30 Burst results for "John Grey"
CNBC's Fast Money
"john grey" Discussed on CNBC's Fast Money
"Welcome back to fast money. Buzzkill on Blackstone shares down two and a half percent today losing almost $13 a share since Tuesday's intraday high. The stock dropping on reports that the SEC is looking into the firm's near $70 billion real estate fund breed. The fund reaching withdrawal limits earlier this month for the first time in its history, Blackstone shares down nearly 20% in the past month compared to a less than 3% drop in the S&P 500. This is one that we've been talking for a while in terms of what it might signal about the real estate sector, but for Blackstone itself guy, what do you think? I look at it and say, okay, S and C investigation, now it's probably time you buy the stock because now you think about the news that's come down to pike. And listen, I said it a couple weeks ago I'll say it again. When we had Jay-Z on, not that one. Joe zidel. Dan called him out on it in terms of where real estate was headed. He was right. And the stock's been effectively cut in half. But now you look at Blackstone. That's an extraordinarily viable business, especially in this environment. So yes, I understand one of the microscope for this, but it's such a small part of their business. I think you're getting it at a discount right here. Well, and Blackstone hill wants the other day, John grey got up there. He wanted to make it very clear that we have a 180 billion in dry powder. There's absolutely no liquidity issue here at all. And he's right. And meanwhile, breed is up over 9% year to date, even in an environment that's been really tough by race. But I think that the retail investor that has been just plowing money into products, not just blackstones, but you go around and we've talked about the other players that are in this space. That concerns me. I just think you've got a case here, but again, I don't think there's a fire here. And I would agree that if you're selling this name on the headlines, you've seen over the last couple of days, you're missing the story. By the way, this is a Bloomberg report and they also say the SEC is looking into the Starwood product as well. So it's not just Blackstone. No liquidity issues and high marks. Not a great combination in the market that we're in here. And I'll just say this when we're talking about a couple of weeks ago, we had David Faber on the show when we were talking. I mean, listen, it's not an indictment of the product, the Gates is the kind of built into it. I would just say that the really strong likelihood that this stock round trips to its pre-pandemic highs, that would be near 65 bucks. Bono and your thoughts. I think real estate and real estate adjacent has really taken a beating and rightfully so. You're going to see weakness in that area. As guy had mentioned though, this headline, I think given what we've seen from FTX and the whole host of others, any time you're seeing an investigation, it's just panic selling. You're selling them and you're asking the questions later. And I think that in and of itself is probably self contained. And I don't think that's a reason to take the stock lower. All right. It's time for the final trade on this. Stop it. What? Is that time
The Hugh Hewitt Show: Highly Concentrated
Be a High Conviction Investor
"The quote I took away from John gray, best investment advice he ever received, be a high conviction investor. When you see something, single-family housing, global logistics, the movement of everything online, you lean into that and that's when you have the best outcomes. Explain how you view high conviction investing. Well, that's a role that George Soros also had over the years too, which is if you have a really, really good idea and you really know what you're doing. Don't just then say asset allocate a little bit to it, really put fair amount of money into it because it's rare that a great idea has come along. When you have a great idea and you're really a high conviction about it, put your assets into that. In the conversation, you just made me think of Michael Moritz, former journalist, partnered Sequoia from Wales, a Jew from Wales. You don't run into many of those. He said to you, we always thought it was rarely ever too late to get into a good investment. I think that's profound. You want to expand on that. Yeah, so if it's a good investment, you know, you may not be there on the ground floor, but there's still a good company. So sometimes his company Sequoia, which is the leading venture capital firm in the United States now, they come in not in the first round, necessarily or the seed round, but they come in the second and third or fourth round, but they're still getting in a good prices because it's a good company and good companies will ultimately get to a really good value.
AP News Radio
Seager's HR sparks Rangers past Twins 6-5 to end 4-game skid
"Corey Seager led a 6 run 5th inning that sent the rangers to their first win in 5 games 6 5 versus the twins See your belt in a three run Homer to cap the outburst helping Texas erase a three zero deficit The rangers had just two base runners in the first four innings against Sonny gray before loading the bases with nobody out Mitch garver was hit by a pitch leote Tavares hit a sacrifice fly and Josh Smith tied it with an RBI single winning pitcher John gray and 8 over 5 and a third yielding two run homers by Carlos Correa and Ryan Jeffers Sonny gray lost for the first time in his last ten starts I'm Dave
AP News Radio
Escobar homers again, Carrasco pitches Mets past Rangers 4-1
"The mets made it two of three from the rangers with a four to one victory at city field The game turned it on unusual play in the bottom of the fourth The range is John gray struck out Pete Alonso but the ball got away from heim who then threw the ball into right field trying to get Alonso added first Jeff McNeil the next batter double Tom Alonzo for the go ahead run It's nice to you know get a serious win against them and happy flight You'll get on the road and take care of Cincinnati Big deal scored after his double and Eduardo Escobar's third home in as many games to make it four to one Carlos Carrasco health arranges to one run in 6 hits while Fannie ate to raise his record to 9 and four Tom maryam New
Baseball Tonight with Buster Olney
"john grey" Discussed on Baseball Tonight with Buster Olney
"Right now slated to make more in 2022 than the Orioles, the pirates or the guardians, entire roster. How much money Max Scherzer is making? Okay, let's talk about the Texas Rangers in two days they committed more money and salary than they had the previous four seasons combined. What about the rangers adding Marcus Simeon and Corey Seager? Well, they might now have the best middle infield in baseball. Marcus Simeon had a tremendous year and that's two out of the last three. He's been a great player a tremendous Clubhouse guy and remarkable that how well he moved to second base last year when that is not an easy transition. Corey Seeger is still a terrific player. But let's keep in mind the rangers won 60 games last year. They got outscored by a 190 runs and I had a talent of evaluator tell me that other than a Dolly Garcia, they really don't have an everyday player on their team that can play on a maybe even an above 500 team. That's how he described the rangers offense, how short they were on position players. Well, they added two really good ones. Guys who are going to be there for a long time, they're going to stabilize and defensively and offensively and adding John grey to that rotation. Now they have to address their pitching, but for the rangers a tremendous first move. And if they can go from 60 wins to 75 with those three editions and others, that's a pretty big jump. In my like what the angels are trying to do this winter and that is the threat and needle on one hand up grade the pitching staff. You know, that's entirely their focus. And at the same time, not necessarily get locked into huge long-term contracts because at some point they're going to have to pay shohei Otani. What do you think of the angels? Well, I like what they've tried to do here. They got their clothes, raised yellow glaciers, which I think they had to do. They added Noah synagogue. We don't know what he's going to be like, given his health, but he's certainly worth a try at 21 million for one year. I think they have a chance to get better. I still don't think they're that far away if Otani has that year trout comes back and is the best player in baseball. Rendon comes back and is a 100% healthy. I think this team has a chance to be much better than last year, but they have to add another starting pitcher and maybe two, because what they've added so far just isn't enough. The Seattle Mariners and Toronto Blue Jays to me very interesting off seasons. The Mariners signed Robbie ray. American League sayong award winner, the Blue Jays signed Kevin gossman away from the San Francisco Giants, gossman had a big step forward last year. I know the Giants didn't make a strong attempt to keep him in part because they were concerned about his second half. Give me some thoughts and Mariners and Blue Jays. Well, I like where the Mariners finished last year as we know. They almost made the playoffs. They've done some interesting things and starting with Robbie ray. I mean, he has to be, if they're gonna make the playoffs, Robbie ray has to be something close to the say young winner that he was in 2021. So just that move alone, I think gives them some real versatility in that rotation and Adam Frazier gives him another offensive player at second base, which they needed also. I could see them making the next step next year and making the playoffs with the moves that they made. As for the Blue Jays, I mean, those are those for big losses. You lose the Cy Young winner like that. You lose Marcus Simeon. Those are big losses. But they filled in with some interesting people. They have that great young base coming back, and I still like with a Blue Jays are, I could see them be at a playoff team next year also, if, of course, there are 7 playoff teams instead of 5. I had a conversation with a baseball executive yesterday in which I said, you know, a team that I kind of like what they're doing, the Marlins, they go out and trade for Joey Wendell. They trade for Jacob stallings to be their catcher. You know, to help that young pitching staff, they sign Abby sailed Garcia. You can make an argument that maybe they paid above market for him. But you know what, Tim, they have potentially a great rotation. They got a little bit better on defense and they got a little bit better on offense. What do you think? Yeah, I think they got more than a little better on defense. Joey Wendell is a well above average defensive third baseman or wherever you put him. Jacob stallings want a gold glove. And obviously Darcy is a pretty darn good right Fielder and he was arguably the best offensive player on the brewers last year, even though the brewers didn't hit much in the postseason. Plus, with that young rotation, they signed sandy Alcantara long-term. I really liked what the Marlins did also. I'm not suggesting their better than the mets or the braves or maybe even the Phillies, but they needed some significant work done with that team after last year, and they got it done. All right. Some teams that are relatively inactive, when you compare it to market size, the Yankees, the Red Sox, the Dodgers, the Phillies, the Giants, and I'm not saying, these are the reasons that this is justified, but I do think that and I know this from conversations with executives. But part of the thinking of those teams who have all flirted with the competitive balance tax threshold in recent years and sometimes moved up on over it and sometimes gone below it is that they want to know what the rules of the next CBA are actually going to be. It's pretty clear Steve Cohen just plowed through and he's like, you know what? I'm going to spend this money. I'm going to have a huge payroll and if they're taxes, that's fine, I'll deal with that. Whereas I think from what I understand, some of the other teams are like, you know what? We want to know what the rules are and Tim, as I talked about with Paul and bikinis, if you're a team that has some financial flexibility after this labor stoppage is over, you could potentially do some damage because it's going to be a scramble with a lot of the middle class players taking big hits and salaries. So I don't know if it was the right thing for the Yankees to do. They need a shortstop, but that's I think the justification in part for what they're thinking. Yeah, and I certainly understand that. Now, I think if you're a Yankee fan, you want your shortstop wrapped up before you get to December the first and that did not happen, but I'm with you on this buster. Those are payroll, flexibility teams, those big market clubs that can do pretty much whatever they want when this market open opens back up again, which again, we're not sure when that's going to be. Dodgers can pretty much do whatever they want because of their money, but they still have a very good team. The Yankees have some work to do. I fully expect them to do it once they understand what the rules are, and they can not get out of this off season without getting a premiere shortstop one way or another. And the Red Sox didn't do much. I'm still not sure I understand the hunter Renfro move. He was an excellent defensive player last year and had a pretty darn good offensive season also. But again, they have the flexibility to say we can wait where others couldn't. So I'm not going to let you get completely unscathed from the labor situation. I got one question for you. Could you have like I have the perspective of time having covered multiple labor situations and leadership groups on both sides, my belief is is that the working relationship between the two sides is the worst that I've ever seen. The lack of collaboration, the lack of the dialog. That's my perception. What about you? Well, I covered the 81 strike buster. And again, I was like 12 years old..
NoCo Now ? 1310 KFKA
"john grey" Discussed on NoCo Now ? 1310 KFKA
"Brought back antonio since at taylor and cj krono about that. I was one I really didn't expect. And i know that Mark knutson who joins us. Now really dont that. He may have played himself into a job. Somewhere else but iraqis able to pony up and get him mark. What are your thoughts on the first couple of moves from bill schmidt. You want to keep those two guys in full for sure I thought honestly that. I said it's on my podcast that. Cj criminals a top priorities created wise. He was their top priority to get him. They got this young man and michael toga who Participate in the futures game. I own draft pick a couple years ago. Looks like he's like twelve years old home. Run the futures game at coors field. Let's switch hitting first baseman from ucla. Very high on him but he's a couple of years away He's looking i. I don't know if you shave yet. Looking at it. But give him a couple more years. He didn't get the play much last this not this past season here before the kobe. So we need some work and bringing. Cj krone back for another season two seasons fantastic decision. I i'm really happy. They did that and their best pitcher. His last game was very good. Pitch of the second season so you definitely want to him that well so far so good so now you got john gray trevor story lingering out there any word on that no i think Gray will be the next dominant fallen. You'll probably a workout something with him. I again this is the topic on my podcast. I'm not exactly sure. What will they bring him back in. I would love to see them. Try john gray as a closer. I think john gray. You know some guys need a change of scenery or this that or the other. I think a change of rules for john gray. He's a mediocre starting pitching the big league. He has way better than mediocre stuff but production-wise he's been a five hundred he's been mediocre guy and i think when you look at like that you see. How can we get the most out of john. Gray you know. Brady like the howell. The gray wolf persona. That's coming closer. That's exactly the kind of thing you want. Got coming out of the bullpen. And he plays the loud music. Like they determined hoffman. And maybe that's all he would thrive in at least some some exploration. So maybe they'll do that. And maybe they'll bring him back to the middle of the rotation guy. He says he wants to come back. Which indicates me he's not Looking for a huge contract. You'd rather likes that. Believes in what they're doing. So maybe Maybe we'll get him to see triggers a whole different story again. I wrote about this. And i'll continue talking. I thought the whole goodbye to trevor thing. Let's can wasn't embarrassment. It was ridiculous. It was terrible of the guys who three. He's diet new carrier retiring facing the fight of his life. He's just retire or just free agent. You don't go to that kind of pomp and circumstance..
AP News Radio
Rodgers, Story Go Deep, Rockies Beat Braves 5-4
"A pair of home runs in a solid pitching performance by John gray led the Colorado Rockies to a five to four victory over the Atlanta Braves Trevor story had a solo shot in the second and Brendan Rodgers had a two run home run in the fourth for the Rockies Roger said he enjoys playing the role of spoiler in the National League we're just trying to kind of ruin their own playoff hopes honestly and kind of fun winning these big games these close games like against really good teams the Braves close the gap to one run in the eighth on a pretty Freeman triple an Avenue about two run Homer closer Carlos Estevez shut down Atlanta in the bottom of the ninth Tookie to some was the starter and loser for the Braves Gary McPhillips Atlanta
Conscious Millionaire Show ~ Business Coaching and Mentoring 6 Days a Week
"john grey" Discussed on Conscious Millionaire Show ~ Business Coaching and Mentoring 6 Days a Week
"Wanting sex all the time it means you're addicted to it because it's always so low you're craving that surge you get in the arousal period it does surge but if you go without sex for six days with audi jackie leading then when it surges it doubles and that's what women need to feel an order for their estrogen levels to double and that's what men need to feel when they're having sex is that you're able to bring her estrogen levels up so it's important permit if you're going to have sex and i think it's really important if you have a partner if you're not having a partner don't waste your energy but if you're having sex sex supplementation means you're not doing it for the pleasure. Although that's a side effect is quite nice. It's enjoyable totally. it's for the love. Is that sex increases your capacity to feel if something's pleasurable. You have no resistance to it so you fully embrace it. You feel it so when you can feel why are you having sex. You're doing it so you can feel the love you have for your partner. That's why you don't want to have sex with somebody you don't love otherwise you're not sublimating. Your sexual energy sexual energy if you're just sex for having fun and having sex you're like a monkey okay and i'm not judging your for that i've been among for parts of our live. No big deal okay. That's fun but you're not going to be superman. You're not gonna superwoman. You're not gonna is your dreams and be a powerful successful person in here. We have thinking grow rich. Were they're all talking about sex supplementation which is not using that sexual energy just for pleasure you can use it for love and are you can use it for your creative endeavors so find your creative projects that you do which is one of the reasons. These teenage children should be teenage. Boys particularly they get a surge of five times more testosterone sometimes ten times more puberty. They need to have some sort of cultural activities that they're busy doing to us up that energy otherwise they'll just masturbated away. It's just too much intensity city. I can't help but think that they ought to get involved and build a business. They ought to become creative entrepreneurs and use all that energy building businesses that make an impact on the world. Well that certainly. That's that that's your specialty. So i would expect you to say you know what i'd also say is learning musical instrument for some children would be really really good. Some people learning how to dance some people learning archery some people at sports and it can also be building a business for sure. These are all activities that need supervision which exhausts them of their energies and and that's that will help them to sublimate that energy but if they're just sitting in front passively on a computer that energy will not be sublimated. It gets drained out addiction. Drains drains the brain. We're here with john gray again. I wanna tell you go get his.
Conscious Millionaire Show ~ Business Coaching and Mentoring 6 Days a Week
"john grey" Discussed on Conscious Millionaire Show ~ Business Coaching and Mentoring 6 Days a Week
"For anything you're showing your vulnerability that i need help that produces estrogen and the biggest estrogen producers. When you can show that to your partner. We're here with john gray. I want to remind you again. Go to mars venus dot com and get the free course how to get everything you want in relationships. You're going to want to stay tune absolutely because we're gonna be right back with a going deeper segment on sex supplementation to celebrate the new limitless performers show..
Conscious Millionaire Show ~ Business Coaching and Mentoring 6 Days a Week
"john grey" Discussed on Conscious Millionaire Show ~ Business Coaching and Mentoring 6 Days a Week
"Requires testosterone. A requires driving requires delayed gratification. It requires sacrifice when other people wanna lounge around. We're out there working and we're getting the job done. People who are successful financially have made lots of sacrifices in order to get there and when you make sacrifices to achieve a goal i'm not talking about. Oh i've sacrificed now. You're talking about. Hey i could be at the beach or i could be writing a book. So let's my choice here right. So there's always sacrificing every choice you make. So you're constantly delaying your own fulfillment to achieve a goal. So that then down the line you will have fulfillment. That's what entrepreneur does is. They postponed gratification to achieve a goal. They sustained focus. They do what's required to achieve that goal. They don't worry about their own happiness till later. Okay so while. You're postponing gratification. While you're setting goals while you're sacrificing to achieve those goals the hormone this being produced in your body is testosterone estrogen. Estrogen is produced when you feel relaxed and supported when you feel other people are helping you. Not when you're out there sacrificing for others other people. They're supporting you so not a lot of estrogens being produced when you're an entrepreneur out there unless you come home to a relationship that has skills to raise her estrogen and most couples do not have those skills. Most men do not have those skills so she comes home. Literally estrogen dry. She can't be responsive to sex. She's burned up you know. She's not making estrogen in her life. These are things produce estrogen. If a woman goes shopping for example. she's relaxed. he's trying on outfits she's thinking how it can be beautiful. That's estrogen producing. She's buying some nice clothes to look beautiful. She looking in the mirror. Thinking i look good. That's estrogen producing. She's wearing makeup. That's estrogen producing. She looked beautiful. She's doing things that make her happy. She goes for walks in nature she gardens. She sings she dances. She has fun. She has relationships he goes to lunch. She talks about personal things not business things. She has to have a personal life is it doesn't matter when she's doing some of those personal things whether it's with a man or woman or is it just the act of doing that matters. Usually it's easier to produce estrogen if she's with a woman with girlfriends but you'll produce more estrogen if it's her partner doing things for her. So that's the other side of it. She has her friends. That's estrogen producing women get together. They talk they talk about. Kim has places people. That's estrogen stimulating. When you talk about things money. Achieving goals that's testosterone stimulating..
Conscious Millionaire Show ~ Business Coaching and Mentoring 6 Days a Week
"john grey" Discussed on Conscious Millionaire Show ~ Business Coaching and Mentoring 6 Days a Week
"You come in and she goes. Get nothing in this relationship now. It doesn't it's not logical it's emotional and it's based upon hormones. Women have to have different hormones than men in order to feel good to feel loving reassurance. Little acts of affection holding hands giving hugs taking time to listen asking questions not being angry with her. When you're little frustrated taking time to give her special attention these little things are what women need most once. You're making a good amount of money and this is what one study showed at harvard. Which is when people get their basic needs. Met up around two hundred thousand dollars a year. More money doesn't make them happier. That's basically the key to that. Is there sort of on a plateau. But what makes them happier is what that money can bring to their life and for women what. It should bring her life on. A biological level is more time or affection. More want more warmth. More attentiveness more hugs. These are like little things that now we know scientifically can raise estrogen levels and when estrogen goes up. Women are happy one hug as one estrogen level. Four hugs a day as four one active acknowledgement and consideration. Another point so doing little things men think. Why do i need to do the little things when i'm doing the big stuff that's the that's the one piece of logic. Now you gotta keep doing those little things that you did in the beginning which is when you won her over because those little things what produces the high levels of estrogen and it's a high levels of estrogen allow women to not only be happy in the relationship but to be sexually responsive and that's what you also want is a sexually responsive partner and men tend to blame her for not being that interested in sex would really. He's not providing the stimulation that will raise her estrogen so that she can be sexually responsive and these are all biological realities that we now know so folks. I wanna want to interject two things here. Want you to go because this is all about relationship. Success for successful entrepreneurs go to mars venus dot com and get the free course..
Conscious Millionaire Show ~ Business Coaching and Mentoring 6 Days a Week
"john grey" Discussed on Conscious Millionaire Show ~ Business Coaching and Mentoring 6 Days a Week
"So let me give you an example just to make it really clear for the men. My daughter lauren. When she was a little girl She didn't like mathematics quite a common for a lot of girls. And i said no no. You can be great at at math. And i'll teach you how so. I did her math homework for him. All the way up to eighth grade. I did it with her. So it was a father daughter bonding experience and she ended up by the way my doing homework with her and doing all the answers and showing her how to get there. She ended up being the highest scoring calculus student on her own in college. Because i could only go up to eighth grade just to show that will love. An inner interaction can bring out the best in someone although after that she had no care about it no interest in it but the point is i'm doing this with her up to eighth grade and around that time geometry i didn't have all the formulas in my head and i didn't have an answer and my brother robert was in town and he's a math. Phd runs in my family. And and so. I said oh your uncle roberts here he can solve that. She says oh good good so she showed in the problem. His first reaction was oh. That's easy as soon as he said that's easy. She felt dismissed like she was stupid for not being able to know the answer. So the big story to remember that one thing sometimes when you say to somebody oh that's not a problem. It's dismissive now. If you're that is entrepreneur and people are looking to you for fixes and you can handle it. great. I want you. I'll hire you so to speak but in a personal relationship particularly intimate relationship. It's not business and men have to get it's a different world and usually to be an entrepreneur and be successful the skills that allow you to be an entrepreneur and successful are not the skills to have a successful marriage. You've gotta learn a whole new skill set. And that's hard. It's humbling. I remember interviewing larry king. He had so many wives. And i said larry you know. You're a great interviewer but you know. What was your always wanting to know the answers to why why why as opposed to validating emotions and feelings so he was always looking into the logic very male perspective as opposed to validating emotions is very quick to say. That doesn't make sense. Well that doesn't make sense. You can't say that to your wife that doesn't make sense. What you say to her is helped me understand that better. It's a totally different. Thing is not to be dismissive. The next thing. I would see with wealthy men and is not understanding and for myself as well as i became more successful i notice these tendencies to think that money should.
Conscious Millionaire Show ~ Business Coaching and Mentoring 6 Days a Week
"john grey" Discussed on Conscious Millionaire Show ~ Business Coaching and Mentoring 6 Days a Week
"Go to conscious millionaire dot com ford slash limitless audio i. This is j. v. And i'm excited that you've joined us because i've been incredible guest today. this is a man who's become extraordinarily successful knows a lot about seven and eight figure success and knows how to have that success in a way that's also going to be about your relationship so we're going to be talking about relationships today because the more financially successful you become often times the more cracks in the more difficulty and the more stress. You might find that you have in your relationships and of course. I'm talking about the one. And only john gray. He's the author of men are from mars. Women are from venus. Give what you want and want what you have. And he and jack canfield together have sold more personal development books than anyone else in the entire world. John it's a pleasure to have you on the elite show. Let's get started talking about relationship. Success and what are some of the problems that often occur as someone goes from seven to eight seven to nine or higher figures it becomes more financially successful. How does that impact ryan commit relationships. It has a big impact. And you'll see that Jeff bezos just got divorced. The more money you got the bigger the risk of getting a divorce. I gotta feel like quoting jesus when he said for rich man to get into heaven. It's like camel going through a hold of a needle or something like that For for you to be super rich and have a successful relationship can be very challenges up. Put it that way. And why is that. But we'll explore some of those things and we'll have to look at it from two different perspectives one perspective. If you're a man your entrepreneur man and you're up there making a lot of money achieving a lot in your life. You're an entrepreneur You're out of the box you doing That can create a lotta problems in a relationship with a woman. And if you're a woman and you're out there and you're making all that money it produces different problems in your relationship. So i can't. I can't just say there's a simple thing for both men and women because we are different and our challenges are different. So let me start. J. by talking about men who are very very successful and the problems that they have simply put. Let me just. Here's a few basics for women for women to be happy in a relationship. They need to feel love. They feel her. They need to feel valued. They need to feel special. They need to feel equal now. Equal doesn't mean the same but equal respect. Now i would be counseling a very wealthy man. I can say their names but it's private you don't put somebody's name that everybody in the world would know and i'm counting the wife and she's talking about some of the problems that they have and what she thinks is right or wrong and at he says will. You're just wrong. I'm.
NoCo Now ? 1310 KFKA
"john grey" Discussed on NoCo Now ? 1310 KFKA
"I think is is a pretty good. Possibly it's the best chance for the rockies to win some games because they're pitching well coors like you've mentioned. They're pitching well on the road. And now you just gotta hope some guys come along. I mean you saw the them. Ob futures all star game on sunday. You know the iraqis prospect hitting a home run blasting one out on that game as well. I think you've got to try and keep this pitching staff together Because right now with the way that they're pitching of the rockies have the offense that they normally have and those players in that position. I think you're talking about a team that that you know is at least containing playoff spot on these decisions are being made money money wise more so than you think. It's just purely money at this point not not purely not purely but largely so her mom marquette. Marcus has a couple more years on rocky team control. He's not going anywhere. We're not to worry about the all star pitcher being traded. That's not going to have to. You've heard some other national types. They know they're never gonna trade him because under team control is not expensive and all that john gray and the other hand has contracts over the share. You let them walk through free because he's not gonna come back john gray and my opinion needs a change of scenery. He looks to me like you. Just kind of okay. Here we go again. Another game against the diamondbacks. They must've diamondbacks fifty times in his career. And other you know. He needs a change of scenery and he'll probably have the wrote. He'll probably go somewhere else and do better did hear his. Ironically john is roughly five hundred pitcher in his career. Average one hundred sixty two game season is a thirteen and eleven records and it stuck his way better than that way better than that. So i think john gray goes somewhere and benefits from a change of scenery but the rockies have to trade him so it is a walk for free and have to try to get something back from. Maybe somebody young a younger version of john gray something like that but you know i remember. There was a trade a few years back for the young people listening. Rocky planet. matt holliday was a really good player. All star player It'll be part of their world series team but he wasn't gonna come back so they made a train..
A New Direction
"john grey" Discussed on A New Direction
"Because i know you've got some programs mars. Venus dot com programs. The most important is my free class on relationships right there. On of course the book beyond mars and venus is the updated minute from ores and at my website mars. Venus dot com. Right there on the front page. You can take our free online course. It is the foundations of what i teach in is free. We get rave reviews. It's changing the world so check me out there. Mars venus dot com his. Name's john gray jay. Is you know what i tell you every week. Here's the deal. There's two things in your life you can always control that your attitude and your effort doesn't matter what's going on in your life. You always have control of those two things. I'm going to be back next week with another great guest and other great book. It's going to be another great another great show as i say to every week. That is shallow new things. Jane can't find this to thomas A new direction new direct saw a brand new things can't find to go. Thomas com falling down action..
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"john grey" Discussed on A New Direction
"I'm gonna. I'm gonna. I'm gonna wind up with something that you said in in later in the book and this is what a woman needs. Most remanded in her life is his respect. It's an i think sometimes is guys and you say this. I'm gonna just read what you wrote here to when a man is disconnected from his heart and it becomes angrier meaning always he always demands more respect but he really needs to feel more appreciation. A woman on the other hand she needs to be respected by the man. And i think sometimes as guys we miss the idea of respect because we have in our heads i think from our male dominated working world that you earn my respect but the truth is we give respect. We make that choice. I choose to respect you or i. Don't choose to respect you. And i think guys have got to get past this Ego trip you gotta earn my respect. Your your wife or significant other. She is she wants respect. And you can give it. And here's the secret. Thank you for saying that. Touched my heart. Even as you said it. I agree with everything you said i write about it and men cannot respect what they do not understand see is in a sense if you don't understand women's sensitivities you're a bull in the china shop you're stepping on things you're breaking things is kind of like when i would be in the garden helping my wife. She's a stepped on that plat. That meant i respect that plan. I stepped on that we stepped on why women sensitivities all the time buck up. Don't worry about. It is not a problem why you need so much. You're my attention where you want me to say this. I have to reassure you of the tell you i love you. You know we don't hear the signals from her of what she wishes and needs and hopes for we just minimize it because we think well. I don't need that so you should need that. The truly understanding our differences is the foundation of being able to respect someone and we don't understand we're doing our business best. We think we're doing what's right. We don't know the secrets of what women really need today. Particularly a new kind of respect that helps them come back to their female side. In the past a man used to respect show his respect for woman by working really hard and not requiring her to work really hard. It was like we did too difficult. The dangerous the dirty. If something's difficult or dangerous we said no no. Let me do that for you. Let me do that for you. Let me do that for you. But now women are over there doing difficult dangerous. They need even more respect for something else for getting in touch with their soft bents a feminine side. Because if you go deep in your female feelings you'll produce more estrogen to balance out that lack of estrogen that they would have been promoting if there were a tribe of women all washing clothes together taking care of each other's children and planning what they're going to make for dinner. That was an area and our human evolution which produced a massive estrogen for women and women didn't feel that need to be independent. They didn't have birth control. They had babies. They have breastfeeding babies at eighteen years old. Sixteen years old. You know the world was a different place. We've outgrown it consciously so we need new skills to help women find that balance. That's what relationships can provide and when they when we don't have relationship that can provide women give up on relationships with men and men give up on relationships with women and that's what we're seeing today. Dave john gray john. We've done it..
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"john grey" Discussed on A New Direction
"Not this perfect person. But you're the guy you're the one you're the one i love your it and she will come back to that place. If she's been in that place before it will come back same thing women you have to know for men if you're really upset with him about something he did. Reaper got to do as long as it's not really something huge. Always say to him. Magic praise you know. John is not such a big deal. But you know when you forget to do. This just makes me feel like oh. I have to do so much more so if you remember to do it i'd really appreciate it just little easy kind gentle statements. Which is you know. Some women will say what you have to walk on eggshells around him. No it's not walking on eggshells it's understanding how to show love to a man and anytime you give messages that he's appreciated and valued his testosterone will go up. His heart will open just as when women feel they're seen and heard and their feelings are validated. Then their estrogen goes up and she can remember why she's in love with you. That's beautiful i know. Listen if you're in a relationship. And by the way. I mean i don't care if you're married or you're single you're -habitating or whatever you're doing if you're in a significant relationship am and you know are single people out there who are longing for a relationship you know and they can't have one but this. This is so critical. Because i don't think i know that when my wife will say something about me and i don't feel appreciated i can literally feel my shoulders. Sag yes posture slums. Look at all these guys over fifty. They're already been over bought. Gotten better right. Let me let me interrupt for a second. Because i had to say because you were promoting that exercise those trainers people you have to know if your car breaks down you know how on your figure the car brighter and this and that what you don't know this stop..
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"john grey" Discussed on A New Direction
"And we're back here on a new direction with dr john gray and his book beyond mars and venus. It's absolutely its relationship skills for today's complex world Athlete antastic and you know. It's one of those things when you are with john. Dr john gray that what happens is you get so in namur with listening to him. Talk just kinda just wanna shut up. And just because he's so good he really is. I just. I sometimes catch myself what you have a show to do. You can't sit here at his feet and learn from them. Although i remember this giants big of run minutes. I gotta go. You're good. It's so good. And i love your insights. Because you're so insightful. You know one of the things that you talk about in later on. Is this in chapter ten. Which is entitled. She needs to be heard. He needs to be appreciated. And i wanna go into that a little bit deeper. You've kind of talked about it somewhat in terms of the complaints. But i don't think we understand as guys. I don't think we understand what it really means. When says she wants to be heard. And i don't know that women fully understand.
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"john grey" Discussed on A New Direction
"You lose confidence and of course when you're lack of confidence what you can experience anxiety and fear and nervousness. That's estrogen going up. So for men. It's very very important that when you're working hard there's a lot of stress you come back home and you do things in a non stressful context. That don't involve intimacy. That's why women don't understand. This is the concept of the cave. Which is men get close to women. We wanna be close to women through our wives to our families their personal relationships we get the field love. Love is estrogen rising. Estrogen going up. And so he needs to rebuild his testosterone. If it's low so often the men come home. They need time to chill out. You know in the old days menus to put up the newspaper which told them and says don't bother him. He's in his game. Let the key to. This is not take it personally. When men have different ways of coping with stress than women would and women have a different way of coping with stress. Which is if they're if they're conscious of emotional. Intelligence and a lot of women today aren't unfortunately they're feeling overwhelmed and stressed and all the things we talked about emotional intelligence tells us that if you're a woman if you can talk about what's bothering you if you can share your feelings inside even though they're not positive like frustrations disappointment sadness and hurt these fears and insecurity. If you can share that with somebody who's not going to take personally. Your estrogen levels will go up. But if you're upset is about your husband that's called a complaint is not going to go up. It actually goes up a little and then it goes down because anytime you're using speech our emotions to change somebody. I'm gonna be upset with you to get you to change and know how important is is. You're making testosterone at that point. Which will keep your estrogen from going higher and you'll be stuck in a negative state. This is what we've learned through forty years now. Counseling helping council ninety percent of the people come. are women. women come into my room. They're upset with their husbands. I get him to talk about their feelings. And feel what's going on inside and feel heard that's called validation. They leave happy their problem become littler littler so what women need most is the feel validated. For what's going on inside of them and what men need most is deal valued for what he does and not corrected for what he doesn't do and when he makes mistakes to trust he's doing his best whereas for women they need us meant to respect that they're not going to be happy all the time..
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"john grey" Discussed on A New Direction
"It is a scale of one to ten. How you evaluate your emotional growth in terms of a being able to control your emotions under stress right and when you're tired when you're hungry right how we control your emotions under those type of conditions and then how well are you able to tap into an understand the emotions of others and this may mean that you have to expand your emotional vocabulary and go beyond it right. It's called listening and it's not just listening and hearing it's active listening but understanding those emotions are important to being able to relate to each other right so sometimes you just need to have a bigger a catholic. So how would you rate yourself and your growth areas right same. Same scale one to ten all right finally spiritual area right and a lot of people questioned me about the spirits are but i will say this if you remove the physical. The mental and emotional whatever's left is probably spiritual and the truth of the matter is we'll have faith in something right and we end. The truth is when things go really really bad we run to something we make that our god whatever they may be for some people they believe in god for some people. They believe in meditation for some people they believe in nature walks for some people. It's something completely different for some people. They think they are their own god and so they rely on themselves. Whatever it may be the question then becomes is it working and is it effective and then in the midst of your chaos. Are you able to find peace. And are you able to find some sort of sense of joy even the midst of that. That's that's the spiritual round for me. Are you actively growing in that. And is it working. So those are your phone numbers right to the clemente emotional spiritual. They're like the legs of a chair if the chairs uneven you know it's very difficult to insurance your posture same token if the chair is too low you can't eat nutritiously and speaking of someone who has it altogether and i love him dearly. I really do. I mean that. John gray dr gray is the number one bestselling relationship author of all time. He is the author of over twenty books including the new york times number one best-selling relationship book men are from mars. Winter from venus. His books have sold over fifty million copies in fifty different languages around the world. He is a leading international recognized expert. In the fields of communication and relationships.
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"john grey" Discussed on A New Direction
"Pill everyone and welcome to a new direction. My name is jay is so old. He is yes sir. Yes ma'am dr. john gray author best number one world number one world forever world's number one bestselling author and relationships. Oh yeah dr. John gray is with us beyond mars and venus the book and a we have got a show for you. It's father's day is coming up and we're going to talk a little bit about what dads need. What mom's need to. And how dads and moms and kind of get together also gonna talk about dad at work and mom at work and how that kind of all fits together because work and home life and things have changed in our world and we'll dr. John can help us. Sort it all out because it is convoluted is crazy is unbelievable but you know what he's here to help us simplified down so that you know what we could take relationships come down and then we can take him to work and what we do is we can focus on her work and we could focus on relationships and we can have a happy marriage of all of us all right. Dr johnson do that for us. He's great dr john gray. Listen before we do that. We're gonna do what we do every week right. I'm going to walk you through your growth in the forest of your life right. We're four-part people physical mental emotional and spiritual folks. Let me just say something about growth in those areas because if we here's the thing about growth if we don't stay static okay so if you're not growing your dying it's just it's just a fact you know this to be true. How many of you can. I'm just gonna you know you don't have that can't see your hands right because i know you might be driving in a car and by the way one just take. Am fm twenty four seven because we are now coast to coast in the united states. But let me let me ask you this. Raise your hands. How many of you remember exactly when you took a foreign language in high school. How many member can speak it fluently. Exactly none of us. You know why because we never. We didn't keep growing.
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Turner Powers Dodgers Past Rockies 4-2 for 5th Straight Win
"Justin Turner homered and drove in two runs as the Dodgers won their fifth straight game forty two over the Rockies that gives Turner three home runs the most he's ever hit in the month of April and I'm not trying to they had a bunch of numbers I'm just trying to get a basketball shorts and wearing couple moved out of the fence already so that's that's nice rookie Zach McKinstry also hit his third Homer Corey can able got the win in relief John gray took the loss Kenley Jansen struck out three batters in the ninth for the save at ten AM to LA has the best record in baseball while three of nine Colorado has the worst I am mark Myers
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Josephine Butler and the fight for women's equality
"Let's talk about Josephine Butler. Josephine was born on April thirteenth eighteen, twenty eight in Northumberland, the northeastern region of England to a prominent family. Her Father John. Gray was a wealthy landowner and cousin to the British prime. minister. Earl. Grey who led between eighteen, thirty and eighteen, thirty four. Josephine's father was a strong supporter of progressive social reforms value. He passed along to his daughter one of Seven Children Josephine was educated by her father at home. He educated both sons and daughters equally an uncommon practice for the time in eighteen fifty two at the age of Twenty Four Josephine Mary George Butler an examiner of schools who shared her commitment to social reforms. In their first five years of marriage the couple had four children in eighteen sixty, three Josephine's only daughter and youngest child Eva fell to her death. To cope with the overwhelming grief, Josephine turned to charity work. Josephine. started by finding shelter for the city's homeless women often taking them into her own home. Many of these women were prostitutes suffering the terminal stages, venereal diseases. Josephine also worked with Aunt Jemima. Cloth a prominent suffragette. To establish academic courses for advanced study for women. In eighteen sixty seven. Appointed president of the north of England Council for Higher Education of women. She campaigned for Cambridge. University, to expand opportunities available to women, students, and her efforts resulted in one of Cambridge's all women, colleges, Newnham College. During this time Josephine published multiple books about the social issues. She championed her views on a woman's place in society conflicted with some feminists of the time. Straight from the idea that women should be viewed in the same terms as men instead she argued that women deserve the vote because they were different than men and had a separate responsibility within society to protect and care for the week. To Josephine ensuring a woman's right to vote was away to strengthen the morality of the nation. In eighteen sixty nine Josephine began publicly campaigning against the contagious diseases acts of eighteen, sixty, six, eighteen, sixty, nine. These acts were initially introduced to curtail the spread of venereal diseases in the armed, forces. But in order to do so sex workers were heavily targeted and penalized. Under, these acts police were given the authority to arrest suspected prostitutes living in seaports and military towns and subject them to forced medical examinations. Have worked with sex workers at the start of her career. Josephine felt sympathy for these woman. She believed they were forced into this work through low wages and minimal opportunity for Josephine these acts represented troubling double standard. Sex workers were punished, but the men who sought out there surfaces were not. Josephine was a powerful orator who drew large crowds as she traveled the country gaining support for the Act's repeal. George now, a prominent figure in academia was criticized for letting his wife discuss sex in public. Despite threats to his career George, continue to support Josephine's advocacy. And Josephine charged on. She teamed up with other prominent social workers to expose the insidious world of human trafficking and child prostitution in London. Her hard work paid off. In eighteen eighty, five parliament passed the Criminal Law Amendment Act which raised the age of consent from thirteen to sixteen. And the following year eighteen, eighty, six parliament formally repealed the contagious diseases act. In her final years Josephine supported the suffrage movement and published her most famous work personal reminiscences of a great crusade. It promoted social reform women's education and equality. Josephine. Butler died on December thirtieth nineteen O six. She was seventy eight years old. Her Fiber Women's equality especially for those who often exist on the margins of society remains highly relevant to this day.
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The Last US Civil War Pension
"Triplet was born in Nineteen thirty in Wilkes County North Carolina Sixty five years after the end of the civil war. How she ended up receiving civil war pension is one of those stories that you wouldn't believe if it wasn't true. But when you do the math, it actually does workout. Her father was most triplet was a veteran of the civil war. He had the distinction of having fought for both the confederacy and the Union. He was a member of the fifty third North Carolina infantry who fought in the battle of Gettysburg. On the way to Gettysburg most fell ill and was hospitalized the illness probably saved his life because most of his unit was either killed or wounded during the battle. After he recovered, he deserted the confederates and joined up with the third north, Carolina mounted infantry which fought for the union. The unit was known as Kirks raiders after commander Colonel, George Washington. Kirk. After the war Mos- returned to North Carolina got married and started a family his wife Mary passed away in one, thousand, nine, hundred, ninety. As with many older civil war veterans, they would often take younger second wives especially during the Great Depression as their pension was considered a source of stable income. In one, thousand, nine, hundred, eighty, four at the age of seventy eight MOS married his second wife Alita who was twenty nine years old Mohsen Alita had five children. One of them Irene was born in one, thousand, nine, thirty when Mos- was eighty-three. Irene was just eight years old when her father died at the age of ninety two after returning home from a civil war veterans reunion. Irene had a cognitive disability which made her eligible to continue to receive her father civil war pension after his death as a quote, helpless child of a veteran. She received her father's pension of seventy three dollars and thirteen cents every month from her father's death in one thousand, nine, thirty, eight to her death in. Twenty twenty. The amount was never for inflation. The entire time it's estimated she received approximately seventeen thousand dollars over the course of her life. In addition to having received the last civil war pension, she was also the last child of a civil war veteran. The second to last child of a civil war veteran also had an interesting story in two thousand. Eighteen Fred Upton passed away at the age of ninety seven. His father was William H Upton. Who is a civil war veteran and the former governor of the state of Wisconsin who was elected in eighteen ninety four. Because of the occurrence of young women marrying much older men with pensions, the passing of the last civil war widow wasn't that long ago either in two thousand and eight motty Hopkins died at the age of ninety three in thousand, nineteen, thirty, four at the age of nineteen she married eighty six year old William Cantrell who served as a sixteen year old soldier in the confederate army. Blast Union widow was Gertrude Janeway who passed away in two thousand three. The last surviving documented veteran of the civil war was Albert Wilson who died at the age of one, hundred, six in one thousand, nine, hundred, eighty, six he was a fourteen year old drummer boy in the first Minnesota. Heavy. Artillery Regiment. In one, thousand, nine, hundred, eighty, six there was an episode of the TV Game Show I've got a secret with a ninety five year old man named Samuel Seymour. The panelists had to guess what the guest secret was. Samuel Seymour. Was the last surviving witness to Abraham Lincoln's assassination. He was a five year old boy was taken affords theater and said in the balcony across the theater from the present it. there. Is a clip of the appearance on Youtube and I highly recommend viewing it if you're interested in such things. The. Last surviving person who was born as a slave in the United States was Peter Mills who died in Nineteen seventy-two he was born into slavery in eighteen sixty one and live to be one hundred, ten, one person was both born into bondage and live to see the moon landing. The last surviving veteran of the Revolutionary War was John Gray who died in eighteen sixty, eight at the age of one, hundred four he's one of the only people who live to see both the revolution and the civil war oddly enough he was born on George Washington's estate Mount Vernon and his father died in the revolutionary. War. The, last surviving veteran of Napoleon's army was a Polish man Vincent Markowitz who died at one hundred and eight in nineteen three and the last veteran of the war of eighteen twelve was Hiram Cronk who passed away in one thousand, nine, five at the age of one, hundred and five. In Two thousand eleven at the age of one hundred and ten American Frank. Buck was the last surviving veteran of World War One in the world to pass away. Demographers estimate that the last veteran of World War Two will pass away sometime around the year twenty, forty four. It will probably be someone who fought at a very young age and lives to be at least one, hundred and ten. It's amazing how the lives of some people can span such incredible lengths of time and how we can have lives that overlap them. We think of the civil war is being a long time ago. Yet we're only two or three generations removed from people who lived through all of these events.
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Not Flying This Summer? Many Americans Are Hitting The Road In RVs
"Flying is not all that attractive these days but with gas prices, low travelers are hitting the road some of them worried about staying in hotels and eating in restaurants have decided to go a different way they're taking an RV, a recreational vehicle for the first time Melanie peoples has more like a lot of people amy holded has never driven anything bigger than an SUV, but she's about to get behind the wheel of a thirty foot long house on wheels. Getting their first look at their home for the next ten days amy her mom Sandra and especially her twelve year old son Duncan are thrilled. Why Goal. Very. It looks plenty big for their trip for Madison Alabama to Cape Cod Massachusetts there's a table, a kitchen, a back bedroom, even a shower and bathroom not to mention walls that slide out to make their living space even bigger. Cheryl Huddle is the owner of the RV. Okay. So normally start at the front door we're just GONNA go around and everything's been cleaned with bleach because of covid you wouldn't think it but it takes two hours for huddled to show hold it everything she needs to know there's all the indoor stuff how the benches turned into bed when to hook up to electricity when to use the generator, how to turn on the generator not to mention all the outside stuff like power cord water hookup right now we get into the Control panel. Air Conditioner where're you headed to this? Wasn't the vacation hold each who works us an esthetician in a salon had planned for her family. They were all supposed to fly to why and sure they could have just put that off for another year. But Amy wanted something for making memories this summer my Dad Alzheimer's, and my mom has a progressive memory loss as well and I knew. I don't know how many trips we have left in us. You know there's a lot of uncertainty right now and I, just kind of went with it just kept thinking about it and kept thinking about it and i. just kind of jumped off the cliff and didn't that is not to say, she doesn't expect challenges. But as she's navigating her new role as a single mom she's discovering learning to overcome them is a good thing and so there was a little bit of uncertainty of of doing it myself. But I've. Always, been able to do it myself before for the most part on you know struggle sometimes but I think I can do it. She doesn't want to look back on this year as the year corona virus ruined everything. Hold it is not alone nationwide three times as many people are renting vs the summer according to the RV renting service RV share CEO. John Gray, says, people are Leery of shared spaces are discovering. What's great about RV's people can bring the bathroom with them. They can bring their kitchen with them, and that premium of control that has always existed in RV travel is even more of a premium. This year prices run from fifty dollars a night for a pop-up Camper two thousand and night depending on size and level of luxury. Despite the Corona Virus Americans certainly aren't sitting at home, the American Automobile Association Aaa Expect six hundred, eighty, three, million, car trips this summer that's only a three percent drop from last year bottom line is Americans plan to travel genetic Kesse is a spokesperson for AAA. One thing different this summer she says is people have to plan ahead you want to plan your trip from eight point. Be Not just to know how you're going to get there. But where and when you're going to stops and that's exactly what hold each has done mapping her out all the way up to Cape. COD making sure she won't have to quarantine along the way speaking of old age. She's gotten her last bid of RV instructions and the family is all inside buckled up and ready to ride. Right regard. She'll be fine. No really. She made a perfect three point turns in reverse after that. And then they were gone. Off on their big adventure. For NPR news. I'm Melanie peoples since Melanie reported that story amy has made it safely to Cape Cod but says, driving an RV through the Lincoln tunnel is not something she would advise.
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Strong Women and the Power Struggle with Your Mate with Arielle Ford
"Let's talk about the type of partner that were attracted to if we are a powerful person you know I don't know that there's a short answer to that here's what I do know is that whether you just become successful in business or you've been successful for a long time the power that women exude was there anyway and lots and lots of men are attracted to powerful women justice like we're attracted to certain kinds of guys that may be confident or something like that where the problems have arisen that I've seen in my life and those around me is when a couple decides to go into business together especially if it's the woman's business that he's coming into that creates a power struggle so suddenly you went from being let's say a equals in a marriage partnership to she's the boss you know she's the one who is now having to say give Tass to her partner germ which could be demoralizing the guy who's used to running things his way so I usually recommend that you know if your relationships going well don't do that as your both really conscious enough and willing to work through the issues that will arise I'll tell you what happened in my life as it totally took me by surprise I was the first time right at the age of forty three and then I decided to use every prayer processing ritual I've ever done to build my business to manifest a soulmate and did it brilliantly and I- manifested this amazing exceeded all my expectations we got married and then we decided to start a business together now I went into this marriage not knowing that I had zero partnership skills and be the thing that I was really the best at was being the us being the boss with an Alpha masculine male isn't that a good place to be if you WANNA have a good sex life yeah doesn't work so we ended up having to do a ton of work around masculine and Feminine Energy and learning how to work together because we were both very a successful business people with two very different business styles so I'm a get it done kind of person you know something comes on my desk and it's Atta there in thirty seconds right is a slower much more thoughtful wants to review everything three times kind of person which draw me Rainsy You know so we had lots and lots of issues to work out and eventually for lots of different reasons we closed the business in I just said odor ever again you know we just put too much stress and strain are romantic relationship now I know you and your husband very successfully worked together so I'm curious what are the things that you do that make so well well didn't work well at first much like you've described it was that was a language I was even using my business I need your help today can you help me do this for my business and languages of I piece and then you know he is the quarterback I mean he was like a collegiate quarterback he played professional quarterback that's the guy who's in charge that's the guy who leads the team who takes the fall who glorified in the win got to tell you my husband was captain of his College Basketball Team Championship. and then he was pro so I understand yeah and so it wasn't like I was attracted to someone who was necessarily a milk toast kind of person He's definitely a leader very charismatic I think part of our relationship together it was like it was the first time he was dating someone who was like his equal and it was the first time I felt like I was dating someone who is my equal but I was more powerful when it came to business he had no experience area the type of business with started together and I needed his help and just need like I need a warm body I needed his skill set if we were the next level I mean the things that he's great at I'm horrible at in order for that to work we went through some really horrible nearly marriage ending James nearly hit rock bottom and then it was a matter of going to therapy and realizing like oh so there's a way I am in business and then there's a way need to be with my husband and each of us had to recognize each other's strengths and powers and I stay in and I know this may sound controversial but I stay in my feminine role and maybe it's not feminine or masculine but I stay in that role where you're the man you're the person who's taking era of me and maybe he'll listen to this maybe he won't but I'm really thinking about his ego like all the time in how I respond to his feedback is ideal as his suggestions away that I constantly look for ways to acknowledge all the things he's doing which are so different from the things that I'm doing and it wasn't doing that at first at first I would just be like here do this and it was all the things that I knew how to do but we're within his strength or his interests yeah no lead is being in your feminine energy because in a relationship you want polarity you want the male and the female and as the relationship grows and matures that it becomes a dance where you switch on and off and go back and forth but when women are working we need to be in our masculine energy that it's bonding in your masculine energy and gets done energy yeah the make stuff happen energy it's really fine but then at the end of the day we need to transition and step into the role of our Feminine Energy and for me that became a process I actually created a routine that I did for many years where I would come home from work and I would either take an aromatherapy bubble bath and put on freshmen makeup and change my clothes to go out to dinner or I would come home and do some belly dancing would consciously shipped not up or down just ladder early shift into my Feminine Energy and then he had to learn that he needed to honor that energy so he couldn't be talking business to me late at night 'cause I remember saying to him Oh it's eight o'clock at night and we have to be talking about this contract and in a why not it's fun it's like yeah it's fine in the middle of the day when I'm working I just went through a ninety minute process right you just transformed become your girlfriend in your way you know and it was a dance we needed to learn and the thing that I learned the most and I learned this from John Gray who wrote men are from Mars women are from the yes sure as you know men's brains are wired differently from ours you know you and I we could have a conversation where we are the same mm time talking about the friends we have in common what the latest episode of Grey's Anatomy was like where did you get those shoes and you know who he voting for net exchange we could manage all four multiple conversations yeah got guys brains can handle anything but one topic at a time so if you want the ask them a question don't ask them a multilevel question you ask him where is such and such blank and then you shut up and you let them answer so we have to understand that there are real differences between men and women and communicating with men and women but I think the most important thing and I learned from John Gray is that all men need to be told multiple times a day how brilliant they are and just no matter what it is they say you don't want to lie to them but if they say oh I just made us reservations data on my God that's perfect brilliant I've been wanting to go there you know they need to be acknowledged on a regular basis is it fading their ego chess don't we both need that and you know we're talking a little bit about heterosexual couples but this power struggle exists in same-sex marriages and all relationships I would assume yes yes and yes we want to be acknowledged as well but what I've learned is it's not something you necessarily have to ask for Dr John John and who's the world's leading expert right on marriages read many of his books are great L. Hayes brilliant his the secret to a happy marriage is giving your partner five acknowledgments today why is this important because it means that in order to give them five acknowledgments every day you attention to them on the look for what's right instead of looking for what's wrong what would constitute an acknowledgment okay so let's say so you've got a son a nine year old son who has trouble with math in school and you see your husband's sitting at the kitchen table helping with homework later on that night all you have to do is give them a hug and say you know you're the greatest dad I saw you helping little johnny with his homework I'm just so proud to be your wife
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Ryan Fitzpatrick of Tampa Bay Buccaneers throws 3 first-half interceptions but finishes with 411 passing yards in loss
"Passed on first light coming into the Westwood One newsroom. This morning, the F B I annual crime statistics report is out and it shows both violent crime and property crime or down in two thousand seventeen when compared with two thousand sixteen last year there were more than one point two million crimes. Just that's a point two percent decline from two thousand sixteen. There was a point seven percent decrease in murderers and a four percent decrease in robberies from one year to the next seven point seven million property crimes in two thousand seventeen and that marks a three percent decrease from two thousand sixteen all seventeen pass now as Robert workman joins us. So Robert seen any. I dunno football recently. Yeah, I was down just one game last night. It was crazy. It seemed like there were a lot on Sunday. And then only one yes, just like the old days. There you go. That's right. Monday night football. The Steelers held off the buccaneers thirty to twenty seven for their first win of the year. Ben Rothlisberger pass for three hundred fifty three yards three touchdown passes. All in the first half as Pittsburgh built a thirty to ten halftime lead. Ryan Fitzpatrick starting in the place of the suspended. Jameis Winston also had three scoring passes. Well, four if you count the pick six by the Steelers DuPree that went the other way that's magic fizzled bet he had three interceptions as Tampa Bay takes its first loss of the week. Four begins on Thursday night when the Vikings visit the Rams it's also the first of the by weeks the Redskins and Panthers taking a knee taking a week off. Los Angeles could be without both starting Cornerbacks on Thursday night. I keep deletes going to miss at least a month with a high ankle sprain, Marcus Peters questionable for this week's game with a strained cap. As feared 49ers quarterback. Jimmy Garoppolo out for the season. He tore the AC L in his left knee on Sunday that was confirmed by an MRI yesterday. He'll go on injured. Reserve later this week CJ Beathard becomes the starter. With Nick Mullins promoted from the practice squad. As the backup three undefeated teams left in the NFL. The chiefs the Rams and the dolphins three winless teams the raiders cardinals and the Texans baseball on Monday. The Red Sox ripped the Orioles Sixty-two setting a franchise record with one hundred six wins and clinching home field throughout the postseason. Mookie Betts Wendy Indian shut out. The White Sox four nothing Corey kluber. You can call him a twenty game winner. He went seven innings and struck out eleven Cleveland. The first team to have four starters record two hundred or more strikeouts. In the same season. Kluber Carlos Carrasco Trevor Bauer and Mike Clemenger who hit the Mark on Saturday as thank the Mariners seven three they secure the last playoff spot in the American League sorting it out to which wildcard they're going to end up with the they're still alive in the AL west race. The ASTRO's beat the Blue Jays five three. There are step closer to clinching that American League West. But they haven't quite done it yet. Yankees deflected the race four to one that knocks Tampa Bay out of the playoff chase. And the angels edge the Rangers five four and eleven innings, Texas, by the way, if you missed it over the weekend. Manager. Jeff Bannister Don Wakamatsu filling in for the rest of the season National League pirates scuttled the cubs. Five to one Jameson Thanh went seven strong innings Francisco. Survelliance run Homer race when deep as well. Dodgers down the Diamondbacks. Seventy four David freeze had three hits including a Homer. He and Manny Machado each. Drove. In a pair of runs LA's magic number to win. The west is down to five just like the cubs in the central brewers best. The cardinals six to four airy theme scored the go-ahead run in the eighth inning on a pitch on an Arab by pitcher. By the pitcher. Milwaukee. Now three games ahead of Saint Louis in the wildcard chase. With the magic number of three to clinch homefield for that play in game. Rockies rolled over the Phillies tend to one John gray had seven strong innings, plus a basis loaded walk in the rocks. Five run third inning. Colorado. Just a half game behind Saint Louis for the second wildcard Padres. Black. The giants five nothing San Francisco fired general manager, Bobby Evans after back to back losing seasons. That'll do that. And the nationals nailed the Marlins by account of seven to three college football. The new rankings around API writers top four still the same. Alabama, Georgia, Clemson, Ohio State with LSU and Oklahoma. Switching spots for fifth and sixth in the coaches poll, no change in the top nine crimson tide on top followed by the Tigers BULLDOGS buckeyes and Sooners couple of big upsets over the weekend. Number thirteen Virginia. Tech lost at Old Dominion forty nine. Thirty five Old Dominion only. Brought back football in two thousand nine Mississippi. State number fourteen fell at Kentucky..
Colorado's Morning News with April Zesbaugh and Marty Lenz
Rockies, John Gray and Baseball discussed on Colorado's Morning News with April Zesbaugh and Marty Lenz
"Up eight forty five sports time, now we, check in with Lopez, Rockies going to, get another, chance to see if they can. Overcome that I guess flop if you will in? Extra, innings, it happens but. They outside of the. Tent they were toe to toe with the world champs, yeah they they sure were and boy there Iraq and last night Forty three thousand people at Coors field but when they got to the tenth it was. Something that is unusual for the. Rock USA miscues would send we're one of the best defensive teams in the league or an all baseball and tonight there was a couple of mishaps that's part of the human element. Of this game all right back on the horse chance. To at least split. The series with the Astros and. John gray will be on the. Mound tonight for the Rockies going. Up against another all star that the Astros can throw out. There in the rotation you'll be Charlie Morton for gray it's the first time, he's pitching since July fourteenth. When he limited the Seattle Mariners to just one. Run on five hits seven. And, a third innings that's a season high for John he gave up just one. Walk on six strikeouts needs another effort like that the Rockies that are bounced back they've lost two in, a row, good news is the, dodgers lost they, got beat, in sixteen innings to the Phillies. Seventy six so rocky still two and a half? Games, back, in the National. League West big trade in the may Major league baseball. Over in the. American League everybody was buying for the services of all star closer Zach Britain. Well the Yankees got him they already had the best bullpen in baseball Britain with a three. Four five. ERA in sixteen games so far this season looks like we've got football just around the corner of the rookies of already reported to UC health training center the veterans will be there on Friday a full squad workout that everybody can. See for training camp set for. Saturday mornings starting at nine thirty preseason game it's going on August eleventh I one for the Broncos at Bronco stadium at mile high against the Minnesota Vikings more that it's just around. The corner in the meantime the Minnesota Vikings cancelled Friday's. Practice so the entire. Team can attend the memorial service. For their offensive line coach Tony. Sporanos he passed away on Sunday. Morning other football news the LA Rams locking they're running back. Todd Gurley through twenty twenty three and it's a record breaking contract ESPN's Adam, Schefter forty five million dollars In guarantee we have the highest or. Your average for a new running back right now close to, basically. Fourteen, million dollars per year. Lady on bell and Ezekiel Elliott watching that one with bated breath, that's, for sure that's a look..
PrimeTime Sports with Cory Lopez
How deadline dominoes will fall following Machado deal
"Two hours, before the first pitch we. Go every Saturday. During the baseball, season we do it down on the. Farm reports and so were hitting them all and we're going to, cherry pick a couple of guys out clubbing yes Brendan Rogers we will talk about him We're going to hit all of the farm clubs and just to, a little half way were report essentially a midseason update on a few of, the guys that are down in the farm system and maybe some of these. Guys met Rogers going to be one of them we're going to. See, when they, expand the rosters to forty And is that ever going to go away Talks about it a lot last season The number got done with that that that won't, happen until the next collective bargaining agreement which. I believe is in twenty twenty one I get them confused with the NFL and the NBA NHL all the. Time to. The CBS's roll around here all right let's close the book on what has happened though in the, National League West and the, biggest story not only in the, division not only in the National League but in major league baseball and what could be probably one of the biggest traits that we have seen Midseason leading up to a trade deadline in, many years and that is, all star shortstop Manny Machado going, over to the dodgers egos get prospects and they weren't even really the absolute top prospects of the dodgers I think LA really made out, very very well ESPN's Tim Kirk and, talked about it, says, the dodgers pretty good and got better I think he's. A, huge difference maker I think he makes them the team to beat now in the nationally. The dodgers were pretty guard good anyway Kirk chin ads though that. The dodgers need to add to their pitching staff now whether, it's a starting rotation or in the bullpen they are. Going to need help, there Machado's, not the guy that's going to get them, over the top Machado is, a, guy that when the playoffs to roll around he's the guy that's gonna win. The game for. You he and Matt camp Justin Turner but to have a guy in the lineup let's go to get four five six ABC's, potentially in a playoff game and, the dodgers a play in game they are, wildcard Gabay, are looking at a seven game series and have a guy like Manny Machado in the lineup and was defense to. Boot that's pretty good adding one guy. When you're two games up doesn't mean you're going to sprint away from, everybody but it could happen. We watch, it happen with, the, Bax but this is the dodgers competence that they're going. To, make the playoffs and they needed that one more piece that one more bat to really. Put him over the top they were in the World Series last. Year three zero three seven one three eight five eight five, so that puts a rap on a five prospects from. The dodgers off the, Orioles the, dodgers look pretty darn good don't they coming, up for you we are, going, to go down on the farm and we will do that and we will. Talk about rotate. You have thoughts who should be the guy to start for the Rockies We head. Into the second half of the season tomorrow night what do you think Is. It just back to John gray great last Saturday and you go back up there it's just the way that we've been rolling what he's to Kyle Freeland up there or. Is it somebody else Okay yeah It could go just about. Any way so we'll do that here in just a little bit, three, zero, three, seven, one, three, eight, five eight five talked about in the all star game and how there were ten home runs and twenty five strikeouts in how at the mid point of the season overall, in baseball there are more strikeouts than there are hits or the Rockies are in that trend, quite yet but. They're. Close Season to date they've got eight hundred, twenty two strikeouts Trevor story leads away. He's got one hundred and two strikeouts Now the Rockies also again let's go to the power number's Iraqis have. Five guys that are. In double digits for home runs already Leading the way as Nollet Arnaut twenty three home runs Trump story has twenty Charlie Blackmon with nineteen Ian Desmond with eighteen and Carlos Gonzales with eleven you. Got the guys with the power hits wise Iraqis, have, eight hundred forty three So.
Colorado's Morning News
This Texas Stars goal was the result of a comical sequence of events – ProHockeyTalk
"Game to get a win so we have to talk should be phone with mike trout albert pool halls and that otani guy in town john gray gets the call tonight he'll go against the andrew heaney rockies ondeck starts our coverage at six on koa nba playoffs cavaliers off to the eastern conference finals they blew out toronto won twenty eight ninety three to complete the sweep stars for the raptors not very good demar derozan just thirteen points meanwhile king james twenty nine eight and eleven for the cavs ten straight losses the raptors have suffered to the cavaliers seventy sixers still alive after beating the celtics in game four one three ninetytwo philly though trails three games to one rockets and jazz tonight game five in houston with the rockets up three one warriors up three one on the pelicans heading into game five in oakland detroit fire head coach stan van gundy nhl no three pete for the penguins they lose to the capital two one in overtime caps win the series four to nashville forces game seven they beat the jets for nothing that was up in canada game seven will be thursday in nashville the carolina panthers hired rod brindamour as their new head coach guys i need some help.