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In 9th Season, CJ Cron Receives 1st All-Star Nod

Schlereth and Evans

00:36 sec | 2 months ago

In 9th Season, CJ Cron Receives 1st All-Star Nod

"CJ Crone is going to the All-Star Game as an alternate. Is it sad? Jake, Jess. I mean, he actually earned it. I disagree with you. It's not like he's got 8 home runs. It's like, okay, we gotta give the rockies an all star. Here you go. It's gonna be CJ Crone. CJ chrome has had a great first half of the season. He deserves to go to the All-Star Game. I agree. I agree. I think the idea is like, hey, because you're guaranteed a representative, Greg. Correct. And without that, you wouldn't have one, which is probably true.

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Jessica Melugin Breaks Down All Things 'Anti-Trust'

The Doug Collins Podcast

01:51 min | 8 months ago

Jessica Melugin Breaks Down All Things 'Anti-Trust'

"About? Jess, what are we talking about when we say antitrust? Well, I just want to affirm everyone in this. If you're a little bit confused about what it exactly is, you're right on. Because it hasn't meant the same thing in its history of law. It's changed a lot. And it's in the process of maybe changing again. And depending on what you're talking about, specifically, it can mean different things. So I think it's really understandable that people who don't follow this stuff for a living and are busy doing more important things like earning a living and raising their family. Right. My might feel a little like this isn't gray area. So and I trust in the U.S. started about a hundred or so years ago. And it really was a lot to do with the size of some of these companies. That's why we call it antitrust in this country in Europe. They call it competition law. But for the U.S., it was about these big truss that had gotten to a size that frankly made some people, including a lot of politicians in charge, really uncomfortable. It was unprecedented. And of course, now we look back on the size of Standard Oil and it seems like nothing, right? Everything's relative. But at the time, antitrust had a lot to do with these companies are big, and that makes us uncomfortable and maybe they're kind of acting like bullies in the marketplace was sort of what antitrust was about. And necessarily that had a lot to do with the aim of antitrust being protecting smaller competitors to those big companies. And antitrust went on like that for a long time. And what people learned was that we should probably be taking the economics of the situation into account more and also maybe we should be more concerned with consumers and what their experiences are and what might be harming consumers rather than what might be harming

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AI Chessboard-Chess Intro and Wrap

AP News Radio

00:53 sec | 9 months ago

AI Chessboard-Chess Intro and Wrap

"A a new new way way to to play play chess chess is is on on display display at at the the Consumer Consumer Electronics Electronics Show Show in in Las Las Vegas Vegas chest chest up up can can help help you you beat beat a a chess chess master master depending depending on on what what settings settings you you will will like like the the squares squares and and and and the the strength strength of of the the team team Adam Adam Roush Roush with with chance chance up up says says artificial artificial intelligence intelligence helps helps people people like like CEO CEO Jeff Jeff why why who who was was playing playing Tatev Tatev opera opera humming humming in in a a grand grand master master has has no no assistance assistance and and that that has has a a lot lot he he touches touches a a PC PC greens greens where's where's this this where's where's in in red red green green is is great great Lou Lou is is met met okay okay and and read read those those wonders wonders about about Jess Jess up up let let you you dial dial up up or or down down the the level level of of assistance assistance this this is is a a great great way way to to learn learn it's it's also also a a great great way way to to make make sure sure you you don't don't make make the the illegal illegal movies movies making making moving moving your your king king is is in in check check we we can can help help you you avoid avoid making making a a legal legal move move it it makes makes makes makes going going to to get get much much much much of of the the TV TV show show the the queen's queen's gambit gambit has has increased increased interest interest in in chess chess chess chess up up is is currently currently available available for for pre pre order order I I met met Donahue Donahue

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"jess" Discussed on Naked Talk with JESS

Naked Talk with JESS

05:19 min | 1 year ago

"jess" Discussed on Naked Talk with JESS

"Hey y'all, welcome back to naked talk with Jess podcast. I have rich love back in the studio today. Welcome welcome. I'm so glad to be here. Thank you. Oh, I'm so excited. You joined us again. If you have not heard our episode with rich love, go listen to it right after this one. And make sure you listen to that. We have some great information in there. And we are going to talk today as part of our sexy September series. About sex. We love talking about sex on the naked talk with us podcast. There's so much taboo around it still. Can you believe that rich? It's like ridiculous, right? Yes. We can talk about all the things, but these things that we need to talk about sex in a healthy way, with our bodies, a lot of its taboos. So that's what we're trying to do here is talk about those topics. So I even hear, I was sharing the other day with a friend that I, as you know, help with support organizations that fight sex trafficking. And so someone asked, why do I talk about sex and support those organizations? And I kind of was like, what? I mean, people have sex. People have sex in it. We need to talk about it in a healthy way. And so once again, it's just unlearning those things that we think about sex or baggage that we might be carrying and so we're gonna talk about sex after survivorship and if you're listening, hopefully you will be able to take some of what you learn here today and apply it to your own life or share it with someone who can use it. So tell us a little bit rich for those who did not hear the other episode yet. Tell us about you and some of your passions, your like me, very multi passionate, but let us know who you are and what you're up to..

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"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

Sex with Dr. Jess

02:21 min | 1 year ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"Sex down south best sex conference ever down at atlanta. You are hosting a workshop on managing rejection and a really wanna talk about this so tell us why. This is such an important topic. I might be colored in my lens as it's just the thing that keeps coming up you know both personally and professionally and i don't think people realize because it often feels isolating when you're in it but there is going to be that dynamic there where you have somebody who's the higher desire partner in the low desire partner in any given situation. It's not common where you have both high desire or both low desire at the exact same time you know and really being able to navigate those waters. Most people have no idea. They're just okay. I just think that. I need to bring you to my level in that. Is the solution so much so right. My partner is broken. can you fix them. Can you diagnose them. And can you fix them. And even beyond sacs rejection. It just feels like this important life skill that has been glossed over. You know in recent years. We've heard a lot about vulnerability right expressing vulnerability and showing vulnerability. And i don't think ten years ago. We were hearing as much of that in the mainstream. I agree and i'm like in five or ten years. Will we hear more about rejection league in every respect whether it's applying for a job or this is a tiny little thing but saying hello or smiling at someone on the street and having them ignore you not for hitting on purposes Just for friendly. Now you live in the south. You live in atlanta We're a lot of people smile and say hello. Yeah i live in toronto. Where when i smile and say hello i kinda get. I get pretty upset. Sometimes because people will just look right through you or almost even roll their eyes at you and what am experiencing there Is very visceral. Yeah it's rejection out. It's probably not about me right. It is it is actually okay. I'm gonna say this. Maybe people from toronto will disagree but for me. It's a cultural thing in the city that you ignore each other. In fact people in new york are more likely to like not it. You say hello. Wow yeah turn a special. This is my view. I know somebody's gonna say no toronto and it's not everybody right. There are pockets. That are super friendly. So that experience of rejection like it just feels so bad in your body

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Relationship Therapist, Brittanni Young, on How to Manage Rejection

Sex with Dr. Jess

02:21 min | 1 year ago

Relationship Therapist, Brittanni Young, on How to Manage Rejection

"Sex down south best sex conference ever down at atlanta. You are hosting a workshop on managing rejection and a really wanna talk about this so tell us why. This is such an important topic. I might be colored in my lens as it's just the thing that keeps coming up you know both personally and professionally and i don't think people realize because it often feels isolating when you're in it but there is going to be that dynamic there where you have somebody who's the higher desire partner in the low desire partner in any given situation. It's not common where you have both high desire or both low desire at the exact same time you know and really being able to navigate those waters. Most people have no idea. They're just okay. I just think that. I need to bring you to my level in that. Is the solution so much so right. My partner is broken. can you fix them. Can you diagnose them. And can you fix them. And even beyond sacs rejection. It just feels like this important life skill that has been glossed over. You know in recent years. We've heard a lot about vulnerability right expressing vulnerability and showing vulnerability. And i don't think ten years ago. We were hearing as much of that in the mainstream. I agree and i'm like in five or ten years. Will we hear more about rejection league in every respect whether it's applying for a job or this is a tiny little thing but saying hello or smiling at someone on the street and having them ignore you not for hitting on purposes Just for friendly. Now you live in the south. You live in atlanta We're a lot of people smile and say hello. Yeah i live in toronto. Where when i smile and say hello i kinda get. I get pretty upset. Sometimes because people will just look right through you or almost even roll their eyes at you and what am experiencing there Is very visceral. Yeah it's rejection out. It's probably not about me right. It is it is actually okay. I'm gonna say this. Maybe people from toronto will disagree but for me. It's a cultural thing in the city that you ignore each other. In fact people in new york are more likely to like not it. You say hello. Wow yeah turn a special. This is my view. I know somebody's gonna say no toronto and it's not everybody right. There are pockets. That are super friendly. So that experience of rejection like it just feels so bad in your body

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Vagina Talk With Dr. Nicole Williams

Sex with Dr. Jess

02:28 min | 1 year ago

Vagina Talk With Dr. Nicole Williams

"To have to ask. What made you write a book about vaginas. Why did you go there. Great question i am. of course. i'm a gynecologist. I've been unpracticed for a little over fifteen years and what i've noticed over all of this time is at my patients still kept having the same questions and the same concerns over and over and over throughout the years even though it's great for me to be able to explain it to them one on one i started thinking of my patients and we have seventeen thousand patients in the practice. If my patients have these questions what about other women are they still having these same insecurities about their anatomy that my patients are having and i thought you know with the pandemic. I had a lot of time on my hands and any major knows that when you give an english major too much time to do nothing like their brains go wild. I started thinking. I start answering some of these questions and i was gonna just write a little e book to put on my side just frequently asked vagina questions but i just kept going and going and going. I realize oh my god. I have eighty seven pages. Nobody's gonna read that unless it's like an actual book and that's just started to get it done and there. We go amazing. So what are some of those questions that people have been coming to you with over and over again in the thousands the biggest question i always get is odor. Everybody is so concerned about odor. And i explained to them for the most part. Yes your vagina is gonna have some type of owner odor considered your signature scent which is completely normal. Sometimes it's a little tangy. It might actually depend on what you're eating or drinking generally it's normal but we are bred at to believe our vaginas. You're supposed to smell like you know. Bath powder or chanel number five or you know. Some kind of special bath and body works all the time. But that's actually the opposite of what you want what you really want. If you're trying to attract a partner. I have research in my book about this is that you want your own signature. Sent to get onto your partner. Because he's gonna remember or she for that matter is gonna remember or they or is going to remember that sense especially if it's tied to pleasure is going to bond nut person to you so when i talked to my patients about their odor. Most of the time. It's normal. I secondly you want this smell. Because it's going to help with your relationship on a cellular level and thirdly we are not supposed to smell like betham body works

Roxanne Francis Unpacks How Resentment Affects Relationships

Sex with Dr. Jess

02:21 min | 1 year ago

Roxanne Francis Unpacks How Resentment Affects Relationships

"What is resentment like. How does it even built. You know it's so funny. We often look at these things. Expect these huge huge explanations. But i think resentment really just boils down to unexpressed anger or unexpressed frustration. Sometimes the frustration is there and the anger is there and sometimes we don't even recognize it and if we don't even recognize were harboring this thing. It's definitely unexpressed. it's unexpected verbally. But it comes out in so many different ways right just leaks out absolutely and you must feel it in your body like i mean how do clients explain resentment in their bodies or maybe brandon can weigh in after as well. Yeah i get different. Things from tightness in my chest knots in my stomach grinding. My t. a headaches all the time and checking just keep explaining. My resentment get continued falling asleep or staying asleep back right and just missing the body in general because you know when we hope anger. There's tension right. And so that can result in tightness in the body and once the resentment gets processed. Once we're able to discuss once we're able to find a resolution that physical kinship times to release itself not make sense tomb. It's this unexpressed anger frustration or dissatisfaction builds over time. You feel it in your body. How does it show up in relationships. There must be so many different ways that you see resentment. Come out whether it's in a very straightforward way or in all these kind of crawler ways that we may not even recognize as imminent south it can come through. Just you know in some women that i work with. The you know banging on pots pans. The popular hardy doing fine. You know sometimes that can show up you know in the bedroom right. Oftentimes went been used unresolved. People don't wanna be touched right. Get away from me. i'm not. I'm not into that but quite often people will come to me with you. Know they think that their issue is unique to them. But i hear these stories so often they play out like the same old tape where one partner will say. I'm always the one putting the kids to batam always on making the meals. I'm always the one doing some always wondering that you get to chill

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Episode 61A  Jess Lederman  Hearts Set Free - 3 storylines

Discovered Wordsmiths

00:39 sec | 1 year ago

Episode 61A Jess Lederman Hearts Set Free - 3 storylines

"This is a this is a book that explores how people come to Faith and deal with doubt or to put it another way how God relentlessly pursues us and does not rest until his last lost. And so my novel is heart set for a published in early, 2019 my first novel and it's a story that weaves together. Three plotlines, two of them are set in the first half of the nineteen hundreds and the 3rd and the present day and at first they they seem unrelated, but yep. They come together and some surprising and and Powerful

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'Locker Room Syndrome' Drives Men to Think Big

Sex with Dr. Jess

01:50 min | 1 year ago

'Locker Room Syndrome' Drives Men to Think Big

"There's actually this. Study is a study by annabelle chan and they looked at data from forty three different countries with men. Eighteen seventy six years old and what they found was that they're actually more concerned about. Their penis is outside of the bedroom so they called it locker room syndrome. So they're kind of more concerned about what other people think as opposed to actually concerned about how pena size affects sexual function or sexual performance or how they're perceived sexually all. I would definitely agree with that. I remember the first time playing hockey and showering in the in the locker room and being so uncomfortable about it. But i played on a competitive team and we traveled and your parents eventually the point where they saying. I don't want this stinky thirteen year old kid in my car on a wednesday night for two hours reading. Take a shower after the game So then you started taking a shower and it was just this awkwardness where you're in the room. And you know perhaps some of the guy and again. This is a long time ago. Some of the guys which our some of them wouldn't and there's that initial kind of discomfort of getting naked in front of other men and again. This is a while ago. And i feel very differently now and then the funny thing is is. I remember my grandfather growing up. Who was very quote unquote macho and and all those sorts of things saying to me. One day when i- cowered in a room getting changed putting on a swimsuit. He's like we all have the same stuff he's he said. Just no one's focusing on it. Just get changed. It's not a big deal. You don't have to go hide in the corner but it's this weird being pulled in different directions. You're supposed to cover up all the time you're not supposed to show it. You're supposed to talk about it. You're supposed to say how big it like. These silly games that we play and again this is just reflecting on my experience. Grew up playing hockey and being a kid and the whole peanuts conundrum. If you

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'Elf Ear' Plastic Surgery Is the Hot New Beauty Trend in China

Fat Mascara

01:21 min | 1 year ago

'Elf Ear' Plastic Surgery Is the Hot New Beauty Trend in China

"I'm fascinated by this new beauty trend coming out of china. Elf ears now. Whoever named this by the way gave it like a weird connotation because it doesn't look elfin what it is is people are getting filler injections of hydraulic acid in their ears or in some cases cartilage inserts so they protrude more that same way like when kids have like sticky out ears and at first i was like oh is this like a weird gov trend like remember when like i don't know like sometimes people would get like their tongues altered and things for this goth look no it actually can be quite flattering. So the thinking here is that i was reading a south china morning post article and there was a doctor who specializes miss and he said basically it makes your face looks slimmer so a lot of women in china who want to have a slimmer look to their face when their ears are plumped out and i saw before and after picture with that will link to it. Doesn't i think it kind of does make your face look slimmer. What jess too much. Time on your hands or money starring. Lumping out your ears. This is like cookie cookie. Go on well. One woman was quoted as saying. It's magic she changed. Nothing else on her face and her friends didn't really know what happened but they said that you look different and better the day she got it done so keep an eye. Keep an ear on. I'm sorry

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Master Dirty Talk: 60+ Tips & Examples - burst 02

Sex with Dr. Jess

00:29 sec | 1 year ago

Master Dirty Talk: 60+ Tips & Examples - burst 02

"Good girl with a british accent shar you. You're very good girl. That was even british. I don't know what. That was arnold schwarzenegger to nibble. Let me to tell me you want to twist the right one along with the new. Okay now just do it in your regular voice telling me and my really good girl. Your real good girl.

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Master Dirty Talk: 60+ Tips & Examples - burst 11

Sex with Dr. Jess

00:36 sec | 1 year ago

Master Dirty Talk: 60+ Tips & Examples - burst 11

"I'm use the british fellow the next the next time. I'm bad tell me. I'm very good girl with a british accent shar you. You're very good girl. That was even british. I don't know what. That was arnold schwarzenegger to nibble. Let me to tell me you want to twist the right one along with the new. Okay now just do it in your regular voice telling me and my really good girl. Your real good

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The Uniqueness of the Japanese Voice First Technologies With Pete Erikson

VOICE Global 2021

01:47 min | 1 year ago

The Uniqueness of the Japanese Voice First Technologies With Pete Erikson

"Talk a little bit about The uniqueness what y. Is japan a unique market when it comes to voice verse technologies and we know that voice. We know that you know the two major organizations are very committed to the market. But what are some of the things. It make japan a unique market for voice in boys. Verse technologies yes. I think that you'd make a nestle japanese market. Some of them are the same with Take but the uniqueness of japanese is yeah. We have so many confidant later to get by cultures jess anime characters. And i think they as yet the uniqueness in potential objects Market and cartridge up reviews youth smart speaker voice assistant. Not that the different way reich. The smart home scores are very popular and also yet at the on the reason to do your smart home scales. Many people by smart speakers after today. start exploring new and crime trade. Yet under the pandemic icing. They are has been some changes to how do you. Smart speakers for them all The alexa related to like entertainment at home become popular I think it's the same as other country that people more than at home so remote working or a home office so spending at home if you know Chance a lot so defiant long.

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VOICE Global 2021

01:53 min | 1 year ago

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"And and commend you for jumping out on your own and taking it on Let's talk a little bit about The uniqueness what y. Is japan a unique market when it comes to voice verse technologies and we know that voice. We know that you know the two major organizations are very committed to the market. But what are some of the things. It make japan a unique market for voice in boys. Verse technologies yes. I think that you'd make a nestle japanese market. Some of them are the same with Take but the uniqueness of japanese is yeah. We have so many confidant later to get by cultures jess anime characters. And i think they as yet the uniqueness in potential objects Market and cartridge up reviews youth smart speaker voice assistant. Not that the different way reich. The smart home scores are very popular and also yet at the on the reason to do your smart home scales. Many people by smart speakers after today. start exploring new and crime trade. Yet under the pandemic icing. They are has been some changes to how do you. Smart speakers for them all The alexa related to like entertainment at home become popular I think it's the same as other country that people more than at home so remote working or a home office so spending at home if you know Chance a lot so defiant long.

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How much does sexual compatibility matter? - burst 05

Sex with Dr. Jess

01:09 min | 1 year ago

How much does sexual compatibility matter? - burst 05

"Core roddick feeling is the emotion you need to experience in order to get in the mood for sex and you're elevated erotic feelings are the emotions that take sex to the next level because every human interaction is an emotional experience regardless of whether it's a one night stand or something really really long term there's always emotion involved there's emotion involved in shopping. There's emotion involved in marketing so it doesn't mean that you have a long term emotional attachment to someone but the experiences emotional so when i think about core roddick and if you have matching core roddick feelings it actually can be more of a problem in some cases so for example a very common core roddick fuelling meaning the feeling i need to get in the mood for sex is i need to feel want it. I need to feel desired. So i hear that a lot. Just wanna feel wanted. I want to feel like you want sex. You don't just or sorry no let me take every. Yeah i wanna feel like you want me. Not just you want sex and so if both of us share that feeling and we've run into that in some in some cases where i i just want you to make me feel wanted but you also want me to make you feel wanted was funny that you mentioned that because that's exactly what i'm what you're saying is when i'm thinking

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Everything You Need to Know About the Long Run With Coach Jess Movold

Hurdle

02:33 min | 1 year ago

Everything You Need to Know About the Long Run With Coach Jess Movold

"As you mentioned the long run is just this specific ron during the week where you're spending more time in your feet and perhaps the other days and relevant to whatever it is that you're going after so whereas you could be training for a ten k and you're long run would be six eight miles max versus training for a marathon. Where over time amo. That long bryden gets up. Eighteen nineteen twenty excetera depending on your training plan now for someone gearing up for their long run. What are a few things that you would recommend to them to do. What you prepare. Well i think to take it seriously. You know to put it on your calendar on a day where you feel you know i think yes. The long run falls on the weekends for so many. But it doesn't have to be your training plan. Be customized to your schedule that works best but it does need to be pretty routinely placed within that you know seven day block that you can buy or ties it you can you know. Commit to ninety plus minutes because technically that's where the long run turns into the long run ninety minutes or more you know you want to be able to make it routine so prioritizing it mentally managing expectations and knowing that the purpose of the long run is to complete it you know and i think it's an opportunity to work through mental obstacles mental hurdles mental things that are challenging learning how to work through them. It is the absolute perfect time to introduce fuelling. If that's new for you to find a source of fuel that you can work with or see if it works for you and clean outs. Bathrooms plan out water. Stops things that you can get ahead of you know on race day. Where setup there's potties you know in a perfect world. There's places to go to the bathroom. There's water and or other sources of hydration but the long run. It's all up to you so that's a good time to wear that outfit so you don't look at the finish line to bring the fuel to try out a hydration pack Not to try out new shoes. You can get new shoes and you know i would suggest four to six miles in a new pair of shoes and if it works then introduce them into your long run but the the best part about the long run is he. Just go and get it done.

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Asmussen Looking to Win Preakness With Midnight Bourbon

The Horse Racing Radio Network Podcast

01:25 min | 1 year ago

Asmussen Looking to Win Preakness With Midnight Bourbon

"The phillies did it. Steve asmussen did it. He's done it twice. So far in the preakness stakes. He's looking for a third victory coming up later today with midnight bourbon. Who was one of just a couple of horses coming back from the kentucky derby to take a shot at turning the tables medina spirit earlier this week. Steve took time to talk with anthony. Stabile on our race day program presented by twin spires. And here's what he had to say about his talented midnight. Bourbon you know. Come back here to pimlico. You get to re live those amazing moments and With rachel alexandra. Coming in to our barn. Jess jackson barbara banke of stonestreet bought her two days off of her oaks win. She moved into the barn three days later. And then the fact that she wasn't an original triple crown nominee. There was the you know the chance she would be excluded from running in the preakness and then getting to run drawing the thirteen posts and It was very fast. Moving times with rachel alexander leading up to the preakness but the moment i remember the most is when we walked out of the barn to walk over for preakness. I never been a part of a horse race. That that percentage of the public was on one horse inside.

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'Friends' Reunion Reveals First Teaser Trailer, Guest Stars and Release Date

Z Morning Zoo

00:49 sec | 1 year ago

'Friends' Reunion Reveals First Teaser Trailer, Guest Stars and Release Date

"Found out what we know about the friends. Rina special Here's got a trailer yesterday. That was kind of like the first real trailer for it Seems like we've been waiting 18 years. For this thing that happened. It's finally hitting HBO Max on the 27th of this month, so that's two weeks from yesterday. In addition to the main cast, the show is loaded with guest stars, including Justin Beaver Lady Gaga. BTS and other A listers that are stopping by for appear in the show include Reese Witherspoon, Tom Selleck, Elliott Gould, Christina Pickles, She played up Monica and Ross is Mom and Dad. Cindy Crawford. James Corden Kit Harington, Mindy Kalen Walls to be a part of it, and so will Maggie Wheeler. Who is Maggie Wheeler, this lady? Yeah, Jess from the original of human friends fan, you know exactly who that is. And

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Mets Fire Chili Davis as Hitting Coach

Baseball Tonight with Buster Olney

01:38 min | 1 year ago

Mets Fire Chili Davis as Hitting Coach

"Late last night. The mets lose again. They've lost their record. Now is eleven and twelve and they make. I think what most teams would be considered to be some kind of a panic move. They fired their hitting coach. Chili davis they fire their assistant hitting coach This is a month into the season. Twenty three games into the season. And i have so many questions about this and i wish that i could give you the answers to but because it happened late last night because not around the team. I don't have as much information. I will get some more but i gotta tell you. This is absolutely the hallmark of a new owner coming in. I've seen this a hundred times. Where new owner comes in and the results aren't as good as Is what what we're expected. And especially with francisco indoor. They spent all this money. They spent all this capital they trade for the all star shortstop he looks terrible at the plate is swing. Looks completely messed up. You know. last week we heard from their second baseman about how in a game You know the hitters didn't have the you know the information on the pitcher that Played out during the course of the game and then over the weekend jess there was this weird by play among the mets hitters. About this new hitting guy donnie. Stevenson coming in like this fake personality and we were trying to figure out what to do with that information on sunday. Baseball in all of it added up. As i said to tim healy of newsday. Before that game on sunday like a coach is going to get fired. It just had that feel of desperation.

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"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

Sex with Dr. Jess

01:32 min | 1 year ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"You're listening to the sacs with dr jess podcast sacks and relationship advice you can use tonight.

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

Sex with Dr. Jess

04:26 min | 1 year ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"Wear here with my lovely other half. The doctor jess happy happy new year. Yeah happy new year. Do you feel any different. Twenty twenty one. Well as you know brandon and other folks may not know we didn't exactly ring out or ring in the new year because we were dealing with a family situation with somebody being diagnosed positive with co vid so we had a nice quiet new year chinese food and champagne. You know i. I don't really like anything more than that. Just the two of us and my one uncle d from a distance showed to uncle defer totally taking care of us in the middle of this family. I don't wanna say crisis but hiccup for sure and it's the start of twenty twenty one. I'm definitely excited for it It's interesting if i were to get into it. I didn't get all the things done. I had wanted to complete in twenty twenty. And i was talking to my therapist today and her big question is why like. Why do you need to do these things. Why is it so important. Because i feel so torn between wanting to them but also not wanting to do the work you know late to magically happen not so much that because i love the work but this this i think feeling torn between what you feel you should do and what you really enjoy doing and one of the questions. She posed to me had to do with like why. Why what's your vision. Right what is your mission. What is your purpose. She said. Avoid mission creep. I thought this was really interesting. Where other things are creeping into my mission and distracting. From what i wanna do so if i'm in the privileged position to not have to do things i don't wanna do. Why do i so we got into that you know the scarcity mindset that i struggle with some of the fear of saying no wanting everyone and this is a word that comes up for me desperately to like me and that's a really hard thing because you're setting yourself up for failure so I guess i just came out of my therapies. So i'm letting loose but I am excited for twenty twenty one. Do you have any resolutions. I posted some new year's resolutions on instagram. Just that you can check out at sex with dr jess but have you thought about anything there. Babe i haven't done it entry yet to highlight what i want to achieve but thinking on the spot. I want to be more efficient with my time. When i'm doing a task. I want to be more efficient but also decided that. I want to be more forgiving of myself when i'm when i'm struggling or when i'm not being as efficient as i wanna be. Yeah because you're you're definitely hard on yourself. Yeah i find them. Generally pretty focused but through the last nine months there have been periods. Where i have not been focused so i.

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Sex with Dr. Jess

05:07 min | 1 year ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

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Sex with Dr. Jess

01:30 min | 1 year ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

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Sex with Dr. Jess

01:34 min | 1 year ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"Welcome to the sex with dr. Just podcast i'm your co host brandon. Wear here with my lovely other. Half dr jess. How are you hanging in there. Ready to talk some techno fearance. Always it's a buzzword but it's a real thing you had something that i've struggled with. I think that we've we've had lots of discussions about yeah. I think you're a lot more patient with me around tech use than maybe i am with you. I'm a little bit more reactive. I would agree. I think that. I also tend to just assume that whenever you're working on your phone or your laptop or whatever device it is it's urgent or it's pressing so i'm okay with it whereas on the opposite and look if you're on your phone you're just ignoring me. I have felt that way at times but Generally speaking over the years been trying to make an effort to try and find some boundaries. And well we're gonna be talking about technical because last night we hosted a session called conversations for couples via good for her which is a local shop. Sex positive independently owned boutique in toronto. That has been you know. Providing toys and educational materials and online courses as well as been an important support in in the queer community here in toronto They're called good for her any. We hosted this online session for a group of couples and in the session we worked through ten. Actually it was really like twelve but it was.

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Sex with Dr. Jess

05:37 min | 1 year ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"Joining us. Today is dr jeannette giulio. a clinical psychologist. Ceo and founder of path will clinic in toronto and a friend of mine. Nice to see you from afar. Likewise dr jess. How're you doing. I'm hanging in there. how about you same. You know when one day at a time. We're you know we're in toronto. So we are now in lockdown again. <hes> the next twenty seven days. But who's counting. You know so taking it one day at a time. So are you. Seeing patients. Virtually as well. Yes in person as well so mental health. At least where i practice ontario has been deemed an essential service which means i can see clients in person and some people. Just prefer that <hes>. What i am primarily seeing clients virtually which is nice who a lot of clients now as you know are working from home <hes>. So that doesn't get in the way of them. Doing therapy can talk to them from anyhow anywhere now so i probably seeing about seventy percent or so of my clients. Virtually in about thirty in person. Okay and are you seeing anything pop up or any themes since the onset of covid. Yes for sure <hes>. So anxiety is say the number one presentation that i'm seeing and that's true where people maybe are experiencing anxiety pre pandemic and now is just been exacerbated but i'm also seeing a lot of new anxiety and people who don't have any history of it are now quite fearful and anxious not necessarily you know about the virus itself or contracting there some of that really. The anxiety relates more to <hes>. Just the unknown right in the uncertainty of this all and what this means for them right personally professionally financially. Uncertainty is a hard thing for people to deal with right and we've never been a more uncertain time as of now so this is triggering a lot of anxiety and what i'm seeing now because we're now in months nine ish kind of this pandemic <hes>. I'm now starting to see depression. That's now have emanated right from the consequences of lock downs in the various restrictions. That we've been under <hes>. So you know we were talking earlier on. It's been a busy time are not just for me for all of my colleagues in mental health. I've never seen anything like this in my career. Certainly i've never been this busy so a lot of people are having a hard time with everything that's happening. Yeah that makes sense an icon ask. Are you seeing a lot of anger or rage attached to that anxiety. Because i'm noticing with me that i'm just snappier than ever <hes>. I wouldn't i wouldn't call it rage necessarily but i just like every little thing irritates me when it didn't use to and one thing that i had kind of a discovery this week doc i i was thinking i was thinking about kind of my frustration and my anxiety. I'm i'm a very low anxiety person. Normally and i actually love stress and i really enjoy risk. And that's part of why i've kind of designed maybe subconsciously or maybe purposely. My work the way. I have right flying all the time you know. Maybe you missed the flight. Maybe you make it in time. Maybe you don't. Those are the types of things that many people find distressful. But i actually take comfort in it and i realized just last week that even though i'm still doing my work in many ways i've i've lost my job because my job really entailed travel every traveling every week and working with groups in person and i'm lucky that i'm still getting to do some work online but there is a real sense of loss to the lifestyle that i was accustomed to living that again. I know most people wouldn't wanna live that lifestyle right. Sometimes people say oh. Can you pack in your bag. And i'm like you would not want to do what i'm doing. No i know it's sort of his view. You're a little bit like me. You like to bounce around. So so i made it all about me. Let's let's talk about. Let's talk about frustration and anger. Are you seeing a lot of that. Yeah well frustration you know slash anger irritability right those are all or can be manifestations of both anxiety and depression and you know in a in a case such as yourself where you were really you designed your professional personal but also professional lifestyle to the degree that you wanted it right. You had agency and ownership of that and what this pandemic has done is essentially taken that away right and for people who are very independent. Are you know. Yeah are independent spirits. This pandemic has been hard to deal with because it's made them feel out of control right. Something was taken away from them rather quickly and there's this feeling that they can't really do much about it and that for sure can trigger erna ability anger in many people right but especially people with that very sort of self sufficient independent spirit.

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Sex with Dr. Jess

02:51 min | 2 years ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"Can I send you a not-safe-for-work text message and it's like, yes, you can no babe. This is my work phone. Please consent and back pain. It's like well, I'm going to other room thinking about you and it can just be flirty. It doesn't necessarily have to be overtly sexual and that can just be enough to cuz you are absolutely enough to justify you are I'm glad you're saying that because the line that really stands out for me is you know, I feel like I'm not enough not worthy not sexy and boring and I doubt that your partner views you that way. It sounds like your job. Having sex even if it's not as often as you would like to and I really appreciate dr. Lex the gamification of things and we if we could have just play more games with sex and not worry about it ending in a specific way. I think that well first of all, we we'd make more time for it this whole scheduling sex thing is such an interesting concept because we have this notion that sex is life sometimes unscheduled and that's very very rarely the case kind of nothing happens in life. Unless you carve out the time for it right like you don't spontaneously go on a vacation very few people know that goes on any vacations these days but you know, these are things that you you carve out the time for even when you were first dating you set time aside you did the things to groom that made you feel comfortable. If you were going to get naked you might have washed your sheets you might have, you know, told your friends you're going on a date you probably didn't answer a phone call from your mother or a sibling. I mean unless your mother checks in on you on your day off. Is nice too. And so that was carving out of time. But we have this idea that it's spontaneous and the beginning but in fact, you know, it can be a mix of spontaneous and playful like you described as well as long scheduled and it doesn't have to go in your eye kalar in your calendar. It's just you know, you make time for some sort of play an intimacy and pleasure. So I'd love I love that gamification. I'd love to come up with more games off around 6 as well. And so I'll think about that for the future. Oh, I'm looking forward to the the sex with dr. Jess board games do it. I feel like that's something brand new age and put together and you would be a boring game if I put it together. So I no no, I mean, I'm the least creative of the three of us who we know that if anyone's ever read my writing likes, you know, Marla right doctor likes, you know, Marla. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah, so morally and I wrote a book together and our writing styles are just so different cuz Marla rights as she speaks and it. Who's so naturally and beautifully and I write like a robot and so it was actually so helpful for me to see her writing style and put it together. It's always this learning process sometimes get that..

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Sex with Dr. Jess

05:04 min | 2 years ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"To the sex with dr. Jazz podcast. I'm your co-host Brandon. We're here with my always thought the other half. Dr. Jess. How are you? Oh, wonderful. It's going to be 6 with Dr. Lex today. Oh mixing it up. Yeah, but it's not me playing a role. It's an actual other person doctor Lex the therapist and we're going to be answering some of your questions and I have to say we do receive so many questions and we fall behind and I always feel badly that we don't get to all of them Faithfully. We're going to power through a few today and I want to open with a question for Brandon. It's a nice short and sweet one that I received on Instagram before we dive off..

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Sex with Dr. Jess

05:50 min | 2 years ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"Invasive gynecological surgery and Women's Health and she has worked all over a traveling to the Dominican Republic to Haiti Rwanda Cambodia. The Philippines Mexico Ghana. I'm sure missing some cuz she got quite the resume to perform necessary gynecological surgery. Welcome. Welcome. Dr. Williams. Thank you for joining us. It is such a pleasure to be with you. Dr. Jess. Now, you have a long and prestigious resume. It's a mouthful I had asked did you always know you wanted to grow up to be a doctor? You know, I either was going to do that be an airline pilot or what was that other thing? I'm home. Interested or you know be a Broadway singer and Dancer. So I think I picked the best of the three and I think we're lucky to have you I realize you do you do work with heavy menstrual periods with fibroids with sexual dysfunction menopause bioidentical hormone therapy incontinence. And I think many of these experiences or diagnosis have been relegated to the sidelines, you know, many of these issues for folks with Volvo's. They have kind of a history of being ignored or discounted. I'm curious how you found yourself studying and working with these types of issues like fibroids and incontinence, you know as a little bit thanks for asking that dr. Steven was a little bit of a roundabout kind of way because I believe that it was a personal experience and I have I do have a fibroid it's not that bad but for somebody like myself African American woman and being dead Having my symptoms when I was a medical student completely downplayed and especially in the specialty of Obi dine most of the attention. It gets paid toward the O B portion not toward the guide portion because hate to say a baby money is good money. I don't get any of that and you know, I make significantly less, you know, but that's not an issue for me. The issue is so many of my patients when they come to me and we're talking about these things are like, this is the first time that anybody ever actually listened to my concerns because a lot of dots they don't have as much time and I do have that kind of time because I don't have to run and go and perform a delivery or a C-section birth in the middle of my day. So I I have the time and I actually take the time because these patients are really their health isn't very important because when a woman is healthy the computer Unity is healthy that's such an important piece and you know periods with half of the world getting them at some point and fibroids. I mean High incidents of fibroids it is it's such a shame. We don't talk about them and I receive so many questions about these topics. So I'm hopeful that you would be willing to answer a few for our listeners right now. Absolutely. Okay. So the first person wage rates in and says I get really heavy periods, but I also find that my libido spikes when I'm on my period so are there any risks to having sex on my period and how do I get over the idea that it's great job was to do it during my time of the month. Oh, well, that's a really wonderful question. First of all understand.

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Sex with Dr. Jess

02:19 min | 2 years ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"Welcome to the sex with Dr, podcasts. I'm your Co Host Brandon? We're here with my lovely other half. Dr Jess how you doing? Amazing amazing was that. Last. Good life is good. Not, as good, as it was a couple of months ago, but it's good, no so healthy still here, still feeling good. We're going to be talking about sexual personality types today. How would you describe my sexual personality? Adventurous. Wanting Pleasure wanting an orgasm. Yes, greedy. Yes, thank you and me you. You, you're give her. Which is nice, but also can be annoying. Yes and we've had that conversation before. You didn't say annoying for Mine I don't know why I was just thinking of annoying always ends well. How are you in bed? You're annoying. Do I know you in bed? No, you don't annoy. Tap on your shoulder while you're sleeping. TAP stuff the. Yield On your flap of skin. There you go, thank you. Yeah, I would say. You're very open. Okay and I would also say that you. I don't know the the adjective for it, but you. You push through sort of like even if if it doesn't work out in the first five seconds, you kind of work at it. Does that like I don't WanNa? Say. How do I say it? Listen I'm struggling here but I. think that you put a lot of effort into it. We've been there before where you have not been in the mood or perhaps been in the mood initially and then fallen out of the mood and. It's not working. Or You? Haven't said anything. I'm not into this anymore so I do think that I'll make a second or third effort. To try and get us there so now we've broadly and kind of Messily described care, sexual personality types, but Now. Let's figure out what our actual sexual personality types are before we invite our guests on to join US I. Want to shout out. Let's get checked dot com. They offer online from.

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Sex with Dr. Jess

03:00 min | 2 years ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"Ex Dr Podcast. I'm your co host Brandon wear here with my lovely other half, Dr. Jess Hey, hey, how's it going awesome? We're going to be talking about sex and cannabis today. Yeah I've had some experiences with cannabis. And sex or just can't. This, just no I mean with both but my experiences cannabis have been. Up and down back and forth. For a while, it was for a while. It was great and it wasn't once. Since, then it has not existed here of staining I have abstained for over a decade. Has it been a decade been over? Ten or twelve years. Since that fateful night since that night while yeah, that was that was not great for me. Do you remember when we used to enjoy Friday nights a little bit of cannabis and a lot of sour candies, chocolates kraft dinner and chips and I would get upset if I didn't get all four of my food groups. Engage in some cannabis consumption, and then you would send me and a good friend over to the store to load up on. All of those goodies and it was great walking over there. I'm sure we look like a couple of fools. Do you remember on sex while we were high? Not at all? No, no, not really I remember. It was great. I remember a few times where it went on and on and on and on and I'm sure it didn't. Complaints No, no, it wasn't it. Sorry, did I say it that way. No actually. It wasn't I mean I have no problem complaining. For those of you behind the scenes. She lets me know when it doesn't work totally. Not Working. The, I remember feeling like this one experience just lasted and lasted and lasted and the I. We're going to be talking about things a little bit more. I think interesting and complex than our recreational, totally civilian use and I'm curious about what can be used now. That doesn't necessarily result in that psychotropic effect right, though because it's not just about getting high there, so many of the benefits exactly and so our guest is the expert in that will will leave that. That to her, and before we welcome her on, I want to say thanks to womanizer and encourage folks to check out the womanizer premium, so even if you don't love the name, this toy is incredible. It's what we call pleasure air technology people describe it as a section toy, but it's not a section. It's got this little loop this little opening that goes over the head of the CL. It releases tiny little bursts of air wave like Aaron, it feels. sort of like A. Like oh! My nation of sucking and licking and kind of a gentle blowing and rubbing. It's really awesome, so check out the womanizer toys. Please use code. DOCTOR JESS AT WOMANIZER DOT COM, wherever you are in the world and get credit for..

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Sex with Dr. Jess

04:15 min | 2 years ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"You know like I said. This is my life's work I've always been saying. Pleasure is one thing that we can control in. You know we can't control all of the things that are around as we can't control you know how other people treat us. What we can't control is the way that we are what we're doing our lives, and as far as pleasure goes in how in in our relationships with one another, these are the things that we can control to help you know the betterment of people and. I also believe that you know we. We've got to come together. So those folks who likes shy away from having these conversations that are really really important. It's very important number one that they get called out. I believe you know I believe they should get called out but I believe there's a way of calling out people and especially white people to say like. Hey, you did this thing that was wrong and like this is why it's wrong and let me tell you you know out of fix it. Because clearly you're you're. You're kind of ignorant to it and so And Yeah. Just reminds me of sex sound south went, and you know I had another conference organizer emailed me and was just like. Hey, do you? Don't you think that sex down south? Should be This is a a white woman. By the way, let's just clarify to everyone I've talked about sex south many times, but it is a sex conference that you organized and you can give us. The the elevator pitched. So sex sound south is a three day a sexist sexuality conference where we focus on all learning workshops, so the type of workshops that we do. Jess and like a lot of other folks from around the country in the world. To come in and teach their thing and are enthusiasts are always really excited to learn more and experience for and so we learned during the day. We have fun and party at night, so it's really unexperienced experience. It's really it's a very family..

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Sex with Dr. Jess

15:34 min | 2 years ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"Welcome to the sex with Dr. Just podcast I'm your co host Brandon. Where here with my lovely other half Dr Jess? How's it going? I'm good. How are you? I'm hanging in there? I have good days bad days these days. I feel like I have good hours. Sobat hours. Yeah I think that's the way it goes during this whole lockdown or semi lockdown pandemic. Yeah it's It's interesting because you can hear in people's voices that were just more emotionally exhausted. Yea I feel that way for sure and I think the people that I work with feel the same way too and sometimes unwilling to admit to how they're feeling like people that are generally very positive. It's hard to get on the phone with somebody. How are you doing? Oh I'm great and for it to sound real. Yeah I think that's a struggle for me because I'm like always up always is always positive. Always happy every day. I wake up and I'm like oh I love life and I don't mean to be that way but these days I'm waking up and I'm like I don't really want to engage engage today as I walk up the stairs with your coffee. I know that is what is keeping me keeping me happy. Yeah so again. We talked about this before. There's this feeling of being really conflicted where we know how lucky we are. But we're still super frustrated and you and I were chatting about where we'd want to travel when this is all over and and again that's just like such a massive privilege to even get to think about that but I was saying to you. There's no where I WANNA go specifically. I JUST WANNA work. I WanNa go where I was supposed to go to work and in May I was so lucky that I was going all over Europe in in Romania in Portugal and Spain and elsewhere and so those are all canceled and I get it of course not you know not a victim in this but I just want to work again. I just wanted to do what I normally do. And it's weird to do it over zoom. Yeah it it. It is weird and what you just said. I totally agree with and I really. This is highlighted. How much I loved my life. The way that it was despite all the ups and downs that I experienced every single day before this pandemic kicked in I realized that I just loved my life and I want nothing more as does everybody else for life to get back to normal. I always knew I love my life literally set it every day I would wake up and be like damn life is good so we will get back to it. This is of course temporary. It will be a new normal and it's interesting because we're seeing. All the companies and brands are as shape pivoting but changing the way they work and I think some of the positives that are gonNA come out of. This is that we're going to make more accommodations for a wider range of experiences in the workplace. So people who wanted to work from home because of a disability or because of chronic illness and they've been being told no no no no no now. We realized that we all can do it. We can be productive from home parents who you know. Maybe have young kids and could benefit from not commuting an hour in each direction every day..

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Sex with Dr. Jess

12:28 min | 2 years ago

"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"They don't stuff up there but because of the pain yet they wanna stick their penis other people's Butts and so I have this rule that I've probably talked about before that comes from an old friend who told me that if he was in college and he wanted to have anal with his girlfriend And she said to him. Okay we can talk about that but before you even think of putting that inside of me. She put his finger up She put her finger up his butt. Yeah and said see how that little tiny finger fields imagine how that monster being absolutely. I think it's important that you have something if you are going to insert cert- That you've had something in your own completely. Well then you have so much more understanding about the pleasure the discomfort a better understanding of Lube and the importance of it going slowly different kinds of technique so. I think you have much more empathy and understanding and I certainly trust somebody much more to play with my but who's been willing to at least try it on themselves. They may have decided they don't like it but at least if they've tried it Dan I have much more trust. I like what you said and I wanted to bring that up too because I think you made reference to equal opportunity or Fus but I think as just as a guy as a person with penis. I think that it's important to respect. That might feel because if you've never had anything done there before you're all of a sudden gonna Jam something in there. I think it's I. Do you know what it feels like to have somebody jam something in there. Yeah because once you do you might go slow you use or you. Might you know you might not yeah. Rescued them right. Yeah or you might start with something small before you build up which was Great So we do have a previous podcast on anal. Yes where I talk a little bit about this fingers. Talk about how to go slowly and we'd exercises sure sizes you can do with yourself In order to get ready for anal sex. Because it's not something that you listen to a podcast and say all right. We're doing the full monty tonight tonight right you. Can you do a little bit of time. And Yeah grew out what works for you so I do encourage people to go back and listen to the anal podcast. But what I really WanNa talk to you about is is the prostate prostate because the prostate is accessible through. Ns Yes it is and on. Generally people have a penis So people who have a Volva have what's called a perennial sponge. Tell us about hang on I need to know about the perennials funds perennial sponge it's between the vagina China and the anus. Okay it's about a thumb depth in so you can go you can access it through the vagina. Somebody's lying on their back. Okay putting pressure down down towards the but okay you can do it with a finger up the but pushing up then towards the vagina or you can do both at the same time. Somebody told me that was called all the six pack where you use your finger right. So you're picking something up like a six pack between your fingers. She's man I don't buy beer but that's not how I'd pick people. We're doing that right now. Finger thumbs together so just to recap. If they're relying on their back and I was pushing my finger into their vagina. I would press down correct. And if they were lying on their back and I was pushing my finger into their anus yet would press correct and it's not very deep so deep it's about thumbed up since so it's shallower than the prostate. Okay which we'll get to but that is an area. That some people find very erogenous Some people have said that they can fielder fielder g spot through but play which could very well be the case. I think sometimes that you're actually hitting the perennial sponge. But you don't know that that's their right and it sort sort of all in the same vicinity but certainly if you have say a plug or something up but then that puts pressure makes the vagina a little bit narrower and puts puts a little bit more pressure so that the panel sponges little more accessible through the vagina. Also right okay. So what do you do to this paranoia. Spent so on assange it. Yeah Yeah so you can do like the windshield wiper. You can do a pulsing you can do n't shallow in and out motion circles else. You know everybody's a little bit different but it is a spot. Now I wouldn't say it's erogenous for all people with all of us You know I would say that that it's you know like maybe kind of a fifty fifty thing once people know where it is whether it actually feels great or good as opposed to neutral. I haven't talked to anybody who said it felt bad bad. But it's not necessarily a strong in erogenous zone as other places just like nipples right like some people's Nipples who and others it's really no different than touching your elbow. Oh and for some people it's one nipple and not the other I'm brandon. We know which was a change. Talk to give away my secrets. So so there's the perennial sponge if you have. Although if you have a penis you you have a prostate which is a little bit deeper in and again if a person's lying on their back it's I always say it's like trying to tickle the Bellybutton Oh so you have your finger pretty much all the way in. I have short fingers and I've had a few times where I haven't touched like it's not quite there. So it's it's pretty deepen their And you're aiming for the belly button okay and so the prostate is next door neighbors with the anus so you feel it through the SBA. Yeah what about you. What does it feel like when with your finger with your finger? Okay so everybody tried this. Stick your tongue between your molars rollers so your cheeks sticks out now. Run your finger on the outside. Feels like it's like a little bump with a moat around official here my prostate prostate is. So you're sticking your tongue against your cheek Yup Yup and so you make a bumps on the outside what you feel with your finger. Is this bump. And that's about the size of it. Oh interesting yeah so I hope you're not it listening on the subway. Where the streetcar or the bus why big deal? You don't know what you're not gonNA think like. Wow they're touching their posse is clearly taking the physical rubbing prostate okay. Yes so we've got this prostate. Yes sometimes you can reach it with your fingers. Sometimes you're better off off with a toy. Yup what toys do you recommend for prostate. So generally toys with a curve are better because they give a little bit more direct access and some people like ones that go in and out and some just like kind of a pressure on and off So Oh Things like the low key wave low. I Lo que I as a lay low toy can end it. Does this little it Kinda like if you imagine pushing a doorbell of with your finger it does the same kind of motion It just moves forward and backwards okay. and then there's also also there's a piece on the outside against the Para Neom 'cause nice to the Pera neom at the same time so that spot between the anus and the testicles also it lie the pressure on that area at the same time feels nice. So it's kind of like we're talking about the six pack where you pick up where your thumb meets the the finger But it's not quite as pronounced. You're just moving about a half an inch or an inch so the the low key wave is good for that And and There's a really intense. When is the fun factory Duke? But that's for more advanced players scored the fun factory Duke. Yeah Fun factories. The manufacturer factor and the Duke is the but it's it's pretty intense and only for people who really comfortable with their butts or just. Tell me how I need to know how how. Why is it so intense so what it does is it puts pressure on the back wall of the anus as well as the front wall to make sure that you get the pressure on the front wall? So it's kind of s shaped right so you have to be really comfortable. Get something wide up there. So it's leveraging sort of push against it exactly it's using that leverage so somebody's really focused on getting that prostate stumbled. Somebody's very focused very Very keen to have it. The pleasure and very comfortable has had several things that are not so slim nature up their butts already today. We I'm getting it again. This genetic yeah there you go We'll we'll have to put a some pictures of the toys on our instagram's Jones. If you had on over to sex Dr Sex Dr Jessica on Instagram. We'll put some some picks maybe some gifts up there we find them. So there's two that are also good that are just more simple So this fall. Oh come vic and the we vibe vector are to sort of just basic external external external internal twice not superwide. They have some vibration abbreviation. They have a remote control functions. You can wear them when you're out and about your partner can met massage your but while you're having dinner with your folks and you have to keep straight face. I'm with clients and justice using the remote control on the vector. Yeah that would be interesting especially since you make such funny sounds. Oh Yeah it's total normal thing for me. I think you've got around awesome clenching my but anyway well when we think about prostate pleasure. How people describe this station? Because if you've got your go-to for example is i. I just rubbed my penis and it feels pretty good. Why would I also WANNA rub my prostate It's variation and its difference And some people like to do the penis in the prostate allstate at the same time and some people are like I can't focus on both just do my prostate do my penis don't do both at the same time. So it Kinda depends on the person which also means that. Sometimes when you play with the prostate you lose direction and some times partners particular. Get really upset. Because they're like. Oh No what did I do wrong. You're not enjoying this like no. No no no. I'll tell you if I'm not enjoying it. It just means that my focus is now on the inside And and so it really depends on the person but not to get freaked out or scared that you've done something wrong or You know or for the person who loses their erection thinking thinking like a is that because I did something bad or this is a wrong thing to do. It's just some people it helps to get in erection maintain our action and some people will lose it and it's just depends on how you respond. How did we get so hung up on the erection because I don't know it's procreation. It's symbolism awesome. I Dunno Paulo. People will say patriarchy I guess yeah I would. I mean you feel so much pleasure in your body all types of pleasure churn without getting an direction if without having lubrication which is not necessarily an indication of arousal without having an orgasm can feel really. Yeah but we're so hung up on the hard deck right and and the problem then is all that pressure means that takes away from your ability to get that hard dick when to start stressing about it will you. Actually I have heard you talk about that. I'd love you to speak on that a bit more. Once you get in your head You are nervous about your nervous about having an orgasm right nervous about ejaculate relating to rally. There's a chemical process that works against you. Can you explain that. Yeah so I mean basically your body when you're having sex is designed to be in rest and digest jess mode and as soon as you get anxious thought what if I lose my erection. What if I orgasm too quickly? What if I don't get an erection? What if I don't orgasm? What if if I don't like anything? What if I'm fat you know? Sometimes it's even you know what if I don't get my project on tomorrow right like it can be anything as soon as we have. That thought our body goes from rest and digest to fight or flight response and so this is our ancient brain that says danger. I e. Maybe there's a bear chasing me right and so when it comes to reckons it makes a Lotta Sense..

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"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

Sex with Dr. Jess

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"jess" Discussed on Sex with Dr. Jess

"Welcome to the sex with dr just podcast i'm your co host brandon wear here with my lovely partner dr jess hey hey happy to be here how you doing today that's what i want and so how do we even begin so for example in session where does the power lie when you have a client and a therapist domestic international wellness and that means if i lived in a village with this person and i had interact with them would i not want to know just a little bit about me and so the those are the kinds of questions that i asked myself of m i being a human with another human when all of a sudden done or am i being like i'm therapist in your client and i'm appeared over there and i will always drift in the angle of like i need to be a human with a human yeah that seems to be a shift in therapy yeah and not only considering the roots but considering the limited research in very limited populations so much research in with university and college students right family upper-middle-class predominantly whites and so i'm predominantly meals right still we're seeing that shift but it's slow right and so again are we studying and then who what assumptions are going into the questions we're even asking but i remember what what shifted me years ago is the method study that regardless of theoretical orientation regardless of what you believed the greatest predictor of who's a health and wellness for the client was the relationship with the therapist and ever since that like why are we not focusing on the art and science of relationships back to me that's it there is nothing else have we make you feel comfortable how do we navigate conflict how what happens because we're coming from a different perspective what serbian relationship that is what i'm after right and that doesn't work if i just see you as the superhuman who has the answers for me who is perhaps judging me i can't leave how many people tell me they were either therapists of judging them so i don't share this critical piece of information and i'm like that's not wellness and what am i modeling if as a therapist i'm like oh it's always the answers i've never supposed to let you know that i'm unsure with freaked out or that i'm tired with to use the bathroom or any you don't he right we don't we don't drink with my clients bringing food bringing water we can't do therapy if you're thirsty and hungry and lake disconnected from yourself and neither can i so this new sense the way that i was trained was heavily somatic heavily into social justice and again the goal all is a well society not just a bunch of individuals who are well because they can afford it but how do you grapple with that you know having a well society when you look outside and things look very broken because trying to fix somebody within the confines of your workspace and then sending them out to very very aren't things so even if you've got a great a great rapport everybody's feeling good there when they go out and then they interact with the partner or with their co workers how what recommendations do you have to help them strengthen those relationships so that that healing the you called it continues outside your office for and that's it goes back to we're going to talk about what are the element of a great relationship right the goshi ation transparency boundaries assessment of your safety learning what your body is telling you so that you can train other people and help other people understand new ways to communicate is communication some people like i want to learn how to communicate better you have words people already how words so if it was just about words you would have figured it out but it's actually more about empathy eh and about being in their body and that's what i train people around and then we have what i call scaffolding conversations which is you're gonna start communicating with them differently how do we help them understand that this is different and the why of it like this is literally like grassroots how do you change culture you help other people realize that there is one different culture and that you're trying to get them to a different one that benefits everybody does that answer your question yeah no it.

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