35 Burst results for "J Buchanan"

Mike Pompeo: Conservative Values Deliver the Best for Every American

ToddCast Podcast with Todd Starnes

01:15 min | 2 weeks ago

Mike Pompeo: Conservative Values Deliver the Best for Every American

"And I think as a party, the Republican Party has some work to do. We've got to be that big tent party, I think, and we have to hold on to the fundamentals, but maybe agree to disagree on some of this stuff. Oh my gosh. We're always going to look even today. We see the divides in our party about how to prosecute the war in Europe. How to assist the Ukrainian. So we've always had that strand. The pap Buchanan Ron Paul, Rand Paul strand of our party, those are valid discussions we ought to thrash it all out. But in the end, I pray that we'll all come together because I do believe that the conservative view that I have held since I was a teenager delivers the best outcomes for every American. Heartland values. Yeah, heartland values and values that are founders. And by the way, while they thought they didn't fight about the central ideas of protection of basic property rights, human dignity, the capacity of the contract opportunity for everyone based on merit and equality, not on some idea of equity or division by group. Those were ideas that were consensus ideas, and I think the next set of leaders, whether they be mayors or county commissioners, needs to just drive those. And when they do, I think we'll have successful elections to. All right,

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Lord Conrad Black Talks Conservatives' Views of Russia

America First with Sebastian Gorka Podcast

01:38 min | 3 weeks ago

Lord Conrad Black Talks Conservatives' Views of Russia

"To be an inability of some very influential voices on the right to understand why Russia's you use the phrase snuffing out Ukrainian independence is a bad thing. Is this just a neo Buchanan knight neo isolationism that's just knee jerk or do you see something darker in this? Because for me, the idea that anyone who calls themselves any kind of conservative doesn't understand why Russia invading other countries is a bad thing, kind of boggles the mind. I find that astounding. And I don't know what the basis of it is just referred earlier in general. I'm not going to name any names here. But Friends of mine who went in most respects I agree with politically and have for years when we just part company in this issue. And just taking those cases as illustrative. I think part of the reason is they're fed up with the extravagance and stupidity of The Pentagon for all the stupefying amounts of money president Trump conferred on The Pentagon to bring American defense right up to scratch. They didn't address vulnerabilities in Taiwan. We don't have an adequate defense system for the Nimitz class carriers, which are gigantic ships. And we are behind the Russians in Chinese and hypersonic missiles. And when confronted with this, they'd be more ironic in my opinion. It should have been court martialed years ago, chief of the chairman of the joint chiefs of staff, general milley, said it's a Sputnik moment.

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A President's Day for All Seasons

Dennis Prager Podcasts

01:25 min | Last month

A President's Day for All Seasons

"I'll tell you, in my opinion, the movement away from Washington's birthday and Lincoln's birthday. Which everyone of my generation and the next new pie heart February 22 and February 12, respectively Washington Lincoln. And it was the movement away from that to the amorphous pablum known as president's day, which every young person thinks it honors all presidents. So you should just know you're honoring James Buchanan and if you are a liberal, your honoring Donald Trump, and if you're conservative, you're honoring Barack Obama. Not to mention the current president. Who I refer to in hushed tones. Or as they say in opera, sut the. Movement away from Lincoln's birthday in Washington's birthday. Is the perfect microcosm of what has happened to our country. The lack of patriotism that has been fostered in succeeding generations after World War II,

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David Azerrad Describes His Influences of Manhood

America First with Sebastian Gorka Podcast

01:42 min | Last month

David Azerrad Describes His Influences of Manhood

"Or what have been the greatest influences on you in your understanding of manhood. We've had literary figures. We've had the guy who took me through basic training in the seals. For you, where did that crystallization come to you from? So I'd say there's the personal and the theoretical. The personal, not the sound kitschy. I would say is my father. Grew up very poor in Morocco as a second class Jewish citizen. His father died when he was young, leaving my grandmother alone with 11 kids, and he's one of the most honest, hardworking dutiful men I know, never complained, raised the family well, and I saw him be generous with his friends, his family members, just an honest, good, real man. And we never had American TV moments where he would sit me down and say, you know, David, I want to give you a lesson. He didn't teach me by talking. He taught me by doing. Yeah. That was one. The other one I would have to say is one of my intellectual heroes. Probably my favorite living American regrettably a man I've never had the pleasure of meeting as Pat Buchanan. Oh. And the manliness I learned from him was of calling out lie, calling out the lies of the regime. Boldly and defiantly speaking the truth. He's not the only one, you know, Solzhenitsyn and Russia did that very well, live not by lies. I think roger named the title is last book after a Solzhenitsyn line. But I discovered Buchanan late in life and was just amazed by the man's courage

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John Zmirack on the William F. Buckley-Pat Buchanan Relationship

The Eric Metaxas Show

01:52 min | Last month

John Zmirack on the William F. Buckley-Pat Buchanan Relationship

"Know what William F. Buckley thought of Buchanan because I loved Buckley, but I just wonder, were they friendly and maybe disagreed on some things or did Buckley have disdain for Pat Buchanan? They were friendly for a while and then it was sort of a crossroads in the 90s where Buckley basically had to decide is natural review going to continue to be a conservative magazine. I will be morph it into a neoconservative magazine. And for a while, when he retired, he appointed John O'sullivan to be the editor, and it was an authentically conservative magazine. For various reasons, it sort of murky behind the scenes, Buckley decided to fire Gino Sullivan and replace him with rich flowery, and the magazine became a neoconservative rag. To the point where I go entire months without remembering that national review even still exists. And I don't know anyone who reads it. I don't know anyone who takes it seriously. I never see the article shared anywhere. It seems to have as much interest as the daily worker has. But you're kind of you're skipping ahead because I don't know that we want to conflate the never Trump magazine of the latter latter years with what it was then. No, this is what it was turning into. But decided the magazine is going to go in a neoconservative direction. And he got rid of the more conservative traditional conservative people and he brought on people like Jonah Goldberg and David frum who would move it in that direction. And

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 Florida congressman Steube injured in accident at home

AP News Radio

00:43 sec | 2 months ago

Florida congressman Steube injured in accident at home

"A Florida congressman has been injured in an accident. The office of congressman greggs dooby released a statement on Twitter, saying he was involved in an accident on his property and sustained several injuries. The third term Republican represents Sarasota and Charlotte counties and part of Lee county in southwest Florida, the statement asked for prayers for the congressman and his family, media platform Florida politics reported that was doing routine home maintenance and fell from his roof about 25 feet off the ground. The outlet reported stube was transported to a hospital Wednesday afternoon. Fellow members of Congress from Florida, including vern Buchanan and Byron donalds, offered prayers for a speedy recovery, Scooby was recently selected to serve on the House ways and means committee. I'm Jennifer

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Florida Rep. Greg Steube Hospitalized After Falling Off His Roof

Mark Levin

01:57 min | 2 months ago

Florida Rep. Greg Steube Hospitalized After Falling Off His Roof

"I want to read this to you from the New York Post Florida representative Greg steube I'm told is a very nice man and a very solid conservative Hospitalized after falling off his roof congressman Greg stubby was hospitalized after he fell off the roof of his Florida home according to report the incident was first reported By Florida politics journalist Peter schrock who said stew B was found outside his Sarasota home by a part time aid of his colleague representative Verne Buchanan The aid made the discovery while working his second job as an Amazon delivery driver It's unclear what condition stew be is in at this time The New York Post has reached out to his congressional office for comment Jeez I hope he's okay But I don't like the way this article sounds so far He was found That he was found First elected to Congress in 2018 stubby was sworn in earlier this month to service third term in the lower chamber Representing Florida's 17th congressional district he previously served for two years in the Florida Senate and 6 years in the Florida House Congressman Gregg stubby's aide found him after he fell off the roof of his home Before launching his political career to be served in the armed forces as an airborne infantry officer And a jag corps officer from 2004 to 2008 and as the chief of detainee operations for multinational division north in Iraq with the 25th infantry division from 2006 to 2007 this guy's a hero

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Razorfist and Sebastian Discuss MAGA Movement Influencers

America First with Sebastian Gorka Podcast

01:50 min | 3 months ago

Razorfist and Sebastian Discuss MAGA Movement Influencers

"Back with razor fest. Here's the man behind the era holic channel on YouTube. Follow him his political analyses are really, you've got to be going to have a tough stomach. You've got to be maned of stern stuff for some of the language. He uses and the speed. He's like, he's like a masculine version of that little guy. What's his name Shapiro? He's fast. He's as fast as Shapiro, but he's actually got some testosterone. Sorry, Ben. And then analysis is just good. It is just on the money. Oh, you were talking about how very important point you made again and again and again. That America first and maga is not for all the left would wish it to be a cult of personality. It's actually a global figure with a global brand picking up the leftover debris of the Tea Party, the Buchanan movement, a goat, the original gold water, and then you mention somebody else. Who else would you put into that category? I think Herman Cain seized some of that in 2012. I really do, and I know, what are you going to understand? Trump was kind of a fan of Herman Cain as well. Herman Cain was well on track to being the FrontRunner in 2012. And then they threw a bunch of those astroturfed allegations the same kind that they tried to fire Trump's way. And but he stood and fought. He got on his hind legs and he fought. I think Herman Cain, by the way, was inclined to fight those, but he was thinking more of his family and his wife at the time. Right. As I understand it. And he was like, okay, my family doesn't need this nonsense. And so he ended his campaign. But contrary to what people think he did actually oppose and ultimately disprove those allegations years later.

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Did Dinesh Help Kill Reaganism Before Trump Did?

The Dinesh D'Souza Podcast

01:54 min | 7 months ago

Did Dinesh Help Kill Reaganism Before Trump Did?

"There's a very interesting article in Politico called Trump didn't kill reaganism these guys did. And I start reading the article and I'm who are these guys who supposedly killed reaganism before Trump. It turns out that it's Rush Limbaugh and Pat Buchanan and Newt Gingrich and well me. We are apparently the notorious gang that killed off reaganism even before Trump. The article is an interview with a professor, a woman named Nicole hammer. Nicole hammer is a an academic who studies the right, the conservative side of the aisle. The Republicans. And she has an upcoming book called partisans, the conservative revolutionaries who remade American politics in the 1990s. I met evidently one of these. And I told W I go, let's see if we can get nickel hammer to come on the podcast. It'd be fun to actually talk directly about these things because she's writing about a period that I of course remember well and was part of. Now, nickel hammer's theory in the book. And I'm only gleaning it from her interview, but it's a pretty in depth interview with political. Is that it's wrong to think of Trump as having created a new Republican Party. What she's really arguing is that the new Republican Party created Trump. There was a new Republican Party that was forged in the late 1990s and the early 2000s, and that's the movement that brought Trump to the forefront. So Trump articulated the views of this new movement, but the new movement was created by people like former House speaker gingrich and Buchanan.

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No deaths in Virginia flooding that washed out homes, roads

AP News Radio

00:38 sec | 8 months ago

No deaths in Virginia flooding that washed out homes, roads

"No deaths from flooding in southwest Virginia Authorities say they have located all 44 people who had been unaccounted for following rains that flooded or remote corner of southwest Virginia The Rain tour homes from their foundations and left people scrambling to find loved ones in areas where phone service was knocked out First responders in Buchanan county began receiving reports of rising water and damage Tuesday night After a torrential rain storm swamped the area Residents say they were stunned by the dramatic flooding which caused mudslides that blocked roads and knocked out power I'm Mike

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Alan Dershowitz: We Can Make Legislative Solutions to Elections

Mark Levin

01:27 min | 9 months ago

Alan Dershowitz: We Can Make Legislative Solutions to Elections

"Anything And we don't see any of these comparisons being made between one party and the other Jamie you're asking who served in this committee tried to stop the election of president Trump I try to stop the election of president Bush I brought a lawsuit on behalf of the voters of Palm Beach county because they because of the butterfly ballot they voted for Pat Buchanan These were Jewish voters who go to a Patrick Harris about the least favorite candidate among Jews because they screwed up on the ballot So I brought lawsuits Am I committing crimes The American legal system permission to this And there isn't a word in this legislative hearing about what to do in the future We should set up an election commission the way Israel has an election commission in England some other countries have election commissions If you have a complaint you go to the commission the commission is nonpolitical with consistent university presidents ministers scientists people who have no party affiliation and they decide whether the election is fair We can make legislative solutions to this but nobody cares about the future People only care about pointing fingers Yeah the future They want to prevent the election of Trump That's the future But they don't want to change the law They don't want to improve the law They don't want to legislate some of these problems away All they want to do is expose and finger point It's an abusive legislative process It's an abuse of the constitution It's an abusive or system of checks and balances

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Welcome to the Final Phase, Victory Is in Our Sights!

The Charlie Kirk Show

02:45 min | 10 months ago

Welcome to the Final Phase, Victory Is in Our Sights!

"Welcome to the final phase. You are now in the final phase that will be the most difficult chapter, but victory is in our sights. This has been a multi generational issue of conservatives versus the left. And we are now finally entering the final phase and this will be the most difficult of all the phases. But what comes after this is us winning and them losing. So the left for many years, quietly, and methodically, infiltrated our institutions. We know this. They took over and captured our core industries and our culture shaping organizations. They were unbelievably successful as we as conservatives basically did nothing through the 70s and through the 80s and through the 90s. Conservatives thought that they were a fringe academic movement that, you know, that's kind of Bill layers and bernardine Dorne, but they're never actually going to get real power. For over 40 years, the left was able to infiltrate every single corner capture every place that was able to make decisions that mattered. First, of course, academia then media parts of corporate life, the activist base, the governments, the civil service. And we realized that this is one of the reasons why our country became less free when we were signing bad trade deals why our immigration policy was so backwards. Why we were seeing our liberties and our freedoms continually erode as we were engaging in a mass capitulation and almost every single issue to the left. Now mind you, all of this was happening and conservatives kind of shrugged it off. In the 70s, 80s and 90s and early 2000s, the left was getting away with highway robbery. And most conservatives thought it was no big deal. In fact, anyone that dared mention it was called a conspiracy theorist like Pat Buchanan in the early 1990s. I go, what do you mean the left is taking over things? The stock market is going up. Real estate prices are fine. Who cares? America's strong and always will be. In fact, on the center right, there was almost no oxygen in the room to talk about the Marxist infiltration in our schools. People kind of scoffed at it and they didn't take it seriously. But then phase two began. Slowly, all of a sudden, on the center right in America, there was a realization on how the enemy had penetrated every single vertical of society.

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Dinesh Reflects on His Time as an Intern for Ronald Reagan

The Dinesh D'Souza Podcast

01:53 min | 10 months ago

Dinesh Reflects on His Time as an Intern for Ronald Reagan

"It's time for our next question. Listen. Hey mister de Souza, my question is, what was it like being an intern for Reagan? And what special memories do you have of him? So in the Reagan White House, I was actually very lucky to at a young age coming as a domestic policy analyst. So I wasn't really an intern and I only say this because of course interns have no access to the president. You have to be on staff and you have to be at least at the middle level. I wasn't at the top level. And so my direct interactions with Reagan were modest. Only a few times did I get to stand in the back of the room along with other staffers. We had our notepads in those days. And the senior staff was right around the table. People like Pat Buchanan or Ed meese, and later the chief of staff was Howard baker. And the senior staff would interact with Reagan, but the rest of us got to stand in the back of the room and observe and take notes and then afterward offer comment to our own teams. In my case, the domestic policy team. So it was a thrill for me because I was in my mid 20s. I think I was I joined the Reagan White House in 1987. So this was in the latter part, the second term of Reagan, of course, during the first time oregano and I was in college. But and I had this big fallacious office in the old executive office building. I mean, an absolutely giant office with a bar and but the real power, by the way, is not in the old executive office building. It's in the west wing, where the office is a much smaller, but you're literally with an earshot of the president. So you have more direct access to him that

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David Gergen on Running the Nixon Speech Writing Team

The Hugh Hewitt Show: Highly Concentrated

00:47 sec | 11 months ago

David Gergen on Running the Nixon Speech Writing Team

"You know, when you came back, when you came back in the speech writing process when I was a young lawyer, it was staffed around. I remember the chief justice of the United States at that time in associate council, arguing with Peggy noonan. That was a murderous row of speechwriters over which we had Bill sapphire and Ray Price and Pat Buchanan. And Nixon. Yeah, and then John McLaughlin came in for a lead in the game with Nixon, but he was around for a while. Ben Stein. It was a terrific group. It was about 50 people. If you look at speechwriting and their sports staff and then the research staff and then we also headed the letters and so correspondent section. So it was about 50 people there. And I ran that for a while.

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"j buchanan" Discussed on The Paul Finebaum Show

The Paul Finebaum Show

05:46 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on The Paul Finebaum Show

"Yeah, I think that's totally fine to do that. But at some time, this ridiculousness has got to stop. You know, and TV show jackass is not one of my favorite things. So that's what I've got to say. And listen, I didn't even know I was in your bracket one day when I called you. And I don't care if I didn't even get a vote. I was just glad to be at the dance baby, and I thank you. Love your mind. Cheerleader thank you. Thank you very much for sharing your opinion and Chris Rock thank you too for being on the other side. By the way, I don't much care what happened there. It is showbiz. It is but I was just trying to. But the only thing I just wanted to make sure that cheerleader had the whole story. Two days later, we are talking about the Oscars here. Jim is up next. I'm shocked to share with you. I thought she had some class, but I can't believe she said that, you know, I've said a lot of things today. Everybody wants to hate me. I don't get to lie about me all the time. What I can't work, I'm not worried about nothing. But I'll tell you what, cheerleader, but a condon or guy, a man right there, that's unbelievable. And the guy was about two times bigger than the little guy. What's his name, Paul the guy? I can't remember the guy's name. Will Smith? Chris Rock was a guy he hit. Yeah, rock. And now they're both apologizing to each other, which proves that only worried about just for the record. I don't think crystal rock has said a word since Sunday Night. No, I saw a post today on Twitter where he apologized. He apologized for the whole family. Oh, so he did. Okay, well, I have not. I saw it this morning. Jim, you are correct. I miss Chris Rock's apology for whatever. By the way, that was kind of late, too. Well, why would he apologize? That's why he would apologize because he did not realize that she had an issue. Not even though she was sick and she was sick he was out of line, but I ain't no good lady. You know what, Jim, I want all the people that have made fun of my hair to apologize now. Yeah, but Paul, we know you're sick. People don't. You're not sick, Paul, but I lost my mother. Jada Pinkett Smith was sick. Is it very sick? Who's that? Jana Pickett? Where she has Appalachian? It's a disorder that is. But it does cause hair loss. But for cheerleaders, thank you, it's okay for the walk up there and knock hell out of the guy and could have broke his mouth to the broke. Hey, that'd be lawsuits flying in my end of it. What about you? Seriously. Well, I don't know. I've been attacked before in public. Oh, physically attacked like that? Mark, Godfrey's wife, physically attacked me. She didn't hit you in the mouth like that. She got this shot was not the hell out of rock, you know, he did knock out of it. I don't know what Chris Rock has done. I really don't care, but because I just haven't seen the apology, but that doesn't mean have you seen it. But yeah, you were talking like, I am about cheerleader condoning the guy hit the twist. You can not condone somebody assaulting somebody like that. No, absolutely. When you know when you're, if you're part of that Hollywood crowd, you just have to accept you are going to be made fun of. It doesn't matter whether you're. The country. Tell me this, Paul. This is where the country is screwed. Why was he not arrested on the spot? Well, to be arrested, Jim, in this case, as best. He had to swear out a warrant. Otherwise, there was no call. And Chris said this morning, he said, I will not charge him. For that question. Why didn't the people that run this organization who are a bunch of frauds anyway? Exactly. Do something about it at the time. Well, you know what, Paul, I would watch that show if you are paid me to watch it. How about you and all the yellow hosting that show? Jim, I think we would be better than any host in history. We'd be better than anybody. Okay, who wouldn't we wouldn't be better in? Billy Crystal is the best I've ever seen. Billy Crystal is very good. I agree. I thought Steve Martin was pretty good too. All right. Steve Martin. He wasn't he's not in the same league with Billy Christmas. They stand alone Oscar host. He's done it a few times. Absolutely. Absolutely. Do you have a tuxedo? Because you have to have a tuxedo to host the Oscars. Should we get up a collection and help Jim Reno tuxedo? Has anyone ever got what are they? What's the name of that place that does tuxedo rental? Like men's warehouse? Has anyone ever gotten the men's warehouse and said, yeah, I'm ready. I need to write a text here. It won't be back till next week. We need it back. Well, I'm hosting the Oscars. We are officially out of time for this program. We appreciate all of you for being a part of it. Some really interesting guests today will see you right here tomorrow..

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"j buchanan" Discussed on The Paul Finebaum Show

The Paul Finebaum Show

06:08 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on The Paul Finebaum Show

"We're back to the calls and Jeff is up next in Cincinnati. Hey, Jeff. Hi. Paul, thanks for taking my call. I've been trying to get in for quite some time. Wonderful. Yeah, this is a very small world, and I'm just going to give you a little story. I have a good friend named Bill lumpkin. I'm sure you know, I think you attended his father's funeral. And yeah, he is a longtime family friend. We take many a family vacation down in actually Daytona Beach, Florida. But funny story, the first time I ever met him, he's actually a friend of my wife. The first time I ever met him was that the 2014 sugar bowl, as you probably know, Cincinnati. I want to hire a state graduate alumni and just to really big fan. And we met up with Bill down in New Orleans. He had this elephant sort of necklace. My wife put it on. And ever since then, of course, based on the result of the games and so Ohio State one, that's been the long-standing joke that she actually jinxed the necklace because no one had ever touched that necklace until her and of course been lost. And even to this day, bill will not let her touch that he will not let her come close to that necklace whatsoever. It's quite funny. I know you and Bill go way back and I think his dad got you started. Is that not? Yeah. Bill's father Bill Duncan was my boss. My first newspaper job in Alabama. And not only a boss, we became extremely close friends and remained that way until he passed away last April. Yeah. So I just wanted to call in, say hi and just tell that little kind of anecdotal story since I think last week you had a lot of stories going on in people from there. Sure. So I'm glad you did. From your past. It's part of my life that was extremely important and he was as important as anyone could have been not only as a boss for a mentor and a friend and we had at the funeral last summer. We all remembered him. You get a bunch of old sports writers back together again. None of whom are still in the business, of course. It's quite a reunion. Exactly. And I just wanted to say one more thing. You guys were in Lexington for your SEC show. One of your shows on Friday, I have a son that's a freshman down there. And he had a sign was kind of made something about you. And you got your picture taken with him too, so that was kind of neat. So it is a very small world. And he sent me that picture. And I was like, oh my gosh, look at that. You got to fix it with him. So that's all I wanted. Well, thank you. Stay in touch and comments that I will. I hope see Bill soon. I'll be in Alabama and thank you very much for calling. I appreciate the story. Speaking of Alabama, the queen of Birmingham is up next, cheerleader. Oh, I love that title. I just love that title, Paul, and before you may hit the buzzer and make me go off the air, but. Okay. I do want to win. I do want to win. And I'm crazy about coach K and but about the Oscars, the other night that I do not want, but I heard what happened at the Oscars, and I know you heard what happened at the officers. Why I did watch the beginning of it and I found it so unwatchable that I turned this off. I made a mistake doing that. Well, but you did see what happened. Oh, yeah. I think most of the free world and solar systems have seen it. Well I am so glad I'm so glad that that guy the husband got up out of the audience and went up there and cold caught that fell. You are. You know, we're not supposed to, we're not supposed to make fun of people and especially those that have an illness that they can't help. And by golly, whoever wrote that in the script and that guy didn't have enough sense to not say it, you know. Cheerleader, I agree. Anyone with a malady or a disorder should not be made fun of. Sure. Do you think that had an offense could have just not even said it? Well, you know? It's like a headache. I don't want to turn this into nursery school, but you do understand the role of the host of the Oscars is to essentially make fun of the people in the audience. Well, I'm sorry, that's another reason not to watch it. Okay, well, that's fine. You don't have to. I'm just trying to explain to you that's what comedians. They make fun of people and you also so you think it's okay. Surely you think it's okay for somebody to get out of their chair and to assault somebody else. And then threaten them verbally afterwards. That's okay. Well, I don't know about afterwards. Well, I think you need to understand I think you need to watch the entire film of what mister Smith said twice. I can't hear him apologize. That would be a full throated apology, but that's okay. I don't mean to chastise you, but you only have part of the story here, okay? Okay, well, that's fine with the part that I've got. I did not like a bit. Okay. And listen. Shirley, let me ask you one other question here. Would it have made more sense? To bite your tongue, sit there, and then after you win the Oscar, the biggest moment of your entire career to walk up to the podium and then defend your wife's honor verbally making the other guy look smaller than a thimble. Would that have made more sense? And then mentioning mentioning the disease, you think, you think the place would have stood up and shared then, of course, they stood up anyway. They didn't care. They're Hollywood..

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"j buchanan" Discussed on Ironsharpener

Ironsharpener

05:56 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Ironsharpener

"So the food tube has two areas of pressure, one by your throat, which keeps what you eat from going into your lungs, called the upper social sphincter, and the one of the lower end of the esophagus while your diaphragm for the lower social structure and the function of that is presumed to be to keep the things in your stomach from going back up into your esophagus and there are stressful structures in both these areas that are designed to do what they're supposed to do, which is to protect you. So we're going to discuss briefly the lowest sphincter, which is the area of pressure, the lower end of the food tube. It keeps things from the stomach from going back up into the fluid treatment. And as many of you would have experienced and you will do so as you get older, there's the good old term heartburn. Which of course has many definitions, but primarily is felt as we're perceived as a burning sensation. In the chest and throat. And with time we've come to realize that heartburn is a major concern in people, particularly as they get older. And the understanding of what causes heartburn has evolved over time. The current concepts of heartburn is that the strength derivatives area of pressure at the lower end of the food tube. It's not a valve. It acts as a valve, it's really an area of increased pressure. It doesn't seem to work properly in certain people. There are factors that play a role. Genetics play a role if there's a history of heartbreak, your family increased risk of that. Obesity if you're overweight, that might play a role. In addition to that, how you sleep, we know that if you lie in the right side of bed, that may increase the risk of heartburn. If you lie flat in bed, if you go to sleep on a full stomach, that may all have an effect on the bubbling up and get to the food tube of things that go or stay in the stomach. We're supposed to be in the stock. We know that the stomach makes acid, hydrochloric acid. And that acid is there for many reasons, but primarily it's the earth to externalize the food contents that you've eaten, because as you know, the meat, cheese, and all the things that we eat. Have bacteria. And so we want to help to protect us from dangerous things that we are consuming that we're not even aware of. And the acid in our stomach helps to sterilize for neutralizing and toxic effect of some of these things as they pass through our body. So asset place protective role, it also is important because it affects the PH or the acid environment and creates an acid environment in the stomach, which alight enables certain of the enzymes in the stomach primarily absent to work, to be able to begin the process of digestion. Digestion starts in the mouth and then continues down through the GI tract. And the next organ after the mouth that's involved in digestion is the stomach. The caption is made of the stomach and perhaps some place a role as digestion protein. So the stomach plays important roles in anti chest processing and protection..

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Outsourcing Sales: A New Model for B2B Sales With JumpCrew Sales VP Jarron Vosburg

Accelerate!

02:31 min | 1 year ago

Outsourcing Sales: A New Model for B2B Sales With JumpCrew Sales VP Jarron Vosburg

"This whole idea. I we're gonna dig into this. As of outsource sales as sort of a harbinger of the future sales. I think is really interested in talk about so. So wh- under what circumstances do companies want to hire you because i understand startups I find it more cost. Effective capitol efficient to outsource the whole thing may ramp faster than the way they're trying to internally but also then you work with a lot of established companies as well so so give us some use cases good question. There's a couple of key use cases that we've seen one is the startup environment where they've got product. Maybe they have a seed round of funding. They're ready to go to market. And maybe the founding team just doesn't have the interest resources or capital to do it themselves as other turn to someone like jump. Crude actually conceptualize the entire go to market strategy and build the entire playbook to to help them. They have marketing team so marketing teams are collaborators of ours. They'll help guide to strategy will collaborate as a sounding board and help bring some experience from a number of different industries that we support and then we can apply that expertise to help guide their strategy and execute on it. So that's been a huge part of us. That ability to collaborate and clearly defined swim lanes roles and responsibilities and not step on toes sets definitely a use case jump cruise model being really that integrated digital and sales component has definitely been a huge differentiator for us and so companies at that stage. Need both foreshore and so we can plug and play there. Another use cases companies that have product market have sold their product before Have seen some things that are working well but know that. There's opportunity that they're not capitalizing on. Maybe just aren't sure exactly how to capitalize on that opportunity. So that's a really great place for us to plug into usually have key. Resources already allocated to taking care of one responsibility or another disciplined. But they jump through say. Hey we've got all these leads sitting in this bucket and they're collecting dust or this legislation passed and we wanna capitalism such opportunity. But we can't hire enough so though users in that in that scenario and i'd say the other buchanan broad but the other would probably do you. It got something that they know working really well and they just got a pour gasoline on fire as they need somebody who's got the infrastructure in place technology personnel leadership experience to actually go in and take playbook that they know is working execute on that playbook velocity and then inevitably learn pretty quickly about how to fine-tune it and make it working better.

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Cobra Kais Tanner Buchanan Talks About Starring Opposite TikTok Star

The Big Ticket with Marc Malkin

01:53 min | 1 year ago

Cobra Kais Tanner Buchanan Talks About Starring Opposite TikTok Star

"Are you. I am good. How are you. I'm good so the second time or meeting. We met brad. Mtv movie tv awards. Tv awards whatever they call them now and then you you a without us and then you were talking about this movie and now everyone's going to see it. Yes i i think it's always a little nerve wracking Obviously you know because it is a remake and everything. You want to make everybody happy. So and you're kind of I'm putting my own spin on una character that everybody knows in love so i gotta make sure that. I just hope i did it. Justice in everybody's happy with it. So yeah it's a little nerve wracking so let's talk about the original. Have you seen the original. When signed it had has that cult classic thing but not everyone is seeing the original. She's all that so. Had you seen the original before you signed on. Yeah yeah so. I actually well i watch. Rahm comes romantically. That's my thing usually. That's what i usually consume on a daily basis multiple times. And then obviously i tried sue. Make sure that. I you know i had the essence of it going into it so i watched it. I can't remember. It was like four or five times Just to make sure just to cover all my bases you know rose picking up on every little thing that could op- up in our script In like i said try to make everybody happy on giving fans of the original but also people coming in that have no clue it. She's all that news. Make them fans of it so they can go back and watch the originals

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"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

Anna Faris Is Unqualified

17:52 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

"Find me when he finally left a it was scary but it really felt like a backpack have just been lifted from holders and to set down the sidewalk. I physically felt lighter. Esther as you're listening to us and you can see on a reliving your experience right and you can see see how happy ana is and you can see that. She weathered that and she's been through that and relates to you and knows exactly what you're going through but then you see and listen to a woman that's on the other side of all of that. Does that give you some kind of courage or hope. Yes it sounds very scary I almost know what i need to get him. There's been struggle. yeah. I'm so sorry that will be highs and lows. When i was going through my divorce. I went from having like a fridge constantly stocked because i love to cook and i'm kind of a homemaker always entertaining to living in this funky cool apartment because my husband wouldn't leave my house to having like mustard and like a six pack and it felt like who. Is this kind of. Yeah yeah. I love that picture of the muster and whatever like hardly anything and a smaller little place because even if you downsize and you don't have the life that you had it's kinda cool right like we're all of a sudden you have like i'm on my own and i can do this. I can do with a lot less. I was like. Oh my god. I'm making every decision. And i don't have to check in with anybody here then. Yeah yeah especially somebody who didn't make me feel very good. You know well you know. There's there's so many ways to betray our partners in marriage sex with somebody else's just another kind of betrayal but a lot of people like to think that sex with somebody else's this ultimate betrayal but there's betrayals along the way long before their sex with another partner. There's something that is missing. There is something that is being overlooked. It's just a symptom right. You guys esther you've been fighting a lot or you were fighting a lot in the past. So we've all heard the expression. Once a cheater always a cheater. I do believe that people can come back from affairs. I do. I truly do but it depends on how it played out what was going on. What was the quality of the relationship ahead of time. What are both parties willing to do. And to rebuild trust is a whole other dynamic. Where if you guys went to a therapist the therapist would say okay. You guys want to rebuild this and you really want your marriage to work. What is going on with you that you feel like you need something else. Are you not getting attention at home. What is this connection with this other person. It was the only other person. And what are you going to do going forward. That's going make esther feel secure now. A lot of people want to be forgiven but they want to go right back to what they had before game over. It will never be the same as what it was before. I don't mean to tell you that to break your heart. I mean to tell you that so that you know that. Sometimes things have to completely break for new things to be built. The new model of your relationship is hundred thousand percent transparency. Meaning sometimes husbands and wives too. If they've cheated are asked to like okay. Well you go to work and you need to check in with her at nine. Am twelve three pm until that partner it could be a year could be six months. It could be two years until about partner has rebuilt that feeling of okay. I'm secure. i'm okay. The person who did the cheating has to do. Double time work to rebuild trust within the partner by almost overly communicating about everything. They are doing everything that they are to the point of like over the top. Because that's the only thing. Time is the only thing that solves this but time is just an aspect of it. What do you do with that time going. Forward by the way esther. Can you stand house in he go. So that's he offered that he said if you wanna stay in the house. He's parents are two houses away. He's grandparents but he refused. He doesn't wanna go there. He says i'm going back to my family. Went on my own selves eighteen going back to my parents or my grandparents. He said if you want me to leave the house. I'll sleep in the car and i don't wanna do that it also. His business is in the backyard so even if he moves out he's gonna come and work here every day and so. We were playing selling the house in a month so i told him. Why don't we just sell the house and with fat bellevue enough to pay a lease for a year for each one of us. Get an apartment. So i suggest that yeah. This is perfect. This is great news on type of any better. Okay so keep them on the couch for the entire month and move toward selling the house. This is great because it's thirty days woods awesome about this is that you're already in a place where there's a transition have. Yes it may really help you emotionally figure out what makes you happy. And what's fulfilling to you. It's great it's built in for you. Esther you sell the house you both get your piece of the house of the sale and then you say like let's just take a beat and you ask for a temporary separation and you demand that he goes to therapy on his own. Oh he already doing that. Okay and then you go on your own because this is also you esther. This is used solving this. Old historical men are the leaders. Women are submissive. That's what you need to go. Get somebody to support you and help you define your own confidence in your own way and really give you a voice and so when you have that separation and you're not under the same roof you can think clearly so you're not going to say let's get a divorce. It's just let's use that time. I need some space. So that i can get some clarity from this and you have some work to do to on your own and then we will come together in ninety days. We'll sit down for coffee and we'll talk about what we've learned about ourselves and then we'll go from there like. Don't worry get a month to month lease something. Just get under your own roof because you haven't had enough time before you met him. You were still so young and you weren't on your feet financially yet. When you met him. I really feel like you need to feel your success that you have now independently of him to kind of feel that and really. Just be in your own space. There's no no but you ought to whenever we've lived with somebody and there's been something like this it's almost impossible to heal and it's almost impossible to stay mad at them because they walk into kitchen and they say something funny and you're like oh you're cute and the next thing you know you're right back at it like it's really hard and esther. I know you had mentioned that. You guys were trying to conceive. So this was a particularly. Let's say like emotionally loaded time in a fragile relationship so as like you kind of take away. The advice and the food for thought that april has given you. My word of caution would be a pregnancy is a beautiful time in a strong relationship. It is a really hard vulnerable time though. And if you want to raise your baby with a partner you want somebody. Who's really there for you that you can count on because you know you don't feel awesome about yourself is a weirdly longtime so. I know that that that may be taking a pause on. That is kind of heartbreaking. Because i know that you guys have been future rising. And i don't want to take those slots away from you all. I want you to have as many babies as you want. And they will be gorgeous. Because you're gorgeous. Don't let the age thing stress you out. I was thirty five. When i i tried to get pregnant and worked and i do believe that. Even if he didn't sleep with her. Like april said there is definitely a form of betrayal here. And it certainly doesn't make you think like oh well he won't with her and also april and i have the luxury of a little bit of time in a distance with all of this. But there's a reason why we're not obsessing about her or even much about him we already kind of know that's for the age perk comes in that unless he does radical transformation. This relationship will be hard. I really don't like that. He said the controlling thing. The i'll sleep in the car thing. That's definitely hebrew that you can't change and from my experience it's very very difficult for people to recognize that in themselves because those types of people also very much believe it highly manipulative. People almost don't know it because it's like they're so self absorbed narcissism and their shit. They just throw it back out there without really taking your heart into consideration the way they should yeah. Love isn't self-preservation right. Yeah and if not up to you to be seventy percent of the relationship. I do believe that his own thoughts and his own torment whatever's going on with him is too consuming for him to get out of and you can't bring him out of that either. The interesting that you that. Because through all this i feel like every time i wanna decide to do something. Every time i think about you know what's the next step for me for separation. 'cause i know that needs to happen i think about him. What is he gonna do in the car. I don't want him to be settled time. I don't want so. I think you know how uncomfortable how hard is going to be on him. Esther unfortunately biggest survive. I was like who's gonna make dentist appointment for a. Yeah that's me. I do everything for him. Pretty much. And i don't lie. Why is like. I do the find our finances together so we have our bank accounts together the bills i do all the you know housekeeping stuff and so for. He doesn't even do. He's on andreea. We'll good thing is parents are two doors down. What does he bring to the relationship. What are his skill sets within the marriage. I don't know if. I know how to answer that really. He's very kind. I gotta say he's well before this happened. I fell. he did put me i. And he's always checking with me. What do you want to do. Whatever you wanna do is go into this. He actually mentioned to go counseling together before this whole thing happened is better relationship communication. He felt like we're having a communication. But i don't know i could not put into words. What he made me feel good. He made me feel safe. I don't worry about anything. When i'm pam it's here have men i'm content. Yeah well you also have spent a lot of time on your own. I mean that's nice that on that one day week like what would you like to do. But i just heard me say this before on the fun. Gasoline dislike my friend used to say. That's like patting the tenor on the back for clearing his throat. Before he sings the aria given that somebody your partner comes home and says hey. What do you want to do on sunday. It just seems like you do the brunt of everything and what does forgiveness look like forgiveness is in the mind and the heart. Forgiveness is not in an action. There's something else right. And why are we forgiving. Someone just because they asked us to forgive or you know. There's so many things that you have to do but no this when you worry about him and you think well i don't wanna put them out in effect what you're doing is you're taking away his journey to figuring that stuff out to becoming a real man because i think that whatever this is this emotional affair which by the way is almost worse than a physical one is also a way of showing you that he's not one hundred percent ready for deep intimacy and commitment because if it was happening during a time of trying to conceive a child which is the extension of your relationship he chose to divert his energy and attention to someone else that tells me that there's a little bit of maturity there there's a little bit of a lack of readiness and that's what he has to look at. That has nothing to do with you. And that's the scary part if you're going to carry a baby in your body don't you want somebody who's a grownup who is going to run. Every time the wind blows the kid gets sick. Or you know you lose your job. You know it's like because otherwise there's always a reason you so it's not about like can we put this marriage back on track. You have to figure out. What do you expect. You guys are missing a lot. And i think it's because you're working two jobs you see each other basically one day a week the rest of the time. It's just like hit the sack and go to bed at night. You guys are like ships passing in the night. And i don't know how old he was when he met you. Twenty five k. I mean come on so when people get together under thirty and honest this last time i could tell my son if i can enforce the idea of my son not getting married until he was thirty. I would because when you get married in your twenties. You're getting married before you've actually completed your story. You're getting married before you make money before you have the career. You're supposed to have before your i call it like the fully-developed story and so you short circuit development and then everybody's like oh. My marriage is falling apart. Were cheating but it's really because those two got married too young so he's still in growth mode. Yeah he only dated this other girl before me. The girl that keeps going back to. I told him i don't care about her. What you keep going back. So there's something right so she has been trying to get in our entire relationship but he's giving her the power right so i told him about her. I don't care about her She's seven years younger. That makes us a kit. He's talking to a twenty two year old. What does that tell you. There's a maturity her lifestyle. It's completely opposite than nine. It's asking is that why esther. Oh ester this is part of the hamster wheel. Yeah i used to think the same thing if you can just really avoid comparison. You can't solve anything and it's detrimental to your spirit. She's right esther but it also has very much to do with you. And here's why it's more common that when men get married and they get married too young or they're lacking self confidence maturity. They cheat down because with the person who is younger less evolved less successful less educated. They get to feel very empowered and power. Full my god. You're so right. Girl is looking up at him. Big eyes and like wow. He's older he's experienced your partner. You are a sophisticated shoulder to shoulder highly educated. You are grounded. You are mature and then when you're talking to him and you're but you chose her data you sound very mom. You sound like the mother teaching her son the rules of the world. And that's not where you want to be as a female in a marriage it's off balance so he didn't look to a sophisticated highly educated successful woman who makes more money than you who has more degrees behind her name. He went down. I have to tell you a memory guys. Yeah i remember one time in a heated argument during my first divorce. I said to him. mommy's gone. Mike god oh that's going to be all that you know no matter what you sort of land on and with the next year looks like for you. I just want you to seek joy in yourself gravity to things. That are rewarding. And i don't think you should ever look at life as like you've invested seven to ten years already so therefore you must invest the rest of your life. You don't know anybody that time. This is yours so esther thank you so much for opening up with us and i don't know if everything we've said today is easy but we have your back we care about. You really appreciate the. What an honor the are gonna land on your feet esther. Trust yourself get into your heart and your vulnerability so that you can find your voice and you can find your strength and make sure when you're in process that you only get on the phone or see people in person who back you and celebrate your independent decisions because what you need. Right now is consistency in a community. That really cheers you on so seek that out and that will give you a lot of help. Thank you so much really helped. Bring some clarity to the best. You're amazing esther. Yeah you're amazing you're gonna tackle life hook so truly you are so strong. You're really.

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"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

Anna Faris Is Unqualified

06:50 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

"You are yet. That attempt to regain independence was a crazy journey filled with highs and lows and esther i so agree and i hope it's not too painful to hear or makes you uncomfortable whether or not he slept with her. This last time is sort of a moot point you know and it seems to me that it's easy for you to forgive him a move on by believing that they didn't sleep together but i do believe that you're in a relationship with somebody who will continue to make you feel insecure and bad and not be a generous partner in the way that maybe you want until he does his homework. That's the part of the control that we just don't have and you don't have. I remember the realization of oh. I can't make an unhappy person happy. I just can't do it. I can't fix his behavior. He used to say things. Like you know. You're the only person understands me. You know how depressed. I get so i was being polled. And then like you're crazy. You're so insecure. That was such a tough way to live. And so when i find me when he finally left a it was scary but it really felt like a backpack have just been lifted from holders and to set down the sidewalk. I physically felt lighter. Esther as you're listening to us and you can see on a reliving your experience right and you can see see how happy ana is and you can see that. She weathered that and she's been through that and relates to you and knows exactly what you're going through but then you see and listen to a woman that's on the other side of all of that. Does that give you some kind of courage or hope. Yes it sounds very scary I almost know what i need to get him. There's been struggle. yeah. I'm so sorry that will be highs and lows. When i was going through my divorce. I went from having like a fridge constantly stocked because i love to cook and i'm kind of a homemaker always entertaining to living in this funky cool apartment because my husband wouldn't leave my house to having like mustard and like a six pack and it felt like who. Is this kind of. Yeah yeah. I love that picture of the muster and whatever like hardly anything and a smaller little place because even if you downsize and you don't have the life that you had it's kinda cool right like we're all of a sudden you have like i'm on my own and i can do this. I can do with a lot less. I was like. Oh my god. I'm making every decision. And i don't have to check in with anybody here then. Yeah yeah especially somebody who didn't make me feel very good. You know well you know. There's there's so many ways to betray our partners in marriage sex with somebody else's just another kind of betrayal but a lot of people like to think that sex with somebody else's this ultimate betrayal but there's betrayals along the way long before their sex with another partner. There's something that is missing. There is something that is being overlooked. It's just a symptom right. You guys esther you've been fighting a lot or you were fighting a lot in the past. So we've all heard the expression. Once a cheater always a cheater. I do believe that people can come back from affairs. I do. I truly do but it depends on how it played out what was going on. What was the quality of the relationship ahead of time. What are both parties willing to do. And to rebuild trust is a whole other dynamic. Where if you guys went to a therapist the therapist would say okay. You guys want to rebuild this and you really want your marriage to work. What is going on with you that you feel like you need something else. Are you not getting attention at home. What is this connection with this other person. It was the only other person. And what are you going to do going forward. That's going make esther feel secure now. A lot of people want to be forgiven but they want to go right back to what they had before game over. It will never be the same as what it was before. I don't mean to tell you that to break your heart. I mean to tell you that so that you know that. Sometimes things have to completely break for new things to be built. The new model of your relationship is hundred thousand percent transparency. Meaning sometimes husbands and wives too. If they've cheated are asked to like okay. Well you go to work and you need to check in with her at nine. Am twelve three pm until that partner it could be a year could be six months. It could be two years until about partner has rebuilt that feeling of okay. I'm secure. i'm okay. The person who did the cheating has to do. Double time work to rebuild trust within the partner by almost overly communicating about everything. They are doing everything that they are to the point of like over the top. Because that's the only thing. Time is the only thing that solves this but time is just an aspect of it. What do you do with that time going. Forward by the way esther. Can you stand house in he go. So that's he offered that he said if you wanna stay in the house. He's parents are two houses away. He's grandparents but he refused. He doesn't wanna go there. He says i'm going back to my family. Went on my own selves eighteen going back to my parents or my grandparents. He said if you want me to leave the house. I'll sleep in the car and i don't wanna do that it also. His business is in the backyard so even if he moves out he's gonna come and work here every day and so. We were playing selling the house in a month so i told him. Why don't we just sell the house and with fat bellevue enough to pay a lease for a year for each one of us. Get an apartment. So i suggest that yeah. This is perfect. This is great news on type of any better. Okay so keep them on the couch for the entire month and move toward selling the house. This is great because it's thirty days woods awesome about this is that you're already in a place where there's a transition have. Yes it may really help you emotionally figure out what makes you happy. And what's.

Esther bellevue
"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

Anna Faris Is Unqualified

06:09 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

"Be a generous partner in the way that maybe you want until he does his homework. That's the part of the control that we just don't have and you don't have. I remember the realization of oh. I can't make an unhappy person happy. I just can't do it. I can't fix his behavior. He used to say things. Like you know. You're the only person understands me. You know how depressed. I get so i was being polled. And then like you're crazy. You're so insecure. That was such a tough way to live. And so when i find me when he finally left a it was scary but it really felt like a backpack have just been lifted from holders and to set down the sidewalk. I physically felt lighter. Esther as you're listening to us and you can see on a reliving your experience right and you can see see how happy ana is and you can see that. She weathered that and she's been through that and relates to you and knows exactly what you're going through but then you see and listen to a woman that's on the other side of all of that. Does that give you some kind of courage or hope. Yes it sounds very scary I almost know what i need to get him. There's been struggle. yeah. I'm so sorry that will be highs and lows. When i was going through my divorce. I went from having like a fridge constantly stocked because i love to cook and i'm kind of a homemaker always entertaining to living in this funky cool apartment because my husband wouldn't leave my house to having like mustard and like a six pack and it felt like who. Is this kind of. Yeah yeah. I love that picture of the muster and whatever like hardly anything and a smaller little place because even if you downsize and you don't have the life that you had it's kinda cool right like we're all of a sudden you have like i'm on my own and i can do this. I can do with a lot less. I was like. Oh my god. I'm making every decision. And i don't have to check in with anybody here then. Yeah yeah especially somebody who didn't make me feel very good. You know well you know. There's there's so many ways to betray our partners in marriage sex with somebody else's just another kind of betrayal but a lot of people like to think that sex with somebody else's this ultimate betrayal but there's betrayals along the way long before their sex with another partner. There's something that is missing. There is something that is being overlooked. It's just a symptom right. You guys esther you've been fighting a lot or you were fighting a lot in the past. So we've all heard the expression. Once a cheater always a cheater. I do believe that people can come back from affairs. I do. I truly do but it depends on how it played out what was going on. What was the quality of the relationship ahead of time. What are both parties willing to do. And to rebuild trust is a whole other dynamic. Where if you guys went to a therapist the therapist would say okay. You guys want to rebuild this and you really want your marriage to work. What is going on with you that you feel like you need something else. Are you not getting attention at home. What is this connection with this other person. It was the only other person. And what are you going to do going forward. That's going make esther feel secure now. A lot of people want to be forgiven but they want to go right back to what they had before game over. It will never be the same as what it was before. I don't mean to tell you that to break your heart. I mean to tell you that so that you know that. Sometimes things have to completely break for new things to be built. The new model of your relationship is hundred thousand percent transparency. Meaning sometimes husbands and wives too. If they've cheated are asked to like okay. Well you go to work and you need to check in with her at nine. Am twelve three pm until that partner it could be a year could be six months. It could be two years until about partner has rebuilt that feeling of okay. I'm secure. i'm okay. The person who did the cheating has to do. Double time work to rebuild trust within the partner by almost overly communicating about everything. They are doing everything that they are to the point of like over the top. Because that's the only thing. Time is the only thing that solves this but time is just an aspect of it. What do you do with that time going. Forward by the way esther. Can you stand house in he go. So that's he offered that he said if you wanna stay in the house. He's parents are two houses away. He's grandparents but he refused. He doesn't wanna go there. He says i'm going back to my family. Went on my own selves eighteen going back to my parents or my grandparents. He said if you want me to leave the house. I'll sleep in the car and i don't wanna do that it also. His business is in the backyard so even if he moves out he's gonna come and work here every day and so. We were playing selling the house in a month so i told him. Why don't we just sell the house and with fat bellevue enough to pay a lease for a year for each one of us. Get an apartment. So i suggest that yeah. This is perfect. This is great news on type of any better. Okay so keep them on the couch for the entire month and move toward selling the house. This is great because it's thirty days woods awesome about this is that you're already in a place where there's a transition have. Yes it may really help you emotionally figure out what makes you happy. And what's.

Esther bellevue
"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

Anna Faris Is Unqualified

07:24 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

"That relationship work yet. Esther in the relationship that i was talking about. I remember after catching him literally walking in. I didn't have enough money to like. Get him off of my leaks. He didn't have any income so it was kind of like. I guess i have to give him. It just felt so exhausting and tormenting i probably spent a lot more time tormenting myself like trying to put the pieces together of like wait. There was that one time that he was like over. The you know like running that hamster wheel. And i'm grateful for all my experiences but i do harbor a little resentment. I felt like a neurotic crazy person. Because i was told that all the time and that was really hard to digest all the time. I don't know if your husband does exactly those things. But i really flagged in your email. You know when you wrote that. He said that you were being controlling ice to hear that shit. All the time omega yeah. It's always controlling when you don't want somebody to cheat on you. So i think april is exactly right that this isn't yours yet your living with it and i think that he may need to understand what it does to you and how it makes you feel. I think it's best just to figure out ourselves first and then once we have that foundation then we can tackle as a team. Like what's going on but i don't care if he actually slept with her. It's almost like my as well as you. Because i don't care because the lying if you're lying to me at all it's so against the grain of who i am as a person so i know that when somebody i'm working with or living with or partnering with is out of their integrity. It doesn't matter why because it's not how i operate. So can i forgive somebody when they're out of integrity. Sure 'cause holding anger and hostility is like drinking poison but do i want to stay in that environment when there's too many people that do operate from integrity. That's the choice you have to make and when somebody cries like that like i'm sorry i really must stub it's been i'm like oh my gosh. That's more about him. Esther than it is about. I love you. He might be saying. I love you. Take me back. I'm sorry. I didn't do anything. I should've told you that i was talking to her. I'm greg the crying is from a different place has zero to do with love. So please don't hear that or see that and then fall right back into it because that's what happens right. We hear the crying. we see. oh i love you too. That's exactly what he's doing he's like. I can't believe i screwed up the years. I have my life like immolate ruined. So did you hear that. I can't i screwed up. I still making about him and not about you because if he was making it about you. You probably wouldn't. You're the one that's supposed to be crying not have already. i understand. But that's that's a way of controlling you that's that projection thing right because you're controlling. Well there's a little bit controlling of you going on right now to. It's just done differently. You're a little bit more. Direct your outspoken. You seemed a lot of integrity. What was your family dynamic like. What were you told about. Women men marriage when you were growing up the opposite of what i believe surly meaning. It's what i'm doing. What i come from a background where women are very submissive. And it's almost okay for the guy cheat and be abusive in any form or shape and the wife has to forget and forgive and go back to their spouse. My mom even set to me once. You're never gonna find a guy basically. I'm the opposite of what i'm supposed to be say you're strong wheel. He do whatever one. And i supposed to be. Submissive guys has the last word. And i always knew not how should work and before this. I don't think we. I don't think he is drawing. He checks with me on everything really so we make decisions together. So that's my liked about him but yeah going back to your question. That's how it is twinned from. Where are you from originally the caribbean. So it's interesting. That is still playing you because all of your family and ancestors believed that. That's the way life is that the men are the decision makers that men can screw up and women have to defer and women have to be submissive and women must forgive and forget so you're literally dueling with who you are today as woman who's very smart and accomplished and driven and strong willed and the old kind of historical stuff from family lineage. Because you don't have a support system so you're feeling alone and then when you are reaching back and connecting back to family. They're not supporting you in the are you nuts. Get the heck out of there right. Because their training is yesterday we can forgive but we should never ever forget and it's impossible anyway right. It's always there and forgiveness. Doesn't mean you stay forgiveness you forgive then must take an action along with your forgiveness. No one ever said forgiveness spent. I forgive you. Let's stay in this. It's i forgive you. But i need to make a decision for me as a human being as a woman and history will keep repeating itself. So what i recommend to you. Esther is that you build your network. You build your community of women who are educated as you are strong willed as you are independent. Found a way to make it on their own. Don't believe in infidelity. Because you need the other voice in your head saying what do you want to do and that your mental wellbeing is everything if you lose your self esteem and your well being how you feel about yourself this will repeat itself either with him or with everybody else. And what happens as you get older. It's like chipping away. It's like it's like water. That erodes iraq it just keeps going and going and going and you wake up and you're forty and you're fifty and suddenly going. Where did i go. who am i. This is just old stuff that you're doing and so how can we get you into a place of empowerment so that you can really put this on the table. Get some clarity around it to help you. Slowly make some decisions because the divorce thing or the separation thing or living apart from him will and i believe should happen however there are things to do now to help you do those things if you try to do those things before. You have figured out how you want to be treated. What does marriage into you. How do you feel safe. How do you feel love unless you do those things and what you feel you deserve in this lifetime. You can't do the stuff we can tell you to move out tomorrow. It's not gonna stick because you gotta fix yourself first and then slowly. Those decisions will be very easy to make. They're just not easy to.

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"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

Anna Faris Is Unqualified

06:47 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

"That you want to do. The one million dollar question I love him mason. My husband and i believe that he loves me. I mean i struggle when it first happened. Believe that knocked all his people through this twice for what i seen. He's very confused or west confused. Now he's very phil's lawyer were morris than he cried so much. I've never seen a crime this much. But i guess i really want to know if there is a way that i can get that space that i need from him being stay in this house because i didn't do last i i feel like i should have left house completely and spend time away from him. So is marriage the element. that's different. Now yes so. You had reached a closer breaking point of separation before you were married as opposed to this time when you're kind of feeling like i should see this through because of the institution of marriage or because of the relationship can you you differentiate one of the marriage feel that it's a big deal. We make bowels to stay together through better for worse. But i believe he slipped her. I know they're still are lying and trust that you know. I do not appreciate how he i told him. This made me feel like. I was going crazy. Because when i was asking him not yelling was asking him to tell them the truth. I kept saying can you please increase Insisting he is red and so at some point in that conversation outside. I really hope i'm not wrong. And you know blaming him like this and going off from him and so is allied back really hurts me i in my twenties i was in a relationship like this but we moved in together after like three or four months of dating. He cheated on me when we were just living together. We got married. And then the pattern continued to repeat itself. And i felt really small along the way and we would have these irrational nonsensical arguments. It felt like he was determined to be angry at me. And i couldn't figure out why it felt terrible. I didn't realize how unhappy i wasn't till after i left him and my friends were like. Oh my god you're so happy. I don't know if divorce is in your future strike. Don't want you to have to like kind of tackle that mental hurdle right now unless april wants you to all support while we talk about that a lot right on like we hear these stories and then when we say. You don't have to think about divorce right now. There's so many steps that come before that right so of course. You don't have to think about that right now but you do have to think about what this is because when you talk about love does love make you feel imbalanced. Does love make you feel like you've gone completely mad. Does love lie. it doesn't people do. And sometimes we conflate those two right we say well we've made our vows and so marriage is important through sickness and in health through good and bad but in those vows we also commit. That will be. Honest will be truthful and loyal and faithful. And when you have a problem with a partner who has a habitual pattern of this. You are no longer dealing with the marital issue. You're dealing with a character issue so esther it's not really up to you to quote unquote work on this. This is his deal and on what you were saying about your relationship where there was a lot of anger pointed at you. I honestly feel like a lot of people do this when they don't feel like they're on your level and so they go through a lot of anger your way as a way of kind of sabotaging it whether they're aware of it or not that's what they're doing they're making it acrimonious. They're making it difficult and challenging so when this other stuff happened they can say well. We find all the time. It's a way of pushing away intimacy and pushing away. That partner an esther. I don't know what kind of dating history you had. I think you're young when you met him. But did you have any full year to year relationships before you met him i did. I had my first when i was sixteen but late bloomer and i didn't get physical with Handling the work together for three years but we were best friends. Were officially dating. He met my family and everything. We still talk to this day. Occasionally not to match our respect for each other spouses but he was my best friend growing up in. So when i was old enough sixteen You know he became my boyfriend. Three years we're engaged and it was wonderful. And then after that i had another two years relationship to that was very toxic and two three years a long distance and yeah i knew from the get go. That was very toxic right and after that relationship. How long was it before you met your now husband I had besides do. I had a brief one of four months before i met him. My thought esther is that you know. Sixteen to nineteen almost doesn't even count. I'm so glad you had a beautiful lovely relationship but engaged to somebody between the ages of sixteen and nineteen your child your child at that time and then to go into that into a two year. My thought is that you lean on men for your security that you haven't been on your own enough to realize just how smart and strong and independent you went for your post grad. You're a smart girl. You're a hardworking girl. You can do anything on your own but there is this pattern of you being with men without knowing that you can stand on your own. Two feet does that make sense. Yes definitely april. I feel like you could have described me the same way really completely. Yeah we forget how amazing we are. You know and what we can do and and it's so hard when you're younger and you don't have that prior experience of kind of accomplishing on your own and and if we're young and we don't have any money and then we move in with somebody. I mean. it's kind of awesome. That you guys found this amazing relationship in love and marriage at a time where out of default you moved in. You know if you had had a nice bank account at that time and had your place you wouldn't have moved in with him your gut right your instincts which are just like inherent in us as humans. Were screaming at you saying it's too soon. I don't know this person. But you're like i had to because i didn't have a choice. Ana how many women do this like. Because of a financial issue everybody moves in and.

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"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

Anna Faris Is Unqualified

08:35 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

"Did. I'm happy i did though. No i've had. she knows. Tanner can you ask her to come down. I love this. I on a nice to meet you. So as asking tanner about his worst heartbreak and he was talking about. Oh you know what. I'm talking about. When i was in canada when we were young you wash Near stars yes as in days. You're so sad. All told her. I was mass and remember. She's you will so what. She was telling us that he was totally devastated. And i said well. What did you do to get her back. And he's he laughed and he said i'm not sure so you gave me an all. Meet him and it was to frayed. Lose did you're like. I can't i can't talk to you anymore. We don't actually other. And i was like being seventeen because been together for six years now. I was like. Ooh i was still an asshole to me. This is love. You make sure yes. Oh kind of like being so young. you don't know anything but you just instinctively know that. Oh i can't lose this person. Yeah and it's kinda crazy settling You villagers at seventeen. I was seventeen eighteen. Yeah so. I mean that's as much as i'm twenty three now. So it's what you're talking about is like Short timeframe of how much you learn about yourself guy. Because i didn't know who the hell i was too. You know and you didn't probably not tell. I know cno we had no idea but like maybe it's fair. No like magic but as much we didn't know about ourselves we come into a new. You asked me five years. But yeah i'll find out. They just kind of a hat. I don't distinctly remember just so long ago i know lizzy. Are you prepared to move to an island. Total like one of my dreams. Where where are we going. Look at you know. I'm like do you worry. There's an awesome. Outhouse i like some fucking kick ass lanterns no We were just talking about sort of island paradise. But i wanted to ask you guys. I was quarantine. Ben have you grown closer. Because of this last year you learned a lot about ourselves and each other. You took care performance. I was really sick. I didn't know what was wrong with me. Like i was having all these stomach issues. And i was so bad that i can't even like go on though the dishwasher in this guy took care of me for four months Like death benefit. Like i mean like that's the time we spent talking about our relationship and everything and and learning about ourselves and just spent a long time scene where we could do better and where we've not done as well in the past. Yeah we're can communicate at her so yeah it was a beautiful horrible amazing experience. Everyone around us like was not doing while like we're just he's full in quarantine disfiguring out. Earning burgess learning about each other going from there. What advice would you guys. Give two couples in general communication. That was a big thing for me. I i mean. I've gotten a lot better at it. I still need to work at it for sure. But communication for me Was a big game changer. Few got upset with something. Would you tend to bottle it up. Yes yeah and that's like being able to use your words in order to talk to your significant other. You know. Say this is how i feel or maybe necessarily a. I don't like this you know. And it's not trying to get into like a big fight but you know knowing that you can have the communication talk to one another and try to figure it out. What's your dad like that. No i think that's where i learned it from as of not communicating. Just bottling it up like it'll pass right but that's what i've been trying to work on myself. It's worked for me to become a better person than and try to truly communicate and have a conversation even though i may hate the conversation right. 'cause i think you'll learn more about yourself and the relationship in general. How did you guys meet. Oh it's a long short story so we knew each other nine. I have no recollection of this her. He was never metro. Gas also look quake years younger than i did the same way so and at the beach and then through mutual friend and then we do see tiller there at all managed to their class. My assam wow. You grew up in vine. Yeah Mother was right there. So i'm like all of his mom just like play. My part is at seven team. And that's literally that's that's it. I was really past amount. It kind of sounds like how most my relationship started like any kind of formality or like even like a proper date. That's that's basically university. No we don't there's no anniversary whatsoever. Maybe it's in the fall. Yeah no who knows you know what we should talk about. He's all that. Oh yeah have you been having to do a shit ton of press for it. I've actually only had about two days of as of now. It's not been that bad. What's been the question that keeps popping up. the big one is like. How was it working with addison ray. In her first time you know acting in of course with the really asking is if you think she can act. That's one hundred percent what they're asking. I know asking vaneau the they're saying in a very polite way but that is what they're asking. Have no problem answering. Say that yes you can watch the movie. That makes me really happy. Tanner you're awesome. It was so great meeting you. This has been amazing. Thank you so much in. Please thanked lizzy for me. Thank you. I had a lot of fun doing the so. I appreciate synthetic. Thank you have a wonderful rest of your day. You too bye bye. This episode of unqualified is brought to you in part by osa. My husband recently told me how nice my skin looked granted. He's usually pretty complimentary but this particular complement was more specific than usual as i've been thinking about finally leaving the house this summer. It was certainly confidence-boosting female founded and family operated by mother and daughter team. 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"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

Anna Faris Is Unqualified

08:08 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

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What qualities do you look for in a partner definitely hardworking. You know. I want them to have the same drive that i do. Because they don't then they might get kind of annoyed with the way i work or at least can understand that Allied someone who is very creative. I do enjoy people that are in this business because they have a more understanding of it. Have you worked with somebody. Who's ability made them sexier. Yeah that's interesting. You say that i'd never thought about it that way but yes i'd probably say that i feel like sometimes i goes along with passion for it as well. You know if their ability is there a lot of time they have a deep passion for it and deep love of it in that commitment that they have that makes it. Yeah sexy okay so you had this two year relationship when you were young and then did you move to los angeles is that would end it or was it just natural progression what ended it knows just natural natural progression of just. We're going into high school. You know were kind of like doing. Our own thing was She broke up with me. Actually i was just like okay. I guess i'll do my own thing. I definitely cried over that. I remember that. I was like crying in the car while she was like breaking up with. So did you go into another relationship after that but was the timeframe like no. I didn't get into another relationship ish if you call it that for about more than a year. Can i ask what your worst heartbreak was like. Yes I was like for probably about a month and a half straight. I would cry every night. I don't mean just like cry like ball 'til just like i tired myself out and just made myself go to sleep and just had a bunch of breakdowns and every night. I'd van repeat the fault in our stars. Do you mind my asking how old you were seventeen or eighteen. Yeah that's the sweet spot of heartbreak. I would show up at this guy's fraternity. My first boyfriend who broke up with me all the time. Just like pathetic in the rain. Anyone seen but we were going to get married. I don't actually spoke those words but it was a feeling of physical devastation. Yeah it was definitely interesting like that heartbreak of you can live on without this person you know did daybreak break up with you. Yes they did. I will admit it was my fault. I was actually kind of being nass during that time. So they had every right to. Why do you think you were being mass. I don't know. I don't know what it was inside of me. That felt like. I could act a certain way that i was acting but i did anyway and i was devastated. That was definitely a reality. Check for me like to me. I felt like. I truly lost everything. And i'm don't ever want to act that way again or be that person again. It was a very big learning experience which was nice. I don't think most people are able to reflect on a relationship like that. I think it's really impressive. I've been in a couple of relationships. Especially when i was younger with people who they were behaving in a way that was like forcing my hand like i had to break up with them if i had any shred of self respect so it's interesting that you're able to kind of look back at that. Did you ask for her back. Oh absolutely and what happened was a no-go were together. Now you are. That makes me so happy together now. She's up stairs. Currently tanner you were pointing up and you were talking about. The faults are stars. Oh you got you got scared at. That was like where is this going. Oh shit you're talking about worth together now and you're like oh opened the depot right now. No she's.

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"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

Anna Faris Is Unqualified

07:41 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

"You almost do them because he watched their life. Here's what i've been pondering lately. Because i've tried to justify my i try to rationalize my love of reality television because as a format it's easily dismissed but the fascination with what is being presented to us as reality we view it and we search for clues that will make it not real. You're not necessarily watching somebody your average mundane life. That ninety percent of our day is i suppose. It's kind of like the fun. Look into what most people don't get to experience. I guess it is kind of surreal innocence because a lot of the population as a gun experienced that kind of wife. They find it interesting. I still find it interesting as well. The one i just discovered like last night was love after lockup. No i've watched a lot of the lovey loves during the quarantine like the one. I really enjoy Where they go to the islands but they're all like players love island. Yes but they get to actually do the exercises where they find deeper in themselves in they they feel like they find themselves a little bit more and they learn something about themselves. They loved the transformation. I really liked that. Okay what's the best advice you've ever been given the best advice i've i've been given from my parents of just do what makes you happy. I know that sounds cliche. But it's true in. I believe it one hundred percent because anybody that ever asked me advice. I always try to give. I give that answer of truly. Do what makes you happy like we said earlier. That's why i don't mind working seven days a week. That's what makes me happy. I enjoy my time and it doesn't feel like work. Okay tanner are you ready for dealbreakers game. Just because i love games okay. They have a driver's license with someone else's photo in their name. Okay so it's a stolen identity basically or is it a fake. Id like you take your friends id. Because they're twenty one and yes. Yeah i think that's fine. I mean that would be fine in my book. What would your assumption v that they were just too young that a fake id. I mean everybody's got have a fake. Id at some point their life. I feel like i got caught with mine does you. Yeah by the cops. Ooh did have to go to court. No it was filed. No i had a fake to Okay here's the of. I'm this age now and i took someone out. That was like twenty. Yeah that's fine. I don't see the problem with it. I guess if they're honest about it. I don't like liars. Okay they throw away their jury duty summons i dunno because then comes in the question of how long's jerry to sell. It's going to say because you don't know much stagger you got to spend in the courtroom. Yeah it's not a dealbreaker to me because if not gotten some it yet. But i don't think i'd want to be because i don't want i don't want to be in charge of someone's fate. Whatever that may be you know. There's a lot going on with people even getting convicted of the wrong stuff. And i don't want to like. I can't do it so no it's not dealbreaker because i wouldn't want to do it myself. All right. they tell you they don't believe in marriage. I mean if we're about to move in together do you like truly love each other. And you're you're gonna spend your life together if they don't want to get married. I guess i would be open to it right. Maybe deeper conversation. But if i love that person then i guess it would. We might be able to come to compromise aaron. I like that. They want to take you to a strip club. That's funny. i've never been to ship up really never I'm not interested in going. Because i wanna see anything. I'm interested in going because there's this idea that lights the greatest thing in the world and i don't understand why it doesn't make sense to me so if they wanted to go i guess i don't know i think you would find it fascinating for a shift in personality interesting. It sounds like i've been to attend. But i have been to few and in my experience a lot of customers. It amplifies something in their personality. Not unlike zeno i guess. There's like a heightened almost bravado interesting after you go to a strip club you report back to me tell experience yes. I our or Well that's the funny thing is like i don't want to go the only reason i wanna go is. I want to observe people. That's what's interesting to me observing everyone in there but otherwise i have no. I don't wanna go. I don't like to be touched very often. Yeah you want your island. Yes i want my island. I wanna be away from everybody. Exactly okay next dealbreaker. You notice one of your instagram posts is the wallpaper on their phone. If it's a first date That would be a dealbreaker. That'd be a little. I might be a little odd. Yeah but i mean if we're like for moving in together like i said most likely eh for a decent amount of time that would be okay. Yeah let's appreciation so different situations different feelings. I wanted to ask a watching something about you like ten things. You don't know about tanner and one of them was your relationship with social media. We tell us a little bit about that. Yeah i mean. I i'm not a big techie guy. In general social media is it's interesting to me. i'm not. I'm not super big into it. I think it can be great. But i also think it can be extremely harmful to people because a lot of people don't use it for the right reasons but it's just if i have something to post posted but i don't like taking pictures of myself i don't i'm with you. I don't know just feel very like conceded that like. If i'm sitting there taking pictures of myself than posting in being like look at me you know it. It's i shy away from it a lot. It just makes me uncomfortable. I guess i was thinking about when actors have to do photo shoots how m- you have to suddenly look into the camera and acknowledged like your own sense of self in kind of a vain way and how what we're trained to do is big no r- it and i have a hard time watching playback i get sort of the images of my own facial movement kind of seared into my brain. I feel the same way because like it doesn't matter as many photo shoots as i do. I still feel extremely uncomfortable. Every time i show up. They want you to look in the camera. And i'm constantly not making contact with the camera and like looking at like. Can you do one in the camera. And i'm like. I don't want to but show or find this. Do i think this whole zoom thing has been really hard. I keep glancing over. I'm like what mike you look at yourself fixing your hair your like. Maybe i shouldn't say it that way. No it's very odd but yeah same thing with playback or even watching the final product. I used to not watch myself. But then i started watching myself because i finally learned you have to grow. And if you don't yourself there some things that you do. I noticed for myself that i did. That was very repetitive. That it didn't like l. interesting. I think i had certain ticks. I did possibly if i was nervous on. Set that day or anything So i watch a lot for those. But i also have to stop myself from watching it a certain amount of times because if not i'll obsess over it and that's not good as well so i give myself.

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"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

Anna Faris Is Unqualified

08:06 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

"Funny. You say that. Because i mean most people don't realize i mean very rarely do less than a twelve hour day for me. Ninety percent of the time way more like specifically for kobe. I mean we tried to do was much of the fighting as we possibly can. We just finished season four. That's coming out at the end of the year. Are you be. I definitely was when we finished because we had about two weeks of fighting days. And it's just fighting all day and you get your thirty minute break for lunch or very determined to do everything. So we're doing it because we want to. They're not forcing us to they're like do you want to break. We're like no just keep going. Roll the cameras. We're fighting now. Let's go but specifically when i work i don't home and i can't sleep for three and a half months. I was basically only getting one to two hours sleep. Is that because your mind is racing at night. Is it hard to comment down. So i just think about what i have the next day. Okay we a choreography. We gotta learn okay. This schedule what i what do i need to be in. You know. it's just. I just can't shut my mind off. That's just the way my mind works. When i get home. I i hibernate about today's days where asleep for like twelve to fourteen hours and then i'm then i'm pretty much ready to go again but it is a lot i mean for everybody onset That's just about how everybody works. That one thing is a big difference. I think When i got scary movie and i- i restarted shooting. I was like people can't work like this. Our people surviving working sixteen hour days or and it's a boring difference to talk about but it is a massive one is just truly the hours that you're logging at your job. Yeah it's a very huge difference. Tanner i'm really impressed with your work ethic were they both supportive your folks extremely. Yeah where they anxious about you to. I don't know i think You know my parents have very good upbringing. My dad has said he's worked hard labor actually from like age of fourteen and he's turning sixty four this year so he's worked hard labor for fifty years and he's always he's just like i just want you to do. What makes you happy. You know. I don't want you to have to ever work as hard as i've had to which is very nice and my mom has always had the same out lookie houses. I just want you to do what you wanna do. Even when i was younger they were like if you wanna act. You know we've been out here. I came out basically to california to try acting. And they're like we'll try it for six months. If you like it you know we'll don't we'll go home and after six months we just never left so they've always been supportive. Even if i wanted to quit acting today they'd be like that's fine. What do you want to do. I'm very lucky. How did you digest like early rejection. My mom always brought me up. I don't care what people think. So when i was young i actually to i. I wore glasses. I had an eye patch and she knew possibly people make fun of me that i have an eye patch to just tell people you're pirate that's cool. I was like absolutely. I'm a pirate our patch. I'm different than all of you. And i'm cool. And then when i started dancing it was like of course i danced. Why wouldn't i get to be with girls at school all day and i'm pool and so my mom always made sure that anything that might get in my way or if i get made fun of it. It's not a big deal. I get to do what i wanna do. I enjoy myself. And because i do that. I'm cool so actually. When i came out to california to try acting Get jobs or i went on audition after edition after edition. She's like oh that's fine. I'll just go on the next one so started from an early age back in ohio that i just didn't care what people thought. That's my outlook. Now is like if you like me like me if you don't you don't. I'm just me and taylor leader. That's rad. I mean that because i don't think i had that at all. Tanner i'll tell you all about my journey later l. Go do you have a favorite movie that you could watch over and over. he Singing in the rain. You know it's got the tap dancing. It's got the performing it's got the acting. It's that feel good movie of you. Just can't help us filing watch it so i guess would be one of the movies that i you know. Enjoy inspired me to do what i do today. Do you collect anything. I'm a big car. Guy a big motorcycle guy in a big obviously guitar guy. So those are the three things i kind of hold onto. I actually restore old cars with my dad like hot rods. Okay not knowing much about cars at all my first car was a nineteen seventy-two monte carlo. Okay this massive like cabernet. Red color was beautiful. I crashed it on i five. Yeah but it was amazing. You could have an entire party in there. You could fit. There were two big bench seats barely touch the puddles. You could really fit like twenty people in this car and you could hear it coming from a quarter mile away at least so tell me like a dream car or what. Are you restoring now. My first dream car was a nineteen sixty nine chevelle. And that's ashley what i'm restoring right now out beautiful. I've actually bought it. When i was twelve years old and not great shape and i've been working on it ever since so almost ten years now. Working hundred ten years. It's just whenever i have time. Dr doesn't drive yet. Okay very very close. This is kind of amazing. It's great because we've done everything ourselves. It's where i've kind of learned to do everything i would say. There's only about two weeks worth of work on it left but is there left to do most of it's actually only the interior which Salata wiring to set up kind of the setup by one. Is it in ohio. It is in ohio. Would you ever drive it to los angeles. My original thought was. When i get finished i would drive it across the country in come to l. a. because i don't think we're going to finish it. I think i'm gonna actually ship it out here and then have someone finish it here have like the interior work done. Because i want a little bit more modernized. I wanna be able to put an ipad in it. So i can play the music i wanna play. And lightfoot like an updated sound system in a and just a little bit more modern just to kind of do whatever i wanna do with. I think that'd be nice to have you ever written a fan letter. I don't think i have. I always enjoyed school. But i absolutely hated english. And if there's one thing in school that i hated the most. It was writing. If i could get out of it i got out of it so i don't think i ever have written a fan letter. The reason why. I asked this question is because i started to wonder about like the idea of fan dumb. And when you're on the other side of it and like my mom didn't encourage any kind of fandom. I never had any pictures of guys up on my wall. My dad is a total music. Snob so i never liked played any of my music or anything. Were you like a rabid fan of anything growing up. I loved the cheetah girls. That was actually my first concert. I went to. I looked up to them a lot. I don't get very crazy about actors. I guess that that's you know our world you know that it's it's normal but i get kind of crazy with musicians. I don't know why. I can't really weird around reality stars interesting. Yeah will i guess you feel like you do know them because you're seeing their everyday life almost some fans they feel like they know actors but we're still playing characters so a little bit different but with reality star. That'd be interesting. I've never really met any reality stars before you would feel like.

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"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

Anna Faris Is Unqualified

08:02 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Anna Faris Is Unqualified

"Are you in los angeles los angeles. Yes how do you like los angeles. I like los angeles a lot because there's a lot of options to do things. 'cause i grew up in a really really small town in ohio of light. Ten thousand people so it's just flatland farming community and the closest big town is about an hour and fifteen minutes away so the option to actually like do anything is nice. Do you go back. Home ever are usually go back twice a year usually sometime in the summer and then once during christmas time just to see friends and some of the family. That's still there on a scale of one to ten. How much do you look forward to a return. I love going back to see the friends. That i still have their my Two or three friends. I still have there actually been my friend since kindergarten and it's kind of nice because we don't talk while i'm gone whatsoever but i get back and it takes like twenty minutes to say my stuff twenty minutes to say their stuff and then we kind of just hang out in. Don't talk about anything all night. So it's kind of nice that it's just so laid back you get out of the craziness sometimes a sorry. I mean i probably say an eight. I grew up in a town called edmonds washington north of seattle. It's not a small town. It's a suburb of seattle. But i did find like going back over the years we have the nostalgia in our memories. But you know like the older you get. Sometimes you have less and less than common and it's nice to have that with some friends even though we have wildly different lives. It just doesn't matter. Yeah 'cause that's the thing is like my one friend is is still never been on a plane you know which is absolutely insane to me because you know you constantly. You're flying here. They're working did your jump on a plane every few days sometimes because you it you have to be there and yes. We don't have much in common. I think that's probably why it's nice. Because at the same time though because they enjoy their lives there and that's where they want to be the rest of their lives and that's great but that's why most of the night is just filled with telling jokes. Ask trying to connect on a deeper level. But it's just having fun. But there is a disconnect. Because that's all they really know my options growing up before i got into acting were either become like a nurse and accountant an engineer at kind of it. You know when you were a kid would you have described yourself as somebody who liked always wanted their world to be baker. Yeah a hundred percent. Because i grew up with mostly women in my life. All my cousins were women and they danced. I heard about this tap dancing. Will you tell me all about it. So i'm the only child so my cousins to me were like siblings. They're all older than me. So i looked up to them and obviously when you have like siblings older siblings. You want to do what they do. And obviously coming from a small town it's You know midwest. It's all sports if you're a guy you're manly man that whole thing. But that's not what i wanted to do. I wanted to perform. And i was different. I was the only in first boy to dance in our town for years. I love tap dancing. I took a few classes when i was a kid. And i'm wildly coordinated but i love it. I mean you're making music with your feet. It's fucking rad. Would you perform in your community yet. So there was center stage. Dance academy jill. Kumon was my guest teacher. She taught everybody the obviously. I danced with girls all the time because there was no other no other guy but i got into it and then i actually got into competitive dance. That's what i would do. i would. I would travel around ohio. Go to dance competitions. i'd have my solo piece in than i would have a dance with girls. Did you win When i dance with the girls. Yes i would. Well i mean you're thinking midwest ohio like i said not. Many boys dance so when the judges saw there like a boy dancing and it's cute so one quite a bit. I would basically have rehearsal every day after school. They're probably hoped to okay. What qualities do you think you inherited from your parents. It's interesting because my dad is Hard labor he owns own business. He installs heavy machinery in car manufactures. And that's basically what he's done his entire life. His family is very musically inclined. So i think. I kind of get some about from his side. My mom danced as well when she was younger but they both don't like the camera. No-one likes to be at the center of attention. So i don't quite know where i got it from it's interesting. They're both extremely hardworking. Driven also very confident. So i feel like i a lot of that from them. 'cause i have goals and i don't have an option not to reach my goals if i set a goal i'm going to reach it no matter what doesn't matter what it is. I'm going to do it and they're very driven like that. Which is a very very good but it can be bad sometimes because you know you get frustrated with yourself if you don't get something fast enough or anything like that. What about a goal like running a marathon or climbing mount everest. I don't have any gold. The bob i like that. Tanner litmus test questions for only. Because i'm not quite like that. And i also some goals. I do wonder about if people are achieving them for a story for bragging right i mean i know it exists for sure. Okay tanner if you could live anywhere in the world where would it be a really white to just be left alone like this quarantine has been great because didn't go stir crazy whatsoever. I was like this is great. I don't have to go outside on the anybody. This awesome so my dream is always to like actually owned like a little island and then build a house on it. And then i the only one on the island and that i don't have to deal with anybody i can just close the world out. Actually recently i've i've been thinking about my highlights license. Nice if i could get my pilot's license. Maybe i could build like a little runway. Just fly wherever i wanted to. Whenever would you want it to be an island in hot weather or cold weather. I'm a cold weather person. If there's one thing. I hate the most it's laying out in the sun like california. Everyone loves the dry heat. I don't if feels like i'm in an oven and it makes my skin hurt. So i can get someplace with humidity and it's hot. It's not as bad. But i like the cold weather a lot more when i first moved to los angeles from the seattle area. I was really surprised by how happy i was I think because it was sunny all the time but then the monotony and almost the sort of unconscious like lack of clocking time. Yeah that's the thing is i mean. I grew up seasons ray. I missed that a lot. Because i mean you have fall here. But it's still eighty degrees out. I mean it's kind of nice. But i like the seasons. I like just get a change of feeling. That was the thing someone always told me is like you can always put more clothes on when it's cold but if it gets hot you can't just keep taking clothes off. You know at some point you gotta stop and actually if you're shooting in the heat. When i was in my early twenties. And i starting to work in the film industry and the things that surprised me that may be people who aren't in industry. Don't know is. I think like the hours of work are totally life consuming. Yes it's.

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"j buchanan" Discussed on Vox's The Weeds

Vox's The Weeds

06:05 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Vox's The Weeds

"Month and better help dot com slash weeds. It's better h. E. l. p. dot com slash tweets. So one thing. That's interesting to me about all of this. Is that the village of euclid decision. On which is obviously not like zoning is not the only tool that's used to maintain defacto segregation and you know for a lot of historic sort of treats this decision Giving the go-ahead to single family zoning as part of a broader tradition of the supreme court turning away from hard edged property rights jurisprudence and stepping into the sunshine of what would become the new deal. Era ray but when you look at the ground level history of what happens after they give the thumbs up to zoning. There's a great article called the racial origins of americans zoning by silver and he talks about things like charleston south carolina they want in the twenties to sort of shore up segregation in the city. And so they hire a planning consultant. Morris knowles pittsburgh To help them drop as zoning ordinance as all city planners zoning first comes in they have a variety of different objectives like maintaining segregation is not the only thing that they are trying to do in charleston but it is of the things they are trying to do when the same is true in atlanta birmingham hires a city planner from boston So northern sort of progressive technocrats go south to consult with southern city is on how to create legally defensible segregation regimes and then as great migration dynamic start happening. The knowledge is reimported into northern cities. And new york's originals. Zoning code was mostly driven by store owners were trying to maintain but fifth avenue is like a nice place for shopping. It was a economics based discrimination element. But you know these same things start coming into play. Els sherzer who Jerusalem mentioned has a study of the evolution of zoning in chicago. You know when she shows that the move undesirable uses adjacent to the areas where black families are living and they also tried to bake it difficult. for black families to move into the white areas. And you have this. Overlapping wedge things. People fear irregular violence from their neighbors. They have challenges with discrimination for real estate. Operators there are covenants but this is all backstopped. By the sort of basic reality withers his booming population migrating north and there's money to be made throng apartment buildings to rent to the people who were moving to chicago. There are big parts of the city where you can't build an apartment building not exclusively because you're trying to keep by people out but certainly in part for that reason because of all this technical expertise that's developed in the nineteen twenties of how to do this in ways that will hold up in court. I think was really interesting about the you. Click as to so they find essentially that the city is allowed to tell this realty company that it cannot build the types of things at wants to build and often. I think people talk about zoning as something that is preserving land values making sure that you're like doing something that is going to increase profits for the property owner but actually ends up happening right. Is that at least a realty company. Alleges that with their original use case the land value is at ten thousand dollars an acre but if you force them to use it for residential purposes in the way that the city wants It goes down to twenty five hundred dollars in acre. And i think this is something that i think is like not intuitive to people the value of the land changes substantially. When you tell people that you can't zone specific things on it so like if you're on like waterfront property and you tell people you can only have one home for every you know three acres. You can make a lot less money doing that than if you have even a bunch of home next to each other who are single family homes and you could rent it to a bunch of different people and it's not just about the profits differ the developer that matters but it's also just general increase in welfare. There's a lot more people can enjoy that waterfront and can enjoy. What's going on there. And so i think they're like understanding zoning as being a tool with which people are actively regulating the value of the land itself is really important when we're talking about zoning issues today where people are often concerned that oh if you up zone if you take the current zoning regime and there's the potential to make things denser it's obviously going to reduce property prices. There's a bunch of research that's now showing that in many contexts. If you actually up zone you increase the ability for people to make money off their land because you are saying there's a higher value case that could exist in that space and then of course matt mentioned about discrimination against apartment buildings in particular. I think what's really interesting. Here is something that i think is still a strain of thought right. Now is this inability to distinguish between crowding and density. So there's a bunch of problems that are actually happening a lot of these cities where like you have. Overcrowded areas predominantly populated by southern black to have moved into these places and also first generation immigrants. And because there's a problem of poverty people are crowding in together in order to afford to live in these cities or in these places that they wanna live near jobs or whatever and of course there becomes a lot of problems to overcrowding and with the city failing to provide basic things like sanitation or other public services and what gets linked people's minds. Your thing is really important. Here is that it becomes link not true poverty or to the fact that you're not providing Necessary public works but that it is density in particular that is a nuisance and that is a problem and then he should be separated. And it's taken. As fact throughout his opinion euclid. That apartments are a nuisance a density as a problem that of course no one could ever disagree with the idea that living multifamily housing is just horrible den of iniquity. I can just worth quoting like exact rhetoric that they use. In the case they say with particular reference to apartment houses. It's pointed out that the development of detached house sections is greatly retarded by the coming of apartment houses.

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The Nationalist Right Is No Place for Nick Fuentes' Jealous Anti-Semitism

The Eric Metaxas Show

02:01 min | 1 year ago

The Nationalist Right Is No Place for Nick Fuentes' Jealous Anti-Semitism

"I don't know anything about nick fuentes but you've cautioned against him and i sometimes see people on the right praising him who is he he is a nasty little guttersnipe with an iq of one of five who hates the jews who hates the jews. They're kind of like hitler a seriously. Why do we have people on the right. Like nick fuentes. Yeah i don't understand. I don't know anything about them. Okay i'll tell you what because jews on the right to a better job of asserting their priorities than we christians. And that's not their fault they're supposed to so jews on the right who care a lot about israel do a good job of keeping israel on the front burner of american policy. We christians. we don't do such a good job of fighting against abortion or finding religious liberty or fighting for the integrity of marriage so envy envy okay so by but some pointers is. You're saying he's anti semitic. Is there anything else we need to know. I just know that you've brought him up. In the past. I want my audience clear. The or is an unfortunate tendency on the on the nationalist america. First ready of which i'm apart. I was pat buchanan delegate to the ninety six republican convention. There is a nasty element. Rising within the nationalist. Right the america i right. That is resentful of jewish americans success at asserting their particular priorities. What i say is you don't have. It will get better at do better. I care in the middle east. I primarily care about the fate of christian minorities in muslim countries who are religiously oppressed. I think we christians need to do a better job speaking up for that if you think the jews are really good at asserting. Israel's interest go be better at asserting. The interests of christians in the middle east go compete with a

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"j buchanan" Discussed on Code Story

Code Story

07:27 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Code Story

"Trying to run this but we're probably not going to have a thousand customers to begin with. We just want to start with ten and then twenty then thirty it actually ended up being really good because we were able to find not just basic bugs in how things work but we were able to find like oh this is a logic flaw and we need to fix this or we didn't understand this about customer behavior. We need to fix that. We were able to get that data faster than if we had spent that time trying to build the most perfect most scalable system. And that's constantly bounce. That i give back to or encourage my. Cto kate to think about as you know. How do you move quickly while also not creating too much technical debt but technical debt. That is you know. We're willing to say outsource maybe to external contractors or technical data that would make a good Sort of hack day project or twenty percent project so as you step out on the balcony and you look across all that you've built. What are you most proud of. I am really proud of the team that we have assembled. I am proud of how diverse the team is. I'm pretty sure that everyone of us. Coming from a non traditionally technical pathway a lot of ice have sort of liberal arts degrees. Some don't have degrees at all summer coming from previous careers. They switched into coding. There's just a lot of different ways. That people are joining edify and they bring a lot of their own experience that as a lot to our product and to our culture and how we interact with customers my perspective. Is that if you have the right people who care about what you're doing and care about your customer. And they have the right motivation. You can teach them any of the technology that you need you do at some point sometimes need to hire people who know what they're doing so that they can move ahead but they don't have to be. The google engineer has been google for ten years or somebody who has been in startups for a really long time. I actually think of our whole team as a team of underdogs and that actually. That's some something that makes us really special is that we're approaching these problems. Technology at a at a meta level building inclusive high performing teams from a non engineering perspective and bringing our experiences into that enjoining that with engineering best practices in with what our customers say anything. That's a really novel perspective and we couldn't do that without the team. Let's flip the script a little bit. Tell me about a mistake. You made how you and your team responded to it. One of the mistakes that we made Actually in this past quarter first quarter of this year was not doing the right research on the platform that we wanted to move to so basically just to set the scene we had built are low code by on took affleck so which was an excellent tool for the purposes of that. We needed it for but we were actually starting to outgrow it so that goes back to your question scale. We were outgrowing its capabilities and we were outgrowing what we need it to do. And we realize also that we needed to in source our own core functionality of the product so it was time to kind of move to a different way of way of looking at the product and we were also trying to bring in natural language processing. So that eddie could understand more creative questions and serve out better information. We settled on a tool called annex which we love but is also sort of a newish tool And that's kind of both the exciting and challenging thing about working in depth tools. Right now is that there are so many new things that are awesome coming on the market and they're also up just like you for us And so. I don't think that we did the right kind of research. And we didn't necessarily interrogate some of our choices the way that we needed to and then when we had to start making some changes to the by we actually realized that we weren't going to meet our original launch timeline if we're going to include some of that migration you know that was a mistake. We had talked to our investors. We talked to you are beta customers about being able to launch publicly right after q one of this year and we weren't able to meet that and so it's kind of a dual you know we didn't. We failed on one level and then made some mistakes that contributed to that failure on the other level. You you touched on this a bit when you were describing the company about the vision of where you wanna go Let's quantify that a little more. What does the future look like for the product and for your team the vision hinges on this question which is why are we not using devops principles in our engineering team management. I've wondered this for the past six years. Why are we seeing such new interesting innovations around how we basically how we better products and how he makes them more stable and more reliable and learn as teams on the product side. Why can't we use those principles of things like automation and continuous improvement. Continuous integration testing collaboration. Things like that. Why aren't we using that in team management because if you look at the market right now it's just like oh well here's another one on one five that will help. Managers have better one on while. Okay that's getting somewhere but it's not really getting at the heart of it and again you know. I think edify in our core we are looking. We're trying to look at the whole system of of engineering teams. And so taking this question as motivation and to try to solve this challenge that we see happening in an engineering teams. We started to say okay. Where is the friction in an engineering team. And if you look at the life cycle of an engineer from recruiting into on boarding into continuous learning and professional development into say performance management and review cycle and even into off boarding when. Somebody's either leaving a team or leaving a whole company there are a lot of points of friction and those points of friction reviews usually centered around where data or information is either being ingested or created and sent out and so there's a lot of Transacting data in each of those parts of an employee life cycle within a team. I think a lot of engineering teams. Think that all the people stuff in the team just has to stop that. That's just the way it is and it always isn't great. Interviews are always hard preparing for an abuser hard on boarding people's hard. And i don't believe i think there's a future where engineering teams are allowed to work on their favorite things their highest and best use things that they wanna be on creatively and and focused on solving those problems and then there is business software. That is supporting. The seamless flow of that team. And that's what edify wants to be. We're imagining features like the ability for any are by to notice when saying there are a lot of queries about a.

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"j buchanan" Discussed on Code Story

Code Story

06:45 min | 1 year ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on Code Story

"Of our early customers slack of environments and pretend to be above. The poor actually had to manage time zones from belfast and la and new york so she was up a lot during that two week experiment but it was amazing. Actually new hires didn't know that it was a real person and so they actually treated it like you know treated that user as and so it gave us real data about whether or not people were going to respond because that was actually an early problem with our thesis That we were worried about which will people interact will engineers interact with Or do they want to interact with the person and we actually found that they they will interact with the by and actually can enjoy it if it's well designed so those were our earliest earliest innovations and then we built the sort of half code half flow extol version. Shift that out. It took about three and a half months which was a little bit slower than we had anticipated but we ran into some hiccups as it always happens with suffered but we got it out to a group of beta customers and got them on. Boarding new hires in august of last year with any mvp gotta make certain decisions and trade offs right around feature cut or technical debt. You mentioned a low code solution and kind of more workflow with a little bit of code here and there more configuration. Tell me about some of those decisions that you made in the short term and trade offs. And how you coped with them. So i guess we'll start with sort of my long lived personal philosophy about these sorts of things which is that nothing matters. The quality of the co doesn't matter the actual meat behind the you. I of the product doesn't actually matter if you can't sell it and users don't like it. I see a lot of people spend a lifetime kind of underground working on their product to make it perfect. Then they push it out and they don't realize that that's just a very you know waterfall. You pretend like you're being agile but you're really not and you don't actually get any real feedback on it and then when you push it out to customers if they don't like it you've spent all this time now you have to count that up heartbeat of that. You have to give into the reality that as an early stage startup the original code that you write is unlikely to be the code that you keep as you get successful and scale your company and so you just have to give into that sort of chaos of this code is not perfect. It's not the most beautiful allegation code and that's it hurts engineer. Sometimes i think it really feels like emotionally taxing and i just decided that that was going to be our philosophy and we were gonna get real comfortable with getting things. Basically to the seventy five percent coach methodology or point and so that was the sort of guiding principle. That jamie i went off into the world with we were building this. Mvp in we didn't vet a number of different bought platforms in low code. Frameworks and i will say you know. I think there's a lot of promise in low-powered And also they're not everything and they're not perfect and so we did have to have some custom development done to to get our product to where we wanted to be. I do think that you can use low code and no code tools to really get a first ration- out there but you also don't want to rely too heavily on to may third party applications. If you're building out your core product which is interesting actually was just reading this past weekend. Jeff lawson snoop justice the founder and ceo. Twi- leo and he kind of talks about that theory Of deciding what are you going to build versus. What are you gonna buy. And we chose to build the core functionality of our product and sort of by the integrations and is the way that it functions outside of the core defensible. Part of our start at so. That's kind of how we approach that. That's a fantastic approach. And it gives you the opportunity to focus on building. What is core to your offering and it also makes sense that it's really hard for engineers of being an engineer myself. It's really difficult sometimes to let go of your baby that you made right but it's so important in when engineers can realize that it's it's a it's a critical skill from a professional standpoint. Okay so you got your mvp created you got it out to a pilot group getting some traction. How did you progress the product from their mature it. And i'm interested in how you build your roadmap and figured out okay. This is the next most important thing to build this kind of ties into the vision where we wanna see ourselves and we started to think about you. Know let's say after. August of twenty twenty started saying okay. What's the next most important problem that we're going to need to solve for our customers and we. We decided you know. We're going to be more than on boarding. We actually don't think about on boarding and the product that we have today as a standalone product. We think about it as actually foundational data model for the team. That's using the product. They're going to be other components another feature that layer on top of the on boarding experience. Inside of eddie and so we think of on boarding this integral component of understanding how a team is sharing information and using that information to become more and more high-performing within that lends. That really allowed us to think about what are the the next painful problems that our customers experience and so what we did know from launching that beta. If you will to that pilot group was some of our initial low code ways of solving problems. Just weren't cutting it. So as an example we can this process in the on boarding plan development we call ingest internally and that's actually how we get information from an engineering manager to have eddie build the on boarding plan automatically and so they actually have to complete in that. Mvp we had them complete. Basically seventy question survey monkey survey and most of it was multiple choice true false and it was designed to have you just drop in links to confluence or read me or get him repo and so it was taking way longer for people to actually fill that out than we had anticipated. We hoped and we actually had some interesting kind of customer behavior and it was a very friction filled experience and so we realize with that customer feedback that this was the first thing that needed to change and so we adopted that into eventually not a survey model and into a web. Ui and previously. We didn't have any way why we are actually kind of head less than.

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Wet Notes - 7-4-21

Scuba Shack Radio

08:12 min | 1 year ago

Wet Notes - 7-4-21

"This is wet notes here on scuba shock radio for sunday july fourth two thousand and twenty one first up today i wanna talk about re fest two thousand and twenty one this october. The reef environmental educational foundation will again be holding refenced from thursday october fourteenth to sunday october. Seventeenth in key largo. That's four days of some great activity. The festivities kickoff on thursday. And one o'clock. You can then get a couple of days of diving in on friday and saturday morning with a two tank dive from either key divers amaury dive resort or essence. Those charters run about ninety dollars and they go out at eight am. If you wanna do a kayak tour you could also do that. For sixty dollars with florida bay outfitters. There are seven afternoon workshops and seminars and activities at john pennekamp park the coral reef restoration foundation. The history of diving museum and the florida keys. Wild bird sanctuary. Wow this sounds like a great event. Unfortunately i won't be able to make it down due to a family obligation but this sounds really good. Be sure to check out repressed. That's reef fest. Two thousand twenty one on their website. Well who watches the tv. Show curse of oak island. I think matt has watched every episode. And i think they're still searching for treasure but i came across an interesting article about one of the guys on the show. I guess tony sampson had a strange situation happen about a year ago tony's frequently on the show and he runs a tour company called salty door. Salty dog tours. Well he was taking some tourists out when one of his guests hat blew off so quickly turned the boat around to fetch the hat. And that's when he spotted something else a voter in the water. Apparently the boater was on his maiden voyage with this new boat when it capsized and he couldn't get to his life jacket because it was tied to the boats seat ono so tony fortunately rescued the voter in what is called the oak island triangle triangle. I guess the boat subsequently washed up on oak island now at least those guys found something there about a year ago. Olympus announced that they were getting out of the digital imaging business and that they would not be making cameras any longer and that would have been a shame if these Tech this technology went by the wayside. I really liked my Olympus t g six. well don't worry. A new company named 'em digital solutions is producing the old olympics. Cameras binoculars audio gear. They took over in january. Two thousand twenty one. Their website is get olympus dot com. Now if you want to know more about the company checkout oem dash digital solutions dot com. This company is based out of tokyo. And it's led by sha guinea saga motto all digital solutions employees about two thousand people with evaluation of twenty seven billion yen or about three hundred and thirty three million. Us dollars the oem comes from the nineteen seventies oem solutions that they put in place to make cameras smaller more rugged and quieter. This is great news especially for us olympus fans. Here's some sobering news out of florida. The manatees are under stress as of june fourth. This year. Seven hundred and eighty two manatees have died in two thousand twenty one alone and that's a one hundred and fifty one percent increase from the three hundred and thirty one that died during the same period last year to put this in perspective. The record number of deaths for manatees in a year is eight hundred. Twenty one or eight hundred and twenty four and that was in two thousand eighteen. This increase is so dramatic that representative vern buchanan from florida wrote a letter to the us fish and wildlife services to change their status from threatened to endanger and that's the highest level of protection here in the us. The florida manatee used to be on the endangered list until two thousand and seventeen when their numbers rose. Above six thousand six hundred they now estimate a census of about seventy five hundred but as we can see that number is going in the wrong direction. Now what's the cause food availability. The seagrass is being killed off by oversaturation of nutrients and the manatees simply. Starve to death. Not sure how a change in status will solve the sad scenario but we need to start someplace. Well it's summer. And i know that a lot of people like to catch up on summer reading while they're on vacation we'll scuba diving. Magazine just published a list of books that you might consider in their armchair adventure section. A couple of book stood out. One of them was in oceans deep courage innovation and adventure beneath the waves. And that's written by bill steve. And it's a history of our underwater presence. He covers submarines saturation diving and recreational gear. Bill also goes into the impacts of aro vs versus in-person exploration. You can pick up this book in ocean deep for about fifteen dollars in paperback. Now the second book is exploration deep ocean the first descent to the bottom of all five of the world's oceans and it's written by josh young. The book covers the exploits of victor scovill and his team on their history-making mission. You can find this book in hardcover for a little over twenty one dollars time to kick back with some good summer reading and finally here on wet note if you're a collector of vintage gear or want to start mark your calendar for the vintage scandal auction on july seventeenth. The auction is run by the nation's attic and you can register at live. Auctioneers dot com now. The auction starts at ten. Am central standard time. You can go to the site now and take a peek at all the cool stuff you can also register embiid early. The first part of the auction folks who focuses on vintage scuba gear from the nineteen forties to the nineteen seventies things like regulators knives mask cetera. Then it switches to maritime artifacts and closes out with the really expensive stuff. Those classic military commercial hardhats. I missed the last one. Because i was out diving. But we'll definitely try to tune into this next one get set up early and register. It moves pretty quickly when when the auction goes off. And don't miss out on that special piece of scuba history. Well that's it for wet notes. For sunday fourth two thousand and

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"j buchanan" Discussed on MyTalk 107.1

MyTalk 107.1

02:34 min | 2 years ago

"j buchanan" Discussed on MyTalk 107.1

"I like it. Yeah. Where's the other one? We must do that. Like so much. The one with little big town. Yeah, well, you'd listen today. Yeah, because all the songs you're out, I guess Miranda Lambert does jive talking. And that is the on Lee song so far that I've seen that people are not that crazy about. Let's hear it. Average e never like this soon. I hate this. You with all your job. You wonder why you don't like it? It's a terrible start time. Yeah, we hated this son. Hated. It was bad. I hated the second plate. It's so dead. That seems to be the one song that the critics aren't really crazy about. Organization seems really kind of Quatro, but I don't know, but it's such a horrible song, horrible saying it's the worst song the BG's ever wrote like that Africa that we hated that someone redid. I mean, like songs. We just hate Yeah, I mind that one called starts to kung fu fighting. That was another one that got on my nerves. Yeah. Disco duck. It was. Yeah, it was a bad side cap played on the radio a lot. It was terrible. And we like his room. Chuckle, chuckle room check, check check and step this feeling everyone that really learned that song because it was in the guardians of the galaxy. That's a good song. No, that would be a Friday Sing along, son. Yes, I don't know. Yeah, we and we have Done that before. And the Guardian. I think it was the guardian and their review of this green fields. The Get brothers. You know this duet thing that they're doing. They said that Um Ah. Lot of people have covered B g song so and a lot of B g songs that people think that there's somebody else's were written by the BG's islands in the stream. We learned that one, but they said that there's 1967 song. To love somebody because such a great love that song it's this'd it's only song, probably in history to have been covered by Nina Simone. Tom Jones, Joe Strummer of the Clash Gram Parsons and Lee Scratch Perry. You know just every musical genre because you've got blues That's just a great song to love somebody. It's such a such a beautiful song. Yeah, So who does he sing that with all the little big town? Toe love somebody already. J. Buchanan, Who's J. Buchanan? Let's listen to that one because that's a great.

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