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Ask Nick - Ford vs. Ferrari

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He's dating her so he's like very indebted not you were dating. Yeah I remember him. Yeah he like he's like Nick's best but He wants to know what you eat because he says you look so good for your age. He's like I bet a lot of other people want to know too I don't I mean I really healthy not really say that act. It is a deal with the devil. Day I listen as I get older. I've definitely become more Consciences Consciences Fuck Okla.. I as I get older. I become more aware of what I put into my body vegetables smoothie every every morning every morning Z.. That's I blend spinach a banana blueberries a little bit of orange juice. But I don't really need the shoes because that's like sugar right of me but I put a little flavored ice. Sorry I have a Ninja onate and I drink. I drink the whole pitcher salary. People say salaries like superfood good for you and the whole picture during the whole picture. God and it's the drink that every morning and you don't drink a lot water or alcohol do not drink a Lotta. I'll probably Yeah listen I everything in moderation I try to I try to not sugar. China not eat sugar geno sugar and coffee like all the things like I have a sweet tooth man like I. I love sugar. Yeah but it's sugar kills you co Sugar Soda Sugar. I don't eat any diet stuff. Like diet coke no no diet stuff like listen. If you. That's terrible for you kind of I. I also have been blessed with a high metabolism but But you got a lot. I work out a a little bit every day a little bit every day evenings makeup. I do you really do. I don't work out more than forty five minutes a day really smart but when and I do like every single day yeah. I don't like going into the gym because I don't like wasting that time. Yes so are either us just just were. They tried to get in do it right away. Run for a little bit or I'll do like plow. Metrics are all box outside. I have a little box. Yeah And I just tried to get ah workout a sweat again and try to get the blood going and I don't like pump iron. You know I can doubt I lift weights but I'm not you know what I'm saying like pumping hoping iron moderate. You know yeah. It's really just a moderate life. It's a little bit. Each day goes a long way. Okay and then one other question question and I'm only asking this 'cause she's emailed me couple times in last time. She sounded a little upset. She wants to know on the bachelor. Do you get an itinerary of where where you're going. Do you know where you're going to be traveling to or does it all last minute. Flawless minute part of the cast and even as the the lead. They don't tell you no they tell you you you find out before them but they want an authentic reaction. Oh that's all they wanNA tell you one one year on camera for the first time you go. I've never been so cool. Yeah that's that is those. Why they they do that? It's not the stuck with you. It's May want offense. Thank you for indulging and that has been then ask nick about his life. Yeah we'll keep Keep those maybe we'll do that. Maybe we should we start doing questions like you. You know especially with my questions nigger ask Nick. It's always asked me questions that I can help you answer right right less bachelor stuff but if you maybe we'll do I I had to sneak in in. I mean it's fine. I feel like even that feeling of answered that somewhere and really wanted to know. Okay well now oh you know I really. It's not that exciting but okay if it makes you guys happy right. Speaking of when we said the fan name was by FIS some people we got kind of a negative reaction we were talking. Vajpai's like Y Five V. I think we were GonNa do people kept thinking it was vi- flies. Okay if it was that bad by flies I duNNo. People didn't like it. So other options are the V.. Hive Oh okay. Because the beehive get on our S for that ripping off beyond say people said filers so. I don't know way in if you're listening listening hives. What's wrong with the V.? Hives ripping. I do we have that beyond say cloud. I don't know man I feel like what's wrong. Flies what was the problem. I don't know people were just like they seem not excited so I just wanted to put put it out there because really WANNA be filers. I like filers I mean. Hey listen you guys let us know let us know. Just WanNa make a t shirt for you. Well we have another fantastic episode. Let's get to it. I think you're going to really enjoy it. Thanks for listening guys by the way. Don't forget get to send your questions and ask Nick. It can't be dot com and we could use some probably five stars. I'm sure we could. I don't look but I would would really someday someday will get up to five stars. Yeah anyways Andrew this again I love you. Let's ask your question going pretty good. My Name's on Elise. I'm twenty two I how can we hope is pretty good. Thanks for asking see you do get asked by our caller not necessarily remember guests. How can we help okay so I like a ridiculous long long emails all all I shorten it My whole life. I've had like a super complicated relationship with my mom. Basically from the survivors born She kinda wanted like the cheerleader ballerina daughter and I just wasn't that And throughout like High School College we just had a really really complicated relationship And we just fought like just constant constant fighting on just constant like I wasn't really enough just constant like I just was never really the daughter that she imagined herself. Having an the only girl two boys I am the oldest so like obviously the oldest is like the test subject of all the kids So my parents are GonNa just like winging it as they went with me And like I was so lucky to have the best ad in the best brothers in the world just like my mom always had like a really hard issue with and recently my brother. WHO's my best friend in the whole world He left an army. And so like my person like I've always had is gone Out really like that person to confide in and the person that like really really like gets me when it comes to. My mom is gone so I was. I kinda like my question was like how do I had. Why like deal with her? How do I deal with said you like? I can't just cut around in my life. I've tried we went. Look a here without talking to your mom your life. Yeah Yeah talk for higher. Yeah we didn't talk for like a year and a half on who initiated that. In a sense she kicked me out but she didn't really like have the power to kick me out because like Holders I'm nineteen eighteen. You're living at home. I was living at home. Ya and like she doesn't work so she didn't the have the power to kick me out so my dad was like you don't have to go like you. You can sit here as long as you want. My mom was like you have to your your parents. Are they're remarried. They're still together. Yeah Yeah my parents like. It's actually it's a really complicated situation like my dad like my parents separated over like me before like my data's his left her Like my brothers have left before like it's my mom She just has done over the years to be a really complicated I deal with. My Dad doesn't believe in divorce though He's like a really really hardcore Catholic. Tom And so he just like they've separated and they've always just like they've just worked it out What was the reasoning that your mom wanted etiquette you out so I went away to college for year? End Some stock happen. She's like it just wasn't the scene for me it was like a really small town and I'm from Chicago and I'm like I'm from leave a bigger city and like I went to this school called Essay which is in this town called Nacogdoches Texas. He which is like the smallest town in the world. And it's like it just wasn't the place for me and Like again Alexa really really has always try to live. Her life. Carelessly threw me because there were a lot of things that treating addicts When she was my age so like it just blew up when I decided not to go back and I was just like in her is always been like the biggest disappointment aren't possible and like she's told me that like it's not it's not just like me being like oh my gosh like now? Like she's told me that So like it just like. That's that's where all it came to a head so you were living at home but you didn't talk for a year. You are living known I was living at home and that's where it came to a head. Yeah and that's where she pretty much told me I had to leave. I just I figured it out. I just moved out I got a place with some roommates for a year and like I kept in contact with everyone except my mom likes light. My brother is my best friend. My whole life I kept in contact with my dad kept in contact with everyone. What are what are your brothers? UC of two other brothers. You have your. They are very close with. Who's now serving in the military? And then your dad. You have another brother. Yeah when you are exiled so to speak by your mother like what what conversations they having with your mom Basically like it was really hard for me to leave them there because basically like they were so. My Dad travels those laws for work so I kinda like left my brothers in this like a ticking time bomb of my mom I just getting ready to explode on them at any moment so it was really hard for me because I just left. I felt like I kinda like stranded them there And they just kind of like this like tiptoeing around each other for and what's what's their relationship with your mom. I guess it's like I guess it's Civil I guess everyone's relationship with her is pretty simple. I mean none of us by any means have like a really close relationship where none none of us go to her for anything. What are you so I guess? Because you're painting this picture of you know I mean it's hard for me you to relate in because it's it's it sounds a bit tragic and so I am sorry you're going through this but what is your hope. I guess because it sounds like you've come to grips with like your mom is just kind of a nightmare and like knowing really gets along with her including your brothers in your your dad. And then you have a slightly more contentious relationship with your mom because of this projection of like not being the daughter she wanted to be but I guess what is I mean. Listen I get it that you haven't given up on. Maybe having a relationship with your mom. Is that true. Or what is your hope. I guess what are you trying to at this point. I mean what is what do you really want. Is it just stability with your brothers in your in your father. Is it the hopes of relations with your mom. Like what your goal. I guess I truly I don't really know what I want when it comes to my mom A lot of it I do for my dad and my brothers because it like it truly just like kills my dad that like there's it's not like stability for all of us and I know that it's like harder on him than any of us so like any effort that I do make it really is like for them so it's really for me like I actually actually don't know what I want when it comes relationship with my mom. I know that for sure. Don't want to like cut her off because I am young. I'm only twenty two and like I do have hope that like the I guess like maybe come around one day Like I am so young that like I wanna want to help anyone and I don't want like my kids one day it'd be like why like why don't you talk to your mom. You know like stuff like that so I guess like I know that I don't WanNa like completely. We cut her out of my life but I guess my mind like my main question is where do I even start like. I don't I don't even know where to start. I don't know You know what I mean I had the. I've it's hard for me because I've I've had I've been very blessed with You know parents. I've had always had a pretty pretty good relationship with I mean there. Are you know parents are perfect. And certainly as I've gotten older even the perfect parents like turns always kind of fucked up their kids a little bit in in some way you like even if you have amazing parents. It's every parent's projecting a little bit and then you kind of grow up and you're just like my parents taught me some crazy ass shit meg when I was a kid. You know so like you're not alone there but Being said I've always had a really great relationship with my family and you're telling the story of what sounds incredibly toxic. It mean you're mom sounds very toxic quite honestly I mean. I guess we're only getting your side so to speak. But she sounds fairly miserable. I know and so there's only so much you can control when it comes to her. You know Free in your case this for your own You know mental health or just happiness. You I think maybe you just Kinda have to get to a point and again I say this not being really able able to relate to you or a and know what you're going through. Is You know. Try to just focus on what you do have an while. It sucks that your brother is overseas. Hopefully you from time to time can still communicate with him. Masumi also have like friends and while he is your closest person you know It's always IOS kind of reconnect with as you grow older. You'll your brother will always be your best for major brother right but you'll maybe form close relationships with friends to you know and and just kind of connect with them and find the people in your life to kind of fill the void that your mother unfortunately isn't happening and then when it comes to your mother what can you do. I mean it might just be one of those things where you just have to let her know that you're you're not going to back down. You know my my my grandma who just passed away our wonderful grandmother but you know my mom and her had a somewhat contentious relationship and I kind of remember now as I've gotten older but when I was younger and my grandma it was very controlling and very good at shaming and very kind of into her own way manipulative with my mom is kind of back in the day. I feel like this kind of relationship with her and it was just. I remember as a young kid lot of fighting between my grandma and my mom and my mom loves my program and they were very close in in in my dot life but I think sometimes parents are used to the power. They have over their kids and so the kind of their their their playbook is to kind of judge in shame. Because it's like well I'm the I'm I'm not mad. I'm just disappointed kind of thing. Yeah now that you're an adult. She probably you know you're only a few few years removed from the fifteen fourteen and sixteen year old girl that she was still very much the mother of and I think not knowing your mother or like kind of very interesting dynamic it might just be overtime her having to decide. Do I WANNA relation with my kids or not because my daughter clearly he is this is who she is going to be And then I think it's kind of always putting your foot down with your mom saying you can either accept me for I am in love me or you are are are not but this is who I am and and not allow her to make you feel guilty or shame. I wouldn't ever Put up with it. I wouldn't I wouldn't listen to the the criticism or judgment that she throws your way. If there is backhanded compliment got a backhanded. Like this thing she says little digs. I wouldn't allow it. I WOULDN'T I. I would stand your ground and I think in a way I mean you're kind of describing and I apologize for being harsh. You're you're driving your mom's but of a bully you know and if it's your mom or not the only way to kind of face bullies to let them know that they they can intimidate you You know what were you happier the year you weren't talking and tour. Yeah honestly yeah honestly. I feel really bad when I like savings at that but my dad has asked me that before. He's like will. You seem like you guys are talking. It's not like we're talking like we keep it very cordial. We see each other in his interests. Like hey like Harvey Ben like. He's will see Arctic better. This morning on Mike. I mean in all honesty. No Yeah I was. I was happier the year that like. I didn't talk to her. I think you have to do what makes you the healthiest mentally untily. And so you can live your full life and not worry so much you know you you. Yeah Your Dad will be sad in. That's unfortunate but at the end of the day you have to do what's best for you. Yeah I if anything I just kind of Echo what Rochelle. I don't try not to feel like this. Is Your Cross Cross to bear your burden or like that. Somehow your responsible to make the family I would remind yourself that this family drama. That might feel almost like your fault because you know what I'm saying like it's not I mean. Clearly your mom is based on what you're telling us a bit of a kind of nightmare. Well she sounds like Bush about herself so then. She's projecting now and her daughter like whatever the reason and it's not your fault. Yeah you know and so it's not your cross to bear and I just if you WANNA relationship with their mother by all means work on that But I don't feel like it's your responsibility and other than just being sad about not having relationship with your mother which everyone obviously would want. It's it sounds like you've made it clear you want one. And she's made it clear that she wanted only on her very strict terms And and that is being literally a different person and doing everything everything that she wants. I mean at this point your adult you know you have the right to do whatever the fuck you want and you know your parents. I'm sure all parents do for eighteen eighteen years in your house. They're gonNA they're certainly going to try to mold you the way. They hope that you are and hopefully they give you good morals whatever and sometimes they like we talked about kind of overstepped their boundary boundary. But once you're an adult that's Kinda like on you now. It's your life to mold for yourself and and hopefully everyone is lucky enough to have parents that their parents on at the end the day. We'll just I love them. You know for who they decide to be but you know. Unfortunately that's not always the case but it's not your burden and I destroy not to feel like you have to cross a bear that cross I just you know what you can with your mom. I'm not going to be that much other than the fact that I think you've been staying aground and and recognize that your mom's a bit of a bully and try and respond the way you would anybody well. I struggle with my relationship with my mom too and I I think it's because her mom treated her so poorly. But so I'm in therapy and I work on like setting boundaries. I'm like mom you're not. I won't let you talk about like like my body or my weight like. That's just. You're not allowed to do that. You're not allowed to talk about my career in a negative way like I've tried to set boundaries. And then like she's just she constantly just ignores the boundaries that I sat so then you have your back and reevaluate but you know boundaries are really good tool when you're working with your mom but if if she's not responsive that it's like it's like it's in one year Just right out the other. You deal with that when you try try to. Do you know like the right thing of sending a boundaries. And you're like I mean again i. You can speak to this much better than I can in terms of like how do you persevere knowing that you have this desire to have this relation with your mind I have a deep deep deep desire like for me. Cutting my mom out with like destroy Meizhou has. I don't know why I couldn't like I'm starting to cry just thinking about it like I could never do that. And like I've worked keep trying to Talk to her and explained her and I do think she starting to understand more when I when I talked to her which for me is good like I think you have definitely a more extreme example simple but like my therapist always reminds me that she's doing the best she can. This is truly the best she can and that she does love you and she thinks she is doing doing the right thing for you. So it's like I love her in spite of maybe the harmful comments that she makes about me but Well it's tough. It's very tough. It's very tough so I really feel for you. And she's like and my mom is just like her mom yet. It's a long along the way. Yeah yeah I mean my mom. I love my mom but I will say like yeah I mean you know certainly my mom has some of my gramma Emma. Her my mom's not ashamed though she's very accepting and loving but there's no even the perfect ones aren't aren't perfect But Yeah I feel for you and obviously it makes me feel lucky to have the parents I have but you know it's it's tough. I mean back like where my mom faults like. I truly have the best out of the best brothers in the world and so they're like. Yeah I I yeah yeah. Yeah and that's obviously not. Everyone is lucky to even have that and stay close with your brother as much as you can while serving the military town. Thank you for us by the way away and you know. Maybe it's a good chance to connect with your other brother. Yeah just try to find bonds in your life. You're going to have various relationships. Nothing and don't feel like you're trying to replace the one with your mom too. I mean I don't know again. Maybe like you're better at speaking this than I am in terms of is it more just about acceptance of you're using like acceptance but also like not letting her I won't let her talk to me in a certain way anymore because it really affects me negatively negatively so it's a combination. That's what I'm you know what I mean by really like affect because I've let her talk to me so poorly for such a long time. Then you you started like I would let other people talking O- or at least I and then like I would stay in relationships where I was talked to so early for such a long time. Just because like I was like well this is normal light. This is how people talk to me for such a long time like I thought that was normal. Yeah don't do that by accepting is is like I said the cross to bear like accepting that this is the relationship you have and she's not evil evil and not trying to do more than you even like. There's only so much you can do when I'm assuming that early on maybe you feel like you are overcompensating and trying to you're doing like ninety. It feels feels like maybe you were trying to do ninety percent of the relationship with your mom. And that's what I mean accepting that like so much you can do in the not feeling that burden or you know because I feel like that. Not Not having done it. I feel like that can be very heavy. Yeah and I love what Nixon like. It's not your responsibility to keep the family together. So gotta let that go in your in your family loves you Your mom and her own. Obviously way but You know it's tough I feel for you but stay strong and try not to You know lift weight that does not not yours to lift and over time you know I think yeah who knows people change they. They do Yeah it's your mind. Yeah you're you're only twenty two so like your mom like Rochelle's older than you and it's it's she's still working on that relationship and I can tell you my mom's relations with her Rama. I mean it wasn't until that even changed. You know my grandma. It was different when she was twenty two. She was forty fifty. And you know it exactly Asian just to like cut her off right now like it'd be so easy to just they cut off you know let it be what it is but I am so young and she is so young so you can't cut off it'd be thinking of it as like a time out yes you know. Yeah keep that window and door open but just don't feel like you have to put yourself in a toxic environment. Keep the doors open and just say I just need to remove myself temporarily from this thing because it's because right now it's not a healthy thing. Maybe maybe in the future you know yeah makes sense so well thanks. Thanks for calling and thanks for sharing we appreciate and best of luck. Thank you guys by the parents of fuck you up man I. I'm not a parent. I hope to be obviously but like even in. La You felt it was social. You see everyone's parenting methods and in La. It's certainly a little bit more progressive. And it's this like and then you know some of the new pairing parenting styles. You think that maybe it's a better way and then sometimes you'd see you wonder man. Is this parent going too far. And it's like but we as parents errands man. It's it's it's basically try not to fuck up your kid and even then you know it's hard it's hard to be a parent I I'm sure and I think kind of to your point. All all parents are trying to do what they think is best. That's what my therapist always says. Like doing their best. Yeah and sometimes their best just it is misguided and wrong and that comes from years of your like your grandma before like like knows but it's tough because as as kids I mean I you know revered my parents and we all do you know. That's that's and it's it's ah so hard to think of your parents and different way and accept that maybe they're not the deities that you once thought they were but yet they still are your parents and there's a level of respect you should always have but like you know not not disappointing. The I don't know I've I've I've been very lucky I I. I don't forget that while my parents not perfect they truly have they've never made me feel Like I didn't have their love and acceptance acceptance and then and that's. I'm very lucky to have that because I know that's not always the case or shall I think you have a bit of a shoe problem. I I'm I'm noticing you're buying all these Rossi's it's it's it's addicting create though all thank you. Because they're so comfortable and I'm a comfort creature feature creature comfort creature comforts chair. I feel like everyone listening was like Oh my God saying if you're your comfort creature Ralphie's are the shoe free. 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I would say he's he's one of my best friends and I'm starting to wonder if I possibly you may be potentially have feelings for him. What's what's changed changed? I don't know what's changed. I I've known him for a couple of years But recently like I've been dating around and I find that every time I'm on these dates needs are with these guys. I just I wish I was talking to him instead. So have you broach the subject with him now at all now. That's something that he and I just don't talk about Relationship with each other. That's never been a topic that we've touched and I don't know the reasoning behind not busy. Is he single dating someone now. He single is he talked to you about other women. Maybe when we first met like barely Mike would come up in passing. But that Komo I met and now it's just a really really solid friendship. We talk every day all day. Go but we've never actually sleep broach the topic of like People that were interested in right now. Is Your your question kind of like what should I do. Should I take I'm like petrified of ruining the friendship. I don't know if I've ever ridden situation like this Like I value friendship so much but at the same time. I can't date other people people 'cause I can't get him out of my mind thing I thought was interesting in your email is that you said this was read it without sounding super conceded. This is something something. My friends have told me. Not that I think of myself. Is it possible that as a woman in engineering a varsity track athlete ambitious career goals. That guys may be intimidated. Ed and he thinks that I would never be interested in him because they never talk about guys around him. I those kind of interesting. This guy said this to you. Know she no other fence ask. Her friends have said she might be intimidating to guys your other female friends. Yes and I do think that a lot of women's thinking thinking they are intimidating. I've yes I've certainly heard that a lot. Women think that yeah. I just don't think that generally generally the case I do think different men are attracted to different types of women you know so there might be some time you might feel like misunderstood understood in as a woman in a very male dominated industry in industry or or a woman who was an athlete Men might correctly or incorrectly really perceive you to be less demure or less Lady like that may or may not be true right and so you might be. You might face some like unfair perceptions assumptions. And then maybe you aren't like not as dainty or is other women and some guys like are into not right so I think it's more a preference preference not necessarily intimidation. You think that would be a reason. A guy wouldn't date someone. I mean I only speak for myself but I I again. I've always been very attracted to motivated and an intelligent women. I like uniqueness so like a girl who was an engineer the fact that she was an engineer the job itself I would I would find to be neat now. I don't know what it's like to if I dated. Someone is analytical as me that WHO I don't know that could that itself could be an issue issue but the idea wouldn't bother me. What's funny? I on hinged. The question unhinged asked like these questions that you have to answer and one of them is. I'm strangely attracted to and they fill it in and they always say they say Intelligent women I'm strangely attracted tracked into intelligent. I'm like why is that strange. I think that's probably a cultural thing. Don't you think I guess but I think it's kind of a man and I also sometimes I think it's men thinking they're going to sound woke but also the soundings shallow. It's just like you know I don't just want to have sex with the hot chick. Yeah I'm not just physically attracted I also respect your intelligence. They think there's an opportunity to sound like they're more open minded and it comes across as the opposite but you don't think because a woman is successful that that's like a reason why guys wouldn't like her. Listen I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there air. We still you know we still have a long way to go despite our progress. I do think you know men. Some men might feel emasculated by a confident it Woman in the working world. I don't know I can't speak for all men that certainly the case. I just also think in general more often to not when when women friends other women friends. Oh He's scared or intimidated. They're projecting like you're you're I find that women are really good at helping each other. Make excuses guys. This might not be into you so just be careful that way as far as this particular guy. I mean. We've talked about about this a little bit on the other show. It's just like you're going to have to decide at some point Is it really worth the risk if you do have feelings for him I and I've said this before then. Eventually this relationship is going to end. You know it's like he's going to meet some girl and she's going to sense that you're in love them and she's going to have. It's going to be weird right or eventually you will just get tired of having feelings for this guy you're not with and you know now you're just GonNa get exhausted. That might be three or five years from now might be a year or six months. So I'm just of the opinion. If you truly think that you have feelings for him then then then go oh for it. And maybe at the other the only the flip side of that is we talk about boredom a lot you know. Are you just kind of bored. You know or or or are you. Have you convinced yourself you have feelings for him. Because you've been on a series of like not great dates and he's like you just enjoy his company but let ask you is is what stopped you from having feelings for him when you first met him you know. Why wasn't he a guy that you met and go? Who's this guy you know like? I'm curious about about that because for me and maybe this is a guy thing I don't know or maybe this is a me thing to me. I pretty much know off the bat like am I. Excited is like in terms of a potential partner nerve versus like what a neat person enjoy spending time with. And you know what I'm saying like and then I get to know them and whether there's a connection and I just enjoy hanging out with them regardless of with their gender and so we become friends and so I'm curious to you is what why Why wasn't there instant spark on your part that you think do you feel now? He was seeing somebody. Oh so you just didn't i. People are are might be seeing all the time and I think to myself so when you found out he was seeing someone where you immediately disappointed I wouldn't say disappointed. I just never considered as an option. Kevin that's hard for me to relate to because I met a girl and I again regardless of not knowing anything entrepreneur. Who who's WHO's Becky has a place it was A? It was a very long-term relation for him. It was never in the question. I'm not saying regardless when you met him when you meet anyone especially if the opposite success you have a an immediate reaction whatever that might be a lot of people when they meet someone and it might just be like. ooh Who isn't person. I don't know you're just naturally you often. It's a physical attraction and then you learn a little bit about your just kind of like Damage they have and there's an immediate disappointment and and then or not or they're single and you're like you kind of figure it out and I guess what I'm saying is if you really have feelings from eventually you're going to have to shoot your shot but the only thing to be mindful of is really Kinda Sass out are are you just board. You know Is it there are. Are you getting discouraged urged but your dating life in general and therefore he's just he conveniently there and and not that you don't value in a great guy but I'm curious as to what's changed other than Dan. I get that you think about them so I don't really have an answer. Why only you can answer that question in terms of your feelings but my question that say if I were to broach the talk with him is there a way I can? Is there a way I can do it without If the answer's no without like completely ruining the fridge yes maybe baby on. I've I've asked a lot of my guy friends out and they've said no and a lot of my friends have asked me out and I've said no and we're also friends we are we. Could you give it how it's how you react if you ex you as if you're just like Oh cool you know I just had to shoot my shot you know. You're very very very chill after they reject you. It's like fine. Yes it's Kinda on Youtube resells point like there's no magic how you ask. It's how you respond if you don't get the answer you want and you may and if you have to take time out a few days away where the awkwardness. Because the more you make it awkward. They'll feel guilty the in weird but if you can be chill and and accept it and then move on and and and you act the same way. Okay you did before then yes then you have a shot and most likely he will. I mean listen. I've had female friends. That are pro tonic and They didn't necessarily like put themselves out there. But there was a thought of like Kauai we stopped hanging out. You know and there's been sad isn't disappointing. My point my point when is he. He must value your friendship right. So he's not gonNA WANNA lose you as a friend. It's only going to happen. If he gets past it so I agree with the shell like I can can get past it if it was with my friends because I never wanted to have sex with them in the first place so as long as they can be cool be cool too but sometimes they can't be cool so so it's really on you. Okay Go. Yeah it sounds like you want to go for your smiling when you buy on stop. Yeah just the and while. There's no magic thing you can say the the the chiller the chiller you can be even when you ask the question if confident but you know just be like I am going to be honest and just put it out there you know. That's the only way to do it kind of rip that band it off and and kind of listen. If you don't that's fine I but give update update when I am curious for sure. Okay just maybe guys. Thanks for class of luck. I like when you came up with your theoretical girl crush crush your name. Is Becky Fun. You don't see a lot of becky usually the bad one becky with the good hair. She's a becky you like like like a chat as a guy. Yeah have you ever Chad. It's not just to Dick. I've met some Hot Chad's oh I'm not saying sheds are assholes and it's dumb chads. Yeah I feel like that I mean you know the the constant crossing that ladder me love. Yeah I think eventually just have to I. I feel like eventually have to take the leap but you should always wonder if you really want to do think. Sometimes people get bored. Oh Oh that's why I'm here and again everyone's different. Everyone falls for people differently. Destroy their friendship because of boredom. No I'm just thinking okay to people start being France. And let's say in this fictitious scenario it is a mutually platonic friendship. There's no like one person's accepted that the other person has a girlfriend whatever. They're just is true good friends. I'm always curious as and then one person develops feelings. I'm curious why didn't that happen in the first place And so you know and so I think people are diamonds in the rough. Maybe I'm not saying it's not possible but I do. We always talk shit. This entire like shows about people people being discouraged about dating and so when you get discouraged about dating. It's kind of easy to be like well fuck your here. I don't know about that. I'm not saying it is bad but we we always do things we wouldn't normally do when reward or we don't get discouraged and I sometimes wonder what would you do. Who is like if the guy you like three weeks ago liked you back? Yeah you know I. I think it's worth asking yourself the question before you put yourself out there. Yeah but she seems obviously very excited about him. Oh my God she was could not stop sign. Oh my goodness but intimidate that thing about like Oh. He's just intimidated. I don't think that's true. It's not let's stop. Stop making excuses for why some people might not be Indian. Yeah he's not because you're too great eight or he's not scared he's scares lots to perfect for him. Not to stronger dependent you are maybe be strong and independent and felt like Nah going. Hey I'm in China. Three kind of twenty three. How are are you really good? Thanks for asking. Are you show me. Oh good great. Everyone's great. How can we hope so? I kind of have to problems. My first problem is a little bit more like overarching with my relationships. And and my second problems more like what's happening today so my second problem as I. I imagine this guy on tinder about a month and a half ago. And he's this gorgeous French model from we've been dating for about a month and a half now But the problem is that he is moving back to France next month. So it's kind of hard because we both have expressed like deep feelings. But he doesn't want to really take things like to a serious level because he's leaving so makes sense. Yeah obviously but I guess. I'm just really scared because first of all is the the most attractive person I've ever met with and I don't really WanNa like lose that but also I'm scared to lose him 'cause I feel like maybe it. It could be like a cover up but kinda like covering up the fact that I'm hurt from like my past relationships and it's like a nice little distraction right now. Oh okay yeah well. That's that's honest in terms of what's going on here. I mean I in correct me if I'm wrong. It sounds like ever since you met a French Guy French Hoti. It's all been very exciting. You know yeah right. I mean the fact that you met is his name Jacques. Whatever what's his name but he has a strong of French sexiest? I mean yeah and he walked in Paris fashion week. So he's not like yes is very exciting. You the one another level and I've never really one seven walked up to you and gave you a keys to a Ferrari and said Oh you drive it for a while you know forever. Uh I'm not using it right now. Wait but is he good and better just hot. 'CAUSE that's a common problem. So crucial is also another problem. Is that like at first. He wanted to say and I was like not really about it. 'cause I do that with people that I'm serious about whatever. Shut turn it down and then we got to know each other more and then I wanted to. But then he's he's shutting me down now so have you have you. I've had sex with him. We've had like one but it did not last long. 'cause he freaked out and he had sex with one other girl. So he's also Kinda like freaked out of how old is Frenchie. Twenty one. Okay I know I can do math. uh-huh no Nari that does very well And you've been hurt before impasse relationships. Yes yeah that's kind of going into like my overarching problem is that I like the last six years I've been in three two year relationships that have all ended like within a month of the second anniversary. Some kind of feeling. Like I'm like unlovable. Talk two years but besides that all of them started as kind of a rebound so. I'm like this French guy. I feel like I want to take it to the next level. Maybe because that's like a pattern that I've had in the path. You're you're a monkey swinging from one vying to another no you're twenty-three you've had three to who your relationships that puts you at like sixteen since you've been you've been like you have no business having that many boyfriends for that much of your life as a twenty three year old. I mean you know and and you're hanging onto baggage that you had as a sixteen seventeen year old. I mean I mean no doubt that when you when you connect with someone that young those feelings are very real and genuine but at the same time it's certainly not Like a relationship. Attention should do much comparing to other than the fact that those feelings. I'm no doubt feel very real and are are real but Don't hang onto The baggage of to like newbies. Not Knowing what the fuck they're doing trying to figure out life at the same time dating and then in any way hang. Hang onto that baggage. You clearly need some time. Maybe for yourself and you're so used and here you are. You know at twenty three and again probably feel like this is when I planned on settling down and you have all these built in expectations. And you've been trying to literally probably find a life partner since you were a teenager mm-hmm so yes. It's it's good that you seem to be aware that maybe there's an issue there There's nothing wrong with this French holiday fun thing you're doing. Yeah Yeah be realistic about it. You know seems like he is in my head. I'm like I've heard find another ten again. The tens are usually not good in bed. I'M GONNA come out and say that I'm GonNa come out and say that they are two. They had an easy life there. There used to everyone everyone doing things for them. They're not this you'll learn all about me right now wondering and wondering does Michelle thing. I'm not a physical are there for. Can she's assuming combat Adam bad. I'm just making this like I'm obviously attend. No I'm just wondering I'm being narcissistic I think there's there's certainly some truth to that. Yes there's there's I've met a lot of even like I haven't slept with any man but I've met a lot of good looking guys I mean be going on the Bachelorette for the first time was really kind of awareness of meeting all these seemingly attractive guys and then having a conversation with them. It'd be like yeah you're not a threat at. Aw there there weird or awkward or they're not charming to Rochelle's point a pretty guy is you know I look at the look at and maybe you'll get lucky with. He's also charming and good bed but don't stick it out with a guy he's fun to look at also there's plenty of model you're beautiful woman. Yeah you are only twenty three and I two Rachelle point you definitely as as you get older and assuming you don't end up with Frenchy that you're gonNA look backing kind of laugh at this deep fear and desire that you both have of like maintaining in this guy. I mean even Ferrari use the metaphor. You know fries are fun for a while. But then then just become really impractical and inconvenient especially in the I city it's just like Oh God maybe that Honda civic enjoy it more. It's a more comfortable ride. So yeah I as far as as far as what you can do in this moment clearly. You've made him feel a lot of pressure and the fact that if you meant. He's like this guilt and he's still he's young he's inexperienced and he just probably in some ways intimidated by you know you're older dinning at twenty one of our doing at twenty three year old woman would be intimidating. WHO's had serious boyfriend has had serious boyfriends and so he's just like I don't know I just seems a little if you just WanNa have fun with the Ferrari and ticket for a spin? Just you know how some fun and if you don't like action tell you so last week. We were like in his car. You're flying around or whatever and I like went out and said I love you. I know I know it was really scary because I was like. I don't even know if he likes. And then he said it back and after that he'd been like pushing me away which is super confusing. Because I'm like it's it's nice that confusing I mean again. I'm not saying he doesn't love you or not but it's not. It wouldn't be shocking to me. If you said I love you in the moment it just felt like the easiest thing to say back And I don't doubt he likes you and he's he's not into you and he's probably also caught up in the moment of this meeting this hot American woman who's two years older than him and he's just like is fun but he might be but but my point is I think you've applied way too much pressure on this kid You are. You're get caught up in this kind of love affair. And instead of being impractical about what it is the fact that he lives in France And it's just you know probably highly unlikely that this is going to work out and if it did again more casual about it and saying listen you really great and you're just going to work out and accepting that like if it were to work out you guys are going to have to like it's is GonNa be a different thing not falling in love with them and having a Romeo and Juliet love affair. I mean minus like did death at the end but like just kinda throwing caution to the wind. It sounds exciting. It's fun to think about but I think you're trying to have this kind of Rom com relationship and and and it's not very practical. Meanwhile you're probably kind of wrecking this thing that you have of them by applying so much pressure to something that should just be like a fun. Love affair that you'll I think back and think that was really fun. Yeah no I do not do I. What is he moving moving? I think next month I mean staying. I Love Stop saying I love you. you know it just be like you know what you should say. Listen I'm not saying I didn't mean when I sad but obviously we got caught up in the moment and I know this much what I wanna do with. You is in joy you for the time that we have and let's just have fun and whatever that means. Maybe it's going to the movies. Maybe it's means getting physical no but like let's just enjoy the time we have together and we'll worry about the future when the future comes but I want to stress out about this thing and build it up and something that it's not and then you're gonNA spend three months like you know being stressed out about something that we all know how it's going to end. It's going to end with him. Moving home you know the ending you know if there's a part to then who knows we don't sometimes they make movies we don't know they're gonNA make a sequel until a couple years later. You know so right now just know. This movie is going to end. And so and you're gonNA be alone for a little bit and you gotta be okay with that when he does move. Be fucking fucking single second. I'm trying to yourself. I know I can tell. And and you know you're a pretty girl and and you know it's probably not hard free to find guys who are attracted to you especially the early attraction. And you have this built in expectation of always being good enough to always have someone but like because everyone's human after a while people get sick of everyone's bullshit and they break-up I mean in thank God you broke up with your first and second boyfriend I mean I you know. I'm sorry if it her like you want to be married at you know like right right now. I don't know maybe you do and I don't want anyone about married at twenty two but also have you been married. You would never gotten to rest that. Chisel jaw line right. Thank you very much for show is a great start driving a mini van. This fry was driven by Mika. That would've been fun. Now you know. And that's edited lesson to learn. Is that like sometimes being single opens doors for fun experience that you look back and have fun and when you when the time comes just for you to be in a relationship hopefully of had these experience so you can really appreciate the relationship. You're in and being in the moment but you're trying to kind of do two things at once and Chill out a little bit and don't always Don't always be a slave to the moment you know. Have some try to have some perspective about being practical and just enjoying the time that you have a because I mean I don't WanNa tease but let's think about how cliche this kind of story is and it's fun you might. How awesome for you to have this experience right like this is fun? You're gonNA tell the story years from now and that's great and that's part of life but like falling in love with the French guy and you know we're in love and so he's just not gonNa move and you know come on friends friends joke. They're like how many people can say they French kiss to French guy and like yes. They're more than you think but millions though they don't keep you warm at night you know can hang on clicks backs. Ah Yes you'll get you'll have plenty of hotties like he won't be the only Hawkeye. You definitely not and you may not want to end up the hottest guy you've ever dated to Rochelle's point you know Looks do fade. Some some less and others. I mean not mine. I'm just Being being right now you're you're GONNA be fine. Don't don't waste the last month and a half or whatever it is you have with this guy Trying to marry him have some fun. Whatever that may be because because right now you're you're missing out on just an enjoyable time and so maybe potentially good memories he and then when he does leave just be alone for like six months? At least it's not sad sad you will. It's not sad and you'll be thankful you did and you'll have more more fun experiences. All right some people you know when you have this urge to say I love you to someone. Just keep it to yourself herself and get to know them. I mean listen. You're it's an excitement infatuation you don't know this person you know you don't know Frenchie You love being around in for the first how you know just love will evolve for you so let let it evolve all right all right. Thank you enjoy. Enjoy it while you have it. I will things Harda. Yeah those are you know. It's hard not to sound condescending or like a know it all or whatever I currently reading Gary's this book in preparation for him being on the show. It's very good. And he's just tells these stories about life and a lot of them are anecdotal funny but a lot of it is just like perspective of like how it opens with. You know just like he wanted to do the Peace Corps and I was like twenty two and he didn't do it because it was like what was a two year commitment all I know I can't lie years two years I can't I can't do. That's that's that's my entire tire life and I remember that feeling do and then he talks about how like how two years went by that any thought to myself. I've literally done nothing I could have just been in the Peace Corps L.. I only bring it up because it's like You just you don't realize until later on and so it's great if you're in a relationship Shapur you're not a kid be equally great because you can experience other things. I dated this guy. Who has the hottest guy in my college then? When I moved out here we started dating and I was like freaking out the whole time? Only this is the hottest guy is the hardest guy ever like get it. I was like and he treated me so oh so bad but I was like. But he's the hottest guy he's been looking back. I'm like I can't do you really like you kind of admitted to yourself. And everyone like he thought I was like looking at him. I don't care. He couldn't have been worst of me in that hot looking back. I mean now that I've lived in La. You're like every other person like the hottest guy you've ever seen. What I'm saying is like you clearly? Like thought he was hot when you first met him and then he got hotter in your head by kind of being not not having them and then you got him. It was just like he stayed hot. He didn't disappoint no. I'm thinking I'm sure he was attractive. But like you talk about them as if in the moment you were like well now you know. Yeah Yeah that's what I'm saying. Yes sure he was hot but not not so much that he could be kind kind of invaluable from being like a terrible partner But that's just kind of comes with time. You're often were younger. We have have this fear of things not happening again. Missing out or or whatever and then me and like you know and we only have come that like if you just are open to to let it all happen. You be aware of being the CLICHE. I am Christina and I'm thirty the kristen WHO's thirty for you to call in a wonderful. I'm nick this is Rachelle. How can we help? Hi What's your question. Your what's your question so So yeah thanks for having me on So I figured I'd give you guys a little bit of context I Really quickly and then jumping like my question if that works wonderful So basically My question is around My current relationship and my relationship is one of my best friend so currently I've been with my boyfriend since last April so about a year and a half We have a really great relationship. It's semi longest since 'cause he lives about an hour away from me so we kind of do the back and forth thing every weekend My family loves them. My friends love him. We've had like a really great relationship so far So have this one friend who has been super close with over the last five years. I've known her forever and she's made since the beginning like little comments like little digs here and there but always thought like maybe I'm just being too oversensitive like maybe it's just it's in my head But then this past summer I threw a thirtieth birthday for him All this rams and his family and my friends and family came in. It was an awesome time. Simon was super excited about it and then the next day I found out I was talking to my sister and she said hey what was going on with so and so and I said I. I don't know what are you talking about. And so she said you know she came up to me at the Party and you know she was saying all these things and you know asking. Are you making the right choice. Slipped him like are comparing him to like other situations. I've been in and just like all this inappropriate stuff but probably shouldn't have been cited. His birthday So my sister was very taken aback. didn't really confront it at the time but then confronted her a couple of days later. overtax just saying you know I I was Kinda shocked We all love him. Not sure where this came from like just want you know like this would be really hurtful to Khorasan if she knew so she came back and said you know really appreciate you reaching out Didn't really own that. It was inappropriate and just said you know. I'm just being protective friend. So it didn't really. He like apologize or anything. Like that. so my question is kind of been span. I've had this weird kind of tension Chen with her. We don't really talk is regularly And I'm wondering. Is it a lost cause at this point or do you have any advice within forward sure In this French she's married Yes yes she is. Yeah Got Married last year. Just last sure sure What do you think of her husband? I like him a lot. We've been really I was super close to them. Prior to them getting married and then like throughout their relationship we spent a ton of time together and those seemingly have a healthy and happy relationship. I think though as far as I know. Okay Has She always been a bit of judge person. I know yeah I mean and she's she was like your best friend forever you as always close. Yeah Yeah have you grown slowly apart over time as is like or is this out of nowhere. I think over the past year because I've been kind of inbetween you know different cities essentially it's been harder to make time but also at the same time with her being married and having you know other things going on too. It's been harder for us to connect and then in your so just it. Sounds like you're very happy with your your boyfriend. What I decided curious? What are the some of the things that she complained about Well I think one of the biggest things is just like the distance between us So he lives in kind of a more Country area and I live closer to the city she has. I don't really Because it's you know it's not that far And city versus like ever like a a big deal to me. I guess question without maybe two specific specific. Is there anything about what she said. Minus effect that it hurt that she said had his birthday or she said it behind your back. Is there anything specific that she said about your relationship with him that resonated with you or that you were in fact even though you might think he's a great guy kind of you kind of agreed with or she completed don't just off base but it just seems really off base about like knowing or being as close to our relationship is like I would assume she would want to be And I think it's just one of those things where like we had talked for years about you know living in the same city being around and kind of doing everything together and now that that's not how it's necessarily thoroughly working out right now. Yeah maybe it's coming from there. No I mean so I just WanNa ask all these questions. Because I don't really know. Sometimes people have a way of projecting reading like my first thought was. Maybe she like she could be she just got married and maybe she's kind of slightly regretting it and so she's projecting that onto you about like maybe you being In a relationship she could be kind of one of those nosy board. People know at all who like thinks she's justified for saying it and you can bet of a gospel that could be the possibility or again. My other thought was who knows. Maybe maybe there's some things going on this relationship that she actually recognizing and it's hard to hear on your part but it sounds like like maybe she is just off base here and if that is the case I think you need to you know your sister said something under her right and she acknowledged it but you need to really sit down and talk to her at. I think you can say hey. Listen I really appreciate you as a friend. And so so as a friend I value the fact that great friends will sometimes tell you the things that you don't necessarily want to hear that being said like it's not appropriate ever talk about me or my relationship or him behind our backs especially at a birthday party in Gossiping to my sister about a relationship. If you you have a problem with what I'm doing as a friend I want you to come to me. Because that's what being a friend is. I just need you to know that I'm super happy. Mr Relationship I. I recognize that long distance isn't necessarily ideal but I'm comfortable with our current situation mall like if he ends up being my fervor guy we recognize that things will eventually have to change. But I'm really happy with him I think he's a great guy he makes me happy. And that's what's most important so I hope that you can recognize recognize that because they feel like ever since then we've grown apart. I think you need to have this conversation with her and you need to let her know to. Have you know because going behind find your back. Feels like she was dishonest. You know that's not honest like she. That's not being a friend while I was just trying to be a friend that like now. You were talking shit about my boyfriend's birthday party pretty even if it was to my sister. That's not a friend being a constructive friend sitting you down on a cup of coffee and saying hey listen. This might seem really awkward. But I just want to be honest and that even if she's way off base there at least she has the best intentions of trying to do a productive way so that if she is right or you you know she strikes a nerve with you you can talk about it but this this gossipy approach is is not being a friend. I think it safe anything. It's okay if you to point that out and it's okay for in the future if she has an issue to come to you. I in an environment. That's not making you feel like you're stabbing me or my boyfriend behind the back back because that just seems wrong. And I'm not okay with that. And if she can't recognize that Then that's okay because she's making this. Excuse well I was. I was just trying to be a friend and I was trying to like look out for you fine if she wants to do that. But not in that way and you can point out. There's a write in a wrong way of doing doing that. And that is not in fact not being a friend you that makes sense. Ma'am yeah that makes sense but kind of to follow stuff that the one. What is your perspective on the fact that like? It's been like a couple of months now like well this like I feel like I should have probably had this conversation sooner. Like we'll have have the same kind of impact Shank and to What if she doesn't like own it like I kind of? Give me that apology that I feel like I've been looking impor- well that's up for you. Do I think it's too late. No I mean again this is someone who's been a lifelong friend An awkward situation. That's kind of gone on too long. Like three months isn't the end of the. There's no there's no there's no kind of statue limitations on addressing something that bothers you right. it really isn't. It's only been a few months If if she does if you don't get the response that you think you deserve And then then at that point you have to evaluate. How much of a friend's grow apart? You know if she if you point out the fact that it was inappropriate Britt for her to talk behind your in his back about your relationship to your sister without coming to you. She can acknowledge that that regardless of what she the things is wrong. That's a concern. That's not a friend that means that she feels justified of being a gossip. Talk Behind your back and if that is the case and that's probably I wouldn't entrust that person you know to me. There ain't not a friend and so friends you know friends come and go. Sometimes people do change sometimes. Times were friends with people because we've always been friends with them but they have stopped being actual friends in the future And sometimes you have to cut your losses. The she might have been a great friend and that might have been you know. Having a great singer friend is great. Because you see your friends simply because it's fun to go out you enjoy going to the same place as you like the same movies Your you you've dated The friends who are guys that was convenient to hang out with but sometimes at changes ages in a relationship because they kind of handle that differently now she has to be the real friendly supportive friend. Where it's just about having your back and communicating with you and Supporting things that she doesn't always agree with. But there's nothing unhealthy about what you're doing right like that's being friend in any kind of an adult relationship this ship when you're not like being a friend is more than just partying together and having fun So start there and let her you. You don't know like stop thinking about what how what decision you have to make because of her answer reevaluate at that point but don't be friends with someone who isn't being a friend and and that can be tough breaks hard. Yeah but people break up you know relationships end and not just romantic wants to and you can have toxic basic friendships. Just they can have toxic relationships so right. Now you're just kind of letting this thing fester and it's bugging you and you know the only thing it sounds like maybe you feel like she's not going to give you the answer you want you know but yeah and if that's the case maybe maybe you kind of already know but at the same time sometimes you really have to point out what's going on because right now your sister said I don't think that's okay. Thanks for acknowledging but she thinks she's justified because maybe maybe she did have the best intentions but no one towns like has pointed out that how she went about it was the thing that bothered. That's what it was and that can't really justify she can have pro. She can have concerns for your well being and you can say well. I'm actually happy and you said this all could have been resolved if you spoke to me directly but it was really hurtful inappropriate and in to for you to do what you did and how you went about it and that I don't I don't I don't want that. I don't want you to do that. You know because friends come friends come to each other head on. They don't gossip behind their backs. So I know that makes total sense think I would. I would do that and I would definitely address it and collared caller right now and be like. Hey let's go with cup of coffee right now. I would do it in person I would. I would would have that conversation. I definitely wouldn't do over tax. You can't have an a person facetime if you can't facetime call definitely don't text. Ideally get get a cup of coffee being catch up and even if you don't say oh I knew somebody to talk to you about if you decide to get together but beat direct and be honest and think of it just like a romantic relationship. It's a relationship that is not currently healthy and you're not feeling heard so be heard you know. Yeah no that makes sense. That's really helpful. All right thank you ride. Best of luck with your relationship both the the boyfriend and the yeah. Yeah thank you. I appreciate it took care you too. Bye sounds like she knows us. We always know. Sounds like she knows that right then then things like this friends is kind of yeah happens. Sometimes you're just like I don't really know if I like you. And he's adding to my life people fall out of love with friends so hard hard though I hate it. I wish that everyone could stay in your life forever at the break up People often make excuses for their actions by justifying. Oh I thought I was being a good friend. It's like how you go about it. Yeah I this. That's that's the thing. I'm a huge believer in. A real friend is sometimes telling friends what they don't WanNa hear. I hit my hugely. There's nothing wrong. There's nothing wrong with that. But that's not what this now. That's just a shitty that someone just being gossipy and she might just have the wrong she she might sit down and be like you know what makes a lot of sense. I'm sorry I should have never done that right. And you know what I was wrong and I won't do that again. Yeah and and then great fingers reconnect but until she points out the thing. That was wrong. Yeah she's GonNa get defensive and make excuses for her actions. Whatever ever? Don't talk to someone because you're afraid of how they're gonNA react like you can't control that but people are totally competition I mean.

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Hungover with Grocery Store Joe

The Viall Files

1:14:21 hr | 1 year ago

Hungover with Grocery Store Joe

"What is going on everybody? Happy Wednesday welcome to another episode of the vowels. So we're in the laws of December or are we not is it December fuck. I don't know I live in. La Surreal thing. Being in warm weather growing growing up in cold weather is it. You Miss It. I feel like you would be happy. You aren't putting something. I'm not happy it's that you just literally don't know like what month it is or the season six so much in. My life was predicated on like the seasons changing and climate changing. You would just feel like it's September burn. You feel like it's you know November. Yeah you'd feel when March naple roll around or you'd feel June July and now it's just like I don't know he wake up. I don't know anyways hope everyone's having a great day great episode today Grocery Store Gel Grocery store. Joe Ah Rochelle has a bit of a you know a female Boehner going on this episode. You were you were early. Joe Stan I was. I even grow tweet about him. That made it to the. Yeah back in the new watching. You were one of the people who fed into the totally twitter anomaly family yes and they showed my tweet at the screen. It was just like some me but I made it about a Gercy Sergio. Yeah that'd be one. I remember seeing one and I. I really chuckled. A is that something about it. was referring to grocery store Joe And it was. We know two things about Becker and one is that. She's blind because she sent home. Joe So hard for US audience members to understand but I guess if you were there he was really off. When you hear Joe Talk about it in this episode? He shed some light on why he truly just had to go. Oh yes there was no option. It doesn't matter what you look like if your that weird chicks wounded indigo. Guess so You're at the comedy store this week or was at the comedy store Did a little bit of stand up not really yeah. Oh you did not re. I mean that's so cool. That's like a bucket list thing. Yeah it was a it was a really neat experience. I think is GONNA come out. Hopefully in January David spade has is a great new show called lights out and he's doing this kind of secret Secret stand up if you will. And he you know he he feeds you jokes and In your ear and you can just repeat whatever he says not knowing what the jokes will be so bachelor fan he is. And Courtney Cox turns out. She's a big bachelor. I got to corning because she's also feeding me jokes and and she was very nice and Gracious. I got to meet her. She's like Oh my God I feel like I know you that I'm like Oh my God and immediately almost said Pivot uh-huh and I was like I'll just keep it this. I'll act like good job. I'll act like I just doesn't totally blow my mind. That's a good call She was very nice and as I'm waiting talk in the about to go onstage in preparation for going on you know I was a youtube favorite comedy act. I don't know why because I was just being fed jokes but I was just trying to get in the element you got to. So what an favorites bill burr. You know he's a favorite of a big fan of bill and he was performing at the comedy store that I mean. The comedy store has all the Iran. There's all these rooms so he's floating around backstage. I'm like Oh my Gosh Bird. And then he walks in and looks right at me and he goes. Hey how's is it gone puts his hand out to shake my hand and I'm like Oh my God I'm like big Fan. You know and like he was chill in cool and he just kind of kept walking. You know he didn't like stick around and have a conversation. I'm thinking to myself. Holy Shit. Bill Burr no. I feel like he maybe does base this off this interaction. Jared came in 'cause jared. Nash came to support this little standup BET shares. Also big Bill Bill Burr. Fan and I'm mature. It's assume permanent came up to me is said hide shook my hand as best friends. He's like there's no way. Bill Washes that show and and I kind of I'm thinking to myself. I kind of playing back the that moment in my mind and I and I realized I pretty sure builder doesn't know why I am. And I think what happened was I probably got a little starstruck. And I'm pretty sure I was. I fucking Bill Browser. Sound like an glazed stays the days which didn't feel a long time but it was probably like two or three hard seconds from staring at him and my guess is bill just deflected having having been the situation like this where I'm GonNa say hi to this guy and I'm going to make this awkward situation not awkward by just shaking his backstage so you know. He's he's allowed to be back here. Yeah it's probably a safe split say save. Yeah they've space so I'm pretty sure bill doesn't know I am and I'm pretty sure I was just fucking and he just decided to be chill and cool but anyways it was it was he has a wife. I feel like he definitely knows who you are. I don't know I don't know I hope. So because the alternative is I made him feel really awkward now and he's just like all right just to shake this guy's hand and here hopefully doesn't murder Own now but it was a lot of fun in preparation for the big night I had my athletic Greens which I say. I'm I'm an addict said that they want me to say that I use it every morning. Something on a regular basis. Can you be addicted to it in a positive way. You've made it. A part of your retire have made it a part of my routine. We have the been right there. I don't WanNa grab it. It's great I don't I personally. Well it's it's here I don't I don't you can put you're powder in here and actually it's quite quite nice. Really sleep smells. It's a it's full of vitamins in Greens and you get your basically morning nutrition and Greens right away. First thing in the morning. I like it actually. A lot of people would probably guessed that maybe it doesn't taste that great right not true you really like the taste you you told me Yeah I enjoy it. I am the point where I I don't like try to drink it and get it over with. Yeah I'm just. It's like an enjoyable glass of the vitamins and minerals. Same with me. And this is an incredible product because it has seventy five proven vitamins minerals and whole food source ingredients soldiers actually whole the fruit and vegetables in there that they freeze dried. No Heat is involved at all which helps to keep the maximum number of nutrients Renault that but includes prebiotics probiotic uh-huh enzyme and he said that's the most thing people are most excited about is the prebiotics importantly Alex harder to get actually in that kind of form. It's all you're taking taking it all in the morning to get it all over with health which my sister. 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Well we heard the news that Chris Bukowski in Katie broke up. What do you think about that you know? They tried really when I mean I mean you know she came out without a rig. I mean I don't know minds blown here. I wish him the best. I'm sure it's not great for them at this difficult period and I always kind of say in these situations everything I know about. It was a very real relationship. So I'm going. I'm sure they're going through real heartbreak. Right now I don't know much I think it's more or less mutual doesn't mean it's not mutually hard for both of them and was hired. They weren't living in the same place. Yeah I mean you know it's like it's tough because the you you meet in this kind of crazy world and you fast forward a relationship and then you get out of that world and you have to decide. How much should we fast for the rest of it You know okay. We got engaged on the show. Okay we still have to get to know each other. A lot of these people don't live in the same city. Does that mean we move in. If we do move. Do I moved to a whole city and get my own place sometimes. It's is challenging and I have no idea why they don't work out. I wish them the absolute best who still together though Jo and Kendall Yep Maybe there's something to be said about Not Getting engaged on paradise and Slow playing it less expectations But it Joe is a fun time with show kind of an unconventional interview. Yeah we were just kind of hanging out shooting the Shit. Got The job better. I I really Enjoy Joe he's one of the people I didn't know him on the show. I I didn't really get start knowing until after the show and you know we don't know each other a ton but every time I talk to Joe and get to know my always like more and more is just A. He's just a normal good dude. His Law Street stories are insane. And he's he's there's is a lot to joe that you didn't really get to to know about Joe on the show and he's one of those people who you know what I appreciate. He refuses to be different Having result in the doesn't mean he's not doing different things it doesn't mean he hasn't changed as a person but his core in terms of like who he is he still oh has perspective he he he can kind of ball call bullshit on himself and in the world and he doesn't get he doesn't feed into his own hype which I I think is is important so I really really got to enjoy Joe so without further ADO grocery store joe up next Joe Welcome? Welcome thank you thank you for inviting. I don't even know how to talk to you. I can. We say you're a little hungover. You know an US out. Yeah I'm hung over. I'm definitely getting older because I did not drink that much last night. I have a friend in town I had. I had three three Moscow. And Sodas Two beers and then for Elliot told US earlier three weeks aries changing and I'm five uh-huh it might have been. Are you still drunk or just bad at math. Both I think I think a little bit of both but I feel good. I'm GonNa Power through this feel good the IB IB profiles. Really you know you said you threw up. I threw up this morning three times this morning. Yeah throw upper stifling. There's two different types of people there's the blackout people. And then there's the throw up people I am of the throw-up person. I'm a throw a person I am. I try. I was GonNa tell myself like My Toil I told myself so wake up and just run and sweat it out and I put on workout clothes. Does it went right to the bathroom soda. And that was it and then you made it here but I'm here I'm here and I'm feeling good night to be able to make too much. I contact contact. I'm going to be looking straight ahead. The whole nauseated. Yeah I swear. That's what I'm doing that. Well I mean I get it because what I have. I don't drink that much but when I when I've gotten really drunk and this has been a long time I get the spence and that's when I would throw throw up like I've and I've never. I've never blacked out. I've never not remembered making him learn ashes. I've never I've always had a vivid memory memory even the Times I was the most drunk. Are you the same way. Say That again. And we're GONNA get through this Sir have you do you do you have you do you. Not Blackout not lose your memory at all like I get really drunk and I've not an anyway. Lost is my memory. I I do not lose my memory. I remember everything that happens. So yeah it's fine. I'm this doesn't happen to me Tom. Throw it off. Yeah and honestly it's the age I mean I'm getting older. I can't I can't do what I used to but I don't even drink that much either and that might beef also definitely y. Yeah it's because it's ever since I moved to La and a lot of it. I think is being in a relationship too because when you're single you're out all the time and you're drinking drinking and you do shots and I just don't live that life anymore. So now that you're a married man or yeah yeah pretty much. I'm not married yet okay. I don't live that life anymore. Doing some what were you doing. That Kendall of a retired uh-huh well but like you go out like you're used to going out at night and now I'm used to like goat. Were you know we go to bed at ten thirty and we watch you know friends before we go to bed and you know it's just it's it's it's nice and did you is it. Sounds like you guys have a bit of a routine we do. We do Our as our u routine guy or is Kendo a routine gal and you're following her routine or did you guys collectively decide as a couple you built a routine I think as a couple we built the routine and I like to watch Like a feel good show before I go to bed Yeah Yeah like like the other night we watched home alone because I love home loans to great. You know. It's a feel good good movie. It puts me in the Christmas mood. So yeah we have you. Have you always been this way in terms of like. That's a smart idea idea. Like why are you wa- like I have watched like a suspense thriller before I go to bed or a movie that you know just makes me think and I never I won't sleep. So here's a fact about me I am a little weird. We're we'RE GONNA get to that but that's really yeah But like so I will watch like the same for movies over and over again so like I for like that. We will like for like Six months straight. I would watch like midnight in Paris before I would go to bed. Oh so you're like a six year old. I have no When you're a kid and then like a new Disney movie comes out and you would watch it a hundred and sixty times there yeah? I don't think they're listening to this podcast but there are kids out there right now that can relate to like yeah. They're like frozen all the time. Well the four seven. That's was was home alone for me like that's what I did. I watched home alone like for a couple of years straight but as an adult. You are now doing this. Yeah so my main movies are my go-to moves are ocean's twelve really he. Also that's the worst. It's my favorite. I Love Ocean. Because it's the because he liked to travel and food. I like to travel. I like the way shot shot. I like In those guys are very cool. Like I really like idolize all three of those movies at why something. Yeah something something I something about like being in Amsterdam and the way it feels just yeah just can't Ocean's twelve then midnight in Paris are defining of your personality. Analogy midnight in Paris Paris I I definitely am movie. Good movie choice. Yeah what's what's what's my other other. Go To's home alone home alone I liked the movie Manhattan. I've I'm not familiar. Woody the Ellen a big woody Allen Guy I like well I actually. I should say that added that. I don't know what Yellen has been. I'm doing these days. I mean he's always been on the radar for not he was. He was ahead of the metoo before me to we ever knew everyone knew weirdly. This went along with it. No we're what we actually Started watching I only watched the first episode But we started watching the ARC. Kelly thing that's not a good thing to watch for before bed opposite six six. PM Time but have you seen that. That I actually have it because it's just like I know. I got the gist. I even started watching the Michael Jackson won and it was like all right. I get it. I'm done the Michael Jackson. Excellent I watched so it was pretty bad. Those those are those are rough. Let's get back to the more positive light whereabouts. We're bouncing all over the place so you you like very positive. I sub get you you vote. You're a routine guy even before you met Kennel. I'm getting the impression that you there are certain things joe like when the little bit I know about you and this is what I like about you because I'm somewhat the same way you really know what you like and you also know what you dislike yes and you have a strong opinion. Yes that's that's sad perfectly. I like things and then I like I like I like I like clothes. All of them all certain I like to be dressed of bed. Yeah I like I like shopping. I like I like fall. I like Christmas time I'm your basic bitch. Basically Finish and I'm sorry. Sorry I like New York City. I like pizza. I like locks in a Bagel. Aw I like Woody Allen Movies Seinfeld's my favorite show. Go a jolt. I are pretty similar things. Everybody like true. Yes but I'm very passionate about those things. I live my life than everybody else I live. I surround myself with those things on a daily basis. That's cute you like your comfort things. Yes yeah I like to become like coffee love coffee and we can really hang out I thought show. I mean I've been thinking about having John for Awhile. Join recently on Ellen together. We did that game show and the game is fun and the game show was basically spilled tea that you haven't had before which I thought was harder was hard to do because I was like. What do I say on? The podcast is the show or whatever. Joe's was the most interesting the Jingle Joe because mine was like what do I do. I don't do anything dad interesting now and when I was I've had sex while driving and this is something I did when I was twenty or something and then me and my girl for the time. We're like this refunded funded try. It was like it was a very not smart. Don't do it don't recommend it but it's what you do and you're like earlier kind of figure you know you're you're having sex for talking talking like a blow job right now like on. Now that's a terrible idea off. It was not even that fun but you know anyways Joe Joe Thought of something that was like current recent. He's actively doing yes. which I I also like the jobs like? I don't care fuck it. I'm going to say it but you have a jingle after sex that you and you actively sing it will the and we'll hear you're just bizarre beyond belief. Well we had to give three facts. That were for daytime television but about sex so that was very or something sexy. That was difficult and I all ISOS like after sex. Sometimes I'll be like I just had sex and it was awesome and I say it like kind of joking around like in Kendall laughs and we just laugh and it's just like Joe. I'm not like like like like saks. Like you know like I'm just messing around. I I know. How long have you been doing that? That's been going on for probably five weeks. Take five six weeks earth about any rights to the song is it always been the same song. Yeah it just simple I just had sex and it was awesome and I say it in kind of a funny voice and I say it a few times maybe three or four times Kendall laughs. I laugh she. She kinda repeats it to and other seeing this together and then we go on with you know. Showering you know taking a shower after sex and getting dressed and doing what we gotta do so the sex is still good. Sex is great. That's great to hear. Sounds like morning sex during during the day. Because you shower then go about your day while this afternoon sex. Here's that delay. I'm a big afternoon delight. Okay why because I usually have the most energy. Because he's getting older geriatric sex. It's like really straight. I don't know man you're minimal effort. We have home home alone at least a half hour of Hobo load. Could if I type this correctly I won't be sleepy. Bye Eleven and that's a problem. No but yeah usually the song usually comes comes when we do have sex either in the morning or the afternoon because that's those are always fun time to have sex. You know most people are working. Yeah Yeah and you're like Oh we just had sex. It was awesome you know. Have you got a little laid a lot before you met Kendall or well yeah I was. I was actually fine like yeah. I was a normal You know I was. I was able to go out and in meet women usually do all right. Yeah the King of Chicago would you say are you are asking before the Bachelor Asher before I was you know I wasn't the king of Chicago. There's a but coming well the prince. Those is lame No I mean I I you know I was a single guy I always did did pretty well financially. Like not like you know I was. Yeah Okay where I could afford to go out on the weekends And you know I was single so I I went up. Take shots shots yet in Yeah I mean those. You know you're among friends show. It's fine you can. Yeah yeah I I just think yeah that was doing that. You know But I was at a point where I was ready to be in a relationship and I didn't And I just I never really found that and then the show happen now men one. Have you talked a lot about other podcasts. I don't WanNa bore the audience about your night when experience because when we talked about it I thought it was a fairly fascinating story about your whole mindset and all that all went down yeah And I have talked about it but I mean I don't mind about a lot of bore the audience you You I heard this from producers. You like froze in front of the cameras you literally I froze. Didn't people say that but it turns out they actually said words were. You didn't. Yeah well no I did. But I wasn't making any sense like I was talking in I was rambling. I walked up the back and I said like like Like like nothing I said made sense in. That went on for like a minute and then I said I forgot got everything I was going to say. My Name's Joe This is after you've talked for this is after I I've talk for a minute so now and I see her like I see okay. Yeah I see her like look over and she's like is this guy for real and now I know yeah. I know I'm not stupid. Like I know when people are like. Oh my God now. You're a software. Yeah and I walk in. I'm like Holy Fuck you know. And they aired that that was after the Limo. Yeah and then I got I got the numbers. See I think here that you know I got yeah pretty popular for being a night one guy. Yeah no one will ever replicate what you did And I would say that's because I would say I was probably somebody buddy that should have gone. Would have gone decently far on the show. If I did not freak out night one I will say this is going to be embarrassing racing but I was someone watching it I was like. Oh my God this is like the dream guy. And I- friends with the producers. I texted him. I was like how did he not make it past night. One one and he's like oh no but I wasn't alone. I looked on twitter. Everyone else while at the same people really went nuts for that. But you you look at that here. I don't know what I was doing. The haircut all that was brutal but it is wild to think because everyone gets nervous but JOE is so bad that they weren't aren't like like let's we'll keep them well like let them subtle in they really thought he really can't function as a human. You must have been truly terrible. I it was horrible. And you. You WanNa know what and then for Paradise Paradise. There was actually somebody that backed out last minute. That's that's why I was there. I was surprised to hear that because I thought you were a shoeing. Well I think I was. I don't think I was a shoe in to be Original cast and I think into that point and I didn't hear that until after Joe is that again not to be dead horse. You were so bad night one. And I've heard this from other producers that they were just like we can't bring them on and because he can't talk yes and so it was like how can we make tv if we can't we can't bring him on just to sit there. And then you were told me the story of what. What are the producers on on a show when they brought you down kind of came in and gave you like a a pep talk? Yeah he came. He came into my room he said and I remember I really got along with this producer and he came in the room he goes higher. Doing some good he goes. Are you going to be able to do this. I said yeah he goes. Are you gonna be able to do do this guys I think so. You know and paradise a lot different. It's a lot different in wants. It's I was still even nervous that first day but once you get past like it just it's so much more. Calm the cereal school. You know what I love. Surreal Israel do me too. I used to eat it every morning growing and I stopped doing that for a period of my life because like I don't know if I should keep eating the cereal it's probably not turns out I'm back on the cereal train Peanut Butter Cinnamon Bun Review. Kelco real school. Yeah it's Kito approved snacks that remind you of those cereals. 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It is surprising because like I don't know you that well but you are a guy who is not afraid to give an opinion and you're not like a little bit of hang our you you definitely like even just going on Ellen and telling your sex jingle story. Ninety percent of of Bachelor nation cast wouldn't ever admit to that because they're so conscientious of of the perception of them. And you are. That's that's not that's not. That's not why you got weird. which is so kind of bizarre to think that you froze so much? Because and that's where I relate to you that way you're kind of like fuck it. I'll just say it. I'll say what's on my mind which is great for reality. TV and yet you were you. You struggled so much that I well. I'll I'll I'll tell you why what has changed is because even paradise. I'm sure there could have been a lot more of me me but I was really nervous in front of the camera. What is it about the cameras? It's it was the fact that I've never done it So it just took me a while to. Oh it's like anything anything I've ever done like any job. If I was Torque at seven eleven it would take me a couple months to be comfortable able and now I'm comfortable because I've done this for I've done dancing with the stars which was in. You've done it but that's you know a out out of body fish out of water experience and then I did the tour where I actually like host it in front of thousands of people so after doing all that. Now I'm comfortable now I could sit in front of the camera. Kiro See non-professional but a lot of people that go on the bachelor they're like either influencers the answers or some of them used to act or you know what I mean. He's like a true I think more and more. I don't think most of them used to act you. Think so I don't know you. Peter has an IMDB page heater new bachelor from a actually. This is that the new generation may be a little bit more now but I feel like most of the people that cast like from the Midwest thing radio folk even JOE's out living in la now. It's not like Joe's not. He went. Call him an influence or but he's doing his own thing it's not as if I think I think Joe's this more like we're talking about Joe. It was like you're yeah you're you're fine unique in that sense and refreshing because you're just kind of like whatever. I'm just going to be be who I am. Yeah I definitely noticed that a lot of people in our world are are scarier. Not Scared are are worried about what they say so much like. I can't oh I can't like I'm so worried about you know 'cause we have the you know the ABC audience You're not like that like what is it in your mentality that have you always been that way where it's just because you know in fairness people outside sided. TV The world. We're all in society always trying to be polite or always trying to not offend people. Yeah and I'm guessing you've always had this type of purse out Even before the show were just going to throw it out there. What I'm thinking I I've always been like this and it's really because I know it makes me happy and it doesn't make me happy to fake fake things or to lie so for me? I'm like like if if you know I smoke weed before I go to bed once in awhile. I'm not GONNA be like. Oh no I never. I've never tried marijuana like mckim not GonNa do that but once in a while before I go to bed I'll smoke weed. It's not that big of a deal and I wake up and I feel great. I just had saks was awesome. But like you know and I and I'm just like it is what it is and if people don't like that I'm not I'm not GonNa Change the person I am and so somebody is because it makes somebody else happy like you know. I'm I couldn't agree more. I find that very refreshing refreshing Before you fell in love with Kendo kind of going back to two you're dating life I mean what We we talk a lot about dating on the show water water when you said you were ready to settle down where you were. You're were you actively. Try not to have a girlfriend where you kind of just out there and seeing where it goes have you had serious Girlfriends before Kendall. I can those my first serious girlfriend really. Yes yeah why I mean in the sense that like was an active okay celery when. Yeah when I was young so I was a trader at the Chicago Mercantile Exchange when I was from the age of nineteen to twenty four and like pork bellies I was trading in the Nasdaq pet. So awesome yeah. Do you get away from that. Because I ended up losing my money basically in the in the business dried up and I was twenty four and I felt like I was going on fifty and I was miserable But at that time I just I was like I'm too you know 'cause I worked with a lot of older guys a lot of guys that have money and like all you know you're you're young. Don't be single. Be Single and that kind of just was like yeah you know rain in you. Yes and then once that once I quit that and I started doing the PROTAS I was working waking up at one thirty two in the morning and working ten hours a day and I wasn't making nearly the the money I was making before so I was really just it was Kinda hard to get back out there Were you self conscious about that. Yeah how'd you end up in the grocery store business. My family's been in life so my dad had like a producer out and he delivers produce to restaurants. And then I had. I had an uncle that had a house in the market. And they sell to like all big grocery stores but So what are we talking about. Now you're dating life. Life felt like Oh money. Oh Yeah Yeah I think that. Got My head and then The truth is I think it's very hard to meet someone at a bar or a nightclub and have like you know didn't didn't become boyfriend girlfriend because usually what happens well not in that moment. Well no but it just always felt like it was like a hookup thing and it just for me. I am not I not the kind of person that was able to walk up to women at a grocery store or a coffee shop and say hi. I couldn't do that. I was too shy. I struggle with it like that. You could get slapped in the face. It's kind of scary so I mean it's yeah yeah I listen. I've always felt confident with women. I've I've always felt confident talking to them. But when it comes to that cold open so to speak walking looking up to someone and saying hi. I've done it before but I I wish I just did it more often because I I do know that I a even if even if they have a boyfriend or they say no. It's just like they're probably more times. If that I would probably get a reaction I was hoping for. I just chickened Out All the fucking time yeah And it's just like I don't know why but you just you just get so nervous. Yeah and it's you just it's like in your head and you know you're not gonNA sound smooth in it's going to be rough interests like So so I didn't do that but when when you would meet women at bars. How are you meeting them? While I was drinking the one once you have a few drinks. You're an everybody at the bars drinking in everybody's nobody's there to talk so it's like one of those situations where it's like you know just known like okay we're GonNa talk. I'm GonNa talk at the time and then you know you wouldn't you like so when you say I mean I agree like no one's going to go to a bar and fall in love but everyone's lose everyone's drinking. It's certainly an easy way to break the ice with someone. Yes but would you go in there with the mindset of like this is just a hookup place. What if you met a girl enjoy talking to her and got her number and unlike when you're too sober people on a Wednesday grabbed drink? Well that's that's what I tried to do It just nothing ever clicked. What would you ever bring a girl home like the night of? Yeah I've had one night stands before no no judgment but like what do you did you let me ask you this. Did you feel like you met a girl you wanted to bring her home. And then you guys hooked up immediately make you feel like She wasn't Someone you wanted to date then all because like I would be So like you know in the reason why is because I looked at it like I'm not gonNA judge her for hooking up with me not judgment. I don't think you ever would judge them. But did you ever feel like the I mean why why. Okay any of these women did not Want did you ever like would you had. Did you ever take a girl home. Hook up with them and then go out with enemy like let's get together next week. Yeah Okay Yeah I mean I dated. I dated like I had that. Were you know I would date for a month or you know a couple of months it just it never It just never know. Why do you think a bar then wouldn't be like a at least a great place to maybe meet meet someone because the curve getting more nervous or whatever I've seen yeah I think I think I actually think you're right. I am so I just did it. Work for oh I guess it did technically work for me too so yeah I guess I take back what I is that like. It's not the story you want to tell your grandkids but It it. It's an easier to meet someone and then yeah. Yeah everyone's enough to lucky lucky to go on on paradise in and find their. That's true true. Love ammos people in bars are single so you think so. Is that true. I guess a a half I would say I would say seventy five percents. Sure whenever you're in a relationship you're like why are we going out seem. So why are we competing with all these people people. Yeah and then you met Kendall yes and she has changed your life for the better. Yes she has did you. When you left Paradise It is where you pretty Did you think that you are going to be in this relationship. Now Look now when I left Paradise honestly really I thought I was going to be the next bachelor thought. It was a possibility. That's as hanging before because people had mentioned that and I'm like this is a possibility I want it I looked at it like I'm from I'm I live in Chicago. I don't plan on moving to. La Kendall is in La We we you know we didn't have sex. You know not that that me but you don't say is there is is no jingle the signal but you didn't hook up on the beach no and I was at because she was already And I was like that's fine. I seem very at least I'm paradise kind of yeah. I mean that's what they show but she was. Is it ready to go into that room. which I understood like there's cameras in saying? She seemed reluctant about the relation general. Oh Yeah in paradise. Yeah Yeah I think think it didn't really click for US till after and I remember being home for a few days and thinking I'm thinking about her right now I I think I might really really be in the her. Why destroy this? Why just not work on this? Let me see where it actually could go because my whole life i. I haven't given relationships and he chance so let me actually see and the more we started hanging out and getting to know each other it was like wow. I actually enjoy being with this person every day. Did you connect with her. Who reached out to who I I D M? I'm Tara and then she booked a ticket to Chicago. And then the producers came and you're like hamster like why are we. Why are we not trying I think we're both like we don't know so. She came to Chicago like three weeks after when she came the Chicago. Like I was difficult. Talk to like she was texting me and calling me and I was more not being very responsive. 'cause I was just like I didn't believe it was and actually turned into something. Are you a skeptic. Yes I I didn't. I didn't buy the whole bachelor thing. I'm like this'll never work. I get what's happening here. You go on this show. Oh my attitude was I go on the show if I fall in love. Great isn't going to happen absolutely not you know. And then there's like yeah I mean you know. Let's get that yeah. I did think that I'm like I wasn't stupid. I re I saw like what happens on instagram and everything so I was looking at like. I probably won't meet anyone on the show but I'll be able to meet so many more people after I'll probably end up finding the girl that I'm GonNa Fall in love with because of it. I mean I get that logic hasn't really panned out for some people and and then Kendall and so and now you're living in La you guys are living together on one big happy couple. Did you like wait to see if you were gonna be the the Bashar before you pursued Kendall or was it no no I I at once she came the Chicago we hung out with. No cameras runs. That's when I'm like okay. Let's let's let's see if this works list actually tried to date and we were both of the same page. Do you think if you So if you weren't cast on dancing with the stars Where would you be living right now? Are were that of Russian. Because right you you you basically lived out here for two three months via dancing with the stars which made that transition so much easier to kind of assimilated inactivated. La and you guys kind of got used this routine and correct me. If I'm wrong but it was almost like well I'll just stay thing so if it was I don't want to say we wouldn't be together because we are really in love and it's in it's a very healthy and fun relationship but if it wasn't being casted on dancing with the stars I don't I don't know if we would ended up together because being in La for those two and a half months was so crucial because that was the point that was like the beginning of our relationship like I. I can't do a long distance and she couldn't either like like I wanna be physical with the person. I'm in a relationship with so I can't do long distance So that show was a big reason why I think it worked out it make sense to because like we get asked a lot of questions about like long long distance relationships. I've talked about Just in my life and I don't know how you feel but like every time I make some sort of drastic change like there needs to be some sort of boost launching pad that I need you know in terms of like whether I when I moved to Chicago. Move to La. Like there was a a jump start. I had right because because if there is no dancing with the stars you're just you're living in Chicago. You have your comfortable life in your apartment. And she's here and you're thinking yourself for a girl that you don't really know that well wait. Am I going to move to a whole. I'M GONNA change my life drastically and it's harder to do that because as you feel like what would I do this. This one person and what if it doesn't work out. Yes and yeah you got this kind of boost through dancing. Where while you're not moving living for Kendall at first you're coming out of here for a period of time and then you got to know this person and it's it's kind of fascinating because it wasn't like it wasn't like you're saying Oh? I didn't have strong feelings that you said but like it's it's a crazy notion that sometimes want to do that in in a relationship and people struggle with that kind of idea of having to do that on the same time. If you don't have something like dancing with the stars I always find that things are easier than they seem. Sometimes would you agree in terms of like was it that hard to move to Allah. Yeah I totally agree with. That was seems like such a mountain to climb when you are in your very comfortable life at at the time it would have been without without dancing with the stars to just leave my friends leave my family leave my condo. Leave my job to four one person to yeah exactly you said just moved to. La was like absolutely. The idea seems impossible. Absolutely not like I'm not the not gonNA move to La and trying to become an actor actor like so what the Hell am I gonNA do. That's the harder part because I mean obviously dancing helps that it's financially lucrative. It's fun and then opposite of platform but even more than that. I think just being out here is A. It's kind of fascinating when you like thinking about long distance and couples who are in long distance relationships who their needs you do eventually have to be in the same city. Oh Yeah you can't it just doesn't work I mean a less at does but I don't know anyone that could just do long distance for years not not forever but you usually need that kind of booster that that reason to go and sometimes you need to feel like you're not doing it just for that person right because then you feel resentment or whatever earlier doing it you almost feel like why am I doing all of this for you and you're not doing it for me. Yeah it can get heavy heavy handed in that regard one hundred percent exactly I didn't move to La for candle handle. I moved to L. A.. Because I can on television show and the fact that Kendall was here was a plus and because of that we were able to explore a relationship and ended up really working out our go ahead Rochelle. She just seems so supportive of you during dancing of the stars to that. Oh she was great she was she went to every show like she did. Not Miss. It's a show She helped me practice like she was literally there for me the entire time she never Got Jealous. LS Or anything like that like. She was great. Ken is a very easy going. Gal She is. I don't I don't know her that well. But she's doesn't strike like me at all as a jealous person and just always varied lighthearted and and a very easy to be around person. Yes she is she. Yeah we'll see This the vibe of always effort so what's next for you guys. Are you know I mean what are you doing out here. What's where do you look forward to? I know you guys are having friendsgiving. Yarrow we have in friendsgiving tomorrow You're invited What are we doing here now? That's a good question because once you agree agree to do all these shows you basically have to quit your job and your life does Kinda get flipped upside down so now I am living in La trying to you make a living off of you know entertainment world. I guess I'm going more more along the lines of like doing foodstuff and I was lucky enough to get paid by southwest. Just do something with them I saw that. Yeah what'd you do with them I did a little food. Tour and California We did something buzzfeed recently which was pretty cool. Buzzfeed Kroger so Yeah that's kind of what I'm doing and Kendall has her podcast when it came through the podcast. It's called down to date night. She helps people right. If you like facilitates a first date. We got planner fun. Idea like a not a planner like a mediator. Immediate like a Yeah like a professional people. We'll meet on our podcast. Yeah so I yeah. It's a blind date too long as it's been going on She's about twelve episodes of what's get Rachelle. How long you want to go on? She'll she'll definitely have one hundred percent Who she doing it with herself? Oh with no but it's just her. Yes her Yup. That's great. Yeah that's and she's not doing that. She was the taxes there she was in taxes. That more of the show. Okay actually a friend used to work with with her 'cause she did like set design stuff. Yeah she collects taxidermy she do. She probably has about eight to ten pieces. But it's not like sure. Yeah but it's not like what I haven't been to your. Do you have a lot of creatures. Yeah they're around but but it's not like she has like Joseph Ernest. I love you so matter of fact it's not like she has like an operating room in our in our back room. She stuffing these animals. Like she doesn't do ooh actual taxes or does she name them they have names We have feel like they have names. We have a badger named beaver. Because I I bought her in when we were at like this taxidermy shop. And I'm like she's Geeking out with the taxidermy guy and they're going on and on. I'm like listen. Like how much for the beaver her. And they both look and they're like it's Badger. I'm like whatever. How much was the beaver? It was four hundred but I got him down the three seventy five now. These aren't cheap like there's there's taxidermy like eighteen thousand. We went to like a famous tax. The have a data animal stuffed in your place. Yeah we went to a famous one in Paris. I forget the name of it but they have like and anything and you can think of any animal. And how did Kendall get into this She's just really into zoology in botany. And you know she she. Kendall's fascinating she's she was always reading a different book. shall reno she. We'll read a book about trees like in. She actually did just read a book about trees and she loved that but she'll do that like in. Meanwhile you're watching home alone for for the owner that's funny So yeah she's just she's she loves to learn so and and you love to just keep it I really I read. I read books. Exciting omnivores dilemma. Rain onto book Michael Pollen. It's just about like what we what goes into all this food that we eat. And how talk food. Yeah and how. It's all processed and like how a lot of these like organic companies now. It's really just the same thing and like if you actually look and see what's on these packages like his rule is if you can't pronounce it you shouldn't put it in your body and the thing is like you could eat but you were talking about. Yes it's like chemical type stuff like you could eat all the ice cream you make it yourself and then you'll see how much you actually elite. You'll make the simplest meal you can make. He won't eat ice cream. What do you cook I'm I'm I'm starting to you because of this book now because Kendall likes to doesn't like to eat out all the time and I agree with that because it's a bad habit and really into food and I I enjoy cooking. So Yeah Joe. We're employing game to wrap things up stood. It's called. Do you know me. I'm more I'm more interested in this round of genome than most Li- I can't tell if he's easy to figure out are hard to figure hard. Joe Yeah he worked on the trading floor. I think that's crazy. Where did you go to college? I didn't go to college. That's insane. You didn't go to their. My cousins. Were all successful traders so Yeah I knew a couple of guys on the Chicago. It's kind of like if you're in the scene you can get in not Mafia. It's well yeah I mean it was destroyed when young each had fifteen. I was ninth Weigman. I started going down there when I was fifteen for like the summers And then I started. I got my badge when I was nineteen so clerked for a year and I started trading. Your parents sent white. Weren't like you've got to go to college. No because Mike none of my cousins that and they were like very successful like it was almost like the APP. Yeah we don't you don't need to do the like why would you like. It was crazy crazy because I was I had friends that went to the University of Illinois and I would go down there and like shots would be like fifty cents and aw and I made like six thousand dollars a day and I was like man. I kill myself like this. This this is crazy. You're making six thousand dollars a day as like a twenty one year old So my issue was I can never handle a law so so I would build up my account and then blow it in a day so I had multiple days where I lost like thirty thousand but I had October two thousand eight so I was either twenty one or twenty two hundred remember remember I told her two thousand eight For three weeks straight I made over fifty thousand a week so made like in that was like Macau. I got a lump in my mind. Like fifty five thousand fifty three thousand like fifty two thousand dollars Wolf of Austria and then and then like the next week I made like thirty five thousand and then another thirty grand the next week and then one afternoon a minute minute left on the day I lost sixty grand and then I went into work and dropped thirty and the next day I dropped in. Arthur I lost hundred twenty thousand three trading idiot. I was so like on. You look back because I don't know exactly how that works. Were you doing doing dumb stuff or was it. Just kind of the luck of the bad luck of the VAT volatility of the market I was doing them stuff so I would. It was almost like being at a blackjack table rear kind of like here here. Here's the issue. Here was my proudly. I couldn't at the time I would because we were really busy. I could be down seven thousand dollars which I was like so upset with myself for doing that but I should have been fine because the past three days. I just made thirty grand so deal with the fact that you're down seven. I couldn't couldn't deal with that so I would just keep going and do in. Just keep taking chances enchants better blackjack table where you're losing money and you're you put a you make a bad bad after bad batch you chase. It's it's honestly it's like a disease like you chasing. Gambling is like a legit disease I I. I don't gamble much but a little bit I do. I feel like I'm glad I don't. Yeah I'm glad I don't get into it because I I yes a bad vice. It's not great. You're an interesting man Joe and I feel like we're GONNA learn more says out works out. It's called do you know me okay. I'm GonNa read a question. Insert your name or selling. I guess the answer so don't answer it right away okay. We'll say joe WHO's right and you'll let us know and then if you have an anecdotal story to elaborate on your answer please share okay. You may or may not. Do you know me with Grocery Store Joe Question Number One. Has Joe ever eaten bear meat. Has Joe ever eaten. I Know Iowa's at dinner with two people who ate bear meat at where were where were you eating. I'll in Finland. I think he hasn't asked I think he hasn't I think he would. If it was on the menu he he just is not. I think Joe was at the dinner that I was at in Finland he would have tried it with the other two gentlemen and I think he's traveled to vary eating. I think Joe it'd be down for a bite of bear. I'M GONNA change. I think he has some wanted it and then ate it. I'M GONNA still say no but I think he what's the answer. Okay Nick is right. I haven't in. You are also right. I would definitely trat. I'm always down to experience New Meet Someone Gel up. Let the bear and there's A. There's deer sharpen alligator Have you ever tried any of those. I mean I've eaten Venison Yeah so by Charlene Alligator Shark feel like could I have had shirk now. I would know it no. I don't think so but I did just eat In Japan I just ate pig heart. I was Wasn't bad it wasn't but you know it's really gross. I mean a lot of people eat it but I really don't like you ever have have gizzard. I'm not GONNA trying new things not that good. Good yeah is that part of a Turkey Guillermo is it. Yeah but it's like it's like how the neck yet it's like how the food gets broken down Sound sound great. There wasn't wasn't question. Number two has joe ever had a bowl cut eh as joe ever had a bowl cut now because his hair's curly for bulk selling your. How old are you thirty three? I had of okay. Joe has had a bulk one hundred percent. The the I had I had I had a bowl cut when I wore my Charlotte Hornets Jersey of who is that Larry Joe's generation. It's definitely a and the curly hair to the matter. You weren't going to be. We're not going to be discriminated because early here. That can still do this. Absolutely won't won't flop like yours here guy but like I also they're gonNA come back you think I don't mind I'm proud of it now way in about five years you'll They're going to back the bowl cut. Yeah I could see that it's going to happen has back. Joe Ever hooked up with with someone ten years older than him. Means out there trading on the floor as young eighteen-year-old. I feel like yeah. They had to be some hot older woman at work. I'm going to answer this the same way. Or why would bear meat. No he hasn't but he definitely would if the opportunity presented itself. I think I think I have think you have these eighteen eighteen twenty eight year old. That's very possible I would say I have hell. Yeah I would say right around that mark could have been like eight or nine years saw. Aw that's yeah get it. Joe Think who won neck Rachelle getting back in the game. Has Joe ever been arrested arrested. And we're going to say handcuff not necessarily He doesn't have to have been booked so to speak where he had. There's no miss any mugshot. But has joe been detained and handcuffed by police. Yes yes yes Sameera. It happens long hours a week drinking shots and your twenty-one rules don't apply you know where you don't do something stupid. Yeah well Joe thinks he's above the law. No insurer probably some dumb. It wasn't like I was making. Ah Only made that fifty thousand a week for three weeks but either way yeah I'm still still pretty great It was it was crazy crazy. Experience was it. Alcohol Related Well I think we got. We got caught a few times just in highschool like hanging out at the park drinking like those a big thing in Chicago like the forest preserve serving the parks so that yeah is there a Mugshot of Joe. No no no. It's not well we'll see you spent some of the fifty thousand it pay for it to be taken off the Internet. Did Joe drink alcohol for the first time before the age of fifteen we distinguish that yes before age. Fifteen fifteen. Yeah I think so. Yeah I I mean not as I sip of beer ear time I got drunk. Yes first time. You've got drunk before fifteen. I was a fresh close Seattle right on so freshman fourteen. Allow it right right Levin RETU- Amanda Bet. It's auty because it's bill. Maher she looks dangerously hot and amend more instagram followers after that really as a pitcher of alka pulled that a manager of the Stanton. That's that's streak. Read right there Has Joe ever cried after a test like after he found out he got an F.. The joke so I think he's such a sweet sensitive soul. Yeah but I think Joe's more like that will get it next time yet. No no never after a test. No we're you that I don't. I don't think you're that into school. Now I was. I was very bad. That was a bad student. Like high school was not my strong suit but I went to an all boy high school and everybody just misbehave it was just like a thing I feel like yeah this the way you describe your family like it. They didn't prioritize that as much. Now now I was I was like I had like even like seventh and eighth grade like I had had the work. Oh Damn so was worked for to Nick Faldo quish always to keep score that we win or any other way. Pride as Joe Son Karaoke in the past six months. Yes I I don't. I don't like to Sing Karaoke when I go. I went to birthday party last week and it was a karaoke and also doing curiosity in La. Yeah it's not the same as people are performing. Yeah it's like everyone's like it's they're open mic. Yes and they're like really good and like really into it. I'm like you know I'm I'm good. I'm not going to saying the person who could. Why aren't you in a band? Yeah But the besides the point Someone to say you have love. Well he does sing jingle after sack so he's musical I don't think he needs the attention. He was dancing with the stars. He's got at that quota filled. He doesn't do it he doesn't get up and I don't think Joe would carry for attention. I think he would just be a team player. I'm GONNA say yes. Okay I'm going to ask a question though. Does it count if it's on my friends rooftop and that's a karaoke bar if if you can do that 'cause I don't WanNa lose this point. Well I mean I wouldn't do I wouldn't I probably wouldn't sing karaoke at a bar. I would feel uncomfortable and I just like you said like. I don't like now good like I don't need to do it. It's not GonNa make me feel better about myself so I don't feel the need to do it but I did. Sing Karaoke My friends rooftop and Chicago probably about six months ago. I'll fine sounds lovely talk. There's nothing better better than summer in Chicago. It's a really good. He's still go back a lot. We're going back Monday for a week for giving Yeah Louisville Joe. It is a pleasure talking to you. You are an enigma interesting guy but also in your I love how you define one of the most. Also your your your normal in like in a like you're not afraid to be yourself and not afraid to be normal and I think that in a weird hard way makes you a interesting in a more interesting than a lot of people they go quite enjoyed it. shall any thoughts are in original. Stand so hello. This is fun. This is enjoyable. You okay now and I'm not even going over anymore. So got that idea good idea. I'm beat it. What what do you think was the reason like just last question? Dancing with the stars was so successful for you like you went so far. Oh I will bachelor. We have a pretty big fan base on that. Show the guys kind of all leave the same week in the same way. Well he was on more episodes but we left the same in terms of like the rankings. A pretty much about this the same and I think I had a really a big Chicago vote because I have a big family and a lot of friends in Chicago and I feel like and they were all like my brother is a policeman. He had the entire station. The voting like like filling all their votes. So like because I mean like I mean I'm not like a person that volts in the grocery store Joe like name I really did you. Well you know just kind of like I mean like I mean what what is visit Joe. The plumber like what. What election was that where it was like? This guy called. Joe The mean fuck. It's such a grocery store. Joe Was the one of the greatest nicknames. That could have ever happened to me. That when I Google you yesterday prep for this show. I had to go ahead to go grocery store j before you came up up came up immediately after that but I really wanted you to go grocery store which is obviously a very common thing. I've been very impressed. If I read a type of garage your star and you would have been like number four all I had all day. Yeah it's a goal right still impressive job. I've said this to Joe. No one will ever replicate his bachelor experience and I you know I. I don't think a lot of things about what I did on the Bachelor I don't like wearing the badge of honor but I know that people are replicate. What I did and I think it's very cool that no one will ever have the same experience that you had on the show and people will try to do it doe people who go home night one John and some people will be like Oh why they go home on and they'll think they'll be able to do what you did and no one will ever do it again in that much? Sure it was such a unique run and it was pretty cool to watch. That's that's nice. It's nice to have that. Yeah it's fun. Well Joe thanks for coming on again guys. Thanks for listening guys. Hope you enjoyed this episode. Don't forget to raise US five stars Dar's if you so choose. 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A New Beginning: Guest  Michael Black

James Miller | Lifeology

28:11 min | 1 year ago

A New Beginning: Guest Michael Black

"Welcome to life. Algae I James Miller your host and a licensed psychotherapist. I'm looking forward to spending this time view as we learned some pretty amazing life lessons. Let's get started. Thank you so much for taking time out of your busy schedule to listen to the show when you're done listening. I hope you take a minute and write a quick review on whichever radio podcast platform. You've heard this show. Your insights will help others to be inspired and encouraged. I have a great show for you today. I'll teach you how each life event links to the next also be interviewing author Michael Jay Black who reviews his acclaimed book happy endings and a new beginning. This book recounts his Personal Story of abuse and the choices. He made to become the amazing person he is today. His story will inspire you and help you realize that your choices to create the foundation for tomorrow for more information about Michael. Please visit his facebook page by simply searching Michael Joseph. Black you may also purchase his book in any digital bookstore or simply go to the previous guests products in both stores at other James Miller Life. Algae DOT COM or folly. Dot TV. Thank you so much for listening to life. Algae I would love to connect with you be sure to follow me on all social media platforms under the name. James Miller life policy except for twitter. Which is James M Life? I am also very active on instagram. In Crete mini videos with quick tips and tools. That you can immediately implement. Be Sure to say hello and follow me there. If you're anything like me you'll love to read life. Algae and audible dot com have partnered to offer you an incredible opportunity audible is offering you one free book download with a Free Thirty Day trial. This is perfect for those of you. Who loved to read but often don't have time to enjoy your favorite pastime. Go to James Miller. Lie Follow Dot com forward slash audible to start your free trial. They have over a hundred and eighty thousand books from all genres. So I'm pretty confident. Your favorite authors books will be there go to James Miller followed dot com forward slash audible and start listening to your favorite book today. Once again go to James Miller lifelock dot com forward slash. Audible get started today. Your life is like a jigsaw puzzle when I was a little boy and even today. I love to do puzzles when I would open up the box and spread all the pieces out. Sometimes some of those pieces didn't make sense. It seemed as if the manufacturer have turned some random pieces. That just didn't seem like they fit anywhere and as I would work on that puzzle. I would start to see a pattern. Perhaps if they're a group of trees I could put all trees together or if there was a bridge I could connect all the pieces that looked like a bridge and has created that puzzle. Things started to make sense some of those pieces that I thought were random. Just weren't a part of the puzzle actually filled in the background or actually were pivotal pieces in that puzzle. Did you realize that your life is just like a jigsaw puzzle? It's a great analogy because each event in our life is somehow connected to another event and as that event is connected to the next event and the next event pretty soon when we look back on her past. We can see what the jigsaw puzzle looks like so as if today you are that. Jigsaw puzzle often we look at situations to think this was the worst event ever and when that happens we often allow that events to become our identity for example. I am the bankrupt person. I am the divorce person. I'm the lonely person and the person who got fired on the person who has illness when we get stuck and only focus on one of those jigsaw puzzle pieces in other words a life event. We don't take that set back to say well. My life is still going to go on. And if it's going to go on what are you with this situation in front of me. If I allow this event to become identity I then now changed. Essentially what that picture of the puzzle looks like to? Now I become that identity and events economic become a stumbling block or a stepping stone. Now there are going to be times in life when things just don't make sense it doesn't make sense when a baby dies doesn't make sense when someone is shot. Those events in our life doesn't matter how much you try and figure it out it just will never make sense to us because it's not logical so if we get stuck on trying to figure things out why things happened and there's a time and place for that but unfortunately if we spend most of our time getting stuck in why something happened. We forget that we're not being present or mindful in this moment in the more mindful. You are in this moment. The more you create the trajectory of where you want to go when you take stock of. Your Life Right now. I'm sure you're pretty amazing so there may be things in your life that you've done that you're not proud of and just like those random jigsaw puzzle pieces that seemed like they don't fit anywhere those things. You're not proud of our part of you. Everything we do. There's always a lesson so upon reflection when you look at something that is a great lesson future. Say I don't ever WanNa feel that way again or I don't ever want to do that again. But that's not who you are. It's simply a small little piece of you are so today when you take inventory of your own self esteem. She's probably a lot more going on for you. They may realize because of all the amazing choices. You've made some of the poor choices you've made and even some of the mediocre choices you've made that's made up for who you are today so the more mindful you are of the choices you make in this moment and in the next moment and the next moment you find that six months from now when you do this self inventory the probably have self developed so quickly and that's the exciting part more often. You're aware of the choices you make today the more quickly you'll accomplish goals. I have a fantastic interview with Michael Jay. Black who's going to talk about his book happy endings a new beginning. You'll see how the choices he made. Based off of his life circumstances caused him to eventually have tiffany to say. What am I doing? You'll be inspired when he hears story sustained. Are you an expert in your field or an author who wants massive exposure? I am now looking for self development experts to be a promotional guest on my folly. Currently life policy has an average listenership of over three million people per episode. If you are ready to invest in your brand and promote yourself on life Then apply today simply go to James Miller. Lie Follow Dot Com forward slash guest and apply for this opportunity. This is only for a limited time and only a select few will be chosen. So if you're ready to reach a global audience then apply today simply go to James Miller. Follow Dot com forward slash guest to apply my guest? Today is Michael J black. Who's a public speaker and the author of happy endings? And a new beginning. He recounts his personal story of abuse. And the choices. He made to become the person yesterday. History will inspire you and help you realize that your choices today create the foundation for tomorrow. Welcome my show Michael. Thank you James. I appreciate you having me on your show. I am looking forward to hearing your story when I was reading information that you sent to me. I knew that your story would really inspire listeners today so this is going to be fantastic. Show great great when you were four years old. We'll just jump right into it. You experienced a huge tragedy in your life. Why don't we start? Get some of the background information. And then we'll transition into your book. Well I to give a little bit of a back story. I was born into a single family. Households My father was M. I a He had a family of his own. At four years of age it was a pivotal time in my life in that I was touched inappropriately. Not just once but several times Over the next couple of years before my family moved to Shasta County which is just just south of the Oregon border in California so that Abuse as it was Really changed the dish. Your victory of my life. You know I I don't understand what it is growing adults. In my case a man saw in a four year old boy. And I don't think that oftentimes you know my abusers and there is more than one abuser I don't think that they take into consideration. How this is going to impact the lies child and you know I think as a result not making excuses but it's just the fact it it stirred something in me first of all. I struggled for years with guilt and still every once in my role. Revisit me with the fact that I liked it. I think that that goes into having no male role model. I enjoyed the attention. I was getting the attention for a man's hub is kinda drawn to it and it. Kinda set my life path for many years Thank you so much for sharing your story. I mean that's a talk on national radio here and to tell your story that's so brave of you and I know so many people right now. Listening to that can relate to that and it's such a tragedy but one of the things that you really talk about is what when life happens you. What do you do with from a psychological standpoint? I've worked with so many people from people who have been predators so people who have been be victims of abuse when children experience a type of sexual abuse. They don't necessarily understand the what is really happening. However when there's physical gratifications for when they're being touched that is what they understand because pleasure pleasure so there's no aspect of it that says this is okay. It's just simply when they're being physically touched. There is that aspect of it feels good so I really want to normalize that for you would for any of my listeners. Right now who may have that guilt? They enjoyed it. The truth is you would have enjoyed it. That's something that most people when they reflect on their life and they have that guilt. It is something that is very normal. And it's something that would make sense for anyone who was in that position so like I said I really want to normalize that for you. I'll say that last night I met with a female friend of mine are beyond her for years. She shared her own story of abuse. And in this evening to her she talked about how much she liked it and she had his mad passionate Affair with her schoolteacher for multiple years. But she didn't see anything wrong with it as well like my story. She also knew not to talk about it. And that's where the shame comes in through. We who have been victimized is is having a secret for many years and it's unfortunate because as a child understanding that they're not supposed to be able to talk about it from perhaps a Predator has said this to them but there is that aspect of all of a sudden growing up so fast in your brain of something's happening and I don't have words for it when it comes to developmental. Psychology Child really only understands abstract thoughts at the age of eleven. That's starts to develop so anything younger than that child doesn't understand it so they're trying to put words into situation. Trying to really conceptualize what is happening it. It really almost breaks the mind in some way and I said that very loosely because there's no context behind what's happening. Yeah absolutely derailed me. You know it's to be four five six years old and then again at ten eleven joe at the adult the age of adult bead coming in adult. It's a catapult you into at least in my world I felt like Ob- having sex so I must be an adult young age so it really robbed me in my opinion of my childhood innocence. Yeah yes it's difficult as you grew up you turn to drugs. Can you tell us more about that? Well I didn't turn to drugs in my high school years. In fact my mother would tell you. That was a great kid. It was my adult years where I gave her a run for her money I was actually nineteen when I first tried drugs and was hooked. Try to way. I was working for a local hospital. I had a really good job And for whatever reason being the follower that I guess I was I'm now more of a leader I followed the woman into a Unisex bathroom I remember. She straddled the toilet seat. Wipe the tank with her arm. Godi Little Baggy and Zion out a couple lines of methamphetamines. And she showed me how to do it. That's kind of where my addiction? Starting at the time I wasn't I don't think that anybody goes into a relationship with drugs. Wanting to become an addict took the drugs. Just Kinda grab hold and it really sent me Danner Rocky Road and you know myself included. Obviously there's more to this story than Could are good choices. Do not come out of drugs. Drugs is never a good choice and I had a fourteen year love affair with drugs and so much more. It's in. It's in the book. Thessaly one thing. I want my listeners to do as a purchase book because I know it it is going to inspire them in so many ways. What happened for you? Were you said all right the choices I'm making the right now are creating the foundation for me for tomorrow. What what happened in your life that gave you that piff. Unie didn't come really until I reached sobriety. Which at the age of thirty three became hospitalized. But it was in those years between nineteen thirty. Three that My Life Return Havoc I was in and out of a lot of beds of men and even women And in the process I contracted the virus now back in the eighties nineties. Oh Gosh we all move. We talked about the corona virus. Now but back. In the day I lived through the AIDS H. I. B. Any AIDS virus epidemic of the eighties and early nineties. I didn't get through it unscathed. In fact yeah well well in at age twenty seven right in the midst of my drug addiction. I had what I thought was a pimple on my neck ipad history of acne and Long Story Short. My boss who is a registered nurse had me go get it checked. She really recommended. I go have this. Same check. Eyewitness add chard and it was there in my doctor's office I tell people that Dr Calls you and says hey you need to come in are probably not a good. Probably not good news. It's always good to take a second set of ears because you're going to hear the worst and it was for me. I heard the doctor say from his lips to my ears. You have AIDS and you have cancer and what I heard was. You're going to die. My boss who was with me at the time. When I had that diagnosis she heard glimmers of hope. She wasn't throwing the towel but mind you. This was diagnosed in nineteen ninety two. This was before any big breakthroughs in the world of HIV and AIDS. I suddenly had this yet. Sentence based on my poor choices in life And you know I think that people can people can prevent this type of havoc in their life if they just are wise and think about their in cognizant of their choices and one thing. I always tell people as well as if you're going to make a choice. You always want to say well. How will this choice affects the next thing I do people are? Let's say they're going out with your friends. I mean this is something that many people do. They go out with their friends and they're all night well if they haven't stopped and thought through and perhaps even made the decision before they went out to say what time. I going to be home when you have to ask yourself. What is my responsibility tomorrow? If you haven't really thought that through of how going out with your friends can impact your next day. Unfortunately you'll find you'll stay out longer and longer longer than pretty soon. You're like oh my gosh. It's four in the morning. It's pretty extreme and all of a sudden you're like I have to be up at seven. Am or whatever it might be. And and so. That's one thing you know just like you're saying from a very powerful standpoint of everything that you did and the choices you made lead up to the diagnosis and diagnosis led onto other things in her life and our here many years later talking to you so that that's fantastic but from a very practical standpoint. It is important that we always ask. If I'm going to make this decision right now. How does it impact? The next thing I do and the next thing could be less before hours from now but when you think that through methodically and helps you create a more healthy productive schedule of more healthier productive life. But I'll tell you the eye of firm believer that it's staying away from those poor choices that matters when I was nineteen to thirty three. I thought nothing of. It'd be five o'clock in the morning. I had to beat a work at seven or eight among. But you know it's hard to get that message across sometimes when somebody's caught up in their diction now And to be honest with you James. I didn't even think of myself as an addict. I knew that I liked drugs. Radiated didn't recognize the fact that I needed the Jones You know and sobriety happened at thirty three. I'm one of the one of the lucky ones I guess because so many people overdose there were times. I wondered if I was going to. I am a firm believer that it's our choices that you kind of touched on it earlier. Help dictate the trajectory of our live and one horrible choice going into that bathroom. Which without even really thinking about it and doing my first line methamphetamines. A horrible twice now. I know that there's lots of people who have gathered to end drugs. Or maybe they drink. You know we just east. Don't make those I- informative choices when you're under influence them and that's one thing. I always tell people so to perhaps to use the concept of what's healthiest for me. We understand what's healthy then? That kind of takes away from good or bad because tomorrow. I may have say a lot more energy tomorrow at the moment. I have a little bit of allergies and so tomorrow. I know that I'm going to feel so much better. Have a lot more energy so today I have to look at what is my strength level or my energy level today and with that energy level. What's the healthiest choice? That I can make right this second and tomorrow it might be different and might be even more healthy choice and so we always have to ask ourselves with the strength in with the mindset and with what's right in front of me what does the healthier choice or healthiest choice for me right now for me as well. I want to say that I since Ritchie Sobriety at thirty three and congratulations. I want that your listeners know that sobriety is often very difficult to attain. When you're trying to become sober in the town in which she became the ad in. I'm I was able to do it but I can find myself. I made a choice to confine myself to our house and stay there until like strong enough. Yes I went out periodically not saying that I did go out. Mindful of your surroundings. Yeah well as well. I started writing things down. I think sometimes when you write out your day this is what Amir Noiman go from point. A. To Point B. Two point Cedar Point d district checking them off your more mindful of the choices making. Maybe I don't need to do this or or you may be going back. Abe's going to lead me down a path or be around somebody that I don't like which is going to trigger something in me so you know I think that sometimes riding out your what you have planned for the day or the year. Whatever your your goal is how she be a little more mindful of the choices that you make. I really liked that. Just even the concept of. Let's look at the you know. People want to break it down to the smallest components you can say. Let's look at this next hour or I like what you did. As far as really mapping out your twenty four hours because there's no blind spots because if we don't have structure or don't have a way to really be mindful of where we're GONNA go what we're GONNA do that. Unfortunately it's easy for us to revert back to the previous choices. We made before because we done it for so long. So our subconscious say. It's okay if I go over here over there. And then there's a part of you perhaps even the addicts out of you. Oh maybe I could run into someone. And so that whole thing is where it's so important as you map out your day to really schedule those aspects of. I'm going to do this. This this and sticking to that allows a person to be much more successful. Somebody like myself. I recognize that I have addictive. I have what they call an addictive personality. I can ease. I've been addicted to Pepsi. Been Addicted to drugs guy. Add the in. I've been addicted to Gum You know it happened so I think that if your more mindful of a first off your attic your actions you know admit the journet and and admit that. Maybe this isn't the right choice. This would be a better choice so really my book just circles around talks a lot about choice And the choices that we make. I think even the individuals who aren't addicts. You don't have your particular background or story. They can relate with it because this is a story that we know someone who's gone through something or maybe life is a little less. We haven't experiences much but we still always make a choice like right. This second people. You're listening right now to this show and then you made a choice so often forget that if we allow ourselves to go on autopilot we do the same things you've always done over and over and over again so when we slow everything down and ask yourself. Why am I doing this show now? Why am I upset this right now? Why am I making this face? Why am I sitting like this when we have that opportunity to slow down and just ask yourself why am I doing this then? Opens up the dialogue and our brain to say. Oh well maybe I can do something different. And we're more mindful of what we can do different. We'll find that that trajectory that that he was talking about starts to change and while it starts to change. Start to find being much more successful in life plugging are also enduring research. With writing a book I learned that the average adult. Un me in the audience makes upward of thirty five thousand choices. Every many of which. You're just habitual. Just go through the motions. Thirty five thousand seemed like a lot to me so I started kind of countenance wasn't doing thirty five thirty five thousand of them but I have to make a choice whether or not I want to get out at bed in the morning to make make a choice in the world. You're you're welcome at can make a choice whether or not I wanNA get dressed Act To make a choice whether or when you know your your choices. Add Up fast and I find that so many of us myself included. We just moved through them without even thinking about times. We're thinking about things we can really they just down the wrong path on autopilot like that once again. We find that when we had our moment. Roy Whoa how did I even get here? Yeah so you know this book. It wasn't written to addicts it's not written to. It's not written to people who are out of beds is not written to the youth stock written to old people. What it's written to is not just people specifically it's written for written for everybody just to become a little more cognizant and there's a lot of lot of stories in the book around choice. Just think about your choices as they. They matter out very quickly ten. Sir. Yes Sir I would like to tell people is we're all self made. Sometimes we focus on whom we think are the most successful people like. Oh that's a self made billionaire which is true but when we use that same concept for ourselves we are self made and then you fill in the blank because our right this second determined the choice tomorrow on choices for tomorrow the Foundation for Our Future. Yes sir that's correct. That's correct looking at your book happy endings and a new beginning. Tell us some of the reviews that you've received for well. Let me let me say that. I've heard from numerous people which is very I guess rewarding for me. I. I can't tell you the amount of people who have come up to me Not any men. One reason I wrote the book is BS. I find that men don't talk about sexual abuse. Women are a little more apt to discuss it. And I've had women come up to me and say you know I was sexually abused and I've never told anybody about it so I think that not expecting that everybody go out and write. A book can be so opening free about it but for me being open about my past not just the abuse has helped tra- free me the shame that I lived in for so long. Well I think it's great hearing that people are coming up and talking to you and you're you're creating a dialogue or allowing people to say. Wow Michael went through this. Since since he went through this he found his voice. So now I'm I'm able to tell other people that perhaps hell you tell someone close them. Yes I've found my voice. I've experienced this as well. So that's a wonderful thing that you're getting these types of reviews or these types of individuals who are you are part of their healing. It's I don't know it's just what's worked for me. No I lived in shame. It was a shameful past Gen ed. The abuse itself was very shameful in that I knew not to talk about and and really through all of it at down my voice and and One encourage other people whether you've walked the same path that I've walked the walk. Different paths to find your voice inside to be able to live in the light of your own freedom so Yeah I hope that people pick up my book. It's it's you know I'm not not that I'm looking to become the next Jack Canfield with for this. Well you never know what Michael it has been absolute pleasure having you on my show. Today I cannot believe the time just flew by if my listeners. Like to find out more information about you perhaps hire you for speaking engagements or to purchase your book. Where are they find this information online? The best place to find me on facebook. I'm more of a facebook social media person than I am the others though I am on the other a instagram and Twitter but under Michael Jay Black or Michael Joseph Back You can find me. Dare you can private message me. I've got an open line there But picked up the book they can pick up the book at any Barnes and Noble. If it's not in the store you can ask that the counter again happy endings and a new beginning however I do want to say it's been Amazon for a bit and you can get a real good deal on Amazon. Dot Com wonderful. My listeners. Also know that if they're not able to find your book while more time happy endings and a new beginning. They may simply go to both stores. In the previous guests products at other James Miller life dot com or DOT TV and it will connect them with Amazon. Michael Jay Black. Thank you so much for being a fantastic estimates that I really appreciate your time. Thank you James. I really appreciate you. Give me the opportunity to share. I also want to thank you my listeners. For Tuning in today please subscribe to this radio. Show through whichever portal. Join me today. Also please go to my website where you may sign up for the free weekly Recap Watch. My Youtube episodes read the articles written specifically for you. Purchase my previous guests self-help products. 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The Next President: Yeezy VS. Trump - IMPAULSIVE EP. 199

Impaulsive with Logan Paul

1:16:02 hr | 1 year ago

The Next President: Yeezy VS. Trump - IMPAULSIVE EP. 199

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Have your finger on that button? Why are you doing this? Is You. Ahead. Man It's. It's probably not we rolling. That makes me nervous. 'cause here knows about anything. We have a podcast in a month at least. This job. We work here. Is this the look I? Should go for on the return episode one ninety nine episode one ninety nine. And I understand. I like I like a lot. Welcome back to. The number one podcast in the world. I think I don't even know what this is anymore. Show feels like we've been gone for ages mostly because we did take the last week off. Kind of just focus on ourselves, but we all split up for Fourth of July weekend. You went back to Ohio incredible. What it's a surprise man. To know that okay sorry. You. What did you do you to Chicago? You went to I went. You gave you. AUDIE! Well well. Here's the deal guys on seeking. I Yeah I bought my mom A. Certified pre-owned. Audi Q. Five was what she wanted black on black and Dude I. Fell into a little bit of dull lately, a little bit more than than usual and. Shifts been great and you have been great and everything's great and I said you know what my mom. Ivan bought anything since I got to the city. You know that by myself. A car haven't even born. He calls a more that one bag the Louis bag I said. My mom needs a new car, and so she goes on this annual vacation every year to Cape Cod. And she was like we were coming. Agape God fuck. It flew in New York and I drove that car up. There put a bow on it and I snuck in the restaurant is surprise her there and I was like but more surprised to you and I took her outside. And somewhat fucker still still blocking fucking. Run, your fucking ass. Hey, whoever still have oh, whoever sold that bow? You made me work on my vacation because I had a photo shop a bow onto. I did a great job. Great Job Mike was so nitpicky though he was like. You could see the lights through the. OFF It's not the first time you had photoshop something in a photo for team maverick never four years ago. We had a I did a special wet. Gillett had. Not were asked Photoshop job ever and the things so disproportionate. There's no shadows the worst thing I've ever done it work. You'RE GONNA save your friend's ASS. Are Is fuck as you'd be surprised people with the Internet how many times I may or may not have come to the rescue. It's also. How good that feels giving your mom credible so so that hits different. I remember the first time I got my dad. That He returned telling me about other things with money that I got for him no problem. Greg, but when I did it again, this is odd. You pretty involved in our lives. You help out immensely. But. Hits different being able and I've said this before being able to providing give something to the person who provided you with everything and made you you. That's a different type of gift giving on that level, and I saw a good old rob, and she was crying easily the most and you know my most liked video i. think people really resonate with that idea of. Giving back to exactly what you just said to the people that gave you so much. It felt incredible, but now she's. Euros a double edged sword. But again I think she had gotten used to the fact that her son was not around, and now she's like, and it's sad for me at when I go see family. It's always great to see them, but it actually taught me a little bit this time to leave because. Of this pandemic, not knowing when you're going to see him again and it's. It was nice enough, but it's always. It's always tough to then leave, but great trip Chicago's well done a foodstuff all going to be on the night shift, Portillo's hot dogs finally brought Amara to try new haven pizza, and then she heard about that best pizza in the world. It's actually all Mike Era Talks about. Connecticut has the best teams in the World Food in general, he's switching over to become a food blogger I, believe. He's good at it. So, that was cool, what did you? How'd you do you were at? Vegas. Vegas gambled lost it all as usual you all. Up at all at any point was Boston immediately thereafter kids. If you're watching this when you get up, just walk set a number. Be Okay with walking away. Even the even if the table still little Ha, I always say this. If you get up loose two hands, it doesn't matter how much bad on him loose ends and then walk away from the table. As soon as the table starts to get, a little chilly got gotta walk. I'll say this because we said on the show before they don't gamble. But I'll amend that a little bit. If you're going to gamble because it is fun, it's it's. It's a good way to pass the time especially in Las Vegas gambling with your friends. If you're going to gamble, take the money that you were GonNa Gamble with and count out. You'RE NOT GONNA win. The pretend threw it off a balcony and you're just. You're giving away free money. That's that's essentially what it is so when I go there with a certain amount of money I pretty much plan on losing and I go. Okay, this is this is for fun. This is where the experience like Vegas. You got me again this time, but again as long as you keep playing. We once again are assuming that people can understand sarcasm. He's Sergey Sarcasm. Like attitude for gambling for you would be once you take that W. The first one just run away from the table. Because it's clearly your history is not been so. When any amount of! Hundred! Bucks Wall, you're doing better. Overall Vegas was great. It was interesting. The the club procedure the protocol. You talked about it because of corona but. They check your temperature. They make you wait a little like selective holy. Yeah, they swabbed. You gotTa wear your masks through and through. And it's just interesting to try to wrap my head around the new normal. You know I often wonder when when it'll be over and more importantly, how like even just logistically? What does the end of this look like? Is it a cure that is? Finally they discover. A cure that it's slowly rolled out over the next because it's not gonNA. Be Quick a vaccine three or four years. Questions seriously. Is it going to slowly die out, and then we move onto the next one? It's just so weird. I mean no one. No one knows like so many so much unknown about this particular virus, in which has caused the biggest problems for right like like even with the thing with our current president. Wanting to start to send kids back to school. Of course, we want the school street, and of course we want kids to learn and education, which is a massive provider of income for teachers and. Knowledge for students to go back in, but people are saying listen like the mortality rate at that age is so low Which is true, which is true, but first of all any mortality in a child is unacceptable or any person. It's really hard to make that call and say okay. Let's let's send them back, but more importantly. I don't know that there's enough knowledge of what this virus does to your system after. Out of your system long term, we've heard a lot that we've heard a lot of people who've. Liver is not been the same. Since I had krona virus. My taste never came back. We it's a new virus, and so just saying all thought that. Johnny's not going to die at school. Yeah, he might not, but he might not be able to comment fucking seven years. Who knows shit leadership I also read the headline. The fucking I can't believe I'm saying the black plague. A little resurgence somewhere. Like Mongolia like you're absolutely right Mongolian plague. Are You fucking kidding? It's just what else can we have twenty, do we not? Do we not outgrow the bubonic plague that thing's nasty to. Evidently they said it has absolutely no chance of. Plus people kill back in the day. We That one figure it out, so they weren't as worried about it but I. You turn black. Your body turns black. It's you know knew right from wrong. I'm not interested. There's also a lot of. Trauma absolutely couldn't talk about while we were gone, but man we got. We got ta talk as shown a particular case houses. Do, six nine and everyone who knows who knows guys. Will Smith. And Jada and the entanglement, which was interesting key Lane Maxwell Oh God. There's too much unpack here. We go, so I mean the Gillian. Maxwell, thing is our corner so. I want to address her as this because I see people like calling Jeffrey Epstein like billionaire Jeffrey Epstein, and like I think it's lane may not. Because if I started a porn place. Headquarter on Jay's lane. Where do you live I WANNA call? This I want to call her. Pedophile, Maxwell and pedophile. Hold on. We cleared a call okay. Enough, have you seen the documentary? Have you read? The research is the photographs? For who said Prince Prince? Whose apprentice wasn't a photo with a? Word I figure. We figure it was so. She has her she's so. She gets popped Prince. Andrew Prints Angeles. So, she gets arrested and within. Two days. There is a hold on with that, but there's a fear that she may try to kill herself I go here we go. It's starting already, Dude! They're already setting up the pieces to accidently find this woman and it brings us. It starts to teeter on the. All that Shit with people that I won't mention on the show and what they talk about the pizza, and and more importantly to see the new one. West Way Fair Fair wayfair hours. Okay so they so. They find these cabinets on the wayfair website that are like eighteen thousand our cabinets, which which who knows it could have been a fucking glitch in the system. These cabinets are too expensive and then they find out that. The. Cabinets are named after missing children. Okay. which which on the surface? Is Frightening on the service and wanted to make like a cool movie about it for Shits and gigs, whatever but I'm Gonna I'm GonNa. Say Sign Crazy right now, and you ain't GonNa, fuck and believe this and they're gonNA have to combat it with. If you, look up any name of any product in the world I. Assure you. There's a missing child out their name. Same thing I assure you that much. There's miss. There's millions of missing children. If someone names a cabinet, the CODA. I think there's a kid named Koda Missing in some, there's more story. I think eight hundred thousand kids per year. That's what I'm saying. So like and so then automatically like wayfarer is. Tied in with Epstein Hillary Clinton Bill Gates's fucking. They sell cabinets, or is it like a furniture store to furniture? Can anyone post on it though? because. There's like stuff on Amazon now, too, but if you're like a, you're seller, it's not Amazon that's doing. It would just be the people that are using that website. Response to sex trafficking conspiracy theory of. Human names hope they made a joke that turned into a Joe. No, please, you cannot. As, a fucking joke these. fucking bullshit, Dude, you saying. This is one hundred percent fabricated this. Bro Let me. Ask You a question really quickly. They said there is no truth to these claims. For Shit in your mind of minds, if a if a multi-billion dollar corporation was going to sell children. Sell children at all or get involved in that game. Do you think they would sell them online inside of cabinets? The goods to step back. Let's just step back for a second year. Okay sounds sounds done. We're going to retail children inside cabinets on an e COM website. Yeah, DUDE! I would add is going to happen. So that's that is of all this. That is the are of Pizza Gate comet. Pizza, the Clintons, having a human flesh trafficking ring with Tom Hanks. Tom Hanks thanks. Tom Watson nicest pilots I've ever seen. He's played so many. Move Pilots Right? Hobby fucking. Say so so let's listen I dig into this year. I dig it because it excites me, but at the end of the day it's all about the what if factor people are bored? People are sitting at home and the board. What's more exciting than than sitting at home? Being bored making up stories about pedophilia that gets people's rocks off brought. Look at look at this shit. The spokeswoman said the products in question are industrial grade cabinets that are accurately priced, but yeah weird names like your Ritze, not weird names, but for a cabinet. Maybe some some. Five shelf storage cabinet, which is the same name as these teams that went missing it's. No but like. Tom Hanks thing which is a big thing, because even his son Chat. Who Know Gets Shit for it the. Time you on this comments? It's just coming for you. You've been flagged and. We'll chat deals with trying to chat Charles Dog, trolls and horror shows. But top Tom's Tom's get these comments that are like Yo like we know you're dead like there's conspiracy that him and his wife were actually dead didn't understand politics. I. Don't pay that much attention to it. Oh, there was apparition or they're stuck in like a FEMA Cameron I. Don't Fuck No dude, listen. And but I think Tom kind of intelligently trolls them, too, because he post pictures of missing socks on his instagram. Tom Hanks now. pull up. pull up so in a way. In a way, he's either trolling or he as putting kids in cabinets incitement. You have going on your life. Do you have late at night late at night? How is that like before or after your cheese raid struck? Scroll down bags pass. We. Be. Going down now watch socks. I missing sock shut up. He takes pictures missing socks. TROLL! He's he's trolling, or is he really selling cabinet? Kids Roche I. Love. Keep going look missing Sandal. Why did he posts that? Like how like in a way so in a way? I. Wasn't Monday. I don't. Call it quits. Keep going. So it's like Y'all are they wrong? Why Would he do that round? Child's pacify. In the mental. Well, there's pizzas. He's trying to give you the the signs of where the person is taken. Lady. Maybe he's an undercover vigilante. Dude this. Pizza really come with human flesh on. All pepperoni human flesh because that's what they say. Man This is tricky. But yet fuck you delay Maxwell that's Fox. I hope you get. What you deserve, so you're going to say. I hate her watch. The Scene Documentary I. It also made me lose so much faith in the criminal justice system, and again in this country I it pisses you off, and that's why I went on that rant that one episode the black lives matter because like. I just give that up when I see and hear this shit and it was one of the things. I cannot believe the irresponsibility of some of. Our elected authorities charge what the fuck that raises the question that we do. We elect a president. All right so go! That's another one and also. I should put this on before we table is completely. Some of this stuff like what you're saying right now is absolute. True are corporations in this country and elected officials involved in terrible things where they're taking money to push the agendas corporations. Yes, but the, but the question is. Where does the sane person draw the line and say okay yes? Do you think Bill Clinton or trump, or whoever has taken money to push for their own agenda in Korea or China or whatever to make more money, yes, do I think Tom Hanks is selling children and cabin. No, like where do you stop right now? Cloth is the big and it's by person I don't I. Don't believe any shit to me. It's I. DO enjoy watching it. But I don't enjoy the fact that so many people have gotten involved in. That scares me to that narrative yet. Yeah, it's weird. That also makes me lose faith in humanity. People just want to latch onto shit like you I mean. People just bored and wanted to believe something it's it's. It's sort of like the same. A phenomenon are compared to the flat Earth Movement like obviously. Know You fucking morons. Gives you something. Gives you something to do a little bit of perpetrators? You're a part of a group of circle like you're. Active right that gives you purpose nine nine Oh something you think no one else knows. Shut the fuck up. They do bowling on Tuesday nights. Be a part of that. GO GO BULL! Cycling. Do a pizza eating contest. Maybe not pizza. Don't do A. Contest unless you want to sell kids and cabinets. Cancelled now so look. Is running for president. For Real for real, yes. That's the way you just said that was incorrect. No, that's his campaign slogan. Yes, he's campaign slogans. Yeah, no, it's yes see. If I was president. I. Don't think I need a slogan money into Logan while your credit. Local Paul who knows but listen I'm doing. The country is in desperate need. Of Sound leadership. and. I think that's why I'm going to be running for President in twenty thirty two not yet, but I'll be there we. We know. I read something about the you thing and it sort of scared me a little bit. We'll. So if he's really running for president. Who Thinks GonNa vote for Ya. Yes, millennials, no, by Biden, fucking voters, people who would both provide the. Reason why it gets messy. That's where it gets TV. Shows of KANU with trump I visit the office. He wore the Maga hat he's he's. He's was on the trump wave. At one point is life, and if he runs for president and takes away votes from Biden. That would essentially be voting for trump. You remember the Harambee right in for the last election. You were able to write people writing Harambee into the. into the vote. Trying to think of the right way to phrase can't unfortunately but a lot, but but a lot more would do it for you. Okay, and so and so and so well. The entire idea of him even saying. Is absolutely the dumbest Shit I've liked Barbara Haycock. I hate it. I hate it so much is indicative completely of where he like of where we've come to a country that people care enough. About that to actually chance chance, the rapper today came out and basically was a Peruvian supporting them. Which? What don't you like his? Here's what I don't like. Here's what I don't like. When something happens, that's a joke. We used to laugh at it. It used to be Oh, Kanye. West is running for president. We would all have a laugh, and then we will get back to business as usual unfortunately, because of how. Stupid this country currently is in what we believe, which is that the dumbest shit is possible to happen, which is people latch onto the idea and starts to distract from the real situation, which is, we have two candidates or Kanye West? I did this with trump I did this with trump and I lost and I'm GonNa do it again. Kanye West will never be the president of the United States of America. I can make that that bluntly. I hate saying that because it scares me to say, but I don't know that word anymore, though never. I try to write because it HAP-. It did happen with trump I thought it was a joke. You're right. Like, many people I was like trump, donald trump okay. Donald from the apprentice is running for President United States. No chance I would have bet my life. He wouldn't have been elected as president a businessman who has been. or at least as thought on the businessman is. A great. It's a great point a great point. I don't know what the reasoning is a rapper like okay so once again. Where do you know he's more than a rapper? Though once again, where do you draw? The line is my question. Can can it be at this point can? Here's my question. Who who someone that's over thirty five has more clout in Kanu there's gotta be somebody. There's gotta be somebody who. SNOOT now snoop Dogg. No, not but at what point do you start to look at this person? Be Like Okay Jay Z. for example another businessman like what if he throws his hat in the ring? What if non-serbs hat in the ring at what if what if Adam twenty two says I'm Gonna I'm GonNa be like. At what point do you start to say? y'All. Can we focus on the people that can actually be the best what America was about? The anyone could grow up to be whatever they wanted to be like. If someone throws her hat in the ring to be president of the United States okay to. Possibly consider their chance at the title, so we only know what we know. I'm here for Connie announcing that he's running for President I'm here for it. It's exciting. It's maybe kind of funny. I'm not sure exactly what to make of it yet. Again his actions will determine what his true intention is. If he's doing like proper campaign, speeches and debates and learning about the country, and what it needs and having a campaign manager with a plan. Maybe he is from what I understand. He first of all. He cannot even run because he missed the the. Ver- number. But so listen let let's let's all be honest with each other sitting right here on the podcast right now before this gets out of Control Kanye, West is not going to win the election twenty twenty. It's not gonNA happen I'd say it's super. Unlikely, but, I can't is not gonNA. It's not gonNA happen. Hundred hundred percent guarantee not gonNA happen so if you're watching the show right now, and you're thinking to yourself. I'm GonNa vote for Kanye West. Man Like his intro or is his. The skits in that Song My dad went to college man nevertheless. I'm going to vote for Conde. Man, he's GonNa fuck in turn this country and all rappers man. We're GONNA fucking again. You know that he's not just rapper like okay that is to. He's ninety describing everything. He's done in the past ten years, which has built a multi well. What would you call if I would call him? In entrepreneurial mastermind artists so in Mike? He's spewing sentence and he's using a word to describe German, but it's just like no. Point eight just like prime like I'm primarily a youtuber. Right, I do A. She's not he would just be. Naive artists not reducing any west of just being a rapper, but just for the sake of what he's. Into a lot of people has a negative connotation because. So did Reality Star Ashley. Donald Trump became president donald. Trump was also a business magnate, but it depends what you call a y, y. you knew him from jerk I me like yeah, he's a business magnate I'd knobby still say that guy from the apprentice wouldn't be like. Because I'm lineal Yeah, but that would also discredit a lot of stuff he did, but that's not the intention of what might say. Here's here's my problem. Here's my issue, all of it and with anybody throwing their hat in the ring. The president of the United. States is not supposed to be a popularity contest. It's not supposed to be a contest of you'll we talk with that dude's music and he's bitch. A fuck with shoes. Bitch! If that's what the be about that, let me ask. You is precisely right now. What policy of Connie's do you like best? Now, he actually had an interesting Forbes article that came out and they did a four hour interview. Definitely, he got slammed. Thing yeah they. Vaccines like what do you like? What do I like about it? I like his ability to speak the truth in the face of whoever has ever come at him like we've seen him multiple time time and time again, just thrown under the bus when Kanye West is going on to be the greatest artists of all time doing this doing that I'm GonNa. Do this resilience resilience as far as policy he's. He hasn't really said much okay. But there is still time I'm not I agree that he might not make it as this year. That would be ridiculous, but someone that wants to eventually be president. The United States needs to practice their campaign Donald. Trump got lucky on his first one joe. Biden's been running for president for a long time now, right? Well. No, this is his first official wrong. Because Hillary the last time, so this is official, but but but but he was still in candidacy. For the party yeah. COULD BE I could be wrong, but. Somewhere, yes, start somewhere and eventually along that line. You build up your policy to become a candidate for the president. To start somewhere what I'm getting at is this. In the past. The policy of a person that's going to run for president. Has always been based on the policies. They've held before that role in offices. You I did this for this city I help fix the infrastructure in this place I. Helped get more rights for Hispanics in this city. It's always been based on. What were you able to do in Senate? What were you able to do? Is the government. What were you able to do in House of Representatives? Was Ronald Reagan and not at all I I. Don't know Ronald, Reagan's portfolio prior to presidency but sumptuous. He had some sort of credit to his name. At. What point did we get to be a country? Where someone was just like Yo that a dark twisted beautiful fantasy was a dope album that I say that right my beautiful. My beautiful dark twisted fantasy was a dope album. This dude can fix the water problem in flint. Michigan beliefs. Please how the fuck did that. That didn't actually. I think you're skipping a lot of things to make apply to. Discredit. Because listen, it's liked running for president without establishing a record of policy is like call is like saying I. Am the best rapper live or the best. I'm the best candidate to be called best rapper live yet. I have no songs yet. I. Question question no song if he does build up record of policy over the next four to eight years. Would you start being open to the idea of yes, and that's just. About Conde. It's about our current climate of being cool with the idea of somebody just because they're a cool person or you like the fact that they did billion dollar businesses being the president of this country that is not a a billion dollar business being able to brand, a cool company, being a great rapper, those are not prerequisites or acceptable experiences for president of the United States as we are seeing right fucking now. You? Listeners. But like your your knowledge in Connie's Brilliance, absolute corks, his ability to jump verticals, yes, and do everything incredibly right, so if this what I'm saying if if he really devoted his life. To. The political climate over the next decade. Maybe Michael here would be absolutely more opening. Yeah, open to the idea of Connie being president right now, and we already just said it like he's not going to be. The twenty president of United States of America is not going to get elected now. He's not an and I also think it is dangerous that. He's doing what he's doing because it is distracting people from the mission of hand. The people who are GONNA. Vote for for for for Joe Biden. For Kanye West and we don't know that now we don't. We don't know tactic because the say that anyone that would vote for A. Trying to say anyone that would vote for. It would be a democrat. He's already said you run as a Republican. If Donald Trump was running. Right which is impossible so me taking? From Donald Trump. You can't just say that's your destroying Joe. Biden I can rule. Stalking selectively about the millennials here which are I would bet still a minority of the population. I have no idea now. You'RE GONNA vote for Donald Trump. What do millennials? Let's hold on, let's. That's what we're here to do. Is You go? Hey, you guys registered to vote yet very easy. I'm pretty sure you can do it online. We did a mail in ballot. 'cause Coburg. Something like that. Yeah, well, let's let's take by quick. Let's take a quick step back from getting into the demographics specifics of it. The the if Connie would shift the black vote. Which is democratic. Vote like that's just a statistic. You can't say that no, it is, it is. You can't say that there's there's there's. Whole, that's not. Completely going for to bore the whole Maga hat so that he could just say that he is like it's okay to not be a Democrat and be fair, but let me just tell you this really quick. Just because we sit here, talking about how is influential on a genius I assure you. The black community as a whole does not look at Kanye. West is that he's not when he says what he says. It's okay to be Republican I. Would assure you. Seventy percent of the black community says while the fuck, my listening to this strange man, who does these strange things? Tell me about fucking play. It happened it happened. He was in office with Donald. Trump wearing the hat. Yeah, black twitter exploded black twitter exploded I. mean a keep in mind. The big thing remember here is. When when there is a viral tweet that go that go something that goes on twitter. This is this goes all the way back to cancel culture and everything we talk about the bubble. It's a bubble. It's not in any way representative of the thought process of the rest of this country waiters. Not Country, but it is amish. You can't ignore it. Take Note, take note of the of even if it is just on twitter like it is, it is a large voice large voice. Yes, blasts trump always talks about the silent majority and I hate to to kind of quote him on this, but unfortunately he's he's very right like I'm talking like ninety eight like you can't. Ends on twitter and be like Oh. That's applicable to the rest. The cuts, not okay. It's not just not saying so we all of us in La here. We're like Bro. Connie, crush the branding and all that stuff. We love condit. We'd love his albums by bump. That shit all the fucking time. I love no more parties in L. H. When my favorite fucking songs, but from a political standpoint. What I feel good about Conde West meeting with fucking the superior being of China or or and doing discussions about trade and war and Kanye West Way and Kanye West who who made the Conde West. Mix tape get right for the summer. Having having what's up. He. All all those things greatest songs would feel comfortable with him. Being like yeah, I made a dope album and I got my finger on the nuclear button. No question question no say he does. Though so he said he his a legitimate candidate. Right now you can choose you. Mike may like. You have the power to choose the president of these. United States. You Choose Kanye West Donald Trump have those discussions. Have your finger on that button. Why are you doing this? To. I. Know. You've been very vocal about. Stuff pick your pick your poison Mike. Who is it Connie or Donald Trump. Kim Jong Ok. Okay, so I haven't been quoted in the past saying I would vote a toaster oven over trump. I've said it before setting before okay. He listened whether or not you like his policies whether you like where he's pushing the country economy soar and I got an extra hundred twenty bucks in my pocket this week whether you like better knock. You got the extra buck on. The dude has no idea what he's doing from a foreign policy standpoint. He's he's. He's breaking relationships with our allies like it's just A. It's a disaster, the coronavirus response. These are things that everybody's lined on I'm not I'm not being biased. Everybody's aligned that we've failed in massive ways under this presidency, right? But do I think that the guy that I bump? Or used to bump when our sipping on a Red Solo Cup show on a fucking Hammock, smoking, a blunt and he was the go-to Guy for my days back on the scene. Would do a better job in negotiating business deals. I don't think so I. Can have a good cabinet around him. Who would it be chance? The rapper fucking Jay and like what's his cabinet going? Do He's a leader of industry. He's literally one of the top people in the way Sri the fashion industry. Eggs Hi Bala saying. We know. Now in multi-billionaire based on net worth you have access to a lot of very interesting people that might not be accessible to someone who's just the Joe Schmo. Question if you're the if you're the. Head of defense I'm not sure if you were the head of defense like I clocked out, I was. Really, thinking about Kanye. West says the president. That's fine, but this is what I'm saying if you if you have the ability to be at this. These weird strange tables with people who are. Multi billionaires or have access to people who are policymakers and all all of the Washington DC type people. You can build a good cabinet MAC. If we're GONNA HANG ON. Don't know if the plan is. The plan ahead of him, being elected is already to find a way to. Him with good people because he does not know what the Hawk he's doing. Does that seem like good start? Maybe maybe maybe no, maybe I'm making an argument that one can be president of the United States if they take the time, spend their lives working on the greater vanity, and what I'm seeing from this man in particular is that he's done a very good job at putting himself in a very influential place building, strong businesses around himself, turning it into an American based business, and could potentially put very intelligent people around him. That could help him. Make policies, and you know when you go to war, you'd never just going alone. Is the head Honcho? You bring your generals and you bring your. House, those people points. All those people do points the Supreme Court, the justices like Bro. What is he going to do? Create the hardest motherfucker act like maybe you're gonNA. Go and just go hamco do this. Dude is I? Love the idea of him going from rap to shoes and I listen I want a black man. I don't want to block them. I don't WanNa. Stand here and be that fucking dude and I can't. He's fucking eighty billion times bigger like what the fuck, but at the same time. Why are we doing this? Why are we sitting here having a conversation? That is so ridiculous recurrently, ilise said in this current election year. Why aren't we talking about policy? Why aren't we talking about the issues that fucking matter Baio Allen. Sanford too long facts. You're still listening. We love you. But yeah, I hope I hope maybe you gain something from that conversation. Politics politics are tricky. A lot of opinions, everyone's got one and some people down there. It's on there, but what does the saying? Opinion on your. Own. Everyone's gotTa Butthole Yeah Most. People most times they say. Well I'm sure there's somebody out. There doesn't have an Asshole, but I'm not going to. pissed off, too. Many marginalize groups don't even go there. So. I went to the ranchers past weekend. Love it. They're great great, thank you, yeah! Found that Mountain Lake Secluded Mountain Lake that someone manmade built dammed up on the top of the mountain. How many times did the P in that to make? Probably didn't use your. Although I did read a comment. Someone commented that they've they've Pete. In that Lake so many times it's in the San Jacinto Mountains and they. Poked a hole in a tube at the bottom of it. Should we go find out fucking though, but I brought three members of the Maverick Club. Up this week. Yeah, so so we're really doing this thing. Dude like we're really trying to create and curate awesome experiences for our members and Ryan Spencer and Quinn Ryan was the member and we drove from Chicago and I was like fuck. It dude like come say what's up. Tim Flock will go to the ranch. I let him jump me in the razor. We want these hikes. We survive the Wrath Greg Paul. Who's all good stuff? But off camera. It wasn't all sunshine. We had. An issue with the one kid Quin one night. And Mind you. The ranchers in the middle of fucking nowhere. The nearest hospital is not near. It's real far away. There's a four mile road that you have to traverse. Is the where I use to to get anyone in and out and. It's not ideal. If things go wrong I'll put it like that. We, have we. A lot of things, first-aid kits and Remedies. Literal Amber Ambulance my dad's drives, but One of the kids Quinn, he's over trash. Can reading a hot pocket box or generic hot pocket box late at night? Doing their man count calories. Right just make some small talk and. He's like. No. No. Throats, closing that was like. What do you mean? He goes. I'm allergic to things. Like fucking with me broke. Who Need to handle this immediately? He goes yeah by. Earl. Holy. House disperses. It's like one am. We're all looking for Benadryl? We don't have gone. There's no way percent why because you tried. Logging bedbug bites sometime, no Benadryl. Needless to say now we're stocking the fuck up Benadryl, but we're running around. Give Him Claritin. Advil were checking every I there and. It was terrifying 'cause. Here's this. Here's this kid who brought out here to have a great experience. You know and he's slowly dying. And his and his is closing up, so I sit him down. I get him out of the commotion. Like here's what you need to do because we have no Benadryl. We're going to take you to the hospital right now immediately right now. Or you're going to have to just close your eyes. Focus on your breathing in through the nose and out through the mouth, and let this wave pass I can imagine the pain and discomfort. You're going through, but unfortunately. We have two options like we have two options. You wait this out or taking the hospital right now and I. Don't know how far, but we're going. Because I'll get you there. Give me the fucking word I. Don't give a Shit I'll eight. It is I'M GONNA. Get you to that hospital. And the kids sat outside in the Hammock I gave him. I gave him the megaphone speaker and a flashlight and I was like. If anything goes wrong, hit this button. It's a siren. Epi Pen. Would that be good? So if you're allergic to things in your, have this type of reaction. You should fucking bringing up with Benadryl like if you know you're allergic to random. Items of food fight in random ingredients of God knows what you're going. Eat you need to bring. The equipment with. Dog, hackers so, he's reading the box after he thinks the generic pocket, not a real holiday which we would have at the ranch, but Long story short he he ended up being okay he. He just calm down a little bit. We kept him moving real slow relaxed outside the kind of not cold, but was a hot. The down. Call them off and he ended up being okay, but he was. It was scary. Like one of us is a different story. Having to fucking kid nineteen years old. Come hang out with Logo Batas ranch for the first time in his fucking throat goes knob which. Fainter. No good, but it ended up being all right, and it was a fucking awesome experience this these kid's great and. She's looking for to doing more stuff with the Maverick club. It's cool. It's cool. It's like out for me. I'm glad that worked out. I think that's cool that those kids at a similar interest to you in blogging right like. The trip was to flog right. Yeah, have they been bloggers or did that? They are up and coming youtubers. That's awesome. Yeah, so which I also love so happen. Zoom call with him, and he meant he's a Oh. You want us come across the country I was like Yeah I love a a spunky young creative, yeah! And it's cool because you can imagine, too. I I didn't given like tutorials and like mentorship, but just being around me George. Tanner Fox like. Talk Shop Day learn something I promised. It's probably like a dream of there's to be in that scenario. Do you know what I'm saying is? Probably Amazing PM overall like I said overall was it was fantastic. We Watch, so you'll see fights up there. You'll see fit to fifty one. So what happened there? Somebody got robbed one of the guys. It's Dana White seem like he was. Max. I knew I was a little weird and I've always known them of little fucking weird person, but everybody in the world was watching that fight everybody in the world's and I was watching the matrix one I mention every. Class if you haven't seen the Matrix, they put out a list of and I WANNA go. I was again the shit, but they. They put on a list of the greatest mind, fuck movies, obviously inception and your favorite entice salaries shot at your tweet. You hated it because interstellar wasn't on there. No, no, it should have been I screamed. Requiem for a dream, so in my eyes requiem for dream, depot, most fucked movie, the ever made it is dark, got one darker die Darko void. The void. Yeah, I've never seen now. I've Donnie Darko I've never seen and I feel bad because people have always told me Donnie. Darko was one of the biggest mind Fox but but. The Matrix is definitely on their this idea that the machines one this war that that preface your life and you are now just a spoiler for people have watched kind of you are now just an organism that fuels those machines, and you are you perpetually live in a simulation so that your body can continue to create power for the machines and you don't know it. You're not right now your list. You're watching us. US. You're listening to a podcast. We're all just a computer program Saudis A computer program, and obviously that's based on of Descartes and a lot of other people that have come before and this really interesting ship, but there's a lot of undertones that movie about God in the second, coming with Jesus like all these incredible incredible film. If you haven't seen the Matrix one-two-three, go watch. Those I'm going to do that immediately. Immediately, you have see yes, so the you'll see. Two fifty one took place on fight island. They're still doing the no audience thing which I love. I'm a huge fan of actually like it more than people screaming. Maybe because I'm a little bit interested in with the coaches are saying I like hearing those big fucking hits, and it's interesting again. How the announcers! The commentators can be heard by the fighters so a Michael. Michael. Being is saying things about like what they need to do like they're taking. The fighters can hear them. You can hear him lower his decibel level when it gets a little quieter, and it's just like the stakes, and then the tension in that room you could probably cut it with a fucking night, but yeah Alexander Volkov Ski Max Holloway had a very good fight. Five Round Fight Championship fighting this guy vulcanized. Champion and it was a little controversial, because it was a split decision that probably could have gone both ways, but what we're seeing time and time again is because people were saying Holloway got robbed. If you WANNA beat the champ. You gotTA. beat the fucking chance to the judges. No. Shit like we saw John Jones and a handful of other fighters you have to. You have to beat the champ that I think Max. Holloway got robbed Yeah, but also I'm seeing a pattern in the US like they're not may, because it is a business at the end of the day. They they ain't gonNA. Give it. To someone who they think maybe can detract from the audience. That is you have see fans if. WHO's an Australian? It's always bringing a large audience from Australia. WHO's watching his fights? Like yet whack, but it is a business. Sanctity of. Know I'm sure it's the same in boxing, too, but it's like the sanctity of judging should should matter like the idea that I can't rely on. So why even have the judges? Why haven't had the judge just just say it like this? One hundred now or no, just just to say like this. If you don't knock the champ out, you ain't the champ. Why even have the judges? What point does not even fucking matter. Question for Mazda loses right. Yeah, yeah, MAS, BIG BIG NEWS! Yeah, yeah, because he. He's street Jesus. He's gained bird fighters to begin so and obviously you know you've got that. Huge confidence booster with the Jake Paul Post before the fight which which? Wasn't enough was enough to get it through, but my Michael. My question is this wasn't Mas Vidal. Bad motherfucker does he lose that title Oh? I know this is where I come in and bring the weird stuff, because I'm obviously don't watch. Religiously like you guys fucker from. FUCKER! Yeah, so he wouldn't shouldn't lose. Mon- technically be the bad motherfucker. He beat that. Broke loose man is the best. We see. That's a problem. Laws. You can't do that, you did it. You can do it, but you shouldn't do that if you want not against Kamara fucking. Touch. Oh, I've said this before and I learned my lesson after the timer. All my gun segment ain't a guy to bet against. He's one of the most solid fighters in the game and sure the fight was the most entertaining thing ever, but Mazda is no no walk in the park, absolutely knocking. You'RE NOT GONNA. Walk through this guy. He's A. He's a fiery mother fucker. It's Jesus. Same but again taking a fight on six days notice ballsy game bread fighter. This Day he wasn't bred, the began enough. I saw him laying on a bed or whatever with towels over him during the. Day before the weigh ins, and what does that dude? You Dude you? Have you have no idea why? So we did wrestling and football season I'm ninety five wrestling. Coaches like yeah, we want you to wrestle one seventy I go. that. Wait look at me. Look at me I'm one ninety five now yourself if I lost. Twenty five pounds right now. I don't know where that weight comes from. And I was wrestling match at one seventy one time and how it works in wrestling. anyways, you'd way in then you get to eat before your match and so. On this particular day, I weighed in at one set, one, sixty, nine point nine or whatever. And, then just hounded a fucking meal or two or three an hour before my match I remember wrestling this kid and I was like. Yeah! This is one of the worst experiences of my life. I am so incredibly weak right now I could barely move my legs and it wasn't a hard match. And it drained me and I experienced it again when a wait for the thinning that movie, the thinning and even my first fight against a Kassai. Cutting way affects people different. But for for me, just makes me we. We depletes my mental strength overall just like shrinks me as an athlete to a raisin you don't. Think, it does that too I would assume it's got a really falls on. People are smarter with it I. Didn't do it the healthiest way again. This is coming from a dude in Ohio. That thinks he knows Patty and water. Yeah, that's all I come he'd see. Come to school I need. A chicken. Patty had my pack of trail mix in the morning seven hundred calories a day was. Seven hundred calories a day and I. Would not go over that no matter what and then have to do a wrestling practice on top of it. It is the hardest thing to try to exert energy when you have none look I have actually have before, and after pictures of a of me when I cut. Twenty five pounds in wrestling and this I was a senior in high school, and you'll be surprised because. You can't actually see that much of a difference because. And these top Athens dude left isn't 195. You could tell right is one seventy. So I have noticed the color of my skin. I think you were closer and the other ones like. The perspective. Same same back say! Okay you're. You can tell immediately when I look at that left by. Do you know what I'm saying you can tell immediately that that left by is deflated. Your thank. Your sides are probably shrunk a little bit. Pink look there. That's better. That's better that one's closer from from a from your skinner. The width category to hate myself, so imagine in six days trying to make one seventy when I bet, these are walking around at one, eighty, five, one ninety, and you could see in at the end of the fight. Mazar always was breathing real heavy, and he was still trying so hard to. Do hit his thing and have fun and. Stick his tongue out and. Be The game bread fighter by. Is Not he ain't the guy credit both fires though I mean the upgraded by. Them I get, so I hate to say, but I get so pumped when they stick their tongue I'll guy loses. It's my favorite. It's my favorite tongue. You can't. You can't trust that. You're calling games. Yeah, he. He was at the back outfield. Strikeout, When you'RE GONNA have to win or don't just be humble in victory, but then again, but then again bitings different. I can't no likes. No one likes that like safe like like. I think I can say this pretty confidently like A. Beating the shit out of people running through the division, no right to him. He still ain't going to be getting those McGregor checks because he's. He played a shoulder. SAFE affects he gets. He gets the job done. He beats people up, but not in not in a spectacular fashion where entertainer to I mean. McGregor is is showman through and through, and he keep proves it when he talks, he proves and when he finds, he knocked donald out partially with his fucking jaw. which by the way boost was doing? It's now a move that people practicing the USA you plenty of people in the face with your shoulder, so yeah, if you're GONNA. While the reason we love or Hey Mazda. We love Jesus is because he is that showman when he beat the shit out of the laugh, and he's sticking, his tongue is blown kisses. In this fight to the third round problem is you get in? The Shit kicked out of you, so it's not as cool anymore when trying to be cool and. Bags. Just taunting right like got. Maybe he can get in the mental or the other guy I don't know I've always does over the shoulder blowing kisses. Bro, fucking swollen! I cut out the seen that with other people to. Dias. Does that too like he's bleeding the as he always. He always bleeds right and he's still and he's always. Crazy Bro we didn't really talk about will and Jada. We gotta talk about the jump in. It so so so, what happened so they? It's been well established maybe in Hollywood, and now the world knows that they are indeed in open marriage relationship I. Don't know if you call it that. They took a break right? They took a break, and then she went and still married, but still married right, but they had they took a break, and she and Jada had been cultivating this friendship with. August August Hands Loney. And whatever the person's name I have! Seen. And had been cultivating this relationship as a friendship, but then when will and Jada took that. Step back and took the break she decided. You know. Let's see where this goes. And there was this this moment and Yeah the Ray came together on the Red Table last weekend and talked about it, and and it was. heartbreaking. Was Hissy will? Smith looked like that I mean I'm? Jay to look back in the pursuit of happiness, are you? Oh, no, I mean he. He handled this like straight up Jada is like yeah, like I got caught up in like Basically Yes oh sure Alec Fuck this dude and this is. I probably have a pretty visceral reaction. That doesn't look like this like. He sat there like a man and listened to his wife. What no, no, you're right I was in persona impressed devastated. You could tell his eyes, but he's still sat there and listened very clearly and supported her and everything, and then obviously you know twitter did what twitter does. mean the faulk took his infamous fresh prince of Bel Air scene where he's talking about his father, not being there and turn it into. This timeless new scene where he's talking about not needing Jada and his life. I've been bad boys to without her. I don't eat like and so it's. It's just it's just a another scene of the fucked up place that we live in where somebody's paying. is somebody else's laughter but? On closer together all Yeah Oh yes I think. They're operating on a wavelength than few human beings are where they really can't visualize and grasp the concept of the bigger picture yeah dismiss family. Love friendship. Camaraderie till death. A lot of people are so. Rash with how they act and hasty with. Some saying so. At their age I think just two very wise people who can really relate and empathize with their partner to a degree that like most human, just can't literally cannot conceptualize like I wouldn't have reacted like Wilson. I'm telling you right right now. Like let alone gone on a TV show to talk about it publicly. That said that's said who knows ways. His initial reaction looked. His initial reaction could be much more closer. Closer to you, which would be going? Mas Vinyl you know style and just throwing fuck chairs. Who knows right, but like but like you know. Obviously he went on the show and he got. He started getting shape from from other bit. Know like fifty was taken shots at them and people online like let's let's be clear I. don't care who you are. If you're watching this or somehow gets clipped or whatever. Wilson can fuck your bitch. Your Girl Will Smith can fuck your guy. Promise you will Smith Fuck your girl dude? I assure you that dude is that dude is like he doesn't want to. Because he wants only one data. It's all he wants, but like let's let's keep fucking. Did he didn't? He didn't fuck around there their search? They didn't talk about I would assume will smith strikes me as a kind of guy. That's not going to do that. Historically, the kind of guy that was probably sitting at home with the kids. And Jada was just Algan fucking piped. It's just a sad. What if this is? What if it is the I mean who knows? What I'm saying is it could be the total opposite like you don't know. We'll could have been out there. Being a dirty dog and maybe jadon really was. That, She called it in a tangle he goes. Relationship! She's older woman getting with the younger man like he had to know that he wasn't GonNa win that for a long time, right? Why didn't that hookup make it to the red table talks. Will will will was fucking around feel me to Hound Town I. Don't know. Maybe maybe it's like. Two I think it was just an open conversation right, but if will didn't. Talk to them I. Hope it all works out. Yeah relationships are tough. Just be good to each other i. mean that's really the end of it. Ever be swimming in the pool. Boy and there's and there's debris floating around the pool and you're in the poor girl, so a swimming around the other night with my girlfriend was pitched Malek. No even turn the the pool lights officers, just the light of the moon illuminates just like a nice cycle, sexy swimming around, and there's some debris because the pool cleaner heaping communist much as you. Cove and There's just you know leaves here. There's. A YOOHOO box one spy and I see this leaf and I. Pick it up by the stem that comes off the leaf and I'm like. Oh, here, go and Hawking Amara, and they go look out baby rack like that and she was like she goes. And Start Screaming I'm laughing at her and I could just maker face out and I go. Hey, chill the fuck out a leaf through looks. She's looking down at the leafed through her and she goes. subconsciously in my mind. I knew that I was picking a rat off, but de. Bloated. Animal from the book by its tail. And Hawking at her face is role. Do fucking at his girlfriend, King. Rat, BRO now. There's two people that have had rats on the. This this house, no cause me to. We've all had problems. This house has a lot of rats running around Shannon Hannah. Just baby. Mamas said that it was the it's the. Vines on the house. They like to really live in the tank. She goes. She goes tangled. We have to do something about it. I go do so get the pool. House never looking back nine know what happened, so then she fucking names it first step of failure. Now it's got a name. You'll go out there and you bury Jerry Palm named share so I. Look at it you floating there all docile, but he's not having a good time. Clearly, he wants a proper burial. So are you fucking kidding me? She goes. Go Go ahead. Let's handle this, so she comes out I go in the backyard. I fucking dig a hole. I dig pipe in the backyard so like camp here so I have to dig another. Pro How are you going? To. Dig Deeper, you going thirty forty Fi. Brought the fucking Auger. I had the fucking postal. The AUGER, so I'm digging this all and lay in there, and she goes goodbye Jerry and I got because by the way he was. It was a mouse, not right and so you have a little bit more respect for the animals house. You know and. I do want to say like. How does this so I'd never personally buried in animal before never know, and it was, so it was a learning experience and I shall we say if you were as I said you know. Lord please, accept, Jerry into your kingdom. He was a good animal, and honestly I don't know if he was a good. Emily could have been selling cabinets for Wayfair I. Don't Fuck Dude. You know what I'm saying. Who knows and so I I dig this hole and at. And at the end of it, I put the dirt on lightly house like. Going to dig this up I was trying to be respectful, but then I started smashing the dirt when she. Was So compassionate. She is noticed quickstart sheet so compassionate. She gave me her lambeau yesterday's right there you can see the hurt on the ten hurricane lambeau in the driveway, and she gives it to me, and she says be careful with it. Don't go above fifty. The light comes on for the tar. You stop and you put air in it and don't do this. Don't do that and the first thing I did when she stopped talking was driving into a poll. Nude hit the Mirror on the side of a bucket ball. The mayor went her and she and I I open the window and I go. I'm so I'm so. She's like how the fuck do you do that? You didn't even make it out of the fucking barks. There was a lot going on standing there. She was put too much pressure on me. Dude when the pressures should've been putting the tire. That's flat. It's as flat is great. That's good. I'm surprised she trusts you with with that. Because you're you're driving is good. It's good. You'll let me drive. The and I had a little fault there because there a person parking next to me. She was standing behind me. There was a poll that I kind of forgot about the poll. This House driving record driving records bad, but that's only when Xanax is included. I was never able to. To Combine xanax and the driving it's it's said always been tough for me. It will cause more what it is I like to sleeping. We'll driving either of you. Be Good at that. It's an extremely fucking challenging, I've tried it a couple of times impossible at one time I drive a baseball game like six o'clock in the morning for on the east side of Cleveland and I was. Driving down the road like Oh, I'm tired. I'll just take a quick little nap. Yes, and you know behind the wheel on the right side of the road when I started and then I was on the left clothing the center do take the NAPA still go all I was riding mistake, and that's you know ten seconds that tends to by seconds later I was like. Oh, I should probably not nap here. NAP and I get to the field say driving wall tired dwarfs driving while intoxicated makes. Is Fifty Thousand Times. Cousin will fell asleep. And while I empathize with him I gotTa say, I'm always very confused at the falling asleep at the wheel stores never never understand rhythm of the road. Hours I've been tired I've almost fell asleep at the wheel, but guess what happens before I fall asleep at the wheel. I pull off some hot cheetos I do. Jump Jacksonville McCarty aback. Like Don't the risk reward, obviously hundred percent right? It's a one time thing I have never. Since that time thought I should just take a nap driving like the verb. You're using makes this sound. Sarcastic you let you let you could take I am not kidding you in my head. I was like Oh. Yeah, I'll just close my eyes. What's I'm not kidding? I was driving at. Six Am and I was exhausted. I went to bed at like three. AM Seventeen Ryan tension. For. We don't have to because it's never gonNA happen again, but not asking for your participation. The. May, because in your delusion, you thought I could probably drive with my absolute. Auto I was like. Oh, I'm fine, so you were dreaming ready at that point. You're like fuck. You were already sleeping. For me, mine were intentional. Might my eyes just close because I lost control my body because I was so fucked up and so like I just. Like, this is just driving along driving along. And then you. What happens you start to veer at first and veered and quite literally the stories in the book I drove off a cliff. Drove my car off a cliff. But I do do telephone poles and guardrail. We're doing like. If you skirt it through enough you had to if I tell you if I tell. The last memory. I have from that, I it was it was. Hours early. I was still while I was still at my friend's house Bro I literally don't even remember. Getting in this horrible. This is another kind of laughing about same laughing because of how stupidities, if you're fucked up or tired or don't drive your car, but obviously in my old days I wasn't thinking clearly, and drove off a cliff, and that woke me up. Don't get me wrong. That woke me up. I woke up, covered in fucking blood, and I was at the bottom of a ravine, and I was like Oh. This not okay gotta gotta get your sleep. Do you gotta get your sleep? Took a lot xanax at night. took. Don't stop doing. So, we should touch on this really quickly to the juice. Alum dropped. Great album great running the fucking world right now knows most third streamed album in the first day. all-time spotify be only by postpones album. I think it was beer, bonk's and and smoke Scorpion by drake. Hundred thirty million streams in the first day on that album and nobody's even close. Nobody's even close juices juices like seventy, three or something. Great Album. Love wishing well which I guess leaked already. The song marshmallows great the. Great. Album and and listening to and I was obviously never juice fan I'm. Sorry age demographic but. Just really fucking sad dude, just really really sad to listen to someone who clearly had that level of talent. I mean just super fucking. Talented incredible musically has message was great, but it just it just. Brings me back once again to the albums that mack was making. Prior to his death, and to just think to myself like. Once again. The labels whoever it is if you're artists is starting to make music about the high potential. And high likelihood that they are going to die that day because they are taking overdose, amounts of pills, step the fuck it. I don't care if you have to tie the artists stop. They're not a fucking there, not A. Way For you to harvest cash for your label. That's not these people. These are people like something showed have been done when he was saying. I used to take drugs now. The drugs take me. Like when you start talking. When you hear, your artists are talking about the high likelihood of overdose or suicide by drugs or whatever it is, please fuck, do something do something. Like I have a question for you in that world. How many people who are like completely addicted to drugs? And the drugs take them play it off like I'm okay. No, I'm good everybody every. Offensive, and all my God. We're seeing it right now. With know to to bring it back up again or we haven't talked about on the show phase rain, Norden from base Glenn I mean this has been an ongoing situation with him, and and a lot of fans have asked me to get involved, and I've been involved. Just don't talk about it, but I've been involved. You know for for months and. It's a very similar situation. He's very vocal about his drug use. He Sips Lean on live. He POPs POPs handfuls of xanax on live on and basically says Yo. Everybody like fuck off. I got this handled like. I know what I'm fucking doing I'm not gonNA fucking overdose and so. Good news is he's supposedly he's doing better. Banks Report on the other days back home and everything's going great, which absolutely fucking love to hear but? You know it's it's become. A massive part of the culture culture, especially in hip hop to us jogs heavy amounts of of of both cost Europe lean, and ZANEX and you know it's. It's unfortunately when the culture and the fans. Embrace it it just just simulates stimulates even more and now people are making money off sipping lean if you're not sipping lean, you're not in the Zeitgeist of. World Right now. And so it's a sick. It's a sad place for us to be at. I mean until until the culture says doing drugs ain't cool anymore and stop buying that music. It's GonNa. Keep happening, you know. People love reckless facts. People love that danger that uncertainty in the willingness to push yourself to a level that not a lot of humans are you know it's it's? It's cool now and sometimes. The bigger picture is Not so clear for some people that's. Living in the moment like I love living in the moment, but do it sparingly like he'd like. Don't forget to consider what the future could like. The drugs are the drugs are the are the thing that. That puts a wrench in those years. You know what I'm saying. It's it's It's and that's why and that's why the book has been important to me. You know what I'm saying because this was not. I never wanted to be a piece of work that. That made people feel like Oh. This kid was reckless. This was cool. Now. I want to tell you that when you do this shit, this is the this is the fucking outcome. This this is what happens as a result of reckless right. Yeah, like sort of you've been reckless for a long time sort of and you're also a person that does not take drugs. It's calculated risk. Nice lovely. Slogan the world's very calculated risk, like I, I'm definitely much more reckless than the average person I'm also much more equipped than the average person, because of just the experience of being reckless since I was fucking tangible shit, but like there are other people that are reckless. So what would you suggest for someone who wants to continue being reckless, but still have fun and maintain their sanity. I think it's goes. COMES ONTO risk reward. That's that's how I usually way most of my decisions now it's what's the risk on this truthfully. Yeah, like I'm trying to be as unbiased as possible. What's the reward? So we're doing a stunt. Is this going to fuck me up if so more in there. How long a month! I could probably probably do that to three months. Surgery No I. I'm GonNa do that stupid drugs specifically. What's the reward to? To have fun to stimulate your mind in a way that it hasn't before simulated. Maybe also again. The drugs. Is Is it getting addicted? Is it throwing your life away to a substance? Is You're talking about like in a way like stimulating your mind and trying to things could if we're talking about PSYCHEDELIC explor- exploration, I've always been chill on this show about that. Not GonNA promote it, but at the same time like if people are out there, you know exploring the boundaries of of this of this being in this and living on this earth. That's one thing. Sipping lean and taking xanax. Is simply to mute everything that happens in your mind. That is why people do it coming from someone who dealt with things ID forever. WHO PRESCRIBED TO MILLIGRAMS ANNEX? Who was has done everything. That is simply an escape from the real world. That's all it is turned off everything. Anytime you do that the. The pitfalls the detriment that you are doing. You have no idea I mean just take. Just eat just shutting off your brain completely and settling into that place of having no feeling, no emotion. And complete and utter numbness is the last stop before death. That's all it. Is You just taking a quick? Stop Stop before your death, and that's the ultimate numbness, and that's and a lot of times. You see that people that fall in love with that numbness here. Want the next step and applauding the next step which is overdosing and dying. We see this happened with artists like artists. Are They live in that like mentor? Chaos and SOMETIMES TURN TO SUBSTANCE USE AS AS A. As a catalyst, maybe as an aide to their music. Maybe it is to feel numb whatever it is like artists are. Historically! Pretty fucked up in the head. This is how the that's why there's great artists. And it's it's. It's always a shame when we see someone juice world. Lose lose the fight against. Because like you said it's so clear. When he listened to his post mortem, UH ALBUM! How fucked talented guy was have X. to like so much untapped potential and I it affects. It affects young people like us. I'll speak specifically with. Something, it seems so wrong to this day just so wrong. It affects me, may brings me extreme sadness, because I have the fear of death like I before I, when I was young when I was XS, agent or twenty, one twenty two. I don't really I. Don't really care so weird. I was I was I, was like yeah. I'm GonNa fuck you know. I lived a good life. If I die now I'm twenty five I'm like. Oh. Man It, it does get better like it really does. Get better like I want this to last as long as I, possibly can can make it last. This is the gift of life is a precious gift that I want to cherish for as long as I can, so even now in Jake who is also Jacobs fucking reckless, but he's a little older lease, a little less reckless, and I think with age. In its subjective for each person. That age is you start to realize? Oh, okay. My actions have consequences, and sometimes the consequences are dire, and they need to be very careful with what I'm doing and putting in my body. So Weird. You say that because it brings me back like I just even writing the book and remembering it mentally. It just doesn't. It doesn't even. Start to. Truly remind me of how of how bad it was I. Mean I I was I honestly just didn't care I. Didn't care all whether I lived or died. You know what I'm saying in. A day was meaningless to me. It didn't it didn't matter. It wasn't even something I've thought about. That's the thing like I. Think a lot of the most reckless people. It's not like. Aren't you scared to die? They don't even consider a day. It's not on the plate. You? Just keep doing what you're doing with that being A. Influence or a contributor to your decision making so it's not even like. Oh, he was trying to die. No, he just didn't. He was indifferent to the idea of living or dying it on, so it's a but but shadow to all the people around him DJ scheme who had talked from time to time and it worked with him on the song conversations, which has been one of the biggest songs off the album and you know. He had a lot of people around him. That truly truly loved him, and the album is is absolutely crushing. It's looking like it's GonNa do four hundred five hundred thousand sales on the first week, which is generally reserved for Bieber Arianna Guerande. Those kinds of people so. E size house down. The street went up for sale to head I saw that as like a final. Yeah. Well interesting episode cover a lot of topics. There's lots of cover. Oh okay. Big News here. Our next episode. Sewed, two hundred Internet is buzzing about this because they know that we have a massive massive, it's insane. Matt Megastar guests lined up for episode two hundred and when I tell you this is going to be one of the biggest. Of impulsive ever I am lying. Through my thought. Because we have no-one lined up for episode two hundred and it is a two fucking days. We have no idea who going to be Kassai just happens to live in a different country. You're not gonNA fucking. Guys weren't surely so whatever happens on Wednesday. You, know God bless. You fucking Athens but other than that. Take it away blogs because we got nobody. Nobody. Take it away blogs.

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HOLLYWOOD VS. LOGAN PAUL - IMPAULSIVE EP. 145

Impaulsive with Logan Paul

1:36:29 hr | 1 year ago

HOLLYWOOD VS. LOGAN PAUL - IMPAULSIVE EP. 145

"Here's the first note I ever got back on the said nothing else but this is the worst piece of shit. I've never seen. Do you even know how to make television. Was it. That was the no. Does it go that. That's not a no. That was not Jay. Black was started out of frustration of out of your gosh with the sponsors dude you are. We are out of Control Sir. It's asking should i. I'll do it the shades of dude go ahead with the welcome impulsive the number one podcast in the world facts now validated dated by streaming award. We won awards. Opens with sponsored on fucking real also. Sorry sponsors are rates have doubled award-winning award-winning number. One podcast in the world. That's scribe out for me please. We love you. Thank you guys are listening to this. PODCAST we've had some great episodes in the past weekend. It's coming up on the holidays so really stacking them in and hopefully your board over the holiday break and you can listen to us. We're probably happen when you're with your family back home. It's like it eat at night. You just got nothing funded. You'd be surprised how board you over the holidays especially in the Mid West Alice for you to Speier Christmas is it. It's probably Breitbart Christmas. Bonus time right. Would you say Christmas. Bonus bonus bonus s this love lots. You incentivize your employees. You know my made. I'll I'll pay back home in Connecticut a little bit of money for clean up. Just always goes a trickle down. Yeah Yeah Oh say made four and a half million dollars off a fire something like that right just hypothetically of course you'd just like Blah Blah little trickle down right democratic liberal trickle. Now it's about all that but I I am going to get a girl. I care about a gift I I told her semi her wishlist. I'm I'm I'm I'm finished. Dropped five racks on this girl. She's she's been so nice to me over the years like and I. I don't know I've just been a a little like selfish and our my relationship with her. No I'll tell you and you you tell me if she deserves it. Oh yeah she does actually part of the reason as we want the streaming award. I'M NOT GONNA lie Calms Cucumber. Okay I know what you're thinking though like logo while you look so good. It's my sunglasses. Jay Black that is state black started out of frustration of being unable to find any high quality fashionable frames at affordable prices. Because any good quality polarized pair of sunglasses normally cost over one one hundred fifty dollars because all major brands are owned by one company. Jay Black uses Italian acetate from the same manufacturers brands like Gucci ray-ban YSL and ended a The lenses are polarized and they come with anti reflective coating on the back to help prevent reflections and they still only cost forty nine dollars and even less if you use the Promo Code Impulsive Dash Ten. That'll be forty four dollars and they have a quiz to help you. Pick the best pair of sunglasses for your face. If you don't know which ones will complement your face the best just because I have a long face you you know these. I feel like some sort of good looking police officer Reno nine one crazy you look like a sexual cops. That's what I was GONNA say. which is which is super cool? Way Different that Sexual Predator not even close to give away a fifteen Airbus Rose Jay black dot co and use the code. IMPULSIVE DASH tend to get yourself ten percent off your purchase and a chance to win. Win One of fifteen pairs of airport There we go most read. I feel good. You're good you're looking good. It's just everything's good deal. It's only time. I'm that a hangover last. Multiple days is when you're hungover and you shoot three shows it so like technically. I'm hung over of one one. Let's just be you guys are always hungry. Rely almost every start of the show at your transitions into some amount of hangover. So at this point are you hung over or are you just slama. Why are we the way we are? I'm I'm all I'm old so I I don't even drink out of control. I'm a responsible drinking. I'll be I'm a very responsible accepts. Thirty four am. I can't Hang Soo Mikey. Mikey is a water do like I I drink so much water. Yeah so I try to do. Who Shot one shot? He was so smart and then we get home and then we again. We ordered two hundred fifty dollars worth of two hundred fifty thousand dollars. Worth of Carl's junior. We should make that as as you might work by the way eating greasy foods along with the water consumption has I think is responsible for eh prevention. Believe it or not because I hate to say it. I know you want to hear about lettuce fucking if you eat less greasy ass in and out cheeseburger bro Right before you go to bed. I think he's a ton of water. I'm telling you woke up does not work. Kale tally lettuce in vegans. So we want to. We did win the streaming award and Brad. Our producer is. Call Your role engine. He's pissed off because I I would say you're a showrunner. Your show you on the show producer. Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah. That's what I'm saying. Our Engineer Brad. lookie brought US Abras donuts for winning the stream your and we got a Vegan donut in there so check it out. We ate some doughnuts. No we don't have those we got something better for the vegans. That also got us. and IT'S A it's a head of lettuce you you got a head of Lettuce Bureau. Thank you for the vegans tax. Imagine imagine me receiving these amazing looking artistic donuts Brad. Like don't worry I didn't forget about this. GET OUTTA my face dude. Really good to have a lot of spell. You really really good massive bike. How do you eat this fucking thing? It's a big marshmallow but you also said you got US birthday cards but it's none of our birthdays okay. This one's just went and I'm assuming this is Spencer's Yup. That's got to be me. Looks like you though says Andre for some reason and I'm the monopoly man Nice. Of course Brad comes out the most lit de dislike. Of course he delivered. He cleaned up hallmark gift cards. Some Ford right so you are there. Handwritten you gotta be kidding. Wow he wrote. Hey handwritten notes for all of us. I'm remind because I'm selfish. Can I show the front of mine as you open yours. His mind says you're howled all my God it's a monopoly card is is getting out of jail free just just in case you get out of hand and Brad wrote for the next time you do something stupid online ship. Bradley Loki Savage back. B-actor Mind said this looks like a job for the Lasso of truth. Happy Birthday and then happy birthday is crossed out and says let's be honest. You're probably someone's dad enjoy the daylight. It is definitely a daddy. Definitely a daddy's mine mine. Father of twins mine. Mine says proud of you you for ditching. The Man Bun thank you thank you. I don't cancel your hands but you are car driver ever so yeah I mean what was I mean. Let's go get one a streaming shit. My question is what do we do next speaking this peak. I think it's not even that school where we now like. Fuck let me bring it back a little bit word. I can answer just lasting. Where are we now as his heirs? When is this right now? Like what they're seeing. Where when are we? I feel I'm going to be a restoration hardware hardware. Yeah I'll be. I'll be in restoration hard. I think I'm up in Napa Valley at this point really. Yeah I guess. It doesn't matter. I was thinking we might have been home or something like Dabbagh off by a few days. What else fucking new and exciting time for sports but none more exciting than the NFL? Sophomore Cessation Lamar Jackson. It was redefined what it means to be a dual threat you be odds-on Jackson to win the MVP race were at fifty to one to begin. The season have plummeted. Since making my bookies props election more attractive than ever ever the next week we have. We have one of the most anticipated stack. This is out of date bookie if you're gonNA give me reads our freedom but the gotta be the up today. What I what? I'm assuming the book the point is this. mybookie is still the best place Tibet this season. And if you're one of a kind who likes likes to bet little to win a lot try parlay for instance. If you'd like a couple of the big favorites this week par laser perfect because they let you bet multiple games together for much bigger payout. They have more lines and better is for the player than any other sports book around. If you join right now mybookie will match your deposit halfway all the way up to a thousand dollars that means if you'd deposit two thousand you get an extra one thousand dollars in free money to play with all you have to do is use our Promo Code Logan to activate the offer once again that's Promo Code Logan to activate the offer ordered by the way if you're watching us in your fan of hey big mike thank you can use Promo Code may lack. Aj activate the same offer. That's why don't you fuck it. It doesn't matter it's magic yeah. I was just thinking with all these ad reads. It's that Christmas bonus is probably going to be all it's GonNa be quite that fight bag and us. We talked about rates going up. We just want to stream your impression. The CO HOSTS ARE GONNA get double the fee. We went from zero x zero calls. I dare for you really quick. I dare you to open that Texas mcbroom. I'm just saying you and read it. Word for fucking word. I'm a pull up on you tonight. After the event didn't pay off is only because that could be bad to fight me probably for Camaraderie guys. Here we go here. We go our guest. Today is Hollywood. Executive involved the creation and production and more than three hundred TV projects over the span of his career. He's also a business coach and author of the three minute rule of pitching strategy. That will help us just like his. Co Clients Lines. Say Less to get more. Please welcome Brent Pin Riddick You're coming with me. Oh man I tell you. Let's go. We go energies. He already during this he already has that vibe of motivational speaker. Tony Robbins got nothing to lose the Laura. Pull it back together. Yeah you you have a lot of energy which is rare for a Hollywood executive. Your are your personality. I mean listen. That's part of what I've been able to do in Hollywood is I was able to captivate a little bit of the sort of the magic of the personality and you can uncover for a lot of bullshit that way and so it. It looks haphazard. Like just sort of happens but it's sort of a cultivated act that I use really well in the Hollywood game. Got You it. Would you say you're a hybrid business slash talent in a way. I mean you turn to that now it turns out that originally it was just like I was just begging to find something that I was good at. I spend most in my life up to about thirty years old struggling. I was in Canada and when I came to the. US things started to work. You probably went through the same thing like when things are struggle struggle. It's a struggle but when things start to work like when you find success finally like it feels so bloody good. Yeah it's just. It's just what you wanted drives you to do better right and so that was that was that sort of course in my life but then at a certain point it was like okay. Well I did pretty well business. What's next right from? TV thing in the TV. Business just became unpleasant unpleasant in the sense. And so I just WANNA make a change. So what are some of the shows. You've been a part of so we could right off the bat for those who don't know so did bar rescue was a big show. which huge? Yeah so that one I sorta created and put in there that was really big and then my company we did Like the season of Master Chef we put on the biggest loser was a big one. What was your involvement in big loser users like not not a lot but I use the biggest loser titled Put in Right Create The show no not at all now? I just happened to be at the company. The company was producing it at the time. It was like I just walked into it and there it was and put it lead. Your portfolio took extreme makeover like. I'll say I did extreme makeover extreme over makeover weight loss edition so whichever one you think is bigger with. That's the one I did kind of faking it at times to get Not completely but to get to an even higher point. Well I think that's the course of everybody's life right. You are trying to get into the club that won't let you in. You WanNa be with the friends that don't WanNa the hang out with like it's just part of our nature so and I actually train a lot of CEO's and stuff on that idea 'cause they don't feel like they're enough either. And I'm like you see over four billion dollar company but it's like we're all one bad email away from losing jobs that's what it feels like people are gonna come in and be like. Hey man you shouldn't be here like we talk about your phone like that's just the way we feel. The impostor posture syndrome is big with everybody. It's sort of like you just get over it But more so it's more like you know people don't have the nuances of what we do in television so I'm just tired of people like they'd say like what was your thing on the biggest loser. Whatever it so you can only explain that so many times before? You're just like yeah. Yeah it's one of my shows One of my buddies a record producer and he did all of Celine Dion songs. Holy shake set for one the one from the titanic. My Heart Whoa. That's that's like not investing in Uber. Now that one the skip well it was Gary v that no he did miss miss do right and so he he just he heard the song like no. That's not a good song. I don't want to do it. But the problem is on ever. He would talk about it and he's the producer. Leon they would save a heart would go on and he's just got to the point where it's like you know what I'm telling. The story might just go. Yeah that one to like He. Just okay yeah so yeah. So you're you're a Hollywood chief your Hollywood exotic Hollywood G. I'll say I'm a I'm a WHO digital guy I use this year the living craft say this. I'm so impressed impressed by you and I have been for your thank you I want on that show. I love those guys like you are the `Nigma that scares the daylights out of the people. People in my position is so interesting because it's interesting. Here's the truth right and I don't get to say this very often but I'll I'll lay this down for you that I've been producing high level contacts for very long time. And it's like you know a lot of the shows that I do but you you know you don't know about one hundred fifty that I put on the air because that's the way the TB businesses and the good news. Is I have a whole community around me. When I put a show on the there are so many people involved and part of it making decisions and like Nielsen numbers and it's all just fluff so when a show doesn't work which most of them don't it's like I can blame anything I can point? It's not my fault right like I did my job. Insulate your insulated insulated and the idea of putting something out online that's gotta go directly to the viewers and they give you immediate feedback so terrifying that it's like we know in Hollywood. We couldn't do it 'cause we could we go take your money and me doing it but we because there's no way I could create a viral video. There's no way I could create a youtube channel like I don't have that in me and not only that terrifies me. Because it's like I don't know what the audience wants but I'm okay playing in the world of that because all of my friends who make millions ends of dollars and make TV shows. We've all decided we don't know what the audience wants. That's okay we're just gonNa make fifty shows and maybe one thing and it's like if you made carpet bomb made fifty if the youtube videos and they all completely bond and you only did relatively well. You wouldn't be doing this any facts you gotta you gotta hit that target every time. Are you friends with traditional media friends with digital media now because they have no choice. Yeah it's it's still hard to make money any like traditional television still makes real money cable. The cable business is still valid and inviting the issue is people are always disagreeing green without. We talked about that on the show a lot and everybody talks about cable cutting but I remind them that the lion's share of advertising money still goes to national line in media. Here's the thing I like the Guy Fieri or Anthony Board ain't got arrested soul like they're never shows that have ever had more than a million viewers average household names. Yeah and the reason is I'll let you a little the reason it's called the barrier to entry television has what's called the barrier to entry which means the public are people the culture picture assume that someone has granted you some sort of passage on this television. Show that you have. You have climbed some ladder to get there and you had to do something special you put on a youtube video people sort of instinctively feel like what you just did it on your own. It's not special and so you'll get millions and millions of views every single video you you put out but yet someone who has three hundred twelve thousand people watching once a week. Fourteen Times a year's household. Yeah and it's just a weird cultural -tural thing right they. They passed the bar where they became household based on your inability to refuse them. Oh my they get so many views but for for to your point for the most part ninety nine percents. I'm not very you're like you're like Dr in that sense right like you're just rare and it's crazy because our culture is just been slow to adopt that right and so it's an interesting world but from from our perspective in the television world you guys just scare the crap out of this. And here's the thing like I know talent. I spent my entire life chasing talent assessing talent figuring out which towns real real which towns no would they say what they do and they're following and it's like when I see the level of work that you put in when I see the level of professional that professionalism that goes around this building it's it's like Oh my God like this is a serious serious operation and then takes an incredible amount of talent and skill combined with like like an unbelievable sense of creativity to be able to talk directly to an audience and to be able to in real time. Like it's real time. You guys follow along like do people liked to do people not like it and be able to change that and continue to deliver week after week day after day year after year. It's just like yeah. I couldn't even come close to you. Take Down One of the for your looked around. You were admiring the set. And you're like this is crazy. I know every bit of work. That's gone into this because now a lot lot of people do know and now it's just it's just so innate to the process of building something creative but for some reason if it's on a youtube channel or like with Amanda You you know what I interviewed for my podcast. It was like she's an instagram model again. How much God damn work that goes into the Vassall much and like its every detail l. the attention to detail? People just don't understand it's shock. It's the biggest thing I I as someone who literally a day before you came here just jumped into the actual. TV machine. Just shot two pilots for MTV yesterday. God and seeing dude is he going to change. FIRST OFF WE'RE GONNA lose Sunnis. Become A he's he's GonNa Right back he's going to be like we're just waiting for him to come back with with yellow hair with these abuser. But so I show up in first of all your car will be at the House at twelve thirty. You'll be in wardrobe for thirty minutes hair and makeup. You'll you'll walk on the set you'll do your thing and you walk off the set and you get back into a car. Maybe your in your greener meat snacks. Talking you up and stuff. All of the other work that goes into the project is. He's on the network. Yeah is on the people that work on the show when we make our. That's incredibly distracting. Quite rude to the guests to be put. Put it down right now. Slap you can say it's extra skidding. Let me finish. Let me finish beginning talking about but but but before I bite this to your point I mean there's there's so much work that people don't see that goes into every the piece of content by the way he is or even mind the night shift that we are integral in the process that the the concept and the writing all of that's it's awesome. TV I shall a block walk out and there's part of that that you don't realize is working against you guys. A little bit is that there's an ecosystem right or ecosystem you say in the. The ecosystem of television employs hundreds of thousands of people right from Madison Avenue. Right down to the the grips and all those people are invested in in the process of television being successful and driving revenue and the revenue comes from a spots and dots. We call it where it's like. I'm going to sell ad revenue for a thirty second commercial. The no one's going to see that people can dvr through that no one cares about right whereas like effectively low. When you do well and your unique you make the money right? When your Youtube Channel blows up it comes to you the most part? But I think there's other eight people or fifteen people are like there's just not the same sort of surrounding of the planets to bolster that whereas TV's a whole bunch of people being like hold onto the rails. We're going now they. I do not want Madison Avenue. Ad Guys giving you guys more money because it's like well. What if they figure out that these people actually pay attention to his reads like they might actually go by those damn sunglasses? Do that ad on an episode on we TV. There's not a single soul that watches that Ad. They know it's funny. You say that because because coming from the brand side and this should actually make you feel a little bit more comfortable when you go home tonight the television continues and television commercials. Continue to move the needle in a very very major way for brands. Yeah we had spent the brand worked on last. Was this a company called love sack and you know we went from thirty five million dollar brand to a two hundred hundred fifty million dollars annual brand and the digital media we worked with social influencers. Everybody in the thing that truly truly truly moved. The needle was television advertising. Once we got into the homes of people watching LINEAR television. We started to see a massive uptake business. A trajectory that was was vertical. And so I mean it's you're right because but maybe subconsciously. I don't know exactly where it is where we had a really good commercial which scored really well on the on the net promoter score was off the charts. But Ah it's give and take. I mean. There are a lot of brands that are still making all their money off television. It's a just focused. In that world right and people are slower to adopt op things than we all think we were having this conversation about television. Sort of dying off. Five years ago we were talking about ten years ago. It's like we're not that close to it. It's still always out cable and TV dies at some point or a listen. I think what really happens at some point the cable. TV Guy goes okay. Thanks for making all these other digital things you test them out. You've made your mistakes. You've ruined it you've done this this is working will buy you. This is working by you. We'll sell you and now we were a cable. TV and now we're this network and they'll just move. They have unlimited resources. And the smartest people com- buys buys Who on youtube apple apple or Google? Google SARS Iraq. Viacom comes in and buys. Yes it from Google assuming the other the way around you know what I mean it just like a move like those guys. Those guys swing huge Dicks X.. No they're not. They're not worrying. The I mean they're they're they are wind by acquisition and bulldozers. There's just so they'll win. which did you see the did you see you that new IPO? That's about to launch and saw. I think it's in Saudi. It's going to be twice the size of the apple valuation apples currently the only trillion dollar. I believe leave the only trillion dollar plus CO company. I think that an Amazon right around one trillion dollars. There's an appeal that's about to happen in the Middle East. I can't remember where it wasn't. It's Saudi Saudi Aramco. It's a one point nine trillion dollar initial public. I'm not crazy I actually worked for Saudi Aramco in college. That's a lie. I'm Dead Sea. Are you fucking kidding dead. I did video work for them for Saudi Aramco. I did world has its first. There's two trillion dollar company. Oh my God yeah they the way I read the electorate Saudi Arabian Oil Company. This is crazy. I did like video like boring in corporate videos for their internal teams really goes because my company's worth a two trillion to buy my valuation outage. How did you get started in Hollywood because you move from Canada? Yeah what about you makes you stand out. I mean here's the thing I I used to run fail businesses. Basically I come up with the big idea. I'd go like try to figure it out in candidates not really an entrepreneurial vibe like it is here so yeah and I was just I was so like always lead back against the wall and there was times when I would go into a meeting to try to raise money from somebody and if I didn't get a check from them in that meeting I wouldn't be able to eat right and so it teaches you not how to sell right. That's not what I learned. I didn't learn how to sell. I learned how to get what I wanted without somebody feeling that I was desperate. I learned how to get what I want and made them feel like like. I didn't need it that bad because if if I needed five grand from you really badly. It's very unlikely you WanNa give me the second. You feel that from someone that they'll say anything get what they want. You go like okay. I don't WanNa be around this guy and so I learned a really good technique of like making people feel that I wasn't desperate and so when I brought that down to the Hollywood pitch vibe. It was a real contrast to the. Hey let's do lunch. Listen here's the way the show works here's like here's what's good for. CBS and here's how providers out Nevada value just made it impacted people and and I grew this reputation of being the best pitcher in Hollywood. I was like I'm not working very hard like I'm not doing very much but I remember specifically I was in. CBS lobby. And I was about to go into the pitcher room Out Walk Simon Cal and I was like. Oh my God. I gotta go into the room after Simon socks so he and I are yapping and he looks over my shoulder and I turned around. And there's Mark Burnett walks in among and he's coming after me wedged into these to Bohemia D- Monster Second Bigger Fisher and I'm like what the hell am I going to say in this room. How am I gonNA come across as like fancy awesome amazing producer that should be there and like on that level and I just got this wave of panic realizing like I cat like nothing I do is going to impress them so I I got to get out of this room fast as possible so I just sat down? Everybody said Hi Great. So here's the way the show works. And here's what we think scraper. CBS and here's how we're GONNA produce it and here's how you can get here's the Ip and that was it. I was out of that room in nine minutes. They bought the show. My agent was like that was amazing. Easing and I was like. Wow Okay and so I started doing that system so it kind of happened on accident you stumbled on it. Yeah and I started to develop that ability to get in and then what happens is is that the network buyers would be like Oh Branson my scheduled to pitch. Oh yeah okay good. Because at least they'll know it'll be good and fast. We talked about this earlier. Yeah and his brevity and I I told you I had a phone call this morning with the ex. CEO of apple for this APP launched his dating APP called skip it they can cut out okay but but keep with with all the core investors in the business one of them being John Sculley and and the kids are nineteen twenty years all that launched the thing and the thing I keep telling them is these guys. Don't care about all the intricate fucking details of the APP. Give them the top line info that they need to make decisions and then let them go back to golfing fishing. Whatever the fuck they're doing because they're one hundred thousand dollar you know Infusion into our business they don't care about these are as you know the people you pitch with monster and they get to the fact. That really helped my process through and then I did. I worked really hard relationships in Hollywood like I had a spreadsheet of every single person. I ever met where they worked when their contract was when they were coming out of their contract winning the last time I talked and I kept. Ah Up every time and so I would know if your contract was coming up in three months I would make sure I put a call into you being like. Hey what you do is your contract and they'd be like yeah. It's like right because I'm hearing good things about Ah in the community you need some help or anything comes up. Let me know. I'll connect you in that with that. Date is like put me right and it's like 'cause I'm talking about the jobs that you might be interested it just sort of and I kept that but like it's like anything like did you just like waltz into youtube stuff or did you like you studied every video. That went on what worked. What didn't in what time when do I put it out there? How many people do I put in this? How those things are the only way you can be successful right and then when it's all cut together and it's all up there and now you're in in the news making all this money and people are like? Oh my God I should be a youtube star. Hell are you talking ahead this time. When I was surfing out with one of the partners the company and and a guy surfed out and it was a doctor and he was all he? This is Dr. Bob was like oh Dr Bobby I heard about you. Okay yeah this is. Brad runs a company. Oh Brad 'em hey man I I was thinking i WanNa WanNa come see you. I've got these ideas for these reality shows. I WanNa talk to you about. I was like great. I have these ideas for these medical procedures I've been thinking about. I want to come and the guy was like what and I was like. Oh Oh yeah Dr Bob would I do for a living is a real job to you know. It's always so awkward. When people the way outside the vertical who's the most guilty for this in my entire life? Mom if you're watching right now if you're watching this right now pam do this sometimes to know my parents have never you said that you said that right but mom Tom. We work really hard. We do a lot of in depth studies on the stuff. I think we know what we're doing it but I appreciate you and I love you very much. We might not like Robin you can text me your ideas. That is much more open to fee. And I'm starting to get into his system a little bit. He will actually take the least like feedback from anyone and he he. He's able to keep a filter up. He will technically get pitched by anyone. He'll take a pitch on new content ideas from the guy. That part's car and have you done a lot of those ones from random people. No I want to say no but the ones that I do are fucking good ideas like this is a different. I people ask me all the time and I was like I. Just don't take outside pitches from people anymore because of the whatever hundreds of shows I've sold not one of them has come from somebody outside the business other than hey you should meet. My boss is running this particular companies really the interesting. I told them a couple of weeks ago. I said my my biggest hope for you in twenty twenty and moving forward is that you start to rely on your generals. Yeah was my biggest thing and because has he he. He's been good about and he's had people that will filter those people out but for the most part he he'll take he'll take a sit down with anybody pitcher Jewish. Oh I hear his actually do it. Let's see you're ready for the real feedback or no. No no no I won't I won't real feedback. He back because this is an idea. I think I think I think mackinaw hungover one morning. I heard that whispers. So it's like you know American Ninja Warrior. I know it very very well. Okay so it's like four doors in the middle of an arena and they all lead to a boxing ring in the middle title but there is an obstacle course right in the American Ninja Warrior. Ask Style Okay so you save go. And the contestants do the obstacle course and the first to get into the ring shit out of each other and the winner is like the ultimate gladiator or some shit and we'll call it the ultimate gladiator. This reminds me of a show called Red Ring rating from nine hundred eighty six. It's actually not a bad idea at all to be honest though. 'cause here's here's the element that that makes sense on. That right is because now you've got to decide how fast and how much effort you WanNa put into the obstacle course to get there. Because that's how tired you'll be when you get to the ring right so it's like if you made the obstacle course a little bit more like stage to us to be on America's Ninja Warrior. We have to lift the things up. So it's like there's some energy expended as opposed to just like jumping around a little bit so that night time you're sort of you're sort of worn out now you could get really fast but that takes a lot of energy out of you so there is something to the idea of whoever gets them to the ring. I wins that's actually the core of a very good idea. Now here's the deal. Here's what's great is I don't do. TV Day anymore. So I don't have to deal with this. Yeah I've seen this time I'M GONNA connected by if you guys are so mean to him. I ah no. Here's what I'm going to. I'm with Arthur Smith. Arthur Smith is one of the greatest producers. That's ever been in the business. And he's the Creator and producer of American Ninja Warrior. ooh ooh guys together with. You is an EP. That is a real show that he would take very very serious. I really WANNA do. I just brainstorming. My friends brainstorm again just talking about is because by the way from the time we mentioned this to the time you get on the air is two years from the time. Would it looks like we just talked about to the time it gets in the air. Those shows are unrecognizable. And you made more money in the last fifteen minutes on that show. I'm curious art. What's the shittiest idea? You've ever American idol fans. People pitched me all the time every single day. That was one of the I got all the time white white lies it about it because it just like. It's not a long story I could go into. But it's like the American idol away really worked as it's one person celebrity attach. The band is like people don't have the same attachment to it. You can get detached so lead singer but the band doesn't have the same and drummer and plus it wasn't even that's a bad idea. It's that well I'm sorry. Do you run a record label. No are you the owner of a fancy but like com- performance clubs where bands play all the time or like. Why are you pitching me? American idol like. What do you have now able or people pitch me some sort of? NFL thing happened a few months ago. Guy Wanted to do the NFL combine but the regular people and the quarterback thing. I was like great play in the. NFL No do you own team. No is your best friend quarterback no like what the Hell L. is your connection to the. NFL None Oh I get it so you have a good. You think you have a good idea. You want me to use all my connects do all the work and then go sell it. Take all the risks put put up the insurance and then send you a check is that were you always like that. I'm actually I'm actually fairly surprised. Like do people have to have a credential Russia our network to curb the ential as much as it has to be valued like an idea is not really worth much right. Yeah like do you think ideas are worthless almost worthless in. especially that's that's that's crazy. I've heard this before I'm not I wrestle with this if I agree because execution is John Ideas a little bit closer value for you right if I give you a great idea for a skit you know what I mean. You Take my book. Three Minute Rule C.. You take like my book and you are acquainted to some sort of sex thing with your girlfriend and you can't get three minutes. I slide into the covers while you're in there and I read you chapters and you get. Okay Yeah skit right yes I feel like ideas are super valuable. It might not be value. The person who has the idea its value to the person who takes out. And here's the thing. You could make that skit tomorrow right and you could. You're the one who controls the distribution. So you could get it on the air so the difference between my idea idea and the execution is short so it's actually has some value if you liked it it's got some value if you've pitch an idea for a TV show to get on MTV or get on Spike Spike TV or any of the cable networks. The space that you have to go from from idea to actually getting on the air is so damn far. There are so many heard with a loss. There are so many people so much money so much time so much energy so much development that is just like it's just not going to happen and that's when someone sends me something that they've wg registered third or whatever it's like oh amateur because they know like they don't know anything about the Biz Dev so no-one stealing your idea. I see all the time. Yeah it's GonNa go make knock your your socks off like fans all the time or just like random people that want to pitch me multiple ideas that they have at the same time. Yeah I this this is the next big one and I always say the same thing I say. If you bring me an idea bring me go forward strategy with it otherwise. I'm not interested right so I need to know what's going to work and how how it's going to work those two things combined. Then you have something. I've an idea for a new. TV show and this is how we're going to get it to the network for the network to buy. This is where it's like. Here's here's what I have. That's valuable right. I wrote something awry. Run A podcast. I have applaud like I connected to the restaurant that we're GONNA go film at or I'm in the military like something that says you're going to contribute. And only you can bring that the idea to Mr Mom with dad's at home like yeah. Yeah that's not an idea. That's a concept that someone has to pour their heart and soul in twenty years of experience and get fifty seven people to sign off on like. That's not really going to involve. I'm I'm wrestling with this with Logan which is which is rare we a lot of times Kinda bash on things but it seems weird that that an idea because like a good idea to be honest with you. The most capitalized thing or monitorable thing is a good idea from a dumb person. Like if if you could find a really good idea from someone who can enact it but you can. That's actually a big come up if you but that's what I was getting. You know what I'm saying teams. Yeah yeah because the the dumb person has no value or ability. Here's the thing Logan takes your idea and does something with it. The guys in years and years is the number one podcast world. Let's go. Oh actually factually speaking like that's the values already there. You've already you already have done. Ninety eight percent of the work so sure my idea might might be worth two percent but most people will think their ideas the ninety percent. I think it's a good no because on your last video I think both of us are getting a ton of DM's from people who want. I want to be a part of the new maverick squad example and I think there's there's something like everybody thinks they have talent but it's like what can you actually show. How can you show up how tribute should be Titina so you can imagine? I'm also getting these emails and so many of them have no resume or study or semi video video format an email just like a block of. I'm twenty years old. I'm in college. I WANNA be a star right You know I'm I'm thinking taking acting classes I might. You might be able to believe at this point of view I need like seasoned people who and the most important thing to me is an improbably this parallel to what you're saying like if we are going to bring anyone on this team whose talent they need to have been doing the thing that they're going to continue doing to show that they actually like it and they can do stick with it well like the biggest losers a great example we used to get two hundred and fifty thousand applications. Oh my God and every time when someone one would say if I could just get on the ranch. I know I'd be able to lose the weight right. 'cause they're thinking. Oh put it in when I get there and we're like no gone because if you feel that you need need to get to the ranch lose the weight. You probably won't lose the people that were already on a journey. There's like I'm doing this no matter what I am making this decision. It's going to happen whether you're not pick for for the show. I'M GONNA lose weight. Also like you know the producers of the show at the point when the day to day guys could literally look at someone's bio and they would know if they were gonNA lose the weight instantly. I just got it was like it's a formula to science and that was because there was certain telltale emotional signs that you could see like that person will get skinny that person. We'll never be skinny ever. Yes it was like a tough show to produce from that is yeah I was GonNa say do. Do you feel like you exist in a cutthroat world. Oh you have no the I mean the things I have made people say that they didn't actually say that. I put on the air because reality. TV like editing making storylines. Yeah of course on I wanted to ask you about reality is the only thing we do with areas no version of we let you do it with like we take whatever we need you to say and we will chop it up so you say it that the line that said it was okay. It's okay that sounds terrifying. Most Times I get you to say it for real because I know how to ask questions. Or what's even better is. I have the producers that are ten times better than I am and those producers come from like old school talk. Show days where they're on. Sally Jesse hit this talk and make you do things things who never thought you wanted to and I can get you to say anything if I asked him. You know it's crazy so it's like A. You're like puppeteer in shaping a world. AWW creating the way you're making your talent say say and then it's like Oh. I didn't quite catch them to say the way wanted. That's okay impose host. We'll just moved this word from here and move his end up. There are times when we're on set and I get it in your ear saying we need the word scandal and so it's this like you'll just go through be like what's that word and you just get you to say the word we'll do we're our producers are watching yesterday's episode yesterday the stuff we shot yesterday. We'll see scene. It's really good but they say something. Thank cheating this and it was with Dave and not joe off she just said she was with Dave. Okay then we'll go into the next day and get the same in the chair and be like she was with Davor for Joe no no. She wasn't with Jay or she was until she says she was. you think she was with Dave. Oh could you just say that you think she was with damping has no idea. That's coming from that. Context said that ever and then it just goes you edit it saying she was with Dave and it's like she may never have met Dave or known he doesn't no no I. This is fascinating to me. I think about this all the time. Okay so there's definitely like an evil mastermind that's making all these things happen and someone look bad really anyone in no one ever. There is no back when we as youtubers and creators do that and people around us. You're exposed one. They call path breath which is crazy ex employees. Make a while Afi Maverick. That he is the biggest thing that I witnessed when I jumped into this social space was one of the most important things to the TV process. Which is people watching review teams? I mean I can tell L. You right now. That outside of this camp ninety nine point nine percent of the youtube community makes video cuts video puts the video out. There is absolutely absolutely zero percent review. How would this affect this sensitive group? Power disinfect this protected group. The first thing I did when I joined this camp was enact a review team. And when did you do that. Just as tokens now by the latest ones on on on my podcast. which nobody's ever heard of course very but which is good but I was on the second that happened and I just I said that exact things like what are you talking about like the guys other making videos videos every goddamn day like this never crossing anybody's mind and this in the real world is zero on the scale it was just like it was so overblown and like I said it's not a big deal? It feels like a big deal to moment because that's the way the moment feels and I everybody I've been there. Everybody's been there but it's just like it was a non issue. It was a non issue. The polarizing polarizing sentiment for that video fascinates I. I think it says it says more about and we tread carefully. Talk about what you might as well but I think it says more. You're able to get a good idea of the person based on their sentiment about that event shoot eighteen. Who's who told me? They'll they'll use that as a gauge to to you. Though use the person's his feelings about Tokyo as a gauge of what kind of person they are. It probably wasn't me but I completely forgot that tells you a lot e even take away that event Put anything about somebody else's life like if I see somebody complaining about somebody else's life that tells me a lot about that person's absolutely you know what is what is the three mineral so three minute rules a book I wrote call that basically says everything about your business product or service has to be conveyed clearly concisely and accurately in three minutes or less in those first three minutes. You have to capture and maintain your audience's attention you illustrate value and you gotTA create engagement. And if you don't do that you're losing your audience. The world is hyper sensitive right now and no one. No one's going to let you sell them anything and they just want information attention span and now that is shorter than a goldfish. Eight point two seconds. And it's not because we're dumbed down or that. We're like mindless zombies. It's because we focus more intensely and more efficiently than ever and if I get your precious attention and I don't give you the information you want right away. Bang you're gone you're eh dumb ass. Goldfish will stay around for nine seconds. That's fine but like a person is like I'm paying attention to you. You better have something that I want. And so all the like neuro linguistic programming programming or closing techniques of the sales guys taught you like it's all crap and none of it works anymore. It's more like can get to the point. Can you tell me what it is how it works. Are you sure how about that okay. How do we work four steps that I take through in the book are basically like how you pitch anything? How is how is it different from? Because it's actually Louis conversely doubled to what a general elevator pitch would be isn't a ninety seconds. Here's here's here's the issue right is. Here's the problem okay. It's like it's not just about getting your basic idea tobacco engagement. Do you really pitch and present or INF influence. Somebody do something vassar. Not Not unlike not unlike an elevator with some random fucking know and think about it. Here's the way we taught you how to do it. Elevator pitch. Well Logan tell you what I have have an investment that will make you ten times money by the end of the year and you lean in go. Ooh Tell me more right. Does that sound how you would do that. Someone said that to you and elevator. You GotTa get there if you like. What the Hell right because today in world if you start with a grand conclusion like a big promise people are like your fucking crazy? You're out of your getaway. I forget security secure and then I'm trying to explain Blaine it to you while you're thinking this and your minds guys in idiot. And that's like the disaster what's called the state and prove method and we've been taught that for the last fifty years by ad agencies and everybody like give give them something big to pay attention to and then prove to them like we'll guess what people don't buy anything you say anymore and what we teach in the book and I do around. The country is teach the inform form and lead method. which is like I'm GonNa give you the information and lead you to the conclusion what a storyteller does right? It's why James Cameron can put you in a seat for three hours to watch a movie about a Goddamn Boat that sinks and you know it sinks right and you're not on your phone and you're not talking to people you're watching the titanic sank and it's because we inform you of the characters characters we inform you the story and we lead you to that same conclusion and you can do that in any pitcher presentation you can use Hollywood storytelling to lead your audience that they come to the same conclusion when you want them to. Did you just did you just three minute. Rules on the book. It's a little bit jog. Wow It's GonNa ask you to and then I realized just onto me and I'm sitting here and I'm like how do I order this. The and listen to it happened because I was not super happy with TV TV was. It's a tough business right like and you pitch like yeah. I I saw Tun of shows but I've had a ton more ten times fifty times more get passed on right and one time I was pitching uncle. lucked hotel down here. And there's a whole bunch of people in a conference friends and and it was really ticor is and he said like this is the show that they passed on and he was like. Oh my God. That's the best show ever heard of my life and I was like yes. It was and then my eagles getting all flooded because he was so excited and then people were coming around fifteen people around me and pitching all these. TV shows that network passed on. And they're like you're the greatest and I was like thank God somebody and the guy came up to me and he said Hey. Can you teach my clients do what you do and I was like. I don't know what your clients do. And he's like can you teach my clients to pitch the people and not put them to sleep. I have like institutional investors listening to micro cap and small cap public companies biotech engineers and oil and gas companies. And the terrible. Go Down to Florida and I watched oil and Gas Company present for twenty two minutes. The worst thing I've ever seen in my life what would you rather do. Oh like I would rather eat your arm right. I was the worst thing I've ever seen and so he begged me to come to L. A. and work with this thing. I redid his presentation. I didn't think a lot of it was not that difficult for me because I just looked at it like a TV show. How would I explain this? And he left me a voicemail like a couple of weeks later he just said he was CHR voices crack. He's getting emotional and he just had listened. You changed my life like a dread going on the road to go and sell the stuff now. I'm so excited to talk to people. My wife thinks he puts up into my drink to stalk way up. Like I'll never forget what you did for me and I was just like what the hell man no network president had never said anything thing like that to me before in my entire life and as like a caveman. I'm one chromosome from a caveman about Brad. Liked me important branch and do more of this and so that's where I start working and by the way you make money for an investment bank as Orange would tell you like oh my God and they because they didn't have to pay me client paid I and they've sold out the stock they made the offer because they're like oh we have another client. I was like really let me try that and it was a biotech. Yeah diabetes is anti rejection therapy and it's like some some scientists guys the CEO and he's got a wing in the Miami hospital named after him and he can't explain what he does to save his lack of success. Exactly yeah and so once you do that a few times like Oh and then I gotta go into like oxygen and pick another. TV show emerged and so when the money stopped being thing and it wasn't chasing the dollar anymore. It's like well now. What am I going to do? You know like because there's money and then there's far money right and there's invest and then the second van when you get like the the top echelon of TV money. There's there's only one more step to go and I was a long way from getting there again to build a company again. It's like I just realized that the timing changed and it just like once you get infected with the idea that you can help people and change the things that I would see the same frustration in their faces like it didn't matter it was a PTA president of my friends. My Wife's she just they believe in their value of what they have to offer but they can't can't make other people understand it and like to be able to unlock that for someone is like I just tell me how great I am again. And then you get on stage in front of two thousand people at a conference and they're standing ovation from your speech that you've given nineteen times and it's like you get better every time and coming to sign books for you and it's like Like I think I'm going to do this more. I sold a book and that went well. And that's the that's the bonehead and our TV and just like banks hold the book and then just like I'm out of here bitches. I'm now how's it. I'm in the book process. It's it's fucking insane March I. That's that's I'll tell you the exact opposite spectrum tell you the worst and I wouldn't tell a lot of people this but the promotion is really rough because you've got to ask favors from foul K.. Is Really hard to do. WanNa know who. It's a little bit easier for yes people like. You know what they'll see. It's it's harder than you think because the people that you get on your list right now you don't want you want people you can't get too and that's what happened to me and it's just like you're GonNa find people that you thought you could get to that. Don't give you the time of day. I got people who did a lot for me that I can't get on their show and it's just like Oh man I mean going on shows how are you talking about digital promotion. And I've I've a bit of a CI on it because my book is about a really personal battle. Yeah and so when you say not promoting my book. You've just said not me. I guess human you know what I'm saying I don't care about your or you WanNa get on right right Kellyanne Ryan strict. He's like I want to get on the view on the. I think it's GonNa Happen. I see the topic. The topic's the opiate epidemic. Yeah so so. It's a big fucking at the perfect time and everything works. We're Edison and I have a lot of friends in the business. I worked with Whoopi Goldberg for years and did a lot of stuff and I can't get on the view because they're doing political stuff right right right right and so when you ask somebody that and I have a couple of the people that I thought would say yes. And they're just like no Mansoura can't Gat and you're like here's your heart all these favors for doesn't feel like you. Just feel like your groveling for stuff again and that's just for me. I found that Difficult to do. But you did it because I'm like I'm getting a little bit show I wanted. Dude I gotta get on that show and I told my I told my listen. Get me on on that show. I like that dude and I would've. I would've pulled other strengths. I was going to have a man in batch come all you. What's your relationship with batch? So we did. He did my podcast before we worked together a lot. His movie stuff because mccheese company I really close. He's been time we have. Let's have fine. We're cool and take him out too. So I I've been around that and Kassim and stuff too but now you know pretty we start coming just got tampered with talent. Dude his blowed right on the edge which I was GonNa say what is your. What do you do ten things too many? Are you author. Are you still involved in TV at all. Are you a business coach. Yes I do. TV A little bit. Because I don't run a company anymore I don't do it as full-time Biz. If I have a great eight idea or you have a great idea to connect you to somebody like. That's all direct a movie once a year kind of thing really directing so do that. I had a couple of movies do really well that I directed that was fun in the documentary. Entry space loaded socks. I'll tell you the title. Then you say yes you heard it. Okay it was called wound on facebook and I and I love and Professional. Tell us when we can't be show Biz. Say Anything you want on the TV Amino Pokemon go that I did as a short diving on this one so the wind on facebook facebook wasn't on social media. I was going to direct a documentary. I decided to do it on my hatred of facebook and my theory was facebook is evil and it's all bad and then as I got into it I realized like okay. Well if I hate it so much problems either me or the problem is facebook. And so I'd go into approved that it's like Facebook and cost your job. But it's like a the number one job recruiting sites world. There's facebook facebook can cost you your relationship. My cousin got married because so much music. And then eventually you realize wait a second. This could be a me thing and so this thank you and it turns out. It wasn't me thing like we were actually more concerned with. So so that was that movie really really well as doc so then I did a followed because pokemon go. I caught my daughter. Sleep sneaking out of the house in the middle of the night freaking out and she's going to hatch eggs and POKEMON. God wait wait. Hold on she was. She was attaching eggs. Yeah he wasn't trying to catch any she had to go walk. You gotTA walk. Yeah wow this is too weird right so I do the same format as the face. Okay okay so there's either I don't understand the idea but people love it so it may not be that it's dumb. It may be that I'm not thinking about right. Like maybe on the dumb ass so I spent time figuring out pokemon go a bunch of funny clips and stuff you guys might not think they're funny but regular people and and so ended up finding out that hey you know what if she likes. Poke Mongo Start Liking POCO because it connected us and if you have a fourteen year old daughter thirteen year old daughter at the time like finding connect with your thirty and it was amazing so it was a huge thing so so did it as a digital short when a ton of that was fun so I like that process and that's how I spun the the podcast. You're not making a lot of money off of those films. Do for fun do fun because I like it and passion projects and enlisted. It's just part of the brand right and it just sort of built in then. I did the PODCAST. Odd cast each week. I was going to take a new topic that I didn't quite understand that people loved then I got into it and I did a bunch of the guys that what's that called. It's called why I'm not with Brad opinion. Okay Okay but the problem was is then like I was telling you earlier. Like then you put I put Rob Lowe on Lebanon's like all of a sudden views. Go Way up pockets. ooh I like that. And that's go ahead batch come out and do it in like next much hand on because she'll get lots of like it turned into sort of like some hybrid celebrity chat show. Oh that's like basically you get that stuff anywhere. It stopped being like Super Fun for me but you know it's a hard business right. We we wrestle with that a little little bit. We were just talking about it between providing value like actual value and entertainment so that's a balancing itself also balancing that we we know that if we have off mcbroom honor like Tanna or some array podcast. Get Shit Yeah views. But we have brand paramedic Orley Peter Crone like. I'm probably one of the most value based valuable episodes ever lead a better person until until this episode of obviously unfortunately because people care about the things that they should care but I think the right people do you know You hit you hit you. Hit the valuable and I think I think we've obviously found the balance. We found that you know. Every every three episodes we do EVALU- base and my personal favorite. I think speak for everybody here on our favorite episodes. Actually no guest right just we go. People probably love love them when I do now. I'm doing this new podcast with his investment bank. That hired me to do it. And I'm basically interviewing conic business leaders from all different businesses. That have had huge ideas that have revolutionized that they're in school. And so it's like okay. Now that I'm interested in doing because I get to go talk to really cool people and talk about really cool stuff and have you done. What have you done so far? So like probably my favorite was Kathy Ireland. So it's like former supermodel. Let's billion dollars a year. A two and a half billion dollar a year company. Top Top ten ten licensing companies for the last twenty five years is her model still working like she's a she's a washing direct response version. And you know what she does. She's a licensing machinery. She finds a product that could do pretty. Well she puts the licensing around goes right and then goes quadruples their distribution and takes on everything. The small organization doesn't have to manufacture stuff. I mean it's just crushes. She's one of the most successful licensing. Yeah she's just thinking I did. I did Christie hefner playboy as at a pub as a Public Company for twenty five five years the longest running female CEO in public on history. She does so. She does socialized from and she was just like she's just a bad ass female. Co and you're just like God damn. That was cool and you might think the reason. She got to be the president of Playboy's because she was hugh hefner's daughter and then after you hear the interview you realize like Whoa. She was the only only person to hire for that GIG. 'cause she's just that bad ass so it's that kind of stuff that I really likes all do more of that. So and like the touring around and meeting with companies as in speaking to companies and consulting. It's fun it's pretty lucrative but I'm just in the mode where I just want to have fun and I was saying when I was two guys compound here. It's like Oh my God you're the single version version of me like this is. This is my life. If I didn't get married and have kids at twenty one years old. You wait what married at twenty one twenty one years you had kids at twenty one hundred kids at twenty six. Are you still with the twenty five years Ratan. Any school cool. I mean listen. I work really hard to to make feel cool like this is a lot of work to make you think I might be cool. You crumble any moment doing a good job but like you know like like your your compound here the funds own here like this is like this is exactly what my house is but just like a little bit of an older Nerdier Mary Dude I was like it also it also depends on what wing house you're talking about. I mean we got some we got a we got a kid in this room. Right now goes to sleep at eight thirty PM. Shit you not at eight thirty PM. I won't call all now. It's the videographers names Andre. And he goes to bed around eight thirty PM. If he's up at like ten he is Frankie. You do. Well you get a position should and now I run a travel and adventure club where I just don't so great by the way and that's launching rockets next. What's the biggest motivator driver of what you do in your life right now? What makes you have fun joy? The He's number. I got married at twenty one. I was an entrepreneur. Since I was eighteen I struggled struggled struggled. I made it. I made it big and now it's like all that I missed doing what you do like now with the fun and the girls and the people call like all this stuff you hear as just you like your own own person. I never had that I had kids. I had a wife was trying to pay. A mortgage is trying to struggle a nobody believed in me and then it worked and so then I was just trying to get as much as possible and get my squirrel grow grabbed as many nuts as you can and then I finally got the point where it's like okay like I am not going to get private jet money like an but I have every other toy and so it's like well what's what's next like private jet money is way the hell up here and like everything I have is the same now like a bigger house. It's not going to have more rooms. Like yeah gotTa Theater like what am I like. What am I doing what I only do? What brings me joy? And that's what I found was I don't have this. I don't have a group of friends that I could just go. Grab my jet ski and go jet skiing and so I just like if I don't create this. I'm never going to do it so I just started creighton invites and inviting fighting people to come to crazy stuff and then it turned from ten people that wanted to go to fifty to five hundred now. It's I have a club. Twelve hundred people adventure club. Yeah AH batch came on my jet skiing to Catalina. One is their website. It's called reject average com young pulled off. y'All y'all gentleness you the. What are you rejecting? Rejected average talk. Reject average should Jetski to Hawaii. We went to Catalina. It's a lot of guts. That's me traveling adventure. You can do all that stuff. Yeah it's crazy you wanna hear the greatest batch story ever on this huge Muskie. Yeah so we do all this kind of crazy fuck wrong. Why are we doing this man? You're hard to get to body right a Goddamn book. Become semi sort of micro famous to just to get on this damn. If you're watching this podcast you or somebody role in wants to be on the show. You need need to find a mysterious man by the name Dylan only one accessory and I'm not giving you any of his info. You gotTa Find Your fucking. Do you take some fun. I got a lot of things we don't we don't really have. We like we did an exotic car rally the coast of Monterey. We did ten exotic cars and we swapped cars every hour. We just did five days. Guadalupe died and great white. Sharks is that what this is. That's a big old. Sorry when it was me filming in that right there with me. No that's okay. You were filming. I thought that was actually a drink. Do Party are you a out of that. Yeah it's hard to get up and I owned a bar for years so like when you own a bar free as you see drunk and morons it really puts it in perspective. Why don't you shut it down? Not The bar but the party. I mean I'm Charlie ten years ago like when the kids get a little older and they can watch that and they can see like I don't want to bring my the kids like poverty. King Batch comes on this jet Ski Adventure Right the first time I met him. And we jet the ski all the way to Catalina Island and part of the thing. Is You swim through this cave and then you go up on this rock big rock and you do a cliff dive right and the tides high. The clift is probably fifteen feet a little a bit scary when the tide's low it's like thirty feet really scary and it was low that day so he gets up to the edge of the thing right and he's kind of like oh the bill and he's like crawling like he doesn't want to get to the edge and I'm like I'm like guiding everybody over and I was like. Oh Dude like you don't have to do this. It's fine ooh myself God man like batch and you even swing you swim I mean I don't WanNa stereotype but you're okay right. 'cause you're GonNa Throw Your Life Jacket and I co- guy with light jackets so I'm like Oh my God this is going to go so bad. He's nervous and he walks to the edge and he flips out bang and does a full back off the victor full back. He was just playing with you bro. He thought he was totally. You would've loved this so there's about fifteen. It was but yet Kelly nine. I'm taking place where we're GONNA have lunch. And people see him and they lose their minds right and so I have a bunch of nerdy executives. That's what my club is full. A lot of these guys that don't do anything normally and they come up for this kind of stuff and they're like what's going on here. I understand like and he goes. There was a famous or something. Oh my God hi there. My least favorite question she goes. She comes between lease which you saw this. She goes wait. Who are you go logan? She was we. Are you famous missile. how even with the eyebrows Bro? The judge me for cash go we. Are you famous or something. That looks like or something like that. It's so great fucking bashing can you handle it so cool. He's just with the kids and stuff no big deal and I was like to do you have no no. I like bugging my body looking at total fool like Dan going on your tower though and having that scenario happen is is actually super valuable for the influencer because when anytime you can make business leaders or investment firm while that can make it emotion happen or someone by something. Ding Dong Ding Dong Ding. Dong the money everybody wants to be Logan's friend like you know how to use this kid and that is quite a bit like that. But what's great is like I get to pick because it's not run it through my nonprofit often right so it's like the average cost very much. I get to pick. Who Goes So? I take twelve. People here are five people there. We go also snowmobiling. And it's like I only because I just WanNa have fun. It was like what would have done if I was twenty four years old and I had this kind of money like this Kinda Shit. I would've done every day. I would have just gone so I do like three adventures a month. Stop and go but I yeah I produce it like a TV show like I how money right now. Currently yeah asking him the same question I wanna hear this. There's there's a couple of pieces one. I paid real well to consult like when you your company wants to become. I mean I charge a lot through consulting. Money is so good huge. If you've ever find a way to find to dig a hole into the consulting world it is mind blowing how much money you can make off fucking pay quite a bit to come speak at a convention or whatever get paid so that works out pretty well and I don't want to seem like I'm trying to figure how to say up being a dick but it's hard hard to get out of the way of money if you have skill and you have ability in part it's easy you can't go very far without whacking uniphase. I mean I mean think about it like once you started making money doesn't matter happens you're still making money. It's a change. What you do a little changed this is like yeah? I made a ton of money when I was doing TV. And now. I'm like I'm not even sure if I made as much. I don't make as much Eddie last year. I do. I do agree. I think it's I think it's formulaic like it's a code. You could crack for sure her. We'll just like it's just like the people who work hard and have skill and see opportunity can deliver like you may not make the same amount of money that you did something else. But it's like it's it's their right and right now it's just. It's not a driver of what I do because again I'm never getting a private jet money in my mind so I'm fine with that yourself. Show nothing I do now is GonNa Affect Act my money I have. I'm fine you've just like I'm more concerned with what is joy like. How do I get joy because I I don't? I don't only twenty years of my life to make money and sacrifice joy so it's like what should what do you think I should put five more years in and then go eight years more like how many more years before I actually actually say okay. Now I've got including now I'm going to take it out like I said this to my wife. I was like listen. I'd rather spend all of our money over the next twenty five years. And then when I'm seventy years old like have to find some job as a Walmart greeter like I'd rather do that. Put a great Walmart. They don't WanNA spend five more years grinding. It out out for money that I'm not even spending what is you know you. You may be wired though given what you do in that. You're so I used to redirect a rejection innovation and impinging shows. Yeah you have to come up with something that works or your when you were in the TV business his own like you fail. You Fail so many times. I'm okay with it when you don't if something isn't making money or you want to find a new way to make money your wired in a way that you can just do that because you're used to going from A to B two seated and. When I met ended the book I was like if I never make another penny like if I never ever make any more money like I'm okay if it never gets better than this this is fine? I got real estate stuff like I'm not going to go broke no matter what I do and you know that and by the way the the figure it out if it's always on your brain it's all you think of it consumes time and it's like I decided to take a year and see if I could live like that like I don't care what I spent I'm just GonNa do my thing and not think about it and it was a great year my Shirley the book and went all these eventually had fun. It's like okay. I'll try one more year like that and if I get to the point where it's like Ooh I think I need to go make some money like it'll it'll happen it's fine. It's it seems to be working. Well I just WanNa have fun all talk. That's what I WANNA do is. We'll see if I get tired of that. I'll figure something John Fund is on. Yeah I mean by the way like you've you're trading that right right like right now in your world you have access to like funds. You could do anything you want your super physically fit you. Don't have any anchors not now that my kids are anchors but anchors wife and a kid like you could literally spend every single day trying to figure out how to cram more and more joy into your life but you work and you work asa then you train for a fight and you dedicate months of that so it's like you're making trade offs every day and it's right in front of you like I've been. I did a tour of your place like this. This is a fun zone and you spent. How many hours today working right like a lot? All the answers all all of them. So it's like you're making this trade. I Know How's I was GONNA ask you. It's work but I really do. Enjoy what I so. It doesn't feel like I work. Can you imagine I start to feel like he worked. I attempt to stay away from anything that makes me feel like that. It's kind of a rule if sometimes I will put in like the work. Yes but like even boxing training. I thoroughly enjoy it. Yeah I really enjoy being being regimented. Even though I'm putting my body through hell it's fun for me. So do you feel like that with the things when you're consulting or were is it. Does that bring joy to you. Literally travel events does because it's different every time it's new companies but I do find sometimes like I'll take a GIG and it's like I'm not. I'm not winning anything thing here. I'm just helping these people say they're crappy message a little bit better and I've actually worked with companies where I'm working on their investor presentations and their thing for a public company. I'm like show. I'm going to go home in short your stock like I'm trying to help you tell a better story but your story socks your your company's not good and your stock is going to go down over the next six months so like doc. I'M GONNA go short it when I get home. But they're paying me to help them so I don't do any of that anymore because you're not eating on both sides. Oh and and again. I don't know how to save that sound like a Dick but like it's hard like office like the softest way to say it is a big big deal for huge money is just as much work as a little tiny deal for a little bit of money And and when you start realizing it's like Oh my God like reading a copy for an ad of a company's GonNa pay you almost nothing or a huge mega sponsor. Same Reed same staff. Same work. Doc It's just like okay. Well what if I only did big companies. What do I work with people that could bring me like big monster stuff like that's right? Yeah and it's like you you know so. I've got to learn to do that better because I just want to help people in like when people emailed me and say like can you help me my my instincts like yes. Oh God you're GonNa think I can be important to somebody again like that's the narcissist in me with mixed with healthy like this in healthy sort of insecurity that I have like causes me to like help people for free all the time because I want to be important and they can say nice things about me. I love to hear that stuff away too complex for help people because it makes me feel fucking not because I want to help those men I. That's pretty well. The driver right there. That's what happens all the time so it's kind of crazy. Is You gotten good at and comfortable with saying no nope boy. That wasn't bad. I know now I can't. I'm I'm miserable it. And that's why I don't like that's why I don't run companies anymore because I was bad with employees. If you worked for me like right beside me then yeah sir cool but anybody else like. It was a disaster. Because I just can't I can't displease people. What if you don't like me like it's a disaster like I just can't do things and saying no to people and like that just doesn't work for me and so I try to keep myself out of that situation as much as possible and an easy but it's it's just I'd rather do things that I probably Shoulda done like charge more or I probably Shoulda done and I still had fun rather than go through the pain internally Turnley of saying no to somebody but again? I'm at a point where I can afford to make mistakes and do that. Because he's not crooning my career anymore. I also have a problem with that. It's it's rough. That's why he's here. I'm having that third person that you can always do deflect you is good but then that your guy go fly. I'd say to my fucking like I have called Orrin with a deal like somebody called me and asked me to do something big and I'm like I get off the phone. I have no idea how to price that I don't even know a call orange and he'll be like you don't WanNa do that. Here's why you don't want to do that. That's ridiculous there's so much as only God he's right. I was telling you before I even thought about it. You know mm-hmm you my ability to help. You is dependent on your ability to listen to my advice brand. Tell me who the way. He's so what you're saying is he's me mixed with Dylan. Basically 'cause he's visit a really excited. No Yeah I love it you know. And that's it's important to have mentors that space now it's hard for you like who mentors you on this stuff like honest. It's not easy it is one of my stuff. It's one of my. I want to say regrets rats. But it's one of my deepest wishes in life. I wish I I love paving the way and being the trailblazer literature drawing the the blue blueprint but I also yeah. There's no-one no-one here to mentor me. I'm figuring the shit out everyday. And that's more. It's it's tough because it could. It's led to my downfall awful a lot of times just because I don't really know what I'm doing. I'm I'm in the midst of growing up and I've always had a tendency to mature a little more slower than my peers and also trying to take over an industry and at the same time and by the way. I'm not insulated by a team of producers. Who Don't know or our time time? You put your shit out on there now and you get feedback right. This moment decisions you make right now is gonNA I was Gonna ask them so crazy. It's all I know in by the way I love it. 'cause bromide attention span you so you said the average is eight seconds is probably two three seconds now like legit so. I'm I'm obsessed with the instant gratification. That is social media. I don't know if it's super healthy. How do you how do you have the patience for Hollywood? I talk fast. I'm sure you think I'm I talking to walk. Walk fast growing. Do I bet you walk fast. You fill up your gas tank fast faster than the average. How patients for Hollywood? I don't I add ad patients for Hollywood when it was my job and it was torture because what happens is in Hollywood. Anybody could get that job. You have to be nice to everybody. That's why they let's do lunch. Happened right is because you have you know in that person's getting this job or that job or when they can do a favor when they can introduce you to somebody so you have to put up with stuff that you would never never put up with the happening in your real life and that used to make me crazy because it's just not the way I was brought up. It's not the way understood relationships or life and it's just like I had a network executive who ran a big big big network and you'd go and pitch them a show and he'll be all excited about it. Yeah I love this. It's a great ideal. It's amazing and you'd I believe they're all excited. And then you tell your boss or your friends or your agents. Oh my God is good. We're going to have this happen at ABC. And I WANNA put on blast without saying so oh. ABC's going to do this right and then you wait to call and you call me like hey did you. Did you pick it up. And he wouldn't answer and he wouldn't call you back and the agents would call and you'd be ghosted you'll feel but he's a dude. Nominee may also have a problem saying no I get it I get it. But then you're kinda guilty of that okay so then agents saying hey member just get assume. It's a pass because I can't get him on the phone and you're like Oh what the hell and then you have another pitch on the books and you gotta go up their six weeks later and you walk into the room. Oh Hi how you doing. What's going on and you do the same damn routine again? Of course then you just pretend it doesn't happen but the real screen party. Oh what's up man. And then someone asks. Oh Yeah we're buddies and it's like the real life and you go to me we'd be done as you talk about it or did you just skip that happen because you need that relate. You need a crazy as in your messed up brain. You think that for some reason if he kind of thinks you're still buddies he's GonNa buy a show from you that he wouldn't have bought Norman. which is such a clash because I have friends who have been the presence of networks and and they didn't by shows from me they can't buy shows that aren't good enough to make an fifty-seven people at the sign up but for some reason we feel like oh I got a kiss? Everybody's what he's asked all the time just in case that moment comes to my pucker is ready. What if what? If you've kissed all fifty-seven ask what you do. That is by the way. That's how the because because in this world if you didn't kiss one of the SS or by the way you have history one of the asses off fifty six and your shows dead. 'cause is fifty seven said fuck that creates the scale right like. How good is your show? Have to be to get through the list. And everything's even everybody's here if you have great relationships and you know everybody you lower the bar a little bit if you piss off certain people the bargain tire and when you're a game of inches and you're talking about millions and millions of dollars right. The biggest loser is multi billion dollar franchise. Right bar rescues half a billion dollars. Probably our company made on the paper my house. You know what I mean like my car's ars about rescue car like so you're talking about major major life changing moments based on one. Yes or no and for me when I started my own company at a big show show at Scifi and we were about to go into production. We've been working on it for a year. Getting Ready to go. Everything was good. We're so excited. Get a call from a one of my executive friends who just said. Hey Man shows dad. We're killing it. Finance came in. They don't want to do in big competition shows killed right there. One phone call so I went in my company. That's a six million dollar piece of business that show. I went from being two million dollars over projections for the year. So you know the studio excite everybody's dancing in the streets right to four million under in September K.. There's no making that out. Money doesn't exist so instead of being the hero. It's like you're instantly feel like the goat and when I was running my own company completely my own I realize like every single phone call was like that like if the buyer at oxygen or NBC said Yes we want to develop it. Oh I'm happy if they said No. We're passing OGM sad and and then as you go through that you're like what am I doing. It's exhausting and it's not even spending the money I'm just putting it away like for when like years later. What I'm to encrypt to work? I'm GONNA need this extra three hundred and twenty five hundred going through this right and it was just like forget it. I'm done with this. Yes and so that was it. I just didn't want to give somebody else that kind of control over me and it's probably what you went through in your early days on youtube like one person would make a nasty comment on your video and Eh ruin your day. And it's like I hard viewers. You gotta get over it because to be honest with you like no no. I always say people that that comment negatively right. They're commenting negatively about themselves. Well that's not just nothing to do with the content. They're trying to get a rise. They're trying to make up for the fact that they have a little Dick Dick like it's fucking. Imagine that every negative comment you got. Cut Your revenue in half and if you've got an negative comments you got no money from them to idea person that'd be by the way that's TV every time you go. You get a negative comment. No revenue get negative comment no revenue keep going till you get one and then you get one in there. You're so excited excited. Oh you didn't get season. Two sorry no more revenue so oh you hired all these people to produce the show. Guess what go. Fire The mall because we're not doing season two so digital technically democratized. Yes the world. That's the story at the end of the day. made it so there aren't these massive pitfalls less. You have a massive pitfall but for for the most part their little bleeps and you can get past things move on absolutely what I'm just curious. Did you ever show that you thought was phenomenal. A great great idea and it did not get picked up and moved to this day. You still think they had a place on TV. I mean I've had so many of those. It was crazy like so many shows that I'm like. Oh Oh my God that was the greatest show like it happens all can say one of them or is it is it protected. Ip or no. I don't care about the protected. Ip Anymore. I just going to pick one that I was like that was one of my favorite shows of all time time so I did one with Michael. Stray handcuffed power the people. CBS that should have gone on and it was like. Hey humanity can do amazing things when we work together. Imagine if I gave you Logan Paul a thousand people in your driveway to command one. Could you build. What could you also fix? Education says. Okay here's another one ready remote chef K.. You can't Cook to save your life. I'm GonNa make you cook the hardest five-star meal you've ever tried in your entire life but don't worry because bobby flay is in your ear and he's got your eyes and she's talking you through cooking this amazing thing to I know family the mother in the year I know I know. I know he's like I know all about. Do you think some of this is shut down because of like other peoples in it. Just don't work out. Sometimes they work sometimes they. Don't you know the family business shows. I've had literally hundreds of them like that where you're like. Oh my God that was the greatest show ever. There's so many factors. I mean we talk about here sitting on the podcast that the networks just like not really like that idea. That's never the case. Networks overspent on this show so now they can't afford that one that one I did with Mark Cuban's called the white room. Guess what everybody learns things on Youtube now right right. That's how we learn things I lock you in a box for seventy two hours is giving you one thing to learn. You got locked in this box and you spend all your time in the white room learning this thing when you open the box walks you're on stage and you walk out live and it's like okay. Can you juggle the chainsaw. Okay John can we tried the chainsaw. Galvin said this is how it started when I was doing this and it was like. Oh my God there's the smarty. Co much smarter. I I feel now. That's that's the business could steal these for my youtube. You can have all of them. You can have a goal of the restaurant that you've never heard of before is about go under decides to create their signature disk. There's the pinks hotdogs. What have we created the craziest idea in your restaurant? It's the slow cooked beef that takes nine days to cut like just give it a shot for you. Close the doors. You're we're going to build a thirty foot slow cooker and we're going to put the meat on one side. Takes nine days and customers come in mark nine days ahead of the rest of these restaurants. You create their signature desks right and you create these cool over the top dishes they sell. And that's what did you ever come up with the second one was just the nine day brisket when we had the world's biggest burger and something that you have everybody comes with a measuring stick. And lets you decide where you want like. We come up with all these outrageous dishes. Here's where people are like. Okay great it's the longest during assist Spaghetti. They make one string twenty six. They take it into one. You ever use any extracurriculars to get to those ideas you know do do it all and go out in the middle of the fucking desert. It's been a popular sort of talk about how we do these executive retreats to try to come up with stuff which is pretty funny. But it's like it's a no what worked on somebody else's channel. Let's do a version of that. Why don't we change this channel? We do this to this G he ready. You've seen amazing race. A bunch of morons trying to happily make their way across simple puzzles like Oh how do I assemble this key thing what we did amazing race for the smartest people in the world engineers. Mit People that come together to build their way across every they say every piece art you we know you know. We try to offer that Jake amazing race and they didn't do it. We did not do it because it was like it was like influence or season. Oh God and we were like We don't really want to and by the way we spent the three days at the facility filling the papers doing a four hour tests sleeping overnight and we're like we finally sat down with the exact and we told them this beforehand. We told them that if there was going to be any other social media stars we were not interested and we just repeated arsov in the meeting and the one guy pipe. He's like your say if there's any other influencers you're not GonNa do it. And I looked at Jacob's like that's what we don't know where I thought we made that clear. I think this is GonNa work wasted three days of my time. I hope your season sucks. What fucking it was on? Well the difference who was on it Cola Brandt Jesus love and firefighter. Yeah well because that casting you in that moment made you bigger than the show right. And that's so that show would benefit from you more than you would have benefited from the show. Yeah and if they would have done it you just cast it in a normal sense like an enormous season then it would have. Benefited you more than the show would benefit hitter right because you would have got the upswing from being on the as a normal contest so they positioned it wrong. I can't believe the amount of Um Preparation and research that goes into finding the contestants and talent and two you million dollars an episode. You can afford to do that kind of stuff. That is insane insane. Greatest example of traditional versus digital. Oh my God oh my God jake. Sweating was crazy because MTV MTV MTV was scattered around his house like trying trying to keep up with Jake Tanna the manager nuts TV and movie scripted. TV's up here and then movies are another layer of ridiculous. How many people? I remember when Nathan for you came to film with me and yeah and so I was on the show and we did a whole thing saying he said something to me like. Yeah well. I'm a reality show too and I laughed and I was like you got forty six people in my conference room like you are not a reality. Whatever yeah so it was pretty crazy? I'm hungover you'll love his first notes that he got from the network on Baras. Those will will help us with the hangover. Your own I note you got on. Oh you were shot the pilot so so what happened was and the reason why this is so relevant. 'cause I to tell the story now is because when I got the notes for the book because I never like I don't even read books right so like why are you paying me. Six figures to write a book. It's just a crazy my God. I'm so nervous right so it's like I write. It takes me forever to do two chapters in a book thing you gotTa to send them two chapters I after you start writing they say like Oh we like your direction all we consider this. Let's bring you somebody else to talk to you. And so you're nervous about what happens. So the guy calls me back. Editors is hey listen we scan through it. Looks like you're in the rights space. I'll send you some detailed notes later but for now. Just keep going in the same trajectory off you go and do these notes like after. You're done the I just keep going okay. Good I'm so excited off. Then he emails me like four days later I got the notes for your first chapter. You know just. Don't worry about them for now. Just keep going so I'm like okay. And then emails me like ten minutes later. He goes oh by the way. I just want you to think that when read the notes that we aren't happy like we are happy with how it's going like I just I don't know if I conveyed that really in my note and I was like Oh crap so I literally to pull the car over like get the phone into like hotspot bowed like Oh my God. What did he say? And it's not like ooh. I wonder if the audience might like this a little earlier. Oh great point here. What if we could expand this like the softest like Oh your your talent brand which was just the craziest thing and so I wrote in the note which is what the first night we got back on? `Bar Askins like hey just so you know like here's the first one I ever got back on by rescue of the pilot. It said nothing else but this is the worst piece of Shit I've never seen. How do you even know how to make television? was that was the no who was it. Go that isn't that's not. No that was that was the pilot came from Sharon Levy. Yeah she is. She's amazing and I love her. She must on no no by the way it may have been. I don't know if it was the worst thing but like it's a pilot that's the process and that's the relation. We have now and and by the way by that time it was the edit team and the guys who are in the mix of it. They're the ones who have to deal with it. I was just like Oh. That's how I aspire to get to a place in life where yeah no it was just like hey. This is equivalent to a flaming piece of dog. Shit the FUCK I. Don't I know and the person says wow because that person said it. This is a flaming piece of dog. Shit they don't even question it for a second and then they go back and they fix it by by the way. Just fix it. It's not like this has no value. It's just this is currently using dogs. She does have value right for this current form. It doesn't but when it becomes uh-huh methane and you can utilize fuck out the truth. Is it also shows you where you are in the pecking order right because if you take that note that's where you are and I know producers if they would have got not that not driven over there and kick the doors in the place on fire and there's persists you'd never send that note too. So that's the sort of jockeying for position in Hollywood. And you always want. I want to be the person who in the network gives you you send it back and say go fuck yourself. Take the tape. Or don't and there are producers. Craig does that whenever he wants like if you don't send him notes like that because he will tear strip off call your boss and he'll ruin your life because that's that's the level he plays at right and he craig religion and I pass on a show at the network and he didn't like that he went around around me my boss. They went to the head of the entire corporate organization and got in a fight with them and be like this is a- and the guy bought the show and he came back to us and be like well. I bought the show around. I like that guy. He's a gangster. Wow that's awesome and I always say I want to be somewhere between where I am on the tough guy and Craig bulletin like. How do I get a little closer to the balance and balance so more travel adventure trips? That's right that's the only think I'm joy joy joy I'm GonNa go take a nap boy. In that way. You'll brad thanks for coming on Bros and then is a very very very very big honor for me. Big Fan of you guys for sure you. I've watched your guys his career. Because I watched talent so I saw right beginning. I saw you and your bro and I was just like these guys are super super interesting. And I've seen every iteration that you guys have gone through and it's just like crazy I know and I appreciate everything you guys have done. And how you've done it super impressive crazy crazy by working. They find you on social media media I am at Brampton Civic and you get more about the book at three minute rule. Let's go ladies gentlemen. Thank you for listening to a pulse of the number one award winning winning Pasha in guys next episode.

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LOGAN PAUL SPEAKS ON GOING BROKE AND THE DEATH OF MAVERICK - IMPAULSIVE EP. 103

Impaulsive with Logan Paul

1:20:43 hr | 2 years ago

LOGAN PAUL SPEAKS ON GOING BROKE AND THE DEATH OF MAVERICK - IMPAULSIVE EP. 103

"Perhaps if you don't get the joke you are and and I have to thank the people re tweeting and sharing this videos for making me and my brand go viral once again and helping me you sell tickets for the challenger Games this weekend. It's GonNa be a huge huge event which by the way for charity event the Special Olympics like who's winning here the short whereas answer no producer no co host and no guest we man was supposed to come in today and he cancelled we men what's good but also welcome back to a boss if the number one podcast in the world thank you for listening watching viewing subscribing hit de-subscribe button. We've got a lot of shift to talk about today. We have a lot went down this past weekend again. We are closing two million subscribers closing two million. It's coming up quick amazing. This show is indeed returning around despite my Pinkai which is why I'm wearing glasses but actually when I say is turning I mean it 'cause I'm wearing glasses for two reasons one because of the pink that it just talked about just now but also boys we got another sponsor awesome. We have a sponsor Jay Black Sunglasses Jay black was started out of frustration being unable to find any high quality fashionable frames that affordable prices any good quality polarized pair of sunglasses normally costs over over one hundred and fifty dollars. We know that Gucci Rayban they set out to change that would jay black. They're made of Italian cellulose acetate use it all high and I were like ray ban. Tom Ford Gucci Etcetera Stainless Steel Teflon Anti Russ Code Screws and polarized with one hundred the per se U._v._A.. And Be Protection and they're actually nice. I'm I'm wearing right now. I like the way they face the material jaw line on. Did you rub your destructive pink eye on any of these. I wouldn't touch those pair. It's not contagious. Ages actually are those of you. I said this before. The sunglasses are Vegan. Vegan Vegan indeed guys you know summer's coming up doing a massive giveaway. The everyone who buys a pair of gets enter to win a free trip to Cancun which is awesome. I went to Cancun once I did get pick pocketed but minus that Cancun his great beautiful city is really comfortably cool right and super lightweight head over to Jay Black Dot Co and use the Code Impulsive Dash Ten do not forget the dash to get ten percent off in a chance to win a free trip to Cancun this summer. Thank you Jay Black for sponsoring us. Should I take off the glasses now. Although I love them to show you guys it's Gross Bro and I feel disgusting. I know I know I noticed get it because this is what I hate Bro Pink like like we all know we all joke. Everyone knows you pink and putting Poop in your eyes fecal matter and I didn't do that on toilet diving before no I'll maybe did no. I don't think I did do I don't think I did here's what I presume. I have of two theories one. My dogs. They're disgusting. Ginger is always rolling around in the lake then poop and then ray ray avidly consumes fecal matter. How does one actually get Pinkai? I would say that relax defend them. You Rob your eyes and stuff like basically if a little piece of poop or or looking at a mark yes there is you'll get pink eye yeah and so usually it's from some sort of activity but logan has a theory that it's from gingers booty just rubbing on her booty. I Oh maybe I think she lays on my pillow and then I lay on my pillow and get the pink eye and I mean here's why it's a big deal again. We have so much to talk about but I I meant. I brought it up in a in a Fox business interview which I can't wait to hear your take on it as my manager managers by the way this manager Geoff let's go. Let's go one by one can we. Can we break this down one. We're the Fuck Spencer for whereas Spencer you tell me because I feel like this is going to feel like this is going to manifest itself into some sort of massive already has we've been having issues with him broken Vegan and going overdose girlfriend's house all the time. What's really good spence? He's not even my main radiographer anymore. He's just feel like I should respect him like I'm not saying I'm not saying I love Spencer. He the plant based Joyce's but at the same time I love him but this one was weird. We're supposed to have just a little we man on the the podcast. He decided he wasn't gonNA show up and so I maybe there was a miscommunication or maybe he's. He's in. I'll six Erawan Kendall. Some clearly miss him. Of course. We're talking about your some but I'm also happy that your show. I'm eating manager Jet Fan Yeah we we. We do love love you both we. We also are missing. We men who is our guest today. Somehow this friend to help you friends. Okay we men and the producer and the producer what's going on. You know what this is fine because this is a he's an episode. I want to clear some stuff. WanNa get a little deep bro. I want to get maybe vulnerable so maybe the less people the better when you say this is fine. It reminds me my favorite mean where the dogs in the burning lame shooting knows you explain why they were why we're halfway halfway wearing this. This is US right now. Favorite this is fine. What's the name of this cartoon again? No there's a cartoon and this is a famous cartoon. This is you at the Fox News. Yes I want to explain why okay what now let's. Let's I'll get one by one I as I said. Can we clear the Hoodie up because I will wearing. It's not even on but it's it's interesting missing one. We're all wearing the original maverick hoodies. You may have heard the news if you so my logger my instagram the iconic maverick the pair has passed away by passed away. I mean he was eaten by my massive who missed her palm for small rubber chicken she. She's six months old. She's she's just a huge dog doesn't quite know the difference between anything in anything exhibit A.. She's been tearing up my Gucci Slides when I'm gone she. She eats everything that I owned. These are the ones he's wearing right now the new ones because she choose to like these shoes are what how much he's probably four dollars retail six six hundred twelve hundred bucks out the Wazoo gone and you know it gets worse. Here's my passport earn pass my new passport. I had to as you going away. She she three days so we have to go. Get the <hes>. What is it the expedited day of same day? You WanNa hear the good news. Now Danny tell you there's no good news. You have to go there on Friday and priestly sit there all day. Oh sorry John I still could be there for <hes>. She told me but yeah tell me what's what's really fucking goods. Injure how many things you need to tear up and chew up and including maverick the parrot like the bird who has been with me since before I started before I started any internet stuff. It really does break my heart because he was so much more than a bird obviously like literally we we made him are brandon. He flew with us. He flew with us in our journey. We rallied around him as a community and activated what it meant to be a maverick when I was in Sweden the amount of people doing this when I when I pass them on the street or you'll let's do the math stable and pictures iconic the end the maverick all because this little fucking son con your parrot and again while while I was away saint same as last time with Kong he died died man via murder and it just like what's so funny via murder like he did die via I know but I like the term via too but I feel like homicides a little the dog. It's a puppy the good the one good thing about it is that the pillow hello guy had already pillow sized him so he was. We already have the pillow like we didn't have to go and have that made by the way. Where are you gonNA put that? I don't know but it's it's to be honest with you. I'm reaching appointment. I don't know how how to handle anymore. I don't know how to deal with this. I it was cong- incredibly depressing incredibly sad all of us miss him every day and now maverick <hes> and the worst part about this quite honestly. I know Mike is Ecstatic. I know you are I know you are before before before I left for Sweden. I caught him in the kitchen going like this to the wall. I don't know man. He just flew away what I don't. I L. I. Practicing why this is really messed up I knew he was there obviously news what he was walking over so I was on sorry man. I don't know how to say it. I guess you just flew away. Sorry man. I don't know how to say what I'll tell you what bothers bothers me is not really the word. Have you ever had a a cement mixer like a pet cement mixer okay and inside that cement mixer you put in hundreds of thousands ends of alarm clocks okay and every morning at around six forty five the cement mixer starts at churn up those alarm clocks okay and it sounds kind of like this okay and you just adore over her and you've been working the night shift or whatever you've been doing had a rough night or rough day plug right and all of a sudden you've got a god Dang nuclear arsenal exploding in your eardrums every day that set please don't do I won't that said Great Bird huge fan awesome great brand. Okay some the hardest news as you saw the blog that I've ever had to break for someone that was really hard for you. tried to butter me up. I saw what you did there. You try to what's it when you say like to call tactic. It's attack and silicon silicon phone calls is that your phone calls causes. My phone rings double. Yes I tried to do a what's the word where you put out something that you do something else I switch as rockies locked up this really quick and I was hoping it would also wanted to make him feel better by making them laugh the fans of taken to my instagram into my twitter accounts they're. They're not quite very happy with me right now. Because of the way that explain the situation but as we know I do enjoy making can you laugh and making sure that you're not sad and I think what I was trying to do is make you not sad. You're thousands of miles away. I couldn't give you a big hug couldn't give you all handshake and I wanted to make you laugh I also I want to heart back on it very much but we'll you're already laugh at things that are made me feel uncomfortable. Sometimes I noticed my stomach falling into that track like I know I do but I really felt it with this. One being like super like hyper aware of the situation and quite honestly is as healthy. They are unhealthy as this is wherever you WANNA call. It's just like my coping mechanisms like I saw in by the way I have a problem with people telling me that it's not okay I agree you know what I'm saying. who were you to tell me how to deal with the death of my best friend for the past seven years you know and like my grandmother she like she's been very open? She's like when I like. A lot of people don't want you to be like to cry and be upset. They want you like she's go out. Get a bottle. Get a pizza celebrate my light of AW huge jokester if you've ever seen the stuff he says when he talks it's usually on mogens mom. What else is a lot of drug related girls look? He's a fucking savage but also man I got. I got a confession profession to me that he actually was a him talking Hayden Redo the subtitles yeah I know I know you got me. A different tank your grammy different shirt. I've no longer feel the need to support this. Are you serious and now bro The dissonant turbo. He's not able to tie for a really have any sort of stream of consciousness because of mainly him being a bird now is really not able to able to have any kind of stream of conscious either just because or do we know that he got your by typing that sucks it really does. He was a great bird. He had a long life. Some say almost almost got away a long time ago many almost before before I started vine he did fly away once I walked outside with him on my shoulder and I and I forgot that we had not clipped his wings and I thought he was his loyalty was prime and it wasn't I made it about twenty yards away from the House and my dad was like logging maverick. I was like he's fine like me. The delusional optimus five hi off be lines towards my dad. I'm like this is great. He's going to my family member my my father and about halfway halfway to my dad just ninety degree angle curves right up direct vertical in the air the three hundred feet in about two seconds. I I didn't know he could fly that fast because all he does this fly around the house and it goes back in his cage yeah exactly so I had no idea that he was capable of speeds and he flew away he was about half mile away. We chased Jason as some chased him and then you know maverick Amir Shaking Food Adam which by like for a dog. He's not a dog is he's a good we never taught him. The come here trick so he doesn't WanNa doing and occasionally here and I'm like fuck. Luckily it was fall so after about twenty minutes mavericks not moving you can see him way up on the East Coast and yeah there's leaves very visible the tree branches you could see everything so I'm like fuck so I throw a stick near him and it hits a branch near scares them flies away. If you've ever lose a bird this what you do scares them. Flies away flies about maybe quarter mile through the woods whatever so we're chasing chasing chasing him and then if they're another stick then flies a tenth of a mile and each time I throw a stick near him he gets he flies a little less of a distance and I notice he's dropping because this motherfucker has no endurance. He has no endurance he only flies around the house when I'm like you and around through the case exactly exact or the mile of Challenger Games. I'm not running for this endurance actually I I cook a five thirty if I felt like but so I keep keep throwing sticks and eventually gets low enough. I grabbed me by the Shit I walk. He's he's pierced the fingers of so many of my friends my ear none of my all my friends are wishing me condolences none of them really no one likes maverick and accept me. He was great because he was my homie. He he had my back when anyone would walk in the room he go and attack their heads so should only defense mechanism was to duck because he won't fly down. I gotta dropping to the ground. I would just drop just walk in the room like this. I started using large stick nick one of the things I'd heard from them or Hayden I guess was I'm here for a long. I'm here for a good time not a longtime. He said Oh he did say okay trae clear. I think it might have been one of the days before he passed. I think yes and he had a great law yeah if that was his mom. I'M NOT GONNA lie though they loved him. The where this is tricky for me is like I love Ginger Ginger. The giant are are massive. That unfortunately killed maverick. I love her and she's so clueless like she had no idea what she was doing but I don't know how to like discipline her. I don't know what to do or how to treat or to act towards her because while I love her she killed the thing I love most train some training and some some experts would help like what if my what is my mother Jake like. Do I still love my mom. That's crazy. Do I probably probably probably though that's probably not that's pretty mad at question was not expecting like who knows us. I mean it's the same way how girls were Ted Bundy like Yo Ted Bundy Sahadi Dude but like he's fucking killing people sort of like why we're all the people in his courtroom swooning girls swimming girls they like. I don't know he just seems so mysterious. It's like what's good. He's the one boggles swooning girl mixed up the garden. He jumped out the window member. That's Casper Aspen Yeah Dude Anyway. I mean it's all sad it sucks you can tell my mood is melancholy which is kind of. I wish I was a little more fired up today. I'M NOT GONNA lie. It's also this fucking paint guy. It affects it affects my whole body. Yes my no. I have nasal drip because he has shit inside. Your Body. Remind place original scientific term is shittiest ice and they seem to from the Latin Force when it came to America the pink which you know what I thought it was originally from you. Were there that night that we just said Dude I I haven't I haven't smoked weed in eight months since November flatter conference when I fell flat on my face and passed out I and I remember that slack what makes a lot of good things and so and so for that reason I've always been paranoid to smoke weed and the other night I was the perfect balance silence of like exhausted still wanted to go out and I was like fuck. Let's do David the German supply with edible because I was like I want to be relaxed and go fuck around and so I did edibles insure enough God hi a whistle. My eyes are dehydrated. Reddish Shit y'all was good and we go to the Beach Santa Monica Whistle so high because the note we went to Santa Monica so you were in America so we went to Santa Monica Beach and by the way we didn't know like I didn't know how he was going to. He was going to handle the edibles. I know that he should not be going anywhere near psychoactive I tried I slap drugs drugs. In general I learnt with drugs at all. It's something I know about myself. There is I. It's which is why I don't do drugs. I can't be Connie because everybody thinks she did cocaine famer long pack sorry there's a lot going on so they all walk out on the beach. I tried to get David not to give them to him. I didn't take them because I I was IDA hidden agenda. I wanted to get right to Santa Monica which was closer to the club because obviously like other which clubs I was trying to go to hide for a little bit right. It's a great club are it was Friday night and there were let's go to a silent discount and talk to other vegans that are just like us yeah well. That's important information. We went to the beach and stumbled upon a bunch of people with headphones like this. That's cool watch. This is what we saw. When we walked we go before we go what the fuck is happening and Coachella yeah? We've what we've all done what I've heard about them. I've never done ever seen I've never seen June joy. Hold on and then I go. This is incredible. What are the chances? Is We stumble across our first silent disco and the headphones had channels on each with a different type of music on the T._v.. Is really wants to blue so they are some. There's three D._J.'s all different color interesting how we pay the five bucks for the headphone awesome and here I am hi his mind you I haven't been hired. Don't take a while to kick in and it was like two took a little time to get there and also I do want to mention this to the time point. We saw the sound disco on what we're walking over. It took everyone in the group about four minutes to walk from the parking lot to the silent disco area it took Logan Thirty five minutes roughly kids what our stock to the ground every step of he took it looked like you stepping into Dixon House taking steps and I'm like Oh Logan like yet his hood up thought out no no and my hamstring was like a little tender and walking on sand was uneven inside yes so I was walking real so finally we get the silently disco. It's on it's on a board like would and it was on the boardwalk. We all put these on it. I just want to paint the picture imagine a first first time you ever go to a silent disco your high for the first time in eight months brother brother. I was losing my mind. We have video. I WANNA show I really don't WanNa dance. All of us was an idiom rave. Just losing our mind love. Who's going the hardest this Guy Mike? I haven't seen Mike move that fast. Why what happens is super sober I think I I was just like hanging out and like I get amped when the music is in my ear like that core like I just I can't and so I would just grinding groove and go nuts out surrounded by the people I loved working in a great place and it was just dude? There's just a home so we ask. We're just getting it and I found it ironic. Actually the first day we remove all the fifty thousand pounds of sand from our backyard from the Logan's Luau we were moved. The beach from our backyard is the one day we go to the beach by the way we never ever do none of it. We never go to the beach which was definitely ironic. I said I say the video I left by the way I went to hide and sorry I went to Warwick and he went he came home and I came back with like eight girls okay and usually what I do. Is I on the way back to the house. I mark the hottest one and I say this one's gone because Logan's going to take pictures. I don't know how to answer what you just said to me. How do you mark mark the mental mental Texan but he goes no he takes a picture of the whole? It's not me circles Spencer. You're being quite worked. Okay let me finish this so so I'm mark the mentally and I say to myself okay. This girls gone. 'cause Logan's GonNa take. You'RE GONNA come matter how interested she is in me. She's going to see this broad. Go well. Sometimes it switches up but for the most part I say okay. Let the rich kid ever so then we all come here and the hottest well shit. I got to be careful because they're gonNA watch us so we come here and I see him and he's like I'm like y'all got girls and he's like this. This girl talk by the way of four of them completely naked right now getting in the hot tub which by the way that weird that happens sometimes quite a bit right and Logan's like do now but sometimes turtles swim and I'm like okay so obviously you're not part of the activities tonight and he's like I I tried. I think I'M GONNA go up bad now. Did you get the marked one. I had an incredible. This is more nightshift talk. I'm not going to get to deepen it but I think credible evening awesome Clark until eight thirty A._M.. I don't think you're the marked one I didn't because he came up to me and she oh my oh I can't buy I was going up the stairs to go to bed. Because at this point I had I had attempted to talk to one not even like a trotted sleep. We just had attempted to speak with her and I couldn't. She's like how are you how're you. That's I have high if someone ask me questions holiday the last word back to them as my logan what he wanted to do all night so I'm halfway up the stairs and this girl she kind of attain roques bro She comes up. She's like hey. Where are you going to turn around beaming interface? Somehow go your beautiful. She's like wow. What's your name House like your name and as she goes what you doing? What are you going upstairs for? I was like I'm just going to go to sleep and she's like well. I don't go out often and this is my first time going out in three months and I wanted to have a good time tonight and hopefully leave. Maybe you could hang out with us and I was like hanging out with us and I walked over and she was like is your normal. Yes tonight. It's Oz like you so key but yet things down going to go to sleep and this super super like freaky. I'll be honest like I normally when big up a night. 'cause like shit happens in L._A.. Every night but like you miss a kind of cool night. I know you told me that also also though it's one of those take this lesson kids. It's one of those where there was no other way unfortunately that night there is no like rally or push through the high. I couldn't do it so rewind for a second. The next day at everyone knows edibles bleed into the next day <music> our hours on the next day still woke up and I'm like and so I put on my agenda I go. I'm going to New York in two days today. I'm GonNa do absolutely absolutely nothing. That was the one goal of the day. I wanted to do absolutely nothing. has anyone ever done this. I've done it. Maybe a handful of times in my life like literally lay not doing the whole day. Yes it is so underrated like take these days every once in a while and don't do anything you want to do and it was one of the greatest days in my left so on the walkout to me laying outside like this on the beach. What are you doing logo Geico nothing that was the day we all floated around on the tube do nothing at one point I took it nap and I woke up and I was just laying there naked in my bed because that's how I burn real hot all the time temperature and Logan came in when he's in his underwear and he goes move over and I'm like I really WanNa do that man and he was like no move over now? I think just like bad Hasbro like sleepover Sam by the way quick know about that. You laid down soundbite. It's a huge bed so we've like five feet between us. You got on your phone. I got on my phone didn't say one word y'all because I was just trying to down here. My boy do nothing like I just wanted to be near my boy and do nothing are you. Do you want to do not for you doing nothing what I found on that day was I found time that day to actually do nothing in that meant putting the phone down because when you're doing nothing on your phone. Are you still doing nothing. I don't think so you're scrolling. The only time I ever ever find any space anytime free myself self from either negative thoughts or like finally positive balancing. My brain is when I actually put my phone agree. I put my phone down. I find some space I say oh wow I looked around and there's more to this life than this little square screen. There's trees all kinds of skies and stuff you know and I look around. There's organise death like I if the life in the square screen bro what if this is like that's what I've started. We're in we're side. We are cyborgs literally. I am now because I have a red fucking I. I think it's right so I had blamed. I got pink eye the next day after the high day and I had blamed the pink I originally on the edible I think the edibles gave me because it stayed Red and stayed always like semi shut. I did a whole media press day in New York like this and I made it very evident on on things Fox business that I actually I do know how would I shall. We should we go to that now because I I wanNA talk about one thing I can you read my last Google search really quick. <hes> can dogs eat toast. lasser probably can explain why wheat bread is generally saved for dogs eat provided. They don't have allergies. That's good so okay so when I was high like the right down my thoughts when I'm in a altered state of consciousness so I I wrote down when I'm high love this possible book question Mark Possible Book when I'm high the first thing is the answer. Every question asked is the last word of the question go in Logan Logan. You didn't even when I'm high. I fear Satan. She's scared to say. I don't know I'm terrified of him. He's like when you're high it only one oh hi I'm like Oh my God when I'm hi friends do amazing things like when Mike was Dancing. I was like this is amazing. This amazing Spencer just sprinted straight towards the ocean and then went in it amazing music this amazing when I'm high I scream my assistant's name always like at Santa Monica Beach. She's nowhere to be seen. I don't think he wasn't with you because you had sane in issue. I don't know you look at Brawley at the vet because Oh hound dog burly hopped up on the table he could suv some thinks he shouldn't have like like the whole bowl of stuff like pasta and plastic and things like everything's to Barf in that that was like yeah what what's going on here. Is Your House or at the coral cafes. He's he's a garbage disposal for dogs and by the way thanks Dan. You saved his life. Not when I'm high I feel bad for penguins and here's why here's why we're at the beach and I'm waddling around in the Sandy. I go this is fucking hard mentioned being a penguin waddling around the hurt hashing anyways by microsiping high sleeping people just hotdogs saw these people at the beach cover up and blankets so true and I'm like you're just a hot data so true frankfurter because there's luckily you weren't hungry at the time this really know if you think about this really no difference between the two like between sweets leaving person hobbles hotdog nothing. Hi Hebrew National Water is life. I remember someone gave me a sip of water. I was about to make out with them. I the water is the most important thing mouth gets so dry and as long as you keep shit moist. You're going to be good to go yup. When I'm high? I wear my seatbelt. That's all I got does the things you just said in any way why Siri doing that. Do you know it's crazy bro. You get distracted by things that like known whatever know about and you choose to accidentally hit the Siri Button and she came up modular. Do do things that does that. Stop you from wanting to get high because your brain does like makes you fear seat. I don't do it. It's not for me every time I do. I go oh. What the fuck am I doing? Why won't do it often? It's not when he knew I feel like it's sometimes my conscience talking to me like a little bit of like Yo stuff that I don't want to think about. I don't want to hear and it's like damn maybe into by the way let's not get into reefer madness film fifty two here okay great drugs has a lot of a lot of positive benefits that said it is a drug and so like certain people I think react to a differently like it just has not when I was when I was sixteen seventeen eighteen eighteen thousand nine hundred twenty all the way through that each bounces route you. I'm sure you're too I would roll through bond load after followed after L. after L. after joint whatever to smoke all day blunts blunt sued hustling role and everything but dodges and wraps taper it was nice to see you sober when all the rest of us who sows sows arse over at were and I felt very powerful in that moment so so Charles Manson historically and very famously we used to give his followers acid they would all sit in a room and he'd be like we will now take the acid and beat our savior. He never took acid never never took he gave the everyone around him so that he could have a superhuman ability to like be above everyone else in the state of mind and that's how I felt I kind of felt like Charles Manson Day Dude Charles and you you were all just like just like your feet or stuck in the ground. Andrea was like looking into the stars dude like talking about Copernicus and shit and I was standing there and I was like dude like these minions of mine are going to really come in handy. Something just ended up just bouncing pulled together a foursome and then you went out and awesome drink at war with came back on the same level again and they were all Charles Manson. I wish I could hung out with you guys and then Dan Dow was one of the hottest like just escapades of the it was so steaming it was so steamy Siemian just nudity was as high as when we were all in the back seat of this sprinter van and you and David were in the front seen about halfway through the drive y'all Roy partition. What happened will happen? I just the attorney David. I'm GONNA I'm going to know you here. I'm not a fan of road dome any of the music that you Andrea Spencer. Choose any of you guys just pick terrible music. It's all horrible with very few limitations okay and so I closed the partition and I put on what we listened to spotify Classic Rock Station Casey Jones grateful dead Zeppelin like all that shit bopped out to the beaches crank it in the back you guys the guys who are listening to you. Guys were to my gut the a job and all in the backseat go muck this. That's good for generation into the classes. This is sixties and seventies over here. You know you're listening to like glass. Animals like way I sold you guys glass and can we not listen to what you work you were. I remember if you're listening to. I wasn't in charge yeah trippy wireless. It was just a ship. So what are you doing good bro. Did you give them has apple spotify apple. We thought for our hooking up high still honestly both can we get into that though is Logan Paul Stupid Lights we lights. I'm really excited segment so the New York for Media Press Day for the Challenger Games this Saturday July twenty seven get your tickets tickets. It's going to be huge. Events going to livestream with the donation link to charity we're going to be benefiting is the Special Olympics we confirmed which is awesome. I think it definitely fits in with the vibe with the event. Hopefully this is the first of many as you guys know. I placed a one hundred thousand dollars. I was the fastest youtuber on the planet and so that's been the Tagline I've been sort of running with because it is a it's a nice hook. People listen to be. I bet it's eight hundred thousand dollars and it was like well really no way I'm the fastest or I want to watch. This kid run so media day. New York was to go there we went. We went there to talk about the challenger Games impulsive one hundred episode which we did. We just did like subscribe they said just promote the brand build that brand awareness and we had set up. I think ten interviews that day all of them were gray and by the time this comes out a few more of them will be rolled out. I had a great podcast at Barstools K._F._C. Radio. It was actually the one of the best podcast I think I've ever done. I had I had so much. One of those guys are awesome and <hes> then we went and did there. Would you rather thing where you stand in front and you answer question great about about sex and stuff. We need something like that. One of the questions was curious to see your answer. One of the questions was would you would you you punch your grandmother in the face have sex with the girl of your dream. No I said I would I would knock my grandmother. I'll go no aggressively like no not happening. SCRAMBLER GRANDMA GRANDMA JOE's tank dude like she's a fucking warrior for your dog actually step up and take a full on punch to the face box now boxer logan do on my a hook like you know one of the hook. It'd be a jab do on my answers absolutely not I love comedy evil. Now I hate every comedians make jokes and they're just like run with it but are you. Are you serious. If you actually my grandmother lesabre shock value which by the way is my entire fucking ran which are about the if you watch but it sounds funny so to say people he would do that good if you was boring if you watch my face when he said I chuckled I love the question but and I and I when I answer questions like this. I give answers the same way you do like normal and I want to get into see I want you to give your whole thing and then I have something to say about about how you act but normal people would normal brains they would say of course I wouldn't know ooh grandma but we know sorry you probably would answer it like stupid fucking elevated and get it. We wouldn't do that but now we're going to one up and I'm GonNa tell you why okay my dream girl first of all your grandma is my no. No that's awesome Nova my but my dream girl is not separated that much by the girls I'm already intercourse. Okay the girl I heard it oh here somebody either fan families and my data and she's dating someone now but I just love how oh she look I can make no no. She got a boyfriend family ninety nine percent your family members are sliding your dance. So whatever what I'm getting even if I said Jennifer Lopez even if I said no <hes> <hes> Zoe Dacian ally also love love or banks right pat jennings or some sweetheart from the industry they're just not separated that much from some of the more nicer hard-working girls that will save your grandma. I just go from go to a twelve. I'm not GonNa Punch my dear friend. She's ninety years old showed us the gardening walker she twice in six months. Nobody wants just plice Hill. They just wanted like something. That's like shock value. I call you from Sweden. I text you. Hey Publicist Has New York trip scraper press. We're back in it challenger Games impulsive. She's like Jeffrey going. I'm like no. I used to go all the time would fly. You know we'd be right next to each other and make sure Logan's. Hogan's twenty four years old. He's great at this now Murphy. You don't have to go no problem all right great but hold up with no no you're right. I'm I'm quite honestly who good at interviews now that I agree do act and say whatever I want and spin it however I want and the media will write about it however I'm about to explain explain what happened yesterday so you went talk specifically about Fox because that is the one that blew up and everyone shared so so we did interviews. It's it's about four P._M.. Quite honestly I'm exhausted. I'm running on three to four hours sleep because I went out the night before John Bet with pink. I was told not to go out this business. Hold on in New York City which we're all my friend who went to mark with totally wouldn't have caught out. Yes you raising. What are you went to China? Chinatowns Open till six at Brooklyn South Kerry downtown. I WANNA I want to this clip viral. This dude posted his name is twitter handles at Jordan. He blew a he blew up because my followers well. He got how many retweets the tweet here twelve thousand is trending wealth one hundred seventeen thousand lakes video when nineteen thousand retweets the caption was logan was just on Fox business in well. It was something and I I wanNA. I WANNA WANNA bring up the full interview. 'cause I mean the full interview doesn't go viral. It's the supercar it's the minute of the greatest moments but like I was just I was just in a mood you can tell even when I was first insuring introduced in agreement like well when I was in the green the rooms picture like you're GonNa go live now and I'm just like mean Mug in the camera. If you saw the interview and here let's see if we can play this but I saw Danny actually post something where you're walking in and I was Deli on hit a law the big Bro and they're like okay do the bureau. You'RE GONNA walk down this. This is so fucking lame like I can. I just at least have fun because that's my that's my goal Naba. I want to have fun so anyways across all social starts according to social blade which tracks monetization satit about fifteen million dollars sipping Logan Paul just sipping. You're always doing it. I've seen all the universe on Fox business trying to do business so anyways anyways so my two I looked good. Thanks thank you. I had a globe recently for the I so I two options. The machine goes on Fox business. You'RE GONNA promote challenger Games going to talk about the difference between Youtube facebook Food Google whatever I'm like this is great but also to options one talk about business on Fox business. Nothing happens then get seen by the twenty thousand viewers. Maybe that are watching this live less or less or number to do. You have a great time. Talk about stuff. I WanNa talk about and go viral. I chose the ladder because that's my stick. That's what I do and I love to do. It and there are two types of people one most people watch this show Oh and the blogs who see what I'm doing and know exactly what I'm doing and they get it of course and to the people were like this kids are more on what did he bombed his interview and I'm like Yo all right but I will say my strategy. How did you hear we did it in flat earth and I'm sort of hesitant to even say this but I believe this phenomenon will be a recurring theme in society? I bank on the Naievty of old people and all millennials us to perpetuate my brand made me go viral and keep me relevant in circumstances like this knowing that that feeling they get when they tweet out the Fuck Logan Paul or the hop on that bandwagon that little dopamine spy you ah no they love it and I know the two and they'll never not love. They'll always feel the need to put that tweet out rally the troops get their army behind him. GET THE RE tweets in the followers and keep me relevant of saint people who are going Logan Logan pollster ending. I thought he was irrelevant last year thank you because of you I stay relevant and and knowing that it's become like a fun little stick of my play again. We happened with flat earth but I wanNA play the super. They won the super cut because this really encompasses what happened on Fox interview if I'm being quite honest with you I'm the fastest youtuber. I'm the fastest entertainer on the planet. I running running. I could be the quickest man on the planet. I'm everywhere baby. I'll never yeah I'm everywhere and I'm nowhere. I'm like a ghost is I do have to stop right there. So you said you use the word controversial. Yes just so you know I I am an ex controversial youtube or no longer me China and <hes> Yeah I. I'm betting one hundred thousand dollars. I'm the fastest man on the planet. I'm the fastest man on the planet. I will say my expenses just surpassed my income for the first time ever I just had with my financial manager. He told me that like I'm definitely going downhill for making nervous. Yeah absolutely oh terrified at the beginning of I'm uncomfortable with myself. Come on I also have been guy not contagious but top no it is. There's a two week incubation period. Sorry Yeah I texted. I get right. Oh I got it to multiple lawyer. Our boys trending publicists not the best interview other people do business with that was an interesting Fox. It's my ninth interview of the day I have noticed business from people best in I've seen for genius genius. You're hilarious. They just don't have to two types of people. One person is like I understand what Logan's doing I see like yeah clearly. Let me let me let me jump in here for NAS. I know it's smart guy very intelligent capable. He's just playing with. Let me let me jump it for second. I think the biggest I think the biggest learning from this and every other time you were we have done something like this is that people will continuously underestimate the intelligence of this camp of we we are. We get advice from low gang. I get advice from from people here in L._A.. I get advice from people on the Internet when I say that we are sixty five steps ahead of you guys. You have no fucking idea what we are doing what we're working on where our humor is going which we all figured out we are one hundred thirty plus. I Q four point four point seven web gifted program from third grade as as you know that's the one that's the one of my tiny. Let me say this. Let me we've we've got this shit figured out not not now toying not people yes we don't have it all figured a lot of a lot of I was going to say. Here's here's here's what the moral the story if you don't think that every move I make in everything I do since about a year ago in my life is extremely dreamily calculated and intentional and strategic. You have to be out of your fucking mind. I mean what not to stroke my Dick here but look at the numbers that are coming up on the screen is not in Addison it. If you click on the things to go to the actual video oriented five point two million views on this video Avila's twitter videos five point two million views by the way the full interview has about eighty seven thousand. No one wants to see the video which by the way we did. We talk about some things that we're like slightly educational the Super Cut the the thing that goes viral people love to point the finger ago Logan Paul's a more he's doing cocaine which which clearly also not the drug that would make you do. This is odd. It's some people said adderall that would seem like a drug that would make me out of cocaine might as Welby so so I I'm fascinated. I'm fascinated that people are fascinated by this and they don't understand Ed. I heard a saying once. Perhaps if you don't get the joke you and I I have to thank the people re tweeting and sharing this videos for making me in my brand go viral my role once again and helping me sell tickets for the challenger Games this weekend. It's going to be a huge huge event which by the way for charity event that benefits the Special Olympics who's winning here like I can. I can take the people who who who put me down there. You know there's two ways to interpret this video. People who who put me down and Logan Paul Drugs Oakland Bosox Oakland Eighty wisey on my screen. Whatever the comments are you? You will most likely never be a person that I want to be a fan of mine. Maybe in the future that'll change but I'm so happy that you do and when you do you it helps me thank you what are you going to. I was just going to say I'll just going to say it's funny because it's it's. It reminds me sometimes of like what the people not to say it again but people say about my show that I just started. They're like oh you like. You've got towels hanging on the thing like jeep member said this shows trainwreck. It's the worst I think who you can't afford to o'clock. I'll just throw a hundred Kane. I don't care the reason I do. It is because it's fucking hilarious. It's a it's a it's a really Meta inside joke that I think a lot of the people that are coming up on the Internet. The audience love ah the Gen Z. Millennials who are on the same wavelength as us. This is an inside joke again if you're in the circle and you get this is fucking Hilar- comes but it's like why so serious serious so serious the joke like I I can sit and talk a serious business all day in the difference between Youtube and facebook and why I create where create but it just so boring. I'm here to entertain but I wanNA make sure that the people put you want me Fox business gives you you're saying they will go viral. That's the host is a fucking doll. She's she's so nice easy incredibly dinner podcast after I talked to her after she said some things won't repeat but Mamie Fall in love with her daughter's a huge fan and did she's amazing. What does she think of the interview? She thought it was great. Why I'm not sh she thought it was great? I'm not sure she knew what was happening Liz. I love you. She might she might she was laughing. Along with outside of the super caught did any of the talking points or the absolute. I explained to them. I'm like Yo you does a better job monetize creators and they have they provide more incentive for me to create there because they had the audience and at the moment yes and I also said that I said things that again have value but the supercross fucking golden and then I think the comment that two comments that are really twist and people's legs one on the fastest man on the planet people are tweety. I'm either like don't you know who you send both is. He's like come on like this. Kid can't Bro. What are you saying not serious why so stupid that he was serious interview? I go. I go. I was like I'm GonNa take this step higher on the fast Tyrrell's fucking I'm going blows out on the fastest man on the planet and I know people are going to hear thank you look at here get offended. They would've learned their lesson from flat earthers. You it was the time we taught him. which is we are going to? We are GonNa fuck you guys soul hard you do getting screw yourselves and then we're gonNA teach when you're GonNa shut up you do the marketing you do the Promo for force the amount of earned media that I got because of this crazy thousands of dollars four three shows he cut through the haters shows your intelligence but but why don't have a problem talking about it because I initiated this to everyone in the house and Matt Goes. Are you sure you wanNA spill the beans because a those people are watching this podcast they love the super cuts course they love the super little bits that they can come in and to they will never you are the way you are and you will never be any other leading the fans in your fantasies go. Everybody likes you yes Paul. I don't know that on your instagram to somebody was like you genius or I'm actually like they wrote articles. Someone said the cat the caption should have been changed to Logan. Paul knew who exactly what it was like like after it happened with flat earth and they did the marketing for us and now it's happening with this. I'm just keep so confident. They will never ever catch on and if they do their desire to to do the Bandwagon Type Action Bandwagon tweets only helps trump's the their ability to to go. You know what if I don't like Logan Paul the the most effective way for me the show my disdain is to be indifferent and not talk about the opposite acidic. Hey is not love. It's the opposite of love is not hey it's indifference. Win is quickly see favorites like if you truly truly didn't want me to be around indifferent to me and you wouldn't mention well and the worst part. You're in the worst part that I've seen too. Is that everybody that has that opinion. Another thing. I've noticed has that opinion until they watch this fucking show so many people have turned. They've been like y'all like I didn't. I didn't like to do like it was a little too whatever for me have come on and they see holy Shit. I watch for an hour and a half. It felt like five minutes. He's hilarious smart and they've got a great thing of course appreciate you Mike. That's always been a huge fan. You don't have to thanks Mitch Fan nuts. It's it's cool. It's cool to me to go into different venues and you know your audience so I know the audience yes. They want to hear about business but it's it's so much fun just fuck around and have fun and get promote promotional value out of course so yeah most most people watching this or like selling stocks. They're just like in the background. Seth Rogan favored at this tweet and I'm so he's a smart motherfucker. He's smart. I'm so cure. I hear what I feel like He. He knew I'm going to reach out to him. He's <hes> he's he'll if he doesn't agree with something he'll publicly say it on twitter before and the fact that he just favored it and didn't do the classic like what does this kid. A more on things makes me think he's he's or understand. I know some do you think that ability to hold her own and a comedic in the comedic space is a is an indicator of higher intelligence assets yes yes. I knew you're going there. Just give me an example yes because obviously yes but like I'm sure there are comedians that are just like fucking comedians or like skit people because it depends. There's some people who are like stupid funny where it's like Yo. That's fucked up funny and then there's intelligence and most most of the people that are the top top are until you look at like Robin Williams and Kimmel and Fowley. They're all all super intelligent yeah yeah yeah yeah and so I think the comment that the really just drove this one home home was the Pinkai Fox visiting see that brings me back to wanting to see you as I've always have do some stand up I wanted to I wanna see that I wanted to i. I think I do too. I think if I did stand up people would understand me a little. I don't think people know the people who don't watch me adamant. I don't think they know how versatile I am. I I do so many things and this is like you text me. You go great acting. This is a character the characters frat boy lack. I don't really know what I'm doing. Well fast the fastest man on the planet. I got pink guy like this is not and I watched it back and knowing what the reaction would be. I get so much Joel. It's like a higher level of self-deprecation like you. You know that the result of your actions here is going to be people shitting on you but you do it because you know the value of it like it's the value right he goes in and he just talks normal. Oh Yeah facebook Youtube Blah Blah Blah Blah. Nobody Watch flops down. You don't Watch T._V.. And you're like Oh. That's plain Jane family. Let's watch this. This is great. What happens in your like sales for Challenger? Games are spiking today because so this like pardon me thought it was the ad buying it might be a great job. Jake also do swipe up. You know there was no link with the swipe up. I texted him. Let's see we can get this to play. Gold was up pretty big. I'm absolutely terrified. I think it's the beginning of the end that's my fishing. She asked me about finances and you'll some of the headlines I mean the headlines of the one of the funniest parts about awesome actually WanNa pull them up here. You can google what's happening here. Local Paul One Million Dollars Youtube Star says he may be going broke. A warrior profit says it's the beginning of the end of looking. POLLY's insists he's no longer controversial original Youtube Star Fox business because that's the narrative will go down X. controversial youtube purchase great craigslist moments. How did you get out of the pink eye? How'd you get the X. Because I'm not saying Shit? That's going to get me in trouble anymore. I'll stay should that makes people talk but like trouble. Also I think it was the first sponsorship that gave that sponsors now again but by the way we move product like my sponsor. I mean what's so like my question is how much how much sponsorship though has at Jordan on twitter pulled it in the past. Ask you know six or so you'll but that's not yet actually no you're right. We should've put a Pre roll in front of the question. Is Jordan also playing the game knowing that that's GonNa get also <music> where he's not like. I don't like editor. Maybe writer and those profile also Jordan didn't didn't really say anything. You just said well. It was something like end. Indeed something left it for four interpretation. People hated it but one of them talk one of the headlines. The headlines are my favorite. One of my favorite ones looking for X.. Controversial you do start in quotes. Logan Paul is going broke and has pink Guide Day Law. This was Daily Mail. They'll come on. I also have guy contagious but top no it is. It's a two week incubation period. I had a let her know is a look at fucking Cyborg on live television and I'm going to be sitting there addressed. I think I well that's hilarious. Closer is right there on the K._f._C. Barstool interview. I mentioned that I mentioned on every press interview that day by the way he goes. I'm like I picked he goes. I know I could see it goes money. Here is is like half close. What do you mean guy like? I'm over it. Look like some sort of infectious Johnny Bravo Yeah Yeah so yeah. Overall the trip to New York was great. It was phenomenal and by the way if I didn't do this I don't know if it would have been worth it like I went there to for media and for press in how my job and they want views so you the army of haters and Logan Paul Naysayers is my Army I control them. They don't even know it which is why so it's such a sub-conscious. Coaches puppeteer ring of a large group of people knowing that they thrive on Logan Paul type negatively. You've had literally banking my entire career on them. Please pass and it's hurt you yeah. That's true using it to the now rat video you like you guys again a yeah but a jab you right and then they came back and it was youtube preferred never again. Thanks bye but now you're figuring out how to use it for your event yeah. I like how you said that you just you out some point. You decided you like well. We we need to move some of this so let's activate my army and you just activated in the right lorry that loves me and the right the opposite which of course this is actually really interesting and I don't think people have have really ever talked about this before but you have found a way to activate your haters. That's amazing radical. No it's incredible because people fight their eaters ignore their haters but I don't think I've ever heard someone to talk about how to make your haters work before that's that's incredible point eight two million views on twitter and I bet this is. I don't think Fox businesses ever had a video like this and it's so funny because right now he's like well aw shit like now Fox News knows my secret and everybody's like maybe we shouldn't tell because maybe they will invite you back. Hell Yeah. They're gonNA invite you back because they want another video at five point eight million views that says Fox business on employees over the Internet Liz Liz. I'll say it again. She's a doll her daughters orders amazing married so I I think so I think about you know how like hitting on older women but I it wasn't like it was just a really professional vibe dude like it was great. She looked shoes. I'm fun we both were really and and I'm glad she was a good sport about it. Because you get the one hero whose like default exactly do you remember on Bloomberg the Bloomberg interview I did it was last business oriented or era live television thing I did when I was about twenty twenty one years old and they asked me about my income. There's a guy in a girl we went there. We went there is in New York and there was a guy on a girl and she pressed me audible time yes hard. So how much do you make and I and I was twenty nine. I was twenty. I didn't know how to handle it because like they teach you in media training which you can imagine I've had hours and hours and hours and if I wanted to be a media that was another media puppet like I could easily be immediate public. I sent you that tweet. There's another one that said this training Satnav. This explains the value of Media Cheney all Logan Paul because he's going to teach you how to go. What's exactly what's the point of? What's the point of media like yes? I could've sit there and like when I did I did when I was twenty and been like well well when I make concert. The goal is to make content than my audience loves and consume content really inspires them. They'll be able to take action on product and go from like suck my Dick do that. I did it when I was twenty the best me I didn't know how to answer and now I told you before. The interview started I go by the way you fucking president. WanNa push back. I'm in no phase in my life today no mood. I spent all night drinking when the caller daddy yes so so they now you're still building right so it was like all respectful building building now. It's like I'm here. I'm here going anywhere out the name to stay. I said this on the on the K._F._C. Z. Barstool podcast if if your wanted to cancel me like I hate to say you had your chance. The window has passed my friends and unfortunately p here for them so nobody asked me that too. They're like hey. How's he doing everything and like I got some? I got some how you doing techs mentally Kevin Hines hit me up. He's like hey man. Just WanNa let you know I saw your interview interview and the comet that he was referring to is the one where where I said I'm uncomfortable with myself I go on with my guy said he reached out true friend. I got this text. I won't mention the person's name on fifty eight P._M.. You need to talk to logan the Fox. Biz interview was not good. Yes let me see the name that Oh well which which strikes me as odd because because you know no no I need you to Logan Paul character on those and be himself because he's intelligence Elgin's fuck now no brand's weight that if they see what brands and by the way we got sponsors now we chilin and we're rich still poor poor broke. Please donate money to us from I I gotta go your dentist appointment. That strikes me as odd because I would. I would assume I would assume he's a person who thought the joke. I'm just not doing some people got joke and it was like he needs to know when he should do when he should look when the right time in one is also like another thing too that I don't like if this Ev- I'd say this I speak for you on it or whatever but like our vibe is like a weird place right like like. Are you still trying to be like ultra brand friendly. You know what I wanted to ask real dude. I WANNA be real. I want to be funny. Entertaining entertaining relatable and like pink is GonNa make this hilarious like play clipper actually kind of said something but then so it did start like sort of okay and then I brought it back. I was like no we're not gonna go there and then she brought it back to where every big platform wants to be the video platform video issues now. I think it's like statistically you might you might know one of the biggest things that kids are consuming so I mean I don't know you're talking about a lot of stuff. I don't really know much about aw kind of like out here. She goes out here so this happen and then she did mention Google Youtube is actually inactive your facebook account as inactive or how you went to call me a Lila <music> technically million six following an inactive face odd right. I don't know I need to optimize account. I don't why haven't you what I'm saying. I say this yes you can say anything better job of monetize for the creators like that is the the home for me as a creator where not only can my content to be seen consumed digested but also like they pay and I think facebook just got into this. How is that though I do WANNA fight back really quickly on that that was to me that was awesome so I like what you did but I also like that you pepperdine parts about this because a lot of people that are watching this show that love when we talk about business hearing about it that's their life and so jettison not true because facebook actually magnetising? Some people are not I think inside. It's sharable your video viral by pressing by the way you right. Now I know Bra. I got to sixteen million facebook before he was scared to share abilities gray. They weren't monitoring at the time and maybe that's a conversation for me to explore what we are. You're going to be what I watched this. I just like adding kind of south France. I'm kind of kind of board you. You know whose opinion I want on this and I hope he does a video on it. He might because accommodated on on twitter. I consider this person to be wise and also to probably be aware of what I'm doing. Here is Philip the Franco I I've resp- I respect his opinion. <hes> all the time and I and I actually agree with improbably eight about eighty five percent of the stuffy says I'll see the occasional Philly d clips and I've spoken to him on on twitter and the direct messages before I asked him to to do or participate in something and he made it clear he's like hey just so you know like I'm not going to do this until like it's fully vetted out and I've scoped out what I what I'm advocating and behind the scenes. I clock this and say okay. This is a man with integrity and we know that like I consider him to be a good dude and so I'm hoping he does video on and we can hear what he has to say on it. I'm just because I'm curious because he does. He is the perfect middleman in my opinion between the I keep occupying liberal millennials the ones that crazy active loud voice on twitter and the ones who are here fuck around and have a good time like me and like most of my audience and learn some things wells has been since isn't him technical inventing ending the wheel but for his age group it is of creators who else was really good at trolling the media like it's not a new thing that's an actor's Sasha Baron Cohen Logan's a new Sasha Berko. I would not say that man's a fucking genius and if I saw a genius if I put my but like everyone's on his like everyone's in on his inside joke right now my inside jokes are polarizing for summer when I do this interesting think you're serious. Fascinated fascinated that people still people still think this is like the actual. Do you think when I go home Joe Gino I used to put send Logan meetings people would watch your videos figure out like okay. I'm again this crazy jock guy funny stupid crazy Kim. They've called me right after me like you know he's actually Super Smart Intelligent. Why didn't you tell me it's because it's shredder when they recognize? It and they're like Oh shit instead of like I promise you he's really smart smart. Just take the meeting. I think it provides a this is why says great. It provides a really nice opportunity for me to have a very healthy career arc. I like you know if what goes on must most things that I've seen way wave functions. Yes this is right here. Everything's a wave up and down trump's was here right here and as long as it keeps his going up. You're going to be good and it's very very healthy. Everyone who I've seen explode and blow up with a quick griped fame it's short lived and I've had so many ups and so many downs and as long as I keep going like I said the course of my career will be something to be moral Carl that I think I think so relate when people are down and out there like getting made fun of when they feel like they've failed. I'm the perfect lightning rod for people or Beacon for people to look at and say okay this kid's going through. I can do it to eighty years old rolling Arlington trolling box business. It's so funny to think but action owning. I actually think that the I remind me of Charlie Sheen oh see but he fucking around us more serious fucked up so I figure I get why people say that you were sniffen like because he cracked rookie. Isn't he like winning yeah yeah. It's like he was able to understand your humor there. They may have made the comparison like you were like. I'm waiting. I'm the fastest Youtube on the fastest man on this planet people out of his fucking fine. Charlie was what else man you WanNa have cheese sandwiches on Hungary's hell. We should do stuff audio audio audio. Only what should we talk about an audio only real quick talk about some dirty things I did New York. Let's all on. I suppose some don't say anything. Let's do like when I say let's get spicy audio. Only I mean like let's get crazy crazy crazy like if you didn't listen to audio only you didn't watch episode Jones at Night Manager Jeff. Thanks for joining us. Thanks Libro who knows who knows guys we frigging love. You hit that subscribe but then we're GONNA be the number one podcast in the world for the rest of your God. Dang Life Keeps Borton US audio only right now spotify night doings impulsive out. We are man I can't I can't get over these headlines broke. These are mechanised. We're switching way up. Let's do it. Oh wait. Hold on okay. I'll say this huge promises to the to the visual viewed as you did shit. I no no no no name but walked around the park. I hung out with a girl when I was in New York for that like that. I was there. She's great she so cool she's so cool and and I had danny deliver me my pink pink eye drops during the day amazing and in my in my world you're at a very nice restaurant and in my world for some reason I've this is so normal I'm so used to Danny Danny saving my life in dire circumstances as so she brought me the pink eye relieved drops and then I I and then I clocked. This is probably really fucking odd for this girl this four go and she she drop putting the drops in my eyes. She's looking at me. Like what are you doing what the fuck is going on and luckily she was cool and it was also the favorite part of her night but I have Pinga yes and I also told her it is not contagious and I guess it is highly contagious but <music> but for what dude is it contact. I would love to see this girl. You're talking about get no I wouldn't that's fucked up but it would be crazy. She got pink. What if all the people I've interacted with the past two days everyone in my hand which by the way at this much more much more than a red? I guess what happens in the morning when I tried to open my eyes. I can't open my eyes pizza crust. It's disgusting my faces chafing because of all the <hes> discharge running down my eyeballs really quickly about what you think his thoughts all right on the on the sleeping sleeping leaving but like sitting like he's posing I wasn't sleeping. My Dad used to fall asleep on the couch when I was a kid. Look look. How long do you contagious with pink eye about twenty four hours? Only oh ty can take well. I just started the drops. The pharmacy was closed when we landed in New York and so we couldn't get the real draw she had to get some over the <music> off the cabinet in the blast off the Cabinet O._T._c. off the cabinet child when I was young my dad fall asleep on the couch and he would always go like this dad dad wake up and go arts Lebron just rest in my on is so one time my mom painted his finger nail while he was just resting his is Japan so he woke up and he noticed that my mom and painted fingernail and then a weekly divorced you're lying dude. No your lives places so she found out how to catch dude because that's what she would be like Mitch. Did you cheat on me on your last business trip and that you have to tell the truth we try not to go crazy off topic topic topic Bra. I'll talk about this. How do you think girls girls tell if they're manage cheating on them because in my eyes there's so many ways to catch your mad if you think he's cheating? How do you like one of the most one of the most daring bold things I've seen as you smell your man's Dick home from the place of course smell classic? That's a classic. My girlfriend's thought about it oh you are you cheating on me. Why because you know definitely we never would never would never never would never do because you are gone so much better in bed? I've heard that would try oh. I'm just getting older yeah getting mature trying different stuff us. Do you notice I'm sure you do you both know when you been there you hook on there. You have your girlfriend and then you spend some time apart you break up whatever it is then. You always have hooking up with their own right when that happens. I've had it happened but to me where she she goes. Where would you like? I'm grabbing hair different than no and catch on but so the Question of magazine Issue Jeff is like how are you improving. If you just stuck in the same little rabbit uh rabbit hole quite literally how my improving. Why are you getting better? It's ex same which is listening to call her. Daddy no nothing nothing and she's said like where you see this important. I don't watch porn. Never Watch it lover for business deal. Show me huge six million. She returned to me to business all what she reach out to you for Jeffrey Eleven A. G. Milica over. You're going to get action interesting audio who listen to audio. I've been on a anal kick lately. You told me this and I don't know if I don't it's it's great. I just have become bored with your tongue or both I the guy I'd be your eye on the whole that and good that and group activities can't get into fucking kick. Get into normal shit anymore. Board will like I'm bored senseless of just normal sex and after you have those encounters the the multiple girls or the anal you feel amazing. Yeah one feels different. The next about the moment of the group encounters get fired up dude who I mean Bro. That's for most people most dudes. Oh Shit. Jake's getting married this weekend in fact but really though Actually Vegas I am. I'm not going yeah. I think invitations go today. I'm watching video deliver running and he's fastest. I'm like yeah I think he's cloudy Bro from alcohol. I'm selfish as far as they should definitely absolutely show up with Dave. I should show up shirt that says selfish clergy. Are you going to the wedding i. I don't think I'm invited. I'm on that or on the trip that you're going on after by the way don't we have to film what what's going to any film a bunch of Shit before he leaves. No I think I think we take a positive hiatus bro. Yeah I think so should I should I fire off one to maybe is there one without Logan. There's been all there's been one would be as host before hosts not here bang out. I have a good idea a good idea. It's a collaboration nightshift impulsive mix Logan Logan getting into the idea spinoff yes I did. He likes it pockets to entertain. You know what I love. I love the idea that y'all can have legs yeah. It's fucking off like look at what you're getting served up right now. The night shift on my relatable Ebel Detest to sixteen views. I listen Bro. Fuck this. Let's go E.. Anyone other name oh by the way who invented shoes I said earlier the first shoes were discovered between seven in an eight thousand B._C.. And that's where the date back to they were discovered in a cave in Oregon believe it or not Sagebrush Bark Sandals and there are one of the first shoes Docs nope and the the shoe was industrialized realized in eighteen sixty two in Massachusetts. I can't remember what the guy's name was. I think it was McKay and then I realized in low mass which is where banks is from the bone the rubber.

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PETER CRONE KNOWS WHY LOGAN LOST THE FIGHT - IMPAULSIVE EP. 143

Impaulsive with Logan Paul

1:43:36 hr | 1 year ago

PETER CRONE KNOWS WHY LOGAN LOST THE FIGHT - IMPAULSIVE EP. 143

"This is my secret. I don't mind what happens now because I work with a lot of high end performers. We do care but again one of the distinctions teaches. I can more than anyone I know. I just don't worry. Now think about how change more. How can you go more Hollywood on us? I picturing bleaching his hair yes I think I'm GonNa Start Getting some Botox coming twenty. Yeah welcome back to the number of podcast. Thank you guys for listening watching viewing aunts subscribing. It's a great show. We love doing it. I love that you love listening listening today. Today's episode is going to be hell value base. You will definitely leave listening to this episode a better person so maybe a notepad or be prepared our to go back and forth between Uber Notes and and seriously take notes most of our episodes of pretty pretty fun. And this one's definitely GonNa be fun but you'RE GONNA learn a lot like the last episode. We had the sex part on no way. No yes we. We did an episode with this expert. But it's coming out next Monday on on the deal that it's eight in the morning now like maybe she give him a preface. It's actually ten for trump's I'll break into eleven minds late thirty. PM Can't do Shit GonNa Start. It's going to be tricky But we got the sunglasses there. We go helps that. It definitely helps Jay Black. You know Jay Black. We Love Jay. Black Jay black was started out of frustration of being unable to find any high-quality fashionable frames at affordable affordable prices. Because any good quality polarized sunglasses normally cost one hundred fifty dollars because all the major brands are owned by one company. The more you know. These lenses polarizing. They even come with anti reflective coating on the back of the Lens to help prevent reflections and they still only cost forty nine dollars and even less with your code. Impulsive Dash Ten. And they're doing a giveaway of fifteen air pod pros the the noise cancelling headphones from apple in every that orders. 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That's like the most prevalent one but every time a girl leaves my. Ah Room I get like a new collection of jewelry to add a little jewelry thing I have. I think there's two there's two possibilities either. They forget be they WANNA come back so the comeback extra. I forgot my earrings can come and get on. But there's no. There's no way that either a every girl every girl forgets or be every girl wants to come back unnoticed on girls. That don't want this. Like Yo sleepover a girl's house before leaving the morning. I do a thorough check. I'm going through her stuff to make sure my stuff isn't there. Yeah there's no reason it would be. But I'm I'm flipping over mattresses couches. I'm digging through drawers. Every time is because maybe you don't have feelings in your logos like your ear lobes there. They just don't have ever be possible. So when you walk away and you're missing your Rolex you feel it on your wrist you walk away. You don't feel anything tugging on your low. He's right though when I leave a hotel room you like just about to close the door and it's like it opened an inch and then you plough the thing back final check and you go back through and you just look through the whole room. Did I give my charger. Forget my my fucking contacts case or whatever and by the way I don't I don't necessarily mind it just like a phenomenon. I'm not sure I understan- Bro. I when I say ten out of ten times like I mean ten out of ten times if you saw one episode of the night shift. There's a drawer. I have of just like things jewelry collected over the years it. There's a pile of gold and silver silver. This big. Have you ever thought about like cannot prey upon. Yeah you could do. That can pay rent for the girls back the money they lost all the jewelry. That's true I was GonNa say something to you probably on the podcast just now. What all the fact that? He's got a big big time. MTV TV show coming up yes. That's what we were talking about. Mike Mike Scott a pilot that he's shooting. It's can I say what it is Achieve Show TV. Show the the brother my brother. So he's GonNa he's GonNa quite literally leave this show. Yeah and then go shoot a different show a real show with my brother Jake and his wife Tanna end and the pretty felon felon the dude. That guy rested Squad yeah it's a cool squad. It's IT'S A it's a pilot. I mean if it gets picked up it'll be dope blind `grats that's what I think you can play just a young man from Milford Connecticut just out here. Just uh-huh easy. I'd say I wouldn't call a young man I would say young young man. It's weird like I gotTA. I gotTA leave. They're like oh the car is going to pick you up what card I'll quite over and then they're like. How long do you do for hair make? I don't have either like I don't know how long do you think I don't. I don't have much time for like five minutes so funny hearing him. Tell me about Hollywood standard procedure. Because like I remember going through doing all this stuff stuff and it's really cool to see him like in a weird way. I feel like that. It's like like my son my son's going to school. Yeah he's like hair makeup bro. Like I've same same hair and makeup for any our for for young Mike over here. Yeah the wanted that. We're kind of talking about yesterday is Jim is do not let the Hollywood environment make make you make you stiff like like St Louis Bro. Staying and you'll you'll see being there with Jaguar honestly because I told you this. Do not underestimate the power of the Disney the machine. That kid was littered bread for two years. Five days a week to just be entertaining acting machine With energy and charisma and so having him there will make you think. Sing to your skin a little more because when you're like right now there's there's six people seven people behind these cameras. I know oh all of them in one of them's a dog. Exactly and in Hollywood. There's GonNa be there's probably going to be a crew of fifteen to twenty riders. Ryder is GonNa be some dude there. That's like this well. There's also weighed in produce sweaty pits. Hold over my face row and by the way this show is a whole level up too because there's a whole studio audience do like studio. Yeah I know the studio for the live episode. So the hundredth episode here charter was hard. Honest I'm a little I'm a little. You've gotten that practice though. I feel like what you did at the fight. You know you were in front of millions of people online like she lives Bro. Like that's that's yeah. Yeah the hired. You read all the scripts this morning. He goes yes. So when you got your scripts that when you're doing Hollywood stuff like you practice like the day off. Yeah I was. I know no I was like thoroughly prepared. I'm that's the one thing I'm like worried about because like everything I do. 'cause I'm so Improv. Based like everything on the show and even like the night shift to show up and blow up like. That's my Mike calling card and now they're like think about like what you want to save for this part like. There's there's like twenty pages. He read more of the script I think him and Danny read more of the script and I have at this point. It's funny but did you. Did you have good hearty breakfasts. Anything have some magic spoon. There we go guys remembering breakfast. Cereal was her secret weapon for starting the day off right then you grew up and you realize it was full of sugar. Excess carbs and the stuff that you shouldn't eat this episode sorta sponsored by Magic Spoon Zero Company. That's discovered a way to recreate your favorite childhood cereals with zero sugar. Twelve grams of protein and only three grams of carbs in each serving. Should've eaten this. 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It so it's great putting the real in cereal Israel. That's that's that's cool. Wow I I'll put the real in full real eye. Nice okay. I just need another hour same. Ah Do I look like I just woke up I do a little bit hairstyling yesterday so I think that's plowing you through on the today's guests. It is known as the architect. He's a thought leader and human potential and performance. And he's here to help us become the absolute best versions of ourselves by breaking free of our own limiting habits in his clients. Include professional athletes royalty actors and CEOS. Please welcome Peter. Grown the man awesome. Let's say your last name right. Krone woman okay. So we met in an interesting way. Yes our radiographer Andre behind the camera. Yeah we we love. We absolutely love Andrea. Yep invited why did me to a mastermind. Dinner he ad of he said do what were the most brilliant people you know and you were there and you started talking. I was like Whoa this guy sharp. This guy knows things this guy's GonNa make me a better person. Even though the conversation revolved revolved around Building a batch. For a long time it was a very interesting. Yes great listener. Thank you thank you and I and I wanNA listen today Because as you have a lot to offer so I guess the let's start with. Can you tell us a little bit about yourself and and show by your story and what you do absolutely I mean the mind. As as you said it's sort of become an affectionate title and it's really I just had many titles thrown around for a while as the Hitman for the EGO which was pretty popular like a happiness guru. I just really liked the idea of reconstructing the way that people think about themselves so that's why the architecture thing came about and as mentioned just working with high performance who have a lot at stake like similar to what you've been going through what you've been through for many years. How can we enhance the the environment in which we're going to perform so that we have a better chance of success so it's really to me it all comes back down to what is the fundamental design of our brain online and how we perceive ourselves? What is the access to performance? If you think the you'll somehow inadequate obviously you're not going to perform well if you have fear if you have stress anxiety so I've managed to reverse engineer everything to see why human let's get stuck. Why do they get stopped and it can go to the extremes of depression and you know some really tough things that everybody goes through the challenges that we face but if we can just transcend that if we can recognize okay what is it? That's holding me back in my career and my relationship to my health as you know. That's a powerful things about access. How how do you reverse engineer the mind though like how did you how did you learn? I guess I'm asking you. What are your credentials? And how did you come to be where you are today. So the first reverse engineer to me. It's like you look at symptoms right. You're going to see a doctor and you've got strep throat. You got something going on your body. You don't quite sure it comes from Any doctor hopefully is worth their salt will recognize okay. What's the underlying root cause right now in West medicine? They actually don't really want to do that. They just want to prescribe medication medication. Because that's the business they want to sell pills so with the mind. It's the same thing if someone comes to me and they're having a relationship issue or they're struggling with something to do with performance in whatever whatever arena could be sports entertainment just something to do with that business then reverse engineer is mean means like go back to what is it that is at the root cause of Y. You're dealing with anxiety. Why can't you speak to your boss about something? Why are you struggling? Why are you hiding? So that's what I mean by reverse engineer is to take you back to. What is the root cause of somebody suffering bring that is impacting their behavior and their results? So that's that's the reverse engineer part credentials I mean I studied in Undergrad in human biology and exercise physiology. I started as a trainer many years ago and then I did a moss in it. And then I studied something could I of Asia. which is the Indian healing modality similar to Chinese medicine so that has a very strong component about the mind and understanding how it influences off his eulogy? What leads to disease and I love that word word because to me psychological disease or the absence of ease is what eventually will manifest in your body and you get sick? So how often are you seeing results when you work with people pull. I'd like to every time I mean there's always going to be a result to what degree you know it's like do I take an NBA all star who doubles his shooting averages. That's that's pretty significant. Yeah yeah do I triple. PJ Golfers Winnings as pretty significant. All do I just help somebody just recently. One of my guys he's He just recognized that he's being basically making his biological mom wrong for thirty years and now to what degree will that actually manifest manifest when he gets back on the mound next season. I don't know but it's significant for him as a human being to go holy shit because he went through something that was tough when he was a kid and ever percents. He's held that garage. What he didn't realise is he's the one hold in the poison even though he's making a wrong so is that a powerful successful result? I'd say I mean that's that's huge huge star Louis. Yeah the the reason I asked is because a few people come to mind and one person in particular where like the problems that they have are so deep rooted. I did It seems like it'd be tough to reverse engineer. And wh- thought or feeling that might be truly like subconscious that she might not even be aware of for sure. I mean I'd say that's my actual era expertise and the blind spots right do you. Can you share what it is and I'll give me an example an an example. This person she just got hung. Who knows what I'm talking about? It's like it's like it's like a pretty it's a pretty chronic depression and I've been I've seen it and witnessed it firsthand and it's it's scary. Yes there's is nothing I can say or do to get them out of the rain right now. I get to see how much care about this person which is beautiful. And that's one of the containers to help help so depression is a if you look at the energy and the emotion of depression as a heaviness right people. I'm feeling motivated. They're not excited for their life. There's a lethargy there's an apathy and there's normally resignations so think about the energy of heaviness heaviness is usually a byproduct to holding onto something I come on a my one of my mlb guys we were planned the dodgers actually and he had some Shitty shitty outings recently so he wasn't in the best place wasn't feeling super confident so because I was accountable for the mindset of the team I went optimized how you doing and he said I'm hanging in there it's a very common human expression right but I said that's interesting choice of words because if you're hanging in there you're holding onto something so so the holding onto men that he was actually not reconciling his history. Like the last time you went out. And he gave up five runs whatever it was so he. He had that moment recognize that what was holding him back was he was still associated with his history right now so I said you remember that movie. Many black will smith they wave that one. And you forget these these aliens and one of them. I said if I could get your memory worship how can problem right so with this person you're talking about. Depression is where we haven't reconciled. We haven't processed assessed emotionally something from a long period of time so similar dies saying about the guy who for thirty years his mom wrong. That's a lot of heaviness in assist. Now he he was still functional. He's making millions of dollars on the mound so similarly I promise you whoever this person is she's holding onto something that she has reconciled. physiologically is logically if you eat some heavy food but you don't digest it properly you got sal belching your bloated you feel kinda heavy and she. That's just something physical but think about emotionally. Psychologically you got something that happened to you. Ten Twenty thirty years ago that you haven't actually processed that is going to create having us in your system so we need uh with to finish the point we WANNA get back to. What were the events that happened? Unusual is one pivotal. Maybe a couple that made her feel in her view that somehow now she's not she's not wanted she's not good enough or something like that. That's the heaviness. Depression is just a symptom. How many of your clients after you give them advice? We'll tell you that it's easier said than done a lot. I use the expression it's simple. It's not easy right so when I point things out at actually make sense. And that's the simple simple not the not easy as putting it into effect actually having the discipline on this is where honestly I wanted to acknowledge you for this whole journey. You've been on with the whole no boxing experience because we talked about that at dinner. When you're at my house is the dedication in the discipline to me? Was your greatest. This acid was your greatest win. was what you had to overcome in terms of. I don't feel like it this morning. Or what the hell am I doing the psychological apathy thin resistant so you overcame that. That is the tough part. Yeah understanding I mean. I work with brilliant people who go great minds. Oh that makes sense. But then if they don't actually follow through and execute so cute yeah it makes no difference. Do you do only work with like a top performers or do you also work with people like average more common everyday people the whole gamut every everyone how do you how do you. I know you talked about. What was I thinking men in Black Hawk Net Deanna miser where he holds it? Yeah everybody forgets everything. Yeah since you don't have that by the way unless you do assuming you don't have that how do you I. I know you're able to call out the fact that they're depression. Anxiety or whatever it is is probably rooted in something that happened in the past. But how do you go about identifying what that thing is one level. That's my skill. You know it's being out to listen from a place where I can identify whatever it is saying to me. Just just reveal something like about. It's like think of think of a room like this room is i. Don't know five six hundred square feet right so within this room it gives space to this is perfect. PROPO- Pau Castle. We could set up like bedroom in here but we're not going to throw the Olympics in this room right because of the space doesn't call for it so when someone comes to me with whatever their problem is I'm able able to detect. What is the space this stock in? What is the language as I said earlier? If I'm not good enough then that's going to give rise to all sorts of behavioral adaptations people pleasing perfectionism. And then you'll have the symptoms of that like I'm exhausted. I don't feel like my boyfriend gives me enough attention. I don't get paid enough at work. That's the problem but I can take that back to. Actually the problem is the you don't think that you're worth anything and then we can highlight. Wow I can remember when my dad gave my sister more attention and I thought that meant that I was less S.. Then her or something like that. I was just on a retreat teaching this group and this motherboard up a concern about one of our sons. She said you know. How do I help my son who keeps saying that he's not as good? As in this case robby robby was his older brother and she said I'm telling him he's amazing and he's got this gift and he's Da data is first of all you know actually listening to what he's saying. I get from a mother's perspective. You want him to feel better but he saying in his reality the way the word occurs is to him is that he's inadequate relative to his older brother. So unless you actually understand where someone is to start with. Then you're not actually able to help them but what he was revealing is relative to his brother he feels somehow less than and once you can hold a space for and go okay. I can see that you feel that you brothers great at this. And he's an athlete. Whatever but then we can investigate? Is it true that you'll less than your brother. Like is an actual truth. Like I say I believe in gravity. That's about the only truth I believe in otherwise it's just an opinion opinion. And that's where you can do that. That's where you can actually help. Somebody see that what you believe about yourself. It has an impact and it can suck at times to live there. But it's not an actual the truth and that's the freedom fascinated by how much ones childhood can affect the rives our life. Yeah I've sat with some is some therapists and during the unpacking yeah. Everything is a problem that I had was like pinpointed because of something that went wrong during my childhood like me. Dad or mom didn't do something like a lack of something and maybe the way I am So again there's just like a lot of a lot of stuff to unpack there but it because like obviously we're not able to sit you down with a one on one with each of our listeners. I want to go a little more macro okay and ask you is. Is there a best practice to improve or like what is what is the the thing that is stopping people from living to their fullest potential. The most it's a beautiful question and again I love this about you and the fact that you do care about your audience I think human beings we kinda designed fundamentally to survive live right so on the macro level. I don't care who you all whether I'm working with billionaire executive over here or thirteen year old kid who's struggling with. Add or anxiety Zayed issues if if you recognize that who we all fundamentally as humans is designed to fight or flight to survive because we feel there are potential attention threats. Now that threat might be. My boss called me into my office. My wife is upset at me. I'm not sure I'm going to be able to pay rent this month. That is all based on what I call these linguistic fortresses like the language inside of my head is that I'm not gonna be able to do something it's based in again I don't want to get get to as a Tarik with words negation where we're saying not something. I'm not this. I'm not that so on the macro level for people to be able to find some freedom. It's recognizing recognizing. Where are you saying? I'm not something that I'm not going to be okay. That's how most people relate to. The future is whatever's going to happen there's a perception that it's a worst case scenario right. Fear anxiety apprehension Warri. I'm sure you had some of this going into the fight as confident as you were as prepared as you were. It's natural as a human being to think I'm knocking to be okay. And that's one of the biggest things that I see with everyone I work with. Is it our relationship to the future is from that worst case scenario and the NBA Guy. That I helped. WHO had the league's worth worse average? He was based on past history. The men in black. You know the fear that he hadn't let go off was standing standing up the free throw line and now he's trying to avoid the repetition of what didn't go. Well is letting down his teammates and crowded booing. And it's a tough position of being so I said to him. You know you think that you're worried about an outcome but you're the one creating that potential outcome because nothing's happened yet. Yeah right so I said what if I told that you shoot league average for the rest of the season which was six seventy five percent. And he's do that'd be amazing. His shoulders dropped. He started small like a kid. And I said what I just creative for. You is as real as the future. You're worried about the both made up. Yeah now if you really get that. And he shot. He went from thirty five percent to sixty eight percent that that whole week because he recognized he created a different future. So that would be the first thing I say to people. Is You got to be aware of what is the future. You're creating that your concern about because you're the one creating it and when this hit me it was just so mad and yet comical we go one brain that is creating a perception of future. That hasn't happened yet. And it's usually knock it as I said and then that same brain is trying to resolve avoid or fix the future that it made up you make it seem so simple you like it is yeah it sounds like it is. It's such a shock to us and I don't want to sound like a broken record but we weren't taught this stuff in school where I'm trying to think where where we taught any of this nation we have a brain and yet what Class K through twelve did we ever like. Study are often. I think I think think Oh the question I asked you earlier about the difference between you know teaching these top performers and teaching the average everyday person is I think top performers by default because of their ability to be top performers athletes. Actors royalty whatever they are are innately potentially actually better at their ability to problem solve when it comes to mental illness. Okay this is A. I'm just making this up. Maybe it's not true but I think of on the other. Hand the advice that you give people that are as someone who who suffers under a decent amount or at times a tremendous amount of depression and anxiety myself yeah Some of that advice is rely on what I would call a breakthrough. Yeah Okay you can I. I know people people that live in this house nice. I don't even live in this House that you could throw you know. Change your mental mind state. Imagine the best potential outcome Think positively let's identify your pass and it's like Poon Poon Poon Poon payment metal wall. Not Not a single thing is going through. Yeah and so I guess I guess like my question is like for those people out there because I know I speak for these people in the audience as soon as I say this right. Now it'll get clipped a thousand people at the EMI l.. You're talking about me. I know this feeling nothing can get through to me. No one can help me. I'm in the worst place in the darkest raw. I'll never get out. I'll never forget out. How do you how do you break through those people? How do you get them to at least open up to the fact that there potentially could be a better life life for them? It's a beautiful question and my response might seem a little bit soft but for me the first thing is for people to understand understand what it means to truly be loved because my assertion is. It's a hard thing to say that no kid going back to your point about most of this I've actually all of it. That is generated in childhood. Most children don't know what it means to truly be held and loved and again I'm dude you know I'm a guy's guy. I love my sports but but I also would say one of my assets and my skill sets is when I'm with someone I just love them for who they are so even if someone is depressed and you're talking about whoever this girl is who have you Jio speaking to in the audience. What most people want is to truly be held for wherever they're add think of a little kid who's just fell over and they got the BOO BOO and they're crying and they're screaming aiming you don't want to go like you throw solutions? You know you should have had better sneakers on obt weren't paying like that's not what they want. They want to be picked up and they want to be held so that to me is the first protocol is I used the archetypes of what would the quintessential mother energy look like. And it's a lot of pressure on mothers to try to embody this. I'm not saying anyone it should but if you had that quintessential almost like mother Theresa Type Woman as your mother. Whatever you did you always feel held? You always feel like loved and it's okay. Okay your kid. You're supposed to break shit. You're supposed to get things wrong but when we hear it from our parents is like no. That was wrong that you did that. And that was bad so that would be the first first thing is to learn and it is really tough. I really have so much compassionate people out there doing the best they can but to to hold yourself and go you know what I'm human I'm not supposed host to be perfect. I'm allowed to Fox things up. I'm allowed to be scared. I'm allowed to sometimes feel sorry for myself. That's okay and to make space for that is is the first thing to do. So we want to embody the quintessential mother energy for whoever's going through whatever depression anxiety failure loss disappointment. It's okay that's the first step. It's okay then we can start to bring in the quintessential data energy. WHO's the guy who's like? Hey you're awesome and you start to figure shit out and go okay. Maybe this is why you didn't do well in this sport or in that interview and we can start to be in the analytical but that's when most people go straight away we want to fix it and that person never felt held like saying when I was in the retreat. The woman. WHO's trying to help her son who felt worse than or less than his older brother Robbie he wants to just be held and listen to I? Most people don't listen in relationships. Parenting to children just get what that humans reality is right now and they don't don't feel good about themselves and if you can just meet them there I'm not saying that we want them to hang out there but just to get really understand you feel just yet you really feel sad right now. And that's totally okay. And I think that's where women to women are a little bit better listeners. US guys we want to just fix it. It's like well. That was dumb. Why did you do that versus listening? Wow now I can get. You've had a really tough debate. You know like I can get that now in our mind. We might be like that. That could be fixed easily. But that's not what they're saying they want to be heard and this is where my most guys struggling relationships is. Don't listen so listening. Is I giving people the permission to feel what they feel without judging them. It's okay I I gave a client this example the other day. I said imagine you're throwing a dinner party not too dissimilar to the great one hundred for us and you can invite all of your emotions and and you're like well. I definitely want happiness to be there. Definitely joy fun. He's awesome playfulness and excitement. I want those emotions positively positively. He's definitely going to be invited. PAS positively she's awesome but then you go to the list ooh Shit. Do I have to invite depression Russian to have to be at the dinner party. Does grief have to really be. There is such a bummer. and to me it's like if you don't invite all your emotions to the demo party body you'll denying a party yourself and so it's about being a big enough human being that you can allow all aspects of who you are to actually be part of your life that is the full integration. That allows you then to be free. I'm I'm curious to kind of extend a mice question. You know to the to the viewers listeners out there that may be in a family situation in which maybe they are missing family. I know it's something that you've obviously had to overcome or maybe they're in an abusive relationship or something. They feel stuck in their in their environment. Not Conducive and maybe they're too young to even move out and they can't be on their own. Yeah what what do you say to to. Those types of people is there. Is there a way to find this. Inner clarity in this inner peace while still being in a chaotic environment. Or do you have to at some point completely. Remove yourself to to accomplish this. I mean firstly. I'd says I have nothing but love for you. I mean again that sounds a little bit philanthropic it but I really do. I mean I've been through a lot myself. We all have and so I think compassion is one of the greatest assets we can have as human beings that you don't know what wall someone is going through. You know when we judge somebody in public iron and traffic and we get pissed. It's it's like you don't know what they've been through so first of all come from compassion my my first response turning one secondly I guess it depend on the situation of. It's a kid I mean that's the thing that really breaks my heart right as you see kids who it might not even be abuse like in terms of physical abuse but the kid that's ignored you know at the dinner table. You know the quintessential go to your room. Dismissive energy that is put on humans to me he is one of the cruelest ways to treat anyone. And I'm just super sensitive to suffering. I don't want anyone to suffer. It's why I do what I do. WanNa help. People wake up and be free so compassion hashing love will be the first thing I'd bring the people and say listen. You're not alone. I think you know having some sense of companionship with people who are going through this to realize that there there are millions of people going through the same thing and then to as best as possible. Yes if you can remove yourself from a situation that is abusive. Whatever that means? It's a strong word then. Of course that is great seek counsel and people that you can trust you know whether it be frowned. I mean this is why people get into gangs. You know humans want to belong and if you don't find belonging in your own biological family which you find it somewhere else and that's also scary right because as you can. I want to mimic the group. Bless you unless you almost I gotta I gotTa Sneeze as as a opportunity to run okay. My driver's his outside. Excuse US guys. Don't change on you guys have fun here in the Digital World I'm GonNa go do real. Okay Royalty Z.. Enjoy yourselves I wanNA talk to you again after the show as living connect love to help you and I really appreciate you sharing about the depression. Because because it's it's more common than people realize I I could sit here and talk to you about it for four hours and I think a lot of people would like to see that so hopefully hopefully we get back. The just the first thing I would say to give you as a takeaway is is acceptance. Whatever you went through your big heart you care you got a great mind and in your no different than any other human being and you've been through tough stuff right but to accept your pathway without resistance is where you're gonNA find freedom? The what happened is one of my quotes and say what happened. Happened and couldn't have happened any other way because it didn't and if you really get that there's a lot of freedom to be found because oftentimes were judging our history Korea so that shouldn't have happened. They shouldn't have done that now. Your stock right. What happened happen? Couldn't have happened out of the way because it didn't really get that you my friend will find some more freedom. I I love it thank you grow your show go kick-ass and the big screen. I think the people out there that maybe we are saying. Oh Peter you don't get it you you know you you have. Life made her working with all these people like. Could you unpack your story with your parents personally personally. Because I don't think there's there's a lot of people out there that I think would benefit from hearing that. Yeah I mean it's definitely I've encountered that a few times like I remember distinctly thank lead like doing an interview in London for some of my work in the woman made. The point is easy for us. Six hundred three successive on wasn't always that way so it wasn't always six-foot-three that would've helped my mom have so. Yeah when I was I was an only child and when I I was seven my mum passive cancer and so she'd been sick for a while so she really wasn't present in my life as a mother for a good couple of years and I was actually sent into way by my dad. Your kid you don't know what's happening when you're six or seven and when I came back he took me into one of the rooms in the house and go down on one knee so he could be I level. He was is always very considerate of that. And said I can't remember his exact words but basically your mom's not here anymore and to this day to what degree of actually been out of the process that you can also seven year old to understand what death means. And certainly of this quintessential security blanket cujo mother so that that was that and then Matt and my dad and I very close and I'm blessed that I had a very unconditionally loving dad. And he did the best occurred given he still had to go to work. We went wealthy And then one day he went to work when I was seventeen. He walked home. What we call the ferries or the boats ago between England and Belgium in England and France and the boat capsized and About about three F- three to four hundred people died and he he was sadly one of them so equivalent of any major disaster. It was all over the news for days where the pulling bodies out out of the the English Channel and of course we're sitting there hoping that all the people coming out with blankets I see my dad and suffices say he he tapio. He wasn't one of them so that was probably I'd say that was the hardest thing I've ever been through an in ways that I still couldn't even process at the time again. Seventeen nineteen you know. You're so young but I can remember standing in my bedroom and again that mom's died. Dad's gone I did have a stepmother but you know she's a very nice lady but it's not like my biological parents and I remember viscerally. Having the what I consider the worst experience a human being can have which is the feeling feeling of complete isolation and I think you know as my work has evolved realize that what we're up against is the belief it was separate and if we think we're separate as a human being is any sort of pack animal. It's it's the worst feeling because you want to belong in which we could say as love for family and community and but this was visceral meaning it was physical. It wasn't like how could argue. No no but I got a great brother. Even if he's dead you know it's like we're close. There was no one is no one and so I think that's what led me to have so much compassion for people is because I had the actual experiences operation which I think is what people are going through. When they're suffering? They might have parents might have siblings. I might have loved ones spouses but if we feel separate than it's a it's a desperate feeling so yeah so that was part of my part of my upbringing which I think you know again. Look what I just said to Mike. What happened happened can happen any other way because it didn't doesn't mean it's ideal and some people misunderstand that quote I just WanNa be clear? I'm not saying that what people went through his ideal people go through awful things so I'm child abuse to sexual abuse. I'm not saying what happened is great. I'm saying it happened. And if you keep processing it and you don't let go of it then you'll still suffering. Even that might be years after so what happened is that's what happened. And apparently that was my destiny and it allowed me to become as I said loving compassionate patient understanding the people. I wouldn't wish it upon anyone but clearly that was what was my Karma so yeah feel like some people take that experience they they use it and they get into trouble. Some people take that in come the best version of themselves. I think is one of those. You know the greatest compliments. I go when I went went to college in the UK at First Year University. I didn't know anyone you you obviously start to make friends. And this one guy he he was very sweet guy very sensitive when when he came up to me and after we got to know each other and some people that hurt my story college had something like fifteen thousand students and he said you know if we would align up every student and you had to pick the kid whose parents had died would have been the last one I pig because you just seem so Faisal full of life which to me at the time very you know as a complement to what degree at that age each I was also hiding in a little bit because you know I was conscious of it. I don't know but it was still it was still a compliment. Was it was like a mentor or something. Something that you found because I think what's interesting now is like we're on a podcast and hundreds of thousands of people are able to process this story in this experience that you didn't have that as a kid so I think we have an audience right now. That has the potential. If you've gone through something where you can make a conscious decision okay. I'm going to be like Peter I'm Gonna I'M GONNA use this to actually become an awesome awesome human being. was there something for you personally that that allows you to kind of help you know. Make sure you didn't go down a bad path and you you did go down this path breath. Now it's A. It's a beautiful question and I think a lot of people have said something similar. It's like wow. You could easily have slipped into a pathway of drugs or you know become mm somebody who was just bitter about life. Why me and it's not fair and screw garden so there was no one in particular that stood out? I think I grew up in community. Neither was a lot of families on the street that I grew up where there was a lot of support to community. You know I think that is gonNA give people a lot of access to strengthen security. I think just for me. I was always somebody who was very curious. I wanted to understand things. I didn't want to be a victim of circumstance. I wanted it to be responsible and I think that's one of the powers the I gone it at a very young age is like okay. I could either say that somebody is the reason for my suffering or or I can look at it myself and that that to me was very empowering. So what everyone's going through right now if you're looking at your life like you're a victim of your boss your wife if your parents your kids you're already on the back burner already struggling because you're saying I'm powerless. It's well no if they were better than I would be. Okay okay. They said sorry I would say they said I love you. I would say right so you're always playing this waning game and this is again. Why have a Lotta respect? Few My friend is that you know your pioneer and I know you get a lot of backlash in different ways and it's sort of a love hate relationship but you put your shit out that you know and that takes courage because you know you all making a a a sort of a statement that can leave you vulnerable whatever you pursue and I think a lot of people are scared which is totally human. But if you want to break out or something it's incumbent upon you to actually be responsible for the life creating and that's that that takes Mahoney's Oh a passion or a big heart to really believe in something but that to me is the most fulfilling life to live as you can either be a victim victim of life for me. Somebody who's responsible for the life you're creating Do you feel like this this podcast. 'cause I've seen I've known you for a handful of years and I feel like that vulnerability you talk about is like the key. How do you feel like this podcast for example and like because you've put so much more of your personal personal life out there last year? This podcast has ruined my life. You say that I feel like it's actually helped opposite. It has personally the growth that I've experienced because of my willingness to to talk about the things. I'm feeling things that are happening in my life. It's like it's unparalleled paralleled like this. PODCAST is one of the greatest things to happen to my life for some reason it helps me. Foreman articulate thoughts more and also you were touching on earlier is he's like acceptance not only with other people but with myself. Even though I've I've fucked up my made mistakes I've done some dumb shit when I was younger. Her and when I when I say younger like one year ago two years ago three years ago which really isn't that young but in the scope of my life and I I'm a ever-evolving person and and I and I and I change quickly like I in a year. I won't be this person. Exactly being able to accept myself has made my life so much easier versus trying to pretend that I'm something that I'm currently not yet like I'm well aware of like the social media perception that is like Logan Paul and instead of being like instead of living in a place of denial. it's I accept it and I'm optimistic to mystic and looking forward to taking on the challenge to bring people on board and and and make them hopefully really see what I see about myself because I just I believe I can one thing. I do a lot that hinted at earlier. Like I pressed the reset button on my life. You know a lot I will white my mind the past Lavar to the future and that is that the future by the way that manifested that is great a and it's not focused in the in the negative and I wanted to ask you this actually This is sort of anecdotal but in my boxing fight I manifested invested the victory. I manifested The win only the greatest outcome and the fear of losing or the fear of failure. which again you you mentioned earlier didn't cross my mind? There was no there was no There was no fear of losing I. I wasn't worried about becoming a mean. That wasn't my motivation. My motivation was. I'm going I want to be the greatest and I don't Wanna I wanNA prove to the world that I can do this so can you. But a lot of boxers boxers Anthony Joshua I know Even I think as I said a big motivating factor for them was the fear of of losing. Yeah that that world that they created that by the way I hadn't even happened yet And I'm wondering if that may be although it maybe not ideal I'm wondering for maybe a stronger. Motivating factor that fear of failure. Because like on November Ninth KS. I wanted it more and I ask myself why I can come up with excuses. All I want. But it me being optimistic and hopeful for The best potential outcome. Yeah may not have been as strong as that fear of being inadequate and DC. That often like our people often driven by EH. Yeah I mean it's a it's a beautiful distinction of being be aware of it like I work a lot of high on athletes pro athletes and so to to me. There's three main stages which is preparation execution and outcome and most people just focus on outcome and I will tell people if you didn't prepare New Mexico. Do you have absolutely no right to be pissed about the outten and most people don't get that so within what you just talked about the so many nuggets that we could talk about in terms of performance wants but the thing that hits me the most is. I love the confidence you had but I would say it was. Also what left you vulnerable. Because Jack Nicklaus is the greatest. I just golfer that ever lived you know in terms of like actual Accolades he's got more than tiger. Tiger's offices doing whatever we can to beat that but he said one of the most important parts of winning inning is being okay losing So he made space for work has. That's a that's a pill to swallow dude It's funny because I've I've like technically I've lost a lot in my life but every time I do I'm like yeah even after my fight dude. I'm in the ring and you see me. Grab my chest moments after my hand wasn't raised and I'm like I felt like pain in my chest out this things. This loss out Jason. What's wrong? I gotta stay which it's it's definitely something I need to be better at. It reminds me one of my again. Mo guys full of Life Venezuelan. He he won. He was part of the cubs team. That won the world series on one for whatever one hundred eight years and prior to that season. He's fuck you fuck like just super super positive. Dude you're hockey I. I don't I'm never GONNA fail man. I'm the best and I said. Listen I love you but you could you could I mean especially in his Boto baseball and he took it on right. I said what I hear is a kid who super passionate. But you're actually scads to the point that you're pretending you're okay with it wherever you ever pretense. You'll vulnerable bowl. And so that moment he said what what if what if you're okay that you do lose. What if what? If that doesn't you're going to be okay and I liked it. A little is a bit of humor. I said we'll do. I have to call your mom. It's like you you're GONNA be alright. And he he was you know so for me. It's like if you're okay. If you are okay with every outcome you will free. which by the way before the fight I wasn't if someone of my camp said something about me losing? I like snap on them. I'll be you'll watch your mouth like but our I show my team. Don't you believe in me like in my mind. There was literally quite owned quite literally only one outcome. And that's left you've honorable you didn't and listen. This is powerful because it's a fight right. It's it's a job it's any kind of performance to someone is committed to. If you don't integrate all possibilities then you are leaving yourself. It's like I said the dinner table. If you don't include all the emotions then you not complete. You're not being like you said fully self accepting there's one one of my teachers and I mean the guy died but he's an Indian guru so I read his books cool Krishnamurti and he said he's got this great name that goes around his my secret. I don't mind what happens. that's awesome. They really get that. That's now worth yeah. This is my secret. I don't mind what happens now because I work with a lot of high performers. We do care but again. One of the distinctions I teach is I can more than anyone I know. I just don't worry. Now think about that care pointing to your AH chess like his heart anatomically. It's associated with that. The love Warri is the psychology where people get ahead of themselves. So I care I just don't worry An and that's that's deep. If you really get it most people are in the head constantly warring that's anxiety depression apprehension concern. But if you care that's love love which means that makes space for the fact that I could fell and I'm okay with that now. I wouldn't want that. Fear is part of your team and we were together. Yeah but if not now knowing what you'll sharing which is beautiful for yourself and your audience the you actually one okay. With that is what led to you. Life bringing that forward right another powerful credit I use. His life will present you with people in circumstances to reveal where you're not free and get that again. Life will present you with people and circumstances to reveal away. You're not free to me. That five revealed where you went free which is awesome? Maybe not in the outcome but it is for your growth because now you get. Wow I can be a big human being because I got to see where I wasn't. Okay with what could have happened is that is around the possibility yet absolutely. I think I think something else that didn't help. Was the the the press conferences honestly and like and like the videos the everything leading up to the fight The Back Act Story. Because I'm conflicted because I'm this. I'm this fighter who has like a moderate ability but also so I'm I'm an entertainer who I would let me pat myself on the back for a second like I I love to entrance to entertain. That's not my thing. So I'm attempting to sell the event. And so I put on this persona of like first round decapitation beatable on the greatest boxer ever and like I got home. And I'm a Larry was fun but like half probably ten percent. What I said was realistically true? Yeah and so then I start to volun- this mindset mindset like no I am the greatest no I can only win There's only one outcome and it it. It it's weird 'cause I like psych myself out so the takeaway ACL. Here's I guess for the next fight. I got to find a balance between being humble and realizing realistically That both both outcomes are possible winning and losing or drawing I guess but also selling a show. Yeah because I'm not a world class boxer yet who who can sell a show based purely on his athletic ability. No I get and listen. I think honestly this is why you have such a big audience right. Because there's something about you. The every human being can relate to which is both aspects that you just spoke to does the entertainer right so if you it might be on scale but for somebody at home their form of entertainment entertainment is trying to look good in front of their girlfriend or their dad. That's a form of entertainment. It's still a pretense. And then there's a part of you that I think most people are really enamored with with which is your vulnerability like even the you'll letting me contribute to you in this way and go. You know what you're right. I was pretending to be like I'm the number one I'm going to be the best and but underneath underneath it. You don't know that I have no idea glue this great. I don't believe myself I'm just like no no no guessing I get it but you said one word which to me is. It's become one of my favorite qualities that I hope that I do and body is humility because my my quote unquote awaken. If you WANNA call it was that that when I discovered those three words I don't know because I'd had a go leave me. You know which was perfect because it revealed my fear of loss which we now know from my parents dying was very very strong in me is a fear so the first girl quote unquote I fall in love with. What do I want to avoid happening the same thing leaving me? So as she left I fell l.. Apart and then I had all these questions will issue with someone else will ever see her again Blah Blah Blah feeling. Sorry for myself. Which is human? It's okay but the answer to all of the questions was the same. I don't know move once. I got that and accepted it. I was free because the nature of life is uncertainty. You did not know on that night stepping into the ring what the outcome was is going to be. You had the pretense which is great. We cool that bravado or confidence but to me it was vulnerability and where you stand a chance to really evolve as a human being with the impact that you have have to be. Even more powerful is to stay in the space of uncertainty whilst being committed right so for my athletes say totally committed fully on attached attached I love that if you get that. I'm going to give it my all but I don't know what's going to happen and I'm going to be okay regardless that's the path of human being. I feel that it's rare to because we're bred to be thinking about the future were bred to be thinking about. You know we're going through school and can you know get ready for college. Get a job do this blah blah blah blah it. You're going to retire. You're always striving for something. Yeah and you're never being taught to just be present just like enjoy away the moment every moment that you're part of even la traffic which that's pretty damn are everyone's everyone's ideal life is in the future. Not I just get that. It just didn't make sense when when have you ever been in your future now. That's why people are freaking miserable. No no but I'm getting there even the expression right. I'm getting adding that. Where are you getting to? Yeah the only place to be is here now. I'm not saying that I don't as an entrepreneur. Somebody who's committed to really shifting the course of humanity which which may sound grandiose. But that's what I'm up to is that I have a future that I'm committed to and I don't WanNa be fatalistic. I might pass away tomorrow. You know I don't know. Oh so I'm still going to be fully with you guys engaged in this conversation fully present and that to to your point about being an athlete and being a boxer. The more that you you can embody presence whilst being okay with all outcomes as the degree to which you have full access to your power to impact the moment so deep right and most those people are as you said. They think that their future. No wait. Just win one day. I have enough money. My Body's finally ripped and I've got the best partner. The big whatever it is that people are committed to and I have. Have you have all the goals and aspirations you want but if you think that your joy your happiness your freedom is going to be found in your future. Then you're kidding yourself and you're in a mild state of depression. I think on the note of boxing I resonate with Ruis verse. Joshua Reese came into that I fight like completely unexpecting. Acting ended up why he won. Yeah I and then the second fight you could clearly tell that he he he did not prepare nearly as much as as Joshua Yup. Absolutely 'cause I mean the first fight like he had nothing to lose. He was a substitute and he went in just like wow. I got dislike championship fight. I'm going to do the best. Can he likes it. Maybe he didn't give fuck like honest and he had six weeks before that so he was already in shape he already had his win. All right got a nice house in San Diego. We went there for his birthday. He had everything he wanted and he just went in and was fully met unattached. Question is. Yeah this this is my one of the coach. You said this is my secret. I don't mind what happens. Yeah you adopted the idea of being comfortable saying I don't know yeah. Yeah being totally committed in fully unattached. Yeah how do you. How do you become fully in our touched? How do you say I don't know at? How are you always comfortable with what happens and not be a sociopath and asked because I sometimes had this problem in which is why I think this guy? Shane Dawson Austin. Did a piece of my brother and the word sociopath was thrown around so many times and with with people people sometimes I I. I use logic to determine how I act or how I treat them or what I say to them because to me as a person who is is kind of unattached who's doesn't know a lot of things and he does a really mind what happens like I want the best but I always say this your if you take this house away from me and take all my money away from me. I will go back to Ohio and I live in a tree chop wood and I'll be just as happy as I am now. I've had this like level level of happiness. My whole life in the through line is pretty consistent. So how do you. How do you do all the things you say you said and instill Phil show that you care? Yeah I would say that's the greatest way to show the UK because otherwise what you're saying is my value is externally associated. Why are people like wanting outcome? Because it's the accolades whatever that might be it could be a check for something. It could be the recognition for something so to me. The most the highest form of care is where you recognize your value for who you are like your unique aspect of life. There's no other you on the planet Ed and to me that warrants honoring that warrants reverence yet most people are under the impression that the value is somehow compromise. I'm not worth something so I will compensate safer that by trying to get something external so if I'm if I'm okay with me then I've got literally nothing to lose talking about the boxer right because I'm not looking for external donald trappings to try and compensate for internal lack of self worth now. If you really get that that to me is the most powerful human being because nothing can be taken from them. And that's that's how I see every human being. Why does this one in eight billion? How much more special would you WANNA be? Yeah but the trouble is most people because of the lens that they look through. which is I've been told that they're not this or they didn't get picked for the football team or they lost this or whatever it is? Yeah it's human nature again. Why have compassion and love for people? But it's not a truth that thing that you'll will somehow inadequate you're not that's a narrative it's a conversation so you believe that you'll somehow inadequate and you're going to do whatever you think you need to through behavioral adaptation Tation to compensate for that. And that's why you not okay with outcomes and that's why you're not okay not knowing and that's why you're also like trying to attach yourself to some external value. None of it's wrong but it's also futile. Because what you keep doing is reinforcing the belief that there's something inadequate about you that's going back to the one brain that's like coming up with this sense sense of insecurity that then trying to find security not realizing you made up the insecurity in the first place so that to me is the ultimate form of care because it is self care. It is the degree to which I fully love and accept myself as the degree to which I can extend that all other beings like like. You're saying self love. So how do you have like tangible enjoyable. Take home for the audience. A few things that they can do on a daily basis to like. How do you practice self love scraping cope with my tongue on some comedy that Anita scrape the back of Jeff? I mean anything anything that is reflective of self. You know I mean kidding is is that GONNA be Great. We could be floating. Like what are you doing that is in some way honoring the life that you are right another quote I use until you love and respect yourself. What makes you think anyone else should we do? We tend to look look the other way round like Oh they don't love me will. How will you playing that game right? Yeah so it's just a reflection it's MIRA so I would look at. Where are you abusing yourself? Where are you like having negative conversations about yourself? Where are you even speaking to people around you in a way that is sort of compromising your worth and stop doing then I would say I would say also a good way. I love that I would say if you go into your room and it's messy I feel like that's a good. That's a good a place to start. I heard this take care of people who say the first thing you should do days. Make your bed. There's a video that went viral. I think it was like a general. Yeah exactly yeah. Yeah Yeah Yeah because even if you had a shitty day and then you come back and you did beds made momentum like you're actually like are starting to move move doing some. Yeah I I agree with the sentiment but I saw the great housekeeper. That's true that's I get back into it later so peel back I try to I try to. I've heard this before like successful. People are this organized and that is that like a messy desk is a sign of somebody who's mind. I saw that once. Oh you know like if a cluttered desk is indication of a clouded mind. What's an empty desk? I guess it implied an empty buy into it but it just means it's a cloud. A lot of death scores an empty desk. I mean listen you know anything. That is a form of action. A form of this is again. Why knowledge you dinner that you came to is the? It's it's the act. It's the discipline as I said it's the preparation. In the execution. People are always trying to find the right answers you go and see an expert invariably it's all around the realm of instruction like what should I do how I should I do this. And I think people focus way too much. I'm trying to get everything right versus. Just get on with something like I use above my above my desk there was just the expression get on with it because I could sit there. I'm the small guy. Go to great mind I could strategize an Al Anon or I could just get on with shit you know whatever it is like people who struggle with weight loss. Let's say and maybe they all to three hundred pounds overweight and they do have all sorts of potential disorders from diabetes to high cholesterol. It's tough you could sit there and feel sorry for yourself or you could do something. Today that loses half a pound right and your closer to the goal than you were. At the beginning of the day it might seem miniscule relative to the two hundred pounds you have to but you have to go through that stage at some point so getting into action doing something that is a reflection of self care and self love is quote unquote. The greatest thing you can do to enhance the quality of your life. Yeah just going off of that Example the one thing I always say to people And Advice I gave that girl too. I asked her. She was Doing something physical everyday Like just literally just sweating sweat make yourself go jump rope for fifty minutes mix of sweat once a day. Go to a gym. I'm sure you'll end up working out. That is a huge Self-care self-care ritual for me. When I hitting the bag? No nothing. Nothing else matters movement to me. Is You know we were talking about Human Potential Chore. If you don't have some consistent form of exercise all mobility staff then you're not close to accessing your potential i. It's just it's one of these. What I call non-negotiables it's like if you don't have good sleep than equally? I don't care what you're committed to. You're not going to access that. Yeah so movement is key doing in something as you said that gets blood moving. That gets your heart rate up that that allows you ideally to sweat. It's one of the few people. Mike would love your own outlets. He's always talked by the way. My sweats really. Not a person you'd see and be like Oh like that guy works out but he's moving he doesn't he moved. ooh He's he's he's not really in there to get in the best shape of his life. He's in there for his physical and mental health. And by the way I I know it's hard. I know it's really hard. Sometimes I'm working. I'm jogging. I'll be a mile and a half in this fucking says the last thing I wanna do rose Doodoo but but you have to do it and when you crossed that Hump Your Life will be so much better and something. I've done a mind that have adopted. That has really helped me. You come to terms with working out and how it's become a necessity in my life. Is I will be partaking in fitness fitness for the rest of my life. It's one thing I need. I need food on E. Water. I need fitness and so like accept it. Accept the fact that you're going to be in the gym. Ah Two to five times a week. Enter playing yourself. If you're not and you and you might not even see it. I can say that because when I was training for Ironman there'd be days where I'd be on the bike and I would. I know like in my training schedule. It says like you gotta go hard today. And I wouldn't or I'd cut my work out a little bit short and then when it comes time for that actual moment home for you to perform and in my case that was an iron man. I'd be like you know twelve miles in on the marathon at the NBA. Shit Dude like this is where those days where I could have put that little extra in came in handy and you don't want to wait until that moment you wanna be at that moment and you want to be like hell. Yeah thank God. I put those not that time in when I didn't think it was even going to mean anything with everyday means something do with boxing. I had that moment a lot in practice and I and I've made this clear before I worked my ass off like I I always do. That's never like a thing. We need to worry about like me under working or anything but also with boxing. I think it might be easier because that that moment comes with the idea that Yo if I don't if I don't go as hard as I possibly can right now I will be knocked the fuck I become a me and so so it's with boxing. It's a little easier to to not slack because you can't you got a lot on the line but it's goes the same for every sport because you don't WanNa the had that moment of wow. I should have worked harder on Game Day. Definitely definitely well any and even with fighting though it's like there's always a layer to it. It's like mental or some preparation operation that you don't WanNa regret not doing. I just remember like I was. I was two months in the in the training camp and we were doing ladders and I was like this is fucking fucking hard. Like how easy would it be kind of just like maybe go a little slower than I should I was like I. I'M A fucking die. This is not is not worth it. I'm a push myself now so I can be comfortable fighting on fight night. I respect that I think even dominant down like the average person out there like the days that you're not putting in a sweat for example. uh-huh like you don't know those consequences in the days that you have bad days and you're like why am I lost. Why can't I figure out my passion? Why am I G? That's that's the accumulation of you not putting in those like really simple practices like you're saying like just movement it. It's one of the favorite parts about the science of Asia where you asking earlier about credentials. They have a beautiful system called some property which is the Sanskrit word which means the process of disease and they recognize six stages of how any disease comes into existence distance but the first stages accumulation. So you gathered too much of something so you think about even just thinking about your closet you know when you get too much shit in there then. The accumulation leads to the second stage. which is aggravation? You can't find stuffed and eventually the third stages loker spread sorry so now the close to spread into. Oh you know the hanging on your treadmill or they're on the floor so to this point about like accumulation if you understand that's the first stage of disease then what is accumulation humilation. It's where you're gathering too much because you're eating and you're not actually burning it off. You're holding onto unexpressed emotions. That's a form of accumulation that I promise you you know Mike Talking about depression. All this girlfriend of yours like it's there's an accumulation of stuff that hasn't been discarded so what's one of the greatest ways to get to a place of feeling better about yourself sweat because you're lending staff go donate stuff clean out your closet. These are external tips. That people can do to help feel that to inspire that sense of collaboration are feeling better about yourself and in that realm again of people who are struggling. It might seem like the lossing you WANNA do. But when you're depressed one of the best ways I used to overcome. That is to do something for somebody else like often times. I've had people who are stronger and depression Goto a volunteer centre. Go feed the homeless. Donate donate something that means something to you to somebody who could really benefit from it because what happens is in doing something you realize. Wow I make a difference and you'll value goes up your value goes up. You'RE GONNA GONNA take better care of yourself. I resonate with that big time. I remember when I was down in Bolivia and I'm like meeting. These people who their entire property has just been obliterated by a fire and then all come back to L. A. and I'll start complaining about something like something small. I'll be shut up dude. You know I think that is so important for people to partake in something greater than themselves. Perspective is huge. I try to assist making a difference because it's all about me. You Know Whoa is me. It's like I is. This is the perspective that people have. I need this. I want this. I'm supposed to and versus recognizing no I have the opportunity to make a difference. And I think that's something that you've done on and you continue to evolve into which is beautiful is to help make a difference in people's lives yeah. I think that's why I pushed that so much because I think any time. There's a chance to you know. Use this platform to do good It goes way beyond us it transcends this lifetime. It's something that you know. People are going to forget the selfish selfish things that you accomplish like. Yeah you can take that with you to the grave. But that's where it's going to stay like the things that you did for other people for the world. That's what lives on. That's what people end up carrying about hundreds of years later and that to me is where you know the stuff that I've been doing through hopefully podcast like this to like. It's just so touching when I'm getting these thousands of DMC when people live never met like I got one the other day that was so moving she actually left a voice memo in. DM Well that's right about. She said I've been fifty one years. I've been a seeker and she said I was is always asking what was wrong with me. What was wrong with my parents? What was wrong with the universe and she said listen to one year podcasts over and over and I realized there's nothing wrong for the first time in my life I feel free and it's not to say that it's ideal? It's not to say that I condone the way things are currently but there's nothing wrong life is the way it is but but only always and then what you committed to in terms of improving that but to resist it is going to be the suffering that people experience so yeah. You don't know where this is going to go but I it's it's it's so powerful in. It's it's it's gratifying to get stuff like that bag. I because I'm twenty four years old and I'm like to stash thrown driven mail. Yeah a term that I've adopted his like often. I say so myself I go fuck it. Fuck it dude. Like in many ways it's like a harsher version of everything. You said that relates to me more just like trying to understand fuck it. This is where I am. I don't know what's going to happen but fuck you. I'm sure it'll be alright right. Fuck this might occur. Put it better myself super profound. That's GonNa be the take all my all my friends. They're like you know they're hearing us say like totally totally committed fully unattached. They might know what the words committed or unattached Tom. L. What fuck fuck it and. That's that's where again just to suddenly to help people like that's the item. Warri cow can tell you you got a huge heart beautiful family extended here and and but to not worry he is what people will find freedom. Yeah and that's all right. It's brought up is to let people be free from the concerns about a future. That hasn't even happened yet Can I put a exclamation mock now. I just want to ask something because I have had this problem and I tell you. Interested this on my my last video on my youtube channel. Sometimes I don't worry and if Fox me like like specifically in the fight Mhm Round for had knocked them down. Probably should have capitalized on that. But I didn't because there was no like fire at the moment. I and morale five against there was this like nonchalance that by the way has contributed a lot to my success right. Because I don't worry but in some scenarios I don't you think a fire should light under my ass. Yeah that's a commitment but I I believe the most powerful form of fire is where I'm committed to something for a purpose purpose not because of fear that subtle difference right like say your committed something like when someone goes into the gym. 'CAUSE THEY WANNA get in shape because they're concerned that they're overweight wait they. Ju just been diagnosed by the doctor that that pre diabetic and that's a reaction to something it might give them fire. It's like Holy Shit. I'm about to die. I gotta go and get myself in shape. I'm not saying it's bad but the trouble is being driven by something that they're committed to something that ovoid and most people in a reactive state of mind versus a creative state of murderer. Sure sure so. This is why to me one of the greatest Gifts we have as human beings is imagination because you know the whole apples apples or whatever it is think different people have all of these mottos about like being creative like look at the leaders. The pioneers the thought leader that we've had in life. They were people that thought out of the ball and and it wasn't in reaction to something necessarily that they were trying to overcome but rather something they wanted to create they wanted to innovate so Warri to me still is in the bucket of reactivity eighty versus now I'm going to create something that is powerful that shifts the course of my life and the people around me that you you being committed to what you were committed to in that fight fight to me yes to some degree. It's reaction to a challenge. The Kassai put down but you also became a different human being virtue that commitment that to me is the real win. Yep that's the real like opportunity for you to see. Wow what can I commit myself to now. That means that I have to evolve that I have to become a better version of myself now. Because you're fighting something accidentally past base the your like judging the reacting but what am I committed to doing my life just for the sheer hell. Halibut that that's joyous life. Yeah I feel like that ego to from the the win like the victory. That fruit doesn't last long like we saw people forget. Get about the fight a couple of days after right there. It is so so quickly so the prize the prize the prize. In that learning lesson that you're describing his his lifetime versus something where you get to wear it around. Make a few videos like it doesn't last it's One of the PJ two golfers who had like many golfers aspire to become a major winner. Like you know you win. Loss Story Win The British Open. Or whatever it is he actually won the British Open. And you'd think that that was like the pinnacle of his success and for sure that night and they went out and they had whatever cocktails and that time as he won but then he went into a major depression. Because he'd gone to what he I thought was the pinnacle of the success that he was striving for now. If you don't have anything that keeps you growing that you keep having to go towards you are going to go straight into so that slum I had. I was called into a Dresser Major League clubhouse by baseball players twenty five guys with all this stuff and they were in a bit of a slump and I said you know the trouble is in this room. You'll made it right. So you think about little leaguers who them one aspire to be like you know play at high school and then a high school maybe they get drafted and they go into until Minor League Development Program for organization and they're an independent ball and then double and then triple N.. And they become a major league baseball player. That's it right. Yeah but then when you get there. What's next yeah and so? This group had become so resigned because they had nowhere else to grow into. They had nothing else to become. And so my invitation to you is like this fight. I think it was one of the best things that have happened. chewed not necessarily because of what it was about in terms of an outcome. But what you got to in terms of what you're capable When you commit to something that is beyond the current version of yourself that to me is what makes human beings Phil fulfilled as? How can I continue to climb? The Mountain. Actually doesn't have talk. It's not about when people say I'm going to help you really chew potential like you fucking kidding me. My potential is endless endless. Yeah that how you ever GonNa like you. You called like world so great you you say you win the fight now okay. Great Leonard. Play the violin. Do you know how to the play the Jew speak Chinese then as potential. Do both of those things. Can you play the violin in Chinese off. They want to learn mandarin so bad and I and I want to learn the violin. So toots anyways. That's something I wanNA do. Yeah I think in terms of elites the one that really resonates with what you're saying. Is Tom Brady a super bowls and then I see him post on instagram. And he he liked throws a pass fifty yards and he's like man that was two yards short. So I gotTa keep working and I'm like that's insane. The do six super bowls also and he's talking about a pass that he needs to. He needs to keep working on special duty. I mean that's like that but that's proof like if you're going to look at the best like nods. The mentality the tally of like he's not playing to win a super bowl or else he would be gone. He'd be four super bowls. Yeah commend excellence. You know and I think that is the gift and the opportunity. Not that it is to be human. It's not sit in like rest on our laurels. Or just even where we're at is adequate and you can do that. That's totally fine. But it's not going to necessarily be a fulfilling life to recognize the gift that it is to be human touch other people's lives to access what we have available to us. That is is extraordinary. And we don't know how long it's GonNa loss that to me is a life worth living. How do we mu can end on this note? Show before we go to the audio only but how do we block out the noise of social media. Because I don't think it's helping. I don't think this like group. Think of negativity is as is bettering anyone. Nah I mean there's external stimulus right like so if someone will come up to me and say usually I've been blessed with like compliments. Compliments like Oh dude this. You've made a big difference and so we wanNA listen to the good but if you can't discern between that and someone says you know what. I'm not sure that what you're saying is true. Or I think you're Fulla Polish it at a listened to both first of all is what we've gotta work on right so whether it's social media whether it's overly controlling boss or a very very negative spouse being able to learn to listen and not take things personally is the first thing to look at because otherwise you come up with a strategy. Oh I'm going to drop my instagram or I'm not gonNA pay attention you haven't actually dealt with anything because it's still there so it's you know one of the expressions I use as I. Can I be with this now. Might be aware term. It is like can I be with whatever the situation is if somebody has an opinion about me that maybe doesn't seem subjectively flattering. Can I let them have that opinion and not be upset so that to me is the opportunity unity for human being to get to a place where you're okay with what is doesn't mean you want to hang out in that situation but I'm not going to be affected about social media. It is it's it's almost like it's designed Zayn specifically for ego because if you look at the nature of what it is like I want to be liked. which is the little kid inside of us? Who doesn't feel worth doesn't feel love doesn't feel enough so hopefully if a thousand ten thousand million people like me then I'll feel better about myself which of course we'll never actually happen? This is why you you know. Actors who paid millions of dollars have millions of fans will still on end up in Rehab. 'cause they haven't reconciled that within themselves so that's social media any kind of media whatever it is if we don't find the ability to be at peace and still with whatever's going on around us it doesn't really matter the world is the Nitra that it is is which is driven by people who are going to be coming from fear and manipulation and domination so to find respite to find peace to finestone US within yourself is. That's that's it's where at. That's that's the game to win not about trying to control external stimulus. Because that's exhausting. I said that's like driving around Arizona. Uh in the middle of the summer. It's one hundred twenty degrees out and you frank the air conditioning in your car. But you're rolling down the windows because you think for me to feel comfortable after make Arizona cool the thing about that metaphor. That's what people are doing. I have to control everything around me for me to be okay. That's exhausting but you roll up the windows metaphorically of your life like you just focus on and don't try and manipulate circumstance. Don't try and get everyone to like you. I mean people are GonNa think whatever they think and hopefully it's nice and if it's not that's it's a reflection on them not you know and that to me is a much more manageable and peaceful life to live affair. were social media. It's like 'cause I deleted my my instagram and now I have a healthier relationship now every time I step away from it it's like I deleted it now I'm back using it and why what. I view social social media as is the tool. It's like a weapon honestly and if you just hand a weapon a sword to a kid. They're going to hurt people with the they're not gonNA know how to use it but you have the power like you're saying you can roll the windows. You can wield this weapon however you want you. Can you can do really good things with it. I think all social media in itself is not bad. It's just it's like an enhanced you know stimulus an enhanced reality where we see regularly How people are interacting how they're communicating? What they're saying what they're doing unlike ever before we've never had this kind of connective five point? Six Billion Google searches per day. I think it's insane. I think it's also the question. Why in what is the intention why you going onto something? What are you looking for? And just to be self aware of that. If you're looking for some form of like you said inspiration like I love following some of these mobility guys who do park or and they do crazy stop. I mean it's it's just inspiring but if you're going on there because it's a friend of yours or someone that you knew who has a bigger following than you. What you're actually doing is reinforcing? The fact that you will somehow less than that's not a powerful intention definitely not so again being aware of why you doing anything. What's the underlying agenda in all of your behaviors and that takes a minute? That takes a human being who is willing to just stop and go okay. Why am I actually doing this? What am I hoping to accomplish it and usually for the most part people are what they're trying to accomplish? They WANNA be right right about their own beliefs inadequacy that's super inspiring analogy. Roll the windows on your life. Yeah that's cool Mike. We're like that too and that's okay wrestling before. Like he said before one of the things are already put it one of the things instead of trying to chase the positive things in his life. He'll cut cut out the things that he knows her negative And he'll make his his box he'll be in his car with his air conditioning and focus on him and hit the things around him. He he knows he's in control of trying to make everything happen that he can't because that's an exhausting way to live and unfortunately how most people are designed condition program to live of. which is we're under the impression that my circumstances of the source of how I feel right like oh well I feel good because something out there happened will? Then it's logical land that I'm GonNa try and manipulate everything around me to be good so that I feel good but what if I could actually access state of being and how I feel. That's independent end of my circumstances. I think it comes back to to what you're saying to with vulnerability and you know this platform. For example. The podcast is as a space to be vulnerable space to put yourself out there and I feel like that rewards us so much more than just trying to put this persona out of like look at US cow. Perfect if it we are and I think more people are doing that but also like you're seeing it everybody's trying to be perfect still. I cannot believe it and again this podcast has made me realize that it's this. PODCAST has made me so comfortable with myself. And when anyone says anything negative or the occasional twitter person person wants to speak. I'm like you know this is me. This is all I got like either hop on board or like please like I'll ignore you and do my thing and then by the way if you I firmly believe this if you're a person who like lives with that negative energy and carries it like that is that is on you I feel feel I feel empathy for you because that is not easy living in a world where you have to criticize others so you can feel Jio better about yourself. That sucks for that. I empathize with you. It's one of the again. I love quotes is how you know at Brighton. In my upcoming book I use quotes votes and say making other person. Wrong is the poor man's version of self worth now. Think about that. The next time he goes awry comments about my hairline but think about like love I love the word vulnerability right and it gets thrown around around a lot but probably roasted like I'd love to sort of just give a different spin on vulnerability and I can. I think this is where one of you know your qualities you could say it's vulnerability but again the quote I use as long as you'll be as long as as you're okay being vulnerable you'll no longer vulnerable now if you really let that certain. Think about the person who doesn't WANNA show some weakness. They are vulnerable terrible because they could be found out but if you say hey this is me. I'm imperfect I did this and I screwed up that where's your vulnerability because you're actually being fully self expressed your transparent So for that reason. If you really can help this this hopefully will help. The audience love vulnerability to me is like a superpower. You're actually saying is in being vulnerable double. I'm sufficiently comfortable myself. which is an expression of self love that I can show my imperfections? I can show my weakness and that why to me if if you can step into vulnerability what you're saying. Is I embrace me whether you do or don't that doesn't matter because I got to speak about something that I've been hiding that I was self conscious solve that I was maybe even secure about but I've stepped into a bigger version of myself such that I can even share it with you because I'm okay with it whether you are not Mike. Mike would love that. That's like that's what he stands behind. You always says he's like I forget. What specifically he says that's the new wave like just being you being authentic being real and understanding that you is always evolving right? So you know we're we're constantly hopefully in this process of improving and evolving as human beings. So that's where I'm at right now is. Hey I'm scared of X.. Whatever it is like I I struggled maybe to go up to somebody and offer the number maybe guy struggles with that with goals? Okay but if he could speak about that that's more powerful than the guy that actually has the same feeling but pretends he's or call about juicy. See The difference. It's subtle right but it's important recognized because if you see that wow your ability to express all of your concerns your fears and again we touch with. The fight was an opportunity for the more vulnerable. which eventually made you more powerful is the opposite of where people are trying to have this pretense where like no? I'm cool with it. It's like you're not and now you're vulnerable the different right. Yep Major Major Difference Major Tone Digest outer space now as well. There's pockets I gotta I gotTa go back in. Watch it like. I washed them. Avars really download Yeah I said Jussi. Yeah Yeah I agree. I hope you guys learned something not Ads It's so fun. I love talking about this all day. We could probably talk for many more hours on topics that people struggle with. Hopefully if there's one thing people take away there's nothing wrong with them. There's nothing along with life. I'm not saying that it's perfect. I'm not condoning behavior. But if you can at least stop fighting life the way it is and be committed to what you want versus what you don't want. That would be a completely different way of behaving in my my last note to if you're watching this and you're struggling with you know like your passion or or finding what you I love. Come back to this and rewatch it and don't over think that process right like we're almost that's natural. It's completely okay. I think all of us here go through that still in some in some manner so you know the these are tools. These podcasts are tools for you to actually come back. We watch them learn something and I think it's powerful every again. Another one's a mosque the peace and yet a work in progress at the same time true to look at Logan just holding a vibrator in his hand He's raised his vibration. Consciousness is evolving right in front of. I'm not sure that is one way to raise vibration but it works. Let's dissect gave it to me. It's GonNa be fun but Yeah Peter Thanks for coming on man. Thank you for having me. It's been a joy to be with you fellas and hopefully as it said people. We'll get something from this. Of course wh-what Instagram Peter. Crone official cool. And then what's this book you have coming out I'm not sure what it's coming out. It'd be my first so but if you go to my website Peter Cone Dot Com and then you can enter your email and we'll let you know when it comes out very cool. I yeah thank you guys for listening into impulsive the number one podcast. We're GONNA audio only version right now on spotify items with Peter so stay tuned if you WanNa hear with your ears that subscribe button. We love view. We'll see you next time. Take it easy piece here we are you are people. Are People ripping off your practice in your work on instagram. It a little bit. I mean it's going to happen. Yeah and a lot of the times I feel like I can see through the people but how can you. How can one get out of the muddy water if they're being scammed by someone who says they're like health and wellness expert mind architect person? I mean there's nothing I can do really to police that like that would have been one of my old fears right as a human being. It's like oh I know I've got all of this incredible content and these beautiful beautiful distinctions and insights as soon as I share them like today. I don't know I probably put out five six quotes from my book but who knows which cats going to put that in their own little pretty picture and put it on their instagram. Like it's their own for sure. Like what am I going to do about that. I'm you know for me. My greatest quality is trust. I tell I tell people. I'm a trust fund baby as you know my parents passed and we didn't have money right so I wasn't left a penny but I trust in the universe. So so I'm just going through good-faith call it naievety or not trusted hosted. The life will do the right thing and the people who they are really inspired by someone they will give the proper attribution. They will use my name as a quote if that's something they're inspired by and if they don't to your point earlier that's on them. They're the ones that are struggling. I've had I've had several people that were mentor. Figures that I found out were not living the way they were. They were preaching and I think that's a big thing too is if you're studying from someone like if you're trying to learn how to make money from a person who doesn't know how to make money or who doesn't doesn't have money who's broke broke then. Stop listening to them. You gotta go to people that have what you want facts. Yeah today to completely Ask a different question. That is off the cuff. Yeah what do you think happens when humans die. It's a great question and we get into the Esoteric Rex. I mean it depends you either get cremated or buried. Usually if you're dying by yourself you're just left and eaten by I. I don't know we get like two to the most powerful three words that I discovered myself I don't know and so I could get like you know wax poetic about him. Go we go into this other dimension. I'm much more interested in what happens here again. I say people talk about Heaven and I'm listen. Why don't you create heaven now as opposed to this idealized future that you'll striving for I'm like again a quote I say as long as you think Cavan is something you're going to in your future Lonzo? You're living in hell now. I love and one more time as long as you. One of these guys ripping off someone like ridiculous. Yeah so as long as you think that having a place you go to when you die. Chances Are you're living in Hell Bom Peter Crone. Cro Oh any awesome. Yeah so again. It speaks to the idea that you think your life is in the future which means that you're suffering now and so for me see that's why again that question is profound. It's fun to talk about over like smalls at a five place but really. I'm much more interested in waking people up to the opportunity that it is to be human human now and have a frigging extraordinary life versus thinking. It's going to happen sometime in the future yet. Take your power back like billions of people that are just given their power up to so so many outside factors Sunday win one day win. And that's how people live their lives so I'm not sure that doesn't really answer your question but it gives you impalpable. Let's live now because we're heading out. I got a much different question Why are there so many asses on instagram? Nowadays talking figuratively or literally like gluteus Maximus by both butts. Like why why. Why are women even showing so much? Well expensive tell us. What did we learn from the previous podcast number one sales dude most most human beings looking for that's true? Yeah so what. What would those young ladies? God bless them and they're tiny g-strings strings be looking for what are they actually looking for invalid again. It's exactly it's literally in the the the actual platform a former like me right so to me. Obviously I've seen plenty of that out there and I'm like what are you. What are you actually doing here? Like what what like this picture picture of you got a beautiful filter and urine some infinity pool in Greece. You know it's like white walls and making us and then it's it's like a subtly see-through like like wh what's the intention of that post right tell you I have a theory too. I WanNa hear my okay. So these girls they have to choose between becoming a Barista or showing your butt on social media and making pretty awesome life life for yourself and for that like I. Can't I mean you you're playing. You're playing the game just like all of us you're playing the game everybody's trying to survive like it's different for means to doing that and you know what I would love. You know again as somebody who's committed to people's freedom until they're real joy and peace of mind is by all means go ahead and show what what a beautiful physique you have and the culture of your gluteus amazing against the Sandra background. Whatever it is this is just gorgeous and I hope I? I hope you have a sense of self worth. That is not dependent on those ten thousand likes. Then it's like then then it's a win win some do some. Don't yeah Jordan. Don't ask to real life ratio on their profile. If there's too much ass and less real life you got a problem. Yeah I I I love the I love the women who mainly post but the real life. That's physique pick I I'll I'll respect that. Here's my theory. So we talk about the apocalypse all the time right and we have instagram's removing likes. Well I think is going to happen. The ASS Pakalitha. I think when you take away all the likes. The True Apocalypse is going to happen from the people who are making their living off of people liking there but bacchus. Let's let's. Let's sing that integrate. Both off offs of the species here. There's also guys who every shot that's like you know men's health magazine. Every shot is like a do dabs right. This is not just limited women. This is humans humans who Basically saying like me love me which is like that little kid who wants to feel held. Who wants to feel like a sense of belonging? It's okay none of it's wrong but they said it's it's going to probably lead to a great sense of disappointment in even extremes depression right where. Somebody's like I'm getting a million likes but somehow I still don't feel content in my skin. The men it'll be called the ABA apocalypse. How the Sausage Hammock a pack of popular sauce. Thanks again Peter we gotta go on a gang run. It's like a gang but we're just going to be running down the street and movement sweating. Thanks again again man dude pleasure to be here with you guys again hopefully Next time you fight dude like me and you're absolutely agree I say. Hey Dude you know you could lose and you've got this guy by the way I will see our heart. You see my job. Hey you know something like Andrea show me around the the property and we went in the gym and there's something actually wanted to share which you may or may not get something from I love all the quotes you'd have up on the wall but the one distinction at asked you to consider did a changing as every one of them starts I. Will I know you insane Niamh because because you're collapsing time versus something dammit. Monkeys yeah overall allred shuttled right because that can also breed complacency. Because if you say I am that already like I am the greatest or I am a champion. Then it could be like. Oh well there's nothing to do but it's really like embodying that and then behaving like it versus thinking you're not that and I'm becoming that that's always putting it out in the future I. It was like that because when when I was in high school my my mom told me about the idea of manifestation and she iterative that it was like I will and that the list of quotes quotes was from a paper. I wrote on when I was fifteen. Yeah about all the things that I would do. But I I realize like I've done a lot of the things that I said I that was going to do so. Yeah I think living the idea of like that that champion like I'm already here. Yup and now I need to act like with everything I do in my life I yeah and it subtle saddle and I love that you did it and I wish more people had that sort of you know either a mother to inspire that to get them to have something they're committed to that comes a time where you want to embody it one one of my clients. She's a show jumper and when we started working together she was like twenty fifth or something in the US and Then within a year she climbed so high that she he made the US team for what's called the water equestrian games. I'm sure all of your listeners. Follow it. There's only four that get picked so suffice to say when she was twenty fifth. There's no way she was going to make the team. She made the team that the US went onto win gold out of forty eight nations. It was sick out out of thirty for thirty two years right so it was a big deal anyway. This is a prelude prelude hopefully to her making the Olympics in Tokyo. Two Thousand Twenty so big deal and I got in her face which has been my style sometimes telling her that the reason she hadn't been having results subsequent as she's just being sloppy. I said you're telling we you want to go to the Olympics. But you're not tore acting like an Olympic athlete. So that was the I am for her now. She started in body. She won three weekends in a row off after that conversation because she was choosing the way she went to sleep the fact she meditated the food she ate be like an Olympian. And for me I I was inspired by my own conversation. JHNR is it like considerate Olympic. Living what does that look like. So you're embodying it now versus. I'm hoping to get to some sort of outcome in the future. No no I'm I'm being that person. Now Yeah love that of that cool Olympic living everyone. Let's go let's do it. Thank you actually listened to this episode of impulsive. I hope you learned something. Go over your notes if you wrote them down. We'll see you next time.

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MARIJUANA MADE HIM A MILLIONAIRE - IMPAULSIVE EP. 142

Impaulsive with Logan Paul

1:19:28 hr | 1 year ago

MARIJUANA MADE HIM A MILLIONAIRE - IMPAULSIVE EP. 142

"I think about hundreds of millions of dollars cash. No the air. Welcome welcome welcome. The air. Welcome won't air welcome. We'll come wail come. I boys who's got some good house gossip. I have something good. What are we go? Well we rolling. This is perfect. I did a bad thing. Boys would you do shake my hand or even shake my hand. Not say they're here. Here's here's what happened Bro. There's no I was going to put it bluntly because there's no way to work around the reality of the situation and that is I made a tick tock in exchange for a blowjob. Wow Wow not even. I could argue this. I'm not mad and normally I'm outta be about him making a tick tock but in the name of love in the name of Bj A welcome back to the number one podcast in the world. Thank you guys. Listening watching viewing and subscribing stream is there what about them doing their streaming German. They're streaming we've got nominated for the number one podcast in the world so the prove to the world but I told my camp today I sat down. Spencer's like Yo Dylan our producer. He's like what are the chances we actually win. Dylan's pretty pretty. Hawkin high honest with you. I and I stopped them and I say guys. If you're a part of this team team you know damn well all we do is lose so be ready to take another factor yourself. Speak for yourself. Seeing the nightshift shift legally. Can I dive into this story happen. So there's this girl and she she she's basically said like I'm the I'm GonNa Tick Tock prostitute in many ways. Yeah it was simple dude like we. We've been talking about tick tock on here and how it's pretty much the future of my life and the world and took lead or we'll have the emerging great leaders of the world on it right and short-term county is my thing so I haven't been really dabbling in this girl pushed me. She's like Oh like if you if you make a tick tock granola I'll suck dake. WOW THAT'S A. That's AH I can't tell if that's a good friend or I'll tell you why I posted it and I got two hundred thousand dollars overnight while overnight all crazy crazy amazing what a Bj can can do numbers. Inflated by the way I I was talking to somebody about it before I'll watch a video posted two minutes ago. Eight hundred ninety million views news. I like a free person in the world is just waiting for the next. Tick Tock video to drop. Yeah so I looked this up. Every time video renders an angel wings. Ask of you is counted. So you can if you're just scrolling through your feet and the video appears I'm pretty sure that's view that's what we call avenue for it. You can get this gum into that basket as opposed to sticking under the desk. I think you just keep on the current pace of what you've been doing. Yeah I would probably just stick it under the desk. Yeah but yeah this. This is make me a bad person. I really am grateful for that friendship. She pushed me to do great things I wouldn't do and by the way I think if you always see me. Today I've been running around may continued talks. A Tick Tock God at this point that three. BJ's or is that just bar. I I think we're just a one for one thing. Okay yeah man to super blessed to be here too. I mean it was offer like if it was your offer that might be a little sauce like pick dodge so instead the fact that she offered it to you like I'm I'm here for the one thing I'm not here for though is what is your take talks. They're great. Don't get me wrong but to hear you making them and then you just obvious thing now where I want to like. Start to call you out on things they do that. Irk Me Bro. Okay one of them is when you sing this on. That goes pop and it's literally dying Bohemian. rhapsody of of went up pop song. The other thing is when you go. I just want Bro. I do. Oh really that annoys as you know is the shit out of me. I appreciate you saying this but I know but I also really. Because you're my homey no no no no fuck happy bill to make weird mouth. Sounds brother fucking Bro. It doesn't make me happy. You know I just do it. It's like It's like a little quirk. I don't fucking know. It definitely is a quirk. It definitely earliest. But I'll be at the at the computer like editing at like nine in the morning. Come downstairs like where do you find this like right. When he wakes up? He's already gone at it. Dude doc I respect I respect. It's more of like I kind of want to do it. But I'm on the spot just to give them context of what you're talking about like I'll be like oh Inspired by real life events more on. You know what I'm saying you guys. We got a sponsor. Oh that's super cool. It shaved Jay. Black is back. 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I wanted to talk about shed this episode in general. We're going to be a pretty out there episode for lack of better verbiage very blunt episodes a second time. You use it by the way kudos brother other Kudos girl texted me today. She's facing me. I is a bit too early for me so I didn't answer classic then. I got the text. Hey give me a call back when you get a SEC. Now that's a little worrisome. Your Dude who knows anything about anything. This tax means one of two things one she got some sort of STD. And she's calling you to find out if you gave it to her too. She's pray baby she's pregnant fucked okay so the morning morning. Did I WANNA start off my day like this. But this is how it's going to be facetime back and it was not what I expected. She prefaced she goes heads. Won't let you know this is GonNa. It'd be a bit petty petty but continue. She's like hey muted on instagram. Because remember are we talked about that on the one podcast. And by the way I've been mutant hello folk. Yeah Halifa just clearing out the noise and I was like no like we're friends. I don't have have you muted. Why do you ask well? I just noticed you've been like in. You know a bunch of other girls pictures like not mine ever and and in my mind I was like. Wow that is really fucking patty. She did say that but also this is a this is a bit too early for me to pretty much nuclear if any mental energy. Yeah you know what I'm saying I would have said Contents wackily like step your game up or did you explain it on the Algorithm. I said I'm not had this thing. Where if my friends do a sponsored post I don't I don't like it off like the post? Even if I enjoy the picture or the image of the video that she goes. That's it's not true you just like for the sake of keeping a name out of she goes you just like Jay Black Votto and I was like and that was sponsored and I was like Oh there goes that logic. I'm going to be honest. I don't know what you want me to tell you. Start Luckier photos. This is a weird phone. Call me. Glad you don't have an SDS. I don't have it. That's the way the engine mother. When was last time you talked to her? How much time had elapsed like or met with her Ben with physically? It's been too long to be having that that kind of into this to me broke because I talk and talk. The girls be putting way too much energy into all this little petty stuff on Instagram. And I saw the world. We live in the game. Spender did you see that tweet. That was like a it was some girl like she. She tax her friends before. She says something she says. Are you in a position right. Now that you're comfortable hearing some news that could potentially hurt you. That's what she takes her friends before she imagined tax. You got this morning horrible. What's here that should just tell me? Dude Yeah just let it let it rip bomb ready saying there's no reason you can't you can't text it you know. Just the phone calls made me nervous. Same I'm not like even even if I had a girlfriend and when I had a girlfriend. She's like yeah. We need talk on the phone. My Yeah Angel doesn't do that. Never have any of that. She saves it for in person. We're just blind. You know what I'm saying man. Lot Lot of a lot of puns. Going on in this joint today speaking of ponds if you like sexual of Blue Dot Com bluejays performance enhancement for the bedroom. Because we'd all like to go a little longer and go some extra rounds at Baluchi Dot Com and get your first chewables with the active ingredients. We go oh so same active ingredients in Viagra and CIALIS. It only takes a few minutes. Could connect with the Blue Dot com affiliated physician if you qualify qualify you get prescribed online quickly. No in person doctor visit no awkward conversation no waiting in line pharmacy and ships directly to your door in a discreet package. which actually we have here? We finally got some affects that give you confidence in bed. 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The blankets pulled tight. Choke to the fucking bad blue chewed out intercontinental ballistic. Poke in through the fucking blanket Bro. And it was a no go. I woke up this morning dude like Dan. At least they woke up and they're like yeah we want to leave. I was like thank God. Let's bring on our gas. This is the CEO of advanced nutrients. The world's number one supplier of the best nutrients to the cannabis industry. He's basically the we'd kingpin and he's joined by an expert business fixer and Co host of the business outlaws podcasts. which is aimed to teach millennials the unfiltered truth about the mindset and tools needed to become a millionaire? Please welcome Chris Collins Balance and big. Mike excited you guys were listening. Oh my God we got. We got two big. Mike's on set right right Big Mike how you doing. I'm doing great. That'd be great. Also welcome voice I do have. I have to preface this and let you know there is another big Mike on. I don't know if anyone told you this. Hey Big Mike. He's hey big bikes near the real big Mike. Well let's just say okay so oh I got the nickname when I was growing in the dark ages like I like to call it when I was twenty five years old which was nine hundred eighty five. Let's call it was born then. Yeah I'm the original ageism. After by the way you deserve it more than four giant. He's actually he's actually big. How tall tall you? Six hundred could God's goodness two hundred forty thirteen percent body fat mazing good for you. Nobody walking to work hard. Got It Chris. What's good man? The beard is Exceptional one of the best in the house and we have a beard. Slinging pilgrim over there to phenomenal. Beer is a great big. It's taken a couple of years ago. How long it? It took over a year for really to come in. Because they start off a little blotchy when you commit the Atkins relate relate bought in the beginning where it gets dandruff and you want to. That's where most people quit is like three months in but you can't quit not now now it's kind of my look the stashes. She's my favorite thing. Do you even have a mouth to be. I'm going to be probably never thought about playing a Kris kringle at the local local shopping mall. You crush Bro. You got the perfect Budva Mike Man. I'm just GonNa ask you a pretty general question to start off with what has made you titan in the industry like what do you provide. I'm the guy who does the fertilizer and so it doesn't matter for talking black doc market or we're talking the legal market. They're still a quantity of fertilizer. Quantity of cannabis has grown. And I'm the guy they all need for Liser so position and I've been doing for twenty years. What why did you know for thirty six? Okay okay so why did you. You've been growing marijuana for thirty six years. And then you started making fertilizer because you saw. 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Mike may lack and said do you whatever Promo Code. That's that's fucked up of you but I mean you guys choose which one you want to use. I think mine's policy. That wouldn't get paid. No yes he do it all cloning powder nitrogen rates you know like every aspect of the business I've been I've been a seed breeder I've been a commitment manufacturer distributor owned This hydroponic stores and then I make fertilizer as well. Are you high at this moment. Is We're going to get high. Okay now on my creative kingdom then we okay. Hey Mood for. I don't sell Dell's strength. I sell outcomes. So what kind of mood are you in your tippety. You tell them Mike. Tell them about the perfect day what he's created. Here's the perfect day. It's all about the perfect day. Seven comes so in the morning you start morning motivator mostly sativa by the way four to six trains going to every single one of these and very specific this of a cannabinoid interpreted profiles and so when he put four to six together. You get this. Massive cannabinoid interpreted profile that allows us to get these outcomes so we start with morning motivator better than a cup of coffee so that city this kingdom which another sativa but very light so so. You're a graphic artist or someone like this copywriter. This was what would you want to use and then at the end of the day instead of having a beer melanie and then to get the sleep. We got dank dreams and then we have central sensations. Now is as for the guys to give to the girls. Because it arouses the women amazing. Okay I needed some of that. Big Mike sounds like what would have helped out quite a bit. And then if you had a really good night you'd go to pain Tamer. Which you take away your paying Brandon Dude? I love the idea of stage driven process. I love the look the feel the colors. So you've been growing weed for for a long time. Yeah way when it was legal the Dark Ages. Yeah okay okay. And and and for the black market. Where how old were you when you start at twenty three fifty nine now? Did it scare you that you can get in massive amounts of trouble all hell. Yeah I used to have nightmares two to three times a week. I'd have nightmares about the cops chasing me now. Radically sometimes catching handcuffed. But it's still always get away and then and then and then it became so commonplace. There were no longer nightmares. I disagree supplements Greens. What was your biggest arnold like what we op sizes back then and what was the biggest op you've ever during when it was the the Dark Ages? Ah Five hundred lighter a couple of three hundred go nice so when the guys started here and they you know grow the make these big grows. These guys were one hundred lights. You don't WanNa do that. Let let me explain to you how you want to break this down so they figured it out so like five hundred thousand watt lights or something like that. How would that be by generator? We typically at that time was willing in nine per per light so that fifty four four hundred forty five hundred generators and everything how did you. How did you not get busted I have good connor surveillance. I I like real good counter civiles. I'm reading here. It said you lived under multiple identities yourself. Yeah insure your continued success so you changed your identity multiple times. Oh Yeah at least a dozen times big Mike and Mike Medium Mike wearing take a pulse and and then but then I made a big move up the cannon I use the name. Tom Newman and in fact. If you watch weeds I was the technical advisor on that show and one of the shows the creation they said is moving to and they said Canada and they okay. Here's your name. Your t newman. And they handed to him. It was just pretty cool tribute. I also heard you're technical adviser for the movie Pineapple Express. What now what is it? What does that mean technical advice? They we WANNA make sure that looks right the the lights look right and that kind of stuff but those plans were plastic. Yeah how to teach them how to turn. We actually took these plastic plants. And I had to mary-louise Parker had a short how to trim plastic. We you hang out with that James Franco and the actors in the movie and I never got to meet those guys not even meeting. Whoa that's weird especially the technical advisor was movie like that? There's a there's always those guys those niche movies like. Like if you have like a cocaine movie like they'll bring in some like cir. FBI got it worked on counter teams and Shit. They just WanNa make sure everything looks and feels right. That's right so they brought me in for one day and AH after they set it up. Everything's right how you do this. This this and this and product placement. In of course straight that talking about further GR- for or that grow underground grow. It was lower. The plants called any Hawaiian Express Pineapple. Express it when they went back there at the end when they were about to get when they're about to get killed and they're both blocked downstairs and the guy got caught up. He was hanging into the land so on Nice. That's one. Oh my favorite over plastic zone silken plastic as combination interesting because it was a the dark age that couldn't legally use real plants. Yeah so they don't want the liability. Yeah so somewhere somewhere along the line then you ended up living a pretty crazy lifestyle. Yeah I guess they are running. What would you say the running really? Yeah and then you said fucking I'm GONNA throw the most amazing party that possibly can. Well no I realized that California is my largest amount of business that I do globally actually and so I realized realized that the epicenter of of cannabis and media is right here and So I moved here five almost wants to be. I'm selling the shovels in Goldrush. Yeah selling the nutrients but he's on the UK side of liability got. You heard I heard party got shut down by SWAT did. We'll have by the way sound real party lists what comes and yeah absolutely oh shut it down forty five minutes early those of us up the bad and by the way no one even complain about that said those great party. You do any work with Dan. I hold on a second bills. Aaron no no not at all not supplying Lyon nutrients for. Noah's never met him before. Oh sure here have been any. His party's no you should come on. They might get shut down by slog. Why do I swat? Why are the cops like white? What what your party makes trying to rush and let's go find out exactly? Why are you said a while ago? You were suing L. A.. Is that still in. I looked at all that and we decided not to. Okay Yeah Yeah Yeah. That's it's not the way the way the handle respect now and you've been bankrupt twice yes yeah in my twenties early twenties West ones personally went some business. How you come back from that you just keep going you know? They say successes per progressive realization of a worthy goal. And that's what is that that includes failure. Failure is part of moving ahead and being successful or fail a bunch of stuff. Not Everything goes the way you want it to as well. You're aware yet fax Earl Nightingale Jam back in the day for those of you. Oh Yeah I had my rolling library. Whipped cassettes in the holy l.. Absolutely early great secret amazing. And then what's the what's the relationship relationship here. You guys have a podcast about. Yeah we met. I don't know. Is it like twelve years ago. Yeah we met in a mastermind wearne masterminds and we. We became friends and would hang out a lot and one I don't know was it three years ago we're we weren't a couple of masterminds who you pay a lot of money to be in them. There's one we paid like one hundred grand each to be came back from a meeting and we're like tell us the truth in this like we know that there's more going on and what they're telling us we one of the real conversation we don't WanNa talk about the fluff And we're kind of just being sold out at the needle. Yeah at some point when when when can we talk about the real stuff and so we're like let's just do a show we don't care if we monetize it. We're GONNA try as much as we can tell the younger generation like what what if we could go back and tell ourselves when we are twenty four. How would you approach business in life and so that's kind of the theme behind? It is being as honest as we can. And telling people the truth not the idealized version of business and how things work in its transcends business because it's mindset. It's your personal life your relationships all you know impact are you the best business fixture in the game. Yes absolutely. Did you fix your business. Helio like like three times stay. He's helped me. Oh yeah he's he's a genius. So what are some key strategies for a successful business. I mean that's that's me. But I mean we avenue on my My experience has been fixing car dealerships for commission. So I think the reason. Why have the toolbox? I have is because I didn't get paid if I didn't and fix them. which is most consultants come in and they throw out ideas but they're not vested in the outcome and so I didn't get paid if I didn't if I didn't get a result so I haven't unique neak toolbox of moving really fast changing culture systems and I think culture systems are probably the first ones on the bus and then people? I think people think that it's people I but if you put good people and bad systems you fail. It's all about the system and then putting people in your Mike. You're talking about something that had to do with that earlier earlier and your growth and I think you said it would say you're taking things slow. was that what was your cannabis space. I- everyone's just burning through cash Ashley. No one's making There's no profitability. They're just black hole and so I realized that early on and so I'm just letting the market churn the way described as ah sit on top of a cliff. You look down in a valley and everyone's at war with each other and two or three guys are left at the end of that war hammer are you. Are you self self-funded. Yes and it will probably company to as well because all that money that those other people are burning is other people's money to which makes your eye burning my own cash and so I'm real you know. Cognizant of every every penny spent every student Tinky with Bulgarian any which is about half the value of an American penny. Do you think Mike people are getting shy now. Because is the big money guys coming in have been burned. Are they backing offers. You money back off right now. And they're reassessing. The situation and people are going to continue to burn through cash in this industry and a lot of people are going to be going out of business Yeah I like that strategy. I think there's a lot of people that come on the scene. And they they try to have this explosive growth in to your point. They don't have the systems to back it up or they haven't created the right culture and even if they have the even if they have this insane amount of money even if they have a great product they don't we'll have the ability to pull off. What smaller in small businesses are doing? Because they don't have the systems in the and the and the people at the culture thinking about his amazing one thing that right that. I've kind of noticed and I was. I want to ask Mike this Alaskan here lake the thing with dispensaries in the way the laws are set up. Is these guys that come in with millions of dollars to invest in in in dispensaries. It's not set up to have that kind of return because it's really more setup to pay taxes right you don't have the margins so every time we go into dispensary Serie half their prices is tax actually more than that is is taxes so it's not a huge return on your investment because because it keeps the the black market alive and what's and what does it cost right now to get like doesn't it costs them insane amount just to get a dispensary license. What is it the life for it and you can get it for what he is but once you have that that's very valuable? These license are going to be somewhere between four to eight million. Now there's about four to five million. There's the license crazy easy. And that's and that's here. Now imagine when you go to a state. That doesn't have the saturation that we have here in Florida. And there's so few licenses. Their Medicare Medicare worth like forty million for a license crazy. So look at the amount of money if the sink in just they just play that game just to get you to the plate and then you gotta and then from there like who knows what's GonNa fuck. Yeah but it's not set up for you to make a huge return can set up to pay taxes off in. So the the thing is is like when prohibition would you know what ended and did you win by a liquor store you start a brand of whiskey right. Am I explaining that right now until everybody starting liquor stores for huge amounts of money and what you I really want is your own shoe. WanNa Start Gray Gouzer. Yeah Yeah you better be in for the long haul. This is a long play game. You're not gonNA make a bunch of money here like real quick and all these. These public companies evaluations went up on all the financial shows in New York. And I said listen. It's hyper the hyper valuations. And and they're gonNA sink and sure enough that's happening right now it's Some of the deflation is going on. It's it's pretty heavy because they want their money out in three to five years in the three years ears is common. We're on five and there's no way they're getting their money on it's gone. I watched a lot of those guys reggae. Plus I peel under the jobs act. They did that. Regulation plus offering a lot of the guys have done these non-conventional IPO's because they can even do traditional. IPO's can you. Can you do a traditional IPO on the weeds on. Ah That's what a lot of the guys are doing the federal rice. Then they're doing this doing. CBD On this side Invest Down here. I think the Canadian investment are those are those your genetics or your strains or or is it. All these I go to we we use growers up Humboldt and depending on we look at all the strains and based on this strange we selected out the strings that we wanna use in the room. It's a labor of love is is what that is. He spent a lot of time. Doing I used to laugh at growers. These these these are experienced growers that are growing these strange. You think third or second. The Third Generation Families Growers I. I'm curious to hear from you. What the kind of the state of the Union is of the cannabis industry industry? If you could sum it up you know federally Statewide a person. That's not really you can't. It's massive flux right now. And that's that's it's another thing you don't know which way these laws are going to go get all these people out there. CBD Crazy and all this and you see the government right now FDA trying to figure out how to regulate it. They're trying to regulate later for regulated for Pharma. Here's what I predict that the states where there's medical marijuana those states where it's just medical marijuana loan you're GonNa lose your ass because everyone was medical claims that you WanNa make you have to go to the FDA you're gonNA have to spend fifty to one hundred million billion dollars states at our recreationally as the adult use. Now those estates were you'll be able to make money and I would invest in those right now and hold off on just medical state's got it now. Is it too late. Hop on the The cannabis train. It's never too late. There's all kinds of niches. What sector do you WANNA get in? Everyone's for implant. You WanNa make an APP. Do you want to do this. Just a new type of extraction equipment. A new gizmo of some sort that They just have one now that he's rubber fingers. They take all the buds off the hamburger very quickly right and so. There's all the technological advances in equipment that moving forward shit. I can't even predict what what's going to come. I know some of this stuff. They got spectral analysis. Now in in grows they'll tell you any kind of deficiency any kind of Disease at the plan has just crazy looking at it. Yeah it's like the beginning of like the industrial era testified. Yeah you know what I'm saying. Yeah from tactical standpoint. It's wild I'm fascinated How many things is this? This plant can be used for life thousand. This fifty thousand uses. I prefer brand and they won't talk about it but he makes panels out of Hampton plastic for BMW Mercedes Boo Godley Load us and we won't talk about it but it's an as he's been doing for years. Is Hemp still federally illegal or trying to go here yeah. How long has that been legal for just over since trump did it What what six months ago? Wow months ago so hemp was illegal. How long was happy legal for in the? US One thousand thirty seven. It became illegal because of Well cotton okay. Yeah you guys know that. The first two drafts of the constitution were written on Hemp Peyser. Rayleigh Yeah and George Washington and then it was outlawed in states like Virginia. It was against the law. If you didn't grow up you got fine as a farmer. Oh my yeah up until the eighteen. Hundreds like ninety or eighty to ninety percent of all paper was hemp paper and farmers and pharmacies had medicine with cannabis in it could go and buy so what Hap- what happened it happened. It happened and big business. Came in Dupont. Generals had had the cotton history wrapped up and they didn't have a product to break down the hamper. The the technology all the infrastructure was in there for cotton and so they pass laws. Wh What do you feel what do you think of. What do you what do you? What are your thoughts on CBS? I think you mentioned before that you were headed there were about coming on the CD. Sure do so. Obviously you're a believer. I think there needs to be a THC component to activate. I think it's better for pain. Relief Yeah I like two parts one part. CBD to the that works really really well for for me. I don't I don't tolerate. The incredibly well to be honest with you. I've been I've been waiting. What in what form because it matters if you smoke it or eat it because you're talking different ends? I advocate especially edible so some people have a genetic. They're missing a certain gene. Yeah it's E. P. G. and have the the number of the top of my head and and if you don't have that you're not gonNa feel good when you have an edible in fact you can get violently ill and so- genetics will come into play as well but smoking working. Then you don't Wanna eat it you want and smoke and smoke take edibles. I kinda ended up on the moon. I was GONNA ask you. Why is it that when I smoke I can like Linux nine percent of the time handled my shit but when I eat edible I'll be high for three days in a row makes one able to move because when you eat it you're converting it to a different form form of thc it's called eleven hydroxy Delta Nine thc of course and so that is ten classic and that's ten times more potent the normal thc? And so you're getting really high and way to look at it as it's almost like an analog of of THC but it's not it's naturally occurring it it has to go through your liver and no one told no fucking in school. Tell me about her. Tell the nine ten times on my g I explained all that big Mike and Mike here. I'm scrolling happiest strongest natural fiber in the world fifty thousand benefits. So what. We're more of an educational thing amazing. Remove that is this why you have two point. Six million followers suburb two point seven. I think I've had. They didn't pull in all the counts. Man You screw to one hundred hundred now the edibles. I think a lot of people the first way they find out that the edibles are ten times stronger as they take a little family vacation down there to Amsterdam remember when they used Davos problems with the space cakes and the people will come over. They'd be like oh I could eat a fungus sonum because Silla Sivan's legal in Amsterdam Eh decriminalized here in Denver now. I know your thoughts on marijuana border thoughts inside. Listen I get hit up with that all the time and I'M NOT A. I'm not a suicide by an expert canvas expert. Are you still assignment cosmonaut explorer. I have a couple of times. Yeah I've taken a twice but very micro doses where he thought I want to do an Alaska not to send. That's all we call full sail. I've not but there's some in the nicely I got one. That's not filming right now. Because he's probably doing Iowa Oscar. That'd be quite honest. You know I had some guys. He's a big Mike. I WanNa take you to Peru. We're going to go in the jungle every three days. We're GONNA go through the ceremony. He goes now listen the first day you know you're going to throw up and stuff and it won't be that that pleasant but by the second or third day he goes you'll be throwing up and you'll be rolling into dirt and you're not GonNa care and you're and you're gonNA. That's where the magic happens and going. Jesus I don't go only enroll around dirty and the throwing up pay gotTa Talk. Supposedly a massive side. Effect of the Iowa is just a com- you purge after you take it but if you don't eat meat for a couple of weeks in salt doesn't it make you eat a really strict diet and there's alleviates and there's even one level higher than that. I've always been the MTA the Peyote and the have you seen. The I watched a a vice special on this on this frog venom listening on in Mexico so we actually might Tyson was telling ceremony and he is there for it. But I had to take some tests and so I wasn't able to do this. IOS thing but I'll ask US female energy and the toad is the masculine energy. Any say you you should only do the toad frog whatever. It is one time maybe can get away with two times. A one time is all you need to do it to Manley. I don't know I was wondering I was watching the social vice. The Dude I e. You're supposed to smoke. They create like a smokable compound absolutely. I watched them doing it with the natives down there in. It might've been in Chihuahua Mexico or something like that on the speech and he said he was fucking and beamed into some wormhole for like I. It's it's I believe it's a short experience right. The MTA is a short experience. Let go if you hold on you. Stay there for a long longtime 'cause you're kind of basically dying that's how people isn't the chemical that is supposedly released by born and once when you die and then if you do this ceremony or whatever this ritual you can get it again midlife and then what everybody says is we're all one. That's on time we talked. I wouldn't wouldn't horse. I have for three hours. He talked to were you talking because I was communicating. But that's not a living object. I thought all living things are connected connected ono everything. It's all connected. I think that's The every one had this about the same story I think that's what's amazing about plants you versus. Opiates and we're in this time in which opiates are legal. You can go get the opiates are plans to sadly right. But I mean they're manufactured and I think when you look at the power plant at what they can do they can bring taking tap you into these states of consciousness and yet where shunning them as a as a public win for so many years history people are doing it oh yeah of course of course Before Bunch of laws came what there's a UFO eat. The plants. Kids that that came from outside sign. Greg Shamans Shamans uh-huh I need some advice big Mike. I'll let you take those puffs thereby advice if you're if you have a super bad high because I had had one once. Yeah there's there's a product called called antidotes out there and it's made to take you down so what you WanNa do is pepper corns Sugar you're a real sugar and caffeine relief. That's just a just add ons. NC BDB competes with the receptor sites. What do you do with the pepper? Corns used to eat them up high and this combats just THC rising because it has a Turpentine Nicole immersing and mercy and will Will will help. You're saying there's a there's a flawed product. That's that's all together. Particle article antidotes in front of makes that product is a great product. You take that. And because he's got he's got a really great delivery system in it and so then ten minutes you're pretty well straight. Yeah I had I had. I had passed out once Because I was in Denver. Smoking that good Colorado's hood and I I head butted the floor. My friend Mike to Catch me going to have headbutted the guy. I was just confused because I thought I thought we were supposed to relax you and call me down. And meanwhile Golic I like kind of paranoid and dislike on the dipped on life there is is it because the receptors in your brain. 'cause I've saw constant you have. CB One receptors and CB a two receptors CB one receptors of mainly in the brain and two receptors are mainly in the body okay and so when protects neural network and one busey moons immune system so some strains are design better genetically for certain people like okay so you think he just got into some that I mean I mean we. I was with them there. There was a lot of other factors involved we had had a long. It was like a long trip. There was like a lot of other things going on lack of drinking water ladder flatter. We're out you're you're not gonNA flatter convention. Mike boys ratify. What did you figure? Let me let me tell you guys. We infiltrated their community So you went to flip them or hell. No we won't leave. We went deep cover on. He went under the guise that he was on the fence. I went under the guys that I had seen my best friend. Once fall off the ladder and so that is what had turned me into a believer in so they gave us media passes they let them go on stage mic drop. said he'd come out the flat earth closet Crazy Logan is that he he was he was on the. He's on the fringe all right like he was stressed out from the day he smoked a little bit and he almost converted. There's a lot of pressure to smoke ten thousand pounds of weed in a ten minute period. Have a lethal dose nextway Eh. But it's like a like thank God my friend was there because if he wasn't I literally passed now for God knows how long the function ago. This was this for Mac. Lemon Heights Hayes. But he gave it to you in a crack. Pipe Eh if what's GonNa hitter that's perfectly a little crack on third day is Thursday. No it's just a little one. It's a one it's a wonder you know. He's one of my favorite strange judge. This is this is what you grew. Yeah Yeah but you know the Mendoza better. I'm a given some of the two after. Try Try that I play out some of this mendel breath around I wanNA talk more about the psychedelics dude. That was A. That's a fun top chicken out we've talked about. We've talked a big game but we check out every time. We actually had a shaman in his house. A bunch of people. And we're GONNA chickened out. Well I undertook talked to Mike. Stick in there. That's sick first off. What's the what? What are you going to give us out of a scale of one to ten on that? This was a cured correctly. It's nice to hear that's the hardest part of the process. It was in canning Josh for four weeks. I took the caring very very seriously the Mendel people like though they like they like them. Do you guys ever look at like we're on a podcast. In America Eh and be like Holy Shit is actually happening as it sometimes still feel like a dream not so much any anymore but in the beginning but I can remember my brother and I were during the dark arcade retirement weed and it was ninety seven. I looked at him and I go. Hey this isn't always going to be legal one day. We're going to be legal with this stuff and we will have to hide and do all the stuff dams. Okay Great Khimki. Dan had and I had a I had that feeling because prop two six To fifteen had come out here in and so then candidate Candida is talking about legalizing it federally and the end they did. And so I said well it's just a matter of time the genie's out of the bottle the doors open and I saw the medical marijuana community and an how passionate they were advocates and how organizer were and it was. It was pretty obvious. So you've you've smoked weed. I I WANNA know as someone who doesn't smoke often. How do you measure the quality of week? Someone will have me back into this field. You taste it. Smell it smoke it. How do you cleanse your pallet in the food wine? You cleanse your pallet winter high. Doesn't okay so what you're looking for. Something else to cut through the high already have the Dow. Is it sugar like how do you get. How do you come back to Earth after you like? Say you're at Cannabis Cup right. You're walking around in China. It's actually it's kind of tough there there and we really. What what you're looking for something to take you in a different direction or cut through which it were you already ab c switch maybe sativa how it tastes and the highs is kinda stack on each other? Oh Yeah how do you say such good shape. You know. Thirty percent body fat. And avoid getting the MUNCHIES. I don't smoke all day. I smoke in the evening Tim most go to sleep and to also think about hundreds of millions of dollars high. No and we've got angry because my brain in in in a different in state and I can I look during business daily life one way and everything and then in the evening go back and I I started thinking about my day and I process us through it but I do what went on. What a medicated? By by the way a little was posted. Nothing's in my house. and I write shutdown used. I used to every once in a while I get a clunker or two ideas now. My subconscious just pumps out really great ideas like their moneymakers and you write them all down. Oh yeah okay. So the next thing I've done on the phone to okay yeah You ever worked out high. I don't like it. It's too distracting for me for for me. I would do better but what I do. Yoga stretching about a big yoga guy. But I had by the way you know I saw show you know Andrew Sealy he was your your show too and so I like what I'm high to do my stretching because the pain actually feels feels good guy just so you did the splits. ooh That's going to be tick tock. I'll bring it back. Yeah Yeah you need to do. Yeah we Never you find the creativity is the thing you like most from it and and that Kana on a automatically like organically brings you back to. There's actually a lot of people and so up in Silicon Valley right now that are micro dosing LSD or or so inside and to get to that creative place or or by the way what you mentioned which is the main output of any trip. I've ever met on her trip. I've ever seen anyone go on. which is that connectivity? You know what I'm saying. I'm so connected with thing the big They make vape pens that are deemed vape pens. Now that are out there about this. I had a girl accidentally accidentally or she brought it to a party and she had accidentally smoke that and she was on mt at the Party and it was. Yeah it wasn't great. Uh Yeah. Where's where's the point where we're like all right? I'd like to see I'd like to see suicide but continued to to Kinda pop in dude like I think it's I think it's a clean and healthy and pretty safe drug and like I said I know Denver and Colorado Darren allies. Yeah Oakland what's going to end up leading the charge. I think veterans like they're finding is is being treated with Cilla Simon. And that's really like I think we're GONNA find approval. came out for suicide. Been Four Veterans to use. It isn't also help. People quit heroin and that's another. Yeah that's another thing I wanted to bring up to. I've I've really passionate about the OPIOID epidemic in the country and you know have lost a lot of friends and almost lost myself to it and so I'm curious what you think the. I'm sure you see a positive impact from thc or some mixture on people that are suffering to withdrawals or people that are you know in in early recovery. What are your thoughts and all that? Well I can tell you when I ever surgery I've had over the last six seven years They give me the boxy cotton and ah just throw it away. He gave me purchase my mature. The Surgery Nickelodeon. Do I said just cannabis in manage my pain. And they'll ask me all kinds of questions craft afterwards so for really intense pain there there. There should be some kind of painkiller but there should be a combination where you're using using that and canvas and then eventually shipped over to discount. I don't even touch the stuff and I don't I don't have a problem. Kills my pain I am. I've had a decent surgeries in my life. And I'll also throw with painkillers. Good scare me like I don't Wanna I can imagine I ha I have after now. I'm I can't I can't have a narcotic in my life and so the last surgery I had. I had a full ventral hernia repair surgery. They had to cut my entire fire stomach open from here to here. To put a piece of mash in to the Mossel suture them also closed. Because I have a splenectomy when I was younger and I remember going into the Into the operating room. And they're going to give your anesthesia. I'm like I can't have narcotic so like whatever you give me has to be non or I think they couldn't do it the anesthesia without narcotics because it has to be for some reason and get you go to sleep but when I woke up. They're like Yo I just want to let you know. This is a painful fucking surgery cutting your abdomen. Right down the middle into your you're into your muscle cavity like you should definitely think about using painkillers on. My can't no matter how bad I wanNA take painkillers. How bad the pain is a half? The I've made it through like a couple couple recently. Where am that's bad robot? Clay's ever be able to do whatever it's wild how there's deaths that are like I've had a friend. I've had a really good friend that I loss at a young age to painkillers. He just ended up taking a bunch right before he's going to go into Rehab. Oh deed and cannabis. There's no reported. There's no reported a desk from actually ten thousand pounds. An menacingly consume. Is that close to accurate. Yeah I mean that's now I heard this in high school when it when when my boys and I smoke a high school but my boys liked it and we'd have to hide out in in the basement would talk about the emits of weed and 'cause you all when you're when you're with your boys your like I feel like I could die and you're you're good uh-huh yeah. I've had times where I start coughing. I was positive I was going to die from we'd wiz Khalifa would be dead hundred the percents dog on. Do you think there's a way that I wanNA mentally or like right here. Formulate the idea the concept behind getting ten thousand thousand pounds of weed in the someone's lung in a single shot all right. So here's how here's how I imagine it we take one of your massive grows a thousand lighter. Sure not not so nine thousand plants. Maybe that's about enough. We call it right because you know about a pound of quarter pound plant. You got nine hundred seventy three or four pounds late now right okay so now you you find a way to funnel the top of the building into a small space set up some sort of hydraulic vacuum underneath it. You throw on Napalm into the middle of it you burn the building down but all captures inside this funnel now you push the button on this hydraulic vacuuming enator. That I just came up with a name for it and you put someone's mouth over little tube at the very top of it and it goes crude. That's the sound by and they get ten thousand is in pounds of marijuana in there fucking lungs at one second and immediately exploded blocking the overload into the next dimension totally connected to every living thing. I'll be honest with you as the host of this. PODCAST cannot believe that you talked about. Are you saying it's not possible. I don't know you could just punch him know how long it's worth a try. Somebody's got to do it. Because otherwise we have unproven fact. I mean think about his theory. Somebody's gotTA gotTa try to eleven foster. You're watching all this. I don't think so I mean I don't know I'm down. That's amazing that you filled that stadium. I was like that was impressive. Goddamn elective be out there and you know here you are and there's all those people and now you're fighting this very interesting the last time. The professional fight felt like a movie. If I had to do something with the day like I just didn't feel I was. It was one of two days in my life where I did not feel like I was present in my life was happening. I couldn't control it and there's out of body. Yes Oh yeah for sure and I have no idea why the amateur vite in Manchester. I think I think I think there's actually more people in that arena and that one I felt grounded and present which was weird really. I don't know why Allah wasn't like nervous or anything. It just felt like I was watching. My life occur and I wasn't great. Actually I think Probably contributed to the outcome in a weird way. Yeah you change that day or how you prepare mentally. If you had to do I would I would. What would you do? Differ John Blunt. I hope they're smoking. What would you what would happen if you smoked a giant? I wouldn't I wouldn't because you'd be slowed down box. Oh we brought you a gift actually answer the question for okay. So here's the question. What would you do different? Strategic Fighter and our a strategic athlete. I calculate everything before I make my move and boxing is a sport where you have to sort of some in the animal in you. Ri- You're fighting fighting's do you have to beat someone up in make them quit via your fists However I had had that fight mentality and it took it a little too far and I and I ended up fighting dirty? I was just like Oh let me swing whenever I possibly can. And that's what happened. Like he went to the ground and I gave them a little love tap because in my mind mind. I'm a boxer. Fight being animal. You know I'm here. I'm here to neutralize this fucking kid. So he went to the ground and honestly this is why I think it'll be better in MMA because because there's less rules. And I'm not going to tell him you have you heard of this thing called C.. T. Yeah Yeah be careful. You're smart kit like the like really really really. Be careful with your Disney upside. Bring because down the road. When it happens I agree you do you think? Do you think think though by the time that I would potentially get to either be some sort of cure for not no no guys rain like that but that's not to help protect your your neural. Whatever it's already too late for me? Here's the deeper thing on a on a different note with Ct.. It's it's the the family that you have. That is the most effective. Like you. See a lot of these boxers or fighters. Whoa that's Mike and I are high quality gloves winnings their Business Matt Being Monte? Set that that up for us but he's our coach and we wanted to bring you. He's he's friends with Milton. Wasn't Milton. Awesome thank you boys. Sixteen ounce gloves I will be carrying these heck. Yeah the whites pretty I love I love. We we just we just saw Rogan. You've been on you've been on his show you absolutely should. I can't believe that we we saw him down in Hawaii. We were down in Maui for a couple of days. Recently we saw Joe and he came back and had Brennan Shaab the the other the fighter. What's his Pockets podcast fighter in the kid on a show the other day that they're on together all the time and Brennan was talking about. Why Logan same kind of thing as you guys basically? Why would you do it? You know what I'm saying. He was like the kids got a gazillion dollars. He knows he knows. He's good at making video content. He knows what he's doing in life you know and he and he was a good fighter but at the same time like it's a risk averse reward situation like you guys are putting out there. Is it worth it to risk the brain damage for for momentary glory or by the way even worse Komo Monetary Not Glory like imagine getting brain damage and then not winning. I also you've done you've done the hardest part and learned the biggest lesson getting in the ring like like you have that. Not Too. Many people can do that boxing. I don't know it's probably like stand up comedy like there aren't too many things which just you. Yeah and it's only you and you have have to. You have to face whatever it is in your head. You've done that in so now what do you want to be a pro boxing. I'll tell you I I have a a problem ending on a loss. Oh I get that so one more. I know I know that store do next would you. Would you call before you go win. This is going to be my only last May fight. Because that's what I just know. You Bro you just you got that. You're not gonNA stop. How big is the fucking bag and we got a segment? This segment is a game. It's called Big Mike. Mike said we're GONNA name some facts about these guys and we're going to bring in Chef Katie eighty actually God chef chef. Katy try to pick a neutral party. Most important person at this house. Don't don't get me wrong. You're a little low here here. Let's bring her over here back. So Chef Katy. Your job is going to be to decipher if it relates to big Mike Mike or hey big mike. The winner wins my admiration and respect and a blunt. Oh yeah you. You're going to put some pillows do that for grandma. Jane sometimes like she's going to take a spencer style. The people love that fall by the way as the fall fall heard around the world. Are Niece good. Dude Iran eight miles. This morning I'm chilling Nice. It's been much that's a far. Yeah Yeah that's actually not that far no problem. No Problem Chef Katy Ready. Can you hear me speak right into this. Okay okay. That's fine. This mike is no longer allowed in Canada. ooh WanNa go wait. What am I saying? Hey migrant is big my point if it gets confusing. Well actually don't know which kyw's Mike I'm GonNa go with Mike this Mike in the world that will not allow gloaming prohibit. I'm not allowing Canada. Either I was GONNA say both of those. The currently not letting people is that. I can't go to Canada. So do you have a something on your record. uh-huh yeah they won't let you. Can't you go to Canada. They actually kidnapped me. took me order the drop them off at the border Americans. It's true but why would you. Why would you not be allowed to go in there? I grew a lot of Cannabis now I was found guilty. They stayed the charges however however I am also the largest forfeit to return in that country and so the Maria. Wow got it okay. Well welcome to America. Also take hold any grudges against Canada. Let me let me offer some production up there Mike. Let me tell you something really quick. You WanNa make a bad ass piece of content. Big Mike and big. Mike go to Canada hop on epic proportions. I'll have I'll have a setup by the knelt boys day of all they're basically the presidents and their country. They'll get us in China. That's not a problem for US getting to that country to get to where we go. We're in this. Mike is dating a porn star. All these are tough okay. I'm GONNA go with. Hey big might know crazy. Both I don't know you but I want to go full. You know what you're right. You're the man. Oh you're not no I never was. Also Mike's it's not really like dating or thank you thank you. I'm not I'm not. I'm fond of a multiple porn stars e even fonder of multiple points at the same time if possible like this. I'm not dating getting appointments or dating anyone for that matter yet. This mike fact once spent ten thousand dollars for two hundred bucks of. We'd go with that Mike you'll be correct one hundred one hundred. Why why did you do that? Well okay so I was. I was down there in in French Polynesia Tahiti and I was on this this island and private island and there's no we'd and so I knew there Sweden Weedon Bora Bora because I've been there before. I knew the people so I just had a CALICO after come in flaming over to Bora Bora and went. Got The we got back in. And so that was a ten thousand bucks for that swagger at like it actually it was like sometimes you get we all Browning and Shitty Moldy. This was actually green wheat and so it was good. That was little bore bore born read. We go all right so by the way by the way they growth advance nutrients interested by this. Mike only has a high school diploma. He's a really hard question. Credit land feel in one year college degree in okay. I can't believe Ah yes. If you're watching this I feel bad if I'm defaming your name but I have the most useless degree in the entire world. I have an associate's degree in liberal liberal arts -absolutely fucking nothing. I have a bachelor's in psychology. That's useful Imam. Oh but still I'm telling you an associate's degree two year associate's degree from community fucking in the liberal arts which has has no apple application whatsoever. I'm liberal and minorities in means I never even picked up. Here's how useless it is. I never even picked up the diploma degree literally still holding it at the fucking office at Gateway Community College New Haven Connecticut. You have my fucking throw it out because I don't wanted this. Mike has his own strand of marijuana. Come on that Mike named after me. No there's nobody that's this is it. It's called it's called Mike's hard and I have a brand. Yeah facts that a strange. Yes really gets chef gaining weight. An you work. We're going to give you some. Weeds was Oh right Baked Apricot Koch again with Roasted squash in mass money race were any good snow. Let's let's get it essential energy one that makes let me say I was GonNa ask if she had enough food for Mike's crew but I remember he brings a standing fucking army with the podcast gotTA approve. fifty-seven people by by the way largest entourage we've ever had on the show so let didn't feel that doesn't feel large. We've got three three agents dressed in black suits. We got a videographer with the big Mike Shirt. We've got a lovely young lady. I'm not sure what she does. Another dope dude. You'd like he's got a squash and people what's up at the security. I've had security for for years to do at all times. I don't usually don't give the number he wanted to go. There is always someone wait so so like you did today. You usually have fifty security guards with you like you do right now. Armed with Ak for and depending on circumstances the Morla I went to shake his hand and he gave me a fist-bump. I'm sure there's a strategy thought you would pull some sort of crop. Of course Eric is threatening or by the way maybe just stunned him. He's like yeah. Let me make sure it's kid doesn't he's GonNa pull any shit. He's a Germaphobe. Hey which one of those is true is a germs. Don't a busy. I want to go to the audio. Only it's it's like this but it's audio only so big Mike and Chris Bay you guys for coming on impulsive also if the number one podcast in the world thank you for having US voice appreciate you can find you on social media. You can find an instagram does. Just look up a big Mike and of course it can go to advanced nutrients as well Great Chris Collins on Instagram guys. Guys I say to say it's a number one podcast in the world. Subscribe on. We love you. Thank you for listening to do audio. Only right now exclusive question and answer on spotify I tunes by the way thanks for everyone. Listen to our podcast on spotify. We saw fan today. Listen to ten thousand our ten thousand minutes which is one hundred sixty six hours to do. Maybe we'll save the audio only we let guys stick Bruce. Still here still here. I I said Dominic Pechora ten thousand. He wrote ten thousand Goddamn minutes shot seven six hour. I said this sucks earlier earlier when we were signing out because I talk to you boys all day like honestly you got like I could sit and talk to guys who fucking hours dude. Listen to Mike talk about weed for hours. He Lights Up Glen. Yeah Yeah it's fun. He loves it. I'm sale. I'm still fascinated by the fact that you did this. But but way before it was like a cool thing and but even before it was legal. This did you when you started. Did you see the boom happened happened happening. That happened now. Oh Yeah I. People came in early on and wanted to go public and I refused. I said valuation. This is madness. What's going honest reality? And I'm not GonNa get caught in crossfire. Something that's out of control. And where are you based by the way Right here in la down now. We were always on Pacific Design Center all the billing records and building out. Does it change color no building. There's a blue building in a green building. The bigger the buildings. You gotta choose the Green Building. It's on message. Where Tom Brand number? Where do you see the future of marijuana you know? How is this going to play out? LONG-TERM I in medicine. You're going to see a lot of use of that as the years come. And then the recreational market. I couldn't even begin to tell you some of the products that will probably be coming out in in the future. Because I'm amazed on the creativity of the entire marketplace a place and and what they bring to the table on a daily basis. It is one of the fastest spaces that changing spaces era that I've ever seen in my lifetime. I by the way the reason I grow. I should've mentioned it earlier. But I like you and I don't know if this is the reason why he got into originally. I'm so enamored by the space. Uh Not even by the space but more so by by the the the flower like I. I'm in love. Just don't even love smoking that much I I really don't I'm not a huge smoker. Just because it's so as you that means that personally down a little bit and whatever. I love the flower. Love talking about the strange. I love looking at it. Love like when it's purple. I love all the different. Oh we got dream got fruity pebbles. Whatever color amazing? It's such a beautiful. It is beautiful to watch this metamorphosis that goes through from his leafy planning awesome. It starts growing. These flowers have turned into buds. And the buzz turn into colas like wow and then does a smell that comes off and then you smoke it in the enjoy it right. It's magnificent it's such a grape it is it. Is it from space. Do you think it's an alien alien conspiracy never know. I think it doesn't make sense. Our how our but but we have an intimate system by the way runner's high they did it Heidelberger Hamburger University in Jerry studied that they were thought it was the endorphins. No is there end. No come Ebonite. System releasing unanswered which is one zero T H C. We're literally wired for weed and so over the years we've adapted and that plant has is now into into our system. In fact all vertebrae mammals have an endo cabinets. Your cat your dog bad. The flu around people smoked it early on Mike GEICO did they eat it like you know. Say Five hundred years ago. Was it smoked. They there's both smoking and even if you just eat the planes. Yeah I oh no you. Won't you have to heat it. Yeah so you have to call her box. Delete it so when you eat an edible like a candy. That's been heated up activated. Yeah so you just walk up and invited to eat that. I'm not gonNA feel anything. No so they figured that out five hundred years ago. I don't know five thousand years ago. The three I always wanted to always. There's referencing the Pyramids of cannabis. Use whatever you may drinks out of it too. They crushed it up in India. There's a drink called a bang. Bang they call it in and it's it ain't crush it up with gold smoke and some other stuff they drink. Egyptians promoted bang the those young marketing get to rocks ED juice place five hundred years ago and it wasn't Kale or whatever its cannabis crazy what What references were there in the Egyptian pyramid about? We draw pictures and stuff. You pull it up hold up on nine. I can't Egyptian. We believe that history history pyramids weeds comes up. I was reading about Twenty eight hundred twenty eight hundred BC when they to historical a lot of historical historical tests. Because it could do so many things and essentially make you happy. It's really liking. Seattle cannabis was used in ancient Egypt. Their way wait Oh snap. What is it are they holding a little pipe or what they so they were smoking it? These boys gain high do they. Were passing around a little pipe action. How together and they can't touch highs smoked out the pyramid bro to their boxing? The Pyramid. That's bad ass in a way to get the ten thousand pounds off perfectly. The shape of this. That was the first person to die was in ancient Egypt. Mummy unbelievable yeah you automatically mummify when you take down ten thousand pounds at one time. It's incredible I will end on that full circle. Dad Grow but all right. You're the boss sounds good. Hey next let's talk about that show coming out and First Quarter Twenty twenty. Well it's a cross between Discoveries looking at right now very seriously and it's a across between the the apprentice and a shark tank and more business than a cannabis show but we take sixteen people twelve different products and the wins a million dollars at the end at stupid to not pay who didn't pick it up discoveries talking dom not to pick that up nine episodes done in the can. That's that's Added as a high level just a million dollar budgets. There we go real deal. It's a real TV show. We got big Mike in here. Yeah that's GonNa that's that's GONNA pop dude. That's a sure shot they'd be this current. You know what happened so discovery text it to their advertisers. One group said yes one group said no and right and now. They're asking more advertisers in today's Day and age. It's still a stigma. Attached to it was sad. Somebody's show it's a chance to win. Even though I mean he's GonNa lose money on this episode. We won't be able to monitor montage ready for this. Everyone got Joe Biden. WHO's like in the lead right now? And he's saying shot himself in the head to hear it here now he he retracted that he said was. Okay no yeah. Oh he retracted it. The incident of the election. If you say that cannabis is bad and I'm against it you can pretty well just forget the gateway drug it's nineteen it's context though wasn't his son on heroin or some sound like it so it's just as context what trump's position on canvas. He's got to be a little more than they really don't don't Okay backchannel as he's he's okay with it. He asked if he's if he's making moves to legalize hemp. Now it's a big stab and canvas now too. And that's farmer wants to be represented on. Here's what happened. I talked to some middle guys a couple of years back. They ago this whole cbd thing we got caught with pants down. So they're buying Tang that's what they're doing. What do you mean by that? They weren't ready for they were ready for. CBD basically they they push it out to the IT's been pushed out to the marketplace and watch they're going to realize that they're gonNA really back in space as it exists right. Now it's fucked. I think like anybody could could pop into that space. But I mean regulated. They're going to have to. I mean look. How many brands out there pumping al probably making millions of dollars off shit? That might not even have like there's one zero regulation that's based on out in CBD. It's coming in fast. USAA'S NOTHI FDA stepping in real fast like they've come down not hard on people who are making claims claims for cancer and some other things and they're sending out letters like no. It's fascinating is the research ray like early on. Mike had a hard time doing research because it was illegal into Europe in right I mean he's ahead of the curve because for twenty years he's had scientists over there but nobody was researching. So they're we're all trying to catch up meant to ask you that. Actually how. How did you quit briefly because I know we're going to stop it? How did how did you learn to grow like what was what was your we started? There was a fuck all out there like information. There's a few high times issues and and Since Amelia tips was was out there and we're on our own own basically and so there's no use. There's no Internet. None of that stuff. Was this file none of that. None of that existed. I'd overgrown dot com the whole time over grows. It was great to know from the forum. Yeah so what you went through tons of books you flew to Europe and had somebody teach you on a mountain what might goes over the top. I studied in that I be. It and then I got ABC University. They had two different license is able put them together and able to start researching in Canada. But but then I want to do even more and it was a little slow and cumbersome and because of regulatory things and so I went overseas and was able to get a license to study a canvas. There's only three of 'em like this in the world GW Pharmaceutical has. I have one in Thika. Mowlem in Israel has won. How many scientists thirty thirty one thirty two guys scientists? He answered what they're GonNa do after but the so good. Yes put Jack Jack about maybe I was also thinking Or probably signing the episode officially right still an audio tape it thank you guys again for real. It was great being here. Yeah Yeah appreciate you Chris Mike Success Yes. Thank you impulsive. The number pockets in the world. We love you guys. Thanks for listening yeah.

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DID KYLE MASSEY LIVE IN THE WHITE HOUSE? - IMPAULSIVE EP. 115

Impaulsive with Logan Paul

1:34:05 hr | 2 years ago

DID KYLE MASSEY LIVE IN THE WHITE HOUSE? - IMPAULSIVE EP. 115

"Laser beam of urine shooting all go down. I was was like i have have a different prop every show streaming award that i one but does it say the night shift. No what do you get the night shift. He's always plug in his bull shit. Show actually it's a good show is a good show. Are we rolling yeah. I can't even believe because this is new for me. The amount of people that have come up in the past month to be like yo. I love your. I'll be at warwick actual normal people come on. Y'all watch the night shift every episode. It's amazing and i i still get uses yeah. You did goodman creating a spin off show trying to do the same dwarf ma and also welcome back to impulsive number and podcast in the world. Thank you guys listening watching viewing subscribing even even subscribe to that blood from me bro. I just got a text from jed who reviews all the episodes. Jet is our review team. One hand ten ten ten men review. He said have an amazon plan in motion. Do you guys want to go yet. Wow yes. This episode comes on monday so we may already be in the amazon by gama's chance we miss like i feel like we'd have around yeah. Of course we're gonna move log. It will drive awareness. We'll get a raise a lot of money. Do we am i i didn't of course you live here anymore. So i know he's gone bring david. We can't bring you mobs. I aw now we still like you. I'm still i'm still the number one fucking most level-headed is is there any house gossip going on. We just boys only right before this minutes before we talk to whatever we're pretty tapped out blue are we did the new made. There was the old maid what's her name again suzanne so sally sue who says you made it seem like yeah. It's like she's from a lot of we talk about. Why don't we talk about the one that didn't get the job. Oh so. There's an audition addition process for every new employee every higher at the house chef. Katy won the chef contest. Obviously we had some interesting chefs similarly. We had some interesting thing maids audition in one of them stretch. I say this helped me like the will as opposed to talking about it from a current stance. Let's talk about what happened. At the end of the day. Danny came up to me and she said hey mike reading eating the meat today and i need to your thoughts on the made from today i have a problem with us and i said choose definitely pirate and in a former life one hundred percent hands down not open to any questions on it. She was a pirate number two and this is the important one. She is going to kill every single person. That's one hundred percent guarantee so we're all fucking dead. If we hire sadie i woke up and mike told me that now might surely this can't be that bad so i go up and i waive. Hey logan by the way she's like. Oh my god and i was like oh no i understand what's happening and then she turned around and at one point in bent over i saw just riley re tramp stamp going up russians prison. Damn i mean by the way sweet lady sweet lady out of conversation with. Do you know what her paper was that we paid her with his own. Say the numbers just the it was dark. Soul dark dark soul like one two three dark soul. My my question is win in the application process. Did someone invite this in. I wanted to try facetime immediately. Think this lady's gonna make us all walk. The plank soul six six gmail.com email dot com come on by we'll see soon just need you to sign the end. She was good it on facetime. It happens. It's a classic catfish this fish yeah yeah but if you can you want you facetime someone doesn't that generally like break the cat like usually if you're trying to hook up with like hot chick that you found online if it's like big dick nick four five six at g mail dot com you you on the pump the brakes a little dick eagles winning quarterback. Let's let's bring on our guest. Go ladies and gentlemen. We have a disney channel legend in the the house. Today he played cory baxter on that so raven spinoff cory in the house. He's a musician of voice actor and owner of an electric bike company. It's kind of messy. We we go. Yes good so we'll go behind the scenes. Hello before you came on the show. You're testing the mic a little bit and you're like. I like the way i sound. I love the way i sound like. Some people are scared away sound but like you know i always talk and mike i always i grabs and stuff so i just love the way i sounds smell smell good how he does smoking yeah. Do you ever get like a like an initial vibe from the gas like right off the bat. They come in like some like a lot of times for me. I'm just like this might be. This uh-huh gives me all the good students smiling smells labout good vibes straight up like i think i saw it on like puff. Daddy's instagram or something something like from here on out like good vibes only like you know what i mean like. I'm like you know what that's what. I'm going to give like everywhere. I go question. I i love that and i try to do the same what happens when you're receiving bad vibes. If you're if you're someone else you dip you. You scare the people there. I agree but some people say that's rude. Sometimes it's hard to dislike cares if this route from personal or sometimes you on a plane dog. Oh oh yeah the maslin. That's like a sticky situation some kid next us. Some you know what i mean like so then you got the vibe or we'll get some headphones and that's on the opposite end of the spectrum the other day i was flying back from new york and i got sat next to a service dog who had his its own seat. Tell you i was next to my and the lady was she was like a french-speaking lady. Who sitting sitting next to them the handler and i was like ma'am. I love your dog. Can i pet him and she was like. Please go ahead bit ever do a home you hanging out normally like they'd would be like not. You're not you know but i mean if he's chilling on the plane like come on. It's like no big deal. He would always just look at it. Are you good. What kind of dog was it. It was like a it was like a mixed breed but it definitely was like he was doing his service by looking at it straight away. I was at the airport <hes> the the other day i saw a little wiener dog with the vest on it said nut detection dog. Have you seen this nut tags. She must have a severe peanut allergies unlike topple epi pen femur so it'd be like super alert like home. Eve <hes> not sprout this dog. That's crazy. Oh have random question for y'all. We'll all you ought to be honest. All you got like this because i want to ask me and i would be still. When was the last you really pissed yourself. Ooh i was. I was me personally. I was burning man a very how how long ago was like year and a half africa. 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They're a bit bony but they're good so so. That's why we were hitting. We're we're living large and i'm like i really have to be. I i don't have to p and my dad's like no. We're hitting right now. You can get in the water yeah and scared. Oh yeah he's like you can't pee fish sticks and we cut you around on marijuana plants sometimes to keep deer. It really works actually got us in this video of utah happy so long story short. I get because you know i get like probably like an hour. Pass this moment where i really have to piss and i'm like i'm like dad. I have to piss and he's pissed at this point that i have to pay so he's like he's like no. You're not and so i'm like fucking blind. Dude probably just lit my pants up. Just fully all all like on fucked you. Yes you might pick it was a spite this and then why hopped off on the doc i step up and he sees that i pick myself and he was so disciplined yourself off. I was young because has any of that shit. I would rather him just pissed off inside of the piss off. The wall ivers is in his pants. That's true so so so quickly wait. I wanna say bob seems like the type of dad like didn't plan on being a daddy kind of kind of kid. No that was my sister. My sister was older was an accident. What about you mike. I'm pretty sure everyone on the set and in this garage is aware aware that i don't miss myself. I lies. No no no. I here's what dreams no. He poops hoped myself. Okay guy can't remember that costs awesome more money than pissing. It sucks because you can wash out the pits but you have to throw away so so the the infamous story obviously is my sister's wedding my younger sister's sweat andrew and knows that story i pooped in my tuxedo poop to my rented tuxedo cat and it was rented so i just got to give the pants backs out menswear house in fucking billy. I'm so sorry we went into our taxes. For the super real jacob paula deen a wedding and he was in he was in men's warehouse and was nervous that they were going to have in blackhawks the system. I don't run my name. I had a bad email sorry i i had a bad cuban sandwich the night before the gas station in fucking annapolis junction guy and so that that wasn't the last bowl that was his hi. This is fran late-breaking one. This is the only other time that was six years gone. Here's one that whole foods never good idea. Here's one when that happened in the past. I hate to fuck and say this happened. In the past six. That's it has six ways with six weeks house out of juice cleanse and i was on a juice clan and i went to shoot an episode of menial tasks with banks and we're in a supermarket juice cleanses can be that this wasn't uncontrollable bouma cleanses. I'd just taken the fifth drink of the day. Which was the beach use aw i'll three and i think banks like made me laugh or some shit. Some shit happens never trust default on a juice cleanse so i learned a lot of water. Don't trust too far kyle of the fact that you asked us. This question makes me think thank you like this happened today. No okay like here's that's so crazy so i had a have you ever had a really crazy dream and i'm talking about like it's so so yeah real legit think like of course you're in this dream. You wake up bro. I had a dream. I was pissing. Real woke up have like on and like i woke up before i finished my you know what i mean like that mid p you like by woke up i had i had literally a dream a wet dream but would piss golden dream dream. It's just like in the happened like two days ago and i was birthdays on the twenty eight. I'll be twenty eight gang. There's a girl in bed with you yes. She does doesn't know that dan donna literally. I i amy on her. Though i can honestly in proudly say that i like i caught it. It was at the string. Thank you know it wasn't midstream if you midstream. It's like impossible to stop his. If you midstretch tough it was like skilled. You know what i'm saying so i caught it like right before. It got out of hand. You know it was just like a little leakage but it wasn't like. I don't know if that's you know what i'm saying. It sounds close to an actual wet dream what could technically but i call it. There's wet dreams and that's a sex but then there's no that's actually called an art kelly. Shh it was not in my dream for storing remember if he was in my store you read that it was that he didn't show up for trial that so you went to bed with our calendar pictures definitely was not the reason i was me at the toilet. I had a dream that i i don't know anyways it dude. I've a couple girlfriends of mine friends that are females that when they get drunk it's like a ritual to to piss the bed. I swear to god it's a thing and all of her friends. One girl all of her friends like we can't. We can't let her go to sleep on that couch. She yeah it's like when somebody gets caution. Don't let her go to sleep. I've <hes>. I actually just realized i've i've. I don't know if this counts but during my last ironman i pissed myself myself four times. You told me that i totally forgot because you didn't stop. You can't stop. There's an asterisk for sporting events of courses take that should be like four times four times due to you're going for one hundred twelve miles and you drinking water. The whole time is everyone just pissed. Yeah bro all by wait a second. I pissed myself on the marathon. He was talking about iron man like when he was dressed up in the movie he loves the event. It was so good i ah yeah yeah i headed time it because i didn't want to hit anybody on the bike and like the wind just takes takes it so when you're cycling. You're pissing all over the place. All those poor fe as i think is sweat you don't i wanted a lot of people do it. Literally works well. No i mean you're wearing just like what you get out of the water you wear on the bike like you literally hop out of the water sprint here by on your bike and go everywhere in the water piss on the by just in the win quickly because i'm sure this has got to be almost amazon with the piston poop right 'cause the one thing i was going on it. Is you spoke about the one girl that you have friends with. We had the other one. Do you remember the one time i happened to in the house. That's what i'm saying. It's a woke up high and i and i felt like some shuffling in the bed and i looked next me and there was a mother fucking laser beam of urine shooting all and i go. I freaked out. I was like please shifted the street getting closer to be the go-to all over the place eventually ran out of the room a little later on what y'all think tell you. This just pissed everywhere. I don't know what to do about. I saw her in the next morning she is. She's from rhode island. That's logan. I did a bad yeah. She has a providence accident. I did have really been really heard. I'm so sorry to hear you're severely distraught for like three or four days fanatic as post traumatic stress disorder. Take a listen so you are you own a electric light companies. Yeah rozali scooter bikes. I'm what's your way below prime apart partners that own we can we talk pharaoh. Yeah walk what okay this is. This is crazy. This is crazy okay because we gotta talk about this because once again there's a group of people that watch a show that respect like the business business and that side of things. I wanted to get into this what the fuck went wrong. Was it division. Was it the not understanding. The market market where that like you guys didn't say ridesharing is the next wave because literally you did did it before everybody and then i watch fucking lime lime then we'll you. We are was well. Here's the thing like a wall at the time and still really sort of our vision for the company was <hes> not to speak for everyone but my particular reason for the company was to have the bikes like be amenities menotti's in upper class hotels. You know like when you go to hotels like in hawaii you buy a sweet. It comes with two bicycles so it wasn't it wasn't i didn't want our product is sitting literally on the street and getting damaged arraigned on pissed on big over time but you know what i'm saying i just didn't want. I want our bikes to be in nice. Places getting treated well written. You know like that so it just like everybody wasn't on board with that. They wanted to go that route they were we got to grow because i remember and i don't. I don't think it was anybody being wrong or like not enough forward thinking. The only thing i thought in my mind was was it was like you guys. We're at a winning scratch. I did claim or some shit because dude fucking meals they re. They just closed a six hundred nine multi hundred million dollars by selling wagner yeah. Which was the site that they all worked on before it. Oh really so the guys that started log locking website went and started wheels is and i'm like this is a fucking tzali bike. We're literally these dudes now have the next billion there's no about an i always say i think all these lines and all these bikes everywhere like one. They're not safe north the drivers or the the writers of the when i ride no sings first off. It's impossible to ride them without smiling for me for me. I have so much fun when i'm just sitting on a bird like it's fun when we're stockholm sweden. It was the only way we got around in credible even in my boxing coach my sixty plus year old box coaches scooting around so it's it it is dangerous though but i was just saying ready okay like but my my idea for the company was when you go to sweden instead of you finding one on the street one the the hotel has already purchase them from us and that they keep on that belong to the hotel and they and when they give them to you that oh that way you don't we'll have to look for yours. Yours says you know you know what i mean. Yeah that's for. You is not like something that you just pick up on. The streets are you. Are you <hes> anti scooter electric scooter no anti scooter. I just think they need to make them a little safer for everyone how i don't i don't have the answers the drones that have like the guards around the propellers. Maybe we should put those on the scooters like a or ball. What if you wear an law did y'all but in all honesty i mean it sitting around with a bunch of influence serves influential people. I mean someone near and dear to our community extremely lost their mother. Roman outlets. Mom killed in a in a very tragic scooter. She's by the way i believe ear. Another influencer just died in a scooter accident as well another another smaller youtube. I believe that's interesting. Thanks to their families man. You know that's why i was just saying. Let's make them safer like you know like make them like toward their amenities where you go to the hotel already has card past thirty five year old. Emily hartridge died in a scooter accident. Yeah 'cause like if i'm driving up sunset. I i see so many people that are almost hit and it's like. I'm a responsible driver so i see them but you know everybody doesn't drive there. I think i think it's only a matter of time before like i know i was actually just driving down in in venice and the whole boardwalk is you can't ride down there. You can't park so i think it's going to start to happen. Where like it'll it'll just shut off in certain areas. That's what i predict it from the book guinea way. What does it here saying. Let's not do it does not do that well. If you rush to get it out. You you know yes. You could probably make a lot of money. You could also get fat fi. Sign away all your you when you sign up for the ones you sell it. You know you sign away when you diabilities but the thing is is like it's on the company narrowed liabilities you sign off and agree to it. You've you've you've signed it got. The question is how do you make it safer because by blocking certain areas days my my prediction. I think they're all going to be banned in a year. I that's what i was doing. Well i mean this to happen with hover boards. Yes yes never hover boards. We're like this nuisance of the because they're like blowing up. You could no longer ride on the sidewalk and bro scooters. It's the wild west like especially in the the people walking on the sidewalk hate you the people driving on the street. Hey everybody hates hates around it so weird how like that industry of scooting has so many weird stories like it brings me back to the story about the guy who started segue at your all my segue it off a cliff that i'm not even gonna lie that that bouma that is one of the most ironic. Do you think that should have been a moment where we all realize all these electric electric vehicles. They're just not meant to be. Maybe we're supposed to let you know it's like tesla. His name was dean came in he he he was the c._e._o. Right regardless don you can't product. He wrote it off a cliff. It's like it's like it's it's like segway company owner. Ride scooter off cliff was terrible. Nobody no it's like riley read like somehow funny way to die with her flashlight. Do you know what i'm saying. It's just feel like there was so many better. Analogies saddam hussein with any shot came up with ah release all this talk and get my foot out. Whoa quick pause. We got a sponsor bullet in other yup. If you like sex you'll blue dot com. Bluetooth offers many performance enhancement for the bedroom because everyone likes to last a little longer and if you exit routes probably could use blue shoe a couple a couple of times in my life premature ejaculation. Is the literally hate to see it coming at the first tools with the active ingredients sylla. Oh i can never say these why even say it's the same ingredients in viagra and cialis okay. It looks like sildenafil to fill you. You're smarter than i am. 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People like no like they told me that i look exact same as i did on the disney channel i don't i personally don't see like when i look in the mirror like i've had like looks with myself. That's open the mirror. That's not check yourself out our file exact. It's exactly it's it's pretty frigging similar to me the same hair they know like look at that like i'm sorry that you look hoping my point at aw but yes. I don't like those are newer like those are newer like those are new. I can't tell your schools at yesterday like seriously z. You did go through the disney. Machine man not not not just one show. We had a few shows on disney. So why are you crazy or killing. People brought like what's so crazy. I i'm from atlanta so i go back and forth to atlanta all the time but you know i i. I know a lot of crazy people. That was on for sure yeah but i'm not crazy because i got to grow up and watch them go crazy. I had a brought rosie too crazy. Everybody else gone crazy. I guess we had a front row ticket. I'm like oh so this is crazy. Ah i i saw a crazy like astrid normal one time interesting i mean it's got to be so easy to to be sucked in because it is like a machine right like how how old were you on a an eight or a mess room sabi twenty eight in five days and so yeah i'll be bass almost twenty years that's they do they still own part of your arm or some shaped like how does that work now like right now from nickelodeon so a the cartoon network a teenage mutant ninja turtles on nickelodeon play jeremy and on cars network mighty magic sorts <music> confederate soldier just flipping to the north you really because if you look on nickelodeon you see a lot of disney commercials. You know like like it's like. They're starting to become more really matt conglomerate like that that merger. That'd be crazy season. You know what i'm saying. Imagine spongebob ride at disneyland of it all. It's my favorite show ever will be changed my life these new house raven doing good. Yes <hes> actually fine with me to texas and a few days from a birthday birthday season the raven shadow radio and i just saw her performance as he raven all the time. What's good in texas for the day <hes> show where i don't even know yet. That's the funny thing in texas. They got fashion everywhere. How i was like damn they step into the high. Hope it's in austin dude. I love austin is to dallas dallas. Just because everything in dallas is like right there you know what i mean. We went to san antone recently to what they call. The conference center the conference out dude conference by the light of conference people one p._m. Him get black. I asked the waiter went. I was like hey like what are you guys do for fun. He's like most people just get drunk that we did more for you you. I i've been to many business calms. The only reason you go to a business conference is two percent dogs broke. That's the best place to get blasted. 'cause then you can wake up with something. Dope fucking get blast. Dan wake up. You like what i got or a fish in a lear. Jet is happening happened the other day <hes> l._a. Times <hes> beverly everley hills mountain beverly hills billion dollars ah for one hundred thousand dollars way way to run in the oxygen blackout and sold it for a little less than check this out in beverly hills once listed for one billion dollars sold both for one hundred thousand dollars. I'll give him a hundred and fifty right now. That is you want to go in on. This does spencer's pissed. Illuminate reports. Go all offered this dude one hundred k four hundred k. That's times what he bought it by the way i know i know the whole story. There's a whole store. They're going to be able to laser iron control the minds of giving the five sec because i got i got bored trying to give you the five second the guy who bought it one guy. He he the original no sale he sold it. It put him somehow two hundred million in debt and so when he that he was going to get back by buying it for one hundred thousand he got he let the other lien holder off the hook so now he's down to one hundred million on it plus one hundred thousand we still got still got great by the way he's still got a great deal but he sounds like he got the worst deal because that parcel dude when you build forty units on that and the fucking mountain overlooking overlooking beverly hills. He's gonna clean up. It's just he was the one person that was like oh. Two hundred milk got that. Whatever nobody else was what caused the water crisis. This property cropper's look at fair-way. The sprinkler bill on that sucker is one hundred thousand dollars and some of the old owners. It's a little bit further down the article but it's like fucking fucking merv griffin looked well. We'll look auction for tonio. Why a hey i'm. I'm i'm trying to invest in property. That's how is how is there not a crib the crib there was definitely a crib. There was a lot of overseas people been buying for years. The royal lang my daughters of iran own at the only yeah they put. It smacks a driveway to nowhere <music>. I'm gonna come u-turn. How much money do you think would warrant like like the crib that needs to be on amount like that like i think he knows i think i think you need to put a probably at least a four hundred million dollar for sure yeah for sure absolutely because by the way there's homes in l. a. right now that are the biggest l._a. Real estate sale. I think is a one hundred and five if you look it up. Four hundred is ridiculous. That's pretty the most you'll be the most in l._a. Seventy five right now no no the biggest sale. That was that's listing. That's never going to sell ever asked to be a bit so but but what i'm saying is you're probably right because the one that went at one five one hundred and five million was a tiny little lot and that's a fucking mountain yeah. That's a mountain was this that'll probably be the most expensive home to sell. His got dropped to one nine by the way it's not going to sell. That's not going to sell goes down a buck forty. That's that's why they cut the price fifty million. They were just like take fifty off. You live in a house or you got an apartment like atlanta. We have a condo out here in l._a. We're about to get a house house type yeah. I was littered nodes joke as i was driving up here. I was like yeah. This is why we turned it into a five five hem austin wiz khalifa wiz khalifa these vendors like and do you wanna know gotta get them on the podcast. He's been van yeah yes. Yes you know who started the outside of his house house. Everyday like you're the one that goes up the hill event podcast number one. I will kill you think he's gonna be okay with us talking about him living in our neighborhood and is like exact the house location or probably not yeah no south park bro. We're not talking about the real diesel but it's funny though because you moved here a couple years ago and now everybody's encino seems like mind you send out on a for for for the vibe one time at this point down at the box. You can even find a segue for yes. Oh what a what yeah so. You've been sitting on the logan. I i just got breakfast i didn't i have never laughed as hard as i laughed when i found this. How do we get fan. Mail sometimes fans in the pontiac why this happened. Quick sure everyone knows off-white. Vapors are a lot of people do you bought them for me. Because i want to show jeopardy said you sent me on vacation acacia. I wanna off waivers. I was while banks got so tired of the red tag on the vapors which by the way that he cut it off with a butter knife the other night i instagram story and and then you can well. It's just a liability to tag. Thanks cut it off and we get fan mail sometimes and one of these fans send us a nice a nice letter ed came in a box and it said from the address and i said this will be the first piece of fan mail if if my fans bought me off and i thought they did congratulations hey mike we realized how much you liked your off white vapour maxes <hes> unfortunately noticed they were tampered with so. We wanted to give you a fresh pair of kicks. They are extra hype. We hope you like them. Sincerely sincerely at young and then the bottom here mike x. off meds because he got off his amazing and before four so amazing the branding you have done young radio is mind blowing yeah this man legit when i saw him. The reason why this became came so great for me. He knew that he just received a pair off. White's the house positive how let me see these off whites and in these are the lights aw it's got a hundred tag not stock aids and it's got mike show. It's got my back jack. You're just just y'all know only too leftward whites. This is what i see. This doesn't make any fucking sense. Those tags are too big trouble said my mom saw off white tag. Why why. Why did you leave the tab yeah yeah. I was like no but let me ask you a question. I that is so funny. Bones are my size thirteen's and they're and they're our air as which is also a pretty dope shoot. I complete l. I'm just confused how how young brito did this and whoa how he was so creative with because we we did look them up on instagram and this kid just doesn't look like he's got it in them. God doesn't look like he's your eleven eleven year old logan paul himself on the bottom of the shoes to insert tags on the bottom of the shoe but pull that sheet up. I gotta say i don't know how old did you arcade. You look nine off his soccer tournament. I told you look even his bio. Sorry for the realness easy here so first of all shadow on the stock of this paper. No bullshit dwell shock paper. He's got the quotation congratulations like some real virgil shape dylan school. We can clearly see the end and obviously the best thing is the mike which is nike go off meds and this is this is this is makes me envious of your troll. This is this is. That's that's professional top level kudos young sorry for the real news. Yeah it was just so it was so beautifully tragic tis just open that box. Take them young writer. I'm gonna give him no one of my cousins raven imprint the same thing with ravens name on god and i feel like we just opened up a can of worms so funny though you guys about control. I love this this show man. This show is really job. I love how you got the logo and in the middle of like how the lighting ca. Let's see if we can queue the line. Let's see oh. We can't queue lighting. Oh shit what the fuck is shining. Why did you do that. I just wanted to see like what you guys want to do the phone with that much money this is great wants to tell us tells more talked about designing set but no i want to thank you. Is this your dog she yeah her name is ginger. She's wearing a diaper currently early because she's on her period to know about that. I have not yet dogs if they're not fixed. How free it's not once a month is it i heard it was. I think it was once a year yeah. Eh four weeks sometimes soils diaper. <hes> sucks yeah. I looked it up once. I don't know if you've ever looked this up how much it costs to have a pet. Your costs so much so much my homie spin like six grain on his dog taking it to the vet and like two months because it was sick and i was like oh we're all like house. I saw six thousand dollars. You can buy fingers lifetime. Don't no no. I lose a finger. You can buy one for sixth grade. Oh wait. There's a weight measurement of heroin finger and it's about sixty wins. You wonder how he knows. The and i have no idea i gotta pass grams will literally owning a dog in its lifetime will cost. It's like forty k. and nine including buying the dogs dogs caused forty k. bargain according to our whole life bob barker fuzz whole life at the end price prices right to get people to spend new to their pets and don't forget guys get your pet spayed neutered at the end every fucking episode and furthermore moore park adam sandler brand new who got five bartrum bob barker adam sandler happy good one every louis bob barker adam sandler bob barker bros. Price is wrong. Bitch shred new car. You're going to go to youtube might come out and i'm saying livers reverse bob barker down. That's why you gotta you had it. The price is wrong. Base price prices wrong bait video play after ad don't worry looks like some sort of wild and put my face on it and just blink. I've done that serbia. Serving another youtube youtube videos no way only on my haters. This is very suntan lotion because you're just a what uses hold on a second of all. I need everyone in this room to try fucking light. If i hear one on any of this i'll lose my shake. Go like three quarters of the way you know jack ass nice. That's that's bob bob because he's on his team in the mood. They'll keep going keep going keep going. This is worth it <hes> <hes>. I remember this back a little bit more money. I think you should be working at the snack bar. You better relaxed. Bob is no bad hockey as you are at. Let's go the peace you. I want the whole home. Mhm goose dab on it up for bob barnes and you stop it. No uh-huh. Oh no bob doesn't gabby. Oh shit still going now. You've had a in the legend climate. Just that just brings me right back new car from some some people say that's me. That was a fight with bob. Marquette is oh. It's me logan to sell you something. We have a sponsor from our friends over. 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Just don't don't leave your resort because that's got picked pocketed. They warned me it was a girl wasn't like violence. She was like dancing on me and she pickpocketing me anyways back to the episode. I couldn't help but notice when i was entering this podcast that you got four boxing in the back of your house in real life yeah so like are you shadowboxing like are you like are you now. If i yeah i mean because in your house i try to fight mom been like. Are you like are you. He just be like wake up like you know i wanna fight on the phone today. Pull up to the career. Could you know have you ever seen an arena filled with with people. That's what i'm saying like. But do you like kick your home's assets here though no homeys because i liked that okay strangers and sparring partners yeah so you just you go like like fine like random. Sparring partners or coast does does yeah yeah and i. I have this rule that i can't. I can't be friends with them like i can't know them and he's piece. I can't talk to my sparring partners because like if they're like hey by the way. Did you have a good day and we start talking. We start conversing forming a friendship. I can't yeah yeah we have a boxing gym boxing in the backyard and we trained. We trained hard trainer for the internet rove. That's in that imagine if there was a second one row ross imagine there has to be one. What do you mean. Is there any news on yeah. It's happening <music>. We have a date tomorrow nah. I'm i'm a professional so we don't read. It may take pictures like this with your fist up now. We do it at their fire. I'm going to download actually. I'm going to the years all the boxer. They do this in like pictures so you actually you're gonna look like a man compared to the last fight photos. He looks like a grease. That looked like it was a combination of a the. The hair looks like he's on. He stopped luke the quite literally quite what you'll say with the beard ye-ye-yeah he's got what he has hold up. I looked like a stunning. These among why would we transfer is taken seven minutes download damn. I didn't plan on showing these shows. I'm also say like i looked fucking. Good good and so. How did it feel like winning a fight boat so we have women a professional keeps saying visit with no. It's just like crazy. 'cause i never wanna perform of how sorry but my record is. Oh oh don't red light me for that. Record is also no wait fucking time and it was hi. How are you troll level thousand right. No no no no no. I honestly down i really didn't you realize that until you just said it was a draw. Do you guys think you'll do like zero. Loss now would save you a little bit technically but it is a a window what laws we still talk gray area. There's merchandise. It was championship merge yeah what she wore for. Your betting shot like in like by in a draw is is that like so so if you if you draw the odds are significantly higher. Our fight was sixteen to one odds. I i've been betting on sports a lot recently. I i might have been in pre-game yeah for sure. I've never won a single sports talk. Yeah every single one to why is that why can't why can't i get anything that might have something to do with the fact that you don't know anything about sports and so when you all and so when you bet on them like it's quite literally. We're gonna have a conversation. This is just about the x._f._l. Dylan tried to inspire it and i said. Do you know what we'd have to do to logan. Get him to talk about the x._f._l. Among goes what's the x._f._l. Knee i literally just read what about this looks like on your face to winners is what it is. I'm right <hes> to to okay technically are like i got my handwriting shows shirt. That's two winners because two losers. Their hands will be two people. There's got their channels hacked at the same time. I look at their faces. Races like looking logan joked. I'm by the way i'll be. I'll be there again <hes>. I'm gonna be a little beefier. This time. I man i can't i can't say too much. How come on by the time this podcast come out comes out. There will be some announcements. The podcast saw case you have a date for the announcement yes. Can you say that in a straight sent. Oh no no no date for okay. I can't say anything in my hands are tied to even say that now having contractually contraction we can't make any announcements about the announcement to the announcement date or that. It's two days after this podcast. Yes y'all can't so there might not even be in announcement yeah control. You guys control troll. This could be a troll right now. I'm the king the king announcement. If there's going to be an announcement about the announcement i dunno. I lost you at the first in these. These picks are downloading car. I got a question want pictures the download of the board of the best moments that you had on the show l. on which show <hes> korean house corey <hes> corey houseman it was was don't i just got to you know everyone thought thought i lived in the house. I was gonna say you didn't know disney can't afford that but <hes> we had a really expensive. I got invited to the white house. <hes> <hes> by president bush got to meet president bush and go to the white house and then like the game me this really cool tour and then like the one of the tour guides stopped me and was like joe. Oh oh my god like all the little kids that come on the white house tour like ask about wishaw every day. Like how do you know but she said that she used to get white house. Tours and kids used to ask you know. That's why we're scoring worse. I thought you lived there ever w he was to bro. I will tell you know here's why most people i've ever met my entire life but that was after his presidency. Yes so i mean he's said third his favorite thing. I told you this. His favorite thing to do was meaning. That was one favorite thing to do. In the whole world is to clear brush. He loves to drive around his ranch and clear brush. Its favorite thing to do okay favorite thing. Pull up on some brush. That's overrun a roadway. An open yup old rake did he by chance do it with a saif. Have you seen this painting. Has anyone seen anyone site. Even if you have four pictures up here and and one of you can say i couldn't even grim reaper dude labor all nice. I kinda like this. I mean this is crazy. Cross craw stick look this. Is that what you said bush loves to do. This is what this is. What is the president does not being president. Can you turn the sound also make the sounds where in this manner his sites. Maybe what who who would love to do this yeah he he's not. He's not even good at it. I saw that good feel obligated to to show you guys like a dude. Who's actually i swear to god some of these shows. Oh here we go look at this motherfucker bro killing me getting forms shit. Let's get you could imagine clear in a whole field like this. This is how the may crop circles. The aliens come down. I know how i think they don't. They use flat flat bread. I didn't i thought maybe they from olive garden. They flatten them. I i really hope that aliens have more high-tech sites than best use lasers because their sites and just make some circle question. How the fuck do we get talking about sites in my fault on the shell it was when i was gonna say. Have you ever seen george bush's paintings are they talk highly credible. They're incredible. Never seen snow george bush george. W bush is a nominal martis uh-huh peyton putin time he painted off and that's edible so so accurate but at least we know where his mind is like robert downey junior. I mean he's right on point traffic the paintings yeah. This is great segment. Don't show the name of god. That's what pushed me bro. My god literally exact it may maybe that's what he painted bro. That's it it makes so much sense from predator. This just feels like one of those things chris rock yeah. This is just this stuff is great. Dude no ohio. Thank god knows. There's this one. There's one painting of like somebody in a shower and when that went live it just kind of like it was concern. What are we doing. Jim donlan came. John never know these this. Is that thing you do after you retire because you're bored like i said it before woodworking. I'm gonna make this is your thing. Those bowls are going to be pricing no matter how shitty they are because you made it yeah. That's the thing someone's art. That's going to be real pricey because it's actually pretty good as jim carrey's kerry. Jim carey's art. Oh never see now now i have. It's actually don't. I've my after retirement thing planned out what i'm going to build the boats in the bottles. Were you stick the thing in my grandpa did and so did mine and that's what inspired me and i'll also say on that point quickly. There's no shadow ever do and here's why because i can't sit anywhere for more than five seconds at a time and yet a boat and a ball. Do you know how long sit there with a little a little thing. Have you ever seen n._c._i._s. gives like diaw seasons. He was building about in his garage so i want to talk to patients man. I don't have the patience. I i'll miss gill bowls. Though i'm like bulls all day long shellac woodall tony. You're going to be up in the mountains somewhere meditating. I held the have mahoney with me though go running around the debris. You're gonna it's gonna be good. I see food related actually in real life. I'm living off the land. I want to be a chef say. Do you have a plan like ideal like a hobby side hobby so really just like set up like events <hes> <hes> i just partnered with this app bender which streams live music performances so basically like you know i just know a lot of artists and musicians in general so i'm just gonna help facilitate getting them and you know we migos just a juice world's business just transitioning into different businesses says as well as just having fun and i'm going to do a podcast start a major. What's what's it called. You guys inspired me. Let's go you know <hes> <hes> so industry is a billion dollar industry now. I didn't even know that he's ever own secure that bread coercive in in course if i was thinking they could be like like cory and people's houses like i just like paul logan paul. That's dope go through his house. Just he shows cribs but with me like how like you know what i mean like i like that. That's like something interesting. People like that segment because because you went in your house you went in your room and you're like welcome to the maverick raw arumugam to my roommate's room and like every other youtubers like anxious did did music over purple. I literally to my crib. I have a couch. You can't sit on it. Oh because it's only really for my launch put my can't sit on it like literally went through a worst house room in the house. It smells bad. It's a little just weird yeah. You guys just self-deprecation hot. It's so hot hot summer which summer over the female rappers that are female rappers coming out. There is that's that's. It's that's cool to me. Man dope rizza rizzo risk orissa's dope. What about my that's. That's why she's throwback but she's still alleging like you know what i mean like. She's still be dropping. His cardi's like the mcqueen card is the queen like sweden dope. City girls are on fire. I had a whole season of the rear an answer. These pictures no battle. We've been really way not waiting for these. Here's a good one. Let's see this whole kasai's about screech out. Excuse me and look i'm. I'm looking meet here though bro. You re brothers missing now. Here's another one just in case. That's your face. When you get another draw the dubs i mean your own boxing gloves. Yeah real maverick. I'm ask you on the show what's up. What's emerged which i want some maverick. I can hook it up. Got hooked up especially see this sexy thing. I'm like moved up eighteen year old. Come on your body's a young and spry. I missed. I misspoke rocky vibes. Yeah i got i got you on the merger. We gotta merch room. That has been turned. Turn into a bedroom of room for overpopulated in the house. That's why i tried to depopulate. I remember remember the day to day. You're like i am going to be moving out. I was like perfect. God thank god is great. We're overpopulated away. Dude is just overwhelming. That's great. W both kind of eh. That's why i want to move. It wasn't an announcement. You know it's like yeah. It's not a big deal to me. I'm just moving on up. It does suck because there was no like there's there's no period where i was like. Oh like what i was able to come to terms with it. I came home and another vegan had already moved down literally replayed. It's my neighbor like it's my neighbor and mike back and i'm so used to spend like quiet vibes. He plays and you're at eleven pm nyami magnon. They're like loud as long is hard. He's got a he's got a cool things of all of us his boss wall. You definitely couldn't cope with that period but now there's a dog in the house. That's having its period. Were you the runner up on dancing with the stars. Yeah man it was rigged with that was going to be so mad. So uh-huh kidding isn't that right is it knows narigc start asking you that though ridiculous the little rigid yeah now i lost man like you know i came in second place. You know it's all good. I really should have won the like. If i didn't make any mistakes i just never got ten from lynn. Which is one of the judges this season now. That's real yeah. I think it's happening. God who got it. I mean what the fuck is going. Oh what's her name again lacey macy's schumer. How do you know that i just saw i act off the top. What did you think about why. We're gonna talk about that. Not take care that your manages dancing with some other star night. It was a long. You're not still pissed about the stars. She was the star now. Mike knows who she could talk and mad smacked. All the contestants just like that was good morning america so i wanna start off today by saying fuck all came into fight lost to jennifer gray a lot of money. That's her name is how her whole bottom half is great but it's cheating because she he was on dirty dancing. That's like someone like from high school musical winning chicken the bat he's not he's the one who rigged the i was just thinking cheese the reasoning place and and that trump won the presidency in the back like y'all got putin online to dude. What is she laid. If you're saying you gotta reach out what is going to reach out a good chance he watches the show one hundred percent dylan hold up the science six times sean spicer sean spicer spicer. Who's gone on sean spicer. Is this really happened. Look this up right now. Ray lewis is going now. That's ray. Lewis is one thing louis louis joe all he does. I'm not gonna say short sean spicer muscle press guy for trump and he is eight show <hes> you gotta see this red states love dancing with the stars this guy yeah but even red states on spicer he he was the press secretary that would come out and be like trump dumps save up. We'll see what he meant by c. You press yes. That's the problem with you press. Hey so you want to know if the shows rate if he wins israel's yeah there were six big years for for dancing with the stars and you pull up s._n._l. Sean spicer really quick you know type it and then make a decision based on it so you can idea of who is get the video melissa this. This is the one of the best things. I got hit with another add. Come this time in my life has yet to premium dopamine. Google google preferred fine. Please hook it up with you to premium. Come on sali's talk much. Is it nine bucks dude. That's a lot guys. Gotta hook us up. That's not have commercials yeah white house briefing press secretary sean spicer. Oh my god this is accurate the suit eh go go down a little bit of the part where she wheels around on the podium into the crowd. You know this but you could could you. Could you dance with no gel questions. Act you okay that crazy thank new ooh. That's good all right right. I wonder if we'll get to a point where it'll just become so much about entertainment in politics that we just don't take it seriously at all. I'm sorry i'm sorry. Are you serious right. Now or you do not have not been around for the past two. I'm saying like to the point where it like. Literally is like the queen of england she doesn't do anything. It's just literally a shower actual. The last show doesn't actually do yeah entertainment. You sure the cleaning on that snowpack. She has no power. She's a she's yeah. No no no no. It's it's okay our but it's not like government like she's making law says she doesn't make a decision in parliament she can. She can influence the par. All i'm sure she was he the money. I think it's more of like a <hes> i don't. I don't want to offend people's. I don't know but like i think it's more of like a tradition like it's not really. I think that they have some type of what what do you have anything she had to say. The right has to remain strictly neutral respect to political matters unable to vote or stand for election action. However majesty does have important ceremonial informer role formal roles in relation. I think she does have the ability still to declare war it. That's all she has everything. That's probably pretty good in practice. Therefore the power to declare wars exercise is by the crown. I e government rather than the parliament however the u. K. has over the u._k. Is not declared war since world war two their children that's eggs with the be and trump is yes but if you mother you try. She's probably got a just war. Yeah yeah like if somebody comes n._b._a. Tastes like ass having the power to declare war on by the way british the british fucking dudes like i know we talked about a lot about seals and rangers. That's s do those. Dudes are so close as a top supposedly the our place better than seals an rangers on the list of the elite with warfare. That's interesting interesting sure. I know that this is what is it six. Six got like some elite people to double seven like that movie has been around for a million years. I think he's gonna keep going forever. Yeah i think so. There's a couple of franchises like that. Why hasn't there there'd been another move known houdini joan joan of copperfield <music>. Who's the guy who's the guy who explores tombs and shit to jones. Is there another harrison ford back. Everyone's like are you just know offers priority round or chris brad yeah those two different different two different things to the movie running away from the giant rock as it goes dancing harrison ford is still alive is a miracle why because he's like crashes plane like like mall in real life folk flies. His own plane crashed onto a golf course and survived it by the way by the wayside. No i will never must have a parachute on in one of those small decec- go on twitter playing once a week on twitter. Blah blah passes away small plane crash cresa way. Wait a weekly like a big boy play dale earnhardt. Go down yeah very dale. Earnhardt died on on the track. Dr juniors pain joe at do i die. No no no no no one was hurt but it was like a big like a new playing whether they're in the crash my favorite thing on on like a runway or where the crash on the runway six harrison ford well wait what since when is here's the japanese siberia bombers right he was driving mustangs from fucking crash cash bond the titanic literature crass marks. He was only going like twenty. Three era was driving down broadway. It sure has to crash a plane to butter down a plane and survive it yeah but he was he combing. His copilot is two bruce seats in there. I probably be fluid. They're like yo. You realize the last time this was flown was one hundred years ago. This was fixed after being crashed in pearl roll harbor to look at look up. John travolta's plates mother fuckers are crazy the role bro he airport. He basically has turned his criminal. Airline hurts massive that look at that point <music> out. That's his house his house at the airport terminal. Why that's why whenever like that's why when we're where. Where did you take off he fly he has the data showed the plane dude. That's why whenever celebrity start to flex their like. I got this new paddock bro. John travolta has a fucking seven having trouble. He's got one of the cessnas though look he's got. He's got one of the fucking tiny little cessnas well. That's good. That's bad bro terrified. It was yes dangerous lane. That's like seven minor. Okay so okay so remember we talked about on the last episode dwayne johnson and turning ninety million dollars. He was paid lesser. What about john travolta. How much money was this guy making that. He can afford these like like that. That's a that's a forty to fifty million dollar plane and the one to the left the bigger one the medium size probably ten to fifteen a and the other one's probably three to eight so how can how can he has an actor have a compound like this. I'll tell you because he's got more movies than that. He's getting he's getting twenty five million fiction i'll do he's. He's got he's probably making ten twenty million off royalties every year when they retire bow their retirement and they're they're good. They're good movies one hundred seventy million. That's that's all you need to do all that. I mean listen to what you just call. Now you call million play stony plains and probably like any got. He's probably a million and you can probably get hookups on planes to if you're wealthy like if you've got cash money doodo put your plane on my story for five million yet drako his plan for free yeah what what so what was i don't know how he he he's. The thing is mainly drake yeah. Is that like literally. I mean the whole conversation like he's drake. Who who's the airline who does that. Who gives a hell of an ex. I think they had an extra seven forty seven laying around extra a seven what aspro near lows the story with does he acts is actually his play. Now i i or is that is it like a lease. A free lease seven sixty seven three hundred f jet costs over two hundred twenty million dollars away on your on those ballparks travolta no because that was that was seven. That's a big drop it fedex package. It's like used any decorated as like a nineteen casino. I don't i don't wanna bring this up again. I posed the question. How many how many just do you think the beatles had a new many they have. I don't want him but the thing is back. Then you could buy jets now james brown had a jet with the names of his songs written on it in the look bro all that said chris brown note his round james brown zsa. He has like the names of his hits. The first african american to ever own jet was james brown bro. He was doing like big back when like nobody nobody was doing big bro. He had a jet with the names of his songs written on the side of is a jet the ultimate flex back then it with their like like but you can see like if you look at like the song is other like james brown production. He has like signs on the door. Yeah i think it is spent events i think i don't know if there's a is at the moment where like when you see this. At this time in the world yacht yacht might be a bigger flex because you stay on ah for an extended period of time doesn't go as many places well. It also depends on what size yard because that russian oligarch dude his yachts are what like three or four hundred billion yes there was. I think he has a billion to. I think he might have a coastal billion dollars. Yeah pro you know how much it costs to gas up those boats. Oh yeah oh yeah. That's more expensive than the plane. Yeah like to gas those giant yachts so expensive so expensive wall. You're spending one hundred thousand and you have to move it out of the wait for hurricane season. You have to no no no choice yeah. Do you have to move it. Five hundred sixty million by the saudi arabian five ninety ninety for geffen daiki david geffen as a five hundred ninety million dollar yacht david geffen the owner of geffen records. Where's my invite off off crazy hundred ninety dollars if we picture up is that serious there's no way geffen open records and what is that how hundred million ridiculous univer n._c._a. Bought his company would stop and then what you need this picture ah ninety universal get a billion. Yes hold on this. Is this is in ugly yacht aw ugly ugly up come on guys l. but but listen i mean it wouldn't be the first one i copped if i had my versus sure her but it's not it's not the worst one another thing. Oh sorry go ahead my math. Can you imagine that that wouldn't even be big enough to be a dinghy thingy on the i was talking about earlier of russian oligarch roman abramovich one point nine billion dollar american u._s. the u._s. dollars ars one point nine billion dollars russian billionaire. It's called the super yacht eclipse. It is it is the name like that has got all this thing. You can literally feed the world for like three months with that money. Oh my god. It's like a real cruise ship. Oh my god you can't even pull that thing all the way in the regular helipad on the front. I've yes i've read about the defenses. This thing has in russia is just cruise around the siberian whatever the black gay could shoot down one hundred percent some important personal mike hot. It's one of the richest people in the world. This reminds me of sasha baron aaron cohen when he did when he played the guy in his new so good. Have you seen that one where he sells the yacht to like that was incredible. Love elsevier best listen. Let's let's let's wrap this up into audio only yes. It's like this but it's audio only kyle bro. Thank you for coming on the show for real. Thank you man man. Thank you for having me man gang. John de masi on everything and my youtube is dropping soon in fact stand to look for that until that subscribe to this channel see you next time audio only about an itin steak easy. Ooh you're my only only my audio are pull up now. You know what i'm saying you release amusement. I spit fire nylon the arse i mean we gotta be oh my uh-huh. It's audio only okay not as be any different. That's all we got all. We got <hes> what you mean a v._c._r. In the world now this is it the same be for literally the only be we had. I only be we got. I'm gonna make y'all be our give it to you. As long as it's exactly that dan yes we <hes> y'all. Were you friends with cameron boyce yet. I wouldn't necessarily say we were friends but we are bumped into amanda. You know just being a disney kid you bump into <hes> obvious disney events and stuff like that but you know he was he was a he was a good do man that's i i. That's that's so sad. I i hate people that young and they pass away like right especially because he touched he touching entire generation seeing all his friends post about how how good of a human he wasn't sure sounded like he was killed. I i didn't like every time i saw him. He was just like a cool just literally. Just you know what i mean like a cool kid yeah. You just saw life right. He tied with any <hes> like super tight with any <hes> your co-stars back yeah. I talked talk to madison pettis often <hes> i talked to dylan and coast browse all the time. Oh no way <hes> happy birthday goes out today. It was their birthday that was like a couple of a couple of days. Yohe these boys are killing yeah man those my boys these boys are asked you know their their era forever. Yeah yeah yeah well. They went to college. They went to college which i thought was odd to and dylan's i wanna college. She went to college. They killed it. <hes> they came out of there with <hes> wind business. Don't want mead yemen's me right. I might be pronounced zero. I don't know i think i think it's a matter meet me yeah but dylan's dylan's in the know. Those boys are up something yeah. Oh yeah they're calling and maybe it'll be like kinda like the one hundred million dollars property with the kids. Get it for one hundred well. We sold cases seven meeting in san antonio drake and just get a free hot dog. They're they're both slaying <music> slaying and they're both like dating supermodels or the one is dylan's dating supermodel kohl's dating his co star lily lily reinhart from so messed up when you say supermodel. It just makes whoever afterwards sounds not supermodel. That's the reality of the situation remodel auto yeah. He's dating a human a regular model. No no what separates a model from supermodel is there is a mattress. It's a high fashion runways. Yeah i've seen that one. I would say like it's an algorithm. Whoever whatever model goes international and is internationally known for being a model is so like wolpe like swamp supermodel. Would you say because his campaign with dolgin cabana bano no that's not the stabilize career would be known for that. That's still was pretty dope though dull 'gabon sick sick. I look at naomi campbell. She's only known for being over acting morada. Yes you know what i'm saying. Yes she yes. She's a supermodel the motto on what's the one i forgot her. Name is a law now. They're all popping on who ambrosia those are like the older ones. Uh we only naming story see what's happened. <hes> like i just know victoria's secret models and playboy models just from my being around that mentioned stuff so i don't really like does that upset you you in your resting bitch face bitch and you just you're cool with it so like right. Now you really happy girl. We don't how does that gone. We actually used to live at the same condos and then we were actually both dating someone else in the time. Just kinda put us together. It sounds like yeah sounds. Exciting part of it wasn't it wasn't any wasn't any foul play. No there's no it. It was just so happy like it just like the timing is happening just so happy that you guys both broke up with day before four minutes earlier. They sent the tax yeah todd. Let's go james brown that that was not the case but that's how you know what i mean any days. If she's just gets on your nerves all the time i get all the time to us. Oh so that's great you know equal like you know but i love her to death like i wouldn't want to spend my time with anyone else. Giraldo right angel and i are really really not on good terms right now. I don't mean to cut you off. I literally fucked up girlfriends. Laughing is because my mom's name is age. Talk on bad terms for this. We're like what the fuck. How does he need. This is research sir my crazy fucking my mom. Would that's the ultimate thrall oh. I told the girl i was talking to recently you all know who she is and as i said i said you know what i'm gonna do. I've made it a bucket list item. I'm gonna i'm gonna fuck your mom. Wow that's not exactly how that just got delivered because we're like four and a half hours depot podcast and right out he he thousand thousand every you know what i'm gonna do them in a fuck your mind wait what who just sat does. He told me she took. She told me she told me it. She told her mom holding watch. I just started leaning back relaxing. I had a girl recently here. I i like her good girl and i think everyone here especially daddy my innocence in those who are talking about and i told her straight up. I'm gonna fuck your mom. I was off they do that could ruin their relationship for about a dude. He's not uh-huh. I'm not laughing because i see the comedy here. I really don't deliver gonna ruin that relationship mom forever yeah. That's that's the point she she's. She's an evil bitch. Oh oh oh elliott it was almost like the delivery guy that came to your house every day and through the newspaper soft lender steps and then one day you open the door to reach down and grab the paper and he had it in his hand. Any face started pouring all the boy. I know spencer you're crying right now but i want to hear why why release angel about the among mum about today's a great day jeff dude just living with a girlfriend and when she's on that you know that time mama gotta be careful you gotta y you like upset right now. She's like you know. We're just settling in the apartments kind of messy. I'm mike i'm a what what about it's messier and she's like well. The coffee table book organize yeah okay. That's two minutes to fix a desk. Space over here needs to get real. That's another three minutes. Max and there's a couple of dishes in the sink again. That's probably three minutes. We're talking. We're talking twenty minutes right now so she. She's just a little you know she's on. She's on edge. I want you brought. I need please stop. I have to learn how to just like when you start living with someone you love you. Gotta just take a couple of shots that chest ask more than a couple of shots. Oh yeah yeah you gotta take daily shots because bullets. Sometimes you want to say something and trust me. I do say somethin' thin and right after i say i'm like just put me in the hole that just put me more in worth saying for sure got it takes. You know it's funny. 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Heartland Newsfeed Radio Network: Wrestling Observer Live (September 2, 2020)

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Heartland Newsfeed Radio Network: Wrestling Observer Live (September 2, 2020)

"How's it going everybody Bryan Alvarez here on wrestling observer live. We are here every day Monday through Friday noon Pacific three eastern Sunday's re Pacific six Eastern. We had lots to talk about today everybody. As, I'm sure you're well aware if you watch the an exte- show last night. I know everybody is is fixing to hear me go crazy. Maybe you will maybe won't what a teaser for the next. Segment here on the program but we got a lot to get into besides last night's Synnex t finish tonight you say W, they are unopposed on Wednesday night although I guess we'll find out the plan was for an x t to run their replay of last night's show on sci. It's possible. It may air in the USA Network Slot as well. I'm not actually sure at this exact moment, but eight W is running with a first run unopposed show tonight. It is there go home show for the pay per this weekend. So we'll give you the lineup for that. We got the ratings for raw on Monday yesterday we had a fellow Colin and his job was to defend raw. What did you like about raw? Tell me why I'm wrong. Heater find job. What everybody else think. Well we'll tell you in the raw ratings here. Today gave Polski has retired from booking and promoting independent wrestling. He issued a statement here today with a final look at his stats as an indie promoter and I know there's a lot of people I've read all sorts of people that have said negative things about policy for this reason or that reason but Gibson Polski was a very very. Very, influential independent promoters especially with the early days of of ring of honor and my God. If you watch INEX- today, I mean annexed t today is is basically ring of honor in the early two thousands, matches and big moves, and and anyway, we could talk about that here today plus his statement, and we've got some notes on Rene Young. There's a new impact world champion Eric Young. Champion of impacts, lots of thoughts on annex t last night, and in my highlight of the day final segment of the show, we're going to be joined by the deer wolf himself. Jay Black. It'd be very interesting I guarantee that back in a moment of his life. In. The show Brian Alvarez here wrestling observer. Live Mixing Privy. Also wrestling observer DOT COM people salivating. About this exte-. Review about to give right here I don't WanNA disappoint everybody but. I'm just going to cut to the chase. I was told the finish of this match last week before it was taped. And Of. Course I was told before it was taped. So there was that part of me all week dot. Come on. There's no way but. I knew what the finish was going to be like ninety nine percent. Sure. Knew it was going to be. So I've had a week. To get over it. and. When I, when I read yesterday. That the spoilers were out. and. Then like everybody was was arguing about whether they were real spoilers or not. I was like man, they actually did it. They actually did it so. I was prepared for this for seven days. So. I watched it I knew what was coming And then that was it like if if I would have been watching this show live. If this would have been a live show. And they would've had me sit through a one hour match only for a tie. Yeah I probably wouldn't even be able to do the show today but. I was prepared for it, and so I don't have the passion today. Now, we'll say this I got a few things to say about this. I guess we can start with this yesterday when we were reviewing the shell. Going over the card. And I did not know the finish. I did not know the finish to Brazilian go and swerve Scott Versus Llegado del Fantasma. But. I did predict on the show yesterday exactly what that finish was going to be. I said, swerve, Scott is going to pin FANTASMA. Now why did I predict that well, because it was the most preposterous thing that they could have done, it was the thing that made the least amount of sense because if you recall, they did this match on TV a couple of weeks ago. And Tyler Breeze got pinned. So Tyler breeze gets pinned. Resemble immediately gets put into a tag team number one contenders match they win, and then they go onto win the tag team titles. It was ridiculous. But as I explained, there were extenuating circumstances they realized that they were losing. The team champions and they had to get the belts off of them did already taped. So that's why that happened. Okay but. The Swerve Scott thing. Where swerve. Scott's team. Loses. This leads to him getting a title match for the singles title. He loses the title match. And then they booked the six-man again and I was like well, of course, he's going to win because the most nonsensical thing and of course, that's exactly what happened. So yesterday on the board when people talking about this spoilers I did go on there and I said. This this finish tonight is par for the course of late in Annex, T. and. It's true. I understand that this was a Tuesday show. It was a different day. and. They felt that they needed to do something really big to get you watching on Tuesday. and. I understand that last week they were under the impression that there would be another week or they would be preempted on Wednesday. Which I actually don't know if they're preempted on Wednesday next week I don't think they. Are I, think I think they could run Wednesdays if they wanted to. But anyway, they were going to have two weeks of Super Tuesday, and so they figured well, we'll do the big match. Will have an indecisive. Finish. And we'll do the actual championship match on the following Super Tuesday. because. We need people to be watching those shows. We need a hook we need something to get people to watch on Tuesday because it's not the normal night and when you think about it, that's great. I mean that's that's that's a smart idea to try to have a big match two weeks in a row. For chosen out of their normal time slot. But. Here's the problem. This booking. So week to week. It's so shortsighted. That when they found out that they were going to be on Tuesday two weeks in a row. The only thing that they could come up with was well, we need an indecisive finish in a one hour iron man match. And then we'll give people the title match the that's all they had. Now I know people hate comparisons to to a w but with AWS had fighter fest coming up, which was a two nights show. If you recall correctly, fighter fess was going up against the great American Bash. Do Remember the cards that we had for the fighter fest and the Great American Bash going into them well, before that two weeks even started we had a full card for the first night fighter fest and we had basically a full card for the second night of fighter fest. What did we have for an xt? Well, we had like two matches for an T and we had zero matches for week two. Because it was week to week booking. They couldn't get you a card for the second week. So my point is. If there was foresight put into this booking. If. They weren't constantly sitting there and reacting to what was going on with a w at competition. If they weren't constantly reacting, they could just do Nice long-term booking and they would have something for this week and they would have something for next week and they wouldn't have to do what they did because. Let me tell you something. Do you know ballsy it is. To advertise a sixty minute four way ironman match for the next title and make your audience unopposed night sit there and watch for an hour only to not give them finish and rush off the Air Tino ballsy. That is. And it's not ballsy in a good way. It's madness. As I said I was prepared for it but you know what? A lot of people weren't prepared for it and they they were promised something and they were given something that by the way yesterday I saw list of recent w iron man matches going back quite a ways actually and there have been four or five draws in iron man matches, and in pretty much every single one of them you immediately do sudden-death and then you give the fans what they paid for. But Annex. T. then. This is partially in storyline. William Regal completely incompetent GM. William Regal signed a four-way ironman match apparently in storyline not even considering the fact that with four guys, you could get a tie. And then he started the match at fifty nine minutes after the top of the first hour. So you'd have exactly enough time to run the match without in overtime. That's what this guy did in storyline in storyline it's incompetent at for fans watching at home they think that the company screwed them. Now. I would like to very quickly put over all four guys in that match I mean as I talked about on on a show a couple of days ago. They showed up on Tuesday. thinking. They're just coming to tape a couple of days television and also they're told tomorrow. Next week. Not at the next takeover tomorrow, you guys are going to wrestle nonstop for an hour in front of nothing but the performance center students. Up at they were thrilled but they did it they went out there and they worked their asses off and if you look at Johnny goes twitter yesterday I think every single one of them new man we're GonNa work our ass off for a match that people are GonNa be really mad about afterwards. That's what that's what these four poor guys went into the ring knowing the fans are going to be really mad even though we busted our asses for an. Hour. So I do want to put them over every single one of them was great. Every single one of them look good in the match the the word technically was fantastic for an hour but unfortunately as usual, all of their hard work has been overshadowed by fans upset about the finish and the fans have every right to be upset about devoting an hour of their time to an iron man where they're promised a new champion and then they don't get it. They're ego. Thousand Nine, hundred, eighty, six, feeling there the Crockett. Promotions are bill lots. You start the match the match everybody wants to see forty five minutes past the hour and then David Crockett can't believe a tony were out of time and there was a a little bit of feeling like that although because of the era where in and because of how fans are conditioned. Yes as soon as I started hearing that people were finding out about spoilers getting very upset it was pretty obvious that something bad was going to happen for a lot of those viewers. All right. We'll get more from Mike after the break everybody observer live. Right over is here wrestling observer live Mexico VP also wrestling observer dot Com sports byline broadcasting network. Twitch Dot TV slash for Leo. And not just the mighty but the mightier. Ten Ninety am Chris all of so cal the dare will be Jay. Black will join us in the next segment. Mike. Anything you want add before I go to the raw ratings. Not really no other than I. Did like the way that they got to the Thai I thought the last you know couple minutes of that match would mean it was really good and I want to echo what you said about the town themselves because everybody kind of jumped on Johnny Gone I. Know that you know he maybe took the wrong tack with his tweet. And made it sound like you know may fans were winding or anything like that but you got to think of the position they were in to knowing they put on a Banger for an hour and then you know the the result looking you do you know that's out of their hands they did what they needed to do and it was it was really fun. Again. You said very ballsy to to do something like that. The only thing I'm surprised you're taking a victory lap about the call about swerve Scott just because. I mean, why should anybody be surprised about that? That should be a whether you like it or not that's always out there for wwe. When they do something, they start feuds with Gimmick, matches with stipulation matches they start feuds with the champion beating the Challenger then go on and face for three three more months or whatever. It's like you know they do this stuff all the time where it's unfortunate but you have to look at the possibilities of when you have a match result that that's going to be something that the new. Second Ron Thunderdome going strong sports competition one point nine, million viewers point five, eight, and eighteen forty, nine down seven percent in viewers thirteen percent in eighteen to forty, nine from last week's raw, which was a post summer slam show and the first show in the thumper the Thunderdome. The. Number still above with the show was doing during the most of the pandemic, they're still well below pre pandemic numbers. Rowan head with the NBA two, point three, nine, million viewers point nine, six, eighteen to forty, nine, two, eight, four, million, one, point one, nine, eighteen, forty, nine for the game against the last ninety minutes of raw big story was a nineteen percent I two third hour drop. Which means that everybody tune did to see the payback aftermath they stuck around for a little while and then they left in droves. So for our caller yesterday the. The good wrestling matches do not keep people because there's. It's three hours and there's a lot of stuff that ain't wrestling on that show or people are just sick of the commercials and the way they place them in the middle of matches like I am I the third hour drops do. You want me to read about something about this. People always get mad at me for being critical of wwe. Okay and yes, it's my job to be. Radio show host podcast host but you know what I am and I been for like thirty five years. Now is a fan of professional wrestling. I was a fan of professional wrestling. I been a fan of professional wrestling my whole life. You show me good pro wrestling today at forty five years old I'm as happy as a clam. Okay. So when I watch these shows. And they do our entrances. And then they ring that bell. And they go one minute and they go right to commercial break. I'm I get so angry as a fan I get. So angry then they come back and they do a little bit of wrestling and then dominic mysterious will make a huge comeback and he'll be in the air in the middle of a dive. And they go to commercial. And as a fan I, sit there and why am I watching this? If this were not my job I quit right now I can't take these commercial breaks. I can't even enjoy the professional wrestling because of where they put these commercial breaks a largely out of fear that people are going to turn the channel. But the irony is the positioning of the brakes makes me want to turn the channel. Just let me watch my wrestling matches for the love of God anyway. Hold on before you go on, I'll just throw in an example of that last night that drove me nuts this is a show. As you mentioned, that was tape last week. So they're already botches or anything like that. They could be easily cleaned up in edited out. Llegado Day Fantasma does a triple van dominator into the corner. They, do that during the commercial break the commercial break. That's the only listen I know that they want to do stuff during the break. So you stick around and watch commercial and come into the picture in picture during the commercial dude I ain't watching picture in picture I'm not maybe everybody else's if you're watching picture in picture and you love seeing a van Terminator whatever during the commercial break in tiny screen and the top upper left hand side you're knock yourself out I ain't watching picture in picture anyway. So. We add two point one, million I our one point eight, eight, million in the third hour. That is a huge I second hour drop. And then one point eight, eight to one point seven zero in the third hour. That's it. That's. Ron Number, everybody. I just want to watch my wrestling is that asking too much like I know people hate me but honestly, honestly. Am I such a bad guy just wanNA watch some wrestling without a commercial in the middle of a hot tag without a commercial in the middle of the he'll getting the heat in my a bad guy for for wanting to see the action and not Keith Lee laying on the Mat with Dolph Ziglar, putting him in a hold but I missed the exciting. Am I a bad guy for that? I probably honestly don't feel like I am. If I am sorry I just want to watch my wrestling had sit. I always like it when the tables are turned somehow during the break in the. The protagonist dissolve a sudden Sucked into Chin Lock you know they they come back from break and it's a rear Chen Locker. They come back from break ins lock or something. It's like you know I don't know the the structure. These things as you mentioned is just it's crazy but this is how they do things against. Talking about swerve with the with the match. You know why? Why they make these decisions in why they go directly opposed to what has worked in pro wrestling and what did for years other than they just never liked what they were i. don't know you know they just because you put your spin on, it doesn't mean it's correct. And I want to talk about this as well. I do not know. Listen very carefully I don't know if this is true. But, I want to address this rumor because it's all over the place today. Anything to the rumor of USA possibly moving in extended Tuesday's permanently. I have to talk about this because I want to make something very clear. If you look at the annex team number. UNOPPOSED NO WAY W okay. And you look at the W. number on Saturday. And I would presume if you look at the W. number tonight with no I run annex t opposing it. It is abundantly clear. I mean this can't even be argued. If these shows weren't going head to head they both would be doing better. I mean is that is that an arguable statement or is that an arguable fact I think that's an arguable arguable. So To me. As somebody who wants to see the wrestling business thrive. These shows ideally should not be head to head. Now. Last night. At exte-. Did their Super Tuesday. and. There was. I watched smackdown on Friday night. and. Thing was Friday night whatever day was anyway Sunday comes and I've got a payback show to watch and then I watched the new Japan strong show and then Monday was three more hours of raw. Might my point of all of this is When when it was Tuesday night and I finished that Brian Vinicio. Now time to watch t and granted I already knew the spoilers for the main event but. House. Like Man Dude I'm not ready to watch another two hours of wrestling. I I. Really Am Not Ready. I need that break between raw and Wednesday night and yes, it's hard to watch T. it's four hours of wrestling on Wednesday nights but you know what I watch back and I had a day off of watching me in between. But as much as I. Think. That these two shows need to NOCCO head to head for the for the good of this business. Dude Annex T on Tuesdays. I don't see this ending well. I, really don't put. This is a fan of exte- although not the booking of late I don't see this ending well i. see this as being just a you know what? We have seen as well. When annex t takeover when they have a takeover on Saturday a pay per on Sunday in a raw on Monday those weeks when they have those three things in a row rod never gets oppose pay per view bump. It hasn't happened in months and months and months because for a lot of fans Saturday Sunday Monday is too much. So. If you start making this permanent on pay per view weekends, it's Friday Sunday Monday Tuesday that Tuesday shows gonNA suffer. There might going anything Oh can I Before I have to hold my thoughts here years what I'll add is. Actually. Go ahead. Kat something quick. Now's your chance. Before the will shows up, I was excited about the fact that you know it wasn't vigorous and we were going to get kind of a Wednesday night battle and go living through the attitude era. You know it was kind of like, okay. We got something here but as the numbers have fleshed out. It's probably better. I don't think it's that bad if they move to Tuesday I think it would be a lateral move worst. I. Really Do I. Don't think they're gonNA lose anything in that and I think it probably only helps a w. the reality is is when you look at the numbers, this didn't push Ra- ton of people into becoming new wrestling fans at least not yet. You know we're seeing basically the same combined total for. Those two shows together equalling out what either are usually not smackdown does but usually now what raw does a little less than that? Maybe we've seen what they've done battling head-to-head now for I don't know how many months maybe it's time to send them to the side. This is not the old attitude era or anything else people can easily dvr watch the shows on demand when they need to. There's no real reason to have that battle anymore. Back in a moment with the dare wolf. PJ black wrestling observer live. Mega this show. Brian Alvarez here wrestling observer alive mixim for V also wrestling observer DOT COM. Very happy today to be joined by the DARE WOLF PJ black. bj How you doing today I'm doing great buddy. How are you doing today? Well, I'll tell you the story here very quickly. My my new weekly ritual is on Friday. I watch NJ P. Strong. At then when the show's over I decide who've I got to interview this week. And then I put it in my request and this week in fact, it was you. I was I was super impressed by your performance on the show on. Friday. Large. WHO Just watched you quite frankly I was so blown away it was you in. Who the hell was it somebody inserts spurred me up owens. That's right. Anyway. The reason was so impressive is because I think that some people know this, but but some people do not. You had to base jumping accidents or maybe it was one but you broke your legs twice. Both. Your legs. And you're in the hospital not for ten days not for ten weeks for ten months. You had to relearn how to walk. You had to clean everything jumped run the ropes whatever he had to relearn. All of that. You were told I believe that you're never going to wrestle again and maybe never walk again. But. If you watched that match with Chase Owens on Friday. It's like you would never know you couldn't convince somebody that this happened. So tell us a little bit about the accident and Your Rehab Yeah thank you. Bye enough the mixture good because you know when this happened in a wheelchair for ten months sites that we learn how to walk and. You know I didn't I didn't think I was GONNA, do it already luckily I, have education and get full back a match you know have backup plans in my head because they told me out. Probably, be able to wrestle again but I was sitting in hospital and I was like you know what? I'm not GonNa, let anybody me what I can and cannot do I know how powerful in binders and you know started searching for alternative medicine like I'll I'll callisto healing. If you will. You know they get a handful opiates in hospital a bunch of drugs and I was like I'm GonNa die I think this. So I went on this path and that's exactly the path that I'm on. Now you know like. Cannabis heads and. It's helping the also right Astute Crazy off the right of all my joints. And I think From years wrestling and from all the extreme sports like it's pretty bad. But Anyway, and now I'm here I'm almost forty years old and I'm in the best shape of my life and I look back to people say that all the time like, wow, what the ring at You could never tell like you said but yeah I'm here now and I'm I'm really stoked and I took it took about two over two years to to get to this point you know I I you know I kept believing and I kept thinking positively everyday people always make fun of me for that. But like it's the real thing, I could definitely different changes your applicant license, you just keep thinking positive thoughts. Forget about wrestling for a minute. What did they say about just walking or anything like that? How bad were these breaks that you suffered and were they concerned that there was going to be any issue forget about any intense physical activity later on but was going to be any every day issues that you're going to have to deal with that they were very worried about. I mean, they said I'd probably wouldn't walk all ever. Again. I've steel plates at a pro probably about twenty seven screws in my right ankle and she look at my ankle you can tell something in the you know because it's about double the size of the other one that. was like ropes and hardware and Platon screws and all kinds of stuff in there and You know what it doesn't hurt sometimes, he'll it and I can definitely feel the screws through my skin. Yeah every once in a while when I take a hard bump lecture like my whole by by. Let's plays vibrate, but it's not painful. One day I'm, GONNA have to remove it but A. Cross that bridge when I get there. You know when you hear about different alternative therapies, there's like cryotherapy. There's oxygen chambers. There's. I mean you mentioned the CBD oil I mean there's there's a million of them. It sounds like you've tried most of them and. I've tried all of. Stem cells. So at the end of the day. After trying all of them I mean clearly something that you did it worked because it's practically it's honest to God is practically a miracle what you do. So what to you was were the most effective and which were the least effective. That's very interesting question I'm actually writing a book about it right now I'm book by Aki many many of them were fantastic for different reasons some less effective but those ones could be affected for other people if while the red light therapies fantastic cryotherapy, I still be till the day every day because it helps with so many other things not just like painting information helps us like wrinkle causes the body to release college in Alaska, sitting, which is good for your skin and your hair and your brain and how soon release the happy hormones like dopamine Serotonin. You know we'll have to actually put you in a in a positive mindset that synthetic that's just the crowds. All the other ones have different benefits. One of my favorite things I've ever done was it doesn't even have a name yet. The duct tape invented based these techniques. It's like rolling you don't are you familiar with role? Yes. So this is a kind of role thing what they do is they pick up the skin between his skin and muscle you have that the fashion and they take up. The doctor picks seniors, any role that. And your fashion stores a lot a lot of things I think that that we my body got rid of so many talk show like it was just flashing out of me like all different colors crazy. But it's only like physically emotionally mental and spiritual stores in Fasha and off of that treatment just like you person and I feel like I have to bring that to to more people in the world so I'm helping to open up the. He's from Canada I'm helping them open up a practice in California and Yeah. Right book about is like now I mean. There's tons of research so it'll probably be out in a year from now but I actually like it's important that people noticed especially athletes and up mystery. Tweaked my need doing Jujitsu, and shortly thereafter words there was like a groupon or whatever for this these oxygen chambers. And I was like what the Hell I'll do five of these oxygen chambers. So I went in. and. It's like you go in for the hour whatever and I would get out and I felt different like the it wasn't like got out and I felt better whatever and so I did three or four of them, and it was like after three or four I was just thinking, God, I'm just like I'm paying a lot of money to breathe the air. But then. Like one day I just. Notice my knee is bothering at all like it was really weird and this would have been way faster than it would have normally healed. So I don't know if it was the the oxygen therapy, but I do remember being really surprised that after doing five sessions of of this oxygen therapy. Did seem like it helped my knee. Doctor Phobia Fantastic Unilever is not. You start seeing results like twenty thirty days but that's again help a lot of things You know ranger easier especially in honesty comcast. It helps stuff like that pain and how a little bit but it helps it does help for a lot of other things in the body to those. those deprivation. Thanks are amazing. Did you do? What did we float in the SALT WATER I? Didn't do the floating one now Okay. And then old fantastic man I promise you and about this. Is the placebo effect you still got better and he still felt Benesova does work and the placebo thing is very, very, very real people people think it's not real but there are many many books I've read like Christine. Books. Figuring this lockdown in. mean the placebo effect that one's funny because it's like if you take a placebo and you get better and they're like, well, it was just the placebo it's like well great. The Placebo worked on me. So I don't care I can have it works. It works what difference does it make whether it was placebo it turns a new psychological drug at that point. And I tell people all the time. I was like be careful thoughts that you think. The placebo effect is very real, but the opposite of the placebo effect is Kobe Nasi effect. So if you keep thinking negative thoughts, those negative things will will influence your life. No quick example if you walk down the street and stitching neighboring like I'm GonNa MOMS I'm GonNa, get you off probably going to get money that's the law of attraction that's how it works. So the right tell people all the time be very careful of thoughts in your mind a little affect your reality. So you had the base jumping accident and correct me if I'm wrong but I feel like there was another accident where like you lost some fingers or a finger or something like that yeah. Lost the piece of my hand. I'm the lady doctor reattached that she said she was going to try usually nine thousand another time it doesn't it doesn't take but some reason it worked fingers will make you. Now the nail took about two years go back to do Rehab on my finger like. Little weights. My finger and the potatoes I can use it now, and again, you probably wouldn't know that I lost it unless you see a scar on my hand. So so the follow up question would be a at what point would some higher power be telling you dude, let let's cut out the base jumping. Yeah. It's funny. You say that my Tell me all the time. You GotTa stop now right now. If you. If you get into a car accident, you're not gonNA stop driving your car. I mean, I know that's a slightly different analogy but you know that's just the way I look at life I'm not gonNA quit something I like dude. I got injured in the ring along stop wrestling. You know these these are my hobbies, my hobbies serious. Risks I. Guess. But you know talking to the GonNa make you hear these hobbies well, sure. But I mean if you were wrestling and you kept doing inferno matches and you kept getting lit on fire at some point, it's sorta like keep wrestling but maybe I'll stay away from the fire. That's true. That's true. Well, I did recently take a paragliding which is much safer slower than base jumping, skydiving a wing shoot and. It's slowly becoming my favorite sport. It's amazing. I can hike up announcing I love being outside. So I out of this parachute. And slide out my head in Malibu like over an hour tastic in Monterey I did like three hours the other day. So. This was your first new Japan strong. I knew Japan strong it might have been your first singles match but. They've just started up again and ring of honor has just started up again, they taped the pure tournament which is to be airing. In September so How long did you take off during the pandemic from wrestling? I, mean was there was the new Japan stuff the first stuff that you did you do anything for this ring of Honor Taping Wrestle for like five months. So my first new Japan show I was very recipe. Actually I you know I watching it back and I, was like, Oh wow I'm actually very rusty. I don't know if anyone else noticed that but it took about two matches when we didn't get back into it, you know I'm usually very active I don't look at the gym as much as most people. Do So oil in the ring. But I, I'm very active always hiking climbing mountains and stuff like to the wind was as it was just a little bit of timing issues but it's all good. It's really good to be back in the ring and I can't wait to the more and yeah, we did the the new Japan Cup I wasn't part of the tournament but I did. I did a couple of tag matches in singles matches, and the falling weekend refill the ring on. Here tournament which I'm very excited about the new set. Looks Amazing. The show is awesome graphics and stuff we filmed for it if his amazing I can't wait till. You see actually. I did talk to somebody there and they just said. This thing is so great like you and fans are going to be really really blown away by by this set of taping. So you're now the second person who has stated this. Yeah I, I. Wish We'd had fans still really weird with NPR. But I think I think it came out great and I've always a fan of the pure wrestling and a purist and you know so I get to show a different side of Tj back I'm. Extremely. Excited about the act you guys. So with the ring of honor starting to tape again I mean, are you still going to largely be a regular for new Japan strong or is it just sort of view to see if they call for the next set of tapings? You never know right but feel like they do like over there. You know office an older backstage guys. I. Still like to do like. Really well there, and they don't have they looking for heavyweights like now. You know I am a heavyweight that just happens to move to cruiserweight. So I definitely think that I can sit in there but who knows So you mentioned almost forty. I? Mean with everything that you've done despite the broken legs I mean do you feel it's a cliche but do you feel like you're in better shape now than you've ever been? I am I am basically my life and it's funny. You say that because so my dad was a wrestler was a professional athletes yet national color like seven different sports. you know. So I grew up idolizing him and he told me between forty and forty four best time of your life because you know you're gonNa have life experience. You'RE GONNA be. You'd be really good at what you do, whatever it is. You're. Going to have more money than you ever she had twenty makes a mistake can spend a lot of money He said, he says, you're GONNA do the best work of your life so and I'm forty forty next year and so far he was right about everything so. We had to break everybody standby back in a moment with more wrestling observer live. In the show Brian Elber is here wrestling. Observer live MC V also wrestling observer DOT, com PJ black joining us here today after not seeing anywhere for a while. Now, he's back ring of honor appear wrestling tournament coming up in September the end jp w strong shows on Friday night and Japan world. Let's get some plugs out for your social media, the shows, etc.. Oh. Sorry. Yeah. I'm very active on social media into T.j Fall Five. the least the youtube cool. Merch and everything will be on the website PJ black dot. And the twitter. The twitter, there will three, three, three, but only league. Media? And everything will be on the website. It's some people. Don't remember like you know there's a lot of space going out around. Yes chapel they'll get catfish. Yes. Get Catfish by the Dare Wolf here the last thing that you want. Well Listen I. WanNA I WANNA. Thank so much from the show today and best of luck with everything ring of honor and New Japan all of your your Rehab very interesting and of course, there's a lot of stuff on social media. Everybody's so check that out and we are totally at a time. I want to thank Mike is always callers and listeners. The studio were here every day Monday through Friday noon Pacific three eastern Sunday's civic six eastern Saturday mornings at ten am and we are out of here thanks for listening. We'll talk to again next time wrestling observer live.

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Breaking the Glass Slipper: Women in science fiction, fantasy, and horror

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"At breaking the Glass Lipa Way believe it is important to have conversations about women and issues of intersectional feminism within science fiction fantasy and horror to continue to do so. We need your help. Please consider supporting us on Patriots. Join the compensation by following us on twitter facebook and instagram hello and welcome to what stands in Bradford has in the fabulous will exchange building. I'm shotgun I'm also guest writer Review Edstrom forecaster and today I'm interviewing RJ. Humanity listens night and the young guys. So what did he starts and restart by timing a little bit about yourself and also write books but not too many spoilers please. I'm Jay Black. The author of the wounded wounded kingdom trilogy the All of the Multi Award nominated which edge of assassins king of assassins nations and blood of assassins. But Not in the holiday. Yeah my name. Is Mike Young. I'm from Manchester and on the author of the loss cuts. It will be a trilogy eventually but at the moment there's only one of the books are under the same a little bit about the novel. This office okay. Say Epic Funds to see thriller about assassins about adolescent assassins kind of Middle Eastern African J.. He's about adolescence. Assassin is to start off with the life of one assessing three key points in his life. The effect the history of the world between the ages of fifteen and thirty five okay. So let's talk a very general question Christian. How did you come up for the lost? Gods and age was options. Did you imagine the clock where you inspired by to kill place or character just hopefully formed into your head. I think for me. I was inspired by play. So when I was about seven years old my family's originally from Nigeria and when I was about seven remember troubling but there as a kid I'm just being really kind of wild by the experience of it just being but the noticed this kind of a soul of light different senses and Kind of thing and I wanted to create create a story that was in that kind of world and that would be able to explode that kind of space and context and so when I started writing I wasn't originally thinking of Ryan something that was necessarily fun to see kind of felt like it was the right tone vibe to be most gods and that's kind of where it came from. It came from my childhood experiences experiences of of his homeland. Basically lots of people being led to shoot people because when we come because ah very angry Nigerian thing. We have the different relationships at time. So Nigerians Jones do anyway. Not You mommy mom you time today. Most of the time about twenty minutes and I had I was meant to be writing science fiction novel. I love the North Yorkshire Moors. I had this sort of image of in my head and the name tired limbs came into my head NOCCO. ooh that civil creative and and then I put it to inside because wasn't meant to be writing then this whole whole story sorry for age of assassins kind of fouled into my mind fully formed with all the people and I thought Oh all right this down in a in an incredibly quick amount of time wrote in six weeks. Well the trilogy which is just the first book officials involved because it was pulling no. I was pumping but yeah six weeks not much sleep. Not much has work or would that all too at your lovely wife. What work off am? I'm having read books books. I'm going to try to structure my questions. Around similarities and the differences I includes with each of them so festive forrester mind particular relevant job. Mica is subject religion region so in my book when they first encounters watch it. It's a world shattering moment. Agyei Windsor Starts Walking Garden. He just takes only stride. So do you want to explain lane. High you'll characters came from such different approaches to divinity but the question. Is that if you read the questions. I have made it something that sounded clever. And this this way you what she made which is ridiculous. Yeah that's why I like me. I kind of wanted this idea the The maybe maybe in these books the God of death is who is the only living God in the world that the older gee maybe he on the existing site gardens head and he's never set in the books. You can take how you whether it's real or not but I don't think there is every moment in the book where where the God has has an effect on the world. That could not actually be Girton words again. There's no reason couldn't be him given what we learn about although personally. I kind of like the idea that isn't a like that's what my favorite sequences I'm from but I like the idea that kind of doesn't think anything of it because it was partly because he he's been he's been raised but this this is he's been raise necessity to him is just this is well. Of course that's real. Also he's kind of somewhere maybe in his mind he knows that that's not real. It's popping the reason I like that I mean mine was very much kind of the reverse approach is what in the what I really liked the idea of of of religion being a thing which will solve like antiquated backwards in that world and it means something that people had already made a decision and the like the idea of the of the main character having to solve question things. I've been told things things I've been told as well growing up and stuff in this kind of thing so yet and a lot of ways that whole the whole the whole spiritual dynamic of it was very much about Nathan being introduced sit and elements truths about the world. He thought were true. But out to be truthful thing so A lights the idea of him up until question his traditions and to question his brotherhood. And all that kind of say okay. So I mean talked about the characters and their reactions but what about the religious putting on the magical systems. How did you go back in the background? So much on nobles you could write a whole pumpkin a maybe you. They'll turn up a couple of times but it's important to have that in the background so by feels RJ dead. I think the clue is in the title of Y'alls my in writing. You know all the rules to know the names and all the histories or did you just come about them in when you need to shuttlers look it up with like. She doesn't know how I ride. No I just made it. There is a kind of idea behind the three books that is very low level but he was one of the central ideas when I rotate this historians. I'm fascinated by history and one of them was telling me that there is a theory. Does as humans move from together societies to more agrarian societies whether weather in cities they moved from Mitchell to patriarchal God's liked the idea of ideas story ins for everyone. When you meet we'll tell you that's the case you're definitely isn't but I'm just protecting my historian friends? Then it gets cold but I likes the idea. And that's kind of the idea with the goat's is that God's would cookouts on that is being put to one side and there is a kind of as as you read three books. There is less female characters in positions of power as you go through because this is a society in transition Russian. And there's a there's a big metaphor which Mika's Meridian Metropolitans good so right. Now I'm trying to think of mm-hmm I think. What was the question again? Project does tend to go. So how do you go about creating your assistant. Da Yes we've well. I didn't initially like for me. It was very much about the main character in Detroit trying to tell his story but as I was kind of going through the love allows kind of felt like discovering or exploring more things about the wider context to the world included in theology and stuff. So yeah I started creating The pumpkin of God's Doctor Appear in the first novel but they will appear in the second novel on this this little hints to them in the first novel but the kind of those. Let's get talked a little bit more in the second book I I'm not sure I based on I don't think really based on anything specific coming base elements of it on some of the things I've grown up with you know from like west African folklore but not in a specific way not lie so wikileak's substitution of God from their weather So yeah there is opponents unit man. I did so think about not not deeply so 'cause you'll God seem to influence the characters bits and the kind of coming in late say help them find the truth in it where it's all J.'s. kind of a bit more. standoffish sergey consumes question. Out that you know whenever they're not sticky situation to find something that wasn't just both and tell them. Do you ever tempted to do that. Did you write it fronts draft in Hong telling him everything up. The SELENA started thinking about creating the Pantheon which also show more in the second book. Aside thinking about having certain rules the laws that would exist between divinity between commodity so that I could kind of hamstring myself from being tempted to do basically the cards are still having to the owners agency to discover what they need to discover being sort of led along a little bit by the go-to vote themselves narrative. So yeah it was. It was a conscious decision. What you actually said that not wanting to just be this bulletin way because Kinda shows up and they can cow situation But still wanted not to be. I still got to be involved in the story as well at the same time. There's not much in your story. Spoilers give it wears in. RJ's Jason have a little bit of Magic to manipulate but it says supplement that you will miss de la. The former that don't use the voice applies to the air. Yeah Yeah Yeah. The there is is a realistic interest. Yeah I'm really wary about much is out jail free card the Scout. Jeffrey cut the mobile ring bookcase. So you have to. You have to engineer for me. No everybody magic. The isn't too powerful awful that they cannot just sort of stuck. Just we're GONNA magic. My way of the has to be consequences being killed by everybody else in deeply deeply unpleasant way trends by I mean Jeez much as part of all lumped in with the gold. It kind of comes out later again so I did want it to be sold. I did want it to be something. That was part of the will but explicit is it clear way where again that would be a cost of consequence to show up. Just I wanted to be phonology. Feels special within the context. The Story Rodney Normal. That's already happening in the world So I very much related to be that the main characters when they encounter magical the encounter. Something a super naturalism. You cut away. That actually feels like the main character as well as just to the reader. So you say okay well. Let's free effect answer. A more human level in combat forms. A large part of your books given able goes in them. Getting assassin Nathan is sort of the Brotherhood in a sense. So what are your tips tips for writing fight scenes in particular. You have different patron writing. Very intense tank combat scenes competitive huge sprawling bucket seats. Yes yes yes the torture I think what interests me in in a battle say is not as blow for blow description which is to me my dull why. I'm interested in what I'm interested in in in any scene it's affected the people so we'd go. And you you have the the fat Ena one on one fight. He's incredibly confident. In credit became Milan probably unbeatable. One on one. Unless you because he's trained. That's only straight today. So you have that sort with confidence and the way the fights open names moves and you go through the move to make pick effortless like that case it's muscle memory. He's not actively thinking about he's going to this series of moves the ability to that. But when you get him in especially in the second book when you get him in very large scale fights whether armies on this particular a couple of recharging and dies nor his thing. He's not trained for that. He doesn't really understand it. And he's Pam wetting the terrified and that's the the emotion that won't get crossing even want what's in the first book that you only really seem. Totally ineffective wants a senior forest. Where what he takes down four or five men like that but he's been pretending to be someone else he could've slipped back into the person here's this killer? And he skies himself because he's he's never thought about what is before and some sort of come to and that's that's what interests me about violence not not making it. Coal Dorrance coal to be really quite pleasant on frightening. That's kind of trying to get across rather than not stopping me. Won't we're sitting together and you don't me my. I'm reading the bottles. Well then. Not so much maxine sometime combat and it's it's not pleasant and it's not nice and realistic queens and things and it's not Qatif everybody loves a real. He's so squeaky before he actually gets quiet squeamish about reading Gore in in books which I find it so hard to believe light reading what you write by the actions. If he's not was be like clear and vivid I didn't I wasn't similar overly about China kind of explain everything that's going to blow for blow in the fight scene so it's very kind of abbreviated or quick because to me the characters are actually doing the fight and they've been trained their entire lives and it shouldn't be something that feels like his is a certain degree of Paphos with it insensitive light fate With Nathan trying to figure out that you just killed somebody up up thinking about it or having any kind of emotional connection to it and there's a certain degree of him trying to figure out whether we should feel guilty. All routes and stuff Consist themselves sounds very cold and clinical just sort of like and quick as well a lot of time kind of kind of felt like that's how it should be for these guys who uh uh since they were kids so I'm Jay from Singaporeans at whereas monkey chosen into right from multiple countries. So I wanted to ask you to why you trays that you find the easy rush from multiple viewpoints making sure you get all over bits in or whether fraud Geno. I know we've been talking about the mystery whether it's easier get suspension guessing games when you read from one viewpoint because something's not hidden so so you could decide that you're gonNA share everything or you're you just GonNa Limited Don. I know it's a big when I start writing number which is going to be so. What kind of made you decide to to do that? I like view. I'm doing some completely different now and it's very close third person but it is still one point of view. It's still follow. I'm not really tempted to go because I like I like to. I like to be able to show you sort of like in the first assassin's book told you is me because you see prince say every review analysis he's really two dimensional mustache twirling. Billy absolutely legit. It's Nice how you're meant to see me. Not because a fifteen year old boy and that's how he sees it and then in the other books you meet him again and and you see that's not who he was an indefinable Chris kind of talk about. Why do I is and I knew that heels? You'll see that by like fat with very close you can read them and then later on you get payoff off. Mike looks down the line. We'll get it didn't see that as cheating. I saw as genuine being mustache. Swelling beginning and then in later books Being having a great depth of character but he because he himself says I was a different person and I think he is so. I'm not necessarily sure cheating aching although I didn't want him standing up style looks I kind of I kind of new windows windows writing in that book. He's it's a martial society and he's overweight. He's short sighted in a society. The Prizes Tau Bose Bose is one of the things you do. And he can't do it. He's a great fighter and it was always on. He's mother terrible but it was always in my head. They've he wasn't the prince he would be the person being bullied gurneys Walker and he knows because he's clever clever enough to and he's frightened an all nothing that forever goal most deeply unpleasant and I like I really wish I thought process is behind it. I think for me I was. I wanted to be able to show the different layers of the world. It's more responses is to be able to explore like you know what's going on in the world The Royal Class and middle class people in with people kind of on the ground in the world as well and stuff. So it's very much doc. Away like different points of view is very much a way to do that but it just kind of crazy so many complications that if I was doing gonNA probably try and stick to one point of view gear for the story. Yeah I've been part of you that you'd be right now shows which is right. The sometimes not even a meeting like throw I. It'll be like it'll change characters thinking no no. I don't care about this personal third. I post it notes. Not your industrial hose told this rubbish. It's definitely not how George I think the job often. He does sort of lots of different places. I got it around the kind of the whole West Austral's ambience. I think Mike Is Yours. Like you say it's very much class as much as an meals. I mean you've got brotherhood and then you go the dynasties just people on the ground the things that and it is they all spread around geographically. But they all kind of as characters not she did. Come come towards the same point the end. But it's much you you joker feet has say plots separates them But obviously since moved on the village to took fat setting 'cause Gettin and he's kind of confined to one area. Well Nathan the other Stu Ranger Labor place so digi use maps to help create much well to keep track of them whether that was continent or in case the castle. They're back again. Do you know my story about I do and that might be. Why are you on line? Fulsome pockets straight. I did yeah because they do some special editions in my book. Hard talks and I and Tom Thomas John Lewis Picture and I think Tom. Let's do a map for the second. 'cause I know he loves doing maps and he said that you have to draw the world out the site will give you some place names and you make even. I had my copy edits time so it was going to edits noting down which way they go on why they go. I found out the Duchy written a book where they moved backwards and forwards on a tiny bell road closely throughout the book never went anywhere finger moving backwards and forwards. It wasn't until I get these descriptions of these these long journeys that that she take to get to places but thankfully told me not to be slack and the map was very useful thing. I'm right now. We check count talk about. I'm going to say exact opposite of this simple which is tiny you geographically thing. I'm right now is massive geographically. It's basically half Thomas Thomas Dumb. We'd like a draft of a map so that I can use 'em Did you not do much of the inside of the castle because my current progress is all centered around castle and I have to draw on figure out when she was in has sleeping quarters. Where did she go to get to the main who'll mainly because otherwise it? She ended up taking several different routes. And in the end I just went. Magic Castle is generally the same and I had to drop out because I couldn't keep only matching. It's only my hands. I'll even go so pretentious Britain as a set of scales and because this whole idea in the first book in the third book used the same format in cash box until the story of the character on the castle the third because it much darker version and that much harder to keep track of in my head. Yeah even getting caught traffic. No we can't which was very useful. Michael What did you have a I started. I started with the well. I didn't start with him out. Probably like very alien that you were they might free afford shops light drama and stuff. Just say no. Oh I can draw A. I wouldn't go as far as I'm an art. It's quiet control a bit but I just signed up for The main palace in in in in the line and everything and the actual lend itself just for the sake of being consistent people around just to make shedding choosing like on the war. Post this as well as stuff. Yeah a little bit. Yeah because I'm initially because I've measurements flat. How long we should take place but yeah there are a few times like this? It's called the festival which is a caravan and I worked. How long it would take to do that? To me. Age Snatches Nation. I never used it but it mccur what it ships on. I literally given up in the first version. It was like Ooh they settled for two weeks in a southeast direction. And he just just we can just they they. They went for an amount of time. I would say of covered this question little bit but you know when you saw it was up to the Jackie Raleigh Rally New the end the Pari Coulter book seven. Even for she'd soft on say. Aren't you written a trilogy. Did you know at the end of sorry when you the beginning of one one. Did you know where he's going to end up the book three and like. Do you have any idea where you're going or you this much. Virginia's them journey Nathan has to be at this point three nine just. It's just seeing whether go so salt lake Events I have seen sometimes ahead and stuff it was like joined the story to But it says the light at dings weather. Carrots is going to turn out. No I did match. We were talking about this of what we didn't expect. Also James Five more professional about this sounds like a lie fresheners fresheners deal saying like when you put into all but you have to do an outline for three books so I had to like the back of the book for two more looks up so I kind of think federal literally said some stuff happens But I knew the entire first book jumped into my head football sitting right now that was and then I knew I wanted to do the books about the relationship between Gutten and who's the and I knew that relationship in any way it would end doc and with them that was always very clear and there are lots of few goodbye can read it. There's lots of stuff that you the first book and think. Oh Oh I see what you did that. But for the plot of each book I literally had no idea I didn't and I had a rough idea for the second one kind of new some new. They might drown big things down on you. I wanted to cover recharge. Yeah because just back back. I knew and you donate okay because you have to know who industry to work out as you go through. But the third book I know I I knew dot payoff for no other ideas. Some cool I the chemist fine. I literally started even like very dramatic opinions at the beginning of the story. A little bit of. Ah The fancy work something familiar giving you what I was fantasies like a hoax. Some some of the few books. Something happens uh-huh very rarely swear charlotte appropriate just coming and didn't expect I'm thinking it's like they said that we didn't spoil it for our audience. We are not going to mention it. Despite RJ doing in stopping stopping should should younger thirty. The question I rj Christian. Should you be law stops. But you see you know Mike you just want to add to our as a Whether or not you have any ideas where the game the characters never lost and things are are no whether stopping and that's we both books so far as much actually no. I know the kickoff play but insensitive light where it's going to end up on how to resolve the I have no idea. I thought was right from Chop Chop from Charleston to chop show. You're trying to be inside. The characters had as much as possible to try to be present with the carrots as much as possible in China figure out. What's what feels a multiple? What felt like the natural outcome says what's happening as a emerges? The story I didn't have the plan ahead of time off the the full plan over across the free books as well. I have little I've if images and I have certain situations seem really exciting to me I'd like to solve gets more But I don't know the I don't know I don't know where aunts it's I just know where the car to stop. Excellent okay one. Last question for through the audience at all the character issue Britain. Do you have a personal some favorites. Because I was thinking about this when I was reading on facebook and someone was asking me about trilogy and I went back. I'm ready again. I'm not really sure I'd be reading. It got got nothing appleby be reading it Fadel. That was that was my assumption. I'd like to read it aloud. I haven't quite decided on. Mike is yet which I liked. The rule of that uh-huh particular character that you just have a little soft spot. I like a dog because he he has has a very interesting journey in the book. I wish listened controversy. The Cure is the first book of really just what you said. Oh I didn't think in kids was writing. That was a complete surprise at this moment in chapter three. Were just oh this. There's much Moscow and adult above it. It's Maryland I think for me. His his master. She's kind of in my head. She is this because I started writing. It was maybe three and she. Is this Avatar thought theus terrifying lying. Parental love she is a very good parent company. When you're bringing your your child to people she is saying to him right? Go Out and make your mistakes but I will be here. No my I will be you do not need to worry about. It is not really can choose something inside me as the same way when the railway children Jenny Stati by Dottie breaks me marriage is the same thing that kind of thing. Yeah you you you love him to lean unconditionally and I really it really might. I might one day revisit earlier on in apparel maybe no no yeah no pre cart and keep take time to those books we prequel story within it. Yes yeah yeah it would be after that before these are known to do which orbit will the payment. It's easy to talk about holidays. which because I kind of completion wrestles with mine because they're still on the journey and I might say well this? This is my favorite ones day. 'cause I must have adequate making because he's always questioning things warning about stuff but at the same time it's like well then where he's going to end up leading. What about you and your writing is really like maybe Caleb Caleb Arianna probably candidates quite grumpy and snarky and some contract dry? I'm not sure what that says about me but I don't think I am but maybe it's just the contrast. Now he he used to right. He was very easy to rise while actually lines. Which one characters canaries canarian cleaning one? Maybe maybe a little bit of all look sure I mean you've got a little bit of views morella views and the things you know when she read. Aj besides just just pick to sit thighs you. The sense of humor is is you that killed me when you write. coyotes is do you have the other. Sorry the other thing could people who you actually no one says electrons to characterize them or are you just sort of creating the kinds of scrub not consciously. I'm pretty sure I do. I think people really. Yeah my new thing. I'm not talking about very very successfully. The secret no one does anything about a have specific. You've taken some people I know and put them in the book. Just for my own amusement. Will you ever tell them will do to them. No To to to one of the Mike Kill me but guess who listens con it. It's not personality. I've stolen names and a little bit the way people look for stuff. 'cause I'm writing out ideas La- mckesson question bucket you. Oh I don't not consciously not consciously Asli Well actually no maybe one character it was only like after finished. Oh No that's actually my mom uh-huh I don't think she will because it's not female carrots. Yeah very you're not consciously. Aw I kind of get this feeling of it and the next book of RJ. There's GonNa be a Mike character all be so cool. Yeah I a a little description my favorite. If you could book remove the cover was there will be with your name the also and it will be completely blacked out of time that the other author existed it would always and it would happen in a nice way. I'm not sure how that works but it would. What book would you choose? Obviously I would choose watership down. How would you say to railway children before you got to be? They've delayed gratification. So I think we all skin is is their bouquets that you wish he'd written somebody else's already written that you prepare of the author dive wife Sneaky Take Somebody's name of Clinton my top choice gene. Now we know Vic's uprated taste possibly John Connolly's the bookable of things but I need you on and he's really lovely and he sent me his newest book so I kind of feel like the countries have killed them. Jim Connelly yes yes. Listen to my interview and Jinja Safari with the very lucky only then. Yes turn how much I loved is joy pocketbook absolutely one of the creatures that could still freaks big lobby. I can't look at the Ventilation on my car when I think you're spiders coming. Yeah Mike this John uncommonly Gauche. I'm thinking probably by coma McCarthy. I can't maybe looked MERIDIAN BY COMA COFFEE SO JOEY BOOK DOT CA. I would yes anything about shift on. You would change at all. No nothing. Does the temptation to say. Oh I like putting both female characters. But but the rabbits and and I think he's kind of morality rabbits work rob it the only way he was saying just a book about rabbits which he told everybody which just shows you how wonderful night up to audience questions. Anybody has anything they would like to ask Jay Cup hello and a soul something. The hectic additional shoot comes I'd yeah yeah it's kind of I. I think there's it's a really weird thing that people read the books and and somebody say a failing of me isn't also that I've not enough into it that they there was a review of somebody. So so it's just people stopping each other through Armagh and there is no plumbing. It's another off when they they are based in summer. I altered the way the way they look. And Yeah it's kind of Goldman Gusty massive. They've mouldering castle in the first book when you get to the customer in the third book it's like a hundred this I feel of. You've it's architecture from lost time. But they've moved into these places they didn't have the technical. Just keep them the massive and a bit weird which is yeah game you know the whole civilization generations and I don't think there's technology just because it is for people that don't know the way magic works in this well if I cuss dispelling dispelling this room. It was a big spout even spell. It would kill everybody in this room because I would use that knife to do it and then nothing would ever grow underneath this place ever again. And there've been a number of events where People have come as magicians tried to take over this world on just wreck the the place it's a society into huge ecological pressure And they just don't have the time to call the steps up because they don't have the time I'm to be mentioned native and think of it and that that's kind of like they've had these amazing buildings but they just don't have the stuff anymore. It's is com. They wrecked their own world. Almost like another meaningful only question is GonNa say you say that because I'm not sure my my friend would be so they're asking if there are any characters you find repulsive in your votes competitive when I asked earlier thirty fluffy ones really eighty really upset you not in las guts. There is one impel kings which he both fascinates repulses. But also I brady like him as a car to the same time So I have a confused relationship with I don't know I feel I feel like you always kind of have to like Keycard Integrates what she ride the macaroni. There's always something at least for me as an awful way. You feel like you're on their side even if you're right about But yeah he's probably the one who runs me the closest I do. Yeah yeah he makes sense to to me why I can imagine how I would be but you also say you uh-huh I really bright books with a bad guy yeah. mm-hmm is quite nasty nasty. But then I think in in Book Sri what you find out about kind of negate stop and when when people doing things I understand why they're doing these things have an amount of the only one and I don't believe I think society creates about things. I'm the only one that is a person that makes my skin. Color is the major aged Doma castle third. WHO's called WHO's been raised within a society that it's the house no rules? I has has become completely decadent and it was best to my CH- may say I'm Jay. Chinese turns took a long time ago. Well over two years since I've been doing it coat was dislike horrific. Yeah and that's the thing of create in the book is called. What whether they're totally depraved? But Noble is how people act and he come he he can make mistakes but especially with me just like me. I've just seeing that. Somebody has broken some pastry. So I think it's definitely time school and that Thank you very much to Rj with the populace had hair and the MICA with the fabulous. Chin- AH AUDIENCE BREAKING THE GLOSS LIPA is written in and produced by Megan Lee Charlotte Bond and Lisa handsome. Please help us spread the word subscribe and Leave Review on your preferred podcast platform. We you want to hear from you. Let us know what you would like to hear on the next episode of breaking the Glass Lipa.

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LADS#206 - The Soccer Cooligans

Loud Americans Discussing Soccer

31:34 min | 1 year ago

LADS#206 - The Soccer Cooligans

"You know you they know this thing of you are listening to you. Lot Americans arkins discussing soccer or lads. PODCASTS this is the Monday special episode and we have our guest guest ever here on on this show. Is the soccer cogan. What's up guys? What's up as a go good I'm really excited. Mike Law for these shows. No I get a lot of success. You know slack for that. I usually drink whatever's in the fridge currently I'm Jay Black Jerry Whitelaw which you know to each his own poison. I suppose That's why you know it's it's easy. I don't feel like you know bloated afterward. They're Nice. I used to be very against the Seltzer. Now I'm like Lacroix it's you know it's it's a a lot of fun so you guys are currently down in Florida for the What's called ICC futures? You were talking a little inside the episode a little about that before before but if you want to tell people exactly what you're doing down to Florida that'd be really cool Garissa the ICU. Just the International Champions Cup most people know as like throughout the summers ars when like the Big European teams common play Here in the US. It's like a competitive series of friendlies. Very much yeah but so we're at the IDC futures which is the same concept. But this is for the youth teams the academy team. So this is these are like the fifteen boys and fourteen gene girls And they play against each other in environment. That is All all expense paid trip off for the kids they get treated needed like superstars. They get a a ton of swag. It's like a really cool thing that that was the biggest surprise seeing how happy these are to be here and be treated like professional athletes as you know and we're here to while we were MC me events our doing a bunch of stuff with with the kids like shooting videos and now we're also looking to start getting into third party ownership the job lucidly ship Youtube. We're hooligans agency. Oh my God why be missing. I didn't mention that you guys have are hilarious on social media. You make sure to follow them at the cool again is that you're at on twitter At soccer hooligans soccer hooligans on twitter and instagram guys are also on I tunes spotify everywhere. I mean if you're a soccer fan listen. This is the collaboration. No one knew they ever wanted so on Jerry. Happy to be a part of it so before I get into soccer stuff I do. Have I have some beef with you guys. You talk a lot of crap about Wiwa on twitter and as a South Jersey you know Philadelphia resident for some time before I moved up here to the Greater New England area. What's up guys like? What what can we do to help? I see a lot of this like Taylor. Ham Talk and whatnot. What's what's up with this Wa wa hate? We all know it's daily hand while was trash unless it's to come rules man. Are you a hoagie hero. Zero what you guys call it. I'm cool with sub. I'm cool with Hoagy but hero is the official term. Guys are obviously big pizza guys. I don't really have you. You know any good pizza here in New England you have spy and you're in Brooklyn Right. That's where like the mainstay of the show is. Yeah Yeah Yeah Okay do you have. What your favorite joint I would say industry Williamsburg you're in Williamsburg? Brooklyn is absolutely incredible Europe by Boston. You've got Santa Appeals over by the airport you got AIDS REGGIA which is in the north side. That's it's really famous superbeets in unfortunately guys also like to eat Greek pizza which is it's the Wa wa of pizzas Come on man like you guys probably like sheets come come on. I can't do this is it. Is it just because it has the stereotype being gassed Asian food. I don't get it man staple is really confusing for us as Dino's because y was kind of what we call plus the plus. Is You go. There is a nation sandwiches winter. The bus game. All right well I find I'm GONNA move on because like I can't. I'm not going to dwell on this because it's going to hurt my heart but I wanNA talk some soccer. Obviously you guys are big. MLS guys you're at the final this year right. Yeah I was. That was that whole experience. It was incredible Seattle Man. I'll that whole is. It felt the entire diner city. was there for the game was really cool. The earthquakes when they scored goals as you physically feel the world shake underneath the real thing it was ever offer Chris Simon Century Lincoln Yeah I think it was. They were more people there than like you know when they attend seahawks games. It was pretty intense and you can clearly see how important commanders are To that city so yeah I mean we that was already our forth. MLS Cup and they've been on the second that they've won that we'd been tagged but it's it's like you know who the Good Luck charm. My obviously so yeah. What do you all been your favorite wondered? You feel as though. Is there a favorite of the ones you've been to. I'd like I would say this is if not number one number one A. It's really hard between this and last year's Atlanta Anna was that tailgate was unbelievable. It felt like a coming out party for soccer in America. Erica Linda Yeah Seattle. It felt like we were in a weird world where soccer has always mattered. You know in America so it's hard to compare the two but I would say the two of those will they still like sort of I get butterflies thinking about both of those cups. My next question's going to be like on our show we talk mostly premier league and world world soccer's We always jokes were big. MLS guys but we're not really nice more of just being sarcastic convince me what is your pitch. MLS has grown immensely. I been trying to watch more games. What is your pitch to say like a lot of our fans are trying to get more into like? Mls what is your head just like. Why should we care more about this compared to like the European top five weeks before local local at the that that would be the first kind of message I mean we talk about We sort of made that conscious choice to or from relief. But I'm saying he's he's innocent clamp. Hey I'm a governor myself one baby so So we we made the conscious choice like you know a lot of people kind of with down American Eric in soccer they put down. MLS If the butt of a joke right where we stand up comedians right so we constantly even amongst peers did not sounds that. Make Fun of the sport but then he just talk about American soccer. You like there's going to be even worse like you're GonNa get but the more we were around a around players around You know the teams and just people who work for the League Lou. People are really trying to make sport relevant in this country and really the Mesler do it is like you know to get people to go see games and the early easy complaint is of equality or whatever but what outside of the top ten teams onto in the permanently. Garbage seems absolutely watson run. I don't want to hear a God damn thing. I'm a big Fan. I don't really know what they're you know. Mascot is still. It's still very confusing. But that's very that's very fair and I liked that you know and you guys like the playoff system system. Compared to the point system at the end of the season the title. I've I've kind of grown to fall in love with the idea of the playoffs because it's undeniably fun whether you think I think it's fair or not or it should just be a single single table whether you like that or not. Doesn't matter revolt it is fun. It is certainly fun and it's just something so late about how insane American soccer is is Tam. There's game and I when I say piggyback on what Christie said is you don't have to pick one you can still like Chelsea Elsie and also like rebel New Yorker or and they did it or whatever you can also like American soccer. You don't have to be one yes you could stop saying make you know what I mean. Oh my God I love that. I'm a Philadelphia Union fan by default. I was actually born in Chester. Pennsylvania at Cooper Cooper Hospital. It's a big Jimmy. Kurt van as Ginger. Love Me Jimmy Curtains so he's actually We got passes one day. I don't know how we pulled that off. You're actually in the press box. One sometime got to go meet Jimmy Afterwards Bedoya and everyone in the locker room and all the time. I'm just smilingly. This isn't happening the whole time so I I would actually like to ask as of union fan was a kind of a disappointing. It's such a great regular season. How they fell out in the play offs the the Philly fans for the show? I mean look at eight that night game against The rebels was unbelievable right so after they go up against Atlanta you know. They definitely flavor playing at mercedes-benz tough overall but the Philadelphia Union. More like like the the they had good results luscious detail and toews yet. But I'm just so impressed. Compared to last year where like nobody was going to games aims of it was just a really difficult to like. Just connect with the community and you realize like the sons of Ben all the effort that was pulled from from the club to just get more people excited about the team we went to even Fang all the stuff fan. You saw what we were there for the CFC's Philly Games We were doing press stuff too uh-huh and we were on the field looking around the police which jammed the Velika parring gap. You'll go philly. Yeah like yeah sold out stadium Gesture is feels feels like just it feels good is small at about twenty thousand. But that ain't a raucous twenty thousand It's it's The identity is very much via its the same constant belittling anybody man. It's just a brand. We have a brand had it not like people think soccer fans off whatever not build up the unit out now. I loved it very much. The Seniors Villi people. Yeah they Serbia different culture. It's a problem it's so funny because like Philly fans get this hard core like mentality but we feel things I remember when my grandfather we won won the super bowl with the eagles. I'm getting off track. This guy who served in Vietnam. He's never I love you know. Hugs or anything I remember. He called me when we won the Super Bowl. I I never thought I would make it to this point. It was like crying on the phone so we do not like the most like egg people but we do have kind of like hardcore your brand but that's really cool so are you guys Newark FC fans or Red Bull fans local. Or would you say I'll win. NYC AFC started is kind of what we started the podcast. I'm originally originally thought was the kind of focus on but So we are both NYC season ticket holders But we've kind of just we talked about the whole leagues over fans amend my CFC. For sure you're in. I think that lends a little bit of credibility too because American soccer fans for so long like well. Are you really committed to being an American furniture you paint. Are you a part of the League or you know helping hoping for us. Owning at least tickets means like we're putting our money into the league as well like we. We care about Eric in soccer. What exactly brought you guys together? Make this podcast. We guys like hitting doing stand together and like stuff like daily. What was kind of like inspiration for this year while we were doing? Stand up for years. We've both been doing standard for about eleven years and Probably we knew we each had individual podcasts and then but we would meet on the scene doing shows and stuff but then we realized we both like soccer fee funds stuff like that and then when we started Alexis was talking about like you WanNa do soccer related projects like videos and stuff. I I was working on a sketch show sort of in this group of like I just want to make a bunch of stuff And we were all right. Let's do something soccer related than we made some videos And then we started the podcast and we missed a week since I A now. TV show so it's like say husband the whole Fubo TV. I mean also. How's it being famous? That's like kind of sick right like that's kind of cool like my whole life My Ego my my life up to my ego. I think it's going to. Ah Now. I mean this has been you know when we started the podcast. You know as as Comedians the reason we have individual podcast. The reason why we wanted to start this podcast because you spent a Lotta time during the day not really doing much for the most part. I'm sort of waiting for nights to perform in and you want to be productive but you WanNa do something you love and you WanNa put that content canal and hope that enough people see that they'll come see you perform stand up so we looked at this as a way to maybe cultivate a bit of a of a audience or fan base And you know once we got to offer Why in our lives like wait? You're stand up comics in American soccer budgets. Do you guys ever WanNa make money. You know like I thought I was going to become a blacksmith neck. You know like it's blowing glass. Who knows it could be anything? Yeah glass must be a nice guy. Yeah that's good. That's the best. I'm an open Mike. I know there's like this whole like what's it called Do you guys get that like people who you say like. Oh I do stand up versus open mic. I heard there's a big debate and like stand up comedy world about You guys feel that so I would say it's a level that you sort of recognized you know. There's a big debate. They're they're people that I know that are famous that are on TV. They're doing open mic throughout the week in New York A sort of prepare material comedies. The one of the few are from the sort of practice in front of the actual people so people see you struggle. Because you're working on it you know. Sometimes doing an open mic will help solve that. But you know once you get to the level we are. You don't get as many opportunities to do. It makes because we're so busy but yeah. Yeah how's that balanced. Oh sorry go ahead. Sorry I'm sorry. Say like an open. micrometres established media. There's no I mean like there's clearly a if somebody's Consistently doing it yet. Maybe not getting booked on a budget shows just yet you already see the. US appear if you are Sacrifices I know how hard it is and you could be doing other things with your time and it's a it's a real gripe nine so There's people that are doing shows. That can sell out theaters that I would not consider comedians. Maybe they're just like really possible or they have like draws because of the big youtube channel or something checkmark. Yeah absolutely seen. I've seen your parents are disappointed in you. You're halfway to be like you'll be inconvenient as every day who believes in you know you've got given up a lot of like relationships and you sacrificed family events and stuff for this thing that you love. So whether you're doing open mic like Christianson instead of you're doing it at a comedy club or at show you run. It doesn't matter if you do if you've done your comics just because you sell tickets that shit. Yeah like I've seen a screech. Do you stand up. I wouldn't really call them a stand up. Comedian just row screeched. Amazing would you. Is there any tips like for me. I would love a tip. I bombed the other day I was like Spiraling onstage and I was like all right. I'm GonNa Start Making Baltimore. The wire jokes was not relevant. Relevant whatsoever Is there any tips you would give to someone on like who's trying to like. Go Up and try and get into comedy. I would say like if you know right away when you grab a microphone or fits for you not for you. There's a lot of ways where I like so Chris and I are different like Christian could possibly sit in a room in right a joke out Anglo Television Begum. It'll be funny. I can't do that. I can't sit in a right. I whatever add or whatever it is that's not me. I need to go have to think of something funny and save on stage and I'll find the funny of onstage Sean. Very different in whatever. It is learning to do the other thing. You're not I mean give yourself opportunity to the thing if you Sort of write your jokes out and go tell them verbatim. Go up there and try not doing matt tried giving yourself like a bullet or it'd be like all. I thought that was funny. I told a friend that and go up there and you could build that world worked at other muscle. Because when you get to the point where you're booking big shows shows where you're doing things you may not have the chance to sit and write everything you're about to say you may need that other muscle. I think that's really important. I'm working really hard now. Ten in years in my career. I'm writing and it's very difficult because I didn't do it at the beginning. Seventy mine like kind of teaching yourself. Now Okay Yeah I would say the EH especially early on to not be these kind of the tips I got from people have been doing a long time is to not be not to judge yourself so harshly especially at open mic. Like don't bombing is fine. Don't worry about what people are sort of connecting to or if they're laughing vein necessarily like your do the same jokes for three months. If you have like. Don't be don't think that you have to do things a certain way. That's 'cause no there's no oh advice that I can't give you any advice that will lead you. You'll find your own because you'll never be able to mind because nightingale. Yeah I was GONNA end up doing and doing soccer podcast and then you have was not in the plans when I start making comedy careers more relevant like that was definitely definitely not the plan. So yeah just keep the law. The best advice is to keep doing it. There's no because it'll it'll just make more sense of the long gone and we're proof that if you do something you'd think is funny doesn't matter if you think anyway you can get spending other eventually. Yes we we are proof of sure we had to put a everyone's if for half years permissible but eventually you'll find a group of people in I think it was. I forgot who said it to I can't remember Joan rivers if all you ever do is make one percent of the audience love you want percents population. You'll feel theaters for the rest of your life. You know so yeah all you have to do is find your group of people that's why it takes so long to be a great comic as you have to sort of worm your way through a lot of body insists the five that really appreciate you are. Eventually that'll blow. I love it becomes a huge audience through how to Joan rivers quote. Wow I'm just I am taken aback this whole sidetracked podcasts mostly for me. I know we've got soccer. Yeah but I really appreciate you guys answering these questions. So in terms of the top five league we obviously call cover a lot of premier league and stuff like that. So we've been covering this whole year big arsenal fan obviously The Premier League raise. What have you made of this whole like you know the past? Couple of years the premier league's been very competitive all the other leagues have kind of had their one winner. You ventas the Barcelona the buyer Munich. CBS G obviously Now Liverpool's kind of leg ran away with it. Do you find this title race to be over already. I it's clearly over. I mean but I to me. Premier League is always. He's always hinges on the Christmas season. You know they play so many games during that part where no one else does so. There's always a way we could change in the second half I thought as an arsenal little family had a chance to catch lester during that time period a few years ago. Unless please don't bring that up please hang on L. Welbeck's right off the top of the forehead. I thought we had that Shit. Aw but to me. It's like it's really hard to sort of claim that there's winning whatever your Chelsea ran away with it You know city running away with it now Liverpool running away with it I i. I can't imagine they're not GonNa win. The League seems like they put all their eggs in that basket. Woody Champions League so I just hope arsenal finishes in the top four. I want to get back to champion. I just hope Everton doesn't get relegated. Let's go my God. I was about to say I mean Carlo enchiladas out there men luxury both both these teams. You're talking about our needing of managers gers right now Do you guys see them going any these clubs like there's Maximilian Luxury Chilanga. Here's another one Well I guess Gino Baccino. Well he's not going to arsenal but like back. He's already said he had a quote the other day not going on your because of Barcelona and he's not or he's not going to go to Barcelona. Because that's on your sorry sorry. And then Same with like Tottenham Arsenal. But like do you. Could you see him going man united only. I don't know how he got a job. But what around Madrid Catina I think actually is one of the room guys arsenal now. The guy that was supposed to get hired by in West. CFC IS UH being rumored as an Arsenal van Bronckhorst. Yeah Giovanni Braam van Bronckhorst I just want arsenal to get someone. I would love for them to keep Bloomberg until next season. Ended up at Perpetuate what we already have that it is easy to get him out of his rumors. Gut wants out of the city so I I'm happy with as far as Everton D- and they have such good players that there's no excuse for the team to be that bad. I mean I don't know what manager they're going to have a tough time reeling in a top level manager manager because who wants to coach there right. It just doesn't have the cachet of some of these other clubs But if they can get initially would be unbelievable right Ah They can make under the day though. It's still fairly people want to coach in the primarily. So you might want you might get someone who was like a big coach of Boondocks League or big coach coach. Leon who wants to make the lead to two primarily so I mean I I forget the guy's name but who's the dude that's at a much lower back Right now they're giving crushing. It will just lead lead. Yeah wants to make the leap. He goes to Abington. I don't know but road comb out with a better job. I mean they have the alleged. Theo Walcott anyway. I I love the that's my name and my cat is Theodore and say oh because you walkout like no but like they just happened to you. Know it's I know I feel like I'd be amiss if I didn't bring up the current. US Soccer Situation. What have you made of Greg's tenure? You're right now in the current state of the US. Men's national team feel feeling a little better or you guys are you guys doing you know I mean I waxed and waned depending on you know. I'll sort of how I feel that day. Wind Gregg Berhalter from Jersey. So Shouts Greg Jersey. Where we not call Taylor? I am from himself. Grew up in South Jersey and Millville grew up in bumble Cumberland County. So it's totally. Find Your Violence Cumberland County. When did we don it? It is my father's a total redneck. Uncle Slob and uncle hen bird to go to the club it is. It's not a good time to see the term because I know it's offensive but pine. Yeah Oh like this apprentice episode with Paulie and Christopher. Yeah exactly but I remember. I went my wife's grandfather owned a blueberry farm in Pomona it which is way South Jersey. Oh yeah and all the pickup trucks pie. NEOM Brown thousand ninety. Don't say that that's offensive. I'm like I didn't know but uh ah I forgot how you a soccer star majority vic. Look I like the fact that we have a system but you know it seems like the treating the national team as a as a professional club And I'm not sure if that's always the right idea like you look at the rest of the world. The you know the national team either. Either you have a system like Spain has had or you come in the election. Hata we just wait. You Know Lake Francis Planning counterattacking soccer. You know you're not going to be able to get a German arriving Or German or Spanish system. I clearly what we're trying to do here. I don't know if it works. I just we make it to the World Cup because we need that balance although nobody nobody was linked guitar. Also that's a whole. I mean they got like slave labor going on in Qatar back in that John Oliver Special. From what like four years ago now when he talked about that that which is absolutely. I mean John Oliver's my favorite but like that special I still watch constantly when you were talking about the Brazil and how awful that whole was and everything like that but I mean it's kind ended bin Laden not everyone talking about how horrible Qataris people can't leave. They got these visas taken away. It's a really bad situation over there and I guess they're making these domes because it gets up to one hundred twenty degrees there during the summer. It's going to be during the winter. Now Right. They changed it. Yeah so it's GonNa be like the most impressed world cups is like the seventies Jesus well Christian I feel route. I didn't ask you. What's your thoughts on the currency the US soccer? I'm sorry the state of US soccer. I'm more concerned. Based on a couple of people that we interviewed like we had Sei Soccer. I was alarmed up on our show. Who covered the US national team trump? Plenty years and I kind of base. My you know. my concerns off of how these people who come in You know US aqua for a long time and people are a little nervous. I think they're more. I'm more worried about I. Think the at the senior level. I think we'll be fine. I think I think Berhalter can get US woke up. But when you realize that now there's a lot of vacant use Co The two positions. I if that next cycle that I think we're in. We're having a bit of an issue now for the four Foundation for the future so Twain Twenty Six. I don't know exactly who's going to be part of that. Why what is that? You could end up with a lost generation. Because of that you know you could enter bill. Yeah you know you have these issue you of like the the. US Soccer wants everyone to move to Chicago All used coaches at basically everyone they wanna have of that. That mean hub which you so you understand that but the country is so big and maybe it may not be beneficiary. You may not be able to get. Chicago can't play soccer Around yeah so you may exactly were. You won't be able to attract the best coaches For our youth national teams. So that that's where I'm at right now just like worried about what the future will look like because because it doesn't look like there's going to be consistency that we sort of that. We really need to keep making into every walk up. What do you think about the argument that more players should be abroad? Really we have tons in the Bundesliga and stuff like that like people were like. Oh well we gotta make MLS strong. It's like people pulling at two ends of Lake Straw are at a rope. You know what I mean. We were just in Germany everywhere Low and he's a big from opponent. He's like I did. I went to Hanover and just spent my entire career. We played one club and he said the Bundesliga has a huge opportunity. And if American kids have the opportunity to go that they definitely should so I don't think you I don't think any answers correct. I mean I had you. I think my answers correct I would I would say you WANNA litter American kids all all over the world crispy. Listrik is the first first American. I know of that when you tell someone their American for the first time you like what you know. They're shocked because as in how good he is. You know. Pass the Americans. We sort of had to make excuses for Landon Donovan. Oh he would be great if he played. You know what I mean but nobody's building. Mls I think think if the better the higher the level the kid is either they come back to molest other great where they stay out in Europe and continue to sort of propel forward the projection or the idea the perception I I should say of an American player and I think that's almost more important. You don't build sort of that. The value of the American players continue to build the quality and the more and more sort of American players are playing playing Champions League and stuff like that did get beat for the for the World Cup for the national team. Yeah I agree. That was the all right. All right all right like we do have a players that came from MLS academies that made it to the men's national team yet like Paxton Palmdale all right so actually that there are they are mls Kademi. That are putting out real talent that have interest from Europe. Of course if you had the opportunity to go ought to Europe or the for the individual player I think that's great but with your question about building mls. I don't know if that I find that to be a priority no right because because we're gonNA build the MLS by bringing in not only having great players in the academy and then playing on almost I teams but does laptops coming over here right the Wayne. Rooney's leased even though Quote Unquote retirement leaks. But not only are we getting those high quality players but we're getting like young South Americans out playing on these teams so that is also going going to help us build. MLS and it doesn't necessarily the American player. The young America doesn't necessarily have to be responsible for building the League or yeah well thank you. That was so well thought out. That was very great. Thank you guys so much. I mean one of us is smart now. You both have been fantastic Make sure to follow on At the cool against wrecks on twitter soccer soccer cool against the worst at soccer hooligans on twitter and instagram graduate on I tunes spotify Ice Stitcher. I'm assuming oh anywhere. Got podcast. Go to them. They are the absolute best. There's a reason the guys are the best in the industry. My last question before we finish is what does it mean to be goalie. I WanNa know what what is the glorious like I need to know for the fans tell me am I am. I really like what's up because you asked the question. Thank you flip to me. I think has had a lot of definitions over the years but for us. It's someone who we defend American soccer. We we sort of defend what we think is riot You know we were. It's sort of like I don't know I wanNA use the term brave but it's you know be proud of who you are and say what needs to be said either. I hold that very the year two. We're both You know inner city Latino right be grew That's how we even that word being associated with that show. Joke was totally ironic. Because we're we're both Comedians Matt sliding anybody who weren't like we're not dogs but I think what the cool thing is that it's made people be more Not just be so defensive about American soccer almost be offensive and be like you. You know what this is. This is who we are this represent. We're trying to build this not only make the sport relevant amongst all the other sports right a lot of people who enjoy soccer in the. US are like they keep it to themselves. They have to be closeted soccer fans because they can't reveal it to their coworkers or their friends and stuff like that. And we've made made it a little bit more like you know what there's nothing to be ashamed of. And if I the Europeans make fun of us for long soccer whatever week clapback we we yell at that. We no longer going to be like. Oh you're right guys we're here now. Listen to your mate. We're going to go have ourselves donnybrook. I don't know what they do over there. But yes that sounds I I love that thank you I feel goalie after this interview and guys I thank you so much. Is there anything I may have missed anything. You guys want to plug real quick showing Fubo. TV and it's a bunch of different networks. You did you go to sports network DOT COM. You'll see over on Tuesdays and Thursdays at eight pm every single week. A face right. So yeah it'd be I check it out. You guys ladder. I guys thank you so much for coming on the show and taking the time you guys have been amazing you did. Some ASTO Bob.

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LOGAN PAUL GETS EXPOSED IN IBIZA - IMPAULSIVE EP. 109

Impaulsive with Logan Paul

1:08:56 hr | 2 years ago

LOGAN PAUL GETS EXPOSED IN IBIZA - IMPAULSIVE EP. 109

"Cubs empty everyone's gone. Everyone in our sector's going four thirty. Everyone's gonna mike. I'm like shit like god. You put me through a test right now. No problem no fucking problem so drunk logan pago stumbling down the stairs with a pulled hamstring. I'm living across the chaos the poem cell and see a security guard. I'm executioner of mr 'cause as you take a taxi. I just don't know if the future if the way future version of myself and like my wife will look back on this episode be like why why you've never seen anything like that before. Tell the story you fucking guidance counselor told the story broke only thing we're ever going to get anywhere with fucking shell shock value shock value. Let's stewart welcome back through false the number one podcast in the world that you guys are listening. Watch subscribing. We're back at the long hiatus. J. paul's wedding. I went to a beatha. Is this what it's it's this podcast we do. It's a number one. It's called them positive number and pockets. Your mic share my so. Let's with that. That's it's obvious that go to get back. <unk> visa and mike by the way spencer's gone go. Do you want to explain. We purposely obviously not talked about it. You haven't hit me up. I haven't hit you up like are gone to here yeah. I just felt like you know you guys have <unk>. Such a huge team like this is a compound right now. I don't know if i could legally say how many people are living here but you know we talked before and to me. I'm big on not like mooching. You know not not extending pass my my stay in like ever since i moved in. We all talked about it. It was a a the transition period. It was a time where i was going to come in help but i never intended to use this for my own personal gain the reasons i love you and i think it was like a month ago. When you ask to be taken off payroll you actually stop eating chef katie's food. I tried to which i found interesting. So what a noble guy it was a mess though what being being in a chef's kitchen china cook. She's she's possessive. Doesn't what doesn't work like. I got it so we're gonna live now with your girlfriend. Yeah yeah big dude. I've never lived with a girlfriend so flu class you how it feels now that your life his over there. Do you feel like it's just gaming man. It really is that's awesome. I was gonna say something. Oh yeah. What are you gonna make your wife. I left the maverick house. Why still got hit up by bright white yet so royal. It's going to get the teeth whitening i or the laser hair removal with like five dollars machine <hes> having to sit that play out. I think you say that now row wait so they start sending humanness so so we do so that's that's. That's the thing we also do. Have we have so much to talk about and debrief as you guys know. I was in burn the by the way the call it it'd be and the brits called beneath a they just dropped the i so. That's what i thought i called. I called it a visa. There's like welcome to and here's me stralia. I'm gonna acknowledged the english alphabet like that's a fucking z. visa so i went there y- yup. Oh if you want to live a long fulfilling plentiful life never go to a visa. The place is fucking insane. It's the party capital of the world. They call it really and i can. I can assure you i i have never ever ver- party that hard my life i actually i brought some <hes> some pictures here. You guys may have seen this but i'm i'm sure also quickly you guys know i pulled my hamstring so this happened at the challenger games and so i went to visa with this i went to the doctor in london then she's like you. Don't go don't go too dumb. I said i didn't really believe her turns out. She's a doctor so she was yeah and now what did that. What what major league look like a plum was its altitude or you see the doctor video on youtube that like explains your injury did and he was actually pretty sharp with that was good i and was until i hate when people don't do the research until he's like there was no moment of terror in the race and like clearly my video i said i tore i had torn it prior rut right the sixty seconds before the race started and so when people don't do the research to sorta lose credibility for me especially when it's like literally had to do is watch seven minute recap video that i did but sports rehab today and here's what happened pulled. The hamstring immediately went on a flight the altitude a to impress your situation caused to hematoma. 's had hematoma before they they're. They're bad but they look much worse than they are so basely isley the giant blood clots in your leg which which happened at the top of my on the back and the bottom and then with swelling as i'm sure you know it. Just it goes down especially with your leg if you're standing up all the time but it's it's a tough spot to recover because you can't always elevate it unless you're seated and icing. It's tough especially when when you're drunk and abusive tore it what's what's the situation here. It's i mean team bro. You're asking all these questions. I know you took an i._d. To leg dude i saw that i said wow this kid's in bad shape right now yeah in and i was but not not not bad enough where i couldn't have fun in appeaser. Were stephen okay so like this j just crowds crowds and crowds diving and jump into a crowd to jump into all the things that jumped out at me began jumping hoping was it's crazy to see what jake decided to do on his honeymoon. That's like such a weird honeymoon to me like no life latinas somewhere somewhere in the crowd. You can't see it all pixelated. You can't see it. Does anyone know what the dumbest part about. This is besides jumping into a crowd with a great. You said it right there. No fucking sure shoes you stop on some. I mean thank god. I didn't know shoes. What am i some kind of stupid asshole dog. If there's a piece of broken glass or like a needle on the ground in the middle of this random club and a visa miscellaneous fluids dawn bro and i realized realized that when i was jumping but when you're drunk you don't think about these things do you don't care about these things and by the way we did this stage stage. I dive. I think four or five times jake would not stop eventually. We're just crushing people like two hundred pound controversial uber just flying in and jumping on top but lucky for me i did there was a point where i found some tape. I was able to do stabilize my good yeah <music> danpilla so that's insane so you don't have to get that amputated do you. I don't know i don't think so. I hope not because kind of need it for the fight yeah which which by the way i mean. I don't know if we could say. I don't know if you could just say well. Can you say anyth- i don't even remember what where we stood on that. You're allowed to say anything look. I don't know but let's this is. Let's say the future is looking bright like it's locked in the near. Future is looking bright like nearer than previous nears. I mean it's near the nearest is as near as the near was believed like are we talking as near as tea-garden be or like yes the timing in proximity to the current location. That's diaw. He'll rusty because we shit dude well. That's a different different story. Can we talk about that. It's both though it's a mixed food. Fuck you chili's so so here's what happened we went to chili's chili's last night mike i. I hung out with these girls last night. Just a casual dinner late dinner and we we order some drinks and by the way yesterday was supposed to be my my last or the day before it was supposed to be my last night. Drinking mike peer pressure meet horrible influenced by the way. Please leave your comments below. Let me explain quickly haven't seen the kid in and like what is it three weeks and then as soon as he comes back the first as back he says hey just let you know i'm done for three months and say to myself. Don't do this to me not like this. At least give me one last night one last hurrah because i know that as soon as we do it then it's off to the races and he's in the training mode to beat the shit out of the fat dude like all mystery in into the real deal right yeah and i and i said and he's like oh man i'm done. I'm donna and party visa and of course i just put a big ass marguerite front face straw right here because i knew it was the last one and by the way maybe you share the news what what news about the how long's it gonna be to drink again. I mean i'm done now. Last makes makes that makes two of us yeah. Oh no. You're lying three months baby starting to that fucking lie get serious good. Hey wait me and logan will share my first drink back after he whips the living shit on k._f._i. On on date but shake my hand but you know my my mom is still happy right now. If you're watching this. Why don't you join us. If you're feeling yourself going a little too crazy lately. I know it's the summer yeah. Take three months off with us. We'll do not it'll be healthy okay on a scale last night. It's bad it's bad. Do you wanna talk about it. Let's around two oh nine. It's normally that's my normal. Hovering weights pretty leaned out feeling good feeling light field good. What's new york hung out in the hamptons bets new porn stars in new york by the way that was great way too much food and then katie was gone when i got back so i went on a cheeseburger binge found out law. I really still do love cheeseburgers. He's not fat. You tweeted about one hundred twenty five pounds. Whoa i picked up seventeen pounds of ground beef. We seen it. You just have a cow in your stomach in my stomach decaf. It's not yet the <hes> just a baby so i said to myself. Something must be done do and i'm also fucking tired of being hauled or dude feel good. You know what i'm saying no pickle so that's will will happen. That's what happened today. Mike mike was not feeling so hot and neither was i which is odd because we we only had a couple drinks chilis like we didn't go ham and cheese. We had four or five. Ah shots of tequila. Maybe totals were doubles by the way i meant to set double double. I knew they felt like more but regardless like still when i was in a bs and like you use me as like a really shitty example and don't be like me at all when i was in a dog i would we'd we drink link between thirty and forty shots minimum of tequila every night like i might create like we were. We had been so accustomed to just like pushing ourselves to the limit so when i got back this was no problem except all the sudden after these these drinks we were. We were plastered plastered. We were hammered couldn't even close the deal with the girls 'cause we were so fucking racked. No he was just like i was like paralyzed on the couch and and i didn't understand i couldn't speak english anymore and we think like i hate to say this chilies. Fucking drug dogs us at least john roof at chili's last night because there's no way i mean think about me. I have an immunity alcohol at this point point and i was gonna fight over nothing which happens this brawl wind. What's what sparked. This can sweatshirt backpacks. I know take a second about that. Oh take a second affiliate backs that creates sweatshirt back doing a great job multi-million company. Someone said the guy who invented was visionary an argument between me and logan somehow. We almost went fisticuffs. There's i was like a how is he. A visionary like politely just explained because he invented switzer back with the answer was great credible but like i'm not just going to give it to you. Don't use i use the word visionary visionary and my girls started arguing with logan sided jumping well. She said some dumb shit. She's like well. It's about who you know. I'm like yo lady. We're talking up here right now. Just just like please. Just please let me have this conversation so much like not like that but yeah all right so new chapter turned big teams men everybody on impulsive savan on a different trajectory right now. It's yes but it's it's. We're at the kospi dude so it's hard to it's hard to we can envision it and pretend pretend like things are going to be great and i'm sure they are going to be incredible. Pause real quick <hes> great news guys. We've got another sponsor this. No this one's dope actually it's awesome. 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E. dot com promo code logan and also i'll let you know how it is after i dress myself but also this kind of secondary to the to the larger news research personnel hit it quick. I made some noise about i got off antidepressants after six years in san gradulate facts about a week and a half off now now. I'm still feeling a little rusty. He saw one of the i don't mean to cut you off and so one of the side effects to that was sweating ah yes so weird. I didn't know that i saw your fan wasn't working before the show. I don't know if you need it anymore. I don't think going. I guess when when you take affects you sweat a lot but some of the wichita factors include brains apps nightmares. I've been having some. I've been going through a guys but i do want to address this because i talked to people on my amai way out away from them. They told me to keep adding value in this department. <hes> i just want to keep reminding guys that things will get better they do. I didn't know if they were ever going to for me and they did and so now. I'm trying to get things right without the assistance of what was the what was the immediate shift like when you like day yeah of when you stop taking them we're going through some kind of life. They have a half life so for like three days after i stopped because i weaned off by the way please do not stop taking your meds because i stopped taking my meds. Please do not do that. I was weaned off by dr with the assistance of doctor from those those those those and then i take him and they had a three day half life so about three days after that's when i started going through shit i can i can. I say one of them was like loosely. You have to really it's way lewis. Mike had a wet dream came in his hand. You might not know this as as as you know. This has an effect. We'll tell you like the full fledged like what the dream was. Never tell you you couldn't we couldn't even get into one percent of it so bad as it involves the anime stuff that you imagined that black one hundred thousand times worse and by the way this was not this was how me in a dream world but yeah i woke up and mind you told the dream doctor i've had i haven't had a dream six okay literally day three three after to stop. I stopped taking them. I woke up and immediately. It was like get that handing their huge nut right on my fucking hand. How does that wet at all not dude. That's awesome. This is fucking weird and then went in the bathroom and oddly enough dude heard maverick which was even weird you automatic or yeah. It's been it's been backward was a magistrate. It was just it was just him just saying what's up. Man fucking killed me you asshole. He's pissed. Thanks man that's incredible. What the human brain is it when it's suppressed yell yes. What actually is it's meant to to do. It's fascinating you guys know. S are is an s._s. Do ya an s._r. Iza serotonin reuptake inhibitor hitter and so what it does is it means it floods your brain serotonin and it doesn't allow the neural pathways in your brain to reuptake the serotonin so basically your brain's this fucking drowning and serotonin norepinephrine for the entirety of the time that you're on these pills oh my god so and so what happens is technically when you stop taking them <hes> the brain starts to soak that either serta furner serotonin back up and graduates into your brain rain starts to recreate those pathways and so that's where all that shit comes from those nightmare like all that stuff but after about a week i'm starting to stabilize feel good. I don't have any of that. Shit happening so good beautiful and you you explain to me yasser. It's like a it's a it's a big thing to come off your antidepressants and i want to. I want to tell you i'm here for you. You broke sending each sending strengthen. Love your way down. The hall and i know that night with a wet journey called german for david to come help. It's such a weird time to call them. Poor david napkin. Just talk to me for out of toilet paper. I ran in the bathroom but also i did text him. I it was like four a._m. Here time ten a._m. His time in beatha and i was like yo you up and he responded twelve hours later no i. I don't even remember going to visa. I wanna i wanna we got some sponsors. Wanna read your shortly then dive into the super juicy stuff real quick. You said you heard maverick squawking. We're talking about toilet paper. I came home and ginger wearing a diaper ginger giant tibetan massive dog this. I saw it but i have not seen it in person. It's hilarious so she'd come star. 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You've been i in a pair. Now's the time to get this amazing deal rake on shell shell radio. Also it'll be doing well up to families thriving then you're rich region sponsorship one hundred plus episodes in. I think it's about time we started product. Pro cannot can make one counter on member. You may not remember this because i barely do but we call them backup. After those first two girls last night moly shit our producers he felt like a charity. He's fine we had blown back actress call in backup so we call him back up we call into some other beautiful lady friends of ours and i was just hanging on for dear life and they missed there uber i was i was incapacitated. I was i was like already passed is like do what you can mike and yet they missed it right mr uber and so i woke up this morning attacks videos that were like hey we're outside zuber coming and i never even told them like y'all. You miss nubrik. I'd already passed out at that point. I just got an email just now where we sit on the show. Both of them each paid me two dollars and fifty cents to pay the fee was five dollars. I told them i said y'all y'all mike five dollars and one of them than memo on one of the memos misconceptions while hilarious shoutouts. I'm i almost want to say that. That's because they're so sweet. I was gonna say a classy lady castle say dorito head nice job now. That's great p bad go i mean. Are we going next. I think we should i think we should talk about the incident. We had outside of chaos after jake's wedding. Let's i'll stay for a while. I find on a better time. I don't know if you know about this. I think you do <hes> <hes> probably not i. We had an incident doing like more or the night or you're just going straight to this because obviously a lot on let let's just go piece by piece can just like hopefully it can arrange itself. You don't want to start like with the wedding at all because we even talked signed signed. Fuck whatever it would make sense. Chronologically we go to the wedding singer a fight some dude through drink on on tanna right when they did the vows and the priest armani beat the shit out of them. I've never seen that happen before. Yeah alpa cuts crazy. It was the classic uppercut like hold an uppercut that was crazy easy and then. I just remember just drinking. Is there anything specific wanna hit on the wedding. It was good. We had a great show. A great shot. I was one of the best episodes was that it was one of the favourite episode it was it was it was a struggle as nine hundred. I think forty two degrees stories during the entire filming yeah we tuxedos on with bow ties. I felt like college game day for literally which we probably do. We couldn't hear ourselves. We didn't have headphones phones and like a lot of people can batch. I think was completely annihilated when he kept coming back back through a drink glass at a girl and then hired her to be my system in that was weird. I think okay so there's one part of the episode where mike was looking past the camera asking this girl on a date and like you'll get a drink. They went on a date and mike hired a her as his assistant. Yes she's coming today. You'll meet her. I went on a day when i said she's beautiful. She would make a great assistant. I don't know how that happened but but now i haven't assisted fulltime assistant whose gorgeous which i mean like how often she gonna be here. I'm just curious all the time all the time taking time keeper way all in well. We're talking to her safety and i can't hit on her obviously because my assistant so there's you can't cross that boundary well. We're on talking about episodes should we should we address greer dot com. We just address it by the way hold on a high caught the most. We all took a little bit of heat on that when you took the least of it we're talking about the alien episode. If you all saw which my concern with even addressing it is which going no it's just that i feel like the people who left like the the interrupting comments in the comments dogged on us a little bit severe alien and they only wash stat episodes and the people who are watching this aren't even relatively close to that audience but like hey you hit it. You hit the nail on the head. I think we watched it back and look look look look we always are open for feedback but this was an episode where i was slightly turned off to the intense awesome amounts of intense amount of negative comments only because you gotta understand guys when we're sitting in this room with our guests. There's like an energy they give off and we really listened to the things they say and if they're saying things that make sense i'm on-board continue carry on if not it's our job to you. Put them on a pedestal where this the things they're saying are comprehendible and some of the things that alien man was saying and he showed me a picture of lights and call it been alien to you know i was a little skeptical like there's a point where you've lost me even when he even when he even when he first comes in the room there's there's there's hesitancy now mind you. I believe in aliens. I'm just sceptical about things i hear and if i feel that way i tend to deflect talked with comedy. The big connor was the interruption thing and so and so we did to to that point we did enter the episode with this very jovial spirit. At least you and i did. I said listen. We're having like not a kook but we're having a guy on that is going to talk to us about seeing ailing crafts and all this stuff and by the way i'm not saying. I don't believe either but it's we approached. I approach pro-settlement greens lots of them but what i will say is on the interrupting. I watched it back. This guy was going on uninterrupted erupted for minutes. At a time we were sitting there and i said i said in the comments as well and on my twitter i said when he started to go ham on regulatory reform i said if you wanna watch a sixty minute or ninety minutes uninterrupted regulatory reform episode. They got that shit on c. Span all day. You can tune in and watch people stand at the mike. We like code double a._c._p. Four states that in the state of eric brata that is not the show and i don't think it ever will be it's not cool because we introduce like he hasn't really done too many big podcast from what i've signed right so i think people came to this wanting wanting to hear the typical podcast and didn't that experience like talking about so they were expecting like yeah. I want to hear everything. This guy says he even said on his twitter like as like a final note from me on it. He even said on his twitter. You get to see a side of me that you normally wouldn't see current which is exactly what i said. I said one of the biggest things we do is we take out of their comfort zones and we show dole cool side of a man normally wouldn't see what i'm saying like i i like that. We humanized him a bit in joked with them and treated him like a human rather than i mean. This isn't your typical podcast by the way i really like like the guy i think i'm gonna if i'm invited one of his trips that he's talking about. It takes people to to. I don't even know they meditate aliens like i want to go doctor. Take me <hes> because i i'm. I'm a arms wide open type of person when it comes to alien u._f._o. Space craft was back to can just finally sorry miami florida anyone. I do want to apologize to anyone who tuned in to see a extended ca of dr greer. I'm sorry if we didn't i'm not at all suck. Suck my dick fuck politics but good for you for being an empathetic young man. It's nice so back back to the wedding. Mike hired a hot assistant. He discovered at jake's wedding. That's great okay and we go to the after party now. Yeah yeah okay the after not sugar factory chaos right yeah so there's this club called chaos. They hooked us up. Oh there's a lot automatically lose see lost sixty five hundred in literally thirty seconds. I lost. I think three thousand all of us <hes> we were literally well yeah well over ten thousand daily lawsuit collectively. We probably lost. I lost to look danny's face. She rarely will spend money on a cheeseburger because she lacked rather say that she lost like two hundred bucks. Everybody in this room got flamed and by the way like take my vice. That's probably the last. I'm gambling he. Eh that's probably won't probably won't gamble here. Here's here's my take on it. You you got a sense the vibes right and when i go win with a hundred bucks and if i if a- double that or if i make some money i'll keep going but if i lose that that's like the sign from the universe being like chill out bro also not near night we we were rushing which i don't do that gambling like i want to really like you said vibe energy like lock in i was hammered. I'll take six thousand dollars on my bank account. Put it on black laws advertising yeah. We had a lot of people the night that you want. How much did you win the ten k. right. You put ten k on black. Remember like back in the day. Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. I think i think i think five we i mean we're manifesting now for a long time and we found like a private room and it was as good as well done. There's none of that here. Take guys don't get sweaty people. They're all at crowd really. Do you remember that so okay then we go to. This club called oh chaos. I'm sure you've heard about the brand new hot club in las vegas. It calms it is fucking awesome as it is. It is gorgeous. It's beautiful. <hes> <hes> dead mouse was playing which was a tree unbelievable unbelievable and they treat is really well shot. Okay us. What's the dude's sin city veteran sensitive <music> veteran took great care of that's right so you make the decision here. You can go anywhere you. You want to fucking grade school memory. You could say i want to go this way or that way. In the story unfold likewise papa books non choose your own adventure you go and it's like the page in the thing no no. That's a different type of book. I'm sorry i'm sorry i i also wanna the opa. My my head is spinning when we have a lot to talk about like a fucking a._d._h._d. Pass we're all over again. If you're put up with it does far. You've come to the best part in a few stories. Actually here's i'll. I'll do one spencer's prepare. Look you look you're drinking white white wine vinegar always so tentative to exploit my life especially especially like sexually because like i'm worried my future wife is going to watch this episode or like. My case isn't be like yo john. What's your problem. Thanks so much water. That was impressive. I'm gonna keep this p._c. Sorta p._g. P._c. personal computer yes absolutely correct. You can send it right. I i was talking to this girl. She's i kinda like it's kinda like vegas girl and we're hanging out the whole night. She was just my day girls hop bye. She's beautiful and we ended up looking up in the bathroom of chaos classy which which you know if you look a club person or just like a party i we don't do it man and so. I didn't think anything of it <hes>. I was just like oh. This is crazy. Is your superfund. Jake's wedding after party and about fifteen minutes in is bound to happen. Someone starts pounding on talk classic. I use the bathroom but i it was kind of a bathroom in a corner. I thought we were fine. Just fan bam bam bambi mind you. I'm already in my had already been in my boxers because there's a pool there i was swimming around and so it was really easy for me to hop in the bathroom and i think i was safe so thank paying pounding on the doors you know me. I'm funny guy. I start piling back. I love that part of the me. Positively inside look quite literally like the pony in many ways and we we wrap it up and wrap it up. I didn't wrap it up fox. We didn't right but then we wrap it up. Then i got my dad's gonna hate all yeah we'll see in the corner of the bathroom so sorry greg rig and then it's a classic conversation of you know who leaves the bathroom. I already leave at the same time for your couple like. I think it's pretty normal leave at the same time but like never at the same fucking done. Even if you're a couple you can't walk out of a bathroom in vegas at the same that actually could get you kicked out of the car. That's what i'm saying so and by the way if anyone from the club hello jimbo never do it again furthermore. I'm pretty sure you've just got forty thousand dollars. Plug at this point cast at the palms las vegas yeah the fucking so so so we decided that she goes i so so there you go out there. I'll meet you in like ten minutes and so she she opens the door she goes out in the door. Goes to shut door doesn't even can get remotely close to shutting and his hand boom slams the door and this girl walks in runs in whom you whom you know oh no wino- is an understatement this girl she's feisty. She's she's one of my girls and like. I don't want to use names but she who has not happy what the fuck are. You doing fucking referred to me. I'm like all i. I'm like this out of this out of a movie like. I can't believe this is happening around and so my mind goes into panama and i'm like kay he fucks award for me. I was so deflect comedy like smokescreens. Go first off. How dare you assume we had sex that is disrespectful to me and that woman and by the way. Do you have any idea who she is. I don't give up falco alco. She is why would you. How'd you feel if you saw some guy. Just fucking me go. I probably wouldn't put myself in that situation but again why you assuming we had sex you don't i don't know what took place and do you know who that is. She's like logan. I go. This is from the back of my mind. I'm like that is the daughter of the prime minister mr of your last in my mom like if i throw enough smokescreens actually computer i can make a meteorite it has started spinning she wanted she wanted to hypnosis mode and logan just he's beeline stock and when she woke up like twenty minutes later she was like oh where's he has. I forgot was a men in black shopping. That's what i what i was hoping will happen and it kinda work fused her a little bit reiser. Brain caught short confusing confusing diffused false both diffuse so you know there was a full. I'm still on the lines twenty minute. Yeah twenty argue actually to be honorable. She was in the lion's den because i had you bowled knows girl. I've warranted this'll be that'll be the fourth time where i straight up. I'm like yo. I'm not like the perfect guy you think. I am at this point in my life. I don't really wanna be in a relationship. I know she's going to be there. I've talked to her. You're fucking time. I talk about it the day after it happened the day before it happened before it happened and the week after happened. The problem is she knows rose but i'm like yo literally like how long does go on for like you obviously heard you talk to said that. The problem is the problem is this. There's a lot the problem is i like. I do enjoy her company. I don't like i don't lie like some. Some fuck boys like lie about like i want to be with you. I don't see any of that. I i'm like you. I i enjoy being around like your company. Your funded defined hang with and also like we've been over this before you're li. You are a little bit nicer than average like person that is able to keep that boundary to your girls which is great but you do confuse them. <hes> yes god dang off if you had a god dang agreement about her having your child and she's going to sign a thing that said you get two hundred fifty thousand dollars. It wasn't it was like it was hit. It wasn't an agreement. I think hayden hayden wrote it on a piece of paper. He's sign here to accept gan's baby. I like it wasn't a real concern. Take it up when you start talking about big. There's louis we make jokes was a fucking by the way shes here like like what's the poor of a toothbrushes bri to three so anyways so anyways after twenty minutes i finally able to like and this is really not amicably amicably at all. It's horrible so she storms out and i'm like i can finally get back to my friends. Now i walk out all i have. All i have is my boxers. I have no phone no wallet. No shoes no shorts no shirt nothing because i give them to danny and my friends so i could jump in the pool no problem go find dani. My friends clubs empty. Everyone's gone everyone in our section sector four thirty everyone's gone. I'm like i'm like i shit like god. You put me through test right now. No problem no fucking problem so drunk. Logan paul goes stumbling down the stairs with a pulled hamstring. I'm like limiting across the kiosk. Ask the palms hotel and i see a secure execution of mr 'cause he's gonna find a taxi. He's like what i say. Could you give me a taxi. He's like i got you so he takes me. Walks walks me through the hotel all i have. Is this tolerace again no shoes. I don't even know how many pay tax on a wall and here. I am like this this. I don't know where to go. I don't know armani's home address us. The last place i know is that ratchet as ghost hotel that y'all were staying john john. I don't even know the name of it. I don't even know if y'all going to be a wake of danny's there and right as as we are about to leave out of the corner my i sweet c. suite and gela danny playing a game of blackjack more money money. She's like we're about to leave. I thank god you didn't so she gives me my shoes. My pants my shirt my wall my life slowly coming back together still phone what we're about that later but slowly coming back together. No problem meet up with my five minutes later phone bam he can. He's again he. He can't tell one point he goes on and there was this phone was dead. Cra- it broke water okay gotcha brother and i took it in and i had that in the back pocket <unk> proceed to lose even more money. I sat by by the way really quickly. I got down at zero one of the kids from crave cafe. I'm gonna give you a free shot up because of this happened. He came up to me salmon. Samir gave me twenty bucks goes. You do it man. I'm like brown down twenty. One hundred bucks if i come back to twenty eight hundred from your twenty bucks. That's a fucking miracle. Dude ran that shit twenty than i bet forty eighty then i bet one sixty then i bet three twenty kept going broke all of those and i broke the bets down a little one to two hundred three hundred before you knew it three k. back on the fucking table logan comes over takes. His phone lost all their chips every fucking dollars our such so then look my life is look. You know full peace again. No problem going to go on going. Go sleep for a couple of hours and then i'm going to go to london and then it'd be right. You can just like chill now really insane any incidents in spain with fans spain was our security guard is like a thirty year like military veterans and so we were we were pretty is names. Keith shout key through really secure. I'm trying to think of we had. I'm looking through my notes here. If we had the incidents we had one incident. We got kicked out of a club and and an airport at the airport situation. I had to pay for k. Flaky will make it ah just because it's like it's like a whole like airport security through it happen because you looked like thon house. They thought i think the i'll say in jet. If you want to go ahead and cut it but <hes> so i i really really really neabry aided drunk. One tonight and security was around always ended when jacobs talking about personal shit when we're drunk because it gets emotional we talk about whatever i saw this girl out of the corner of my eyes she's like she's like doing one one of these like outside the club and so i told my security guard i'm like oh like could you check that girl and make sure she's not filming and keith goes up there. He's like hey excuse me. Ah appreciate you not the film and she goes out like i wasn't filming and bu as the mike fucking club so i don't know who these kids aren't. Please leave now. It turns out the girl in the club. She does want you guys to leave now. I was like i don't know why that is so satisfied to me whether it's not that does it for him when we try to big up on people and they're like yeah man like i get that you guys are like popping on g and youtube and shit but this is my place so you guys have like the building escort you she. She was nice about by the way i don't. I don't think we got kicked out. I think she she was like she was like this is my club and then we were always you're probably not disrespect this okay so we were then the next morning obviously really hung over like every morning and broken hung over. I'm sure everyone who who's hung over. Gets like this like you're just a little extra goofy in file and reckless and you don't give shits so we are at the airport and i don't wanna wanna be there like traveling over is i don't want to be there. I'm like kinda just messed around like doing my thing like shades on like a mess gold chain three buttons down a tropical t-shirt yeah so i go. There's there's you know where you get checked and you checked your bags in yup security. They no no no no no no not security where you check your baggage. Check your bag. There's a bunch of empty kiosks like from qassam. Air airline was not up and running at that moment there was like maybe like five of them and there was a chair behind behind one of them and i was glowing radiating. I was a need. I need to sit. There was like there's nowhere in the airport. That's comfortable. If you haven't gone past security someone so walkover. I sit in this chair sunglasses on kinda. I just closed my eyes or second all of a sudden here's some emotion and some lady some ladies counting down. She goes three two and then all of a sudden she hits one and i'm whoa easy easy. What's good and turns out. She had apparently said i'm going to give you three she goes. I'm gonna give you three seconds to leave three to one that was that was her cadence. That's a question that there was no there was no chance even if i was sober i would've made that so i didn't make the countdown and some guy came out of the back he he was livid. He's like find another airline. We make kicked out of the airport. I'm exaggerating. The airline would not fly with them. Wow so they go egos find another airline. I leave. It wasn't like a security thing it was just airline we had a i had of sat down and then louis filming to which upset them blue jays videography because he was filming the whole thing and so we try to book another fly we just sat around the airport for awhile and <hes> we had to get a private jets that cost twenty thousand dollars so there's a twenty thousand dollar steak on on my hand but then again i'm like bro you even our even our security keith who has been in the military for thirty years he goes. I've never seen a group of people more irate rate in my life than them like they would like a switch was flipped and they weren't having it and it was over for jake and i got a private jet which was actually awesome. Thank the conversation here started to set up this pattern of the battery which i think i don't want people to watch this together. Kids completely office fucking rails why i am and my favorite authors say now we're talking about. All this is all those naysayers. Hey sayers the mike. Mike is a bad influence people who he that's what i realized. I was actually was out like i really was. I was worse with but you know who it was. I don't know you were vegan. When you're living with me you're literally paul. George asked me. I was depressed. He goes are you. Are you depressed and ever seen you like this. Who doors look. Let's let's let's get out of here. You're right when i'm with jake. That's that's the problem. When i'm with jake it's like a converging tectonic plates and we just go crazy crazy crazy and build each other up and next thing hall he said i'm the bad influence well in many ways. You are you humanely. Dream force fed me alcohol last night last night and you had three drinks and we went to sleep at like eleven thirty years. We've probably read the bible of good influence encourages someone to do things that are going to grow them benefit them fat influence encourages someone to keep doing bad can leave out okay so so there's a lot of music in a beach. A lot of drugs and alcohol like everyone has brought the amount of piggies people. Try to shove down my throat. I'm like dodging pinkies left with powder on the as far as creating a become like kung-fu panda here. Wow you ever think it is wearing one of those. Massive people were at the scene that that's actually a great idea. That's actually a great idea. I should have done that. I have a i have have so many stories. They're they're all. They're all crazy at one with the celebrity really yeah okay sarah. I didn't tell you the story no. I don't want to say this celebrity. Though so it's going to be worth now now it makes it. Whack i know pay office. Somebody gives you a hand. Job doesn't finish yeah. You guys see hobson shaw. No i saw i got invited to the premier invited to the premier by universal. They hit me up. They emailed me and said hey mike we. Oh we see what you're doing out here. We wanna wanna know if you wanna come. See the premiere before anybody else's macaroni. I got a new word mid-flow answer there. We go there. We go mid flu inserts search right between micro and macro mid fluent. Sir talked about the review on the night shift. I've i'm sure some of you that insane show but i'll say it's a good movie. It's a classic. It's a it's a didn't say classic and it means that it's a good movie. At one point. The rock is able to isn't really much of a buster here but the rocks able to command a blackhawk helicopter with one arm and a tow truck with the other and he's able to reconnect them with fucking pectoral muscles by the away. That's really shaped dude no she didn't and i went and i saw did her view on the night shift and now they're like. We want to invite you to all our permits mitch. They invited me to the new. <hes> big kids movie. Oh george tonight you. I wouldn't just come to the premier with me. I think it's already out dog out shit that i definitely miss pitfall universe. I my conclusion with hobson shawl. Was this just plain and simple. The rock is the johnny sins of hollywood easy easy tamp. What are you what are you saying. That's what he said. Last time i saw johnny sends us wearing a button down t-shirts tie with swung around his neck and he's six back out over a fucking. Yes yes yes. That's the rock in hollywood just fucking extreme cocker takeover everything i love when you look over to marc timestamps. It's my favorite yeah. I've gotten so that's what i'm that's timestamped. Look just look around bro because this garage has great look. It is nice garage dude. What else do we i. Oh i kind of skipped skipped over this as i was arguing with the girl in the bathroom of chaos. She said she said a a line which i thought it was funny and you said we were getting married. No she said i can't tell if i want to punch you in the face or have your babies but i feel like even even the girl who doesn't doesn't having my baby's will feel like that yeah i. I want to be challenged dude. You're going to be difficult on way difficult. That's that's why i need to be challenged like like when a girl can maintain eye contact with me for a bit and challenged my ideas and beliefs and we can do this and do this. I remember the last. I remember the last girl that did a good job of that. You fuck. It wiped her up forever your data some same. That's that's how that's how it works at girl single use or was it like a big. There was a big bathroom. It was a big bath. Oh that's oh no no no it was it was it was a big single. Use bathroom back to is talking about just one more note on that when she came out after you guys had the argument she came out and i was like oh my god was sub and went to give her a hug and she said it gets you through my arms aside and and i think most people would be like a lot of that just happen. What if what have i done wrong. Yea and i literally didn't even take a quarter of a second my brain to think of what happens moved on to the next and just starting to have oh. I forgot got to say dumb conversation later. I heard stories that the first the girl i was actually with that night. I heard stories that she was <hes> walking around the club crying yup. They're like they're the people asked him. What did you do to that girl in the bathroom of what what are you talking about their like. She left the bathroom cry or or no she she. I saw her crying later and she's sent me a text. It turns out to his happiness no she she had thought that i invited the other girls in the bathroom right after for some sort of like try to follow up yeah no no no no no no no all like you're gonna. You're like i'm i don here. Thank you number forty down. She thought i did that and just kind of likes me too and so if that broke her heart so like that was just a really nasty the situation so i had to explain her in fortunately she believe me. I was like i i have. I said i love how the fuck is that even possible any any dues capable the bullet from a pure savage level physical like pena standpoint like the side is going to give you a ride applause but like that's something man i i don't. I don't have it in. I'm curious chris like do you. Do you think you'll ever delete this episode. When you're like married my cough your later we still swimming around the digital ocean twenty years from now right now. I've i've thought about this before i thought about this before and i turned two examples and models of where this may a b a thing yeah take plenty to choose to take any single rockstar in the world. Take anything you think or even nine rockstar celebrity that that like has a desire to live a really crazy lifestyle. I don't i think any of their wives or loved. Ones doesn't know what they did in their past. Yeah you know it's like an it's an accepted overall. We're all like and by the way grow. Your girl has a past the girl you end up with eddie. We all got. We all got a pass sometimes a little crazier than the knob but i'm not going to be with a girl who doesn't like me. She's gonna love me because i'm fucking crazy you know and when i can i can channel that energy into one person. It's the greatest thing in the history through mankind when i feel that it's it's the best so there's like a give and take and i learned this with my last relationship like everyone has a past put this year behind you don't judge them based on that and just move forward and and trust that it's going to be great. I'm so floating around waiting on some double dates bro. We just went on one last night sucked yeah <hes> because i didn't tell you because you don't live in the house anymore. I know i met a girl really a serious thing <hes> no not at all just matter but she's cool like i could see. I could see it getting. I could see you're getting like somewhat somewhat. Legit maybe three asu promising youngster that's promising but hey really quick one thing on the girl that locks people like mere him down. I think there's like a level of power that they tain from that lock. You know what i'm saying. They're like yo. I stepped up and i fucking tame that bull but no but seriously like these girls are like y'all l. like you saw it. This dude was doing then he met me and stopped. All that shit. Molasses girl said she deep blue. I think he's something like she will only fall in love with these types of dudes because unfortunately dudes that do that tend to be like doc conquerors smooth charismatic and it's not always like that but there's there's definitely there's definitely a <hes> a rare trait of ability. I'll say is the worry goes slavic castano exactly cabanal uh-huh. Are you saying rico suave. I mean but no but like yeah we got the ways brow humour fucking near funny guy like we can have conversations jeffrey obscene. Oh yeah dylan just help us. Is this is jeffrey. I'm such a weird because i said fuck it dude jeffrey fucking epstein. What what is the lead this one in just because the topic okay go jeffrey app seen ladies and gentlemen was going and to go to trial for allegedly sexually trafficking young women very young women and <hes> just a couple of days ago as i'm sure. Are you know if you're watching this episode. He he killed himself in his prison cell dylan's. Give me the quote on the air quotes because he killed himself and there's a lot of speculation reputation and a lotta is on this battery not because he was on twenty four seven suicide watch was he still at the time so he was. I heard he was off at at the time they told the guards get out maintenance cells and the cameras so having to now the same time and so within and so within twenty now within hours of the news of this breaking the biggest thing that started to happen is we had to hashtags on twitter that started to elevate now. I don't remember which came first but obviously there's been all this back and forth about the clinton body count so has that clinton body count on twitter started to blow up and people we'll start to say hillary's hook stratas come after madonna got him this time and and so added to hillary's until but then people realized wow this dudes really really fucking good friends with trump and trump has a lot more to lose clinton to clinton's our family people now that ain't got no not in the fucking high. Don't give a shit and so then trump bodycount hashtag i started to rise and so you had a battle between trump body count and clinton body count. It's been a wild couple of days in the political arena yeah. I don't know with the make of that man that whole thing. Is it a hate that i can't no i'm well. I thought it was interesting. How trump and i'm pretty sure the clintons were both on his flight manifests to go down to his island up. I don't know if trump affiliate island. They're coming off trump down the island. I know the clintons did from what i read like. That's wild to me. You know like this guy was doing stuff that clearly we got him in trouble. You know this. I don't know all the details right because you could go. You can know this guy you could you. Could you know miss his who he really is but that's crazy. These people have power are things for sure it's it's. I think it's cool that we're becoming aware of it because i think people were talking about this guy for a long time the hint for him to get in trouble now. You know it's because people are talking about it. They're becoming aware of these things but when you say like sex trafficking like for me at least i'll just speak for myself when i see her that i'm like i can't even fathom but to think that it's taboo hanging out with our presidents and like it's also but also forever forever linked to like you saw the show robert kraft earlier this year like there's some asiatic happening in that top circle of the world where they feel so untouchable but the one i think i will say about epstein is i feel like a lot of times now because of the theatrics of everything i think i tweeted about this the other day. That trump has so much found his niche in owning the theatrics. He's activated his base theatrics and so every time he makes tweet about this or that. His groups like talk like he's just he's trained his little group of of monkeys to like applaud when he does crazy shit and so this on both sides odds the aisle the f._c._c. is one of those theatrics because my my thought is this dude probably was young going up against charges of trafficking teenage girls i. I don't want my family to go through this. I don't want to have to go through this so i'm gonna take this way out. Trump didn't kill him. Hillary clinton didn't fucking kill them like let's be honest people to do didn't want on a face trial and see what happens all. That's what you think okay so here. Here's here's the alternate shot which is very doable as well. There's documented evidence that clinton was on the island was underage girls present and there was multiple times where he ordered his security to like vanish so when and you think about what what i'm speaking for what the conspiracy theories are saying is that he was killed because he had information information that could really expose the clintons because when you're on trial and you're caught you could start talking but he has has trump's a._g. No trump put the guy who runs the jail in charge so it's like he was the oversight person so both of them. You can almost half like trump by the way it wasn't just clinton trump also and i'm trying to remain as middle ground as possible here. Clinton has done fucked up shit. Hillary's done fucked up shit but trump has hundreds of hundreds of pictures epstein. They're boys. They were boys like best best boys okay and he stayed. He kept up seeing in his circle when he became president. Epsteins ben apart his crew. He's one of his cronies until like nick yeah. I don't know who would put the head out if that were to happen but my guess is the dude said yeah. I don't wanna fucking go to jail who did it and just the fact that yeah yeah like it could easily could have been done yeah. It's pretty pretty well. I mean i don't want to make it look like they just stopped hanging out there. The fucking homeys dude bro you can you can feel people's energy and i like every person we know that does bad things every person. I know i know like doing stuff. They shouldn't be doing behind the scenes back back. I can feel that before. It needs to be told to me. Radius for example always always just rubbed me the wrong fucking way. It's the most when i was around the dude. It's like there's. There's something here that irks me and sure enough. All that shit exploded so bro. There's another one i think of. I know yeah yeah. There's a i mean brothers. These amount i hope that our generation ration- and coming generations start to get to the point where you know enough's enough and like these people who are in power like we're seeing so it's in front of us now like twenty years ago you said these things about sex trafficking and human trafficking and it'd be like yo shut up conspiracy theorists. It's not a conspiracy theory very anymore. It's real it's right. There who jim carey's always got fire but hopefully the younger people start to wake up and we realized that you know this this system that we have in the united states. Yes it's great. I'm not going to be the one to you know bitch about got it all the time but you know there's a lot of messed up people that are manipulating these seats of power and the government also corporate and that hordley above government for for sure but like the thing is is like i don't know that even if you shake up the structure which i which i think is something that you're interested in by the way i mentioned as well that that will ever change the abuse of power to to garner the ability to do things that are in normal people's lane is something that's happened since the beginning of time senators in in fucking greece and rome has but when you go to other countries it's it's just nonexistent here. I don't believe that it is goldberg. I don't believe that for a second i i've seen multiple stories royals of hall of horrible things that are happening in countries i i would. I would be careful to say that only happens in america. You've got that they never said it alright america. We'll say we'll go to other countries. You see that it is there's areas where their systems in place the structures in place that this stuff doesn't happen balance. You know there's like when you go to the e._u. Like this is probably not the best example but when you go to the e._u. Landfills are banned like you. Can't you have to recycle you have to when you're in the united states. We have all this plan dan we have you know we can do what we want like put in the ocean. Yeah we can do it so when you look at other countries there are structures. There are things in place that are better but i i sure but i i do also think of the flip side of it. We're like for example like iran and north korea specifically north korea that doodle just kill fifty sixty people on any given day members of his family by the way i don't like my uncle his wife his kids or anyone else around him all of them dead and literally they'll just line them up in the street and shoot shoot all of them right and so much worse you're right. I think we sit somewhere in the middle. Maybe like the ship at because imagine. The other thing is to imagine the shit. We don't see now. We're starting to see a lot more of it but still it's terrible shit. I mean imagine all of the wars all of the bullying that our country does us you know all of all of that for sure and to have our freedoms that we have here like what it costs now. It's getting psycho knowledge. It's very true. What have you got a lot of gas really did let us know you guys think of this episode. The boys only boys are back. Even though spencer doesn't live here anymore no problem. 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Ask Nick - Prenup Panic

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1:35:40 hr | 1 year ago

Ask Nick - Prenup Panic

"Up Everybody hope you had a wonderful Christmas. Now we're in the law. Yeah holiday season some people have to go back to work. Some people do stuff like you got that vacation mode and your dislike on work and and then you do I feel like I had a job once where they gave you that whole week off the job once you know I. I had a lot of jobs where they give you the week of Yeah they kind of just shut out. There was like you're not going to really work. Yeah the ball and then other jobs well when my sales jobs I would always go back to work. Yeah it's tough Whenever whenever I was in sales sales I never really used my vacations really not as much? Yeah why not so. You're not making money. That's it's true you're on salary but it's just I had to get better at tagging vacation and then when you take vacation you're still working. Yeah so you people know driving to work right now not feeling it wo- for those who have to go back to work we're here for you. You're not really GONNA be working. 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Yeah I like really I think I might get the. There's a new sixteen or wait. I'm always the type of person that wants to wait until the next the best thing you did you because yes I said okay because you hit a certain number de sac. I think that's a problem of always thinking. The next best thing is coming out well in in life sure especially when at the apple store. I bought my iphone two days before the came out. I mean that was bad on your whatever. It's still like new and the I think it's a little different with computers. Yeah I think so too anyways but even boyfriends you can always be waiting for the next best thing to that is that is true. True Great Segue Richelle. I feel like guys more think that way I guys Daf. And she's really. This is fine unlimited. Just like he's alive. He's He'd likes me. He likes me. This is all that matters guys not so much anyways. We have another great episode. Ask Nick we always appreciate your listening. Hopefully to get you through the Christmas hangover right into New Year's Eve come back on of the holiday of the holidays if you will. Yeah we're here for you. Come back on Wednesdays. Wells Adams joins us to talk about and help us ring in the New Year. And we are here. You're on New Year's day we are. We don't we don't take breaks. We don't take vacations quite like me and sales right. Yeah I don't really have vacation days to take but could you need to start living your life overrated. I'm here I live my life through the audience. Sad it's pathetic. anyways wells Adams has helped us bring in the New Year. So hang out with us on Wednesdays. We're here for you until then enjoy. That's Nick Luke. John has said it was. How's it going all right? Hey Meredith Cavalier. And I'm twenty eight from Virginia. All Right Meredith. Twenty eight hour you. I'm great I thought first of all you might want to fire your assistant for not I during a better vetting process because I'm a big Kaitlyn. Bristowe Vino that's fine. Are you talking. He should fire me. That's what you're saying. That would be richelle. Well No have you. Did you not listen to the caitlyn episode. I mean we're like we're like team. K B and N V right. Now I I I yeah I actually like it. I appreciate it a lot actually I actually. I'm wearing Ranchi. Look Nice I would normally only where wind like every day but you know work anyways out of respect for the show I guess right right well I listened to your podcast. Cast with her and I didn't listen to but I didn't listen to our live show with you. So does that say mine show better her anyways. How can we help you? Merida's okay so I just have a little little relationship question Been in a relationship with my man friends for almost three years and We talk it out marriage a little a bit But we're kind of in a situation where our finances don't match up completely so he's kind of you know he's talking about wanting you know if we ever do get married. Definitely get a pre nup. Ed where I read this year. I'm kind of I'm on the fence about it and you know I understand where he's coming from financially you know in the future But also I'm trying not really go into marriage on a transaction where I get it. I'd rather maybe you know. Wait for kids being at a post. Now I read your email. So let me payrise paraphrasing. Correct me if I'm wrong just to and I thought these were specific details in your email so let I mean I understand it correctly but Right now you seem to be a positioning your career. Where you're making some pretty good money and you are Smart with how you spend it and you've saved up and you you're doing just fine. He on the other hand. Very career motivated He's in in a position where he you know maybe just got promoted but he he might have some debt right now but he has big aspirants for his future and things are lining up for him to make a lot of money going forward with that. Be Correct Right. Yeah and so now you guys talk about marriage and he is definitely really wants to do a pre nub and you're like Is is is this a sure thing that he's going to be making a lot of money in the near future I mean it's he's a he started at a startup marketing agency. And he's like I mean the number two guy so on its face or he could be a home run kind of thing right. Yeah what do you think I have an opinion. I'm curious what you WANNA know. More like what she's what her thought processes behind it behind not wanting it. I mean I'm not I'm not against like you know a financial agreement. Thanks I would just. I just don't really see with how much you know. He's got student debt. And and I don't and really you know he tells me the Prenup is GonNa save me from you know. Potentially having to to bear has student debt. What's in your gut like what's making you think that a pre-nup is not something you want to do? I like I mean. I just think that I've wanted to get married my whole life and especially with him like I wanna I wanna say it's a done deal I just don't I don't WanNa be planning a wedding and then also you know meeting with attorneys. It feels UNROMANTIC and it feels on Hernandez sick and for something that can may be done after the wedding. Yeah I mean I don't know if you can do it after the wedding. I'm not a lawyer. And I don't know anything about premature premiums per se but I think the whole idea is figuring out the legality of your finances before you get married in the sense because if you don't do that once you get married there's laws. Are you know things that go into effect based on the fact that you are married you know like if you do it after I just looked it up if you do after the wedding. It's called the post nuptial agreement. You kind of you can go back cleanup and a post nup so you can go back and kind of say I forfeit like whatever rights that we have as a married couple. But we are going to agree to do this are you. Are you saying you would be okay with us. If it was after your marriage that you would like you're really why I mean because I think that's a huge going to be a huge part of our lives and our you wouldn't I wouldn't be I wouldn't be opposed to it like when we're about to have kids and when we have to figure out you know am I gonna be staying home taking care of kids while he's at work making more money. I'M NOT GONNA be able to recover if we you know if anything does happen I mean the you are married and you are like why do you have to get a pre nup and John McCain. Are you okay with the possibility of just being like I don't want to go to pre no. You're my home. I don't I would. I would want to resent not one either way. But if that's GonNa be his you know stickler thing and to get married like whole life revolves around Noggin. Mary unless he has a pre-nup then well then you're going to have a little bit. I'd be compromising a little bit and signing a pre pre number might be two different things I mean I don't ever and everything else in this relationship is just the great wonderful I think so. Okay I mean you can be What about like when you described? Oh to him how uncomfortable you are with the idea of getting a pre nub. Does he listen does he the open to having a conversation I think right right now I mean I. I've worked in law worked in like offices and I've done research on it and I've kind of come around to it a little bit or as but I was also I also told him like if this is something that you want. It's come out of your pocket. You're going to meet with the attorneys and pay for it. I'm going to meet with the attorneys and you'RE GONNA pay for it just something. Have you discussed If you get a pre nup what exactly. He's asking for and terms of. Yeah he's telling you selling you on the idea that listen. I have debt when you don't so in the in the near future this is actually protecting you. But there's a reason why he wants to sign this prenup and as he described you like what what. If let's say you guys get married and have kids and his marketing company hits a home run and he's worth fifty million dollars in ten years from now. How how much she expects you to get of that? If you sign a Prenup have you. Have you discussed that. Does he have a a bulletproof Roy. Bullet points laid out of like. What's what's that? Look like. OR Z. Want all of it. He wants to equity wants his equity. He does so he's saying. I WANNA pre knob Bob. So that if we get divorced and it doesn't work out you can't get half of the equity. I have in this company right. Basically A he's he's saying he's doing one hundred percent of the work he wants one hundred percent of the equity whatever he gets. I mean I mean you could argue that while he's doing hundred work you are you know. He's fifty percent of that relationship you know and then again what. If you guys have a fam- it's all fine. Now when you guys are two single people with no kids but then you start a family you know and then choices are made about who staying home and who's working yeah etc etc.. I'm I and I always imagine like a pre-nup if I got a pre-nup I'd want like a cause and there to say like you know void this after five years you know or once we start having kids because I mean not really boy I guess you can make like amendments to it but it's listen. It's it's definitely I want everything. Sure I mean listen. It's Unfamiliar Territory Tori for me. I never imagined asking for one or being asked. No I mean just off the top of my head. The only time I like I I can think where it makes. Sense is if you're worth a stupid amount of money right if you're a billionaire or let's say even worth Eur fifty million dollars and you meet someone inch it's like. He thinks she loves me for me and like or I think he loves me for me. Let's say the woman's worth fifty million dollars. It makes sense to me that the person who has all the money would it'd be like listen. I trust you but I need something you know like I you know I. I can't get married one day and if you leave me next week you get half you know like that makes sense to me to like involve some lawyers but in this situation. It's just a lot of potential legalities and lawyers and and and a lot of unromantic conversations about something you don't even know is going to happen but he is hedging his bet that your relationship won't work which I don't think that's what it is. You don't betting that the relationship won't work it's heading hedging your bet on the possibility it won't I think he has. Parents are divorced and he's one percent he's hedging his bet like I'm not saying he's saying it's going to not work but he's he's being obviously very very realistic about the possibility that it can't hay grain which I appreciate I mean. That's the statistically that's a smart thing to do oh but you know there's the idea of don't get married I guess if he's not that's there's something about marriage and if unromantic but listen I would say if this is you know we hold your ground. I mean don't compromise too much at the risk of saying saying I just want to get married and have kids and I really love him but like you know. This is an opportunity to see how he's going to compromise in a life with him. You know if you're going to get married and have kids and make very serious choices. This is obviously a task. And so fine if you are willing obviously to have a conversation about the possibility the of signing a pre-nup see how flexible his you know without getting it. Combative you certainly are going to have to get a lawyer involved right like he's like you to your point he's going to have to pay for it if that's what he wants to do. Fine but you still need a lawyer to represent you and then your on your behalf offended like things like a statue of limitations like five years like you get more or it's reneged or you start having kids and things exchange because listen I guess if you WanNa play fair. He's hang all right. We're going to get married now twenty-eight we don't plan on having kids say four four years and I'm just throwing things out and if we get married in like shit happens in the first two and a half years we realize we hate each other like why do you get half we don't have a family together etc etc.. All right fine you know like if he wants to do that but you start having a family together and you know you're raising a family and you're staying home home and I don't know if you are but like your whatever you know things change and you become a family like yeah. I'm sorry you deserve some that equity you know your or don't don't get divorced or make it work you know or don't get married if you're thinking there's a good chance at like you have the such an easy out because I said I don't. I don't need to marry you if you're so worried about it but I mean also you don't he doesn't have to share. We're married right. He's happy to share is money with me necessarily tell me about it. I'm not a lawyer but to play lawyers just to play the other side on your your behalf right like he's like well. I want all of my equity. Well you know if you have an asset like his equity and his company and you guys get married and have kids and you do things like buy a house or in the future like put money aside for your kids to go to college like people borrow against that all the time they use that as a way to like you you know get loans etc etc and he has all those cards and you don't have any of them like it really changes how you guys make decisions right so like to say that you you know so much might be put into that equity might be a place for him to like hide money in a sense in like if things all of a sudden you're married married things aren't going so well he can. He can read. The tea leaves all of a sudden his companies like paying him a little bit less cash and giving them a little bit more equity of which he owns. All all of you know. I'm just saying those are vehicles which people can then start hiding money etc etc and like you know it can get real tricky and you have no protections a non gang. You'll have if you guys. If you guys do this. You'll have a lawyer like I'm sure bringing this up and and and finding your behalf but I don't think it's as simple as he's might be suggesting hosting and to your point if you really why get married There's something about wanting to get married of making sacrifices and planning for the future. And if that's not what he wants then maybe he doesn't WanNa get married. Maybe he wants a a full-time girlfriend is hopefully stay with them for the rest of his life and maybe have kids but not good married I guess I'm of a different opinion. I just think it it does feel unromantic but it could be a great way to establish like trust and intimacy MRI before you begin marriage and if you have faith that you will be together then I guess it. Isn't that scary like to me. I'm like I think you have to default to the person who wants it. I'm not saying it's wrong or right but I can see what you're saying. There's other ways to do that with money than getting lawyers involved in a pre KNOB. And he's saying pre NUB ARE PRE NUP prenup keep hearing free free now. I how much I haven't talked about. I don't know I mean I seen I'm surprised. That's your opinion. I I got money sure but I want to high still a romantic at heart. I hope I meet someone that I wanna be like. You know what this is GonNa. We're GONNA make this work. I've seen my friends Do other things with finances. I thought were really cool. I mean I have one friend couple couple. That's married and they have kids. I think they and they establish this before they had kids. But both working professionals made their money. And they I thought this was kind of cool. What they did? It was all right We make good money. We have our family account our marriage account of which we decided up front. Like what percentage percentage goes into that and then they have their own personal accounts right and it's a certain percentage and they have agreed that if you want your personal account if you want to spend all this on skittles. It's your right if you want to spend in. I'm just saying something absurd. Like that is their money and their first year mind goes they all the not as you're right but that is your money and then you have that freedom to do what you want with it a new you can shop and buy purses or you can go to sporting events you can do whatever you want and this is. Our money is a family that we are putting away for kids future and houses etc.. Eric sort of like how some freedom with your finances by at the same time be married and and things like that and like this. They made some money. They have the freedom to do that. My parents would be like we don't have the money to set money aside right for like we have kids. Everything's a little bit different but my my friend did so they didn't. They signed a pre nup and then so she charged him. She charges him for taking care of the kids than if. I'm not getting any of the money than I deserve to be paid for this community here. Kids show I mean sunny. You can if you're going to do a PRENUP. You can negotiate anything on the table so the question is how I don't catch. That's you know God damn thing I I get where she's coming from. She's like yeah I can do that. I can get a lawyer can get real. I can real nit picky but like like I want to get married and I wanted to get married and I don't WanNa get divorced. You know in the it but maybe just change change the way you're looking at it instead of looking at it as like a thing about divorce just look at it as a way. No I mean I. I don't know I think it's definitely. This is definitely a matter of Personal Donald Preference Right. I'm sure there's a lot of people listening being like no fucking way. Would I even consider this and other people being paid not that bad. It's not that big of a deal. It's it's certainly not a traditional mindset and if you kind of grow up thinking you know that's so unromantic the reality is i. I mean I was telling my parents over Thanksgiving and I love my family. Sometimes we as all people can be. We can be a little so Debbie Downer is we can complain about our lives that we have or what we don't have and I was like guys. We heard like so lucky as a family all aspects wchs of health relationships per se. You know general like well being the fact that my parents still together. I mean I go on a date with a woman and she's like Oh your parents together. I would guess that one out of five times. The person like they're like it's like a big deal now. It's as much as like their parents together to to join a date with someone go. Your parents will together. Oh Yeah you too. It's like Whoa. Let's take a moment you know. It's not very common that like two people go on a date and both of their parents are still together. I mean it's they say it's like a buck fifty percent but I feel like it's much higher now you know and so the reality is people are getting divorced so I get the premise. That like this is not nineteen forty anymore. Well it is death do you part. It's like you know so I get it but I don't know it's it's It's definitely I support. You not being okay with it He has definitely hedging his bet. You know maybe he's a very analytical person. Maybe he's that's that's just the way his brain works and he's just like I I love you believe. Let's be real here you know. I don't know but you definitely what my advice I guess is. Is You have to have a line that you aren't willing to cross right. That's that's my advises. You got to figure out what that line is. You got to figure out okay. I'm doing the research and I'm okay with discussing this but there's some things I'm just not okay with and I don't know what that is for you but you gotta figure out what that is and you need to be able to feel. He'll like he's meeting you halfway. It's just a feeling right. You need to be able to feel like you are getting some concessions with him. That aren't necessarily involving lawyers right and I don't know what that is but I think you need to feel that he's giving you something so you can feel that element of romance in the relationship and trust because you clearly aren't necessarily comfortable with it And if you do goal Through with it. You can't feel like you sold out or you. Can't I feel like you have this. Pre Nup is it pre-nup premium pre nup preening pre-nuptial pre-nup hanging over your head. You know and it's just like a thing that you become you build this resentment in. Imagine all of a sudden things. Aren't you fight a little bit nearing your third year fourth year marriage yet your first kid. It's a little tense As any marriage would be right. Often he makes some money equity goes up and that that pressure. You're gonNA feel of what did I do. What did I oh my God and then that that is he just going to bail on me now has all this money he can? You know it's aching create as much as it can create trust and security in terms of like an understanding it also also can create a lot of like. Oh Shit you know all depends on how good your lawyer was at the beginning versus his and all of a sudden you're literally making sure 'cause that's that's the reality if he wants pre-nup and you and you go along with it like the truth is in that moment figuring out you better hope that you have a better lawyer than has you know and this is someone you're like well. I hope I won because like I love you until death to his part but like just in case you know like I might hate you in ten years. 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So I am kind of in a precarious situation and It's very convoluted but I'll try to be super assisting with it and there's been a lot of new stuff that's developed so I kind of just want help with dissecting what's is going on maybe and see what you guys have to say about it but it's just really bizarre so So I am methods this guy like whenever I was doing my residency program Probably like six years ago and we dated very briefly I ended things because I felt like he wasn't putting in the effort and so After that I didn't hear from them for a while and then I And got like a facebook message from him that he had spent probably six months to a year after we had ended things and it was just something like oh I look through all these people with your name. I finally found. You just want to let you know that I had been thinking about you. So he had put in some effort after that right. I'm but I didn't get that message for like six months to a year after he had been it so it was kind of a moot point. Yeah Yeah Yeah So. I didn't get that message for a while And so you know we just kind of caught up just the how how we were doing or whatever and then that just kind of passed and then recently here probably within the year he actually sent me a facebook baseball Friend requests and then he wanted me on on an instagram. Or whatever so just kind of connected there and and long story short We've just been trying to catch up I actually had a medical conference out in in San Diego where he was back in June and we just met up for dinner. Whatever and then we'd just been talking on instagram since then well So what's been happening is. I've been getting these random instagram messages. From like a person who has no picture no followers. You're nothing I'm not following anybody and it's it's just one of those things where initially pictures of him Or like video. Love Him maybe out at a club or something dancing with a girl. But you know we're not exclusive so it's not anything that I'm really bothered by hi And so I actually sent them a message. I was like thanks. Why are you spending? need the picture videos. And they didn't answer in the they just kept sending joining me more more pictures and then being this honest account of yeah yeah like I have no clue who who it was so And then after a while they started sending me like actual tech like through instagram messages. Yeah and it would say days something like God knows what you did and we'll punish you for your spending like preview stuff like that right and On my phone I know. Had you been hanging out with this guy off and on he met finds you. Now you're talking and you're getting this ran. It's as if you're married it to him or you're having an affair but like you're being warned Amos. Is he like a big deal. No I don't even know and at this point are you even dating or you just like kind of talking via the Internet and talking have you hung out and we're just. We're just seeing where things things were going going. And so you're hanging out at this point so I I met him in San Diego whenever I was there for a medical conference and then he he actually came to visit me a couple by the time probably like a month ago and so. That's when all the crazy stuff started is Oh when I okay well thanks and you're getting videos of him dancing with people so so they did before. Yeah and so now. It's more like her just sending an unbending messages so I can't really see what they are and so then I'll have to like get on and then snapshot or take a screen shot a bit really quickly so I can save it So it's like the most bizarre situation Russian and then So that was all amusing and you know at the time I was thinking. Well should I be snarky or just like the fear and just asked for what's going on so after the the whole thing I I asked her like so like you know my fin. I tried to be like kind. Everybody Um I I try to be nice to everyone so if I did something pet you then they'd let me know and then they just you know. Obviously there are a little off off the rocker so they were just like you know what you did And then just like all these other things and at one point in time they spent like maybe like a whatsapp fat text message from like Babe which I guess is supposed to be him and the person Like shortly after his visit here and it was just like Him talking to the person and it's Oh I miss you like I was in Dallas but I would appear very to to you know meet up with the male friend or whatever which I don't I confronted confronted him about. It never said that so so time yeah have have you told him this story like is he going. Yeah he so. He was aware from the beginning like after the pictures I even said. Hey there reason why this person's sending me these pictures. And he like had no clue why they would spend those pictures. person is so M- the working theory with that. It was axed and now that's no here to working career anymore so I don't know who it is so we thought it was axed and Like at one point in time in one of the messages that they sent me and then on sent me they they reference his ex and They supposedly he reached out to his ex. Also in his ex had had been contacted by the random person also. And there's a picture of us that It's just like an innocent picture of just like Looking at the camera and I guess they're trying to provoke people 'cause they send it to his ex and it said something like Hashtag my love Hashtag my girl which. I'm very certain he never did that though. It's really bizarre that they've gone through all the trouble and had all this time to do there. That's really crazy. That is bizarre but I guess let I think in these situations always important to focus. This is what we do know not what we don't know what we do know is that you started getting these messages Around the time you started talking to this guy and you do know that this person whoever they are is messaging you about him for whatever reason And it's probably safe to assume that unless you have a friend who's just fucking well they know this person's sent you videos news of him. Yeah so the which I think I yeah. I think those videos were maybe on on his instagram Graham story or something that that is public though. It's just kind of interesting but I guess so like he it. He posted the picture of you that this person sent to his ex. Or how did they get that picture though after we took the picture I sent him Picture through tax but he like after the whole fake tax. That what that thing he Posted a picture of us on his story and it was just like tag yet tag me and thank you for for Showing me around Dallas. Or whatever I don't have my hacking phone or by Using that story picture I got a question. How does he backed about this situation? How concerned is he So I guess initially thought it was annoying. But he's like change to number Burger and all that stuff because they were sending him stuff too so Initially it was amusing But then it got kinda on a crazy because he would get email confirmation From whoever it is like scheduling him appointments with me. 'cause like I said I'm a physician. And so they would. He would get like he he would get email confirmations in phone confirmations Like from my health system could to schedule appointments with me and then he got confirmations of me scheduling appointments where I did in my residency on training But it was like my name plus his last name which is Kinda humorous but kinda bizarre and then Also so got confirmation for touring my apartment though. That's that's when I had to put out like a police Louis through port. Obviously because that there little crazy They just be. I mean 'cause I don't know who it is. They they just said keep a lookout Kowt for Shit Person. Are you dating now. So what's going on as I really. Oh no way Ah yes exactly so we were just being housing. Were and you know. We're not even in the same state. So you know He. He didn't want to go. And when you think serious I just wanted to see where things went so we're not even dating So it's really bizarre. And the person after that like I reported reported them on instagram and that automatically block them but then they created a new account and pictures and like they. You Know How you can award picture so. They were four sporting like a picture of like a female performer And I guess they were trying to show me that he had likes their their post or something. And I'm just like I don't care and you know it's like you know the scene and dumb and dumber where like the the Debt undercover coughing like rambling and Jim Carey. I don't care like I don't care I don't understand. Take my life in a conversation. Listen I it is weird. Obviously we don't have answers of how to figure this out. I mean the big question is is. Do you really like this guy I mean. Is it really worth it because the AH whether this is fair to him or not it all started with him. I asked those questions. Like how concerned is he about this because it is super weird it it did did start with him and I'm just wondering not to like put false blame on him but like it did it. He did start with him you know and it also started with him kind of finding putting you on the Internet. There's a connection with the Internet being. I'll glue and I'm not trying to get an conspiracy theory here but like you know. He did go out of his way to find. You found you that way people do weird things So if you were telling me the story and it's just like I've been dating this guy for like eight eight months everything's great and he's the greatest in the world and they're zero flags but there's a situation I would tell a different story I mean I would give a different response facebook messages a red flag. No no I'm just saying like it. Listen is a super weird story. There's not a lot of. There's not a Lotta guys. There's not a lot to go on right. We don't know why you're getting these random random messages via the Internet instagram facebook. Whatever it's super bizarre I even in a relationship with I am saying you don't know much about him? Mm You do know that he looked you up via the internet which is not weird it is to south point normal but he seems willing to like really go out of his way to do a deep dive to find you and that that's kind of aggressive not that you're not worth it or whatever I'm just saying that's a I don't mean aggressive in a bad way just like what. What's the upside here like? Do you really like him. Because I think that you need to figure that out because like is there anything else that feels offer weird about this whole situation about him. I mean th so. We dated initially for like two or three months And he moss. That's why you had to reach out that way to me but You know what he he had lost his phone owner something so he didn't have my number so then that's why he had a like. Look me up on facebook or you broke out so after you waited sounds weird I wanNA make sure. I don't think it is weird. Is it might sound you. Dated you start. Dating time passed he at some point. Got A new phone. I Don I lose numbers like that. I mean if it's someone like two years ago I might not have a letter. Say what happened to the end of your relationship so initially Like we were dating and I felt like I was putting in more effort. And then he would. Not You know we would not go anywhere. Yeah and so after. I told him that like I didn't hear from them. And then like the six to one a year later. That's when he had messaged me on on facebook doc thing that he had tried to find me or whatever I'm just saying like the two people dated isn't workout and then he didn't he for whatever reason wanted to reach back out he didn't have your number anymore that's believable. That's fine six okay. It's possible I could have lost the number. None of that's toy where I'm simply saying this super weird and it seems like a lot of effort in like you're now you filed a police report for a guy that you're like about and he is the like he is the center center of this whether it's his fault or not. He is at the center of this. So the question is like how much do you really like them to like to figure out what's going on. Yeah so honestly I feel like he probably just need a friend right now. 'cause He seems actually really overwhelmed and like stressed out by the whole situation and what he's saying to me So I think I'm beyond the point of like trying to pursue this but I guess my other question question is like at this point in time. Do I like if I go on a date with someone. Do I tell them about this. 'cause this seems like a pretty big deal oh you know. It's like a weird situation to be in. I think When it comes to this guy in this relationship you should communicate right? You shouldn't be afraid to and especially with him. I don't know why but I think it's particularly important for you to be very clear about your intentions whether this is a friendship or romantic romantic relationship or no relationship at all right. I don't think you should hope that he's okay with something I think if you don't want it and Romantically. I think he needs to be clear about that. I'd be curious. How the soul what happens after that to be honest I'm curious to hunt and that's the thing there's something there. I think there's something in your gut I don't know that's telling you something but don't leave any gray for this guy you know I think that's really important. So if you WANNA be as friend I think he it needs to be very clearly stated that that's what you're interested in and that's all you're interested in. I think it's totally okay. Also cannot be as friend. You're not his. Yeah you're you don't need to be his friend right now. Only not yeah I wha he'll find other friends. I mean you're both adults you know you dated needed once. He seems overwhelmed. I people do fucking weird things man and I just think again. He's the one he's the he this all all sorts with him. And it's super weird and you know What is that Law like the most simplest explanation is often the right one. Acadians Geoghegan's something. I've never heard something never heard that it's a basically the easiest and most simplest explanation is often the true one the right one and and so you can get an all these theories about J.. Spacey questions is based off of that is like Oh yeah we can all sit here for twenty minutes and think of a bunch of different scenarios to figure out what's going going on right but all we do know this all started with him off Kim's razor I'll never heard of that. Yeah right right and so. I think there's something there. We can't explain it but it has to do with him somehow. That much confident and and surprising can't figure out who it. It is not your problem you know and I think you don't want to date them. I think that's important. You seem pretty confident about that. You seem some What both You feel this burden of being his friend because maybe deep down you sense that he's kind of a lonely troubled person not that is but you know you want to be there for room etc etc and weirdly an unjustified ably feel like you are afraid to date someone else without the and I think that's important piece. Had you know well that's fine but the you're a good person but you don't. You shouldn't feel bad. You should make it clear. You should be very clear and communicating with him. Because there's a weird kind of you got yourself in this weird situation where you're a little bit stuck for no reason and there's a lot of drama for like you're in a relationship and there's this you're filing police reports that's right so I think he. I Regina Agreement. I think you should just shut this down. Oh Yeah don't want to and you want to be his friend. You need to be very clear about this relationship. You're a hot doctor. You don't need to deal with this. You are babe you are a doctor You know maybe that caregiver in you is wanting to take care of them but don't that take care of your patients not guys in your life. I appreciate kid thank you. Thanks for calling all right. I see that needs to be Shared foreign white to all all the doctors. What a weird story? I definitely some mental illness. When you talk about sin like that's person I'm reaching out sure severe and I don't like it might not be for there's again there's only the only constant is this guy? You get weird messages. He's like that. I mean not like that now. Certainly not about a certain person that I've hung out now. That's good I've gotten weird message but nothing like nothing like that but it's something with this guy. There's something on there. And then when she mentioned that she's like what was it okay. KFI start dating other guys to like what do you mean why. Why would it be? Okay you know I mean. There's a reason why she feels reluctant to communicate with him. Yeah Yeah I don't know what that is but there's a reason why and it all started with him. Yeah so gotta be wary of those face. Messages is from guys in your past relationships pass in facebook too. I know we so anyways. Don't take care of your patients. A lot of people skit in affairs starting on facebook messages because no one else. There are certain certain. Their boyfriend and girlfriend isn't on there too or just like people like just reach out to people from their past. Yeah report hi hi hi. I'm Caitlyn I'm twenty six twenty six. Let's go on what's how can we help. Oh never we've been begging. He pretty much almost every night while asleep on the couch. Either playing video games or watching youtube or whatever and Comes about some it's like late like five. AM If he wakes up but most of the time he just. There's I and like toll trauma ready for me or like protein shakes or something like that's nice and all but I I kind of feel a little projected wake up in the morning all alone in bed we've been married for two and a half years and been a problem throughout the whole and the Andrew. Tell him what happened when you didn't have a couch. Oh yeah we got a new couch like a year ago and and we got rid of our old one and we didn't have a couch for like a week and he's still would fall asleep on the floor downstairs and not in bed. Wow and how's everything else. How's the sex life like it's definitely been a couple of years now so it's not like every day like it used to be usually on weekends? Well sounds like you have a little back a little bit. She said what does that mean. I I don't know I mean just all more okay but oh you do have one. I mean it's it's fairly drastic. Fall Soup on the floor so I'm just wondering if I would feel like at that point. No one's fucking but you still have sex life. It's just the afternoon delight situation. He likes it in the morning but like like at night but like I can deal with it in the morning because they've all taken any type but you coming to bed. Sometimes I can tell because he woke up wanting then. So yeah. And I'm assuming you've communicated this frustration with him. Yeah yeah he definitely knows what me. But I don't like waking up alone but he's kind of like there's nothing he can do about it like kind of how it is what job does have. He works weird hours. He gets all at like ten thirty but actually now he gets off at nine thirty but it's still a problem. Where does he will he works he inventory contrived at night at like a warehouse like do all online Like bath and kitchen. He gets off at nine nine seat toes into work worked later. Yeah Yeah Okay into work at like noon Ish And what he likes to come home and kind of decompress with video games and youtube videos IOS utility. Who knows what he's watching and then he saw in he normally like what's what's when is he usually fall asleep versus like disease just a night owl like he just goes to bed at four in the morning and wakes up at ten? Yeah he's got like stays up late. Alad guests. He probably doesn't falsely like three or four. Mostly I mean that's that is interesting because like okay if he has a job or he's working a different shift and it sounds like he's just he's operating at different hours in so I get the idea that he's coming Ming home at nine thirty ten. Maybe you're going to better on eleven twelve and he's like well up. I'm GonNa Watch you know whether it's video games and Youtube and he just But he can still go to bed at four three. If it's three or four he can still get into bed and like you know route that leg around your caveney. uh-huh you know that little like half spooner delay kind of thing and just kind of that little touch you know that everyone needs one likes you know just a little just a little rub. Caress you know. So he can. Yeah I get that. He doesn't WanNa go to bed at the same time as you. But that's this he can. He can definitely get into. He could definitely not fall asleep on the floor. Being Adult coversation up. 'cause like he knows that bothers me still happening and have happened for like two and a half year. My mom works crazy hours. She's a nurse practitioner. Yeah but she's still sleeps in a bed I think you need to be a little harder on them in a sense that you you you. You're giving me the VIBE. Like I've told him but he's like okay with it and so I just kind of very understanding what I'm saying. Stand told them you want to disrupt. I think you need need to like be like. Hey listen husband I love this really bothers me. You know. I want blind next to you and I don't WanNa just feel like ah anytime we like. Lennox is because you want to get off and so like I get around that you don't Wanna like go to bed with me but like you aren't adult husband and you can like not fall asleep on the floor and you can come in and you can spoon me a little bit and you can give me some affection other than with your Dick and and then we can just be happier and you know what. I know that you don't want to do this. I get that because you're in your comfort but I want this and as your wife I want you to make this very small mall in reasonable sacrifice to give me the love that I want and I think you need like just be like this is not an. I'm not requesting you know I'm getting like college boy vibes from what she's saying. I mean you're still pretty young when we meet we met when I was Wani and he was twenty one. We got married when I was twenty or twenty five and now we're like twenty seven twenty eight. I think sometimes a challenge challenge when young couples meet at that age. It's that you you there's some like stunted maturing as a couple like because let's so you guys didn't get married at that young age. Let's say he was out there dating and he was single and his twenty three twenty four twenty five and let's say he then was was twenty eight and then started dating a twenty six year old girl who also had been single and he pulled the shit she'd be like what the fuck are you doing. You know I would be gone but that would be going. CBS You or like you know the criticized Cuba's dating this guy and it's fine like us. He does this and is it that we're just kind of go along with it and it's like and when we were dating like he was with with remains we didn't live together until we got married so if we were hanging out at night it was in his bedroom so I didn't know we didn't have the problem so we had a house she needs a. I'm not a cool chick t shirts because you being understanding hurting more than helping. You're you're an enabling them. I'm and you have set this precedent of like being cool and like just kind of letting them know you're upset at listen if it does it mean if it really it's fine you can sleep on the floor and really cool You really you you need to speak so I'm giving you a hard time. You need to really. I feel like it's safe to say the things that really bother you hold on inside much longer than you should and you're not good at really letting them know no I really like I'm really unhappy about this and I really want to do this and I'm really need to do this. Please make I need you to know that. You're willing to make an effort for me because I know you can't do this. Tell him that he has an adult. Like that probably would not go over well. I should be condescending. No I'm saying that but like yes. You don't be condescending ending. Don't don't belittle him. Don't criticize him. This is like I. I I want you to do this for me please. I'm asking you and I'm letting you know L.. This is very important to me. This isn't like a small suggestion. I'm not mildly frustrated. I really want you to do this. This would make me very very happy. Be In fact nothing would make me happier. I don't care what you buy me whatever. This is more than anything. What I want in this marriage I think you should like put it out there? And then in his file if that's if when when you stay at like that what he's willing to do and you know it's a small effort on his part to be like I'm getting sleepy. It's three am I'm going to bed or could he play for two hours and go to bed. You know midnight and then do stuff in the modern even think we have to go. That far is like giving him a curfew if if the guy wants to play video games to three or four in the morning that's fine. But he needs not fall asleep on the couch if he wants a role in the bed and then like every night she kind of feels him get into bed and he liked caresses her back. And just let them know he's there and it's not just to get laid at five in the morning you know like she feel that way to be a regular thing that he gets in bed every nine it wasn't a guardless of the time and because he's an all your you seem like you've got your Shit together gorgeous hair great outfit. It looks like you're not a great job. You deserve someone you know you deserve a man. You're just yes you've you met him when he was a boy and we haven't really we haven't made him a man yet So yeah you gotta you gotta not be worried about being so understanding Christian pushed. You might think you're far away from being nagging your long way away. I've met people you're doing. You're you're getting married young is like I do worry that I'm going to turn into like a nagy white real fast did I. Don't pick on battle you know. I don't know what else I don't know. What else frustrates you about your relationship? I'm sure there are many as every relationship has them Bissau. Sounds like you've picked your battle in this. This battle is some a very reasonable thing. This is reasonable. This is reasonable to want to like feel like you have a partner and that you sleep with you have that romance and you know when you guys are like sixty five seventy you get separate bedrooms fine. You know like like our all our grandparents used to do but Yeah Ah that's fine but like that is a total reasonable request. You know again like you don't need to give him a curfew. I need you in bed by one thirty. No you don't have to do that. That's that's a little Nagy Maggie and little like you're not as mom but like I want you to do this for me. You know in. Show me affection. That is reasonable. There's a big difference between like nagging egging him about like why he doesn't comb his hair or his like why he wears baggy jeans. You don't like the way he dressed as or all these little things you can nitpick about like. Hey you married the guy I this is who he is but yet can expect him to show you a level of infection and love. That seems seems really reasonable and again and like you. I've been relationships where the person wanted my love and affection and I was like well. That sounds great and I want to give you my love and affection. But you're you're kind of constantly a bitch to me and you belittle me and you berate me young. I mean I'll be honest right now. I don't feel giving you a hug. You Know I. That doesn't doesn't sound like I'm getting this from you. Sound like a very warm loving person and you just want to hug. And you're just like you know at night so I think you don't worry it's like it's so funny like the wrong people who are worried again. Yes and if I just feel like I'm dating someone I'm just like could you just shut shut up. You know what I'm saying that I don't like so yes. You have a long way to go before. I think you have to worry about that. Don't don't You you what you need to do is be able to express what is important to you in a very calm and way and see if he's willing we do these things for you and the it's not an excuse to be like I just can't he is an adult if you like interest of course you can. You don't want to you know. Be Good at pointing out to him when he says well. I don't know if I can say that's not true. You don't you don't want to you know. Oh yeah you gotta call him out and things that he's saying I don't he's pretending he can't do when he's really saying I don't want so. Make sure you are mindful mindful of that but get your girl and those snuggles invest get that little Spoon leg spin the best of luck. All right take care. Yep I is the wrong ones. So he's the wrong ones. Actually we just find the balance with you know. Yeah yeah our raised and I think sometimes it's a challenge when you're younger and you meet someone in the thinking back this this young couple. has these set these these boundaries. I guess they set these standards early on. AH PROBABLY EARLY ON. She was like they're in college. Let's phones cool. It's fine. He loves him a lot. I'm sure she does. She doesn't want to be an egg and she is so probably self conscious about like when we got married so young. Put up with me for you. Know Yes I. These are reasonable requests. I'm like I have such a fear of being like a mom wife in like like I don't WanNa take care of someone I'm with or like be like you know your underwear underwear. Has You know track stains on like I. Don't I run the other way. If I see any guy who like I think every guy needs a little reminder to not be a slob lob difference between that and being their mom yeah I just don't want and you know it's funny when I grow up. I always parents credit. You know how some husbands bins call their wives. Mom in front of their kids in my parents were like to each other. Like don't ever fucking do really yeah. It was like like they. They were fine. They didn't have to let each other know but like we notice other cup families doing it. My parents were like gross. You know it's just like no I'm not don't fucking mom like I'm not. I'm you know that mentality but yeah I think guys men are men women we have strengths and weaknesses. And I think some guys you know we want a woman like there's a reason why like we want a woman's touch in our life so to speak big you know. Do you think you need that for sure. My I like my I live. I've I do this every time I move in somewhere somewhere. I like the first week. I'll get really like decorating and I'm pretty good like I. I WANNA put the effort in. There's a a half. My place like looks really nicely Esi decorated and then it just kind of stop right and I've ever really wanted to like really finish it I could. I could figure it out. I have the touch but I don't have that like woman's touch to really make it a really homey environment And I yes I think I I would like a yes. It's like even the term women's touched bothers summaries. Because I'm like guys like figure it out like I feel like we've coddled men so much now. They don't have league peers. Flip side of of that coin right I mean again. We're speaking in generality I now there are some women who traditionally might be more considered masculine than other men and some in vice versa. Just based off of tradition. But there's a reason why you know like when y feminine like when Woman's considered demure why you know why like interesting. I don't know there's nothing wrong with that. I mean just because you say you want a woman's touch it's a general term. There's a there's lots of things that women are better at than I am. And there's a general like interests that they have that I don't you know like there are women who are love sports sports but there are also a lot more women who the real housewives and there are men who love the real housewives. Don't like sports but like I don't know I don't know either I don't know life it's not a it's not a son an absolute but Like I could listen. I can use the woman. What do you want me to say? How's it going hi Hi what's your name Julia. I'm twenty two years old Julia twenty two. How can we help well I kind of went through a situation. Humiliation I met a guy I don't know really where to begin but Basically I met this guy and everything. It's like going really great And we were like I would assume dating and Followed stores as has if only it was that simple go ahead. I'm sorry can definitely get into the details of that but Basically I almost like I basically got ghost in After we tried to have sex but long story three short I went up to him and a few months ago on my birthday and I had introduced myself and I ask thank you know. He was single and if he Wanted my number and he like very receptive to it so it wasn't like we met on like beating up for anything where like the intentions are clear. I guess it doesn't really matter but you you met him out at a party and you liked him and you put yourself out there. Yeah so if you yeah and which was totally out of the norm for me so I Nothing wrong with that. You should not regret that. Yeah he was working and whatever so we started exchanging the exchange numbers and I texted him and I was working MUSEU bartender So it was actually Without giving too much information about him he was working at like an a fighter or up in northern California and anyways I only ask Xena position were He might get hit on often and meat lamb and very very frequently. Okay but I think we're missing the. I'm just trying to get something okay. So how old is he. Um like twenty six okay but I feel like that's going to be an important but go ahead. No yeah that probably probably is important Yeah he's I mean just to paint the picture a little bit. He is like super tall handsome Very like athletic looking I guess. Very personable Whatever so very effective Laughing no no it's just funny. Who Cares every ribbon casts another bachelor? Go ahead hi you. You're on nightside here. We are on your so basically I in the past I don't go for guys that are very like Nice. You know I I can recognize that and he just seemed like a complete dream like it was really like a hallmark near the right me would outline starts. Good yeah all right. I'm sorry we're having fun So it seems it seems like a dream you talk into yourself out there you exchange numbers you never by. You didn't have sex. No sexy time sexy. So when did it get weird against the problem because otherwise sounds like you put yourself out there for a guy who seemed like a dream you may turn out to be a fuck boy. Yeah so Well there's like one incident. That was kind of weird. We had We had went to his house that was being built and whatever we were having a picnic and his sister-in-law kept calling in and was like. Oh we WANNA meet her. We WanNa meet in her and I was like okay like meet him. And he's like well you should know like her friends or their and they and they can be a little bit aggressive. Ed like basically told me that one of the girls has like FRY. She's married and she has tried to have sex attend and and and he's like I'm not into that you know You're married. I'm not into that whatever. And he's like just beware so then I go and the girl competing railroads Nana's hammering me with questions about my work about my education and like oh you're really young to be doing that and just very aggressive live and I felt like I held my own and everybody Kinda saw that she was. You know coming at you full force and whatever. I was very confident and I am a very very competent person. So it didn't bother me but then later came out that. He told me that she tried to sleep with them. Whatever and he did that aside I just feel like it's kind of a fishy situation that he's always over there anyway? So then We go and I have a work. combranch brench up in Sacramento area. And he he came and stayed with me three of the night. We didn't do anything and I just felt like he was being like a gentleman like like did you. Were you hoping you were hoping it'd make move. Yes staying staying the night at my over me. I just don't know you might be you know there's a lot of people were just like. It's like a sleep Mexico guy for a good three months three months. I'm just saying I don't assume you but you want you were hoping to get. We wanted it okay. Well for yeah. Because that's like that's the direction I thought things were doing until I was like okay like like yeah spend three months like okay. I invite you to come stay with me. Stay three nights and like in bed with you and no are you making out or even even going to second base. Is he going up your shirt or you going down his pants. What's going on okay so I was trying to be super respectful and not like push his boundaries? Because I was like okay. Whatever that's you know and But he wasn't like like I would like change in front of him and he like I. That's pretty like okay you like. Obviously I don't care if you see me touch me like how hello here. You're going to the extent where you're like. I guess yes. I'm going to get naked in front of them and see if he reacts to me to see reacts well they're like well we were getting ready to go out so then we go out but like he wouldn't try anything when we would come back. You know to tell room and like I was even like. Let's get some like Tequila like you're trying to get drunk you you know just. The story told from his point of view in reverse that but like I was getting naked. We Start Drinking Tequila. Anyway go ahead. Yeah so anyways like I'm like okay. Whatever that's fine you just a gentleman which I was kind of being a little bit naive But then then what my work conference and we have a day Inbetween them like okay. I'm nothing remember. Let him kind of approach me. 'CAUSE Kinda Weird And then he invited me to go hang out with all of his friends out in Sacramento. 'cause I was up in that area and So we go out or whatever and we were drinking obviously alcohol's involved and I think that at that point a little bit probably more drunk. I should've been but I was like okay as like I now have the courage or whatever to do what I'm GonNa do so I whatever got undressed and I was like ready to like make my move grand gesture and I did and then you know. Things fell flat and No you you hooked up. But he wasn't oh they fell. He can get hard on specific. I don't like I don't ofo flat. Is that a metaphor so you got naked. He he couldn't get an erection. Yeah like it would be there. And then he'd we like It was there and then like went away and I was like okay like and he's like it's not you a comment and I'm like I was like I know it's not me. You know some you know not like an hour area. I was very understanding. I was just like hey cool this happened. Sometimes we've been drinking. It's all right. So where are we now in. What's the situation? And what's your where we know. What's your question? I guess I just WanNa know what like what the F. happened like where three days after that whole thing happening is like you're so great you were so understanding and I was like wondering when we're going to go and make our next plans and things and then he's like he's like listen. I didn't mention but I got out of something recently and I mean you're not gonNA mentioned mentioned that in the last three months anyways And he was like. I think that things are going to get to serious with you if we continue down this path. And he's like I should've mentioned it sooner but I didn't and I was like okay like respect you but I'm just wondering like what in fact like what did I do like that happen. You didn't do anything. So here's what's going on. You're a hot chick who got rejected and a guy didn't like get correct. You're really fucked up about it because you're not used to this Rejected you think she got rejected. Listen my guess. Says he just doesn't like you. There might be a lot of things going on and might be very true. He got out of a relationship but he was obviously willing to hang out with you. He was willing to spend the night with you. I don't know like some guys do things. Maybe you are very different than maybe is fucking the the married woman. That was a relationship he was speaking of and maybe he's just like really into her but like she's married I don't know maybe he also just isn't that into you know but what if he hasn't had sex since the last girlfriend no and it felt weird and he got couldn't get up and he got embarrassed and then he's like I'm out his feels so weird compared to my last relationship relationship. I mean that's probably what I'm sure all your girlfriends would say to you to try to make. That could mean a thing but maybe sure what do we learn like last autumn's uh-huh Razor or whatever but the most likely he just isn't that India like listen there are i. I'm not we've talked about. I'm not some saint. Ain't I'm not senior way. I don't I've had a one night stand before but I am like I won't just F- have sex with any girl. There are plenty of traditionally beautiful women that a many people be like. She is a total babe that I'm just not interested in having sex with her. I've had women who like you know and certain situations I haven't made a move on them and they're kind of like yeah. I know they're wondering why have it and so they make a move on me and I kind of reluctantly go with it. But I'm just not into it you know I'm just not into it for whatever reason like she's just is not doing it for me. And she is an absolute bombshell. But I'm just not into it. Likes people have certain preferences. I'm sure there's plenty of guys out there that all your girlfriends friends think our total babe. You're just like doesn't do for me you didn't you think he you don't think he just got embarrassed. Couldn't get it up. No He's twenty six years old like I mean. Sure what he maybe had a little You know Tequila Dick. That's possible but like if it was just to kill a Dick he would have sex with her the other times. Why did he end it? You you know what there's a there's a lot go here that all adds up to. He's just not that into you. Oh God yeah no I mean hey that very well could be it and yeah I mean at the end of the day that that is what it comes down to whatever what I what I sorry what I will. I'll say is that like T- like after like happened yet like longest session about it in the morning and he was like. I should've tried things sooner. I was just like I'm not very are you like I'm not very aggressive with those kind of things like I don't like he's like I. I don't like to make the first move. He has proven to be that kind of person to you. Know what I'm saying is like I don't really know this guy you spend enough time of I'm sure but you you don't know what he's like with other women. You're not as best friend. You haven't heard all of his stories. This is how he is with you. I've said a lot of Shit to women because I don't want to be a dick or whatever whatever and again this is sounds like a guy who's probably a pretty decent guy who probably looks at you and things. What a beautiful woman? She's also really nice in fact. Why don't I like you? You seem like girlfriend material you look. You're great I WANNA like you. I WanNa do things you I just don't I don't know why that happens all the time. What happens with men and women and thank you for you? You're in this you know and I don't feel bad. I'm being sarcastic. Europe beautiful woman has used to like attention from guys is and not used to rejection. And there's a lot of people like you who spent a Lotta time trying to come up with all these lake scenarios in like conspiracy theories theories of what's going on with the end of the day there is someone who's just not India and that's okay and it's GonNa be fine and you're going to spend a lot of energy trying to figure out and making excuses excuses for him and oh he's scared and he just got out of a relationship and a different scenario or it was the whiskey or the Tequila he just. He's done India because if he was he he would. You would see a different version of this guy. He wouldn't be making excuses. He would try to find solutions. He would like if it was the whiskey Dick one time he would the next day. Call you up and make plans and and do something else. If it was really something about a bass relationship he was trying to get over but he really liked you. Who would say like I haven't been honest with you and this is what's going on but I due relax you? But that's why I've been a little weird but I do relax. Want to keep things going. You know he didn't do that he he. He said it but ultimately ended it with you. That was an excuse. Ask like that wasn't trying to get you to really understand him. That was an excuse to soften the blow of. I just don't like you out. It's sure just the truth is it's he's not a deuce bag and it's not a cop out he's just he probably sounds like a nice enough guy who didn't want to be a Dick and was trying to find a nice sway and yeah he should have told you before but that that's probably not the reason in the reason why he didn't tell you before is because it's not the real reason he told you because he didn't want to be a Dick can he knows that he hung out with you in introduce you and took you home and he was probably again try. He probably thought you were a total. He checked all the boxes assists. He just wasn't that you you know. That's okay yeah you're just GonNa have to meet someone else. Don't regret hitting on the guy don't regret putting yourself out there. Don't regret making the first movies are all great things. You're babe you're gonNA find a bunch of guys you're GONNA try to hook up with you. I'm sure you're going to go through life feeling like why do all these guys like like me and other ones I really like. I can't get because you know what that's everyone. You're not the only one everyone feels that way. That was that easy you know you wouldn't. That's why people like the chase. Ace like you're you're you're made to be attracted to the people who it's not as easy for you. That's why you find them so attractive you know and so you're going that'd be fine but he simply just isn't that into you needed to hear but it's not it's not a knockabout you at all anywhere knockabout you. Some people just aren't into people and we waste so much energy and time trying to figure it out and you talk to your friends when you go up to Rochelle and you tell the story. And she's like well he's clearly he's totally scared. You should definitely like wait it out and figure like and because like I get it like your girlfriend's look at you and go how can any guy not be into you. Of course it's not you like the truth is you're just just a person and you're a great person in some people are attracted to other people and just because you're a nice person who's good-looking doesn't mean you're entitled to everyone and being obsessed with you. Trust me. I I have to remind myself. That's everyone. Our Egos take over. And it's he's just I can assure you he's not into you that's it it's that simple any thinks your great anything sir. You're just he just you know he's into different. Uh He's into different people. Do you regret calling in or is this okay. No it's actually like because everybody has done. I love you by the way but everybody has done what you've done and says like Oh my God like you have your shit together like how could he not like the whatever I'm like. There's so much more to it than that like everyone who like is you know. Checked all the boxes. I just I don't want to you know it. Just entrust me. I don't know you but I'm sure you're just just like that with guys in your life. You know you're like I don't know they don't want them not interested. No I want help. I don't know why I want him but it has. Do you know we met on my birthday. Probably paying attention to me but but yes it's Europe. Yeah you're you're it's yeah that's your answer. That's just what the doctor ordered that. Just not that into so. I am not a prescription and excretion. Great well thank you for calling calling best of luck this. You're GONNA be fine. Get Yours but let let this go. And he's definitely not scared and his addict probably were someone else. But you're doing everything right you really are. I love that you're making moves here. I love that you're not afraid to put yourself Out there and don't let that. Don't let this little minor hiccup rejection. Change Your your confidence in yourself doing it. All right take care the law by thank you bye. But we've been taught to think if they can't get it up it's never about US definitely about you say that it really not definitely always Everyone's different we've literally everyone's always like it's not you now. This is not a black and white thing but like she told a story era of like. She's he's slept over three nights. He wasn't making your and then she put herself out there and again like I'm not saying it was necessary. Her like he may be again he sounds probably maybe a good guy he he's he's self self conscious about the fact that he's not object defying her and the fact that here's this girl who wants to have sex optional fucker right and so he maybe has a morals in a in a And he's like I don't really want to. I've been in that situation. I have a situation where I mean. I won't even like you guys really want me to tell the story but I've been in a situation where someone was really trying to have sex and I really don't WanNa have sex and like I couldn't get aroused. I was a stressed the fuck out I would I things -iety that's not okay and it was different but anyways if it's sweetness and it was weird cy but it was like in so I just felt uncomfortable because guys you know you're the society teaches sir. We're told that like when a girl wants to have sex guys put out and because always WANNA have sex we all WANNA have sex. We just want posed also you know and you just want to let you know the whole as all the guys has a whole whole fuck anything kind of thing that'll kind of that dirty you know patrol the fuck you and like and you know some guys. Some guys are like that some guys aren't and when we're in a situation feel that pressure. We getting Zaidi in stress and and more than anything stress. Does 'cause guys to be impotent. So there's that yeah but I'm what I'm saying is there's a situation where he just doesn't like her and if he probably had his way he wouldn't have gotten this situation where he wouldn't have been naked with the girl who was trying to have sex with him. He was seemed like he was Kinda trying to avoid. That seem like Oh yeah so is is it. It's you know it's more than just it's you or her but like you know just same reason. Why when girls don't get if you aren't in new guide you get turned on as easily easily? No right and it's the same thing. Yeah so Yeah well tough. I mean that we're not getting into the details details of like sometimes you're having sex with someone like he can't like calm or whatever he can't finish that's not always you like some you know there's a lot of layers they're not talking about whether like getting every woman listened as Oh my God it has been me no like she was trying to force situation. Yeah that it wasn't going away and she wasn't paying attention to the detail. Yeah We so often don't well. Well what. I really enjoyed myself today. I I enjoyed it as well. Layers the last one was fun. I sometimes with a simple ones. Yeah the sense of like you. You know we've certainly have had the. He's just India calls before but like it's A. It's always interesting hearing about this because I thought this I was Gonna go a different direction. You know she painted as fuck boy right bartending. That wasn't the castle great because I remember I asked her like. Oh I feel like this is going to be important. No no it's not yes you're right and she was like. Oh No it's going to be important like she was expecting me to be like. Oh He's just some FARC boy like it's a pretty nice guy but Yeah I don't know anyways guys as always. We have a lot of fun with you guys listening and calling in so sending your questions to ask Nick Doc. Ask Nick at CASS. MANIA DOT COM. That is that right. Yeah okay to get your nick description. The duct audited Yeah anything any final thoughts show you wanNA share now. Be careful only Internet guys. Yeah be careful. In the end there are some weirdoes out there. There really are and trust your gut. And that's the thing about that I will say is like And and we've had this kind of before like sometimes we get ourselves into situations and then what we do is we feels off and instead of like like saying I'm GonNa Trust my gut and I'm going to back away. We keep doing it. Why because then we have to kind of a mid ourselves that we've kind kind of goosebumps into sticky situations like it's like being in a bad bet? You know you keep putting money down because you have to admit to yourself like how did I get myself situation. It's embarrassing people feel embarrassed like Oh. Let's say a doctor pool or catfish and I'm not saying that's what's going on here but there's something weird going on in usually they're simple explanations explanations and so when you trust your gut when things feel off. Don't don't try to find reasons to justify. How Oh you got tricked? Smart People get tricked. Smart people do track man all the time so Yeah don't don't trust the Internet anyway. It's thanks guys for listening. We we Really appreciate you guys falling long. We will see you on Wednesday and have a great day.

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EPIC Scary Stories Vol 2. No Sleep, Cryptids, Pizza Delivery, Creepers, Road Trip Stories

Horror Fictional and True Stories

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EPIC Scary Stories Vol 2. No Sleep, Cryptids, Pizza Delivery, Creepers, Road Trip Stories

"I I met Ariel about four months ago. It was my brother. Mitch's twenty Fifth Birthday. Any came to the party that my Mama. I plan for him. He told US beforehand that he would be bringing his new girlfriend, but neither of US could have expected how perfect she would be. She had long flowing black hair to her waist. Green is and an infectious smile. She said all the right things, heaven adorable laugh, and was very polite to my mother and myself. I can see mich watching our reactions, and he seemed delighted that we were getting along with Aereo. The only one who didn't seem like Aereo was my Maltese Sam. He parked the entire time she was in the house. It would not come near even when she offered him food from her plate. Mommy lock him in my room, but he continued barking himself horse until she finally left the house. This was the strangest thing to me. Same as one of the friendliest dogs you'll ever meet. Still I'm brushed it all and just assume that maybe Sam was having a bad day. Maybe aerial had a pet cat that he could smell or something. The next time we saw her, we were all out for dinner lobster. Even about two weeks, says midges birthday into our surprise, Michio Dot, natural blonde hair Jay Black. He also wore torn denim jacket and his nose was pierced. I could just sense my mom's disapproval emanating from her, but she held her tongue and even complimented Mitch during the dinner. Area was as charming as she was before and took small bites of our fish. Is She probably wash all interact? When we got home, my mother finally unloaded. Your brother has been seeing their girl for less than three weeks. Dante and she's already got him changing his looks. Mitch's never dyed his hair before in his life and their damn nose piercing. I knew that little slot was no good when I first met her she too perfect. Well, mid seems happy. I offer weekly. To wish my mom just click your tongue little. Did she know she seen her oldest son for the last time? Still Hurts me too tight. This but mom got into an accident. A terrible terrible accident. It happened a mere few days after we had the dinner. When they showed material in the body, I broke down in tears. Mom had somehow been severed at the waste. It had been a three car collision on the freeway. The other two drivers were alive and relatively unharmed. I found myself orphaned at sixteen. Bitch took the necessary steps and soon became legal guardian. When he pulled up outside the two story Grand Black House on the edge of town. Looked around and protests. What happened to your apartment I asked confusion. Oh. I moved in with aerial all time ago. There's plenty of space here. Man and Sam- will love the backyard. Sam did not love the backyard. In fact, he'll love anything about the house. He barked incessantly until area. Approaching me is Saturday breakfast at the dinner table. Shut him up where I will. She snarled her. Green is heavily more vicious than same could ever be. I took Sam into my new room and called it down as best I could. Even when he was quiet, he stared apprehensively at the door. As though afraid Arrow scoop in scooby, mop, Sam was not the only one in the house. It was spooky as hell. cobwebs covered most of the furniture and paintings from the eighteen hundreds, and they were creeks in bumps. In sometimes, the lights go out on their own. There are a lot of rooms that is forbidden to enter in aerial. Always seem to know what I was planning to do before I even said anything. Half with your friends. She said with a smile as she and Mitch snuggle together on a leather couch. I hadn't even told him I was going out yet. Another time I just gotten a new pick from a girl at school in on my way up the stairs. Iranian, Areo. Half in there, she whispered a devilish look in her eyes. I was to uncountable to do anything as I laid in bed, staring wistfully at the pitcher. Area was also too comfortable with me around even if it was her house. She would just start around in a bathrobe most of the time, and whenever my brother would catch me looking at her, he would just grant and give me a thumbs up. She would barge into the bathroom to pull a makeup brush her hair even when she knew I was in the shower. She never used the bathroom. As a matter of fact, I haven't even senior. Eat anything either, not said neither lobster. At night I could hear them not airline my brother, but and her friends. She had a group of five that visit her late at night, and they were retreat to the room that was just on the hall for my own. They would chant same things on language I didn't know and outside. The weather would turn from a nice normal night to complete thunderstorm. Same under the bed until the chaining stopped. and. It took a lot of effort for me to get him to come out of the room the mornings after. One time and I ran into one of the girls I felt safe enough to leave my room given it. The rain stopped in the Senate. Come out. But no sooner desk step out I ran into one of the girls. Similar style aerials. She wore a black dress had long black hair with green highlights in an abundance of piercings. High she said clashing smile much like aerials. High just on my way to school. I said trying to squeeze pastor. She didn't move. I just wanted to say sorry about your mother. She may have been a bitch, but I'm sure she's in a better place now. I've never been so tempted to hit a woman in my life. I settle for ramming my way pastor instead alway down the stairs. She called my name and I look back. We're having an orgy on Halloween. You can come I know you're just dying to lose your virginity. She said with a wink. High ran out of the house. Put up so much the past few months. I'm surprised they haven't lost my sanity. But the other day home alone I did something I shouldn't have. I wanted to find out exactly who area was where she came from. Like an idiot I use an old hairpin to pick a lock. One of the downstairs rooms had been forbidden from. The must hit me like a little slap in the face. It felt like the room hadn't been accessed in years, but I knew that it had. They were all doll scattered here? Air Ancient newspaper clippings old brushes. And there was a single painting. Hanging above a fireplace I was shocked to find the pace of a woman who was identical to aerial staring back at me. I look at the artist's name. In the year, it had been painted. Eighteen O six. I would have reigned from the room close the door behind me and try to forget the whole thing. But I found something on the floor. Lying. Next old yellowed bone was a piece of torn paper. I picked it up seeing a pair of women's legs, wearing bluejeans. eyeglass around and found the other half of the pitcher. Mother's pace smile back me. The pitcher had been torn at the waist. The strawberry epidemic of eighty two. That's what people will come to call the tragedy affecting my childhood town in the summer of nineteen eighty two. Hour Sixteen back then and I thought the world was my sister. I came from one of the wealthiest families in town. Alice popular in and out of school. My mother was on the fast track to become mayor. You in privileged can be a bad combination, but I think the worst to come of it. In my case was navy I didn't think anything horrible could happen to me and my friends and loved ones. The local church was sponsoring charity event that summer, though I'm not sure how much accounts as charity if you use the money to buy new pews and give the pastor race. They collected a massive amount of food from various farmers in the area, and then a fourteen dollar donation people were welcomed. Eat as much of it as they wanted. Someone had donated a lot of strawberry so that your function crates and crates of them. As a result, they were the most abundantly available food bear. My family made an appearance. Of course we were the pedigree of the town, and it was important for us to be seen at every major event. Mother donated generously probably under the impression at the more she gave the more vote. She could snag in the mayoral election. Politics gotTa Love Him. We didn't need anything there. Wherever and that was probably would save us. Though mother made big deal supporting local farmers. All of our food was shipped to us by a private company specializing in catering to those who could afford it. She explained to me that fresh produce grown on small farms was more likely to be of lower quality and played by pest and disease. Today Ano-. She probably just didn't want to eat the same food as poor people. Nearly every person at the function ate some strawberries, but the children gorge themselves on them. Especially after the church provided bowls of within the dipped strawberries in. I saw wonder who stopped her face with so many of them. Her mouth and hands were stained red. She reminded me of those old vampire movies where the vampires were messy when they kill their prey. Everything was fine for about a week for the function. Then one night little. Billie Appleton was admitted to the hospital. Later Life I've found copies of the medical transcripts from that night. He was so malnourished and underweight. The doctors initially called CPS assuming that his parents were feeding him. Then other symptoms began to appear small yellow boils popped up everywhere on his body. Over the next few weeks, those boils would swell to the size of golf balls. Another kid came in with the same symptoms later that day. Then another and another. After around a dozen, kids came in the elderly beginning shop as well. Nobody panic for a few days, although the rash of sick people was the talk of the town. Rumors flew as to the cause somewhere plausible, a new strain of chicken pox and others were downright silly. The government was testing biological weapons on the American heartland. But. Everyone had a theory. Nobody made the connection to the strawberries. Until an older woman fell ill week after the others she taken some strawberries home with her from the Church in Eighth Mattress People's were gone. After telling the doctors about it, someone realize that all the kids and elderly people at eating strawberries at the church function. They said samples of the strawberries away to be tested. The? Public was never told what the results were. All I know a few days after the samples were sent in about two and a half weeks after the first patient was admitted. The CDC National Guard rolled into our town by the truckload. We replace under quarantine. No one was allowed inner out of town. All of the remaining strawberries from the church were confiscated. Every citizen were required to submit to a blood test. No one was tolls plaguing our town. After about two months, or so, during which thirty people died in the hospital and were cremated without the family's consent, the government left our town. The official story told the national news was that there was a New Delhi strain of E. Coli from contaminated strawberries. That was responsible. Almost no one in our town believe that, but no one was interested in our version of things. No reporters came looking for interviews in all attempts by the locals that tell their own story in a newspaper or on the television failed. The blog some of us, had taken writing in years to come were swept away into the Aspen of conspiracy theorists and bigfoot hunters. I'm over fifty years old now and I've never told anyone my version of things until right now. See I. Know a cause, a strawberry epidemic baby to. And it wasn't E-coli. It wasn't even bacteria. One day a week after the government left our town I was hiking in the woods when I caught sight of someone moving through the trees. I follow them to a creek in a secluded part of the woods and I saw a girl about my age. She threw herself into the creek, which was only waist-deep. And began to drink the water like someone who just crossed the desert. I called out to her as I approached. When she raised her head to look at me, I screened. Her face arms covered in the scene. Yellow Boyle says the boy away the strawberries. Only her boils were huge. They were about the size of tennis balls. The girl didn't react to me. Excessive Lincoln Stare. After men and frozen terror, and notice the water, the creek was clouding with yellow and red fluid. The girls blisters were bursting while she stood in the water. What I saw next I'll never forget as long as I live. When I lie on my dying bed, this image will inevitably pop into my head though I will try hard to forget it. As I watched a boil girl space burst in torn of yellow pus, and blood gushed forth. But as I watched a huge white worm, nearly a foot long, and his big around night, crawler, regal from her boil and dropped into the water. I watched it down the creek. It in, others like it. When I turn back to the girl, she had a glazed look in her eyes like she was sleeping and forgot to close her eyelids. She visually claps in the water and I watched the current. Carry her away. She never said a word to me. My research led me to her name. She was Betty Lancaster a girl who disappeared from a neighboring county a month before the church function. They claim so many lives. Her meth had parents gave up on our quickly and so did society. Since no one was looking for at the time of the domestic. She must have slipped through the quarantine by living in the woods. I don't know how she became infected. My guess is from eating strawberry someone throughout. I never told anyone about what I saw in the woods well apart from my mother, who insisted on not tell anyone for fear of bad publicity. There just so many answered questions to this day. No one knows who donated the strawberries to the function. The Chrysler left on the church steps early in the morning, and no one saw who dropped him off and no one knows where they came from. No one knows why. The epidemic only affected the very the very old or why. It never happened anywhere else afterwards. I should have said something sooner. Mother's political career be damned. But I was afraid. I was young and confused, and by the time I was ready to come out with what I've seen. He was years too late. Song, telling this story now, why still kin? And there's a reason why I'm coming forth now. The other day I was at a farmers market and I saw baby knowing on a strawberry. Maybe it was just a trick of the light or my own scarred imagination. But I swear I. saw something white and wriggling at the corner. That baby's mouth. How much we year old male, but when this happened now about twenty-three. I worked at a mom and POPs pizza shop the northern California. It's a small farm town and has a few suburbs near it. I kind of did everything since I knew the family, and they trusted me running things while they were gone. This night, though I was working deliveries and got the weirdest one of my life. Everything seemed fine when I took the order and the lady order anchovies on our pizza, and I always think people order that are weirder Shit. She made a point to tell me that the pizza had to be happy when I got there or she wasn't going to pay for it. So I, get the pizza in throw in the warmer and drive to her house before any of my other deliveries. Unlikely Tell you guys that are houses creepy. RUN DOWN, but. Look like your average one story new housing development home. I rang the doorbell and put on my gas customer service smile, you all know what I'm talking about in a Sushi open the door. I knew that this was going to be bad. This haggard Old Lady who looked like she was a smoker fifty plus years look me dead in the eyes and said. He'd better be hot I'm not paying like I. told you over the Damn, phone. I understand him I made sure to stop by your place. I even knows last on my list. Bring it in and set it on the table. Now I normally didn't go inside. Customers homes because I. Read Way Too many stories on no sleep and let's not meet, but at this point I'm just wanting to kill her with kindness and see where this will go so I say. No problem. My also brought cheese in ranch for you if you need it. As soon as I opened the bag, she just grabbed the box and put her hand on the bottom of it, and it was just rubbing it. It's not hot enough. You fuckers do this every time and I'm not paying for this shit, not a single dime. One thing I have an issue with is my mouth. I don't know when to just shut up and try to understand where people are coming from. Look Lady Your House is a five minute drive from our shop and I stopped by your place. I, there is no way that you pizzas cold. If you refuse to pay, you're going to be eighty. Six and I noted in your account. She immediately walked into her kitchen and came back out. She had an old pizza from a few weeks prior that she had ordered from us and she threw it at me. Take Your fucking pizza and get Outta my house. You're the devil. She yelled at me and just kept calling me Satan the devil. Again. My mouth has no filter and I can't control it I. Try but I fail every time. As I'm closing the bag laughing about how much I hate my job I tell her. All right, ma'am. You WanNa. Be Able to order pizza from us again. I hope you have a great day. God. Bless you and your house. She kept calling me outside of my car screaming. You're the fucking devil. And their families there just watching this. Go down. So I get into my car and start driving. Once. I'm back. Tell a manager. What happened and she told me that the lady is already called in in scream terror about what happened. Her story was that I cussed her out and got her order wrong. My manager shudder down and said I'd never do anything like that. But here's the weird part. She whispered into the phones, my manager and repeated. Sending back sending back, send him back. She called once a day for almost three months. Just whispering this two ever answered. She started driving by the restaurant and yelling. The Devil works here. You're all going to hell. Now, I wasn't scared. I was just pissed and wanted to retaliate because I can't tell you how many times she actually tried to follow me back to my apartment when I got off work. One night apple over and got out. To stop her car in the row with their lights on yelling. The Devil is here. After this I. Jump back of my car sped off. Luckily after six months of dealing with this lady, I found out she was schizophrenic and bipolar and hadn't been on her meds. Her daughter put in a care home, but when she was clean out her house, she saw her mom had pictures of me. Oliver Bedroom Wall with the word Yep. You guessed it devil all over it. She found me and explained everything to me and. That was pretty much the end of it. This is without a doubt, the most terrifying thing that has ever happened to me. I've only told a few people, but feel like I need to share it here. In case it helps any students traveling abroad to be more cautious. So a little background I. This having me about five years ago when I was nineteen studying abroad in Italy. Our school had its own campus about an hour outside of grown in a quiet town. The pope has the summer place. Part of our schools program in Italy was that we had to leave campus for ten days vacation and explore Europe in October. Everyone would split off into their friend, groups and travel. I didn't really have a group is attached to, but now wanted to go by myself, I, actually two girls was friendly with if I could travel with them. They were best friends and roommates, and were nice enough and Sakho with them. We decided to travel from around the Australia Prague in Germany Euro. We went the entire trip, having fun and without incident until the last day. Which is where my awful experience begins. On our last day we were in Munich meeting with most of our class as a school tradition of sorts. The two girls I, was traveling with an I had seen as a to the overnight train that night back to wrong from unique which left around midnight. During the day one of the girls tells me that she had changed her plans ten days ago before we even left and was going to stay Munich overnight. And come back the next day, which was a surprise to me, but I still wasn't that worried because she joining up with our classmates and staying in a book hostile with them, and I was still be traveling this other girl. Then tomorrow dismay, the other girl says she's changing her mind staying overnight and unique to. I actually where she planned to stay as we hadn't booked a room in a hostile. She says she was sneaking to the hostile share a bed with the other girl. I told you that was really uncomfortable. Traveling alone and that wasn't fair for to abandon me like that. She told me nonchalant. We that I could just want a hostile and book another ticket if I cared so much. I told her I didn't have the extra money to pay for a separate ticket back to Rome loan hostile in addition to that. I was a college student on a very tight budget and had already spent a lot on this trip and didn't have enough in my bank account. Despite my pleas, those petty girl said essentially that it wasn't their problem and they ditched me. Luckily, we had already met with another group of classmates who fell bad for me and spent the entire last day abroad vacation rang around Munich, trying to find a hostile to stay at that night, and even offered to pull together money to help me pay for a ticket bag. Unfortunately it was October fest in Germany in literally, every hospital was completely booked. And despite my attempts to into my friends hassles with them. I always stop thrown out. And this point, it's nighttime. I was defeated in worried, but my other classmates who tried to help me. We're still sticking with me. I figured at this point. The only option I had where to sleep outside on a bench in Munich which is totally unsafe and ridiculous or to take the overnight train by myself not super-safe, but I figured it'd be around other people so maybe now completely awful. So I decided to go ahead and take the overnight train back to Rome by myself, and my classmates walked me to the station and saw me on the train. Those guys ended up being some of my closest friends in years to come. So now on this overnight train myself and I hit to the carriage. The way it was set up. Was this room with a hallway with six seats? No beds because I was trying to say money. I was the first one in my carriage, and so I sit next to the window on one side and Oklahoma giant backpackers pack, which was my only luggage on the to cease next to me. Eventually. Two German guys in her thirties come in and are polite enough, and said opposite me. They converse with each other. They've got suitcases, etcetera and are looking at maps of Rome in tours things to do. I feel safe enough with these guys since there minding their own business. But this is where it gets bad. I settle in and listen to music and try to sleep for a bit. And perhaps after an hour, so I start to notice that there's a super sketchy guy. Standing right outside our carriage in the middle of the hallway. Just staring at me. I'm completely freaked out. Because one NONNI supposed to just be in the hallway standing there you either on your way to the Lou or headed back to your carriage. Why would anyone just be standing in the hallway? And to. He didn't break off contact with me once I looked at him. He just kept staring Mu this semester. Look on his face. Like he wanted to eat knee up. So I'm kind of freaking out and try to look away and pretend like I didn't notice him. I. Wait a bit to see if he was just a normal guy going to lure something. But when I look back, he's still there and still leering at me from behind the window door my carriage. I want to shut the curtains to are carried, so we can't look in, but I don't WanNa just close to him are pissed him off or anything. So I turned to the two German guys and quietly. Tell them that the guy there is creeping the out and staring at me in making me uncomfortable. And I asked them if one of them could casually in a minute or so close the curtains. I'd hope they'd be men and contact me and tell the guy to bug offer whatever, but they seemed annoyed at me and mumble that they would, but never did. When I brought it up again. They actually kind of miffed, but eventually shut the curtain. I, thought that surely would have deterred the guy from lurking and soon fell asleep. A few hours later I woke to three young Germans in their mid to late thirties. Join our carriage in the remaining three CS. As they come in I notice that the creepy guy from before is still there standing just outside my door. I kind of rebound inside and really don't feel comfortable at all. I try to talk the younger Germans, but they weren't very friendly and perhaps didn't speak English very well. It's been hours at this point and I noticed that I. Really have to be, but the only way from you get to. The Lou is to go outside of the carriage down the hallway to the Lou at the very end of the train. I notice that. When the younger Germans came in, they move the curtain a bit so I can see the creepy. Do standing out there still leering Emmy. He refused to go away. I noticed that when people walk by to go to the loo or whatever he kind of acts casual like he's waiting for someone or something and looks away from my carriage, but. Once. They're gone. He's back at it again. I try to hold it as long as I can. But this is like a twelve hour train ride, and it would be another four hours or more before we made it to Rome, and there was no way I was going to make it. At this point, everyone of my carriage has been asleep for a long time and I don't want to wake anyone. I haven't as the Germans. Oh, my way out of the carriage and I try to tell them I'm going to the loo, and could they just keep an eye on me and the creepy Lurker, and they brush me off like a jerk for waking them up and go back to sleep. I exit. The carriage freaked out of my mind and also about the pima pants. Of course I basically run into the creepy. Do standing outside my carriage. There's hardly any ruined the hallway and he's now giving the space. He staring down. About five four, and he was hiring over me at like six two or something, so I do my best to book to the Louis Fasces I can unlock the door behind me. My heart is racing and I'm going as fast as I can so that hopefully he hasn't followed me here. But Alas I'd get out of the blue, and he is right there with this disgusting smile on his face. I mean I don't like to exaggerate. But there was evil in his eyes and he told me. I was sick to my stomach. I tried to squeeze by him and he started. Press himself against me. I gave him my nasties face and yelled at him. Let me go. And praised honey baby Jesus. There was a man headed to the GIS then. So the creepy dude moved off me. And I looked at back to my carriage. Where proceeded to stay for the remainder of the ride. I thought my outburst. Little scene caused would have deterred that sketchy guy from creeping on me anymore, but when I looked up at some point I notice. He was right back where he was in the hallway, staring at me. And this point I was kind of in disbelief that someone could be so blatantly creepy, so I started to wonder if there was actually seat out in the hallway, there was cheaper than a shared carriage. But then I realized that when I left to the bathroom earlier I had seen no seats and also remember one unsettling detail to. This guy had no luggage. Not, even a briefcase. This was a twelve plus our trip from Germany to Rome, so everyone on this train was either coming or going from a worker pleasure trip. So the fact that this guy had no luggage or briefcase or anything on him, and was just standing in the hallway, staring at me, made my stomach drop. This man did not have good intentions and I can rationalize it any other way. I spent the last hour or so the trip devising my plan for once, the train arrived in Rome. I knew the train station very well. A new the metro train I needed to transfer to get back to my campus was down several flights of stairs, and around more than a few twists and turns. I felt pretty confident, so when the train stopped I had my backpack on ready to go. The other Germans got out of the train ahead of me, and the creepy guy had to move for them to pass. I quickly followed him between them and jumped. Training booked it through the station without looking behind me. Thank God was crowded in the station with people to Work Etcetera, so I felt pretty safe that I was disguising the crowd. I flew down the flights of stairs and around the terms without stopping. When I finally got down to the platform for the local metro train I needed I feel safe. was just catching my breath when I saw none other than the creepy guy. Come down the stairs and look around for me. When he saw me, he had this evil look in his eye and I wanted to cry. Grabs highly onto my pocket knife in my coat pocket. And made my way to group of harmless-looking Italians and try to stand in their group. I was standing still about several train car lengths away from him at this point. Starting to make way over to me just as the train pulled up. I have to my car immediately and track and position myself near some people. I notice. He got on a few cars away. As the car was moving, he made his way down the car into the next, and with each stop the train mate. He had a little closer to me. I moved a few cars down from him, but I grew increasingly worried that the father outside the Metro area. The fewer people were on the train and she was getting closer to me. When I made to the first car in realize I had nowhere else to go I looked in notice. He was only one car away from me in headed my way. As, we pulled into the next stop. I grabbed my pocketknife tightly and made a last ditch effort to evade him and got off the train. I looked to my right to my heart so that he was getting off as well and was briskly running toward me. As the last few people show past me to get on the train, I realized I had no options left, and through my back, and dove into the train without breaking icons egg with this Sicko, as the doors of the train closed in front of him, leaving him on the platform, fuming and yelling as the train sped off. Not really believing I've made it safely. I spent the rest of the Metro ride still in fighter, flight mode and desktop stairs to my above ground bus up to my campus. Making, sure sitting next to a sweet old lady. Creepy Dude never showed up on the bus and once I made it back inside my campus walls I immediately fell to the ground and sobbed. I realized I was so incredibly lucky that I've aided what was probably a certain kidnapping, rape or murder even? Who knows? But I have never forgotten, that means face, and how it made me feel like I, wanted to peel my skin off and crawl under a rock and die. A little background. I was about eight, a my mother, my little sister and I or taking a roach across Wyoming. This wasn't unusual. As we have family leaving all across the state, and my mom'll appalling us into the car and driving. My memory of this event is patchy. And I remember it more for the way. My mom reacted then for the event itself. I. Don't remember exactly where this was or where exactly where we're headed. But anyone who has ever driven through Wyoming knows rose are mostly deserted. We haven't driving several hours behind an older, green and white truck. We were approaching gas station and I. Remember my little sister being so excited because she wanted to get those little bottles made away, that had juice in them. The greenaway truck pulls into the gas station. And we follow. Who use the restroom? Get some snacks Mama with. and. We have back into the car and back on the road. A little time passes and my mom asks. Is that you're behind us the same one that we followed into the gestation. Turn on my seat and confirm that. Yes, it is the same truck. I sit back down and continue gorging myself on snakes. But. I since then my mom was uneasy. She keeps looking in a review mirror in watching the truck. It was a long drive to the next gas station. Along the way the truck behind with speed up and get dangerously close to us and then back away. After a stretch of several miles. Oh were nearing another gas station. Mama Gesture Mirror, so she can see us in the back seat. She says I'm going to pull into this gas station and open my door like I'm getting out. I, don't want you to open your doors. Don't get out. Just sit tight. And Hang on. My little sister and I look at each other like okay. I thought it was strange, but the look in her eyes scared me a little. My mom was a calm person. But he has his presence about her. That makes you aware that she isn't to be messed with. All my friends throughout the years have been a little scared of her. Which is odd considering? She's just over five feet tall in about one hundred pounds. Anyway, we pull into the station and up to a pump. My mom gesture mirror to see behind us and opens her door. The car still running. The green and white truck pulls in. And parks just to the side of the Ternan. The driver POPs. His Hud gets out comes around to the front of his truck in props, his hood up. He starts messing around to the hood with his back to us. From what I remember of him, he was really big guy. But who isn't to an eight-year-old girl? Mom Slams her door and appeals out of the gas station. I turn to my seat to watch the main. He turns around like he startled looks right at US quickly closes his hood, even though he had only been looking there for a few seconds. At this point? My mom is driving so fast that I. Lose sight of him. I was terrified and I knew it must be serious for my mom to drive like this. The head the row bent sharply to the left, and there was a small road to the right and a few buildings. Just before the Bend Mom's on the brakes holds the steering wheel all the way to the right, and as if it were straight out of an action movie slides around the corner. She speeds through the small parking lot of one of the buildings in parks behind it. From our vantage point we were hidden from traffic behind US book. It's the anyone passing. A short time later we watched the green and white truck. Speed right past us in around the bend in the road. Obviously my sister and I were very shaking up. My mom acid, we needed to use the restroom and I said yes. She said she did too, but we would wait here for a bit. Then make our way to the next station. I'll never forget what she said next because it was so out of character for. She said I'd rather piss my pants in this car then it'd be murdered on the side of the road. A little time passes, and we got back on the road and continued our trip. We never saw that trump again. Around March, twenty, fourteen, I started talking to this girl on tinder. Seem cool and fun, and after about a week of talking, she suggested we meet in person. and. She invited me to this coffee shop and I accepted. However the day she started messaging me saying she had to tell me something. Her pitchers on tinder were actually of her, and yes, she was a guy. He claims he really likes talking to me though and beg me to seal meet up with him. Naturally declines. Blocked this profile and continued on my life. About a week later I started talking to another girl. Once again seem going fine and we hit it off. She asked me if I spoke to people on Tinder frequently and rather stupidly. I told her about my previous encounter with the main lady. A weeks later out. Realize at this new girl was the same girl as we before. She asked me if I wanted to meet up and I said sure as long as it was in a public place. We decided on a cafe in the next day. I sat at the table waiting. Five ten fifteen minutes had passed, and she was nowhere to be found. Are then pure out the window and saw from across the street, and they answering me intently. Looked away waited a few seconds salute bag. He was so standing there staring. And that point I left the cafe down on my bike, always bike everywhere. And looked at home. I was definitely a little freaked out. Try to pull myself together and reason that no one could have followed me. I in deleted my tinder profile and things normal for a few weeks. About later I started getting phone calls. The numbers all showed up is unknown. I picked up the first few times into some guy reading heavily into the phone. I was already a little doubt. I stop picking up and he call unless it displayed the caller's name. Then started receiving texts. At first they were pretty harmless. McCall's attention in begging me to meet in person. And then changed to very sexual texts, until eventually the messages became threatening, and whoever was messaging me, started throwing out my family and friends names in their whereabouts. Saying that he or she will get involved unless I answered. And because they were texting me back is displayed number. But when I call phone providers, they told me they never can be traced and that it was probably attract phone. Great. I would at about two weeks now, responding to the tax. thinking, that I should feed the troll. But eventually it became too much. I starting upwards at fifty texts and phone calls a day. I would wake up to ten or twenty six every morning. And then decided to change my number altogether. The texting call stop for a while but. Sure enough. It started happening again. I call my finger Ryder. Asking they ever give out numbers at US request and they said that their policy stated that they wouldn't and couldn't. Unless valid identification was provided. And then one day I try logging into my facebook, but I was tonight. Within a day and my friends started contacting me asking with the hello was doing. Saying that they were getting terrible messages from our account. In particular. One of my girlfriends was receiving messages about her mom who died years ago. I Apologize Profusely and so people what's going on? That contacted facebook explain the situation and they helped me access my account again. and point how deactivating for awhile. Enough was enough. I decided to contact the FBI explaining what had been going on for over a month now. They documented everything. Since I or any of my relatives are prince where no media danger. They probably wouldn't be able to do anything. That point I felt stuck. I thought about hiring a private investigator or hacker. I decided against it however and just hoped it would fade out never answered. I left my facebook deactivated and ignored any tax or phone calls. I never any trouble at home, but some my closest friends received the occasional Texas. Well a which weird us all out. I hated that they got dragged into it. One day I came home and thanks. Very Erie. The doors unlocked windows open and no one was there. I did a check of the place and found nothing else weird so I'll act everything up and just waiting for my roommate's get home. It's been almost seven months now. The calls and texts have more or less dot. Added an occasional taxed, but man most one every two weeks. At the peak of it I was receiving almost one hundred texts day. It definitely affected my social and personal life. I became much more wary of the people around me in my surroundings. I just felt like I can really focus on anything until it stops. Work was difficult though I try to maintain my composure as best I could. Everything was just weird. Life was weird. I since stopped using forms of dating APPS and websites. Things are getting back to normal at this point. I just want to put it all behind me. I'm moving at the end of this year so it. We Nice have a fresh start a new place. I'm not going to sit here and say all dating answer dangerous, and no one should use them, but definitely cover your bases. Ask more questions before meeting someone. facetime. Them I skype anything. How is naive about it and I regret it. Be Safe stick close to your friends and try meaning people in more traditional ways. Weird tender stalker. Less not meet. I'm not no in boy. Have I hear a lot of stories growing up on the reservation? While never actually seen anything myself which grateful for I benefited by being around the people who have? There is a different kind of evil that exists in quiet high desert Cindy Sandstone Canyons of Utah Arizona New Mexico in Colorado. I can only describe it as an ancient evil. Now. They're helpful. Ceremonies, rituals and traditions that are still practiced to this day. How even local hospital has an off-duty medicine main? Monday seems to be a double edged sword. When I mean is there's also black magic. which most Navajo not even acknowledge or speak of? We're very superstitious and our heavy taboos. You'll find this with most first nation people. From Alaska. Argentina. It's just something you don't do. Intrigue, that it will get the attention of unwanted spirits are harmful beings. Skin Walkers analogy are Jessica stories. That kept me up at night with the covers over my head. Here's a quick one for you guys. A Navajo tribal police. Was Driving West and what used to be officially named how a sixty six. He was lightly snowing and maybe quarter of an inch, which is on a snow for home. Any seasonal woman walking on his side of the road. Has She got there where she was going was not apparent because she was so far out in the middle of nowhere. He didn't see right away, but as he passes, he noticed he's dressed in traditional clothing. SHAWL address moccasins in her hair in the traditional bun. Not Too odd many odor still choose address traditionally. The, why was she out in such cold weather this late at night? Hitchhiking maybe. He passer too quickly and now has to turn around in as he makes a U-TURN. He notices that she's nowhere to be seen. This is fairly flat terrain any show. We saw old woman walking. April squad car over and steps out with a flashlight. Confused. He manages to find a women's footprints in the shallow snow. Eight thousand footprints until they suddenly turn into what looked like dog pawprints leading away from the road in a hurry. He nearly jumps back into the squad car and meets up with another officer nears patrol. He's a little shaking up, but Naseer other officer. He's ever seen anything like that. The author tells him that he has. He also explains that and sometimes it's an woman. Sometimes it very beautiful, young girl, but always on that road in always in the snow. Wing for the right good Samaritan to let her into their car. I still get nervous driving those wide open spaces at night. Aki is strictly on the road and turn my music up high. I really pitchers, but. I never picked him up at night. I'm awhile in firefighter with the Forest Service. Now my story from an old supervisor. Mind that I believe completely. The setting thousand four so Hells Canyon Area Middle Idaho. His crew had been working all day on an emerging incident and we're going to be working through the night as well. Being the Assistant Superintendent of the crew second in charge effectively, he was ahead scouting on an ATV. He was working his way down a logging road that had not been using some time when a bobcat. It's been a few years since I heard. The story appears in the middle of the road. But doesn't run away as they usually would. The things dance there for ten seconds screams at him and scampers up tree now five feet off the road. He finds his odd, but not particularly unsettling. Just, a half mile or so down the road, he finds small cabin. Also odd as this is federal lanes and no private structures be there. Upon investigation, all the windows have been boarded. Shut tight and someone had done a good job of doing so. The door had been punched out and secure to a hole drilled into the log frame by chain. Someone did not want anything getting in. Or Out. Appearing through the hole in the door, he can see that everything in the house is upset. This has some kind of unsettled, so we hops on his ATV and heads back up the road. Well Hughes work. It's really interesting. Right where the Bob Cat had been now stands a native American woman. In a badly tattered nightgown bare feet. Just standing there. He