35 Burst results for "Lois"

Teacher Says They're a Polysexual, Pagan Witch

Mark Levin

01:33 min | 2 months ago

Teacher Says They're a Polysexual, Pagan Witch

"It was crazy But not only that but they often know that I'm gender fluid At one point last year I had explained to them that I was not gonna flow as in mystery Lois just when I was not a boy or a girl And this was all I was good in October When I offered explained to him that I paged him so I am also aware and at one point I got my hair cut and I got in the 5s and I loved his face down and I come in the word ignore the children of those Are you a boy You have short hair And this is because there's no flow over the girl And a third child Know guys we've been over this Lowest is a boy or a girl Louis is a win All right holy smokes Dorothy We're not in Kansas anymore Is she a good witch or a bad witch No Lois is a gender fluid teacher That is polysexual And I don't mean her name is Polly I mean she's a pagan witch This is insanity But this is what's happening to children No I don't think every single child has a pagan witch teacher But that's what this one admitted to being that's what's going on here And this is the woke attack that's on our children in public schools across all of America

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ZOA's David Schoen Addresses Pending Suit Against Steve Bannon

Mark Levin

01:59 min | 8 months ago

ZOA's David Schoen Addresses Pending Suit Against Steve Bannon

"Well I mean you've got it all in a nutshell What you just said let me be clear from the beginning since we've got a pending case here I don't generally address pending cases But I am addressing this case because I think I have an obligation to respond because the attorney general Garland saw fit to issue a press release on Friday after mister Bannon was indicted And in it he said that the charges against mister Bannon reflected department of justices steadfast commitment to pursuing equal justice under the law I can't think of much that's further from the truth than that This is in no way the pursuit of equal justice under law to put it in perspective by the way for people since 2008 have been referred for criminal contempt And that's what mister Bennet is charged with criminal contempt to the Justice Department Not one of them was ever charged with criminal contempt Lois learner Eric holder Harriet Myers Josh Bolton all across the board politically This is what we're seeing today from the Biden administration from this Congress is the politicization of the criminal process for a vindictive reasons And what they did in those other cases and three of the four is they had a dispute over whether the document should be turned over And so they initiated a civil enforcement action to get a judge to decide whether they should be turned over That's all mister Bennett asked for here From a president Trump invoked executive privilege mister Bannon's lawyer received a letter directing him not to appear and not to turn over any documents because privilege has been invoked His lawyer advised him to honor that mister Ben wanted to honor that for the former president because it clearly does apply former president We know from the case Nixon versus general service administration a former president Ken invoked privilege and it's very important privilege in the mazars case The court said this is a privilege of the highest sanctity executive privilege Why Because the president of the United States has to be able to speak freely to advisers even if they're no longer on the staff We often call that president often calls on former advisers because their wealth of knowledge they knew something then They know something now and they're kept in

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Houston's Ali Lowitzer Still Missing After a Decade

Catch my Killer

01:55 min | 10 months ago

Houston's Ali Lowitzer Still Missing After a Decade

"People across the country are taking time to renew efforts to find children who vanished as part of national missing children's day at also holds true for a local family that never stopped searching for their daughter. Allie low at sir. She has not been seen since april of two thousand ten. Allie was just sixteen years old when she disappeared channel. Two's brandon walker joins us from bumble with. What's being done to help. Find her and other missing children across the area brandon. Good morning to you. No doubt allies disappearance is one of the more high profile disappearances. We've covered here over the past six years or so but get this. The center for missing children says just last year alone. There were ten thousand reported missing cases of children here in the county area alone. As far as allie goes the hope according to her mother is that someone will see this with some information. That'll bring her daughter home for six years. We've been searching for her. It hasn't gotten any easier joanne. Lewitt's mother valley lois or has been missing. Since april twenty six two thousand ten six years ago she left home alone walking to work alley. Didn't make it to work. Though she was last seen getting off a school. Bus alleys disappearance sparked a nationwide search countless tips. One of them profiled on investigation discovery channels last seen alive. The program followed tip that alley had been working in columbus ohio as a prostitute. The tip was no not allie. Today on national missing children's day allie lewis are got a billboard. She's had one in the past. Hopefully this time it will garner leads. That work tips. Joanne hopes will bring her daughter home. I wish this billboard could stay permanently. It's bigger than every store window in town. If we had digital billboards specified just for missing people. It could run for twenty four hours without any repeats. It's the sad fact.

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Who Killed Lois Duncan's Daughter: The Murder of Kaitlyn Arquette

Strange and Unexplained with Daisy Eagan

01:58 min | 10 months ago

Who Killed Lois Duncan's Daughter: The Murder of Kaitlyn Arquette

"Lowest. Dunkin would receive a phone call. That would change her life forever. Caitlyn had been shot twice in the head while driving near downtown albuquerque and was in the hospital in critical condition less than twenty four hours later. Caitlin was dead and lois duncan found herself. Living the kind of nightmare. She had devoted her life to writing about. Lois would spend the next three decades trying unsuccessfully to unravel the mystery of her daughter's murder. Here's what we know about the crime around eleven pm on july sixteenth. A plainclothes detective drove by a car. That had hit a pole off the side of the road. On the corner of lomas east broadway near downtown albuquerque. There was a vw bug. Stop next to it. He saw no one at the site of the crash so he kept driving. I'm sorry what. How is it crashed car and another one right next to it at eleven o'clock at night not cause to stop an investigate. Common sense finally kicked in and the officer radioed end to see if the crash had been reported yet it hadn't so he decided to turn around and see. If i don't know a citizen might need help. By the time he got back to the scene of the crash the vw was gone. Oops am i right instead of the vw. Now some random guy was standing near the crash car when the detective asked what he was doing there. He said he just happened to be passing by turns out the reason. The officer didn't see anyone in the crashed car when he drove by without bothering to stop was because the driver had been shot twice in the head and was slumped over the wheel and she was still alive. This was kaitlyn arquette. Lois duncan's eighteen year old daughter.

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

02:47 min | 1 year ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"With faith and lois. I'm faith and i'm lois. I've podcast explores the things you face in life that inspire and reading to you fake at the end of july. I cannot even believe at the end of july. This summer is flying by once again and we just hold onto a little bit longer. I know it's been beautiful to go from all v. seasons we've experienced them together and i'm glad that no matter what has happened through covert we hung in there even if it's from afar but we're doing it and we're in this new theme emerging into a world where the restrictions of kobe are beginning to relax all around us and today we're going to impact explore the impact that is that the pandemic has had on your body and fade. We're have you felt this kind of hit you. Oh dear like most people a few extra pounds emerge because ice. Cream was my go-to felt so good. It was my comfort food At in especially late afternoon or something And those are the kind of things. Were not being able to get out as much and to do some of those things that help counterbalance that. But that's one that's one area but you know there were some real positive things that came out for more my my mental health in my Perspective so i think i cared for myself in different ways and To compensate in. Yeah it's been kind of both a positive and a negative and on the negative. I have some work to do that just reading so much. Is this self awareness piece that for some reason because we were more alone with ourselves we could like take a look at it like about our mental health about our physical health about our emotional spiritual health just kind of all coming together because we just had a bit more time to reflect on that on a regular basis and i became really i think more cognizant of what it takes to maintain that it just didn't become something i fell into. It was like oh. I have to think about this. I have to want this. I have to work at this. And so i think i made a lot more changes in the way i treat myself. I treat my body. I take care of myself during this time. But i will take forward with me and i'm looking forward to that so by the way if you wanna check out any of our previous podcasts and we have a lot of them because this is episode one hundred eighty seven so we got a lot out there. If you want to check out what faith. And i have done in the past but you can listen at more life with facing the lowest dot com where you can also sign up for a free weekly newsletter or you can.

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Adames Drives in 4 as Brewers Rally for 11-6 Win Over Reds

AP News Radio

00:38 sec | 1 year ago

Adames Drives in 4 as Brewers Rally for 11-6 Win Over Reds

"Well the odometer two run Homer and a two run double as the brewers dump the Reds eleven to six P. on feeling good at the plate no awfully I continue to you know to carry that those that haven't you know and continue to help the team to get wins because we need them Lois Riess had a solo Homer to spark Milwaukee's five run eighth shortly before Adonis double a pair two more runs scored on wild pitches in the eighth a missile Garcia also Homer for the brewers who's leading the NL central is up to five games over Cincinnati Tyler Nick when a U. Haney US war as he two run doubles for the Reds Cincinnati lost for just the third time in twelve games I'm Dave Ferrie

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What Happens to All the Stuff We Send Into Space?

The Atlas Obscura Podcast

02:35 min | 1 year ago

What Happens to All the Stuff We Send Into Space?

"Since the launch of sputnik in nineteen fifty seven humans have been sending all sorts of things into space stuff like the serious eight and new satellite just launched by stitchers parent company or cargo space craft bringing supplies to space station's not to mention the most prising stuff like golden records or read tesla's an estimated thirty five thousand bits of Incentives right up to objects at the size of double decker buses up to of course international space station which is said to be the size of american football fields or five bedroom house. That's dr alice. Gorman associate professor at flinders university in south australia and one of the world's leading space archaeologists she studies all sorts of ways. Humans have engaged with space including these tens of thousands of objects rocketing around in earth orbit. And that's just stuff four inches and bigger there's believed to be millions of objects anything smaller than that. They distributed from lois little bit which is about two hundred kilometers above the surface of the us up to maybe about one thousand two thousand kilometers then. You have raged. That's just cold middle or medium business and then you get into. The high as obits. Miss includes Stationary orbit which is where bust of telecommunications satellites used to think of these orbits kind of like three lanes of a running track with satellites and spacecraft as the runners zipping around and around in their respective lanes. But note that for this analogy to work the track would be really really big and runners relatively teeny if we go out there and look at these might only say one object within your field. You so that impression. We have a stuff's closely packed together. Just together that's actually luck. Absolute worst case scenario. Which we're not at yet. There's growing concern about what will happen over. The next few decades as there are a lot of plans to launch way more stuff into orbit. And here's the thing. The vast vast majority of objects orbiting the planet is considered space junk.

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Carlos Alazraqui  From "Reno 911"  Interview and Comedy Set    Show #64  - burst 01

Standup Comedy "Your Host and MC"

03:00 min | 1 year ago

Carlos Alazraqui From "Reno 911" Interview and Comedy Set Show #64 - burst 01

"And voices when you were a kid or did you develop that as a teen in young adult through the or my parents from south. America dad british educated with no accident. My mom got nathan and then head over my friend. Kevin thousand started though scotland. One too many haney the signed. Feel as it on donny. And i'm hearing lethal their body. You'll hear way easing cow. Tow free of dialect is so dialects. Got you started. I think like every other kid. I'm watching. tv like hey listen if you stay ahead. We'll watch monty python. And so hearing all these dial in sounds. I just soak it up and started spitting it out on stage. I knew that i could be worse than that. Sort of hide behind us. You know i was always mba of the comedians. That could come out as them sell. And get you on wolf word or lois bromfield that well big carlos it. I mean everybody in show business. If you're really going to succeed you need a hook and for some people. It's their look like imo. Fill up some people. It's their attitude. Like bobby slayton other people. It's it's pure seinfeld atlano. It's their way to relate to everyday life in a funny way. There was nothing wrong. In fact. I think it's an attribute if you can take something like your voice characterizations in sound effects. It you could do and meld it with professional Creative comedy to the point where you're entertaining a bunch of strangers. I mean you're not just cracking up your brother sister. You're doing stuff that everybody enjoys. That's a big difference. My friends thing funny but just stepping in out of the front row and putting your feet on stage turning around and see an audience hold if your it exciting skydiver. fifteen years. I started in ninety five and went through two thousand ten. But you can watch videos this guy diving and watching the video on the ground and you go okay. I know what's going to happen. But once you get up on that plane and that door opens and that sound is coming the win and you keep playing. You're like what the after my doing. That's you know that's an analogy. Haven't heard before. But i think it's perfect because a lot of people wanna think they can be a stand up comic. Wanna try being a stand up comic and the one of the biggest fears to get over is getting out on stage and talking in front of a bunch of strangers and actually being able to talk intelligently and watching it making it look easy and then doing it is a whole different thing. Just like skydiving. My were my suit of armor. You

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Author Angeline Boulley Shares Her Journey Into Writing

What Book Hooked You?

01:40 min | 1 year ago

Author Angeline Boulley Shares Her Journey Into Writing

"When when did the fire lit knew that you wanted to kind of create your own stories. Well lois duncan came out with a book. When i was in high school. I think. I read it when i was a senior in high school and It was the main character was native. But she didn't know it. She was had a native mother and a non native father and she was adopted and Of course there were like all these sinister things that going on to and so. That was the first time i ever read a book where i was like. Wait that is a character like me. One parents native ones. Not you know wants one. Grandmother doesn't like the Dad and And i i remember reading that book and feeling like wait. I think i've been missing in everything. I've read up to this point and i hadn't realized until i read something that had character like me and then on the story had some had some issues with how natives were portrayed and i just remember thinking like that's not my lifted like this is a character that's like me but it's not my lived experience nor like my cousins so there was kind of that fought that i think you know i think i could tell a story and That was. I think where that spark really game from

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New Superman Movie Reboot Coming From JJ Abrams

Pop Culture Leftovers

00:31 sec | 1 year ago

New Superman Movie Reboot Coming From JJ Abrams

"News darker is celebrated author. Journalists to turn coats has been hired to pen a reboot of the superman franchise for warner brothers. Pictures and films. In addition j.j. abrams producing the project under his bad robot. Label abrahams previously penned. An aborted superman film script. Twenty years ago called superman fly by hannam and gallo will also serve as producer on this new incarnation. There are no story or cast attachments. As yet

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‘Terminator’ Anime Series Ordered at Netflix

Pop Culture Leftovers

00:56 sec | 1 year ago

‘Terminator’ Anime Series Ordered at Netflix

"News from dark. Dark horizons here. Batman scribe set for terminator anime netflix. Sky dance and japan's production. I g are all teaming up to produce an anime series based on james cameron's the terminator sifi franchise and tomlin co matter. Who co wrote matt reads upcoming. the batman. film will act as showrunner and executive producer on the project. Details of the new take have not been revealed. so yeah or matt tomlin says matson. Tomlin's does anyone who knows my writing. I believe in taking big swings going for the heart. I'm honored that netflixing sky dance have given me the opportunity to approach terminator in a way that breaks conventions subverts expectations and has real guts. So yeah we're getting a terminator anime series coming to net flix.

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WandaVision: Scarlet Witch's Magic Breaks the MCU's Rules

Pop Culture Leftovers

02:19 min | 1 year ago

WandaVision: Scarlet Witch's Magic Breaks the MCU's Rules

"Week i talked about the nexus nexus being and how wanda is going to be the next this being the next is being being the one that can control the their the prime in in the universe but they control like the multi-diverse and i don't know about that now i i really don't know if that's if wanda is the next us being because they introduced in this episode. They said that. Wanda is basically the kind of like the conductor of chaos magic and we'll we'll jump into chaos magic here in a little bit. But what were you saying. Steven i was gonna say. I took the confirmation that that they are heading there without officially giving her the label of the next being like giving their own cute different name. Which is the chaos which or whatever it was using chaos magic but chaos. Magic is something completely different than the next being chaos magic but it's basically chaos. Magic is basically create a had it written down what agatha said She says to the this. Chaos magic wanda that makes you the scarlet witch And then it says. I don't know it's from somewhere else. But is chaos. Magic is the name of magic so powerful that it was thought to be nonexistent. Even by the source where supreme this magic can be manipulated warp and reconstruct the very fabric of existence and reality for the user and it brings total destruction to the cosmos. Yeah rebecca slow. Isn't that i think that's the thing that's not from this episode though that is from like you know like marvel wicky fandom which i mean trip definitely could be something that she's able to do but in this episode the way that agatha described it was basically you can with your yet. She's capable of creating spontaneous creation. She says you have no idea how dangerous you are. You're supposed to be a myth. A being capable of spontaneous creation. Here you are using it to make breakfast for dinner. This chaos magic wanda

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You Are What You Subscribe To

Lochhead on Marketing

06:18 min | 1 year ago

You Are What You Subscribe To

"All right. So i wanted to share with you something that my wife. Carrie ann i did the first At the beginning of the new year. And that's We sat down and we reviewed everything that both of us were subscribed to and we sorta did a purge and a respectful and together. We said you know what kind of content do we love. What do we want to learn This year what should we stop consuming. What should we start consuming and we did this very thoughtful very proactively over the course of about an hour and the high here for me is. I think it's important to be very very careful. Whose ideas that you let into your brain you know. We only have so much brain shelf space and we only have so much. Time to consume books podcasts Whatever the case you tubes whatever we like to consume and so being very thoughtful about what we put into our brain is actually a very important thing and i think there we put some shit in our head. That can hurt us pretty badly. You know if you're a longtime listener you know Have no love for the hustle stars. And i think they've done more damage to entrepreneurs and marketers than any recent group in history For a simple example you. I've heard hustle porn star. Say hustles the most important word the english language. Well i've also heard hustle porn star. Say no one ever worked himself to death well in japan they have a word for it. It's called karoshi and it translates into death by overwork. So nonstop hustling for twenty. Five years is probably not what you want to do. In addition even worse maybe is. You can hustle all you want but there's a difference between hard work and smart work hamsters hustle in their wheels to and they don't get anywhere. So what's your hustling about matters. And if you're a regular listener you know that i believe that Legends become known for a niche. That they own. So if you're hustling to design your own category that's one thing. If you're hustling trying to compete with an entrenched category king. You're gonna be in for a world of pain and yet millions and millions of business people still consume the stupidities of these hustle porn stars every day and the marketing and entrepreneur. World is stuffed with stupid ideas. Here's another example that drives me nuts minimum viable product. Why is this a good idea. Who the fuck said we. The first thing we deliver to the world should be something called a minimum viable product. It should be called a product. You fucking think is legendary and awesome and you wanna share with the whole world nother just dumb dumb dumb. I could go on with a very long list of very dumb ideas that are marketed to marketers and entrepreneurs all the time the bottom line is be very thoughtful about what you put in your brain because what you put in your brain is what you get out of your life now. Personally i like to go back to some of. Oj's peter drucker can touch him he. He's the original management thinker. His book the effect of executive changed my life by way of example. David ogilvy david. Ogilvy david ogilvy. If you're an entrepreneur if you're a marketer you're not a student of david ogilvy get on it. I go back and look at it all the time. Another one you might love in a similar vein is george lois. He sort of the punk rock version of david. Ogilvy check him out also. Of course the geez of positioning. Our reese and jack trout the so i love to go back and look at a lot of the original masters now some of the newer things that i love checking out is Check out a master class. This is incredible way to learn how to do to be taught writing by malcolm gladwin by way of example or taught how to do a three point shot by None other than steph curry. They have legendary people in many many different domains teaching their skills. It's an incredible product. Love masterclass podcast. You might wanna check out and this is not an extensive example or an extensive list. It's just an example of a few. That i like One of the jeez of marketing podcasts. Marketing over coffee by my buddy john wall and his partner. Christopher penn legendary Venture capitalists mike. Maples junior. his podcast is called. Starting greatness insanely great. Another legendary entrepreneur. Podcast is called no bowl and it's created by my buddies paul martinez and randy comas. And it features that teaching of the legendary bill campbell. Who was none other than steve. Jobs is coach if you're in the b. two b. world couple of podcasts. I love dave gerhardt's b. to b. marketing leaders. Podcast check it out. G. is emerging og. He's awesome My buddy brian burns has the One of the top sales podcast for b. two b. people be to be revenue leadership and the brutal truth about sales and selling brian burns. Check him out. And then the other one i like on sort of the lead gen funnel management Get leads enclosed shit online in the more beat. A sea world is russell brunson and he's got a whole series of podcasts and books most of them have the word secrets in them. Checkout marketing secrets podcasts. And he's all about hooks and offers and driving traffic and all of that stuff so those are just a couple to think about but most importantly i'm encouraging you to sit down and ask yourself a couple of key questions. What the kind of content i love. What do i most want to learn in the next twelve months. What should i stop consuming. What should i start consuming and remember. Be very careful whose ideas you let into your head because your thoughts become your actions your actions become your outcomes and your outcomes become your

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Show #50   Queen of Komdie, from Germany.... Lois Bromfield - burst 2

Standup Comedy "Your Host and MC"

01:24 min | 1 year ago

Show #50 Queen of Komdie, from Germany.... Lois Bromfield - burst 2

"The london comedy clubs are the best and berlin is pretty good but they are german so always the best audience. Yeah there's always. It's always been a debate if there's a sense of humor in germany but you know what i want to hear about that. But let's i'm gonna take you back a few years. Just for in my podcast. We worked together for over ten years back in the eighties and early nineties before you became a big tv show writer and producer but be four that Share with us just a short story how you ended up in comedy because being a female comic on the road has got to be one of the toughest jobs out there When did you decide to get into comedy. Remember in new york city when i was twenty Nineteen twenty so new york and worked. At the improv. I came out to california and You know what. Honestly i didn't really want to be a road comic. That wasn't like. I just the whole idea that i hated what was great about working to your club was. It wasn't a road gig. Because i only had to drive from l eighty year to sacramento which was like five hours. So rude gig to me was having to get on a train or fly somewhere or do some big long hauling things just two or three days somewhere or or going all the way down to atlanta georgia or someplace where you're still far from home. It just makes you feel you just feel like a hooker.

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A wild and whimsical world of flesh-eating plants

Science Friction

05:11 min | 1 year ago

A wild and whimsical world of flesh-eating plants

"Pretty much up ended all of our lives before covid nineteen. I got to travel to the perth hills in search of some beautiful flesh-eating beings so it's a warm dry day in calamander national park with bright blue sky above yellow worth crunchy underfoot the yellowish shrub. Whole yes we go. Yes laura and i are looking for something special in the bush it's tiny but shawnee and so it should catch season dawn. These the ninetieth be baltimore. Rare impression. s- potential specimens not. Oh that's a tremendous one. So this is Dresser a guy again tia and it's named because it's pretty giant. He's that's about fifty sixty centimeters high. Yeah and it's like a little mini. trae it is. Yeah like these are. Actually the leaves the plan. Yeah so the the flowers are up the very top here. Just in bad i think at the moment but the leaves are they do look like a flower bill. Little son to me and so it's a little pad that is surrounded by sticky hairs and what you'll notice it on some of them. The sticky has wrapped around into the center and now Can you see the little sort of bug remains in the middle there and then others are out ready to catch something new so hi. My name's lois gates. And i'm a botanist from western australia. And i'm doing my phd on plants but this young botanist has an alter-ego floor escapes. Yes so that's my twitter and instagram. Flora 'cause laura and i'm all about plants so more than that laura aka florus gates is all about plots that ate flesh. We always tend to kind of chris. Plante picked it up these sort of managing monsters aliens from outer space it. It goes out. If got dave the little shop of horrors that sort of thing or a new car and killed but it even goes back much earlier than that. It's not for the greater glory of science. I just want us to survive. Even a botanist said there was the story of a gemini explorer in the madagascan john. Google is it a plant coming across this atrocious cannibal tree central nervous system which had these serpent like branches which captured a woman and coiled. Its branches around and around. There is actually the atrocious kind of betray or if anyone's going to find it maybe that just not come back all that don't usually pull themselves out of the ground chase you. He sees the depiction of this atrocious tree. It looks so much like a dresser in the way that it's those separate like branches the sticky glands dresser and the way that they wrap around and coil around the pool. Woman is the same way that these dresser wrap around the insect pry. But yeah they. They always get painted as these vicious preaches. I do tend to notice that. A lot of the time the victims in these stories Women don't like that aspect. Yeah there's a whole gender story to be talked about here. I think definitely. And i mean often when we talk about verse plants. We often hear about charles. Darwin because dow indeed right the first scientific book all about kind of verse. Plants gave the first scientific evidence that they are actually able to capture and digest insect prey. But there's been a lot of amazing women who have also contributed to converse plant science and our understanding of ecology throughout history and. I'm really interested in their stories as well. And so am i this week. We are in wnba which incredibly is home to up to a third of the world's converse plant species. I wanna find out why that eason have. I've managed to survive in such an intense environment and knicks. Week got totally caught up in a saga full of twists and turns and tendrils about the life of just one congresswoman. We're gonna venture from hilltop home of an internationally renowned joola share. He wanted the all the glory for himself. I really can't go into the mind of charles gardner but he said he did. Not mother might lot very difficult for him. We'll head deep into the heart of a magnificent end museum for plants. So we're entering a quarantined area. Okay hidden on stays now.

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Bill Barnwell on NFL Week 14

ESPN Daily

06:05 min | 1 year ago

Bill Barnwell on NFL Week 14

"To one bill barnwell. We just watched the now. Ten and three bills beat the now eleven two steelers twenty six to fifteen and i am not certain of many things in this world anymore. But i am pretty certain. They're going to be a lot of babies named josh or in buffalo alone that people in buffalo are named. Ej drew rob tyron. We're all going to have to change their name to josh. Over the next few months bill barnwell host the bill barnwell show podcast. And you can find his indispensable. Nfl column on espn plus every monday. He's also never broken a table that we know of. They'll help me understand this. How did the buffalo bills turned things around after such a slow. Start on offense tonight. This was interesting because the slowest kinda out to these sort of exact start you would want right. I mean josh. Allen was struggling the steelers pass rush was in his face early and often does allen. Started this game seven of sixteen for thirty nine yards with an interception and a fumble alan of the gun. He's back late rush. Throws it down the left side line and it's intercepted that is a great offense was struggling on the side of the ball. It's fair to say but look like the steelers were josh allens head and maybe last year that would have been it. Josh allen never would have recovered this year is different. Josh allen is different and he has a weapon nobody can cover and the combination of allen and stefan digs took advantage of some rare mistakes and misplace. From the pittsburgh steelers allen's a hot stretch started really with the steelers tried to tackle digs on a third in three without hands which is hard. Alan took that playoff field for twenty three yards. And then he got going digs had two catches on plays. Were still defensive. Backs just fell down including a touchdown and now made one great throw against to coverage for a touchdown. Pass to gabriel davis. Cox's arm fires into the renzo caught buffalo touchdown bills. Gabriel davis caught a thirteen yard strike. And a second throw on the run of long pass interference penalty to dos knox. It seemed like the steelers might have figured out the third year quarterback but by the second half it was pretty clear things where the other way around so looking at the steelers now bill. I am curious what exactly has been solved with them because this is a team that went from undefeated not so long ago to losing two in a row now to washington and buffalo so based on what. You've seen these last two weeks. How worried should pittsburgh actually big. There's reasons for legitimate concern here. I mean the defense will the problem at the end of the day they all. The bills scored nineteen points. So i'm not stressed about the defense on the whole he's had some injuries that's going to be a legitimate concern but this is still a very good defense and they are prohibitive favorites still to win the afc north. But i think even before the last two games last two losses there were concerns about this offense. The steelers came into this game ranked thirtieth in rushing offense. Dvr a football outsiders efficiency statistic but roethlisberger was twenty ninth in the league in completion percentage on de passing becoming very erratic deep passer and the stairs basically happened left with an offense but almost exclusively consists of short passes trying to the ball. Out of rothlisberger hands quickly. That's help keep him healthy. Which is great but that offense has one explosive game. Since the start in november and sunday night was not the second we saw the offense struggle in the exact same ways even though they got james conner. They're starting running back back in the lineup. They lost multiple starting offensive linemen to run the seventeen times for forty seven yards. And we're at. The speaker tried to throw deep. He was one of five for nineteen yards with a touchdown and pick now. It's possible the steelers are tired after basically going fourteen weeks without a real by they've had their to buy weeks of course basically taken away due to covert concerns. Remember the one saving grace all year for the steelers. That's they were going. Undefeated was the possibility of getting that week off asks the number one seed in the afc. Now they fall fallen behind the chiefs with bosses in their past two games. The upshot only gives steelers in eight percent. Chance of coming away with the number one seed in the conference talked about last week. That's the only way to get a buy in the playoffs. At this point the stakes happened raised for the steelers. I'm not sure whether they're up to the challenge and it feels like it is only clear that the measuring stick against which all contenders are evaluated has to be kansas city and the chiefs spill. They seem to find themselves in some amount of danger on sunday. Only to escape narrowly against the dolphins and their young quarterback to and tug of lois. Oh after watching. Patrick mahomes ultimately win this game. Thirty three to twenty seven. How did miami put this biggest scare into the now twelve in one chiefs so i will. They did something that nobody has been able to do to the chiefs all season. That's forced takeaways. Patrick mahomes hasn't made any spectacular plays. Maybe this year. Has he did during that. Mvp season his first. Starting your twenty eighteen. But they've been really effective at avoiding. Take ways they haven't had one takeaway in any one given game until the dolphins game against the dolphins homes through to early interceptions to help the dolphins get out to attend. Nothing lead back to throw my extra fake look and dumped it down. Intercepted ball picked second interception up the day of patrick mahomes and while the chiefs runoff thirty consecutive points to go ahead. The dolphins strip mccall hardin inside the red zone to stop possession the second half and then saving howard picked off mahomes in the end zone for kansas city's fourth turnover of the game. Now i don't know if that's a sustainable formula for opposing team's doing from one turnover as a maximum to four. But they were able to get back into the game and the chiefs a genuine battle by forcing those takeaways from an offense. That just hasn't done that. Really aussies

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Head Of DOJ's Election Crimes Unit Steps Down; Don Jr. Cries "Deep State"

Radio From Hell

01:30 min | 1 year ago

Head Of DOJ's Election Crimes Unit Steps Down; Don Jr. Cries "Deep State"

"Of Justice is election crimes unit has resigned in protest after Bill Bar said that The Justice Department can investigate voter fraud. Donald Trump Jr has accused the Justice Department official who oversees investigations of voter fraud of being a member of the deep state After that official dramatically quit on Monday. Richard Richard Pilger Resigned after Attorney General Bar authorized federal prosecutors across the U. S to pursue substantial allegations of voting irregularities before the 2020 presidential election. Is certified. I'm so ready for smart, boring administration. I'm so ready for the elder who is director of the election crimes branch of the Department of Justice. He's been there since 2010 step down. Within hours of Barr's announcement in an email he sent colleagues that was obtained by The New York Times and President Donald Trump. Sun Dawn Jr was quick to criticize Mr Pilger. Wait seriously, Isn't this the guy who was involved with the IRS and Lois? Learner in targeting conservatives and the tea Party. Maybe that's why he hasn't done asked at the Department of Justice has tag deep state. And the term deep status. It's thrown around like back in the old days when you know they'd call a woman of which you know, it's it's It's essentially the same thing. Well, you're a witch.

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Conversation With Alexandra Daddario

On with Mario Interviews

06:46 min | 1 year ago

Conversation With Alexandra Daddario

"Wwl Mario Lopez joining me now on. Zoom. Alexandra daddario welcome to the show. I. Thank you. Thanks for taking the time. Best last name ever real last name, right I can't imagine. Say the Dario what did they call you growing up over the nicknames? The Dario guys call me that. Data Rio data. I love data real permission please. So, today is national. Make A dog's Day. We discussed the other day dogs about ten holidays throughout the year, which is awesome and you know what they deserve to have their day made I. Know you've teamed up with some awesome people to celebrate. So what are you doing? So Subaru is they worked with dogs for over twenty years. They there he were the sec a came up with this great idea. Last year to do super loves pets month in October which encourages people to go out and. Adopt a dog and adopted underdog, which is a special needs dog or dog older that kind of thing. And they have a special day within October October. Twenty seconds today where you can Hashtag make a dog's day and show yourself doing something good for a dog either. Or volunteering or adopting a dog or encouraging others to. And Anchorage everyone to do that? And you know Subaru has really sort of wants to push this this out to make sure that people know that adopting a great thing to do and they're also donating one hundred dollars for being adopted dog. To shelters and that kind of thing and I just encourage everyone to do it because I love my shelter dog leave and you know he's so near and dear to my heart I can't imagine you know I get so sad thinking about him in the shelter and I know everyone who adopts the dog feels the same way we are big dog lovers over here I've got two dogs. Myself One who's got a little physical special need come to find out. But so we love him even more. It's funny because I feel like dogs really know they're getting adopted and you can you they show appreciate it. Could totally tell you can totally tell and they're so grateful. So it is a great feeling. On way run. Shelter dogs are. They definitely, and they're just. I can't tell you how much my dad's brought Malay. So I urge everyone to good for you on a dog go for it. Good for you. Now I see your dogs all over what's the secret to get them to pose for the camera. Tree. We have the same award system. Take care of me that's how we get married but actually. Street right next Hamra. And then you know you get consid-. WON'T LISTEN TO BE ON THE RETREAT MY hands same. I'm on. That program. You got a new movie out on demand a loss girls and love hotels. Cool. Title it. It looks like a thriller. What's it about? Yeah. It's about a girl who goes to Japan and she alost girl she's a little lost in your life and she gets into all kinds of trouble and falls in love and drinks too much. Not kind of thing. It's a really beautiful movie. We shot it in Tokyo and Gorgeous. So Warm. Very cool for sure. Also the voice of Lois Lane for the animated film Man. Of Tomorrow, you're you're super you've been superman. Fan I used to watch lows in park, the Dean Cain, very hatch shell growing up. I Love Superman. I was always wanted to date mems the that now your lowest lane and you're literally doing. Fun. Also in the works, the movie songbird this was one of the only films being made at the height of the pandemic. How'd that go for him? Great is the first job Bach. Is My first time working this year so definitely weird to shoot during this period of time, but they were real everyone's been works a couple projects and. You, know it's very, very strict. Everyone wears maths lot of testing and I'm really really out of. Industry for getting back to the can safely at and And I think it's really cool movie. Shoot. Los Angeles actually shot here in L. A.. Okay. Very. Cool. Very good. Fishing, too. So. What did you catch anything that day? I. Grew back. Through back where we fishing? Sorry where we fishing listening in Long Island sound I was over with them in Connecticut bad. Our knew how to fish and I've never been fishing reports. So I went and fishing for fun. Right I just went to visit I love fish. I mean, it's relaxing for Chilean maybe having a draining. I thought it was boring but it's it's not at all because you're on a boat and it's beautiful. Exactly Fun Yeah it's golf you're hanging out. It's nice. It's pretty. Off But I imagine it's the same legal. Before. Let you go I. WanNa put you on the spot. Quick questions. Quick answers. Okay. Favourite TV or movie dog. The. Golden retriever from home rebounds. K.. Favored. Show you binge during quarantine. Too Hot to handle. Which one is that one? That's the one where they all have to go to an I not allowed cheats. Reality yes. Yes to hot. Okay. What's your? What's your go to Karaoke jam? Bohemian rhapsody. Is a commitment or they're also all time favorite. Halloween costume. How God I'd never I never does not rally. I now I'm always dressed just a wish I mean I, I should. Actually be more than just putting just like. You see I have more fun at Halloween as an adult I. think that I did as a kid getting out the and everything. Yeah I'm all fired up Obama Alpha this year. My. Motto Halloween and I'm just I. Don't know what that's about. Not Halloween Person. I mean I like I like handing out candy. But I've never been someone to like get super just. Daddy Rio. All. Right. Very cool. Congratulations on everything and thank you so much for taking the time to visit with US ON MARCH DOT COM for all the Info about make a day Alex checking-in. Thank

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

05:40 min | 1 year ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"I love that when in doubt check it out cuz I think we say that and we forget to do that and not just relationships. And so when we get into conflict, we don't really know what's going on. We have two sets of facts and we're sitting there each with our own facts and we're mad at each other and yet if we explored it off and went back down to where we are on the ground level and said, when what did you mean with this? I love that Faith because it brings you back to a common ground where then you can move forward. And by the way, you may end up dead. Disagreeing, but you can accept someone for what they believe even if you don't agree with it accepting doesn't mean we move over. It just means okay I get where you're coming from and now I'll look the other way when I'm dead, but I really don't like that, you know, cuz I I have learned one of my biggest tricks in terms of accepting people and who they are is I have I work so hard not to tell someone how to do something. So I may have a goal and they have a project and let's get this done and I'm going to allow a person to arrive at that end point. However, they would like to arrive now if it's an incorrect figure if something work doesn't work, of course we can talk about some of the Dynamics but when you try to tell someone how to do something that usually backfires you really suck often pretty much always we try to not do never know that are broadcast, but you're right and then there's recognition when some someone in your life does suck. Unexpected and wonderful. You know, how do you show your appreciation? How do you show at Lois? Well, I usually try to let people know I really try to say thank you that that that's a big part of my vocabulary life. Sometimes I will make a call or you know, even write a text on top of that. I unlike you face. I don't send as many notes as I possibly could but I do things around evening our home that I make sure that people know that I recognize their what they've done that is really impressive and I share it with other people. So I have a chance if someone comes in at home to be able to share something that's going on so that I recognized the attributes or the strengths of someone and I think that is so important because there are days when maybe that's all someone needed to hear and you know, you.

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From Farm To Pharma

Sounds of Science

04:54 min | 1 year ago

From Farm To Pharma

"Security is a growing global concern because obviously we all need to eat. In order to protect our crops from pests, companies are constantly developing newer and safer fungicides and pesticides. In order to increase yield, they are also developing better fertilizers however in order to not contribute to the problem of pollution and global warming these agrochemicals have to be tested. That's replaces places like Charles Rivers site come in. Here among acres of fields and greenhouses the latest agrochemicals are thoroughly vetted for toxicology. Do they seep into the groundwater? Do they linger in the plant causing issues for the human or animal that eventually eats it? Do they poison the plants pollen causing harm to already vulnerable pollinators these questions and more must be answered before the agrochemical is approved for use joining me today is Simon. Chapel, you functional manager of the Plant Metabolism Department here number. He is here to tell me about the exotic crops they house and how they keep them safe and sustainable. Welcome. Simon. Thank you Marilyn. Welcome to me actually 'cause I'm here joining you as opposed to the other way around. Thank you. So to begin with can you tell me about the site here and how long it's been in operation? Suddenly will this site be no printing since the nineteen seventies unplanned metabolism the operation for which I'm responsible has been operating since the nineteen eighties. Okay. How long have you worked at this particular site I've been working since the late ninety nine hundred s okay what? Kind of a off topic a bit. What are some of the biggest changes that you noticed in that time biggest changes here. we've punches. Sites within John's river, which is unable. To. Expand from Jeff's Edinburgh to Edinburgh. North Spain, which is enabled us to grow more crumbs. We've also had different types of studies of required. We also need to look at residues which lower lois regard to identify lower lower residue. So the types of analytical techniques we've had to develop an purchase on reflects become more. Refined yeah. I guess technology has also just gotten better. So can detect smaller and smaller amounts of these things. So. Do you have any legacy crops that have been here for a long time? Yes, we have enough annoyed. Coach twenty four apple trees. The we can use when necessary we also have an established field area. So grassland field area, which is agricultural providence for round three decades. On most of the crops, we grow grain from seat or can be purchased locally sourced from abroad tell me about some of the more exotic plants you keep here. So we support the global agrochemical industry. We often need to grow crops which far into the UK or even foreign to Europe for example, infamous common crops that we grow is rice support Far Eastern uses. But we have a long list of unusual crops such as bananas, citrus grapevines, mango sugarcane. The plans can be crowning temperature control glasshouses to simulate growing conditions here in the UK with. Not glasshouse rooms, which we can use when a study be. Does I understand from someone else who I was talking to earlier that the glass in glass houses can quite very you've got the typical glass but then you've got like What he say courts glass very expensive but allows you through and also some sort of special type of plastic that also allows the Youth v through but is has a short lifespan. Yes it's true. Sounds pretty cool. So I understand we have sister sites like you said in northern Spain. Do we use them to get a sense of how these chemicals behave in variety of climates? Yes. We have another science yet during the Nova Spain. and. That's operated by field crowns department were possible. We will run a study unto doors rather than glasshouse because out dose study. is exposed to natural sunlight. So the in life as the study with a crop Mike Citrus, cotton, olives would be in. Spain whilst that for crop like weeks. Oh, shook abate. As it make sense. He wanted mimic real world conditions as much as possible. Absolutely. What is your background this work? Why Line? Why this line of work? Why Agriculture? Having completed, doctoral and post doctoral. Studies in plant metabolism at Southampton University in that gave me foyers training in the underlying principles. Fun Recovers them under very specific analytical approaches associated with this type of work.

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

03:33 min | 2 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"Good morning, faith and good morning to you, Lois! It's a good day and and it's an also a day where we're very reflective about what's going on in our world, but it's sad both and again right both beautiful day. A day to live a day to celebrate and also to reflect inconsiderate. What's been going on? and. That's because we are living in the midst of a season of unrest. Now that's been added to everything that you and I. An all of us are facing in this corona virus era, and there's there's no doubt there's some stress around this and we want to reflect. Let's face just mentioned on that stress, and we want to offer some ideas as to how to be able to step out and to accept what is and how to move forward with those who really need our support and love right now, so you might have noticed that in the last few weeks. We have really been focusing. Focusing exclusively on the corona virus era, and how it's impacting you and all of us, and if you'd like to mortal life with facing lowest dot com. That's our website. Please feel free to check out all the podcasts we've done in this genre. We also have a more than one hundred other podcasts. You want to focus on an area that would be really important to you in your life. and every week were creating videos for these covid. Nineteen Times will, and we will be with you again on Thursday this week, so today we are wondering..

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

14:42 min | 2 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"You sound fabulous. Miss Faith headphones. Make all the difference right taken us at some time to figure out different things average of us so you know we were concerned sometimes about what this all sounds like. Because it's different faith and I are practicing social distancing immortal life of faith and Lois and so to do that. Then we have to find a few more gadgets and we are and they're working and well here. We are in another week faith. It's exciting it is exciting. So let's do this. Let's do this because you know most of you like us are still experiencing some sort of stay at home or safer at home order and and some days. Let's face it. It's easier to adjust. I don't know what it is. Maybe it's the birds that come or the sunshine or you get a great phone call and then other times it does feel like that cabin fever just wax you upside the head and you wonder what's going to happen. When is this going to end? It's uncertain and we are living in uncertain times face. Oh we indeed are living in uncertain times because we can't predict what tomorrow is going to be like or next week or next month and we're dealing with a lot of pressures on top of it so It's a heavy time and yet as we've been talking about these last several weeks there's so much good that we need to not just.

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

04:27 min | 2 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"As we know many states are starting to say that in the next few days and weeks and certainly month there will be adjustments and easing of restrictions. So we're starting to think about what will it look like to go back into an office if that's where we work or into a building or Getting back to work that has not been deemed. Essential going back to school in the fall for our kids and for family members who are teachers and and what that might look like and that brings with it a lot of tension in one level and just a lot of uncertainty of. How do we deal with that going forward? And there's almost no way to plot this out the way. We think it might happen because we don't know and it's one of the first times in our lives we're going. I think this is what's going to happen when I go back to my office building but I really don't know I know and whether or not you're going to be one of the ones that does go back into the office or whether you're going to be one that's still works from home for a period of time. I mean those are all adjustments. You have to continue to make 'cause now you're working with people who are in office and it's just there's so many different factors in what this is all going to be And what it's going to look like but when you do go back how are you going to be social distancing and how is going to be wearing a mask and all these different things that might be requirements for a while and getting used to having your temperature taken every time you go through the door? those are going to be probably parts are pieces to the puzzle that are going to be put in place for your safety and the safety of others and again it's going to be a new adjustment of it's going to become the norm for a while So yes in. The school factor. All my gosh talk to young parents right now. We're ready to pull their hair out and going. I'm not a teacher and they're having to try to put you know schoolwork together for their kids. I mean they're desperate for them to go back to school in the fall. But we don't know we just don't know and so Yeah there's a lot of different things we have to look at about. How are we going to adjust to whatever it may look like through the summer through the fall and into next year you know and as we look to these transitions in the next phase? I think for me as I observe all of this. I am simply no longer taking all of this for granted because I didn't even it didn't even pop into my mind. You know planning any trip you have to do right now. Even if you go grocery shopping the length of time it might take thinking about your child and how he or she is going to learn. I didn't think about what that would look like for nieces and nephews for grandkids It's just mind boggling. And yet now. I am so aware of this. So there's a heightened intention analogy that faith described earlier that has come into my life as a result of life changing so much and I don't get to take this for granted anymore because this is the new normal at least in this timeframe and when things start to ease up will everything else. He's up most likely not so. We'll we'll probably see something es and something get tighter and something easy something. Get tighter until we get some rhythm that flows within that Eb. I don't know what that will look like. You don't know what that will look like. I think we just if we can take the one day at a time and appreciate how things are opening up just a little bit we might give ourselves a little more grace in this very very difficult transition of lighten. That's really good so important to remember that that we all need a little grace right now in a little kindness because it's hard for everybody right now for sure and if you at all need to talk if you need someone to zoom with you know faith and I are available on a variety of levels. I mean we do have schedules but please reach out to us on our website. It's very easy to find us. They're more to life with faith and Lois. Dot Com. Faith is a registered psychotherapist. I'm a certified life coach and we would love to chat with you and be there so that you know that you are not alone as you know the day is coming when restrictions begin to ease around you consider.

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

12:20 min | 2 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"A happy morning to you. Good Morning. Lois how are you doing? I'm doing really well definitely in the throes of winter in the Denver Metro area though. Oh once snowstorm after another. You know we had such a great month last month to really focus on generosity in relationships. Your body spirituality and your craft and by the way if you missed any of those. Do you have a PODCAST APP? You're listening to his on right. Now go back listen to some of those or go to our website. More life with faith and lowest dot com. You can also sign up for our weekly newsletter which we love for.

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

12:16 min | 3 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"With faith and Lois I'm Faye and I'm lois our podcast explores as many transitions and inspire and dont`a google fun to be back together it's always fun by the way if you know of someone who might be affected by seasonal affective disorder that was our podcast last week and we would love it if you would share that with them because it identifies some of the signs and symptoms so you might be able to say that's what I'm feeling and then we offer some ways to manage it whether it's things you can do yourself or places you can go for therapeutic treatment and I was just reminded of just how often triggers can send us down a spiral so more than anything this past I have been observing those things which will get under my skin and for me I know what my solution is I need to right Oh and when I write it takes the sting out of whatever is bugging me there you go more than anything else I do I can always feel better when I write and here's the weird part Phase I forget if you get what you wrote I forget to write I'll I'll be in the middle of something and I'll be bothered by it and suddenly something will say to me lowest just write it down write it down I suddenly look down on paper and I go really that would we call it heard you non-paper share it exactly hey please share this podcast after you're done listening we would just love it and we would love to hear your comments if you want to engage with us in any way we would oh definitely because we want to know what you're thinking what you're experiencing and whether or not any of these podcasts really helping you we're hearing good things back many people and we love that if you'd like to get our free weekly newsletter by the way you can do that by going online to mortals that faith lowest dot com and sign up there places all over our website where you can sign up for it so we'd love to have you get that once a week so our podcast today is one that we've all been hit by and sometimes we add to the pile ourselves it is episode ninety one transition the impact of gossip although is do I have something to tell you let's do that my mind yeah comes up so easily it doesn't it I mean and even as we joke about it we know how real it is because that's how easily it just comes up it happens yeah we have something juicy or something that we know we think somebody else doesn't know oh man it just kind of burns a hole and until it gets off our tongue out into the air wave so that people can hear it gossip technically is defined as idle talk or rumor especially about the personal or private affairs others some people call it tattling or dishing there are plenty of ways to look at it but that's really what gossiping is about in the technical sense but it's Oh Fun to be in the aftermath of gossip faith I mean how do you manage gossip when it hits you or is around you fortunately I'm so thankful many of the people that are my friends and things do not gossip which is such a just a haven of respect to have that but of course we're going to run into those times where there's people that will start to do it and I don't know there's an atmosphere change when it turns to gossip you can kind of deal ooh this is changing a little bit that's the first clue I've learned to listen to what am I experiencing what my feeling and do I really WanNa hear this I remember a time where I was the gossiper and the result that happened and I remember this so clear it's funny when this came up when we decided to talk about this a number of years ago but it was in the workplace and I had learned something about someone that everybody else didn't know and for whatever then I chose to share it it wasn't not true but it was private information that didn't have to be disseminated and when I was called out by the person whom I had gossiped about about sharing this information I realized that I was no longer the center of attention as I was for those few moments where I could share this evid- information but instead it damaged the relationship I had with this person for many years to come and it's so easy for us flip into this and not realize that what we can do at that moment is hurt a relationship even if we think it's true well I can say that and there's lots of things true that we need to keep it to ourselves but it was a good reminder to me that even though I felt I wasn't doing a disservice by lying about somebody I took a truth that did we need to be shared and I compromise a relationship for number of years oh that's the impact of gossip of how it does damage and it really did damage to you as well it wasn't just to the other person you felt the impact and that's what gossip will do once it is out there it will piggyback onto it's kind of you know a wave that comes backwards at Hugh and you get hit by as well you know unless you live on a deserted Ireland Ireland Ireland unless you live on a deserted island you're going to be impacted by because things will happen even in a passing phone conversation with even the people who have the list of intentions for US something will slip out so what do we do about that one Yale University researcher says we spend sixty percent of our adult conversations talking about people who aren't I heard that drew but it might be true but here's the here's the deal talking about others isn't always we all know when gossip takes place because there's a negative twist right exactly you can feel that sting that's the atmosphere that I'm talking about the chain changes something in the room doesn't quite feel right we need to listen to that and and people can do such subtle ways like even faith based can say I'm going to share this prayer request with the but it's just between US whoa that's red flag you don't need that information it's like no no no no we don't do that you can package it however you like with a nice pretty bow on it and it can feel right and it can feel like the correct approach it's still gossip and we need to be careful that we have the permission from other people to share we're going to share that's the difference and so when someone shares something with you it's really important to say can I share this is and because we like keeping a secret so if you're faced with this where somebody is sharing something with you and you're not sure we have some ideas on what do and and probably number one rule is don't pass it along I mean if if you hear something maybe that's the best thing if you hear it and it's too late no you didn't get a chance to run away from the situation or stop the person from saying it what can you do to make sure that it goes no further and so that's a perfect example lean stop do I have permission to share this yes or no if it's or I don't know and if you don't know go back to the person if the there's no you know you don't have permission to share it then you know right there it stops or if they said yeah you can share you do have permission then that's not gossip that's right that's right and you so you'll know the difference so the first thing is don't spread it if you can if you can stop it right there second thing is don't believe everything I mean we could really take some things that people tell us with a grain of salt more often and not take it as Gospel truth because somebody said this about someone else room and then you hear what it is at the end it's completely different than what it started to be because what we hear gets distorted and then we pass it on and by the time it gets to the end it's not what it was at all right because sometimes it's just a rumor young when somebody is sharing something with you it's not even based in complete truth there's that one you want to tell somebody a secret about somebody and then there's another where you really are making something upper giving just a little piece of that truth that isn't really true so then it just gets out breath it gets blown out of proportion and that's where the pain comes into because of the the pain that happens to the person about whom we are sharing this thing that's not true uh-huh and then keeping the secrets of someone asks you something in confidence and you agree to keep that confidence. Oh boy you better do it you better do it that is some of the most sacred space that someone has opened up to you if they have shared something that's on their heart on their mind and it's it's personal and they don't want you to share it in that moment trusting you if you share it you have betrayed their trust that's where the pain starts you know I've met people who will tell me I don't keep secrets yes so don't don't tell me them and I think that's a really fair thing to tell me anything that you don't want anybody else to know because I'm not sure if I can keep it so then we have to be wise enough to say all right they warned me I am I going to do this or not but I do love that if we do decide to keep a secret and I think in our professions both you and I we know that one thing I will say to somebody that says I need you to keep this secret or I need for you not to talk about it or Tony I will say to them I need to have your permission to have the discernment to know whether this is in your best interest for me to keep it a secret because you don't know really what they're going to we need to have the discernment to know whether or not this is in your best interest or not and so then they can make the choice in other words secrets are very date injuries they are so just know that when you hear that word secret and I think a lot of us have just thrown this off like oh it's not a big deal oh it's not and we're realizing how they specialize in Substance.

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

07:11 min | 3 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"You just happen to be there at that moment and the mistake we often make is that we receive it and we get upset and we join them in the negativity and then. We go right down that funnel which we don't have to do because it doesn't have to do with us but it's so hard I remember longtime ago. Somebody coaching me saying you know Lois. When someone comes up with negative words you actually can as an adult say? Stop uh-huh not even getting mad but just because it's not about you you can say stop and so she said let's try this and and she started to say some things to me that we're very negative and I was listening and she said No. No you're supposed to say stop and I said I WANNA do yeah. Sometimes we forget that we we really don't wear adults. We don't have to listen to this kind of negativity so I've got a lot better by the way I do tell people to stop and I have gotten to at this point but it took just like you're saying years of practice that saying stop is not a bad word. Rate Word is yes. It's redirecting it to. I really want to hear you but when you're negative like this. I don't think this is what you really want to say. What is it that you really want to tell me and if you let them go on and on and on they'll never get to what it is? I really want to say and then you'll feel worse because they really will dump. Yes so be careful about that if you give if people enough space if that's what you're think you're doing and that's what I used to believe was the right thing to do. I would end up far angrier at that person because they said more than they ever intended to say because I didn't stop and another thing is to stay patient not not do your best to Kinda breathe. Catch your breath and take in what is happening and avoid reacting a lot of times what I will do is. I'll just stop and I'll just I'll be listening but inside. I'm doing a lot of self talk doc and I'll be saying this isn't about you the system personal something is going on with them. Take a deep breath. I wonder you know what are the possibilities. What are the ways that you might respond not react and then that is my goal is to find a way to interact with them because something's going on that other person in that moment and this goes for if you get a text or an email that could be on a very negative tone? You know I used to be this person that well sometimes I am but I try not to be where I'm responding way too quickly and if I will take a moment breathing like you just suggested and some space it's so interesting what will happen if you get a negative email or a negative text and you wait an hour or two due to respond because by then you really are responding and you're not reacting so if you can take that time if you have the moments if you have that that ability see what comes up with that space or don't call somebody back. If somebody leaves you voicemail you can hear our anger. They're we are just wait because you know that they'll come down. Even if it's for a few minutes before you respond think about giving some space to all of this where the negative energy is someplace else to go instead of right on top of you. That's so good and it's perfect to just say a good. The question is why would I need to respond so quickly and oftentimes. We just want to get the energy off. I don't want to carry this. This is too much. I want to get it done with and we want to get it done and move on and some things when especially when we're talking about a relationship or connection action with person you don't want to move onto quickly <hes> that's so good you know if you're in a grocery store line or you're pumping gas or something happens where you're outside and there is something that happens very negatively. I have really. Looked at my own demeanor to see how I'm responding because sometimes you can't say something back and sometimes it's not appropriate to say something back if you can smile at that person now might really get them angry in the moment but it's disarming enough that a smile position at the right time can really do a lot to relieve some of the stress of someone who's really angry or upset about something it sure can and the other thing that we're on aware of a lot of times is how our face looks hold on. We don't even know how we look sometimes when we're really intense and it's oftentimes people can misread our facial expressions and that's how we know whether it's safe to relate to somebody or not we look at someone's face and if we're in deep thought awed or something it's important to know what is my face. Look like when I'm in deep thought or what does my face look like when it's disengaged and sometimes just looking in the mirror sometimes to become more familiar with what we just never give a second thought to it makes a huge difference knowing what I need to smile more. I need to put my cheek up and I need to put my eyes up and I need to be looking like I'm really engaging with you. Otherwise a person doesn't know how to read us. I've actually had this happened from people who are total strangers and I have been deep in thought and apparently I can look very angry when I'm deep in thought walking down the street and maybe I was puzzled about something and gentlemen walk the other way and he said you know smile. L. could change all that and at first I was a little peeved but at the second thought I realized whatever I was doing gave off an aura of I'm not happy with something and he was right and it made me laugh in the end you know once I passed him. I had not really observed what I looked like. When I was deep in thought and clearly it was not pleasant right right and so we can be falsely accused of being negative when we're not at all so it's another little clue blue and other little thing about being more where about who we are how we approach how we look and how engage but you're absolutely right? A smile goes a long way so if you're looking to disarm somebody WHO's really upset even with you think about smile and not don't laugh at them. We're not we're not encouraging. You know we know that things are going to bring us down and negatively will come into your life. It's going to happen. You're going to find somebody who's upset about things but as we were talking about earlier if there's a way for you to not take this personally that's the first step to being able to then breathe step away from it and maybe not react but respond in time and be intentional attentional be intentional about wanting to change the atmosphere of negativity into an atmosphere where there's positive loving kind influence. It's about waking up. Yes it is releasing your own negative thoughts or those of others isn't easy but once you start down this road you'll find it easier to let go of more so choose one at a time. Maybe if there's something you really negative about and when you've released the emotion around one area maybe you'll be ready to face another one. We'd love it. If you share this podcast with anyone you know who's overwhelmed with negativity and join us next week for transition the impact of suffering..

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

10:35 min | 3 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"Lois our podcast, explores life's many transitions and inspire and Dont'a. Lois at school. I don't know. It's exciting to be here today. Yes. And it's been an inspiring week with all of our words has been about you. But I've had to numerous times, literally stop the words, like in my mouth behind my tongue teeth and just hold them in there and wait for the right things to say and I understood my pausing as being there for a reason, but I just wanted to think it through a little bit better. And it was awkward at times. But I was trying to practice what we were working last week with the power of our words practice makes perfect. Well, because I know that we have all been impacted by what other people say to us, and instead, we're trying to flip it and say, well, what are you saying to the other person? Right. So anyway, it's not easy and I tried as big week for me because no problem is one of my big things if somebody text me and running late. Oh, no problem. When I was challenged last week. Well, what if you just said, oh, it'll be great to see you when you do come. Oh, what a different shift. That would make instead of no problem. So anyway, I'm working on that still. So if you would like to share this podcast, we would really like you to do that, whatever platform. You're listening to us on because it means a lot and raid, it if you would go through and just every now and then just give us a five star rating, of course. But anyway, if you wanna do that, that would be really helpful and also our newsletter, which is on our website, you can go, there anytime you want. You can sign up for a newsletter. You can watch videos, you can read our blogs, and you can listen to our podcast, you know, there's so many things that steer us away from what we want to be doing in our lives. That's why we knew at some point, we would have to encounter this next podcast, which is episode seventy seven transition the impact of distraction. Boy, do we get distracted in life. There's so many things that can take us away and, and redirect, our purpose, and what we were intending to do, and we wanna touch on that, and there's the negative context oftentimes that comes to mind with distraction, but there's also the positive and we're going to step into that as well. We really are because, you know distraction. Is that thing that prevents you from giving full attention to that? Other thing think is more important. And sometimes as we wait, these, we might discover that the other thing may not have been more important, but that's for you to discover distraction like taking that extra time to text at a stop light. Of course, no place else, and somebody honks behind you because they're ready to move on it. And you haven't gotten there yet or on the flip side like I did recently I offer taffy to my grandson, whose kite had gotten stuck in a tree, and he was so distraught. But the taffy because it was the right flavor got him removed from the focus of how sad. He was with the kite, and we could then think of another course of action and someplace else to play that was really good. Always carry taffy. Well, I mean, sometimes we need to divert because made to and other times the distraction takes us off, when we don't get done what we want to do that. So it's trying to decide what is the more important thing to be doing at this time in our lives so faith. How do you look distractions when they come into your life, occasionally or? Growing up. I actually thought I was the distraction. I thought that was my middle name or something, because my mom would always grab her head and go you drive me to the point of distraction and silent must be me. What is it distraction? And that was her phrase. So I had to work through that and therapy actually, but bless her heart, that's kind of the point of frustration that we feel when we hear that word that some how there's something that is interfering something that is causing a problem. And the reality is that distractions can be a detour for me. I can easily compete distracted win. Oh, look at the space book thing. This is so cute. I want to watch it, and I'm in the middle of doing something I don't have time for this. I usually end up watching it because I want to, but that's the choice that you begin to step into of what is taking me away from what I really need to complete and what is it that I'm finding something that I need right now? And sometimes we do need a distraction, and sometimes we need to put the distraction aside for a little while and finish what we're doing and then come back to it. So we wanna look. At it from both sides, and I'm going to defend distractions, mainly because I just had so many children had action suited. You distractions where my I just had to walk around with things, so that when they got disappointed you certain things they have to understand as appointments in life. I get it that happens. But at other times, it's really better to not have them dwell. And this is going to be a dramatic story that I'm gonna share with you. But this was one thing when I realized how important it is to be able to divert attention. We were coming back from walking our dog sparky, and this was a longtime ago like twenty two years ago with our boys and our middle son was not even five years old. And we were coming down the hill, and he noticed something up on our neighbor's porch. And so we looked up and I could see that it wasn't good. And so I had him and his father and his brothers go on. And I recommended to his father that he makes them a big breakfast. It was a weekend morning. And as I went up there, thankfully, he had noticed it was a neighbor and she had collapse. Stay and unfortunately police had to come and it was a homicide investigation. So my son saw it enough to notify us, but it would have been a very bad situation to bring a five year old up to discover what it was that he saw. And so by distracting him and getting him away and him not having to know that was a piece of his life, and his father and his brothers could deal with whatever they needed to deal with at that moment, which was breakfast, I could sit and deal with the police and have an adult conversation and try to figure out what this tragedy was all about. But I think sometimes we don't see that and so a distraction happen, we jump into it. You know, like a train wreck when we see an accident on the side of the road, in our kids, are looking at some horrible thing instead of distracting saying, no you don't have to look at that. I think that's important. Sometimes because we don't know how their minds are being molded and shaped and to this day, he doesn't know what happened. And I think that that's beautiful. That is that's wonderful. That's that's protection. And the distraction to redirect. Is such a gift in situation? So, yes, oftentimes, it is about redirecting and using the distraction for that purpose. So that can be for the betterment of the person or the situation that you're in and then there's other times where you do have to deal with it. That's right. Because sometimes distractions are detrimental to us, if they actually stop us from doing what we want to do, and to live our lives to their fullest potential because we constantly we never finish we go here, we stopped, two steps forward and three steps back and do all of that, today, we like to explore distractions and their impact, and what we can all do about them, and, you know, what distracts you the most. In other words, what takes you away from what you want to do. And the first thing that I jumped back to every single time we think about distractions. Is this beautiful thing that you've brought up and we talk about it? So frequently is to scan our bodies because sometimes I'm distracted because I'm just not all here. I haven't gotten enough sleep. I haven't. Eaten I'm emotionally upset about something. And so therefore, everything is my voice ter- right in the world. I'm not rounded in that moment, actually, and the distractions become increasingly more powerful because we aren't aligned with ourselves and we are not aware of what is going on. And so you're feeling really sad. And you're trying to move into something to ignore that you're not dealing with what's really inside and that's going to play out. So then pretty soon, the situation, the business, meaning that in becomes heavy and you can't think straight. And so then the distraction is, I think I'll have to donuts, you know, I will. I think I'll have another Cup of coffee on, now it just beginning to compound into your day about the things that we're using the distractions to try to help ourselves feel better, and rather than dealing with what is really going on. And that's why really on a regular basis be scanning yourself because some of these important meetings, it might actually be better to put them off. Rather than to be inside a meeting where, you know, you can't make a cogent decision because you're not able to exact your hungry. Right. Or something else is going on. And I think that I forget that at times, and then I blame the distraction versus the fact that I just wasn't prepared. Right. I'm not ready. I can't do this thing, and it wasn't the distraction that pulled me away. It was actually myself and my state of being that moment in, if it's urgent, and you do have to into the meaning at least be so self aware that you can say, oh, this is what's really going on with me. I do need to go in there. But here's what I promised myself as soon as I'm done with that meeting. I'm gonna take a break and deal with this now. You know, you're going to come back to it. And now you can kind of tell your brain. Okay, brain come on pop in. I need you right now. We gotta do this, meaning we can't cancel it, but I am going to come back to dealing with what I need. I'm gonna go have that big lunch. Right. Afterwards, I'm going to do whatever I need or go, take a nap. Up and take the rest of the day off or something. Well, this all stems back to mental awareness. Yes. Being aware and awake to what's going on in your life. And I think that is one of the things we are calling ourselves to, and challenging everybody with whom we speak in our podcasts because this transition, the impact of distraction is really about being mentally of where of where you are, in this moment, are you awake to what is going on? Yes. And when you are, there's a flow that happens. There's a connection that happens with yourself. And with those around you, there's a clarity of mind, your inspiration rises,.

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

03:48 min | 3 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"Welcome back could warning Lois. We are all over the map is especially as we've been dealing with transitions. We have been going back and forth on things that are heavy and things that are lighter and this week. I was absorbing as much beauty and sunshine and rain as possible in light of our podcast last week, which was on the impact of spring. And you know, I did I got it. I needed this dose of freshness in my life. Right. Make such a difference. When you have that hope kinda set before you that, you know, you're entering into something that is going to offer something a big bow K, not only flowers put of life itself. Oh, I love that that renewal. And we also need this dose of freshness and life because we're going to be grappling with a very difficult subject and topic this week. So if you're enjoying our podcasts, you know, would you share it with somebody that you know might? Enjoy just what we're doing and rate our podcast. It actually helps us if you could go on whatever platform you have subscribed to us on and give us a rating, it would be wonderful. So that we know better who's listening, and what you think of now we would love that at helps us this is Lois said, and it also gives us more direction to as to some of the things that really inspire you. So as we promised today is going to be a tough one. And it's episode sixty eight transition the impact of an affair. This is tough. This is tough because if you've ever had someone portray you in a fair, you know, the sting of the affair if you have been the one who has had the affair, you know, all the aftermath and the pain that you go through and you see others go through as a result. So what is an affair in very well, mind dot com. Sherry steinhoff writes, an affair. There is a romantic and emotionally intense sexual or emotional relationship with someone other than your spouse or partner, generally affairs, don't last long, although there are exceptions, and they occur between two people who are not married or otherwise committed to one another typically an affair is considered a betrayal of trust so faith that last statement betrayal of trust that seems to be at the core of what we're gonna be talking about today because that betrayal and that trust that is broken. You've given your love you've giving your trust. You've you've invested into this other person, and suddenly that is broken because of the trail because it's been assumed that what you had with them has been given to someone else, and that just rips the core of you apart because it feels like the ultimate rejection of you you've rejected me to the very core. And oftentimes that's not even the issue. But it sure feels that way if you're the receipt. Lever of the one who has been betrayed. We did a podcast earlier this year on rejection alienating and faith somebody wrote in specifically about that that when she felt betrayed. This is exactly what she went through that. It was all she couldn't didn't see it coming couldn't believe it had happened, and it took everything out from underneath, right? It feels like a su- NAMI it comes out of nowhere. And it just does great destruction to how you think to how you feel to your heart to your body to your mind, everything and the impact is huge. So and one of the other podcast we did was on regrets. If there is ever a do over that. I could have it definitely would be for the affair that broke up my first marriage. I'm sharing this. Because a very wise person said to me, you know, Lois if you'd wanted to be with that other person..

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

02:11 min | 3 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"Goodness. There is zest to the season. Even if it's not your favorite for some people. Not I know I have a lot of friends who fall still is autumn is There is zest to the season. Even if it's not your favorite for some people. Not I know I have a lot of friends who fall still is autumn is still their favorite or the winter is they love to go skiing. And and they love to be out in the cold. You have your favorite season. But each season brings a beautiful gift. Don't miss it. No. And we'd kinda like to share this poem with you by may fen. It's titled it must be spring. And we'll alternate on these lines to see if you can follow along hush. Can you hear it? The wrestling in the grass bringing you. Welcome news that winter days are past soft. Can you feel it the warm caressing breeze telling you this sticky buds are bursting on the trees? Look, can you see them the primrose in the lane? Now, you must believe it spring is here again that's Look, can you see them the primrose in the lane? Now, you must believe it spring is here again that's may fan. It must be spring. It just speaks of spring it sums it up nicely. What a thrill to step into spring with you. As this transition marks a change in the season of your life. Maybe this is a weak that you'll plan a picnic to see cherry blossoms or something like that a feast for your senses, and we hope you feel a sense of lightness and an urge to renew something in your life. Please share this podcast with someone, you know, and join us next week for transition the impact of an affair. Get the latest news on our social media platforms and on our website, and please subscribe more live with faith, and Lois is a podcast to support encourage and uplift you as you transition through all sorts of change, we want you to know there is more to life. We'll be back next week.

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

04:10 min | 3 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"We're going to offer some ideas on how to engage with and support that person because it's huge if you know someone or you're part of a community with someone they might need you. Absolutely like right now. And that has it that we have to step in because we're a little nervous to bring it up. We'll talk about that as well. Faith have to ask you why is it hard sometimes for someone who's not addicted? So like a non addictive. Person to empathize with somebody who is steeped in addiction, mainly because you're not addicted to the same substance that they are. So we tend to kind of get the higher ground mentality and going to stop it. Buck up and change it why you doing this or go get help do something about it. And so we want action and one of the reasons we wanna see them take action is that we feel powerless to help them. And so in that sense of being powerless. We wanna fix it. We wanna see change because they change it. Then it will be better for us as well as better for them. So sadly turns into all about us sense in a roundabout way. It does not doesn't mean that. We don't care love them and everything, but we feel the stress we feel the tension. We feel the betrayal the lies the, you know, the deceitfulness it goes around to dick shins. And so we want that. Stop. We want the behaviors to stop and the reality is we're looking at a bigger issue here. It's not just the behaviors behaviors might be woven into some of this. But the addiction is causing most of those behaviors if you're facing addiction or if it's addiction of a loved one one of the things I've really had to learn in my lifetime. The addicted person has to decide what they want to do with their lives. So you can be the best supporter in the world. The best spouse mother sister, stepdad, whatever you are. And if that person doesn't wanna make the change it really won't happen. It won't happen. And I think that's the other piece. That's a frustrating for a non addictive person is that you feel like you offered you've been there you've walked them to a facility all of these things, and it doesn't work, and you know, what don't give up at the end of the day as we're going to go everything we're gonna share with you, can I. Courage you from the bottom of my heart and personal experience. That's the only hope we have for those. We care about who are steeped in addiction. Sometimes you have to walk away. There's no doubt. But there will be times even when you walk away that you end up reentering someone's life. So if you can have it in your mind that yes, it is all up to them, and it's not your responsibility. Someone recently said to me, what do you have in your backpack, Lois are you carrying someone in your backpack? And I thought oh, I need to take that backpack off and give it to this person. It was a very great mental picture for me at the same time. I sometimes have to revisit that backpack handed back and say I want to walk with you on that journey. Yes. It's walking alongside not carrying them. But you can't even walk alongside if they don't want you to walk alongside, and so they may push you away. But that doesn't mean you give up and I love that. Because it's having hope in a belief in that human being to say, I believe. Leave you can be victorious. I believe you can overcome. And oftentimes, it's just that consistency. You're always they're kind of like the once you can't get rid of and eventually somewhere down the road. They go. Why did you hang out with me? Why did you not give up? I hear that a lot you know, as their best. Why don't you give up on me go because you're worth it? You're worth it. And so when you see the value of human life when you see the value that is there that exists the real person that's beneath all the addiction. That's what you're fighting for your fighting for that real person you're in their corner. I love it. So we're using a number of sources for conversation today. If you wanna check.

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

02:04 min | 3 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"You were given a gift enjoy it use it, but don't have the regrets that you did not become the top person. And if you have a regret of something that you've done we encourage you, maybe this is a moment that you could. About is there a way to make an amend there? Maybe you've done all the amending you need to do. Maybe you've had all the conversation. It's a good thing to come back to it and say, yes, I have done what I need to do. Or maybe there's something more. I could do while we are whole wonderful people. There is always some refining and tuning we can do without introducing shame. Right. Because that's the last thing we wanna do. Shame will hold us down. It'll be a tether. It will hold you fast. And all of this is about soaring. It's taking off and being entering into. What is more for life for you? You can't if you're tethered by guilt and shame and all of that condemnation no deal with the regret make a different decision. One of my going to do now. And learn from it and move on. You know, there is something to be said about a silver lining and Ralph WALDO Emerson has fabulous quote, every calamity is a spur. And a valuable hint. That's really nice. I like that on that as you mull over any regrets. You might have facing a regrets and moving through them with humanity. Gives us the ability to face those things we may have wished we had handled differently and finding a positive value. Nevertheless, please share this podcast with someone you know, might benefit from a discussion of regrets that hover in and over their lives. And join us next week for transition the impact of addiction. Get the latest news on our social media platforms and on our website, and please subscribe more live with faith, and Lois is a podcast to support encourage and uplift you as you transition through all sorts of change, we want you to know there is more to life. We'll be back next week.

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"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

03:56 min | 3 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"Right. And if we want to keep learning if our goal in life is that we either learn something new on a regular basis whether it's every day or in a season. This is a piece of that. And we can't learn expand without introducing new thoughts new ideas from someplace else that is. So fascinating language in our everyday. That would be awesome also be creative. And I don't know what that looks like for you. I think sometimes we be creative people go. Well, I'm not really artistic well, you can be creative in so many different ways. And I encourage you to look at. What brings you joy? I mean, it might be decorating your house, or if you know faith, it might be the presence that she wraps with such decorum or the way she puts together cards. I mean, those kinds of things just bring out the joy that's inside. You that is created. Yeah. You have to find the things that really awaken within you. And whatever that is. And whether it's baking or you are an artist like my granddaughter in just works at it every single day do something that expresses what's inside of you and find what that is and live out because it's a gift and you're leaving a legacy in it. And then go outside yelling. However, you can enjoy nature do it. I mean, some of us live in climates where it's extremely cold in the winter. And yet we can find ways to bundle up and get out and still enjoy the elements. Some of you live in an area where it's absolutely beautiful and warm. You can go out with very little on. Enjoy the elements. But the idea being you get something else to give you stimulation that allows you appreciate where you are in life. And that's the whole point of this discussion that we're having here. Yes, we're ever you live. There's beautiful creation all around to find it walk in it, smell it experience it and take it in because it changes your perspective, and when we can change our everyday perspective into seeing the broader picture of life that gives us life. And that's what we use the outdoors, and they are to give us his a new image of life. And at the end of it, all what do we leave behind or to our friends, or if we relocate what is the aroma that follows us as we leave a neighborhood that also is part of this growing and aging gracefully that we take so much in that we give so much back that that's what we leave people that they understood. That we love living life, whatever that looks like exactly you are not going to be remembered, and this is not to be more. But but you're not going to be remembered for the beauty that you carried on the outward appearance. What is going to be remembered is what you left your kindness? Your goodness your charitable heart. The things that you expressed in created then your brilliance in offering something a helping hand there's so many things that we can leave as a legacy. But if we are so fixated in afraid of the actual body aging, the reality is it's going to be buried or it's going to be cremated. And that's not going to live on. But your legacy will people will remember you for who you are. And for the things that you did. And that is the beauty of aging it should mature over the years have -solutely. And when you Zaman these things and look at life from. Whether or not your relationships are strong or your health, practices or your brain. What starts to happen is that you don't obsess about the next year that you're facing? And and that's when you realize how much you have to offer. And that's what we encourage you in our podcasts. More life Hm. No matter what your age. We welcome you to our year of transitions on more to life with faith and Lois..

Lois Zaman
"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

02:24 min | 3 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"So death wasn't fright. Running to me in that respect. I went to every few knows a preacher's kid. Everybody died in our church always went to the funeral. So I wasn't protected from that it was a part of life. My view and perspective of death is very different than someone who hasn't had that experience. And that's why I want to just encourage people. What ever is going on find out? What that is if you're afraid. Yes, you can't become less afraid if you know, what those influencers are and hang around with people who have this view. Can we were visiting a church recently? And the pastor actually came up and said we love funerals. This is one of our favorite things. And I thought what thing. Thing to bring up, but the whole idea of being eats a part of life. And if we think of death as a part of life versus as something so separate and tragic, and yes, it's tragic. Yes, we will grieve. But that moment where we can have this beautiful time of celebrating the life of somebody. I just thought that was a beautiful way to think about it. I also read a blog recently where somebody wrote accepting death before it arrives gives birth to a second life in us, making us more capable and willing to take risks and live. That good. I just I thought how can I get to that place? A usua- pechanga wrote that and I thought that is something I want to carry with me that to accept death before it arrives. It's so much of life. Right, right. Things happen and accept it before it even arrives. Let's good. I love that living life in every moment is our goal with more to life with faith in Lois talking about death is powerful and liberating. And we hope this podcast gives you some fresh concepts about life and death. So please share this podcast with someone, you know, who might benefit from a discussion of death and life and join us next week for transition, the impact of rejection, and alienating get the latest news on our social media platforms and on our website, and please subscribe more live with faith, and Lois is a podcast to support encourage and uplift you as you transition through all sorts of change. We want you to. To know there is more to life. We'll be back next week.

Lois
"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

03:17 min | 3 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"That's what we learn. But when I could say breakup happen. Wow. That's a very different way to look at it. Yes. So that's not condoning breakup. Okay. Never saying, it's okay. The thing that I think is so important is that you do whatever it takes to try to not have the break-up happen in the first place in the first place. Yes. But a break up means to it's not one one person cannot hold a relationship or community together or your health club together. If it's not working for you. You must find ways that you come together. And if you've done everything you possibly can to see if it can happen, and it doesn't happen. The break-up is probably the best for everybody. And it is true that sometimes the most difficult time we face as we're getting into a break-up is the build up to the break-up it because we're afraid of the outcome were frayed of how other people will feel how we will feel. So if you're contemplating break-up, or if you're in the midst of one, or if you've just gone through one we have a couple of ideas, we'd like to throw out there that might help it be more manageable and Faye. The so right in pointing out we're not saying go out and break up. But we know these things happen. So how can you prepare yourself better once again, so that doesn't happen? But if you're at that precipice here are some things that we found in our life and experience and research that might be beneficial as you're going through it and one of the first things is to own it on the brink of own the reality of what is happening, which is what you did. When you finally looked at all your journals and said, oh my goodness. I need to own this. This is not working. And when you own your part of it instead of blaming now comes more into balance like what was my part in it. What do I need to make amends for or own with the person or the organization or the community where my friendship what do I need to own? A doesn't mean that the break-up mating not still need to happen. But you own your side of the fence. And you know, you talked before about we do certain things. Like, we either get therapy. We get together. And we have these conversations of trying to get to the root of this. And you go through all of those steps you have a support group around you, and you still end up in this place. So when you have that difficult conversation what I used to do when I was really young was like, I think you really want to end this relationship. And so I'm going to give you that. And then what happens is the other person's as Lakshmi. No, no. I don't want to end that. And then do you just threw it to them wanting them to take the ownership for this break up and they're going? I don't care. I mean, I can live with this. What what's wrong with it Lois? And that is such a dangerous place to be when you're trying to please the other person. So can you own it and faith? Why is this so hard for so many of us to take this on? It comes back to the fear factor. It's going to be how are they going to react? How are they going to respond? How are they going to reject me and blame me, and if you've been brought up to be a people pleaser than that's going to be your. Role. And so often rolls come into action in serious situations. It's my job.

Faye Lois
"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

More to Life with Faith and Lois

03:46 min | 3 years ago

"lois" Discussed on More to Life with Faith and Lois

"Of the situation to learn how to give yourself more security and a good foundation to step off of. And as you make that plan to move on and move forward really consider how you can rewire your brain, and the anger, you might feel toward why you lost that position if it was an unexpected loss or if somebody actually did something so that you lost your job. How can you re frame that? So when you go in for the next interview, or you share things with people that doesn't become the highlight. And people see you as someone who is angry over this loss. It's. Very difficult. And that's why faith your point of not rushing out there immediately is so good because sometimes the wounds are just too raw gonna say are. And you know, if financial situation you need the money right away. We'll maybe do some temp work. Yes. Just do something to get some income coming in. But don't make it a permanent situation until you've worked through that was feelings because you do not want to carry that forward. And that is where I would encourage you to spend a little bit of time with a professional to really have a place to go where it's sacred space where you can just vomited out and get it out and somebody will hear you and somebody will walk it with you and help put some of the understanding that maybe you can't see as to what's going on because. Yeah, you wanna leave it you want to release it and that takes a process it does. And especially if you're living onto something. That's not quite what you had done before. You might be required to learn some new skills. Yes. I mean as. Faith in. I are working this out in our second year of our podcast more life with faith and Lois. We have had to learn a lot of new skills and some of them come with amazing growing pains because it just takes time it's making mistakes and figuring things out trying something here and all these mistakes are good mistakes, by the way, there you have to learn because the only way you learn to not do it that way is by by doing that going, you know, that didn't work. Well, and so then moving in another direction, but be ready and willing to approach these new skills with this is going to be interesting is. But you need them. Have to have this process happen of we learn from our mistakes, we learn from our trip ups, but that's how we get stronger and don't give up that's the other pieces that if we feel defeated we're gonna wanna give up and you're gonna have days of defeat. So take a deep breath. Do what you need nurture yourself behind to yourself. But don't give up keep moving. We're in episode fifty nine transition the impact of losing your position. So as you keep going forward had a great conversation the other day with a friend, and it's hard, but treat looking for a new job like a job itself and have a schedule because for those of us who liked to have structure right in our lives. One of the things that happens with the loss of position is we lose that structure. Yes. And so if you can build into your day, even if it's calls you have to make or revamping your resume or learning. This new skill or. Researching something about a new profession or a profession in a different location. Those are things that can you know, if you build that into account or write it down somewhere on a sticky note, you will feel at the end of the day that you've accomplished something. Instead of this frustration that you are sitting there with what am I going to do? And you may still feel what am I going to do? But you will feel that there are certain things that you've checked off your list, and it means a lot on a personal level that really does and going to breakfast with my friends was a part of that that was kind of like looking for the job because I was lost..

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