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WBBM Newsradio
"kinsey institute" Discussed on WBBM Newsradio
"On a cooler note, we'll have the details in your complete AccuWeather 5 day forecast coming up in about ten minutes at ten 15. Our top local story on news radio wbm a man is dead two teens injured after a grenade explosion in northwest Indiana last night. Nancy hardy reports. A family had been sorting through their grandfathers belongings at a home in lakes of the four seasons when the Lake county Indiana sheriff's office says they found a hand grenade. Someone pulled the pin and it exploded, sheriff Oscar Martinez junior says when officers responded at around 6 30 p.m., they found an unresponsive man who was later declared dead. His 14 year old son and 18 year old daughter were taken to the hospital with wounds from shrapnel, the Porter county bomb squad was called in to search for other explosives, the case is under investigation. Nancy hardy news radio one O 5 9 WB. A woman is in custody this morning after a man was shot on a CTA red line train last night. It happened at the Roosevelt station just after 8 o'clock, Chicago police say the 37 year old woman argued with a man when she allegedly pulled out a gun and shot him several times. The man was taken to a nearby hospital where he's in good condition, the woman ran from the platform but was arrested just about a block away. This is the second time a person has been shot at the Roosevelt CTA station this month. Lawmakers in Indiana have halted tax dollars once directed to the Kinsey institute. The unfounded claims about Indiana University sex research institute having to do with its founder and child sex abuse have been pervasive enough over the years that when the legislature prohibited the institute from using state dollars one lawmaker called the move, long overdue, the decision does not stop the Kinsey institute's work, researchers say Republican dominated legislatures February decision is based on a misunderstanding of their work, a false narrative that they can't seem to shake. The Kinsey institute is named for Alfred Kinsey a former professor who established the institute in 1947. Judd's a Richard's news radio one O 5 9 WBBL. Funerals for three of the four buffalo grove high school students killed in a car crash last week have been set for early this week. 17 year old Ricky bursitis will be remembered during a funeral mass tomorrow morning at the shrine of our lady of Guadalupe and displays, a funeral for 18 year old Richard D Ida will be at the same Catholic Church on Tuesday. In 17 year old Kevin Hernandez toron will be remembered during a funeral mass at saint Joseph the worker Catholic Church on Monday. No word yet on services for Jesus Rodriguez, the fourth team killed in Tuesday night's crash in wheeling. It's ten O 8 time for traffic and weather together on Yates. Here's Mike Allison. Well, it's starting to get busy out there. We'll start where you're clear though, which is on the edens just 15 between Lake cook and the junction. On the Kennedy inbound starting to get real busy now you're tight from foster all the way to the Ohio street feeder. It'll be 37 minutes to make it in from O'Hare 26 to make it in from the junction, the express lanes will save you about 7 minutes if you can take them. On the outbound side, starting to pick up as well, you're slow from the Jane burn interchange out to around north avenue. It'll be 20 minutes to get to the airport. And I would 90 eastbound and westbound both look great. The Eisenhower inbound is slow from mannheim over to first avenue. It'll be 36 minutes in from I 90, 18 to make your way in for mannheim on the up on side, no delays at the moment, just 31 minutes to make it to the Jane Adams. On the Stevenson inbound just a little bit tight as you're approaching the Dan Ryan, it'll be 27 from three 55 to do so the lakeshore drive on the up on side, it's an easy 25 back to three 55. I 55 is cleared up in both directions on the Dan Ryan, you're good to go either way as well, just 12 minutes between the merge and the interchange. On I 57, you're clear. The bishop Ford just 13 minutes in and 13 to get back out as well. Docile drive northbound, the exit to Randolph remains closed for another couple hours for the half marathon marathon going on on the southbound side, a little bit tight from 57 to Hayes with some long-term road work. On the tollways, they are all looking great, I 80 is doing okay, and we have no delays in northwest Indiana. Your next sharp report is going to be at ten 18 on news radio one O 5 9 the Q weather forecast for the rest of this Sunday afternoon.
Dateable Podcast
"kinsey institute" Discussed on Dateable Podcast
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The Charlie Kirk Show
"kinsey institute" Discussed on The Charlie Kirk Show
"I could go into the moral argument. Let me just cite Planned Parenthood for you. How about that? In a 1963 booklet that actually we have a scan of. So maybe I'll send it to Charlie sometime on the show. In the 1963 Planned Parenthood booklet, they admitted what I just said. They said, abortion ends the life of a baby. After it has already begun. And it is dangerous to your life and health. Planned Parenthood said that in a 1963 booklet. One year later, Mary Calderon, the medical director for Planned Parenthood, would leave Planned Parenthood and found the sexuality information education council of the United States with seed money from you, hefner, with a board member who ran the Kinsey institute of Indiana University, the Alfred Kinsey demon degenerate rapist who interviewed pedophiles to get his data on the sexual activity of the American male. Let me just say one thing about if you ever want to see how sick and how dark some of this stuff goes and you want to see who actually is the architect of the perversion of children, just read a little bit of doctor Kinsey. And Judah Smith. Yeah, he wrote a book in the 1920s. I don't sexuality in the human mind. Yeah, that's exactly right. And it is. And Judith reisman, who died a couple of years ago, spent her life debunking the science. That's right. Of Alfred Kinsey. Doctor money was another one. I'll just give you one quote from doctor Kinsey and I'm paraphrasing. He said the only abnormal sexual act for a child is one of which they can't perform. On table 34, table 34 of his book, he actually details the rape of children between 18 months old and 12 years old. I only say this if this guy is published and widely celebrated in education. Indiana University has a whole center erected a new statue of Alfred Kinsey. So anyways, let's say this remembers a tangent. That T level sort of a mama bear papa bear speaking at school board meetings in the last two years. What was that in response to? Yes, critical race theory, but secondly, the pornographic sex that in the schools. And when you start studying this stuff, all roads lead to Kinsey. Anyways, I have a podcast called Anna boarded with Seth Gruber because we're all on aborted. And we've done stuff on Kinsey. We've had experts on Kinsey on the show, so go check it out. Anyway, so Planned Parenthood admits in 63 abortion is dangerous to the mother's life and health. And then when roe V wade got overturned, amen, by the way, total providential thing that happened, right? We started hearing a lot of propaganda shocker from the true peddlers of misinformation, the abortion industrial complex. And what were they saying? They were saying, now in states where abortion is illegal or highly, highly restricted, women are not going to be able to get miscarriage treatments, and they're not going to be able to have a baby removed from the fallopian tube at an ectopic pregnancy. And because they were arguing that that was technically the abortion surgical procedure. And since abortion is now illegal in that state, pro lifers are trying to force pregnant women to die. And they're just going to have their babies rotting in their womb after a miscarriage. No, that's an ad they're running. I'm sure you've seen that. 25 times an hour. Yeah. And so guess what? Guess what Planned Parenthood did right after the overturning of roe versus wade? They deleted a line from their website up the internets forever, so we found it. They deleted a line from their website that said this. Verbatim, it said, treatment for ectopic pregnancy is fundamentally different than treatment for abortion. Because they were like, oh gosh, all the pro lifers might learn that we're actually lying, and we need to strike that line from our website, which is just a Joseph Goebbels attempt of misinformation and censoring your political opponents that we saw in the Third Reich. And in a conversation for another time. So that's one of the lies. That's actually a good segue before we get to questions here, Seth. And you could see he's an endless reservoir of every, if you have ever encountered a pro abortion, you should give it up for Seth. I mean, it's every angle. You can imagine. And I text Seth often because again, I have to cover 500 issues, right? And so I have to go wide sometimes more than I would like to go deep. But there's some issues I want to go deep on. But even sometimes I get a question and I was like, I don't know the best way to answer that and set immediately text back. He's a great resource and he's got a great spirit. But Seth, I want to close this portion before we get to questions here because I know we're going to get some good questions on the topic about your project that the white rose resistance. What is the white rose resistance? I think it's great education for us. And then what should our goal be? What should our telo speed? What should our purpose be on this topic? What is the call to action specifically?.
Fat Mascara
"kinsey institute" Discussed on Fat Mascara
"How to have any difficult conversation. So you can download that guard it'll help you. We'll send people there, but now I just have to know because if it's just three T's, what are the two? Timing tone and turf. I can tell you, timing. Okay, time. We have timing, timing, not right when you have sex, tone, light and curious. Not judgmental, not like we need to talk about our sex life. What are you doing all these things wrong? But your tone is light and curious and the turf is outside the bedroom. A neutral maybe. If you don't live together, like let's do it in a neutral zone. Exactly. Right. In the middle of the restaurant. No. Not with false in that couple. No one's ever happy with the conversation that happens with their food on the table and the waitress is coming. I've messed that up. Okay, also not the good time. Not a good time. It's good to know. We did talk about bodies and the body shape and the body parts. We didn't talk about skin as much. And I feel like we're all hairy creatures, you know? We're mammals. We've been through life. We have scars. We have stretch marks. All the things. What's your thought on dealing with those things can products help improve that? Absolutely. Absolutely. Here's the thing. We care so much as you know, products on our face. Like high hyaluronic acid, you can put also put it on your vulva, there's a lot of companies now that are making creams and lotions and serums just for your vulva, and I think, yes, over time, it gets drier, it changes, there's wrinkles, all the things. So definitely care for the skin all over your body. Find some PH balance guys made for the vulva. Well, you were talking about that mirror meditation. It's true. Like you wouldn't even know if you're like, wait, my vault was dry. I wouldn't even know unless I did that. The PH balance is inside. Externally, you just need the creams and the lotions that aren't going inside, but your PH balance. But then if you go have some penetration. Always make body safe products. But yeah, you have to care what the skin interface and the skin between your legs. It's true. You never thought about actually just, well, there's this product called, I think it's called Uber lube that I always liked, which also makes a great hair serum. And. Someone was telling me, depending on how things are marketed, like it can't be called a lubricant if it will get inside of you. Do you know anything about that? I do. Yeah. There's an FDA. Why is that? Did a lot of challenges with the word when using the word lubricant because it's actually like a medical device and so you have to get because it's okay. So you have to get FDA approval so that can be challenging to cause some things a lubricant that are actually that are lubricant so you can't, yeah, that they're making it. So there's certain things. So an external moisturizer that you might think in your head, oh, I'm looking for lubricant because that's what we think of when we think of lotion for down there. I do, at least. I don't know. You're not looking for that because that's something to help facilitate penetrative sex, I guess. Yes, exactly. Well, lubricate is more for penetrative sex. So I would recommend, oh, there's a new, there's one called playground that is made for women by women and it's amazing because it has like ashwagandha and it has all these things in it that are actually good for your good for your skin. It has these wonderful flavors and scents and it's also yeah, it's moist. I've never the reason why I love this brand it's probably one of the first time one of their bottles here I don't. It's one of the first brands that actually has all these ingredients that are really carefully sourced that you could use it externally internally for women. And Uber leaves only one ingredient because it's silicone. It's called it literally just launched, so I'm like, playground. I'm looking up. Because yeah, these look like you don't even know what dessert. Yeah, exactly. I guess they wouldn't be calling it a luber again, even if it ended up looping you up. Because of what you just were talking about. And that's true. If that's going to help you feel good, why wouldn't you do that? I know overt hello playground. Yeah, they've thoughtful and ingredients, you know, it's healthy, it's like makes your skin like it has vitamin E hydrating, hyaluronic acid, bamboo extract, mimics natural lubrication for a silky slip that just will quit. So I just, I have them everywhere I love that I love them. I'm like, it has a pop top. Here's the other one. They're calling it a personal lubricant. As opposed to a sexual lubricant. Yeah. Here's the thing. Go ahead. What's the thing? No, it's the thing. Okay, here's my other thing. My big thing. Is that I am such a huge fan of Lou, I always have been and I feel like that women because this is like and you'll like this backed in science at the Kinsey institute at a study and they showed when you had a few drops of loop to any sexual situation. When a woman does, she's 80% more likely to orgasm from just a few drops of lube. Because our clitoris is not self lubricating. And so for me, you know, maybe you would say you wouldn't go out without sunscreen. I'm just making assumptions with your skin with your show. You know me. Okay. But I won't either, and I won't have sex with that lube like I literally will not because I know no matter because the reason why we don't though, and the reason why I love playgrounds because they're just making a brand for women by women is because lube has such a bad rap. Because we think I'm not drying, I'm too dry. So if I need lube, something's wrong with me. And then the guys think there's something wrong with me because I need to loop. But the truth is, the science shows that our wetness level is not an indicator of our arousal, so you can be wet and that turned on. Turned out to be learned that in that way. Exactly. It's not true. You're not always wet. It's like one O one, like after sex Ed, some kid told you that. And you believe it for the rest of your life. So I'm here to tell you that so introduce the lubricants early in the sexual relationship. As if it's not even a thing. You always do. On my nightstand. It is literally I bring it everywhere I have little bottles that I love the Uber loop. I have to dial a little playground bottles. I just have my purse all the time. I will not do it. It's not safe, because also when you're dry, you just need a few drops because you just, you know, and you might be wet at the beginning, but not what ten minutes later, it just changes in with our cycle. It changes every week. And then if you don't use it, there's more tariffs. There's a bunch of reasons. But yes, lube Al send you summit. I'll send you some. We'll get your address. Thank you. So we talked about lubricant, but like as far as you mentioned self Tanner early, let's get into this. I love self Tanner obsessed. Yeah, but I need a good one. I just have someone come over and do it, but when they can't come over, like, what do you love? I bought the drops. I, you know what? Makes me not feel so smell is a really important thing to me, both with a partner that I like their smell. But I have never been able to get over the scent when the DHA reacts and your skin changes, the sugars get even the best ones that I know there's good ones. Like I can't un smell that smell. So I've just given up on the self Tanner self tanker. Yeah, I know. And I'm not gonna do it on my own unless someone comes spraying. I just get real moisturized because I feel like half the time I'm not happy with my skin tone. It's just 'cause it's ashy. It just needed. Exactly. Absolutely right. So moisturizing could be part of your new routine when
The Charlie Kirk Show
"kinsey institute" Discussed on The Charlie Kirk Show
"Use promo code Kirk ten during checkout. Study Alfred Kinsey. It is part of the agenda to sexualize your children. Kenzie said the only unnatural sex act is that which you can not perform. Doctor Kinsey is an evil man. Highly influential in the field of child sexuality and child psychology. One of his disciples was a guy by the name of, I think it was, was it Alfred miss John money? I know money was the last name. Kinsey was a sinister person. He was born in 18 94 to 1956. There's something called the Kinsey institute at Indiana University, where it has two women looking like they're in a romantic relationship together, exploring sexuality relationships and well-being. The fact that Indiana University in Bloomington, Indiana, has the Kinsey institute. I mean, Kinsey was as close to an intellectual defender of pedophilia that you will find. That is still considered to be acceptable and decent society. Mackenzie institute at Indiana University it has an about, it says our mission is to foster and promote a greater understanding of human sexuality and relationships through research outreach education and historical preservation. Their logo is the flower of Aphrodite in Greek mythology Aphrodite is the goddess of desire love sexuality and maternal reproduction. You guys can see it for yourself. Just study a little bit about doctor Kinsey, just a little bit. And you'll learn, you'll see exactly what is coming into your school, such as this, your schools to your children, cut 93 professor at children's mercy hospital, says not giving a child puberty blockers, which by the way, puberty blockers, it's not just something where you could start puberty and then restart it. That's a lie, is a form of psychological abuse. You see that's tons of projection. This is how they do it. They're saying that we're the ones of children because we don't want to give them drugs that might castrate them. Play cut 93. So whether the parents fully understand it or not, transgender children going through puberty of their own genders, harmful in the special way. So as we've seen refusing puberty walk in treatment, prevents media and intense psychological harm and second, it causes lasting and irreversible physical harm. Regardless of whether these parents have good intentions, these children are often at risk of harm. So in various cases, the courts have ruled that naturalist parents are required to treat their children according to traditional principles of western medicine. Not only that, but the criminally liable. They don't do so. This is a professor at children's mercy hospital who believes that parents should be held criminally liable. If children are not given, chemical castration drugs. Are you hearing this? They're saying that you as a parent, again, you might say, oh, that's an abstract thing. Please stop dismissing this stuff early. This will be introduced to a law one day where they will say, I will call the department of child protective services. On you, I, the teacher, call you because you don't want to give your child puberty blockers. That is what they're saying. That parents could go to jail. If you dare question that your child might be a little misguided if they think they're a boy when they're a girl when they're 8 years old. Scientism, the cult of science, which is the furthest extrapolation of modernity, separate topic for a different time. We are entering the postmodern world where their focus at every level is the innocence of children, cut 94..
The Charlie Kirk Show
Charlie Highlights the Evil Work of Alfred Kinsey
"Alfred Kinsey. It is part of the agenda to sexualize your children. Kenzie said the only unnatural sex act is that which you can not perform. Doctor Kinsey is an evil man. Highly influential in the field of child sexuality and child psychology. One of his disciples was a guy by the name of, I think it was, was it Alfred miss John money? I know money was the last name. Kinsey was a sinister person. He was born in 18 94 to 1956. There's something called the Kinsey institute at Indiana University, where it has two women looking like they're in a romantic relationship together, exploring sexuality relationships and well-being. The fact that Indiana University in Bloomington, Indiana, has the Kinsey institute. I mean, Kinsey was as close to an intellectual defender of pedophilia that you will find. That is still considered to be acceptable and decent society. Mackenzie institute at Indiana University it has an about, it says our mission is to foster and promote a greater understanding of human sexuality and relationships through research outreach education and historical preservation. Their logo is the flower of Aphrodite in Greek mythology Aphrodite is the goddess of desire love sexuality and maternal reproduction. You guys can see it for yourself.
WBUR
"kinsey institute" Discussed on WBUR
"Some people react like as if my open relationship is a threat to their monogamous relationship You know not that I'm trying to sleep with their partner or anything but just like the existence of open relationships or people that might be happy in those is some sort of message of danger to the relationship they have And I think that's true of a lot of ways of living that have been normed when there's an alternative presented People can be really uncomfortable with that or feel like it's an attack when you know it's obvious people are living their own life In 2021 researchers from the Kinsey institute and Chapman university in the U.S. surveyed single Americans about polyamory One out of 6 people expressed a desire to engage in polyamory and one out of 9 said they'd done it at some point in their life Monogamy is embedded in the very first stories we learn about love I think fairytales Cinderella is essentially monogamy as foot fetish But are those norms as relevant and resonant for someone like sex expert Dan savage in a same sex relationship In heterosexual land I think like commitment and monogamy are often like this two for one bundled package Does that work similarly in the gay world No and it never has I'm 56 years old I came out when I was 16 17 years old And monogamy was always the conversation It was negotiated It was opt in And for straight people monogamy has always seemed to be a default setting From the very first night a couple spends together Dan says that gay relationships necessarily involve a lot of talking When a man in a man are going to bed together for the first time they don't get to consent and stop communicating They get to consent Yes let's have sex and then they keep talking because what's going to happen next is an obvious can't be assumed You have to talk about what you want to do What your desires are Straight people avoid that conversation Straight couples might just presume they agree with sex should be What a relationship should be Whereas gay couples don't have the same scripts to lean on so they got to negotiate every step What do you actually want out of this What should we build together Dan savage is one man leading one life who has not been elected official representative of gay people around the globe But in his worldview monogamy is just not the gold standard of romantic connection Part of the gay men are failing at monogamy I think gay men are succeeding at relationships and non monogamy Okay Enough about love for a minute let's talk money It's time for econ I'm Marina ache I'm assistant professor at the Vancouver school of economics at the university of British Columbia in my specialization is the economics of sex and love So from the economic.
Sex With Emily
"kinsey institute" Discussed on Sex With Emily
"These are from social psychologists author and Kinsey institute research fellow Justin lay Miller. Did you know we tend to be attracted to people who look like us? One study showed that heterosexual men and women rate the attractiveness of several faces. And one was a picture of their own face that had been digitally morphed into the other sex. So it would be like my face morphed to look like a man. And participants found that this more face to be more attractive than all the other faces. Okay, another fun fact. Not only would trap the people that look like us, we also seem to be attracted to people who remind us of our parents. Yep, you might be reminded of someone who looks just like your mother or your father. Oh, I like this one. If you're already physiologically aroused, like you just exercised, maybe just keep from yoga class, you went for a run, and you meet someone new. You're more likely to develop an attraction to that person. Whoever it is, walk about your breath, can you all your adrenaline's going? Because you just went on a run. Why? Because you mistakenly attribute the source of your elevated heartbeat, your heartbeat's racing to that stranger. Instead of the true source of your arousal, which is your heart racing because you just worked out. So next time you fall in love with someone that you see the grocery store after your boot camp, pay attention. Beer goggles, that's really a thing. This Chicago is no surprise that the drunker people get the higher attractiveness ratings they give to strangers. And alcohol also changes how attractive we perceive ourselves. This is why we want to limit our drinks. Attraction is a multisensory process. Who were attracted to depends not just on how the other person looks, but also on how they smell, how their mouth tastes and so on. So the senses also play a role in attraction. I always find this fascinating. The things that heterosexual women find attractive in men vary across their menstrual cycle. So when we're at our peak fertility in our cycle, we're attracted to manlier men like muscular guys with really deep voices, but other times a month, not so much. So when you think it's love at first sight, or this is my partner, at least wait if you've gone through a few menstrual cycles to see if this is really your match. Your birth control pills will also affect attraction and arousal. We did a great episode on birth control with Ricky Lake last year, and we talk all about this that your birth control is actually going to impact who you're attracted to. So before you get married and have kids with someone, I would say get off the pill after consulting with your doctor and see is this really my person. And finally, our patterns of sexual attraction change seasonally. So for example, heterosexual men report greater trapped into women's bodies and their breasts in the winter months and they do in the summer months. I know that sounds counterintuitive, but maybe it's because skin is more of a novelty in the winter when everyone's bundled up and you haven't seen breasts all year long, so you get excited about that. But in the winter, they're much more coveted. Find out more at sex and psychology dot com and it will also be in the show notes. All right, everyone, let's get into your questions. This is from Mara 23 in Chicago. Hi doctor Emily, I love you show it's changed my life. I'm a newer listener, so I apologize if this has already been asked, but I'm struggling to figure out my sexuality. I've always identified as a straight woman, but I've also always been attracted to women. I'm just not sure in what way. I've been physically and emotionally attracted to women and the idea of sleeping with one turns me on. I've only been with women sexually in a situation with other men. But I've never gone all the way with one. I don't know if I'm bisexual or just think women are hot. How do I.
WNYC 93.9 FM
"kinsey institute" Discussed on WNYC 93.9 FM
"All right you may know that some couples many in fact use baby talk Oh God Now we know exactly how common this really is A study from the Kinsey institute found that two thirds of couples use baby talk with each other Now to be clear this is when they are talking to one another not talking to babies Not even talking to their dogs Of course people do baby talk with their dogs but this is with other adults Ramish Kuiper at Oklahoma state university says using high pitched chatter and silly pet names serves our emotional needs Humans as we are we definitely pray for our attention and affection from our loved ones And this is a very simple yet efficient way that helps us disparate our attention to people who are special to us He says this sort of attention creates stronger relationships Research and socio psychology has shown that use of idiosyncratic names like sweet pea honey or mood by among married couples result in higher marital satisfaction This may explain why baby talk cuts across cultures Regardless our cultural background the language ethnicity race humans are united by this one particular trait where we use this communicative feature to express our attention So if you ever catch your voice shifting up an octave or hear yourself saying good morning honey pie When talking to your partner don't be embarrassed It's good for you This is NPR news Today on all of the Allison Stuart socks with award winning filmmaker Kenneth ran up about his new film Belfast a coming of age story said in the troubles in Northern Ireland It's freezing outside going up to 41 at 5 30 WNYC supporters.
Therapy for Black Girls
"kinsey institute" Discussed on Therapy for Black Girls
"A run out space to explore that saw that in my office So you mentioned this other study that you also found head interesting results. Can you say more about the other stunning. Absolutely it's another kinsey institute. Study and this one is in partnership with the company the sexual wellness company love honey in so biz was the summer of love survey. And so this are. They conducted this summer of love survey and this one was a bit less shocking for me but it was still interesting in that it found that over fifty percent of people over all it shows at the pandemic. The wonders four their relationship in their sex life. We went into this not thinking that people were going through fare very well. They started doing his research over. Fifty percent of people say that they are more invested in their relationship. They feel more committed to each other. They're more satisfied with their partner. They say that their partner meets their sexual needs now more than before and edges blew me away it was so interesting in fifty one percent of people feel more passionate soul out of all of these results over fifty percent of people say that their relationships in her sexual relationships improved in are better than before. How interesting is that. That is really interesting. Mary and i wonder if you can help us..
Today in Focus
"kinsey institute" Discussed on Today in Focus
"I've been ducks. I'm currently a sex worker. And i'm online adult content creator for anybody who doesn't know how only fans works people sign up and they can subscribe to your page for a fee and what they're paying for us to a knock your content which might be pictures or videos or they can message you directly. So what kind of stuff is being out there and were is it that you do on it so you can be anything from a dj to a chef but it mainly as sex. 'cause the have brought only funds to the mainstream. Some of my friends will take the approach of moxham themselves as that model. Here is happy to create contenders. Well past what. You'd be happy talking about on a podcast okay. So i will be described as m softcore porn by may shoot lingerie andrzej news content and very slutty and tease content. I'm also the sort of girl that will post about mike. Don't go into the vet and talk about close day i've had and if i'm studying reading anything cool and so i know the law people do just come to me because they want to see my boobs but they stick around for the conversation sacramento for the dogs. I i mean that's what i do. How much money do you think. What would you say that you make a week or on our fridge. Oh wow that's a thing that sex work with any portion of it really does depend. It could be that the football on in which case people won't be online as much and my christmas with people don't have as much money on the average week in between anywhere between a few hundred to a few thousand pounds i have friends With a native st making about ten thousand pounds a week which is a hell of a lot of money. It really depends on how much ehthiopian gain. What solve you're making and what's happening in the world at that time. So where does the only fund story star. The only story starts with the stookey's in two thousand sixteen a family From essex who put together they signed build a subscription based social network. That could be used to post images that you build your followers to say there's various levels of cynicism that you can tell the story with right one. One level is the just like playboy as gentleman's magazine only fans has this veneer respectability but it was always about porn. The other level of cynicism is that that only always had this intention to be more than porn so studies had already been running this porn website graham goals and in the early days of only fans. They individually contacted porn stars and of entice them over to come and build their platform. They ended up selling a majority stake in the site earlier. At vince gi. Who made his name and his fortune from porn webcams and whatever their intentions. It's fair to say that only fans has made an extraordinary amount of money is chasing a billion dollar valuation is expecting revenues of one point. Two billion dollars this year and it says as one hundred and twenty million active users. What's made it such a success story. Some of the answer is the only funds executed well to to use it of tech speak. The product is good only built a website the works and feels like a very high quality app. But it's built on. The web is in the open web is free to you. Similarly they have a payment infrastructure that is quite fluid. It's not it doesn't feel like you're handing your car details over to a dodgy operator They behave and look like a respectable website. And that's really important if you are in the business of trying to get people to pay for porn online because evidence shows that people are really willing to pay for porn online. People don't want to do it out of embarrassment. People don't want to do it out of the fear that they are being ripped off so building anything that can present itself truthfully as a Smooth easy to use respectable. Reliable site is great. And then the second facet of only find success was the pandemic a lot more. that's how much pornography nearly one in five americans say. They have watched since the pandemic started. According to preliminary findings from the kinsey institute. Ours is how much corn the average person watching in the last two weeks. Three point five million new subscribers is how many new people signed up for adult content site only fans in march only fans began five years ago but it really took off last year during covered lockdowns when the number of people posting skyrocketed from one hundred and twenty thousand to more than a million worldwide and there are now one hundred and twenty million people paying to have a look. Horn is inherently problematic and lots of people will see as harmful how we view women in the world and believe their major safeguarding worries for the young women on platforms like fans. But is there anything going on beyond the pandemic that explains the growth of this model. We all wanna feel like with friends with the people we speak to in line And that is fundamental to a huge amount of the creative community on the internet. There is this. Tom para social relationships. Which means the idea that when you're listening to a podcast or watching a youtube video following influence on instagram. you don't think of them as a distant broadcaster who is a voice from on high. You think of them as a friend and everything about successful creative successful picasso's about inviting you into that space with them about making you feel like they are talking to you it's why youtubers instinctively it's not. It's not a cynical thing. Why instinctively opened videos by saying. Hey guys what's up guys what's up. It's me hey. Hey it's your favorite time of the week. How's it going bro. Mining high sisters. James charles here and welcome back to my youtube robin guy. Hello you're watching the logan poll pranks channel. It's all about building nice relationships. What only fans did is it brought that. Same power. Social dynamic into the world of porn. Hello my name's page. It's you girl page. Hey everyone my name is the nella. It was about building the same relationship that you have with people. You follow an instagram twitter. Facebook and kinda going. What have you had that. Uh veneer friendship with also access to sexy pictures and that's very powerful force And sometimes in some ways dictate those pitches for yourself or an.
Sex With Emily
"kinsey institute" Discussed on Sex With Emily
"Hi justin so good to have you back on this show and you've been busy. It's great to be here. thanks for having me. I mean this pandemic has been an interesting. I'm going to be a sex researcher. And i've been busier than ever and conducting the most research and actually i think published the most of my entire career over the last year and a half really in the beginning. My career totally changed. Because i had all of these speaking gigs lined up. I was gonna be traveling. The world i think it was going to be in seven different countries last summer in so oldest found myself with a lot of time on my hands and i was talking to some by colleagues at the kinsey institute. And we were seeing all these media headlines about you know what was going to be happening to a sex. Lots of big bold predictions and so we thought is is any of that actually gonna shake out so we wanted to actually collect the data to test whether what we were seeing in the media was actually coming to wish you know that kind of gave us the inspiration and all had more time on her hands and needed something to focus on so he turned to sexy search. And i remember yes justin's doing this. What did we learn about this with the hot vac summer. What's up now. So that's a great question you know last year. There were lots of predictions about. Oh well when this pandemic cabins and people are locked down. They're going to have more sex masturbate more than ever. Because everyone's just going to be bored horny and it turned out last year. That didn't really turn out to be the case you know there. There's no baby boom. There's no evidence that you know people really having a lot of sex. So that's what we found last year in the research. We did at the kinsey institute. Although we did find that people were being more sexually Mental about one in five people last year said they tried something new in the bedroom so we recently conducted a new. Study to see what things look like this summer because everyone was talking about the hot back summer. So the kinsey institute partnered with love honey to do this survey of what what is happening right now in our sex lives and relationships and one of the really interesting things we found was that there was an even greater trend toward sexual experimentation so americans have become kinky are we actually found that a majority of americans fifty one fifty two percent so they tried something new in bed since the pandemic began and also that a majority of americans said that their sexual interests had shifted in some way. And if those who reported a shift three quarters of them said that they became kinky so you know instead of the hardback summer. We're thinking of this as the hut kinks summer. You know when people are kind of exploring their wild side. that's exciting. What are they trying. What are they doing. that's kinky. Yes so is one of those big messy terms that means different things to different people. The way redefined it for purposes of our survey was interested. In what you would consider to be non-mainstream sexual activity so for some that's media type stuff for others it might be having a threesome group sex for others might be trying a story for the first time or you know having sex in new positions locations you know there was all different kinds of stuff that people said they were trying but interestingly you know is someone who is a big sexual fantasy researcher. I saw that a lot of people said that one of the most common new things they did was the sharon act on their sexual fantasies. So people got more in touch with their fantasies during this period and also one of the really cool things about the recent study we did was that we saw that it was around forty percent or so of americans who said that they got better at communicating about sex. If not more comfortable talking about sex partners and so you know for all this talk of doom and gloom you know there are some positive signs of it that we've become better sexual communicators in some way we've started exploring other sides of our sexual selves. That maybe we otherwise wouldn't have because we didn't really have the opportunity. Yeah i guess it was about having time time was definitely a big part of it. Another part was that people really stressed and anxious and so that actually creates for a lot of people this barrier to getting in the mood for sex feeling sexual desire but if you engage in a new activity you can kind of break through some of the inhibitions that are caused by stress anxiety because it creates immersive experience. The trolls in their raises. Arousal makes it easier to become aroused than stay aroused. Because you're in the moment when you're trying something new different. I think that was a big part of it for a lot of people You know also couples. I think needed to find ways to meet their needs for self expansion. That need to keep trying new and different things. Such couldn't leave your home and go out and do all the things you might normally do on say a date night you kind of had to learn to try new things in the bedroom at home. It's very very hopeful. And it all comes through communication. We all need to you. Know i always say. Communication is a lubrication so people had the time and space talking to experiment. You'll so many people email and call in with questions that their mind wandering during saxon. They're anxious and they're worried and they can't get in the mood and they're worrying about things but when you try something new a new act and you sex act events talk dirty or fantasy. Your mind can't wander because you're both president connected. Well he justin. Let's talk about threesomes because you did mention that. People were having threesomes during the pandemic and be really thought. We weren't supposed to be with anybody. But i had some people call into the show. I think there was a guy in tennessee. He's like having an eight some over here. I'm like eight of you okay. What about threesomes did you find her. The pandemic and how will have had threesomes i know. You've done a lot of studies on threesomes. yeah. I'm a threesome researcher. And you know. Kind of what sparked by interesting initially was published this book a couple of years ago mix spoke about it earlier. Podcast tell me what you want is surveyed. Four thousand americans thousand plus americans about their sexual fantasies. And i found that threesomes were actually the most popular sexual fantasy. So that kind of got me interested in better understanding the psychology behind it and ever since i included threesome questions on the surveys that i've done so to answer your question about how many people have ever had a threesome. If you look at nationally representative data it's about one in five men and one in ten women who say that they've ever had a threesome before. So when you look at the number of people her fantasizing about threesomes versus the number. Who have actually done it. you know. There's a pretty big gap between fantasy and reality and comes to threesomes during the pandemic. that's kind of like the opposite of social distance. Got an adult not to do group things let alone just have sex with just one other person so but i think there were some people who were interested in having threesomes who did have three sons. I think it was around. Two percent of americans in recent nationally representative study that we did Through the kinsey institute. They had their first threesome during the pandemic. So some people did it. And some people also did virtual threesomes. That was another thing where they had to find a new way to connect. Like i wanna explore the site of myself. But some didn't feel safe doing that in person so they did it over sam. Doing everything resume. Why not a threesome. Where every cocktails going away parties birthdays you know. Like why not and i always tell people practice a three time dirty talk text about what you found is that it's the number one fantasy for for all genders right. It's not like men sometimes. But it's all genders fantasize about threesomes. But how does that differ..
Sex With Emily
Sex Researcher Justin Lehmiller: Americans Got Kinkier During the Pandemic
"This pandemic has been an interesting. I'm going to be a sex researcher. And i've been busier than ever and conducting the most research and actually i think published the most of my entire career over the last year and a half really in the beginning. My career totally changed. Because i had all of these speaking gigs lined up. I was gonna be traveling. The world i think it was going to be in seven different countries last summer in so oldest found myself with a lot of time on my hands and i was talking to some by colleagues at the kinsey institute. And we were seeing all these media headlines about you know what was going to be happening to a sex. Lots of big bold predictions and so we thought is is any of that actually gonna shake out so we wanted to actually collect the data to test whether what we were seeing in the media was actually coming to wish you know that kind of gave us the inspiration and all had more time on her hands and needed something to focus on so he turned to sexy search. And i remember yes justin's doing this. What did we learn about this with the hot vac summer. What's up now. So that's a great question you know last year. There were lots of predictions about. Oh well when this pandemic cabins and people are locked down. They're going to have more sex masturbate more than ever. Because everyone's just going to be bored horny and it turned out last year. That didn't really turn out to be the case you know there. There's no baby boom. There's no evidence that you know people really having a lot of sex. So that's what we found last year in the research. We did at the kinsey institute. Although we did find that people were being more sexually Mental about one in five people last year said they tried something new in the bedroom so we recently conducted a new. Study to see what things look like this summer because everyone was talking about the hot back summer. So the kinsey institute partnered with love honey to do this survey of what what is happening right now in our sex lives and relationships and one of the really interesting things we found was that there was an even greater trend toward sexual experimentation so americans have become kinky are we actually found that a majority of americans fifty one fifty two percent so they tried something new in bed since the pandemic began and also that a majority of americans said that their sexual interests had shifted in some way. And if those who reported a shift three quarters of them said that they became kinky so you know instead of the hardback summer. We're thinking of this as the hut kinks
Girls Gotta Eat
"kinsey institute" Discussed on Girls Gotta Eat
"But i'm one of the things we actually talked about with the editor in chief of cosmo in conjunction with a study did with the kinsey institute was people waiting a little bit longer to have sex. And how nice it when you have sex with somebody and you trust them a little bit more and you've talked to them and you feel safe and so the first time you do have sex it. It isn't so weird to start having those conversations. I the person. I talked to my boyfriend. It was bad it was like really bad at both. Those guys we're in the middle of it. I was like. Do you want to keep doing that. But we stopped and we also already comfortable with each other. We had talked for a long time for weeks on and before we had sex with each other and showed the second time around. Which was that night. I was able to say okay. I don't like this thing. Try this thing. And i felt comfortable. Because i knew him. You know and. I think that's the great thing about sleeping with somebody that you know a little bit better. We'll amazing that it only took like a few hours for you to get to a point where you could be like this thing. You're doing and he was interested enough in your pleasure to be like i will try something else. What man wants to hear like you wanna keep doing those. Many many moons ago. I had a partner who had he was one of those like i mastered my last partners and so now i am the master of the pussy and apparently has lost partners. Posey liked exactly the opposite kind of things does and so he would do the things that worked for her. And i'd be like cool. No here's what i like. And then the next time he do the same thing again. Cool no i know. That's what worked before. And i'm an easier to remember that it took half a dozen times and ultimately me crying and saying when you do it that way it makes me feel like you're wishing you were with her and like it was genuine why it took crying for me to get the point across that. It's not just that you're doing it in a way that doesn't work for me. You're doing it in a way that indicates to me the you are stuck in a ripped you spoke with someone else She's not here now. There's a reason for that right so welcome. So is there anything like we kind of talked on a big picture things you can do with like improving your feelings about your body and like it within the tour. Play things like that do you. Is there anything you suggest. That's kind of not like a quick fix but like self-talk or anything. When you're just like i've got to try to remove some of these factors that are pushing on the break. Avoid saying mindfulness. As much as i possibly can. Because i know it's a very annoying answer even mindfulness super good for you. And if you're a person for whom. Mindfulness feels like a good fit. There's a book called better sex through mindfulness by. Laurie brought l. o. r. i brought. Ob are ot. Oh it's really wonderful and it can be great. But i would say so i get you like a basic list of things that activate your accelerator and things they hit your brakes and then consider the context because it is a reality that the way our brains interpret sensation depends on the situation in which that sensation is happening like. I have literally have this story told to me. my partner swatted me on the ass. And said hey. Do you wanna have sex tonight..
Multiamory
"kinsey institute" Discussed on Multiamory
"As being a huge cultural shift. I think in the way that we can unix through techs. John and this is that. I remember when i was a freshman in college in two thousand one that yes that that i remember having a lot of conflict with with my girlfriend my freshman year and this was like a not uncommon thing just in general over misreading tone in in aol instant messenger messages. And we'll yeah and that happens now and it does happen. But i think it happens way less. I think it can still have happen. Think it happens a lot less than i think. That part of that is how common emoji in our communications. And even before that using a mod cons you know that construct with colons dashes and parentheses and stuff. Even that was like a step in that direction. And i feel like emoji. And even i would even argue adding like gifts to communication and images and stickers and it's like we are chat apps keep adding more ways for us to communicate outside of just the words and i think that is really important. Because you're kind of helping get more of that home so well. The institute found i. Yeah i remember. There was a study that Like gosh published a couple years ago from the kinsey institute that found that people who use more emojis are more likely to go on dates and house to have more sex wait. I'm sorry using in their dating apps or just use them. Period says here that participants completed a survey inquiring about whether they use emojis and if so why they were also asked several questions about their current sex and dating life. So i don't think they necessarily made the connection of specifically using emoji on a dating app or cheering just they seem to found a correlation or not use more. Geez you get more sex and now maybe back to this study we were just talking about. Like you're adding in more nonverbal cues even that little bit right like the fact that static avatars increased people's interest. Maybe emoji does a similar thing. That's really fascinating. Well i i know personally i.
Savage Lovecast
"kinsey institute" Discussed on Savage Lovecast
"You. This was fantasy coming true for you. I worry that another woman on this same guys table might consent to be touched in the ways. You consented to be touched. Not because she wants to be touched that way. But because she's socializes a woman to defer demand because she has conditioned fear response around men and she may wind up granting consent to be touched in the same ways that you granted your consent to be touched but without the same enthusiasm and might not be looking forward to her next appointment in the same way that you're looking forward to your next appointment so i'm gonna saw the baby in half here wasn't problematic on your side. Potentially very problematic on his side. And if you book another appointment to go see the same guy again because you want this. You want this erotic massage. I think for all other women out there who might find themselves on his table. You might want to ask him how he knew that this that that kind of massage was what you wanted and what he does how he makes sure not to offer that kind of massage to other women. Most of whom are not going to want this particular kinda massage. hi don. I'm a woman in my mid thirties. And i am struggling with the concept of asexuality and wondering if i am i quit drinking a few years ago winning. Also quit anti depressant and as such my level of desire is almost nil which is very odd. And it's really hard for myself and my partner. I'm just wondering. If i'm just finding out. I may sexual because of you know finally being in touch with my cells or if you've known antidepressants to have really damaged people's arousal. This is really odd when we talk about antidepressants Negatively impacting people's libidos. It's almost always going on. Antidepressants can really tank a person's libido serious potential sexual side effects that not everyone's made aware of before they begin to take anti-depressants and i think that's a kind of malpractice. The number of calls. I get even today. We've been talking about this for twenty thirty years number of calls. I get even today from people who've recently gotten onto antidepressants and who's libidos tanked. And they were surprised because they weren't warned that that was a potential side effect. I find that shocking. Not the case. Here you went off antidepressants and alcohol at the same time. And then your libido tanked that is odd and if there's anyone else out there who's had experience with that please do call share. Your story has going off the booze and alcohol revealed that you are a sexual that is your sexual orientation and always benny sexual in somehow in your case antidepressants. And maybe you've been on them for very long time gave you a libido that you wouldn't have had otherwise seems odd. I've never read a study. That found that sexual person went on an antidepressant of course anti-depressants and suddenly felt like the sexual person or the antidepressants masked their asexuality and they perceived themselves to be functioned as aloe sexual while they were on them. So i think it's likelier that you're just going through something i mean. We're all going through something. This has been a very stressful time. Maybe you're attributing the tanking of your lido to having gone off antidepressants and booze recently. And it's the pandemic that's tanker libido this research. Justin lee miller frequent custom. Lula gas at the kinsey institute. People half of people roughly reacted the pandemic by getting horny ear and having more saxon sometimes more creative sex than they used to have in half reacted by just losing interest in sacks. So maybe there's a coincidence here and not a cause in fact you need to talk about it with your doctor. I would urge you not to reject the idea that you might be a sexual. Please go to asexuality disability education network and do some reading and deep thinking about it but i would encourage you to give it some time and to talk with your doctor and see what happens with your libido be open to it coming back after your brain. Your body has had more time to adjust to anti-depressants not being a part of your system on daily basis and booze. Not being a part of your system often. You introduced alcohol into your system what to do about your partner. In the meantime i think is more challenging question. How do you feel about maintenance sucks. Can you go there. Can you have sachs not because you want to. But because you want your partner to have this sex that your partner wants it. Having sex with your partner leaves you feeling traumatized or used or jacked off inside in a way. That feels traumatic. Maybe not maybe you can't go there right now. Maybe you can't have maintenance sex. In which case. I think you should start him in conversation with your partner now about what relationship is gonna look like if your libido never comes back if indeed you are is sexual. What are your expectations. If you're not interested in stocks and your partner still is seems to me that you want the relationship to survive. You're in a position. We're going to have to give your partner permission to seek sex elsewhere while continuing to have this committed long-term intimate.
Marketplace with Kai Ryssdal
"kinsey institute" Discussed on Marketplace with Kai Ryssdal
"Coming up. I was like this. This isn't adding up. you know. Sometimes it never does first though. Let's do the numbers dow industrial's up twenty five points today just under a tenth percent. Thirty four thousand. Six hundred nasdaq up. Nineteen points tenth percent. Thirteen thousand seven fifty six s and p five hundred found six points also about a tenth percent forty-two and eight two hundred billion dollars is a number we are looking at today. How much corporations have committed to racial equity and social justice since may of twenty twenty that's the calculation from the kinsey institute for black economic mobility which has much of that money is ended affordable housing and support of small and medium-sized businesses. Sabrina was telling us about employees. Prefer to work remotely even in a post pandemic world companies that outfit offices are catering to the work from home customer. Odp corporation. They own office depot. And max up half percent. Herman miller he of the chairs down seven tenths percent. Hp inc down two tenths percent. You're listening to marketplace from all of us at marketplace. Thank you for. Your support has year whether you just gave for the first time or have been a loyal donor for years. Your generosity makes our work possible marketplace investors. Keep this public service going strong. If you're not an investor yet there is still time to become one give anytime at marketplace.org/donate and again thanks. This marketplace podcast is supported. By cyber reason. If you're defender fighting to protect your organization from cyber attackers you must be successful ending attacks every single time. They only need to be successful. Once cyber reverses the attackers advantage their future ready attack platform gives defenders the wisdom to uncover understand and piece together multiple threats and the precision focused and cyber attacks instantly together. We are the defenders cyber reason and cyber attacks from endpoints everywhere learn more at cyber reason dot com slash marketplace. This is marketplace. i'm kai ryssdal. We talked work and the changes. Come into it as we got going today and while there is still a whole lot. We don't know about what work is going to be like in the long term. I will bet you a paycheck. There's going to be a bunch of video conferencing involved and as the risks from the virus. Fade we're probably not gonna throw it our ring lights all of a sudden but how we use video technology is probably going to change. Marketplaces megan mccarthy carino. Has that one. That's like that fifty pound sack of flour. You bought at the beginning of lockdown. Videoconferencing has gotten kinda stale over the last fourteen months. I'm on zumra about eight. Am in the morning sometimes until seven or eight pm. at night. i felt like i was living in a screen. Kyle arteaga runs a pr firm that used to have offices in san francisco nashville and dc. He's mostly gotten rid of them and transformed into a remote first workplace. He hopes will rely a little less on video conferencing soon. We're just gonna have to make rules and set parameters over when it makes sense. The technology is going from a substitute for social interactions. To just a tool says erik. Gordon a business professor at the university of michigan. I think we all learned something about the value of physical presence. People who irritated me in my office. I can't wait to see them again but it doesn't have to replace face to face to be useful says. Sit all neely a business professor at harvard. It's additive compliments even for people who might be called located. There's convenience to say hey let's get on zoom for fifteen minutes. A figure something out video chatting has become a reflex. We won't just drop but we'll use it. More sparingly says brian crop head of hr research at gartner. What are the tasks and activities and moments where we really need you to be in the office. And what are the ones where you don't need to be video. Works for one on one meetings or presentations but jerry shen new introductions are sharing a birthday cake probably better in person..
KQED Radio
"kinsey institute" Discussed on KQED Radio
"How does that speak to your relationship to this question of archival visibility, or, like making sure things are our president or intervening or even calling out the absences? Wow. That's a big one. Um, this is that's a great one, too, Because it happens. We put some stuff together that I could even use so narrative itty, you know, being able to look at a picture and see the story. And being able to use all my parts too. Kind of you know all that I know too. Be able to put a story there. So you know, looking at a picture from, you know, looking at the eyes of Ah, a woman in the twenties or thirties, you know, holding the baby while all these white people are in front of that, you know, being the maid to or something of that. You know the keeper of Children a servant or slave, um, wondering, what was she thinking about? What is that face? Why she's not smiling. Why she's smiling at, you know, trying to put myself in her. Position. Um, and there's movie right. There is your film. There's a book. There's a painting. It's well so trying to narrative eyes. People in photos in archives has been You know, a joy for me. A full active pleasure is just wanting to, you know. Reed Reed Media a visual medium in and then tell stories about that, just I could spend days on that in days on end days on that, just, you know. In in in an archive. Um, I've been to several archives of like film archive and, uh, which is next to the Kinsey Institute Archive? In in in Indiana, and that those folks I put my stuff in archives, which I think is something that's very important for people to do. Um, because you want people to find you, you know, And you also want to protect him. Clean out your house. How many pictures do you have, you know? Um and and talk about your life lived because if you don't put yourself in the archive, people not going to know who lived or what was what went on. So it's very, very important for me to say, you know, archive yourself, Um, take your own pictures. Um, make sure you and of course, right this moment. Worse, you know. Snapchat this and that everybody's instagram and other than that, um, but there's something you know who knows what's gonna happen to the cloud. What, not, you know those type of things, but there's something sort of visceral Tonto, uh and feeling an important tip. Finding archive that is with your church or with your School where you went to your grade school, You know, whatever, making sure you're part of a narrative that was about change or a life A life lived in a lineage of legacy. So do the archive thing and to explore them. So many things you could find out about yourself where you came from where you shouldn't be going to, you know? You're listening to Cheryl Junior in conversation with Rama like a Imhotep. This is city arts and lectures. Wouldn't tow eggs. Do you have a favorite like archival find or like a favorite treasure that you stumbled across Jet magazine at 15 1951 to her? Very much in the fifties and the sixties. I have I was gifted. On beyond having my own collection of stuff from the seventies. A friend and Billy like was like, Hey, look what I found Jet magazines, and it's just like I can't get through a new issue of jet from like 1952. The sizzling titles the way that they were. So first off, you know, it was the black lives living right? Every aspect of black lives live from what we were doing on television in the world and then in the sense of smaller community so slowly, black newspapers that led me to those points to because You know, we have the report on ourselves. We had black lives of our own that were not reported in, you know, mainstream media that plant So you get to hear these very particular nuances of, you know, advertising little stories about people doing different things and in looking at black queer lives. There's no reported in jet There was headlines. I mean, there's something that was sensational, but it was like Mrs and Mrs got married. And, like 1955 jet, I was just like what? Oh, did it Yeah, And you know so many things like that, Uh, cross dressing, you know, drag shows from from different not just, you know, storming in in New York. Um, but all over, like, in other communities, So jet really was this place that was trying to make a black world understood. That world needs sports and everything. So you just look at that. And you're just like wow. That was it was amazing, You know, And then how you know, I'm not saying that civil racing segregation our problem, but it definitely we lost that. That magic. You know, we lost that when? Once everything became we are one and you know what are we losing now? Even more so because You know, quote what has happened. Well, thank you for that black lives lived. Feels like a sort of like Toma theme that we that keeps coming up. Thank you for that gift, And I think what you're saying to about, um, Jet magazine and just like black publications in the quest to make a black world known, um Phil's definitely related to the impulse in your work, you know, to make your black world known, and in that making space for the black worlds of all number of Queer figures s. Oh, well, most radical sense. I mean, everybody thinks queers about you know things concept of sexuality or gender. But Where people are. People who like to wear capes around everywhere are a mask or it's some interesting jewelry that in our or braid their hair differently. Somebody who just doesn't fit into the mainstream s O. A lot of people are queer then I don't know..
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"kinsey institute" Discussed on KFI AM 640
"After Wendy Walsh with you. Okay? On my instagram, I followed a account called Light space. But listen, how they spell it. L three eyes GHT space like light bulb, But with three eyes light space, it's all about meditation, and the page is beautiful. It's red. I don't know. I just love it. It's calming even those red. I know anyway. Follow light space on Instagram. If you'd like to follow me, I'm a doctor. Wendy Welsh. If I like what I see, I'll follow you back and give you a shout out. Right. So we've been talking a lot about sex during Cove it because sex is good for our health. Too much sex can be bad with our health for health and too much sex with too many people obviously can be really bad for your help, but regular connection with somebody who you're in partnership with can be very good for your mental and physical health. Um, But as we know, sex starts to decline, the frequency of sex as couples have been together for a very long time, and that is perfectly normal. A new study called the strongest predictors of sexual desire was published in sexual relationship therapy this week by researchers from the University of Kentucky. And I found four interesting takeaways from this research that I really wanted to share with you. So one of the first one is sort of like duh, But I'm gonna read it anyway. It's so weird, they say one of the strongest predictors of sexual desire with all the couples they researched was Sexual satisfaction. People who had stronger feelings of sexual satisfaction also reported increased feelings of sexual desire. Well, like duh, If you have a great sex life, then you're gonna wanna have more sex like this is yeah, of course. So The big takeaway for me, however, is exactly what Dr Garcia said from the Kinsey Institute. That those couples and he said one in five during covert, that's what I heard expanded their sexual script. They tried something different. The other thing you can do to improve your sexual satisfaction, and this has been proven in study after study after study is to improve your sexual communication skills. You have to get to a place of like Intimacy and trust and say words like baby. I'm really nervous about saying this over and had this idea and don't make fun of me, please. And then you say it right? That's how you do it. Um, okay, the second thing, the study said. Was that relationship length was strongly related to sexual desire again. Do we know that newer relationships have more sex there starts to be less frequency. Um, as the relationship continues, but I want you to do if you've been in a really long term relationship, and maybe even gone into a sexless marriage. I want you to normalize that. First of all, it's okay to have less sex but also realize the value of some sex and also replace sex. If you do, get rid of it or or reduce it in frequency with lots of affection. There's so much research to show that actually kissing frequency of kissing is a better indicator of health of a relationship than frequency of sex. Sometimes people are having anxiety sex. I don't know. It's weird. Um okay. Here's one of my favorites that the research found strong expressions of love and feelings of intimacy. We're also associated with greater sexual desire. So in other words, If somebody feels loved if they feel emotionally seen if they feel really connected with somebody, and this goes across all genders, folks, this is a human thing, The more intimacy the more desire for sex, and I know you emotion avoided Lea attached people out there without attachment star like no way. That's not gonna happen to me. Um But Share your feelings. Tell your partner you love them. Share what's going on inside you. It can increase the desire for sex now. There is a big but here a little bit of a. However, However, in the according to the research relationship satisfaction wasn't a reliable predictor of couples feelings of sexual desire. In other words, you could have high relationship satisfaction, low sexual desire. And in fact, and I know this people with higher levels of attachment anxiety. Actually reported stronger feelings of sexual desire. I don't they're people out there like, remember, the caller left the voicemail and she was saying that a couple of her sisters were just obsessive about their partners. They're having anxiety, sex right there like I'll show them. They love me. I'll just keep them satisfied. It's like fear based sex, right? So the big take away their strong sexual desire doesn't mean a secure bond. Maybe you should work on your attachment anxiety so that you can create feelings of security. This research was done on more than 200 couples. And the big big takeaway of it all was that Relationship. Satisfaction proceeds, sexual satisfaction. So if you work on the relationship stuff, you'll have more and better quality sex. Okay, when we come back, ladies, you don't have to listen anymore. You know all this stuff the next two segments. I want to talk to men. There's so much data out there. This is dating Sunday where you're on dating APS more than any other day of the year And I will tell you what the data says. About what Women swipe right on. You are listening to the doctor, Wendy Walsh Show on K. If I am 6 40 were alive everywhere on the I heart radio app glued. It's defined Ian's Got The news for us L.
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Those who use more emojis have more sex, study says
"The break now what I'm a Mochis exactly is it that will get you more sex I don't think we know the specific ones but there's that study that we did today here I'm gonna pull it up here in a second I gotta go there's not specific chemo Gino so this use Maury Mochis get more sex yes of the Kinsey institute says people use more Mochis have more sex and apparently the emotions help them engage but the researchers don't know which ones are most effective all right we'll have to do some follow up research on that one this is Orlando's
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Kinsey Institute discussed on Armstrong and Getty
"A new study out reporting to people who use more emoji is an online communications have more sex yes researchers at the renowned Kinsey institute surveyed five thousand people and found that people who use boring monkeys when out on more first dates and had a more active