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The Population Control Movement

Behind the Bastards

04:35 min | 3 months ago

The Population Control Movement

"The negro project was very popular with black community leaders at the time and it would be unfair to frame it as an act of genocide. Sanger wrote repeatedly of the importance of bringing in black doctor stating at one point. I do not believe that this project should be directed a run by white medical men which is good. If you're going to do a healthcare project like focused on the black community like that. That shows like she. She was like she was capable of understanding what was necessary in order to actually reach people in nineteen thirty nine now so that i guess yeah. Yeah in one thousand nine hundred nine. She argued in a letter. That black ministers needed to be heavily involved in the project in order to gain the trust of their communities. We do not want to go out that we want to exterminate the negro population in the minister is the man who could straighten out that idea if it ever occurs to any of their more rebellious members again sue problematic language there but also there's no evidence she was actually going for genocide because she was again doing the same thing with white people. She was a birth control across the board advocate right. She wanted everyone to have more access to contraceptives. There are people on the right. Like denise souza who will spread wildly untrue claims about sanger like that. She called black people human weeds in a minister civilization. And there is no evidence of this sanger's own legacy contains enough problematic facts without making up lies. She was a eugenicist and she wrote in nineteen twenty-three that birth control does not mean contraception indiscriminately practiced. It means the release in cultivation of the better elements in our society and the gradual suppression elimination and eventual extinction of defective stocks. Those human weeds who threaten the blooming of the finest flowers of american civilization. So she did call people human weeds. But she wasn't referring to black people. She was referring more to mentally challenged people more to people with like who are prone to diseases. And that's bad that's really bad. But she was not like a four exterminating everything but white people. She was four exterminating people. She considered unhealthy or at least exterminating them from the gene pool. Which is again bad. But let's be accurate about the kind of bad it is. You know we don't need to make it anymore. Yeah criminal. I don't say because it's not flowery. It's already bad. Didn't wanna make better by wiping out black people. She wanted to make black people and white people better by wiping out folks who had what she considered to be like bad qualities through selective breeding and. That's really terrible for herself. What does back. Yeah these are yes. Yes thanks at up. Yeah that is bad but like it's not the kind of bad luck again because they tried to. I like the progressives always been trying to wipe out black like. That's not what she was doing. We don't need to add information. She was just a she was a. Here's plenty that's bad about her. Yeah let's let's be intellectually honest when we can dennis someone. She also stated during another speech. I believe now immediately. There should be national sterilization for certain this genetic types of our population who are being encouraged to breed and would die out where the government not feeding them. You know that's bad but again it's the kind of like part of why they like to try to frame her. Badness is something different is because if you're accurate about it you can find a fuck load of republicans who say the. The poor should starve right. Like the people who can't work on their own by jordan peterson. Talking about like how terrifying it is that. Some people aren't intelligent enough to be in the military and like say like because. What do we do with those people like. That's a really. Like what margaret sanger was. Saying back then is still common today. Apple dress it up a little bit more. I mean kind of relate to the copay things like that's fine. They're already they're already probably die. So it's the run productive. Yeah they're in productive there on the government dole. Exactly yeah she just. She was bad she just was not the kind of bad people. Like desouza liked painter. As and in fact a lot of progressive black leaders at the time like margaret sanger. And what she was trying to do in one thousand nine hundred eighty nine letter to dr. cj gamble of proctor and gamble fame. She urged him to get over his resistance to hiring a fulltime negro physician. Ask quote the colored. Negroes can get closer to their own members and more or less lay their cards on the table which means they're ignorant superstitions in doubt again. She's also she's number one saying that black people are ignorant and superstitious which is bad but also saying that like no you get educated black people to talk to them about birth control so again. She's a problematic person but not painters

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Penguin snaps up Simon & Schuster, creating mega publisher

Glenn Beck

01:09 min | 4 months ago

Penguin snaps up Simon & Schuster, creating mega publisher

"Random House Canada employees confronted management about the company's decision to publish a new book by controversial Canadian psychologist Jordan Peterson. At an emotional town hall Monday, and dozens more have found anonymous complaints, according to four workers who spoke to Vice World News. On Monday. Penguin Random House, Canada, Canada's largest book publisher and a subsidiary, a Penguin, Random House, announced it will be publishing beyond order. 12 more rules for life by Peterson to be released in March, 2021. The book will be published by portfolio in the US and Penguin Press in the UK, both part of the Penguin Random House empire. Four Penguin Random House candidate employees who did not want to be named due to concerns over their employment, said the company held a town hall about the book Monday during which executives defended the decision to publish Peterson why employees cited their concerns about platform ng Someone who was popular in far right circles. How

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

Behind the Bastards

05:25 min | 6 months ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

"Yeah. Yeah and like how to deal with there's One of the worst things I think he talks about. It's about I q and how because the military doesn't let people in the military under a certain Iq. that. Asks that they cannot. Function in society, they cannot contribute to society because we don't let them in the military. and. He's so these two claims he says, therefore, that's the most horrifying thing I've ever heard He doesn't go further than that isn't explained why but he talks about how if we if they can't contribute to society citation needed. And we can't pay them like universal basic income and thing like that doesn't work either again citation needed therefore and then trailing off yet we need to gas them in trust. What do you do? What do you do with these people? It's just like, yeah, these like. X is true even though it's not why does not therefore you figure out the Z. for yourself ninth say. It's clear as with everything that Jordan Peterson's wrong about that. He has no real experience with people who have you know? What you would call like Iq's lower than that threshold again, I worked in this field I worked with particularly a number of kids with down syndrome would not have been able to join the military..

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

Behind the Bastards

04:48 min | 6 months ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

"Authoritarians are according to brophy the ones now relabeled social justice warriors both share a high degree of compassion extreme compassion they believe can lead to difficulty assessing right from wrong. It can also mean the forgiveness of all failures and transgressions by people viewed as vulnerable. Any personality trait to an extreme pathological brophy says now. I'm not a psychologist, but I do have some issues with some of the questions that they're listing here. For example, safe spaces are necessary to promote diversity of perspective. I don't know that I would agree to any particular level with that I would say that if people my what I would say is if people feel like they need safe spaces in the school for whatever reason, I'm fine with them having that in that I, if they find it valuable share like why not and I think most people are kind of in that I don't think most people who don't have an issue with like the idea of a safe space on. Campus would say they're necessary to promote diversity perspective. They'd say, oh? Yeah. People need that. Why not playroom the campus yeah. Sure. Yeah. Thing a cigarette feel safe talking about a thing and there doesn't seem to be any sort of room for that in in the court like it seems like the questionnaire is kind of designed to get people to respond in an authoritarian like feathered headdresses should be banned music festivals. Should they be van? I won't say they should be banned is at fucked up for like white kids to like where native American headdresses Oh yeah. That's that's messed up. They shouldn't do that banned yet a museum like He. Say that the second thing will not I yeah. Most will not be like, oh. Yeah. Ban Them Ban them everywhere. Yeah. That is that is Britain to illicit the kind of that he wants and like I spend a lot of time reading especially on twitter like indigenous folks talking about stuff like this they find it offensive and all of them are saying like, yeah or tend to be saying I don't do this. It's messed up they're not saying it should be you get kicked out of music festival. We need to write lining. No Yeah. They're trying to explain like why it's offensive which is exactly what I'm saying at music festivals. It's explaining these things I'm like, why? Why? Why do people say space? Why do why does this? What does this not saying? We need to write laws to require them or like we need a man X. or y. Tells me interesting to explain to people why this is messed up? Yeah. Yeah the. The too much compassion and are prone to much forgiveness or something. Yes we'll. Yeah. Okay. That's A. As WS OF CANCELING, people Yeah, we'll talk a lot about Jordan Peterson and what he thinks about compassion and how it's bad and how that might relate to some things. Other groups of people have said in the past before doing very bad things that you wouldn't be. Peterson. Claims to know about and want to prevent. Good, relation between that. Yeah. So the article goes on to note that like most psychologists in his field, Dr Peterson believes there are five major personality traits, extroversion agreeable miss openness, conscientiousness, neuroticism. These traits are supposed to be universal across different cultures. All sounds problematic is hell and really dumb to me..

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

Behind the Bastards

04:49 min | 6 months ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

"That doesn't mean that the person's suggesting that needs to live a perfect life and have all of them. No fixed out that like this example is. So. Wrong. Misleading, it's an and it like that. Point. Me More like, Oh, well, that's insidious. What he's doing isn't yes. It would be one thing if he was like there's different kinds of emergencies. Some of them are like you know when an airplane depressurizes and you have to take care of yourself I otherwise, you'll be unconscious other others are like a fire in a house, and if you're a firefighter, you might have to endanger yourself in order to do your job because. That's sometimes what we do in like yeah, it's yeah but no, it's it's kind of a microcosm of the way he thinks, which is like find one kind one that if you deliver it, wellness speech will sound really compelling to people because you're comparing it to something in the real world But like if you think about it for more than a couple of seconds real will that actually can't be generalized to any that You can't like. Try to improve society unless you're perfect, which is impossible like who can claim that? Yeah they they are. They've nothing left to work on with themselves nothing like that. It's like come on man. Yeah. So in this course, self authoring Suite Peterson explains that his time as a clinical psychologist has taught him to start client sessions by asking a series of questions about a patient's family physical health friends, drug use, etc if his. Clients are having issues in any of these key areas they cannot be thriving psychologically. This is the origin of his famous clean, your room line, and obviously it's not bad advice to tell people to take care of themselves. You should take care of yourself, but Jordan being Jordan immediately takes things beyond simple self care. The self authoring suite represents the first salvo in what I think. We could call Jordan Peterson's war on chaos. Quote, the We Peterson sees it. There's a constant struggle between chaos and order within society and within each individual even if you don't believe this literally, it's a useful metaphor to make yourself strong and focused. You have to do battle with the dragons of chaos of course, dragons your big and scary. So you better start out small. Talks. A lot about fighting dragons and he does actually will sometimes say like, no I'm I'm speaking pretty literally. Yeah. His his some of his diagrams in that book are yeah. Yeah. So the way Peterson frames things though is very seems very reasonable. If your life feels out of control, you focus fix I on taking care of small immediate needs and goals in this builds your confidence, and it'll help you deal with.

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

Behind the Bastards

03:35 min | 6 months ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

"Yeah. So Jordan's earliest memories would have included footage from Vietnam I constant anxiety over nuclear apocalypse. He's not all that much younger than my dad like my dad grew up with a lot of talked about it. A lot of like re realistic fear as a child, but the world was going to suddenly into nuclear hellfire. And I talked about this a lot but it really messed the whole generation pretty bad. in an understandable way. So the threat of total war only seemed to grow more real as Jordan grew older plagued by nightmares of Nuclear Hellfire for a year and a half he says like just yeah. Dreams. He's Got A dream problem which again, you can't at this point. Perfectly. reasonable. Like if you grow up hearing that should, of course, can have nightmares about nuclear hell like obviously I have your brains. Yeah. Yeah, there's existential threat constantly than you're going to have it on your mind pretty constant. Yeah. It's a kind of PTSD to be honest and Toronto Life Cryptically Rights Jordan quote became depressed and confused about the world's and his own capacity for evil. Which is interesting. That's Yeah. So I wanted to pop in here so. Just for more, context we keep going. and His comment about that funeral and how he's going to have that funeral one day. When he was. Fourteen years old. He ran. He was like into politics Iran for like election and Jeez. I didn't run across this one. This is why you're the guest H Fourteen. He became is within thirteen votes of being elected vice president of the MVP sort of organization there and the The piece is I won't be happy until an elected prime. minister. Okay, well there. It's fine things to say when you're fourteen years old I mean nothing to worry about their. I grew up not all that differently from Jordan Peterson and a different era but like super bookish super nerdy. Raised conservative and he.

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

Behind the Bastards

03:33 min | 6 months ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

"US So now, we're talking about shifts professor shifts, Jordan Peterson's old mentor. And kind of like that writer with the Guardian quoted earlier shifts particularly concerned with Peterson's conditional support free speech. He knows Peterson well, and he began to see some pretty fascist tendencies from his former friend chief among them where Peterson's relentless focus on transgender and gender non conforming people in here's something. That's basically what you said earlier, cody. Jordan studied and understands authoritarian demagogic leaders. They know how to attract a following an interview with Ethan Klein in an H. Three podcast. Jordan describes s such leaders learned to repeat those things which make the crowd roar and not repeat those things that do not the crowd roared the first time. Jordan. Opposed the so called transgender agenda perhaps would roar again whether it made sense or not. But why? In the first place in that same interview Jordan's Sites Carl Young who talked about the effectiveness of powerful emotional oratorical skills to tap into the collective unconscious of people and into their anger resentment fear of chaos in need for order, he talked about how those demagogic leaders led by acting out the dark desires of the mom. Yup. Yeah Cool Get. Yeah I. Mean That's yeah that's this it's. Just a little delving in you really see what he's doing Yeah. Not Hard, not hard not super complicated. In two, thousand, eighteen, a massive deuce canoe named Eric Weinstein, I used the term intellectual dark web on Sam Harris's waking up podcast. Now, the official Intellectual Dark Web Website lists as a vanguard of the ID W alongside Dr. Jordan. Peterson interestingly, it calls Eric left-wing person which is fun because he's the managing director of -Til. Capital. Never been never addressed that. Brings. It's wild. Then you can still make that claim. Yeah. Unbelievable. What is funny is that while Peterson himself doesn't like to identify as right-wing the intellectual dark website does identify him as right wing because like a whole part of its whole thing is that these guys are people who come from every side of the political spectrum. Exactly. Yes. I'll read you how the website describes the men of the intellectual dark web. Share two distinct now, uncommon qualities I. They are willing to disagree fiercely but talk civilly about every meaningful subject worthy of public discourse, religion, abortion, gender, identity, race immigration, the nature of consciousness. Many of the opinions they hold on such topics can sometimes be in contrast with the Orthodox opinion of their respective tribe second, intellectually honest and thus resist parenting what's politically convenient or politically correct. Notable the not on that list of things worth discussing is economics. We've that's funny. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. No, we've got a religion abortion gender identity race immigration, the nature of consciousness all the things that are worth talking those are those are all the things we'd not economics because all of these people are rich shit and because the thing they agree on on my list of people is really depressing. It's awesome. It fucking rules dude. So. Yeah later in two thousand Eighteen New York Times editor Jerry Weiss published a fawning on this set titled Meet The renegades of the Intellectual Dark Web fucks beautiful. Beautiful. Those voters in the woods man I will argue sit alone in your own room in read the title of that New York Times, article to yourself..

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

Behind the Bastards

04:26 min | 6 months ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

"Some of them are like you know when an airplane depressurizes and you have to take care of yourself I otherwise you'll be conscious other others are like a fire in a house, and if you're a firefighter, you might have to endanger yourself in order to do your job because that's sometimes what? We do in like yeah it's yeah but no, it's. It's kind of a microcosm of the way he thinks, which is like find one like kind. One example that if you deliver it while in a speech will sound really compelling to people because you're comparing it to something in the real world But like you think about it for more than a couple of seconds realize will that actually can't be generalized to any? Yeah. You can't like. Try to improve society unless you're perfect which is impossible. Who can claim that? Yeah they are there have nothing left to work on with themselves nothing like that. It's like come on man. Yeah. So in this course, the Self Authoring Suite Peterson explains that his time as a clinical psychologist has taught him to start client sessions by asking a series of questions about a patient's family physical health friends, drug use, etc. if his clients are having issues in any of these key areas, they cannot be thriving psychologically. This is the origin of his famous clean, your room line and obviously. It's not bad advice to tell people to take care of themselves. You should take care of yourself but Jordan being Jordan he immediately takes things beyond simple self care. The self authoring suite represents the first salvo in what I think. We could call Jordan Peterson's war on chaos quote. The Peterson sees it. There's a constant struggle between chaos and order within society and within each individual. Even if you don't believe this literally, it's a useful metaphor to make yourself strong and focused. You'll have to battle with the dragons of chaos of course, dragons her scary. So you better start out small. Peterson talks a lot about fighting dragons and he does actually will sometimes say like I'm speaking pretty literally Oh. Yeah. His his some of his diagrams in that book are yeah. Yeah. So the way Peterson frames things though is very seems very reasonable. If your life feels out of control, you focus fix I on taking care of small immediate needs and goals in this builds your confidence it'll help you you deal with larger and larger things.

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

Behind the Bastards

05:23 min | 6 months ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on Behind the Bastards

"Back. Okay. So yeah. Campbell's racism doesn't mean we shouldn't learn stuff from him just like the fact that young dabbled in Nazism doesn't mean that he's not worth studying as an intellectual Carl young had said a lot of stuff that's really interesting and I know a lot of people are fans of him. So I'm not again like anyway, the point is that an awful lot of the guys who find themselves writing at length about stuff like ancestral memories in archetypes also wound up having Nazi adjacent beliefs like a lot of the people who started. Codifying those lines of thought in human philosophy also wound up being really drawn to the Nazis and that something we should keep in mind when other people have similar. Fuel drawn in similar directions and those are the folks that Jordan Peterson found himself pulled towards as a young man and that's worth noting now young adult Jordan. Peterson. gravitated to clinical psychology. He went to or psychology whatever he went to McGill University for his undergraduate graduate terms eventually became a doctor enduring his time in college. He came to grapple with his romantic feelings for a childhood friend Tammy Roberts Jordan Tammy grew up on the same. Street they went to Prom together. He invited her to Montreal for Canadian thanksgiving one year while he was in college and the to hit it off manically they moved in together and like whatever else you can save the guy. It seems like he he's like deeply devoted to his wife and she to him. It's unfortunate that some of the things that they're devoted to together. But I guess that's good for him. He he fell in love. So Peterson proposed to her repeatedly before the two married in one thousand nine, hundred, nine, Tammy, later recalled I thought if I don't Mary Jordan I'M NOT GONNA. Know what he does with his life and he's going to be an interesting person. She was not incorrect in that. He is an interesting guy, rex interesting person. I wouldn't marry him to know what happens to personally but you would not marry Dr Jordan. Peterson. Well, cody. Then you might be too biased to participate in this episode any longer So. Tammy online. So next in Jordan, Peterson's life according to the magazine Toronto Life Quote Their First Child Michaela was born in Nineteen Ninety two, the family moved to Boston where Peterson took a job at Harvard then had been had Julian Peterson taught psych at Harvard for six years when Michaela was seven, she was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis and started showing signs of depression. Tammy who had become an artist and massage therapist put her career on hold to care for her daughter in Nineteen Ninety, eight Peterson was offered. A tenure track position at the University of Toronto in the family remove returned to Canada, at u of T, he was a swashbuckling beloved professor students regarded him as a kind of Guru for people just figuring out who they were and what they wanted to be. He offered us deductive bulwark of certainty. There are perhaps one or two professors you'll run into during her your career who completely capture and captivate. You says, Christine Brophy when a Peterson's current Grad students and he was one of them. Now that Toronto Life Articles really interesting I think quite good. But it summary of Peterson's early career path is only broadly accurate..

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DREAD NOT & THE DMV - Rich Maerk | #ManTools Podcast #82 - burst 07

Man Tools Podcast

06:46 min | 7 months ago

DREAD NOT & THE DMV - Rich Maerk | #ManTools Podcast #82 - burst 07

"And so I'm I appreciate the opportunity to tell my daughter bought a certain things that are true and give her my view because I don't want her to just be indoctrinated by some person that I'm telling her she needs to respect for teachers and summer school teachers and things like this and and just letting them have their way with her opinion and then indoctrinating her. I want her to know this is what my parents and they have explained it to me so though, it's hard job. It's it's it becomes difficult at times but it is possible. Yeah, the the thing with the the gender fluidity, especially when it comes to kids wage and we talked about it a bit on this show a while back. We covered a story where this luckily this man ended up winning the court case, but he was involved in a custody battle with ex-wife she's a doctor and she was it became very clear why she wanted to do this? She'd suddenly decided that their son was a girl and was putting him on posters for her medical practice home dressed as a girl said to promote that they were inclusive or whatever and it was very clear that you know, not that a child would be in a position to make a choice like that to begin with but I think most of the time they're not making that choice it's parents that want some kind of attention or or in the case of this woman to increase her business with her medical practice absolutely dead. Totally exploited great marketing Ploy for yeah her you know and to and for her to elevate herself in the community as this woke amazing person, you know, it's just like know your thoughts should just you know, if you get those type of you know, if you get people that believe that way that's great. Oh, well, you know, I mean, whatever I mean I get in the line of work I do there's people that will come in and want to change their genders. And yes, it's like I don't berate them and I don't beat a little them and some of them they'll come in and they'll I've had a gentleman come in and use the term loosely obviously and they want to take their drivers license photos and they're all dolled up as a chick but they're not going to change that em to an F without some Court getting involved and changing that birth certificate. So I mean and you know, and it's it's explainable in a in a, you know moderate way where you don't have a job. Be complete jerk about it. But you know, it's not something I truly believe in but you know, they're there for a service and I can go through and I don't I've had two girls that are married too young guys that are married and one wants to change their name to the other. You know, it's you we need to realize that I'm a firm believer really Trevor of what you do in your bedroom. That's your business and I really don't want to know I don't need to know I don't care to know and trying to get forced me into making it so that I approve you don't need my approval, you know between that's between you and God I don't care. I think you're you're hitting the nail on head is the they want to force some kind of approval. That's the agenda. It hasn't it panned out that way yet, but that's what they're pushing for. I mean a perfect example that I A lot of times when I talk about this get into is I don't know if you're familiar with Jordan Peterson up in Canada. No, not completely know he's a professor or was a professor. He's not anymore and part of the reason why he's not is Canada passed a law that said any public universities which is off of their universities. Um, you had to refer to students you were required by law and there were like criminal penalties. You could pay fines or go to jail. If you did not accommodate your students preferred genders. Oh their pronouns, right? Yes that these them have you and he said no no. No, this is this is an infringement on a professor's you know, right to free speech sure and even pointed out most of the time it's probably going to be a mistake. You know, you you don't want your students to feel uncomfortable. See it's not like you're going to on purpose misgender people, but the idea that it could be a crime. He he said this is ridiculous. And so now he's of course labeled on all month. Racist bigot all those words, but I I think that's where that's where you you run into huge problems. When these people any want to use the power of state to force their point of view on everyone else. You know every time you go ahead typically it's a really small amount of folks. I mean the percentages are tiny. Yeah, I mean there really is the communities that they're trying to force us identify and and to take into consideration in ways where they're benefited are very small amounts. I mean just because as the majority of the people with cameras and and Platforms in Hollywood and or on the news one to prop up these people as you know, they make them sound like there were surrounded and in actuality. It's a very small amount of folks and it's just like, you know, I really don't you don't need my approval go on with your life do what you need to do and I will do what need to do. I just, you know, just like me I'm not going to tell you what I'm doing in my bedroom, and I don't really need you to do what tell me doing. And there was some kind of commonality think it would settle down but there really is a need for them to be be a to be justified by me for some reason or could be legitimized by my opinion. They want to be they want to force me and others and to legitimize them and they say it's it's that's where the battle lies and it would be very different that gentleman in Canada. I mean what a brave man to be because we all know that the higher learning is that is a complete swamp of indoctrination. I mean good good solid kids from solid families are going into schools and Higher Learning and coming out these woke Millennials that are that have potentially good careers know if you heard about these they were immigrants and in one of the first riots that they were having they come in and they got arrested and they were actually

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DREAD NOT & THE DMV - Rich Maerk | #ManTools Podcast #82 - burst 07

Man Tools Podcast

06:46 min | 7 months ago

DREAD NOT & THE DMV - Rich Maerk | #ManTools Podcast #82 - burst 07

"And so I'm I appreciate the opportunity to tell my daughter bought a certain things that are true and give her my view because I don't want her to just be indoctrinated by some person that I'm telling her she needs to respect for teachers and summer school teachers and things like this and and just letting them have their way with her opinion and then indoctrinating her. I want her to know this is what my parents and they have explained it to me so though, it's hard job. It's it's it becomes difficult at times but it is possible. Yeah, the the thing with the the gender fluidity, especially when it comes to kids wage and we talked about it a bit on this show a while back. We covered a story where this luckily this man ended up winning the court case, but he was involved in a custody battle with ex-wife she's a doctor and she was it became very clear why she wanted to do this? She'd suddenly decided that their son was a girl and was putting him on posters for her medical practice home dressed as a girl said to promote that they were inclusive or whatever and it was very clear that you know, not that a child would be in a position to make a choice like that to begin with but I think most of the time they're not making that choice it's parents that want some kind of attention or or in the case of this woman to increase her business with her medical practice absolutely dead. Totally exploited great marketing Ploy for yeah her you know and to and for her to elevate herself in the community as this woke amazing person, you know, it's just like know your thoughts should just you know, if you get those type of you know, if you get people that believe that way that's great. Oh, well, you know, I mean, whatever I mean I get in the line of work I do there's people that will come in and want to change their genders. And yes, it's like I don't berate them and I don't beat a little them and some of them they'll come in and they'll I've had a gentleman come in and use the term loosely obviously and they want to take their drivers license photos and they're all dolled up as a chick but they're not going to change that em to an F without some Court getting involved and changing that birth certificate. So I mean and you know, and it's it's explainable in a in a, you know moderate way where you don't have a job. Be complete jerk about it. But you know, it's not something I truly believe in but you know, they're there for a service and I can go through and I don't I've had two girls that are married too young guys that are married and one wants to change their name to the other. You know, it's you we need to realize that I'm a firm believer really Trevor of what you do in your bedroom. That's your business and I really don't want to know I don't need to know I don't care to know and trying to get forced me into making it so that I approve you don't need my approval, you know between that's between you and God I don't care. I think you're you're hitting the nail on head is the they want to force some kind of approval. That's the agenda. It hasn't it panned out that way yet, but that's what they're pushing for. I mean a perfect example that I A lot of times when I talk about this get into is I don't know if you're familiar with Jordan Peterson up in Canada. No, not completely know he's a professor or was a professor. He's not anymore and part of the reason why he's not is Canada passed a law that said any public universities which is off of their universities. Um, you had to refer to students you were required by law and there were like criminal penalties. You could pay fines or go to jail. If you did not accommodate your students preferred genders. Oh their pronouns, right? Yes that these them have you and he said no no. No, this is this is an infringement on a professor's you know, right to free speech sure and even pointed out most of the time it's probably going to be a mistake. You know, you you don't want your students to feel uncomfortable. See it's not like you're going to on purpose misgender people, but the idea that it could be a crime. He he said this is ridiculous. And so now he's of course labeled on all month. Racist bigot all those words, but I I think that's where that's where you you run into huge problems. When these people any want to use the power of state to force their point of view on everyone else. You know every time you go ahead typically it's a really small amount of folks. I mean the percentages are tiny. Yeah, I mean there really is the communities that they're trying to force us identify and and to take into consideration in ways where they're benefited are very small amounts. I mean just because as the majority of the people with cameras and and Platforms in Hollywood and or on the news one to prop up these people as you know, they make them sound like there were surrounded and in actuality. It's a very small amount of folks and it's just like, you know, I really don't you don't need my approval go on with your life do what you need to do and I will do what need to do. I just, you know, just like me I'm not going to tell you what I'm doing in my bedroom, and I don't really need you to do what tell me doing. And there was some kind of commonality think it would settle down but there really is a need for them to be be a to be justified by me for some reason or could be legitimized by my opinion. They want to be they want to force me and others and to legitimize them and they say it's it's that's where the battle lies and it would be very different that gentleman in Canada. 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Dr. Andrew Newberg

Dr. Drew Podcast

06:24 min | 9 months ago

Dr. Andrew Newberg

"Everybody podcast. You know we appreciate your support of those people who support us and we keep this thing going. Keep Mr Perla happy and don't forget all the goings on DOT COM dot com. We've got a stream their broadcast very regularly a call in show on Sunday, and then the after dark. Out of course most days, our guest is Andrew Newberg. Latest book is the rabbis, brain mystics, moderns, and the science of Jewish thinking. It's available now. Neuro, theology is what we're talking about you can follow Dr Newburg at at Andrew Newberg and HE WBRC DOT com. Twitter at Andrew, Newberg and Dutch newer. You came highly recommended by Dr Dan Een. WHO said you must speak with him, so we all well. He's a terrific guy and I. would have told you the same thing in reverse. Yards a three way again, so so talk first. Let's start with the book. What what what did you learn writing? This could prompted you write the book and what is in there? Well you know I've been studying the relationship between spirituality in the brain for many many years and and that has kind of developed into this field of neuro. Theology you know what? How we look at and understand the relationship link between the human rain in our religious and spiritual cells. Part of why I got into the discussion. Autism was that I'm sorry it's all good. We Love Dogs against. During the quarantine everyone does it guy I know I know? so part and part of the reason why I got into hopping rabbis, brain is the idea that. We can really start to think about neuro theology from the perspective of different traditions, and of course my own background is Judaism. I was raised in a reform Jewish household up armistead, and so it just seemed like a very natural kind of approach to be able to start with that but ultimately neuro theology is something that is really for every type of tradition, and so hopefully this is really just the start of it's the ability for us to look at a Christianity, and it's denominations. Islam. Hinduism Buddhism all the traditions from this perspective to see what we can learn what we can understand in terms of how the brain health us to be relig- religious and spiritual. And, so you know this this whole idea of neurobiology anthropology spirituality stuff. That's how I found Jordan. Peterson I'm interested in people that combined anthropologists psychology. Then ask the question. Why do our brains do that right? And then is there some transcendent meaning? That's a whole other question, but wire. Why did the human trains do that and? It gives me A. Absolute intense fascination. So how'd you? What's your posture as somebody that evaluates these things from the neuroscience recovering from multiple different perspectives. Where where are you evaluating this? Well, certainly you know I. Do feel like Neuro Theology as a as a field based on the work that I'm trying to do is is something that is very multidimensional, and and really does kind of come at things from a variety of different perspectives I suppose. Because my background is neuro imaging I'm there certainly that? But as you mentioned just a moment ago? You know part of what excites me. in in terms of all of the information that we can get at from this perspective is that it ranges from the very practical to the very esoteric so on a very practical level. We can ask questions about well, if somebody. Is Religious Is that protective to protect them from depression. Does IT PROTECT THEM FROM SUBSTANCE ABUSE? Obviously a big area that I know you've been involved in for many years. And, there's a lot of evidence to support added. Certainly you know programs like alcoholics, anonymous which really invokes a spiritual concept. has also been very effective for helping people with alcoholism, so they're very tactical piece, yeah! Stay. With us for a second. Is there something about spirituality that changes the brain in such a way that you can look at the imaging and say oh? That's why they're regulating better. That's why the oncologist so. What changed in their brain. That might help them. There substances well there. There are a variety of changes that occur. does depend a little bit on what practices in what the person is doing so for example you know when we study a practice like prayer, we find that perhaps that happens to increase the activity in their frontal lobe. We've actually done some studies that have looked at certain transmitters in a found a spiritual retreat program in intensive retreat. Officers the amount of dopamine in their brain, and these are the lives up to regulate our emotional responses. So when you're talking about you know having an addiction being anxious having. If your frontal lobes are working better because you are engaged in spiritual practice or bears religious spiritual beliefs. Then that's going to help you psychologically and similarly. If, you're really immersed in this then it changes your tone in levels, the dopamine levels in the brain much like the drugs that people would take an antidepressant or a drug that might help them to calm down, and so we really see this kind of an impact of these practices on a lot of different levels, and it also changes the other important set of structures of the LIMBIC system. The emotional centers of the brain and these practices helped to calm those down so that people aren't quite as reactive and you know when when you think about what religions do I mean? mean part of the thing is. There are a lot of ingredients right I mean they're. They're the practices. We were just talking about, but there's the believes the comfort that they get. There's the social support they get so there's a lot of different elements that are very contributory to helping people when they're engaged. They're religious or spiritual south I'M GONNA. Keep drilling on the alcohol for a second, because they will often talk about these moments of change where they feel like something has stepped in from the outside and they're. They're different. Sectors of Swish changed, and I will tell you. Look very carefully. At these folks they usually are preceded by some sort of experience of novelty in a relationship like the as though they are seeing them, so they can see themselves with a new pair of glasses and that moment causes. What they want to call

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on The Charlie Kirk Show

The Charlie Kirk Show

04:02 min | 9 months ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on The Charlie Kirk Show

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on The Charlie Kirk Show

The Charlie Kirk Show

04:17 min | 9 months ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on The Charlie Kirk Show

"Type and Charlie Kirk show hit. Subscribe give us a five star review. And, if you do so, we'll send you a signed copy of the magazine Doctrine right buckle up! Jordan Peterson Charlie Kirk. Your joy it here we go, Charlie what you've done is incredible here. Maybe Charlie Kirk is on the college campus. Know we are lucky to have charlie. Charlie coach running the White House folks. I WANNA. Thank Joe. He's an incredible guy. His Spirit, his love of this country's done an amazing job. Building one of the most powerful youth organisations ever created turning point. USA, he will not embrace the ideas that have destroyed countries destroyed lives, and we are going to fight for freedom campuses across the country. That's why we are here. Dr Thank.

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on The $100 MBA Show

The $100 MBA Show

08:25 min | 1 year ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on The $100 MBA Show

"One of the things about history and books that incorporate stories from history is that explains how things play out as S. human beings and as I say history pizza selfish because human nature is a real thing. So what happens when we don't do certain things don't follow certain rules. Does what are the consequences. What are the benefits when we do follow those rules? That's what this book is all about. Some of these rules may seem overly simplistic but explains hey eight as simple as that sounds. It's incredibly effective and let me share with you. The first Rul he shares in the book and here it is rule number one. Stand up straight straight with your shoulders back. You have anything. What like straighten your back? Are you serious. Yes and he backs us up with incredible. Oh evidence how this can help you. This is a science called physiology. We're basically you change the way you move your body and it changes your mind changes how you perform chain how people perceive you. There's so much that we don't know about how this thing that we have called. Our body can affect us in in so many ways he talks about how the week the poor the stress throughout history have died. I they don't survive in whether they are actually Ashley Week. Somebody who has bad posture who hunches over. Whether they're sitting or standing or how they carry themselves on the day to day basis the world will perceive see them as weak. They're more vulnerable of being taken advantage. They're more vulnerable of not getting what they want out of life. This is just human nature. This is the reality of the way the world works people make a judgment based on what they see. I before anything else. So if somebody sees somebody who's hunched over who doesn't look confident that doesn't have their backstreet. That's not going into a situation believing in themselves. They're not going to believe in them. They're going to discount them. They're going to feel like they could be walked over. And unfortunately that's just how it is. Some of us are not very conscious of the way we present ourselves to the world. And that's just because we might think. Hey My work is my car and what I can produce really what matters. It doesn't matter what I look like or how I care myself and you might think hey I live on the Internet. I do everything on the Internet. This is fine to appoint the world still is human to human. We still interact in some way whether it's a video call or worth seeing your image orga conferences or meet UPS or client meetings. This will hold you back. At some point you can carry on not worrying about the way you're being mm presented to the world for certain point and it's going to hold you back and what Jordan Peterson is simply saying that. Just be conscious of the way you carry yourself and and the easiest thing you could do is just to be conscious of your posture. Are you standing up straight with her shoulders back. That alone creates the image image of confidence of reassurance of health of strength and this goes for both of course men and women and in any profession he also gets into how your physical state can change your mental and emotional. See by keeping your back straight keeping your shoulders back it keeps you positive positive. It keeps you motivated. Some really encourage to even change your body when you're feeling down or not feeling good for feeling demotivated of eighty two feeling just in a Rut. One of the best things you can do is go for a brisk walk with your backs straight shoulders back taking some fresh air or at the very least. Toss your desk chair aside and stand up you can cause a reaction inside yourself to say. Hey let's change things up a bit. I love this rule because I personally we have tried this earlier in my career. I didn't have such great posture in my early. Twenty S. Yes I played sports and I was active but in the professional setting setting. I wasn't so confident. I'll still green still figuring out my career and a lot of that was displayed in my posture. But then I made a conscious effort to keep my back straight three when I'm standing when I'm sitting when I'm in public when we're in front of people and that just became my posture all the time. It's helped me in so so many ways. I can't tell you this is why implore you to try this and be conscious of this even if you do have good posture right now Hari. Let me get into another another rule that really resonated with me and that's rule number to treat yourself like someone you're responsible for helping. It's super helpful for you to see yourself as a different entity. I know that sounds strange. But if you were going to take care of somebody if you were going to advise somebody if we're going to give them Let's say a regimen. How would you do that? You would give him advice. who'd write things down your tell that person you need to sleep more you exercise more? Eat Right we're very good at telling other people what they should do and giving them advice and prescribing them things that can help them so what he's saying here. Is You WanNa do that for yourself. You want to step back from yourself for a moment and treat yourself like somebody else somebody that you know. What would you tell yourself herself to improve things to change things to solve problems that you're currently having to relieve stress? If you had a friend come to you and say hey. I'm feeling stressed out. Work is really getting to me. My business is really a high pressure. What should I do? You might advise them. Hey listen it's not the end of the world. Why don't you just take a few hours off this afternoon? It's not going to kill the business but it's going to recenter you and recharge you Gopher Swim Gopher. Walk get a massage. Enjoy good movie go to head start the next day. You're going to feel one hundred percent better. That's what you'd say to our friend. Satele that to yourself and implement and resist the urge to say. That's it's different my situation's different. I'm not like my friend know. Give yourself advice you'd give others. Here's another rule that I absolutely love rule number three make friends with people who want the best for you. The keywords here are that we want the best for you. Okay you need people that are actively helping helping you get to where you want to go in your life. Life is hard as it is okay. Businesses hard to continually growing EH cheating. Your goals month after month year after year is not easy as it is. It gets even harder when you're around people that don't help you get there. Let me clarify what this means. Well there's people in your life that you know of that are detractors. These are very very known in the world. People that so you can easily identify like hey these people you know pooh-poohing ideas they don't support me. They tell me to quit when I tell them. Hey I'm trying to get in shape. They make jokes wchs. These people are poisoned. Basically you really don't have the luxury of entertaining a minute with them. A second with them because they will drag you down this these people obvious and this is not what we're talking about here. The ones that are not so obvious are people that are passive Kinda like. Hey that's cool but let's catch to movie. Hey that's cool. Let's talk about something else you're working out. That's awesome man. Let me tell you about my problems. People that are passing are helping or hurting still. Don't help you right. They don't help you in any way. And you've heard me say this a billion times on the show your time is your biggest asset and if you're spending time your time with with other people that are not helping you get to where you want to go in life and in business and all that kind of stuff then you need to be conscious of that and you need to kind of limit the time you spend with them and some of these people in your life you really have no choice. Their family members right. Hopefully they're not you know nuclear family members because you want people that are super supportive That are with you all the time but they might be an uncle and aunt a cousin and you'll see them once in a while on holidays and it's not a big deal and you can live live with it. I'm not one to say that. Hey cough all your family members. Because they're not helping you cheever goals. No that's not a reasonable request nor do I think it's healthy but the people you you spend the most time with your friends you spent time with on the weekend who your travel with who you speak.

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podnews

02:18 min | 2 years ago

High profile creators leave Patreon

"Patriot a crowd funding platform used by many podcasters has removed a number of far-right creators, including Milo Yannopoulos and Cal Benjamin youtuber better known as Sargon of Akkad for what patriot claims is hate speech. However Sam Harris host of the waking up podcast one of the top grossing patriot creators has deleted his account in response accusing the company of political bias and other patriot creators, Dave Rubin and Jordan Peterson have promised to build an alternative platform, quote that will not be susceptible to arbitrary censorship. There are reports of many patriot supporters leaving the platform in protest, if you're one of them and you'd like us to Bill you directly we've worked out an alternative if you want it, please let us know. Updates at pod news dot net. And we'll sort that yesterday. We reported that apple podcasts has mysteriously removed many reviews and ratings from their service those that contacted us. Reported losing around half their ratings and reviews issues was seen throughout the whole app. Store. Not just for podcasts. Some noted that review removals were seemingly at random and not related to a purge on automated or spammy reviews at time of going to press podcasters report that their ratings are back to normal. And are they actually important to you need ratings and reviews to get into the what's hot section in apple podcasts. Daniel j Lewis has been checking the data, and he knows the answer. You'll find it linked from the show notes Jew under what Adam curry, thanks have NPR's RAD podcast analytic service. Do have the gall to say, we won't know who you are. When this takes place is just a lie of epic proportions life, she addresses as you can feel it. You'll know what phone you have this more in his podcast. Meanwhile, surprisingly to many pocket costs have confirmed that they have no plans to include rat in their roadmap the podcast app. His part-owned by. NPR TNT in cadence thirteen launching a companion podcast to crime television drama. I am the night the podcast called root of evil will be eight episodes focusing on the real story and real people behind the dramatized crime series, and resonate recordings. Have added a tutorial on how to use audacity feel podcast

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on Pick the Brain

Pick the Brain

03:08 min | 2 years ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on Pick the Brain

"Will Aaron what were you thought? Somebody said, well, I want to reiterate again, somebody that studying psychology. This guy has a profound understanding of of kind of psychological makeup and this the psyche. And so it's really it's like a deep thinking situation where I really had to concentrate understand or to try and understand everything he was saying. And I thought that it made a lot of sense. Yeah. He's he's a very articulate guy. And one of the things that he said he said by accepting the fact that life is suffering but Buddha by except defect the life of suffering. He transcended the limitations that are part of more mortality. I mean, that's pretty any said don't be the idea was don't be too attached to things don't let what you are stop you from being what you could be right. I think that is a very very universally effective phrase. So again, this is an example of whether you agree with Jordan Peterson the whole I challenge you to take a statement like that and not find some value in Meriden. It's interesting to view self-improvement from the perspective of humility. And meaning like he does that's one thing that I that. I that kind of stood out to me, he talks a lot about this whole conversation is wrapped around the idea of meaning and obviously as someone who's a psychologist. He sees patients that struggle with really difficult things. And has himself gone through some pretty difficult things, I know from his personal history. So he's never he's never one of those like the world is beautiful through rose colored glasses kind of guy. Right. It's interesting because he's kind of like one of those pessimistic optimists, right? Where he's got such a clinical view of the world that he he talks about suffering a real thing and people are doing it all the time, and then attach it so closely to meaning that you're like someone who is suffering can really find a lot of meaning in what they're doing. And that's the whole point of the conversation. Right. Absolutely. And one of the other things that he's talked about there's another quote that he didn't say in this video that he's also pretty well known for which is basically giving the definition for a meaningful life, and the definition to him for a meaningful life is that everything that you do matters. But that's the definition of a meaningful life in it. I haven't thought about it like that. But it seems. Ups. I think it is. I mean that seems simple and kind of true, right? Yeah. And that that's another way of saying I'm going to do another shameless. Plug of my book. But no that the idea that I talk about how to get shit done. It's I talk about it in a different way. I say that I I say stop doing the things that don't move the needle for you. Stop doing things that move other people's agendas forward start doing things that really what's the word filled in matter to you..

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on The School of Greatness with Lewis Howes

The School of Greatness with Lewis Howes

01:44 min | 2 years ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on The School of Greatness with Lewis Howes

"Aristotle said suffering becomes beautiful when anyone bears great calamities with cheerfulness not through insensibility but through greatness of mines we are back with the second part of this two part series with dr jordan peterson and for those that don't know who dr john peterson is he's a professor at the university of toronto a clinical psychologist and author of twelve rules for life an antidote to chaos which is sold over a million and a half copies in the last six months and he has taken the world over by storm make sure to check out part one of this series which is all about responsibility and meaning we went deep in that episode and this is picking up on the second part of that first one this is all about how to deal with something that is brutally painful and dr jordan peterson dives into some of the most painful and emotional parts of his life and how he's dealt personally with suffering with his own life and with the lives of those closest around him also how to avoid a victim mentality when illness strikes we dive in deep on this topic and how most people focus on this mentality and they're never going to live a great life because of that also why we should keep children vulnerable and teach them to be strong some important topics on that about kids in raising children as well no matter how much challenge they may be facing i'm super excited about this one make sure guys check it out part one i share this with your friends as well this is lewis house dot com slash six six five tag myself at lewis house.

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on The Rubin Report

The Rubin Report

01:45 min | 3 years ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on The Rubin Report

"And before we start discussing philosophy the human soul taus funny has to arch hi are you excited as i am wonderful to have this forum here i'm so excited actually started with a dinner we had enough lanta and the idea of bringing dave and jordan peterson here came about and actually happened so i'm just going to introduce not take too much time of the people standing here sitting here sorry started jordan peterson dr peterson is a professor at the university of toronto was nominated for the prestigious levinson teaching prize when he was a professor at harvard and is regarded by his current university of toronto students and colleagues as one of the three tutti lifechanging teachers dr peterson is prominent province intellect international speaker and the public personality they've ruben ruben is a talk show host comedian and tv personality is the host of the rubin report talk show about big ideas and free speech has been eroded for his but it politically incorrect and honest approach to this housing complex issues and current events focusing on politics religion and the media dr you're on brooke is the chairman of the board of the enron institute and he's the koffler with don watkins of the pursuit of wealth equal is unfair and their national bestseller of free market revolution two thousand twelve he is the host of the on brooke show on block talk radio and greg sal.

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on Remade in America with Bassem Youssef

Remade in America with Bassem Youssef

04:36 min | 3 years ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on Remade in America with Bassem Youssef

"And there you have it jordan peterson doesn't feel like an outsider and that's all for our conversation with jordan peterson as always i learned a lot from this jet but as i mentioned at the top this was not episode frankly jordan's politics and his rhetoric are the opposite of our first few guests and he presents a lot of people think are insider points of view including his opposition to the use of the term white privilege we had some intense disagreements i only played some of them for you but i also found myself agreeing with some of children's points view in particular i think free speech is a big deal and agreed that we have to protect it so that people from different political persuasions can continue to learn from each other even as we agree with each other also i'm sort of you at this at interviewing people i'll confess i was nervous before calling jordan see i did a lot of prefer this interview read articles watch videos and let me tell you jordan can hold his own in an interview he dressed down all sorts of people who try to take him on now i'm not saying i'm the second coming of anderson cooper anderson if you're listening come on my show but my producers were so proud of me after this interview they made me a little present and we are going to play it for you now it's all the times jordan agreed with me or told me that i made a good point hit a guys follett it's perfectly reasonable that doesn't mean that your point is well taken your idea that the concerns are more local i think is in our true and although i do think that there is some reasonable objection in your in europe discussion that's a different outlook that that's a good objection that's nice the power of editing i will plead that right before i fall asleep on my caster mattress tonight and to be to jordan i altered my fish hero agreed with if you have thoughts on this episode or just have a question for me you can tweet at me or call me at seven eight five for best or send an email to remain that cafe dot com you might just end up on the show in fact this is usually where we play you voicemail but this week i would like to read you an email we got from a reader that just made my week it's about terry action to last week's episode featuring lesbian comedian cameron proceed to the email writer s for reasons that will become obvious not name here it is their best i am subscribed to remain in america podcast many of the episodes have been very inspiring and informative for me but this latest episode has touched my heart i am closed bisexual and know that many of the people in my life would not understand and accept me if then you i to grew up in the midwest and misunderstood my friendships with women before meeting people who shared my sexuality i'm still looking for an opportunity to come out and cameron story was fantastic encouragement hearing the success stories of parents being open and accepting gives me hope that my own story might not explode in my face you see at the certain point of my life i did not accept people who are different than me i did not accept people who had different opinions different orientational let cameron or the lovely person who send this email it took me time and i had to learn a lot about the word about humanity now looking back i don't understand why can't we accept people for who they are people who oppose this point of view they always come to me what you're gonna do if your daughter if you son came out what you're gonna do and say are they still my children shouldn't i be loving them new metro what are we putting conditions on how to love people or children or loved ones our friends you see by not accepting people for who they are we're making them outside or to even own children we let our believes our ideologies dictate how we feel about other human beings and that is terrible for whoever wrote this email thank you for this note and i wish you happiness and peace of mind.

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on Blamestorming

Blamestorming

01:56 min | 3 years ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on Blamestorming

"There's something that is created some you know it's always usually an acronym or something or shortening of something and now people are going to guam on it now you have all these guys that listen there were probably i went to high school they were thousand kids in my high school on out of the five hundred boys four hundred of them were probably quote in cells but we didn't have that thing so they didn't gather they didn't look at a guy named jordan peterson and look it look to him as a leader all they did was deal with stuff and learn coping skills now when everybody has these things to glum onto coping skills go out of the way don't on had there's no in copes with anything anymore it's like you take a pill for it or you know you get a little bit of endorphins every time you look at your phone but like no one knows how to set like oh shit i'm having a bad day like let me figure out how to like calm myself it's like all i'm having a bad day let me go drive a truck through crowd that's what we should recommend to the insoles meditation you'll do a guided meditation so take you say coping skills it's also social skills if the kids are always on the phone like i do kids today don't ask each other out on dates it's all wanna meet up and it's like it's reject doing so i can't make you don't tell them you're right some of them are interacting on the phone and they're doing fine because their facetime and they're texting each other all the time that having conversation but yeah a lot dating on their two types though are the ones who are just talking to people who are safe to talk to but i was saying do you remember when you had he would sneak one of your dad's beers to get the courage to call the girl up you had to really you know get your in you had your little notes you had a conversation flowing now it's just clicking on the phone right point because that's exactly what a lot of these people who are frayed that there permanently going to be celebrate they're not realizing women want you to take a risk exactly what you to put yourself out there and risk being humiliated a little bit because otherwise.

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"jordan peterson" Discussed on Blamestorming

Blamestorming

01:59 min | 3 years ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on Blamestorming

"I what i think the whole incident their mind it's like if they had the money or the power than they think they'd have it right that's one of their series and so like one of their i guess the pied piper of in cells is a jordan peterson who is a therapist and he believes in forced monogamy where he feels that the state should force women to marry men because on left to their own devices women would only be interested in rich attractive men and that the state needs to step in and actually but does not enough richard tractive men for every woman it's not ninety but i think that they're under the impression but i'm saying if it was all right even if it was under the impression that a few thousand men are having sex with like dozens of women each and and the problem is they don't realize each of those women are not monogamous to that guy not a harem when they're having sex with these women hands hands are are they they in in a sex cult because if they're in a sex cult than it is a harem well yes a sexual there's a harem but i'm saying i don't think any of these women are not having sex with other people it's it's a lease with an option to buy yes i think that same women are having sex with all the different quote chad's out there there are some species where the alpha male is the only one who copulate s the alpha males the only one who gets sexual opportunities right there's a number of species that operate that way but we're not one of them we're more like bona bows you know we have multiple partners everybody can get laid somewhere so to me it's just a thing where they they don't think it's fair that they can't fuck the hottest women in not fair but you know what i think is fair right even even asking that's what i mean even asking for a expecting that is just a little bit you know knife the funniest thing by jordan peterson is that he's right wing he doesn't believe in affirmative action or anything socialist except for redistribution of pushing.

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Vox's The Weeds talk about the Intellectual Dark Web

Vox's The Weeds

02:00 min | 3 years ago

Vox's The Weeds talk about the Intellectual Dark Web

Matthew Yglesias Dera Lynn Officer New York Times Jane Ben Shapiro Jordan Peterson Bari Weiss Christina Hoff
"jordan peterson" Discussed on Start the Week

Start the Week

02:01 min | 3 years ago

"jordan peterson" Discussed on Start the Week

"Jordan peterson yukon you can't object to that entirely because your right specifically about revenge in a sense of vengeance and and the moments at which it is reasonable to to release that it's not that easy to discriminate between the desire for revenge and the desire for justice so very tight and fine line to draw and so obviously justices something worth pursuing but i suppose justices minimal necessary force to put things right in revenge is taking it farther than that and it risks spiraling out of control which attends to do i'm but it but it's reasonable isn't it for women who find themselves in a position that they regard is unjust to take to take quite strong actions i've i never said anything in the book that would re would ask people to stop transforming societies in a positive direction like i said the fact that i described the existence of hierarchies outside the human realm and point out that you can't attribute to the existence of hierarchies to any particular political system doesn't mean that i justify the facts of their existence or ignorant about their shortcomings do wrong about revenge like this thing you say you say it won't print in book when should you stop pushing back against depression despite the danger when you start messing secret fantasies of revenge when your life is being poisoned on your imagination fills with wish to devour and destroy i'm struck by that because it seems to take symptoms of an individual disorder a paranoia really something quite dangerous and endorse it as a description of the world at large no it just points out that when you walk home from work and you're thinking about violent things in relationship to your boss that you probably have something to say that you should have said a long time ago and you have to pay attention to those dark fantasies it built at the back of your imagination because they tell you when you're not being courageous enough in your life in our building up the kind of resentment that could explode outward and destroy things it's no justification for it it's an observation again i i'm gonna tend to hefty muhammad hey i'm curious tonight because.

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 discussed on Jocko Podcast

Jocko Podcast

00:24 sec | 3 years ago

discussed on Jocko Podcast

"And although the two right on anyway lightning bolt fire yemen emojis norman there don't over to a double shocker though asanka what's the highest level of a moute emoji approval you can send me three lightning bolt three fires three shuckers three removed first your theory of everything even before it's like a like you should into four for his daimary all laughing depends on what i say though so like if there's if it's a weird all the foul in the word we'll who they'll be like that's that can be infinite rudy leg if i played i don't know you not like you'll tell me something exciting and i'll put it not an dang instead of de a angie i'll put d lower case eh depending level of excitement a in that can go infinitely by the way back in spanned twenty text messages even over twenty days that's how infinite it can be in the first half of the is lower case the second half of the asia upper case the an maybe ten ends cheese all capital there and you know then it a did leave him it just may as well like i said i think you communicate well i be as a thumbs up on a on a theories note in regards to communication that is affective you know what i mean view this as a level of excitement new as opposed to cool periods area no you're you're you're your with clip x ray of blood in his life a anyway next question if you have already come all good hey is a to booed i guess yeah the rainbow airbus does fits loathing good dearest jaakko speaking of lighthearted uh nice emotions dearest jaakko due to skip reform okay my mother jukka what is the difference between extreme ownership versus the easy button can you elaborate i just need a little more clarification to connect the dots in my situation okay uh again so as a leader yes of course you are supposed to take ownership of everything extreme ownership of everything that's what we talk about all the time but does this mean that you say i will do this and i will do that and i will do the other thing i will do everything that the team is supposed to be doing no that's that's not what i'm talking about now 'ownership does mean that you get things done you are responsible for making sure things get done that's what 'ownership is our team is in charge of something if our team is in charge were project and and we don't get it not it's my fault sunny he bielsa's so that's that's what it is it means you take responsible do things go wrong it means you take responsibility for problems and you get them fixed that's definitely ownership now the easy button and when i talk of easy button in a negative way because that's what i'm doing here it's when your subordinates come to use and say how should i do this or or what's the best way to execute this or can you can you tell me a good plan on on how we should make this happen or even haters bad news qin you come tell my people because i don't really want to do it now if you say yes to all those types of things uh on a regular basis then what you're doing is you are actually you're actually stunting the growth of your subordinate leader because instead when you come to mean you say hey jaakko get this mr we got a plant how do you think we should do it if i say okay we should come in from the northeast you should do you to set up a overwatch position here he's moved the target from this direction you did didn't learn anything you just took what i told you in san jose will go come up with your best plan and come back to me briefly on it and so now you might be kinda bummed out 'cause you wanted union i wanna have to do this extra work but now you've got to go to lecture work but now you're learning and in two or three times uniting income asked me more you're in a coma the plan and because we already did a cycle cycle after cycle of you said hey here's my plan of mecenate make this adjustment and you come back next time you say here's my plan as it make this little adjustment and eventually you know to make those adjustments on your own and now you can do by yourself and that's what we want i don't want to stunt the growth of my subordinate leaders so i don't want to be an easy button um so you're providing the easy button like that's what they're talking about when they see easy button you yet if you don't want to be that you don't want to be an easy about your everybody else and are also no one's going to be able to take your job from you which is actually what you want you or i want to make every one of my subordinates so good that they can take my job for me that means i can step up and look forward and look out and they can do a better job of handling what they've got hand one eventually when it's my time to get promoted i got people to take my place and we're all good um of course that doesn't mean we them blinder let them failed don't do that gives you want to give them rope but you don't give him enough rope to hang themselves he'll you give him enough rope that they may be get a little not in the rope and he gives clear but sloppy new and then you go over to me say mater let me help you get that untied and now you give them the rope again so you don't eat you know in in a in the military you don't let someone go dual mission dutch real where someone's gonna get hurt killed were mission failure because you wanted to not be the easy but no you don't do that the in disability in sector you don't let some one lose a big client or lose a bunch of money or make a mistake the costs a bunch of capital because you didn't want to be these about no no arms now might you let some will make a little mistake scher little mistake the cost of a little bit of money new so they learn a lesson scher but you know what i'm phone your place you don't let them hangar hang themselves so that's that next rush dearest jaakko a question for you and the podcast are fire department promotion process has roleplaying scenarios those roleplaying scenarios i lose points because i'm not outwardly passionate quote unquote enough i would have to fake it to succeed and i'm not a fake person is this worth it to fake it when seeking promotion it's not like i'm gonna fake at once they attain the promotion and k this is a this is a very cool question on this question a lot and actually on the sky sent me this question on facebook i responded very quickly and simply my response was play the game you so fake it play the game yeah and and you know he wrote back got it yeah good for him he ask is what everybody i think thinks i'm going to say is like no you yourself know the game united up there an act all passionate about stuff you're you you hardcourt no the a play the game now you because you what you're doing you play the game you want wanna do good job and you're doing your job and dui your job to any job requires some level of faking it you now does this mean that you're a fake person no immediate you're trying to do a good job think if every time that your boss came in with a dumb idea and you your reaction was to say that's a dumb idea mia it is going to get you anywhere or every time a costumer had an eighty eighty idiotic complaint about something you were like hey you're an idiot or every time your wife said uh you know is this chicken dry avery said it's drier than a piece of cardboard in the saharan desert is that is that the eu are would you would you benefit from that how would that work out their answers you would he would not work out well in any those cases you have to play the game you have to play the game and i know i know that that's hard and i'll tell you what i did to get myself over playing the game i i turned it into a game in my head i was like arm i'm going to build a relationship with this boss that i don't like me to do it new from nabil the best way that's my game i'm like i'm gonna become this guy's bro right but when i was at officer candidate school you've got to do the most ridiculous rules they have his rules that you've got a follow that were really annoying and you know what i did i i executed the rules harger and more stringently than that anybody fought was even remotely necessary view and had fun with it i played that game i you know if i've got appear that may be arm competing with ford or some tension i'm going to support them and we'll play the game that's what i'm saying you got to play the game now this make me a bad person or fake present no why because you're doing this the reason you're playing the game the reason you're act asked acting this way is four benevolent reasons right this this guy at the fire department he he's not trying to get promoted so that he can usurp the powers it and takeover no he trying to get into a position where he can better lead and serve and and step up and raise young leaders underneath him back that's what you're trying to do you're not trying to sneak into a position you don't deserve and you're not trying to build relationships so you can take advantage of people for your own benefit that vat would be a fake person media in my opinion you're trying to move but if you're trying to move up in ranked so you can do better and you can take care of the troops you can increase readiness there's nothing wrong with that and if you don't play the game twos at some level you're not gonna get promoted and guess what then people that played the game that might be less less qualified to do that job they're going to get the job because you wouldn't play the game you're too stubborn your ego was too big so you've got to put that aside and i'll tell you something else learn from what you are being told him if if you're showing no passion if you're showing like zero motion that's bad people will not connect with you and if they don't connect with you they don't follow you if they don't connect with you you're not building relationships the people if you don't have relationships with people you don't have a good team so show a little bit of passion sometimes you got a fake it that's fine yours just a really on passionate person core show a little bit about russian fake it a little bit learn it a little bit yes actually gonna be beneficial is i would love for you to fake it for what a while until you you start carrying who what like what are you not passionate about are you not passionate about the job are you not passionate about your firefighter about saving people's lives are you not passionate about having a squared away department you of course you're passionate about that stuff otherwise you wouldn't be you wouldn't be sent me a message saying hey how do i get advance outright to how do i do better yeah you are passionate about it and that's fine it's good um i say it all the time you know if you don't have any motions your robot and robots people don't fall robots new so sometimes you gotta show a little bit of that a motion of passion to connect with people that's okay via don't be scared homi scaring yet because that's really the thing right is showing it of course your passion and above but showing it two different people this summit brian i did it how on a always be like showing how fired up i am all the time or whatever in in whatever scenario or whatever but you're right that does help delic when he williams excitable it's and there's a there's a dichotomy here you because there's some people that will show too much emotion yeah and there some people that will not show enough you want to be some were balanced in the middle as true and i dig it to one because it does feel like faking it because they can inflict while the tradition is like to be fired up on the sidelines let's klesko you know like that can but probably some of the energy for that as some empty canada's nervous you want to focus on what you got to do whatever you know but it's kinda part of the game you know in in it does help the people around you to things like okay he's fired up okay maybe not part up now but he's going to get me fired up you know any kind of like helps the team but uh the athamna under doesn't feel comfortable to do expressed outwardly you know i'll passion but it helps both his fake like faking it that's like a framing thing to you know like via frame it like your faking it versus i use that you'd playing the game bright usually in the game because you want to do a better job yeah i wanna get promoted you wanna you wanna get promoted for the right reasons there's nothing wrong with that yeah that's at yeah that's good i think if you can kind of banned in stretch yourself in an uncomfortable way for the benefit you know the ito i think were people i think that term of faking it no one wants to be a fake purse right right yes which is which is why you're correct in that the way that's framed un is i being a fake person you and no one wants to be a fake person you at the same time you have to grow you and you have to adjust and if you're going to be in a leadership position you're gonna do things that you don't that you wouldn't apparant how do that all the time anew house in the military you know i worked with people that i may offset the store or i work with people both below me the chain of command and above me and the change grant that i despised they never knew it they don't know who they are right now dang but you know the only way member that a you got it was that made me a fake person no makes me a professional may me a professional doing my job because i was going to be let some little personal motion of minor some of that guys does this not like that so i'm knocking white came in and now we have an adversary relationship and now i got a problem you know i'm playing the game play the game is the line what is the fake person genuinely well uh i was going to you asked what the line is the line is if you go against what your principles are you dose of you've got fundamental principles that they say oh if you want this job what we need you to do is fill out a report about billy saying that he did something wrong that you know he didn't do wrong right and you go no marking to do that that that that's what that's bad writing that's now now you're not just playing the game now you're going against your principles of being an honest person about what's happening yeah this that's really what it is rate the honesty when you're a fake so like if sums like oh i'm faking it or or i'm being a fake persson heison a fake person like turning on some passions manufactured passion for the sake of the team and stuff like that that doesn't feel like you're a fake person figures is kinda like you'll sit like some on enough for example someone's in the room and you're like hey you're getting great that shirt looks great and you're doing a great job they leave in velika sucks right add their nominees all tell you the different seeing the reason that someone the reason that you would consider psalm one it'd be angry that some was a fake person is when they are doing it because beat they're doing it for personal benefit on they're they're saying the like if if if if you were my boss and i come in and i say hey echo our every like your new haircut looks great i really think that clear co looks down but i'm going to say that anyways an everyone knows that all i want to do is get that next promotion yeah that's be fake yeah mic that's being fake but if if i'm saying because what am i really do at what i'm doing is on on a making an adaptation i'm glowing i'm i'm doing something that om uncomfortable with because i know it's going to make me a better leader that's what i should be doing is trying to become a better leader now again if that if if in this whatever organization what you have to do is is do something that you don't agree with and it's it's the wrong thing to do and you do it anyways will than than that's that's that's that's almost a totally different thick there's that then there's hey i'm gonna kiss ass room so that i get promoted it's all about me and that's probably the what we think of the definition of a fake person here next question i saw a weakness in you on your latest podcast you seem to overlook the fact that some infant children were raised in undisciplined environments with undisciplined parents they grow up having modelled these undisciplined examples i hate the fact that i have growth undisciplined behaviour solving this is a major priority of my life you have zero idea of what it of what this experiences lake for me you seem blind to this struggle like a father who ignore their child struggle and offer only the words mana so this is a good question and i i see were uh this guy's common from for sure and i know that it can be very very frustrating to try and become disciplined and i apologise that i haven't talked about the fact of of what to do if you come from an undisciplined family or you have undisciplined parents i haven't really talked about what to do in that situation but there's a reason that i haven't talked about that before and that is because you don't get discipline from your parrots you don't get discipline from your parents from your grandparents from your older brothers and sisters you don't get discipline from an external source you have to get it from you that's what selfdiscipline is you get it from yourself you get it from you so the here's people from every possible background from no parrots too crazy parents to you don't drugaddicted parents to super squared away parents and everywhere in between on that spectrum that are completely disciplined people more disciplined than any one i know it doesn't come from your parents who don't inherit it and there's another piece here it's called ownership right it's called ownership and if you're if you want to blame other people for the problem an essay this all the time if you don't take ownership of the problem the proms opera get salts of you blame your parents for not having raised you in a disciplined environment you're not going to solve that problem you're looking at your parents and if you would have done a better job being more disciplined for me i would be more disciplined now so that means that means you can't do anything the fact the matter is it's wrong you actually can do something and it doesn't matter what do how your parents raised you and brought you up you can have the discipline you need to decide to do it so as long as your blaming other people i mean if you blame me for not discussing it you blame me for having zero idea what that experience is like you blame your parents were not raise new this ways long's your blaming other people's lungs you're counting on other people to give you discipline as long as you do that you will not have it so again i i'm sorry i should have made that my should make that more clearly in i'm trying to make it more clearly now an and like my parents my parents are are good people they had successful careers as as educators in public schools in my mom eventually became uh went into school administration my dad taught in high school for thirty something years and they were good hardworking people and of but i'll tell you they were no they were no extraordinary preachers of discipline and i'll tell you i in fact i i never remember either one of them ever using the term or referring to discipline any way um you know one actually both my parents worked they both worked my dad was coaching sports and we're doing after school staff my mom same things like we were on our own a bartsch what my parents were gone in the morning we got ourselves to school when we at home in afternoon they weren't home uh you know so it wasn't like they were setting up this rigid disciplined manner for me and um and you can see this with families many many different families there's families that have kids that the parents are very disciplined and the kids are wild um and how to control sometimes at problematically so right kids that come from really good families but they get addicted to drugs lack of discipline kids that come from really good families but they they spin out of control would end going the wrong direction and there's also the opposite which is a the parents worn around or the parents were abusive for the parents were drug addicts and and overcome the keep the kid comes out of that in is squared away is awesome and we saw that old time the seal team's of said that before on this program doesn't matter it doesn't matter where your background is is what you decide to do you um and i'll tell you another thing it's not even from the military like the military requires discipline obviously but there's plenty of people in the military that don't have it right and in many poor many people lose their disciplined when they leave the march is not being imposed on them anymore moved so let me just go look around uh i mean being in the military does not make you discipline first being from discipline family does not make you discipline person being in a discipline group does not make you discipline person what makes you disciplined port person is choosing to be disciplined so d i n and also as far as telling people the man up um which you know when someone says how do i get up early every day i said get up early every day you how do i stop eating sugar stopping the the if the that's the definition of mana but obviously not just men that need displined in their life and the guy use that term but what i do tell people is the get after it that's what i tell people to get after it yeah i tell people to do the things that they know they're supposed to do right there are things that you know you're supposed to do as a human being things that you know oregon improve your life do those things there's things that you know we're going to make your worst person and make your life force don't do those things don't do the things that are making you weaker start things that are going to make you stronger and smarter and faster and healthier and get a make you better human being and i'll say the same thing to this guy you want to be more disciplined get after it and get up early do some kind of worked out eat good foods clean your room make a list of things that you're supposed to do when your wife and in wake up in the morning and do those things that you put on the list that's would discipline s and no it is not easy do not going to get it from anyone else but you and it's worth it and it is the thing that is going to bring you freedom that's the key word rate their own food it's worth it you know what i think this is what i think i think like in an environment as like how he put it in undisciplined virement rain or something like that where he grew up in an undisciplined environment ido obviously that the very vague expression redletter undisciplined farm did i mean that can mean a lot of young a lot of different things so i'll let him like when you're little brought up in a certain environment basically you're kinda taught or or not taught like like the value of certain things so if you use like unal working out who would ever right so armies myself as as an example my data than athlete um you did not disappear athlete but hughes you know he he knew like working out was a part of life instantly and you know in elementary school were doing sports and stuff like that you know some people they don't do that at all so at when the grew up into adulthood mit some people straight up have never worked out before never been in the gym and you know so grown up there they were never taught the value of what work in a does for you we never taught so they can appreciate it they just simply don't know the value surely see people with you know you know they're in shape where they can do these things and they're very function whatever they see that of course but they don't have that value they don't feel that value feed the just never learned it so it it can come off as like this thing for other people you know like oh that's what other people do kinda thing so they don't understand the value so back to the point in their mind this weird the connection is not made that it's worth it because they don't know the value of and really but if you do know the value of it and then you can decide okay is this worth it is it worth it to wake up every day in in clinical get after it for this particular goal or the this particular set of goals so that's what it is and think sure the undisciplined environment can may be provide that but i think you're right i think that once you're like oh yeah that's worth it y you know how people they'll find reasons one is worth the even though they've never expect like you don't like a person who has a heart attack or something is like and they have kids a young kids and they have a heart attack i've lady never worked out ever in their life have our detect almost died there like guess what i'm working out every single day i'm a vegetarian now you know like doing major major changes that they've never even thought about making and they'll do it because they decide it's worth it and they'll be disciplined they'll find that discipline real quick no matter how they're cheering as you know their environment in their kounellis yet it's going to be worth it that's it yeah and if if it's not worth in that i think is what you develop the value of working out the value of you develop you can develop that from anywhere at that's one of her let's put it and thankfully that as far as early develop that from any any you can develop that from from anywhere yet you can get it from parenting yet for yeah exactly right exactly right but the disciplining itself just like i said that's gonna come from you your parents can teach it but guess who has still you it's hill you and you can go to the military to specifically learned discipline when you leave it's on yoohoo is it yeah exactly right and just like i said like yeah i know people who were done with the military in a good dad they're done with that right there glad with this waking up early they're they're adly with you dig that downward ethics monster out of shape they're not doing anything productive it's it's horrible to say now but it happens happens with the military happens with anything else would kids get out a high school sports you in ulsan they don't want enough to do that anymore dumpson a coach you you crews each don't listen to coach listen to yourself yourself yeah determine whether or not it's worth it and i'm telling you did you don't need to german i'm telling you it's were phil i am telling you it is worth it and you know what you actually know it's worth it that's why you're asking this question view now it's worth it you know it's worth it to have disbelief think there's an easier way you think that it's something that people have you think that when jaakko was alarm clock goes off it's like oh just like my father taught me i rise and i shine it you don't like no i i it's like the pillow fuel soft and comfortable and the alarm clock has banging on my head and a don't like it you know what i know it's worth it to get up and get after i know it's worth and you know it's worth here's the thing though we all know it's worth the is it in a in a way you're right but lake really they'll really i'm going to be open open and honest with you i don't think that the people notes worth it i think they know it's worth it like the kind on paper none of they have a multiplechoice question is it worth it yes or no there'll be like yes obviously i know working out is worth it but here's the thing i don't if you don't know if you don't like like having good credit for example so i never dutt taught like why really my mom said yeah you should have good credit that's it that's the limit to late education on credit for of course a blow it because they get you know a fall for literally all the tricks if selfinflicted and other wet critics jammed so ago so i don't know i don't know the value i don't know i have never experienced the benefits of having good i don't know the value of the credit so really didn't mean much to me really my credit was like junk and i didn't care until i got denied for something then a cared you know but just like if you never into working out until you're in a specific the ian what show that but but like this guy that's asking this question and god is asked the question them i am not from sean a much on a come off all hard um but he realizes he realizes the value of discipline because he saying that he wants it right he knows that it's going to make his life better yeah and and and that's why i think he he's gotten jammed up in whatever way we don't know 'cause i'll gnome maybe he's gotten unhealthy maybe he's you know who knows bbs gotten his finances jammed up would it wherever the case may be he knows that discipline is better for them him he knows that he does know this isn't a guy that does know yet because sure there's people that don't you know when you're sixteen years old you don't know the value of discipline you'll know that the what you're at the way racking renounce can affect you in five years you'll know if you can set yourself utilize whole life up to be pretty awesome yeah you don't know that yet you're just like worried about where you're going on a friday night eight height so this guy no worse and he wants it and he's looking for where he can find it in where he can find it is in the mirror yeah that's where it is you to do at brother good luck get on the path and stay on the path yeah and that's going to be beneficial when you do the harshly maintaining net like not knowing the values a big is the big thing is kind of like okay so back to my credit thing it it there is a point at the end where okay so um you know like i don't know ten years ago whatever i repaired my credit at my credit was repairing a i went through was painstaking not fun stuff but i did it gummy credit repaired an now i know the value because as an adult i'm functioning it youthful now you know so now i know the value of having the credit because of been through all things that having good credit brings you through now i'm thinking i'll never go back to bed cartwright never it's worth it every single day i'm telling you that that i agree with what you're saying yeah i agree with reducing i'm saying that this guy knows the value that's why he wants it yeah it's like when you free realize that you got denied for something and you'll let ovau credit has value i understand that julia something happened in his life use at discipline has value i know that now but you did credit repair and in what you said was okay i need to gotten repair my credit you didn't say hey you know what my mom didn't tell me about bad credit now i have bad credit yeah yeah so now you're now what am i supposed to do uh you know who repaired your credit who repaired your credit well it was a combination of my wife and i but yoga but who repaired you did it yeah we this stuff you took responsibility for it and said okay i'm to get my credit green you talk to your wife could she smarter that you yes he was hike hey i will i will help this but it was you that said okay i got to get this fixed and you got help but you knew to reach out for help but you're the one that ultimately is responsible for yeah you're right about that like i didn't like i didn't blame my parents and then continue hacking bet credit rhino writes liked them said no i got to get the fao this this thing has credit has value i need to fix it yeah and you fixed it yeah regardless working regardless so what will vote would you know oh you don't know how to work out guven ugo wire personal trainer 'cause you know it's going to it's the right thing to do you don't have been oh you don't know how to repair your finances cool go get accounts or that's going to help you repair your finances oh you're addicted to drugs or alcohol okay i'm going to go find accounts or join a groups i can get through that thing you no one's going to hold your hand and bring you ended any those situations you got to do it yourself gather discipline to make it happen yeah good uh number 7 good morning did you find that people in the military mok those that emphasize the importance of good leadership who take leading and our responsibility seriously what does that mean mocking like the big fan of eu leah like what people in the military making making fun of you because you take leadership super seriously all ya the elephant is a late scout this is an interesting question so it makes me a little bit nervous because my suspicion is that this individual might be going about being a good leader the wrong way and if you go about it the wrong way people can take offence to it if you're the guy that goes around telling everyone that you are leader and you're trying to be great leader people will take offence net because you can't make that part of your thing right people that talk about the importance of good leadership the come across as implying that they are good leader and and that can be offensive especially if you aren't quite as good of a leader as you think you are she run around like you understand how important leadership is and about that savior right there in understanding forms of leadership echo all of a sudden on basically tony look i'm a good leader and you're not when the reality is just the way i'm talking proves that i'm not a good leader a as i'm talking down to you so we have a problem right there and also if if you take leading and our leading responsibility seriously what does that actually mean does that mean that you can't have any fun with your team does that mean you can't laugh at yourself when you've made a mistake does that mean that you are trying so hard to give off the impression that you are a great leader that it appears to everyone else that you aren't really who you act like in that your character is is disingenuous right if i'm if i'm constantly trying to put up this front that i'm the great leader everyone starts look at me think an that guy's not even is not that's not the real him uh his china rock around like a like a he's not true right you'd you'd think whether you're trying to build trust in as a leader we we are trying to build trust we talked dick winners talk about honesty being the most one the most important traits of uh of a leader but if we're putting up a facade and how we act that does not come across as honest and that doesn't build trust in fact it build the opposite and also if if if you have to put up a leadership front if you have to put up a leadership front if it in other words if sometimes you have to act a certain way fate get going back to something earlier he if you have to act and fake like a leader that means you might be you might be insecure about your leadership capability and you will come across his insecure and people consents that insecurity so that can be very problematic also if you're so into being a good leader that probably means that you have issues giving up the reigns that means that you are probably micromanaging because you want to be leader you want to prove to everyone that you're a good leader and so you start micromanaging and no one wants to fall will micromanager they don't want to do that and if you add all these things together what what what do people end up doing the end up mocking you they end up mocking the things that you think are important like leadership that south they start to make fun of it it's a man the it's like the needle i think his name is needle meyer in animal house is is the right name anand i've a connor i'm doing a move referee ion with iin as his messed up all i can give you the john belushi that yeah so there's eats like the leader the the rotc guy yeah he's yet like mr leader on huh and everyone makes fun of him yeah he's trying to be a great leader he's trying to be the authoritative figure everyone is making fun of him so you have to be careful in this case i would recommend you move to the center a little bit more meaning that on the one hand you have a leader that isn't building relationship isn't building trust expects people to do as they are told an and treat treat that leader with respect even though they have a nerd that's not a good leader on the other hand you have leaders that are to close with the troops has very personal relationships too personal relationships with the team it has lost any semblance of a forty over the teams of is your two extremes you wanna be balanced in the middle you want to build relationships will be people you want to build your team up in also foreseeing leadership on people does not work any more than forcing a religion or a diet or a workout or a political brie belief system an can you make someone from him from the leadership perspective if you have a forty over other people can you make someone bow down to your programme mechanically for a little while yeah you can you can but if it's not from them if they are not part of it wilfully it's not going work over time so you know don't beat people up verbally with your leadership lessons don't make it you're external religion that you are forcing on people internally yes of course obviously ma i always thought about leadership i always thought about leadership pat wasn't barking it at home i don't even think i don't even think like my the best the people that taught me the boast about leadership they never said the word to be upheld leadership right and i'm not saying that that's the best course of action because because sometimes it is good to you know poulsen someone aside and say hey this is the way act and right now from your troops in that that's not going to be effective sometimes that is good especially once you've built the relationship of i don't ever relationship with you echo when i say haiti to talk to you hit the way junior guys recognizing her to go over very well with him what's your reaction gonna be you'll be pest you you feel you don't know my guys i know the better the unit we're gonna have a problem i'd be a die compost nothing my coaching in mentoring of you was horrible because we did have a relationship so sure you're not listening and obviously of course when i start coaching in mentoring implies that i'm the greatest leader of all time that's my that vmi my implied statement new sock on great which people reject that as well especially when you're not that great of a leader in the first place so don't talk about it so much just lied be a good leader open up discussions take arapoff come from the flank instead of going straight on maneuver tactically and tactfully get into their heads and make better leaders by actually leading yes can like that lien a lead by example can thing it kinda makes you like the question kind of how you said of the beginning it makes you wonder he says the question is defined the people in the military mok those that emphasize the importance of good leadership you kinda think to yourself i wonder how this person is emphasizing the importance of good is he the guy at the party who you know people are talking about on another the food or something then he just bus a leadership stuff fetal that guy who's like everything on elect rotc gut feeling go to see got just everything he's just pushing it every day in a leadership is everything leaves of the bright we weren't even talk about that leadership is everything kind of any by the way work this is coming from a person me that i literally talk about leadership al at times iit eisley listening yeah and and i actually think that way and i i get up on stage and in companies and in front of military members and police officers in it i talk about leadership that's what i talk about all done yeah and that's what you know what's interesting that's what makes aboutface by curl david hackworth the one of the best things about that book because it's not a leadership book he doesn't just talk he barely talks about he barely says a straightforward sentences use it this is how you lead it's all from the flank and that's why it gets you so well uh because it's from the flank yeah it's not a book about leadership does he would say you know how many books get public publish all the time you know that visit leadership book i wrote a book with life how to lead in win hackworth did it better hackworth like oh this is about war read it yes yes in a way uh the ideally seen but obviously that's your jobs well i guess my point is that if you're if this is coming from someone who talks about leadership all the time literally wrote a book about leadership and i'm saying hey you might not wanna talk don't let us online at is my point freiha that's my point yeah good point just just just back off a little bit yes so if you're like you know you go on the road you do when a year you know you're deals and then you know at dinner with your family you start going into your leadership stuff with this that's what you should it q yes yes but i'm on i'm saying is with your team with your platoon tune you don't sit there and say all right today we're gonna talk about leadership again yeah you don't quote unquote emphasize the importance of good leadership right you demonstrate it yes leed yeah his do that they're smarter than you think they're you know what your undoing all as you dear kinda condescending noon to can help it you're treating them like they don't know you wanna talk about the importance which if they know what the importance leaders learn the military yeah in fact in example of their reaction of how people take it when you start preaching to them know how they take it they mock you sets a lesson learned that's a lesson learnt if people are mocking you they're not taking you seriously that means you're doing something wrong what you're doing wrong in this case is your condescendingly talking to them about the importance of leadership they know what the importance of leadership is there in the military they know how bad it is to have a bad platoon sergeant or bad platoon a platoon commander they know you'll need rub it in their face you remember i think i told you the story about one of my friends nicknames name because of thirteen you know you navy feel we're at a party in he got he got joe and he's sitting at the table explaining to all of us how bad asked navy seals are ya like for a long time new visas and he even said those were navy lose just so bad ask like we're so that after this is why all this stuff if the exact same thing because we know needs feels about us but you sitting here telling us how that ask you in all navy seals are is going to make us makia they're going to get mox the iron a little bit earlier ally navient mocked by other may be sealed by though at version or do enough stuff feeling check well i'm glad that this guy is asking the question i'm glad that the guy is focused on leadership and i hope that these points can come across and be digested with no um you know there's really easy to get offended by what i'm saying right if you're him it which doesn't get it you know what i mean it's really easy to say that is to resume yield roaches rooms age isn't always talking about on the one that your i'm trying to get these guys to be better utilised i'm trying to get my platoon understand ports of leadership i know man i know one i i respect that like the fact that you're have that mind and that's all through that's awesome uh that's awesome come from the for like a little bit from the flak when you're not going to you're not gonna do not going to get that get it done this way you it's kind of like if you try to convince everyone that you're the most humble person in the world and you know that nobody more humble in media on the most humble i'm humbler than that guy i'm humbly the new homeless than anyone who who've ever lift just most humble and world just doesn't work linda lentils order ex question dhaka how do you lead a team of volunteers how to punish or discipline them can't threatened to fire them because they're all i have i know leader does so much more than threatening punish but a need some guidance tried a motive try to motivate but feel the need to do more thanked china answers were quickly once because this is kind of a cost of answer before two different form um do they understand why they're doing what they're doing and do they understand why it's important do the understand how what they are doing will benefit them do they also see you working hard to try and make things happen so those are those of this the basic questions let's just get those out there every time every time someone is not doing what you want them to do do they understand why they're doing what they're doing do they understand why it's important to the mission of do they understand how being successful in the mission will benefit them so so let's just get those on the way next what can we do here have you game of fide the situation at all how you like that keane gamified right have you gamified the situation because i i realize that the term it's getting thrown around now but we would gamified stupid things all the time in the seal team's to make them fun new right how much braskin you pick up let's see i'll pick up more than you might squad to pick a more brass and you'll pick up olds unrun round the rain sharp pickup brass one of the most miserable things that you have to do this heelpieces pickup brass off thought reigns in the summertime mmhmm and you do it for for like two days because once you get done with all your work you gotta go up millions of rounds of brass spread out all over the desert in in august in the imperial valley it's hot it's sox but guess what we're gonna do have a contest india's a what are you gonna do to game a fight uh look what kinda cool competition around some shortterm goal can you set up that's going to be as gonna make it fun for them some kinda cool reward what about some kind of friendly bets around achieving something like i bet if i raised this much money you know i will go to work with a pair of underwear on my head or you after you know what i mean whatever is stupid bats you know what we used in the team's is we'd bet one dollar what am i will run inmates we we we had something like critical i bet you one dollar yeah that was like the biggest bet you could make because it's just it's pre europride suryono and then we'd we'd always have fun if you were collecting or if you're giving the dollar collecting the hour was just totally glorious yeah giving the dollar was shame the eddie so yeah like you could add like okay when you give me this dollar aid asked me in front of everybody v you have to add own all you have to do it while like walking in and younis some something real kathy meaning that yet but we didn't even have to do all that yeah hi foods with undisguised emi running mate if we won or lost the bet and as light but a loser you know in in you wouldn't even ask for the money you just look at it this by tonight he had more than most classic looks when he gave you the look when i lose about too many gave me the look i i i wanted to cry yeah yeah yeah he lost some yet more than that dea loss so maybe make a bet for dollar and if that's not working okay now that's not work if you can't game afife you can have fun with it maybe ask them while there why they are there in figure out what their motivation is for being there and how you can tie that in something concrete and then also though look you might have some people at her are really into this um and then lower your expectations of this particular group of people gog recruits of people i wanna get after it mm makes sense there have some fun fawn goes a long way yoga fun goes a long way for having a fond doing things goes a long way and the end that praise thing to you know when you should like add like a reward or something for because a lot especially volunteers were so you know uh we all feel this like even at at work you can have like a superfund job but you get you these two people generally speaking tend to get complacent in one way or another you know when things are routine or things are not as exciting or whatever um and you know when you're volunteering in that happens it's kinda like you not tied there by a paycheck really you know which is just is just a powerful ty you know that people have to work it's like addle in my job but it's peace bills and paying the bill the big deal kathy so if you add that element of excitement are fun or you know little personal payoff in one way or another at think that helps a lot of the time indeed and that tens tap into if the if the liam nothing this person is doing this are not doing this but like if they become kinda complacent in not recognizing how much they they they appreciate the volunteers you know like if they're just like oh yeah this does business as usual it'll ever coming in that's kind of it kind of being in the you know then he just gets kind of kind of blah you know like only the not the pay off that they used to have you know but had fallen kinda keep that going keep them in the game next bush do i need to keep training gg two if i hate it i mean kennedy just live my life the way i think it should be which is of health energy and become becoming a force of nature as a doctor without dreaming upload some invisible enemies on the street that have yet to come across in preparing in spending my pittance of wage of a wage on lessons that i hate in every sorts of ways for something that might be avoided physical clash if i learnt tease wit in saving my money to move into a good neighbourhood and i've been successful in preventing physical clashes to occur i've learnt basic ways to escape the mount i can run i'm fairly strong isn't that enough okay so iaea boro um jittery was not the meaning of life all right it's huge it too has a lot of i mean i find digits you very enjoyable i get a lot out of it beyond physical training beyond selfdefence yeah i get a lot out of it and i apply in all different sorts of realms in my life uh but if you hate it an and you've learned some basic ways to defend yourself the give skate the mount may be some basic guards type stuff then then okay i mean than step away you shouldn't be going through life doing something that you hate i for each hour you i'd still train occasionally even if it's just like once every two or three weeks once a month just to keep some of the ideas fresh and also also there's always the possibility that a quick in your head and you'll realize this there's like a magical thing that you could get out of the gia to um and it's of like waking up until waking up at four thirty in the morning that that's the time i wake up in in for its will on genetically predisposed to sleep less than most people and for instance we just had daylight savings time and you and so and i went to bed so i sat back my clock than it was it was like nine forty at night to went from 1040 when i was going to bed a setback my clock and now it's 940 a at us at all korean alseep extra hour we know what time i woke up like true 48 me a and then i i laid in bed saying no sleep more sleep more sleep mark can do it so i got about threethirty but that's that's me and in and that's that's just me and it depends what your schedule is it depends on what your genetic makeup is for sleep and if you work the night shift and obviously you're working at four thirty in the morning or you're getting off at were of work at 430 morning so this doesn't work in i try and put that caveat on pretty much everything that i say like my workouts but what i eat um everyone's a little bit different and i like what i like and and i do what i do and it worked for me and you can try it then if you come up with something that's better i'll listened to you um and that's the same with digits your man if you hate it then you know maybe it's not for you and in end you know what i would i truly think might my true fought is it beneficial for you yes it is should you stop doing everything that you don't like just because you don't like it no i mean there's some things you should press on should you get it should ever have a fundamental level of knowledge of jit suit it's very very beneficial uh but if you hated in and you've kinda come not conclusion then don't do it yeah in in in i think also once you give yourself that out once you give yourself the out in you not forcing yourself to do anymore you it might open up your mind to actually enjoy and try it and not be miserable about it yes yeah that's will actually would have see none of the this is they're probably and i don't know easily this some people don't like it straight up my gotta accept that i know i know but that being said there is a possibility that the environment that this first or that people train in sometimes will make you not like it and if not necessarily the jatiya don't like sure not eat wound up that way you don't like you to any more because you're kind of new pushed in the wrong direction as far as like what you the liking though like so you could try different school try difference try different story after like i said earlier today some schools are really strict and rigid and maybe that's booed be better for you some schools are real wild and there's no control maybe that that be a better school depending on what your personality as some people like that regiment environment yeah yeah you can you could definitely try different school uh but again i think i think the mental hurdle to come over is you've told yourself that you have to do it and now tell yourself you don't have to do should of water but certain in any see trader in school it it's the environment the train in sold the schools by the environment for sure but it's like training partners it's like the which can wind up as the pressure you put in yourself it's like everything you know the whole environment so i know that and people are different people took some people they want that pressure they want people yelling you don't like rim race to tell you like when you start coaching either media won't just in training not like you'll get fired out when you see to training whatever and you'll be like do this in you'll start kotan it's almost like you're like as a friend you're doing it like just for fun and you're like okay do this in you usually coach up the other guy when i'm rolling with them and that other guy oh he's getting coach way jackal so he turns up the heating and bro i don't like that because it's now it's like a thing and i know you don't i don't like that at all but some people do like that people they'd get some fired up get some more in the game you know thirty two m saint people were different so the possibility is that this guy happens to be in the wrong environment footage it to free for hip for to for himself yes exactly i saw as a possibility and just like i said you know he he could very well be pudding that pressure on himself like you have to go and everyone thing how great it is and as the best thing and if you don't show up to practice your lack near lame or get under that's true like if you get told all the time it's the best thing in the world and and then you show up there and you get beat up which is what happiness in need in yet and now you're you're how does everyone like this yeah this doesn't feel good to me and use gona negative mindset ready sei should be careful that and that's not to mention when you even imply that you don't necessarily like it old europe could you suck oh yeah because the year this or your week or you're whatever you're a slacker like basically all this negativity you know is gonna turn you off even more so now yeah you hate it now which which there is a read the reality of it is some some things don't agree with some people right that's that's a that reality like there's that some things i in don't the world i i know i i just don't like them like when we are driving to la your plains of music you some of the music that you're playing as is popular music i i just don't like it i just don't like and and there's other things like that in the world uh trying to think of things that i just just like other people like them and i just don't like them i just don't poke eamonn go that's one the out early i mean i don't i never even thought about pogue mogo seems like a cool idea you've got you look for things on your phone i mean i'm not that's not the type of thing that i'm talking about um you know i guess dancing at the club i mean m i don't care bomb trying to think of something that some i guess music is the best is one of the best examples for me is is you know i hate the certain types of music certain artists leif lately flakes hair lay flights hair medal from the nineveh he he legit likes there and and i i like legit do not like it and the reason i use the reason that's a good example is because that's not far off from kind of the music that i do like a i mean i like i like led zeppelin i mean i love led zeppelin right led zeppelin is awesome an and the step from led zeppelin two two two poison i mean you could you they could be in the same record category in the store right rock and roll led zeppelin i love you i poison kinda turns my stomach i i hate to end so that is an example of so some things that just don't sit well with you yeah and and may be jit's who doesn't sit well with this guy now um like i said i think there's a lot of benefits to it i think he is a lot out of it try different environment but if you hate it don't may force yourself to do it open open the escape give yourself out and that allows you to feel more comfortable can you feel trapped everyone feels like a cornered animal and in our you're just pissed off yeah you even be viewed in like hey these guys everyone i heard someone talking about you too so i'm gonna try it yeah and now you first day you don't like it for years i i'm going to keep doing it because that ruined saint it's great and you just end up in a bad way yeah so be careful that one yet you can a trapped with the with the junk parts of it that that kind of came about in yet and you can't release keep it the newly rebel against it if jack a member when we're driving up to la i was claim kerry by europe that is actually technically 80s hair metal gear eds an easier for sure but you're really mad yeah yeah gnome tony that music doesn't sit well with me for some reason you got little bdnf comeback to lay flicked lay flakes metallica leif like spikes sabbath lay flakes tool he likes rocking bands too yeah for some reason there's some genetic code in his head that poisons cool yeah just let that right in hot denying gets the and whole yet but then i guess on the other end of the spectrum you get the we get into music that leif and white likely flex pant tara pant ariza hard banned now i go one step further than pandera writer in similar to some of the music that i listen to him uh which i think leaves leif a little bit where he wouldn't listen to some of the harder music that i was new but painters you know brushing up against it he di listened to soft music tomorrow do you consider soft news as some samano something about love songs out another you know le let something soft teen on mc i'd say white buffalo white below okay is hard acoustic music but the you know he's got some pretty mellow songs he got a song called love song number one woods did about though like is it is it like romantic he does he talked out his low eliza girl or something like that i would say yes yeah canada the count 'cause you know like well how can that knockout otto no because you know how like that like uh metallica for example they have unforgiven right so it sounds softer but they're still talking about hard stuff and k and then they have like enter sanmen which is okay will and i guess i'm does not know my answer to use know look alike do you like what about led zeppelin by it won't thieves still talking about like these are soft things like you know soft lane algebra remember member algiere ill and you like what the all day if the european fewer mad at me personally like you and you're like who is this an another you know what though actually i played another song uh who was it he's a josh read in or something in your like hey this is pretty good i was very surprised it was a soft song hooker do you remember that's won't my musical tastes are varied yeah i different types of visa yes so i guess others aum's ives him he's a good at don't like yeah i sometimes wonder with you like it if you're the canyon hossam people they they just just i like music not i'm not thing me i'm just saying certain people they are into justice specific type of music that they're that's the whole reason for music in their head is like this very specific feeling like some people the um that a note before the only like housemusic the like anything other than al's music this is like it's just the old brother listen to nothing i wondering if you're like kind of that kind nowhere because i listen all different kinds of music yeah well at least does not maybe not all different yet at okay you're right i listen to a wide feerick various types sure are you though not alger although i forget the song but it was eager for back to it later thursday all right next question oba from tang and if of edf the guy who hates due to that's kind of crazy it's a bummer but it's it's not that rare yet makes sense it totally makes in us as actually talking with dave kimmeria sure i know who that he that he owns um i was up with him up in san francisco area yesterday and we are talking about how some people don't like gypsy high via the in you'd think even people that are you would think would like to to people that have jobs that dude it to would be really beneficial for them to know you they don't buy tickets and so and i was saying that i've introduced a lot of people to jit to a lot of people to jitsuo not many of them have actually stuck with it for a long period of time yeah but and and so it's not that rare for people to not like jitsuo yet in a a dig it's like not sticking with because you did sticks work it's not like the easy thing the provides discipline oh you're sized difference between not liking to to a not actually sticking with it yes yes tho those guys straight up i hate it the i thought of as a little bit more powerful vip treatment area yeah it's like deafening doesn't like people who don't stick with it for the most part this just a total gas on my prayer leading lacked discipline yeah like there there is they they they don't like it enough anand on account of momenttomoment basis take to get off the couch and go that's kind it journal with one of those situations the question jaakko of question after reading your book which i thought was one of the best books i've read since your last book thanks i'm curious what what you did during your seal team dis to maintain your your schedule as i would imagine in the teams your schedule changes at any minute to include you being deployed were active during your various missions that night so as in life how do you keep your balance of your schedule when do calls in your book you see keep your schedule but how did you work through this when you would be on a mission that didn't allow you to sleep at night did you still did you still the following day upon return maintain your normal schedule sponsored yeah obviously the teams that your schedule in the teams can vary a lot and you have to adopt to what makes sense and sometimes in the team's work 1820 our day sometimes out the field you're going to the field for two three four five days at a time sometimes you're working for 24 hours a day or you work for thirty six hours straight because you do planning in the bubble wassot that could be rama sometimes you're doing dives you're doing to dives a day and that takes a bunch of time and it takes a toll on you it's hard work i guess you could say um sometimes were running around all day or all night running around the desert running around the urban training facility and so the schedules changing all the time and it's the same thing with business the same thing with business right now i travel on the flight these early the fight leaves later work all day or the dinner with a clients or the interviewer the writing of the the recording of the podcast or the changing times on some things change answer what what i do is yes i try and i try and keep the schedules marched i can and if i fall off the schedule for whatever reason i get back all on it as quickly as possible and i think so so yes you do the best you can i think the main thing you have to watch out for is leading leading a change in schedule or a problem in your schedule beat excuse to fall off the path that that's what you have to watch out for um you know we think oh new times owner i've got jet lag right in sleep well or i need rest from travelling or i did this the other night and so i'm going to sleep until nine thirty tomorrow morning and just call it good real that's what you have to watch out for not sometimes you need to work to ninth disley till nine thirty dow sometimes you do sometimes you stayed up for thirty six hours you go to bed at three o'clock in the morning guess what you might need to sleep until nine thirty that's cool good f do it get some sleep um but just be careful of using it as an excuse to go away off the path and just get yourself back on the path as soon as possible makes sense yes sir yes that's all me right there like one little thing if he had they'll throw the obvious all day is gone i'll do tomorrow please got a careful not uh speaking to schedule i think we're about good for questions there's one more thing that i wanted to close out with and you know i get a lot of i got a lot of really a great emails i will get a lotta great uh messages through social media letters written letters again all those kinds of things and i appreciate them all i don't always respond all of them because there's i physically cannot do it yeah and of course you know oh get someone to manager social media whatever not doing that uh if you hear back from me you hear from me not from somebody that i paid ten dollars an hour to respond to my stuff in say cool get after it like no god not doing that but you know i get i get all these things and i i do read them so if you send it i read it and so i appreciate the feedback and everything i got one though that i that was good i wanted to actually one to read on here because i felt that it not only said hey thanks for you know the podcast or whatever thanks for the books whatever it actually give some pretty good methodology and really an insight into a mindset that i think will help people doing what they're doing so here we go mr willockx just wanted to share a quick story with you at thirty nine i had fallen into a 15year rot of undisciplined alcoholism i was soft and heavy and wanted to change earlier this year i started working out three to four times a week in my basement i was trying and failing to get a handle on my alcohol abuse every failure made the beast seem bigger an unbeatable it was like i didn't have control over my body i finished your book on a monday night and decided that i would get up early the next morning workout i got up and worked out not much but i just wanted to do something sit ups push ups fifteen minutes on the bike worked out twice tuesday got up wednesday and did it again got to thursday night a normal drinking night and decided to try not drinking made it through friday same thing worked out morning in night stayed busy and stayed away from the drink fought i should try and push it through the weekend worked out saturday morning took the rest of the weekend often stay dry monday morning i got up and started two days again made it through the week with eleven workouts by the second week i felt better than i had in my entire life i was astounded that normal people walked around feeling this good i guess not systematically poisoning your body will do that on the fifth week i got a project at work there was going to require traveling for the next eight weeks i was worried about overcoming my triggers and road habits but normal travelling evening was dinner watch cable and drink eight beers to my surprise the hotel at a sweet jim cool i'll just keep doing what i'm doing then at the site i found out that were we would start work at six a m damn that means i have to get up at four to work out i'm twelve weeks into my travelling to a days usually getting eleven to twelve workouts a week they recently moved or start time to seven am so now i get an hour and a half in the morning and evening i'm 16 weeks clean dropped thirty pounds or more haven't been on a scale in three weeks thirtyfour waste genes hang off of me by sit up and pushed upsets when from ten to forty to fifty keto bell swings went from 35 by ten to fifty by fifteen i started to learn how to run as a haven't done in twenty years now after a day off i can do to miles without stopping i do four or five miles on the treadmill and nine miles on the bike besides the sit ups push ups cattle bells core and weights i look forward to next year's competitive shooting season i'm going to bring it at this point my cravings are gone and i actually recoil from the smell of boos when i started this i thought it would be temporary now it's going to be permanent no reason to waste time with it anymore now when i question something your voice comes to me with the hard answer it's only black and white with no gray area one day when i'm standing before the lord lord and hear his voice if it doesn't sound like yours i might be disappointed the book i read those months ago was a way of the warrior kid i'm working on extreme ownership now thank you for your service thank you for producing a bad asked podcast and thank you for influencing my life so there you go and i i say this to people all the time most important here is it isn't me it's u n sure you may have grabs some little foothold from the podcast her from one of the books but it isn't me that changes you you you set the small goals you achieve those goals then set some more and achieve those and set some more goals may be a little bit bigger but not that much bigger you pay attention to the progress this guy is 16 weeks deep thirty pounds lighter working harbor stronger faster more efficient competitive the individual that wrote that is getting after it and changing his life and you can too to star start small start with changing tomorrow morning just tomorrow morning get that squared away and then move on to the next day and the next in move your life to a better place one little step one little victory at a time appreciate the letter in i think debts all of got four tonight so echo speaking of people getting better stronger in faster and actually supporting the podcast if they wanna do that sir do you have any suggestions for us sure of course they do i can talk about the fact that four gin as a new key coming up good on i don't know that the name of the game ghiz have names legba origin does day acharya yep yep yep that's cool name to buy of axiom but this one is called i think dis discipline i think it's called dissovling would be called discipline yeah not the discipline distrust this discipline that could be called up sure you can check it out origin made dot com right yeah surprisingly aesthetically great i would say it's i would say it's probably is the term the use like on brand on his brand meaning is it kind of fit fit sits year brand okay sure unfilled say it does that ijaw via the ad 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not always going to be easy what i'm saying i know what you're saying yeah every day man this is not a one day gig this is an everyday every day is a monday via on the path here's the i will say this though okay so and you you read the letter for the guy with with drinking i dipped i could relate to that deeply deeply could relate to that end in a way an ad on good too deep into it but in a way that my situation was in a way harder because the drinking wasn't prevented me from working out it will it prevented me from doing like a lot of stuff it was only prevented me from doing like a handful of things but those things are really wanted to do but it was really preventing me early it was put it this way it was making it super difficult and then just the fact of like drinking every single day you know anything and the more you you know how you the more you get in the routine it on some it with them in the heart the harder it is to destroy a break that routine especially when it provides the path is like drinking does chemically emmy nierlich when you drink the instantaneous iaf exactly right longterm payoff no longterm negative like not even proportionately more beneficial to to to stop drinking like you know when he said um while this is how everyday people walk around yeah good role ian really i felt that statement grit that so true that's exactly what i thought tang noone ridge trick in these feed jock who doesn't drink creates a no wanted chuckles doing all this stuff i could i could do all that stuff too that's how you feel nothing i'm doing all the stuff i'm just saying that the feeling like i could dig it anyway point is when you're on this path it's not always easy but psychological warfare is there to get you through those difficult parts parts that you admit or the candidate mit the need maybe a little little push little help little spot we can up early procrastinating that the begin skipping the workout that kind of stuff psychological warfare kit so there's a trap for every little weakness he might encounter skipping the diet or or or slacking on the diet that the good on um but yeah checked out one out and uh you know he would up good way to support yourself in your on the path when you're on the path and with puk as well also you can get some choco white t which tastes like victory and will make you feel really good you get that on amazon the books way the warrior kid number one which which is covered obviously it is not just a book for kids you uncle jake has something to teach all of us myself included through dolts and teenagers and anyone else that wants to have a better life can add some new book we're the work you which in a i'm on a cycle i just read it over and over again like as just like a routine to daughter yes four and a half the she can't wait read yet um but the ltte there's little things in there that it's like this is really good that these kids are getting this this message because this stuff that as an adult you're like dang and never really even though you know it like okay in this is what it is when you're like how do you expect to be good at something if you don't practice like little laws guess rail kids don't know that they don't they straight up don't yell and gutting practice i feel like a we kind of forget that in a way no we absolutely do yeah so yeah the is is for sure there's a lot in that book and sometimes i read that book and i and anders even more in their deny even recognised iin india because i not the lessons that are coming out of my head there so important though like beyond my own comprehension yet and i was just explaining the book where the warrior kid to which is going to come out and i was i was talking through a with a guy yesterday like what what it's about and as an explaining everything that it's about is a lot of stuff it's a lot of really important lessons schiff um but yet started wade were your kid uh the second warrior kit book will be out april twenty eight th two thousand eighteen actually speaking of books there is extreme ownership a new addition a new addition is out it's not a totally new book it's a new addition of it it's going to be available november 21st you can get it for preorder right now on amazon if you want it um it's got a new forward in too salesian i wrote a new ford it has some colour pictures in it um also the the new cover is black which aims to cover from white to black why because block obviously amazon barnes and noble you can get it out walmart by the way target the publisher ship it out the everywhere so you can pick it up it's a good book to give to people in my opinion it's it's it's not just like giving someone a book you're giving them something a little bit more than a book absent the sat like something a little bit more in the book is i don't know if i can i can explain it to well right now look at it yes yang can look at in it's it's not normal i would say it's not normal um if you want the audio 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