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Prince William thinks Prince Harry is not safe in LA, more Glee stars respond to Lea Micheles apology, Meghan McCain flees her view of war zone New York City

Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter

21:17 min | 1 year ago

Prince William thinks Prince Harry is not safe in LA, more Glee stars respond to Lea Micheles apology, Meghan McCain flees her view of war zone New York City

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Ask all about Julia Athletic Daughter Emma. They seem like they're really lovely family and they're very very close, and if he's not, he stays with her I think sometimes that had a fabulous has is that's the perks of the? Exact having Julia. Roberts a sister you could borrow her. Fancy has mark have been listening to US weekly. We podcast. What's called US weekly Hot Hollywood? PODCAST I love it. Check it out if you can. It's really really delicious. One time isn't. As Ts Timah. I today. I think this is the cover story of US coming out on Friday. What are you up to? We are diving deep into Harry. New, life and Los Angeles with Meghan Markle. As he's adjusting. He's leaning heavily on his brother William. Who says to a friend's the guy at the token a game? Yes, they're talking and William is actually quite concerned. He's saying that Los Angeles is not a safe place for hard to believe right now. As your listeners as our listeners know, Harry Megan or renting Tyler Perry's eighteen million dollar mansion in Los Angeles, and which sounds like a dream. Does our sources are saying it's actually a nightmare now. If you can imagine, there are drones flying over their home day and night. Paparazzi are spying on them. Neighbors are looking out the window. They WANNA see a glimpse of Harry Megan and the baby, and it's quite terrifying for them, and and so the brother. William is saying come home. Come back to come back to London and be saved top security here. We'll take care of you. And you know Harry but Los Angeles will be this breezy, easy thing, but. It's just not that. Right right on. It always seems green it. Doesn't it the grass on the other side, and although he is in a mansion, you all right. They are in the Paparazzi the photograph capital of the world. The removed photographers in La than anywhere else, and these drones now are wild in Britain is actually a law that you can't fly drones over people's homes, so it's not turning out to be quite as fabulous as he thought it would be. Do you think there's a chance that Hari could actually go back to Britain? I think the only chance of Harry going back to Britain as as a single I. Don't think Megan's ever going back to Bernez. You know the reason why they left. their life as royals is because the press was so off toxic for them, and they were so rough on them, and it turns out. The press is not so nice to them in Los Angeles either. Anywhere in the world. There's no way that these two can hide. Also to what's happening with. Their security is costing them a fortune I. Don't think they've been getting the jobs to actually pay for it. What do you know about that? Totally right rob? So as you know. The pandemic has really caused a lot of problems for the couple. They are not really working right now. The money is drying up and their security bill is outrageous. Outrageous our sources tell us it's over a hundred thousand dollars per month. Just the couple safe and they're not. They're paying this on their own. The UK is not paying for this. Their family is not paying this but I do want to say. The Harry is now in touch with the Queen and the Queen has let him know that if anything happens if he needs help, she is always there for him. That's a good to have. Your grandma is the que- The boss. That's the boss of this family. It is interesting. A lot of reports said that when they came to America, they would be printing dollar bills. They would be bathing in money and it's not happened. He has limited skills. He's a prince and he was in the army, but the jobs haven't actually come flooding in for him, and she's great. She was on suits she was on Taylor. Not which is not Meryl Streep and she's not Angelina Jolie so. So the types of acting role, she's been offered a not really what she thought she would get. I don't top of that. Because of the fame venomous famous couple in the world that security bill must be through the roof. It is mark so I wonder how they're going to balance this. No money's coming in. Always. He's coming guys. Something's got to give so you think it's to be the queen that just keeps writing the checks I. mean I hope for their sake that this pandemic? Allows them to eventually get back to work and get back to normal life but I don't think it's going to be easy I don't know an even when the the virus is gone, fingers crossed. Can Get out in a band. I know the. GonNa come in. This actually brings us to poll question of the day. Prince William has told Harry. The LA is just not safe. Is William being helpful LA, or should he mind his own business, do you? I'm a family member. We will have that Fab Labor that gives us advice might even be good advice, but should they say anything just shut up dylan various on our twitter page at not nice rob or our facebook page, newtie gossip and be sure to check back on our next show to hear your results. This story is blowing up mark. What's going on over at Glee and Leah Michelle is just insane. Insane so Lee Michelle tweet it out some comments about black lives matter and he opened up the floodgate from former cast members who have really revealed. She's actually not that Nice Nee. Rivera my saying that right zero naira. It's actually an IRA niamh Rivera has come forward and her response to to leave. Michelle has been to follow her on social media I J- Mambo Riley has come forward. She did an interview. I love number Riley on clay, amber said she doesn't give a you know water badly Michelle and she wants us to focus back on black lives. Matters actually said they have not spoken in over two years. Later I did reach out to her after this explosion and she wishes well hope she has a great pregnancy, and she also hopes that she grows without a little bit of a data Heather Morris I loved her to Glee. She admitted I ride. She said land was pretty unpleasant to work with and when you disrespect people when you disrespect people for as long as she did, you should be called out on it also to Samantha where who started this off by initially responding to the tweet saying you made my life a living hell. She's reacted saying she didn't really really like the apology. There is a way too many perceive. Wording in that apology for her liking. What is going on Lupo? Rob, I think this is a similar situation. She would happen just a few weeks ago with Ellen Degeneres, you know it just takes one person to open up Pandora's box, and then everyone jumps on the train. You know and I think me and you rob Noah's gossip columnists that the rumors have been going around for very long time about Leia's behavior. This is not a surprise to me or you right rottweiler. We truly trended very carefully about it yesterday when broke, but now that it's out to the bar. Bar and let's be honest. I've heard she's awful. I've just heard from reporters from people that have worked with A. She had a long career on Broadway. I love Broadway show. I know a lot of people on Broadway. My sources have told me she's one of the most difficult people they've ever worked with. Nobody's got a nice word to say about her I. Think you interview to more, didn't you? Into the last year I did last summer and I can tell you without spilling too much of the scenes. Antics it wasn't my favorite. Scene, 'cause you don't really your your dice. Guy Bach new path for you to not like somebody I know. It was awful. I know it was awful. Nobody has a nice way to say. What's interesting is a her friends people that I thought loved Jonathan Groff. Matthew Morrison. Nobody's come forward to defend her I. think it might be a learning moment. The reason this is going to stick is because I think it's true I know it's true from my reporting and hey, maybe it's a moment for her to really sit back and learn. Most people don't, but maybe maybe she will prove us all wrong. Also to just a quick add on rare at producer from the show, a lady called Marty Knock Stan and X. O. N. Marty Nachson. That's how you pronounce. It is claiming there's also some actual layla. Layla on the show. Who are not very nice either. She said quote on Glee. There's a lot of bad actors, not all of them. Women people in the industry. Know who I'm talking about so now she's deleted tweets never good saw in and asking her to clarify which she did. And she added when she said bad actors what she was actually referring to was people around the show in general, so we're all trying to figure out WHO's a bad guy in the cast. It might actually be somebody behind the scenes this story mark. Not, going to go anywhere I think the truth is GonNa. Come out what do you think? Agree I'm here for it I'm watching it as unfolds yet. Oh! I'm living in what's going on with them? Making came. Yes, this story is pretty. It's pretty outrageous. Megan McCain is has fled new. York City. Let me explain so as you know. Megan, McCain was mocked for. The damage done to her neighborhood by protesters, but our friends at page six have revealed that the view co-host isn't even in New York. City she. tweets. Street, so she sent tweets out a couple of times get. What did she say she did she's. She tweeted out my neighborhood in Manhattan. Is this rated and looks like? Zone. But here's where it gets really interesting, so Megan's neighbor saw the tweet and commented back saying. Meghan we live in the same building and I just walked outside. It's fine, and that's when we will. Often I should have to rotate. Just say we're not laughing over damage to property. We're certainly not doing that on this show. We're taking it very seriously. However, her neighbor just called her out, so she said. said naked. We live in the same building at it's fine and nine page six revealed she wasn't even in the building Marc. She's she's Virginia right, so she's actually at her family's home in Virginia Far Away from all the troubles in new. York City She quit she then later tweeted to clarify. Saying I sent a tweet yesterday based on the news I saw happening in midtown. What do you? Think? You should have said that when you tweeted like you said I'm sitting at home in the Gina. I'm seeing your ripped apart. It's breaking my heart, and I wish everybody the best, but what bothers me about? This is just a little bit. Shady wasn't quite truthful and somebody that works for ABC News should know better in very very distant way. This reminded me a little bit of Kappa Talkin as if she was in New York and she wasn't. She's in the Carribean mind. Honestly you say whatever you want, but don't try to try to Fula. It felt like. It felt like somebody was trying to pull the wool over my eyes. I think that's what bugged me about about this one. Also tell you quickly before we go to break. Sean Robertson from access Hollywood is calling I billy Bush and the day of calling people out of this show, so billy Bush tweeted out his support of black lives, matter and sean sort of Said I. Appreciate your an ally now. But if you WANNA talk about white privilege, you should probably talk to the black woman who sat next to you on the set of access Hollywood for. Wa. It's so easy to just tweeted `support, but really actions are more important than our words and I think that's what all of this is about, and that's what's going on right now. We're GONNA. Take a quick break. We'll be right back. Gossip lovers I'm here to tell you about a new dish. She podcast the I. Just can't get enough of. It's called we here and he's from the New York Post legendary gossip column page six. It kills me this this. But nobody nobody baby doc even media reports on celebrities than they do. The podcast is hosted by my old friend. Maggie Coughlan and Ian Moore they bring you the latest, the hottest news sightings and exclusive. It's an absolute riot, and I should know because I've been on the show as a guest. New episodes drop every Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, and you can find it on iheartradio apple podcasts all the usual places or visit page six dot com slash podcast. Check it out. And welcome to the Naughty but nice show with my friend. Matt Lupo from US Weekly. Let's get to the polls that. Very official, so the results are in yesterday. We talked about Michelle broke her silence after the accusations that were leveled at her from cast mates. Do you think she's actually sorry or do you think she's sorry because she was caught? The results are in so a whopping while a whopping eighty. Six percent of you think she was cold. Only thirteen percent thing she was actually sorry. What do you think more or I'm kind of with the audience on this live she has. Not. Sorry you go cool. Let's have a little look on facebook. See what you're saying Marie. Hello Maria know when someone uses the word perceived as part of their apology, it really an apology. That's a very good point. Also today Rachel Goldberg, Rachel. No, she's not sorry. She lost money. That's right. She did lose an endorsement deal after this. Don't forget it to vote on today's poll. You can go to our twitter page at Naughty Nice, rob, or our facebook page naughty. And check back on our next show to hear you'll results, and now let's move a loan to our nicest of the day all A-. Rob Will. This is an especially nice story I'm happy to share with you. Make Him. Markle has broken her silence on the killing of George Floyd now. Megan surprised the immaculate heart students with a five minute address for their graduation in the speech which I know. We both washed this morning. It was promotional. She had tears in her eyes It was really heartfelt. She sets the students. Quote the first thing I want to say to. You. Is that I'm sorry? I'm so sorry. You have to grow up in a world where this is still present. She said you know with conviction. She wants to let the world know where she stands rob. What do you think amazing? It's amazing. She has not spoken since she left. The royal family really hasn't that's been no. No public speeches for her to decide. This is going to be the first thing she's going to talk about it. He's very telling she's very very smart. She knows what she's doing. And I truly believe as a woman of color. This is so important to her. In that five minute address mall, she talked about growing up in La during the riots as a young girl, and she was twelve eleven twelve, it was really painful, and not that much has changed. Watch. This speech Meghan Markle. You are nicest of the day Yep and now and not s nudity of. Dorothy door to door didn't wild. Bravo, you're not is the day because you teased me. You did it in such, did not way said Bravo has released a season trailer for the real housewives of Beverly Hills I'm never heard of such a thing. midseason trailer will they did it and it's. Juicy Brandi glanville claims in this trailer. That Denise Richards said her husband can never know that they actually hooked up. It's wild, so the footage is of lavish parties. The Gills are in Rome. It's Glorious and an Inbox Brandi Glanville and she drops it like it's hot and she reveals that she antony's had sex. She said a different word that we do on this show. She also denise Toltar- The next morning. When they woke up together at a husband can never know about this. We should point out denise denying all these reports that they ever hooked up also to in the trailer for the first time ever rather breaks the fourth wall and has Denise Screaming Bravo Choice. Choice if they want meal on the show this had to. This has to be cut out I. Never seen the housewives do that before they don't think may have. This is the first time I think. Yeah, for sure, yeah, what does this mean when somebody when we're in the show breaks the fourth wall. Do you like it or is this something that you think is quite cool? What do you think why me and you both love? The behind the scenes kind of women, a lot of a show of any show and I think this gives us something more entertaining than different. The show like you said it's been on for ten years. It's hundred freshmen and out. Yeah when we say, break the fourth wall, people some people don't know about that means I didn't at first what it means is it? Lets you in on the fact, it's a TV show so. I think it was access Hollywood during the the show when they pulled out for commercial breaks, they actually showed the camera in the shot to let you know it was a TV show. That's breaking the fourth. It tells you you were watching TV. Show probably wants you to forget that. It's actually a TV show and you're. You're just watching them said this has done the opposite. I think this works. They should give us even more behind the scenes. Brother, though you are a notice of the diving is this? This tease is too much. It's too good, and now it's time for a moment of rob. You get abruptly Aurora we probably. WanNa rob your amongst this. This tired I. You tired of Doubting Yourself. It's time to break the pattern. It doesn't matter who taught you there. It doesn't matter if your mom your dad about also bully, a boyfriend and girlfriend. You can learn to break the patent. This is important Mr. That's all it is. You taught this. Somebody taught you doubt yourself and if they told you to do it, it means you can stop to break the pattern. Hey, mark, thank you so much for being here today. We love having you with us once a week. Also everybody check out US weekly's Hollywood podcast. That's it for this week. Thank you so much for listening to naughty been is with rob shooter production of iheartradio don't forget to subscribe on the iheartradio APP, apple podcasts, or wherever you. You listen and he was a review. A special thanks to producers. Mary, do our executive producer Christina. Ever is an editing help from Josh Fisher also, we want to thank Nikki. E Tour will piercer man cash ticket, all and everybody at Iheart who helped bring this show to your ears and a very special. 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Mask Rage, Space The Final Funktier 6.30.20

The Daily Zeitgeist

1:06:23 hr | 11 months ago

Mask Rage, Space The Final Funktier 6.30.20

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Yeah, I think I'd marry Klopp Dad four thousand now. I'm? Not Decided to take his last name. Name. Thousand. While we are thrilled to be joined in third seats size. The narrative is an talented. Thank you so much for having me Jack. What a great surprise as Always wanted to killed at least in the house. It's great to have you back a how how is essential distancing? How's how's this whole pandemic? Treating I mean I, love social distancing. It was sort of my lifestyle before, but now it's you know people are in support of it, so I feel kind of validated. I like my home. I like my space. Home. We can see inside your apartment. And just from a young age. I've never wanted to live with a partner. So it's yeah, just just me and in good vibes. I guess. Tiger Tiger head the killed I caught in killing. Yeah. Well, you know what the toy. District downtown is right by skid row, so it really was a form of hunting you know. So Yeah, there's my, Tiger I was saying on here before we started that. I realized I live like a bachelor like I have a pan that just cooks eggs that. I got up as seen on TV and I was like. I need to like warm in this space up like if you came into my apartment, you would know who lived here. Why Guess I have very large photos of myself around so I. Guess You live. Personality the place has no. Other than that crazy woman who likes to have large photos of herself? You love that though why not you have. The giant life sized portrait painting oil painting behind you of yourself You're looking at right now. Imagine guy from seeing double. Imagine from White Chicks Terry crews problematic as later with the for, and he's up that big. Yeah. That's what I want. That's what I that's what I have to have. Only God I've got A. Bunch of furs. I've agreed one that I got before the the endemic, not not real for, but she kill borocce will. Talk! So, animals, they're all just endangered around me. It was. Glamorous Alaikum. SAYS WE'RE GONNA get to know you. Better in a moment first we're getting. Tell our listeners a couple things we're talking about today. We're GONNA talk about the Supreme Court striking down a that illegal abortion restriction of Louisiana. We're GONNA. Talk about trump tweeting a video of one of his supporters, shouting white power at protesters, a somehow missed the first three seconds of that video of because that's what happened to the truth. Three seconds I'M GONNA ask the question. Why are people so mad about wearing masts throughout this country? I'm curious to get you guys as thoughts on that We're GONNA. Apparently. Space smells like Shit, so we're GONNA. Talk about that. We're GONNA. Talk about parlay the right wing. Social Media APP. Should just be pronounced parlor, but for some reason they want with the pronunciation to fuck with their their base book I physically like task our guests. What is something from your search history that is revealing about? All. This was fun, so it was actually Google image search and. I. It was a basically the president of the United States I just wanted to remind myself. That is like all white men. It's like a really striking image. It's kind kinda creepy. It's just like it looks like because like forty percent of America is like non white so like to have. Forty four white men over the course of light, what two hundred and forty four years is and so I just? It's a striking image. I wanted to see it well. There's some diversity of facial hair there you know. Talk. Couple of chinstrap beards. Mustaches so. City in the in the white male demographic, some of the guys weren't completely gray when they entered office. So those them some diversity there like with their Bill Simmons diversity his his writer's room as diverse. In thoughts. stuyvesant thought. I. Don't think we have had a blonde president. That's a great question like a Robert Redford or Its trump technically blonde, or is he? You know what? I think he is blond. I think he's like strawberry. Blonde, Oh my God this is why we shouldn't have blonde. We we elected like eighties. Movies were right on. Guys are all like evil villain than we elected. Want him look at it. I look at a reason why like every time Satan is personified as a human or Boris? Blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm GonNa, do Google like the president of the US Mike Looking at colored paper that it's like super creepy. Yeah, it's wild. It looks like a bunch of clone graph. Have you seen The artists to I don't know why this made me think of that, but the artist who paints herself having sex with all the different presidents. I have never heard this woman. What the Hell Yeah! It's pretty great. is she doing different positions with the president? Mussa give her in. Who's WHO's a taker? That's I WANNA know. What these who who's a generous lover. Obama's would be good. Yeah, except I think it's a lot of the older ones like not Obama which tabby. Taft fucking. Terrible. Yuck anyone's yum, you know maybe. While there are some people want to see a little jiggle you know I mean. Just was not attractive to me and got nothing to do with his weight. I I what she has Lincoln with the head on like this. That's a great question. I would make him. The artist name is Justin Lie it is amazing. How many of the People Taft she has one where she's like kind of being held delicately in the arms of a rather large bald man But she's also. Has George Washington there A. Big. I know with the router. White wigs alley the WIG ON WIG on. Weekdays on what I mean. Yeah, absolutely. Can you imagine they take? Just all like netted. Only, Gray Hair, do they? Can it down? What was your technology the week, do they? They didn't have lace fronts back then. It was. This smell. Wobbling around up there as I read somewhere that it was also like if you had syphilis, you would just wear way so that people didn't know you. Know Yeah I don't know are definitely fact. Check guys 'cause. But. I like I think it was a TV show that was in. Interesting Damn. That's that's how Lacey's got it right now I think one of the many TV shows that were then. visit, what is something you think is underrated. I think sleep is underrated. Good quality sleep like charging your battery. Do One hundred percent. Yeah, and like beyond you know those like battery charger. Were there like you gotta keep charging leave once it hits a hundred. Yes, that's how I feel about sleep. Let's keep going. Yeah, that's the Nice thing about quarantine is like you can get so much more sleep well. Some of some of us have been working with entire time so I don't want to say that for everyone, but at least for me like obviously open. I love it I. Love It. When like don't sleep. It affects my person. I'm like a different person, emotional and social interactions or just jacked up. Yeah, sure to sleep last night, might you? You seem refreshed I. Do got a great energy about you. Thank you. Yeah. I feel like so much of our brain. We like don't have access to like. We have access to like five cent of what is happening in our brain, just like consciousness wise, and so like all that stuff that's happening behind closed doors is like malfunctioning Don't have sleep and we don't realize it I think so you guys get sleep. Rest up What is something you think is overrated? The rat race. In Hollywood. It's just like what's the point. What's the goal especially after quarantine? You're sort of seeing how unnecessary allowed. That was a lot of like behaviors for me or like. Just. Like work ethic behaviors just sort of. Not Getting the sleep I near here, you're not team no sleep. You're not on about that grime life I'm not. I'll sleep when I'm dead, because that's not how sleepworks yeah together nicely where you dead. Your Dad like you need sleep when you're dead, so don't bother and you might get to death faster because you aren't sleeping. Yeah, causes, Heart, disease and shit. Right yeah, it's very very bad for you. Allowed to say the word you are. Share word I feel like our people kinda opening up I know other countries are is like Hollywood opening backup, and like starting good produce stuff. They scaled back again, so they opened up, I think they did it because they wanted to suppress protests, and then everyone back to you know being overworked overtired. Get back in the rat race, but now people are getting sick again, so they just closed bars again in Hollywood. And they were, it was crazy. I, remember like the day of one of the last protest that I went to It was one of those twenty thousand people, not the pride one, but one right before that one, and there were lines around the block for these bars like for people. They were like well. Fuck it I. Mean we was that the protests? Now? We Tequila. No now you was. Breathing the everyone's breathing, each other's air like might be filtered through that, but like how can and. You know what I'm saying like. It's crazy. Yeah, apparently, you're safer outside. I have two friends who got Kovic who live in Texas? and I'm pretty sure they're both from being out at bars. One I know for sure my little sister I don't even know why said friends. My little sister was out at the bar at Brunch. And immediately got cova champing quarantining for so long, and just like immediately huckaphony. She took the indoor seat. Real, strong. Yeah I think everyone was inside sitting for branch and you know Greg Abbott had opened up Texas and This was a couple of weeks after they'd opened up, so people were thinking like Oh, you know. Maybe it is really safe. And then she went out one time and got Kofi. And she's great. She's not. She's like pretty low on the symptom scale, so I'm happy that she's GonNa pull through, but I felt so bad. She was like no. It was a reckless decision because I was like no, you were. Were you outside? She was like no I was inside. I was like Oh, well, was it like not a lot of people then writes who knows Wildwood Pack Oh. Okay okay! Okay, okay, so we'll. See 'cause like how many people in that room has have covert is just gonNA spread exponentially right? Everyone has to have had covert after they left. Breads won't yet Texas's Texas him Florida or having like really bad numbers Esau. A my wife is Dr Shoes like looking at research. We saying that like it's not as bad. That's because like the when they test people. The viral load lower but I think it's just 'cause like more young people are getting it like. That, but that's still not good like we're. It's still being spread in like more old people are now going to get it because young people got it. And it's happening during the summer. Also, which is which is Kinda scary, so maybe it's not as lethal as it was, but I mean. Wait till like you know the weather changes in her. You know. Let's see how people's immune systems respond to it. It was horrible in March were twenty year olds three dying from this shit. Shit word you know we. We really need to do something about that visit. It's getting out of hand That's the second one. Jack. I I don't know I mean I don't know if did you lose any sponsors, are they? Left! The coat the coke brothers coke industries actually just backed out. Unfortunately, they weren't they weren't. By the fuck. The coke brothers the beginning. They loved that they were like advertisement. Fuck. They take Sommese fuck. Amazing to think back to like the beginning of the pandemic when the thing that we were all worried about was like washing your hands and staying inside, and now it's like go outside. If you're going to see people in where fucking mass like wear, a mask will is like the eleventh. Thank and they're like. Maybe don't wear masks. Because healthcare workers need it and it. Turns out. They were wrong about a lot of stuff. It's like. Have we just boggled this worse than every other country? When we had a head start, we decided not to take it. Leadership and then we just made every horrible like every horrible decision, because it's America's are so fucking hard headed and selfish, and it's that thing of like. If O we stopped the problem by staying inside Oh then the problem was real in the first place. Let's all get outside. Kids outside kidsbuckleup cope, and it's like okay. Let's go back to what we were doing before. Got To touch. That stove may be glowing red, maybe titus. Stove was hot. Stove is a flame y'all and we saw it. Fake News can't trust China fake. News Italy also in on it. Just like how many people does everyone have to bury someone to like understand? This is real everyone in my family's healthcare worker so. which is kind of stereo typical but whatever? But so it's like I've been hearing frontline stories, and it's just it's just frustrating to see people undermine it. Yeah Way when you read the stories from the front lines or talk to people who've worked on the front lines it's. Absolutely, not a joke on. What what is what's a myth finally? What's something? People take as tree notably. Call Surveys I. This is okay, so women especially of color paid fairly in Hollywood, so that's my myth And actually lacy I'd like to hear your perspective on this, but like I know for a fact that an actress woman of color was paid less than a male co star who is lower than her on the call sheet, and they have the same reps. this happens all the time i. mean you guys remember that Sony leak that Sony Hack back in eighteen inch. Talk about constantly like the the like institutional racism in. In those emails and all, and not just that, but like the way that they justify to themselves as the producer who was like Denzel is my favorite actor, but we can't make equalizer to and like that sticks reflected at every level like I always bring back the Denzel thing, 'cause. That's what stuck out to me, but you know that that sort of thinking is at every level. Read Right, and it's never because. Like in other industries institutionalized racism is kind of like well. The black people just aren't as smart are we just had to hire them? Because you know optics, where and then they end up having to work a billion times harder to even just be there than somebody who sat on their fucking ass the entire time that they had that job not to say that there aren't why. Why people who are working hard or very smart, they just don't realize how much harder we have to work to even be considered like we have to be exceptional so an entertainment. It's like come on black people such heavy handed influence in entertainment to pay anybody less to play. Any black person less is absolutely insane. Because all you do is steal from us all you do. Do is steal from us, so I mean personally I obviously can't speak to. If I'm making more or less money than my counterparts When I worked on Florida girls, we were favored nations, and I think that I mean, but we're fucking women and we're great. You know so, we we're not. We have no problem with being favored nations. We think that that's wonderful, however on other. Other shows I don't know very shark aggressive lawyer, though and she's out here on the on the streets in the tea, and she's always like pushing for me to get more money, so I hope that I am, but I. There's no way to know you know. She found out by accident. My friend she just I think he mentioned it in conversation. She's like wait what. I wish more men would just mention it in conversation. It's part of this region. Why we never fucking know. Yeah, yeah, I mean more transparency would be great. I? Know that public companies have to be transparent about. Not that that has stopped them from paying themselves obscene amounts of money, but yeah like that's transparency would help especially at this moment when people are actually paying attention. Focusing on accountability right and also being higher on the call sheets like I I guess for everyone who's not in Hollywood like that is something so you get ranked by where usually how famous you are, or how involved you are in the show, so if you're number one, you're the lead of the show. You're probably in most scenes like a performing the most in the show and what's crazy. The last show that I was on I was number one. It's like something that's GonNa. Come out on a platform that I don't WanNa say and I was treated horribly I was treated like I was an extra. There would be days where I would get no food. All the extras ate the food and I've been sitting in hair makeup since five am. I stay. D would push me. Physically pushed me to mark even though I was walking there one time. And he broke his fall on me. Can you imagine being on a set where I'm not fucking Nicole Kidman, but can you imagine being the Coal Kidman and? or eighty trips and it was like. Let me break my own goal Kidman. They treated me like garbage. I went to the hospital. It was just a nightmare experience. Black I didn't get to be special or number. One was I I number one on the call sheet I was so excited about it, and they treated me like a goddamn slave so. About it I can't even say who it is or what you know what I mean like trying not to lose my job being I guess I have to let this man push me until an actor came on set. WHO's a wonderful wonderful man? I can't say who because you might be able to figure this out. And he looked at me and he was like Babe. Why are they treating you like this? This is not okay. Do you want me to say something? He was like you have to say so. Another actor, yes, and he works he's. He's on a different Shaw, but he was just guesting for the day as kind of really a favor, and he was like sweet. No, you can't. This can't stand and so finally in public. I was like. Please stop pushing me. At, least see yeah, so it's bad out here bill. Easy I, mean I think in general Hollywood has been I mean as we're seeing a lot of the sexual assaults that are coming to light that Hollywood has been a place where they've sort of taken advantage of the fact that there's not a lot of accountability, and like bullies have thrived on that sort of thing and I think there's also a tendency for. People who treat other people like Shit. That's almost a sign of. While they must be counted. To be able to get away with that. Michelle had to. That and I'd heard that from people who worked with her on different sets. They were like she's my nightmare. person like she was the worst person I've ever worked with, and this is from black folks that I know who are like. Don't ever say anything that don't say I told you so then when people started saying it on twitter I was like Holy Sh-. Was Eleven I was cackling. ME. Wow. Yes for people who didn't follow that story. Lee Michelle from Glee. Probably! Most people but Elian was lead ugly just apparently. Aggressively cartoonish Lee mean any. Onset. Glad near Wig. Sitting here wig see a cartoon village. Like not even a well written one like the the edges weren't rounded. It was just like. Yeah! Probably was really entertaining. You're like wow, this person is berate is awful. This is crazy. Wasn't a straight up workplace. Exactly like seper entertaining, but then it's like. Until you're sort of like the but fit like you're at right. You know at the end of her behavior, and then it's just enabled. Yeah, yeah, totally encouraged allowed at the worst. That's just Leeann Leeann. Late Lacey I wish you. I wish. We got some diva lacy, or you had the opportunity to have some diva lacy on that set where you were on at the top of the call she lay not only cannot be shitty. I have to worry that I'm being difficult. If I'm like Hey, can this man stop putting his hands on me? That could happen. And, they're like. Oh you know you uppity Negro. Get outta here is another one. No one I'll even notice. Right. How? He speak to like the diversity of the like crew, and like the people who are working on the cell. It's all white. You never really have diverse cruise. Even if the front of the camera is a diverse, it's rare that behind the camera. It's diverse, and that's why we have so many issues with lighting and makeup and hair is because like there's never really I keep my hair always styled I. really go to a set where they have to do much to my hair because I just I would never dream of. Of coming in with an Afro, my God, are you kidding me? I'd look terrible looked like. I was in twelve years asleep Yeah, there's just and I mean we're working on it, but unfortunately everything seems to always fall on the shoulders of us. It's like we have to fix the problem. We didn't make in every aspect of our lives which I've been doing now. In every aspect of my life with you, see the comedy theater that I came about fully doing an overhaul there and it's like all this free labor. To make people not racist. Yeah and I think that that's you know. When white people are asking their black friends like what should I do? What should I re-? It's like Labor. You're asking them to do that. They're not compensated for that nuts. Exhausting right if you WANNA ask your black friend about race. Cash out the fifty dollars I. Even. Right and even can only be ten minutes because that's not enough for a full course. Yeah, I'd like pay tuition if you. The entitlement at all you know Yeah Yeah entitlement is a great word. that. We're going to run into when we come back from this break outs. Take a quick break. We'll be right back. And we're back and Lazier just mentioning that Dilbert is still trending. Scott Adams can is claiming that he was fired for being a weight. At some point, yes, he he said on twitter. I lost my TV show for being white when UPN decided it would focus on an African American audience. That was the third job I lost being Hawaii. The other two in corporate America. They told me directly get out of here. Why now he didn't last part, but. Why do like white supremacist always pronounced with an H in front of it? Why? Why always? I need them to keep doing that because that's how I can find them. But, obviously he's trying to blame black people for losing dilbert when it was like the show, I love the cartoon and then like the show Kinda, didn't it had no audience and That's how TV shows work like there's so many white networks I could have picked it up if it was good. Yeah, story Scott Adams I came across my name right, Scott. I came across my radar. Because there is this profile of him where they like, went and visited him after you know, he had become a multimillionaire. Sitting around his dog, burt shaped pool and he was like telling the story about how like the woman waiting on them was his ex wife, who had been become his personal assistant unlike waited on him and his new wife, and he talked about how he like forgot or lost the ability to speak for like a year, and just like the strangest like neurological, like very very odd odd stuff, and also like a very manipulative human being right. That's crazy like so yo ex wife is. Like a car. Can you go to the kitchen and fridge me and my new wife some condoms? Grazie, he already like had sort of a cult leader, even though there are only a handful of people in his and then it seems like as things progressed. He's tried to parlay Dilbert into a sort of white supremacists misogynistic cult. That's like based on all of his followers. Wow! Strange and terrifying human being. I mean I like the Barstool. Sports is like low key like doing that. They're like. Their audience. They're like no. I can't be cancelled because my audience loves racism I'm like Brad is an excellent scam. They're like look WHO's. Blacks aren't listening to my show. That's why you didn't know it was racist. 'CAUSE you're listening. That is kind of an interesting game to play like what? Currently kind of mainstreamed or just sort of accepted a tolerated brands will become the next Donald Trump. Today's. Cult suicide cult of personality. Raising the gone with Sharman. Those red bears some. On on. Racist gotTa Shit too okay. But you. Question J. K. Rowling head a different way. You could deal with shit which was just make banished from your. ASSHOLE. Her her theory of why they didn't need to the wizard world. But then? A sidebar as a fantasy. That is just uh. Man, my one true wish. But let's talk about the person who is currently occupying that a cult leader status that Donald Trump. There was a protest where people in Florida a lot of lake. Old Way people get out there and protesting a parade that a bunch of other old wet. Floridians were having to celebrate Donald Trump's birthday on. So there's video of these people going around on golf carts Sad. And then you know people yelling at them, and like three seconds in one of the people protesting like you guys are racists for supporting trump, and the person shouts back. Yeah, white power, white power that's like the one of first things you sear in the video and the president. Re tweeted it was like thank you to the great people of the villages, which is the retirement community that the the people in the golf carts her from he eventually deleted it, but I don't know it's just Thomas Getting boring to keep showing all the open white supremacy coming his twitter account. How much you sustain outrage like you'd be emotionally just depleted. It. Yeah, and that's the point I mean. That's why the police officers have been driving around, but neighborhoods at three am because it's like we've gotta get you fatigued. Like got tired and trump has done that he's done. I. I feel like running a marathon since two thousand sixteen. At this point. Yeah, he is tweeting like what they are I mean. He could just get on twitter and say nigger with the harder and I'd be like well I. Mean He's stood president. I'll know. Jabber Nothing, we can do we. Have to be. Held accountable for anything like just continues failing upwards I. Mean That's the question is whether he's going to be held accountable. This reelection on I think the mainstream media. There's like sort of A. A wave of energy that people are like man. He's really doing badly at the polls. This is all like a lot of things are. Starting to turn against him, there's also the Russia story that recently came out where Russia had been. Putting bounties on soldiers, basically paying a Afghan fighters to kill US soldiers, and he and his administration knew about it Anything about it and you know it's almost like all these different things that are the main things that have been able to puncture his support. The Russian thing like after the stinky in Helsinki, happens with Putin next to him, and he liked totally fucked it up. You know his support went down in Charlottesville was the other time in his like leaning into the racism, so it's almost like I don't know people are feeling good. had feel I feel. Cautiously cautiously optimistic. I think he's just hoping that. There's enough racism to get him through this next election, so he's really doubling down it now because he's like these are my people. These are all I have laughed because I think that most conservative or conservatives who are aren't like fucking crazy which a lot of them are, but the ones who are not wildly insane a home. They're like we can't continue to vote for this chaos. Chaos and it's not even because of the racism. They just can't vote for him because they're like. We don't know what he's going to do. And he's killing us, so they're just like online like look. We don't care about black the browns. We never have where conservatives, but we do care about our money. We care about the fact that we got one stimulus. Check and that this man is out here, trying to fight the sun and. We do care about that. I mean. It's like look at are these are choices. The two parties once conservative in pretends to be good and the other one's more conservative in. They're like we don't give a fuck and everyone else is like. We can't do anything about it. Right me. The parties helping us they. It's just that one is appealing. Liberals appeal to your moral high ground, even though there's so much racism amongst liberals, and then you know, and then they don't get the shit down that they're supposed to and. Liberals right because they not really about their life and I mean look at us right now. We have to vote for Joe Biden Guys I. Think I'm going to start some merch for Joe Biden I don't want to vote for him and I know. You don't want from either, but we don't have a choice and Joe Biden said you know what if the cops stop shooting people in the heart and started shooting them in the leg. So I propose leg twenty twenty. Or guys who just WanNa get shot in the leg. It's better than. Twenty twenty, just weighing me. I think that's something we can all get excited about. You know what I mean. It's not the heart. I mean. I'm even new police. Officers were like you're supposed to shoot to kill like. Why do you have to shoot? Anytime you draw a weapon. You're supposed to shoot to kill I. Don't know why I think it's like if you maim, and then they shoot you, and then you got, so you gotta shoot to kill it. It's something like that but leg twenty twenty is really you know the movement that would change. There's no in the legs. Are you can't be can't bleed to death based on a mistake that frank up you see. This man is just hanging. That's. 'cause we get gems leg leg twenty twenty every time he talks like Joe Biden knows that he can just silently ride this to the finish line, and honestly I think it's the best decision ever like we don't understand the climate that's happening outside of twitter facebook, and that silent majority that Donald Trump talks about Israel. We're just praying that. They're on our side this time because I remember, we were arguing about Bernie. Arguing about warned me auto people was like Joe Bads Aga, and we weren't doing anything Joe by not a Beep, and then all of a sudden, he just showed up to the primary was like Heo y'all. Sued. Kale Yeah Do. You, go shoot him in the. New Heart Jack. Calls Everyone Jack Right I mean it's just that story about him. See. It's like a hate even talking about it because it's just like we need someone that's not trump to win and seems like that's our auction, but like the story of him like you know basically fingering an employee is like that. Solving yet, we. Yet I'm going to vote for this. I mean I. Guess I do but but. Shit! It's terrible. It's terrible for women and I feel so bad for survivors, women and men because basically we had to tell Tara read. Hey, says we believe you, but also dying so leg twenty twenty like. Fuck. Fuck, so we have to be like we got gotTa vote for this book. Creepy. Joe. Also, he's up. Falange Predator and sexual assaulter. We gotTa vote for him because he got less rapes. DidN'T DONALD TRUMP has. Twenty five this. Sophie's Choice Shit. Some reader is. All. Off It's horrible and I feel so bad for survivors. 'cause I know if you have to go in there and check that box and know that you're voting for someone who is assaulted someone. That's staff stating and I can understand why they wouldn't want to vote but please if you can please vote. We don't want to vote either. Get US excited. Nobody wants to vote. Should just come out and beat that I think we if that was his campaign, our respected more look. No. I only won't be here y'all don't want me to be here. But I'm going to pursue Kowit. Look I may diagnose the so my advice president. y'All y'all fuck with her. Yeah I mean Sunny Constellation. He is like sort of the sun is setting right. You know he's like forgetting words and stuff, so it's like he's essentially going to be a puppet for whoever? Gets the Democratic Party. Yeah, I'm curious I mean that's the best we can hope for. So the trump's bullying thing. He's like bullied his way through life and had great success to this point. Because America's completely broken I, I'm wondering. Teams like it's starting to stop working because he's actually in charge of stuff when we can just see his results. You. Know, people. Like a bully after they start being like fucking out that everybody can see it, they start looking pathetic and like out of touch, and I'm hoping that's what's happening, but I don't know like people have pointed out that he's at the same point. He was in the summer before the two thousand sixteen election basically. Yeah, it's like sort of. You have seen that movie. Job Breaker I n rose McGowan at the L. K. Well. She's basically like a big mean girl in a bully. She kills someone as she's exposed the end, and just like the image of her just sort of finally getting her just desserts and like it. Like the Harvey Weinstein thing he's been treating people like garbage for leg decades and decades, and everyone just accepted it, and then me to happen, and suddenly you know the public is like Oh rapists are bad. They're bad unless you, but not that bad because. Women are mostly effective, so it was bad bad, but it's Kinda bad. Right and God when Donald Trump opens, his mouth is just. There's too many quotes like he literally said. Look. If I went to DC like seventeen times now, I'm the president and we were like. Yeah, it's not that we hate the how. We hate that. It feels like Donald Trump is on a live television show where they had to cut back to studio early, and he's just has the stall. That's how every time he talks. That's how it says he's like Oh. Yeah, experience are very good work. How many letters in that words such good tasty word? The, best it always, it always seems like there's someone off to the side. Just making Shrek. I'll stretch out both. Go and we're having technical difficulties. Till paying attention to you and was asking them to stretch out under just like just say very in front of every adjective. Just say more very very very good. W Roy Count? Like the learning to double space your papers. Using bigger. He hard right now. Our trump using seventy two right now just kind of. The, President like. Yeah I feel like they both like both of their campaigns are probably like the less we can have this person be in public the. Wiggins like a campaign of who can hide their candidate the best? It's even. Knows how to hide. Because, even just like going out at a rally isn't working anymore. He's like starting to look weakens. You know yeah. They said they're going to be one hundred thousand people at that Rally Tulsa they did you guys talk about how they were removing the social distancing stickers in no woolen so in Tulsa. Trump staffers. Basically there is a program that was put in place at this stadium could open and that they could have this rally in a part of that. That program one of the stipulations was that they had to social distance, so they had stickers. The stadium in Tulsa that was they were putting in between each chair. Like please don't sit here. Please don't sit here and then trump staffers physically removed the stickers and there's video of it. They were physically removing these stickers. Billboard broke the story of all places. Base to die before November. Crazy You meet them alive with at least until November. I mean because like they say. Kobe can kill you like very quickly, so it's really everything's so short sighted in stupid like there's no. There's no logic behind any of these choices. It's all just as feelings. He's feelings his opinions. No one gives a fuck. Awkward. Yeah, yeah we! We open every episode where. I just can't. Being such a deep narcissist that I will ruin the world, so that I can look just look good for vanity. It's not even like he's doing a lot of cash. Grabbing his kids are but like. It's just a vanity thing for him. He's going to destroy the world because we don't like him. Yeah. Yeah that, so that's the thing. Is that like he? The? Tulsa rally really proved that like He. There's no you know softening of his stance or like his racism It's only going to get more severe. In response to the fact that like people aren't showing up or people. You know the more There's pushback more that there's like signs that he's losing harder. He's GonNa push because that's the only thing he knows how to do because he's the bulletin. It doesn't seem like it should work, but who the hell knows. It didn't seem like at work in two thousand sixteen. I do want to talk about the social distancing thing and the anger over people wearing masks like we've talked about it here and there and. There's plenty of videos like people going into grocery stores without masks like fighting the security guards. Like they don't want to wear a mask and. You know the thing that seems so obvious to me May and you guys. Is You know we should just set top like common sense would dictate. We refuse to wear a mask. You're doing the equivalent of like not just not wearing a seat belt, but also not allowing anyone in your car to wear a seatbelt and also anyone who passes you on the road to not wear a seatbelt. It's like an insanely selfish reckless violation of the social contract, but there there seems to be. A whole group of the population for whom this has become politicized and they're just. Like I don't think they're. Dumber inherently I think that they are being. Lied to in a way that I don't know and I and I also think that the idea that like the way we're dealing with it on our side by posting videos and like dunking on house today are. Probably not helping because it's. I think the agreement that drove them into the arms of like Fox News and Donald Trump. The first place was at least partially mainstream. You know quote, liberal culture, a not taking them serious as human beings yeah like. They tend to shame. So the cure for errands is is knowledge right teaching so of just writing them off its just like dehumanizing. Ingram and that's also because liberals got all the pop in people. We got all the entertainers really like the good ones. We got all the COMEDIANS. We got like you know. We have the intellectuals. The people who went to college like so we all you know sometimes that does backfire where it's like we have this elitism, and then we already think you're stupid garbage and you act that way so instead of being like Oh. We're really need you to wear this mask and like. Please just do it for the country. We're like Oh look at this bid. She got on a BB t shirt at her. Her eyebrows from two thousand one who is. Like. My two thousand and one. We're not cute. They were barely there like took A. Two thousand one. Do that! Why don't we do that? And that's like almost a direct quote from tweet about the lady in North Hollywood. These. Eyebrows, two thousand one and I was like He. Opted in and. You're right. It's like we we're we're. We're kind of. We're very mean to conservatives and we're good at. We're better at it than they are like. They just have like racism. which that's old guys, you can be like all right black. We're like ooh. I'm black. You could call him. Right. They don't. They don't really good at dunking like look at Tommy Lauren anytime. She tries to repose something. It's just never I'm never like Oh, now a good one, tammy. So yeah. And but I think that like we are comfortable in our bubble of superior dumping. Is like Oh. That was awesome. Always Shit, unlike enjoying each other's like wit, while the people are just becoming more and more agreed to the point that they're now like bought into this suicide coal like it's literally becoming suicide, cult and. You know. Like I. Don't think it's thing about like. It's our fault for what happened. Even I'm sure that's what they would say. But I do think like did moving forward and from a like how to be productive in how to address like this huge divide productively It's something that we need to figure out a way to. To Bridge that divide in some way. It's hard because the ruling class has their own set of priorities, and it's not the way being of this society does not value. The feelings, the health or the sanity of the citizens so. So. How are we going to like I? Know that I. I'm an optimistic person, but then I also sort of look at the facts and I'm like well. This is gonNA. Be a lot of work, right? Thought that covid would be that kind of not equalizer in the terms of Madonna who is like this is the great equalizer. Parasite Mansion and I'm just like you like no. Not that she was crazy for days. Solitaire. With rose, petals. And production value. There is a woman in the corner playing the harp, but I am just like you. Son Does Not deserve that bullshit. That poor black Sun I think about her BLACKSTON. Sometimes. It's like damn I hope I hope one day we can save him. At least he's rich. Linked twice is named. David Blink twice David. Come get you boy. We legally couldn't Did steal him too so right? Right. But my point with this was is like I thought we were coming to a point. Where like look the fucking government y'all like everyone's out here, getting one twelve hundred dollar check. The billionaires are cleaning up I. Thought we were all about to get on the same page. And then this mass thing kind of polarized the opposite side. They were like you trying to make me wear feis condom and they just went back. They completely reverted. I thought that we're going to be with. You got the don't get. People who never wear a Dick Condom so they keep like so then they keep having babies, and then feeding their ignorance like we're face. Kanda Weird, where body conduct look I. Have, lovely people in the south. I'm not saying this is all of you guys. It's just that there's this radical right wing side. That is just so intolerable, but you're right, Jack it's because we've treated them like. They're not humans for so long and I I've doing it now. I know I was just. Doing that. Potty, go away. VISIT COME DOWN! Says I. Do love the next town if I ever purchase. Condoms I will say a six Dick Condoms Fleet. But you know there's racism and you know all sorts of things that are inexcusable that are. Very prevalent in this culture I'm not saying that like we are. At fault for or the liberal mainstream culture is up fault as much as just this particular like where we're at right now at this particular moment just dunking on them, and assuming they are actually a you know mentally stupider than you are is is not productive, probably not accurate. also think it's. Our nation's founding Biltong, this idea of like the founding fathers and the Boston Tea Party and when you look at what they were actually mad at England about it was. Then being petty and petulant and in the same way like they, a lot of their complaints were. The equivalent of we don't want to wear a mask. Pay Taxes No war. And then I love you know what I don't like A. Current racism is it feels so gas light, and it's even it's all emotionally abusive, but I hate that now. White folks are like. Is Our inward so I'm going to do an act and be a racist, but then when you call me out for and black no hours like I missed I. Don't want to say I miss, but remember bubbling and all the other reckless races back in the day. The six is just be like. Hey Oh. Yeah we raise this, and then maybe I could navigate that better somehow, but now I feel like i. have to tip toe around you. Lying and gas lighting meat constantly when I know, people are races. Yeah, spill gasoline! where the Golden Girls episode where they're wearing like Mutnansky, was taken down because they were worried that it would be misinterpreted as weapons. Yeah and it's like we're not idiots guys the difference. It seems like that seems like lady to me that they're trying. We'll take everything down because. Face mask on TV because. Like angry teenagers well, we'll just fine. We'll just take everything down. Exactly all right, guys, let's take another quick break. We'll come back to about the fact. That space smells leadership. And we're back really quickly. I want to talk about the CNN story. That is borderline like one of those things where you look at a story like really seeing on this is what we have to pay attention to at this time. but I am to pay attention to this time because I do find it. surprising that so they they created a perfume called the space. And it is based on like. NASA basically contracted with a fragrance company to try to replicate smell of space so that when astronauts got to the space station, they wouldn't be. Like thrown off by how weird it smells off there, which is. Surprising to me, I assumed it space was an odorless. Area WI-. Would there be a smell in space, but apparently a there is space snows. To such a degree that they were worried that astronauts were going to be up there and not be able to hold their shit together. Because of how weird it smells. So now you can get this guy sent in a bottle, so you too can smell. What space smells like and they say it has an almost bitter kind of smell in addition to being smokey burned. Astronauts described the smell as a mix of gunpowder seared steak. Roz Marianne Rum. With this smells good sounds like someone who has up. I mean I guess if it's like so overpowering. Maybe it's bad, but yeah. That doesn't like what sounds like a regular perfume, which would also be weird if you went up to space on the smell bike. Overwhelmingly. Strong data or something like wearing way too much. Curve for men, right drawcards heart. I would've loved that in the early two thousands that that would have been my thing. For men. Also I wanNA talk quickly about the new social media trends that I'm sure we're all following along on. Parlor Cut. Lance. But they're they WANNA be boosy and yeah ranch. Two things. I always associate with Princess Yep. rebrand. This is a new rebrand for them. Because you know they was doing Khakis and new balances, and that's not really sexy. BEF-, ranch the hormones. Apparently. There's a big migration going on twitter to the social media, APP in response to trump having his. tweet where he basically instructed people to start shooting looters, you know twitter was like that's not okay and so in response bunch of. Right wing people have abandoned twitter. To go join apparently Milo Yannopoulos and Laura, loom or another people who had been banned from twitter for being too openly Nazis. Were have been there for a while hanging out. People to come over ANALII. Eric Junior or Don, Jr. and Eric. Trump than Giuliani. All those people were already there, but now like Jim Jordan. Nikki Haley like of the more mainstream, a Republican trump trump sycophants are moving over so it might be. It might become a thing. Feel 'cause! I'm like yeah, get off twitter, a hate you there, but then also like doing over there, but then I don't want to count just to be like what's doing over here like. I would never talk on it. I would just follow. People be like which I just gotTa. Make sure yelling starting to raise war, okay? It's going to be like. Well is going to be a lake. Race were Echo Chamber of a bunch of leg, racist fascist people so and you have to have a membership to join like I. Try to go on it before this episode just to see, and it won't let me Lake. You gotta pay. I, don't I. Don't know if you've got to pay what you have to like. Maybe give them an email address making on twitter, you can go see people's shit without having to have a twitter, but right here. Yeah, they'll protect your hate speech. Yeah, exactly and but the stuff like their terms of use are very specific like they're more strict than twitter. A lot of ways so they. It's just that they're choosing to ignore all the. You know. More strict that they're like. Yeah, come on over here, racist. Do Your racism to your heart's content like how how can they? Terms okay, they ban A. Offensive speech, hate speech, or no, they ban what what are they? Allowing big news, they advise users to not purposely share rumors and other. about other users people you know are false. Ban Inviting the other party to fisticuffs, because apparently, the apples designed by a time traveler from the. Nineteen twenty. Gear it's very strange, absolves them from legal liability. Maybe like look. We said don't do that stuff. Even though we allowed this to happen, that's probably what it is well. It also sounds like a suggestion more than likely. Please don't engage in fisticuffs likely highly recommended. It's I think like they also had to scale back. Because initially, they were released as a complete free speech. You can say fake news type of Shit, and now they're like updated their terms of agreement to race. A like you can't. You can't incite a call to violence which I mean, initially it could. So strict. But in May, following the trump trump's tweets being flagged by twitter they got parlaying out nearly a two hundred thousand new users. Largely. Saudi Arabian supporters of NBS inches, an interesting demographic to according, but it also broke the APP because they were not. They're not I'm interested like meetings. Did do a deep dive into lake? Who owns runs this about whoever owns them runs? It is apparently not putting that much money into it. Because those two hundred thousand new users completely broke. The Athem it was inoperable fruitful for small because they're. Supposed to be trying to do people. Like. Oh, we didn't know you guys would actually come. Up Okay Georgia does not that many either. Right. Two thousand like would they even murders? Probably not yeah, that's crazy. That's like you had a party for like five hundred guests, and and you got like a one. Cracker trae and a bottle of wine. You like Oh people. Own On. Can't. Fire Festival. Well Yeah. Lazy like you said. We already have a twitter for which premises that's called twitter. And like? This is just a platform for people who got kicked off twitter. so I don't know why people anybody who. Gets. A lot of good positive feedback on their post on this platform will probably go over to twitter post the same thing. They want to get the the lakes right if they can. If they're allowed, but it would be nicer just left. Did it come back? It'd be like we we. Fun. Yeah I won't be able to dunk on anybody anymore. which that's sad, but I'll take. Guy. That is building a pleasure having you on the show, today is a. where can people find you follow you? On Internet. At designee on. That at your home. I mean I'm here I'm here? I'm just chilling. At Visit Assani, I'll spell it for you. Don't expect you know it. F I z. a Dos A. N. I, and then if you throw a dot com on their take to my website as well. Runs e two ways, but does not. Just, visit as a silent. Is there tweet. You've been enjoying are some other work of social media? Yeah there is one tweet that crack me up It is. From at National Park on its woman named Georgia Park is digital communications director for Bernie. She tweeted when your frontal Cortex is done developing I think you should get to hear a little Ding. Also. Humor, that'd be so satisfying, and that's true milestone know we don't celebrate that enough. What ages that is it twelve about five? Oh mid twenties! Yeah, the frontal CORTEX is like. It's vital to like impulse control problem solving judgment reasoning all that. So, it's like you know it's. It's a big reason why old men don't need a pursue bruins little. Was Done at twelve the rest of US take. To actually debt twelve twelve, I'm alive. No, that makes sense that makes sense as why I'm still quite so reckless. Twenty five. I'm twenty eight, but I'm like damn. I just got a brain like three years ago. We'll. Damn. Brain at adds up. I know I looked on my choices. My twenties I'm like Oh yes didn't handle brain. Shit was doing something something else loose. Where can people find you? And what's The tweet you've been under? Guys you can find me at the VA La. Diva lacy on all platforms, and if you want to listen my podcast scam goddess, let's on all platforms as well and a tweet I've really been enjoying in. This is like a thing was on the show recently, he's like one of my closest friends and I. Always he likes grime music, which is like and I think miles does to Muslim loves you know Big Music Eight, but I think grime sounds stupid I think. Rap is so funny and bad, and so the tweet from Med screws. Loose leaf is his handle. It says UK rappers she'll go. My Winnie is quite the if a catch with West Gloucestershire. Catch the rifle. Yes little. British rap for you guys. Doesn't say those are PUPS TUBS Got Mad pugs. Who Will, you can find me on twitter. Underscore O'Brien. tweets drawing for 'em tweeted may burned down a police station. Abolish the police June. We have listened to your concerns and the hamburglar left now. Nikki. The Friendly Shark tweeted your honor. My client would like to plead. Find me on twitter gender score brining, find us on twitter at Bailey's guys at daily Zeitgeist instagram. We have a facebook fan, page and website daily Zeitgeist. Dot Com where he's post episodes and our foot, no screwy Lincoln off the information. Talk about today's episode as well as the song we ride out on Do we have one of those? Do you ever saw? What you know what Song I wanNA, ride. Your. Dad Fourth Thousand Little. The new theme song. Well the. The production of Iheartradio for more podcast heart radio. 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"Yeah Ah Hello and welcome to still buffering. System skied two teams through the ages. I am race Berle Sydney mcelroy Taylor. sisters I have brought to you Much like your trusty pet animal cat. Usually my experience Bringing you some sort of have expired creature to your door that you wish. They didn't but they're very proud of. I think that's pretty exclusively a cat. I think it'd be pretty freaked out of my goldfish one day. I had like a dead mouse ball like loop. What do birds do that? I feel like birds. Maybe they're kind of scary. Gotcha sorry go ahead sir. What what what? Death the cane thing if you brought us I I bring you the remnants of the day from twitter. I've been searching twitter for for things for us to talk about and there's so so much going on besides the fact that Kiana reeves has a girlfriend and I'm I just WanNa mention that 'cause I'm so happy for him you know and and the Internet is is impressed because she is age appropriate. I and I'm not awake sliding I'm very also invested in key honorees. He's happiness but I like the this is the thing that's like newsworthy. Like a male celebrity has girlfriend and she's only nine years younger than him. He deserves all the accolades. Yes I know it is. It is sad that that's the story when I because I think people felt the need to justify why they wanNA talk about it but like no one needs to front. We're all on the same page. Kiana reeves happiness is very important to all of them. We all remember how Saturday was on that bench that day with that sandwich. And we've all been worried about him since then and then he's so good John Wick he so angry and sad bad but so good but so angry and sad we just want him to be okay. You know well I hit. It seems like a cool smart talented talented artsy ladies. So so good for him and just I hope they're both very happy and I I will now follow this this relationship very closely a lot of pressure this let them have their space and I will I will. I don't really if it doesn't pop up immediately when I opened twitter. Yeah I don't know what's happening in the world so I actually won't go searching for that information but I'm just glad that it's in there in my brain first celebrity relationships in followed closely it. It would be the first and only celebrity relationship I ever cared about. Also everybody's talking about who they WANNA sit next next to a plane. What musician if you? If you're stuck on a plane next to a musician who would it be. Why is people? You're talking about as twitter. Man I I don't know why people this is. This is both what I don't understand why I will never disengaged from twitter. I know that a lot of people like to do that. That's fine everybody should do them. I'll never disengaged from twitter because I open it and I'm like why is talking about what musician they wanna sit next to on a plane. That's weird I gotta find out about this and that's just twitter all over. I'd be like musician. Would you want to hear saying or perform or be able to ask questions but the thing about airplanes are is no one should talk to anybody and definitely really. No one should sing. So I don't personally know what musician brings the most snacks and readily shares them. So I have no answer Jimmy Jimmy Buffett Michelle Lee Michelle. Yes glee stories. Yeah that's all. I really want just like Krim early days in spring awakening. Jonathan groff inside scoop on Glee. That's it would you be able to ask no because that was part of why. Oh I picked. Jimmy Buffett is that I've met him and so I'm kind of cheating because I would feel like hey you don't. There's no way you'll remember me but we've met and kid I talked to you now. And he's just so chill he would say yes. I am like one degree of separation. Away from meeting Leah. Michelle and I've thought about many times if the situation were to ever arise how I would act and I. I don't think I'd be able to say anything I I guess I've heard stories from friends that have like worked worked with Joan Jett that she's really chill and like cool so I like that is more as much as I loved your jet. There's also that aspect where I don't I don't think I could actually talk to her. But the possibility of a conversation happening because of her gentleness makes makes maybe the candidate that I would go with well. That's I mean that's part of the problem with this question. Is that like. There's some people ache like there's my teenage heart says like rivers Cuomo. Oh but like you know. He doesn't want to talk to whoever's next him on the plane and I'm not gonna I'm not GonNa be the one to to break that. Break that silence. It'd be like I'm enough. Force you to talk to me now. Talk to rivers Cuomo and he excuses himself he goes it to the first class of any doesn't come out for the length of the entire flay. That's what that is what I assumed would happen. And I don't want to do that to him because I respect him as an artist so I would just sit there in in shock doc for the entire time I mean it'd be so I wouldn't want to move and not take up too much room so that he wouldn't think like how rude my my the person isn't that next to me is taking up too much space. I would not be able to function. Well get it rivers. Cuomo is notoriously somewhat reclusive reclusive from the limelight. That that is important to know here. I think explaining. I just wasn't going to ask. He weezer is where he's from the band. I know that okay. You know that word but he i. At least my perception of him is that he would not want to talk with a stranger on a plane that that would not be his bag back now. Andrew W K. I bet he talked to you on a plane. I think it gives you a sermon on a plane. See that'd be pretty cool. Somebody okay. Who Do most of the talking? So I wouldn't have to come up with the topics I think I would hand W. Camp having a hard time. Could you give me some advice. And that would be two hours The the only other celebrity news I have for you the only twitter news I have for you. Is that Robert Pattinson is learning Jujitsu for the Batman. Man and I just going to be in the Batman. He's going to be the Batman. The titular Batmans he I Looked I tried to look at the pictures Robert Pattinson doing do Jitsu. I won't lie. I'm sorry I did. You wanted to see Robert Patents doing jitsu shirted. I'm sorry both Harry Potter her Anti Light. Excuse me yes okay But they were on instagram. And like the link took me there and then I didn't know how to find him on instagram. Because we're not like friends on there or whatever and so. I didn't know how to instagram works. I didn't know how to get there so I never saw him. But they're out there somewhere. Internet wow well that's A. That's a star study casts for the Bat. Bab coming up right Colin Farrell is the Penguin. That's not who I would. That's not who I would assume or think of first off but okay. That's a nice one hot pink would i. I was GONNA say I'm down I'M GONNA find. There will will be a time in my life where I go well now. I'm sexually attracted to the penguin from that man. So there's that Danny Devito is still out there and doing great stuff. Why didn't they just hit him up again? Like I don't know Zoe. Kravitz is going to be cat woman so yes please thank you. Thank you very much I i. Dan Love all of this. I will be very excited to see this. I found Robert Patents and instagram. I think this is Robert Pattinson At Robert Pattinson official. But I don't think it's is actually run by him because they bio is just photos of actor Hashtag Robert Pattinson. This seems like a fan thing. There are no photos of him. Doing do Jitsu. But one of the most recent recent ones is just a picture of a message degree and the caption is just Hashtag. TBT for throwback Thursday. I find that very amusing He it doesn't have an instagram. It seems to me well. Then I don't who knows. These pictures are nowhere. Nowhere twitter also allied for the first time ever well ally appeared on on social media. Oh no I'm sorry that's facebook that if you type in rubber pads and the first thing that comes comes up is Robert Pattinson Jujitsu. A lot of people are thirsty for those pictures. Apparently you're not alone Listen I know people like to joke about twilight twilight but it was great and I'm sorry. Watch him in the movies and tell me you don't agree with me. We see will there there is. He's on Jeju. Choose if you look up. Robert Patterson Jujitsu on Google images. It's the first picture that comes out I could do. Gold didn't think about that. That's kind of your fault there. I'm very good at researching science not so much people like celebrity people So other things that that the Internet has brought me recently are buzzfeed articles because the facebook is good at surfacing. Christine those Those in lies about politics. Yes that's facebook for you. buzzfeed articles about the nineties and lies about political. That's what Mark Zuckerberg wanted. That was his. That is what he's brought. That's what that movie was about the right social networking this about I really want to spread. Political is and buzzfeed articles. Yeah easier with both of you probably. Was it a thing yet probably not. That's that's how it became a thing yet sucker. Berg was like how do I get weird quizzes at the same time is like Pictures of funny tweets and also like somewhat what news media and dangerous dangerous democracy threatening lies. Yeah is that worse or better than the real reason that it was created which was to rank his female classmates. It's I I have no answer for this is all. I know. It's all it's all bad. It's all bad that's it's okay. Sometimes it's all bad just bad. She's bad Yeah did you I for a second I wanna I wanNA talk about this but Like on Halloween. It was Halloween and the house was voting on the impeachment inquiry inquiry to move forward and at the the same time like the New York Times published an open letter written by Aaron Sorkin to mark Zuckerberg about his about the first amendment and undermining democracy. And it was just a weird day right. It's just a weird day. There's just a weird day. You know. Just saying kind of forgot about Mark Zuckerberg for awhile in. He's wanted really wanted to remind everyone about himself and he did it in the worst way possible boy. He just can't not be a jerk their canny. I guess if you wanted to good Halloween scare like oh no the evil corporate conglomerates in the overthrow of government like. I don't know there's a lot. There's a lot to be spooked about on Halloween. Who ooh ooh? Two Thousand Nineteen But no this article though. It's not scary or serious so we'll talk about that instead. Yeah It was a it was expanding on a topic that we very briefly touched on in our live show which is The visco go girl this go not the SEO visco yes and What what that would have looked like in the late ninety S? I believe this article was an attempt to translate for me for everyone who is over the age of like twenty three yes to translate what What visco means in your in your language old nineties lady? Here's what it means for you and so I I read it and it was just a bunch of things just a list of like it was not it did not have like a a deep description of these things. It was just a bunch of pictures of things As many of these lists tend to be and I I do not feel like I understand understand visco much more than I did before because it was a list of everything that encompassed everything about any teenager in the nineties. I feel like I had a problem with this list. Like what what are some. Well okay. Some hits so we start off with Well first of all before we do see that Riley would you like us to give us a brief definition of the VISCO girl sure So visco is the name of a photo sharing platform kind of like instagram accepted. Accepted two more for like photography sharing I would say so. It's not as much like here's a profile of all my life and my pictures and stuff and there are you know. It's not a social media platform in the sense of likes and followers and stuff as much. I think those things exist but that's not its purpose is just for like sharing photography you've done That is where the name comes from and visco girls the thing I guess visco girl is like a person who enjoys crunchies and Berkinstocks and hydro flasks oversight t shirts and Like Puka Shell necklaces and best friend bracelets made out of like yarn hemp and stuff which I mean in part I think my confusion with this list is that what you just described is a fairly nineties. Look yes very much so like if you if you take away the hydro flask. Yeah 'cause we weren't lucky enough to have with them in the ninety s now you just replace it with a now gene bottle. The two thousand thing. I don't know no no. You're right right now. Gene was two thousand that is it was more of a fancy person I ever now. Gene water bottle. I I had a friend get me one once and I was like no. This is what this is. This is of the bourgeois now. It was The according to this list it was the Nike Anky Squirting water bottle. The one like you can toss your head back and squirted in your mouth like you're a big a big sport. Oh yeah whenever. I played local college classes with student. Athletes they always come in with those water bottles and like waterfall them into their own mouths. And I don't know why they're so intense about like I'm in like an intro a political science class and then all these freshman college athletes come in water falling. They're a nike water bottles under their mouth. It's the GATORADE commercials. Yeah it Ma- makes you think you have to drink drink intensely when you do sports. Yeah I never drank that intensely. Maybe that's why I was never very good sport. I feel like those bottles are designed to be consumed only intensely though. It's not thank you can really like you Kinda have to do a full head tilt with that. That's just part of the design. That's the see we you know Old People worry so much about the effect of violence in movies and Video Games on young people and what that's going to do to their behaviors and really should be worried about gatorade commercials. Teaching youth is to drink to intensely really dangerous. They're gonNA over hydrated like Cactus squirt water everywhere yeah This list contained so many things that of course were popular in the nineties. I'm not arguing. The validity of these things. It's just it it'd be like saying like I like you know this band now that everybody likes. Wh what would they be like in the nineties and it'd be like well you know like pop music in the ninety S. There's sort of like that. It's like all of pop music. Yeah they're like all of pop music. That's what this list felt like. So like the first thing was like those Adidas Slide Sandals Fair. I think I had. I had a pair of knockoff pair. I may have had a knockoff pair. Actually the more economically sound. I remember them being popular. But I feel like I associated more with like jocks with sporty kids. I feel like you had them because you you played soccer I did. That's why I wore them. I 'cause I would wear them with socks. You know kind of the thing is like you're going to your game or whatever you don't don't know where you're good. Tennis shoes sandals with your socks and then switch out after the game As an athlete thing they talk about burning incense sticks that smelled like cool water or C. K.. One I definitely burn those incense sticks. I will say that that was very nineties and there are some things on this list that I know were me and now when I took the quiz I got girl So I don't know I don't know if this is representative of an eagle than more than a visco girl but like they talk about those Gauzy mosquito net thing is that you could put over your bed like canopy slash. Mosquitoes combos badly. I had one of those I had. They talk about like the Celestial print late Sun Moon Star print betting I not only did I have that. But Taylor you may remember this. I had a crate in my room that mom day co paused a bunch of those things onto. Yeah Oh no you had a whole team you have a a border That Yup that's that was the time period. Where every room had to have a decorative border in it? I had a wallpaper border with like like an astra logical looking wallpaper mortar and then The glow in the dark stars on my ceiling. I don't know are these. These don't seem visco. I from what I understand. VISCO now is just. I mean it's like you said it's just basic it is is. This is like the typical standard basic teenage peacedale. Well and like they include in this list like using gene bath and body works body spray But I have. Everybody did that. I mean I did that. Growing I know yeah just because they had like the most. The widest variety of tastes smells. Yes then. They'll were shining and pink. I think I would. I would buy more if they had picked specific flavor of bath and body and said this was the one but and see the yeah well and it would have been what like plum area. Would it have been why that was my set. No now I don't know I feel like everybody had either plumet area where that cucumber one. That's true yeah I was more of a sweet peak. Girl was my my said I don't remember what my original one was. They get they discontinued. It was something Purple Twilight Poorest Midnight Path. It was the one they replaced it with something midnight path. And that's the one that I use later but I don't remember what the it was another purple thing. What it originally was wasn't it Frisia not a news Frisia or did I wasn't free you did? I don't know maybe it was Frisia false memory. I'm not sure it could it. Could it could have been what and they talk about the people. Also you still like to use. The Victoria's secret pair glace body lotion. Which I do you remember people having but I mean Victoria secret thousand for the GROWNUPS? That's for the women. Um that was not. I was a kid. Twas I was I was a child. A Lad. One and cargo pants see thank. How does this the wide leg Carter cargo pants? How does this all go together? These are just lots of different. I don't know I mean I love cargo pants. I wore them a lot thought they were great with tank tops. Are you kidding me. What a great look well and vans well big cargo pants all ragged at the bottom kind of muddy and dirty torn up a pair of vans and a little tank top Sometimes I'd wear one of are those little beanies to a really good look. You're describing said hemp necklace some FEMA beads But that's not I mean I just don't think that any of circle of one one kind of person. I don one kind of girl I feel like a lot of it too is like I don't know we feel the need to quantify fight and then the next up judge teenage girls a lot and the kind of stuff is just more of that because as you know for the stuff that's today I'm not a kid today so I don't know if this stuff is spared eater nodar is like all over the place but this list that you're eating opposite is very much like that's just a lot of varied interests that different sprint. People could have in different combinations. I agree I think we're starting to get to the the core problem with like if you try to define this too strongly and break it down And identify with it one is. We can't because we're old. Well Yeah but either the idea like the term if it's it's so it's a photo sharing website where people are more trying to share artistic photos and not just like this is what aid today. And here's a selfie that that sounds like that's a cool thing like whatever your gender as part of like where you remove the whole lake social popularity aspect and just have are like. Why is that something attached to like a derivative like? Oh this is just. It's one of those girls. I will say it's always been more obscure to me. We like a like how for a while. When I was in like middle school everyone started getting twitter but not everyone had a tumbler? tumblers former like the arts year people my new Viscose been like everyone got instagram at the same time but VISCO is for the more artistic. More Niche Niche. Yeah Edgy people. Well let's let's break this down further but before we do that let's check the group message First of all sisters still buffering is sponsored in part this week by hellofresh so cooking can be hard. 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Use Promo Code buffering so I think I think we were hitting on something that is is deeply rooted in all these conversations about things like visco girls and girls and then the other kind of girl is a soft girl which like they talked quiz. Yeah they they talk about how people used to have all those like picture frames with feather boas around him. I figured that must be a soft girl thing although I still don't really know And and really what they're sure it is like you said it's a way of categorizing and then in some ways like minimizing the interests of you've largely I would say teenage girls I'd say teenagers. In general you know of all genders joie victim to this but I think you know we were joking earlier about twilight but I mean definitely I think the stuff that is more stereotypically. The associated with teenage girls get hit the hardest Because a lot of this stuff is just I mean there were so like they talk about. How like Fiona Apple was so big Ben or like the TV show? Buffy the vampire slayer and it's like so so. Are we making fun of teenage girls because they liked good. TV and good movies. Good music is that then like can. Can you believe that they like to good. TV show some good music. Those are just so different things too. Like I haven't elect both of those but there's you although how much overlap is there between Adidas Sandals and be able to judge that Fiona Apple has quality music. I don't let's see the action point there well and they talk about like VISCO girls of the late nineties love to play in sixty four. Who didn't love to play in in sixty four? I mean like what do you mean I mean everybody loved Nintendo sixty four right. Yeah wasn't just me no. We both loved it. Or gameboy colors. Yeah everybody pagers. Everybody Liked Romeo and Juliet that movie with Claire Danes. Leonardo DiCaprio see young people still like it today. Now bucket hats bucket. Hats might be a more They've come back really. Yes are you serious. If I had to categorize is it into one of the three categories I would probably also put it into the VISCO category if I had to bucket hats. Her Bag yes. You can't get one. I I have them. I just aware of now. I Love Bucket Hats Disney and Sydney just going to be wearing bucket hats. I still have a bucket hat that I got a rainforest cafe those rainforest cafe on it does it you got it. Reinforce Caffeine it says reinforced cafe on. It was my favorite hat for so long me. Kim I can wear it and I'll be cool though like my one one but now he can wear it and be cool. Yes yes I read. I feel like this goes to like a a deeper understanding when we look at like how we quantify women through the ages where it's we need to call it like what. What kind of woman are you like? That's not what category you fall into. So I know how to treat you I mean we have the archetypes of like you know. The the Edison the bombshell shell the the ingenue like these terms that it's like dude. Don't really get put into those categories but that's because you can objectify something that you can stereotype That's true that's true. I think I think they're those. There may be some generalities for that for guys but not to the extent the that women do for sure Yeah not saying and I think that's yeah I think I think when like on this list it talks about all late. Ninety s girls had a Spice Girl they identified with which I will not say was true for me necessarily enough I with any of well I I was not a huge spice girls fan. Wow and also no. I didn't identify with any of them. I didn't feel like I was just like any of them. Quite encapsulated me. That's Kinda funny because each spice girl was supposed to represent a very different kind of girl. So it's like okay great so that's a whole bunch of different. They literally were based around types. There was a sporty one and there was a posh one. Come on I guess. If I was closest to one of them it would be scary. Okay I guess that's good. Yeah I don't know I always liked. Ginger was just because their hair was cool. I probably was very cool retroactively. I think probably just thought she was really pretty. I can I realize that now Those true that's true No but I think I think that's very true and like this is just the latest it is way too like I think the VISCO girl is. I don't know I I. I still think it seems sort of like what the the preppy popular girl was was. It was just the most popular like if you distilled the the coolest things that teenage girls were into back then. That looks kind of like what that is now I will say. preppy is very different than popular. Though I feel like there was a lot more overlap back in the day see. preppy is a very distinct thing at least in my experience growing up very much like. Oh the Vera bradly backpack matching lunch box. Set like wearing like your boat shoes sperry's your vineyard vine and stuff like that like the Pastel colors and the girls always dressing crossing nice and wearing their pearls and guys wearing boots shoes and khaki shorts. Well I also feel like a lot of these looks to are a lot more Like they talk about the the makeup on here. Dark Nail Polish was thing and like frosted lips that are sometimes overly lined MM skinny eyebrows and like the the makeup of the nineties. I feel like it was a little more uniformed like everybody kind of got into the same trends whereas now I feel like a lot of these looks 'cause I was trying to figure out this. Go verse eager over soft girl. It seemed like the the makeup was a very big piece of it. Because they're all distinct. Makeup looks is my standing. Yeah right if we're generalizing in continuing the paint this picture. Standard General category than yeah are. They overly exaggerated because of social media. Yeah I mean is that maybe why. Why we're like overly exaggerating these archetypes in a way that I I don't I feel like things were more blended before? Yeah like this. This list is like every girl from the nineties right. Well yeah but also I mean. Do you just think that because you you weren't being exposed on the Internet to people from other places not just in in your high school experience everyone you around it all these things and may be and other areas that the chicken or the egg. Yeah yeah well and I think because we lived them we experienced them as our unique selves. So it seems really weird to retroactively. Put yourself into a category with things that it's like I mean because the truth behind all of this stuff is like it's fun. We we love to like. It's something we do ourselves when we seek Yup buzzfeed quizzes personality test quiz. You know to like say I can lock something about myself and that could be true but I think that the real life experiences is that each change a lot and sometimes you know it's really free to realize you don't have to have one. Is that it or one style or label that you know like the full full range of it so for me to look back and you know I wasn't that but that's because none of us really fitted these categories really tidy. It's something else society kind of does it says like. Oh this is what they are. It's like you got you in a box. Now put away. That's true that's true. I think that's important to note 'cause we talk a lot about like the way that other people Especially actually I think with young women will like like we said categorize them in box them in and give them like. This is your role in society. This is the character that you are. I do think there is We all have a natural very human tendency to want to like figure out our own place in the world by putting ourselves in different groups and I mean I think it's it's the same impulse that makes you take like a hogwarts house quiz right. Yeah that's why we like is because there's so much Is 'cause so that we can figure out our place in the world in relation to other people But you gotta be careful. 'cause you know vonnegut would say that's grand falloon. You're not really part of that group Rupaul. Fee It's a false association. Well it makes you feel safe and comfortable sports fan. I think it's good to had to experience these ideas. Be If it helps you learn or expand yourself to find something new out about yourself. I think it's bad when it makes you feel like you have to cut off things from yourself. I know growing up like I felt like I was a smart girl so I couldn't be anything like even like self care felt like such a thing that I shouldn't take part in. You know because that was like like I don't know like face masks or like like a like a skin care routine he like no I'm a I'm artistic and I'm intelligent. I don't do those things because that's for that's that would make people lose respect for me. It's like no it's you can have the. That's that's just self care that's true. I mean that definitely I I feel like I've limited myself myself when I was younger and not as much now Because I think as you get older most of us start to let go of the need to like be part of those To to new realize how limiting how it can be defining but also limiting to have all those kinds of boundaries and labels because as I mean in like reality and interacting with other people away from social media and in person it doesn't really have any sort of impact on anything I mean like if if you take a buzzfeed quiz and like him visco girl and you're like looking at your social media like basic. Do I look like I don't know everyone is told me like. Yeah you are one of those. I'm like what does that so mainly thing like when you're talking and we were having conversation like it's not like I should tell you before we get started and his intellectual conversation. I am VISCO girl dude that information well but that is important for us to to have these guidelines set out beforehand. Will you please take this quiz so I can know your place in this in this realm before we continue like before before we. I think it's very high I. I'm here to interview for this position in your company but before we start. I think it's important that you know I- emigrants door so I've noted section on your resume just for your answers and your personality types defined by various quizzes I can I ask what. I'm really glad that you know what type of Pie you'd be but I don't know what family interview. I know I'm surprised to. I always saw myself as more of an Anya. I did get willow though so that is are you comfortable with that in your company. I don't know the important questions. Yeah I mean they don't actually have any bearing on anything you do in life really when you're interacting with other people and caring about your day like it's not something that enters into any sort of for life situation so probably impacts the way you think about yourself in the way you think about how other people see you especially when you're going through your formative years in your your youth but I mean it also doesn't really mean much of anything. Well that's how identity is that's how it works healthily. I believe that there are the parts of you that you connect you and that you feel you want to embrace you. Continue to move forward with and they're always things you kind of jettison off and adopt new things and that's how you develop. You know who you are and it never really stops doing that so you know your quiz answers might change all the time but that doesn't mean that you changes a person. I mean it's even something like the fact that I'm bisexual rate. That's that's something about me. That is part of my personality and my identity but I started. It'd be conversation with a doesn't change. How I you know behave and participating in life just like a part of my my myself things like this go girl girl girl are just very very much less important versions of of identities? I guess like I don't start every conversation with. I am apparently the only human left on earth that likes necker wafer candies and I think that's important. It's no wonder if your identity and either but it is I love neck away for candy snack. Oh Socorro I never was asked to this debate will oh sorry thank you there. We go so gross two to one. Let's just like Trade Joe. Justin says just says that the it's like chalk that tastes bad. So what part of it do you like. It's as good. It's the taste. Good part that I like cooper loves them. Charlie pretends to super. She wants to be part of the group but she'll end up putting them all in my mouth but cooper loves them. I'll join Charlie and I'll get her some smarties sweet tart eight. I every by the people listed home that Riley likes dots. I do like dogs. Yes you have now is Charlie. You have no room to tie that Cooper Cooper will eat anything it'd be the real lesson here is that it's okay that we all have to. Fred likes and dislikes. We don't need to to go to war over these things or campaign against my other. My question is wise. made it buzzfeed quiz yet. That's which small sibling cooling or you. I just want to know that I wanted to which I am. You gotta who you are. I know I did some somedays changes. I don't know I took the macaroni brother one. I was just an and that's I got your. I don't know if I am my husband. Oh that's weird. I mean you've lived with him for a long time. I don't think I would be weird. I WanNa take that quiz it was. It was weird. Yeah for anybody. Who is curious I I do feel like we should mention that whether or not any of these definitions are labeled matters We did. We took that quiz before we did our live episode to find out if we were fiscal. Girls Girls Girls As did Lin Manuel Miranda. He thought it was worth mentioning that he was a visco go girl. Charlie was a soft girl. Yes that makes sense that she is she is very soft. Oh I don't know I don't know she's she's getting harder yeah. She was now for Halloween. Between the Malebo. I was GONNA say most people who don't have small children are children. Don't promote daughter from Disney descendants. Yes if you haven't seen the films I'm sorry are missing out. The music is great. It a good in the parlance of the day. It's laps in this episode And Happy Belated National Candy Day since we talked about candy. Yes that's the other thing. 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What a Meanie!

Frankie and Jess

1:44:04 hr | 11 months ago

What a Meanie!

"Ninety seven one at's Frankie Ingest. Show podcast here on iheartradio. Wish I wish I knew how to do. There's guys in here that no on a bill I got parties like this that build a deck. On the weekend you go over to their house and they always like well. We'll see. You both at that went today. Today I thought that man. You built the whole deck. is like this bed at one fifty sawdust gotta shed in the back. Would I don't I'm GONNA, hire hire contract, and this guy could tell me anything unbelievable every morning. It comes down a different thing. He's expansion. My thirty eight years of contract I, never seen anything like. The wall some fall the wants. Bend in the wall. Come out, feel feel like an idiot, okay? Well We could leave it entirely. We could leave this wall as but when you're watching the game on Sunday, the House could fall down on your family. Man, I can relate to that. It is ninety civil was HD Celtics number one hit music station. Frankie ingests looking pretty nice out there for your Monday at seven eleven. By the way it looks like we're GonNa see hot temperatures today. It's going to be hotter than I thought we were going to get like. Start off the week. It sounds like about ninety for the high lot of wind, so the the fire danger is pretty high fifty six to get up right now so weekend. Yeah, it was awesome. I feel like the weekends are longer put probably because I've less appointments to be at. Nice You now like cutting down the schedule a little bit. It yeah, we had family night on Friday. Night watched a wedding singer because we're going through all the Adam Sandler flex. Did he like it? Too Much of a love story. He's going to be thirteen in a few weeks. He wasn't feeling. He didn't like wedding singer now so much music in that and stuff totally is a fun moving. I love it. It's one of my favorites. And then Saturday we got her new carpets from Taylor's carpets almost called in sick today. To Roll around carbon. Horrible excuse. Today. Got Her carpets on Saturday and then yesterday hung out with my best. He asked what we do. We did TJ MAXX and marinas and went to trader Joe's and then did church online. We watch a real estate show on Sundays. There's a lot of good stuff on the market right now. That that show that you're talking about. Would you do Kylie anything fun? So I had him though on Friday after the show, so it was over a station park for a little bit, and they had a really cool event going down. They had a bunch of local charities like a safe, harbor. Isis Center was there. Did you broadcast life one, three, one, two three? And then Um yeah, there's like A. Are you doing blood donations park? And then they had little like local businesses, because they're not little, but like young automotive. was there supporting those charities article? so as their from one to three in during that time Danny was up with our dog doing hike in the UN toes, and he came back and he's like I'm getting too old for this whatever he's trying to run away from you. That's what I was. So did he go fishing and hiking okay? Nice, so he hiked up to whatever lake he was going to go to. And then he fished, and he said he caught a bunch on, either he does catching early. So that's cool, they ask. Their father in law was out of town, so she said they had sex all over the house. Saturday night. Jimbo Jimothy wants to hear. Was Gone he came back. They had the house themselves. That's Great A. Dat Hdtv like a whole weekend. Might as well be married for ten years now. Even married yet, but it seems like you've been married. Twenty years away from the stories. You guys. Let's go hiking you at the cabin. On Friday. We did a little date hike, so we? We got those going like usually on Fridays, my wife and I try to do these date hikes, which is nice, just the two of us, so we did that on Friday, and then after that a took our little boy up to the cabin, so we went up to the cabin, and then Tammy came up the next day so we just kinda did some stuff around the cabin. Kinda, you know doing some cleaning stuff and just. Pulling weeds and getting of the deck, all sprayed off and everything, and just just did that and then on Saturday morning we got up. And what do we do? We went for a hike, and then we went down into hero down downtown, whatever and got some stuff at the store, and then came back, but just did some more stuff around the cabin, just pulling weeds and stuff like this. It's crazy. How much? Rose right and then Tammy came up in cooked a little dinner and we We hung out, and then Sunday we hung out a good portion of the day at the cabinet, and then we came down, and then I went over to my Ma's with Axel, so we visited on excuse good weekend. Cool a really nice we can. so yeah, so the actually that'll be good to start it off with with with this. W- what we do on Mondays. We've got some good news. We WanNa hear eight to nine four five so I want jinx it, but it's been a week ago yesterday. We tried doing the underwear again with him. The potty training, so he's going to be four August thirtieth and you know. We tried that a while ago, and it wasn't going well, so we decided to do it again and as of a week, so we could go yesterday. He is Ben. It's like a switch going off or flipping on. It's amazing so the only thing that we're. We're having a problem with his number two where he he and he's not. He's not going in his underwear. He's just kind of on his his system shutting down, I don't think he's holding it. He's just like a system shutting down and then he goes as soon as we put them in the overnight diaper when we get them changed. He seems to go like right after that. Even even if we're like, Hey, let's sit on the Potty, so he's had a couple of moments where he's done it on the potty. For the Mo- I mean with the number one I mean. He peed outside for the very first time we were on a hike on Saturday and he's like that I got to go to the bathroom. And he pulled his pants down, and and started, and I was trying to. I'm like okay. Lean out lean out. Okay, because you don't WanNa, Get pee on your. You know some trying to teach him. Like just lean out shoot and I was so proud. I couldn't have been out of the Navy, and then he was doing it all around the cabin like he peed on the driveway in front of neighbors on Saturday. It was like Oh, no, but you gotta go off to the side. He was standing literally the middle of the drive where we're standing down at the foot of the driveway, talking to some neighbors and I looked up and he's got his pants down and he's like he's just pin right there on the drive. Towards. You gotta go off to the side. Proud of yeah I know, but he's been doing really well. He It's. It's the most craziest thing ever like. To to the point, where like I go over to my mom's yesterday and Mike Axel were. You is like a over here. And where are you because you know like when he's away for a second? What are you doing? Yeah he was because my Ma's got a little little potty forum and he was in there, just using it, and it doesn't even say anything. He'll just come in dropped trial. Get on the POTTY. Help he the confident mastery. It's awesome, so yeah, we're just working on the number two thing but it. Feels like we're about ninety percent their. Own I didn't want to jinx it. Last week I had mentioned maybe here and there, but I didn't want to jinx it. Yeah, that's good. A number two sometimes takes a little bit longer for them normal. He'll get it though that's really freaking cool. That's some good news kind of starting off. Tell us something good, so if you've got some good news that you WanNa, tell us or share with us. We'll take it throughout the show this morning. Eight, two, nine, four, five. We're GONNA come back here. Middle Edition of Hollywood headlights rear Monday. What are we starting with? The Fun 'cause. Everybody loves that it's a Monday right so I'm gonNA tell you we're gonNA break it down celebrities and their real name. You've been listening to the ninety seven one. Frankie and Jeff Show podcast. Right here on iheartradio. All right so coming up here about twenty minutes. We're going to get into this topic. Is there somebody that you were mean to in your past? And maybe from time to time weighs on, you think about this person and how you reminded that person. We're going to tell you why we're talking about that. A little more on that coming up in twenty minutes. Maybe we'll get into some good news. texts that are coming in two nine, four five to tell us something good. We started off the show with that so if you've got something as far as As good news and you WANNA share it just try to keep it a shortage. You can at eight to nine four five. We're going to jump into the middle edition of Hollywood headlines this morning, and it's brought to you by Jiffy, Lube Okay so I love the staff I, just because you forget what people's real names are because a lot of celebrities have stage name, so do you remember what halls real name is? Yes Ashley? Something because isn't like with the words. They're the letters that she uses in her name's Ashley something, isn't it? It's Ashley Nicolette. Franken Pang? Ashley Ashley kind of switched around. So Ashley Nicolette. That's her first and middle name in her last name. It's super weird, and then Riana what's Riyaz name can't remember. Robin member Robin Riyan. Okay, so she goes by her middle name then. What's The guy's name? Stephanie Something Yeah Seventy Joanne Angelina. Durra has at Jeremiah. How do you say it? Yeah. But you got a lot of names Stephanie. Joanne, Angelina, what about COMMUNICA bail? About it was cameleon. It's Carla Comey lack of Ao Oh Esperado, so she goes by her middle name as well well Kevin Jonas. What's his name? Yeah. Me A. What's his? He does he go by his middle, and then he does I. Suppose real name is Rick. What is I have no idea all Paul Kevin Jonas the second, so he's after like a data and uncle or somebody right reese witherspoon. What's her real name? Stumped Laura. Jean Reese Witherspoon Yeah so a lot of them. Go by their male lame. What about Bruno Mars Bruno? What is his? Yeah? Does he go by his middle name or a nickname? No I don't know then. Peter Gene Hernandez. Jean. What about Whoopi. Can't remember Karen but Karen with a see. Karen Elaine Johnson not crazy. What become from I don't remember nickname. Then we gotta look it up What about let's see Lizzo. Don't know. Melissa Vivian Jefferson not cool. I wonder where Lizzo camp now like to know where somebody's names came from. If they're not middle name, let's see what about Spike Lee. tone. Let's see what is I don't know. I can't remember Shelton jackson-lee. I didn't remember that okay. What about Elton John? Better? Know this? Yeah. It's Reginald Dennie original with the regional. You're right there. What does it Reginald Kenneth Dwight? That's. Always, the guy that was in the riots in ninety five original w reginald. What is it Reginald Dwight? Yeah Reginald Kenneth Dwight Ska crazy right now. Yeah, but you get so under wikipedia for Whoopie. It says in quotation. She said. When you're performing on stage, you never really have time to go to the bathroom and close the door so if you get a little gas, you have to let it go, so people used to say to me. You're like a whoopee cushion. That's your. That's your nickname should be after a whoopie cushion, Jessica's like these human whoopie cushion. That's hilarious. was nicknamed after a whoopie cushion. Which is one of the best things ever? For adults is a great as a kid. When you sit on under something, somebody would sit down and be like. Fun It's Hilarious. I love that that would be my nickname. Oh, this terrible, but yesterday we had like whenever we go resume. Coffee and pastries, and and we should have probably hung out at her house a little bit longer before he went to. TJ But I was like. Oh, no, I was tooting through the store and trying to run from it because I was going to be. Gosh. Tuten public you don't like to. I promise. It's mortifying I was so embarrassed. Youtube everywhere, well everybody to. Not Everyone. Yeah. Everywhere you here in the office with Kyle. Sometimes it hurts okay. So what did you find the other one offer? Lizzo yeah, so she says that her and her friends created rap group called the corn row. Click Click and so her name in that like rap group was. I think it was from Izzo. Which is Jay Z. Song? Okay, L. TO THE IS OH! Okay, let's see Lana. Del, Rey what's her real name so I? Don't know the good one Elizabeth Lizzie woolridge grant. Mouthful and then Kit Harrington do know his real name from game of thrones I don't Christopher. Cats be Herrington, so these are so interesting. I love it I love people real names. We'll be carrying Elaine peas way better turn with a C.. C. Hot so good and then I've got a picture posted on the Hollywood headlines Page of Franken just dot com I love him. It's Willer net. He and his girlfriend just had their first baby together, so they had a boy. Hold my age I don't remember. Relate and Florida's first kid. Maybe no, no, no I with his girl. So he and Amy Poehler were married and they have two boys. They've got the two boys call us. He's fifty. Oh, sweet! Okay, still got time. The other girlfriend and she kind of looks like a younger thinner Amy Poehler. Type of the hint of Marcia Brady Oh my gosh, totally dude, yeah, good call so yesterday had their first baby, and like I, said his third boy, and I think it's her first child in a dash of Paris Hilton. I'm feeling that. Yeah, you gotTA check out the Hollywood apparently. Big Time we cannot throw this out. I think and I were talking about this off the air, but Carson Daley so he and his wife a four kids now, and he said their sleep divorced, so they sleep in separate bedrooms, because I think it sounds like will have their youngest baby. WHO's up all hours of the night, so he's working and I think she's getting up with the baby so I think that's why she sleeps in another room and someone might be a snore been talking about people snoring. We'll have to do that. They'll have to do that. I'm trying to think if there's anything I need on. There does the stuff on the today show. He's still doing his radio show or not I think he might have hung that up. Good question I'm not sure and then This is really sad and all kind of put this in here by Hank Williams Junior. I saw the story and I know you pass it over to so his daughter Catherine passed away over the weekend so young. She was only twenty seven, and it was a car accident on Saturday, so her car crossed over. The median rolled over. Six, Love Hang, junior and this I saw the story and she's broke my heart. Man so I guess her husband Tyler was in the passenger seat, and he was airlifted to the hospital, and he was awake yesterday and responding. Thank God who's driving driving Mr Ivy and the car was torn about. Going to the LAKER coming back from the lake, and so they're investigating the crash, but they have two little ones, and this is what just like literally pains made to the core, so the five year old bow, and two year old audrey, so teeny tiny kids and her name was Catherine, but they called her Katie she ran a clothing company, called Western Jane, and so it was dedicated to mom, supporting moms and women supporting women so I mean she did a lot for the female community, and she was a young you, mom and wife and it happened near Paris Tennessee, and just so freaky and sad like only twenty seven years old a terrific. So like I, said in a five and a two year old left behind, and you know daddy is responding, but what kind of shape he's going to be in. You know it's just It's just sickening, so life is precious. And then up next hour. You WanNA stick around. We've got some celebs doing good and just some crazy news stories that you don't WanNa Miss so eight twenty, those little becoming up. Ninety seven one. Franken, just show podcast here on iheartradio. All right before we get into the topic, let's get into this album. Mondays if you've got good news, we definitely WANNA hear eight to nine hundred five. What's your good news that you wanNA share with us? This is awesome, so wife and I have been preapproved to buy a home. Tonight to look a few houses. It's been fourteen years in the making. we've rented since two thousand and six, but the past few years. We've lived with family. So that's you know that gets old right? That's kind of like we're and Danny are not maybe not as long, but you guys are living with Jimothy. With Danny's Dan I was the house hunting. Come along? Let's good. Yeah, yeah, we're just waiting for your one to show up that we love. Yeah got to Oh. This is Sarah she so stinking? You got me. Jess interviewed her from podcast. It was like we've been friends for years so fun. Yeah, she was amazing ought to get that posted. It was so fun called I think our podcast off. The top of my head is called joy in my heart and y'all have posted Franken. Just DOT COM. I'll some listener like we just had a blast. We had some What do we had Portland? Portland just sat. There chatted and yeah, it was a really fun experience. Awesome! Thank you for having me. After a year of House hunting finally got the one moving in two weeks. I home congrats. That's awesome. something good today getting a new air conditioning unit for our house. The when we've had is sixteen plus years old and it doesn't work so ooh, that's hot today. I can't even imagine not having air right now. He's I know especially between ninety S. Brutal I can't. That's one thing I can't do I won't do I know I can't sleep when it's hot. No can't do it man now. It was like I was at Ashley yesterday. It was only like seventy, the seventy two just because she has the upstairs and downstairs just felt warm upstairs as it gets Kinda warm. START OPENING, windows listen cheap lady. Off She's. From the things you've said about her like as far as being frugal superfoods obese, so she's frugal with that Oh yeah, oh! No her hair was not rising up. It probably wasn't. The basement, I'm like leave in the basement down on the on the tile and you just get on the tile your face. It's nice and cool. That's nice. What's wrong with that? We can't have coffee and you just lay down on the tile. That's weird. Turn your. Air On lady. Listening. No, she's asleep as some good news had blasted beautiful bear lake this weekend and one fifty bucks out of scratch off in Idaho. That's great. Let's. He got engaged a week ago. Baby boy is due in three weeks and my six year old daughter lost her first tooth. Oh, cool, I'll fine. What's the going rate now for I was talking to somebody about the tooth fairy, because we were not in that in that boat yet. Yeah, so I think it's a ten bucks a tooth is that's my right, or is that by maybe? No, I don't know. I, think that's what my friend said and I'm like ten bucks. That's what is rich. Will the tooth fairy and that's where the part of town that he's like? What are you doing east side? Get a new tooth fairy. Would take it out at Park City. was. Crazy! Oh Man I in bucks. I thought I thought the first tooth was like ten or twenty last night heard, and then I heard every two after that was maybe a buck. We're just saying ten dollars and you scoffed at it so. Yeah but we're setting the bar. Just said I tooth of this text at eight hundred four, saying, we're setting that bar high for the tooth fairy on yeah. I gotTA check her rates. They fluctuate like the market and This one. Said started the weight loss journey two and a half years ago hit the plateau in December last another five pounds last month, and then three and a half pounds this week, so thirty nine pounds total. Wow, that's like life changing great good news. I'm still employed half the time I feel I can. Failing at my job received a promotion on Friday today. I feel like George Costanza. This. But I'm doing the work though it 'cause he's leaving. That's awesome. All right, so let's get into setting this topic because we were talking. We have been talking about it for what the last couple of weeks now Lee Michelle in that is It's been coming out and she since his apologized and it sounds like the apology. People weren't really happy with it, and then what did she? What did she say after that? Did she say anything? After this apology that she posted? I can't remember I. Don't think so I think she started calling the people that's. Just like Hey, I'm sorry. Yeah, because people were coming in over the years. We've talked about Lee. Michelle. No, you don't know who she is. She was on Glee back in the day, and she's been in a bunch of other stuff I guess I. Don't really know other than. Other than just on the show, that's the only reason I know who she is but a lot of people coming out of the woodwork over the years, and then as of the last couple few weeks, saying that she has been mean to them like in when she was working on Glee and other shows, I guess that people have Oh. Yeah, like kind of piling on in saying Oh she. She was mean to me and she said this to me and you know they can actually re remember certain things that she said and if it wasn't as one, it was several in wasn't Hailee Steinfeld a years ago, came out and said Yeah. It was two thousand eleven on. It sounds like on the set of Glee were, and she was saying and pointing out specific things that leave Michelle. Michelle had sun set and done tour like that? You know so. It's like crazy. Right, Ailey, sweet, and you just you know so, but I think you know if you think back in your past. You have somebody that comes to mind that you were mean to. Maybe it's not like the Leah. Michelle Kennedy. Like well. Where do I start? Maybe it is I don't know I can't think of anybody. Anybody other than who was a girl, so I remember when I was in second grade, she was in third, so we had a split class. We had second third grade in one class. Okay, so all the students can. If you can imagine it was Mrs. Fresh Oil Guy had her. Yeah, you've crazy right? Yeah, so that was my second grade class and it was. It was a second yeah. I can't even tell you how many students were in there? Just a ton of students but I do remember this girl and she lived in my neighborhood, so like as I would walk back I remember. She lived on Michigan Street and her name was Kelly Juvin, Kelly given that was a Kelly driven, and she was a year older than me, so she was in third grade. I was in second and I remember she would come over like past. You know she'd pass my desk and I would be working on something. You know in something like art. Where would be working on our project? And she say something really sweet right? She was I. Liked that it looks real and I remember going. Doing it. And it just remember expensive. What it was I. don't know why, but I like her like I did, but that was my way I i. don't know, but I remember about maybe a year or two later. Thinking what you're an idiot like how? Why were you mean to her when she was trying to be nice to you? But I think it was maybe my way. I don't know. Second Grade. I have no idea. How old are you in seven second grade like seven years old? Yeah, but I do remember that and I remember. You know like. My work. But she was being nice to me and I was like there's a motive for doing like. Kind of an idiot says that I remember saying certain things like that to her. When she was trying to be sweet to me, so that kind of you know over the years and crazy, but I'm like what a jerk I to her. You know that's crazy. Remember that I do. Remember. She was really really cute and sweet, but you know I was just a jerk. Your older brother Moron. It's this girl who's a year older than you and she's trying to be sweet. Nice to you, you know and you want exactly so. Is there that you can think of in your past that you know you? Look back and go. I wish I wasn't mean to this person, and that's a good question I can't think of anybody off the time I had. A lot of people being mean to me I'm kind of the doormat. So what about you anybody that you can think of Kylie that you? You were mean to? When you're younger, you know back maybe when you're a teenager, a tween kid and the one that I I thought of was on this boy, when I was probably first or second grade, and he had like a big crush on me and he would like he wouldn't. He was never means he was really nice in the cafeteria. He'd give me like lots of compliments and I went home and I told my mom like. Oh, I think he's asking me. Blah Blah No. Karen before. This you like win, told the principal about it and I think his parents found out about it. He went to military school, so we're responsible for setting this kid off to military school release getting that thing rolling the ball rolling no way. Yeah, but he was just being nice new studies harassing. Yeah, because he kept kept coming over and giving me compliments for the day, but at least I didn't send Kelly an enough military school. I feel a little better about that. All right, so if you could think back when you're younger, and you're mean to somebody, or maybe it was in your twenties. It could have been somewhere in your twenties. I don't know if you're a little older so eight to nine four five at some something that weighs on you. You've been listening to the ninety seven one. Frankie and just show podcast right here on iheartradio. Talking about this if you can think back in your past, there's somebody that you were mean to you. When you think about it when it comes to your mind, you're like man I wish it wasn't mean to that person. So which is story behind that? Because Leah Michelle has been all over the news and last couple of weeks, and even years ago, we would report on her. It was the same thing I mean where there's smoke. There's fire. Hopefully she's changing. You know she's pregnant now and hope so, but you said the latest with that as she was calling people that you mean to, you know because in the last couple of weeks, more people have come out. Come out and say oh. Yeah, I've got a story to I've got a mean Liam Michelle story, and here's mine. Mean so she's like calling these people I'm sorry I. Don't know if I'd cool I don't know if I'd want that or not. It'd be kind of a I mean I guess if she was really mean that. I guess yeah, if I. Guess if she made my life. You know what that would mean something. Yeah, it's cool. We came in. So that's what we're talking about. We've got some text and by here. If you can think of somebody when you were younger that you remain to got listener, Mia Holding on the line. Hi, Doing A. Good. How are you guys this morning? Doing Great, so this was when what you were a teenager. Yeah I was like seventeen eighteen in job corps, in Field Okay and majority of people actually in Clearfield. Job. Corp Aren't even from Utah. They're from out of state. And so already that's like a tense situation for kids that are barely sixteen to twenty four to be not in their hometown. And so I don't know. I guess I was just hiding mighty there when I turned nineteen. You know I go off campus and do all this stuff. When anyway like there was this girl? Katie there and. I don't remember personally like you know going after her can being mean 'cause normally, that's not who I am as a person especially now. But it backfired on me because three years later after job corps I found her and her friend on Facebook, and they didn't get any bad juju vibes thinking that I did anything but. As soon as I sent her the request, she sent me this long message about how horrible I was her why I would even try to send her a friend request when I basically made that year, she was in job. Corps Living Hell for her. Oh, wow! Now. I'm thirty and I feel guilty even to now like what was wrong with me. What was I do? Why was I being that way and so yeah, that stuck with me and I'm just like. Oh, I, don't get it and I still get like a sick feeling in my stomach about it, and that's so sad. Did you say anything back to her? Like I'm sorry or Oh of course, yeah. Yeah I was like I. Really don't remember, and I'm so sorry I. Don't know why I was thrown like my poop. Don't stink, you know like. Okay Song and so I was like you know. I don't understand. She's like yeah, well. I remember so. Please, stop, and then she blocked me. Right Oh man. And you know what I didn't take any offense that because I live be where it before her, so she had all the right and I hope that that made her feel like she was able to get past that moment 'cause she got me down. And I i. that's what it was. 'cause I wish I if I had the other tables turn I would have felt that way. Listening I don't even know. She lives in Utah, Mariah, Mia and I'm sorry. Oh, well, you never know. Never know especially, there's a lot of people listen to the show. Believe it or not. All right. Thank you. Chime in, and we appreciate you. Know Problem Happy Monday. You too all right. Let's get to some tax here at eight hundred four five. If you're just tuning into the show, we're talking about when you're younger, you mean to somebody and when you think of it from time to time ways on yet eight to nine four five business that in high school, people will call this guy double d because he had big man breath. And, he never let it affect. Him was sad. I called in that like three times, and I felt horrible for doing that for a few days, and I still think about it, and it's been over ten years. So wonder if you could do like what Katie. Or me did to Katie. Are Yeah just hey, hey, I, don't know if you remember, but just I just wanted to say sorry and hope you're doing well. You know with social media. I wonder if you could find this guy. If you know, where is now? The sunset? A guy liked me in junior. High Native Hammy always followed me around. Remember telling to stop a lot, and he didn't HE I guess he ended up getting pushed into a wall by me, and it cut his head and then a different I guess he got glue in his hair and I yeah I was a mean girl, so he liked her and she was meeting. and I wonder what it is because I shared this story when I was in Second Grade Kylie shared a story when she was what elementary school. I what is it like when you're a little kid and you like somebody? And there was somebody shows interest in liking you, and then you're just like me. I was like saying smarmy things to this girl when she was just being sweet and nice to me, I don't even know if she liked me as she was just being nice to me, I came back with this. For you coming. In second grade like this little snotty kid. A kid man, it's our being adult talk Rabin. Wonder why that is. It seems like the common theme you know with with a lot of these when you were mean to somebody, when in your past at eight hundred four five brothers twenty-seven, and recently had a kid message him on facebook, apologizing for being mean to him, junior, high and high school He told him he'd been thinking about him a lot and felt really bad for bullied him. You know I'd shared a story about. About a guy that I went to high school with and I told you this in two thousand eight. When I got on to Facebook, I found this guy that I went to high school with, and he was not a close friend, but he was like a friend of another friend, and we kinda would hang out from time. Then we had classes together and I do remember him being kind of a D. right it, but not so much. Much to me, but I remember to other people. He was just kind of like yeah, he was. He would say stuff to what is your problem But so we kind of reconnected, and within the first message or two, he came back to me and said Hey, if I was mean to you in high school I want to apologize I, said well. You weren't mean to me, but I do remember you being kind of mean to some other. Other people that were around us, and he said I was battling with my sexuality at that time, and he said I'm gay and he goes, and I remember dealing with it in high school. And I had no idea I had no clue anger. It came. Yeah, he was just like lashing out at everybody because he wasn't happy with who he was and that's I. think that goes without saying just kids in general. Why because you just heard you? Know who you are and I'm not saying that you're. You're gay, or I'm just saying that you. You're battling like with an identity crisis. And you're trying to to get through just life and you don't know anything about anything. It's like you feeling process feelings, and so you're lashing out at people, but yes, we apologize him like well. I appreciate that, but you know that's that's. That's kind of cool. I think it's sweet others boy in seventh grade and my Spanish class who had the biggest crush on me? I was so rude to him. A wouldn't get the hint that I wasn't interested, but I didn't have to be a jerk, so said Brandon. If you're listening I'm so sorry. Third Grade. The bad boy liked me. He tried to kiss me at lunch pushed him off the bench. oops! Eleventh Grade, couple of Friends of friends, and I were so mean to this other girl one day through a cup of Soda on her in the Hallway. Seventeen years later is still think about how mean we were in I. Hate Myself, but that's another one. Maybe with social media to find people now and then research are people to. Think about when you were in high school or junior higher elementary school I couldn't even tell you the last name with some of the people that I went to school I. Know Me you know me neither so crazy. is what said I was was mean to this cute chubby boy in sixth grade. He bought me a necklace Valentine's Day, but I was embarrassed and I threw it away. I feel horrible now and it's. It's crazy because that stuff sticks with you because I, remember in fourth grade. There was this Guy Clifford found out years later. He liked, but he was the first one that he's like. You stink, you smell. He always told me I smell bad so I literally became like it was a complex. Even now I'm forty two years old, and that's why I do extra deodorant and my body like it stuck with me and my friends were like yeah, but he disliked you, but it comes out mean I. Don't get that. He bought it. Why don't we do that sucks man? It sucks when you're on the other side of it, you know. An elementary let's see maybe four to six grade. This boy named Jonathan had a Stutter, and because my brother would tease me at home I t's this boy. We call him stuttering Stanley and would stutter saying it is still feel bad to this day Ninety seven one ht's Frankie Ingest show podcast here on iheartradio. Case Must Hannibal. Former bachelorette Hannah Brown. She ended up saving a guy from drowning this past weekend. So I guess they were White, water rafting and Tennessee over the weekend, and this dude I guess his raft flipped over, and so it was her that pulled him up onto her raft, so the man's girlfriend told the story on twitter, and she said Yeah, she was with the river on the river with us, and our raft went over, and she and her family ended up pulling my boyfriend onto the raft, because the current was taking him and this that I didn't know who she was, but my mom was like Oh. That's the Bachelorette and she was on with this. Person didn't even know I. Don't know if it's the teen or Early Twenty s or something like that, but she obviously didn't know Hannah. But Yeah Hanner, somebody who didn't care. But the MOMS, Fan girl, and that's Hilarious I know. I. Know What you probably should've told her daughter. She's from Tiktok two. Thousand. which person it is be I thought. That was awesome that she and her family were able to help this person, and I've never done like the to being the white rafting like I. Just I don't know. My mom always freaked me out about doing that stuff when I was a kid. So it just intimidates me. I've done like minor stuff. Dot a MOAB, but nothing I've done i. haven't done anything crazy. Some you know the whatever the they rate the rapids or the the river. Part of the river wasn't even crazy. Did that right? Yeah, and it was a lot of fun. You know I mean you. You come out you could. They don't want you to come out and survey those parts of the rapids and any rating, or whatever because you could, potentially something could happen to. Wasn't like some of those that you see you're just insane. Not Go there. No way no way and I know like. My Buddy Terry con analyst he's He's like Mr Extreme and he. He tells the story he was I think they were Whitewater rafting somewhere. I can't remember what country they are in, but. He told me the story was a really elegant, highly rated, whatever is like really crazy scene. And he came out of the raft, and was under, and was held under, and he said to the point where he was stuck on. Like with the you know the rafter. The the water was pushing them down Oh and at that point he was, he was trying to to remove himself or push himself up and he couldn't. And he just. Made Peace in like this is home and a die, and they'll sudden food just popped right up. No was it was just. He thought he was going to die in a miracle right Oh. My Gosh, that's terrifying. Wheel. Scary well, my Gosh. Yeah I'll just I'll just watch videos. I don't need to be in the raft and then We talked about this last week. Everybody's still talking about it. He's on the Hollywood headlines Pager. Frankie just DOT COM. He is so freaking hot. madge aims. He's the new Bachelor, and he's twenty eight, and so he was. Let's see. He worked or he actually played for Wake Forest University as a football player and then he tried to get on with some NFL teams, but it just didn't work out for him, so he's in real estate and Rachel. Lindsay who was the first black? Black Star of the BACHELORETTE's. This is a good step in the right direction, but I hope ABC continues this an ABC. ABC said her. Yes, this is just the beginning because Rachel said you know. I've been the only lead on this show. And you know how how many seasons twenty plus seasons and she said that's not okay and Matt is actually friends with Hannah Brown, so he is in a lot of her talks with Tyler. Because he's best, he's with Tyler, who also on Hannah's season and a lot of the bachelors and Bachelorettes Gidon. Say This is awesome because he's a good guy, he's smart. He's good looking and they were like. It's nice that they're not recycling another person. It's a new face for the franchise. We hate when they recycle. They had what Nick Vile a couple of times. I've taught. Yeah, we're like. No like two two, maybe three. That I remember that Brad Guy. He was on there twice twice. Yeah, it wasn't emily on their twice as well as vice but yeah, so people were wondering like. Hey, what's going to happen to Clare because they're supposed to do? The bachelorette and actually Matt was going to be clear season and I've heard. She's kind of pissed off because she really. Really liked him because they have the pictures in the resumes and everything that she was like. Oh, I'm into him, and now he's going to be the bachelor, so he's not on her season, so she's upset, but they are gonNA. Do Clare Season and then they'll do. Matt season, and of course they. It's halted as as of right now because of covid. How many you stop bad. It's not finding I'm upset. Let's hope that they can get on this and start taping. You. That's my life. It's my joy. Promo last night. For what is the was it? They've got something on now. Enter detaining of it. Best of or greatest moments or whatever they're calling it. Here's a clip where their bachelor Matt's. Mommy called his mom and. How she couldn't keep a secret. Secret so I had to keep super tight and. She's just not finding out. Which is a fun way for everybody to participate? You know man. Did you just call your mom out and say I couldn't tell my mom because? She can't be quiet and did you just do that? One thing I tried to do is either real offensive person, and if I said anything else. Everybody's got at least one person like that in their life, so my mother-in-law Dixie. Can't keep zero. Awesome. But I can't wait so when we get dates I'll let you know when we're going to have okay. Are you worried. Later you're come on get honest bachelor people. Talked to Chris Harrison, somebody called Chris and then lady antebellum. We talked about this last week that they decided to change their name, and it's now lady a, but they probably should have done their research, because there's a woman in Seattle, a blue singer who's been lady a for twenty years now and she has albums. She tours and she's like high. Over here you're taking my name. You can't do that, so it's Anita White and she's been performing for the past twenty years several albums. I guess her new one lady a live in new, Orleans is going to come out next month and then she also has a day job with Seattle public utilities, so the band was like Oh. We weren't aware that there was another artist by the name of Lady. So. Anyhow, it looks like the attorneys for the band are going to search every legal option and then probably make a big cash offer to this woman to say hey, you take same better. Not Screw this lady over totally. Worth, her, while they better, not so Yeah, they just. They were like Oh. Sorry about that, so I was wondering because I was like I. Wonder if there's another lady and there might be more who knows, but more Hollywood headlines are coming up next hour. We've got ten pictures posted weekdays, and just dot com, and the cool thing about the Hollywood headlines Pages I take the best picks from. From Every Different magazine and tabloid and I put them together so you don't have to scour the Internet and go through every single one I i. put them all together and it's a cool montage. What's the new family member? What is that Oh Jalen Rod? So they got a new puppy. I think they got a Labora- doodle and I. WanNa. Say as surprise the family with it and. And so there's a picture. Gosh, cute! Look at that dog, but of course I'm reading the comments and everybody's like you know and I get it. They're like you know. Adopt not shop and I I I'm about adoption I always have Matz, but you know Kylian are kind of talking about this before the show, and if this breed they wanted, and they couldn't find it at the shelter you know. Know they? They ended up getting this one from a breeder. It looks like and they've got. They're cute lab over there. Are They in Miami? Do we talked about that? Where they're kind of warranty or staying I guess for the most part to Miami I think, isn't it? My where a lot of those stories came out of as far as people were coming at working out stories working. In New York for that one because they weren't close quarters, they said but I don't. Remember, they went to like. went to a club or something and remember they had the. Down Yeah right we're. That was a Miami but maybe, but that was like when quarantine started like three months ago. So who knows what they're private jet, and all their properties? Who knows where they're at you know then there's a cute video of Bryant's a couple of her daughters, and they do some Tiktok some videos, and it's her oldest and one of her best friends, and they're doing like this. tiktok dance in the kitchen, and then the younger sister, not the baby, but the one who's a little bit older usually like photo, bombs or crashes videos, so it's really cute, and you can tell the girls. They know she's going to come in and crash it, so they're like last could barely get through the dance because she's always. They're trying to do it real fast because they know she's GonNa come in, and she does. She always steals the show worship. It's just cute so I, Guess Vanessa Brian, she put the Kabosh on some some fan pages, so they were Kobe pages gee-gee pages that people wanted to put out there, and she basically didn't allow it which you can't blame her. She said she didn't WanNa see picks of her. You know man and her daughter. That'd be hard and. More good stuff is coming up at eight twenty. You've been listening to the ninety seven one t frankie and show podcast right here on iheartradio. Little earlier I was just sharing didn't want to jinx it I. Think maybe brought it up last week, but didn't WanNa like messed with anything that we had going on so a week ago yesterday it really seemed to change for us as far as with our little boy axel in the whole potty training thing so we had done the putting the underwear on him before, and we weren't having any luck with it. It was just you know he was. Down his leg, Girgis feels like Oh. My Gosh Alvin there. Yeah, so we were like we're doing pull ups. Thing we try to do the you know the underwear, but we just that that Sunday. It was like okay. You're putting them on keeping him on as. We were sick of it. And then sudden, it was like a switch for him the click. Yeah, just kind of flip it on and. So from that point. To yesterday and you know currently so we're doing really really well having a little problem with the number two thing. So the Peon, he's literally just. We've got little little potties. We've got one down his play room. There's one in the main room He'll you know from outside? He'll company just literally without saying anything anybody, he'll go in use the potty or a different room you to see him. Kind of go into booming just drops trial in. Does this thing and doesn't even tell you which is great? You know he's his. He's doing it, but the number two thing like I said it's almost like. System is shutting down, so he's pooping after we put the diaper autumn for overnight like when we get them ready for. For bed, and then you know, it's either right before he goes to bed, he's Putin. We've got to change him again or there's been a couple of times where yeah he's getting up early and it's probably because he's got poop, so we're. We're having a hard time with that like his system I think is just Kinda shutting down. Where is not wanting to poop? While in the in the the the woody called the the big boy pants I guess the underwear, but listener. Nikola said she has a boy I. Guess He's getting ready to turn seventeen, but he same problem poop in and pull up still yes. No, so he was struggling to go number two as well, but she said they they made a deal with them, so they did the whole bribing thing So you know if you're able if you can do this. And she made like a chart and everything, and if you're able to go number two on your own, you can have a Sushi with Daddy. Daddy just daddy date, because apparently that was like you know. She said that he was like the world to you know it's kind of the opposite where you know axel as a Momma's boy and we've got you know we we bond, but it's not like it is with Tammy but apparently with Nicklaus and her son and father I. Guess it was it. It was that way, but anyway, so she said that we use that as dangling the carrot in front of him, and it worked within a week. So you know I know yesterday before we. We were getting ready for bed. We're having a conversation with them like, but you're so close. You're doing so great. You know trying to give him that positive reinforcement like. Like because he kept saying I'm potty trained now I'm potty training. He keeps saying that I'm like dude you are you, are you? Were there just you know? And then Tammy's like I will take you to target so if you can poop. Yeah, we'll take you to target, and you can pick out any toy you want. That's a good deal putting your toilet. 'cause I don't know man that's. I'm just so anyway, so that's the deal that she may with them in like along the lines of what Nicholas saying so hopefully it works. I, don't know excuse seemed like you know when you have conversations with your kids. especially the little ones like that the toddlers you can, you can see what's resonating. What's not yeah, and that seemed to resonate because there's a lot of things where I have to have him I'll say something to them and say what did I say what did I just say? And then sometimes you can repeat it, and sometimes he can't most of the time he can't. He's like and he'll repeat something. I'm like dude. You need to listen to what I'm saying. I'm trying to teach him with the you. That's another thing because so we've got the same equipment, right? The the the PEON and I'm trying to teach him because he's doing really really well, but he's not holding down BP spraying yes, spraying and I'm like dude, and so but I, know because it's coming for me, so I've got this thing already where we we heads and he's like you don't tell me that kind of thing and I'm like to trust me I'm trying to talk to like trust me. Trust me with us, so we had a conversation yesterday because he he was peeing on his little little toilet thing at the cabin and then I'll listen. I noticed there was all the P in the front and around the. The side and I, said Buddy. It's because like see what I'm doing. Some like cleaning it up and I'm like you have to, so then from that point on he was. You know holding it down, so he wasn't spraying everywhere, but it's like this conversation that I had that I'm like I. Don't WanNa. You know we don't WanNa. See Your P. and we don't have to keep cleaning up after you. You want to just do it, and that they just I said trust me. Trust me with what I'm telling you this. Yeah, but it's it takes a while. It does practice repetition with them, and over and over you know because it's just little. Yeah, but thanks for the email nickel. Target so that was some good news and we share that a little earlier this morning. Tell something good. We have some tax real. Quick here. That will get to, and then we'll get into this next topic. We'll set that up. This one said finally able to buy my Henry Forty four MAG. Long rifle can't wait to shoot this weekend. Wow, that's a gun tax. Let's see that one earlier text. Yeah, and then what is this? Somebody said Franken. Super Jealous Maverick is still fighting. This is one of America's right around the same age as axel well and like. Hey and he was fighting up until like a week ago. Yes, it's something that I don't know like I I again. I don't want to jinx. Because I've heard kids. They regret they go back in regress and right now. He's doing really well, and I don't want and that's why I didn't WanNa. Say Anything last week and I'm like I. Don't want to jinx this. Only be tough. Tough to potty train, man, and then yeah, I think those are all of the good news tech school, so if you want to share something with, tell something good, good news, a two nine four five This is something that we got and we're not sure we're just kind of fill in the blanks. We don't really know, but we do know the text the came in and. And this is something that will last. Doctor Burton to one of the things that will ask him this morning at nine forty when he's on for therapy Monday but you found out something about your spouse. That happened before you guys got married. So while you're married, you find out this whatever piece of information either had to do with you and your spouse like you're together or not. Not Maybe, it was something before you were even in the picture because we got a text last week from one of our listeners for different topic, and she said she found out something about her husband from the past before they were married, and she's having problems getting through this, so we don't know what it was. Maybe it was something I. Mean You speculating? Maybe you know he? Cheated or something while Dave while they were dating. Maybe we don't know where we're saying. We're kind of fill in the blanks. Or maybe it was something where he did something like his behavior before. She was even in the picture and she's having a problem. which at that point you know, I mean. I Dr Burton. That's history. You can't come at somebody for their history through. You can't hold something over there of me like what I didn't even know you them, but some people do in puppy. Some people can't get through it. Yeah, so that's what we want to talk about it. Something that you found out while you're with your person. Okay, so maybe even maybe. Maybe, maybe we can even do this, so we can stay married, or you're just in a committed relationship, and maybe you're not married, but you guys are committed, and you found out something that had happened before. You guys were committed, so maybe we're Kinda Dayton, right? Yeah, I'm exclusive exactly or maybe you works -clusive, and maybe again it falls into the marriage thing so maybe worse -clusive before you got married. Though and you found out that your your partner cheated on. Ninety, seven one. Frankin just show podcast here on iheartradio. For, so we're talking about this text that we got last week and we're GONNA actually. Bring this up Dr Burton therapy, Monday, one of the things that we'll talk to him about and that is if you find out something about your spouse, or if you're married so you know so either like in a committed relationship or you're married so I. Guess it would apply to what we're talking about, but I think it would be. Maybe worse because you're married. You know depending on the situation, but you found out something about your spouse while you're married or together, and you're in a committed relationship and you're having. Problems getting through this so something that before you actually were in this committed stage of the relationship, and maybe it had to do with your spouse in you or not. Maybe it was something before you were even in the picture, so bothers you, but you found out about this person that you're with your spouse and yes, bugging you, you're like. I can't seem to get through this. We'll remember Maya Lopez. They were on the honeymoon he and the Doritos girl, and she found out he cheated at the Bachelor Party, and they got their marriage annulled because she was like I'm not even working through this This is a brand new. Were you know we just got married? Where there little league sitting on the beach and he confessed to her like hey, I just I gotta get this off. Get off my chest. Yeah, so still think of that story. Now, and then think if she would have found out. Let's save. Ten years down the road or down the road to kids later. Then, what do you do I? Don't know man. And that's we're going to talk to Dr Burton about especially if you're in that sort of a situation. Has that affected her? You know they were together, but like you said if it was like before her. Let's say he didn't know her yet, and it bothered her. You know she really couldn't blame him for that and remember over the weekend we watched wedding singer. Remember and I know it's a movie, but member the brothers up there giving the best man toast. Yeah, amber! We've got those prostitutes. Man and the bright side is real big and she's. That's funny. This goes along with our top. So, we've got one of our listeners. She's still holding on mistakes or Mrs X.. Are you there Mrs X.? I. Breaking up a little bit here, so so this is okay. Are you married right now? Yeah I am married, and this is something that you found out about your husband before right something before you guys were married I guess. Yeah so we've been married three years now and this past December He kinda came to me like hey, we need to talk. I'm like okay. and he told me he was pan sexual. What. What is that yeah? Not sure. Pan Sexual. It's. It's a little hard to explain, but they're more attractive people. And analogy then necessarily sex. Okay, so he doesn't necessarily see sexy just sees people energy, and that's what he's attracted to. And so he told me and I didn't know that so number, but he told me he had been with guys. And both genders and done that kind of thing and I had no idea Joe. Pasta suffer so before you were together or like when you guys were dating. Before, we were together he had been with. Opposite accent. He was passed sexual okay. So, that's what's yeah, so this, so you weren't in the picture at this point. No Oh. Yeah I. Yeah, we are committed. We had one kid. I was seven months pregnant with her second. Like last December, so we were definitely we other, and then we told her okay okay when he told me that he was pam sexual, so, but you didn't know before that at all and like you said now your. Kids. I had no clue that he is How different feelings for you know differ people and Everything, so it was definitely news to me. Tell me you know. He had been with the opposite sex. And he was a sexuality. So so, is it something obviously you're? It's bothering you. You're calling into the show. Have you talked to any anybody as far as a therapist or counselor? I haven't. I'm I have nothing against L. G. T. Community I've very open person and the like. I feel like I've been like to assure. A long time, even though like this is who we is in personality and things like that. It's just like. A little piece is like yeah. I feel like I've been. Might you for you know nearly five years now? So? There's nothing to lead you to believe that he's been with anybody while you guys were together. Though right? No I and I like talking about it, and he said he is like has never she'd never done anything like. He's only been with me since we met. But just the fact he didn't tell me way before that about his sexuality and. That he'd been with men. Like Oh, okay. So this is one that will will bring it up to. Dr Burton Preview Yeah Yeah. Because this is before you and that's kind of along the lines of what we're talking about. We're taking all kinds of different stories, but I'm sure Dr. be as listening right now. Some we'll address this one as well as some other ones. just be listening at about nine forty when he was on with us this morning. Okay, yeah, and he is an amazing guy and he's amazing father, but. This is like one thing I'm like I felt like I had a right know. Therefore, we got married. And then yeah I. mean honestly probably is a good time to talk to a therapist. Do some couples therapy and maybe even there'd be on your own to work through some of this stuff that that you know obviously are hurting I understand having hard time with it. Yeah I'm like I totally absolutely love him I. Just Yeah, and I have no problems with him. Being pans like show, I just wish I would've known for. A long time ago. That's up or whatever all right? We'll keep us posted and keep in touch with us. Okay MS, X.. I will for sure appreciate. It gets nine ten years. We've got some of tax here at eight to nine, four, five or talking about finding out something about your spouse whether you're with that person you know, but it was before your your relationships so like in Mrs. Xs case you know before she was married, but it was before they were even together, but she. He gave her this I guess. Is Bombshell and told her. You know who who he's been with, and she doesn't like it. And we'RE GONNA. We'll. We'll definitely bring that up. The Doctor Am sure he's listening, but eight to nine five five you if you can relate to this topic. Found out on the honeymoon that my husband had cheated while we were engaged boy and has a gambling problem, so that's a double whammy on the honeymoon. So at that point already gotten married I know technically I. Mean you know earlier than whatever day or two prior What do you do? Yeah, I texted back and I said okay. What's the scoop and I didn't hear anything. And I'm on pins and needles this HMO. My ex girlfriend of three years told me that a close friend of hers took advantage of her while she was on sleeping. Pills I knew the guy, and she was still really good friends with him, and I wanted to kill him and get over. You know over a even though she had gotten over it, so that would be really tough that Oh. Man, I know I. Don't think I would have problem with that. Wow, yeah, you're still friends with do. Over. That yeah, Ooh, that that's let's say that one for Dr, too, because I would be all about like you know what you're severing that relationship totally not GonNa keep in touch with that too I think most guys would are you know they're not? They're not together anymore, so I mean. Maybe that was one of the reasons apart. Okay, but they were together for three years. That's a long time, wow! You been listening to the ninety seven one HD, Frankie unjust show podcast Robert here on iheartradio. Dr Burton. Therapy Monday's going to be on a little bit here. We're talking to them about a couple of things. One of the things we're going to get to is what we throughout just a second ago. Did you want to get one of the stories on real? Quick. so we were talking about. It's something that you found out about your spouse before you guys got together, so if you're married and this is before you married him or her, and maybe it has something to do with you as far as you were together or maybe not. Maybe this is something from his or her past that you found out. Out while you're in this committed relationship, and it's bothering you can't get past. He can't get through it, so we'll share. Maybe one of these texts at eight to nine four five. We'll get to some more coming up in the ten o'clock hour, but at nine forty therapy Monday. Dr Be is going to be honorable talked about especially the Mrs X. Situation. What do you do in that situation? She's having trouble dealing with the information that her husband gave her about his past, and who he was with sexually he was with guys before her He's like Pan Sexual. You, what did they say? They're attracted to hearts, not parts energy. I Guess Yeah Energy, and so she's like I just wanted to know that you know she's like not. That I'm shaming you. I'm fine with it, but I just wish it would include me in. This text eight, hundred, nine, four five. My husband told me when we were dating. He had only had sex with me and one other girl a few months after we got married. He told me there were actually four other girls that he had told me about. They were all before me, so he didn't cheat, but it took me a little bit to get over that because he lied, so he thought okay. If I say only be with you and one other girl like you know. Maybe she'll be cool with that, but he was actually with five other girls he's. This is why we always say. Don't have the conversation about the number. You know you just don't don't say. Don't have yeah, sparked well unless you're you know, start talking about the numbers. Then you know the the potential for something like this happening and it's tough to because some people like a promos won't hold it against Jeff, then like you can't help. Sometimes you're like Oh that S. Well and it's like you. That's why people are maybe not adding zero to the. Forty you'll because they're afraid of the judgement. They're afraid of might do or say I, do I? Have a really close friend and she's married now and they're trying to start their family and she's been with my goodness mean she's got to be eighty eighty guys. and. He thinks it's like maybe a couple dozen I mean so mean is way off its way off. That point couple dozen eighty. Does it really matter at that point? Twenty four to two eighty. Eighty on my chest. All right, so let's get into this. We'll get into the bonus edition of Hollywood headlines Bonus. Edition this morning is brought. You by Winco Alrighty, so This is nuts. Did you see the post over the weekend with Jay? Pharaoh SNL used to be on off you still on the. Money I don't know if he is on there. Not I thought still was. Is it I know? He's in different movies and things, and he's just so talented, but he shared a video of himself being approached by La cops with guns drawn, they had him get on the ground, and actually one put their neon his neck, and this went down in April, and he sharing it now because they had said that he resembled one of the suspects. They were looking for got audio from that area. Tickets me put it on my neck on. It wasn't as long as George Floyd, but I know how that feels I said. Why are you doing this like what's wrong? They said you the description of a black man in this in this area with gray sweatpants on in a gray shirt I told them I said. If you look Google right now, Jay Pharaoh, you will see that you made a big mistake. Wow crazy crazy, so yeah, so he shared that over the weekend. And then this is really cool so Barbara. Streisand I guess she is helping out George Floyd's family so his six year old daughter. Jonah is now a Disney shareholder. Gift from Barbara to to Jonah I thought was really really special, and then Howard Stern's in big trouble. Did you hear about this? So somebody uncovered this video from ninety three. It was one of his pay per views, and he said the N. Word, and he also was wearing a black face, and so he's making fun of Ted Danson. I remember this bit after he was married to Whoopi, he did this together, yeah! I thought they were married got married after that 'cause it said at the time his then girlfriend Whoopi they work together for a while. I thought they were married when when he did okay, did black face in front of what be like at some type of comedy thing or what it was. Yeah, he was making fun of Ted. who had worn black face and use the N. word a roast of his then girlfriend Whoopi earlier that year, so yeah, so people were talking about stern over the weekend, and then beyond say she sent a letter to the. The attorney, General of Kentucky calling for the arrest of the three cops involved in the Brianna. Taylor's death we. We've heard a lot about her online for the past week or so, and just such a sad sad thing her passing, and just how young she was, and just had such a bright future, and just terrible had to do with the no knock warrant. They went in and the The boyfriend I think He didn't know what was going on, so he started shoot, so he got shot, but he's alive, and then they shot her. She passed turned out to be like it was I. Think was completely. It was the wrong apartment or something right? Or I'm not sure. Those those known so there's certain I think Louisville's one of them, but there are certain cities that are doing away with the the no knock warrants. Wow. You don't have the potential of something like that happen. Yeah, sad and then Taylor Swift, so she talked about this over the weekend I saw her post, and she just said she's sick that they're still statues in her home. State of Tennessee, the celebrate racist historical figures who did evil evil things, and so she was calling for the statues to be taken down, and I know in whereas it imparts of. Over the weekend they were saying to bring down those statues and put statues of Brittany Spears up there like we love Britney Spears. Loving so yeah, they were talking about that This is pretty cool and I've gotTA check the Dr for this so Oprah's. Where do we go from here now? It's on the own network and she had I think it was a three part series after the protests. Like what what do we do for action? Where do we go from here? Which is awesome? I'm glad she's doing that. But seventeen point six million viewers tuned into that, so that's pretty cool and I'm sure more will by day, and then it looks like on Sunday because his father's Dan Sunday ABC's. Going to have special John Legend and family, a bigger love father's day, so it's going to have several celebrity DADS on their with their kids and stuff with Be Kind of fun to tune in to the Sunday night and then Aaron, Carter. We talked about him last week, so he and his Melanie suffered a miscarriage. and. He proposed over the weekend so I guess they are going to try for another child and he's wanting to settle down. So this is the one I think. They did have a domestic back in the day and they broke up, and then they got back together, and then she was pregnant, and then she lost the baby, and now they're engaged. Let's speech therapy Monday. Let's hope that he's getting therapy. Man that dude mass. Talked about him like we were. For the longest time we didn't hear anything. And then all of a sudden, he's been back in the news. What year year and a half. Yeah, OH, yeah! We were like where what happened Aaron Carter and then came back. We summoned. Literally like a bad day or the day after. My Fall Shame on you. Feel some shame for that. Person and then Kanye West so he's trying to expand his brand. And he filed documents to trademark easy for the beauty and skin care line, so he can have stuff like makeup. False lashes facial masks nail Polish moisturizers bath gels, body, oil, shaving cream hair. CARE products, perfumes other hygienic. Products Toothpaste Deodorant even pine scented, Pine cones and aromatherapy pillows so. This stuff's going to be priced. Because we know is clothing is like outrageous. Totally so this stuff's going to probably be unaffordable. Yeah well, and he tried this route before back in two thousand seventeen, he filed similar docs. to have the rights to Donda, which has mom's name and she had passed away after two plastic surgery procedures. He wanted Donda brand cosmetics but he never really got that going so I guess he's GonNa. Do Easy instead, and then this is an easy. It's G. Easy. So, he was spotted over the weekend with his new girlfriend Ashley. Benson and I know Kylie got really upset about it. He's case Hollywood. It's weird. These done with chick's name Ashley, because that's hall's his real name. Yeah good called. Switched around the letters you call that I, love that hung. Have a good memory, so yeah. He was holding hands with her. Over the weekend they went to a grocery store in L.. A., and Y- Kylie was so. She was like that's my, so you'll probably the third fourth date. He's going to be sitting there with her and me like so, what are your thoughts on? If you took the H. and your name, he put it in the front and Swat and then hall. Do you like the name halls yeah? Actually what's wrong with that? I'm just I like to? Have you ever thought about? Maybe switching around the letters, he'd get punched. Good and then Let's see okay so you. Do you have some audio? You said from Dave Chapelle? From comedy special, but it wasn't really a comedy special that he released on Youtube. Yes, so this was something that net flix released on Youtube. It's called eight forty six, and that's the the amount of time that George Floyd the cop on his neck So, so, what is it that are you talking about? The Don Don. Lemon, thing in the story some of that, too. I can fill in the blanks. If you WANNA play you. Set it up and then I'll. Yeah, so it was like we said on Youtube from net flicks, and he passionately spoke about racial injustice and the murder of George Floyd, and so it's a twenty seven minute long segment, but like you said it's called eight forty six, so he went off on CNN's Don Lemon, and then he went off on conservative commentator Candice Owens. So the reason that he went off on Don. Lemon is Don. Lemon set called out black Hollywood and said that all the people that are black Hollywood need to take a stand up, so that's where Dave shop. That's what this bit here. This little clip of audio is directed at Don Lemon who radio. About Celebrity! No, this is streets talking for themselves. They don't need me right now. He's basically saying he doesn't need to say anything right now. But he sounds like he might if he needs to, but right now he doesn't need to and then Don Lemon so It sounds like after this special was released somebody on. CNN brought it up and said Hey I. I woke up this morning and saw your name. You know Dave Chapelle called you out. And what are your thoughts on that? We should all be challenged and I actually. Welcome Day to criticize me. Talk about me. Call me whatever I'm actually I think it's a it's a moment where we have two men of color who have two big platforms we're agreeing or disagreeing with each other and having a discussion and people are actually paying attention so and he also went on to say. I think his nieces and nephews, you know. They thought it was like he I think he thinks that you know he's got some credit. Some street cred with his nieces and nephews because Dave, chapelle thinking I. Don't know if if they're thinking you know. I. Don't know if they're thinking that or not man. Because he came at you, you totally did and he said you know Dave was saying when Don CNN was saying that he said I was screaming at the TV's. Like you know I, dare you I. Dare You, and so he's A. Do you want to see a celebrity right now? He said who gives an F. about what John Rule thinks right now. It doesn't matter about what the celebrities think. And then he went off on Kansas and I saw on. Instagram, she was she was actually honored. She was like oh sweet, and she was all proud. You mentioned her even though he called her out. WHO's candice? I don't know who she's a pretty awesome. She's a conservative commentator and she's got a huge prejudice. presence on social and I think she's involved with news media. One of my best season was tell me about her this week and I started following her just to see what her input and take is on everything to. Call her out to. She was like I'm so honored and she reposted as stuff. Give him props and she's like that's fine like everybody's cool to have an opinion in this like, let's discuss. Let's discuss so. But check out all the Hollywood lanes picks that Franken just dot com I've got new stuff stuff up there. Each week day we talked about will earn a having a baby with his girlfriend, and so there's a picture of those two up there and kid number three for him. Three Boys Yep so two boys with his ex wife Amy. Poehler, and then he just had that son with his girlfriend. Girlfriend our, how old are the boys with aim? Gosh, they are not teens yet. I think they're both tweens. Yeah, they're getting up there. Because it's like archie and I can't think of the other arching able or something like that I can't think of their names, but yeah a lot of good stuff up there, and you can see Jalen Iran's new puppy. Some good stuff on the Hollywood headlines page under. Dot Com total three puppies with J. Lo Ping. Yeah, let's. Ninety seven, one DHT's Franken. Jess show podcast here on iheartradio. Time to Dr, be therapy, Monday doing good morning. Have you been warnings. I've been well. We've been good hanging in there, so we got a couple of things that we want to talk about so one of them is. We'll start it off with the email We'll call her. Miss X, and she listens to our show I in when we were talking about this I think last week we'd mentioned it for one of the last times that we'd mentioned that with the black lives matter movement, and how some people. Are saying all lives matter and we're like. Hey, if you can't just you know, have empathy for black people, and for what they're going through and see where you know where they're coming from and listen to the hurt. You know and Kinda. Give it some thought, and that's where this mistakes or misses act. She said you know what until you guys kind of framed it that way and we're talking about that. I was one of the people that were. Were like will all lives matter and it's like? Of course it's, but that's not what we're talking about. We're talking about the black lives matter movement, and if you can't just you know again, have some empathy and sympathy or empathy and sympathy sympathy for what they're going through. Then I think that's part of that's a big part of the problem of where we are in the country, so that being said so. She said she's changed her her thought process. Process on that and his kind of opened up in his able to see what we've been talking about what people are talking about? She really great. Yeah, it's a great thing. It's huge and she said that her husband still struggles with that. Okay, so still is like in the you know. We'll all lives matter kind of thing, so she's having problems with that. And she said I struggle with my white privilege and the shame that I feel associated with. With it, and she was kind of wondering. You know other people if they have kind of the same feelings, I guess when it comes to this. And then she said I don't really know how to have a productive start of a conversation about this with my friends, family and associates who don't understand, so she's looking for advice and I said well. Let's get Dr Burton on because he's GonNa give some better advice than I think we would give. Oh I. Don't know you guys are really pretty good at it after all these years so I don't know about that well, it just professional I guess is what I'm saying that first thing that I would say that Hopefully it's not shame, and it's more guilt. Yeah, good comes from shame and shame implies that there's something wrong internal. You know with her as opposed to go. Go which is just I did something wrong, but I think that I need to realize. We've all been raised this way and but but the good thing is. She wants to learn about You know what's going on and be more important. So as far as how do you talk to family members I? Think that's kind of the basic question, isn't it? Yeah, pretty much, right? She just wants to know how to start that conversation. And so this is a variation on what I often tell couples, and it is, and you probably heard it from me before. Don't enter into the other person's process unless you're invited and what I mean by that is if they say to you like it's a family member says to you, oh. Yeah, you tell me about this. Black lives matter then what you what they've done saving. Fight it you two share, but I think before that if she just starts talking about it then it's going to seem like she's trying to either swayed them or change their mind. Mind or convert them to her way of thinking and I and I don't know that anything good comes from that and they think that the best thing she could do is decide what her values are. So what are valued and then live them and as she lives them and she changes what she's doing. You know in her life in the world. Then I think what will happen is the other people around her might say well. Tell us about what's going on, and so once. There's that invitation of tell me what you know what it is you're doing. Then I think she can start talking to a about it, but I think if she just goes into it and said you know I. Want you to think differently about it I. think it will start a debate and they'll just become probably more entrenched in the way. They're thinking about it, so what advice tour! What if somebody in that like whether? It's the friends or associates our family. What if you have somebody that you know was begging? You and they're trying to get you into. You know that their views are you know one eighty from yours? Yeah, and they're trying to. Because you know some people that do the bathing and they thrive on that, so I mean obviously there I would say stay away from a or is there a way to maybe like you know somebody's bathing you? To maybe get it. You know I own some advice to possibly get them to see your point. Because sometimes people, you'RE NOT GONNA change their mind and in others. There might be some advice where you can okay use this, and then. Maybe they'll see where you're coming from. Right that said some important thing bathing, and they try on it sure right they they drive on getting the interaction, and so the way you you don't give him the interaction. You just stay away from it because if you think about nothing good is going to come from it. It's going to set up that conflict. And so she wants to have the conflict where each is entrenched in the way of thinking then I suppose she could go down that road but I. don't see that as being very productive. I think you're exactly right that there are people out there who gonNa Bait you and want. They just want to engage in in the discussion the conflict, but she doesn't have to give it to them and I think it's a better option not to give it to them, yeah. Isn't that what we tell? Young kids often again bake right. They'd each other right now, and the response to the child is well just. Don't you know play away? The Way I've got friends. That'll that'll do that in knowing that I've got a completely different opinion and passionate person. Yeah, and I just don't and I just just don't even take the bait. Yeah, don't even take the bait like this I'm not taking it right. Yeah! I know where this conversation is going to go, and it's just like you're hung up. You know you've got your opinion. I've got my opinion I. DON'T WANNA. Go there. And I think what they want. They want the conflict. I don't know they want A. Good discussion. Open discussion. They just want the conflict and so. I love what you said going back to what you were saying a little earlier as being the example you know just being example, what are you doing? How are you changing? How are you using it? You know not just words because a lot of people especially with social media. It's like words, words words. What's the action back in it up? You know be the example I love that. Okay I think there's a lot of action that you. She can't take now. Absolutely. Yeah, all right. The next topic is this and it's from this topic that we actually threw out a little earlier and I think you heard the Mrs X. That was on with us a little after nine. So she falls into this and for the people that Mrs. Just WanNa set it up, so you found out about your spouse that happened before you guys got together got married, or whatever in a committed relationship, and whether that had to do with you and your spouse. As far as you know together like if it was or if it's something that was even before you. That had nothing to do with you. It was in the past and you found out, and that's kind of where Mrs X. Falls into this were she called into the show and she found out that her husband, so they together now they have kids and I guess he came to her not too long. and Said Hey. I was with other guys before you, so he's Pan Sexual I wasn't aware of that. I. Think I'd heard of it, but it wasn't so. That's people that are attracted to energy is what people texting not parts parts. So, what would you say to somebody that found out something while they're in a relationship there married had to do with their their spouse and I guess it's a different answer depending on the situation like let's say. That's right. Yeah, let's okay, so let's let's. Let's highlight the MRS X. Ding. So you heard that phone call like what would you say her? As far as a couple of a couple of things, stand out and she. She's saying he's a great dad. And? She loves him, and I think that he has agreed to be monogamous and they didn't their relationship. He hasn't been with anyone else. So. I and I think what stands out to me. She was angry because she would lie. To. Which I think is true and so I would be angry about that, but Do you remember in any marriage or any relationship? You only have three choices you get divorced. You can stay in the relationship and have it be the same where you stay in the relationship, and have it be different, and so it seems to me that there's enough good here that she would stay in the relationship although I, don't you? She didn't indicate that she was leaving. She just doesn't know how to move forward. And so it's all about repair and repair this. Why because I think it was a lie? I. Even that. It's hard to say yes. You deserve to know everything or no. You don't I think in this case. This would probably be something that you know before you're married. You'd probably want to disclose that and I don't know that that means you wouldn't get married. But right now it's about her accepting. It's about acceptance because she can't change it. And for him I think it's about repairing the trust issue, 'cause in the end. It's a trust like if the okay. If he lied to me about this than most people think. What else is he lying to me about? And they go to this class of what else isn't he telling me? But just the fact that in and of itself he's been with other people or even other men doesn't mean they can't have a good marriage. And it seems to me like absent disclosure. They have a good marriage. Didn't you pick that up, yeah? Sounded like it Yeah Yeah Yeah. Yeah, good father! Good husband, so don't throw away. Yes, he made an air. In in what essentially line to her about it, so the step now is you repair that and you move on. It doesn't change anything about what they're doing now through Cain hopefully Mrs actually. She said she was gonNA. Listen for the segment to hear your advice. And what about this one here, so somebody texts and eight, hundred four five found out my hunting on my honeymoon, my husband had cheated while we were engaged and then also found out that he had a gambling problem, so would like. The active. That's terrible and I think she needs to decide at that point. You're only one day into the marriage. And you remember. And again I say this all the time. That's not about love. It's about behavior. And so, do you want to go into a marriage? Where one? There's a gambling problem. 'CAUSE SAT in. That's pretty big now. and and it gets to be a real problem, and then the cheating the cheating says to me. It's a trust issue again. So if you can't trust this person and you're just bury started on the relationship. I think now's the time to really think about. Do you want to stay in the marriage? Certainly before you ever get to the point of having children, and it's just so much easier and everyone. Will you no wonder why you're divorce? He now you know so soon after but I. Think it's. She really needs to car, I'm not saying divorce. I'm just saying you really need to look card. And this is a good time to make up your mind, and those are really those two things. Those are big down the road there. It's just going to get bigger, so let's say the situation up a little bit just to somebody else's in different situation, so let's say that the cheating happened while they were engaged. Now throw a couple of kids into the mix, and let's say they've been married for ten years. and. You have the spouse because you hear the stories of the spouse with the guilt. Let's say there hasn't according to the spouse that cheated hasn't cheated. You know up until since they've been married like before while they're engaged swears that he or she will never do it again i. don't know why you would at that point even put it on. The other like I wouldn't want to know that like if I were the person being cheated on, and it happen as long as it's not happening during you know what I mean I don't I don't know why, but I guess it's the guilt. Get you against the guilt because the guilt gets in the way of their relationship, yeah! So I understand the disclosure, but I think at that point. Then you look more repair. Especially, if you know the per thing, I made this error I made a mistake. I didn't tell you then. I think you can repair it and I think they may need help from hearing. You know from a good couple of therapists, but I I do think you have children. You have this history and yes I made this mistake ten years ago and I I really regret it. So in in that I think we've all done things. We're younger that we regret. I know I have no yeah. And so it's part of the human condition. But I think from the caller that we heard earlier and maybe this situation. The hardest part is the line. That and that's my experience with couples in the office. Is that often? It's not you went and have sex with someone else. I can't trust you because you lied to me about it. So what? And you can't. You can't have that emotionally and but relationship without the trust, and you really can't have a good physical relationship without the emotional relationship, and so it all works together. You have to repair the trust. I don't see how it works without. How often do you do you hear this or see this? As far as like something from the past that comes out during the relationship that the person is having a problem getting through to see that a lot. A Lot I see it. Often yeah. and. It is a K. and I think what's important than what we work on If they come to my office what they want to someone to help them repair so what we work on repair, and how do you? How do you rebuild trust over time? And it does take time. It's not a switch that you can flip, and so you have to expect that this is a process, but again it goes back to the choice. You choose to stay in the marriage. And you choose to repair it and be able to move on right on yeah. I love that all right. Give the number over an asteroid counseling. Somebody's listening to one. The wants to get in touch, eight, zero, one, five, eight, one, zero, four, two two. We Love You man, thank you guys have a great week. We'll talk to you next, Monday. almost ten o'clock, so here's what's coming up in the ten o'clock hour. If you can relate to what we're just talking to Dr, be about found out something about your spouse whether you're married or it was like before you guys got together. We're in a committed relationship so maybe, or it could be like that eight to nine for five the engaged I mean you're committed at that point. But if you've got something that happened. I. Guess just as of a while ago, but you're finding out now, and you're having a problem getting through, and you want to share with us at eight to nine four five other things that we've thrown out. We wanted to know if there was somebody that you were mean to when you were younger. And you think about it weighs on you, so that's something earlier in the show, so and it comes from Liam. Who is been all over the news and it sounds like she the latest with that. She's going through and she's calling these people in telling them sorry for being mean to that, she was mean to them and their career, and to the point where people were coming out of the woodwork in the last couple of weeks. Totally Oh. Yeah, I can tell you my story and she definitely is the main person. You've been listening to the ninety seven one HD Frankie and just show podcast right here on iheartradio. Maybe, in twenty minutes. If we get anything, we'll share them, but if you WANNA. Chime into the show with this I'll share the story that Kylie share with me. It's pretty it's it's. It's a funny story, but it's about this woman. She was re redecorating one of the rooms in her house, and she found something when she was doing the wallpaper. So did you ever find anything like when you got your house or whatever you bought? Bought a place in in you found something whether it's in the house and the basement, the attic or in the garage. Like what did you find? That'll be a cool topic because we watch a lot of HDTV over the weekend. It was a rerun, but it was one of the shows, and they found all these letters from the thirties and forties. This couple win. They were either I married, or they were dating, and he was coming back from the war. It was just reliably in the forties then. Maybe, Ellie who knows who all? That's a trip. Did? They get in touch with the family. And you know at least the kids, or whatever of the of the couple believe they did? I believe they got it to the grandeur grandson, whatever and they thought that was so special, and they left a couple of them for the new homeowners. Because it was. You know really special to. The home is was pretty cool. So what is it that you found in your home or the place that you got it's? It's worth sharing with us at eight to nine zero five. So, what is it that you found? That was pretty cool, just like Whoa so eight to nine four five. Just try to keep. It assures you can in about twenty minutes. We'll get to those right now. We're getting new a couple of these texts. You found out something about your spouse and it happened before you guys like were committed I guess whether you're married or before you got. Involved with each other now might have had something to do with you and your ex. Far As okay. Maybe you were just dating and then you found out later. Oh, no something that were like the one text came in. It's going to messed up. They were engaged on their husband cheated and she found out. It sounds like what on her honeymoon. came out as a gambler to cheated and diction, so that's kind of what we're talking about. Or maybe it was just in their past, and you found out about it, and you're having trouble right now. Getting through that processing through it If you missed Dr Burton therapy Monday. He gave some really good advice with that. If you're in that situation, so you have to listen to the podcast when that's posted about eleven o'clock this morning, but we have some good text at eight to nine four five. This one I forgot. We kind mentioned this earlier on the fly, but it was basically so husband wife. They're married and he. He told her only with you and one other girl, but he'd actually been with her one other girl, and then four other girls, so he totally didn't want to tell her. His real number was five. You know with the well besides her, and so she's having a hard time with that. She's like I thought it was just me and like your. I love, and therefore the girl who these four of the girls so and they're married now, and it's been a while, but it's bothering I'm going to try to make a little better. Maybe maybe it doesn't bring it. Yes, so it could. Really five could have been fifty. Seriously I know guys around with St Plus or more. Of the so could be could be looking at. That number is very true I'm just trying to feel better. That's right, so you guys. WanNa be in trend right now. That's called your body count. If you're wondering by Body, count and we've done the topic. Maybe we'll have to do the topic because we've done it over the years the body count. We say it's never good to go to the body count unless you're secure enough. You know with the number that you're going to hear and. and. I think the person. Well maybe not depending where it is in the relationship. They probably know that if you're going to be comfortable and then that that's why they might be padding it. That's true or not patting it. You know as far as lying am about the number. Do you? And Danny to those numbers? Are you guys comfortable? That have you guys talked about that? Yeah? Maybe I mean it's not that big of a deal to us. We talked about it in the very beginning of like a seating like real numbers. You pretty sure that. Extra talking about this at dinner last night me one of my best. He's actually like body count often different friends and things like that this text eight, nine, four, five to my boyfriend and I were together and I discovered he was married via facebook, so they're dating and he's married he? He said they were going through a divorce and I was talking to him on the phone one day, and I heard this small female voice Daddy. I was freaked out because I didn't want kids. Go ask him if he had kids. And how many and he's one of a boy and the little girl is the. The my niece, my niece, they. They ended up breaking up. He dumped her out of the blue with no explanation turns out. That was really his youngest daughter, so he has three kids, and now they. They've been together for fourteen years. What does she still suffering from like him lying to her? And now the kids live with them. She never wanted children thirteen seventeen in nineteen, so they're together. He was married with kids. He lied and said that he wasn't married away. No, we're going through a divorce. then. He said he only had one kid. He really had three, so she's like and they're still fourteen years. Together and she's still having a hard time. Dr Burton Aspen Grove Counseling Yeah. You GotTa Call Him. Seriously, that's a long time is Let's see what else do we? we've got some other other texts at eight, hundred, nine, four five Oh, this just came in. Oh. Let's see the topic coming up in twenty minutes. I don't know what that one is yet sounds like so again, so if you're just tuning into the show this share the story that Kylie handed over to me, but it's kind of a cool story kind of a funny story with this This woman, redecorating her house. It looks like a room in her house. She found something while she was doing the wallpaper, but something cool that you found in the place that you bought whether it was in the garage or the attic or basement from. That's worth share. If you WANNA text into the show, we'll get to those coming up in about sixteen minutes here ninety HD. Ninety seven one. The ht's frank in just show podcast here on iheartradio. Almost ten thirty to ninety seven one. Solid number, one hit music station with Frankie. Ingest were an iheartradio station. So here's what we threw out just a few minutes ago. We wanted to know if you found something. That was pretty cool as far as worth sharing with us at eight to nine four five. What you found when you either bought a home moved into your home Maybe it was in the attic garage, maybe buried in the backyard. It looks like a takes came in there. but the reason we're talking about is Kylie handed the story over to me, so it's about this woman in London I guess. She decided to redecorate one of the rooms in the house, so she started stripping the Wallpaper, and as she peeled back the layers. She saw a message that had been hidden behind the walls. I guess for over two decades, so she uploaded a photo of this on her facebook, and here's what the message said it said. If you ever need to wallpaper this room again, it will take eight rolls of wallpaper. I just bought six rolls at twenty. One dollars parole I didn't have enough at really pisses me off. And then it signed John and it was dated December twenty, first nineteen ninety-seven. So when she uploaded this, it went viral and apparently it got back to the guy's family. He's not on social media, so he I guess he was happy to hear that. The message made a lot of people laugh. But, that was the message. It's kind of a cool thing. When you guys bought your house you in for what over ten years now or something? I was asking Kevin I'm. I gave forget after ten eleven and a half in half. Did you find anything cool anything? You know goes goes along with this topic or when you bought it I. Don't remember Kevin would remember. I have a terrible memory, but I can't think of anything so I know when we so the the House of Mas now in Cottonwood heights and I've shared this before years ago, so if you've listened to the show for years, you might remember the story. But when my ex wife and I bought that house, it was probably we bought ninety eight. And it was shortly after that I was going through the garage, and I found this in their still stuff that they had left because it was a woman that. You know she was older and she passed away and she raise you know. The kids were born in the house are not in the house, but they were. You know they were kind of raised in that house, and then they were all adult children's that they were selling the house for the mom that had passed away. They were all kind of doing that, so there was stuff that was. You know generations that were in that house. In the garage, and so there were a few things that you know. And it finally got to where I was cleaning out some of the garage, and was like a big metal thing and it was dark him can. In the middle of the Grad and finally got him around. Wipe it off and like what is this thing is too big can write big metal can. And it said explosives on. That's yeah and I was like what the you know, so it was sealed, and it was like sealed up close, and at that point I was like what the. So I didn't open it I couldn't open it and. My we didn't know what to do, so we called the Fire Department and said here's what we found. and. I'm at work at this point so when when it happened when she had called I'm like you know, make sure you call tomorrow. So she called while I was at work, and then as I'm rolling up to go home, so this is before like. I can't remember if I think this I'm trying to think that was the ninety I can't remember what the texting situation was, but all I know is. Rolling up to the House and passing the Fire Department as they're leaving, they had had the house. Blocked off bomb squad was there. They had the whole neighborhood blocked off. ABC News was there and I just like everybody's leaving and I pull up in like what what happened. She's like well. I called the Fire Department like you said then I told him that there's this can be found in the garage that explosives on it and this thing and I know they were just like here. They were here the bomb squad and everything and they told me I had to get out, so they evacuated part of the neighborhood anyway, so they the fire department and the bomb squad and they had all their stuff on their gear. And they go and I. Don't know what I'm just waiting waiting to stand down there. You know they couldn't so. She's telling me where she's making her. He goes and then the news shows up and they start shooting. You know and and like shooting footage and stuff like I don't know what's going on. And then there was a woman that came by real quick. You know. She's slowed down and was like I was thought. You guys were cooking meth there something like that can choose. And I was like you're you know so? She's this I'm not kidding. That's an actual story that no. Picking this woman that we didn't know thinking that. She's hilarious. Funding like we don't know Yucky can't say that. We have no new that long lady and we don't even know you at all. But the guy so I guess how the story played out is is the bomb squad? They come out, and and the guy was like, and he takes his hood off. Thing you know the thing is the gear these takes it off and he goes. Well, we opened it up. And it was just grain. Grain. They were expecting that. They were GONNA like guess. Detonate this thing I don't know how they do. Take it away and detonated or whatever but they were expecting to seek because it's explosives on there. And, they said you did the right thing, but they were disappointed that it was just grain. You know like make us some bread. Yeah, so it was like food storage. You know so. We had no idea, but that was kind of a cool thing, but then turned out to be this big ordeal in the neighborhood. Yeah, so, what is it that you found? That's worth share in an eight two nine four five when you bought the house. This is pretty cool. I was on the receiving end of items in the attic, so a family friend found my paternal grandmother and her brothers items. Family photos has notebooks, and he was back in med school like in the twenties. That's pretty cool. found a small bag of rolled up marijuana joints in the light fixture of the bedroom downstairs so I guess the question is. What did you do with those? That's the question you know, and if you did did it work. It's still. Legitimate to correct. Legitimate questions. Let's see. Hope, that's a different one. This one, so we found an old newspaper from nineteen, thirty six along with a glass window. No clue what that window went to it looked like it didn't belong in the house. Yeah well, my family and I lived in Salt Lake House. We lived in my brother and I found an old music box buried in the backyard. And then this text today, two nine four five kind of freaky found needles in the crawlspace needles. Yeah, first scary apartment. My hubs and I lived in after we got married fourteen years ago that yeah, you needle. YIKES! Art Getting anything else we'll share it here if you want WanNa text into the show. Just keep it. A shortage academy can call if you WANNA. Call Eight, one, five, seven, zero, one, nine, seven, one or text into the show. It's eight to nine four five. That is the shortcut post Malone and wow now ninety seven. Seven, the HT's Frankie. Just show podcast here on iheartradio. Ten forty, nine ninety simple ones hd salt lake's number one hit music station with Frankie and just we gotta share that that follow up text. Because I was wondering people listening were wondering we were just talking about what did you find in the house? When you moved in or Condo or whatever like in the basement or attic, or what just found something in the house, and it comes from the story. I've London where this woman was Redo a room in a house. She was stripping the Wallpaper, and there was a message from the guy that wallpapered at like twenty years ago and said how many rolls it'll take at what he paid for then. And then said that he got burned because he only bought six, and it pissed off. was just a little message in his name was John said like December whatever nineteen ninety-seven, and so she posted that and went viral, and that's why we're talking about that. And what did you find in the house? But somebody said they found a couple of marijuana joints, said marijuana cigarettes wherever founded in what light fixture and one of the bedrooms, and I said you know because when you moved I, said well. So, what did you do, did you? You know test it exactly get. Did it work I mean I. Don't know if that's your thing. And what did they say I couldn't what if it was laced with something unknown I couldn't take the risk of toilet. Happy Day I guess I. Don't I'm the same way? I'd be like well, no this. Way all right so dad's Day. Father's Day's coming up on Sunday, so the average age or average guy should say. Should say starts turning into his father's molting into his dad at the age of thirty seven. Okay, that's the average. Do I think I started taking turning into my dad much younger than that? With some of the things, I remember my early twenty s when I was living with roommates I remember yelling at them because you know you start paying for utilities and the electric Ya yelling at them. Like, do you need the light sound you? Still like yelling at them for. For the lights because we have to pay for you, know and the door. Yeah, maybe visit the AC. Lived in Florida, it's like I remember. Like, Oh, my Gosh I'm my dad, and that was like twenty one twenty one years old again and like a multi into my father. But here's the list according to the survey from ten to one, these are things. Signs that you're turning Your Dad's ten was you finished the leftover food on everybody's plate? How Fun aid your data ever do that. You guys are GonNa. Dad didn't really do that, but I do that I do that with Axel, a his food and sometimes some Tammy's. Number nine is you don't like it when other people touch Thermostat I, do not oh stats hate that. My Dad was pretty fastidious on that. Yeah, eight is you love to mow the lawn so I don't. My Dad was a like he, so we mow the lawn. And then I got out of it when I was young, because I had some really bad hay fever. So there were you know I had to rake in snow and all that I had to do all the other stuff but I couldn't mow the lawn for a period of time, because my is literally would swell shut. Yeah so much, so that was. that. Was My excuse. Yeah, so, but my dad loved doing yard work and I. Don't like doing it on the fan of it all at all. Like doing the weeds up with the cabin this so little boy and I were were he was helping me, and you have to just sucks I. don't like doing it. You Mute commercials. That's number seven. So you're turning your dad if your debt so if your dad did that, I don't really do that, but you grunt getting a off the couch. And I remember when we when our little boy. Let's see so he's going to be four. I can remember when He. Just started walking so I think he started walking like ten and a half months and I'll never forget. It's probably eleven months old. He went and he picked up one of his toys. And he was like this, he went. Any. And I was like. Oh, my gosh, that's funny for me. And he gets it for me and I think Tammy kind of grunts, too, but it's more so me Let's see number five on the list. You fall asleep on the couch, watching sports every dad. Me and then they denied that they're sleeping. I'm not sleeping whereas my I, I don't do that. I really I really don't do that. You tell your kids to ask their mother. That's four you start telling dad jokes is three. Better at that before even. Doing, that even before. Molten and my dad years ago. number two. You fix things instead of just replacing them. A number one is you start taking grilling very seriously and you know I haven't done that. My Dad was a I was just yeah. I was just talking to my mom about that. He had the the these ribs that he would for days he would cook them. And you know getting prepared, and so my dad was joe little. Guy And he was really good and I and I've never I mean. I'm okay at grilling, but I've never taken it so I haven't hit that point where I've taken it serious interesting now. My Dad and Kevin are like serious griller. Sorry and Kevin's Dad Oh. Yeah big time. Yeah, that's a big deal. What age did Kevin Start taking it seriously the grilling you know gosh, that's a good question. I've always remembered him being like that, but I think in next level. It was a few father's days ago. We got him and really Nice Grill, and so then I think he upped his game. Even more gorillas, you have to little triggers or something I asked me cars and I can tell you. Real. Time texting or T. Tammy texted this, so she said here. We go so excellent hearing. Oh, excellent, already becoming his father. Text me this picture that I took of him very proud. Yeah, so I took. That's the very first time they appeared outside. And he did it up at the cabin. Cheeks. Like the third time. I think at that point then he'd been pin outside. So this is the very this. We were a hike up at the cabin, and he just dropped trout and started peeing. That's and I. told him right before. Because the first time it was it was a false alarm. So you drop trial and I'm like okay. Buddy so lean, lean into lean into it, so you don't get pee on yourself and he's like. Oh, I don't have to go down and then he pulls his stuff up and then we're getting ready to walk back to the car almost to the trail head. He's like I gotta go down I'm like all right buddy, so he just and he did it very proud. He's like. Don't take my picture I'm like buddy. I said this is gold. This is the very first time that you're peeing outside and I'm taking a picture. This is big time. ME. All Right? We're going to turn things over to Jeff Jeff McCartney so have a great Monday. We'll talk tomorrow. Anything else. I think we're good. We're good. We'll happy Monday. Got The PODCAST GONNA be posted a few minutes. Thanks for the phone calls in the text to the tax topics. Those will. You posted as just a few minutes and Frankie and DOT com.

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Be Kind

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Be Kind

"Ninety seven one at's Frankie and just show podcast here on iheartradio. We'll tell you all of my. All of my sex advice comes from me and my GRANDPA. GRANDPA gives me the best advice I love my GRANDPA. The debt was everybody can meet Bobby. You lucky enough to have your grandparents and your life? The YOU WANNA laugh. Listen to me. That's all your grandparents. If you gotTA UP A. Do you WanNa laugh as your GRANDPA? Just see what he say. Cigarette pop went last time. Just to see what he says I promise you. It'll be the funniest her life. My grandpa never answer me. He just a bunch of stuff like this. This'll be sad GRANDPA. Has. Begley say hey. Hey, look at me. Okay Hey. Hey Hey. What do you know what I'd be all right? Okay. Let me tell you put that key door lock that. Okay Hey, give it a walk. Yes, I did yes I did. Odds role yet. What's? What does that mean? What did you just? Kills Millions Still listening to the interview with Joe Rogan Kevin Hart. That's a pretty long. That's funny. Seven zero nine. It's ninety civil ones. Hd Salt Lake's number. One hit music station with Frankie Ingest welcome into Wednesday. It's going to be another hot day today. We're looking at high somewhere around ninety and then tomorrow we're going to be into the mid to think mid-nineties the same thing for fraud, and then it sounds like it's cooling down for the weekend and we're GONNA. See some cool temps I think for Monday and Tuesday somewhere like in the sixties. Like the high. Crazy, so it's going to be a big cool down coming up sixty six. As you get up right now. We got a lot of things to get to. We've got the middle additional. Hollywood headlines in about thirty minutes. We'll tell you why we're talking about this and stories of celebs going above and beyond to be kind to. If you've got a story, and there's one that was in the news recently and Adalah listeners either four. Four in the forwarding, the story to me or tagging me in the story and it's just it's really cool story, but yeah, if you've got something where it was a sled that went above and beyond to be really kind to you love to hear it. Yeah, tool, set about thirty minutes, or we'RE GONNA. Come back into the middle edition of Hollywood headlines for Wednesday, what are we talking about? This is really cool news for area. `Grande. You've been listening to the ninety one HD Frankie and just show podcast right here on iheartradio. Before we get into the middle edition of Hollywood headlines. It goes along with yesterday's show, and everybody's been talking about and I'm glad that it's being talked about in Glen, we're. I think we're all glad that we've hit this point. where it seems like in hoping and praying that something will happen there. There will be some positive change. Change is coming from this. I can't see going I mean really. I mean just maybe that's just being optimistic. It does feel different right but I I guess we'd have to ask more people. You Know Yeah I. Think we're exposed to a lot working in the media to yeah, and I just I'm hoping in my gut. I'm hoping that this is it. This is one we're going to see some change for people for for injustice that some people have seen and felt more than others. Yeah, their whole lives turn. It's been. been happening for a long long time in this country, but this is from one of our listeners I'll call her missus X., and then we'll get into the middle edition. Hollywood headlines. He's a longtime listener. The show she's twenty-five. She's listened since she can remember with her mom dropping her sisters off and Mrs X. off at School Elementary School, she said your show has been a major impact on me in that it's been the most consistent thing in my life and constant she said almost every week or every weekday morning for the past nine years I've made sure to listen to the show I actually live in another state, so I'm not GonNa say the state only because of I don't want you know if there's still some family here I just don't want her to get grief for what she's saying. or to come back to bite her She said I live in another state I. Don't go day without listening. Listening to the podcast I listened to the podcast today, so I got this late last night, so she's talking about yesterday. Show where opened up the phones to allow listeners to be heard regarding racism racism in the community in the country. I, never get to listen live because of the time difference, but this is one episode I wish I could have called in for. She said I grew up with a stepfather was an active member of the Brotherhood and believed in Nazism. Female and will never understand what it's like to be a person of color living in America. However I have seen the other side, the side of the oppressor, and the side of the true hatred, almost every day of my life for many years, I witnessed incomprehensible hate I felt the emotions of many people. My stepfather terrorized. even thought I was taught. She said even though I was taught. taught to hate people for their ethnicity or skin color at a very young age. I could feel it was hateful and I could feel it was wrong. I always knew I never wanted to resemble that audiology I saw my stepfather throw his food on the ground of a fast food worker, because a man of color made it in demand demanded it that it'd be remade. I watched him spin. Spin on. People with different ethnicities are her racial slurs. On a daily basis I saw graphic images and witnessed violence that to this day I. Don't know how to talk about it. A man who literally had the words skinhead tattooed on his knuckles along with a swastika symbols. could not convince me to hate the way that he did I guess I have two points, said despite our circumstances. Circumstances what we are raised to believe what we are conditioned to believe, there is a point it's our responsibility to seek out what truly is just and morally right in their job to question what we are told and taught to listen to our gut when things don't feel right and former own opinion, to she said racism has always been here. I can't even begin to count the. Instances of blatant racism. I've witnessed and that's just one person, one hateful person to cause harm to more lives than I can remember a became less socially acceptable and now fortunately live in a time where we can pull a plotter phones and spread the awareness that it's real These extremist groups do exist. They are secretive, and they thrive off of contention. They want violent retaliation. They WANNA excuse their in justify their agenda. I will never experienced that hate and I cannot speak. Speak to it, but I wanted to share my thoughts, so thank you for listening for always being constant I will continue to take the show with me. Always love you guys. Oh my gosh, so yeah, that's crazy to see to see that side where we talk about people that are filled with hate and she grew up with it and thank God she. You know 'cause there are wrong. Yeah, because there are people because we talk about that in an hate, breeds hate. and Luckily, and fortunately for her, and for people around her, and sounds like I'm not sure she has kids, but you know she was able to see in feeling her gut. Because unfortunately, there are a lot of people out there that. Don't yeah, you know. They see it in their life. Oh, it's taught. Yeah, they learn it and they go on, and they just limit. Limit and they think that it's okay. That is so. That's a crazy story I. Mean I just like break that breaks my heart for I. can't even imagine you know being exposed to that and having to live with that. That's that's tough. Wow, so thank you for the email and thank you for listening to us and taken us with you wherever you go. Appreciate that are let's get into the middle edition of Hollywood headlines Militia Hollywood headlines. This morning is brought to you by Davis Vision in South Jordan well, this is pretty cool, so she is. What area Grandes mid mid-twenties Kylie. So. Is Killing it. She's killing on the charts, so it's rare to score a number one hit on the billboard one hundred. But Areana as done it four times. With Lady, Gaga with. Your rain rain on me up, so it's take this just the past year and a half like Rhonda is so talented, so thank you next was November of twenty eighteen seven rings. Was February of two? Thousand, nineteen SEC with you with Bieber was last month, and then this month with Gaga rain on me or hits. That is huge in a year and a half, and no other artists has done that I mean. She made history with that good for her and then neat. Okay, so yeah six. Are you still fighting with her? Did you guys make up Kylie your music so? We, so that was really cool news. Twenty seven coming up June twenty six right now we have June yeah. It's GonNa Be June twenty three days. So. That's awesome news and then Leeann Michelle is in big trouble. Did you hear the yesterday I did but he and I was reading this and I thought well, and then I remember there were some other people that call her out. She's been called out many times over the years. Other people that have worked with her for being means it sounds like we're there smoke or fire with us. She's a Brat. She's a Brat. Brat from what we've heard over the years, but this is even more so so the Samantha where she was on Glee back in Twenty fifteen, and she's an African American actress, and she played Jane Hayward on the sixth season of Glee and so I, guess Lee. Michelle was honoring blackout, Tuesday yesterday and she was posting about on social and this Samantha saw that and she was like l. m.. A. O. Remember when I. Had My first TV GIG and you made my life a living hell. She said I'll never forget it. I believe you told everyone that. If you had the opportunity, you would go to the bathroom and my wig. She said and then other things that made me question my career in Hollywood. It was because of you, and so at first people were like Whoa. Where's this coming from? And I guess, Leave Michelle had an endorsement with hellofresh, which is fabulous by the way I love hellofresh. We've had them for a long time and They ended up dumping her yesterday because they were just saying. We can't condone racism nor discrimination of any kind, and so they said you know obviously there are recent claims concerning Michelle and she was one of their spokespeople, and so they terminated their partnership effective immediately. And then people were thinking okay. Maybe this was just a conflict between two co-stars to co workers right so people started doing some digging some investigations and I guess other people that were on glee, because Glee went on for quite some time. They were saying that Samantha was right. They were like yeah. She was a jerk to her. She was always coming at her. Her and like you said it wasn't just the Samantha Gal. It was other people over the years that Lee Michelle had issues with Hailee. Steinfeld, so I guess it was back in two thousand eleven She's twenty three now. Hailee Steinfeld but said that Leah made her cry on the paramount lot, so I would assume that the glee it must have been on glee. About right nine years ago when it was was. I usually go when it was I love that Haley. She's a sweetheart now. She's such a sweetheart. Yeah but it's so everybody was obviously very upset by that, and to hear how Lee Michelle treats, people and I had forgotten that she's had a lot of conflicts until you brought that up and it's true. We had reported stories over the years where people you know, she would go into the big boss's office if she had a problem with somebody and ultimately have them fired. There was another one who was Gosh. It was another that was on there with her and I think it came down to her. Getting fired because she and Liam Michelle had issues was yeah. I can't think of her name. Oh No somebody pretty popular. Big Time. They blamed it on the other girl not Liam Shell. So who knows man who knows crazy right and then Sharon stone. She had a whole tutorial yesterday on social media. Did you guys see her instagram? It's actually I'm good advice how to build your own panic room. At Your Alice Sharon stone stone. She's like you know pandemic everything that's going on in two thousand and twenty. She's like you need to prepare yourself, so she said to her advice was to make your bathroom panic room. least amount of windows right. She said plus having a toilet plus I know people that you do have these really like pretty elaborate, which is not a bad thing if you, if you have the resources in the in the money and the and the space in wherever you're living a bad thing to have your lot of celebrities do have panic rooms, but this is for like us. Salute so use the bathroom. The bathroom put pillows and blankets in the TUB She said to stock up on food and water. Maybe have a cooler in there with like protein bars, or you know some route leathers, things like that things that don't perish easily She just talked about having your computer. Your cell phones all your chargers and block any entry, so you're blocked in the bathroom She said if you are a person that gets really anxious. Maybe have your panic medications with you. Select your CBD from farmer and. And chemist, and then she said, and you know. Stay safe, but don't overreact, but it's just a place where you can go where you know you have everything, and you can feel safe and secure. She said you know things in life you know happen. She said twenty twenty. It's been a very eventful year, and she said we. We always prevail, and and things always find their way to to going back to where they're supposed to be. You know are better and so she said just just trying to help people with preparedness. And, if you made a video depending on what kind of panic room talking about I mean you gotTa have a secure door because usually when I hear panic room I, think of you know like the movie you run into that. If somebody's trying to come into your house. Like that type of pet hodel. Don't. That's what she's talking about and I'm sure she maybe elaborate center video. So, how long was the video? It was quite it was quite long. Maybe she does. Yeah, really get into it in depth, yeah! Long for instagram video. Come on twenty twenty here. I can't even do more than like. UNFOR- thirty seconds and I was out. Of School because yeah, a lot of celebs obviously have the resources, but this was just you know like for us. Everyday beeps that we needed somewhere to camp out and then Garth Brooks so this is fun, so he and his wife have this inside studio G. They have like a little. They have episodes that they talk. And they play music, and I just love these two and at first I was kind of like when hooked up I was of torn because you know he's with. With his wife Sadie for so long, and they had their three girls together, and he went out on the road with Tricia Earwood, and she was single, and I was like Oh. That's not good to be on the road you know, and then ended up. Garth got divorced in interest in. He got married, and they've been married for quite some time. I think this is Tricia, his third marriage, but her longest. She's been with Garth for fifteen years or something, but they just talked about. You know that we will get through twenty twenty and everything that's been going on and talked about sometimes it feels like the world is burning, and you feel alone and garth. He's an eternal optimist, and we know that and he's like I. Don't see it that way. It's like this. Is You know this is how we're learning in how we're growing and growth painful sometimes and he said we'll get through. Through this, and then people were requesting that he played his song it, which was such a good song. We shall be free from nineteen, ninety-two and just one of those songs that is all about unity among the human race, and so he ended up performing that in inside their studio episode, and they were one of the first ones when the pandemic started to do the recordings of the life. Stuff yeah performances at home. Yeah, it was Keith Keith urban was one of them, and then garth and Tricia, and then garth and Tricia had one on CBS that was televised, and it was so good I'm hoping they do it again because I really enjoyed it, but just just a cute couple in just super positive and fun, and then check out all the Hollywood headlines Picks I post him weekdays at Frankie. Just Dot Com, and then we've got more stories coming up at eight twenty. What do we have under the frigging just page? Look at protests of obviously celebrities. Celebrities that we've been talking about over the past couple of days and the peaceful protests and there's some great photos on here like and then people come in at other people so pink was saying. Hey, if you're a racist or fee of problem with me, you know supporting black lives matter than you can unfriendly. It's a quick click. Don't worry about it I'm not going to miss you, so so pink was talking about that Cole. He ended up getting arrested. He said they were you know in the midst of a peaceful protest, but they were. Anyway in Santa Monica and he was like he was fine with it was find to get arrested for the cause and he's isn't. He's in cody as the twins. Okay, so is he the one that just broke up with lily? Yeah, okay, he okay. I get the twins. Stop there's a cool picture of Jay. Z and baby blue on there we've got blake lively and Ryan Reynolds talked about them yesterday. They donated I think two hundred thousand dollars to the N. double ACP because they got married back in the day on plantation in South Carolina and they regret that, and so they wanted to bring awareness to that. We have that shirt that we talked about Vanessa. Bryant posted that that Kobe were that shirt a few. Few years ago, I can't breathe and that was because of Eric. Garner was in the news. I, think that kind of SPA on that. And that was the same type of deal where he was on the streets in Staten, island, because my wife Tammy, and I were talking about as I saw that it was like who is the. I can't remember the the black man that was. It was kind of the same deal where the cops grabbed. Grabbed him, and they put him in this show called right there on the sidewalk, and it was just crazy. I can't breathe. I can't breathe and did he was yeah. That was Eric Garner. So I think that's where that phrase initially came from, and then of course George Floyd said the same thing when when the cop was kneeing him on his neck in Minneapolis, so that's kind of I. Think why that was resurfacing. Because get one that years. Years Ago Kobe did well now. A Sad. It was Georgia's daughter's mother. That was speaking yesterday a press conference. Georgia's daughter is six, and she was just saying how she's not going to see her daddy when she's growing up and he won't walk her down the aisle. It was really sad so former NBA player. Stephen I think Stephen Jackson, so he went on record yesterday and said that he will be there for George Floyd's. Dollars. Go Miss that I'M GONNA be there for I'm going to walk down. I'm going to be there for I'm via white period. I'm. Flawed might not be here, but I'm here for her I'm here, I'm here to. Go, get Jessica, my brother. That's kind of cool. He's GonNa take care of her in the family and then this year so yesterday. George. Floyd's brother and George Florida's from Houston think it was sixty thousand plus people that were marching in Houston. Here's a clip of George Floyd's brother. Is bigger than my brother. We got kids growing up. Dig It they say man who makes seven thirty three coming up here in a few minutes. We'll get into this topic stories about celebs going above and beyond be kind of. We'll set that up and there's a really cool story setting it up coming up. Ninety seven one ht's Frankin just show podcast here on iheartradio. So. Here's a clip here. I thought this was really neat, and maybe little positively this morning as far as and we talk about celebs, and we talk about the good and the bad, and this is one of those chances to maybe highlight some of the the good stories about celebs that you've had a run in with where they went above and beyond. Beyond to be kind so I'm GONNA. Play this clip of audio. And it was it was it went viral about maybe a week and a half two weeks ago and I had a lot of listeners tagging me because they know I'm a big fan of the student at a chance to meet him when he was in town last, September so. So he was up at the Capitol for this big press conference, and then they opened up the vans skate park. It was right before well. It was it was this skate competition, but it's the Skate Park. That's permanent. Right there at the fairgrounds, so it's this beautiful skate park talk talking about Tony. Hawk yeah, and somebody that I've been A. A fan of and looked up to since I was a kid. He's a little older than me, but when he started skating I, mean he is, he's like a skating God. Yeah, I mean he is the godfather of skating. He really is, and he's just the Nice. Guy And I've heard stories and I. Follow Him on twitter, so people always send me. Messages when hey the check out his twitter, and he he he has this really self-deprecation about himself for he'll talk about. When he's just out and about because he knows that. He's just he's really grounded man with he knows who he is normal God, normal dude, and and full from. He's from California. Believe originally, so he's a California kid. But he talks about when people they know the name and they're like Tony Hawk Wonder what he's doing in you know he'll. He'll come back with something just trying to get a rental car. Wonder he's doing now. Thinking that you know that it's the hit. You have the same name as Tony. Hawk and he's actually Tony Hawk and he'll come back with just this. Stuff like that and they'll put those little things. Those exchanges on his twitter feed when he has this normal run INS with people and it's just kind of fun, but Here's a story about Tony Hawk and it has to do with this kid in. And this Fedex driver that actually prompted this really feel good story or ago. Today I. See this Little Kid chasing my truck, trying to flag me down. He's like excuse me. Excuse me so pullover Mike a man. What's up he's. Can You mail something for me? He says get this to Tony Hawk for me. Tell him from Cooper. And I just thought it was adorable. Obviously I can't. Tony Hawk. I don't know Tony Hawkes address, but The least I could do was put it out there in the universe so Tony if you see this cooper twenty Georgia's a big Fan Maybe you can give them a shout out and the maximum drive by his house I'll show them the video and it'll probably make his whole life, so that's kind of where it started and within hours, so it was this skate deck that this kid Cooper had it was all thrashed, and his name was on it, and he just wanted to get it over to Tony that that's all just let him know that he was a fan and it was. You could tell by looking at it like this kid was a hardcore little skater. RIP IT UP. Yeah, and then was within hours of that video like I, said going out from that fed ex driver. What's up? It's Tony Hawk and I just want to say. Thank you so much for the skateboard. It's on its way to my house already and as the thank you gift. I'm going to send you my skateboard this one right here that I'm. So happy that we were able to use social media in a positive way connecting with one another working together to make somebody's Day because that's for us all about. Anybody's got a story. Yeah me to write. Stories if anybody has a story, even if it's a smaller story where everybody Celeb- just going above and beyond so above, and beyond to be nicer client. You've been listening to the ninety seven. Wednesay HD Frankie and just show podcast right here on iheartradio. we're going to get into the CELEB- topic in just a second here I wanted to play this clip of audio because Ed mentioned it a few minutes ago from Oprah. We were talking yesterday blackout. Tuesday and we've been talking, and still you know if you want to continue on the conversation, emails and texts, and this is an email for one of our listeners that may be some other listeners can offer up some some advice for her and we do. Do have some resources. Don't talk about that in a second posted it Frankie and dot com, and maybe this is something that we even talked to Dr Burton about on Monday. Maybe he can offer up some advice for this play that clip from Oprah and then we'll get into this email from this list here. We go no black mother, who hasn't had the conversation with your son about making the adaption to when you were stopped having the right demeanor in. In, the right behavior and going into that whatever is necessary to keep yourself alive, so this is along those lines with this listener who reached out yesterday after hearing her Social Senate didn't have a chance to text or call in during blackout Tuesday, but I wanted to see if you could reach out to other listeners for some advice, so maybe if there's somebody that's listening you know in. You're listening right now, and you can either call in or text. Text us. or maybe email and we'll share it tomorrow whenever we can but I'm a mixed, female, black, white and Latino with a primarily black ten year old son. currently does not know about all what's on with the protests and black lives matter movement however is afraid of the police. Due to some family shows. We've seen that have addressed the issues lightly so even like if you watch shows like blackish. They've because they're very socially conscious. TV Show wondering if there our listeners with kids in a similar age range and possibly ethnic background that have informed their kids in. How basically how should I discuss it with them in tips on how what I can tell them I don't want to be afraid of the police. We have very close friends that our officers at the same time right now things are scary especially for black males in our society. He's sweet kid as a tender heart and I WANNA keep that I would love any feedback if possible longtime listener. Listener love you guys and appreciate the support. You've shown the community and the current issue, so yeah, if you're listening and you can text into the show if you've got some some advice for for our listener, or you want to call into the show at eight, two, one, five, seven, one, nine, seven, one or email us will share this, and maybe we'll even address this with Dr Burton on Monday I love that, and that's the thing too i. think there are were saying. Kylie's enough there. There was a press conference yesterday and and just better ways finding solutions. Because when we were growing up, we were always taught that you know find a police officer. Help you although save you, but obviously that's not the situation. If you are a black purse, and that was the you know what I've shared growing up with my dad You know he's like which you know in in in most. Most cases I think that is, but but again if you're of color, I can't speak to that. We can't speak to you know so. We don't know we don't have the same experience. We don't want to come across as insensitive in that like we're planning awfully because or downplaying it by any means, but it was the same thing growing up. My Dad's you. You know the police are your friends, and unfortunately it's not the case for everybody. Yeah, just never having eight have thought about that until everything we've been talking about, and it's just A. It's unfortunate, so there are ways that you can address this. And this was interesting. I saw the piece on the today. Show as for as they posted it and posted a Franken. Franken just dot com how to talk to your kids about racism, protests and injustice, and they break it down from from young I. Mean Preschool Kindergarten to elementary school high school I love for the different ages, so I sent that over to our listener. Yesterday said this might help, and then of course will throw it out as well so if there's anybody listening. Listening that wants to offer up some advice at eight to nine four five again, call us at eight, O, one, five, seven, one, nine, seven one, or you can email us, and we'll share it, and then maybe on Monday. We'll have Dr Burton address that we have some other things but that could be something that he could speak to because his wife. Wife is a childhood psychologists and therapists. They're an amazing couple. They really are good people, so she would have so we'll give him. Maybe we can do that now. Reach out to him and just maybe even send over the article so he can kind of refer to that, but he can ask Linda's his wife, and kind of go from there so. So that'd be Monday at nine forty, but yeah, if you want to chime in, we'd love to hear from you. We're talking about celebs that go above, and beyond be kind and using the example with Tony Hawk, and it was just a cool story that was about a week and a half ago in the news, and it was this little kid in Georgia. Georgia Little Kid in Georgia that was he's a skater and they Miss Cooper and he wanted to. He found this fedex driver in the neighborhood is like hey, can you get this to Tony? Hawk, deck a snake a deck, so there's no trucks or wheels on this deck and it says Cooper on it. It was just the board for US skateboard yeah yes. It's just you know it's just. It's thrashed and it looks like he's a hardcore. Little Skater just wanted to get to show Tony Hawk that he's Fan and in in this guy from Fedex is like I. Don't know if we put a video on I think Tiktok and got it out there within hours. Tony's people crazy now within hours, and they were responding. Tony was responding back and that's just the way he is. He's just that kind of guy. Guy Could do never heard stories. You know kind of ones that were public, not so public and he's just. That type of dude loves a really caring guy loves his fans as all people should be exactly be a good person, and it's unfortunate, though you know like with celebs through these stories and you're like what trump did they really say that or do that? And and you? Sure you might have moments. Re catch him. Out on a bad day or an off day, but then you hear stories, certain celebs where that's kind of the Oh totally, that's there. That's the way they roll sucks. You hear those but Tony Hawkes. Not One of them somebody texted and said Hey, did you hear about the The eleven year old kid in South America that beat Tony's famous nine hundred I did. I saw the video? That's crazy is pretty hard core. But yeah, so we wanted to know in you had a phone call from one of our listeners was able to go on with us. What did she say? Yeah, so her name's renee and she said that her son when he was about ten years old he loved like Travis. McCoy and I guess he was in town, and just was a meet and greet with trump's McCoy i. think and I guess Somehow they got in contact. Jess and just held travis. McCoy's like people back so that they could. Do. You remember that I don't remember yesterday. That's awesome. As soon as you said, the name was like a blast from the past. Cool so cool. I know like it was about you know, don't you? That I'm not as Like so cool! That's neat. Story Listener Brady said He wanted to give a shoutout to kneel from royal. Bliss Neal's a bad yeah, he he was like You know as far as celebs go. He said he always is nice with everything that he's ever seen or heard about him. And he said he remembers that it was our anniversary show, so neal was there. Yeah, I think it was so as that might the twentieth anniversary. He thinks maybe yeah, so he was there, and he said he went out of his way and I. do remember when it was. Probably was the twentieth when out of his way to meet one of the young fans there and signed some stuff for yeah, there's a little royal bliss. Those guys man still a huge fan, too, and he one of the best bosses I've ever heard in music ever, and they are all like Nice Dude, so yeah, that's what's What's cool about those dudes family guys? Royal Bliss their local guys. We get tax we did. This was the real one which I thought was pretty cool, so some of the ourselves players have sent employees that were furloughed personal checks just to help them out. In these difficult times. My cousin works for ourselves and started crying when he got the check. Y, Wow, right, and it's not like I mean, and they make good money, but it's not like it's NFL money. You know they're not making like millions of dollars, so that's. I mean that's that's cool. Ninety, seven, one DHT's Franken just show podcast here on iheartradio. It is ninety one. Salt Lake's number. One hit music station with Frankie ingests eight fourteen so with the email that we had a little bit ago from our listeners. WanNa share that one we got we. We had a couple of emails. Few different text I should say that came in and we do have some books that are mentioned with this the story or I should say this. It's an article in from to the today. Show with experts on there and talk to your kids about basically everything that's going. Going on racism the injustice has gone on in the world so in from different ages to from kindergarten preschool kindergarten to elementary school through high school, because your kids are at different stages, and that sort of thing so that they can handle mentally exactly how to Kinda start the conversation. It's okay to not have the answers to you're talking and and it really some helpful resources with that, so it's a frankie. Just dot com, and there's some books at the tail end of that, too. With good resources, but we're going to still reach out to Dr Burden Aspen Grove counseling for Monday at nine forty and his thoughts on this, because his wife, a child therapist, so she was a professional in that sense and he is as well. She's primarily children Zach and kind of what we're talking about. And it was one of our listeners, saying that her son is ten and he's mostly black, and and and you know he hasn't. She said with some of the shows. He doesn't really he doesn't really know what's going on right now, but some of the TV shows that he's seen in how they address things socially in the world is. Kind of scaring them and she said look. You know where they have people that law enforcement. It's family friends and they don't. She doesn't want him to scare. Yeah, she said he has a tender heart says she wants to have these conversations because you know fortunately being black in a black male in this country is dangerous, and that's kind of what we've been talking about, and that's where we are right now. in this world and there's some good hopefully it's. It's going to come out of this with protests and everything, but we have some Texan two nine, four five. We want to share. Yeah, that's been said they're helping. Raise their nieces and nephews and their by racial. They just taught them to be kind respectful to everyone. Especially officers, you know those are people that are willing to put their lives on the line for us, and they deserve ultimate respect. So that's what you know the way. They're raising their children. Several books on how to bring up racism to your kids and have the conversation. And then somebody said they tag on Instagram There's some appropriate books about racism and yeah a lot of good resources, and like you said you had a kylie post all of that at Franken just dot com with the today show. Yeah, and some of the books that are there. I'll look at my instagram so I appreciate that and the tagging with that but ways to make sunshine by Renee, Watson is one of. Of the books, immagination black voices on black futures by Natasha Merrin. Is another book stamped racism anti-racism in you by Jason Reynolds in X. Canned so there's several books that are posted. Oh yeah, so as far as resources and just ways to discuss things that are going on right now with the things in the world with your kids again at frankly just dot com. We're GONNA. Come back here late. Edition of Hollywood headlines for Wednesday. What are we talking about? Somebody checked into Rehab. You've been listening to the ninety seven one HD Frankie and just show podcast right here on iheartradio. Cashmere me outside. How about that? Danielle. We need our jams. Finder, so she this poor girl and we forget when she was kind of thrust into the spotlight on Dr Phil. She was like fourteen something like that. She's seventeen now. She still underage and she ended up checking into Rehab. So this is heartbreaking. What your thoughts and feelings are, and we love to jab her just because she definitely loves the attention but She's struggling, so she has obviously some past trauma from her childhood which you saw Dr Phil. Play out Dr Phil. Good. there. How? This is Kylie's ringtone when I call lean. It should be ringtone. Really Megan your ringtone. Send you the MP threes. Hilarious, so yeah, she checked in to get health. like I said from her trauma from childhood substance. Abuse I guess she's taking prescription pills, which is sad. I mean that's such. You know one of the big killers in this country especially here in the State of Utah with sad is. She is a millionaire because she went Dr Phil. that. Thing you're right, you know, or it's makes it even more satisfied, sect totally yeah. And she's young and I. Mean it just yeah, it's destructive, so she could be in Rehab for like thirty to ninety days her management. Yes, she has a team. They said the very proud of her for recognizing that she needs help and seeking that out, so they don't obviously disclose where she is I guess she's been there for a few weeks. Now and I'm just glad she's getting help but I mean she seventeen like i. said I think she was on Dr Phil when she's fourteen or fifteen and she I mean she's really talented. She does have a record deal. You're right. She got like think What was she got like a word for her record? It was like a million dollars like a bonus, and so a lot of money I know she paid off her mom's house. Her mom had issues for quite some time, and she paid off from Mom's house, but their relationships of up and down. You know mothers daughters that can be rough. Sometimes. Let's lame about it. Is You know it's? It's one of those stories where this crazy behavior and she's rewarded for it I. Know I mean that's where where it's like what I mean was a train wreck to see her on their. You know with her mom. Yeah, sad, but it went viral. You know when things go viral. Then all of a sudden you're famous, and then you know, but like I. said she definitely is talented she she's musically inclined. And so that was able to come from that, but a lot of money at a young age, and that kind of a background is not a good mix. And then Nikki, Bella so she's pregnant with her first baby, and she's going to have her baby in August so a couple more months to go, and she is engaged to her fiance are temp, so he is the guy from dancing with the stars, so they already live together, and they wanted to get married this year, but with cove it and everything that's going on. She postponed the wedding and people are like. Oh, no, she postponed with John Cena like she the runaway bride. What's happening and Oh, are you? Did you WANNA look? Good you don't want you to. Keep it there. was. Talking about? Talking back. Okay I'll get. It posted Nikki in her closet. Yeah, that's her closet. Heck? Yeah, that's her closet. Look at that. Out in the This over here to the right with the picture that we're looking at this think rollaway. A lot of have that do that. Yeah, it's pretty cool because that you can tell. That's a bedroom, but she's made it a clause. She's got so many rooms in that house, but yes, so she's thirty weeks showing ten weeks ago. She looks amazing. Oh man her sister like one or two weeks apart. They're both pregnant and her sister's having her second baby, but but yeah, so people are like wait. Okay, so she postponed the wedding to John Cena. They broke up now. She's postponing the wedding tour. Baby, Daddy, and so people are like she is she truly the runaway bride, but it's because Kovic. She said you know what I have always dreamt of having a really big fund wedding I. Want a massive party and want to Bash I. Want Everything I've dreamed of and I don't want to set a. A date right now, because of Kobe, because we're having a baby. She's like there's so much uncertainty right now. She said a lot of my friends that were supposed to get married this year and had deposits down on different venues didn't get their money back, so she said I'm just kind of you. Know Holding things off. Obviously, the baby's GONNA come in a couple of months I'm just GONNA. Chill out for a little bit, but she said she's you know she's been having a hard time. She's like it's hard not to get depressed in these times, and she's been trying to keep herself happy and positive and hanging out with family, boy or girl, or don't we know? Gosh I forget what she's having a girl. Girl I wonder if her, so her sister has a girl, and I don't know for sisters, having another girl or not, so yeah, good question also check that out and then Fred Willard always love him. He ended up passing away and we talked about that. He was eighty six, and so they got his death certificate back and I guess it was cardiac. Cardiac Arrest so we had coronary artery disease, and then he had this other I'm not sure this kind of mellow spastic something syndrome, so His family said he passed away peacefully, and he was making them happy until the very end, he was a veteran of the armed forces. He had sixty years and entertainment, and they said he'd have us. He kept moving at in and making us happy, and we just love him so much, and we're going to miss him forever, so yeah, eighty six years old and he was in everything. You know who Fred Willard is, and it makes sense because I remember as a child watching him in in all kinds of things and I just remember. I loved his just obscure interest as his. He's weirdness. He was a goofball and I love that you know everything that he was on pretty much. He was that way. And we've had them on the show years ago. He called into this show, so we weren't fortunate enough to have him in studio, but we were fortunate enough to have on the line. He was hilarious. He's just out there. Love, the duties. This got a one of those energies. Man Like we're near. You know either on the phone with them or I get. I would say that probably in the same room with them. You feel yeah. She's like infectious in you. Just like Kinda drawn to him, he was an Austin. Powers Harold and Kumar Wally. Anchorman. He's been attentive. He was on episodes of the Bachelor and the Bachelorette with Chris Harrison. He would judge the competition. He is so funny and he's going to be missed. I mean his comedy, and like you said his energy just a good dude, and then coming up at nine twenty one stick around. We're GONNA talk about this Hollywood couple. They cannot quit each other. Take a break the back together. Just get married already. You guys are obviously is supposed to be together, and it's toxic thing. It's not like they're you know it's they just? WanNa. See too much because I. don't want to give it away, but they're very focused on their careers. And then they're like Oh i! Miss you, but they don't date other people so I'm like you guys are definitely. You definitely are supposed to be together so cool. protesting news with Kiki Palmer. Everybody's talking about that yesterday. we have some. Let's see. It looks like an update on the twilight star that ended up passing away in Vegas. Sure your wife. Tammy knows who that is because she loves the twilight series and then Liam Shell so we talked about her last hour and she under fire yesterday. Yesterday because one of her former co stars Samantha Murray wear called her out because Liam Michelle had tweeted black lives, matter and Samantha was like really, and so she said some things about Leeann Michelle on social media and Lima Shell responded so I'll have her response, and if you missed what I'm talking about, you can check out the Franken just podcast. Bet Moore's coming up at nine twenty. Ninety seven one ht's Frankie and just show podcast here on iheartradio. Here's what we're talking about. If you're just tuning into the show, so this is just know where we are whether and why we're talking about it and I think it's probably pretty common here in the State of Utah because you big families, and you have families. Maybe living within You know the same neighborhoods across the street next door to each other, so there's a woman in the UK. That recently posted something about our situation on a parenting form. She says their husbands parents. This messed up about it is the. It sounds like they did it. And either didn't discuss it. 'cause. She's not cool with it, but they just bought the house next door. and. She's worried that she's not going to be able to You know handle it because she calls her inlaws judgmental, so you've got that now. Right next door to you. She's thinking about splitting up with her husband who they have a really good relationship, but this is making her or making. Yeah, making her resent him. and. Just. Yeah, we! We'd throw it out because it is common like they can pretty common here. So would you be cool with the in laws living in the same neighborhood, right next door or across the street, so we've got some tax and I know we have somebody holding on the line. Are they cool with US using the name? So what's her name? Ashley, Ashley? How you doing? I'm good. How are you doing great, so are you in this right now or is this something that you can relate to? I'm actually in it right now, so we ended up buying a house three houses down from my in laws house. Like down the street. And it's it's really nice because I can take my son up to my in laws and she could watch him and. If I need to cut the shoulder. I can say hey. Can You bring me down to Cup, but? It's really Nice I love it, and so is your husband, so it's you said it's the in laws, so it's your husband's parents and is he's probably I. would think if you guys bought the House that you both are on the same page in your both good with it. Yeah we were we were living in their basement and then this. How can for cell? And it. It kind of just fell into last basically, so they helped us remodel and. It's really convenient for us is cool. Sounds like everybody gets along same page and it's nice to have helped your son, and that's the thing I know why a lot of people wanna live close. Do you want help with the kids? But then if there's sometimes the grandparents feel like you're being taken advantage of. We're not your babysitter. We won't be grandparents, but sounds like you only got one kid, so they're all good. So. How long have you been? To. So, what did you have that like? How did that conversation go down? we basically just said. Hey, just give us a heads up before coming over, so we're not running around in our underwear or you know things like that. It's like I said a little earlier. It's just a it's just respect you know they. You just want to let the person or people know like. If you're coming over and vice versa, don't just do the because when you start having that pop in the unannounced pop in it's it's just it's rude. It's rude and some people they you hear stories like we've. We've talked about this over the years and I remember hearing stories of there's some in the text here because I haven't looked into what we have, you know coming into the show, but where people just open up the door, so you have like an in law or a mother in law, Father Law, whatever father yeah, and they just open up the door without. Even imagine that way like. That would not be good. My, father-in-law has a garage door opener to so she'll just open up the garage and come in and grab things and then run right out, but he always tells us when he's coming over. These is giving you the heads up, and it sounds like it works, and like I said I've got neighbors in the in the neighborhood like right across the street and right next door and they've got a another, so it's. So it's the sister that lives across the street. Her brother Mike lives next door. So that's Janie, across the street, her brothers Mike, and then they've got a sister that lives maybe four houses down, just right across the street, and then their parents. All of their parents live just around the corner I mean that's all of you know I mean it's within you know within half a mile. Not even it's right. Right around the corner. I mean it's literally down the the block down our streets. And then you make a left, and it's right there, so there's not even walking. You don't even get to a stop sign until you get to the end of their street and the right there, so I mean it's but it all. It seems to work and they you know they love each other and you. Are you okay? Okay Son Just walked in. Instant! Sounds like maybe. A little goose I wasn't. It's my father-in-law. He just wanted to say hi. Three came down. What's his name? His name's roper. How old is Roper? He will be two in August. Cute, Roper. Where did you come up with the name Roper? I like that. my son or my husband grew up on a farm and he's always loved the Rodeo. Though. He grew up thinking his first son was going to be roper I love it. I was thinking either that or three's company Mr Mr Rocard. You're killing all right. Have a great day. Thanks for calling and thanks for listening to actually thinks love you guys. Zero, eight, two, nine, four, five, or talking about the in laws. Would you be cool with them? Living right near you either across the street next door down the street some people are in it i. just wanted to know kind of either both sides of it. Are you cool that yesterday? Two nine, four, five, five, seven next to my mother-in-law for twenty years. It's not bad and as she ages it's. It's easier to take care of her. And the property also so live on the same block with one of my children and my brother, so they're all about it this that I would never live next to my in laws or even my own parents I appreciate space, and they always want go to church. Even though I haven't been in years, it's always a battle, so no thanks and they'll be like. WanNa tour, watching me we helped. Let's move my in laws down the street from us. Yes, on purpose, it's been great especially for our kids. They've easier access to the grandparents will and I know. My Mom and dad were in Detroit. So that was a a ways away, but brought him out here to Salt Lake and so there. My Mom and my addison passed away, but my mom is six. I, mean six minutes and literally by car. You know, so, it's it's. It's nice having a close because she's almost eighty two. Two none yes, not as close so that's that's kind of a neat thing and you love our He loves her grandparents and loves NONA, so keep This one said I would love to live close my in laws and Let's see Miami would love to live close to my parents. I won the in lottery when I married my Hubby, and he says the same thing, so they on both sides. Our cool that either way so that'd be good with it. What about you Kylie okay? So you in your Fiance Danny? Let's say okay, so you're living with his DAD Jimothy or Jimbo. So, what what okay you would be cool or not cool with their. Maybe I want to put you on the spot or whatever, but have you had the talk of maybe living in the same neighborhood as Jimbo, or what about like, if it were the perfect world with your Mama not up a campus? Yeah, we've been looking for houses and we have actually like we've mainly made the decision on living least like we're gonna live an hour away from each family. on sides but I think we had. Had talked about it and just like you know you the talk about boundaries, but I don't want. We didn't want to offend anyone. Dot Com, that kind of stuff and so I don't know I think we just kind of like decided that it would be easier to make the decision to have a house. That wasn't as close, so you have the physical distance. Yeah, Hey, what do you want us to do? I mean there's a lot of traffic out there. We're not going to be able to make it. We'll do it next. That's a good. That's a good way good way to get around it. Totally this H and nine four five grew up in a circle. Everybody in the circle were cousins. Grandma lived in the house behind me. We all loved it. We were really close this text eight to nine, four five already live next to the in laws. The time I don't mind they. They only get on my nerves. Sometimes kids love dropping in on grandma and GRANDPA whenever they want. That's cool would never be okay with my hubby's parents moving next door hubs, mom is gossipy and judgmental. The sense of my mom's family lives all on the same block except for her. We were the black sheep for living five miles away. Oh my Gosh! Marry into the family struggle at first, but then they seem to like it once they've been bringing. Let's leave on that one. We've got more tax. You've been listening to the ninety seven one. Frankie and just show podcast right here on iheartradio type. It is ninety seven one HD Alex Number One hit music station with Frankie Ingest Nine Twenty one in about twenty minutes here we're GONNA talk to Steve From Foodie Fellowship, so he's a local foodie and we're going to talk about with the pandemic and where we are, and there are some restaurants that are kind of you know. Obviously the restrictions We've been lifting some of them here in the State of Utah. Most of the state is in. The yellow right now most of the state so some restaurants if they're able to the in dining or dining in, they're able to do that and some are not able to, or don't want to at this point but we're gonNA highlight, some of the restaurants around town in talk to Steve and just kind of go around the room. As far as Patios you know as we get into the warm temps and people's I think might be a little bit more comfortable doing the. The, patio thing with some of the restaurants ones that have a cool patio scenes. WE'RE GONNA TALK to Steve Coming up in about twenty minutes. We've got the. Let's see the total traffic and then actually Hollywood headlines Standby by after total traffic, so thirteenth East is closed in both directions between Van Winkle and Murray holiday road. They're doing their whole repaving. Thing right there and then it's going to be that way. It looks like until Friday I'm not sure what time on Friday. Friday, so when get more info election, no in than we have an Utah County a motorist, having a medical problem, so it's Lehi North I. Fifteen near R. Ninety two emergency responders are on the scene on that right shoulder near Milepost to eighty four, and then it looks like we have an accident in Ogden. It's Washington Boulevard at forty third south, so just be careful K. so we threw this out. Just wanted to find out where you are with it. It's honors. HD. INSTAGRAM's aware. Aware, is this This poll with throughout? Are you still working from home yester- now so it's on our story I'm. Do you want the result? Yeah, yeah, so as of now a sixty three percent of the people who voted are still working from home, and then obviously thirty seven percent. Ours are not working from home. Okay was crazy. That's interesting. If you want to chime in this, let us know if you're still working from home. Yes, or now you can do at the. Honors each instagram read the story right so just click on. Let's get into the bonus edition of Hollywood headlines this morning for your Wednesday. Okay, so we talked about this. Let's see seven twenty, so if you want to check out the podcast, you can the frigging jazz podcast, and also we have just Hollywood headlines PODCASTS that you can check out if you just want all the the good stuff from Hollywood, but there was. Was An actress that responded to Michelle's post yesterday for blackout Tuesday and this woman worked with Lee Michelle back in the day on the set of Her name is Samantha Marie Wear and you know when Leah Michelle posted about black lives, matter in the movement and the death of George Floyd this Samantha, said l., M., A. O. Remember when you made my first television Gig a living hell, I'll never forget. Forget that you told everyone that you. If you have the opportunity, you would go to the bathroom and my wig. And she said amongst other traumatic microaggressions that made me question my career in Hollywood wow, so when she posted that everybody you know I was like Oh. No, was this a conflict just between you know between two co stars, and then other people that were on the set of glee started getting Samantha's. Samantha's back Notley Michelle and so we were talking about this a little earlier, and we remember that she did have conflict with a lot of her co-stars. She got some of them fired She was kind of the mean girl onset. I, guess and I was I was like. Oh, my Gosh, because people were coming out, saying yeah, we heard her say that or she treated so and so this way as well. As we mentioned a little earlier hailee. Steinfeld so it was in twenty eleven when she said that you just about made me cry, or made her cry on the paramount set so i. don't I would assume that's glee right and she's talking about. And then who was the other person that we couldn't remember and then somebody Texas Rivera. What's her name? Ni- NI- ever? Got Into it and we do remember that, and then it was neither that was let go. Oh, yeah, right? It was fired. She was fired and people were and who knows right. You know unless you work there, but with Niagara. They were saying that she wanted to be a bigger star. She wanted more of a role Lea Michelle. And then allegedly Leah Michelle was like now I don't like her. And they got into it, and so ultimately glee in decided to side with Lee Michelle and got rid of Naib, we've heard other things about Nyah to just being a brat, and so, who knows you know sounds like There is something that will espn. Yeah, where she's just sounds like A. A beast, yeah, well, she responded, and she's getting ready to have her first baby this year, and she's married and she's looking forward to that. And she apologized she said one of the most important lessons of the last few weeks. We need to take time to listen and learn other people's perspectives and any role. We have played in anything we can do to help address injustices that they face. And she said when I tweeted the other day, and meant show support for our friends and neighbors and communities of color during this really difficult time, but the responses I received to that post made me focus specifically on how my own behavior towards fellow cast members was perceived by them, while I don't. Don't remember making this specific statement about the wig like she was talking about. She said I've never judged others by their background or color of their skin. She said that's really not the point. What matters is that? I clearly acted in a way which hurt people whether it's my privilege position and the perspective that caused me to be perceived as insensitive or inappropriate at times, whether it was just my immaturity or me being unnecessarily difficult I apologize for my behavior and any pain that I have caused. We can all grow and change, and I definitely have used these past several months. Reflect on my own shortcomings. I am a couple months from becoming a mother and I know I need to keep. Keep working to be better for myself and take responsibility for my actions, so it can be a real mole role model for my child, and pass along the lessons and mistakes, so they learned from me, but I have listened to these criticisms I'm learning, and I'm very very sorry, and I will be better in the future, so she owned it. She apologized for that totally. That was awesome and she's like I. Don't remember that maybe she did. Maybe didn't you know and she said but I? I'm sorry and I'll be better and I'm having a kid and I don't want to be that kind of a mom so i. just thought she handled it great. Yeah, so and you said well hellofresh. Happened yesterday they dumped her. They cut ties with her. They just said you know and they didn't even wait for sponsor side of the story. They were like Oh. Yeah, we do you know like we don't want conflict? So they ties with her and then Kiki Palmer. This is really cool, so she let's see. Where were they? They were in l., A. With the protests yesterday, and so she was urging National Guard soldiers to March alongside the protesters in L. A. and they couldn't because they're obviously not. Not able to leave their posts, but they did agree to kneel together with all the protesters now. Kiki Palmer is an actress and Hollywood, and so it was just a really powerful powerful thing and a lot of people that were there. You can hear on the video. They're like man. This is powerful. This gave me hope so. That was really cool and we were talking about that. You know just lots of protests around the country and police officers and National Guard getting down on one knee and There was a story this morning talking about I think one of the drones that caught either the one one of the protests from this past weekend, or maybe because there were some that were on, Monday night as well It was I think in North Carolina where a bunch of officers did that, and they kneel down with the protesters school. They had signs that said you know end police brutality. They were police officers as well and they're like drawing message I I love it. It's awesome and like you said I feel like feel like good. Stuff is coming good changes coming. It feels like it. Let's hope. And then your wife might know this actor so Gregory tyree Boyce so he and his girlfriend Natalie ended up passing away in Vegas from a drug overdose. So they it's a sad. The whole thing is sad. It was an accidental overdose. Kane and all, so he was thirty. His girlfriend was twenty seven, and they were found inside Las Vegas Condo and so he has a ten year old daughter, and then he has a son and I'm not sure the age of the Sun. It didn't say, but he played Bella. Swan's classmate tyler in two thousand and eight on twilight, and then he also was in a film two years ago. Is a short film called Apocalypse, so yeah, just just a sad deal, just a sad deal, accidental overdose Oh. Yeah, you remember him. Yeah, he had kind of a not as a big role, just a classmate, or whatever yeah, so just sad, only thirty years old girlfriend twenty-seven so. So they were talking about that this morning. And then these two I kind of teased this last hour, so these two are that couple they're off and on. It's not like a toxic thing. It's not like Pamela Lee and Tommy Lee back in the day, right. It's kind of Lake. Their careers keep them from one another, so she is a model, and she does really well in her industry, and he is an artist, and he is a music, and he's really just all about his craft, and he's so talented and I don't think the dudes ever made a bad song, but it's the weekend Bella Hadid. Okay? I was gonNA say the weekend. Yeah, who was from the? Bella the model, so they have been off and on. Gosh they've lived together. They've lived apart I. Want to say this is maybe their fourth time, so they've been apart this last time about nine months, and they just started talking again. People are saying okay, because he just had new music. Come Out, and what happens is when he gets ready to work on A. A new album he really like locks himself in his studio and he doesn't want any distractions, so whether that's a girlfriend or friends or anything. He's just like Nope I'm super focused like he's just. That's his passion and his gift and he's super serious about it, so it's a good thing, but when you start getting into like as far as getting a family. You're going to have to figure you know a little bit better of a balanced. Totally Yeah I. totally that's that's the thing with life just trying to find balance with everything. Yeah, which I think balances of myth, but as close as you can get exactly. That, you can't leave your wife at home and you're locked in your studio for months. Because you're trying to get this record out, so he might not. You might not be the marriage type. That's true, too doesn't mean anything to say if his life kind of changes with that don't have to make some. I guess some changes yourself and that's true. He's GonNa make some adjustments on. Yeah, he may not be a guy that wants to be tied. Downer are get married. You know might be his marriage. And who is you know she that might be what's keeping them apart is she might want a family, and he doesn't. Maybe who knows man well, and her sister is GD. And she's obviously having a baby Zane from formerly one direction, so in its her younger sister, Bellas older, and so I wonder if like that makes her like. Oh, I want to get married foam maybe. Like the crash like. A bed at so. Tell like it's a it's a purse or something. Trying to keep up with each other and try to beat each other. Girls! We're talking. We're talking about that in our office one day. Because I remember back in the day, Kevin and I dated from five years before we even got married, and all these people were date for like a year or two or three, and they get married and them A. Very like the foam was killing me, so yeah, it's definitely not all girls but some. Thing. The whole clock ticking over that that's a big check out all the Hollywood lanes. Pigs opposed him weekdays at Franken DOT com, a lot of good stuff up there, and of course like I said you can check out the frigging just podcast or Hollywood headlines on its own on our website. Ninety seven one. Frankie and show podcast here on iheartradio. Ninety, civil one. Salt Lake's number one hit music station with Frankie ingests nine forty four. We need dimension total traffic. Real quick right. So thirteenth is closed in both directions between Van Winkle Murray Holiday Road, and it looks like it's going to be that way until Friday. They're just repaving that area, so I'll keep you posted, so we've got Steve from food fellowship on the line. How You Doing Steve? Good. How are you guys doing awesome? So have you been since the last time we talked? You know I've I've been doing okay despite the world circumstances. How about you guys? Yeah, we've been hanging in there and just trying to get through it and now it's like it's just like it's just crazy. The world seems to get crazier and crazier every day. Right. I can't believe my wife and I decided to have a baby this year. That'd be great. How's that going? Is Everything okay with her pregnancy rate? She just craves. Shave ice all the time, so make trips to the shaved ice shack quite frequently. Nice! Hey! Were you with the topic that we were talking about earlier? As far as the inlaws because you're you, said you live in bottle, fool. That's kind of where you grew up right Yep D-, do you live close to the in laws or maybe your family? Are they across the street next door? Donegal's not that big. Now they're actually both pretty close my in live. In Farmington, and my parents live in balance. Okay Nice. So is it within like? Would you say walking distance or maybe just getting in the car and a few minutes now several several miles? Okay, okay. He's like I'm not saying anything. I'll talk about food guy. He's like let's get get to why you're having. We're talking about food. Hey, before we get into talking about some good patio scenes as far as restaurants. I just brought up your instagram and that's a foodie fellowship. If you WANNA, check it out what is up with that? Look at this only got size desserts. What is this This oriole thing that I'm looking at. Okay those are from the chocolate and their these homemade oreos. And when he put it in your mouth, you can taste. It's freaking amazing. Oh, my Gosh, but young cloud night every time guaranteed. So where is the AM? I heard the chocolate the chocolate. Few locations. There's one in Orem and there's one in Jordan, and they both have patio seating. Oh, okay so I didn't realize I had a second location, okay? So the Ouija, one is ninety one twenty South Redwood, and then or locations to twelve south. State Street in Orem Nice. So, we had some dinner because and the reason we wanted to do. The patio seen as we get into the summer months here and warmer temps obviously talk about that, but because of you know some of the restaurants with the restrictions being lifted, they are able to the ones that are able to do. It are doing the dining in, and then there are some restaurants that aren't and I. Think maybe some people, maybe just a little. Little kind of May, not wanting to do the in restaurant dining at the moment, and there are some people that are that are able to do that or want to do that. my wife and I kind of fall into the I'd rather maybe it's me more so than my wife. Tammy but I'd rather kind of do the patio thing right now, so we had dinner at Is it the cliff cliff and draper? And and I remember I thought I'd been there and then as we're sitting there. Talking to my wife Tammy I'm like I. Don't think I have ever been yeah. And and I thought I had I. IF I did I, did remember I definitely didn't sit out in that patio and the patio is just beautiful it is. Really Beautiful View and even with that weather coming in on Saturday, we were able to of just it's sprinkled a little bit here and there where we were positioned on the patio. If it's just how it happened as far as the win, not it didn't really hit anybody on the some of the things were blowing, but it wasn't as bad as you. You would think that could've been was a really good seen. So do you have any favorites Steve as far as patio scenes? Absolutely silent mentioned so little. America just opened up their. Patio dining. People Little America their coffee shop, and some of the best students and get. Oh, they do I have the NFL, but never the patio I didn't know that they have a patio I like to go. Particularly on Sundays because they have the most amazing chicken noodle soup you'll ever have. Now we stayed over the grand, and then we did do breakfast on their patio. Yeah so I do remember eating breakfast on their patio. The yeah, okay your food so good. Good call so! That yeah. So, they just opened up the PA- the Patio Okay what what about you? Just? You have a favorite as far as I know you brought up the Dodo little earlier I do love the Dodo. I'm trying to think what other Patios cheesecake factory. They have a good patio, too, and breathe right there like fashion place. Okay, call. Yeah, you got some other ones on your list there. Steve Yeah, Eastern Illinois neither one of the better one of the best pizzas local people change in. Utah, muscle, their locations have outdoor dining as Walter. Wanting some pizza they have food to. Fantastic and then also there's there's a new place on. Regent Street I really like it's called. Freshman Polka Polka like a cable. Rock tuna while that place to what's called A. Thin Freshman. Just up right down the street next to the City Creek, and they've got a little patio set up oh. Yeah, okay, that's cool. That's Kylie. Street people that know that. was originally going to be highly street. An inside joke. That will tell you off. The petition to change the. Regent Street and I've mentioned before St have. You ever been to Holiday Inn. It's called so food park. Have you ever been there? maybe once or twice. Okay, it's cool. Yeah, so they're just now of and they had been. You know during the pandemic. Yeah, so I. Think Wednesday through Saturday. They're having more food trucks in and then that and they're doing the. Having the tables, distance and everything, and it's outside, so it's it's called so who food parks and they've got all kinds of food trucks that are there and holidays. If you're in or near holiday, that's a cool seen in. It's like Wednesday through Saturday that there are. A few different light food truck leagues I go around. I go to I go to a couple of women North Salt Lake bountiful. Those guys getting up awesome. One in south Jordan I think as well yeah, do you? Do you have some favorite food trucks that are out there Steve won the I recently tried to bomb the next different types of case. The DS or you know load up some tater. Talk puts a MAC and cheese and baked on I mean it's really it's really up. My wife Allie 'cause. She's craving that and you said. What shaved ice scraping darts the UP. That's fine. You were talking about speaking shaved ice. I saw that you went to Bahama. Buck's so I grew up in Tempe Arizona and we had a ton of locations of Bahama Buck's so when I moved here. I was like Oh in the summertime. I would create the. There's a lot of shaved ice shacks here which we didn't have in Phoenix Hammocks box, but we've Bahama Buck's and draper. Just? Prophecy fulfilled right. There was gonNA. Follow you. So it's called Bahama Buck's. And do they just do shaved ice? Or what else did they do it? You know it'd be like ice cream and through the okay stuff like that right on. It's amazing and we're talking The patio seen as as restaurants with Steve from food fellowship. So what are some other ones that are on your list there? As far as patio like downtown, the place I really love called Ginger Street. It's right there I'm. Second South State Street a believe they're. They're amazing. With does that so what? What kind of food is that? So! They serve just a variation of tie and Oriental, so my favorite things, there is the The Pad Thai and the Orange Chicken. It's music. Orange chickens, not super crunchy. Crunch of fantastic. Jinja street okay and you want to. Say it again. It's Beazley's the Visa Day skating hilarious. That's funny. Did you have one or maybe two more that you really like as far as patio? You WanNa hit. Yeah, absolutely I don't squatters of open. There's like waters downtown. Another awesome one and I really enjoy the garage on xtra on salt. Lake as well, you know. I haven't been there, but I have friends that go there and even my. Manny Mason. He's played there the garage in the past or whatever, but so they have a patio. Yeah, you go right into the back and like when you look at it. Street just looks like giant like Barn, looking thing, but you go inside this whole back yard full of table. That's really cool down there. Nice all right, so tell people where they can follow it. I know you're on Instagram Foodie. Fellowships of forty with a Y fellowship, right? Dealt with correctly thought D. Y. Foodie Fellowship. I'm just on instagram. You can follow up Foodie Fellowship. Dot Com nice. We've got his step posted. A FRANKIE AND JESSE DOT COM. So say hello to the Salsa Queen. Because we are obsessed with her. We love her. She's one of my best friend. She's fantastic, earned her husband or off people. Tell her, we said Hey, yeah, and when is your wife do against? Number September congratulations. We'll talk to you a little bit man. Have have a good one be safely. My friend Steve. You've been listening to the ninety seven. The HD Frankie and just show podcast right here on iheartradio. It is ninety civil one. Number, one hit music station with Frankie and just Ted Oh four somebody texted eight, hundred, four five, and said so the restaurant that I was talking about I guess up in Jeremy Ranch Billy Blanco's. So and they're the ones that have like the cars. Because my buddy, dino remember. Gosh. There's probably three years ago maybe four years ago, it was like Oh, my gosh waited this really cool place, and he was talking about because he's a car guy. He was like they got cars like half the car coming out of the ceiling, and you know full on cars and it was reminding me on the place that you you mentioned in draper. The Grill! Is that what it's called out there and then they have the same scene and you said You took your dad there when he came to visit. Yeah, so Kevin Took Dad, and then I got jealous 'cause I grew up with cars and trucks. 'cause my dad was. And I go to car shows with him all the time with his truck, and so then we went for father's Day. I think it was me Kuban cabin. I was like shut up. This place is and the food's good. Atmosphere, but the food's really really good. What Kinda of members? Some of the cars that they had? There are no stick out to you say. There was like a NASCAR ACTUAL NASCAR in there. There was a like a Lambeau or something in there I mean so like Nascar all the way to high end, and there's only like a couple of full size cars in there, but then they have yod like banners and. And Memorabilia of it's just fine. That's really what we were talking food. If you're wondering like, why are we talking about the exactly but Steve From Food Foodie Fellowship? He was on, and we're just talking about some really good patio scenes as far as around town like you know, what the warmer months people may be still not completely hundred percent comfortable with the dining in you know some of the restaurants to. To looking for some of the patio if you missed that second was Steve about nine this morning or nine forty four and we've got a we'll have that posted a franken. Just dot com whether podcasts. If you want to tune into that so I wanNA share this email real quick here, and then we'll get to some of the texts, and maybe even some phone clause phone calls. That is get closer to. To the bottom of the hour talking about living close to your in laws, so if you're in it right now, or it's something that you're cool with or not cool with it. 'cause listener Ashley. She said the their Waco with it, and they actually have to talk about boundaries which you're bringing up like that is key man. If if that's GONNA happen go down which where we live. This is very common. Where you've got families, big families and they live really close. That's next door or across the street, or just down the street but are you cool with it? Yes, or no, so we'll get to some of the texts to ninety five, but man if you don't have that talk. As far as the boundaries and settlements don't then than I. Don't know if it would feel comfortable with that. You know making sure that they know in in. You know that it's not cool to show up on announced the poppins. Unannounced in you know we're going to get to some of them coming up, but I want to share this email from one of our listeners. and I'll call her well, she she shares the name of her husband her late husband so I think she's fine with with that and whether name, but I don't know if the habit attached to this, but he so she said I wanted to share the story of how my husband died. She said on in this kind of goes along with what we were talking about yesterday and And and just kind of the conversation that's been been going on and she said on July. Thirty first two thousand nineteen. My husband Donnelly Joseph broke into the Tanner Clinic Roy he was desperate for opioids and he was an addict. He ran when the COP showed up. They shot him with beanbags. Multiple Times did not stop them. The Canine dog was on them. It didn't stop him. He rounded a corner with a knife and two officers shot him. The cops immediately custom in handcuffed him. That is rendered aid. My husband died almost instantly. Do I blame the COPS? No, do I hate the cops that shot him no. They did their job. She said my husband was trying to prove he was not an addict. He went without any medication including his PTSD meds for seven days. He had not slept in long. He suffered from tst. He was a disabled veteran. He fought for his country, but in the end his demons caught up with him He was not a bad person. He was the most amazing husband father uncle, friend, soulmate, my soul mate He was only thirty six years old. I didn't realize until the next morning that my husband never intended on coming home. He left jewelry that he never took off his rings, bracelets dog tags and he left his phone. My husband would have never heard anyone that night. Not Anyone but himself, and that's why I don't blame. The COPS said two issues here the OPIOID crisis in America to the hatred of police. You said there's so much more to the story. I've wanted to email you about this for a while. While now She said to talk about the OPIOID crisis. opioid crisis that is to talk about the two sides of a this now there's two sides to the story. She said a widow who loved her addict husband in a widow who does not blame. The police say that my husband was killed by the police. He died from his own demons. Are Veterans need more help? Our police need more support. Thank you for time for your time and for this lengthy email. So appreciate the email and thank you for listening. Thanks for sharing that story and we're arteries. It's ten Oh nine. If you want to chime in to the show for anything, you can do that. Eight hundred nine four five ht in front of that message, or you can call into the show as well. Ninety seven one DHT's Franken. Just show podcast here on iheartradio. Top email or text rather at eight to nine five, said somebody didn't even realize we read that email from our listener. Who Lost Her husband? And if you missed it, you'll have to listen to the PODCAST, but set that as my neighbor had no idea or families here for support if she needs a lovely family, we'd wave to the husband when he'd be chilling in his garage when we drive by really nice people it. It says that's yeah and just kind of goes to speak to. You. Just never know who's going through something. You're right. You know what I mean and just having grace for people. Yeah, you never know who's going and having just you know time going through something This is interesting and just saw this come into my feet, so we were talking about it, and we're GonNa talk more about this as far as because one of listeners. Is kind of in this, and she said that her her is mostly black and she worries for him because he's ten. He doesn't really know what's going on with everything right now that we're going through. As a country, yeah, as far as the protests and the riots, and that sort of thing, but he has seen enough on TV where he's fearful of something happening to him from the police and she you know she's got family, members and friends. The enforcement says she doesn't want to be afraid, but you know the conversation definitely different, and she knows that that gets for us, having that conversation with him, being a a a black boy in America. So this is the CNN an sesame street. They're hosting a town hall, addressing racism and it's going to go down the Saturday. Oh my Gosh! HOW COOL! Yeah! So they do this and they handle some of the you know socially sensitive things, the topics and try to you know so they approach it with the kids, and this is another one of their Their examples of doing that and it's going to be this Saturday so what's The ten am eastern, so it's going to be eight. AM here. Okay, so if you WANNA check it out again, it's it's on CNN. It's a sesame street hosting townhall addressing racism with the kids. Awesome is Yeah I love that so if you're not able to to tune into it, I'm sure it'll be available on demand, or maybe you can dvr it, but that I thought that was Kinda cool just wanted share. Ten, fourteen, Ninety, seven, one the blast from the past right. Fall out boy and light them up. Ninety seven one. Frankie and jess show podcast here on iheartradio. It is ninety civil ones. Selects number one hit music station with Frankie Jess Gabby Barrett and Charlie booth and I hope it's ten twenty one a couple. More text came in any two, nine, four five and somebody said small Lake City, so what the? Read a few minutes ago. If you missed it, you'll have to tune into the podcast. It was like one or the other listeners that are very brave. Email to send, but somebody said Small Lake City. My brother-in-law was married to the listeners cousin who shot by police at the clinic and use that that was last year in twenty nine years looks like July. July thirty first twenty nineteen, and just so if you're not hearing like this context listener wasn't coming at the police with this. Yes, so she was saying I do I blame the cops? No, I do I hate the cops. No I don't and there was a lot to this email. And she said a lot more to the story, but if you want to hear it. It you have to listen to the podcast. And somebody said sending so much love and graciousness Mrs. Joseph What Brady Melda, Senate, feel pain and share her sentiment love love love everything. She said Yeah. We're GONNA. Come back here, so we have a lot of texts. And maybe we've got a chance here for the phone lines. When if you were able to call in? In and share your story with us if you want to or not would you call with the in laws living right next to you or across the street or in the same neighborhood? It's really really close and a lot of people. Are you know so? That's the thing I mean we live in Utah. There's a lot of big families here and people are. Are Cool that and then there's people that maybe not so cool that we're gonNA. Tell you why we're talking about that. When we come back, we've got a lot of text to get to as well if you want a text into the show and get a last mental common, and you can do that in front of your message at eight to nine four five. You've been listening to the ninety seven one. The HD Frankie and show podcast right here on iheartradio. So and you had a quick. Hello, yeah, this is awesome, so Jackie, a friend neighbor, and actually our boys went to preschool together at little learners years ago and now she has two boys and a girl, so her youngest is Victoria. Victoria loves to listen to the show, so she's listening and she's so cute. It actually dropped some Mascara Jackie's house yesterday and she's A. Victoria was like I can't believe she didn't knock. I WANNA. Say Hi so I, felt that I was in a hurry and I just dropped it real quick, but wanted to say hi to Victoria. And how old is the? How does she now? Oh, I don't even know I know the older boys twenty-five. says. She's around if I had to guess maybe like six. Yeah, maybe so. Yeah, she's a cutie. That's awesome, so here's what we're talking about why we're talking about like. We're doing a little of what facebook live or instagram all right salon tune in that way We're talking about this woman in in the UK and she recently posted the situation that she's in right now, and that is on this parenting forum and she says that her husband's parents just bought the house next door and she's worried because she's not able to handle this. Because of the she says quote, Unquote Judgmental there. Her judgmental inlaws living right next door to her She's thinking about splitting up from her husband. She said I like my own space, and I feel like they're going to be invading it. and it sounds like they didn't have this. You know it's one thing if you're going to do that and that's kind of what we're talking about is living either right across the street? Right next door down the street from the in laws family whatever? But you're not having that conversation beforehand. Yeah, that's not okay. Maybe they did have the conversation, but they bought the house next door. So it's, they're not on the same page about it. Obviously because she's upset, sounds like she is looking at. She brought up the D. Word divorcing her husband over this. Because I mean you bought the house, so it's not like even a like. Oh, it just when when the lease is up, not bought it. So you. You know whether it's the permanence fifteen right, yeah? Thirty whatever twenty. You've got a mortgage and they're there and you guys were there and. So we wanted to know and we threw it out because we're here in Utah and a lot of big families here and we know it's pretty common, probably more common than some of the other cities as far as family living, really really close maybe across the street next door down the street from each other If it's working for you, would you do it? Yes, or no or Or you know kind of like both sides of it I. Guess Listener Ashley called this morning shed a great call, and she said that she had the conversation with her laws beforehand, and they all had the conversation, so they live three houses down. They have an almost two year old roper that came into the fault, the very end, and we really what was that she screamed a little bit. but yes, they had the conversation about boundaries and it works. It works for both sides, and that's awesome. Yeah, but I would think like you said you'd have to have that. Conversation the boundaries and the no pop ins. Yeah, because you're right. People can't just come over whenever they want. That's not okay and I think that's where some of these texts have gone are going right with some of these at eight to nine four five. They're all over the board so This text said No. I would not wanNA live right next door to the in laws or in the same hood. We live about five minutes away, which is close enough, so it's good distance. Yeah Yeah. You know five minutes even like the twenty minutes. If you're within valley, you know even if they're across and it depends like if you're in guess on the east side, and their inherent in that could be forty minute drive, but then you know forty minutes. Isn't that bad when you're looking at the grand scheme of? If you're just trying to run back and forth, then it can be a law. So so the distance might be good or bad. Depending on how you look at it. Yeah, now. This one side married three years only live five minutes away. within laws explain the hot zone from everybody. into the Hubby that's funny. It's funny because the parents live right across the street. There were right there. mother-in-law lives next door. We are her personal grocery store. They never knock and they'll just come and get stuff. Even when we're not home so obviously not okay with it. the personal grocery store. You gotta ask man currently living with the family. As we save for a house, we will not live within five miles of family. Ever now love them nothing against them, but we need distance. There's nothing wrong with that, and there's nothing wrong with saying that or or needing that true, and that's why I think people who went back to that. You know where I feel. I feel like I mean. Yeah. Okay, there's nothing wrong with. That doesn't mean you don't love them. True mother-in-law. Let's see awful with boundaries. He she quickly becomes the martyr Queen, so no way in Hell. We live close to her. This text said living with the mother-in-law right now while our houses being built after we move will gladly be twenty five minutes away. This text eight five. My Letsie inlaws have their motor home parked on the side of the House and it was there for few months, and they will constantly just pop in so anytime I came home from work, and I'd see them in the driveway. He just kind of drive around Cheeseburgers just GONNA eat ellos. Part of our life was when the sister-in-law lived next door, she did not respect. US interfered with our children still unraveling from those days, she moved five years ago and we wish her the best from afar. inlaws have let's see open. That's another one with that. Just made me laugh, so I wanted it twice Lindsey living with to do K.. There's another one. Let's see we have duplicate so my mom's side lived near each other in Provo both uncles my mom's parents. Their families really wasn't bad. Each family member respected the other space and we all still do second. Sunday dinners twelve years later. They seem to have understanding when I was using the example of some friends and neighbors of ours ours. That is in the the Oh some. Neighbors live across the street, so it's Jason and Gina, Gina Sister actually brother Mike live next door, right next door was so. Mike unleashed live there, and then they've got another so mike in. Geneva have another sister that lives just down the street like four, maybe five houses down across the street, so she lives there with her husband and kids, and then they all have their parents that lived. Lived just down the street and around the bend before you get to the stop signs, so it's within feet away. I mean yeah, and and and it seems to work I mean it seems which is great, but I'll bet like what you were talking about and what you brought up initially when we started. This topic is boundaries. I learned that from you. Buddy I didn't know the B Word Frequency. T shirt made up boundaries. It's what's for dinner. Out. Thing. And there's nothing wrong with them and I love the fact that when people say you know when they know that there's nothing wrong with them. Because, it doesn't mean you love the person any less when you're setting the boundaries and I think that's where people get or let maybe family, members or friends or whatever we're talking about with the boundaries. Would they let them Kinda let that person may be shifted around the car. And then they feel guilty, so they let them manipulate them, and it's like now because some people still probably will pull that family members. If you're strong with them, and if your vocal with it like it doesn't have anything to do with us. Loving you any less. Yeah, you're right, you know there's nothing wrong with boundaries, and it's actually I've learned a lot, said from you and from therapy, and it's made my relationship with my own parents I mean obviously moving away and I always had a good relationship, but it's made it even better more respect especially. Especially from like my dad, right thought that was kind of because even with distance, you can still have boundaries. People can still disrespect that in you can have people that are expecting like for your phone calls. And why didn't you pick up? Why didn't you pick up? You know that kind of thing a psych. Look I'm on at your. Beck and call at work. Yeah, I'm worker at work or family or whatever? And, even if that's not the case, it's none of your business. That's true. You know that's something. That's exactly what I'm doing is now your business, but that's where I think people. Even if there is distance got people that have problems with boundaries. It's like okay with the overcrowding. Then it's at that point. Yeah, and it's your problem. You're not taking care of it, we. We have a ton of these texts at eight hundred four five, so this we live a half a mile from my mom and half mile from my mother-in-law, and it's the best four kids babysitter super close, and we can each walk to gramma. thousand percent would close to the in laws. Maybe not next door super close, not sure about my own parents though. Never, never never never, I would move. Was a text. Message received. This this other one hale, no I would freak out and ruin my husband's and my husband and my relationship Let's see we live next door to the parents and grandma and sister, and my husband loves it, but she didn't say she loved it or not. So I have a friend back in Detroit. It's my first girlfriend in my real girlfriend shelly. Shelly, yeah, you know and I keep in touch and haven't talked to her in a bit, but I do know that she was with a guy who he'd met and liked to really good guy, but it didn't work out because of the the boundaries thing he wanted to, and she wasn't on the same page whether it was like well good for her for. Standing her ground and being true to who she knew she is and was. So, he guess. It's not like I. Don't think he listens or anything you know there. They're often Detroit, but she ended up breaking up because he wanted to build a house on like his parents land like a lot of people do and again if it works for you and your both on the same page. That's great, but she didn't like that idea of being so close. You know literally within feet of the family, so it was a big plot of land. Land, but then he wanted to build this house on or put something whether it was i. don't wait like maybe a tiny home or a home build it or whatever, but it was right there on their property. Okay, she wasn't down with it, and so that was kind of dealbreaker. How long were they together? They were together for a bit and was sad to hear that because it was like. They seem like a really good fit. But. That was something that He. He held his ground on, and she was like known. That is deal. It's not gonNA. It's not GonNa work you know that sucks kind of blows. The sex H eight, hundred, four, five I could never live close laws. They don't respect Let's see boundaries, no matter how many times we put them in place. My father-in-law causes countless fights with my husband, so yeah, it's just not a good mix that suck. If it was my ma, let's see if it, my husband's mom or sisters, absolutely not I have no boundaries, and they have the worst intentions this. This text, said my wife and I live directly behind my parents. I wasn't sure how my wife was going to like it, but she loves it If it works for you, it works. Yeah, no, I wouldn't want to live close to the in. They try to control us. Tell us how bad we are. Criticize everything we do know boundaries negative all the way around a four houses on our road. My Mom's cysts, their parents, my parents, there are all next to each other. It works fun growing up with cousins next door. That'd be kind of cool for kids. Let's see we live next door to my parents. My husband loves it. It's been great for my kids. Having Grandma and Grandpa close by parents are great with boundaries Let's see hell no in Lahser thirty minutes away, and that's great. My parents were thirty minutes away four months a year, and for hours the rest of the year. That's how we love. Broken down. Great my husband's sister lives next door to his parents They've always favored her. Her children and grandchildren more than ours Just a closer bond I guess, we hit an. We done this topic over the years, and we always hit a nerve with it, so I am not surprised but I am surprised so not really, but we have a lot of taxes. What I'm saying. We have like five more. Do you want them Yeah, let's do a quick okay. Mike Scott screamed. When he sees toby. He's back. In laws are moving into our house for a few months and I'm dreading it, so nope, I'll pass. Sorry, not sorry. Oh, feel bad for them. This said healthy. I'd be okay with it as long as they bring food, anybody has welcome as long as they bring food I live on the same block as my sister-in-law, mother and father in law absolutely hate everything about it, so they're not loving that about four years ago. My mom and Stepdad bought a new house and didn't tell anyone where it was still moving. Moving Day turns out to blocks from me off a two minute drive in ten minute walk after. Let's see I told her after finding out that she has to call or text before showing up at my house I haven't had any issues as long as she respects the boundaries war, good and him as well. Wow, yeah, that is something you know. They wouldn't say till moving day, so they knew they were gonNA. have an issue with it. That's not cool. That is not cool now. She's respecting the texts that you. Good for you for Senate setting those boundaries, it's either that or you know you know. You'RE GONNA be in a fight. Pay For fights. Yup, and then the sexy, eight, hundred, four five, and of course, Kylie gets text messages and everything we talk about on the show posted just after the show at Franken, just dot com. This said be fine living around my family. Except for my one brother, he takes advantage of in the families for babysitting and helping out you know he always wants to help far as my husband's family. Absolutely not I feel like they. They, don't have boundaries. They're loud, obnoxious. Their offensive towards my religion things well all right. If we get any more, we'll share them here. At eight to nine four five Let's see this is something that we threw out a little earlier on the show, and if we get some more tax with this before we turn things over to Jeff We'd love to hear your story. We were talking earlier on the show. Because of Tony Hawk something that he did. That was really cool for that little kid cooper coupon I'll play the audio before we get. Get into some more of the text I know we had another story about this, but stories about celebs going above and beyond to be kind. It's about a week and a half ago. It was a fedex driver in Georgia in this town in Georgia and this little kid Cooper He comes up with his skate deck. Just a bear board, basically nothing on it, and he wanted to spend X. driver to get this because he knows that says profession. Can you get this and send this to Tony Hawk, so this driver took to social media. Media made a video within hours. Tony Hawk heard about it and said Your deck is on on its way to my house and I'm sending you something in return and I'll play maybe the audience before we gets more texture, but it was really really cool, but if you've got a story about CELEB- going above and beyond to be nicer, kind would love to hear before we turn things over to Jeff so eight hundred nine four five t h t in front of that message. It's ten forty in Bazi in mind now at ninety seven hundred. Ninety seven one. Frankie and jess show podcast here on iheartradio. It is ninety civil ones. Hd Salt Lake's number. One hit music station Frankie ten forty five. Yeah, we posted. This owners HD instagram. If you want to chime in with it, are you still working from home? Yes, or no, so where's it at right now? Just like well right now. I was GONNA. Say as soon you minutes ago, but. Now, we're just curious what you're doing. Exactly want to know what you're up to So are you still working from home? Yes, or More from home or so two hundred eight voted for. Yes, they are working from home and hundred nineteen people voted for no, they're not working from home. Chime in. You can do that at our as hd Instagram, somebody just texted. And I I saw it yesterday at the talent because of the bird thing the situation, so maybe I'll talk a little bit about that before we turn things over to Jeff but this is kind of cool. Hey, Frankie I'm the MOM that texted about my sixteen year old that volunteers the wildlife center yesterday, so that's up in Ogden. Ogden I'll just tell real quick, so that's a bird that we found the night before last UN. No founder Axel founded. Yes, he was identified, so he said Mother's bird, and then Tammie called me, and there was a burden our backyard that was hurt this robin so either he or she is full grown Robin. It looked like the neck was broken. So I was kind of expecting because I've had situations like that before where? They died. You know what they fly into the window and I'm not sure if she hit one of our windows, but it was on the other side of the House and she was hopping around, and and you know. Is She. Is She dying out? And I said I think so. Because I thought she was going to, and then I, don't WanNa. Leave her until I knew that she had passed away and she didn't. So her heart went from really kind of like you know. The fluttering like her breathing was erotic, and then she kinda calmed down, and then I was waiting and waiting, and I don I get I? Don't know it looked like her. Her neck was broken, but then somebody actually when Tammy got in touch with the wildlife, is a Rehab Center up there in Ogden, so they said it sounds like it might be an inner ear thing, because if it were broken the neck, she would have died like instantly he or she, so the bird would have died, and that's kind of what I thought wasn't sure, so we ended up putting the burden in A. A cardboard box and it was out back, and then in front with a towel over most of its to protect her and she was fine when I left for work, and then Tammy drove her up yesterday. but somebody sixteen year old I. Guess has been volunteering their since they were thirteen He's in his element when he's helping. These animals so having his own sanctuary one day. That's what his plans are. Oh! Oh my boys are allergic to most animals, so we don't have animals, but that's what he loves to do. I love that so let's see I'm I'm that mom has driven back and forth drop them off. Pick them up from Layton to North Ogden for him to volunteer for the past three years. His name is Stockton. He hasn't volunteered since Calvin. He asked me if if I would see if the Robin is okay. So we don't know so we so. Tammy dropped the Robin off, and you said she was Chirpin like on the way up there and. All the way up, she was Turpin, so that might have been like because she was freaking out like being in a moving car. Whatever, but that's a good sign that she was at least Chirping and then they said that we can check on us. We have like number as far as a case number to check on her, but we can't check on our until October. So maybe maybe this listener here with your son stocked, and maybe you can do a little inside. We're just kind of keep us posted. And now because I understand that you have, there's a lot of you know animals. They're that they're trying to rehab. And I was like October. Don't WanNa wait, but maybe you can let us know in the next few weeks or a month or so, but it was the robin that came in yesterday. My wife Tammy, that rate and we gave a donation to the Rehab Center so cool I was going to do you know how to do that? I got to check out their website. Yeah, I'll see if I can find it. Maybe have Kylie posted and give a little love to them. Because they I think they solely survive on volunteers and donations, so and they do a really good thing because we didn't know what to do with this bird, and I know some people say it's only a bird like. Are you kidding me but? Birds Yeah. I couldn't I couldn't leave it just. Couldn't we know and Tanu kept asking me like what are we to I'm like I, don't know I. Don't know, and then it was googling trying to figure it out. Your heart did at Brooklyn Heart We're GONNA play Let's do this. Let's do I. Don't think we have time to actually. Why don't we do We'll share I know we had? It Pierces Story. so we'll set it up here. I don't know if there's any other texts that came in. Because we're running late on time and I don't WanNa kind of encroach. Jeff McCartney show coming up in just a few minutes. He doesn't. He's pretty cool about that. Yeah, so what we were talking about and I've got some audio ready to go for. Maybe the the listeners that are later in the show didn't get a chance to hear earlier on the show because it's worth three. Airing this audio we were talking about celebs that are that are cool and the ones that go above and beyond to be nicer or kind. If you've got a story with that, so the reason was Tony Hawk was in the news about a week and a half ago and if you don't who he is, he's a professional skateboard. He's like the godfather of skateboarding and he is just really kind and. I was fortunate enough to to meet him quickly and got picture with him, but he was very nice, and I was just kind of like overall when I met. You know I didn't have anything to. Just tongue tied, and just I guess in awe because I've been a fan of his since I was a kid you know I I got my first skateboard when I was eight so I wanna say it was probably and that was in nineteen, seventy nine, when I got that so eight years old, and then shortly after that maybe within a couple years. That's when I started hearing his name and then reading about him in the in the skate, magazines. As an adult, so it was pretty neat and anybody that you know skates if your kids skate. Yeah, I mean you know who Tony Hawk? I mean he's just. He's a household name. Either if you don't you know is right, but he's really nice to his fans, and just he's a nice person in general and this kid. I'M GONNA. Play the audio here. So this is the Fedex driver in Georgia. This kid on his route comes up and his name Cooper and he has the the naked deck, so it's basically just the plain deck with no trucks. No wheels the board of the skateboard. And it's all just thrashed in in. His name is on there, and he wanted to spend X. driver to give the Board to Tony Hawk. Let them know how big of a fan he is. So here's the Fedex driver deliver route today, and I see this little kid chasing my truck, trying to flag me down. He's like excuse me. Excuse me so i. pull over Mike a man what's up? He's I. Can you mail something for me? He says get this to Tony, Hawk for me? tell him it's from Cooper. and. I just thought it was adorable. Obviously, I can't Tony Hawk Tony Hawkes address, but The least I could do was put it out there in the universe so tony. If you see this Cooper Twenty, george is a big Fan Maybe you can them a shout out and the next time I drive by his house. I'll show them the video. and. It'll probably make his whole life, so then it took It was like a matter of hours because I saw this when it kind of was happening, and then everybody was tagging me on it, and sending me the e mails, because they a fan of Tony Hawk and I wanna say it was like within three hours later four hours later all of a sudden. This video from Tony was posted. What's up? It's Tony Hawk and I just want to say. Thank you so much for the skateboard. It's on its way to my house already and as the thank you gift. I'm going to send you my skateboard. This one right here that I'm right. So how cool is that I love him? And then Fedex driver posted a again because he saw the reply so happy that we were able to use social media in a positive way connecting with one another working together to make somebody's Day because that's what it's all about so obviously that story went viral, and that's why we threw it out because. Because we do talk celebs obviously on the show and have been over the years as far as you know good and bad, and and this is one of those. When celeb- went above and beyond they were kind so this is from t DP right David. Pearsley love him and he is all about bewitched Paula Abdul. So this one's about Paula. And he said she always makes us. Fans feel like we're the only ones in the room. She signed poster for me when we weren't supposed to bring items into a meet and greet, and even told her reps to like. Stay back and step down. As you know talking to fans and having a good time with them like? Hey, hold off. I'm fine I'm the boss and I She's always been so good to him like she'll re tweet some of his tweets, and yes, she always takes pictures with them and she'll. She'll sit on his lap. She definitely loves David and you can just see that feel that you know. Yeah, that's NEAT. To see that through him because I i. WanNa say a remember the day when she started following him. Like text us. Was Ecstatic that she started following him ricky tweeted something, and then started following him. He's like her biggest fan, and she has a lot of fans man, but she knows David then. We talked about this earlier, and this is pretty cool, so some of the RS L. Real players sent employees that have been furloughed personal checks to help them, and so they said my cousin works for Cell and start crying when he got the check. When you're talking about this, it's not they make good money, but it's not like NFL making millions, and they have families to, and so the fact that the real you know players did that for the employees is just really neat. For All the texts this morning the phone calls that came in. We appreciate you and we will turn things over to. Jeff were to talk to you tomorrow morning when Thursday, Friday. You have a good Wednesday. When you need Frankie jazz needed now.

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Tip Jar 1: The College Experience

Just a Tip with Megan Batoon

1:23:53 hr | 2 years ago

Tip Jar 1: The College Experience

"This is a head gum podcast. Four if you're looking for advice from real girl who might not have the answers the goddamn show. Just it's been you'll be on your. With maggie. Welcome to just a tip and advice podcast hosted by me. Mega tune. I don't have an embarrassing fact about me today, which means I don't need extra help to chime in on helping you today, we're going to do a little something different in this might be nice from time to time or you might hate it. But it's happening either way. Like when you can't stay sleeps you end up waking up at five thirty. But intern are more productive than you've been in three years. Collectively, that's like this. You know, those times. Yeah. I love those times I do too. I also like just being in bed when it's still like blew out as cut what do you cut it with my little panda bear? This is your first time listening. I usually take questions from the Email and discuss them with a guest, but this time this is exciting. Oh my gosh. This is today on the day that we are. According is the one year anniversary of when Irene started working with me. Yes sued. So this is perfect. I think that's such a cool thing about you that you don't say for me say with me, that's such a beautiful little thing that I doubt that you notice or try to say, but it's very means. A lot to me. I think it's I think it would sound so self serving it feels like she's working for me. Because like, yeah, you're an employee, but I don't I also like in movies when they're the devils Prada, and she's like all my sister to do this or like, fetch me a coffee or it's just like that's not. Okay. I mean, that's not you at all. It's crazy a year along one year. I know that's wild. So this is what we're gonna do this is called tip jar. And I asked you on Twitter for topics that I'll go through and give a quick tip on. On anything and everything nothing is off limits. Especially sports because I'm an expert. So let's see what you said on Twitter. So I'll just I'll read a tweet we'll go around the room, the two of us a line segment of a room, and we'll give our best quick tip. One tip. We only get one tip. Only one only one the best one carry go. This one is from Rick fishes UIL. They just wrote pancakes with caramel and tips on that don't I agree. The only thing that care should be on is in a property. No, no. I've actually never had a Frappuccino. I can we can we get you went today. I would not eat it drink. But so you never even tried one. I think I've had that Oriole on from Starbucks. I don't think they make an Oriole than I just had cravings. In a starbuck. Melted. Cookies and creators, karma below coma. Belongs in a milk dud? That's also I don't like caramel or fight on my ice cream keep it away. I don't like hot fudge. No, really. I like fudge. That is like when you eat Christmastime, vogue, anything Christmastime. Wait. Okay. Hot fudge ice cream as a pleasure among closures hideous. The only time that should be an ice cream as either chip or if it's dipped in chocolate and your McDonald's. So why is that better than hot fudge because that's hot and cold? And I'm not Katy Perry or over. Okay. What's your quick tip on pancake? Oh, you said don't do next quick to. From at Sydney ta how to make the best grilled cheese in the world. Oh, use mayo instead of butter what on your bread, really, so. Okay. So I have cheese. I have a piece of Kraft singles cheese, and I have two pieces of wonder bread that aren't cooked yet. Yeah. And I put mail on both sides of the bread the outside piece of the bread, and what goes in the pan nothing. And then so how many minutes on each side? You have one piece of cheese how many pieces she should I have to at least will have to at rejoice. Yeah. I don't know like two minutes on each side as long as there's like pressure on top to the light full. And that's amazing. Oh, honey. Okay. What's your what's your to catch up gifted and catch up? Mustard. That's disgusting. I'm not on board. I've jumped board the Titanic before I knew it was thinking, and I'm already jumping off. You were putting it in low budget tomato soup love that next from chance cook easy gift ideas for the difficult to please you start a gift idea. I think a Goto gift idea for anyone I was talking with my friend the other day, and we were like don't give a gift card because it just seems like you didn't care at least get like a candle or like a bottle of alcohol where there's like wine or whisky or something like that. And write a handwritten card. Oh, for sure heart agree there. I think that yours is better because mine was for like a quick gift. But like favorite candy bar. Think is always great just to show, but you can do that with the alcohol too. Just to show like that. You listen only know you like white wine. So I got you this white wine. Yeah. I like that. I like the idea of a favorite candy bar accentuate, it one more. So if I love kick cats and people always bring me cats like just because which is amazing. And so I would do like a box like a shoebox and just get like every size of kit, Kat or just like a bunch of cats or something like that whatever their favorite is. So they don't think that it's going to be what it is. My dad used to do that with when he gave money for Christmas. He would he wouldn't give a gift a check. He would put like a remember one time he did like tissue box and taped a bunch of one dollar bills to each other like the short side of the dollar Bill. So that when you opened it like, it looks like a tissue box because he like fluffed the top with tissue. Tissue box. And then after you take the first tissue out than it was like a dollar. And then you would keep pulling it out in a clown. Ribbon their mouth, really good gift. Yeah. It's pretty cool. That's so creative of your dad. So I would say even if you're giving something like money or a candy presented in a way. That's confusing. Smart. Make sure they're confused when you give them this. Good tips next tip from Moog Leili trying out dancing for the first time any tips. I mean, I mean don't be afraid to look stupid. Yeah. If you're dancing for the first time, I would say keep moving your feet. Ooh. Because I think like you can you remember hitch when he's like here's the shopping cart. And here's the ear wax. Have you ever seen hit? The one who Will Smith. Yeah. And he's trying to teach the other guy had to be likable giving him little pointers of how to dance and he was like it's like you're cleaning your ears and he's leaning from side to side twisting, his fingers dance move. Okay. So you've never seen hitch. But that's a superhero one, right? What a super year. Oh, okay. Here's the difference. He did a movie called Hitchcock. Where he's a superhero. And then he did hit trees like the, ladies, man. What's his name, Jada Pinkett Smith? Why do they know her name? I don't know. I don't know. I couldn't point her out in a crowd if I tried. I could do that. Really? Yeah. I do that instead of playing whereas well, although I go, where's Jada Pinkett? She's always wearing a red white striped shirt. That's a good good movie. I've never seen it the tip. We were talking about. Yes. What was it? Oh, mine was until Suba keep moving your feet. I love the. Yeah. Oh, that's what my point was was in hitch. He kind of leans from side to side instead of moving his feet. I think if you like step touch step touch your your good on a dance floor from BT H, N B's EM. Oh, Bethany Maynard. That's nothin'. Beth in Maynard. How do you balance work and social life evenly quick tip you go first? Ooh. Oh, this is what I did. So I used to overwork a lot. I remember one time. I manage your told me to stop working on the weekends because it was unhealthy for me. Because I thought the more you worked the better. It was like I thought it was so impressive. And you get more done in you're better off in life. And I think that you will burn outweigh quicker. If you do that. So what I've started to do is I only work from ten to like seven or I would say ninety seven every day and other than that. I tried to not deal with work. I try to go home. Luckily, now, even office space. So once I go from the office, it's home time and don't worry about work. So I would just I would say put limits on how much you maybe give yourself a window of this is when I can actually work, and then you still have to put work into your social life. But it's hopefully is fun. If you're not an injury like me, I would say, balancing, work and social life. I won't look at like work emails on the weekends. Or when I'm not working all glance at it to make sure it's not urge. Yeah. And if it's not I won't even worry about it. And then I would say get a hobby that has nothing to do with work. So like I bake a lot and we don't bake it work. That's good for me to like relieve stress. Does something that I like it produces something. Right. I'm very lucky where I work with my best friend. So there'll be times, we're like, we're we're in when we have lunch. It's just like social time lunch and then work again. So, but if you don't have that definitely try to like, I dunno texture friends. Call your friends during lunch. Yeah. What's up try to make plans having having something to look forward to at the end of the week to is like really nice, like if you know, you're gonna go see your show on Saturday get brunch on Sunday. That's always really fun. Yeah. I do like that next from Stephen Walker. I know I'm not supposed to know where what I'm doing with my life in college. But how do you deal with pressure that everyone puts on you to have your life together? Who I I would love to know like who's putting all this pressure because I'm used to putting the pressure on myself. So I can only really speak to that. Because like, my parents aren't asking me what's going on. I don't have someone like down my neck being like get these grades or make this amount of money. It's really just like I'm the one that I have to kind of compete, an please. Do you think that that's harder easier than having somebody like checking up on you? I think there's probably a given take because I would just want to say harder. But I think that's probably subconsciously me being like, I'm doing so. Well. It could be easier because you can essentially like be the one to say, I don't wanna do this versus if you were letting somebody else down like I'd rather let myself down than somebody else. One hundred percent. Yeah. I mean, also like these people unless it's people who you really care about that. If your parents are close, friends or worried about the amount that your not pushing yourself that might be an indicator that you should push harder. But if it's just like random professors, and like people that you here in the cafeteria, whatever that are like, oh, you need to be ready and be doing this. Like if you feel like, you're okay. And you have a general idea of something you'd like to do. I think you're probably fine. Yeah. I definitely think that there's a lot of comparison when when you're in such a tight knit community like a school, especially high school because everyone's like everybody's judging themselves off of what everyone else is doing. And there's always like, oh, you got to be in this extracurricular activity. You have to have this GPA to get into college. It's just like a lot. Going on. And I think that's the main part where you need to ask yourself. What you wanna do? I don't know if you're in college. I feel it just stay the court someone who dropped out being in the entertainment industry. I think stay the course and less something else. It calls you in a way that you can't say no to it. Because you can having a degree will only help you having a degree can't hurt. Never unless you're debt. Yeah. Then it hurts financially just like making school that expensive. Why is it that expensive? I thought that in one school New York made it free. What which I don't know? How you can just do that. You can't. I thought that. I think they did. But how how do the teachers get paid? I don't know. I think that okay. How much should college costs? Let's actually think about this. Because my tuition I went to private school. And I think each semester was sixteen grand with like room board. Oh, those included. Yeah. Is Ruben board the same thing. They always go together. Room and board is like a room and bathrooms and stuff. Okay. Yeah. I have not. I think it was that I would have to check again. But yes, so say that like, well what's university or an in state school, either community college or in-state, I went to Cal State Northridge, and it was like, maybe thirty five hundred semester, not including books, and I didn't stay there that was like just tuition and parking pretty much today. Sixteen hundred because I meant sixteen thousand sixteen grand. Oh because you were like, that's it and yours was thirty five hundred. Oh, because I room and board is like I'm surprised that that was included. Because normally I don't think it's included you had to stay there. Really? It wasn't an option your first year you had to live on campus. What was that? Like, I had no choice. It was great. Also, I didn't live in Saint Augustine. So it was like this is good new interesting. Yeah. Is wild. But it should have not costed that I think each class should cost three to five hundred dollars. Yeah. And I think the books you should be able to rent for no more than one hundred dollars book. I think it should be even if you're here's my them seventy five. Okay. I like to buy books because I didn't like having to worry about what happened to them. So I would buy them. And then sell them back. Right. Okay. But nobody should be more than seventy five dollars. Yeah. That's true. Crazy in like in so many people complain about the books, but they found out it's because like a lot of publishers actually change like a couple of things. And then they sell it as the new version hate that. Like, it's not like there's groundbreaking. I'm sure that sometimes that happens like some groundbreaking things happen. They have to rewrite some of it. Right. But I've heard that they like. Chain Lee history books. That's everything is fine. Yes. Change the Oxford, comma, they. Say rather just change the fund from like twelve to fourteen and go, okay. Three hundred and fifty dollars. It's it's crazy this and then on top of that whatever teachers get paid. But I think whatever they're getting paid. They should get paid more than that school should not cost that much. I didn't feel like my school was too expensive. Like, that's good. We I'm not in debt. So I'm very happy about that. Thank heavens. And I think that that was reason it's reasonable for me to know to not be in debt because it wasn't so crazy expensive. But I also like didn't have pretty much any college experience. Like, I would go from my house, go to class leave do my work bring it back to class, right? Because you didn't stay on campus. I didn't stay on campus. I didn't really I didn't go to any like see son parties because I don't think that there were many like so I didn't have like the quintessential college. Like, oh, neither did I. Yeah. I went to zero parties. There are lag ler party. We didn't have a football team in there. I think there was a. Truly team. But it was like three girls that were just like doing rolling rolling in the graph where you want it. Yeah. What's the cheerleading outfit cold a uniform the shell shell? Yeah. The top is called the shell. I didn't even look into the to the cheerleading program there because I saw in one of your books, and it was like literally five people, and I was like this. You can't do anything with this. And they didn't have a dance team. We didn't have a sports team. It was so arts heavy that there was no athletics. And it was it was couldn't have been all graphic art. I wasn't like fine art and all that. Okay. History majors. There's like painting graphics. Yeah. It was just it was only art. And that's what I wanted. Like, I told my parents I was like I'm not going to school unless it's a private art school. That was so crazy like if I could go back till your kid tells you that I I'm gonna laugh in their face. No. Regret this sit down. It's storytime film video. My first story time. No, if I could go back in time, I would not go to that school. I would I don't even know what I would do for school. If I went back. I guess I would just do like a community college. And then a university just get out of the way because that is the most financially smart. Oh, I would probably go to NYU over. Sure. Yeah. But then you talk about it all the time. Yeah. That's it. If I could go back in time and do something different about school. I would just make sure I got all my classes. Right. So I didn't have to do community college for three years ago. Smart. Yep. Oh my God. Transferring your transcripts is the going to the what is it called missions office. There's another word. That's I hate that. Don't know what it is. But I hate it. And yet no one cared about your transcript. Hard about you know, and cared about you God forbid, but I had a friend who had worked in there like as they're like college job. They worked in the admissions office, and you know, the stock of front of the line passes. No. So like in the beginning a couple of weeks of school. The lines are always like two hours long to get to talk to admissions for transcripts or whatever transferring credits or however it works, but if you'd waited two hours, and they're like, oh, you don't have the right form. Come back tomorrow. Here's a frontal line past. You don't have to do this all again, my buddy worked there and stole some of those passes. So I had like five of them just got news. And that was like the best part of my college experience will was skipping line. Yeah. Best part of my college experience was discovering glee glee Queen. I love glee I loved glee just got put my place by bleak. I that was the first year that the show came out, and I would. Go out of my dorm, the aired it I think like seven or eight or something like that. And there's only a couple of other people in the entire school that liked the show, and so we would own it was not a collective friend thing. We just ended up weirdly being loners in the same space in because we didn't have TV's in our dorm or anything like that. Is that normal to not have TV in your dorm? I never lived in the dorms, right? I do most people bring TV's though. Okay. We did not have that. And so I went to the I guess it's a rec room kind of. But just for like had a couple of couches and a TV and we would watch glee, and I would countdown until like glee day it was like Tuesday or Thursday or something like that. And I would just get really excited that was like the best part of my college. This is like I nev-. I feel like it's rare. When I find something out about you around each other so often, but I'm like, I'm taken aback by this information. It's so interesting thin was my background for a while. He was like singing in the shower, and it's by phone background who's Finn. He was the main lead so Lee Michelle's love interest. It was so it's such a good show. I started to get bad because it was on for so long. But some of the songs. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. The. The reason I know a lot of songs is because of glee like I've never seen wicked. But I know defying gravity because we Michelle saying it with a Christian with show. I love Christine. She's so talented. She's crazy good. The show's awesome. Do so wash is not on. I mean like reruns. Oh, no, I stopped watching it after college. So I went to college went to we're four as Esther or two two. I thought you went for two years. No. So this is my college experience, I was super seven tell my parents, and I'm not going to call this. I go to private art school. So I moved to see nog seen go to Flagler. I think for a semester, and then I drew I leave to go be with my boyfriend slash dance. I really wanted to dance. So I moved in with my boyfriend in order to dance, and I went to a community college cut Valencia. And then I graduated from Valencia with an associate's degree. And then I went to my first day of school. School for graphic design at university of north Florida in Jacksonville. And that was the day that I got that Email of the callback for step up. And so right after school that day on my first day of school. I went to Miami. And then did the headed like withdraw. Oh my God. Wow. Yes. Great, sir. I didn't know the timeline that well, I'm so happy. That's crazy. I'm so happy. I now now now that I know the time you watched glee a gli. Oh. Oakley. It glee is also really good soundtrack to work out to. Oh, I've heard that thing have you think so I've some friends who loved glee, but I could. Never get into it. Really? I tried one that I watched like four minutes. And I was like I love it. I love I love it. You love it. So funny and interesting. Next up. We have another one from Mughal Ely. Natty she asked about dating for dumb dumbs. Love this quick tip dating. Dum dums. I gosh. Dating for dumb dumbs quick tip. Because it only be one. That's the issue here. We can't give a lot the quickest tip is be honest. Definitely definitely be honest. If you don't wanna see somebody anymore, and you guys have like just started dating be like, hey, man. I'm sorry. I'm not interested that of the tip. Just be honest. That's the way better than mine was going to be. I don't know is going to be something along the lines of like, listen to them more than you're listening to what you think that they're saying this great. You know, like, I was dating this guy who didn't understand that. My love language is acts of service, and he never ever got it. And he like not make the bed. He would leave dishes out. And it was like this is a -fensive in. It makes me feel like you don't care about me. And then he had a talk with another one of his psychology friends, and it was like, well, it's kind of weird because you come over and you stay in the bed. And then you don't you don't make the bed, and you just leave, and it's kind of a symbolic way of showing that like. That's how you are in the dynamic of your relationship. You just kind of come and go when you please. And you don't you don't like who care of anything around you. Right. And so after that, he something snapped in his mind, and he like makes it bad. He does dishes like it's a whole thing. Because now he's listening. He's understanding this is an inherent thing. That's not gonna change about me. You either have to get on board or get off. I love that. Yeah. Yours is great. I think here's a better. I think being honest is of as ING it's just easier to that. We never have to like remember ally. The worst I could never lie off of that. It's so uncomfortable. It's just so much trash. It's so stressful mega made a new word for it. Angela Joanna asks how to ice coffee have you ever had ice coffee. I've tried it. What do you not like about it the coffee part? I love the ice mart. Anything fridge. Gimme gimme my heart. She said how like how to make it just as how to is coffee. Oh, probably how to get the best one where to get the best one. How do you make oh you're going to be much better answering this than I am? But I know that we used to make when I worked to coffee being we made just like concentrated coffee, and then we'd ice, and then we chill it. And then just mix it with some water and people liked it. That's interesting. So that's cool. What about you had ice coffee? I don't like iced coffee, I like ice Latta's because I think I like milk lot in ice coffee when you get diners isn't as good as just normal diner. Coffee, a little bit burnt coffee at a diner. Give me all of it. I love it. I love diner coffee. What are you putting your coffee? Ooh. Just one of those little well depends. If it's hot if it's high but one of those half and half and sugar splendor. And if it's ice coffee, slush ice lattes, I'll put almond milk and as stevia. Oh, it why the difference? I don't know. I think Steve is doesn't does. Solve well in hot. I'm lying out of my teeth. I do it. I'm making something up. I don't know. I'm going with this. But I'm going to keep talking until I land on a word. We did it Carmen see Twenty-three asks how to practice self care. Quick tip on self care eat food that you like re tweet carbon see also asks motivation tips for exercise on exercise or quick tip on motivation to exercise Ugo. Ooh, I would say send alarm in just do it. No matter what for one week. She's Nike if if you say okay twice a week. I want to at least walk around my house. That's all it has to be just the act of you getting up and doing it is you doing something more than you were already doing before. I always say action takes action if you wanna start getting into doing something you just have to start getting into doing it got to start doing it. Oh, what's your tip? I think I love going on walks. Just walk. It's exercise. It's easy walking his great. I normally like walking. But when I'm in New York, that's my favorite thing. I mean, I guess it's because you have to because there's no favorites when they don't have another. I really like it. If you don't like walking, we're headphones listen to glee. Listen to podcast podcast is a great. I used to do a forty five minute walks when I was doing this crazy exercise regimen. And I would listen to podcast, and that's really fun. That's more. It's more fun to listen to a podcast when you're walking than it is music a hundred percent agree. And you like learn a lot too depending on what you listen to. I remember one time I was like trying to be cultural and smart. And so I put on like the daily, which is a ten minute podcast. What's going on in the world? And okay, I'm gonna start with daily. And then I'm gonna listen if I were you afterwards. And like, it was I never really understood what was happening in the daily 'cause my mind wouldn't be paying attention. You're like I wonder what Jacob. What mother say mother? I don't know if it's just a weird way my brain works. But do you remember like where you were when you heard a certain podcast? Ooh, I that way with YouTube videos, but I don't know what video and where were you? Oh, gosh. I mean, the main video that like started my career. I remember I was at a dance audition washing along video called the last which is amazing. I probably I don't know that about podcasts. Why why you ask I was just thinking about that? Today was listening to a podcast on my way to grab you. And they talked about something that they talked about a while ago. And I remembered where I was when we talked about that thing, that's cool. And so I was curious if that was the same way that you like everybody's like I remember I was when Kennedy got shot. I remember I was when my favorite murder talked about Jon Benet Ramsey. Have you do you ever go back into places and try and relive that experience? Or like think about this is a weird thing that I do, and I told you about this before. But I pretend that I'm sitting next to young me I love and looking up at me and going like, this is your future. Are you proud of it or? No. And I am always proud of it, which is really cool. It has it's funny because it's always, okay. I have long story probably long. I have a home video that my dad recorded of me, my dad or my cousin Kelly, and it was me singing into a Dell was it called like headset headset. Yeah. Has your funds and the microphone, right? Yeah. For like, web, canning or whatever. What is? I don't know. So it was unplugged. But I thought it look at Britney Spears headset. So as wearing that, and I was dancing and singing around to smash mouth top hit all-star anytime. It comes on like a lot of time. I read and I will be in the car and it'll come on. And she'll just like turn it up because she knows every time it comes on. It takes me back to exactly it's me and a tiny pink shirt. And I mean, it's not tiny tiny because I was. Wearing a crop top seven. And I think about like oh that seven year old girl next to me. And like me singing all star and going like, here's the difference of of what's passed in time in. That's what you grew up to be do you ever do that in like when you go back to maybe it's like you walked in halls of C, son, or you go back home to where you grew up or something like that. And you're like, wow. The last time I was here. This is who I was. And it's a complete different person. I do that. Sometimes I don't think I do it as actively as like when I like a memo if I hear a song like uncovered memory will happen to my head. And we're like, oh, I remember when I heard the song and somebody told me about it. But I don't have any like particular thing like you do. But I think I love that you have that. I feel like if I went back to Flagler, I don't know if it would feel like anything to me 'cause it's such a distant memory at this point. I would I wouldn't wanna go by myself. I'd wanna go and this was this. Oh, yeah. And this younger everything seems way more grand. Than it actually is younger or drunker. I remember I was in New York, and I was walking in the Lower East Side. And I was with a friend. And I was like, oh, I think the bar that like this one memory happened. And he was like, let's go to it. And when I was there it was like, oh, everything looks like dingy. You're in grocer, the Mike how I remember it because you think you've fantasize and you make everything better in memory. I think so too. But I think it can be the same with bad things. Like, I think I'll think about how terrible boyfriend was like actually like Riedel texts or see old letter. I'm like, oh, maybe wasn't that bad. Yeah. But then like, it's the same way. Like some things are just like way more beautiful when you think about them than they were when it happened. Yeah. True. Like romanticizing, I do that all the time with friends. I do that. Also. Jeez. Jeez. Louise, let's take a quick break. And then we'll get back to Twitter. Hi, we're back. Hello. We are back on Twitter. And we're gonna see if we can give you quick tips. One quick tip in some tangents. That's a great tagline. One quick dip in Janice. Kim cat Berg. How about some coverage on the different kinds of stress relief habits activities rituals? You've come across. Goo stress relief. We kinda mention this with the baking in the not working, but let's try to do other things. So not baking in not whatever I said. I don't listen to myself you you were saying to have like a set time. Oh, yes. I didn't even answer this question. So you go, okay. Stress relief happy's activities in rituals. I mean, I think a good TV show gets me out of it like the good place or Gilmore girls. That was mine too Silicon Valley. I feel like when you're watching something if you can get invested your world becomes that world. And you forget about things. Yes. I like that a lot. That's I'm going to just say this. Okay. Then I'll give you tips. Okay. Perfect just tips and some tangent. I I love good TV show. I love like comfort shows that you've seen a lot of times like that you can go back to and they always make you feel good and happy. But I also love like bad shows like shows that are so predictable like heart of Dixie which I highly recommend. 'cause it's not that it's bad. It's not poorly written or anything. It's just like, you know, everything that's going to happen. But I think that there's like some comfort and like nicety and that. Yeah, I do like that too. We'll take the era. Familiarity. That's always oh, it's not a term. I'm. I was like oh my God. How smart are you professor of philosophy? I wish I maybe I maybe it should be is. Yeah, it is. Now, the air familiarity that is really cool thing. I'm also not saying the word correctly. Familiar? Familiarity. Familiarity familiar heirachy, it's a familiar rarity will the rural the air familiarity the air of familial rarity. It familiar my saying. The air of familiarity. Familiarity. Okay. When you say or too many times it stops meaning anything. No the rural juror. Her daughter. That's funny. Such a good. That's such a good show watch thirty rock. I should watch it again because I watched thirty wreck before I understood I well, what SNL was and before I knew what live TV and scripting and shows in general 'cause you're you weren't union grove watching smell. No. And I didn't grow up knowing what entertainment was so like, I I wasn't apex. I was in a bunker Kimmy Schmidt. You're not the I I I didn't understand entourage. When a lot of my friends are watching it because I was like when does a manager. Do what's a producer whose talent? What is this? I still haven't seen that show. It would I barely. I don't even know anything about it. It's just it was so confusing to me because it was so out of my small town brain just it was a nothing I told you before I thought Florida was the only place I. Like, you would see places on TV and be like what part of Florida's that. Yeah. I'd be like that's just okay. I like suburban neighborhood just seemed like exactly so I didn't I truly did. I mean, if 'cause I watched full house. So I knew that the Golden Gate Bridge. I knew that was a place. Oh for sure. But like when I moved to LA, I thought I was moving to San Diego. I didn't know how far away it was what do you mean? I'm. You might not know this either anniversary it is for learning so much about you. And I love every second of it. So for a long time when I first started dancing. I wanted to be on this mega crew called corio cookies, which is what Kiani Madrid and Mari. We're a part of. And I wanted in the only way to be on that team was if you grew up in it so you had to start at like the lower level of the knobs unfair. Yeah. It's like own the family for also like it's cutesy away. It's a way it'd be unfair. That's very cute and. So when I say lower level, I mean younger so you start when you're like ten, and then you grew up into the next level of age, which is like thirteen to fifteen or whatever. And then you get to the top in Koyo cookies is the adult version. And so I wanted nothing more to be on Koyo cookies, and I knew that you couldn't audition for it. So it's like, okay. Hopefully, I can just start in my age bracket and then train under them, and hopefully, I can make it. So I thought LA and San Diego were the same place or I thought it was like right out the close. Yeah. Those like Burbank in eagle rock or something. But it is two hours away. If you don't live in L A or don't want to Google maps this it's two hours away. And so I was like, yeah. I'm gonna Dan I'm going to be a professional dancer, and then I'm also going to be on this crew for leisure. And so I come out here. And I realize that it's two hours away. And I don't do anything about. I started just doing auditions. And then miraculously. They were like we're taking submissions the first time ever corio cooking recoil, cookie. Oh my God. Yeah. It was like an extra team. It wasn't exactly quarter cookies, but it was we're doing like a fun team. But it's for all ages, and you don't have to go through our age program to be on it. The story is a roller coaster and go into our I drive two hours with my friend Alana and we audition, and I remember Kiani posted a photo on Instagram in. It's like me and this hoodie that says like, I think it says Filipino, but it has like LA like big, that's even Filipino. But it was know. Yeah in so was that have been smart smart. And I remember he posted this photo if I can find it put it on the blog post dot com slash podcast and its caption was like surprised and excited to see Sunday's faces here, and it's like a blatant picture of me. It's crazy. And so he ended up asking me to be on this team. Yeah. A cold. Oh, gosh. I'm not sure corio brownies. I don't know is called. But I start training with them for a couple of weeks. And then they go through this huge rebrand of the the studio and then for my twenty fifth birthday. I never knew why I wasn't asked back. So Corey cookies had this adult team, and I was on it for a couple. It was two weeks. And then nothing because they're changing the name of the studio. They're rebuilding. It was a whole thing where you driving back and forth this whole time. Yes. Oh, my two hours. It was like I think twice a week. And so yes, this is this is why I moved here. And then I never heard back for a long long time. And this is right after I started doing YouTube, and so I got this gift that Amanda, my old roommate gave me, and it was a book of people in my life wrote little letters to me it was so sweet. And so I I open the page, and I see Kiani name at the bottom, and I like instantly start crying. And it was like what could he have said in he explained every reason that I was wondering for like three years of why wasn't. On this team anymore. And he was like co-rookies was way to build people's personalities in in their morale as long as they're professional dance career. But by the time that you were on the team you had already done all that for yourself. So basically saying like I. Dr you didn't need it. Yeah. And I was like. They wanted to do. But it was so nice to have an answer to a question that you were like was I not good enough. Do they not like me? But it was all because like he was like you've already gotten your wings. We don't you don't need this. I feel like I just like took the deepest breath. I'm like a held up for a long time and let it out. Crazy. Right. Amazing. I don't even know where that came from. What was the question? Restaurants relief. Why did we what because we were talking about TV shows than we were talking about putting yourself in a place. And then you're talking about how you thought Florida was the only place. Oh, wow. Good for you think you would be a good reverse. Detective the detective always goes in reverse. I bet something's going to happen. Who is your favorite TV detective how specific I mean. There's only one Ryan Sherlock Holmes. I was gonna say monk you've reference mung so much today. I love monk as much as I love risk, Chris. That's heavy. That's I can't take it back. I take it back. I can't shoot. Sorry. Monk one time. I was talking to this guy and he made a monk reference. And I was like, oh, I I'm a size six in my ring. A monk reference. Did you watch it a lot or do detected? Watch it all the time. It was the scariest thing I could ever see it dealt with death. You like to eat only gross thing. I like blood. It was a Muslim hold him. Yeah. And I think Halloween is kind of like lying the sweetest thing. I've ever heard my whole life Colleen is like being so I don't. In Mr. bean is what I grew up Mr. bean, beauty and the beast and Charlie and the chocolate factory in most of us such a beautiful foundation. What's your top five movies that you grew up as a kid blazing saddles? So it's just genius. My dad was an actor. So I always watch like actually good movies, right? Blazing saddles Pulp Fiction allow little mermaid. Ooh. Rat race either. We watch that suit. Yes. I love rat race. I make so many ref rat race references. I make so many triple ours. It's insane our trips dude everything about that movie. Is so good because it follows like five different people in. It's so cohesively intertwined that. You're not confused ever. But it's also whole Larry. It's the row. Good. It has not a good rating on rotten tomatoes. Did you know that? Yeah. I'm actually see exactly we'll because run tomatoes has like the critics in critic is such a good word for them because they absolute critics. And there's the audience score. And usually the audience scores where I'm going off because critics are going off of like, how tight is the script. What does it look like is the DP good? It's no is it a good movie or not did you laugh when she stuck her out the window and was prairie dogging. Because I I didn't love that part. My died laughing at that part. Okay. Okay. The tomato meter for rat race tomato meter. Tomato tomato meter. Tomato. Either is forty three percent. Audience score is only sixty four hitting the that's dyslexia and upside down that needs to be ninety four percent. Yeah. This is the critic consensus is. S moves from one sight gag to another. But only a handful of them are genuinely funny. I disagree. I mean. Yeah, it's gaggy. It's so funny. It's it's funny. But it is like the humor of rat race is I feel it is low hanging fruit type of silly gags. But it is funny. Yeah. It's super funny. They do the low hanging fruit and in a funny way. Yeah. In like, not your obvious way. Jon lovitz has my heart for the rest of my life. Every person. There is hilarious. It took me like five movies to realize that will be Goldberg didn't have eyebrows. Movie. Did you realize that oh gosh? Maybe it was sister act. I love sister act. What do you mean? I've just never seen. It isn't that? I think that it is so important to see I love it so much. There was a oh, I think you would maybe like it. I'm not sure would I wonder if you would we should watch it for sure. But there is one song on there. Did you powder puff? Did you have it? I know what it is. But I never did it. I guess you'd have to be on cheerleading football team in order to do it. But if you don't powder puff as when the cheerleading team in the football team, switch position. So the guys will wear the shell in the skirt of cheerleading costume and do a routine and the girls will play flag football or something like that. Or the girls and guys who on your team, and I coached the powder puff cheerleaders the football team, and I made them stunt, which is when you pick people up in throw them in the air Do coach for their routine. Sure, I think I had to because I was captain. So I think it was captain of every cheerleading team. I was on. No. I mean year varsity varsity freshman year. No, you couldn't Baso freshman, captain. And then my sophomore year, varsity and dance team. I'm so proud of you the so sick. We did you teach them a routine, they routine up themselves. So he taught them I quit after I taught them how to stunt in the whole thing. And it was set to the song. I will follow him from sister act. Here's a of it. Follow him. He and it was like I let him I let him. And we thought of. How long what's an old time? Yeah. But they saying that in sister act. Oh my God. Yeah. But yes. Yeah. Just truly is it called choreographing when you're doing cheer routine. Yeah. The whole team. But if you're making cheer, I guess, you're just making cheer for sure. I hey, I really didn't like doing the sideline chance. Really? Yeah. Would've loved that. Will you have a good like booming volume? Thank you. And I didn't like it the so you have a very good. You've a lot of projection though, when I mad enough probably know when you're mad. You quiet. I that's so true. I get really quiet. I usually either very good or very insignificantly bed. Like if water moves not even spills, but moves by itself, of course. Did matilda. I love Mathilde what I used to wear my abo- in my hair like Matilda because they thought she was so cute and smart a lot try to move things with my eyes me too in the shower. And then sometimes they would move just cause like the water. I'm a witch the pancakes she makes perfect. I know she's so talented. I the shot of Mathilde that I think is beautiful as when she's holding the red wagon of books, and she's a montage of her growing up. It's like three or four stages of age. I think it's beautiful three or four stages. So I was so high mother efforts wanna find me that's a beauty parody. Stress relief habits activities or rituals quick tip. Go. The comfort TV show. Okay. Mine is still you're so good luck. Mine is mind fullness in a way that is not meditating because meditate I cannot meditate. But like when I do calligraphy that I used to that so therapeutic to me are just like adult coloring books something like that. Or even cooking some of that takes your mind off of everything else, and you can focus on one thing. That's kind of like autopilot. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Or like one thing I love to do like during the holidays is I love I love pomegranates. But they're so hard to peel. But if you just like put on some music or put on a podcast or show, and then you're just peeling pomegranates. And then you end up with this giant, Bulla pomegranate, these that's two things. I never knew how to appeal pomegranate until I met you do you remember on shooting pilot for a cooking show? And it was your first day ever on set with me. You just started like the week before. I think I think it was that week. I think it was like September twenty eighth or something. Right. And so we were on. Onset and they're like, okay. You need to peel this pomegranate, and I was like, I don't know how. And so you're like this is how you do it. And I forgot, but I, but you did show me. My second thing about pomegranates. Is that I don't agree with the inside of it. Look, I like the outside. But why is it crunchy? 'cause that's a see why eating seed. Do you say that to strawberries, no because strawberries, their little seeds are just black heads? Into any poor strip commercials. Yeah. I mean, I get it. I I sure understand why you wouldn't like it strawberries, just raspberries the black heads, but like raspberries have the season it too. I don't eat raspberries blackberries, you only like blueberries, strawberries. Yeah. I like the idea of pomegranate seeds a lot. But I don't like the crunchy. That's the it is a very aggressive crunch like a blueberry hussy didn't. But you can't really taste it seeds in it. Yeah. On believable. I don't believe this. Did you ever eat a sunflowers? I mean, did you eat a watermelon? Seed in actually think it might grow inside of one hundred percent, especially because my dad made sure that I thought it was going. I'd be like I I don't know what to do eight the the black seeds and he'd be like Irene. I'm so I don't know I'm gonna miss. I only thought that way because it did grow inside of me. Can she's a watermelon? She sitting here as a giant Waterman? I don't even need a costume for Halloween. This one says, oh, this is from Mary Willey. Eight attic, Mary ulcer Lake Mary all-stars job. That was my cheerleading team. Ace says how to make a decent coffee without a machine so many coffee questions. Ooh. Without a machine. Oh, that's like a pour over situation. Oh, I was just going to go buy one. Maybe they're cutting machines, and they won't even go out to a coffee shop here. I there's a pour over situation that I a French press in a poor over are two different things. How would you make coffee without a machine this is? So there's two versions of French press and a poor over the poor over I think is much easier because it's like an apparatus with a Cup underneath you gotta filter. Do the teaspoons and the water overtop and whatever comes down whatever filters out. It's coffee. That's what my mom does. Because she's just like a single. She only makes one Cup of day. That's I think the best way to go because Ida boyfriend that loved coffee, and I was trying to be cute. And so I bought this French press in what you had to do with. It was manually grind the bean into powder. And then put the same teaspoon that you put in the pore over in the French press, and then put boiling water only to cover it in let it swirl around for like, thirty seconds. And then you would fill the rest of it all the way up and wait three minutes and then pushed down the top. And it would push down all the. Coffee grounds at came up. And then you pour it out in every time. It just tastes like dirty sewer water. He would lie to me every time and be like, that's so thank you so much. It's just so great. And like, I I didn't like coffee. So it tastes it. And I go, I think it something. But like, oh my God. I can't believe we lasted for that long because he was lying out of his teeth. So that I wouldn't get mad. Oh, which was nice. I'm both of your parts. Yeah. That you tried so hard. He like wanted to make you feel good. But I would definitely go with the poor over is. But does that count as a machine? No. So it's just electron electric machines. He means. Yeah. We'll because the poor over it. It's like a wishes plan. Yeah. Yeah. Plastic would whatever it is. And then the bottom is your actual coffee Cup. So that's definitely not a machine. Yeah. I think they look cool. It makes it look really cool. I would do that. If I liked hot coffee, you only like diner coffee that is so right, okay. From at fluid. Harmoney quick organizing. Please quick tip organizing. Make sure that you utilize your Mark as unread button on your Email because that way. Yeah. Because all always look at an Email and be like, oh gotta remember that later, but I'll just not Mark. If I don't Mark it as unread, I will never see it again my life. Yeah. So really good markers read if you need to think about later if you can reply right then. But if you need to think about it, that's cool that you went with Email organizing because even even the few emails, I get now. I have to be like, oh, I gotta figure this out. I don't know how to do it. I wouldn't even think about talking about work. Oh, really, what's yours like a closet or something? Oh, okay. What's what's good organizing tip? I mean, it would be weird to say that find place for everything. But like actually do even if it's if we're talking about a dresser one drawer should be designated for t shirts and the other one should be designated for like workout clothes, and I would say us. Drawer dividers. That's my tip George dividers because I could also go if you're trying to organize a juror. That's like office stuff or supplies or clothes or makeup. If you'd have to George dividers into one, Jordan, you have three separate sections that you can designate to specific things knowing where something is is the best luxury you'll find in your life ever. It's so nice. When I'm like when somebody asks me for something like at the office, and I'm like, oh, it's under this on this side of this in this thing. It's an it's that's where it is. Yeah. You're very like mom in that respect. I could ask like call my mom and be like, hey, mom. I think I left thing in Texas in your house. But I don't know where it is. She's like, oh, yeah. You left that under the chair? Yeah. In this room, and it's at the bottom left leg, and how did you do that? But that's how you are in the office and stuff. I mean, that's how you are at your house to moms are so cool with that. That's like an act I feel like when you have a baby you get superpowers. And that's one of them up -solutely. The second one is being. Able to unlock the next level of love the other ones finding my lost sock from six years ago. Making a person crazy people make other people. That's crazy. Jennifer, Nepal asks what is it? Good air freshener for your car sent hand brand. I don't think I don't remember last time. I had car air freshener lost thing. That smelled my car up was in and out. Yeah. Same mcdonald's. French fries. And I was fine with all my God. Can we get a fish filet after this? Okay. I'm you can get that all get something. Good. Why don't you like it? There's so many reasons. Okay. I don't want to get the thing that gets the most people sick how fast food restaurant gotten you sick. How? Oh, I thought you were like, I know five people that got sick from. No, no. I'm my dad. Loved fish. Every reason I'm sorry. Filet O fish? That's right. Every man above the age of fifty. I know Love's philosophy. That's my time. You. I just think that it's so gross. First of all, I don't want cheese on my fish, unless you do know unless it's a tuna melt. It is melted on what kind of okay, what kind of issues cod. Are you? Sure. Yeah. Google it. I don't know if it's, but I'm going to say, it is caught is the only good fish everywhere. Caught and sea bass, you're you're safe. Stop. What is it solutions? Call it is it it's Alaskan Pollack. That's so close to cod. No, it isn't. Uh-huh. Let's get the same Pollock cod. Close grammatically. That's right. That's all it phonetically. What else you don't want cheese on it number one? She just gave me like the most Sethi head Bob I've ever seen. No. I just like I to be fair to you. And you're never had it have, you know? Oh my God. Okay. My I've never had a whole one. I've tried some of my dad's, and it was you. You have tried to cook fish. I don't true. You. Okay. Okay. So I think that's a big reason. I'll take that over the fact that it's bad because wrong is that your favorite sandwich for McDonald's. Yes. Of course, followed closely by a double cheeseburger, no mustered up take the pickles off. I eat the pickle source and then either ball double cheeseburger, is what are you bad at McDonalds. A Big Mac or a quarter Pounder quarter Pounder with cheese? Yeah. That's bad. What's different meat? Yeah. It's such a different meet. Then it starts to tastes like a Burger King burger and max I like, I actually don't know if I've had I think my brother got one awhile ago, and I got a bike. I've had double Big Mac. So they were doing this one weird thing, I was dating this guy who loves big Macs. So I was driving in saw that they had like a Big Mac on top of a Big Mac. It's like those London buses, but with big Macs. I remember motion double Ducker, a Big Mac. And I was like, oh, I was trying to be we should forget this. And so we got it and like a bunch of fries, and it was so much food. So much bread. And it was it was a waste like definitely don't get that. I've never had a normal big back though. So I'll probably try them at some point. I think it's just half of what you had. Yeah. It's just one bus quarter Pounder is bad. Don't get it. Yeah. I think that too. What's your sandwich journals? I mean before they discontinued it, what did they hot and spicy mcchicken? Sounds horrible. Why does everything need to be so hot and spicy? 'cause I need to feel. No, I love I love their chicken sandwich, though, the chicken sandwich. I don't think I've ever had what it's just mid chicken. You gotta call it by its name. I'm so sorry to hurt you and your son like that. Okay. Oh, car air freshener. Right. So get McDonald. That's what I'm saying. But I think I did have one of those for breeze clippings is for breeze or is it? Yeah. I had one of those is like waterfall something illiterate waterfall, I like the clean wonderful waterfall yet. Probably. I don't like the the new car sent fresheners. I that's like vanilla extract vanilla flavoring versus. Yeah. Something that's actually vanilla. When I first got my car, and it was new I drove around with the windows open, and like two bags of in and out in my car for as long as I could. Because I can't st- that smell makes me nauseous it why is it that way is that because every car, smells like that. Is that just what the material smell like, I'm I mean, it must be because that's in like leather interiors and cushioning an everywhere. So maybe it's like the dashboard because that's all the same thing. It's, but it I think that's my least favorite send a newer then spell new car smell. Swear to God Monu or smell. Yeah. That's not good. Okay. Here. We go. Chad Milazzo asks is it more important to be self-motivated or to have people push you to do better. What about you like is it easier? If year like I want to get this done or is it easier. If I'm like, this has to be done. I think I I don't know. Because for me, it's a mixture of both. I think it's more important for me to be self-motivated because that means I'm gonna care more, and I'm going to want to do something. But I know that the things that I'm self motivated motivated about it's like with work. You are also wanting me to do. So that helps me wanna do it. Yeah. But like, I guess what about like in workouts? Would you rather go to a class of an instructor going? Okay. Now to do this for thirty seconds. Or would you like do a better job on your own at like your own gym? I I would rather work out on my own. Yeah. I think I'm more self motivated low the other way around. I would so much rather go to a trainer and then go okay now do ten pushups now. I mean, I'm not going to push up ten squad. Catch me to put my doctor told me to do pushups and the doctor left the room, but he was immediately outside the door because he was going to come back in. And he was like, yeah. Just do push ups, and that will like do your arms because like some shoulders, and so he goes out of the room. And I look at I read, and I go won't catch me doing push up instantly. He walks, and he was like also I forgot and I was like, no. Genitally defy his direction that he just gave me. But it's interesting because you're so self motivated in work stuff. That's true. Yeah. I don't like it in in workouts. It's just boring to me. I would much rather. Like, I don't know. 'cause I don't even think about it when I'm in Palazzo like, okay. Do this next hour doing this? I'm not thinking about what I'm doing. I'm just doing it. I think that's nice like I don't not like that. It's just I prefer to do the one I want because then I can do exactly what I want. I know what I want to if you're like if I hate my stomach, and we don't do any stomach stuff. Yeah. I'm going to like knock knock where's the thing? I wanted to do. Right. So I guess he's asking you is it more important. I mean for me, it's a no brainer. It's more important to be self motivation. But it would help easier in specific instances if you had somebody guiding you, but yes, self motivation is weird all starts and ends. Yeah. Definitely that Kayla. It looks like high J Kayla asks getting up in the morning quick tip on getting up in the morning. I do this every day. I put my alarm for seven o'clock. But then I sleep for five minutes afterwards. And then I finally get up. And then I started doing my my main routine, but having a little five minute buffer is nice for me. I think that I I do something similar to that too. But every day I'd say as soon as you get up, drink two cups of water. That's really good. That's a cups but just drink it all in one goal. Holy crap. One gulp gulp. Let's think about this two cups of water all in one go. Okay. I'm going to go to different things. Trees your. Yeah. They definitely are. But you're saying one gulp is literally like Olawale. Just like. The entire lake. Erie is in your mouth after. Correct in one go. So like it usually takes me fourteen sips. Wow. That's crazy. I should probably start doing that. If you have trouble getting up in the morning, I heard there's two ways of doing it. Like if you're just like cannot get out of there. There's one thing where you can put your phone that has alarm across the room you have to get up in order to turn it off. And I also saw that they had a it's kind of like a doormat, but it's an alarm that will not go off until you stand on it like your feet have to go on it. And then the alarm goes off. But there's I think BuzzFeed has only God I saw that you were on BuzzFeed tweets about Costco, pretty cool. That was sick. Is my first time BuzzFeed, I was so proud honestly felt so proud. I was like yes to, but I have better, Costco, when they didn't you which was it. So they use one that I was like why are standing in line to try animal crackers, right? Yeah. We all know. Nothing's changed guys. But my cool, Costco, tweet was if Costco had a mix tape would it all just be samples? That was hilarious. That's amazing. As my best work. That's your best tweet of all time. I agree. Pin that right now, of course. Oh, but yeah. Buzzfeed has an article about like ten crazy alarm clocks when you have to do math and one you have to like chase it around the room or something. But I've heard it's bad to have have you ever seen the people who like screen shot to their Instagram stories that are like all my alarms, and it's like seven seven hundred seventy eight seven oh six. Yeah. I've heard that. That's not good. Like when you're when you wake up you're supposed to like wake up. Right. But I mean, I can't say I know that because I'm often like put a ten mental armone or something afterwards. But I've heard if you're just like trying to get up. I'd say set one alarm at a reasonable time and just just sit up right away. Yeah. Another tactic is opening up your eyes and screaming really loudly. Preferable if you live alone. Unless you're the alarm clock for the person. Next cue Mari results asks how to find good healthy routine and stick to it healthy routine tips or sticking with one either or I guess sticking with one because finding one will be that's up to you like everyone has a different type of of health like regimen. That would serve them the best. Some people thrive off of no meet some people need me. So that aside, I mean, definitely drink water. Like you said, but quick tip on how to stick with a healthy routine. I'm going to answer this with something question to you. You're so good. If you have to diet for specific reason, you do that. But your lifestyle normally is very healthy. And like, really well balanced. Like, if you really wanna kick out you'll have a kick, but you also eat salads next day. So like what have you found is that easy as to like keep you maintaining that well-balanced diet? I think honestly it came from. Any just straight up gluttony like I would eat like trash, but then like, none of my clothes with fit and more than that. I would just feel bad. So and I die super crazy. And then I would relapse into this binging like terrible food, and then I would just again like the cycled star over and over and over and now it's like I've I've gone through that cycle three or four times like losing immense amount of weight. And then like getting it all back and now I'm like, oh, I don't wanna feel like that anymore. I can have an oatmeal cookie here. But as long as I eat, generally, okay? And cut out like most carbs and sugars and processed foods like I'm gonna feel fine every day. So I think it's just like going through horrendous terrain good. That's like so experiential like the end over feeling. Yeah. It just feels like gross in murky. Yeah. Within. Yeah. What's yours? I fluctuate between. I think I'm where you were coming where I fluctuate between like what I live one time this life, and I'm not gonna eat this cake. Everyday living on mountain. Yes. Oh, it's a house there. But then there's sometimes only need to treat my body as best as I can into. I think it's mostly just like kind of what's gonna make you happy. Like. Yeah. Like, this Rahman's gonna make you happy. So for sure eat it. But like are you gonna be happy in a week? If this is all you eat. Yeah. So all our site. Also. So like, do what makes you happy in the moment. But don't be blind to foresight. Yeah. I agree. I my quick tip to stick with something is give yourself checkpoints like dance. Plus when we're teaching there's checkpoints because it's so much information for your for the students to digest in in the same way. It's like that's so much for your body to digest. This is a new type of food. I'm only eating greens. Now, they're like, where's the good stuff? And so give yourself a little bit of checkpoint. So maybe like every week on Sunday or on the weekends. Like maybe on on. Weekdays, you don't eat sugar or or like bread at least take one bad thing that you know, is that out of your out of your diet and then on Sunday and Saturday just kinda like live your life normally, and then you have something to look forward to. And then that's not you eating that way every single days, then you don't feel you don't feel like mountain glutton where your houses. Don't come here. Don't here. No, no-trespassing grunge the brunch. The Grinch eating lunch, the grunge question from absolutely cute, overcoming quarter life crisis that hopeless feeling because getting pressured by family there's a lot in this one forty characters hundred percent, but just I guess a quick tip. I guess this is another pressure question. My quick tip for overcoming a quarter. Life crisis is keep on going. If you're going through hell keep on going. Don't stop. Now. What's the rest of the lyric? Oh, if you do. So are you saying the all American rejects gives you hell two thousand? That's right. That's what I'm saying. What are you saying this was a country, which I thought you would know I think you probably do, but I'm a bad singer. No. If you're going through hell key going don't stop now, if you're scared don't show, it might get out before the devil. Even knows you're there. I love that. I don't know that song at all. But I want to a good song is country is good. So. Yeah. Going oh cute. What's your tip for core? Life crises find something that you really like doing and make sure you do that love it from EFI, Pepe nice sued. How you more confident quick tip on confidence. I'm a fake it till you make it Queen. That's okay. 'cause mine is kind of similar because mine was look. Good feel good. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That one's that one's better. No. I don't think. So because it's it's it's absolutely insane. Granted it's gotten better. Now, like the valley of which I felt different has gotten better as to like when I have makeup on versus when I don't eyebrows are different story. I feel it's so look good feel good. Where if I'm just wearing rows. I'll feel like an eight even though I'm not. But if I'm not I'll feel like a like a negative for like, it's it is so important to like, look good. Yeah. I right. Have to make up. It's just like if you feel like you love the shirt where that yeah. Exactly just getting dressed. And that was an issue like when I used to work from home. I wouldn't wear shoes. I wouldn't get dressed where sweatpants. I'd still probably might be my Pilates clothes, and I would just start working. And it was just like, oh, there's no separation I feel gross threaten entire day. But now that we have this office space like I get dressed, and I liked to wear these clothes, and it serves me in a way that I feel confident and that's just getting dressed in the morning. Yeah. Like that's just changing your clothes instead of your stinky nine hour sweated in close pull out his nine hour. No one I'm sleeping my fan on of course. But yeah, I think facing make it a lot. Because like once you start pretending to be competent. It's just gonna be second nature. Like, it's not going to be something you have to think about. Yeah. So that's always fun aching. David Michael asks how to deal stress at the workplace. Ooh. Quick tip on that. From me is I know we talked about taking breaks every now, and then 'cause like I think like places like Google and stuff have so many like pinball machines and fun things in like a con candy maker. And I think it's because it's like with all our creative company too. So it's like there's a lot of pressure that goes on when you have to do like creative and kind of like Adleman business stuff. So we think definitely taking break we were talking about the other day like watching a YouTube video if you get too stressed or like, go on Instagram for five minutes or something like that. Is you keep on going and don't take any breaks a lot of times I worked through lunch too. But that's fine. There's to my tips to tips and a tangent is one take breaks the other. If you don't wanna take breaks, it'll make you feel good. If you're more productive than be more productive if you're stressed because. You're not getting enough done. Don't take a lunch break like you can still eat. But like just if it'll make you feel better to be more productive go through it. If it'll make you feel better to take a break in order to be more productive, take a break people work in different ways. And sometimes I do some days I need like five breaks some days, I need. None. It just like listen to yourself of what you need that particular day. I love that advice because that's coming from somebody who works with. That's exactly true. Like, she's very much that way, I feel super fortune. The sounds like I'm just like kissing her athlete crazy, but I feel volume of a couple extra decibels on levels. I feel super super lucky because at a time in work when I felt so stressed and silver well-named Meghan like took it upon herself to make sure that that was no longer an issue for me. And that was something that she took on for a while. And then we figured something else out for that. And so I am unbelievably lucky to have that luxury of like doing the things that I feel most confident and feel best and not really having the stuff that I'm super stressed about. And it works out. Really? Well, I think I'm very, yeah. Very appreciative of it. Let's dive into that a little bit. Now, it's a little bit different. Because when you were going through the issues of stress before we figured out how to fire on all cylinders the best way that we could as a team would advice, would you give to someone from the experience of dealing with stress before we had the talk. I think I was I was trying to do a lot of stuff not at work that like would re. Relieve the stress of like oh, well, try to bake. I'll try to see friends will try to go out. I'll try to do all these things. But I would also do like the self love stuff like face masks and taking a bath. And doing all that. And so yeah. So it's definitely important to just like have time for yourself. Where like you're not worried about if it's work that you're stressed about. You're not worried about work. So like when you get home take time to make dinner that you like take time to like clean yourself, like take a shower make it along shower make it super hot like, whatever is best for you schools, your skin on, of course. And then you won't have to worry about going into work. But I mean, I think the reason I started getting so stressed was because I just wasn't being honest with you about it. And I wasn't being like, hey, this is too much for me trying to take it all on. So like just being honest with your superiors supervisor boss, co-worker, whoever like being honest like this because it was you who brought it up. I was too nervous too. Because I was like. She's gonna think about workers. I don't want this like negative thing. But you took it. So unbelievably well, men like made my life so much better and so much easier in that was another thing that I never felt like I was I wasn't on a team. It's just I felt like I wasn't handling my responsibilities properly. I think a super important part of stress is just like feeling like you have somebody that can help you with it. I know a lot of people don't like to ask for help. But like, I think that's dumb need help ask for it. Yeah. That took me a long time to figure out. Yeah. And I mean, I've I've kind of always ask for help except in this situation because I would see you powering through so much. I was like I should know how to do this. And then you were like, it's okay. And I was like, okay. Okay. And so that's like so now, and there's a problem at work or something I feel I feel productive when we're all stressed because we all wanna get this done. You can do this all do this. And you can do that part. So it's like if you have a bunch of people you can lean on and ask for help and do stuff for two like I like that a lot answer any question. Yeah. Talk for eight minutes. Both perfect. I agree completely. Yeah. I mean, adding onto yours another quick tip is not even a quick tip. It's just like a wrap up. Yeah. Separate work in your life. If you can try the best again, we only have a few more left up. Yup. From Mattie again. How do we committed to routine in yourself and not procrastinate who procrastination quick tip on procrastination? Ooh, I have something go. It's doesn't work about it. So there's there's a way of thinking, I guess it's called near linguist programming. I guess, and they it's a if you're a visual learner, this might work for you for me, it doesn't. But this is just something that I can give to you. So they tell you to to think of the two things that you have on your plate as sheets like sheets of paper. So you have one that's the thing that you have to do your task. And there's a thing that you want to do or like your end goal or something that you can treat yourself with kind of like once I get through my job. I can do this thing that I want to do. So you're supposed to think of the papers as if they're stacked in front of each other on top of each other. And then you poke a hole through the thing that you have to say, it's like you have to do your taxes and. Then you're like, oh, I don't wanna do my taxes. What something that will motivate me to do my taxes, and the oh, I can go to Ruth Chris after so you have one piece of paper, that's your taxes and the other piece of paper that's underneath. It is Reuss Chris steak a menu beautiful. So you're supposed to use your machination poke a hole through your tax paper. And then through the paper, you see just a smidgen of the Reuss Chris perfect medium rare steak on a plate. So then you go. Okay. I can see this as long as I get through this other piece that I have to do it does not work for me. It's it's a very cool image though. Yeah. Like, I'm seeing it in my head. And I like it a lot. Yeah. And L P is all just visual which also like it sometimes works for me. And it sometimes doesn't. Yeah. I think we might be similar in that way. 'cause I don't think I it would work for me. But I love that idea. And I wish it did. I wish to because I'd be like, oh, that's so sick. I'm like hacking my mind into thinking something, but really I'm just like, okay, get this done. And then I'll do that. I guess my my. Actual tip for an in layman's terms that I can actually relate to is get yourself another checkpoint to go after I do this one thing that I have to do then I can treat myself with this thing. I think that's great. I hate procrastinating. I hate it. Really don't like it. So do it. I try not to that's good like every time like in school. And I'd get a project. I'd go home and start at that day that we got it. So that it could just be I'm a big things out of the way person. Yeah. And so like, I know it's not the best way to think of stuff because then always seems negative like, oh, I just want to get this out of the way. I mean, like when we do the podcast like I loved when we were like four ahead. I was like, oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. That's my favorite too. Just like have stuff done. Choose priority things like something that needs to get done. I mean base it like just the base level of how you think something should be done. This is more important do this. I I think it's because I'm so scared of being late to stuff or having stuff turn in late that like, I just can't procrastinate. Makes me too nervous. And when I in when it's forced upon me. Like if I didn't have time to do it or whatever that makes me super anxious. So I try my hardest to not procrastinate. Yeah. Just do the important things. I I guess. Yeah. That's good. Tanya says figuring out what you wanna do or be in the future without stress or fear. Quick tip on figuring out your future. Oh. Just what? Birt's? Wow. Okay. That should be a full podcast. But I guess if I had to do one quick tip figuring something out. It would just be so stupid. I feel like to say like what makes you happy. But I mean, it does come down to that. Yeah. Pick something you love and you'll make money off of it. Yeah. I mean, that's the worker right? That's true. It's also kind of hard to just say that. Sure. A minute to answer. This. It is a lot. I mean, definitely find something that you would enjoy doing for upwards of fourteen hours a day. If it came to it like if you wanted to make something your passion, if you wanted to make pillowcases, and you didn't put the work in knowns buyer pillowcases. So like if you love doing that. And you're doing that for fourteen hours a day for fourteen years. I don't know. I'm numbers fourteen. But like, that's how many lives he lived a my God is I gotta look into that. Something that you can see yourself still being happy with. I would go that direction. And even if you don't want to look that far ahead. What makes you happy in this moment? My my cousin Kelly her favorite, quote, when we were like nine it was I don't know. I asked her what her favorite quote was. But she said don't regret anything because at the time. It was exactly what you wanted. And I think that if you just follow this again, so cheesy like if you follow your heart in a way that you can still have your mind co-pilot. I love that. Then you'll always be on the right road. I will not add to that. Except to say, I love it. The fourteen hour thing is very important. If you could do something for fourteen hours a day. Are you still happy right and getting frustrated doesn't count obviously? Sometimes you'll just get frustrated. But like, yeah, you could make that's amazing about to hate when people say in this day and age, but like, that's amazing. That so many times I say it a lot. But I hate thing. Yeah. Like, you could make money doing anything. Yeah. Anything you like you can make money doing it. Sure. Just believe in yourself and put the work in to last cute for our our jar tip tip jar Georgia. Georgia are banks last tip jar quest from its king? Mando, overcoming, creative blocks. Do we have a quick tip on overcoming? Wow. This is a huge. I talked to so many of my other YouTube friends are all going through this right now, just a creative all of what are we making on YouTube what's fun anymore because I think that it's the views start to like commandeer what we want, and it's always like or art, and what we're passionate about no one ever does. Because this is like it doesn't do. But that's what's so fulfilling, but it is hard to create when you're just uninspired. That's a really difficult thing. If I guess if I had to say anything be go see live art, in whatever way, it could be whether that's a concert or a good improv show or a movie, I mean, even that will help your smiling because there's so much bad. Andro. That's why I said a good imprompt show or like go to a gallery sue start. Like, there's also it's so interesting because like having somebody like you like a creative partner like when something is interesting you, and I will just talk and brainstorm and figure that out. No matter what we were in the middle of like there. So many times where you've you've come in and talk to me, your I've come in and talk to you. And we're talking about something. And then we're like, oh, wait, this would be really funny or this would be a cool idea. Yeah. And then we just switch gears completely to talk about it. Just today. You were like, oh, this would be a funny video. And we're like, yeah. Okay. Let's do that like, yeah. So definitely like just accept creativity. When it comes to no matter where you are like, that's what's more important. Yeah. I agree to I guess that's more of obeying creativity. When it comes to you. But what happens when it's not there? What's already did? My tip your. I mean, yours is really good. I think I was just trying to steal yours and be like also go here. I think watch watch the people that inspire you normally like if you have one inspiration that you that was the reason you started to sing the reason you this little back to them and be like, why do I love them so much and just watch their stuff or listen to read or see their stuff they've created. That's incredible. That's yesterday was writing a bit of the book that I'm working on. And I was thinking about going back to read the book that made me wanna write this one. And I forgot to do that. I just went to sleep instead of that's okay too. But yeah, I agree. Yeah. Going back to the reason why you wanted to start doing something or your biggest inspiration huge way to get some more creativity. When you have none. We did you did it. That was our first tip jar. I figure maybe we'll do one of these like every couple of months, I think there's a very good idea. 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Tough as Nails | Season 1, Episode 4 Recap | Phil Keoghan

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Tough as Nails | Season 1, Episode 4 Recap | Phil Keoghan

"Hey what's going on rob here? Getting Ready for our tough as nails episode four recap we're going to have. This is sort of a two part episode Mike Jess and myself are going to be a recapping par one of the episode, and then about fifteen minutes in Phil Cogan is going to join us to. Tell us his thoughts on episode number four of tough as nails. Let me tell you about today's sponsor. Those are friends. Bet Online. There's no shortage of action going on with our exclusive partners. Online Dot AG sports are slowly making their way back with the UFC boxing nascar soccer, leading the way, and that online has all the best odds in lines for the upcoming Games and matches. After this podcast is important, make sure to stay tuned as sports, analysts and host of good sports Dave. DAMASEC is going to discuss the return of sports with. Dave Mason. 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I'm fantastic rob. This is really a truly iconic episode. Very excited to be talking with you about it. Okay all right. We'll see if you can. pull up a Hay Bale or Put Up. Some barbed wire around your podcast area later on I, got allergies Hay. Bales are not good for me. Yeah, I would not do great at this. All right and a man who always has his era. Gatien hooked up correctly Mr Mike Blue. Okay all right well listeners, you're in for a treat in this special episode, because later on in this episode. We're going to check in with Phil Cogan. Who looks like Jess? Who would have thunk it. Probably hearing from Phil Weekly after his last visit. Someone needs to get a time machine for many reasons, but after you use the time machine for all the things that we need the time machine for it had gotten juice left in the time machine. Go Back to twenty twelve. I almost didn't apply to be on our AGP and tell my twenty twelve self that someday doing a weekly podcast with Phil. FREAKING KOGEN Yeah I guess okay. In fairness. You guys are talking to fill later on. And I have to be on the road traveling with my family. Yeah, but I'll I'll get talked with a lot in the future so. We're recording this episode in two parts we wanted to. catch up with Jess and talk about the episode right after it airs and then on Thursday morning we'll check in with Phil, but normally will record the whole Shebang on Thursday morning, and here from fill to start the show on Thursdays. Of course you can subscribe to our brand new tough as nails podcast feed, go to rob his website dot com slash tough as nails, and we would also appreciate if you could hammer in those five stars to our ratings and help a new podcast. Get discovered plant. The little post in the items were get off the fence post. Those reviews rate harder, not smarter. That's right. That's right. Okay, so we appreciate that. ROB has website dot com slash tough as nails and. We will put together. A list of all of our questions for fill that we need to ask but I guess our top story at this hour Mike. Roofer Lee. What happened I? Believe winner it. I mean he's still Mike considering he might get ten thousand dollars at the end of this, the idea of a winner might be out the barn door at this point, but yeah, I mean this was really. We've only had three overtime so far on two of them. Having been have involved young, but this has to be by far the toughest one pundit. Of them as soon, Lee Michelle paired up i. was like Oh my God otp. I'd love it, and then, of course, the twenty faith twenty twenty provides us is of course they lose, and of course they had to face off against each other just could have lived with anybody else losing this challenge we we have to lose Lee or Michelle. Well this is maybe I'm gonNA. Call this the biggest fake out of twenty twenty because I was one hundred percent convinced like they pair Lee and Michelle in like Oh good. I gotTa root for this team. Because it's fills all time, favorite reality contestant, and who is rapidly becoming my all time. Favorite Reality Intestine Michelle like we've got a cavities. Guys win the whole thing and show everybody that the old people could do it, and then the old people can't do it and I'm looking at this and I'm seeing okay. Phil can't go five minutes without bringing up Roofer league like he really loves this guy and has said he's GonNa. Make the entire series. And then there's Michelle, who if she was on any other reality show? We'd be saying Oh. Yes, she's toast. She's got. She's got the real like Jillian Larson upside there and I. I'm thinking. Oh God Michelle is toast. There's no way she could beat Roofer Lee. WHO's got hands the size of bananas in the Physical Challenge? And I'm sitting there thinking Oh. Yeah, it's toast. It's curtains for Michelle. She's done. She's done, and then she beats him. And I buy a second milliseconds. Even that could be editing. I. Don't know I'm not. I don't know just I saw Phil do this so that I don't know I took his body language much like Danny I'm an expert on language. The podcast listeners I need to hear more about this than you did. My wife likes to call it. 'cause I do it sometimes in bed like Whoa at the beach. been lying for thirty, years listen. But. Show bloom he had both his hands on his head, and just staring in disbelief at such a close content. You said you'd do this in bed a lot. Yes, so imagine for the listeners a home. Malcolm has just been voted out of survivor. That's the reaction that right and everyone else. The particularly the female cats are the ones pointing and laughing, because they're so excited. That Michelle ended up taking one home, which I was excited about as well like. It really sucked to lose. Lee but God I would hate to lose three women in a row here to start off because. As, much, as this show really tried to build up like hey, anybody can be tough as nails. No matter where you come from, it would come down almost on the show itself. If the three overtime challenges were based more towards a male skillset, which is favouring you know more upper body strength, etc, but Michelle killed it Inna Corrigan Nolan's. I was really happily surprised with how considering that like I would say I mean I guess part of it was survivor as like untying the knot, but the rest of it was just like hauling wait. Yeah just you wouldn't think that this would be a challenge on paper. That Michelle would be able to beat Leah not only was it involving physical strength you also needed to climb onto the hay bales and pull the rope and Roofer, Lee does have significant height advantage over Michelle probably in the neighborhood of if not two feet, a foot and a half. Oh, for sure, let's say at least one hundred percent I think to Michelle's mainly personal, yes. A remake of the Big Brother Twenty failed Sitcom pilot the tall, and the short of it my now. They're going to say twins. For that for that person is well if if feel. Past! Shelling Leon it. Now Yeah I thought it was interesting that they have taken pains when the task is something that physical. They are adjusting for height to make it even, and there's a lot of you see that happen sometimes on survivor challenge, but definitely not every survivor challenge, and they certainly never do it on the amazing race. so I thought it was. It was a good way to evaluate strength per person. We've saw it on. The coal challenges. Well. You had to shovel the percentage of your body weight in coal and I think that helps, but also the way that you swung those big Hay bales around. That is not unlike swinging around a fifty pound, suitcase and Michelle probably. is accustomed to swinging around things that way almost half her body weight and throwing them up on top of things, so I'm going to say this really did play. Her skill sets maybe a little bit more than roof relief because I don't know if you were watching this. People were yelling at him to lift with his legs and he was not doing that. It was hurting my back to watch him move. How did last sixty one years on this planet and not like lifting like that? Like how still upright? I mean to be fair. He's spending every day like stooped over or however many. Maybe his back is just built a F-, but the other interesting thing was stacking the Hay bales because I feel like we've got the same strategy from both. Michelle brought up like she cut. A JENGA did a bit right and you? Can't just make one tall stack because that's just going to tip over, and you can imagine like the Tetris of it. All of stacking luggage to fit into some sort of aircraft is probably a bit of it, so maybe this being like a back door five hole in away. In that like was no such a back door. Five whole just called being good at your thing, yeah! Mike do you suspect that Michelle has ever stacked up all of the suitcases and made a tower in stood on top of them. I don't know how board you get in an Airport I. Don't Cincinnati Airport in particular I'm not sure how crazy it is a hobby Mike. People might do it in like Laguardia, but not for fun, just like at a malice. Expecting Laguardia Airport Shade. Lots of shade at La Guardia but Yeah I. I like justice thought so the more I think about it. The more I guess. That's sort of like the story. Michelle, to right they, they called it a little engine. That could that. You you look at her initially think Oh, she can't do this, but she has like the gumption of wherewithal to be able to overpower anybody, and that's just like this challenge. You look at initially and you're like Oh Michelle's toast, and she's able to use her skill completely overcome things, unfortunately at the expensively who again like from our perspective was still in it as much as we talked about him, possibly meaning to see like three chiropractors afternoon, he did get milliseconds away seemingly from reading that balance. Surviving Just just I can't believe that release out of the competition for the top prize. Well I think this episode alone. Validates fills choice to structure the game. Such that you get to see everybody. Yeah, the whole thing. Like, what if this was all the roof relieve? We were going to get I think this would not have phil coming on at eleven every week to talk to us. And my I have to say that that I actually really liked this format where we can stay with these characters and not like in like an edge of extinction sort of way where it's like okay well. I like you'll, but he's voted out, but at least get to watch them on the edge of extinction, but it's really not the same thing. I don't know I mean they'd seems like the players that are currently limited to influence the game in some way different ever speaking Lynette and Melissa, obviously both big people in the team challenge for completely different reasons. That Melissa is essentially the reason why dirty hands has. Two thousand dollars more in their hands and Lynette was one of the big. You know vocal reasons why savage crew just ends up self-destructing this episode yeah. That when I see them on the show. I'm not like thinking about them like all right. Let's get back to the people that are in the competition. They are still like an integral part of the show. And I like that. There's a strategic. Angle to it as well with your whole team, and you have people saying we need to win this challenge because this is the only chance they have to earn money, and it kind of bolsters this team spirit, or it should in theory, and even though it kind of didn't this instance. Was Murph that brought this up in the episode like it's interesting that it's not coming from the players who are saying. Hey, this is my only chance that I. On the show that there are players that say hey, we got a win this challenge because you know lit lineker spin voted out and so has. Melissa and I think that that also speaks from Murph's personal experience, though right like if you're talking about Phil, said everyone sort of comes from a team background, but Murph might come from the largest team background to seek comes from a literal army where you have to have a unified front, and like you're only as strong as the people you run into the bunker with. It's the few in the proud. Yeah, exactly, it's like so. So I can imagine that he's like well. You know what I I need to support you know my brothers and arms, our sisters in arms, as it were, whereas other people that are used to working more independently, someone like tariff for instance I think you know. Maybe it's more a bit more of an independent person. Just based on her background may not have like specifically vocal approach to the competitions. It's not bad. It's just different. Let's talk about the team challenge because it seemed like that. We really had my. My dirty handstands were really all all going crazy tonight? Because it was a good night for dirty hands were savage crew was really suffering for. That lack of leadership Just what would you think about the search for a leader over on savage crew? Like it's really interesting to see people's rationale for not wanting to lead, and I have a whole like I can give you a whole ted. Talk about Murph later on because I have a lot of. Murph but I thought it was very interesting. I have so many opinions. It's it's going to be. It's going to be good, but I think we gotta save it for the individual because. Yeah, it's yeah. But I thought it was really interesting that a lot of people didn't want to lead because they wanted to do. And that is something that I feel very acutely as someone who has like over the years kind of movement into project management, and has been compelled to take things that I'm eventually going to have to have credit for and make other people do them. It's a very hard thing to do, and it's something you'd much rather have your hands in it yourself and be responsible for it and I think that. Speaks to the kind of work ethic that they're celebrating here. It's like. There's a lot more pride in being the one that does the work rather than being the foreman and Murphy had a very good point that if he is trying to operate the machinery, he can't look up and see what other people are doing. And then you have Sarah. WHO's kind of the same thing like she didn't feel like? She knew how to operate the things, and she wanted to operate the things. She didn't want to be the one directing other people. Where contrast that with someone, like Michelle, whose entire strength in the entire competition is directing other people. I think that you know dirty hands really benefited in many ways from having someone who has direct experience on this being on the team. Because I would imagine if that wasn't the case, they would run into similar problems right think savage crew also got a bit unlucky that they were dealing with six people who had no experience as to how to do this, and so you know I, think a lot of fingers pointed at tear. Will you know how to work with the wire? And, so it's just sort of became okay, you should be the one that should be stepping up. And then when she was stepping up, then people were sort of blaming her communication style, but I would imagine if for some reason Melissa couldn't have participated in this challenge. I do wonder if something similar would have happened where you do not have an experience beacon to look towards on your team. Someone that you trust holy. We'll be able to manage you. Yeah, it is interesting and I want to. I want to throw this out here because I don't think this is something I'm going to be able to do on tough as nails. Nearly as often as I do on amazing race, but you know we're watching episode amazing grace that I can be like. Oh, yeah, been there. I know where the. Stuff is this is something I've done. Is. where? Challenged wire fence. I have put up fence. Okay out when I was a kid, my father had a fencing business and I've operated a post hole. DIGGER and I've I've worked with barbed wire so I. I very excited to see a couple of things in this episode that are things I have done and what you're Auger experience like I was not allowed to work with the power tools, but I've seen other people. Do it enough that I think if the three of US had to put a fence, you would want me on the Auger. Okay all right so. Some day when the three of us are competing for the least tough person in the nation, I think Robin I would make posts wrapped wire around on probably my best function. Yeah, just put an orange mark on your calf and bury. The dirt, yes. One person on the panel who probably knew what an Auger was before tonight? You are uniquely qualified to lead this panel. I'm like three for three this season. I want an alternator was. Bigger. Was a thing that like hunted vampires legitimately and before this episode now you're thinking of thinking of Harry Potter. So just in learning to put up a fence like this. Do you have any? Tips that you would be able to help with our team leader. Like what would you be telling us? It'd be telling you all to put on your frigging gloves. Yeah, like Tara. I think is a special case because she just handles mental all the time, but don't touch barbed wire without putting on gloves That just seems intuitive. Yeah! I'm Phil will have some insight onto this. Just by you know they'll hinted and how barbed wire really changed farming that was there just prior to barbed wire. was there wires? Didn't that points on it? and the animals would run into it and be able to take it down, like is the barbed wire just to the animals go near it, and then they get hurt, and then they don't go defense well. It's not just keeping the animals in its keeping other stuff out So, that's what it is. Yeah, okay, yeah, that's kind of the big thing and especially like most of the predators that would get your cattle are pretty intelligent, yes, and could figure out ways around normal fence, but the it also it saves labor like a barbed wire fences, much simpler thing to put up then like a whole wall of post. Yes I should know that that was I recently watched babe. Ruth not do dirty hands that'll do. Yeah I am. A almost an adult at the time of that movie came out event. I recently watched and it was intense I gotta say. Look Hey. Hey, kids WANNA watch this happy. Movie Babe. Remember it being rather kit friendlier. Pretty mature, move gory. Yeah, but it's a talking pig. Like how is that not like that trap? When you go to watch watership down thinking, it's a cartoon, right? It's like a Ralph Bakshi's film or like. It turns out to be anything anything. Yes, I'm just going to say spoiler alert if you if you're a parent, I think it's on like HBO, Max or one of these lot of animals are going to die on Bates. Okay noted. Isn't that out there this? Same, have you ventured into babe pig in the? Geno. Natural Causes Rats die in that one. Okay right so. Justice worked with the Bard. Why did you see any teams that we're doing anything that you specifically thought were a bad handling of this task. I thought there was a lot of good strategy here like I thought the laying out the posts before you do anything else is a pretty key thing. Also I liked Kelly rolling barbed wire down the hill, and noting that the barbed wire reminds her of both fishing nets and fishing line. I thought that was great. It's really fun to see where people discover their kind of hidden strengths that tie into what they do. It's like a secret. A, secret five hole every time that happens. Yeah, the back door. and of course in teaming with that young once again runs into something that he has no experience in, but we get to you later like I hooked up water by this does not look like a host connector to me, Maybe at some point, there will be something that is literally on fire that young people can. Really WanNA. See this. I WanNa see the thing that like young story, so far has just been that he's kind of a load. Every time and I want to see the thing that he shines at and I know just because of the narrative structure of the show, and like the way that fills, speaks about it. I have to imagine that's coming. There's going to be something where the team is not going to be able to function without him or where he's just going to blow away the competition. And I can't wait to see what that thing is because they are really the up to something with him yeah. I thought it was odd that after the challenge was won by dirty hands, then they brought in like all right. Let's bring a bull in. And here's. Now well, let's let's test your your pen. Here's a bowl. Yeah I wasn't sure if we needed that extra. Maybe ranch manage white just had like an unruly bowl. He wants to get off his hands and put up in this 'cause. I would not want to trust as much as I trust. You know the working hands of this cast. I don't know if I trust them so much with like a pen. They've never put out before to hold in a semi animals. Though I. Maybe there were Animal Wrangler. Case it faulty. Yeah, he's like she knows what she's doing. Melissa's put up a few fences in her life. VENTER's and. Then, that ball has a new home just. Yet I'm sure he'll be very comfortable there Is there anything else that we want to say about the Teen Challenge? I mean we could talk a little bit more about the I don't know if there's like a we tear our team Murph, or whoever but I mean. This is the first legitimate interpersonal conflict. We had this season. It will not be the last in this episode, but I think it's pretty significant and I. do wonder if this is going to keep becoming a thing because it just feels like I. Don't know if felt like the schism that I saw. was that it again if? If, it's terror versus birth a lot of the team taking Murph side. Yeah, I wonder if that's going to bear out in the future where like tear, it just doesn't feel like she's part of the team. It's really interesting to me. I can't actually tell who's in the right here. I can kind of see like they did a good job of portraying both sides here because I think on one hand neither one of them wanted to lead, and it looked to me like Tara. Foisted it on Murph when it came down to it, but I have to imagine the team had to agree on that. You see Murph kind of blanche ing when she says he's in charge. And then you see Murph saying take I, decided at a certain point in this challenge, I was going to give over leadership Tara and it doesn't seem like. Tara knows that or maybe he said it to her and she didn't want to hear it and she didn't want to do it, so she didn't respond to it, but I can't tell. Which of those things is true and I think that would inform my feelings about this situation. I'm going off the third party here. Linnet seen not happy with Tara so I feel like that. At least based on what we saw I felt we were supposed to be like that. Murph was in the you right or Murph should have taken the leadership role. What do you think? Murph was I think in the less wrong is probably the more proper is that I think Tara committed the worst offense in that like you said like even though she wasn't, she didn't want leadership. At the outset, it did seem like when it got to the post wrapping that like she was the most vocal, and it's always thing is the most vocal personal leader. We're not entirely sure. They look to her for experience because she was able to. She's tied wire before leaving. That was sloppy right so. I don't know if she even knew she was going to handle that part. Because it. The organization wise, it was all over the place of okay. I'm going to run back and do this, but maybe if we start stringing up the post as we're putting them up, that'll help us. Catch up I love to hear from as we talked to him in a little bit about exactly how close it ended up being because it was at least really portrayed in Jeff, probst parlance is like one of the biggest blowouts and toughest nails history. Despite the fact that dirty hands did like get a crooked post and have to recalibrate that your notice how every challenges either neck and neck or huge blowout, and there's no middle ground. There's a middle ground yeah. Okay. Let's then talk about. The advantage, which came into play from last week's episode, where Murph had found the alternator, the fastest, and he was entrusted with creating the pairs and Danny was worried. He's the second week in a row. We heard Danny. Say Well. Boy Murphy has the advantage, but. What I'm really worried about is that? Is He gonNA use that advantage against me? Just my question for drywall. Danny is who hurt you. Well I want to. Be. Here is is the time for me to speak about Murph a little bit because I also want to speak about Danny here because I think. This is something you only ever see on reality shows in their infancy. Where you get a group of people that have been brought on to do a particular thing, and then one or two of them emerge as people who are playing the the quote, unquote game, and nobody else is playing a game, but then there's like this these. One or two people doing this like fourth dimensional chess in their heads every time and you have to people this season. Who are doing that in Murph and Danny and the two of them are like trying to game it and they're the only ones that are talking about like. How do I personally get to the end? And how do I strategize this and I? Think they kind of found each other this. They found each other kindred. Spirits of like we are. We have a particular goal in mind, and this is what this is what we want to do, and we're the ones that get it. So see why he would want the two of them working together you see them as sort of like the prophet, Ex and Magneto of the nails were all they're they're! Playing chess with the rest of the pieces. I guess the question is who's like Danny can sort of be like a plaster version of Magneto and that he can move that around with his mind, instead metal. Tara would be more so than magneto right Maybe, she's Magni. Does enemy is Magneto a rod buster? Yeah. Original name. Barbed wire challenge exactly before my news like maybe I should change by day, but p Rod foster anymore on taken seriously. But you see it like. Survivor had Richard Hatch and you. EAT IT amazing. Race had Boston Rob. You. Get these people in there we are currently re watching season one of the mole and there is a guy on there named Jim who is the only one who's got that next level thinking, and it's really entertaining to me like sometimes you get people that have been specifically cast to do that, and everybody does it, but this show Phil has specifically not cast those people and he got two of them anyway Yeah I I mean I. Guess Rob. Should we call Danny? Murph the chill town of tough nail. Aren't they completely lined in the same way, or at least for the next fifteen or so years Will they be on the same? Until they have a horrible blow. Yeah, well, that's the thing. Is that I think that? This is also really interesting challenge because I'm pretty sure they were all inter team right? Not Intra team and I guess we can talk to fill it up that about whether Murph had to pair people up from different teams, so it's not like they have the opportunity to really work together, but I would say now that three people are gone and I think we're starting sort of tear. You know if we could pick winners now. Who would be the biggest individual winner you'd have to imagine? These are probably two top tier picks right now In terms of airtime in terms of just like skilled quality. So just based on your theory of there being sort of like. The to like ten setters. Was this the right move for Murph to. Team up with Danny on this task rather than send Danny pair Danny. Newsstands worst fears of put Danny with potentially the least likely competitors to help him complete this task. I think was the smartest move because I think you put Danny with anybody else like if you put Danny was somebody you think is going to sandbag him? It goes to the bottom. He beats that person. The worst persons out then you don't have any more dead weight and Danny is still there and now he's mad at so I think this is more of a game recognize game situation, and you see a lot of these. These and again I'M GONNA drag in force another metaphor here, but this is something that people do a lot of on ink master this these types of challenges where you have to pick somebody else to team up with and completed challenge together, and the possibility is that you're going to have to face off against that person. If you're in the bottom, you see a lot of this. Were they? Pick the person that is the best. And some people do try to sandbag the people that are not the best, but you kind of want for yourself. You WanNa. Choose somebody. That's GONNA. Help you win that I challenge. You don't have to go to the bottom and I think murphy kind of thinking well. Danny is likely to go far whether or not I put him with someone else and so I'll put him because we know that we're going to work very hard. We're GONNA work well together or the type of person. We can worry about going up against each other later. To be the man you gotTa beat that. He wants to serve himself I like right because he grabbed also ended up picking somebody and completely completely blow up in his face whereas he picks who he thinks is again we we've never heard. This is a real Laura. Meerut Chamdo situation, right? We're like we hear Danny like my biggest competition. Murphy has not said a lick about Danny until this episode did is just like. Yeah, he's fun I enjoyed any like. We have no idea what Murph thinks about Danny in terms of a threat and Murph may not even see this competition in terms of that threat level, but I can imagine if he's. He's just like I want to get through to the next round. Let me pick who I is the strongest competitor. It would make sense to go with Danny and I. Think between that and just the really short fun. Ironic moment of Kelley's saying. Please just pick anybody young at her. Get paired up with young. There are a couple of fun. Little editing moments in this particular challenge Mike Do. You think that Murph. Tried to sandbag any two people in particular by pairing them together, or do you feel like? Do you take him at his word that he tried to make team even as possible. I mean if I'm going to be candidate I don't think Murph cared once he once he picked Danny ainge. He's like we're pretty much set. Let me just start putting random people together. I could imagine that like he wants to make a statement by putting Michelle together. I think they worked well together. They're able to see a commonality and their age. Not sure you know, we see these these people hang out sometimes between challenges, but we know what they're dynamic is like so I'm not sure if he had a reason behind Alliot Young Terry Miles Inland. Dan Lewis but like I did not see any particular week lake of those three, pairs. Attribute to Mertz. Gaming Jess an amazing race leg with these five pairs of WHO's first place in WHO's eliminated. I'm I think we probably see it play. How much the same way we saw it here for being honest bigly emiss- and Michelle would be eliminated. Yeah well, you know, and you know this is something that Phil has hinted about as we've been talking to him that. Things are different on this show, and we're so conditioned to think like from the rest of our reality show experience. We're so conditioned to think that they're doomed. I think this is like the Non Elimination Lake. Shell I. Dunno I would also say I think there's a chance Linda Ann. Lewis would be the young dating couple. That's like testing their relationship. On the reason they just cannot get along for a liquor leg, league and they. Pick up the hose bait commod Babe. What are you doing broke my finger babe. Sarah Tamar. My balls the cutting the pipe now. Dear hate when that happens. Yeah, okay, so we have our five pairs here and it's going to be a Murph and Danny. As we mentioned then. We also are going to have Leeann Michelle. We have Kelly Young Linda. Lewis, and then a miles is paired with. Sarah, tear. Yes. So some interesting pairs. Some interesting strategies just look like that. Kelly in young. We're going to be in trouble when they were deciding to carry the pipes around rather than roll them. This is again. This is not something I have done directly, but it is something that I have witnessed and something like we sure the two of you have not seen these irrigation things. In recent memory I saw one like today's recall. Not Tabia. Well, they had rivers in Mesopotamia. You have to bring the water to your fields here. But I would imagine at least my thought is if there's a wheel on it, you should probably L. Drought, isn't it? Yeah I think there's a lot of people that were able like. They had the mechanical mind, even if they hadn't directly worked with one of these things to look at it and figure out how it works and figure out the quickest way to do it and things like dropping the. Dropping the posts as you're running out to the end of the field was something that a lot of people did in making the connections as you're going rather than putting all the pipes in one row, and then doing the connections, and not that was something and also making sure you've got it exactly right on your first try because it looked like it was a huge setback if If you had a burst pipe, or if you had a leak, you had to figure out where it was. Go back and Redo whole chunks of it, so it really seemed like it is. Is this again? This is a classic amazing race thing. If you you have to make sure you get it all done correctly on the first try so that you don't lose any time Yeah, so obviously the I think the bottom three finishing payers had by far the most drama behind Lee. Michelle wasn't dramas much as like. They got stuck at a connection to the point where they were like grunting and exertion that basically put their behind because they were doing pretty well. About Linda Lewis and Kelly just like even when they win, she still puts down young like yeah. I basically dragged him across the finish line happen. I'm the captain now look at me. Captain Phillips Moment. It really was at young like short. Take hostage. I'm fine. I'll do whatever it takes A. IT takes a good man admit when someone else is leading you and you need just let yourself be led, and I think we have to give young some credit for that. Starting what he's just like listen. You're going to help me. Not being over time for one sure I'll listen I've tried everything else. That hasn't worked, so that's the only reason he got there at least got their. Ot. Lead, follow or get out of the way as they say in tough as nails circles. I'm sure, but but I'm a I'm a little surprised that I don't know. I feel like the edit was giving us Linda. Lewis would end up in the bottom 'cause they definitely seemed like. At least Linda was just dragging Louis the point where I think like what in the cardinal sins of toughest nails she said and confessional I. Don't think Lewis is that tough feels like a swear on this show. Right Just. This is not the first time we've heard this type of thing about Louis this season. Yeah I think. People originally see him when he's coming in. And he looks like because he's so good, looking and so clean every time you see him a think people made that assumption early on, and then some of those assumptions turned out to be a little bit in reality, but I think he didn't get a fair shake coming in, and he just hasn't. It hasn't gotten any fair for him. But. Yeah, I! Think it's really it I t the first two episodes are I. Guess. Technically it's three episodes that we've seen. Everybody was so like teamwork and touchy feeling, and really wanting to get along, and now they have dropped the facade, and they can't continue wanting to get along quite so hard anymore and I think now it's starting to cook with gas a little bit more, and it's very. It's very. Very interesting to me like we were saying. We don't know what the dynamics are yet and we're starting to see the dynamics form, and I think this is going to start to form the narrative arc of the season, so I like seeing this like Linda and Louis. We kind of got a sense for who was prior to this episode. We got a sense for who Lewis was, but we didn't know. What the two of them together would be like, and what kind of brand that has on everybody else safe to say also Lewis's finger probably was not broken. It did not seem like it. He was still moving it around in doing the work. He was just complaining a lot. Okay. Mic Yeh anything you. WanNa add from the irrigation challenge. Could you could? You could sum up what ended up happening with Michelle Lee? In terms of what they ended up having trouble. I mean really was just like the pedal to connection. They just got really stuck at it I don't know if it was just. It was a particularly bad latch, or if they just had trouble lining up the pipe, but that seemed to from editing perspective really put them behind a pushing I wanNA pose before we move on here is. Do you think this is the last pair challenge? We will see on the season or do you? You think given the drama from this. They would want to try this out again at eight or six or four. Or what have you well? I think that we are definitely going to see more paired challenges. It may not necessarily be in pairs of two I mean I could see next week potentially having three teams of three when we're down to nine survivor, does that a lot with like the reward challenges and finding different ways to? Up So I think we'll definitely see. The groups broken up in different ways just. Yeah I think anytime. The number of people left. The game is not a prime number. We are going to be seeing some kind of subdivisions. What was neat about? This was that they were able to take the bottom two and then put them into. The time. Right and it could have been a case where this sometimes happens. If like Oh, you know. What if one person outperforms the other? And they happened to end up in the bottom two for team they were picked for its on a surly their fault, but again. Maybe it's just arrived from the way Murph pick teams did not feel like you know one of lear. Michelle really screwed the Pooch. It was that they just both happen to not deliver on that one latch, and so it made sense as to why they both ended up being in the bottom, their glee fans are going to be very excited with all the Liam Michelle mentioned tonight. Maybe, not recently in the show. Yeah I I. Do WanNa I. do think that it might not necessarily be teams like sub teams like groups of people working together so much as I think we're GONNA see a lot more. Competitions where people are group's together, and then made to compete in heats together because we did see that a little bit in the in the first and second episodes I think that will enable you to see what people are doing a little bit better than. The necessarily like having everybody go head to head at the same time. Okay. Just anything else that you want to add here about tough as nails outing number four. I HAVE WE'RE GONNA? Talk about the Hay. Bales a little bit more I. Think but I also want to. Let to have a moment to shame. Danny and Murph lease over a comment that they made that I've not. Like knows what I'm where I'm going with this, yeah! They're both married, so they are used to being told what to do. No wonder they get along so well. Sexism is such a great uniter guys. Guys. I think you're wise might be tougher than you think. We got the wrong south. Or your US still I mean is correct. Yeah. It's true. I think. I would love to podcast with both of your spouses, and I have podcast with them individually, and they are definitely tougher than either one of you individually, but now I can. Sign that, but you guys are not necessarily the Danny and Murph of origin he so yeah. Okay all right. We do a little better. Danny and Murph Okay Yeah. Maybe yeah, I'm not going to cancel them outright yet because I think we need this kind of emergent strategy in the toughest meals ecosystem, and they're the only ones bring it, but. Yeah I don't I don't like. The women are bossy and Talki- Yeah, I mean. It is tiring price. Phil like there's work to do in that regard, you know Yeah, and there's one that fills phrase by the way like go to work, or there's work do. He's trying to make that a thing in the show? Yeah, it's kind of Spin Grin of toughest nail so far in that. It's not really gelling yet. Give it time? Yeah, this season one is still we're still working out the vernacular, and you know if you go back and watch season. One of mazing race. Most of feels stick is not there either so it takes time it's. It's percolating. Yet, but I think. Overall. I think were doing great here and there so much interesting stuff going on both. In the tasks themselves and in the people now finally, because when it's I think up until this point, it was all tasks all the time and all we could talk about was this person was good at this task? And now we're starting to get to know the people and I think this. This episode to me was a big leap forward. Okay I just what about the Hay bails? I mean we've? We've talked a lot about the hails but. I did think that there were. There were some strategy elements to moving those things. Picking it up by the string, That was hurting my hands to watch it in. Rows strategy to move. Hey, just I mean that is how you have to lift them, but you do have to throw your legs into it and I think Michelle had the right idea to not lifted up and carry it the whole way, but to kind of flip it and don't rent well. Do you think Phil just being Amazing Race Guy Naturally had to put a task tales in here. I feel like Michelle had. Had went particularly like that would have been immensely heartbreaking, given the the use of Hay Bales on previous amazing race seasons. This could be why they don't have the. They left that that idea that everybody has to finish every task. Maybe that's why they don't. They didn't continue that. Pass the first episode because they were worried when they got to the hey, bills there scenario where refer was stuck there for eight hours. Can I ask? You know we all have kids, but my mind is not of the tide shoes yet. You're both more expert nuts. People as a result of working with kids with shoelaces as Michelle was alluding to. My kid ties his shoes about as well as a Ki-. Rob's got to speak. We only have velcro shoes at my house. I don't think anybody's tieing shoes. I really liked how Michelle just went in with like user teeth. Titles Knots Yep. Jeff Pros would've love them because that's the thing he absolutely about Challenges Michelle. Generally. It was like. She blazed through those knots, and I think that was also that was key right because again if it did come down to milliseconds that little lead that Michelle dot was was what you needed and God. She was so frigging doral when like just a confessional going hot damn I did it was like? I love. I love her so much room for all the way right now now now that Lee Lee had to falls that apparently Michelle show. Yes, Mike, what's the part that Jeff? PROBST is going to really like it? When somebody suffers some sort of a tooth injury like jt and survivor token cheese. He likes that no I feel I feel like Jeff has a thing where like when somebody untying knots. What their teeth. He like has a particular spike in energy like wow, that's how you play survivor using your teeth on a not. That's how you play. Survivor I to facet of it apparently out tooth out playout. Lash out Naw. There was one more thing I forgot to bring up when we were talking about the individual challenge I enjoy that. Phil is calling the plays and kind of challenging. His does channeling his inner probst commentate throughout the whole thing, but I like it better when the are not in the individual challenges are sitting there with him, and he gets them to contribute as well and I think this is going to be far more entertaining as the numbers dwindle, and when you have like four people doing a challenge and eight people sitting there with Phil talking about what's going on I think that could be really entertaining. Yeah, WOW! Does that mean continuation of Phil Mad flips that he started doing this episode with the ages, not film the blankly or stronger, not hard like he's prompting audience responses now. Your sound sound like you're playing the pyramid. Okay Work Smarter not. What are some other tough as nails praises? You can put in there my. Let's go to. Work! Person going into overtime is eliminated. Young yeah, that's correct cancer. Probably the majority at six to punch. Hours or in out, they don't punch it anymore. Punched in until their punch Dowse we also have the confirmation tonight. Brought up with US last week on the show that the team that wins the most challenges just we'll get sixty K.. That's that's a lot of you. The customer badge. I was about to say that colorful. That is by far my favorite badge of honor. These lot on it. Yeah. Like the cows, not being decapitated by grinder barbed wire. Yeah, into like everybody's happy to see the calicoes happy to see them. It's all good, okay. All right. Mike anything else you want to add before. We start to. Wrap up for tonight and get ready for fill. While, we're gone to some San. Next week. We're going into a construction site, which seems like it's like it's going to get a little amazing race like it seems like one of the vans gets lost. Whereas the other one doesn't it'll be against some really intriguing crossover? It looks like the drama has only just begun. You gotta look at the map babe. Map then get stuck in the sand and towed out, but yeah. I think that I don't know this. This has been an interesting episode in that I think that the interpersonal drama really got kicked up a notch and I think that's sort of has helped. Maybe change the not the tone of the season, but change the course of it a bit to bring in some of those more reality. TV elements I'm not mattered. I think it's made for very interesting discussion so I'll be intrigued to see if this was just you know a bargain the fence or this is going to be the whole post, yeah! Okay just anything else you want to add about episode for. Overall fantastic episode best one so far think Phil seems to be suggesting that it's all going to be uphill from here so I'm excited to see where it goes, I do like. They are taking actual like reality TV editing tropes, and flipping them on their heads so we get the tearful life story of Tara, and she's nowhere near eliminated this. So yeah, I and they're doing that. Obviously, they're doing that on purpose because they know we're expecting it, and then we don't get the pay off and it creates more tension, so the tension is ratcheting up and I'm very I'm very all in on this show after the outcome of this obsess. Okay, so you're saying that the tension is akin to the dirty hands. Teams barbed wire as opposed to a much looser tension on the savage crews fence. Yes, but all the posts are LINEAPP ulcer lined up. Okay, all right Jess. It was great to talk through this episode with you. I know that. You are also podcasting alongside Josh Bigler. Brooklyn's add on the mole. Yep Abuse should all join us open multilateral it is. The funnest and loosest and kind of wacky EST podcast I'm doing this summer which considering that I also do this one is kind of saying quite a bit but we have a lot of fun with it. We have games every week. There's sort of a little sprinkling of being beef flavoring in the soup and chess. It's so tasty and people are sending us. Because apparently now, the thing is if Josh Wig on your podcast. It's fair game for you to send him a parody song, so we're going to be having a mole off at the end of the season where we play all this parodies that people are sending us and we are mounting and instagram. Social. Visibility slash harassment campaign to get. Anderson Cooper to come and speak about the mole on the podcast I don't think it's GonNa work, but let's keep hope alive once upon a time mutate into impossibility to get Phil on a podcast I'm saying like yeah, yeah, and I I also I wanNA. Thank you both for taking some extra time to break down the episode. Before you. Take all night preparing to talk to fill. Because you didn't have to have a special segment with me, you could have just hogged fill and the three of you could have done the recap, so I appreciate that I get to come on and talk about it and I'm very bummed that I will not get to speak to fill tomorrow. Police Pass on my will, and we'll all be back the other next Thursday to check them with bill after Episode Five Okay Jess! Safe travels, and then we'll talk with you next week and we'll talk with fill in just a moment art. Everybody has promised. We're very excited to bring in the host and creator of toughest nails. Please welcome in the Emmy Award winning. Phil Cogan Phil how. Are you going to ring the bell but I feel like that. And will give you a raised eyebrow. Every time it hits me Phil. Would you, would you? Be surprised to know that you're not the first person to get played in by that music, actually more than one person have requested. Stinger be there sort of like wrestling intro music to whenever rob to talk with them on a podcast. Okay, so who else is requested the SPEC mix mix in? A young man named John John. That has also wanted to be introduced with that as well but. None. Did you say? You guys me Philly Phil or somebody. We'd love. We'll call you whatever you want. Your the ranch hands here we're. We're just sort of penned up right now. In more ways than why breaking down this episode. which was I mean? I think that you know the expectations you built up. Were were met in a certain way. I think especially with that overtime which oh I could imagine I I know that you know as well from from being part of the amazing race it sometimes ending is get edited to make it look more neck than it was, but at least if if your reaction was to be considered, a truly was down to the wire, it was down to the wire. There are things that happened on this series and I just was doing notes on show nine. Show nine. There are things that happen on this series. If you sat down at a table and you said okay, let's script out what we want to happen. We want this to happen. Then we want that it would not be believable. You'RE GONNA. See Things and people are going to be like questioning whether this actually happened or or whether we got like some very experienced scriptwriter to come in like Ridley, Scott or something to come in, and like craft, the whole ending of the shows I mean yes, and last night was it was TV gold and? You pray for those moments you. In your career there certain times in my career where? You know you can never repeat something that you you you just you just can't get any better. Like I had a dinner on erupting volcano, and the volcano blew up as a toasted the chef. And the literally the volcano like blew up on Q. I mean you can't script and stuff and yes. Last night was one of those moments where. It. It's spoke to the whole thesis of what the show's about to which is redefining what the meaning of tough is! and. While yeah, Kaffa moment now. We're all big Lee Marshall Fans. That I really was very very nervous during that whole battle. Because you're going to either way, you're gonNA. Lose your Lee or Michelle. Such incredible stakes, only a couple episodes in to lose either one. When you're in in the process of filming that. What that like to have like You know that these are two of like the top people that you have out there and they're going to do battle and one's going home in this episode we're not going home, but out of the out of the fish right out of the main competition. Well, it's it's. You know I have such a close. Attachment to every single one of the contestants because I respect them all so much and Hopefully that comes across because I genuinely really like these people and Linda Goodridge's somebody who I have been. Looking at to be on the show since two thousand thirteen. Linnet I go back. You know as I mentioned in the last time Deng back to. We're coming up to three years since I first connected with her. And so get really attached. I can't help it. I mean I'm just so taxed. And I think the only redeeming part of all of this is just the idea that nobody goes on so Lee Marshall First of all. What an amazing human being okay first of all the way he went into this like he was not gonNA. Lose and he was going to take it. But have you seen such grace like the way that he he he acknowledged Michelle's effort. It was such a graceful honorable. Competitor. That's the stuff that to me we'd. We'd let that breathe on the show because we want people to see that that that you can D- Likely Marshall and be all in, but then you can also be incredibly graceful. Acknowledging. Somebody else who beats you and I thought that. That spoke volumes and my favorite quote of the whole one of my favorite quotes of the whole season. We're at least says you got Michelle and a bear a fight. You want to help out the bear like door about Michelle. She's good with with deadly accidentally. Spoil Future Challenge of the work that forest ranger than animal wrangler deal where they have to wrestle bears. Yes maybe it was foreshadowing something to come. But what's what's great about this and without saying too much? Is I. Just want to say lease going to have a moment of redemption. This season on toughest nails lead them Chen. Yes, and this episode Michelle Mean Starting Melissa had her moment of redemption in the fencing challenge. So that's the great thing about this format is that? Even if someone. Loses out in the individual. Their focus then becomes all about team and I. Just love the way that they embrace that. And do whatever it takes for their team and you are GonNa see that kind of commitment from probably Marshall. There is as he says during no quick me is what he says. And there is no quit net man at man sixty two years old. Both of them going at it last night. I mean it was so powerful. TV did so in terms of going to the farm because obviously I can imagine that you plot these out ahead of time was just another like you can't script this stuff. That farm girl gets eliminated previous challenge, and then the next. The very next thing is okay. This is my moment. This is the only challenge I can participate in yes, and and look I I really believe one of my favorite quotes is. Luck is the residue of design. If you put the right elements in place in into things, and you put the work in, and you get the right people around you. And you set yourself up for things to happen good things to happen. You put the hard work and I. Really do believe that sometimes the planets align as a result of the hard work so. Is the residue of design and we saw that time and time again. On tough as nails where we set things up to happen, we had the best people in place in great cast and I'm telling you people when they watch some of the episodes. They're going to question whether this really happened. Could. Could this really have happened like you kidding me like really yes I'm telling you it's all legit. It's all real. Real money on the line and everything real. I think one of the things. It's a really great about the format. Fill is that we're going to see these people continue to be a part of the show moving on from. What point in the development process did that idea? Come up of keeping people around because it's sort of the. Antithesis of the reality show genre where that okay we start with all these people and we whittle it down to this, but this show you know were bringing out these characters, but we're keeping them all on board and continuing their story over the course of the season. Well, I gotta say that CVS. And the executives at CBS being incredible collaborators in terms of embracing idea and And we talked about this last time when people are have constructive. Criticism, or you know constructive enough. To me that you have to be created to be constructive with your criticism right, and so all the way through the process and the development. They really gave us fantastic feedback and I mentioned to you that this. Team Challenge in an individual challenge goes back to two thousand thirteen, riding around France and thinking about the Tour de France and thinking about the different competitions that happened within one race. It also happens in gymnastics where you have individual medals going to individual people who different disciplines, and then you have a team competition and in, but really came I remember we had a meeting with. With Kelly call and and Tom Sherman over at CBS and they really loved the team aspect. They really liked that team idea, and then the key, and they sort of threw him back to us to say yeah, let's let's go that way. We liked that idea, and then it came down to. At one point? There was a suggestion that we kind of tied the individual in with the team and I said No. You can't do that because. If. Somebody is doing well in the individual it's. Their their progress, and how well they do should not be determined by. The abilities of people on a team. It's gotta be totally mutually. There has to be a mutually exclusive of mutually exclusive competition, going on, and so like I said they embrace that we went with it, and it's very scary when you. When I said scary, relative word scary, but it's it's. It's extremely challenging to make a first season show of anything because you're making like these huge decisions about the format you commit to it and you just don't know like as much as we thought this was going to work this idea of the two separate things. We didn't know how people would respond like when people think that. How really like they get to stay, but they got caught. Like. What do you mean they get so? The most positive. Thing of all of this whole thing as being a the response to the contestants, and be that people really love that we took a completely different turn from other shows, and did not send people home, which fixed your point might which is. Which is this idea that? We can continually get to know Lee. Marshall marshals out of the individual competition now, but you're going to get to know and love this man even more even though he's not in that individual I promise you. Whatever love you. Guys have from Lee Marshall the Roofer. Ten thousand roofs may be more. You're going to love him even more by the individ. You'RE GONNA want you're gonNA rip your all. You're going to actually go and take your earth off and invite me over to put you on on because you just want to hang with. Oh all right well. I don't know how my landlord will feel about that, but I'll take that offer. So we, we felt that this episode took a different tone than the previous ones and I think it's because you know while the drama in previous episodes by a bit more task focused. Who's going to get what done I it seemed like for one reason or another a lot of the conflict is episode was so interpersonal right when everything going on with savage and defenses to partner challenges which I'm sure we'll talk about did that surprise you when you were being that out in the field that all of a sudden these these people have now been around long enough that they're starting to get to a bit of loggerheads with each other. It didn't surprise me at all because you know we, we've seen this on race before as well and it's and it's like any relationship. You go into a relationship is always polite. Period that honeymoon period where everybody's super polite, they do. They're trying to do everything right there. With make an extra effort to not create any you know to to to to not step on any toes, and you know you're tiptoeing around certain subjects. He leave them alone because it's new in, it's fresh and it's all everything. Everything is great, and then after you're with your friends after he gets a note for a while, you kind of push back and you go. You know I hate when you do that. Would you stop doing that? And you know and you get real and that's where we're at right now. Episode Four. It was about getting real being along with each other now. As far as the actual shoot time went. You're being around each other for now over a week in a with that kind of intense. A. That kind of intensity. It's like now. Okay. It's getting real I'm just GONNA. Tell you what I think I'm not gonna I'm not gonNA beat around the Bush speak. I'm GonNa just tell you what I think and. You're going to see in the next episode. Things are going to get. Even more heated. With the teams because there's a jostling for power and this levels of frustration that kick in. Amongst each other because getting to know each other. A lot of crossover. With people wanting to be in charge, and they're all types I mean. For the for the most part, and so, yes, you're going to see it gets real. It gets real next episode Fisher. It could you give us your read on the drama that was happening with the savage crew in terms of from your perspective that were you seeing it as that Murph should have taken the leadership role and sort of been the person to been the captain of the team or that did Murph have the right idea of that he needed to be the person who was more of the soldier out there executing the orders, and that Tara needed to really step up into that leadership role. Yeah, I think that Murph was saying listen I just want to be. I think in the military. They call it a grunt right where you just never. I just want to be the worker on this guys you know. Give me you put me on the end of of that Paul digger. Let me get in there. I'M GONNA have my head down I'm not going to be watching. What's going on around me? I'm just going to be a grunt and I'm going to get the job done. Let me do that role today, and because he is such a such a presence, and because he has led up to three hundred people in the military down two teams of six I think. In that moment, they kind of looking to him. As a dominant figure in thinking you know Murph, you should lead what he was saying was, and I think it just comes from. His experience is one of the older competitors he was saying guys being the leader doesn't necessarily mean that. I can't be a big contributor, I don't have to be in charge to really help the team right now. We need someone to look at the big picture into into. Put us all to work into. Assign us all to work. That's why it works so well with Michelle. In the train challenge because Michelle. Although she wasn't the leader, she had the foresight to see where she could fit in in her role and be the proper team. A proper team contributor and I think that's exactly what Murph was doing was saying. If we want to be strong work to our strengths, you should let me be the person who gets the Muslim work done in, you guys figure out how to. Structure this plan this out this job. How closed ended up being because we saw the pre commercial break was dirty hands. You know has a posted out of line, but it did seem like savage crew was all over the place. Were they able to to catch up significantly, or was it a pretty big blowout alternately? I there was a moment when we when we thought that savage crew were getting it together, and maybe they could catch up, but what I love to me. One of my favorite moments in the whole show was. How Melissa Really owned. Her leadership role. Didn't take any nonsense. She. She got all her Mojo back right. She got back into that team challenge having come off a very emotional. Getting caught from the individual competition, and she just owned it, and she just she dominated and look to be fair. Savage just didn't have it together. They said they did it and Melissa apart from that one mistake, which was not her fault, that was a team era where maybe lost track of water team was doing, but she didn't waste any time in telling them and being very upfront and honest with them, guys. We gotta fix this and do it now. And she I mean. Did she rallying the troops and get everybody in line in a second and it was. It's wonderful. You know going back to last week talking about watching men and women compete. On an equal playing field literally. where it's not about so much bias in the world. And even I watch online. And there were some comments from people saying that you know. The fact that Linnet. is a woman was unfair for her to have to use the pushcart with the assumption that because she's a woman. That she that her arm strength or her shoulder strength is less than young or that. Her power to weight regimes disappointing young, because he's a man we're. We need to get past the idea that just isn't true. The genetically men. Statistically are stronger than women. If you look at per capita, yes, this is true, but you cannot make a broad assumption that because it's a woman. Going up against the man that the men. Automatically has an advantage over that particular woman. We have to look at things differently and so I love. We're getting people to question. To ask those questions because I guarantee you. You put Melissa in an arm. Wrestle with most men her her way, she will destroy them. Use a powerhouse and Linda. Same thing linnet is incredibly strong. She struggled with that. Bush the pushkar because she really sore from the shoveling, and she'd hurt her shoulder, so I feel like. We're kind of opening people's eyes up to. Put Men and women together have them competing together. Let's not have a women's division, and a men's division is very few sports that have that I think question one of the few, but we really really important for us to have that and to show that somebody like Melissa can be a real force in a powerhouse and get the job done and technically beat out. Immersing because Murphy was technically the leader. You talk a little bit about how you landed on the challenge to create the barbed wire fence on the farm. Did. You just see the ball and you're like. We gotta put it somewhere, so let's let's have them build it. Yet. A some of the ideas literally come from conversations that I've had with my family and things that I have done in my life I put a fence up with my dad when I was a kid. With, barbed wire I remember I remember doing it with him I remember him talking about digging the polls, and to go down a certain way, and how we line them up and putting the level spirit. Of the spirit level as you, Santa. America on the Paul made sure it was lined up. He actually was stretching an old fence, a mesh fence and he tied. It got a stick any. A really strong piece of wooden he tied into the end of the fence, then tied onto the back of his pickup truck, and we pulled it and stretched it any way down the line with the post word we nailed it didn't into place, so there was that in the irrigation challenge came from another job that I did with my dad when I was a kid because he's an agronomist to plant scientists in, he would put arrogation together, and so I learned about that in the whole clips, and how difficult that was. but if a huge number of diesels come from our challenge, producer Sidney layer who I've been working with for a long time, incredibly creative guy and You know like I said last week. Nothing is. Nothing is made a Mon. you got to have a great team and we. We just yeah, I mean. To work in an environment. Where people are freely able to throw ideas in and. And? You have that collaboration to try to get to the best place, so it's a good feeling, but the goal is always as I mentioned to you. is to take that spirit of competition that happens in real world job sites and bring it to the show that being said I would love to talk about that pair challenge about the irrigation challenge. In your writer fell that all every show you're on has to involve pairs in some way. Teams are too, but This is a really interesting opportunity so. Was it always when we're coming up with the concept of the individual challenge that you thought there'd be a chance to have people knew. Maybe this individual is more in quotations because it's pairs and especially being pairs across teams. That that was not the intent in the in the in the original format. That idea really came a came along. When once we realize some of the parameters of the actual challenge, the fact that one person could not move those huge irrigation pipes by themselves. The fact that we had ten people left at that particular point in the show. And then that we wanted to give an advantage to the winner of the previous individual challenge, so that was something that came in the development of the. Of the challenges and the show ideas, but we've liked it because. It made it very clean like last pairs going into overtime. It made it very. Mixed it up a wee bit. I think anytime you can. You can mix the competition just to throw them off. A little bit makes it more interesting for the viewer and. It was so close I mean there were so the ending was so incredibly close with with Kellyanne Young. Seconds ahead of of Leeann Michelle, again something we couldn't script. But, she's the radio happened. We surprised with the way that Murph went about the teams together, and not really trying to. Sandbag any. You know one team in trying to create an advantage for himself. No, I think Murph. Murph represents a lot of things we would all like to be. He is a very principled. Man Who from the beginning you? Talked about. Wanting to compete. Against the best of the best and wanting to be to prove himself against the best, so I I don't think that that in this competition murph will ever shy away from. From wanting to go toe to toe with anybody, because he he just, he wants to be a competitor and he's just not that kind of guy I mean. I think he's used to build strong teams in the military and he was like no, let's let's make a competition out of it now. He also picked someone who is very strong like insure that he could get through the mind. Mind I feel like he really balanced. The team's pretty well. You know I thought it was I thought they were good picks at thirty thirty S. he said he he wanted to make a good competition I thought he did was he required to pair people up from opposite teams, or could he have put like two savage crew to dirty hands? Yeah, he could do whatever they wanted. To pick somebody from his own team. Yeah No, we. Totally up to him. And I think it's just the way it worked out. It's sort of makes sense because theoretically the teams amendment to be balanced, so it does make sense that would be one from one team and one from another if you were looking at the balance of things. Better I think, or at least from drama perspective. Right because you had people like Lyndon Lewis had never worked together, killing a young had never worked together whereas to your point, maybe if they were getting used to the rhythms of the people on their team, these are people that they just have like casual conversations during downtime like I. Don't think Linda knew what she was getting into with Louis for instance and there there. There was just a class of personality in Class A clash of of approach, right like just the way that their work ethic is Linda reminds me of of Sarah Connor. Terminator like Yeah. This bad ass. Strong crazy power weight ratio A. Fighter and and Louis is much more laid back in Chile and. Comes from the islands and I think he's got more much more relaxed. Attitude and I think it was just A. It was like water and oil with the tooth and. She said he's not that tough. Yeah! There was a big coal I mean on a show called tough as nails. That is a big call though I think that might just bite of come from a level of frustration from from her point of view and. Yes, so she certainly spoke her mind. In this episode, we also saw a back story about Tara, which we've gotten to see a couple of these packages so far this season last week I believe we have to see about with. Murph were talking with Jess last night that she was wondering. If maybe that these are being put in there to sort of a subvert the expectations of the audience where the traditional reality TV show trope is okay Oh. We saw a back story about Tara. She's probably going to go home in this episode. What was any part of that would put put in there to try to throw people off from what they would normally expect on reality TV show. No honestly we haven't done. We haven't really made any conscious effort to do that. At all I think that backstory with Tara. That that was something. That's something that will continue. To evolve. And hopefully you'll appreciate by the end of the series that we've done that with all the characters you're gonNA see more and more of their backstories peppered through the series and. From the beginning. We made we made a pact that we were not going to be the reality show that was about the competition as much as it was going to be the reality show that was about the people who are competing and. Our goal is that by the end of this season. If. You don't love all of them. You love a lot of the cast. You really get them. You understand them. You see where they've come from. The fact that Tara has done what she has done in her. Life is pretty extraordinary, and again that goes back to the mental strength that she has as a rod buster getting into A. Into, a career that has very few women and how strong she had to do that. Having come from. The background that she's come from incredibly hard, but Tara represents so many Americans who have come through? A really challenging upbringing with parents may be that have been drug addicts and being a foster child, and she's as she is. A grandmother says she's that statistic. She's the good statistic. Mother talked about her being and so. We want to share that story. because life is complicated and in. A lot of people in this country. A. Come through tough times and we want to hear. He's somebody like you. Somebody like Michelle. Who's older underestimated all the time and. That's a key part in. you know. Is We continue to Chattan? If you won't be back on later on whenever, but I would love to show you maybe later on a board that we have. which my wife producing partner put together. Which is story board? Every episode every single story point from every single episode. It's a massive wall of of stories. Every conversation in the van, every compensation in every interviewed by everything charted out chronologically from beginning to end and what we did was we went to the end, and we work backwards through all those stories. Back to the beginning back to the very first time you meet somebody like Tara, and we built the story elements, and these story blocks to Tara story at the end. So, back producing as we call it and that that's not something that you do WanNa show where you have. Sixty seventy competitor's running through a course. This is this is. This is something that you do where it's much more of a docudrama kind of approach. Where you know that all those characters are going to be through the whole season, and if you want people to invest, you've got to tell a story and every character has a story arc. Every character has amid point in this story are. And you take those twelve stories, and you put them into a three act structure over ten episodes and hopefully. By the end of it you, you've got to know this person. Like you would get to know someone over. An in any relationship where you get to know you dig in further and further and further, and and and I mentioned this before the great thing about the format of the show is, we don't have to frontload. That person exactly say episode one to you're going to learn more and more about them as they go. So. something else just want to ask about is. Obviously as the individual challenges progress, there's GonNa be more and more people sort of alongside you that have been eliminated from your own role. As what is it like to like? HAVE THAT PEANUT GALLERY? Are you bouncing stuff off of them? Are they an audience participants? Yeah, I love it look. There was an early version of the foment that I was working on where I was I. Think I mentioned to you that I was thinking about having a team leaders. That wouldn't compete, but that would yeah. And and part of the reason for that was I I thought that might be good to have someone to bounce. Off like with the commentary, and to be able to bounce ideas off, and then when we tested the show, I mentioned to you. We tested the show last year. I didn't have that and I only had the other competitors as the peanut gallery, and it works so well. And I was like I. Just I would rather hear from the competitors. About their other competitors than I would about someone not competing. Who's WHO's now? Not. Actively involved in the show. That's they're literally to to give me someone to bounce off, so yes, it it becomes. The series goes on and I. Get more more people around me. More more interesting and. As you can imagine leave becomes. A personal favourite, because lease gotta live everything yes. He would have me in stitches. Sometimes, some of the things you would say like. Get some popcorn. pull up front seat. Let's get it on. You know I'm very excited for for lease commentary I think that's one of the the bright sides of not having Lee in the main competition. He's still sort of get the best of both worlds where he's still in the team competition anything he gets to spend an entire challenge entire third of the show, just giving one liners from the sidelines. He we had so much fun and And, look That's the other part. This is that they're not actively involved in that individual competition, but they're still part of the show. It's not like we go. See you later, guys. Come back later team. No you're still getting to know who he is and anybody else who's eliminated? Because the hanging with me and we're having conversations, so their character development continues. It doesn't stop just because they're out of the individual. The, we continue to see more challenges in the individual portion of the game where they're. Paired off or into smaller groups or or or more couples, as we get to the even numbers that was an anomaly that that particular. That particular challenge something we wanted to try I mean. Because it season one. You're also trying. You're trying to see how people respond right. don't. Want to. Do that maybe more than once because what happens if people didn't like it, and then we've not twice then, so we're kind of dabbling and developing when you're doing a season one as well and then like I, said because I really appreciate how indepth you guys getting into the critiquing of the show. I I'm GonNa take all of that feedback. I'm reading people's comments about whether they what they like and what they don't like. Believe me, it's I. It's it's the smart move to be looking at what people say and. You can never. You can never please everybody, but you can at least kind of go. A lot of people are saying that they really like this or a lot of people don't like that. Let's take some notice of that and Atip more of that was. Take that out you you've you've got to be. You really need to be listening to the audience. So that's why I appreciate what what you guys do. Because I'm listening going. It's interesting. I didn't I didn't realize we had a problem with those massive badges vodka. We liked them, and the other one was really. There's a Nice Papa Green like a nice pop colored no blood visible. Better than the last one. You know. What's interesting is a grade one comment last night where a guy said you know I didn't get the whole punching in, but now I get it and I think. To our earlier conversation. It's like any show if you isolate the moment of the handing out of the rose or the. You know the flame going out more some of the things that you see on reality shows like the have become like the that that sort of pivotal moment, if you just isolated before, anybody knew what the show was, it just looks. Ridiculous. Will you accept this rose? But without it. It wouldn't be the same show right, so we needed to find something that was A. where? Everybody stopped and there was a ritual there was a ritual to. A punctuation to that. This thing was happening. That is an official. You're punching out. Your name's going up on the board. And I know you guys were talking about at one point. You know how how Rudimentary Dole look you know the board in. Thing. I'm GonNa, tell you that our budget. First of all was probably one of the leanest budgets of any. In the last few years, but that's not the reason that we did that. It was because we really wanted to stay away from flashy graphics and. Feel very tactile and very real real world elements at work on the forty four gallon drums, the the punch card, which among people you know, that's a callback for the past. Places that do it and. That even if you look at all the graphic approach like last night. If you saw the graphics that we did for the irrigation sections, those are real photos of real irrigation pipes to try anything. Yes, so I've tried to and we've tried to. Steer away from like. graphing a graphic look and more of an organic approach to graphic elements that are there is a texture in a Patina to the graphics, actually a painted wall, and then we'll use that texture in put it into the name key so that it has. Just feels like it's kind of real, but it. Of course it's a computer generated real element. If you like is the work whistle rail. The work whistles wheel real wheel. The work was fluids wheel. But I will I will tell you a little inside information. I had to wear earplugs to block out the sound because it was so loud the first time I said it off I just about myself. It's a it's A. It's like a proper work. Whistle that. Beam out across town, so people can hear it from ten miles away and I'm standing two feet away. What did you say yeah? Yeah, so we! We've got a dampen the sound down next season. Actually not damaged my hearing. How does it work? It's a horn. Yeah, so it's. It's worth it works with compressed air this. There's a company out of. Cincinnati Ohio it'd be making these things for over one hundred years, and in the coal mining town where. My grandparents lived in Westport new. Zealand, and all around the world quite frankly, these horns have been used for for a long long time. Of course Fred Flintstone got. In there, but it's it's a very symbolic thing about the whistles going. You gotta go to work, and so a lot of the vernacular in the show like it's time to go to work, and then the horn goes, is it is a callback to that was the. Signal to go to work so. I kind of went old school with a lot of that stuff. In the time cards in. Just to try to make it for those people who they know and. Those people who don't maybe get educated and look up the. Cincinnati work owns and go. What what are these things, but it's real. It's not cheap that thing I mean we. We spent a lot of money on that Horn like. From Cincinnati should just ask Michelle to fly over. Put it in her. Carry on on the way to L. A.. Speaking of Michelle one of the things that becomes very evident through the season is that it's nothing Michelle hasn't done, and there's nothing that she where she doesn't know somebody who does it and it becomes kind of joke throughout the season as You probably know somebody who has done this. Well. It's funny you should say. I. GOT SOMEBODY FOR EVERYTHING EVERYBODY YEAH! Yeah. Fill! Is there anything you can tell us about next week show? Yes. Let me put my next week. Show hat on doing. Coloring show one of seven today and Mixie. Only that you you mentioned sand to the players if it looks like they're going to a construction site next week. I'm getting you I. DO Remember, but I'm just telling you so. Next week. Halfway Point mid point. If you're looking at a you, know three act structure of a movie. You look at that midpoint. There's a turn next week and There's some there's some challenges this. Issues with with the team dynamics. That will become very evident very quickly. They're going to this incredible facility where there's a sane factory. And the Sanford Jill Brandon which is. About forty five minutes north year in. LA they may saying that get sold all of the world the from the finest finest, saying the US from all evil in San, this used to make roads all the way through to Pique gravel, which is kind of this big I'm holding my fingers. It's like maybe a half an inch, and then to rock gravel, which is like maybe inch long. Rock and everything in between different grades and the shot the movies they're like futuristic movies. Because the structure this the same scenes, these gravel machines are unbelievable and. So, that's the setting for that and then. The individual challenge is quite a physical one again more more surprises coming in individual challenge and then the the overtime. We, we take them down into a pit for the overtime and that's also very. Dramatic. Finish. Surprisingly it was surprisingly called. When we were shooting in La. So it's it's a it's tough. It's tough in terms of the of the teams being. Pretty rugged for the environments. Bill on the production schedule, is it? Is it one day for the team competition in one day for the Individual Competition Yeah, and and So, it's Today's show and. Then obviously on the. On the team competition day we get we also extra time to be able to do more interviews. With the teams? In. Yet works out about right. Any extra day of course it just. Increases the size of your budget, right? And Yeah Network Whistle doesn't come cheap. Right Now! One of the things that in a credit to the. To the challenge department in we were. We're when you're a brand new show when you call up and you say hey, we got these people that want to come to your workplace and do your do the jobs you do there. What's the show called school? Tough as now what networks on CBS Whoa? Oh. That's because it's a new show. Well now. The show's GONNA out. We've got people going. Hey, why don't you come to our workplaces nice? That's good season. One is always like just to get out of the gate. It's some so hard. You've got so many things you've got get right. And is no second chances so It's a weird time right now, but you know the ratings from last night came out and the fact that we're holding the demo, and that our audience went up slightly, which is good I just really feel like this show just from reading everything that I'm reading I really feel like this is one of these shows that is gonna be a word of mouth. Show where people will. Start talking about it more and more. Particularly because it's GonNa pay out as the series goes on, so that's exciting. I know we. We did really well in Canada. We are top ten for the weekend in Canada I think Canadians re really get loud as a people. And I'm very proud of that because I know what the budgets are of some shows that we're. Beating out and We have a very small team. Yeah, I am so proud of. What? Everybody has achieved on this with what we've had. We've really played to the. My favorite quote, which I think shared with you. We didn't have money, so we had to thank. We've really had to think to make this thing work. And I've always believed that when the less you have, the more you have to think in the more you think more created, you have to get and so. What we have on air on really really proud of knowing again, knowing what some other budgets for shows. I I don't know if you know this fail. Because I know that big brother as of this morning just released that a new seasons is GONNA be coming out in a couple of weeks and I. Do know that it said in its schedule every airing on Wednesdays at eight G. You know if toughest nails is going to shift times at all are going to stick to Wednesday for the foreseeable future I. don't know it's a good. Good question I mean I think the original intention was that we were going to slip to nine. When big brother came back on but I don't know I I'm yeah I'm waiting I'm waiting to hear I. Mean Big Brother owned that eight o'clock time slot for for a long long time right and so it it probably makes sense that they put them back to eight where people know it and we're new show and hopefully. People? because. We're a brand. New Show. New Season was still trying to prove ourselves. That people will make that shift and go to nine, or they'll pick it up and recorded and watch whatever, but yeah I'm I'm just. Happy that the show is is working, and when I say working I judge working by the fact that we're getting that Demo and that the ordinance olding Yeah I. Think our job is to as. Is, producers. And storytellers job is to make sure that when people come to the party. They don't leave because they're having a good time. The part of getting people to come to the party sending out of the invites and letting people know that this thing is happening. That's something that's out of our hands. It's out of our control and. In and I think right now trying to get the invitations out and getting people to read them is challenging not just for us, but if you look across the board and viewers ships. In across old television it's difficult to kind of cut through and say hey, this thing happening, but I really do believe like going way way back with amazing race where we were absolutely a word of mouth show where people started talking about the show, and then the audience built. I really believe our show. Is that show I think. The fact that so many people overseas are. Inquiring about the format of the countries everywhere from. Two Scandinavian countries that they've seen the format Noah Wyle. We WanNa do that. They're out in. The fact that that's happening speaks to me that we have something. If. We get a shot at going to a season two we gotTA. Take everything we've learned and be better. which is like any show? And you've just got to be open to learning listening in. Like, anything in life. You know you can always be better. You gotta strive to be better. fill anything else you WANNA tell us about episode number four. No. No I'm really up. I feel like we've. We've covered a lot of ground. Yet you got you got any any advice that I take back to post production about anything. I'm trying to think any any advice on. Uh. Criticism. Puts him pillows around the work whistle next time maybe just to soften it up a little bit or meet like a trumpet took and do a little bit of Wa wa. Nee. I thought somebody could could've tried to ride the ball. That would have been to get overtime. That'd been good. Actually you're so right. We yes, next time. Overtime Michelle unle-. Melissa could have done it. In Melissa Yup would put him we get him on the bull. Yeah, nine, a barbed wire enclosure. Yeah, great I think he use the irrigation to wander the dirt around so gets nice and muddy as well really combined all elements of the challenge waste, not whatnot as you pointed out before. One night and we put the Burger. or the water runs down, so there's. A flood going on, and then the allegation continues to sprinkle, so it's like it's raining. Simulated rain. A flash flood barbed wire enclosure to people on a bowl. And whoever can stay on the longest stays in Zhou stays in the individual competition. I like it yet. Great, really great suggestion. Got Fill. That the, you're a fan of the barbed wire, mike is going to be giving his first tattoo. Very. Do, you think that barbed wire could be a good way for Mike to go for that first tattoo. Show. I am the ball that needs to be corralled. Yes well, maybe you could you. Could you have head the barbed wire that goes around people's BICEP. Yeah, yeah, that's that's where I'm going to. I'm going to be getting it, so it might be might be contagious. I've always felt a little threatened by the the sheer size of you i. Don't think it's just the way I present on screen I'm very close to the frame. Camera amplified, but you are looking incredibly enormous. You Look you look yes. Very strong huge your by flexing. Fulfill Cogan right now just so I can have that on record. Are Listen before I leave. Do you mind? Playing me out with a little speck. degree the host of toughest nails. The Grade Phil Cogan, Phil. Thank you again and tell. All right there, you have Phil Cogan. Wow, this is this, says the exact opposite of that. We keep losing people and they don't stay on. It's just the two of US rob. Yes, now it's down now. It's just us. Mike So. We're recording this podcast now Thursday morning after catching up with Phil but I. It was a busy Newsday Day. Big Article about what's coming up with a big brother. Twenty is big brother twenty two brothers. Twenty two. It's the twentieth anniversary, but it's twenty two seasons I mean to quote. The CBS reality show that we have not discussed in this episode yet. It's real. It's happening big brother. All Stars Parentheses, too, but big brother all stars. The second edition is officially haning August. They just calling it big brother. All Stars Yucca. This is this is not too unfamiliar. This actually happened with the amazing race. I don't know if you remember but the amazing race twenty four, which is one of the season's you ingest covered, use the regular. You know just called an amazing race. All Stars, even though season eleven was also called. Survivor could do another season and call it survivor all stars, and then I will call. This is survivor, all stars erasure, and then I'll say actually. Not that bad of a thing. Yeah, exactly listen. I think that I think that the show maybe wishes that they could have better two word titles that repeat all stars again rather than having to substitute other terms. You could also use like service star Trek. You'd like Prime Universe. Mirror University all-stars, rhyme and all-stars Secondary. Okay, but yeah ten happening. August fifth all right August fifth. This is very exciting, so Mike has a great article up. If you go to parade dot Com or follow a real Mike Bloom type. Or a Mike, real flip hoop who. Is that your secret like sub shade of? Its writing my twitter handle. Yeah, that's that's my. Fake Mike Bloomberg, Account Real Michael could follow actual Mike Bloom. Mike! Mike. We're GONNA do a podcast later on today. That's going to be a rumor mill round up for big. Brother twenty to talk with. Taryn Armstrong and Sharon tharp. Who's been writing a bunch of articles all throughout the rumor mill season for US Weekly. Yeah to Aaron and Sharon. It makes so much sense actually love. Jared I got to meet. Her I know she's a longtime lesser. I got to meet him. We did a top chef event together in New York, yeah, suffice it to say even though the announcement has become official. There's been talk of the town in a manner of speaking has been this for quite some time, so there is a lot to be had between various sources claiming who's been there. It seems like we don't have to wait long for natural gas, I believe it was just announced via the live feeds that there's going to be interviews going on the twenty ninth, and the revealed might even be earlier than that, but I am still in disbelief that. This rob in this year we had three major reality franchises do all star seizes and that truly especially like big brother, all stars, which, even though we've had returning players out, the Wazoo has not done in actual. All started season for nearly fifteen years Yeah, this is. Wild Times while time. We'll see. We'll see what's going on with big brother as we get closer to finding out who are going to be the big brother, all stars to check that out, Mike. What else do you have gone on in the podcast? World so another thing I actually did on parade this week I got spoke speak with Jatiya Heart. Who you actually had the pleasure. As well about the soul survivors organization, which again wall survivor might not be necessarily on the horizon. There's certainly a lot of very necessary and great discourse about survivor going on via SA and the events that you had i. know you just recently had a panel about Lgbtq plus representation in survivor that was really great so essentially I spoke with tears, shed a little bit more light on the origins of the organization. What their purpose is with the recent petition that I think has. Has Reached nearly seven thousand signatures, so what the next steps are so I highly encourage survivor fans to check that out. outside of that top chef we are going to be on top chef wants more this week. Recovering the Netflix documentary series, salt, fat acid heat, which is a nice like travel food documentary that I've been in I'm in the middle of and I really enjoyed, and then over on potion. We're GONNA. Come up with an acronym for salt, fat acid he's. Or. Pause if you want to range them fat acid salt heat fash fash. It's based on a book I. Don't know if maybe they change it like a Justin Timberlake from the social network type guy. That's like. Change it around a little bit. It's GonNa. Read better that way, but no, it does not sound like some sort of comic book. Criminal Syndicate. Like Fash It's. It's salt fat acid heat I encourage people to fall along with us. Check that out bashes in a good way to go, maybe maybe in this day and age fashioned. S It he you trying to come up with. This right! Yeah half's. Like there's. That could. That might be a good one. It could be. You could do Fosse FAA chess that sounds. Nordic or something. 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Tough as Nails | Season 1, Episode 10 FINALE Recap | Phil Keoghan

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Tough as Nails | Season 1, Episode 10 FINALE Recap | Phil Keoghan

"Hey, what's going on rob here getting ready for our tough as nails episode four recap, we're going to have this is sort of a two part episode, Mike Jess, and myself are going to be a recapping par one of the episode, and then about fifteen minutes in Phil. COGAN IS GONNA join us to. Tell us his thoughts on episode number four of tough as nails. Let me tell you about today's sponsor. Those are friends bet online. There's no shortage of action going on with our exclusive partners. Online Dot AG sports are slowly making their way back with the UFC boxing NASCAR and soccer leading the way and bet online has all the best odds in lines for the upcoming Games and matches. After this podcast is important make sure to stay tuned as sports, analysts, and host of good sports. Dave Damasec is going to discuss the return of sports with. Dave Mason if you need more online has a simulated NFL NBA and you have see happening everyday live if you to check out looking for something other than sports. 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We'll see if you can. pull up a hay bale or. Put Up. Some barbed wire around your podcast area later on I got allergies. Hay. Bales are not good for me. Yeah. I would not do great at this. All right and a man who always has his irrigation hooked up correctly Mr Mike Blue. Okay all right. Well, listeners you're in for a treat in this special episode because later on in this episode, we're GonNa checking in with Phil Cogan who looks like Jess. who were the thunk it? Probably hearing from Phil Weekly after his last visit. Someone needs to get a time machine for many reasons. But after you use the time machine for all the things that we need the time machine for it got juice left in the time machine go back to twenty twelve. I almost didn't apply to be on our AGP and tell my twenty twelve self that someday doing a weekly podcast with Phil freaking Kogen. Yeah. I guess. Okay. In fairness you guys are talking to fill later on and I have to be on the road traveling with my family. Yeah. But I'll I'll get talked with a lot in the future so. We're recording this episode in two parts we wanted to. catch up with Jess and talk about the episode right after it airs and then on Thursday morning we'll check in with Phil but normally will record the whole Shebang on Thursday morning and here from Phil to start the show on Thursdays of course, you can subscribe to our brand new tough as nails podcast feed go to rob his website at com slash tough as nails, and we would also appreciate if you could hammer in those five stars to our ratings and help a new podcast get discovered plant the. Post. In the items were get off the fence post those reviews rate harder not smarter. That's right. That's right. Okay. So we appreciate that. ROB has website dot com slash tough as nails and. We will put together a list of all of our questions for fill that we need to ask. But I guess our top story at this hour Mike Roofer Lee, what happened I believe winner edit I mean, he's still Mike considering he might get ten thousand dollars at the end of this. The idea of a winner might be out the barn door at this point. But yeah, I mean, this was really we've only had three overtime so far on two of them having been have involved young, but this has to be by far the toughest one pundit. Of them let soon, as Lee Michelle paired up I was like Oh my God otp these are. I love it, and then of course, the twenty faith touring twenty provides us is, of course they lose and of course, they had to face off against each other just could have lived with anybody else losing this challenge we have to lose Lee or Michelle. Well. This is maybe I'm GonNa call this the biggest fake out of twenty twenty because I was one hundred percent convinced like they pair Lee and Michelle in like Oh good I gotta root for this team 'cause it's fills all time favorite reality contestant and who is rapidly becoming my all time favorite reality intestine and Michelle like we've got a cavities guys win the whole thing and show everybody at the old people could do it and the old people can't do it and I'm looking at this and I'm seeing okay. Phil can't go five minutes without bringing up Roofer league like he really loves this guy and has said he's GonNa make the entire series. And then there's Michelle who if she was on any other reality show, we'd be saying Oh. Yes she's toast. She's got. She's got the real like Jillian Larson upside there and I I'm thinking Oh God Michelle is toast. There's no way she could beat Roofer Lee who's got hands the size of bananas in the Physical Challenge and I'm sitting there thinking Oh yeah it's toast. It's curtains for Michelle. She's done she's done and then she beats him and I buy a second milliseconds even that could be editing I don't know I'm not. I don't know just I. Saw Phil Do this so that I don't know I took his body language much like Danny. I'm an expert on language the podcast listeners to hear more about this than you did. My. Wife likes to call it. 'cause I, do it sometimes in bed like Whoa at the beach. I've been lying for thirty years listen. But it's Only, show bloom. He had both his hands on his head and just staring in disbelief at such a close content. You said, you'd do this in bed lot. Yes. So imagine for the listeners a home Malcolm has just been voted out of survivor that's the reaction that right and everyone else the particularly the female cats are the ones pointing and laughing because they're so excited that Michelle ended up taking one home which I was excited about as well like it really sucked to lose Lee but God, I would hate to lose three women in a row here to start off because. As much as this show really tried to build up like, Hey, anybody can be toughest nails no matter where you come from, it would come down almost on the show itself. If the three overtime challenges were based more towards a male skillset, which is favouring more upper body strength, etc. But Michelle killed it. Inna. Corrigan Nolan's I was really happily surprised with how considering that like I would say I mean I guess part of it was survivor as right like untying the knot but the rest of it was just like hauling wait. Yeah just you wouldn't think that this would be a challenge on paper that Michelle would be able to beat Leah not only was it involving physical strength. You also needed to climb onto the Hay bales and pull the rope and Roofer Lee does have significant height advantage over Michelle probably in the neighborhood of if not two feet a foot and a half. Oh for sure let's say at least one hundred percent I think to Michelle's mainly personal S. Remake of the Big Brother Twenty failed Sitcom pilot, the tall and the short of it. Mike now, they're going to say twins so that that person is low if if feel. Past. Shelling, Leon it. Yeah I thought it was interesting that they have taken pains when the task is something that physical. They are adjusting for height to make it even and there's a lot of you see that happen on survivor challenge but definitely, not every survivor challenge and they certainly never do it on the amazing race So I thought it was it was a good way to evaluate strength per person. We've saw it on the coal challenges. Well, you had to shovel the percentage of your body weight and coal, and I think that helps but also the way that you swung those big Hay bales around that is not unlike swinging around a fifty pound suitcase and Michelle probably. is accustomed to swinging around things that way almost half her body weight and throwing them up on top of things. So I'm going to say this really did play her skill sets maybe a little bit more than roof relief because I don't know if you were watching this people were yelling at him to lift with his legs and he was not doing that it was hurting my back to watch him move. Out. Last sixty one years on this planet and not like lifting like that like how he's still. Upright. Fair he's spending every day like stooped over or however many days maybe his back is just built a F- but the other interesting thing was stacking the Hay bales because I feel like we've got the same strategy from both Michelle brought up like she cut a Jenga did a bit right then you Can't just make one tall stack because that's just going to tip over and you can imagine like the Tetris of it. All of stacking luggage to fit into some sort of aircraft is probably a bit of it. So maybe this being like a back door five hole in away. In that like there's no such the back door five whole just called being good at your thing. Mike do you suspect that Michelle has ever stacked up all of the suitcases and made a tower in stood on top of them. I don't know how board you get in an airport. I don't Cincinnati Airport in particular. I'm not sure how crazy it is a hobby Mike people might do it in like Laguardia but not for fun just like at a malice. Expecting Laguardia. Airport Shade. Lots of shade at Laguardia but. Yeah I. I like justice thought. So the more I think about it, the more I guess that's sort of like the story, Michelle to right they they called it a little engine that could that of you you look at her initially think, oh, she can't do this, but she has like the gumption of wherewithal to be able to overpower anybody and that's just like this challenge you look at initially and you're like Oh Michelle's toast and she's able to use her skillset completely overcome things unfortunately at the expensively who again like from our perspective was still in it as much as we talked about him possibly meeting to see like three chiropractors afternoon he did get milliseconds away seemingly from reading that balance surviving. Just. Just I can't believe that roof release out of the competition for the top prize. Well I. Think this episode alone validates fills choice to structure the game such that you get to see everybody. Yeah. The whole thing. Like what if this was all the roof relieve? We were going to get I think this would not have phil coming on at eleven every week to talk to us. And my I have to say that that I actually really liked this format where we can stay with these characters and not like in like an edge of extinction sort of way where it's like okay well. I, like you'll, but he's voted out but at least get to watch them on the edge of extinction, but it's really not the same thing. I don't know I mean they'd seems like the players that are currently limited to influence the game in some way. Ever speaking Lynette and Melissa obviously both big people in the team challenge for completely different reasons that Melissa is essentially the reason why dirty hands has. Two thousand dollars more in their hands and Lynette was one of the big. You know vocal reasons why savage crew just ends up self-destructing this episode Yeah that. When I see them on the show I'm not like thinking about them like. All right. Let's get back to the people that are in the competition. They are still like an integral part of the show. And I've like that. There's a strategic. Angle to it as well with your whole team and you have people saying we need to win this challenge because this is the only chance they have to earn money and it kind of bolsters the team spirit or it should in theory and even though it kind of didn't this instance. Yeah and I think it was Murph that brought this up in the episode like it's interesting that it's not coming from the players who are saying, Hey, this is my only chance that I. On. The show that there are players that say, Hey, we got a win this challenge because you know. Lit lineker been voted out and so has. Melissa I think that that also speaks from Murph's personal experience though, right like if you're talking about Phil, said everyone sort of comes from a team background but Murph might come from the largest team background says, he comes from a literal army where it's you have to have a unified front and like you're only as strong as the people you run into the bunker with it's the few in the proud. Yeah exactly. It's like so I can imagine that he's like well, you know what I I need to support. You know my brothers and arms our sisters in arms as it were whereas other that are used to working more independently someone like tariff, for instance, I think. Maybe, it's more a bit more of an independent person just based on her background may not have like specifically vocal approach to the competition. It's not bad. It's just different. Let's talk about the team challenge because it seemed like that. We really had my my dirty handstands were really all all going crazy tonight because it was a good night for dirty hands were savage crew was really suffering for. That lack of leadership Just what would you think about the search for a leader over on savage crew? Like. It's really interesting to see people's rationale for not wanting to lead and I have a whole like I can give you a whole Ted talk about Murph later on because I have a lot of opinions about Murph but I thought it was very interesting I have so many opinions it's it's going to be it's going to be good but I think we gotta save it for the individual because. It's yeah. But I thought it was really interesting that a lot of people didn't want to lead because they wanted to do, and that is something that I feel very acutely as someone who has like over the years kind of moved more into project management and has been compelled to take things that I'm eventually going to have to have credit for and make other people do them. It's a very hard thing to do and it's something. You'd much rather have your hands in it yourself and be responsible for it and I think that. Speaks to the kind of work ethic that they're celebrating here. It's like. There's a lot more pride in being the one that does the work rather than being the foreman and Murphy had a very good point that if he is trying to operate the machinery, he can't look up and see what other people are doing. And then you have Sarah who's kind of the same thing like she didn't feel like. She knew how to operate the things and she wanted to operate the things. She didn't want to be the one directing other people. Where contrast that with someone like Michelle? whose entire strength in the entire competition is directing other people? I think that you know dirty hands really benefited in many ways from having someone who has direct experience on this being on the team because I would imagine if that wasn't the case they would run into similar problems, right? Think savage crew also got a bit unlucky that they were dealing with six people who had no experience as to how to do this, and so you know I think a lot of fingers pointed at tear because we're like you know how to work with the wire. And so it's just sort of became okay. You should be the one that should be stepping up and then when she was stepping up, then people were sort of blaming her communication style but I would imagine if for some reason, Melissa couldn't have participated in this challenge. I do wonder if something similar would have happened where you do not have an experience beacon to look towards on your team someone that you trust holy, we'll be able to manage you yeah is interesting and I want to I. Want to throw this out here because I don't think this is something I'm going to be able to do on tough as nails. Nearly, as often as I do on amazing race but you know we're watching episode amazing grace that I can be like Oh. Yeah. been there. I. Know where that stuff is. This is something I've done. Is? where? Challenged wire fence I have put up fence. Okay. Out when I was a kid, my father had a fencing business and I've operated a post hole digger and I've I've worked with barbed wire. So I, I very excited to see a couple of things in this episode that are things I have done and what you're auger experience like I was not allowed to work with the power tools but I've seen other people do it enough that I think if the three of us had to put a fence, you would want me on the Auger. Okay all right. So Some day when the three of us are competing for the least tough person in the nation, I think Robin I would make great posts just wrapped wire around. My best function yeah. Just put an orange mark on your calf and bury. The dirt. Yes. One person on the panel who probably knew what an Auger was before tonight. You are uniquely qualified to lead this panel. I'm like three for three. This season I want an alternator was. Bigger. Underdog was a thing that like hunted vampires legitimately, and before this episode now you're thinking of thinking of Harry. Potter. Yes. So. Just in learning to put up a fence like this, do you have any? Tips that you would be able to help with our team leader like what would you be telling us? It'd be telling you all to put on your frigging gloves. Yeah. Like Tara I think is a special case because she just handles mental all the time but don't touch barbed wire without putting on gloves that just seems intuitive. I'm Phil will have some insight onto this. Just by you know, they'll hinted and how barbed wire really changed farming. That was there just prior to barbed wire was there wires didn't have points on it and the animals would run into it and be able to take it down like is the barbed wire just to the animals, go near it, and then they get hurt and then they don't go defense. Well, it's not just keeping the animals in its keeping other stuff out So that's what it is. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. That's kind of the big thing and especially like most of the predators that would get your cattle are pretty intelligent. Yes and could figure out ways around normal fence but that and it also it saves labor like a barbed wire fences much simpler thing to put up then like a whole wall of post. Yes. I should know that that was I recently watched babe. Ruth do dirty hands that'll do. Yeah I? AM. A almost an adult at the time that movie came out. So event I recently watched and it was intense I gotta say Oh look hey, hey, kids WanNa Watch this happy movie babe. Why don't remember it being rather kit friendlier thought it was I think it's pretty mature move gory. Yeah. But it's a talking pig like how is that? Not like that trap when you go to watch watership down thinking it's a cartoon, right? It's like a Ralph Bakshi's film or like. TURNS OUT TO BE ANYTHING ANYTHING. Yes. I'm just going to say spoiler alert if you if you're a parent I think it's on like Hbo Max or one of these lot of animals are going to die on Bait. Okay noted isn't that out there. Have you ventured into babe pig in the? Show now but they. Causes. Rats die in that one. Okay, right. So. Jess worked with the Bard why did you see any teams that we're doing anything that you specifically thought was a bad handling of this task. I, thought there was a lot of good strategy here like I thought the laying out the posts before you do anything else is a pretty key thing. Also I liked Kelly. Rolling barbed wire down the hill and noting that the barbed wire reminds her of both fishing nets and fishing line. I thought that was great. It's really fun to see where people discover their kind of hidden strengths that tie into what they do. It's like a secret. It's like a secret five hole every time that happens yeah. The back door. and of course, in teaming with that young once again runs into something that he has no experience in what we get to you. Later, like I hooked up water by this does not look like a host connection to me Maybe, at some point, there will be something that is literally on fire that young people can. Really WanNA. See this. I WanNa see the thing that like young story so far has just been that he's kind of a load every time and I, want to see the thing that he shines at and I know just because of the narrative structure of the show and like the way that fills speaks about it I have to imagine that's coming. There's going to be something where the team is not going to be able to function without him or where he's just GonNa blow away the competition. and. I can't wait to see what that thing is because they are really the up to something with him yeah. I thought it was odd that after the challenge was won by dirty hands, then they brought in like all right. Let's bring a bull in. And here's. Now, well, let's let's test your your pen. Here's a bowl. Yeah I wasn't sure if we needed that extra maybe ranch manager white just had like an unruly bowl. He wants to get off his hands and put up in this 'cause I would not want to trust as much as I trust you know the working hands of this cast. I don't know if I trust them so much with like a pen, they've never put out before to hold in a semi animals. Though, maybe there animal wrangler. Case it faulty. He's like she knows what she's doing. Melissa's put up a few fences in her life. VENTER's and. Then that ball has a new home just. Yet I'm sure he'll be very comfortable there Is there anything else that we want to say about the Teen Challenge? I mean, we could talk a little bit more about the I. Don't know if there's like A. Tear our team Murph or whoever but I mean this is the first legitimate interpersonal conflict we had and this season it will not be the last in this episode but I think it's pretty significant and I do wonder if this is going to keep becoming a thing because it just feels like I don't know if felt like the schism that I saw was that it can if it's terror versus Murph a lot of the. Team is taking Murph side. Yeah. I wonder if that's going to bear out in the future, we're like tear it just doesn't feel like she's part of the team. It's really interesting to me. I. Can't actually tell who's in the right here. I can kind of see they did a good job of portraying both sides here because I think on one hand neither one of them wanted to lead and it looked to me like Tara. Foisted it on Murph when it came down to it, but I have to imagine the team had to agree on that. You see Murph kind of blanche when she says he's in charge and then you see Murph saying take Wli I decided at a certain point in this challenge I was going to give over leadership Tara and it doesn't seem like Tara knows that or maybe he said it to her and she didn't want to hear it and she didn't want to do it. So she didn't respond to it but I can't tell which of those things is true and I think that would inform my feelings about this situation I'm going off the third party here linnet seen not happy with Tara so I feel like that. At least based on what we saw, we were supposed to feel like that. Murph was in the you right or Murph should have taken the leadership role. What do you think? Yeah Murph was I think in the less wrong. It's probably the more proper is that I think Tara committed the worst offense in that like you said like even though she wasn't she didn't want leadership at the outset it did seem like when it got to the post wrapping that like she was the most vocal and it's always thing is the most vocal personal leader. We're not entirely sure they look to her for experience because she was able to she's tied wire before leaving that was sloppy, right so I don't know if she even knew she was going to handle that part because it turns the organization. Wise. It was all over the place of okay. I'm going to run back and do this. But maybe if we start stringing up the post as we're putting them up, that'll help us catch up I love to hear from Phil as we talked to him in a little bit about exactly how close it ended up being because it was at least really portrayed in Jeff. probst parliament is like what are the biggest blowouts and toughest nails history? Despite the fact that dirty hands did like get a crooked post and have to recalibrate that your notice how every challenges either neck and neck or huge blowout, and there's no middle ground there's A. Middle. Ground Yeah Okay. Let's then talk about. The advantage which came into play from last week's episode where Murph had found the alternator the fastest and he was a entrusted with creating the payers and Danny was worried he's the second week in a row. We heard Danny say well, boy Murphy has the advantage but. You know what? I'm really worried about is that? Is He gonNA use that advantage against me? Just my question for drywall Danny. Is Who hurt you? Well I want to. Be here is is the time for me to speak about Murph a little bit because I also want to speak about Danny here because I think. This is something you only ever see on reality shows in their infancy. Where you get a group of people that have been brought on to do a particular thing and then one or two of them emerge as people who are playing the the quote unquote game and nobody else is playing a game but then there's like this these. One or two people doing this like fourth dimensional chess in their heads every time and you have to people this season who are doing that in Murph and Danny and the two of them are like trying to game it and they're the only ones that are talking about like how do I personally get to the end and how do I strategize this and I think they kind of found each other this they found each other kindred spirits of like we are we have a particular goal in mind and this is what this is what we want to do, and we're the ones that get it. So see why he would want the two of them working together. You see them as sort of like the prophet ex and Magneto of the nails were all their there playing chess with the rest of the pieces I. Guess The question is who's like, Danny can sort of be like a plaster version of Magneto and that he can move that around with his mind instead metal. Tara would be more so than magneto right Maybe she's made does enemy magneto a rod buster? Original name. Barbed wire challenge exactly before my news like maybe I should change by day but p rod buster anymore on taken seriously. But you see it like. Survivor had Richard Hatch and you. Eat It amazing race had. Boston Rob. You get these people in there we are currently re watching season one of the mole, and there is a guy on there named Jim. Who is the only one who's got that next level thinking and it's really entertaining to me like sometimes you get people that have been specifically cast to do that and everybody does it. But this show Phil has specifically not cast those people and he got two of them anyway Yeah I I mean I guess rob, should we call Danny Murphy? The chill town of Tough Nail Aren't. They completely lined in the same way or at least for the next fifteen or so years will they be on the same? Until they have a horrible blow. Yeah. Well, that's the thing is that I think that this is also really interesting challenge because I'm pretty sure they were all inter team, right? Not Intra team and I guess we can talk to fill it up that about whether Murph had to pair people up from different teams. So it's not like they have the opportunity to really work together but I would say now that three people are gone and I think we're starting to tear you know if we could pick winners now, who would be the biggest individual winner you'd have to imagine these are probably two top tier picks right now In terms of airtime in terms of just like skilled quality. So just based on your theory of there being sort of like. The to like tempo setters, there was this the right move for Murph to. Team up with Danny on this task rather than send Danny pair Danny. Newsstands worst fears of put Danny. With potentially the least likely competitors to help him complete this task. I think was the smartest move because I. Think you put Danny With anybody else like if you put Danny was somebody you think is going to sandbag it goes to the bottom. He beats that person the worst persons out then you don't have any more dead weight and Danny is still there and now he's mad at So I think this is more of a game recognize game situation and you see a lot of these. And again, I'M GONNA drag in force another metaphor here. But this is something that people do a lot of on ink master this these types of challenges where you have to pick somebody else to team up with and completed challenge together, and the possibility is that you're going to have to face off against that person. If you're in the bottom, you see a lot of this were they pick the person that is the best. And some people do try to sandbag the people that are not the best. But you kind of want for yourself. You WanNA choose somebody that's GONNA. Help you win that I challenge. You don't have to go to the bottom and I think murphy kind of thinking well, Danny is likely to go far whether or not I put him with someone else and so I'll put him because we know that we're going to work very hard. We're GONNA work well together or the type of person we can worry about going up against each other later. To be the man, you gotTa beat that. He wants to serve himself I like right because he got also ended up picking somebody and completely completely blow up in his face whereas he picks who he thinks is again, we we've never heard this is a real Laura Meerut Chamdo situation right? We're like we hear Danny like biggest competition Murphy has not said a lick about Danny. Until this episode did is just like, yeah, he's fun. I enjoyed any like we have no idea what Murph thinks about Danny in terms of a threat and Murph may not even see this competition in terms of that threat level but I can imagine if he's Just like I want to get through to the next round. Let me pick who I is the strongest competitor. It would make sense to go with Danny and I think between that and just the really short fun ironic moment of Kelley's saying, please just pick anybody but young have her get paired up with young. There are a couple of fun little editing moments in this particular challenge Mike, do you think that Murph tried to sandbag any two people in particular by pairing them together or do you feel like do you take him at his word that he tried to make team even as possible? I mean, if I'm going to be candidate I, don't think Murph cared once he once he picked Danny Manning he's like we're pretty much set. Let me just start putting random people together I could imagine that like he wants to make a statement by putting Michelle together I think they worked well together they're able to see a commonality and their age not sure you know we see these these people hang out sometimes between challenges but we know what they're dynamic is like I'm not sure if he had a reason behind Alliot Young Terry miles inland, Dan Lewis but like I did not see any particular week lake of those three pairs. Attribute to Mertz Gaming Jess an amazing race leg with these five pairs of WHO's first place in WHO's eliminated. I'm I think we probably see it play how much the same way we saw it here for being honest typically emiss- and Michelle would be eliminated. Yeah. Well, you know and you know this is something that Phil has hinted about as we've been talking to him that. Things are different on this show and we're so conditioned to think like from the rest of our reality show experience we're so conditioned to think that they're doomed I think this is like the non elimination. Lake Shell I duNNo. I would also say I think there's a chance Linda Ann Lewis would be the young dating couple that's like testing their relationship on the reason they just cannot get along for a lick leg and they. Pick up the hose bait come on Babe. What are you doing? It broke my finger babe. Sarah, Tamar. My balls, the cutting the pipe now. Dear hate when that happens yeah. Okay. So we have our five pairs here and it's going to be a Murph and Danny as we mentioned then we also are going to have Leeann Michelle we have Kelly Young Linda. Lewis and then a miles is paired with. Sarah. Tear. Some interesting pairs some interesting strategies just look like that. Kelly in young we're going to be in trouble when they were deciding to carry the pipes around rather than roll them. Yeah. This is again, this is not something I have done directly, but it is something that I have witnessed and something like we sure the two of you have not seen these irrigation things in recent memory I saw one like today's recall. Not, Tabia. Well, they had rivers in Mesopotamia have to bring the water to your fields here. But I would imagine at least my thought is if there's a wheel on it, you should probably smell drought isn't it? Yeah I think there's a lot of people that were able like they had the mechanical mind even if they hadn't directly worked with one of these things to look at it and figure out how it works and figure out the quickest way to do it and things like dropping the. Dropping the posts as you're running out to the end of the field was something that a lot of people did in making the connections as you're going rather than putting all the pipes in one row and then doing the connections and not that was something and also make sure you've got it exactly right on your first try because it looked like it was a huge setback if. You had a burst pipe or if you had a leak, you had to figure out where it was and go back and Redo whole chunks of it. So it really seemed like it is an is this again, this is a classic amazing race thing if you have to make sure you get it all done correctly on the first try so that you don't lose any time Yeah, so obviously, the I think the bottom three finishing payers had by far the most drama behind Lee Michelle wasn't dramas much like they got stuck at a connection to the point where they were like grunting and exertion that basically put their behind because they were doing pretty well. Took about, Linda Lewis and Kelly, just like even when they win, she still puts down young like, yeah. I basically dragged him across the finish line captain. I'm the captain now look at me. Captain Phillips. Moment. I mean, it really was a young like short take hostage. I'm fine. I'll do whatever it takes a it takes a good man admit when someone else is leading you and you need to just let yourself be led and I think we have to give young some credit for that. Starting what he's just like listen you're going to help me not being over time for one. Sure. I'll listen. I've tried everything else that hasn't worked. So that's the only reason he got there at least got their. Ot. Lead follow or get out of the way as they say in tough as nails circles I'm sure but but I'm a I'm a little surprised that I don't know I feel like the edit was giving us Linda Lewis would end up in the bottom because they definitely seemed like at least Linda was just dragging Louis the point where I think like what in the cardinal sins of toughest nails she said and confessional I don't think Lewis is that tough feels like a swear on this show. Right. Just this is not the first time. We've heard this type of thing about Louis this season. Yeah. I. Think. People originally see him when he's coming in and he looks like because he's so good looking and so clean every time you see him a think people made that assumption early on, and then some of those assumptions turned out to be a little bit in reality but I think he didn't get a fair shake coming in and he just hasn't. It hasn't gotten any fair for him. But? Yeah. I think it's really it. I t the first two episodes are I guess technically it's three episodes that we've seen everybody was so like teamwork and touching feeling and really wanting to get along, and now they have dropped the facade and they can't continue wanting to get along quite so hard anymore and I think now it's starting to cook with gas a little bit more and it's very It's very interesting to me like we were saying, we don't know what the dynamics are yet, and we're starting to see the dynamics form and I think this is going to start to form the narrative arc of the season. So I like seeing this like Lyndon Louis we kind of got a sense for who was prior to this episode. We got a sense for who Lewis was, but we didn't know. What the two of them together would be like and what kind of brands that has everybody else safe to say also, Lewis's finger probably was not broken. It did not seem like he was still moving it around in doing the work. He was just complaining a lot. Okay. Mic Yeh anything you WANNA add from the irrigation challenge. Could you could you could sum up what ended up happening with Michelle Lee in terms of what they ended up having trouble. I mean really was just like the ultimate connection they just got really stuck at. It was just it was a particularly bad latch or if they just had trouble lining up the pipe, but that seemed to from editing perspective, really put them behind a pushing I. WanNa pose before we move on here is do you think this is the last pair challenge? We will see on the season or do you think given the drama from this they? Would want to try this out again at eight or six or four or what have you. Well, I think that we are definitely going to see more paired challenges. It may not necessarily be in pairs of two I. Mean I could see next week potentially having three teams of three when we're down to nine survivor does that a lot with like the reward challenges and finding different ways to break people up? So I think we'll definitely see. The groups broken up in different ways just. Yeah, I think any time the number of people left the game is not a prime number. We are going to be seeing some kind of subdivisions what was neat about this was that they were able to take the bottom two and then put them into. Overtime. Right and it could have been a case where this sometimes happens. If like Oh you know. What if one person outperforms the other and they happen to end up in the bottom two for team? They were picked for its on their fault but again, maybe it's just arrived from the way Murph pick teams did not feel like you know one of Lear Michelle really screwed the Pooch. It was that they both happen to not deliver on that one latch, and so it made sense as to why they both ended up being in the bottom their glee fans are going to be very excited with all the Liam Michelle mentioned tonight. Maybe. Not recently in the show. Yeah I I do WANNA. I. Do think that it might not necessarily be teams like sub teams like groups of people working together. So much as I think we're GONNA see a lot more. Competitions where people are group's together and then made to compete in heats together because we did see that a little bit in the in the first and second episodes I think that will enable you to see what people are doing a little bit better than. The necessarily like having everybody, go head to head at the same time. Okay. Just anything else that you want to add here about tough as nails outing number four. I have we gotTa talk about the Hay Bales a little bit more I think but I also I want to. I want have a moment to shame Danny and Murph um lease over a comment that they made that I've not. Like knows what I've where I'm going with this. Yeah. They're both married so they are used to being told what to do no wonder they get along. So well, sexism is such a great uniter guys. Guys I think you're wise might be tougher than you think we got the wrong. or or use still I mean I mean Chelsea's correct. Yeah. It's true. I think. I would love to podcast with both of your spouses and I have podcast with them individually, and they are definitely tougher than either one of you individually but now I can. COSIGN that but you guys are not necessarily the Danny and Murph of origin he so yeah. Okay right. We do a little better. Danny and Murph okay yeah maybe. Yeah. I'm not going to cancel them outright yet because I think we need this kind of emergent strategy in the toughest neal's ecosystem and they're the only ones bring it but. Yeah I don't I don't like the women are bossy and Talki- Yeah I mean. It is tiring price fell like there's work to do in that regard you know Yeah and there's evidence that fills phrase by the way like go to work or there's work do it. He's trying to make that a thing in the show. Yeah. It's kind of Spin Grin of toughest nails so far in that it's not really gelling yet. Give it time? Yeah. This season one is still we're still working out the vernacular and you know if you go back and watch season one of mazing race most of feels stick is not there either so it it takes time it's it's percolating. Yeah but I think. Overall. I think were doing great here and there's so much interesting stuff going on both. In the tasks themselves and in the people now finally, because when it's I, think up until this point, it was all tasks all the time and all we could talk about was this person was good at this task, and now we're starting to get to know the people and I think this this episode to me was a big leap forward. Okay I just what about the Hay Bails I mean we've. We've talked a lot about the hails but. I did think that there were. There were some strategy elements to moving those things. Picking it up by the string. That was hurting my hands to watch it and. Rows strategy to move. Hey, just I mean, that is how you have to lift them but you do have to throw your legs into it and I think Michelle had the right idea to not lifted up and carry it the whole way but to kind of flip it and don't rent. Well, do you think Phil just being Amazing Race Guy Naturally had to put a task tales in here I feel like Michelle. Had went particularly like that would have been immensely heartbreaking given the the use of Hay Bales on previous amazing race seasons. This could be why they don't have the they left that that idea that everybody has to finish every task. Maybe that's why they don't. They didn't continue that past the first episode because they were worried when they got to the hey bills there scenario where ruefully was stuck there for eight hours. Can I ask You know we all have kids, but my mind is not of the tide shoes yet. Do you feel like you're both more expert nuts people as a result of working with kids with shoelaces as Michelle was alluding to? My kid ties his shoes about as well as a Ki- rob's got to speak. Only, have velcro shoes at my house I. Don't think anybody's tieing shoes I. Really liked how Michelle just went in with like user teeth. Titles knots. Jeff Pros would've love them because that's the thing. He absolutely about challenges Michelle generally, it was like. She blazed through those knots and I think that was also that was key because again, if it did come down to milliseconds that little lead that Michelle dot was was what you needed and God she was so frigging adorable. When like just a confessional her going Ya hot damn I did it was like I? Love. I love her so much room for all the way right now now now that Lee Lee had to falls that apparently Michelle show. Yes Mike. What's the part that Jeff probst is going to really like the when somebody suffers some sort of a tooth injury like jt and survivor token cheese he likes that no, I feel I feel like Jeff has a thing where like when somebody untying knots what their teeth he like has a particular spike energy like, wow that's how you play survivor using your teeth on a not. That's how you play survivor. Facet of it apparently out tooth out playoff lash out Naw. There was one more thing I forgot to bring up when we were talking about the individual challenge I enjoyed that Phil is calling the plays and kind of challenging his does channeling his inner probst commentate throughout the whole thing but I like it better when the people that are not in the individual challenges are sitting there with him and he gets them to contribute as well and I think this is going to be far more entertaining as the numbers dwindle and when you have like four people doing a challenge and eight people sitting there with Phil talking about what's going on I think that could be really entertaining. Yeah. Wow. Does that mean continuation of Phil Mad libs that he started doing this episode with the ages not film the blankly or stronger not hard like he's prompting audience responses. Now your sound sound like you're playing the pyramid. Okay work, smarter not. What are some other tough as nails praises? You can put in there my. Let's go to. Work. Person going into overtime is eliminated. Young. Yeah. Cancer. Probably majority, it's time to punch. Hours or in out, they don't punch it anymore. Punched in until their punch Dowse, we also have the confirmation tonight. Brought up with US last week on the show that the team that wins the most challenges just we'll get sixty K.. That's that's A. The kestler badge. Yeah. I was about to say that colorful that is by far my favorite badge of honor. Off on it. Yeah. They're like cows not being decapitated by grinder barbed wire. Yeah. It's like everybody's happy to see the calicoes. Happy to see them. It's all good. Okay. All right. Mike. Anything else you want to add before. We start to. Wrap up for tonight and get ready for fill. While, we're gone to some San next week we're going into a construction site which seems like it's like it's going to get a little amazing racy like it seems like one of the vans gets lost whereas the other one doesn't will be again some really intriguing crossover it looks like the drama has only just begun. GotTa look at the map babe. Map then get stuck in the sand and towed out but yeah, I, think that I don't know this. This has been an interesting episode in that I. Think that the interpersonal drama really got kicked up a notch and I, think that's sort of has helped maybe change the not the tone of the season but change the course of it a bit to bring in some of those more reality TV elements. I'm not mad at it. I think it's made for very interesting discussion. So I'll be intrigued to see if this was just you know a bar in the fence or this is going to be the whole post yeah. Okay just anything else you want to add about episode for. MOM overall fantastic episode. Best one so far think Phil seems to be suggesting that it's all going to be uphill from here. So I'm excited to see where it goes. I do like. They are taking actual like reality, TV editing tropes and flipping them on their heads. So we get the tearful life story of Tara and she's nowhere near eliminated this So yeah I and they're doing that obviously, they're doing that on purpose because they know we're expecting it and then we don't get the pay off and it creates more tension. So the tension is ratcheting up and I'm very I'm very all in on this show after the outcome of this obsess. Okay. So you're saying that the tension is akin to the dirty hands. Teams barbed wire as opposed to a much looser tension on the savage crews fence. Yes but all the posts are up ulcer lined up. Okay. All right. Jess it was great to talk through this episode with you I know that. You are also podcasting alongside Josh Winkler Brooklyn's add on the mole. Yep Abuse should all join us open multilateral it is. The funnest and loosest and kind of wacky EST podcast I'm doing this summer which. Considering that I also do this one is kind of saying quite a bit but we have a lot of fun with it. We have games every week. There's sort of a little sprinkling of BNB flavoring in the soup. Oh, it's so tasty and people are sending us dos because apparently now the thing is if Josh Wig on your podcast, it's fair game for you to send him a parody song. So we're going to be having a mole off at the end of the season where we play all this parodies that people are sending us and we are mounting and instagram. Social. Visibility slash harassment campaign to get Anderson Cooper to come and speak about the mole on the podcast. I don't think it's GonNa work but listen. Live. Once upon a time mutate into impossibility to get Phil on a podcast I'm saying like, yeah. Yeah, and I I also I wanNA thank you both for taking some extra time to break down the episode. Before you take all night preparing to talk to fill because you didn't have to have a special segment with me. You could have just hogged fill and the three of you could have done the recap. So I appreciate that I get to come on and talk about it and I'm very bummed that I will not get to speak to fill tomorrow please pass on my will and we'll all be back the other next Thursday to check them with bill after episode five okay. Jess. Safe travels, and then we'll talk with you next week and. Fill in just a moment art everybody has promised. We're very excited to bring in the host and creator of toughest nails. Please welcome in the Emmy Award winning Phil Cogan Phil. How. Are you going to ring the bell but I feel like that? And will give you a raised eyebrow every time it hits me Phil, would you would you? Be surprised to know that you're not the first person to get played in by that music actually more than one person have requested. Stinger be there sort of like wrestling intro music to whenever rob talk with them on a podcast. Okay. So who else is requested the SPEC mix mix in. A young man named John John that has also wanted to be introduced with that as well. But. None. Did you say? You guys Philly Phil or somebody. We'd love we'll call you whatever you want. Your the ranch hands here we're. We're just sort of penned up right now in more ways than why breaking down this episode, which was I mean I think that you know the expectations you built up were in a certain way. I. Think especially with that overtime which, oh, I could imagine I I know that you know as well from from being part of the amazing race it sometimes ending is get edited to make it look more neck than it was. But at least if if your reaction was to be considered a truly was down to the wire, it was down to the wire. There are things that happened on this series and I just was doing notes on show nine. Show nine. There are things that happen on this series if you sat down at a table and you said, okay, let's script out. We want to happen. We want this to happen. Then we want that it would not be able you're gonNA see things and people are going to be like questioning whether this actually happened or or whether we got like some very experienced scriptwriter to come in like Ridley Scott or something to come in and like craft the whole ending of the shows I mean, yes, and last night was it was TV gold and. You pray for those moments you. In your career there certain times in my career where. You know you can never repeat something that you you you. Just you just can't get any better like I had a dinner on erupting volcano and the volcano blew up as a toasted the chef. And the literally the volcano like blew up on Q. I mean you can't script and stuff and yes. Last night was one of those moments where. Be. It spoke to the whole thesis of what the show's about to, which is redefining what the meaning of tough is. and. While yeah. KAFFA moment. Now, we're all big Lee Marshall. Fans? That I really was very, very nervous during that whole battle because you're going to either way, you're gonNA, lose your Lee or Michelle. Such incredible stakes only a couple episodes in to lose either one. When you're in in the process of filming that. What that like to have like You know that these are two of like the top people that you have out there and they're going to do battle and one's going home In this episode, we're not going home, but out of the out of the kitchen, right out of the main competition well, it's it's. You know I have such a close. Attachment to every single one of the contestants because I respect them all so much and. Hopefully that comes across because I genuinely really like these people and Linda Goodridge's somebody who I have been. Looking, at to be on the show since two, thousand thirteen. Linnet I go back. You know as I mentioned in the last time. Deng. BACK TO WE'RE COMING UP TO THREE YEARS SINCE I first connected with her. And so get really attached I can't help it I mean I'm just so taxed and I think the only redeeming part of will of this is just the idea that nobody goes on. So Lee Marshall First of all. What an amazing human being okay. First of all the way he went into this like he was not gonNA. Lose and he was going to take it. But have you seen such grace like the way that he he? He acknowledged Michelle's effort. It was such a graceful honorable. Competitor. That's the stuff that to me. We'd let that breathe on the show because we want people to see that that that you can D- likely, Marshall and be all in, but then you can also be incredibly graceful. Acknowledging somebody else who beats you and I thought that. That spoke volumes and my favorite quote of the whole. One of my favorite quotes season we're at least says you got Michelle and bear a fight. You want to help out the bear like door about Michelle. She's good with with deadly accidentally spoil future challenge of the work that forest ranger than animal wrangler deal where they have to wrestle bears. Yes maybe it was foreshadowing something to come. But. What's what's great about this and without saying too much. Is I just want to say lease going to have a moment of redemption. This season on toughest nails Liam. Yes and this episode. Michelle mean starting Melissa had her moment of redemption in the fencing challenge. So that's the great thing about this format is that. Even if someone. Loses out in the individual. Their focus then becomes all about team and I just love the way that they embrace that. And do whatever it takes for their team and you are GonNa see that kind of commitment from probably. Marshall. There is as he says during no quick me is what he says and there is no quit net man at Man Sixty, two years old both of them going at it last night I mean it was so powerful TV did. So in terms of going to the farm, because obviously I can imagine that you plot these out ahead of time was just another like you can't script this stuff that farm girl gets eliminated previous challenge and then the next the very next thing is okay, this is my moment. This is the only challenge I can participate in yes and and look I I really believe one of my favorite quotes is luck is the residue of design. If you put the right elements in place in into things and you put the work in and you get the right people around you. And you set yourself up for things to happen good things to happen you put the work in I. Really do believe that sometimes the planets align as a result of the hard work so Is the residue of design and we saw that time and time again. On tough as nails where we set things up to happen, we had the best people in place in great cast and I'm telling you people when they watch some of the episodes they're going to question whether this really happened could could this really have happened like you kidding me like really and I'm telling you it's all legit it's all real. Real money on the line and everything real. I. Think one of the things it's a really great about the format fill is that we're going to see these people continue to be a part of the show moving on from. What point in the development process did that idea come up of keeping people around because it's sort of the? Antithesis of the reality show genre where that? Okay. We start with all these people and we whittle it down to this but this show. Were bringing out these characters, but we're keeping them all on board and continuing their story over the course of the season. Well I gotta say that CVS. And the executives at CBS being incredible collaborators in terms of embracing idea and? And we talked about this last time when people are have constructive. Criticism or you know constructive enough. To me that you have to be created to be constructive with your criticism, right and so all the way through the process and the development. They really gave us fantastic feedback and I mentioned to you that this. Team Challenge in an individual challenge goes back to two thousand thirteen riding around France and thinking about the Tour de France and thinking about the different competitions that happened within one race. It also happens in gymnastics where you have individual medals going to individual people who different disciplines, and then you have a team competition and in but it really came I, remember we had a meeting with. With Kelly call and and Tom Sherman over at CBS and they really loved the team aspect. They really liked that team idea and then the key and they sort of threw him back to us to say, yeah, let's let's go that way. We liked that idea and then it came down to. At. One point. There was a suggestion that we kind of tied the individual in with the team and I said, no, you can't do that because. If somebody is doing well in the individual it's. Their their progress and how well they do should not be determined by. The abilities of people on a team it's gotta be totally mutually. There has to be a mutually exclusive of mutually exclusive competition going on and so like I said, they embrace that we went with it and it's very scary when you. When I said scary relative word scary. But it's it's it's extremely challenging to make a first season show of anything because you're making like these huge decisions about the format you commit to it and you just don't know like as much as we thought this was going to work this idea of the two separate things. We didn't know how people would respond like when people think that how really like they get to stay, but they got caught like, what do you mean they get so The most positive. Thing of all of this whole thing as being a the response to the contestants and be that people really love that we took a completely different turn from other shows and did not send people home which fixed your point might which is. which is this idea that We can continually get to know Lee Marshall marshals out of the individual competition now, but you're going to get to know and love this man even more even though he's not an individual. I promise you. Whatever love you guys have from Lee Marshall, the Roofer ten, thousand roofs maybe more. You're going to love him even more by the individ. You'RE GONNA want you're gonNA rip your all. You're going to actually go and take your earth off and invite me over to put you on on because you just want to hang with. Oh. All right. Well. I don't know how my landlord will feel about that but I'll take that offer. So we we felt that this episode took a different tone than the previous ones and I think it's because you know while the drama in previous episodes by a bit more task focused who's going to get what done I it seemed like for one reason or another a lot of the conflict is episode was so interpersonal right when everything going on with savage crew and defenses to partner challenges, which I'm sure we'll talk about did that surprise you when you were being that out in the field that all of a sudden these these people have now been around long enough that they're starting to get to a bit of loggerheads with each other. It didn't surprise me at all because you know we we've seen this on race before as well, and it's and it's like any relationship. You go into a relationship is always polite period that honeymoon period where everybody's super polite. They do they're trying to do everything right there with make an extra effort to not create any you know to to to to not step on any toes and you know you're tiptoeing around certain subjects. He leave them alone because it's new in it's fresh and it's all everything. Is Great and then after you're with your friends after he gets a note for a while, you kind of push back and you go, you know I hate when you do that, would you stop doing that and you know and you get real and that's where we're at right now episode four it was about getting real being along the beam with each other now. As far as the actual shoot time went you're being around each other for male over a week in a with that kind of intense. A. That kind of intensity. It's like now. Okay it's getting real. I'm just GONNA. Tell you what I think. I'm not GonNa, I'm not gonNA beat around the Bush so to speak I'm gonNA. Just tell you what I think and You're going to see in the next episode. Things are going to get. Even more heated. With the teams because there's a jostling for power and this levels of frustration that kick in. Amongst each other because getting to know each other. A lot of crossover. With. People wanting to be in charge and they're all types I mean. For the for the most part and so yes, you're going to see it gets real. It gets real next episode Fisher. It could you give us your read on the drama that was happening with the savage crew in terms of from your perspective that were you seeing it as that Murph should have taken the leadership role and sort of been the person to been the captain of the team or that did Murph. Have the right idea of that. He needed to be the person who was more of the soldier out there executing the orders and that Tara needed to really step up into that leadership role. Yeah. I think that Murph was saying listen I just want to be. I think in the military, they call it a grunge right where you just never I just want to be the worker on this guys you know give me you put me on the end of of that Paul digger. Let me get in there I'm GONNA have my head down. I'm not going to be watching what's going on around me. I'm just going to be a grunt and I'm going to get the job done. Let me do that role today and because he is such a such a presence and because he has led up to three hundred people in the military two teams of six, I think. In that moment they kind of looking to him. As a dominant figure in thinking you know Murph you should lead what he was saying was and I think it just comes from his experience is one of the older competitors he was saying guys being the leader doesn't necessarily mean that I can't be a big contributor I. Don't have to be in charge to really help the team right now. We need someone to look at the big picture into into put us all to work into to assign us all to work. That's why it works. So well with Michelle in the train challenge because Michelle, although she wasn't the leader, she had the foresight to see where she could fit in in her role and be the proper team. A proper team contributor and I think that's exactly what Murph was doing was saying if we want to be strong work to our strengths, you should let me be the person who gets the Muslim work done in you guys figure out how to. Structure this plan this out this job how closed ended up being because we saw the pre commercial break was dirty hands. You know has a posted out of line, but it did seem like savage crew was all over the place. Were they able to to catch up significantly or was it a pretty big blowout alternately? I, there was a moment when we when we thought that savage crew were getting it together and maybe they could catch up. But what I love to me, one of my favorite moments in the whole show was. How Melissa Really owned. Her leadership role. Didn't take any nonsense. She she got all her Mojo back. Right. She got back into that team challenge having come off a very emotional. Getting caught from the individual competition and she just owned it and she just she dominated and look to be fair savage just didn't have it together. They said they did it and Melissa apart from that one mistake, which was not her fault that was a team era where maybe lost track of water team was doing but she didn't waste any time in telling them and being very frightening honest with them guys. We gotta fix this and do it now and she I mean did she rallying the troops and get everybody in line in a second and it was? It's wonderful. You know going back to last week talking about watching men and Women Compete On an equal playing field literally. where it's not about so much bias in the world. And even I watch I look online. And there were some comments from people saying that you know The fact that Linnet. is a woman was unfair for her to have to use the pushcart with the assumption that because she's a woman That she that her arm strength or her shoulder strength is less than young or that her power to weight regimes disappointing young because he's a man, we're we need to get past the idea that just isn't true. The genetically men. Statistically are stronger than women. If you look at per capita yes this is true but you cannot make a broad assumption that because it's a woman. going. Up against the man that the men. Automatically has an advantage over that particular woman. We have to look at things differently and so I love we're getting people to question. To ask those questions because I guarantee you, you put Melissa in an arm wrestle with most men her her way she will destroy them. Is a powerhouse and Linda. Linnet is incredibly strong. She struggled with that push the pushkar because she really sore from the shoveling and she'd hurt her shoulder. So I feel like we're kind of opening people's eyes up to. Put Men and women together have them competing together. Let's not have a women's division and a men's division is very few sports that have that I think question one of the few but we really it was really important for us to have that and to show that somebody like Melissa can be a real force in a powerhouse and get the job done and technically beat out. Immersing because Murphy's was technically the leader. You, talk a little bit about how you landed on the challenge to create the barbed wire fence on the farm. Did you just see the ball and you're like we gotta put it somewhere. So let's let's have them build it. Yet a some of the ideas literally come from conversations that I've had with my family and things that I have done in my life. I put a fence up with my dad when I was a kid. With barbed wire I remember I remember doing it with him I. Remember him talking about digging the polls and to go down a certain way and how we line them up and putting the level spirit. Of the spirit level as you, Santa. America on the Paul made sure it was lined up. He actually was stretching an old fence, a mesh fence and he tied it got a stick any. A really strong piece of wooden he tied into the end of the fence then tied onto the back of his pickup truck and we pulled it and stretched it any way down the line with the post word we nailed it didn't into place. So there was that in the irrigation challenge came from another job that I did with my dad when I was a kid because he's an agronomist to plant scientists in, he would put arrogation together and so I learned about that in the whole clips and how difficult that was. but if a huge number of diesels come from our challenge producer Sidney layer who I've been working with for a long time, incredibly creative guy and. You know like I said, last week nothing is. Nothing is made a mon you got to have a great team and we we just yeah I mean. To work in an environment. Where people are freely able to throw ideas in and. And you have that collaboration to try to get to the best place. So it's a very good feeling, but the goal is always as I mentioned to you. is to take that spirit of competition that happens in real world job sites and bring it to the show that being said I would love to talk about that pair challenge about the irrigation challenge. In. Your writer fell that all every show you're on has to involve pairs in some way teams are too but this is a really interesting opportunity so. Was it always when we're coming up with the concept of the individual challenge that you thought, there'd be a chance to have people knew maybe this individual is more in quotations because it's pairs and especially being pairs across teams. That that was not the intent in the in the in the original format that idea really came a came along. When once we realize some of the parameters of the actual challenge, the fact that one person could not move those huge irrigation pipes by themselves. The fact that we had ten people left at that particular point in the show. and. Then that we wanted to give an advantage to the winner of the previous individual challenge. So that was something that came in the development of the. Of the challenges and the show ideas, but we've liked it because. It made it very clean like last pairs going into overtime it made it very. Mixed it up a wee bit. I think anytime you can. You can mix the competition just to throw them off guard and a little bit. Makes it more interesting for the viewer and? It was so close. I mean, there were. So the ending was so incredibly close with with Kellyanne Young. Seconds ahead of of Leeann Michelle again something we couldn't script. But she's the radio happened. We surprised with the way that Murph went about putting the teams together and not really trying to. Sandbag any you know one team in trying to create an advantage for himself. No I think Murph. Murph represents a lot of things we would all like to be. He is a very principled. Man Who from the beginning you? TALKED ABOUT Wanting. To Compete. Against the best of the best and wanting to be to prove himself against the best. So I I don't think that that in this competition murph will ever shy away from. From wanting to go toe to toe with anybody because he he just he wants to be a competitor and he's just not that kind of guy i. mean I think he's used to build strong teams in the military and he was like, no, let's let's make a competition out of it. Now, he also picked someone who is very strong like insure that he could get through the. Mind I feel like he really balanced the team's pretty well, you know. I. Thought it was I thought they were good picks at thirty thirty S. he said he he wanted to make a good competition. I thought he did was he required to pair people up from opposite teams or could he have put like two savage crew to dirty hands? Yeah. He could do whatever they wanted. To pick somebody from his own team. Yeah no we. Totally up to him. and. I think it's just the way it worked out. It's sort of makes sense because theoretically the teams amidst meant to be balanced. So it does make sense that would be one from one team and one from another if you were looking at the balance of things. Better I think or at least from drama perspective right? Because you had people like Lyndon Lewis had never worked together killing a young had never worked together whereas to your point maybe if they were getting used to the rhythms of the people on their team, these are people that they have like casual conversations during downtime like I don't think Linda knew what she was getting into with Louis for instance and there there. there. was just a class of personality in Class A clash of of approach right? Like just the way that their work ethic is Linda reminds me of of Sarah Connor. Terminator like Yeah. This bad, ass. Strong, crazy power weight ratio A. Fighter and and Louis is much more laid back in Chile and. Comes from the islands and I think he's got more much more relaxed attitude and I think it was just a it was like water and oil with the tooth and. She said he's not that tough. Yeah. There was a big coal I mean on a show called tough as nails. That is a big call though I think that might just bite of come from a level of frustration from from her point of view and. Yes so she certainly spoke her mind. In this episode, we also saw a back story about Tara which we've gotten to see a couple of these packages so far this season last week I believe we have to see about with Murph, we talking with Jess last night that she was wondering if maybe that these are being put in there to sort of a subvert the expectations of the audience where the traditional reality TV show trope is. Oh, we saw a back story about Tara she's probably going to go home in this episode was any part of that would put put in there to try to throw people off from what they would normally expect on reality TV show. No honestly, we haven't done. We haven't really made any conscious effort to do that at all I think that backstory with Tara. that. That was something that's something that will continue. To evolve. And hopefully, you'll appreciate by the end of the series that we've done that with all the characters you're gonNA see. More of their backstories peppered through the series and From the beginning. We made we made a pact that we were not going to be the reality show that was about the competition as much as it was going to be the reality show that was about the people who are competing and. Our goal is that by the end of this season. If you don't love all of them. You love a lot of the cast you really get them. You understand them you see where they've come from. The fact that Tara has done what she has done in her life is pretty extraordinary, and again, that goes back to the mental strength that she has as a rod buster getting into A. Into a career that has very few women and how strong she had to do that having come from. The background that she's come from incredibly hard but Tara represents so many Americans who have come through. A really challenging upbringing with parents may be that have been drug addicts and being a foster child and she's as she is a grandmother says she's that statistic she's the Good Statistic Mother talked about her being and so. We want to share that story. because life is complicated and in. A lot of people in this country. A come through tough times and we want to hear he's somebody like you. Somebody like Michelle who's older underestimated all the time and That's a key part in. you know is we continue to Chattan. If you won't be back on later on whenever, but I would love to show you maybe later on board that we have. which my wife producing partner put together, which is story board. Every episode, every single story point from every single episode, it's a massive wall of of stories. Every conversation in the van every compensation in every interviewed by everything charted out chronologically from beginning to end and what we did was we went to the end and we work backwards through all those stories. Back to the beginning back to the very first time you meet somebody like Tara and we built the story elements and these story blocks to Tara story at the end. So, back reducing as we call it and that that's not something that you do WanNa show where you have. Sixty seventy competitor's running through a course. This is this is this is something that you do where it's much more of a docudrama kind of approach. Where you know that those characters are going to be through the whole season and if you want people to invest, you've got to tell a story and every character has a story arc. Every character has amid point in this story are. And you take those twelve stories and you put them into a three act structure over ten episodes and hopefully. By the end of it you you've got to know this person. Like. You would get to know someone over. An in any relationship where you get to know you dig in further and further and further and and and I mentioned this before the great thing about the format of the show is we don't have to frontload. That person exactly say episode one to you're going to learn more and more about them as they go. So. Something else just want to ask about is. Obviously, as the individual challenges progress, there's GonNa be more and more people sort of alongside you that have been eliminated from your own role as what is it like to like have that peanut gallery? Are you balancing stuff off of them? Are they an audience participants? Yeah. I love. It. Look there was an early version of the foment that was working on where I was I, think I mentioned to you that I was thinking about having a team leaders that wouldn't compete but that would yeah. And and part of the reason for that was I I thought that might be good to have someone to bounce. Off like with the commentary and to be able to bounce ideas off and then when we tested the show I mentioned to you we tested the show last year. I didn't have that and I only had the other competitors as the peanut gallery and it works so well. and. I was like I just I would rather hear from the competitors. About their other competitors than I would about someone not competing who's who's now. Not. Actively involved in the show that's they're literally to to give me someone to bounce off. So yes, it it becomes. The series goes on and I get more more people around me. More more interesting and. As, you can imagine leave becomes. A personal favourite because lease gotta live everything. Yes. He would have me in stitches sometimes with some of the things you would say like. Get some popcorn pull up front seat. Let's get it on. You know I'm very excited for for lease commentary I think that's one of the the bright sides of not having Lee in the main competition. He's still sort of get the best of both worlds where he's still in the team competition anything he gets to spend an entire challenge entire third of the show just giving one liners from the sidelines God he we had so much fun and. And Look. That's the other part. This is that they're not actively involved in that individual competition, but they're still part of the show. It's not like we go. See you later guys. Come back later team. No you're still getting to know who he is and anybody else who's eliminated. Because the hanging with me and we're having conversations so. Their character development continues it doesn't stop just because they're out of the individual. The we continue to see more challenges in the individual portion of the game where they're. Paired off or into smaller groups or or or more couples as we get to the even numbers that was an anomaly that that particular. That particular challenge something we wanted to try I mean. Because IT SEASON ONE You're also trying you're trying to see how people respond. don't. Want to. Do that maybe more than once because what happens if people didn't like it and then we've not twice then. So we're kind of dabbling and developing when you're doing a season one as well, and then like I said, because I really appreciate how indepth you guys getting into the critiquing of the show. I I'M GONNA. Take all of that feedback I'm reading people's comments about whether they what they like and what they don't like believe me it's I. It's it's the smart move to be looking at what people say in and. You can never. You can never please everybody but you can at least kind of go a lot of people are saying that they really like this or a lot of people don't like that. Let's take some notice of that and Atip more of that was take that out you. You've you've got to be you really need to be listening to the audience. So that's why I appreciate what what you guys do because I'm listening going. It's interesting. I. Didn't I didn't realize that we had a problem with those massive badges vodka. We liked them and the other one was really there's a Nice Papa Green like a nice pop colored no blood visible. Better, than the last one. You know. What's interesting is a grade one comment last night where a guy said, you know, I, didn't get the whole punching in, but now I get it and I think. To earlier compensation. It's like any show if you isolate the moment of the handing out of the rose or the. You know the flame going out more. You know some of the things that you see on reality shows like the have become like the that that sort of pivotal moment if you just isolated before anybody knew what the show was it just looks. Ridiculous. Will you accept this rose? But without it, it wouldn't be the same show, right so we needed to find something that was A. Where everybody stopped and there was a ritual, there was a ritual to. A punctuation to that this thing was happening that is an official you're punching out your name's going up on the board. And I know you guys were talking about at one point you know how? How Rudimentary? The board in the thing. I'M GONNA. Tell you that our budget first of all was probably one of the leanest budgets of any. In the last few years. But that's not the reason that we did that it was because we really wanted to stay away from flashy graphics and. Feel, very tactile and very real real world elements at work on the forty four gallon drums, the the punch card, which among people you know that's a callback for the past. Places that do it and That even if you look at all the graphic approach like last night, if you saw the graphics that we did for the irrigation sections, those are real photos of real irrigation pipes to try anything. Yes. So I've tried to and we've tried to. Steer away from like. Graphic look and more of an organic approach to graphic elements that are there is a texture a Patina to the graphics like actually a painted wall, and then we'll use that texture in put it into the name key so that it has. Just feels like it's kind of real but it of course, it's a computer generated real element if you like is the work whistle rail. The work whistles, wheel real wheel the work was fluids wheel. But I will I will tell you a little inside information. I had to wear earplugs to block out the sound because it was so loud. The first time I said it off. I just about myself. It's a, it's a, it's like a proper work whistle that. Beam out across a town. So people can hear it from ten miles away and I'm standing two feet away. What did you say? Yeah. Yeah. So we we've got a dampen the sound down next season. Actually, not damaged my hearing. How does it work? It's a horn. Yeah. So it's It's worth. It works with compressed air this. There's a company out of. Cincinnati Ohio it'd be making these things for over one hundred years and in the coal mining town where. My. Grandparents lived in Westport New Zealand and all around the world quite frankly these horns have been used for for a long long time. Of course in Fred Flintstone got. In there but it's it's a very symbolic thing about the word whistles going you gotta go to work, and so a lot of the vernacular in the show like it's time to go to work, and then the horn goes is it is a callback to that was the. Signal to go to work so. I kind of went old school with a lot of that stuff. In, the time cards and Just to try to make it for those people who know they know and? Those people who don't maybe get educated and look up the. Cincinnati work owns and go what what are these things but it's real. It's not cheap that thing I mean we We spent a lot of money on that I. Hope you like. From Cincinnati should just ask Michelle to fly over put it in her carry on on the way to L. A.. Speaking of Michelle one of the things that becomes very evident through the season is that it's nothing Michelle hasn't done and there's nothing that she where she doesn't know somebody who does it and it becomes kind of joke throughout the season as. You probably know somebody who has done this. Well. It's funny. You should say. I. Got Somebody for everything everybody. Yeah. Yeah. Fill. Is there anything you can tell us about next week show? Yes Let. Me Put my next week show hat on because I'm doing. Coloring show one of seven today and Mixie only that you you mentioned sand to the players if it looks like they're going to a construction site next week. I'm getting you. I do remember but I'm just telling you so. Next week. Halfway Point mid point if you're looking at a you know three act structure of a movie you look at that midpoint. There's a turn next week and there's some there's some challenges this. Issues with with the team dynamics. That will become very evident very quickly. They're going to this incredible facility where there's a sane factory. and. This Sanfrecce Jill Brandon, which is. ABOUT FORTY FIVE MINUTES NORTH YEAR IN LA they may saying that get sold all of the world, the from the finest finest saying the US from all evil in San this used to make roads all the way through to p gravel, which is kind of this big. I'm holding my fingers. It's like maybe a half an inch and then to rock gravel, which is like maybe inch long of rock and everything in between different grades and the shot, the movies they're like futuristic movies because the structure this the same scenes, these gravel machines are unbelievable and. So that's the setting for that and then. The individual challenge is quite a physical one again, more more surprises coming in individual challenge, and then the the overtime. We we take them down into a pit for the overtime and that's also very. Dramatic Finish. Surprisingly it was surprisingly called. When we were shooting in La? So it's it's a it's tough. It's tough in terms of the of the teams being. Pretty rugged for the environments. Bill on the production schedule is it is it one day for the team competition in one day for the individual? Competition Yeah and and So it's Today's show. Then, obviously on the. On the team competition day we get we also extra time to be able to do more interviews. With the teams. In. Yet works out about. Right. Any Day of course, just. Increases the size of your budget, right? and. Yeah network whistle doesn't come cheap. Right now. One of the things that In, a credit to the. To the challenge department in we were we're when you're a brand new show when you call up and you say, Hey, we got these people that want to come to your workplace and do your do the jobs you do there. What's the show called school tough as now? What networks on CBS WHOA? Oh that's because it's a new show well, now the show's GonNa out we've got people going hey, why don't you come to our workplaces Rats Nice That's good. Season one is always like just to get out of the gate. It's some so hard. You've got so many things you've got get right. And is no second chances. So it's a weird time right now but you know the ratings from last night came out and the fact that we're holding the demo and that our audience went up slightly, which is good I just really feel like this show just from reading everything that I'm reading I really feel like this is one of these shows that is gonna be a word of mouth show where people will. Start talking about it more and more not particularly because it's GonNa pay out as the series goes on. So that's exciting. I know we. We did really well in Canada. We are top ten for the weekend in Canada I. Think Canadians really get loud as a people. and. You know I'm very proud of that because I know what the budgets are of some shows that we're. Beating out and We have a very small team. Yeah. I am so proud of. What everybody has achieved on this with what we've had. We've really played to the. My favorite quote which I think shared with you we didn't have money. So we had to thank we've really had to think to make this thing work. And I've always believed that when the less you have the more you have to think in the more you think more created you have to get and so. What we have on air on really really proud of knowing again, knowing what some other budgets for shows. I. I. Don't know if you know this. Because I know that big brother as of this morning just released that a new seasons is GONNA be coming out in a couple of weeks and I do know that it said in its schedule every airing on. Eight g you know if toughest nails is going to shift times at all are going to stick to wins eight for the foreseeable future I don't know it's a good question I mean, I think the original intention was that we were going to slip to nine when big brother came back on but I don't know I. I'm Yeah I'm waiting I'm waiting to hear I mean big brother owned that eight o'clock time slot for for a long long time right and so it it probably makes sense that they put them back to eight where people know it and we're new show and hopefully. People. Because, we're a brand new show new season was still trying to prove ourselves. That people will make that shift and go to nine or they'll pick it up and recorded and watch whatever. But yeah, I'm I'm just Happy that the show is is working and when I say working I judge working by the fact that we're getting that Demo and that the ordinance olding Yeah I think our job is to as. Is Producers. And storytellers job is to make sure that when people come to the party, they don't leave because they're having a good time. The part of getting people to come to the party sending out of the invites and letting people know that this thing is happening. That's something that's out of our hands. It's out of our control and. In and I think right now trying to get the invitations out and getting people to read them is challenging not just for us but if you look across the board and viewers ships. In across old television, it's difficult to kind of cut through and say, Hey, this thing happening. But I really do believe like going way way back with amazing race where we were absolutely a word of mouth show where people started talking about the show and then the audience built I really believe our show is that show I think. The fact that so many people overseas are. Inquiring about the format of the countries everywhere from. Two Scandinavian, countries that they've seen the format Noah while we WANNA do that they're out in. The fact that that's happening speaks to me that we have something. If we get a shot at going to a season two we, Gotta Take. Everything we've learned and be better. which is like any show. And you've just got to be open to learning listening in. Like. Anything in life you know you can always be better. You gotta strive to be better. fill anything else you WANNA tell us about episode number four. No No I'm really up I. Feel like we've we've covered a lot of ground. Yet you got you got any any advice that I take back to post production about anything. I'm trying to think any any advice on. Uh. Criticism. Puts him pillows around the work whistle next time maybe just to soften it up a little bit or meet like a trumpet took and do a little bit of Wa wa. Nee. I thought somebody could have tried to ride the ball. That would have been to get overtime that'd been good time actually. So right. We. Yes. Next time. Overtime Michelle unle-. Melissa could have done it in Melissa Yup would put him. We get him on the bull. Yeah. Nine, a barbed wire enclosure. Yeah Great I. Think he use the irrigation to water the dirt around so gets nice and muddy as well. Really combined all elements of the challenge waste not whatnot as you pointed out before. One night and we put the Burger. The water runs down so there. Is a flood going on and then the allegation continues to sprinkle. So it's like it's raining simulated rain a flash flood barbed wire enclosure to people on a bowl. And whoever can stay on the longest stays in Zhou stays in the individual competition I like it yet. Great. Really great suggestion. COOKEVILLE. That the I know you're a fan of the barbed wire mike is going to be giving his first tattoo very. Do. You think that barbed wire could be a good way for Mike to go for that first Tattoo show, I am the ball that needs to be corralled. Yes well, maybe you could. You could you have head the barbed wire that goes around people's BICEP? Yeah. Yeah. That's that's where I'm going to I'm going to be getting it so it might be might be contagious. Well, you know I've always felt a little threatened by the the sheer size of you. I. Don't think it's just the way I present on screen I'm very close the frame. Camera amplified but you are looking incredibly you look enormous you look you look yes. Very, strong huge your by flexing Phil Cogan right now just so I can have that on record. Are Listen before I leave. Do you mind? Playing me out with a little speck. great. The host of toughest nails the grade. Phil Cogan Phil thank you again and tell. All right. There you have Phil Cogan. Wow. This is this says the exact opposite of that we keep losing people and they don't stay on. It's just the two US rob yes. Now it's down now it's just us. Mike. So we're recording this podcast now Thursday morning after catching up with Phil, but I it was a busy Newsday. OP. The big article about what's coming up with a big brother twenty big brother twenty, two brothers. Twenty two, it's the twentieth anniversary, but it's twenty two seasons I mean to quote. The CBS reality show that we have not discussed in this episode yet it's real. It's happening big brother all stars parentheses too but big brother all stars the second edition is officially haning August they just calling it big brother all stars Yucca. This is this is not too unfamiliar. This actually happened with the amazing race. I don't know if you remember but the amazing race twenty four, which is one of the season's you ingest covered use the regular. You know just called an amazing race. All Stars even though season eleven was also called. That's survivor could do another season and call it survivor all stars, and then I will call. This is survivor all stars erasure and then I'll say actually Not. That bad of a thing. Yeah. Exactly. Listen I think that I think that the show maybe wishes that they could have better two word titles that repeat all stars again, rather than having to substitute other terms, you could also use like service star. Trek. You'd like Prime Universe Mirror University all-stars rhyme and all-stars Secondary. Okay but yeah, ten happening August fifth all right August fifth. This is very exciting. So Mike has a great article up if you go to parade dot Com or follow a real Mike Bloom type. Or, a Mike Real flipside who who? Is that your secret like sub shade of. Its writing my twitter handle. Yeah that's that's my. Fake Mike Bloomberg Account Real. Mike. You could follow actual Mike Bloom. He's. Mike. Mike we're GONNA do a podcast later on today that's going to be a rumor mill round up for big. Brother twenty to talk with. Taryn Armstrong, and Sharon tharp who's been writing a bunch of articles all throughout the rumor mill season for US Weekly. Yeah. To Aaron and Sharon. It makes so much sense actually love jared I got to meet her I. Know She's a longtime lesser. I got to meet him. We did a top chef event together in New York. Yeah. Suffice it to say even though the announcement has become official. There's been talk of the town in a manner of speaking has been this for quite some time. So there is a lot to be had between various sources claiming who's been there. It seems like we don't have to wait long for natural gas I. Believe it was just announced via the live feeds that there's going to be interviews going on the twenty ninth and the. revealed might even be earlier than that but I am still in disbelief that even just looking outside of this rob. In this year, we had three major reality franchises do all star seizes and that truly especially like big brother all stars which even though we've had returning players out the Wazoo has not done in actual all started season for nearly fifteen years Yeah this is. Wild Times while time. We'll see we'll see what's going on with big brother as we get closer to finding out who are going to be the big brother. All Stars to check that out. Mike. What else do you have gone on the podcast world So another thing I actually did on parade this week I got spoke speak with Jatiya, heart who you actually had the pleasure. As well about the soul survivors organization, which again, Wall survivor might not be necessarily on the horizon. There's certainly a lot of very necessary and great discourse about survivor going on via SA and the events that you had i. know you just recently had a panel about Lgbtq plus representation in survivor. That was really great. So essentially, I spoke with tears shed a little bit more light on the origins of the organization what their purpose is with. The recent petition that I think has reached nearly seven thousand signatures. So what the next steps are so I highly encourage survivor fans to check that out outside of that top chef we are going to be. On top chef wants more this week recovering the Netflix documentary series salt fat acid heat, which is a nice like travel food documentary that I've been in I'm in the middle of and I, really enjoyed and then over on potion we're GONNA come up with an acronym for salt fat acid he's FAA or pause if you want to range them fat acid salt heat fash fash I mean it's based on a book I. Don't know if maybe they change it was like a Justin Timberlake from the social network type guy that's like change it around a little bit. It's GonNa read better that way but no, it does not sound like some sort of comic book. Criminal Syndicate like Fash. It's it's salt fat acid heat. Encouraging people to fall along with us, check that out ashes in a good way to go maybe maybe in this day and age fashioned. S It. He you trying to come up with. This, right. Yeah half's. Like there's That could that might be a good one. It could be you could do Fosse FAA chess that sounds I know Nordic or something Yeah okay. But outside of rearranging four letters Allah and SNL skit from back in the day Josh McGuire on down the hatch finally got into season three of lost. We talked about the season three premiere, which spoiler alert I think he I liked more than maybe the good majority of our listeners. So we get into all things Juliet Burke Ben Linus is finally revealed for the man he is and I'm so excited to get into season three of loss. So we've got all that going on, and if you wanted any other random updates, follow at a real Mike Bloom type for any sort of other. Mike. Bloom. Taedong confuse people a there you go. All right. Mike great work as per usual. Big Brother Rumor Roundup, podcast coming up got another talking with T. Bird that is in the can that we're going to drop on you a very soon. And much more. Of course, all this podcasting made possible by the patrons of. Has A podcast you can find out more about everything we're doing in our Patriot community at ROB has website I com slash patron take care pretty good one by. All right. You've already heard the news, but let me be the one telling you the news. Let's pretend that I'm the one giving to for the first time sports are coming back and there's nothing you can do about it at this point. So your chance to bet on sports now with our exclusive wagering partner bad online dot ag joining me now is Dave Mason who's going to be sharing some of the updates of what's coming next to bed online. What's happening there Dave Lots finally. Thank. You My. Own Paint Rush Ping. Pong and marble races and all that sort of stuff and I didn't know what the Heck I was doing. But now we're back to sports somewhat familiar with so I'm I'm pretty happy but getting really busy too. I hear you man I, mean the the summer's been consumed who knew so many people with Love Golf. But of course when you when you can lay down a little bit of loot on it, it makes everything a little more fun and Now, just out on the horizon, you don't even have to squint too hard because they're right there you MLB. NBA. And the PUCK is going to drop I think in particular for me the hockey fan I can't wait for early. August to get here with with ten straight days of never fewer than than four or five games, right? So yeah, and you guys are ready to take action on all those Yep and we had the odd ready to rock and I'll. Be. Comes first. In. Our odds, we have great timelines and those all the futures are up the world series. Everything we're ready to go. Of course, you had to tweak some rules here and there with a sixty game season yellow yet no action on the season win totals and put up new season win totals, and then there's been available but of a cat and mouse game very hectic going to slow times even though those slow in sports. Where adjust on the fly on stuff like that, and if on weekend starts with any game regular season, we have season, and once again, we had no action all the season's totals because they didn't play the complete season but we opened the eight game season windowless for any many season coming up and all the playoff odds center than Yup reduced juice NHL is back after that. So and then we get into the NFL discussion, right? Now. Now we're really it's going to be. It's GONNA be crazy. Every. November, there's that one or two days when all four sports are are in in session together and and with the sports equinoxes now we're going to have a two month long sports Gwen Oxen. It's going to be insane. So the guys the guys arrested up in the rain Iraq so I and way move over March madness here comes August Agus nece I dunno work on that you can. Let let's workshop that a little bit but man August figures to be just divine and like you say, pro football on the other side of summertime kicking off, and it really looks like everything's tracking in the right direction there for us to get our most beloved of of all sports, it must be tough to divine tougher. 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Lea Michele breaks her silence after ugly Glee accusations. Scott Disick and Kourtney Kardashian getting flirty again, Kylie Jenner is still crazy rich

Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter

21:03 min | 1 year ago

Lea Michele breaks her silence after ugly Glee accusations. Scott Disick and Kourtney Kardashian getting flirty again, Kylie Jenner is still crazy rich

"If you need business, communications use Vanek. They've got unified communications, contact centers, and Communications Api's that will make your life complete communication wise, but that's it. Created all those they're not great at making extremely entertaining and informative podcasts that make you feel smarter and more inspired, but you know what that's okay. They don't need to be the best absolutely everything they're fine with just being the absolute best at business communications bondage. Now we're talking. By. or By. It's. Love. Welcome to the North even nice show I'm your host rob shooter with my friends Tony Meacham from Gaza Dot. COM Donnie Hammond end I'm doing all right. It is Wednesday morning and I. Am so happy to be here talking to you I, love it. We've got a ton of today. What's popping on gossip today? What the Big Story Sarah so much going on in the celebrity world summers going on the world but Scott Disick. We're going to let us know all about in Corny Kardashian but also Liam Michelle she is breaking her silence finally after all the usual ooh. Because timers get gossip today, let's get to. It won't time as Donnie it is tea time. What have you got on Michelle Larry Salima Shell? She is breaking her silence after all these accusations from her glee cast members. So this is what we had to say. She came out. She says I. Apologize For my behavior any pain. I may have caused. What is a little tricky though? She says she doesn't really remember saying any of these bad things lure. Acted, but she also Gula. Judged others by their background or color of their skin now here's the problem with is the thing. Is You have Samantha Wear? Who came out? And she actively said that Lee Michelle made her lights on the set of Glee a living hell now those are harsh words and living hell. Yeah, Ooh, and those are harsh words now. Lima show was trying to do the right thing. She was trying to speak out. Black lives matter, which is all well and good, but you have to think about. How are you treating your cast mates? If you're not treating them, right, you're not really. Do know acting on your words I. Can't you? Him I mean I I'm glad she apologized and it's interesting that she admits she doesn't even remember it. which I think is is really the the base of this problem here we do things and we don't even think about them. And the effect have on. The people are absolutely devastating. We should be on these tasks and the show is over a decade old. I looked back over my old reporting notepads. notepads back then I actually use a pattern of paper rather than my iphone and I found a few old, no pants. It was not a secret that Leah was not the kindest girl onset. There's been lots of rumors about her and her behavior for a very long time I think now we can pretty much confirm. She wasn't very nice and she's admitting herself now. Do you think she's apologizing? Because she sincerely sorry, what do you think she don't? Know, so here's the thing. The timing of it also seems a bit strange because there was literally hours and hours after Samantha posted on her twitter and Leah's said nothing well hellofresh, which is she just signed the drive. I think we'd like a week ago. I just got a press release from them last week. Saying she was new spokesperson, they came out saying we don't condone racism any kind, so they cancelled her and she's being. Fires has guided on from hellofresh. And now she speaks out so I think it's a little more of a companies are starting to distance themselves from parts of she feels now. She has to say something I get. It is very very very. Very tricky. Hey, I like the fact that she's owning days. I like the fact that she's not pretending. It didn't happen three Ah now cast members have come out and confirmed she was not that kind to them. Onset, Samantha, was the most aggressive saying you made my life a living. Hell. We should remember. This is not an excuse. But when Lim Leah Got Glee she was still very young, she was catapulted into stardom for a while casting glee. We're superstars. They were like the Beatles. They were having records on the Chong's. They were everywhere I I'm fame might have hit them a little bit too hard although I do believe Rosie Odonnell said this fame doesn't change. It just shines a spotlight who you really are. Maybe she's having a baby. Maybe that will change which brings us to our poll question of the day. What do you sing? Do you think she's really sorry or do you think she was caught? Go vote on our twitter page Naughty Nice. Rob, or you can leave a comment on our facebook page, naughty gossip and to check back tomorrow. To get your results. What have you got going on dummy? Well Scott Disick is always meeting with Cornyn Kardashian. Now the crazy thing is you know a lot more about this, so I watch the Kardashians, too I love the show of Courtney and Scott but I know that you have the inside scoop about Scott is flirting. Let me give you. I confused myself bad. We normally go back and forth stories on the show, but you opened my show. How dare you awfully story? Through to you, you're a little bit caught off guard because this is actually by story is amazing. Seed behind the scenes here, so let me tell you. I. I'm very impressed I do. Something was wrong because you were a little choirs. What's going on I? was like Oh. It's my story Scott Discipline. Isn't it flirting with Kourtney Kardashian I? Told you about a couple of days ago. Now it's been confirmed by. So he just broke up with so feel Richie Lionel Ritchie's daughter. Are you curious what's happened? Since then I, know I am. Will sources saying he could be getting back with courtney US weekly said that he has tons of fun with her and her kids and his kids. They share those kids they do. Tons of family trips together is actually really happy when she's around these two just like each other. Other but clear reporting and more like best friends. Courtney's not that they say to getting back together. However, my sources tell me that might be true, but Scott, would she would get back together. Scott would is loved on a better the second time around to audio think I don't believe those reports I they definitely are thinking about getting back together. Also the ratings for the Christians have been on the decline. Bruce things up and if you've ever watched the show, which have the to. Their best friends. They do love each other, so it wouldn't be. It wouldn't be a shocker got back together in a good basis, though isn't being best friends concert having a great relationships like I just don't buy that when people are like, we're just best friends. Best friends to identify children with them. Can you get back with an x? All my insiders around Scott not coordinator. Let me be really clear here. I'm agreeing with US weekly own. My insiders around Scott think he would like to give it another chance. I want these two to get back together. You Don I. I definitely want the two of them to get back together I. Really Enjoy Scott got such a a great person. So chloe, who is Scott's biggest champion, you know she's Courtney everyday you better. Give them another. Maybe that's what's stopping. To a story, you actually know about Donald. Wants. With. Those Kardashian Jenner's always I've missed so this story. I know you guys talked about about Forbes. Saying that Kylie might have lied about being A. Did full of saying she's not a billion a- well I mean she's still got plenty of money, but the reason why they're saying now is that she's not a billionaire because she spent a hundred and thirty million dollars just this year alone rob it's June. June if it was December, it's still a hundred. I think this the poetry. It's not very. It's a druid thirty billion dollars so although Forbes say she's not a billionaire. They do think now. She's worth about nine hundred, million, only only nine hundred million. I if you get nine hundred million call. I'm happy. What does she what she bought? Some of the things one of the properties people always ask. What are you spend one hundred and thirty million dollars? You spend two fifty to seventy million on a private jet which makes this. Much a private jet is fifty, sixty, seventy million, and it cost five million dollars a year to maintain. My success, she also spent thirty six point five million dollars on a resort compound, because you definitely need that and bought land, though near Palm Springs for three point, two five million dollars, which that's an investment that. That's an investment. Not seem as it's interesting when which people buy stuff like when you even me by the money's gone. By stuff. We? Buy Drinks when Rich People Bhai Steffi. Really is an investment like she's buying stuff. That's probably GONNA go up in value may be the jet words I. Don't know anything about aviation, but I'm certain. The houses will in the land will. She is so rich she might not be worth a billion, but she is so so rich. This story is great onyx. It really gives you an insight into what we do for a living the Cambridge's. That's right and canes actually think Meghan. MARKLE might be behind the leaks. Let me, explain in William and Kate. In. Tatler magazine reported about that on the show. Tatler magazine is really fancy. You might not have heard of it, but in London even fancier than than look so the the couple of saying the report. She's on the cover. It's full of falsehoods and inaccuracies. They're not happy, but this is how it's been linked to Meghan. Stay with me on this. It's a little bit complicated, so the author. A very good author is called. Anna Paskhin. She's A. She's the author of the cover story. She's friends with an axe. tatler journalist the NASA Mold Rooney. Well she sister ingle was. Okay did with Megan's best friend Jessica Mulroney, so we all know just come mulroney stores at the wedding. She's making stylish on the good. Morning America show. She's fabulous hub. Brother is married to Vanessa. The Nesta's friends with Amazon is a little bit complicated, but you can put together. The DOTS also to people have pointed out in the past negative friends have and told stories about her two different outlets. I always find it when you're trying to find a source. You never gets it right so and we're at cocktail parties. Drinking with friends don't even many times people ask us who our sources all we never say, but when they tried to guess, eight makes a little uncomfortable, but be done so long I can keep a poker face like lady Gaga I won't reveal who it is, but they medicate right on. What about you? What's your experience on this aisle? People always want to know and here's a little dirty secret. Is that a lot of the people talking? Talking it is your friends and our friends? People aren't quite, but there's one thing that you've always said though which is true here about what you said about J. Lo in her true Hollywood story. Stack it with people who say Nice things about you well, making might be doing that downstream. Get into the story that do with or without user stack it with friends, a little little bit of gossip behind the scenes here about how gossips. If Donna slept with Brad. Pitt so you. Dating Brad Pitt, you didn't tell anybody, but you would tell warm frightened that one friend would tell another friend that frank will ten. It's like ripples in pondering a puddle and umbrellas of circle get bigger and bigger and bigger so I think it's a very dangerous thing to try and guess sources, and although Meghan has been in the media on time has a lot of friends I. Think this is a mistake Donnie what's going on with Theresa from? Zara so Theresa giudice she has had a rough couple of years, and now the JOE has moved. AK deported a back to Italy. She's doodle. Well, guess what she is ready to actually start dating again on the highlights of New Jersey. Sources are saying that traces ready to put the past behind her. She's really ready to put herself out there and start. Dating I smell spin. I'm telling this TV. I like this like I love the highest wise and I like the Jersey what it might be my favorite, but it has become a little Roy. Is that the right what your? I've seen it all before, so the thought of trees are finding a boyfriend to me. That sounds really exciting and I. don't even care if it's just a TV boyfriend, not Brio it produces. Dates and up with. Is I think that's sort of exciting who she thinks she should date type of Guy Ooh I want I want just salt of the Earth normal everyday guys. Oh, see I! Think I WANNA really fancied guy so that they're very different together like I think I, want something that makes me laugh someone. Maybe that takes to be opera like moonstruck with share, and so I think I'll want something like. Like that and I? Don't care again if it's just too. I think at this point. Most of us know shows, maybe not as real as they make at also to a couple of years ago, when Theresa went through her divorce jail all the ugly stuff. Theresa wanted to get a spin off show. Then I spoke to my sources. Bravo and they said absolutely not they don't do. Spin ox for negative topics so. Dating a game or getting married having a baby. That's how you get a spinoff. That's Bethany got hers. Not Divorce in happy. Bethany gets married so maybe if treason meets another guy and it's a real issue. And falls in love and there's a wedding I could see that being a spin off I still love them. I know a guilty pleasure. We're GONNA take a quick break, but we will be right. Gossip lovers here to tell you about a new dish. E podcast the I just can't get enough of. It's called we here and he's from the new. York Post legendary gossip column page six. It kills me saying this, but nobody nobody. Maybe even even media reports better on celebrities than they do. The podcast is hosted by my old friend. Maggie Coughlan an Ian Baugh they bring you the latest hottest new sightings and exclusive. It's an absolute riot and I should know because I've been on the show. As a guest episodes drop every Tuesday Wednesday and Thursday and you can find it on iheartradio apple podcasts all the usual places or visit page six dot com slash podcast. Check it out. A welcome back to the Nudie the night show host shooter with my friend Danni. Let's get to the poll last dot. So shallow. We discussed how Kim Kardashian and Kanye have threatened threatened the former bodyguard with a ten million dollar lawsuit. Should Kim and Kanye get the money? Yes, or no? The results are in twenty six percent of you said yes. They should get the money they did. Sign an NDA the bodyguard did. Twenty two percent and that's a whopping majority, said no calm down Kim up going to get the money. Look on facebook. seizable your comments Karima. Hello Love Creamer I is. How am I don't act like a bleak. And Cheryl, said no, they shouldn't get the money. Hey, don't forget to vote on today's poll on our twitter page about Leeann. Michelle issue really sorry, or was she just called? You can vote on our twitter page. Ad Nauseam Nice Rumba, or you can leave a comment on our facebook page, nobody gossip and be sure to check tomorrow to get your results Donnie. Love who's nicest of the day. Story actually makes me happy because it's not often. That gets put Kim Kardashian nicest in the same. Today I'm going to because Kim Kardashian she has put her money where her mouth is, and she's offering protesters financial aid. Only. Some of these protesters young woman actually got shot with a rubber bullet, and that leaves damage. People are going to the hospital. People are also getting arrested, and you have to pay bail to get out of jail and a lot of people don't have the money, so there's a lot of organizations out there who are raising money for the bail Kim has offered financial supports I. Linus chemist, putting money where mass is Kim. You're and noisiest of the day. And now. Notorious of the day, not not not. Not is of the day is dancing with the stars. Judge. Bruno Tonioli I think that's how I pronounce his last name. I, love him, so he's on dancing with the stars and he's hinting you. Suggesting the Meghan markle might be joining the ballroom. She's not bruder. This is a bait and switch I get what you're blowing. I sorta respect you for it, so he did an interview with extra, and he said Meghan markle would be great, and he sort of pitched her television. He said it would make her look accessible and funny like she could do with them being on the shower, she's not doing Bruno. I. Do love you, but your annuity est of the day. And now it's time for the moment of rob you. Get. A ROMP, we're not give an robes really. Oh, maybe we are, so I are noisiest. System the moment of Rob. This is when we try to be a little bit more serious at the show. We get it silly gossip for twenty minutes. We do like to have a little moment where a little bit more serious today's moment offing robbed by the most powerful asset you own, you have is a positive mindset, so it literally changes the game. It changes your life. Be Somebody that size. Yes, try it say yes. You might actually be right, so yes, they don. I didn't negative day it was full of Dighton Anger, and just like Khandu. No, no! I decided today is going to have a day of yes, and so from the moment I woke up. I'm so much happier. Do you get those days? Donny where somebody gets in your head. You're getting your own head and you just keep saying no. No. Why Not GonNa work. Why bother stop it? Give it a try. What do you think? Yes, it is especially now. It's it's easy to. To kind of get in our heads and the scary thing is, is that negatively can consume your entire day? Yes, you life people weeks months lives. Shake it off when you wake up in the morning. You get to decide. Decide to be positive. Okay, that's it for today Donnie. We love having you here. Thank you for all gossip. Hey, thank you for listening to the Naughty but nice with. A production of I heart. and. Don't forget to subscribe on the iheartradio APP. Apple podcasts or wherever you listen and leave us a review. I remember. All together Utah Too. Nice take care everybody. It's. Nice. Renowned Buddhist, author and teacher Jarvis Masters is steadfastly maintained is innocent since he was sentenced to death almost thirty years ago on a new podcast. Dear Governor. Jarvis poses the question Jokin. 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Episode 85: The art of the celebrity apology

We Hear

27:34 min | 1 year ago

Episode 85: The art of the celebrity apology

"Today on we hear Leah Michelle has apologized to her former glee co star, and it is an apology for the ages. qube staffers are fuming because reese witherspoon got a six million dollar payday while the startup is struggling and a celebrity psychics. He's a lot happening for the vendor. PUMP RULES CAST coming up next on, we hear. Force slashed paves. Six, whatever field? Hey there I'm Maggie. Tottenham an army and more and welcome. We hear a page six PODCAST. We hear all the celebrity dirt from our exclusive sources, and you hear the story behind the story so Maggie the story about Liam Michelle that we talked about has developed now. There's way more to the story I know it's funny. Because Glee has been off the air for so long that even we were talking about yesterday, we were struggling to figure out what glee fans were called because it's so long ago, but we're talking about how Lia Michelle behave on the set of glee after one of her co Stars said she threatened to Shit in her wig and made her life a living hell, right Leah Michelle had. posted. Something about George Floyd's death and this coast are. From back in the day came back to remind her. Hey, you made my life a living hell on the set. Samantha wears that actress name and she said Leeann behavior made her want to leave Hollywood but now. We've got all these updates, so Lee Michelle has lost her partnership with hellofresh, which is a food delivery company. I honestly didn't even know. She had a partnership with hellofresh. Did you know I didn't and I? Wonder I don't know maybe I'm just not in the hellofresh demographic. Is this one of the services that sends you? Is it just groceries, or is it like a box of stuff that you then actually have to prepare and make Salmon Teriyaki even before, Liam. Liam, Michelle apologize which she now has. She was dropped by hellofresh as you said she does. Have some other sponsorship deals right, but there's no word on those yet. That's right so on Wednesday. She apologize and she said one of the most important lessons of the last few weeks is that we need to take the time to listen and learn about other people's perspectives and any role. We have played or anything we can do to help address the injustices they face. Then she goes on to talk about when she tweeted the other day. In support of the black lives matter protests. She hoped that she could show her support for her friends and neighbors and quote communities of colors during this difficult time. But you know this response from Samantha. Was Not what she was expecting, so she continued with her explanation, saying wall, I, don't remember ever making the specific statement. And I had never judged others by their background or color of their skin. That's not really the point. What matters is that I? Clearly acted in ways which hurt other people whether it was my privilege position and perspective that caused me to be perceived as insensitive or inappropriate at times, or whether it was just my immaturity and me being unnecessarily difficult i. For my behavior and for any pain which I have caused. Lengthy apology, it's a lengthy non apology. It. It's so funny because. Increasingly, we've seen these celebrity apologies. It's like the celebrity statements when. Stars break up and get divorced rate, and they all have a familiar ring to them. Right of you know whether it's conscious uncoupling or how they're co co-parenting and Co parenting their pets with love and respect, and they love each other so much, and please respect our privacy. At this time we love each other so much. That were breaking up and in one week. When the divorce filing heads, you'll be writing about how we've accused each other of all these horrible things It's similar with these apologies like the first part of the apology read I mean I think it's good. She apologized, but it's like I don't. Necessarily know what she's talking about it sounds like it went through a PR robot that she called she called her pr person, or whoever and they was like. What do I do or we need crisis PR and they're like well. We've got apology a that. He's a good wine her. You could go with apology. Be which is really popular right now and apology see although we don't recommend that one and then you could always say what you really think or use your own words, but. I wouldn't do that and then so the first part is sort of the Gobbledygook of I. Don't even know what you're talking about. In the second part you read. I love how it's like I. Don't recall ever saying this. I don't recall any of this. I I never did anything. But. I'm apologizing for my. You know my overall behavior and I was sensitive, so it's like so you kind of maybe you don't recall the exact thing, but. Overall you're a total asshole, so. Well this is if you probably did. You did you do it or not like right? Deny it and be like you know what I never did that I treated it. You know I I never had a problem with this person, or I just it strange. It's like the non apology either own up to it or not, but I'm not really sure. I mean the interesting thing. Is that as you mentioned? Her endorsement got dropped even before the apology came out, so it seems like the accusation is credible, because other people have kind of backed up Samantha. Wear online who were involved with Glee, but I don't know this apology to me. It's like I mean I think it's good sheets apologizing I guess, but it doesn't sound like an apology to me. It's very I'm sorry. Feel that way which is kind of a backhanded apology you're like. Are you sorry you're calling me out for having a reaction to how you acted or how you allegedly activation, say right, and it's also like I was never yeah, I think takes it down from the racial aspect where it's like I. Don't remember this particular thing and I always treat everyone with respect, but you know. Maybe I was a diva on the set and I'm sorry about that. I think it's also this. This is kind of a prophylactic apology. I would because it's almost like well. They're probably going to be a lot more people coming out with a lot more stuff and now that I think about it. I was kind of a jerk when I was on that show, so like maybe I should just say like I never did this, but sorry for my overall insensitivity for all of the tweets that you will be seeing in the comments of this tweet with the other re tweet and the other tween. But with this apology reminded me of was. Celebrities are so. They're so good at bat apologies. It's like incredible. It's my favorite John or like you said before when someone gets divorced and they kind of. Do their whole spiel about how you're going to be best friends forever and they love their dogs, and who gets the plant, and it's like nobody cares just say like he or she cheated. I. Hate Them. Forever. LemMe catch you on a red carpet. You know what I mean. I, I've been thinking about great apologies of the past and the first one that came to mind was back in twenty twelve. You might remember the scandal of that year was when Kristen Stewart. The twilight actress was caught by a photographer with Rupert Sanders. Who was her then director for Snow White, and the huntsman they were kissing, and basically seward and Robert Patterson. The leads in twilight had had this whole showmances that really lent to the franchise, and the fans early into it, and now we had pictures of cheating on Pattison with the director, the married director. Of Snow? White and the huntsman. Do you remember this? I sure do I remember it vividly I mean similarly to glee. Twilight of course had a similar type of rabid fan base. The TWI hards I don't need to even strange. Remember what they were called. The Greeks gleason twi hearts. So you know reading about this now? All these years removed from it. She was only twenty two, which is pretty insane that. The world of celebrity gossip lost its mind over this, but this was such a scandal that they released a comment to people magazine. Full disclosure I was working there at the time so I remember when this came in and how Earth shattering it was, but this is. This is the comment and the apology. Are you ready? Hit Me am deeply sorry for the hurt and embarrassment. I've caused to those close to me and to everyone. This has affected. This momentary indiscretion has jeopardized the most important thing in my life. The person I love and respect the most rob I love him I. Love Him I'm so sorry. What is that? Like this is a twenty two year old woman like. Give this girl a break. You know what I mean. She doesn't need to grovel or say. I Love Him I. Love Him I'm so sorry who handled this I? Like the I love him I love him. Love. Yeah, that's more like. Kind of an eighth grade apology I like that. It's like you talk to your best friend in eighth grade, and they help you craft that that sort of sounds like something. You might write in someone's yearbook. Or a note in the locker you slip it in, and you're like well. Walker. Well, you know. Thinking of celebrity apologies of course I think one of the most famous celebrity apologies, which more people should take a page from. Was the hugh grant apology. Do you remember that on? On the tonight show, yes, after huge was alive apology after Hugh Grant was caught. Cheating because he was cruising around Hollywood with Divine Brown If you remember that name and then got arrested for like a lewd conduct charge. Or something and and he, he, of course had been with Elizabeth Hurley and. You know there are certain couples in Hollywood I mean I feel like that's why people were so obsessed with Brad and Jen, you know Brad. Pitt Jennifer Aniston because. They're certain couples. I think. People look at M. P.. Even have these people in your friend group where you're like man. That couple proves to me that love exists, and then they break up and everyone's like no. It doesn't so. He began Liz Hurley I. Think seemed like the perfect couple Um in an even hugh grant when he went on the tonight, show and Jay Leno asked him what the Hell Hell were you thinking? He went into one of his sort of sputtering charming English. Ex. I was saying you know people. Keep giving me tons of ideas on this one in terms the apology. I keep reading new psychological theories and stuff like that. You know I was under pressure. I was tired stuff like that. I was lonely I fell down the stairs as a child or whatever, and then he said I think that you know in life pretty. Pretty much. What's a good thing to do? And what's a bad thing? I did a bad thing and there. You have it great apology, so great textbook, but that's like it would be better if people just sort of spoke in their own words than feeding it through the apology Ometer, the the Apollo. I should actually saw the apology, but but that's not even. In the era of the apology, that's not even the the only apology of the the week. Maggie there've been a few others. You might have seen that Evan Peters. Who was on American horror story he he got in a controversy because he re tweeted a tweet that condoned violence against looters and got a lot of backlash online, and then he went back on twitter he he deleted it and said he didn't condone the clip that he tweeted, and then he, he said I unknowingly re tweeted. It I unknowingly may a pocket re tweet. I unknowingly re tweeted. I'm deeply upset. It got on my news feed I. sincerely apologize if anyone was offended. I support black lives matter wholeheartedly. That's a little bit of almost in the Anthony. Weiner School of the I didn't wear. You have a technological snafu and. I think a lot of people when they would apologize. Go Straight for the hack like that. Originally, that was an easy one I was hacked I didn't I didn't do it. You know, but I think that now that we know a lot more about how social media works and how? Computers work. We sort of realized that the the hacking as a blanket excuse is in really it doesn't make a lot of sense just six years ago. Beyond say Jay z Solange after the gala elevator fight footage has released. The world's goes wild. They release exclusive statement to the Associated Press. That was just six years ago now. We have to go on Instagram to read these apologies. Levels of celebrity have really changed so and beyond. Jay Z released a statement to the Associated Press this. This is what said as a result of the public release of the elevator security footage from Monday may fifth there has been a great deal of speculation about what triggered the unfortunate incident, but the most important thing is that our family has worked through it. Jan Solange each assume their share responsibility for what has occurred. They both acknowledge their role in this private matter that is played out in public. They both have apologized to each other, and we have moved forward as a united family. That's a statement. Mu Four united well. I want to apologize. Maggie I had recently mentioned on the show that one of the Beard Care Products I have is a Hungarian beard, wax and We got an angry letter about it so I'm sorry for mentioning the words Hungarian earwax. No one should ever have to hear those three words strung together. Thank you. We are all spending a lot of time at home these days, and if you're looking for a way to keep your brain sharp while having a lot of fun, you've got to download this game. I'm obsessed with. It's called best fiends, and it's a fun way to kill some slugs. Make some patterns and take your mind off things. Best fiends is a casual game that anyone can play and one of my favorite parts about it is that. That you don't need Wifi to play it and you can go back to where you left off last. So while you're waiting to make your dinner play a few rounds, and then enjoy your dinner and go back after I. Mean there your fiends there? 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That's very good I agree with you on that But apparently the show, which is produced by the BBC has not been doing well on Qube, and you may have followed how qube which is Jeffrey Katzenberg. The former Disney and DreamWorks Gurus, new. Streaming service hasn't been doing so well, so a source told Sarah quickey may have to implement cutbacks and people are fuming that stars like reese. got paid millions, but she's not the only one right like they've done deals with Jennifer. Lopez Lebron James like a lot of big names are attached to quimby right now. Yeah, either spoons husband Jim tough. who was a really big power agent? Ca He actually left the agency after twenty three years to work for Katzenberg Startup, and he's the head of content acquisition and talent, so of course he is amazing relationships in Hollywood, and got all these huge stars to do projects at at Qube, but unfortunately for Qube. It's launched at kind of a really bad time for a streaming service that you can only watch on your phone that shows. Kinda short format content, and it's really targeted ad viewers. Who are you know commuting or on the go? You know you're in an airport or you're on your way to work, you could. You could follow a series with some really big stars, and you know. Maybe the each episode is I don't know you know up to ten minutes or something like that, but with everyone locked down in the corona virus pandemic situation. You know people at home. It's like you're taking your your kids. You're cooking meals. You're working from home. You know you're not exactly busting out your phone to watch a six minute video clip of Reese Witherspoon. Narrating a nature documentary about female hyenas the roost. I mean I would rather watch a video clip of Reese Witherspoon counting her money at this point. Well people I think have really been initially in the coronavirus lockdown. They were camped out in front of their actual TV set so obviously streaming service. You know like Tiger King, which in way as its own I guess nature documentary. Other animal kingdom you know was the absolute hugest hit on Netflix's and really an in all of TV, because people were hunker down in front of their screens and couldn't get enough binge-watching, but. That I think was also a communal thing where you were watching it together with people. You can't your home with your family. You can all huddle in front of your phone so crabby launched it at inopportune time. It's already according to a report fawn out of Apple's top two hundred apps while another another chart called Sensor Tower. Has It at the one thousand and seventh spot in APPS I mean even you know I think we here is. Way Ahead of one thousand and seventh HIB- beast which I know, you read avidly Maggie hype. Beast reported this week. That qube has no shortage of cash. It's got one point seven billion in funding, but the problem is that the subscription service and ad revenue are crucial to continuing so it can make content and pay these stars. Even more worrying subscribers are coming to the end of their initial free ninety day trials now equality. Equality spokesperson called Witherspoon salary inaccurate and added quote. We are pleased with the performance fierce queens. We are grateful for Reece's continued support of Qube. The Rep also told us and in regard to tightening our belt. Our senior leadership team has volunteered to take ten percent. Pay Cut because it's the right thing to do. We are excited about the future. As we shared in our most recent company, meeting the best is yet to come. The REP also said. We are confident in Qube and the work that we are creating every day. While reps were witherspoon were unavailable for comment. 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Maggie is you know I have the gift of Rakia Healing, but I do not have ESP so i. don't know what they said. You tell us well. This psychic told page six DOT COM Chelsea Hirsch that stoskopf Schroeder is highly intuitive. She's extremely calculated and that's why she's been kind of popping off because she's picking up on the intentions of other people. So. And I quote. What irritates the shit out of Stasi? Is Quote Bitch? Don't tell me one thing and do another so basically. Stasi is here. Communicating with the metaphysical operating on a different plane than all of us, could this be why the editors gave her in Bo, the hero at at the season. Man This is one Sassy ass. Psychic Maggie. And, he also said that he has read almost the whole cast, so he's been around all of their psychic energies, and all the Wu I love how on vendor pump they always do the same things. They're like a traveling real life melrose place, so it's like they work together, and then obviously they don't even have to work in a restaurant anymore. So they all bought houses in the same neighborhood in the valley, and the olive door to each other, and they always get their engagement rings from the same jeweler, and they get their tattoos from the same tattoo, or and now they've gotten their psychic readings from the same psychic. Chris Medina yeah the Mexican laying funky Cold Medina. I mean I'm actually kind of bum that the show is off the air because this season for me wasn't great but I. I do like talking about it with you and actually it's funny. Because last night my dad called me and you know usually. My mom is the one who calls me. And he called me to tell me that you know to check in how things are going on in Brooklyn and to tell me that my mom was watching that show about people who work in a restaurant and I was show, and he was like you know banner Bolic's and I was like. Well, that's that is what I'm calling better rules from now on band or Bolic's. And I was like Oh bender puff roles. Of, course genius! vol totally as banner bogs. You know I bet if I. Forget his take on like they need this old Irish guy. Giving reviews of Bravo shows it would be incredible. Incredible Content Bender bollocks I you weird I've kind of missed out on banner. Bolic's this season because. When it started and they. Injected which seems like an apt word for Van Pump Role, somehow they injected some new cast members. into the cast, you know there was some backlash I. Actually Kinda liked it. I thought it worked. But for some reason as the season went on and. got more silly in the real world got more serious I have to admit that I found it. A bit difficult even as shallow as I am Maggie to care about the trials and tribulations. Of, the bander bollocks. But I feel A. The, yeah, I feel like, but now but I'm actually happy. Now that I kind of took a break because I know that it's there, and at some point I'm going to need an escape, so I know it's there and I can always get back into banner. Bolic's and like a like a psychic myself in this case I know that it will absolutely deliver on a sort of trashy higher plane or no trashy lower plane. There you go, I mean your feelings have changed and so have their faces so enjoy. Well, that's it for this episode of we hear. Our Show is produced by Jamila Rob. Williams Melissa casseroles. Love to hear your questions and ideas for the show. If there is anything you would like to tell us, please please please email us at podcast. That NY DOT com. 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LIVE From The Dean's Den - Is It MLW Or MLU?

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LIVE From The Dean's Den - Is It MLW Or MLU?

"Look need News ready And good morning wrestling fans while that does seem really strange to say good morning. I'm usually used to just say hello wrestling fans but Here we are Coming back after the Technical mishaps of last night and we are actually live and Today's told one is White grape carbonated water from walmart. It's a little too early for the other stuff I don't prescribe to the it's after twelve somewhere of A lot of people so lee. How you doing this morning my friend. Goalie crow after after twelve man a new york. We're like we're kinda like Five o'clock somewhere. Yeah it described to that i know. Well i'm i'm a little thrown off considering the fact that it. I'm looking out the window of the studio here and It's daylight kinda gray up here my neck of the woods but it's still daylight so but anyway Wanted to go ahead and Talk about Lease little adventure yesterday. where he actually was Involving with a rather famous personality in the in the business Reviled by some revered by others So go ahead and Tell and tell us who you who. You spent time with yesterday afternoon. Yeah so yesterday afternoon for me was spent With somebody who really helped shape the monday night wars. And that was vince russo It was it was a great time. Vince was phenomenal to speak with I myself. I consider myself to be a optimistic realist. And vincent. rousseau is a straight up realist One of the things that a lot of a lot of my fans at sports perched on the top rope really had fun with when i watched. The interview was the fact that they were going through. Take a shot. Every time he said. barreau Really realistically if you did you wouldn't have made it past. Probably the first ten minutes so know for for those. Who know vince russo. He is widely known for using the word bro. part of his podcasts. The russo brand has even made like an actual segment out of it with all the bros. But it was a great time us really nice then You know very informative and then you know. Even after our interview he Helped me with pointers. Because i always ask for feedback from those that. I'm interviewing and i've been reviewed guys like booker. T mark henry kevin nash. Honky man and scott. Steiner you know great personalities and then there's also some personalities that some people would say that he's a jerk. I've never had a bad experience with anybody. I've ever talked to in this industry. Uh-huh and vince russo action. Chalk up there in the top. Three of the nicest people. I've worked with That interview for perched on the top rope. We're going to have it done. Video aspect done today will mostly hey go Will announce wendy. It's going to go up sunday when we do. Our live show Spore candle already. That i don't really get a notice from them except for a link as soon as it goes up So when that. I get that link. I'll be sharing that around for everybody as well My friday though didn't and just there with great news because literally after that interview. I got a phone call from a certain network And networks as they're doing a show with ww e. now i have a zoom call next week and i will feel in everybody in more about what is going on with me and potentially. Wwe next week. Oh wow that's that's gonna be big that's going to be big on Looking forward to that fit of news. So that is that is huge and Speaking of news something broke Earlier this morning from wrestling news dot. Co lee Michelle mccall the wife of the legendary undertaker Has posted up on her instagram. That she has tested positive for covid. Nineteen she said that her symptoms are mild. No one else at the at the house they'll She says oh. Well i thought were. My allergies turned out to be a positive cova test earlier this week. No clue how or where. I caught And so What so Their daughter is really cute they got. She's got a picture here on her instagram Made an eight foot long. Covert communication telephone l. but So that's you know so That guy that's kind of that's kind of the a big piece of news. Unfortunately of course l Covert still a You know hot topic and that Do mitch also Has had an effect on On wrestlemainia For many people who might not be might not be aware Wrestlemainia held the second sunday of the month was originally scheduled and it has been and now at last year's wrestlemainia that it was going to be going back to going to well. It looks like right now Wrestlemainia will be going to raymond. James stadium tampa which is where they were originally supposed to have wrestlemainia last year before the cova del break happened. And they wound up moving everything into performance center And it's looking like They're going to have wrestlemainia. Either april of events as relates heat. So i don't know how that's going to Make everything How how's it gonna how they're going to connect story lines from From the rumble. which in What two weeks from Tomorrow if if i've got my calendar correct and i'll take swift land at to make sure that i've got my got my case right and that and of course come on and calendar pop up here. Yeah the thirty first so in In week so it'll be so it'll be all inter interesting too interesting to see Now you know. Yeah go ahead. You know the the thing that. I'm really interested in when it comes to this. Is you know when you know. I fully understand. You know how i guess. Both both sides think when it comes to covid you know. There's there's the side of where people are like you know. Hey there's a pandemic going. You gotta wear masks as two feet. There's that other side where you know people don't don't follow that or you know. People are sick of that and people want to be out doing things. And i. I understand from both sides. I really do. But we've we've seen time and time again so far during this pandemic that when Big groups come together. Outbreaks is terrible. You know i would say for the time being maybe. Wwe should worry about live crowds but then again they're also trying to keep up with a w who has announced that they're going you know that they're going to be going back to two more crowds and stuff like that. They've already been doing that with their dynamite. Show and this and that The other thing that i. I'm really intrigued with with. How do they do the hall of fame. Because last year they had already announced a bunch of names for the hall of fame and one of those being. nwa oh Was i talked to try to talk to virgil about. Because it's hogan hall nats and six million dollar man and thursday we're number four and five right. They were left out. And i don't know why that it's a different story but the british bulldog was the biggest name to come out of it as michael finney out of inland trade. This whole davey. Boy smith campaign in everybody in wrestling supported this campaign. So i'm going to be a little treats do they. Do you know for wrestlemainia will have a hall of fame ceremony. If they don't will they just announced those people going into the hall of fame. Are they going to do it. Dual class where they have that class in another class. I wanna know what's happening with hall of fame. Yeah yeah that will that will definitely be be an interesting thing because obviously of course Now last year's class had Had quite a few including john layfield Dad always gets that always gets mentioned in The pre shows that That he does so we'll see and speaking of locations now the original line was that Hey w was goi to be moving next month from dailies place in jacksonville to miami but Now it looks like Tony kahn has changed his mind. And they are going to stay at daly's place in jacksonville. four as they Were told in an email Yesterday morning for the future And of course The March new jersey show which was one of the few still announced Outside shows As far as outside to florida goes Has apparently now been pushed back to september because obviously of course there's no plans at this point to Be heading out of jacksonville now at any time in the in the immediate In the immediate future. So whether it's the numbers change on covert and that Who knows you know. A lot of a lot of a lot of this stuff is obviously And as someone who is also You know actively involved in promoting seeing myself l a lot of this a lot of this stuff you know vaccine or not is going to Be kind of kind of on hold and that to See what L. will be. We'll be happening in the you know both short and long-term plan oh for both for actually for both companies and that doesn't even doesn't even count out the stuff Countering vander which is I'll walked up Doing everything in their doj. Oh so bill we just have to. We just have to as the as the weather. The weather changes his. Vaccinations gets gets more Out there and that we'll just we'll just kinda see we'll just kinda see what happens so Another yeah go ahead. No no no. I was agreeing with you. Okay okay now. Another story now. We don't have this absolutely confirmed but it seems becoming from a number of sources is that Former assistant executive producer and writer for lucia. Underground chris Christie joseph has apparently been hired to become the executive producer and lead writer for major league wrestling. And this comes war right at the time where The parks are now the current. M l w tag team champions and added to their stable which is headed up by selene day. Loretta is one very very famous or infamous depending on your perspective is a fan lucho underground champion. The man of a thousand deaths memoir things. Yeah and please please. You're the l w guy this is this is your this is your baby so you go ahead okay. So yeah so at kings of communism coliseum. Msw's free pay per view. It was announced that selena day. Lorenzo would be executive producer for that the following episode of msw fusion A lot a lot of interesting things out of this On the pay per view of kings of coliseum. She also announced the match. The lows parks would take on the ground. Eric von eric's amil w tag team champions at the time with filthy. Tom lawlor as special guest referee So not only do. We see meal beer. Test debut on that same episode as he demolished ride film in junior the lowest parks became the msw tag team champions but there was a rule that to them even just getting match. They had to join. Selena de la renta. She's setting up something big so and then in the same episode of msw fusion. She mentioned boyle heights now. If you used to watch the underground you know who boyle heights is an msw. The show did that end how it normally ends. It ended with the lucho underground temple image at the end. I i i don't know what fully m l w has plans with lucia underground. I've heard rumors that lucia underground has been sold. But we're going to have to tune into msw fusion to get the answers that we're looking for. Because i don't have them. There's nothing on dirt sheets as far as anything. I've mentioned They're just rumors when it comes to your underground being sold. As far as i know but also in old storyline has come up that originated from lucia underground worse selena. Dave rent owed a bunch of very powerful people in wrestling money so we couldn't be could be seeing something big come in with the story line but we have to watch 'em l w fusion to find out because they are very good at keeping spoilers from people right right well you know because of course For those who did follow lucia underground at the end of season. Three charlie. Oh wait though was of course. The they'll owner and promoter of louisiana chander ground was shot and killed and his father who looked very much and sounded very much like him Took over the temple. But then at the at the end of the season They was phoenix. Placed the stone on the chest of doria quake though weighing in the coffin and all of a sudden his eyes opened up and of course there was never a Following season because of all the Legal and financial situations For those who don't know Lucia underground is actually Co-owned by The by the network and aaa and they'll raise network has shut down completely. It is god There was a part of the univision group and Apparently obviously they were eating up too much money to go to keep them to keep them intact so when his own just Dissolve them completely but triple a. Still owned baluchi underground brand and of course That is where a lot of Situations with Names most notably of phoenix and Pentagon pen l. settle Got into also all sorts of issues and that now ricky bandera who is meal workdays. I don't know if somehow apparently he had purchased the rights to his name or whatever. The case may be but so. Now that's this. It's going to be interesting. I gotta it's been a while since i've Caught up on any m l w and so obviously. I'm going to have to kind of watch that to see what's going on myself especially if they're possibly bringing back a Connection with lucia underground. So yeah like. I said it's it's it's gonna be interesting to see in the that. Sylvia data renta's view. Of how m l w fusion was portrayed was done it was awesome. It was a great show And this all goes back to when we had talked in previous shows we had talked about all these different tie ins. You know like right now. We see impacting in a w working really well together We raised that you know and in you know in works at impacts but conan also works at. Emily w you know right you know because of him there's two aaa right. Say he and He and yugoslav individ- are Currently the The booker for triple a yeah. So you know so. There's a there's all sorts of various tie-ins to wrestling right now and and now you know. So like we know like ebel w and aaa they. They've just had a pretty good working relationship. Because laredo kid was you know. Part of m l. w opera cop and You know laredo kid in aaa just wrestled ten mega for kenny omega Triple aaa mega championship. You know so. We're seeing all sorts of various tie ins and to me adding lucia underground which to me was a real innovative wrestling program. Because that's where we really saw a lot of the matic style type stuff in there backstage segments and everything made you feel like you're watching a movie compared to a backstage segment and professional wrestling done very very well. I'm really intrigued. And to me having lucia underground with all these different various tie ins with all these. Various promotions is like the icing advocate. Yeah yes well. It's like I don't know if you remember the the China by segment With joey. Tnn sonny kiss having that fight at the gas station. But i'm why i'm watching it and is and as everything's going on i'm going that's lucho underground stopped. Yeah i mean they. They filled it the the exact same way that a you know legit ground lucia underground location shot was done back in the day and Of course on on our other program here on the r. n. We had a lot of the of the Lucia underground people on over the years Famous pe- was Pretty much almost a regular of ours As was the man now known as is as for scott kill shot merdeka south murdy the moth And Curly peres ka katrina all kinda kinda regular regular guest of ours We'd had a. We had a great show with Kill shot and marty The night that The weapons of mass destruction match here and that and we talked about the whole semblance of how that how that you'd l. was developed and everything got a lot into the psychology of the of the industry and that And they had some y'all for for all the for all the Crazy time element time travel type element and mystical type stuff. That they had oh they had some amazing amazing wrestling. When you sit there and look at it and you look at some of the people that have come out of that John morrison who had basically kinda been almost forgotten. Reinvented himself as johnny mundo and and became hot again The man we now know is lose. Your source was vivo thunder. Rosa course She was cobra moon. I mean look. I mean the hybrid to okay both. Of course were were big triple h stars but when they but when they join forces luce underground he'll it. It turned into something which is now being translated over into. Aws so ill. There's there's a lot. There's a lot of that now. And i mean you know you speak about Kenny omega and of course As as we're doing this show wise tonight is Hard to kill and kenny and his former bullet club Teammates gals in anderson will be taking on impact champion rich swann and former Impact tag team champions the motor city machine got and you think about this okay. This is right now. The second time that they w champion has come into another company and has been recognized as awa champion with the. I of course being chris jericho when he did last year's russell kingdom. Yeah of course that's a that's another situation where on the Vaccine effective this and that to how soon Travel can possibly resume Now that Herald may is out as a president of a new japan and their current president seems to be more willing to work with aew l. I mean we we might be all outside of guerrillas destiny. And i'm and i'm saying that because tama tonga is definitely not happy with the aew storyline about omega gallows and anderson even though it now appears that They've screwed over the young bucks. Oh they're still involved in it and that but the post that I had seen of tama tonga's where he talks about. Betrayal is opposed of Kenny gallison anderson. So that's kind of kind of seems to be where his head is that. So i'm you know down my dream match of guerrillas of destiny f. Tr good brothers. The young bucks is gonna happen. So oh i'm just gonna do on. What kind of have to. Yeah go ahead what. What makes it even more interesting with. tomah tonga. In this whole same with with you know kenny. The young boxed and Gals anderson is at the end of the w a couple of weeks back when they all came together and raise their hands and gave that infamous to sweet symbol. Now someone had tweeted to tom. Tunga saying but what about that season desist ryan virtuous. Wwe sent over to bullet club. In new japan's a season desist about being able to use that symbol. And i believe they stopped. You tweeted at the time of tunga. And he quote tweeted it in wrote lies so now he's even questioning whether even a season desist letter about using too sweet thing because now they're using dot e w Yeah yeah and it's weird. Because i mean if you if you think back to win gallows and anderson i basically popped onto the scene at wwe. Now i they had. Aj not wanting anything to do with them which then eventually you know he is kinda saw and then all of a sudden oh one night. I sat down before you know it for you. Realize what's happening gallison anderson hold. Hold the sign up. Aj brings aj brings it all together and boom l and effect for while there Before before they left of you w e. Tom and this was something that i had noticed. I had mentioned on our other program that gallows outfits had on it. Og bc which. i always which. Yeah i always took that to mean were the. oh jesus. The bullet club with. Yeah i took that. I took that. I took that as sort of a shot at new japan because Vince tried to buy bullet club. Trademark from new japan and new japan refused to sell it to one of those one of those few times that somebody said no defense mcmahon and got away with it. It seems so yeah but you know i mean. It's not like japan is some little rinky dink indy. Promote should either. Yeah no i mean. New japan is to me the wwe of japan. They're the biggest companies over there. You know and and you know they have a huge history of of of pro wrestling over there and stuff with when it comes to new japan and you know the history of their you know championships and everything Yeah you know. But the the the the realistic thing to it all is. Wwe has aside from dx. That's been really the only in my eyes long term successful fiction that they had that lasted you know And and even they saw breakup and comebacks and he'll turn turns this and that you know but right they needed they needed a faction took to last that long because they had they had the the competition of nwa oh right but since then I wanna ask you sense since the days of deacs and everything. Can you name one faction. Besides the new day. I don't consider them effects. And there's only three of them right successful faction that has lasted over two years in wwe sense dx boy. It's a little hard isn't it. No no 'cause i don't i don't think i don't think even Legacy lasted that long. No and legacy was a trio and the and for a very short time they had offered junior. Who is part of that group. Right right and he'll in only lasted a short time In the ended up just being a a trio to me a fact right or than three people. But i can't think of any because wwe doesn't know what to do with factions anymore. No you're right. I mean i yell exactly i mean i mean we're all supposedly you know seeing it right with with retribution. But you know you don't you don't even see retribution that much to consi- consider them so they're them any sort of major player. I i think the closest thing that's coming tacitly coming to it is when l. when roman reigns and Oh both the Both of you so come on yeah And and then even then we're and then still dealing with right no right and then you're still dying with a trio but the But the potential though Is that Apollo crews is going to join. I mean oh we know what we forgot. Yeah yeah They had that backstage segment last night with Romo talking to talk to this crus- family thing that makes no sense to me. Yeah yeah yeah you know what okay. We're for you know what we're forgetting her to get such that they have been around that long to consider them any sort of Stable types of situation. And they're here that Troubles between Benjamin and alexander which could go ahead and break them up pretty soon. It's i mean yeah you're right. I mean realistically. There hasn't been a major faction. Wwe since so. Yeah and you know like you said you had brought up the hurt business and retribution. Want retribution loft. Lost me when they started with the the goofy. And and i can't take him serious because they started off like so reckless and at one point there was twenty or thirty people running around with them. And now it's down to two five and they'd even dropped missy martinez which she got lucky to be honest with you Writer business. The hurt business is kind of to me like a modern day. nation of domination without the undertones of the nineteen sixties. Black panthers like the nation had with the you know the coming up and everything But the hurt business they just they. They haven't done enough there. There's they're not the main event picture out the ex you know. They're not in the they're not the main event storyline like dx had or like in wcw nwa. Oh so. Like when. I when i i'm sorry but go ahead go ahead. We so like. When i. When i say like i haven't seen a successful faction than dx. I haven't seen a main event faction since dx you know I don't yeah. I don't count. I don't count the trio's. I don't count a group of three faction group before more to me I just haven't seen it. And i think it's because wwe truthfully. Does i mean you have the undisputed era next team. But that's not the main roster Right sajad for. And i think i think that i think main roster would kill those guys Vince would be there to small in. You'd end up. Seeing one of them onto will five live to be honest with you. I feel like or morning events. Yeah we're regulated the main event. I'm scared for adam cole. Because he's only a hundred sixty pounds and he's like five six about. I got to meet him and i like sit next to them and i'm like oh it looks a lot bigger. Mtv but that's neither here nor there you know it's just wwe main roster has not had a successful made event factions since dx days and it's been well over twenty years now yeah yeah exactly exactly well as we're as we're talking i started The okay to thinking more of the hurt on the hurt business and that and to me the hurt business on what. I'm what i'm now getting in. My mind is a black or horsemen minus. Ajay dillon with mvp. Playing the rick flair roles always always wearing the fancy suits and everything. I mean they all do the fancy dress stuff that which really wasn't actually a four horsemen thing. I mean flair was about the only one of them that you normally would see spree. Close everybody else out and dylan. Of course everybody else you would normally see in their in their gear in their trunks and boots so that's You know. I mean really when you sit back and you think about it no there. There has not been a major stable a big stable a main event stable since the days of the accident in the nwa. Oh wow How it's it's it's going to be interested. Yeah i'm i'm waiting. I'm waiting to see. I mean 'cause like right now on a w tully blanchard has both f. t. r. and shawn spears but they always emphasize at least spears emphasizes that he is his own person and he's not part of any group with tully and f. t. r. so now i'm not i'm not sure well that it will go any farther than that but You know we'll we'll have to see now Kinda going a little bit on that. retribution line Of course they'd had the story with mussa folly and and ricochet so there's been of course Rumors on On run ricochets contract and that that up go ahead. Oh no i just. I'm so glad you brought that up. I wanna let you You know do. You're saying then. I'll come in after all right well Here there were some rumors that his contract was due to expire. Sooner and that and no it is not According to information from the observer when he was when he was signed to the main roster which was at a point where wwe was attempting to Keep guys from potentially saying with a w They they guys into five year geel and that and so according to according to this His contract is not expire until summer of twenty. Twenty four yeah well so Take it from there. yep no So reports came from Everybody's favorite website ringside news and To the point that ricochet ricochet quote tweeted it with You know You know the hands pointing down to to the lincoln everything in wrote I don't know exactly what he wrote. Verbatim word for word but it was something along the lines of Two hands pointing down saying this is fake referring to the article that ringside news had written. And i don't wanna take from this story but this is not the only article of the day. From the other day that ringside news would be heavily called out for Ringside news is known as probably the trashy est dirt sheet known to man and One of the writers wrote an article referring to john uber as having pre conditioned lung damage that caused his death and john's wife. Amanda had caught i and wrote something on instagram and then We would all know him. As the aid english he wrote on twitter stat. roy who i worked with In a Independent promotion up here chicago style wrestling. I saw. I saw that on twitter last night. So please go keep on with that one. Yeah so he had. He had gone on twitter. As we've known he you know he goes by his real name now On on on all his social media and he tweeted you know he was very unhappy about ringside news. This article that it was it was click bait title and that it. It's small news that everybody should go on follow them. And to be honest when it comes to ringside news. I have worked there. I know steve carrier. He's all about the money. They never retract their articles. If it's false or wrong information and when it came to this article they didn't. They didn't retract the story. They took the same article and just put a different titles. Things that you know a man. amanda huber refers to. They never retracted it and The writer h jenkins tweeted in apology. But to be honest nobody sees the apology. The man has like no followers on twitter. So i mean yeah. Yeah and that's very much like the situation with the editorial that was written in the torch which basically kind of follow that same storyline which The torch thankfully not only deleted but fired the piece of trash that wrote it. yes yes And to me that just kinda tells you you know what kind of a guy john is but you know for me as a journalist standpoint knowing that you know these people are producing these kind of news. i'll break it down real simple for you like at everywhere i've ever written. You have editors so. It's not just the writer. The writer who should be getting in trouble in editor approved. That article editors approved these articles at ringside and posted them. They just beginning in trouble too. Not just the writer because somebody else approved the article. Not just the writer Right so like when. I write an article. I- i hit submit and it goes to an editor in editor. You know edits you know. And he's you know he's sort of little mistakes or you know might reword a few things and then posts it for you but even before then you have to get the article approved by somebody by an editor and stuff like that and it's sports keita. There's all sorts of managers head you know senior editors and this and that so there's a lot of people that this goes by before it even gets on the internet so i'm just kind of baffled. How were these artists. Were getting approved. Didn't anybody read the title and say yo This is bad My issue when you're getting such negative press like greenstein news does from from pro wrestlers and this and that and say that. Are you know that you were just talking about as journalists who does interviews when you go to say hi. my name. so-and-so and i work at ringside news in nobody's gonna wanna talk to you and pw towards could feel that effect of you know for me w. saying no. You had that one trashy article. We're not sending you anyone to interview. Sorry that's a lot of revenue lot. That's a lot of you know arte crime. Your writers that can that can transcribe. You know from your person who do who had done the and stuff like that that can that can that can hit pretty hard you know and and sort of in that essence. Yeah exactly exactly. Well speaking of trash Sean morley formerly valley. Who i've had some. I've had some run ins with this guy on twitter or on facebook Let's put let's put it this way. This guy is so much into conspiracy theories he makes jesse ventura theme like a normal person. You're not wrong. Well yeah exactly Well mr morally is upset because He has been temporarily blocked on twitter after he shares content that as far as twitter go violated their child sexual exploitation policy. And it's and what it is is a bunch of False claims about President-elect biden's son hunter who has been a huge target of the republicans before the real third of the campaign He has called the rocker. Sell out He said he was disappointed at arnold schwarzenegger's video Calls calls him a traitor Just i mean the super well if you've if you've ever if you're if you looked at john morley on social media i'll unfortunately this is typical morley l. I you know i. Sometimes i sometimes wonder he because well. He owns a string of Marijuana dispensaries in arizona and his Referred to himself as captain candidates. I wonder if he's sampled a little too much product over the years. You know as a uh. I'll just say i don't care as an act of cannabis use their myself. Yeah i use it. I use that night. I use before i go to bed. It's my sleep aid but it's also helped me with My depression and it's helped me instead of taking. Opiates when i have a surgery. Because i've had a surgery i i'm like a. I had a surgery on my stomach where i had a foot of my intestines removed. I've had three on my left shoulder in this year. Okay actually getting ready. I'm getting ready. Tore my right labor I'm in a lotta kids so But i can't get in anywhere really because kobe and Where i live where i live. The hospitals are pretty full. So i have to wait right. Just even have this surgery and you know the pain gets worse as time goes on in everything I i'm not wearing a swing right now. I probably should be. But that's that's my own thing. Because as soon as i put that down i'm not gonna be able go to work and i can't be out of work right Yeah you know so for me. It it's a. It's a medication and i understand. You know him. But i saw video of him recently. He's looks he doesn't look he. He looks horrible. re really scrawny In the way that he can do it there is it years. Yeah and it's like the way that he's talking in the the the the radic nece of it. All from a psychological standpoint would tell me that. Psychologically there's something not right up there now like you say yeah they roy And we all know. Steroids plays huge effect on the brain. And everything just ends norwitzki. You know he you know went from. Wwe to he is the man who literally developed concussion protocols for everywhere in yeah it's You know so it could be effective all concussions. It could be affected the steroids he could be on harder drugs which you know when i saw his face and the aratu kness and everything. That's the that's the vibe. By god. i instantly went to its psychological. Or he's new mess. That was the only That came to mind Yeah whether i don't. I don't i don't want to you know you know. Say that's what he's doing. Because i don't know it just it was just my opinion and I i can say. I've taken pretty much any psych class that is offered during your time. Getting a bachelor's degree. I got my first bathrooms. I graduated with one hundred sixty two credits. I only needed one hundred twenty you. Yes i know the feeling You know so those. The something's not right and i don't care what anybody says. Psychologically something's not right with him whether it's an abuse of steroids from back in the day too many concussions harder drugs. There's something going on. There's more than meets the eye And it's sad. Because he i've he looks like he's deteriorated over the last two years. Yeah absolutely flawless and these rambled these rambles in these tangents. Have become more and more on a daily basis Is actually to the point that it's actually costed him It's costed him again. through you. Know meet and greets and virtual meet and greets and in all of that right. Exactly exactly i know i know. He's got his dispensaries and stuff. And i'm sure they're doing great it. Yeah wrestling world doing great right now. Yeah exactly he. He'd already had that character of venus where in today's age dow would be very inappropriate to have on tv. or or. you know this or that. During that time the attitude era the character flourished because it was it was it was the attitude era. You know that couldn't get on tv. Wwe wouldn't put him on tv if their life depended on it and right seeing what was being from him. He's literally killing off anything he's done in professional wrestling with these ramps. Yep exactly exactly so and with that. We've actually run out of time so We'll cover more stuff Probably including her to kill On this coming friday so For for lee. This is the dean of wrestling referee. Steve cain we will catch you. 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WWHL @ Home: Hindrigo Kiko Lorran & Captain Lee Roshbach

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WWHL @ Home: Hindrigo Kiko Lorran & Captain Lee Roshbach

"Welcome to the Bravo clubhouse for the podcast edition of Watch. What happens live with me Andy Cohen? He's the man who sits in the captain's chair and he wishes what happened on. Vegas night would have just stayed there. It's watch live at home with Captain Louis and Chef Kiko now. Up to. MCC. Audience. To Watch it live at home I'm your host Andy, Cohen I'm below dead night with two brothers from another mother ship joining me from Florida. It's below decks captain Lee. Rosbach AAC optin league great to see you. Great to see. Glad to, be here. I'm glad to see you I love your little model ships behind you too, and he's the biggest sweetheart this side of the man Chef Kiko Orion Asia Kiko where you joining us from what what city are you in. Martinique Arkley with my bolt. Oh my God. You're still on that boat in Martinique. Lucky. You Captain Li before I get to you. I have plenty of questions for you about this season of below deck men and your season of below deck chef Kiko I have a couple of questions for you about what's Go- gone on on Wellington since you disembarked do you think Tom was being overly dramatic about slicing a cucumber or would you have been pissed sandy to? it's very hard to speak like in his position because it's like, what can I say? It's very. It's very heavy in all. Sometimes they energy. So I don't know how how he is handling like how he could handle it. So it's very hard. Well, he's he's handling it poorly and I wonder what your thinking as you're watching, Tom lose it in the Galley. Is it at all satisfying to you watching another chef who took your place flounder? Be honest not not at all like actually I'm rooting for him to he finished very well this season because it's not easy to be a chef on a charter boat. So no no. No complaints have ordered. Just rooting for sweet chefs guessing you chef. Kiko. Now, the trailer just dropped for the new season of below doc before we can talk about what we have to look forward to I need captain lead dip his toes into the chaotic waters of the MED. Here you go captain Lee Hannah and Molina fought over who should get to room together when Malaya's boyfriend Tom joined the boat is show should couples get to room together at the expense of other crew members? What's your opinion on this? Andy. Identified talk when I usually leave at discretion of chief. Stu. And she said the The bunking arrangements, and if a couple comes on hired on. As a couple that's one thing. So you. You tend to accommodate them, but if it's broken up and all of a sudden somebody shows up. To inconvenience other members that may not want to be inconvenienced. I. I don't go along with that. Yeah. Well, you know there's been so much talk about Hannah and her meds you're in a situation with cat having her meds on board. What was the difference? What did cat show you? That was different. Okay with with cat. It was pretty simple. She said she was prescribed to Maj. said. Show me to prescription that's what I want to see. And Bits Julie Prescribe meds by a licensed physician. A. Doctor. Says, captains. So? Right. God forbid deny somebody their prescription meds something bad should go should happen. Would really get ugly but why would they want to do that? Right. So had she shown sandy the prescription, maybe it would have been a different conversation. Now did the Lia do the right thing in going to sandy when she found evidence of unregistered medication and a? Pen in Hannah's bag. The. Only issue I have with that is, how did me stumble across town? Did she impact stumble across an I don't know. I. Wasn't there. So I can't rely. I asked her at the Union and I. Believe we will find out about that. How would you deal with an insubordinate chef like Tom who threatened to quit and gave attitude when the provision weren't up to his standards? Now. God that that is a reoccurring thing on charter boats. Your provisions are really India standards just I mean it just happens you're in the islands It's just a way of life, and so you adapt you improvised you make it happen to good ones. The great ones make it happen and they don't. You don't alienate everybody else along the way. Who would you prefer to have in the Galley? A perfectionist shop who throws temper tantrums or an easy going chef who maybe has a little more difficulty with the job? I'm not. Big Temper tantrums. I don't go with that well. I'm more interested in somebody that can go with the flow that can adapt. And still get the job done. and. Just. Goes with the flow, you know you there's there's only so much you can do what you have to work with. Right Kiko is cheering at your answer he loves. Now I'm wondering as you're watching below Deck Med is there a crew member on the Wellington that you have your eyes on that? You think you know wow I you know I I wouldn't mind hiring that person they seem pretty good. Yeah I think. I think Alex would be a good choice and I think I think between it'd be between Allerton Kiko depending the thing I wondered about with Kiko and forgive me for interjecting sandy if I'm stepping over line here but. I just wondered if maybe he. was intimidated by. The whole grandeur in the scope of everything that. You have to do on a on a on a Giga Yacht. As opposed to what his normal routine wife on on smaller boats. because. Nothing nothing applies pressure like a mega. Right, yes. What do you say kids? That by the way Kiko, that was that was what Sandy's beef was she. She said, maybe you weren't ready for a mega yacht. What do you think? What can I say about like I was before the wedding too I was working forty, four meter and it was like a repeating bolt also, we have guests. which they're under like eight up to ten gassed and also. Real when we were refuting and nine Krill when we were just like us and I was cooking for about five months already in this bolt and everything was great like everybody loved the food and everybody locked love my job. So I felt like I was very prepared but then I joined the. I think the biggest mistake it was getting nervous to think about like what people would think about me about my job and then I got nervous and charge lose my mind you know. and. A lot of people say like, Oh, he don't you don't have the experience enough but I being worked for Martin than years a chef and I also pass through like Michelin Star restaurants in Brazil, and also while work on a boat seems like four years. So I was feeling very very, very ready but. The the energy unfortunately on kind of chef that I still working on on this that I go with my mood like if I feel very sad or very bad or on pressure sometimes, I cannot handle it that also then I go down and I go down very badly. But that's not should happen because s kept on San said to me once you leave your emotions on the on the cabin and come to the Galley and do your job. So that's was my biggest learn on this show you know like just come and do my job. Kiko do you were you what was your? You had to be very gratified after Your you departed the Wellington to see how much the fans were upset to see you go and they were rooting for you and crying along with you that had to be really gratifying for you. Know there was there was very, very nice and I never thought like that would happen in. Oh I. Thought people would me or say some fillet I don't know like say he's not great is horrible chef what am I going? How did you guys hardy sheriff you know and I was very scared and then from nothing people start to send me a message I could not even reply because was too much in say like you would never think that and then my mood went so high. I couldn't play on just have to say thank you so much because you guys made my ear like so great sheer. I'm so confident and I'm still cool king and yeah, it's great. That's great. That's awesome. I love hearing that. All right. Well, season eight below deck is GonNa hit dry land on November second but since I can't wait that long I'm going to try to get some splashes spoilers about the new season from captain, Lee. So Captain Lee, what's it like having back as boatswain? Gosh it was like deja Vu. Again. If it was great. It was great to have no, your face it it it worked I. Think because. He knew what he was getting in May. He didn't have to go through the trials and tribulations and getting accustomed to a new captain and I didn't have to go through the trials and tribulations of getting accustomed to her boss. So. April. Yeah how does how does the news to compare to Kate? management to go there Kate is always going to have a very, very sweet spot in my heart because we worked together for a long period of time and she was my right hand with nothing I couldn't delegate to. Kate. That I could just not pass it off and walk away from it that it was going to get done. And Tadao. Try and compare the both of them after just one season with with Francesca is. Is, not, being, fair, to print, Jessica. Will. We see any boat manses this season and if so do you feel positively or negatively about them? Boat manses are one of those things that you hope don't happen. With any degree of frequency always do. And you are powerless to prevent them. So you know it's going to happen and you're just hope that they work out for the best and when they go south. God. They go south so quickly and so bad. And sometimes you end up having to get rid of book. Oh. Possible, scary learn how does your new Shop Rachel compared to the other chefs you've had on below doubt I have to say that Rachel is probably Okay I'm just I'm just gonNA come out with. She's probably the best most. Knowledgeable Chef I've ever worked with a young. That's awesome. Okay. You grapple with Corona. Virus this season. What was it like being at sea during charter season when the pandemic hit I mean that had to be scary and surreal and While We didn't. We were really actually isolated andy from all of the stuff going on in the outside world. But We knew that something was happening out there where we didn't know exactly what because it didn't really affect us because. Basically were isolated once we leave the DOC. That, you're going to be hard pressed to catch garrone by recite. Yeah It's difficult. And on the other hand, if if somebody had it on the yacht, then everybody gets it. Very. Very possible. Absolutely. But we didn't. We didn't really realize this dirty of what was transpiring I. Guess The outside world will. Later, in the season. and that's really went. When did you start shooting captain Lee went what were around When did you start shooting the season? We started like middle of February and the. Yup like Ford Thirteenth something like that. Very thirteen. I know because I always Miss Marianne birthday and debts on Valentine's Day. So Never. At. Yeah now Captain Lee, in the trailer, it looks like you're screaming at a charter guest. That's true. Right or you are like ripping a charter that's a new one right? Yes. That's very true that that is a low deck that is not only a below deck I. That is the first in my career. Really never a church. Ever. Okay I have more viewer questions for you. Kiko. Sue K wants to know if you think your experience of getting fired on the show will help you become tougher chef in the kitchen going forward. Of course, of course that never happened with me before was the first time and it was on TV. It makes me grow so much deirdre Oh said if asked, how would you present a Vegas style dinner now? Now Okay I would go with a lot of like rhyme prime ribs. Shrimps and very nice like I mean very fancy stuff with caviar with smoked salmon like more like a top style and I'm big debut. Now, that's what I do. Okay. Will can I being? I being aimed Vegas. Tissue. Year. Actually just to see. What's going low perfect. Case Captain Lee Michelle g wants to know how you think Captain Glenn did in his first season of sailing yacht. Have you met him or gotten in touch with him at all? I have not met him but I was I was duly impressed with his performance I thought he I thought he handled things really really well, levelheaded calm. Collected I was very impressed with him. That's great. Also. One more. Kiko Adrian W wants to know what you thought of Robin. Jess. Is huge blowout in tonight's episode huge blow up in tonight's episode. Do you think he's doing the right thing taking the crossing job? It's hard to speak for him but I mean in my position in the beginning of a relationship and I have a person which already has see. It's jealous. I really love Jazz I really like her but if I see this jealousy. In the beginner already I would focusing my career and. Just go with the Bolt in Oh. Alright Brendan. Amazon. Snow. Kiko, do you think that Asia intentionally touched rob's Bot and do you think jess was overreacting when she confronted? Asia? Well, like what I saw, she was like just. Like holding in. Wasn't a space enough on the back. So I didn't see her grabbing, grabbing her his aso for me was a little bit react. Captain Lee Haley g wants to know your stance on hiring couples are you for it or against it? I I. Really. I'm not against it I like to see longevity if it's a couple that's been together and been in different votes together for extended period of time. But the the newbies that have been together on a boat maybe once before and it was for two weeks or two months doesn't really strike me as something that's going to be lasting. So I would tend to shy away from. Yes understood. Okay. It is time for Tak- Paul this stay in Bravo Story. Okay. This is a good one five years ago. Today I sat down for a one on one was Shannon and David Madore to discuss the rocky state of their marriage grab the nearest crystal and take a look. Shannon have you spoken to or confronted David's mistress I wanted to say certain things but I didn't and I said I, want my family back. And her response was. Case obsessed with me. He's like. Who wants to marry me one day he handed Stella, his wedding ring to said, give this to mother wanted anymore. Will you in love with this woman? I thought I, was in love with the material. Yes. How does that make you feel now? I guess a career in couples therapy is not in my future. There you go. My God is in our first virtual doorbell who isn't Just, a everybody how Kate's say I to Captain Lee High. Casually. Kate did to see you as always. US Oh God. This is amazing. I love you too together Kate I am loving Bravo's chat room and I can imagine that you have a lot of opinions about just right. I have a lot of opinions about everyone a below Deck Med but I wanNA wait until I talked to Porsche Hannah and Giselle on chat room. All right stay with US your case, six chip Bravo's chat rooms starts right now. Thanks as key called. Guys. Andy with captain, Lee and Kiko. I'm so excited about below deck premiering November second and we have our virtual audience. You guys look so great i. love it I like can I Can I talk to the CAN I talk to the two gay guys they're in acute together Jj can you bring them up? Fellas on my God are you lovers brother's? House Benny and Spends you look like? Close Thank you. From thank. Bro here we got. Are you guys big? Guys big below Dak fans. We are. Not Only, God? Well. You'll charter one time and Captain Lee will be your captain. I. Yeah. Alright great fellas. I just had to say Captain Lee. What are you drinking there a little vodka At my favorite glance. I. Love that. I love it. What rumor you in by the way Lee. I am in our family room, which is right off the pool. In South Florida and I. Very comfortable. Let's take some virtual audience questions Morgan as a question for captain. Lee. Captain. Lee. What's the biggest chef freakout you've seen on a boat in has anything ever top Tom's freak out this season The. Biggest one I'd ever experienced was with Dan? I think it was season two. and. Then had We we were just really ever tough time. And it was under a lot of pressure and things were not going well. I. Believe we are every bit of that footage. And Tom's. Breakdown worse I know. I couldn't understand. Why there is that much drama with what he had to deal with. I didn't. I couldn't see the catalysts they're. Right okay. We have an audience question for Kiko Christian. What's your question? Chris I. Feel about complaining about the debt crew for calling her sweetheart but she called them. Yeah that's hard. Well. I. Don't know like for example, English is on my first language. So maybe I would call a person sweet party for rely curb Just say some like this I. Think you need a little bit more infinity with the person and the more close to say that so. I would not like be mad like she was but. call her crew or should be honest between my Krill when we are very connect. We we make some jokes as well. Know by the nothing nothing seriously now. So I don't think that bad if you are very close to the person, but if you just mad the person for a couple of weeks can be trouble. Right Captain Lee. What would what do you think? What's your answer to that question? I thought that Honestly, I thought me dealt with it on her own. Is She. Had A problem with them calling her sweetheart. She should said hey guys. Don't appreciate it. Instead of. Dishing it after the Captain Sandy that I'm sure had bigger fish to. Fry? Captain Lee. We, Y L. wants of you. Can you believe Jackson is having a baby of you spoken to him since the news broker has he blocked you on twitter again. Now Jackson black men twitter again. I'm I'm excited for Jacks I. Think this might be a turning point for the guy and I'm I'm going to reach out to him soon I seriously am because. That's overdue When somebody that you have interaction with, is this having a baby and now? You should step up and say a mandatory, right. Very good. All right. Well, I want to thank both of you. Thanks for hanging out with us. Tonight for more click around Bravo TV, DOT COM, and don't forget to watch below decks season eight premiering on November. Second. 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Taylor Swift Xmas, Harry Styles Video + Celeb Conspiracy Corner

Chicks in the Office

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Taylor Swift Xmas, Harry Styles Video + Celeb Conspiracy Corner

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Go try if you haven't tried it yet. Definitely go try them test out the different flavors. Keep tagging us in your posts on twitter and your instagram stories because we love to re share them all right. Let's get in to today's episode friend. We do not have an interview on today's like we usually do every episode. Should we try to get an interview on there for you and usually it works out. I think that there's maybe one or two or three that we haven't really had one. Yeah on the days that we'd like so. Oh there's a reason why we have a story for you. We were supposed to interview a Michelle Wright of we were supposed to. It was scheduled for one twenty-five Wednesday Thursday. Today's Friday yes Thursday. One twenty five PM. We're going to be at serious and so obviously would when we you when sled breeze or whatever are doing interviews at serious that we book like they're doing a ton of other shows so they don't come to Barstool we'll go to serious. Their office office is located. Not where we are different place so you know we pack up our stuff. We go to serious ready to go but we got we not even a call. Well we we got a call like as we were walking out off the elevator being like. Are you guys there yet because Lee Michelle like wants to cancel a bunch of interviews and we were like we're already hearing right. Yeah we were already literally walking off the elevator just when we got that call. We walk in Leah. Michelle walks right past us. We see her she sees. He's us. Yeah and then. She goes and tells the people that serious that she doesn't want to do her last two interviews. She knows that we're here. She gets that were here and she knows that we showed up from a different place but but she wants us to go home. She doesn't want to do it. So you know what we had to pack our asses up and go right back to barstools board HQ because Liam faces cancelled right in our faces just stone cold heart from Michelle. Well she didn't and it was funny because like Sh. We didn't talk to her. We make eye contact with her blogs. You'd walk right past us but like the serious employees really you know like she knows that you guys were here like that but you know it wasn't the first interview so she cancelled. She cancelled other ones that day as well when she was at serious. So I just WANNA say look up Liam Michelle Diva Google. And then just get back to us That's it but we do have besides no interview. Thanks Michelle we have a new fun segment. Called the CELEB- conspiracy corner was going to be chicken. Corner was going to be celebrity conspiracy corner. Then Noah said CELEB- conspiracy corner. I just thought that it's about celebrities. And when we posted on twitter and instagram stuff people might be like oh celebrity conspiracy click by. They might not know just in case they don't follow chicks in the office. They might not know checks so I thought celebrity conspiracy corner and thanks to you guys. A bunch of people sent in so many great theories that I have now have been reading about. It didn't know about a lot of them. Yeah so thanks for that. Keep sending them into Chicks in the office you can. Dm Them Or D. M. US personally will read them But that will be later later on the show. We're going to put that towards the end because we have to get to the top you want to reveal who are first celebrity conspiracy corner is about sure I'll reveal actually no not going to reveal it. I'M GONNA make people go to the okay. So should I not right in the description okay. Well you'RE GONNA album. I'll tell them it's going to be aval Levine. And I know that many people probably know about the Levin Conspiracy Theory we have talked about on the show before and we talked about it but there were so many requests for this specific specific one. So I think didn't dive it's fun it's good starter. One I yeah because there are so many good ones that we just get this one out of the way because people are going to want to do do this and this is one that we know about you know we have talked about it before we have heard people talk about it before so I feel like to kick it off. We're familiar with this one. Hopefully as we go down the line with doing this people will tell us that we didn't even know about and then we'll have like Boko. Pope let takes way more research. This is one that we are familiar with. I think it's a good one. Yes kick it off. And they're like I said they're actually have been a few that I haven't seen before and I'm really interested in now and can't we talk about every single Monday so that will be later on in the show. But let's get in to the topics we have Taylor Swift's new Christmas song on Christmas Tree Farm Harry Styles released a new song and music. Video called Adore you. We go over our spotify wrapped and talk about the top music of the a year. snooky is retiring from MTV and Jersey Shore. Justin timberlake finally issued an apology for that drunk video with his co stars. And we we get into our first ever CELEB- conspiracy corner about Apple Levin. Let's get into it. Starting off with Taylor Swift. Is Chris Mystery Fong where the people would come to dance on Govan lights bundled up in the mid coast side of flow. Hello and night and is Taylor swift just released a new Christmas song called Christmas Tree Farm. I'm I'M GONNA listen to it. Live for the first time. This will be my even hurt Ya. Oh this'll be my live reaction. Okay because after the point of nounce building just truly delightful I was like I'm GonNa save leave it we can get the live. Yeah Yeah do you have it no nights and I love I stress holiday shopping trout at girls. My I am somewhere. Just lie madge. I I love it I love it just that one magic part Mahad. Is Chris Mr Wong whether people would come to dance on bundled up in the mid coast side and I just it is the long. Wow it's really really lovely. Oh my God how I almost teared up on my desk which I guarantee Aaron t is tears for you. The music video is just old home video of Taylor Swift at her house on the Christmas tree farm. She's all bundled up up playing in the snow. There's a clip of her getting a guitar on Christmas morning opening it. She's like a little baby babies in the snow or just so cute they just fumble. They don't know where they're going going. And the whole the whole video is just is just adorable. She was such a cute little baby too gene blonde curly hair and I I got emotional watching it so I mean I would imagine that it would be tears for you. Yeah I sure have you got even a little bit emotional than I am like my gosh watching it like I was like. Oh my God this is so sweet. Why am I like about to cry and I was like Oh God raise gonna Cry Washington? I have to watch out after. I'll definitely cry. Love home videos of home videos. It's very sweet. You know her mom dad her brother like it's all I'm getting a little teary eyed. Now that you're the song and the song to in the back it's yeah. Don't don't hate matter this but this Christmas song. Better than donors post Christmas Song. That's fair. Donate me for it but listening to you. That's your I'm hanging excited to say. Oh No oh I kinda I kinda like that. I'm not going to like. I thought that was like a very catchy song. Yeah it is. Yeah but I could see myself listening to the Taylor Swift one mistletoe. ooh It's it's very it's very like homie. I don't know what it is about that. This Taylor Song is just like a warm hog. I like like the beat. Drop the words like when she says magic and it does feel like magic and then the song lifts your mood. I felt my spirit lifting out of my body at that point. Yeah what is your favorite Christmas Song. What a loaded question but just name just no but okay okay? I'll know that you can't name just one day just want. Everyone has multiple favorites. But I say favorite Christmas on your phone I need to look at my options. No options the first one that comes to your mind favorite Christmas song POPs in my mind. I want for Christmas. Is You Mariah Carey US see. That's a good one though. That's a very classic that hasn't I one in my first one comes to my mind is simply having a wonderful Christmastime. Paul McCartney yeah I like the beginning of that one that one just really gets me. Yeah I start to go through threw. It wonder means to me. That's a good one. I have a shocking number springsteen. Santa Claus is coming to town is also it calls. I mean that is that one is also fantastic. I there look at you. I don't know it's tough. You know what I also love the Faith Hill. Where are you Christmas from the grinch that one is really love that sat one? It's my heart a little bit. Oh you know it's sad and so it's like you get sad listening to a faith hill's vocal on that is so good. It's just what I picture a little. Oh Cindy Lou who around sal. Keller Mommsen Taylor MOMS in who you know Josh Crowbar. Elsa also has a lot of great Christmas songs. But then it's like you know I also just song wise white. Christmas is also one of my favorites. I don't care who sing in it. It's not artist favorite right but like just actual song probably less anybody sing way Christmas dots Dan Taylor Swift. Actually we talked about this before but Taylor Swift Christmas songs that came out in two thousand seven a very long time ago. was just like six songs. But now like Burgess jumping back into the Christmas game and it was interesting posted a video on her social. That was like I just wrote a Christmas song and I don't want to wait another year to put this this out because normally Christmas songs have already come out by now. It's already December and she asked her cats if she should release it. And you know cats Her cats act like cats. And they're like as you do as you as cats do and as you ask your cats whether or not you should release a song Taylor Swift. I know that people get annoyed by the cat thing but every time she talks her cats. It makes me laugh. I don't know why her cavs crack me up. I think our cats are so funny. They're just like he will mean humans. Can I admit something to you You know I hate cats right. Yeah Yeah and I'm allergic to them. I've been wanting a cat's like a little kitty a little kitty kitty. I mean you adjust not allergies. No one on. That's non allergenic like if I can hypoallergenic kitten exist. I think that they do though somewhere right. If I could find one that was you might have to get a naked cat hypo out or toll right. 'cause my dog exists. Yeah Yeah Yeah. My wife in terror growing up. She was high-power our Jank. Also what are the best hygienic Capris for people with allergies. They do have some furry kitty yet are a non Allard. Yeah hypoallergenic servers. Let me tell you. As far as caf-sco these ones are not as cute as you can't get the big furry one although Siberian cats this is the problem having a moderately long coat but it's still hypoallergenic. Due to the lower than average enzyme levels in their saliva. Now that's a big fluffy cat. I can get down with that one but I don't want my cat to grow. That's the CDC then you have have a problem. This is the problem. I'm having right like I can't. The cat has to be hypoallergenic. And I want a small little kitty. That will just stay that size K Marco cat the head coach of and I don't want that one. Yeah you could get the hairless cat. No those are ugly and scary sorry to offend you. If have you have hairless cats ugly though but I just feel like I want a little kitty. That's going to stay. Small can cuddle because realistically I could get a really really small dog and that would be great. But I don't feel responsible enough to take care of a dog at this point in my life. I don't think that my cousin genuinely don't think that I could do like I. I don't know I'm being very real about that. That's very mature of you. Don't have the time. Don't have the responsibility for that. No cats though. You don't really need to do much. They're a little bit lower maintenance. Yes that's true my I don't WanNa cap. That's GONNA be big so for forget that yes my cousins have a dog doc. That lives in their apartment in Manhattan. That I I can't even tell you what kind of dog it is. But she's this big like I'd all that you can't see the she's two pounds like maybe three Max she is. We joked that she's like the size of a Gerbil like she is a ridiculously small dog dog. which is something more manageable especially when you live in an apartment you KUSC? Sometimes you feel bad having a bigger dog and apartment but regardless unless I just want something that will cut up to be A. Yeah besides Hank Yeah like I want little like little furry thing take take like put. I've always wanted to talk but they're illegal hank in one of your fluffy jackets and don't you tall. I do that anyway sometimes. He's just too tall like curl up into you know I want. I know my chest a little bit you know. I don't know why been strange strange for me to be wanting like an animal's love and comfort. I just really want Louis big cat I want something. We've ha you have at your whole life when when you grow up with a dog in your house so like when you feel like you know you've been living on your own for long enough where you start to miss. I'm missing it because for so long I since two two thousand four I had a little dog running around now. I have no animals to play with. What were we talking about? Oh Taylor Swift's I do. I really do laugh every time I see them. I don't know why they make me laugh when she talks to them. It makes me laugh. I know it's like one of the things that she does. I still laugh. You know and she put out the song long and I'm glad she put it out and didn't wait a year to put it out metoo screws. I really like mystery farm. Have you been listening to Christmas musically. Oh yeah my acres was playlist has been on shuffle. Are You gonNA decorate. No I. We're like we're GonNa the away And then by the time we come home like we only have a couple more days in the city before everybody goes home so I think it would be kind of tough to do. I also don't have like any natural light in my apartment really took a fake tree. Yeah I could fake Trie but I'm a real tree person so I've never had a fake cherry. You've never had a victory and my boyfriend. They got a huge tree for his apartment. Real real and I'm now I'm just like wage aging myself onto that was fine. It got a real tree. They had Christmas music on. They put it into the apartment. We haven't decorated yet We were waiting waiting for it to follow them. We're going to put lights and they have to order a tree skirt. It's GonNa. It's GonNa look lovely so I'm they can do it at their apartment. I like the tree would actually just die in two seconds. Or you're gonNA fake one once let's go you don't WanNa fake one that you could just use that as your basically your apartment anyway not really but you stay. There isn't enough to enjoy the tree I can. I can put up a couple ornaments and you can go to special one one one Fran ornament on the tree. You guys decorating so you just Kinda convinced me to not decorate. It'd be here. Yeah we had planned to goes weekend like Hank was like. Oh we should go this weekend. Yeah decorate decorate tomorrow onto. You should do it because then you'd have plenty of time. I can't this weekend so that's like well. We weren't doing it tomorrow but now that I'm I'm thinking about it and I'm like I could not and then I could just let me tell you something. I'm regretting not doing it. Because I went with Joe just to the store like grab a couple of things the tree and it put me in the best mood just like grabbing lights. I'm like oh she would get this ocean. We get this like it makes you. It really brings a joy. Okay so I'm saying if you just even get like a wreath and maybe a couple lights and put it up. You'll it will make you feel great. Yeah we did decorate last year and I felt great about. Yeah maybe a few lights in a wreath and let me just not the full tree. That's what I'm thinking about. Just the you get like just like a little baby. Fake wine put put it in there. Yeah just the spice but during Christmas time right get some lights get some maybe figurines or something a little. I don't know hangs. Bob sent us some decorations into lovely. Aw this this is the new Harry. Style Song called Adore you. He has a new music video out as well. The music video. I would describe some sort of short story. There's a lot underlying messages in their short film right We could start off with the most common one. I've been seeing adore. You in the music video takes place at a place called Adora. Yeah and that's just door backwards. Yeah so good on you. Harry rebels really creative and the narration is by Rosaria. Yes which I in. Her voice is just so amazed if you're into S. Mr Listen To her W magazine Asmar. Oh video because it was really good she was she didn't even want to really talk about Like her life and and do all of that usually that's what the Asmar they go through all of the things they've done yeah career-wise she just was really focused on the summer and it was really good so if you like s Marta. Yeah so she. So she narrates the video. Harry Harry is A. They're on like this weird island. There's all these different traits of the islanders. And there's all these funky things going on and and you know they say it's always dark and it's kind of like a very dreary place it seems like Harry has is an oddball oddball. Because when he smiles glows nobody else smiles and so he feels super lonely. He's Lost Hewlett. Yes he goes and and he walks into the sea like he has stones in his pocket. You you know what's what's going on. And he sees this fish that flopped onto to a rock and he saves the fish puts back in the ocean. Then the fish flops. Right back off and it goes into a little cartoon of like the fish also not having a place can't finding not not finding other fish doesn't fit in anywhere under the sea. So Harry Takes Fish. They go home together. the fish grows up gets bigger. It's it's very cutie singing to for this fish. It sounds so bizarre if you haven't watched so then he sings to the fish and but it's it's really sweet and I also think it's a nice a spin from what you're used to seeing you know. Usually Harry styles could have just gone another girl to be in the music played the part of girl who say they. Yeah on but I think it's unique because he tells ashore dory with a fish and it's just different but it's real cool video. The visuals are really really cool. And the song itself. I love like I can't wait to see Harry Stein am going to cry. I think I don't. I don't know although excited. They only been ready. I don't know if my body is ready to experience. Harris Siles live in person. I hope you're ready to listen to nothing but that album the entire entire day until we go to the show around like I I need to be able to sing all the words all the songs before we go to the show. That's a great point because we don't WanNa be sitting there. No not knowing the words because Nice sucks when you go to a concert and you can't sing along and you're just yeah bop into Yuppie and obviously we know the ones that have come out but you know now adore. You was just come out in the next. Friday will be when all of the whole album drops so yeah. We'll have to definitely study study up in those time that we have. But I mean it's going to be fantastic. We're going to take a nice drive on the Pacific Coast highway. Yeah and just blast Harry styles mainly because I've never been on the Pacific Coast highway and I really gotTA check it out. Yeah is that okay with you know the PCH I love the PCH. Okay good because God now i God this time either so last time when we were in. La If you guys remember we got into a fight with no about his driving. He's driving skills like so many life of like. Oh you're bad driver and then it just turned into like Oh wait. You're like me like like it was has like turned into Okay this is kind of funny and then it was like okay like you're actually making really bad driving the show right but listen. I don't want to drive. No don't WanNA drive now now. It looks like driving but I think it to be fair if we have now a drive and Jerry's right Camisole okay. But if there are instances where we almost die like class time. Yeah we are not allowed to yell at him like we did last time. We're not allowed to yell with him. We could scoff week ago but we can't. I'm sorry stress me more. I'm sorry we can't wait. So if known is in the middle of an intersection action. And we're about to get hit like I. I'm not just scoffing. It's just not going to happen. There were multiple times where we legit almost blood. Those as we were like rushing to get somewhere to we. We don't have anywhere to be the way you does like the directions and you tell me. Yeah I was looking down on my right right. I'm a good navigator. I'll I can do directions. Yeah maybe Zik can do direct. Well See Fran hates my music but I was playing lying here so so she just fucked me over. I'm definitely thrown in some other ones in there. Okay I won't. I won't throw anything who drastic for you. We all I mean I also have to prepare for rolling loud true. That's a great point gravy Asep Rocky for Francis. Yeah you gotTa Deal Harry Styles Tophariaki combined shake shaking your hand right now. I'll sit in the back seat this time around too because last time I sat in the front. Maybe I wasn't the best navigator. Yeah maybe I did did sit in the backseat for older. You get the front. I wanted to say something else. Oh Oh back to Harry styles for a second okay. So what's was also very interesting about all this. Is that like all of his other. One Direction. Members are all like everybody drama music at the same time Nile had a new song come out Liam had a new album. Came out and Louis has new music. I don't know if it's out yet or if it's coming out but Louis also as new music I think he had a single come out recently. To what am I saying he did. I listened into yesterday and right now so you know this is it's Friday right now. Hashtag Liam Payne is over. Party is the number two trending topic in the United States because of a song on his album that is called both ways and and first of all anytime there is like a Popstar is over party everybody jumps in to promote their artists right. So it's like this all started because people are saying that Liam Payne song both ways is over. sexualize is bisexual and bisexual women. And it's like a weird fetish song and people are being people are speaking about it on twitter. They don't like it. They think it's creepy. Lot of by women are speaking on it that they don't like I've seen I've seen go both ways. Some some. Don't care some really care but what happens out especially with one direction because the one direction stands are wild. They just jump in and they're like anyway Harry Stott like anyway. Stand Harry Styles. Because Superman unproblematic above above and they just put Hashtag. Pain is over party Sharon. It was stupid. She said Khumalo make my birthday is celebrated celebrate like Oh my Gosh. He likes the crazy thing is that he also said this was his favorite song on the album. Which also like Alright Leo? Now you're just so it's tough because he the song people are like okay. He's talking about an experience he had. He has always been in his his own music fairly sexual with his songs. Like this is an experience. He said three some whatever but then a lot of a lot of other people like well look at these lyrics like Oh you were young and stupid like what what is what kind of message is this sending like Oh my girls hotter because you hooks up with breath. She wants to hook up with other people and anyway it's been problematic. Twitter is been going off on it tyler. Oakley Oakley obviously a huge YouTube star. Everybody most people know Tyler Oakley's he he got into it with one direction sands years ago because Liam had tweeted tweeted about supporting one of the guys from Duck Dynasty. Like who knows one saying that he. He tweeted that he liked respected his family values and all this that and the other thing when in in reality that man. His family had a history of homophobic comments. And things like that and Tyler Oakley was like done with Liam Payne after that and so once this you know obviously blow up today tyler. Oakley tweeted on his own account. Like let me find it because it was funny bitch. I warned Y'all years ago L. Mayo. How shag Liam Payne is over party? There's been a lot of things that Liam said right the the Like when he said about Yeah Kid. He wouldn't want Harry styles to babysit his kid because then he would his kid would be wearing something. He doesn't understand whatever that means. When you mean you won't understand handed right? You're saying you didn't understand how Harry like. He just dressed that way because he wanted to drive he likes. He likes what he was wearing. Yeah I think he covered up to he was right and not just like come out with the Dolls Golf Katya he tried to cover up. That was a fairly insensitive remark about like. Oh you wouldn't understand if your kid wanted to wear other close than what you're accustomed to right. And he basically was like blowing himself up by saying oh I understand IT I. I wouldn't let my kid where what he wants to wear. Because like what if his kid did WANNA wear what Harry styles was wearing exactly. So it's crazy it's like wow this is all going on everybody's talking about a door use of the Harry styled stands going against the Leeann pains. Dan's in the Louis stands are just kind of all in between and it's crazy up in one direction erection twitter right now crazy. It's crazy in one direction twitter but we know where our heart lies and L. Every close out moving on in getting a not the same it seems to we have huge Jersey shore news because it seems like Snooky is stepping away from Jersey Shore. 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Big A big announcement from Jersey Shore. Snooky she is retiring from Jersey Shore. She said on her podcast that came out on Friday. She he said I am retiring from Jersey Shore. I'M NOT COMING BACK FOR JERSEY shore season four if there is one the main reasons main reason is. I just can't do it anymore. Literally leaving my kids film is really hard to me. I try and quit every single day. I just hate being away from the kids. I don't like partying like three days in a row is just not my life anymore. I want to be home with the kids. So so that that's it obviously the rest of season three or whatever it is that's coming out in the New Year is all already films so I actually saying if there's anything past that she's he's out. I respect the decision made from snooky. Meanwhile it does make me sad to think that if there is a New Jersey shore that she won't be in it. I do enjoy watching Jersey shore family vacation when I see it on TV. I think it's still pretty funny and kind of entertaining to see where they're at now. especially I think more like the MIC stuff is entertaining. And they're all focused on that. Yeah but snooky is a huge a staple to MTV into Jersey Shore. So I think it's sad but I think think that for the time being I think this is good for her family and it makes her husband and her kids you can be watching your mom get drunk on. TV vehicle. She right. She's tired of having to be the CIA character. She's gotTa be drinking. He's got to go out. She's got to do this when it is still been her role. Sort of like Ronnie has his drama. Mike was in prison Jenny Guy Divorce. There's all these other the things going on like in their and their personal lives that are huge is still like a mom of three. And you know there's not that family drama element they are so she just is like. I don't want to do this poor. She said that she said that. The show lately is just been like too much. I trauma she said. I'm putting myself out there and I just want to come off as a good person lately on the show is just been very drama for me. I don't want that. I'm not leaving my kids days on end film this show when that's the result of it I don't like the turn out of it and I don't like the person being portrayed as if I'm doing a reality show I just wanted to be fun and lighthearted and lately it's not like that and the show. I was getting so dramatic which is pretty fair. I think she realizes like the drama is what makes good TV or good reality show so I'm sure. MTV wants to wants them to keep the drama but she's just like I want to have fun with my friends and like beyond TV. I don't WANNA be fighting with everybody off and I think it makes sense what she said when she's being taken away from her kids because she has to film but she doesn't even like the final result of his hat around baby like you know in the last year like she's she's not spending time with her kids what she wants to do then she seeing what's being filmed hates that so overall it's kind of a miserable experience I feel like for her which she'll be happier just being with our kids. I'm sure she's got plenty any of money now for BEM. TV She doesn't have to work. Too Much Yasser Store. She has her line. She could work on math she she will always be. We'll be close with all them. It's like it's they're not going going anywhere. The one thing I won't be able to make fun of how far statefarm anymore Loves watching that show and just being like what the fuck is. This is ridiculous. Show those tattoos and made no sense that she's retiring from MTV. In general. I think all she did she say all of reality TV. Maybe who knows. That'd be interesting. I think that she'll probably make do other right but I think that if she wants to Jersey shore four I think we'll take a break from other things and maybe she'll appear in Jersey shore Later on like she'll come back for an episode or so we're we're hanging knows even an do fool even knows if they'll do for I feel like once one goes the rest will probably follow you know especially when it's snooky. I Feel Alex. Then J.. J. Watt GonNa WanNa do it if he's not doing it and then the girls kind of falls apart and it's like are you know it's one like all of them are none of them. You know as how I feel about besides the right choice. That was a legal eagles this weekend good. TV Court of law decision but he D- exactly like even that they were all so sad that he was gone. It was like the whole show every time he was gone they all felt like they were missing a piece when Mike was in there so I don't know how they will do the show without snooky they were just talking about how snuck. He's not there right they. They can't keep using people not being on the show to make episodes about the show exactly so it is what it is. We say goodbye snooky. Yeah what let's think. Got Some of the best moments. Obviously when she's looking for the beach and the beach is right there. Yeah not when she gets punched in the face that was watched old episodes of Jersey shore and a very long time. Like I don't I don't I I. It's all very blurry to me really like Jersey shores just engraved in my brain for when I see it. I'm like Oh yeah double like off off the top of my head. I'm like yeah I haven't watched old episodes in so long. She some very funny drunk escapades on family vacation. Just most of still being wasted Ashley serving remember. Oh what's he lost a ring that something. That was something. Well I guess that's why she's This is I'm done with this focus on her family. That's good yeah. Being being on that show like requires alcohol. Aw they they have to drink. Get to the point where it's like Mike Sober Y- but like once again prisoner. The whole thing changed his whole story he likes nookie that's still part of her quote unquote character. You know we can't have every Jersey shore member being like I'm getting yeah becomes a Jersey shore problem that it's like what what are they gonNa do on the show so much of the show revolves on them going out and whatnot. So we'll see what happens. We'll see if there's a next season. Yeah I kind of feel like this could in the beginning of the end for Family Vacation Cassia Soden owns walking on the beach. Country says wrestling awesome beatty amazed. I know okay. We finally got an apology from from Justin Timberlake. He posted on Instagram A few nights ago because of the video that we talked about the drunk video with his co stars Nothing too serious went on. And besides you know the the flirty hand touching and him just being too sloppy drunk not really appropriate when you are married and yeah you have a kid and I'll read it quickly. He said stay away from gossip as much as I can but for my family I feel. It is important to address recent rumors that are hurting the people I love a few weeks ago. I displayed a strong lapse in judgment. But let me be clear. Nothing happened between me and my co star drank way too much that night and I regret my behaviour I should have known better. This is not the example I want to set for for my son. I apologize to my amazing wife and family for putting them through such an embarrassing situation and I am focused on being the best husband and father I can be. This was not that I I am incredibly proud to be working on Palmer looking forward to continuing to make this movie and excited for people to see it so I've been seeing both reactions to WHO Justin Timberlake. Yeah personally I don't think this is something to like get divorced over or anything like that. I think that this is definitely just like a bump in the road. He definitely acted inappropriately. His wife He was wasted. And this is not setting a good example for his kid. Like you said and it's just not respectful Ethel to Jessica because he has a wife and we're not saying I'm not saying you can't get drunk because you want to drink drink drunk when you're married and your with somebody you can't be acting sloppy like that conscious of those decisions. So if Jessica forgives him naked move on from this and work work on it and hopefully Justin doesn't make these mistakes going forward. I forgive Justin Timberlake. I'm not GONNA be like. Oh no how could you do that. I'm never am never gonNA like Justin Timberlake. Blake ever again after he did that. Listen everybody has drunk nights but when you're married you can't be doing this I. I'm a little skeptical about it. Just because I feel like when this stuff happens only only like there have been rumors about J. T. here and there about what's you know a C- that scholars like so it's like you know me and there's room there's in blinds about him many times see now now wait around that orange ask bill so like when there's a little instance like that I'm like this just adds the fire for those binds so right all right maybe I'm just being no but I don't think so. I think it's very fair. Thank God he clearly fucked up he is going to have to figure it out. And like they're it's it's you would think that because this is actually a public thing and whatever's if whatever other things that happened in the past is never come out publicly to to this level so we think that hopefully after this kind of public embarrassment and blow out he would reign it in right and I think that this is all between between Jessica and Jason. What Jessica feels but I think it does raise? The question of this was all caught on video right. What's not being caught on video because he didn't think there were cameras on him? I'm sure there are plenty of times where he's out where he doesn't think there's cameras on him and there's not. Yeah so what's happening when there aren't cameras around and I'm still Y.. P. brought up a good point too. He was like who's sitting across the room. This whole time with like a camera filming for like who knows how long it's it's honestly a huge violation of privacy and I think that's where I'm on Justin Timberlake size real person they sold it was just Paparazzi or videos definitely sold to. I think the Daily Mail put it out. I Say I'm sure they would pay big money for this but I think that that is where arm on Justin Timberlake side. Where even though the way he was acting was sloppy and Hansie and just disrespectful to his wife and family being being filmed for that long time can make I mean he didn't know he's being filmed but that's just incredibly uncomfortable? Oh just incredibly uncomfortable and also doubting wasted imagine getting footage of you blackout drunk not an extended period of time. Anybody would be like. Oh my God I'm not saying you would be like Hansie with anybody. Acting stupid and looking slot is embarrassing. Definitely but I'm sure they will move on and be okay but it's interesting buzz like when this movie comes out we're GONNA be like. Oh Damn that's that's what that girl. Maybe we should go see right or like. Are they playing a couple pulling the movie. Yeah I have no idea they are. We'll see what the chemistry's like right exactly. That's very true. It maybe how you yeah all right. Everyone thank you for tagging us. Can your top spotify podcasts. And we both see I use spotify and apple music or go back and forth but Meaning I use my sister's logging for spotify and she locked me out of it so now I can't get back into to see what my most listened to on. spotify was but we both did our apple one so I have a question now when it comes to that would your spotify numbers be you and your sister combined then like like if you use the same account we use the same account to it would just be like it wouldn't be true to your. Yeah your your would be you in a coma. It would be both of us mix. Yeah we listen to a lot of the same music. I don't think it would be too far off on because we do like to share music and listen to a lot of music so I think that it would been pretty spot on but I'm locked out so I can't see but we use apple an apple. Unlike what people think. They think that they can't see their top. Yeah Arby's can you. Replay just is not as cool looking. It's it's definitely not as aesthetically pleasing at all and you don't get as much info. Oh also apple music. I guess technically it hasn't been around as long as spotify so like they don't you just don't have as much like spotify. You're doing artists the decade and all that we can do that. 'cause my apple music thing was like you can look back at your reply. playlists for the from two thousand sixteen was like the earliest one. But you could see like what what are top artists. Were and whatnot. I've realized that I just don't really listen to so as much music as I thought I did and what I do listen to. I just listened to over and over and over again like my numbers were just so low when it came to like variety but just just not shocking. How many artists did you listen to? Throughout the year. Thirty something Yeah Mine was mine was thirty nine. Yeah which I thought. I couldn't decide at that was low or or a lot. My album was albums was forty one so my top artists were Jones brothers. The Taylor Swift Maggie Rogers Mayor Morris and the Riverdale cast cracker. Asked my top. I love how the Riverdale cast like as a whole tops or does five like I said. I listened to the same stuff on repeat so like when Maggie Rogers album came out. I listened to that on repeat when mayor and Morrison's album came out. I listen to that and repeat when happiness begins came out. I listened to that on repeat and so Louis funny because my top albums us were happiness begins lover. And then the Riverdale cast heather's episode then the rocket man soundtrack and I was telling I was just like I think that's like one a TV show or movie musical. Whatever comes out and I like it that I I I listened to it? Like the rocket man soundtrack. I listened to so much the it's funny because the Riverdale one is just one song like I listened to seventeen from from the heather's episode of Riverdale like so many times clearly that it cracked my top albums and top artists. So I feel like that happens often though with seventeen. Listen to it so many times right but I feel like that. Obviously a lot of people where you think. Thank God it's crazy. I'm listening to this one over and over and over again but I caught myself on the subway today listening to one song four times in a row because the first three times I was like I didn't listen to it. Yeah I didn't pay attention to it enough. Your top bars all wrap my top Not all rap because beyond say was but mostly it was drake conde sap rocky three Connie's rocky Lil Wayne and Beyond down which I feel like was pretty on. What was your number one album? My number one album was the homecoming live album from Castillo on brand for the both of us like you hyped. I remember when that came out and you just could not talk about anything else for so long so it really they just make sense and we don't even we don't use spotify but everybody who listens to the podcast on spotify amazing fell. I felt so loved by everybody tying us and that it was it was so great and we saw all of them. I know it's hard because you can't reshare because people get so annoyed when you do that a lot but Really it was so so oh so nice it was so nice to see also because we always think that people just listened on itunes. Yeah wherever they kind of got about spotify and it was really great to see how people people are listening on spot. I personally listening to podcasts on spotify then lots of people do it right so I think that Sorry what it was going to say. I just lost Trivia Party and it just so sorry. Sorry sorry because I wasn't paying attention clearly because on the radio but yes because we are so used to people listening on itunes. We don't really think about on spotify but we had so many people have said we can't obviously share every single one because what we saw on on follow us but we saw them and we love you guys and it. It was just really cool to see because you see all these famous singers and whatnot Posting people tagging adding them and then people are taking us. Yeah people are actually adding to it was. It was very very cool billy. Bush was the top artist of now. You're on apple and her. My my number one song was bad guy bill by billy eyelash but she wasn't in my top five artists interesting. which was I thought was interesting but when you have more usurped this is our land and she was right? There was some there is there is one that I was Kinda confused about too but I mean all my top songs for Josh by their songs and then one one mackey. Roger songcraft cracked top ten one. I was upset about. was that the Jonas brothers album. Didn't even crack my top five which I found shocking. I am surprised by. I am shocked because I definitely listened to write the Jonas brothers album more than I listened to lover but lover was my three album. We also don't know how. Oh and how this is like gathered right is it is one when in the top albums. Is it like when you play the album start to finish counters once or is it like just from playing one on song from the album. I don't think it's playing one song because I think billy eyelashes album would have been my number one because the song was number one love was number three and then the baby's new album album with my second one which doesn't make any sense whatsoever. Leave your phone on by accident. I played over and a promise you that I I have no idea. Why share it with your family? No no I have no idea why. His album is my second listen to album. But he's not even in in my top five artists. I listened to a SAP rockies testing album way more. This year didn't even come out this year and I listened to way more than I did his album. So I'm a little confused and I know people always complain about how like when these things come out. Everybody posted on Instagram Story. Their top artists. Whatever and people are like nobody cares? There's like I'm like seeing it I it does bother me. I like seeing what other people are. Listening to. People are listen the same thing as me or somebody and I'm like Oh my God I don't know a a single person on that list like it's also like when people I agree with you because it's also when people post pictures of songs they're listening to like some people hate that I like it. I I to listen to the sign Charlotte Lawrence who. I'm sure you've heard. I've never really listened to her music before. Besides when I saw people posting about her and now I listened to her music music so I feel like it's good because it gives you more people to listen to that you usually wouldn't or Libya O'Brien I discovered on instagram. I listened to her. Music announce good so I think that people like when people post there so I guess I guess maybe we'll have to make the move to having our own spotify edify counts Like I feel like we. I feel like it's probably very rare that the two of us both of us don't have her own spot Butko I I've just been lazy with it. I have been using my sister's for so while I'm now I like I tunes days like I just I. I like spotify better. I know but you just use your sister. I just like sisters I I was. I always use I. I never changed the spotify and then when it got to the point where like everybody was using spotify was almost out of spite that I was like. Nah I'm still I'm still sticking tunes. Whatever but then when apple music came out I was like perfect? Now aren't after which spotify looks the same. The everything's still on my music music album iphone like I don't have to use a whole different APP. I know that sounds so dumb but spotify it was dark black green. Yeah it was like I don't know I don't like this is dark so I just stayed. Thank you think it was that simple. I just didn't like how dark it was which sounds so dumb but not a dark person on your. I'm not I'm not either. I use it for twitter when you could just do twitter like now you can turn your whole phone too dark mode and I use it for twitter for a while. I did not like it. I don't like people shame you for that but I'm just like why would I league Dr. It's dark it's sad. I don't know I me. They say it's better for your for your point. We're fucked anyway with her. Yeah yeah there's no exact going back but yeah that's I mean I'm sure people listening. We'll probably make fun of two for on how for not using spotify but just know that I do. I do feel left out. There are a lot of times when people post songs listening to on their grip store on spotify. And it's like plants spotify and I'm like I can't even click that you know what I do. See People we'll post songs on like. Wow I want to listen I gotta go up music type in the artist. It's a whole thing but I think now we should try to finally make make the jump to spotify shine upset because I had a playlist on my sister's spotify that I made that she would also listen to because she likes. Yeah because I I would find rap songs that she would like and then go into my playlist and then it was a surprise to renew a new song. You could still share playlists right like we thank. You have your own account. Hopefully I can transfer the playlist and then my account Definitely or you can just when you make your own. You can go to write her spotify. Just advocating Taylor adding ultra record. Add the price. Okay I have to go through a separate the players because I have my rap playlist and I have a shower playlist. Hey listen I have a working out play. Let's even though I don't work out but there's like fun songs on there and there's an old these one. Yeah so there's a lot of different ones. Yeah I think I can definitely. Yeah then Oh you definitely just just added I. I'll think about it. I'm I'm on some weird family sharing apple music. I don't know what it is. We're all attached to like one APP. We we all have our own apple music but it's like a glove our own account but it's all I don't know it's it's weird Like even if I get rid of it I think I'm still on it. You complicated over I think. Yeah it's a whole re they that's what they do. You know what those they lock in apple really knows how to lock you in so maybe one day. 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It's our new segment where we will be giving you all the details about the best celebrity conspiracy theories out on the Internet. We are going to start with Avenue Levin Jonah the best yeah one of the best ones We're GONNA do this every single Monday. So sent in all of your theories. We're going to really research each one dive into it right from the beginning. So we're going to do that now. Starting with abl Levin. Yeah okay so to lay this out right. Tell the bay. The overall theory the overall theory is that Aber Ever Levin is dead yes and has been dead law in two thousand three and she was replaced by actress name. Melissa van Della yes and Melissa the has just been living as eveline since her album. Under my skin yeah. So that's the general theory. That's that's the theory that's like if you ever hear people say I mean it's because this theory has gone viral on social media like multiple times during different years sometimes you never know when it pops up again and and it makes a big resurgence. The there is a big one in twenty seventeen one twitter account which I tried to find the end. That's the order Countess. Either doesn't exist or like twitter white account suspended at Geelong she asks and what a great twitter. She asked her what she asks so so class. Yeah they had a whole thread into seventeen gobs viral. It had like one hundred twenty eight thousand retweets a really blow up. And that's like what I think. Put It on the scene nationally. Everybody really start talking about it. I mean before that too because there was this blog averill is dead. It's from a Brasilia fan website. I think it was great and in two thousand eleven it was created in two thousand eleven and although some sites I was looking at said that this theory has started has started as far back as thousand five with fans saying this who knows but the blog the original blog that like stemmed more of the theory. Mary was this guy a person who knows in Tesla and to be clear. You cannot read it unless you can put it in Google translate. You can put it in Google translate which I did. Not What do yeah but you can do that but if you go to other articles they'll just explain it for you right. which is what we did? Yes I've looked I actually have it up on my I haven't upping on Google translate right now. It's it's you can read it like it makes sense but it's obviously tough because it was originally ridgely rain and Portuguese but the original website is Admiral Boorda dot blogs about Taco of dont`a really really went in on on on the whole thing now. This all started when they think that's admiral. Had Her debut. Her massive album LECCO came out in two thousand two. She was like Punk Rock. Eighteen years old candidate Canadian and it absolutely blew up huge skater. Boy You know the whole complicated hit songs. Just put some of those absolute bankers in research and that she was young and the fame hitter fast and she fell into a depression and she didn't like the spotlight so that her record label hired an actress. Melissa Vendela who looked like her to kind of sub in for her Paparazzi shots events as she didn't want to go to whatever and they said engine has three because of the oppression that she ended up killing herself right and the label didn't want this come out. Didn't want everybody to know because she was so doing so well career that they've just got Melissa Vendela to take over as rotate right and now Melissa van de la. If you look Melissa Van de la up you will only result of Avalon. Because there's no wreck no trace of this being being a real person. There's no records of her. There's absolutely nothing juris. Yes and you would think like if you were an actress there would be some kind of maybe like an IMDB. He be paid. I mean from Barcelona IMDB pages. I think that if she had ever worked day in her life she would have something like that. But I mean yeah maybe it was all wiped who knows host. Who knows? This is why we're diving into this. So apparently Melissa makes her entrance. Admiral has now passed away. She's not alive and then averill under my skin comes out in two thousand four. That's the next album in this album. There were multiple songs one being slipped away where people think that she was hinting into Transitioning into Melissa. I didn't think this was good. Support to the theory whatsoever but yet the lyrics to me seemed seemed like they were just lyrics. That you would sing about maybe like a boy. Slipping away your finger what I think. The more compelling evidence to me has always been like the appearance stuff and that you know rice. Because she's a she's a like a punk rock singer you I don't like all all our lyrics are fairly angsty weekend. That's kind of ties in with her persona but people love pointing joining at Putting different lyrics even from her album seven like they were. There's people even thought my happy ending was about right. This is well the one slipped away. Wayward they think this supports. The theory is crazy to me. The lyrics are now. You're gone now you're gone there you go there you go somewhere. I can't bring can you back now. You're gone now. You're gone. Yeah that could be about literally leading so I think that that's kind of part of this theory but then there there have been differences. That people pointed out in what she looks like so when she first made her appearance on the scene I've Levin dressed very punk rock. She wore pants do not wear skirts. She knitwear dresses. Her hair was always straight party down the middle in front of her face. Yeah yeah kind of like you know when you would you can sometimes put your hair behind your back and then sometimes put in front of you. It was always in front of her and then after all of this change she started wearing wearing dresses started wearing skirts. Her hair wavy not really partying it the same way which I think is kind of just like evolution of yourself in some cases. uh-huh you adapt different styles. But the way that Levine went from super like punk rock and angsty to all of a sudden. She's singing about. Hey you I don't like your girlfriend and being obsessed with. Hello Kitty. It was different it was it was a it. Seemed like a very drastic change. So there is that there's also people were looking at the album inserts like for the CD's like when they would have pictures of handwritten lyrics and things like that. They said their handwriting really changed that from let go she a different kind handwriting than her autograph. Also changes to sign her name one way and then after two thousand and three or signature her autograph look look different the height thing people were like she. She was listed so apparently apparently Google has a five one have you ever Levin site but allegedly in two thousand and two. If you googled her it was five two. Yes that is the one that it kind of freaks me out. Although it's one inch just like I say I'm five four but then sometimes I say I'm five three because if you measured me I'm probably more two five three. No it's kind of a confusing thing with height although you don't shrink unless you're right I think that's just a common thing I feel like you normally don't unless you're getting older. There were also people. People pointed out differences in the nose differences in her eyes shape. And then there were like beauty marks on her on her face and arms that weren't appearing in other pictures to me the knows it looks different in some pictures and then looks the same and other pictures in the eye shape. Like maybe me really freaks me out though because so there was so this vid- X.. On Youtube has posted all these different comparisons of admiral then Averell now whatever or and the one aware there was from her. Wish you were here video in two thousand eleven. They were saying that it almost looked like two different admirals in the video at one point. She's in bathtub in almost looks like they used to different levels because in one version of her there is like the inside of her. I forget the name. The scientific term foreign like you know the inside corner of your eye one like a kind of win in downward and then the other averell several it kind of just stuck straight out and kind of like didn't have any downward motion out. Like how do you change that right. Because I what I was going to say was now this day and age were so used to people changing their face and right not due to like Botox and fillers. And if you don't have to get plastic surgery to change your face nowadays I could it just inject something and it changes but this was in two thousand two and two thousand three like was a young Levin changing her face back then with fillers and plastic classic surgery. I know Obviously the height one. And that's all of the things that are support this theory besides sides our Levin being confronted about this a few times one of them being on the Kyle and Jackie O show which was fairly recently maybe not two thousand thousand nine hundred ninety. It was a lot at the beginning of the year. Doing Press. Okay She November eight th two thousand eighteen so go into as in February of this year she also also had some statements about it right so in this one. We have the clip. We'll play it. Did you laugh at the rumors that went around way. You no longer exist in these a clone clone of you so you died when there's a klaren pretending to be your mental. Some people think that I'm not a real me which is so weird like like. Why would they even think that all right eight? You can't remember. It's something we'd even when I was looking at the article. Nicole the big conspiracy theory. I'm like chew want. Maybe they're right conspiracy theory and he gets sucked into it because it costs so much evidence not real that one of conspiracy theories is probably the mice fof edged down to me when she says like. Oh why would they think that. That's so weird eardley. Yeah Yeah I just feel like if there was a conspiracy theory about me out there about somebody about me dying and somebody replacing me. I would be way more blind I'm like mind blown I'd like. Oh my God this is ridiculous how funny is I would talk about it more but it seems like every time it's brought up to her maybe ask really talk on it like it kind of freaks. Her out I think which I understand but at the same time. And who knows. Because I'm not as big as a slow we're not even close to ever Levin but I feel like you your reaction would be a little more different right. You would be like laugh about it. You talk about it. A little more indepth depth. I can't tell what my reaction would be though because I don't know if I would also like I can't tell if I would go that route or I would just think in my head like this is ridiculous. I'm not even ain't gonNA give it the time of day like I don't want to talk about how like I didn't kill myself in two thousand three. You Know Right I. It's just hard for me to decide. On what how I would feel about this because I understand what you're saying. Same thing happened with Paul McCartney and he laughed it off so see but I like that I like that he did off. Yeah because I think also like not that Averill Levin is odd but I feel like she's always been a fairly elusive assistive celebrity which kind of plays into the theory. He hasn't really been slain mark. And then they're you know she took a break for music education back and it's like who knows what's what's going on. She married the guy from nickelback. I forgot my most important fact my the one that I believe the most leads to this being true a she did a photo shoot with the name Melissa written on her head right. So have you look up our Levin Melissa on hand this comes up wherever levin is posing using with the name Melissa on sharpy written on her hand is a weird. Why does she have the name Eliza written on her hand where where does that come from or maybe she they own about this for so long and just was like leaving an Easter egg for people or did the guy who made this originally? We see this picture and think Melissa. That's the name I'm going to use and just created this character Mussa vendela I made this whole theory up because he saw his picture is from. Yeah because I'm trying to think like timeline. Wise of when this really became such a public feary. There's also a lot of videos on youtube to if you look that compares her voice. They say that her first album album let go was was she sounded different. That like the the new averill after Melissa took over was more of a soprano and and that like even in interviews and stuff her pitch kind of when she was talking with change. So yeah but that also is like if you listen to Britney Spears appears totally different and she'd sounds different now but even when she was younger on the Mickey Mouse Club. Yeah if you listened to her voice she sounded. It was much more like an adult when she was way younger because she sang how she would saying. I think the industry and whatever made her singing this sexy lower were voice. Yeah and it changed your voice a little bit so I feel like that is a common thing with singers. I mean Arianna Guerande. She changed her voice for Victoria and Sam and cat so I feel feel like you can change your voice and then the so like you said like we talked about it on the Radio Show in February of twenty nine thousand nine she also told e w that it was just a dumb Internet rumor. She was flabbergasted that people bought into it and that she looks exactly the same. She thinks she looks exactly the same so that was another time that she addressed it. There was another tweet. That's Kinda went viral but it definitely got some recognition in two thousand seventeen the twitter account at only models with Z.. At the end took a screen shot of her mother's Day Post like she had tweeted that Mother's Day a Happy Mother's Day to my incredible mother. Everyone else's mom out there. And then this twitter account posted a screen shot of a text from who knows who like she could have wrote it herself but light. It was maybe a friend who knows who's who claims to live on the same street as her mom and you know some small town in Ontario Canada Canada and she wrote. She remembers here. She or who. I don't know who it is. There was no name it was just a screen shot of a text that they that they remember having a paper route and he or she or whoever was had asked Abbas mom about her daughter and that she he got very emotional and said that she misses her a lot and that they don't talk much anymore and so that that stemmed more replies people trying to find like photos of averill and her mom and like where their pictures from before two thousand three or after two thousand three like what kind of relationship they have so it it really it goes. It goes deep. That part is creepy to me. This goes deep but to end each and also truly this girl I could've of just typed this message in her phone and posted it. Because there's no like zero crowded credible source in this exactly so I feel like to end each of these segments. We should decide whether or not we're in on this conspiracy theory or Ya I think that I am not in on this conspiracy. The theory and I listened. There are some that. I've been now researching that I M on. I am not in on this one. I thought I was originally when this first came out I was like. Oh my God that must be so true so true but now doing a deeper dive into it and really going back and forth. I'm like okay. This is a reach and Dan to sum it up the guy who created the original blog then posted a post about it. Yeah and guys averill is not dead. I did this to. Who showed you how far Internet rumors can spread how much you can believe it? I mean it worked because this is never going away admiral post with Melissa never going away. I will always wonder who Melissa Vendela is. If this is real person if there are any Melissa Vandellas in the world out there that are thought to be involved in this. It's you're right like I think when we first heard about it was insane and you get caught like watching these as youtube videos. Where they're like? Look at this frankl compared to that freckle. We're like. Oh my God I called the shrunk one centimeter but I saw very funny tweet when I was looking through all this stuff to that was like you know everybody right now is doing the at the beginning of the decade and at the end of the decade tweets. And it's like you know two different pictures. Somebody somebody who did Taylor swift at the beginning of the decade and tell us up at the end of the decade and the first one was like her teen vogue cover from whatever nine thousand ten and it looks so different than how she looks now tells of the end of the decade. They use her British vogue cover and somebody every tweet it and wrote Avera- Levin Inverse. Melissa Vanda Vandal. So it just made me laugh. 'CAUSE I was like it's so true like if you look at those Taylor's folk tales of covers like you know this looks different or is look different. Her nose looks different everything looks different roaches. Just what happens especially in Hollywood who knows whatever Levin could have done to her face like maybe maybe she did get a nose job. Maybe she did right do this that and the maybe the pressures of fame were making her WanNa change your face yell and maybe she worked on. Yeah yeah maybe two thousand three. She just got a lot of work done. Yeah we'll settle on that. I look inside. I think so. This is one that is it's enjoyable because it's like a what the fog and every time you hear Melissa Vandellas name. It makes me laugh. 'cause you're the real after Levine. But he I'm with you. This one doesn't quite white. Get me as as some others. 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Lessons From a Sociopath

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Lessons From a Sociopath

"Support for this episode comes from lexus. What emotion fits in the palm of your hand. Can you wield the power of gravity. What does exhilaration sound like. Only lexus asks questions like these because they believe the most amazing machines art inspired by machines. They're inspired by you. Not only has lexus. Ask these questions. They've answered them. Discover the answers at lexus dot com slash curiosity lexus. Experience amazing. i was teaching swimming lessons. You know like in my late teens or early. Twenty s and there was a baby possum in the pool. And i thought yeah i could get him out but if i get them out you know he's gonna turn on me is he. Not and so. I just think it's better to kill this awesome. The woman has voice. You're hearing has been diagnosed as a sociopath her name where she lives. We won't learn those things today. I just did what i thought. Was you know safest for me or like most expedient right so i try to drown by like turning a hose on him you know i try for like you know five seven minutes or something and fail you know the animal keep surviving. I'm not able to drown. So then i just you know say okay i don't care i'll just cancel the lessons for today and i'll just go to the beach or whatever instead it's easy for me. Honestly it's easy not to let things affect me emotionally. I'm sarah and this is sincerely ex from ted. The show where we hear stories from anonymous people and give light to ideas we might never hear otherwise. I kind of had like a scale of one to ten sociopath Like the most extreme person is attend. You know somebody who's not functional in society at all. I would say that. I'm about an eight. I'm not so extreme you know. I'm pretty functional in society. I've worked as a professional all of my adult life. I enjoy music. I have a really close relationship with my family. Loves small children. I love to eat at chick fillet. That's my favorite restaurant. These are more of the kind of obvious things that you'll see if you interact with me. You know like maybe you. You'd understand that. I'm i'm pretty educated. You know that i. Am you know relatively intelligent. But as you kind of like deal with me. I think most people would understand that. There's something a little bit off when you hear the word. Sociopaths what is your first thought is at that. Sociopaths are ruthless killers heartless manipulators. They live on the outskirts of society. Those are pretty common instincts. In this episode our guest invites us to think about sociopathic differently. We explore the stigma and stereotypes surrounding her condition and learn how our understanding of sociopathic people affects the way they're able to contribute to society. I wanted to kind of begin with the assumption that someone listening to our conversation perhaps knows absolutely nothing about sociopath. -i so Would you mind telling me how you would describe it to someone. So the characteristics are probably the big ones are low empathy or a lack of empathy. And that's like affective empathy. That's like. I don't feel if somebody else's feeling sad i also feel sad and then Another one it's related is lack of guilt. Guilt requires you Number one having self concept you know like You know. I am this type of person and then you have violated that self concept. So that's that's kind of the third thing is that all personality disorders have in. Sociopath is a personality disorder personality disorders. Have some sort of disorder with the personality right. The person's sense of identity or their sense of self for the sociopath. I think of it as like more like a persona the same way you know. Maybe a politician or a tv personality might have a persona that they present to the world and they know that that's how they put their perceived although they don't necessarily identify with that persona but they you know the difference between them and me is when they go home maybe they feel like they're different person and i just never feel like i'm any sort of person at all. Just have this feeling that you know all the time really. I'm i'm wearing masks. And because she feels that she's wearing a mask all the time she's functioning in the world by mirroring how people react or what they do in different situations. Not because it's a choice. She made for herself. Normal people make choices based on their sense of self primarily. You know like why. Why did you be honest. Or why did you choose the tell a lie. It's probably because you either have a sense that you are an honest person or sense that you're like an opportunistic person who who likes to lie you know and get away with it. I'm curious about the sense of self How does the having a lack of sense of self for A disconnect between the way the world sees you and who you feel yourself to be How does that play out in like a practical way in somebody's life. I think everybody Understands that to a certain extent inhabit has experienced that to a certain extent. Everyone wears clothes that they don't wanna wear you know that they're uncomfortable. But that's that's what's expected of them for whatever reason in that particular context where everybody feels like. They're making some concessions were they're not being their true self all the time. And then i guess just the differences like a sociopath You know they don't have any sort of means of self expression really because they don't have a sense of the self to express but it's worse because it's like Because you don't have a self to express you never really push back ever on the world to a normal person is like enough is enough. You know. I'm mark sweatpants today. You know to work right or whatever it is so there there. You know the lack of sincerity to at all. I think actually You know makes Sociopaths tend to be pretty skeptical of people other people of the world of You know the whole social construct kind of think you know like everything's pretty meaningless. I think it seems kind of absurdist to them So i mean they're they're i think they're further disconnected from the rest of people and the rest of the world Because the whole thing kind of seems like meaningless life seems meaningless. when when. That's kind of like all that you're doing. Let's talk a little bit about your timeline. So is there a moment when you started to notice that something was different about you and what was it. You were noticing and what was going on for you at that time. i think i understood Even when i was a small child that i was different. You know the thing. I noticed i is how often people are irrational. And i was able to see like in my like little like three four or five years. Old probably i was able to notice right away my classmates that they were frequently irrational that it was kind of easy to protect their irrationality. And that you could kind of like You know manipulate them to be irrational if you wanted them to be very not maybe talk them down if you didn't want him to be i think that was The thing that i noticed. I in terms of being different from other people is how How subject to their emotions people are and i think that that's still stay the same. It's always been the same. In fact when i was little i was like watching one of these like Tv shows Where there's some kid or parents who lost a kid or something and everybody's crying. And i made some kind of like smart aleck remark about like. They're ugly crying right. They're ugly crying on tv. And i said something about like how bad they look or something and my dad was like. Have you know empathy. And i was like. I don't even know what the word empathy is. But i guess i don't. That was the moment you learn about empathy. And you're like okay. This is the thing. I don't have that someone's telling me i'm supposed to and did you. Then start to figure out how to perform empathy instead. I mean yeah. I i guess i didn't really understand what empathy was. I was like eight or nine. I think i understood. Okay you know if. I say things this way in these type was circumstances that i get a negative reaction so i at least learned that there was like something else being expected of me and then i have tried or maybe you know in trying pretended to be more sympathetic. I think too sad situations than i would. otherwise be. Go to your best friend's mom's funeral or something and you know at least where black i'm super good about you know like the part you know like you know. Look like i'm taking it seriously right. Because i i mean i do take it seriously but i'm not going have the emotional reaction or i'm not gonna have the empathy or the other things that you expect from a normal person. It's fascinating to me because it's like if i'm meeting someone who is from a different culture and or from different religion. I would do the research ahead of time to know. You know kind of standard things that would be appropriate and inappropriate. So that when i show up at their house doing anything that would offend them. And i'm you know playing by the rules of a culture that i'm not necessarily a part of but want to be respectful of and kinda sounds like that's what you're doing. Is that you you recognize that. This is somebody else's culture of empathy. But you can be respectful of it even though it doesn't mean anything to you exactly. Yeah the people who go to a jewish wedding and put it on a yarmulke. They're not believers right but they do it out of respect. You're not you don't believe in the underlying principles but you're willing to do this because that's the thing that's expected of you you know. I can put myself in somebody else's shoes and be like okay. Yeah you know having a mom died would be. You know some very terrible thing you know it would change almost every aspect of your life. It seems like you know for decades into the future. You know and i could see how people would be very upset about it right. I can feel or not feel. I can understand all those things one year. In a summer internship. Our guest had a lot of conversations with a colleague and from those conversations. Her colleagues suggested she may want to consider the possibility that she's a sociopath. Now for our guest. This is the first time she thought the word sociopath might apply to her years after the internship. She started having trouble at work and problems in her relationships. She took a sabbatical to focus on herself really to learn more about herself and eventually she sought out a diagnosis. I think for me Sought out the diagnosis more as a confirmation of things that i had already known. Were true you know like. I think that's all sociopaths i have met are self aware. They may not know. The word. sociopath applies to them. They may not understand what the word sociopath means but they would recognize it. You know when they see it right. I think that's a common characteristic for me. I was interested because i was like. It was such a different kind of life trajectory that i was kind of contemplating taking that. I thought well. I wanna be really sure that this is. What's really going on. But i think you know that's probably like common from associated pass. Is that they. They know what they are. Even if they don't know the label once they've learned the label most of the time they don't want to change right away most of the time their life is going probably find enough but eventually maybe they're gonna hit a point where they're like. You know i. I basically keep doing the same stuff over and again you know. I keep cycling through the same behaviors and through the same patterns and maybe they want a little disruption for for nothing else maybe just for the variety you know for the novelty of it. So what are your thoughts about empathy in general i. I have a lot of thoughts about empathy. You know like especially living without empathy able to see a little bit more. Clearly what empathy does and what it doesn't do. It's like you rely on empathy instead of relying on like your ability to reason for instance you know you could just have a set of ethics right. You could just be a utilitarian est or you could be whatever it is and just say i'm going to do the right thing because it's for the greatest good But most people don't go even through that thought process. They just do things when they feel that the thing is right and they don't do things when they feel. The thing is wrong because rather than thinking rationally about things. We've everybody's learned to kind of go with their gut in so when we go to kind of like discuss it with somebody who has a different idea about something that's right or wrong also coming from their place of empathy. There's just no common ground there because people haven't gone through the trouble of identifying. What is the rational basis for the things that they choose to do. The things that they think are good. I mean i think that people think that sociopaths irrational probably when actually it's the opposite they're hyper rational you know like they. They don't have the emotions kind of clouding. I don't wanna see clouding their judgment. A little bit even though the Sociopath is grandiose. I would say they don't have same sorts of at say ego hurt that normal people. Do that can really trigger person. You know kind of this gut punch you know sucker punch like where it hits you where like all of your insecurities are right. Because the sociopath doesn't have that sense of identity they don't have those insecurities so that never happens right. That's like That's high emotional. Reactivity in sociopaths have very low emotional reactivity. I have to think you know mob mentality is empathy related because sociopaths are immune to it it says if you know like the electrical currents going through and we're just not conductor doesn't like continue. That has no effect on us so she passed. Tend to be very open. I think people could. Everybody could benefit from being a little bit more open to thinking you know when something happens not just go with your initial emotional reaction but kind of think through it a little bit more. I'm curious because my limited understanding of sociopaths of course but my understanding is that sociopaths often have a pretty inflated sense of self or a a pretty good ego and that does not lend itself. Naturally i don't think towards like an openness to self-improvement and or a willingness to try therapy and or a willingness to believe that a therapist is going to be able to offer them something that they can't figure out on their own. This is also pretty common. I found is that Sociopaths have had some interaction with the psychological community. You know either. The had a therapist. You know one or two therapists. Even i think the attitude in the psychological community is that sociopaths are on treatable so i think sociopaths are kind of aware of that. It's not just the that they don't wanna get better is that there is no promise or hope of getting better. You know even if they wanted to. Do you. Think that both the social public reaction to says the apathy and also the reaction within the psychological community is different from what it is to other personality. Disorders like how have you experienced that. I don't think that social passer. The only people with stigma. But i do think yes. Sociopaths do have the the worst mainly of the stigma. I think partly because of You know the way that the diagnostic Credit has evolved has focused on the criminal population. You know like it's not true that most soci- passer criminal and in fact it's the opposite. The vast majority of sociopaths are not criminal. they're out there being successful. They're they're doing various things but they're not allowed to really kind of disclose to anybody who they are. What do you think that. Sociopaths can teach on sociopaths. i think they're couple things. You know like sociopaths. The fact that they don't care what other people think you know. I think that's really freeing. I wish that everybody could more like that. You know. I don't think that fear fear of what other people think should be the reason why we choose to do the things that we choose to do. You know. Sociopaths regularly shy away from confrontation. You know it's not something that bothers them and it doesn't hurt you because you don't register pain based on people disliking you Yes that's probably a really good way to put it in. I don't know why that is but like a lot of people have said that's like the sociopaths superpower is to not care what other people think of them then. I don't care if people like don't like me basically Why was it important to you to talk with us today. I think it's important to me primarily because you know this is like This is a true misunderstanding. That people have an. It's it's making everything worse. you know. Sociopaths have it worse because of this misunderstanding because of the stigma but does society have it worse. Because we're not doing the things like early intervention or getting people treatment to where like they wouldn't be causing problems or the lack of understanding leads to associate sociopaths. Having to wear a mask and then people normal people don't like that because it seems like they're getting defrauded you know. It seems like they're getting tricked all the time. But it's like very this catch twenty two situation. Where as long as there's like this kind of base misunderstanding about what it means to be a sociopath. Nothing's going to get better right. It's going to keep kind of perpetuating itself we're gonna have like very limited sorts of solutions that are available to us. So i see that as an issue for myself for the larger community. And i think especially i have like now tons double digits nephews and nieces in each one of them are also different. Some of them are so emotional and so empathetic and some of them are Are more like me right. You know sometimes especially the The ones that are more like me can rub people the wrong way. You know even like my own family members and how. He's tried to tell them. Hey we need to show them what is so great about love. So they'll care about it and care about us like if we don't show them what's so great about this thing then obviously they're not gonna care. They're not going to care about us. They're not gonna care about like it's up to us to kind of do this. And that's the sort of like type stuff that i want to be like broader to be more available to them so they don't have to kind of go through the same things that i did in a moment. Speak with an expert on empathy about its benefits its limits and whether we should try to feel it for people like our guest even when they can't feel for us i'm sarah mrs sincerely axe We've been speaking with a woman who's been diagnosed as a sociopath who believes that non. Sociopaths have a lot to learn from sociopaths. She gave me permission to share our conversation. With jim meals sake. The director of the social neuroscience lab at stanford university for the past fifteen years. Jimmy has studied empathy in particular. Why some people are more empathic than others and how we can help people empathize in more effective ways. He even wrote a book on it. The war for kindness building empathy in a fractured world. Empathy is often seen as a good thing. I wanted to hear meals take on. Empathy is empathy objectively good or. Is there research that suggests empathy is more or less useful in different situations as a scientist. I'm not pro. empathy or against empathy. Right empathy is just a thing. It's just part of our minds as part of our lives. In many cases it has tangible and palpable benefits. Right helps people Form the most important connections in their lives and keep those connections strong. It helps people work together. A helps us help each other. Right empathic individuals more likely to donate to charity or volunteer than those who have less empathy and it decreases are stereotypes. When we empathize with someone from another group we oftentimes feel more openness towards the rest of that group. So it's a good thing in those ways but there are real risks as well. I burn out is so prevalent among people who work in the face of others suffering all the time and likewise when we empathize super strongly with our own group that can actually make us feel more hostile or threatened by or even violent towards Threats to that group whether they're real or imagined and that's sometimes what you know. Sort of extremism amounts to not a sociopath ethic lack of care for outsiders but rather an almost unhinged level of care for insiders for the people in our tribe and a willingness to do anything on their behalf. how does empathy and emotion relate or interact with rationality and decision making. I think a lot of people are of the opinion that those are anti thiokol I think one of the biggest crankiest stereotypes about human psychology is this sort of split between reason and passion. That idea within psychology has collapsed in particular. We now know that emotion and reason work with not against each other and that goes both ways so gut. Instincts is sort of our emotional intuitions often help us make better decisions more efficiently and in ways that help us in the long run and also rationality can help us. Choose our emotions right. We exert lots of control over what we feel. And as a result can tune what we feel in ways that we deem healthy or useful in the moment so the idea that we can learn to be more empathetic how there are lots of experiences That caused people to be more empathic. Some of them happen by accident right. So for instance Ironically experiencing trauma right sort of experiencing a lot of hardship in one's life it turns out that in many cases individuals who suffer trauma actually grow through that. Now you know. I don't think that people would want to experience trauma on purpose simply to make themselves kinder but there are also ways that we can practice empathy. one dramatic study that came out of germany a couple of years ago. used a technique known as loving kindness so people practiced this sort of meditation. Where they i try to focus their goodwill and compassion I on themselves that on someone they care about then on a stranger than at a difficult person who they might not Automatically like and Scan their brains before and after they practice this meditation and they found that parts of their brain associate with empathy grew in volume as a result of this practice. Suggesting that you work at it you cannot change yourself. Psychologically yourself physically so let's turn to our guest for a second Speaking i guess just generally at first. What was your reaction to this conversation that you got to hear you know. I think that She made a point that really resonated with me which is that people sociopath and psychopathy antisocial personality disorder. They're the last ones to get empathy. Not only the last ones to feel it we as a society. I think somehow feel okay. Stigmatizing them in writing them off their viewed as hopeless and that's unfair and unjust and it likely perpetuates difficulties adjusting to society so i thought that her perspective and clarity really helped break that barrier. You know something that. I thought was really amazing. Was that she talked about. Says the apathy in a way that felt like it was advantageous. And that non zero pat this because they are bogged down by empathy and emotion and fear have a disadvantage to sociopaths. Who don't have that baggage. I'm curious what your responses to that idea It was so fascinating to hear her talking about that. Because there's actually all sorts of evolutionary theories about this right. There's the idea that in a society or group were most people are empathic. Somebody who get a cavalier manner uses that entire system only for their own benefit without any regard for other people's well-being will win. They can cheat their way to the top by depending on the empathy and cordiality of strangers. But there's a big caveat to that perspective from evolutionary theory. Which is that that only works if the number of people who are Cheaters or a sociopath is far outnumbered by the number of people who are not right so one cheater in a world. Full of empathize irs will do great from an outcome oriented standard but an entire group. That's made up of only cheaters. Will collapse right. So she's right in at one level but not necessarily a stable strategy for whole group of people to adopt you know talking about the connection between emotions and decision making and how they're not in separate places and how they are connected to each other. Our guest kind of talked about how a problem that she sees is that people engage in conflict. Or disagreements often led by their emotions and that there isn't enough of a rational basis for our beliefs and sociopaths are outcome driven beings and perhaps those of us who are not. Sociopaths would be better off if we engaged with our ideas and each other's in a more rational and less emotional way. Do you think that we should be trying to think. More rationally about things like beliefs and values. Yeah i really feel of. The distinction between rationality and emotion is misleading. I suppose i prefer the term awareness. I think it's good for us to be aware of where the decisions we're making are coming from. What's driving them. And whether we're happy with the way that our decisions are coming about. But i think that when people say they're being rational. They often just become less curious about why they're making the decisions they're making or just basically decide that they must have made the right choice because they were rational i think there's evidence that rationality is in no way a bulletproof vest against bias or even violence to me. I keep picturing like people thinking that this is a see-saw and on one side is emotion and the other is rationality and if you are sitting heavy on the rationality it means. You don't have anything on the emotions and if you're sitting heavy on the emotions it means you're rationality is in the air. That just isn't actually an accurate Understanding of it at all so i. I love the understanding that you've given me. Which is that just because someone Doesn't have access to their emotions in the way that we do that doesn't mean that they're rationality is higher. That's i love that metaphor. That's exactly that's exactly right. That's the stereotype that we have and it's the one that we would be. Well served to let go. So i want to return to the idea. That empathy is a practice that can be learned and can be developed. Is that still true for people like our guest who have a diagnosed personality disorder like what about people who have says he apathy in particular. Can they still develop their empathy. Yeah there's some evidence that people with psychopathy sociopathic. Ken work at empathy. It's hard work for them. It's harder work for them than it is for people without those conditions but it's not impossible My friend christian keyser's He's a neuroscientist in the netherlands and he actually found that You know in in most people's brains. There's this mirroring process where the parts of your brain that would come online when you experience pain also come online when you see someone else. Experience pain in essence at a physiological level. It appears as though you feel their pain christian found that that was not true of people with psychopathy but if he if he asked them to think really hard about what that person was feeling and try to imagine being in their shoes their brains sort of came online in the way that the brains of non psychopaths did right so they almost in essence. We're able to manually turn up an empathic. Processed for the rest of us is more automatic. i only have one more question for you. Which is our guest. Talks a lot about making sure. She goes through the motions of showing that she cares about people in her life. Even if she doesn't actually empathize with what they're feeling so the example she gives his. If she goes to a funeral she knows to wear black and to be somber and she made the comparison to like going to a jewish wedding and wearing a yarmulke. Even though. you're not a believer. Do you think it's possible to become more empathetic by performing these kinds of rituals of care. Wow that's that's an amazing question that afraid. I don't have a great answer to. I mean i. I loved the comparison to inter cultural exchange. Right to thinking that really. You know people who experienced the world through different lenses whether those lenses have to do with the cultures that they're part of or their psychological makeup that they can interact in fruitful ways without seeing the world's identically. One place that that's really been successful is the neuro diversity. Movement right people with autism and asperger's See the world differently than than people who are in quotes neuro typical. Who don't have those conditions end and you know. Part of the diversity movement is understanding how people who are neuro typical and those who are not can interact productively together and i felt as though the guest was sort of gesturing in that direction for associated as well right and saying that. Hey you know. We don't have to be exactly alike to get along. We just have to respect each other's norms and cultures and experiences. And i thought it was actually quite moving That she would know to practice. Empathic behaviors even if she wasn't feeling them. The question as to whether you can sort of fake it until you become it is an open one but to me. I already saw that as victory. I would find it so respectful and so powerful that she was just trying even if it was just a performance. If someone doesn't feel can you feel for them. i think that's a question that we need to answer positively. We need to learn to understand that just because someone doesn't share our experience doesn't mean that they're not worthwhile that they can't be part of our culture and when we invite people with psychopathy insists the apathy take part in our culture. Then yes. I think that they'll be more able to find ways to do so and we don't have to try to sort of fit them into the exact mold of feeling other people's emotions and caring about what other people feel but we can work together to find ways for them to be more integrated. So what is it that you want listeners. To take away from your experience and also this conversation you know i. Don't i say this often. I don't ever mean to whitewash pass. I don't mean to say that they're better or worse than anybody else It's just that they're different. And the kind of misconceptions that we have about them though are i. Think the main source of the problems. You know everybody's different but we have learned to kind of Except in accommodate so many differences. I guess i'm just trying to say. Can we learn to accept an accommodate. Just one more just one more different type of mind. Sincerely acts as produced by magnificent noise for ted. Our production staff includes kim peterse nor was was destory sibley. Eva was over and chloe. Shasha with the help of angela. Chang janet lee michelle quint jesse baker and colin house. Our fact checker is lorena. Avila's trujillo this episode was mixed and sound designed by kristen. Muller our executive producer. Is eric. newsham if you or someone you know has a story you think should be shared anonymously with others. Please let us know at ted dot com slash sincerely ex. I'm sarah k and this is sincerely.

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42: Monday, March 11th, 2019 with Zach Weinreb

The Morning Toast

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42: Monday, March 11th, 2019 with Zach Weinreb

"Mames on toast, Maine's on the toes. Hey, good morning. Good morning. Maim lines'll. Welcome to the show. This is monumental the morning names takeover the morning takeover with the man who came with the name. Good morning millennials before he is. It was shot about aliens coming down to earth pretending to fit in. My my ten cents. It's a good living. How do you feel being here we done podcast before? But means is never been live in studio. And I'm freaking out feels good feels right? It feels right? It has been and you know, I I never really like want to ask you because I know you're busy, man. But today just felt like the day. You know, it was Akio has come in on the toaster still love having wedding questions for us. And I just wanted to couples with someone that I love. Because you couldn't find anyone else to ghost. Yes. It was that. But also was just like I would rather be means than like meeting someone else say for the first time, especially for the first show back. We took a nice long break much needed for me. Personally. I think I gained a pound a day ever since I left the show. So I must look way different than two weeks ago. But it's good. We're just newlyweds. Thinks means no never tells you about the newlywed fifteen you know, and it's not even doesn't even have an in a year. It happens the month after your wedding forty eight hours. Yeah. But what else, you know, as long as we shut it for the wedding, that's one accounts. So now we have a little starting today. Guys. Watch Ben stories like today starts the real Kito season. Call Mark in Denmark, is that what it starts for you today to feels right? You know, it really is like Monday the Monday, it's the first Monday in March anyways. So how's everyone been we've been great? We weren't Utah skiing eating watching movies. It was just really nice time. What did you think Utah's? Great. And I love being with the fam- so much fun. It was so much fun. Everyone was asking like retaking many moon by now we've abandoned the mini moon that was many moon. And I mean, we're we're not taking like a mini moon. But we are planning our honeymoon in the fall because we can't go anywhere anytime soon, we have to work you have to work. We gotta get ready. We got financially pay for the mini mid the money one. So that's right. You never the two. Well, we're going to call a few weeks romantic weekend, upstate New York. So maybe that will be our minimum. Maybe maybe I'm calling finally asked me like come to state in the Leme nine event as a notable along which I mean, I'm so honored. But also like it's about time. You know, we'll took him so long. I don't know. But the toast is coming up on its one year anniversary anniversary. Anniversary which is exciting. Big times. What's the date, April ninth? Yeah. Crazy walking up in a year year this big year for us marriage. How does it feel being a husband? How does it feel wearing a wedding ring? Feels really good. I like I like jewelry. This is nice. It is not right. And makes you really just look so mature does. And now I have so much ring swag for girl girl with no jewelry. I got some swag. Now. Swaggie hands looks great. Thank you. Thank you for getting this for me. Anyways. We have such a great show for you today. Because not only are we going with stories that you need to know for you wake up and take a bite out of your morning toast. But we're also going to recap all of the things that we did all the movies that we watch all the TV shows that we watch. And then we have a ton of questions for me. So we will get to them. Remember to look at it. You don't have to this isn't the office. It's very conversation. And that's and that's normal. And just you feels natural to you. You know, it's very laid back show. Take your shoes off take your clothes off. Without further ado, here are the fast type stories that you need to know for wake up and take a bite out of your morning toast. Okay. I'm so used to doing it with my own voice. The big news of the weekend. Everyone J lo and Iran Aren gauged j rod is tying the knot. She said, yes. A rod announced on Instagram captioning. A photo of the massive engagement ring on Saturday night jaylo posted the same photo with many heart emojis and the reps a Rod's rip confirmed. The good news to page six. Okay. I'm so happy. They're getting married because now when I say j rod just talking about them at as a couple opposed. It's hard to say J lo A rod. I always say J Ehlo Jaber before they needed to be. Yeah. We'll now they're like a couple now, they're symbiotic. It's like now how we're Zach. Yo every was always calling us that Jackson's actor. That's our name Jackson Zaki, you know, it's confusing true. And now, I don't know if Jlo's going on about Europe party, and if she needs a hashtag, but I suggest J lo no good L vegan. It's amazing what our wedding. Has done for the world of love. Right. You know, just people pop the question. I know I mean, our wedding has sparked like a lot of just romance in the air. There were some cute hookups at the wedding. Some people have gone on dates, but then recently, your best friend just got engaged to Billy. And I just feel like wedding billion Taylor mazal tov like, weddings. Have that affect of really getting people excited? The people can feel it people can see the good that can come out of right out of marriage because you only really hear about the bad. It's true. But every time someone gets engaged or one of your friends or one of my friends not yet. But they always say like, I wish I didn't sooner, you know. They're like no one ever I wish. Well, some people say, but we're not. No, I wish I never did. It. We're not there yet. We'll keep you posted. But anyways mazal to these two I'm really happy for them. It seems like a logical step. They seem like they're ready. You know, Adam Sandler, and drew Barrymore and their blended family before the kids. I'm having the kids to a really cool vibe going on. Vehicle step that for sure and Jay. It really is a win win all around. So I'm excited for them and their wedding definitely going to be extra because honestly, they're really fucking extra. And yes, of course, because they're the biggest ever. But also, they show up everything. It's kind of just reminded me. How much kind of like them there? There's something going on. I don't know. Maybe they're they like them. But they just thrown Cam. It's always for the camera. Yeah. And it's like they go to the Grammys they go to Oscars like neither of them is nominated for an Oscar right now. So they didn't need to be there. With who doesn't like going getting dressed up. And also, maybe they were in that point in their relationship. Right before you got engaged where it's like. Okay. What's next, and they just kept going out and thirsting it up. Maybe they'll take some private time. Now, though. Actually did a good job of like they didn't post too much. It was a great picture. Great ring. Right. Ring great sunset, that's jaylo. Caliber ring. Definitely she's that's like worthy of the woman that she is. I'm glad you approve because otherwise we would have had to talk they run except I now with celebrities posting their jewelry uninsured, especially their rings. I just reminds me of Kim Kardashian and the lesson that she learned the hard way. And I don't know why any celebrity like put a target on their back like that especially because robberies in LA are so rampant if you watch the real Beverly Hills. It's just like everyone's getting robbed and then to just put your new jewelry out on Instagram. Like, I don't know. I just. It would give me it would give you the willies. It's great for the diamond industry. I literally saw sponsor post of that ring really swipe through and it's the picture of of his post. So like. From the jeweler real diamond or was already get your else. Like knock it off. Get your your your own jaylo rang. Do you want your own jaylo? Of course, who doesn't Jim instead of band if you wore like, a big rock, I would love that he wanted to he wanted to get like a Super Bowl ring for his wedding ring, which I would have been fine with. But I just knew you wouldn't wear it every day if I like the idea of it. Yeah. Inch Lardy or rock the pinky ring. European feel like that's the move. I feel like that's the move. You know, bring bring the pinky ring. Buck bring back. Thank you. Okay. I think if anyone can do it means you, can you know, if you ever need a platform to promote yourself on totally you know, where to find us. Okay. Next some other exciting wedding news Liam shell has married. Her fiance. Zandi rash Lee. Michelle is a married woman. I'm sure Claudia somewhere smiling from ear in her sleep on Saturday. The former glee star wed fiancee's Zandi Ryan an intimate ceremony in northern California. Who we are so excited to be married in grateful to be surrounded by family and friends and most of all were so happy to spend the rest of our lives together. Joined by Michelle's, former co stars Darren criss Emirates the wedding comes in a year after rice, the president of women's clothing. Brand pop the question. Yes, Michelle capture photo per four carat engagement ring last spring. These two seem really cute and really normal. And there's nothing more normal than a one year engagement, even though in hindsight. It's too long. You do. Yeah. Just feels right? The Zanu Reich. I think he's a nice Jewish. Boy. She's a nice she's Jewish too. So that's a couple little again. It's just amazing. What I guess they were engaged before. Or what? Right. Yeah. I think they plan to get they waiting. They waited. Yeah. So after we got married, but I wonder now like who in the audience areas like has the love bug. You know, maybe Maradas next choose with the guy from. Or story from what or story American horror story Oishi. Do you watch that I've never seen it? I love it. But I don't know who her man is. I have read some lines that are troubling. But I choose to ignore them. She has a boyfriend yet a longtime friend, but she's. Not the do you follow her? Did you ever watch glee when it was on? And who did you on PBS? Who did you like what are your thoughts? I think for the time we were in. It was really cool. I think now like it would be really corny like, I just think Riverdale things so much more edgy. And I just I don't think like that would. Yeah. That's very fair assessment. Do you ever watch scream queens? I did not know that's going to be a problem for us. It's the best show ever happens the world yet with two M'S or one with one N. And you remember when we started dating and we were talking like around Halloween, and then I trust scream queens for Halloween. So you should. And I remember the show this question before because when we were talking before Halloween, just, you know, flirting in the office by the water, cooler, you were like asked me what I was going to be for Halloween, and I said from scream queens, and you hadn't watch show. You would think he would have gone home and watch it could have something to talk to me about them each just like lunch. I wonder if I watching episode because of that I might have really of you would remember it's like that premium anyways, very happy for Lee Michelle and in some other wedding news chance the rapper has also married. His longtime girlfriend cure Ston corley. Chancer is a married, man. Hip. Hop star twenty five he's young what his longtime girlfriend Kirstin corley on Saturday at the resort. At pelican hill in Newport Beach, California, people confirms guests included Kim Kardashian west and her husband, Kanye who have been longtime friends of chance a source tells people comedian Chapelle was also in attendance, according to a news, although the robber has yet to share any photos from pairs nuptials. He did leave a comment underneath a handful of images and videos taken from the ceremony which were posted online by the shade room. I did see that they got like paparazzi photos, and he commented these photos came from some lanes. Wait till you see the official ones. He must have an exclusive or something with people magazine. And he's just like doesn't want that to cut into his chancellor. He seems like above that those same common. I had right when when photos are being leaked. These lames except it was like all people that we knew and we were like happy to leave them thoughts because I saw pictures of Konya like he was wearing like what look to be like a just black jeans. Okay. Short sleeve button, black buttoned-down, okay? At the wedding. Dress code was KMart. Well, she's dressed up. I didn't see there. I didn't see him post anything we show picture up at that. We are there yet. But then like, I didn't even see a picture, but I don't know where you find one. But it's Connie. So I mean, he he can. But maybe it was just a casual what day of the week on Saturday. Was it Saturday was it cetera. Maybe he did like a luncheon. He seems like a luncheon kinda guy kick up, and I think also like when Kim say the dress code was festive dressy casual dressy, casual which is a trust code that makes no sense to confuse you, right? Because like if you spend somewhere in the code was dressy, casual is it dressy, or is it casual that was the dress code of our hersal dinner, and like no one I got like no one knew what to wear except in the end. It's always better to be. I think over dress that under duress. Anyway, what I was gonna say say the dress code was festive party tire and Kim comes like black tie to the nines. And kinda comes dress down together. The couples average is in is in line with the dress code. So I think actually that's part of being a team. The next time we go to a wedding that I have new one wears you wanna wear short-sleeved. But now could be cool. Also, speaking of coming because it just can't miss an opportunity to talk about them, and they weren't in the news this weekend. Unfortunately, except they've been posting more videos from church, and now churches like gone there. I'm pretty sure it's their backyard or someone's backyard and Connie was singing Jesus walks with the chorus you had an interest. Theory on this. I think he typical Okonya fashion. This is live rehearsals for a tower. That's coming up this whole time. We've been watching it. And we didn't even know what we were watching. But it's it's the tour next door. I'm here for not. But you think he would like us church. Church embrace and celebrate yes, I usually rehearsal. You're like check one two five six seven eight and people are redoing it. But using it's just like a natural like, he's not usual worse yet. They're working through it as as they go a love, I love that. That would be an. More epic. I mean, look like there was like forty gospel singers. Yeah. Amazing amazing. And then with north fortnight in the front, I've see that. Although there if he goes on tour Sunday service tour that would be really cool, really? And especially because everyone who's been seeing these videos now, especially when they were in that like neon bubble has been like, I wanna go to church totally maybe he's gonna he's doing like a church door starting his own jurors go you Macara land. Like, I could see that one of the toasters commented on the video of them singing that it was like. Connie was starting his like Connie verse carlin's, and then tore each show would only be on a Sunday. So he would do Sunday in every new in beat toward church church. More. I would go. I'm free cool. Okay. Speaking of more music interesting story that I didn't expect Queen giving you expect. Queen music video director bohemian rhapsody sequel is being discussed the director of dozens of Queen music videos says that the band and its management are lining up behind a sequel to smash hit, Freddie, Mercury film bohemian rhapsody Rudy dollas all who directed videos for the band became close with mercury during his life told page six in an interview. Oh, we did put up a photo. Ooh. Kim looks great. I mean, literally she could wear anything Sheila great. I can imagine what you said black pants. What do you think about just short sleeved shirts in general short sleeve? They're kind of a brave move, but down culture. Yeah. I think they should be worn more. But no one's figured out. How 'cause you look like book of Mormon? Yeah. Yeah. I've done the short sleeve blazer, look and people don't know that. I have that's nice, which is nice. But it's a shame because this for those shirts because like they are very functional very functional always long sleeves, and you roll them up three fourths away. Anyway. So why not just cut sleeves off and call it? Why not sleeveless? Yeah. See mice. Why not off the shoulder? Why not we start align? Speaking of the fact that it's almost today's such beautiful day. And it's getting really excited for summer. That's so great. I'm excited that you're excited. I know because usually I don't love like warm weather. I don't care about the weather, but in ready this time, and I think I'm gonna try and get back to live method. And like we're Kito season starts today. And it would be nice to be like inch shape like have one good summer. It'd be nice. That's what I've been saying. Like imagine having. Not that I intend to but a six pack or going to the beach and like being excited to be in a meeting suit. It's a shock. And I heard it try it one does that. Okay. That's human rhapsody. The director for many music videos for the band who became close with mercury Topaz six in an interview about queens, legendary manager Jim beach, aka Miami. I'm sure he has plans for a sequel that starts with wide. Dole is added that the foul of film is now being heavily discussed in the Queen family beach also produce bohemian rhapsody, which has made more than eight hundred seventy million dollars worldwide, the rock bio pic won four Oscars last month and was nominated for best picture. Okay. This is really shocking because I just feel like sepals are always about idea. And I understand my they happen because when struck to that was really the best sequel, sometimes sequels are always bad. But then the. The trip. The try quill is always amazing high school musical three hangover three, you know. So we can't have a third without the second. And also what we were just watching and saying that there's definitely a sequel because it's the number one box office movie ever for DC comics for DC comics also does that take into account inflation. Because obviously when ticket prices are now twenty dollars. Yeah. They're they're making more money than when tickets were a penny gone with the wind fabulous. I just I. No. But I'm just saying in general like compare like the Titanic even to. Point gone with the wind. I just wanna make sure we're counting inflation. So it shouldn't be like how much money it made. It should be how many tickets were sold. But even still now that's changing we just watch bohemian rhapsody on fandango. Now, we didn't even buy tickets. Exactly, I'm like, you know, really fudge the numbers Nielsen, whatever. Anyway, speaking Kimia maps that they're talking about within the number two, which ordinarily I'd be really excited about 'cause I loved bohemian rhapsody, but then we re rod shit when we were in Utah, and no one liked it. And then it made me realize like music video. It was a really long music video just with dialogue in between. Yeah. Some people which is fun. But then like when everyone was tearing it apart. And then also I mean, I'm down for bohemian rhapsody sequel just like a a, Freddie Mercury movie. That's not directed by Bryan singer. And then everyone can really enjoy it more. What would the sequel half? What did we not? So I guess it would they're saying would start with Live Aid right where it ended. And then wouldn't it all just be kind of sad? And also, they kind of ruined it for themselves because in real life, Freddie. Mercury didn't know that he was sick before Live Aid. So now, the whole sequel would be him being sick. And and getting worse getting better. It's just it wouldn't it would automatically be kinda sad. You know, seems like something that should come with the DVD when it comes out, right? Added child bonus cherries bonus billion additional ending or I remember I ride because Sasha baron Cohen was supposed to play, Freddie. Mercury. Which would have been really amazing. They could do they could do a sequel with Sasha as Freddie do the whole movie again. But apparently, he didn't he he didn't mind doing it. 'cause he was clashing with the band members who wanted the movie to be about Queen after, Freddie, mercury's death, and nobody cares and the movie didn't wind up being that. Maybe that's what the sequel will be. Maybe the finally get their white. Maybe that's the only way that they were able to shut them up was like, okay. We'll do it as a sequel. Listen, it'll probably do well. And it'll be the number one grossing movie of all time, and that kind of brings me to Auckland, which we were so excited to watch. As Jason momoa is my celebrity question means his accepted it and he's embraced it. And you personally, but it's fine. To his like that in shape. You know, the long hair. Beard. Yeah. It's weird. I had definitely weird taste. So we were so excited to see it finally were able to like rent it on I tunes. They finally let us rent it for twenty five dollars, and like, and they could've done anything that we would have liked it. And we did. But it was really disappointing. It was like really it was really corny. It was like a parody of a superhero movie at times and like he was doing his best. And he was great. But there was just something about it. That was like is this a joke. Even the like the script was bad theory with all these green screen Centric movies. Like, I just think it's really tough to produce a good film. Because literally if you see any of these instruments that show you behind the scenes of the movies. It's like, you know, Jerry, the camera guy like a green screen like body suit and someone like Jason's literally talking him. He's like. A ten foot like serpent serpents. Right. So either the Atkins gotten worse or just the special effects are just so like high tech that it's just allowed riders not to write as good because they can make anything visually come to life. Right. I thought the special like the the world that they created is almost like two good. It felt like an animated movie. It was like we were watching people real people live people in an animated movie. Some one of those quotes that you see on the DVD's was almost evil to good. No. Because it was in the fact that I mean, I never saw avatar, and I don't really watch a lot of movies that are like Saifi in different worlds, but I feel like they're able to transport you to this world. And you understand like how things work in the rules of how fish people breathe underwater, whatever, and they just thought it was weird everyone's underwater, and then they come water, and they're just like what I thought. I thought the premise was week. I mean, like the villain in that movie was earth was the land. Yeah. And also the Bill was his brother. And then it turns out that you know, he just needs mother's love the hook. He just needed a hug put like to me. A superhero movie is only as good as the villain. No good villain in that movie. That's fair that. Yeah. Because it was kind of annoying then turn onto brother like old batmans like the heat ledger piece that was such a good superhero movie because there was such a good villain. That's an interesting take Rami Molly going to be a villain. He's gonna be bond villain, really. What do you think about, Freddie? Mercury. I think he'll be a really good villain. He's like kind of weird. I was watching some stuff. I was watching the video. The the men the hotel video he was doing a promotion for a hotel, and he was talking about himself. And it was I. It was really weird. I watched it on. I think nightly pop was like talking about it. And it was really funny. Also, speaking of sequels, it came out the greatest showman is working on a sequel with Hugh Jackman. And it's like there is a thing as too much of a good thing. I believe sequel the Broadway. I'd rather them to do in ratio girl. Ooh. Do they need a lead? Talent. Thanks. The thing. I would be more for that sequel than rhapsodies sequel because there's at least with that. It's there's new ideas new songs new concepts. Yeah. This is just now there's more for us to to know, and you can make it up. You can only take so many creative liberties with a true story, except the story of PD Barnum is technically to also did someone they heard my stomach growl here that I didn't you my stomach growls all the time on the show, but extra hundred thousand first time you heard it. That's the beginning of Kita season. Well, yeah. Oh, someone asks who's your celebrity crush? Jackie o. Thanks memes. But like who's your list celebrity crafts? Cheryl, blossom me more. She's your over over. Yeah. I feel that. I'll get back to you on that one. Okay. Is it amber heard now from the movie, she was looking snatched? She's not a great actress, I had no idea. But she's great looking. I'll get back to you. Okay. Toasters here. Always are you? Sure, it's not me. Even though I'm just totally answer. Because I'm of the year of the month. The wifia words good the word show. That would be a good workshop that all went away. 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There's a lot of spit required. Justice her sharpei because she really was quite talented. Okay. Next running over people like this. I think people are thoroughly enjoying it like in my my side because I it's probably Superfly saying, you're so funny. I haven't had a chance to look at all the comments because I'm just like doing it all over here. And I'm also trying to do their job and my job. I'm trying to impress my husband, and I don't know how from doing good job, whatever Kylie Jenner. Jordan woods didn't not reunite after Tristan Thompson drama after all, okay. Considering the story just revolving around fake news, usually I wouldn't report on it. But I feel personally invested because this story originated in the morning toasters Facebook group, where just everything premium happens a toaster saw Kylie having pancakes with a brunette friend, and they put it in the group, and it was easy, Jordan. Is it not turn out? Not to be Jordan. I believe. It was kylie's friend, Heather Sanders. Yes. But Daily Mail picked it up because they're like just being in the toasters picked it up snooping in the toes, and you would think they would be a little more diligent about their Kardashian news, and they reported that it was short in woods when it wasn't. And I mean, if you're a toaster you already knew that. But I just the story really here is that not only are daily. Melanie, news, just like combing through the toasters for premium content. They're also getting it wrong. Actually, the real story is of the real question is what kind of pancakes that is the real question. I think they were it was too far to tell. But they were like no way. I feel like highly good. Good good. Like first of all she has that Jenner metabolism. So I think she can eat what she wants for the most part, and she's always eating cereal and milk, like basic foods cooks a lot. I feel like if she's going to a pancake house. She's getting chocolate chip pancakes. That's next industry because they just announced that she's the youngest billionaire. Yes, they did so up on your news. I think that's the next industry eventually she'll break food. Yeah. I mean, if she did a cooking show or cooking. I mean that would blow blow off once I get into picking me. I'll watch your show learns and tips about it. She would do. So she would do really well, but she doesn't really love being on TV or cosmetics that can eat. Yeah. That's the next gen all of the crash. They think are actually really good chefs surprising. The they don't have like a I think clawing outta show. Cooking cooking Centric show at one point. It was like drinking. It was cocktails with khloe. Yeah. I guess one of them could have cooking. But that's a lot. They don't need to do. That's true. And it's lots of helmets show. Not only do you have to give to talk for thirty minutes. Which is we've learned today's very hard. And I mean, she she doesn't need to and she's not thirsty whatsoever. Sure. So I think well if anyone knows what kind of pancakes. Yeah. It's the waiter wants to speak out on this on this fruit on top. No fuck fruit. Wow. Just pancakes with syrup. What are your favorite? I don't really eat pancakes a lot because it's like if I'm indulging. It's not happening in the morning. But I go chocolate chip for sure that's my wife. That's your wife means likes pancakes. What do you think? Women the pancake mood for. Sure. Yeah. I remember when we first started going out, and we went to brunch, and he ordered his meal, and he was like can I have a side of pancakes. And I was like that's the biggest move ever. I didn't know that was the thing. Now, we do it all the time. Because now, we're just big aside of anything. I know Shapiro tried to get a side of pasta somewhere. That's a meal accents. No, it doesn't. It's not a side salad pasta. It's not a thing on the side. Ship Riami aside of pasta. Any good establishment? Customer's. Always right. Yes. Sure. I mean, what the pasta with side pasta. It's a big deal. No more positive for while means that I said, except we ate a lot this weekend. While we watch man comes up. Yeah. We ate in lot. I'm just trying to talk lack you mines. Okay. Are you ready to our fifth and final story before we just descend into QNA of Mamer? Sins husband edition, the newest in Mersin technology. Last story Jaguar attacks woman taking a selfie at a wildlife world zoo in Litchfield park, a woman is recovering after she was attacked by Jaguar at wildlife world, zoo, aquarium and safari park. Saturday evening rural metro fire. Crews who responded to the scene said the woman was trying to take a selfie near the fence of the Jaguar enclosure when the cat reached out and attacked her arm. Officials officials said she was transported to the hospital with non-life threatening injuries. Adam Wilkerson who recorded video of the incident said he was with his mother and his kid the Jaguars closure when he heard screaming and so the Jaguars caused grasping a woman's hand. Would it seems like pandemonium everyone's yelling for help? He wrote in a rented post. He said his mother distracted Jaguar with the water bottle. And it let go of the woman we are still in shock from it. All he wrote. This is so crazy and just like the dangers of southeast. No Nobel's of questions. Okay. Was there selfie? Stick. Definitely not. Because actually, Stig number one south-east wouldn't even helping the situation because you still have to get as. Close to the Jaguars you as you want the her arm might have been more protected. No arm only goes out so far go you can go more further out than nobody. If you're taking a selfie. You're gonna extend your arm as far as possible actually probably further than if you're using a selfie stick. Because you don't have to. Okay, next question. It was dark. That said it was the zoo was about to close do think she used flash disturbs scare the all around. And you know, as someone like I will do it for the Graham, and I, you know, as thirsty as they come like, this is where we draw the line people. It's a bit risky and the chief and get the self cheating at the shot. I don't know. I'm glad that there's no life threatening injury. Like, she's going to be okay. And the drugs the Jaguars. Okay. They didn't put the the Jaguar down or anything because it wasn't his or her fault. What is that? By the way. I don't know. Apparently, she went behind the fence someone saying she stepped over the barrier. She's definitely a moron and like hell, and you know, what? Like, there's other ways to get premium content and honestly even selfie with jog. Where like who cares? Actually. That's kind of cool. I don't know. I wouldn't care. Want to selfie with Jaguar? I'll just fly down the Florida and go to preseason game. Very good. Jacksonville Jaguars those what's fans out there. ASX like me Jack's favor team know, the Cowboys are because it's my husband secret. Okay. Are you ready to be in the hot seat? It's already hot. It's already hot. Yeah. It is. It does get kind of warm under here. I don't know. Don't call us out. It's genuine under there. It's genuine means. Okay. Question from Toastmasters general Ali Mohajer how has last week been as a husband Greek question? Oh, not week. I guess it's been three weeks. Now. It's been great. I've loved every moment married. Life was fantastic field different. Definitely different in a good way. It's just there's just less stress, less stress. Even though I've gained ten pounds. I feel like I lost twenty. Yeah. Interesting. Seven down twenty ten math. Isn't my strong city today? Okay. Me do this important question. And like, I don't want to trigger you or anything, but trigger just have to ask do you like it when the Italian American campers show up or do you get annoyed? If I was just seeing what everyone else saw off. I would love it. I think it's genius. It's hilarious. You know, you're so creative and imaginative and really creative genius Q. But the issue is is that I see all the behind the scenes all the outtakes. Too many outtakes the outtakes consist of you, not filming yourself, but just being being an Italian. And I guess technically it is weird to be like a twenty eight year old man, though, shade married to an Italian capper. You know? Yeah. That's a bit weird. But I mean, she's pretty mature. She drives for Uber. She's better. She's trying to figure out what to for this camp and cheap really made a splash out your after party. She turned it up the videos hilarious. Okay. What will come first getting a dog cousin for CO? So just a cousin please rude or having a baby. We've now we've talked I think at this point because for a while for a little bit. We were actually really considering getting a dog a cousin THEO. And then after I babysat him for the weekend. I realized that it was just not in the cards for us. So at this point, we aren't really talking about getting a dog just spending more time with the talking about having a baby. So no. But like. We're talking about having maybe not anytime soon, but more than weren't having talking about having a dog isn't really even on the table anymore. We kind of like moved on for now the dog conversation, and we already have a name for doing. Do remember what would we decided? Now, don't give it away. You can't name the dog for you have it. It's bad luck. But just a a spoiler for the dog is talion. Remember the name do is a good one. Which stress from wedding was your favorite you answering this question on patriot. But now, I'm curious if you have to answer, I think it was the second dress. And that's what you said. Yeah, that's crazy magic because I almost didn't wear a second trust. Because I didn't I the week before magic. I never even more in. And then you're just stuck with one Giresse that you didn't like just getting look. Okay. Who do you like better the American camper or the Italian camper? Italian camper. Yes, she's like swag. Well, actually, but that would just choose number funding. Yeah. The American Kimber like she's cute, but she's so desperate. How have you perfected your technique of being a professional Instagram photographer slash husband? Instagram husband, always been creative director in life. So. No, I enjoy it. I really do. I'm a behind the scenes guy. So this fits right into that job title. I enjoy it. Do you have any tips for any women or men out there who find themselves in the position of crouching floor and taking a photo for significant crushing? Tiger team's hidden means exactly. Listen to your significant other definitely get the angle that they want and then do something that they're not expecting. And you never know you might find gold. We've we've found gold on a couple photo shoots. Lee. Have a couple of big shoots that we've done eleven eleven make a wish we'll Justice for the girls, which has been our wish which is really been happening. A lot recently we live in every day we make a wish and for while. I was wishing that you baggage back there for my birthday 'cause they wanted to it for something tangible. So I can if my wish came true, and it did now we are wishing for Justice for the girls who have been victims of art Kelly, and it's kind of happening. You know, things are moving we walked the Gayle king and Tribu that was very good. And then we watch both the one on SNL. I was hilarious. Live from New York. No you watch. We he's great as an Elvis meek was was pretty good. You didn't love your cell. I thought he did a very tub. I think he messed up a lot. I didn't notice. Maybe I was so distracted by good looks. He's he's a he's okay. He's cool. It'd be cool. Yeah. But anyway, the. You have to watch the opening of SNL this week. It was so good may just had so many good into sketches Greenwich. Paltrow was on it. Even though I didn't totally understand my she was like really making fun of herself in her business. You know, like that sketch character a lot, right? She asked to. But it just looks like the people that work for her and don't know what they're selling because they're selling bunch of hooey. I guess that's what it is. It's really smart cool. And I bet her stocks just went up perhaps per who's there? It is does means ever want his picture taken. Have you ever asked me to take your picture? I don't know who wants to see this stop. If you're so cute, but I feel like a non unless we were with a celebrity or something that you wanted to picture with. No. I mean, a picture is worth thousands words. But so reader, so who needs all those words? Yeah. Means stew. I snore. You don't start either. Is there anything we're glad we didn't do at our wedding. Is there anything we're glad that we did not do at our wedding. I'm glad it didn't fall. I'm glad I did. I'm glad I didn't miss the glass. Breaking it totally. And I'm glad I didn't throw up on the dance floor because you know for a while. The jury was out we should have gotten branded throwbacks just in case in Kenya. Ooh. Who is your favorite housewife? That's a great question. Because means it's kind of a house is kind of sort like you used to watch Bravo before we even started dating Bravo. And he's a genius. You've been kind of behind though, like I've been watching without you just because you're such a busy, man. Maybe I'm wrong. But it just there's too many different franchises now. And it's hard to really get into one. It's like even New York which is like slated to be the best season ever. Just because of all of the real life drama the premiere episode. It's like okay now, I have to start carrying about these people again, it takes a minute are framing. We you have to catch up on Beverly Hills. It is it is the season of all seasons. Lisa vendor. Pump is going down brother way. She's owning. Bravo right now. Lisa. That's and that's the problem. We'll talk about it when we get Vander pump. For example. Can you imagine? If there was like eight different franchises of Andhra pump. It would not be what it is today. That's true. Like, there was all these different restaurants across the country. So I think they've deluded oversaturated thing. How do you feel about the real houses Dallas as dowsman, man? Honestly, I haven't watched that franchise as much just because I lived it. I was a Dallas housewife. Earlier on in my career. No, I love I love the fact that they're choking my city. My Chitty eating. They're doing a good job. Like any good spots in restaurants. I haven't been on into a hope they are. I mean, you know, Dell's pretty well. Sometimes they'll go somewhere, and I'm like we have to go there. Sal looks good. Ryan looks crisp to get back to your initial question. Favorite housewife? I love ni I knew that. Although I saw last night that she followed Andy on Instagram. No. I don't know why that's crazy that you saw that. I didn't. Did you see that you posted like video on on Instagram? Yeah. He isn't Instagram. Yeah. Follow him. Who are something your favorite people to follow in general? Yeah. On instagram. Not around town the morning toes. Jackie O problems grow with no job with no job. But with no job. Manga Ave Levy ashtray kidney thorton. I don't know if you know her if you're familiar with her work. I don't know if you know that joke, I'll tell us when you got home Peng over and hungry great page. Solid hung over and hungry before. We started dating. Really? Yeah. You were like one time. I was probably like two weeks after we started dating. You like showed me something you're hung over. You were like isn't this funny this page? That's mitch. That's so funny. How's the Pige them? It's it's quiet over still hung over still hungry when Sasha how do you say, I love you this sexually cute story. Because you said it less than a week after we started eating because we went out. Everyone knows you out with Ben and Zach and Claudia. And that's exac night. You know? In middle school sil- found out through other people that we liked each other. And then like from that night every night the rest of the week. We went out like spent like all night talking and getting each other. And so then the following week just like one week after the original group date, the grouper you told me you loved me is really cute. And I was like so shocked. I was like there's no way. True skies nuts. It was it turned out to be true. But I remember I was like talking on the phone. I was like I was like and then something like like kind of weird happen. 'cause like I couldn't even process that you said it because I was like there's no way that you meant it. But you did make very sweet what was the moment that you knew that you were in love who. Ooh. It's a bit too personal of a moment to talk about. Okay. But I feel the same way when you know. When you know what you know? Okay. Maybe tell me later. Zach did you witness my concussion, or it's not how did you find out about it? I heard about it. It was the concussion heard around the world. Unfortunately, I was a bid intoxicated at that point. That's good though. Because if you were sober, you would have been so worried and someone someone smart and sober would have made me go to the hospital, which I probably should have. But then the name would have been ruined all worked out, thankfully. But the definitely hearing about it the next day. I was not happy. Yeah. No boy. Yeah. Yeah. What's the deal breaker must have in the next parliament you move into? So we are moving which is like pretty abrupt even though we knew the apartment that we're now is really just like a temporary solution. And we knew we didn't want to say they're more than a year. But then we got kind of comfortable more like let's say another year. And then we realized we had totally outgrown it. And now we're looking for a new place. We just need more space. More closet space. I would say is the biggest thing. But we we need. We do. We have a lot of things and we need another bathroom. It'd be ideal. Yeah. There's not like too much overlap. But when there is it's it's so that we can be on different islands if we want to. Yeah. We do I spend time in my bedroom. And he spent time on the couch do any of your friends or family give you memorable marriage advice. A lot of good advice. You know, the never go to bed angry at each other. Which I think we've gotten really good out. I don't agree with that piece of advice. I feel like sometimes go to bed angry, and you wake up and used forgotten about it as opposed to working it out that night when it's like it doesn't need to be worked out 'cause it's going to work itself. It's not that big to begin with, you know, respectfully disagree. I'm using. That's like a classic piece of advice that I actually don't think is always true. I just don't think going to bed when you know, you have fought s- on your mind. There's just that's just going to say it. I now sometimes it's sounds like going to bed like when you need to go the bathroom, but like not yet and then like to go so badly. P in the book. Oh god. How did we meet never happened for? I just wanna know. Of course, not. No, no. This never happened since we've been together. How did we meet we met at work back in the day? There's a song about it. It's called forever and a day. It's a hit song number one on soundcloud streaming worldwide. Yes, you're posted again. I know. So I posted the video of Sakr disarm for me for our one year anniversary, and it was a country song. And typically before that, you'd only really written Mike wraps on you really like change on me, which was so sweet. And then he performed at our wedding. And there's a video of it up on the patriot Peter dot com. Soc morning toast, and it's really really premium apparent and you're really drunk so made you really like we're loose. It's a bit horrifying to watch. But in the moment, I hear people, you know. You know? If you were serving premium content as a podcast hose, what your podcast be about. I think it would be pop culture made sports. Life. Meets fashion fashion. Yes, Nicos you love sneakers sneakers about inside. He's sneaker head. How many pairs of sneakers? Do you think that you have all combined in Dallas here everywhere that you've found a place to store them? Couple hundred what's a couple is that two hundred eight hundred throw be three three hundred. Wow. And as secret when you collect sneaks are they meant to be worn. No, absolutely. Not. There's just meant like it's like playing cards. Okay. Even the box, and I collect handbags all with the attention of being born. Yeah. I don't. Okay. I'm just curious. I guess because we liked him bags with the intention of wearing them just as collector's items. Okay. Was it love at first sight. Did you never going to marry him? When you met him. Same question for means. Honestly like, yeah. Marlon always tells a story I went to lunch with her the day that we went out on our grouper, and I said to her I was like I'm either going to marry him or I will never speak to him again. You know, how it ended never spoke to him again. What about you mean Slava for site? Do believe in it do actually there's a couple of people in this world that can vouch for me. But as soon as we wrap that show, I literally turned to Maxwell shot at z one hundred and Dom, Andy. Former colleagues of mine turned them when you guys left the studio, and I was like I'm gonna marry that girl now before like. Flirting. Yeah. Just there's just something there. I just knew that's so crazy. 'cause I really didn't even think that you like liked me until you knew that I like you. But at that point, you didn't know that. I like that's true. I don't know. Why said at the I I swear to you. I said, I believe you believe you. That's so crazy anyways. Thank you for joining us. That's it because we have to look at an apartment, and you have to get to work, and we're just like so happy that you're able to hear Bahir breakdown the past type stories that you need to know this morning. And really like we have a little bit of the wedding. Even though I feel like I've talked about it like so much. I feel fully recapped. What about you? Still talking about it. No, it's time to like move on. I think I'm ready to get back to like posting pictures of it every day. Yeah. Because like it's just they're so cute and positive and sweet it's hard to come up with a catch him for like the twentieth. Picture of us like kissing in. Maybe that's the caption totally middle twenty first. What else do you have anything that you wanna plug while you're here? This is like a show four monsters by thirst monsters with monsters, and obviously probably CSAK yo problems premium content. I'm literally so close to hitting two hundred K, but I'm not going to jinx it because then the nothing sadder than hitting two hundred and then going back to what ninety nine us. I didn't really wanna talk about it. But you know, if you're watching these follow me, it's all I have in life aside for my wonderful husband and my precious nephew who I need to go see because it's been so long. I haven't been talking about him a lot two hundred dollars. Once once you go right under two hundred and then just dip. It's not well, you're private man. So follow you. But anything you wanna she'll? She'll she'll like a pedal promote. So for those of you that don't know I've run a concert venue in New York. Pure seventeen. We have an amazing outdoor rooftop venue. Jackie can attest. It's really sick. It is use it. The Brooklyn Bridge buying the stage on the water, and we just announced our summer lineup. And it's it's pretty stacked who who excited to see we have the Long Island. So hot right now. So hot right now who else girl Hansel so hot? Lonely island. We have we have passion pit. We have some oldies like squeeze Ringo Starr, our family loves squeeze. But you didn't know that when you books them. But we grew up listening to squeeze every I play muscles for Michelle. I can't wait. I mean, I'll be at everything. But also it's exciting when it's like someone that tickets are out right now. Pier. Seventeen and Y dot com. Pier. Seventeen NY dot com. Yeah. Very cool. I really hope that's the domain. I think it is. That'd be bad. But. And and it's going to be great. And we have more shows that are gonna be announced, and it's gonna be pretty epoch summer. So say that they're going to be toasty shows hundred percent super-busy Sieber toasty exciting. So what we're about trap? But would you think about the toast? What do you think about this our little Instagram show that we do here? I think it's a great show. I think it'll last ti- wish that now are you gonna watch them more often. Do you want the politically correct answer or the real answer? It can be real. With me. I'm terrified to watch this episode because my face has been this whole time looking at you. And you're like this is like, you know, gobble city over here. But. Out here. No, you've got a great show. Thank you. I'm very proud of you. Thanks me, sending I'm happy to host anytime. Well, we'll see what the people say do. My crowd reports little focus group testing. We'll let you know how you did. But so far so good. I think I'm the one who was just mumbled jumbo ING all day. Yeah. Just so fostered anyways. Thank you all for tuning in. I will be back to Morrow with Nick, vile, co hosting with me he will be here to talk about, you know, just host with me. But also the bachelor finale is on tonight and tomorrow night. So we're just going to do like full bachelor talk tomorrow because what's going down right now in the bachelor world is actually crazy. I might actually have you watch with me tonight because you watch a lot of garbage with me. But you draw the line at the bachelor. Doesn't do for. But you know, Colton Underwood from the NFL. Actually, no him because he used to date alley race. They were they were really cute. I think you should watch with me. He's actually really great batch. I was talking about it with Margolin yesterday. And I just I think he's a perfect bachelor. And I love him so much. Purse. First of all he is so good looking he should security, and you know, that's just like objective factual statement second of all he's just doing a really good job in Lincoln link motions and the girls and third about he's he is a former NFL player whether or not he played a lot whatever being in the NFL's, a huge accomplishment. And he's he's a real cat in all these girls lining up to date him like isn't so farfetched. Sometimes they pick a guy that doesn't have a job old like picked a guy that doesn't or they had the job. They go on the bachelorette. They quit their job. They've coming their sponsor, and then they're the bachelor and they're just Instagram famous and like. That's it. It's not like so believable all the time. But like, I believe that a lot of these are really in love with and underwent because I might be to just getting I love him for cinch. I love him as my future brother in law. I think you would like him to us brother-in-law likes throw the pigskin just really get along. I think he would be like one of the guys I wish Mitch win on the season. But since she didn't I'm rooting for. I guess Cassie even though like. She was stone cold last week, anyways, we'll be discussing all this tomorrow with Nick, vile. And it's just crazy. How far how far we've come. I don't even know this vile used to be someone in that basket, you see that right there where there's block China interest is in there. That's that's China interest in there. And all these people that we refuse to talk about on the show because we can't stand them. And Nick, vile was in that basket. And then he. What a perfect last name for someone like that. We weren't feeling right? But then we came up on his podcast Saudi. And I and we talked so much shit about him. And all he said was like, oh, I think those girls don't like me, and like he really had to like talk shit about us. There's so much you could say both untrue, and he didn't. And we were like you really like grew up in that moment where like, wow, you can actually be nice person. Sometimes. It's it's a nice look. So then he wanted to come on the show we had on the show we made our policies and now he's co hosting with me. So it's twenty nineteen anything can happen. We love you. We will see tomorrow. Thank you may Merson 's you did a great job here. Went to get my nomination. Oh, yeah. Daytime emmy.

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114: Ms. Frizzle Appreciation Episode: Friday, June 26, 2020

The Morning Toast

33:06 min | 11 months ago

114: Ms. Frizzle Appreciation Episode: Friday, June 26, 2020

"Ooh, millennials welcome back to the morning. Toast. Happy Friday! Friday gotta get down on Friday hope everyone is having a fabulous teacher. I'm thrilled that it's Friday. I'm thrilled that T h. e is here on Tgif. It's only appropriate. He's in position for the show. The other day he was out of frame, and so everyone just gets the blessing that is theo. To Dora. Due to Dora. Oh, due to the Dora and she angel Dora Per Chairman Dora Wonderful Angel Dora I love him Dora light of my life Dobra perfect, fat door, apple of my eye. Dora apple of my eye to. Peanut Butter Jelly Dora. Precious Lovely Dura. We're so glad to have a special guest here today. That is theo. He is going to help us deliver a fabulous show for you because there's so much going on, there's still not recap, but that's not going to stop us from being fabulous for like forty five minutes. It will not stop us hour. Episodes have been so short and it's like no, it's not our fault. It's just because there's like nothing going on in the world, but I find myself being very very very very very wordy. Add time to the show. It's like I'm writing a paper I. Feel the need to be extraordinarily boasts. There's no television. RECAPS you'll. End of each episode of the morning Toes and look the news lately hasn't been like super salacious. You know it's just kind of sad. Yeah, I agree so. We're doing our best destructions, which is out on as much as we can just know that we are aware of the problem and we're working on it. Also speaking of just lengthy episodes, we posted another patron episode yesterday, Partout, General Q. and partout of being honest raw real. Ganic that's what happens behind the Pay Wall Shit. We're getting naked. So if you want to hear from us here, what we're up to our feeling head to peak tram dot com slash morning. Toast is our fourth episode of the month. If you're not aware, Petron is our subscription service for seven dollars and ninety nine cents a month to get five extra episodes from us. They're always a little bit more behind the scenes. Things we don't share on the toast on, but their podcasts blogs they seem to. Be Really liked so highly. Recommend to the patrons. Just let me know your thoughts on that. Chili, Cook off. I'm still waiting for the masses to let me know. We're marinating on this idea. For our final episode of the month. And Jackie is a great idea to blog the Great Chili Cook off between me and then. I will be the judge obviously and I think I'll do it because I want to cook a chilly like everyone loves the blogs so much and I I want to taste. Ben might be cooking up in the kitchen. Ben Like I don't WanNa. Blow my husband's spot up and I'm so grateful that he doesn't watch his show because I'm about to say something that would really hurt his feelings i. know what it's going to be and I think he needs to be said get Ben. Probably cooks the most in our family. His Dad is a chef and he's just always had this kind of. Desire, to be like culinary, and because we don't Cook that much in my house I never really thought much of it, but in quarantine. We've been cooking so much and. I kinda WanNa say like Ben is a terrible cook. Damn leg. Says and I. Don't know if it's just like he cooks things. I would never eat eggs and Salami. Yes, but it never looks very good and when he does make things that I like not to be like such, but it's not good. Okay, so like what are some of the things I feel like you are always making tacos and the meat is just never right. Okay well when we make Tacos, I make and I made it last night and delicious. But, like you, guys are always having like a meat problem we'll. We are going through an issue where it's like with quarantine, we've been loading up kosher meat, and like every time I take grilled chicken out of the freezer and defrost it like it's disgusting like it's like raw. I just I don't understand the whole defrosting. Didn't understand the defrosting thing I was like I'll just put it in the stove like it'll. No and I learned today when I tried to cook a frosted. Thank God. It was a beyond Meat Burger because it didn't matter that. I eat it raw real meat but then I understood the power of crossing and a lot of times. Cooking what I've learned is like you need. Need to learn the lessons, the hard rates and not enough for someone to tell you like meat must be defrosted for three days. You need to experience days. No, yeah, you put in the fridge for three days. Maybe that's why you gotTa defrosting problem. No, I. Take it out in the morning and I leave in the to defrost. Yeah, okay, you're weird. I put my new kitchen. Can't leave raw meat unfrozen in the fridge for three days has a forty eight hour. Two days in the fridge and it works for me. Okay well On. My husband's like not that great of a cook, and that's what quarantine has opened my eyes to, but I think he's just like riding his dad's coat tails, because that's a fabulous chef and Ben's just not, but I appreciate, he is so much passion for the for the craft that it almost helps the food tastes better. Theo has perked up a little bit because like he hears you talking Shit about data, but I also think that Teo. Has that culinary bug a little bit? No and I think he's going to be a master chef. You know what being a dog is so great, because like you literally get the same. Dry Shit twice a day like you're so excited about it yet. We don't know how he actually feels about he. Leaps from the bed can't wait like licking my leg until I put food down like it is the best part of his day and he's actually eating garbage. He's such a leg liquor and I think it's because he loves. The taste of Tan locks like when I tell my legs. My legs today and he. I can't keep him away from well. You're just simply irresistible. Having Royal Canaan with a side of ten Lux. With his real Canaan Jackie Qena Canaan the you're making it like the biblical place can on. No Nine Royal Canin. Fabulous show we do. Anything else you WANNA. Tell the class before we just like. Take a dive off the deep end. No, I feel as though this has been a great week. I'm just to recap it I'm so excited to be back in studio so excited people are watching on Youtube again, and I'm just looking forward to the continued journey I am so happy to be back on in the studio I literally like I didn't realize how much I needed that routine in my live right until it was taken away for me. And I'm just so excited like to keep decorating our space literally, having such a fucking problem I'm shouting out DHL and they're just terrible customer service fabulous mural, coming for the back and they decided they didn't want to deliver it, and then they sent back. Are you kidding? It's just like so much drama, but the postal system so DHL you're on my list. But I'm just really excited for it to come together and I'm so happy. Everyone's watching in just you know. We're pretty bare bones. Look there. We'll get there. Yeah, we always do so. I think without further ADO. It is time for the festive stories that you need to know before week seventy good. Morning Bone. And that's true, but as you remember, we are going to be highlighting once a week. 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Fabulous that is a simple request, whole thing, Bula bigger and better. Based Okay right like we both like that was the line to stop cigarette. Yeah, we'll sometimes I do really good job at cheating it where it's like I could continue if it was a continuation or I could be stopped. You read the room. I. Read The room. Okay, I, ready for our I worry. It's such exciting news. Um, we are on our ship. We have been for a while because there is a new bed on the ship because Emma Roberts is pregnant, expecting her first child with boyfriend, Garrett Hedlund I mean of all the girls in all the world to end up with like the man of my dreams from some of literally my favorite movies. In case you're not familiar. Garrett had lung pay played. In country strong. He was the lead male role. I'm sorry I. Forget his name. And then he also was in Georgia, rule where he was like that iconic college student who wants to give a blowjob to on the robot in the middle of the lake. It was just so iconic, and I absolutely love Garrett Hedlund and I love these two together I love these together and also I feel strongly about Garrett Hedlund, but I also feel like of all the women in the world I'm sorry of all the men in the world to secure. M. Roberts, it's. It's like literally in my opinion, one of the most eligible Bachelor Petritz in the world. I truly adore her, so I'm so happy for her for them, and it's also happy for me. Because I feel like at one point, there was like a break up between the two of them, and now like this confirms to me that they are together. They are having a future together, and they're not thirsty or anything. There's actually so private. It's been confusing over the last few years to know what their actual status was, and this is just a fabulous life update. Babies being brought into the world by two absolutely stunning people. You just love to see it you do you do and this really is a quarantine web I mean I don't know exactly how far along she is. US Weekly does not have that level of detail that this was a major scoop for US weekly. They were the first people that got US weekly. Being like Super Ski these days. What was the other thing? I forget you, but we were talking about it, yeah! Whatever! I don't know I feel like. There were two things that they had recently. And good for them love to see congratulations house weekly on this groupie. Scooby, really giving tmz an E. News. Run for your money that you are I'm proud proud. I know there are a lot of. Work speedily so I see you and we're proud it really like US weekly like I know we said on the show like we have a lot of respect for people magazine before. Yes, which we do completely, but like us weekly's right up there for me. I agree under all the tabloid trash it goes people magazine at the top, and then right there US weekly, and with scoops like this. They're. They're really making their way unto a real contender for people magazine, Yeah they really are in terms of airport magazines, right something for the scoop congratulations to the happy couple, and I look forward to continuing on this journey actually look forward to seeing 'em Roberts be the most beautiful pregnant women like she's just so stunning and stylish already right and she gets invited to the most fabulous events. She's just. Started her career as Hollywood. And she was just like invited. Fabulous places the. True from the start so like this baby is going to be even more fabulous. This is going to be Julia. Roberts in great niece. Yeah, at that point like there's no real word for like the connection between Julia Roberts in the bet, like in terms of lineage like a really great needs. I don't know that's not a thing I think it is. It's not really thing so. anyways sipping congratulations to the whole family congratulations I'm so happy I just I love them. It's like. Do you know who your great aunt is? Actually Yeah? Yeah I guess yeah, see what I'm saying. Yes, great aunt is a thing, but great. Niece is not thank you. I feel that. Okay, thank you, okay. Next story is also some exciting casting news. It's really just taking the world by storm. Elizabeth banks has been cast as Miss Frizzle in the magic, school bus live action film. That is. The most perfect casting if I've ever seen it one hundred percent to the bus. The I live about. I I've actually magic school bus feature. Film is on its way with Elizabeth bit banks set to star as Quirky and adventurous science teacher. Miss Valerie frizzle according to the Hollywood reporter, the word Quirky was invented to describe. Miss frizzle and then. Emma Stone. Yeah, she's so quirky quirky. That also would have been a good casting actually but Elizabeth. Big Quirky also not to be like ages anything, but miss. fizzle is more of an adult and I, think of Elizabeth Banks I don't even know if it stretches. Singapore is an older woman than Emma stone yet miss. frizzle is actually the ultimate counselor. Yes, I know that counselor snitch will be right there in mind ticket. Honestly, she is the ultimate council like I would be calling the. The AFC the Association of camps, because she was very responsible at taking those kids on a flying the ACA ACA American, Camp Association. Yeah, I know, but like. She always got them home safely and Tsinghua choose doing. He belts or anything? It was kind of like a hazard. I know I feel like the live action adopt. Haitian will kind of wrong. And make sure that everyone is safely. Seat belted and feeling safe, and like the parents know the kids are going to be buying. This is just such an interesting choice to do as live action, because it's technically super irrelevant like in in modern times, but like for US kids. It was a formative experience watching that show and I think a movie or show. Book Magic School Bus. Book is a book into a TV show Oh. Yes I guess she's drawn here. Maybe is a children's book series. It was a TV show. The Film Abbott Adaptation is based on Popular Scholastic Children's Book Series Of the same name and follows accenture teacher Miss Frizzle, in her class on their field trips in a magic school bus. TRIPS into tissue. Each film marks the first big screen adaptation in the franchise's six year. WHO's putting it on? Is it a pixar? It's was with being says production company Brownstone. She does good work, but she does cartoons I. DO prefer to leave it to is a cartoon. No, it's live action. Oh I'm sorry I apologize told him it's understood the story live action to the buses, really gonna fly. Yeah, it's going to be fabulous Elizabeth banks is the person to kind of anchor this this whole project. Yeah, and I feel like she definitely has a lot of respect for the magic school bus franchise to begin with. She probably grew up with it so I think. Think. She'll really do it justice, and then she has a lot of fizzle in her. She does she uses fizzle. Yeah, she uses Frizzell for sorry. I also think like memes about miss frizzle like. Don't make me laugh yet. No, she's an iconic character and I look forward to banks breathing new life into her. Really you all the means of Miss Frizzle like one. She's a real human being are gonNA be fabulous yet and I hope that she picks her as we remember her. You know like a strong a strong female. An independent woman, she might have been the first real strong female that we encountered, but a role model. Yeah, she took that school like that class of kids all on her own. Yeah, she was really kind of iconic. Yes, she! She is quite iconic, and I'm so excited about this. Through today's generation of children will watch his movie, and this is something that we all have their own associations, and we have ours, and it's all something we can come together on. That's and that's the power of Miss, frizzle, the magic school bus. That's the power that assists okay next story. The dixie chicks have changed their name why wrapping the Dixie. You haven't heard this. You know the chicks, the chicks their. Chicks Goodbye Dixie amid calls for the removal of confederate symbols and the style. Joe Prompted by the black lives matter movement, the notoriously liberal country music trio, formerly known as the dixie chicks has finally decided that Dixie had to die now, simply the chicks, the bandmates who have sold some. Thirty three million our worldwide. Have changed their name. Forgive me for being ignorant. What is so? It's an association with the Mason Dixon Line. Dixon dixie in their the dixie chicks and They dropped it. Oh, that's interesting, okay? The chicks kind of like a better name. I like it. I'm surprised that there's not like a girl band already with that name totally but I just like as recent years I've become like a dixie chicks. Dan till the guy mostly because Taylor swift told me to, but I just heard that song I'm not ready to make nice and like if you're ever in my proximity when that song comes on I strongly urge you to walk away like it's. It's a powerful thing, and not everyone can handle it. I'm not ready to make nice I'm actually that's not really the. Allow me the powerful part is. Made my bed and sleep like the with no. With no regrets don't man say in. It's a sad sad story when monolith. That A big thing now in the word knowing that I said send somebody saw over the an to write me a letter, saying that a better shot up and seeing on my life will be. Bomb I just wanted to see if that's ever on like just walkway. Okay, it's for the best you know what Song I've been digging these days. What Gas Ladder Dean. Deal in anything again. In. My Limited experience with a child with the dixie chicks was landslide, which was just like I. Don't think it was their song I. Believe Stevie Nicks wrote it, but they made it. For me at least you know, didn't glee, but that was scene when Santana and Brittany are both confessing run another but. I. Just kind of like a little bit ahead of my time. The dixie chicks and I feel like I'm getting caught up now. Yeah, you are, and now they're chicks. The chicks took. It's going to be hard though it is. He's been around for a while. It's going to be hard to disassociate. A rebrand is is hard. What would no matter what you're doing? You know remember. Remember the morning breath right, so it'll take everyone a little time to adjust, but I think we'll get there. Yeah, yeah, yeah, and then you can't remember the time when it was the other thing yet, but it's like nobody really called the dixie chicks anything other than the dixie chicks, whereas like with lay people call them lady a for a while sweep. The name transition wasn't. That crazy. Yeah, but. There were also people who are calling them lady, anti Snitch S, and so I think those two willing schools of thought those people are the real fans. They there's they're the only opinion who's Matt. I agree gas ma-. Dean and even though I'm going to be really controversial right now. See something kind of crazy on. You would think that like Taylor Swift. COLLAB- with the dixie chicks like with my newfound appreciation for them would be like the best thing ever, but I, they're not really on it and I actually wish they weren't on it because it's such like a personal song. So yeah, I said it. Yes, I wish they did John like a proper duet where you could hear all of the people. I didn't even hear something that you really want to rock out to not cry in your car. Yeah, not something that you can't like. Listen next to another. What's so funny is with with Tik Tok you know it's like the videos that you engage with most and up dictating what comes up on your page to the Algorithm is very much giving you what they think you want and I guess if engaged with a lot of tiktok. Taylor swift content they've now I'm now on the Taylor swift side of Tiktok, and she just for wild oriented grenade side of Tiktok, which like I wasn't mad about, but I just didn't understand how it got there, but very much understood how I ended up on the title. Take side of Tiktok and say it's a fabulous place to me. That does sound fabulous congratulations. Ready next rates, it's more happy couple news. Sing God like yesterday. Your stories were like really making me want to cry. I'm sorry. I can't like predict. I'm not blaming but billy. Lord is engaged to Austin Ridell. Who so he's her like A. Man that she dated when she was younger, they rekindled after like her split from Taylor Wachner I'm GonNa drive the lure Taylor Lautner Diaz and now she's engaged. This is just like a big news day for scream. Queen alums. Oh, and I guess he's also from Book Smart Oh let me see the picture. Because? He was like a random I. Remember him from Book Smart on Thursday. The Book Smart Actresses Cheeses. Books Oh. Yeah, I was like wow. I feel so sue the book smart actresses now Fiance Austin, right del showed the happy news on Instagram, writing that saying yes, to his proposal was a no brainer for board. He captioned his instagram. She said yes, actually. She said but I. Guess. That's even better than yes On Valentine's Day Gush over her, calling her the best girl in the world, he said I found the best girl in the World Happy Valentine's Day to us. You know like sometimes you hear about couples. Getting together are getting engage. You know like this is the end of the road for them like this is going to be and I just feel that way I feel like they both finally I don't know him, but if feel like she has found. Found I. Don't know her either, but I think I do. She has found the forever and I feel like she needed that like. After a really tough few years, I'm really happy for her I'm really really happy for her. This is just some happy sweet news. Yeah, and it's just like a big day for people who have been on screaming at some point in their lives for some Roberts. Oh my God. Yes, and you know that there's like. Not even rumors because there's been confirmations, but I guess nothing's been filmed since. Kobe scream queens three. Yeah is happening I heard. It's happening you guys. I heard I would love to. Actually you know there was some t there because when Lee Michelle got quote unquote canceled. I hate that word. Like what else do you say? A few weeks ago. There's other things you could say. When there was backlash, there was controversy controversy. I'm with Lee Michelle we. Weren't doing shows, but there was like all this stuff. And Abigail breath was kind of involved saying that she had also really negative experiences. With Michelle, so if they do bring back, scream queens, I'd be curious to see the onscreen dynamics, and like the behind the scenes dynamics so luckily. On those walls, yes, but forgive me if I'm wrong in terms of the story line Liam. Michelle was Hester until she's like a mass murderer I think. So I. Don't know if it necessarily makes sense to bring her back unless they wanted to. I'm sure they can make it work. I don't think that she died in Oh. Human storyline would it makes sense like for her to really be on. She was like in a high maximum security prison dot. Slash for two years yes I think they broke her out maybe to help. Get like the green meany. Forget. It got really complex. Extend sometimes shows like especially towards the end this what we were talking about three hill. They lose all sense of reality like scream. Queens started that way. That's true so. I'm just really excited. I Should Watch speaking of Ryan Murphy's incredible work politician season to streaming now and we're gonNA. Watch this weekend cap on Monday yeah. I mean we also have to watch our twist movie of the week for Monday, which is black clansmen, but I think I can make time for both this weekend I'm not really doing anything else. I actually am like in the middle of a book and then I have to read the book for the redheads so I actually like a full plate this week. I'm looking forward to the tons of content and I. It's been a while since I literally turn my TV on. And I literally scrawled TIKTOK. It's it's honestly a really sad existence. Like. It's just pathetic and like Ben Comes in pretend I'm doing stuff, so he's not gonNA. Judge me when I've literally not done anything except to talk for the last two hours, and it's not like being creative, and like making my own talks contributing to my social footprint, which is my job. No I'm literally just sitting there scrolling. Entertaining hours go by well whatever you need, whatever it takes three to be entertained in this time like just embrace it. I walked past my bag of knitting supplies, and it just took me back to a time in quarantine, where like I was doing puzzles and knitting like like so pure. Yeah, I need to get back to that place. I know that's where I not right now. Because the past few weeks, I've just been watching. TV! Mostly just watching real house is a Potomac, but I haven't been really reading and I stopped using my Peleton and so yesterday. I'm like back on. Back doing reading during the day at on my Peleton. That's where it was two months ago, but I. Don't know I. Think I might have been better than I. Don't know it's. It's hard to associate when I was good, and when I was not during quarantine warranty very cyclical. So you do something that bored of it. They clearly change your team. You get bored about you missed field. Thing that you're doing. Yes, that's what I was. GonNa say Cyclical, quite cyclical, already ready for a fifth and final story is some good news. That was it a little. Mood News! Is it some good news? Because if John's Kaczynski is not GonNa, tell me I'm not really a little Gouden new. Aol Gen. A little good news. Yes, exactly. Tyler Perry donated a van to Atlanta based women's organization. That helps people experiencing homelessness every time we say we report on Tyler Perry. It's like. Why aren't married to a women's organization in Atlanta provides ha that provides hygiene products to people. Experiencing homelessness received a very special gift on Thursday thanks to Tyler Perry, Erica Right the founder of the nonprofit nonprofit project you I shared that the producer and actor donated a brand new cargo van to the organization, which provides people in need the basics for health, hygiene and love that. That is so cute. I mean in in my eyes like Tyler Perry when his time is up on this earth like he is walking straight into heaven. There's no fucking questions. Nobody's GonNa ask to see like he's just fucking walking in and I felt that way ever remember that trader Joe's story, which is totally broke my heart with the actor who used to be on cosby show yes. This is this is not surprising at all. No, not at all, and it's actually it's very philanthropic. It's very creative way to help out an organization and I think it's beautiful and I just wanted to share that I wanted to end the past high stories on some Goud positive philanthropic news. Yes, and you know what that reminds me because I finally. If you didn't episodes last week, which runs zoom so like I? Don't entirely blame you. You I revealed that actually finally finished and Jessica Simpson's book after much coursing from Jackie, I just wasn't in a heads to read a book, but when I finally got into the head space. I finished like two days and it was so good and that story about how shall i? Want some free car convertible and she s the company if she could trade it in for a minivan and she ended up giving it to that. Orphanage that she was constantly visiting in Dallas Texas where she was from like that was such a cute story. Such a cute story. I totally agree I forgot about that tidbit, but like when she asked if she can trade the convertible infirmity, and the people were. Are you serious? She doesn't want a free car from Chrysler and she's I can actually get like a Chrysler. Minivan that Dan and they were like I think they thought she was joking and she's dead serious and she like Djurovic through the gates of the orphanage, and like the kids running around ever since that book I now follow her on Instagram, which I can't believe I didn't do before. Think as someone who has always felt so connected to Jessica Simpson merely because we share the same birthday like the that anybody where like a disgraceful fan, and I'm really ashamed of myself and I apologize I do, but now that and I'm like really trying to get noticed by being so thirsty and her comments Mike Lovett icon. I just feel like following her on instagram wouldn't have the same impact before you read. The book agreed. I have such respect for her like an her. I understand her personality. Understand her captions like I. I'm glad that I waited otherwise they might be judged her based on her instagram for sure before reading her book and understanding like. Everything that she is. Those are five stories, but we would be. Remiss, we would be devastated and we would even be heartbroken if we didn't share the most piece of mindless news today in today's segment. Kelly's mindless new like the fourth of July. This of course comes from people magazine, because only the most mindless pieces of shit comes from people magazine when it comes to Kelly Ripa here's the headline Kelly. RIPA and Marcus WHEELHOUSE HAVE SET UP CHORE WHEEL FOR Their Family. Amid coronavirus. Kelly RIPA markets, whales have come up with a clever way to ensure that their kids stay busy and contribute to the family amid the ongoing covid nineteen pandemic while speaking with a parenting expert on Mondays broadcasts of live with Kelly and Ryan. Ripa forty-nine revealed that she and her husband of set up a Family Chore Wheel For Their Children, as they continue to shelter in place as a family during the global health crisis, even though it's unclear, where in fact they are. Currently currently. We've established a chore Wheel Where Everybody Has a chore for the Week She told parenting expert Dr Eileen Kennedy Moore, explaining that the family has been using the tool so that somebody's vacuuming quote, somebody does the dishes and somebody does a laundry somebody. Cleanse the toilet throughout the week, so you? Only, have to do at per week. We have to do it every day your responsibility for this week I just hate. The toilet is dirty. Everyone knows who to call everyday right and you know what I think. What kind of triggers me about this story is. They're acting like Kelly Ripa. Invented Chore Wheels That's not the case like the camp counselor in bed to the counselor. snitch invented the Torah and actually have a lot of love in my heart for tour wheels because I do find them to be effective effective. I JUST Wait. There's more. The mom of three went on to say the toilet duty has been a very unpopular chore amongst her family though they switch every week so that no one is stuck scrubbing the porcelain thrown. I mean. The fact that I now know that Kelly Ripa's children scrub their toilets during coronavirus. Like is exactly why the segment Kelly's mindless news was created in the first place. Yes, just to highlight like and I have to say it really is mostly from people magazine, Yeah and other people pick it up, but they are always the first, so here's the thing it's like. She shares this mindlessness on her show I. Think we've broken this down before because they do banter at the beginning of the show. Did you what we do? Yeah, and that doesn't bother me. Me At all like that is who she is. She's the banter. Queen I don't understand why and how it turns into news stories I WANNA know if it's like the live with Kelly and Ryan, Pr just pushing out mindless content is Kelly's personal publicist wanting more news about Kelly, or is it? People magazine just being like weirdly obsessed with Kelly ripa I can't imagine that it's the third I'm sorry I just can't yeah I'm feeling like it's the first the ABC PR team just wanting to get more buds for live with Kelly and Ryan perhaps. But it's just onto them. We're onto them and because it's so interesting. There's so much uninteresting news that that never even catches my eye, but it's like the sheer volume of crap. We have to read about. Kelly Ripa it's just cause for concern, and that's why you know. We started the important work that we do here at Kelly's mindless news. Yeah, yeah, we're. We're calling it out left and right. Call IT A. And, that's our show anything else. We want. WanNa talk about I. Do I don't know if you guys know about on Tuesday next week. My comedy special comes out. It's called Disgrace Queen. It is available for preorder right now, so if you want to just get your ducks in order, you can head to itunes and type in disgraced queen into itunes, or you can tap the Lincoln my by on Instagram. With no job, it'll take you right to the items page and I would really appreciate you. Supporting the comedy special is my first specialist. My debut special I'm really proud of it and the so looking forward to everyone seeing June thirtieth of next week. That's Tuesday. Tuesday, that's when it comes out. That is so exciting when he first announced, the data felt so far far far off, and it was yeah, and now it is here around the corner we have to. We have to do like a screen of soiree. Well like when when I first found out about the special. I was like I'm going to rent a movie theater like all my friends, family and now Mike still not able to do that and no one's even in New York so no one's Gonna be able to watch with me, but maybe I'll just met like you over the we'll watch sounds like a party to me. Sounds like a perfect evening. Anything you. You want to promote shell. Come on, Oh, I mean nothing in particular paycheck dot com slash morning. Toasts were pouring our heart and souls into these episodes for you guys. If you're looking for a little extra content, I don't even know what people's schedules are like right now. Because everyone's in such different places in terms of the quarantine, going back to work, and then not so there's content abound over there Oh, and if you're looking for some presets to brighten up your summer, flow had united flow dot com, the new pastelle package everything of the sort My favorite preset is cotton candy yesterday I use the toast preset on the photo that I posted and it. 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NPR News: 05-07-2020 6PM ET

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NPR News: 05-07-2020 6PM ET

"Live from NPR news. I'm Jack Speer House Speaker. Nancy Pelosi says that's are working on the next round of corona virus relief spending but are not negotiating with Republicans. Npr's Kelsey SNELL reports. Pelosi says she hopes the house can return to Washington next week for in person meetings. Pelosi says the top priorities for Democrats include protecting essential workers increasing funding for state and local governments and expanding testing tracing and treatment. Republicans have not been involved in those talks and GOP leaders are calling for a pause on any new relief. Pelosi also says she hopes. The house can reopen as early. As next week. We'll go up in the house when the sergeant arms and capital physician Say That we can come when they come back. Pelosi wants to vote to allow proxy voting in the House. Gop leader Kevin. Mccarthy has rejected. That idea he's calling for testing in the capital and broader reopen. The House Kelsey Snell. Npr News Washington amid apparent political concerns over new panel tracking Federal Corona Virus and Economic Relief House Minority Leader Kevin McCarthy announced his name five Republicans to the group among the announced appointments. Gop Leaders Steve Scalise in Ohio representative. Jim Jordan Jordan has been one of president. Trump's most vocal defenders. Those appointments would appear to be setting up a partisan fight among the panel members where. Democrats will have a seven to five majority president trump's putting a Republican fundraiser in charge of the US Postal Service financially embattled agency often publicly targeted and Brian. Naylor reports Lewis to joy will become the new postmaster. General did joy is a North Carolina businessman. Who's given millions to the Republican Party and the trump campaign and is currently the head of fundraising for the Republican National Convention? He'll take over June fifteenth from Megan Brennan who announced her retirement. Last year. To joys appointment comes as the postal service is in a critical financial state trump. Who has called the post office a joke as pushed the agency to quadruple its rates for shipping packages for companies such as Amazon who CEO? Jeff Bezos also owns the Washington Post a frequent target of trump's criticism. The Postal Service is trying to negotiate of ten billion dollar loan with the Treasury Department to ease its financial woes Brian Naylor. Npr News the government reported today and other three point. Two million people were added to the jobless rolls last week in the seven weeks since the corona virus pandemic began. It's taking a toll on the US economy with more than thirty three million people now filing for unemployment and the government's latest weekly numbers come ahead of tomorrow's April jobs report which will likely show in jaw-dropping fashion the extent of the damage to the economy. You know expect the unemployment rate. Which in February was it a fifty year low to rise to at least fifteen percent that level of has not been seen since the Great Depression on Wall Street. The Dow was up two hundred eleven points this is NPR Florida authorities say crews are battling a string of wild fires in the Florida. Panhandle that a four sixteen hundred people from their homes ficials say smoke from the fire caused officials to close a stretch of interstate. Ten in both directions today states. Agriculture Secretary says the fast moving fires are extremely dangerous. Luxury retailer Neiman. Marcus has become the first department store chain to declare bankruptcy during the corona virus pandemic. It's follows foreboding to other changes financial distress predates the health crisis like JC PENNEY NPR's Lee. Michelle has more Neiman. Marcus is a luxury department. Store dating back over a century but it's recent history as laden with debt and financial losses. Long before the Corona Virus this echoes the news from J. Crew. Which on Monday became the first retailer to head into bankruptcy during the pandemic both were sold in a wave of private equity buyouts ten twenty years ago which loaded them with debt now both are using bankruptcy proceedings to restructure and turn some creditors inter shareholders. The pandemic could force Neiman Marcus to furlough thousands of workers and temporarily close all of its forty three stores as well as Bergdorf Goodman and last call locations. The company says its chapter eleven bankruptcy will not affect story reopenings. Alina Seljuk. Npr News. All the stores you've been seeing about those big bugs double-murder Murder Hornets invading the US. Well apparently more Hoopla than hype according to some insect experts. They say why some large Hornets have been found in Washington state. They're not a major threat to people and they could be a threat to the honeybee population of the world com established but no live. Hornets had been seen. I'm Jack Speer NPR news.

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Ep 170: Breaking It Down with Justin Sylvester (Lea Michele, Vanderpump Rules, Kanye, & More.)

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Ep 170: Breaking It Down with Justin Sylvester (Lea Michele, Vanderpump Rules, Kanye, & More.)

"So as you guys know last week, we really spend the episode talking about what's going on. We were fortunate enough to have Sarah. Come on and kind of share her experience in share her story and then Julian I got into a whole conversation on our way. Privilege just things that we've learned. And we were so happy this week. We're joined by Justice Silvester and we started the episode. Really you know talking about everything. and his experience going to protests, etc, and then we spoke about celebrity content, but kind of based in the lens of what's going on and I hope you guys enjoy. Guys. I'm Julie and we're the girls behind comments. CELEBS and we are so excited. You guys know how much we love this man. We are here with Co host of ease, daily pop and host of Justice podcast Justin Sylvester. How are you? I'm so happy to be on with you. It feels like it's been so long. It's been so long. It'd be like ashamed since. October another? Sugden. It's a different world, and honestly in the best way possible I think from was about a month a little bit more than a month ago. I cannot believe the amount of changes. Literally. It's so crazy and when I look back at all these things that have been going on since January you know the minute. The minute close I was like something's going on. The world's about to shift and I. Twenty twenty as much as it's a of balls to the phase. Is. Running out to be the best year of our lives. WAS EVERYBODY NEEDS FALSE? They sometimes you know. On of all by is it fresh from the Jimbo's our shower balls twenty twenty was out of the GM I've been in the Congo for three months was in Iraq and I'm GonNa hit you with these balls. They were sweating. I just feel, and I know you know. I have been talking about this little just in general that. There's definitely like a palpable change in in in the air. You know you can feel. It feels different this time and First thing that I wanted to talk to you about was. You have been going to the protests. La and I feel like I've been to them just three your stories, but can you talk about what that experience is like? Yeah, you know going to the protests in La I'm a HYPOCHONDRIAC in drivel. You mean so I'm just letting you know right now that copen nineteen. I took so seriously because I was so afraid to get. It are contracted because I have been hearing these horror stories and. When I saw the first protests, I was at. This is crazy. I can't believe people are out there and on a new segment I got a glimpse of Kid who was twenty one years old around. She was holding a sign. That says Black Lives Matter GonNa risk my life until you know it, and it was at that moment that I looked at that younger person who has not black instead. Wow! If this person is going to put their lives on the line for my people, why can't I? Route. Going out there listen. I was expecting World War three I was expecting bullets and fire and brimstone, and I got out there. It was the complete opposite. It was unbelievable EP, so it was unifying. I cried for half of the walk from Beverly Hills to. Mid City which is a three mile walk so for me. It was just a beautiful unbelievable thing. You know what I really wanted to do my platform. And what I really wanted to convey on my instagram story. Is this a safe? This is unifying. There are people from all walks of life. At these things. There are also hot dudes here you. Are. Whether you want to come because you wanNA, be on the right side of history. Are you WANNA come for photo? Please do it. Come through. You can do it. It is safe and I just wanted to change the narrative that it was off moving in fighting in an anger in. It's not bad. No! No, and I think that that's that's what I've definitely got in and I always say this like Rdm's serve as a place where people just give their opinions on what's going on and on commentators on celebrities and I cannot tell you how many people were sending us your stories being like? Wow, you know. I think that you just conveyed the sense of. Inspiration and empowerment and it was. Beautiful Watch just you're just fucking crap. People are afraid of the unknown I. Think People Are Afraid of what they don't know what they can't see. I think that's what the news media does. It presents this salacious. You know high energy high drama situations in. That's not always the case and I'm telling you right now. I know you have a lot of girls that listen to your podcast ladies. There there is some hot Dick at these. Okay. Shamma at these protests and use a man are out there for a good reason. They have their shirts. Yeah. You might have to ask them to. Take down their mass, but girl go out there God is leaving your blessing at the corner of Santa. Monica and Santa Sanjay at these protests. Girl. Go get this Damn Dick. But I saw what I saw your story of the guy with the man bunny sitting back, he was so buff us all touted, and we were gonNA. End You hilarious caption. We were GONNA screen shot at posted on our story with the caption like a poll like is athletes that are gonna find his husband at a protest and we wanted to do, and then we're like fuck if you don't really know Justin, this will come across insensitive. Show you. took. His so me, but I have been encouraging people you know I. Have Friends who have not come to the protest. They were scared. They were afraid and I have taken everything that they want in life i. was you know one friend, don't you? WanNa be on this side of history. Remember when we were going to limits March and you were upset that you didn't show up. Don't have that regret getting life i. have another friend who singling can't find her husband. I might Yo. God is putting him out there. You better get your ass over year. He's now out there. I have another friend who likes exercising. Get Son. Just unlock this girl. Chico through the exercise in the sun and to get out of the house because she didn't want to be alone anymore and then seen her going to protest. Because she liked the message and she liked what was going on. And that's all you can ask for is that you inspire somebody to get the fuck out to give them? Or it's not stay silent anymore. which is the most important part right most you know? We were kind of just talking about that before we started. Which is you know? We got a lot of messages like? Oh, so glad you're using your platform where we always say. Thank you, but also please don't praise us like this to me is the kind of thing where if you have a platform regardless of if you're an influence or if you've been account like ours, whatever it is, you're not using it to the best of the ability, and not just re posting graphics like really with any sort of meaningful to me is just an excusable. This it's too fucking important. No one hundred percent and unhappy. You are influenced her. Yeah I. Know You have a lot of thoughts. ooh! Say. Say. A lot of people have been saying. These influencers are out there doing performance you protesting. They're only going out there for I g photos. and. I say let them go. Give they went out there and didn't post anything. We'd be pissed right? We'd say. Why did you come? Not Post anything you have this platform. Why not use it? It's like when seniors talk about racial injustice are are abuse in their songs. That's there are form. That's what they do for a living I'm not gonNA go in fact. Check and ask her what. She was really talking about why she talked about it. That's none of my business, but if she wants to. To Express that in her art form, and bring awareness to bench I'm here for it so in your influence era, and you're bringing out some scattered sneakers, and you take a photo of the Graham. Do you're damn thing because you are going to the word you're gonNA make another influence or go out there and trying to be a part of it because influence in his I. Oh no, she's GonNa do it. I gotTA DO A two. That's how it always happens. That's. So, we can't be people. We can't judge people if they WANNA. Take Votto, NBA. Involved that way. I, don't care as long as you get the word out. Yeah no I definitely think I. Mean Listen I. Think there's been on what we're going to talk about on some of the up. Today is some of the kind of backlash that's come out in regards to certain celebrities, but I do have to say I. Think they're also has been. There's been a lot of people that I've been really pleasantly surprised by and I. Don't think those should go unnoticed and again now that they should be getting any praises what they should be doing, but I guess I'm I'm glad to see it. There haven't been that many people were. We felt like we've had to on follow because we felt so disgusted with their inaction, which was kind of like A. We felt good about who we were following in the first place, but there's definitely been you know I, it's it's good to seeds. It's necessary. It's I duNno, it's not optional. I feel one hundred percent, but. A lot of celebrities will. Stay silent, because they don't WanNa ruin their chances of getting a role that air you know in the running for our methods box office in a lot of times, we judge celebrities, not doing too much or doing too little and a lot of times. You don't know what's going on on the back end, so I tried to not judge or not be like you need to more, but I will remember the people who stayed silent. I will not. Criticize, you but I will not buy that ticket. I will not do that interview. I will not go to that premiere, because I'm not going to go ahead and lift you up. When when I was down and out, and our people were running out. You weren't saying Damn thing. Definitely stabs out like I scrolled through Instagram Ed, not even on purpose like it's not even like I'm setting out to find people who to like aren't doing enough, but I've definitely skuld instagram. Be Like you're somebody who should be doing more. You're somebody you should be doing more your somebody who I appreciate what you're doing like I feel like it's just A. Thing right now. Amen and I instagram needs to do. In, this is gonNA. Sound like a joke I. Don't mean it in a joking way. I think instagram really needs to do this. They need to make a on follow easier. I can agree. Why do you have to go to the profile? Right. I haven't to swipe lamp pressing Filo again my life moving again. I just didn't even make it more easier because let me let you know. something. I got carpal tunnel in following all you mother, fuckers who are hosting rose eight photos and dawn pigs. Okay. I so agree with you. That's actually a great point. Those three little dots while you're scrolling should have a non fault. Either Greek Yeah. Thank you I wanted to ask you, you know. Giulinai last week we did an entire episode. Sparked of course by what happened to Geor Floyd but. We. We brought on one of our black listeners and she was just explaining how. This is such a time for these really these conversations where you really have to go, deepen dig and Angelina I spoke a lot about the end of ours, and we were saying that in our own circles. You know we've had a lot of conversations with our white friends that we honestly haven't had before and I'm curious. If you've seen in your world, these conversations popping up intimately I'm not saying on a public platform that any of have surprise you or if you feel I. Don't know how you're feeling about all that. You know it's interesting, because yeah. I had a lot of you know uncomfortable conversations with privately with my friends, but it's the people who aren't trying to start the conversation. Their silence is deafening to me, It's interesting because you can't ignore what's going on, you know no matter where you live, but if you live in Los, Angeles you really can't ignore because you could hear the gunshots. You can hear the smoke gas. Canisters going off, you can hear the helicopters at all hours of the day. So there is no reason for you to ignore that conversation. What I tell people all the time. Is it super uncomfortable to talk about if it's uncomfortable? That's probably the conversation than you ask needs to have. Asked now I'm GonNa. Make it easier for you to make it easy for you. I'M GONNA. Send you a medium. That is Kinda funny. That's Kinda cheeky, but it's an invitation for you to open. Your got the porcelain veneers in. Say something that resembles like you have heart. Yeah, you can have. A CS exact. fucking true and that's very much. You know specifically. That's very much your style. It's never a sort of aggressive way. You typically tend to have a lighthearted edge, no matter what your discussion discussing which I think makes it even more inexcusable for people not to be open to that because you do it in such A. Engaging way you know. But you also can't like for myself. I. Go back to the METOO movement. You know I go back to when Ashley Judd said her experience win win rose McGowan, said her experience in countless other women said their experiences. The people who are staying silent now were also the people who said well. She got a role and she put herself in that position and you. You, know she. She didn't stop talking to him after that I mean. She stayed friends with him, so she must've wanted. It's those same people, so if you as a person away, person are white woman couldn't even rally around another white woman. Right including jump on the bandwagon Gwyneth paltrow. How the hell am I going to get you back on when George Fluid? It's a great. You know what I mean. I don't have. I don't have over. No one can grab me by the Pussy but Guidon someone to do that. To my daughter, someone could overlook my daughter for job because she was a woman by future daughter because she was a woman and guess what I'm GonNa, do this now because. Five sixty. That's last got the I wanNA, do I WANNA be at Sandals? Three right. Now exactly that's why we have to do it. Now I wanted to ask you. Do you feel in your lifetime? Do you feel a sense of hopefulness that you haven't felt before? Do you find this time in different does feel different for you. This time to me feels like. The moment I don't know if you guys were around because you guys are fucking twelve but this. where it was prop eight situation that was going to ban gay marriage. Six years ago, maybe seven years ago and remember the feeling of all of the world rallying around. Gay People for them to have basic human rights and I remember feeling like. Wow, this is going to change. This is going to be a significant shift in how we treat each other. And it was an the world came to understanding my Ra. We know that you don't agree with this and we don't agree with this, but we're gonNA come together and we're going to help. You guys fake this out. Because as human beings in as taxpayers who gave the same amount of taxes as all of us, we'll give you guys the right to marry, and we figure out how to get you guys the basic rights that you're asking. Of that time because. It wasn't just gay people talking and for black lives matters. It's not just black people talking when I look at that crowd of his protests, sixty percent of those motherfuckers are non black and beautiful. It is now I mean I, you know, of course it's different than I recognize that we're in a different you know. Our perspective is different, obviously as as women but. I don't know if this is just also because of what's going on with corona and the fact that it's almost forcing so many people that were. Consciously turning a blind eye to pay attention, but it feels different meter. There's a sense of camaraderie. There's a sense even across social. There's just there's just a sense of were not fucking standing for this time. I saw a sign that said you know we're the last generation. You'RE GONNA. Fuck with, and it's kind of like the sense that I feel. Well I think it has also honorably a lot to do with trump I think that this half is presidency with everybody. Being against ten kicked us in. The ASS was like this is what we're fighting against him for. Only one hundred percent, but let's just start off by saying this initiative to stay at the top, and I forget to say it. This is not a political movement. Democrats versus Republicans because I have seen some Republicans on these marches, and just so you know. I'm Kinda sort of a sexual when it comes to politics, I'm not a Democrat I'm not a Republican, but I mostly skew Democrat, but I will also say that just because there's a d. next to that person's name. They're not always here for my causes. So I will vote are not that I did in the presidential leadship, but I'm just saying when I do vote, but people are trying to make this about how it's, and it's not about politics. It's unfortunate. That he's made it easier for us to band together because everybody likes a common costs, and when he cut those whites off at the White House we will. Bit paid fights on the hill. You cut them up. I know you mother fucker. All, my God, it's it's it's. It's so infuriating, but no, you're absolutely right. It's not a political thing. It's a fucking human. It's a human thing. Some of the best sex ever had was republican sex again. You Look Hashtag. You're listening for it yet living for. God, I know I know. A related g well me out. The Christmas thing was crimeline of Lady Jaye. Because I saw that initial tweet the night before that was like. If I know this information will, other people speak out in the next day the next morning, it was trending on twitter. The game look bigger here. The gains are here until you fuck with our Arby's human rights, okay. Aren't here until we will have our rose as were. Were are berries, boot camps and we will not mess, but anybody will fight amongst each other, but we are not fighting with anybody, but come for our human rights Aaron. Shot Lady G. President of the United, states, we're here, we're. FUCKING READY! It's so good. It's no good. I also wanted to mention that. 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Is Liam Shell Which? I. I! Question that I wanna I I should preface before we even started getting into what actually happened both of us the question for both of you. Do you think that this was like Hollywood? Best kept secret. She's this crazy diva or was the kind of thing where everybody knows about it. Just no one is is speaking about it. Let me first. Start off by saying that I have interviewed the Michelle few, times. Only been nothing but nice to me, and I have only had great experiences with her. However Will also say to lighten the blow that I feel like sometimes. It's easy. It's easy to label somebody. Something in people don't realize when you label somebody. Something like a races are rapists are pedophile. That really never leaves. I stand word very lightly. I don't think I've even used the word one time besides chanting it at the March this week. Because I automatically know 'cause I've seen it before with my own to is I grew up in south Louisiana. I knew what racists right. I do Michelle's situation and I'm gonNA apologize to her now because we're going to save his bluntly and again I was not there. I think Liam Michelle was equal opportunity diva. Yes, she. To everybody Black White, whatever I think Leeann Michelle got fame at a very young age I. Think when you get fame at as a teenager, you get stuck where you become famous, which is why Parasol? Always twenty one in her mind Tom Cruise is always be twenty-five rescue this moments. Lee Michelle was just Dak famous that young was Brad, and just never grew up, never had to really deal with her situation to do with her her attitude because he kinda Kurt. Tele Rounder, and if you don't tell route, it's all that she is wrong in that she is a brat. Guess what she's going to grow up to be. Mrs right? I just felt bad that via Michelle got labeled races because when I looked at those tweets I am a black person. When I looked at those tweets, there were white people in there there were men there were women. Granddaughter was in there, and there was a black or to you. I just didn't want people to focus on in a kept on saying this the race. Oh, he's a racist. No, no, because if you, Allen's tweets, you know four months two months ago when people are going through Ellen, Shit and you would have found one black person who was I. Yeah. She said this to me. You couldn't say oh. My God Ellen is a racist because out of a hundred and five tweets. You've got one black one. Right, we'll I'm in. Obsessed with the idea of Michelle having to or like people have come out with Michelle and say listen that she's a racist. She's just a shitty person in general. craziest ever now that college on the other hand well, I mean I have wonderful. Way Let me. Just read it to everyone. In case, anyone didn't read it. Because it's worth reading and I WANNA dissect. Let me just read. It I feel like we're doing the whole Kristen divorce statement, but I have to read this. La Okay Ready. This was this came in the form of a three slide. No posts on instagram. One of the most important lessons of the last few weeks is that we need to take the time to listen and learn about other people's perspectives in any role. We played or anything we can do to help address the injustices. They face when I tweeted the other day. This was after Everybody knows this after she tweeted. You know black lives matter when? When I tweeted the other day, it was meant to be a show of support for our friends and neighbors in communities of color during this really difficult time, but the responses I received what I post had it made me also focused specifically on how my own behavior towards fellow cast members was perceived by them, but keyword which we'll get back to in a second. Mile I don't remember ever making this specific statement, and I have never judged others by their background or color of their skin. That's not really the point