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The Charlie Kirk Show
We Wasted Two Years on the Trump-Russia Hoax!
"Back before the midterms, 54% of Americans think Trump's dealings with Russia were unethical or illegal. Going right into the midterms. We wasted two years of unified congressional control on hearings about this garbage. It was all a con and they're just laughing because they say, we got away with it. They hijacked the media narrative, Adam Schiff, he goes out, he says, I have a good evidence. Can we get that clip of Adam shifty Schiff? I have on good evidence that Donald Trump is colluded with a foreign power. It's all nonsense, but they had to take out Jeff Sessions. I know that you guys in the audience don't like Jeff Sessions. That's fine. I'm going to defend him a little bit. He was awesome on immigration. One of the best. And he was very good on gang violent crime. Very, very good. Now look at the difference between Jeff Sessions and Rosenstein. They took out Sessions basically by making recuse himself based on a lie. So they took out Donald Trump's super based super conservative attorney general based on a lie. The carnage that happened because of this lie is not just like, oh yeah, we wasted some time. And Jeff Sessions is way too old fashioned on this. He trusted the FBI. Maybe 30 years ago that would have made sense, but not today. I have negative faith in the Federal Bureau of Investigation. But look, by the way, somebody says Charlie, I know you're upset, but stop calling us smelly Walmart Walmart people. I didn't say that. That's what Peter strzok said in his text message is everybody, okay? I was quoting Peter strzok. Jeez. I would never say something like that. That's literally what your FBI said about you. Just to clarify on you 'cause we got a couple emails about it. So Adam Schiff came on TV. Adam Schiff on a TV, he said, Donald Trump deceived us. He said, insisted multiple times he had direct evidence of Trump Russian collusion. This whole thing was a hoax. And by the way, they also did this for a different reason. There were so many reasons why they had to do this. They deeply about why else would they try to make Russian Trump seem like a Russian agent. They did this so that Trump would overcompensate and not get close to Russia geopolitically. Because the neoliberal regime in D.C. would hate nothing more than Putin and Trump working in harmony to go against the Chinese Communist Party.
The Charlie Kirk Show
Prosecutor Bud Cummins Exposes Biden's Bribery Allegations
"We have former federal prosecutor bud Cummins on with us, but are you there? I'm here. Fantastic. Thank you for technical difficulties. But I think I'm here. Fantastic. Well, thank you for joining the show. We really appreciate it. So this was covered in the New York Post that says, this is a headline. Joe Biden bribery allegations were brought to DoJ in 2018 two years before similar claims by whistleblower. And it goes on to tell a story that involves you that you actually were first to report the bribery allegations to then New York, U.S. attorney Jeff Berman, in 2018, in an email, but then they turn the tables on you, bud, and your stories is such that you got investigated by the DoJ. They got into your phone and all sorts of craziness ensued. So why don't you start with why don't you tell us your story? What you found out about the bidens back in 2018 and how this unraveled so catastrophically and really upended your life. Well, that might be, I don't know if it up in my life, but it's certainly offensive to find out that you know they've subpoenaed your records and your phone records and so going back to the start. I was approached by some individuals who when I was in Washington, practicing law and doing some lobbying, they asked me if I would be able to arrange a meeting with the prosecutor general from Ukraine. Mister lutsenko and the United States attorney general and the purpose of the meeting was to be a private confidential meeting that he had actual evidence he wanted to present to legitimate law enforcement authorities at a high level in the United States because it concerned allegations of serious misconduct by individuals that included arguably Joe Biden.
AP News Radio
Pro-DeSantis super PAC ramps up hiring into Super Tuesday
"A pro desantis campaign pack is going on a hiring spree. A super PAC known as never backed down has been promoting Florida's Republican governor Ron DeSantis, airing ads in the early voting states of Iowa, New Hampshire, South Carolina, and Nevada, ahead of his expected 2024 presidential run. The group led by Jeff Rowe, a veteran Republican strategist, said it had raised $30 million and now plans to hire dozens of staffers in the coming weeks to work the first 18 states in the GOP presidential primary calendar, all the way through next year's Super Tuesday on March 5th. The group is preparing to handle on the ground organizing for desantis and unusual move. Super PACS can raise an unlimited amount from wealthy individuals, but their barred from coordinating with a candidate's own campaign, which can limit their effectiveness to Santos is expected back in Iowa for fundraisers this weekend, the same Saturday that chief rival Donald Trump will hold a rally in Des Moines. I am Jennifer King
Bitcoin Audible
The Nostr Privacy Paradox
"Let's get into today's read. And its titled. The noster privacy paradox by Lola elites. While Nostra is by no means a privacy protocol, it could bring potential improvements to Bitcoin privacy. No stir, short for notes and other stuff transmitted through relays, is a new communication protocol, developed in 2021 by lightning network developer Fiat Jeff, which evolved out of Ellen bits developer Ben arcs attempt at a fully decentralized marketplace called diagon alley. As opposed to other communication solutions, which mostly functioned by a dumb client and smart servers, noster offers smart clients and dumb servers, which heightens censorship resistance for users. In those are all data is stored locally with users and merely distributed via relays rather than stored on central servers such as via Twitter. In the case of social media, no stir increases censorship resistance. As users are enabled to fully own their own content and profiles. In light of recent controversies around Twitter's censorship policies, users began migrating toward the Federated communications solution Mastodon. However, in Mastodon, ownership over content and profiles lies with those running the Mastodon servers that users signed up with. While federation's such as Mastodon offer more censorship resistance than centralized servers, as users are able to simply sign up to another server when censored, criticism has arisen around potential censorship on Mastodon through server owners. In December 2022, the noster community received a 14 Bitcoin grant from Twitter founder Jack Dorsey, which brought unprecedented attention to the protocol. As applications built on Nostra evolved, the mobile client domus jumped to number one in social networking in the iOS App Store in China, resulting in its ban. In an apparent effort to contain the hashtag march off Twitter, Twitter CEO Elon Musk shortly banned the publication of Nostra related content, along with bands on other third party platforms such as Instagram, but to no avail.
What Bitcoin Did
Why Deflation Is the Key to Abundance With Jeff Booth
"Can you outline your deflation thesis, the one you talk about in the book? So wherever you start here, right? It's that starting point is a really hard because we're measuring our existing system from the system. And so it's hard to start in an entirely new paradigm. Unconnected from that. So what I try to do is I say, what are the economic rules? In life. What would that look like and one of those rules is prices fall to the marginal cost of production? If you start there and nobody has ever challenged me on that, some people say, well, not if you regulate an industry. Well, explain explain to me what you mean by the marginal cost of production, because some people might not even understand that. So let's dig deeper, but start with prices period exclamation mark. Prices fall to the marginal cost of production. Over a long enough time horizon. You can regulate an industry to stop it. And then that technology keeps moving and it moves outside of your area that you regulated to a different domain that hasn't regulated. And then that attacks the incumbent or the regulated industry. But over a long enough time horizon, prices fall to the marginal cost of production. What does that look like in real life and why? So now let's take the calculator app when it came on the first calculator app on the iPhone. You paid for it, right? Or they monetized it through advertising. But they were making money from it. Otherwise, no entrepreneur would have created the calculator. So they were creating a business. And next entrepreneur, I can create a better calculator app. And they price it down. To be able to win the market.
AP News Radio
Putting radiation to the test to heal irregular heartbeat
"Doctors are zapping the heart with radiation normally reserved for cancer in a bid to better treat a dangerous kind of irregular heartbeat. While it's highly experimental, surprising early research suggests it may reprogram misfiring heart cells to control heartbeats more like younger, healthier, cells do. Doctor Philip kukoc, a heart rhythm specialist at Washington University, came up with the idea for a no incision alternative. It takes a lot of upfront testing as patients must put on a vest covered in about 250 electrodes to measure the heart's electrical activity. In just one or two beats, we can map the electrical part of the heart, and we can see where is the start of that arrhythmia. Jeff backus, who relapsed after standard care for his irregular heartbeat issue, is taking part in the study. He never knows when another episode is coming. I almost have PTSD about it because you're always in the back of your mind thinking, is it going to happen? In a regular heartbeat is a major cause of sudden cardiac arrest, blamed for about 300,000 U.S. deaths a year. I'm Shelley Adler
America First with Sebastian Gorka Podcast
Mayor of New York Should Probably Start Eating Meat Again...
"Example of somebody who's gone a little bit Biden. This is the mayor of New York, Eric Adams, who I guess he doesn't like meat, but being a vegetarian, I don't think it's affected his cognitive skills too well. He's reading a speech and tell me if you agree, it's a little bit disturbing play cut. So our food is not created equal. The vast majority majority of food that is contributed to our emission crisis lies in meat and dairy products that plant power, diet is better for your physical and mental health and I am living proof of that, but the reality is that thanks to this new inventory, we're finding out it is better for the planet. Better for your health, your physical and mental health, Jeff, he doesn't sound too, I mean, that's the worst I've ever heard him. I know. He can't even read a statement that was only 30 seconds. That was like, what's its sharpton? That's like sharpton. Yes, and there's no way it's good for your mental health. Adam Schiff has been a vegan for 20 years. That just sums it up right now. I'm going to second, most famous vegetarian history. Oh, that would be Hitler, right? Yes. Yes, if you need any reason to eat meat, it's the most famous vegetarian history was that little crazy Corporal from Austria.
AP News Radio
NCAA rules panel approves keeping clock running on 1st downs
"The NCAA playing rules oversight panel approved rule changes Thursday that are expected to reduce the number of plays in football games, notably one that will keep the clock running when the team makes a first down except in the last two minutes of a half. Since 1968, the clock had stopped on a first down until the referee gave the ready for play signal, two other changes were approved, penalties accepted at the end of the first and third quarters will now be enforced at the start of the following quarter, also back to back timeouts during the same dead ball period are no longer allowed. I'm Jeff and coolbaugh.
The Charlie Kirk Show
Documentarian James Saccomano Talks About "Firearms and Freedoms"
"Welcome back, everybody. There is a nationwide effort right now to grab our guns, joining us now is James sacca mano, host of firearms and freedoms, a Jeff Hayes film available at firearms and freedom dot com. James, welcome to the program. Thank you so much, Charlie. It's an honor to be here. How are you? Good. Thank you, James, tell us about the film and lots to talk about when it comes to the Second Amendment and the campaign to try to take our firearms away. There is a lot to talk about. I'll try to make it short and sweet though. This came about, Jeff Hayes, he kind of looks for topics that are getting censored quite a bit. And he stumbled across a statistic about how many times the gun is used by a lawful responsible American to stop a crime. And depending what statistic you look at on the low end, it's still over half a million on the high end. It's up to 2 million every year. And that shocked him. Like we never hear this and that was kind of the nexus for let's look at what's really going on with firearms and the more we looked at it. There's over a 100 million gun owners in this country awful responsible gun owners. They deserve a voice, the big microphone is currently held by people that want to take the guns away. And our Second Amendment is it's there for a reason. It protects all the other amendments. And there are people trying to strip it away.
AP News Radio
Washington Commanders timeline under Dan Snyder
"A person with knowledge of the situation tells The Associated Press that a group led by Josh Harrison Mitchell rails and including Magic Johnson has an agreement in principle to buy the Washington commanders from longtime owner Dan Snyder. Harrison rails are set to pay 6 billion for the storied NFL franchise. It's the most money a professional sports franchise in North America has ever been sold for. Harris would own a controlling stake in teams in three of the four major North American pro sports leagues. He and David blitzer have only NBA's Philadelphia 76ers since 2011 and the NHL's New Jersey devil since 2013. I'm Jeff and kuba.
The Dan Bongino Show
Jeffrey Clark: Biden WH Used 'Special Access Program' to Raid Trump
"He's this guy Jeff Clark I want you to listen to this from the center for renewing America Describing exactly this We're not descending into third world tyrannical madness Check this out The first story we got was well this was authorized by Chris wray I found in August 9th story from last year saying Chris ray authorized it But then by the 11th we had a change in that story We had the attorney general indicating that he had authorized it but they tried to maintain the line that The White House had nothing to do with it Well what these foia documents show is that the Biden White House working with DoJ used a special access program under the presidential records regime This is in title 44 of the United States code to allow these documents to be looked at and studied by DoJ They should have gotten the separate subpoena for that but instead they use this special access program which the president can authorize But the point of the program is that it allows the president to look at past documents if he needs it to govern his own White House as the incumbent And there's no need for these documents And there was no showing that that occurred
AP News Radio
Devils clinch home-ice for playoffs; end Sabres hopes
"Tomas tatar scored twice and had an assist. It's the devil's hammered the saber 6 two. The outcome gives New Jersey home ice advantage for the first round of the playoffs and ends buffalo's postseason hopes. Jack Hughes set a team record for points in a season, collecting his 97th with an empty net goal. Turn back 36 shots for the Devils, who also received goals from yes per Bo quest. Jonah sigurd thaler and miles wood. Jeff skinner and Matthias Samuelson scored for buffalo, which hasn't made the playoffs since 2011. I'm Dave ferry.
AP News Radio
Scherzer rebounds, Mets blank Padres 5-0 in playoff rematch
"The mets got two run doubles from Jeff McNeil and Francisco Lindor on their way to a 5 to nothing win over San Diego. Max Scherzer struck out 6 in 5 scoreless innings for his second win. I always want to say I want to go deeper. You know, it's tough to say you only want pitch 5 innings. But they did a good job of grinding with me, but it seemed got to win. So anytime the team wins, I'm happy. You Darvish suffered his first career loss against the mets after 5 wins. He allowed 5 runs in 6 and a third innings. The Padres had won three straight. Mike thank you so New York.
The Doug Collins Podcast
Former US Attorney Jay Town Talks About Bill Barr
"Sit and talk to Bill Barr was like, across between talking to your dad, an attorney, and the school principal. It was like, you wasn't sure what you were going to get from it, but it was. You just nailed it. Well, if it was 10 a.m. or 2 p.m., there was sort of a different flavor of the bill you were getting, right? And look, all three are very different. Jeff Sessions had a sort of soft southern style to him, Matt Whitaker is a good friend of mine. I was actually with him last week, and he was, you know, he was in a room he was acting for a few months. And did his level best, but general Barr, Bill was, you know, look, he came in at a very awkward time to come in as the attorney general. You have these investigations into the president of the United States, the Mueller investigation being the most prominent. And then, you know, you fast forward, I think maybe less than a year, and then COVID hits, and then you have that summer of unrest. You have the Derek Chauvin, George Floyd, incident, which caused more unrest around the country. And then you have a lot of election issues that were very complicated and he left before January 6th, but that was also a part of Jeff Rosen when he was the acting attorney general after Bill. You know, we used to sort of quip that sleepy little Department of Justice. You know, nothing ever going on. It was, and I'll say this, Doug, it's important that when you're out in the field as a United States attorney and you're running an office of a 150 people, you got 60 assistant U.S. attorneys as the U.S. attorney you're in charge of all the prosecutor investigative agencies so the FBI DEA ATF, Secret Service Marshals. And HSI and when you have the chaos in Washington D.C., which might as well be half a block down the road when you have that type of chaos. It does impact all of the 93 U.S. attorneys in the 94 U.S. attorney's offices.
AP News Radio
Penguins keep pace in playoff chase with 4-1 win over Wild
"The penguins got 27 saves from Tristan jarry and picked up a key four one win over the wild. Ricard Raquel scored a goal and assisted another as did Chris letang as he and the penguins continue their battle for an Eastern Conference wild card spot. We have just focused on the game after digging that is coming ahead and like tonight the focus and the meeting we're about ourselves and what we need to do and it's gonna be the same thing tomorrow. Jeff Carter and Jason Zucker hit the net for Pittsburgh, Marcus Johansson scored Minnesota's loan goal and former penguin Marc Andre fleury made 27 stops in net. Josh Valtteri Pittsburgh.
America First with Sebastian Gorka Podcast
How Journalism Died in America With John Solomon
"You have worked everywhere that was a name in the mainstream media before you created just a news dot com, is there any of those entities? That are establishment that still Ghana your respect. I'm just curious, or have they all lost the plot? Melissa, I think they're it's hard to judge brands anymore because the brands are a combination of so many different compliment complicated figures and there are some really great reporters that institutions that aren't doing really great reporting right now. And the Colombian journalism review, I've had big criticism of in the last few years because I think they've failed to monitor the profession the way it should be. But then they published an amazing article back a few weeks ago from Jeff girth and multiple Pulitzer winner from an earlier era of The New York Times. Literally exposing what went on in The New York Times in Washington Post newsrooms and why they got so much wrong about Russia. So even an organization that has been astray sometimes connects with a great reporter and a great reporter does good journals and we learn from it. I judge every story on its merits, I try not to judge a book by its cover, and so every story I try to critically evaluate, hey, that looks like something that's very valuable. Let's go check that out. This one looks a little bit off. The bass and a bias. I can see what the report is doing here. I'm just going to dismiss that. But I think readers are becoming far more discerning. And they came to trust that when Walter Cronkite came through your television tube in the 70s and 80s that you could take his word for it. He wasn't trying to get you to do it. He was personally liberal. He would later reveal in life. But when he got on air, he tried to just give you the facts and trust you to make up your mind. That era has left us for a great part of the anchors that we now watch. And I think people are saying, well, I got to go get more on my own. I got to go check out other sources, and that's why your show is so amazing. And so popular, my Justin news is starting to grow and other Matt taibbi's substack is growing. I think people just discerning and looking for that truth and they can tell the difference between a truth seeker and a truth hijacker. And I think they're trying to split the difference and try to find the places they can still get facts.
AP News Radio
Skinner scores in OT to lift Sabres past Rangers 3-2
"Jeff skinner's 32nd goal of the season gave the sabers a vital three two overtime win versus the rangers. The Sabres wasted a two zero lead before skinner tallied one 49 into the extra session. 21st I feel like I had some chances to kind of throw out and I just couldn't get one and it's nice to get one at the end. JJ peterka and Jordan greenway also had goals for buffalo, which is 5 points out of a playoff birth with 8 games remaining. Adam Fox not a Discord midway through the third period. Capo caco tallied for the blue shirts who sit three points behind second place New Jersey in the metropolitan division. The Devils have 7 games left, one more than the rangers. I'm Dave ferry.
ToddCast Podcast with Todd Starnes
Joe Moreno: Never Expected a Trump Arrest in NYC
"Be honest with you, counselor. I'm confused. I was promised in a rest and I don't see anything in the all thing, do you? No, Jeff, I gotta be honest. I never did. I always thought this was a lot of theater and a way to keep Donald Trump in the news in a negative way. I feel like the left really like this theme that the walls are always closing in and Donald Trump is always just around the corner. This is kind of serious trouble for him. And he doesn't do himself a lot of favors when he seizes the rains, but I guess he likes to get in front of something, right? He never wants to be caught on his back foot. So I kind of get why he's doing that. But look, I think for a lot of us, we expect a lot of drama from our political leaders, right, whether it's Congress, whether the committees, whether it's state level politicians, we expect a certain amount of going before the cameras and a certain degree of un seriousness. But we hope that doesn't infect the legal process. And I think that seems like that's what's happening now. Like the legal process is being used as a political weapon. And that's bothersome to a lot of us who really want to see that process independent and clean and going after criminals based on if there were crimes committed, not if there are political enemy.
Bitcoin Magazine Podcast
"jeff" Discussed on Bitcoin Magazine Podcast
"I love it. That's a great answer. And hey, let me shift gears for a minute. If we're waiting, by the way, if anybody in the audience wants to come on up, feel free, we have Jeff for about 13 more minutes or so. So if you want to ask any questions, come on up. So let's switch gears a little bit. Jeff, you wrote a fantastic book that basically everybody knows that's you're very well known for this book called the price of tomorrow. It's one of the greatest books I've ever read. So thanks for writing that, by the way. For you. So we're moving now into an age of. We're seeing high inflation, right? We're seeing kind of peak, I would say, peak, a centralization, and we're moving more towards decentralization, which kind of acts as an inflationary force. I think, do you think that the forces that we're seeing now these inflationary forces that have popped up in the last couple of years? Are they temporary? And do you think that the effects of technology, the deflationary effects of technology will overpower these in the long run? Just love to hear your thoughts on that. Jeff, that's a great question. I get it. I get asked all the time. And I just kind of come back to first principles. And just say this, just ask anybody this. If we, if we are both the labor and all the things that we buy, and the things we buy, and we live in a global community where we're trying to find cheaper labor. How can labor go up? And the things we buy want to come down. We're the same person. Like everything we are the exact same person. And so it's that connection that we believe that all our houses can go up forever and our labor can go up forever, where it's actually going down in real terms because of inflation. And on the other side of the other side of the equation, we're constantly looking for more value. Bitcoin connects that in a way that nothing else could because money, money is constantly being if you could manipulate a money for your personal gain. Human history says you will. We will. And Bitcoin's outside of that system. So what it does is everything that we create. Is going to fall in price and is going to keep unfolding in price. And back to your back to your back at least measured in Bitcoin. And back to that simple way I try to do that is does technology reduce prices? Yes, no. This has been some people say, well, it doesn't TVs. It doesn't computers. And does my phone I get more value out of my phone, but it doesn't everywhere. And then I say, why? Because there's technology in energy. We find more energy. We do fracking today. There's more solar energy. Why? And what it turns out to is some industries are moving faster with technology. And they're overcoming that inflation, right? But the only reason for inflation, the only reason on an over a longer term time frame is because we allow manipulation money. Otherwise, prices would the natural free market as deflationary period.
Jeff Goodman Basketball Podcast
"jeff" Discussed on Jeff Goodman Basketball Podcast
"I go back and forth on auburn and Kentucky every day. I think here's the differentiator for me is always point guard play. And I think Kentucky's got two high level and you just said it with Tennessee. They've got three point guards. To me, you can never have enough point guards, right? Especially in the NCAA tournament because, you know, guards really control the game. You want your bigs to have an impact, but in reality, you get into a one and done situation and your guard play ball hailing, taking care of the basketball, becomes so paramount. You know, you can not advance if you're sloppy with the basketball and you're a high turnover team. It makes it really, really difficult. Give me your best Arkansas fans story so far being in Fayetteville. You've got to have some good ones. I mean, I experienced one. I mean, really, truly like our fans. I've never experienced anything like it because the amazing thing is Jeff. If you go all the way across the state to like, you know, west Memphis, and you recruit, and that's right across the border from Memphis, Tennessee. You go to a high school there and people are wearing razorback gear. And you go to Little Rock and everybody in Little Rock is razorback fans. And so it's a statewide thing. It just changes things. You know, with my dad having coached at Minnesota, you know, the university of Minnesota is the one school in that state, but you know what? There's the twins. There's the Vikings. There's the T wolves. It's a pro, it's a pro city. A pro state. Right. And so the razorback fans, it was interesting because Danielle and I wanted to go watch the baseball series. They had their first baseball series. And so I said, hey, Danielle, on Sunday, let's go to the baseball game and she said, I will go as long as we sit in a suite because I mean the fans just they're so passionate, but in a good way though, I mean, I'm sure they're out of their minds. Again, I kind of, you know, like I went to Texas tech a few weeks ago. And they were out of their minds too. But again, there's so much Twitter we know. There's a small minority that's vocal on Twitter that maybe crosses the line with every fan base with every fan base for the most part. But 99.9% of the fans, you go out, you meet them, Texas tech, they hated me a month ago, but you know what? You get out there and they love you because they are so passionate and that's what college is all about. I mean, again, I can't wait for an NCAA tournament this year where it's going to be a sense of normalcy now. Like, I don't think we're going to have masks. Maybe I'm wrong, but they just lifted it here in Massachusetts finally. And it didn't feel that you know last year, it didn't feel the same. I mean, you couldn't go out. I saw you. You were the only coach. How about this last year? You and I, you were the only coach that I actually was able to talk to and we did it between a fence at the baseball stadium. Do you remember that? Yes. I mean, it was, I felt so bad for our players to make an elite 8 run..
Jeff Goodman Basketball Podcast
"jeff" Discussed on Jeff Goodman Basketball Podcast
"So you've got to win with high end talent and really the way to do that is through the high school and that's why we dove so heavily into high school in the 22 class because we felt that was important and when we look back last year at our elite 8 run, you know, we had some great transfers for sure, Justin Smith, Jalen Tate, those guys helped us tremendously. But Moses moody being a lottery pick. Stretching the floor out for us. That was a game changer for us as well as two other freshmen in Jalen Williams and Devante Davis who had huge impacts. So we actually started three freshmen in last year's NCAA tournament run. What's been the biggest difference? Is it going big this year? When you kind of flipped it, is that really and again, you know, everybody's going the other direction. Everybody's going small and you go big and it works. Like how hard was it to make that decision and was it out of necessity more than anything else? Well, for sure, it was out of necessity. I was really sitting at home alone late one night and I was thinking, which I often do like, what would my father do? You know, my dad would always go big and strong. You know, even at Ashland college in the 60s, he had a point guard by the name of Kevin Wilson who ended up being an assistant coach with the Detroit Pistons and was head coach at San Francisco state. Kevin was my dad's point guard at Ashland college at 6 foot 6. And a lot of people, you know, we played a lot of small ball at Nevada, but what we did is we had guards, Lindsey drew, 6 foot four, Caleb and Cody Martin, 6 foot 6 cards. So I think having a big guard and even at Arkansas, you know, Jimmy witt gave us great size as a transfer from SMU playing that point guard position for us in year one. So, but we went big. We inserted Trey wade and then we slid a D.C..
Jeff Goodman Basketball Podcast
"jeff" Discussed on Jeff Goodman Basketball Podcast
"Please to bring in our head coach Eric Muslim for a special edition of the Goodman and humble podcast. Sans Robbie hummel. We kicked him out, moss. It's just you and I because we need to get down to some business here with Arkansas, their fans, mama hi. We got a lot of ground to cover in about 15 or 20 minutes. First, thanks for joining me in lovely Gainesville, Florida. No, thanks for having me on Jeff. Appreciate it. All right, so first, let's get to your fan base. All right, let's try to resolve an issue here with your fan base if we can. Number one, there was nobody who was more of a proponent of the higher of Eric Muslim at Arkansas than me when it went down. All right, nobody said it was a better hire. I feel validated, but I feel like nobody at your fan base gives me any credit for this now because I didn't rank you guys in the top 25 earlier this year when honestly and I don't know if you feel the same way. I don't think you warranted being ranked in the top 25 back in early January. Am I wrong? No, I think, you know, obviously we were warranted early on, Jeff, for sure. And then we went through that, you know, we lost like 5 out of 6 games and nobody's worthy of being ranked. You know, when you play the way that we had played for a short stretch, we struggled, you know, obviously with JD note missed a game at Mississippi state and then he was still, you know, had a lingering effect for our home game against Vanderbilt. I probably played him too many minutes because he was still trying to get back healthy. That coincided, you know, our struggles, Jeff coincided with that Christmas break and it's really interesting because my biggest mentor Chuck Daly, even in the NBA, he always talked about the scariest times where before holidays and after holidays because your team can.
Bob Ryan & Jeff Goodman NBA Podcast
"jeff" Discussed on Bob Ryan & Jeff Goodman NBA Podcast
"Patty mills is a guy that he's looked up to for years, okay? And known for years. If there's anybody that can maybe get to Ben Simmons and teach him maybe work ethic and culture and all of that, he didn't have anybody in Phil. You got to remember embiid and Ben Simmons grew up in the tanking era in Philly, right? With Sam hinkey. Okay, we're approaching the second half of the season guys. We're going to talk about the team that's under the radar and the team that no one trusts. Let's start with you, Jeff, who's under the radar and who don't you trust for the second half? I mean, I'll start with who I don't trust and that's Cleveland. I mean, again, they've done an incredible job. They're third in the league, but if I'm anybody, you know, the Celtics, Toronto, whoever, Philly, I want to be playing Cleveland in the first round of the playoffs. And Derek Garland's been awesome. They've been really good this year, but ultimately, I still don't trust them Evan mobley has been terrific. They've done a great job. Kobe Altman and Mike and you've done a heck of a job there. To me, they're the kind of overrated team that everybody I think wants to see. And I still, I haven't given up on the Lakers. I don't know if they can do it. They got to get healthy, but if somehow they're healthy, do you really want to see a team with a healthy LeBron and Anthony Davis when it comes down to it? I wouldn't. I'm writing them off. I do not believe it's going to happen. And once again, you talk about injury prone that Anthony Davis be there when you need them. Who knows? The team that I think is not, it's funny that they're hanging around again, having a nice year again. Nobody pays any attention with to all as you talk. And they just keep doing what they do and I'm not supposed to believe her. I'm just not a post Susan believer in the Utah Jazz. No, no, but I can understand that. I'm just saying, but nobody takes them seriously. How about Memphis Memphis is playing almost 700 bombs? That's my team. I love those guys. I mean, dude, I love those guys. Right now man, I would go to Beale street. I imagine going down and hanging out on Beale street getting some fried pickles at BB kings and going to watch them play. I am all for that. That's an assignment I want. Yeah, well, that kid, you know, he's in the short list of people that you want to see play every night. There's no doubt that the category. But I'm just so I think anybody else. I'm not sure I want to like Chicago. I don't know where you're scared. You don't trust. Guys, I think of it is this. I think at the end of the day, you know, it's still going to be the box, I think it's going to be Philly, because I think harden's going to be good enough. And it's going to be the sons and it's going to be the warriors because all these other teams are great. I don't think I listen man. If Memphis got in the finals, the NBA would hate it, but I would love it. And I don't know bob wood too. You still got to have the star. You know what I mean? You still gotta have that for the to be in a final four. You still gotta have that star. They gotta start. Condemn ver beat condemned Memphis in the first round if they play each other. That's a good series, Jeff. That's a good series. Let me bob, you think that's a good sign..
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"Just use the promo code CLS 50 to get you started, but in line with a game start. Okay, bob last week talked about the big trades. Jeff wasn't here. Let's start with Hardin goes to Philadelphia, Simmons and curry come back from Philly to Brooklyn, some other people involved, but those are the big ones. You knew this was coming down, you had an idea that was coming down, Jeff from one of your former colleagues and your thoughts. Yeah, I mean, listen, I wasn't all that surprised because Brian windhorst was reporting it beforehand that the two sides were talking. I think this is something that probably both sides had to do, roll the dice if you're Daryl more you had to make a move because you didn't want to throw away the year with Joel embiid playing as well as he is. And if you're the nets, listen, Hardin wanted out. That was clear and you get a guy who's 25 years old who I know can't shoot, but if you have Kyrie and KD on the court, Ben Simmons doesn't really need to shoot. Now the key is Kyrie here, right? I mean, obviously he's always going to be the key. But I think if you have a healthy body and mind Kyrie, a healthy body and mind KD, Ben Simmons is the perfect I know bob doesn't like him. But he's the perfect guy for those two is not got a question. I saw that I told Gary last week. There are more was right and I among others was wrong. We were advising him all year. Take 25 cents in a dollar, 50 cents a dollar. Get it done. Get the guy out of there, you Nick on play for you. Get something. And he did was holding out to get a high profile player which he got. My question is this. If we don't have this aberrational circumstance of James Harden, concurrently wanting out of Brooklyn at the same time that Simmons is doing this thing, does he ever get that deal made? How lucky is he?.
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"Life <Speech_Female> <Silence> <SpeakerChange> <Speech_Male> <Advertisement> <Music> <Speech_Music_Female> is harder <Silence> jap. <Speech_Female> And not just because <Silence> so many people miss <Speech_Female> him. <Speech_Female> <SpeakerChange> For a <Speech_Female> long time, he had been <Speech_Female> the resident adults <Speech_Female> in the household <Speech_Female> Angela's words. <Speech_Female> He <Speech_Female> was the pragmatic <Speech_Female> and responsible one <Speech_Female> who took care of the small, <Speech_Female> but important things. <Speech_Female> Like making sure <Speech_Female> the water bill got <Speech_Male> paid and doing <Silence> the week's meal planning. <Speech_Female> <Speech_Female> And now <Speech_Female> Angela is the <Silence> sole surviving <Speech_Female> parent. <Speech_Female> And Taylor, <Speech_Female> instead of being the bonus <Speech_Female> mom, the fun <Speech_Female> friend has now <Speech_Female> stepped into the co <Speech_Female> captain role. <Speech_Female> And thankfully <Speech_Female> Angela has <Speech_Female> family, not just <Silence> Taylor and <Speech_Female> her sons. <Speech_Female> <SpeakerChange> But Jeff's <Silence> family, too. <Speech_Female> <Speech_Female> They knew <Speech_Female> of Taylor <Speech_Female> <Speech_Female> before Jeff <Speech_Female> even passed. So <Speech_Female> that helped tremendously. <Speech_Female> They <Speech_Female> were aware of <Speech_Female> her. They <Speech_Female> hadn't spent a lot of <Speech_Female> time with her, but they <Speech_Female> definitely knew that <Speech_Female> we had this <Speech_Female> dynamic. <Speech_Female> We <Silence> kept things pretty <Speech_Female> separate, but <Speech_Female> they have <Speech_Female> amazing <Speech_Female> hearts <Speech_Female> and they're very <Speech_Female> open minded. <Speech_Female> And <Speech_Female> they have just <Speech_Female> seen how <Speech_Female> <Speech_Female> much Taylor <Speech_Female> loves my children <Speech_Female> and how my children <Speech_Female> love Taylor <Speech_Female> and I mean really <Speech_Female> that's their biggest <Speech_Female> concern <Speech_Female> right now, right? <Speech_Female> I mean, they have <Speech_Female> these <Speech_Female> grandchildren that have lost <Speech_Female> their father. <Speech_Female> And so to see that <Speech_Female> they have another <Speech_Female> person there that is <Speech_Female> just loving them <Speech_Female> <Speech_Female> and there for them <Speech_Female> has been <Speech_Female> really great. And they've <Speech_Female> embraced Taylor <Speech_Female> <Advertisement> into <Speech_Female> <Advertisement> their family. <Speech_Female> <Advertisement> And so <Speech_Female> <Advertisement> that's been wonderful. <Music> <Music> <Music> <Music> <Speech_Music_Female> <SpeakerChange> <Speech_Music_Female> <Speech_Female> <Advertisement> Writer <Speech_Female> <Advertisement> and former TTF <Speech_Female> <Advertisement> a guest, Kate bowler <Speech_Female> <Advertisement> once wrote <Speech_Female> <Advertisement> that a life is <Speech_Female> never finished, <Speech_Music_Female> even when <Speech_Music_Female> it's over. <Speech_Music_Female> <SpeakerChange> Together, <Speech_Female> Jeff's <Speech_Female> family and Angela <Speech_Female> and Taylor <Speech_Female> are working to raise <Speech_Music_Female> the boys and keep <Speech_Music_Female> their dad's memory alive. <Speech_Music_Female> <Speech_Female> To make sure <Speech_Female> that Jeff's life <Speech_Female> is truly never <Speech_Music_Female> finished. <Speech_Female> <Speech_Female> They do this by <Speech_Female> remembering and replicating <Speech_Female> the ways <Speech_Female> that Jeff lived. <Speech_Female> <Speech_Music_Female> Ways of living that <Speech_Music_Female> make <SpeakerChange> more sense <Speech_Music_Female> now that he's gone. <Speech_Music_Female> <Speech_Music_Female> He lived a life <Speech_Music_Female> so <Speech_Music_Female> intentionally <Speech_Music_Female> and loved life <Speech_Music_Female> that I really <Speech_Music_Female> want to carry that through <Speech_Music_Female> and he was such a <Speech_Music_Female> wise kind <Speech_Music_Female> person <Speech_Music_Female> that I want <Speech_Music_Female> to <Speech_Female> carry
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"You kind of expect the emotions to come with it, but just like the physical pain of it, the physical pain of grief. And it was just like I broke down just like sobbing and just could not believe it. Just could not believe it. This doesn't happen. This doesn't happen to you. It doesn't happen to me it doesn't happen to us. That was just what I kept saying. This can't be real. And I really thought even when I went to bed that night, I thought, I'm gonna go to sleep, and I was in a hurry to go to sleep, which I thought was weird because I thought I was gonna wake up and it was gonna be a dream. During our conversation, Angela repeatedly told me that losing Jeff was her greatest fear when she was figuring out her sexuality. When she said those words, she meant losing him as a partner as a friend as her person, she never fathomed losing him forever. Never imagined what life might be like for her and the boys. If Jeff died. And in the months after losing Jeff, Angela, struggles. For all of the reasons that you would, but also because she feels like a widow and also not. I'm a widow in all of the ways that widows are dealing with all of the things that you deal with when you've lost your life partner. But because we were more platonic partners towards the end, I feel really invalid as a widow in some of the other ways that widows are, you know, I don't miss some of the things that maybe I guess quote unquote traditional widow would. And so I feel really out of place. I've been encouraged to join widow groups and I'm always afraid of trespassing. A lot of our issues are very similar, but then we take a departure in some ways. So I feel weird, I guess. And as much as we want to believe that like, oh, everybody, that there are neat categories to this to loss in general. There really aren't. There really aren't because they're complications in every kind of loss. There are circumstances that are so individual to every relationship no matter what. Some of the people in Angela's life don't seem to understand her grief. And that hurts, too. The culture, at least in the U.S., is when you end a relationship, the expectation is that you don't like that person anymore, or that one or the other has done something bad and you should hate each other and you should go separate ways. So when you still remain as deeply meaningful to each other, it's almost like what, why? It's weird because I feel like friends always feel like they have to take a side. I have to be friends with this person or I have to be friends with that person, but I can't be Friends with you both, or I can't imagine that you still would be close to each other. And so I've seen that a lot like a lot of his friends haven't reached out or even contacted me in spite of me saying, hey, I'd love to see you. I love my son to hear stories about his dad that I don't know. So that's been really difficult. And then there's Taylor, who struggles with the reality of having found Jeff that day, and was seeing Angela and the boys suffer and grieve, while also grieving Jeff herself because Jeff was a good friend to her. I am in a relationship as I'm grieving another person that I was also in a relationship with. And so there's a lot of complicated emotion surrounding that. When you're seeing someone grieve, you're also seeing how much they loved that person. And I think for Taylor, she is seeing how deep of a love that I had for Jeff, through how deeply that I'm grieving him and that can be really difficult. She's not coming into it after I've had some time to process in make peace with some of the feelings that I have she sought from the very beginning from that ultimate moment of first hearing that he's gone and then all of the things that have come after she has seen that. That has been really challenging. Taylor's experiencing grief for this person that showed her a lot of kindness and was always good to her and that they had a friendship. And people don't understand her grief as in, like, why? I mean, you should be happy, you're able to go forward with your life, maybe not happy is that the right word, but not feeling as traumatized and emotional as she is as open minded as we humans can be. We tend to have some pretty superficial ways of thinking about love. It may be that's a part of Jeff's legacy. Teaching us to think about love in a bigger way. With openness and generosity and kindness. When we talk about love and how profound it is, we have this sense that that means romantic. And I think that there can be so many different types of love that are profound and life-changing. And influential in our lives. And I remember when I came out, there was a guy that I worked with at the time. And he had been married to his wife for 17 years, and he told me when it was kind of out and about that I was gay, he said, if that was my wife, I would kick her out and I would never want anything to do with her again. And I just thought, how sad, how sad it is that you have been with someone for 17 years and those experiences that you've had for those 17 years in this life that you have built together suddenly loses all meaning and you lose all love for that person if they don't romantically want you anymore. And so for Jeff, I feel like he really lived unconditional love. He was someone who never said anything bad about anyone. He looked at someone and he thought the best things that you could think about that person. And he gave them the space to be the best that they could be. And I think that that's something that we allow often..
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"It's December 17th. 2020, a normal pandemic era day. Jeff had a meeting. He was working remotely. So I remember the last thing I ever heard Jeff say was get up, you need to go to school, and he was nagging our son as he'd done thousands of mornings before. So I heard him say that and I said, oh God, I gotta take him, so I need to get up. Jeff had already retreated into his room. And so Taylor and I kind of hustle bustle and we got out and we left. I messaged Jeff around 9 30 asking him about plans for Christmas. He got right back with me, and when my son got out of school, he started calling me over and over and over. Daddy's not responding. I'm trying to message him. I'm trying to call. He's not saying anything. I'm worried. And I was honestly pretty irritated. This has been a story that's played out many times and everything's always been okay, my son just tends to really be filled with dread if he doesn't know what's going on. And I had just started a new job, so I was in this place where I'm like, I really can't deal with this right now. And so I asked Taylor if she could go pick up Colton and take him home so he could see everything was okay. I thought, for sure, they're gonna get home, Colton's gonna rush in. He's gonna knock on his daddy's door, Jeff's gonna be irritated, that he's in the middle of a meeting that's getting interrupted and everything's fine. But that's not what happens. When Taylor and Colton get home, they find Jeff collapsed in the bathroom. Taylor called Angela right away. I hear in her voice, she's terrified, and she's just saying, Jeff's passed out, come home, come home, come home. I tell her hang up, call 9-1-1. I tried to call my older son, ask him when the last time he had any kind of communication. Of course, he's a teenager, so he's like, I don't know. I'm trying not to freak him out. So I'm just like, okay, okay, I'll talk to you later. And I'm just kind of in problem solving mode right now. I'm just frantic. I'm thinking Jeff's just passed out. Some things happened. I need to figure things out until I have a full scope. I'm by the hospital. I can be really close, but what if he's going to be taken to a hospital in a bigger town? Someone needs to go get our son because I can only imagine how freaked out he is with ambulances arriving and all of this. So I'm just trying to coordinate all these pieces and I do it from afar. And the next call that I get was from Taylor and she's just a wreck. I can hear it. I can hear that she's sobbing. I can barely make out what she's saying. She's just says he's gone. I'm sorry. He's gone. You need to come home. You need to come home. She keeps saying that over and over and over again. And I remember I was like, do you have my van? I can't, I can't just go. You always think you know how you're going to process. If someone ever tells you the most important person in your life is gone. I thought I would be that type. I'm going to scream. I'm going to get to the ground. I'm going to be pulling out my hair. I'm going to be screaming to God, passing out. I mean, I don't know. I just felt like my reaction would probably be this dramatic occurrence and instead I was I just was so like out of my body. I couldn't believe it. I was in I gotta get home. I gotta figure this out. What am I going to do with the kids? My mind was just focused on all these very practical things in that moment. And I could not accept that it was real. He's.
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"He wants the kids to have stability. He thinks they can all work together as a team to continue raising this family. What if he asks Taylor could move in with all of them? And even though it sounds wild to some of us, it works. But I think the fact that my kids were able to remain in the house with their two parents made a huge difference. Because I think a lot of times in divorce, it's not even that they're upset that their parents aren't in love anymore. But more so that their parents are now in two separate places and they have to decide in their life looks totally different, where for my kids, it was the same as they'd always known just with this kind of fun extra cool person. Taylor and I lived in one room and then Jeff lived in another room on the other side of the house. And I feel because we're all busy adults, we settled into this routine of daily life, you know, going to work and coming home and having a list of hobbies that we partake in and getting the kids to school. I feel that really cuts the awkwardness because you get swept into the day to day life that you don't really have time to dwell on anything else. You're just caught up like I've got to do this and then I've got to do this and then I've got to do this. And we settled into this rhythm where we just started taking turns doing things. We started having fires almost every night. We have a fire pit and we would start a fire in all sit around the fire and we would talk politics or share stories from high school and it really felt so wholesome, I guess. It was like, here's a different type of family. And we're just doing things that you do when you're in a family. You have backyard fires and you play board games and you take turns doing the dishes and going to the grocery store and dropping kids off at school and it was almost like how did we ever do this with just two people before? Because really having three people in a house with children is a real luxury. This arrangement sounds idyllic. I looked up that word. It means extremely happy, peaceful. It is the perfect description of Angela Jeff, Taylor, kids, their whole setup. And then march 2020 hits. Jeff begins permanently working from home, and the business that angel and Taylor were running together, closes. Because pandemic. And it's during this time that Jeff and Taylor have.
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"Like, you need to let me know you're okay. And if things aren't okay, I will come get you. Angela is on all the dating apps and sees a few women here and there. And it's exciting, but nothing super serious. And for her two sons, things at home are business as usual. Mom and dad live together, mom and dad are both happy and they love each other. And on the weekends, mom, sometimes goes out and does her own thing. The kids don't know that their mom is gay. Then, in 2019, Angela goes to a gay bar during Pride Month. I actually went with Jeff's sister, we went together. After the parade, we went to this gay bar down there. And I'd gone a couple times before. Jeff's sister knew that I was gay and she was very supportive. So that was really cool. To have someone in Jeff's family that knew our situation and supported me and wasn't angry about this. You know, revelation within our relationship and then I ended up meeting someone there, Taylor, and she was dancing with friends on the dance floor. It was early in the afternoon. So it wasn't packed yet. I was checking her out. I was attracted to her. I'm pretty shy, so it's kind of trying to like buy my time and try to figure out when an opportunity to maybe say hi was. So she stepped outside to go smoke and I took that as an opportunity to try to casually go outside for air and I made a comment about a Jean jacket she was wearing and we just started talking. And then we ended up going back in and dancing and that led to kissing. And then we ended up back at her place. Angela falls in love with Taylor. Pretty much immediately. Taylor caught me by a surprise. I was not expecting to meet someone that made me feel the way Taylor did. Honestly, I was not looking for relationship when Jeff and I opened our relationship. I was just thinking this might be a way to satisfy this part of myself, physically and still remain within my marriage and still remain partnered with this person that I love and that I have a life with. Angela had planned on compartmentalizing her sexuality, just scratching the edge during private time away from her husband and their sons. But the situation she's in with Taylor reminds me of an Emily Dickinson, the one that goes, the heart wants what it wants. And when I met Taylor, it just threw me for a loop because I was feeling things that were deeper than what you feel for someone that you have a one night stand with. She was just quirky and funny and she just like made my heart skip a beat and gave me butterflies and I remember thinking if I can make this girl feel like this forever, I will just die happy. And I just felt so light being around her. And it just took me by surprise. When Angela tells Jeff about Taylor, Jeff is supportive. He's happy she's found this new kind of love in addition to the unique platonic love that they share as husband and wife. Taylor lives an hour and a half away from Angela, so their relationship is just weekend visits. And it's like this for 6 months. And as their relationship grows, Angela and Jeff's relationship evolves to. My relationship with Jeff was still very deep. I mean, we were a part of each other's life every day. And in some ways the same way as it always had been constantly checking in with each other, spending time together, but we began to become more distant in a romantic sense. So there were ways where we were physically affectionate with each other always, even after I came out and that really started to taper off. And so that's kind of the way that we transformed our own relationship, especially the more got with Taylor, because once I started dating Taylor, I definitely was not romantic with Jeff, especially the physical intimacy had ended quite some time before then. But there were little ways where we were affectionate. And I was trying to respect Taylor. So I really cut that off. He just always remained so supportive, really even like walking me through like when we'd have arguments. He would take Taylor's side and he'd say, sometimes you're like this and maybe you should do this. Once it's clear that Angela and Taylor are in it for the long haul, Angela and Jeff tell the boys. Mom is gay, and she's dating a woman. Kids are so much more accepting now. And they don't view it as a lifestyle. Like people my age often do, even today, they view it as a part of who you are. And so he was very accepting. He didn't question it. He didn't treat it like a choice. My youngest son is on the spectrum. And he's social maturity is much lower. And so he has always kind of just viewed Taylor, no matter what he's told is like up until recently as in the last 6 months. He's like, that's mommy's friend. And doesn't even think anything. It's like he's unfazed by all of it. The boys like Taylor, but it's hard to be driving back and forth every weekend. Angela hates missing out on time with the kids, and Taylor is having a tough time financially. So Jeff comes up with a solution..
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"jeff" Discussed on Terrible, Thanks For Asking
"Why is she feeling this way? Is it buyers remorse about the house? Is it something about their marriage? Or is it something else entirely? And I started to think about how throughout our marriage, there were times where we really struggled with physical intimacy. It was a common problem. There was one period where we even went three years without physical sexual intimacy and I started thinking could this be a problem with me? Could I possibly be gay? And I feel like a lot of people have this idea that when you come out and you're gay, it's like this moment where you just wake up and you're like, I'm gay. It's really like a process. And it's a long process. For some of us, we're able to embrace it early on in our lives and never go through this series of toxic relationships where we're uncomfortable and not really sure why. But for some of us it happens like with me where you're in a relationship and you're struggling and at that moment, it was really just trying to figure it out and trying to really, what do I do with this? Because my biggest fear was losing Jeff. And I didn't want to do anything that would sacrifice my relationship with Jeff. I loved him my whole world was wrapped around him. He was my best friend, my soulmate, so even coming to this, it was like simultaneously kind of liberating and trying to look back at my life and maybe put things in perspective of could this be and what are these things that maybe hint that it is this, but also just terrifying because at any point, my partner, the person that I love could say, I'm not dealing with this, you know, I'm gone. He could. He could and hardly anyone would blame him. Not even Angela. But I do recall, lying in bed with him and just looking over and saying, what if I'm gay? And I remember he was very adamant. You are not gay. You might be by and if that's the case, we'll figure it out. It's gonna be okay. And that's where he kind of thought if we need to open up our relationship and allow you to figure this out. We'll get there. And we'll just take this one step at a time. I had a lot of fears about what Jeff would do or how he would react. But I don't think I expected anything less from him because he has always been an unconditionally supportive partner. Every dream I have ever had no matter how outlandish he would throw his support. He was always sacrificing for our relationship for our family and so I guess it didn't surprise me, but it definitely relieved me how supportive he was. These conversations in realizations don't happen overnight, or even over the course of a week. For 8 months, Angela processes her feelings and talks them through with Jeff. She realizes she's always been attracted to women. But for decades, she wrote that office envy or jealousy, not physical attraction. Men have never particularly interested Angela, even with Jeff who she describes throughout our conversation as her soulmate, their relationship clicks in a way that isn't all that romantic. At the end of those 8 months, Jeff suggests that Angela explore her sexuality. He doesn't want to be with anyone else. But he does want her to be happy and satisfied, so they decide to open up their marriage. And for Angela, this is terrifying. I didn't want to lose Jeff. That was my worst nightmare. I would rather be closeted. I would rather never even look at another person than lose him. It's just he meant that much to me. There is no one that would ever be more important than he was. Angela is also scared because dating is scary. And it's especially scary when you're figuring out your sexuality later in life and you've never dated women before, and when you haven't dated anyone in over a decade. Well, things have certainly changed since the last time that I had dated. I grew up in this time of AOL chat rooms and you were really discouraged from doing anything like this, but I started with Tinder. And Tinder is a weird place for anybody, but especially for a gay woman in a rural town. If you are a straight anybody, man, woman, and you're on Tinder, you have a plethora of swiping to do. You could just, I mean, even in my rule town, you could swipe, swipe, swipe, fish, fish, fish. It's just it's never ending. Never ending. Also, fish is not metaphorical. We are talking about literal men holding fish, holding which someone needs to tell me why that is, and I've definitely gone into the psychology of what each fish means about that person. Are the small ones? Just joking and the big ones like this is saying something about something I don't know. If.
Terrible, Thanks For Asking
"jeff" Discussed on Terrible, Thanks For Asking
"About two years, and like lots of people who fall in love but not all of them. Jeff and Angela decide to get married and have kids. Jeff was the type of dad that really bucked the typical gender norms. He really was very egalitarian with the way he approached parenting. Like, even though he at the beginning was the one working and I was staying home. He would be up in the middle of the night with the baby. He would be watching the baby on the weekends so that I could get a break. I would say that he was honestly the more maternal one of the two of us. Just emotional and kind and warm, where I was more kind of like hard and practical, at least when it came to parenting, more disciplinarian, it wasn't, wait, till dad gets home. Wait till mom gets home. So he just believed that it was a team effort and supported me unconditionally in whatever I needed to do to be happy even if that meant embracing an identity that extended beyond being a mother. When I went to school, I had to spend three semesters in a different town, finishing my college education. And so he was home with the kids and he was working and he was managing everything. Why was off, finishing my degree? And people would tell me all the time. Your husband's watching your kids. I can't believe he's doing that. My husband would never do that. And it was just something he did without complaint. It's like this is what I'm here for. I'm here to support you and I'm a parent. This is 21st century conversations that you're having where people are still flabbergasted by the idea of a mom, leaving temporarily, right to build something for herself. It will also benefit her family, but to essentially go work. Meanwhile, men do that stuff all the time and no one says to a wife like, oh my God, I can't believe you're just holding things down at home while your husband goes and you know, works on an oil rig or gets on a plane every week to go do sales calls for it's so it's astonishing to me that that is still such an outlier. That's exactly what Jeff is. He's an outlier. A man who supports his wife and her dreams and goals and ambitions and who loves being home with the kids. I too have an outlier at home. His name is Matthew, so I totally understand why Angela loves Jeff so much. He thought parenting was a team effort. And he also loved me. And he wanted to see me happy. And so he was going to do anything to make my dreams come true. That was the one thing about him. I mean, I could have came home and said, I want to be a rocket scientist. And if you know me, that's just the most laughable thing in the world. But he would have went out and researched how I could make that happen. Programs nearby that he could enroll me in and how he could support me. And he was that type of parent as well. He really lived to make other people happy and just lived unconditional love. Angela and Jeff have by pretty much any definition. An awesome marriage. They have the same life goals the same ideologies, they have the kind of relationship where you don't need to be physically together 24 7 to know that you're in each other's corner. Their life together is peaceful. It just works. Or it does. Until just after their tenth anniversary. That's when Angela starts feeling conflicted about their relationship. She and Jeff are in the process of buying their first home together. And it all just seems off..
Jeff Goodman Basketball Podcast
"jeff" Discussed on Jeff Goodman Basketball Podcast
"Episode of the goodman and homo podcast. I'm jeff goodman. Robbie is in san diego right now and if you could tell. He's a little sleepy because he flew in last night in his eyes or a little tired but the other guy we got on looks. Spry looks fresh is in his office. He's ready to go. And that is virginia head coach. Tony bennett tony. How you doing. I'm good jeff robin you guys look forward to talking some basketball Let's start with overall if we can't tony So many things have changed or are changing within college basketball right. I mean you got the transfers you get the nfl. I it just feels like it's it's again it's not gonna look like it has in two years five years ten years. What what worries you. The most about all the changes It's funny as you're talking. I've just noticed over your head. I see the picture Legacy lutes legacy in just to coach. Against when i was at washington state. Father was at wisconsin After retirement came out of washington state. And is you're asking questions. I seldom does of my dad's influence was bobby knight rama. You've played for coach. I got flavor coach katy in the us. American team of when. I was back in the early nineties. He played for coach. Katy right. I just missed them. I s melissa. He he had just retired when i committed to produce. So okay. i'll tell you a lot a lot of the road trip. So i know really well. But let's but those older coaches and and you know just the game is wondering what would they think. What am i dad. We talk a little bit because it is really different. I i think having played college The game fortunately played some professionally. I think he sees some things. I think I worry my biggest concern. Is that the college game has always been more not perfect but about the game about comradery about the unique experience that young men get. That can't be touched. No matter what they can go and make millions of dollars. They can go and they can win an nba championship. They can go klay and reach their individual dreams which is amazing and rights to go after but to a person i experienced myself in many met a lot more success in the nba. The time i spent in college whether it was low major. Not even i go back terry porter. Who played for. My dad played seventy years when being finals in on non say you can't touch that the crowds the camaraderie. The the ups announced the stories. It just becomes business so my hope is that. that's greatest. Fear is a long answer. But i think it's the right answer leaser. Mind mind that this doesn't become too much where you.
Courage Cast - Build Your Belief
"jeff" Discussed on Courage Cast - Build Your Belief
"I guess but just grateful to have two guests on today. The author's the co authors of the book read to lead. Welcome jeff and jesse jeff brown and jesse whiskey. Thank you thanks here. Yeah so the listener can identify you a little bit so jeff. Why don't you tell me a little bit about your background and how you started the read..
Jeff Goodman Basketball Podcast
"jeff" Discussed on Jeff Goodman Basketball Podcast
"Welcome into another episode of the Goodman and home. I guess I'm Jeff Goodman. He's robbed humble. And we've got the guy honestly. I know Chris holtmann. You don't want to hear this you're dealing with a Purdue guy. I mean this has not been a good year for you and the Boilermakers but we bring out to a podcast and you've got to look at Mister Perdue kind of sucks. Doesn't it? Yeah. Yeah. Thanks for bringing that up and crash. I'm sure we're going to get great gas going forward with Jeff in treating this like that will love to come on here. Good start. It's a good start. Yeah. Thanks for reminding me. Oh into against the boilers this year and blank blame that on the couch. That was I tell you. I I like this crew team a lot. I I think they're good. Give them credit. They got us twice a month. Hopefully we'll get another crack at them. Yeah, that's through your four losses. So that's not so bad Chris. I think you would take that if I told you that at the beginning of the year that you normally have four losses at this point in time would come to Purdue you you stole probably sign on the dotted line. They're all right. Let's head back. Let's let's turn back the clock a little bit to 2008. I believe was the year. When were leaving Gardner-Webb as a head division one coach to be an assistant. Go back to the assistant life at Butler University. There aren't many guys Kristen left. D one hand touching jobs to become an assistant again. There are few, but not many when I first heard that I thought you were bananas. I'm like, what are you doing? Like, why would you do that? You can run your own program now, maybe there was a little bit more money involved Butler. I don't know. I don't know what the pay scale was at Gardner-Webb back then but there was a little bit more. Yeah. It was a little bit more time. The paper. So what was that like in in in was your wife fully on board? Like how hard was that to give up a D1 head job. There's only three hundred there probably about three hundred thirty-five of those thoughts the time. Well, keep in mind. You know, my wife is is her family lived in Indiana at the time still does but you know, it was a it was a really really tough decision because we had just had been there three years and we just had our best year and we had really got it turned around. We were we were moving it. We had won the most games in history of the table School division one at the time.