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Dennis Prager Podcasts
Surprising Results From Latest 2024 Presidential Poll
"You want the single digit brigades? Biden 25 Sanders 17, Michelle ten, among Democrats, you who's your first choice for 2024. 9% Pete Buttigieg, 8% Elizabeth Warren, 4% AOC, 4% Amy Klobuchar, 3% Gavin Newsom, 2% Kamala, wow. 2% for the sitting vice president. 2% RFK junior 2% Gretchen Whitmer, 1% Stacey Abrams, I did meet a chuckle. 1% Raphael Warnock, 1% Mary Ann Williamson, other 2% don't know not sure 8%. And this was when would this have been? This was taken poll taken April 13 to 17. So we'll call it last week. And this goes along with every other poll that we've been talking about in terms of how things can change. Of course, things are going to change. Biden's prospects will either rise or fall based on his ability to complete sentences in the English language, stay awake during campaign appearances, or whether he's able to even able to make campaign appearances at all. His
WGN Radio
"mary ann" Discussed on WGN Radio
"We could get a TV to hook up to the computer. But I always either sometimes I go on the computer and I go and I look on YouTube. Same thing on my phone. I just watch little snippets of things or shows or prayers. I find everything on my phone. Yeah. Well, if you can see the phone that's great. But I do that on computer where we'll look at the screen, of course. As wonderful. Yeah. I do that too And I just have, I have a V a little TV for VHS. I mean, that's fine for me. I don't even watch hardly, you know, the local stations, and that's actually virtual now. It's not VHS after TV repack. They all moved. But sure. It's not really, well, it's upset my dad got, but I just couldn't watch. I think well, I don't know how to do the DVD thing. But I can watch my VHS tapes. So that's good for me. Absolutely. But okay, and I know, okay, the 21st is one. We write the check. And on the 19th, we have Mary Ann, so we'll talk a bit about the 19th. But you know, all of the girls, you know, Tracy and the show, he happened to, I don't know, they were cleaning in the house again. And they had brought a radio rondo head. Uh huh. So I plugged it in on the table in the kitchen. And then he has like for DVDs. So it's perfect. CDs, TVs. So wonderful. Right. Yes it is. But you know, it's been rough, but you do. You hold us all up. You've been so wonderful just you know, we've got a problem and especially it's been oh boy, I've been up and down and up and down and I still just don't believe everything, everything is just going by so fast. I mean, you know, and I try like you say not to look at the big picture. You can't. It'll absolutely paralyze you if you look at the big picture. I mean, it's just, you know, one minute, you know, all these years you've been with someone. I've never been and now, and it's so, you know, I try to keep myself together, Raleigh. Of course. And some days it's easier than others. Right, I know. And the worst part is using the worst part is that you don't need some more Raleigh. Here in my helper. We went upstairs. And we did drawers in everything and we donated some more to goodwill. Good. Excellent. So, but thank you, thank you, thank you for your pleasure. Keeping me, you know, together and. The smartest woman in the kind of and you're just wonderful for everybody. Well, you're very kind. I'm certainly not the smartest. If you saw me off the air, you'd know for sure that or in the kitchen. God forbid. But in any event, I'm thrilled to be here and always glad to hear from you, Stacy. Oh, thank you, Raleigh. And you take care and I'll call again. I'm counting on it. You better. You have a good evening and everything and blessings. You two. So 888-876-5593 is 88, 88 Raleigh on WGN radio
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Suspect in Idaho college murders to waive extradition
"The 28 year old criminology student charged with killing four university of Idaho students in November. Is expected to waive extradition when he appears in a Pennsylvania court Tuesday. The public defender in Monroe county, Pennsylvania, whose representing quadruple murder suspect Brian koberger says his client will not fight extradition and is eager to return to Idaho because he thinks he'll be exonerated. Coburger was taken into custody early Friday at his parents home in eastern Pennsylvania. His parents, Michael and Mary Ann and two older sisters, released a statement expressing their concern and sadness for the four families who lost their
The Guilty Feminist
"mary ann" Discussed on The Guilty Feminist
"Yeah, so he got dumped. And then I met somebody else and he was actually really lovely and made me feel really secure and but of course my sabotage everything that makes me feel happy. But there was one problem that it was weird. It's weird. He kind of became like my dad. And so I didn't really find him. Sexually attractive anymore. But we have this amazing sort of companionship, but then his family started putting pressure on us to get married, and then I got a bit freaked out. And he was also Muslims. They wanted us to get a nicar, which is like a Islamic marriage. And yeah, so basically, I wrote this song about him. But now we're like, we're single and we're in our 30s, and I'm starting to think fuck. Why did I dump that white boy?.
The Guilty Feminist
"mary ann" Discussed on The Guilty Feminist
"I do sometimes say plaintively, please let me finish. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Marianne seek out that was absolutely fascinating. Thank you so much. I'm sure everyone's going to go and get your book, the authority gap. Take out everybody. Sing us out. Please welcome to the stage. Nadia Chavez. Hello..
The Guilty Feminist
"mary ann" Discussed on The Guilty Feminist
"If you're high status in a little bit cold, then that's absolutely normal. That's absolutely you'll know people like that. And if you're low studies, you tend to be warm, but high status and warm. That's where you're getting into that. You know how the obamas are. You know, that really powerful, but really warm and charming. And probably people that you really admire, or if you're a fan of somebody, often somebody like Beyoncé, you'll see her being like that. Most honestly, most celebrities on a chat show. You'll see it. And so it is a very successful strategy. This is not to say that women and people of minority agendas have to be all the time being high status and very warm and very delightful. But it's a tool for your kid. It's a useful strategy when you need it. If you want to get something and you see that other people who are less qualified than you are getting in and you think, well, I want to get it and the world is not going to change around you in the next two weeks. While we're working on the structural stuff, I think is an individual using that as a strategy can be very helpful. A comedian who I won't name who her tactic is to laugh. All the time. And she says it makes people warm to her more. It likes her, and she just laughs. I couldn't do it. I'd look insane. I can't do it. She could pull it off in a really fantastic way, but I'd look like a maniac. But that's exactly that's interesting because that's she's found a thing that works for her. Yeah, yeah. And I think you do have to find a thing that works for you. And but play around, don't be frightened to play around. You're just collecting data, like don't play around on a job interview, like play around, go in and before the job interview order a cup of coffee and see if you can make friends with the waiter or do something that's charming, but also keep your status really high and play around with it. I think it's really worth doing because as a feminist you want tools in your armory. Yeah. We need to get more women into positions of authorities so that we no longer have to act like this. Once it becomes normalized, it won't be such a problem. But we've got to get there. Being made by men in effect. I'm all for pragmatic short term solutions while we're working on the mid and long-term solutions of structural change. I'm not somebody who goes, we shouldn't have to therefore I'm not. I'm like, well, shouldn't have to, but if I do have to, and that's going to get me a better result, then absolutely. While I'm waiting for the feminist Genie to come down and draw me three wishes, I'm happy to pragmatically do what I need to do to get where I need to go. So thank you very much for writing this book. Is there anything else you want to tell us about it or any tit bits in it that you think I didn't get to say that? I think the most depressing the most depressing statistic. I came across this if you've got a depressing one, you're going to have to have a happy one. Go, you can't leave all the rest of us. Go, go, give us the most depressing one. Okay. If you are British parents to estimate their children's IQ, they will estimate their sons on average at a 115, and their daughters are only a 107. Even though girls do better at school, they develop faster. They have a bigger vocabulary. And so it's no surprise if you ask adult men to estimate their IQ. They estimate it on average at a 110, and adult women do at a 105, even though we all know that the IQ distribution is identical. Across the genders. It's really difficult. I might estimate mine is like a 150 now just to make up for it. Can I ask your advice or something? Because I think I'm low status and cold. I've been told you may be told that I can be intimidating because I think I can go a bit deadpan and I have had situations where I've asserted myself and then people have gone and that was a bit. Oh God. Why have you done recently? I sort of put my foot. I was hosting a gig. And the act that was supposed to be on last, it was a horrible Christmas gig and somebody had already come onto the stage and sort of grabbed me and the act that was on last hadn't arrived yet. And they said to me, would you just go on stage and just fill until he gets here? And we weren't like, we weren't running out of time, and I just went no. I'm not going to do that, because I don't want to go back up there. And stand up there for however long. It's not my fault that the next acts lay is not my responsibility for him to be on time. I would do that on a different occasion, but this audience is so difficult that I'm not going to do that. And then one of the other acts went, wow, you know, that was really God. I would never say that to that. I can't believe you said that to that. And then I walked away thinking, God, I've done the wrong thing. What's the right, if somebody makes you feel awkward for having done something? What's the right way to go? No, I was just standing up for myself. I mean, it's brilliant that you did stand up for yourself. I really fucked up. Yeah. Why did you change? You don't applaud me. I was just really grumpy and I was tired and it was like the 18th December and I was like, fuck you. But also you done your piece. There was no need. And it was an awful audience. Christmas gigs are very traditionally very difficult, unless they're guilty feminist ones. So no, it's true. God, I was Christmas gigs are incredible. But it is a hard time of year to entertain anybody, because people are out with their mates drinking and don't really want to listen. But the thing that gets me is that next bit where people go, oh, gosh. All right. Look at you. And then I go, oh my God. Look at that. I think the aberration of jealousy a little bit. I think they're going, I wish I had the guards. But I think they're also surprised because we are so socialized as women to be people pleases. And so often find it hard to say no. And they were probably really surprised that you did. It's brilliant that you did, but they were surprised. They were actually just to help out. Yeah. But I think it was legendary behavior. You did something absolutely amazing. And I think that person is more likely next time to go, oh no, I won't be doing that. But I'm sure you didn't go no. I did walk away. No. I don't know, I just don't do that. I explained myself. Yeah. But it's not a reason why you should, but I think that Marianne is right that the expectation is that women and non binary people are going to be amenable. And you weren't instantly amenable. And that other person was surprised. Was that person? Can I ask the gender of that person? I think you know. Was the same man. It was a man. Yeah, that man was surprised to see you do that. He wouldn't have been surprised to see a male comic do that. Yeah, that's what I thought. It was like a man would just go no. No, I'm not doing it, yeah. Absolutely probably wouldn't even explain themselves. I was so mad. They were like, oh, do it. Keyword does anything. Well, they were wrong. It's a new era. Did I feel now? I might have got so excited to answer that. Did you answer you get to ask about what a lovely example of everything we've been talking about? At least you weren't managed to up to me so I'll forgive you. Yes. Touch all the host anyway. No, no, did I interrupt you? Well, yeah. Go on. Tell us. I'm so sorry. If someone interrupts you, is there a assertive but not rude way of being like, you've just interrupted me. It's a really difficult one. And actually the best thing is to recruit an ally who can say, oh, hang on a minute. I was really interested in what Sarah was saying there. That works much better. People are rarely interested in saying that. I have to get my dad or something..
The Guilty Feminist
"mary ann" Discussed on The Guilty Feminist
"Your favorites from the here's what we can do list? Oh, I think it's really important that we change the world around us, actually. Because the world around us is telling us that men are in charge. And so if you look at TV, for instance, there is barely a woman over 50 as a TV presenter, unless she's presenting something like cash in the attic. Okay? You've got to stick. Fantastic. Take time. She's allowed on the daytime. Yeah. But as soon as she's got the slightest wrinkle or gray hair, she is off. Whereas men can have a face, it looks like a relief map of the Alps. And there's a lot of telly, right? It's very true. It's very true. Why is that? Why are men who are not billboard attractive? I would understand if it's just one, and that is a British thing as well, because you go to some countries and everyone on the television looks like they've had all of their teeth done and their faces is so tight. It looks like someone's sitting behind them pulling it back and they've got their very symmetrical. And that's across the board. But in Britain, the men that all had on television, which I've no problem with that, I just think British people really have to just work with what they've got. Do you know what though? We're a bit funky looking. I know somebody who has to sell when people who sell TV shows. So if you might sell a Spanish show to somewhere else or they sell a they say they always say to them, please, can you cast with better looking people because we can't sell this to Europe? That's true. That's true. That's true, because we cast in dramas and soap operas sort of ordinary looking people. It might be a tad on the tele pretty side, but sometimes not, sometimes not. They're like, why are you casting these people? Are the countries complained? It's true. But you're right when it comes to presenters, there is a massive gap. I mean, super bark is still allowed on because she's such an expert in tennis and won the French Open. And she's an incredibly attractive woman. But she's been allowed to age, but only quite high. You have to win the French Open. Yeah. Stay at the job, by the way. 'cause she wouldn't do French Open next year and I'm really nervous. I mean, listen, even if you get to the semis, I think you're in with the shower. You reckon. Yeah, you'll be on, I reckon you'll be able to be the news soon. But super buck wouldn't get that job now. She's only got the job because she stayed in it. And men are allowed to age on screen and women just aren't. So particularly in some serious things like Newton clarence fares, hardly any, I think as kirsty walking that's about it, there's a hard out. Kirsty, if you're listening, we love you and you don't look old. She told me about 60. She's not old. No, no. And she's an expert. And again, if you're an expert, you've stayed in the job. If you just grip on with both hands and refuse to leave when they try and get you out of the building, that can work. You find? I'm gonna try it. So I have experience with this sort of thing because I don't necessarily identify as female. I often get confused for being male. And I will often get deferred to if I'm out with my girlfriend who presents stereotypically feminine in that she has long hair and she wears makeup, but apparently that's feminine. People will defer to me for a meal. They will hand me the bill. Or they'll talk to me or they'll give me a beer if I order a beer, which is good because she's like, so that's fine. But it's actually really respectful. Tom orders Diet Coke a lot, and so if I order a beer or any alcoholic beverage, they will absolutely always assume that I'm ordering the Diet Coke and he's ordering. Possibly manage a beer Deborah. I can put back a beer and I can sit and watch my husband, drink a Diet Coke, like a great big girl. Yeah. And that's feminism. I don't know what that means anymore. I've lost the plot. The same happens with race. So I talked to the fabulous Bernardino rusto, she's a Booker prize winning novelist. She's a Professor of creative writing and she's black. And she said she was giving a tutorial to a young, white female student, aged about 21, and they decide to go out to a cafe to do it. And the waitress, both asked the young girl for the order and gave her the bill at the end. That is astonishing as well. That's horrifying. Yeah. Absolutely horrifying. Did she pay? Now that would associate it with her. I am very intrigued by what we can do. And I loved this stuff for teachers because it says here one study found 7 out of ten male teachers attributing boys success in technology to talent while dismissing girls success as due to luck or diligence. Teachers bias in favor of boys and against girls in early years of schooling has been shown to hold back girls careers well into adulthood. Teachers can question their ability to judge intelligence. Study after study shows that adults, both teachers and parents underestimate the intelligence of girls, parents, too, teachers also find it harder to identify gifted girls than boys. This may be because gifted girls are more likely to try to hide their ability as they know the boys don't like girls being cleverer than them. Oh God, this is very sad. But I think that's shifting. I really feel that in this generation of children, I don't think that that doesn't reflect. I mean, maybe I'm in a bubble, but I see a lot of girls who were like, and non binary routines as well. Teachers can examine textbooks for buyers. Oh, this was an interesting one. In a girl guiding survey 81% of female respondents age 11 to 21 had witnessed her experience some sort of sexism in the previous week, mainly from boys there and age. 81% of girls girl guides 11 to 21 had experienced it in the last week. So there's some really interesting stuff, I think in this chapter especially that says this is what we can do about it. If people are wondering what they can do if they've got a job interview next Thursday and the world is not going to change, and they feel that they're not endowed with enough authority. What can women and people of minority genders do to assert a source of authority that's accepted in spaces where they need to be accepted because of feminism or employment or any other reason? Yeah, I talk a lot about confidence and assertiveness in the book because you know the classic thing is to say, oh, just go off on an assertiveness training course and you'll be fine. It's not that simple because if we women start to behave as assertively and as confidently as our male colleagues, people don't like it, and they start using horrible adjectives about us, like, oh, she's very abrasive or she's strident or aggressive or overbearing, bossy, bitchy, ball breaking. Those are very controlling. You've had a lot of negatives. Very sexy. But these are adjectives that are never used amending the same thing, right? So the awful thing is we have to be so much more careful. If we're under confident, if we're not confident enough, we're not taken seriously. If we are confident enough, we're often disliked. So then we have to be quite often inauthentic and just sort of layer loads of warmth onto our personality and smile a lot and crack jokes and sort of read the emotional temperature of the room. In order to sort of navigate our way through this. And it's really unfair that we have to. And I wish we didn't have to, but let's put that the research shows that's the most successful tactic. Yeah, I think exactly that women are socially conditioned and actually I would say human beings tend to fall between low status and lovely or high status and cold, very few people are low status and cold. If they're low status, they tend to be lovely. If your low stace and cold, you look like someone that no one would approach and often it somehow there's a projection of dysfunctionality there. You're dead..
The Guilty Feminist
"mary ann" Discussed on The Guilty Feminist
"An acclaimed broadcaster and presenter based on new original research and interviews with pioneering women, her book, the authority gap brings a fresh perspective on how to address and counteract systemic sexism and provide the essential tools to make it happen. Please welcome Marianne sick heart. There she comes. Hello. Hello, hello. I'm a feminist, but I get slightly distracted sometimes by this iPad because there used to be a big screen on the floor where we could see ourselves because this is being live streamed. I should have said, hello to the lovely live streamers. I'm now looking at the iPad. They're not there. They're up to this cameras. Hello. Oh, hello. I can never really see where the cameras are and I found it unnerving. So there's an iPad now instead of that thing on the floor, which takes ages to install. But the iPad's a little bit behind, so I can see how I looked 30 seconds ago. So sometimes, yeah, I can now see myself doing that and then mad. But now it's going to happen again. It's in a loop. Wait. Wait, wait. Yeah. Is it going to happen again? Oh, I'm like a minute behind. We should see what people are saying, we're now taking a 20 minute break. Okay. Indeed. Mary, I seek out everybody. So lovely to meet you. Mary Ann, how are you? I'm very well, thank you. Had COVID. Hope I won't catch it, but have my booster? My booster got canceled because I had COVID. Oh God. It will be they won't boost you if you've got COVID. And then the main thing that will stop you. Do you know what my next booster got covered? I got my booster got covered. It was a really bad day. Do you want my next booster got canceled? Too close to COVID. They won't shoot. They won't shoot you up. They won't shoot you up. Exactly. The same batch of COVID, they just won't they just say COVID has to be fully fully in the rearview mirror before they're going to pump more COVID into your arms. You can't have this COVID if you've had that COVID. Very much. They don't want you having a cocktail COVID. Okay. Yeah. They don't want that. Have you had COVID? I don't know, though I did. I did a test today. What? And you're waiting on the results. Bad news. No, no, no. If I have, I don't know that I have. I've never had a positive test. But I felt really tired on occasion. So that could be it, but could just be nearly 30. It could be life, couldn't it? No, but I have been boosted. Everyone else says that when they get jabs, it's really gentle. And I keep getting the most softly spoken people who will be like, right, you. Ready? And I'd be like, yeah, I'm ready. And then they'll go. Wow. In my arm. Wow. Yeah. Really quite aggressive. Maybe it's something to do with your natural authority. Maybe they think I can take it up to you. I can't be segues into the authority gap. Marianne, you are wrote a book called the authority gap. And the subtitle is, why women are still taking a seriously than men and what we can do about it. The Sunday Times has persuasive arresting punching his decisive, The Guardian says fascinating thorough and empowering. So could you tell us a little bit about the research you did? Because I think a lot of people now think we are living in something of a meritocracy, sometimes I hear that argument from women. But go, well, it sort of evens itself out now. Don't go asking for special favors. Certainly a lot of men go, look, if you were good enough, you'd be there by now. It's a common thing that you hear. So although we anecdotally feel it, and we see it in masses representation. What is the evidence that you were able to discover that says that women are not in doubt with as much authority? Okay, in the start by telling you about how I had to give a talk on this subject and I thought, well, I better define my terms, okay? So I literally just Googled authority and definition, very first result came up was the oxygen line dictionary. Every single example they used to illustrate different meanings of the word authority began with the same pronoun. I think you can guess which one it was. So we had he had the natural authority of one who was used to being obeyed. He hit the ball with authority. He was an authority on the stock market. And I thought, that hang on a minute. Hasn't Margaret Thatcher didn't she have the natural authority of one who was used to being obeyed. It doesn't Serena Williams hit the ball with authority. I mean, that was just an illustration of how we just so much more readily associate male with authority. I wasn't even looking for that. I was just looking for a definition, right? But there is a huge amount of academic research showing instances of women being undermined, interrupted, having their expertise challenged underestimated. For instance, interruptions. So men are much more likely to interrupt women than they are other men. And however authoritative you are as a woman. You just never insulated from this. So there was this amazing study done of U.S. Supreme Court Justices. And you don't get much more authoritative than that, right? And women make up a third of the Supreme Court Justices, but they suffer two thirds of all interruptions. 96% of the time by men. So there are four times more likely to be interrupted than their male colleagues. Wow. And then there was another study done. You know that phenomenon, I bet everybody here has experienced it where you make a point in a gathering or at a meeting or something. Nobody takes a blind bit of notice, right? The water's just close up above your head. And ten minutes later, a guy makes the same point and is treated like the second coming. We've all had that. And so the study was done, where they put a group of people together, mixed group of people, and they were supposed to be discussing a child custody case. And they deliberately chose that because it's quite a female stereotype subject. And they gave the group all sorts of information about the family concerns. And they gave a few individuals a piece of information that no one else had. And when that information was introduced by a man, it was 6 times more likely to be used by the group in their deliberations. And when it was introduced by a woman. 6 times more. That's what we're up against. And we're trying to influence a group. I think the most persuasive evidence actually of the authority gap is the experience of people who have lived as both as both a man and a woman. Because if you think about it, normally, if you're in a position at work, say, and you've got a male colleague and you're both up for promotion, he gets the job and you don't. And you might think bias was at play, it probably was, right? But it's terribly hard to prove, because your manager might just say, well, he was better than you. But if you just correct for all the other variables, which you do when you're talking to somebody who has lived as both a man and a woman, they're exactly the same person, said they got the same intelligence and ability and experience and personality. Someone who's trans who makes presented as exactly a woman as a woman and then started living as a man. Transitioned and came out. Exactly. And these trans men in particular say, ah, just treated with so much more respect now. So there was this sounds anecdotal, but it's sort of quite scientific in a way. There were these two Stanford professors, professors of science, who each transitioned in opposite directions at the same time. Ben barres, who was a neuroscientist, said, I've had this sort of a million times. I'm just taking more seriously now. People see me as a man. And someone at the back of one of his seminars, who didn't know his history, said, oh, Ben barres gave such a good seminar today. But then his work so much better than his sisters..
The Guilty Feminist
"mary ann" Discussed on The Guilty Feminist
"But they're unstable. So it looks like it's just might slip off at any moment. Oh, it's just sort of someone who would just keep sliding a bit of silk up her sleeve knocked off on a strong wind or something like that. But it could all fall off at any minute. So everyone was mesmerized. And these women were a kind of beauty. I'd never seen. And they didn't say anything. They were just there to be beautiful and draped in silk. My writing partner and I perfectly attractive in London. We don't feel but there it was like, yeah, yeah. And the last time I came back from Cannes, I stayed home for three days crying. I didn't want to see anyone. It was like my own personal lockdowns way before way before. But I just cried for three days. It was like Dante's like, if Dante had one last level of hell we hadn't heard about. I was in it for days. And like, you had to put on pretty dresses every night. Fuck. And I remember going to one of these yacht parties in this pretty dress and somebody saying, oh, you look dressed up. Have you got a party to go to? And I was like, I'm literally standing on a yacht in camp with a glass of champagne. But that's how they think there's always got to be another party. You know, there's somewhere else better that you should be and things like that that just oh God, awful things like someone being composed of we were trying to get into this horrible party. It was like a nightclub. And everyone was absolutely off their hit smashed. And someone was meant to put his name on the door and hadn't. And he was screaming. He was standing at the door going, I know him. I know him, and it was screaming, Barry, Barry, and waving. And Barry was the dignity and yelling batteries. It was so terrible. And my friend and I were just looking at him like, why do you want to be in there? It looks like the worst place you could be. And we were like, it's like standing at the Gates of hell going. I'm over here. I can't see me. I gotta get in. I gotta get in. I'm on the tumor, I'm eating together. Last time I was on this stage, not as in before the break. Was when I was 22 and I was doing the final of the funny women competition. Sponsored by benefit cosmetics, and there was a big glittery sign here that said laughter is the best cosmetic. And I try to get the sign for you Deb. But they wouldn't surrender it. Oh, that's such a good message, isn't it? It's really strong. And it's true. Can't say anything now because I take advertising now, which I said I would never never ever do, and then two years of pandemic later, I could not sell a single ticket to a single show. It was that'll kill the podcast and live on the street. So because the podcast was taken by benefit cosmetics. No. But the podcast, the podcast has taken up so much of my living. I used to own a good living, then I started a podcast and then the podcast became bigger and bigger and so I had to phase out other things to do it. So then I'm left with a podcast which I only sell tickets for I always like no advertising. What's it called? I mean, I'm so sorry. It's called laughter is the best cosmetic now. We've got the new guilt, but it's now called laughter is the best course. And I'm proud to have benefit sponsor every episode for the next year. This is my lack of authority is that we all insisted upon giving us a makeover for the final. I was because I was 22. No. I didn't know how to say no. So I was up here looking like a full drag queen. There's a video on YouTube I have long hair. Oh, I'm gonna watch that right now on recognizing. Everyone get out their phones. We're all gonna watch it together. And so I'm having sort of trauma flashbacks to the funny woman final. Oh, I'm so sorry, but look, I came second. You came first? Desiree birch. Oh, well fair enough. Can't argue with that. Can you? That's a good first and second one out both massively big hitters. I'm delighted by that story and I am definitely going to watch that video a few times. It might be in advance. I'm very excited about that. I look horrendous. Did you feel seriously though? No. I think you'll know why wouldn't you see it? Okay. Okay, okay. I'm excited. No, I'm very excited to watch it. But what would you say now now that you are not 22 now that you're almost 30? If someone said we need to give your makeover before the show, what would you say? Well, now because I have to have my makeup done for various things and now I just say just do what you're doing for the boys. That's my, but that's not particularly I'm just going to have one of these having please. Yeah. Do you think just a little bit of eyeliner? Do you think you think he's not what they say? Just a little bit of eyeliner. Yeah. The amount of makeup artists that beg to put eyeliner on me. Well, Tim mentioned, as Alan, you could do eyeliner. That's because you join lineup. Yeah, but Tim mentioned does it because he's a cool man, whereas I would just look like a lady. That's the androgyny thing, isn't it? I see what he's cool. If he doesn't look like a liner, if you do it, it's eyeliner. Yeah, yeah, yeah. How does that work? It's like a man bun. She's a bun if I have one. Oh, my God, that's true. If you want to be a hipster with guyliner and a bomb, you actually look like you're working HR. Yeah. That's actually true. That's nightmare. Disappointing..
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The Life of Anna Leonowens
"Anna leeann. Owens was born and harriet. Emma edwards in india in november of eighteen. Thirty one anna came from a mixed race family. Her father sergeant. Thomas edwards was english. Her mother mary. Ann glass scott was the daughter of an anglo indian. Marriage on anna was just three months old. Her father died and her mother remarried an irish catholic corporal named patrick donahue as a result of patrick's unit assignments. The family moved frequently but eventually settled on a city on the western coast of india in eighteen. Forty one some of anna's childhood remains murky anna and her older sister elisa attended the bombay education society's girls school which was known for admitting mixed race daughters of deceased or absent military fathers but in her memoirs and i wrote that after her father died and she and allies were sent to boarding school in england and returned to india as teenagers. Whichever's true it's clear that animator purposeful effort to hide her ethnic background and lower social class on christmas day of eighteen. Forty nine anna married private. Thomas leinen owens who was an army paymasters clerk from ireland. On the marriage license thomas combined his middle and last names making them the liens after her marriage anna cut off all ties to her family. In india in december of eighteen fifty anna gave birth to a daughter selena but the baby only survived for seventeen months in eighteen fifty. Two and thomas emigrated to australia while on the boat. Their son thomas was born tragedy struck again and baby. Thomas died at the age of thirteen months during their four years in australia. Anna and thomas had two more children. A daughter named avis in eighteen. Fifty four and a son named luis eighteen fifty six the following year in april of eighteen. Fifty seven the family moved to malaysia. Where thomas found work as a hotel keeper. He died suddenly two years later. Anna was left alone with very little money and two small
Discerning Hearts - Catholic Podcasts
"mary ann" Discussed on Discerning Hearts - Catholic Podcasts
"They have the same sense. But you're so kind and hurt meets hard here especially mary-anne and i just again drawing close to the holy spirit. I hope everybody gets gets a copy of this and continues to grow deeper and probably one of the most important relationships you'll ever have in your life before everything else book if you're struggling with the other relationships this one i at first. Yes yes yes absolutely a double a triple amen. The final approach. I wish we could talk all day but any final thoughts sister. We'll just this very moment starts every one of us all those who are listening others who are involved with this program anyway at this moment. Let's say oh holy spirit possess meet take over my life. I surrender myself to you please. You be the one who works in me and through me. I belong to you i am yours in whatever troubles i'm going through. I give them all to you there. You are you take care them. Give me your joy. Give me your piece give me your love. Amen alleluia sister. Marianne until thank you so very much. It has been such a blessing for me to speak with you. I i am so grateful chris. God bless you made a most blessed unity bless you and all those involved with this beautiful program and all those horrendous sister marianne fatullah. We've gone inside the pages of drawing close to the holy spirit. he's to a transform life and joyful heart. Learn more about this book or to obtain a copy go to sophia institute dot com the website for its publishers sophia institute press or you can find it at any fine catholic bookstore to hear and or to download this conversation along with hundreds of others spiritual formation programs visit discerning hearts dot com or you can find it on the free discerning hearts app. This has been a production of discerning hearts. I'm your host chris mcgregor. We hope that if this program has been helpful for you that you will. I pray for our mission and if you feel worthy consider a charitable donation which is fully tax deductible to help support our efforts but most of all. We hope that you will tell a friend about discerning hearts dot com and join us next time for inside the pages insights from today's most compelling authors..
You're Welcome with Hilary Rushford
"mary ann" Discussed on You're Welcome with Hilary Rushford
"Dahlie and how lovely to see you here your welcome. What was that your welcome hillary rush for your welcome in ed vans allow friend. I have missed you. Which maybe sounds funny because i am here every single wednesday with new episode of the. You're welcome podcast. But instagram is really where you and i chat back and forth and i was off the graham for ten days. Maybe two weeks ish. While i went home to visit my family which was absolutely lovely. Wonderful magical you can see a little darlene photo dump of our adventure over on my instagram feed. And then i got my little baby nieces. Cold it just as we were leaving. So i was just really exhausted and sleeping a lot when i got home so i took a little bit longer break than expected. It was so nice to go over and by the way it was really sweet. Those of you that message me like hey are you okay. I haven't seen you lately or had to come in pop in. Because i'm not seeing you in my feet and i wanna make sure that instagram isn't hiding it so i really appreciate. That is just very nice to know that you are missed and you are thought of And that means a lot to me also means so much to me by the way those of you that leave reviews. I just specifically want to shout out. Erica and mary ann andy. All those of you that have left reviews lately. Thank you so much if you haven't yet and you would take thirty seconds to swipe up and do that. It truly would mean so much to me. I wanted to read a snippet of what andy shared. Which was i have narrowed down to only my two essential podcasts. And this is one. I think that speaks volumes to how amazing hillary as i am currently re binging oliver episodes for third time. Andy i mean. I've said this before. Every of you guys that says you re listen to episodes..
Monocle 24: Meet the Writers
"mary ann" Discussed on Monocle 24: Meet the Writers
"She's actually brilliant only sings we can do but we just have to get into the habit of it and his heart is light landing not to bite your nails or not to slump your desk but the more you do it. These europe becomes an. How can we all gain then from narrowing that authority gab. What i found mace sharing. I think in researching this book is. Obviously women will gain from narrowing the authority gap. But so will men. And this sounds really counterintuitive. You would think that gender equality is like a see-saw in which women rise manful is actually isn't the case so it may be one individual instance if you're a man and you're going for a job up against a woman who bt to it that you think oh this gender equality business if she is been fairly assessed for once that more broadly in more gender equal societies and in more gender equal relationships you find not only are women healthier and happier and children healthier and happier and do better at school investor behaved but so the man and say men in more gender equal countries and relationships are twice as likely to say they're satisfied with their lives office likely to be depressed less likely to drink to smoke to take drugs to be violent. That relationships tend to last longer. They sleep better at night. And here is the absolute clincher. They get more frequent and better sex. Mary i'm wondering the great problems. Though as people throughout the ages have found women authors throughout the ages have found. Is that you're less likely to be read by men if you come out if you like as a woman on the cover of your book i mean you've got many examples of that in this work so will people will men read you. I so hate that men read me and i. I wrote a whole book with men as well as women in mind. And we had long deliberations about the kaaba. I kept saying. I want this to be a cover that a man wakefield embarrassed to be seen reading on the tube. I don't want any pink. I didn't want any county writing. I want this to be a unisex book. And i made sure that there were two endorsements for men on the cover as well as to from women and i was thrilled actually when the sunday times gave it to a man to review and he said that he warmly recommended it because of course. I'll be thrilled if women read this book. We're not gonna change the wells unless men read it too. And he was a very funny review he ended by saying you know and and really you should believe me because man. I feel marian. It's really great book. It's a really necessary book. And i think it's one that both genders should read even women who are very much aware of it need to know how we can support others and and and to be just more conscious of what's going on around us. Thank you so much for tooth ninety seven much. it's been a great pleasure. That is the authority gap. Why women taken less seriously than men and what we can do about it. It's by marianne see hurt. And it's published by doubleday. You've been listening to monica..
Monocle 24: Meet the Writers
"mary ann" Discussed on Monocle 24: Meet the Writers
"Yes deliberately acted as one of the boys and probably quite sensibly for the time in which she lived because in those days it was so exceptional to have a woman in charge and the one thing she was terrified of was that she would be seen as weak because women were seen as weak of the men. And the last thing you want is a leader of your conscious. Somebody who is weak and say she hops. Overemphasized all have so-called masculine characteristics of strength and reveled in being cooled the lady in private. Actually she could be quite facetious with some of the more good nick members of our cabinet and was also very solicitous of first off in a traditionally female way but the image she wanted to project was to be more masculine than the men and she was all say. I think in high generation. This was much. We'll come and she was a real queen. Bee say she any permitted one woman to her cabinet in her. What was it the i think. Thirteen years in office and that for a very brief time. I think she rather reveled being the only the other thing margaret's not should did was deliberately to lower her voice really dramatically says she had lots of voice training because before she did say she was described shrill shrill as a word is never applied obviously to man and it is a wish derogatory when applied to women but to get. Your voice heard over the tumults in parliament. Sometimes women's voices how to rise says she was taught how to keep has low and she lowered the pitch of her voice by about half the difference between the average female on the average male voice. Not everybody likes it keith. Waterhouse famously said academy bring myself to for women who sounds as if she's telling me that my dog has just died. Searching deliberately lowered my voice to. I mean it is something that we do. We do what we can to cope. And what this book does. Brilliantly is not only points out this huge gap it starts to give us paces from which we can build an alternative future. So how can we change. This were there are so many things we can do. I've actually got one hundred and forty recommendations of the back of the book. The things that we can do as individuals as partners as parents as colleagues as employers society. Because as i said down here it is an accumulation of small acts that disadvantage asses women and so. It is an accumulation of small solutions. That will eventually help to narrow the authority gap but the most important thing that we all have to do is to acknowledge that we have this unconscious bias against women however intelligent or humane or liberal or indeed female we are. We will have it. That i have a bias against women and i've written a whole book about it. I will occasionally hear perhaps a young woman with quite a high voice on the radio being interviewed and she sounds perhaps a bit childish in the way that men can't because their voices great and i'll find myself thinking. Does she knows what she's told me back. And i will immediately stop saying stop it. That is your sneaky. Little buzz talking listen to the content of what she saying and then georgia say. We all have to do this. In every facet of our lives. Really notice if we're not listening attentively to women as to men notice if when we will cut to a man and woman standing together we automatically adjust the man. I notice if we underestimate a woman's intelligence or competence and then surprised when it turns out..
Monocle 24: Meet the Writers
"mary ann" Discussed on Monocle 24: Meet the Writers
"Breaking obe itchy. We did like it when women behave like that and yet if they want to be taken seriously they have to pay like. There's this incredibly fine line that women have to tread between being not confident enough and being seen by other people too confident and the any way they can really achieve that is by laying on of warmth so smiling larson making jokes and being terribly careful not to threaten. Men's egos always sort of thing which is enormous burden that men sukey didn't have to bear We do it to each other too. I mean i think some women are guilty of this too and women in power particularly provoked anger from other women. They do sometimes yes. I mean slightly more from other men than than from other women. Safe you look. At hillary clinton for instance she did win more votes and donald trump. but she didn't win the electoral college and the main reason was the too many men who had voted for obama. Went prepared debate. The her actually just as many women carried on eighteen for her but she she lost those men but yes there are women who have a bias against women in power. And it's because we've all been brought up with the same stereotypes in our brains that essay shape male with authority. We've just been brought up in a world in which probably our father earns more than our mother may be off. Father worked outside the home than my mother did. And in a world in which men have mainly been in charge. And it takes a lot to change those stereotypes. Now you did around fifty interviews with women in positions of authority and gave us lots of wonderful place. I'd like to start with an example from your own life though because he was snubbed. Hugely publicly by under neil on the daily politics i was s. I was invited onto the daily politics on a friday which was the day in which they would get to pundits to talk about every item in the program so to stay on for the whole time for the whole hour and talk about six different topics. And i was invited on with my good friend and colleague from the time daniel finkelstein and i have had a very equal relationship over the years talking about politics together and treat each other's complete equals so we both appeared on the show and the fast question. And you went to danny first and then to me an about two danny for follow up and not to me and the passant continued. I was quite so aware of it at the time. But i just thought at the end got reason get a very fair look in there so i watched it back and you went to johnny six times out of six and sometimes back to him again for a second At the cherry. And never back to me and i thought you would expect three three four two. I would forgiven five one. I would raise my eyebrows but six zero. I mean that could not have been more disrespectful really if it tried. So what about some of the other women you spoke to..
Monocle 24: Meet the Writers
"mary ann" Discussed on Monocle 24: Meet the Writers
"Six percents time by men and the book has many many instances like this. I mean you've really drilled down and done your research and spoken to so many women in authority you still suffered and we'll get onto that but one thing that really struck me was in your second chapter. You look at what we can learn from men and women who've lived as both. I found this absolutely fascinating. Can you tell us more about that. Yes i found this amazing fascinating chapter of all actually because i. It's so hard for any individual woman to prove that she was disadvantage because of someone else's bias say suppose her male colleague who was at the same level of her gets promoted and she doesn't people can just say well it's because he's better than you. There's one really scientific way of measuring this and that is to look at people who've experienced life in both genders and what i found. Is that trans men that is people who were born as a woman and transition to living as a man found that they would take dramatically more seriously once they were seen by other people as a man said people stopped and listened when they are condemn. Outs that work. The same down work is one professor. was taken more seriously. They ended up on the whole being paid more. So there's one particular example of a stanford professor. Cool ben barris who transitioned to living as a man in middle age and he said i've had the thought a million times. I'm just taken more seriously now and someone was overheard who didn't know his history. The back of one of his seminars saying off and barry's gave such a great seminar today but then his work so much better than his sisters same person and the recent scientific is that these are exactly the same people with the same ability intelligence personality experience body of work and the only thing that has changed is their gender so you isolating the very variable that matters and of course women find exactly the opposite that suddenly people start interrupting them talking over them not listening to them attentively and they native how striking differences to absolutely. And this whole thing about interruption you wonderfully name chapter if you could just let me and that absolutely does prove that women are interrupted. All of the time. Most of the time they are. They're inch lot more than men are and mainly by. And this is a pattern that starts very early in childhood so even very young boys will interrupt girls much more than girls interrupt them. Parents went interrupt their daughters more than they interrupt their sons. And you see all the way through school. How boys are taught. The i somehow entitled to more speaking time than girls say in lessons lots of classroom observations have shown that boys more likely to be asked questions if they shouts out an answer without raising their hands. The teacher will accept it. If a girl doesn't teach us more likely to say. Raise your hand if you want to speak boys. More often called to the front of the class had just given more teacher attention and girls are taught to be studious and quiet and well behaved and then see this continue into adulthood and the problem is that women are often penalized at work. Because they're told will you don't speak up enough that meetings. You're not asserted enough that the women are aren't sheet being very rational festival late discovered if they do speak up more likely to be interrupted talked over..
Monocle 24: Meet the Writers
"mary ann" Discussed on Monocle 24: Meet the Writers
"Reads. I'm georgina godwin. I guess today's marianne seek out by. Now we're all aware of the pay gap between genders but what about the gaps that are harder to quantify barons new book. The authority gap. Why women are taken less seriously than men and what we can do about. It examines the disparity between the genders. One that can take different shapes but clearly permeates the lives of many women prolific and broadcaster marianne researched this book whilst visiting fellow at oxford university. Marianne thanks so much for for joining me to talk about this really really important work. What was it for you. The meiji realize this was such an issue in the world. When i suppose like pretty much every other woman in the world. I've experienced this from time to time warner through the course of my life and it's always sort of been there in the background. It was hard to put a finger on. It always is hard to put a finger on because it's an accumulation of small acts of behavior. That happened to you through your life so in a you make appointed to meeting and no one really takes notice and ten minutes later. Imam ex exactly the same points and his loaded for it. Or you're trying to engage in a conversation with men and they just seem so much more interested in what each other has to say than what you've got to say or you find yourself being underestimated and you have to prove your competence before somebody pucks up and things only maybe she has got something interesting to say a but it was hard sort of really to put a finger on the phenomenon but had been something that's been bugging me for a long time and eventually i thought there's really something material here. I need to go and research on on really to prove that. This isn't something personal to any individual woman. It is really a systemic problem with all our brains because the trump list the each time. Something like this happens to woman. She's likely to think..
KOA 850 AM
"mary ann" Discussed on KOA 850 AM
"Ranger Mary Ann Finnell gets reports of rattlesnakes biting about 2 to 4 people and half a dozen dogs every year. Veterinarians near the apex trail. Tell us they've treated about a dozen dogs recently and ensure health is treated a few people who have gotten too close to the rattlers, but fewer than in most years, see any snakes. I'm not today that could be because of the heat. Rattle. Snakes are cold blooded and prefer to move about at dusk and dawn and chill out under rocks, and you just stay away from them, And that's it. That way, you'll enjoy your walk your run or ride. Whatever the weather airs, rattlesnakes are all coming out. That's Fox 30 one's matte Morrow. The Broncos are up for you. Sports humanitarian team of the year, ESPN named Denver one of its four finalists for making a massive impact on the community or cause The Atlanta Dream. New York City Football Club in Toronto. Blue Jays are also finalists. The winner will be announced next month, and $100,000 will go toward their community endeavours. It's the second straight year Denver has been a finalist. Olympic Dreams are over for a distance runner who holds two records shall be Hoolahan and was told yesterday she might be allowed to run in the track and field trials that start today. But then officials change their minds. And decided to uphold her four year ban for violating anti doping rules. A 28 year old blaming her failed drug test on pork burrito that she ate 10 hours earlier. Her coach calls the band a great tragedy in the history of American distance running. Apparently, pork has something in it that well, maybe some sort of ban substance. Yeah, that actually presents as a band, some substance. But then I was reading. I did a deep dive on this For some reason. I hit my Twitter or something yesterday, and then she said, I actually had, um, carne asada, which is beef. It's not pork. Yeah, okay, so that so it's confusing. So what did she eat? And did it have to do with that? Or is she covering up for the fact that she did have a man and I don't know. Yeah, these some of these tests sometimes it's like, Oh, I've ate poppy seeds or I did this. I'm just I'm not Again. I don't know for sure. But that seems kind of odd that a burrito a test is very just negative for maybe your taste in food, But no, I'm kidding everything or you get it. But I Yeah, Well, apparently, officials did not buy her story or, you know, empathize anyway to her story. 5 37 on Colorado's Morning news. We empathize with you if you're on the roads on a typical day. Typically, the Friday is her lighter volume. Dave Hunter. Is that what you're saying? Yeah, that is exactly what I'm seeing My indicator really about this time of the morning. April is what's coming in from Brighton..
The Thought Card
Building The First Black Woman-Owned Boutique Hotel in Marrakech
"Recently. Visiting marrakech morocco. I had the pleasure of sitting down with mary. Ann and learning more about her life as a hotel owner guests that stay at her hotel gets a take in the rich global an african identity that she has incorporated across the resort to encourage visitors and guests to experience the culture and traditions of morocco. Maryanne first degree may have been in law but her heart has always been in architecture design and the arts. This is maryanne wealth-building story. Hello my name is maryanne. And you're listening to millennial wells builders so. I come from a family where we would never talk about money but we would talk about education and studies and the key to a good lifestyle like fortunately our parents were able to give us was to study. I mean this was the thing was it was not even questioned. It was obvious that we would go to university and have a good job and be independent as a woman i was. I never considered that. I would count of on the income of husband it. I was going to be feared us. Fiercely independent and i think this was my only connection to money because you know you study. You have a good job and you have money but this is not the purpose. The first thing is to develop your own personalities through education well first of all. I'm an accidental auto-pay. It was not an objective. I came to being a two year. Because i love design and architecture and i discovered morocco which was america. She's three hours flight. From where i'm from paris lawyer and and i designed to house and then i had to get an income out of it so by default it became a hospitality project. And then to my own. How you say to my own amazement. It became a project where everybody wanted to go
Bob Sirott
Bond Denied for Man Charged in the Murder of 7 Year Old
"Has been denied for the man charged in the murder of seven year old jazz Lynne Adams. There was a bond hearing yesterday in Chicago, Mary Ann Lewis was shot and arrested Thursday after leading police on a chase and trying to carjack a family on the Eisenhower Expressway. At that hearing yesterday, the bond was denied. Prosecutors told the court that Lewis was driving the car involved in Adam's shooting. At that McDonald's drive through earlier this month. Yesterday there was a march to remember Adam's baby was innocent babies are being robbed of their innocents. Seven years old, No Chin Lewis. His next court appearance is scheduled for Thursday. Police are looking for two other suspects.
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7-Year-Old Girl Killed, Father Shot While Sitting at Mcdonald’s Drive-Thru
"Chicago teenager is facing a murder charge. Following a deadly shooting at a mcdonald's that left a seven year old girl. Dad and her father seriously hurt eighteen hundred mary. Ann lewis now facing more than a dozen felony charges in the death of seven-year-old jason adams chicago police shot lewis on thursday. Police say louis crashed a vehicle then attempted to carjack a family has officers tried to arrest him young. Jason was shot and killed last sunday while inside a west side. Mcdonald's drive-thru with her dad. Reporter nate rogers with fox. Thirty two police haven't said the role. They believe lewis played in last. Sunday's shooting other suspects are being sought.
KGO 810
"mary ann" Discussed on KGO 810
"Another meal bag. Question. This is Mary Ann and Mary Ann is from Fair Oaks. Marianne says. I love my husband. But he basically is a money order way Both worked so hard saved a lot of money by sacrificing so that we could have a wonderful retirement. While we were working. We talked about all the things we would spend money on. Once we were retired. We've been retired for three years and we haven't started spending our money. My husband says We have to keep watching her money carefully make it grow. And then sometime in the future, we can use him. I want that sometime to be right now. I think he is so worried about all the volatility in the stock market in the world. In general, he thinks the only safe bet is to hoard the money we have about $2.6 million saved and I've seen it go down by almost $500,000 in certain periods over time. You have any ideas of what we can do At this point? I think First of all, I'm I think it's good for people know that with the married couples we meet with probably 50% or more of our job ends up being marriage counselors literally because we have to help. Two people who view things completely different, understand their money together and put a plan together the works for them together, And when you look at Mary Ann's husband, it's not that he's a bad guy. He's a good guy. He's trying to make sure that bad things don't happen to them over the long haul because he's probably worried about two main things. He's probably worried about suffering a big loss like they've suffered before, and he's probably worried about running out of income or money if they do use it for income. Because think about it. Is there any reason her husband wouldn't want to use the money if he knew they wouldn't suffer a big loss in the future, and he knew for certain that their income would run out for a long as they left? Not at all. I'm he has anxiety right now. So of course, he's hoarding the money because he doesn't have anything in writing. There's nobody that sat down has sat down with you and your husband to put together a plan. But I promise you If you had a plan in place, and he had a plan in place, and you were actively part of building that plan with the team that understood how to go through this process, your husband would feel more comfortable and I promise you he will start spending some of his money. Where they're at is where a lot of people are like. We talked about Jim and if they got $2.6 million of assets We could create a plan that would probably generate them an additional $100,000 of gross income per year that would be dependable income that will last for as long as they lived and still gave them. A high probability of leaving money to their beneficiaries. If we just earn a modest rate of return now, if we generate $100,000 of income, let's say on top of their current. Let's say they have $80,000 of income right now, and we had $100,000 on it worked $180,000 of gross income That's $15,000 a month. They're probably going to net about $12,000 a month after taxes. How would they feel if they had $12,000 to spend versus probably their current? They probably have something like half that $6000. How would $6000 more permit to spend after taxes change their life? Well, I know change Marion's life overnight, right? Because this is our concern. She wants to do the things that she's dreamed about all their life. He worked very, very hard. And so did her husband. It would change his life changes because he wants to spend the money. He's just afraid to do it exactly exactly right. It would change both of the life that would change his life more radically than hers, because he would finally see that there is a way to accomplish this gold and then the key. I think for Mariana Skin, let's go into marriage counselor mode, and that is It's not that he doesn't love you. It's not that he doesn't want to do these things is not that he doesn't want to spend the money and have all these wonderful memories with you is he's afraid of a big loss, and he's afraid that the money is going to.
WMAL 630AM
"mary ann" Discussed on WMAL 630AM
"Every month on a depreciating asset. Yes. This is this is this is another great one We had about a month ago with Mike Marianne. They had a he had a 41 k he was above for Dina half And they decided to roll a significant amount of money out of the 41 K and put it into the safe money strategies and they use it the tax free transfer so he didn't have a taxable event. And inside the safe money strategy, Blake They're going to be able to have annual increases in their income. Every time the market goes up, they're going to receive it increase and the income will never go away as long as they live. In other words, they can't value could go down to zero and they would still continue to receive the income and the income would continue to go up. With inflation or the market, And the best part about it is to is that you know, Marianne didn't work, and Mike was the main breadwinner. So We were able to set up the account for them so that even when Mike passed away, the money would continue to pay Marianne for Islam. She lives so that she would be taken care of, because we know Typically that the husbands will will pass away first, and we want to make sure that the widows are taken care of, and this is great. And it was so much fun because they had so much concern about what we're gonna do. How many of you will provide for her if I'm gone? And this this idea the safe money strategy for the 41 K work tremendously well for them. Yeah. So are you concerned about having having that cash available in retirement? Are you concerned about running out of money? 57127988 For euro. Also Are you concerned about the tax ramifications moving forward? There's real concern today. About taxes. Actually, the Democrats have said taxes are going to go up there. If they haven't been shy about that. How can we protect that money? Yeah, it once again. The Democrats have been very transparent about what they want to do. They want to fundamentally transform the the country They want toe have huge amounts of increased spending. They want to increase taxes. This is not, you know. This is not some some partisan right wing answer here. This is what they said. They're going to do And I believe him A zeh everyone else listening to this program should too. We have to help people. Just like we help Johnson. With solutions that are going to address the future tax increases you I don't think enough can be said about this because our clients ask it all the time. And every time we have done a dinner event, and we asked the our audience Hey, do you believe taxes going up down sideways? Everyone says they're going up. It's always for Hey, we're spending trillions of dollars. We gotta pay for it somehow. And if we're going to take away money from you to give somebody else we can always print it. We have to actually tax you so this is where they're well transfer is going to occur, having these types of plans where we have a private pension plan. This tax rate, so we pay the tax today on the seed. We grow the money and then we take it out tax rate is really amazing. And what a lot of our Clients have really enjoyed is when they read the book. Mission. One million written by Steve and Moral. This book gives you a little more specifics on some of these strategies, and then we guide you through it. And by having this book, which we want to give to you, you're going to be able to Understand how the taxes they're gonna work. And how some of these programs are gonna really benefit you? Yeah. And if you're Jonathan, if you're Jonathan out there or Mike and Mary Ann, would you call us The phone number is 5712798840. Do you have a concern about how these sucked the qualified plans that you have most of your wealth in We're going to be taxed. Then please call us and again, the the market. A Tucker. We haven't even touched on it. Really? The market is been up this week. But who knows with if If the fiscal situation in this country continues to the debt continues. Who knows what the market's gonna audio everybody, uh, listening in to our clients? It's one word. It's stimulus. It is the idea that there's going to be huge amounts of stimulus. I mean, forget $2000 per person. Let's give him 5000 and forget one time. Let's just do universal basic income. I mean, that's the idea, right, So the stimulus is what's spurring on this market. But as we also know The unbelievable amount of printing of money and death. This being taken on is really going to create problems down the road, which are inflation. We talk about inflation. A lot in our planning always addresses inflation. It's still important. When Mike and Mary moved the money to the state money strategies. They're concerned outside of market risk, which will eliminate because you can't lose money in these types of programs did the market losses. That's what they were, they were able to get a increase. Every year and that increase when the market goes up is going to be locked in that payment increase for their income, so they're getting increases every year. This is going to help them stay ahead or on par with inflation because we know Then in the future, we're gonna have to pay. More for goods and services because we have more dollars in the economy. Okay, You're gonna have inflation. The Fed wants inflation to be at least a 2%. Well, guess what That means. Whatever plan you have in complaint has to grow at least 2% a year just said that You're $10,000 a year as an example, will buy the same goods and services today that it will in five years from now, and that Z very important, understand in our clients do understand that when they meet with us, and we make sure that Their plans are designed to protect that is a top Priority for you. So do you. Do you have a question about guaranteed income or guaranteed safety of principal? Let me say that again. You have a question about how your principal can be guaranteed call us. The number's called is 5712798840, and we do have a copy of that book, The Tucker mentioned mission. One. Million so way want if you want to hear more about guaranteed income and increasing income in retirement, stayed with us. This is the uterine equity financial island with tougher like we will be right back..
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"Police Academy" actress Marion Ramsey dies at 73
"Star Mary Ann Ramsey has passed away at the age of 73. She was most known for her role as police officer Laverne Hooks, and she also had a role in Hello, Dolly and other place. According to her manager. Ramsey had become ill recently. But the cause of her death is unknown. So remember her from the police Academy movies.
Lars Larson
Dawn Wells, star of "Gilligan's Island," dies of COVID-19
"If you have not heard the news today, you might as well get it from a friend. Dear Sweet Mary Ann. Dawn Wells passed away this morning. At age 82. And I was mentioning earlier for My particular generation. Guys who were elementary school students. On, then would watch it in reruns in junior high and secretly on into high school or college. The question would come up. Ginger or Mary Ann. Ginger is portrayed by Tina Louise was a Hollywood Well, a siren. You know, one of these Voluptuous. Well, she was a sex symbol, okay? And ginger kind of her whole persona was geared into Vava Vou. Mary Ann, On the other hand. Was sugar and spice and everything nice. But wow, everybody seems to Or most guys had a thing for Marianne. And I don't think, Miss Mary when mind me telling you that I mean, it was years before. We met and jump the broomstick. It only met promoting. It was just one of those one of those little what would be the term Uh, not even platonic because it's it's like a TV thing.
Michael Berry
Dawn Wells, Mary Ann on 'Gilligan's Island,' has died of complications from COVID-19 at 82
"Is a result of covert 19 complications. Wells died earlier today she played Mary Ian on the famous hit TV show. More news on demanded ktrh dot com or next updated
WTOP 24 Hour News
Holiday wreaths might be spreading boxwood plant disease
"Some other holiday greenery could pose a threat to your yard. Two problems, one of the plants that may have been used to make your wreath garland or other decoration. And a lot of holiday greenery includes boxwood plant pathologist Mary Ann Hansen says. With those boxwood leaves come the threat of boxwood blight, fungal disease that could potentially spread to box with plants in your landscape and cause your plans to lose their leaves. Not making for pretty landscaping seen several cases where clearly the disease came in, and just moved right down the hedge from a pile of discarded greenery after the holidays, so dispose of decorations carefully. We'll bag it, Make sure it gets to the landfill. Michelle Morello. W T o p. News, traffic and weather Next on w T O P. Then
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Here are the key moments from the final Trump-Biden presidential debate
"Well. Polls show an extremely tight race between Donald Trump and Joe Biden in some key states, including Florida Maryellen classes, the Tallahassee Beauty for the Miami held and gave me her assessment of the debate from Tallahassee. It was remarkably different from the first debate We had a few weeks ago, they were more calm. They didn't talk over each other. The president was so much more restrained, and it was more of a debate. It was, ah, remarkable difference. And were there any moments that really stood out for you? There were a number of moments they began with. Vice President Joe Biden really made an effort at the start of the debate to try and bring the focus back at every opportunity to President Trump's handling of the pandemic. And I have to say that the president was pretty assertive in being able to Get an answer out. I think he was pretty effective at criticizing Joe Biden for having record and not accomplishing certain things during that time. I think Vice President Biden was also very effective in being critical of the president. You're in Tallahassee and this year where we are, it seems, is in Florida there. Percentage of of support in terms of registered voters seems almost neck and make their our dynamics This time around. That seemed to be changing. That is that Trump has lost senior voters. There seemed to be more young voters that are turning out to vote when traditionally they don't show up in very large numbers. There's also a lot of emphasis being placed on Hispanic voters to make sure that they show up and vote. And there's also work on getting black voters who are very reliable Democratic voters to show up so the ground efforts to get people out to vote made really be the thing that puts the candidates That winds over the edge on the beach of health care. I know you in terms of demographics, Floyd, it is it not have a very high rate off retirees. When they spoke about him on thrashed it out about health care. Is this something that may change the mind of a certain age is all that is the key issue for many voters in your state. Yes, it's very interesting because even though Florida has not expanded Medicaid to cover more people There are many more Floridians, especially in the Miami Dade area that are registered under the provision under Obama care, then are in other states, so there's a very large percentage of people that depend on Obama care for their health care. And so the threat of eliminating that is something that is important concern for many people, And while the president continues to say they're going to come up with an alternative They have had four years and they still haven't put a plan in front of the American people. So it's really sort of again. It's a vote over what we know or a promise of something we don't And she's Mary Ann and Class. The Tala Holly Tallahassee Bureau chief for the Miami
AP News Radio
Day 2 at GOP convention: a first lady, a pardon, Pompeo
"Day two of the Republican National Convention include speakers praising president trump denouncing Democrats in his speech Kentucky senator rand Paul noted president trump signed a bill that reversed a federal criminal justice law backed by then senator Joe Biden the first real reform in a generation and one that sought to undo the harm that others like Joe Biden of done trump's top economic adviser Larry Kudlow insisted the economy is bouncing back a V. shaped recovery is pointing to better than twenty percent growth in the second half of this year another speaker Mary Ann Mendoza whose son was killed in a car crash involving an immigrant in the country illegally was dropped after it was learned she directed her Twitter followers to a series of online anti semitic conspiratorial messages I'm to acquire
AP News Radio
Day 2 at GOP convention: a first lady, a pardon, Pompeo
"Day two of the Republican National Convention include speakers praising president trump denouncing Democrats in his speech Kentucky senator rand Paul noted president trump signed a bill that reversed a federal criminal justice law backed by then senator Joe Biden the first real reform in a generation and one that sought to undo the harm that others like Joe Biden of done trump's top economic adviser Larry Kudlow insisted the economy is bouncing back a V. shaped recovery is pointing to better than twenty percent growth in the second half of this year another speaker Mary Ann Mendoza whose son was killed in a car crash involving an immigrant in the country illegally was dropped after it was learned she directed her Twitter followers to a series of online anti semitic conspiratorial messages I'm to acquire
Real Estate Buzz with Mary Ann Cadorna
Delta fined $50K for 'discriminatory' removal of 3 Muslim passengers
"Delta airlines getting out their checkbook to pay a fifty thousand dollar fine for ordering three Muslim passengers off planes even after the airlines' own security officials cleared them to travel delta denies that it discriminated against the passengers in two separate incidents that agreed it could have handle the situations differently the department of managed that delta violated anti bias laws by removing the passengers in order the airline to provide a cultural sensitivity training to pilots flight attendants and customer service agents involved in the incidents in one of the cases in July two thousand sixteen in Paris a pastor told a flight attendant the couple made her nervous the woman was wearing a headscarf in another incident a flight attendant said she walked by and saw a man running all lost several times while texting on his phone Patrick
Glenn Beck
Texas man hailed as hero in church shooting: "I took out some evil"
"A man who shot and killed a gunman who opened fire during a mass service at a church in Texas is receiving praise from some lawmakers but others are using it to call for gun reform Mary Ann Rafferty report Jacque Wilson a volunteer security guard at the church shot and killed the gunman who opened fire during Sunday service I don't see myself as a hero I see myself doing for needed to be done to take out the evil threat that Wilson became the deacon at church security after Texas lawmakers passed a measure in twenty seventeen allowing parishes to
Female Criminals
The Black Widow of England: Mary Ann Cotton
"Abuse but Marianne was no ordinary woman and ears she'd been rehearsing for her mother's death two daughters named Margaret had already died in her care only nine days turn Mary Ann's arrival in Siham Margaret Stott was also dead soon after her mother's death thirty four year old Marianne and thirty four year old James Robinson moved forward with their nuptials on August eleventh eighteen sixty seven they held a small wedding in ship where mouth Marianne was five months pregnant their honeymoon period didn't last long although Marianne now had all the well security she could ever dream of she still wasn't happy under her skin Marianne was flailing if only she'd been able to settle in she could have lived out the rest of her life and luxury but as the saying goes idle hands are the devil's play thing Marianne found that her life of wealth and security didn't bring her the peace she'd originally hoped it would she grew to disdain James Robinson once again she was desperate to relieve herself of her marriage Marianne preceded with her now usual Mo I she eliminated unwanted step children through the month of April eighteen sixty seven child after child died a son and two daughters all the while Marianne helped herself to her husband's wealth without his permission or knowledge she withdrew his entire savings account today the equivalent of roughly two thousand three hundred dollars it's hard to say where the money went but in addition to taking Robinson's money Marianne also pawned her linens and close for even more cash but that St L. wasn't enough she borrowed another five hundred sixty three dollars in Robinson's name this proved to be a grave misstep as the loan in company notified her husband of the funds he owed Robinson was both befuddled and enraged he felt that Marianne had greatly over stepped her bounds by borrowing and spending without his consent in November of eighteen sixty nine Robinson through Rianne his home he may not have realized it at the time but in abruptly breaking off their marriage he saved his own life and that of his remaining children as we discussed last episode the laws of Victorian England made legal divorce incredibly difficult although men had more options than women Robinson's still would have needed to go to great lengths to dissolve his partnership he never bothered although their marriage was over in all but in name Marianne remained Robinson's legal wife without a divorce she risked bigamy charges the next time she identified a potential spouse and victim but for once Marianne wasn't set on marrying for wealth because justice she found herself estranged from Ron Robison Marianne learned that her longtime lover Joseph Mattress had recently become a widower for most of Marianne adult life she'd only wanted a few things wealth freedom stimulation and the one true love of her life the perpetual Liane unattainable mattress in eighteen seventy for the first time thirty-seven-year-old Marianne and mattress were both single and finally after years of sneaking around in shame Marianne moved into his home so they could finally be together yes Marianne was technically committing adultery but all it took was a move to South Hatton where no one knew her past and Marianne was able to openly stay with her lover thanks to poor record-keeping in the era no one was wise to Marianne secret it seemed that Marianne had finally found her romance Nick happy ending but in only a matter of months she learned that life with mattress wasn't as idyllic as she'd always believed it would be and soon her fairytale transformed into a horror story coming up next Marianne cotton's life with Joseph Mattress takes an inevitable tragic turn I have some exciting news for you too thank you for your unwavering dedication and support we've released our entire back catalogue of shows and they're already in your feed that's fifty episodes A female criminals that are available to listen to right now be sure to check out some of my favorite episodes like the one on Lizzie borden and what drove her to become a not aureus figure or are episodes on Phoolan Devi the bandit queen of India who struck back at the ruling casts after she suffered violence and discrimination listen because of her class and gender whether you're reliving some of your favorite episodes or hearing these fantastic stories for the first time these V the episodes are available right
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Mary Ann Van Hoof and Her Marian Apparitions
"Just before noon on August Fifteenth Nineteen Fifty Mary Anne Van Hoof stepped out of her farmhouse in the Cedar Wisconsin and who then knelt before a statue of the Virgin Mary but she wasn't alone. An estimated one hundred thousand spectators leaders had gathered outside of her home according to life magazine. These spiritually fanatical and level-headed citizens king came from all over the country by chartered buses and specially routed trains there were around seventeen thousand cars parked on the farm. They filled that Wisconsin field to hear a message from Van Hoof who claim she had been visited by visions of the Virgin Mary six times over the last few months and today the saint was poised to appear again uh as van who shifted her attention the crowd hushed then she spoke into a microphone and Shared the Virgin Mary's latest revelation she urged the people to pray do penance and sacrifice she issued warning about Korea in said black clouds are coming to America the pessimism wasn't totally warranted the Cold War loomed the Soviet Union had detonated its first atomic bomb and earlier that year Senator Joseph me carthy said Communist had infiltrated the State Department. The New York Times reported that Van Hoof left the scene in ears and while observers saw nothing unusual the Associated Press reported that the faithful were satisfied and believed the virgin Mary had been in their presence Van Hoof Was Philadelphia Native who later moved to Wisconsin religion scholars say she was baptized Catholic but not reared in the church her mother a spiritualist believed the spirits of the dead could communicate with the living in the nineteen thirties van hoof answered an ad for housekeeper you're placed in a publication called Wisconsin farmer and agriculturist the ad was placed by devout Catholic memed Godford in who they married four months later then who've said the Virgin Mary first appeared to her on November Twelfth Nineteen Forty Nine the Lacrosse diocese initially held back judgment Van Hoof saying it needed time to investigate her claims but it took a dimmer you as the crowds in the sita grew and pilgrims made claims of miracle cures in one thousand nine hundred fifty one van Hoof was ordered to stop spreading pamphlets about her visions and to dismantle the shrine she built known today as the Queen the Holy Rosary media tricks between God and man she refused but the following year she agreed to undergo a Wendy medical exam the Church's request Di she's officials condemned vanhoose claims in nineteen fifty five but that didn't stop her father there's a new investigation was ordered in one thousand nine hundred sixty nine and her claims were condemned again the following year still then who her supporters continued hundreds of families from around the country uprooted their lives and move to Sita to be part of the shrine community they believed in time church officials would change their minds in one thousand nine hundred seventy five The Diocese called the group Occult emplaced Van Hoof in several followers under an interdict meaning they were denied sacraments from outside the church according to dicing records then who said she continued to receive private revelations from the Virgin Mary until her death
Real Estate Buzz with Mary Ann Cadorna
Hong Kong's divide: Protests for democracy, rally for China
"Protests in Hong Kong cripple the airport for a couple days as residents in the former British colony reacted to the Chinese government slowly increasing control you you and talk about the volatile situation with house members please change now let's turn our attention to Hong Kong before you joined the Congress you were senior department of state official of course you come from a family that is very well known for their very sober view of the realities of the world China owns Hong Kong they have the two systems one government system Hong Kong for at least another twenty eight years as senator cotton just said is it guaranteed their own an independent judiciary what is your word to president G. and the Chinese government about the protest which are escalating their I I would say yeah the whole world is watching and the world is watching very closely I think that the Chinese have shown their true colors in a number of ways over the past several years at we talked before he'll about the extent to which administrations of both parties I think that China wrong we believe that if they open that economically if we help them open up economically that we see political reform that we didn't see that and instead we've seen China on the March around the globe we've certainly seen China at the forefront the kind of that technology the kind of cultural credit for example imposing on their own status in the treatment the weaker they really are showing their true colors and I think that damn song Kong is going to be the ultimate test for them and that certainly if if we see them at take steps like those they took in Tiananmen Square we see them move to violently put down these protests I think that will give the world that the most serious indication we have yet about China's intentions and it is you know desire not to be part of the community of nations that that rather than to impose that very violent authoritarian system on its own system citizens and and around the globe certainly they have an alternative in firing Carrie lam at present she can dismiss her and if he does that is at least one way of the escalating do you think that is a possibility considering the Chinese have got to be considering data and and all possibilities because I think they they do they recognize the spotlight this on them with respect to what's happening in Hong Kong there they recognized the you know they're somewhat limited I I would hope that that's how they view it in terms of the action that they can take that that you know as I said the world watching so I would imagine that they're looking at that many options that is to try to de escalate that same face that for the government of China and death resolve this in a peaceful way and and certainly you know a peaceful resolution as important but I think that you know the right the people of Hong Kong and the right to to finish this year it's got to be