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The Emma Guns Show
"lisa bill" Discussed on The Emma Guns Show
"Welcome to another episode of the Emma gun show and a midweek installment of bullet points. I am your host and we're going to order, but you can call me Emma guns 'cause it's a lot easier. From the messages I've received from you this week, it has become very clear that January seemed to go on forever for most of us. Yes, it definitely did. But I also felt that January was simultaneously an extremely long month and also over in a flash, which is kind of confusing and discombobulating that there we go. Longtime listeners will know I am a fan of early mornings, and that's something that's been much harder to manage and incorporate into my daily routine, especially in December and January in the days have felt so very short. It stays dark so long in the morning, and then the weather's really gloomy, so you never really feel as though the sun comes up. And then in the evening, you get to 3 o'clock and it feels like, oh, should I have dinner now and then go to bed, or is that just me? So I'm very cheered that at the time of publishing this episode, sunset is now at four 50 in the afternoon, which is nearly a full hour later than it was about a month ago or 6 weeks ago. And the sun rises earlier too. So when I get up in the morning and I go into my living room and do my home workouts, I'm no longer working out in pitch darkness, which feels quite renegade. Just as a cost of living crisis, I don't hate putting the big light on. That's what it's really about. I hate putting the big light on. We can discuss that in another episode because I know that's a thing for a lot of people, but yeah, big lights, not I'm not a fan at all. I find them very kind of aggressive. I'm not going to lie anyway. I digress. But it is slowly getting brighter in the mornings, which is absolutely wonderful. So if you have had a tough January, and it felt like a bit of a drought and it just felt like, oh God, this is going on forever. And oh, this is just so bleak. Just know that brighter times they are ahead. I have been blown away this week by your very kind and thoughtful messages about my conversation with Andrew McLean. I actually met Andrea last year through a mutual friend and she's become a friend and a confidant actually. We met for the first time when Lisa Bill you and longtime listeners may remember when Lisa came on the show. She had a brilliant book out about confidence and she came on the podcast and after the show was really funny actually. We recorded an office building and I was leaving. I'd sort of gone to pack up my case and I'd gone to go and use the ladies. And when I walked out of the building, she came running after me and said, I'm doing an event in regent's park at the weekend. Calm, come. So I was like, of course, I'd love to. And she also invited Andrea and that was where we met. That's where we got chatting. And actually, Andrea was someone like bounced ideas off when I was contemplating how to restructure the format of the podcast. I knew that I needed to make changes. I knew it felt like the right thing to do, but equally, it felt like a very stupid thing to consider because why would you change something that isn't broken? And it just felt very much like it was coming from my gut up. I need to make some changes. And as you will have heard in that episode, Andrew has had a very similar feelings as well. So she was actually the perfect person to have that conversation with because she has been there and done that and she's on the other side of making a decision that to the outside world might seem like one that didn't need to be made, but she did. And so that was really brilliant. And she was very generous to agree to be one of the first guests with the new structure and she spoke so openly and honestly about the risk she has taken in her life and her career and the life lessons she's learned. Sometimes the hard way. And I know a lot of people from the masters that you, my most excellent listeners have been sending in related to Andrea following her gotten carrying on even when people around her were telling her she was quite mad. And that's something I too definitely took strength and inspiration from. So if you enjoyed listening, or if you haven't yet and you want a taster of the show, maybe you haven't got a full hour to dedicate to it yet, be like, I wonder what that's all about well. You can actually watch some clips from the conversation on YouTube, and I will put the link in the show notes. So you don't get any interruption you can just go straight from this podcast to YouTube, uninterrupted, and go and see some little snippets, not the whole thing, but just some snippets from our conversation. I have also had some very lovely feedback about the questions I'm asking guests in the show. And I know many of you are fans of talk to me about your relationship with risk. And I very much knew that was a conversation starter, but I even I have been quite surprised at how open and the kind of conversation that opening with that question has led me to with people and there are episodes that you haven't heard yet and I'm so excited for you to hear them. So please make sure you're subscribed so you don't miss an episode because there are some real crackers coming up. I really am excited for you to hear them. Now this week has been a really interesting one day listeners because I actually found myself in parliament since we last spoke, yes, the houses of parliament. So bab tac, which
Ask The Health Expert
"lisa bill" Discussed on Ask The Health Expert
"Me. Lisa Bill you, welcome to the show. Oh, thanks so much for
Ask The Health Expert
"lisa bill" Discussed on Ask The Health Expert
"Did a BigQuery to my audience. A couple years ago and I said, you know, if you're not where you want to be in your health or with your weight or your body, why not? Thinking they'd say gluten or cheese or sugar or I don't like to exercise and it wasn't that at all. And what it really came down to was confidence and self worth. So I was super excited when my girlfriend Lisa Bill, you came out with radical confidence. And I was like, you must come talk about this. You must you must you must. And if you have not heard of Lisa, will Lisa and her husband Tom cofounded the quest nutrition company. And I met them a couple of years ago. I went and did Tom's impact theory and Lisa has also done a great show podcast women of impact. And so she's been really in it for years now and along the way she kind of realized something that was really her kryptonite could become her superpower. Someone let her explain all of that to you. Lisa, again, is the cofounder and president of impact theory studios, which is a revolutionary digital first studio producing original content focusing on the theme of empowerment. And she also is the author of this fabulous book. You will want to get for your success library radical confidence. She's also gifting us her four part confidence series. So I was really excited when she said this one. She has this her confidence workshop. She is gifting to us. And I'm going to put that at JJ virgin dot com slash Lisa B all right, I will be right back with
The Emma Guns Show
"lisa bill" Discussed on The Emma Guns Show
"It's all here, welcome to the show. My guest in this episode of the podcast is a returning guest, it is Lisa bilyeu, and Lisa came on the show actually nearly a year ago to the day via Zoom. We met, she was at her house in Los Angeles. I was in my home in London, and she came on the podcast to discuss her mission, which is to push people to know what their dreams are and empower them with the confidence to pursue them. And she does this via her digital first media company impact theory studios and her women have impact YouTube channel where she empowers women to become to become the hero of their own lives. And I first came to know about Lisa's channel because she interviewed a friend of mine, Mali wrong girl. And I watched that interview and then I watched another one. And then I watched another one. And before I knew it, I'd clocked up hours, hours I tell you of watching women of impact YouTube videos. They are just utterly brilliant. And when we spoke last summer, I felt a real connection with Lisa and we had stayed in touch and she gave me the heads up off the record actually when we recorded that last episode that she had a book coming out in 2022. She even told me the name of it, which you know anything about books that are coming up, usually the name is the last thing to be anyway. I thought, okay, I really can't wait to read this book based on the conversation we've just had. If you've been able to bottle that into a book, I can not wait to read it. Well, that book radical confidence landed in my post box a few weeks ago and I obviously devoured it. I think it was two sittings it took. And then Lisa herself landed on my doorstep sort of sort of. She landed in London, which is kind of the same thing. And this podcast is us meeting in person for the first time and look. There are a lot of people out there who are selling you that they can help you reach your goals. And it all looks very appealing. But there's something so very real about Lisa's perspective. And she's a real deal. And I think that's because Lisa knows what it's like to sit on her own dreams and watch as others achieve theirs. She's been told all through her life that her choices weren't great ones. At least you're wrong. Whether that was her dream of becoming a filmmaker or an artist, all of those things she was told they were foolish. Why would you want to do that? That's not going to be a food on the table. That's so artistic. So for a long time, she was a stay at home mom. The stay at home moms stay at home wife to her husband Tom when they started quest nutrition. The company they eventually sold for over a $1 billion. But as she learned more about the business, became involved in the day to day and then instrumental in the businesses growth. She realized she had a passion for business and entrepreneurship, a passion that she wanted to pursue, which meant she wanted to surrender, her life up to that point, and we really talk about that in this episode about how you can know what you want, but that doesn't mean that leaving behind what you were, what you are, isn't difficult. There's something really legitimate about Lisa's perspective because she's been stuck. She's felt stuck. And the things that really tethered her to that place were limiting beliefs, often projected onto her by other people, and they were usually characterized by shoulds. I should do this. I shouldn't do that. I should play safe. But also because of what she was telling herself and I think we can all identify with having a negative voice in our head that may be sabotages us when all we really want us to do is to push us forward. So I have book radical confidence is ten chapters each teaching a lesson that she had to learn on her journey to what looks like confidence from the outside, but honestly it's hard and we cover everything and the book covers everything from gambling on yourself. Why you have to lean into a growth mindset and how that can be really a significant shift. If your default setting right now is to be limited by these limiting beliefs and these should, she also discusses looking for external validation why that's a fool's errand and why it's better to seek internal validation, why it's important to embrace mistakes and actually be comfortable to learn and to say, I don't know, and I want to learn and get good at something. How you should really try to learn to listen to your instinct, making use of that negative voice in your head as we've discussed. We've all got it, so how do you make it work for you rather than work against you? She also discusses toughening up, leaning into fear, checking in with your emotions, and again, what are they trying to tell you if you're scared of something? Does that mean that you have to run at it? Why being a perfectionist? Again, can be the thing that could hold you back, and also being your own hero and not waiting for someone else to come and save you. And interestingly, that's something that I talked about on the podcast with every pom porous who actually has her own series with Lisa. So there's a lot of regular listen to the show. There's a lot of this little kind of join up. There's a lot of conversations in this conversation with Lisa that might make it a little bit more sense. If you know that every and Lisa remains. So if you're in limbo, you feel stuck, whether that's in love, whether it's in work or in any aspect of your life. Then I think Lisa may be able to jolt you into action, or say the thing that you really need to hear today. To see where you are now, but also crucially, help you navigate to where you want to be. I can't wait for you to hear this conversation. I really can't it was such a pleasure to meet Lisa. And also just chat to her and look her in the eyes and have this conversation and so the link to the book and all of Lisa's social media will of course be in the show notes, but please join me in welcoming Lisa Bill you in person onto the.
The Rich Roll Podcast
"lisa bill" Discussed on The Rich Roll Podcast
"Absolute delight. I really enjoyed talking to her, so let's get on with it. This is me and Lisa Bill you. I'm really glad to have you here today. It took a minute for us to get it together. But always delighted to be in your presence. Congratulations on the new book. There's so much stuff to talk about. And I just look forward to enjoying your energy. I'm so excited, right? Just seriously. So I know Tom a little bit and we spent we've done each other's shows and all of that kind of stuff. And one of the things that I always respect and kind of admire about him is how quick he is to make sure that you're part of any conversation around his success and what he does. He's always saying it's at least to me we're partners, we're equal partners like you got to understand where Elise is coming from and how much she's contributed to all of this. It's very similar to the relationship that I have with my wife in terms of kind of what we've built together and individually. And when you share that perspective with somebody, you typically get that response of, well, behind every great man, there's a strong woman. And I hate that. My wife hates that. Because it's still a very condescending perspective. It means that the woman is standing behind the man. It's so true. And I used to be conflicted with it because being coming from a very traditional Greek background. That was kind of what you were taught that is going to be your identity. So originally, I actually was very proud of that. And so as I would see Tom grow into the person he is today, I was very proud to feel like I know, you know, I'm behind the scenes and I have his back and it's, you know, big help because of me. But you're right over time, I started to realize, actually, it's kind of positioning me as being secondary. Have you read rocket fuel? So good. So it basically explains how, in most dynamics, whether it's business or relationships, you've got the one that's the more dominant, the big shiny object, the one that has the, you know, basically the rocket, the beast, and then you have the fuel that is behind the rocket. But without the fuel, the rocket doesn't move. And so that book really allowed me to codify kind of mine and Tom's relationship and feeling like I am just as valuable. And to your point of being behind the person, it doesn't feel like that analogy makes you seem as equals. And so the rocket fuel analogy was so perfect for me when I heard it. Right. What's interesting about the book is that conservative traditional perspective, like for many years, there was a lot of pride in I'm supporting Tom, and that's my role. I'm CEO of Bill yu, industries. Tom's going to work. I'm taking care of everything else. Very traditional. And obviously, an outgrowth or a reflection of the way that you were raised. And a certain level of unapologetic pride about that. But I feel like part of that growth equation for you are arc has been stepping out from behind that shadow, owning your own space and that's really part of the whole narrative here. Yeah, absolutely. As you were talking, I realized a big part of it was I didn't feel like I had the confidence to be standing next to him. And so it felt actually comfortable being behind him, feeling like the supportive wife, because when you step out in front and you own your thoughts, you own the way you act, the way you show up every day, that can be very scary and when you don't have confidence, it actually deters you from wanting to step out in front. Yeah, and I think when you address this in the book, it's easy for people to look at you and Tom and see this very successful glamorous couple living a certain kind of lifestyle and enjoying a certain level of success. And impacting a lot of people, while you're doing it and say, well, that's just an inaccessible situation for me to relate to. They're who they are, but I'm who I am. And your book is really an attempt to decode that and deconstruct that and paint this picture of like the truth and what was amazing was reading like I've heard Tom talk about this like you don't understand how hard it was and where we came from and all of that, but you really filled in the gaps on that. Thank you. It was a really hard fought long road to get to where you guys are. Yeah, and that was a big part of why I wrote the book. Is it so many people ask me rich? Like, my God, I want your confidence. And I'm like, hey, you have no idea how I started. You know, I was at 14 year old girl that was just bullied and teased for my looks and I was put in a special class for being mildly dyslexic and holding my pencil, the wrong way. And I felt really badly about myself, and so when people were saying to me now, like, oh my God, you so confident. I was like, I still don't feel it. You should still hear the voice in my head that is utterly negative on anything that I do. And so to me, that it was imperative to write a book and call it radical confidence because it wasn't the traditional way that people think of it. I'm still scared. I'm still nervous. I still doubt myself all the time. But how do I keep showing up? It's really to not listen to the negative thoughts. It's to have a toolbox that you can dive into when you don't feel great about yourself. Like, how do you pick yourself back up? That's the thing that I really wanted to emphasize in the book because to paint the vision of perfection doesn't serve anyone. It doesn't serve me if I think I'm perfect. Where's there to go? Where's it to grow? So it was very important to be so honest about where I come from, how I still think, and I still have that negative voice that's telling me I'm no good. I just don't let it get in my way. Well, we're going to get to the growth mindset stuff and the radical confidence stuff. But let's set the stage a little bit and fill in the gaps. Walk us through your background a little bit, growing up in this conservative Greek family in the UK and coming to Los Angeles and meeting Tom and kind of everything that ensued. Yeah. I was a kid that had big dreams. Like I was getting up at three in the morning to watch the Academy Awards, like as a kid in London, 'cause I honestly I loved movies. It was an escape for me..
RISE Podcast
"lisa bill" Discussed on RISE Podcast
"Do you get your confidence from? I was like, what the hell have I seen? Because inside my head, I'm not nice to myself right. I don't say to myself yet, Lisa, you're a badass. You got it. No, no, no. The voice in my head says, what the hell do you think you're doing? Like, there is no way you Lisa Bill, you can buy the book. There's that negative voice that just never goes away. And so I was like, oh, people see that I just move forward. People see that I step in front of the camera. People see that I just write a book. And so they think that that comes from confidence. But actually, it doesn't at all. It comes from not feeling competent confident, not feeling competent and not actually having the skill set. But going, you know what? Even though I feel the fear, I'm going to put together a set of tools in order to keep moving forward. So when I feel fear of going on stage, what am I going to do? If I feel fear of writing a book, what am I going to do? Because I can not let the fear and insecurity stop me. And so that's what ended up being the book. I was like, this is kind of like this weird inception moment where it's like, you know, I have zero courage or zero confidence to write a book. And so I write a book about not having confidence to do things. Yeah, that's so rad. What were some of the tools that you put in there or that you discovered on this journey that you're like, okay, these are the things that we have to have in our toolkit. If we're going to face the big fears. All right, so first of all is I talk about the purgatory of the mundane. So recognizing that you're in the purgatory of the mundane. Now when I say that I mean, for 8 years, my life was just mundane enough. I never hit rock bottom, and I don't know about you, Rach, how many incredible people have you met? Where their life pivoted and changed because they hit rock bottom. Because they sat there and said, I've got nothing else to lose. Yeah. That's so real. But the people like me who didn't, the people that didn't have that job awake. And so in these 8 years where I stayed home just to support my husband to take care of him to really provide I cooked for him, I cleaned for him. I was in purgatory because I never felt like I could speak up. And that wasn't a hymn thing that was a meeting. I thought I needed the confidence to speak up and say I wasn't happy. I also thought, how freaking ungrateful am I? To say, I want to be happy. I want a different life. When I have a husband that loves me, when I have a roof over my head, so it's like this weird thing that happened with gratitude where I started using gratitude in the first journey of my life the first year or two was like, I know why I'm doing this. I'm supporting my husband because we're going to go out and make enough money to make movies. So I use gratitude every time I was bored every time I was like, really, this is my life. I would use the gratitude to help me through. And I think it's beautiful. Whenever we focus on the negative, have something that's positive in your life. Yeah. The problem was right. After year two, after year three, after year four, after year 7, I kept using gratitude as a way to self soothe the deep unhappiness I ended up having. And that, I think, is what kept me stuck for 8 years because I was like, how ungrateful am I? So I think the purgatory of the mundane is really for people to acknowledge. It's the pausing of your life and just saying. Am I actually happy? Is this actually the life I want? Or am I living in this type of purgatory of the mundane where I'm using gratitude? I'm using all these techniques that a lot of us talk about, the absolutely can help, but is it serving you? Is it serving your life and is it serving your dreams? So it's sort of like a kind of a different way to and you know I love gratitude it's huge part of my life and my meditation practice. But it's funny I keep hearing about kind of how we as humans self soothe and I'm starting to hear more stories about people self soothing and very unhealthy ways with things that are healthy. You know what I mean? It's like you think of like Jim Bros, right? Like those guys that live at the gym and they're there all the time and it's their lifestyle and they're doing this, but if you actually dug deeper and you started to unpack, it's like, well I hate my job or I'm unhappy in my marriage or I'm you know we're trying to do other things instead of having to face the fact that we are not happy or screw happy because happy doesn't exist all the time that we're not content that we're not challenged that we're not passionate about what comes next. So if you're hearing this and you're like, dang, I do that. What how do you get out of that purgatory? Yeah, so I think first of all, it really is sitting there and saying, what is the life you want? Like really just sitting with no judgment and just writing it down and that was the thing for me. It's like I wanted to make movies but to your point is we use these mini little distractions and it's what I actually call in the book kill the squirrel because you know the dog where it's like it's doing something in the school. It becomes a great distraction. And so it really is about sitting there saying what life do you want and it starting to identify what are the squirrels in your life. So for me to your point about it being very unhealthy sometimes the schools that I was using was my weight. So I was like I was brought up as a Greek Orthodox. I saw women literally calorie count and you know, if you put on 5 pounds, they had no shame to call you fat to your face. Like I actually had my grandmother say to one of my aunts, I think, like, oh my God, you're so fat you never have a baby. Like, just her face. Now my grandmother comes from a village in Cyprus, she's not educated, so it's like, you need to give that context, but that's what I saw. And so it's like the guys, oh, if the guy's put on 30 pounds, it meant, oh my God, your wife takes care of you. But if the woman puts on weight, it's like a desirable. So I saw from a very early age as having an unhealthy relationship with food, but when I became a stay at home wife and when I say stay at home wife, I really want people to hear. That wasn't my dream. It wasn't something fulfilled me. And so I say it as that markup, but if being a stay at home wife is something, like I really freaking applaud, people that are doing what they love. It wasn't what I loved. So I need to give context there for a second..
Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu
"lisa bill" Discussed on Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu
"Got my necklace on, I do my hair and it becomes this stepping stone of, I repeat myself your Wonder Woman. You got this. Lisa Bill, you welcome to the show. But you are author, Lisa Bill you, and I feel very confident in saying soon to be bestselling author. The book is amazing. I've told you that privately, but I was very impressed. This really is a radical confidence. It really is the book. One of us had to write a book about the impact the mindset. And when you started, I didn't know if that's what it was going to become, but it really became a powerful instruction manual for how to move through life well. So I'm very impressed. I want to start at the end of your book so that people can understand what radical confidence is. And then we'll dive in. But this really hit me this very powerful. So this is the literal last chapter of the book. With radical or sorry, the last paragraph. With radical confidence, you can try new things despite the embarrassment, shame, fear, guilt, or any other emotion that may be paralyzing you. With radical confidence, you can go balls to the wall and risk falling on your face. And you can do it knowing that even if you do break a cheekbone, you can get back up with radical confidence you don't have to fear failing or fear whether you're the only woman or the only one with no experience or the only one who shit themselves in a bathroom stall at the Beverly Wilshire hotel because homey with radical confidence you can zip up your bad bitch boots. Remember who the fuck you are and be the hero of your own damn life. Now, I know that it is a long road between who you were even when you and I first met, but even before that, to writing this book, but for somebody that wants to walk in your shoes, what's the first step to being afraid and doing it anyway? What is that first step? Having a plan because I don't want it to feel just motivational, right? Like, oh, you know, be afraid and do it anyway. When you're afraid and you have to do something that scares the life out of you, like step in front of the camera or start a business or be a leader when you don't know how to lead a tour. All of that is really scary and just telling someone to do it in a way. It isn't enough. So to me, you need a natural plan. Is it a plan or a toolkit? So you need to plan with the tools that you're going to use. So for instance, let's say you want to step in front of the camera. The plan is, okay, I want to start a YouTube channel. So I'm going to shoot 5 videos in a row without releasing it just to watch myself. Okay, what skill set am I going to build on that? And that becomes what tools do I use to build those skill sets so that I can do 5 videos. So for instance, the tool, let's say if it's just stepping in front of the camera, it is how on earth can you stare at a camera and talk for 30 minutes, like practice that skill. And so what's that tool set that you're going to use if you kind of bring yourself to step in front of the camera? Do you look at your clothes? What music do you play before you step in front of the camera? These are all tools to get you to actually step in front of the camera in the first place. Now what's interesting to me and because I know your story intimately, but also you go into great detail in the book is for you, it wasn't a plan. And you struggled mightily in the beginning. And so I want to go back to when we were starting quests. So give people a thumbnail sketch of basically what happened. So you were a huge dreamer as a kid. You'd big dreams when you and I met, and then something went horribly wrong after marrying your husband. What happened? So actually, what happened was we had said we want to make movies and we'd both dabbled in trying to work in film industry and we both hated it. So our conclusion was, if we wanted to make our own content, we need to finance it ourselves. So we decided that we were going to go on that path and you're going to go to work every single day and I was going to what we called the Steve Jobs effect where I was going to make all other decisions outside of business. I was going to make you are going to handle business, you're going to try and make enough money. I was going to be president of being you enterprises. Look how you CEO. Of Bill you enterprises. And so that felt good. And so I was like, I'm going to do this for a year. You really did it as well. You didn't just sort of Ho hum your way through it. You took it really seriously. Reading the book, though, was devastating for me, like it, I wept openly the first time I read it. Other people won't react that way because it's not their wife. But for me, reading what a dark period that was for you. It really was, wasn't the death of a dream because you never gave up fully, but it was sort of that dark night of the soul where you have no idea how you're getting back to the dream. When did it go from? I'm CEO of Billy enterprises and this feels good to, oh my God, how wrong have I let this go? This is the thing that freaking haunts me. I can't, it's not one day. It becomes that slow stepping stone pattern that you just keep repeating and I kept saying to myself, it's only going to be for a year. It's only 12 to 18 months, the famous storage, 12 to 18 months, tending to over 8 years. And that's the problem is that it becomes this slow knock on effect. And it's like, I can do this and you have the right mindset and you have the right framing, and you're like, I'm doing it for the good of us as a couple of our marriage. We want to make movies together so you can freaking convince yourself. You can convince yourself of why you're doing something every single day. And that's the problem before I knew it. I was deep 8 years into it, and I was like, what the hell happened? But the truth is it never freaking happens overnight. It becomes one little decision that you make time and time again in the wrong direction that you end up going, how the hell did I get here? And so for me, it wasn't that I was hiding it from you..
Kwik Brain with Jim Kwik
"lisa bill" Discussed on Kwik Brain with Jim Kwik
"Show me. Welcome back, quick brain to the quick brain show. Your host Jim quick and your question for today is a big one. People always mention this on social media and our private Facebook group and our app. They want to know about confidence. So this episode is all about how to unleash radical confidence. And we have a very special guest, Lisa Bill you. Thank you so much for being on the show. This is usually like reversed. And Lisa, for many of you know, because we mentioned Lisa often in our shows and our social media and we're always reposting. She was cofounder of a $1 billion nutrition nutrition, which you put things on pause to do that for it was like 5 feet. 8 years. 8 years. Yeah, I had my life on pause for 8 years. That's amazing. You know? And the founder and cofounder of impact theory and also women of impact. And you are the author of the brand new book radical confidence. And this is awesome. Ten no BS lessons on becoming the hero of your own life. Congratulations on the book. Thank you. I'm so excited. I enjoyed so much reading. You're an amazing storyteller. Thank you. And so then why did you why did you write the book and who did you write it for? Yeah, so when I started to realize, okay, what is it the thing that I struggled with the most because it has to come straight from the heart, people think of me as they see me on camera and they think that I have all the confidence. So I was like, okay, how did I get to where I was and how do I backtrack and just be honest about what the messiness of the journey? There's a radical honesty in this book. Yeah. Thank you. And that was the thing. It's like, if I'm going to say it, I have to be honest. And it's like, I don't ever want people to think I'm perfect. I'm so far from it and they're still fail. I still mess up even today, I still have the doubt. I still have the insecurity. But I don't let it stop me. And so for me it was like, where did I start from? And it really was that moment of, I had a belief system that I was taught growing up. I think we all do from the interactions we have without the way our parents brought us up with the town we grew up in with the culture we had. And so for me growing up Greek Orthodox really did lead me into, I think, allowed me to be stuck for those 8 years without speaking up, because I was taught a certain mindset. And a certain belief system. So I thought, okay, I have to address that first. So that was why how the book was structures is addressing your mindset, you know, one of the chapters of one of the beginning chapters is make up your mindset. You know, because it's like, you do actually get to choose. You do. You get to choose what language you say out loud. You get to choose whether I can do this. And so for me, it was important to just repeat to people. I want you to read this. I want you to read in your head or say it to yourself. I can X, Y, and Z so that each chapter, as we all know, right? We're repetition create habit repetition creates habit repetition creates habit. So to me, it was so freaking important to have someone read to themselves, I can do this. I can do that. And once you do that enough throughout the book, the hope is at the end, you really do believe you can do it. It doesn't mean that you're going in with blind confidence or that you're going to crush it. It means that you can get over it if you fail. You can take that beginning step. You can have the audacity to dream. And live out that dream. And so you had real, you had a real why, a real, real purpose behind it. And I imagine a lot of people are watching after watching on YouTube or they're listening to it. They're going through challenges like all of us. Maybe in their health, maybe in a relationship, maybe they want to ask for a raise at their job or pursue a relationship something. Yeah. And they have doubt. They have insecurity. They may be they're scared of looking bad. You know, what's your perception on a lot of our show has to do with learning. And the ability to fail forward or make mistakes and get feedback and still go through because you said you fall into a number of times, but then you stood back up and I don't know a lot of strong people that I admire that had easy lives. You know, at all. Failure is one of those tricky things that the more you do it, the more comfortable you get at it, it doesn't mean that it changes. I still fail all the time. Really? Oh, the time. But now because I've had so many experiences where I'm like, those were the most powerful lessons I now learn that it's okay. But the truth is when you haven't made those first steps, the fear of failing is crippling. And so to me, I go, okay, how do I act then in the face of that? How do what do I do if I fail? And I come up with a game plan before it happens because I allow my emotions to take over. I really do. I have a whole chapter called get actually a swear words I want to say, but gain emotional sobriety and that means can you address it a situation when you're emotionally sober with clarity with your, you know, nothing's filtering you. And so to me you have to gain emotional sobriety in order to be able to move forward. But when you're so scared and you haven't learned that failure actually is the great lesson, how the hell do you move forward? What do you do? So to me, it's all about a game plan. So the perfect example is I did a TEDx talk. I was so scared. I never wanted to do public speaking. I've seen you do it. I've seen Tom do and you guys are so good. And all the entire time I sit there in the audience going, I'll never do that. I'll never do that. Wow. Out of fear. It's just remarkable though, because I watch your videos and your interviews and social media. And you see all of these countless people watching and commenting and they went, I don't think anyone some people who know you would believe that even seeing you now. Yeah, it's just been an evolution. So I knew that when I was stepping in front of the camera, obviously I've seen you and Tom do such a great job of this, is that public speaking becomes part of the service. In the sense of this is if you have a goal and you want to impact people, there's nothing like seeing someone speaking in person on stage. And so once I decided that goal and then I started to take the steps towards it, so I started my show and then as that show, Tom was the one that was like, you're going to have to do public speaking. And I was like, I don't have to do anything. That was like my security drink. I don't have to do anything. And I was like, well, hang on, what's my goal? Then do my actions serve the goal yes or no. And so when I could look at it without judgment without saying to myself, well, does that mean something about me? Does that say something about me? Take all of it out. Like, what is my goal and does public speaking survey yes or no? Just this or no. Yes, okay. Now why am I not doing it? Because I'm fearful, okay? No judgment. Are you willing to let your fear get in the way of your goal? Like if you can just ask questions like that to see with clarity and the truth is, if the answer is yes, I wouldn't judge myself. I was like, I've made that I've made that decision with my eyes wide open. But now Jim, I can't go back and at night and say, oh my God, I failed. I haven't impacted this person. Because I've made the decision to not take the steps. So what I did was I said, okay, the fear stopping me, I can't let the fear stop me, so this is what I'm going to do. So I had a plan. The next, the first offer I ever get of public speaking, I'm just going to say yes. No one knew this, and no one knew this. I made the decision in my head. In advance. In advance, I didn't tell anyone, I didn't know how I went out there, but I was like, because I know myself, I let my emotions get in the way, I'll get all fearful and I'll say no. So I've made this commitment to myself. And then sure enough, like a month later, someone reaches out, we want you to do a TEDx talk. I literally was like, yes,.
Sex With Emily
"lisa bill" Discussed on Sex With Emily
"Pleasure is the way you talk to me the way I look at you the way your hand hovers around me without even touching me. Pleasure is the attention that you give to me pleasure is your willingness to go as slow as I want to go or that pleasure is the way you're gazing at each other. Pleasure is not about outcome. It's really not about, you know, how was the sex? We did it and it worked. You know? And I'm like, this is pragmatism applied to eroticism that doesn't really work. So pleasure is not about getting this thing done. It can happen without any of the trappings of what we consider a sexual act. Pleasure is linked to self worth because it's about, do I deserve to feel good? And in order to feel deserving of feeling good of being given to of being pleasure of having someone pay attention to me, a feeling safe that they're not going to hurt me. It's addressed. Vice versa. It demands that I feel lovable and desirable. And so pleasure is directly connected to self worth. Good sex is directly connected to self worth. Can I ask for what I want? Can I take the time that I need to take, can I can I expect that you would want to do something that maybe is not in your preferences, but you're doing it for me. You know, I love to work with us around sexuality with the vocabulary of key verbs, like every time you learn a language, you need to learn the key verbs. Sexuality is a language that the men's the keywords. How do you deal with asking? How comfortable are you to ask how comfortable are you with the asks of partners, not just the stable part or any partners? How do you deal with giving? Do you enjoy giving? Do you find giving is just something you need to get through? It's a responsibility. It's a burden. How do you feel about receiving? Do you feel like the passivity of receiving? The only field that you can receive after you've given, because you've earned it. You know, how do you deal with sharing? How do you deal with refusing? Can you say no? Because if you can't say no, you can't really say yes. How is your experience around these verbs when it comes to your sexual encounters? Yes. You learn a lot. How do we retrain the brain to understand that pleasure is our birthright and not just a reward? Like, I think there's so much about sex and eroticism that we just think we don't deserve it. Do you ever so the way I work with it is very experientially. And I don't just retrain the brain. I retrain the physical experience, the embodied experience, which then will send messages to the brain. So I work a lot with water. What is your preferred temperature of the water? I want you to send in the shower with the perfect temperature for you. And then I want you to notice, what is the place on your body where you enjoy it the most? Is it the nape of your neck? Is it the back? Is it your head? Is it your shoulder? Is it the front? And then I want you to just stay under the shower. And for as long as you can, notice the soothing, pleasurable quality of that water. And if at some point you begin to think, oh, I should turn. I should move. I should watch, I should finish. See if you can extend it just another 30 seconds. You see, you can do it alone. You can do it with the partner watching. These are all metaphor transposed metaphors of experiences around pleasure. Imagine that you're eating and your partner is just watching. And you're pleasing yourself. You find the thing you like the most. And work with food a lot. I work with fruit. I work with water. I work with fabric with clothes that you experience on your body. You know, I work with touch. Do you want hovering touch? This is from the work of Jaya. Do you want gentle touch? Do you want straight touch or do you want stipple touch, you know, there's a beautiful exercise another one that is really the difference between giving touch and taking touch. So the giving touch, I give touch to you. I stroke your hand, and I am thinking of you and my mind is completely focused on you. This is a great retrain exercise. And then there is the taking touch, which is now I continue to stroke your hand, but this time I'm focused on me. It's how I enjoy. It's the contact of my head and you can see people completely change the way they touch. Now I am using your hand for my pleasure, and I am taking touch. And now I go back to thinking about you. And now I am giving touch and to the distinction that the pleasure of giving is a different kind than the pleasure of taking. Yes. I remember I was with a guy, and he would touch me. He'd come up with exactly what he said. He would do this thing. And I was like, that might feel good to you, but what we're saying is like really, sometimes just taking sex off the table and practice one of these touching from my pleasure touching for your pleasure. Do you want to know a little secret of mine? Can I take your hand and guide it in the way that really unlocks it for me? Can I show you? And then you literally take the hand and you make this spot and actually if you do it in circles, that's my thing. My thing is circles. In other people, it's a straight line, other people. It's a little stiffer blend. Remember that one. It's really a key for me. And it's like everybody can share their little sensual secrets like that with a lover, where they are not being critical. They're really saying, here is the way to get to me. We're wrapping up things with Tom Billy who gets real about his relationship with his wife, Lisa Bill you, and why desiring other people isn't something we necessarily need to be afraid of and how to age well together. I'm either never getting married or I'm marrying this woman. She is the only woman I've ever said I love you too. It's like a whole thing. So we get together and I'm like, look, I want to be married to you and that's going to be that. And this is going to take work. And so that was so self evident to me that it won't happen by accident. Neurochemistry changes over time. So I think by then a study had come out that showed that if you take someone who's just in a bump of cocaine and put them in an FMRI machine and take someone who thinks about their newly found lover, and you can't tell the difference on a brain scan, it's all dopamine. It's the reward centers. It's craving. It's like all this crazy shit. And I thought, okay, so I know that ends. Nobody stays there..
RISE Podcast
"lisa bill" Discussed on RISE Podcast
"I feel like what I've learned over the last couple of years is redefining success as it is to me like in my soul. Not as defined by other people, not as defined by my peers, not as defined by the team that I used to have around me or maybe what my ex-husband thought success was or what anybody else thinks that it looks like. But what is actually what makes me feel like I'm thriving. I'm happy. I'm content. I'm blessed. That's success. I spent so many years which I can now understand was deeply unhealthy, but I think how a lot of people would define success is do other people admire me. Do other people think I'm successful? Do other people are other people inspired? Are other people liking the Instagram photo? Are other people into this? And over the last couple of years, I just, it just keeps falling away. It keeps eroding. It keeps I just honestly, I feel like I started my work creating. I had this blog, I took pictures, I made recipes. I wrote, I did crafts. I mean, this is going back to the day. This is like 2008, 2009, like old school. Just made stuff. And it was fun. I had no idea what I was doing, but I liked it. And I have an entrepreneurial spirit, so I figured out how to monetize that. I figured out how to make that a business. And I have been wildly successful. And successful financially, successful in terms of fame, successful in terms of access or resources like I've experienced it all at all. And I just kept making things and then other people came into the picture and then other people were like, here's how we make it bigger and here's how we take this thing that you have and we expanded and then it being an influencer was like a thing and social media following it all of this stuff. And I've done it. I have done it, and I have experienced years where I made more money than I even knew was possible for a human being to make. And I have gotten to meet people and I have had the highest highs and I've had the lowest lows when I screwed up and I screwed up publicly and you know I haven't known how to do things or I've created content that wasn't as successful for other people's perspective and then it's just a wild ride. And what I have really come to our last two years and I think I'm still in this transition and I think I'll continue to evolve in this way is like I don't want to play that game anymore. And I didn't even know it was a game. And I think that a lot of people are still in it of like, I got to look a certain way I gotta act a certain way. I feel like I am watching just people's lives be controlled completely by them needing to pretend for social media that their life is good. I see this all around me, of people who I know are really struggling. But you never know it from their social. And I just, as I go forward into what I'm doing, one of my definitions of success is I want to be able to create. And I want to be able to create and have the creation be is it good or is it bad? Is the thing that I'm making valuable? Does it have value to anybody and either it does or it doesn't, but the creation isn't augmented by how good my hair looked or whether or not I had makeup on. Or having I'm using air quotes like a brand now years ago I remember when it became, I don't know, I'm sure you guys do too. But do you remember it became so popular that I have a personal brand? And it didn't matter what you did. Everyone was like, you need a personal brand. You'd be like, well, I want to be a law associate, and they'd be like, well, you need a personal brand. Everybody has a personal brand. And there was value in that from a marketing perspective and how you put yourself out into the world, but I also think it really screwed people up. Because the brand became more important than the person. And I have had the opportunity in the last few years. I have a lot of friends who are really successful. I have a lot of friends who are celebrities. I have a lot of friends in that world and the ones that are hurting the most are the ones that grapple with feeling like the brand is more important than who they are as a person. Or even more screwed up, I can tell you that the higher you get, it seems like the less and I'm talking about people who are a gajillion times more famous than me. But the more successful they are, the less people in their life who actually know them. Or care about them. The more successful you become, the more you have this group of people around you who are there to support the image or to support the brand or to support that kind of success. And maybe you're listening and you're like, Rach, what does this have to do with I'm not a celebrity was I have to do with me is that I think all of us have our version of this. All of us have groups and spaces that we belong to who help feed into whatever we have come to believe our definition of success is. And I think, God, I hope that the last couple of years have made you question, what is a good life to you? You know, for the longest time, I loved. I was so involved in the entrepreneurial world. You know, there's a whole group of very successful people who are famous for being entrepreneurs and teaching you how to do it, and a lot of them are my Friends. They're wonderful people and it's awesome. And it's like you're playing with a big dogs, right? You are with people. I mean, going hang out with my friends, Tom and Lisa bill you. And they're like, you know, they're just, there's money trees growing in the backyard. They're so good at being entrepreneurs. And they level that they're playing at just the enneagram three in me. If I hang out with them for 5 minutes, I'm like, I need a $1 billion. I need to own a thousand bitcoins. Like I just, it's very easy for me to get wrapped up in sort of old school Rachel or Rachel of like three years ago who was very influenced by feeling like more is more is more as more as more. And I know.
Opening Arguments
"lisa bill" Discussed on Opening Arguments
"By the way, that was a ton of fun, great Q&A. That's on the feed. The audio is on the feet. It's also on our YouTube channel for normies, but for patrons, I put that high quality audio in the feed and the voting on the questions and asking the questions is something only patrons could do. So I hope you enjoyed it. And Andrew, we're coming up a couple weeks. We'll have another lot awful movies for you. So that's all great reasons to pledge over on Patreon dot com slash law. Let's thank the new pledges. And I'll start us off. Thank you, too. Daniel Thomas. Tane AH, Sarah knudsen, max, Robert chick, Lisa, Bill you, I should have given you these ones. These are some tough times. Marion magda and Melanie harari, your turn. Thank you, too. Caleb Nichols to catron Allen, Zach beige, Sean a Watson, doctor bitch, the bitch doctor. Love that. Hey, we will read it and Kate chios. Thank you all so much for supporting the show. And that's our show. Oh boy. Apologize to anyone who's not a fan of yelling, but I feel like it's justified when the court is going to strike down a 50 year old precedent guaranteeing. But Thomas understands. It was wrongly decided. Yeah, okay, so you're allowed to do that. This is a tough one. This is one of those tough ones, Andrew, and are the Pantheon of our tough one episodes. This is a particularly tough one. Up there with after Trump was elected and that sort of thing. This is the reason we were so upset when Trump was elected. One of the many reasons. So maybe consider that in the future and do everything you can to, as I've said before from Ezra Klein, be a moral contagion for good, you know? It's not just about your vote. It's about your attitude, you're putting into the world. And if the attitude you're putting into the world is constantly undermining Democrats, even though it might be for what you think are legitimate reasons, maybe the end result of what you're doing is not a good. Maybe it's not a good thing. Maybe it's not overall. It's a bad thing for the world. Consider that, please. I just want to say 15 seconds because I get this question and we're going to get emails from this episode. And people say, well, isn't it that Trump supporters fault? Yes. Of course it is. The fact that 46% of the country is happy voted for voting for an unreconstructed racist incompetent buffoon ex game show host, you know, I don't know how much more clear we can make it. It's their fault. Yeah, you know who doesn't listen to our show? Trumpers. So the people that we can influence are people like you. That is you, mister on the left and like us kind of annoyed that Joe Biden didn't flex his hands and wrap some knuckles and challenge Joe Manchin to a duel and repeal the filibuster and pack the Supreme Court. Yes, we're with you. We're disappointed. The question is, what do you do? I love the Ezra Klein mortal contagion. What we're trying to do is do the very best we can to get this country back on the right track. So yeah, never never think for a second that we think you, mister 2016, chill Stein voter are the source of the problem. You're not. The question is, how do you help us fight the problem? And that's what we're trying to do. All right, thanks so much for listening. We'll see you next time. I move for a bad court thingy. You mean a mistrial? Yeah. That's why you're the judge and I'm the law talking guy..
The Property Couch
"lisa bill" Discussed on The Property Couch
"Now i think yeah artfully albuquerque Lock on our when my parents took me On extensive trip to america when all stood it sort of small at the. Tom was still pretty incredible. probably will look back now and think about the grand canyon and you know you see many national park Incredible prices yeah filed yet. I think from our point of view Happy to gain was that good might says fabulous forward to unpacking nice stories with the over the coming weeks and months Generally speaking might welcome back today. Cunanan i thought to give you a little light up into the into podcasting. Well today i will say. Hey guys savior rusty. Not town wheelbase is going to mccain rod i. I don't know what's van. Gallon on side getting back into it now. A guy would go to score at the end of the puzzle. How we got it. We'll get we'll get in the crazy to let us know theme today is. You've heard the saying iran. You are the people that you spend the mice. Tom with little variation bethel. I saw recently on. On lisa bill us social that was good was some people are investments and others are bills and to know the different cyanide to invest your time within her to close your cat with would. That's good lied about iraq and so the challenge is full folks listening to this and You know obviously people who listen to podcasts. Generally have a growth mindset anyway so which are the people that spending time with the investments in which the people that spending tom out the bills and Is is it. Tom feed closed the account with any of those bills. So interesting ben. Thought damn will was sitting at my just financial fly to see walk that aligned and just for the record you'll your at this stage your investment and we'll let you hear bill by the end of the on shore into the podcast. That's not true. I am So first question. Today i've got a bunch of speak pops law wrap unite. You and i don. The first one is actually a message received on instagram from aaron win and it was regarding a conversation that we had we saw last week Around the scrambled egg This is the the fraud and he's questioned a read the question and then we can unpack it but in regards to the on yakking all's mij- cities and for those folks who haven't listened to last week. The friday it with the in the middle was traditional pray covered wherever i went to the to the city. Santa and then as a result of covered. We've become a scrambled egg where people moving out. And there's not so much in the middle so in regards to the unerring of the major cities what do you think that does to inner city suburb housing process into the future. Do you think that the appeal of they suburbs could start to reduce a bit and the property. Values will follow or at least slow in terms of net. That's a really good question erin. toyed with it myself had plenty people. Ask that question. And if if it's a case of the last person laving the bay they could they turn the lights out. If that was the case it would be served It would manifest itself if there was a property socil- in the regions but not and it's also the fact that in the capital cities. There's no longer appropriate special. So you have low supply demand still strong and there is a contingency of people moving outside at the moment you haven't seen any as manifestation that because probably process a held feminine if you read the newspapers and follow the mock. You say that it's very very strong..
Unashamed with Phil & Jace Robertson
"lisa bill" Discussed on Unashamed with Phil & Jace Robertson
"Unashamed what about you. Uh so we have we have upgraded on the unashamed podcast at so many levels. So since i was in north carolina and i wanna deal to come on our pica. So this is jill zach's wife and we've had. We've had mrs been on the podcast. Lisa's bill so we've had all the spouses except for you. Testses your debut. Jill and it's a bit major upgrade. Both in looks as well as brain power so welcome initiative is really great to have you and One of the things i wanted to. There's a lot. I want to ask you about before we get to your book written a great book and so we're talking about today but i wanna i wanna talk about that. Because obviously our audience knows him. He's kind the he's kind of my if he was my my guest host. Now he kind of comes on a lot in the four chair and we kinda see him as our kind of intellectual Of the four of us because it uses a lot of big words presence in us but so tell us about a little bit about how mad and that kind of stuff. Because you know we kind of done that with all. The other wives talked about initially were drawn together. Well it's funny because zach. I always say like zach was the first like god who love jesus that i met that i was like actually really attracted to you and i remember like i met him and he like he invited us to church at all and you know at the beginning. You're trying to figure out okay. Do they really love jesus. They just kind of pretended. And all that and so i would watch him and so our first dates were literally in the laundry mat and he was taking this class on romans and he was literally teaching me the book romans and so the whole time. I was just thinking okay. This dude really loves jesus and he's really cute and so that was like our initial. I'm going to snag them up. Like this is it. This is what a prayed for forever. Really loves jesus and he's really cute. You know the right combinations as you gotta get the right combo there. It's very important very important. And so that's kind of how we started. Dating was our dates. Were at the laundromat. And so we got married. Super younger i was i just turned to winnie when we got married. Which you know. I always think i would never go back and do differently but getting married so young. There were so much that i had to learn. I'm trying to figure out. So he calls you up and he says hey you wanna go out. I'm going to the laundromat in washington. This is actually a funny story so the very first day so every sunday not Where we went to college there was this one place called downtown. And it's where all the students went and we worship and we'd have come together and it kind of like the social setting and so on sunday nights and so this particular sunday night. I went there with all my friends and sitting around talking afterwards. Well his roommate actually his suite mate comes up to me and he says hey. Would you like to go out. Sometimes and i said sure. Give me a call. Because i'm available. I'm just checking out seeing what's out there were about fifteen minutes later. That comes up to me. And he's like hey. Would you like to go out some tom. Sure give me a call so they give back to their dorm room. And it's the whole..
The Emma Guns Show
"lisa bill" Discussed on The Emma Guns Show
"Have indeed a lot of people. Supermodels entrepreneurs authors celebrities and doctors and many of these conversations had a real impact on me and come away feeling inspired excited informs and really empowered and at the back of my mind. Always think. I wish i could just publish the tape. So people could really feel that conversation. While on this forecast you get to feel the conversation. I talked with experts. And a few friends who i hope will inspire inform and empower you and maybe it was a challenge whether you're looking for self help self improvement beauty advice health insights business know how what just good old-fashioned life advice in a bit of a laugh. It's all here. Welcome to show my guest on this episode of the podcast. Lisa bill you. I'm so happy she is joining me. Lisa is the co founder and president of impact theory which is a digital media. Production company focused on creating empowering content and not listeners. Is how i came to learn about lisa. I watched the video of an interview. She had done with my friend. The makeup artist and entrepreneur me wrong cal who has been on his focused a couple of times and i really really liked the tone of content. I really liked the tone of our interviews. Which has sort of put it in a nutshell. I guess designed to wake up confront empower and motivate those who watch it is a really supportive space as well but it's very much about tapping into the best version of yourself which i really appreciate when i've now since devoured all of her videos then i started to learn more about lisa because i was really interested about what motivated to create this kind of content. And where this energy if you ever watch anything that she doesn't new here in this episode this woman bursting with energy and found out that she had been a supportive housewife. Who agreed to help her husband out with a protein ball business from living room so that was how it all started. She was a stay at home housewife. And she said yeah. Sure i'll help you out and about protein bar. Business went on to become quest or it was quest was sold for a billion dollars and she was a key key player in the business. Growing by a whopping fifty seven thousand percent and a few short years her story just was really fascinating to me because the plan was never to be some incredible entrepreneur with those kind of numbers next to her name. And what i learned was that lisa had expectations and the perception of what how world should look like. She had been told from an early age. How life would turn out how it would include finding a husband getting married and having babies and yet there was a drive inside lisa urging her to see beyond this and do more and is your hair in the episode. That's not to say there's nothing wrong with that. It's just that there was something driving her to do something else. And of course she went on and did a now hosts women have impact where she hosts conversations designed to empower women to be the best version of themselves. Whatever that might look like for them. It's about owning who you want to be going after it so as you can imagine. I was delighted when she agreed to be on the show because her story is so interesting and inspiring and she has made it her mission to share how shed limiting beliefs and embraced radical confidence to empower others. In this conversation least discuss why. It's so easy to find yourself in the pokey of the mundane and she explains exactly what that is when she does. You'll go why it's mission to push people to know what their dreams are and be confident to go and pursue them her message of radical confidence. Why if you have a goal you have to have the energy of mindset as if it's day one every single day how in her youth she had wanted to fit in so badly that she ended up minimizing herself and changing herself and how she came to be able to shift into her gear where she was unapologetically. Ourself we talk about taking ownership of your mistakes and committing to learning from them and why. That's so important if you try and minimize your mistakes or brush them off. That's not going to help you. Why the ego is only ever trying to protect you but sometimes doesn't help. You will how we can all fall into the trap of rejecting ourselves and honestly so much more you will hear. She's an incredible speaker and she shares some really wonderful wisdom in this episode. So i'm so glad that she was able to to come on the show the links to lisa and everything that we discussed will be in the show notes of course whereas they would take which can be found wherever it is that you are streaming and downloading this episode. Bob please join me in welcoming what i his. I not high loss visit to the gun..
Sex With Emily
"lisa bill" Discussed on Sex With Emily
"Let's talk about it and became like fun. It was like we're going to a different location. Do talk about our relationship so this is where you can kind of check in how we do in. How are things feeling in our relationship. How how we doing it are on our goals or to reminder that you guys are in it together. Make time for brainstorming the workplace brain serving fresh ideas. I know when we brainstorm round here. We come with the best things just like your relationship which actually is a living and breathing or it doesn't because you guys got married and you steal that deal that your relationship doesn't wanna grow so find out you guys brainstorm like if you find out like yeah. We really need to be doing fine. And then you look at the last four nights together that you ordered him food and watch netflix. You can look at it and go okay. Well what could we do to still watch our television shows and make sure that we're getting out more and actually this reminds me of the episode. We deal with lisa bill. You women of impact a few weeks ago. She talked a lot about the way she does this in her relationship and it was really inspiring for abuse. You might wanna check out that that episode but finding the things you can do together in brain serving new ideas. That are fun for both of you. You know where do you guys want to go where you wanna eat. That's fun things to set up and then you have things to look forward to take vacations. No surprise you guys. This literally comes up on every single relationship sex tip anything like vacation. Sex tape vacations. But here's why you guys. I always talk about in the sex round but you know. I also think it's very healthy. Fear relationships because you got to get out of your home your you know doing things osama segue every day so even just a few days off vacation throughout the year in addition to weekends just getting away taking long weekend frigging your nine to five routine a huge impact on your relationship so make sure that you guys have tom your own to bond. Go all in. I've been guilty of this when dating. And i don't know if you guys can relate to this as well when you're just both are fully committed to the relationship so i think a lot of it's kind of a dating we like dip our toyin and we're like yeah i have one foot in one foot out or i'm not really sure i want to go the distance with this person. I'll just hang out until i meet someone else. You realize that not only. Is that a disservice to the person you're dating but to yourself because when you like you you're not you're not just like with work you don't have one foot in your job and if you do we usually feel like it's time to get out. We can't really commit anymore but in your relationship you're still protecting your heart. You're getting hurt. Which is typically row. We have one foot out the door or we're just not sure. Your relationships can last a lot longer in that gray zone but once you decide you know what. I've got nothing to lose. I'm putting both into this relationship. No matter what happens you know you did it all and this could be a mindset like this could just be like you know what i am going all into this. I'm going to like make them. I part of they never thought it can make before. I'm going to open my heart. I'm going to be vulnerable something that i've never talked to a partner. That's how you go all in so really. The theme of going going all in is really just felt like changing your mindset. Just like success is a mind a mind. I'm going to be successful by doing these things anyways. I'm not saying that you have to go all biz in your relationship. These guys should actually have contracts them right this all out. Although it is kind of fun to see the progress you made you know. I think he's still need to be spontaneous. Surprise each other be playful and fun but if you have fond found yourself at this rohbock like our talks aren't going anywhere. I love the idea of bringing a little business into the bedroom. And i'm seeing where it takes you. So i was inspired. I hope you are too. I'm gonna take a quick break. But after i'm taking your calls answering your questions like from ashley who's wondering how to open up her marriage without.
Females on Fire with Hayley Luckadoo
"lisa bill" Discussed on Females on Fire with Hayley Luckadoo
"Is so powerful. I love Alan number 77 from declutter expert author and podcaster, Allie. Casazza, if you don't actually believe, this is who you truly are your attempts to behave. Like the person you want to be will not stick. Number 78, from president of the Joy, Cook PR group. It is Joy Cook. There is no need to downsize your goals, they're all attainable, but to reach them, you must increase your efforts. Number seventy-nine, one of my favorite speakers. She's the co-founder of Quest Nutrition and the founder of women of impact. It's Lisa bill. You folks who says no matter what you do, someone is going to judge, you hate on you and bring you down, don't let that someone. Be you off balance. That one's powerful you guys. I love that one. So much number eighty from coach speaker, author and podcaster, Amberly long ago. Sometimes amazing opportunities are disguised as obstacles in these moments connections are made and resilience is born. Number 81, my good friend business and well-rounded life coach for creatives and podcaster jamyra Pollard. If you are doubting that your gifts are not needed, please be reminded that there is room for you to shine and wage is so right about that, there is room for all of us and do our thing and shine while we do it. You guys number eighty-two from sales and business, strategists Annabelle, bahen, you already have everything you need to start. The question is, will you do the work to make it happen? Number 83, from money coat Taylor Peters in order to get unstuck, you need to be honest with yourself in a mindset is Queen and you need an abundant one. Love that number 84 from co-founder of CEO School writer and Storyteller. Shannon Monson. The problem with Mom, I'll be happy. When is that by the time you reach your goals, you've already set new ones, I feel that one in my bones, you guys. Number 85 from therapist career coach mental health, speaker and author, dr. Lauren she cook when you have a growth mindset, you're more open to possibilities, more confident and you move toward your.
Newsradio 970 WFLA
"lisa bill" Discussed on Newsradio 970 WFLA
"Concert ticket basis, and that's not something that the division or the Department of Health Up here told people to do. In fact, we shut it down. Don't assume that we were made aware of it during an online zoom form hosted by Orlando representative and S Kamani. Moscow would said he's trying to bring some sort of sense to the chaos, including hiring 1000 nurses to help get the vaccine out faster as if a Tuesday count 21,188, Florida residents had died of covert 19, with seniors taking the brunt of the disease. With Florida's news I'm John Conrad thinks is a Fox News alert back to business Sign Lee Scylla. Sarah after prom. Trump protesters stormed the U. S Capitol and enter the chambers of the House and Senate, forcing lawmakers to evacuate. Congress has resumed the process of certifying the presidential election. Fox is Jill NATO Live in D. C. After being forced in the lockdowns dealing with protest tear gas and broken glass. Lawmakers on Capitol Hill got back to work to certify the results of the Electoral College and named Joe Biden is president. House Minority leader Kevin McCarthy says the demonstrations produced the saddest day he's seen in Congress, violence, destruction and chaos We saw earlier was unacceptable. Undemocratic and in America. Several Republicans have planned on objecting to the electoral College. But many of them like Senator Kelly Leffler are saying the violence has changed their opinion and are going to support the results. Lisa Bill President Trump posted a video on Twitter where he told protester to go home. But he continued to push debunked claims of voter fraud. Don't want anybody hurt. It's a very tough period of time. There's never been a time like this. Where Such a thing happened where they could take it away from all of us from me from you from our country. The video has since been taken down by Twitter and other social media outlets, and the president's Twitter account has been suspended over what Twitter said or violations of its civic integrity policy. The first lady's chief of staff, Stephanie Grisham, has announced she stepping down should be issued a statement saying it was an honor to serve the country. She had been on the president's team since 2015 and briefly served as White House press secretary following the departure of Sarah Sanders, even though her resignation came following the breach of the U. S. Cox is gonna Scott America is listening to Fox News. From the mosque, Nissan Traffic Center a few construction projects to watch out for if you're traveling on I 75 between Selman and 60. They will be doing roadwork on both sides of the air state. So watch out for crews in that area. Also over in Pinellas County. Expect some link closures on 118th Avenue between us, 19 and I to 75 on Gandhi between the bridge and Dale Mabry crews are gonna be working all night. So be prepared to reduce your speed in that area, Shutting. Myers News Radio W F L A look.