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"kate spencer" Discussed on Family Secrets

Family Secrets

03:54 min | 7 months ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on Family Secrets

"Family. It's Danny back with a bonus episode. I hope you're enjoying the special content we're creating as we continue to be hard at work getting ready for season four. It's been so great to be back in the studio, well my basement. Talking to my amazing season for guests. When it comes to family secrets, there is simply no shortage of remarkable stories and courageous inspiring people who share them. Are Bonus episodes, today is a conversation I. recently had with the host of the popular forever thirty-five Podcast, Kate Spencer and Dori Chef rear for thirty five is a show focuses on all kinds of self care, and Kate and Dory are honest, funny and very real I thought we'd be talking about self care in the context of family secrets. But Given the backdrop of the extraordinary times we're.

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"kate spencer" Discussed on Good Kids: How Not to Raise an A**hole

Good Kids: How Not to Raise an A**hole

02:49 min | 11 months ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on Good Kids: How Not to Raise an A**hole

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"kate spencer" Discussed on Good Kids: How Not to Raise an A**hole

Good Kids: How Not to Raise an A**hole

03:25 min | 11 months ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on Good Kids: How Not to Raise an A**hole

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"kate spencer" Discussed on Why Won't You Date Me?

Why Won't You Date Me?

01:44 min | 1 year ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on Why Won't You Date Me?

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"kate spencer" Discussed on Why Won't You Date Me?

Why Won't You Date Me?

12:17 min | 1 year ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on Why Won't You Date Me?

"Walk in Slow Motion Tim Screaming Paul and Hugo. Why are you doing in this? Football placed him. Like I don't like it and it was just like he understood the comedy in the bit. Yeah and then he would be saying. I don't like it with a smile on his face did like it. He loved it so we just started to understand each other later Evan. Maybe he didn't like me 'cause I remind him of my my mother so I think like after she died. I think we just truly yeah and that like yeah and like I remember one time I was like was I adopted because I don't really look like anybody in my family but the older I get the more I look like my mom and he went adopted. No look at your thighs. You have your mother's his thighs housing. Say to a person but I have. I am my mother from my neck to my knees not your face. Well my face slowly starting to look more later like a since like I'll go to Chicago my aunt's like you look just like this is crazy next to your knees Who is your needier foot so need to foot? I M my aunt Sharon. Oh my gosh. She's knock-kneed knock knees are you yes it will really really. It's a very strange thing that happens to your body. I look very strange and photos where you can see it yet. It's very weird. Yeah and I tried to like move my legs around you. Don't notice it as much but it. It's very strange. and whenever someone's like Nicole from behind them like potted he knows me. Oh because is your legs are insane. I haven't ever noticed that about your. They're very I'm very very knock-kneed. Oh and if you don't know what knock-kneed is it means your knees touch no matter matter. How much weight you lose? Your knees will always touch. And then you're the cavs Kinda go out and Avi likes look like X.'s. Essentially from outside aside it's a very strange affliction to have your second child has very severely. Oh does she. Oh Yeah it's very like I see it so deeply. It's just how I think my dad like. It's just weird genetics. You Aunt Sharon My mother wasn't knock-kneed. She had a big old but she was five foot two but if she sat down next to you she was taller than you should just rose up on her but was just so big big all but yeah. I wish I like when I do get into a relationship. It bums me out that I won't be really calm like mom guests sweat and loves me because she would be like a called. You have to speak like that but I'm so happy for you. That is I mean that is a really fucking real part of grief and I feel like it shows itself new parts of your life as you get older and more things happening. I'll call my mom until it. Yeah like teller. I'm getting the digging up my life and you can't really annoying. It's very annoying. It's more annoying than like sad. Because you're like yes. I feel annoyed about it all. He's like angry about it all the time I mean. Do you like if this gets to woo. Let me know but are you. Do you ever speak out loud to your mom. Do you have any spiritual connection Shannon that way some times. Sometimes if something really great happens and I'm like just so excited about it when I'm alone at night right. I will talk to her her and my dad. I'll be like I feel like you WanNa know to you to talk to them the way I would if they were still here. Because 'cause my dad I told on. NPR thing still funny to me of audience. Didn't really like it. But my dad when we started like Kinda understanding each other had starting taking Improv and I was like. Can you come to the city and see my graduation show because he hate it New York would never come. He dropped me off at college. Was He. Put everything in my room him and kiss me on the cheek and said bye bye and I thought he was coming back upstairs and he had left over he hated New York. So I said Daddy. Please come to who my graduation show and he said okay fine and then he died midway through taking my first set of classes at the joke I said was my dad. AD would rather die than watch his daughter do object work and then NPR GRAD NPR for them. That was just a little. It made me laugh really hard still does that makes me laugh. I love fucking gallows humor so much like my my mom and I like she knew she was going to die before ever got married right so we talked about my wedding and she told me to sprinkle her ashes have the flower girls. SPRINKLE her ashes down. Which I think is so funny and I tell people who I think? That's a really good sense of humor and was married dark and funny and like when I tell them that. I think it's fucking hilarious. Oh F way I didn't do. It should buried her ashes. And like a Weird Cannon Hampshire. My mom is buried in the backyard of my house. The New Jersey. Same that I'm like some child playing on MEDANMAS. Yeah we that is. I mean I don't want to say that it's crazy but that feels it's crazy. It's insane put it somewhere else. Where was a cemetery plot? Not An option. Well she was she didn't have a will and my dad wanted to cremate her. Because I think he thought it was like ghoulish to like visit a grave a Sui cremated her and then when she came also. No one tells you that your I loved one comes in a cardboard box and then in like a plastic thing that you cannot open and you will get them everywhere. You're she's GonNa have a dead person just just bits of them in your fingernails and on your clothes and then my grandparents were there and we're all like where do we put her. I don't know Oh. My Dad was like in the backyard. We just sprinkled her over. The laws sprinkled her over these bushes that she couldn't get to grow. And then you don't say blossom. Did they really bring. Yeah Oh my God see I love then never blossomed against beautiful and then my dad we bring him. I'm in Sandy Hook Long Beach which is illegal. But it's like a bike path. The he took and I was when he did it in a soon as I dumped his ashes ashes a gust of wind came in. My mouth was open and I don't think I've seen my grandmother laugh harder and truly full blown nightmare But yeah creations. Such a big weird. I have my cat my dead cat my house like I really want to be cremated cremated and then put in an urn and I wanted to live with my family. I have A will where the woman who notarized my My trust or whatever she was like you cannot force people to do things for money and I said can I force people to do things for no money issues. I mean you can in put it in your will and have it notarized but like Oh my God you can't force people to do anything. I was like cool great. I'll type it up so I have a very log. Doug list of things that people are expected to do after I die today. No yes I told them all but I haven't told them specifically what they have to do. That sounds like a fun. Adventure mystery mystery and then my sister. She's got to do stuff and she's never wanted to do one thing in her life she's always like you're not that I'm too much but no I'm too much for her. Sometimes they feel like I've ruined her life. She was not what she's a very quiet person and she was born a year and a half before me. Life was Grete. My mom has told you can have more kids. Guests started raw dog and then I was yellow baby shit and then she never really got to speak again Dan. Once I started speaking I speak for her in even now my grandmother will be like. Are you guys hungry. And she'll look at me and I'll be like tower and then 'cause years it was like like twenty years thirty years because I didn't realize I was doing this till a couple years ago thirty years of like this girl never being able to answer a question and you just talking for uh-huh and did she finally like address it with you. Yeah I guess there was a turning point so I need one of my legs longer than the other one so I bump into people if I don't don't pay attention and we were in the mall once and I bumped into her and I said Catherine Guide stop running into me and she went in this is you. Oh you are your enemy laugh you listen for how many thank goodness. She's a good egg. I tried to get her to do my live show in Chicago and she fundamentally how to break down so it was like nobody wants to hear me. Why would I no no I have? I have things to do good by. Does she have a partner. No she is Currently single and ready to make has has to. She's on the APPs she's looking she's She's working with her boundary issues. Yeah and I think it gets going well. But sometimes she'll be like so. I have to go on a date with this guy and I guess I have to go. You don't have to go like like tinder is gonNA and get mad. If you're rating will go yeah. I think it's We've hard time finding people that were willing to invest time in because a lot of people people are bad. I think most people are not worth the time. Yeah especially as we get older. It's like a very limited time I because it was somebody who's quality yes. I have faith that there is a person floating around whose going to just walk in one day gave thank you know not ought to be again a woo person but I just feel like well I like my step mom my step mom and my dad are married now. Obviously if I'm calling her and my step mom But she would never married any. She'd had a series of long-term relationships. Speak about her because she's a private citizen. But like I just think sometimes haimes your person comes later in life. Sometimes they come in you know and like my dad and my mom got married when they were twenty and twenty one and we're together until my mom died and then he he tried to date which was nuts and then you know he found my step mom like that. Was it again for have I. I don't know I just think yes sometimes some to somebody's GonNa Float in the what happens for people yeah. My Dad started dating after my mother died and he didn't tell us. This woman left this very erotic on the answer machine and I found it that I made Katherine listen to it. And she was so upset the whole time and then I was like I'm going to ask him about it and she was like. Oh so then I was like. Are you dating somebody. And he went That's my business. Your Business is our business because you are. You are still in teams right. This was no I. I was in college that so I think I was eighteen. Nineteen maybe twenty. What was an erotic voicemail? Trevor I think about you in the shower and I really wish I had recorded it because it was so funny and then we never got to meet her but she did come to the funeral. I'm pretty sure tight black dress and was like trevor meant so so much to me and then she walked away me and my sister like we've never met this woman before. Who Meant so much to my dad? I was like very hot. She was very hot woman. Wow those straight edge. It is weird is weird. I just even like envisioning our parents sexual Sexual but then it's just like well. They fucked me so I don me but the fact that like someone was thinking about your dad and the shower surreal so funny. Oh my sister was so upset. I've never seen a person angrier and I loved it. It made me laugh up so hard and he was so angry that we had heard it. Oh boy gate. We've come to the end boy boy. This was a treat. This is a.

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"kate spencer" Discussed on Why Won't You Date Me?

Why Won't You Date Me?

11:02 min | 1 year ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on Why Won't You Date Me?

"The worst so okay? You never did APPS or anything. No because I've been with my husband since two thousand three three. Yep so like the excitement. I feel when my friend like a friend WHO's single hands over their phone and let me go through their APP. It is the thrill of my fucking life. That's so funny because it's so exhausting so sad. Every time I open the APP I'm short like if experiencing it from a dating point of view I can't can't like for me. It's fun just being like. ooh Swipe right that they're going to find out like ooh but for an for an actual way of having to put yourself out there and meet the people I imagine. It's exhausting hell. Yeah and I I'm leaning away from doing it. Okay I just. I don't really have the the time to do it per se and I've just I recently have had two of the dumbest conversations that somebody so this guy messaged me and then I replied a couple months later. I don't know I just had an open tender and a while and and then I responded we started talking I was like Oh what a treat this is going well and he was like a thousand miles away or something like that and I said Oh when are you back in. La He says is away tour with this band. I man I don't really come to La that often in I said well where do you live. He was like Oregon. I said Oh. I'm in Portland a lot. And he was like okay. Okay when are you in Portland next. I tell man I'm on tour and I was like okay cool. We're never going to meet. Oh why are we talking. What was the what was the point you do ask no and I don't know how I guess I don't care what his yeah? Yeah it was just fully pointless conversations to get to know our geographical regions. Don't care pinpoint where we are. They're so then. Have you had success meeting people in real time. No not really because when I'm turing It's a I'm tired. Yeah and then select the last. It was just The I did Philly New York Boston so I was on a plane every day. So it's like I'm not GONNA go out to a bar and then be hung over and then have to get on a plane and even have to work out of a hangover to show and then when I do a weekend in town sometimes if you go to a bar that's like close to your hotel or the club. Bob You just run into people who saw the show and then you. You don't know what people's intentions are Or they're just like a little weird than I do get propositioned a lot like at my. I did a live episode of. Why won't you date me in Boston? And some of the questions at the Q.. And A. At the end of the PODCASTS. Like one join my three seven now and it's a very weird thing where I'm like. Oh you want me you to publicly reject you. Oh God I don't. I've never heard of someone asking a person to do a threesome. THEM SAYING I. I've been waiting for that question. I was going through my Saturday being like. Who's GonNa invite me to the threesome? Tonight Oh you thank you. Let's do it. It's a very transactional channel thing. That's insane. It will be saying if I went. Yes please that's not real human did let's say and I gotta ask you think two or three three times. I also do you feel like there's like. Is it frustrating. Because you're famous and you're are these people who are asking you are your fans there because they like you. Is it a little bit like you. Just looking like I'm a novelty hook-up service and it would be nothing. I like think highly of myself but it would be a story for them. Yes yes for me. It's like Just really I'd like to connect with somebody. I want to be held and old someone. Yeah I think is that it before but what I'm truly looking for is so when I can sit on a couch with not say a word while watching TV. And then be like douse funding. Yes that was funny then we go back to being quiet and then maybe my phone beeps because he sent me a mean. Thank God that was funny and then we go back to be quiet and then when I'm on the road I get to call him and tell them about my day tells me but his day and we just are fundamentally interested in each other. Yeah and that's what I'm truly looking for. I was like I can have more bad sex with random strangers bond. I don't think I'm interested in that. So in ear. Like quest for partner. Will you be celebrate. I don't think I'll be celebrate. I think gum is something happens. Organically then I'm fully into that but I don't think I'm going to be on the prowl as much anymore and I think I'm okay with that because I haven't been on the prowl for. I spent a couple of months on the road being like. ooh I'M GONNA I'M GONNA try for tonight and it just didn't go well. Any of the way or out of three attempts one was good. Ah Terrible on it at three is pretty good pretty exhausted flood energy. The one that actually worked we talked for so long. Did it know who's GonNa actually happen as I don't know how to just be like. Can we talk like why does Harvard. Those like this is. I don't have the time. Don't have the stamina to do this. The Yeah I think I'm okay being celibate for a little bit I just bought a new vibrator. Yes what did you get I think becoming. He's called Linda's dog. Wait what and I read some of the reviews last night on when I did the lifespan cans. But it's a so a friend of mine told me about this virus called a womanizer. I have one so it's a womanizer with a g spot thing connected to it. So you can make the g-spot it vibrate and the sucker suck and then sometimes you hit too. We Buttons Holy Shit. Linda's dog and dog dog. The reviews on it are like I died. I was resurrected. I don't go to therapy anymore. I'm the happiest person in America. I don't need a man ever again. I walk side to side for a week So the first time and this was not the first time I saw reviews for this vibrator her but when I tried to buy it was sold out. Find it anywhere but now it's back in stock on Amazon Dot Com. And it's honestly just a real treat and I was like well. Well I could just not have a partner for now and uses vibrator until some nice person walks into my life and I fully know that. Someone's not gonNA just walk in. I have to do a little bit of workout but then also maybe someone will just walk into my. I think that's possible and I will say I love near description of what your ideal relationship ship is and I feel like that is what my husband. I still have. Which is why we're still married? You know what I mean like because it is really hard being with somebody for a long time through a lot of shit like at the end of the day we can hang out and make each other laugh and big Wyatt and not have it be stressful. And it's so that is a really lovely feeling if that is what you. Oh you are looking for in your life to have a party that absolutely I think. Nothing more nightmarish. Being with someone being like I have to figure out something to say Because I being silent with makes me feel like they're gonNA lean over and pick my nose. I duNno I duNno. Something Weird's going to happen. So you're just trying to have the conversation and keep going and that seems awful. Yeah once lived with a person where I was like. I guess I was your day. Yeah and then everything they said back to me would be just as exhausted. Yeah and they didn't want to be speaking to me either. It was just awful. I really really. Oh this person it's like you don't really care you don't really care you have to care like why are we all doing this. This is awful when my mom died my dad started Erta dating again and I was trying to get him to date on APPS. I don't think tinder was around. But like you know like cupid or whatever kind of harmony yes exactly. He refused he and he met at my step mom at dance class. Oh Yeah we could dance. Classes he's taking he was he was. I wish maybe because because let me tell you. He is a almost seventy year old man from Boston so no he was secretly taking dance classes so that he would be prepared for my wedding. A father died. Boy that is so sweet. He's the Basque. Yeah it was real weepy when he told me what a real treat my dad. God God bless recipes would never be lucky. I showed up to my wedding. Walked me down the aisle the lease social person really. Yeah I think he was just like what's the point of talking to someone if I don't give a fuck about that person and he cared very deeply play about some people but truly like my mom is a very social person and she would have people over from the church and she loved a big Ole Easter dinner is she oh she just loved loved it. She loved entertaining and my dad would be upstairs until the last minute and then he'd be like I have to talk to these people. What what do you think all connected? The two of them I don't know my mother was very very magnetic person who you could hear. Hear her laugh truly from down the street and she had this big smile on her face all the time and she looked like a cartoon and she was a short short round woman. Who is like loud and Julie walked with her arms open to give it to me? I watch thing she he was the best and my dad was like a broody stoic person. Who if you hung around long enough to actually hear him talk? DOC was very funny. I didn't know he was a funny person until maybe three months before he died. I'm glad you found. It was so wild. 'cause like I would popping hopping I was living in New York. He Was Jersey so I would just pop it on the weekends sometimes and sometimes I tell them sometimes I wouldn't and he we I I calmed down a little bit and we start listening to him tell stories and oh he's a genuinely funny person and I. I guess we're a little too similar. So that's why we didn't buy very well together. But then I started doing ridiculous things and he would enjoy them so like my favorite thing to do. Was I had a part of the end of the driveway so he could get his car out and I would.

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"kate spencer" Discussed on Why Won't You Date Me?

Why Won't You Date Me?

11:35 min | 1 year ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on Why Won't You Date Me?

"How old is he? He's he's three years younger than me. Okay was he affected when your mom died. Did yes totally. Yes we both were. We both quit our jobs and moved home home okay. Although I had like a weird thing I would go to New York and like hostess at a restaurant on the weekends. My improv show and then take the bus back to Boston. Where for my family lived? My brother quit his job completely and moved home he was he was younger so it was twenty three twenty four when she got sick and we both just like you. Oh you buy moms. Can't we had cancer and it was very clear diagnosis of like you're GONNA die fast. So 'cause it was pancreatic cancer which man Alex trebek's really really rocket out the pancreatic cancer i. I'm such a cynic about pancreatic cancer. But he has it. He's strong he's still hosting jeopardy's hell he's finding out there. Yeah so that gives me. I always like you know I look for. The people pancreatic cancer so yeah we both moved home and were there when our mom died and it was really intense and in weird. Great fucking nuts. Dial Buddy explains it to you. You know it's just the thing you have to experience it's fucking crazy. Yeah and it's always I feel like even if you know it's coming it's sudden because they're not there and you're like Oh yes it was very and it took me years to really like get used to the fact that my mom was alive anymore anymore and even still to this day. I'm like beep boop like Shirley I call my mom and then it's like known she's been dead for thirteen years. Yeah I think I'm thirty. He's three or thirty four. Then you just have a birthday yes I refuse to actually remind you say I was listening to an episode so this podcast recently on it. You're like I'm about to turn thirty three or thirty four. I don't know don't know so maybe I'm thirty nine but this year is the year that I've been alive live longer without my mom knowing my mom like that feels insane and then losing both my parents like my sister was affected in a way where she she. She is a very closed door person where you really have to knock hard at that door open. It and I'm a little bit like that although my doors there's like a little like there's a sliver and I'm like hello my I let you in but yet dating has been hard because I'm like well by day you get to snow you and you just go away. Then what was the point. Go Away like leave like break up with me or actually die. We'll break up to me is kind kind of huck. That's a death in a way where you still exist in the world which is infuriating. Yes and I I. It makes me like a- actually angry to think about the ways in which loss like this can then impact Your relationships for the rest of your life like it's it's fucking. It's it's unfair. You know what I mean like something like losing a parent. It doesn't it doesn't happen. Evacuate affects every part of your okay. So have you had a relationship where you haven't felt that way I've only had like one relationship where you're pretty vulnerable in. Told this person a lot of stuff and then we didn't end up working out and then I was like Well L. Text you. I'M GONNA keep texting you until we figure out why this didn't work. which was fully insane and my therapist like I understand why you're doing it? And then I asked him recently to be on the podcast and he was like no. I truly cannot think of a more terrifying than and I had texted him. I was like come to my podcast. It'd be really fun to have someone who never liked me on. Because I wanted him to say that he did like we insane thing I yeah and I said at my therapist. Mary was like well. You know what you were doing right nosy yes. I was very devious. CBS and trying to get an answer. That I wanted to hear and then he was like seems like a nightmare. Don't WanNa do it but like having to talk to you. If you don't think I like you did or something to that effect. I was like data. That didn't make me feel good either. I don't know what I was looking for and I was like delete his number. Just delete it. It's fine. What are you keeping this number for to scroll up and read texts from when you were okay? What is not helpful so then I deleted it and then also driving and it was like what have I done? Delayed it while driving. Yes which is not good. Good Okay I shall not be on my phone and then I was driving on the one. Oh one I was like but you'll never really had a little meltdown. Intel's tells like you're fine. This is fine. This is a nice step that you took toward Holy Shit. That's a big deal. Yeah and then I went through my phone. After I parked I went through my phone. Deleted all the numbers of the gentleman. I no longer speak to and probably will never speak to you again. Why why are you holding on to all of with this and I'm trying to clear my Malone House because twenty twenty? I'm GonNa meet somebody has got to be great. I keep saying I'm just saying for like like eight months now you I mean. I don't know I think that is a really wonderful perch. Thank you were were good. We'll know not in the moment bellator now. It feels good. Yeah because they were taking up space in your life. Then they didn't deserve anymore. Yes so that your love house can be clean. You basically sage your love house and now it's open and ready for somebody else to come in. Yes and he's going to be a real dream. I can't wait. He's going to be a treat. I can't wait Can I ask you have two kids. Yes did having kids. 'cause I don't get to interview very many people with children. Oh really okay yeah. I don't know why it's not on purpose but having kids does like change a relationship What is my question dude? Having kids make having a relationship harder. 'CAUSE now it's three people that you deal with. Yes it makes it hard on unlike many levels it also makes it it also changes it and really great ways and like you get to see earliest in my experience like I got to see my partner in this whole new way now. Now he's off with our kids in Santa Barbara for the night. Surprise them with like a train trip to Santa Barbara and he was like I got to go do nichols halls podcast. He's like will you feel sad if you can't come and I was like no get out. Get Out of here. I love you all. Go to the ocean. He you you know. It's really wonderful to get to see this person that you love take on this new role and but it also does yes. It completely changes everything. Changes your relationship to yourself to your body to your mental health. I mean so it's you. Then it's your relationship to your spouse then you've got these new humans that are in in your life that you have to guide through the world it's crazy and it's a tough it's exhausting and it's rewarding But like in terms of my relationship with my husband one thing we do. Is We try to go away alone. like obviously yes. It's like bone time time but but like it's just nice to like be together and not be also multitasking like a nine year old and a six-year-olds needs so my whenever my in-laws come to town or even my dad. We often like just go away for the night and that has been a very positive thing for our relationship relationship. I liked that my dear friend who she's got a kid and then her husband has a kid and they do. I think maybe two or three trips a year without them. How which yeah I think is like kind of short trips? Like oh maybe that's the key to having a successful family dynamic is just like getting the fuck away from your kids. Sometimes he's like you love them but like kids are out of work. Yeah and I think you have to establish boundaries with your kids whether they know that's what's happening or not like you have Toco like claim time for yourself as a couple and as a unit that doesn't involve them And it's so great to have as a family like I love doing stuff all the four of us. It's it's a blast but also it's nice just to be with anthony like not talking about who's going to like make dinner and he's going to do homework with somebody and all that Kinda Shit Nice to like. Just remember why we like fell in love fucking one hundred years ago is sweet. I love a they were little babies win. Was your relationship official. Do you remember. Do you remember. was there a conversation or was it just like Oh boy we now live together and this while all well we did move in together very quickly in my opinion but now I remember talking it out and and I think he was more ready to be in a relationship and I was still like what am I doing with my life But we moved together. Think after a year of dating owes Jose if fell quick I feel like a couple of months is rather quick but then also I'm of the school moving with somebody whenever you want because you can always move out. Yes always adjust your living situation. I think like give it a few months to make sure it's someone who you like you. You can be in a healthy relationship with and then yeah go for it. I mean our rent got significantly cheaper so much cheaper in city split in that rent on a one bedroom or maybe maybe studio studio studio and Chelsea but we got to move to Chelsea. ooh Oh yeah right next to where we were just always bringing back to that Improv. Godel of Improv will ran the theater too so it was very convenient for our dorky. Lives in fact. Sometimes I would call anthony improved. ID anytime like I. He's like Anthony Laugh like God. Debbie's happy that's makes me so happy because like I very much respected as opinion because I thought he was so funny money and I thought he curated the theater in a way that I was like. Oh man I mean that's happening so good daddy must be pleased with Eh Stern. Daddy vibe Dare I say Zadie. Do you know what is like an old hot Hot Dad it's a I would say a man who's in his mid to late forties. WHO's very very handsome me like? Oh Woo he's wanting a daddy atty. He's a Zadie. Okay Right yeah then you could be Zadie accounts. Yeah call them all text leader. He's going to be very confused. Never explain it that's my Zamboni. Like what are you talking about. has questions. Let's see so you had relationships in high school in college and you had your Spring A. What's.

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"kate spencer" Discussed on Why Won't You Date Me?

Why Won't You Date Me?

12:06 min | 1 year ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on Why Won't You Date Me?

"The visit a little island. You date me upon guys. Remi Nicole buyer tries to figure out how I'm still single even though you could good ripple in my hair out and call me a Bald Eagle still dating you. ooh That was. That was a dark. Yeah I think that leaves you. Here is the host of the forever thirty five podcasts. into got book called Dead Moms the Dead Moms Club. It's long Oh Geez. Thank your podcasts is so fun. You're Gaga's June episode episode. It was really great. It was so fun having you on thank you I still think about it and also I really like your leggings. Oh thanks there from one of my podcast past sponsors fabulous medics ooh latics. They sponsor this podcast but they should really cute. I don't do they come in plus sizes. They'd you oh I believe believe fabrics is pretty size inclusive good job. Yeah okay before we were recording so that your children you've to normal girl role. Yes and they had a question for me. They were like mum. You've got to ask Nicole because they are obsessed with you as we've established in the past and like the best thing about me is that I know you. Can you please ask Nicole if she knows if she was mentioned on the mass singer and that they thought the penguin was Nicole will not only did I know I asked for it to be on it to my wikipedia page and then someone added to my wikipedia and Eh. I don't think I've ever been brought more joy than that moment because that show is a fever dream and I really like it. Would you ever go on. I can't sing so it would be very bad and I think very embarrassing for me but the slow zooms on the audience chanting take it off. Elma gotten the judge is going who is it and then the WHO is it going to commercial break. It's it's it makes it's like it's an hour long sketch edge comedy vignettes while it's so wild and then the costumes are truly a treat like they're insane. It's very weird and my kids. Kids love it when they don't know who any of the celebrities and also like Robin Thicke made a Monica Lewinsky joke and then my child repeated it and you know who Monica is and and she was like no so. It's it's just weird that they even enjoy it like they don't know who Sherri shepherd but she has been a guest for almost every episode for the past years. Jenny McCarthy is like Sheri Shaw. I'm a football player. She thinks Sherri Shepherd. Apparently it's so strange and it was finally Sherri shepherd and she didn't guess. I think it was Jenny. McCarthy who said You yes yeah my kids also my kids. Call her Jenny. McCarthy Waldberg Berg our I I are full name really loved. They're like we can't have Walberg erasure here. She's married. Tawny they know whodunit. Yes they've gotten like very into eighties culture. It's adorable. How old are they? They're nine and six but like full. How the original full House House came into their lives this year and it like opened and then also the newer fuller house and into just like changed their understanding of pop culture? Do they like fuller how they love it. Oh see I really loved their original full House and the Fuller House just seems not complete. Well I mean I mean the original three dudes don't live in that they're just kind of like ten or A. Yeah and then I was like you don't have the Olsen twins. This is on the same. This isn't real for me. Also I really like the Cup your drink Hannah. It's very big. It's a thirty two ounce hydro flask that that I think is cool with visco girls which do you know what of Iskoe girl is. Nobody feelings. Keep seeing that written on the Internet. Yes it's a very hot topic for Internet writers TEEN GIRLS WHO Walk Around and Berkinstocks with a certain kind of bracelet and carry giant hydro flask and they also wear crocs. I don't don't know what it is. I don't get it forty but this is my has strange. It's my attempt to stay young You do look you re. Are you working out or is this just a look. No no I worked out today. What do you do for working out? Okay I do all sorts of things. Today I did L. E. K. fit which is like a trampoline class. Ooh that if you follow busy Phillips Instagram all the things she does every day. It's very intense. I really love. La Okay because any any type of workout. You'd like to do they have it. It's like you WanNa roll around in sweat with an elephant. Come to Santa Monica you so you could do just that. And you'll burn seven thousand calories. You'll leave smaller than a peanut. It's so wild. It's so funny like I once took a class where we just beat drumsticks on the floor heels made on you. Probably you like we're sweating in your arms probably hurt the next. It was genuinely challenged this class. The whole time I was doing it I was like. Why the Fuck Doc? Why do I think I should be here? It's very hard and you are literally just like jumping on a tramp. I'd also I've had children and so I. It's hard to jump on a trampoline without peeing myself shore. So there's like a lot of that going on of just like what Am I pee myself. Well it's okay you know just my body. What if you were like thinks underwear? I can absorb see something you know. I could wear like a diaper. They just be that interesting. Woman in class makes noises as she jumps with like a strange old curriculum. I have things underwear. Do you think they work. I think it's like more than just if they work. I think you have to to be comfortable with the free bleeding experience. Have you ever worn them. No I don't know if they come in my size I I don't know what their size range our size range are. Siberians range who knows who knows what the correct way of saying not it. I don't i. It's not an experience that I loved like me that I might. Maybe I should get used to this and just like feel feel my body for what it is. I don't really like a pad and it would be close to wearing a pad. We were just bleeding leading out yet. It's like your whole underwear experiences a big pad. Ou know for me. Maybe I'll look into it. It might be fun all know might be fun. Might be just like a day. Try it you staying at home. Yeah so then. I'm going to bleed over my couch is this is kind of you've you won't. I'M NOT GONNA get them Costano. You don't not the law not yet I So you you're married light. I am how long have you been married. Eleven Years Jim Nice long time it is a long time and it's nice and review obviously dated before you got married. How many years rebating before dated? Oh Gosh we started my husband and I started dating in two two thousand and three and we got married in two thousand eight five years so a what felt like a longtime at the time And I was twenty nine when we got married which also felt old and now feels like I was like a child bride very very young woman. It says that your brain isn't developed fully until you're like in your thirties that's why mental illnesses Pop up in your late. Twenties Twenties Thirties is your brains on Dunya Fascinating. We're GONNA BE BIPOLAR. Yes like we all are who is not great great. That's interesting. All my mental illness stuff popped up in my like late Teens Twenty S. Oh no I guess early. Twenties I kind of developed g early twenties midday. Like if you hit like thirty two and you having discovered anything more than likely you're the fucking or not fine Your brain works differently than people whose brains need medication. It's it's hard to use. vocabularies was very inclusive and because when you have add or not like different a wrong or weird. It's just your brain works differently and yeah I like the way that you've put that I have. OCD In chronic anxiety And my brain does work differently and maybe add. But I've just been too lazy to go meet with the doctor to get tested Psychiatrists like maybe. Here's a specialist. I'll just live with that. Yeah yeah so anthony. My husband and I have have been married. It's like it I recently I was like Oh. This is a long time where people who have been together a long time. Yeah and that is what it is yet. That's what a marriage is. That's what America. Yeah and it's it's hard. I could imagine being the same person for such a long time. And then actually you're not with the same person for a long time. You're with a person who's growing and evolving in your growing evolving and if you don't grown own evolve in the same way I can imagine how fucking difficult that is. You know movies when they're like you're not the man I married like. Wow she's dramatic but it's like no she's actually onto something because this person is different person she evolved and I think I feel like we've been really lucky in that we have both evolved this people but also like the thing thing that originally made me adore him is still there. And that's what I think keeps marriage going like we're still able to connect in the way that like when we were when I was twenty three and he was twenty seven and we were just like dumb and running around New York that still that extent sensation and that connection is still there. How did you you met at? UCSB we met and like a meat. CUTEST IMPROV comedy way. He saw me in a show hunt uh-huh and then I went to one of his shows and one of the person taking the tickets as like. My friend thinks you're cute. He's about to perform. And then I watched a group of all men performing to figure out which one it was like. There were definitely to were wearing shorts in the winter improv comedian. And then we became friendly after but I was very dumb very young and didn't understand like dating or when people like you and I was also kind of going through my I like first and only like like Ron. What's it called Rum's springer? Oh you know what I mean. Are you amish. Not yet that I had that look my life is still young but I you know I was like moved to New York with my college boyfriend and had like a year and a half or two years just like doc. I'm making out with a random stranger so I met him kind of at the tail end of that phase of my life and then we started dating when I was like twenty three twenty four. Did he ask you. How did you ask him out? He asked me out. Do you remember how yes we are at A. This is a very long story. Well we have. I know it's a podcast. We were at a back in the early odds of UCB There were these things called company parties that people through it. This was somebody's it was like John John Daly's birthday party slash accompany party where everybody had like a corporate title..

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Is Trader Joe's $3.99 Skin Cream the Answer to Your Prayers?

Forever35

03:57 min | 1 year ago

Is Trader Joe's $3.99 Skin Cream the Answer to Your Prayers?

"This is about a skin cream recommendation and it's one that I am probably GonNa. Go pick up today so here we go hi. My name is gray and I am in southern Indiana right outside of Global Kentucky. I just I have in my one on your old dead in the Marine in the background. That is what that is. I love your show. I don't wear any makeup at all and I just I love your show anyway and I had to call in because I have to ride or die product that I pretty much our never gonna be mentioned and on the show and Colin and recommend them my first product is portrayed as IOS and rich moisturizing moisturizing facial with broad spectrum. Sds He knows what's in the south. They doesn't feel great going on but for some reason I've used it for the past. I don't know five years and I've had literally flawless skin for five years. I have no idea yeah unto superstitious to quit using it so this is your plug for everybody to at least try trader. Joe's enrich facial moisturizer 399 bottle and then my second one is my night cream which is all attack Hawaiian worshiping. I just flat on my face tonight. Who has this smells good and that's it okay. I love you buys. I just your podcast just makes me laugh and I appreciate that you also address what's going on in the world and that you take it seriously but at the same time have a light and funny attitude and it's really important to have both and I really appreciate that so much he doing what you're doing and and also not later or maybe not ever but you know what I mean. We do know what you mean we do. I love it doesn't feel oh great going on. This is my favorite endorsement of a product ever. Who knows who knows. It doesn't feel good but I'm flawless. You convinced me gray. I like like this was all I needed to here. Yeah you've been using it for four years and it costs three ninety nine. Okay Yeah Kate Spencer's here for this sign me up yeah going to go to charter jobs today. Get some truffle almonds and Semaine slices and some of the screen just to have one. I finished my other cream experiments. Although I might go back to my old vendors daughter because I do love that so much my gosh but wasn't this a fun such a fun voicemail -dorsements yes. Have you tried any trader. Joe's skin care products products. I've played around with some of their stuff. I have not I used to use trader. Joe's shower. Gel and I really liked it. I have that right now. Oh it's like a huge jug and it's Kinda like body wash hair. Wash whatever you want wash. I did not use that okay. That's what I think. There was one that was like minty that I used used that I liked. We should traderjoes products sewed okay. Let's literally get on that okay. Let's get on the I will do some purchasing this we okay listeners will just touch on the whole line. I know sometimes they don't always have everything in every store yeah Yeltsin. Oh The rose spray is very cult fave. I'm so excited ooh this'll be passed and then we can what if we turn flawless already are so let's be honest. Our spirits are what really make us glow exactly right everybody but if three ninety nine cream can help great that all the panic recommendation to I'm curious about well. I really like Alpa Bhutanese product. Is that your body body moisturizer yeah. I really like their stuff so I'm intrigued by this recommendation as

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Doree and Kate Discuss Augustinus Bader Cream and Their Sephora Sale Purchases

Forever35

13:39 min | 1 year ago

Doree and Kate Discuss Augustinus Bader Cream and Their Sephora Sale Purchases

"Hello and welcome to forever thirty-five a podcast about the things we do to take care of ourselves. I i hear and doria freer. Oh what a gentle gentle introduction. I'm you kate spencer. Yes you are. We are not expert. Nope nope nope just two friends who i'd like to talk a lot about serum and we're gonna be talking about some serum adjacent things today. Oh we're going to get right into serum yup serums. I will say i didn't purchase any serum. That's why i said serums et jason jason suggestion so jason's sir jason so jason. How's it going. I think i'm i mean i'm ready to dive in to serum okay. We should tell everyone what we're going to dive in. Okay sorry yes we we made some purchases at yield sephora sale tale yep and also i'm pleased to make the first ever i bought expensive skin cream announcement here on forever thirty five ready for it. Do i bought expensive skin cream agostino bader the rich cream for those of us who are not familiar with this cream. I know you you touched on it in a prior episode but let's give everyone recap. Here's the backstory. I've i've seen write ups about this cream on your usual spots around the internet and it's a it's a new cream year and a half. Yes and i also think it i i also came to my attention because eva chen mentioned it a hong when we interviewed her and i was like okay. My ears perked up a bit then a few people in my life revealed that they have been using it and have felt it to be life changing <hes> and so again. I was like okay a lifetime. You know you know how it is your ears start getting warm and then you feel you start to feel like you're seeing it everywhere. Yes and then and then and you google it. You read like a million. You know website fashion website articles about it. I've done this with products before then you then you go and look to buy it and then you see see what it costs in your life miller experience with vendors daughter which i use in like <hes>. Maybe i'm just your fancy. Maybe i'm just i mean. Maybe i'm the posh spice of this band that we're in. What am i the scary spice i mean. That's possible now. Would you be ginger. Maybe pave which spice spice girls' spice girl was thanking ninety seven so look i said to you hey tori. What if i tried this cream cream for the sake of the pod because the way the cream works. It's created by a german professor. Love the story of the cream. You're of course psycho. A german professor created cream for people dealing with a burn wounds which again that's the origin stories stories intriguing so said hey what if i bought this for the podcast for the pod as research or the listeners yeah not for me no not because because i want to try an expensive product but the waiters kate is doing this for years sacrifice. I am making so look and i said go ahead with a caveat but i'm going to put a caveat on this. Which is you must take a photo of yourself every day that you're using the cream because you're supposed to use the cream and only the cream for twenty seven days. This is true and i cleaned out all my products last night. It was actually kind of nice. I just had face suave and this cream and like my sunscreen contact solution in my cabinet. Like what a relief this is exciting. So have you started. I started at last night. I haven't seen picture will okay. I took one. I took one pre putting it on and then i haven't done my like round today. Don't worry all right coach it but i will say i did post a picture myself in a facebook group. One of our mom face christine and a friend was like your skin looks amazing so i don't know i mean doing like different to you and glowing. I don't i don't wanna be a skeptic about them. I want to believe in the power of the how much is it kate odor. Oh dory. It's too much one bottle that the bottle that i bought which is supposed to last twenty seven days schorr costs one hundred and sixty five dollars. Wow that's a spicy meatball or what yeah it's not something look if we did not heavy skin-care podcast and some shared funds stashed away. Hey where we can try products. Just say we have a slush fund slush fund for products of my own accord but it is a fun conversation topic totally podcast what i was gonna say. Is i feel like your skin has looked great like for a long time. I'm feeling good so while i want to believe even the power of this cream. This is why to take a photo every day. You want the proof because i want the pr. You're an investigative journalist. Look as one of my favorite contestants on the australian reality show instant hotel like to say my gosh. This went so far already the devil's in the details yup. He coined that phrase. He may take a photo every today and look. I don't think magic is going to happen but my but have you ever tried a buzzed about product product where you read like fifty articles. It's like i know ev articles like this changed my life and celebrity swear by and then you try it and it doesn't do anything like yes but i've also had the experience where something does do something like when i tried bill ashiq ricerche p fifty your sweet sweet baby used in quite some time because of pregnancy z. and childbirth essner saying yeah even though it's probably fine. I'm being like super paranoid but that i do think is like a pretty amazing product but yes. I hear you because you don't see when these celebrities are like. I tried this agustinus a spotter cream and look homeys. My skin is like they also have like meals delivered to their house. They have a personal trainer. They like facials every weekday shows every week they blazers yes everywhere so it's just like okay yes. The cream is great but like you also have so much else going on that is making your skin. Look amazing. Yeah yeah probably getting fillers bo talk like which is fine but like don't just all say it's the cream. It's like it's like when celebrities are like i i just you know i just do yoga and that's how i look like this right. I mean come on anyway. I'll get myself wow you. He just stepped on there. I like it. You are spicy today. I'm spiciest so that was my big purchase but then there was a sephora sale very recently. Yes and we should tell people that i had been sort of off the problem. The new product trained for quite some time live very off of it. Yeah i was just like i like what i like. I don't have the time or the energy to start exploring new products and then the sephora sale just real me the and i was like you know what i do. Self-care slash skin-care podcast. I might as well buy some stuff and check it out for the sake of the listeners that's right. You didn't do it for yourself for this. Podcast lists yeah <hes> do you and then you got some stuff. I squeaked in at the last did but you know what happened. I squeaked in the last day like eleven p._m. And then i forgot to use the code for fifteen percent. Oh my god has it ever happened to you where you're like. I'm gonna make big purchase because of a code and then you forget to use it yeah. I had a meltdown so i emailed sephora through their customer service link and the next morning i got the nicest reply from the person who was like we can't add the from a customer sales rep who simply can't add the code to your purchase because purchase already in the system so they added the equivalent of what fifteen percent off obt my purchase fifty percents off of my purchase to the to my account. That's also have this money sitting in my account. That never expires that i can use that i thought that was a very positive customer. Service secure safaris again and not a sponsor of this podcast. Just we're just fans just fan. So what did you buy in. This rebellious purchase plunged plunged. Let me break it down for you so i started with not one but two bottles bottles can what are they jars. No not jars jugs containers pieces of supergroup unseen unseen sunscreen bottles yeah but it comes in like a squeezy to be a two. That's the word you're looking for. I was looking for a two jug. Thank you know not a jug. I really like the sunscreen it goes on so smoothly it is unseen. It blends in really nicely. I use it on my arms and i'm keeping a tube tube of it on my bathroom counters. I remember to put it on my arms and hands. You put it on your face. Well i still use the japanese sunscreen sunscreen. Oh interesting okay but you cannot get safaris so i bought two of those. I also decided that i was going to do a little experiment with me. Solaire water <hes> controversial so what i i did was i bought three different ones one by cowardly one by tart and one by premera which i learned is owned owned by amaury pacific intriguing <hes> it's like they're you know cheaper clean brand. Oh interesting pursing so you're having it's like america's test kitchen but dory's test kitchen for toy story test bathroom does for me. What made you decide to go deep on me slur water well i was out of. I may slayer water which i didn't you know homey. Slur waters are not created equal. I they have a very deep reference for the bioter-. I know which they don't sell before <hes> i had been sort of dabbling. I have a have a travel the size of the bio dermot that i do really like <hes>. I've also really liked simple. I've tried the most recent one. I tried was laroche. Jose didn't didn't love it. I love the scent. I've also tried number. Seven boots number seven me slayer flare water which was fine. I just thought you know what let's mix it up so i bought these three last time. They used the primera. I liked liked it. It's a camomile missile cleansing water and it sounds yeah it was it did feel really nice so i'll i'll report back all of those <hes> the other thing that i was out of was a a day cream and i'd like to use a lightweight gel moisturizer i had been using the tart water gel essence moisturizer and and when i went i was like i like this heart water gel 'sorry tasha gotcha tasha water essence which i liked i mean i liked it enough. I think i recommended a newsletter but i was like you know all things being equal. I do think i liked the bio sants squally and probiotic joe moisturizer just a little better and then you know what i went onto sephora. The tasha was not being sold anymore mysterious odd so i bought another thing of the bioscience and then i thought you know what let me try this other. One by origins called jin zing zing oil free energy boosting gel moisturizer which which also comes in a mini version which i like so i could just sort of try it out. You got the mini. I got the mini. I tried tried this morning. It smells kind of orangey. It's a little thicker than i was expecting but a nice consistency and ice texture sure very smooth so i like it so far i mean i've used at one day so we'll see and then i got another one of my bare minerals primetime eyelid primer which is my favorite. That's an old hat but what's so funny is. I realized i always stock up on it. During the sales i wonder as much makeup purpose i used to so i went into the drawer that i keep like all my extra stuff like my stockpiles and i already had to well my gosh in there so i now now have three so. I need to remind myself that next time the sale

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"kate spencer" Discussed on Raised by TV

Raised by TV

01:48 min | 2 years ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on Raised by TV

"Eared listeners might remember in the first episode raised by tv i mentioned in oprah episode that i saw and i have never gotten confirmation whether it exists or not lucky for us michael listener of the show tweeted at us and he was not only a witness he was there and he was on the episode as guest as well so he got the full behind the scenes got everything so we have stockton he's caught in right now hello this is michael hey michael this is john gabriel and listening in is lauren you tweeted at us that you're actually in the episode of oprah than i'm not sure if i hallucinated or not well i can tell you one you absolutely did not hallucinate it you you're one hundred percent it was a fever dream for all of us what were you doing on the show well first off an michael carney and the show is a guinness world records like spectacular which realistically just means freak show the lady who's eyeballs popped out was one of the ladies love her she wanted to fame there was a lady who could write cursive with both her hands and both feet at the same time dude who pulled airplanes with his teeth it was cool then they were like then they asking me they kept asking me backstage what did you do and i was like oh i graduated from college when i was ten what's holy shit yeah give leave your maybe the most interesting person i've ever spoken to in all i want this how is that to oprah.

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"kate spencer" Discussed on Raised by TV

Raised by TV

01:32 min | 2 years ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on Raised by TV

"Guys it's june which means it's pride month so that means air wolf has switched their name to queer wolf no not officially but my graffiti tag i just did outside might say otherwise it's the month to do this people let's support some of our lgbtq plus talent and our guests and our shows for example we got home affiliate with my good bud dave homes we got query with comedian cameron esposito and getting curious with maybe you've heard of this guy jonathan van ness formerly of gay of thrones now of queer eye my man is on the glow up or laugh melissa live standup on put your hands together which is cameron and rias longrunning standup show or get the perfect combination of political and pop culture hot takes on throwing shade with aaron and brian those two are hysterical guys let's let's throw a little extra support out there for lgbtq plus friends and faye and our our hosts our producers whoever it might be show your support download their episodes also here's some good news some special archived episodes of shows like comedy bang bang and how this get made and assorted other big ones that had lgbtq plus guests in the past we releasing those episodes for free so keep your eyes peeled on the free feeds celebrate pride month with air will listen to your favorite lgbt q plus shows right now subscribe to query home affiliate throwing shade put your hands together or getting curious on apple podcasts stitcher or wherever you listen.

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"kate spencer" Discussed on Raised by TV

Raised by TV

01:40 min | 2 years ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on Raised by TV

"With the beginning of the show she was trying to fit into a box and be an even talking to it wasn't really natural to her and like just be different and she was doing a lot of the like cheesy donahue stuff which i think still got her huge ratings because she's an empathetic funny charming genius maybe she could be and she is an amazing actress she could be a fulltime actor like she could be a great do you remember the episode where she where they had the the racist people in the audience yes talking about like why they don't like black people and stuff and then she confronted it yeah whole conversation it's like amazing i think she did a lot to address real significant cultural issues that probably donohue was doing but in a more honest way and also no women no african american women like we're she was i believe the i i won't say african american woman with her own syndicated talk show nationally syndicated talk show maybe the first woman i don't know i have to go read my go through my encyclopedia the other thing is it's interesting watching the progression i dunno gave us a view and aware but oprah obviously every most people of our generation look up to her in a certain way and there was some tension around the fact that she hadn't been very politically vocal about what's been going on in the last year and a half and because she made so many strides in like progression and stuff throughout the course of our show and like opening people's eyes and.

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"kate spencer" Discussed on High and Mighty

High and Mighty

01:39 min | 3 years ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on High and Mighty

"And not have to go through that's why we can do it too little seventy women doing it for themselves what what's your twitter handled it is at kate spencer i'm anne cates aren't twitter instagram and either follow you there and then be prepared for you not to post for six months and i am tweeting follow me if you wanna talk to somebody about your grief i love talking to people if any on earth and that's usually something we do on the episode if anyone wants to tweeted us about their dead parents story or something that goes along with like what we're talking about with like any advice you can give to friends i love it i love both of us imagine gabor's no ages she's at cates minutes or no ages any any of those either the book is called dead man's club at marie order it now on amazon who aren't or whatever gets kate the most of royalty high yeah i mean if you love an independent bookseller go that way but i think amazon is amazon's gonna either way f hopefully people are listening to this on their phone and just opening up amazon while we're talking idea it's so easy begin that fuck and high and mighty bob sweet girl bank one lunatic i will be in good company key thank you so much you're coming on and they have the what could have been a depressing conversation i think we kept it light i feel like we have these conversations all also i'm going to plug something that is so roundabout once a month in la you hostess show called shut up i hate oh yes for that one of my favorite shows to watch and we've definitely my favorite show to be i always m so nervous when i ask you 'cause they ask you to do it so much more that and it's just people sharing their opinions on my shift that's gone on that month and you an anthony our to my favorite so it's so vaughn do that yeah.

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"kate spencer" Discussed on High and Mighty

High and Mighty

01:44 min | 3 years ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on High and Mighty

"Iran that place when we were all literally like flailing idiots after she died i mean it just felt like i was untethered 'cause i'm i was of i'm like a woman child and i my mom told me how to do everything even now i'm like wanna call her 'cause they don't know what to do with my kids and it's like i don't know how to do anything by myself y'all look i don't know shit about like cars or ensure like yes that kind of and also here's decrease than you can live in new york city turns out and never really learn a lot because i am youth has done for you buy the city it's so much stuff is done for you buy the city's you can't afford to have a home you don't have a yard you don't have a the car yet you call someone if anything goes wrong in your apartment because you're paying fuck in through the nose to live there a true so you'd i didn't realize i moved to la and my fucking car doesn't start one day and i'm like i don't even know what i did i call the fucking you know you get like the ons whatever the roadside assistance they come overnight your batteries that man job on my yeah no i knew that if i and my dad was alive but guy blame a lot of me not knowing how to use tools and stuff on my dad dying i think it's true i mean you it there's a weird would you ever learn that software they alive i don't know that that what matters rally but mealy lie was out here and i was i datum i'm thinking about getting this cards of v six did you know like i don't want any that means but make my no dad would have known and that would have been away for you to have a relationship it would have been something to talk about yeah i am i i think my dad would've loved the idea that the convoy book movies are out now i think he would have like a guy like i think he would have been pumped to be like jyoti this fuck had spied abed movies crazy you know i would have liked thor rag narok i can't wait i dunno at any of that me okay.

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"kate spencer" Discussed on High and Mighty

High and Mighty

01:42 min | 3 years ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on High and Mighty

"Zack were you sad i was i was sad i was i was really sad but i was more like i don't know how to explain this feel like i was sad for like i knew what it meant more than mike my daytoday life wasn't going to change almost at all you know what i mean and that's like not something you want to even realizes hike oh say they weren't that much a part of my life yeah and then it's kind of a bomber and then it's like oh now my mom is sadder and harder to deal with oh and going to like sibling dynamics things change amongst my siblings 'cause i was the one i was living in brooklyn and you've tube rather have two younger brothers one was super young and he went he went through it took him the hardest who like let him maturation wise arm but my middle brother like kind of just like slipped into the dad role on that's fascinating and so because he lives he still lives on long island eastern lives near my mom and now he's so much like my dad more so than he's ever been in his life he was always a excuse me a little bit like my dad but in like the lask four or five i mean now it's been you know six seven years but mice he's and now he is a dad he has a kid and he has become my father and it in the good wayland a good way but in also the way where it's like this is not exactly you're more fun now you're kind of a little bit more like but he likes slid into it in a way where he took on the stress took on the jesus christ joann of at all i mean and it was like was really weird to go home after a while and see that mike see him and what's it turns out someone has to.

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"kate spencer" Discussed on High and Mighty

High and Mighty

01:58 min | 3 years ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on High and Mighty

"In more story blocks dot com slash mighty you royalty free content for commercial impersonal projects new images are added regularly download all the stock your heart desires member library 400000 photos vectors textures icons whatever you may need they will have its story blocks dot com slash mighty i did that make you feel sad that your dad hasn't senior creative career because yeah that's the bummer got i think he would like a lot of stuff yeah and you would end he was would really proud of me he would never you never have let me know that god forbid because i would have given me confidence to war connection here here but like after the factor b like you know like at my dad's funeral baghdad always said you were very funny and you're going to make and i was like you know the fucking guy coulda told me i it it's it's that weird feeling of like unfinished business you i know it's a comeback to life for like two days and as it's going to be mostly business i feel like if my dad was alive what would you talking about i was just hash out like three problems yeah i think about that like she my mom and i had a really good relationship so i don't i don't feel like there was anything left unsaid or that i didn't feel like i knew how she felt amount any of that sort of thing but it's like i'll have all this shit now i could show you that i did luhn died when i was not a loser but like i was flailing i had no idea is doing my life i could barely was in credit card debt now kind of okay and like you never if i were not even we're we're and we're talking so we're not even talking about the fact that you have your own family now that like yeah like a grandma for sure i think about that a lot yet tibbs dad just die summer too so we're in a situation where it.

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"kate spencer" Discussed on High and Mighty

High and Mighty

01:49 min | 3 years ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on High and Mighty

"Like a a new everything about every movie and i would go and i was like my i would go to work with my dad like once a month and get union rates leg helping alum guy would go work yeah i would go legit work and make two hundred bucks a night race and i'll go and he would just be like john to me johnny have you seen this movie and i buy gas and we would just i would like route and i was like my dad kind of was in their world to like the pop culture world so i remember one time i was like yeah i did this thing it's not a big deal but the door and he's like but it's one of those things where like it was good that you met other people as yes yes and now whenever i tell my mom about something i'm doing she's like and a flying yourself there no did they pay for the flight yeah do you you have to pay for cabs now do you have to pay for food yes they don't give you food budget joann this is a very yeah i am i need to get the perfect picture for that blog post the ultimate image for that instagram mean what your tweet to go viral may be it needs a stock picture while i'll tell you what story blocks is a great news service for all that you look it's subscriptionbased and unlimited downloads starbucks is the first and only stock media company offering unlimited free downloads of meme member library content who being in a marketplace where you could buy some extra stuff that isn't there but the annual fee is only one hundred fifty dollars you can join the member library of access to thousands upon thousands upon thousands of pictures of do yourself a favor and get yourself over to story box dot com slash mighty to try it for seven days that story box s t o r y b l o c k s dot com slash mighty to download andy from the four hundred thousand images and unlock discounts on a million.

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"kate spencer" Discussed on High and Mighty

High and Mighty

01:42 min | 3 years ago

"kate spencer" Discussed on High and Mighty

"This is a head gum podcast mighty what's up shoot heads welcome back to another episode a high and mighty it's me your boy akg about one boy gianluigi judge gabor's joining me as always in the eye and mighty studios is might nearly silent cohost arthur gabor's arthur shout out yeah that's you boy see joe manfreddy right there also joining me nine mighty studios for the first time a longtime friend longtime compatriot longtime listener first time caller slash cast kate spencer k thanks for joining me and i just say that watching you do the intro and as a whole new element it listened to you shout fuck by when i listen to podcast it's like a real thing me that area aggressive i turns out i was doing the rollins mike grabbed the henry rollins i yes yes that's a good guy the into around this one yet but i enjoyed watching it and not just listening to it every time i go to do it i say to myself who you should like do something a little different this time that could be the things that you do it slightly different every time then i think i am and then when i listen back if i listen back i'm like oh that's what i do every time it is very yes that was very simulator what i've heard previously by watching you kind of move your body into it should this also video of record it for any yeah i at that that would be an amazing says real of i had like a montage underdogs.

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