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"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

Checking In with Michelle Williams

07:05 min | 1 year ago

"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

"Choose to respond to as a boundary. Now you just don't be abrasive and rude about it. Sat in a boundary can look like when say somebody calls you and you love them and you don't mind talking to them but sometimes they can just be really negative. Would i choose to do. Sometimes is i i choose to say. Hey what you up to. And i'll say something like Had about ten minutes. And then i got a jump off you know and they kinda lets the person no it will. They don't have long talk or when they start talking negative. Then it's like. I tried to change the subject or something like that. Or if you're really bold in somebody's always negative when they call you can always say you know the past three times moosewood spoken. I'm you you've been a little negative there anything. You want process. That's only it had the emotional capacity to do that guy. So that's just kind of some things that i've been doing over the past year of my life so this birthday episode. I am the special guest. Now that you know ten minutes in i am the special guest all right. I just wanted to check in with you guys just to let you know how i'm doing. How often failing. And i'm doing good definitely because i had to support a you guys may twenty fifth. I released my first book checking in and y'all responded so well to it. I've got a journal coming out. That accompanies map but checking in. It's called the daily check in so just like i check in with you guys on a weekly basis you'll get the chance to check in daily with my journal. Caught the daily check in. Listen july of two thousand eighteen. I checked into a treatment facility for depression. Also july's birthday. So i also tried to make sure that this month is full of joy and a month of me creating new memories and i just remember ya. It was dark from me. That just felt so hopeless. You know as i write in the book. I went as far as writing my own funeral requests. That's when you're in a really dark hopeless place. But i definitely do not have those thoughts anymore because i choose life and i think what happens is you have to not come into agreement with the lies that are whispered into your ear of. You're not valuable. Nobody loves you. Nobody sees you. You're worthless and most of the time you have those thoughts because of words that somebody that she really loved spoke over you. Sometimes if a stranger says something it might you know staying a little bit but you might may owing no me kind of dusted off your shoulders but when a loved one says it to you when i mean a loved one i'm not talking about just a mother father could be. Your boyfriend has sponsored partner. A loved one can be somebody that you really looked up to an admiring. And they've been in your inner circle in they say or do something to you and you begin to think is person does not love me so am i not lovable. Am i not valuable enough. That they would say such cruel things to me or they would do that to me. So i just refuse to give in to sites anymore in so i just wanna discuss the fullness of being able to enjoy a perfect day birthdays. Hit differently for me. Now especially when i reached a point in my life where. I didn't think that i would see another birthday coming. And i know my podcast. You know because. I have other guests. Sometimes i'm not able to really talk about myself which is not what you do on an interview. It ain't about shoo michelle like you can insert you know inexperienced here and there but the podcast is not about me necessarily my guest. They're checking in with me letting me know out there doing what they've got going on in so i just wanted to definitely dedicate this episode to really checking in with others. That's one of the three pillars mapra Checking in k. One of the pillars is checking in with others. Checking in with yourself checking in with guy today like i said we're checked. I'm checking in with you. You are others so Checking in with others simply just looks like picking up the phone calling. Some were checking in seeing how they're doing letting them know that you are right. It can mean checking. Somebody like your accountability partner. You know checking with somebody that says girl. I'm tempted. i said i wasn't like me. I shouldn't have dairy right. But man. I love off gratin potatoes. Y'all those thinly. Lee sliced potatoes baked in cheek. Saw i need someone to hold me. Accountable says you can't eat that all the time. But i definitely had some for my birthday weekend. And i love cheese pizza. Yup pray for me. That i i. I don't know if i can do. What am i going do. What am i going to do. So i'm just really grateful to check in. And i'm really grateful to also reflect on some Favorite podcast episodes. You guys have to let me know what some of your favorite moments were is. Well i know emmanuel actual listen. He said this cast on fire. Didn't he that to carolina. Leave dr amira. Oh goulet doctor. Is nicole. Lynn abbey mckinney. Kierra sheard. there's been so many people that have been so awesome. Siamese you to let me know what your favorite episode has been and you know have had some amazing pivotal moments this past year. I wrote a book. I started a podcast after a period of time where i felt like me and people are gonna wanna work with me. People going to trust me. Will people see me as somebody you know. That's an asset. You know that. I can still bring things to the table. Even though i went through a dark place. And i was wondering will. I have a lotta shame. I was so worried about that moment. When i was in that treatment facility after it was after especially when i got out of the hospital and i saw all the headline aids in i was like oh my god. What am i going.

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"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

Checking In with Michelle Williams

04:34 min | 1 year ago

"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

"Obviously. I didn't read the word future in the bible and read the word about the past so it can affect whatever you believe in how you believe what we say really matters michelle. And what if i did speak something bad my pass. Would've i spoke ban of other people. Listen this me so good friend of mine. Because i was feeling bad about something he said. No you're good. He say you can reshape what you reap by. What you so so care. Thank you for all that. You are sowing every pivot that you made in house some of those papers. You had to make publicly pressure. Y'all are like the obamas of the church of god in cries. Oh my god you've.

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"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

Checking In with Michelle Williams

04:21 min | 1 year ago

"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

"Were on it. The surprise is so can. I just cannot answer this question. I have a little a little bit more to save insured. Please take your time when i stay home with. My parents moved out like twenty five twenty six. My father could not stand shoes at the door. Like our tease. My dentist say we think you have. Ocd like 'cause he's such a clean guy line me and my mom are we're like We're not nasty. Were junk hidden that. My dad is a total opposite him ajay. They're just sell now. I used to be like dad. You're over the top like relax but now in the house with my husband. I m my dad in jordan is my mama so i'm like having to be careful to not be this mad with my husband because i'm like you.

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"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

Checking In with Michelle Williams

02:59 min | 1 year ago

"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

"Because if he loves the he loves you then it's gonna be a different level of conviction when it comes time or integrity standard amd boundaries. Not just with you but with other people so bells. Things liberated me for sure issue also said you want secure man. She said especially in this culture that you if you got a lot of females. That are the breadwinners yala rocket yana. Yana waiting on her body. So you're gonna need a secure man. A man is jealous of your moves. I think that he's less than because you're doing this. You're doing that So bills is some notes. That i got in. It helps me with one more question before we get into the moment that broke the internet. What would you say was the lowest moment that you had in your singleness. Ou the lowest moment that i had in my singleness. That's a good question. it's all right. take your time. I about check. Because because i also want to know you seem like a different woman now. A light bulb somewhere came on even if it was just simple surrender. If it's it's up to you how however you want to answer that and maybe you did have a low moment. maybe it was just. You're tired of the run around the cycles. At think you just hit the nail on the head that was knee At talked about that in like my journaling experiences in it was almost like the lower was like you know how you have. Where's like what's wrong with you. We get annoyed with each other. 'cause i know you deserve better and scratch. That he had me to come across was The about a dog returning vomit. I was like the. I just got to hand it. Yes that was your moment. That's right that's right. It's in the book. i did read it absolutely. You definitely said the scripture listen. Dogs returned to their vomit. Full and then fools go into their folly like and we don't wanna be a fool because we know better at state farm. Everything we do is focused on building strong neighborhoods together. We know that a better world tomorrow starts with a strong neighborhood today. We have functioned on the belief that being a good neighbor means being good stewards of the neighborhoods we serve. It is not enough to simply do business with people you must also do good alongside them for. It's the right thing to do. You know i can think of a neighbor that lives across the street from my mother and they seem to always be there from a mother whether it was to help out with my father or to shovel snow.

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"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

Checking In with Michelle Williams

04:55 min | 1 year ago

"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

"When you say you discovered why you hadn't been able to learn from your past. What was the why i like. I wasn't learning from past. Because first. I didn't want it to be true out. I wanted to workout. I wanted to work. Meshiah in am being. I've got into another space. Where i was tired of everybody else. Giving me the truth in matt was that is not for me. I wanted to be like you know when we entered into our teams in our twenties. It's like i wanna live my life without you telling me what it means to do. So i was also in that space and i was like i want to figure this out on my own it at my expense. You know me trying to make it work. So i can prove everybody. A c algebra was going to turn around. it was gonna be. That was also another space. That i was answer. I think that was my why. If i'm answering your question really. Why wasn't moving forward. I was stuck there. And then i think to out i was in love with the idea or the potential of it if m More so than. I was actually falling in love with the reality why you have been so transparent about everything regarding your body regarding relationships women of faith church girls whatever you wanna call it go through normal things that everybody goes through and i think sometimes. That's what makes you wanna rebel even more. Because you're like. I want to have this experience too but then sometimes god wants to protect us from certain things and i remember you talking about previous relationships in. How not only did someone tell you that someone in your previous relationships wasn't for you but that you weren't for them to. Yeah yeah i would have lost it right. We always wanted to be the other person. They are not good for me. they was toxic. No you're probably talk sic to back and just like their someone for you there. Someone for them to do.

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"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

Checking In with Michelle Williams

03:46 min | 1 year ago

"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

"Y'all this episode with here is going to be fun. But i know she is going to keep it real about her journey and we have so many similarities as relates to are waiting season and being single and how. I've been guilty of dating people that i knew. Were not right for me. You're staying years in relationship. Y'all for the past twenty years. I have been in and out of relationships for years here three years year. Two years here another three years here wasting so much. You two full-time all because i did not want to be alone. All because i was searching for something in a man that really i needed to dig deep and find it in myself in really get rooted in god actually because there are only certain things that even only god can fulfill so listen today we have gospel royalty joining the podcast today. She is a grammy and stellar award. Winning singer evangelical. We don't throw that in there. Actress fashion designer wife and now author best in her resume. She's the author of big bold and beautiful owning. The woman got made you to be and not to mention. She's the daughter of the iconic gospel singer. Karen clark sheard end the presiding bishop of the church of god in christ bishop jj sheared. I'm excited to welcome. Miskitos sheared kelly. To the checking in. Podcast listen now. Did you think you have a hyphenation. Come on. I don't come one day but i just i guess now i'm just really like sitting it and i had these like is this real in his real. Yes and no 'cause at the like this functional situation that i have been in kind of like you know what all right. I'm probably gonna be the rich anti this single her life I'm definitely like shocked that this is. This is my life. Your song keeps happening to me. You post it one day that this song needs to be part of the affirmations that you say every single day that keeps happening to me no matter if it doesn't look like it's kind of like what it looks like bad things are happening to me. No no no no no no got us blessed in your seed. He's blessing your money. He's blessing your body. He's blessing your family. And so those are the things that we have to continue speaking every single day. So i'm absolutely lit to have you with us today. And so we're going to talk about All things your album. Your book marriage and just relationships. Oh let's dive into the book. Is that okay me all right. Okay as i said your first book big bold and beautiful owning the woman got may be is available everywhere. One of the things that you wrote in the chapter chapter ten. Pick up the pieces and grabbed the glue. I think i'm picking parts there. I resonate with and maybe i'm guilty of you said when i start looking honestly at myself i learned. I had become so broken in condition by poor behaviors that i only knew how to evaluate others and not myself and as a result i discovered why i hadn't been able to learn from my past or the good examples around me first of all. I'm excited for you to be at the age that you are to have discovered that and not like in your forties and fifties no shake because there are certain things. I'm discovering still our forties but for you to have that realization now is beautiful..

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"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

Checking In with Michelle Williams

01:44 min | 1 year ago

"kierra sheard" Discussed on Checking In with Michelle Williams

"At state farm everything we do is focused on building strong neighborhoods together. We know that a better world tomorrow starts with a strong neighborhood today. We have functioned on the belief that being a good neighbor means being good stewards of the neighborhoods we serve. It is not enough to simply do business with people you must also good alongside them for..