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"llerena raina" Discussed on Crimes of Passion
"Now back to the story. Three in nineteen eighty eight twenty one year old Marine Corps Lance Corporal. John Wayne Bobbitt met nineteen year. Old Lorena Guy. Oh Oh a young woman who had recently immigrated to the United States from Venezuela they had palpable chemistry and after less than a year of dating being the decided to get married but the marriage turned sour almost immediately. They moved into a small studio apartment but they couldn't afford to furnish it for the first month of their marriage. They slept on the floor from John. Wayne Bobbitt's perspective. This will start of their problems. Lorena wanted too much too fast. John said that Lorena was angry that he could not provide more for her to her. The the American dream meant being successful and having a big house bull arena. told a different story. She was concerned by John's behavior very early in their marriage. She has said that the first cracks began to appear just a few weeks after they moved in together during the July Fourth Holiday Holiday John Lorena took a trip up to Niagara Falls to visit John's family according to Llerena. John didn't tell her that his family had planned a a special wedding reception and picnic at their local church. The newlyweds arrived. Delete missing the celebration. When they got there? Everyone one was furious. It was arena's first introduction to John's family all she could say was. I'm sorry I didn't know after staying in Niagara for three days. John and Lorena returned to Manassas. They did not go back alone. John's cousin Todd Bairo accompanied company. Them John Toll Arena that his cousin was going to live with them for awhile. LORRAINA was upset. Todd was a stranger to her. She tried to tell John's family that they lived in a tiny studio apartment without any furniture. She felt that they weren't in a position to host guests. The arena said. Her husband didn't care todd was going to move in with them whether she liked it or not. Soon after marina found on drug paraphernalia in their apartment she then discovered that todd was a convicted felon and addicted to cocaine and even bigger problem album was todd's influence on John while he stayed with them. The two men went out drinking nearly every night. She said that about a month into their marriage edge. She asked to join the men on one of their nights out. According to Lorraina the group tried to go to a club called Chelsea's in Washington DC. But they were turned away because they're retired. Didn't that the dress code. They decided to go to another bar or todd and John drink beer and took several shots when it was time to go home. They all return to the car and John got behind the wheel. Lorena recalled that John sped down is sixty six at over ninety miles per hour. Recklessly weaving across lanes other drivers beep their horns and veer to get out of their way at one point. She was so afraid they were going to crash. She grabbed the steering wheel according to the arena. That's when John Punched hunched her. She started to cry as John Screamed obscenities at her todd sitting in the backseat simply nodded in approval at Johns Tirade. Lorraina reported that when they got home John dragged her to their apartment and began to kick her slap her and pull her hair a security guard. Officer Francis heard the disturbance in came to the apartment. When John opened the door his demeanor changed completely secondly he grew quiet and got his temper? Under Control Officer Officer Francis Saul arena crying and asked her if she had anywhere else she could go. She told him she was leaving but she was too embarrassed to go to a friend's house house. She didn't want anybody to know what had happened instead. She drove to the parking lot of the salon where she worked and slept in her car. John and his cousin todd remember that night differently. They confirm Lorena Story. The three of them tried to go to a DC nightclub Chelsea's and that that they were turned away because John was wearing sneakers. Batat said let Lorraina became enraged when the bouncer wouldn't let them in. He claimed she punched in scratch. John Across the face. Todd said Lorena continued to attack John when they got home. He did not mention a visit from officer Francis. He said that he left them alone in their apartment and waited in a parking lot for them to calm down then he came back inside and went to bed after the incident. lorraina tried to talk to John to communicate that it was unacceptable to hit her. She said that John kind of apologized. which gave her? I hope that she had gotten through to him about a month later. The couple took a weekend trip. To Ocean City Maryland they brought Taunton long as well. LESLAU arenas friend and coworker Terry mccumber. The group was walking along on the beach when he thought he heard a man whistle at the women. He grew furious areas. Marina said John grabbed her by the hair and pulled her to their hotel. Terry mccumber confirmed arenas account of the trip horrified horrified by the way John Frieda Llerena. She yelled attempt to stop by. John ignored her and told the women that they were going home. John went back back to the hotel to pack up their things. He ordered the group into the car and they began to. Dr Terry said that on the drive home. She witnessed John hit and punch Llerena Raina while she cowered in the passenger seat Terry again screened at John to stop but he wouldn't listen. He told Terry that if she didn't shut up up he'd leave her on the side of the highway. John Deny that he hit Llerena during this trip but he admitted that he became angry with her. He said that while he he was driving through traffic. Llerena and Terry were sitting together in the back seat looking out the window and flirting with men they saw in the cars passing by them on the highway. He did not explain why he perceived their behavior to be flirtatious recalled feeling angry in ocean city but claimed that he didn't remember any any other details of the trip after they dropped terry off and return to their apartment. John continued to beat Lorraina until she fled. The apartment went. She stayed with Terry that night but she returned the next day. Jason be waiting a professor of marriage and family therapy at Brigham. Young University City cited religious and family pressure as one of the most common reasons that women stay in abusive relationships in the two thousand twelve study by associate it professor of psychology at Brigham Young University New Wakayama Walkie research suggested that social stigma and fear of being judged often often deter victims from leaving their abusive spouses at that point. Lorena and John were still newlyweds. Only married a few months. She didn't didn't want to admit her marriage was already a failure. Divorce also win against her Catholic beliefs. So she stayed with John. She squeezed when his cousin todd finally moved out of their apartment. A few weeks later but John and Laurynas lives did not improve by L. Arenas account. John lost his temper and beat her at least once a month especially when he was drinking she felt particularly terrified when he started started to choke her rubbing his hands around her neck and digging his thumbs into her windpipe. LAURINE CO workers reported regularly. Seeing bruises is on her arms neck and face around the same time John and Lorena moved into a new house with more space. John said the move was is lorraine as idea and Lorraine said it was John's both of them have since called the move a mistake since the house cost more than they could afford worries about money added to their tension then in the spring of Nineteen Ninety twenty one year old Raina became pregnant. LLERENA couldn't understand how her marriage had gone so wrong. She tried to talk to John but nothing she said could make him understand when she explained explained how much she was hurting her he either laughed or became angry. Lorena couldn't remember the last time she felt anything positive until L.. Now but nothing not. Even John could take away the joy she felt being pregnant. She had always wanted to be a mother. You're in fact. She pictured herself eventually having three children. A family just like the one she had grown up in. She had reservations nations about starting a family with John but for better or worse he was her husband and John was close with his own family he always always enjoyed spending time with his brothers and cousins perhaps Lorena thought he would be pleased to have a family of his own Lorena Clung onto that hope. Having a baby would certainly change everything about their lives. Perhaps it would also change John and to a different kind of man but when Lorraina told John about the pregnancy he was furious. He didn't WanNA child and they couldn't afford one he he berated her grabbed a phone book and found a listing for a women's clinic. Lorena said John insisted she have an abortion. John denied night this saying that they came to a mutual decision to end the pregnancy because neither of them were ready to be parents but Lorraina denied that she would ever or have come to this decision on her own. It went strongly against her Catholic faith. Twenty one year old Lorena terminated her pregnancy in mid June of nineteen eighteen ninety. She said she was distraught. Not only because she wanted to have the baby but also because John taunted her before the procedure telling her that it would be extremely painful and that she would not receive any anesthesia lorraine became severely depressed after the abortion. She didn't WanNa talk to John or be anywhere near him in response. She said he began to rape her..
"llerena raina" Discussed on Parcast Presents: Summer of '69
"Also open about his behavior. An acquaintance related time. They were hanging now with a group of men talking about women in that conversation confirmed by others. John Brag that he enjoyed having forcible sex. The friend recalled. He said that he liked to make girl squirm and yell and make them bleed and yell for help. Lorraina seem desperate desperate for help but the one thing she wasn't willing to do was end her marriage at that point. She still believed that. Divorce would be immoral oral feeling against her Catholic faith but by the summer of Nineteen Ninety one even the appearance of marriage between John and Lorena was rapidly rapidly disintegrating according to Lorraina. John started sleeping with other women. She said he often stole money from her purse to fund his dates. It's John Rarely had money of his own dispend. After his discharge from the Marine Corps he struggled to find and keep a job the couple for relied almost entirely on the Rina's income as a manicurist but she didn't make enough to pay their bills. Their cars were repossessed and their house was foreclosed on sometime in the summer of Nineteen ninety-one in order to keep up with the bills and get her car back arena. Raina began embezzling money from the Neil Salon. She wrote up false tickets for the customer. She served overcharging them and kept the difference. She did this for several months when she eventually confesses to John. He was furious the agreed she should come clean to her boss. Janna China Basuki. Miss Basuki was angry but she had known Llerena for several years and she understood her desperate situation. Instead at a firing her she dunk lorraine his commissions until all the money she'd stolen was repaid with financial strain and John's infidelity a constant source source of tension. The couple separated in October of Nineteen ninety-one. After two years of marriage John. Move back to Niagara Falls to stay with his family marina moved back in. With a Castro's the couple remained apart for nearly a year but they stayed in touch by telephone both seemed interested rested and reconciliation. Despite everything that had happened between them John was still arenas I love. She admitted I was scared. Geared to meet somebody else a two thousand three study published in the Journal of family. Violence valmet leaving abuser tends to be a process rather than a discrete discrete event and can take several years. On average a victim leaves their abusers seven times before the separation is permanent in September of Nineteen Ninety two twenty four year old. John returned. Virginia he said he and Lorraina wanted to try to start over again and work on their marriage they moved into the Maplewood Park apartment complex and Manassas according to Lorraina the abuse resumed immediately after they were reunited. Lorraina said that by the start of nineteen ninety three. John beat her at least twice a week by May Llerena finally seemed to recognize their relationship. Attention was beyond repair around this time. John told her that his friend Robert was moving into their one bedroom apartment breath after the experience with todd. Lorena was weary about having more men. Stay in her home but John didn't give her a choice at this point. Lorraina thought about getting a divorce when she brought it up to John. He told her she could leave but reminded her that he knew where she worked and he would always be able to find her even if their marriage was over. According to Lorraina. John told her that divorce people usually stay friends and continue to have sex given his past behavior arena took this as a threat he would continue to rape her even even if they split up as the abuse continued. LORRAINA had the idea to hide a tape recorder in her purse. She thought a tape of John be reading her might be helpful in divorce proceedings. Ba- John discovered the tape while trying to take money from her purse and he flew into a rage. The BOBBITT's downstairs stairs neighbors later said they heard allowed argument with someone banging in running around. She heard Lorena screaming John to give back her purse. Llerena Raina said that John Grab the tape and flushed down the toilet then. She said John Raped her Lorena. Lorraine tried to fight him off. She scratched his face leaving a gouge in his cheek but he overpowered her lorraina reached a point where she didn't want to salvage things. Her life with John was a nightmare and she just wanted it to be over over the next few weeks. She moved things out of at the apartment. She told neighbors she was donating clothes and furniture if they wanted to come by and take what they liked. It seemed that she was finally preparing to walk out out of her marriage on Saturday. June nineteenth nineteen ninety-three arena. Ran into a neighbor Diane Hall. She told Diane that she was moving out and looking for a new place to live the next day. John's friend Robert Johnston arrived to stay. With the BOBBITT's Robert noted that Lorena was moving boxes. Says out of the apartment. He said the couple seemed strained and that they were ignoring each other on Monday. June twenty-first Llerena went to the Prince William County courthouse. She filled out paperwork to obtain a protective order against her husband. She was worried about what John had said that he would track her down even if they split up at the courthouse the clerk helped her fill out the paperwork then let her know would take some time to type up and enter the order into into the computer system. Lorena told him that she couldn't stay but that she might return on Wednesday to complete the process. She may have decided to wait because she had not yet found her own apartment and was still living with John. Lorena might have realized that if she filed the protective order that day they would have had to separate great immediately before she was ready to move out the next morning. John and Robert were gone when Llerena woke up. John had gotten a job. Unloading being trucks at a food warehouse and secured Robert Temporary work there as well. Lorraina went to work at the Nail Salon as usual when she came home. The the men were still out. John was supposed to work a second job that evening as a host and a nightclub but he was told it was a slow night and he wasn't needed he and Robert decided to go out for drinks instead lorraine meanwhile had a quiet night at home. She visited with her downstairs neighbor Ella Jones Jones and talked about her marriage. Miss Jones had overheard several incidents of violence and she was worried about Llerena when the arena opened up about the abuse. Miss Jones told her that she could come spend the night at her place but she was an elderly woman. What several health problems and the Raina did not want to make eight more trouble for her? She thinks Miss Jones for the offer. Then she went back to her apartment and went to bed after drinking several beers. John Robert left the bar around one thirty. Am they had a meal. At a Denny's restaurant then returned to the Maplewood Park apartment around three a M in in the early hours of Wednesday June twenty third Lorena said that she woke up to find her husband on top of her he ripped ripped off the shirts and underwear. She was wearing and forced himself onto her. She said she tried to cry out but he shoved his tongue so far down her throat what she thought she was going to vomit. She kept shaking her head no but he ignored her and rapier afterward he pushed her away way Lorraine said she cried and asked him why he did this to her. He told her to leave them alone and let him sleep. Llerena pulled on her clothes and got out of bed. Her head roiled as unwanted images flashed through her brain. She couldn't stop the barrage of memories summaries the first time John hit her kicked her choked her and all the times after hundreds of instances seared into her mind she tried to calm herself down to stop her body from shaking to stop the pictures from flooding through her brain but it was impossible. She was so tired and angry. She had reached her limit. She was desperate to escape to be rid of John but it seemed impossible. The whole he had on her felt like a heavy cloak on her shoulders. She couldn't simply shrug it off. It suffocated her. She felt terrified that she would never be free. I'm Lorraina went into the kitchen. She thought a glass of water might help settle her nerves as she opened the refrigerator. The kitchen filled with light. Lorena turn towards the counter to grab a glass instead. The first thing she saw was a knife she reached out and wrapped her fingers around the handle. It felt smooth and cool in her hand when she returned to the bedroom Ed Room. 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