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"love warrior" Discussed on Committed
"Many of you might already know Glennon Doyle story you might be reading our new book untamed right now. She's the best selling author activist and incredible speaker. Her Second Book Love. Warrior was celebrated by none other than Oprah. When I first read Glennon Doyle. Milton's Book Love Warriors. I felt like I knew this girl. She was funny and she was wise and she felt like a friend to me. Glennon spoke for so many people who don't feel brave enough to speak their own truth and after sitting down with her on super soul Sunday. I now call her. But here's what you need to know if you've never heard of Glennon. Before her first two memoirs whereabout overcoming addictions to food and booze about becoming a mother and about her rocky marriage to a man named Craig. She wrote a raw and honest account of finding out how Craig had numerous one night stands over the years and how ultimately they worked through it and that was the topic of Love Warrior. It was a marriage redemption story. The publication of that book is where we're going to begin. It was one of the most anticipated books of two thousand sixteen and had already presold tens of thousands of copies. She was promoting it at a librarian conference in Chicago. Abbey was there to talk about our own memoir about being a star on the United States. Soccer team you WANNA go first. Because I always good I was in the car ride on the way to the event and on the way there I was like briefly looking through all the authors are and like what kind of work they created to see. If there's anybody that I knew and there was nobody that I knew but stopped on Glennon's page when I was like. Oh like this is interesting at the time I was going through a really hard time in my previous marriage got arrested for Dui. And I was going through a divorce like the whole thing so her book ironically was this marriage redemption buck told through the eyes of a truth teller right there was a dinner for the authors before the conference was supposed to begin. Glennon got their first and she started making small talk now. She's an introvert. So small tug is her idea of hell but then this woman walked into the room. Glennon describes her like this. She had short hair platinum on the top shaved on the sides. She was wearing a long trench coat. A red scarf a warm half smile and a cool steel confidence just in my entire being said there. She is there she is in the moment. I thought these words were just like coming to me from on high like there. She is like I was having a Disney moment. But I think really I was just hearing from my real self for just like burst through and was undeniable so I stood up in the middle of the room and widely opened my arms as if expecting a hug. Okay and I still to this day. Do not understand what compelled me I had to. Actually I froze because everybody everybody's head stopped looking at Abbey and turn to look at me for someone who has never believed in romantic love to tell a story that I'm a part of that has to do with love at first sight right like if you would've told me that these words were coming out of my mouth. So I'm like a talking about so then after the words Rosen me there. She is tragically my body. Also rose all I saw. Was this woman at the other side of the room standing up so forced me to like walk around and like shake everybody's hands because she stood up. That was like the end of it. I had to get there if Queen Elizabeth had just walked into the room. This would be extra the way that I was reacting too much and is so I was never. She didn't know anything about abby. You weren't a big. I wasn't a big sports person no. Nps I had never been kissed a girl in my life. I had no no context for for the experience that I was having in that moment. In that moment I just I. I just kind of bowed because I did I. I was trying to pretend like maybe this is my normal greeting to people with the standing in bowing and then I sat down. And you know the wild thing is that book that I was releasing at the time. Level or your. I was at that event to release this book. It was an Oprah Book Club pick. It was being touted all over the world as an epic marriage redemption story right and it was about the infidelity of my husband. My first marriage trying to figure all of that and I had tied it up pretty neatly and nicely in that book and it felt much less tied up in neat in my body in my life right. Glennon asked if she could hug this mysterious stranger that she was insanely attracted to. She wanted to hug her because she thought maybe this could be only chance her only chance to touch her. She describes the way abby smell during that hugging her book and I love it. It was a smell that would eventually be coming home to her her cologne powder wool like a baby. And a woman and a man the whole world after this really great hug. They had to sit apart for the meal. I remember thinking. Why do I WANNA sit right next to her? This is bizarre. What is going on when it was time to walk into the actual conference the place where all the librarians were gathered? They ended up walking in together and then up onto the stage together. All I could do to not like just sit in your lap right. It'd be weird. Glennon is much smaller than I am but when we got up to speak. I've never been really a nervous public speaker. We were supposed to be speaking for thirteen minutes or eighteen minutes or something and I told my sister gave me a five minute heads up when it's five minutes left and then I'll start wrapping it up terribly long winded. I got through like five minutes. This thing trying to explain my book and I was so nervous to be on that stage speaking in front of her and I was like what the heck is happening so I was just like thank you and I ended my speech. It was eight minutes long and I just went and sat down and I was like. This is so weird. What just happened. And then she gets up and she just slaves like gun in his such a great public speaker. I used to be a good public speaker. Evidently in my mind and I laughed. I cried I learned and I like breathe for the first time in my life when she was up there speaking. Oh secretly in love with her and I guess the rest of this is kind of history. There's something weird that happened between me on the stage. We were on together that this woman. Who was her assistant? Came up to me after the show and the show to me her news Jordan and she started crying and she said. I don't know what's going on but I've never seen abby look like. She looks right now like when she's watching you and I just feel like she needs you in her life so I'm sorry. This is so weird but can I dislike be in touch with you and I was like yeah for sure and I think that when Jordan was watching me. Watch her. She could just see that. That was exactly what was going on inside of me. My soul was finally taking a breath and you know at the time I was really in a bad place I had just retired from soccer and that was concerning to my friends. I was knocking scared for you. I was in a weird moment of my life. And so she's like literally seeing me in Hell for the first time in literal months. That was it like as soon as we left that night I went back and I read the Book I love. The book. Love were minus the ending right. Sounds like oh? I don't like the way this ends sends with me. Not In the picture we left and she went back to Portland and I went back to Florida and we never were in the same room together again until we had both completely dismantled our lives. Glennon went home to Craig. Went back to chugging along in the marriage she'd saved but one that still didn't feel right. Her Book Love Warrior had ended with her renewing or vows on a sandy beach overlooking the Gulf of Mexico it was called Love Warrior because she warrior that marriage back from the brink but she couldn't stop thinking about Abbey Road Avi Letter and she thought maybe that was it. Maybe she'll write this letter. Send it off and nothing but then Abbey road back again and again. The letters just kept coming. Gordon describes those letters like blood transfusions like each one pump fresh life through our veins. I just knew like women just know that whatever I had experienced in that room with abby and he'll be grown to deepen during conversation and letters that we'd written to each other was the kind of love that I was actually looking for.
The Light At The End Of The Tunnel
"And so the Pan. So we're all at home. We're in the middle of this pandemic. There's a lot of crisis around us and I'm dreaming about really really weird things and I am finding that my daughters are too. They've been telling me some of their dreams and I think that some times the dreams are scary and sometimes they're just anxiety provoking the one of my dreams this morning. I told Todd was that I was getting ready for a formal with all my girlfriends from college at. I've been talking to them more than usual. Which is probably part of the reason. And then I realized that I had to get ready for a formal and I needed to take a shower so the only shower I could think of was this one at a fraternity house across the street so I went to returning house across the street. Execs were all girls like shout. What's happening and took a shower and realized where I was while I was in the shower and that there would be boys men there and then I had no towel that I had no clothes. Did you have your razor shaving cream? It's so funny that you would say that. I had a razor because the whole reason I realized I needed to go take a shower. Was I needed to shave my legs so like that? I had thought about but you know. So what does all that mean? I don't analyze it many ways but I think it's anxiety and feeling exposed and feeling afraid and not realizing having uncertainty and You know feeling in inability to do anything at that moment which I feel most of the day like I wave in and out of kind of normal moments I and I'm using the word normal to me and like I'm working. I'm cooking I'm you know preparing. I'm cleaning I'm talking with my family And then everything feels kind of typical and then I wave into like. Oh my gosh and I think we're all going through that and so it comes out in our dreams so you know for those of you who are having and my dreams are very vivid In that could be because I'm sleeping longer. That is one thing that's happening. Is I think you and I used to average about six six and a half seven closer to a now times nine sometimes. Eight or nine now which is great. I mean if we can take these little things pandemic. It's maybe that we're getting more sleep in and we need to. I think kids are going to be taller. As a result of pandemic profitably grow when we sleep and thinking my teenagers right now they have to wake up at six. Am to go to school in normal times and they're getting at least somewhere between two and four hours extra sleep as results pandemic. Yeah and I think that we're GONNA taller kids. I mean who I mean. I'm just making stuff up rested for sure and well. Rested means a lot of different things and they need it right now because one of the things that we have to do right now. There are. Many things we have to do is keep our immune system strong for ourselves. Our family and for everybody. I think the biggest message I for myself personally but also that I think my kids really get now and I know that just from being on social media that majority of people get this is. It's not just about us is. I'm not like girls take your vitamins. So you won't get sick. It is rest take your vitamins. Drink water do that because we are part of a bigger picture and we need to do our part to be as healthy as possible and to stay at home and to not create more problem. Are you trying to say that we are helping our fellow brothers and sisters by getting good rest correct? I have some friends who are. GonNa be delighted with that because they love to sleep my friend Dean Dean in case. You're listening which I know you're not you're saving the world by sleeping so much he's been saving the world. Well done well and it really is. It is the these things that I was just talking to. I was just telling the story I was just talking to my girlfriend who was just asked to do some work for the city of Chicago. And it's kind of a big deal What she's GonNa do and I got really deep with her about what she's being asked to do. Not only does she get to channel all of her create a creative juices and her work ethic and her grief and her desire to help and support into something but then it will result in something that other people will be able to see and enjoy and appreciate and possibly hand down two grandchildren. She is in. She's in this historical moment. Actually being able to do something to help the greater good and hers is more tangible. Because she's doing it for the city of Chicago but we all have that opportunity and first of all taking care of ourselves. That's the that's the basic one because you've got that's our foundation our grounding but then we all have that opportunity And I give you Mother Teresa quote please. So for those of us who feel like we're not doing enough. Yeah because I feel kind of helpless and I I do some but I could do more. And this is not going to direction of shooting myself but Mother Teresa said if you want to change the world go home and love your family right and for those of us who are kind of in that mode you are doing something by loving your family so and I think that for people who you know when we talk about like crisis is just a. I think. Glennon used to say this. I want to give her credit because I think she's one. Climate is reading Glennon doyle who wrote untamed. I'm sure you're all reading it at this point But you know long time ago this was even before love warrior. We you know she's hurt she. I don't even think this was part of a book. But she talked about how crisis is like a a sifter And that when you have a crisis everything that's non essential get sifted out. Who and it's a really good metaphor To understand what we're going through right now is that we have always talked about crisis on this show you and I but crisis says are there there What's the word there relative right? This is a global crisis and so what's essential is being made clear to all of us at the same time. So there's people out there including me like Oh. I need a haircut well. My haircut isn't nearly as important today that it was a month ago. Correct so all these things that we were worried about in February rats get sifted out so I guess one teachable lesson out of all this a year from now when everything's back to normal and we're worried about our haircut. Maybe we can recall this saying you know what? I wasn't worried about my hair back. In March of Twenty
"love warrior" Discussed on WARRIOR WEEK
"My son's. Read your father's words carefully. This gift is not yours to simply can't claim you must earn your way into this brotherhood. You must train with all your heart give everything you have to give and then when there is nothing left you must dig deeper than ever before and give even more. You must dive to the bottom of the ocean and discover who you both truly are. All men carry within them both the darkness and the light learning how to embrace them both will give you a power that few men will ever attain. I can and do promise on the oath of the Brotherhood that I will lead you up the mountain and teach you all I know and yet you. My son's must choose this path as your own. No this no matter the path you choose as your father. I will always love you as your king. I command you to rise rise and rise again Ed for the last Stanza of invictus declares it matters. Not How straight the gate? How charged with punishments. The scroll I am the master of my fate. I am the captain of my soul an eternity of love to you both. Romeo and Luke. My Sons my teachers greatest y your father. The Warrior King the King of Kings Damien Liechtenstein Warrior. Week Forty Nine. Two thousand eighteen beautiful and this letter was written in You know about fifteen twenty minutes timeframe I was in a and we just came from from the from the soul. And so he's like it's become a monument at least warrior and we have a laminated. Brennan are headquartered and many men. Come and read it. Many men Get get to refer to it at every single fodder has passed by this letter as connected with it so I felt that this would be the essence of conversation. We'll have you back on the podcast for much more because this is just the beginning because I like to show up here in cry on your microphone. Yeah it's very nice by by as much more it's much more we WANNA cover We do want to cover so many years inside of the impact that you as a trainer. I do want to cover that. As as your days in landmark and the impact that you had It is absolutely worth to tell the many stories that you cared. I do also want to talk about the lessons inside of martial art and and your military training I most definitely WanNa talk about the impact and the influence you had in Hollywood and all the all the hard work that you've done to create businesses and motion pictures and artist and just creator of the creators in one of the creator of the creators inside of this industry. There's so many much more to tell but I also want to follow up on on what what transcended tonight and and the mission to the unknown with with the book and and the impact that million had you may not even be aware somehow somewhere so so much more room to be so much more to the so much room to to tell the stories but for tonight I do want to appreciate your time. Being on on on this podcast. Like look man. This is not the most popular fucking podcast. We're not GONNA claim that we're we're the most popular broadcast but we are impactful. And if we have an impact on one man if that man is you great and if demand may be somebody in your network and Important Manulife or whoever's listening to this and somebody you think that would benefit from the courage that Damian demonstrated in this podcast and as well as any words that might have resonated? You may maybe just a letter. The letter that it's universal fucking letter that person harder every single fucking fodder. It is your duty to forward this podcast to one single men inside of your life. And that's what we ask. Gentlemen until Dan I wanNA thank Damien Fleming. Thanks for being on the show and honor until the next show. Take care of yourself and each other..
"love warrior" Discussed on WARRIOR WEEK
"Between the three things that that's like the triangle. Bermuda there is. There's there's an impact that is demanded from you and it may not be through the big projects but the book has become a live once again. I wonder what you will discover if you read your own book tonight with this in mind and what you will see because you know how it is. Read books and we evolved and we see different in different perspective. What's the message hidden in that book written by you there reveals now that you have your wi the mysterious date of your mom and how she's overseas many of these years and somehow somewhere these female energy Kim back and chosen you and the strong and tuition of this woman that brought you to warriors and warriors just being sense of awareness. There's just scholar that forget like just the journey is just. It's just a stop that you had to do to become aware you met some dudes and they had some conversation they had to fucking collide. Would you stop the fuck out of the Eagle? That you recognize never existed. The guy's a fucking wedding that was never invited but I wonder what that says because there is a struggle to figure out. How do I impact? That's that's what keeps you at night from going to bed is a how do I impact? How how how? How do I make a difference and I? How do I make a difference at home because we all have our problems right now at home? So how do I manage that? What are the what are the wall? Financial whatever like those are the priority at home but then above and beyond. What's what's next jobs? I've seen you struggling on the bigger projects and world impactful projects and not too many men can touch those projects. They don't have the skills that you have to be able to play with that world but at the same time find out. Wh- what am I doing in my own house today because you are having an impact your wife and your kids and there's more to do but how can I radiate from their diamonds at home? How can I let that shine so I think there's something about fucking book? It wasn't written to just be put in a fucking shelf or it wasn't written because it was a phase of your life that you went through and the people that you met throughout the process. The people that you just name like brought. He's fucking light workers. These are these are these are just fucking like the popular people. These are people that are fucking instruments in channels. And you kind of like brought all the fucking bringing all the fucking child via Dukes of the town. Everything comes in all the tunnels comes in and every everything is pouring water into one fucking area. I have a feeling that's what that book that in the movie and the movie. And why would you make a movie out of like? Ask yourself this question. Why why not. Just stop at the book why. You went with the movie. I went with the movie because I knew that well one I self identified as a filmmaker. Yeah not not. A book author I opted to start with the the movie and it became clear and very evident That there needed to be a book written it. Also that time I was also you know coming into you know a new realm of closure with my sister was another representation of the feminine and my mother and so we worked on that and we co wrote that book together but the The the movie was one of the questions I had for myself. As you know how. Can I impact again the the world? And how can I make a difference for people? And how can I deliver something that I know will be seen by millions and it has been And it continues to be seen. It's globally distributed on the guy network. Right yes and I have people contacting me all the time about the extraordinary difference. It made in their life. But I'd like to tell one short story. Yes from the movie so we were in a Sundance Film Festival. Two Thousand Eleven We were screening. The movie at Sundance There lot of you know famous semi famous people in the audience and We screened the movie. The movie ended. I was in the QNA and In the middle the Q. And A. There was a loud bang because the this someone had abruptly stood up and not their chair over and had like slammed out the doors like really kind of abrupt in loud burst of light and they were gone momentary interruption and then I continued and answered. The questions received the applause. Thank you very much and you know Afterwards I was hanging outside the theater on Main Street. It's pretty cold during that time at Sundance and I heard this loud clumping clump come come come and I turned around and I saw this very large black man. Kinda hurdling towards me about six-foot five probably about three hundred pounds with intense expression on his face and he's coming right for me and I started backpedaling. Yeah and I started to put my hands up because I didn't know what was happening. And then I saw his expression changes he got close to me too and I saw the tears streaming down his face and he stopped me any grabbing by the arms. And he's like what did you do to me? What did you do to me and I was like? I don't know what did I do. And he said you're you're movie. I I was compelled. I walked out the door and I called my son who I have not spoken to in fourteen years and I apologized to him for having been a terrible father and told him how much I loved him and how important he was to me and how much I wanted to be in his life and he asked me what happened to me and I told him I saw this movie and it's changed my life forever and he's flying to sundance tonight and I'm going to introduce you to him tomorrow and I looked at this man and tears were streaming down my face and I said that is why I made this movie. I made it for you. Beautiful Story. So so here's a question. Here's a question you created the movie for them and you. Kinda know what did that for them. Yes but now it's your mission to go find out. What did it do to them? You created for them but now you have to find out. What did it do to them? You already have the evidence two thousand eleven nine years later Malians impacted. It's all coming together tonight. But did it do to them? What do to them? And that may be an acquired that goes out there and there. There's so much thing that could come after. We'll talk about that after after the podcast. There's so many so many steps that come to that and that's and that's the journey. The journey continues. When you give me that book and at an movie I just knew that it was a bigger fucking purpose and what I knew it was in the fucking that you wrote it. It was one fucking symbol like like call. It intuition verified with your wife. Whatever that is it was one fucking symbol. It was a lotus flower and the color of it. Which is which is the color of divine light as you as you start like distinguishing. There is the Bright Light. And then there's that color which comes from the higher salt so did was that that said okay. Why this I just learn about that shit a year ago when I did all my certification with Mexico and it's like why am I why this so it's always been there and tonight it's coming? It's coming together. It's coming together because there's no other way to water fuck. Are we talking about that? Why like this week fucking podcast? We're talking about the loudest fucking light and the impact. What because this is what happens. I wear this is what happens. A warrior this. What happened to you at worry week when you started reading a letter from Sparta and what I mean from Sparta it was. We were put in a scenario where you were writing a letter from this island called Sparta. The MODERN SPARTA. And you told the story. I have the letter here. I want you to read it for the audience okay. I don't have the recipe but a half the laminated. So before we bring the podcast to closure I want you to. I want you to read this with your own voice and and truly this. We're GONNA end the podcast with this and the like typically we end the podcast here with you sending a message for another man. That's listening here. So that you know he that resonates with him and he moves forward when he needs to do but I think this is. A universal message echoed. Go to all fathers okay. I have a wave of emotion just holding this letter a letter from Sparta. The part one to my young sons Romeo and luke from your Father Damien. The king of Kings love is the beginning the middle and the end. You only need to look into the eyes of your mother. Mike. We'd slow this truth. There is a brother food of men here in Sparta men. Who like you were once boys? These men are warrior kings. These men would give you their life. If that was what was required they do not hesitate in their swift action. They do not falter under the blows of chance they do not cry out in fear they scream their love for one another from the highest mountain and from the blackest pit. These men are warriors of love. They fight with every ounce of their souls for love. But make no mistake. My son's the honor and the integrity of these men will never be broken. It is true that some of them May and will fall bloody on their own swords. That is a choice. A man gets to make for himself. No tears will be shed for that man. No Cups raised in his honor. He will simply disappear into the pit never to return never to be spoken of again the honor and integrity of this. Brotherhood must always be held sacred. It is your father's wish you boys will both one day grow to be powerful men warriors of love to be welcomed into the Sacred Brotherhood to become true kings of kings. Part to my son's. Read your father's words carefully. This gift is not yours to simply can't claim you.
"love warrior" Discussed on WARRIOR WEEK
"Well nowhere to be found where to be found. That Lemme LemMe Link Dad. LemMe Link that to ten years back ten years. Prior to this exact moment that you were experiencing I went to India as part of an I was working for oil and gas. My company was country but India. So I went to India and I was there for four or five days so one of the days I wake up and go to the park next to the hotel walking around I sit on the benches man that come in and suddenly we're hearing all these laughter. I'll have to laugh. I turn around look at the gas. What is this laugh coming from? A group of people doing the laugh. Meditation the laughter. If you look around there is a guru or somebody in the middle and there's like over one hundred people around him and everybody's laughing everybody's laughing so I kind of go and I kind of participate and I started laughing too and it's contagious so I did the laughing after fifty minutes or so. It's over people people that's what they do. They do that and they go to work and they started going in. This old man is the guru in the middle. Was there like Like fuck okay. I traveled all the way here. I'm like I haven't really made any fuck gurus I heard about all these gurus and fucking let me go. Ask a question and I always had this thing about like Eagle Eagle Eagle like. I couldn't understand what the fuck the Eagle is. So everybody leaves ironically is. It's not like this guy was like super popular fucking Brad Pitt. That you would line up fucking talked him and leaves as you know just regular guy and there's a moment my I got the Guy I'm like. Okay I have a question for you. I'm from the US and that he's like welcome. This is what is ego so he was. Let me tell you a story ago. Okay so we start telling the story about this this this couple that had they were part of a wedding right there was a wedding and there was this big. Indian wedding those happening. You know how it is like magical weddings and there's a guy that is walking outside of the Wedding building and suddenly for some reason he gets pulled in into the wedding and he has his reputation that his brother-in-law or some some fucking family member of the the bright side and that he's very popular an actor. He's rich. There's a reputation as start circulating. And then the other side start hearing about this and there's a reputation of this man the start circulating throughout the wedding in such that. They want him now to come. And kinda like you know. Introduce himself on the stage and talk and talk and talk. And so he's benefiting from all this reputation all around around around around and then he's asked to come on the stage the now everybody's anticipating him to come on the stage and they keep calling him to keep calling him they keep calling him. He's nowhere to be found so he told me. That's your ego that it doesn't it doesn't exist. It's it's not there. It's a reputation that gets build up and build up and get circulated when you need it when you need to call upon it. It's not there because he was so. I'm like okay. That's pretty cool story right so I I live with a story. It's decade after when you're talking about this yes that is coming into play. And where was the Eagle? It was the guy the winning is the guy at the wedding. It's not there was never there never there. So whatever. This thing ego is was an that moment you restrict free from story of who you were and you were like sinked into who you truly are right and that and then there's two layers into this is really important. Talk about this because we're going to go deep on this because you are deep and if this is too deep what you won't fuck. Let's go deeper right. That's that's what we do here and it's pretty fucked up but that's the truth so there's the why which is very clear. Your why is directly your biggest fear? You already mentioned this your biggest fear circling around your head circling on my head biggest fears to move our family becomes our why but that is not necessarily a purpose. No and so. This is the big difference right. Men Go around the globe looking for a purpose but they haven't found there while yet. You can't really live your purpose if you haven't found you why and once you find your y. You're on a quest for a purpose which is bigger impact. Your Wi will impact your family and children absolutely by. You're not here just to impact them. No and that's the problem with men today from men that try all these experiences to find purpose. They haven't truly found the why so. They think they're found the purpose. They go around a couple of years and was in it. It's got to be something else. And there's this constant confusion between the wind the purpose. That is the same thing. What can you tell us about that from your own experience? Well the what's really interesting is that for For many years you know I I relate to myself as a film maker film director Storyteller Storyteller. This is what I do. Okay this is who I am. Yes this is what I am. This is what gives me purpose. This is what fuels or had fuelled my non existent but very prominent ego That was it but even I ended up writing a book. Yeah discover the gift and making a movie of the same title That was really if I when I look at. It was me searching for my. Why like when? It's that clear to me now. I thought I was on purpose to make a profound difference on the planet to transform humanity. You know and I and I sat with Gurus and the Dalai Lama's and you know the Jack Canfield in the you know Michael Beckwith sin the Marian Williamson's and the super stars in the non superstars and really dived into esoteric conversations about life and the discovery that everything boils down to love and all that accept. It still wasn't my why and I hadn't discovered my y yet and that is true and even in finally and truly I can tell you that my my wife you know chose me and then I got the privilege of choosing her right and because she has intuition 'cause she has intuition she knew she saw me. She said that's my husband you know she's like you looked at me and you were like a done like took six months to figure it out and maybe not it did. But I don't think so because I ultimately I was like yes the question I think any man asses is this the not just the woman I can be with but is this. The mother of my children is this the direction I want my life to go in And the answers for me. Were you know quickly? Yes with her And in the D. but then it was in warrior that I discovered truly my Wi- Rather than my wife and my children being something important to me and something I wanted to do as a man and see my father hold his grandson in his arms. And I you know you know succeeded in fulfilling on my promise to my dying grandfather that you know the Liechtenstein name would live on and it's like well that whatever that was yeah it has its importance but truly what it came down to. Is that now that I've discovered my wine. What I am truly up to the purpose that I actually see the opportunity that I see that I have to make a difference on the planet and to create something with the skills that I have that are unique. The very few people on the world have the combination of skills that I have which is motion picture television and video gaming and virtual reality and augmented reality and artificial intelligence. In these skill sets that I have to create something That can and I believe will make a difference in the world and to help transform and enlighten a and especially have an enormous impact on young men. Like if I focused my purpose somewhere is to take what young men love to do already which is play. Video Games engage in storytelling. You know create worlds and do all this and an infuse it with the The the conversation of transformation. What's possible and the conversation? That is ingrained in me now. From the warriors way like if I had these skill sets earlier in life not that I would shift anything to give up what I have now but had I had them earlier in life there would have been so much less pain and suffering Like my children now. Stand and we'll put their Hand their fist to their chest. And say you know I am a warrior and I live by a code. Uh-huh they now do that and before that there there was no code other than maybe some ethical world. I lived in where I'm not going to be one of those guys. I'm going to be one of the good guys you know in the movie world. Yes kind of all all what's going on with Harvey Weinstein and now going to prison for twenty three years. He never got to deal with those issues so they manifested when we as men don't handle that shit it comes out as nasty shit and some other place hundred percent right so so I'm sitting here tonight and Like tonight I'm sitting between this conversation of Y- Y and the purpose and what you just shared here there the I believe honestly from the bottom my heart and again this just coming purely from you know the the heart of God through me through that the puzzle is complete. But you haven't looked at it and the puzzle is the following the mysterious dat debt of your mom which is still. Don't have any answers to which led to a journey. The energy chosen you through your wife because let's be honest is very rare for due to be chosen. Unless you're fucking you know you might have been very good looking then but you know Brad Pitt. Right now you're still very good looking guy but the point is this. It's rare for a man to be chosen you. You have the wisdom you've seen thousands and thousands of to be truly chosen not talking about good looking guy and women heads. I'm talking about chosen. So that the mysterious death of your mom the energy the female Feminine Energy. That came back and chose you and the book that you've written write the script that you've put on this earth which in the presence of this conversation you mentioned that was written without finding the why today you have the why and so. The peace of the puzzles put together.
"love warrior" Discussed on WARRIOR WEEK
"You guys can play again so it was special right so took audience listening. This may sound like a fairytale but it wasn't a fairy tale. This is a weak parables from the pit is not a fucking fairy. Tale is a true story of men. This thing goes this thing goes deeper Dan what you may see on the surface. Lots of successful guys like yourself like entrepreneurs that come in but that doesn't mean there's no pain that doesn't mean there's no pain and you truly don't know another man if you don't know his paint and so the minute you shared your story on your interview thousand time that you chose to be absolutely real impure because again you're lead there and your wife's intuition that to do anything that was the enabler. Imagine if your wife wouldn't push for it so yes you know this could have been another thickness. You've seen so many other things in this industry but then it was hurt conviction that puts you on this pat her conviction and my you know fundamental I I could call it a desire but it was beyond desire like my my commitment to to shift the the the vector of my life. And that's what I think. One of the things. That's amazing about warrior. You know 'cause we sometimes when we talk about the the Marshall Stuff and and moving into a quick conversation about being a in a because you know I I enjoy Combat shooting I might swing slightly Liberal Democrat. But I am definitely like a hard core gun shooter guy so and I have my sniper rifles. And what's really interesting about? That is in the concept of vector or trajectory. Is that just a millimeter off here? At one hundred yards is inches. You know an inch off in in life at you know long term you know as a husband and a father an entrepreneur is like to me the the difference between hitting your target or losing everything losing your wife losing your home losing your children losing your business and it's not to say that I haven't had versions of that. You think all men go through this. But I was committed to that I did not want to lose. What had become what I learned in warrior my fundamental. Why Yeah like why why? Why will I go another inch? When I've got nothing left inside and that became very very clear to me and so for me a lot of what warriors about is putting me on target for what I'm committed to helping a line me right down to the nuances and that's what Work of warrior is about and by the way. I am no expert in the work when I'm always challenged by the work. I'm challenged to do my stacks. I'm challenged to do the core forum challenge to do the work but But the challenge of it is like has a number of these things have now become like muscle memory to me whereas before it was super difficult. But now it's like no I am not going to wake up and not contribute to my wife and my children as like my primary first thing after I do my work by the way though you did. Save me the other day on the shit and stack if you're not stacking and you get through your ad near the end of the day and you still haven't done your stack. You know then the coaching for you is. Take your shit and do your stack even if gives you hemorrhoids. It was pretty visual visual. And I've been shitting long hours sitting long. Our sitting on on the bathroom afford a forty plus year old men you increase your chances of having Henry yes and you don't WanNa be that guy no I don't want to be in the audience. If you are a guy like okay I get it the solution but you don't WanNa be fucking nightmare so talk to me about your experience. I worry week you come in and and you know you come to this expert. Obviously the thirty build up kind of kind of sets up the tone sets the frame So I know there's been some many level of transformation dare So you can talk to me about the bill and then coming into the first First night going into the pit and talk about that experience. Sure well for one I I was I can. There aren't a lot of things that scare me or make me Like nervous like genuinely nervous. I. I think the only things that really scare me right now are not being there for my wife and children and their moment of need like if I have a pervasive fear. Yes it kind of hangs around me. It's that one. Which is your wife. Which is my Y. Yeah so sep- separate from from that I hadn't felt this. Like sense of fear trepidation nervousness. Like in a very long time and the thirty day lead up is not to be trifled with it when. I look back at it. It was as difficult as warrior week itself primarily from the the. 'cause I know the intention and I even I am because you articulate the intention you know get the fuck out like the intention of the thirty days is to convince you to get out so that I don't have to deal with you later like if you can't make it through that build up then there's no reason for you to be in warrior week to begin with and I was really challenged in that thirty days. I mean I got lividly pissed off. You know you at others and myself but in the process of doing things and I think it really clicked for me in a moment of A release the rage. When we had to go into the black hoodie in the dark glasses and a dark place and like you know. And and Kinda put yourself out there in releasing that deep well of anger and rage and Shit that you've been holding onto and the and I did it several times and and I was coached to do it one more time after I'd done it. Want some but the Catharsis of it the the actual reconnecting to that sacred. Pardon me started there Coming to warrior week Getting all the gear. Ready coming down you know. And I I know it's it's it's the breakdown of the buildup the bonding in the Brotherhood. If I remember it correctly and so This this breakdown part was it. I very am. Can I talk about all that? Yeah I don't WanNa giving away but the that part where I was really challenged to let go of my ego because it during that process the the design function for me was. Fuck your ego. We're going to take it away from you right now because it does not serve you and that was like my experience. And as my ego got stripped away more and more And and more and more layers of you know bullshit were removed where I could get closer and closer to the core of who I am as a human being Then without going into the specifics of the evolutions though like I had this weird thing that happened to me I one of my greatest like I am claustrophobic. I hate being confined and one of my greatest fears is being buried alive. You picked me as the first motherfucker to do invictus. The first guy and I'm like I was like good at least if I can hear like ten or twenty other guys do it. Then I'll be okay. No I was the first guy out there and I started doing it. And then you started hosing me with that water hose and I all the shit came up again and then But I made it through which was remarkable. I was even like it was one of those because a now he start to understand the concept of the build up because suddenly there was this This piece of me that that suddenly started to rise like no you. You're a fucking warrior and then moving from that I was immediately taken to a pit where I had to dig my own grave and then lay in it and then I was buried and then not only was I buried but I had the German shepherd. Yeah like clawing me spinning barking in my face. Thank God he had the muzzle on He's at home right now with. My two kids is a sweet dog. Not Not a sweet dog for you. I'm sure but then that was happening and I was started while that was happening. I started dealing with the Holocaust Because you know Nine of my grandfather's brothers and sisters were murdered during the Holocaust There was only three that escaped and two survived my grandfather and his his one last surviving sister. So all that kind of memory that I have within me viscerally from that time and you and you know I've shared about my my grandfather Was coming up for me and and I was being buried and the German shepherd was in my face and then you were placing men over me stocking man on top man. I had like six or eight guys on top of me while I was buried and I it was fascinating to me. Because I had to disassociate from anything. I knew myself to be to find something deeper than whoever I was in that moment because who I was in that moment could not Survive this ordeal. The ME I knew myself to be had to either die disappear or run screaming for the hills. It was like these. Were like the kind of choices And even though the Po- I maybe if I didn't have six or eight guys I don't remember how many on top of me I would have got up and run but I might have. I don't know thank God. I couldn't but in that moment something new Came alive inside me. Something New and and and and my Wi- who who who I really am at the core of what really matters when you strip everything else away started to emerge and I started to to scream and my wife's name and my children's name and and my as yet not born into this world daughter's name because we're we want the daughter we have the sons And and my life changed in that moment from then on No matter what. The challenge was in warrior. No matter how hard it is and many a time another man had to help me. You know there was to go back to the moment you buried. You got the six man like the whole thing is coming. The whole thing is happening right you close for like that hate that you go to a reference of Holocaust and how nine nine of the member of your families have been piled up and stack up and their presentation of those men as the bodies of those the member of everything's coming so one specific question for you..
"love warrior" Discussed on WARRIOR WEEK
"Alright alright alright. Alright welcome to this parable from the pit worry week. Podcast my guest this week. A very special guest my friend my Amigo along friend Damian. Here saying yes alright Damian. Welcome to the show. We're GONNA talk a lot of talk about but I wanna I wanna Kinda go back and you came to worry week forty nine. That's right forty Anna Fuck. You got a good memory so forty nine one kind fucking worry week. I remember that talk to me about what and where the message of warrior kind of started resonating. Would you like took something inside of your heart and started shaking something and said you know what this is something that I have to discover like specifically what led me warrior? We kinda we well. I've done a lot of training in my life transformational training. I being a senior head coach at places like landmark education. The forum I I've studied With spiritual teachers and martial arts masters and you know and at some fundamental level. I'm a seeker I'm always looking to. How can I grow? How can I improve but I also got to the point where here I was and what I'm going to call warrior. Classic Meaning Married With Children Entrepreneur and and the work I had been doing in the world wasn't working and I know it wasn't working because my wife looked at me and said whatever the fuck you're doing it's not working. You have to do something that breaks up shifts and changes the trajectory of the vector in the paradigm in which. You're currently operating. Because I don't fucking like this man and it was in these conversations in these collisions in these arguments where it became clear to me that something had to shift something needed something different Needed to change. And I think that one of the things that had also happened to me. which again my wife articulated very well. Is You coach? Everybody who the fuck coaches you and it was true. If you looked in my life like a large portion you know twenty plus hours. A Week Free. I was coaching. Hundreds in Ultimately amounted to thousands of other people to have breakthroughs in their own life but somehow or another I wasn't able to receive coaching or listen to coaching and a lot of it came down to that. I had this feeling that you know they don't really get me like no offence to this great woman. Right here is trying to coach me. But she doesn't get me she doesn't feel me And in no offense to you know this guy over here. He's not married and doesn't have kids he doesn't understand what's going on with me right now and it was really that shift into married. Kids Entrepreneur Stress Pressure And and how do I not fall back into these old paradigm? Because I'd given up partying given up drinking? I was you know. I'm a diabetic type two diabetics. I'm really managing watching what I ingest and what I eat and but I found myself like gorging on sugar I found myself. You know sneaking drink here or there I found myself sneaking a joint here or there the self anesthetizing trying to calm the mind and and My sexual appetite disappeared my sexual relationship with my wife at pretty much fizzled out. And we were still not quite newlyweds. But we'd only been married like three and a half year And now we have two kids so I saw a video on facebook and the video which is one of the ones that I Guess Jeremy Ha- had made You know with Garrett and you and others and I'm looking at this world of of men under you know kind of extreme Challenges are circumstances being called to rise to To become an to remember. You'RE A fucking king. Yeah that was the occurring like I was like what is this and I looked at it and I looked at it and I looked at it and I'll never forget we're sitting at a Sushi dinner and my wife looked up at me and she said so. What are you going to do and I said well? I don't know but I found this thing called a wake-up Warrior and I went. That's it now. My wife is an intuitive okay. Okay so she's a spiritual teacher of women got it specifically. She is an intuitive and so and she just went. That's it and I was like well. I don't know I got no. That's it as like okay. Wall take a look and she goes no sign up right now. I'm like well I don't know. There's this facebook feed. There's a link here and then. I sat at the table for like forty five minutes trying to access and I literally looked at my wife broken. I said they have to be this on purpose. There is no fucking way that someone would make it this difficult to get through to them in less. They were doing it on purpose. Then I went. Oh this is the first. And then all of a sudden I got through to you. Click Click Click. And it's like an awesome. This text came in and it was from you and it's like. Hey this is Sam I'll reach out to you in a minute and like and and then all of a sudden I had this interaction with you And then we. We ended up on the phone together. I guess you could call it my interview and You told me that you know The car the warrior forty nine was basically closed and And that you guys weren't going to do it for a little while and and but you said tell me what's going on with you and I really I think are very openly authentically share and then you went. Well fuck no you need it right now you know and you were right I did. I needed it right like I literally sitting here and because I can authentically say that in periods of time in my life something has shown up that has saved. My life saved it from whatever pit slash cliff. I was literally about to drive off of an into I credit landmark education with having done that for me I credit martial-arts in my early life. As a matter of fact March today is the anniversary of the death of my mother who got killed in a brutal car wreck in the middle of a terrible divorce with a man who desperately back then needed warrior. Right so it's interesting that I'm here on this date March eleventh. It's also interesting that today's the day that the US just shut down travel to the world because of this virus Which is a whole other conversation. But I Martial arts saved my life when my mother got killed and my my home burnt down and all this crazy shit happened in a very in a couple week period and then My my creativity always kept me going in life but then At critical in my life landmark education showed up and Then in super like the most critical juncture in my life and again married to little baby boy's a queen And and an entrepreneur then warrior showed up and it literally radically altered Who I am as a human being as a man and you know brought me here to you. Yeah Beautiful Beautiful Story. Yeah I remember the the end of you and literally. There were too many people in forty nine. I just it was too many people and I specifically remember told you like hey man. If you decide that you're gonNA come in and it seems that fuck should needs to happen right away fuck it. I guess. Somebody asked to sit on somebody else's lap on the bus 'cause if that's what it takes for you to come in that's what it takes and. I think somebody did said on somebody else's not but we were. I think I don't know twenty or nineteen or something started like twenty four guys and then they just broke his leg In Australia yes Couple of other guys you know. Just start because that's part of the process. I specifically remember Warrior Week. Forty nine and What I remember mainly about what he is. Fundamentally the video that was created after that and what was said during that video which was extremely relevant it was a common pain among all of us and it went back and it started like there was a link in that first of all. None of this shit is script out like it just and I don't know why that came out because it would not I don't always detonated like it was designated to be said because all of us related to that seven year old kid inside of us like the story of the seven year old kid truly truly started living in Warwick forty nine because for so many other events that we had prior After that which was would we call the return of the king specifically the video of forty nine was played in order to lead them into the experience of the Inner Child? That's something we've created as part of an evolution and that speech led to that and it led for hundred of guys post where week forty nine and that was very relevant to me. I know it was ready to you and I specifically recall was very into Jeremy in a few other. Jeremy that you know Jeremy was Jeremy Myself. Garretta's just Kinda like grew warrior together and Jeremy chose to go through the week experiences one humble student for himself and it was a piece of himself then he found in there that you know he wanted it for so many years and it was directly linked to seven year old and I. I'm just putting pieces of together and putting the speech together. I'm putting the letter that you wrote from Sparta. To your two boys that became a monument In such that I ask you to laminate it. Because it was so beautifully written it was so in fact. I'M GONNA go rip it off from the wall have you. Hear- read it because I do want to document. It was so beautifully written. As if you as if you've taken the pink you've taken the ink. The pen and ink inside of the panel is truly like like the essence of love. That was writing that and it was true because it was true to every father. You know it wasn't. It wasn't just like when I was reading the letter when you're reading I was hearing and I wasn't. I wasn't hearing your writing or was it was. It was a universal message right so again aunties and and I'm putting it again together. Your mom passed away today so many years back and I know how close you are to your mom because specifically what I remember is three years after when you went on stage and there's like thousands of guys in Black Polos. And you're you're giving. Your speech was fundamental. It was beautiful speech. But the most beautiful piece of that the biggest takeaway. I said bunch of stuff that was cool but the biggest takeaway that like steaks was the story of you in the field with your mom and and and you have the camera in your hand. And you're taking these pictures and was the first time and then your mom kind of stops you and says you know it's it's not the camera at. Who's behind the camera? Right and that that that literally like put the art inside of your heart the desire to be an artist and you went after that we're GonNa talk about your career as an artist both inside of the audio video of film industry so many industry the books that you've written the people that you've with so many people that you have impact and you helped so I'm putting all the pieces to get all those pieces. Come back to that little boy in the field right the peace. Come back to little boy. In warzone. Jeremy's home-schooled seven year old la- rods seven-year-old and Bronx. And all these kids that were like kind of like old friends back in the days and forty-nine brought all these old souls back together and says here's a common playground..
"love warrior" Discussed on Going Through It
"Glennon Doyle is the founder of mama Sterry an online community for quote, people who are tired of making life harder by pretending. It isn't hard her book love warrior became a New York Times bestseller, and not only are she and Abby Wambach still madly in love. They got married, and they live blocks from Lennon's ex husband and current co parent, Craig he and he have even played soccer together. Going through. It is an original series from male Tim, and I've been your host and Friedman. I am supported like a fine fitting bra by producers Eleanor keagan Meghan, tan, Gabrielle Lewis and Claire tie. This episode was edited by Joel level. It was scored and mixed by Hans Brown. Thanks to max linski who is always disrupting the status, bro. And everyone at pineapple street media. On the next episode. What happens when people are telling you to wait your turn. But your certain that waiting ruin your life. Yeah. I would always praying to God. Asking him. I'm asking you for Olympic gold medal. Give me a chance to compete for one. You know, I just want. I don't want them to discriminate against me because my age. Clarisa shields. I stepped into the boxing ring at just twelve years old, and she spent most of her time in the gym training for the Olympics. But when they told her she might be too young to compete. They threatened to take away everything. She'd worked for Clarisa tells me about how she was going through it both in and out of the boxing ring.
"love warrior" Discussed on Game Scoop!
"But I thought that you know, three weeks ago, I wouldn't be touching my switch for awhile. All I've been doing is playing octopus traveler, and then now I'm playing dead cells on switch and I just thought three, yes, but freaking love warrior aware. So I'm playing three big Nintendo games right now. Are you know into unidentified? I didn't expect that. So when you read through that list and even though there's old games on there and some games, they didn't recognize like there will likely be many, many times I place which again, this fall, it's kinda ebb and flow like I didn't play after Mario. I didn't play my switch. I lost my switch. I couldn't find for months, but I didn't even. I didn't even like Renault games coming out. I was interested in did know where my switch was. You've found. That there was a crack in it. I wish I don't know why said that. Which my battery swell. So I ended up, but now I cannot put a pick Ross to down. And I'm loving Holland I on the switch to come around. But I'm still not like I don't like dead cells quite as much as some other people, but I'm playing dead cells as well. So you know, luminous also and I got that too. Like there's just I just don't expect to be playing all the games. I'm actually play this habit of I swear. It's just like whatever's put in front of my face. It's like my animal brain, like when I don't play my switch and I don't have like a cause to pick it up. I just ignore it completely. But once one game gets me back on the train, then I'm like, well, let's pile on these other games to like, I'll go back to steam at some point, sort of catch up on the dozen or so games I miss there. Yeah, it's for me I, I've been a long time that Nintendo one me over ages ago with their ability to sell me the same game over and over and over again, whether I really needed to buy it or not. So originally just extended to their first party library with things like virtual console or newports or or or compilations. But now they've actually seemed to a found a way to sell me third party games that I've already bought like minute or marketing inch. Me by them on a new platform again or luminous. Exactly..
"love warrior" Discussed on HOMOGROUND
"Cited for this one love warrior is like i put the most i've ever put into any project into this and we have nine dancers in it we have four locations it was just a lot a lot of people as community was it's it's just bad ass i'm so excited to share it's really fucking cool part of it for me as like a lot of surrendering and i'm also a very spiritual person and so really kind of leaning into that so daily meditations even if it means like five minutes before again the shower in the morning stuff that kind of helps me slow down because i can get so ahead of myself and i am constantly looking like thirty steps ahead when i often have to remind myself to like be present and be in the moment and enjoy what's currently going on and what i've created and and know that that what's happening right now i can be so grateful for because i made all this magic happen so that's been a challenge for me 'cause i'm like oh i like see where i wanna be i just want to go but there's also a lot of credible stuff happening right here right now so yeah just like kind of flowing down in surrendering and knowing that like everything's happening and it's in it's perfect timing and the way it's supposed to fold out and i mean i have a fulltime day job so that's obviously a challenge when my music feels like it's also a fulltime night job fulltime night and weekend any hour that i can get my lunch breaks whatever it can do so that's definitely challenge but i feel like it's kept me super motivated to be on top of my shit.
"love warrior" Discussed on WFAN Sports Radio_FM
"To be the outcome do we want toronto cleveland i think a lot of people in the guys i don't wanna put words in conner's mouth i think kinda agree with you james that a lot of us would like to see a different outcome than warriors cleveland i love worst i love warriors cavs and i know it's not there's sort of a paradox here a little a little bit it's a little it's a little paradoxical because most fans agree they would like to see something different but warriors cavs put up huge numbers you ratings the rest of the playoffs not so much the sense of inevitability has meant that fans tend to be waiting for the finals to really tune in and really get going i think it will be warriors this year and i think it'll probably be cavs but what is the combo that's best for the league eight five five two one two four cbs if you wanna win i think toronto's a really exciting team but they're not an american team there is a bias in this country against watching sports sometimes have other teams blue jays and such i don't know that it's probably like it's probably celtics i mean celtics warriors is probably the huge ratings grab i guess there's a difference between the ratings because that is the casual fan and growing the game with people that you turn into longterm longtime nba fans for for me we all sort of root for own selfish interests and this is i'm just gonna be honest with you i wanted to be i wanted to be warriors versus toronto and in asleep or i'd love it to be portland versus because i love i love the bear in portland and when i'm on west coast time covering the finals i am in a position where i'm able to get off work a little bit earlier and like you know have dinner and stuff like that i mean james us.
"love warrior" Discussed on The Marie Forleo Podcast
"Interestingly enough it turns out that as it isn't freaking mean helpful helper okay as a means warrior right as remains strong and benevolent right so as there is used in the bible to describe really really strong military forces god herself and will so can you just tell me how from strong benevolent warrior they got helper wishful thinking like it's a by a because it was a bunch of men at a table decide there were like well we have to freaking at the laundry dan okay so we're just gonna fit helper that's why you have to be at the table that's why there has to be women at every single table because if you're not at the table you on the menu yeah right so so that just change everything to me man isaac oh this is not like god put me here as like a freaking while love warrior that's where love working like what god cares about is peace and love in beauty in caring for hurting people and so god put woman here as someone who cares about peace in love and beauty and caring for her people leads us exactly where i wanted to go next which is um sister and their two more things i want to cover before we wrap up but sister ring is something i saw you postballot facebook and i loved it can you share a little bit about half fee of systra yet so is this idea that that adam.
"love warrior" Discussed on The Marie Forleo Podcast
"I am i gotta library card of asia which was still so terrifying when i think about it so am i was just gonna have going along with life and i started i became a writer annan as can out there it was like kinda a relationships expert with an amazon said so amazon says it's true raised her own identify oh i didn't know that gas was really the kind of the framing of your blog in granting yes right which i never said like ivo i'll always said i don't know what the hell and do it right back but that's what amazon said so but that made it more awkward win and and terrifying when i was in therapy with cragg i guess about ten years intermarriage an um craig revealed to me i was clueless about this but he revealed to me that he'd been unfaithful tony our entire marriage so in less of a relationship way and more of like a cereal one nightstand kind of way an so anyway that is that's that was a big huge rock bottom for me because it was the most painful day of my life i think which saying not because the first time because i felt evicted from my life again but the first time when i was convicted from my life i was a disaster right like i was drunk and i was ably make and i was on drugs so even i was like good colleagues solid i've gotta you know like my laos sucks yes l m so all just take this invitation to become as among ourselves right right right right split this second time i was like i'm everything i've ever wanted to be now.
"love warrior" Discussed on Good Life Project
"Yeah and why i i am dating now craigslist here i don't know i think there's like this thing that happens that i've i've spent so much of my time thinking about what i have that can help the world but i've got this staff have got this wisdom i've got i've learned this thing and when i'm learning a little bit and and i don't mean this like permanently your for ever but what a thinks happenings i'm learning everything you give away completely is the not yours between neil you know like a n there's this thing that happens that has to happen between two people were you just seve some stuff that is only years no matter how good it is like the better it is the more masing it is to save right so i think for a while i mean and i think one thing i've learned is it's a lot easier to go out and save the world than it is to stay home love family you know like i think i've gotta figure that out i've done the world thing i'm gonna keep doing the world thing on some level but what i'm really curious and interested about now is how to build a magic relationship between two people the really powerful thoughts that's radical left ankara you met my wife coming in here were business partners also so we work together were married for a long time my line in the sand has always been sort of like i keep them very very private my entire family albert even though i've been through semipublic for a long time now and i write about lessons i read about things that happened but always in a veiled enough way so that don't really know and everyone's got to find that line the drive for them but i love you wages shared about the idea that when you give something away 100 percent the public it's no longer between the two of you anymore you know it's now it's between all of us and there is something i think.
"love warrior" Discussed on Good Life Project
"So look i don't like dumb even recommend that you put all of your crap on facebook like one interesting thing that i keep hearing about love warrior is that you know people say oh my god i can't believe she put that out there like it's so much it's so much in this idea of truth telling in real time like the thing about love warrior is that none of it is in real time like all of that happened four years ago i never even mentioned in all of my you know how many i was public for the whole entire four years i was writing love warrior online and i never even mentioned the word infidelity right like when you're dealing with these personal topics that are so that involve other people in our so person on private and tender you don't do any of it in real time i don't ever do that i mean carry on warrior i wrote seven years after i got sober right so it's like we might for naughty always says we right from our um scars and not are gaping opened wounds right because when we right from our open wounds we just at the whole world's goes oh too much you know and then it feels needy as opposed to a gift but when you've worked through at all a behind the scenes and you've got a chance to mine near experience for all the golden wisdom that it has then you can offer to the world as a gift and not a cry for help right so we cry for help behind the scenes with our people with our little crew of people not with facebook but when we're ready to present what we've learned to the role as a gift.
"love warrior" Discussed on Good Life Project
"Tell me a little bit about that because you're coming off of this really cool thing and which is diverted there all sorts started i had a plan book tour right for love wire and i book tour scare the bid this out of me because i became a writer so i could stand my pajamas like this is what we do right was we don't have to go out dress may another just to reaching introvert i just i love humanity but like actual humans are tricky for me in them and and i just it's like a lot of like look at me look at me look at me look at me and i'm really uncomfortable that because my family's just have as always taught me to not be like that so asylum a dad about at one day like which i do with this book tour to make it means something other than look at me you know and he was like well he always says he's like well you know what i say when you get to the party that a dance with one the brought you and so i thought was very what brought me to this which is always truth telling in service right and love so i thought wouldn't it be cool to instead of just what going around the country talking about myself and talking about the book love warrior wouldn't it be cool to actually create a tour of actual love warrior like of actual energy spat ask people who are doing who are living out their purpose in their lives whether it's activism or art or relationships or whatever it is for them and then invite the kind of people who had show up at of at like that who are also like what i would consider the love warriors in each community so that's what it is a turn in an you know at this moment in our country when were being sold so much fear and division it felt like the smartest thing to do to bring all those kinds of people that were being told fear into one place.
"love warrior" Discussed on Good Life Project
"Amac having feed in alcohol addict but i still find myself missing these in the same twisted way we can miss those who repeatedly beat us and leave us for dead i wrote that us like that's exactly right that's how i feel like that's not something in ever allowed to say in real life sue live longer year ago amid right around a year i sat down with glennon doyle to have a conversation it was around the context of her than released memoir love were which became a massive thing clennett if you don't knows and author and activists who started together rising which has raised millions of dollars compassion collective and all sorts of other things as we talked during that conversation it got very personally got very provocative we went into the deep under the pool quickly in one of the things that we explored was the fact that in her memoirs road extensively very personally a very vividly about her relationship with her now ex husband and also in the conversation start sharing about a relationship that she was in that she really want to protect and norrish and allowed to flourish since that conversation has eric glennon has decided to serve slowly reveal more and more share more and more about how her life has evolved and changed she shared that in fact the her and her now x did end up getting divorce and that she was in a relationship with abby one back and in february of 2017 in fact they became engaged and then a couple of months later became married.
"love warrior" Discussed on Hot Takedown
"Got engaged in and she's the author of the absolutely lovely and brilliant love warrior no catherine has read it i'm about half way through it and has to so many insights on the world so the title together it so you said finally happy on the intro i'm gonna make the leap here in suggested maybe some of it has to do with meeting someone who you just absolutely connect with of course i mean there's nothing better than falling in love and finding the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with and knowing that within ten minutes of meeting them while i think that for the last couple of years before having met her you know is going through kind of a really confusing time in my life whether it be because now is retiring from plane this long this game that i played for so long or really struggling with dealing with my emotions through through substances when i met glenn which is kind of one of those like a moments that put my life until like before and after which kind of makes a lot of sense you know when you do get sober especially having gotten a dui like all the things that happen you know now i feel like i'm so grounded and happy and obviously in love and getting married and in there's six so many things that that my life wasn't a year ago that completely is now so abby our stories a me and k in new england have so many parallels to them and i was married to a man in a glenn and wants to that we have some interesting parallels going on here but.