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"martell" Discussed on The Steve Harvey Morning Show

The Steve Harvey Morning Show

08:33 min | Last week

"martell" Discussed on The Steve Harvey Morning Show

"Is steve harvey show. You're listening to morning show many driver and in my new podcast many questions. I explore our differences that are similar larry's by asking people the same seven questions questions. About what makes us happy. What curious about what love means to us this season. I'll be speaking with the brilliantly talented actor. Viola davis epic firefighters from dave grohl and investigative reporter ronan farrow listening. Subscribe to many questions on the iheartradio app apple podcasts. Already get your podcasts. Our special guests. This is a special live edition of the strawberry letter for today. Our guest is martell. Hope that's right. I said martel from love and marriage huntsville on own. Martell reached out to us. He is seeking advice from steve. He wanted he wants to move on now. He wants to move on and and it's nothing wrong with that because that is life you have to move on. you know. that's how we learn. We make mistakes. We move on steve now martell as informed me of what happened. He had a marriage. Has some things going wrong in it. He didn't know how to handle it. He admittedly handled it the wrong way. he lost his family divorces final. He has children and another child outside the marriage and today he sitting here with face with what i know. A lot of men are face with. You know i've had to look at it myself. And so what. I'm saying to you now. Mantell is if i were you to move forward with because you are now your your divorces is public. It is crazy so now you know you get an eight up alive by by women. They not trying to hear you but one thing you could do. See the one thing and don't do is we don't do closure right and sometimes man closure is a very significant thing for women especially public because since your wife was embarrassed. Public see c. Is it's like it's like putting a newspaper make a mistake and the rebuttal. It'd be front page mistake. But then rebuttal be the classified section in small print. We made a mistake. They'll do that so probably the beginning of helping your girl and yourself and your kids is to publicly apologize to her and admits show wrong in it so that she can get type of relief from what she's been feeling with publicly. You feel what i'm saying. I do hundred percent and ask forgiveness. She not going forgive him. That's nothing to happen but not don't worry about that what you have to. He has to make her home not himself. Hope i have sold what what he tried to do is find a way so he can kinda put something together for this woman. I think that would be an interesting way to go about it to publicly address this situation and put her at ease so she's not at fault for some of the things. You may have say it publicly about her. It was just probably you lashing out trying to cover and all this here. 'cause i know man look when when we as men do wrong we we justify wrong with telling the woman which she did on caused us to do wrong. And that's what i've been doing for quite listen the've are shirley. She's making it certain things in terms of like i publicly said this and that so we started filming the show. I didn't wanna put our our business on tv. I wanna publicly talk about to show it but there is no no one would've known any and it was a surprise to me when she hit me in. Tv so that was the first right there all time. If you won't show match to not survive put it on tv. I think it'd be ina- no mantell is the public statement to make her whole again. That's to begin because it provides an element of closure and then after that there is a little bit of suffering that you have to endure. I did it man. I know and mine wasn't entirely my fault. Either i can tell you flat out but in the court of public opinion it don't matter the main is wrong doggy in the court of public opinion. It doesn't matter. Don't be a victim. No no no no. I'm just saying it just doesn't matter. I'm not saying to be victim it. Just don't matter. Do i'll give a damn what you say you know so it's gonna be a level of suffering that you have to endure. Because of the pain. That was a fleet. Hang on martel. Okay we're gonna take a quick break here. We'll be back with more of this live. Strawberry letter reality show right after this. You're listening to morning show all right. We're back with part five. It is part five of our lives of our live. Strawberry letter reality show today with our special guests. Martell holt who reached out to us He wanted some advice during the strawberry letter segment. And that is what we do. We give advice and martinez here seeking that and we're trying to do that and Carla during the break you said the hold on a second but just he came on the show. He told me a situation. His wife has divorced Yet outside relationships are there's another baby involved. The divorce is finalized. He loves his wife. He's not in love with her and his whole thing was. What can i do to move forward. Mice first suggestion is to provide. This woman was some type of closure. What you publicly dear to her and said to her the apology has to be at that. Same level see it. Kills me when people talk about me on the internet. Then when i catch him somewhere they want to say i'm sorry and the dressing room. Joe asked on that same internet. You was on when he's talking all that yak via when i got up in your face man to man now you now you down. Something else outbreaks showed i think martell. What's missing is you just did not show any remorse. You broke her heart. But the one thing that i never got from you is that you was sorry down. We're going to give you a hand martell to respond and to try to make right apologize and all that but we gotta take another break and we'll be back with more of this live strawberry letter reality show right after this. You're listening to morning show back. I'm taking this kind of fast. Mateo hold is on the on on the phone with us today on the radio He is families broken up. His wife divorced him He was unhappy. He stepped out. There's another child involve call. It brought up an interesting point while we've been talking about all it is. Is that the reason so many women team melody as because they kind of watched you break her on television with some of the things you say and call us said. You've never seen quite remorseful about innocent seal way to that. I am very very sorry and You know i didn't wanna bring the some. I guess my family many times. I've prayed on my knees. And at the lord's really Remove the fan from me. You know but it's like failed to this person and it just got out of hand and now that we on a reality show. It's like my becker against the wall. And then i guess you guys know know about reality shows. They get the run the narrative the way they want to run it. you know. it's a lot of things that y'all women are fan on this tv show that i really would not do in real life.

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"martell" Discussed on Strawberry Letter

Strawberry Letter

03:18 min | Last week

"martell" Discussed on Strawberry Letter

"You a couple of minutes left. So let's let's. Let's let martell floors so he can publicly apologize. Go here okay. So melody The personnel been with over fourteen years. Grew up with you We've accomplished a lot in life. We got four beautiful children and You know. I wouldn't be the person that i am and i'm not talking about the negative names but i wouldn't be the first man one thousand you I do love you. I love what we still for. And if my My deepest hope that we can you know co parent together Accomplished and make sure that we raise our children In the same way that we wanted to raise them over together. So i want to know that i am sorry to put you through this. My children's through there are families through this. I mean i it hurts me. Know her she just as much as it hurts me. And i'm sorry melody or everything i've done everything but i thank you for the opportunities that you gave me any chances to get right. Guy gave me plenty of chances to get it right. I remember us talking about. I'm things in terms of guys. Blessing us and showing us favor. And then every time i step out we lose their favor and to you I wish you the best in life. your career and about harder. I am star brother. I think his sincere. You know And one day man one day man just all get better so we thank you for joining us mateo hole. Thank you so.

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"martell" Discussed on Strawberry Letter

Strawberry Letter

08:20 min | Last week

"martell" Discussed on Strawberry Letter

"Back. I'm taking this fast. Mateo holt is on on on the phone with us today on the radio He is families broken up. His wife divorced him He was unhappy. He stepped out. There's another child involved. It bought up an interesting point while we've been talking about all of this. Is that the reason so many women are team melody because they kinda watched you break her on television with some of the things you say it and call us. Said you'd never seen quite marfa remorseful about an innocent seal way to respond to that. I am very. I'm very sorry and You know i. I didn't wanna bring the some. I guess my family knows many times. I've prayed on my knees and the lowest are really for real like Remove the fan from me. You know but if like kind of failed to this person and it just got out of hand and now that we on a reality show if like my becker against the wall and then i guess you guys know about reality shows. They get the run the narrative the way they want to run it you know. It's a lot of things that y'all women are saying on this tv. Show that i really would not do in real life you know. The entity is very serious. I i'll tell you that. The editing is their series and And i've been very apologetic to my wife but you can't control you can't control who you are on that show because there there. There's there's a has to be a way that you can control who you are. They can't make the martell bead. Be the martin. They wanted to be just because they weren't ratings. You have to be able to control the martill that you want. The the mario desperate trade out there will say this to costs really good. That's really good but when they put you in when you find meet five different people that you really would not meet in real life. That's makes you feel some type of way. I'm up here. Meeting people telling them about my relationships that i went awry. Jennifer juice is not meet today. Row my job in helping what tommy is saying this this month i did some things that they didn't have to really embellish. Just play it and sometimes man when we in front of people we flex a little bit. And i think for tomorrow understanding is it was a lot of flexing on the show when the on everybody want appear in the best light and you appeared in your best light. Put her in her worst night. Yeah and and that has caused to a family when we come back man. We're going to talk about that. The importance of the family and after you apologize to her publicly not privately. What i've seen as steve harvey. You should do to move forward. And now we'll put some type of close to the we come back. We'll be back with our last break of the day with martel from love and marriage huntsville right after this. You're listening morning. Show all right steve. Here we are last break of the day. Our very special guest today from owns love and marriage. Huntsville has been martell. Holt who reached out to us. He wanted some advice during the strawberry letter. And that's where we were. You know here trying to do. Because i believe in redemption. I mean we would tell the same person who wrote in with these same issues. You know about redemption and forgiveness and things like that and public apologies like you said so. That's what we're here for. You know ahead this you know just to recap does both the call here. He made some mistakes in his marriage. He knows that he stepped outside. He's lost his family. He walson move forward. There's another child involved and we've been talking in one of the things that i know that men are not good at his. We're not good at closure. That's not a thing about this brother is. It's a lot of and out here. That are help me and out here can know exactly where he coming from. Let's stop all this. We righteous damn. Oh you did that. Yeah yeah yeah. Yeah yeah okay and this is a story that's played out in a lot of places. This is played out all over the country all over the world all of the time an ancient this the days have changed as women doing the exact same thing. Now you know it's just. I will be truthful. Which women are way better at martyr. We're smarter just better better. So if not martell as i talked to you about apologizing you thought that would be a good move to do publicly for her to give her some closure because you know what was done. Publicly can only be undone publicly. You you know you're not gonna get your family back not in love anymore but you do love. I saw pitchy beautiful family. So now four whitman. Here's what we have to do as men even though we make a mistake. And we cost ourself the family -struction we cannot crumble the fiber of the family because kids and got nothing to do with this and kids affected by divorce. Oh are they are affected and so what they have to know at the end of this mantell from my standpoint. They have to know that day. Daddy low of more than he loves anything else. Your children have to know that. Love them more soul than you love else you've done and so it becomes a part of if you and the wife can be cool enough to sit in front of the children and show a unified fun. I don't know where y'all at with that. I don't know if that's doable. I don't know if the hurt his too much right now. 'cause sometimes take time and like bishop. Jakes told me he said you can just say i'm sorry in. Expect back in that amman. It's all good. He said that's not how this works. That's how i used to the right right because somebody got injured and even though they put a bandage on a deeply. The pain is still there. So i'm assuming martell you call because you i mean look man. Obviously you love your family your kids and so we got it. We got to get in there man and produce do you what you're saying. Step one. Steve is to publicly apologize on his road to redemption and and getting you know moving forward with his life. You're saying step one is to publicly apologize see the laws press is forgive us our trespasses as we give those who trespass against us. You can't expect god to show grace and mercy if you don't exhibit grace in mercer because that was one of the things that upset the women so much is that the arrogance seemed like you were just so arrogant about it and you know just what you kept lying about it and all and all of that. And that's what infuriated us. You were so arrogant. So selena country my business. I thought you know because it wasn't a honoree. No no no. It wasn't a plane of more tail to put ma. Because i knew what was going to happen if they got out. I didn't want it to be out. So young gonna live and i know wouldn't seen i don't want everybody to know she knew and i knew that should have been it. It's an umbrella to the you guys should have been brought to the world. You know 'cause. I've never going to happen. So how about when we well. At least you're honest about event this michelle show every man on the show. Ask.

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"martell" Discussed on Strawberry Letter

Strawberry Letter

06:46 min | Last week

"martell" Discussed on Strawberry Letter

"Might tell hope from love and huntsville right after this. This is the steve harvey. Show you're listening to morning. Show all right our special guests. This is a special live edition of the strawberry letter for today. Our guest is martell. Hope that's right. I said martel holt from love and marriage huntsville on own. Martell reached out to us. He is seeking advice from steve. He wanted he wants to move on now. He wants to move on and it's nothing wrong with that because that is like you have to move on. You know. that's how we learn. We make mistakes. We move on steve. Now martell as inform me of what happened. He had a marriage. Has some things going wrong in it. He didn't know how to handle it. He admittedly handled it. Wrong way He lost his family divorces final. He has children and another outside marriage and today he sitting here with face with what i know. A lot of men are face with you. Know i've had to look at it myself. So what i'm saying to you now. Martell is if i were you to move forward because you are now your your divorces is public crazy so now you know you get an eight up alive by by women. They're not trying to hear you but one thing you could do see the one thing we don't do is we. Don't do closure right. And sometimes man closure is a very significant thing for women especially public because since your wife was embarrassed publicly see see the. It's like it's like when the newspaper makeup mistake and rebuttal. It'd be front-page mistake. But then the rebuttal be classified section in small print. We made a mistake. They'll do that. So probably the beginning of helping your girl and yourself and your kids to publicly apologize to her and it show wrong in it so that she can get some type of relief from what she's been feeling with publicly. You feel what i'm saying. I'd be one hundred percent forgiveness. She not go forgive him. There's nothing to happen. he can go on. Don't don't worry about that. what you after. He has to make her home not himself. Hope has so what will he try to respond the way so he can kinda put something together for this woman. I think that would be an interesting way to go about it to publicly address this situation and put her at ease so she's not at fault for some of the things you may of say it publicly about her. It was just probably you lashing out trying to cover and all this. 'cause i know man look man when when you know when we as me and do wrong we we justify wrong with telling the woman which she did wrong caused us to do wrong. And that's what i've been doing for quite some. We're listen thief our it Shirley she's making it certain things in terms of like i say that so we started filming the show. I didn't wanna put our our business on tv. I didn't i didn't wanna publicly. about showed. did not know would have known anything and it was a surprise to me when she hit me in tv. So that was the first it right there. I pee all time. If you won't show match to nas survive put it on tv. I think it'd be into no mantell is the public statement to make her whole again in the beginning because it provides an element of closure and then after that there is a little bit of suffering that you have to endure. I did it man. I know and mine wasn't entirely my fault. Either i can tell you flat out but in the court of public opinion. It'll matter demanded grown doggy in the court of public opinion. It doesn't matter. Don't be a victim. I tell no no. I'm just saying it just doesn't matter. I'm not saying to be a victim. It just don't matter do. I'll give them what you say you know. So it's gonna be a level of suffering that you have to do because of the pain that was inflicted hang on marcel. Okay we gotta take a quick break. Here we'll be back with more of this live strawberry letter reality show right after this. You're listening to morning show all right. We're back with part five. It is part of our lives letter wheel of our lives. Strawberry letter reality. Show today with our special guests. Martell holt who reached out to us. He wanted some advice during the strawberry letter segment and that is what we do. We give advice and martel here seeking that and we're trying to do that and Carla during the break he said well hold on a second but he came on the show. He told me a situation. His wife has divorced yet outside relationships as now the baby involved. The divorce is finalized. He loves his wife. He's not in love with her and his whole thing was. What can i do to move forward. Moss first suggestion is to provide this woman with some type of closure. What you publicly did to her and say it hurt. The apology has to be at that. Same level see it. Kills me when people talk about me on the internet. Then when i catch him somewhere they wanna say i'm sorry and addressing rule. Joe ask it on that same internet. You was on when you talk near. When i got up in your face man to man now you now you down. Some melt outbreaks showed i think martell. What's missing you just did not show any remorse. It you draw car heart but the one thing that i never got from you is that you was sorry. We're going to give dance martell to respond and to make it right. Try to make right on apologize and all that but we gotta take another break and we'll be back with more of this live strawberry letter reality show right after this. You're listening.

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"martell" Discussed on Strawberry Letter

Strawberry Letter

08:15 min | Last week

"martell" Discussed on Strawberry Letter

"Have de. I think the communication with my wife. I think just like like what she mentioned to me. What i should have done it. I should literally grabbed her instead her down and had that adult conversation opposed to the things that i was complaining about. Will just complain candidly. You know opposed to really saying. Hey listen. We haven't issue. Let's sit down. Let's talk about it because it's making me feel a certain way not wasn't be pleasant for our our marriage so like what she mentioned. I better communication. Okay now let me ask you something were you while you were. Ask having these verbal complaints. Was there anything you was doing. That deserved a complaint. Well she wasn't complaining about about too much. You know we We had children Where we have children. And you know i was like the dumbest parent you know. We're no it wasn't anything that she was complaining about. It wasn't now she just was was no no wasn't she wasn't complaining 'cause she didn't know everything i'm not sure i mean. We have to have her on the phone for that because willingly did you do the cheating part pretty good and for how long before about it. Yeah i was when. I was complaining when i thought the complain. That's around the same time that stepped out and i thought that complained turn things then wasn't adjusted to a wanted which was selfish. I'm a different. I stepped out and you know it went about a year before she found out. What on for years. Now let me ask you something. Do you think in your mind that the stepping out also brought about the demise of the relationship. I would definitely saito because they're probably Took something out of me that could then going to what my wife and was issuing over here to someone else so i totally agree with that. Baby involves steve what you mean. He has a baby with this other woman. Yes he's about five years on down the line yeah women. Don't watch the show sti baby with this other woman. Yeah women don't you. The other woman got pregnant. she did. I mean this is what we All type so it's not like it happened early on but we're hold on hold on hold on caused. After she found out she was cheat. How long were you all married. After she found out it took a fire years to find out if she found out five years ago. Oh okay so. She stayed which she found out us. Chief okay but okay how. How old is the baby to new baby newborn around christmas right this christmas if the newborn we can't undo none of this food so i'm just trying to get the facts. Okay okay so i'll just leave it alone. You got a newborn but you have. How many children would your wife. All you got four kids. How close in age is last to see Malir millennials she just they one and a half and my third spot boyer different. She well before we. I wanted to say this to steve before we do run out of time. Martel did come on here to get some advice from where we're going to do this while we we go. This is longer than two strawberry lettuce it is. We covered it over to break number three part. I don't want to do wanna hear the soldier out. 'cause look i've been there and i can quit trip every man. Every man noticed story. Stop acting brand new. Every man notice story all right. hold up. Hold up steve. We'll have part three of the strawberry letter with our special guests. This live strawberry letter with martel of martell. Hold from levin marriage huntsville. We'll be back at forty six minutes after the hour right after this. You're listening to leave. Harvey morning show are here. We are steve. live with. Martel holt from owns love and marriage. Huntsville now come on for advice. Come on the show for advice now had to get some background took me. Tim breaks to get the background. Martell was married to a woman they have a family together. He admittedly stepped out and now found out. There's another child involved and divorces final. And so now he is and he's admitted that he did some things wrong. What i learned myself was. You can't fix in your house. Uk fix what's wrong in your house outside. You'll house a lot of men. Go that route to be honest with you. you know. there's something wrong and they start telling it to somebody and somebody give listening in next thing you know they listening real good and they seem to be understanding next thing you know so some things john paul so mateo where we're at right. Now what would you like to accomplish with this phone call. You know so right now. I guess i'm going through a tough time because we we do have four children I divorced just it's been over. What about a month ago now. And i guess i do want to move forward But i guess. I need to know how do i move on In terms of like do i start to you. Know i'm not gonna say start dating someone now but like half like what are the future look lights and i don't worry about that but let me but status because i don't care how marriage go at the end of the day. The children had nothing to do with it. And every man that has been found guilty of this every last one of us who have been guilty. This have had to grapple with the facts that we blew a family. We messed up a family yemen. Because it's an in his heart man because you know in the words of theresa and that song shame. What am i supposed to tell these kids see. That's that's the gripper and that's where a lot of us as men. We don't have groups to help us through these moments like this is seeing a therapist by the way who therapist. Yeah he's singing therapists. I have therapist. Is he divorced. No no we've been there thirty. Seven years in my thing is the reason i wanted to stick with houston honestly is because i feel that you've been through some things that's what i'm saying and you are like the best person to seek advice from someone has actually been through something i don't talk to you. Don't go learn how to squeeze them somebody case wheels. We'll come back more break. Number eight.

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"martell" Discussed on Strawberry Letter

Strawberry Letter

07:50 min | Last week

"martell" Discussed on Strawberry Letter

"Com. All right. so here we go. This is the strawberry letter is live today. We haven't done a live with strawberry letter in quite some times years. It's been a long well today. We have a special guest. I'm sure you guys have seen the own series and marriage huntsville love and marriage huntsville from that. Show is one of the stars. Mr martell halt will be joining us today. Now steve let's clear something up okay. Martell reached out to us. We did not go to find. Martell martel reached out to us. He steady sincerely seeking advice now. He is attempting to move forward with his life and he knows that we encourage him to tell his truth. Let me give you a little background about love and marriage huntsville. It is a reality show. Like i said. I've never seen this show. I know i know number one. Show one going to say that martel is the number one show on on. Wait wait hold on. Just the okay. I think i think ready to love is number one so much. Thank leases two different things. Go here alan. Love and marriage huntsville. Is this show. That seem to come out of nowhere out of huntsville. Alabama it's about these three very prosperous black couples entrepreneurial state yeah they're real estate development anyway there in huntsville alabama they have a group company name called the comeback group. That's how it started. And that's what you thought you were going to see. You know how they navigate through their businesses and their marriages. But what what came out of that was the marriage between martell and melody holt and the dynamic of their marriage and what they were going through comes to come to find out. There was a lot going on that we didn't even know about. I see this beautiful couple. I mean beautiful melody. Hope is stunning. Stunningly gorgeous woman. They were married four children three children. At first they had some problems. She heard he was cheating. They work through it and then she got pregnant. They got pregnant again with the fourth child. So that's kind of how it was then. After that there were more rumors of cheating more rumors of cheating and well. It didn't end so well. So far marks. They ended up in divorce court. Just it's just a mess. Okay it is just really really really at this point a mess and you know people like mess. So that's why we watch the show. That's why everybody is so into love and marriage huntsville on the own network so again martell reached out to us because you know he is getting bashed and you know some people say deservedly so because he cheated he had a beautiful family and he cheated and lost his family so now he wants advice. I'm assuming martell you're you're you want to move forward and try to you. Know go on with your life. Basically is that why. You're here definitely so i would definitely say that being a husband. I'm sorry being a husband. And you know i'm not gonna say not having a father figure or not having black role model Not having that as an excuse. But you know i was really like learning like trial and error as i was going out with married for like twelve thirteen years. And you know. We had a lot of up and down great towns and not so great times and But you know failed. And that's why i'm here because for my future to be better here plane you know. I don't want to continue to do the things that i've done the past okay. Can i ask a question. 'cause i don't know the answer ten so is are you divorced. Are you married. is it over. Are you trying to get back inside. Yeah we The divorce is final final as a about a month ago but his life after married to life after a divorce you know well yeah i do not want to called the right man i figure out how to do it again To the beautiful thing it really is. I enjoy being married. Man jeopardy things happened. I guess i just really. I dropped the ball. I really can't okay. Okay so let me ask you when you say you dropped the ball. Tell me where you where you thank. You went wrong thinking. I deserve more. Well i think being greeted. I think i was being greedy. You know and at times you know. I would definitely say that i was saying that my wife wasn't doing certain things within the relationship But i guess. I should have communicated that. I'm in a different way opposed to stepping out. Yeah okay well. We're not gonna do is we're just gonna tell your truth. We're we're going to ex wife. We're not gonna we're not gonna bash or blame. Oh no no no no. That's not at all not at all you're saying how mixed up. How in a different way. So no no no no negative thing nature. I kind of felt that but there was a lot of that though. Steve which is why. I said it show lot. There was a lot of that. He didn't do it just now. I ain't seen the show so let me let me let me keep saying women. If other the women coming at me just like she just did how they come at forever doll. Yeah i tell you live in. This went down but martel. You're here you wanted to come. We allowed you to come. We welcome you to the show and we do want you to tell your side of it. We so we welcome melody to do the same thing if she would like to. Well when we come back a couple of questions that you can answer for me and then we'll go from. There are special guest today. Is martell hope from levin marriage huntsville on the own channel sixty five. We'll be back. Remember navin right after space. You're listening to steve harvey morning. Show all right steve. We are back with our live strawberry letter like we said earlier. The first one. We've done in many many years. I special guest. Today is martell. Holt from the own networks love and marriage huntsville. We can recap so. Do you have an idea of what's going on now stephen. Now you said you haven't watched you watched the show but just brothers on here. He had a family. He lost a family because He well yeah. he didn't. He didn't know how to how to how to how to how to do it. And he said in his own words he was just greedy and so we called the demise of his family. What i just pulled a pitch. It looked up beautiful family and so divorce is final. Now so let me ask you this mantell if you could do anything differently. What would you.

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"martell" Discussed on The Hustle & Flowchart Podcast

The Hustle & Flowchart Podcast

03:06 min | 7 months ago

"martell" Discussed on The Hustle & Flowchart Podcast

"Is You have your you know your own profile is on there and it says eighty dollars and thirty three cents an hour. Like. All right. So that's not that's not by accident I? Didn't think so and that's why I'm happy brought this up because anybody listening you value every minute eighty, three dollars and thirty three cents. So if you're doing this time blocking thing why not find out your per minute rate and then start using that as your time blocking, you know a calendar I when I when I when I audit like my I don't have a whole team of coaches now. But when I worked with my private again, always always trying to get laverick dry. The cool is my clients. My coaches are people that coached have exited. Companies are now back helping me with my in new clients, but my private clients work with we do time stunts. Is In fifteen minute increments. People don't understand like believe time the time between meetings right the shape that lead time minor leaving get that and come back. That's Thomas took away where I wanna be like onto it I don't leave my house to run errands Ariza the stupidest thing you possibly do that is ten dollars tasks at its best right but most people there is fine because I think many write a book on this topic because. When I asked people like why would you not hire somebody part time even to do some of this stuff there's just couldn't see myself invest that money. So that comes down to self worth. Yeah. They don't feel worthy of ood asked asked me. So that would be more of the awareness is start there. So yeah what are you worth like? What are you doing? There's probably an audit fees and here's this worthy equations I teach. I got this from my buddy taught her credit to Mr Herman. If you take the goal of your. Kind of like business. Let's say it's a million dollars a year. The value creation per day has to be five thousand dollars because you're essentially saying there's two hundred days a year Aaron Jacob. Going weekends, holidays Cetera rights to turn her days by thousand dollars as a million dollar your business. So you need to spend you won't make you can't get the five thousand by doing our task. So no million dollar companies that were built by ten dollar on is possible. The limit is actually three hundred grand. You will hit like revenues literally of your Show you his customers like revenue bands, they're like zero to three, hundred, k. three, hundred, two, million, two, million to ten, and then ten thirty is usually like where things settle. And the reason why is because you? The entrepreneur needs alert a whole different set of skills to get to the next level. To go from three hundred K. to two million, you need to learn to work through other people. Three Hundred K. is about the highest point were any normal. It will be able to get leverage with their own time a specialist. Yeah Yeah because all you're doing is you're the specialist with little little fingers little assistance out. Seventy percent of your time on high fight like really valuable stop hundred dollars an hour five, hundred dollars an.

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"martell" Discussed on The Hustle & Flowchart Podcast

The Hustle & Flowchart Podcast

03:11 min | 7 months ago

"martell" Discussed on The Hustle & Flowchart Podcast

"You don't hire a role or capacity you literally higher for you. So they you have more time to work on five hundred, dollar our tasks. If all sudden, you're only working on five, hundred, five, thousand in a week. Or even better where I've at were like my life is pretty much. Five thousand only do things like being on podcast has that kind of value because you have an audience right and even except in the as you know like you have to be a certain size in an audience or it's just not like high leverage right first conversation you and I had a couple of weeks ago was like fifteen minutes and I think the only reason why we're chatting really is because you know we're connected in various newer people travis being one of them see Roland Frazier. And you said straight up, you know I would give away money anytime before my time like bad way saying but basically money would go with. Easier, ask for me. If you want some for me, you can ask for money that's a way easier thing for me to get right. I can't get my time back and I am because I teach it it's also like this great accountability thing where I don't want to be like a out of integrity like I need to protect it like I teach my clients protected in. It's just it's just become like what like rate at four o'clock when we're doing this thing this showed up in my office as it just as an example and I'm not trying to lack sometimes. You're such a fucking. Pfizer. Guy called me once those takeoff to serve. I have a house manager that brought me my shake at four o'clock every day. Why? Because I'm not going to spend ten minutes go up to my kitchen to make shape come out. So beautiful, you're really fucking lazy. I. Go. That's cool. Communism Lazy I don't care I literally could get chefs last. I'm just more concerned that people don't understand the concept if I literally take away ten, dollar, five, hundred, fifty, dollar, hundred dollar tasks and. Out of my calendar so that my calendar is one hundred percent, two things I either anti with my family and my friends or I work. And when I'm doing either of those one hundred percent like hunter sending on the family more a hundred percent work when I'm working you better believe those five thousand dollars in our task. Those are strategic business like designing models, designing leadership teams like really important in the way you get to that level is you slowly work way. So people always like Hey Hawaii next I can't tell you that but I can tell you the process you should go through which is audit your time and look we're spending. Time on just inefficient stop in higher that. So just for everybody listening if you don't have an assistant, that's your first higher So you'll have a new one it's called you. And you are the bottleneck and you're so many collateral damage things that can happen because you're just not pushing on the gas pedal your literally driving with the brakes on some thinking of this because we look this. Clarity. Is You have your you know your own profile is on there and it says eighty dollars and thirty three cents an hour. Like. All right. So that's not that's not by accident I? Didn't think so and that's why I'm happy brought this up because anybody listening you value.

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"martell" Discussed on The Hustle & Flowchart Podcast

The Hustle & Flowchart Podcast

05:38 min | 7 months ago

"martell" Discussed on The Hustle & Flowchart Podcast

"We back. Yes. We are for another episode another episode of Hussy blowy. I guess the Good Word Hawk. No strings shorting hustle and flow chart. Stick with the originally, I won't call US huskies anymore. We're the flow. Bros... There you go. Yeah. Because we we hustle less now we hustle less. Slow more. The hustle and flow chart was really more a play on words about like our roles in the business. We need to hustle but. Yes somebody referred to us. It's flow brose and I think it's just kind of stuck forget who that was but. You're out there. Let us know who that was. By multiple people probably. Another bro that we can add to the floor for the. But. It's episode has Dan Martell and this guy definitely flowed during the episode. There's he is the man in software SAS. I feel like I've said this on a lot of podcast now. So they probably doesn't hold a lot of weight anymore but this is actually one of my favorite podcasts interviews we've done no I would be on the scenes but right after and Dan if you're hearing this, it's true. We hit stop and take the headphones off and kind of looked at Matt's like that. Was I, think my favorite episode at least a very long time but I think you've just said straight out, it's my favorite episode damn all right. I would agree there's so many things that like. So, he's a software guy he he I mean he'll get news story. There's no reason why we should even recap it now but just know that he has all around software, but it wasn't always like that. Like if you're in the software game, you need to know donut talking about software. In fact I don't even really touch that much software. That's my point is like this is applied across the Board Yeah Like how to grow a business like flat out doesn't matter what kind of business it is. But with the software thinking yeah like as a coder in the way of pattern recognition and. Repeatable things all the way down to his content strategy that he uses on youtube and blog an email to support his business. But. You could apply this across the board I. Mean He's a prolific investor he's invested in like massive company and. there's but sweet he's an adviser for so many of 'em you know who he was one of them I mean there's a list and he tells me he'll name them all off I'm Jonah Blank right now is we're we're shooting the CENTRO. Yeah he's he's a pretty prolific investor and It seems like he finds winners really consistently. So we had to sort of dig it on that too like how does he pick these investments? How does he find the company's? He's going to invest in and I thought that led to a really good discussion as well. It was interesting. We didn't really dig into it enough but ran from the cops at one point he did run pursuit too. So he came from an interesting background and turned all that stuff around but he but you can see how that relates to what got him to where he's at now. So it's super fascinating. The guy is just an amazing man. This podcast is valued at over five thousand dollars actually it's right at five thousand. Eighty three dollars and thirty three cents but. Permit Mulcair but that's makes that's so you'll hear how Dan. Values his time. But how he helps his folks, You Know Who's coaching folks have value their time so. that. was actually an eye opening thing in how you can actually then buy back your time. Yeah. The buyback blueprint gets I got that that's powerful share there everyone no matter who you are I mean do that because he breaks down the math and it's just simpler is so much good stuff in this episode, this is one that Joan I already said. Let's listen back to the we're actually we actually are making an appointment to sit down and listen back to it and have a discussion around this episode who enjoyed. This episode. So you're in for a treat and we're taking notes for Ya. So get the notes please for the love of God. You have two weeks of this episode going live. That's just how it works free but then they go away because we gotta pay people somehow. Get. The notes for free it's at Hustle and flow chart dot com slash comp. Yup. What is it meant hustling flow chart dot com slash. CEO. Just in case they didn't understand you know my accent. Yeah. There's a way you can send a phone number. If you Texas COP two, three, eight, four, seven, zero, you can get it that way to. Whatever works for you we'll get it to you know get them. You're gonNA love these things. Yup. Go go go talk to Dan. Dan We're live I. Know you've been live on I g already, but it's official how you doing I'm doing amazing. Thanks so much for me. Of course, while you're doing it right we were chatting about kind of what you're doing in. Candidate now but on the boat floating around but you're just living the life man, you're doing a lot of cool. Twenties to kind of to live a little bit more integrated life in my thirties and forties. So right brutes of Wada hard labor I, know, yeah we have a ton of mutual friends. It seems like now and a lot of you know our mentors and the folks who look up for up to their in your masterminds you coach them through software and stuff like that. And the tickets back because you have a hell of a story and it's kind of like you got a mix of just this interesting passed in and like you said grinding but even before then but now you're like pretty much. Every SAS founder knows you so I mean that's marketing work today. I decided probably three or four years ago that I wanted to become the number one coach. To SAS offer services but sausage or so you know today I get to coach boundaries of Click finals carrot who's trevor from organizers gotten their dot?.

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"martell" Discussed on 600 WREC

600 WREC

02:00 min | 1 year ago

"martell" Discussed on 600 WREC

"Martell foundation Vicki Ferguson is here from fox six and so was the weekend when we got making well we're starting out with some pretty warm temperatures this morning our tips were about ten degrees above average and were warming up scaled about eighty six degrees today could see a few isolated showers into west Alabama tonight slows down to sixty five years but ready for a hot couple days Saturday eighty eight degrees ninety degrees on Sunday with partly cloudy skies could see a slight chance of showers in the west Alabama by Sunday afternoon from the WBRC first alert weather center I'm Mickey Ferguson for Alabama's mourning the and right now we do have some sunshine words seventy newsradio one oh five five W. E. R. C. join the T. J. Martell foundation in the fight against leukemia cancer and aids your support helps facilitate cutting edge research that will lead to more effective treatments and save more lives visit TJ Martel dot org to learn about music's promise for a cure fifty four Alabama's morning news I'm J. T. this is just crazy here Wednesday this past week you know just a couple days ago seven eleven cashier in Indiana ask a guy to put a mask on Ole facemask right inside the store he responded by throwing coffee interface then came back later and intact here's lieutenant Tim Williams with the police department throwing hot water on somebody you know that definitely as an aggravated battery or assault if you wanna call which one you want to call but you know and then you know kicking me and punching them I mean it's uncalled for whether you like wanna master not as we know we have to become violent in the us all the other people it looked folks if you can't play well with each other in the sandbox than they don't come to the sandbox that's.

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Coronavirus: Trump retweets call to fire gov't expert Fauci

Rush Limbaugh

00:59 min | 1 year ago

Coronavirus: Trump retweets call to fire gov't expert Fauci

"Governor Wednesday Cuomo said then he wants partly to hold cloudy talks high with governors fifty Murphy two and Lamont about a regional Richard a wedding eventual at the weather re channel opening on seven but he says ten first W. there's O. a lot R. of information this report out there is sponsored to be absorbed by unbound you look around the world dot you org see right now warning there are young signs people people across across from from the the countries countries world world facing facing who who a a have have tough tough opened opened choice choice and and continue continue my my point point their their dream dream is is of of to to education education our our team team or or drop drop out out I I to to help help want want their their families families to to learn learn put put food food from from on on those those the the table table other other countries countries you you can can president president help help change change trump trump their their will will future future no no doubt doubt in in be be a a asked asked single single about about moment moment it it today see he how has far retweeted your support a message can go on Twitter at featuring sundown criticism dot org of Dr Wall Anthony Street Fauci right now the Dow from is Sunday down night four retweeted hundred thirty a message nine points on Twitter nasdaq that was is critical off thirty of Dr nine Anthony found and G. and the S. included and P. is down the hashtag just about forty fire found that is she brought you by opposed the T. J. Martell by conservative foundation activists joined in California the T. J. Martell foundation takes issue in with the fight doctor against found leukemia G. on cancer CNN and on aids Sunday your where he support acknowledged helps that facilitate putting social cutting edge distancing research measures that will lead in to place more effective earlier treatments and would save have more made lives visit TJ Martel dot org to learn about music's promise for a cure next news at two thirty breaking news at one starter David Lambert Michael riddle in the morning six to ten tomorrow morning I'm Jeff McKinney seven ten W. O. R. N. B. C. news radio station fifty nine degrees now it's two oh six W. O.

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"martell" Discussed on NewsRadio WIOD

NewsRadio WIOD

03:03 min | 1 year ago

"martell" Discussed on NewsRadio WIOD

"By the T. J. Martell foundation across the west bend all the road construction is blocking a railing as well in Broward turnpike southbound construction blocking the on ramp from commercial Boulevard the traffic on the three and six ten W. I. O. D. barely holding on to eighty degrees this afternoon a mix of clouds with some sunshine and a light breeze it's now twelve oh two the coronavirus crisis leading to more states and hospitals Louisiana reporting at the largest increase in deaths in the last twenty four hours lieutenant governor telling ABC news that the state will be maxed out of hospitals and ventilators by the end of this weekend in New York the epicenter for the nation leading hospitals are now issuing new rules this is Erin could her skin New York where public hospitals are only testing patients for corona virus you require hospitalization the guidance is to stay home and isolate yourself for at least seven days if you have a fever cough shortness of breath or a sore throat only severe cases should come to the hospital for tests and treatment a new study out of China published in the science journal lancet tells us who might be more at risk once infected here's ABC's Dr Jennifer Ashton men and women are equally likely to become infected but for every age group men have twice the risk of death of women and we're not sure why that is I'm Michelle Franzen ABC news well there's still no word on exactly what will happen with two Holland America ships with dead and sick passengers on board expected to be sailing your port Everglades by tomorrow afternoon before the vessels can even enter U. S. waters they must present a plan that has to be approved by the Coast Guard and the Coast Guard wants all six ships to stay at sea where they could be sequestered indefinitely our commissioner mark Bogen said they have not heard from the ships we're calling them over the weekend they did returning your phone calls they didn't contact us governor to Santos wants to send medical personnel to the ships instead of allowing them to dock president trump disagrees with this he says will talk to the governor about allowing them in as a matter of humanity when disbursement newsradio six ten WYO D. local funeral homes are bracing for the fallout from the corona virus pandemic Michelle hood from the independent funeral directors of Florida says survivors have to change their expectations many families would like to have a memorial service for a funeral service with two hundred people but that's just not bowl in today's climate could says many funeral homes are webcasting services while refusing to allow more than ten people to attend in person Miami Dade is full steam ahead in its attempt to prevent the spread of covert nineteen there Carlos Jimenez has signed an emergency order ordering adult day cares to close in incorporated and unincorporated areas of the county affected April third at eleven fifty nine PM the order is part of what he says are ongoing measures to help stop the spread of code nineteen among our most fragile residents and another drive through code nineteen testing site will open tomorrow in Hialeah and Amelia Earhart park starting tomorrow those who are sixty five or older experiencing symptoms of code nineteen can get tested at the park you have to call ahead for an appointment at three oh five to six eight four three one nine three.

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Sharing Your Long Term Strategic Plan With Your Team

The $100 MBA Show

06:44 min | 1 year ago

Sharing Your Long Term Strategic Plan With Your Team

"Before we get into details of why you want to share your long term strategic plan plan with your team the benefits of it and had to do it. Let's talk about what a strategic plan is. It's basically a very simple document. This could be five or six pages and I. It's simply a Google Doc. We prefer Google dunk because everybody on our company has a company email and we can easily share here this dock with anybody with a company email and the doc is basically an overview of what our mission our vision is with a company is all about what we do who who our customers are how we actually acquire these customers but then he goes into the details of what we want to accomplish in the next year in the next six three years and in the next ten years and it actually starts with a ten year plan. And I like that because this actually gives you a broader perspective on what you're trying to achieve in the long term a ten year plan a really allows you to see where the company is going what the ambitions is our and also sells your police when they read it. Hey this company is here to stay and actually has a plan for the next ten years that really inculcates a lot of confidence but but even just for you as the leader you understand. Hey this is where we see ourselves in ten years when you have a ten year plan or a- tenure vision you really start to realize wow I gotta think big I think a how M- really going to influence the marketplace and really help our users than the people that we serve serve customers and this plan has detailed numbers like how much revenue you're gonNA make every month will your profitability goals. What's the size of your your company? How many employees? What some of the products or features your products will half what are some milestones or? Maybe there are certain people you're trying to connect with in your business people that are that you would love to have his users or clients who's on that wishlist for your clients. So that's the ten year plan but you're under the same thing for three years as well as the next year two thousand twenty and then you break down that year that you have head into quarterly goals. Quarter one two three and four. What you you're going to achieve in each quarter? What's the focus? What are the outcomes? What are the deadlines so you understand? What the focus is for the next three months? It's a very very clean and straightforward strategic. Plan that looks ahead as far as ten years as well as the next three months onces nears three months shouted Dan Martell. Dan Martell DOT COM our business coach. Who shared this Strategy with us the strategic plan we implemented it And it's thanks to him so now that you have your should planet and by the way it took us a good to full working days to put together there are strategic plan. A lot of discussion a lot of No taking and writing down and really just trying to figure out where we're heading and this is a group exercise anybody who is in upper management. You know we met with me. WHO's the CEO the COO Nicole as well as our CTO Taylor and we really went through the whole document? point-by-point made sure that we were happy with the answers that we knew without a shadow of a doubt. Some clarity to where we're we're going in the next ten years three years year each quarter. Now once we nailed our strategic plan it was time to share with the team and this is the leap. A lot of people. Don't take Jake we decided. Hey why are we just keeping this to ourselves. Let's share with every single person that works on the team to the understand what they're working towards the also so can see how they can contribute towards those goals in whatever role they're in this is incredibly helpful and I'll share some of the things that I learned through sharing drink the strategic plan with the team. So how do we do this. Well we do an all hands meeting this meeting with every single employee every single month and it's a video call because we're a remote team team and there's people around the world that work for us so we wanted to make sure that we address this strategic plan in that meeting so we dedicate about twenty minutes into the meeting. We went through the document. Would you go into super detail. But we went through enough for them to understand the highlights but then after the meeting we said we're GONNA share this document with everybody was shared in the Google doc and we said Hey. Do you have any questions. Please let us know. Want you to take your time and read this in detail but we went over the highlights at the meeting itself. We didn't get a big agree action or a lot of feedback. I think we'll just kind of absorbing what they heard but afterwards I got a lot of private messages and on meetings or on calls got a lot of great positive feedback from the team saying hey I really found that useful. I now understand why we're doing what we're doing. I understand our wise accompany more of the things I was really surprised by how inspiring it was inspired. Wow this is where we're going in ten years is what we're going to do with somebody's GonNa look like this is incredible. I WANNA be part of it. It also instills confidence in your team. Like hey this team. This management team has it together. You could be doing this. And if you don't share they don't no no it. They don't know what you do behind the scenes but when you share they're like Oh wow. The Siem actually has a plan for us and that management really has our backs and sharing sharing what they've decided with us so that were in the know so it gives them confidence in management in you but most of all what this does by sharing your your strategic plan with your team it gives them the blueprint of how to win the understand. What winning looks like this is what winning? Looks like at my Mike Company and this company. If you feel like you're winning these are the things that we have to accomplish. Managing you're playing a sport but you didn't know how to score your know what would get you points on the scoreboard. That'd be incredibly frustrating. And that's how things are in a lot of companies people show up to work. The do the tests are told but they're not really sure if they're doing well or not with a strategic plan could say. Hey you know what I'm doing things towards the plan towards the goals we have in the near future and in the long term future now even though we shared this this strategic plan. This is not the end. It's GonNa take more iterating more time more discussion. We're going to have to refer back to it in our next all hands meeting we're GONNA have to talk about it in our retreats people need reminders and we all need to be reminded of what the prizes what we're trying to work towards so this has got to be something that it's not just shared once and just forgot about has referred back to it's got to be like the scoreboard. Look at the score. How we doing have we hit our goals for the quarter

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"martell" Discussed on The Ikonns

The Ikonns

11:12 min | 1 year ago

"martell" Discussed on The Ikonns

"Today's podcast episode we have Denver will a very successful serial entrepreneur but also friend of ours that we have no free years Dan Martell has been a mentor and Inspiration and I'm into him on such a deep human level because I've known Dan as business person and this Polish successful confident man and then I up into listen to this podcast and hear his story where I realized Gosh like he has faced so much darkness in his life and how he came in and how he built himself up it was just beyond me so I'm really excited for you guys to listen to the story if you going through something in your life right now anything you can get out listen to dance story and I'm sure you will be inspired this episode has so many takeaways I'm just excited for you guys here a one of my favorite podcasts we've done today listen to the whole thing there's so many gets Dan in the end drops a lot of value highly recommend listen to this whole episode enjoy it because it has been one of my favorite podcasts they then it's such a pleasure to have you here thanks me muses fun I'm excited we had ably dinner and Ice Chad and getting laid and we're like wait before you leave and we need to get through a story because I remember listening to a podcast years ago this must have been when we still lived in Toronto and I used to listen to so many more podcast because it would be in the car for like hours every day and your story was so touching and inspirational and I would really loved to start with that and you're so inspiring so many ways when it comes to business you've given us so much advice that really helped us with here Plymouth in all of our business this is but also just your personal story I find a so inspiring as well so if we can go back to even let's say the first ten years of your life what was your childhood like I grew up in pretty challenging environment my mom is alcoholic and my dad was in sales traveled a lot and so I really didn't see him a whole lot and I'm the second oldest four and you were born Dr in Moncton New Brunswick Canada East Canada and I think it was like around eight nine years old started acting out at home and parents brought me to like you know causes therapist and I got diagnosed with Adhd at both ten eleven years old so put on Ritalin and his weird at a young age all of a sudden now you know I was hyper but then now it's like oh I'm broken there's something wrong with me I have to take a pill every day and I used to have bad anger issues and then I learned later in therapy kind of act that way but you know I just take these crazy blackout see red tantrums and when I was twelve my parents had to call the police and they took me away twelve yeah I got put into a crisis center because I was threatening to hurt myself and other people around me and I woke up I remember waking up the next morning kind of like in this Condo with staff and like no kitchen knives essentially places they put kids at needed supervision that ended up in foster care shortly after my foster data was his first and only kid ever since never had another there had ruined it for him the logger funnier story but it kind of culminated when I convince them to buy me fireworks for this trip we're doing when he wasn't around I essentially cut them in half and accidentally let them off in his house only because like fourth of July in his Living Room Roman candle shooting all over the place like this beautiful like this carpet on the ground book shelves and I ran away because like okay probably beat the crap out of me or whatever I'm twelve at this point please find me at my friend's house bring me back and his name was Dave and he was crying at the front step in just said like I can't take them yeah so I'm sitting in the back of the police car and I can kind of see him and it was pretty tough moment because twice that my parents said it and I ended up in a group home with kids seventeen eighteen year old that that twelve teaching me stuff they should never learn and I got introduced to drugs at thirteen and my life spiraled out of control fast forward a couple of years ended up in jail fifteen for summer uh got out that I was going to change my life day I got out back in it with the same friends about a year later I found myself in a stolen vehicle high and drunk driving with a handgun in a bag sitting next to me because when I stole the car I said if the police catch me GonNa pull the gun to end let them do their job I don't want to go back to you and I pulled over this place called Sussex New Brunswick for gas and there was a routine roadblock and I stopped he asked me about my license I told me it was my mom's car and he asked me to pull over and I just got it and ended up in a high speed chase didn't last very long ended up in neighborhood thought I could maybe pull in garage and hiding get into the woods or whatever and ended up coming around the corner way too fast smashed into the side of a house and went for the gun and sitting there in the our poll non the gun I could hear the police opened their doors and kept pulling on employ got stuck in the bag and then they opened the door grabbed me my feet didn't even touch the ground ended up in the back of a cop car so I woke up over the next morning in a jail cell and realize like somebody must have been looking out for me 'cause I expect to be alive and ended up in adult jail for this verity my crimes where I did about six months and eventually got released to a Rehab Center that literally saved my life at seventeen eleven months in therapy and it was a therapeutic community called poor Taj and it was a lot of healing management and habits big thing on habits they do these things all basic values and most people did a six month program for almost a year and it was at the end of that program had to rebuild my relationship with my family and my friends my parents I mean every I burned every bridge possible even with my brothers and sisters I was helping rick the maintenance guy clean out it was an old church camp they converted us he was cleaning out this camp and in one of the rooms was an old forty six Theater with a yellow book on Jaffa programming I never touched a computer prior to that was like Oh this is neat and I opened the book and Java's like one of the first programming language read like English if you've ever looked javascript you know but it was like if this then so chapter one boot up the computer follow the instructions I mean it was like basic but I got the computers say hello world like nobody knows his duty house do know anyways is like a seventeen year old doctor on the TV show anyways I thought it was like this like secret computer nerd didn't know because I never touched a computer turned out that was so far from the Truth it's funny because I didn't know anybody who actually I got into that book and then I told my dad and he was all like Oh Jeez you know because for years he was begging me to find something as passionate about it wasn't illegal all and so I got ended up having to go back to high school for a year the school went to handed up computer programming class in just like fell in love and computers became my new addiction and starting businesses was this personal development program that hasn't stopped since and I owe my life because of software and obviously the people had Tajuddin supported me what did they do what did they tell you the therapy sessions had that breakthrough there was a lot of stuff it was one of the things unique about this place is the residents actually run the program so I go back every four months it's been twenty years I was just there maybe six weeks ago because there is no person like me ever came and spoke to us and I could never listen to like my promises like I've been in therapy my whole life family therapy and it was just like these frigging book P ball trying to tell me stuff and I'm like you don't look like you've ever had a bad day in your life I can't know like stopped talking to me Portas the way they designed ended is when you came here like four different groups so that four different teams and there was like this hierarchy centrally earned your way into this like really neat structure and residents ran the whole program and all the staff were extra addicts it was crazy so like remember George he was like this Italian guy from Montreal ex-mob it's ran the program what normally take six months took me a long time so eleven months for month your what's called the chief and you wear the keys to the house and you actually run while I was there's probably like three hundred kids at came like most people don't finish like it's so there's a lot of kids that come in some people want to just like not go to jail so they go to this place and then the your runaway or whatever it continues to be a big part of my life was there a point in at that time where you kind of made that internal decision that in office enough like I think I made that decision when I woke up the next day in that jail so and I'm not a religious person but I just figured I'm alive for reason and I remember I remember like thinking this if you just help me get through this I will just and it wasn't even like I'll do anything special I will just be a good person I was going away for five years like the police were looking for me was really just like continue just trying to do what I could do to be better so like made the decision that day and there are some setbacks along the way by the time I graduated poor Taj but I didn't have a vision for my life I was sober and the big thing what a way to serve than to you so much for coming out the story I know you share it before looking I'm ever shared it Oh yes am mastermind talks yeah you said you've learned that in therapy about why you went on that path why do you feel you went on this path that is very destructive path yeah so what I discovered in therapy was because my dad was traveling so much and here's the thing is I have an incredible relations my dad today's like my hero we talk a lot you know I make jabs at him because just the quirkiest little do like all others I think you know my parents divorced when I was twelve for a while I thought I was the reason right so just harm pounders is like all these compounded but I found it later the reason why I used to throw those temper tantrum young kid 'cause when I did my mom would call my dad and he would drive home detention should probably wasn't able to provide that because.

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How Do You Deal With Cold Email Pitches?

The $100 MBA Show

05:19 min | 1 year ago

How Do You Deal With Cold Email Pitches?

"How do you deal with cold email pitches now. These are people you've never heard of people that you haven't built a relationship ship with having met them at a conference in our friend. They're just pitching you. The guy your email somehow through the interwebs on something they want okay. That's the bottom they want something. That's why they're emailing emailing you. The guest posts they want to invest. They want to be a partner. They want to be an affiliate. No problem with cold emails is that there's a lot of reading to do. There's a lot of filtering to decision making to do and at the star I used to read every single email. I used to reply personally. I should go back and forth. It's not the first replies the problem. It's the constant Johnson replying back in that thread even when you politely say I'm sorry not right now. It's not a good fit they'll go back and insist and it's just back and forth when out continue to reply which will fuel that conversation again and it was endless and I was wasting so much of my day dealing with cold emails because I wanted to be a good good person and I wanted to be polite and I thought this was the only way I'm here to tell you. It's not the only way and if you want to solve this once and for all this is what you have to do you have to hire out for it and it's not that hard. You actually need to hire an executive assistant. You've been a part time one. Somebody who's going to spend ten twenty hours a week on this task and maybe some others that you want to get off your plate and depending on where you hire them from in custody as low as four hundred to eight hundred thousand dollars a month so also worth it now even if you hire part time just to take care of this. This will be a game changer for you. You'RE GONNA gain back so much time find out. How much of your time is worth. If you're going to hire somebody part time for four hundred dollars a month and you're spending ten hours a week on cold. Emails is your time worth more than ten dollars an hour. I sure hope so so then make the investment now. What is this executive assistant. What does this virtual assistant going to do. They're going to create a standard operating procedure for each type of email each type of cold outreach if they're trying to be a guest on your show your podcast then they're going to have a procedure for that. They're going to create one for you. They're going to create a form that this person would have to fill in order to even qualify to be on the show that alone is going to lead a whole bunch of people people and if you want an example of that form checkout one zero zero. Mba Dot net slash apply to teach. That's our form forget teachers and you could see what we require. You're now hiring out for this is going to save you a lot of headaches one because you're going to somebody who's got a document procedures for everything. Somebody's reaching out to guest posts. Somebody's reaching enough for your time for a coffee investors whatever it is they're going to create the procedure and they're gonNA do for you. They're going to reach out say hey. I'm so and so I. Mo Mars Assistant If you're interested in guest posting the first step is to fill out this form. This gives us an idea if we can accept her ghostbuster not or if you don't don't accept guest posts they can just say hey almost assistant at this time. We're not accepting guest posts. Thanks for your interest and you don't even touch it now. What does this mean this means. You have to give access to your inbox your assistant. If you don't WanNa give impersonal access your personal inbox. That's totally fine. You can create a different inbox and make sure all increase get sent to their meaning that we're you have your contact link at the bottom of your website that that links up to the email. Oh you're giving the assistant worst case scenario. If things get mixed up you can always forward the email inbox that they have access to whether it's contact at Your Business Dot Com or support at Your Business Dot Com. The point here is you should not be wasting time with this you need to do brings is in the revenue for Your Business. This is Dan Martell calls ten dollars tests which is broken down worth ten dollars. An hour is ten dollars asks. You should be working on one thousand ten thousand dollar tasks the things that bring in the big bucks hiring the right people so they can improve your product and improve your marketing and all that stuff so hiring out is the best solution in two dealing with cold emails. Let them filter it out. If the person that's reaching out has something of value that is in the line with of your values what you need your assistant filter that out for you presented to you. Hey we have three people there. They're offering this. They can give you a nice summary on a call nice and easy and and yet. I'm happy to speak to that person for ten minutes on a video call. That's worth ten minutes of my time that person no just get back to politely say not at this moment so so much simpler so much easier and you could focus on making your business better and not these adleman tasks. I wish I can give you some sort of tool or automation. Russian or some sort of software that can take care of this but this is the best way to deal with this professionally and personally with an assistant is going to cost you nothing in compared to what what you're gonNA save and time and effort and headaches don't do what I did at the star where I answered every single email myself. I thought I had to know you. Don't you're assistant. Anybody on your team is an extension of you. They are getting somebody who is going to handle their inquiry. You're not ignoring them. If they're a good fit you will speak to them

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"martell" Discussed on WSB-AM

WSB-AM

02:09 min | 2 years ago

"martell" Discussed on WSB-AM

"By the T J Martell foundation. TJ Martell foundation music's promise for cure to learn more. Visit T J Martell dot org. That's teach Martell dot org. I'm Bronco around us being. WSB meteorologist Kirk Mellish with dependable forecast afternoon, isolated shower. Otherwise, just breezy cold. Highs fifty four fifty nine lows forty to forty four tomorrow sunny, high seventy two Monday, sunshine, high eighty lows fifty to fifty five twenty shut down the east and west WSB told you I am frequently lanes of I twenty eastbound Douglas county completely shut down when I twenty reopened told you that too. Joey twenty shutdown 'cause we told you about thirty minutes ago, when you really need to know what's happening with Atlanta. Traffic learned to the people who are experts at traffic team and news ninety five five and a m seven fifty WSB landscaping this weekend installing a mailbox considering offense contact Georgia eight one before you dig any type project that requires digging. Do you know what's below the ground? You're about to dig up. Maybe it's just dog bones, or maybe it's a live power line image a weekend cable or the internet safe digging is no accident and contacting Georgia eight one one before you dig helps keep you safe and your utilities connected, Georgia, eight one one dot com. Fill out the request application or simply dial eight one one at least two business days before you dig Georgia. Eight one one hell is my home gonna be on the market? How many times are people going to come in and out? What are the most stressful things about selling? Your home is feeling out of control. Roll. Hi, this is Mark Spain. And I'm telling you you can be in control with our guaranteed offer. Heather gotta guaranteed offer from us and less than twenty four hours. Mark. Spain took care of business. I saw him the Wall Street Journal number one team in the country. And it's easy to see. Why no, showings, no open houses, no stress. Visit mark. Spain dot com slash guaranteed offer and start packing. Terms and conditions apply. If you're dreaming.

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Nikita Kucherov helps the Lightning past Flames

PM Tampa Bay with Ryan Gorman

00:36 sec | 2 years ago

Nikita Kucherov helps the Lightning past Flames

"One point Cedric podcast Nikita kucherov all scored goals for the lighting before the flames would capitalize on a five on three eighteen o six marked down getting his twelve year. But points gets his thirty third goal of the year career high podcast his from Martell and Callahan. Kucherov getting his twenty fifth goal from Strommen employed. So you're seeing the depth scoring which are also seeing this star score. And again, this is what makes candidates such a hard team to play against they have so much depth. If so much star power, and then by the way, you have to beat Andrei vasilevskiy, which a lot of teams certainly

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Tips for Filming and Editing Marketing Videos

The $100 MBA Show

01:24 min | 2 years ago

Tips for Filming and Editing Marketing Videos

"Last tips and mentions as a wrap up today's lesson on this video message productivity hack number one keep your videos as short as possible because again for shooting from your phone, and you're sending it via Email. You wanna make sure the file is small. Also, it's hard to watch a long video as a message. So in my Zamel cities, Saul that they're all like, maybe ten fifteen twenty seconds long. I would say a minute is the max. And that's if you have to explain something in detail number two, do not waffle get to the point be direct and watch your ause because those filler sounds will take time and will distract them and last, but not least I want to give credit where Credit's due somebody who does the social media video messages. So well is a mentor of ours. Dan Martell, Dan is SAS coach and former founders really successful startups. He's also a well known speaker. So. Again, he's comfortable speaking and being on camera. But I saw him do this in groups in a way that is. So so officiant very direct very personal any answers questions very quickly with this technique. So I added social media Facebook Twitter new name it to the ways you can use productivity hack in today's lesson because of Dan Martell, right? That wraps up today's lesson. Thank you so much for listening.

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"martell" Discussed on News-Talk 1400 The Patriot

News-Talk 1400 The Patriot

01:33 min | 2 years ago

"martell" Discussed on News-Talk 1400 The Patriot

"Forecast is sponsored by the T J Martell foundation. It's still see some snow this morning, then partly sunny today. High twenty six partly cloudy tonight, a low of seventeen and Friday, partly sunny with a high of twenty nine right now, it's cloudy and twenty two. J Martell foundation music promise for cure to learn more. Visit T J Martell dot org. That's tjmartelLorg dot org. From the townhall dot com newsroom, settling allegations of cheating on emissions testing, and the US will cost. Fiat Chrysler automobiles nearly eight hundred million dollars that is right news reports. The automaker has reached the settlement with the federal government over the use of devices similar to what bolts wagon us for the same purpose? FCA will pay owners of certain Jeep Grand Cherokee Dodge Ram, fifteen hundred pickups two hundred eighty million dollars and shell out over three hundred million in penalties to the US department of Justice scam artists are using technology to spoof the phone numbers of the McCollum county health department house departments director says that the caller is being asked for Medicare information and more. And he says they'll never ask for the personal health information over the phone and staff members have been explaining to a lot of residents that the department is being victimized by scammers warning people to never give that information out. You're caller. We update traffic and weather four times an hour. I'm Pasqua won patriots. I'm.

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"martell" Discussed on KFI AM 640

KFI AM 640

02:03 min | 2 years ago

"martell" Discussed on KFI AM 640

"It's J Martell foundation started with the father's promise to his dying son to raise money for cancer research. We're Thompsons where and we're asking you to donate to the T. J Martell foundation to help continue that promise and raise money to fund life saving research. It started with the promise, let's end it with the cure for more information. Visit T J Martell dot org. Musics promise for here. It is the Jesus Christ show. I am your holy host happy.

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Ohio, ABC and Scott Jennings discussed on Sean Hannity

Sean Hannity

00:17 sec | 2 years ago

Ohio, ABC and Scott Jennings discussed on Sean Hannity

"Of satellites seven point two billion dollar contract. Like he'd Martin is for twenty two additional GPS three satellites that replace the air force's current constellation of GPS satellites that provide the navigational aids that have become so popular worldwide. Can you satellites will come with improved accuracy and better security

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With Urban Meyer's return near, Ryan Day has a chance to prove he can lead Ohio State

The Solid Verbal: Living College Football

01:45 min | 2 years ago

With Urban Meyer's return near, Ryan Day has a chance to prove he can lead Ohio State

"Is urban Meyer coaching this game. He's not. I mean, you know, I don't know if he's shadow coaching or something like that, but he won't be on the sidelines. We'll not be on the sidelines Ryan day is the gentleman who is coaching Hieaux state even though or been was allowed to coach during the week. Right? Day's gonna be there on the sidelines. It's fair to ask whether that has any effect here because Gary Patterson on the other side lines of very good coach. I don't think this has much of an effect. I know Ryan day is an urban, but he's probably going to be a head coach soon. He's pretty good in his own. Right. So for my money, is it fair to just throw that aside cast that aside as being any kind of competitive disadvantage for state. Yes, it is a competitive disadvantage snot have their longtime and current head coach on the sidelines because if it's close, if something major happens in a major call needs to be made a reminders more familiar with the protocols in the talents and the in game situations that he's been in before, which Ryan day cannot draw on the same. But but but is it enough of a quote unquote disadvantage that we should really be talking about? I don't. I don't think it is here. I mean, it hasn't manifested itself against Oregon state and Rutgers, but that's to be expected. I think it's competitive disadvantage. It's going to alter the game significantly. But if you're looking at advantages disadvantages right now, Gary Patterson has an advantage over Ryan day. Sure. Okay. So we sort of disagree on that was sort of. I don't worry as much about it doesn't sound like your either, but we both agree to some extent. It's a little bit of a disadvantage fine

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JetBlue hikes checked baggage fees -- first bag hits $30

WIBC Programming

00:29 sec | 2 years ago

JetBlue hikes checked baggage fees -- first bag hits $30

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"martell" Discussed on Small Doses

Small Doses

01:43 min | 3 years ago

"martell" Discussed on Small Doses

"More not more look at that i'm crisscrossing nerd or that's how i know when i'm flying if you follow me on instagram you'll see that like i'll be flying over something and i'll be like oh this is high garden home to audience all the oh my god martell i'm really hungry so i'm forgetting some of this shit but let me just say this being heard his fun is also just like fun like when i was growing up i've always been a nerd i was a kid who would get an encyclopedia out and just like open it to dinosaurs look at it just look at it and now to this day no dinosaurs i would do the same thing with dog breeds i'll do the same thing with cat breeds sorry i say martell during martell doing tyrel it's house tyrell l all spare arlos fair in love and game of thrones all's fair i understand listen and the reality is that we have been devoid of game if you're far too long so it's only natural that we would be a little stale with our information fair completely understood but yeah like anyone who has kids and you know encourage the nursery in your kids because what being nerd is just saying like i wanna know more and part of knowing more is about also like dedication and discipline and research and in this day and age listen ain't enough research going on too many people are willing to take things at base about you too many folks are willing to simply dislike regurgitate something that they read on the av club or whatever and not actually have the source of information i mean i know somebody that was dating a woman and she was arguing with him about the validity of.

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"martell" Discussed on WGIR-AM

WGIR-AM

01:30 min | 4 years ago

"martell" Discussed on WGIR-AM

"This report is brought to you by the tj martell foundation traffic and weather together on the relax on the traffic jess japheth task volume is still picking up out there on the area roadways this morning keyed is getting underway we have heavier volume in manchester on ninety three southbound that he actually sixty to ninety three announcement bedford on the everett tom pipefitting the tolls and merrimack in on the sea has because the slowdowns right now the spa interm pipe between route four march ended obeyed bridge now from the viking propane whether asked here is heavens karusa looks like a classic several week out their forests with warmth and eventually some humidity and scattered storm chances today highs will be ranging into the mid '80s and it will be with a good deal of sunshine across the area lows in the lower 60s nine under partly cloudy skies similar readings with sunshine again on your tuesday and then we'll start to had a little humidity wednesday with temperatures in the upper 80s to near 90 thursday and friday couple of scattered afternoon showers and storms are possible province for watch signed weather center i'm meteorologist heavens garuba join the tj martell foundation in the fight against leukemia cancer and aids your support helps facilitate cuttingedge research will lead to more effective treatments and save more lives visit tjmartellorg dot org to learn more.

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