3 Burst results for "Helen Thorne"
The Emma Guns Show
"helen thorne" Discussed on The Emma Guns Show
"It got a great thanks to the gift. So we can assess what people are saying. Is there a troop than that? Is there something I can learn? Maybe there is maybe there's not. But it's just their opinion. So people, 90% of the time, they're not giving you fact, they're giving you their opinion. And their opinion is true only in their mind. It's only true in their word. In the modern world, we've never mistake fact an opinion so much. On fighting on opinions, so everybody's entitled opinion. So if somebody has an opinion about me or I'll hear it, I'll ask is there truth? And could I learn from this? Wouldn't make me better. Would it make me happier? And if it is, then I'll absolutely take it on board. But if it's not, then that's just their opinion. And I don't need the whole world to agree with who I am or what I do. It doesn't matter. The thing is when I look in the mirror, do I agree with myself? And my proud of myself, we have to get to a place of non comparison. And there's a lovely thing I talk about if we're trying to be the people pleaser all the time. If we're trying to not upset people, then at a deeper level, we're actually trying to manipulate people to life us. It's actually selfish thing. You're manipulating people. You're not being your true self. In some ways you're being on genuine, so they like you. You've manipulated that person. The most caring, loving thing you can do is show someone your true self and allow them to decide whether they want you in their life or not. That is free from manipulation. And any relationship that begins with manipulation, it can't ever be what is meant to be. So whether you meet your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your wife, your husband, one of the first things the scariest things about building a loving relationship is allowing the person to see who you are exactly as you are. Because then there's no manipulation. And you get to decide from their heart, whether they want you in their life or not. But you can control that. We can't control what other people think. We can't control other people's opinion. And if you go to your life, where you value social acceptance over self expression, then you're going to live a life worrying about other people think suppressing your soul, denying your identity and prohibiting yourself and becoming the person that you could have been. And I think it's so important that we just give ourselves permission in this one beautiful life that you get. You have a soul you have a spirit. There are dreams in your heart. You know deep down who you could be. If you worried less, what people thought. If you worried less about how it would end up and you ask yourself, won't simple question. What would love do? If I truly loved myself, what would I do? Then just go do that. I am a card carrying people, pleaser, and I have a great history of having other people's needs before my own. And it was actually Helen Thorne who came on this podcast earlier this year. He said, in 2021, who said, people pleasing when you think about it is actually lying. It is. And that was my lightbulb moment. I thought I was being kind. I thought I was being kind. I thought I was being helpful. I thought I was being a good friend. But actually, no, I wasn't. I was lying. I never thought of it as manipulation, but you're right. But generally, that's a really good real life example of where your ego didn't prevent you from hearing that. Because the ego cru said, no, she's wrong. You listen to an outside opinion, it probably wasn't what you wanted to hear at the time, but it led to and that's what I'm saying about other people's opinions. Sometimes your greatest gift in life is the person that challenges you most. And I've deliberately surrounded myself with people who, when I need a whole to give me a hug, but a time to say, Jerry, hold on a second here. You're just being a full mode. Or hold on a secondary, your ego is running away, or the situation I'm not checking that. That is you. That is not reflective of you. At times, can you just let me do it? And if I didn't care about you, so this wound group that I work with and we have the simple expression where if we need to say something, we start by saying, I love you enough to tell you this. And then you let the evil go, this person has thought about this. And they feel this really important. Now, once you hear it with love, are you not coming from a place of kindness and love here? Let it settle. And if it doesn't ring true, then let it go again. But that's a great example and my hard times, we think we're being a good person. We think that that by limiting ourselves by trapping ourselves by downplaying ourselves, we're actually helping other people. But we're not. And Marianne Williamson has that beautiful poem that says her greatest fear is not that we are inadequate or greatest fears that we are powerful beyond measure. And in the middle of all that she says, there is nothing enlightened about shrinking, so others won't feel insecure. You're playing small, does not serve the world. As you give yourself permission to let your light shine, you won't consciously give others permission to do the same. Playing small just makes other people place small around you. Well, it's interesting because another lightbulb moment I had earlier this year was when I was listening to Demi Moore's autobiography. And she said something that I was out on a walk in the Woods and when this part of the book came on, I just stopped in my tracks because it made me realize so much, which was basically we love people. We love others the way that we want to be loved. And talking about people pleasing, it was that on some level, basically I wanted that reciprocated. I wanted someone I was putting people up on a pedestal and there was a part of me that wanted to be loved unconditionally and treated really nicely. And so again,.
Scummy Mummies
"helen thorne" Discussed on Scummy Mummies
"And welcome to the scummy. Mommy's pocus it's may-helen thorne and it's me ellie gibson. Excellent and today. I am absolutely thrilled because for the first time. Ever we've got williams of the puck yet. Yes girl welcome. Welcome back williams to the podcast. But why don't you introduce yourself. Who are you. Vote williams. I folk what i'm irish. I live in london. I i don't know already show kate parts. Oh yeah oh god. The kids the kids. I have a lovely husband spencer. I have two gorgeous kids who are eight of my size at the moment because we've just traveled back together for six era so break you girls. Oh how once one is three in september the other one is one in july and both of them have taken up vomiting in the car. So i've had both car seats stairs on hose. Oh no helen's to revenue ellen. My my become until the she's twelve and there is a legendary plane flight to australia where she threw the whole started in the cab. We had to make an exit on the kings road to print m. o. J. to stricter of all new clothes and we put all her clothes in the been just vomiting until we got to tell him arena and in melbourne. And that was gross. That was really the most here. We're on a flight to trade. She my son threw up into dinner and then she saw the vomit and then she threw up on the sick. And then i had sick and my hair. It was. Just oh my god. It's sage vogue. But i'm just saying was trying to children not in a million years. There's not even a hope. In how spent he likes me. What would you prefer. Would you prefer poo or honesty. I honestly do vomit. Smells so bad and lingers i feel like you can get rid of this of quicker vomit stench. It's like milk. did you worry for a minute. Have been talking about sex thing just on the east as as a nation and if you are knife wherever turns you on john. Well we're applying start ladies. We're after flying ring. Credibly classy now. I'd just like to thank the sponsor for this people at nick junior. La didn't you know that that blues out at this is this is amazing information. It's app now on at four thirty on nick junior and it's a fabulous show for kids. It's a great sponsored the podcast and we've been involved in this amazing summer campaign about the thirty.
Scummy Mummies
Didi Conn discusses how she got the role of Frenchy in Grease
"The filming to how did you get the pot of frenchie did you do you like addition for other roles did you know you going to be frenchie i didn't know i got a call from my agent to go to paramount to pick up my script and the audition would be the next day and that i was to come looking like the role and i didn't know very much about it so i went to para my had you did you come knockin onion chris bury with the very small dogo great i know so i go there and at paramount is what that time it was a little bit difference they still have a gate and they still have a guard in a booth so you go in and you drive up and you say your name and they had you script while he handed me a number of both skinny little flow so i opened it and it only had one page any think what's the men are rat speech you know i know what this come you know you you can't just say a line at grenada remember it still men a rats can you remember bieber on rice and that the fleas on rats worse than that they're a believe is awfully rat rats the only man you can trust is a daddy i say give you the paul well a but i you know you gotta know the context so i happened to notice on this guards little desk that he has fat evola pts to and i asked him do you know if any of these have the whole script and sure enough you opened one he said cisco go pull your car over there and i came in and went under his desk and read the script and it was good because i found out a lot of she was aspiring beautician and you know also found out the result was a big apart but but no no they janos lags hickey upset by no i was i was married it was a girl my motto is if you're gonna be bad but it'd be good these shirts mommy this is ten life lessons as the scummy scummy mummy mummy anyway i and randal kleiser told me that as soon as i open my mouth ahead the roll but they didn't tell me that then i just i'm fact i never even read the lines i think i just talked to them and then came back for dancing audition and then they got several groups of of of pink ladies and tbirds together and just kept narrowing it down until it was the group you see can you remember the first moment you