20 Burst results for "J.Lo"
Homo Sapiens
"j.lo" Discussed on Homo Sapiens
"Well, no, 'cause I feel like I go in with, I go in with the idea that this is for me or this for someone else. And usually now, like if I, if there's a song, with dua, it was always with her in the studio. So we were writing together because she's an incredible writer herself. So she and then obviously it's very clear that we're writing the song for her. And I think the same with like, even if it's like, hey, this artist is looking for songs and you know, you kind of go in with the idea of like hoping to maybe be able to pitch something that they then want to rework for them. You're kind of in the mindset of thinking of them. But then sometimes it happens to be like, you know, my publishers will be like, oh, you know, my publisher will be like, this song, you know, that they didn't want it. I think it's such a good song. Could you maybe like remake it for you? And I have yet to try that, but I feel like it. It's a possibility. Have a look around in your drawer. What have we got in here? Yeah, kind of. What did thingy not want? And you've worked with so many big names. A lot with Ellie goulding, right? And I think it's really interesting. I wonder if you agree. And I feel like there are elements of similarities and qualities to your voice. So imagine her hearing you do something must be amazing for her 'cause it's like it's a song arriving for her that sounds like her almost would you agree with that? I think yes, but then I think that, well, I think it's more like this. If you as an artist hear something and you can picture your voice on it, then it's like yes. You're like, oh, okay, I can hear myself sing this and then you can I also think when you're doing demo vocals you want to send to an artist, you don't try to sound like them because that's just, you know, will just be offensive. But I think you try to at least kind of put a tone that you know is like, oh, this is kind of the tone that I feel like this artist sings in a lot. So I think that might give inspiration, you know? It's a shame you never had to do a demo for Barry White. He'd be like, she sounds just like me. This is so weird. What are my favorite things in the world is to talk about songs that were turned down by people that were originally for other people, because Rihanna turned down toxic for Britney. Is that true? Which one's that? I heard it was that J.Lo
Forever35
"j.lo" Discussed on Forever35
"Care runs the gamut. I would say that I think the most monumental experience was working for J.Lo because she can she's one of the I know these people exist in the world and there's several of them, but she, to me, is like one of the last big movie stars in the sense of like this, she really has adopted this golden era persona, even though she still current to this day, like it's very much like, you know, when you watch mommy dearest and she's like, every single thing is planned out and plotted down to the T because that's how she operates. That's literally J.Lo. And it's inspirational in that sense. I wouldn't say the entire experience was inspiring. I definitely feel like there was a lot of stuff left on the table, but as far as understanding how to be in the world, when you're perceived as a certain way, meeting that level of expectation, you have to operate as one does and she is like meticulous, hardworking will out be out wake anyone. I mean, I was out one night working and was about to pass out by 5 a.m. and she was still wide awake. This is somebody who is on a meticulous schedule of being like the business of J.Lo is not simply just waking up and being. There's like a whole thing and I realized working on that team, a lot of things that I was leaving on the table about myself and what I needed to do. And one thing that I think is really important is just it's not like, yes, she has resources to do all these things. But like really actively wanting to be in good total wellness and shape. Like actually wanting to have that and making that apart of your day to day is just something that's critical for her. And I felt like that's one of the reasons why I bought my peloton because I was like, I'm not going to go outside anymore, then I need to have something here to be doing that. So that's like a critical aspect of how I work out. What happens when you work with celebrities is that you're exposed to a level of excess. Right. That you did not know was a thing, right? And it's like excess and access. And so it's like, I may not be able to afford it. But I will still find a way to get something like that or as close to it as possible or find a way to access it or work towards it. And that's sort of like, that's a 100% what I've taken away from my experience working with celebrities who are particularly fashionable, right? Like who have a degree of relevance because they're very fashionable and look good. And that's something that I'm like, you know, in terms of like being what I was, I'll compare it to this. When I was 25, like my beauty kit was a kit. It all fit in like a little thing. It was if I was doing well and had enough money, I would go out and get makeup forever. Which is my favorite brand for a foundation. If I wasn't doing that great or in between jobs, it was CoverGirl. Or it was a sample that I made somebody make me. And now it's like, I have a closet of products. And it's seasonal, and it's equipment, and it's items, and it's just like, my husband's always like, are you gonna clean this up?
QUEERY with Cameron Esposito
"j.lo" Discussed on QUEERY with Cameron Esposito
"That they read last night at the telegraph club. I also listened to it because that is one of the top ways that I consume books and it's a great audiobook to really, really beautifully read and I would really recommend it as an audiobook also. Before I send you back into your day I just want to ask if you would shout out a queer, which is like a person place or thing that made you feel you could be who you are today. Yeah, so I have listened to your podcast. So I was thinking, what would I name here? And I decided that I'm going to say two things. So the first book that I read that really made me realize, I could write books with lesbians in them was tipping the velvet by Sarah waters. God, this is such a good book. I've said this a lot, but it was literally the book that made me think, oh my God, I could do this. So awesome. Tipping the velvet by Sarah waters. So definitely that I also want to say, give a shout out to the many lesbian bars of San Francisco. In the early 2000s, where I felt so welcome. You know? They are in this book too. They're in telegraph club as well. And I found my friends there. It was so much fun. So where did I go? I did a lot at in bed with very Butch in case anybody around here remembers in bed with very much it was one of my favorites. I went to the cat club. Obviously went to the Lexington, which is sadly closed. And there were weekly clubs, but oh, el Rio. That was also great. So shout out to all these bars in San Francisco because they really were a sense of community for me at the time. I love that. I love that and I'm so glad to hear about them and so glad to hear about tipping the velvet. Just the other day, I was telling somebody, I don't remember why, but I was telling them that there was a really good BBC series they should watch called finger Smith. And they laughed at me. I said, that's good. I know that it has a funny name. But it is an excellent series. Yes. Agreed. All right, Melinda. You rule. Thanks so much for taking the time. Congrats. Thanks for having me. This was so much fun. I'm glad people get to hear us talk about fashion. Me too. Me too..
QUEERY with Cameron Esposito
"j.lo" Discussed on QUEERY with Cameron Esposito
"Know about that. Actually, you know what? Not surprise. Melinda. I have got a great pandemic era cheat. Here's what it is. Express. Oh, really? The mall store? Yeah, they'll store. Okay. Yes. They have fairly afford. They're just. It's because they're like in the business lady. Right. Market or whatever? It's like where people go to get their first suit or something like that. It's like they're like in that market. But a lot of their stuff fits me and it's like vaguely fashion E, like they're like, you know, whatever. And I don't alter my stuff from express, because it is actually made to be worn, you know, you got to look at the or I try to look at the, I try to look at all the pictures to see how it would fit. What are we really talking about here? Because I'm not looking for like boot cut pants with like a cropped blazer, but there's some stuff on express, that can work. It's so funny, 'cause that's the store that was so big when I was in high school. 100%. Yes. I used to have that sweatshirt that just said express on. Oh my God, I know. Like in the embroidered letters. I know. Also, it's the story I would run past. Besides having that sweatshirt, like I would never have. So it just is wild what it's because I was trying to find it's exactly what you're talking about. I was trying to find suiting without being able to go in anywhere because I had to like go to something interesting. Yeah, well I haven't had to go to any. But we're also been virtual. You know, thinking about it for your own life and how you want to present. I mean, I think this stuff is so interesting. We don't need to talk about this forever. It's like I don't need to, like, I'm okay with wearing women's fashion sometimes, but also sometimes I'm not. I wish that the idea of what women quote unquote would wear would be more expansive, you know, and not so not so traditionally feminine. Like, can we have untraditionally feminine? I would like that. What do you think? I don't know that category. Give me a category. What's in there? Like outfits that you would wear if you were like in a science fiction movie in the future. Amazing. You know what I mean? I do know what you mean and I gotta say, I do think this is really important and stuff we should talk about. So, you know, something that I have noticed, well, like it does matter what we see in fashion or in Hollywood or on red carpets or in magazines because obviously filters down through the culture. So I'm not saying that people can't make their own decisions, but like it does matter what we see. I don't have to tell you that former entertainment reporter. But something I've noticed over the last couple of years is that like there's a lot of cool gender Bundy stuff happening for non binary folks assigned male at birth and also for like straight up cis dudes. Like I'm thinking about like a Timothy Chalamet type of a person, you know, like showing up and wearing harnesses and like skirts and you know all this stuff. And I don't think that we've seen the equivalent from cis women or from a fab nonbinary folks. I feel like it's like there's been all this cool celebration of like, can we believe how Harry Styles looks? And I love how hairy styles looks. And also like, yeah, dude, Harry Styles is like doing Bowie. It's fucking awesome. I love it, you know? But I don't know that we have, like, I guess, you know, Evan Rachel, wood was doing some pretty amazing stuff a couple years ago. Yeah. She was wearing a lot of tuxes. They're just having been events in a minute. But, you know, or like, obviously, genome Monet is always doing amazing things. But I just feel like there's been this huge movement toward like skirts for men on runways, you know, and I am, I'm not seeing the same for me. What I would be the advent of that. I'd like it. Right. Well, there should be. Take note, fashion people. Well, I guess you and I will just start wearing it. That's.
QUEERY with Cameron Esposito
"j.lo" Discussed on QUEERY with Cameron Esposito
"So for you, you know, just, I mean, that's why I think this was like an interesting jumping off point. You talking about how you were raised outside of boulder and being one of three Asian American people that you knew and then. And then this story that's set in Chinatown, woman who's really growing up in a Chinese community. You know, I'm curious about, you know, is there any part of it, any part of that that's like some personal exploration around like what if, you know, is that, is that part of it for you there? It is, but probably not in the ways that people expect because lily's personal story is quite different from mine, but the ways in which it was inspired by my life, my family's life in particular was around the immigration narrative. So in the book, lily's father is he is from China. He comes to the U.S. in the 1930s to go to medical school. And lily's mother was born in America. She's a second generation Chinese American. When they get married, that does not mean lily's father can get U.S. citizenship because there was the Chinese exclusion act at the time and so you couldn't become an American citizen as a Chinese immigrant in that way through marriage, which I don't think gets a lot of play in terms of American history. No. I have to be honest. I didn't really know that. Until reading the book, which I think is like shameful and humiliating, but also like, yeah, it's not, it's not widely taught. Very keeping in keeping with American culture. But yeah, keep going. Yeah, so lily's father becomes an American citizen by joining the military once World War II starts. So my family was kind of they kind of had a similar inflection point. My grandfather came to the U.S. to study to get his PhD in psychology in the 1930s. He met my grandmother who was a white woman at the time, but she always was a white woman. She was also at the university at the time. And they went to Shanghai to get married because it was illegal for them to get married in the U.S. because of those anti miscegenation laws that were on the books for quite a while. But he could not obtain U.S. citizenship by marrying her. There was literally a law that said, if a white woman marries an Asian woman, he can not gain citizenship. So this was the way it was. So he couldn't gain citizenship. So after a World War II, they went back to China. They decided to go back to China instead of staying in the U.S. because it was basically impossible for him to find a well paying job here to obtain citizenship legally. It was just too hard. There was too much racism, frankly. So they went to China and shortly afterward, the communists invaded. And they were stuck there for the next 30, 40 years. So I kind of wondered what would have happened if my family had not gone back to China. What if they had stayed in the U.S.? And that's the family that I give to Lilly. So in a way, it's me imagining what it might have been like if they had stayed in the U.S.. So that's the primary point of connection between my family's experience and this book. Was the same thing true if it was a white man and an Asian in a Chinese woman? Because in your situation, it was a Chinese man woman and woman. Was it this was it the same for I don't think it was the same because there was a specific law to prevent white women from marrying Asian men. Yes. Yeah. Yeah, that's because yeah, that sounds that sounds right when I think about us. Like when I think about the United States, that sounds right. Just about. Yeah, wild. Did you have those were your grandparents? Did you have a close relationship with them? I did with my grandmother, my white grandmother. Because she was a writer as well. Oh wow. And she really inspired me to be a writer. My grandfather, my paternal grandfather, unfortunately, died in China during the cultural revolution. Because he was labeled as an intellectual and he suffered quite a bit under the communists. My mother's family were I was not as close to them because they were in China. And we had come to the U.S. and then once they came to the U.S., they didn't live in the same area as us. So I was mostly close to my paternal grandmother. And you know, I still miss her. I think about her all the time. I miss my grandmother too. Did you did she talk to you about this? I know sometimes in a family when there are these big moments and I have my own big moments in my family. Some of it is they're talked about spending or not talked about like it almost feels like it's like rarely sometimes we talked about it. It's kind of like open or like not open and I'm curious about how that was in your family. Yeah, my white grandmother did talk about it. She wrote a memoir about her time in China during the cultural revolution and it was published in 1980..
Mind Pump
"j.lo" Discussed on Mind Pump
"I'd like them. It just kind of like moves around. Yeah, so here's some of the main reasons and I think it'll be important. We get into strategies to improve lagging body parts, but the number one reason why people have lagging body parts and I hate to say this because a lot of people listening will be like, that's not true, but if you're honest with yourself, I think you'll see some truth here is that they just don't put as much focus on that body part like they do other body parts. So you'll hear it like for me, one of the reasons why my calves lagged for so long is I just early days. I never trained them. So the first ten years of my workout career, my calves were kind of an afterthought. It's not a beach muscle. So now I have ten years of everything else being developed, and that not being necessarily trained. And you see that with a lot of people, the sale, this is a weaker body part and say, well, what have you done for it? Are you consistent with it like other areas? And oftentimes that's not the case. There are some genetic issues. There's your insertion and origin, so longer muscle bellies. That's the actual meat of the muscle. Makes a muscle easier to develop than a shorter muscle belly. Muscle fiber density. Not just easier too. It'll look different. Yeah. That's what I mean. I mean, I would explain this to somebody too that was really common was it like 15 years ago or so when was J lo blowing up? J.Lo first started to blow up. I was one 1590s. I mean, 15, 20 years ago, right? Somewhere around there. But it was like literally every other female client that came to work with me at that time would be like, can I build a J.Lo but? That was like a super common question. But I was asked, and I was always having to explain that, yes, we can develop your glutes. Absolutely, to be bigger than they are currently right now. But also keep in mind half of what kind of gives the illusion or the look of someone's butt or any muscle to your point is the origin insertion. If somebody has a very short origin insertion, they're gonna get kind of this bubbly. Look, if you have somebody that has a very long origin and insertion, they're gonna have this kind of flatter kind of natural look to that. So even when it grows, it's not gonna have this short little bubble look, it's gonna get, you know, bigger, but it's not gonna look exactly the same. Yeah, you know what's funny with other body parts it's the opposite. Like you want long long insertions with biceps or calves, but maybe you think that's one of the most noticeable ones is biceps and calves because you have somebody flexes and you'll see like a little ball on top versus like one that's a little bit more all the way down to the elbow. And then there's also like muscle fiber types, certain muscle fibers build more than other muscle, fiber types. And genetics will play a role. Now it's argued that your muscle fiber type, I guess, ratio is consistent throughout the whole body. But there's some theories that say that might not be the case through the whole body and in some cases, you may have more endurance muscle fiber types and some muscle groups versus others, which makes them harder to develop. And then one of the main reasons is a, and I'm using this word or this phrase, carefully, loosely, which is lack of connection. Now I know lack of connection literally means you can't connect to the muscle at all, that's dead. I don't mean that..
Daily Pop
"j.lo" Discussed on Daily Pop
"Much. I'm here, honey. I mean, everybody is just talking today about the heartfelt situation. So much love in the air. I mean, J.Lo is finally opening up about she and Ben, she is breaking her silence on what she calls her beautiful love story with Ben. Jen tells people out Friday, I just feel very happy and lucky to be in a relationship that's happy and loving. And I want to do everything I can to protect that and keep it safe. It deserves that. It really does. We hold in sacred. Yes. She really gushes about him in this interview and if you're J lo, would you be hesitant to talk about Ben at all? Wow. Well, go ahead, 'cause you love love. This is yours. I take it. I want to hear about birthdays are a day apart, and I think the most important thing is that when you find that right one, it's okay to profess it, just don't go too deep. Don't do too much unveiling. That's the only thing that scares me. You know what I mean? Because she'll come out. She's like, I love, you know. And we'll do that, but I just want them to really keep it sacred. Keep it private. We don't need to be altered with it. People magazine. Yeah. And then just keep it safe. Yeah. And private. I think you have to tell the story. Right. I think if she didn't tell the story, I mean, we gonna feel in the gaps and you don't want that. Right, right, right. You're not with the media to fill in the gaps. And what I think she has learned is you give the public just enough. Just enough. And you pick and choose those things. So they don't exactly. You pick and choose those things that you're gonna keep sacred just for the two of you and you go about it that way. Well, I love that I think in the article two she talks about that it's getting a second chance. And I think sometimes you meet the right person at the wrong time at the wrong time. And this is now, she gets a time she gets to get the right person at the right time. I mean, but we all like our access to go to way to some camp. And I get better. Yeah. You know, better looking, age well, grow up and then be returned to us. Just delivered on the doorstep. But I don't want them damaged. Don't come. But you know I'm out there and just be a little bit more experienced to know that. Okay. Because you know what? I'm a house flipper. What does that mean? I will renovate you. I will give them all the way together for another bitch to come live in and enjoy. That's what I do with my boyfriends and I hate that. I am that person that will put the time and put the effort into a man. And then somebody moves into your picture. And then some girls into my fixer upper. You can't act like that. And they get the value. Let them get to that. You got to hold it bathroom. Exactly. Hold on to your equity. Get it. That's your percent. But I don't think that you can be with a man based on potential. I'm sorry. No. No, but this is what I'm saying. This second chance, he's no longer potential. He is the fully realized Ben that she's that's sacred, and she's protecting. But that has come out and said he's gone around the world and yeah, yeah, yeah. He knows his mistakes that he's gone through. You know what I mean? So now he's better. He's a been improved. But let me ask you a question. Been a left me a question. Did you a question right here? It's gonna be a question. How mad are you at not mad? Actually, I don't think she's mad, but how upset do you feel some type of way of your Jennifer Garner and you.
Fat Mascara
"j.lo" Discussed on Fat Mascara
"Nose, like my pores look smaller because it took off it took out all those little oxidative bits. And it always feels quite traumatizing on the skin because they're really like pushing down on your nose. It feels like right. There's less roughness and pressure because it comes out much more easily. Yeah. And then as it's happening, the skin's getting infused with the serum at the same time. So you're not leaving feeling like, oh God, I just got peeled off and I'm all drying whatever you're actually more hydrated because of the serums. The best part, though, besides the sebaceous filaments and the little extractions, the lips, they do it on your lips. Oh, I love a lip treatment. Yeah, and think about if you have rough dry lips so they get exfoliated in a very gentle way, but at the same time a serum with hyaluronic acid is getting sort of infused into them and penetrating deeper because you've just exfoliated. My lips look so good. Like, you know what I'm saying? When someone wears nude lip gloss and you're like, how is it so smooth and perfect? Yeah. It was kind of like I stay away from these things now because I feel like my lips have been everywhere nude lip gloss since like J.Lo first wore it. I feel like you can see so much texture in my lips underneath it. It's not cute. Yeah, you want to cover it up. Yes, I do. So when I left, first of all, they're pinker 'cause you know, of course it's increasing circulation, but my lips look so full and smooth. So this is not a proprietary thing to this spa or to this correct practice. So how can other people get something like this? Well, you said it's not new new, but it's not new the new ish part this year is that the serums that are used with the device are now the skin medica serums. And if you guys aren't familiar with skin mega, I mean, I pretty much talk about their TNS serum, like every other episode it's like my favorite anti aging serum. So they're using all of those serums with the treatments. If you go to the diamond glow website, you can put in your zip code and find places for you that are using it. Sometimes though an esthetician will have tools like this, but they don't market it as you're getting the diamond glow facial just because they like the tool and that's how they happen to do their extractions. So it might be that the favorite spot that you have where you go or the fever esthetician uses this as well. I just thought it was cool that now all the serums that I like are like, it's all in one. It's quick, too. I like that, because I usually don't really. I don't even love microdermabrasion because I feel like it's quite traumatic. It's like, that's what I'm saying. Dragging sandpaper afterwards. Yes, and I also feel like you're dragging like a little vacuum across my. It's not relaxing. There's nothing nice about it. No, this was shining. Yeah. Yeah, and it was almost cooling in a way. And I don't know. I left there. Glowy is. Well, I'll try and do it. Okay. Okay. Yes. Nice. So check it out. I'll put a link to it in case you guys are interested. Okay, it's time for a raise a wand. The.
Daily Pop
"j.lo" Discussed on Daily Pop
"He tells WSJ magazine, their story is definitely beautiful, but he's learned not to share everything with the world. Ben says he's going to exercise a little restraint. But he did say that the way they reconnected is, quote, a great story, and you know, maybe one day I'll tell it. I'll write it all out. And then light it on fire. Do you think it's smart for him to say quiet about J.Lo? Yes, they learn from the first time around when it was so much too much. You know, now they're older. Now they understand the dynamics. You have growth. And they know what works for them, and they also know that talking about it too much wasn't issue the first time around. So let's fix that and they're doing it. And he looks dang it. He really did. It was like a confession session. So I'm not mad, but I'm glad he did leave J.Lo out of it. And sometimes when you lose love, and then you get it back, you realize how precious it is. And I think that's where he's coming from. And I really hope it's sincere, 'cause at first I was like, I was questioning it, but you were a relationship coach, right? You know, I think with them, this is the real thing. I think they've been so much. They've had their 20s. They've had their 30s, 40s. In your 50s, you are very clear about what you want your unapologetic for it, which is why he's saying, you know. By the way, look, in layman's terms we're talking. In lane ministers, if you go back to Samoa dick 17, it's like it was good. It was over. Go ahead. It's snacking. Ben.
Good For You
"j.lo" Discussed on Good For You
"This just feels perfect for. We don't even know what this is but it just works perfectly with his drink and here we are by. It's such a lake magical. Surreal perfectly you. Because a lot of times you see artists collaborate with stuff like this. And you're like oh. Yeah because it's hard to combine your brand with their new like you know if you're like agreeing to do this collaboration and kind of have to agree with what the brand wants like. You know it's like that and that always becomes a bit tricky to figure that out but this was just like it was so easy organic feels just so right. Yeah and ask you another question. I have to know jemmy songs that you haven't finished that like i know with comedy like they're certain jokes where you're like it's just it's not the right time or i just haven't cracked it or i just like you know that i'll revisit and then i'll try to do again and i'm like whether it's what's going on in. The world makes it trickier to tell the joke. Or just haven't do you have any songs really. It's just aren't finished. And i've just i don't know why. Yeah oh so many like there's a law i try. I'm kind of. I think a lot of people do that. They just you know you write a bunch and then you pick out whatever feels the best but then maybe you finish the ones for the next record or you know but there's a few that just can't crack that i'm like there's so much good stuff here but it just doesn't fully make it all the way i don't know i don't know why i just can't find you might be that i'm too locked in to one part that if i changed that and then of course would left but i love that part so much that i don't want to so there's like i'm always kind of like down to turn over every stone but sometimes you just have to like let it go and while and come back to it works..
Good For You
"j.lo" Discussed on Good For You
"How did this how well. How did this happen. How did you make do i remind us interest got out of that mindset of sweden where they try to hold you back and dim your light and you came here and you're just like i now know but you know how it started. It's actually pretty funny. So luke who is one of the owners of ken who is Amazing person we. He has also has an amazing dog which we take care of a lot He had this bike rental company for quite shalah. We rented bikes from it. And when he saw was me renting it he was like. Oh actually have something that she might like can i. Can i give her a little gift and my sister was like what do you what do you. What are you up. He's like gave us a six pack of the little cans. Yeah the small ones. And i drank them and i was like these are awesome awesome. Wait i don't need to. Because i was at the time not smoking weed so i was like. Oh it's really fucking with my voice. I just can't do it. And then i had this nose like same thing with edibles i if i i love them but if i have i'm in bed and a putting kokin all over my body and i'm meeting mac and cheese. I don't wanna talk to anybody. I put him over my body. Do the complete opposite. But i feel like that's the edibles to me is like i'm in my cocoon. Nobody touched me. And with these. I like i just had one. I feel great. I'm like knowing. I'm not like my head is in going in all of the different places. I'm just like i feel like a little bit drunk but didn't even have anything to drink like. This is great. So i just kept kind of asking him for more. Just dropped off canvas to me for for years and then eventually we were just kind of like you know like small talk a little bit and then I think it was actually. Charlie was like you should actually invest in this. Because they're doing really cool stuff like he was keeping track of them..
Good For You
"j.lo" Discussed on Good For You
"Jerry king. Okay yeah no yeah. That's not how you use a treadmill. Emily you're now i don't. We don't even know what that is. Oh look he step dancing. That's not how you use that but hydro we know how to use yet. There's a planetary hydro. No there's no way to mess it up. Can't miss it has no. You can't go wrong. There instructors there are other people in the same class as you that are giving you some held a good motivation. I need that time so you can't cheat right. You can't walk see to me. The hydro is the only thing that is in the gym. That i can use without getting distracted and going on texting on my phone and getting on like rival. One rep of something. I'll wander off and get on my phone and then thirty minutes has passed. And so yeah hydro. You're on it and you you're in it. You have to exercise. There's no way out no matter how much of a phone addict you are. No matter how you just cannot you have to finish it. And i love that there. Is you know you know. Roll eighty four to seven from toledo. Who's sixty nine years old. Whose beating me right. I read that you. I need to. I need to go grow. Roy old ladies me. Yeah bitch you're not. I like to compete with older people that are nailing it. I made my profile. Seventy just make who fishing or make it bit. You're like twenty two made. Everybody feel good. But i'm not there going to do that. I'm happy enough with myself to make other people happy. Yeah okay good..
Good For You
"j.lo" Discussed on Good For You
"If they don't they can't depend on me or know that. I'm okay like no that i take care of myself and i think that's like helped me when i get stuck in those kind of like dark sort of moments like i. I don't know if i've had that kind of sort of i've been able to pull myself out of a moment. I feel like i'm i'm addicted to it But it's but it's definitely with the help of like the people around me who are like. Hey what's up. What are you doing to yourself. And then i can like. Oh you're right. I'm here again. No get out. You know ray and but i think that what you did Obviously you're just being yourself and and and Organically writing and You know but you gave like terminology to these things. That i i think. Words are so important. I don't have to hold onto. A lear says the way that we describe ourselves in relationships. I'm heartbroken. i'm he's a bad guy. It's like no you're just high and you're going to withdrawals and he just is who he is. He's just bad for you. Yeah you know. Some people can do drink tequila five nights a week in the never pick it up again. Some people can do. Heroin wants some people. It's like you're just high and to be able to. Have you know women and men have be able to have those tools real to say like. Oh no no. You're not devastated. Your life's not over. You didn't just lose your soul mate. You're just you're all you're just selling from your addiction. Just it's kinda that simple and you know what i think that. I know that i've what i do. Purposefully is that. I've that i rarely go. You did this to me. i'm mainly singing about. I feel this because of what happened to us. I'm rarely blaming the other person for my sadness before for my heartbreaker for my sort of stuck destructiveness. That i'm in. I'm just mainly.
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"j.lo" Discussed on Good For You
"I'm such a bad person. I made a mistake sometimes. Relations are just addictive. Yeah the drama. The the the wondering chang the worrying it recreates childhood circumstances are like switches on some primal. You know You know switch. That releases adrenalin and adrenaline turns into dopamine. And like we don't have to be like i'm in these fucked up things and also you could just be addicted just happens and yeah i think i think that's like the. It's so easy to give logical reasonable advice about what so much do in a relationship that they can't get out of or who's acting you know acting away that's not gonna you know health relationship or whatever but when like love is in logical. You can't even how much you're trying to someone you just. It's not you're not going to act the way that you even you know that you should because it's just not how you feeling so it takes practice and like you know like you talking to yourself and like talking to your friends talking to therapists that like really kind of get your mind out of that downward spiral we end up in the same behavior every time and but also that it's like sometimes it's just like you just end up there and it's okay you can get out of it. You just have to try. They didn't do anything wrong. Knowing that someone else might be able to have a relationship with them. That's not addict. Yeah fine but i think the combination of you to that is. That's it that's all it is. It's like some people can just do cocaine once a month. Yeah like they can do cocaine like a gentleman like good for you. People just can't like there's certain guys where it's like. If i see you once i will ruin everything i worked so hard for and we will both sort of self destruct in a hotel room and hermosa beach and it does everything. I've worked so hard for..
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"j.lo" Discussed on Good For You
"Obviously you know. But i think that also it's important to be your own people even if you love to be together to like not be nervous about being doing things separately that also is a huge And that i think it's way more common in sweden than here like for example a small thing but like when you go to weddings big birthday parties or something in sweden and the do like like plan seating. You never sit with your date or your personal income with so you just like everyone spread out. Let's make our friends cheat on each other. I mean you don't assume that that's going to happen. You don't think of men and women being friends as like they're gonna cheat together. Can we tell you dated a couple english guys. It is europe in general. Guys just have friends that are all girls and you're like yeah are you doing like in. My brain is like well. You have to be having sex with them and and it's my sexism because they're like why do you think would never thought that ever so many more guy friends than you must be sleeping with. You're implying that she's nothing but his logic you're the access i think it's interesting and cool and i'm like in basel hot to you can't be friends with the hawker. Having all the time or wanna have sex like it doesn't compute to me that a guy would wanna have a platonic relationship with a beautiful woman. Well i think that's and that's i think maybe more common here but i would never had that thought. Of course you intended. Everyone's gordon the food. But i never have that like like i. Charlie has a lot of girlfriends and like i'm really close friends with them now too. So it's just an same with my my. My male friends are just all. Yeah i think. I think he i mean he's from new zealand. Maybe it's similar over there too but we both were kind of talking with our american friends. They're like i think it's more rare here in general that that's like it's is less common to be kind of a mixed group of friends or we are in a couple at least you kind of sort of swing swing or each other with one another one person more like you kind of lose touch with your friends from ops from different j. gender. I think that's changing though with like you know over like the younger nation thing. It's way more just a mix of everyone's friends with everybody. That's fascinating to me. Because i i've been reluctant to bring this up but i think i'm taking a page out of your book and i'm gonna be fearless about what i've been thinking. Which is i think about. How brilliantly you convey and create this catharsis around our deepest. Carnal desires taking away the judgment. It doesn't matter like if what chris think would you. What what anything. Socially constructed as. I feel jealous. I feel heartbroken. I'm addicted this person. Even though they're bad for me. Like i want to do all these other things to sell sued. All there's no judgment on it right but as asking her friend In terms of being married. Do you ever worry about you know. I don't. i used to worry about the other person. I don't trust you. you're gonna cheat on me. Because that was my low self worth now is me i. I had low self-esteem in terms of the person. I picked the person. I thought i deserved and then myself. Why would anyone want to be faithful me. i'm garbage. I think now is if you cheat on me. God speed like..
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"j.lo" Discussed on Good For You
"Look like leonard starts to and then it starts to get less risky and less brave murder from your vision and further revision because more people get involved in fear sets in whatever and then feedback sets in. yeah Human resources sets in my case. What how do you maintain the integrity of a because it just does not look compromised on any moment in those shorts or your videos. No i i think probably because i end up paying for the myself performance and you guys are gonna watch. That's that day money. So i can masturbate in front of. Yeah that'd be good count. Maybe some pizza pizza watch of sexual and that'd be fine. We won't charge. You honestly have been the thing. And but i also will give credit to my label for kind of casino. They could have easily been like. We're not putting this out. There's not coming out when you sign to a label. That's kind of the the what you're giving up. It's like we're now collaborating on my i thing you know. And but they've always been really cool then like we don't really get this but you can do it. We just won't find out all of it and they did like we'll watch it over and over and over but we will never work with exactly what i feel like they. They did like Everything they could as major label to support something like that. You know because it's pretty out there. It's pretty dark. It's very sexual like it's it's it's hard i think also here like in the states where there's a lot of judgment on that a lot of the time Especially mixing sexual moments. That aren't maybe necessarily very hot. Do you know what i mean. Yeah i kind of liked doing someone it's like. You expect me to be acting sexy. But instead i'm just doing sexual things and then i know that like bothers a lot of men lot. I'm like what is you have to do like the like. It's not even har-. Mike not about me being hot for you in this moment about like a rawness and like me and my own. It is hot which why chelsea any you not like. Not pat came jn sad but there is such a Reminds me actually This is the highest compliment. I can give anyone is gaspard noise movie irreversible which i talk about a lot yes on. This really does change the way. You're you see the world. I mean it was like the most Mundane moments it's a. It's a movie that is told him reverse with. I believe only three takes with monica baluchi. And vincent cassel and it's known for its it's been called unwatchable..
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"j.lo" Discussed on Good For You
"I thought that was more. Just how. I'm wired and i dealt with it by my mom's therapists like we would talk law like i. My family like my dad is like you know businessman but super emotional well. Lackey cries all the time for happiness and sadness and like me and my brother talk so much we all like we all get along really well and there were. There was years when we we weren't just because we have moments like your understand me. I'm trying to be my own person. Like mainly i did that. My dad didn't say that. But i feel like i was. I always felt loved and like all the kind of chaos that i sort of that was just like me creating chaos as like an annoying teenager. I didn't like it wasn't and it was never would always balance at the edge right. I never really went over the edge. And so i feel like i i could still have all these like extreme emotions and do stupid things and be like you know be messy which is not a good word for it but like i still do all that and still have had an amazing family like i just don't have to be related and understand this sort of pressure that people f- that artists feels sometimes to be like well. You need to have a reason to be the way you are and you're not like you're not okay or whatever the the sort of idea is if you do like comedians. Comedians are crazy. like no we. We just advertise are thought what everybody else thinks. Yes you know what's crazier sitting around thinking and making no money on it and not tell anyone that to me is crazy that you're just living with these feelings and not alcohol where it's like so to me. I think the same thing you can do is say exactly. Just let it out. But i i also wonder i feel like also now that we live..
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The Mannequin Heist
"Karn-fm found this tweet. Recently i was like we. We have to tell the people about this. The tweet was marveling at this company in the uk called on with a k. I'll let you guess where the k- is they are a reseller of mannequins similar store displays and one of the ways they make money is by offering customers a drive through heist experience. I did not make up that phrase it is capital drive capital through capitol heist. That is what they call it. It is designed for people who are starting a business on a budget or have a creative project in mind and you basically get to pick off this giant pile of random parts that they call dollywood. It costs fifty british pounds. You get fifteen minutes. And i'm gonna read you some of the rules from the long list because the rules are very good. Please do please do. I've all the important ones about like. Keep your distance. You know all that these are the fun ones. Fill up your car boot to an wait. What the fuck shrunk so your car boot up to an estate car boot size without seats down okay. So no make an extra space is what they're saying where he's bring bin liners as it has been raining and body parts do their hollow. Nature often contain water. We do not want them to think in your car. You can bring a cordless drill to let water out no climbing the mountain. You must take bits and easy reach. Pick bits easily and carefully. You must not cause an avalanche a bit. They're big the bets. The bets pick the bits as you come round the road to park. Keep to the left as far as you can. In the event that mannequins fall down you are advised to wear gloves head protection. No toilets refreshments onsite heist. Remember we often get asked about hands. You are welcome to hands. But there is a limited five pairs per customer along with other parts under no circumstances whatsoever. Will you be able to fill your car boot with hands. Please don't ask.
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Kylie Jenner Responds To GoFundMe Criticism
"Let's talk about this whole kylie jenner go fund me situation. Yeah it would love to okay so for anybody who is unaware. What's going on samuel route. A who is a makeup artist in la. He's most probably known for his handle at makeup. By samuel and in terms of the car dashing community. I personally know him because he does dasa's make lot. He was in this terrible accident this last weekend and he's very close friends. Reo who's kylie's makeup artist and so kylie had posted a photo him with the caption on her story. Watch over you protect you. Make up by samuel. Everyone take a moment to say a prayer for sam who got into an accident this past weekend and swipe up to visit his family's go fund me and when you swipe up the goal for the medical bills with sixty thousand dollars so immediately twitter was kinda sent into a frenzy of people saying you know why kylie jenner. Who's the billionaire asking for her fans and followers to help support this goal of sixty thousand dollars. That is basically packaged share. I will say from what i saw on twitter. A lot of people thought that this was her direct makeup artist and friend arielle which it's not as more acquaintance but anyway that was the initial reaction. I'm sure you all saw that a little bit after that. Tmz came out with an article. That says quote. We're told there's a misconception at sixty k. figure everyone's quoting the original target amount for this go fund me when it first launched with ten thousand dollars and our sources say kylie's five thousand dollar donation. Put it over the top as it was already six thousand dollars at the time since then. The targeted has ballooned likely because of the attention kylie brought it by posting the link on her instagram story. Then i mean just within the last hour kylie made a story and said i feel. It's important for me to clear up this false narrative that ask fans for money and i'm not paying for a makeup artist medical bills. Sam isn't my makeup artist. Unfortunately we don't have a personal relationship anymore. But i've worked with him a few years ago and think he's the sweetest. I saw my current makeup artisan friend arielle. Posted about sam's accident families go fund me and i called immediately to see what happened to sam after learning in more detail about the accident and can tell me visit his go fund me which is set a ten thousand dollars.
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Latina stars JLo and Shakira say Super Bowl halftime performance will be 'message of unity'
"Let's talk half time because that's what a lot of folks watch right so your Jennifer Lopez and Shakira you know how long they're going to perform I don't twelve minutes that's what they say our halftime extravaganza the first time two Latino stars are on stage together to global superstars performing together right and they want this to make they wanted to be an announcement on just about their culture but for women as well well and I'll tell you this Shakira is forty two years old Jennifer Lopez is fifty so I mean you have you know two women right now which is middle age that are performing at the Superbowl so it's not this you know like culture of just youth musicians and you have to establish older women performing is gonna be fantastic because both of them are amazing so Zack you you've pulled us some secure secura is that right I did okay so