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"jared haven" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

03:37 min | 3 months ago

"jared haven" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

"Hell dating with help. I suck it data with the crossover almost so good dating. So there is four house on this podcast. It is myself. Ashley i canetti. Hello Ben higgins my husband jared haven and his partner his crime how host and the mid dean unger and today. We're gonna be talking all about like home stuff. It's a special episode because we have a very special sponsor in gap home. So we're gonna talk about buying houses remodelling decorating all the things. 'cause it's kind of relevant and all of our lives right now. Hello boys hello girl. I am a man. She just throw up so much. Macaroni and cheese. Like two pounds worth. I'm not joking. you didn't even see the bag. I did not see the bag. But i heard about what happened. Afterwards i gotta recap not good not good. That's okay we're doing better. Where do you in better. How are you guys doing bed. How you doing buddy. I'm doing well. I'm happy to be here with you. Guys this is This is a little bit of unfamiliar territory with me. I i i just wanna make sure that I hold up to the standards of help. I suck at dating there in the show that stuff. But i think he can do it. I don't know you think he's got what it takes teen. Listen it's not going to be easy Ben is the kind of guy that's going to put the work in. I think to to really just be on our on our level so guys. I have to admit something to you right. Now i I blew my knee out two days ago and so I'm i'm currently in a pretty frustrated state in my life. Because i think it's finally hit me that basketball and i may need to be retired. Which which really hurts my feelings. You could be the prototypical guy that just sits on the outside the three point line and just like i'm i'm baby. You're like bill. Murray from space jam. That's your future with l. e. Brace elbow pads and a headband. That's my dream and probably a helmet and just in case you never know case. The is playing basketball. I went to a gathering of people in business and pastors in san diego and An afternoon they like playing basketball. So i got down there. They're playing a little more intense than i thought so. I've had to pick up. The level of intensity myself grabbed a rebound Just like makes me sweat telling this actually grabbed a rebound dribble down the floor. The court and a guy stepped in front of me. So i went with the i was driven with my left hand..

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"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

05:00 min | 4 months ago

"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

"And i am joined today by the one. And only jared haven jared. How are you. I'm doing wonderful. You know we're moving forward with the coffee shop ashley's thrown up constantly. Things are good. Things are good on the on the home front. I feel bad. She's still sake she's getting into your second trimester but it's been a bumpy ride to say the least while you're making you're making it through. That's all that matters. I really commend your bravery to be to go through this. Oh seriously you know. It's been a long who just i'm tired constantly and i'm achey and on my last emotional strain poor guy. People don't really understand how difficult men have it. You know i feel just piteous all the time you know. It's funny last night we were talking about. This is like you did this to me like you. Put this baby in me and you. You have nothing to do with it anymore. Like i'm the one who's sick. I'm the one who's putting weight on. I'm the one who's puffy tired and throwing up. And i was like yeah. You have a good point. I'm gonna go play nine holes. Do you need anything crackers. Soup anything i can get for you. I'm kidding i didn't play you didn't play. I played this morning before she got up. How'd you play forty four nice. That's pretty good. Yeah i'm getting better baby anyway. I know all army doesn't really care about my golf game but we are joined by a very special guest. You may have heard her laughing in the background. It is one the only ceylan miller keys. Kaelin hello thanks for having me on. I think you should really think it's been well way too long. Why does indeed let you on the podcast. More often and this is stupid. Says the guy that has never even once had his wife is pregnant. Wife on our podcast. My wife always comes..

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"jared haven" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

01:44 min | 5 months ago

"jared haven" Discussed on The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

"Because they could be like on it that way. It's a boy boy. That's amazing about this but before we let it go nick. Your mom had ten children and like how was she like her pregnancy. Super easy like in order to be able to do this. I i'll be honest. I haven't really sat down with my mom and be like. Let's talk about your delivering not delivering like you're the second oldest. So i'm wondering if you saw your mom puka lot or did not know she. She's the strongest woman. I may now. My guess is. She had a variety of different pregnancies. You know yeah. Well i guys. I couldn't be happier for you guys. I love you guys before. Nick goes to just take a moment and soak in. 'cause i know nick loves these moments. Felt like think of how far we've come uncle. Ben alkyl nick rate here. Ashleigh i can. Eddie and jared haven are having a baby together. I love you guys. it's pretty cool. I actually felt that. I got i got a little. Yeah it's been seven years in september since all this come a long way from crying at didn't i fawn making everyone around us making me think i.

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"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

04:32 min | 5 months ago

"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

"To Whatever this podcast is called help. I suck at dating. I'm jared haven of course joined by dean dean houria chaired. Wow what a great introduction. That was so much now my best. Thanks for having me your podcast. I really appreciate it. You know it's always an honor to be here every week. Got a while you asked me to keep coming back as a guest. But i'll i'll keep coming as long as you keep asking your the true talent of this podcast so we have a great podcast coming up for you from the guests of the brand new show. Let me get the title right. It is you me and my ex. Which starts airing on. Tlc sundays at ten pm. It's john april. John's ex wife. Lorraine and roy april's ex husband. It's very confusing. I watched the first episode. If you like these types of shows you're gonna like this show. It's just a bunch of exes people who've been divorced living under one household and then they put cameras in there and drama in sues. It's actually quite entertaining. I'm excited to have them later on in the podcast and talk about the first episode. But i wanted to get to something that we didn't finish last week dean which was a near times article. Let me just bring it up here. Sorry i'm it's monday people so usually we record on fridays. It's monday i'm all over the place. Dean looks like he just woke up. Eastern looks like disheveled version himself. Were all over the place today at the monday but here it is the record. Let's let the Let's let the record state for a second that way. It's nine thirty in the morning. Where most of us are. But it's twelve thirty in the afternoon where you are so you. Should you have less of an excuse to be a little scatter brained at the moment. Oh i have no excuse. But i'm still going to just make excuses because that's what i do so it's going to point that out. I appreciate it near times article that we talked about last week..

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"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

04:53 min | 6 months ago

"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

"Special episode. Today we have the star of the podcast. Jared haven joining us guest hosting on alert and a very special guest toast as well today. Heather martin is joining us. Heather how are you doing great. How are you guys doing. We are doing what we're doing. I would like to make a quick note if case something happens to me I am in van again. I don't have very good well. The services fine. What do you mean if something happens to you. Where are you in the world right now. That's on sketchy. Well it's more so just you're not. I'm not calling in from like a reliable wifi connection so you never really know what's going to happen. Are you ever calling on a reliable wi. Yeah the last week from the mexican restaurant in san raphael or whatever. The heck i was that was really. I haven't listened to episode yet. But i figured i would probably going to one of the best episodes you've ever had. I think it's a classic. They're all classics dina. Where in ten years. When we're looking back through the angels of help. I suck at dating. We're going to look at that episode as one of the highlights. I think i completely concur. Well we have a great episode coming up for you. Heather first of all. How are you we want to catch up with you. You are you. Do you still live in southern california. You still in san diego. I'm until he ago yet. It's finally starting to get warm here. Some so is in great. Things are opening. That's really good so the last time we saw you. Obviously you're on james season. You came in in the van halfway. Look just about halfway through the season. I'm assuming not your decision. You didn't want come halfway through. Go tell us like what exactly happened. Did you reach out to producers halfway through and was like. Hey i'm regretting not coming on or were you like. Hey can i come on night. One and they're like no. You gotta come on later. Yeah yeah no..

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"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

02:48 min | 1 year ago

"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

"Welcome to help I suck at dating. I am jared haven joined always by dean. Dean that is. Coming somewhere from the beach close by you recording from your van. In My van, I am not at the beach though I met a lake. Okay because you said waves. We might hear waves in the background. It's a big lake, so there's like big boats. House boats said some lake. Giant waves crashing in. So, obviously, we are a podcast that mostly talks about the world of dating I think Dean and I like to think of us as an escape podcast Were you guys laugh with US probably more accurately at US but Of course both Dean Myself, WanNa talk about everything. That's kind of currently happening in the world. it's it's impossible to ignore and we don't want to ignore it. Dean has been vocal on social media, so have I and I think we both have thoughts about it. and We have Dr, Ish Major. We've had on before he's. For marriage, BOOT camp and we will also have jubilee jubilee from the Bachelor. Franchise will also be on the podcast later on but I I I think. It's probably appropriate Dean, if you and I Kinda give our. Opening thoughts about What's happening in the world right now? I think for me it's just. It sucks. You know I mean I don't think there's any other way for me to put it besides it just it sucks that we're. Here that that we're at a point. Where the? Protests in everything. It had to happen. It was coming to a head. and It's it's it's disheartening. There's a lot of moments there's a lot of there's a lot of inspiration out there. People coming together all across the country all across the world coming together for a common cause the right cause. To Stop Racism to stop police brutality towards the black, community. But for me, I think it's disheartening that that. It took so long that we had to get to this point in order for it to happen. Yeah I mean I echo most of that as well. I think we're in obviously. A situation where we're kind of you know, we're not directly affected by this because we are white and everything that we see is You know people of Color Black people specifically. Honestly I think it's like. The fact that the events that were necessary to get us.

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"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

12:26 min | 1 year ago

"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

"What is up sucky? Data's welcome back to a brand. New Episode of health is sucking dating. I'm joined all the way across the country With jared haven and of course story in some in descript bath a bedroom in some. I don't know yes but I don't know where exactly in a country she is. Probably California Butts. Jared how are you? I'm Dandy? I'm doing well just one day at a time. That's the only thing we can do during this frigging thing ever. Doing you know staying safe. Everybody's doing well. We're a healthy. That's all we can ask for Ashley and I find are like fighting over smaller things now more often. But I'm pretty sure that's got to be normal for every couple. Give us an example of what you guys are fighting over here It's not like big fights. It's just more like annoyances for example we were trying to find something to we. Were trying to watch a movie the other night and I say I suggested mission impossible to because she hasn't seen it and then she's like no I don't WanNa Watch that. I was like okay. That's fair that'd be my pick. And then she wanted to watch. I don't remember what it was but it was. It was a ROM com. I was like I don't feel like Watchin- a romance movie and then we were trying to pick a movie in the middle and I said something like a good drama and she's like we never watched movies. I WANNA watch and I was like well. I know I was like I feel like we're watching movies that we both enjoy like. We just watched. Molly's game and we just watched. I forgot what else but she goes. She's like she's like I just feel like you're being selfish and I was like selfish. We're picking an equal movie. Like ice suggested it in action movie. You suggested a romance movie. Were meeting in the middle hair and doing a question for you is. Why wouldn't you just be on board with whatever movie she picks on just like? Be On your phone all the time. Well that'd be a Dick move. See I think it'd be worse because there's nothing that bothers me more than if there's a movie I. WanNa show someone and then they're on the MON for example. I showed Ashley the Dark Knight like two years ago because she was like. I don't get it. I saw it once. Like you're GonNa get this frigging movie you're going to get and you're gonNA like it so we watched it twenty minutes. And she was on her phone. I was like Ashley. I'M GONNA lose it because I really need you to focus. Pay attention appreciate and really put effort into thinking. You might like this and if you don't like it hey we'll go our separate ways and figure things out later but at least put the effort in now. That's a good point. I didn't think of that. I just had the cheapest movie that you had already seen and like definitely maybe or something like that now no it was a movie that she has seen and she's like oh. I could. I could watch this. I was like I'm Kinda not in the mood for a romance right now and so. I thought I wasn't being selfish because you know I suggested an action movie. And then she was like. Hey let's watch a romance movie and it was like all right. Neither one's GonNa win on that one. So let's go on the middle and watch a movie. We can both enjoy. Do you find it helpful to have a ashes parents with you kind of like an intermediary now. I mean like I said the good thing about Ashley is even when we fight. It's it's really. It is foreign few between and because we just like I've always said our friendship is so good that we really know how to handle each other but her parents being here. I don't know that's a good question. In if there I would say it's probably worse for like I don't WanNa say worse for our relationship but worse for when we're fighting because then it makes me feel super awkward because her parents can hear and then she uses them as more of a crunch instead of just hashing it out with me but yeah I liked him up on you. Diagnoses versus versus jared. Sounds like well right now? There's four against one so sol. If that's going to happen I got lois on my side. That's about a an even her. She's like fifty fifty. It doesn't seem too many arguments over there. Well Hey on the bright side. It seems like things are slowly starting to go back to normal. I always get closer to. Yeah Yeah I mean it is. It's still a little nerve wracking scary because I just. I don't know what's going to happen when the restrictions left like for example are you. How comfortable are you going back into public and going back into crowded areas? I'm not quite as much of a hypochondriac as you are so I I honestly not GonNa have any issue going to be going to bars Or like I guess we'll probably won't really be going to shopping centers either but I will have an issue going to the beach going hiking out in. You know the parks and stuff like that. But I could see if you guys don't really go that many bars either like if people were like rate partying all the time before the quarantine. I could see them being like oh like things are never going to be the same again but I feel like for the most part. I guess what they're probably will be like many movie premieres region actually to to attend those types of events probably will be a little bit fewer and farther between just like going to the movies going out to dinner like I mean granted. It's just going to change. Restaurants applaud behalf full. Even like dude flying you know I mean Ashley and I. We were lucky that a lot of the things we had to do. We traveled for. And that's kind of I don't know I don't feel being on a plane for six hours you know. I know I know. They say it's pretty safe with the fresh air and as long as we're in a mask but still I'm not worried about flying. The only bummer. For for me that surrounds flying specifically is that airlines are cutting their their airplane What sort of looking for like availability. So they're gonNa Fletcher isn't going to get more expensive over time. Which seems like a bummer too. So I'm not really worried about the germs per se. I Dunno it's going to be an interesting one. Have you always had an earring? 'cause I'm looking at you and you have an earring now and to K feel about it. I'm always years peers. Yeah I've had both ears pierced. I have two things in my left ear but I only have one hearing and now. She's supportive of dangling. Little Bar Golden Earring America. Now it's spice it up a little bit. Keep it fresh Mix it up. Might as well. We've got nothing better to do in this quarantine. Are you wearing earrings on both ears? Or just the left I haven't worn earrings in both areas. Since I was probably in college but as recently as like last year maybe a year or two ago I had to cursing my left lobe two little mini hugger hoops in my left ear. Which I really appreciate that. Look but I think one of them closed up So I only have one home I left here now but yeah like I said you know. I just like to keep it fresh. Keep it interesting. It's Gonna. Why play around the facial hair a little bit? I've got a nice little bun going on today to the top your La but it keeps the look fresh to give the mustache. You have an earring and ring headband. And you have your hair in a bun. Yeah Yeah it's like I look in the mirror. I don't even know who I am. And that's kind of exciting for me even to like well. Who is this guy? You're hideous but it's cool to like you know. Have someone else around the house. I guess. Yeah it's like Groundhog Day. So at least you get to change your personality every day Tori. How do you feel about guys with earrings question? Full of vans like she Doesn't want to answer. Honestly she knows it's going to hurt my feelings. I think that done right. It can be attractive. But I'm I have a hard time with the day goal. Then I mostly what Nicklaus Shea Salads. Yeah I do I remember a couple I think back. In Jan note in January February I came to the studio to record episode must be January and I had the Dang leering in the dog and the coaches and Tori was very critical of my dangle. Tori would be critical of you no matter what you do because she just likes ridiculing you. It's not Jacob that I know his potentials it's motivate you know. Where do you DETTORI? Where do you think Dean has reached his most potential? Like at? What point throughout your friendship did you think dean is at his peak right now right now? I think every day is new a new peak from. I think it was right before the leg injury. Yeah you're like going out. You were happy you're nature Kaelin a sagging along. You had your dog. Everything was like great. I think that kind of didn't like Mandir your peak. But you're just definitely peaking then. I broke my leg of my life. got ruined. Basically however you know yeah I would. I would agree with that We also are offering dog as of an hour ago today. So we have a little sister for pappy. So it's Kinda exciting for us. What's his name I think it's Phraya. Are you think at some weird Foreign name I'm not familiar with I. Call her real yo. But you just on the carpet in this In this room broadcasting from start she just turned two and she just had a litter of puppies. So she's got some some Nice Curvaceous teats if you will but we thought the thought process behind it was since he's been down and out lately with is like arthritis in his teeth. I wanted like a nice sexy young female walking around the House. Maybe like breathe a little bit a spark into him. Yeah make him young in and yet to see it. He's been fighting for attention. Ever since which is Kinda nice to see him. You know get a little bit more motivated for some pets. Is there potential that you'll keep grow absolutely not? Please feel like you said the same thing about pappy. I now I did. The same thing about pappy was an exception. He's just an amazing dog. And AS Roma's failure seems to be happy needed us a lot more than I think. Froyo will so You know she's a little bit younger. He's got some spunk into cuteness to pepys cube but he was like so old that if we didn't adopt and he probably died in a shelter or something you know which is a little bit of a different circumstance. You know it's interesting trae said your peak was reporter. Broke your leg because I feel like since that incident happened you and Kayla have become a lot stronger even though you guys. We're a strong relationship beforehand just from her going there and taking care of you now you guys obviously in quarantine together. I guess I would say that. I would disassociate my peak with my relationship. Though you know like my personal peak is different than the strengthened my relationship. I actually would kill me if I said that I was. I was at my peak before we got together. I think they're just two separate mountains with two different peaks. You can peak on your own on this now in over here and then the relationship peak is Eric Year than ashes at Hurrell amount and that. She's by herself over there. They're all you know. It's all Evident flowing together. That's how I look at. I'll try to explain that to her. And just let me know how it goes. Hopefully around next week Earlier about getting small petty arguments. I mean we definitely the same thing even just just yesterday I can't remember what getting about something so so silly and it's just like what is it. Is it just that the fact that we're spending too much time around each other is that we're all cooped up in this little apartment? We can't do the things that we want to do. I don't know it just I feel myself being more irritable. Like see myself getting annoyed at things. And I'm like dude. What are you getting annoyed that for? You know what I mean so hopefully. Hopefully this is all just a means to an end. I think it will be and I know it's interesting because today like this time is supposed to be a time full of perspective. You know as long as we're healthy and doing well and we have a roof over our head and food that we should be doing all right but I agree with you. I found myself more irritable as well. And I take it out on Ashley. Sometimes and she does the same with me. But that's just the relationship and that's why you know you put a ring on it because even in times where you guys fight you realize that you know the sun will rise again and you guys are going to be fine. You still love each other and everything's going to be a okay. Just like this podcast. This podcast is going to be a plus you want to know why then because Our peak years is peak. Our relationship peak is still while I was gonna say it's Tories peak but yeah I mean that could be a two. Hey I've got a question for you and your relationships are to side your but I do remember the talk of children coming up a couple of weeks ago. Has that been discussed between you Ashley at all lately No nothing change. Yeah we discuss it. We still want to. Maybe try started having kids later this year. It's it's it's scary man. It's just a it's it's it's nerve wracking about you know the idea of bringing human in and then it you know that human being is your responsibility and your.

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"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

05:11 min | 1 year ago

"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

"What is up? Sucky daters welcome back to a brand. New Episode of health is sucking dating I'm. Joined all the way across the country, with jared haven, and of course story in some in descript bath, a bedroom in some I don't know. Yes, but I don't know where exactly in a country. She is probably California Butts Jared. How are you I'm Dandy I'm doing well just one day at a time. That's the only thing we can do during this frigging thing ever doing stand safe. Everybody's doing well. We're a healthy. That's all we can ask for Ashley and I find are like fighting over smaller things now more often, but I'm pretty sure that's got to be normal for every couple. Give us an example of what you guys are fighting over here It's not like big fights. It's just more like annoyances. For example we were trying to find something to. We were trying to watch a movie the other night and I say I suggested mission impossible to because she hasn't seen it, and then she's like no, I don't WanNa Watch that I was like okay. That's fair. That'd be my pick, and then she wanted to watch I don't remember what it was, but it was. It was a ROM com. I was like I. Don't feel like Watchin-. A romance movie. And then we were trying to pick a movie in the middle and I wanted something like a good drama. And she's like we never watched movies. I WANNA watch and I was like well. I know I was like I feel like. We're watching movies that we both enjoy like. We just watched Molly's game and we just watched. I forgot what else but. She goes. She's like she's like I just feel like you're being selfish and I was like selfish. We're picking an equal movie like ice suggested in action movie you suggested a romance movie were meeting in the middle hair and. Doing a question for you is. Why wouldn't you just be on board? With whatever movie she picks on just like be on your phone all the time. Well, that'd be a Dick move. See I. think it'd be worse because there's nothing that bothers me more than if there's a movie, I wanNA show, someone and then they're on the Mon for example I showed Ashley the. The Dark Knight, like two years ago because she was like I. Don't get it I saw it once like you're gonNA. Get this frigging movie. You're going to get, and you're gonNA like it, so we watched it twenty minutes, and she was on her phone I was like Ashley I'm going to lose it because I really need you to focus pay attention, appreciate and really. Put effort into thinking. You might like this and if you don't like it. Hey, we'll go our separate ways and figure things out later. But at least put the effort in now. That's a good point. I didn't think of that I just had. The pick movie that you had already seen and like definitely maybe or something like that now. No. It was a movie that she has seen and she's like. Oh, I could. I could watch this. I was like I'm Kinda not in the mood for a romance right now and so I thought I wasn't being selfish. Because you know I suggested an action movie, and then she was like hey. Let's watch a romance movie and it was like all right. Neither one's GONNA. Win On that one, so let's go on the middle and watch a movie we can both enjoy. Do you find it helpful to have a ashes? Parents with you kind of like an intermediary. Now I mean like I said the good thing about Ashley is even when we fight, it's it's really it is far and few between and. Because we just like I've always said our friendship is so good that we really know how to handle each other, but her parents being here. I. Don't know that's a good question in. If there I would say, it's probably worse for. Like I don't WanNa say worse for our relationship, but worse for when we're fighting. Because then it makes me feel super awkward because her parents can here, and then she uses them as more of a crunch instead of just. Hashing it out with me. But yeah, I liked him up on. You diagnoses versus versus jared sounds like well right now. There's four against one so. Sol Happen I got Lois on my side. That's about a an even her. She's like fifty fifty. It doesn't seem too many arguments over there well, hey, on the bright side. It seems like things are slowly starting to go back to normal I. Always get closer to yeah. Yeah I, mean it is. It's still a little nerve wracking scary because I just. I don't know what's going to happen when the restrictions left like for example, are you? How comfortable are you going back into public and going back into crowded areas? I'm not quite as much of a hypochondriac as you are. So I I. Honestly Not GonNa. have any issue going to be going to bars? or like I guess we'll probably won't really be going to shopping centers, either but I will have an issue going to the beach going hiking out in you know the parks and stuff like that, but I could see. If you, guys don't really go that many bars either like if people were like rate partying all the time before the. Quarantine I could see them being like. Oh. Things are never going to be the same again, but I feel like for the most part I guess what they're probably will be like. Many movie premieres region actually to to attend. Those types of events probably will be a little bit fewer and farther between your just like going to the movies going out to dinner. Like I mean granted. It's just going to change restaurants. Applaud behalf full, even like dude flying. You know I mean Ashley and I. We were Lucky that a lot of the things we had to do. We traveled for and that's kind of I. Don't know I don't feel being on a plane for six hours. You know I know I know. They say it's pretty safe with the fresh air, and as long as we're in a mask, but still..

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"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

06:44 min | 2 years ago

"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

"Help dating. We have a very special guest who is in studio with us right now. She is a television writer relationship. Expert and author of three books including including why. You're not married yet in her Ted. Talk the person you really need to marry has more than twelve million of us is Dr Tracy McMillan. We're GONNA call you doctor. anyways people do people in twitter says right there on the doctor. Jerry Tracy McMillan people into decided I was a back door Dublin weekend accept it. Somebody called me Doctor. I am Dr Dr Jared Haven Md.. On whatever you think. I practiced all right. We'll tracy thank you so much for coming in having me. I love being here of of course so Actually mark was expressing. Some of your views. before you came in which I think the audience would love to know more about one example. Apple is men are way more committed to relationships. Okay well okay. That's probably a little bit simplified oversimplified. So here's the thing what we do here help us. That's okay that's okay. So one of the things about for example women file for divorce seventy percent of the time Women are the people who file for divorce so you gotta wonder why is that I think part of the reason is that when women are unhappy marriage or relationship relationship because it kind of goes related their way more unhappy than when a man is unhappy in a marriage. 'cause like dudes can compartmentalize in ways that that women either cannot won't will not and also there's a lot of research about how when men are committed into the relationship and open to being what's called influenced by their wives. This would go for the girlfriends to the relationship is much happier beer now. It doesn't work. The other way will explanation that I think my my idea would be. That guys are speaking as a guy. So yeah this might be a little stubborn maybe a little down and so I think guys are just. I think also a lot of relationships that I've seen women are the ones who are not afraid to speak about their and where guy will. Just if something's wrong he'll just I handle it mentally compartmentalize in and not want to deal with women Well this is all research Women are the people who bring up problems in a relationship like much more than men do. So I think the thing about being influenced what it means to explain Dean please So basically to be influenced means you listen to your partner you taken what they say and you allow yourself to be changed by it as opposed to just just. Oh there's words raining down on my ears and nothing is going to change in my heart or in my behavior so when a man is open to being influenced by his wife or girlfriend they. Those couples report a much higher satisfaction in their relationships. Now when women are open to being influenced by man. It doesn't didn't change the outcome of the happiness quotient. It's really a guy thing because I think it's it works the other way when a guy is not open to being influenced influenced in his relationship. It makes a lot of unhappiness very unhappy partners influence. What do you mean influence on what like taking in what? They're hearing to be moved by what they're hearing to be willing to change. Learn but cover the Gambit Jackley Ackley all kinds of so few say okay for for example in one of my marriages because guys you know I've been married a lot right okay. How many times three times? Okay okay. So judging by your math I'm just going to numbers real quick. You filed for divorce twice out of those three times all three hours. Just I look on your hand. I didn't ring and so I think it's three times. The thing about it is is that even the third time he was like if he in but he would've stayed married the he was okay to have. Do we swear on this show okay. It's okay to have bus going on and be married. He was just like. Why do you have to believe it? And I'm like no because I don't do it's because maybe men sometimes are better at like distracting themselves too. Yeah that's to me the compartmentalizing thing he didn't it wasn't it's like it didn't mean he didn't want me it just meant he was very confused and wanted to be able to go to dinner with other women and maybe date them white. Hey guys like eating. I caught cheating. That's what I said to him but why he he more wanted to probably have something very nontraditional. Was this your third marriage Okay so was my husband or super super solid and I was the one who wasn't ready. So can I ask you why. Why keep getting married again? Well it's wasn't exactly exactly like that so the first time it was the eighties so I was nineteen. I love how people use that as an explanation bring so much joy to my heart. It was the the eighties. It's what happened it's true and I'm from Minnesota so it's absolutely what people were going to do right then it'd be like we're we've been together two and and a half years. We're getting married the next obvious. Step here Never mind I'm a teenager but whatever a lot of my high school friends are still married to their high school sweetheart so it can. I think they're miserable. Actually I think most of them are not miserable. It's good and sometimes this other friend of mine and we'll be really happy and like I think they are her is. Do you think there was a time when they were miserable. No I think we're about to step into another whole topic around attachment and secure attachment and I think securely attached people apple enjoy being in relationship. It's no big deal. And but they pair up very young and then they're out of the dating pool while so so your first marriage in the eighties. He had with the second the second second time I was pregnant and that was in the nineties so either thirteen years between my first and my second marriage so when you say why keep getting married. I'm like well. That was a long time in between and and then there was. My next marriage was in two thousand five so that was ninety. Six to two thousand five suck at math nine in years and then. How long were you in ten years ago since I was married? Wow you look great. Oh you missed the two thousand teens. You ought to hit every decade hit the twenty teens. I know well we're not done yet..

Dr Tracy McMillan Dr Dr Jared Haven Md twitter Dublin writer Apple mark Dean Minnesota partner
"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

06:44 min | 2 years ago

"jared haven" Discussed on Help! I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

"Help dating. We have a very special guest who is in studio with us right now. She is a television writer relationship. Expert and author of three books including including why. You're not married yet in her Ted. Talk the person you really need to marry has more than twelve million of us is Dr Tracy McMillan. We're GONNA call you doctor. anyways people do people in twitter says right there on the doctor. Jerry Tracy McMillan people into decided I was a back door Dublin weekend accept it. Somebody called me Doctor. I am Dr Dr Jared Haven Md.. On whatever you think. I practiced all right. We'll tracy thank you so much for coming in having me. I love being here of of course so Actually mark was expressing. Some of your views. before you came in which I think the audience would love to know more about one example. Apple is men are way more committed to relationships. Okay well okay. That's probably a little bit simplified oversimplified. So here's the thing what we do here help us. That's okay that's okay. So one of the things about for example women file for divorce seventy percent of the time Women are the people who file for divorce so you gotta wonder why is that I think part of the reason is that when women are unhappy marriage or relationship relationship because it kind of goes related their way more unhappy than when a man is unhappy in a marriage. 'cause like dudes can compartmentalize in ways that that women either cannot won't will not and also there's a lot of research about how when men are committed into the relationship and open to being what's called influenced by their wives. This would go for the girlfriends to the relationship is much happier beer now. It doesn't work. The other way will explanation that I think my my idea would be. That guys are speaking as a guy. So yeah this might be a little stubborn maybe a little down and so I think guys are just. I think also a lot of relationships that I've seen women are the ones who are not afraid to speak about their and where guy will. Just if something's wrong he'll just I handle it mentally compartmentalize in and not want to deal with women Well this is all research Women are the people who bring up problems in a relationship like much more than men do. So I think the thing about being influenced what it means to explain Dean please So basically to be influenced means you listen to your partner you taken what they say and you allow yourself to be changed by it as opposed to just just. Oh there's words raining down on my ears and nothing is going to change in my heart or in my behavior so when a man is open to being influenced by his wife or girlfriend they. Those couples report a much higher satisfaction in their relationships. Now when women are open to being influenced by man. It doesn't didn't change the outcome of the happiness quotient. It's really a guy thing because I think it's it works the other way when a guy is not open to being influenced influenced in his relationship. It makes a lot of unhappiness very unhappy partners influence. What do you mean influence on what like taking in what? They're hearing to be moved by what they're hearing to be willing to change. Learn but cover the Gambit Jackley Ackley all kinds of so few say okay for for example in one of my marriages because guys you know I've been married a lot right okay. How many times three times? Okay okay. So judging by your math I'm just going to numbers real quick. You filed for divorce twice out of those three times all three hours. Just I look on your hand. I didn't ring and so I think it's three times. The thing about it is is that even the third time he was like if he in but he would've stayed married the he was okay to have. Do we swear on this show okay. It's okay to have bus going on and be married. He was just like. Why do you have to believe it? And I'm like no because I don't do it's because maybe men sometimes are better at like distracting themselves too. Yeah that's to me the compartmentalizing thing he didn't it wasn't it's like it didn't mean he didn't want me it just meant he was very confused and wanted to be able to go to dinner with other women and maybe date them white. Hey guys like eating. I caught cheating. That's what I said to him but why he he more wanted to probably have something very nontraditional. Was this your third marriage Okay so was my husband or super super solid and I was the one who wasn't ready. So can I ask you why. Why keep getting married again? Well it's wasn't exactly exactly like that so the first time it was the eighties so I was nineteen. I love how people use that as an explanation bring so much joy to my heart. It was the the eighties. It's what happened it's true and I'm from Minnesota so it's absolutely what people were going to do right then it'd be like we're we've been together two and and a half years. We're getting married the next obvious. Step here Never mind I'm a teenager but whatever a lot of my high school friends are still married to their high school sweetheart so it can. I think they're miserable. Actually I think most of them are not miserable. It's good and sometimes this other friend of mine and we'll be really happy and like I think they are her is. Do you think there was a time when they were miserable. No I think we're about to step into another whole topic around attachment and secure attachment and I think securely attached people apple enjoy being in relationship. It's no big deal. And but they pair up very young and then they're out of the dating pool while so so your first marriage in the eighties. He had with the second the second second time I was pregnant and that was in the nineties so either thirteen years between my first and my second marriage so when you say why keep getting married. I'm like well. That was a long time in between and and then there was. My next marriage was in two thousand five so that was ninety. Six to two thousand five suck at math nine in years and then. How long were you in ten years ago since I was married? Wow you look great. Oh you missed the two thousand teens. You ought to hit every decade hit the twenty teens. I know well we're not done yet..

Dr Tracy McMillan Dr Dr Jared Haven Md twitter Dublin writer Apple mark Dean Minnesota partner