35 Burst results for "Judy."
New Zealand Suspends Quarantine-Free Travel
"I leave the new zealand. Government has unfortunately posed the trans-tasman bubble from midnight. Last night. judy concerns about rising nineteen case. Thomason australia the pause effects travel from all the states and territories to new zealand and will remain in effect for eight weeks new zealand citizens. Permanent resident and fees. The whole is currently in australia. As well as trillion citizens who have recently been in new zealand and left on or off to the six april this year as well as their family members will still be allowed to return to new zealand on quarantaine free flights until next friday the thirtieth of july but this excludes anyone who's been in new south wales in the past fourteen days. Who would soon need to enter two weeks of managed isolation and quarantine on arrival back in new zealand and at the moment anyone traveling from victoria to new zealand over the next week. We'll need to self isolate for three days and get a curve attest. After arriving back in new zealand off the thirtieth of july once. That's finish next. Friday qantas's jetstar will spend almost all of their trans-tasman services at least until the twenty fifth of september when the bubble is currently scheduled to resume any zealand will continue operating but only limited trans-tasman flights and to and from oakland with various parts of new south. Wales victoria and south australia old. Currently on lockdown olas trillion station. Terry trees have unfortunately also reimposed restrictions on interstate travel and this is unfortunately prompted rex to cancel. All of its boeing seven three seven passenger services starting from tuesday of this week until at least the of august. I just on the two weeks of this point.
How Does GDPR Impact Marketing and Communication Space?
"Will come up enough. Thank you for such a such a privilege in I'm so pleased to be on a podcast looking forward to our conversation even if you would allow me to start with a little bit of humor since we are talking going to be talking about travec and judy. Vr and all those nice things. Let me start by offering you my express consent on Using In your podcast and any personally identifiable information so you have my consent documentary. Good said that shows that you're not a lawyer because if you were from legal department he would also said hey. I explicitly declare that anything. I say is my personal opinion and not relating to my company absolutely So yes i could lawyer. I decided to take a route into marketing. The profession and i haven't looked back and You know but the interesting points of incidents like the one we talking about today where there is invents deliberation between a marketing department. And then of course the compliance this can regulate recital claims so always exciting. That's one of the one of the one of the blazer looking like marketing communications. Is you get to work with every part of the organization with the external world. And i think the opportunity to learn so many things is just tremendous. Which is which is what really excites me about this being in this profession
Despite Rise in COVID-19 Cases, Masks Are Not Mandated in New Jersey
"There has been no spike in hospitalizations due to covid infections. But the state is seeing a sharp increase in the rate of transmission now at its highest level in months at 1.37. New Jersey is also seeing a rise in the number of so called breakthrough infections. The state has documented nearly 3500 infections among those considered fully vaccinated and 31 deaths. Despite the spike in new cases, hospitalizations have remained low at around 300 statewide. In California. The delta variant has been pushing covid cases higher and the indoor mask mandate has been reinstated. Is covid infection. Rates in hospitalizations rise in New Jersey A return to face coverings is not being ordered here. Jersey Health Commissioner Judy Purse, Achille says. While Covid cases are up in Jersey hospitalizations remain relatively low, as do the number of patients in the ICU and on ventilators. So severe disease seems to be under control. But we look at this every day. As you can imagine, Governor, Murphy says. Right now, state officials are comfortable with where the Covid metrics are, and hopefully, things will stay that way. I don't want to go back. But if we think that's the right public health thing to do that, that's what the the experts will suggest.
56 Shot, 11 Fatally, in Weekend Gun Violence Across Chicago
"In Chicago. The police Department says 56 people were shot 11 killed in 44 different shootings across the city. The official numbers from the police ahead of a news conference later by the police superintendent. WGN's Judy Wang is at police headquarters. Official numbers have not come out yet from the weekend from Chicago police, but it appears that we have surpassed last weekend's numbers. Children are among the weekend victims. Many of them were wounded in a single incident that happened late Saturday night in Austin. Where six people were shot near the same intersection. They were outside a party at Ohio Street and Laverne Avenue, where someone started shooting from a dark colored SUV girls ages. 12, 13, 14 and 15 were shot. A woman and a man were also hit No suspects in custody. That was the second shooting in the Austin neighborhood with multiple victims again. The official numbers just out from the police department this morning. 56 people shot 11 killed And 44 different shootings across this city of Chicago
The Disappearance of Kim Ghelkins and Her Ties to Pee Wee Gaskins
"It didn't take long to zero in on gaskins as a suspect. Investigators were aggressive pounding the pavement looking for leads. That's when they met the mother of dennis. Bellamy diane bellamy and johnny nights. She reported her three children or also missing Mrs night brought the story to ahead. Marianne griffin began it permission. I gave information. That people in the neighborhood are all missing. They would also learn jesse. Judy and johnny sellers were missing and the common denominator in these missing persons. Was pee wee gaskins when they arrived at his home peewee. Wasn't there but the detectives did me sandy. The donna gaskins. It was the ex wife. Sandy who gave the detectives the lead they were looking for. Sandy snell gaskins told the police that peewee and cam often in prospect. Knowing kim was last seen with pee wee gaskins police quickly obtained a search warrant for pee-wee's trailer ninety miles away in prospect. It was there. They found clothing. That belonged to kim calkins. They also found a stolen car on his lot and he was arrested that same day for auto theft and contributing to the delinquency of a minor took her out across county allows. It was a minor charge as far as compared to murder was certainly series and have to put him back in jail still. There was no sign of kim calkins who had been missing for nearly sixty days. Police detectives tracked down walter. Neely pee-wee's close friend and applied pressure. Walter buckled but. He had no idea where kim was. He didn't know we had taken her to stay with his daughter. Shirley and gaskins and her husband howard evans. Police knew she wasn't there anymore. Shirley ann thought camp had gone to indiana where she had some family. So police were in a bind. Walter had taken them to pee wee's burial grounds and they were knee deep in digging up bodies but still no word on kim calkins dead or live.
"judy." Discussed on Death of a Film Star
"Reception the life afterwards. Judy and mickey or in the mews house in belgravia is not big and it's not flashy not film star a white front yellow front door. You walk in. The living room has white walls. Gray carpets a sofer in chaz in black and white. You go upstairs a shining rubber tree in apar- halfway up very late sixties. A small main bedroom to wardrobes too small chaz a bright blue bedspread another bedroom off to the side. Pink walls and pink carpets but so room across the london a bathroom tiled green six days. It's june now that the married. Three months judy nike. Johnny ray he comes round or there's not much else not much to do a saturday night. A program to what. John the bbc an early night. Judy saying she feels on well. Mckee feeling the same. It's the phone ringing. That wakes him up. Gone half ten in the morning and it won't stop is for judy so he calls the name. Nothing check said dressing. Room walks downstairs into the white and gray living room nothing. He tries the bathroom door locked. He climbs onto the flat roof inches round to the bathroom. Window looks inside. And that's when he sees a slumped on the toilet hands on her knees. Skin pale a trickle of dried blood from knows from my mouth. No movement now breath. They say afterwards she'd been dead for eight hours. They find a half finish bottle of second on her bedside table and no though with a hundred pills in it not yet opened. When the news breaks they show the old clips. The ten months and the scarecrow the wizard in the witch. They show her past a hit. They play the song everyone knows somewhere over the rainbow a song about longing about one into be somewhere else a place where dreams come true where trouble melts like lemon drops and judy. The woman running away from girl's passed the go lost a woman's world. There's something she says a few years from the end something that stays with you when you think of now. She says. I've heard how difficult it is to be with. Judy garland put you know how difficult it is to be. Judy garland and for me to live with me. She says i had to do it. What more unkind life can you think of the one i've lived this episode was written by tom. Ford ice and performed by me emma clark. It was edited by charlie frost research. We read me and my shadows a family. Memoir by judy's daughter lorna loft. We re watch the wizard of oz. A star is born and easter parade and use the archives of variety the observer the la times and flashback dot com. If you like this episode go back and listen to the one on marilyn monroe or sharon tate and if you want another podcast listen to search for death of a rockstar. And listen to the story of eva cassidy another star. We lost too soon. for listening.
Death Toll in Florida Collapse Rises to 4; 159 Still Missing
"About a hundred and sixty people were still unaccounted for a day after an Oceanside condominium building collapsed in Surfside Florida the way it is so difficult for Joshua Spiegel whose mom Judy is missing we understand this can be an extremely long process and that this excavation may take weeks if not longer and we're gonna be here fighting every second as to what caused the deadly collapse governor Ron DeSantis says it will take plenty of time to find that out anyone who is affected by this directly once that answer but also we need to know is this a bigger issue or is this something unique to the building first responders are using dogs and microphones in an effort to find people I surely after
What Do You Do When You've Been Blamed for a Covid Outbreak?
"I'm jordan rawlings. This is the big story. Judy is a veteran journalist. With cbs's the fifth estate which has been following the story for over a year. Now i guess. Hey judy let's jordan. It's been that time. Time has no meaning anymore really. but why. don't we rewind all way to may twenty twenty when when this started what happened in campbellton new brunswick campbellton new brunswick was coming off a high. At that point they had gone for about two weeks without a case of covid when all of a sudden an outbreak appears in this little town to small town basically in the north of new brunswick across the river from quebec and they had a smattering of cases. Roughly three cases and the premier gives a news conference on may twenty seven and he basically leans the outbreak on your responsible medical professional and at the time and i realized this is asking you guys to kind of reconstruct Who knew what more than a year ago at the time. What was the thinking From the premier's office sure but also just in general. How was it covered. Well when the premier gives a news conference and he he pinpoints the issue from an individual from an irresponsible health worker. He where everyone is assuming that because he is the premier he has done all this research. He has the backing public health. They have a lot of info that we don't have
Republicans to Introduce Censor Resolution Against the Squad for Contributing to Anti-Semitic Attacks
"Group of Republicans This is from Breitbart will introduce a sensor resolution to condemn and censure the so called squad. For defending foreign terrorist organizations and using rhetoric, which contributed anti Semitic attacks across the United States. Now you would think this is not controversial. We're talking, of course about centering Omar. An AOC and Talib and Presley. But it is controversial because this is the heart and soul of the Democrat Party. And the Republicans. The group has led by Michael Waltz of Florida. Good guy Jim Banks, Indiana. Claudia, attending New York. She's great to remember they tried to steal the race from her. The resolution says the squad members of defended foreign terrorist or I didn't hear the attorney general talk about this. I didn't hear that fake phony fraud. Merrick Garland talk about this. As the late great Bob Grant would say. The central resolution says the squad members have defended foreign terrorist organizations. And inciting anti Semitic attacks across the United States. And so forth. The group of Republicans wrote in the resolution that Talib has accused the Israeli government ethnic cleansing and claimed Israel was promoting racism and the human humanization. The resolution meant his Omar calling the Israel military response to Hamas strikes an act of terrorism rather than self defense. She also accused the United States are backing crimes against humanity. This is why Judy Jazz, Ceron. I want you to listen media it. Your low IQ Cuba phones, media matters you low I Cuba phones. Paid for him bought for This is a jihadi wing of the Democratic Party. Most Muslims do not conduct themselves this way.
Zuhdi Jasser Suggests Rep. Ilhan Omar Has an Un-American Worldview
"To know about. Muslims. Who are Very comfortable with with the Western enlightenment and in the United States and who can practice their faith freely and, uh Who support our country and yet Judy Dresser. We watch Omar and tallied and others. These are Radical individuals. Will you tell us? What What did you How do you make this out? Well, you know, I have to tell you as much as every tweet that she does revealed her ideology. It's not just about the one tweet. It's her worldview. It's incompatible with Americanism. She is at her core anti American. So now we're seeing all of the uproar appropriately about this tweet, where she equated are American troops in Israel with the Taliban, Hamas and these other terror groups. And a few years ago, she equated our service in Somalia. She basically chastised Senator Franken for reminding Minnesotans about The terror committed against American troops were 19 died in 73 were injured in 1993. And yet, she said, no the real terrorists at the time where Americans who killed thousands of Somali And this is when she was barely 10 years old. So I would ask Americans, you know, she has no business serving on the Foreign Affairs Committee. Not just because of a few comments here or there, her worldview. Is that America is evil is that Israel is evil. The West is evil, and that the the the righteous ones are the Islamists who believe in an Islamic state. Her resume on foreign policy is the support of BDs, where she
Rachel Gross on her book The Deli is My Synagogue
"Rachel gross welcome back to judaism unbounded so great to have you. It's so great to be back. Thanks for having me so. I wanted to start with a question that i feel like lexin. I were debating for a while a couple of years ago. And then we kinda stop debating it. And i think we should be debating it again which is basically. What does religion mean you know. What do we mean when we're talking about religion because the subtitle of your book as jewish nostalgia as religious practice. And i think it's really important to start by understanding. What do you mean when you say religion or religious practice. I think religion as really important relationships so those relationships can be relationships between humans and the divine or other sacred figures between living humans in community with one another or between humans and their ancestors all kinds of meaningful relationships and then the practices attacks the stories that we use to build those relationships and coming to this definition. I'm building on many other scholars of religious studies and particularly religious studies scholar robert or see who thinks about religion as relationships. And i'm i'm building on that to think about these three hypes of relationships. I think we're jews. We might think about how some jews might be interested in a relationship with god for other jews. The relationship with god may really be in the background and we might be thinking about relationships with the people around us or with our ancestors. And i think that those types of relationships are as important that we can understand religion as as those relationships too. I guess i'm really just struggling with this question of like okay but you know in common use people say well. I'm jewish but i'm not religious. You know they mean some version of like. I'm not into the god stuff for the praying and we could redefine. I mean this is what. I was really struggling with this. I was reading your book. It's like we could redefine religion so that everybody's religious now it's okay. Why is it better to redefine the term religion than to just find a different word. Capture this loyalty. This interest in judy judaism jewishness that you have but also being able to distinguish it between what the people who go to synagogue. Chabad and pray for three hours. What they're doing. So the question is why does defining religion matter and white is redefining. It matter
Learn Positive Coping Skills Today
"I'm excited today to introduce judy moskovitz. She is going to be talking to us about positive coping skills for caregivers and slightly different than your general self care topics that we hit upon. She's got a research program that actually trains you on how to shift. You're thinking into positive gear. So thanks for joining me judy. Thanks for having me. I'm excited to talk about this cool. So why don't we just jump in and have you tell us about yourself and your program. Yeah happy to so. This works started for me. So i'm i'm trained as a social psychologist in. My expertise is in stress and coping emotion. And i started my career studying how people cope with stress so You know when something difficult happens as it does to all of us constantly difficult happens. What do you do to cope with that to. How do you feel better. And we were doing a study of men caring for their partners with aids. This was the early to mid nineteen ninety s so before the treatments more effective so it ended up being a study of the stress of caregiving as well as the stress of bereavement has many of the partners died and early on in the study caregivers. And we were. We were asking about what's stressful about the what's stressful about caregiving. And how are you coping with it. And then that would be the end of the interview and they they said you know you're not asking us about the good things and we want to talk about that and i were sort of surprised what he good things horrific like this is some of the worst human can experience but they said no there are good things going on and so we added a question where we ask them to tell us about something positive in meaningful that happened in the past week that help them get through a day and they almost in almost every single interview in did hundreds of them. The participants could come up with something positive. That happened recently. That helped him get through a day and they were small things like a beautiful sunset or a walk on the beach or making a a meal that their partner enjoyed so they weren't winning the lottery. Or you know finding a cure for cancer like they were they were little everyday things and by focusing on them and experiencing now and talking about them they were able to than that help them cope better with the stress of the caregiving the bereavement so based on that finding then some other research. That was coming out in the literature and some more work that we did. We decided that we wanted to put together a program that helped people experience more positive emotion on a daily basis which then would help them cope with whatever type of stress they're coping
G7 Finance Ministers to Meet in London
"Ministers from the g seven group of nations. Meet in person here in london. Later and britain's chancellor has ambitions to forge a joint path on one of the thorniest economic issues of all time business taxation. His plans for proposed a proposal earlier this week by the us to introduce global minimum corporation tax rate of fifteen percent while to assess what nations will want from plan and whether she soon equil- convince all of the g seven ministers to agree. I'm joined by rob cox global editor reuters breaking news breaking views and he joins us on the line from our xerox. Judy ever good morning to europe. Good morning how are you very well. Thank you good to have you with us on the globalist. This is the first meeting for some time. All these ministers isn't it not lethal logistical reasons. Yon i mean it is. I think their first face-to-face meeting of jesus just g seven finance ministers since the since the pandemic began so quite significant. They'll get to look each other in the eye and try to get to some consensus on what has been one of the thorniest as you pointed out issues among rich countries for for decade. Doing know what that plan is what the idea is at the moment. Well there is. There are various plans out there. But the main idea is the one being pulled together has been pulled together for for years now by the oecd. It involves something like one hundred and thirty seven countries and the idea is to basically come up with with a minimum corporate tax rate. The administration has well yellen. Ah janet yellen the treasury sectors ford fifteen percent joe conto seems to be holding out the idea that could be higher if we don't get my way i think he put forward originally twenty one percent That seems to be in line with what you're hearing from the uk from other members of the g. seven italy
Trans Jewish Fiction - Leiah Moser
"Lay moser welcome to judaism unbounded so great to have you thanks. It's really nice to be here well. I'm excited to have this conversation. I was poking around your blog recently. And i came across the blog post. That was actually from about a decade ago. So i don't specifically necessarily what ask about the post i in the case. You don't remember post from ten years ago but the particular blog plus that you wrote. That's one about how their are similarities between coming out his trends and converting judy them and i found that really interesting because it was a connecting topics that i think people don't necessarily tend to connect and when i've been thinking about it i've been thinking a lot about the idea of trends these days helping people understand that the gender binary is not necessarily a binary. And maybe that's also true. Judaism maybe it's just not jew and non jew. There's more interesting stuff going on there. And i was wondering if you could talk a little bit about some of those connections and also others that that you've seen on this journey if i'm remembering correctly the post you're referring to like a like a list of a number of ways in which he ing transgender is similar to being a garrett setting a convert to judaism and i think that that's a comparison that you know that really has hit me early on in my transition process and stayed with me throughout the process really because i myself am emit convert to judaism right. That's my own story And also because i've ended up you know over the years working quite a bit with other folks who are either converts or who are in the process of converting that that's kind of a big meaningful thing to me. In both cases the whole journey is structured around the idea of there being sort of a point of arrival not for everybody but for at least many folks who are transitioning. There's sort of a sense that one has of. This is the place that i wanna get to you know. Many people's gender transition journey involve a movement toward something right and the eye. An implicit in the idea of a movement toward is the idea that there's a destination to get to.
Voice in Education wit Juie Daniel Davis
"I have a really really special guest judy. Down was will come really. Thank you for having me excited to be with you. Yeah it's our pleasure definitely so do they tell us about your background. Yeah so i actually have degrees in both accounting. An education had a full career in accounting and then decided. I wanted to be a teacher who taught accounting and honestly never had that opportunity. My first stocks that opened that were to teach computers. And that opened up a world to me that i've been riding ever since so for fifteen years. I was at the same school where children had gone to school. Or we're going to school. The time and i early retired from there last year with a the title director of instructional technology in innovation. Now i am an adjunct professor at the university of tennessee in chattanooga and i'm teaching educational technology courses to graduate level students and having just use technology in really good ways for classroom use and on in the midst of be the director of instructional technology and innovation. One of my roles was to really look at emerging technology and be aware of it. So that i could kind of be thinking through. What is this look like. Is this going to impact education or should it impacted education. So that's kind of how i got involved with. The voice industry was really interested in the fact that a device could connect to the world at such a low price point and i felt like that could really solve some equity issues for school systems. So as i started working bought my first advice tried it out in the middle school classroom and win no way. Am i speaking at busy. I'm a middle schoolers. And since then that was the very first tall cylinder alexa device since then just really been helping teachers intentionally use voice in ways to just support the learning. That's going on in their classroom.
Being Heumann with Judy Heumann
"Judy. Human is a legend in the disability rights movement. The fruits of her labor everywhere. Sidewalk curb cuts accessible public transportation. Equal access to public services from fighting for the right to live in her college dorm. To leading major initiatives at the world bank and state department. Judy has been a lifelong activist. Her activism often includes telling her own story her book is called being human an unrepentant memoir of disability rights activist. Judy was born in brooklyn in nineteen forty seven. She got polio when she was eighteen months old and it left her. Unable to walk we spoke over zoom about her activism. In her early years growing up in a world she had to fight to be included in. She started telling me about the time when she first realized that people saw her differently. It was an incident that happened. When i was about eight years old in my neighborhood and at that point when no motorized wheelchair so that's why people were having to push me and my next door neighbor arlene and i were going to the store to the candy store and on our way to the candy store some boy came over and asked me if i was sick and that incident really made me feel quite undressed in as much as i really had not seen myself until that moment as being consciously different from other people and the word that this boy used with me was are you sick and so the use of the word sick still today And now we're talking sixty. Some years later is still. I think a prominent where that people think about and use his
How Judges Judy & Jerry Sheindlin's Love Began
"How old were you when you first fell in love with minus thirty two three two. What was it that you glommed onto. Right away had shiny shoes. I saw him in a bar. And i looked at him and he just finished successfully trying a murder case says defense attorney and it was in the newspaper so mike pearl from the new york post. Who's the crime. Reporter was interviewing me and she came walking into the bar. Seeing me surrounded by these lawyers one of whom was our boss and came right up to me in the middle of the interview. Put her finger in my face and said and who is this. The middle of the plighted. I thought he was able to make an impression which he did. And i said lady please get your finger out of my face middle of an interview and she did and we went out for dinner that night and we saw each other every single night thereafter. So that's how to get to you. I'm telling you put your finger on my easy. I actually had to drag him to the older i did. He really had no intention of getting married. He had no intention of divorcing. He and his former wife was separated floor about three or four years but he had no intention of divorcing was a very good thing he could he could get laid he could say. I can't get serious. i'm married. I said after a year. I want to see the divorce in the paper or don't call me anymore.
A highlight from Learn Not To Pacify
"Not to pacify someone who should do they really stood in our care pacifying within to just run to someone else but me i give you definition of well the anger agitation or example. And now i will break down the finishes so that you're able to the chest which could could be happening to subdue silence. The words throwing making seem intimidated as if they are through when to see the definition of yourself pitcher out maybe something to pincher without being at a stand still not in compliance education a state of anxiety ramirez excitement. You get excited over something. Which would aware that is the time you should ask yourself what may be. The outcome was the mentioning a what occurred exciting preview to get into the things. Are you being grounded for child still stuck in school so we'll even heard about something that was not it will vance do not let the doom and gloom hang a cloud day you can end up growing enjoy. Depressive state is worth severe overcome white. Bring they feel more for. They seem a little bit smarter than you by controlling the situation or bebel improve talking about something and not being able to sleep at night forcing you into something that you would never been in a especially happy you should realize. What are you getting from. Visit benefit can you. Are you applying for the job of peace. Being past relationships we did not go through hearing secondhand telling the whole story dennis. What brings people the talk of something. That store would consider a segment in once upon a time excitement. Something that arouses enthusiasm eagerness and exciting incident living in a situation that prompted a about it to lower their chances in the job. Complain about something that happened there. Do the is papa thin you start being jittery and now if you make something they love it and the story goes around and people are taking everywhere but you still talking in looking right in this person's face a few shared view about the here and now invested a mirror and all the vases. You're seeking this shows. You had grown up into some of the good here and and keep moving onto a better place was if you lend a hand to help them see what's the best recourse is the protects them saying. In what is right it will bring only you built them until place which stand when others are seeking destruction with a bunch of mass. So the next time you try to make someone see you overstep the position of and see those faces you hiding place it out the past walk the disorder and show them that more than you in their lives could be affected in a way. You did not want to happen. Don't get me wrong. I've been in situations as this more than once in my own. You step back to think about what was before after the presence and how long they have been doing that. Head field in mccoy miss. It seems as if it was presented as with them to move forward just to stop what you had in place being sneaky about this make it makes you even more toxic as they are going to be the bigger i she fourth is brought up this. Look and see what you can achieve it all coming applause. Not many people will demonstrate the. Look back through the mass. As if something happened to you even what came down to. Those people are more likely to get with an excuse to do something. Because they're doing you don't want to miss it but they're inseparable you super bowl. You decide to judy to someone ask. Are they dealing with mitt english. Which could happen before they just using you to see what happens if the enter the place where you share in your mind safe strong the alert and your mind i have it. Then you can see for yourself issue just being used to say what is it that saying. What friends. I used to say because the word friend is a very strong war to speak. You will see when you check out the word now. There are many meetings you can tell to by the actions before letting anyone speculate or even increase the peak of your attention. Just remember how he or she would previously deal with big problems or are they just come into people to pacify the words and the is you having someone else. You need to launder hub. Don't stop being strong in yourself and let them see. They passed the brand or to be confident in yourself.
Tom Grennan on New Album - Evering Road
"My guest today originally had plans to be a soccer player in his native. uk then he has some drinks at a party saying some karaoke and his musical gifts revealed themselves. Perhaps the best thing that come of drunk karaoke in human history. He signed a record deal soon after graduating college. Kickstarting rapid ride to the top of the charts. His sophomore album ever in rhode debuted at number one in england. When it was released in march the record takes its name from the street where he once lived with. Now ex girlfriend. Their breakup is the theme of the album. But as he emphatically says this is not a break up album there are no maudlin moments or rule recriminations to be heard no instead he turns is critical. Eye on himself is past mistakes in ways that he wasn't always a good partner. Much of the music is about owning up to his failings and trying to be better rather than an album. Bitter animosity and vengeance road is packed with soulful songs of redemption and hope it comes through on his albums recent single little bit of love a song about unconditional acceptance of both himself and others in his new song. L. a. henderson. Let's go home together suggests a happy ending. I'm so thrilled to welcome tom. Brennan thank you. Obviously you're crazy for me is so crazy. A homily like the sun is kind of working in america on. My dream is to crack america sites. depths. Judy minors is the main ticket back. A little bit. You new album ever in rhode. It's about it's about a break-up but it's not a break up album in fact in a lot of ways it's a. It's an anti break up album you. You're taking this really compassionate view of your ex partner in a really thoughtful view of yourself and your time together. Can you give me a little background on this record. Like what would down at ever in rhode so everyone was. It was kind of espace. Love heartbreak credential. I'm really for me. It was kind of holding. My hat is holding hands up and say listen. I've done some bad in his relationship. I needed to love myself before. I could love anybody else. Unfortunately like During that time. But like i say i needed to binds happiness in muscles couldn't get that to anybody else did not till i had that myself so sold about. That really is a break-up our but like you say it's not listed bring up
"judy." Discussed on Dr. Judy WTF
"Or a father. A person that supports your your your development in eventually your separation individuation. That's the person who's earned it as so that person and comes back to you and start sucking you dry and demanding guilting that you're not doing it now. It's a very very sad state of affairs because many sons and daughters so long will even give give at their own expense. And this is what it's like living with the narcissists unless you wake up and start to realize connect the dots and source the pain and start setting boundaries. Have many people who call in and say. Hey dr judy. i don't know what to do. My mother is driving me sick and She's older and she's we wanna be there for her. But every time. I'm there for her. I ended up abandoning myself Abandoning my own. Awesomely in. so what do you do with that you've got to put boundaries in baggers could mean anything from light contact and sometimes no contact sometimes no hotak in individual choice so whether you feel that rain in your body when you're back in next starts to hurt when you feel that your your fiber Is acting up when your stomach. Acids are churning. When you feel confused gas let you feel guilty in shameful in you feel that you cannot do enough. You can pleases This is what it is like. When you're living with a narcissist in you yourself have not healed from The abuse now usually when people start healing from the abuse They tolerate lesser less. Which is an interesting thing. Because oftentimes when couples come to me. I tell them to. Please be in be individually. An couples therapy. Why because is important that each individual clean up their own childhood pain before approaching couples work in individuals coming to work in their married or in a relationship. I warned them that unless their significant other also starts to grow the thing. They outgrow their partner which is sad because the oftentimes there are children involved in than people feel guilty to subject children to divorce situation. What are they gonna do with. The other party is gonna parent them on their own without a phone call. Hi you're on the couch. Law com below. Hi thank you. Hi yes Taking the call I i'm sorry. i I'm i'm calling in because I have been married to narcissistic person for about twenty three years and It is exhausting and Lately he has. I have been. I've learned a lot. And i've learned a lot about myself and i've learned a lot about nurses mistake abuse and all of that stuff and I now Have been putting up you know. Tremendous boundaries I i speak up I'm acting a lot differently. And he's actually actually Toned down on a lot of his behaviors have to report where he's livable with I would here's the problem Livable i don't know if that's really way to describe What is possible I have been living for so long. That i'm just sort of there and so i'm used to everything There's so many rules living in our house together. He has rules about you. Know how everything has to be done you know. And and you know he he discovers a problem in the house so then he gives me new rules to you have to wipe down the shower walls every time you get out of the shower but the door has to be cracked three quarters of the way very ocd. Okay okay so can you. Can you see how control is a big thing here because instead of feeling powerful in whole within himself he needs to control to feel like he he can exist in this world so power becomes the main tool over empathy and communication and creating a safe environment. That's flexible and copacetic to everyone. So it's tough when you're living with a person who's who's really controlling you guys have children together. Yes we have a daughter and She is She should be at college right now. She's going to college but she's living with us right now. so I was sort of expecting changes in the dynamic of our situation because she believing off to school. but then there was code and so on Chosen to you. Know to be Doing her schooling Probably for another couple of months ago. your husband well y- past She's she's a successful kids. She She doesn't argue too. They don't get into two arguments. There's not too much of that. That goes on But she has seen me really breakdown and She has told me In the past you know you need to leave. Mom need love and But lately we've been sort of It's been you know i won't. It's it's been peaceful but But i'm almost uncomfortable. Because i'm always waiting for the next issue to arise He's suits. He's calmed down. A little bit rages are definitely toned down But i've just never know when that might change. I you know. I'm constantly sort of on guard and naturally depleting on the body that that's very that but i almost living other way because we've been living like this for so long right. The hyper vigilance. Right that the internal tension And so has heavy ever said anything to him like this so painful. Please get help. Because i think we can do. Better than this is released being we did therapy for about in a year and The therapist basically said we had a communication problem. And that he you know he. He knew that was part of the problem And then he did his own therapy. And i did mine. I continued to therapy..
"judy." Discussed on Homophilia
"And our friends at bitch sash. I'm sure he's already it but they're selling ornaments and stockings with their infamous ear wolf drawings on it. They really danielle schneider specifically how to got a really tough drawing in the era of anniversary picture did you sure did and i can't say that we fared very well either. Yeah on the. Did we bad. I i thought oh well we're included and that's fine. I i understand into to be enemy pointed out to me. This elderly looking acapa echoed crane character. Whose me anyway. The is selling great like ornaments and stockings and stuff. And that's all on their instagram great. I think that's it will do it. Oh we review. Ooh let's read it. Got a five star review. From mr dave boy. Did you right. Mr dave boy. I i am not mr dave boy now. That's my dad. You can just call me okay. One of my top podcasts. Lovat dave recently saw the reno nine one one episodes featuring dave and couldn't stop laughing. Thank you mr dave boy. My favorite part of the podcast episodes right now is when we hear the dogs barking in the background. Well tallymen anytime. Yeah and he just might in this Interview with the legendary judy gold. What a dream. She was a dream. And i think bristled a little bit. I called her a legend at one point. And i think that that maybe has a connotation to it. That implies age has nothing to do with that is just she is such a comedian's comedian and Just so brilliant and funny and this is a long time coming so yeah finally got her. She's a two time winner. Her guilt is called. Yes i can say that everybody get your copy. That's another thing that should be going under the tree ashley. Just an absolute dream recall. Here's judy gold folks..
"judy." Discussed on Dr. Judy WTF
"Truth and making my declarations to the universe that this is what. I'm gonna do this this who i am. You have to speak that truth in order to bring things that you need and yeah. I started building everything around me. I felt safe here for a long time until maybe six months ago i would admit to be thinks. And that's because the work. I did dr judy. for once. In my life. I knew it it was to be safe and you know patterns. Come back but he eventually. If you keep doing the work you will defeat them and they will go away forever. Judy when i go out i don't encounter bad people i do live in the lower vibration round. I live in the higher by race in that. Wherever i go people love me. They embraced me. they're happy. I talked to them. I make people's day they asked. Where are the women making. Where are people like. Why are you still happy. I don't have that encounters with anyone. I just don't when i go out. Just go get food. It's like a magical journey of just happy to come home and go. What a fabulous doubting. I went out on true turns. Wow what a great today. And then i come home and i'd be happy in my home. I don't sit around the sad or angry or mad. And when i need to fill those things i allow myself to and i don't make excuses for anybody else in my. I don't mind for anything i need. You know that's a freedom to attain in life where your cycle we. We read up freed up to feel to to live and to breathe and be silly and be comedic and Be soccer expressive and creative. That's sir really beautiful. Acing of carved up for yourself. Okay it inside. You told me that you don't feel say still. We talked about the fact that you do have shelter. You do have your sense of humor. You have your artistic talent. You do have the ability to truth. You do have the ability to be courageous. So i would.
"judy." Discussed on The My Future Business™ Show
"They would of course book a call with me. We would just talk the wrong kind of you know, if coaching is right for them. And if it's not that's fine. I can you know, if they if I could serve them in some other way I can divert them to somebody else or if I they feel that you know touching is something that's for them and they're interested in what looks like to work with me then we can talk about that but I usually just like to spend some time talk to somebody they really get to know them and see where they are at home in this phase of their life and what it is that they're wanting to achieve and what got them to seek out coaching in the first place because everybody has everybody has a reason yeah, of course if you know dead. To see if we're a good fit because I don't work well with everybody and people don't work closely Judy preliminary phase. What are what are some of the things you like to tease out just give the listeners a bit of context as to what they can expect if they try to make contact with you. Yeah now so I usually I'd love to listen so usually that time when we're on the phone together, it's me just listening to them. You know, I listen to you know, where they're at right now in the phase of their life, you know, if they have you know, the logistics stuff, you know, are they married do they have kids? What kind of job are they are they an entrepreneur do they work in an organization, you know and things like that too and then really kind of just take a little bit deeper look like you know, what what you know what provoked you to to find me or you may be interested in coaching and then even digging a little bit deeper, right? You know, then it's just like, okay..
"judy." Discussed on Dr. Judy WTF
"Oh very, very nice to meet you what time is it there? It's twenty, twenty, four minutes past four in the morning. All my God. So what are you doing up so late? Okay. So I am watching your program because I've been following you since two and sixteen. Well. Thank you and this is. You welcome your have no idea to judy The impact your teachings had on me and my life. I bought your book longtime ago. And today actually now I'm actually finalizing my enrollment clinical psychology I'm doing masters degree in psychology. Also Thank you very much. I've been accepted. I have a degree in psychology already, but now I want to do further Yeah. So. So yeah. I'm so excited to talk to you of of I really wanted to Thank you in person one day because. Because of your teaching the the way you put things together, your system is very easy to understand and you touch everything. So for them. So grateful thank you very much. I love to meet you personally and you know have a mind map counselor in London, for those of you who don't know. No. No Right..
"judy." Discussed on Dr. Judy WTF
"Because why? Because first of all were better often yield stay second of all we are better parents we are bad better partners we are better. Community people. So the point is is if we continue to. Do the wealth of Freud. Which I'll get into the repetitive pattern, which is why call the show Dr Judy W, what the void 'cause we keep repeating things and we're gonNA keep repeating things until we. Make the unconscious conscious and process. The feelings have been buried inside of us or projected onto other people. So. Panel one childhood wounds neglect smothering, controlling verbal abuse sexual abuse. Forms of for of odds of use in this case, the another form of Abuse Ob- obviously as if your parents are alchoholic drug abusers. So what do we do with parents like this? What kind of ambivalent feelings show up I think many but mainly are we obligated to honor these people? So here's. An interesting point of view. The Asia Rabbi says we all hope to have parents who are loving. Caring understanding patient but unfortunately, reality is that some parents are irrational abusive manipulative, intimidating leaving deep emotional scars that may not heal four a lifetime. In, an abusive situation does that obligate us to still honor our parents? So he goes on a little deeper than I wanNA get into the show, but he goes to the source and talks about..
"judy." Discussed on Dr. Judy WTF
"I hope this is a horrible thing to say, but I'll say any way that sometimes there's a tremendous relief when a people who've been abuse abusive view when they pass away, there's a lot of yields. Of course, a lot of shame that you you didn't do better or the you know you didn't forgive the Hammer, tell them that you love them or cared for them more but it's very, very, very difficult to care for people who didn't care for you. So do not go there with the blaming shaming of yourself. Okay and Hopefully, we'll have a chance to heal through this and many many more years of healthy life for you to join your life without the abuse of others in your life or abusing yourself because now it's in your psyche, and now you're telling yourself. And so on. Because at the end of the day, when everybody goes away, it's the relationship between you and you the most important and we are we do those laws anti the psychological poison process it. Okay. So Okay let's let's have another round of this and get you on trapping. Okay. Thank you for much Judy, you're so welcome. Thank you. For calling yet your beautiful person I want you to know about your work I mean we're we're blessed to have a person like you or your staff and let me tell you I. so I would fill out of it when I met you. But you're beautiful animals beautiful dogs with show. Soothing. But decided. To do save my dogs. Yes. I Love Dogs. because. They came into the room with me and I remember that's the only thing I really remember that you asked me. If I wanted them and I said I totally did. And it would cripple. Comforting. To have brought. I think dogs because they have such a pure spirit there's no agenda I find the. So. Healing and especially my skynet who's going to be thirteen in January use the chocolate lab in his sister's God. But Allah have a crazy German shepherd who I adore. Active but I must say when she's in her protective mode, she's not a chill tad but should the heart of gold and when human scale? Let's remember the have animals around us because truly they. Unconditional love the most healing on the planet. Okay. So you're welcome back. In. I'll bring sighing you. Thank you. Thank you. So Much I, think for you all use that very, very sweet very kind of you say so I really appreciate it. Okay thank. Okay. I. have. Maybe time for one quick call if anybody wants to call.
"judy." Discussed on RPM45
"Hey. This is marquess off and this is RPM forty five. Six decades. Yes. It's been almost sixty years since Judy Collins released her first album. Now, fifty nine albums later to platinum and four gold. Judy counts is still going strong, still writing and performing both on record and in concert. Here's our talk with an incredible artist and incredible person. Judy Collins. Okay. We're on. Hey. Great. Are you I'm fine. How are you doing? Where are you calling from Ann Arbor, Michigan. Oh. been here. Many Times. I know my hand. At the ARC. And the Folk Festival? Yes. Exactly. I know I, checked it out and I I saw at least five times that you've been here. Good. Yeah. I love the focused. So that was always wonderful. Yes. Well, I'm so honored to have you here and I really do appreciate your coming my pleasure when I found out that we'd be doing this. I immediately had your book, Sweet Judy, Blue Eyes, sent to my kindle. Good. It's an amazing book I. Really Truly enjoyed it. Writing it. I did I. Liked you. It was amazing to me about your book is it's so candid. Weren't trying to burnish or image in and. You, really were very upfront about the issues you've had in your amazing life, and I think is probably very helpful to a lot of people and I know that you've done that in other venues as well. Not Just your book could done interviews about all these issues and all that you know whatever happens to you. It's the only thing you have. Your story is probably all you've got. Much true. You've had a lot happen to. A Lot. Done a lot. It's just amazing. I'm I'm really going to There's so much talk about with your career I'm GonNa stick with mostly that stuff. One thing I wanted to talk to you about is how you got started Simply because I don't I never knew the story and I think a lot of people who listen to me don't know the story either but that you really started on musically. As a kind of a prodigy on the piano. Yes, I did. I, still have to practice every day when I was little while I was born in Nineteen, thirty nine and my dad already had. Started, his radio show in Seattle. He was. He was a singer wonderful performer, sang all the songs of Rogers and hard and. Really. was a good singer. He sang a lot of Irish English and Scottish songs as well as Rodgers and Hart, and so I grew up listening to all of this and I clearly had a strong interest in the piano I wanted to put my hands on it when I couldn't reach it..
"judy." Discussed on Dr. Judy WTF
"Not because you're unlovable. It's because she's having a hard time coping. Now, I must be unlovable, because if I were really really lovable mine, Mommy would be playing with me and should be looking at me and she would be interested in me now. I'm really not lovable I'm. It's all my fault that my mommy does the. Honestly, Judy I can really relate to the little girl that you're playing. Because I mean, I really have been a play cater, and really really when people do really bad things to me or my husband died recently month ago. I really I think you know I really make that I'm I'm if I'd only worked harder if I only got him to the hospital earlier if I'd only done this if I mean like I just I constantly feel like I'm I've lived that way like very shame based and I'm. I want to do better, you know. And isn't it interesting that I reverse the role sear? I play the little girl? Wasn't it really easy for you to see that I wasn't thinking straight? Yeah. It's funny. Hey love the. Players stop saying. Hey, but I could start. To say I'm not even aware when I do it. But it is odd. I could hear that the child. Was Not thinking. Clearly, you know the rule. Yes, you can hear the from this conversation because you have an objective observers stance so. Here's a concept that I talk a lot about identifying with yet versus identifying it so in this little role play August. The CIA was identified with it, and you were my enlightened witness who was identifying it? See The difference. Oh, it's fantastic. I've never heard that delineation. I love that okay.
"judy." Discussed on Dr. Judy WTF
"That's loud. Okay Hi everyone. This is Dr Judy here from the psychological healing center. Doctor Judy what the Freud and tonight's topic is I'm sure one that you have heard me talk about. I'm kind of combining concept's here so that we can See the magnitude of what some people have to live through. And what how? Some people have been injured in. Tonight's topic is the passive aggressive narcissist. So this is a Colin. Show everyone so. Please feel free to call in because we're going to look at two sides of the coin. We're going to look at the side of the coin of the injuries that are associated with the passive aggressive narcissist. They are behaving like that. What the Freud is going on and how they impact people around them who stay in the system corn wrong and first thing that I wanNA talk about. Of course is what's happening. Globally and that is the corona virus. And I just am probably as confused as most of you out there about this and terms of how do you know you have it? I personally have a a little cold right now. I'm sniffling A little bit of a cough but I don't know what does that mean I'm thinking about it. Also because no matter whether we like it or not. The Corona virus is an example of we are inter connected. There's no way to deny that fact and if we're interconnected meaning that Through our association with each other through our affiliation with each other we have impact on each other than that also means that we are psychologically inter connected so. Let's look at A term that I constantly using my therapy in my book on the videos the youtube videos a term called the psycho virus so we've got the corona virus which is very aggressive. It's also kind of passive because it's passed over to people and it's passive in the sense that it's not glaringly telling you to keep away. You don't know you might touch. Somebody might shake somebody's hands. You don't know how this Corona Virus Can impact or transmit to you So the very similar to To to the psycho virus because in the case of the psycho virus which I make to mean or I have defined to mean The psychological virus that is passed from generation to generation. And if we don't bust the system gone wrong. Unfortunately we are doomed to repeat the system. And that's why I call this. Show Dr Judy. What the Freud thanks to Sigmund Freud who came up with the concept of the repetition principal. And how we CanNot move forward until we complete things from the past so with that said. I think there is a call in and I have a lot of information so When you do call in please keep your story relevant to the topic and hello. You are on the couch with Dr Judy. And what is your name? Please my name.
"judy." Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified
"'cause I don't find the answer is yes but I do why they hired you because that makes their job easier and that's fucked up and it's a compliment at the same time because it shouldn't be our responsibility to bring a poorly written supporting character to life. You'll do something with this not like how. `Bout you do something but we do because obviously like we love and money on other money job food. I have to buy food to eat. Put it in my whole. Okay Judy so I wanted to ask you a few different things. I will answer them. Okay so we'll a couple of things so you were born in Detroit. Yes as Judas Therese yes Evans. Yeah now where did greer come from? Greer is my mother's maiden name and one hundred years ago when I joined saying you couldn't have the same name as someone else. Oh I thought you were really mad at your dad. I felt bad. Actually I changed my name reasonably to be my husband's last name and I like my last name. I put as my middle name so that I would still have like a dad name in my name because I do think it was like. Maybe a small bummer. I don't know he's never said anything like that. But there was already a Judi Evans in SAG. She's on the soap opera so I had to choose another name so I decided I was going to be Judy McGuire. That was my grandma's maiden name they thought it was super cute and it was like I think I made this decision one night and I went to bed and I woke up the next morning and there was like billboards all over Chicago. I was in college at the time for this movie. Jerry Maguire. That was going to come out and I was like well. I don't WanNa be Judy McGuire like now. There's a movie called Jerry Maguire that it was assigned so I was named Judy after my aunt. Judy greer so. I changed my name to Judy. Greer and she's also my favorite aunt she was. She's dead but she I mean she probably still is. I WanNa ask you about your marriage. Yeah so you guys were together for seven years. We celebrate our eighth year wedding anniversary. Congratulations thank you and you guys are living together. We lived together now. He didn't for a long time. When did you last year? Yeah last year. We moved in my house together. Full-time we always kept two houses. And we spent the night together. Mostly somewhere sense to be made there. It was an awful and I was a little worried. I was like what if I live with him. Full time in one house and tries me. Crazy like what? If I can't do it but I love it it's awesome. I feel like the hardest thing would be like people asking you questions. Like friends and valley like wh- absolutely because moved in together. Yeah I feel like that would be kind of thing. Yeah I mean it was always the goal to live in one home together. Definitely okay so you met your husband on a blind date. Yeah can you tell us about that is yes? Was it here in La Yeah. We had mutual friends. Well I had a friend that worked for him on his show who texted me one day and was like hey are using anyone right now. 'cause my boss at work is smart and funny and the chicks dig him on a date with him whatever and he said you want me to give him your number or email or do you want me to have a drinks at our house like him and his wife and invite you guys. That is a good friend no so I was like. There's just give him my number. I don't have time for all that Shit. That was termed friend. He's like they would be together. I may like we're going to work hard to make this. I know and I was like you. Just give him my number. We all know what's happening and it'll be weird if I go to like that. Seems even weird her to be like. Yeah like supervised First Meeting Anyway. So he called me on the phone. He called him even text and left a message. Because I didn't pick up because I didn't know who was and was like hello. My name is Dean Johnson. And I'm going to ask you out on a date so cute. I still have the message really. I actually saved it. Unlike a tape recorder that I went and bought like office depot just to save the message because I knew and I switched phones or something like Shit was GonNa get deleted and I was like I can't I have. I saved his first. Five voice mails because they will funny and he knew what I look like but I didn't know what he looked like signing facebook so he was like me to send you a picture before I pick you up for the date and I was like no. It's fine like I dunno weirded out like what if he wasn't attractive and I liked him so much from talking to him on the phone. You know what I mean. Yeah and I like. I'm a terrible liar and I was like. I think he'll know if elegant the picture and I'm like when I can rule the dice and make that face person anyway. I opened the door to like really handsome tall. Where'd you case? We went to Katsuya in Hollywood and now I laugh so hard that he took me. They're good so not a place we would go even those delicious he was like. I don't know where do you take actresses to eat and like all the like political comedy nerds at his work. Where like we'll all go to cut through Ya? They all eat there every night. So that's where you have to take like. So that's where we're going. And he's like a seven years older than me and Taiwan we had our first eighty was starting to have to use readers to read and we got into the restaurant and he was like just order just order. Whatever you want and get like seconds for me just order like whatever you want and then just get two of them. 'cause I like everything. I'm like really like everything he's like. Yeah I like everything Ok so I ordered all this Varez and of course like after like he totally cops that he was like. I just didn't want to put readers on the table and like his Kris kringle rated reading glasses while he's like oh like pulling the menu far away from him so he was like yes. Whatever you get all the funny thing is like if you've been to which clearly you have because you're an actress in Hollywood. You'll know the bathrooms in the restaurant down this really dark hallway and you go down like a black calway. There's like no light. You go into the men's or the women's like we said through dinner and we go to the bathroom before we're leaving the restaurant and he goes in his bathroom and I go in mind and I come out. And there's a man standing in the hallway and I was like standing in the hallway by the door waiting for to come out of the bat and Lake. No idea that it was him. He goes shoe. We yet totally look. I was pretending to look at the art problema man standing in the hallway and I was so terrified that my date was gonna come out of the bathroom and see me looking at another guy. 'cause like a really fun dinner with them and they really liked them and I was afraid I was like can't even look at him. Also I was in a very guess emotionally abusive relationship before dean. I was trained to like never look at anyone so I was like always looking down and I'm like I knew there was a man standing in front of me but I was like I even look up at him for a second. That's when Dean walk out of the bathroom and see me looking in another guy and it'll be awful and I'll feel so bad and so I was just like so I didn't even really give him a good look but yeah I had no memory really of what he looked like. It turned out when he was standing in a dark hallway and then we laughed about it later because he was like. I was kind of unsure because it was so dark but I was afraid then because you were standing there for so long and I didn't know a weird but then we went across the street in like drink a bunch of Guinness and it was fine. That's great I get nervous to look people because I'm nervous to that elusive superpower or that the all know them or know that you are supposed to know them. Yes that's what I am now. There's so many people and so bad with With you know with faces yeah. Names are whole other journey. But I've given up. Yeah I just did this movie. With Jamie Lee Curtis and she for like the first week of production makes everyone wear name tag and I was like this is so genius like she can get away with it. I really want to start doing all my jobs because it's just too so actually really nice to know people's names in that have to give them fake nicknames. 'cause I can't remember their names. I'm like hey girl. What's up each eighty hon? I know I mean I do like seeing that stuff too but I always feel like. I just should know this. You know hey guys. Today's episode of unqualified is supported by mind. Body Mind Body believes that when it comes to wellness. It's not about how much you weigh. How often you work out or checking a box. It's about doing..
"judy." Discussed on Dr. Judy WTF
"Not If you don't know yourself how do you know yourself right? That's exactly right okay. So Right so so this is this is that hole in the soul that I talk about. Who am I because I want everyone to know that we self to find in the eyes of our and parents interrupt doctor Judy but to put in in a concrete example? It says almost if you if and this is for any sort situation if you'd like to write a letter to someone you don't know what even tone to really put it in writing. It doesn't all come together like How would naturally ultimately for someone that is I would say hold sole right? Doesn't come out right because you didn't get the mirroring so going back to this idea of yourself to find an is of your parents you gaze into the eyes of your mother and you're supposed to get feedback who am. I am a lovable. I special Worth it okay. And these are non messages. Obviously when you're just born her two three six months old but pretty soon they start forming into cognition like I knew it. I'm not worth a lot of work. Okay so this this right right so four now. Four now You you right before the mind map. Therapy go ahead and fill it as much as you can. And even though it's going to be counter intuitive self love is caring about yourself caring about your sleep carrying about the food that you eat caring about the people you invited into Your Life. Caring about the The your your your boundaries feels leading. Okay got it. So you're you're like right now. Feed FEED FEED PANEL FIVE BILL. De for at least fill fill. Fill it with with yourself love for now. And then you'll think you're GONNA learn how to build a self you know but I you have to empty out the old stuff before we start feeling it but for now. That's that's going to be good for you anyway. Irregardless of of where you are in the process so I I know that that They're going to be other callers on a leave a little room for other people to call in and please whenever you're ready call the center and and and definitely I think you're going to get to know a lot more. This is quite a psycho education so I look forward to uring from you and I really appreciate it and I hope you learned something tonight. Absolutely thank you so much for their by trying to help lead me panel one and panel seven. Yeah and read the Book and everyone read the PDF. So thank you okay. That's good okay. Thank you so much for calling in and I'm going to go on a little bit more and talk about caring and sharing and the opposite which is using and abusing objectify ing and A vampire another human being because when you're not developed in that I love bond if that doesn't go right then you make a conclusion that people are objects and the people are are objects. That's where all of those topics come in on narcissism right because you no longer feel connected to the person. Are you no longer can connect to the person? So what are you? GonNa do with them. You're going to toy with You're gonNA treat him like disposable objects you're gonNA love bomb them for a while and the wine and roses are gonna come and then another shiny object and then they're going to drop you and grab onto the Shiny object and you're gone so that's the system gone wrong okay. And if anybody else wants to call in please do That number is three two three five two four to five nine nine. I also WANNA talk about repairing. Because part of loving somebody means being in the consciousness of of owning your own stuff because if you don't own your own stuff than what are you left with is finger pointing and blaming shaming another person and thank you we have a collins so you on the catch with? Genie. What is your name. Please Erica Higher. How you doing? I'm pretty good. Thanks how are you doing? I'm good thank you for calling in. Where are you from? What part of the Victoria Canada? Oh great I'm a Canadian myself or at least I was until they made me choose and now I know better than I could. Actually I guess I can reinstate So tell me how you relate to this topic of of of of Romantic love versus objectified love and and love. Yeah so I had quit Really big Realize -ation recently About how I perceive love in my life because I'm like very I have a lot of love And I love people very alive a lot really easily and And I like.
"judy." Discussed on Dr. Judy WTF
"A good year like a while and so as the little as a child my internet like by not going there by not packing my bags. I was convinced that my mom. You will ask me why I'm not going. And she never asked you why she never. She never asked why Dr Judy Never. Why I anything and why? I was put on stress pills because I had so many like I. I was just my life changed and I didn't feel safe from the house to her. Obviously obviously or I would have just communicated to her what happened so solo felt So I wanted to go back to her mccracken perception because she was in some form of denial. You were telegraphing her Things change the fact that she she didn't even ask why Synopsis Question. Why don't you WanNa go to your uncle's house? Pretty obvious question. No so Craig. Lenz of perception is just. You know don't like what I said when I picked up the pink losses but it's worse than just the rose colored you know he's a good guy it's almost like she. Eh blanked out any any information so the glasses were not just rose colored. They were They they were opaque glasses. She just refused to see so. I WANNA get to. What kind of distortions? If that's okay with Hugh What kinds of distortions that left you with? Because now that you're reading my book you understand it. Childhood wounds lead to reactions lead to in coatings. Right which lead to chaos defenses and breakdowns until we clear our lunch of psycho perception. When we're GONNA keep seeing ourselves through the lens of our parents and lengths of a people that deliver what I call call psycho viruses into our brain psycho viruses messages so What do you think you concluded from all of the abuse and neglect and so on? What do you think you made it to mean about you? Well that got I was the problem. Okay that's very very common dot. That's so what Alice Alice Miller Spoke About psychoanalyst back in the day who spoke about the child protecting the parent and and and positioning joining him or herself. As the center of the bad the child is the bad one. The mother is clearly The good one. And there's there's no denying that and it makes a safer world because if you know that you're being grazed by horrible terrible evil people that makes for horrible horrible world so it's better that you control it and that you you you you Step up and be a good child so left you with feeling horrible. We're able about yourself yes. I'm sorry. Doctor Judy left. You feeling that there was something wrong with you. Something wrong with you. Yes 'cause she so when I exposed him when I was twenty one she blamed. She blamed me wolf well. She attempted to make me believe that she tried to warn me that I was hanging out with him too much which was a total lie and then when I told her what happened when I was little. She blamed me for not telling her when I was little what happened. So she put everything on me and to this day To This Day 'cause we I just had a family ambush I got myself into a situation where I thought having a a family talk. was in my.
"judy." Discussed on The Frame
"The other thing that I think is really interesting about the film is Judy. Garland had addiction issues but those addiction issues were started by my Hollywood that she was punished and treated in ways that were almost I think are inhumane in terms the way the studio treated her the way they talked about her weight what she couldn't eat how she had to be on medication that the person that she became as an adult was really cast by the way that she was treated by the industry when she was a child and that feels like a central idea the film that this is not a woman who who is making choices in her own life. Those choices were made for her before she had any agency. That's true and obviously obviously it's going to change your body chemistry and create a situation where you can't function without whatever it was that they were giving you to help you deliver deliver on such a crazy schedule. You know and that's another thing I think is interesting. It's it's it sort of puts context that this was not a choice. It's not person who wakes up up in the morning and wants a handful of pills because she just doesn't feel like dealing with the day this is a woman who have seizures if she over slept and woke up having you know about not having her medication it's tragic in that respect but again when you look at what she was capable of in spite of all that and the lack of understanding adding around her about what that means and what you might do to treat it as we better understand today. We're at the telluride film festival. We're talking. Meanwhile Renee Zellweger about her new film judy. We're the hardest things to do in this film not singing wise hardest emotionally hardest acting acting. Do you remember days that really difficult because there's a lot of dark periods and Judy's life around this time but she's really trying so hard to hold it all together and make it. I was GONNA make jugglers really hot on that said her hotel room in that coat. It was so odd in there that the camera equipment shutdown Raleigh more the monitors were going all fuzzy that was when they had to bring the air conditioner and not because everybody was dying but because the character wouldn't work Oregon more now okay back to your question. Were difficult difficult days now. I didn't think of any of them as difficult. It was all joy. It was joey. I'm holding this microphone with cord and it feels so familiar to me and I don't know remembering those days on the stage at the Hackney Empire with the all the actors offers an audience and the days we shared and we laughed so much and shared stories about you know a lot of them whose parents had been at the shows and the astras in the audience. We're children of people who had seen Judy Jan.. There were a couple of them who who had been to the talk of the town and we're sharing their stories about what they say. That's fascinating. It was magnificent or that. She was really laid him. We waited until whatever our nobody was hammered by. She got there because that's what happens. Past the reviews indicated people would yell at Judy. She would yell back. There was a lot of I don't know if you call it. Give and take heckling but there's going on. I want to ask you about your hiatus and about what that meant to you. You stopped acting for what five six years between two thousand ten two thousand sixteen. You studied writing eating. You Co created wrote and produced a show called cinnamon girl. What did you find that you were able to do when you stopped and looked back from a different perspective and how did it change your priorities and did it give you a new way of looking at how you would manage your own career to open a window and away. L. Certainly tonight certainly to step away from something you know obviously gives you perspective and I hadn't realized how ahead been putting myself last that I said. Yes to everything because I'm so lucky I'm very blessed and the people that I work with are extraordinarily gifted and kind and and so anytime someone would ask the answer was yes. It was just across the board yes. I hadn't realized that in saying. Yes to everyone else. I was never saying. Yes to myself and I won't do that anymore. And aw so that's a pretty boring takeaway pretty boring revelations. I don't think at all because I think it's a fundamental issue in Dan Allot of businesses but certainly in Hollywood where especially as an actor you never want to say no because you don't know what your next job is and the entire industry is set around what's next and how you're going to move on and that's contingent on everybody's compensation agents lawyers managers and that the idea of saying notice something is almost ingrained in you that something you shouldn't do and before you know it. You don't know what it is. You're saying yes to because you haven't stopped well. There's I didn't look at it that way. I didn't say no because of my friends I said yes a lot of times because of the creative opportunities and the people that I would have the chance to work with and read sit with Rob Marshall and think oh my gosh. I just have to know oh him. I have to know him and the the Chicago we should say yes and the creative experience of lifetime is going to be the cherry on top you know but and when it became time to stop and step away for a second now. I wasn't worried about it at all. I knew that there would be other creative opportunities and other people that I would want to work with in a different capacity in a quieter way this last question. How would you define what it is that you get excited about now now because it could be acting to be writing could be producing. What are the stories that speak to you. Well goods good now. If it makes me laugh out loud I love things that obviously pushed the conversation in some way if it's an important issue and I think it's it's it's one of the best ways to to move if people is medium now that that excites me. I love going to movies. You know I love it changed my perspective very time every time so I saw around the blessed to be part of it honestly to get a get to do this for a living in any capacity Baheren telluride eating your biscuits. I mean live couldn't be better petr except if your dog was here at my dogs are here then Rene. Thanks so much for coming in to talk to you by by the way I made those biscuits was talking about and they were pretty good if I do say so myself. Judy is in theaters on September twenty seven coming coming up next on the Frame Downton Abbey movie as experienced by Downton Abbey's obsessed Fans.
"judy." Discussed on The Frame
"Renee Zellweger was at the telluride film festival early this month for the premiere of her new film Judy beauty which is directed by Rupert Gould in the movie Zellwegger portrays Judy Garland late in her life well after the fame from wizard of Oz had vanished S. She was battling demons on several fronts. Zellweger also played Garland in song in the film performing array of musical numbers including over the rainbow. Oh live onset when she visited the frames makeshift studio at our condo and telluride Zellweger told me about what Garland mentor her before she took on the role Ed. I always just sort of took her for granted. She was always there. She was extraordinary. She was original so she filled this spot that belonged to her. She was always on the turntable title in my house or if there was a special where she was on television we were watching with my parents so I just sort of she was always there but but I was surprised to learn that a person could have been working on that level since she was two years old could find herself you in those circumstances later in life that that did surprise me doesn't matter. Yukon Khan is an audience out there waiting to hear you sing my mouth dry Nick Houston teepee fine. There is a fascinating review that we found around of the original concerts in nineteen sixty eight in the observer and this is what the critic said in part. It's a long review and there's lots of really interesting stuff. She doesn't really really give a concert. She conducts a seance. She evokes pity and sorrow like no other superstar so and that seems to fit really into the movie about what's going on in Judy's life at the time of this story. So how would you describe the chaos us that is all around her and how that chaos starts to show itself on stage when she's performing. I mean this is her bliss. We're talking about performance aunts and connecting with audiences obviously it's her gift and it's also what she relies on for her freedom and financial stability and her ability to take care herself she was in debt and she didn't have a home place to live she was having difficulty finding work in the United States because her reputation was not not one of of great ability and then there's the addiction that we didn't. I guess we'll we understand a little bit more about these days. Obviously Dan coupled with anxieties and just years and years and years of overworking this thing that you're supposed to take very great care of which I've come to learn about the instruments that you can't just push push push the chaos. Suppose is just what you see on the outside. All sizes is usually a manifestation of what's on the inside and all of those things one of those things that she was experiencing at the time would have been enough to to break a person and I think that that's what's interesting about talking about this time in her life. It's not I don't. I don't think that there's any shame in it. I think that it just really league highlights how exceptional she was that she was able to overcome all of this mess and still perform and still give so much to her audiences and despite the abuse in the wear on her instrument boy she still she still delivered you know it stuck it hit those notes and break your heart like nobody you know the wrangler.
"judy." Discussed on WiLD 94.9
"Judy in new staff the lane alexandra thanks very say is it good over four nine sometimes i feel i can but.