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"It doesn't have to be these long conversations. It really can be a long the way, so to speak, as you're doing life with your son, but just doing it with an intentionality that you're building this connection, these investments that you make now are going to be the ones that are significant deposits that you're going to have to make withdrawals against later in life. And so make those small deposits today and they interest will grow over time, just like in an investment account. That's rollin Warren, offering encouragement to single moms, particularly those raising boys, and he's back with us again today on focus on the family. Thanks for joining us. Your host is focused president and author Jim Daly, and I'm John fuller. And John, I was so encouraged
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"A full-time ministry at your church, and then you find an unexpected text or note from your spouse indicating that they're having an affair with someone else. What do you do? How do you manage that process? How do you deal with the betrayal? Is there any hope for your marriage? Today I'm focused on the family will hear a story about just that. A couple's traumatic journey through infidelity. And how they found forgiveness, hope, and God's grace in the process. Thanks for joining us today for focus on the family your host is focused president and author Jim Daly, and I'm John fuller. John, there's nothing more devastating, I think, are damaging to a marriage than adultery. I mean, it
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"He isn't the man I married. He had such potential. We had potential. But we've gotten stuck in a rut and hum miserable. My husband and I fight a lot. And we never seem to resolve anything. I wish things were different. My marriage is kind of okay. We made a lifetime commitment and I think we still love each other. Maybe this is as good as it gets. Well, maybe that you resonate with some of those comments. Maybe your marriage is less satisfying than you expected. Maybe you'd really like to improve it, but you don't know how. Well, today we have some practical help and hope for you on focus on the family. Your host is focused president and author Jim Daly and I'm John fuller. And John,
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"Wouldn't that be nice? Except we all know that trying to create a perfect marriage is about as effective as building a House of Cards. What if you're relationship could be transformed though in terms of intimacy and grace and encouragement and having fun with your spouse? We'll cover that today on focus on the family and your host is focused president and author Jim Daly. I'm John fuller. Janice not uncommon for husbands and wives to wonder why marriage seems so difficult at times.
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"I went back to work for two months after my daughter was born. And i quit because i couldn't stand being away from my baby. I was very determined to stay at home with my children because my mom had died. When i was three my husband and i always agreed that i would work and i also had the benefit of my inlaws. Both being retired and agreed to watch my children from our first child. I was at home with worked from home as well as home schooled them. What might be that. You been through that kind of decision and it's not easy to make today on focus on the family. We're going to be exploring the life of a stay at home. Mom and some of the challenges they face. Your host is focused president and author. Jim daly and i'm john fuller..
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"The we all know someone whose marriage has fallen apart. And maybe you've experienced that pain and loneliness and the anger today and focus on the family. We're joined by a couple whose relationship was broken but then they discovered god at work in what he did is unbelievable and wonderful. Your is author and focused president. Jim daly. I'm john fuller jim. This broadcast is going to offer hope to a lot of people that john the great thing about god's economy there's always hope for everybody no matter what your circumstances and if you're struggling in your marriage i think you'll be encouraged today that there is hope for reconciliation. Even in the most difficult of circumstances. The.
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"Okay first of all. It's important to recognize this. You don't have to bring your bible to school in order to live out your faith. Because god's word is hidden in your heart but if you choose to express your faith by bringing it just realize that you are representing christ and everything that you do so the bible should remind you that you are to love the unloving. Forgive those who sin against you and even pray for your enemies. That is john cooper. He's the lead singer songwriter and producer for the christian rock band skillet and today on focus on the family. John will describe his passion. For god's word and the importance of sharing godly truth with others. Thanks for joining us. Your host is focused president and author. Jim daly and i'm john fuller john. Cooper is a wonderful advocate for christ. He's so bold in his faith and a great role model for all of us about how to speak the truth in love than today's culture. He's a blogger and author. Who's willing to challenge cultural trends and worldviews that run contrary to the bible. What we're about to hear the conversation that you john recorded with john cooper about his book awake and alive to truth finding truth in the chaos of a relativistic world. I was away from the office at the time. And i'm a little jealous that you were able to do the interview john but on your own well. I enjoyed hanging out with john. He is a super nice guy in great heart. I'm we should mention him as a ministry. Were really thrilled. The john cooper is partnering with focus as spokesperson for our. Bring your bible to school campaign this year in october. Yeah bring your bible. To school.
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"I'm i'm determined that i'm gonna learn how to enjoy it. Yeah let me In the wrap up here let me just say Business books christian business books. Talk about the act of worship in your vocation and it's something we all agree. We love that what we don't hear very often and what you expressed in your book is the idea that parenting is also an act of worship. And may i say probably a higher act of worship in what you do vocationally. It's kind of the job. And i like that face from one generation to the other senior parenting as an act of worship. That just puts it in a different place. Well i realized and this has helped my marriage to that. I wasn't supposed to love in serving honor and be friends with clay because of him because he deserved it. I had told god. Okay god i am here. I'm your girl. I'm going to serve you and levy and he said well then will you love him and then he said well you love your children because how you treat your children ms how you're accepting the gift that i've given you for little human beings he's lives alas returned and so i it helped me to say it's not whether they deserve it or not. It's does god deserve my heart of love. Disgust desert my heart worship. There's a mic drop in the program. Do no it's really good sally. This has been awesome and your wonderful book. Awaking wonder What a tool and filled with practical advice to help parents kind of ease their heart and encourage them to be intentional about passing on their faith which i don't know christian parrot. That doesn't want that to be job number one. I would relax on the behavioral modification. Just i think com- loving parents create calm loving children and there is a bit of a formula to that but thank you so much for being with us. Thanks again for having me. I so enjoy being with you. All appreciate it and again The book that sally is written awaking wonder opening your child's heart to the beauty of learning great resource Get a copy from us here at focus on the family. Our number's eight hundred. A family were. Click the link in the episode notes and john as we often do. If you can partner with this in ministry Send a gift of any amount and we'll send you. The book is our way of saying. Thank you. it's funded to do this. Let's save some marriages. Let's save some parents. Some pain in their parenting. And do it all in the name of christ stand with us Have fun being part of ministry. That's impacting literally hundreds of thousands of people. Because of god's grace. Can you do that and in doing that again. We'll send you. The book is our way of saying. Thank you donating. Get your copy of awaking wonder when you get in touch and also might mention. We have three seven traits of effective parenting assessment. Takes a few minutes for you to fill out. And it'll give you some insights into some strengths in your parenting approach and maybe some ways you as a mom or dad can grow that free resource that free assessment is online and while the link to that to sally's book and to opportunities for you to donate as well. It's all at the link in the episode knows on behalf of gym daily and the entire team. Thanks for joining us today. Four focus on the family. I'm john fuller inviting you back next time as we once again.
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"The but a fierce woman can be one of two things she can be beautiful and encouraging and inspiring to a man to be all that he can be all that god created him to be or she can be destructive she can emasculate him. And that's what i was doing to leave. Or for so many years and i didn't even realize it that's kimberly wagner and she and her husband leroy returned to focus on the family today. Your host is focused president and author. Jim daly and i'm john fuller john. Kim and leroy have such a powerful message for all married couples and they went through some very difficult times. That nearly destroyed their marriage.
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"Own this right. I think when we when it comes to dealing with these difficult experiences. It's important to acknowledge how we feel. You know not to try to sugar coat it not. I love that you had such a healthy reaction. But i'm also aware like you said not. Everybody does and that's okay. That's the starting point right to be able to say i do feel bidder. I do to do that. It is way because as you're acknowledging that what you're doing is you're starting to defuse those underlying emotions. Underneath the surface of that volcano. You're acknowledging them. You're putting words to them. And i think for some people through the process of things like counseling. You begin developing empathy for the people that hurt you and seeing that hurt people end up hurting people right. We we hear that phrase often but when you start having empathy and compassion and seeing where that hurt person came from you. Begin freeing yourself from the pain that you carry. It's a process you know it's not something that happens overnight and i really believe that even when you forgive somebody the process of forgetting can take time and energy and work and you might never forget but you're at least able to put that on them and take ownership of what is you. What about the person who maybe has carried that burden for decades and they get it out there. I do have this. Bitterness acknowledged that they may have had that discussion with the lord. You know kind of the shaking fist. God why have you done this to me. And they're still in that part of the cycle. They haven't really made it to the letting go. What encouragement do you have for them for them. To say yeah okay. I mean. they're really moving from. I'm not okay to. i'm okay. I would remind them that healing happens and layers and not to expect themselves to get to a a wonderful place overnight when you think about past abuse and how many days it takes for you to experience. How many years. You've been through that type of thing to have the expectation on yourself that you're going to heal from that overnight is unrealistic. You're putting too much pressure on yourself. If it takes years to get to a place of bitterness it might take years to unpack that and might take months to unpack some of those things and it's a process as journeys again. It's a journey of sanctification. And you're not alone through it when i think about blame. It tends to happen in three ways. First we put the blame on ourself. My did something wrong. The next level is we put the blame on god. He did something wrong. But i think the third place where we should land is putting the blame outward on this world this sinful fallen broken world and the enemy that lurks within when we can leave the blame there. We can begin to move away from it and begin to heal so true in that scripture which the first bible someone gave to me at fifteen. Was john ten ten. Of course it took me a while to find that but that the thief comes to steal kill and destroy. That's his mission. And its you. He wants to steal from you joy. Peace the things that god is giving you. He wants to destroy. He wants to kill you and That's his mission. Each and every day and deborah. This has been so good. We're gonna come back for a second day to talk a little more in depth about your wonderful book. Are you really okay. And you said to me before we started. This is your favorite topic. I could see that as a counselor. 'cause you want to move people from a place of not being okay to an abundant life. The the end of johnson that he came that we might have an abundant life right. And that's what. I see light up in your eyes. You want people to live that full experience with god and here focus on the family. That's what we're about. We want you to feel that fulfilled life in your marriage in your parenting journey in your sphere of influence We want to be there to assist you and equip you to live that life that god has called you to live and get in touch with us again deborah's book. Are you really okay. If you can make a gift to focus for any amount we'll send it to you as our way of saying thank you. You could do that through a monthly pledge or third one time gift and if you can't afford it this kind of help this emotional spiritual help is what we want to be about. So just call request it will trust others will cover the cost of getting that to you and again deborah. Let me say thank you for being with us and we're gonna come back and talk more about this. Can you do that forward to donate as you can and get in touch with us. Requests that book by deborah. Are you really okay. All the details are in the episode notes or call eight hundred. The letter a. In the word family and on behalf of gym daily and the entire team. Thanks for joining us today. Four focus on the family. I'm john fuller inviting you back as we continue the conversation with deborah and once again help you and your family thrive in christ. I was shocked when she gave me the divorce papers. I was so done. I had reached my breaking point. I was desperate for a shred of hope. So i called the hope restored team at focus on the family. They they listen to me and they asked about what was happening. In my marriage they encouraged me and my wife to attend one of their marriage intensive s- for couples in crisis and they prayed with us. They helped me believe that my marriage could be saved. I agreed to go but was very skeptical that anything could help us. But the whole environment was so safe and non-judgmental. I felt my heart start to open up as we worked with the counselors. Both of us still have worked to in our marriage but for the first time in a long time we have hope again. Focus on the family's hope restored. Marriage intensive program has helped thousands of couples who thought that their marriage was over. Find out which program is right for you at hope. Restored dot com..
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"Had some questions. I saved up for him. I want to finish with Jeff here and then we have deputy Smarty Smarty. If you need to hang up, we can call you back when we're ready. Or you could do it either way, anything you want to do. Because you're a priority for those updates. Jeff, Um, so in the house. Do you know if this guy had the same deal you did with paying for fence? I don't know that I see. It was a spec house that he bought, so I have no idea it was. Is it a subdivision with the same builder? Or is this a custom home or semi custom where you bought from one builder, but not necessarily a project? It's their custom homes with different builders. OK, therefore, your deal, Woz, you get fencing now, did they say how much fencing you get in the contract? Drawing showed everything around my property except their side because it was already there. Okay, That's going to be the problem. If they did not show that side, they could say that's not included. I'm serious Jeff, they could easily say that's not included. Because real estate is very specific and and in it. I don't know why they if it was still included. It should have been addressed if it wasn't addressed. They could very likely say it's not included. Now they want to pay for half that's fine. But if they saw it there already They figured. Look, we're going to pay for three sides. So is that what they're claiming? What are they claiming right now? Builders, not claiming anything at the neighbor just hit me up. We don't know in the house yet. It's still It's about three quarters done, so I was just trying to get ideas of what to do. I just gave him the builder's number. Since. Obviously we don't own it yet. Okay. Well, here's the deal If you don't own it yet, you're still in negotiating stages. Negotiated the builders not gonna pay for it. I can tell. Especially they specifically show just three sides They're paying for. Well, they show it on the drawing, but they showed his existing Yeah, but okay, But if it's existing, they're not putting it up there putting up three sides. I mean, I'm not giving you a hard time. What I'm saying is called them now, before you get too far into this and negotiated If it's important, are you on a corner lot and And by the way, just let me tell you something else. Jeff. That doesn't necessarily mean even though the builders not paying for it. That guy can't encumber you in a contract. Let me tell you. I had a neighbor that didn't pay for his half. I made his freaking life. Miss Mark. I don't want to talk about being a gangster. I want to talk about No, but it is crazy when you know if you're around all kinds of people. You got someone in the back left and right. This connected him by mistake, Jeff. But I don't think John Fuller is with us. He's an attorney at law, John I know your personal injury, but in general, I don't know. I think the guy puts up a fence and then somebody moves in and he assumes they should pay for half Mark. You can't make them pay for it. I don't think I don't think you can. I don't think you can make him pay for it on any means. What a good neighbor who wants to live next year and vice versa. John, have you moved into a place and the fence was already there. And the guy said, Hey, would you pay for half And the fence was already there. Let's say for a year. If you're six months what would you do? Ha ha. I tricked John with a question. No, you didn't. I wouldn't feel obligated to pay for a fence that I had no part of designing and installing and deciding who said the Starting is on and that kind of stuff. I don't think you know if there's nobody on that vacant lot. I don't think you can reasonably expect the the incoming neighbor to pony up to check for half. I just think you took that on yourself. You should've waited And then the two neighborhoods complain agreement or something along now, By the way, we and and and and we're talking about personal injury right with you, and we had a topic come up the other day. This guy's representing a guy who was in a lift. Lift. Got in an accident, but it wasn't lifts fault somebody hit them and ran because uninsured motorist is not required. Lift said Hey, this accident isn't our fault, and we're not paying How do you feel about that? I feel that they're probably right. But you could look to your own insurance policy. And if you have, um you should be able to apply coverage and he didn't. He's not a driver doesn't own a car and was using Lift. So in that case, you could be S O l. I mean because the ride share company legally opted out. Off uninsured, not nobody has a duty to provide uninsured voters if they weren't negligent in the accident. They simply are not going to be held liable for that that passengers injuries. Okay. We had another case, and this come came up again in an email. That's why I'm bringing it up. Hmm. This guy Had passed out. Now, Last time we had this issue, it was with a heart attack. A guy gets a heart attack slams into somebody does incredible damage and their insurance company says This was not negligence. And at first, I think, Oh, my God, It's not negligence, but he caused the accident. And again, this guy who was the victim in this the one who was hit Had nowhere to turn except his own insurance. But he didn't have collision coverage and I'm wondering, would underinsured or uninsured. Would that work in that case where a guy had a heart attack and the company's denying coverage? I believe it would I believe it would. I don't. I've never let's put it this way. I've never seen, um, carrier of, um, standing for uninsured mother's assert defense. Such a sudden emergency to escape liability under those circumstances. I'm not saying it's never been okay. I've never seen that. Okay, so it's not because they could easily say Well, he wasn't underinsured or uninsured. He was simply not liable. I don't know who knows. But here's the deal. First E don't know. Like I hit a telephone pole. That's un ensure their uninsured. Um all right. But listen, John, what about then? This other case I talked about the guy had diabetes and passed out low blood sugar, and they said it was not..
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"john fuller" Discussed on TalkRadio 630 KHOW
"It's a less stop What's going on? Yeah. My sister had sold her truck to my nephew. March, 31st. And, uh, he had told her because she said, what? We gotta take to play something so and I need to take the need to place because I have to go ahead. And, uh, get, uh Get him turned it my name, not her place. But what would happen? Yeah, By the way, you should never keep your plates on a car. But that's too late. So what happened? Yeah, So anyway, he he got in the truck and drove it. Oh, getting rusty. Yeah. Wait, wait. So when he was driving the truck with her plates on there, and he hits someone and kept going Yeah. Did he hit a car or a person? A pedestrian? No, it was another vehicle. Was it parked Or was it being driven? No, I believe it was being driven. Okay? And somebody turned him in. Yeah. Okay, Now, hold on. Did you have did your sister who sold this to the nephew? Did your sister have that sale in writing? Yes, and does okay. Is it dated before the accident? No. Well, how did that happen? He let her take She let him take it before they sign or no, No. You mean to build cell was the day that that day? Yes. Okay. He took it. Yes. So the bill of sale was dated on the same day as the accident. No, no. No, because we tried to get ahold of and then just tell me, Celeste, You just need to help me here. I'm one thing at a time, So she sold it. How many days later? Did the accident happen? About a month. Oh, but she has absolute proof that it was sold before that. Yes. OK, then the plates do not make her liable. There's two things that there's two things that could make her liable if she was operating the vehicle or if she negative negligently and trusted it to him. And here's what I want to know. Was it insured? It was insured, but not at the time because when she sold it, she's did. She took the insurance off. That's good. You know why? That's good. You know why? That's good, because it shows that she really sold it and thought it was so. So, Suzanne. What did you want to add? That's what I was going to say. Was it insured by her not know it's good that she dropped the insurance goods, his show she had a sale contract so but here's the issue. Did they ever charged the nephew? Yes. OK, then. 14 months. He's in jail right now. Was he drunk? Yes. Okay. So why is she? I don't understand why she is being sued. Don't need their take. The like. My brother of a cell is just a scare tactic. But you know, so they haven't filed suit yet Did they actually sue? Whether they sending her letters. Yeah. What did they want from her? All this last letter, they said they would take her driver's license away. Oh, she has did the state wait did the states and that No, no, it's their lawyer of whoever they who's the attorney who's the attorney. Uh, for that for that company or for you know, the attorney that center the letter. What firm? Is it? Um, just not not. I don't have the paperwork in front of me, Okay? Because I'm just trying to listen, Celeste. I would like to call John Fuller of these around if he'd like to chime in on this. It's not about personal injury, but it is about liability. So I'd like that. Are you Wait, Wait, wait. Was someone hurt in this accident? We don't really know what What are they? How much are they asking for? $6000 Okay, listen, why don't see how she could be held responsible. But I want to get you some advice on this. And if John can't do it, then we're going to ask Joe Liz era If he can't do it, I just want to get avarice. Um, varied opinions on this one. And by the way, did we get any opinions on that? Did we get Norris? That s O s inspections for that other one. Your caller hung up, so I hadn't reached out to noise. But, you know, I know who he is, Mark. I mean, I can get in touch with him again. Nor said no, no. I can get mark back on the phone. He assumed we had his number. That guy. I have his number. Hold on, Celesta. Hold on. This is ah, This is a bummer. You know, never leave your plates, but I don't think the plates alone make you responsible for that. I'm Tom Martino. Free healthcare hundreds to more than $1000 per month and disability compensation and tens of thousands for college tuition. These are just some of the U. S. Department of Veterans Affairs. Benefits that may be available to veterans via is focused on customer service, like never before, choose via and see why Veterans trust in via reached an all time.
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"john fuller" Discussed on TalkRadio 630 KHOW
"On? Well, I haven't landlord and we had a carbon monoxide poisoning back in May of 2020. Yeah, I have now gone to their insurance. They've handed off to another insurance company, and it's all come back. You had carbon monoxide poisoning, right? Yeah. Okay. So what do you mean? They keep handing it off. You went? Where did you go? Did you go to the emergency room? Yes. I didn't go there. My two kids went okay, Because the fire department told me they needed to be done. I understand that. Do you have insurance? Yes, they're interns has paid right now. What? And now they have put a lien against the kids. You said your insurance company paid. Why would they put a lien against you if you paid your bill Because they found out that we're not responsible for it. Who's not responsible for it? We're not the landlord. He is so your insurance withheld the payment if they took the payment back. Well, they were Subra gating. It sounds like well, they paid the bills. But now they've got leans on the kid. Who they Who is they who has leans on the kids? Anthem insurance. Your insurance. Put a lien on you guys to get paid back. Yeah, because another insurance company is supposed to pay for it. I understand what she's saying. But then I come after you, but they don't come after you marked they supper. Get against the party of fault if you have what it sounds like they already sent the payment to the kids. They haven't turned anything to the kids. And the landlord and see that's what that's what we're trying to figure out. Denise, if you go to the emergency room and you use your insurance Or if you go somewhere in use insurance. And someone else is at fault. I have never heard of an insurance company putting a lean on you to get the money back. Let's get John Fuller on. He'll know this John Fuller will or or or John Integra insurance, either one John Fuller will know this better. Let's do either. Let's do both John Fuller and let's do Integra insurance. Here's the thing. Denise, you're saying you went to the emergency room and used your insurance. How did your insurance find out that the landlord supposedly was responsible? Because they sent a form wanting to know how what the incident happened. You know how it happened? And, um, right, We filled out the form, of course. Then they decided they want their money bags, But they want their money back. Why wouldn't they go in sub brigade against the landlord? Why would they make you so they're saying to you? Pay us back what we paid and go get it from the landlord. Right, And I've never heard of that before. Well in the landlord's insurance travelers has refused to pay They he the landlord has told them that he is not going to pay because he thinks whoever installed it seven years ago. I understand, but it's the landlord's listen. First of all. I never heard of a health insurance but putting you in the middle of it. I've never heard of that. We have certified letters. Did you get any money from the landlord at for damages? No, sir. How much were the medical bills? 11,000. Okay. The landlord may want you know their insurance. The land Large insurance may turn it down. But that doesn't mean the landlord isn't responsible. How much was it for each kid? One was 58. The other one was 45. You know, I'd sue for each one in small claims Court separately. But 1st, 1st and foremost, I want to try to help you by getting I want to get first of all, Let's get integrity Insurance on Mark. I really think I think Fuller's gonna know that Okay? Probably John Fuller does personal injury. He deals with Subra Gatien for health insurance every single day. Okay, Suzanne, let us know when we get both of those and let's talk to both of them about it. Three or 37138255. We have more coming up on the troubleshooter show..
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Being a "Yes" Parent in a World of "Nos" (Part 2 of 2)
"You gotta I have an accelerator. And that's we have to ask ourselves. What's the higher purpose and that's really what we did at? What is the higher purpose of raising children? Well that's pastor mark foreman and you'll hear more from him and his wife Jan today as They talked about raising what they called. Big Picture Kids who love God and and make an impact on the world. There are guests on focus on the family and your host is focused president and author. Jim Daly thanks for joining us. I'm John Fuller. Hey John John. At last time we heard about the importance of saying Yes to our children and I try to do that sometimes. It's tough and sometimes it's hard to distinguish between you you know what's a boundary that deserves a now. And then what's a relational thing. That should be a yes and if you missed last time get the C. D. or the download and certainly get the book. Never say no. And we're going to talk more about that today with our gas but it is going to open up your parenting experience especially especially as a believer in Christ in mark is a pastor in San Diego. He and Jan have two children. Jon and Tim Foreman There in the musical musical group Switch Foot and the book that kind of forms the basis for a conversation that mark and Jan road is called. Never say no raising big picture kids at at market jam. Welcome back to feminist again. I love the conversation last time. Because I'm always thinking my in the right spot as a parent in my doing doing the right thing to help. My kids grow spiritually first and foremost and You Know Jan last time you talked about life being kind of like a deck of cards and I want to start Arthur again because we kind of went by that pretty quick. But what did you mean by that well. Every parent gets a deck of parenting cards from their your family of origin and We will automatically parent the way we were parented. So in my mind I see three piles one pile is a keeper pile l. for those great things that we want to bring into our own families but then there's always a discard pile where we have heard our mother's voice coming through US awesome. We're we're doing exactly the same things. It can be even subtle stuff but it has a different flavor but it is our mother or father coming through and we've definitely wanted discard that and do life differently. And then there's a rewrite pile where we have if we kind of want to nurture kids in that direction but we want to also do it our own way not just say your family wins. My family wins. But it's fine. The new US. What is that look like and I remember one time? We went to Mount Rushmore. And the thing that surprised us most. We're all the pictures of family reunions dressed identically. In t shirts they had some motto on the t shirt and I thought you know they were hoping their kids would play off this picture and and aspire to be great leaders but I thought the real story is going to be told by the motto on those t shirts in the same way we inherit from our families of origin mottos expressions ways of doing things. Talk these bumper sticker. A black could hang over your mantel in my family it was. What would people think and I lived under the shadow of that so? That's something very specific that I caught myself doing to my kids especially in ministry family saying I absolutely am Not GonNa care what people think I think tim is soccer. Uniform with cleats church socks. Yeah Yeah you're the pastor this trae that that make you feel well. I was raised in the church so I was fine with. You weren't apprehensive about feeling like no performance but then go ahead but just you know you can take those mottos and create a new motto and so in in our minds we could flip that around and say I want you to Eh. The Person God made you to be. Who cares what people think? I had to kind of be an iconoclast against that strong pressure that I was raised under in my family and in Mark Family we could talk about teasing is being or the motto in his. If you love someone you tease them right if you really loved him taste into tears and you know it takes a long time. I think it took me till I was forty two to figure that love language I was like Oh wow really love me Or if you really love someone you just work really hard and stay away from home working making money for the family man. That is so good mark. I'm telling you this morning I was on the Sofa. I got up early. I was on the treadmill. It's you know a new start and and And my youngest came down and we sat down over over a break not long ago I was talking about eating as many carbs herbs and maybe he should cut back on the CARBS and I apologize to him this morning saying no troy. That wasn't wise of me. Yeah you're you're you're in the right direction. You haven't even hit your full growth spurt. Yeah you know you're doing great. I had to catch myself but I needed to let them know it was wrong for me to comment. Ah Yeah that's hard to do for parents. It is it is because you're in that Rut My Dad was a you know. Post World War Two Guy So the way. You Love Your family. Is You just work hard. And then when you're when you're home you're off duty you watch football and hurt me. Yeah and so. I was looking for a dad that would interact. And we'd spend time in do stuff together and stuff and and I love my dad dearly. He's ninety he's just. We spend great times together now but it was kind of a cat's in the cradle. It'll kind of home. We'll get together then son. We're going to get together then And so when I saw myself starting to do that with my my son's At a very early age only now for God and for Ministry and Working Seventy hour work weeks a you know. I had a moment where I felt. God asked me. How will you feel if you win? Five thousand people to Heaven and lose your own children Because you're playing Harry Chapin Song and I said I'm going to reverse that song I'm going to get together with my kids now. Now not that. Yeah that's heartfelt and you know so many of us has dads. I mean we're feeling that. Yeah 'cause we're saying more next time or later. Yeah you know. We'll play catch but then you don't know how to do it. So what do I do. So I came upon a great book Doc That really saved the day. Ross Campbell's had a really love your child and he talks about a love tank. And when your child's love tank tank is full behavior. Problems are down when behavioral problems are up. Love tank is low so I wanted to know oh how to fill this. Love tank is this was going to reverse the Harry Chapin story and that was miraculous for me now. So so I discovered my boys that high touch eye contact and high time would fill their love tank. Think high time. Yeah yeah so the way I did it. When they were young was wrestling? We would wrestle half an hour to sixty minutes a day before for dinner we got was very gracious. Does give us a wife that my wife put up with a lot of sweaty bodies. The table will when they're older. It was playing soccer and football together in when later on it was playing music and surfing together and so active active. Yes spending time hanging out. Let me ask you though the the issue of failure You know again. I think one of the things that we struggle with as Christian parents is our kids failing. And hopefully if you're doing this well in the early years you're letting them experience failure so you can come alongside tried to instruct them and you use that Analogy last time about your boys right at the end of the program. Listen to music that frightened you because that's what you listen to before for. You became a Christian in somehow we've got to create an environment where failures okay. Yeah and I don't think and I for myself I mean I struggle with my my boys being able to give them that kind of space. How we recalibrate as inherent to say okay Try we do it. Incrementally I think the idea that we're going to raise our kids and then turn them loose on the world when they're twenty eight already go. Yeah that that. That's just she's not gonNa have them incrementally we increase their freedom which increases their risk of failure but it also increases their responsibility in their success. Just like taking training wheels off a bike and there's a chance chance of the child falling over
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Being a "Yes" Parent in a World of "Nos"
"This is focus on the family with your host focused president and author. Jim Daly and I'm John Fuller John. Raising kids is one of the most exhilarating and humbling privileges that God gives us and here folks on the family we want to empower you. As a parent to equip your children with a lasting faith faith and the tools they need to live out that faith in a culture that doesn't really Show appreciation for us. I Love Mark and John's perspective on parenting parenting. They emphasize the importance of forming a relationship with your child instead of just addressing behavior and it's so hard for us as Christian parents to to separate those two and it's so important for us as Christian parents to realize this. We recorded this program a few years ago. And I'm so glad we're able to revisit visited today. This is the kind of content that could change your perspective on parenting and Change Your child's life for the better we'll mark and Jan foreman live in San San Diego California and they are the parents of Jon and Tim Foreman of the Grammy Award Winning Music Group Switch Foot and they've written a great book. It's called never say no raising big picture. Kids all encourage you to get a copy of that book when you click on the link in the show notes for this episode. Let me add switch foot is what we call a crossover band band and for the older folks that means their music appeals to both secular and Christian audiences. The good news. Is they do that. In order to sing about themes that speak to the hearts of all people and it is definitely Faith oriented I can say it that way they totally come at their topics from a biblical perspective. Here here now is the conversation we had with the formats as mark begins by explaining what they mean by big picture kids. I think it's captured in the word. Wonder Her So much of the life is reduction mystic where we're trying to shrink God down shrink the World Down Shrink Art music down to a little bite size sound clips and life just isn't like that and you and I aren't attracted to life like that but raising kids that it are living in a world of wonder God who created this big world That you as a child can go in any direction you can almost be in the garden of Eden and start again and find out where this adventure takes you. It's kind of interesting the way in life is more simplistic than I think we make it. I mean when you look at God he is our father and you can gain a lot of parenting insight just by seeing how God deals with you as an adult and someone who can understand the principles of parenting. But now there's GonNa be some detractors when you say never say no. I mean some of the hard core four. Yeah no boundary parenting people which I appreciate I. I'm in that camp. I try to have a good balance but never say no. This doesn't sound right. Yeah if you get stuck in monitoring behavior you have a problem in the book sounds permissive but if you transfer from behavior to relationship and there was a motto. We had in her home when there was an opportunity to be with your child. When you're there was an opportunity to do something that maybe you re too lazy to do or want to do that? We would look at each other and say never say no and so that meant get on your knees and wrestle with them it meant paddle paddle out into the ocean even though the waters frigid cold. Because your junior hire wants to be with you and so we use that to push each other into the relationship relationship of course. We're not promoting permissiveness but we are promoting a paradigm shift. That says come on. Let's fill the love tank first first before we concentrate on the yes in the nose so so it's more to be clear it's more of that engagement quality on your kids in my boys do this and you you know boys and girls both they want to spend time with daddy and spend time with Mommy. That's really the Pearl for them is being together with you and as a busy parent you gotta gotta be able to say yes. It's a great idea and I really like it. But Arthur seasons where. It's really really hard to say. Oh I'll leave all all of this project right now and play with you or spend time with you. I mean there's an idealistic sense here that some season is still love words series but I I think the idea is that if God is one big Yes for us. We just want to pay that forward to our kids whenever possible. And maybe it's and that's the idea behind. Never say they know. Maybe it's a not now but this is when but still you WanNa find that positive momentum because once you and that can also means gene finding the things you're interested in are different than the things you're kids are interested in and also capitalizing on those things I think parents are a lot like archaeologists geologists. They they they start digging in those areas where kids are giving you clues and don't young kids give you clues what they're interested in so so true and it's often something that you're not familiar with comfortable with would a place you'd prefer not to go. Oh Yeah you have a great story in the book about your boys when they were young and things that were buried in the backyard. What what was that about the elevator part story elevator part? We inherited a church. That was three grand in debt and they had heard this and they thought they could be the solution and our old seventy year old home had been owned owned by an elevator repairman. Who buried all his parts in yard buried the extra? This was a new England. Into deers. And huge thing. Small parts just gizmos. You know that they would uncover playground for boys. Yeah the there are just digging. So I said in the book we literally had a yard sale where they dug them up in from our backyard and wash them off and put price tags on. It was the Naysayer saying you know. I don't want to hurt your feelings. But there isn't a high demand for this you know and and they were doing it for a purpose and that was the point they said Gad you'll see an so neighbors and friends are driving up and seeing what was going on. And so they're ping five dollars for an elevator chain that is worthless but my kids are stacking up the money and to give the money to the church out of debt. Yeah that is. How old were they when you saw? Okay so right there. A lot of parents are saying okay. These kids are you know spiritually gifted especially I mean what what was happening there. You could see it so early that they could put two into together. I think the more you can involve your kids leads. In real life situations you know in in have conversations include them in when people come over around the dinner table little ears are always listening and to take their their ideas seriously and we just did our lips when they had this lawn sale and I think in the lessons learned more important even than the money that they they counted that their voice counted their ideas counted. They could be a part of the change agents. Yeah was the big take home. Yep We're leaning into culture we can change things