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The RV Podcast
"jeff spencer" Discussed on The RV Podcast
"But that's coming as well but some progress on that border being opened. We got a really nice note from our friends. Deb and jeff spencer about campground being closed because of the mess that people make the dispersed camping areas. And this is a good news story out of that because a group of concerned people who love to disperse capping our ears. They have banded together. They started kind of a funding movement to save a disperse campground. In the bridger teton national forest. It was a very popular cap gown and it had been used a whole lot last year. A whole lot this year Human waste was really starting to accumulate and as the forest service has been doing around the country. It looked like they were going to shut that down. Because they don't have the manpower to go in and clean up all that human waste in that junk so this group got together and they started a fundraising a lot of individual donations and they raised a lot of money as sixty thousand dollars from private donations as well as as well as to corporations shoutout to domestic and a shoutout also to compendium companions. Kind of like up campground review citing information on camping and dometic of course makes all the rv accessories and it was so much fun. Because they're opening ceremonies they had ribbon-cutting toilet paper. What they did. We didn't tell them what they did with this. They they built a to vault toilets in this area where all the human waste was. So now there's there are toilets there and that's pretty good and then tell about the opening ceremony opening ceremony they use toilet paper for the ribbons for the cutting ribbons of cutting toilet paper. So that's fun. You know what. I found really interesting out of that story is i didn't realize it costs that much but in none under they build that but they also had to pledge enough maintenance money to make maintain these toilets and it's expensive thousand a toilet a year so ten thousand dollars every year for these two toilets to clean them to maintain them. But congratulations solve. So that's the kind of story we love to report. A group of concerned are veres a couple of great corporate. Rv industry citizens helping out with that sixty grand abilities vault toilets. And then pledging ten grand a year to clean the two of them thank you guys. Thanks to our friends. dab and hand Jeff spencer for sending that story so nice to get a good news story. There was a very sad story that we want to report happened. This past weekend in michigan in leno way county michigan actually brooklyn township was a music festival. There and three young guys in their twenties in their twenties were in a travel trailer and they were a campground about four or five miles from where this big festival was held. And they went to bed late friday They were found unresponsive and pronounced dead in their travel trailer on saturday and the cause of death was a common one that we hear several times a year and generator a generator. That was right next to their to their camper. And the fumes from that generator built up carbon monoxide inside. The trailer and these three young men lost their lives. It's uninvestigated police. Haven't done a final release of what the cause was. But that's certainly what they were exp- they were suspecting and for all of us it's a reminder of how deadly carbon monoxide is. So you wanna make sure. You're the main sources generator The and also propane propane. Fires and pain stoves. You wanna make sure all of your equipment works properly and the best way to do this. Have it inspected at least once every season. And for all of you who love amusement parks you are going to be so excited about. What has opened up in the cincinnati area at kings island kings great amusement park one of the best in the country and they just opened a twenty seven million dollar campground. It's huge. it's fifty three acres in size costs about one hundred bucks a night to stay there and a little bit more with all the fees. It's just outside the amusement park. They got shuttles going back and forth but this is a luxury park pools for just adults and then pulls for for kids with kids. And i'm sure all kinds of fitness centers. They've got a great restaurant there They have walking trails and dining options.
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
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Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"Showcase them to show other people. What's possible and to not decide. The merits of our gifts based on the size of what we perceive them to be in their contribution meaning not the definition of champion is a manifest gifts so that level playing field the levels completely love playing field and It's extraordinarily important that we don't place a judgment on what we believe. The value of our contribution is for example. When i was at aspirations and olympia guy were an olympic t. shirt into a bike shop and i saw it and i wanted that t shirt the only way you could become an olympian but he has never remember where the t shirt. I'm sure the yet that one thing that i saw became my logo that i committed to you for ten years to becoming olympia. And how they're not seeing the t. Shirt then that would have liked never happened in what i do know. Is that if we compare what we believe the significance of our contribution as that's a huge disservice us because i don't think that we should be the ones to decide what the impact is. I think we need to cherish grower gifts. We need to show up faithfully every day to grow and build them into showcase them to implement them in wherever they go and the people that they touch will combine in a certain way that will create a a certain impact in statement in have an effect on the universe that were accountable to and we will have is an entry in our life. Scorecard When we kind of Turn it in for the last time and the other thing i'll say To conclude this series. Is that going back to my daughter. We didn't talk a lot about madonna that that's the story but to say that if you ever doubt the value of the thing that you say anything that you do adopt kid because my daughter hung on my every word and for me that's enough to get up every day into highest service into come from my highest place of contribution to show her. What's possible as a father and hopefully as a role model she will aspire to be because the other side of this is everyday. Decide how you're gonna show up because if people showed up differently for my daughter. She wouldn't a have the scars that she didn't ask for that were imposed upon her by the actions of others both physical and mental that may haunt her for the rest of her life and she didn't ask for that that yet had people showed up differently. She wouldn't have to deal with that. And that's why. I just feel like every day. If you can't show up for yourself to be the best show for other people to be the best you can be for them. It's part of what they need to see showcase by us and it's part of our therapy for us to become the best that we can be and with all say. Thanks for the opportunity case. Really been alive while last thing. I wanted to add on to what you just said. Joe rogan had a conversation with dave chapelle recently. I don't want them yeah. I respect both of them. And and then They were talking about the value of having kits. And then a rogan said. My children expanded my capacity. Love on a per cent announced. I for me personally You know what i learned about love is that you can love anybody..
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"First off when it shows up then they look at me as a mind. Reader is a clairvoyant. They trust me a lot. They really want me to be in their corner. Moving forward because i bring to them a bit of a crystal ball to call out what they can't have conceived of yet. Well because i've been in the game longer. And i kind of know that if i see this then this is coming so that protects them and it makes me look like a genius and so therefore the relationship continues in as it should be so. That's the way that I do it in. That's the conversation that we hold. And that's the conversation that i know that needs to be had but then again to that there needs to be a credible source to be able to bring that forward where it's not intellectual learning that some brainiac learned from book. It's just reciting what they read but never experienced the adding lead jeff. Spencer tolan yet. We'll that's okay too but you know they can use me as a reference to. I'm not gonna say anything that has experience but you know we're just sort of saying here that there is a level of credibility that's conveyed through the experience that makes real. That makes a collaboration really close in really intimate because it's based on the fundamental Element of human experience which is trust. Jeff i'm looking at the time our warmed up. Yeah let's i mean. Hey man if you good but one thing i wanted to say The way i feel right. The part of the i started noble warriors. Because i want to talk to my elders. You know chinese culture we have a lot of reverence Of course or how others right and for me It it serves well the our listeners. By really mankind large rick the ripple apart the ripple effect continues that way from my perspective. Definitely want to see more of you. So as in as in how can we use exponential technology the way to duplicate jeff. Riley is an insist that can serve.
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"Has to be a singular something about that one day i was riding my bike which is every day which i intend to be doing here in a little bit there was. I was rounding a corner in their resist boy. That was maybe ten years old in stepped off a curb in was facing down. The street in there was a school bus bench. There that stepped off in the backpack was kinda hanging really low on his shoulders. You almost officials on the ground is looking like this and I wonder why is he so despondent in. I saw that there was a school bus that he missed. All the kids have their noses stuck against the back window and there were waving to him laughing. And i realized that he got left behind and therefore hewas so despondent. Because you've got left behind man there's nobody to share a life with. There's nothing i'm here by myself. I'm insulated nice located in a in a realized that's like primal fear. That's why we're addicted to the phone. Because we we don't answer something we're getting left behind and it will get line. We've missed the school bus. We're not going to be loved or like we're going to be insulated an isolated. We're gonna be ostracized from the group. There's going to be nothing left. Just a dark gray tunnel that we're stuck in for the rest of our life. I realized that that's the primal fear and so again that's a human mindset deal right human mindset. I'm afraid i'm gonna let behind. That's not a champion mind action. It's not but yet it's primal. We would expect that because that's high-speed fast in the weekend bank and everybody's got their four it meets the criteria fomo is a perfect human mindset scripture. So that's what i see in one of the things has to be reconciled in life is you're not gonna be able to do everything possible and nobody's got a crystal ball and there are many points along the journey that i've already figured out.
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"That's completely fair game. I i like the the business space that it carries a lot of intensity of people are really inclined to listen. I don't mind sports world if you the athlete or paying me and You have an have demonstrated to me. You have what. It takes to be approachable. Someone that can step in to. What's possible here. And i think that's becoming more difficult over time as the athletes. Start to overestimate Their abilities and their contribution to humanity That's become a little bit more difficult to find the same about that. Last sentence you said their ability to contribute to humanity. Why important for you. Well because i think that There are people out there looking for a ways of engaging life lead to a life of prosperity in value. And we take our cues from someone and usually those are people that are in the spotlight and listen. If you're in the spotlight therefore what area say. We ought to take his true. That's not really true. either. That's that's myth and i believe that There's a lot of opportunity here to influence in just a beautiful way. That i don't think is being capitalized on I think it perpetuates a lot of the mythology and That's not a game that i liked to play. I feel that we need to give people skills and tools. That will help them. Have a lifetime of double wins together.
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"Liberal. But i have to ask. I think it's a great idea. It was out the question. And the answer is no no random of that has been maybe i should ship versus a little bit different different verticals here and the guy potential but but i think there is a lot to save for that because there are certain things. That are absolutely predictable. Like i can listen to someone. Talk and i can tell you exactly how far they're gonna go mobile because of the language that they use the inflections. What history as. I mean it's a. It's a predictor of future. Like for sure. And i get the talent side of it but as my coach said willing to tell me something but it's not everything weren't skill and if i don't hear people talking In a way that confirms that they understand the process in where they are then. If it's wrong you can't get too right if it's wrong. It's not possible. That's why i kind of feel like every professional team should have me talking with everyone of their potential players just to have a simple conversation the kind of test the waters against their problem solving in how they really think mind over matter is not a criteria that. That's not a great predictor of success. That's usually a sign of impulsiveness that tries to get the advantage to quickly. That often fumbled the ball on the one yard. Line quite honestly My elven matter is not recipe for success. Say more about that. Because you my my were you says the opposite so say that again. If you don't want yeah yeah so mind over matter that doesn't guarantee success that's mentality is just like i'm gonna mowed down anything in my way. Leave a trail of destruction two miles long behind me in all eventually. Get to the finish line. And i'm saying well that's not really true. Because you're you're bringing hyper focus to what you're doing. Hyper focus is really not a state of being any peak. Performer brings any achievement of notoriety. There's a special type of.
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"Of dollars to begin the plan just by my webinar. You know they want the plan just by. Just follow it in somehow. That's the promise of a shortcut to get to where you wanna go faster. They just wanna get the winter circle faster. But if you do not control your variables the faster you go. The more risk you incur in. What happens is that as you start to derail than you're unhappy with the advice that you got. You hit the program that you buy. You've lost a lot of time effort and resources pursuing something that maybe should have been pursued in the first place so for me. You've got to be explicitly clear on where that starting point is once we've established the starting point as it exists your readiness against your goals than we can devise trajectory between the two. That's got kinda to parts to it. Based upon the current knowledge base. There's a body of evidence that informs us about what we can project out into the future. The steps should be based on a current visibility seeing the horizon that we're confident that we need in can get to but then there are some things beyond the horizon. Week projecting conjecture about that we can estimate but we don't have enough information yet to say with one hundred percents certainty that they're correct as of this time but as we move forward in completing somebody's initial targets then we'll have more visibility. Help more to say about that later. I want to know that first and foremost with anybody and why because it helps me determine whether i'm the right fit for them it helps determine for them whether they're really understand what it's going to what it's going to take to get from where they wanna get you from where they are. And so the way that i do it is that this is kind of a modular piece in that they want to. And you wanna get to the data like quick you said and uniform metaphors wanted to under cab or real quick before we proceed. Okay loved the idea of having. Gps loved the idea of clarify. Where one starts with one wanna go and then then crop the path versus. Just gimme a path. Right here where i don't care. Just give me the best tool the best right now. Funnel software right Okay right so knowing where you where you are where you wanna go then kroft other pets love it and also love. Let me underline this. It's not it's it's it's about whatever you wanna go start there versus going way out there where your headlines doesn't even reach razor what you see right now. We wanna go. That's a place to start. Is that a wreck. Ria or you share. Sure i'll add a couple of points. Texture here is that. Let's say you have your. Gps correct and my address is nineteen fifty s. What it is so. Let's say by mistake. Or because sloppy. I program in nineteen sixty.
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"Love fine architecture of beautifully crafted furniture and wooden homes and cars and things like that for sure. I'm just saying that. That's not a a condition for which i judge is scorecard for myself and the value and contribution of what my life is and eventually you get to a place where we see the value. Those things aren't what we thought they might be but yet we can still hold and appreciate them. Yeah i really love. This was something. What an elder say right because no longer about the pursuit of those things. Those things are nice. You prefer it there. You appreciate the beauty. And the and the craftsmanship and everything at the same time also here. This is my metaphor. When you were saying this you hold it. that's not like grasping for like a must have it in feel for philo significant in some particular way. That's the way we see what you said. Which is the way that it should be in this kind of leads. To another point. There is that there are different decades that we go through. That has a different lens of importance. We see the world through. We'll make decisions against that. I feel that we should never try to skip into the steps to try to to wise too fast because we read a book. We try to be it. It's twenty years beyond where we are. S not really you. So why don't you just can't live audio. Art is what i do know. Is that if you're in your thirties. Acquisition in scale is all you think about and that's okay. That's the way that it should be so. Don't try to think like a thirty where you're giving back in your thinking about philanthropy right now or legacy because it's too early for that and i just always take again where people are in as long as it's developmentally appropriate. I wanna make sure that we safely get through that period but we learn the lessons that we need to learn to continue to build upon our resources so that we ultimately are able to optimize the number and the volume and the significance of the successes that we have come forward so this is actually a great segue to this thing. I wanted to ask you because if someone who has seen it all when you see someone. Let's say you know who is in their thirties. Have early success in. you know. it's coming the darkness of the souls coming right. The walls come in the journal the external.
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"An absolute prodigy and i said of course would because he someone i dearly love is a friend. There's nothing i wouldn't do for him and the reason why he asked me to do this is that he and his wife had taken the sun about as far as they could go and they know what i do and they asked if i would do this and i said of course i would and in talking with the sun i mean. That's a huge responsibility. Being asked by a good friend to be the steward of their son that they're entrusting me to influence and giving input into the sculpting of their future. I mean that's an amazing privilege. There's pressure that goes with that too. I mean it doesn't bug me what to do but just to sort of say that you know. That's a kind of a highly charged relationship. Shall we say. But as i told the the fourteen year old i said you and i are going to be talking. Right now is if you're going to be playing in the super bowl next week as the quarterback because that's one of his ambitions and i said that conversation starts right now. We're not going to talk in a different way. And then all of a sudden change later to a higher level of sophistication is it. You're going to now experience. What that is like exactly as i talked to in olympia with aspirations of winning a gold medal. You and i are having that conversation like right now. Because i knew that if i spoke to him in that language he could adapt and absorb. Whatever i said. I just needed to prune the language back but the select what his reach was for what we were going to be doing for him to continue his evolutionary path towards his ambition in his evolution. Like as an athlete question ca us. A one of the common coaching principles is meet people. Where they're at a way. You just demonstrate. It was more about actually speak to them from the actualized version of himself and it's actually reached for that versus meat. Yeah that's correct like you know child. We don't talk baby talk to her baby. A we talk human talk to the baby so they're used to human talk. We're not discounting them. But we're only saying we're not going to discount. What's possible for them. So i do believe that there has to be An aspirational side to this. Because people can rise to the occasion..
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"Have to be there to have the combination of skills and assets play at our potential. Once we've identified those we want the minimum amount the minimum number of those items once those are optimized and notice. I didn't say perfect once. All the parts are optimized than they harmonize into a single system in when we re point of harmony then there's an exponential output capacity this the emergent property of all the parts working together. You can look at a family for instance you could say well when everybody in a family is doing what they should be doing. Not perfectly than there's harmony in the family. And when there's harmony in the family then there's exponential potential to enjoy the experience and contribute to each other so therefore it's a different kind of way of looking at things we're not chasing a perfection in one single area. Were not downgrading. Any area to be averaged. Were saying that. We're looking to optimize all the parts that need to be in the system in once they're optimize they harmonize in the exponential and juggling. That is really the whole name of the game again. That's a cornerman issue. Because each of those balls that are in the juggling act has to be at a certain level that requires a certain level of expertise input to hold the level of performance required to maintain the exponential symmetry if that makes sense. That's the art. That's the art of the game right there. It's so good everything. I'm and so like the right here. The segment so good for those of you listening definitely go back and listen to it again. On this podcast. We use the yin yang. A lot as a way to illustrate. Just describe the the the whole idea of actually bring the harmony between the ying and the yang. We can actually. It's not about her. Affecting one area in that it's not about perfecting or or maximizing both is really about bringing the point of harmony soc now we work the best new drew truly optimize and from that space of harmony. You can play bigger and bigger games in. It's interesting because that goes exactly opposite of what human nature makes us. Thank human nature makes us. Thank you gotta be perfect across the board in everything to be perfect and put in the Formats that's complete mythology but yet you're not make sense to the human mind set that makes sense but it's champions mind. They know that that's not real in. Its actually not necessary so again. We have this human nature. Mythology talks to us in these platitudes of language. That all the experts talking about and we all believe in wagga heads in agreement the when we look at the champions mind day actually in invert that common wisdom which produces the outcome..
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"It's delivered in a sense that there's a path to that place because we only have so much time to get there. We can't rush and we can't just take forever to get there it's delivered. It's it's calculated a lot of people. Think that It's spontaneous but it's really not you will in talent or not. Well it's something but it's not everything. It's really about Time in the game. It's about building the assets over time to not try to get ahead of yourself. It's about charting and setting milestones have to be that are signs and indicators that you're on track to get from where you are where you wanna get to and those are the reasons why say at saw deliberate and there's another perspective of looking at this is that full. Potential play is really up a destination. That's always morphing and changing over time. Where your full potential play forty is different than your full potential play at sixty. Therefore we're never quite getting there and staying there. We can get to their moment by moment in. Hold the space providing that we're continuing to evolve in the key here is that you're not adding more to what you're doing so that you're suffocating. Yourself believing more hard will get you there. But as we're developing proficiencies in certain areas were then substituting them for something else. The needs to come in so the volume of engagement stays the same but the sophistication of the level of play is continuing to evolve to higher and higher levels over time. And if we look at this is up progression between different States of being. You could say that you could be a spectator where you're not even on the ladder you're watching from the outside or you could be in the game for the first time new to it then you could aspire to top a field. Top field goes to master. Master goes to champion. Champion goes the full potential player. It's an ascension ladder that if it's a path we choose to be that we can find their way through those different Ascension points along the ladder that will take us to that rarified air. It's one thing to get there. It's another thing to stay there. It's a constant process of evolution that has to be crafted in a very special way to be able to hold that the space indefinitely over time. That's what that looks like. It's not for everybody. People think of full play. Meaning that i have the ability to put maximum into my recreational life maximum into my professional life. It's not like that. But here's the secret to this. Everybody lists if you're going. Remember one thing. I said. Listen to this. Is that when we look at the number of elements in parts that.
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"So here's a few things. That i remember okay so over sixty battle-tested on their line is battle-tested in part of it. I think sharing my personal experience. When i was younger. I want someone who would perfect track record but then after having gone through a few dark nabbed the souls moment and i realized actually don't want someone with perfect track record is then no rich relatedness to people going through their dark nabbed. The sole woman right is there is actually huge learnings and blessings in disguise. And i want to get those insights for someone who having gone through. You know maybe bankruptcy or divorce. Whatever the traumatic thing they could they go through because they want their Through it stronger exactly right and they can give a advice not because they learned it in a book but because they experienced that and you can hear that the conversation for sure there's a resonant tone where certain things said certain way that inform you that this person's lived the experience you know there's a truth to it and that's a really important up maybe nonverbal criteria to be mindful of when you're in the president somebody your props considering that of important role. Yeah and he also said. This person is an eager to hog mike because to me. You didn't say this but this is my interpretation is what i say is is a sign of insecurity if you have to speak verses of real confidence embodiment like hey i know what i know what i don't know you want it. Fantastic steak at all energy about this gravitas. That great word. Yeah so so these animals are. You said dress appropriately. So it's not too disconnected with the times that is still like subtle yet must not like the failures. They're kinda listening. You know what i mean. I could tell that they're listening. They're kind of they're. They're they're where they need to be there. Not a over dressing. Nothing's worse than a sixty five year old woman wearing a miniskirt. You know what. I mean trying to be relevant. You know it's like ruined myself for the rest of the conversation. Got the image of my ed now but just to say that. I do not have a comment on that one. you know. this is sorta say things. I'll have to be kind of proportional you know it's like debris driving brand new corvette. That's kind of racy for them. You know maybe something more understated that would makes sense. So there are kennedy's signals that you sort of look at and you say okay. Is this person really current. But they're not trying to visibly prove a point. You know what i mean. There's this again this cocktail this mixture. The has a resonance safety attached to it because they don't have too much investment in trying to convince other people of their value. Because that's what we're saying. You're yeah i got it full name body place of confidence right better during the young energy right. Okay i wanna bring it to the theme of our talk. I can talk with already. Name is how do you deliberately play at your full potential. And i know that you are men of precision so you chose those words very specifically deliberate play all potential right so share with us limit. Why did you pick those words in. Put them in that particular phrase to play a big game. It's intentional. it's a process. It's not an accident..
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"And then you have the rarest of the species which i call the corner man and if you look at this from a couple of perspectives. Generally people have a lot of advisors coaches in a variety of areas. But they don't have anybody in their corner watching their backs watching everything unfold in real time taken as a totality and an example of that would be the movie rocky rocky had mickey the older guidance corner who was watching rock while he was in the ring. Slugging it out trying to survive in stake is territory. Mickey knew what to do based upon where rock was to be able to avoid catastrophe and be able to seize best opportunities to win the round and become the perennial champion. The world and couple of key words here is to see the full spectrum of the person's experience taken as a totality. Like i can be with somebody in. I can know enough about through some questions that i ask. What the composite of their personal and professional life looks like is a totality and their universe that has forces acting on it and they think in a certain way that creates its reject me. So i kinda know where this is all going to end and the question is is this where you want to or not because if it is then you just weed the garden in front of it. But it's not you need to make some course correction. So we have this presumption that whatever path is gonna take when it gets you just because we have a plan while maybe this more than that in unless somebody is looking at into talapity. The has the experience to look at it in intervene. Tighten things up then again. We're making presumption so an example of this would be. Is that if a group appears as the same problem in their giving each other there day. Sion's should we trust that way. You could at the some degree but they probably have the same problem so they're giving each other similar advice. That may not be enough advice that we need that somebody that has more experience could give us that is more predictable and being able to take more. We are to where we want to get to. And that's the value of the elder. They're not some crotchety person that says get off my lawn. It's lemme cut your path the bigger and let me save you a lot of unnecessary pain and scar tissue timmy..
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"Soul intuition. I mean all of gets kind of messy and if we don't have an operational definition that represents correctly. Then we can use a lot of things interchangeably that we believe to be true that we can be given a nod for that. Actually take us down a path to ruin. Actually and that's why i suggest that again there be some level of ongoing council about what history informs us to be true about certain thoughts that were thinking in. What is history. Tell us about what that outcome is. So i agree eventually over time. What happens like for myself is that i've been in the game so long i pattern recognition where i can see it a snapshot in time the context of everything in note that pattern represents an. I can know exactly where it's headed in also come up with the right path forward to to the promised land but that's been experienced that in skilled that i've developed over time so is have you seen the movie. Milas rally. okay. It's it's a cool movie but anyways since i won't make reference never mind okay. Moving on so what do you think is the role of the elder inside of what you just share. You know having one human having a subjective experience but also checking in an objective term. You know whether things are going the way that you wanted to go and so on on. What's the role of now. Elder in this case will the elder Should be viewed as a resource is a reality check against presumption because the worst thing that can happen is that we make a judgment on a presumption that isn't true but it seems right and that happens all the time and there's the timing pacing there's all sorts of factors that need to be considered in regard to actions taken against the predictor desired outcome and experiences Different than intellectual learning. There's a lot of people to pass the test correctly but failed life experience therefore there needs to be an apprenticeship taking what we academically learn tested against reality it would be best an ideal if we do that in a safe environment where we limit the scar tissue and we don't take or put ourselves down cul de sac that takes five years tobacco battle of and a lot of time and effort in expense and we also then start to not trust ourselves because some of the reckless choices that we made. We thought to be true. That didn't work out so well. That's always a risk in this situation. You have a cornerman versus coach. Before i saw before. I ask you for the questions about that. Do you mind sharing your definition of coach versus a cornerman. Yeah sure the way that i look at it..
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"There's a possibility that maybe we don't have the assets to get to yet. But perhaps the very thing that informs us of what we need to do to get the assets that puts us in a place where weekend than look at what we're proposing actually believe that it's possible in a faster pace than we just need to prepare well and make sure that we have the path moving from where we are to where we want to get to and we understand what the process of getting from where we are to where we want to get to is gonna look like so that we don't talk ourselves out of things when things start to appear differently than we anticipated. I want to circle back to what we started off the importance of having elder right. 'cause in especially america this is how idea. This myth of the self made man verses having a championship team. So i'm curious. No you tie that out the role of the elder evolution of someone who's been there a competitor. now your elder in wisdom. I mean And then how to. How your elder. How do you help another to be part of their championship team in help them evolve the way that i look at it. Is that When we're born we we all have a human nature in that. Human nature has two parts to it to mentalities actually we have a human mindset mentality. That's our natural survival instincts that we have that are used in times of imminent danger whether it's psychological or whether it's physical bat this faster than we can think that gets us out of harm's way which which we obviously need in critical situations but it's designed only to create and produce survival. It's not a good recipe for creating a life of excellence and that's where the second mentality comes into it. Which are champions mine. The human mind set or human nature way responding to live that comes naturally. Us is pre programmed into us. It's on twenty four hours a day. You can't shut it off. It's all along and it is responsible again for getting us out of harm's way the biology is that it's faster than we can think. Have you ever said anything to somebody that you regretted saying after you setup before said he thought it was going to be really awesome but it ended up being just the opposite while doubts all the time off like an all of it. So that's that's really a really good example of this high speed survival reflexes. We have with innocence faster than we think we didn't ask for that. That's hardwired into our biology just the way it is but we do. Have the champions mind. And the champions mind is a living breathing capacity supercomputer beyond supercomputer that can route at it interpret store and transmit information purposeful information selected to be conveyed in a very certain way. And that's a evolutionary more recent part of us that's not survival directed but it's all about creating a life excellence in meaning a contribution.
Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"jeff spencer" Discussed on Noble Warrior with CK Lin
"Cornerman dr jeff spencer without further ado welcome to noble way. Jeff thank you so much for being here. well thanks. I love the noble warriors side of it. You know all of us has got a warrior inside but we have to fight. The noble fights couldn't be a better choice of words so i wanna talk about wisdom. That's something that i'm deeply appreciative. Noble warrior a huge part of. It is all about really helping people. Go through the journey from warrior to commander to kim every video that i see you speak on the bicycle riding somebody throwing some random numbers or random questions you always. So are you able to speak in triplets. This this and this in all of them without much other than Than verbal tics. How do you do that. I'm so curious. I think it's all about channel. It's showing up in a really listening to the question and being able to share your response without running through a filter. I think also after time when you've examined your life and you've had a chance to look at things from multiple perspectives clarification is one of the refinement byproducts of that that allows one to say more in fewer higher impact words. So when you say channeling if you don't mind diving deeply into that john lean from what whereas this from whereas inspiration wisdom coming from the within the without s- like can you say lebron more about that. yeah. I think it's combination of all the above. All of us come into this. World is a unique addition of one. There's only one of us creation. Nobody has our perspective. Nobody is born with our assets which gives us an amazing opportunity to Of the sanction and also put our unique stamp.