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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider

Gold with Jeanette Schneider

08:05 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider

"Read the awakened family by dr. Shefali. Oh, I've seen it's a she right? It's a woman you've seen her on Oprah Super Soul Sunday's yeah. Yes. I highly recommend it. I think you would be in love with every delicious word of it. It's really hurt ethos is that there are no good children and no bad children. There are just repressed children and that a lot of times bad behavior is just this inner rebellion and Defiance to be who they are. And I think that was a lot of my issue. I was a rebellious kid and teenager. I had so much stuff down my throat in it in the name of good intention. You know, I had I was from a loving family but so many things that I was told just is not organically aligned with me. They felt feel like truth. There was just always this dissonance in me and I felt like I had to wear masks most of my life in order to Accept it and I don't even say that in a way that's accusatory because I feel like I know that I'm loved very much by my family and and they're operating with this Paradigm. They think they're trying to help me and they always have you know, but but but I my truth is is is different and I feel like the greatest tragedy of any human life is too easy to turn your nose up and betray your own truth. And I feel like with my daughter. It's I have such a mandate to be trained her and and support her in a way that she's constantly in tune with her own Essence. I love that and it's like a full circle moment that comes right back off you have to show up for yourself and and and know who you are in such a deep and profound way home. And I think in a lot of weak kids do before we tell them who they are. And that's what she talks about in this book. Yeah, it's it's it's yes, you have to I know you will love it. Yeah. Now I have to read it. I I believe that's so much and I and honor that about my own daughter and like I've tried to she wanted to do a YouTube channel and I was like, oh you should do the same thing going to be cute data and no that's not what I want to do. She's sassy. She's so she knows who she is. And so as long I can just get her right she's going to be she's going to be okay. I really appreciate you having this conversation with me. I know that you and I could literally talk for hours and cover multiple subjects because we've gotten to know each other. So well, yes, one of the last questions that I have and I ask everyone. So the name of the platform is love is viral Olivia named it. I know know the whole story wonderful so long If you had to give someone advice as to how make love go viral or if you do it in your daily life, what would you what advice would you give what would you say that thing about? You know human beings are diverse every aspect of our expression is diverse. Our Curiosities are diverse our longings our diverse. Everything about us is so diverse and it makes up the complete Mosaic of humanity, which is so infinitely beautiful. I would say to make love go back is be vigilant about governing yourself and honor everyone else's right to govern themselves. I loved that such respect for self and other yeah that we sometimes forget. Just honoring each other's Journey, you know what I mean. feel like so often and I do this we all this and you know in an effort to to try love someone the right way or help them. We tried to sort of like Wrangle with them and their decisions and you know, somebody's going through difficult time or having, you know, repeating a negative cycle. We went to fix them and and or we see something and we perceive it as evil or we perceive it as wrong and I'm not saying there isn't evil in the world and then there's I'm not singers in dysfunction the world, but I'm saying that love um, love, you know, love honors a person's right to be who they are. And I think that most of the Evil The Angst the is just this repressed sense of self. I really do if you really break it down. If you really pull back the layers off gently. I really believe that so much. I believe that that that repression it feeds violence. It feeds so many dysfunctions off rage feeds discontentment, you know depression anxiety. Don't you agree? I think I do. I remember someone asking me on a podcast once if I were to leave behind a piece of advice to the next-gen or I was leaving the Earth. What was the last thing that you would want to say? I'm like search for the humanity and the other because I think one of the things that we forget to do is we're constantly we're talking to talk to fix to give advice need to convince to proceed but we're we're having conversations with our past and our history and ourselves our own preconceived notions programme. Yeah, and we have a person who has their home own experiences standing right in front of us are sitting right in front of us wanting to loved and to be seen doing the same thing. I think that there is so much Beauty to kind of recognizing the humanity and and the love and the other and I believe this for a long time that we experience other people based on our pain. Mhm, not based on who they who they are at their core. We want to assign them or convince ourselves that we are right about them right and half the time the conversation that's being had is an actual right? Oh, yeah. It's it's our own creation. So I absolutely adore that. And I think it's a very beautiful deep answer with Gorgeous words. Like you do like you have the best words. I love you. Do you do well. I just want to thank you so much for doing this with me. I love talking to you and if people want to follow you in order to see your stories and not follow your your writing Journey, where can they go? So have Lacy Johnson, I have a lot of writing clips and I use I always keep it kind of update with different appearances that I'm doing wage. Um, you can find me on Pilgrim mac.com popsugar.com and Instagram is the Lacy Johnson. Well, thank you for Lacy Johnson. You're amazing. Thank you so much for joining today. I love Lacey's reminder that we are responsible for ourselves and the content that we consume and allow into our garden. If we don't like the way we feel or the thoughts having it is time to change the content. You can finally see online at least you johnson.com. Add the Wonder report on Instagram and Facebook at the Lacy Johnson. As always please subscribe leave a review and don't forget to share with your friends. We are always interested in content that uplifts. So if you have ideas, we'd love to hear from you email us at deer live at love is viral. You can also find us on Instagram at love is Meryl Media or visit our website at 11 tomorrow, Apple users. Don't forget to give the Live Pocket coach A Try by downloading it for free for seven days..

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider

Gold with Jeanette Schneider

07:15 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider

"Many things that I was told just is not organically aligned with me. They felt feel like truth. There was just always this dissonance in me and I felt like I had to wear masks most of my life in order to Accept it and I and I don't even say that in a way that's accusatory because I I feel like I know that I'm loved very much by my family and and and they're operating with this Paradigm. They think they're trying to help me and they always have you know, but but but I my truth is is is different and I feel like the greatest tragedy of any human life is too easy to turn your nose up and betray your own truth. And I feel like with my daughter. It's I have such a mandate to be trained her and and support her in a way that she's constantly in tune with her own Essence. I love that and it's like a full circle moment that comes right back off you have to show up for yourself and and and know who you are in such a deep and profound way home. And I think in a lot of weak kids do before we tell them who they are. And that's what she talks about in this book. Yeah, it's it's it's yes, you have to I know you will love it. Yeah. Now I have to read it. I I believe that's so much and I and I honor that about my own daughter and like I've tried to she wanted to do a YouTube channel and I was like, oh you should do the same thing going to be cute data and no that's not what I want to do. She's sassy. She's so she knows who she is. And so as long as I can just get her right she's going to be she's going to be okay. I really appreciate you having this conversation with me. I know that you and I could literally talk for hours and cover multiple subjects because we've gotten to know each other. So well, yes, one of the last questions that I have and I ask everyone. So the name of the platform is love is viral Olivia named it. I know I know the whole story wonderful so long If you had to give someone advice as to how to make love go viral or if you do it in your daily life, what would you what advice would you give what would you say that thing about? You know human beings are diverse every aspect of our expression is diverse. Our Curiosities are diverse our longings our diverse. Everything about us is so diverse and it makes up the complete Mosaic of humanity, which is so infinitely beautiful. I would say to make love go back is be vigilant about governing yourself and honor everyone else's right to govern themselves. I loved that such respect for self and other yeah that we sometimes forget. Just honoring each other's Journey, you know what I mean. I feel like so often and I do this we all do this and you know in an effort to to try to love someone the right way or help them. We tried to sort of like Wrangle with them and their decisions and you know, somebody's going through difficult time or having, you know, repeating a negative cycle. We went to fix them and and or we see something and we perceive it as evil or we perceive it as wrong and I'm not saying there isn't evil in the world and then there's I'm not singers in dysfunction in the world, but I'm saying that love um, love, you know, love honors a person's right to be who they are. And I think that most of the Evil The Angst the is just this repressed sense of self. I really do if you really break it down. If you really pull back the layers off gently. I really believe that so much. I believe that that that repression it feeds violence. It feeds so many dysfunctions off rage feeds discontentment, you know depression anxiety. Don't you agree? I think I do. I remember someone asking me on a podcast once if I were to leave behind a piece of advice to the next-gen or I was leaving the Earth. What was the last thing that you would want to say? I'm like search for the humanity and the other because I think one of the things that we forget to do is we're constantly we're talking to talk to fix to give advice need to convince to proceed but we're we're having conversations with our past and our history and ourselves and our own preconceived notions programme. Yeah, and we have a person who has their home their own experiences standing right in front of us are sitting right in front of us wanting to loved and to be seen doing the same thing. I think that there is so much Beauty to kind of recognizing the humanity and and the love and the other and I believe this for a long time that we experience other people based on our pain. Mhm, not based on who they who they are at their core. We want to assign them or convince ourselves that we are right about them right and half the time the conversation that's being had is an actual right? Oh, yeah. It's it's our own creation. So I absolutely adore that. And I think it's a very beautiful deep answer with Gorgeous words. Like you do like you have the best words. I love you. Do you do well. I just want to thank you so much for doing this with me. I love talking to you and if people want to follow you in order to see your stories and not follow your your writing Journey, where can they go? So have Lacy Johnson, I have a lot of writing clips and I use I always keep it kind of update with different appearances that I'm doing wage. Um, you can find me on Pilgrim mac.com popsugar.com and Instagram is the Lacy Johnson. Well, thank you for Lacy Johnson. You're amazing. Thank you so much for joining today. I love Lacey's reminder that we are responsible for ourselves and the content that we consume and allow into our garden. If we don't like the way we feel or the thoughts having it is time to change the content. You can finally see online at least you johnson.com. Add the Wonder report on Instagram and Facebook at the Lacy Johnson. As always please subscribe leave a review and don't forget to share with your friends. We are always interested in content that uplifts. So if you have ideas, we'd love to hear from you email us at deer live at love is viral. You can also find us on Instagram at love is Meryl Media or visit our website at 11 tomorrow, Apple users. Don't forget to give the Live Pocket coach A Try by downloading it for free for seven days..

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider

Gold with Jeanette Schneider

08:06 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider

"It's sort of stopped me in my tracks and I was like, we haven't even okay, we're going to dinner right? We haven't even arrived at the restaurant and you're already focused on how we're going to be billed are staged for our audience, you know, and I remember saying to her in the bathroom we went on you know, how girls going a bathroom break together and I sort of put my hands on her shoulders and I said, who are you living for down? You know, what about you? Where's the beauty in this moment? I feel like we rob ourselves of the beauty of a moment and the moment you can never get back. You know, I feel like this year should teach us more than anything just the future is always uncertain. We have this illusion that things are certainly make our plans. This is what we're going to do. We're going to go on vacation. We're going to walk with this, you know release this book. I'm going to have this edit done by this time. I'm going to enroll my child in this activity and we should do that. You have to organize your life, but I feel like wage. where the you know more than ever before 20-20-20 should confirm for us that the future is uncertain and our days are precious and every moment we have is so precious and if we live every day worried about what our audience thinks and you know, who's going to how many comments were going to get how much attention you're going to get. We will have shuffled through our whole life never having been really known for who we truly are and living in a shadow of connection. And it's it's it's really the thing about social media is that it is very seductive because we are biologically wired as human beings for connection. We are meant to be in community. We need each other and really women are nurturing abilities. Like we we are biologically wired to have intimate conversations to have intimate connections and social media gives you a sort of like carrot dangling. It's like seductively in your face, like, you know, it's nice there that connection and you can sort of have that Rush of that experience and Russia that connection but it it doesn't satiate you because it's really just a shadow of connection and I sometimes I compare Our social media to porn and people laugh, but I actually said this in another interview and not that I'm saying. There's anything you know, my beliefs about that or anything and I'm not even saying that's bad. I'm just saying there are you know, it's not people sometimes we'll replace true intimacy for porn like a porn addiction and I think a lot of times not a lot of times are some of the time people will replace true relationships for the connections that they build on social media because perhaps they have issues with intimacy, you know, maybe they don't they have some subconscious beliefs that they aren't worthy of being truly known they don't want people to know who they really are. I know that I you know kind of went through that for a long time in my twenties, I didn't realize it but I think I had a real fear of being known. I thought that I I didn't know that about myself. I know that now but I think for a long so it's not an uncommon thing, but I think social media dead. Can really fuel that sort of perversion in yourself. Your circle is everything and I like to invite you to join mine today. The love is viral show is brought to you by gold Circle unlived pocket coach our exclusive gold Circle membership includes over 130 pieces of content on self-development relationships money and vision weekly group coaching call a monthly webinars and access to our private lives community in real time for a fraction of the price you pay for traditional coaching. The gold circle is interactive as you share. We build courses and offer you the circle you have been looking for to move you to the next level in your life download the Live Pocket coach on Apple and select the gold Circle membership from the subscription options in the menu home. I'll see you in the circle. That's really interesting because well two things so I'm raising girls right my daughter and then my my partner's daughter, they're both 9 and first and foremost Olivia mine was upset because she didn't have as many followers as Mainland did and it was this whole thing kids don't like her will U like me will you share my stuff and I'm like your 9 and we're already upset about following and I had to pull it back. She actually recognized that her mood is worse when she's been on any type of social media. So if she watches a kid, she even went to Rome kids programming that is younger than her age because she said at least it always has a happy ending on Tik Tok and Instagram, there's all these emotions and people are upset with each other or they've got a sad story or they thought something that's mean at least on Sofia The First there's always a happy ending and it was like, how aware is that? Right? But it's a constant thing. We're we're like get off YouTube. No Tick Tock. She's not home. 2 gram not on Facebook. So we're very aware of it. It's something you thought was really interesting because I don't think that we show our true personalities even in the way that we comment with each other right phone number at one point in time. So I have a sense of humor and I noticed that I started to curb it cuz it can be a little bit dry and I noticed I started to curb it. Well one of my clients started following me on Facebook cuz I didn't want them to see my sarcasm or my wits or whatever cuz I was to my page anytime Emily girl. Here's what I would have said, so I started pulling it back because I was like, oh, like now people who I have professional relationships with our following me and then when my page start to become more public even with people that I'm following and I'm friends with have a tendency to almost be the lurker. I'll like your stuff or put something little but most of the time I won't even tell you what I really think or I'll send you a text and view like haha this cuz South There is almost kind of like there's an exposure and a vulnerability as well because we also have this experience of the troll, right and I've had several trolls so I'm saying we don't need them here. Yeah, but we're aware of them and so you have a tendency tendency all of a sudden to start to even though you want to connect you start to protect right you start to kind of pull back a little bit and you're careful about what you say you start questioning some of your you could have the best of intentions like I did a YouTube video with Olivia. She was a guest on my show and we talked about kids and emotional and social media and rather than recognizing the comment. I had someone post about what I was wearing next to my daughter and like I can't believe as a mom you would wear that in front of your kid, and I'm like whoa, like off point completely missed right but that there's things I think having such a voice in public forum also tends to almost create this like dead. Barrier, I so know this plight that you're talking about. I tell you where I've arrived in the past year. I you know, I you and I are both writers. I write for a lot of magazines too. I'm a journalist as well. So I put out a lot of material in the world. It's red, you know by millions of people because of the platform that I write for I too have had trolls. I've had people say exalting things that they just like I'm a hero I've had people say scathing things off and I just remember right it like no matter what I'm not defined by the amazing things they say and I'm not defined. I'm not defined by any of it and I am going to and I have to constantly check myself almost like I'm a little kindergartner like check. Do you have everything you need? Are you put together? You.

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider

Gold with Jeanette Schneider

08:04 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider

"Sort of stopped me in my tracks and I was like, we we haven't even okay, we're going to dinner right? We haven't even arrived at the restaurant and you're already focused on how we're going to be billed are staged for our audience, you know, and I I remember saying to her in the bathroom we went on you know, how girls going a bathroom break together and I sort of put my hands on her shoulders and I said, who are you living for down? You know, what about you? Where's the beauty in this moment? I feel like we rob ourselves of the beauty of a moment and the moment you can never get back. You know, I feel like this year should teach us more than anything just the future is always uncertain. We have this illusion that things are certainly make our plans. This is what we're going to do. We're going to go on vacation. We're going to walk with this, you know release this book. I'm going to have this edit done by this time. I'm going to enroll my child in this activity and we should do that. You have to organize your life, but I feel like wage. where the you know more than ever before 20-20-20 should confirm for us that the future is uncertain and our days are precious and every moment we have is so precious and if we live every day worried about what our audience thinks and you know, who's going to how many comments were going to get how how much attention you're going to get. We will have shuffled through our whole life never having been really known for who we truly are and living in a shadow of connection. And it's it's it's really the thing about social media is that it is very seductive because we are biologically wired as human beings for connection. We are meant to be in community. We need each other and really women are nurturing abilities. Like we we are biologically wired to have intimate conversations to have intimate connections and social media gives you a sort of like a carrot dangling. It's like seductively in your face, like, you know, it's nice there that connection and you can sort of have that Rush of that experience and Russia that connection but it it doesn't satiate you because it's really just a shadow of connection and I sometimes I compare Our social media to porn and people laugh, but I actually said this in another interview and not that I'm saying. There's anything you know, my beliefs about that or anything and I'm not even saying that's bad. I'm just saying there are you know, it's it's not people sometimes we'll replace true intimacy for porn like a porn addiction and I think a lot of times not a lot of times are some of the time people will replace true relationships for the connections that they build on social media because perhaps they have issues with intimacy, you know, maybe they don't they have some subconscious beliefs that they aren't worthy of being truly known they don't want people to know who they really are. I know that I you know kind of went through that for a long time in my twenties, I didn't realize it but I I think I had a real fear of being known. I thought that I I I didn't know that about myself. I know that now but I think for a long so it's not an uncommon thing, but I think social media dead. Can really fuel that sort of perversion in yourself. Your circle is everything and I like to invite you to join mine today. The love is viral show is brought to you by gold Circle unlived pocket coach our exclusive gold Circle membership includes over 130 pieces of content on self-development relationships money and vision weekly group coaching call a monthly webinars and access to our private lives community in real time for a fraction of the price you pay for traditional coaching. The gold circle is interactive as you share. We build courses and offer you the circle you have been looking for to move you to the next level in your life download the Live Pocket coach on Apple and select the gold Circle membership from the subscription options in the menu home. I'll see you in the circle. That's really interesting because well two things so I'm raising girls right my daughter and then my my partner's daughter, they're both 9 and first and foremost Olivia mine was upset because she didn't have as many followers as Mainland did and it was this whole thing kids don't like her will U like me will you share my stuff and I'm like your 9 and we're already upset about following and I had to pull it back. She actually recognized that her mood is worse when she's been on any type of social media. So if she watches a kid, she even went to Rome kids programming that is younger than her age because she said at least it always has a happy ending on Tik Tok and Instagram, there's all these emotions and people are upset with each other or they've got a sad story or they thought something that's mean at least on Sofia The First there's always a happy ending and it was like, how aware is that? Right? But it's a constant thing. We're we're like get off YouTube. No Tick Tock. She's not home. 2 gram not on Facebook. So we're very aware of it. It's something you thought was really interesting because I don't think that we show our true personalities even in the way that we comment with each other right phone number at one point in time. So I have a sense of humor and I noticed that I started to curb it cuz it can be a little bit dry and I noticed I started to curb it. Well one of my clients started following me on Facebook cuz I didn't want them to see my sarcasm or my wits or whatever cuz I was to my page anytime Emily girl. Here's what I would have said, so I started pulling it back because I was like, oh, like now people who I have professional relationships with our following me and then when my page start to become more public even with people that I'm following and I'm friends with have a tendency to almost be the lurker. I'll like your stuff or put something little but most of the time I won't even tell you what I really think or I'll send you a text and view like haha this cuz South There is almost kind of like there's an exposure and a vulnerability as well because we also have this experience of the troll, right and I've had several trolls so I'm saying we don't need them here. Yeah, but we're aware of them and so you have a tendency tendency all of a sudden to start to even though you want to connect you start to protect right you start to kind of pull back a little bit and you're careful about what you say you start questioning some of your you could have the best of intentions like I did a YouTube video with Olivia. She was a guest on my show and we talked about kids and emotional and social media and rather than recognizing the comment. I had someone post about what I was wearing next to my daughter and like I can't believe as a mom you would wear that in front of your kid, and I'm like whoa, like off point completely missed right but that there's things I think having such a voice in a public forum also tends to almost create this like dead. Barrier, I so know this plight that you're talking about. I tell you where I've arrived in the past year. I you know, I you and I are both writers. I write for a lot of magazines too. I'm a journalist as well. So I put out a lot of material in the world. It's red, you know by millions of people because of the platform that I write for I too have had trolls. I've had people say exalting things that they just like I'm I'm a hero I've had people say scathing things off and I just remember right it like no matter what I'm not defined by the amazing things they say and I'm not defined. I'm not defined by any of it and I am going to and I have to constantly check myself almost like I'm a little kindergartner like check. Do you have everything you need? Are you put together? You know, I have.

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider

Gold with Jeanette Schneider

06:52 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider

"Include neuroscientists therapists professors coaches authors yogis speakers entrepreneurs and those who believe in a bigger battery life can be found at the intersection of mindfulness and science join me as we nerd out with a little bit of Soul. The love is viral show is a lived media production. Macy Johnson has come to the conclusion that it's not the digital age or social media that has become a problem in today's society. But rather it's the user error stuff off my rumination shipped with it and the intention behind how we use it to connect. Please see as an award-winning essayist editor and journalist with a deep in training for human beings and a fiery passion for smacking her readers in the face with life unlocking truth. She writes reports boldly and introspectively about topics to challenge the status quo in the Realms of fulfilling relationships and mental health popular culture women's issues and the nuances of self optimization in this episode. We discuss how social media has contributed to higher suicide rates the importance of seeing past the stage post and staying authentic on social media why we need to be aware of how the content we can see affects our mood and mental health and the challenge parents are facing raising kids and how to support them all they discover who they are not who anyone else wants them to be Lucy Johnson has worked with a diverse range of authors song. And spiritual thought leaders including Deepak Chopra Daymond, John and Gabrielle Bernstein. She founded the Wonder report in 2018 and her words could be read in a variety of top print and digital media sources including Cosmopolitan Marie Claire popsugar o the Oprah Magazine and others many of which have been syndicated by Apple news MSN and Yahoo! Millions of times places also deep in the process of authoring her first month which vividly explores and reveals her unexpected Evolution through pregnancy and new motherhood. Let's Dig Inn. Hi, this is Janette Snyder and welcome back to the love is viral show. I am so happy to have with me today Lacy Johnson. Thank you for joining me. Yay. So happy to be here. I do you always I know we have such a deep conversations from the very first one. Yeah, Lacy interviewed me for peace. When it my book first came out and like we ended up like just hitting it off and I was pregnant and we were tucked for like two hours and I remember I had another like interview for another story afterwards and I was just like don't even care like I'm not I'm going to give myself like ten minutes to prepare because I I'm just soaking up every delicious second of this conversation. That's how I feel too when we have when we talk because I feel like we both have a love of words, right and we both have found ways to express very deep emotions and very deep feeling through words and connects with people in the page. And that's one of things I love about your craft and I just I love following you. I love what you're about and you dead. You recently were interviewed and you've been talking a little bit about this out there in the world, especially with what's going on with our lovely Global pandemic about social media and I was like, okay we have to have this conversation because this is something that I'm struggling with and I've got little people at home who are learning their relationship with technology and we took a time where the only way to connect in a lot of ways is digitally but who are we any more? Yeah, that's that's you know, I've actually been fascinated by this subject for a few years. I've written I wrote a few essays about social media and my relationship with it and observations. I've made with friends and and experiences we've had together. I thought wrote a reported piece believe it was last summer for popsugar with Dr. Kevin Gilliland who's just this incredible psychologist and author and we had such a great conversation about how there's there's some thoughts that reveal that social media has contributed to an increased suicide rate and there's a lot we could talk about with that but it's affecting people of all generations and even more so I mean I've been passionate about this subject before 2020 and now it's like it's confusing for me and I struggle because I also have written pieces for Oprah Magazine and popsugar about ways to date online and I'm like, okay, so I have this issue with our digital lives, but then I'm also encouraging it and what I I've the conclusion I I've arrived at is that it's it's not the it's not the social media. It's not the are, you know necessarily even our digital age. It's user error. It's our relationship. With it and it's Our intention behind connecting like you know what I mean that a hundred percent really have to look at and it's the same way. I mean, honestly if you think about alcohol itself is not bad shopping is not bad sex is not bad, but all of those things can be expressed and inexperienced in a way that could be very harmful to a person. I love that because you know, I'm creating software, right so and and we're using technology and I someone was asking me about my relationship with it because within our app, you know, we want people to use it and with from our perspective. It's always been about Humane technology. And as I was thinking more about it, and the way we presented to people in the way we have people interact through it down on how we have our own relationships with social media. One of the things I came to is very similar like technology and social media our net neutral. They are a platform. They are a tool they are dead. Amazing way to connect and possibly serve but it's all in how you use it and much like anything else almost like how advertising, you know creates these beautiful images and these ways of believing, you know, the way we look we should this way or we should buy this or we should have this kind of perception or opinion about X. It's happening. I think with social media as well and I'm curious like when you talk about user error like what advice would you give I think especially I feel like think it's across gender, right? Oh, yeah, but I think a lot of young women and especially girls when they're coming to social media like they're they're using it based on their peer group that you how do you explain user error? How do you explain like a healthywage approaching and that that's sort of a conundrum because it's like I feel like and also like with Generation Z which was being greatly affected by the suicide rate. There's a lot of bullying and their.

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider

Gold with Jeanette Schneider

06:51 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Gold with Jeanette Schneider

"Include neuroscientists therapists professors coaches authors yogis speakers entrepreneurs and those who believe in a bigger battery life can be found at the intersection of mindfulness and science join me as we nerd out with a little bit of Soul. The love is viral show is a lived media production. Macy Johnson has come to the conclusion that it's not the digital age or social media that has become a problem in today's society. But rather it's the user error stuff off my rumination shipped with it and the intention behind how we use it to connect. Please see as an award-winning essayist editor and journalist with a deep in training for human beings and a fiery passion for smacking her readers in the face with life unlocking truth. She writes reports boldly and introspectively about topics to challenge the status quo in the Realms of fulfilling relationships and mental health popular culture women's issues and the nuances of self optimization in this episode. We discuss how social media has contributed to higher suicide rates the importance of seeing past the stage post and staying authentic on social media why we need to be aware of how the content we can see affects our mood and mental health and the challenge parents are facing raising kids and how to support them all they discover who they are not who anyone else wants them to be Lucy Johnson has worked with a diverse range of authors song. And spiritual thought leaders including Deepak Chopra Daymond, John and Gabrielle Bernstein. She founded the Wonder report in 2018 and her words could be read in a variety of top print and digital media sources including Cosmopolitan Marie Claire popsugar o the Oprah Magazine and others many of which have been syndicated by Apple news MSN and Yahoo! Millions of times places also deep in the process of authoring her first month which vividly explores and reveals her unexpected Evolution through pregnancy and new motherhood. Let's Dig Inn. Hi, this is Janette Snyder and welcome back to the love is viral show. I am so happy to have with me today Lacy Johnson. Thank you for joining me. Yay. So happy to be here. I do you always I know we have such a deep conversations from the very first one. Yeah, Lacy interviewed me for peace. When it my book first came out and like we ended up like just hitting it off and I was pregnant and we were tucked for like two hours and I remember I had another like interview for another story afterwards and I was just like I don't even care like I'm not I'm going to give myself like ten minutes to prepare because I I'm just soaking up every delicious second of this conversation. That's how I feel too when we have when we talk because I feel like we both have a love of words, right and we both have found ways to express very deep emotions and very deep feeling through words and connects with people in the page. And that's one of the things I love about your craft and I just I I love following you. I love what you're about and you dead. You recently were interviewed and you've been talking a little bit about this out there in the world, especially with what's going on with our lovely Global pandemic about social media and I was like, okay we have to have this conversation because this is something that I'm struggling with and I've got little people at home who are learning their relationship with technology and we took a time where the only way to connect in a lot of ways is digitally but who are we any more? Yeah, that's that's you know, I've actually been fascinated by this subject for a few years. I've written I wrote a few essays about social media and my relationship with it and observations. I've made with friends and and experiences we've had together. I thought I wrote a reported piece believe it was last summer for popsugar with Dr. Kevin Gilliland who's just this incredible psychologist and author and we had such a great conversation about how there's there's some thoughts that reveal that social media has contributed to an increased suicide rate and there's a lot we could talk about with that but it's affecting people of all generations and even more so I mean I've been passionate about this subject before 2020 and now it's like it's confusing for me and I struggle because I also have written pieces for Oprah Magazine and and popsugar about ways to date online and I'm like, okay, so I have this issue with our digital lives, but then I'm also encouraging it and what I what I've the conclusion I I've arrived at is that it's it's not the it's not the the social media. It's not the are, you know necessarily even our digital age. It's user error. It's our relationship. With it and it's Our intention behind connecting like you know what I mean that a hundred percent really have to look at and it's the same way. I mean, honestly if you think about alcohol itself is not bad shopping is not bad sex is not bad, but all of those things can be expressed and inexperienced in a way that could be very harmful to a person. I love that because you know, I'm creating software, right so and and we're using technology and I someone was asking me about my relationship with it because within our app, you know, we want people to use it and with from our perspective. It's always been about Humane technology. And as I was thinking more about it, and the way we presented to people in the way we have people interact through it down on how we have our own relationships with social media. One of the things I came to is very similar is like technology and social media our net neutral. They are a platform. They are a tool they are dead. Amazing way to connect and possibly serve but it's all in how you use it and much like anything else almost like how advertising, you know creates these beautiful images and these ways of believing, you know, the way we look we should look this way or we should buy this or we should have this kind of perception or opinion about X. It's happening. I think with social media as well and I'm curious like when you talk about user error like what advice would you give I think especially I feel like I think it's across gender, right? Oh, yeah, but I think a lot of young women and especially girls when they're coming to social media like they're they're using it based on their peer group that you how do you explain user error? How do you explain like a healthywage approaching and that that's sort of a conundrum because it's like I feel like and also like with Generation Z which was being greatly affected by the suicide rate. There's a lot of bullying and their birth.

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on KTLK 1130 AM

KTLK 1130 AM

07:02 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on KTLK 1130 AM

"Continues on phone lines are open 6519895855 digging into some of the primary results from from the state of Minnesota yesterday with our good friend Max Rhymer. Frequent a roundtable er, also local election analyst expert and all around good guy and taker of amazing Selfies. And I just say that as somebody who also takes Selfies You take great, selfish man. I appreciate the energy. I do like Misa Max. Do you know I have? Ah, I have perfected the art of being a conceited millennial. So practice. All right. So you were getting into some of your takeaways from from yesterday and so? So let's get pick up. Where you where you left off a moment ago, and he said Representative Ilhan Omar one before you, By the way just before you get into some of the some of the things you notice, let's go there for just a second, Did you You have any. Was there any expectation in your mind that perhaps and Tom melt mutes would squeak out a win based off of what had happened over the last few weeks? A re still where you still fairly certain that representative Ilhan Omar was going to walk away with a win last night. I I was always somewhat certain that Ilhan Omar would win reelection. I actually thought that she would over performed even the 60% or the 59%. That she got last night blood fact that 40% of the district and it was a significant number of people, by the way, who showed up with that primary, a significant Ah, significant number of people. The fact that 40% of the district did not vote for her said quite a bit about the pulse of the five right now. I think a lot of people Are dissatisfied Who, Ah lot of people who we might not certainly believe that she has not done a good job representing them, and it does leave an opening. Not that not that it's going to be a walk away win for Republicans CD five, but it absolutely leave the window open to carve out a large chunk of that district, which has been in chaos. The last four months. Well, I think one of the aspects that that is significant and it's going to be very interesting. And this is a big challenge for the Lacy Johnson campaign going forward is going out there and talking to people that supported Anton melted mucus because a lot of the reasons why people are dissatisfied with Ilhan Omar. It's not just partisan. It has to do with her leaving the district It has to do with her not delivering for the district. It has to do with her spending her time and energy and and her platform to you advocate for issues that have nothing to do with seedy five. You know, foreign policy issues and things like that. So there's a lot of frustration. And then you couple that with all of the scandals, you know the marrying her brother, the immigration fraud, the tax fraud, the marrying her consultant and funneling millions Of dollars to that T his firm and so on, and so on. There's a lot of there's a lot of opportunity there for Lacey Johnson to win those people over. I think a lot of the sentiment and a lot of the emotional reasons why people might have supported Anton Melton Mews would transfer very easily and very nicely over to Lacey Johnson. But that is on him. And that is the challenge that that campaign has is getting out there. And talking to those disaffected Ilana disaffected dia fellers who do not necessarily want Ilhan Omar to represent them. That's right. Drew. I think they're spot on. I'd trust a campaign t really pivot. Not not Only I'm messaging but on outreach tactics, too, Because the other thing that you have to keep in mind about Ilana Omar. And I think we're Anton. Once we debrief on this thing where you're going to see a condom, his boat coming from Are in the ST Louis Park communities and then the South Minneapolis community and the Jewish community in both of those areas. Keep in mind. Ilhan. Omar does not want Israel to exist on this planet, and I think that also draw a lot of concerns. Is that become that began Mohr and more blatant as he had gap after Gap effort after gas, you know, show me the Benjamins, baby and things like that. Well, and it it goes without saying, But I'm going to say it anyways. You know what Lacey Johnson has to do is he has to reach enough people right? And it has to. He has to have a strong a ground game, and I bring that up because It says there's a slim chance but there is a chance, but he needs support. And he needs dollars in order to get his message out to the people because you're looking at a community that does Have strong beliefs. And I believe that individuals that have strong beliefs even if they're not believes that I carry. I respect individuals that have a belief in something and those individuals and to believe, regardless of what it is, they do believe There is a sense of being rational and and being willing to look at an individual and what they conduce beyond somebody who's just out there Voting down a party line and I would like to believe and I could be completely mistaken. But I'd like to believe That with a really intense and strong ground game that Lacey Johnson if you reached if he reached enough people with his message of what he could do for 75 he could alleviate any fears that they have and perhaps get individuals who would never think Voting against their party to go and do just that. Well and then strategically when you think about it, and this is something for every listener out there to consider, as they're giving the candidate they are supporting candidates. Here we carved out Let's call it 38 to 40% of CD five and were able to get about land grab this year. Donald Trump is going to win statewide and Jason Lewis is goingto win. Stay wide as well. Because DD five they run up the score so high on the DFL side that before an election is even called SETI five, getting flipped 80 20 every time the DFL Statewide become incredibly difficult. But if we got about 40 42 45% of lazy snuck out a victory in that district this year. We would win a wide. There was no question about it. Yeah, And that is that. That's that analysis is absolutely spot on on. All you've got to do is go look at the last couple of election cycles, last few election cycles and look at the time that statewide races got called for the D F l Look how quickly the walls Johnson race got called in 2016. Look how quickly the Senate races The PLO Bashar races have gotten called. Why were they able to call them at 801? You know, a minute? Or two after the polls closed its because they watch what happens in the Metro specifically in seedy five. They just look at turnout numbers..

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on News Talk 1130 WISN

News Talk 1130 WISN

03:06 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on News Talk 1130 WISN

"A lot for stopping by lots going on walks to get to next hour we'll have our share of mark lamb but now county Arizona bottom of this hour it's going to be Lacy Johnson he's running for district five as a Republican out of Minnesota against you on Omar he's a guy I've been in the community a long time he's a guy that's been bringing sides together for a long time he's the right choice for that part of Minnesota right now you need a voice a local voice like laci to step up you know you want Mar her daughter the other day was tweeting out about gathering in and organizing and meeting here and bring water not milk for the tear gas and pepper spray I mean this is a radical but you don't need an office who's raising people have this ideology wheels also note you are no more it's filled with hate when it comes to Jews and so on so you need somebody in there who's gonna actually look out for people of that district and this is the right guy we talked about what's happening in the city and much much more stick around for that at the bottom of the hour me time back to the phones at one eight hundred five zero one seventy eighty let me say hello and welcome to online one is Sadie in Michigan I see what's going on hello thanks Michael you bet I want to just kind of something else okay how well that this whole the whole hello no it's not a okay but according to KSTP which is Minneapolis channel five huh John and the guy that yet my off the guy had me on a diet that nice coworkers at Boston Medical opponent and yeah I know it is well Hey it's not active it's not clear whether they knew each other they did at some point work at the same club we don't know if they work at the same time at the same club but having said that George Floyd is very dead there's nothing acting here this is not a hoax I don't see that at all no well if you're just on stuff that I've seen I am I'm wondering is it possible that because but last week trying to destroy trump in the corona virus doesn't seem to be doing that okay let's have a taste for five and three right well again I'm gonna I watched the video did you watch the video you think the guy speaking like he died I don't know that you could fake like that that number that the ambience and never checked and they just put him in that's not phone call for the EMG for some protocol for cops have is the the guys there for nine minutes either well that do we know that the full pressure is applied to the next you can have your knee on somebody that and the guy if he knows what he's supposed to do since I love you I love you like is like a sister I I love you like crazy this is the nuts the most ninety thing I've ever heard in my life I'm gonna let you go because it's actually bothering me I gotta be honest with you eight eight nine and one eight hundred five zero one seventy eighty one eight hundred five zero one seven zero eight zero because for that to have been an act the play dead like that I.

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on The Joe Pags Show

The Joe Pags Show

04:39 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on The Joe Pags Show

"Find out more and get informed and vote for this man in November. Last question has to be this and and I. I really do see this when somebody like. Yulon Omar's daughter tweets out Cologne comrades. Let's all gather over here and don't bring milk bring water if there's going to be tear gas and pepper spray. That's inciting more writing. That's inciting more looting if leadership isn't going to step up and stop this. What has happened in your opinion? Let's say you are the congressman from that district. What do you need to do to step up and save businesses say people's houses and get Minneapolis back to some sense of peace? Well first of all you start with the law and we don't want in laws you start with people's constitutional right at the Tissot governor protests and then you save on the things that we've been talking about your businesses. I mean targeted assigned to full out of this community. Because of what's happened I the whole community does and so we need to educate people and that's the way of going about things and two wrongs a right and we need real really get people to understand that and once again look at the chart term solution talk about search draft lose it is about long term solution some of the things that I mentioned earlier in a bit and they understand you respect you as a person because you have the right messenger and so those would be the message that I will get out to to the community to try to calm things down. Route this steering it up like this Omar Bar mayor saying out there. It's just not least you. It's it's Lacy Johnson. I think it would be a great leader from Minneapolis and for that district. I hope that he wins. District five is is the job. He's vying for that on Omar's district right now at your thoughts on what you just heard plus your thoughts on the rioting and the looting that continues in the week leadership. That hasn't stopped it and this is this is an action that is this. These are radical groups working together to cause upheaval anarchy and to somehow fund the police. And it's not okay. We gotTA keep on standing up and making our voices heard want to hear from you. One eight hundred five zero one. Seventy Eighty JOEPAGS DOT COM. When we come back was the weekend with joepags. It's a one eight hundred five zero one. Seventy one eight hundred five zero one seven zero eight year old time for your phone calls here. Let me say hello and welcome to the line for. It's Mike in Maine Mike. What's going on how you doing taking my call you bet which having I WanNa tell you I heard the last couple of callers. One guy was claiming the next cop and then those behind him that didn't seem to know Which way is up now? I think these two people were sent to and you probably got a hint. It's either Eric holder. Sent them to call you or ship one or the other either way. I didn't have time to to to put up with. It is foolishness out there. Then there's truth out there. I try to stay with the truth. Yeah well anyway. The other thing is I live in Maine obviously You know the governor is Janet Mills We were supposed to turn back to reality in June first and now she just extended this mass thing. She's driving restaurants Class people out of business and it's a tragedy but Then I thought well like people think. What's the solution to this? You said well what should DONALD TRUMP DO I think. Donald Trump should make sure that all the churches in the country stay open and no restrictions on crowd size because the people that are praying for this country. The only for this country and I think that doesn't happen. We lost. I mean you look at the insanity going on right now. It's it's beyond. It's beyond anything you could name Stupidity Ignorance Communism Nazism That's where we're at right now and unless people turn to God and find out what is really going on. According to what he says well loss man. We're lost forever. This country has lost. Mike I hear you I appreciate it. Thanks open line now. One eight hundred five zero one. Seventy Eighty Michelle is in Minneapolis. Michelle was evident. Listen TO EVERY DAY. I just wanted to give you a real time perspective. My parents live in Minneapolis They live down by one of the lake quizzes. A very prestigious area their next door neighbor Has had a.

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

Earn Your Happy

09:22 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

"And I. It was so so bad that I couldn't tell sometimes if I was grieving. The absence of my mom or grieving the absence of my womb. It was the same thing at blurred together. And but what I did is I was just like okay. What have I done in every time in my life where I've been in an awful situation where I put myself in an awful situation or something? Terrible's happened I always go back to okay. This is where I'm at. This is the truth of where I'm at right now. Who Do I I want to be in this situation? Who Do I want to be? And that's kind of the to me that every time that kind of represents the getting up dusting off your knees going. Okay okay you know who do I want to be in a situation and when you just start there there is very simple simple just very little little. It'll just tugging beauty. Little offerings of beauty will just kind of like start tapping you on the shoulder asked me for retention you know for me. Infertility was an amazing gift. Because I have been able to comfort so many other women and encourage them. I'm so grateful to be able to do that. it has been having getting when I did become pregnant. It was so skyrocketing an amazing amazing Such a long stretch of not knowing if it would ever happen. It actually is inspired a book that I'm writing. I'm really excited about so. It is fed my life. It is fed me as a mother. It is fed the woman that I am and has made me. It's also made me very even more compassionate about people who feel left out maybe maybe not even necessarily infertility but maybe they want love so badly and they were like it'll never happen for them or maybe they want to get out of debt so badly in or they don't have have any support and they don't know how or they just feel like no one cares about them or maybe they're you know they want to own a home in their forty five and they're like one of my ever going to get it together. I don't know who I what but I want to. You know still don't know what I want to be when I it's it's I think that even though it was very painful to move through the gift has been really being able to you. Connect with people who feel left out in a variety of ways. There's so much beauty in that and I'm thankful for the experience. I'm thankful for every experience because you know I wanNA in life. I mean the human experience. You can't even have why how life even matter if we didn't die. If it didn't have an exoneration association I know go back and forth with that one and always at. It's like it comes down to like. Wow It really is makes you so much more grateful like I. I don't know how people would think if it just kept going forever and ever and ever it would be a very different mindset of how you can treat every day Magin it right no in. Where would the beauty be like? You know because of death's finality we. That's just like when someone dies. We just like Phil were incited it to lake. Celebrate them more than ever. We talk about their inside jokes. We talk about the funny quirks. Their idiosyncrasies we feel inspired to celebrate them mhm when it when faced with the finale of of their death. You know and that's why it means so much but you could apply the same thing to you know when bad things happen or are you. Perceive received something really bad has happened. Okay so what's the opportunity for beauty in this and you know I it's hard at first. You just keep asking yourself at sometimes. You're not ready to even look at that question. You just you just keep letting yourself in your until you're ready to sort of explore but I think at some point if you allow yourself to to be in that place of possibility just sit you know just being open. What is the gift in this? What is the opportunity for gift in this West? Where could this lead me? Having moved through this awful experience could sparking in meeting the huge. I I as you're saying that it's like it's always been those moments of just yeah willingness to look at it and it's okay to be like nope not ready for that but could I be ready like could I be ready down the road I am. I ready to feel different today than I did yesterday like am I. Am I ready to give myself some sort of question or gift to feel different life because it's so easy to be like nope not ready. nope not ready. But like do you want to feel different. Yeah I require different question and allowing yourself to look at it but Batman stay you WanNa grieve this. Is You know how to stay. You are yes totally on. Oh my Gosh I could talk to you all day literally. We'll have to do apart. We'll have to do a part to. When is your book coming out? Do you have any idea just in kind kind of like the so. I have two books coming out One I'M CO authoring a book with a certain person you know. I have because of my work. I've had interview a lot of celebrity. Yeah and she is has to style a lot of celebrities in going toward them and groom them for you know music videos yet and a lot of things yeah harpists and so that book is about Through a variety of narratives involving some of the people the world almost idolizes. We're sort of numb it's tentatively called the human side of Hollywood And so we're sort of exploring like the you know misconceptions and fallacies Oh sees an illusion around fame and Wellman hauer sort of a woke. Tell all if yeah not not not. There's not it's not like that so that's coming out. I'm not sure what we're deep in the editing process. Yeah that right now and that that's very indepth because there's we we have to get dates and facts and been jazz a lot of really narratives in In the motherhood book is mostly written So I'm hoping for two thousand thousand twenty. That'll be really have to come back on. Of course I left for those. That would be awesome all right. Well I want to tell you that I so appreciate you and thank God that you have decided to write because your brain like guys she'll she'll just right like little things like that vocabulary in the way that you say. Oh no you are. You are truly truly gifted after she and I think words are such a modality of healing for people because the way that you say. Things is Completely perspective shifting shifting. And it's very easy to receive and also beautiful at the same time. I feel the same way about so. You Open it right up so I'm so grateful to have met you. I've loved this last our. We'll have to do it again And I always end on one last question. Yeah but first. Where can we find? You follow forgot that one so my instagram instagram is the Lacey Johnson And twitter's the same and I have a brand the one report dot Com Moniz started just because I wanted a right for all of these magazines. I ring for pop. Sugar Oprah magazine marie-claire Britain for a lot of you can find a lot of my work there but I launched the wonder report. I I have a small team of writers just to produce content that is very positive but also kind of Evokes curiosity and wonder through looking at life through that lens she you can find me there as well. Oh awesome WANNA check that out okay and I always end on the last question. which is what's my last question? Here it is only four hundred fifty seven times that is you are in passing with a complete stranger. Like thirty seconds whether it's on the street or in an elevator and it's literally like thirty seconds and they look at you and they ask you. How can I make myself happy what you say? No no if that Your existence Your place your existence here on this earth is no accident There are jewels roles and treasures inside of you that are longing to be brought to life and you will never regret honoring the truth inside of your some you. You can access all that if you stop people pleasing amazing. I'm so grateful for you and you guys if you loved this episode. Make sure that you texted somebody right now now or you share it or we would love if you would share it on in stories and tag both of us and let us know your biggest takeaway takeaway and I promise you. I will respond back to you all right you guys until next time earner happy by everyone. Thank you so much for spending this time with with me on the earn. Your happy podcast. I am so glad that you stopped by. If you could take one second to share this episode with someone you think would love it. That would be absolutely amazing and we would be forever grateful also. Please leave us a review if you feel so moved by going to. It tunes and leaving us an honest thought and honest comment tall us what you think. Tell us what you want to hear more. It would really help us out on our journey to helping thousands and thousands of people until then don't forget to earn your happy Thanksgiving guys bye bye..

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

Earn Your Happy

15:18 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

"Subject. Maybe there's something better or not be available for dude. I if you find the book let me know I I am. I was just talking to someone about this at a At a wedding on Saturday night actually really funny that you said that I am so severely. Empathetic I mean and I think it works very well for my writing I I really get. I feel other people's pain. I could ever be a therapist because I would be depressed all the time and I could never yes I worry I hurt for people well. It's I really carry a lot of that. You know deeply. And that's the difference between sympathy and empathy. Sympathy is sort of like acknowledging a and you know what that person's going through but empathy as you kind of take it on and when you take that on it is I mean yeah. I don't know how do you pivot. How do you pivot and spend empathize in an authentic way and then pivot and move on? Because I'm actually in in that right now with a friend who is just constantly going through a lot of things Friend who I deeply love but who I you know it creates creates a lot of their own problems. Although some some things have happened that were not this person's fault but but there's a lot that that they could do to took a lot of their misery but they choose not to. And it's just this sort of like deja Vu over an conversation and and you know I have a lot of wonderful things happening in my life every time I talk to this person. It's nothing but negative things and truly I like hush I don't want to be an asshole asshole man. Sometimes I feel like I can't even share great things that are happening. You know because because there are things are not so great for them and that is hard. I'm sort of with you and then that question. I would love to kind of explore that you know. How do you empathize In an authentic antiquated because embassy is so important. We don't shed that you know. I think it requires a weird conversation that would cause I was trying to put myself in your shoes and and also some of the stories that I have in my head around in my life with that. Yeah and I think it's I think it will require because I'm going to do it gonNA attempt it it's GonNa be attempts of failed conversations and some successful and I think it's going to be really weird to be okay with that. Yeah you have to be okay with because I'm just thinking how would that conversation go and I was trying to think what the initial conversation would be with your friend and it's like something around like. Hey I totally love you and acknowledge all of this stuff. That's going on and I am so sorry like I see it. I get it and at the same time. I want to be the friend who while while we can acknowledge it briefly. I want to be that one friend in your life. Who reminds you that things are good out in the world? That's great something like that. And is that going to land Dan great for them. Maybe not because they're really in it right. Your truth is coming out and the the more and more that I think that I en- you you and everybody else who's listening to this can start saying like start start dropping hints that they WanNa be the person that can be the light for this person or be the person that can be positive for that not not just strong and carry their stuff but be like hey can acknowledge it but then let's look at what we can control. Yeah and let's talk about that stuff together John because like there comes a point where there's no more sexually just happened with my mom of his on the phone with her and I was like. Hey talking about this like we're actually not. I said this doesn't feel like it's getting anywhere. Does it feel like it's.

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

Earn Your Happy

13:45 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

"Connection to what you know as life and survival it feels like survival. Yeah because I I remember hiding lying leg doing whatever I could to not like. Get outside of this flock because I knew nothing especially if it's and here's why I love talking about religion and this relax or this also relates to everything else like when I meet somebody who also was in maybe a religion where their family was really in it but it didn't feel like they're truth. I'm like it doesn't this doesn't need to be a religion. This could be your business business. Yeah this could be you wanting to go and fulfil this while you're being a mom or while this is the most important thing to you that's in your heart and your purpose and and you feel like if you go and do this that you are leaving how your family is their beliefs. They're going to try to pull you down. They're not going to want you in the family anymore. They think that you're selfish fish. It's literally the same emotions because I've gone through both now. I've gone through so much I wrote. I feel like I spoke to so many people will when I wrote my book because I wrote it as if it was from how I felt when I was in by the way that oath. Thank you so much but it came from from that place of deeply understanding what it feels like to have to break a pattern within your family. I deep Where identity is rated into it That's that you gotta like layer by late late. Yeah how do you do that. I mean like how do you 'cause because there are people right now you know and we were chatting before this and it's a little past the new year and they had all of these big ideas of what it would feel like to live there truth and finally start stepping into into this life that they know that they're called to and so often like you said we betray that we smother it we. We can feel bad that we could actually feel bad about thinking when we were going to do that because maybe we feel selfish over things that we have to do. So how how in the world do we start making room to start letting our truth come out and do the things things that we want to do. And be the person you know I just think it radical honesty radical acceptance. And you start each day. 'cause I feel like every person has an infinite that number of truth truth like there's this whole movement right now share your to meaning truth. I so agree with that but like I have so many truth and they they evolve with all the totally and I give myself permission. And that's one of the things that I think it's so much of this whole thing that we're talking about is just feared. It's fear based we want to be able able to put people in boxes okay. I know what you are stand for. I know the totality of who you are. You're not gonNA surprise me. You're not going to give me whiplash. You know what I want to you. Know what that's what you believe in. That's what you're you know and it's like I. That's a little cramped for me and I don't want I don't WanNa do that to myself and I don't want to do that to anybody else so I think we gotta start shedding our need to label ourselves much. Cram ourselves into boxes and do the others the same thing that other people don't you think. Oh my God you're so does it. So funny I have. I have one right now that I can that I can share putting myself in a box in so so the last few years. Because I didn't in the religion I grew up. I wasn't allowed to associate with anyone outside of the religion so so then in my you know then they got married at a young age and my husband's freaking amazing. Thank God we grew together. Good for you rare it really but we have been and you know. Yeah and that's why it's good right like that's beautiful. It's w-why we were able to grow. And I found the the so when I was writing my book I was like out in the world. I wanted to make these friends. I'd never had like these female relationships. I really got into some really deep female relationships still in them. But what I was finding is the more that I was teaching women how to do it. The more that I was having to be out and I was networking and I was feeling so last year. I hit this wall where I was constantly going in connecting with all of these incredible edible women right like mind blowing amazing women and I hit this wall where I was just like. Oh my God I don't feel like I'm going deep with anyone. I feel crazy. I feel like I'm taking time away from these people who I've met in WanNa make meaning really meaningful relationships with. I'm not going deep with anyone anymore. I felt nuts like real. Associating was just being out in the world and living in L. A.. Oh I'm just going to be honest. There's something three nights a week here and everybody wants you to be at everything thing in an especially. They're like she's the girl she's all about and now the girl who talks about connecting no longer wants to connect except deeply. Do you know what I mean. So I'm actually feeling doing so guilty because I'm saying no like three times a week right now to so many things. Is that what you're saying. Yes to Laurie. I totally am yesterday. More reeling I'm not box of feeling I'm feeling worried about what people think like. Oh she talked about that and now she's not supporting people and you know what you who are so free to evolve. Yeah I mean like I wish I could just put. I wish I could put a sign and walk around and just carry with me everywhere. Yeah Kelly got a problem it said sign not saying I'm not explaining myself because I think I I am allowed awed. You're allowed all allowed to change our minds. Benin change my mind about religion about people about food about about career about certain life stance even him fitness resume. Whatever as your life? The human experience is not it's jagged it's lopsided you have to sort of change as your life you know. There's going to be periods of expansion and periods of of contraction. Shen and just because you you know sort of preach a certain ethos or you know have you know certain mindset. Okay Hey then. Then you're you're growing your audience you should be allowed and you should give yourself permission to grow with your audience as well. Yeah and and I think everyone should do that. We should be allowed to grow within our family dynamics within our careers within our workplace within our friend group. That is that is I think the biggest thing about my marriage is. We've been married seven years awesome and it's better than it's ever been And my husband is my best friend the whole world and we have not had every day is not imperfect month is perfect. We've had some some dark times. We went through infertility. And you know things are. We've come through a lot of things but relationships ships are not defined by our success even any type of success is not defined by what it's like when things are easy breezy. It's it's I think there are defined by like how you come. I'm out of the the the painful periods of contrast and you know what I mean direction and and Uncertainty in growth in evolving at. Yeah I really think and I think that's one of kind of ties back to people pleasing as well as we oftentimes. A lot of. It happens because people want to think they know you and they don't want you to change. Sometimes people don't get really really upset when you say they want you to be a certain certain way and when you show them something in contrast to that it can make them really uncomfortable. And that's why some growth and change and success and evolving can can. You can become very lonely because you start to get this friction and this you know what I mean. People who are very uncomfortable when you kind of toss in afoot outside that box. They've put you in the box. You never even asked him to put you in. Hey guys this.

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

Earn Your Happy

11:30 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

"And I'm like I was back I was fat and I was that precious vulnerable little little child and you know we we grow up in society becomes we become calloused in society becomes callous to adult but inside every adult is that precious woman in child. It's still lives on and I was that and so it's it is infused me with a different kind of appreciation for my own on life And I refuse more than ever before to betray myself. I just that's what people pleasing is. I mean and people pleasing is pleasing other people in in denying your own wishes your own truth your own authentic self In in an effort to to please someone else you know. You're you're you're suffocating your truth and that just you that that that loses this is a appeal what life changes like something like coming among. I can't even imagine because I feel like just facing those things without a child is still. That's still so big. It's almost like I'm kind of equating a baby. With like a dream that I'm inserting right now. This is important. And that's your job to I. Ha I have other babies. I'm trying to give birth to. Yeah you know humans have no they have no time either. Like if you're talking about writing books you're like actually can't even think about that. It takes me out of this huge for people who You know people are listening to our MOMS as well but also this is so great for future if they feel like they wanna be But as far as self betrayal. When does that like how does it show up for you when you're like? Oh I know that this is exactly what I'm doing. What does it feel like? What do you have to do for say like is it usually a tough conversation or what you know what? I actually wrote an essay about this. Okay Sir I can. I would love to just have access to whatever files you have there in your phone okay. I am not going to read the full thing but I am going to read read the intro because I think it will answer Mushin. I think this is what it is for me. Yes okay. The title title of this essay. Is that mask of people pleasing smothering truth so let me just and you know it can look like so many different things it can look like avoidance it can you know avoiding conversations that you really you. You really need to have You you know it can look like being at a holiday gathering with a family member and you both have such staunchly different views and you're smiling and nodding politely politely while they're saying things that make your skin itch you know. God I just are you. Are you in my journal is happening. So I'm GonNa read just the Intro Okay and then I wanna I wanna get your on so that mask of people. Losing smothering itches. The phone rings. It's one of them again. One of those people whose presence this feels like a cold heavy chain you glance downward at the glowing screen and everything within you. Please don't answer it not today but you take a deep breath and you brace this yourself and you accept the call anyway you always do. I need your help. They say and for reasons. You can never explain you feel possessed to accommodate them to gallop into to their bad day like a knight on a white horse to loan the money run the errands by the presence and wrap them in a shiny paper to entertain their dramas and pacify lamentations sometimes even sweep their dusty floors and scrub their dirty dishes. Now you're staring at the clock dreaming of that lunch hour you'll no longer we having the one on spin away from the world with your favorite sandwich. Then you'll be breaking huffing and puffing through traffic in glorious pursuit of their rescue it reminds you of the time you trade it in that Netflix state with your blanket couch bottle of wine for the unwanted dinner. Invitation the one where the other person's gossip as the main course you gloss Austria Lips and zipped herself into your party dress with a sense of dread is heaviest cement all the while asking yourself. How do I always get myself into the Shin? And before the night it was dying your reserve of Energy Hollow Dry. It's okay though you filled it somehow sort of but did you ever stop to ask yourself wait a minute. Don't have the right to say no making me cry. It's just so we do that for years. And years and years like give twenty thirty forty years years of my life had been like. Oh my God. And we're imprisoned by it slave. We are hostages to that end. You know I think some of it. Here's here's what I think and tell me if you agree. I don't I don't know if you had this process the biggest thing that has helped me br in there are layers to people pleaded not not. You're not just GonNa like have the slight moment and you know it again like we were just talking about. I have a I struggle the last twenty four hours in them with something and and you just have to re- okay this is. This is the person I choose to be now. This is the person that you speak but I think one of the biggest things that I did actually did did this before. I had my baby a few years ago when I really made a lot of progress in that realm. I really did a lot of time. Travel to figure out what the people pleasing sort of diseased crew end main because for everybody is different and there could be one thing to things five five things a variety of things you know just a dynamic a specific relationship in your life that really You know the something very dependent. Where did it start and I think you have to figure that out And then you sort of disempowered like you make it smaller you you kind of give it a name or a face like you know and and you make it smaller. And that's what I that's what I started to do. So that anytime it would creep up. You know doing that favor that I I didn't want to do or listening to that person's drama for three hours while highlight needed to go to. The bathroom wanted to spend time with my husband had fifty emails to answer. Or maybe just didn't WanNa do anything at all because that's what my soul my mind my heart need and that night I you know I would be like. Why am I doing this and I think it for me? It came from you know like we talked about earlier learning from a very young age experiencing trauma that I I figured out how to do. Say something really funny to Jecht people out of their grieving and laugh and that became asked me purpose. I can do that. That's awesome. It made me feel good. Some of it comes from just you know so. A combination of being from a religious family dynamic being female in the south that is a part of it and and abandonment issues. You know feeling like if I don't say what this person wants to say or if I don't agree with what this person thinks thanks or if I don't abide by there fall if I don't align myself with their expectations they'll leave me. They won't love me. I won't I think that's ninety five percent. Yes yes don't you. Oh my God so I while you were talking about the what just spurred for me was feeling like you. Won't I was raised extra. I I don't think we've even talked about this. I was raised extremely religious. No Oh yeah yeah see I I see you and I hadn't called it. You know this this might even be the first time I say it out loud without saying it to other people but truly I wasn't aware because I always want to go back because my family still in it I want to say I'm so grateful. I you know I want to like like you know. Make sure that everyone's okay but truly I experienced extreme religious trauma around small things going wrong that turned into big things or big things going wrong that turned into bigger things I'm just not feeling like I was parented as much by my parents because you were also parented by. I'm wall of my colors. So how do I know they will hug minute. We'll chat about that after and I think that I had I felt like everything was under a microscope. Always so just going to hell and I was I lived in. You're going to hell I was well. Ours was ours was different. It was the world ending. Okay was afraid of that of the rover. Yes what what religion. I'll tell you okay. Yeah everybody know locally so yeah I just always if anybody you know I see this deep-rooted deep-rooted keeping someone safe well but also peeler. They're learning voice and this was my in one thing. I'm very aware of why I talk about it. In a certain way is this was my experience absolutely no so many people in this religion who are having a great experience experience. But I had something with you know if you are in a area or a lot of people are a certain way in one specific place or whatnot because I did find out later that being from a small town in that and then being from a bigger place is quite different. Yeah so just. According to you know who's in your church or concrete grieg your truth and as you it is you gotta protect lorries truth over protecting someone you know and if people get offended what are they afraid of What are they afraid? Afraid yes what are they threatened by. Because in that. And you're right. I have the same thing you know. I have my family. I'm so in love with my family and my grandparents parents my cousins. My precious just talked to my grandmother this morning. You know I- But what works for some people you know I I think for me. I'll share. You know I have again. Hey to keep using this but it is true. I went to a summer camp. It was a very very charismatic church. Okay and I went to a summer camp About a year after my mom passed away or the tragedy happened. My family members passed away and there was this. There was a lot of emotionalism in in this denomination sector of Christianity. And just maybe specific church or whatever but There's a lot of emotions very charismatic. And they all gathered around me and I'm just like a seven year old girl and they're laying their hands on me and yelling and speaking in tongues things in and it was just scared me alive and so there I had a lot of there was a lot of pressure to also do that and I think for me that worked some people that felt true that way for them and that is honor that and that that's great but the point is that's not. The point is not the point of knocking any religion ever it is that that did not the Phil That wasn't a line with what felt safe to me. Me did not feel authentic and true and there was pressure to behave in that when it didn't feel right uh-huh so that I think is the true betrayal of south that's where the betrayal of selves. And that's the true just that that's that's the pain that's the pain ain't told me unless the deep stuff you're talking about like the not being accepted by the people who you love the Mos look up to and that and yes yes I know that guy that are your means of.

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

Earn Your Happy

12:51 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

"There this insane freak explosion and my mom and my to grant might my grandmother. My two aunts passed away and and my dad became was elected mayor on the same day. Oh my Gosh Oh. My life became constant like there were. I always say there were lake. DOC is on time you know It also made national news because it was such there were seven people die. We had three employees in in the store. And but you know for people in one family a lot of my cousins you know a older sister a lot of children without her mother's and it made national news and We there you know there were a lot of it for that town for tweet such as tie that never got any media coverage it was a very big deal to them because you know my mom died and because all the women on my Dad's side into the family there was not an adult in my life who was not saturated in grief. Yes Saturate ingred. I mean it was a time. When no one was out was without a saturated tissue in their hand? There was a time when like eyes were lowered staring at their feet in. You know the recliner for hours on so that was That was extremely traumatic. And so I think that sort of in in their other traumas that occurred after you know just the aftermath aftermath and not not understanding death at that age and being hold your mom went to heaven and so for a very long time As a child oiled I I didn't really understand what that meant so every time we would go to an off place like an amusement park or a mold that we never we never went to. I would look for her because ah I grasped I mean even as I grew older you know and I processed you know that my my rational mind that she was gone. Jim passed away. She did not choose to and she wasn't coming back the imaginary side the that had taken root and so so so there was a there are a lot of abandonment issues and things like that. Well yeah that is a lot when you don't even have them the skills or coping mechanism or understand. What's let's even going on around you yet? I can't imagine how that impacted you just how you looked at everything growing up. How does that affect you with Just relationships in general. Now I'd well for a very long time. I had definitely had some abandonment issues. Even though I have a my dad. Wonderful wonderful. Incredible resilient man grandparent's Other maternal grandmother grandparents You know I had. I had a lot of family only but I think you get things in your head and my dad remarried to an incredible woman Now have Two brothers Who I'm so incredibly close to Have Amazing relationship with and love there and can't even imagine my life without them. But I also think that you know trauma will bully into seaview and it will Tell you things that aren't true. It will deceive you to you. Know I think trauma told me that I was leftovers from Melanin. Went badly wrong and I would never you know I was just aftermath of so much sadness and now my dad had restarted this new life and I just didn't belong and no one ever said anything to me but so that that affected me and I think that it led me to getting some very toxic dysfunctional romantic relationships in my ladder teens and twenties. I was with very I was with a couple of very abusive men. One in particular is so oh extremely abusive and because I think subconsciously I was so terrified of being abandoned but I knew they were so obsessed with me that they would never leave me which zones incredibly credibly which is really dysfunctional. Really sick. But I didn't know that in a conscious way rate but I knew that but I think that's what was going on and that was sort of what what drove me to to stay in those really sick relationships.

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

Earn Your Happy

16:05 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

"Welcome back to the show. This episode I was lucky. Lucky enough to sit across from this human being you guys we connected. Because she asked me to do an interview for Oprah Egg and she is a writer for them and we connected jumped on the phone and I ended up literally forgetting what in the heck we were doing and we just started talking and having this conversation and I didn't even get to see this human in my soul felt immediately connected so lacey. Johnson is an award winning essayist editor and journalist. She's worked with a broad range of other celebrities and entrepreneurs including Deepak Chopra Daymond. John she founded the wonder report in two thousand eighteen. Her words can be read in a variety of print including looting. COSMO Marie-claire Women's Day pop sugar and Oprah Mag many of which have been syndicated by Apple News. MSN The HUFFINGTON post and Yahu with a deep intrigue streak for Human Beings now fiery passion for smacking her readers in the face with the truth she writes and reports boldly and introspectively about topics that challenge the status quo home. She talks about anything in the realm of love relationship spirituality trauma women's issues wellness and the nuances of success and leading a fulfilling life. She's also deepen the process of CO authoring her first book. Which I'm so freaking excited for you? Guy She let me read a little blurb of some of her writing in other areas and I I literally was just breath taken aback. By how beautiful her writing is. She actually shares a piece on this podcast. That is going an to blow your mind. You're going to need to get this book. I'm GonNa have her on again when this book comes out. She doesn't know yet so she's deep in the process of Co authoring during her first book. It's a conscious and got the exploration of the illusions of fame power success and the Indus capability of humanness altered told through narratives involving some of the people. The world most idolizes. She's got some stories. You guys that are going to take your breath away and move you and I can't wait to get started on this podcast list and before we do that I have to remind you that I need to see you at the bliss project. It's no longer an option. Do you like I'm just telling you this is. Is your loving nudge to get your rear end out to Marina del Rey. California just right by Los Angeles guys so that we we can be together to connect to move through your fears to find your tribe and truly get all of the answers that are in one room and and you can just show up. Just be willing to show up. Bring your fear bring your excitement. Packet all pack your leggings. Because we're going to be comfortable herbals. Well are you guys. Go to the project DOT INFO. Because I don't want you to miss it. We have the most epic speakers this year. You are not going to want to miss being in this room and might I just mention I am going to have some of the most fun spots and things to take pictures with. You're not gonNA take it so it is like over the top right now with what. I'm looking at four staging and the room so you just go on being the room for the pictures let alone just the boomerangs. That's all guys all right so let's get started on.

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

Earn Your Happy

04:04 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on Earn Your Happy

"Hi Everyone I'm so happy. You've tuned into the show whether you have listened before or your brand new. I'm so grateful for you. You have no idea. And this episode is brought to by my become aligned. Course and podcasts are amazing and I know that you know that because you guys all listen to them and and I do too and sometimes they are not necessarily enough because while we're listening sometimes we're possibly listening and we're not actively actively listening so the reason that Chris and I Chris my husband the reason we've created this course is because we get asked so many questions outside of the podcast on how we started living the life that we live now a life of happiness of abundance of really understanding that life is always full of problems every single day. But there's always a solution and how do we shift back into a mindset. That's GONNA keep us happy. Keep us together. Keep a successful and keep thus in thriving relationships and that is what our become aligned course is about as we cover everything from mindset to the rituals that we do you every single day we talk about different energy sources. That's really going to provide you with lasting energy. We talk about your purpose. And what that actually means what it is and how it's ever-changing we're going to tap into your beliefs we're gonNA show you how to build a tribe to support where you're going and were definitely going to talk about wealth abundance the money all of the good things how to sustain all of this because while like I said podcasts are absolutely awesome. You don't necessarily sit down and actually right out a plan for yourself because as much as I can sit here and tell you on the podcast what we do in. How many different people that I can interview? It's important that you actually learn how to apply these things in your own life so if you've been listening for a while and you are ready to go deeper and you really want to get some direct training be able to dive into your life and yourself and your mindset. This is the course for you. I don't know about you but what I absolutely have points in my life where I don't know where I'm going. I don't know what I'm doing. Sometimes I hit walls where I don't necessarily feel happy anymore. I A haven't sat with myself long enough. I haven't really let myself think I haven't written now. How actually feel and so many people who took this course said that it was completely life changing and they revealed a lot of things about themselves about them lot about their lives about their relationships that they weren't really looking at or they were avoiding and it's about having those tough conversations not only with other people but really With yourself and knowing that you have the tools and the access to the tools and we're going to teach you all of the tools that you need not only to move through do things but to actually thrive on the other side. So you guys I would love for you to join the aligned community. It's such a special group of human beings and you get life time access. This is nine different modules. Where you're going to be working through each area of your life at your own pace so you might need something on abundance? You might need more on money. You might need more on your purpose on your tribe. This is where you can really go deep on exactly what you need and make sure that you're not. I'm not missing any of your blind spots if you are feeling stuck or if you are wondering how everyone is doing it and how. They're managing it all. This is a truly honest honest course about how to have a thriving life and manage and deal with all of the different problems that do come up in your life an understand that not everyone is going to support you and not everyone is for you and you are not for everyone and that's o okay. It's finding your people. It's forgiving yourself..

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"lacy johnson" Discussed on WIBC 93.1FM

WIBC 93.1FM

02:22 min | 1 year ago

"lacy johnson" Discussed on WIBC 93.1FM

"E. McAllister was his best friend I was in the maybe someone unfamiliar position to him of trying to in doing more for him than he could for me and he did a lot for me but but I was always conscious that he was doing a lot for a lot of people all the time and a lot of demand for his wallet into his schedule and I just wanted to have a friendly conversation and it's our friendship took off from there the greatest thing that ever happened to me other than for my kids and grandkids E. McAlister's kindness and generosity was set to be contagious for those of us that never had the opportunity to meet P. E. McAllister Robert has a pretty good description love our history and the art and culture in we got to where we are today generous hi the only funny he loved his martinis you love this chocolate he loved his properties from Wendy's and he enjoyed being around people who shared his philosophy of giving the love the love the written word he loves traveling and if he could do something for you he did it in Indianapolis would simply not even close to where we are today without him in his leadership and philanthropy and giving we all like a good laugh and did you know that the spear that Pete brought to this city I mean it if you a who's who of Indiana and Indianapolis ask people what they think about D. Mitch Daniels Mike pence Jim Morris mark miles Lacy Johnson glued Eric Holcomb the list goes on and on and on and on a number of people who would who would have dropped anything to do a favor for P. is as long as they get Jim kill what Albert in most Columbia University Dr Kelly Harding has been examining the phenomenon of giving and our health in a book called the rabbit affecting she says quote it helps the.

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