9 Burst results for "Kristen Howard"

"kristen howard" Discussed on The Crossover NBA Show with Chris Mannix

The Crossover NBA Show with Chris Mannix

05:18 min | 6 months ago

"kristen howard" Discussed on The Crossover NBA Show with Chris Mannix

"When or if Kyrie Irving will be able to play home games, aren't the nets better off trading him to a team where he can play a 100% of games for whatever you can get back. And I'm not saying, you know, pennies on the dollar, but I'm not saying all star either. But this is a roster that really needs some replenishing around their stars, whether it's two stars or three, they just have a huge drop off. Why not entertain the possibility of trading Kyrie? And by the way, as an side effect of that, it might actually make James Harden happier because presumably part of his frustration right now is that too much is on his shoulders because Kyrie is often not available. The ironic part about you asking me this question Howard as we sit here in February is if you go back and look at what I said in the preseason, I said that the Brooklyn Nets should consider trading Kyrie Irving to Philadelphia for Ben Simmons and people were up in R like, oh wait, how could you do that? What do you mean by that? How could you do that? No, KD would be so unhappy and we've seen what's happened. You know, the first 50 plus games of the season. So I'm guessing now Philadelphia will stonewall that and shut it down because they obviously want the other guy. They don't want Kyrie Irving. They want harden. But Kristen Howard, I really don't know what the market is for Kyrie Irving. I really have concerns about, you know, if you're another team looking at it, the way obviously the process is, okay, we know this player. He's had issues now, everywhere he's been, right? In Cleveland, Boston, and Brooklyn, Brooklyn, seemingly gave him everything he wants. The biggest media market in the country, playing with one of his best friends, maybe the best player in the league and Kevin Durant, bringing in a third star. He's unhappy there. Why is it going to be different here? Why is he going to be happy here? And that's even beyond the vaccination headaches and all that per local mandates in California and some different places. So I really don't know what the trade market for Kyrie Irving is. I imagine they could trade him for something, but I don't think it's that robust Howard that's why I think he's almost certainly going to stay in Brooklyn and just seemingly bank on. As you mentioned, New York City, New York State changing the vaccine rule so he could actually play every game, which would be a revelation. One final thought, while we're on Kyrie is I looked at the net schedule the other day, 7 of their last 8 games are in the city of New York that they have 6 at home and then one at Madison Square Garden. So the only game in the last 8 that Kyrie can play in is the one road game they have in Atlanta and I bring it up because we're likely to go into the playoffs, assuming Brooklyn doesn't make a blockbuster deal this week, really not knowing much about this team, right?.

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"kristen howard" Discussed on Relevant Podcast

Relevant Podcast

01:56 min | 11 months ago

"kristen howard" Discussed on Relevant Podcast

"We <hes> are back to two shows a week. Tuesday and friday. Make sure to Check out each episode post about. Tell your friends help us get word out that realm podcast is back to two shows a week also make sure to head over to relevant dot com. Check out the newest issue of the magazine. The fall digital issue is out. Now we've got some incredible conversations with jessica chastain jennifer hudson heels on young and free in the neo actor francis collins list goes on and on levi. Lesko there's so many people in the issue go check it out now in many thanks to you. Hsm for their support. Also make sure to follow relevant on facebook twitter instagram. To keep up with. What's new and you know to give us. Feedback submit. Questions for upcoming episodes or feedback for upcoming episodes. We wanna hear from you. Sorta falls on all the socials. And yeah just just just just follow because we have some stuff coming up that you're gonna to be part of Kristen many things for joining us today. <hes> anything you wanna to plug before we wrap it up. Yeah we're revamping selfie podcast and if you guys want to catch it it is now two therapists Giving advice for all of your random mental health questions fantastic. Tackle rods physical ill. It's as well or just mean. Listen we haven't talked about mommy's yet. And i feel really bad and i want to formally apologize to jesse because you're not accepting community because you know it's an important topic that we haven't talked about yet jesse. I'm going to do better. I'm gonna do better. Please do episode. Yeah that's that's the the bare minimum. But thank you for me. I talk about quite a bit cameron. Strang jesse gary updated minor. I'm kristen howard and we will see you on.

"kristen howard" Discussed on What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood

What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood

05:03 min | 1 year ago

"kristen howard" Discussed on What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood

"Don't like about being a parent rolled into one big ball of fun. What fresh hell. Laughing in the face of motherhood. Swiss cheesy with margaret. Abel's and amy wilson. I've had a lot of jobs. Podcast that solves today's parenting dilemmas. So you don't have to across the railroad tracks down the road. Hello everyone welcome to this episode. Of what fresh hell laughing. In the face of motherhood this is margaret and this is and this week we are talking about the mom that covid for better and worse sometimes both for better and worse. I do want to say for better and worse because there's been good and some bad some happy and some sad amy. Yes this topic came to us from kristen howard tan who is a fellow parenting writer. Podcast her and she wrote an article for the new york times called. I hate them on. The cove has made me got a lot of attention and my loved it. I'm no link to it in our show notes. And i thought that this would make a good topic and so we went to our facebook group like we always do facebook dot com for slash. What fresh hell cast asked you guys. How has the pandemic actually changed you as a parent and we got of course some great answers like we always do always still before we dive into that. Amy we are going to start a new little segment on the podcast today. Are you excited citing. Yes always fun avenue segment. it's called mailbag. We're going to read a male a male. Not a thing a letter. It's not a letter either though really formalist in are a collection of bits and bites listener. Didn't i set up this new segment. Inflaming people must be so intrigued. Now amy open the mailbag. Tell me what we have inside this week. We have listener mail from lee. Lee says i've been listening to your show since the very beginning. And i feel like i'm listening to good friends at this point. Thanks for keeping me going during the pandemic your real talk me feel seen and not alone during this hard year as a parent. Thank you so much lead. That's exactly what we hope to be doing. We would like you to leave us a review on apple podcasts. Mostly we want you to leave us a review. That says we're awesome if you think we stink. Maybe don't get around to the store or you can email us at info at what. Fresh hell podcast..

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"kristen howard" Discussed on Forever35

Forever35

06:15 min | 2 years ago

"kristen howard" Discussed on Forever35

"Our guest today is a gen hat maker. Jen Welcome to forever thirty five. Oh my gosh well. I am just delighted to be her girls. Thank you for having me. We'RE GONNA kick off with your biogen. Is the author of twelve books. That's a lot of books most recently beers and full of fire the guide to be inglorious you jen is also the Creator and happy host. The award winning four the love podcast with John Hat maker. Delighted curator the Jed hat maker Book Club and sought after Speaker who tours the country year speaking to women and she and her husband Brandon founded the legacy collective and they also starred in the very popular series. My big family renovation and your big family renovation. Tv is a mom to five and a resident of Austin Texas where she and her family are helping to keep Austin weird there. It is that there is you got it so go ahead hit a sorry this is this is our talking over each other moment. Doing the podcast remotely. Well Jen worth. Were thrilled to have you. Your book was very timely and touching read it also very funny man there. There were a lot of flagged in folded pages for me personally From and you know we have a question a kick things off with about radical empathy and care because right now especially in our communities things are. There's so much upheaval. So what what does that look like? Do you think within our families and also our communities with people who we may not actually no. It's just such a weird time right now and I one thing that we're sort of figuring out over here at our household is that just living through such an unprecedented moment. Where all of our most of our regular tools are not at our disposal in our communities are activities school. Tra- all the things that we normally do that apart our regular rhythms which keeps his kind of healthy and connected and was virtually all of those guys. You know it's occurred to us that we have to. We can't use the old program in this in this current day and so these times are kind of calling for different measures kind of extraordinary measures when it comes to like mental care and soul care in And so we are. We kind of said in our family guys. Let's get really serious and really specific about what is hard right now. What is hurting? What are we disappointed about? Let's name it. Let's put on the table. Let's not start burying this and then try to just shellac over it and then let's really figure out. How can we meet that? Need in a different way How can we address that pain in the ways that we can address that pain right now and so you know rather than just kind of hoping that somehow soul care and mental care are despoiling? Landon our labs. We're dialing in really hard to every member of the family because we're all really different. You know we've got just so many people here you guys just so many people and and we are all enormous personalities like nobody is quiet in this family. Everybody has huge feelings tons of emotions. Billions of words And so a lot of emotional labor right now not just to figure out what I need a what everybody in the house days is just what it isn't. It's the strangest time in the world. Yes yes and you think you said on a podcast you you live in a small house and you have four kids at home. Yes somebody helped me like who will help me like we live in. A house was built in nineteen eight. So first of all it's just a little old rambling thing and yes We also have to seniors in the house right now. So we've got in college in a senior in high school and so our senior in college packed for five days to come home for spring break and he has not left five days for the staff and so he's here and which is shoved everybody like in every corner right now and in many just managing all those disappointments all those rites of passages that both seniors or missing out on such a bummer. Such a bummer. And this is one thing I told my kids and I'm telling the women in my community to which is jest. I love how my girlfriend? Kristen Howard She's like this is not a good time to sign ourselves up as competitors in the hardship Olympics. Lying really mean like coups hard is harder who status sadder It's just a terrible gain because you know we've got friends with people in a hospital with Kovin but then I've got a senior who doesn't have a prom and their book. It's all sad sad the person so I don't like the competition of who actually gets to say that they're disappointed or sad or afraid or they feel cheated. I also don't like the audible. A picks who is crushing Corentin. Best can't like I'm losing both of those games and I just don't think I don't think they serve US right now. And so I'm really just drawn to superhuman people right. Now that I find vulnerability in and honesty and truth telling trying to be that person to neither rustling people through their pain or fear or diminishing it and also not You heading on display. Like the highlight. Reel of everything. That's right because we're working hard on those things too. I think let's just find this really deeply human path through this together and I think that's really good for everybody.

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Soul Care with Jen Hatmaker

Forever35

06:15 min | 2 years ago

Soul Care with Jen Hatmaker

"Our guest today is a gen hat maker. Jen Welcome to forever thirty five. Oh my gosh well. I am just delighted to be her girls. Thank you for having me. We'RE GONNA kick off with your biogen. Is the author of twelve books. That's a lot of books most recently beers and full of fire the guide to be inglorious you jen is also the Creator and happy host. The award winning four the love podcast with John Hat maker. Delighted curator the Jed hat maker Book Club and sought after Speaker who tours the country year speaking to women and she and her husband Brandon founded the legacy collective and they also starred in the very popular series. My big family renovation and your big family renovation. Tv is a mom to five and a resident of Austin Texas where she and her family are helping to keep Austin weird there. It is that there is you got it so go ahead hit a sorry this is this is our talking over each other moment. Doing the podcast remotely. Well Jen worth. Were thrilled to have you. Your book was very timely and touching read it also very funny man there. There were a lot of flagged in folded pages for me personally From and you know we have a question a kick things off with about radical empathy and care because right now especially in our communities things are. There's so much upheaval. So what what does that look like? Do you think within our families and also our communities with people who we may not actually no. It's just such a weird time right now and I one thing that we're sort of figuring out over here at our household is that just living through such an unprecedented moment. Where all of our most of our regular tools are not at our disposal in our communities are activities school. Tra- all the things that we normally do that apart our regular rhythms which keeps his kind of healthy and connected and was virtually all of those guys. You know it's occurred to us that we have to. We can't use the old program in this in this current day and so these times are kind of calling for different measures kind of extraordinary measures when it comes to like mental care and soul care in And so we are. We kind of said in our family guys. Let's get really serious and really specific about what is hard right now. What is hurting? What are we disappointed about? Let's name it. Let's put on the table. Let's not start burying this and then try to just shellac over it and then let's really figure out. How can we meet that? Need in a different way How can we address that pain in the ways that we can address that pain right now and so you know rather than just kind of hoping that somehow soul care and mental care are despoiling? Landon our labs. We're dialing in really hard to every member of the family because we're all really different. You know we've got just so many people here you guys just so many people and and we are all enormous personalities like nobody is quiet in this family. Everybody has huge feelings tons of emotions. Billions of words And so a lot of emotional labor right now not just to figure out what I need a what everybody in the house days is just what it isn't. It's the strangest time in the world. Yes yes and you think you said on a podcast you you live in a small house and you have four kids at home. Yes somebody helped me like who will help me like we live in. A house was built in nineteen eight. So first of all it's just a little old rambling thing and yes We also have to seniors in the house right now. So we've got in college in a senior in high school and so our senior in college packed for five days to come home for spring break and he has not left five days for the staff and so he's here and which is shoved everybody like in every corner right now and in many just managing all those disappointments all those rites of passages that both seniors or missing out on such a bummer. Such a bummer. And this is one thing I told my kids and I'm telling the women in my community to which is jest. I love how my girlfriend? Kristen Howard She's like this is not a good time to sign ourselves up as competitors in the hardship Olympics. Lying really mean like coups hard is harder who status sadder It's just a terrible gain because you know we've got friends with people in a hospital with Kovin but then I've got a senior who doesn't have a prom and their book. It's all sad sad the person so I don't like the competition of who actually gets to say that they're disappointed or sad or afraid or they feel cheated. I also don't like the audible. A picks who is crushing Corentin. Best can't like I'm losing both of those games and I just don't think I don't think they serve US right now. And so I'm really just drawn to superhuman people right. Now that I find vulnerability in and honesty and truth telling trying to be that person to neither rustling people through their pain or fear or diminishing it and also not You heading on display. Like the highlight. Reel of everything. That's right because we're working hard on those things too. I think let's just find this really deeply human path through this together and I think that's really good for everybody.

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The Secret to Leadership Is Closer Than You Think with Jen Hatmaker

RISE Podcast

10:45 min | 2 years ago

The Secret to Leadership Is Closer Than You Think with Jen Hatmaker

"Days April seventeen and tell me how you are doing on April seventeenth. Let's see okay. This is a place to tell the truth correct. Yes yes tweed you know because I can always contract two versions if I need to but I'll go ahead and dial be realistic. I'll go down. Okay let's see. I'm four days away from a book released. That means a lot to me and kind of the book that I've well. I don't know how to say this but I've earned it like I earned. Its lessons the hard way by living them and doing some of it. Well do me some of it poorly but nonetheless emerging on the other side wiser and braver and stronger and so it goes into the world on April twenty first and I am feeling feelings about that. I am feeling have feelings and the feelings are excited. The feelings are anxious. The feelings are prematurely disappointed. Because that's the way I'm wired The feelings are super vulnerable. I put it all in there. It's all in there so last night. For example at three in the morning I was lying in bed. My brain was reminding me of several things that I said in that book that I've never said right and I was like well that is already printed so that is a thing. Oh I just haven't been very human feelings about putting a very true very vulnerable book into the world into a world. It's hurting right now. And everybody else's scared and everybody else feels tender and I'm just I feel like I'm holding all the emotions in the world right now. Yeah I as you're describing it. I'm thinking of listeners. Who Maybe haven't written a book but maybe are pregnant right now. You know and they're it's it's sort of this idea of this thing that you've been creating right and working on and you had a certain expectation for how that would come out into the world then now looks very different than it did before as a And not just with you know obviously pregnancy but if people had projects they were working on in their business they weren't really excited about launching or you know college students who were so excited to graduate high school students who lost their prom. Like there's there's a certain amount of grief that is. It's very interesting because it's grief associated with what was supposed to be a celebratory thing. That's around do you carry those and the time I am. We were having this discussion online with my community and one of my readers said this was the perfect word She said you know the thing is is that so many of us feel cheated right now and I'm like you ask the right word. We still cheated. I've got Of course same as you all my kids are at home and in this House that we live in twenty four seven I have to seniors. I have a senior in college and have a senior in high school. And so there's not a person that that I love near me. That isn't feeling cheated in some way and I really appreciate the wisdom that a lot of our leaders are giving us right now which is to work as hard as we can to not Sign up for as my friend. Kristen Howard calls them the hardship Olympics That you're not that's not a good game and we ought not to be competitors into who has it worse than I see this with a lot of people right now who were like saying something out loud where they cheated a laundry list of things like you just mentioned and then the Felix urged tacked onto the end. But I know this is not the worst thing you know. We feel like we've got put our self In the right hierarchy for the hardship Olympics and I just think that there's room right now in our communities and our families With our friends and in churches and companies and colleagues to just be incredibly generous to each other right now That someone says their greatest sadness is that their eighth grade play is cancelled. The best thing to say is that is terrible. And I'm so it still sad and I am sorry and that is so disappointing and I just I'm A. I'M A my instinct sometimes to curb the thing I like. I like the uptick. I like to. I'm blast half full and I'm a sunny shiny tight But I don't think that serves right now. I think there is a place to hold room for somebody else's fear sadness or grief or loss and somehow in that moment it finds a way to move through as a little easier I think when we don't suffocate it we can actually have permission of feel it It isn't quite as long. Yeah we for the first time since we're in week five of quarantine and working virtually at our company and This week I instituted something. I called circle. Time which was basically group therapy See in on zoom calls. I could see people's faces that For for certain people are struggling and I just said hey guys I know this is kind of odd. It's not normally something we would do in the workplace. But I'd like to invite you to just come for an hour and beyond zoom call and all lead out and we'll just literally talk about the hard thing and whatever it is in your life. You have permission to complain about it. And there is not a competition and if your partner's driving you crazy or the kids or whatever like this is the opportunity to about ten people come and you know we cried and we laughed and it was awesome in a highly recommended it for your workplace your friend group or whatever you need but what. I thought was really interesting. Was One of the young women on our staff. Who is she single? And she's quarantine quarantining alone and so she is really struggling with loneliness. Her community was about getting together with her friends or going to church on Sunday for those things have been removed. And certainly you can have that virtually but just not the same. That's right and her sadness was in things like she's like. I just want to hug somebody. Eylau BASICALLY WANNA hug ask. You is talking about this. Which is heartbreaking. She said you know. I know it's not the same because there were a lot of MOMS there who were talking about how hard it was toddlers. And she's like I know some fame and I know that you parents get so much worse than I was like girl. This is not. We are not competing here. It's hard thing is hard to you and it has value because it's yours and so I think it's so why is the council people on this reminder? Whatever your thing is. You're allowed to feel disappointed because they think shoving the feelings away won't serve you. Think that if you can just acknowledge that they're there than exactly like you said you can start to move forward with the acknowledgment not by pretending it didn't happen. Yeah that's one hundred percent right and that sometimes means having hard conversations brand. I had a hard conversation. This very morning Just about managing our own feelings right now plus the kid's feelings plus Sort of work expectations. And you know. Where's the give there? And so I you know the only way we could get to the other side of that conversation was by telling the truth so while there is. Get the impulse to just spit. Shine the whole thing right. But there's actually way more power in saying out loud this feels really Sad or confusing or hard to me right now and and then we kind of we get our power back from it a little bit And that's what we're kind of discovery in our house so we're trying to give our kids a lot of room to just say well this terrible. I mean we've got. We've got all teenagers and young adults. They are not meant to be right like physiologically socially and emotionally they are meant to be spreading their wings and flying right now. That is what they're still doing and they derived so much energy in meaning from their peers. And so and then you add on top of that the the real sincere disappointment of to seniors who are not getting finished like they wanted to. It's real it's so real and so but you're I was thinking about your Colleague who this is teeny little. Tip Your colleague who as quarantine alone and I think so much about how. Many people are quarantined alone. Right now And you know we. We're the opposite problem. There's way too many of us in this house Another one right there. Walking down the GREMLINS and I was on a I was interviewing Dr Hillary McBride for the PODCAST A couple of weeks ago. And she's just incredible leader like just incredible therapist but she was talking about ways that we can even like self soothe and she said that if you are alone in quarantine that even if you kind of take your hands and you wrap them around your own self you pat your arms a little bit and you give your shoulder a little rub. And she's that sends a very similar signal to your mind that you are being held and cherished and comforted. And so. That's what I'm telling every all my friends who are quarantining alive alive hard hug

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"kristen howard" Discussed on Selfie with Kristen Howerton and Sarah James

Selfie with Kristen Howerton and Sarah James

11:00 min | 2 years ago

"kristen howard" Discussed on Selfie with Kristen Howerton and Sarah James

"Hey Everyone I'm Sarah James a beauty blogger and self help aficionado. And I'm Kristen. Howard Tan a writer and psychotherapist? And you're listening to Selfie a weekly podcast podcast about two women trying to tackle better self care. We're both the opinion that self care is important and yet we find it elusive and while we may have all the Info we need. We don't always get there from the the silly to the serious. We are taking a vulnerable yet. Humorous look at body mind and spirit and maybe a touch of the random. All my looking at the distractions and defensive listen. He does from caring for ourselves shed guys. Well we are rounding the corner to Thanksgiving. I'm I'M GONNA be chatting with author. James Swaggart he wrote a book called if you say so. We're going to be talking about how to deal with toxic family members But I am here with Claire. And we're GONNA do a quick self-care check-in clear I know yours is actually related to thanksgiving. It is To our friends out there. I think everyone knows that. I'M A to Anagram anagram any room to the helper. The I host frigging Thanksgiving every year. You guys you host Sky's the first year of not hosting. I'm giving it up and I'm having very hard time with it. Okay okay first of all I just want to provide a little background. That not only. Do you host Thanksgiving your for your family I do believe your ex's his are involved. Both of your Oh yes every parent of all of the XS and current. Spouse's let's just give our give our friends a the picture between Kristen and I counted this in the car today. We have twelve kids. Yeah Yeah we could be like we have. TLC Show he could totally. I usually usually hosts his mind ours. There's yes plus a random neighbors thrown nj be fair. That is more because I like to control the situation. Yeah I mean I host a lot of things to we have that in common. That's less to more three. I like having everybody together and I feel like the only way I can do that. Yeah is if I host. Yeah for sure so yeah. Giving that up is really hard. How did this come about my grandma? Kay has always hosted for years seniors. Okay and sometimes they rotate. If you know she wasn't feeling Waller's palm springs right and a few years ago. I gave myself permission to not go to palm springs things right and that was hard. Yeah but with as many kids as we have. It's just easier and driving to palm springs on Thanksgiving is a lot of time in the car that is so anyway I started hosting my grandparents are getting older. Yeah so now. Her daughter wants to host Jim so after many conversations emails and text messages between our family. We're going there okay. And I fought really hard for it but I will be honest there. Is this sense of relief. Coming over me. Oh Gosh house doesn't have to be clean. I don't have to be decorated. The doesn't work. I don't have to sit yet so I'm trying trying to find the positive harvests but still like I'm still finding things on Pinterest I wanNA make people will have been come over to you know I always do the friends neighbors thing after Thanksgiving. That's the fun you should just help me Co host that I'm down for that okay. I have a really great bree all see I gave up dairy deem it will. You can can cheat on Thanksgiving right. Is there like a Vegan Brie now okay now. There's definitely not that's disgusted. An oat milk breed breed now. Okay now. That's not happening. Well you know what I think that. That's a big deal. I think it's a big deal to give up something that you really care about in that you love doing bit that you know. Add stress so much stress really hard. I mean especially for personality types like I like to travel over Thanksgiving with the kids Or Christmas last year we went to the year before before. I think we went to Haiti. Like we do big international trips and I have just been so stressed lately and my health is still you know this surgery that I had had. My question hasn't had a breath in two months. Yeah it's still. I'm still recovering from that. Yes I'm still tired in. It's still stupid so I gave up. We're not traveling at all for Thanksgiving House. Miss at which you know. Those are prized times because my son plays football all summer so those are the times we can go. Oh and we're not going anywhere. We're just going to be at home because I feel like I just need my sanity more than I need the excitement of trip and I will say to there at the age where being home isn't as hard during a season lights not in they can go off and do things. Yeah I was like when they're a little bit younger. I felt the need like we have to entertain them with eyeing like you. Don't do camping more sorry. Yeah like a wake-up eat some Halloween candy like Kodaly totally. Yeah they're easy But Yeah I actually Um from when the I have just done as the skimming approaches we have this gratitude bulletin board that I made like years ago. Yes it's actually very very dated. It's got like but it's tradition. It's tradition I mean it's it is just an old school bulletin board like a Teacher Bulletin board that says like gratitude across the ass in like super predated letters. But you know we bring up pieces of paper they use some tax. And it's just this sort of And they get into it they get into it and I feel feel like I have to say my kids are getting older. They're gratitude is sucking like I know. That's like a hallmark of teenagers right into their ungrateful. All that their self absorbed but I mean I'll tell you what might his. Hey just unlike sometimes it like surprises me how ungrateful my kids. I'm like look at your life lying. Look at your life like what are you missing. I mean so much mom. They're missing so much word right. It's tough because we we. We live in Orange County which I have a lot of ambivalence about yes is not where I would choose to land. But it's where I live But you it gives them a false sense of what's normal and I just want to say like anywhere else in the world you'd be wealthy. Do you know many times I yell at my kids. I I don't stay at home. I'm not a stay home. MOM like out of my mouth like the Times a week. Yes because they have this expectation Because I'm home right which I work from home. Sometimes sometimes yeah the. I'm just there to serve them right. And that is my all my gosh. It just makes my skin crawl at that. They think that when they get home from school that I'm just ready with like Activity plan well. I will say my kids have given that up long ago because I never did have activities well to be fair. Now I'm also telling your uh-huh but my kids are more just like you know. They want a nicer phone better shoes or freedoms like my kids. Think the the ad like my daughter last week thought that she was just going to the football game because she's a middle school now and that's just what she your twelve relax you you can ask for permission to go. He shows up like black lipstick on. I'm going to a game like but it's it's like What's the were looking for the expectation but I don't know there's there's a brain fog guys I don't think she's entitled. Yes it is certain needle yes that is AH. That's very much it. Yeah I feel the same so you guys have gratitude jar though. Don't you two way. Do we totally do. We never use it. I don't think anyone's put anything in that jar jar. Dr Is great but I need the bulletin board like front and Center. Yes and I almost feel like the jar. Why love this dry? Have and I'll link up to it. It's it's a beautiful really beautiful last jar that they can write things but because it's always out it just becomes white noise right whereas the Thanksgiving board is like it's a limited time it's like we have two weeks seeks more He'll get more volved. You'll do it more. So yeah that's your boys get involved in that or just the girls the boys I have to force. Yeah I'm noticing testing as my boys are getting older. That's not something that they gravitate to now in an impact. I mean I would say my boys are the more entitled less grateful as four. And what's interesting about that in my heroes do love clothes in fashion. My boys are so much more sensitive to things being cool yes like I go shopping for the girls and they probably will like seventy percent of what I've gotten them. Yeah Boys Not so much maybe ten yes and I. Aw what I now very in that that speaks to where we live to though it does it. Does I WANNA make a note on gratitude to though particularly about my boys. My boys are both adopted when I'm talking about gratitude. I am never meaning that I think like they should just be grateful that they get to live in general that Islamic yell exactly like there to be grateful like a typical teenager yet but they do not need to have any extra gratitude for having been adopted. They're allowed to be I'm so sorry to even have to say that I know but it's I you do but you do have to take Jimmy has. There's a lot of adoptive parents out there. That are still pushing that narrative for that. You now my kids should just be so a lot of unhealthy twos lot of martyrs. Yes all right. Well what do you have your times at this week. do I even remember. Oh Yeah Okay you're not gonNA love this okay. Maybe not tell me maybe not going to let this so crystal have a thumbs up thumbs down. We'll start with a thumbs was up. I'm a huge nick. Crowe Fan I've been in at girlfriend for as long as the show. The League came out really yes I would so good so so good I also came from like a sports family so it has like a sports theme yes anyway He has shown that flakes. It's an animated series in. Its third season big mouth I I know of it. It I had not watched Franken tastic. The writing is just another case first of all. It's Nick Crawl and Indra Goldberg Goldberg. To other those people to the they're such great writers what I also love about them as they when they do projects they bring their friends. Yes Hancock Adam Sandler you know. Years ago everything he did. Every saying crawl is in has the same dental from from the league there are harmful from and Maya Rudolph's in And there's probably a lot more people that I don't I can't even remember right now but because I have kids who are going through puberty. Yes it is so funny to me. It's so relevant and I were winding laugh again. And then I'll rewind it and laughing and and my husband loves it not something you're going to watch with your kids net Super Raunchy she I Know Jaffa would love to watch. He would absolutely love it he actually does probably secret. I mean I feel like I would rather watch this important so what you know. It's like that's that's the battle. Were biting these days guys. There's no other choices it's porn or big mouth. Pay were over the worst gangster rap with all the cursing took me started..

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"kristen howard" Discussed on Selfie with Kristen Howerton and Sarah James

Selfie with Kristen Howerton and Sarah James

03:19 min | 3 years ago

"kristen howard" Discussed on Selfie with Kristen Howerton and Sarah James

"Okay. That is that that's over the top. That's never. The coat rack. Life is so hard out there in southern California. It's I know I just I know I shouldn't complain. And yet I did yesterday on Facebook. And I just had many people telling me to shut up as say sickly, I'm going to do the same and just tell you to pipe down because I will say having lived there for twelve years that when it does rain first of all rain in California, southern California is like a couple little like droplets at the streets. Like, they shut down the city. It's kind of ridiculous that like rain like this if it's really hard and going for several days. That's that's not you guys aren't prepared. I will give you that not prepared or not no one knows what to do. No one knows how to drive. Oh, no. Oh, gosh. No now. But other than that, I'm doing pretty well, you know, I. It's been a whirlwind. I I went to Tokyo the day after Christmas. And then I just went out and had my trip with my girls with my girlfriends, and then immediately after that, I ended up flying up to be with a friend. There's just kind of a a tragedy that happened. And so I am just now home I feel like for the first time since Christmas which have been going and going and going since Christmas. So I'm I'm a little tired. Yeah. We'll tired a little emotional little spent. Yes. Well, now, I would be too. That's a lot. That's a lot. Well, you might have noticed. So when Kristen, and I do these when we do our episodes, you kind of have a shared document that we're working off of just to like kind of keep us in check and not going off on like random tangents and you'll probably notice Kristen that underneath mob date. It was blanked. I'm d-. It's there's nothing there. There's nothing have no update. I do have an update that I wanted to get your full on. Initial reaction for about to tell you. I didn't want you to this. It's going to be good. Like, you couldn't even give me a preview our shared, Google, doc. I've had to like, no. I mean, are you ready for this? This has been very ready. Kristen Howard Johnson. We got a dog. Sarah. I congratulations. Supposed to respond to this. We have to like explain to people that you, and I are probably two of the most dog averse people on the planet. I mean, not really even just dogs. I'm kind of an animal verse person. I've never who. So am I never had a pet? You guys. Let's just about that. For a second. I'm forty four years old, and I've never been have dogs as a kid. I have dogs. I have never had a hamster my mom put him on the dryer. And turned it on accident. He like died of overheating or something that is like my extensive, so yeah, like, we have we don't have the preplanned. Was this premeditated? As this an impulse buy note. This is been I have been research. You know, me I have been researching dos. Three and training probably for two years because I told my you'd probably have a very big dossier. I do I do a whole Google tab of all. Different links..

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"kristen howard" Discussed on Selfie with Kristen Howerton and Sarah James

Selfie with Kristen Howerton and Sarah James

03:52 min | 3 years ago

"kristen howard" Discussed on Selfie with Kristen Howerton and Sarah James

"Kristen Howard, tan or writer psychotherapist, and you're listening to selfie a weekly podcast about two women trying to tackle better self-care. We're both the opinion that self-care is important. And yet we find it allusive. And while we may have all the info we need. We don't always get there from the silly to the serious. We are taking a vulnerable yet. Humorous look at body mind and spirit, and maybe a touch of the random all my looking at the distractions and defenses EPS from carrying I like shit. Hey, everyone. Welcome to this week's episode. We're going to be talking about hang Zayed's today. Which if you're unfamiliar is the feeling of anxiousness or kind of dread the day after one drinks alcohol, and you guys it's a thing. Well, it's a thing that there's you know, more and more is being written on this. Aims to a real new area of research and interest. And just this idea that drinking can really increase your anxiety. Both in the short term like having a night where you overdo it and in the long term. So we're gonna talk about that in a minute. We're going to do it. But we gotta do an update. I mean, I haven't spoken to you. Kristen since before the holidays, I know it's so true. We have not we have not talked to each other at all. I mean, you went to Japan, you were just an Austin. So I mean, you're just gonna have to give me all the scoop. I will. Well, yes, I took my children to Tokyo. Which was it was amazing. It was a really good trip. But it was really hard. You know, like I feel like there are some trips that our vacations, and that's where you maybe you're sitting on a beach or you're having happy hours in my ties. I know right. And then there's trips that are travel, and those trips are, you know, you are hitting the sights every day, you're in a new city like your, you know, or a new area, and you're trying to fit things in. And that's really what this trip was. It was travel. It was we only really had four and a half days, which is crazy because that I would imagine that we'll just fly by there's so many things you wanna see when you're in Japan it did fly by but I have to say this. I had a lot of people be like that's not enough time. Or like, that's, you know, why would you even do that? And right like I'm here in defense of the short trip. Because first of all, especially to a city, like Tokyo rights insanely crowded. You know, I mean, it's heavily densely populated everywhere that we wanted to see in the city of Tokyo now, this is not true of all of Japan. But in Tokyo, where we were, you know, everything was overcrowded, and the I mean, even walking down certain streets, like Karadzic who street just was crazy. And so I feel like four and a half days was about all we can handle without like losing our crap on each other. Oh, totally. Yeah. No. And and our sleep was rough because we were all in one hotel room. So, you know, the first person awake kinda wakes up. Everybody know. Yeah, you're getting the lowest common denominator of sleep of all five people, and we all have jet lag. So we're all waking up in the middle of the night or waking up type. So we were sleep deprived. And it was crowded now all that to say it was a great trip. But I. Think we saw. I mean, you know, me I'm three I researched Tokyo. I knew exactly what I wanted to see. Right. And we were able to see everything that I wanted to see in those four days. Okay. That's totally promising. Yeah. Now, granted I I had everything lined up by neighborhood and subway style of Cornell was she did I was taskmaster. I was like, okay. We're doing this in the morning, then we have time for a very short nap. Then we're doing this in the evening, you know, Iran US, pretty hard. Yeah. But it was really enjoyable. I I enjoyed Tokyo. It's not a city I would have chosen..

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