain really took a hiatus. It needed it. It needed to just be still and try to comprehend all that has happened. It needed to focus on only the essential tasks. Which is all you felt..

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"mary max store" Discussed on The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

08:13 min | 6 months ago

"mary max store" Discussed on The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

"Good morning good afternoon. Good evening wherever you find yourself in this entire world. I welcome you. So how are you doing. My friend my warrior. I certainly hope this week has given you a little more sense of peace. So today i wanted to share something with you a new site just four podcast so the address is www dot the mary. Mac show dot com appropriately. And i hope you'll take a moment to go there and see the new site and please do subscribe in the upper right hand corner to the podcast platform that you prefer. And also to rate and review the podcast. I know we have people from sixty different countries around the world. And i'd love to know how this has helped you. We have received wonderful reviews from ferry loyal listeners. And i wanna thank them so much for taking the time to review the podcast next. I wanted to remind you that. The mary max store has some beautiful products for yourself and others who are bereaved to give them as gifts or for yourself. So thank you for taking some time to look at that and you can find that at store. Mary mack died info sooner today. I like to talk to you about decisions. That should wait now. What do i mean by that. Well there are things in life that may need attending to after the data of someone very close to you. But i don't want you to do them quickly. Some of those choices are moving to a new home making decisions about their possessions deciding when to return to work for yourself or perhaps getting a new job finding a new location a completely new city or town that you might want to move to major financial merv such as selling your home and how you going to invest the proceeds of perhaps a life insurance policy. That was left her. You also what about all the investments you do have. And how would you like to handle those moving forward. You'd also need to create a new will for yourself especially if one of your children have died. Or if you've lost a spouse you might need a trust now and also a d. r. order. Do not resuscitate for yourself so these are certain things that will address today. But you have to remember that grief takes great toll on us. Not just our emotions also. Our physical body are spiritual sense and also the financial areas of our life. We need to tread lightly and care for ourselves. We need to be gentle with ourselves. We need to realize that most decisions we make after such a difficult loss will take time and consideration and that doesn't mean they should be handled overnight. We wouldn't want it to. There are many changes. That happened for us. After we've lost someone. Our relationships with the people in our lives can change. We might feel that. We are grieving in a different way than they are any different periods of time. You may be walking on eggshells around your husband ever since. Her child died because one day. You're happy and the next day you're not and then the reverse happens for him. Your priorities change your interest even change and goals. You have that you one set with your spouse they no longer exist and now you have to look at your goals again. They may be completely different now. You might find that you enjoy tiffen friendships than your traditional ones. People that you might have met. Ed support group tend to bring you more happiness. They understand you better and so your relationships will change. Also your routines change. If you're taking care of your spouse. And he was dying. There was a long stretch there when you were the caregiver and now that responsibility and that routine is no longer needed and there's a sense of asking yourself who am i right now. I used to be a spouse. I used to be a wife or a husband. I used to be a caregiver and now who am. I really don't know anymore and the routines that we had before how we gave them the medication and when we bring them outside and when they will be bathed all of those things are no longer there for you. They're not a priority. Obviously that's not something you need to attend to any longer. And also when a spouse dies or a family member we take on different responsibilities. We may not have taken on earlier for instance if you were not the person who handled all the finances then you need to learn that skill if you were in the one who drove all around you might have to learn that skill. Also i remember. When my aunt became a widow my uncle pete he would be the one who trove them everywhere and she had to relearn how to drive which helped her with. I was glad to do it. She needed to be independent. She needed to know that she could go wherever she needed to go by herself safely. And that was important to me if you were wife or husband and it was your partner. Who was the breadwinner. And that was your decision. Someone stayed home with the young children. Then maybe since their death you need to reevaluate what needs to be done. Maybe the children need to go in daycare. Because you need to go back to work for yourself to bring in enough money for the family now. The death of a family member cambrian gray changes in your financial world. You might have also received social security benefits for both of you at least here in the states or a pension of some kind from companies or utilities or even government agencies that you worked for and those pensions mako away. Now that the person who brought in that pension money is no longer here..

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"mary max store" Discussed on The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

06:21 min | 7 months ago

"mary max store" Discussed on The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

"Good morning good afternoon. Good evening wherever you find yourself in this entire world. I welcome you. So how are you doing. My friend my warrior. Are you doing well this week. I certainly hope so as you may know. We now have the mary. Max store where you will find creative products and gifts for yourself and others who are greeting a loved one staff. I like to tell you about our. I remember t shirts which we designed to honor those who were taken too soon. They each have beautiful logos and they provide you the ability to speak about your loved one whenever someone asks you who you are remembering. Partial proceeds from all sales of our store help fund the foundation for grieving children inc an organization that i established many years ago. The first national nonprofit public charity of its kind to assist children teens and young adults who are grieving. The death of a loved one. I hope you'll visit store dot mary. Mack dot info and some tease for yourself and those you love who are grieving. So today i'd like to talk to you about how to handle your birthday after someone special in your life has died. What do we do. where do we go. What will make us feel a little bit better as we approach our special day each year when we feel pain and our yearning fred them since they are no longer with us. Maybe it's your first birthday after their death. Maybe it's your second third fourth fifth tenth even more and whether you will celebrate with many family or friends there may still be that twinge in your heart that they are not with you today. You might also be thinking about birthdays. You spent with them long ago and the presence they gave you and how much they meant to you. If you were married you're a member your first date your first. Kiss your wedding. The birth of children you had together and you're many anniversaries and you might also be thinking about your vacation trips together and how much fun you had with them. How you laugh together and kid each other and how you got through all the struggle together you wonder what they would be like at this point near life. What kind of relationship you have with them. Would it be just as good as it was when they died. Would it be better or would it be as difficult or more difficult than it was when they were alive. There's no need to sugar coated. We both know that there are just some relationships that aren't as good as others and we must not fool ourselves into believing that a very stressful difficult relationship that we might have had with them will now somehow become just glorious but some of ice tend to do that. We glorify relationship that was very painful and try to make ourselves believed that it was more than it was and if that is the case we need not make ourselves feel guilty. We just need to recognize that we are doing this. There is simply nothing that can change the type of relationship we shared with them. If it was good it makes us feel wonderful yet. If it wasn't as good as we would have preferred that is just reality. We are unable to have the perfect relationship with every person at our life. That's just the way it is so when they die. It's very easy for us to try to make up this great relationship in our mind but that doesn't mean that it was so so now let's look at how we can honor ourself on her own birthday. The question is what exactly would make you happy today. Now for some. That is a loaded question because you might be saying to me. But mary. There is nothing i can do. That will me happy right now to which i would respond. And why not do you think your loved one would want you to sit all alone in your home network trading yourself to some fun or a dinner out or to try a new recipe and make this day memorable for you. Where did you get the idea that when they died you had to die too and i know it's probably crushed your mind at least once more than likely several times and i'm here to tell you it's perfectly fine to think that but i never want you to act upon. I want you to consider what would actually make you happy today. And if you aren't listening to this on your exact birthday if your birthday is coming up soon that gives you even more time to plan something for yourself now. If you have wonderful friends you can count on to help you. Execute your desired plans for your big day. Thin include.

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"mary max store" Discussed on The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

07:07 min | 8 months ago

"mary max store" Discussed on The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

"Good morning good afternoon. Good evening wherever you find yourself in this entire world. I welcome you. So how are you doing. My friend my warrior. I certainly hope this week has brought you a little bit more peace. So i i wanted to thank you for all your support your notes of support for our new store the merrimack store. We've had listeners telling us how much they appreciate having something so special for themselves or as a gift for others who are grieving. We're especially excited to share that. We have t shirts not only for adults for children who are grieving and that was really important to me. And if you didn't know the mary. Max stores main intention is to help fund the foundation for grieving children which i established many years ago. I wanted something that would always plant dollars into the foundation for its work to benefit young people who have experienced the death of a loved one. So thank you for your purchases and your love and please share the merrimack store with all your family and friends. You can find it at mary. Mack dot info and look for the tab at the top that simply says store so today. In part two of disenfranchised grief. I like to continue with my thoughts on this subject to certain types of relationships. 'cause this complicated grief whether it's a boss perhaps who's married and who's having an affair with another married co worker. When he dies she simply can't openly proclaim her feelings for him and of course she needs to harbor her grief inside trying desperately to act as if nothing is wrong. How does she handle. This could also be a female. Mary co worker. Who dies and her married. Male colleague is great stricken or even one party was married and the other was not the point is that the survivor is heartbroken and needs desperately to act like the person who died which just another colleague to them even when a pet is killed. People make us feel. We're crazy for being so affected by their death. This was a for baby who made your life so wonderful. They were there for you every day when you woke up when you came home even when they slept with you they traveled with you and you loved walking them and suddenly they were taken from you. You're in shock. How could this happen and on top of it. Your family and friends really don't understand your pain and why you were so affected and can't stop sobbing. Sometimes you even endured the death of an adult sibling and people think it's normal for this to happen and you shouldn't be so sorrowful. why is that about. As i mentioned last week you might have endured the suicide death of a family member or friend. Maybe they overdosed on drugs or murder among others and you feel their judgment. Which stops you from sharing your feelings. The problem with suffering in silence is that you don't have the support when you need it. Most bottling up intense feelings often lead to a deep sense of resentment not to mention all the stress can take a toll on your body which can make you vulnerable to illness when you can express yourself openly. It's hard to move through the grieving process. Disenfranchise grave can produce anxiety shame depression insomnia misuse of drugs and alcohol and stomach pain. It can also cause problems with focusing on your work and everyday tasks and obligations emotional overwhelm and mood swings and problems in relationships. You might feel guilty for their relationship you shared and now you're feeling overwhelming grief. People may be wondering why you're having such reaction to their death. You might be walking on eggshells trying to show your pain if you can confide in others. Who already knew of your loss and pain then do so but if nine you can create rituals to help as well as these suggestions develop a box with all the cards gifts memorabilia that you share together to go back to later on. At least you'll know it's altogether in one place and safe. You might write a good bye letter which you can attached to a balloon or place in your special box. You might make a collage of photos that you shared and freenet hold a lovely memorial in a significant place for you plan to bush or a flowering plant or tree in their honor. Light a candle in a certain place in your home just for them. Visit the cemetery long after the funeral. You might also ask for what you need from others that you trust why you're feeling is natural and normal. All grief is messy. And sometimes in cases of disenfranchised grief it's even messier it's important to be wise whom you share this pain with so. Please be cautious. Let's look at a few other ways to help yourself if you want to attend a bereavement support group to express your pain. You can always find one several towns away where no one knows who.

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"mary max store" Discussed on The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

06:15 min | 8 months ago

"mary max store" Discussed on The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

"Good morning good afternoon. Good evening wherever you find yourself in this entire world i welcome you. Hello my friend my warrior. How you doing this week. I certainly hope it was much better than last week. I'd like to share with you. That this past monday on january eleventh two thousand and twenty one at one eleven pm. I launched my brand new store. The mary max store something that i've wanted to do for a very long time. And which has taken me many many months and my team a great deal of work to be able to launch this new store specifically to provide beautifully creative gifts for those who are grieving. The death of a loved one. Now where the data for yourself or others that you know. We're putting together different collections of gifts that. I think you'll really enjoy. That will be really special to give to another person and to have for yourself to enjoy everything from t shirts and mugs and other products as we move along but we have three new collections. And the one. I'd like to tell you about. Today is the heart of gold collection. The heart of gold collection. And that's what i call it. That's the logo that we created for the foundation for grieving children inc and this is an organization. I started many years ago so that we could raise funds for grieving children teens and young adults who are grieving. The death of a loved one. And it's the first nonprofit national public charity of its kind. We help build resources and we help raise funds said that organizations can increase their capacity to help their children and can develop new programs and sustain themselves especially now since so many donations are down and some of these organizations which used to help children face to face are now relying on virtual meetings. So i knew that we would need to build something that would sustain the foundation. And that's why built the mary. Macs store so partial proceeds from everything i've ever done and from every sale in this collection and every sale. No matter what you purchase on the website will go toward the foundation to help keep it running and to sustain it over the years ahead. Please go to my website at mary. Mack dot info and go to the top tab you'll see the word store and just click on it and it'll bring you there and you can see all the products that we're featuring at the beginning now and as time goes on we'll add more products and i hope you really enjoy and use it and find something lovely to give to another person or even yourself to comfort you while you're craving the death of a loved one and that would just means so much to me and to take the comment section on my website or the comments section on the store and let me know what you think. I'd love to hear your reactions. So thanks for listening. I hope you'll go look at it. It's called the mary max store i'm really happy with it and i hope you will be two. We put a lot of hard work into this and do please share it with people you know who might benefit from it and even companies that might like to purchase some products for their employees are grieving. Thank you my friend and bless you for sharing and spreading the word far and wide about my new store. The mary store so today. I liked to talk to you about what happens when we rely on other people who said they would be there for us during our grieving process and slowly slowly walkaway. What's that all about. Why did they do that. Why did they promise is that they would help us and they are there any longer we think family and friends will be there for us over the long hong after a loved one staff and during the funeral people promise us many things they let us know that if we need anything they'll be there for us they'll bring food and they'll send flowers to the funeral home and they may even attend the wake they come to our house a few times and they'll text us and call us and see if we need anything from time to time but they also promised they would be there for us if we needed anything. Well.

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"mary max store" Discussed on The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

04:01 min | 9 months ago

"mary max store" Discussed on The Mary Mac Show | Grieving After a Loved One's Death

"In this entire world. I welcome you well my friends my warriors. I am so excited to let you know about a new thing that we've developed launch today and that is the mary max store. We developed this through the pandemic with the intention of using this as a platform to raise funds for the foundation for grieving children inc. Many years ago. I realized that it would really be necessary to develop a vehicle so that the foundation would be sustained and funds would be coming in on a regular basis so that the work of wonderful people around the world who helped grieving children teens and young adults. After they've experienced the death of a loved one would be able to be continued for many years. Now profits from my books and my speaking have always gone to the foundation. That i started many years ago and now with the mary mack shop or i should say store. We're able to have a viable functioning website and ecommerce website where everyone can come purchase products for either themselves if they're grieving or for those who they love who are grieving. We have a few themes which. I'm very proud of the first. One is a heart of gold collection. The next one is a floating american flag collection and the last is an american heart collection. Now i realized my voice carries over fifty three countries and the american flag might not be your thing but the heart of gold can be available to anywhere anyone anywhere. Excuse me and. I think that you'll really appreciate it. Because remembering someone who we loved is always forefront in our minds and this will be a lovely way to wear shirt that says i remember with the logo of the foundation. There's also hoodies and mugs and we expect to have many more products in the future but today on one eleven two thousand and twenty one at one eleven p m eastern time. We launched our new site. And i hope you will take a look at it. I hope you will really enjoy it. And i will keep you posted our new items and new designs so you can find our store at h. T. t. p. s. Stop colon double slash store dot mary. Mack dot info. And if you can't remember that's perfectly fine. Just go to my site. Mary mack dot info. And you will see a tab at the top that will bring you directly over there. I thank you so much for listening today. I'm so excited about this store. I think it will bring great comfort to people who are grieving. The death of a loved one. And i'm doing everything. I know how to bring more money into the foundation on a regular basis and if you purchase products or if you share the store with others so they can purchase products. It will really help the foundation to be able to give more gifts to work in his asians that help grieving children teens and young.

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